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| 18 | Who benefits from gender roles? | discussion | AcidSpittingIlamaa | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/01/24 05:41 AM |
| 13 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standards | Debate | AcidSpittingIlamaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:12 PM |
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| 1 | No You’re NotHow not? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/12/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | "Get a vasectomy or else you hate women"I'm trying to look this streamer up and I can't find him. What's his name? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/12/25 12:00 PM |
| 1 | I think "toxic masculinity" may lack construct validity. I don't think the term measures what people say it means.I agree the term "toxic masculinity" is horrible, and I also agree it is miused horribly. But the actual meaning of the word is something I think would align with the values of LeftWingMaleAdvocates. A term like internalised misandry would be 1000% better. It's when men do things stereotypically or traditionally masculine because they feel they have no other choice. Or even when other men or women put the pressure on us. Specifically in those moments where anger is seen as the better option in s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | No, most boys don't support Andrew TateI'll just based it on what I see in my feed on social media. It seems like the majority of feminists or feminist-aligned folk were saying most men supported him. I think in today's rhetoric, most feminists just say, 'men' and don't distinguish, and then when pointed out, the response is, it shouldn't be problem if it doesn't apply to you. Whatever your stance is on that, when the rhetoric is constantly messaged as 'men' are doing 'x', these misinterpretations will happen where we believe most fe… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/04/25 05:56 AM |
| 2 | The reason why feminism is right-wing is not because feminists say mean things about men, it's because they don't believe in this one fundamental principle of the leftthough they're often hard-pressed to clearly define patriarchy in a way that doesn't lead to a circular definition. Can you elaborate on how patriarchy leads to a circular definition? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/09/24 11:34 AM |
| 12 | Male SA survivor not agreeing with woman = trollWhat sub was this? I get taken aback when I see this on subs not related feminism. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/08/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | This is how false accusations happen (Paranoid narcissist). I feel so bad for the husband too.Where does it say scream? I didnt see that. From my perspective she's most likely very emotional after being groped. I don't think judging people like this is good | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | In Response to a Guy Saying He Thinks Women Look Better Without MakeupYou aren't engaging with anything I said and it's just rude atp. You want to simplify something nuanced for the sake of the guy being 100% right with no room for improvement in the way he articulated his point. In the bigger picture, you are choosing to not understand both parties and why they feel the way they feel. Just playing into the gender tribalism we have today and why women can be misandristic today. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | In Response to a Guy Saying He Thinks Women Look Better Without MakeupYou arent engaging with my point. I don't know why you are firm on this when having a better understanding of how both parties feel and react is always useful. Edit: Also wanted to add that it is important to tell women that they are fine with altering their appearance. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | In Response to a Guy Saying He Thinks Women Look Better Without MakeupTone-deaf as in it ignores the tough relationship women have with their looks. There's is just a lot of criticism, pressure and self consciousness when it comes to beauty. Also, the line "I like girls with no makeup" or something like that is literally common phrase I've seen women get annoyed with. Its a whole thing on social media. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | This is how false accusations happen (Paranoid narcissist). I feel so bad for the husband too.I wouldn't call her narc or anything. Maybe she's just very emotional because of what happened and is acting a bit irrational. If it continued, it would a be problem | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | In Response to a Guy Saying He Thinks Women Look Better Without MakeupI think his intentions were valid, he's just stating his preference. But the actual phrase and wording I believe is typically used in the context of guys being tone deaf about women's relationship with makeup. Its like girls saying "I like guys with X beauty standard", not realising its something guys could be self-conscious about. Its just comes across tone deaf. I want reiterate, his point is valid, stating a preferene is completely fine but I think the wording is literally a pop culture refer… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | In Response to a Guy Saying He Thinks Women Look Better Without MakeupI agree with this | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/08/24 09:37 PM |
| 7 | AITA Being AITAI would like to see that difference | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/06/24 11:53 PM |
| 10 | So I should kill myself for supporting men?Honestly, these type of feminists scare me with how purely hateful they are to others. Aswell as not being able to realise how hateful they are. You are not in any means a bad person for supporting men's issues. You shouldn't be asking yourself this question. You should also know that more radfems like this might pop up. Best to not antagonise them, just call out digusting behaviour and block. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/06/24 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Men are hardwired to be pedos and are responsible for the actions of female paedophiles apparently….How does an echo chamber get this bad? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/06/24 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Poison skittle analogy still reigns supremeThis is the answer I always get to. You are always gonna have to be cautious around strangers because of that uncertainty. A lot of people equate being cautious to every single guy is out to get me. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/05/24 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Comparing men to bears again and mocking the (factual) “not all men” phraseHumans don't interact with bears as much do men and women do so implying their safer with data is In the deep dark woods, so its dark so likely no idea of who's territory you're in nor how to get out. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/04/24 07:42 AM |
| 3 | What is wrong with the term "toxic masculinity"?It should only be used when you know the man in question was doing so and so because they felt the need to defend their masculinity. Do irrational or irresponsible things to maintain their masculinity. Most people won't ever know that cause most men won't admit that. And I agree, sometimes, its clear or becomes clearer why someone makes their choices without them saying. But the word has been overused for anything a guy does, to point out an insecurity that doesn't exist so its negative to most … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/24 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitBut women do that too. Their behaviour relates to men and their choosing patterns. What benefit is it if you make it look like men are the only ones who do this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:04 AM |
| 7 | As LWMA's, how do we respond to posts like this one?I can sympathise that is the lifestyle some women have to operate from, it sounds limting and frustrating. However I won't take responsibilty for men who act like this as I don't act like this. I think its best to address those men or learn to how to identify those men as a group. Addressing men as whole is too broad and will involve men who don't behave like this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/24 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Still wont tell you if the guy who does that is doin it out of generousity and seriousness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Its not indicative of generousity or being serious if its a social norm and standard he feels the need to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:54 AM |
| -3 | Dehumanising comparisons about men again and comparing them to poisonous foodThis is also true but I wouldn't be offended by the first statement, if I get the vibe they only mean men and not women, then I would call them out and say people. But even then, I cannot control if someone wants to be wary/safe around women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/03/24 02:48 AM |
| -3 | Dehumanising comparisons about men again and comparing them to poisonous foodThe best retort I've found is to agree that you need to be wary/safe of all men but that doesn't conflate with the idea all men are out to attack you. Think about it. You will always need to be safe, not because all men are out to get you but because you don't know who is a nugget of shit vs a malteser. That's the leap in logic in this case, if I have to be safe/wary of all men then, I get say all men are out to get me, demonise them, generalise them and so on. No, you stay safe because of you d… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/03/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.yes. when it comes to money, status, agency, etc. These are all things men (not entirely, but its common enough) get anxious because women (again not entirely buts its..) talk about them as rewards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.But objectification isn't a concept only applicable to the opposite gender or dating. Doing it only to the opposite gender would be prejudice therefore misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberalthe soft-power of women as well as to women's expressions of psychopathology Do you have a post about this? Or anywhere on the Internet, I could learn about women's soft power and expressions of psychopathology? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Who benefits from gender roles?I don't think beauty standards are just the extent of sexuality. They've definitely been emphasised way more than it has to be. I believe most people can date other average looking people, which is true, so we all do it. And if we are capable of that, then we are capable of glorifying them, the way we do celebs, and their beauty. I do think rape culture exists, the lack of communication around sexuality proves this. Most people don't feel comfortable talking about themselves in that vulnerable w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | You finally get it. This is my comment. My name was covered. 🤣🤣But it isn't | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/01/24 11:27 PM |
| 12 | Most Posts Here are Not Misandry and I'm Confused?Two people have been spamming like crazy and it's not even misandry. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/01/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Who benefits from gender roles?Atp in society, It's more social treatment and norms that plays a part in their disadvantages. beauty standards are unfortunate and I want clarify men experience this as well. I would say rape culture disadvantages them as well and again men also. Legally, abortion I think is the main disadvantage but that opens a debate whether you think its correct or not so it's subjective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Who benefits from gender roles?I'm interested in learning more about the prisoner's dilemma but in regards to who benefits from gender roles the most I think we both have it roughly the same. I think a big issue is both genders not willing to understand the other side's struggle. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about normalized 'androphobia'That shows me that the way to gain women's support and end the misabdric social zeitgeist is not to give them even more support, but the opposite. Take every bit of allyship away from them and only return it when they agree to a code of better treatment. The moment they stray, remove support again. This is exactly the intention and logic Feminists have and use to gain men's support. But it doesn't work, it turns into what you said: Women's groups have spent an inordinate amount of time parasitiz… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Am I the only one that gets triggered by "toxic masculinity"?Learning the proper meaning maybe can disassociate your experience from the loaded meaning it's developed. The proper meaning is for men who make irrational decisions motivated by trying to appear or seem masculine. These men aren't masculine or seen as in certain areas so they try to pretend they are in those areas. It can be a problem since those men often don't know what masculinity should look like in those areas. So they're choices to appear masculine looks like overcompensating and playing… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who thinks people are overreacting on the Barbie movie ? Or is it actually that bad ?I haven't seen it, I'm not sure if I will just from what I've read about the plot lines and messages. It's a challenge to see a movie depict a reality/make a point where only women face sexism or a sexism that must be worse that men's. Why can't we have movies that depicts the difficulties both men and women face having to live up standards that we struggle with? Another thing, if a movie where to ever happen like this, can we not depict all men's problems to come from other men. Feminism has a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | The straw that breaks the camel's backSurely there have been folk with that kind of influence to orchestrate events to guide the public's opinion or give awareness to it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The future of LWMA (with poll)"few" how many more can you name? 5 would be helpful. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Instead of closing the sub...I might follow this group to another website but that's because of this is my primary source of information where there is several acknowledge of the different forms of misandry and male issues. I understand the goal may be to get as many to follow off reddit but it would a good idea if other places were recommended on other popular sites. It would make migration easy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Expecting women have a low body count is hypocriticalThe subject that always come out is how women find it easier to engage in sex while men have to work for it. If high body counts are generally negative for women. How does a bad thing become good based on how you've achieved it. Body count that does horrible things to women is positive for men because you achieved it on a different metric. I'm not really sure on changing if a concept is bad or good based on how you get there. Seems like holes could maybe form in that logic. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/23 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Modern “Slimy misandry” is a fundamentally different beast to previous bigotryToxic masculinity does have a set meaning tho. It's the outcome of men trying to attain an ideal male standard but because they don't fit it naturally, they overcompensate what they think are masculine traits to fit the standards which often leads to disaster. Due to them not knowing what masculinity actually is. I do agree, it's commonly used to shame and scruntise men for everything they do these days. To say someone has toxic masculinity, you need to the reasons why they have their behaviours… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Men And Women Are Both Sexist To Each OtherI got into a 3v1 heated debate with some peeps. I lacked in proper evidence. How would I verify it for backup of my claim? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/02/23 04:26 PM |
| 5 | When Did You Become Aware?Just late 2022, I found this sub. I always had an inkling about male issues as I felt the male pressure from peers and family. I had a lot of conversations with my sister who was/is a feminist about this and she opened my eyes to feminist stances on male issues. I realised where I agreed and disagreed on the issues but never sought out spaces that could provide the same thoughts. After awhile of having Reddit this past year, checked about for any male spaces and this one seems to be on the same … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/02/23 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Men And Women Are Both Sexist To Each OtherMight be a controversial one, but I believe misandry and misogyny have always and still are both systematic in equally harmful ways. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/01/23 02:04 AM |
| -2 | Hey guys i am redpilled but wannna hear about other halfI wrote this on a another post but it applies here. Men and women have their own strengths and weaknesses already puts a lot of men and women into positions they do want to be in. I'm sure there tons of men and women who fit the traditional standards of masculinity and femininity without having to try. However, the reason why there is so much push for men and women to have choice to step out of those roles is because many men and women can't live up to those traditional standards. Most of these … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Why I still lean towards red pill content[19M]Men and women have their own strengths and weaknesses already puts a lot of men and women into positions they do want to be in. I'm sure there tons of men and women who fit the traditional standards of masculinity and femininity without having to try. However, the reason why there is so much push for men and women to have choice to step out of those roles is because many men and women can't live up to those traditional standards. Most of these standards determine your worth in society and when m… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 01:49 PM |
| 0 | shaming and bullying people for watching the red pill isn't going to help them get away from it (ex : watching andrew tate, hamza, sneako, and etc)Is this specific to left and politically correct ideals? I think these are just general life advices which doesn't make it not a solution. However, there's nothing really here that is in with conflict redpill advice. You could probably find redpillers agreeing with this content and promoting it. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 05:40 PM |
| 0 | shaming and bullying people for watching the red pill isn't going to help them get away from it (ex : watching andrew tate, hamza, sneako, and etc)You act as if there aren't thousands of licensed therapists, leftists, and nonconformists on social media giving their take, opinions, and real world solutions to men and young boys complaining about loneliness, lack of purpose, and lack of financial security Can you recommend any of the men and women who are providing solutions? Emphasis on recommend not just name them, people that you think are giving effective advice. It's just ironic that you said there are thousands of these creators out th… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend of 3 months consumes Red Pill ContentBased of the comment section and how I think you feel. You've got to challenge his ideas and probably engage with rp to do that. Tell him, the divorces are usually for good reason and rp doesn't say that side. Tell him, his exes were wrong for using his money but that doesn't reflect every girl now. Tell him, that you chose to be with him, so other guys sizes shouldn't matter now. Tell him to engage with Destiny, he's argued and interacted with redpillers before. A lot of what you said in the po… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standards? This is my description with a few changes I think. Kinda confused??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI am not saying I want to make a woman more anxious. Do not assume my motives, my personality, or my behaviours. That's grossly unfair, and is arguing in bad faith. Please have a rational discussion here. Wasn't about your character or anything. Just in general cause I believe you were speaking in general (what I quoted of you). And I don't want to argue in bad faith. I don't think the 2 options are avoidant uncaring manipulators or simps who are desperate to be cared and for affection. If someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsOh I agree completely. The only thing I would add is we need more clarity on the actual impact of women's liberation. I don't think there are more promiscuous women today than before. I think there's more support and glorified support for the existing number or ballpark of promiscuous women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standards....Ik it happens a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsMen who do not wish to provide support just know that withholding support and setting strong financial boundaries is attractive because it triggers her anxiety around her security and wellbeing, making her latch on harder. That is literally one of reasons why feminism is around. Go engage with it and look how many women hate depending on their partner's for finances. In same breath some redpillers will say this and then also say it's a man job to provide security and make his woman feel secure a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?Who's traveling that far for a one night stand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standards100% agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI agree 100%, but I'm also 100% sure there are guys who do not care about it in a malicious way. And the red pill seems to not care about this fact or encourage it. The way you describe it was more caring than the way I was. You're talking about being happy regardless of achievement. Whereas I'm talking about idgaf cause I don't understand why it's important to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsYou don't think the relatability of education or university plays a part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI think it's just important to at least show interest and engage with her career and achievements. That's a defining part of her life and for guy to say he doesn't care, well don't be surprised when she divorces or doesn't even begin a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI definitely agree with you, people date within their circle and the lifestyle they are accustomed to. And women will go for ideals if presented. But I do think it's just for casual sex usually. It happens, its just not as common as social media or red pill presents it. When it comes to LTR or marriage, most guys will go for someone of their class or education, not income tho. I just think, we need more insight on why it happens rather than old trad values which just come off narrow minded imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsDamn, this is why I can't date someone who isn't financially stable. That kind of dependency on me will eventually make me feel like bank instead of someone who wants to do something nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI didn't disagree, I'm just explaining why this happens and why many face problems with it. You get tons of guys complaining about how they have to buy things for their gfs. And now even guys trying to take a compensation through side chicks for being a provider or buying their gf tons of gifts. And if you engage with a bit of feminism. You'll learn tons of women don't wanna be in relationships where their livelihood is dependent on their bf's finances and his choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsI mean I've explained it in other comments Men usually feel uncomfortable dating upwards financially cause they'll compare themselves more and traditionally society will judge you for it. So they don't. Women don't date downwards as often because they aren't socially ready to be providers. I'm explaining why this happens and how it's a cycle. Lots of men and women in this cycle get upset and blame the other gender for their issues when it's a cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsThat can happen a lot but what I said happens as well. Co-existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsCare to expand on such a vague statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsUnless she is overly opinionated or does have inflated sense of worth, then most men should be open to it. I'm pretty sure most men are as most people come from 2 income households. And if you aren't open to it, you shouldnt expect when those kinds of women don't wanna be with you. And that's the majority of women seeing as most work today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsIf he is socially aware of it and confident in his own achievements, then it will be fine. Or they wouldn't break up over this reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsLike I said in a previous post, this is probably why women feel strongly about feminism. They want more attention on their status and academic achievements (to an extent). Guys need to more fulfilling in that area if you want a successful LTR. For the second part, this is why I say "to an extent". Feminism has enabled women to enjoy and feel prideful about their careers and achievements. However when it comes to using those achievements and success to provide. Women don't want that kind of atten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsPartially a reason why feminism is so strong in women today. Most women realised they want more attention to their academic qualifications (to an extent) when it comes to LTR. Also, I've seen many in manosphere say because women don't wanna date down, they don't date up. That statement implies some men will date up given a women would like and enjoy to date down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprising100% the femininists are. Both messages overvictimise one gender and blame the other gender for the state of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Misogynistic men get laid morePlease find help, how do you guys have these mindsets? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Losing my friends to TRP and ATI don't think you should've blocked him but just distanced yourself. I don't think your method of trying to help him was best and I don't expect that from most people. Hence, just distance yourself, nothing drastic. Was the whole entire friendship all overtaken by AT? You just knew whenever you guys were around, AT was gonna be the topic? I just think he might sink more into redpill content which is out of your control but at same time it do you want try to prevent that? Idk, just my takeaway. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Former red pills can I know what damage is caused by red pill?Would you mind linking the article? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenOkay, if we gonna bring up qualities based on looks, both parties are having high standards with that. Men struggle with height standards, women have pressure with beauty standards, how many guys today want polygamy to their benefit? I think it's a growing minority. Telling your partner that there are no sexually enough or they'll never be enough for you to sexually commit is beauty/looks standards. The women is also in no control of this standard, she can't do or say anything for him sexually c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenExpecting someone to quit their job for a relationship is high. That's now their livelihood now all dependent on you. If one is angry, annoyed, tired, forgetful, that can decide whether the other one gets to fulfill your hobbies and other wants. Being submissive at all times? The idea that a man is going to be right and correct at all times in a relationship isn't realistic. You are going to need assistance at times and sometimes guidance. If said girl is submissive, tons of problems that could'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenI agree to an extent but it's the same on the other side, how many men want women without careers? Submissive whenever? Lots of men act like these are easy accomplishments for a women when they are quite high. Regardless, I agree lots of women ask of this. In the end, lots of men settle for women who are career-driven and lots of women settle for men average on paper. Most people are actually fine with these terms cause they aren't so bad in practice. You also got to consider some relationships … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:02 PM |
| -2 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenThe way men and women for traditional dating or for modern dating define good guys is different. Probably answers a lot. Lots of really left modern dating values say guys have outlandish standards. It's the opposite for trad dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | If you’re a man in your mid 20s and beyond and you haven’t even kissed a woman, been on a single date, or even seen a naked woman in real life, let alone had sex (all involuntarily, of course), you’re a huge fucking loser.People aren't showering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | The double standard explained.I mean you can support a lifestyle without wanting to be apart of that lifestyle. I didn't make any comment on men being praised for doing something difficult other stating that fact men get praised for doing something difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | The double standard explained.Nope, its quite easy to see most women and most of feminism supports women being promiscuous. That doesn't translate supporting ≠ being a slut. Despite feminism and women friendship circles doing this, what I said above happens. Go back and forth between changing contexts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:36 PM |
| 0 | The incels vs Inceltears meetup is the funniest thing.Ironic cause the guys are actually right and girls are left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 09:28 AM |
| 0 | The double standard explained.Not worth it for many women, a lot of those woman aren't talked on social media. Since redpill is being pushed into the mainstream rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 5 | The double standard explained.The word slut is usually used in a degrading nature. Societal shame and devaluation is a feature of being called a slut. You can understand why most women want avoid societal shame and devaluation. No friends, no respect, constant slander, etc. Tons of women have tried to create a positive connotation and context to the word but it's goes in and out of positive and negative connotations, showing most women can't fully enjoy or embrace the word. For example, if your friends call you a slut in pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:28 AM |
| 17 | The double standard explained.That's just a lie and I don't know how to convince you otherwise. It's just a basic social norm for women to mocked and ridiculed for being with lots of men. Both men and women shame slutty behaviour. In social circles and social spaces, this rule applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:10 AM |
| 0 | If you’re a man in your mid 20s and beyond and you haven’t even kissed a woman, been on a single date, or even seen a naked woman in real life, let alone had sex (all involuntarily, of course), you’re a huge fucking loser.There's truth in what you're saying. You can be groomed and be rejected. I didn't say being groomed was going to solve all your dating problems and you were gonna get heaps of attention afterwards. But if you actually want to get dates, you can see all the guys who do get those, groom themselves, it's a standard, not a saving grace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:06 AM |
| 0 | If you’re a man in your mid 20s and beyond and you haven’t even kissed a woman, been on a single date, or even seen a naked woman in real life, let alone had sex (all involuntarily, of course), you’re a huge fucking loser.Big ed wasn't that bad...didn't know how to groom himself by the viral mayonnaise hair thing. And he was on the heavier side which isn't helpful either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are women like this?Based on your first comment. I can't argue with that. But secondly, it seems like you grew up around a horrible woman and encountered more bad women. You've affirmed your beliefs about women because you have a lack of positive xps with women. I can understand why you wouldn't wanna be around more women. But it's just a sad life to negate half the population cause of your background and understandings. Like no woman can offer you any value to your life anymore. At one point it's because they coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:00 AM |
| 16 | The double standard explained.To be slut is easy but you get shamed and ridiculed for it. To be a stud is hard but you praised and glorified for it. Men or redpill men are mad at women cause they don't have to work hard for sex cause that's an issue most men face. But you aren't looking at the entire context as like I said, most women get mocked and ridiculed for being hoes, doesn't matter how many guys are in your DMS, if you gonna be mocked for getting with all. This is why these kinds of women are picky, tons of options, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?Leaving to other countries to find a trophy wife isn't gonna do any benefit, if they're only with you for materialism and what you can do for them. There has to be some compassion there for them otherwise, you don't get women who trust you or respect you. They can respect out of fear which isn't much either. If you see a women being raped, try and stop it cause she'll thank you for saving her life. Why don't you wanna save someone's life? I would save someone's life if they were a man or woman. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:37 AM |
| -2 | If you’re a man in your mid 20s and beyond and you haven’t even kissed a woman, been on a single date, or even seen a naked woman in real life, let alone had sex (all involuntarily, of course), you’re a huge fucking loser.Why don't you trying grooming yourself like most guys who date women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:24 AM |
| 0 | Why are women like this?Whatever you were expecting to find on this sub, you're gonna seek elsewhere and encounter the same problem. You don't have a solution to your problems otherwise you wouldn't have use this sub so much as a crutch to the point where you need to make a dramatic exit. You want a trophy wife when you haven't done anything to get or deserve one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Why are women like this?Stop blaming your problems on women. Why is redpill and feminism both hellbent on thinking their gender are victims who have to survive a harsh cruel world. You need to stop stereotyping men and women as cope for your personal issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The current state of the dating market is the natural result of what happens when both men and women have free choice. The only reason men had more options before was because of the patriarchyI didn't oppose that. Another good thing is having purpose and positivity and a happy relationship. And there is nothing wrong with wanting that. You're implying there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 07:23 PM |
| 3 | The current state of the dating market is the natural result of what happens when both men and women have free choice. The only reason men had more options before was because of the patriarchyWanting a relationship doesn't mean they are relying on it to be source of their happiness. They can have purpose and positivity in their lives and still no relationship. Its weird how you keep dismissing the want for relationship and substituting that relationship for other things as if they are interchangeable sources of happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Attractiveness doesn’t exist in a vacuum. So if most men are unattractive to most women then most men ARE below averageI don't think women look at average men and just have no attraction for them though, I think its more of a pressure and entitlement society has curated for women to have, therefore decent guys who are attractive get passed off unreasonably (not always unreasonably though). Most women aren't entitled to have the most ideal man. And that's fine because everyone has different ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsThe main issue with this is people are gonna abuse it and use it as a coping mechanism to temporarily heal their loneliness and sexless lives. Then after a few years of it, people are gonna whine how its too addictive and no one should use it because they only used it as a crutch. If its gonna be promoted, learn how to regulate your usage and relationship with it. Because this is casual sex but more accessible and porn but intimate. Except they carry on the negatives of casual sex and porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsA lot of people can't get another human being to choose them either way. At least the technology utopia provides them with some simulation of it rather than just having to raw dog the crushing loneliness. That's still loneliness, you can feel lonely around people and around the technology. Like the A.I tech sex is just another coping mechanism that people are gonna abuse and depend on. We should be stating the dark truths about it rather selling it as medicine with no side-affects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Men being f*ckboys is propagated by women, and ultimately beneficial for menSo you think guys who are fuckboys and have sexual experience are exempted from a woman who has (high) standards. When it comes to long term relationships that require commitment, trust, etc how does any of this help? A woman is still going to break up with you regardless of your fuckboy status if you can't provide other things to the relationship such as commitment, trust, emotional intelligence, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.Most women don't actually do it, only encourage the choice of other women doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.This is true and I think it can co-exist with my statement as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.Thats not true, the idea to sexually liberate women has been pushed for decades now but most men and women still shun other women for being promiscuous. The status quo for promiscuity hasn't changed, you either get women who don't have high body counts and if they do, they lie about it because of the shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 8 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.The major difference is society shuns women who are promiscuous, so it balances it out. Average girls get a lot attention but can't indulge in all of it because of standards and average guys don't get a lot of attention but want to indulge more because of standards. Most men and women aren't getting past these standards unless their attractive or rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are instances where unequal outcomes between genders is due to merit?I assume their income is based on the numbers they pull. Don't see why they would be overpaid and if they are being overpaid, is that probably apart of the 10m being loss? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?They don't have kids together. Surely not, I'm pretty sure the baby's father hasn't been revealed yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe there are instances where unequal outcomes between genders is due to merit?Why? Wouldn't that be based on the profits WNBA bring in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:29 PM |
| 19 | What do you love about being a man?Just being my own person and making sure I enjoy my life. I don't really know what sets me aparts from a woman loving herself as a woman. Just being an independent adult, good finances, friends, passions and actively working through any health or social issue I have going on is enough to love myself. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 01:54 PM |
| 14 | Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details.A relationship is a further variation of friendship. It includes friendship and more. More being the romantics of it. Without friendship, it seems like you're aiming for those co-parenting divorcee type of relationships. No friendship, just talking about and doing formalities on how to co-exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I am an aspiring youtuber that is making videos to combat red pill. I just uploaded a short video please check it out.Make a 3 or 4 videos then post them all at once, I think it tells YouTube that you're a steady content creator. Just keep posting as often as you can with quality information to explain the flaws of redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruelI agree with 2 and some of 4, didn't understand what 1 was and disagreed with the first statement of 3. " Women want sexual freedom but still want to be treated with chivalry as if they were virgin ladies from the 1800s." I want to explain to you why it often feels like "Women often seem to lure men by proposing a fair deal but later they play by privileged rules" Feminism often pushes that they're for equality, when in reality it clear its more about women's issues and working towards women's i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | My brother is a young misogynist.I think its important to add if you aren't close with your brother, it's going to make it easier for him to write off your soft criticism. Does he rely on you for things very important to him? Just any signs he values your relationship very much. A lot of repill men group the women in their lives with the general opinion they have of women. The worst thing imo, is he values Andrew Tate's opinion more than you. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 07:59 PM |
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