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As a man you are either born a Chad or bound to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:54 PM
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Congratulation, you just found out how the average man is treated. Your price will be more shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:14 AM
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You know that working on yourself and having anything interesting about you helps people to actually want to be with you, right? Because its a lie. Being interesting doesn't make you more attractive, being attractive makes you more interesting. You can be a DnD Champion, coach little league in the neighbourhood or volunteer in a soup kitchen, nothing will increase your chances if you are an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:04 AM
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Weakness is repulsive in men. Which contradicts the advice of not faking anything. For example if you are shy, that might be seen as a weakness. So as a man you are expected to work on it, even if this goes against your natural personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:52 AM
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And those things are most likely your face or your height. Sure, if you are overweight, don't complain about not being able to find someone because being fat is unattractive, regardless of gender. But for most guys its factors that are outside of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:48 AM
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is a circus and men are the clowns. Don't solely put the blame on men when women contributed just as much to it. Sure, simping and inflating the ego of average women, making them believe they are higher than they are is mens fault, no doubt about it. But women accelerated this by demanding more and more, clearly expressing that they want to date someone who is absolutely perfect in any way and treating any man who fails to meet those insane standards as trash. Its almost satirical how women dema…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:40 AM
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You will pay for mistakes of other guys That is a very, very good point. When dating older women, you are already on the defence, needing to prove that you are not the same as the last guy. I'm not their therapist, yet they expect me to protect them from their bad choices. Also dating older women is simply not fun. I've had dates with women of all ages and one trend I noticed was, that older women treat dates more like a job interview. Its less about getting to know me and more about checking if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:13 AM
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From my observations, the insta-model look is the standard nowadays so that makes it hard for people in to meet that standard. The great thing about being a woman is, that no matter how you look you will find a man who genuinely things you are attractive. This guy might not be toptier himself but a lookmatch. The funny thing is: Society thinks that men only want insta models while in reality they go for every type of women. On the other side, everybody believes that women care about personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:58 AM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:36 PM
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I honestly and deeply don't care about the career of my future partner. Somehow women don't seem to get that men are not attracted to money, at least not on this primal level as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:01 PM
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Women are never satisfied. You can be perfect and she still thinks she can do better. And the ones to blame are men. They inflated the ego of even the most mundane women to the size of Jupiter by given them undeserved attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:59 PM
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So you got nothling left?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:42 PM
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Cool then next step would be abolishing all the dangerous or non glamorous jobs men do where also no feminist seems interest in creating equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:55 PM
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Because women are the one screeching about male privilege yet go radio silence once it comes to areas where men are not privileged. Women demand to be equal when it comes to cream of the crop but count their blessings in silence when shit gets serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:45 PM
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then why are they simultaneously whining about how easy we have it and how privileged we are for not having to be drafted? Oh yeah I remember the great revolts in the 60s where women en masse demanded to be send to Vietnam. They should be raging at the men who made the rules, but instead they're pissy at women for being exempt like it's our fucking fault You demand equality only in the areas that are not hard work or are not dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:50 PM
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No big titted Goth GF with daddy issues? Unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:35 AM
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he's almost always creepy, unattractive, and way too old to be doing this shit. Ah there lies the real problem: The wrong men are doing it. If the 6'2 Chad would display this behaviour, everything would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:05 AM
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Not being fair for anyone makes it fair again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:45 AM
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The more important question ist: How did he manage to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:36 AM
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Men: "Spare women from the horrors of the frontlines" Women: "OppRESSion!!! PrIvIlEGe!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:34 AM
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It just so happens that would actually prefer something else but they sure do want these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:53 AM
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Honestly, the amount of women I met who said that they don't shower daily or go days without washing their hair is ridiculous. Its almost like they projecting when talking about bad hygiene in guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:41 AM
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Women want what other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:36 AM
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Preferring or liking something doesn't mean you don't want anything that doesn't fit that description. So you are settling because you can't get what you actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:33 AM
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Oh no they take away my baby killing privilege. I am so oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:31 AM
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https://onlyfans.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:27 AM
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George Orwell - 1984
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:26 AM
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If all of your preferences include things that are above average characteristics than, in fact, you don't want an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:56 PM
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Ah countering the accusation of shaming with more shaming. Because somehow that justifies the original shaming and gives it meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:52 PM
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I walk around all dudes with the attitude of being naturally respectful but also capably violent. You can hold onto this believe, its cour choice. But don't get mad when men call you out on your sexism. Dudes acting like people men/women/children etc should just drop their guard sound like cowards at best and wishful predators at most. And here comes the shaming because men sticking up for themselves must be predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:48 PM
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You think women not wanting to get raped is like racism? And some people just don't want to get robbed by black men. They simply don't feel safe around them, you never know if they don't burst into sudden violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:41 PM
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Bro, straight up keep talking because you are literally explaining male privilege and ignorance better than any woman could. Its absolutely fascinating how women turned their extreme prejudice into an argument and repeated this lie so often that even some men believe it. If any person had the same believes about a race/group of people like women hold towards men, they would get called racist. Yet when women do it, its totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:36 PM
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And when have you ever seen a dude and thought, that guy could rape me if he wanted to. Did I see guys that could beat me and rob me? Sure. All the time. Did it affect me? Nope WELCOME TO MALE PRIVILEGE, it’s nice here. We don’t even have to worry about that. Women do. Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes and yet we manage to live without being so paranoid. The chances of us being killed, robbed or beaten are much higher but here we are, living despite this risk. Women ignore that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:53 PM
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How would you know? Just like how would you know the dude in Max wasn’t just a getaway driver and would never hurt a fly? Do people just have a “violent tendencies” rating floating above their head? In a world where anyone can be a threat you better be aware of everyone, regardless. I don't and yet I leave the house every day, go to work, go to the gym, shopping and live a normal life. How do I manage to do such a brave and courageous thing? Because I'm not a paranoid moron. I swear you can smel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:29 PM
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Guy says he wants a relationship, literally Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:23 PM
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Because absolutely every men on the street is a violent beast, only held by a very thin leash that could snap at any given moment, definitely on the level of someone in a maximum security prison And women call men paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:18 PM
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I would honestly love a low maintenance relationship. Not putting in the grind that is expected of men? Not having the burden of performance on your shoulders every single day? Sounds like a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
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A man is still a man if he isn’t desirable to many. Not to women. NPC is a perfect description how women view men that are not hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:36 PM
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Go ask any short dude how his experiences with dating are, especially online. Ask them how they preceive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:31 PM
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You have an abundance of options. Like thousands of potential matches. If all of them are like this, it tells more about your choice of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:28 PM
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That is still the same weak argument as before, now presented as a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:07 AM
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Go on any platform or institution and ask for help. Then go and ask your male counterparts how they got treated in this situation. Go and complain that you got treated badly by anyone and then search for similar stories where the victim is male. Go on Tinder, make a male profile and compare it to a female profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:04 AM
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Thats a weak argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:01 AM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:53 AM
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You still got things handed to you, you just don't know it because you don't know the experiences a man, and for the sake of the argument lets be even more specific, a black man made. Men are way more likely to get violent with me. Men overall face more violance and are more likely to victim of a violent crime. Or at best, I’m invisible to certain men. The average men is invisible to 99% of women. Thats exactly what I mean: You are comparing a situation thats only 99% perfect against a situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:52 AM
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You dated two women with blue hair? Okay, maybe their personality that made them feel comfortable enough to dye their hair blue is what you actually liked. Would you dump her if she let her natural hair color grow out? Hardly comparable since height can't change. That is completely missing the point. Men here saying women lie about height is ridiculous. Nope, we are pretty honest about liking tall guys. But I’m also attracted to short guys. If I date 7 men under 5’8 but marry a guy that’s 5’11, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:44 AM
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Men, unless born rich or come to riches, never live life on easy mode. We are constatlly barraged with message of "Make more money", "Work out more", "Improve yourself". Women on the other hand get everything handed to them. If you are a woman and your life is shit, you got no one to blame but yourself. You got every cheat code enabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:38 AM
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I have nothing against women with red hair. It just so happens that my current gf has blue hair. And the one before too. The one before had blue hair with some green in it, see I'm totally not attracted to blue hair women only!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:33 AM
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If you are a woman in the western world you are living life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:27 AM
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"It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers−out of unorthodoxy."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:12 AM
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Everything that goes against my "Women are wonderful" worldview must be a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:09 AM
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YoU gUys nEEd tO hAVe BeTTer PicTurEs!!! Looks 1 second at the screen and doesn't even look at the other pictures. You don't need better pictures, you need a better face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:06 AM
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Once in a lifetime, water flowing underground
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:02 AM
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Humans/your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:52 PM
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They simply tell you that in the hierarchy of relationships, their partner takes the number one spot and you come behind it. If they have to choose between a friend and their SO, the SO always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:11 PM
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Thats the neverending cycle of getting good, then thinking you are still not good enough and have to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:09 PM
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I wouldn’t even say it’s 100% true that someone would go with their partner. Chicks before dicks, bros before hoes. People prioritize their partner over friends. They will ditch you to spend time with their SO or leave earlier if their partner called them. A relationship is a much stronger bond than a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:52 AM
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Friendship, community, charity an all give someone companionship. That only works if those people are also single. Given the choice between a friend and their partner, people will choose their partner. Friendships also take a dip hard when kids are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:25 AM
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The idea that I’m slaving away in some rat race is so misguided. Yet you are promoting the idea to everyone around you instead of just enjoying the fruits of your labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:07 AM
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Come crawling faster Obey your master Your life burns faster Obey your master
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:15 AM
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Financial freedom is dope. Being able to travel is amazing. Having money to invest in cool and fun hobbies like water skiiing, skydiving, or whatever it is you think you’d be into. The carrot thats dangling in front of your face so you work harder towards your grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:13 AM
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Or you can just refuse to let others dicate your way of life and step out of the ever faster spinning hamster wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:25 PM
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How about be the best version of yourself because it’s just the most satisfying way to live life? To make more money for big coperation so you can consume more things to numb the void inside you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:24 PM
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Can’t get a job? Stop blaming the job market. Can’t win a game in pickup soccer? Get better and carry harder. Can’t get women? Improve everything you can. I don't know why there is such a fetish for increasing the rat race for men. Jump higher, farther for something so mediocre that under normal circumstances nobody would get up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:06 PM
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Height: Don't care Income: Don't care, just enough to support themselves. Race (if you have a preference): Don't care Body type: Thin/fit like me House/no house: Don't care Kids/ no kids: No kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:10 PM
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I yet have to find this caricature of a woman and the masses of men who demand women to look like this. Sound more like a fucked up Barbie doll than a real human. Truth is, men prefer women who take care of themselves, maintain a healthy weight, maybe even work out to tone her body a bit. But that should be the absolute minimum if you want to attract someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:21 AM
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Confidence is a fleeting thing and not a steady trend upwards. Someone who is a star athlete in his 20s will have more confidence than someone who looks at a failed marriage and a failed business in his 30s. Confidence is something that is a easily build as it is destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:16 AM
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To all the Youngsters reading this: Don't listen to old people trying to explain you the world by telling you that you know nothing. Its the “Old man yells at cloud” meme all over. People in their 30s just realize that their youth slipped away, they are now stuck in a pathway leading straight to their grave and need to make themselves feel better by trying to convince everybody how awesome it is to be 30+ because of “wisdom” and “experience”. Truth is, they see their own story as the Opus Magnum…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:12 AM
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If she swiped left on me 5 years ago and now suddenly shows interest, thats a clear sign of settling. She “matured” up which is normally a code for “Her other options dried up now that she is older” and now she is forced to go after guys she thought beneath her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:01 AM
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Men who “aint shit” hit the wall way harder because the only women who would somewhat be willing to settle down with them are definitely not the ones you wanna date. Everybody will hit a wall at 30s. Men, women, no matter what. 30 is the start of the worst two decades of your life, the possibility of youth is gone and now you are stuck in a pathway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:03 AM
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If you have young kids, that might be a bad idea since those require a lot of attention and someone will be left alone with them when one partner goes to their own apartment. Also you are doubling the costs of living: two times rent and so on. Also cheating will be a lot easier. I would prefer having your own room in a house but I understand not everyone can afford that. So if this works out for you, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:38 AM
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But if you’re cooking and cleaning for yourself and for another person, then yeah you obviously are doing that work for the benefit of someone else. So you are doing it for yourself and someone else. Thats not serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:47 PM
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Is this true in your experience or is this just something else repeated by men on the internet without basis in reality? Well in my case its definitely true. The dates I had with 30 year old women were pretty much a job interview where I had to check certain boxes to advance to the second level. Women that age suck all the fun out of dating because now suddenly they want to get serious and find someone suitable for marriage/children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:16 PM
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Because women never eat the food they cook for themselves and their husbands and enjoy living in filth, so cleaning is just for her partner. I feel like most people believe that in this scenario the women lives in a separate home and just comes over to do the daily chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:12 AM
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I think both you and OP are right. Porn is cheap and if there is one thing women don't want than its cheap sex. That would ruin their position of power. But porn also raises the standards for women since men see a variety of things that could be done. Suddenly the male pleasure is the focus. No matter how much women complain about not being able to orgasm with their partner, whenever the topic of sex comes up they only talk about their pleasure. Never how they listen to their partners to increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:05 AM
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Women want what other women want/have. Why? Because they are at large a lazy hivemind, no matter how much they deny it. What exactly do I mean with that: Lazy: Dating takes effort. You need to get to know someone, some sort of vetting. This takes time and effort. Women are so used to everything being handed to them that even the slightest bit of effort they have to put in is a huge obstacle. Now wouldn't it be great if someone else could do the vetting for you? Thaty why men who are desired by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:34 PM
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If you build something together while you both are young, growing old won't be a sudden change. Its a progress that takes time and will not be noticeable on a day to day basis. You don't wake up one day and suddenly look like a 70 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:04 AM
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I didnt. I said.: You can go find me an example of incels, whose lives we can deep dive and analyze into, that have no problems in their lives other than being ugly/short and women are just being bitches. I will be waiting for that. I doubt you can find me that, but surprise me. I showed you a whole subreddit of exactly what you are asking for. You just refuse to accept it. He was 5’8 in a country whose average mem are 5’9, he only wanted hot blonde sorority girls, he never tried approaching, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:01 PM
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Because the men claimed that or because people who made deep analysis into their incels’ lives said that? Moving the goalpost. You wanted some incels who are incels because of their looks, I send you a whole subreddit. If you need more, just dive into it or message some of those guys and talk to them. Keep in mind, Elliot Rodger kept insisting until his dying breath that the reason why women won’t fuck him was because he was short and part Asian. And you have any evidence that refutes that? What…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:57 PM
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No you have 0 right to complain about someone else’s standards, if they don’t want you that’s their choice. No matter how intense or ridiculous those standards may be everyone is entitled to have their own standards. You have the right to complain about anything. Just because women are at the receiving end doesn't mean its unjustified. And dude what I listed is the BARE MINIMUM, if a guy cannot shower once a day and stay on top of his hygiene then his stinky ass deserves to be alone. Those are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:53 PM
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It’s not an insult, it’s an observation. You are every bit as lost as they are. Sure, an "obervastion" followed by more insults. And you’re just like them in another way: you blame all women the same way they blame all men. You are exactly the same as those self-centered in empathetic women you hate. How you called it? Just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:24 PM
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Standards are standards for a reason, we don’t owe it to anyone to lower them. Because they are lunatic and men have every right to complain about them. They’re incels for a reason, their personalities, appearance, personal hygiene and misogynistic views are straight up revolting. It sucks for them, but thats life and natural selection (kinda how there are runts in litters). The only reason they exist is because they were born below 6' and don't have the face of a supermodel while even the mist …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:23 PM
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they’re the ones constantly screaming that men have no problems in life while women are suffering real issues Because women want their cake and eat it too. They want the benefits of being "opressed" and therefore demanding special right while enjoying their privileges. Your lack of self awareness is astonishing. If insults everything you got left, you should stop replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:15 PM
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I don’t know why you expect empathy from women when you have nothing but contempt for them. Because they have no issues yet still wanting sympathy because heaven forbid something might not be about women for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:44 PM
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You can go find me an example of incels, whose lives we can deep dive and analyze into, that have no problems in their lives other than being ugly/short and women are just being bitches. I will be waiting for that. I doubt you can find me that, but surprise me. r/foreveralone. There, a whole subreddit of men who are incels due to their looks. Have fun diving into. That’s the pattern most people see with incels. Like I said, i’d love for you to find me an example of an incel who isn’t severely me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:43 PM
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But not for the men who openly sneer and women’s issues in dating and mock them for not being born men. Because there are no issues. 100% of the problems women face in dating are created by themselves and could be solves if they put in 1% of the effort men are expected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:37 PM
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If this is your only argument, I see myself proven right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:46 PM
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providing sex to men they don’t want to fuck Nothing I wrote even suggested that. This is nothing more than an excuse women use to justify being devoid of empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:45 PM
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Go on, tell me that their lack of a sex life was due to ‘evil women’ and not their own disgusting behavior. You just picked three extreme examples (One of them having some serve mental issues) to discredit every other men. So I have no problem to tell you: Women standards are lunatic and the dating market would be in a much better shape if women got a reality check. When they think they’ve done nothing wrong, of course it makes them frustrated. Most incels have done nothing wrong besides being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:40 PM
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No they havent. If they did, we wouldnt have incels. We have incels because womens standards are absolutely lunatic and that leaves some guys stranded and frustrated. It’s clearly not working because too many men still have very stupid expectations. Any expectation from men, no matter how reasonable they are, are stupid in the eyes of women because that means women have to bring something to the table. And there is nothing more that women hate than putting in effort. We also see old men dating y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:49 AM
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Ah the smell of gaslighting in the morning. Ugly men struggle, as long you are handsome your social skills can be as poor as they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:15 AM
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Women need to be realistic with their expectations. Men learn this lesson at a very young age. Lets not pretend that the modern dating market doesn't beat realistic standards into men from the moment they enter it. Thats why you see a lot more couples where the man is dating below is league, simply because in this dating market you either get completely ignored as an average man or you get shamed for even having a slightest bit of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:02 AM
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Why should women care about your struggles when you insult them openly for being born female? They don't care, no matter what. You can pamper them, you can ignore them, you can do everything to help them, nothing will change the deep feeling of indifference women have to men struggles. They absolutely don't care about them at all. They just wait at the finishing line and pick up the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:54 AM
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There are no challenges. Just women who are so used to do absolutely nothing that even slightest bit of work is seen as an insurmountable obstacle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:02 PM
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But it takes time to sort them out— there’s plenty of time wasters, false starts, mistakes, and just incompatible guys (not even to mention the horrible ones). Oh no women have to put in 1% of the effort men to find someone. They actually have to do something when it comes to dating, the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:21 AM
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All she has to do is to swipe right on 1% of the guys she sees instead of the normal 0,5%. Thats not insane swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:48 PM
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Yeah, a woman can easily find a relationship, if she doesn’t care about about who he is who what he’s like at all. If she just view men as all interchangeably identical and doesn’t care at all who he is or what he looks like. Women have an abundance of choice when it comes to online dating. If they still can't find someone suitable, its because of their lunatic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:42 PM
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Wow thats a fantastic rate. Given that women have like 5 Matches per Minute, thats like 10 min max to find someone decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:34 PM
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They don't matter at all. Do you really believe a cold approach worked because the guy had social skills? It worked because he was 6'2 and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:48 AM
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Work on your communication, flirting and seduction skills and listen to your partner. Don't sit back silently and judge his performance, if the sex sucks 50% of that is your own fault. Men are more complex than just “Touch dick, reach orgasm”, if you are not willing to find out what he likes, don't complain that he prefers to jerk it to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:21 AM
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Thats just an illusion proclaimed by ugly people not to lose hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:12 AM
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As long as you are hot enough you have to actively work on turn her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:01 PM
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Focus on your looks, nothing else matters. Stop wasting time on improving your social skills or working on your personality when in reality nobody gives a shit about that. Your looks are make or break.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:47 PM
10

I've seen a bunch of guys and gals alike trying to convince members here that OLD is not "real life". It is real life, filtered down to the bones. All of the bullshit has been stripped way and you can see how dating always was, now just clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:58 PM
3

I'm a man, of course I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:55 PM
12

Most men get settled for after year of grinding to a woman that brings nothing to the table but other mens kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:19 AM
20

Some men really need to go to therapy to learn how to process their emotions and feelings of rejection. Because heaven forbid men dare to criticize the lunatics standards women have. I know this is hard to imagine but the problem isn't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:52 AM
1

Why did you instantly make it a victim complex? Why is every time that someone dares to point out that women might be the problem its always hit with an instant defence mechanism? How does that resolve anything? Where's the communication between them? Your post contains zero communication between the two sexes, only attacks, shaming and belittling of men. Do you yourself have a partner? I'm going to hazard a guess that based on your response, that's a no. And now we make it personal because we g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:38 PM
3

This is a lot of words just to teach the core principles every men hears from the beginning of his life to the end: You suck, gid gud. It nicely lays all the blame on the men so women can remain in their ivory towers, never have to spend a single second of self reflection, can uphold their insane standards and feel justified demand the best of the best while bringing nothing to the tables themselves. The dating market would be in such a better shape when we knocked women egos down a peck or two …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:11 PM
20

" and get rejected by every woman ever because you are not 6'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:20 PM
2

RP philosophy is actually the worst thing for the current dating market. It tells every woman that she deserves a Chad and how man can become this. It just fuels the already insane standards women have into space and beyond. Women say “Jump”, RedPill asks “How high?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:11 AM
4

Thats not surprising. Monkey Branching, Boyfriend buffet thanks to OLD, the next better Chad might just be a swipe away. If you have this many options, the individual person doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:03 AM
1

You disproved your whole post by saying you pick up chicks with nothing but your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:08 PM
0

You can't read minds but you sure decide whats a red felg based on the guy whos sending it, not on the actual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:08 PM
-1

No, you just decide wahts creepy based on the attractivness of the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:22 PM
-1

looks are the most important things in clubs because you can't really talk in there. So your whole post contradicts itself and actually proves that looks>personality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:19 PM
0

Everybody tells incels its a You-Problem. Nobody tells women its a You-Problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:16 PM
4

And I know what you are going to say next. "Well that means that you're not good-looking". Nope. I used to go to clubs, get drunk to relieve my SA and pick up random chicks using my looks. So your personality didn't matter since you used your looks to pick up chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:04 PM
3

Ladies, if you’re not good enough, he’ll just want sex from you and leave. That’s your fault if he does because you turned out to be a waste of time. A bitter truth but he’ll most likely move on immediately after sex anyways and its YOUR FAULT if he does. If you have nothing else to offer he will yes. Why should a woman give into the sexual desires of men just to be shamed and humiliated by men for doing so? If this happened enough to rack up a high N count and you still don't possess the self r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:59 PM
3

Personality is one thing: Cheap. It requires no effort, its common, literally everybody has one. There are millions upon millions of guys with good to great personalities out there who absolutely nobody gives a fuck about. You know whats rare? Being a tall, hot and handsome man. That requires luck/right genetics for height and effort for a good body. Just think about it: How many funny, charming or charismatic guys do you know compared to how many tall and handsome guys? Thats why looks will tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:49 PM
1

Date the other hundred thousands of Bi men who are unpartnered at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:16 AM
0

Casual dating is still available to you is my greater point. If this were true, the whole wedding business would have been bankrupt long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:12 AM
1

Its a reflection of the dating gender dynamic with women being passive and men being active. Sure there might be expections but those are definitely some rare outliners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:19 PM
-14

Someone who thinks that having a degree will make men attracted to her, regardless of her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:27 AM
-16

And yet women still wonder why a dregree is not attractive to a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:19 AM
2

Women always take up the passive role, they feel comfortable with it. They want to be pursued and they come up with every excuse under the sun not to lift one finger when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:10 AM
2

Best strategy would be getting into a relationship while both of you are young and hot and when the inevitable end comes, you spent at least your best years in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:52 PM
0

why do so many men believe that their sex drive should determine the amount of sex in the relationship? Simple: Because men initiate it. Their sex drive is literally the one thing that determines how much sex happens because with out it, nothing would happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:43 PM
2

Now that is one depressing article. Makes you really wonder if its worth it to enter a monogamous relationship as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:41 PM
0

The fact that most women here stated physical features instead of awesome personality is really telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:25 PM
23

Looking 10 years older than your actual age is pretty concerning. That is a sign of either serious medical problem or a very, very unhealthy lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:58 PM
2

Because of the giant hypocrisy about it. Women want to use sex as a control/bargaining tool yet don't want any of the negative downsides that comes with it like being seen as a sex object or men not caring about the female orgasm. Either the embrace it fully with all the consequences or the drop the notion that sex is a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:42 PM
9

Overall the dating market would increase when men stopped giving so much attention to women. Womens egos are inflated to the size of Jupiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:59 AM
0

That's why I laugh when I hear some delusional soul who says that "just wait until I am 30 and have money, I will be swimming in pussy". Life gets worse each year you live. Its a short summer, a very long fall and you better pray to whatever god you believe in that you are long dead before winter claims you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:26 PM
1

I think we are on two different pages here with two different topics. Nobody has anything against friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:02 PM
1

I'm not disagreeing if the premise is "Use friendships to find a relationship." But replacing a romantic relationship with friendships will get you end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:56 PM
1

If half the world population doesn't respect you and hates you for centuries, through out different cultures, it sounds like a very, very big "You"-Problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:53 PM
1

10 points for Gryffindor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:48 PM
1

So you use your friendships to meet a potential partner. Thats something different than replacing a relationship with friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:45 PM
0

And at the end of they your friends will go home to their partners and you will go home alone. The first thing that dies in a new relationship are old contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:38 PM
2

If half the world population doesn't like you, its time to take a step back and look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:33 PM
2

Do you think this is true? Sex is the price women pay for a lot of things, not just marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:18 PM
8

Women complain about men not understanding how female attraction or sexuality work yet at the same time wonder why men are not attracted to a good career or a interesting hobby. A women having good career is the female equivalent of a man having a lot of achievements in video games. It might see meaningful to you but for the other sides its useless. Men get told from a very young age that they need to built something, especially when it comes to a career. Thats why they don't need their partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:01 AM
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I am absolutely not interested in making this rat race that is modern dating even more ruthless. As long the current relationship is fine I'm not interested in throwing it all away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:28 AM
7

Sounds like a "You"-Problem for the potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:22 PM
6

Laid back, comfy and relaxed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:39 PM
6

Companionship, love and support
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:06 PM
8

Because for the vast majority of human beings being with somebody who plays video games and works a boring nine to five isn’t loveable. And why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:38 PM
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I suppose my simple question is, if you’re not working your ass off to get one of the best rewards for being alive, why are you angry it’s not just landing on your lap because you played video games most of your life and clocked in and out to your bland nine to five? Because there is no guarantee that this work will pay off in the end. You can work hard in your job and get at least a decent position. You can practice and get at least decently skilled at something. But you can't directly work on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:16 PM
1

Remember, once you've seen reality, those still in the cave will see you as mad. I will never understand how a philosophy that solely resolves around how to please the insane standards of women still thinks its the absolute truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:49 AM
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I think every man here would also be overjoyed if a woman they thought was very beautiful showed interest in them, and they would want to believe that her interest is genuine and would fall harder for her because of this. I seriously doubt that. Men are much more aware of their league, a women who is leagues above them yet shows interest just sounds the alarm. Men are the ones who have to deal with scammers, women who only want to sell their OnlyFans Account and catfishs. They are much more wary…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:42 AM
8

TRP’s primary goal is to empower men with choice. The primary goal is to sell snake oil. Nobody cares less about men than RedPillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:08 PM
0

Its something that sounds good, doesn't have any real meaning and and can be used to reject someone without sounding superficial. Its just some smoke and mirrors, a meaningless buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:38 PM
7

aren’t seen as creepy or jesters unless explicitly doing things that would label them as such (ie. actually being a creep) Like for example existing in the vicinity of women while being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:34 PM
10

If you do your best to look good, be positive, friendly and have a smile on your face I don’t understand how someone could never get laid. Those things don't matter if you are not hot enough to make them count. A social, talkive guy with average to below average looks will either be seen as creepy (because all men that are not hot enough for the Halo Effect are creepy my default) or he will be the jester of the group. Funny guys don't fuck, they are there to pick up the pieces after the latest p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:44 PM
0

Thats something that can be changed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:44 PM
3

There are definitely things that can be done. Less simping, more treating women like they treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:52 PM
9

Are overweight women really more open to date non-athletic men? Hahaha, no absolutely not. They feel just as entitled to Chad as every other woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:06 PM
0

Why be bitter about your own biology, guys? Back in the days, it was worthwhile. Now women expect this dance while their quality has dropped immensely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:49 PM
2

what's stopping them from going younger other than the law? Because those girls are not fully developed. A 14 year old girl will still look more like a child than a grown women. At 18, thats vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:04 AM
0

The true death sentence for men is being socially awkward. This is nowhere near a death sentence. I know a lot of very, very socially awkward men who are doing totally fine when it comes to dating. Looks carry you a very, very long way before your personality even begins to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:01 AM
1

The average woman doesn't want the average man. Its not men who are shooting above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:55 AM
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None of them work. The RedPill is desperate rat race trying to please the insane standards of women, while maintaining the illusion that they are the ones in control. BluePill is nothing more than a term to describe a simping doormat who will tolerate everything, naively believing women actually want their partners to open up and have a honest communication. Both are are strategies of men who are simply to ugly to actually attract a woman so they have to do a jesters dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:50 AM
1

This question is for men who justify 30+ year men chasing 18-23 year olds. [..] This is a serious question Yeah, a totally serious question that already begins with a passive aggressive tone. Any why is the age range set from 18 to 23? Do people suddenly get a boost at the age of 24? A 30+ year old man chasing someone who is 24 is ok in your book then? Also why are you comparing 14 year olds to 23 year olds? Thats almost a decade between them. Most girls this age have a post-puberty body, sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:40 AM
1

The mystical looksmatched couple, a phenomenon only existing on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:30 AM
0

However, if you marry a woman your age, you're actually going to gain power in the relationship over time, because men remain attractive as they grow older, while it's harder for women. Thats contradicting itself. If when men remain attractive while growing old, they don't have to fear getting divorced. Because they can find someone new pretty easily. And even if all of this was true, you have 20 years of marriage before things go south. Most relationships don't even last this long. I honestly w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:26 PM
1

Those are functions of lack of experience. Every slut started as a virgin, every cynic started as an idealist. Picking them while they’re young doesn’t stop them from wanting to develop into an adult. You’re just placing yourself in their window of life-changing decisions. And how many of those decisions do you think will end with the same man they were with when they were young? If this is the premise, you should only get into relationships with people who are already on their deathbed. This wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:12 PM
2

The average woman doesn't want the average man, no matter how great his personality might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:47 PM
1

Your sexual market value isn't solely determined by looks. A great personality does SO much. A 5-6/10 with a 10/10 personality is a 8-9/10. If there is ever a ranking of the greatest lies told troughout the ages, this would be in the top five. Nobody cares about your personality if your looks don't excite them. Everything else is just settling with extra steps and should be labelled as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:40 AM
2

All the High N count women I encountered had some very serious issues which made them unfit for a longterm relationship. So no, I would definitely not wife up a slut, no matter how much she wants to believe that the past is the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:18 PM
0

If a woman wants a relationship, she can find one. It might take some effort but men are not the gate keepers. Women are just not used to do anything when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:10 PM
2

If women have so many options and still can't find a suitable candidate, the problem is is solely them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:56 PM
2

Individual men can be valuable but as a class men simply aren't. Not the way women are valuable. We are moving the goalpost. We came from "Men are worthless" to "Some men have value" to "Men don't have the same value as women" What part of 'people don't have to do what you want because you stomp your feet and cry' don't you understand? Grow up. To say it with your own words: Nothing you think matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:33 PM
2

With men that have managed to breach that threshold where the value they bring to her life makes it worthwhile. Thats a clear condradiction to what you said earlier. They won't. They don't have to do anything you want because you don't exist to them and nothing you think matters. You're just going to have to learn to accept your place in this world as we all must. They might not want to get pumped and dumped by the guys they're into but that never translates into wanting to have sadsack sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:24 PM
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And men are just worthless 'cause no one buying that shit. And yet women end up in relationships with them. Like, what would women even be getting here by dropping their standards? They could stop complaining about men being worthless because their latest fuckboy pumped and dumped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:01 PM
2

I want to ask what is your stance on this phenomenon and what your feelings regarding it? My stance is: Condoms fucking exist. Use them. Even when you are in a committed relationship They can also protect you from STDs. There are also other forms of contraceptives if you really want to have unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:52 PM
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Like, imagine thinking otherwise. If you're selling something, you can ask for whatever price you want; its actual value is ultimately determined by who's buying—or not. Thats just a long and winding way of making the insane standards women have seem reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:44 PM
7

Thats what companionship means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:38 PM
4

They may experience rage when they realize that women didn't become attracted to them because of their confidence or some other bullshit RP tries to sell but simply because those women don't have any other options left. It has nothing to do with who approached whom, men would feel the same rage when a woman they approached said yes to them after she had her how phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:38 PM
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Men get angry when dating is too easy for them, they have this thing where it has to seem that the woman doesn't want them and have to be won over. Even the most liberal and progressive men seem to have this need. I highly doubt that. Never have I seen a man complain about dating being to easy, especially in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:54 PM
3

as a simple route to sex and companionship. So a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:53 PM
1

Pretty solid so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:18 PM
23

Yes, for several reasons: Younger women bring less baggage with them. Older women have a tendency to make you pay for the mistakes the other guys made. You are already on the defence, needing to prove that you are not the same as the last guy. I'm not their therapist, yet they expect me to protect them from their bad choices. I've had dates with women of all ages and one trend I noticed was, that older women treat dates more like a job interview. Its less about getting to know me and more about …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:18 PM
2

Same goes for them. Not as much as women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:18 PM
2

Thats how it is for men, especially when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:00 AM
7

Stable Variety sounds like an absolute dream and I would take it without thinking twice. I don't need a new women every week, I want one women who is committed to me, seeks something longterm and enjoys exploring new things together. The trust you build here is much more worth than banging a new hottie every week. Sex gets better if you do it with someone you know. You don't know her STD status or if she's actually on birth control, although she says she's probably clean. Sounds like a nightmare…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:54 AM
1

Which is probably why a lot of men are struggling to get a relationship in that they want a prudish Good Girl who'll fuck them like a slut. Apparently sexual desire cannot exist within a committed relationship. Unless she had a hoe phase, you are bound to have a dead bed room because women can't live out their sexual needs with one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:44 AM
1

The whole second part of the comment invalidates the first half because its clearly about not caring at all what other people think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:38 AM
2

Thats a surefire way to lose all your social connections as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:36 AM
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You guys care about what everyone else thinks of you way more than you care about what you think of you. Only low status losers care about what other people think of them, because they have to. It's their only way to survive. Everybody cares about what other people thing about them. Thats how our whole culture is structured. The olny ones who deny it are the ones who think themselves above and beyond the normal human interaction. They see themselves as superior while everyone else just thinks th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:08 PM
1

Yet women complain about creeps and expect men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:02 PM
1

I feel like I have to accept I’m at the bottom of male preferences and Be in a relationship where a man settled for me or die alone forever You are a woman, not a man. This will never happen to you, I promise. There will be guys who are attracted to you because of your height, not despite of it. In all my life, I never seen a man reject a woman for being to tall. Its always the woman who dumps their short partner because she can't wear heels, or feels like she is dating a child not a grown up or…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:34 AM
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Because nobody likes men who are taking about their issues. Women hate it, other men don't like it and society doesn't care. You can only lose if you are a men and want to open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:28 AM
1

They can but then again, they are not allowed to complain about being creeped out. Those men also just communicated how they wanted to at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:02 AM
3

Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:59 AM
3

I doubt that anybody will be heavily influenced by science when it comes to dating. Most people believe that statistics will not apply to them, that they are special and there is no way that anything can predict a certain outcome of their choices. Of course, its all just an illusion and the narcissistic need to feel like you are not like the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:54 AM
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What do women need to do then? Communicating clearly and behaving like someone with an ounce of social skills? Reading the room and stop seeing men as a hivemind that all will act exactly the same? Just use the advice they give men in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:48 AM
2

men can choose not to approach. Just be passive as well and go their own way lol. And then nothing will ever happen because without the courage of men, there would not be any relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:45 AM
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More like there's enough simps that women don't need to perform. If they don't want to perform, they have no right being creeped out. Feeling uncomfortable is the price you have to pay for being the passive gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:29 PM
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And the burden of the whole performance lies solely on the shoulders of men. Because behaving like a grown adult with her own agency is to much to ask for from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:55 PM
2

Yes because the majority of men is not attractive to women. So those men have to wait till the other options dried up before they become viable options. If women didn't expect their partners to be absolute perfect in any way and need years before begrudgingly settle down with an actual human being instead of waiting for their fantasy Prince Charming, more men were married sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:58 PM
4

Men always get married later than women. regardless of country and culture. Or they didn't find someone till later in life. Or they were engaged for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:36 PM
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He’s saying men hold off getting married or even being in a serious relationship, which is a fact. It treated as a fact without any form of evidence to support it. That’s the other issue, the few guys who want a relationship dont know what theyre doing. Ah the inevitable comment of how everything is men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:16 AM
1

It can happen if enough people decide to go this direction. Honestly, I don't understand why everything else can be changed, from climate to political systems yet everybody seems helpless when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:13 AM
0

Propelling the already insane standards of women even further because Red Pill deeply believes that every women deserves a Chad so men should just do everything thats possible to become one. Women say “Jump”, Red Pill asks “How high?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:09 PM
3

However in life there are circumstances and circumstances can dictate behaviour. The circumstances are that she was attracted to the other guy while she is lukewarm about you. Lets not make this more difficult then it needs to be, "Different rules for different guys" simply means that you have to pay a hefty price for what other guys got for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:22 PM
5

If a guy were to play games then he's a manipulative prick. Honestly dating would be so much better if everyone stopped playing games. This whole “Don't reply to fast”, “don't tell her you like her or she will lose attraction”, “be mysterious” is so tiring. I'm really not a fan of the whole “Just be yourself” since it is a terrible advice but treating those humans interactions like a game of chess were one false move means checkmate is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:19 PM
2

The harder you are to get, the more women want you. Women want what other women have. This has nothing to do with hard to get, if you are hot you can be a male slut. Doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:14 PM
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This is just a long wording of the myth that men are the gatekeepers of commitment. The truth is, finding sex or a relationship is both hard for men. Maybe the second on is a bit easier since casual sex is harder to obtain but its still a grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:11 PM
2

There seems to be a trend in modern relationships where you put so much damn pressure on the other person to be everything to you. Women do that. They don't want to date humans, they want a perfect alternative being straight out of a romance novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:29 PM
1

Ah women and shaming men for their preferences. Never change PPD, never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:24 PM
1

If anything I more often see hotter women with average men. Ah those mystical "Hotter women, average men" couples that are all over the internet yet to be spotted in real life. No normal healthy person enters into a relationship with someone they aren’t attracted to because they’re desperate. That is more common than the hot woman, average guy couple. I don’t know why I need to explain that looks isn’t the only reason to date someone. Attractiveness is incredibly subjective anyway Because thats …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:51 PM
7

Because it always sounds like "Taking what you can get", rather than actually loving the option you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:48 PM
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The average guy might date someone who is below him in his youth because thats the only option he has. He only becomes attractive to women in his league once their better options dried up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:42 PM
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Again, you are just defending women's laziness. I don't care what kid of pseudo philosophical Mumbojumbo you want to convey, its all just a thinly veiled attempt to defend women for not doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:39 PM
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I said it already and I will repeat it ad nauseam: Life after 30 sucks for everybody. No exceptions. You are at the start of the worst two decades of your whole life. The peak is behind you, the worst is yet to come. It doesn't matter if you were soaring high in your 20s, you will see and feel the decline that is inevitable. The only thing that you can look forward to is fading looks (Both yours and your potential mates), rising health issues and the slow grind of work till you finally retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:17 PM
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You don't have to use this many words, just say it straight: Women don't want to put any effort in when it comes to dating. They don't want to be active, they don't want to take risk, they just want the men to do it. This has nothing to do with getting the same response. It simply boils down to women being lazy, entitled and spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:15 PM
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Thats an excuse women use to hide the fact that she's settling. Its always the same: The average guy suddenly becomes attractive after the women has been burned by the hot guys. And coincidentally after her other options dried up. When men do this, its a Madonna/Whore Complex but when women do it, its maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:13 PM
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If you suddenly become "attractive" after the other options of those women have dried up, it has nothing to do with insecurity. It's acknowledging the reality. If she had swiped left on you 5 years ago while she was younger and hotter, she's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:58 PM
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Assuming the maximum possible lifespan for most people is about 90 years. Thats pretty arbitrary. If you want to base this on a scientific fact, the life expectancy on earth is around 72 years on average. This alone pushes the terms “middle-age” and “old” into a whole new category. I'm 30 and I have no problem being called middle ager or even old. Thats closer to reality than saying stuff like 40 isn't old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:56 PM
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You are aware that nothing is stopping women from making the first move right? It's not an advantage then the other side bluntly refuses to do anything and relies on you to initiate everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:43 PM
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BTW if you think 40 is old, you must be very young. Ah old people and not wanting to admit that they are old. Always adorable to watch them argue against reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:32 PM
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Who on earth doesn't believe that a thin person is considered more attractive and therefore gets more attention than an overweight person???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:27 PM
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There is a difference of being an options and being settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:34 PM
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They complain about that those women settle for them after those things. They complain that they are only seen as an options after those women lost their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:34 PM
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Why are involuntarily single women not expressing the same violent behaviors, especially when they have much more to lose, much more quickly than the single man? Because they are not truly single. Their standards are just so insanely high that nothing can satisfy them. They could easily find someone if they left their ivory towers for a single moment. I don't know why people even try to compare single women to single men since their whole situation is so vastly different. The burden of performan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:31 PM
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They complain about not having options/the insane standards women have
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:50 PM
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It's like if the only girls that gave you attention are old, fat, smelly, 500 lb women that only want you for sex, and then everyone screams that you should be grateful for the attention. If men would complain about something like this they would either be told to lower their standards or improve themselves. Don't pretend that guys would not get absolutely roasted if they ever dared to criticise their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:46 PM
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Would you marry someone with a higher number than you want, but you are their best, biggest, etc? Or would the number still be a dealbreaker? I don't care if I am her best, all I care about is the effort she puts in. If she lacks energy and doesn't really care, I will match her effort because why should I go above and beyond if she doesn't? On the other hand, if she tries to be my best, puts in effort and wants to rock my world, I'm happy to do the same. You only get what you give. N Count on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:18 AM
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Men being caring towards their partner who’s going through something they can’t understand isn’t some crazy thing. There is a difference between something you don't understand and something you don't support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:54 AM
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I don't feel like this conversation is going anywhere. But no matter how much you rage, you will not change how people feel about abortions or force your views upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:50 PM
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What part of what I said implies she was forced to??? You made it sound like she had no choice but to have an abortion. The consequences are the partner distancing himself from her when she could have really used support. Yes that is a consequence and its his right to feel like that. Just because abortions are ok for her doesn't mean her partner must share this view. he valued his potential fatherhood over the well-being of his partner. What about that do you not understand? She killed his child…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:43 PM
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It was her decision to have an abortion, don't make it sound like it was forced upon her. Now she had to deal with the consequences of this decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:29 PM
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25 percent overall (28 percent of Gen Z) say they'll use or ask their partners to use condoms more often I'm always horrified that condoms don't seem to be the standard when it comes to hook ups or any type of sexual contact that isn't in a long term committed relationship. I can't wrap my head around it that you will risk a serious illness or pregnancy when something as cheap and safe as a condom is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:19 PM
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and he dipped when she really could have used support. Women who have abortions are not entitled to a man's sympathy, support or empathy. Its your decision to have an abortion and his decision how to feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:15 PM
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Like the female equivalent of a simp or a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:36 PM
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What does submissive mean in this context? Maybe I'm a bit confused because I'm in the BDSM community but there are plenty of women who are financially independent yet like to submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:25 PM
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Women and blaming men for the problems they created themselves, a classic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:12 PM
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To be a boyfriend really isnt Beside the fact that women don't want someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:51 AM
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Because this guy is either tall as hell or makes a shit ton of money. Also I always wonder where those fat guy couples are. I know a lot of fat guys, I know a lot of fat women and only the later ones are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:14 AM
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In fact it makes u one step closer to becoming POS for making us feel uncomfortable/unsafe. Thats the price women have to pay for being the passive gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:03 AM
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Lockdown's over, but those of us who don't have that luxury are still depressed, still lonely, but suddenly now "nobody needs relationships, get good at living alone forever, scrub". Because the ones who tell you that are the ones you have plentiful relationships. Or know that they can get one easily. Of course I can tell you that you don't need steak for dinner to be happy. But the truth is, if I wanted a steak for dinner, I could to to the local store and get enough steaks to eat nothing but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:58 AM
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Why do people always assume women are lying when we say we don't want a massive body builder guy who doesn't show emotions and lives to work? Because women fuck/have relationships with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:50 AM
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Just be yourself is such an ominous statement that it can mean absolutely anything. From “Never change a single thing about yourself” to “just don't fake your personality”. Thats why its such a useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:48 AM
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If you dont want to stand out why are u bothering to reply. To highlight how ridiculous the standards for men have become in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:13 AM
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My experience with ploy people are that: The relationships they have a pretty unstable and it comes as no surprise. A relationship is a lot of work and sometimes difficult to handle. Several relationships can be absolutely exhausting especially if there a problems in several of them at the same time. They often disguise their fear of commitment by saying they are poly, meaning they can have the benefits of a relationship yet still have the options to act like they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:30 AM
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Most female problems in the dating world are created by women. They simple don't want to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:15 AM
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You want to stand out? No, I just want to live my life without having to worry that I am not special enough for whatever reason. But dont go around telling women to save themselves waiting for you so they perceive you as something special bc of small sample size If men don't want to date high N Count women they have every right to do so and no amount of shaming will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:14 AM
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But if you bring something new you stand out and are memorable. Are you scared your gonna be viewed as just another bf cuz ur basic? And the burden of performance lies again soley on the shoulders of men. Now even being basic is something bad. You can't even live your normal, average life without being told that is not enough for a relationship. Really, the pressure on men in the dating world is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:07 PM
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That might be one of the biggest issue in modern dating: Women believe being in a relationship with them is already the price. They don't have to offer anything else yet get mad when men go for someone who is younger and hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:00 PM
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If you are a woman and you struggle with dating, the reasons lie in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:30 PM
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For one week or month, definitley. I just want to know how it feels like when dating is actually easy and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:04 PM
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And catcalling is a compliment for the women because they want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:41 AM
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So you want me to find the evidence that not all men are creepy rapists or will follow your home? You are the one who made the original statement, the burden of prove lies on your shouder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:47 AM
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And again, women go on the shaming offensive instead of reflecting their own behaviour and might find some flaws in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:19 AM
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I love the fact that women just can't accept that this is not a compliment for men. I love the unapologetic gaslighting, the shaming and the sheer hypocrisy that comes with it. Men really don't need to feel bad about "mansplaing", they just need to turn on the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:13 AM
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People can complain about whatever they want. Can I quote you on that the text time a male issue will be shout down as "whining"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:06 AM
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Honestly, if someone would treat somebody with the same extreme prejudice that women have for 90% of men they would get called racist or accused of having some sort of extreme social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:02 AM
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Seems to me the men who subscribe to that type of mindset see sex as something that’s “done to” a woman rather than shared with a woman. Because thats exactly how women treat it. They are, in every situation, the passive and reactive part. Of course the common notion in this case is, that sex is something done to women by men. It a problem made for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:53 AM
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It always feel like that women who are against their partner watching porn are just to lazy to improve themselves, their relationship with their partner and their sex lives. It always comes down to a shaming tactic, not once does a women ask the question why her partner might prefer porn to her and that maybe she is the problem. I remember a thread a while back about how to keep a healthy sex life in a long term relationship. The women basically had a list of demands that must be fulfilled befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:15 AM
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Men being more selective. Treat women how they treat men, beat them with their own weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:07 PM
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Or to put it short: Women don't want to date humans, they want to date a fantasy character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:23 PM
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I think that’s the essence of Red Pill, that the dating environment is fucked up and you cannot unfuck it without infringing on people’s rights. So double down on fucking it up even more. You either fuck or you get fucked. You won’t be fretting about women’s sexual past anymore when you will stop seeing a future with them. They will be with you only in the present. You will have consensual fun and you will move on to the next one. Rinse and repeat. I love that Red Pill basically boils down to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:20 PM
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The ones who are complaining are usually women who shame men for having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:16 PM
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Straight men and gay men alike never get the level of vitriol for casual sex that women do, even if they have significantly more of it, and that's because this premise that women are "tainted" by casual sex is purely based in misogyny, male insecurity, and jealousy. It's easy being a slut, it's hard being a stud. The burden of performance lies on the shoulder of the men. He has to do the approaching, the social navigation, the courting. Men have to work for it. It's a marathon for them. They hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:09 PM
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Women want what other women have. No matter how much they deny it, women are much more of a hive mind that they want to admit. So a man who is desired by a lot of women is a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:26 PM
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Women treat sex foremost as a tool to get what they want. Pleasure comes second. Just look how absolutely abysmal women are at sex. They won't and can't communicate and basically place the burden of performance on the men. They would rather fake their own orgasms than put any kind of effort in to improve the experience. So being a virgin is a turn of not because of your skills but of the underlying issues. If you are a male virign past a certain age, if you are just plain ugly. No way to sugar c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:24 PM
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They absolutely do. If you are a women and your life is hard, you got no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:50 PM
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Women would up their game and improve themselves. Women don't even fix the problems they created themselves when it comes to dating. I highly doubt that they would improve themselves in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:02 PM
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Desperate women have Tinder to fix this. They can actually find someone pretty quick because of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:54 PM
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As a women, yes. As a man, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:55 PM
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Women really believe that men experience dating in the exact same way they do. What you describe is a the women side of dating. This is the exact opposite of men's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:29 PM
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How is what your described different from maintaining the relationship? So men are soley responsible for mantaining the relationship? Because those women sure as hell won't do any seducing or taking her partner out for a date. They said that clearly. They expect this to be done to them, not done by them. Same goes for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:27 PM
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I matched with a bunch of guys to try and find her a good guy and it was such a shocking disappointment. If you have so many options and still can't find someone suitable, the problems are your standards. The common denominatorin all of those actions is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:24 PM
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The idea that women "reward" high-tier men with "better sex" if the man is hot/rich/famous seems to run on the assumption that a woman's pleasure is irrelevant. The sex is "for the man's pleasure", and she'll (apparently) do any sort of deranged sex act for him if he's hot enough, meanwhile the narrative paints the average man as getting starfish sex, where he only "gets to" fuck her while she lays there and "rewards" him by letting him pump a load into her. Thats how women treat sex. There was …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:38 PM
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Anyone can have casual sex easily if they lower their standards enough No statement proves more that women are so far removed from the reality of dating than this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:01 PM
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Being uncomfortable and creeped out in dating is the price women have to play for being the passive gender. Actually, most of the female dating problems are selfmade.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:04 AM
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Most if not the vast majority of all women spend their 20s when they are most sexually attractive chasing bad boys and then when they've lost most of their sexual attractiveness they settle down with beta male good guys. But they never stop desiring those hot bad boys. They just take what they can get. There is no “growing more mature with age” as women claim. Its a simple “Well can't get the hot guys any more, might was well take Average Aaron from accounting.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:52 AM
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You are the one telling me that every single message was "harassment" but I'm the one making things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:37 PM
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They were getting negative attention. They were getting insulted and told, asked and shown things that were inappropriate and threatening. Again, this is nothing more than a blank statement. Like every single message was a dick pic or something like that. They were not harassed in large, they just didn't want to lose their victim card and actually settle for men in their own league. They got attention for free and still managed to complain about that no ones wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:55 PM
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Such an advantage, shy women can get harassing messages! Shy women getting attention fro men their own league. The fact that is already labelled as "harassment" is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:37 PM
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They weren't looking to connect at all. Again another baseless assumptions. they didn't look good enough or were too shy like many of the forever alone men. With the big difference that it doesn't matter that those women are shy. They get messages. They don't even need to lift one single finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:11 PM
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It was lonely guys trying to connect with loney women who are in the exact same situation as they are. The only difference: Those men are lonely because they are to short, to ugly or not handsome enough. The women are lonley because they couldn't be bothered to answer DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:50 PM
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Thats a strong assumption without any kind of evidence. I mean have you seen r/foreveralonedating? The majority is dudes posting there, guys shooting their shots, exact same with the DMs in r/foreveralonewomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:42 PM
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When was the last time an incel forum had to close down because to many of its members got DMs from suitors willing to get to know them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:08 PM
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Stop using sex as a tool. Woman use sex as an insult, was a way to get what they want, as something that gives them leverage. How often have you seen a woman use the “Thats a lot of words to say you have touched/ satisfied a woman” line on a man, even when the topic was absolutely non-sexual? Women know about their position of power and they have no qualm to use it to their advantage. Stop being hypocritical about sex. Women complain about being objectified and only seen as sex objects, yet have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:33 AM
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I didn't care that it was a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:51 PM
-1

For me yes. I'm 30 and had dates with women aroud my age, more than enough to determine that they are not attractive for me. Looks, personality, outlook on life. I prefer women who are mid 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:28 PM
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So next time you hear a woman say that a lot of women want a nice guy, they mean the ones who are well above average. Women like nice guys - when they are hot Women like assholes - when they are hot There is no need to make this complicated, women want hot guys, regardless of their other qualities. In the end, women are much simpler than they want us to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:52 PM
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Its not exactly hide, its more like men have to decide if they still want that woman be attracted to them. If yes, emotions are not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:50 PM
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This is why women claiming men do the “bare minimum” surpasses being a fallacy into being an outright lie. Many women put so little effort into relationships yet expect to be pampered, looking for any and every reason to DQ a guy. Thats why I always laugh when women say they do the most "emotional" labour in a relationship. They are so used to do absolutely nothing that even the slightest bit of effort is a huge amount of work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:44 AM
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where RP states sex is the primary way women communicate they are interested & what men should focus on. Because thats how women treat sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:39 AM
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What if she had sex on the first date in her last relationship? Wouldn’t even 2 dates be “making him wait”? Yes that would clearly count. Consistency is important, otherwise it reeks of “Different rules for different guys” which normally translate to “Sex for the guy she was actually attracted to, vetting if he is a good provider for the next one”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:19 AM
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This is incredibly fair but also will sadly drive off many good genuine men who also sadly think you're not into them for making them wait I always feel this is quickly glanced over but it unveils a deeper question: Are women really this socially inept that the only way they can clearly communicate that they are interested in a guy is sex? Are they really this adamant in being the passive gender that even they are already in the dating stage they can't communicate clearly that they are intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:13 AM
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You are giving women to much credit here. They will definitely do this, keeping a guy on hold as a back up plan for when their other options fizzle out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:10 AM
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Lets say ur a super attractive guy. u have a masters in business u make over a million dollars a year. ur 6'2". ur fashion model level attractive, ur super smart. what do u do? Ok, lets just say I would wake up tomorrow in this exact sate. I would date around for a bit, enjoying how easy everything suddenly is compared to now. I don't have to put in an unreasonable amount of work to get a date anymore, women will start to make an effort and I would definitely enjoying the feeling of being desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:58 AM
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People naturally want to experience love and romance and a lot of men's loneliness to the fact that they don't have support systems is foolish I have never met a man without at least one good friend or a couple of buddies he could talk to. On the other side, I met a lot of guys you are perpetually single. Those guys ranged from below average to average, nothing special, you everyday Joe. They were outgoing, funny, sometimes annoying or shy. You know, humans. And I don't think a lot of girls are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:45 AM
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I spent my 30's travelling a month out of the year I never liked travelling, it always costed me more energy that I got back. hitting every notable Goth club I've been to more of those parties in my 20s than I can count. What have you been doing? Listening to many people telling me that the 30s are great before they tell me how they fell asleep on the couch on a saturday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:13 PM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:35 PM
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Do whatever you want, it doesn't change the fact that you crossed the threshold already. Its the last gasp of life before you can't do whatever you want because you can't. It gets closer every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:17 PM
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But please, tell me more about my impending doom. I don't have to, time will do it for me. Don't believe me, thats your right. But in the end the same fate will happen to you as it happened to every human who thought they can ride the high life forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:01 PM
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Are the women just misguided into thinking the 'cock carousel' will be more satisfying than relationships and they keep on riding it anyway despite not getting much out of it because they've been conditioned to be sluts or something? Most likely they are using sex as a tool to lock the hot guy down. Which doesn't work since Chad as options and can quickly find someone new who tries the exact same strategy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:58 PM
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Then lets talk again in a few weeks and see if you are still this optimistic. I doubt it. It will take its toll.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:52 PM
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And how much longer do you suffer from a hangover?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:51 PM
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you know, life is too short to get hung up about not being 20 anymore. Until your body and energy level catches up with you and you realize that you don't have the power to do all the things you want to do. And its already happening. Day by day, we are all getting weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:37 PM
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Just skipped over everything else positive I said So you settled down and fight against a body that is slowly decaying. Sounds like a good time. I’m sure you’ll live a very happy, fulfilling life. I'm just realistic enough to see that the peak is behind us. Life goes on, long after the thrill of living is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:34 PM
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Your peer and social group are generally more educated and you have way less drama. Or in other words: It gets stale and boring, everybody settles down, the wild days are over. If you truly believe your on a downward spiral because you’re not 22 anymore I honestly feel bad for you. You crossed the point where things are starting to go down hill. Your body starts to descline, your life is stuck in pathways, most things are settled by now. Its the death of the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:16 PM
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At 50 you can slowly see the light at the end of the tunnel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:12 PM
0

Yeah the whole "You are only as old as you feel" is complete bullshit. No matter how fit you are, you will notice that you get weaker and less energetic as days go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:34 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:30 PM
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When you reach 30, you realize it is old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:29 PM
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There is a wall at 30. For everybody. I said it already and I will repeat it ad nauseam: Life after 30 sucks for everybody. No exceptions. You are at the start of the worst two decades of your whole life. The peak is behind you, the worst is yet to come. It doesn't matter if you were soaring high in your 20s, you will see and feel the decline that is inevitable. The only thing that you can look forward to is fading looks (Both yours and your potential mates), rising health issues and the slow gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:28 PM
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what is the benefit in men being violent and scary? It excites women. yes, this is what the conversation is about. No the conversation was about the state of dating profiles of men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:37 PM
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I have no idea were this notions comes from that your life will get better once you reach 30. Is it bitter men who missed out their 20s hoping to finally get a slice of the cake? (Hint: You won't, if you struggled in your 20s it will only get worse in your 30s.) Is it spoiled women who believe everything will go as smoothly as it did in their 20s? (Hint: It won't, your looks will fade and you will become less desirable) Life after 30 sucks for everybody. The best years are behind you and now the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:06 PM
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because they are violent and scary Thats actually a benefit for them in most cases the ones who want to be dating. Apparently no woman wants to date a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:31 PM
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That doesn't sound any different from improving yourself, lowering your standards or just sucking it up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:11 PM
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Then what adivce were you given?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:21 AM
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Obviously the advice pertains to people in one’s own league Which just proves the original statement that women have no idea of the challenges a man faces. The average women doesn't want the average men, she wants someone who is above her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:05 AM
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Attention, validation, a status boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:01 AM
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Im a guy FYI a pretty average guy and this has never been my experience If you never asked for advice, then you are not qualified to present this statement as the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:53 AM
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How does any of that prove men have it worse ? Cause they face the exact same issues you stated on top of the other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:45 AM
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Rape Men face more violence than women. pregnancy Yeah sadly contraceptive or the baby killing privilege don't exist cervical cancer Testicle cancer, prostate cancer. At least you got a vaccination for it. Men don't domestic violence Goes both ways but women are believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:29 PM
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Because they are laughable compared to men's. They are issues 100% created by women who manage to have such a privilege position and still fumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:34 PM
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If you were actually friends with women you would see that they have the same wants and desires as you, the same everyday struggles and the same issues with dating Women are really trying hard to gaslight men here but every man who actually put himself out there will tell you that women don't experience a quarter of the issues men face
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:18 PM
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So you never been told to improve yourself, lower your standards or just suck it up because women have all the power in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:49 PM
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A girl ends an unhealthy relationship that was clearly detrimental to her mental health and general wellbeing and you not only didnt feel an ounce of sympathy you turned the blame on her for not dating the “good guys” like you? Feels great being treated like the average man, doesn't it? Welcome to the experiences guys have to deal with every day. But when they complain about it, either get told to improve themselves or that they are misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:40 PM
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5 is average as it can be, 6 already above
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:33 PM
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Because men are not content to be alone and self sufficient! Thats unproven, very questionable claim. If someone is constantly complaining about being alone obviously the natural response is to lower your standards. Women complain about it just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:32 PM
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If you can’t pull an above average woman you’re not truly above average. Or just a 6 who can't date another 6 because she demands a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:23 PM
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Men get told that because men are desperate for companionship. Men get told this because society expect so little from women. And it’s impossible to alter your sexuality lol. You cannot change and choose what you are attracted to based on circumstance. Yet men get told this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:22 PM
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It does if women who are also above average demand to date up and not on their level, so the above average man is stuck with an average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:14 PM
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Do you think being ugly changed your biological sexual prowess? If you are ugly yourself, it should If a woman who’s a 4 rejects a man who’s a 4, it’s not because she thinks she’s entitled to a 6. It’s because she would rather be alone than be with someone she isn’t attracted to. A lot of ugly men would rather settle for someone they don’t like, just to have someone. Men get told all the time they should lower their standards, its time for women to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:13 PM
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If she is a 4 and rejects another 4 because she demands a 6 at least, its her ego and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:00 PM
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And they are always told to improve themselves no matter how much they have going for them, no matter how inflated the egos of women already are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:48 PM
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Work on yourself to entertain mediocrity simply because the average women expect to get an above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:44 PM
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Suggestions like this are the reason why I believe that redpill was secretly invented by women to improve the quality of men without doing anything to improve themselves. Women say: "Jump.", RedPill asks "How high?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:14 PM
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Why are you so complacent in being average? Because if every men improves something that is considered above average now will become the new average thus creating a viscous cycle of constant optimisation. I honestly don't understand why men are so hell bent of creating this rat race for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:12 PM
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Women have given great advice when it comes to dating so I have no idea what you’re talking about. Women live in an ivory tower. They are privileged, spoiled and in a position of power, even if they genuinely wanted to help with dating they couldn't. They don't understand the reality of men nor are they interested in improving the situation for men because it would cost them power. The reality is that dating is a lot more competitive for men than woman so either step or don’t play the game. I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:44 AM
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People will always, in any way, prioritize their romantic relationships over thier platonic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:10 AM
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They’re also more supportive so you can talk about whatever anxieties you have (dating related or not) which will improve your mental state when it comes to having the confidence to date and encourage you to be more emotionally available to future partners. If there is one thing no women ever wants to hear its male problems. They don't understand male problems, they don't care for male problems. Their life is so fundamentally different of ours that they can't even understand the cores of most ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:08 AM
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I had really high hopes when I read the title. But man was I left disappointed. when we see a man mistreating women or doing a female wrong they need to be displined. depending on the severity of what they done they should be temporarly removed from society and their behavior should be actively rebuked and discouraged. if we collectly hold mens bad actions accountable then women will see that we are not so bad bc we r cleaning the dating pool. White knighting never got anybody laid. Also you ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:33 AM
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The purpose of dating apps is for people to find intimacy, in what every way. Someone who signs up to such a site can expect that people there are asking for sex since that is one of the purposes. It might not be what they seek yet they shouldn't be surprised. Especially if the site has a reputation of being a Hook Up App. On the other site, those apps are not meant to be promotion platforms for businesses and nobody should be wary that every interaction they have on this site might be a scammer…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:05 AM
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In HD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:20 PM
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How blind and ungrateful women are to their own privilege. How much they demand and how little they offer in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:58 PM
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Secondly, there are so many single men out there that they can jump off the market for some kind of a decent man if they want whenever they want, so that option is always available. Until this point I would have wholeheartedly agree with you. But that one is a dangerous illusion. The older you get, the less attractive your options become simply because women becoming less and less attractive. Therefore they become less attractive to men and their options dwindle. Now if they care about it, thats…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:10 PM
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Most men will use you for sex if you put yourself out there to be used. Sadly women don't have any kind of agency. They just kinda happen to fall on dick when they put themselves out there. Really, nothing you can do about it. Thats why women need men to do everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:31 AM
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Turn it around and ask: Why are men expected to put in so much effort, time and energy to please someone who is flaky, doesn't mirror this effort and is on their level from begin with? Why does the burden of performance always lie on the shoulder of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:16 AM
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I love being a man but it would be nice to lower the difficult setting of life, so woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:07 AM
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If half the world population dislikes you, maybe its time to take a step back and look at your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:41 AM
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Wait, I'm confused: Are we talking about showing intrest like "Hey, I think you're cute and I would like to get to know you more?" or are we talking about opening the floodgates and releasing a barrage of emotional hot mess? Because I agree with the second one, but I don't have the patient for the first one. Playing games is chidlish and I neither have the time nor the willingness for something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:33 AM
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Again, women are only ever satisfied if they can have their cake and eat it to. Nothing is ever enough, even the biggest privilege means nothing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:12 AM
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Women really are never satisfied. They have it so easy and they still manage to convince themselves that the advantages they have are hindrances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:48 PM
1

Having less energy means having to be more selective what you can do since your daily life will not get less hectic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:37 PM
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Your body also restricts you since you don't have the energy anymore. It doesn't matter if you stay fit, you will get weaker as time takes its toll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:30 PM
1

Again if all men were be this selective it would deflate the ego of women, which will help the dating market tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:28 PM
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It would break most women's hearts to find out the guy she's dating only pretends to care about shit that goes on in her life so he can fuck her. Guys don't pretend that they don't give a shit, they just don't give a shit. If you want to spend your whole freetime playing video games, it will not hinder your dating prospects. If you choose the career of a starving artist, trying to make a living selling only portraits of Abraham Lincoln paited with our toes, it will not hinder your dating prospec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:24 PM
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I have enough friends who are older than me to see what lies ahead. And its not something to look forward too, regardless of your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:09 PM
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"We like honest men but they should not be to honest. They should suger coat things and maybe not say everything. In fact, just say the honest things we like to hear"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:49 PM
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That is what online dating is like for women. I'm not talking about online dating, I'm talking about dating in general. Guys not being interested in your job or your hobbies is universal and makes dating so much easier for women since they don't have to full fill any requirements in this regard. And how is it easy if you have to find a wife several thousand miles away? Someone you need to spend a couple hundred dollar just to meet? Even in the easiest scenario men still have to travel and spend …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:34 PM
1

Welcome to the new normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:23 PM
1

White/Caucasian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:19 PM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:06 PM
1

Life is full of treasures for those who have the time and energy to seek them. Which are not people in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:59 PM
1

Let me tell you the story of an acquaintance of mine. I wouldn't call him down right ugly per se but he is everything but handsome. Now this guy is in a relationship. The girl he is dating is well hated by absolutely everyone I know. She is ugly in every sense of the word, outside and inside. Nobody in their right mind would date her. Now this guy is not in his right mind. He is nearing 30 and she is his first real girlfriend. He spends an awful lot of money on her, taking her to trips and besic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:57 PM
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Because you crossed the point where things are starting to go down hill. Your body starts to descline, your life is stuck in pathways, most things are settled by now. Its the death of the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:52 PM
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Don't take it as an insult but I really wish women would stop portraying this advantage as something bad. Do you realize how good you have it? You can actually be yourself and it will not hinder your dating prospects. You can 100%, always, no exception do whatever you want with your life and still find love or sex. You don't have to fake it till you make it, you don't have to work on yourself, you don't have to put up a facade. And yet somehow, this is still not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:47 PM
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The average man shoots himself in the foot if he completely neglects learning, socializing, and making relationships in favor of watching porn 5 hours a day. The average man has to put in so much effort in terms of dating that its not worth it anymore. Do you even know the grind when it comes to dating women? Its insane. In what world is this a good thing? Especially for the avg man? In a world where womens standards are through the roof, dating has become a chore and only men seem to be require…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:42 PM
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Lol you're making people in their thirties sound like old people. We are old people. Most of us just don't want to admit it. You might want to deny it, but your body can't. Sure you can play sports but you will feel your decline. For every match you play you will miss two other activites because you are to exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:16 PM
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If a man messages you, he is at least somewhat attracted. If the conversation is flowing, the is invested in you. If he invites you to a date, he sees potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:12 PM
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Which only fuels the ego of women since they get a ton of likes without putting any effort in which will increase their standards even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:09 PM
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Incel tier women aren’t exactly beating men off with a stick. Not with stick but they still get a lot more attention the their equals. Thats why they don't want to date someone in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:07 PM
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Ummm, do you really get anything from awkward and mentally ill men trying to date you? Except for a 2 second ego boost, that kind of men pursuing you will disgust you at best and scare you at worse. That is the problem, when women say that men are missing out on relationships/real sex because of porn, women are always imagening the men they want to have sex with aka the guys who already get tons of sex. Never the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah thats what people say but the reality is: You don't have the time or energy anymore to do those things. You are happy to stick to the stuff you already know because its not as energy consuming. The older you get, the harder it is to start new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:52 PM
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Yeah, thats what I meant with you are to told to Rock'n'Roll: The things you look forward too is settling down and starting a routine. The wild days are over now its time to numb your mind and just continue living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:50 PM
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It always feels like the first death, the death of the mind: People settle down and do their routine. They found their friends, they found their job, they found their mind numbing routine. Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:44 PM
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Respectfully, as a 4.5/10 36 year old man you are nowhere near desirable enough as a relationship prospect to be this selective if you genuinely want to find a partner, particularly given that men make up ~75% of users on dating apps. This is a value/selectiveness disparity I'd expect from most women. Honestly, if every men was this selective, the dating market would be in a better shape. Treat women how they treat men, beat them with their own weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:36 PM
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Then how will you even get to know someone? A date is nothing more than a way to see if you are compatible and enjoy spending time with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:56 AM
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Its not just women but men as well. Lets be clear: Life after 30 sucks, the best years are behind you and now the only thing that you can look forward to is fading looks (Both yours and your potential mates), rising health issues and the slow grind of work till you finally retire. You are too old to Rock'n'Roll, too young to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:54 AM
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Just because girls have an easier time finding hookups doesn’t mean they have an easier time finding a boyfriend. Also most men are able to find girlfriends and are also somewhat picky about wanting an attractive partner and have standards from my experience. Do you even know the grind a man has to put into finding a girlfriend? Lets just ignore the insane standards women have and just focus on the fact that men are the ones who have to put in all the work. Men are the ones who have to approach,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:42 AM
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The problem is: The incel tier woman doesn't want the incel tier man. Its not about dating down, wimen refuse to date their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:31 AM
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Because they are the requirement for getting a fulfilling relationship. If you go on a lot of dates, the chances increase that it might delevop into something longterm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:30 AM
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Whenever someone says that women like funny guys, I always recall this great piece by Gilbert Gottfried
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:41 AM
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I do think a lot of confusion comes from the fact that men listen to women instead of watching what they do. Their behavior seems often irrational because it doesn't match their words. But the simple truth is: Talk is cheap and women are masters at paying lip service. If you take their word for granted you will always end up frustrated, confused and left in the dust. Her actions speak the truth and you should only pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:24 AM
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How many men out there do you think can cook? I’m not talking a crappy omelet or pancakes from a mix, I mean real cooking like risotto, beef stroganoff…etc. probably like 1% of men if that. You are giving men way to little credit. Sure if you are talking about a guy who can cook on a Gordon Ramsay level, the crowd will get thin but your average dude doesn't live on instant noodles or Uber Eats alone. On top of that he’s a talented musician and finds the time to take care of his dog while being i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:02 PM
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Personality is cheap, finding a good one everything but a challenge. Just take a look at the qualities OP listed: cooks, plays the piano, is responsible enough to look after his pets There are millions of dudes like this. There are a million dudes that cook, that play an instrument or take good care of their pets. Its nothing special. Thats why personality doesn't play a role when it comes to dating. Good looks in men are rare since the criteria are much more harsher than those for women. The fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:55 AM
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If you had a conversation with someone in real life and suddenly they just turn around and go without any kind of explanation, it would be at least considered bad social skills but most people will call it an asshole behavior. But somehow we managed to create you rules for online interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:35 AM
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Their behavior (and ours) have been shaped by millions of years of Darwinian evolution and sexual selection. I don't what ghosting on Tinder has something to do with millions of years of Darwinian evolution and sexual selection. This behavoir is a new phenomenon because of OLD. And again, I don't know why everyone is trying to give women so much leverage when it comes to their behavoir. Its no wonder womens egos are inflated to the brim if everyone is making excuses for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:34 PM
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All I can do is make myself as attractive as I can be. I can control my weight. I can control my appearance. I can control my personality. That's it. Thats my biggest issue with Red Pill: It is solely focused on what women want and what women find attractive. It resolves around the questions: What can I do to make myself more attractive. Women say: Jump! Red Pill asks: How high? And I realize that your comment is more about society than individual men. You're saying that we as a society should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:05 PM
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But you are also not helping yourself or your prospects by wallowing in selfpity. It is what it is and its up to you to make the best of your life and situation. And you are not helping others by telling them this. Those statements are as contraproductive as selfpity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:59 PM
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Again, why is everyone so hellbent at giving women a free pass for asshole behavior? Why fester this hellscape that is modern dating even more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:57 PM
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Is this just giving women a free pass to do as they please. You are helping them by allowing and rationalizing their behavior. Just for once we should stop blaming men (> Getting angry at things you can’t control, and behavior that has been shaped by millions of years of evolutionary biology and sexual selection is the WORST response.) and focus on the fact that women treat those men like trash. Men need to man up, learn to be stoic, and maximize your happiness and contentment within the constra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:54 PM
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As a man, if you're not the guy getting all the matches....either BECOME that guy or save your time and money. Don't get bent out of shape because you're totally blindsided by last weekends ghosting. It's often not YOUR fault, it' some guy she hoped to get the interest of was bored one afternoon. I find it staggering that we are at a point were we casually tell men: Hey don't get angry when women toy with you or your emotions. Its just someone better came along and you were left at the roadside …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:06 PM
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I do somewhat agree with this. Not exactly with every statement, but I don't believe that relationships that are formed when you are older (40+) are really worth it. Your best years are behind you, your looks are more than just declining, you already seen a good junk of what life has to offer. Getting older sucks in absolutely every regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:39 AM
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So yeah, men find it irritating when being told to just "give over it" or "find other ways to be fulfilled" by people who have absolutely no conception of what it likes for average men, by people who can obtain dating/sex/relationships like light switch. That paragraph is the absolute truth. I only ever been told that relationships don't matter by people who were in relationships all the time. They live in such an abundance of possible relationships that they don't value them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:34 AM
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And yet women refuse to be more open and communicate clearer who they want them to approach to reduce misinterpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:35 PM
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If you are a good team and basically functioning room mates, I don't see a problem with it. Love fades and daily life settles in. The excitement goes away, a routine starts to align and the funny hormones you once had are gone. Everybody who swears they won't let it happen, they will never let the passion go away give away that they never been in a LTR because there are phases were both of you are so busy that you don't have the energy for shit like this. Especially when kids are involved. The b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:34 AM
1

I know it sound cynical but that reads like a textbook example of settling. It always leaves the sour taste that someone's options dried up and now they took what they can get. How would you react if someone suddenly fell in love with you after a decade long failed marriage? In those cases always ask myself: If she were single would have she swiped right on me 5 years ago/when she was younger? If I can't get a clear yes, then I would reject her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:23 AM
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Men notice women they are attracted to. Sure, the more conventionally attractive a woman is, the more attention she will get. But women are lucky in the regard that men are attracted to a wide variety of looks/types, so the chance of going unnoticed is very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:02 AM
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If all your options suck, its time to revaluate your own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:04 PM
4

That is, by far, the greatest strength of women: Portraying a privilege as the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:01 PM
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Because women are deathly allergic to putting in effort in something. They are so used to everything getting handed to them that the sheer thought of improving themselves is unimaginable for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:51 AM
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Guys have to deal with scammers, Women who are only in their to sell something, there are even cases where a guy showed up for a date only to get robbed. And as you said, we also have to deal with stalkers, death threats, and rape threats. Those troubling things are just not as prominent in the public mind as womens issues because guys are either expected to deal with those things on their own or nobody simply cares about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:44 AM
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Its a chore to even get to the date stage. You have to put a lot of time, energy and effort in as a man to even get a date. Unless you hare a 8 then sure, its easy and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:37 AM
4

If you have never been approached, its a clear sign that you don't belong to the Top 20% of men women actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:50 PM
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Yes absolutely. Dating for women is a breeze, I doubt that I would have any problem finding someone suitable. Sure, you might not find Prince Charming right of the spot and have to put in some effort, but compared to the grind the average man has to come up with, its nothing. I really wonder how it feels like when dating is actually fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:24 PM
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I remember the thread were a guy was complaining about the fact that all the women he meets at a ComicCon are only there to try to sell their OnlyFans. He got ripped to shreds in the comments, telling him why he was thinking that going out to a Con means he might meet someone. That the exact reason why this advice falls on deaf ears: No matter what a guy does, its always his fault if things don't work out. Damn if you do, damn if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:03 PM
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Overall, women have to settle more. Simply because their standards are insane. Sadly, there aren't enough Chads out there so some women have to actually date men who are in the same league as the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:21 PM
2

I do. She has quite the reputation stemming from a colourful fast with a lot of casual sex. Now she easily finds someone for a quick shag but nothing long terms comes out of it. She is actually known as the bad role model in my social circle when it comes to fucking around and finding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:12 PM
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I'm curious, how would someone know whether the girl is low n or high n and how quickly she has had sex with prior partners? They tell you. Its not hard to get this information, just let them talk and wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:00 PM
2

There is a big difference between what women say they want and what they actually go for. Never listen to what a woman says, watch was she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:22 AM
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A lot of women want to use sex to control and manipulate men Women don't mind being objectified as long as it benefits them. They don't mind to use sex to get what they want, they just hate being called out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:01 AM
0

Attracted to the Top 10% of guys, not the average bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:51 AM
1

And yet its not a disease. Sure your body changes but you are carrying another person. When I say goodbye to a pregnant women I say: Goodbye you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:56 PM
1

Taking responsibility for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:24 PM
1

Yes but she is not sick, she's carrying another human. Someone whos pregnat and someone who's sick are not the same. Its not counted for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:14 PM
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The government views HER as protection worthy. It views her as protection sorthy because she is carrying a child. She doesn't get the time off for any other reason. She is counted as only one person for all intents and purposes EXCEPT sometimes abortion. Of course she is counted as one person since mother and child are two separate persons. The mother is one person who carries another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:11 PM
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The government only decides how much time off she's entitled to, like other such leave, and it's ultimately her decision if she takes it. And the government grants this to her to protect her child because it views as something that is protection worthy. For example, a typical pregnancy announcement is "I'm going to be a mum/dad", not claiming that you are one. You're really just trying to manipulate language to suit your purposes here. They are still parents to an unborn child. They already do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:18 PM
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The decisions that she can have time off from work is made by the government. Animals and plants are also living beings, just like a foetus with the difference: A foetus is a human and not an animal. You don't consider them parents. Its just your definition to dehumanize a foetus even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:59 AM
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Your friends and family will have romantic relationships. You will come in contact with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:54 AM
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Sure, your relationship will take away some freedom and time. But you can still engange in your hobbies, especially if your partner shares a hobby with you. But you still have them, even if they don't play a dominant role. If you give up on dating and just have friends and hobbies, you don't have any romantic relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:33 PM
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Those checks are also to see if the child is healthy and the time off is for both of them so the child isn't put in danger by the mom being forced to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:30 PM
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“wow your body is so hot I just want to bang your brains out,” Because thats a male fantasy. Thats something a man would love to hear in a first date. Women want something thats less direct, not focused on her looks alone. Don't tell her shes sexy, make her feel sexy with your words. Compliment her outfit, her make up, her hair. Compliment the stuff she put effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:08 PM
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like time with friends and hobbies, The thing is: If you are in a relationship, you still have friends and hobbies. You might not spend as much time with am as you would when you are single but they are still present in your life. Thats not true the other way round. Not having a relationship ever just cuts you out of those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:06 PM
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They are also treated as people when they get their health checked. They are people when mothers are allowed to leave the workforce in order to protect the unborn child. You can't just call something a person to force someone to do something they're not even obligated to do for people. You can't just take the humanity away because its inconvinient for women to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:03 PM
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Women love words. Their mind is a big factor in turning them on and words are a fantastic way of getting into the brain of a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:28 AM
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Can this person really take control of his emotions and be happy ? Or is he just deluding himself and in for a serious life crisis Depends if he can live with the fact that he is cut out from a whole lot of experiences when it comes to love, sex and intimacy. Now if you don't care for those experiences than yes its possible. You just have to face the fact that you got one chance at life, things you don't see, feel or experience will be lost forever for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:26 AM
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We only talk about a foetus as a person when it comes to having a right to life above and beyond actual people (as nobody who's born has the right to live at the expense of a specific other person's body parts). Foetus are treated as people if it benefits women but as soon as it causes an inconvenience to them, they don't see them a speople any more. You can't just kill someone because its inconvenient for you to have them in your life. I didn't say not to care about circumcision, just that in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:05 AM
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That's not murder as you're not killing a person. Its murder, no matter how long and hard women try to defend their baby killing privileg. If somebody would talk about any ethnic group as women talk about babyies, they would be rightfully called a racist. This is an even bigger problem for intersex children, but that isn't discussed before elections either. I see we entered the oppression olympics were circumcision is not a issue anymore because someone else was it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:35 AM
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You're not allowed to kill a child. Murder gets you years in prison. Unless you are a women who wants an abortion. Than murder becomes a human right. I guess you could describe all cosmetic surgery that isn't reconstructive as mutilation. If just the tiny difference that a circumcision is normally performed on a non consenting infant child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:50 AM
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and houses are built for the average male height. Are you serious? Not paying for your children is a choice anyone can make, and nobody talks about any other cosmetic surgery before elections either. Killing your child is a choice women can make. If men drop out, they are hunted. And circumcision is not cosmetic surgery, its mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:42 PM
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Sure thats why stuff like financial abortion or circumcision are always discussed right before elections. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:22 PM
2

When men have an issue, its their issue. If women have an issue, its society's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:20 PM
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The only issues that are ever discussed or seen as real are women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:51 PM
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I wish men would stop simping for women: Stop swiping right on every women on Tinder, stop giving them attention just because they are women and hoping to catch a crumb of pussy, stop giving them money for simply existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:45 PM
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Men are not as blind as women are when it comes to seeing the struggles. After all society force feds womens issue into the consciousness of the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:43 PM
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So, short of having a health condition, are there really any married men that don't at least masturbate, and or watch porn? Asexual would come to mind or men with low libidos. Or husbands who's wife is always up for sex when the man is horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:15 AM
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Women are in a bubble when it comes to dating because they are so far in an ivory tower that they will never understand the struggles of the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:10 AM
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If she is faking an orgasm, she is lying to the man. Its the exact opposite of listening to what your partner says or does. Its not the job of the man to save her from shooting herself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:09 AM
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Btw that was a lot of words for I have never made a woman orgasm As always: Women have no problem using sex as a way to insult men but wonder why men see women as sex objects. It doesn't even refute this point. If you expect the men to read your mind that you just faked your orgasm, then yes, its your own fault. You are putting all the burden of performance on the men and then blaming him for not reading your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:55 AM
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That doesn't mean that women don't want a provider. They still want the men to earn more than her and buy nice things. Its not about needing a provider, its about raising the standards for men even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:01 AM
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That you are a women and view dating through a female lense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:05 PM
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People who claim something like this are usually the blindest of the blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:19 PM
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If men you meet doesn't like women or has a bad opinion of them, maybe its time for your gender to take a step back and look at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:51 PM
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You have to understand how easy dating is for women. They don't have to go somewhere specific to meet someone. Since they are the passive gender, they can go on with their everyday life and just wait for someone to come up to them. For them, meeting someone naturally works since they don't have to do anything besides existing and leaving the house. Because of that, they don't need online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:48 PM
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Apparently in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:43 PM
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That women expect a 6’6” ripped Chad with a megadong I love that a meme basically became seen as a real argument. Its great way of deluding the issue so you don't have to look at the core points closely. Women always want someone who is better than them. Not in terms of they wanting to feel inferior but they feel they deserve someone who is better looking than them, has more money, is fitter, taller etc. Or to make it short: Women don't want anyone who isn't at least a league above them and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:33 PM
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Touch some grass if you really believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:00 PM
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Men treating women as harsh and cruel as women treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:24 PM
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"You're 20. You don't have a ton going for you." If you are ugly in your early 20s you will most likely be ugly in your late 20s. Don't fall for the illusion that everything will magically be alright as you grow older. The opposite is true: It will only be a constant downhill once you hit mid 20s. Use your youth to gain the experiences you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:21 PM
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Yes, for several reasons: Younger women bring less baggage with them. Older women have a tendency to make you pay for the mistakes the other guys made. You are already on the defence, needing to prove that you are not the same as the last guy. I'm not neither their therapist, yet they expect me to protect them from heir bad choices. I've had dates with women of all age and one trend I noticed was, that older women treat dates more like a job interview. Its less about getting to know me and more …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:28 AM
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"I liked him until he opened his mouth" was uttered by no woman ever. And then they still let him fuck her. You should never listen to a woman. They preach a lot, but practice little.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah that part was.....strange
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:33 PM
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This post ist kinda all over the place but I agree with the core statement: If you struggle in dating, you are ugly. Its not your personality, not your hobbies, not your style of fashion or your social circle. You are just unpleasant to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:02 AM
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I do agree with this notion. Getting those information, or any kind of information, from a woman is not that hard because: Women love to talk about themselves. Really, you don't have to be a great conversationalist, just give them a nudge from time to time in the right direction and let the river flow. Most women I talked to have a tendency for oversharing even the most private information if you just let them talk long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:59 AM
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I love the fact that men stating a preference of not dating high n count women is always met with a temper tantrum. “I can do anything I want and as soon as those actions have consequences, I will lie and cry and say it ain't so.” Like a spoiled teenager who wants the cake and eat it too. not marrying or dating high n count women but they have no way of knowing if a woman is low or high n count other than her own words. “Well this guy doesn't want to date a slut so I better base the whole relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:22 PM
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None of that is true in real life. Oh it is and no matter how much you want to gaslight it, the average women hates the average men for not being Chad. She might settle for him once the better options dried up but that doesn't mean she changed her mind about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:18 PM
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She's a slut for Chad and prude to everyone else. If a sub 5 male even tries to make a move, he is labelled creepy, no matter what he does. Thats why men need to treat whose women as they treat them: If they step out of their line, shame and ridicule them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:55 AM
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Figure out, and put the work in, to battle your way into the top 20%. Work out, make money and be successful in your career, looksmax through good skin and hair care and fashion sense. Expand a good social circle in which you’re respected and admired and get good at being social and holding court and generating a positive interaction with people. The thing is: This will only propel the insane standards set for women. Thats why the Red Pill will fail in the end. Its not about breaking the Matrix …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:48 AM
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With sub 5 I mean a guy who is in the bottom half of the looks spectrum, not body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:44 AM
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Treat a slut how she treats a sub 5 male’… what, like a human being? Women don't see those men as humans. As grey NPCs maybe, but nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:52 AM
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Because going out with the one man with no emotions is so desirable. If he is hot enough, absolutely. A hot emotionally stunned guy will have a lot more success than an emotionally open average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:32 AM
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If she wants to make money that way, its her choice. If I don't want to date an e-whore, thats my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:25 AM
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When men raise their standards, especially on dating apps. As long as women know they can just hop on Tinder and get 100 likes in 10 minutes, things will never change. When men start to treat women how they treat men. Treat the fat chick how she treats a short dude. Treat the slut how she treats sub 5 males. As soon as men are not scared any more to be as harsh, brutal and cruel to women as women are to the majority of men, it will knock of women of their high horse. When men start to demand at …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:23 AM
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When women say they want men to talk about their emotions more, they mean men in general, not the guys in their lives. The random stranger on the street, Bob from accounting she rarely speaks to, the boyfriend of the cousin of her husband? Sure, they should totally be more open about their emotions. But the guys she is attracted to will find out that women lose attraction fast if male emotions come to close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:09 AM
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Women can complain as long and hard as they want, but a man with a high body count will never be the same as a woman with a high body count. It's easy being a slut, it's hard to be a stud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:58 AM
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you can become what they want. Which will only propel the already insande demands of women into new heights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:16 PM
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Men who believe the personality meme and think its their actions holding them back, not their face/height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:49 AM
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I never understood were the notion comes from that once you hit 30, your life magically becomes better. Men who struggle because they are ugly in their 20 will continue to struggle because they still will be ugly when they are 30. In fact, life after 30 will only get worse, the best years are behind you. Don't kid yourself, life's on a downward spiral from here. Your body will deteriorate, you are settled down in a job and can look forward to 40 more years of grinding. Life goes on, long after t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:55 AM
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but they admitted that they didn't want the men themselves and didn't find them attractive So it was a normal relationship like the average male experience it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:41 AM
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Depends. Has she done anal before and now suddenly decides its not for her anymore. Then yes, its a dealbreaker. If she never liked it, never done is frequently and is consistent in her stand towards anal, than no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:52 PM
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They feel as much love as the average woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:51 AM
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When it comes to sex, maybe listen to women? Never, under any circumstances, listen to women. They don't know shit about dating or sex. Women themselves are way to fickle to give a good advice. Any advice that was solid gold 5 minutes ago as already turned to shit by the time you try to apply it. Instead always observe their behavoir. They can control their words but they can't control their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:52 PM
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Its absolutely neutral. As long as you are not good looking enough to attract women, having them as friends is meaningless in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:44 PM
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Well apparently, not all women seem to care about their own orgasms then. Only the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:18 PM
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If they cared so much they would communicate better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:23 PM
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Because women, at large, are abysmal when it comes to sex. They never needed to learn anything or offer anything else than a hole. Thats why they don't communicate because the burden of performance lies not on them. They can lean back and expect the man to do all the work and when the sex is shitty, men are the ones to blame. Women are at a very comfortable position and they will never give it up by communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:31 PM
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Hopefully this sub remembers this logic the next time someone brings up Danny Devito to disregard all of men's struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:53 PM
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As always when it comes to women: Statements changes to whatever narrative fits the current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:03 PM
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That would require effort and women are deeply allergic to effort. They hate leaving their position of power and being the one carrying the risk of rejection. They got way to many options so they don't need to put any work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:00 AM
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Lets be honest: Both parties in this scenario will be very bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:08 PM
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On Tinder. Just not for the average male. Just because you are not invited to the party doesn't mean Chad doesn't have a good time there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:12 AM
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How women cultivated a dating culture where they bring nothing to the table besides their looks and now complain that men only want them for their looks. They refuse to build a life together with a man who is still in a developing phase and rather wait at the finishing line to pick up the winners. And then they are surprised that those men don't go for obese single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:10 AM
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Never listen to what a woman says, always watch what she does. Never fully trust a woman on her word, no matter how convincing they may sound. Women are either flaky as shit or lying, so if you trust their words you are bound for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:43 PM
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You can't equate a con aimed ad comic book nerds with a stripclub. A stripclub is upfront about its intentions. Hell, even and erotic con is upfront. You can't go to such an erotic con and be surprised that a lot of the women there are pornstars. But the goal of a comic con is not sex but comic books. Its not about showing skin or getting laid. Normally, you are can go to such a convention and expect to meet women who are sharing your passion for those books.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:12 PM
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100% agree. If men do the same thing as those women do, they are skinned alive. But if women use those same manipulation tactics they are praised for it or at least the man is being blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:54 PM
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I love that the most common advice for men is to go out and socialize. To do those things that make them happy and see if they meet women with whom they hit it off. But heaven forbid those men complain that the women they meet at those gatherings are literal prostitutes who are only in it for the money. How dare those men expect that the advice who was given to them is actually working! Dear men, let me tell you one thing: No matter what you do, no matter how much effort you put into something, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:48 PM
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"You should go out and socialize more. Go to events that bring you joy, mingle with the people and you are bound to meet women who have the same interests as you so you. Wait, why are you angry that those women are literal prostitutes who are only in it for the money? They don't owe you anything!” You can't win as a man. Damned if you do, damned if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:35 PM
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Until you find out that it doesn't matter if you view them as people as long as they don't view you as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:45 AM
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But wouldn’t the virgin one day cheat or be like “I missed out” “I need to find myself” or whatever then sleep around? Even if she is in a happy healthy committed relationship, wouldn’t that not matter anymore because she wants to experience others? She thinks she missed out on such a “fun” experience. I always wonder about the millions of men who also don't get to experience this. Who are simply not attractive enough to have a hoe phase. Are they also encouraged to divorce/dump their current pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:43 AM
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I always ask myself: Why should I care what kind of education my partner has? Does it at any value to her that she has the potential to earn a lot of money? I'm sorry but I'm not that materialistic. In fact it might even hinder the development of a relationship if she has a job that is as stressing and demanding as mine. Even if you come forth with the argument that you need a second income to sustain a family, someone less educated job has more freedom to work part time. she may prefer a guy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:36 AM
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This hatred against women in long term relationships is just horrible, she must be either settling or she must be cheating arguments, could it not possibly be that she actually cares for the guy? Coming around after finding out that those hot guys won't commit and then going for someone because he offers a stable life sure doesn't sound like she cares for him. She cares for his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:28 PM
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Because those men are too ugly to be consindered real human. When women complain about not getting quality matchen they don't want to be told that maybe they are the problem, they want to hear that it is totally fine to shoot for the stars even they themselves can barely leave the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:04 PM
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Honestly, men should stop worrying about being seen as misogynistic for not wanting to date someone who has slept around. If you don't want to date this kind of women, thats totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:19 AM
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Let me tell you the story of an acquaintance of mine. I wouldn't call him down right ugly per se but he is everything but handsome. Now this guy is in a relationship. The girl he is dating is well hated by absolutely everyone I know. She is ugly in every sense of the word, outside and inside. Nobody in their right mind would date her. Now this guy is not in his right mind. He is nearing 30 and she is his first real girlfriend. He spends an awful lot of money on her, taking her to trips and besic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:15 AM
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Getting older and more bitter with each passing day is definitely gonna work out for you in the end. The good thing about the irrelevance of personality is: This will neither increase or decrease their dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:32 PM
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Everything you post online will be there forever. The internet never forgets. So you have to be extra careful what you post and reveal about yourself. This doesn't just include dating, its also important when it comes to finding a new job. Your social media is your online persona, especially if its linked to your name. For that reason, I don't use social media expect a few sites like reddit. Reddit allows me to stay anonymous, at least in a way that they can't find my account by just googling my…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:06 AM
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The most important thing to understand is: Women don't view average or below average men as human. In fact, they don't think of those guys as someone with feelings, desires or sexual thoughts. That would require empathy and the effort to see the other person as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:45 AM
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I don’t get why men can’t get thru their baggage when they meet the right person. Because it was not the right person. I know its popular to blame men for absolutely everything that goes wrong but just maybe the woman was simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:37 AM
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You also need to have a certain lifestyle to attract that crowd. That lifestyle consists of having a very active social life, going out on a lot of trips, having a killer Instagram, etc. Thats called advertising. If you have money and want others to know it, than you need to show it off. Pics of expensive trips to exotic locations do that. Wear some overpriced fashion brands do that. You don't need a lifestyle you just need to show that you can afford this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:35 AM
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Daughter: Tell her to reflect on her choices. If she is struggling, than simply because she made bad choices. The dating world is her oyster and if she keeps fumbling it, than most likely because she choose the hot guy who was bad news from the start. She needs to learn that those grey average male NPCs she sees in a daily basis are actually human too. Son: Boy, you are either hot enough to make the cut or accept that you will be settled for. Just make sure that you stay in shape, being fat is u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:17 PM
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Why wouldn't guys take the red pill. Because its snake oil. It tells every men that they can achieve a harem of Supermodel Nymphomaniac begging to suck their cock at any time. Thats bullshit and most of those redpillers know it. Unless you are hot enough to pull this shit of, you are bound to fail. They sell their products and if its not working, you didn't spend enough time (aka money) on the redpill. Honestly most Red Pill Gurus are like women: They don't care about the average guy, they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:09 PM
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Its ironic that those who say that they can go without sex are the same people who have it frequnetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:29 AM
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That poor guy will never know why he got blocked after a date he thought went well. Redpillers really don't need to advertise their stuff, women will do it for them and for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:23 PM
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The issue is some men who have issues with dating are neither nice (hate that word) The biggest irony of all of this is, that those men were really as horrible and manipulative as women claim they are, they would actually be attractive. Women love those men with an edge. So there is only one explanation: Those guys were not physically hot enough to behave like they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:19 PM
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Its shifting the blame back to men. Its not that those men were being misled by women who apparently don't even know themselves what they really want, no those men simply didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:17 PM
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I'd tell men to be careful when listening to women's advice on what they want...data and overwhelming experience shows its not true Never listen to what women say, always watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:14 PM
1

I'm willing to bet that most women give this advice to weed out the guys they don't want to deal with at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:03 AM
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Actually, I’m willing to bet more attractive men have more healthy relationships with their emotions on the account of women wanting to participate in his emotional expression since they like him. That is a very important sentence right here: Attractive men are allowed to act like they really are. They can express themselves how they feel or what they think freely because they got the Halo Effect working for them. Thus the "confidence" meme came into existence. Their "confidence" is nothing more…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:43 AM
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I’m guessing what people are upset about is OLD made it easier for average women, but not average men, to vault themselves into the happy hookup category. What many people don't seem to understand is, that its not only about making hook ups easier for women, it made dating into a constant source of attention, validation and ego inflating confidence boosting. Women demand way more than they bring to the table and feel every right to do so because the next match is just a swipe away. Really, if pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:17 AM
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Her age - 16. When the N Count is higher than that, thats to much. I prefer this method because: It counts age into the equation. A women who is older can be expected to have slept with more people. Sure, this is not limitless but its a decent rule of thumb. 16 because the average age of losing your virginity is 17. So a seventeen year old can be expected to have had at least one sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:33 AM
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My circle of friends is pretty diverse when it comes to age, ranging from early 20s to nearly 50. There is a generation gap for sure, the older ones met their SO in rl, through hobbies, friends and social activities. The younger ones met their so mostly through apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:13 AM
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In my experience, genuine female friends speak very honestly about their own priorities and desires, and they occasionally will drop some redpills. In my experience, women are far too detached from reality to give a genuine advice. They always give generic advice because they simply don't care or don't understand. I don't blame them tho. They don't know how to attract women because they don't see 80% of men as real humans with actual feelings, desires or sexual urges. For them, they are grey NPC…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:43 AM
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So again, will you engage with the fact that a shut-in is less attractive than someone who goes outside and actually does stuff? Cuz that's the crux of the issue, regardless of region, income, or other variables. No I will not. Because again, your hobbies can be boring or adventurous, people will not care about them. If you are attractive, your hobbies are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:14 PM
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Now, are you gonna engage with the fact that certain hobbies, interests, and lifestyles are inherently more niche and unattractive than others? Thats what I meant with my original statment: People just have hobbies that don't interest others
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:45 PM
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If I live in Wisconsin and visit parks, landmarks, and yes, the Cheese Museum, I'm a lot more interesting than a New York that never leaves his (friend's/family's) basement. And a New Yorker will never be interested in your Cheese Museum. Thats what I'm saying: You like being outdoorsy and for the next guy it will be the most boring shit he ever heard. Sounds like a dodge, I'm sorry. You're free to keep things private, but you're not exactly making the case for yourself or your argument here. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:29 PM
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Average men all around the world are settled for in relationships, married etc. Thats more like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:26 PM
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Tell me about your hobbies. Sorry, but I like to keep personal stuff out of this ok? I have hobbies outside of video games if that is the aim of your question. Maybe, but there's plenty of life to live right at home, often for free (or cheap). Go to the beach and surf, go hiking or camping in a local wooded area. Which leads us back to the first statement: Hobbies that interest nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:12 PM
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Women do not want the average man, neither for casual sex nor relationship. If you are an average men you will get burned regardless if you are aiming for something casual or something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:09 PM
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Women can bitch and moan as long and hard as they want but a men who slept with a lot of women will never be the same as a woman who slept with a lot of men. The best advice is: Get over it and choose your path wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:03 PM
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you are boring You are boring because you are not hot enough to be interesting you have no hobbies so you don't have something to talk about yourself. You don't have hobbies that interest somebody else. most interesting or rewarding topics to talk about are experiences, like trips with friends, unique experiences like when you visited a waterfall, or you did skidiving, etc. Because it shows that you have the money to afford to travel and do all those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:04 PM
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If they want the right kinda man for the right kinda thing they do. Sure if she wants the 6'2 billionair with who modles as a hobby she might need to dig a bit deeper. But finding an average guy is no obstacle whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:01 PM
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Find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:57 PM
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If the go too reaction is "Just pay someone" then yes that is the impression
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:54 AM
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It is easy for men. For the top 20% of men. Just not for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:53 AM
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....That is prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:52 AM
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And some wonder why men get the impression they are only a ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:38 AM
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I doubt that any chick ever needed to pay for OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:37 AM
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And women can suff they are interested in for free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:37 AM
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If they don't make an OLD, go out to kinky events or leave their home yeah. But unless you are a complete shut in who doesn't meet any people in any kind of way, she will find someone to live out her fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:16 AM
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And thats the saddest thing about it all: Men have to invest so much more to get what women get for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:14 AM
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"Personality" is cop out because its easier to tell someone to get into the hamster wheel and run then to say the bitter truth: You are to ugly. Its not that there aren't women in your league its just that they see you beneath them and have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:12 AM
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I can guarantee you, without any kind of doubts, that women can live out their sexual fantasies without any problem. Thats a hill I'm willing to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:56 AM
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I do get the feeling that it has nothing to do with the act itself but more with the fact that they might have to put actual effort into pleasing their partner. Like baking and planning romantic gestures take its time. The idea that they do something for their partner seems repulsing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:51 AM
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Its always good to see that women are the ones who are enforcing "toxic masculinity" more than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:48 AM
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later husband will never see, just because she loves him. Does she love him? Or does she love the stable life, the attention and the resources he provides? Because this sounds like she is absolutely not attracted to her partner at all. Sure, if she tried it once, didn't like it and don't want to do it again, thats a different story. But if she had a wild phase and now becomes a prude virgin, thats a telltale sign that the guy is being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:38 AM
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I think there is nothing more saddening than someone dying before getting to live out their deepest kink/sexual fantasy. Welcome to the life of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:38 AM
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Nothing is more telling about the entitlement of women and its effect it had on men that all of those thing are already considered the bare minimum. But sure, the bar is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:14 PM
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Replace "guy" with "Chad" this sub will agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:11 PM
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Wait wasn't there a whole notion that women make the men they want for a longterm relationships wait for sex? I think we had like a quadrillion threats about this the last couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:55 PM
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I don't think men should give advice to women, especially if they are much older. Same goes for women who give advice to men. It always comes with the taste that the best interest of the group giving advice is the primarily focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:14 AM
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And? If you're not willing to do that, then you don't deserve a relationship with her. If you need to spend 200$ on the first date you can just hire a prostitute. At least those are honest. Sure, some women are, and some men are assholes. Most people aren't like this. Not some, most women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:49 PM
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Who paid for the meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:40 PM
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I ain't sayin' she a gold digger...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:03 PM
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Aim within your league and ask girls out on an actual date, and you'll start to get dates and eventually a relationship. There are already three obstacles in this one sentence. Aim within your league I know its more meant at a jab at men who of course only go for Victoria's Secret Model yet it shows that the average women has no idea how the average man is treated in the dating scene. Girls in your own league still want Chad and they are not satisfied with anything less. and ask girls out on an …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:42 PM
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Dear men of PPD, if you are reading such comments, its important to understand where it comes from. In 99% of time its comes from a woman, from someone who can't comprehend, understand or care about the situation of the average male. Why you ask? Because women live in an ivory tower, so far detached from reality that they can't see anything else but their point of view. For them, “living for yourself.” doesn't mean that they actually live on their own, it just means they are taking the resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:29 AM
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The same guys who say women treat short awkward men terribly relentlessly attack obese women, promiscuous women, older women (how dare she age) and single mothers. They treat women like women treat them. Women just hear the echo of their own interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:01 AM
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I will survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:53 AM
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Why do you feel the need to deny the very basic fact that pursuing a woman is a more active decision than her accepting? Pursuing is one sided interest. Accepting is agreeing that you both have interest in each other. Just because a man pursues a woman doesn't mean she will accept his offer. It doesn't matter if the man is offering commitment or casual, women will pick from the contenders. All you can do as a man is throw your hat in the ring. The majority of men avoid actual commitment for as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:49 AM
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Pretty common RP talking point. That doesn't make it anymore true. Redpillers deluding themselves if they think that is true. Unless you are the Top 20% in terms of looks, you will not be the one to decide anything in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:41 AM
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Yeah I forgot for a moment that they view 80% of men hot as real humans. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:18 PM
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Why would you even want to live in a world where you believe that men have no power? Because thats reality. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. If she wants someone for a LTR, she can find someone. Sure it might require a bit more effort than finding a hook up, but its anything but hard. Yet women are so used to getting everything handed to them, even the tiniest bit of work they have to do becomes an insurmountable obstacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:17 PM
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I doubt this had something to do with college. In this day and age, with OLD around, most women will not be nuns.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:15 PM
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If half the world population is coming to the same conclusion, maybe its time to look inward and ask yourself why 3,5 billion people agreeing on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:09 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. I honestly don't know why women are so hellbent on gaslighting men in this regard. It doesn't matter if a man seeks casual sex or a commited relationship. In the end, women will decide. Really can someone explain this notion to me? Is it shifting the blame from their bad choices to men? Or deluding themselves that their failed relationship was caused a lack of commitment from the man instead of accepting the truth that they are not long term relationship ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:07 PM
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"Now that women want a serious relationship, men should just adjust to those wishes and shut up."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:03 PM
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Being able to hold a conversation and actually progressing it by asking questions on her own, not making me feel like I'm interrogating this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:56 AM
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I honestly don't care about the career of my potential partner. She can be a CEO or a cashier, all the same to me. One of the main things I see here are men feeling as if women just see them as a wallet which is interesting as the majority of women I know are university educated and pursuing a career they’re passionate about. They would never need a man to be their meal ticket. Why spend your own money if you have a simp paying for everything? The poor woman wants a rich man so she can have nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:16 PM
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There was this funny thing called feelings involved, his motives were beyond just trying to sleep with me. Then the gamble he took was even greater. Looks like the odds were in his favour but again: Survivor bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:33 AM
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Don't listen to what women say, especially on the internet. Watch what they do. Talk is cheap and even cheaper when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:21 AM
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Ok let me break this concept down into one word: Consistency. Men want a sexual consistency from women in terms how she gives out Sex. If you banged the hot guy within a minute of meeting him, but let your potential bf wait for months, thats an inconsistency which screams red flag. Different standards for different guys just means: “Hot guys get the action, you have to do the legwork.” I mentioned this to my male coworkers who were all “that’s way too much effort I would never bother going throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:18 AM
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Will you still get a lot of attention? Absolutely, no doubt about it. Will it be the attention you want? Less and less so. The men who had options before and didn't let themselves go will continue their path, but will go for younger women and women over 30 will see that effect. For every 10 likes/hit ons they had on dating apps, one or two were Chads. Now its only one or two Chads for every 20 likes/hit ons. And Those Chads will get fewer and fewer. Dating over 30 for women means that they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:08 AM
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they are ways to make what’s shitty less shitty when the root of the problem simply cannot be fixed. There a cope to fill the hole but you will always have a shitty life since other people will also have hobbies on top of a romantic relationship. You are not gaining anything, you are just missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:12 PM
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what? life? Dating I will never get the love poeple have for traveling the world. Such a waste of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:55 PM
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This always sounds like: I, myself, bring nothing to the talbe yet expect someone else to bring the whole dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:44 PM
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Just live like your 40 year old female counterpart. At some point, its not worth it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:26 PM
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but if she’s in good shape and keeps herself looking good plenty of men will still take interest. She will still get attention thats true, but the attention comes from less and less desirable men aka men in her own league. The hot guys are either off the market or are going for younger women so. Before age caught up to her, for every 10 average guys there were two hotties going for her. Now its only one hottie for every 10 average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:23 PM
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funny, charming, kind, persuasive, skilled So he has the potential to be a jester or a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:29 PM
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/Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:21 PM
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In general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:17 PM
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By listening to what women say instead of observing what they do. Never trust the word of a woman in terms of dating. They are way to fickle to rely on their words. Talk is pretty cheap but their behaviour tells you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:56 PM
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If you are attractive, being surrounded by women can help you. If you are unattractive, its multiplying by zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:50 PM
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Would you go out on multiple awesome dates, get into a healthy relationship and have enthusiastic sex with somebody you "tolerate"? That doesn't make any sense and what kind of resources are we talking here? But that is not the case. They don't go on awesome dates, they don't have enthusiastic sex because she is making him wait. Resources can be money, status, a stable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:36 PM
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The maximum potential of most men isn't even close enough to attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:32 PM
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Except Hot women and Chad Lets be real: As long as you are a woman, dating is easy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:27 PM
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A comforting lie to keep the uggos in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:25 PM
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I know its meant as an insult but this statement so close to understanding the whole problem, it can almost taste it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:21 PM
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So, she's less into the guy she wants for life (or for a long time) compared to the guy she wanted once, is that what you're saying? She desired the other or she wouldn't have slept with him. She tolerate the presence of the other guy, most likely because he brings some resources to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:14 PM
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As a sidenote, most women have had a hookup/ONS. So every guy "made to wait" should know that there's always another guy who "got it early". It's better to accept that and move on. Don't try to find out the reason, there's no point to it. If she is changing her standards for you, thats an immense red flag. She couldn't be clearer that she isn't into you but just leads on as a backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:36 PM
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Its the exact same. Because online has swept through basically every fiber of our life, you can't really separate it from "real life". Online has become an integral part of out daily lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:17 PM
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If they single you out to talk to them, go out of their way to spend time with you then yes. Normally they would flock to their bfs and let you come to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:20 PM
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Absolutely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:46 AM
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Person A sounds like a friend but not a partner. The difference between friendship and a relationship is physical attraction. You can have an amazing chemistry, if you don't get the spark on their appearance, its not meant to be a romantic relationship. You can't negotiate attraction. So its option B.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:41 AM
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Do the girls feel comfortable around him and open up because he doesnt try it on with them? Because women view those men not as fully human. They are jesters, therapists, a bundle of resources but not human. If you don't pass the looks threshold, most women will not care about you at all. They can't comprehend that those men have sexual/romantic thoughts, desires and feelings too. They simply don't care. There are basically to types of guys in the eyes of a woman: The hot guy who passes the look…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:43 PM
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Its not hard at all. There are two simple rules: 1.) Be attractive 2.) Don't be unattractive If you manage to pass the looks threshold, dating is nothing more than a breeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:43 AM
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Women have no problem using their sexuality or being objectified if it benefits them. They just have a problem being called out for it. How often have men been insulted by women with the variant of “You can't make a woman orgasm/you have never touched a woman”? They use sex as an insult and don't see a problem with it yet are surprised when men only view them through a sexual lens? I always get the feeling that in this case women want the cake and eat it too. Being viewed as more as their bodies…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:44 AM
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Define confidence Doing something while being hot Explain what you think is admirable about it The Halo Effect Give an example of being confident Being 6'2 What to do to increase confidence Get more attractive Confidence is a meme like man other tips here or on other side. A hot dude being insecure will be seen ans cute and adorable while an ugly being being confident will be seen as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:07 PM
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Can someone please explain to me why everyone is hellbent on diminishing the struggles of short men? Why do they have to fight every time to be taken seriously? Because they have a legit disadvantage in dating they can't fix and society/women would rather eat glass than have empathy for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:37 PM
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There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:27 PM
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And last but not least, it indicates that personality, life experience, compatibility-none of these things matter. My cumulative impression from all of this is that men don’t actually love women, not in the way you love a person, as greater than the sun of their parts. They just care about the parts. Thats absolutely true and I'm always baffled when women are shocked by this. I mean, you are the ones who cultivated this kind of mindset. The only advice all the pills, men, women and the crackhead…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:31 PM
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The only thing shocking about this is that all of those girls are plain and average. Please tell me again that women have it hard when it comes to dating. Their male counterparts are either being told to work on their personalityTM or post on RedPill Forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:41 PM
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I really do make every guy I like jump through many hoops, (or at least I do now) Thats so vague, that could so every way possible. If you got the feeling she is lukewarm about you and you need to proof yourself to her, yeah then leave. If she putting up barriers that other guys had not to overcome, leave. But if she is generally a person who is not jumping on someone within the first date or takes it slow with everyone, thats not a red flag per se. Maybe you are not compatible because you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:58 AM
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Women can get pregnant, men can't. Thats Life and its unfair, yet somehow in this case you can argue with nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:12 AM
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Same can be said about abortions yet somehow the only time nature becomes valid its when its used against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:58 PM
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Women want men to be more open about their feeling in an abstract concept kind of way. They want men as a whole to open up more, not the men they are involved with. The random guy on the street, the one colleague their barely interact with, the boyfriend of the sister of her best friend? Sure they should definitely open up, talk about their feelings and are allowed to cry. But the guy they are interested in a romantic or even friendship kinda way? Absolutely not. They don't like seeing the men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:55 PM
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How do those "worthless" men scrape by? By picking up the pieces nobody else wants anymore. I don't want to use the term "left overs" since thats icky but the concept behind it describes the situation pretty well. Those women are settling not for someone they are attracted to or even like necessarily, yet for someone who can provide a nice life and is enough of a sucker not to realise he is settled for or he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:58 AM
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For women its 30%looks 30%status and 40 personality As if a woman has to bring this much to the table. Nobody cares about her status in terms of money, career or what she can provide. A part time fastfood worker will be as desirable as a CEO. Honestly the only bar for women that might exist is not being fat ant even that isn't a total dealbreaker. Men are pleased with way less than women are so women are allowed to be as shallow as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:54 AM
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Just for the sake of the argument, lets assume everything you read here is nothing but the truth. The answer to this phenomenon is simply: Dating is hard as fuck for men. Because even with the constant gaslighting about how low the bar for men is, the Dating world is an atrocious place for men. Even the top men have to put in much more effort for diminishing returns then your average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:43 AM
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Because they have a lot more options. The end of one relationship for them is just the beginning of a new one. They don't dwell on the one that ended since a new one is already aligning itself on the horizon. If you can hop on Tinder and have three matches within 5 minutes, its pretty easy to forget one ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:43 PM
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Well if you are not one of the top 20% of men, that will be your relationship reality for you. Shes not attracted to you but to the resources you provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:36 AM
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Because he is the world riches man, he comes from money and throws money around like its candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:21 PM
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We Men have secret meeting once a month to discuss those things. And the latest football matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:13 PM
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Dating has changed to put all the choosing power in the woman’s hands, so we have to do what we can to make ourselves most likely to be chosen. Or change the playing field by rejecting more women, treating them like they treat the average men and held them to the standards they set for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:09 PM
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They date them to destroy the myth that women face any hardships in terms of dating or that the beauty standards for them are higher than those for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:06 PM
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The length is not important, whats important is the communication. Being open why you want to wait is crucial so you don't leave the other person guessing whats going on. If you need a few weeks before you are comfortable with sex, say so. If the other person dumps you because of this, you were not compatible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:12 PM
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If you are an average to below average looking man, "creepy" is the default setting of every interaction you have with a woman. You have to proof that you are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:08 PM
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Would it be better never to be attractive to women? Those women still don't find you attractive. They find your resources attractive. You don't matter at all. You are getting a bad deal out it all the way: You have to work hard to get some an attractive man got for free in a better quality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:08 PM
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"The result is a large number of men fighting over a comparably small pool of women, which allows women to choose potential matches very carefully. Meanwhile, men with profiles that are less attractive are left high and dry."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:38 PM
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While women swipe more than men overall, they are far more selective when doing so. Women swipe yes to just one in 20 people while the majority of men swipe yes more often than no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:14 PM
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To swipe left on anyone who isn't a Top Tier Supermodel and then complain that they have it as hard as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:05 PM
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You may claim "I am slim so I deserve a slim partner" but I believe this doesn't make sense because the ideal male body type is muscular and big- not just slim. The female ideal body type is slim so if a women is slim she can choose from the pool of muscular gym bros. Maybe this is where guys go wrong in dating- thinking they have low standards when really they don't. Just realize if you want a slim partner you are competing with the top 50% of guys for that women. Especially if you are an avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:14 PM
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Dating is more fun for women because they can skip the most irritating phase of dating: Doing the first step. They can concentrate their whole attention to the actual fun part about dating: Getting to know the other person. They don't have to do the approach, they can pick one of the suitors of their liking, give it a run and see where it goes. Men on the other hand have to do the leg work. Approaching, staring the conversation, writing the first message. Thats what the most tedious part of dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:45 AM
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Men: "I always liked my girls thick, no I like them a little thicker" Women: "I had fun with hot guys in my 20s but now that I'm getting older I'm totally into avarage nerd who just happen to make a bit of money" Yeah, totally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:01 PM
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Time isn’t infinite to spend it all solely on sorting through dating options. Thats how dating works. You will have to spend time sorting through those options to find the right person. You can't just snap your fingers and the right person will appear. Its try and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:17 PM
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Oh no, those poor women and their endless options. Would someone save those poor souls already?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:26 PM
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Sure blame men for this. I mean why make dating easier for men even if they are already the ones who have to put in massive effort to find someone? It seems like everything that might benefit men is seen as bad right from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:24 PM
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Well if they think I'm lying they can swipe right and see if I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:20 PM
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Yeah I also realised a lot of women are abysmal at sex. And the thing is: They are proud of it too and have no intention of changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:03 AM
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If im initially attracted to a woman because of her looks/shape, then there is absolutely nothing wrong or upsetting when a woman is initially attracted to a man because of his status/money he makes. There is a difference between being attracted to a body aka the women or the money aka the resources. In the first instance you are still attracted to her, you like her body, thats still her. You can't replace her easily because there is no women with the exact same body as her. Money doesn't have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:58 AM
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I put "looking for something serious" on my Tinder profile just to see if it would change anything. It did nothing. Women don't care about longterm or shorttem in the first place. Either your looks catch her eyes or you're out, no matter your ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:47 AM
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Yeah because the majority of men never gets to experience what it feels like to be desired. How can we empathize what it like to be fetishized if we don't even get the first step which would be positive desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:41 AM
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Ah the mystical lonley woman, a creature so rare even unicorns ask themselves if they even exist. There are two reasons a woman is lonley: She doesn't leave the house, has no OLD account and interacts with absolutely no one She wants to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:58 AM
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This sub just showed me that I am not alone with my experiences. That many men had the same or at least something extremely similar happening to them. This sub is just meeting point for experiences when it comes to dating, maybe a bit biased towards the most extreme examples yet that doesn't make them any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:37 PM
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Nobody cares about your attitude if you are not hot enough to even intrest her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:18 PM
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Which means that you must put in effort (either through approaching or slef improvement) to attract someone below your league. No women will love you for who you are unless you are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:17 PM
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Yeah its abundantly clear that you are not a man. Its no wonder why women always try to punch above their own weight, they can't seem to estimate their own league at all. If you are a male 5 and a female 5 rejects you its not about you not being a 5. Its about the female 5 wants at least a 7. logically one would have to ask is it the ugly women or is it me The woman settles for someone she is not attracted to yet provides stability. Someone who is objectively above her league but since the stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:33 AM
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Why can't you just smile at women like normal guys? Beside the fact that this doesn't adress the topic of the post it also doesn't work if you are not hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:05 AM
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Beauty can definitely change during your lifetime. If you were a fat slob in your twenties and then got in shape when you hit 30, you will be more attractive than you were before. Yet generally speaking, younger people have the biggest potential. Sure you can age gracefully but time will take its toll. I go to the gym regularly and I see a lot of fit women in their 40s. They look good, for their age. And thats the key phrase “for their age”. The standards of what we consider beautiful age within…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:59 AM
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Ugly women would have accepted you as is, you didn’t want her. Ugly women don't want you too. Thats something most women don't seem understand. The female 5 won't be attracted to the male 5, she doesn't even see him. A female 5 still wants and only wants the Top Tier men. It seems like you believe that ugly women don't have the same insane standards as a beautiful woman. So a male 5 has to acquire extra resources to even be seen as an option by a female 5. And its not like she will be head over …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:49 AM
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Because as a women you will never have to deal with a tenth of the struggles men have to face in terms of dating. Of course you are not angry, you already won.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:58 PM
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The options available at this point are nowhere good enough to compensate for the effort put in to acquire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:30 PM
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The incompatibility is that you don't meet her height/look demands. I really don't get why so many people are hellbent on gaslighting dude into believing that they just had bad luck when in reality its the combination of unrealistic female standards and avarage male looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:21 PM
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The standards of what we consinder pretty will rise. There will be a lot more people being seen as ugly in the future simply because the tiniest flaw will make you unattractive. There are so many exmaple of beautiful people on soical media that the average schmuck can't keep up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:21 PM
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Sounds like what you need to hear is "Love is like a dog. Chase it and it'll keep distance. Sit down, relax, have fun and do what you like, and it'll come around sniffing you, wondering what you're doing." That goes only for women. If you follow this advice as a men you sure as hell will end up alone. Women won't to the first step, women will not approach you in any form and if as a men you are nor active it will never happen. Only women have the privileg to sit down and wait for a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:09 PM
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Women have an abundance of possibilities at their hand. If they can't find someone worthwhile even withhin this large pool, their the only ones to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:44 PM
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Women can also easily find someone to date. He might not be the perfect 10 but if women want a relationship, they can find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:31 PM
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I, for myself, don't have such a story in any shape or form. But I do have a lot of stories about girls being friendly with me only to find out they were far from flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:22 PM
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Because only a few men will ever experience how it feels like when a women is truly, deeply attracted to you on a raw emotional level. The attention they receive from women is so lukewarm and neutral, its ambiguous that it could mean everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:20 PM
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Some highlights from the study, just food for thoughts. About women seeking relationships Men are far more likely than women to be on the dating market: 61% of single men say they are currently looking for a relationship or dates, compared with 38% of single women. The gender differences are heavily concentrated among older singles. While men and women younger than 40 are roughly equally likely to not be looking for a relationship or dates (33% and 39%, respectively), men and women 40 and older …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:08 PM
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The majority of people men will go their own way and learn to enjoy all the other aspects of life by challenging themselves with careers, hobbies and experiences. Lets paint the real picture here. This will only be true for men since women will never have a hard time finding someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:58 PM
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On tiktok they are pushing for withholding sex and demanding men get vascetomies if they even want sex. Apparently women don't realize porn and video games exist. Also apparently women don't want/need/enjoy sex otherwise this strike would hit them too. Turns out sex is really something a man does to a woman. You live and you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:02 PM
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I will only have unprotected sex with a man that buys me a house, car and can provide good schools for my kids + make me a SAHM. Otherwise get a vasectomy pls(my man is already getting one) Easy solution: Have safe sex then. I honestly never understood how you can have unprotected sex with someone you are not in a committed, long term relationship. Not even talking about pregnancies but I don't want to catch an STD. I hope more women see this as a sign to not give casual sex to men who don’t des…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:01 AM
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The irony of women claiming the abortion ban is effecting men because they will get less sex ist hilarious to me. One on side women don't want to be seen as sex object yet as soon as something like this happens their reaction is taking sex away. It always seems like they know exactly how much power sex gives them and they are not afraid to use it yet they don't like the downside that comes with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:50 AM
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My honest opinion: The best way to stop abortion is education. Teach people how to use contraceptive, make those available for everyone and educate about sex. Reduce unwanted pregnancies and you will reduce abortions. If those measurements are in place, I am in favour of outlawing abortion unless its for medical reasons or rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:44 AM
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The majority of women are abysmal at sex. With all women I ever slept, none of them were able to communicate their desires, asked me about what I want and basically acted like sex is something that is done to them rather than something two people engage together. Yet the burden of perormance lies to 100% on the men while in 9 out of 10 times, its the womans fault that the sex is bad for her any quite possible for him too. Because either she doesn't communicate at all or she expect her partner to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:59 PM
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You can always express your emotions to your partner, in the right way. Lets not kid ourselves, men who are emotional, who cry, or who lash out will lose a big junk of attraction. As a men there is a certain way you can deal with your emotions and thats in a constructive way. Saying “I'm sad and now I will cry about it.” Big no. Saying “I am sad and now I will do x to make it better or have this plan at hand to overcome it.” Thats the right way. Whenever men and emotion are discussed I am always…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:11 AM
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You should always behave according to your looks. Attractive guys can get away with stuff an ugly will get skinned for. So yes, creepy means “Ugly guy acting like he is hot aka confident.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:59 AM
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But I notice that most men making this post want super attractive, model-teir women. How is this logical? I get that people want to be in a relationship in which they are attracted to their partner. But women also want the same. That's why super attractive women go for attractive, successful and well-adjusted guys. What is there to complain about? Everytime I read something like this I can't help but imagine an obese women complaining about that men prefer women within a healthy BMI range. Serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:57 AM
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So a big thing I hear is to become friends with women first. As a man, you can’t date women unless you have female friends. Cool, if that’s how it is, it’s how it is. Thats absolutely not true. Female friends can help you since they offer insight but they are only human too. I doubt that anybody will turn you down because you don't have any female friends. It rather that when you end up with friend group that only consists of men you simply live in social circles that don't attract many women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:40 AM
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I want something longterm, not a one time fling. It takes time for me to build trust and if I invest this much time and effort into getting to know someone it better be something I will get a lot of mileage out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:32 AM
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There is still a burden of performance even for them. Sure they will have it a lot easier, they get much more leverage in social interactions and more chances than the average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:05 PM
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Hot women '> average women '> hot dude '> ugly women '> average dude '> ugly dude. Thats a hill I am willing to die on. Sure, the only one who really have a super easy life are hot women. For them, its a breeze. Every other member of the chain above does struggle. I doubt that the daily struggles of the average women and the average men are this different when it comes to finances, job, adult stuff, social interactions and generally surviving in this hectic stream of stress that is our modern li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:51 PM
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Do they really not realize that there are plenty of women just like them that struggle to find someone who is interested in them and will treat them like a person? Because their problems are ten times easier. If someone can hop on Tinder and get more matches in 15 min than most men get in 15 months and yet still complains about not finding someone suitable, thats laughable compared to the grind men have to put into to get even one match. And even then, the whole burden of performance lies on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:04 PM
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I mean they go on dates with me and I make my intentions very clear. I banter with them and try to match the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:22 PM
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My perspective is, that as a man you will have to put so much effort into dating for little to no results. The burden of performance always relies on us men. We need to focus on your selves to build something that attracts women. Yet even if we do, we are still the ones who initiate the whole interaction. We are expected to do the first step, approach and basically do a monkey dance. And even after all of this, after all the effort put in, the women you attract often lack in quality. Just to car…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:58 PM
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I would not describe myself as a catch yet as a decent fellow. I have a large group of friends so my personality can't be this rotten, I take care of myself by working out, I have hobbies and interests that go far and beyond video games, I go to social gathering and mingle with other people and I have a stable career. On paper, I tick a lot of boxes that should attract women yet nothing seems to materialize into something longterm. I get dates yet those dates always seem to find someone better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:42 PM
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Because she wanted to have sex with someone who actually knows what they’re doing and is a good lay one last time before she died? Love how the burden of performance is always on the man, its never the women. Yet people wonder why it is a common notion that sex is something men do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:15 AM
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Just matching the energy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:09 AM
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I always wonder were those mystical average dude/hot girl couples are. They seem to be everywhere yet I never see them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:54 PM
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Or maybe women are just abysmal at flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:52 PM
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What's a man gotta do to get sex? First of all he needs to pass a certain looks threshold to even have a chance. But thats not enough, unless you are the cream of the crop, you still have to do the approaching. You need to strike up a conversation, you need to be witty, charming, funny and basically entertain her long enough so she is convinced to have sex with you. I don't know if “conquest” is the right word for it but men need to put in a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:00 AM
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I don't believe that men are the gatekeepers of relationships or else the most common dating advice for men would be: Don't go for casual sex but for commitment and you are golden. Women don't jump on a guy just because he offers commitment, the bar isn't even close to be this low. But there is one thing that is true: Men are pickier when it comes to a LTR then they are for causal sex, which makes it harder for women to get a relationship than it is for them to get sex. For a relationship, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:05 AM
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Sex/Dating for men also carries a huge risk, yet nobody talks about it. STDs are not a one way street, pregnant women can get an abortion while men have absolutely no reproductional rights and being stalked by a woman is nothing unheard of. All of this are already risks men take when it comes to sex and sometimes it gets even worse with false rape accusations. (I don't want to start a garbage fire and discuss how high this risk actually is. All I want to say that that those things do happen so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:06 PM
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I somewhat agree, I somewhat disagree. I agree that you should feel ready to date someone. Relationships are hard work, there needs to be effort put into it and managing your daily life with someone by your side can be as rewarding as it can be challenging. So yeah, be ready to continue the work even if you are in a committed relationship. I disagree that you need to know who you are if you want a relationship. Life is a stream of events, some pass you by, some hit you hard, some change you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:45 AM
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Lower your standards or increase your value. Its nor “or”, most time its “and”. Men are put into a press every time they complain about dating. The upper plate is called “Lower your standards.”, pushing them down. Most times its an advice given out without even asking what the standards even are. Sure you want a nymphomaniac Victoria's Secret Supermodel? That might be a bit high, but most times the average dude just wants an average women. Yet even those women have standards that exceed way abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:06 AM
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Reality is a complex construct that can never be depicted in its whole, no matter the subject. There are may to many nuances, outliers and strange things going on. The only thing you can do it boil it down to some very basic core statements and even them are not the answer to everything. Especially when it comes to topics that involve human interactions, they are all flawed because they are heavily influenced my personal experiences, which on its own is a factor this gigantic that alters the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:46 AM
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Whenever a man asks for advice when it comes to dating, one of the most common answer is: Focus on your career. Make something out of yourself, build something that attracts women, how can you even expect women to look in your general direction if you don't improve constantly. Men are being told that they need to prove themselves before they are considered dating material. And now we are getting angry that some men, maybe the majority is worried that they are only valued for the things they prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:30 PM
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Taking care of your body and maintaining a healthy weight. Everybody should look out for their own body, mend and women. Exercise regularly, watch what you eat and keep your weight in check. Thats something thats totally within your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:03 PM
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Ah yeah, the "The bar is low" argument. The bar is low for men who pass the look threshold and who make more than just a few bucks. I don't know why there is such an enormous effort put inot gaslighting men into thinking the dating market is not stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:19 PM
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Men want someone lesser Lesser in what regard? Looks? Income? Intelligence? And why should men want someone like that? I doubt that anyone wants to date someone who they see as below them. Most people want a partner on the same level or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:16 PM
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I wouldn't say that they hate sex, its just that the majority of women are abysmal at sex. With all women I ever slept, none of them were able to communicate their desires, asked me about what I want and basically acted like sex is something that is done to them rather than something two people engage together. I mean sure, if you only get bad sex, then the act itself doesn't seem desirable at all. More like something that need to be done to keep the man happy instead of a joyful experience for …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:34 PM
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I have never gotten any kind of advice at all, no matter if friends or family. I never really thought about it until today but yeah, all I know from dating are my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:57 PM
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No its not our job but its a job nobody else will do. Women rarely approach so who else will do it? As long as there are enough men out there willing to take the risk of approaching, women will not be forced to get into a more active role when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:50 PM
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If a potential gf wants me to change how I interact or even cut ties with my female friends because jealousy thats a red flag. A relationship should be based on trust and if she can't trust me that a platonic female friend is nothing more than a platonic female friend, thats a pretty shaky foundation. It reeks of “Accuse the other side what you are guilty off.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:27 PM
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Don’t complain about your relationship to opposite sex friends. At this point I believe that if you feel a semi-frequent need to complain about your relationship at all, that’s probably a red flag. But if you must vent, save it for same-sex friends. Even opposite-sex friends that feel totally platonic to you could potentially see this as an open door. Not everyone of your opposite sex friends wants to bone you, most of them are really just your platonic friend without any ulterior motives. You s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:19 PM
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You are not even replying to my comment or the orginal topic any more and just firing out things that upset you. I don't know why you feel like you need to defend promiscuous women this hard but I'm sure you have your reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:25 PM
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Why even call her the town bike if you don’t care? Its a term as ridiculous and over the top as saying that not dating those kind of women is abusive or controlling behaviour. Even the fact you thought to bring a woman down to call her the town bike means you care about her sexual actions. You care so much you spend time calling her insults to make yourself feel better. Of course I care about the sexual past of a potential partner. If she was promiscuous in the past and is no ready to settle dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:57 PM
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Blatant hatred towards natural/safe sexual desire is not having boundaries. Its about not dating those kind of women and nothing else. But that’s not what’s happening. Men are shaming and engaging in harmful, controlling behavior towards women. Not wifing up the town bike is not harmful or controlling behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:36 PM
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This hatred against "high n count" is jealousy. I really love how having some boundaries and standards for a partner is shamed to a point were you need therapy if you don't want a partner who slept around. If you don't want a woman with a high N count as you partner, you have every right to reject her and there is nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:25 PM
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A man needs to believe the woman isn’t lying about her intentions either. The sheer fact that people already go into the dating world with that kind of sentiment in mind shows that there is something deeply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:20 PM
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If this was the case a man who stated that he was looking for something serious would not have to fight against the caveat that he might be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:27 PM
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At some point we will make dating this unattractive, bothersome and horrific that the only in vitro fertilization will keep our species alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:42 AM
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They shouldn’t. But they aren’t representative of most women. Thats true but thats also the case for most men. Yeah that’s why women don’t automatically jump to BB… As long as she is able to find someone who is attractive then yes. But BB starts once those options started to dwindle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:39 AM
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But how ugly and bad personality or mental issues must a woman have to have to end up with a guy with sub moderate attractiveness? There are also female slobs who are fat and ugly. Why should they date someone who is far above them in terms of looks and personality? My point is that when women fail at top in beta traits but moderate in alpha traits, they will go for top in alpha traits and moderate in beta traits So women go for basically a slightly altered version of the first guy: Someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:40 AM
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Women at first date the "stable" guys, who might be moderately attractive (like, attractive but not the men TRP idealises) and less masculine than the Chad in both appereance and behaviour. I guess that is the key phrase: Those guys are also attractive or at least attractive enough to get female attention aka they pass the look threshold. He is not some fat ugly slob. She isn't not with him solely for the things he provides but because she actually thinks he is attractive, those other traits are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:55 AM
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It's almost like it's really simple and everyone already knows Its more like there is no need to discuss this because men are vocal about what they want when it comes to sex. Just because its easy to find out what it takes to turn a guy on doesn't mean its simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:21 AM
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Men don't gate keep relationships while women gate keeps sex. I never understood the sentiment that men gatekeep relationships. Sure, some men just want something casual but the key difference is: If a man wants a relationship he can't just hop on Tinder, state that he is searching something serious and immediately he drowns in matches or potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:16 AM
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This sounds like that being seen as the stability guy comes at the cost of being someone she is actually attracted to. Why should I provide stability to someone who would not fuck me because she is not as attracted to me as she was to other people? I don't think I'm getting a good deal out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:21 PM
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It sounds like your point is that being allowed to treat women like garbage is the goal. I never said something like that at all. All I meant is: Your personality should fit your looks. The hotter you are, the more leverage and leeway you have. You can get away with behaviour an ugly dude would get skinned for. But just because you are hot doesn't mean you are an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:13 PM
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The answer to this question is: Whoever looks better. Sure if the shy nerd in this situation doesn't go out at all, spends his whole time alone in a basement and basically ever meets anyone, his chances of losing his virginity are zero. But an ugly social butterfly will have a sound group of friends but sex is a whole different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:10 PM
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People with all kind of personalities enter relationships, have sex or a family. Assholes, Nice Guys, Social Butterflies or doormats. Because in the end your behaviour will be judged on how attractive you are. An attractive asshole will be seen as confident, assertive and determined. An ugly asshole will be seen...well as an unpleasant asshole. An attractive nice guy will be seen as gentle, sweet and good to be around. Your behaviour should always fit your looks. Doing it the other way round is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:01 AM
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I guess it depends what you want from your dating life. If you want a LTR maybe thats just something you need to live with. Or you can try to find the unicorn who like you for who you are. But then be prepared to spend a lot of time searching with little to no success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:27 AM
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If we take as an axiom that men must be fundamentally different from themselves in order to be successful, why would they ever settle or marry a particular woman since her interest is based upon a fake persona? The core advice everytime a man complains about dating struggles is change or modification. Change/modify your hobbies to be more interesting, change/modify your career, change/modify your wardrobe to be more attractive, change your approach towards woman. We are always told that our true…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:30 AM
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Women will lie about how much sex they had, Men will lie about how little sex they had. One gender gets rejected because they had to much sex, the other one because they didn't have enough. At the bottom line, everybody lies about their sexual history because the truth will make them less appealing. And to be honest: I don't see a problem with that. As long as it isn't about something serious like a STD, nobody gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:00 PM
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No not really. Probably because I always saw woman as just another human being who you can talk to like you would with a guy. There was no "mystique" In terms of dating, most advises I received from woman were not helpful or so basic that they never made a real impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:40 PM
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