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Usually AI adds some really cheesy sentences somewhere that no human would ever write. Like "In your quest towards higher status with women be sure to not forget these sneaky 3 low status habits that most men are stuck doing."
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 04:21 PM
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Where are you getting this from? Machine learning is still producing methods that companies don't have the funding to test today. I've been seeing reports that diminishing returns have been hit for the past 2 years now and each time a few weeks later a frontier model is being released. Open source is predicted to catch up to Claude Mythos in 6-12 months. Be sure to be intellectually rigorous and to not let your bias be exploited by fake news.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 04:20 PM
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I think you're delusional and sipping the cool-aid buddy
/r/MensRights30/03/26 01:15 AM
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And settling for a random desperate guy is winning in your books?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 05:23 PM
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I'll voice my opinion otherwise, the OP didn't even explain the video just linked it. Extremely low effort post and if you didn't vouch for it I never would've watched it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 05:22 PM
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I agree with what you're saying but disagree with your sentiment. I've been a coach and online service provider myself. Most people don't want solutions, they want entertainment and cope. You need to put out a lot of fluff content to attract the sedated massses, built credibility and then sell high ticket programs to the more serious people. A few in between will derive great value from free content and improve themselves but I think it's almost hard coded in our dna that over 90% of people are …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/26 04:54 PM
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For sure, just not to other men.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/25 03:49 PM
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Do they really fall for them or just have short term flings? Are those the men you want? Are those the relationships you want? I used to have the opposite problem than you and as a man be jealous of men who slept with a few different women each month. The more I got to know men like that though the more I realized it wasn't for me and they had their own life and psychological issues to deal with as well. My strategy is of taking my time to build myself to find the actual woman for me is the actu…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/24 05:55 PM
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It would give her the confidence to have that conversation, fair enough if she's not having these conversations in real life with friends that it would be a sensitive topic for her.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 05:48 PM
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I don't really like this idea. Plenty of girls I would fuck but are not really attractive enough that I would enjoy doing it and be proud of myself afterwards.
/r/seduction01/11/23 06:06 PM
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Normies have not lived through anything interesting nor met interesting people so when you tell them some wild story they automatically default to you must be bullshitting. Does hombre not think kidnappings happen in the US?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/23 09:35 PM
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Most likely, unless you're a total social dipshit, you did nothing wrong. Rejection is just part of it. Rejection is a part of it but you can always do better. Most people have the charisma of a wet sock and hot women included. Guaranteed that thehe guy who asked the original question hasn't even read books like How to win friends and influence people, the charisma myth or the likeability factor. I got to a professional level as a league of legends player and it's the exact same thing as real li…
/r/seduction25/10/23 05:40 PM
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Very true
/r/seduction25/10/23 04:51 PM
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Wouldn’t recommend kissing them all but I folded a few times. Why?
/r/seduction25/10/23 04:51 PM
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A lot of it is literally based on the definition of insecurity though; people argue that more promiscuous people are less loyal in relationships so they wouldn't feel as secure in a relationship with them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 04:51 PM
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Don't have to change the way you think; just the way you communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:20 PM
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There definitely are arguments for both sides. General advice would be self-awareness and knowing what you want in life. Dating a woman that doesn't want to fuck you often is a nightmare and being forced to fuck someone you don't want to is also a nightmare.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 02:44 PM
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I really like him and I see a future for us. But he loves to talk longwindendly about stuff from his career and his hobbie which he is passionate about and I find it very hard to pay attention to him while he does it because those things do not interest me that much. Is he a good and interesting speaker? There's something to be said about interesting things are only interesting when said by good speakers. If he tells you about his woodcrafting hobby then I don't exactly blame you for not being i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:01 PM
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Did you ever learn some game or did you just get lost in the theorizing and ideology that the red pill offers?
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 05:00 AM
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Which study do you source that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:29 PM
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There's a reason that serving others is so deep in religious teachings; it's literally a blessing. Having your woman go out of her way to help you grow is deeply nourishing to a man's soul. Serving the wrong person feels like trash but when it's reciprocated and both people lift each other up when they don't necessarily have to then you have a recipe for a great relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 06:58 PM
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I mean I don't know about the other cases but this one is a mess. An 18-year-old girl met up with a 36-year-old dude in Vegas who then got drunk with her and showed her his gun. She's apparently a runaway and throughout this incident tried to rob him and he lunged at her and she shot him. How do you even sentence someone like that? A runaway teen hooking up with drug dealers or wanna-be gangsters for a place to stay or entertainment? Fair enough if you wanna punish her but clearly it's an accide…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 04:23 PM
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I don’t know what that means
/r/MensRights30/07/23 08:23 PM
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Doesn't have much to do with the doll though; it's just a metaphor for talking about culture and gender issues.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 04:27 PM
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Creepiness is relative; evolutionarily it's a variation of feeling danger and uncertainty from someone. A creepy guy is dangerous in some way(going to touch you and sexualize you) in ways that you can't easily and reliably predict. The women that are willing to entertain such things and for who getting flirted with at the office is expected/wanted probably didn't describe him as creepy and the women who were more conservative/inexperienced/traumatized probably were the ones that did if I had to …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 06:17 PM
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Next time tell them "yes I am injured and I want a medic to evaluate me and I want a restraining order against my attacker". I thought about saying something like that but I knew if i had started "lying" she would have done the same, but only worse and they would have believed her. I mean she already was lying because once I told the cops she threw the keys away she said " no you did". You have to be very careful with crazy people like that. Me lying would have provoked her to lie more. Yeah, th…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:41 PM
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the ruler no matter how powerful, stays under the islamic laws preserved by scholars, and these scholars are not allowed to get too close to the rulers so that they can't be "bought" with money. Which country do you think abides by that idea?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 09:50 PM
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You're actually right, IMO Islam is even more beta and blue pill than Christianity. Are you kidding me, a religion where you abide by centralized power that you can't question while all your rulers and oligarch break all of Islam's tenets and keep all the power, money, resources, and women to themselves? The average Muslim guy I know has to ask his mom permission to go out past 10 PM; it's a great metaphor for the average man and woman following Islam.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 06:22 PM
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I mean it literally does. Not significantly but if all of her neighbors got fat then she would become significantly more attractive in that neighborhood in comparison. I don't understand your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:02 AM
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Can I ask if you consider yourself more or less attractive than the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:23 PM
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6) Some men would have been an excellent boyfriend, they just sucked at dating was all. Kind of like someone may have been an amazing employee, but just sucked during the initial interview process. I don't think it's that hard to figure out. Any man can go on 20 dates and really try to refine how he comes off. Most don't. Any man can get 20 dates, it takes a lot of effort to do photoshoots and refine your dating profiles but your looks are not what is gatekeeping you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:21 PM
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Doubt #2 workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah according to the CDC the median for a woman aged 25-49 is 4.3 partners so I think either most women don't go through this or the "hoe" phase for a lot of them is hooking up with two dudes after a long term monogamous relationship ends and then committing to the guy after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:31 PM
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I get it bro, being a virgin is nbd at that age; you can always lose it quickly if you want to. If you're 22 I'm gonna assume that you're in school and not working sales/starting your own business 12 hours a day. You should def make it a priority to spend 1-2 nights a week going out and enjoying the party scene. It will not only give you fun dating experiences but also make you a more well-rounded and confident person which will end up helping your career when you graduate anyway. People skills …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:43 PM
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Why not identify with and become Chad in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:37 PM
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In my particular case, I've met more women than men and have avoided befriending guys who were too focused on hooking up, Are you a man? If so wouldn't you want to make friends with the guys that get laid so you learn how to do it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:25 PM
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It is not love. No adult is loved unconditionally by another adult who isn't their parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:18 PM
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Fascinating. I thought chimps had a lot of male competition involved in the mating process. When a male wants sex, he shakes a tree branch or displays his erect penis to a female. They're all getting sued when chimp society catches up to liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:45 PM
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Like I know especially for chimps and other mammals, the females go in heat and then the males fight it out for access to them. Once the females go in heat they don't really pick who to fuck it's just whichever male is up goes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:51 PM
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Thank you for sharing, I hadn't considered the orgasm thing. I guess it's hard to say because yeah if it's a straight couple if you fuck, guy comes and then we chill for 20 mins and have sex again I would count that as having sex twice in one sex session? Lmao Asides from that obvious issue, I’ve personally never experienced it- my gf and I literally met at a BDSM club so sex isn’t exactly something either of us shy away from, and I would guess we’re pretty up there in terms of how much sex we h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:08 PM
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I feel like your comment half makes sense, some women do all you listed well but most don't. I literally see women posting blurry pictures on IG all the time! I had to get a DSLR camera and take a photography course to get good pictures of myself and my friends for IG/tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:00 PM
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I'm split on it, it does happen more effortlessly with some girls but you need to have your game tight to especially get good results with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:44 PM
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The free-loving hippies of the ape kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:42 PM
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This doesn't have anything to do with the OP but do you have experience of lesbian bed death? I was looking at stats per sexual orientation and lesbian couples have the least amount out of them, straight and gay couples. Can you speak on that if you don't mind/have thoughts on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:39 PM
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That's not love, that's trauma bounding. Neither of the people in those types of relationships gets to experience caregiving/stress-free love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:34 PM
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Fair, thank you for sharing. I'll have to research it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:27 PM
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Fair enough, I think this is correct for birds. I think for mammals though and especially apes it's mostly if not solely based on intrasexual competition for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:21 PM
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Are you sure the female picks from a variety of different males or the picking is the male fighting between themselves? I don't know much about whales but from this random article, the males compete in a "competition pod" to have access to females. Doesn't have much to do with a female picking from a line of males which one she likes best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:19 PM
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I think overall porn helps me keep focused and work otherwise I'd go out all the time to get laid. It's a good productivity tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:12 PM
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I think some of them are upside down or diagonal right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:11 PM
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Fun fact, the concept of consent for sex only exists with humans. For most species, females just go in heat and then the males closest to them just fight it out for access to mate them. That's why male cats/dogs will hump people or objects, they're just horny and will use w/e is near and feels good. That's why consent norms always ebbs and flows with current mainstream culture, it's something that we've evolved and keeps evolving through time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:10 PM
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How many matches are we talking about and have you studied online game texting? In my experience takes about 20 matches to get one solid date so when I used to get less than 5 matches a week I couldn't make anything happen. Then I got into photography and started taking it seriously and I could get 2-3 dates a week if I had the money to take them all out lmao. If you want any specific tips lmk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:02 PM
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So what exactly is your issue with dating? Can't you get plenty of cute girls from dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:51 PM
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There's a book on this called Why women have sex by doctor Cindy Meston and David Buss. They found 237 different reasons that cause women to have sex depending on different scenarios like moving up in their career, rebound sex, thrill-seeking, comfort building, loneliness, etc. There were like 5 reasons they found for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:50 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. I've heard that it's common for virgins that date a really cool guy from the start to get that FOMO to go out there and date/fuck other people since the first guy was great maybe all guys are great or even greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:40 PM
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That's what I'm saying so WHAT IS YOUR POINT? Nobody lives in an ideal world so men don't date supermodels and average women don't date 6'5 multimillionaires. Where is the problem? If you're 5'4 as a man you can have a great dating life and if you're a fat chick you can also have a great dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:38 PM
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I still don't understand your point. If I ideally want a $10M/year job and I get a $1M/year one, I'm pretty happy. I think that's a fair metaphor, doesn't mean that if in an ideal world, every woman would have a 6'5 multimillionaire that dating is ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:38 PM
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Have a decent source of income that lets you rent your own place and do basic fun activities, put yourself in environments with lots of single women, learn some basic game, be in relatively decent shape, have a decently cool social circle where you guys go out and do fun stuff regularly, etc. All of this sounds simple but it'll take you a few years of effort to get it together if you're not there yet. Once you do though then male dating strategy is not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:25 PM
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How does this mirror your real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:24 PM
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I don't know what your point is. Are you saying it's impossible to date if you're around 5'4 or that it's harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:23 PM
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Women's standards are fine, men just don't take the simple(but hard) steps needed to meet and be attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:45 AM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:07 AM
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I just want to give props to CNN for coming out with that piece, very positively surprised at how good it was. Scott Galloway is an excellent orator of men's issues and manages to do it in a very matter-of-fact way that's hard to hate on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:41 PM
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Not every man.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 04:55 PM
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As a man you don't get gifts; you take them.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 04:53 PM
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Makes sense, I've only tried dating in Canadian cities so can't really compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:07 PM
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Which other city do you compare this to? I don't really mean in general, women you meet through friends or at work are great. I mean the difficulty in meeting new women at night out in a bar, club, or a festival or something. Noticeably in Montreal women are way more open to being approached by strangers. I don't blame Toronto women, a lot of guys are not great about it but that's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:04 PM
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For real
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:57 PM
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I was just making a theoretical point that people are unable or unwilling to change to increase their dating success regarding way lower obstacles than moving to another country. Fair enough, I never know how to answer the comments on here lol. This subreddit is half sociological observations and half guys commenting about stuff that personally impacts them. I think both are interesting to talk about but I swear I often get into arguments on here with guys that tell me that they can't personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:57 PM
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Yeah, I 80% agree with you. It's more than a single comment can go into but what you talked about is lifestyle design. Basically, what is the life you wanna live and where can you live that life and meet people who also want to meet life that way? I think first of all the first step is to learn the basics of game and socialization in the place you're in and then travel to other places to see what the world is like and eventually move to the location that works best for you. All that being said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:50 PM
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Procrastination and arbitrary goals are a huge things indeed keeping guys stuck. If you're obese and over 40%+ then I understand your concern but if you're just a bit puffy and around 18-24% then you shouldn't delay taking action for the sake of only doing it when you have your perfect body. I'm way skinnier than I'd like, I'm 6'3 and 135 lbs. Ideally, I would be 215 lbs of lean muscle. Hasn't stopped me from hooking up and getting fwbs/a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:43 AM
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I think Montreal is really good for dating, school def makes everything easier though. Have you done much day/nightgame?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:42 AM
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He should at the very least travel so he has the reference experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:34 PM
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I think you're right that incels don't have the most to get out of this but actually the average guy does. The average guy who's somewhere around a 6/10 and CAN talk to women generally but just don't stand out massively or have the money to go out all the time in his own city. You take that guy to a city that works out slightly better for him and he's an 8/10 all of the sudden. This is the case for every single guy with a decent job going from LA/NY/London/Toronto dating crowd to a slightly smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:53 PM
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Yes, 100%. The difference between even cities in the same country can get enormous. In Montreal if you talk to hot blonde girls on the street they're very nice and open and easy to talk to. In Toronto, they tell you to fuck off and ignore you/are very standoffish most of the time. This is two big cities 1-hour flight from each other but similar things can be said about smaller towns, different countries, different cultures, etc. If you're a single straight man(men especially but women as well) y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:43 PM
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I doubt the guys that are checking out are the attractive men that these women are trying to attract. Most likely those guys are the guys spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:47 PM
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I can tell you dating apps for me have become a literal waste of time. I swipe yes on probably 70% of the women too. Have you ever gotten a photoshoot done?
/r/MensRights06/03/23 04:13 AM
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And what would be your judgment of a woman who wanted to partake in such an activity?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 09:15 PM
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What if it's just one gangbang? You don't think women should explore and stretch(no pun intended) the boundaries of their human and female experience? Legit question.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 09:01 PM
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I mean true lol idk why you got downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 09:00 PM
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Why? Wouldn't you say a similar thing to her?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 09:00 PM
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My point is that it's useless to talk about it, fix your situation or become a political activist. Most men struggling sexually doesn't mean you have to.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:52 PM
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Meanwhile if a girl says she doesn't give head I dump her on the spot. Agreed. Life is too short to not get your dick sucked often. They care for other traits more, like height. I don't think it's height, more attractiveness in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:55 PM
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Makes sense, girls in their 20s suck it for two minutes than get bored and we fuck. Which makes sense, most guys probably don't eat pussy any better but still; leaves you wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:16 PM
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How many girls are you meeting that can suck dick well :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:34 PM
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I’m not begrudging anyone their individual choice. However spending this decade, establishing a solid base for my relationship, and subsequently family; is one of the most fulfilling endeavours of my life. Are you single and working on your hustle so you're stable enough to support a woman and kids or do you mean you already have a girl and you're working together to get to that stable part?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:32 PM
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If you're broke it's hard to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:31 PM
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Well you're making two different points. You're saying that dating casually and experiencing different women until you're ready to settle down is better than just trying to go from LTR to LTR until you find your "the one". Which fair enough, my more interesting question to you is if you're seeing girls is it hookups or FWbs? I find a lot of men glorify hookups when they're not that great, I rather fuck a girl 10+ times until we get comfortable and then sex and hanging out with her gets way more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:30 PM
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I just don't understand your fundamental point though. If you're saying that men have a hard time dating whoever you are then sure. I'm saying that it's kind of irrelevant since you can get whatever level of success you want regardless. I guess we're arguing on what level of effort is worth to put in? Which fair enough that's a good question. To me personally, I find life kind of dull apart from hot women so if I have to read up and watch courses and approach women randomly and start a business …
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:35 PM
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I want to have intrinisc and sexual value just like women do It's a tradeoff. Your value is exponential. It's a better deal really. I want women to value my body & sexuality just like we value theirs You can; it's just not intrinsic indeed. You can have women lust over you just as much as men lust for IG models. It just won't come for free I want people to give me free empathy just like they do for women Why? And who do you want to do that? People on the internet or women in real life? Women in …
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:04 PM
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The average man does not put extra effort into his dating life. He goes to work and then mingles with women once in a while. This scenario will lead you to mediocre results. If you take this seriously(as I do and as all the men that are successful with women that I know do) you will get incredible results if you do it properly.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:02 PM
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This is not true though. There are literal female-led relationships, it's a type of kink. If you want a strong successful woman to take care of you and for you to be submissive to then that's totally possible. noones gonna give my any preferential treatment just because I have dick Is that really truly what you want though? Or do you want the tools necessary for you to make yourself into a powerful man that the woman you like will submit to? Or do you want some unpolarized egalitarian relationsh…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:00 PM
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Societies are not meant to support the common man. This is not a bug but a feature. Things are changing and becoming less competitive thankfully but the average man is supposed to be a slave worker, that is what benefits industrialized nations. The strong men either climb to the top of the system or branch out and create their own systems. This model doesn't work for everyone but we are not becoming a socialist paradise anytime soon so empowering yourself individually is your best option and it …
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:25 PM
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What exactly is your problem with that? Do you personally feel like you can't attract the women you like or is this social commentary? The reason I ask this is because I find this view of looking at things actually extremely beneficial personally. I hate the romanticized notion of dating where somehow you have to wander the world and attract your soulmate. If you're telling me that the only thing I have to do to get any type of girl I want is to get on my laptop after work and start my own busin…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:03 PM
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Thats like telling jews during the holocaust its not your fault that tens of thousands of military personal where searching homes kicking down doors and dragging people away but its your fault you personally got caught. You can't just take the general of the analogy and apply it to a whole different concept entirely; you're indeed not interpreting what I'm saying correctly. It's not because men in general have a hard time dating that you can't individually have a great and fulfilling dating life…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:46 PM
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What is it that you want? Do you want a successful woman to provide for you while you're a SAHD? I don't understand your comment, you're saying to succeed with women you'd have to put more effort than you're willing to?
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:40 PM
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It's not because the system is overall rigged that you can't individually succeed despite it.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:08 PM
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Albeit I'm not single but when casually engaging with women, I notice a reticence when I explain I'm not a personal trainer as they assume and I'm actually a lead engineer. Do you really think that an engineer would have a harder time dating attractive well-put-together women in a big city vs a personal trainer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:59 PM
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Why did you do better do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:57 PM
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Yeah, why don't I hear about this? You would think this would be a huge feminist talking point, 25% female fighting force is unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:22 PM
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You can't just say 10% of women vomit due to there pain. Maybe they do, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:18 PM
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The men left alive in Ukraine are going to be outnumbered by returning single women within the next two years. AFAIK the casualties aren't even 100k for Ukrainian soldiers and civilians while 4M+ of the Ukrainian women haven't returned. The men left there are also getting behind in their studies and careers while even the women that come back are gonna be used to Western living and dating standards. I don't think it's looking good for the Ukrainian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:15 PM
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I've never seen a clip with female soldiers in it, where is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:06 PM
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The US has the strongest demographics of any 1st world country AFAIK.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:05 PM
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So they're even more brainwashed. I guarantee the percentage of young people that own real estate and businesses is just as low as in America. Probably more corrupt if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:04 PM
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War plays on a guy’s natural instincts to defend and protect. They serve us propaganda to create an emotional need to want to serve, then they use us like pawns. Men need to say enough of this shit. For real. People who think fighting for your country is patriotic should read up on history and watch movies on WW1 trench warfare. Watch the waves and waves of working class and poor young men are sent from trench to trench as cannon fodder to make barely any progress while the rich people and offic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:03 PM
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What exactly is their home? The young men are probably too poor to own any property while the wealthy people that own all the real estate and the businesses are gone. The women, elderly, and children are also gone. Who or what exactly are they fighting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:59 PM
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So you think they're gonna live with, date and fuck western guys but then after the war is over go back to get married to Ukrainian men with now less life experience and poorer than the average western man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:57 PM
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It's already been a year, I'd say a lot of them are gonna start to assimilate and apply for citizenship and never come back. Young people were always trying to leave Ukraine for wealthier European or American cities and now they get visas everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:56 PM
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I mean that definition is too strict. Most people are working class if you use your definition, even people making 5M salaries. There has to be a difference between working people with 3 homes taking 3 months vacations per year and people who can't afford to call in sick for one day and live on foodstamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:47 PM
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The fact that you think some pain meds would help with endo proves your ignorance on the subject. While it is not a common ailment, I have seen women who have it literally vomit and pass out from the pain. The crazy thing is it's a very common condition, 10% of menstruating women have endo. It's very under-diagnosed though and most women think they have regular periods that are just painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:16 PM
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It has nothing to do with changing the world; it has to do with being an honorable man. That's like saying you should steal because no matter what some other people are gonna steal so it's fine. If your personal viewpoint is that hookup culture is bad for the world and you proceed to sleep around anyway then you're a hypocrite with no morals; no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:26 PM
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Being pregnant is a thing but she'll need commitment. Yeah for sure, that's another reason that being a passport chick is harder than for the boys; if you're coming from the US then pretty much every other country's men are poorer than the men you have access to at home. So I guess you would have to find a decently well-off Eastern European man who is looking for a relationship with an American woman. It's just a strange plan especially if you think about how America also comes with advanced hum…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:19 PM
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Those things help but are not necessary. How you compete depends on what you like and what your natural talents are. IMO it helps to look at dating purely transactionally; even though it's not fully how it works at least it's a more actionable framework than "be yourself" and "be nice to women." So find the girls you like and reverse engineer what they like and value. This guy on Tiktok plays guitar and sings for girls on college campus. He's short and not rich but the girls love it and are down…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:14 PM
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I don't think you have to be perfect but you have to have something to compete with. If you're average in every metric then that's more on you than specific traits you weren't born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:19 AM
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You're not a collective though, you're an individual. Collective stats are pretty much useless apart from context to predict individual outcomes. Especially if you tryhard you have a pretty good odds of getting pretty much any type of man you want. Here's a good example, the gals at Diala and Vindicta compiled a google drive full of seduction, flirting, and feminity books. If I were you I'd read some of them. I'd bet those 67% of black women without husbands haven't done that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 05:04 PM
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there’s the added complication that many men there wouldn’t want a Black girl. There are many beautiful women there and i don’t fit the standard. I think you'd be surprised, sure cultural standards can be pretty racist but on an individual level a lot of men want to have kids with women not of their ethnicity. Something about gene diversity. I'm half black and French and I get very consistent crushes on Vietnamese, Guyanese and Polish women(and they usually like me too), even without knowing the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 02:26 PM
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Have you traveled there before? Should be an interesting experience, why don't you think you would be desirable there?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 11:53 AM
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It's a massive difference. Women might not realize it but dating in western megacities the competition is hard af. If you're a 6', decently good looking guy, decently fit and making 100k you're about average. You can get some decent dates but you're not particularly special for the girls you're going out with and you still can't really attract the most attractive women; unless your game is somehow phenomenal. If you're anywhere below that, you're starting to have a really tough time. Take that s…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 09:04 PM
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Then it's on them for not being coachable. There are excellent dating coaches, personal trainers and stylists out there that will turn your average nerdy software engineer into a very attractive man. Most men aren't open to the idea of being coached and self-improving though.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 08:51 PM
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What type of men do you like and where do they live? The harder hurdle for women is that they usually date more up in terms of status and income so the idea of marrying a fit younger broke foreign man probably doesn't appeal to most women. The core principle is the same though, I would still travel a lot and consider yourself a global person; not just dating and live in your city. So if you're in the US make sure you live/travel to all the major cities, lifestyle and the men of each will differ …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 08:49 PM
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I've heard a lot about australian travellers and backpapackers as well. Do you know if their dating culture is awful or they're just used to travel considering they live on a small island?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 08:16 PM
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In the West, when a man does something that at least putatively serves his own interests instead of the Gynocracy's, it's some sort of hate crime against women. I think that's fine, you're not supposed to listen to the tribe's opinions anyway. Following mass consensus is made for women, children, and male drone workers. The alpha males either leave the tribe to make their own or take over the tribe. If you're a single man and you're letting social media opinions convince you away from at the ver…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 07:20 PM
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For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:04 PM
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Most women are never asked about their body counts. By partners or anyone else. Is this a theory you have or is that been the case for yourself and other women you know? I've asked even most girls I've slept with one time about their body count and every girlfriend I've had, not from a judgemental place but it's just an interesting pillow talk conversation to have. Most guys I've known are the same, some of them are very judgemental about it but a lot don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:01 PM
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They are majority coerced or trafficked. What do you mean coerced? A lot of people in sex work are perfectly able to get a regular job, they just like the freedom from the system that sex work provides. Perhaps they wouldn't do it if they had 50M in the bank but then we're all coerced to live outside of our perfect dream life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:36 PM
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Makes sense, thank you for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:16 PM
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These seem like broad generalizations that don't explain a cause as to why cohabitation would increase divorce rates by a third.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:08 PM
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In fact, on average, researchers found that couples who cohabited before marriage had a 33 percent higher chance of divorcing than couples who moved in together after the wedding ceremony. Are there explanations for this? That's drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:37 PM
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Another thing to keep in mind is that feminism and women or women's rights aren't the same thing. Feminism is a system of beliefs and therefore is like any other form of belief, subject to scrutiny. If someone calls themselves a feminist they should believe its dogma, if they don't then they aren't feminist. So it is perfectly fine to make generalizing statements about feminists as people choose to wear this label and this label comes with a pre-packaged world view. The problem with statements l…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:10 PM
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Maybe if the virgin in question really isn’t a natural at sex or has some issues with performance, the escort experience (depending on the escort) might be even more traumatizing for the poor guy or even give him a false sense of being good at sex and then get crushed with a regular girl when he doesn’t know shit. Personally I found it way easier to perform with an escort as I knew I paid there and she was there for me whereas with regular girls you can feel like you're letting them down and the…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 10:07 PM
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Guys don't talk about it much but it's way more common than you think. That's what I did at 18 and I don't regret it to this day. It's not the only route but depending on the guy, it'll take months of consistent effort and maybe even therapy needed to be able to break down the mental barriers needed to be able to casually talk to girls and have sex through game. Escorts are an easy way to tell your brain that sex is not that big of a deal and you can have sex with a woman. Then once you have tha…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 09:49 PM
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That's how you end up bitter and jaded. Women do not view you as defective or terrible for breathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:00 PM
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It's probably more useful to have an orgy than a lot of other police work. At least the boys are gonna be a bit more chilled out now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:49 PM
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Yeah for real, with all the media she's getting, that's an easy $1 million in the next few months if she started an onlyfans now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:48 PM
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Lmao, I think(I would assume) that generally, you have a more masculine and a more feminine one pairing up otherwise there wouldn't be any polarity. I just think that there are very specific things that activate a woman's sex drive and it doesn't seem obvious what would make it work in a lesbian relationship. Like for example, males generally are biologically wired to help out females. When they go camping or rent a cabin like who cuts the wood and does the boring manual stuff? I feel like even …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:31 PM
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Relationships are very transactional, just not openly so. Kind of like how a friend does something for you sometimes and you help them out as well, there are no clear terms though. Maybe an exchange of value is a better way to word it. No wonder so many lesbians are in dead bedrooms. That is a fascinating point isn't it, I wanna read a book by a PhD that studies lesbian relationships. Without men, it seems that women aren't too sexual which makes sense considering biology. How is that not just "…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:13 PM
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How can one admire someone for their success when it isn't self built? Didn't his father have a 300 million dollar networth? I think you're thinking of Dan bilzerian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:37 PM
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Are you able to form a steelman's argument for Andrew Tate's view of the world? If you're genuinely interested in the topic, this here is the most comprehensive video on Andrew Tate and his worldview. The good parts about it, the bad and better alternatives that share similar views on success without the abusive and criminal parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:35 PM
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I was a big fan before all the allegations and evidence started coming up. I liked Andrew because he represented a single poweful man saying fuck you to the system. A message of work hard and be smart about it and you can have a great lifestyle and whatever you want really. Not as bad as a criminal type like a cartel leader, not boring like a manufacturing CEO or a doctor but a free soul with all the money in the world. I still think his advice is solid and differs from a lot of the other busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:31 PM
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My best advice for you that seems unrelated is to put effort into starting your own business on the side. A lot of what goes into a fun and carefree lifestyle is being financially independent, not so much the exact man you date. Bonus point is that a lot of responsible and mature guys who are also fun and exciting are entrepreneurs so being part of your local business scene is a great way to meet them. If you strategize it properly, you can end up in a few years with a fun and exciting lifestyle…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 03:53 PM
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Definitely agreed, I guess it depends on the medium you're using to exchange these ideas and if it's appropriate or even useful to really go in-depth on them instead of conveying 80% of the idea in short-form simple language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:44 PM
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Are you sure it's not a vocal minority writing these comments? Negativity bias is a real thing, people who are perfectly happy with their age-gap relationship in their youth have way less incentive to give their take on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:41 PM
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Curious how this differs in countries other than the US, you would expect it to be dramatically higher in developing countries but not only there. I hear specifically in France age-gap relationships are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:39 PM
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What do you mean 16 is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:37 PM
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People love Ukraine, I've barely seen anyone mention how they stopped every young man from leaving the country and are forcing a draft as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:37 PM
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Everyone loves Ukraine while their government sentenced a lot of their young men to forcibly die.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:35 PM
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I would say conveying your ideas efficiently without using language that most people can't understand makes you an even more effective communicator. There's a good breakdown on Youtube on how Donald Trump partly is very popular because he communicates ideas using very simple language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:30 PM
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Depends what you mean by they don't fit the bill, can you elaborate? Do you mean they're fun, charismatic, and exciting but they don't seem to be in a monogamous phase of their life and you feel like you should instead be attracted to a regular 9-5 accountant who's responsible, mature but a bit boring? Or are you attracted to like the guy who has a GF and cheating on her? There's a massive difference between being attracted to guys that legit have toxic traits vs just being attracted to guys who…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 03:16 PM
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Example: Our fellow broski said he felt bad telling women he wasn't sure if he liked them when he actually did like them (after fucking them), but he also said doing it netted successful results. (They chased him.) Fair enough. Strictly on a sexual strategy level, these moves can definitely work, but they DO leave many men feeling empty and frustrated with their own integrity afterward. (Not here to judge those that DGAF, just here to assist those that may feel similar to me or broski.) Just be …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 09:02 PM
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Have you ever hired a photographer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:17 AM
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Interesting someone told me this but I didn't look into it. I'm quite sure Putin is self-made though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:03 PM
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What should it revolve around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:31 PM
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Why shouldn't it? Females are inherently more valuable than men and men are more overwhelmingly competent or incompetent than women. A man will conquer a whole nation climbing through each rank if he's willing enough/competent enough/desperate enough to Look at the stories of both Vladimir Putin and XiJingping, two of the most powerful men in the world who climbed from nothing to have total control over the respective countries. No woman could do that and even if she could she would have no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:30 PM
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For real, foreskin is a big deal. Do it as an adult if you want but doing it as to masses of children sounds like generational trauma and controlled oppression to me.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 03:30 PM
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Amazing, thank you for sharing. What do you make of this? To me it reminds me of the whole OPP concept in Polyamory circles and how the "mainstream" polyamory philosophy demonizes One Penis Policies on the basis that same-sex and hetero relationships are exactly the same. Clearly, this proves otherwise and a woman having sex with men and having sex with other women are completely different concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:02 PM
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I'm not a fan of this wording or ideology. I'm not trying to necessarily control anyone but I need a woman who can fall into my life and adapt to me and my lifestyle. In return, I will provide for her, financially and otherwise. That's my relationship style and it's not the most common I'm sure but I feel like this whole equal partnership thing is great in terms of like a philosophy of respect but if that's how you actually live day to day it probably kills sexual tension and compatibility over …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:00 PM
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Why do you care about life strategies for stay-at-home wives if you can't afford one? Yes, obviously it's out of reach for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:01 AM
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I love pussy as much as any brother but if you live in Egypt or a similar country, it's time to go my guy. Get a passport and a job in a neighboring stable country asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:24 PM
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Depends on each man what he likes but general pleasantness and non-bitterness. Submissive traits if that's what you're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:03 PM
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Egypt's GDP per capita is $3700 USD and is forecasted to have food shortages in Fall 2023 with the fallback from the lack of grain exports out of Ukraine. They're also 90% Muslim which depending on what you believe, makes it harder to date. Since the guy I replied to is on Reddit and presumably has a strong internet connection, I would prioritize making money online over immigration. If you can freelance and get paid in USD while living in Egypt you have a massive competitive advantage that puts…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:12 PM
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You live in rural Egypt and you're worried about a lack of a dating life? I think that shouldn't be one of your top concerns, do you have a plan to immigrate to a more stable country?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:55 PM
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I'm in the pickup community and not even there do 90% of the men want consistent casual sex with hot women. Its a very niche pursuit, most guys find it to be too much work or not even that pleasurable. Most guys just want a standard girlfriend(they don't even care if she's particularly hot) and a decent % don't even care for women whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:54 PM
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High value for a woman means attractive, physically and mentally healthy as well as having a mindset that is productive to an association with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:52 PM
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Why do you settle for partners that don't satisfy you? Plenty of women love to suck dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:28 PM
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I agree but you have to stand up for what's right for yourself. Do not settle for women that are lazy in bed! Cuming in a girl's mouth is legendary, you owe it to yourself to not date/see women that are not into that/too lazy to do it consistently. And you should also take the time and have great pleasure in making them cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:58 PM
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What does having a midlife crisis mean in this context? Attraction is not binary, plenty of women really like their husbands as people but don't have attraction to them because they're objectively not sexually attractive people. If those same men understood the concept of dread game and keeping themselves desirable on the SMP no matter what, their marriages would go way better I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:55 PM
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How so? It depends on how it's applied but in general dread game is the idea of remaining a viable contender in the sexual market place right, how can that be a bad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:51 PM
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Men are responsible for their own orgasm, a woman has never made me cum, I do all the work myself. Yet I am supposed to make the woman come too. Of course, there is a gap. If you keep asking me to do everything for both of us, without ever giving anything in return, I will most likely put less effort in. You've never had a handjob/blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:45 PM
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Why have you raised kids if you're 31? Dated single moms and helped with their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:44 PM
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This is why there are guys who want an open marriage only on their end. That way if the woman wants to keep her legs closed to her husband she shouldn't have a problem with him smashing other chicks. Him fucking other women will probably reactive her sex drive as a bonus. Intrasexual competition with other women is a huge part of the female sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:42 PM
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What about with a vibrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:33 PM
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For real, I never understand it when I read posts where the man hasn't made the girl come in 6 months, it's quite easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:32 PM
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Any luck with finding that study? These are massive differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:05 PM
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These are crazy stats, only in 33% of relationships longer than 2 years did the couples have sex more than once a week? And 47% had sex less than once a month? Where did you find those stats? The link you posted doesn't work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:57 PM
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But is strength found with help? Do we as a society know definitively that the way to make a person stronger, more self assured is with help? That's a good point but then it depends on what you mean by help. Definitely mentorship, guidance, and some help here and there for sure helped me. If other men didn't share their experiences and advice on money for free on Youtube and elsewhere, it would've taken me much longer to figure these things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:00 PM
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Most of them are skilled groomers that at the very least get consent and make the victim feel safe, if not genuinely gaslighting and changing the victims values and temperament in such a way that they actively participate in their own abuse and believe that's right "for them". I mean look at how our society is structured and how in general power at all costs is rewarded. Yet culture and the media somehow thinks social awkward men, emotionally stunted men, that can't hold a conversation with a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:03 PM
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I still think the wall is a crazy concept that probably has more to do with a biological window rather than physical appearance. If women take care of themselves, many will look great into their 50s. Everyone looks terrible when they give up on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:41 PM
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It's in the options menu that you can access with enough psychedelics. All kinds of crazy options in there, I extended my life by 500 years, why doesn't everybody do this?
/r/MensRights25/01/23 05:31 PM
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I don't know why you think you're asexual and if you've somehow confirmed this or if you're just really unexperienced/uncomfortable with anything sexual. Clearly you enjoy some part of the physicality of dating, I would just find someone more respectful and less creepy to do it with. Makes a lot of sense to not feel much when kissing guys that you're not very attracted to btw, doesn't make you asexual.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 09:35 PM
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Join the Chicago group and go game with the guys in there a few times a month. No excuses.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 07:28 PM
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Do you live in a major city? I would recommend joining a game group and trying it out with other guys that are used to doing it. Cold approaching is very unintuitive if it's not natural to you and just looking at videos of guys doing it won't really help you. Find guys that you can go out with IRL and they'll show you how it works.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 05:59 PM
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Would that really be who you are or who you're conditioned/traumatized into being? Shyness and passiveness are not personality traits, they're like neuroses. You can naturally not enjoy being fully extroverted all the time but learning to form connections with other people and navigate social situations is building yourself, not changing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:48 AM
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She has kind of a point but mostly you're right. It's not like the average man had many rights and they were mostly the property of their lord/state as well as being more disposable than the average woman. Look at movies that show trench warfare in WW1 or even beach storming of Normandy in WW2 or even now in Ukraine to see what was MANDATED of the average man when times got rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:48 PM
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How much money is child care worth? Like if she's dating a millionaire that can afford to make her a SAHM and pay off her debts, should he still do a big portion of the child care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:29 PM
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Have you worked on your social skills and tried day/night game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:25 PM
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Honest question, how often do you believe women actively do this? It could be because I live in a rural area instead of a city, but I see more women in their 20s trying to date with the intent of being married before age 28-30 than ones aiming for Chad and being promiscuous until they can't anymore. This is a massively good point that I don't see mentioned on here nearly enough. Rural areas are MUCH less hypergamous than big cities. I moved from 1M pop city to a 3M pop one and even there the dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:18 PM
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I tried to change both aspects but I just felt disgusted trying to be someone I didn't see myself as just for a women that probably won't give me a simple hello either way. Who do you see yourself as, I guess that's the question. And perhaps an even better question is what do you think your best version of yourself is and can that person attract women? I think it is indeed cringe to mold yourself into something you're not just for the sake of women and it usually ends up toxic anyway. Although I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:55 PM
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This is why I said guys that always fail in "cold approach" are lacking in personality or basic decent physical attractiveness. I think you would be shocked, only 5-10% of guys MAX can do that. I don't even think of it as cold approaching either. I could just be in a department store looking at shirts or something and say a woman is in the area. I'll ask her her opinion on that shirt or outfit. From there a normal conversation flows. I'd say that's a cold approach, you just use a situational ope…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:42 PM
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So what about you is the problem and do you care to fix it? Those are important questions. I both think that you can really fix it if you want to but I also kinda think that you don't need to, pickup and self-development are extremely hard and VR and metaverse are around the corner so I think you can be emotionally and sexually fulfilled without putting all that effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:32 PM
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Some women like abuse =/ you need to treat women like shit to get a girlfriend. Some women are in a toxic mindset and can't relate to quality people. Just like some men would not be able to date a hot quality woman and would rathe get into findom or jack off to OF girls repeatedly. It is what it is, making that out to be everyone is coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:30 PM
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Do you have a lot of experience in game doing cold approaches? I think for a certain personality type(some forms of extroverts) guys are able to naturally talk to women and organically get dates without specifically learning pickup. I think for most men though learning to get dates organically from day/night game will take months of consistent practice. I don't know many guys that can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:14 PM
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99% of the time you gotta go out into the world and shoot your shot reasonably agfressivley and take the rejections until you line up that number from whoever actually says yes. Where exactly is this guy getting those dates in he real world? His workplace? School? Daygame? Nightgame? I feel like for an average guy getting a dating photoshoot done and going for average-looking girls is the best bet at getting like 5 dates in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:39 PM
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You're either out there trying to be as broadly appealing as possible(Which involves working out a lot and learning some degree of game and working on being fashionable) That's a good point. Now the world is so competitive that average guy is well dressed, decently fit, decent game, good income, and good social circle. That's average-guy game that will get average results. Anything below that(being a neet or overly into new PS5 releases) will result in 0 results.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:37 PM
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because I didn't want to treat women like shit or become a man that I'm really not. This is coping, you have to do neither of these things to find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:30 PM
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Nah I think it mostly has to do with lack of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:00 PM
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It's more about a lack of groundedness in your emotions and being able to see the good from every bad situation and not just categorize it as all shit if the last two weeks of the relationship were bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:33 PM
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Interesting, I guess its more nuanced than I thought, thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:21 PM
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Can you rethink of this study and in general what you would call this behavior? I think you're on to something It reminds me of the Tate case that just came out and where the girl said he literally raped her and she kept going back and ended up fully dating him afterward to convince herself that she was never raped and she was always consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:19 PM
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Interesting, what does that mean to you? Like if you lived with an attractive girl that you were really into, would you want to have sex twice a day, daily, or a few times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:41 AM
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Yeah, that's just the effects of higher testosterone in males 18-24. A 45-year-old man with 700-1000 ng/dl testosterone should be just as horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:12 AM
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I think you're right, I'm 27 and I find women 20-40 attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:08 AM
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You didn't answer my question though, how exactly does it benefit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:24 PM
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I have no doubt society has a reason to push this narrative, and women certainly benefit the most from it, albeit they are not conscious of it if they feed it to their male children, which is very fucked up. How do they benefit from it? Women have terrible dating lives currently and have higher rates of anxiety and depression than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:19 PM
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I think guys are resentful before they start getting results. When you start figuring things out and getting good results then you start to realize that society as a whole has no clue how sexuality works so it's not exactly a scheme against you. It depends on how old you are when you figure it out too, if you only break out of mainstream conditioning in your 50s then it would make sense to be more resentful than someone that starts getting it in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:35 PM
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Gen Z is accommodating to stuff that falls inside of their Overton window otherwise they're just as intolerant as you would expect older conservatives to be. If you say stuff like you like to date younger women or you enjoy a more traditional masculine/feminine relationship then they'll flip shit on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:47 PM
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Does it really leave you bitter though? I spent my teen years playing League of legends and being deathly scared of any girls and I'm fine with that. Now in my late 20s it took me years to get decent with women and now I appreciate those relationships. Who is really bitter about this? Is it just guys who are still not successful with women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:24 PM
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Are you saying this in hypothetical or for yourself? As someone who struggled with women in high school and mostly played League of Legends and then blossomed in my 20s, I have never really been resentful of women for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:23 PM
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What? Policing others' sexual freedom has been and still is a massive issue for humanity. What else is slut shaming or homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:21 PM
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Yes, the black pill and mgtow stuff is cringe. I like that red pill is getting discussed in the mainstream now but it's very annoying that everyone comes at it from a completely different angle so it doesn't mean much anymore. The best version of red pill thought went along the line of "Love women but understand them so they don't destroy you."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:50 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:47 PM
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Not just fitness but in general even in relationship_advice/dating there are a lot of red pill advice that comes out. Stuff about women obviously cheating when they're being shady, needing to upgrade your SMV, and money stuff. I think mainstream opinion has adopted a lot of the less extreme RP views. @the OP btw red pill was never necessarily about self-improvement, it was about sexual strategy. The red pill sub is trash now but if you sort by top posts, you'll find a lot of posts from 7-8 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:55 AM
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I think the word patriarchy is also a huge issue. It makes it sound like all men ganged up on women to enslave them. When in reality everyone was enslaved(and kinda still are.) If they rallied against authoritarian power structures in general and didn't make it gendered, they would find a lot more men as allies.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 05:06 PM
2

Tinder doesn't have a height filder, nor does real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:05 AM
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That's a ridiculous take you know it. 60-70% of the stuff you can improve on. Are you fit already or is this your excuse to not workout? Where is your social media profile that makes you look like a cool guy and not creepy? Can I see a pic of your fashion, do you look great or clunky?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:24 AM
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Has any sort of public figure in the west made any mention of how young men are forced to stay in the country? AFAIK the number of Ukrainian refugees that have left the country since February 2022 is 8 million with most Ukrainian men 18-60 not allowed to be a part of that number, what kind of life is that for the men FORCED to stay in the country? AFAIK there are now very few young women, very few jobs, and a literal war that they have the option of joining. I would understand if some chose to s…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:23 PM
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So what? What is your suggestion that differs from his? First off, you need to be aware of your evasiveness. You need to watch yourself avoiding conflict like the little beta you are. You need to know exactly what you feel the moment you decide to evade and how you do it. What he posted is good advice and seems accurate to me regardless of the extra context you added to it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 01:57 AM
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I mean selling stuff isn't evil, he provided equivalent value and more with the post itself.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 01:55 AM
2

looking at it as a 26yr old Virgin - it doesn't seem that bad now. Why not go sleep with an escort?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 01:54 AM
2

If anything I completely disagree. I found his posts back in the day super obnoxious but now at least he offers men a solid plan with his expat strategy and community.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 10:47 PM
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Idk about 19 but I'm 27 and that train of thought is making a resurgence in men around my age. A lot of us rather work hard in our 20s in a career/starting a business and then being able to support a family by ourselves in our early-late 30s. I would find it crazy for my woman to spend her energy working at some nonsense corporation all day and then come home drained, stressed, and having no feminine energy left for me and our kids. Also, the school system is absolute shit(I believe) so I'd rath…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 09:48 PM
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Please have a direct and long thoughtful discussion with your boyfriend about how you see the future. You need to do this ASAP because although it's a possible goal, it'll be harder and harder to do this with the state of the economy in the next 5 years. Like if you want to have this lifestyle from lets say 25 onward, it'll probably take you about 5 years to put yourself and/or find the man that will be able to put you in this situation. As the months passed, I realized that he has a lot of trau…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 09:44 PM
2

How dare you assume I'm not a coke dealer!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:38 PM
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How many women do you personally know that are dating coke dealers and the such? What do you consider a bad man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:27 AM
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Yeah you can look jacked if you’re natty and carrying a little extra body fat or on vitamin S, in clothes, but if you’re natural and lean, there’s not much differentiating you from a pubescent skinny gamer kid. Your weakness is my strength lmao. I'm skinny and winter I def do better than summer when shorts and t-shirts are the trends. This is good timing for a summer bod post though, if I can put on an extra 10-15 lbs by July that'd be a great start.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 05:11 PM
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The closest thing to the truth is that good looks buy you upfront interest and from there you have to game the same as any other man. I've had girls be super into me because I have nice curly hair and then lose interest because I was boring. I've had girls be super warm and friendly which lead to 2 min makeouts because I gamed properly. Guys which are less good-looking have to work harder but can get the exact same results or even better. Some portion of those men just complain instead of facing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:36 PM
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Are you stupid? Call the police?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:28 AM
1

My brother in law on the other hand, had a black baby despite being redheaded with nearly no pigmentation and I felt like an actual crazy person while everyone played along with “that’s his baby” for months before a test was done. Don't leave us hanging, what happened?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:18 AM
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It's one thing to believe it and a whole other thing to legislate it. A woman committing paternity fraud against a man is basically the same thing as a man somehow destroying a woman's ovaries and forcing her to raise the kid he has with a hotter surrogate mother.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:47 AM
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Do you have a source for this? How do these people rationalize this to themselves? Wouldn't you pay a lot of money to hear the sort of hamster rationalization that was done by hundreds of people to get this passed? Wtf France?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:17 AM
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I think anthropology is the closest thing we can get to that. I wanna study Frans de Waal, apparently he did good work studying the relationship between how chimps and humans show remarkably similar behavior and how it can teach us about the functioning of our lymbic brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:33 PM
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I think there’s too little and conflicting information to lean one way or the other. Laymen tend to contextualise evo-psyche through the lense of their current culture, I think that’s what you are doing. Very true, fair enough. I'm always trying to learn more as it's both very helpful and fascinating but who tf knows lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:47 PM
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The historical context you explained is correct, but that really only accounts for the environment of the wealthy, peasants had no such ability to forge strong ‘alliances’. Yeah, you're right but I think that's why it's a great explanation since in the general public being manwhore makes you a very dubious character, not exactly an admired stud. Only in some niche circles is it praised. In general, being a righteous man and providing for one woman and your children made you a more positive force…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:08 PM
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Dude, you're totally right I hadn't read the chats in detail lmao. I don't think human sexuality is really understood well cuz it seems a lot of young good looking guys that seem like they had options were totally dtf. And I've totally looked at mature porn myself so who knows, the wall is too simplistic a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:25 PM
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I'm gonna hope this one is fake and the guy switched out pictures because otherwise oof. but like in a realistic version of this I'm quite sure she would easily get dozens of matches with 45-70-year-old guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:37 PM
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That would actually be a hilarious video, people would freak the fuck out if an 80-year-old woman got more matches than an average 18-year-old dude. I bet she would tbh lmao. The average young guy has like less than 20 matches so it's not exactly a hard competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:31 PM
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I mean the historical reason is only men with power and status could sleep with many women so it was correlated that if you could then you must be a powerful man. Women had value through strategic alliances with powerful families so if your daughter was caught sleeping around it would ruin your family's reputation. The biological context is similar where females push evolution forward by selecting the males with the most desirable traits to mate with. Do you think I'm right or do you have anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:28 PM
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I mean I'm not saying a 20-year-old incel would jump at the chance to fuck an 80-year-old (maybe some lol) but probably a 60-year-old divorced guy type thing. What I'm saying is any woman can open up her dating app and get matches whereas a lot of guys literally get 0. I don't think most women understand how skewed it is. Have you seen this video with an 18-year-old being given the Tinder account of a man as a test and literally getting slightly depressed from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:24 AM
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I mean the concept of backup is more relevant to a girlfriend than a wife. With marriage, you get rid of all your backups and dedicate yourself to one man. Of course, it doesn't always work like that but that's the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:14 AM
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You sweet summer child. I don't think it's usually as obvious as another dude she would start dating a week after but it's usually guys in her social circle that have an interest in her that her subconscious knows she could hit up a few months after if her man starts slacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:12 AM
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And a woman who is morbidly obese is not getting male attention, she may legitimately struggle to find 10 sexual partners during her lifetime. That's legit not even close to being true, SSbbw is literally a genre of porn. Men will fuck females of every variety. 500 lbs, midgets, handicapped, psychopathic, autistic, disfigured, 80 years old, etc. Of course, it's not the end all be all and the quality probably won't be top notch but there is not a single female on this planet that could not get di…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:26 AM
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I agree that shaming people is bad but it is a valid explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:19 AM
1

From where? I'm originally from Montreal but moved when I was young so I've never experienced French women. I want to check out Paris and Marseille(french beach town? sign me up), seems like it would be a fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:33 PM
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Don't identify with your group, identify with yourself. Most guys that fit that category don't have social and dating skills that are therefore a bit pushy and uncalibrated. If you've worked on yourself and changed your aesthetic to differentiate yourself then I don't think you'll have many issues. I have an Indian friend in his late 30s who does very well with women but he does try hard to get away from that label, unfortunately, you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:30 PM
2

Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:28 PM
1

In my experience, arab and Indian women are the least sexually open. East Asian girls(Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese in particular) love to fuck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:39 PM
1

Is it for 24h or a few days?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:33 PM
1

So true, especially true about what women you're used to seeing in a sexual context. I'm mixed black/white and the black women I'm used to are my aunts growing up and the shy religious girls at school that were kind of boring. I didn't think I was into black girls until I started going out clubbing and met some that were super hot and had more sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:33 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:31 PM
3

White men smell like ham? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:29 PM
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It's a shame because it's like a double negative because in my experience black women in my city are a bit more closed off and hard to talk to than other women. Which sucks because I don't know how to approach them and flirt with them even though I would love to date/sleep with some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:27 PM
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This is massive. Ethnic names do not perform well in western dating markets for both genders. I and some of my guy friends go by simple "white" names and it's helped massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:22 PM
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That's a good point, I think in general most asian girls are cute and skinny. And they are in general more DTF than white women and way more open than brown/black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:21 PM
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What's interesting to me is if white is the beauty standard in Western countries then it's not fully explanatory for why Asian women are more popular than white women. From my experience now, in a big western city(Toronto), Asian women are the most open and DTF women and assimilate well with western culture. If you go out at night and you see black women or brown women(Latino women are a bit more rare here) then they're a bit more closed off and act differently than white and Asian girls. Asian …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:17 PM
3

How long does this last?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 PM
2

Actually wanted to get into lifting, but I feel like I got to expand my social circle first. Covid ruined a lot of my friendships I had. My life's in a bit of a mess right now. I don't see how it's related, fitness is always generally good unless you're stressed out of your mind and you can't afford to spend any mental energy. What do you like doing for fun? With the right strategies, I feel like making friends and maintaining a social circle is incredibly easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:55 PM
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For sure man, glad you asked. It depends on how you enjoy spending your life and what kind of datin life you would enjoy. In general, two of the best content creators around dating right now are Michael Sartain and Corey Chalof. They both have paid content and courses but their free Youtube content is more than enough to get started and be way ahead of most guys. Basically, they teach how to leverage social circle and social media to dramatically boost your life and results. Those are the two bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:11 PM
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Interesting, thank you for sharing. Sounds to me like every situation could've worked out better if your friends were taught better screening techniques. Shame we don't teach young people this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:47 PM
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I would look into game and social circle skills training if I were you. You can't solve men's dating issues as a whole but you can solve them for yourself for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:36 PM
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I mean, so are men. Complaining about everything and bragging about going MGTOW left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:41 AM
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Idk completely disagree imo. Girls that wanna travel and see the world imo have bigger dreams and goals than normal girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:39 AM
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Did you ask any of them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:37 AM
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What do you think caused most divorces in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:35 AM
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He specifically said to build status and not worry so much about getting laid with individual girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 01:32 AM
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You have no idea what you're talking about. The men with the most women that literally work for them(Dan Bilzerian, Michael Sartain, Hugh Hefner) use the power of social media and clout to their advantage. It's not an end all be all but it magnifies the man you are literally 100x.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 01:30 AM
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Do you guys think this is justified on a basic level or it a completely wild accusation no matter the context?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:04 PM
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I would break this down and analyze it separately if it's important to you. Drinking & sleeping are clearly social anxiety. Does that honestly bother you, and if so do you want to work on it with him or do you feel like you should have a man that gets it naturally? The gift-giving thing is also like a lack of social skills, I'd say anywhere but maybe in the US this would be the norm. Pick out a decently nice bottle of wine or liquor for the holidays. If I were you I would think about what your m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 12:15 AM
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How would he not take it well?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 12:00 AM
2

How so?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 08:22 PM
6

Women have a type of guy they think/say in public they like and then a whole other type of guy that can pick them up in a club/they swipe right on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:13 PM
1

Amazing post, totally agreed. I'm in the progress of reading Sovereign Individual, completely mind-breaking read. Takes a while to get through though.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 02:00 AM
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You haven't reached a high enough level to understand what he's saying. His post is full without anything that he's promoting. I have no interest in his community and I gained value from the idea presented. Read the books he's mentioned, especially Sovereign Individual. Pure gold.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 12:55 AM
1

Fair enough, thank you for sharing. To me personally, it seems like two sides of the same coin. both require a lot of trust and vulnerability. I would have no interest in cuddling/doing any kind of BDSM with a stranger. Having a partner that I would trust to get kinky and enjoy the more intense and primal side of sex though is really an intimate thing, at least I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:34 PM
1

Interesting. Why do you think that is? I have a similar thing with BDSM but mostly because it's a lot of effort, especially with not a long-term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:19 PM
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The line getting drawn is what counts. You can tell she and Netflix saw nothing wrong with it as she didn't get caught saying it, it was literally on an interview posted to Netflix's Tiktok. Even women in the comments are calling it out so I'm hopeful.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 12:34 AM
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I don't think most people's families are healthy models of relationships so I don't think this would work. What makes an average man recognize a great partner? At best they would screen for a decent income and good male bonding skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:20 PM
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I mean a lot of biotech startups are currently working to get rid of hangovers so I'm fairly confident that we'll have a working consumer version in the next 10 years. Sugar babies are on the rise and google tells me NFL cheerleaders make on average $15-20 so dreams might yet become reality. Agreed, which is why I only started this debate in response to other comments to get other people's opinions. I feel like something like this is only a symptom rather than the cause so both for OP and the ot…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 11:08 PM
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If you can do that without another man being able to control you I think that's freedom and leverage. An accountant having to work 80-hour weeks for something he doesn't care about is the furthest thing from free.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 10:46 PM
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Great, putting in the right work you have turned around into being “a good little boy” 🤣 How else would you describe doing something for years on end with the hope that someday you're rewarded for it instead of making it happen yourself? Someone is always in control of your paycheck, for example, a customer or client, whatever your sphere of work is. An attorney is only as good as the clients he gets. One MAN cant run the world, and everyone starts somewhere. That's a completely different dynami…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 10:15 PM
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I'm not a lawyer but if the owner of a business dies I would imagine if it's privately owned it would go to the next of kin, not the manager. Regardless, the idea of being a good little boy and waiting for your time to shine doesn't exactly seem like an alpha captain to me. I understand it's idealistic but that's why TRP has begun preaching business ownership and financial independence heavily over these last few years. If another man is in charge of your paycheck then he more or less rules your…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 09:53 PM
0

To the degree that you don't have a lot of control/leverage over the company that employs you: yes. You don't have to be a CEO to have control but I'd say that if you're compromising on your ideal lifestyle for financial reasons then you're a bottom bitch for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 09:38 PM
2

Curious about what he had to say about this.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:12 PM
5

Thank you for posting, props to the intimacy coordinator for calling out her inappropriate behavior. This is a great move in the right direction.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:09 PM
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Dude what, this is literally the first time I've ever seen a woman get called out by another woman this publically for inappropriate behavior. This is a massive W.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:08 PM
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What are your thoughts on that being a temporary strategy for just being in a shitty life situation? This will eventually happen to any man who works for another man's company, eventually, you find out that you're the bottom bitch and can't compartmentalize anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 07:35 PM
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Has he confronted the boss about this? If he gets an apology from him, perhaps he'll feel a lot better about it. Or the boss doubles down on being a dick and then your man can make the transition without feeling guilt.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 07:34 PM
4

According to Pornhub's 2022 stats 29% of porn is watched by women and 71% by men. Of those 29%, they are 30-34% more likely than men to watch bondage/hardcore porn. I don't know how to stats but according to my guesstimates, that means that around 15-20% of women are particularly into bdsm and thus you would assume would enjoy that kind of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:12 PM
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I'm quite confident that most studies of gender-based porn searches always have women searching for significantly more violent and kinky porn. This reflects anecdotal experience as well. Of course, you shouldn't assume and for a girl that doesn't want that than just doing it without consent is basically assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:19 PM
10

I think your first step would be to find your independence. If you're at home with emotional regulation issues then I would get a part-time job somewhere you find interesting. Getting used to being around other people again, dealing with the stress of that, and building a routine and an income will all be good for you. Jumping into relationships while not being in a good place mentally, and emotionally, and being stable economically on your own is a recipe for codependence, dysfunction, abuse, a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 03:14 PM
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Props for posting this and recognizing the effort.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:05 PM
1

Started using a software called Notion to curate my life. It's a note taking/task management website/app. I have a main dashboard where I have short, medium, and long term goals. My reading list, travel list, etc. It keeps me accountable and makes me always strive to keep pushing forward in life. Like I said before, men need goals and north stars of progression. I second Notion, especially if you're any sort of intellectual. Changed my life. Debates are the rage these days on Youtube and it shoc…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 03:28 PM
2

Depends on who you are in life but if you're in a phase where you're still trying to broadly attract a lot of girls then I'd say IG is actually lower effort than most other methods. Anything cool you do, you just get extra ROI by knowing how to post it properly on Instagram and you get social relevance/value to hundreds of people. Btw, I doubt instagram will exist when we're 80 years old, so if you want to keep your pictures and videos just buy some Terabytes I don't know what would replace it b…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 03:11 PM
1

I'm always shocked when most guys are against Instagram, it's literally free clout. I've had girls recognize me and my roommate randomly walking around downtown and girls from work see our podcast clips we post on Tiktok. Be wary of those saying to wipe yourself out from social media. They claim mental health, this, that and whatever but often times, it is a cope. Deep down, these people innately know instagram is competitive, they know you can't just upload whatever garbage photo you have and e…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 03:08 PM
1

For real, dating girls at 21 was a nightmare. Now that I'm 27, way easier. If I had more money and was fit I would be overwhelmed with options.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 02:30 PM
2

Restaurants are a good life experience but a terrible industry to work in. I was working at a big restaurant downtown during the crypto hype and all the chefs were super into it, wanting to make good gains, and quit the job. Those guys were at least professional but I've had another kitchen where the chef would straight-up insult the line cooks to their faces, that wasn't great.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 01:52 PM
2

Why does it feel true?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:27 PM
26

In my 20's i dreamed with an epic life by now and now my dreams just failed miserably. And what is it exactly that you dreamed of? Can you spell out this vision for me here? This is unconventional in this community but I believe in purpose over discipline. I think a man can only be disciplined witho a true purpose(or vision w/e you wanna call it) for so long. You can dream of money, women, and abundance but those are filler words, those are the cherry floating in mid-air if you have no sundae to…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 02:26 AM
2

I mean, I'm not complaining. If I had made more money younger I would've lacked the humility that being broke in adulthood brings you. It's a pointless question to wonder what we missed out on but interesting nonetheless. I'm working on content creation now, I don't know if I enjoy it but it seems like the best way to build a community/income based on your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:27 PM
1

Hard to say but that would be my general idea. I would try to get more in the content creation side of things instead of just playing for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:11 PM
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Everyone knows that you need to provide value (i.e. work for a living) in our society. You learn from a very young age that things cost money and that adults work to make that money. Even that's arguable. Many young people believe in socialism and we are all friends and that we should redistribute money equally. In general, I think you're right but the better angle would be people who are disillusioned with the system. People thought that just going to school and getting a job would set them up.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:05 PM
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I think most people are aware but choose to put their heads in the sand because the implications that come out of it are unpleasant. Many people get offended at the very notion of dating strategy and will argue that it's creepy and you should let it happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:57 PM
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If I was 15 with the knowledge I know now, I would go full Iman Gadzhi and work on business 24/7. Those were my two red pills in life: dating and business. Social media shows you people living better than you and that's great. Some people were always living way better lives than the average joe but now we have the resources available to reach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:50 PM
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I think mainstream doesn't teach it because it's harmful to children. We already see in the Zoomer generation, the number of people who use social media and are depressed is increasing. It's like parents protecting their children because of their innocence at a young age. Not sure what you mean by that, can you explain? I think we don't teach it because generally red pill ideas are misunderstood and just now coming to light. I think dating/sexuality will be much better understood in the coming d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:17 PM
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Depends on who your social circle is in high school. My peers were gamer guys and generally nerds. I didn't understand how to network and socialize back then, and once again took me Youtube videos to get it. The whole point is that mainstream doesn't teach you these things and in general, is incentivized not to as it would challenge the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:33 PM
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I think it's hard to point a finger at a particular cause so I'll say, everybody. The men in our lives, the women in our lives, tv shows, movies, school teachers, etc. Personally, I didn't learn that the concept of self-improvement towards dating was a thing until I was 17 and that was through pickup videos on Youtube. Until then I was shy and awkward with girls and my mom told me "Good luck" and my dad told me"Good luck, I always sucked with women btw but some guys I knew are good, blows my min…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:48 PM
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This is a crazy take. At least a general 30% of both men and women act completely contradictory to what you've listed. For men in particular, the red pill is that being a nice and stand-up guy is not enough. Those are generally good qualities but will not make you datable. You have to acquire raw value or else the world and women will treat you ruthlessly. It's a red pill because most guys are shocked by the truth of the sexual market place and were nowhere near prepared for it. They're told tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah, kind of agreed. The word abuse is not right for either situation but they're both shitty situations and I wouldn't wish a relationship like that on my worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:14 PM
1

Do you workout regularly or 4x a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:13 PM
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What is a desirable guy supposed to do? Some say that an alpha bitches on podcasts about women and sells access to hustlers university or sells online porn - maybe, who am I to argue. I don't think listening to society's definitions makes sense. I would personally say it's a man that's in control of his life and has the freedom to pursue and do what he wants and offer you as his woman and your future children these freedoms as well. That is the freedom to not work if you don't want to, take time…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:02 PM
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You're for sure right, I would equate it to laziness though. There are so many resources out there on how to improve your looks and social skills that if you're not getting laid without any major physical or mental handicap then you're not trying or you're lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:34 PM
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mansplaining What is your understanding on this concept and why does a guy explaining something relevant count as that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:01 PM
2

Thank you for sharing, I did a similar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:59 AM
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Mechanical engineer is a 10/10 on the career dimension. What else is an ambitious smart dude supposed to be doing, dicking around with crypto? There is not many levels above that. What do you think mechanical engineers do? They're like a high-level mechanic that generally work for construction or manufacturing companies. I don't think it's a particularly ambitious or creative career. Their average salary where I'm from is 80k and I think it goes up to 120-150k. I don't think that's anywhere at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:47 AM
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I would say mechanical engineer would be around a 6/6.5 on the attractiveness scale. It's a nice stable job that's well paid and it if you work on your social/dating skills you will get a decent partner out of it. The problem with these discussions is people talk about different things. They compare a bartender that fucks drunk 22-year-old girls vs a guy that's looking for a nice girl to have a relationship with. You will not fuck loads of hot girls as a mechanical engineer unless you're particu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:24 PM
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I've heard it put this way for women but it works for men too: personality only matters if it's top 5-10%. Everyone is moderately funny, charismatic, smart, etc. You have to be exceptional at it or produce value/results with that trait or it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:53 PM
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I think the main idea is a personality that delivers results and value vs just a quirky useless personality. A guy that's smart, nerdy, and successful is an eccentric genius. A guy that's smart and nerdy but broke is just a cringy nerd. Of course, there are a thousand shades of grey in between the two but in general, the concept stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:47 PM
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There is not such a thing as an average mechanical engineer. Just a side note. Do you mean mechanical engineers are generally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:44 PM
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I know most men are going to drop me anyway given all the facts about me but I still want to improve my chances I guess That doesn't seem like a healthy way to think about one's self. Do you want to remove your tattoos to fit into some arbitrary version of a valuable woman that you've been reading about or because you genuinely don't like them anymore? I know many HVM that love tattoos on women(myself included) , don't believe everything you read on the internet.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 02:47 PM
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None of these sound like crazy red flags. How is she behaving now? Remember that red flags are supposed to be an indication of future behavior, not dealbreakers in and of themselves(although you're totally fine to break up for them that's up to you but not really justified.)
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 11:44 AM
1

I haven't even mentioned the cost of actually dating, especially considering inflation and everything else going on in the world, especially if you're a guy and happen to date women who expect you to pay for dates. This one is facts. If you want to have a satisfying dating life and lifestyle beyond just drinking at your place, you need at least $1000-$2000 to do it the fun way in big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:25 PM
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What kind of cringe self-defeating attitude is this? You're not even autistic, you're just lazy. Autism would allow you to hyperfocus on patterns and be able to identify the methods to fix these issues if you wanted to and actually become more socially competent than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:59 AM
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Owen Cook is on the spectrum and talks about struggling hugely with social cues growing up and then decided to put work into it and build a literal social skills company and now dates supermodels, is a multimillionaire, and hangs out with celebrities. What's your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:57 AM
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I have a slight slur, stutter, and lisp. None of them bad enough to do anything about professionally, but I did overcome them through sheer willpower and determination. I don't know why doing something professionally sounds like a huge procedure, there are vocal coaches that can fix it and go even beyond to the point that you talk more eloquently than most people. This would probably be like a $300 investment to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:56 AM
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serious introvert or suffer from any kind of social anxiety or depression he's socially awkward or an aspie All these things are more than fixable, the only reason to use these things as barriers to a happy and loving relationship is pure laziness on a man's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:49 AM
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Id argue that most teenage boys that are highly successfull with girls were and are naturally inclined to live a redpill lifestyle even if they dont know or understand anything about it. Alpha, Beta, Sigma male behavior is bullshit talk but what made "Chad" successfull 50 years ago would make him successfull now too. Depends, everything is relative after a certain point but there is a saying in original pickup that goes "The good is the enemy of the great." Meaning that if you're naturally good …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:26 PM
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Thinking that you're oppressed is basically self-opression, be careful with that one. I think you answered a lot here, it doesn't necessarily matter what's fair only what you both want and expect. If your career and achievements in your field are what's important to you then even doing a reasonable amount of housework will piss you off. If I were you I would just ask myself what my dream life would look like and how far am I from that. Are you just enjoying your career because of your mother's i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 08:08 PM
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You didn't mention anything in your post that had to do with what you called "actual, meaningful love" in your title. I think the very fact that your examples contradict your title is interesting but answers your own question. Dating apps and perhaps dating itself don't have much to do with love. They have to do with the convenience of mating rituals and habits. Social skills are an interesting point and a new phenomenon I'd say. It wasn't that long ago that there would be no appropriate way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:06 PM
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I think one of the great lessons women learn as that all the attention they receive from their late teens to thirty was not due to their sassy personality, or their humor, or their intelligence or career and all the things they think make them special. Then when their looks fade they are suddenly confronted with the reality that 90% of that attention was due to their looks and the rest of that stuff needs to be top 5% to actually matter and likely none of those accomplishments will be top 5%. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:50 AM
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mind you this woman earns around 400k per year… Is she really competent at something else? Why is she getting paid so much?
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:06 PM
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Why isn't child support based on need? I perhaps maybe understand the concept behind alimony being % based but why the same for children?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:22 PM
1

Good marketing and branding?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:18 PM
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I don't know exactly what you're referring to since you don't provide examples so I can't tell if you're against sex, kinky sex, or just disrespectful/nonconsensual sex. Regardless, there are plenty of men of all kinds. Plenty of men are against porn and don't watch it, plenty of asexual men that aren't into sex at all, plenty of underdeveloped and disrespectful/unpleasant/dangerous men, and plenty of men that have a healthy relationship with sex and are more than willing to have it on your term…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 08:11 PM
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Sorry, this happened to you, you didn't deserve that. I would highly recommend you look into starting your own business/brand around your yoga teaching or something similar. I think running their own thing gives women a great double benefit of not fully being dependent on a corporate system to sustain themselves and the flexibility to work from home/take time off for kids whenever they feel like as well as financial leverage so you're not dependant on a single man for your existence. It's also a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 03:06 PM
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Indoctrination is a real thing, especially in Indian culture. Imagine if you had grown up being told arranged relationships and monogamous platonic dating until marriage is the only way? It's very common for Indian women to be brought up like this and then move to North America or just be from here and move out and be exposed to the more sexually liberal culture. It's not an excuse but an explanation.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 04:55 PM
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I don't think dating strippers is common for regular women but getting frisky with them if its allowed is very common from what I hear.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 01:51 PM
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There are very categories of straight males with which they can be fully inhibited and not suffer social consequences. Imagine how they stereotypically act like with a gay BFF and it's the straight equivalent. Plus strippers are generally attractive.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 01:46 PM
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It gives them a judgment-free zone to let their freak out.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 11:37 AM
2

Electronic Dance Music, notable events coming up are Ultra Miami in late March 2023 and EDC Vegas in May. I'm a huge believer in mixing business and pleasure so if you had a way to work with the events/get compensated for attending/get comped tables there you could have the best time ever with some of the hottest girls in the country. If you're a young guy I definitely recommend volunteering at events like this, great way to get access and exposure. You'll definitely get invited to industry even…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/22 09:34 PM
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No worries bro. If you're serious about this I recommend reading Dan Bilzerian's book the setup. He talks about how he strategized his life to make it a funnel where clout, women, and money would fall into it as opposed to him having to chase desperately for it. Adam22 with NoJumper is a good example where he has his brand and podcast as a funnel and he uses it to fuck onlyfans girls and pornstars with his girl. So now part of his business is to have threesomes with his girl and the hottest girl…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/22 07:09 PM
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Find a social circle/side hobby that attracts literal models. Photographer/videographer comes to mind. Club promoter is also popular in that niche. Basically, any occupation that allows you to get compensated for hanging out with and providing value to specifically hot girls. Video editor, onlyfans agency, social media marketing freelancer, etc are also all good in this niche. The avenue you choose depends on your skillset and personality. For example, if you like EDM you could start a brand mak…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/22 06:50 PM
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Nice, the MGTOW ideology of the unsuccessful men. How is this even allowed on TRP? Get a VR headset and stop posting here.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/22 06:45 PM
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This girl is a 10 out of 10, the best I'll ever do in my life. There's NO ONE ELSE I'll ever find that's like her. Do I dump her and never talk to her again? Again, this is the hottest girl I'll ever get in my life. Don't make this about feelings, this is about you being a low self-esteem delusional sugar daddy. Hopefully, this is a troll post otherwise take a few days to read the whole sidebar and pray.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/22 04:26 PM
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The idea is that she invests more emotional energy/time into you because she likes you. Women generally don't value sex too highly so they can have sex with a guy that's decently attractive but they never want to see again. If she likes you she's gonna put more time and strategy into it and not want to just fuck you mindlessly. It's an unfortunate strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:38 PM
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That seems like a much healthier level of communication. I see it almost like war strategy, if you can't trust your generals to give you information and you get angry at bad news or suggestions then you've already lost the war.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 11:23 PM
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Do you guys share goals? For me I generally make friends with guys that have the same goals as me. So like I go out with guys that also like to go out and we talk to girls. Or we talk business and try to throw events together/work on some business together. I don't really base my friendships on mutual enjoyment, I feel like I can enjoy anyone's company if I had a reason to talk to them. Women tend to have different goals than me so it would be hard to just be platonic friends. And if a girl had …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:56 PM
2

What is the point of your friendship with them? Sorry, this isn't personal, I'm just investigating. I'm just not sure if female and male friendships are actually mutually beneficial or just a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:39 PM
2

Its a tribal thing and you don't fit in either tribe. The black sheep lifestyle kinda sucks if it doesn't suit your personality. I love it but it's not for everyone.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:04 PM
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I'm asking you precisely. Would you date them if they asked you out and if not why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:54 PM
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What would you say is their purpose in your life and why are you honestly not interested in dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:14 PM
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Sexual chemistry, masculine safety and comfort, reverence towards competency, etc. You need to make her feel like she's in good hands and you're gonna take care of her well and fuck her good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:23 PM
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That's one aspect of it but I wouldn't even say it's the core aspect. That's how you end up in "I love him but I'm not in love with him" relationships. If you're not a man for your woman she can feel like you're her best friend but you'll never make her feel like a woman should feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:03 PM
1

Seems like perhaps you would enjoy freelancing/working from home. Not having to work for a corporation on their schedule but still building something for yourself while having the comfort of staying at home. I think this way of life is gonna be more common. Traditional corporate life is very unaccommodating for basically anyone that doesn't want to burn years of their life away making money.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 02:30 PM
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True but then I'd consider that a branch of business rathe than like a shooting which I'd consider more like taking out your anger/hate for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:35 PM
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Men didn't really have alternative options beforehand. If the only way you're gonna get a female in your life is by submitting to the institutions then it's not so bad of a deal. Now a man can make his money however and wherever he wants and date and fuck whoever he wants so it makes less sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:44 PM
2

Exactly, having a relationship on your own terms is king now. I'm a big fan of the idea of a private marriage, if my girl is good, loyal, and helps me out then we can have a big celebration for her and invite all her friends and family. The government can fuck off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:43 PM
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Most of us can relate to not being successful with women, being isolated, and not knowing what to do about it. I don't personally relate to the victim mindset, I relate to those that want to change and are willing to put in the effort but don't know how to. Some people I give advice to, give them hacks I wish I had in their situation and they double down on their victimhood and basically tell me to fuck off. Those guys disgust me honestly and I don't see a way they're gonna change their situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:41 PM
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Coordinated violence for the sake of business(theft, drugs, hits, etc) is very different than lashing out type of violence. I doubt there's even a single recorded case of a guy in a fulfilling relationship that ended up doing the latter and shooting up people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:40 PM
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I hate when I accidentally forget to shower and end up shooting a club. We should make showers more accessible to all. I think this latest one had a different issue though, he forgot to be himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:38 PM
1

Submissive is also a real thing. I fully want basically what's a bdsm dom/sub relationship with many or one woman and if they're quality, offer value and are loyal I don't mind paying for absolutely everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:36 PM
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Definitely submissive. I don't intend to seriously date until I have my financial situation in order and if the women I have in my life then offer value/are loyal I don't mind paying for everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:34 PM
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There is no need for society to help men because there are only two kinds of men, those who mold society and those who are enslaved by it. The former won't need your help and the latter is already right where he's needed.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/22 11:50 PM
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I don't think it hurts to go and hear him out; worst case you learn more about him, men, and your relationship with men and that's always good. Perhaps he's had a specific trauma or he's working on openness in general. For men, this is a process that takes years to solve and that's only if you're willing to and actively working on it. Good on you for confronting it in the first place, extremely important to know what you need and want. If he can only give you 20% openness and you'd need at least…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/22 11:12 PM
2

Probably a little hornier too, more willing to make the trade. Yeah for sure lmao. Dudes compromise on looks and sanity on that one until they learn better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:06 PM
1

I would argue its probably even lower. Depends if you mean SMV or RMV but for a woman to commit to you you need fitness, attractiveness in general, income, lifestyle, social circle, etc. How often do you see high-quality women date-fit dudes that don't bring much to the table? Even if you consider like a jacked bartender that gets laid a lot, that has a lot more to do with his relative social status in that context, access to drunk horny women and social skills than him just being fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:36 PM
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The reverse is not true though, being fit is only 30% of your value as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:00 PM
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SMV doesn't fully have to do with weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:40 AM
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Those dudes look average af too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:14 AM
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So do you get a list of all the things she won’t do before you get together, so that you don’t end up asking her to do things she doesn’t want to? Basically, yeah. The point is to stress open communication so if she also has things that she ends up particularly liking or disliking we can adjust as we see fit. Is this a genuine BDSM situating? Like are you meeting her on FetLife and coming up with an agreement first or are you just hoping to find a woman like this in the wild? How soon will you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:51 PM
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My relationship dynamic would basically be what the BDSM community describes as a dom/sub relationship. So it's based on boundaries and open communication but she would have to do everything I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:33 PM
9

Meet your dating partners at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:31 PM
0

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:30 PM
2

Non compliance and dishonesty. If my woman can't be transparent, honest, and work together with me enthusiastically then it will never work. I see a lot of married couples/relationships just bicker all the time and refuse to do simple stuff for each other; I find it crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:49 PM
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A lot of guys also have internalized shame when it comes to dating and sexuality. They inherently judge the girl for being sexually free and weirdly they also judge themselves! That's why a lot of guys randomly turn into religious puritans after they've done their rounds lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:41 PM
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...the average male is a pussy (granted, i tended at a student focused club) That would be true even if you served at a high-end lounge with only millionaires. It's not feasible or even advantageous to most males to develop an alpha position in their social circles.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 02:00 PM
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I'm always a fan of day 2s. You can make out with a girl, get her IG, and setup a date with them later on. Yes you'll lose plenty of girls that way but also you'll sort out all the girls that you don't really like and don't like you. Drunk sex is hot but not the best anyway. At the very least make sure there's 0% LMR and she's 100% down and it's not in a situation that makes her look bad in front of her friends. Very common for the girl to have no issues and then her friend gaslights her into th…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 01:55 PM
1

I mean it's on a scale right, agreed they wouldn't pick a lazy guy that does nothing but basically the masses had to pick hard-working peasants, laborers, and factory workers for their daughters to pair off with. Now that it's a bit more of a free market then women don't give a fuck about you being a hard-working middle-class dude, that's what they already are themselves so they don't get much benefit out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:29 PM
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100% true, it's cute to be broke when you're 22 but not 32. Life is getting way more expensive and more dudes than ever are flashing their money online. For every IG influencer that they see having a cool life, the regular dude's lifestyle gets a bit less appealing every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:01 PM
1

For sure, what qualities do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:19 PM
1

That seems like an unhealthy relationship dynamic if that was the case. There are many ways around it, it just helps with regulating impulse which is basically what a child would need from a parent or a man helping himself but to have your partner be in control of it seems weird.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 05:06 PM
1

I think a lot of guys like variety so even if you get your hot girl doesn't hurt to see other ones on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:18 PM
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100% agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 04:07 PM
1

Which healthy male would need his girlfriend to regulate his porn use? So OP's man both has porn issues and also a lack of responsibility and accountability.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 04:06 PM
1

I know guys that have triple and 4 digits laycounts and not a single one can sleep with multiple actually hot girls every week. Which men are you talking about? Maybe someone like Dan Bilzerian who built his whole lifestyle around being surrounded by model-tier women but I think it's exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:48 PM
1

I think you're right but the average relationship in general is bullshit. I think the biggest benefit you get from being high-value is to demand a relationship on your terms and not be at the mercy of the whims of your partner. Even if an average-looking girl was peaceful, pleasant, and submissive you could have a phenomenal relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:46 PM
0

A lot of high-value guys sleep with a lot of average girls because they're easier to deal with/bed. Just in general if you consider the implications of a dominant/submissive relationship then if you're into dating submissive women they mostly just have to be there and not do anything wrong to add value whereas someone that's taking the dominant role has to have value to back it up. This goes even more if you're dating multiple girls vs putting all your eggs in one basket with a single girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:38 PM
1

That's what I'm thinking, if you're mature enough to handle communication and working out a sexual relationship with many people then probably you're a bit better partner than the average male. Thank you for the podcast recommendation, I'll check it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:33 PM
2

Wouldn't polygamy be even better for raising children? Most women today struggle to raise a child by themselves without the support of other close women that are relatives. If a man had 2-3 women at home then it would make it exponentially easier for them to take care of the kids together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:22 PM
1

Which men are left out of the dating pool? If a man has many women then those women are still available to date if you offer them a better offer/they're not satisfied. If the average man has nothing to offer the average woman then that's a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:20 PM
1

Do you think there is any significant difference in the toxicity of an average monogamous and polyamorous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:19 PM
1

The polyamory scene is like the sex version of the dungeons and dragon community indeed. Plenty of attractive guys do it but don't take part of the scene though. Dan bilzerian, David bond and baddiesonly are good examples you can find on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:15 PM
1

Many guys I know in real life are in their early/mid-20s and have never dated/slept with a girl. Or they did it once or twice by pure luck and would have no idea how to do it again. Many men are fully into the porn/video games work and function normally socially but have a non-existant dating life and you would never know if you don't notice the subtle signs or ask them directly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:14 PM
2

Dude for real, so many guys I know complain about the dating status quo but only do the bare minimum to improve themselves. It's really not that hard to be in the top 20% of men, have a stable career/business that's going somewhere, and workout/have a cool social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:12 PM
1

I see a lot of girls going the pseudo-polyandry route. Girls have simp guys do stuff for them and sometimes literally living with them as a basically type of sub bf. I think stuff like that is gonna get more common as many guys are not willing to put the work in to become "alpha" but will accept being submissive to a girl in exchange for some form of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:11 PM
1

It would help a lot of them that do want many wives/sexual abundance. How many rich men/politicians get caught in political scandals due to cheating where as if it was socially acceptable they could do w/e they wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:09 PM
2

If the average dick is so valueless then it only makes the few men that stand out infinitely valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:08 PM
2

Islamic polygamy isn't really comparable to western polygamy though. Those relationships are based on coercion or financial bribery AFAIK. I don't imagine these men having very intimate and fulfilling relationships with their wives, they're mostly just for trophies and status and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:07 PM
-2

I think you greatly overestimate the amount of value the average male brings to a relationship. The average male can barely support himself financially, has little purpose and ambition for a greater life beyond making a bit more money, hasn't done emotional work so can't really relate to women and doesn't react well to stressful situations, etc. I think many women would benefit more by bein single and/or sharing a high-value man that fully committing themselves to the average western man today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:05 PM
2

Plenty of guys only date bi girls that also date other girls. Open is a big label but ultimately you can have whatever kind of relationship you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:00 PM
0

What does polygamy have to do with cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:58 PM
2

I don't think most guys are suited for it/desire it, when I tell people I plan on having five wives most guys think that's too many. Even guys that sleep around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:55 PM
1

Are you arguing that it shouldn't be bs for the average man? This is actually great news for men overall, any man willing to put in extra effort can now get more than his fair share. This is the greatest era in history to be a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:54 PM
2

Dude from your post don't worry about game, about your damn finances and social status. Cooks and chefs is one of the most low status/shitty lifestyle carreer paths out there, I hope you have a plan B. Women are simple, they'll be with you if you're their best possible option. If that's you then you can have your cake and eat it too, it feels so foreign because so few men manage to get there. There are plenty of bisexual women out there that feel lonely and unfulfilled with a monogamous relation…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/22 06:13 PM
7

Is it a bug or a feature >:D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:32 PM
1

Isn't it interesting how when men have unusual and offensive opinions they can't own them? It's never "I personally believe in X and even though most people don't agree that's what I believe in" it's always most men also believe this even though it's wildly inaccurate
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 02:31 PM
4

That's why a lot of girls don't reply to you even if they like you. Once you get a response you have to switch it to IG/# asap or lose her forever. Its a lose-lose for both genders really. Only tinders wins racking in the $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:44 PM
2

I love this meta, it's like the two voices are the same just on opposite sides. There are plenty of bigoted, intolerant, manipulative, hypocritical, and violent men out there and now the bigotted, intolerant, manipulative, hypocritical, and violent women are coming out; just looks a bit different but it's the exact same level of consciousness, and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:51 AM
1

Are you sure you're not in a codependent abusive relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:50 PM
1

Weird situation. What does he gain from this? Seems like he just got a cute coworker and now he's trying to fuck her while he has the chance, I never understand men that get into committed relationships before getting their hookup phase out of them. Puts you in a strange situation, I would just confront him and see where that lands you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:37 PM
1

Do you think men and women don't have much to gain from each other in a friendship sense then? A lot of people advocate for those kinds of friendships but it seems that goals are usually opposite indeed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:34 PM
1

I think your first step is to force communication on this. It's not water under the bridge if he's constantly doing it. I would figure out if he desires to see other women with you or if he just has this need to do it away from you due to some unsolved trauma. If he's willing to do it as a couple but just not involve other men then see if that's something that appeals to you. If he for sure refuses to discuss it then I would be concerned that it would happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:15 PM
2

I'd add that if you're a creative person or have any doubt as to whether college is worth it or not then don't go. The economy is becoming more and more decentralized and you'll never get back the time you invest in a college degree. Have of the kids I know at good schools are studying what is equivalent to a full time job weekly. Start a business, freelance, learn to make content, and by the time your peers have finished their degrees you'll be financially independent forever.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/22 07:10 PM
3

My issue is more about doing that while abroad, with a different race, than actually just the sex work. It kind of give me the impression that he wouldn't do that with a woman he saw as "equal". Anyway, I just think we need to talk things. Interesting comment. Would you feel differently about it if he had hired local escorts?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 06:12 PM
2

It's not because people get a lot of attention for something that they get anything out of it. The black lives matter movement did nothing for the life of the average person black person now. In 50 years general acceptance will help you but in the short term it will do 1% if you're lucky. Are you desperately hopeful for yourself of others? If you want to help yourself the best thing you can do is learn everything you can and become as powerful as you can and make things better for yourself. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:18 PM
2

I meant groups that are likely to get social support. Men as a class are able to get what they want and make the rules. That's as a class, if you're a disenfranchised individual that obviously doesn't help you much. I just don't share your optimism, I think it's very naive. Which group of society is supposed to take pity and help men that are struggling? Powerful men? They don't give a fuck and will leave you for dead if you're not helping them become more powerful. Women? Don't give a fuck and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:04 PM
2

Yeah but be careful about what's being said and what's being done. Women don't individually get much help in their lives from these movements, especially not in anything related to dating. If you can't make it work it's not a trending Twitter hashtag that's gonna make your life better. Also men are dead last on the vulnerable groups that need helping, after the children, the elderly, the disabled and sick, the women, the fringe identity groups then maybe men. For good reasons btw this is a bless…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:39 PM
2

I agree but there's only so much we can do about that. Human societies, in general, are not based on empathy and mutual cooperation, there's a bit of that in certain isolated cases but it's mostly ruthless competition man. Especially with the things that really matter like business/money and dating as a whole. Women's standards are based on them finding mates that can compete in our society so it's never gonna be based on altruism but always fundamentally on utilitarianism. That's why I advocate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:23 PM
2

True but then they have to realize that there's not really an alternative to figuring it out. You're dealt the cards you're dealt and then you have to learn how to make those cards work. We're not yet at the point where collective solutions will lead an individual to any significant point of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:53 PM
8

I think you're close to being wrong, something like 30% of men have had no sexual partners in the past year/are virgins in their 20s. This is men overall so if you don't count the men in relationships I'd say well over 50% of single men struggle to get laid/have never gotten laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:51 AM
4

Dating apps behavior doesn't correlate 100% to real-life dating behavior. You can have a wildly successful dating life regardless of your ethnicity but it probably won't be based on online dating. Autism traits have to be learned to be managed in social situations by exposure therapy, Owen Cook is a famous dating coach who talks about his Aspergers growing up and how he had to overcome that, and now he has a phenomenal dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:49 AM
1

You mean like getting escorts? Nope, he just has a dope place and invites people over for parties if you count that as using money. Which you should be using to your advantage, I don't get this red pill point of not using resources to get girls? You shouldn't pay them but if you're broke it's gonna make everything harder of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:03 PM
1

Then my friend, I hope you have fun being the end of your bloodline and being miserably lonely while those of us that put the work in have great adventure-filled lives with many cute girls. best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:42 PM
1

That didn't help me when I was awkward, playing league of legends all day and taking no action. And now I do better than guys that are better looking than me and more jacked but don't know what they're doing. I could literally send you a video of my 5'4 Indian friend with 3 girls lol. Your excuses are what's keeping you stuck pimp 💯 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:33 PM
15

I mean girls do things instinctively, not really strategically. She felt bad and enjoyed having someone nice to talk to. If you like her, pursuing her and asking her out again was the right move. You put her in the position of having to make a choice and not leave things ambiguous between the two of you so either way you win. If it doesn't work and she never replies then just take the L, learn the few lessons and do it again with many other girls and it'll work sooner than you think.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:06 PM
1

What about men who do everything right with their partners and then they are cucked at a bachelorette party or at any other time? It's not difficult to find such cases on the Internet and also in real life. Well that's a different topic harder to answer but And what do you have to say about all those men who have made great efforts to improve themselves in every aspect and yet remain lonely and virgins and have been rejected countless times? It's not hard to find such cases on the internet and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:42 PM
1

If you refuse to improve yourself then that's what you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:35 AM
1

I mean sure, there's archetypes of all types I'm sure that guy exists. If they're satisfied with their lives that's great, to me that just doesn't seem fulfilling if you're not doing somethin particularly outstanding with your life. That just seems like the cozy version of an average middle-class man, if that's what you aspire to be I think there's exponentially more that this life could give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:08 PM
2

Yeah, that's exactly it. That's why I thank god for social media, I was told about dating skills and entrepreneurship from the age of 16 so from then it was always in my reality. Some guys don't get that lesson until they're divorced, that sucks. I understand why they're angry. The good side is the successful guy that gets everything handed to him in your example also usually ends up in a not great marriage/will probably get fucked in the economy we're about to have in the next 10 years. True va…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:31 PM
10

Yeah exactly but social media makes it worse because you see that a lot of these guys are similar to you but they live completely different lives. We see Hollywood stars/tv actors as being almost made up but the guy that works out at the same gym as you and posts stories with 3 girls over the weekend hits a lot closer to home. Similar to girls that see more popular girls than them get 10x the amount of likes and followers and getting treated to nice trips/dinners/etc. I'd guess that 90% of why s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:43 PM
3

Discrimination in what way? The world is a market, if you expect others to hand you the things you want; you're in for a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:16 PM
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A lot of people make great points saying that most men in history were probably not desired for their looks but always for their utility. The problem now is with social media and the internet in general, men(and everyone) can see how people "better off" than them are living. So if you're getting shit from your wife while you see a broke bartender banging 3 girls a week or Dan Bilzerian with 15 girls, you get pissed off and depressed whereas before you would've never heard about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:11 PM
2

However, in most countries there is a significant expense in giving money to poor people and kids who get raised in the poor environment. Collectivized help is meant for women, children, sick and elderly. It's the surplus that we can afford/want to give out, it's never gonna be great. Men are cursed/blessed with having the power of just getting powerful and taking what they want. Well yes, women now get more freedom to explore and now men are not culturally forced to only marry and bed one woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:52 PM
2

Why should men expect society to cater to their needs? Collectivized support was always meant for the elderly, sick, women, and children. A man should be able to dominate and make anything work in his favor. If psychologists/cultural pressures succeed in molding you with their pressure then that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:45 PM
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The problem with your analysis is you expect people to behave as a collective and not as individuals. It is better for people to explore, build and rely on their own value vs conforming to norms for the sake of maintaining balance. These new sexual rules let women explore and find the men that they are attracted to and they'll get along with long term vs just a random guy she's basically assigned to that she'll learn to get along with. It also lets the guys that put the work in to get whatever w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:42 PM
3

Usually not worth keeping going, some guys are desperate and psychos. I've heard plenty of stories of guys going to jail over a girl that was cheating on them. Find another girl with less drama.
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:31 AM
1

I mean agreed that women in their 30s-50s are hot AF but your other point I disagree with. Most of what makes a man attractive we only develop in our late 20s/early 30s. Success in career/business, influential social networks, time to work on fitness, charisma, dating experience, etc. This is only for the men that work on those things and don't let themselves go but most of the guys I know have more dating success in their late 20s than their early 20s and 30s are no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:44 PM
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I think it's fine, society goes through waves. Women that seek to distance themselves from men are as silly as the MGTOW crowd. It's an easy disqualifier to let you know who's rational enough to invest time in and who is a bomb of insanity that could go off at any second. I don't really blame these women, mostly feel bad for them.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:53 PM
6

I wonder if they've investigated the causes of anxiety related to porn use. Is it because of shame? Or is it because you're sexualizing people more so when you make eye contact with a woman you're thinking about sex instead of platonic thoughts so it's a more intense kind of connection? Would be interesting to see more in-depth research.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:24 PM
1

If you truly want help, send me your IG in my DM and I'll give you more precise advice. I'm a photographer and I've coached guys on game and social media/OLD, in my experience their issues are 99% limiting beliefs/laziness and they refuse to do the things that work. If you're ready to actually change then I'll help you free of charge.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:39 PM
1

Playin Elden Ring
/r/seduction29/10/22 06:45 PM
1

You have a terrible mindset and perhaps it's best that you don't infect other people with your depressing attitude. For most other people, dating and socializing are a skill anyone can learn. I was playing LoL in my basement 12 hours a day in my teens and early 20s and now I go to penthouse/yacht parties and I'm trying to date 3 girls at once that's my next goal. Leave your limiting beliefs somewhere else brother.
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:02 PM
0

There's no use complaining about it, just fixing it. You get dealt the cards then you have to play it, end of the story. I learned social skills in my 20s from hanging out in the game community, it's very easily doable. Guaranteed if you live in a big city there's a group you can join where guys go out together weekly. That's a good start to a social circle then branch out from there. You're in a good situation, just gotta get rid of the victim mindset.
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:00 PM
19

So why not start now? What are you currently doing to improve your dating life?
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:09 AM
9

Of course, I said it has nothing to do with ambition. You just have horrible logistics.
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:17 AM
5

Well yeah, living with your parents puts you in the boy category not the man one. That has nothing to do with ambition just logistics.
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:05 AM
2

Makes sense, thank you for elaborating. I agree story telling is a core component of the universe itself. Without a good story, what's the point really? I think you have the right idea but I believe it's possible to find the same sense of wonder, excitement, adventure, and emotionality that you would get from art in a relationship. Definitely not the average relationship but you can write your own relationships ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:13 PM
2

Do you consider yourself asexual and how old are you by curiosity? I'm trying to understand your point but I don't see how writing scripts/painting is gonna fulfill you as much as your relationship with the opposite sex. Could be wrong though and it shouldn't be an either-or but seems hard to imagine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:36 PM
2

there are so many more important things in life. Such as what? I don't understand this argument, IMO the only thing comparable in importance to your dating/sex life is your career/business life. What else could be more important to figure out, hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:31 PM
-1

I feel like hotel gyms would be some of the best place to pickup girls. Regular gyms have girls that are regulars and workout, aren't pretty much every hotel gyms filled with tourists? And if tourists are single then 90% they're looking for some fun adventures.
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:01 PM
2

I think a lot of the institutions and social systems that made it so 80-90% of males mated by the time they're 30-40 are starting to fall apart. There are way more men than ever that are satisfied with porn and video games and are not putting the work in that would make them viable mating and child-rearing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:36 PM
1

I think we get in massive trouble whenever we put a value judgment and use the word deserve in both contexts. I think it makes more sense to just objectively study the past to be able to predict the future and adapt. Regarding your 2nd paragraph, I think it will be much darker than that. There's no option to drop out when you starve/become homeless as an alternative. The same people struggling to get laid are also the last people that would be organized, disciplined, and motivated enough to lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Religion and enforced monogamy was a massive bonus for the average man. A free market type economy is amazing for someone willing to put effort and disastrous for the average joe. Some theorize we're going back to right-wing enforced monogamy since otherwise western society will become too unstable. Women's rights have already been pushed back in the US with the abortion stuff, it could keep going that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:16 PM
1

AFAIK humans were never made to childrear as a couple but as a tribe/group/village/extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:14 PM
1

Because there are many great men who aren't picked to be fathers, and many objectively bad men who are picked over and over again. Great and bad in which context? I believe evolution has naturally filtered out for social ability and physical dominance, things like emotional development aren't caught up yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:08 PM
1

What exactly have you tried and what hasn't worked? I was in the same boat until I was 22 years old and then I did a pretty massive amount of cold approaches and online game and moved to the biggest city in my country and now I've had multiple FWbs, hookups and relationships.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:28 PM
3

I'd be careful taking relationship advice from friends, especially if they don't have the relationship you want to have yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 11:29 PM
10

You're missing the point. Tinder is not a communication app, it's a meetup app. Meaning you use the app to meet people in real life and this exposes women to way more interactions with men than in previous decades. This leads them to be exposed to men that actually have well-developed communication, relating, and flirting skills so the average man that doesn't develop this looks infinitely worse in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:48 PM
2

Are your pictures more attractive than you are? Are you attractive in general? These are important questions to diagnose this, it could be something like that or it could be that she got back together with her ex, got really busy with work, it was an okay date but nothing special, etc.
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:51 PM
1

Of course. A female has much more value to society than a male in general. The average male is just useful for labor. To stand out as a male you need to put a lot more work in but arguably the payoff is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:09 PM
6

Why not?
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:34 AM
2

This is a good comment and a great point. You won't get any sympathy because the masses don't like sexual behavior that goes against the norm but thanks for writing it out. Age makes gender differences more extreme and it makes sense that a lot of people would enjoy that. It can come with problems but so can any other kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:46 AM
1

I don't know what kind of social media you're consuming but there are plenty of virgin girls in college lol. Even if that number was still 5-10%(which the stats backup) that's still hundreds if not thousands of girls depending on the size of the school you go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:41 AM
-1

Clearly not since you categorize yourself as ugly. There's no way that's good for self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:43 PM
0

What makes you ugly and why haven't you taken the steps to fix that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:37 PM
1

Don't consider yourself an average man. Consider yourself an elite man in training. Find the guys in your city(through facebook/whatsapp/telegram game groups) that are able to successfully approach women and hangout with them. Most are down to shoot the shit and talk to girls and they'll be brutally honest about what you're doing wrong, wearing wrong, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:36 PM
2

I like your point about finding a man appropriate for a lifestyle that you want. If you marry a rockstar that made his life about excitement, defying norms and fucking a bunch of girls then that's what you should expect. If you marry an accountant then a nice stable marriage is what you expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:31 PM
5

You're definitely right in that even men that are traditionally successful with women lose their edge as time goes and the environment they were naturally good changes and they can't adapt since they never actually figured out the rules of the game itself. You're missrepresenting social circle game though. The point is to use it as an addition to your dating life and to be at the top of the social circle and use it to do activities/event you'd want to do anyway. Joining a group of guys that can'…
/r/seduction16/10/22 01:09 PM
3

In which way do you think capitalism should be ended/changed? I think the individuality and competition it brings are great as long as there were greater safety nets at the bottom and the punishment for failing/not wanting/being able to compete wasn't basically death, misery, and despair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:37 PM
2

Most of the problems described here are rooted in deep socioeconomic conditions outside of our control and shouldn't be blamed solely on the individual. You're exactly right but I don't know what the conclusion is supposed to be after that. If I'm partly fucked for reasons outside my control it's great to understand that and the exact implications that come from it but then I still have to do the work and get what I want. I feel like a lot of guys on Reddit post a lot of stuff and expect people …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:45 PM
1

He's trying to gaslight Pierce Morgan while on camera? Can you show me the timestamp where you believe he did that? I genuinely feel like they were both trying to gotcha each other, I don't think Andrew was more deceitful than Piers was. but turns out he didn't have the "Fuck Off" money. What do you mean by that? Yes he got cancelled but it seems his platform and business were fine specifically because he does have fuck you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:03 PM
0

What are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:13 PM
-1

Plenty of young women are very into older men and plenty of men don't gaf about high n-count women. Are you basing this on random creepy uncle vibes older men approaching you or actual men that seem/are high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:48 PM
10

He never said most but depending on which community you hangout with, I'd also say my experiences would say this is extremely common. High-value calibrated older men do very well in the socialite/nightlife/fashion scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:46 PM
1

When I was in college on the bus I had an older dude literally pull the earbuds out of my ears because he wanted my number. That is harassment. Someone screaming from a car can be harassment. Yeah but that has nothing to do with the scenario, that's just harassment. Wouldn't you consider a guy younger than you or heck even a woman doing that to you harassment? That's his point. Cold approach is not very effective so I don't know where you are getting this 'plenty of women' from. Where are you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:44 PM
3

How is he fake or bitter? There's way more bitter literally on the front page of TRP right now. If anything Tate is the most public form of red pill achievement we've ever had so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:46 PM
1

I had mixed thoughts about the interview. I think you're right on a few points where Tate was overly obtuse but I think overall he did well. He was aggressively interviewed on national TV by a professional journalist of 30 years that was trying to trap him on his most controversial takes. He mostly defended himself well and made some good points as well. Piers just released a video on Jordan Peterson's channel where he talks about interview techniques and listening vs attacking in conversation. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:58 AM
3

Are these girls you're crazily attracted to or just average girls that were down to fuck? When I'm in scarcity I get really horny for average girls but after 1-2 times I basically lose all sex drive. Whereas more attractive girls I've seen for a while that I was moe into I want to fuck all the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 02:47 AM
1

Why is he a psychopath? Wild accusation.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:37 AM
2

Conflicting agenda >_<
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:04 AM
0

How so?
/r/MensRights16/09/22 10:21 AM
-8

Why would I not want to watch a cute girl over a random dude if I'm watching something? Men need to step their shit up and start to provide real value to the market if they want to stay relevant, that's not necessarily a bad thing. Men have always needed to pave their own way, what is this "the system should provide for us" nonsense?
/r/MensRights16/09/22 03:45 AM
2

Call of duty taught me that this would be deadly no matter where it hit you.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 04:09 AM
2

What a weird take, compiling information and presenting it in a concise and effective is what makes courses valuable. Have you started or tried to start an online business yourself? It is crazy hard but it's not that complicated. Create a product/service, pitch it to people, sell it, provide it effectively and then increase the effectiveness of your delivery and exposure. Most people could start a business and make it viable in the next 1-2 years if they wanted to, they just have limiting belief…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:59 AM
5

How do you vet that someone is qualified to teach you online business? Idk to me it's not rocket science, you take the advice try it out, and if you get some traction cool if not you learn and try something else. I don't understand the attack, how do you vet that high school/college teachers and professors and qualified? For me I'm biased and it's a personal issue because I feel like school didn't teach me much and online business saved my life but just objectively I don't understand the critici…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:41 AM
6

Why are they nonsense? Are you sayin that there are good discord courses and bad ones and his is bad or that online courses are nonsense? I don't recall there being a part on crypto investing in his course, at least not for the beginner's ones. They're separated into 4 parts depending on if you have no money and time or a lot of money but no time. Most of the beginner ones are based on freelancing and skills you can learn to monetize quickly albeit not for huge sums of money. See how you made an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:04 AM
4

that's not what he says, he says if you aren't rich you have no power in society. He is right. And his course is a business starter course for $49, how can you go wrong with that and how much is a semester of schooling? I watched Coffeezilla's video and felt like he was reaching and pandering. Tate is a dickhead and has some incredibly bad takes at times but most of the critiques against him are bad takes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:38 AM
3

Start your own business, working at a company these days is career suicide.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 11:47 PM
2

They need to give up their individuality, move in with their in-laws, listen to the in-laws, do all the chores of the house, take care of the aging in-laws, work their +40hours a week, take care of the kids, ... Fair enough but then the question is how rigid do you think that part needs to stay? One side or the other will have to give and I don't think Korean women will tolerate being slaves in 2023 and beyond while looking at hot girl summer videos on Tiktok from western countries. The world is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:31 AM
1

Women even in the west only settle down and marry at around 30. I believe the average age of first marriage for a woman in Canada is 33 and in the US 31. That's when your biology really kicks in, you realize that the career you've worked on for the last 5-10 years doesn't bring you happiness and you don't care much for your coworkers and end up dropping your standards and marrying. I don't see why Korea would be any different and why a woman would settle for a lifetime of loneliness vs a slightl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:06 AM
3

Again, this is projection. Korea is super conservative. You do not have harems in Korea. That's not gonna happen, that isn't currently happening. How long do you think that's gonna last though? 40% is a massive number lol, you can't have 40% of the population not reproducing in a single generation. As these women hit 30-35-40 they're gonna either have to suck it up and fuck/date/marry the lower tier guys, the higher tier guys or move abroad and date foreigners. I don't really see a fourth option…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:17 AM
4

What do you think of the idea that more and more low tier/mid tier males are gonna be priced out of the dating market and become more and more bitter and eventually fully double down on the online and eventually VR world. The higher tier guys/rich guys are gonna end up with more and more women(similar to current OLD trends) and end up in 10-15 girl harems. Seems like economic and dating inequality is getting worse and worse for the average man globally and I don't really see a technology/cultura…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:51 AM
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Makes sense actually. Fortunately, we kind of have a global standard to judge every country by now. I don't doubt that the life of the average woman(and lower/middle-class men too to be fair) in all 2nd/3rd world countries is pretty abysmal. I would hope that their civil rights movements will come faster as they have the example of the western world to use as a reference point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:20 AM
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According to this here, you are right. Poor women are more likely to remain poor than poor men. I wonder why that is and if it was just as common in history. It does make sense because higher-status men seem to have no problem sleeping with women of lower status than them but don't usually commit to them/give them economic opportunities. Very unfortunate information when you put it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:16 AM
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I don't know of any stats that would predict this but I do think that the future is gonna end up with the low/medium tier males broke and hooked on VR and the top tier males being millionaires with harems of 10-15 women. We're not too far off from that if we look at dating app statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:11 AM
7

What's wrong with South Korean men in general and how do they differ from western men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:08 AM
5

What about it don't you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:07 AM
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How is that different than the west though? I think modern dating for the average person is becoming more out of reach the more the middle-class standard of living dissolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:06 AM
5

Gender issues are so fascinating to explore now that culture is so globalized and moving so far. What you described sounds about right now only in Korea but in most other 2nd/3rd world countries in the world. I don't honestly know what the right dating strategy is for a woman in that situation, I do understand it when they opt for a bottle of wine and a vibrator over the average complaining, needy, and a lot of times abusive and controlling man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:05 AM
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On the 4th point, what is your source? From all the sites I just checked South Korea scores higher than any other country in Asia for the Gender Inequality Index(higher as in more equal) and is in the top 30 worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:01 AM
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Why is male friendship such an encouraged thing? Most men need mentors or allies; not friends. The only thing that's gonna make your existence on this earth tolerable as a man is building networks, power and money. Friends that are fun to drink beers with or to hangout with to do hobbies are great in the moment but if you gotta go back to your shitty job on Monday then that time was wasted wasn't it. Any man that doesn't improve your business, dating, or social skills in your life is a waste of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:47 PM
1

I hate that we have such binary definitions for words. Feminism clearly means different things in different contexts. I don't know how to get over this apart from literally using the word radical feminists and liberal feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:43 PM
5

What do we define as exploitation? Men that fuck $20 prostitutes can definitely be in that category but when it comes to actual commitment and dating/marriage I think that's all fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:41 PM
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Most of these women are larping bro. The second-wave feminism movement was huge in the 1960s United States and although there were a few radicals that really refused to breed most grew out of it and became normal wives and girlfriends. AFAIK.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:40 PM
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School as a whole needs to be overhauled. The most useful thing you learn is social calibration, not really basic science and geography. Out of the 12 years of school, there's no way the average person remembers more than 2-3 years and not much beyond basic math skills(if even that) and a general(mostly wrong) idea of how the world works and came to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:52 PM
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he sometimes tells me I wake up his protective instincts What do you think he means by that? I feel like that doesn't mean much to most women but to a man that's the most important feeling to him. Your woman and your children are the only thing that you'd go to war for, your most cherished children. I enjoy spending time with a book, sipping a beer, or hanging out with the boys. I don't feel deep emotions or protective feelings towards these things/people.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 07:01 PM
0

What is an average guy and why would that be a state that's acceptable to identify with? An average guy should do every single thing in his power to be the highest value male he can be and thus identify and consider the hottest women he can find his peers. Socialist equality is a good idea collectively but definitely not as an individual action plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:30 PM
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I'm not sure what the point is, if your goal in life is to get an average job and an average romantic partner than by definition that's not too hard to achieve. If you expect to then be fulfilled and not be depressed by seeing people show you the potential of life on Instagram then that's a whole other thing. I don't aim to be an average man and thus I'm not interested in average women. I don't think "average men" should be content being average and thus should aim to get the best women they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:28 PM
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Which kind of city do you live in? Maybe in a small town. In a major metropolis, if you're an average guy good luck dating. Not only is everything super expensive but the really attractive girls that were your peers a few years ago now are at tables in clubs, penthouse parties, and yachts. This is true in Toronto, New York, Miami, Los Angeles, and London from what I've seen. Soon enough this will be the whole world, it's not a bug; it's a feature. Men have to compete on a global scale now, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:32 PM
1

Yet women want the privilege of indulging in their most humiliating, embarrassing and degrading fetishes while simultaneously still being taken seriously politically, professionally, intellectually, etc. Obviously I don’t have any moral objections to what grown adults do with their body. I just don’t see how a human being can simultaneously call themselves a feminist who wants to be treated equally, while fantasizing about sleazy misogynistic men treating you like a deposit for semen in the bedr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:39 PM
1

Men cheat for different reasons than women do. Women pretty much always cheat because they're unsatisfied with their partner. Women do not cheat on really high value males.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 05:32 PM
1

Makes sense. American men have more money and are more liberal than most of their global counterpart. An American woman would have higher standards and not tolerate a lot of conservative traditional ways that a lot of cultures over the world have (apart from western Europe), so it'd be hard for global dating to help them much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:21 AM
3

I think it's very interesting to take a look at gender roles through the lens of the smaller social tribes of the past and natural selection. Human evolution runs off of female selection. Women(and the harshness of nature) select the best males to breed with. If a woman selects a man with inferior genes to hers(however that conclusion comes to be) you can think of it as pretty much literally pushing evolution backward. The other side would be a man that isn't socially powerful and dominant in a …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 04:10 AM
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I actually agree. Women don't cheat on really high value males.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:19 PM
1

We started this conversation by me saying I literally know some guys myself that are 5'4,5'5,5'6 and get laid consistently. That's my observable reality. I know you can get there too if you follow the right strategies.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:40 AM
0

Well, your limiting beliefs are your own responsibility. Just know that they're fabricated and don't need to be your reality.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:42 AM
0

Lookup Justin Marc on youtube, he's a 5'4 Indian dating coach with multiple hundred lay counts.
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:26 AM
1

100%
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:25 AM
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Literally horse shit lol. I know a lot of guys 5'4-5'7 that get laid a lot.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:28 PM
2

I think most people have garbage relationships in general, I don't think porn has much to do with it. Spending all day thinking about your partner sounds codependent, not loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:56 PM
13

Sociosexual issues are very real and aren't limited to just common respectful interactions. Sex ed and relationship ed should be a thing we're just open to talking about culturally and societally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:59 PM
8

Getting told to be afraid of men isn't the same thing(and is part of the reason we have such societal problems) as being given the right relationship and social strategies for the results you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:53 PM
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I have no issues with this, doing experiments like this to really understand human mating dynamics and bring it to mainstream attention are actually good for all of humanity, both men and women. Realizing that the field is skewed against you and the absurd level to which it is can only benefit you as a man. You would think one of the 100 men doing pushups to compete to get a date with this girl would've had a moment of clarity in the middle of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:13 PM
3

Are you friends with other women now?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:42 AM
1

He's an exaggerated character but his thoughts on men and the world, in general, are pretty accurate IMO.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:10 AM
1

You're literally an idiot, I'm a model and personal branding photographer in the downtown of a major NA city, this is my industry. I work with and am friends with those influencers, I work on some of their content. Content production is the biggest opportunity of the decade and there are many ways to leverage it using actual technical skills and proven/repeatable strategies that don't rely on luck. It is the fastest way for a woman to get out of the capitalistic system that will only exploit her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:53 AM
1

What about that do you call bullshit? These are the most effective ways to market yourself as a human being in 2022 for a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:44 AM
1

There's a difference between learning content production, digital marketing, and honing your craft vs postings selfies and hoping someone is gonna magically pay you thousands of dollars for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:22 AM
0

Become a content creator, work on her brand and mingle. The internet gives a huge avenue for women to market themselves without having to sleep around or invest in a deadend career. If I was 18 I'd move to a big city, get a job that just pays my bills and start making tiktoks/podcasts/YouTube and has that as a networking tool to meet the other content creators/influencers in your city. Do this from 18 to 25 and you'll have probably developed an insane knowledge in content production(picture/vide…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:09 AM
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You would get guilt and bad feelings from a hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:18 AM
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that's a good point, these points make much more sense when discussed without context vs in real life. When I read too much Reddit I start getting a bit bitter but I've had women tell me stories of their wild times and I never judged them in person. because I knew them my only reaction was like "cool X had a good time I'm glad."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:13 PM
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Is it not fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:11 PM
0

Has nothing to do with getting laid a lot, it could be but doesn't have to. It has to do with reaching more people that therefore having more leverage in all aspects. Having a good Instagram with also help your odds of finding a monogamous girlfriend.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:27 AM
2

50-100 girls watch every single one of my stories. When I host events(parties, photoshoots, club nights, etc) I get 1-10 that are down every time from me just posting a story. Good luck doing that with a phone number.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:11 PM
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Instagram is just a more calibrated and less commitment-intensive way to keep in touch with people. You can have people's numbers in your phone but in general, it doesn't really make sense to text them unless you want to hang out. Posting stories/pictures and engaging with others is a good way to keep your social networks alive with low effort. Especially as a guy, it's a good way to showcase the cool things you're doing in your life in a way that other platforms can't really do.
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:00 PM
2

Usually girls post their girlfriends when they're out with them. Mostly guys that they hide to induce jealousy and competition in other males while not directly saying she's going out with a bunch of dudes.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:50 PM
22

Attention is a valuable commodity, not just a vain metric. You'd have to be a fool to not leverage IG to your advantage in this day and age.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:48 PM
6

His attraction waned, but it's unclear if this is specific to me or if he would have this issue with any woman long-term. In the past, he relied on sexual novelty a lot, clearly more than he expected. I'm starting to think that it doesn't matter what the reasons are for our sexual relationship being in the background because the fact is that it isn't that strong and something is the matter underneath. This is huge, I'm surprised you didn't include this in the OP. Your relationship is only 18 mon…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/22 07:39 PM
2

I don't like your disrespectful tone man. You're saying men that build value and can offer actual tangible benefits to a woman that's dating them are in abundance? You're crazy. The more you complain on the internet about promiscuous women the more hot women you get, of course, let me pull up some stats that back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 PM
1

My issue isn't so much with the concept of fighting but as to how the deck is stacked against you. I doubt the battalion they would join under would let them bring their own weaponry and they would have to follow the orders of whatever X officer was over them. My main issue is at that point you're giving your life over to a inefficient bureaucracy with peoples who's qualification you aren't sure of and can't question. That part is suicide to me.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:29 PM
1

The best thing you can do for your boys is to get them a 2nd passport and give them emergency funds so they can flee the country if this insanity ever came here.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 11:02 PM
3

That last image is the perfect argument for building individual power. I don't blame the women, what else should have they done? As a man though, you have to realize that nobody is coming to save you and you especially shouldn't expect protection from your vague government. The Ukrainian administration should be held in international court over human rights violations for condemning these men to death. Fuck your politics, these guys probably could barely afford their rent and they died for nothi…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:58 PM
6

Women are smart to be cowards, why die in a war caused by people that are not representing your interests? The men should have left as well and the Ukrainian administration should be held in international court for forcing them to stay.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:53 PM
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The same state that lets would let you starve in times of peace if you couldn't afford to sustain yourself. Fighting to protect the buildings that are owned by people that have long left the country.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:52 PM
2

Men have to provide value to society and women. I would argue that there are more ways to be individually valuable as a man than ever. Collectively men have become less valuable to women because they can now get jobs and don't need to be provided with the basic standard of living; which is basically most of what a man has provided his woman for all of human history. This is a great age, now men really have to master different skills (business, networking, emotional mastery, charisma, intimacy sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:40 PM
1

I think you're looking at it in stereotypes. Nobody said you had to date bottle girls. There are plenty of women that network in closed-off social circles in every major cities that are incredibly hot, smart, run their own businesses and would never talk to you if you weren't a very successful man. What type of women do you have experience with? You made it sound like you wanted to date high net worth carreer women like accountants, lawyers, doctors, etc. I don't have experience dating these typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:35 PM
1

My guy, you're a meme. You live like a high middle-class peasant. You should look into lifestyle design and partake in the programs of such people as Michael Sartain, Luke Krogh, or Patrick Red, and then you'll be able to buy the lifestyle that your money can afford you. You have to know to network. Not just live the same life but buy nicer shit. Are you part of Soho New York? These kinds of networks will help you find the connections you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:08 PM
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I mean, of course? What is so crazy about the concept of money being valuable and you being by default a low-value male if you don't have much of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:45 PM
1

What kind of lifestyle does that offer you? With 1$M a year you have enough to be a high-status socialite in most cities. If you use that money to sit at home and drink beer then, of course, you won't get laid but the money should give you a top-tier lifestyle that will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:43 PM
1

Yo girl you got a mans? Or ask if her ovaries are getting fertilized on a regular basis or nah?
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:32 AM
1

Yeah for sure!
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:17 PM
3

I can review your profile if you'd like, I'm an online dating photographer.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:07 PM
1

Looks like she dodged a bullet, you're over here making Reddit posts and calling her a "bitch ass hoe" over a single date lol.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:57 PM
1

What are you doing to actively change that for yourself?
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:17 PM
1

How was your dating course? Can you give some details, that's interesting.
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:42 PM
22

Lol this could easily happen to anyone. Drinks aren't random if you're being seduced. Imagine being on a date with a girl over a couple hours, she would have so many opportunities to slip something in there without you noticing. This is terrifying.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 08:41 PM
1

I mean not literally but what's so offensive about the context? You know who owns you otherwise; definitely not yourself. It's some vague amalgamation of the capitalistic system, your government, and general culture. If you think being owned by those things is a great thing now or will be in the future then may God help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:12 AM
2

Good point, agreed tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:35 PM
6

Which ones and in which metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:19 PM
2

I'm confused, your boyfriend is a verbally abusive alcoholic that can't control his drinking and you're worried about your state of mind? I don't think he's helping honey.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 06:05 PM
21

Everything is relative. This fact should be talked about more for general perspective and gratitude but life in most western countries is still hard af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:50 PM
2

How many times have you deleted your profile? Sounds to me like you're shadowbanned and you need what's called a hard reset. Tinder sometimes shadowbans you if it detects you're trying to game the system and it'll drastically lower your reach. A decent account should get about 5-25 matches with every boost.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:26 PM
2

You're a biological creature mate, stop trying to philosophize yourself out of that fact.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:59 AM
8

This is cope and a fantasy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:59 AM
22

This is a phenomenal comment.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 07:35 PM
-1

Have you dated a woman or is this you trying to extrapolate data from Reddit? Holy oversimplification. Improving yourself to get a girl is toxic as fuck. A person should only improve for themselves. Especially since relationships with women are RESPONSIBILITIES and BURDENS, not a reward. Like another job or two. It can be satisfying and fulfilling, but a job is a job. Which is why we gaslight men into thinking they HAVE to get a woman, raise men to depend on women for intimacy, value sex as we d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:28 PM
4

Misogyny is just a subset of tribalism. People discriminate each other for any perceived difference they have, it's not exactly a grand mystery. They do it based on gender, ethnicity, culture, religion, economical status, nerds vs sports people, language, preferred console, favorite crypto now lol, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:24 PM
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