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| 151 | Its true, women don't make any effort in dating | CMV | Affectionate_Pen_623 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:31 PM |
| 13 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite... | CMV | Affectionate_Pen_623 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 09:39 PM |
| 11 | The only rule is that there are no rules | CMV | Affectionate_Pen_623 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The ugly truth about being good looking | Affectionate_Pen_623 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:10 PM |
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| 1 | A lot of people think 'small talk' is idiot shit for morons to do while we more refined types quote from Aristotle and chuckle smugly. Personally, it helped me connect with people and I found it hugely powerful.Eugh. It really is no surprise you're old, fat and trawling Tinder. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseMy comment boasts valid advice.-If you are not getting traction with the young attractive women you claim to speak with, than you likely are not evaluating yourself at an accurate level. Try the same with a slightly lower level. I have enough traction. And again, why would I be looking. Imagine the only way you converse with the opposite sex is through unwarranted advice for getting laid. Maybe meet some men who aren't losers desperate for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseThe fuck? I meant speak to young attractive women as in have conversations with them. Platonically. Who said anything about gaining traction? Ive not been single in years. This is what I mean. A lot of the women on this sub are loser at the bottom of the social totem pole whose only escape from mediocrity is dunking on incels. The only people even lower on the social totem pole. Edit: lol getting this from someone who posts on sugar baby subs. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 3 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeI do, not sure why you think I'm beating around the bush with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.Childcare is the not the NHS. Same way social care is not the NHS. I'm not a "right winger" and blaming incompetent tories for the countries whole problems is equally meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:05 PM |
| 8 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeYou're the one who presented anyone "paying" for someone. You're arguing with yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:50 PM |
| 3 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeHow much of that does she get to spend as she likes? The money she makes from working herself? Hers is hers and mine is also hers. It's an arrangement I like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:36 PM |
| 8 | The sentiment “if you have an issue with all women, the problem isn’t all women - it’s you”It actually makes perfect sense. I've been looking for a supplementary role recently, its meant that I've been doing some interviewing to gauge the market. I'm a solid candidate, I tend to come off strongly and dont flounder too much during technical grilling. But I'm also a bit...dickish. I deadpan companies whenever they try to push hybrid working and I'm pretty brash about my salary. Pretty much all three roles I interviewed for rejected me for not being a "personality fit". Was the issue me?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:16 PM |
| 7 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseLOL to the people who keep saying "get into the real world". Are you actually getting into the real world? I still speak to young attractive women all the time. I can't think of one who didnt spend a significant time on tiktok herself, would have had experience being on a dating app or had someone in her DMs or had a pretty robust digital presence. What is this "real world"??? I kinda feel people here just say that to make themselves seem less shut in than they are. I actually dont entirely agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.These days I tend to go through peoples posts before refuting what they have to say, it tends to make it easier for me to even bother. You claim to be no pill but pretty much nothing you post has a lick of empathy for the male position. I'm not talking about feeling sorry for men, but simply understanding their frame of reference. You're exactly the kind of person I feel the OPs message touches upon when demanding men adhere to this completely unrealistic false idea of themselves than none of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeThat's not within the scope of their role. Same way I don't dictate to my girlfriend anything about her professional life. Because that's not within the scope of my role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:31 AM |
| -2 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:27 AM |
| 7 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeYeah now THATS true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:12 AM |
| 21 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeBut that's this whole sub. Just a bunch of fucking jackasses repeating how different and noble they are. I mean you literally click on their profiles and see their most recently mad threads and it makes a lot of their posts on PPD kinda laughable. The sub doesn't seem to be about people debating from positions, it seems to be just about presenting how noble and dateable you are. What the fuck is the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 10:12 AM |
| 8 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degree$75k for being a girlfriend is a bad deal apparently. Lol go there she makes twice what you do 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:50 AM |
| 3 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeAgain. You show your lack of intellect and discernment. This is why people like you always struggle in relationships hence why you often end up on here raging about incels. She has a masters and works as a project coordinator transitioning into project management which, these days, can command up to $1000 a day. She earns the average wage in our country. Just has plenty of independence. More than when u first met her. But she still doesn't pay for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:47 AM |
| 17 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeWell considering she doesn't pay for just about anything, I would say its a decent deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 09:12 AM |
| 4 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeHow is a relationship not a "specific context" like anything else? I spend more hours with my colleagues than I do a lot my family. Why is work a specific context and relationships not so??? My girlfriend is pretty submissive and good lord I can't even buy a piece of furniture without her giving me shit for it. She also controls much of the decisions within the home too. Do any of you even have functioning relationships where the man takes a more dominant role? Its common as hell. Only on reddit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 08:56 AM |
| 47 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeMy bosses possibly views me as inferior in some way. Do I turn down my 250k because of such? These posts are fucking stupid. In MOST human interactions, there tends to be a leader and a follower. There are plenty of interactions where you adhere to those with greater experience, knowledge and leadership. Why is it in relationships where people suddenly now get bent out of shape about it? A lot of people want to sit there and pretend they live this "egalitarian" fantasy but, 95% of the time I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Question for Red Pill Men and Men who follow the Red Pill: How damaging do you think OnlyFans has been to the credibility of women in society and for relationships?Not redpill but respect SOME of the tenets. I think its been massively damaging. However, at the same time I think its merely a symptom of wider cultural shifts. On one hand Onlyfans has done a fantastic job of democratising porn and digital sex work and taking the power out of the hands of people like Andrew Tate (the charges may not stick but I think its kinda obvious he lures women into cam modelling "rings"). I do think people should have 100% ownership over their name and likeness (which I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousLOL I dont even believe that. Every week, two women are murdered by their partners in my country. This idea that women are somehow above desperation and pining for intimacy is nonsense sold by incel losers who cant get laid and female lames trying to convince themselves they're more independent than they actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:35 PM |
| 34 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousPeople kinda overrate women's access to "cute guy". I'm a very good looking guy (with severe sex addiction) and even I had certain levels of physical looks that I wouldn't reduce myself to. A lot of "Chads" aren't fucking as many if these "ugly" women as u think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:32 PM |
| 3 | When guys claim their only problem is the lack of sex, we should believe them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be so obsessive about not getting laid.Its the lack of validation. But most of these Incel types are gross fucking losers. And it's not even their misogyny which women find so unappealing, it's their complete lack of self respect and honesty. We like to complain about participation trophy culture but, in reality, so much of the last 50 years has been rewarding men for essentially fuck all and many of those same men crying because they're refusing to adapt. Yes, in 1970 you would work a single job and have a home and a wife raising ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:30 PM |
| 35 | Modern Western societies are still very traditionalist, but only when it comes to the views on men.True. I think thats why I dislike the criticism thrown at the girl who made the tiktok video about the lack of traditional liberal men. https://www.tiktok.com/@catchupnews/video/7242761139581488426 We can't complain about a lack of female honesty and then also complain when they're actually being honest. I actually think things have moved more into extreme expectations of men, especially physically. As I've mentioned, I'm very muscular, I thought it would be at the point now that it turns women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysActually they correlate strongly. Same way a dude with unkempt messy hair is often a bum with poor hygiene. All these comments tell me you have low fucking standards. In another thread you'll be complaining about dating men who didn't know how to wash themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Has the “body positivity” movement lost its way? It is, now, simply a beautiful lie?Yeah it was always a sham. I've never really had much ire for fat people and I've never really had any issues _not_dating overweight people but I kinda feel "body positivity" is this fucked up capitalist shell game to keep you from dealing with the problem. It's easier to satiate people with feel good platitudes whilst bombarding our senses with picture perfect women in our media. I mean most of us consume American made media and it tragic seeing how all the young starlets are forced to undergo … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesHow can financial status not matter if women are also dating men in the same financial bracket. No idea why you're constantly allowed to shitpost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Question about how body count and status works.few numbers didn't make him an entirely different person Maybe not. But he's now a liar too. So he is a different person...unless you're into liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Question about how body count and status works.Lol sounds like your husband has been lying about his partner count which kinda hilarious considering I'm assuming you're one of the posters to claim its not a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Describe the "modern man"I'm not a red pilled guy and it makes me lose respect for anyone who can't seem to deduce anything that isn't steeped in idiotic pill ideologies. You're meant to be more mature than I am 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:05 PM |
| -1 | Describe the "modern man"No offense but you're 5ft1 with a wife who is 5ft10. You're not the average guy and your life experiences will have shaped your perception differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysIt doesn't matter whether it's normal. Hemsworth is universally regarded as "hot". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysNo one needs to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysLol what does this even mean? https://www.instagram.com/p/CtmL64bLRmG/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng== That's literally taken a few days ago. God the amount of dumb shit u say just to say it 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysIts very for real. I don't tolerate a partner who doesn't keep themselves in good shape and follow some basic hygiene routines. Sorry if that's a phenomenal concept to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysYeah I don't think you know anything about charisma. Only someone completely devoid of it thinks it comes without practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 04:33 PM |
| 4 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.Bullring for shopping. Cannon Hill Park if it's hot. Digbeth for more countercultural stuff (digbeth dining club). Maybe the library. The city is really a cultural wasteland if you're looking to visit "touristy" sites which are exclusive to the city. But for general eating out and shopping thne yeah the center is okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysI have relatives who were naturally good at art as soon as they were little kids and picked up crayons. Practice as a child is still practice. A child prodigy chess champion or athlete didn't just pick up a board or ball and suddenly know what they're doing. I get more perplexed by the shit I argue on here by the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysThere is no such thing as naturally charismatic or naturally talented. Those things require work. From your posts I gather someone who doesn't really know anything about the opposite sex, despite not subscribing to any particular pill. It's like your ideas on women are based entirely off of what's fed to you on here which is just laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysMost competitive bodybuilders don't maintain single digit bf. No idea what point you're trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysLoool no. Have you been watching any sports these days? They're all fucking jacked as shit now. Yeah they're not olympia competitors but they're still jacked as fuck. All champion boxers have more body fat Looool someone should have sent the memo to Joshua, Wilder and Joyce. In fact the higher you go up the ranking, sans Fury, the muscular fucking jacked they get. Do you actually watch any fucking boxing? Probably the best heavyweight boxers over the last 30 years, guys like Lewis, Holyfield and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysAlso not sure if this should be automodded. But someone made a beautiful comment about how asinine it was when some imply that women don't care about men going to the gym and keeping in shape. And that no man ever tells women he doesn't care about well applied makeup/shaven legs/good hair. It's so weird how women don't help themselves and how so many accept this weird form of male mediocrity only to come and cry later that their boyfriends can't take care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 03:07 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysNo. Anomalies and outliers are merely that, Anomalies and outliers. No statistician worth their salt will use them as any basis on which to build a narrative or hypothesis. I'm not going to waste time arguing semantics with another shut in redditor. Hearththrobs are there for the consumption of the wider consumer. I care little for appealing to those who don't fall within the larger demography. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysThey don't. Statistics often discount anomalies or base hypotheses on majorities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysThe ones that matter do. The same way I doubt anyone really cares about my comp Sci degree or years of technical experience. Thing is, the people who do care offer me a 150k+ 95% of the women who've insisted they don't like handsome/muscular men have been just kinda...ugly. Men are getting caught up over the opinion of women who are, quite frankly, irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:43 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysBeing in good shape is kinda the definition of having good genetic qualities. Else you wouldn't be able to put on decent quality lean muscle naturally. Jesus have some of you ever even exercised? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:38 PM |
| 7 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysWhy do people argue this? I see a lot of top actors who are heartthrobs and a lot of them are jacked as shit. Efron, Hemsworth, Majors (pre domestic) all have physiques that could easily place on a local fitness model show. I think the issue is most redditors are well....redditors. I just don't think people here will be in the market for a Hemsworth or Michael B Jordan type. I mean when I think for the prototypical female redditor, Elsa Pataky or Lori Harvey aren't who come to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:37 PM |
| 10 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysEh. I dunno. I'm muscular, super muscular. Turn your head when I walk past muscular. I don't think women underestimate the effort as much as they just don't get it. I've only really known a couple girls who understand it, one of which was this younger girl I speak to in the gym asking me about using Anavar, but they're often hot and meticulous about their looks themselves. The girl in question is stupid hot. In the same way I have no idea the kind of effort it takes to be a chess grandmaster nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:27 PM |
| 6 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.Looool this comment is so spot on. As said, I'm a brit, I made a comment on the rep of Americans internationally being neutral to negative. But with us Brits its just downright negative. We have a horrible rep as tourists and women here are seen as ugly (that's kinda justified though). America's dating issues are tied up in how suburban/rural the US is, car culture, and also a general suspicion of strangers/over-emphasis on politics. Yes, this. Jesus. I live in a more car centric city here in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.Tbh I'm in the UK and I don't think Americans have any real rep except for being far and obnoxious. I definitely think the accent benefits men more than the women. TBH urban culture in the UK really exotifies the type of women you see on hip hop videos and fresh and fit podcasts but I actually think the bog standard white woman you see on film isn't really seen as anything special in a good way or bad way. That may be due to there being some level of cultural parity between anglicised cultures. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Male feminists/Simps are often sexually and romantically inexperienced.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?It sounds trollish but it's actually true. And works both ways. A lot of people really struggle to form truly intimate bonds with opposite gender. Why I say it's definitely true for men too is because so much of human history is littered with societies where women were seen for baby making and young boys for "fun". I think homoeroticism and sexual puritanism ties into many men's inability to see women beyond one dimensional archetypes. Especially noble women. But again the problem with this sub … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Male feminists/Simps are often sexually and romantically inexperienced.A lot of sex positive feminists in his circle, has slept with several of them. They all know about each other and get along surprisingly well. Hell maybe they've fucked each other too. Again this is a minority within a minority. It would be like saying the only chaste women I knew were burqa wearing Muslim women. Its just nonsensical attempts at trying to sanitize male sexuality and it's dumb because it doesn't really work in anyone's favour. The vast majority of sexually successful men aren't e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Male feminists/Simps are often sexually and romantically inexperienced.You really can't take what women on here day seriously. That purge week thread about women on here mostly being blue haired social rejects was accurate (it's just that the men are no better). MOST men struggle with being emotionally vulnerable around women and MOST women struggle with dealing with male emotional vulnerability. I'm really fucking tired of these echo Chambers and the clowns therein who think their online circlejerks with, quite frankly, effeminate virtue signalling men counts for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Male feminists/Simps are often sexually and romantically inexperienced.Yeah I just think this is horseshit. I definitely don't think attractive men are redpillers but I also DEFINITELY know most of us aren't fucking feminists either. Especially the reddit-esque femcel losers feminism. Men who spend hours "strategizing" how to approach women fail miserably Again. You don't know any fucking attractive men. And you'll be in another thread talking how your fuck ugly table top gaming partner is the epitome of masculinity. Strategies on how to get women is what all attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Yeah because posting random aborted foetuses after your abortion makes so much sense. I'm done. Someone mentioned you're another one of these delusional weirdos on here so I won't waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:33 AM |
| 2 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menThis is it though. I found it a lot trickier when I got older and wanted something more serious. But these dudes claiming that they can't a single white girl who even looks in their direction kinda confounds me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:30 PM |
| -4 | When Queens from TwoXChromosome or Twitter reveal their misandryWomen's groups are ultimately harmless directly to men. The issue with online women's groups is their negative effect on other women. I can't imagine it's healthy circle jerking with other bitter lonely women even if some of their observations are accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menI actually agree with this. I never feel comfortable saying it because I hate being one of those weirdo non white dudes obsessed with white women...but I've just never struggled to date or sleep with white women. I actually get a little confused when guys tell me they do. They're the most ruthless when it comes to chasing those Chad/Tyron/Chadpreet/Chadlee attributes in a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 5 | PPD Meetings.The men are often specifically complaining about their lack of success, while the women are often not. I think this kinda shows a fundamental misunderstanding of women. I dont think I've ever met a woman who openly complains about relationship woes as much as a man does. Especially considering women seemingly cope far better with singledom than men do. That doesn't mean they aren't down bad though. There are plenty of femcels in this sub, they would just never describe themselves as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:14 PM |
| -2 | PPD Meetings.I see s lot of normal type women posting Nah. Both genders on here are a mess. I definitely see more "normal" women on here, but it increasingly seems like a front. They're definitely more likely to have boyfriends, but they still seemingly aren't much to look at and are often lacking in pretty much every facet other than the fact they're not single. The men on here very much are incel trash though, wont deny that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?But then I'm 6ft4 and my parents are 5ft8 and 5ft6 sooo...yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menHence why I mentioned larger metropolises and younger demographic. From the way you talk, it sounds like you're in the 30+ demography. Of course, among us interracial dating was less common and was more looked down upon but, in major cities, you'll notice that dating out being some affront to the community as a lesser phenomenon. There's also a matter of social and behavioural di/convergence. I've never had a white person tell me that they "dont date outside of their race", in fact the only plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Nothing, I dont like male trolls either. But I also dont defend them because I'm in some weird ass gender war because I'm a lonely clown who cant get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:18 PM |
| 0 | What is with this sudden womens OBSESSION with height?I do wonder though, is there an evolutionary context to it? From everything I've read being tall doesn't actually have that much benefits in the wild, we consume more calories, are likely more visible targets for enemies, likely have poorer coordination, live shorter lives. If anything it makes me wonder whether height may be more tied to status and a better reflection of human mating preferences in civilised societies. With greater height being a sign of better nutrition and likely marker for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.I'm not okay with seeing dead anyone. But I can see why people would be more offended by seeing dead children compared to dead adults. Again, to think I'm having to argue this point... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Thank you. For proving that I am indeed talking a poorly socialised fruitcake. Next time, how about we share some pics of dead children? I'm sure you're a-okay with that too right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:16 PM |
| -2 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menLatinX is an ethnicity, not a race. Plenty of white latinos, also plenty of black, mixed and indigenous ones. And, even then, I believe WFLM and pretty common too. Vise versa as well. I just assume it would be harder to decipher in real considering so many latinos look visibly white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Again. You cannot see what the difference between posting a dead adult and posting an aborted foetus might be... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:10 PM |
| 4 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menBut then thats also why they're the least likely to date outside their race. Many white women (and men) would have never dated outside their race because they dont have to. Where I am its 80%+ white. In many towns and smaller cities one would have never even crossed paths with a nonwhite person. When adjusting for age demography, its likely these numbers may change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.I mean it’s weird to post an aborted fetus but it shouldn’t be taken down from a subreddit for images of morbid things. Lets use some common, grass-toucher logic here. Sit there and ask yourself why fellow human beings wouldn't want to see a picture of an aborted foetus. I know this might be hard considering the average redditor has no fucking friends or social skills. But humor me. Ask yourself why people, even on a gore site, may not take too kindly to this... Again, I'm arguing with someone a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Why do you keep mentioning her being a troll as if it takes away anything from the fucked nature of her contributions. The adequate response to someone a fucking aborted foetus is disgust, not "hurr durr she wuz troll lol!!!11!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:31 AM |
| 12 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menNot anymore. Games changed. Think I have seen at least 2-3 couples in the last month (all gen Zers) of asian dudes with good looking white women. There are a lot of mainstay opinions about interracial relations, like the following: White guys date asian girls because they're easy Black guys only date fat white women East and south asian men get no sexual attention Black women are unwanted A lot of these opinions are actually being increasingly disproven in real life, especially in major cities l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Men that are called trash by women are actually attractive enough to get women to give them casual sex in the hopes of a relationship in the future.I notice this too. Philipino, thai girls with black guys is something I'm seeing a lot more of now even here in the UK. I also think I would swap around Korean and Chinese. One east asian girl I dated a few times was Korean and they seem more open to it than Chinese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:03 AM |
| 5 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Thats a definition of a troll. Someone who makes people upset. Same way people get upset at racist/misogynistic trolls. LOL are you all for trolling now? Its weird, I thought it was only the incel types into that. But then maybe I'm speaking to a femcel type. Never know these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Reviving A ClassicThe dude is definitely giving incel, but its a roast...thats kinda the point. The girl in the OP is interesting to me though. I've never believed too much that women are done after 30 but I do genuinely think that rant got to her because she probably isn't really bartering on anything other than her looks. There's pretty and then there is "her" pretty, She's a very presentable hot, blonde white woman likely in America. I've seen so many who look like her who studied some horseshit for 4 years in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:52 AM |
| 43 | Reviving A ClassicHow was that a roast? He literally made all that shit up and most of it didn’t make any sense. Soooo....a roast? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:46 AM |
| 22 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.and before that she likes morbid things which isn't a big deal either. Yeah, "not a big deal" thats why the mods took it down. I honestly feel a lot of the female posters in here are exceedingly fucked up and you're nothing more than a mirror image of the incels you're whining about. If you cant see whats wrong with posting a picture of an aborted foetus then I dont what to tell you. And yeah cool, I dont think there is anything wrong with dating a guy who is 5ft4...but then this is someone who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:32 AM |
| 14 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.LOL seriously? This is what gets dudes about the women on this board. Most are scum. Its like someone sitting here posting comments from some incel and me acting incredulous as to why people are using it as an example of unhinged behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:16 AM |
| 54 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.Posting that aborted foetus is just fucking vile. What the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Reddit Mods Banning You After Telling You To Touch GrassNo it's not, it's CBBC and it's for the 10-16 demo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Reddit Mods Banning You After Telling You To Touch GrassYooo is that a real pic??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:24 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentFrom your own link... An M.D. is a medical doctor who treats patients, while a Ph.D. is an academic with a doctoral degree in a specific field. The abbreviation M.D. comes from the Latin term medicinae doctor, which means teacher of medicine. People who have an M.D., or Doctor of Medicine, undergo practical training during graduate school to become physicians upon graduation. The fuck are u on about? Or is this another one of these redditor, autist, bullshit semantic exercises. People differenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:50 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentThe fuck? MD is an abbreviation of a doctor of medicine and is in no way related to an doctorate. The hell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:40 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentdon't believe there's any "bullshit major". 🤣 Yeah I'm done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:37 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentAnd? As said you're likely studying a bullshit major which will lead to nothing and pay nothing. Imagine being 21 and parroting the garbage from bitter 40+ year old who presents at Revolt TV loool A lot of young black women need to touch fucking grass. Yall role like male incels parroting shit spouted by Andrew Tate. Tell me you're a loser without telling me you're a loser... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:36 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentNot sure what upsets you so much about people having an education. Nothing. I have a masters on computer science myself. What I don't like however is someone thinking their education makes them superior. Especially if that education is in some bullshit major they want the government to write off the loans for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:31 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentYour doctorate is generally named after your thesis. What was yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:28 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentYou listed one degree statistic when there’s multiple degrees on that data set… whatever makes you feel better I guess. And black people have the lowest attainment in almost all of them. DID YOU EVEN READ WHAT YOU POSTED???? The successful black men aren’t any better than average black men just because they have money So Iyanla is right then. This was literally her point. That a man's income shouldn't count more than his integrity or hard work. Honestly. Quit whilst you're behind. You've been fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:23 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentA lot of young black women are delusional femcel clowns who big up white supremacist talking points on the regular. It's the weirdest shit. But hopefully, her comments will shed more light on it. A lot want to date out, but often times the black women who want to date out are kinda the rejects of the community. They pine for white validation and yet most white men choose white and Asian woman first. Therefore its black mens fault, add an intense hatred of mixed/lightskinned/"exotical" women for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:22 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentShe makes more than you and I’m not sure why you’re being delusional thinking she doesn’t. Lol I'm actually leaning on that being a no. Let's not pretend women appearing on RH are at the peak of their career potential. Shame you can't claim Ebonis paystubs as your own though 😕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:16 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentLol miss educated can't even read her own statistics. Your link shows black female degree attainment at 13%. Lower than both white and Hispanicethnic groups. Notice how when challenging your bullshit you go off on some spiel about "excluding black men from her dating pool". Lol so why are you probably eboni even talking. Let's keep it a buck. You're invisible to black men who are successful and the white men who pedestalize aren't all that keen either. If they were we wouldn't even be having thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:13 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentA doctorate in what? There's doctorates in propulsion in reduced gravity loads and doctorates in medieval English history. Is yours the latter type? I'm assuming it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:10 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentI'm actually going to take a bet that Williams doesn't earn 200k from her Revolt TV gig 🤣 According to the HMRC I earned 250k+ last year from contracting and I doubt Williams earned that either 🤣 Again. I'm not mad that she doesn't want to date a bus driver (as I said) I'm mad at her equating bus drivers with mediocrity and I'm madder still at broke chick's like you who love through delusional women like this to make yourselves seem superior to Black men when I'm willing to bet cash you don't ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:08 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentNotice how people never answe when you catch them out on their bullshit. Lol at being lectured on mediocrity from someone who probably studied communications at some community college 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:05 AM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentThey are mediocre to her because of what she’s achieved. But they already know that which is why your justification for their complaining fails. Riiiiight. So let me get this straight I should have more respect for Eboni K Williams. A clown who runs the reality TV circuit and presents on Revolt TV over Tyrone who works for FedEx and keeps Americas vital logistics and mail network running? Or Leroy who drives the Amtrack which shows up every 10 minutes to ferry workers in their commute? Black men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:02 AM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterdidn’t read all that Of course you didn't because you're full of shit. Garbage peddlers are allergic to facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:52 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentLead software engineer in one role and senior software engineer (contractor) for another. The market is kinda fucked but tech is still paying a boatload even here in Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:51 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commenteducation and accolades Which is what? A shit degree from a shit university which pays absolutely fuck all? Ifs weird seeing overeducated fools speaking as if their garbage English majors mean shit whilst they're begging Biden to cancel those pesky student loans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:49 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentShe had a white boyfriend who ditched her the moment the pandemic kicked off. She's another one of these "divestors" angry at black men because white men place her as a distant fourth place as a viable option. I've seen this play a million times before. The most amusing thing is it's a black man keeping her lights on 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:47 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterYou don't know any hot women, you're an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:44 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentLol What am I willing to bet I earn in more in a week than you do in a quarter. Iyanla is a highly successful television host and lawyer with degrees from NYU. Married with three children. Williams is a bum ass former fox news contributor who has alluded to her having to trade her looks for career progression and whose greatest claim to fame is being on a clown ass reality TV show....Real housewives of some bumfuck middle American city. She now hosts some bullshit ass show on Revolt TV (founded … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:42 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentEh. Almost every black women I know is dating a bum or a man beneath her. Even if they date outside their race, their non-black counterpart is still a bum. No one is bitter that Eboni K Williams doesn't want to date a bus driver. She's a qualified lawyer FFS. What men are angry about is her trying to equate working class, blue collar men (the backbone of any society) with mediocrity or poor educational attainment. I'm noticing this weird contingent of younger black women attempting to equate bla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:33 PM |
| – | So what's the Purple Pill's perspective on the Eboni K Williams interview with Iyanla bus driver commentWhat perspective. Eboni K Williams is a clown ass fox news mouthpiece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:25 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterNow this is gaslighting bullshit. This is why I dislike discussions like this. OP is correct but then it allows a lot of female miscreants who operate on nothing but bad faith to come and poison the discussion. Men complaining about women mailing serial killers is not about women's content of character, its about pushing back against the bullshit spiel from many women on here which aims to blame men's dating woes on their lack of good behaviour. In reality, good behaviour has absolutely nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:17 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterYep pretty much. "It's not about the beauty of the bitch, its about the duty of the bitch" -Patrice O'neal The biggest irony is that mediocre men tend to be the most judgemental about women's looks too. It's often meedy dudes u see running around desperately trying to please a chick whose only with him for convenience. If you're an attractive guy, the first thing you learn early into dating around is how there are plenty of hot women who are absolutely insufferable or have absolutely garbage per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterMost men have low self esteem and avoid the hottest women and even women on their level physically just to give themselves a chance. This is just rubbish. I dislike the female virtue signallers but I'm starting to really fucking despise this fucking pathetic, sad sack of shit "I'm a man and everyone is so meeeean to me waaaah". Every single hot woman I have spoken to gets absolutely bombarded with attention. And plenty of those men are creeps too. This idea that men are too fragile, weak and vic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:04 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanIt's not that I don't understand. The follow on to the bullshit virtue signalling statements is realising that bulllshitting virtue signallers have tells too. As said its like the "I totally don't see race" types who go on to tell you they never had any non-white friends. At that point you don't even waste your time. You already know who you're talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:35 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanIt bothers us for the same reason it bothers us when redditors try to frame their bullshit politically correct viewpoints in any way correlate with how they move in real life. People are somewhat tired of Internet echo Chambers full of people who don't practice what they preach. It's easy to come on here and claim you're not phased by a woman's past the same way its easy for people to come online and claim they "totally don't see race" or "totally treat women with respect". Reality says otherwis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Most guys who wish they could get into the casual sex lifestyle, couldn't handle that lifestyleNo. I have a partner count which is in excess of 350. Probably higher than anyone else on this sub. I would go to sex parties and fuck 8-10 women in a night. I have a PhD in being a freak. What always struck me on those nights is how many guys would just...watch. Even more spoke about how much they liked the spcial aspect of the scene. No, not every dude wants to fuck absolutely everything that moves. I've spoken to my male friends extensively about my wild experiences, I don't think a single on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:26 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanmean, okay. You can think whatever you want about me. Definitely not accurate, but I can’t stop you from believing whatever you want to believe. Sometimes I feel this statement is a copout when I'm likely bang on. I've consumed just about all the patrice o'neal content out there and you show a fundamental misunderstanding of his message. His girl was a single mother with a colorful past that he fell for, he didn't simply ignore her shortcomings. He speaks frankly (and beautifully) about how his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:18 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanLol downvoting my posts too. Jesus some of you are pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:10 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanHe would say things about his self esteem, but He never said the reason he let her do that was out of insecurity. Actually no. I can probably pinpoint the exact conversation with Opie and Anthony. He speaks about his girl watching a basketball game and being enamoured with the leg muscles on one of the players. He then noted that he knows his girl would desire that kind of physicality that he simply could not provide. Yes, he spoke of swinging allowing him to lose that egotisical attachment to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:07 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanMy first FWB was a woman with a partner count of 120+. She was an insecure racist loser who often attempted to challenge my self esteem because she was less attractive than me. I then dated a bunch more promiscuous women, almost everyone had a string of behavioural/mental issues whilst constantly trying to undermine my self worth. After a dozen or so of these experience, I acknowledged that this was a pattern. I like sex and have lots of it (hell, maybe too much) but I also like comfort, compata… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:59 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanBut you're not a man. Isn't that what you tell the incels? Honestly you and a lot of other women on this sub come across as fucking sad. Apparently in these meaningful relationships whilst spending all day arguing with incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:55 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanI was swinging for years. I had men (and women) in that scene tell me to avoid promiscuous women. I really get annoyed at reading a lot of the responses in threads like these. 300+ replies in less than 3 hours. Women know damn well a lot of men don't like promiscuous women but you'll have piece of shit redditors sit there and trying to convince you it's something admirable. This entire website is full of poisonous low lives leading people to the abyss through some asinine belief in their own mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:50 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanPatrice O'neal was also a swinger who spoke openly about letting his girl fuck other dudes. I am an absolutely HUGE Patrice fan and he shaped much of my success today but he also admitted that much of his willingness to let his girl fuck other men was based on a relative insecurity about his own appearance. So you may be admitting to something there chief... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 9 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?I've been in an intensive weight loss program for a year and only managed to lose 80 pounds so far. Huh???? 80 pounds in a year is fucking impressive and anymore would border on unhealthy. Also this post is just...eh. It sounds like you're probably severely morbidly obese. For such individuals, its not a case of merely being overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:31 PM |
| 3 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Being broke is slightly worse. Being a broke man in todays world can have a drastically negative effect on many of your health and relationship related outcomes. Honestly, I feel being a bigger woman is mostly fine provided you're realistic. I feel most older women who were bigger fared okay but I'm seeing a younger generation come up expecting the same treatment of their prettier counterparts and its foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:29 PM |
| 4 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Overweight women are treated as either sexually invisible to men, or they're easy targets for manipulation. I dunno. I do see a lot of bigger women walking around with men. Hell, I see a few plump women walking around with pretty well put together men too here in the UK. I think its really about playing ones position though. A lot of bigger women often are a little more lax in tolerances/expectations with men. However, I feel this is also more true for older women. I'm seeing some millennials/ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:27 PM |
| 6 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?Eh. I dunno. It depends. As I love to mention, when I was swinging back in the day they had a lot of nights catered towards BBWs. And those events were always rammed. Yeah, people dont like rotund/large stomach, but a lot of men love thicker women with large asses/breasts. Especially because they tend to be way less effort to smash. You guys are not helping yourselves. I feel average/PPD men are more discriminatory against bigger women which means any guy with a semblance of good looks can reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:24 PM |
| 5 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?This is called discernment and its no one elses fault if you dont have any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?As people are saying, its mostly third wave feminism which pushes for sexual expression from women in a way which is meant to mimic men. However, I'm noticing heavy pushback from this among generation Zers who've seemingly done a 180 of sorts. Cant say I blame them. TBH I'm still kinda mindblown at the whole "being a slut is empowering". I noticed, back when I was single, that it was easier for me (albeit one of those top, maybe 5%ers Chad/Tyrone's) to fuck women in the same night than it was to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise?The older woman wasn't hot though. My "values" didn't change as much as my options. I was never that keen on the older woman and the high partner count made it worse. As a man, your options are far better at 27-35 than they are at 18-25. Therefore, I could exercise greater choice. With women its the opposite, your options tend to dwindle at 27-35 and you act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise?I'm noticing already people are saying that men claim that they want low partner counts and yet date women on the opposite end of the sociosexualtiy spectrum. This is true. I've done it myself when younger...BUT a lot of this comes down to options (or a lack thereof) When I was 23 and a broke student I dated a 28 year old woman with a partner count in the 100s. I put up with it because I was getting regular sex. I mean I wasn't even short of options but she was one of them women who kinda "stuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:35 AM |
| 2 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.Tbh what makes it even worse is Indians are often synonymous with fairly middle class neighbourhoods. I'm in the UK and Indians are one of the highest earning immigrant demographics, higher than Chinese even. Its like going to Chinatown in my city and trying to make some asinine point about "affordable housing" simply due to the fact that the residents aren't white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.Lol since when are Indians poor??? There one of the richest immigrant demographics, the fact that you even attempt to use them to make this stupid point just says everything about your mindset. Jesus what a bunch of clown ass posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 09:12 AM |
| 3 | What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)?As I keep saying. That poster is as much of a delusional maladjusted weirdo as the redpillers she complains about. A lot of thsse gender warriors are just entitled morons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is "chasing" women that said no to your date advances ever worth it?Being the other guy doesn't take a huge amount of effort. Simply improve yourself and approach more people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Is "chasing" women that said no to your date advances ever worth it?Nah, don't. Which is funny because I think a lot of women like persistence. But I also know a lot of jobs where recruiters will tell you they only tend to hire after the 2nd/3rd attempt. They often tend to create a precedence where employees feel obligated to the organisation, which in turn the organisation abuses. I believe Amazon was notorious for this, though its kinda amusing how despite the downturn they're kinda struggling to find good engineering talent. I've seen a few women who operate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Really nice job of illustrating the male perspective. Yeah this is why I think you sound like an incel. This isn't really a gendered thing. I have zero desire for men who aren’t attracted to me. This isn't either. Plenty of women out there also chasing men who aren't into them. Did you hear that? Utter opposite of men who crave the attention of women who don’t want them. That isn’t me. The last thing I would ever want in my life is to chase a man who doesn’t find me physically appealing. Who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:59 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys explain lonely women?I’ve never dated a short man in my life because I’m not stupid enough to assume they would like me. It’s not a gamble I would take. I find them attractive. But they don’t find me attractive and that’s fine. Right, so you claim to like short guys but the actual reason you've never dated one is because you couldn't find a single one that finds you attractive? Hmmm, okay. Yes it does. I don’t have to try for short men because I play a few sports and there are enough tall men around me to date from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain lonely women?I think there are people who simply aren't attracted to the people who might be attracted to them. This applies to men and women. This is a massive, massive problem for a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:38 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys explain lonely women?A chubby Mexican girl may not be your cup of tea, but if she's getting male attention, some of them like her. And it goes both ways. Society doesn't hold much respect for the chubby mexican or the dark skinned black woman. Kinda tired of people making out as if this is all just the musings of redpillers. When I see people criticise someone like Meg The Stallion (whom I'm not even the biggest fan of) for simply existing I kinda don't buy into this idea that people in general really have patience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:34 PM |
| 5 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?It actually makes perfect sense if you've actually either done it or had it done to you. I've had women who've crushed on me hard who've been frigid/cold in conversation. People struggle expressing themselves. I've also had women who've seemed keen only to not really follow through on dates. Human communication is multifaceted. I've approached...a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:21 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys explain lonely women?I'm short, any reason a man is single is also a reason a woman is single. I know this "I'm" is probably meant to be an "In" but I will note that I date a girl who was 4ft10 once. My LORD she was not short (heh) of attention. The very opposite in fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Hmmmm, agree and disagree. But I dont think it applies linearly to race. I see a lot of lonely WOC/black women but I tend to find it affects them when they're younger. There's a lot of gen Zer black femcels around. But I notice those same women actually tend to come into their own a little older. People talk about "the wall" but I see a lot of women who gain a sense of self esteem, self care and confidence in their late 20's/30's. They often find decent partners around that time too. Pretty cert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 5 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?No, a lot of the time they do want to fuck me. They just make it clear they're unhappy with the state of modern men. Pussy isn't that magical. Not everyone who mentioned something negative about women's behaviour is starved of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 9 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?I've experienced the same. I'm not single but sometimes I approach just to keep my wits about me and still if I've still got it lol. Its crazy how frigid women have become. The pandemic made it a whole lot worse. I remember things used to be...okay around 2019 but then after 2020 it really, really went to shit. Also too noticing a heavy "I hate men" vibe, even my GF acknowledges it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:46 AM |
| 0 | Men are more likely to cheat when they make significantly more or significantly less than their spouse. For women, breadwinning decreases their chances of cheating, while being a stay at home spouse increases it.So broke men/stay at home dads are bad but breadwinners are...also bad. This is the thing which I am learning more and more from modern anglicised western women. I dont think a lot of women want men to be better. A lot are just bitter. They're just like the incels and redpillers. There is nothing men can do to be better to them. They're just angry that there is a patriarchy and that we exist within it. When you grasp this, you're able to manoeuvre a lot easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:38 PM |
| 3 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyThat poster is so lame. One of the shut in types who doesn't realise she's as socially maladjusted as the incels she insults. My girlfriends grandparents are into posting on Instagram. Social media is fucking ubiquitous and woven into the fabric of social exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:23 PM |
| 0 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyAgain, with the bad advice on this sub. I find reddit has become pretty much entirely made up of bitter, annoying incels and female losers who somehow feel above them but, in reality, are in the same shitty position. I fucking HATE social media and have no presence on anything except LinkedIn. My girlfriend has been begging me to post her more but I simply don't post anything period and haven't done for nearly two years. Be that as it may, I still realise that having a popping instagram would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the normalization of open relationships and polyamory is affecting societyAnd the biggest recent change in society is that men now hold women accountable for their past. This is a good point. One thing to note about my time involved in polyamory is that the vast majority of women I met were 30+ and divorced with kids who were either teenaged or older. The few women I knew who were younger mentioned just how much it crippled their ability to find worthwhile guys. One I remember was a stunner. Blonde, incredible body and a radiotherapist. Cool girl but I met her in a sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you think the normalization of open relationships and polyamory is affecting societyI fucked hotter women 10 minutes after meeting them in a sex party than I did courting for weeks on Tinder. Its dangerous to assume there aren't hot women who are into super kinky shit. Yeah maybe their standards are a little higher but that's really it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the normalization of open relationships and polyamory is affecting societyI don't know. I think its more a symptom than the cause. I was heavy into the swinging scene before. It was still a niche but it did attract a very broad cross section. I used noth websites and attended a few sex clubs. The websites were mostly an absolute pain and i was told a single message was drowning in 300 other ones from thirsty dudes. The club on the other hand was a whole different kettle of fish. Whilst I don't polyamory is gaining anything more than fringe acceptance, it definitely di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Does the Rarity of "Nun Abuse" Cases Prove That Women Are Better at Handling Isolation and Celibacy?Well guess that's that then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?I wish I could hate on overweight women like a lot of the redpillers but I just can't. I swear back in swinging days I used to venture to clubs and smash like 5 fatties a night. Nothing beats dicking down a big booty broad from the back whilst her husband watches 🤣 If smashing fat women is wrong I don't wanna be right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Does the Rarity of "Nun Abuse" Cases Prove That Women Are Better at Handling Isolation and Celibacy?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse_scandal_in_the_Sisters_of_Mercy Just fucking stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:30 PM |
| 22 | Does the Rarity of "Nun Abuse" Cases Prove That Women Are Better at Handling Isolation and Celibacy?What? There was a massive, MASSIVE scandal in Ireland which involved several infant children going missing and being buried in the grounds after their single mothers were abused for years. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2021/jan/12/ireland-report-appalling-abuse-mother-baby-homes What is up with the stupid as fuck bluepilled takes on here?? So many women defenders on here always strike me as ass fucking retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:00 PM |
| – | CMV : Yes todays women are delusional, but men are too.And what about black/hispanic men? I doubt this preference is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?And you were obviously talking out of your ass when you said if swingers clubs allowed men they would be sausage fests. As there are plenty that do that aren't sausage fests. As said, most of you should stuck to dunking on incels and leave the real world topics to those who actually touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?I didn't, I just said I've slept with many attractive women when I was in the scene. Swingers are largely just a physical cross section of the public. Most skewed older and thus were probably more likely to be overweight (as most older people are) but I noticed to drastic difference often between the women I saw in a swingers club and those I saw on a night out catering to 35s and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Men desire sex more than women, so logic would dictate that things like sex clubs will have an easier time appealing to men. I dont really get into debates about whether men or women have an easier time getting sex because men and women fundamentally want different things from sex. I just dislike the pretense that somehow women are completely devoid of desire for desirable men. As mentioned, there are plenty of women who go looking particularly looking for single men. Its simply that they're tas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Cool. But don't be shocked some women you've run into have tried some grimey shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?they ain't all good looking. I slept with more good looking women during my time swinging than during my time in either college or on Tinder or just "cold approaching". This is a dangerous assumption. I actually feel the "lets all do something cRaZy and go to a sex club/strip club/male review!!" is a rather popular sentiment among 25-35 year old single women. I can't even count the amount of attrative ones I met sneaking into the club I used to frequent to have a one off experience. It opened my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?If single men were allowed in swingers clubs the entire event would be a sausage fest. And yeah, some of them do charge for single men and let women in for free. Which is it then? Are single men allowed into swingers clubs or not? Some of you are so full of crap and trip up over yourselves to somehow prove you're not the friendless shut ins that you are that the shit you post doesn't even track in your replies. Single men have been a big part of swinging and kink for years and swinging being c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?This seems to be an American thing. In Europe plenty of swingers clubs allow (limited) single men or simply charge them a high price. One particular club (one of the most popular in the UK) only had a single night for couples in the week as single men were often the lifeblood of the establishment anyway. A HUGE amount of swingers ONLY play with single men (in fact plenty would tell you its the women who are far more likely to get jealous) and there are plenty of events that even cater to single … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?LOL whatever makes you feel better. I'm certain you were told that only the nice guys were having sex but we all have to grow up eventually. Also LOL at you thinking having a high partner count is in anyway impressive considering just how promiscuous a lot of societies are. Maybe less time playing videogames and on reddit would suit you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.Right... So I dont have posts on r/cscareerquestions, r/Terraform and r/Boxing??? Jesus, seek some professional help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:43 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most Men Have Abhorrent GameI enjoy talking and discussing topics online You enjoy discussing them probably because you're not very good at doing them. You're still in that stage of thinking "game" is some super specific art when, in reality, its often just about numbers and there are very few lines that will exclude you from the running. Oh and, btw, I've fucked dozens of women despite opening with "whats your name". It really doesn't mean anything. Openers (provided they aren't ridiculously rude) never do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:18 PM |
| 7 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?And she has exclusively dated men who I would say are very below average in looks, or at least very below her. But she just likes what she likes - I think it’s more about connection and compatibility for her, especially intellectual compatibility. Its probably not. It could just be weakness and insecurity. I'll never forget about 10 years ago back in university, I dated a girl whose friend had a big crush on me. But everytime this girl would go out, my ex would tell her she would only get off wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:49 PM |
| 0 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?Good. Because a lot of you need to realise that not every man is some videogame addicted low life whose either an incel or some simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:28 PM |
| -2 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?I've fucked women in bathroom stalls within 15 minutes of meeting. I've fucked women within 5 minutes of meeting. I've had women uber me over to fuck them after a half assed tinder conversation. I've had women refer me to their friends for dick. I've had exes who refused to fuck me in the evening who woke up and fucked me anyway because they "couldn't help themselves". I'm not even go into the amount of nasty, freaky shit I did when on the kink/swinging scene in the sex clubs I went to because p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:04 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.I used to cold approach a lot. Sadly the OP may be onto something. Not because they're right but because, surprisingly, compliments don't have the effect in our culture that we think they do. I like complimenting women on their looks. I compliment my girlfriend multiple times a day...but compliments are a funny thing. And they only tend to work on those already well adjusted or with a healthy sense of self esteem...sadly a lot of modern women don't have this so compliments really are ineffectual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.Most redditors set up accounts to post on mostly one sub you weirdo. And I don't even post on one sub. As my post history clearly indicates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.Oh great another socially maladjusted weirdo who thinks everyone who disagrees with them is a bot 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:38 PM |
| 17 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.Data. Literally every data source says this. Be it studies or actual data on interracial partners. Of course that contravenes the horseshit PPD narrative that women are sugar spice and everything nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsYou're right, I see plenty of average or even below average dudes in relationships. Plenty have no charisma to speak, aren't much to talk to or look at either. But that's not the point, and it's one of the things I think people miss in this pill debate. What many redpillers and even FDS types struggle to articulate is that they're not looking for a partner, they're looking for power. The power to dictate their place in the dating market. You see, whilst I see a lot of average men in relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?How does this negate my point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?Precisely because of what I said. The threshold for attractive male bodies is higher than it is for women. They're exploding in popularity too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Dude, you're dumb. Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that this whole men vs women , alpha - Sigma terminology, push for trad culture has got increasingly mainstream since last year?Based. As usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 08:06 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.What's hilarious is these are likely the same people who admonished anti-vaxxers for dismissing scientific evidence on the positive effects of vaccines (and rightfully so). Oh believe me, I fucking guarantee the Venn diagram for people shitting on anti vaxxers and yet denying studies on sociosexualtiy is a fucking circle 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 06:44 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.No I don't. And your point was a stupid one. Most drug dealers are normal people too. Doesn't make their choice of work an occupational hazard likely to have detrimental effects on their personal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.Doesn't mean shit. Jesus some of you are so full of hot air. As if a study with such marked drastic conclusion isn't perfectly worth of inclusion. I don't respect people who pick and choose when studies should be discounted dependent on whether it fits ones narrative over actual methodology. I mean christ. As if limited data in a subject area somehow discounts any of the data in said area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 05:56 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.Sex workers are just like normal ass people. Some are hot and some aren't special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 05:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.Again. I'm sick of the irritating clowns on this forum without fuck all real world experience on fucking anything. There is actually data on this... https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4627728/ Background Very limited research has been undertaken on sex workers’ personal romantic relationships and the impact the nature of their work has on their relationships. This exploratory study aimed to explore the impact sex work has on women’s personal romantic relationships and the use of mental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 10 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.No they dont. And you speak like someone who doesn't know any pornstars or strippers. Just like swingers (where both groups intermingle) the easiest way for women to meet partners is through the scene or they're often with the guy who brought them in. Most sex workers love lives are a shambles and most sex workers will tell you that. Anyone claiming different is completely full of shit. No matter what you feel of sex work, its a complicated profession. Pretending otherwise is always the mark of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Most Women wouldnt reject Mr Perfect just because he has a high bodycount, most Men on the other side would easily reject Mrs Perfect if she has a high bodycount.Sorry but i see no studies and your talking out of your ass with all do respect. You literally just said this. I legit wonder about the IQs of some of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Sorry but this argument is dumb as shit. Its even easier to control NEETs if they're relying on social security benefits. I've been on that shit in my early twenties. I had my shit cut off purely because one of the work coaches didn't like me. You're considerably more vulnerable to outside forces the lower down the economic ladder you are. Many of you speaking from the luxury of your middle class parents who can afford to shelter you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 93 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?the system isn't rewarding most people for working This is key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:40 PM |
| 20 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Really glad you mentioned the Scott Gallaway segment on Smerconish. It was funny because Galloway confirmed literally every redpill "tenet" which women here are so desperately trying to push back on. It was great seeing it from a tenured professor who clearly wasnt positioning it from any kind of angle to add fuel to some bullshit culture war. I don't think its so much about suicide rates as much as it about a relative maturity of the conversation. Among academic and social science circles, this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?Yep. All this makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?Cat call the college guys out running? Tell a coworker our day would be so much better if he'd wear his shirt open? I've had these. Not sure whether it's something I "wanted" per se hut I guess it did show that women can lust for men in the exact same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?"Oh my god his sycophancy makes me so wet" Said no one ever... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:25 AM |
| 6 | Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired?They are. It's just the threshold for a "lustable" male body is higher. I've been groped, sexually assaulted, catcalled, lusted after, cold approached, offered money for sex and just about everything in between. As said, the threshold for female sexual arousal is higher. I wear underarmour compression shorts/leggings when training and would NEVER dare walk around in those on the street because I would be asking for trouble. Not from dudes (because whose going to talk shit to someone 6f4 and 250)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?No you fucking don't. This is a complete and utter gaslight or you are just delusional about the attractiveness ratio of men and women. Yes you do. I shit on the clown ass women here claiming money and looks don't matter...but that doesn't negate the fact I see ugly ass man with stunners. You said yourself that women are giving chances to less attractive men if they "dance like a monkey" so wouldn't this be betraying your own logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?am a woman who harshly judges both sexes And how does this mean you're not a neckbeard whose opinions on attractiveness aren't worth taking seriously? As said, thankfully, the redditor standard of mediocrity largely doesn't follow through when you turn off the app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?The people taking professional grade photos are more likely to be attractive in the first place. But it's hilarious seeing some neckwear redditor who thinks he's somehow better informed than women harshly judging men who could actually bother to take a decent photo. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201403/is-beauty-in-the-eye-the-beholder%3famp It's been well known that facial symmetry is pretty much a universal standard across cultures an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?No they're not, hence why it doesn't share rhe details outside of the backend period. In fact, an accurate assessment of physical appeal is essential to rope in new users with the idea that the app has more attractive people than it actually does. Those higher on the ELO score tend to show up higher in user feeds. Hell, I think this is something the execs expressed openly. As said, you're spouting coping horseshit. People know damn well what is attractive and what isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 9 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?Yes we can. And I'm fed up of this stupid coping bullshit. Hell, even tinder has shit like ELO ratings. We know damn well what is attractive objectively and what isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:03 PM |
| 20 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?Tbh these days the Chads aren't even pretending to wife these girls. Many women out here are fucking hot guys without the need of attachment or...anything really. There isn't really the kind of hording unattractive guys think there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"?The online data constantly parroted on here about the 80/20 thing shows that, whilst women only find 20% of men attractive, they'll still happily message the 80%. And that's the problem with using the pareto efficiency. It should really only apply to individual opportunities than a wider assessment of the dating market. I'm well above top 20%, but that doesn't mean in absolute terms I'll be dating 80% of the women. After all, you can only date one person at a time. It does though mean I'll have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costSaving up cash to buy a new Mercedes is one of the dumbest decisions one can make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Nope. Everyone says this shit until its time to have kids (and most of you end up doing precisely that no matter how much the antinatalism clowns want to larp). Loool marriages among female breadwinners have a divorce rate that's like 50% higher. https://www.unhappymarriage.info/when-the-woman-is-the-breadwinner/ https://www.suzannevenker.com/lean-out/why-full-time-breadwinning-makes-most-married-mothers-miserable/ https://studyfinds.org/gender-roles-breadwinner-mental-health-marriage/ It's fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Yes, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else?This is just how a lot of women think. FandF are goofs but they're just simply shoeing what a lot of women in a place like Miami (or any wealthy metropolis) are. It's kind of embarrassing how much Billy beta blue pill redditor is holding out for his 8/10 waifu who loves him for him provided he extols the virtues of feminism and equality loool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?This has definitely made us more selective with the men we admit in our "circle" No it doesn't. Women are dating bummier men than ever. Like 20% of women who are married are fucking breadwinners. Women's "tight regulation" of their circle is more about conditioning men for appeasement than it is about holding men accountable for suitable behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Yeah. On the surface level at least. In reality, women don't need men for basic living especially in the west...hell, even increasingly in much of the developing global south. Problem is with the whole hierarchy of needs thing. The better fulfilled our base needs are, the more anxious we become about fulfilling the ones which sit a little higher on the pyramid. Most women can survive without men. How many truly thrive though? I'm from a community where men and women became increasingly separated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costA $600 car here equates to a £350 one here in the UK. And no my point still stands. If I see someone pushing an Aston Martin or a Urus, I would be wise to assume they're indeed rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?Tbf both Spongebob and Pokemon have been around since 1999. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?What women are actually scared of and trying to solve and tame is the men that make their gashes gush Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?Yeah. All the time. And it's not "too nice" it's more fake nice. And, tbh, they're often white and middle class it's gotta be said. And I say that because I can think of genuinely nice ass middle class white people. My girlfriends family for instance, her dad and brothers in particular (her mother is too but this is a convo about men alas), are genuinely wonderful people. But they tend to be more reserved. I notice truly good people never try to "love bomb" you or placate through virtue signalli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menThat's cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | PPD Users Survey Responses (Cont.): Height, Fitness, Difficulty Dating, and N-CountIt also depends on how you carry it. Both Tyson Fury and Anthony Joshua are in the 6ft6-8 range and yet the latter carries it a lot better than the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | PPD Users Survey Responses (Cont.): Height, Fitness, Difficulty Dating, and N-CountNo. The opposite if you look at the data. "Dating difficulty" really means nothing and is entirely about perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | PPD Users Survey Responses (Cont.): Height, Fitness, Difficulty Dating, and N-CountHonestly I kinda get the data which shows that fitness level and sexual experience are more correlated than height and sexual experience. I'm 6ft4 and whilst I absolutely love being this height, it's not the be all and end all. I see so many tall guys who just look abysmal and badly built. If you're 6ft4 and jacked, you'll literally stop traffic but a lot of tall guys just look lanky and poorly put together. Fitness level is just so critical to sexual appeal that it blows my mind how people don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:28 PM |
| -5 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menSorry but someone literally saying "I'm mentally stable" on an anonymous forum like Reddit and a sub named "PPD" kinda makes me want to believe the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for men25 to 30% of men not having sex in the last year means this just cannot be correct. I've had plenty of female attention over the years myself but then I've also been younger and had periods where I had nothing. Female attention was never really an expectation, as I'm sure it's not for many other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:17 PM |
| -4 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menBut the problem is who is mentally stable? The numbers on anti depressants surely means many are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menUsing prostitutes isn't synonymous with being an incel. In many cases it's actually the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costThere is a big difference between an a/c class and s/g class. If you think there isn't a marked difference between car value and access to either lease or finance, walk into the nearest showroom, ask to purchase one of their DB9s and see how that works out for you. The idea of broke people driving around in hyper expensive cars is largely a myth. Its simply that people confuse entry level models with luxury vehicles. Plenty of Mercedes and audis on the road that I know cost barely £350 per month… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I said no,why mental health is holding women back and destabilizing society.lol u think I'm a right winger...how cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I said no,why mental health is holding women back and destabilizing society.He's another one of about 3/4 male posters in here who gets personally offended at any and all criticism of women. If you look at his own post history, its clear he's likely an ex redpiller himself. Probably fears some redpiller making a salient point will cause him to relapse loool. Its amusing how annoying ex-redpill types are. They're like those annoying fucktard former heroine addicts who want to get preachy when they see you smoking a bit of weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | I said no,why mental health is holding women back and destabilizing society.Men actually simply commit suicide more successfully, women make far more attempts. And TBH, there is talk of a mental health crises among young girls up to university students. And theres this... https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/national/wp/2016/12/23/nine-charts-that-show-how-white-women-are-drinking-themselves-to-death/ TBH, if anything, the crisis among younger men is well accounted for these days. People know there is a problem. What many don't know is that it actually does go both ways.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 11:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costNo actually. Most of you who say this don't actually have any income anyway. As someone who actually just bought a 200k car they won't even let you finance one without a significant income. The finance company didn't give a fuck about my credit and wanted proof of at least 12 months of consistent high income and a copy of my job offer letters. But that's possibly because I went directly to BMW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:36 AM |
| 0 | There's nothing inherently wrong with having a high body count, but it is a predictor of other red flags in the relationshipHow what? That's a pretty open ended question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymorePeople complain about reading people's posts but it saves so much fucking time. OP is just another autist weirdo with an insanely oddball view on relationships. But he'll come across as normal compared to the absolute incels who populate much of this board. I know you said you don't want to use autist as an insult. Bit sometimes ifs kidna apt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 9 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?Sex for rent has been a thing for a while https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/money/2018/apr/02/sex-for-rent-accommodation-rogue-landlords-campaign | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:33 PM |
| 0 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleHe's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.Invading Chechnya was the first thing he did when he became president. This is his second invasion of Ukraine within the last 10 years and NATO isn't going to let it slide. The way you're dropping this like it's anything worth mentioning. Who the hell paying attention to Europe wasn't aware of the atrocities committed by the Russian army in Chechnya or Georgia or Crimea? This is why here in Europe we often have zero respect for the garden variety dumb bloviating yank wanting to lecture on geopol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:34 PM |
| 10 | There's nothing inherently wrong with having a high body count, but it is a predictor of other red flags in the relationshipYeah and the same can also be said of men with high body counts and I say that as a man with a high body count. But for many, the issue isn't bodycount. It's that a man could hold any women to any kind of standard. Its interesting, I've spent the last few days in Switzerland. I've been taken aback by just how much better "put together" the women are here. And it's clearly nothing to do with the "passport bro" shit because the average woman in Geneva earns about 3-4 times what the average America… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.The war is over. It's just that the fighting hasn't stopped. Yeeeeah funny how you seem to know the outcome of this war and European leaders don't. This is why I don't bother arguing with dumb fuck yanks who only started paying attention to European geopolitics twelve months ago. Just lol at you throwing in Trump as well, as if that same Trump wasn't pushing for increased military spending among western nations...the very lack of spending which NATO members are now trying to account for now. Sor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 10:14 AM |
| 1 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.They're using conscripts and mercenaries because no one at home wants to volunteer. Again, this is just...rubbish. From the WESTERN analysis I see, Russia is expected to mobilise about 300k+ troops to launch an offensive many believed was due to start in the spring but may be beginning now. This aligns with estimates that it would of taken about 6-12 months train up conscripts from the wider population considering they vegan last summer. Best the Russians can do at this point is hold into defens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:00 PM |
| 0 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.Already has. I spent so much time thinking Russia was a joke but I just think they zero their way to victory and its worked for hundreds of years. We are now hearing of Ukrainians running low on ammunition and it seems like Russia may have the advantage on that front as well on sheer numbers. The strategy of using Wagner and its convince conscripts to exhaust the Ukrainian army may turn out to be a pretty effective strategy. Russia may be an awful place and Putin and awful, awful human being. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.As a brit, please don't ever cite the BBC as an impartial source. Most Brits will laugh and call u a clown. The BBCs director General is currently embroiled in a scandal involving him having fixed a million dollar loan for the former prime minister who helped get him the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayIt's hard to explain. It's like you do get the thirst but it's often from average women. I tend to find anything up to about 6 will sometimes even outright approach me. Had it happen plenty of times during the day too. But anything higher will often be extra reserved. This is more during the day. Clubs are a different deal altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:02 PM |
| -1 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayI can guarantee you most of them were thirsty men trying to get into her pants No they're not. Most of them are bots. Why didn't you just ask her or look through them yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?Being attractive doesn't mean you aren't beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:43 PM |
| 6 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayNope. Most of you barely have any sexual partners nor do you cold approach. Unless in a social place like a club or party, most women won't express interest at all. I've slept with a lot of women I approached in the gym or on the street who didn't give me an iota of eye contact/IoIs women have a line of guys around the block texting her they really, literallt, have no time to play games Do you legit believe this crap? Christ, some of you speak like you don't interact with any women who aren't yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:38 PM |
| 0 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayYeah. Most don't even smile anymore. Honestly the better looking you are, the less obvious hints you get. You tend to just notice that women rarely don't give out their numbers or act coy when you approach...but expecting to go off signals in 2023 is a fools errand. You're better off just looking at a girl who doesn't look like she's in her zone/seems approachable and go from there. With no familiarity, most men aren't even physically remarkable enough to warrant a woman expressing any kind of i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:33 PM |
| -1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownI mean....yeah. Of me and my siblings, my sister is the only one who is a homeowner. I could have bought a property like 3 years ago but have never really been massively keen on it. Whilst the equity she's accumulated over rh nine years is a definite bonus, she bought a nice home in an absolutely horrible area. She's moving now but sometimes I wonder if she spent a little more time saving more and aiming for something slightly nicer she probably wouldn't have ended up selling. It's impossible to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownGreat points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?Most people aren't "child free". Again, weirdo shut ins on reddit thinking their little online echo Chamber have any bearing on real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”including those who are conventionally attractive as being ‘unattractive’. Lol such a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:13 AM |
| 3 | "Women on the internet aren't real women"He isn't. He hasn't really had a single successful movie project since Man of Steel ten years ago. Mission Impossible doesn't count because that's Tom Cruises franchise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:52 AM |
| 14 | "Women on the internet aren't real women"They're not. Sorry but the dudes on Reddit have a rep for being fedora wearing weirdos as is. Who have been proven consistently wrong when it comes to judging mainstream consensus. If Redditors were to be believed, Bernie Sanders would have just left office and Henry Cavill would be the most profitable movie star of all time. Why should the women be treated with any greater regard? This is what a lot of the redpillers and incels are taking about. I see way too much pedestalling of absolutely med… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.If ending up in prison is an example of good survival skills then I'm not sure what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.That's a fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:41 PM |
| 3 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.Would you rather date a Walmart greeter or a drug dealer? What about neither? One should ask how down bad is a woman if her options are simply Walmart greeter or drug dealer?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:36 PM |
| 19 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.Eugh. I know it's bad to read peoples posts but I read some of your boxing takes. You have an immensely view of the world. It's kinda hilarious and indicative of someone who's really lacking in experience that involves getting out and actually doing the thing you spend so much time theorising about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:24 PM |
| 4 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.Loooool no they don't. Dude, I've been to jail. It's actually full of abuse victims, morons and dudes who are barely literate. I'm really gonna have to disagree with the concept of "good competence" 🤣 A lot of women just have low ficking standards. I struggle to understand why this is such a difficult concept for many to grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 11 | No matter how good-looking a man is, he isn't able to escape the burden of competence.Eh. If anything I feel the more competent I am, the less women seem keen on me. Albeit I'm not single but when casually engaging with women, I notice a reticence when I explain I'm not a personal trainer as they assume and I'm actually a lead engineer. Competence tends to only be valued by those who are either competent themselves or have experience dealing with men who are. There are so, soo many women dating broke dudes, dudes chronically in and out of jail, dudes who can't maintain a job...co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?Its the same reason why men don't cheat despite the existence of models. Men objectively prefer young, fertile women but will happily forgo one for the women with whom he has constructed a life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?I have a little over 6 year gap with my girlfriend. We met when I was 27 and she was 21. TBH it seems like her parents and my parents have the same 5-6 year gaps too. I've never been one to die on the hill of men dating younger women but I personally found it worked for me quite well. I feel true femininity isn't really attached to age BUT I also must admit that if a woman gets older whilst remaining mostly single within that time it definitely "ages" her. I tend to find a 28 year old who spent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I tried Andrew Tate's method. It worked. Now I understand why people love him.Cue jackasses on this thread now playing dumb as if it isn't the very behaviours Tate encourages that gets him into trouble rather than his simple existence. Yes, its obvious Tate didn't invent this kind of assertive bordering on obnoxious style of engagement with the opposite sex. The very point is he encourages and amplifies this kind of approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What caused you to raise your standards for dating someone?LOL this is hilarious coming from someone asking a fucking over 30's dating sub about how to meet single men. Some of y'all posters are jokers lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?There's certainly nothing wrong with it. I mean, I guess not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?Well I think judging by post frequency we can gauge an idea of who goes out more than who. Gender norms aren't rigid but neither should we pretend some gay dude clearly in denial and some masculine woman are anything resembling normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?Real world engagement shows me that most people fit into typical gender norms for the most part and that LGBTQIA+ people still account for just over 3.1% of the population of those aged 16+. I don't take you seriously because you're exactly the kind of person I'm talking about. Someone who's become so absorbed by their little online world that they actually don't know what's happening around them. MOST people fit into gender norms. That's the reason why our society is the way it is. You. Are. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?The feasibility is kind of irrelevant. I don't know these people. What does concern me is people trying to posit that there is anything remotely normal about a likely gay man presenting in a heterosexual relationship. The problem I see with many on Reddit (and the internet in general) is using their online echo Chambers to justify attempts to reinvent the wheel. I mean, by all means do it if that's your thing but I feel the reason why many (particularly women) are suffering is because they attem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?The fact that so many women are praising this is exactly why you DO NOT TAKE FUCKING ADVICE FROM WOMEN HERE. Seriously. Seeing men engage with the women on this sub and seriously ask them questions about women's preferences really scares me as to just how starved so many men are of real world engagement with the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotI'm in the hundreds Now with a great girl and gonna get married. I'm not a redpiller but I am deeply misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I’m not even sure he can be considered a chad because he’s a serial monogamist Not sure serial monogamy is related to physical attraction in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?If Chad is 9+ then Chads are rare species, how often you see real 9, be it man or woman? Actually kinda often, even if you adhere to the idea that looks follow a standard distribution. Its similar to height. 6ft4 men are about 1.5-2% of the population, though I bet you've crossed paths with one at least once this week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?I kinda do. I used to be on one of the sex personal sites back in the day where you could evaluate the experiences with other users. It was funny meeting women who would write about how XYZ dude had such a GINORMOUS cock and how tall and good looking he apparently was only to be met by some balding 5ft7 guy when you crossed paths at an event. I saw so many women who would bullshit about how amazing a guy was when said guy was compliant. When things didn't work out then all of a sudden his penis … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Thats...people. Not like the airheaded model/cheerleader isn't a popular narrative trope. You can't pick and choose what is attractive dependent on your own moral/behavioral/intellectual expectations of potential suitors. Take that just world fallacy bullshit someplace else. Your lovely, and open minded magic the gathering playing oneitis will never be deemed a Chad because of his personality. Just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Doubt you're going to get many on here. Whats interesting is the amount of good looking dudes I see (in the gym for instance) who walk around single. Always perplexed me. I can think of at least 5 I've seen recently, three white, two black. I saw one guy yesterday, white, good shape, maybe 6ft7/8. Single. Another one I remember seeing in my old gym, friend of a friend. 6ft4 like me and in great shape, like Hemsworth but a little smaller maybe. He was taken tbf, girlfriend was hot too. Also saw a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?They can probably be standard height but 5ft7 is too short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Just looks. When talk of a "Stacy" we think of someone who is conventionally attractive. Not sure why it would be different for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?but he's skinny fat and kind of looks like a woman, does it count? Probably not. A Chad has to be physically fit. Not a bodybuilder but lean and in good shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | men should never help women with anything unless they clearly verbally request itSetups where the victim is robbed at gunpoint are common as fuck. With the idea being luring the victim to a secluded location. Again, you takes fucking suck. It's irritating seeing some intellectual lightweight who perhaps should spend more time thinking about what she posts before posting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:57 AM |
| 5 | men should never help women with anything unless they clearly verbally request itThat poster is a fucking idiot. I get more annoyed everytime I see her post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women complain that men are too influenced by porn, but women are more influenced by romance novels/TV showsThis is why a lot of you women lead suckass lives and never are able to attract anything other than bottom tier wastes of space. That dude is an idiot LARPer. Look through him spouting the typical byllshit that he knows u want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Women complain that men are too influenced by porn, but women are more influenced by romance novels/TV showsEugh. Dudes like you are laughable. I would bet I am so physically and sexuall superior to you it beggars belief and I still like a woman who communicates her sexual needs and desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Yeeeah. Think you have me confused for another poster. Edit: yoooooo there is no fucking way you're dude in that pic 🤣🤣🤣🤣 stop trolling me bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Who the hell claims average women are better and who the hell takes issue with someone legitimately hot acknowledging their good looks? Yours either hot or your not. As mentioned both you and that poster seem to have cripplingly low self esteem whilst seemingly littered with a whole host of issues you need to work out with a goddamn therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Hot/successful men are egotistical because of their achievements not because "subpar" women validate them. I mean Jesus, listen to how you speak. I swear I've seen you say some variation of "I'm probably considered attractive" about 10 times. I mean I'm not going to even deny you are (though I feel genuinely attractive people just kinda know it...without the endless qualifiers) but you damn sure don't sound very convinced. And for someone of your lack of self assurance to somehow claim a woman i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever get to fulfill your wildest sexual fantasy?I don't think it's any "better". I just tend to find anyone who tries those things tends to have a certain approach to relationships...but that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Having a positive affectation towards a decent looking man doesn't make one lesser. Honestly you and two posters above kinda sound like losers who cast negative aspersions about attractive people often because you feel less than. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.Lol keep in mind this is someone who'll valid he has a "wonderful personality". I genuinely laugh at absolutely negative self worth women who think dating some ugle beta male is some kind of respite from heartbreak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.This is why as a woman it's never a good idea to settle for someone who's more physically attractive than you because you won't be happy. There's absolutely no stories of women who are with guys that are hotter than them who are also happy. It's just not reality. My girl is doing okay. Wouldn't say she's "worse looking" but I garner a lot of attention got a guy. This is such a pathetic way of thinking no different than incels who think "stacies" are terrible. Christ, so many women on here with n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Did you ever get to fulfill your wildest sexual fantasy?I've had a 3 some, it was pretty boring. I've been to a sex party, I was disgusted and embarrassed for everyone there. I've done the strip club thing, the sex in public thing, role play, BSDM lite, etc. I gotta be honest of women who act disgusted and above every and any sexual fetish/deviant activity that they just so happen to have also partaken in. As mentioned, I went to plenty sex parties myself and always felt someway about the women who would find themselves there repeatedly but somehow w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Did you ever get to fulfill your wildest sexual fantasy?participate in the wildest sex parties and once they're done sleeping around When I was big into going to sex parties and sex clubs I banged literally hundreds of women (I put it at 350+ didn't walk away unscathed though) who were the type to "never do something like that" and they literally said they would be the type to say to their friends they would "never do something like that" as well. Most swingers clubs in the UK are in fairly secluded locations and you would see a bunch of women coming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | His/her past matters, it is perfectly fine to judge someone's past behaviors and family background to know if they are capable of having healthy and monogamous relationships.Tbh it's not childhood trauma is probably one of the greatest indicators of adult dysfunction. Adequate overcoming of said trauma often requires the kind of therapy and professional intervention that most people simply can't afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:39 AM |
| 4 | His/her past matters, it is perfectly fine to judge someone's past behaviors and family background to know if they are capable of having healthy and monogamous relationships.I gotta be honest, whilst I agree with the past mattering, OP seems like an unhinged incel weirdo. He makes this same discussion endlessly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Ladies what do you think of Andrew Tate?Trump isn't a fad though. He's had a fundamental effect on the republican party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.Very true. Problem is online engagement has become so ubiquitous. Everyone is on some form of online platform where you cab engage anonymously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:48 PM |
| 0 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Death sentence? No. But it is a debilitating factor. https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/culture-news/news/a43198/poor-men-likely-to-be-single/ And this is the UK where the gap in living standards is lower than in the US, dread to think how bad it is over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:45 PM |
| 7 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I feel feminine energy is often a demureness and understated "submissiveness", doesn't at all mean you'll let a guy have sway over you but you tend to like a man to lead the way. For instance, the woman I mentioned didn't explicitly approach me. Gave me so much IoI that I decided just to have a brief conversation. I couldnt do anything because I'm not single but I felt almost compelled to at least engage her in conversation. Its a sort of openness which means whilst you're open to engaging with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:41 PM |
| -2 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?This coupled with the downvote makes it sound like a hit dog hollering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:30 PM |
| -5 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I kind of agree, I actually tend to find people who constantly communicate their needs and wants are often bad at getting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:35 PM |
| 10 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I've been with with a few women. Whilst so many were absolutely stunning to look at, so many didn't invoke that kind of excitement. When I was out last week I was approached by a woman who was absolutely stunning, but it turned out she was fucking 38. I swore she could have been at least 10 years younger. What made her appealing? Her feminine energy What made women less so? Their masculine energy. It's a kind of vibe, funnily enough it's not all that attached to promiscuity or relationship statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | is it normal to have her look better than you in a relationship ?People are claiming these evaluations are shallow, but they actually matter a lot. As someone who looks pretty "unique" and has a girlfriend who doesn't garner as much attention as I do, I've really soured on the idea that looks arent significant part of not only a relationships health but the perceptions towards it, which can be massively influential over its trajectory. These comments are also why I hate this subs female contributors, if they're not trying to convince you that they love short … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Do Women have an innate desire to have children or only served their survivalI think its important to note that current demographic crises are often induced by women wanting to have less kids rather than no kids. The argument that women have a biological imperative to have children has never been a hill I've particularly cared for dying on...but it's one I'm less willing to drop. I've gone so much of my life having women insist to me that they didn't want things, only to be angry at me when I believed them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:50 AM |
| 3 | To what extent being rich helps in gettingGod what a fucking dumbass question. I swear the problem a lot of men and women have with being unsuccessful in dating is simply that they're unintelligent. Wealth is complex and all encompassing. It doesn't entail being "rich" to "get laid", it has drastic and vast effects on your living standards, occupation, education, activity choices and lifestyle. Wealthy and educated men and women largely pair up and most wealthy or professionally accomplished men largely marry their professionally accomp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 03:54 PM |
| 13 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?I've slept with some real whores in my time. Pornstars, cuckold wives, hotwives, strippers. I'm talking women with partner counts in the hundreds. If anything, I found that the more experienced a woman was, the better understanding she had of what aroused her. HOWEVER what many men get twisted is thinking that even sexually pleasing a promiscuous woman is enough. I met so many dudes when in that scene who thought they could dickmatize a taken/married woman just because he had good dick. It doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentI gotta be honest a lot of this sounds like speculation from someone not particularly engaged with the opposite sex. Take a abercrombie and fitch model and a powerlifter to the beach and see the results for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:37 AM |
| 0 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentThis is, quite frankly, rubbish. If anything, it's becoming more apparent that each genders suspicions about the other gender are rather accurate. Yes many men overvalue youth and beauty and many more are only as loyal as their options and equally many women value wealth and status and many more adhere to things like pre-election when evaluating potential suitors. Men legit dont know how to express emotions. Women genuinely don't feel comfortable expression physical desires. And we see the forme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentI'm the one who said that. You're the one who claimed that you were "dating down" (ill acknowledge you used the quotation marks yourself). In fact that discussion was full of subtle shade at a man I'm meant to believe you're head over heels over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:27 AM |
| 30 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentWomen know when their partner is physically attractive. They really, really, REALLY know. I don't doubt that competence is a massive factor in your general appeal to other human beings, let alone other women...but what people need to understand is that women have spent the last few millennia either not having massive amount of sway over the physical appeal of their partners or have simply had to hide the truth. TBH I think its the latter that confuses people, men especially. I'm the kind of guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 04:18 PM |
| 5 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenSo often there is obvious initial attraction and IOI's and then when I start sounding married, you can see the fire go out, like a switch flips. Sometimes I delay mention of it but just think privately like, "sorry baby," and the response is the same. I figure, in reflecting, the same conclusion as you, that the woman is making a calculation of likely sexual success and senses ambivalence or restraint or your own internal friction, and it is off putting. LOL yes. So true. Honestly, one thing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenU ever fuck someone even though you've barely spoken? erm...yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Does the rise of Joey Swoll support RP’ers claims of female solipsism?Remember that "lunkhead" reputation lifters and bodybuilders had in the 90s? Yeah it seems to have spread genders. Gyms are largely built on insecurity. And I say that as someone who has been training fucking intensely for over a decade. Women often attend them due to some kind of unhappiness with their current physical form. There is nothing wrong with being insecure about something you're actively wanting to change but it can foster negative attitudes such as narcissism or self obsession. I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Men are power objects, women are beauty objectsLOL OP is one of these typical redditors who simply doesn't have the intellectual capacity to effectively grasp the nuances of the redpill concepts her absorbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you like the opposite gender?Nope. I like a woman as long as she's useful. If she isn't then the speed I disengage is pretty unnerving, I feel more women can sense this now too...as I've come into my own financially. I desire a certain kind of validation that women often cant (or wont) give to me. That is despite receiving plenty of desire and attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Will dating/relationships/marriage become a thing only the elite/wealthy do?The fuck are you talking about? This has been a discussion among sociologists for at least a fucking decade: https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2012/02/marriage-only-rich-and-well-educated/331505/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/who-gets-married-today-the-rich-and-educated/ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/07/marriage-america-privilege-rich http://www.wipsociology.org/2021/12/02/college-and-earnings-are-just-part-of-the-story-the-contributions-of-marriage-and-family-wealt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 12:21 PM |
| -1 | PPD blind spot on "asia"This is dumb and tantamount to implying that the Marshall plans investment in continental Europe means that West Europe is "Americanised". No one says that though. Kinda tired of "bluepillers" being as fucking pig ignorant as the incels they complain about. Jesus, japan's industrialization began in the mid 19th century. They were able to pretty much occupy half of Asia without American investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | PPD blind spot on "asia"Most people want to leave such places when they can. This isn't even true. One thing I'm come to learn is the reason most of you blackpillers suffer is because you're, quite honestly, dumb fucks. Never met one of you wirh a high IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:58 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of shit tests?Exactly this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | What are some examples of shit tests?How does this support your point? Please cite some evidence that good looks make one more prone to BPD/NPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of shit tests?Yep. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:03 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of shit tests?Oh dude. I've smashed hundreds of women. There comes a point that the game just gets boring. I don't need to be validated by a woman's whose behaviours I don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:40 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of shit tests?You do narcissism and NPD are largely considered disorders which form during early childhood development right? I'm almost certain narcissism is attributed to experiences during infancy. Some of you jsuf say any dumb shit to say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:03 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of shit tests?I posted one from BBC news too. Both quoted neuroscientists and there's plenty more of that too. But of course, I assume you see The Atlantic as some "liberal rag" (I mean, it is) as somehow negating my point. This is what I meant about the ability to disseminate information. And why I think you're not good at it. Else, you would actually scroll to the end of the Wikipedia entries you link before posting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of shit tests?Lol I literally remember being you. Enjoy it while it lasts, eventually you'll become like my geriatric ass and treat any and every rude idiot with contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of shit tests?Nope. Not even remotely. Men and women do that nonsense equally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:55 PM |
| 0 | What are some examples of shit tests?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:53 PM |
| 10 | What are some examples of shit tests?Nah I've seen plenty of complaints about it in real life and on more socially adjusted channels like Instagram and Snapchat too. It can work, but most people aren't good at it. That's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of shit tests?Eh. I'm struggling to take someone seriously when it appears they've just learned that there are multiple forms of proposed visible intelligence (which may not even be accurate). Some of you sounds like you just discovered the red pill yesterday. You know there is a whole section in that Wikipedia entry you sent me titled "lack of empirical evidence". And there very much IS such thing as “good at math” and “bad at math”; mathematical intelligence is often referred to as Logical Intelligence, of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of shit tests?Oh indeed. I don't disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:35 PM |
| 7 | What are some examples of shit tests?I thought it was interesting. I kinda half agree with it. And you're failing to distinguish "feminine frame" from "feminine". They're not exactly the same. As someone who kinda gets a fair bit of female attention, I've noticed I tend to tell people I "date like a woman". When you have the ability to choose, you do tend to "churn". You become a little more selective and your behaviour tends to reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:01 PM |
| 35 | What are some examples of shit tests?Lol at some of clown dudes here defending shittests. You would never go on a woman centric sub and find then defending the same or "negging". This is the problem with so many men. So many have such a comically low sense of masculine identity that they think jumping through hoops (often for pussy) or tolerating toxic/violent environments some how makes them more of a man. If you want to test your resolve join the military, if you want to test your talent for violence get in the ring. But spare me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | What are some examples of shit tests?That's a funny example you use. Because rhe biggest problem in the anglicised world when it comes to kids poor performance at math is the bullshit, "some people are just bad at math" mentality. It's fucking nonsense. There is no such thing as "just bad at math". People simply internalise inability if they struggle with core concepts (which happens to almost everyone except the brightest) and end up giving up early. I was considered "bad at math". NY parents hired a tutor, suddenly I end up with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Does growing wealth inequality reinforce hypergamy in the West? Will the scenario “poor attractive woman marrying rich unattractive man” happen again?That's exactly what's not happening though https://www.ippr.org/news-and-media/press-releases/modern-women-marrying-men-of-the-same-or-lower-social-class | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:46 PM |
| 15 | What are some examples of shit tests?This is your low self esteem speaking. I don't waste time on "shit testers". I've dated tons of shit testers. The relationships were always fucking awful. I got to my mid twenties and demanded better for myself and inevitably met a wonderful person. Its the same with work. I've gotten paid great money to work with bullshit toxic work environments where they constantly question yoru capability. If one is dumb and needy enough to chase that kind of validation, that's on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of shit tests?People with disorders are also usually attractive, that is why we all have pursued them some point in our lives and have experienced shit tests. Lol since when the fuck was that the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 6 | What are some examples of shit tests?Decent example. However, it works because you worked as a cheesemonger. Blue collar manual labour which often has you working largely with other men and having to kick off the day at like 4am. It makes sense. Environments like that literally need thick skin. Problem is, you get people trying to "shittest" when they neither have the strength of character nor thick skin to not only dole out shit tests but deal with the inevitable blow back. I worked really briefly in a tire factory and my friend a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashShut the fuck up. I don't act holier than thou that's the point. Its clowns like you preaching about how virtuous you are and then playing dumb when the genders are reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?My girl had barely any partners and I have hundreds. Happens a lot. You gotta be a hot man though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 08:38 AM |
| 5 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashLol good post. But you're wrong. A lot of them don't even have the integrity to stay silent. Though I don't know if I would say its women in general. Just so this sub attracts incels, I also believe this sub attracts a pretty low quality female user as well. Such would only be logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashHonestly I don't think I care for battling fiuble standards. What you don't find me doing is telling people how hard men have it or crying about being a speshul victim because dating is so so dangerous for my super delicate flowery self. PPD women in a nutshell: I'm such a delicate snowflake who constantly faces sexual harrasment from scary men whose also a total demisexual that'll never judge men on their looks. Hold on whilst I now try and rubbish claims of sexual harassment because the victim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashLol at the responses on this sub. Jesus modern women are so fucking vile. It's why I treat so many (and pretty much all the repugnant cunts who post on this sub) with utter contempt. I get movements like me too. Hell, I'm not even against things like feminism. But, fuck me, it really does leave a bitter taste in my mouth knowing people's morals stances are entirely dictated by the demography/gender of those involved. On Friday I had a woman stand in front of me with a straight face telling me th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashDo you take this stance with women who report harassment and sexual assault? Maybe I should go ahead and assume any woman who accuses a high profile man of sexual misconduct is lying by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.This is a public forum you weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Does growing wealth inequality reinforce hypergamy in the West? Will the scenario “poor attractive woman marrying rich unattractive man” happen again?Its not. Feminism is taken literally mostly by working/lower middle class buffoons. My girlfriend has plenty of UMC friends. Most get married and settle and adhere to strict behavioural standards and expectations of their social groups. Feminism may be preached but its rarely practiced by those in more monied circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Does growing wealth inequality reinforce hypergamy in the West? Will the scenario “poor attractive woman marrying rich unattractive man” happen again?There aren't. I have no idea why so many broke incels working in tech support now want to convince themselves that some silicon valley angel investor/wunderkid is in the same position they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Does growing wealth inequality reinforce hypergamy in the West? Will the scenario “poor attractive woman marrying rich unattractive man” happen again?LOL just to bookend this point. Amal Clooney - Celebrated human rights lawyer Melinda Gates - daughter of aerospace engineer who graduated summer cum laude in compsci from Duke Justin Wilson (Musk's first wife) - Graduated from Queens university in Canada and has authored several YA novels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Does growing wealth inequality reinforce hypergamy in the West? Will the scenario “poor attractive woman marrying rich unattractive man” happen again?I think u/AquaChip response was adequate enough. If anything, hypergamy has actually reduced. This redpill myth that rich men are largely marrying 18 year old waitress bimbos is largely that, a myth. Often espoused by lower middle class/immigrant men in their 20's who don't understand the dynamics of circles of the educated professional or upper middle classes. Socioeconomic progression also doesn't happen exclusively through simply marriage, it has much more to do with education, parental wealt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.This. Poster comes off as a pathetic 14 year old troll who just learned how to use their parents computer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.which is also the assumption that TRP gives me to work with This is whats hilarious. It doesn't take the most socially capable person to realize that most of what TRP preaches is immature nonsense often used to milk dweebs. I laugh at the men who listen to it, but I feel even more sorry for the women who try to glean any logic from it. Whats amusing is that you'll then go on to claim you have some amazing boyfriend, I honestly cant legitimately believe you're anything other than some loser shut … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.Doesn't sound like you anything about working out. Every guy with a good physique either has their diet or supplementation on point or they're roided/GHed to the gills. Good looks require effort. If you had any you would know that. Too many bitter losers on here crying about shit they could learn to improve anyway. Any woman who would consider working out "basic hygiene" is likely a fat waster whose never seen inside of a gym anyway. Honestly, do us all a favour and fuck off back to FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.34, engineer, 6ft4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.A trust fund baby isn't even considered successful. And many successful people ren't trustfund babies. This is why I generally dislike complaints about incel males exclusively on here when many women carry the same bummy, entitled mentality. Hell, Floyd Mayweather is the greatest defensive boxer ever. His early career was aided immensely by his disproportionately large reach. Does that nullify his achievements then? A tall guy with good muscle building genetics still has to, you know, work out. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Women’s n counts are not impressive because it’s easy for women to fuck. But it’s easy for a natural Chad to fuck too.I read this a lot. Its always been, to me at least, testament to the bum mentality of most redditors and why this site, more than any other I've been, attracted a certain kind of repulsive individual. I'm in fitness model shape and have been able to fuck a lot of women because of such. Its a shitton of effort. Generally effort I enjoy but effort nonetheless. My morning routine involves use of fifteen different products for both my hair and skin. I spend three hours in the gym, with 1.5 hours ded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:45 PM |
| 17 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Ironically they only post here and on relationship subs so they're equally obsessed with this stuff as me. There was a brilliant comment someone made on Reddit that everyone in here is on a life sentence and yet half of the users here are trying to convince you're they're innocent lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:52 PM |
| 15 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelswomen are as much a prisoner of culture as men are My god. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Unless there are DEEP cultural differences (which is doubtful), “Western women” are fineDespite being one of those critical or western women, I've spent the last few years in a relationship with a western women and don't think I could sate one outside that cultural boundary. I don't think western women are inherently bad but I do think there are a lot of cultural hypocrisy which is amplifying the resentment among western men. Someone mentioned the metoo movement and I actually feel that was a decent example. We saw many women using the fallout over Harvey Weinsteins predatory behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:53 AM |
| 11 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsThat poster is the exact kind of unhinged weirdo that OP is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsYeah it's bad. I went out today and had to scold a woman about touching others inappropriately. I shit you not, she told me as a single guy (I'm not) I should be happy a woman wants to touch me. Of course some idiot will come along to say men do it too (they do) but it's not about that. If a man is to inappropriately touch female patrons and it catches on, said guy will have his ass handed to him by the bouncers so fucking fast. And rightly so. What's bizarre is the tolerance for substandard fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:42 AM |
| 12 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?Because a lot of people who think they're intelligent are dumb as shit. For many, intelligent means snarky, confrontational and disagreeable. Like the idiots who watch conspiracy videos on Youtube and think they're "free thinkers". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The paradox of confidence and why confidence can be an equally bad trait for women to look for in a manThe horrors stories include but are not limited to “He didn’t have a bed frame or sheets, he’s 27”. As well as “he sleeps bare naked and farts in his sleep and I have to wash the sheets cause he leaves brown streaks”. Oh, let’s not forget the classic “he rages at video games like a baby” and “he can barely cook something on the stove or use the oven”. Jesus Christ, the bolded made me gag. If there is one thing I've learned its that a lot of women like plausible deniability. Its nothing to fuckin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Seriously. Touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Dozens. I used to be involved in swinging and BDSM. They're not exactly hard to find in that scene. LOL some of you are sheltered as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?They'll just fucking tell you. You'll discuss sexual experiences (like most people do before getting into relationships) and she'll share the orgy/threesome/gangbang experience she had. It's not hard. It's not particularly unique either. As I keep saying I genuinely think a lot of the "bluepillers" here are as socially incapable as their incel counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I've known many a woman into gangbangs. They're often pretty open about their tastes. Posters like you are clowns and you almost always reveal yourselves for the socially stunted failures you are. The "oh my god she banged the football team and pretend to me that she was a virgin" is largely a myth. Highly promiscuous women don't really find the need to even lie about their kinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesI'd take being insecure over being a loser incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesI am tall and I am good in the face. The taller you are, the more effort you need to out in because ths gains come slower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Does lack of male role models lead to men liking masculinity in women?I'm gonna MASSIVELY reach here but I actually don't think your attraction is all that healthy. But I feel I could definitely be wrong. Sounds like a lot of resentment for your mother there. You seemingly don't respect her pacifism. In truth "submissiveness" and pacifism have their place. My mother is tough as nails. And my sister is no slouch too. Whilst it was good for my sister as she found herself in a highly successful career, myself and all three of my brothers spent our early twenties flut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesFair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesLol its kinda fucked how the women here lull the lesser informed men into complacency with comments like this. Good luck thinking women who date "gamers boys" are just jostling to get in your pants. Christ, this is why this sub sucks. When you tell men to get in shape, get educated and get money you'll have a bunch of bottom tier women gaslighting and trying to convince dudes that this shit doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesProblem is this is becoming most games now. So many are now fucking shoehorning open world elements too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesI was the same. Stopped gaming in my teens and glowed up at 18. It's funny how China is limiting gaming hours and have a completely different tiktok to those of us in the west. It may say something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesIts why there there is so much hatred of modern men. A lot of them deserve to be incels quite frankly. When one is throwing their toys out of the pram because most women don't find gaming incessantly to be a panty wetter, are we really gonna now sympathise with these people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesActually they do. I get tons of attention because I'm in incredible shape and keep my skin on point. I spend 3 hours in the gym and 30 minutes getting ready. Every Chad or Tyrone like myself is anal about his appearance and invests in it. Unlike what most lazy cuckolds want to believe, attractiveness is predicated on effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesI'm being SUPER hypocritical considering I just bought a PS5 and have spent the last month or two playing though GoW but I do legit think videogames are kinda poisoning young men. I recently quit a role, easily the worst one I've been in the last few years. Communication was terrible and I felt the guys I worked with were allergic to social skills...surprise, surprise both were "gamers". Like porn, I think it creates false ideas of physical achievement. One thing that struck me is just how many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothDudes a fucking lowlife. If it isn't a dude larping it's clearly a fucking dork with no social life. Everyone knows a 3 to 1 ratio for s club is actually pretty decent ratio if its busy. There's a reason why women go in fkd a reduced amount or free. He's what the pathetic beta male thinks a "cook guy" is like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are rude to men without consequencesI've reported you for harassment though. LOL I see you have the requisite redpiller victim mentality too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYWe know through many studies that OLD are breeding grounds for rapists and cheaters. We do? Can you cite your sources please? You need to have actual PROOF that these groups are being used to disparage and bash innocent men because the mods always prevent that Seems like the women who join them disagree... https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/1014m9y/has_anyone_joined_one_of_those_are_we_dating_the/ Or what about this gem, from a redditor too! https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Women ghost after sex just as often as menYeah. Whats the problem? They don't see you as a long term option. And thats okay. If you're at 100-150 women then there is a good chance that you dont see these women as a long term options either and them suggesting so wouldn't be something you take seriously, but would just serve as a boost of your ego. Also, contrary to common male belief, our dicks arent magical. So many men think they can fuck their way into a womans love same women think they can open their legs to commitment. I feel swin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYbut i also find it weird how these groups the most terrifying thing ever to some guys No one wants their information to be shared frivolously. Public or private. I guarantee if I went around sharing your Facebook profile pic and home address details (which is often public), you would be unhappy about it. I just feel a lot of you are perhaps showing your severe lack of social skills. I, as a man, understand perfectly why a woman may feel uncomfortable talking to strange men even in a well lit, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYthe creators thought they could swindle their users for money Seems to be a running theme among gender war folk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are rude to men without consequencesDude, you're another one of these loser "redpillers" crying into the void about how women shame you for your "preferences" that no one really gives a fuck about. You're transparent as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 21 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYRapists and abusers aren't the majority of men either. Do we just stop talking about them because of that? You're the perfect example of the unhinged person I mentioned in earlier post. You desperately want to pretend this is a justified tool for women but it's quite clear you value it as a way of "getting back" at men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:48 AM |
| 71 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYThe replies from women in this thread is why I honestly feel this sub attracts very disturbed women who are very much incel counterparts. It's been discussed on other boards too... https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/1014m9y/has_anyone_joined_one_of_those_are_we_dating_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Seems like a common theme is that these communities often take liberties with people's personal information. I'm seeing a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:46 AM |
| 6 | Women are rude to men without consequencesMaybe the men should start cold approaching other random men and see how polite men as a whole are about it. I get approached by random men asking about my physique pretty much every day. It honestly depends on how they do it. If they're polite and cordial I always give them the time of day. I get not reacting well to creeps but I've never been one for being unneccesarily mean towards those who just want to say something nice. Whenever I did I was never in a good head space and reacting negative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Women are rude to men without consequencesthe woman in this subreddit are just as bad if not worse than the men. It kinda blows my mind how much it seems women on here have zero social lives. Then again I think it makes sense. Guys naturally gravitate towards online communities and forums. I feel if you're a woman on these boards you're truly failing socially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Women are rude to men without consequencesHmmm, this is a tricky one. I kinda agree and don't agree. Honestly, the only time I've seen women become exceptionally rude is when drunk...but thats everyone really. I think women definitely enjoy the added protection of the "social contract" (as comedian Patrice O'neal so eloquently put it) where they feel they can resort to physical violence without consequence. I've definitely seen it before. Its one of those things which there is no point sweating about. Until some drastic change in our ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:01 PM |
| 9 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?This is such a key point. I actually don't mind FDS. It can be half insightful from time to time. But if its fair to say that a lot of redpillers can be kooky then we should also acknowledge that a lot of FDS types are...off. And I don't use that to insult them. The opposite actually, I feel it would be a good opportunity to examine what it is that it leaving women (like men seemingly) so dissatisfied with modern dating. Problem is though, whenever you try and present these arguments to women on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:14 PM |
| 6 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?Yep, I see the same. Two things. There are no longer redpillers here, they're blackpillers/incels. They're not looking to better understand dating dynamics, they're looking to cry about their poor circumstances...often circumstances that are self inflicted. The women here have kinda shifted more to the extremes. I don't think you get many well adjusted, socially capable individuals on here. Its either those who subscribe to shit like FDS or those who are far lefty, tumblr types. The issue is rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:04 PM |
| 0 | female sexuality being activated by dominationI suspect female sexuality is wired to respond to domination. Yeah because the FWB for 15 years with no female friends knows how women think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:13 PM |
| 3 | female sexuality being activated by dominationThis is an awkward discussion. Again, female redditors will claim that this is absolutely not the case from one side of their mouths and yet defend BDSM/daddy-dom kinks/rough sex from another. Criticism of such sexual practices is pretty much relegated to subs like TwoX and FDS. I'm reaching here, but I kinda feel such sexual practices are a desperate attempt to artificially capture the very phenomenon OP speak of. Yes, dominant men who can command respect/fear tend to garner positive affirmatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:09 PM |
| 0 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Spare me the Red Pill Tate jargon The fact that you called his rather eloquent post "Tate-esque" is proof you're indeed an awkward clown. I mean, its pretty much obvious already considering you literally used James Bond in a sentence about courting the opposite sex. The tragedy of this sub is that a lot of you dudes arguing with redpillers/incels are pretty similarly hopeless with the opposite sex. The advice you give is really for yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Do I like women as people? Depends. For the most part though? No. Not purely because of them being women, more because of a cultural standard in behavior which has made many of them off-putting. Its nuanced and hard to explain though. I think its this weird way men are kinda demonized and yet simultaneously lionized in western society which means that I struggle with connecting with many women. I get a lot of attention from women. The kind of attention that a lot of incels claim the "Chad" types… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Women look for traditional gender values in a man even when they claim otherwisedon't know. I think people in the modern era project a lot of themselves onto the opposite sex. Yep. Guilty of that myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 01:25 PM |
| -1 | Saw this earlier with the roles reversed, so let me ask: Men, does it matter if a woman is a loner? Why or why not?Don't think I ever met a woman who was a loner. I would avoid like the fucking plague though, that alongside women who aren't capable of having female friends. The former is likely to be insane and the latter a ball ache. Women are better at forming interpersonal relationships than men are, if she can't then she likely has a whole host of other issues u don't want to deal with. Edit: the replies from other men are laughable. This isn't a redpill debate sub, it's a sub of useless male losers and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 01:30 AM |
| – | Mainstream media has always emphasized the importance of looksWell yeah men get rejected because of their height and penis size. What next then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 04:24 PM |
| – | Mainstream media has always emphasized the importance of looksYou can't do anything about your height or penis size so what the fuck is the point of obsessing about it? It's because you know there's nothing you can about it but it's a convenient way to not take charge of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Is there any point of asking questions to women in this community?No. Its mostly a waste of time. There are also a contingent of posters who seem rather enamoured with the nonsense they type. I can see one of them has the top comments in this thread. Notice how they're often among the first posters in every discussion. This is generally the problem with Reddit. Its a relatively large community (depending on the subreddit) and unless you're among the first 100 or so posters in a discussion, you can end up getting drowned in the volume of the discourse. This lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Is there any point of asking questions to women in this community?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:56 AM |
| 1 | “Low libido” litmus test.My girlfriend and I have been together six years and we're still going strong. But then thats because her body is A1 and I look better than every guy she's dated and 99% of dudes she comes across. Trust me, it helps. Humans are simple and fickle. Nothing wrong with that. We're only mammals. Whats pathetic is when lames who refuse to just better themselves want to re-invent the wheel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 30 | Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception.And whats "doing fine"? Honestly, competition for men has increased. Its not enough just to "be confident". Women earn their own money and have a little more expectation for what they want in men. Whats amusing is that women on here will say exactly what I've said from one side of their mouth and then claim that "personality" matters more than looks from another. Fewer and fewer men want to take the gamble on getting lucky with an attractive wife whilst looking mediocre themselves. Couple this w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 29 | Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception.They're bullshitting/virtue signaling. If you actually appeared confident, women wouldn't tell you that you "appear" so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the best way to lookmax?LOL potato who can't even use AI and rushes to use Tren, is perplexed as to why he has horrible skin... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:48 PM |
| 4 | What is the best way to lookmax?Tbf on here it doesn't help that the average woman here lies and virtue signals that muscles don't matter to women and some claim there's no difference a man will experience even at the most extreme ends. But PPD men should bash into their heads that the women here=/=the average woman as these women are obviously not the norm. Especially for a hot woman every hot girl I've ever met loves muscles and masculine men but on here apparently its the opposite lol. Oh god lord, this. Don't get me starte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:46 PM |
| 6 | What is the best way to lookmax?Go to the gym. People hate that one the most because most people are useless wasters who cant commit to anything that requires any modicum of effort. If you're 5ft11+ and not training you're really just cheating yourself. Not only does being fit and lean improve your physical fitness and overall health, it also increases facial attractiveness due to your lower bodyfat. Quite frankly, I think I'm kinda glad 30% of men are struggling to get any sex. Most men dont really deserve to get laid. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:29 AM |
| 5 | What is the best way to lookmax?Skin and hair care routines Its comments like this that make me know I'm engaging with some nasty ass, unattractive, unwashed bum ass dude. Skin and hair care is fucking essential for anyone who wants to look half decent. Retinol, vitamin C serum, and hyaluronic acid have worked miracles for my skin and thats not even including the myriad other treatments one can have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:27 AM |
| 3 | What is the best way to lookmax?You're an idiot. Who clearly doesn't know how to use steroids properly. I know this for sure because anyone fucking with Tren as a first cycle is almost always someone who knows fuck all about what they're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Just out of curiosity, why are Redditors so up in arms and worried about incels compared to other social media such as tiktok,insta,and twitter?This is what I mean, a bunch of posters on here have a bunch of comments in places like IncelTear. I have no idea why on earth anyone remotely sane would post on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Just out of curiosity, why are Redditors so up in arms and worried about incels compared to other social media such as tiktok,insta,and twitter?Because most of them are losers too. TikTok, Instagram and Twitter are about visibility so often you need some form of visual credibility/fame/notoriety/real world pedigree to be taken seriously, whereas sites like this or 4chan are completely anonymous. I read a really, really funny meme the other day about how the difference between an incel and a neckbeard was that the former was self aware enough to understand their shitty position. Incels are just a type of weird shut-in subculture that has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?Lol "fact-finding". On the Internet? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaIs anyone positing the idea that men shouldn't settle with older, high income women??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:31 PM |
| 3 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of Pennsylvaniaimportance of policies that allow women to start families And who the fuck is paying for that? I'm in the UK, we have better maternity laws than the US but theres still a whole cost of living crisis for the wider population to contend with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:40 PM |
| 5 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaI mean yeah. I mean, we criticize incels and redpillers for their constant "wall" jibes but, in reality, as someone who actually has some freedom of choice in the real world...I wouldn't even set my dating profile to anything above 28. I'm 33 at the moment. I had a brief stint on Tinder a few years ago when I was 31 and my girl and I were broken up. The ages of the woman I ended up dating shortly was 24. I didn't even really seriously consider anyone 30+. I imagine its the same for a lot of guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:37 PM |
| 13 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaIts not really scaring if the data agrees with them. Same way I doubt you would call it scare tactics if I posted data which shows men fare better in relationships and marriage than single men. I dont think its contradictory either. OP just presented data, you seem to be taking it personally. Honestly a lot of you sound petrified when presented with some of these findings. Its just not really deniable that for a single, childless man, many will want an older woman to bring other things to the ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?The problem with posters like you is your idea of being "good with women" is being a cuck for a 250lbs Tumblr poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | The only rule is that there are no rulesIndeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:32 AM |
| 3 | The only rule is that there are no rulesEugh. Dude, I'm not a 20 year old PUA. I'm in my 30's and a little too old to be trying to reach some perceived level of "alphaness" to get laid. Have you ever actually put what you have written into practice? Kinda sounds like you haven't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?Low wage workers have a choice to change jobs too, they're still low wage workers. Of course, lets pretend as if sex worker clientele is made up of the socially adjusted and trustworthy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?And yet you cant just be open and admit it. Which already says a lot. If you have explicit experience then you already know exactly what I am talking about. Unless you're on that bullshit tip here like a lot of Redditors. From a woman having guys wanting her to act like a child in school uniform to a recent friend telling me a lot of her requests on OF involved her simulating kidnap and tortue...it hardly seemed like an example of "winning" to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?Eugh. I'm getting the impression you don't actually know women who have escorted, sugar babied or even done onlyfans. I've known plenty who done all three. No one took it as a long term strategy. All had horror stories about weirdo/awful clientele. Even the onlyfans girl. The people who glorify sex work are like the moronic dudes who glorify trapping because their favourite rapper boasted about it. They're often sheltered dumbasses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?Oh that makes it a-okay then. I guess trying to avoid degenerates, pimps, abusers and murderers isn't so bad because, you know, you don't have to date them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?If you're "profiting from sex", you're gonna be dealing with men whose flaws are way worse than "n-count preferences". I legit am impressed by how stupid some of the posters on here are. If you think sex workers are selecting clients based on their feelings towards promiscuity then, well...god help you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?for a woman who wants a casual sex partner and nothing more, seems like the “Whore” would be perfectly happy with the arrangement. Except most women don't want this. I mean FFS, I used to be on sex personal sites and attend swingers parties. Even half the women there wanted the "girlfriend experience". Most whores dont actually want to be treated like whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:32 AM |
| 2 | The only rule is that there are no rulesI dont think incels and PUAs are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:29 AM |
| 8 | The only rule is that there are no rulesI mean, maybe. Seems like about 25-30% of the male population takes the same stance you do. We'll have to see if these men grow out of it or if we become like Japan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Men & Women both create cycles of bad dating standardsNot a single guy in my friend circle has requirements for degree / earning potential / academic qualifications in women. Wrong. And I have plenty of data. Educated men largely pair with educated women. Anything else is just the musings of delusional redpillers. The men you speak of wont even be interacting with women with lower educational attainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub?I've seen a name around a few times, I pretty much know what camp they're coming from usually. Thats precisely the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”I'm a little taller and very muscular. I've had a lot of people call my girl average. Interestingly, I was out wingmanning with my friend and got talking to this really pretty young chick. I always keep my initial conversations polite and complimentary but I was kinda taken aback with the...angst. Dudes on here need to stop making out as if looking like Chad/Tyrone is some walk in the park. If you're not socially calibrated, you can actually end up with less success than more average men. Quiet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub?I guess it does depend on what you consider a ridiculous opinion. Personally, its just diverged way too much. If its not some irritating delusional clown telling you how being a male feminist and supplicating women is more important than showering and wearing clean clothes, its some shut in incel claiming that you have absolutely no hope in dating if you're not a 6'6 Brad Pitt lookalike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The Wheel of Time and "Gender Essentialism", do you believe men think and feel completely different from women, and vice versa?Oh I'll take that back then, must have missed the "like" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | The Wheel of Time and "Gender Essentialism", do you believe men think and feel completely different from women, and vice versa?Well, there are no clear-cut psychological differences like there are between humans and primates. What the fuck? https://www.brainfacts.org/ask-an-expert/how-does-the-human-brain-differ-from-that-of-other-primates#:~:text=In%20addition%20to%20having%20more,%2C%20reasoning%2C%20and%20social%20cognition. For starters, our brains weigh an average of three pounds, which is enormous for an animal of our body size. By comparison, chimpanzees, our closest living relatives, have brains that are one-thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 4 | The Wheel of Time and "Gender Essentialism", do you believe men think and feel completely different from women, and vice versa?The distributions of psychological traits for men and women overlap more than they diverge. 97%+ of our DNA overlaps with primates too. Just stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 03:01 PM |
| 10 | Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub?The problem is the incels are being enabled by the "bluepillers". I say this based on the discussion about why men aren't lookmaxxing. It blew my mind because EVERY SINGLE GUY I know who has been successful with women has been hyper anal about his physical fitness or appearance. And yet, the thread is made up of a bunch of people scoffing at the idea of basic fucking workout and grooming and their value to male sexual success. But then I feel the reason why this is is because ultimately, Reddit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub?Yeah TBH I think I despise the commenters on this sub more than ever other community I've been on. Thing is with most places, you tend to fundamentally disagree with peoples stances...but you kinda know they're very much into the shit they're spouting. I'm kinda torn whether the stances espoused here (and a lot of political/social related boards on Reddit) is what people truly think or just what they like to present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | The Wheel of Time and "Gender Essentialism", do you believe men think and feel completely different from women, and vice versa?We haven't found any inherent non-physical differences between men and women. You kinda spout a lot of rubbish in a very passive way which kinda serves as a get out clause for unsubstantiated bullshit. found is some tendencies for men or women to be a more or less one thing or the other on average but there are no clear-cut differences What the hell? Being more or less of one thing is kinda the definition of a clear cut difference. And, in reality, I just googled the first study which came up.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How important is personality and demeanor compared to aesthetics when it comes to approaching a girl at a bar or club?No, your personality is just uniquely awful. If you're at the point where women are nexting you despite physical attraction then it doesn't say anything about looks not mattering and more about you being so socially maladjusted that even your looks don't make up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:29 AM |
| 20 | At what age is it a turnoff for a man to have never had a girlfriend?And yet, a lot of women here claim that the reason men can't get laid isn't their physical looks but their awkwardness and personality. This sub is really tiring, I can't imagine what it would be like being a younger struggling and having to read all this disingenuous horseshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:26 AM |
| 3 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?No. Your risk of heart disease literally correlated with your waist size. Jesus fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:33 AM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I agree. Despite seeing more men in the gym, I swear I'm seeing more women in respectable shape in the gym. Its like there's less of them but the ones who do go at least take it somewhat seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I earn 200k, studied computer science and attend Muay Thai classes whilst working two jobs. There's no fucking excuse. Most dudes work in offices and finish at 5 fucking pm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:30 AM |
| 0 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I'm a weirdo. Maybe not friendless and awkward. I'm also a prick. And yes I likely get a lot more women than you. Precisely because I'm jacked. And it's really sad watching men cope, desperate to believe their beloved Sally wouldn't drop them in a hot minute if a better looking option came along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.You're not particularly self aware or insightful so you won't get it. The average man does not have the luxury of choosing through the dates that "click" as the average man doesn't have a wealth of options at his disposal. What self improvement types and redpillers extol is the importance of becoming more desirable in order to have more choice. You're really no different than the dudes on here perplexed that women don't see the appeal of simply having sex for the sake of it. So many of you know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 9 | I do not see women initializing relationships anytime soon, and it is only logicalvery attached to traditional gender roles which many women hope to avoid Most women dont avoid gender roles. You'll be in the next discussion telling people how women do the majority of the housework too. You speak as if women not wanting a guy who approaches courting in a traditional manner as somehow super common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:16 PM |
| 9 | I do not see women initializing relationships anytime soon, and it is only logicalNot entirely sure unlimited access to porn is a selling point. Not sure I agree with OPs other points either. However, I do wonder if there is something to be said about women not initiating. I dated...a lot. I can only think of two women in my previous experience who were keen on meeting. One of them I've been with no for a few years. Of course the dumbasses are going to claim that those same women were just not that interested...but many of these women were people I'd slept with. There does se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.But whats that "click" based on? You're not entirely wrong but then the redpillers aren't wrong either. For, as quiet as its kept among men, a lot of them aren't looking to simply click with a single female, they're looking for that universal appeal that "Chad" has. I've failed to click with women who went on to date men who were uglier/more awkward/less successful than me. Problem was, in many of those cases, the women were difficult, disagreeable, haughty and indecisive. Their idea of "clickin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.As funny as the dudes sounds, the stories aren't that wild. There are a lot of men who simply do enjoy that kind of success with women. Hell, some of the shitw I've experienced in my life straight up wouldn't be believed...but I tire of women on here pretending as if there aren't men whose looks and status doesn't command that kind of attention from the opposite sex. As much as you want to convince us that everyone just neatly pairs off in twos and women only date feminists men who are supplicat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.You know that saying "when you point one finger, three point back at you", yeah that's relevant here. Whenever I see a chick complaining about men with bad hygiene or looking unkempt, chances are that's the men she feels comfortable dealing with. Trust and believe I take good care of myself and look pretty amazing. There's a subsection of women who definitely act a lot more uptight and passive aggressive when dealing with me...I feel partially because many get a little more uncomfortable when th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 10:29 AM |
| 5 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)Yeah. But then the sweet getback is seeing those same mens girlfriends stare at you as you walk past or the endless women you end up smashing whilst they're taken or married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprisingMe hate Big scary word man!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprisingPeterson, as much as I don't fully subscribe to his observations, is far more than simply a man in a suit. Maybe you spend more time making your assessments on academics based on your stances towards their teachings rather than getting caught up in who follows them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Men love whoresAgain, this is a fucking dumb point. Strippers and sex workers live lives full of drama and danger, if thats your example of winning then I hate to see what your example of losing is. If you look sexy, fuck like a slut, and act like you’re being paid it a win for a lot of guys. Again, laughable. Like the incel losers who think bad boy criminals/drug dealers are "winning" because they get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:18 PM |
| 0 | The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprisingThats right, retired clininal psychologist who studied political science and psychology, going onto do research and tenure at Harvard and the University of Toronto...is a dumb persons intellectual. The arrogance with which some of you utter failures speak... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:38 PM |
| 3 | The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprisingBoom. Funny that. In India no one bats an eyelid at a female engineer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Do men really get better with age?No you can't. I have a beyond respectable physique. There is a reason why bodybuilders often peak in the 30s and even 40s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Men love whoresOP sounds like a buffoon. Wouldn't be surprised if those same whores are grooming OP for sex work herself. Wouldn't be the first time its happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Men love whoresWhile they were married to women who were nice girls. They weren’t satisfied. Oh god lord. I mean, OP you're not entirely wrong. Men definitely like whores more than they let on. BUT its about playing ones position and this statement you made is not it. Be weary of dudes who pretend as if the reason they're cheating or fucking around is because of some magical lack of "satisfaction" in their relationship. In most cases a cheater is a cheater and his wife could be the virgin mary, won't make any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 10:55 AM |
| 7 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?There's also this strange notion on here that dating is this neat little noahs ark fantasy where attributes align perfectly. Nonsense like "sHiTty pEoPlE dAtE sHiTTy pEoPlE". Sorry, but a lot of the women on here are idiots. I routinely peruse other forums, some women centric ones too, and female redditors have a reputation for being the worst kind of pick mes. Ths coddling of mediocre men in a poor effort to make themselves seem like the cool nice girls they so desperately want to believe they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Do men really get better with age?Honestly, one can just look at sports. Most athletes tend to peak at 28-32. In combat sports, it can actually run from about 28-35. I tend to find this is the same for men in general. However, its important to note that the general peak of many athletes is getting older. Many at the top of their game in most sports are in the 30s to late 30s actually. Lebron is 38 Messi is 35 Brady is fucking 45 Wilson is 34 Ronaldo is 37 Wilder is 36 Ngannou is 36 Djokovic is 35 There is actually a bit of a pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the Idaho college student murders would be getting 24/7 media attention if the victims were ugly male students? It seems like even in death, pretty girls get priority.Missing white women syndrome. Kinda shocked at the responses in this thread so far, thought this was a well known thing. Patrice O'Neil has a great thing in one of his comedy specials where he compares the coverage of murdered Natalie Holloway to the "big headed peruvian bitch" murdered by the same man. But tbh, it's probably best not to make this some sob story for men. Sex workers are similarly ignored when murdered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysAs annoying as that poster is, she's right. Data to support her point too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Yes it's time to discuss number of partners again, lower is better by far, 0 is idealhttps://news.nd.edu/news/cupids-arrow-research-illuminates-laws-of-attraction/#:~:text=For%20women%2C%20the%20number%20of,Thinner%20women%20report%20fewer%20partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Yes it's time to discuss number of partners again, lower is better by far, 0 is idealDesirable women don't have a higher tendency to sleep around, the opposite actually. Such is not the case with desirable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why?On the impractical side/more personal and selfish reasoning of things: -possessiveness -insecurity -fears of comparison On the more practical side of things: -experience with promiscuous women in the past has often been negative when attempting to form relationships -greater chance of infidelity -greater chance of trauma Yes, most women have had sedual experiences but it's really the number that causes concern. Honestly, I kinda see men like you as part of the problem today. I was having a conve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Yes it's time to discuss number of partners again, lower is better by far, 0 is idealNo. Unless you're going to sit with a straight face and pretend women aren't penalised gor promiscuity more than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Yes it's time to discuss number of partners again, lower is better by far, 0 is idealIt would be, but then they don't. Especially considering women often desire men that are desired by other women...who often tend to have higher partner counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Yes it's time to discuss number of partners again, lower is better by far, 0 is idealInfidelity (along with financial woes) is the top reason for marital dissolution/divorce. Of course it would be number 1 priority for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Questions about the apparent success of bad men"I don't have any of the negative traits mentioned but let me project those onto men who weren't even the topic conversation" This is the response you're going to get throughout this discussion. I don't know whether it's because it's Reddit or this sub in particular but this isn't really the place for self aware takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:34 PM |
| 10 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?My fingers just won't do it. Yes the fuck they will. And I have a huge dick. My dainty, feminine fingers have made women cum far more than my dick ever has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Being “strong and independent” and wanting men to perform their masculine role is not contradictoryOf course. But then having lived all over the UK, the only places I felt really bucked thus trend were London and Greater Manchester. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Being “strong and independent” and wanting men to perform their masculine role is not contradictoryTrue. But I also find women in the UK are a bit...eugh. Many seem almost weary at the concept of a man expressing any kind of chivalry or even personal upkeep...hence why, in reality, I think Britons make some of the most physically and behaviourally undesirable people in the modern world. It's not surprising we are largely seen as ugly and lacking in sexual appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | ChadsThat's a good summary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:03 PM |
| 2 | ChadsNothing most chads are chill, men hate em cause they get girls with low effort. As a Chad/Tyrone this is kinda half true. If you're on the tall muscular side you actually get a lot of appreciation from men and its always very easy to make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:02 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyThe Independent isn't reputable now? LOL okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:56 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyDiscover Magazine is a subsidiary of Time media, the fuck are you on about? You sound like an oddball and socially maladaptive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:55 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyLook up interracial marriage stats, women date out less than men. Also... https://www.discovermagazine.com/the-sciences/why-does-race-matter-for-women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Most people are absolutely clueless when it comes to red flags in relationships.Again. Shady and manipulative bullshit. We know what "run through" means. And we both know that if we were to poll users (even redpillers) here, it would air more to the side of a woman who has had 20-30 partners by 25 than a woman who has had 5-6 by 30. The vast majority of men are not expecting virgins and, again, I've seen very few here imply that a woman with a handful of sexual partners as ran through. They're there, but that would be like me taking the word of the most ardent FDS aficionad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyWhen a girl gets a boyfriend her friends are happy for her because now they can be set up with his friends You see, now I just think you're trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 10:19 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyno women are into that shit I've literally fucked women into it...a whole fucking lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 10:19 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Women don’t actually care about moneyThis is just...wrong. Like Pew Research Centre wrong. I have no idea why some of you "bluepillers" are so committed to delusion. Its fucking unhealthy and makes me think a lot of you aren't all there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Its funny how redpillers are completely delusional for thinking a high libido woman with a low partner count is unrealistic but you guys want to peddle the idea that high libido women can be totally faithful. Just LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 10:11 AM |
| 5 | Most people are absolutely clueless when it comes to red flags in relationships.‘I don’t want a girl whose been run through by other guys,and has baggage’ thing You know exactly what someone means when they say that. They're not talking about relationship experience. No one uses "run through" to imply relationships. This, again, is my point. A lot of you try to push these wholesome personas but lowkey you're rather manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Most people are absolutely clueless when it comes to red flags in relationships.You see this shit here is what I don't like. You know damn well why someone doesn't want a partner who has had an excessive amount of sexual partners. Man or woman. Funnily enough, if this was a woman saying she was concerned about the baggage of a guy with a lot of female partners you wouldn't be critical of her decision making at all. Its actually kind of despicable what a lot of women do here because its gaslighting and an attempt to shame men for perfectly reasonable standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:42 AM |
| 4 | Are "approach signals" even real ?Nice...nice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 01:36 AM |
| 5 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?But to me being overly competitive and not realizing social cues seems like two different things. It isn't. Jesus, some of you need help. Being overly competitive is precisely about missing social cues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manAgain not really. LOL you clearly aren't all that convinced you're good looking yourself. No, you don't need to be attractive to get laid or smash or date attractive women. Your whole MO makes you seem like a larper, not because its some herculian task, but because you clearly attach a lot of your self esteem to it. The fact that you see sleeping with women as some kind of grand achievement is why I think you likely overvalue women's behaviour and looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manDoing well on tinder don't mean shit. I bet you're one of fhosr clowns who claims "only chads" do well on there anyway. Anyone can go on dating apps and smash mediocre women, it's never been the slog you redpillers and incels like to pretend it is. And yes, I compared women to contracts. Women aren't special and they tend to adhere to the same behaviours an employer does. Because people are people at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...I was comparing the lived experiences of my mother (non submissive) with my girlfriends mother (submissive). Your reading comprehension seems questionable. I look at the experiences of my mother and my partners mother. And I love my mother, she's a strong woman but shes hardly had an easy life. Especially when compared to my girlfriends mother. The latter is far more submissive and has enjoyed a far more comfortable life, partly because I feel she let my GFs father play the provider role and pus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...My girlfriend doesn't survive on daddy's money. Out combined income is nearly 250k. Unless you're earning significantly more than that I'm not entirely sure what the achievement is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...I'm lost. This "hypothetical woman" is my girlfriend. And I earn a lot more than her dad regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:54 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manI get that too lol. Plenty. As said, there is no magical look that makes a toxic woman not toxic and its laughable that u think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:52 PM |
| 4 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right man6ft4, super built, ripped, earning 200k. Believe it or not, but your approach to women is toxic and clearly indicative of someone who needs a desperate injection of self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:03 AM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manAn ironclad rule of dating women: a difficult girl will ALWAYS be difficult. I'm afraid I have to agree. But I think a lot of men only realise this when they're desirable to significant amounts of the opposite sex. I've had women who've flaked initially and whenever we even ended up sleeping together, it didn't become any easier, it just preceded a slew of difficulties. But I dont believe game doesn't exist. It clearly does. Just like there are techniques to make one a better salesman or better … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 11:01 AM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manThis is just not true. I've had shit tests from women I've slept with. I've slept with hundreds. I'm the prototypical Chad/Tyrone. Its really sad because Reddit seems to attract such low self esteemed people who seem to attribute every relationship difficulty to some weird perceived lack of value. People shit test often because they're attachment avoidant and have crippling insecurities. This idea that being good looking makes you immune from shitty behaviour is nonsense peddled by men who, rath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manAgain, the dude is right. And I disagree with that poster on a lot of things. Your opinions are laughable. I mean using a fucking Hollywood actress? As if Tinsletown isn't teeming with sexual abuse and predators? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manI agree with him. I feel you don't see this because you're probably not that good looking. I run into a lot of average guys who think if they just jump through X hoops, they'll eventually reach some pot of gold which of course there never is. The easier a woman is to bed, the higher the body count usually. Again. Juvenile. Speaks to your lack of experience. And not only in dating. I had a contract last year that paid me $1000 a day. It was for one of the largest semiconductor manufacturers in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:40 AM |
| 4 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manAnd I completely disagree about the OF part. They're not. Just flat out wrong. Most OF models don't make shit. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/onlyfans-is-like-a-pyramid-scheme-almost-all-the-money-is-made-by-top All the money is made by the top creators who, quite often, leverage their following from more traditional, non sexualised social media networks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:33 AM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as a naturally submissive or confident woman. Every woman is submissive to the right manNo. As usual, I like carrying over many of the observations in dating to the professional sphere. Would you say every person is just competent to the right job? Fact of the matter is reality doesn't work out that neatly. A lot of people are just shitty candidates/employees. They half ass, bring in negative energy, have no passion and just kinda suck. Go to r/jobs or r/antiwork, sorry but a lot of people just aren't employable. And its not because of fucking capitalism or billionaires, they're ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...Her father earns well over $100k. Which is indeed middle class. Funny how the person scoffing at that probably doesn't earn that or date a man who earns that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 09:11 AM |
| 0 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...Thats a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...If you think submissiveness is so underrated, why don't you think you should be the submissive one in the relationship? Tried it. Didn't work. In fact I felt resentment from the woman that I wasn't "taking control". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...But we do submit to the will of superior. Especially in institutions like the military, in fact, its in tightly integrated and hiarchical organisations like those where submitting the authority is paramount. It's the reason why months of basic training to rebuild you in their image is a requirement before the undertaking of any tasks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...But you're the clown who said submitting to authority is weak. Half of you idiots can't even keep up with your own arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...Yeah right up until the point they hit back. As someone who has spent years doing muay thai and fighting competitively, the vast majority of people do not have the will or fortitude to brute force their will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Stop using "submissive" as a placeholder for a weak woman. Reality is often the opposite...Loool and yet you sit here posting on this sub. Meekly ensuring your posts are passive aggressive enough so some random shut in mod doesn't ban you. What a laughable post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Dick sucking n-count🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?I am considered good looking and every one of your replies comes off as gross and entitled and its obvious you date lesser attractive men because of the power it gave you. You're no martyr, in fact you sound like a pretty awful, judgy and shallow person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?Tbh we tend to come to mutual agreements now some years in but I definitely think I could be a better boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?Sorry but this reads like the desperate dude who gets mad because he gets rejected by the 3/10 he thought would be an easy lay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?Sorry but you're second paragraph doesn't make it seem like you genuinely valued those guys for their charisma. It sounds like their lesser attractiveness very much influenced your decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 9 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?My girlfriend is a 6/10. Banging body but a meh face. Can't speak to soon as she's having significant jaw surgery that will fix her underbite. She has a very enviable body though. Barely takes rhe gym seriously but has a small waist and nice ass and is tall. I'm the better looking one by some margin. But, to be fair, I really stand out. Being in a relationship where the power dynamic is very much in my favor whilst she possesses the more wholesome personality has taught me a lot. First of all, N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?This is true. I've been guilty of it myself. Not even a "personality" person. Honestly I feel people do it for the power they have over the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenAgain, historical sata has shown that men are far more susceptible to alcoholism among older people with millennials and gen Z changing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenNot really going to share an opinion on whose trashy but I did find it interesting just how many younger alcoholic women there are now and how many are overtaking men in alcohol related deaths and health complications. https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20180618-why-alcohol-affects-women-more-than-men Data is from the UK but I'm sure the US is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodIsn't that most people's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodWell surely that means the wall is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:44 PM |
| 2 | The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhoodDo dudes genuinely believe this. I ain't even saying it as some kind of gotcha against women but, as a guy with options, when I came back online dating during covid I set my age range to 18-28 and I was 32 at the time. Didn't have any problems finding women at all. Whether we like it or not youth is valued in women. I don't have anything against older women have actually dated older women when I was younger, but to deny that younger women have it easier is just silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:38 PM |
| 2 | So I’m supposed to believe it’s less naive, reflects more experience, and more maturity, to believe a MORE sugar coated and ideological version of reality?He's not a role model. Just a useful clown. Like Trump. Good politician? Obviously not but he was representative of how tired many had grown of being lectured to by media elites who hadn't really shown a lick of moral integrity themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | So I’m supposed to believe it’s less naive, reflects more experience, and more maturity, to believe a MORE sugar coated and ideological version of reality?It's just the "just world fallacy" nonsense of hopeless romantics. Most aren't very smart and have been raised by helicopter parents who failed to inform them about the reality of the world around them. At the same time though i feel some simply rationalise why their substandard mate choices are actually great. That's not a bad thing. There are only so many chads and high status men to go round so it would be better to convince yourself that your shlubby boyfriend is what you always wanted rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tI wasn't fired you dumb fuck. I said I was owed money from my employer. And yes you don't actually need to be fired to know how little employment rights you have in the first two years of your contract. What the fuck is legal protection insurance? Jesus Lord. You mean legal expenses insurance??? What the hell is that meant to do? Unfair dismissal claims go through to tribunal but can only be done so within the first three months. You can opt to go to ACAS (which I actually fucking did) who, agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tI'm in the UK. Outside of trades, government and civil service how many unions do you know actually have the power to make any significant demands? The UK has a poor GDP per capita relative to its economic size precisely because most jobs are poorly paid. Judging by your comments on maternity leave you sound like am airhead either larping about your high salary or one whose simply fallen into a good position with fuck all understanding of the world around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | I hate all of you, you’re a bunch of damn idiots.This...this is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tRich and decent maybe? Just decent? Maybe not. You already know very well how fucking insulated union workers are and how much of it is based on who you know and your familial networks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tOp is another dumbass child larping on Reddit. Honestly, a lot of employers don't even let you unionised and will fire you the moment you're seen doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:15 AM |
| -1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tIn the UK you have pretty much no rights for the first two years of employment. I've literally taken previosu of employers to court. I was fighting to get money I was owed as a contractor. I had astonishingly little rights and employment lawyers were asking me for £600 to write a couple of fucking letters. As said, I think you're a clown with no respectable career. You're too fucking stupid to have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:12 AM |
| -1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tWhich country is that? I'm not in the US either. Anyone trying to make out that maternity leave is generous anywhere but maybe parts of Scandinavia is a clown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:09 AM |
| -6 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tYeah doing what? Onlyfans?? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tLoool as if union jobs are easy to come by and aren't massively gatekept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tOP sounds like an idiot. Between that and her laughable ideas on maternity leave, I don't think she had kids or even a respectable career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 09:54 PM |
| -1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tDespite being pretty misogynistic, I would NEVER want my daughter spending more time investing in men than an education or career. However, what I think is actually kinda not discussed is how careers are often used an excuse by many women for being obnoxious and masculine. My mother is 60+ and still works looking after disabled kids and my sister is a doctor. Both were married and have been with the same men for years. It didn't seem to hinder their ability, especially in my sisters case, to bui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Sisters, I want you to explain this graph to me..So I'm not the only one fascinated by this weird troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Sisters, I want you to explain this graph to me..Don't quote studies you can't find because most of you are liars or just completely full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:15 PM |
| 4 | TitleHe's right though. You do a lot if projecting and have all the makings of a typically cripplingly insecure black woman who hides behind race for her litany of character flaws. Its always fucking pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Title🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:03 PM |
| 25 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.Or could ber serving as a placeholder for the viewer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Does female loyalty exist anymore?Jesus Lord based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.OKCupid you deliberately obtuse cunt. A platform releases data about the users on its platform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:00 PM |
| 9 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.That's what drives me mad. The fucking virtue signalling bullshit. So many women on Reddit are soooo into Asian guys and dad bods. Never seems to end up that way in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.This is...concerning. I'm all for believing it's not racist to have racial preferences but this kinda makes it seem like the penalty against certain demographics isn't purely about looks/culture but simply the fact they're that demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:49 AM |
| 4 | The double standard explained.Lizzy "chubby"? Damn the incels might be right. Lizzo is pretty damn obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | The opressed modern womanThat may not negate his point 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:21 AM |
| 4 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyA lot will just tell u if u ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 4 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyYep I can't fucking read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyHow did I know a shitty poster like you would be part of the white woman defence force... This is why I don't take any "blue pilled" posters seriously. Most of you are just garbage and your "pro woman" takes are only really meant to apply to conventionally attractive white women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:01 PM |
| 36 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyWhat gets me is that white women are a weirdly protected class on here. I've spoken to many who admit that there are many problematic attitudes among their own demographic but on Reddit you get this weird denial. It's not shocking to me that all the female posters that I absolutely detest on here seem to be middle class white women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:57 PM |
| 3 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyLol the irony this shit coming from someone who likely desperately wants to date outside of her race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:55 PM |
| 12 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societythings like don't find black men attractive Honestly I don't actually think this statement is racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:54 PM |
| 9 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyWait, how the hell is this related to the OP in any way? Edit: I need better reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsLooool you really think anyone believes that? Okay, do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsThey have bigger butt's than all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsBlack dicks arent bigger anymore than black arses being bigger. Lol, again, sitting there with a straight face saying black women don't (on average) have bigger butt's than white women. Just lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma.Shame "deserve" doesn't mean anything in real life. I'm a complete manwhore and my girlfriend isn't. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsYeah sorry but this sounds like cope. Not everyone is as consumed with porn as you are. It's always white dudes desperately arguing this point until the end of time like clowns. If height, weight and hair all have variances between races, why would penis size not be the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsIt's funny how you dudes say this shit up until it comes to asian mens penises and then suddenly race and penis size counts again. Black dicks tend to be bigger. Get the fuck over it. I've been big into the swingers scene and half the white women in there will tell you the same damn thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsAre u even black? Sadly most black redditors will likely take this as gospel considering how low an opinion most black on this site have of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsYeah but this goes both ways. I equally think white women on here are completely full of crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:00 AM |
| 7 | Don't judge my past 😠Most of you useless simps don't do well with women yourselves. No, 19 is not a fucking child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | This sub in a cumshellCareful. I've met too many seemingly desirable and taken men who believe this shit too. If we can accept (and appreciate) that the standards for men have raised then its perfectly logical to acknowledge that standards will raise for women. When actually seeing the men who do have the various things that make men attractive to the opposite sex, many are becoming picker than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?Sorry but I'm not reading all that crap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?Every idiot online claims they have a wonderful loving relationships. Half of then also claim to be earning six figures too. Why should I believe them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How blue pilled or red pilled you are rarely determines how successful you are with women. What determines this is how much action you takeBlack people aren't responsible for 80% of the crime. That's not even remotely accurate let alone whether its racist or not. Lol you bluepillers man. Bunch of a repulsive clowns masquerading as "good guys". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?You're an Arab Muslim so the cluelessness isn't surprising. And Jesus christ is it rich someone from you culture talking about "just loving each other". As if male relatives in your neck of the woods don't routinely lob peopels heads off for that shit 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?It's funny you speak of redpillers when its clear you have fuck all dating experience yourself. but also someone that doesn't care about you and you feel you don't mean anything to them because they don't need you anyway is also just as bad. the key here is that if you don't need her she would be trying to keep you so you will have the power and if you don't do that then she will take advantage of that. well how about you both love each other and don't take advantage of each other and if she sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why is niceness so harmful to romantic relationships?It actually hinders women too. My girlfriend is nice to a fault. She has always struggled with men taking advantage of her. Her mother is also nice and never one to complain, she too struggles with even other women taking her seriously. I think its because so much of out socialisation is actually built around inherent distrust. This has been amplified as living spaces and communities are larger and more heterogenous. I think one of the contributing factor to my girlfriends attitude is the fact s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Secrets to sex appeal that every man should followThe speed you replied meant you likely didn't read my post either. You're just another idiot peddling feel good junk for karma. I think this sub gets tired of karma farming losers quickly. It's one of the things about it I actually like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:26 PM |
| 14 | Secrets to sex appeal that every man should followGarbage. You know what I do now. Any dating advice I hear, I just apply it to jobs. If I met a struggling candidate, would your advice seriously be "just be confident"? Unlikely. First you would ask what skillset do they have, education, transcript, internships, experience, accreditations...tangible skills designed to show competence. Why do we treat dating differently? One of my roles now is as a consultant software engineer for a fintech company and I fucking hate it. The company is awful and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?This is the first link I get when I type in red pill https://thepowermoves.com/the-rational-male/ All of those 10 key points are true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Did Red Pillers Became Richer Or Started Getting More Laid After Being Red Pill?What exactly is the redpill? I've been practicing all its so called tenets since my early twenties and have had quite a few partners. The most I got into "redpill" was listening to comedians like Patrice. The problem isn't the teaching, its the community. Women and game are always things that are best discussed with real life counterparts. What I see in the redpill is the same thing I see in bodybuilding. Where you used to have men commune in the gym and exchange ideas with each other, it's now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:30 PM |
| – | Framing men as the ‘villains’ gets women no closer to better romantic relationshipsI ran into a girl who actually said she liked Andrew Tate. Kinda blew my mind. Interestingly, I think the reason he is so popular is because of the slow backlash against mainstream thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 02:37 PM |
| – | Framing men as the ‘villains’ gets women no closer to better romantic relationshipsIfs funny how the only women offering these alternatives seem to be women of color. Interesting to the say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 01:12 PM |
| – | Framing men as the ‘villains’ gets women no closer to better romantic relationshipsWhy is it even when The Guardian are running articles wanting to discuss some problematic elements of female dating behaviours it, again, becomes an exercise in whataboutism on here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 12:43 PM |
| 9 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceIt has a lot of parallels with capitalism. How the poor are just assumed to be morally defunct people. Unsurprisingly, we are at the point where capitalism is degrading further into the fucked up corporatism we have now. The fact of the matter is no matter what you think of redpillers, most will inevitably be smarter than their "bluepilled" counterparts. Most people just aren't bright enough to see how societal conditioning really trashes the concept of "goodness" rewarding one with wealth, stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Dark triad traits are attractive in men - in moderate amounts, and only for some culturesI never had you on ignore you stupid fuck. And I've never voted for a Conservative in my life. Typical dumb partisan cunt. Your entire life is from some side, when you're not circlejerking with red pillers you're virtue signalling wirh lefties. That's why it took you 40 fucking years to realise that just maybe redpill nonsense isn't good for your mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Dark triad traits are attractive in men - in moderate amounts, and only for some culturesThis is nonsense. Johnson largely lost our because he's not that smooth a political operator and had to deal with a pandemic. Blair, who literally oversaw ths deaths of hundreds of thousands, lasted in power for 10 years. There isn't a political commentator out there who wouldn't say hes ths prototypical machivellian politician. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I am slowly starting to despise Andrew TateTate doesn't strike me as particularly interesting or controversial. For me what I find intruiging is why people are so viscerally disgusted by him. Personally I feel he is a crude caricature of the ideals most of us in the west actually do believe deep down. I mean I turn on my phone and its tons of half naked women selling whatever bullshit product xxxx corporation wants to convince me I need, half the onlyfans have some bum ass boyfriend they're giving their wage to, hardly any dude wants to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Some women find the very same persistence attractive that others would find creepyEven your replies are meaningless platitudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Some women find the very same persistence attractive that others would find creepyNope. You speak in a lot of meaningless platitudes which displays your lack of real experience. Bill Burr had a great bit about it. A guy on a plane experiencing turbulence who douldnt stop hysterically everytime the plane moved uncontrollably. Boldness and directness are great. But they're not the be all and end all. The very fact that there are so many cowardly people still in our species mean its clearly isn't something which women weed out of potential mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Orgasm and Narcissism - Why giving oral sex to women is equivalent of devaluing your manhood.How is reading too much into it if you're confirming what he said??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do women virtue signal on this sub?This is also true. Thankfully there are plenty of women centric forums where discussion is far more honest. Lol go to somewhere like Lipstick Alley and tell everyone how much you like bad bodied men. See if you don't get laughed out of the room. Yes, women aren't all that honest. But society doesn't really allow them to be all that much to be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Why do women virtue signal on this sub?Honestly, as a black man (ha!) I see the same thing in regards to race. Its not a woman thing its a female redditor thing. One thing my immigrant parents always told me to damn near expect racists but to truly fear and be weary of the closet cases. The type to claim they're totally for equality and inclusion but secretly report you to HR for whatever bullshit infraction they can think of. I spent a lot of my younger years dealing with bigoted bullshit not only from the typical boomers you'd expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Dark triad traits are attractive in men - in moderate amounts, and only for some culturesIt's not that genuine kindness, optimism and generosity isn't valued, it just doesn't matter. My girlfriend is a genuinely lovely person. I'm...not. I'm actually a pretty shitty person with a whole closet full of skeletons. And yet what happens. Because of my good looks, I've had to put with people demeaning and disrespecting my girlfriend for years. People constantly assuming she's somehow "lucky" when, in reality, I'm the lucky one. I'm the one enjoying all the traits redpillers pine for. I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Looool you need to have a look at my post history. I'm the last person to be accused of being pro women here 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I feel this is my major, major problem with women in this sub. We do need conversations on the female expectations of masculinity. I feel what is driving a lot of men nuts is the doublespeak. You're told on here that women love dad bods and stay at home dads and then you hear of even Hollywood heartthrobs complain that the expectations for low body fat and no wrinkles is more extreme than ever. Of course someone will jump in to claim "oH tHat sUpErHerO mOviEs" but then, like OP, you actually wat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.And women don't project themselves onto female protagonists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:49 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.But I don't understand the point here. Superhero comic books sell the trope of am unremarkable beta who is somehow "chosen" and gets the girl as a reward. There is actually a great video on movie tropes which discusses how much movies play into men's misogynistic ideas of women existing as property or prizes to be earner upon completion of some daring mission. Movies (and media in general) is heavily dependent on focus groups and audience assessment. They wouldn't be selling it if women aren't b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | As a man, if a quality you have is easy to have, it’s probably unattractiveYou took up potential lung cancer to talk to women? Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:32 PM |
| 8 | As a man, if a quality you have is easy to have, it’s probably unattractiveIf you don't believe what we're saying, why even be on a debate forum? Debate doesn't entitle you to belief. Ever watched, say, a parliamentary debate? Parliamentarians get called out for bullshitting by the other bench all the time. In fact, its rather unsurprising that politicians are often seen as life's biggest bullshitters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?No one "got targeted" you fucking lowlife. I just think you and the poster I replied to are shitty contributors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Single Women, what are your standards?Most people quoting exorbitant salaries are quoting paper money, including their bonus and stock options. I frankly, find the whole thing pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Single Women, what are your standards?That surprises you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeNeither. Because there's no fucking "side". What are you? 12? The real world isn't demarcated by "normies" or "redpillers" and if started talking about "redpills" to my real world friends they would likely call me a fucking weirdo. Seriously. Touch grass. The vast majority of the world is not taking part in juvenile culture/gender war nonsense. They say when someone says such a thing, to believe them outright. Yeah, no shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeThe fact that you ask this question means I can already tell what kind of rationalising clown you are. If I said I was happy, would it make any difference? There is no current mindset. I'm perpetually dissatisfied and I'm not a particularly nice person either. But, even then I'm not a loser who needed to waste his 20s and 30s engaging with red pill nonsense to learn that maybe, just maybe, circle jerking with men online wasn't a healthy way to build relations with the opposite sex. Guys like you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:39 AM |
| 0 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeNope. These are just the projections of a loser. You claim you got into redpill and to have do e that back before algorithms and youtube shows a real propensity for hanging out and engaging in loser shit. To be an "ex redpiller" at 40 years old is truly pathetic. Plenty of us don't need to make it out of circle jerks of toxic weirdos to understand how dating dynamics work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?Because you're not about engaging with others. It's all an exercise in how unique and virtuous you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?Right. I genuinely think you and a few other frequent posters are a wholly negative aspect of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?And you know that how? Sorry but you replied to this post in like 10 minutes. I don't take overinvestment in this sub as a good sign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 11:25 PM |
| -1 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?Yeah and yet that poster seems far less visible than you do. Its hilarious seeing the mainstays who sit online arguing with incels all day try to make out as if they're more adjusted than those who post far less but are clearly more honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 11:08 PM |
| 4 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeI disagree. I think looks (and money) are extremely important. I also think they're even more important to those who don't focus on improving them than those that do. As a man, once I started to take care of my physical appeal I became less obsessed with finding a partner who could validate me physically. It still mattered but wasn't the be all and end all. I feel so many people who don't place looks as a priority often end up actually letting looks become a constant concern that they never trul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:16 PM |
| 0 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeThe problem with this sub is that, despite being a rather toxic place in general with men and women often cross pollinating subs like redpill and FDS, they all rather bizarrely see themselves as "nice" people. I'll happily admit that, yeah, I'm an attractive guy dating a slightly less attractive girl and she has referred to herself as a doormat. I would be a liar to deny that one of the reasons we lasted this long is because she's put up with a lot of my bullshit and part of the reason I've grow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?I have far, far more respect for posters like her because they can admit their problematic viewpoints. We all gave them and it's no great sin. And she's somewhat justified too. Men cab be pretty shitty at times. What I absolutely can't stand is posters like you because you're so addicted to being completely full of shit and passing off this "cool girl" personality. You're like nice guys (tm) except online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsKyrie Irving is still richer than you could ever hope to be and NBA teams will still fight to give him game time no matter how much bone idle shit he says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How to be more attractive as a man?I mean Jesus, you do have to wonder about some of these posters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:39 AM |
| 5 | How to be more attractive as a man?It's actually horrible advice. The prototypical horrible advice you're going to get from a woman. It's not going to help you and you've heard it a million times before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:39 AM |
| 3 | At what income does dating prospects for an average looking man become greater than a 8/10 man who earns 75k/year?Dude, you don't actually make 200k. Your post history makes it clear you're full of crap. You're still in fucking college blabbering on about how you're totally gonna be on 200k becuase you're "connected". I don't get you redditors who make ip these fantasy lives/achievements to make yourselves feel better about your situation. 200k is not the norm for entry level development, I fail to see what good it does pretending to yourself that it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | At what income does dating prospects for an average looking man become greater than a 8/10 man who earns 75k/year?Oh shut up. I literally earn the salaries you pretend to. 200k is not an average graduate salary in any fucking reality. I've worked for semi conductor manufacturers, government organisations and now a wealth management fintech firm. I've been paid $1000 per day in the past and even then it was well known that those roles were harder to come by and often for senior engineers. Just fucking stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | At what income does dating prospects for an average looking man become greater than a 8/10 man who earns 75k/year?Have you been paying any attention to tech in the last few months? Jesus some of you posters are fucking retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Question 4 The Red Pill: What do you consider hoe/thot/slut/whore/pump and dump behavior?Again, the fact that you think that's a lie is testament to you lack of experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | For red pillers, what blue pill opinion do you hold? And for blue pillers, what red pill opinions do you hold?It's easier to imprint on a slut you met at a BDSM party where you get to push her limits As someone who has been to many BDSM parties, this is....not the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Question 4 The Red Pill: What do you consider hoe/thot/slut/whore/pump and dump behavior?Looool Believe what you want. But it takes someone who probably just started getting positive attention from the opposite sex yesterday to think you need a "crazy" girl to have good sex. What next? You love women who burn your clothes and lose their minds the moment you receive positive attention from the opposite sex? Jesus christ, some of you are straight up corny. Dumb ass kids barely outta college who know fuck all about fuck all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Question 4 The Red Pill: What do you consider hoe/thot/slut/whore/pump and dump behavior?No I ain't. I've had hundreds of partners. Their problematic behaviour played literally no part in their secual prowess and its laughable to think that it could. I remember a discussion recently where someone asked whether "bad boys" make better lovers. It was a resounding no, and yet you have plenty of dudes parroting this ridiculous idea that being some irritating thot somehow makes one more sexually competent. This is what's lost in this discussion. Yeah there are lots of incels but there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)Because they may actually like that person's company? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | You can’t love her that much if you think she should be happy with unremarkable and average (you)What if she is...average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women arePeople end up in bad situations through no fault of their own all the time Yeah and I'm leaning on you not being one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:27 PM |
| 11 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areLol funny you didn't deny anything I said. Clowns like you are surprisingly easy to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areExactly. OP is a escorts perusing, bigoted shut in who clearly has no friends and yet thinks its his height that's the problem. In truth his first sin was his absolute lack of self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:21 PM |
| 10 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areThey asked you whether you're a pro athlete because you are tall. Not because you actually look like one. It's kinda obvious that you have nothing going for you other than your height and, rather paradoxically, you blame your height rather than actually working on some things to make yourself more attractive. It's so hilariously ironic, you seem to think being tall entitles you to sex whilst complaining that the lack of sex your getting is down to your height 🤣 What the fuck makes Mexican Edgar … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areExactly. OP sounds like one of those incel weirdos. Their dogma seems to be a commitment to self pity. Whilst I dislike endless talk of pErSoNaLiTy, I think a lot of these dudes are just so socially maladjusted that no amount of height will do them any favours anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 18 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areHow tall are you? I'm 6ft4 and it's definitely beneficial. If anything, I would want to be taller. However people need to understand that height and overall build are not a zero sum game. I'm tall but I have long limbs and a proportionate frame. Whilst I'm muscular, I also have good posture (this is very much a fixable thing). Do you actually look like a pointguard? Lean? Broad shouldered? Capped delts? I'm strongly leaning on that being a fat no. A lot of you absolute fucking losers will have e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 05:05 PM |
| 22 | Debating with people who literally deny the “harsh” realities of behaviour that TRP let’s men know about is a waste of your timeGet outside and interact with women who aren't on Reddit. The problem both genders have is that they spend too much time online, conversing with gender counterparts who are as much as social failures as they are. What you'll find, to your surprise, is that a lot of women out there are pretty damn "red pilled". You need to realise that women online are largely a certain demographic, urban, educated, white and UMC. From real world experience this demographic often constitutes full of shit people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 01:35 PM |
| 6 | OLD is to real life dating what e-commerce is to shopping malls.Reddit are very anti-capitalist progressives They're not. The average redditor is a sack of garbage whose only mad at capitalism because they're personally not benefitting from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | OLD is to real life dating what e-commerce is to shopping malls.It might be worth noting that, like online dating apps, Amazon has seen some significant slowing in growth since the reopening after the pandemic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Is it just me or there's a certain type of woman that loves to bully single men specifically?How so? He's answering the OPs questions. For all the complaints about men, there are too many femcel posters on here who aren't even allowing for discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or there's a certain type of woman that loves to bully single men specifically?Yeah kinda. But I try not to pay them any mind. This is why self improvement is so critical. It's amusing when you're physically appealing and you deadpan a lot of women's "negs". It morphs into this pathetic attempt to grasp some level of control over the conversation and it always embarrasses them. I don't think it's too gender specific but I definitely think an element of "maneater" personalty quirks in women have mainstream approval. I notice similar toxic attitude from "lads" but, at least … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selectionThe first family members of mine that my girlfriend met was my sister and my mother. I consider a woman's input essential when it comes to romantic choices. Seems the sentiment isn't shared across gender judging by the comments here. And quite frankly this why I notice so many modern women seem so particularly useless and stupid. So many seem like complete underachievers whose greatest accomplishment is a useless degree which amounts to nothing but a shitty clerical job and the best they can acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selectionI'm sorry but this is rubbish. You dudes need to stop fucking arguing and excusing anything problematic that women do. Jesus christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongEven ignoring prison you’ve never ever seen in a boxing or Muay Thai gym or judo dojo of a shorter man dominating a taller dude? Nor have you had coaches that are on the shorter/smaller side? Cause I’ve definitely done randori and sparring with bigger and taller men and it wasn’t them flattening me. I do that too. And the heavyweight sparring is demarcated to Wednesday at 3pm at my gym (one of the two prominent MMA gyms in the Midlands). It's that way out of necessity. The smaller guys are plent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureThe statistics I posted show men chest more than women. What it doesn't show sad that men cheat at any significantly larger margin and are hardly indicative of the cause of marital dissolution. You can't peddle misandrist rubbish and not expect pushback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureShow me where increased # of partners equals an increased chance of divorce..? I’m a divorce attorney and sluts aren’t ruining marriages, more often than not, cheating husbands are. Then you're probably a shit fucking attorney. There is no great difference between infidelity rates of men and women. https://www.globalinvestigations.co.uk/private-investigator/infidelity-statistics-uk-infographic/ Laughable that a professional would post such claptrap. And in regards to increased partners: https://… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureSomeone who was single and having casual sex is not the same as someone who was cheating on their partner. If that’s the case, men who have casual sex or even desire it are JUST as risky for LTR, but that’s not what men here say, they try to apply this standard of “past behavior is an indication of future behavior,” ONLY to women. They are? It depends on what you consider liability. I've worked in other sensitive government roles where my credit history meant nothing, because the criteria for li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | It makes sense for men to care about promiscuity because it is often an indication of a woman’s self-respect, or respect for her partnersIts true. Most people are gonna deny this. The women who do know the score and want to keep men in the dark, the men who do are just...weak. I've known some turbowhores. Women who have done some of the nastiest, porno induced shit you can think of. One of my exes ended up having a gangbang with a restauranter and a footballer. I also have found that thots are who I vibe with the most behaviourally. However they ALWAYS make terrible partners and many will tell you this themselves. Its partially i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureI just lost out on a lucrative contract role with a big bank due to a court judgement on my credit history. Is it fair? Possibly no, but the fact is I am considered a liability because of my adverse history. And this is despite having pretty good credit now and paying off my debts. To anyone with a modicum of sense or due diligence, past behaviours will be taken into consideration. Its pathetic that when it comes to women, people want to suddenly act blind to obvious shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongTBF I was on an enhanced wing due to being on remand, it is worse but, again, prison fights are no greater marker of skill. You get run up on and thats that. You seem to be meandering between cat A's and youth detention centres. Which is it? Prison isn't a holiday, but its not some cool hellscape either. I spent time in Hewell and Pentonville and the vast majority of shit happening was...nothing. Of course fights and attacks happen but it really speaks nothing to any kind of skill fighting and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongLooool yeah you definitely know absolutely nothing about prison. This is the mos5 hilariously inaccurate post I've seen in a minute. FYI that clown claiming someone dies due to a "gladiator fight" is selling you porkies. The only thing offing idiots in prison is fucking spice. And no, I've never been to youth prison, I want to actual prison. Why the fuck do I car what goes on a bunch of juvenile delinquents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongI know plenty of fighters, UFC fighters and professional boxers, who come off as either just humble everyman or absolute dorks. Jesus you sound like a clown whose never actually been anywhere near an actual MMA/Boxing gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongEven as someone who trains and competes, this post is so ass fucking retarded I don't even know where to begin 🤣 I swear, I hate the fucking femcels and feminists as much as anyone but "pick-me"ism really is a thing. Half the female posters desperately try to one up each other by saying whatever cockamamie shit they think sounds appealing to the dorks that populate this messageboard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongNah. It's oddly specific and Chiltern firehouse is a well know celebrity haunt. Also its widely rumored that Zendaya is gay herself. I mean isn't it awfully convenient that the two Co stars in Marvels biggest solo franchise at the moment just so happen to be engaged? Did people learn nothing from those two in twilight or high-school musical??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t care if you can best somebody up or are trained in MMA etc, they just want somebody who looks tough and strongGod what rubbish, you sound like someone whose never actually been in a physical altercation. I've literally been to prison. Did a short stint on remand. There are no "organised fights". Its largely fucking boring (the boredom is literally frightening) and the vast majority in any cat c or b are just trying to do their bird and hopefully get a chance to be put on an enhanced wing. I mean "gladiator fights" Jesus Lord 😂 And Joshua's size counts for a fuckload. The reason he lost is because he's g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Just because you are a slim man doesn't mean you deserve a slim womenThen you haven't lost enough. Willing to bet you're still overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Gen Z dating habitshttps://morningconsult.com/2022/08/18/america-ideology-less-liberal-but-not-necessarily-more-conservative/ https://thehill.com/opinion/congress-blog/3682216-why-generation-z-might-not-be-as-woke-as-most-think/ I don't know what I waste my time arguing with you dummies. A shift to the right doesn't mean wholesale alignment with the Republican party, it just means fewer people identifying as liberal and both parties having to alter their policy positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:12 PM |
| -1 | Gen Z dating habitsJust because people vote for democrats, doesn't mean there isnt a general shift to the right happening. There is a reason why its Biden in charge and not Sanders. Politics works on a spectrum, I'm not really interested in debating about the qualities of either party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex?This is what I was speaking about earlier about gen Z dating habits and the modern female clown and how even a lot of women have become sick of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:18 AM |
| -1 | Gen Z dating habitsThe midterms was largely seen as a verdict on Trump and his fellow election deniers. It wasn't all that great for the democrats either and the party's left hasn't captured the imagination of the American public either. Absolutely delusional to believe America hasn't largely shifted right. https://edition.cnn.com/interactive/2022/politics/exit-polls-2022-midterm-2018-shift/index.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall)Imagine calling a 90% failure rate effective or successful. A 90% failure rate in most things is massively successful. I've worked in sales and now in software engineering. 10% close rate is a pretty damn good and I probably had 10% of the applications I sent out turn into interviews...hence why I now earn 200k. Some of you really do shoe your lack of success and ability in these posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"It's not a "redpill" mindset. It's largely happening through much of the developed world. A firm understanding that liberal cultural values and post modernism has largely failed and produced nothing for anyone outside of the upper echelons. You speak of dating but you can apply it to just about anything else. I sit in a country with inflation growing out of control and a cost of living crisis exasperated by those who made an economic decision a few years ago that was clearly against their self i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 02:01 AM |
| 12 | Gen Z dating habitsGen Z fascinates me. My girlfriends younger brother is about 21 now and still hasn't had a girlfriend and may possibly still be a virgin. Perfectly normal nice guy whose never given me incel vibes. At the same time I've been having brief conversations with this beautiful 19 year old in my gym whose been in one relationship with a 25 year old. Do you know what's funny? Both of them are well aware of all the redpill "leaders" like Kevin Samuel's and Andrew Tate. And do you know what's even funnier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Is it actually unreasonable that 'below average woman' want to be treated like ' 10' ? Don't below average men expect the people they date to treat them like 'a Chad?"Why doesn't the red pill talk about values? Life experiences? Personality? Feelings and so much more? Because you don't give a flying fuck about them either. This is why the west in such a state of cultural and economic malaise. So many waxing lyrical about their false virtue. We are more shallow, entitled and self serving than ever whilst sitting there pretending we give a fuck about values, feelings and "personality". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 12:04 AM |
| 3 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceIts redditor cope from the majority loser demographic on this platform who don't actually know any decent looking or charismatic people. Because, I swear, whenever I met a guy with a personality worth a damn he was half put together anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceIts funny that since getting divorced, Bezos has been visibly hitting the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 07:13 PM |
| 3 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceSorry but this is likely coming from someone who is not built. Good clothing choices are essential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isI've run into a few that you can't even really tell are autistic until it's brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceWhat is the flex here? That a woman with a boyfriend paid attention to you on night out. Some of you must be fucking starving. Embarrassing stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isJust like most people aren't exceptionally good looking, most people aren't exceptionally charismatic either. You'd know this if you've ever done interviews, or better yet, group interviews for any given role. The majority of candidates will be junk and a few will just be tolerable enough to endure. Another thing is outgoing isn't even desirable to everyone. One man's confident and charismatic is another man's egotistical and overbearing. You say people with personality don't value "personality"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:46 PM |
| -1 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceMate dollar studies? Can some of you people just go the fuck outside. I look good and earn a lot of money and I'm more worldly and articulate now than I've ever been. I hooked up with attractive women even easier than I do now when I was a broke college student. Women's standards aren't that high in general for men and their behavioural standards for attractive men are even lower than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:40 PM |
| 3 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceThe only women who posit this rubbish are either unattractive or simply cannot compete with their female counterparts for highly attractive or sought after men. Like the brokies who talk about how appealing BBWs are. Oh it's that Chad wouldn't be caught dead looking in my direction it's because he actually has a rubbish personality! Yeah that's it! My pudgy, 40k a year earning, stat wara figurine collecting boyfriend is actually soo uNiQuE! Yeah...sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:20 PM |
| 8 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceI don't understand why this is even a point worth arguing. This is what gets me about this sub and the men aren't completely to blame. There are a lot of women out there positing this rubbish about physical appearance not mattering "as much" and I honestly think it's a power play. It shocks me the amount of women who like to keep a certain subcategory of men fat and docile. In fact, its similar to certain men who overstate the importance of "n-count" and overstating "the wall" as a way to keep y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:15 PM |
| 3 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceOh shut up. I would post a million studies and you'll find some cockamamie way of disagreeing with them. Seriously, sitting here arguing with me about how a man's looks are important. What kind of absolute fucking bottom shelf losers are some of you? I think obsessing over imagined physical flaws and constantly comparing yourself to the chad bogeyman and blaming him for all your woes is more of an indicator of that but that's just me. Except the OP doesn't do that at all. Some of you clearly don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:04 PM |
| 0 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceThe term gymcel is a term for wasters and losers who do nothing but sit at home playing videogames to feel better about their complete lack of willingness to get themselves in reasonable physical shape. Any woman trying to justify this pathetic shir is clown themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 12:02 PM |
| -1 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceHow can it be hard to say when you don't have a muscular body and seemingly don't know anyone who does either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 11:52 AM |
| 0 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceI know what a gymcel is. I just think anyone parroting the term is a fucking lowlife and likely an incel themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:39 AM |
| 0 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceDoes it actually not work? Does anyone here know this prototypical individual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:38 AM |
| -1 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceWhat is a "gymcel"? I swear certain terminology makes it obvious a lot of you are losers who don't go outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:18 AM |
| 4 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceThats a fair point tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:16 AM |
| 6 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceHow many studies do you want me to post? Looks more important than people think: https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html Upper body strength biggest indicator of sexual selection: https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819 I mean how is one even arguing this? Its so fucking sad. Honestly I think it stems from bottom shelf self esteem. No shit, both men and women like to desire people who look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:13 AM |
| 16 | For men, too, Looks>ConfidenceOne thing that gets me is the amount of women on here who claim personality matters more than looks. You then have those same women also complain that there are a significant portion of men they date who don't wash their ass. No, I don't think personality is as effective as looks for getting a date. I do, though, think there are a significant proportion of women who almost feel guilty about desiring physically attractive men and often end up selling themselves the illusion that ugly motherfucker… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingWell damn 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?This is my point. You seem to have a bone to pick with black men dating white women possibly borne out of some kind of personal insecurity. You're exactly the kind of person I'm talking about. Black women get married the least because black people, in general, marry less. Black women date out less than black men, but black men don't marry out at significantly high rates either. She's white, and she's been approached by several black men? No surprise. Because she has a nice ass. Which is what a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Are women's height requirements getting higher?women today for god knows what reasons are obsessed with trying not to appear shallow, despite evidently being extremely shallow. That. Is. Getting. Stolen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Every nudist colony I’ve seen on tv has mostly old naked dudes. Are nudist colonies really a scam for men to pray upon women? What are your views on family nudist?Sounds like something OP is fantasising about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Every nudist colony I’ve seen on tv has mostly old naked dudes. Are nudist colonies really a scam for men to pray upon women? What are your views on family nudist?LOL I was going to write a seriously reply and then saw OPs post history. Jesus, this sub has some oddball creeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?This is such a great point that really gets lost on the internet. Its fucking bizarre how people project their obsession with white women onto black men. Don't get me wrong, there are black guys into white women and vise versa but there are also plenty who are not. And the dating stats reflect that. 80% of black men in America are with black female partners. My girl is white and not as attractive as I am and some of the looks and treatment she gets is pretty dumbfounding. All I can say is, for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThat's fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingWell good lord I ain't one of those men 🤣 Dating a man you're not attracted to is never the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThe problem with this logic is that it is under the assumption people date uniformly. I've been rejected by plenty of uggos/fatties during my single years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYou'd be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingMy friend does the same thing, he also turns off his "online" statuses. He days people like stalking your Snapchat a day things like that. It amuses me when some women here think its impossible for a man to be successful dating. Really speaks to the projection of many and how most of you probably aren't really killing it in the real world. There's a lot of times you may be online but not exactly looking to talk, if this is dumbfounding to you then you need to work on your desirability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingreally think if ur a good looking guy women by and large just want ur attention and not to actually date u which is really annoying This is true. The important thing is to not be bitter, because that can lead you to a negative feedback loop. Eventually you start to learn how valuable your company is and you'll find women who act accordingly. Trust me, when yih reach my age, you realise what a blessing it is and how much power you wield. It takes a certain woman to deal with an attractive or succ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingNo lies told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYour expectations are pretty high for a stranger who knows nothing about you. They are. But I remain surrounded by great people. Friends who've dramatically changed my life trajectory and a girlfriend that my family loves. The only reason I have these things is because I demand something from those around me. A woman might be having fun with her friends while out and tells them she thinks you're cute. They encourage her to say hi to you, but she's nervous. It's not cute when a man does this shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingHave I personally seen it? Plenty actually. Which is the reason I made this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingGuess what his hobby was? Video games. You're playing yourself here. And no ifs not proving anything I said wrong. Women not putting in effort doesn't mean women don't have low standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI think it also plays into the fact that women today are somehow completely oblivious that THEY are increasing how much looks matter for women. Because the more and more you focus on “not caring” or “not putting in effort for a man” or “not showing personality” to a man. What do you think will be left at the end of the day for him to decide whether or not he gives you the time of day? Shocker, HOW YOU LOOK. You're spittin' here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYeah exactly. I feel you have to be an actual successful guy to experience this. I find it mostly women and dudes who I feel need to be behaviourally appeasing to get any who disagree. In fact I notice similar in the jobs market. As I've become more skilled and more "in demand" as a potential employee, I've actually noticed job hunting has become mors frustrating and not less. Yeah I can command a higher salary than before, but then I still have to weed through the jobs who want to pay you compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThese dopamine hits often don't require any effort. Attention and validation from men doesn't require any effort, but that's not the point I'm making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingLol, seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI've slept and dated people who "if they wanted to, they would". Horses for courses and all that. Redditors repeat this mantra often because it's what they've been told and likely is the bitter pill they have to swallow for their own lack of success. It doesn't apply across the board tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:54 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women open themselves to more danger when being "nice" in rejection rather than being honestTbh this is something I just can't argue with. I get awkward clowns come up to me but I'm way over 6ft, fit and have some fight training. It must be radically different being a woman, particularly one of smaller stature. Ifs why I kinda understand why women dislike maintaining eye contact and are standoffish when first approached. An early experience in my teenage years was seeing my sister persistently hit on by this older creep. Would never want to experience that or have a female relative of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingWow. Great post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingHa! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYeah I can't say I disagree. The women are making fair counterpoints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingHmmm, that's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI mean, you're not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI mean, you're not wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingHonestly, I really don't give a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYou seem way too invested in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:15 PM |
| 10 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI'm in the UK. And its not about success, its about effort. They're not the same thing. I'm surprised so many people find this so hard to understand. I've met plenty of stunning, accomplished women who've complained about certain mens lack of effort. Were they any less attractive because of such? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThis is just like the old days when a dude would show up to the Frat party acting like he was a slayer when you knew he wasn’t. Funny as hell to still see things haven’t changed If that makes u feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:07 PM |
| 23 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingEh. This is why I dont really sit on either side of the fence. I really wish guys on here would stop with this nonsense. The amount of absolutely stunning women I see with complete cave trolls makes me wonder why so many guys think women's standards are so high. Yes, you're at an advantage if you're physically attractive/tall as a guy. But thats the same for women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingTBF you need to be good at it. Fundamentally, you are taking the time out of someones day to bother them, one can at least be attractive or socially adept. I've always operated on the logic that no one owes you their time, I feel thats helped me understand how to at least engage with people effectively without being needy/creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:01 PM |
| 16 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingIs it? You do know this sub has been going on for years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Its true, women don't make any effort in dating“Wildly successful dudes with the ladies LOL does that offend you? No, some of us dont have to be pathetic sycophants to get laid. You should try it sometime. Always amuses me the sad fuck "men" on here who get offended when you claim to be halfway competent with the opposite sex and not an adherent of weird post modern left leaning dogma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingthey respond they always act this way with all women off the app and dont see it as a big deal. Some indicated I am "high maintenance" not wanting to drive so far to a city so they are just lazy pretty much You raise a fair point here, I definitely agree that women can have bizarrely low expectations of male behaviour. But, again, I think it varies slightly from the complaint I'm making. Or then maybe its the same thing manifesting itself in different ways for different genders. Hmmm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingPeople put in effort when they want to. Again, I'm stunned you're...living in the world and think thats the case. they’re not interested enough or they don’t want to Its kinda not though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingEh, I dunno. You may have a point but, from my understanding at least, the overturning of Roe v Wade has largely made it at the states discretion. That still leaves a healthy chunk of the populace with bodily autonomy. And, even then, considering the decision only took place a few months ago and may still end up reversing (the majority of the public disapproves). There simply hasn't been enough time to see what societal or behavioural implications the decision may have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingIndeed. People come up to me a lot. Its actually refreshing these days when someone can come up to and keep the convo going. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThere is definite outliers. I've met plenty. My girlfriend is one them too. But this seem to be emerging as more a behavioral tactic among younger generations. Funnily enough, my GF actually complains about the same thing. She has a bunch of female friends and, unsurprisingly, the two who made the least effort with me when we first started are the ones who remain perpetually single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI'm going to have to differentiate myself. There is nothing wrong with approaching. I've done it myself successfully, and I like it when women do it too. I can't pretend as if its all bad as I've had women come up to me and pay me lovely compliments and I always make sure to show some appreciation. My issue isn't so much with the approaching, but how its done. Similarly, I run into far too many men who feel like simply going up to a woman with no context and creepily complimenting her is somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingPeople put in effort for who they’re truly interested in men and women. If people put in the requisite effort for the results they wanted out of life, there wouldn't be so many fat people. There wouldn't be so many people on minimum wage and there wouldnt be so many people struggling to maintain social networks. The reality is we often struggle to do things we know will be beneficial or even things we actually desire. It couldn't suddenly put the blame on women, that Reddit now wants to play the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI would still be utterly mortified if a friend went up to a man on my behalf though I've had that constantly throughout my twenties and thirties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 11 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI'm in the UK and staunchly pro-abortion. Not sure where you're going with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 11 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI'll own up. There was a bit of bullshitting going on my part. What was said, verbatim.. "My friend wants to know if you can pick her up, she thinks your sexy" I guess thats...better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThis is the problem, what other disclaimer is one meant to use? I'm not into PUA/repdpill or any other sort of internet malarky about how to get women. But I'm not someone whose had no success so I'm going differentiate myself from those who haven't. The problem I have with this sub is that I feel you either get guys who have absolutely no success and guys who are kinda...there. They're not particularly adept with women but have largely fallen into relationships over the years. Neither seem to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:07 PM |
| 25 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingThe problem with what you posted is that your complaints are coming from a position of a lack of interest, not a lack of effort. A guy wanting you travel an hour to meet him or not asking you about yourself is indicative of men who likely see you as an easy lay. Is it right? No. Were you right to jog these guys on? Absolutely. My complaint is more about women who are interested and yet still act coy or feign disinterest or just seem straight up incapable of engaging in fruitful conversation. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingI'm 30+ and my friends are in their late twenties. No, the women they talk to are not autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingDo they? Most of the lesbians I see who complain about dating would make men blush with how scathing they are about womens dating habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:56 PM |
| 0 | How would womens swiping patterns change on tinder if they could see how many matches a guy has?So true lol. I see some of the contract roles have like 200+ applicants and I'm like fuck that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:52 PM |
| 7 | How would womens swiping patterns change on tinder if they could see how many matches a guy has?Would this change her swiping patterns? Like would she look at a guy whos very attractive with 1000 matches and reject him because the amount of competition would make her insecure? Yes. And I say this as someone who is tall and looks good. Competition anxiety among women is crazy. I legit never knew how bad it was. I can't count the amount of women who would become more bold with hitting on me when they discovered my girlfriend isn't as good looking as I am (what they dont see is my girlfriend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?If you really wanted to fuck more people, you would have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?Sorry, but a lot of the women on this sub are idiots. Like, extra stupid. I guess its indicative of being a woman and posting on a messageboard and a discussion like this (just calling it as I see it). These aren't socially competent individuals. I don't think I've run into a single remotely intelligent woman who actually believes that men and women have the same sex drive. Equally, I've never run into a competent female athletes who thinks she'll be able to best her male equivalents at their gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?Aren't you the person who said they've only had one partner? Jesus, this sub is full of clowns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?I keep saying it, but I legit feel the only people who say this are dumbass post-modernist women and dudes who often aren't able to invoke the sexual desire they desperately want to believe women have. Take a trip to say, a swingers club or a sex party (where you're likely to find the most sexually promiscuous women around) and make not of how many aren't fucking. It'll be most. So many there will then tell you need something more than an erect penis for them to feel a sense of sexual excitement… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Just how weak is the average woman's sex drive?Testosterone is not a "male" hormone and neither is estrogen a "female" one. Its simply that the former is responsible for primary and seconday characteristics deemed "masculine" and the latter deemed feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Western society doesn't have a uniform set of social norms. So arguing what is OK and what is not doesn't really make much sense.LOL yes you do. Just leave American shores. Trust and believe, the average non-American can't spot the difference between a NYer or someone from Minnesota. I'm certain a crossdresser here in London would be radically different from some quaker in rural Birmingham, but I'm certain it would be easy for a foreigner to spot that both are British. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Is the Equivalent of a Wife Getting Fat, a Husband Making Less MoneyWatch now everyone claim the equivalent isn't men getting fat as if there wasn't a discussion just last week where half the posters here claimed they loved male chubsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Are relationships becoming more openly transactional?Are there any transactional aspects though? Honestly, as a population, westerners have largely become fat, docile and complacent. Government support has largely negated the need for many to have serious ambitions about their livelihoods. Covid, if anything, may have been a shock to the system but that only made people even more dependent. I feel this carries through into dating too. Many simply want to believe they're nice simple people who just want a nice simple boyfriend and girlfriend, only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 12:01 PM |
| 4 | Are relationships becoming more openly transactional?In today's world however, men and women both bring nothing on the table but shite. No maturity for future offspring, no money and hardwork by the man and no fertility and purity by the woman. Hence the reason why people are unhappy with relationships. There is nothing transactional in today's relationship. So being in a relationship is not benefiting anyone. Kind of agree. People have low expectations for themselves and, consequently, others and thus their relationships tend to suck. I see nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Are relationships becoming more openly transactional?Nope. I have noticed that people are more ready to admit the transactional dynamic of relationships. Being a gold-digger used to be shameful. Now I see women openly admitting that they are after money and there are even female dating gurus that teach you how to find and lock down "wealthy men". (so literally gold-digging gurus). Laughable. No, relationships have not become more transactional. If anything, they've become less so. The problem is, the proliferation of social media has meant that pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 7 | Do women choose partners based on sexual satisfaction more compared to men?LOL you legit believe that? Women just say that because it sounds good. This is what kills me about incels and redpillers. Women's standards are actually shockingly low, I just think there are a lot of men out there who are so bone idle that they genuinely believe a woman asking for a guy who showers and exercises is some great crime. I've got all the traits that women desire for a sexually capable man, tall, very fit, big dick...I can honestly say its not done a ton for me when it comes to secu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Female erotic plasticityI kinda agree too. I was into the whole swinging/cuckold/BDSM thing and fucked a lot of guys girlfriends and wives. There were plenty of "Chads" who wanted to see their girlfriend get fucked. And it was some desperado ploy to keep her, you could very much tell that it was the guy who was likely even more into it than the girl was. But then on the other side of the spectrum, my girl isn't super hot but she's chaste, younger and has a way smaller partner count than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The Dating Issues People Talk about here are very America CentricAs many also in the UK have rightly said already, there are some small differences and, in British culture at least, formalised dating isn't so much of a thing. In many ways it may be a good thing as, last I checked, divorce rates in the UK were not only lower than the US but a lot of other European countries. I definitely don't think women are as "ambitious" as their American counterparts and, if anything, "Chads" are treated with a lot more suspicion than they would in, lets say, a transient, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | The Dating Issues People Talk about here are very America CentricThis. I actually think OP saying this being Asian is kinda audacious. Pretty sure a whole bunch of women there are dating white dudes. Kinda kills her whole theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | The Dating Issues People Talk about here are very America CentricI'm in the UK and mostly agree with much of this. However, there is a rapid change incoming and much of society is failing to adjust. Not just in dating, but in politics and culture. you have to be able to self deprecating in a funny non pathetic way to be the top boy. Very true. But, again, I see much of this changing. I legit think a lot of it can be attributed to the UKs political journey in the last decade or so, especially with the rise of characters like Boris Johnson/Nigel Farage. They're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:27 PM |
| 14 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisI'm gonna get racial, but I genuinely think the only people saying this shit online are mostly UMC white women. When reading a lot of musings from WOC, their perspective is very different. I've heard from some sociologists that black Americans are often the canary in the coalmine for social mores and economic outlooks and I feel here is no different. Where, 20-30 years or so ago, you would have seen plenty of "independent women" lingo (I dont think younger people will know just how much of a cul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How do PPD subscribers deal with boredom? Is the future unofficial polyamory?Just because a few insta-thots are banging a bunch of guys, or people are trying out poly shit, it doesn't carry across to the whole of society by any stretch of the imagination. No, but its actually more common than you think. When I was those dating apps, I noted a signficant uptick in women purporting to be in relationships looking for a plus one. It may not be mainstream but its definitely more talked about and more young people are exploring it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Most men focus too kuch on looks in dating and that impacts them negatively.Sexual history doesn't matter as much, clothes matters 0, education level doesn't matter if they have at least a BS/BA (I couldn't give a fuck if you have a PHD), finance doesn't matter till marriage level. Before then she just needs to pay for her own shit and roughly half the dating shit if she's a non-trad. You almost had a point and then said this stupid shit, pretty much validating everything the OP has been saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Most men focus too kuch on looks in dating and that impacts them negatively.This. I'm as misogynistic as you can get and the fact that men here are denying this is fucking pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol?Men dont want to be breadwinners because they cant be breadwinners. But the good thing is there are lots of women who know that and have shifted accordingly. I run into so many women happy to go 50/50 or even pay their bum boyfriends way. But the opposite has happened actually, the wealthy have gotten wealthier and poor are getting poorer. Being wealthy has more status and power than its had in decades, but so many have become completely closed off from any access to these opportunities/people/c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 10:36 AM |
| 9 | Who are the men who consistently date attractive women?I doubt that guy exists, or else if they exist its probably a guy most guys like you don't want to be otherwise. This is it. So many loser men's example of success is some permanent fuckboy who has nothing going for him in life except his magical ability to get pussy. I mean, for one, its fucking pathetic to so many young modern men lionise that and two I can't imagine how fucking sad it would be to spend your whole life in meaningless short term flings with women. That shit gets so old so fast.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Who are the men who consistently date attractive women?Premises like these are big issue I have with much of the population. Despite the complaints about redpillers and incels, I actually think they're a good example of men bucking the trend and understanding that defacto male mediocrity is not good enough for todays dating world. Funnily enough its their ideological opponents who haven't bucked the trend. Ones access to good things is largely determined by ones attributes, be they physical or monetary. Its the "bluepilled" (?) who hang on desperate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?If you talk to a couple hundred, you're going to find at least one. but there are plenty of women into both fat guys and super skinny guys and it's not correlated to how the women look in any way These are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:08 AM |
| 28 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveWhy do I feel this discussion would be radically different if a man was complaining? Men not wanting to speak to you in person isn't dating apps fault. Either you're not attractive enough or not inviting enough. You cant complain about harassment or creeps and then wonder why you're not getting hit on. I still approach in real life but I now reduce that to only the most attractive women or those giving the most IoI's. They come online thinking its going to be a carefree way to meet people. But t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?Hot women date fat guys all the time X to doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | There’s this weird phenomenon where when an average man is dating an extremely hot girl. Other girls try to get a piece of him despite him being takenSome of the shit advice you see on Reddit is truly mindblowing, even outside of dating. The shit I read on even work related subs is scarily ass backward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?Elon Musk had kids with Amber Heard If you're going to make a stupid point, at least make it accurate. Elon Musk had a short term fling with Heard and they never had kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?I do have the income. Top 2 percentile. And whilst I didn't marry a virgin, my girlfriend has a very modest partner count. Thing is though, I'm actually desirable so can choose a woman depending on her looks and her behaviours. Shame you cant do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 12:21 PM |
| 15 | There’s this weird phenomenon where when an average man is dating an extremely hot girl. Other girls try to get a piece of him despite him being takenPreselection. And before some PPD fucking idiot shut in denies this phenomenon, there are a bunch of agencies which literally make their money off of men who bring hot women to events. My girlfriend did some temp work during a big horseracing event in my country and was taken aback by how men partook in it. Also, its competition, but its not insecurity. Its literally just the nature of the beast. It kinda works both ways as well. I'm better looking than my girlfriend and she picks up on the amou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?As an absurdly promiscuous person myself, both men and women are perfectly entitled to judge my past behaviour. I get it completely and will take no issue with a woman put off by the amount of people I've been with. I too notice this lack criticism shown to women who "shame" promiscuous men. I mean its just obvious how mainstream sensibilities have changed. The term "fuckboy" is part of the modern lexicon where as "slutshaming" has become more ubiquitous than ever. But TBH I dont blame women, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?Nah, the fact that you keep on going around my statement makes me think I'm not that offbase at all. Just another professional reddit contributor with probably 5k posts on this sub who knows fuck all about the real world. I mean, I'm arguing with someone who thinks men concerned with female promiscuity is weird. What fucking rock are you living under? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?I'm not bragging, I'm literally speaking my experience which lends credence to my argument. All you need to do is respond in disagreement to my statement but you not doing so makes me make assumptions of my own. You dodging the statement I made makes me think I'm probably right and I'm speaking to someone who doesn't know any promiscuous women and is another one of those LTR posters on here who somehow figures themselves a worthy contributor to assessments on promiscuous people. As I keep saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:44 AM |
| 2 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signallingYeah I have to be honest, no disagreements to anything you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?No it isn't. And I guarantee I'm talking to someone who doesn't know any high n-count women. Sorry, but more and more I notice dudes saying this shit are dweebs who have fuck all experience anyway. As someone whose actually been knee deep with promiscuous people of either gender, I understand plenty why men and women largely want to avoid it. High promiscuity is often an earmark of attributes that would make one a riskier choice for longterm monogamy, in women even moreso. I've literally fratern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for women to question guys who are "players", but not for men to questions women who are promiscuous?No it isn't. I have a healthy social life and I wouldn't want a girl with 20. Thats twice the average. I see plenty of discussions with women with them saying anything above 10 is too high. And there is nothing wrong with that preference. Tired of the absolutely pathetic men out there who treat sex like some crowning achievement and operate having no standards for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:30 AM |
| 6 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenWomen get happier as they age Not in the UK, they dont. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/women-more-unhappy-than-men-until-they-reach-mid-80s-j868mxzkv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenThats rhetorical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 01:09 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like.I'm not. I just know women aren't men. And women don't have testosterone. Even female hormone users acknowledge the massive changes they exhibit when using them and yet some of you are dumb enough to think men and womens sexual behaviours are largely the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 12:53 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like.Oh god shut the hell up. Jesus, every dude I've met who thinks women have equal sex drive to men was always a clown who couldn't get laid half the time despite their lame virtue signalling. Women are not men. They don't have sex like men either. I have a partner count that is probably fifty times what many people's is and even I know women don't fuck like men. And I've fucked women who've done all the pornstar shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenYou asked me a question which I answered. I didn't ask you any questions. Of course someone who uses Reddit as their personal diary/placeholder for friends cant fucking read either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:18 PM |
| 7 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenEvery university has appropriate channels to handle employee misconduct. It would be more useful pursuing those instead of making this sub your personal diary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenYour professor beign inappropriate with you is down to your professor being a shitty and unprofessional creep. Hardly an indictment on men. Worse still is you're writing this whilst likely not at all confronting said professor either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenYou're engaged and worrying about random old dudes wanting to fuck you? Thats a red flag if I've ever known one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like.A lot of people aint. As I said before, I don't think many frequent posters here are very sexually exposed. I've fucked women at sex parties who literally told me when they attended, they had orgasmed for the first time. And they would sit there with a straight face saying that they'd never orgasmed/squirted/had someone go down on them for decades. And thats not because I'm some supreme alpha chad, but simply because I'm half decent looking and have a small inclination on what sexual competency … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like.Neither you or u/januaryphilosopher speak like people who either have much sexual experience or experience with men who are experienced and good at their "job". I've been involved in some very sex heavy communities and done a bit of amateur porn. I was more known for my whole package but I know guys who literally would fucking lay pipe for a living. These were dudes who would travel around the country fucking dudes wives and literally lived lives revolving around sex, dudes who weren't just twat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenIts such a strange, pointless and circular rant. Too many shut ins use this sub as their fucking diary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenJesus Lord, based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:16 PM |
| 17 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenThis exactly. I think you have to be a pretty big loser to actually be irked by what redpillers and incels say online. No shit, a hot 23 year old isn't going to desire some fat balding 35 year old. I think the idea some more adjusted male posters try to spread is that once a man comes into his own in his thirties, he can still attract young women. But this is heavily dependent on him being in shape, well earning and of high status. And thats perfectly legitimate and aligns with mainstream opinio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenI for sure met some women in the age range 40+ who are pissed that they do not get male attention they used to get, but this is more of a symptom of the underlying disease than its root. They fucked up badly in life, not at all like they spent their youth on a PhD in nuclear physics. Is a PHD in nuclear physics meant to prevent emotional heartache? I know a few bitter 40+ year old women. Most of them were married and had kids. You have plenty wrong with you, not because you're a young woman but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:10 PM |
| 6 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signallingWhat a pathetic statement from a place or cripplingly low self esteem. Imagine if I ran around saying every girl who was big into makeup or style was just bimbo and that I preferred women who were fat because they "invested time in books instead of their diet". As I keep saying, a lot of women speak from a place of severe mediocrity in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:03 PM |
| 8 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signallingYeah. Its just kinda sad really. I went to the club the other day and it was just...sad how many decent/okayish looking women were there with out of shape dudes. Worse still was watching those same women eyefuck you whilst convincing their boyfriends that my height and physique "totally wasn't what they're into". I mean I could say that the type of women who post on here are probably not the type to be able to pull "Chads" so will of course say they "love" a dadbod...but, there has actually been… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanationsMen won't listen or will claim that the woman is being unrealistic. Even asking for basic hygiene men tell women that men with poor hygiene don't exist, yet most women seem to have a story about a man that they've dated leaving skid marks all over her house. No the fuck they dont. You sound completely socially retarded loser. Seriously. Today you were trying to convince people that men dont like being approached and now you're trying to make out as if men who cant properly wipe is a common thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanationsfwb/lover A fwb/lover for 14 years??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:31 AM |
| 0 | How do people feel about people who only approach them because they are attractive?But this is not a male thing, this is a thread for women and they're the ones saying cold approaches are bad. Why the fuck is every negative thing blamed on fucking men??? Its fucking absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How do people feel about people who only approach them because they are attractive?Thats a very interesting take. Its actually the opposite from what many say, you not being concerned with your looks making you less offended by substandard approaches from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:17 PM |
| 16 | How do people feel about people who only approach them because they are attractive?We need to stop pretending as socially maladaptive behavior is a male thing, sorry but a lot of women who post on this sub kinda strike as being...off. Just, not all there. I get approached because of my appearance often by both men and women. I totally get being weirded out by creeps and totally get a woman not owing a male stranger any of her time. If a dude is being a creep, I believe a woman is well within her right to be as rude as possible. But getting offended at people approaching you ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who get approached constantly ~in person~ (not just online) a more accurate representation of what men actually want physically?Yeah I'm not gonna fault it, it probably varies from one person to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Are the women who get approached constantly ~in person~ (not just online) a more accurate representation of what men actually want physically?So if she is signaling her interest, then you get to decide if you attracted enough to approach. Nah. Not at all. I've slept with women from cold approaches who didn't give me a single indicator in interest. It might be the way I look but there is threshold for men where you actually find a lot of women don't want to make it seem like they're interested because they assume every girl is interested. My most recent approach was a girl who went out of her way not to look at me, still got her number… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Are the women who get approached constantly ~in person~ (not just online) a more accurate representation of what men actually want physically?Hot women get approached. I spoke to a girl in the gym the other day and she was 5'7. But she's stunning. Online I've notice this weird rationalisation where people try and convince themselves that hot women don't get hit on in real life. Truth is they get hit on a lot. Attractive guys too. I have little issue cold approaching. I take into consideration whether they're giving me any cues and then how attractive they are. I have a lot of women give me IoI's but they often don't meet high standard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedLOL whats sad is that you likely legit believe that men would only react positively to an approach from an attractive woman if she "does it the right way". Sorry to let you down bruh but thats not the case, you don't have that luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedIts funny, you'll be sitting here complaining redpillers whilst parroting the same sexual dimorphism, gender role, "this is why I can't get laid" bullshit. I'm not going to put up with it from male incels so I am not going to put up with it from female shut ins either. If men are not responding to your approaches, its because you're not attractive to those men. Case closed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedYou're not conducting any research. You're just as lonely and pathetic as the men you criticize on here. Women are more social than men, but thats relative. You're likely more social than the average redditor, but you're probably still not particularly socially capable yourself. Hence this delusional nonsense. I know drop dead gorgeous women who have approached me and approached men. Unless every man they've approached is secretly feminine (I legit think you'll try and argue this) kinda says how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedI read it plenty. I am willing to bet cash I have a way, waaaaaay more active social life than you do. Show too much interest, show too much enthusiasm, be too available and it turns men off. Many men like performative displays of social expectations that play on their perception of masculinity and how their masculinity is measured by others. Without that performance, men aren't interested. Sorry but this is the kind of horseshit I see from incels. Some of you legit think a lack of penis means y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:32 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedI'm sorry, but this is...worrying delusion. I'm not going to sit here and defend my masculinity but I can safely say I air more on the masculine side of the male spectrum. As do most around me and my attributes support. Again, whilst doing approaching most of the time, I am perfectly happy being approached. This is how you know guys are right when they say some women are delusional. Ugly women legit think men not liking their approaches is a sign of a man being feminine instead of it just being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:29 PM |
| 5 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedThe women on here front a lot. Many are just as hopeless as the incels they complain about. Threads like these are great at revealing who is delusional and unattractive. Turns out most on here are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedNo. As a masculine man who likes approaching and cold approaches a lot, I have no issue with being hit on. Provided the girl is good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedYou're just not very attractive. That's it. I've literally had wingwomen talk to guys. Never seen a negative reaction from a single one. If you're repeatedly finding guys turned off when you hit on them then those guys are probably out of your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:57 PM |
| 9 | It’s not that men don’t like women to make the first move, it’s just that you got rejectedI mean this is it. I'm also tall and in good shape. I've had attractive women approach me and, whilst I prefer doing the approaching, I've never reacted negatively and I dont legit believe most guys would. Problem is, most of the women approaching are straight up...eugh. Of course on this asinine sub, people are going to pretend as if its mens problem a womans approach didn't work out instead of it just straight up being due to the fact that she probably aint that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:55 PM |
| 15 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceDon't really blame people for being afraid of getting hurt, especially men. Dating is a lot like the jobs market. As someone who has had a great amount of success in both, I sometimes pine for the person I was before sleeping with inordinate amounts of women or creating a successful career. To become truly successful in the many modern "markets", be they social or professional, requires a kind of narcissism and ruthlessness that a lot of people just aren't willing to reduce themselves to. I'm no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceEvery Black woman I spoke to thinks Pete Davidson is ugly as sin yet he's quite popular with women of the Caucasian persuasion, hence his mainstream popularity. Not really. Those black women are exaggerating. I know because I have spoken to them. In reality Davidson is perfectly acceptable physically. Nothing special but tall and possibly possessing a large penis. Plenty of men dating a number of women with half those traits. Pete is simply the "it" guy of the moment. What I find utterly patheti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:37 PM |
| 10 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceAs a black man who slept around and dated around this is what most infuriates me about the things said by women on Reddit, even more so considering that most of the women here are white, middle class and college educated. Its actually made me understand the discourse online about "Karens" and how white women largely cant be trusted and will fall back on their feminine "innocence" even when being problematic. About ten years ago, when I first started having sex and went to university, I had a gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceI mean...yeah. I think looks are even more important than they've ever been previously. However, I actually don't think it can be attributed to the obvious increased atomization and commodification of our society...I think it actually because so many people are in denial of just how much looks matter. Hell, I notice it on a night out. As a "Chad/Tyrone" type guy its really sad going from the daytime with women trying to darndest to convince the world that they don't get wet for tall, masculine m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standardsYou're writing this shit because I called you a friendless loser who seems to have severe issues engaging with your peers. The more you waste your time trying to engage with me, the more I legit believe you're indeed the lowlife I predicted you were. The lives of "fairly average" women are being discussed by myself because that was topic of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standardsDepends on your level of entitlement. I'm a very good looking guy. Greek god and all that. A lot of the decent looking women I dated in my early twenties are still single or fluttering in and out of relationships. Its not that I even think its their looks that matter all that much, I think a lot of men are more adept on how to hold the attention of good looking women compared to women with good looking men. The women I dated in the past weren't very complimentary, not very enthusiastic and, I fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerfulOh are you now trying to say that I don't have any experience when it comes to relationships? I mean....do you? Be honest lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerfulI dont think its an insult, I think its true. I'm going to bet cash that you're likely completely socially hopeless in real life and you having real world friends is probably a toss up too. Because there is no way someone with a healthy social life needs to be convinced that high status people can command the influence of others more easily than most. I believe that you can influence, convince and manipulate others also without ''status'' And who said you cant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerfulI think you're kinda wasting your time. I'm convinced that u/Minimum-Pineapple625 poster is on the spectrum. Understanding certain traits like physical beauty or wealth/social status can lend power to an individual in a relationship isn't some insane, foreign concept. Its perfectly understandable to the vast majority of people with any experience in relationships with other people. Social ineptitude is not exclusive to redpill and incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerfulYou're literally a fucking idiot, probably on the spectrum too. You dont understand the concept of status being "social power"? Of certain people being higher on the status heirarchy and thus able to influence, convince, manipulate more easily than others??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Nothing makes a woman more wet than being powerful. Men do not care about power in women. This incentivizes men to do whatever it takes to become powerfulbut it would be stupid A lot of people here are that stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't good at telling what parts of a man make him sexually attractiveYou literally imply exactly this. The fuck? Do you have any fucking self awareness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 09:45 AM |
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