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What stats are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:23 PM
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According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:04 PM
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first option: you will risk getting replaced by younger women in future. Join the club. Men risk getting divorce raped too Men getting 'divorce raped' isn't really a thing since most of the bullshit redpillers sprout about men and the family court is made up. second option: you will face a most likely fate of perpetual singlehood. You lose your ability to pair bond with any single man and your dating life will solely favor to the whims of top 20% men. The life of a side ho, mistress, single moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:28 PM
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Because PPD men declare this, at the top of their lungs, all day every day. "A man is only as faithful as his options." "Men don't care about your interests, your intelligence, your job, your education, or your hobbies. Just be fit/friendly/feminine/submissive/agreeable." This, the amount men gaslight women on this sub is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:24 PM
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Men are actually more likely to be 'Opportunistic' cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:16 PM
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LOL no he really didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:52 AM
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No, women have 4 lifetime sexual partners on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:33 AM
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Well I no longer date men so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:43 AM
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Most women don't like or want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:35 PM
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You seem to have missed the point entirely...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:41 PM
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You've now entirely shifted the goalpost How many do you think regularly engage in casual sex with men like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 PM
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Most women want kids so i'd say use sperm banks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:21 PM
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Most women don't leave their husbands for aging. over the 6'4 athletes with 8 inch dicks she got with in college? Lol what kind of male fantasy is this, you're really revealing a lot about your insecurities here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:16 PM
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I don't know why women bother with men at all at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:15 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:06 PM
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This is funny to me. How does it relate to procreation? Just people should stop breeding and the human race should die out? Idk that's up to them. Or just, women who want kids should just go to sperm banks? Yeah, that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:05 PM
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Not according to this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:04 PM
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Ah, so the standard you're establishing for this conversation is "evidence" - got it! Well duh, as opposed to 'muh feelings?' Please present evidence for your claim. If you look at the top 20 richest men, more than half have divorced their wives for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:02 PM
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How exactly is that selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:00 PM
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Well they want to be seen that way so let them I guess, women can find other ways to occupy their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:00 PM
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What the fuck do your parents have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:59 PM
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Yeah nah, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:57 PM
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Literally all of them are, these are back up by stats and you can't just deny it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:56 PM
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I'm glad I don't date men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:55 PM
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When In reality it is women who initiate 70% of divorces Because men are more likely to cheat, more likely to be abusive, more likely to abandon their partner emotionally. Just because the woman filed the paperwork, doesn't mean she's looking for better. There is no strategy that doesn’t come with risks and trade offs in love Having a child via sperm donor is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:55 PM
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With the expectation of getting traded in, in like a decade or two? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:53 PM
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Women will begin to pick singledom over marriage because aging is inevitable and most of us tel our wives we find them attractive so we don’t hurt their feelings by saying they’re were hotter in high school or in their 20s. That's horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:51 PM
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A man will always like younger girls What's the point in being with one then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:50 PM
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I’m very close with a man who is very much like an older brother to me, and he was obsessed with this relationship. Like this dude is the only person who gave me advice to actually get rid of you, settle down. No wonder he was jealous of him, so glad you got out of that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:49 PM
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Women are hypergamous, men were polygamous, This is ridiculous, all humans had a history of being promiscuous and polygamous, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:48 PM
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We have alimony for a reason. Women can give men everything, youth, fidelity, etc. and men will still leave her stranded. Yep that's pretty much it...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:47 PM
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Women shouldn't date men and spend their time doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:46 PM
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he gets wife goggles There's literally no evidence this happens at all. Most rich men who married young divorce and marry younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:45 PM
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My ex was convinced I was cheating with my friend who I barely spoke to, he completely ignored the part where he called me names and pushed me over in rage one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:44 PM
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Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:43 PM
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Because women initiate most divorces and usually it is the mans behaviour that ends the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:57 PM
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What are you talking about? I never said anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:09 PM
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Because usually, it IS the man and stats back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:09 PM
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Definitely not, men cheat more, men abandon their wives for younger women more, men tend to leave sick spouses more. This does not follow if they're supposedly more 'romantic' lmao like no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:51 AM
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Possibily then but his main focus will be on his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:25 AM
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No, why would he leave his wife and the mother of his children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:49 AM
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No I'm really not, I'm using the same rhetoric that men use against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:35 PM
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What man adopts on his own in his 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:34 PM
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No because I've never been married or broken up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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Why isn't that argument ever given to women in bad relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:10 PM
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Then he should've picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:26 PM
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No, definitely not. He couldn't keep his first partner happy, why would he be better at keeping me happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:48 PM
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I'd rather the non autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:37 PM

Autistic Ugly face Fat Below 5ft 6 Over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:22 PM

I'd say 32+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:21 PM
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That's a ridiculous claim to make. There are men who are objectively ugly that try and cheat, my ex was ugly and he was still on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:32 AM
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Obviously not because that wouldn't be average would it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:59 PM
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The overwhelming majority of women wouldn't. And these aren't modelesque hot men who is openly non monogamous, these are average or below average men wanting even more than they already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:43 PM
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Lots of young people use it as a dating app with the hopes of getting an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:28 PM
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Most women do stay off tinder, hence the gender ratio is so extreme. Most men don't explicitly put in their tinder bio that they are looking to cheat on their wife/gf, they lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:28 PM
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Because most women don't want to be a side piece to a cheating whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:48 PM
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42% of men on tinder are already in a relationship, it's completely pointless when almost half of them are just looking for side fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:01 AM
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Doesn't really matter because it would end the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:06 AM
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Because you like women decades younger than you and aren't attracted to women your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:51 PM
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https://www.thejimenezlawfirm.com/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:23 AM
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You're right I can't assume that. But this is according to divorce lawyers and stats on when women are asked why they divorce men. Men cheating is one of the biggest reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:16 AM
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Women initiate most divorces. Thus breaking up families. Largely because of mens behaviour and how they treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:52 AM
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Men aren't feminine, the opposite of being responsible and competent isn't feminine....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:51 AM
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Usually those girls were ugly/got rejected at some point and they're getting their revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:59 AM
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Doesn't care about men's issues What mens issues would those be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:52 AM
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Because most women aren't attracted to a man that is decades older than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:16 PM
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Don't you think that's hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:17 PM
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Again, what would be the point in that? Deceiving a woman who actually wants something serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:03 PM
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Why pretend to want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:29 PM
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has told a white lie to get a quick fuck. Truly attractive men don't have to lie to get sex, it's beyond pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:19 PM
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Incredible that the oldest you will go is 10 years younger lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:52 AM
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Not interested in dating but I would go 4 years younger and 1 year older as a mid 20s woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:51 AM
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All I do is post in this sub? According to what? Lmao 'oh i saw it once' isn't evidence, why don't you get a life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:26 PM
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Do ugly men not want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:25 PM
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Oh sorry 'You've watched it happen' that's a really good bit of evidence right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:12 PM
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The point being, you wouldn't get the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:19 PM
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That women are desperate for relationships and men get screwed over by divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:58 PM
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So what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:16 AM
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If he ghosted she wouldn't talk like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:46 AM
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while you were actively fucking other women then sure. If she found out you were seeing other woman, she'd just end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:45 AM
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So a guy will wait for 6 months just to hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:33 PM
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They can just do a DNA test and have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:45 AM
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I wouldn't get married generally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:36 AM
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They get the use and benefit of the protection and resources of their husband What protection? And what resources? Are you saying the average man is paying for everything? ability to breed knowing they have vested in the husbands resources regardless of their actions. 30% of men who are required to pay child support don't even pay it. They get to have their wedding day. So one day? Do the men not also get that? They get a nice ring. So does the man? Marriage is extremely beneficial to women You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:45 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:29 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:37 PM
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I'd disown him Depends on the reason That's the same as being an incel Annoyed that he wasn't doing something more productive Same for every age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:53 PM
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What legal protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:52 PM
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Again, what does this have to do with marriage? What are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:40 PM
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Soooo the benefits are a slight chance at him fixing the AC which we don't even have in my country?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:20 PM
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There aren't many benefits to marriage for women it seems. When single woman or a woman without a dedicated boyfriend complains about x, y and z and then their married friends or those with men are like, "I wouldn't know my hubby takes care of all that for me" the envy is palatable. This is just anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:54 PM
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Ok who cares? Can you just awsner the question? Well what would I get by doing unpaid labour? That is my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:39 PM
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What are you talking about? Does the government order the execution of the man who cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:33 PM
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Can you not do that without marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:02 PM
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I'm trying to figure out if there are any benefits to marriage as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:02 PM
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Women don't get rich from marrying and divorcing men? How is that bullshit? Because women end up poorer after divorce, I'm not talking about some manosphere bullshit here. I think there is spiritual and emotional value for women in being with some men, but widespread normalized misandry discounts this so completely it seems foreign to think that men may have anything to offer women spiritually or even emotionally. What spiritual and emotional benefits to marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:58 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:57 PM
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Seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:57 PM
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You can do that without marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:56 PM
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You can do that without marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:56 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:56 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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Interesting, thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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I guess but that's only if you're religious...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:53 PM
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A lot of modern marriages have both partners working, so really he's providing for himself but gets extra benefits. Because the amount you need to clean and do dishes will increase with another person living with you. Also the guy would have to do dishes and clean if he lived by himself, but not if he gets married? She gets extra work and he gets less, how is this fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:53 PM
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Well i have a job where I get a salary, private medical, a pension, life insurance, free legal advice and experience that i can use to get another job. What do women get from washing a guys laundry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:50 PM
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Women having some leverage if the man decides to cheat/leave. What leverage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:48 PM
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Why would they want to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:22 PM
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Women like the idea of marriage and feel pressured to get married but that definitely doesn't mean they benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:13 PM
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Where did you get 'most' from? I've read alimony is paid in less than 10% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:57 PM
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Oh god that's awful, I'm so sorry :( I'm guessing you regretted marrying him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:39 PM
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Which legal benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:31 PM
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I don't even know if there are 'legal benefits' in my country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:31 PM
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The man usually is the breadwinner in most families. But this means the woman is at home doing unpaid work that she get no compensation for... If the relationship doesn’t work out then the women walks away with half and alimony payments in most cases. In what world do most women get alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:30 PM
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As in emotional support? Why is divorce incentivised?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:27 AM
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You asked on what planet men hate female sexuality. The west has a long history of doing things to repress female sexuality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:10 PM
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Lol on what planet do men hate female sexuality? This one. Men mutilate women to control their sexuality, force them into marriages young, cover them up, take away their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:57 PM
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Yeah tbh I see a lot of women going this way and I can't blame them, I gave up years ago and it seems women are opting out younger and younger now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:54 PM
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If the pig woman (don't look unless you want to be disgusted and disappointed) can get men trying to fuck her, literally every woman can. Getting men to have sex is different from a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:57 AM
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Then they could demand a DNA test and sue for millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:55 AM
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Most women aren't promiscuous though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:54 AM
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Couple bad relationships and they are gonna nope out Yeah this, I don't really see the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:50 AM
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What's perfect to you might not be perfect to somebody else. These men TOLD their girlfriends that they loved them but wanted to sleep around before settling down, many tried to get back with the girlfriends after whoring around. About 20% (no sex within past 6 months) of marriages end up sexless. That tells you absolutely nothing. 40% of women would rather read books or sleep rather than have sex with their husbands, which shows a lack of sexual chemistry. You can infer a number of things from …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:08 PM
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Probably because they couldn't find the woman they actually wanted I've met plenty of picture perfect girls who got dumped by their boyfriends because the boyfriend wanted 'variety' or to 'see what's out there'. What exactly does marriage offer to men in that case? They risk losing their sex life, money, kids etc. Risk losing their sex life how? Women end up poorer after divorce and most couples decide on the woman having primary custody outside of the court. This whole 'women steal kids after d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:21 PM
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No. Men want LTRs with the right woman whom they are compatible with both looks and personality wise, that is if they manage to find her. Then why don't men want to settle down as much as women? Why don't men want marriage as much as women? Well, okay, I'll give you that. Exactly, so men would initially love it, but then hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:53 PM
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Most men, including me, desire high libido women. No, they want to use women sexually when they're young and then marry a non promiscuous woman when they get older. If men had as much standards as women did, then women wouldn't be able to sleep around easily. Doesn't matter, men don't like it when women sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:25 PM
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Nah, they despise women who sleep around and vow to go to 3rd world country to find 'trad brides'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:22 PM
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But a core belief of TRP is that female promiscuity is bad. If women had the libido of men, promiscuity would explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:42 PM
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2: The average woman now has as much libido as the average man. Men would hate that because they hate female sexuality. If women are constantly horny and sleeping around like men, then there'd be no non promiscuous women for them to marry and they'd just bitch and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:33 PM

Yes but this increases the chance of it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:11 AM
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Oh wow, an exception to the rule! *Eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:25 PM
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The horror. They have to ask the guys out themselves. Something that every guy sees as a bare minimum. No woman should do that, they'll just get used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:48 PM
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Complete indifference If it meant they'd ignore me when I went out i'd be quite excited that I could go on night adventures without worrying about being attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:38 PM
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Same for women, no benefits to marriage as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:29 PM
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Why would he be on here if that was the case? What are the chances that an older man is swimming in young women despite it being extremely statistically unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:59 PM
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Because he's making this up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:17 AM
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6'4 is way too much for me personally. Ideally I would want a man under 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:34 AM
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LaurenTsaisCatEye Well he thought he deserved a younger woman, he got what he deserved lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:18 AM
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I didn't realise 30 was like dinosaur age lmao. Why can't they just be alone then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:53 AM
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80% of divorces are initiated by women. Yes in response to infidelity, lack of equality or abuse. Women wouldn't bat an eye to do it to a man either. Bullshit, men are the ones more likely to leave a sick wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:30 AM
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Exactly! Lol, how on earth can they do so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:06 PM
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No, women tend to be genuinely attracted to men who are their own age, men who are older are purely for money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:06 PM
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I got from women 15-20 years younger than me. I wasn't necessarily interested in them, but there are certainly those out there that either prefer older men or are open to dating them. You realise they were still likely after money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:39 PM
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First time i've seen sugar daddying being a flex lmao. Or paying prostitutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:12 PM
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It's hilarious, more young women should do that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:41 PM
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Amazing how many middle aged men on reddit are sleeping with teen girls lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:20 PM
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They don't. They do, average age gap is 2 years. Majority of women don't want older men. Two of my guy friends have left their wives for younger women. I say if you can get it, then what's stopping you? So you applaud people abandoning their long term partners? Would you applaud women who do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:02 PM
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One day you'll realize that you can love someone beyond their age DEFINITELY not, i'm not dating some old man. Everyone deserves true love. Nah, some people are awful and put no effort into themselves. Never with your attitude though. I hope you work through it. I don't want to date older men, now or ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:01 PM
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Of course not, all these men on reddit talking about how they bang teen girls who are literally BEGGING to sleep with them like cmon hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:27 PM
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Older men are more distinguished, and more attractive to young women in general. So why do most women choose to date men their own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:19 PM
6

Again, being single would be much better than being with a 50 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:18 PM
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Also what 37 year old woman wants a 50 year old man? Just be single at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:15 PM
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There literally aren't enough young women on earth for men to just date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:15 PM
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I only knew one women who dated a 40 yr old guy starting when she was 18/19. He paid for all four years of her college education, gave her free room and board (they lived together), bought her expensive clothes and jewelry, and she dumped him the day after graduation for a guy her own age that she was cheating on him with the last two years of the relationship (the 40yr old was absolutely floored and went into a year long depression) LOL this is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:12 PM
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Do you have any actual proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:11 PM
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Banging 18-21 yo women now Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:08 PM
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It's almost comical how these guys think, it's almost as funny as rejecting them and seeing how confused they get lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:07 PM
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Might have had better luck in Vladivostok or Perm Oh no, this man only wanted PHOTOSHOPPED instagram models that don't even exist in reality. Given how challenging dating is for your average guy though, I still think these cases are the exceptions? I’ve never met a regular dude holding out for his model (or dating one either!) Dating apps are full of old men refusing to date women their own age and still shooting for teens and 20s women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:07 PM
1

They have lower standards in the sense that they are open to casual sex with ugly women, but won't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:52 PM
1

My ex was convinced he deserved a russian supermodel and used to message them on instagram Surprise surprise he doesn't have one yet and now he's 30, balding and has been alone for the past 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:38 PM
0

Given how men have treated women in the past and still treat us now, it's hardly am unwarranted fear is it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:35 PM
1

Nah women will most definitely pick it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:08 PM
0

Because autism can't be overcome, it's a developmental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:53 AM
1

That's not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:34 AM
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That women are expected to do the cleaning and cooking, as they should. Then men should be expected to provide and therefore wanting a man who makes more isn't hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:56 PM
1

Rules about what? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:49 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure you like your men to be pristine virgins who no one else wants to fuck. /s What is being a virgin got to do with being undesirable? You're not fooling anyone. Pretty much every culture that's ever existed has looked down upon female promiscuity and has not cared about male promiscuity. It's just biology. Get over it. Fooling anyone with what? That is how I feel. Of course cultures won't punish male promiscuity as much as female promiscuity because societies have largely been run b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:53 PM
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Yes. But usually that's to make up for the fact that women are still expected to do most of the household work/childcare which is unpaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:50 PM
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I think promiscuous men are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:27 AM
1

Pure hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:26 AM
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Nah, I'm not getting replaced by a younger model when he earns more later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:17 AM

Be honest about it and only date women who actually want to deal with that? Because it's extremely important in a relationship, without it you'll end up seriously taking advantage of and abusing your partner. Plus the sensory issues, the social problems, I don't want to deal with any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:13 PM

I don't want a neurodivergent partner who struggles to feel empathy and I definitely don't want an increased risk of having a neurodivergent child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:02 PM

Well a neurodivergent partner that she wouldn't have chosen had she known what he was really like? I'd be furious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:51 PM

About as many feminists as have made a positive contribution to society - a few, but hardly any. This is not what I asked. Here’s a much better question. How many feminists have started billion dollar companies that have employed tens of thousands of people? Answer: ZERO I didn't ask and don't give a fuck about that. I asked how many feminists have shot up schools, answer is 0. How many autistic redpillers have done the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:37 PM

How many feminist mass shooters have there been?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:53 PM

The red pill is dangerous for all men and women but autistic men seem to be drawn to it since it provides a 'script' for how to act and interact with people. The obvious problem with this is that an 'act' can only be kept up for so long and when the mask slips, the relationship is probably going to end anyway and I imagine the woman would be pretty pissed when she realises she's been conned. Plus the amount of misogyny in this script of social behaviour is insane, add that to the lack of empathy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:52 PM

Because I'm autistic and a woman and I kind of feel the need to stand up for my fellow ND folks. It was sarcasm, I already guessed this. This may be difficult to understand, but the entire world doesn't revolve around you or your feelings. I don't care if using certain language offends you or upsets you because my existence doesn't revolve around keeping you happy. I said 'aren't most red pillers autistic' which is a question, a question that you immediately got insulted by.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:48 PM

I'll take that as a 'yes'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:33 PM

Think we found one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:31 PM

I wonder why you got so offended by a question...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:31 PM

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:29 PM

Aren't most red pillers autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:13 PM
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No. I don't care and I'd say most women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:20 AM
0

This dynamic plays out in most heterosexual relationships, what are you saying exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:50 PM
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Most women aren’t good at sex as evidenced by the porn epidemic. Porn doesn't prove women aren't 'good at sex' porn is extremely addictive and most men get addicted at a very very young age (10-13) before they've even kissed a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:47 PM
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I'll let you in on a secret, women know what we like too, but men don't care because a lot of men think sex = masturbating inside a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:35 PM
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Most men orgasm during sex. That is the difference we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:31 PM
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Pretty sure men can be replaced with a hand too. Also if that's true, why do men never fucking shut up about 'muh dick' and not getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:30 PM
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Your 'SMV' doesn't matter because it doesn't protect you from how men can and will treat you. So who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:55 AM
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Most men remove far more problems from women's Iives than they create by providing access to financial resources to drain. Most men don't pay for everything in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:29 AM
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A woman who refuses sex with her partner is being a BITCH A woman not wanting to have sex is somehow an attack on the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:26 AM
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Ah yes, I'm sure all the women who've been abandoned or cheated on or abused simply could've avoided it by 'being hotter and not a bitch'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:26 AM
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MOST men can't make women finish, you can't just 'get a new one' who can smdh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:58 AM
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If women were bad at sex, it would be seen as a failure of women, when men are bad at sex 'suck it up'???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:47 AM
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Because most men can't give women orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:20 AM
2

Do you have anything to actually address the above points?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:09 AM
2

The scam couldn't be more obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:09 AM
3

We can what? Who's we?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:05 AM
2

.....such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:56 AM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:56 AM
1

But why do women who want kids have to be screwed over?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:55 AM
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You don't have to have children. Plenty of men are childfree. Why do women have the choice of being screwed over and having children and not being screwed over and not having them? Why don't men acknowledge women's contributions to the relationship and give more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:45 AM
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Do you think that's fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:41 AM
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You wouldn't be saying that if men did way more in relationships lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:40 AM
1

What do men provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:40 AM
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I think the mens answers will be 'well you CHOOSE to get screwed over so don't blame anyone but yourself' And that it isn't their fault that none of their female partners orgasm with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:39 AM
1

The point of this sub is being approached by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:23 AM
2

how much are you willing to give up to find a virgin man? I dumped my ex because he wasn't a virgin, it was so hard to do but i couldn't go ahead with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:31 PM
3

Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:31 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:29 PM
9

Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:00 PM
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women are just people, people who want to have sex and make babies. With a guy they like, not a random guy who chases them down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:49 PM
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Why is a woman going to the club? Listen to music Hang out with friends Have a few drinks Dance Get food afterwards Apparently that doesnt prevent business meetings from taking place 😂. Do most men go to strip clubs for business reasons? You tell me the other intentions. I'm going to blow your mind rn, did you know women can be gay and have no sexual or romantic interest in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:06 AM
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A man can say the same thing going to a brothel. But why is he going to the brothel? How can you be so certain? Maybe he just likes the ambience, maybe he just likes the attention. Some businessmen hold meetings at strip clubs. Strip clubs are places where women dance naked for money? We could make the same accusations for women going to the club. You think that women only go to clubs to hook up with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:56 AM
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that women will get from men at a club. Most women don't care, attention from horny men is meaningless. So you cannot make an accurate comparison. But in the whorehouse he will get attention. And offers, of the indecent kind 🙃. but a man going to a brothel is clearly going for that reason, vs the woman going out to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:48 AM
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I wouldnt call it a fair comparison. Why not? It's the same situation...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:49 AM
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It’s one thing to intentionally seek it and it’s another to put yourself in position where it’s available and all you have to do is say yes and nobody would find out. But a lot of people wouldn't say yes even if no one would find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:33 AM
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I wouldn't care, I'd want him to go have fun with his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:31 AM
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22 yo don't want 95% of 22-25 yo either, Nah it's way more than that. if it goes up to 99% for 35 yo cohort, still no big deal. It's no big deal that most young women have no interest in older men? A couple of month ago I overheard an attractive college girl describe a shirtless dad working in his yard and how hot and bothered she felt. I really don't know you but I have posed the age range question to at least 5 women and none of them responded like PPD women like us to believe (anyone 3+ years…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:06 PM
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You don't need to be rich to want a family. Most men want families at some point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:56 PM
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Lmao go outside and touch some grass I lead a pretty busy life, I really don't spend much time online at all so lmao at your bullshit attempt at psychoanalysing. outside terminally online circles women date all sorts of men Most women date men their own age, most women ONLY want men their own age. You've no idea how much young women laugh and mock older men who try to approach them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:55 PM
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So let's say in less than 24 hours I had matched with roughly 20 women who met my extremely superficial standards of youth, beauty and fitness. Oh, I'm overweight by the way. Yep, I'm old and fat. Do you have any screenshots/proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:41 PM
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Do you have any actual proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:35 PM
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more secure a guy, so prefer older guys Older men aren't necessarily more 'secure' lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:31 PM
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22 yo college girl doesn't really meet and talk to that many single 35 year old men that one of them could get past her selectivity What 22 year old woman wants a 35 year old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:30 PM
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No because most women reject autistic men and for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:55 PM
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I think a huge % of red pillers are just autistic men who are pissed that they've been rejected for so long and they don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:35 PM
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The trick is to always take care of yourself and never get complacent. 'Taking care of yourself' will not prevent the inevitable decline that comes with age. If she's the one who is working, she can easily cut off your health insurance when she dumps your ass meaning you could be left high and dry with no medication. Also a man doesn't need much to be happy and comfortable and he can always find a job doing something to fund an inexpensive lifestyle. With the way rent and gas prices are going, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:50 AM
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Feminism has waged a war upon men How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:42 PM
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Women suffer more from divorce financially than men so this makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:24 PM
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because of his resources and possibly be in a deadbedroom marriage? Simple, this is red pill bullshit and has little/no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:23 PM
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So your solution to your career with leaving you is to 'just die' and you don't see why being a SAHP doesn't exactly appeal to a lot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:48 PM
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So you've been out of work for 15+ years, you've got health problems and regular medication you need to take, you're competing with people with tons of experience and you have none but you're magically going to get a job and a place to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:38 PM
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So what are you going to do exactly? Live on the streets in a box?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:29 PM
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So if the man cheats and the woman files for divorce, then the woman is the bad one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:13 PM
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It is overwhelmingly men who lose significant part of their income, their house and even access to kids. Women end up poorer after divorce and most men don't want full custody of the kids, most couples agree to the kids living with the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:12 PM
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So if your wife kicked you out in 10 years and went for someone younger leaving you homeless and jobless, you'd be fine with that yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:11 PM
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Women who do that usually are pass their time, tho. No, this is a statistic from women aged under 35: https://imgur.com/HGlnCTJ Sorry, but your little revenge fantasy about older women being left over is just not true lmao, cry harder. Men has always only been interested in commiting to a minority of women, not party girls or old used up women. If there is around a 1:1 gender ratio and men will only commit to women in their early-mid 20s then most men will end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:10 PM
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It's not my revenge fantasy, it's the reality you're living in. Online dating demographics are becoming more and more skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:04 PM
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It's 30% now and rising. Men will be fighting for fewer and fewers scraps to have sex with. Pretty sure that WILL hurt you in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:38 PM
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You look at why more and more women are opting out and forgoing sex and relationships with men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:10 PM
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It's like how some women sleep with bad boys but still want to marry a regular guy. Why are these 2 distinctive categories of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:23 PM
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This psychological yoga is insane They're brilliant aren't they? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:20 PM
0

men will become what they need to become in order to have sex. Utterly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:19 PM
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If men don't give a fuck about women, it makes sense to either try and get as many benefits from being with one as possible. Or just avoid them entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:08 PM
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I definitely wouldn't want a man after he's 'had fun in his youth' disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:04 PM
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What planet are you living on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:00 PM

Is the man responsible for cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:10 AM

So a woman whose husband cheated on her, why does she deserve to be mocked on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:03 AM

She just married in her mind and supposed the guy would stay forever, even if the guy never promised that. What on earth are you talking about Check if he has kids. You can use social media, know his family, friends, etc. even public records. Do you think there's a 'has a secret family with a woman in x city' record? Wait. Don't fuck a guy a few weeks after meeting him without birth control. Most women aren't doing this. Don't assume that if you get pregnant and have the baby the guy will stay. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:56 PM

I think people should actually get to know a person before sleeping with them Most women don't get pregnant from hookups with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:44 PM

they can choose men that commit, So what if he does commit, but then cheats? that don't have children with other women What if he hides it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:41 PM
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pedistool. LOL wtf is a pedistool? Again go think things ever. This isn’t all men just the ones you dated. Why are you attractied to weird ass guys? Most men prefer women who haven't slept with many men, are you actually trying to gaslight me about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:34 PM
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Seriously do you really think half the human population is hypocrites? Yes, most men prefer virgin women but will happily slut it up with whoever will have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:26 PM

Women are HATED for being single mother 'raising criminals', being a strain on the welfare state, they're even mocked on dating apps. The deadbeat dad just fades into the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:21 PM
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A couple, but that's beside the point. Most men are extreme hypocrites, I was always praised for being a virgin but the men I dated weren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:20 PM

but reality Nope LOL, of course, says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:19 PM
0

Yeah, i don't personally think it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:16 PM

Pretty sure that's not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:15 PM

That sounds horrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:14 PM

Plenty of people have all kind of issues, sometimes congenital such as autism, and yet they take responsibility for that. LOOOOOOOL, Autistic men are the biggest whiners ever, they literally go on killing sprees because women find them weird and won't fuck them. These single moms are basically factories of incels and criminals. Perhaps you should blame the father who abandoned them to a life of poverty and struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:11 PM

Sorry, how can a girl control if she has daddy issues or not? Are you expecting little girls to control their own fathers now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:02 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:01 PM

Most child custody cases are decided outside of court and the couple agree that the children should stay with the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:00 PM
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I think women love differently to men and that leaves women open to abuse and being taken advantage of. I'm generally against relationships now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:42 PM

104 comments Autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:41 PM

that’s what she’s into caused she had sex and got pregnant. Do you think women have some kind of power to predict mens behaviour months or years in advance? this isn’t totally the man’s fault. Yes, men are in fact responsible for their actions, no matter how much you people want to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:38 PM

It's women fault for getting with those guy Do you think men have any responsibility over their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:34 PM

This narrative of vindictive bitchy women keeping kids away from their fathers has to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:33 PM

How about you give them the kids 50% of the time? Shame that most men don't actually want 50% custody of their own children isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:33 PM

Autists are usually upset on here anyway, who cares what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:30 PM

for their selection of the deadbeat dad Why are women somehow responsible for a mans behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:23 PM

'A mans accusing finger will always find a woman'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:22 PM

No we don't not at all. Most of the stigma is on single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:21 PM

Not agreeing or disagreeing but from experience… Men and anecdotal evidence Match made in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:32 PM
1

Ah yes, I'm sure no woman has EVER tried that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:20 PM

Right unless you are Jason Momoa , Austin Butler, or Evan Peters himself Most younger women still wouldn't date them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:02 PM

conclusions you have ever reached in your life have been from anecdotal evidence And most are useless and wrong unless empirical evidence backs this up. We can't carry out detailed surveys and statistical analyses of every query that pops into a randos mind. That costs time and money. No but we have good data on dating and most women don't like or want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:25 PM

Does that mean the Asian men who go for white women are creepy or obsessive? Most Asian men don't have a fetish for white women, most who like white women will date Asian women as well. Can people date outside of their statistical "league" in your view? I think it's utter delusional, especially when older men try and go for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:19 PM

average age gap for marriage is 5 years. Wait what No it isn't, where on earth did you get this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:17 PM

Are you also going into Asian subs discussing interracial dating chiming in with "Just so you know! Most white girls find Asian girls nerdy and creepy! TeeHee. Toodles, guyz!" I don't think most Asian men are trying to obsessively and creepily go after white women who aren't interested in them, so now. Most Asian men want to date Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:13 PM

That can mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:56 PM

People are born gay, most people experience some degree of attraction towards people of other races. Most women don't find older men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:48 PM

That's not really relevant? Younger women who date older men usually have issues because the fact that they're open to older man means they don't have boundaries. Older women who date older men? Yeah they might have issues, but not relating to that specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:44 PM

which doesn't really imply anything at all. Yes it does, the women who tend to date older usually have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:35 PM

I'm lying about my observations I don't know how many times I need to explain this to men. Anecdotal evidence isn't evidence, your subjective experiences don't mean anything and they aren't indicative of any wider trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:30 PM

The statements are contradictory they can't both be true Yes they can be. A young woman with a strong healthy family and high self esteem is not going to date Pete the 40 year old balding guy. But the girl with daddy issues who was sexually abused might.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:27 PM

Imagining saying this about gay people or white women who date black guys or literally any other sexual preference: What has this got to do with being gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:26 PM

obsessed with status What the fuck is 'status' Why do red pillers always say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:10 PM

Think late 20s dude dating a girl just out of high school. LOL, no it doesn't. Most women overwhelming go for a guy who is the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:10 PM

PPD women: "You only want young women cause they're easier to take advantage of" Also PPD women: "You're delusional if you think a young woman would want to date an old man" Both of these things are true. Most younger women will laugh their ass off at an older man approaching them. But the ones who won't will be the deeply damaged ones who are easily to manipulate due to childhood abuse/daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:04 PM

An older guy offers to give her independence of these things. Of course that is attractive to her. That's not how it works at all. No girl wants to be the weird one in the group dating the old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:03 PM

Why date a 45 year old when you can just date a 35 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 PM

Most younger women have no interest in older men but older men just ignore this. Half the men on this sub seem to be convinced that younger women are all drooling over men 30+ We aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:01 PM
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Women just have to exist. Women have to be young, don't age, look their best, don't have bad skin, keep their hair well maintained, keep in good shape despite western food being pumped full of fat and sugar. This is just exisiting? A man can be attractive by money, power, status, resources, a good income, social skills, physical, etc. None of that matters if you're old/ugly, the only women you'll be able to attract are women who want your money. Women only have to exist and maybe not be so fat, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:40 PM
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So why do men on here talk as though they're swimming in young women who are desperate to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:17 PM
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Again, what is the point in being with men when they behave this way? Wealth and status makes all men more attractive. They are amplifiers of your base attractiveness (your looks and behavior) If you can only get a woman when you've got money, then you're a betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:15 PM
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Most women aren't interested in older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:08 PM
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You made the claim: 'No because men are much more loyal than women and stay with their aging wives. It’s women who file for divorce 90% of the time' The article directly contradicts this. gain power with age if they maintained their health and increased their wealth and status. So the aim is to be a betabux?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:05 PM
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There isn't an unlimited supply, you're right. Ultimately 18-25yo are ~10% of the population, and a good chunk of those are 1) unattractive or 2) not interested. Exactly, so what are you going on about saying you're going to pump and dump these women?! But what's new? I'm competing with other dudes for a small group of women? That just describes my dating life now. I'm early 30s dating mostly late 20s/early 30s, and supply is absolutely limited. Plenty of unattractive women and/or chad-chasers t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:34 PM
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There are always 18-29yo women in the population They mostly enter relationships with men of a similar age. Most 18 year olds aren't going to have casual sex with an older man lmao. You're competing with men who are younger, more similar, more fertile and more attractive. Brutal to say, but I'm a guy and if I lost my job, went bald, and got fat, I'd be broken up with. Everyone is swimming upstream to a certain extent, women just got the short-end of the stick with age being the hardest river to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:26 PM
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I'm happy to pump-and-dump/FWB the hot 25yo women Why do you seem to think there is an unlimited supply of young hot women who want to have sex with older men? It's delusion. What will the young woman get out of this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:15 PM
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No because men are much more loyal than women This is such bullshit: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4549446/Rise-mid-life-divorces-older-men-ditch-wives.html It’s women who file for divorce 90% of the time Due to infidelity or spousal abandonment, women are the ones who actually undertake the admin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:12 PM
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Exactly, men are talking themselves out of relationships and families lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:14 PM
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Also this doesn't really prove a point. There's not much point in being with a man if he only finds you attractive for 8% of your life, may as well go full on with the career and get pets/a sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:29 AM
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An individual woman will not stay young, but there will always be young women. When your gf gets old just dump her and trade her out for a younger one. This is why more and more women are forgoing relationships and kids alltogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:24 AM
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Women aren't 18-29 forever so you're really going to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:21 AM
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Not really. Yes really. He TRIED to cheat. Anyone can try to cheat. There's no difference between trying to cheat and actually cheating, it's infidelity either way. Who the fuck want to be with a man who is only loyal because no one wants him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:02 AM
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Again, this completely contradicts the 'only hot men cheat' claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:33 PM
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Not to mention there is evidence that autism and other mental issues are at least partly genetic, which has horrific implications for any children we might have together. VoteReplyGive Award This too, there's zero chance I'd risk having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:25 PM

No, I'm pretty sure I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:52 PM
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I said something you didn't like so you make a personal attack? Lol just proving the point. Autistic men cannot empathise, have extreme black and white thinking and are unable to read people, you cannot sustain a learn term relationship if you're like this. It really doesn't matter how good looking you may be or how much money you have, it doesn't fix what's really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:42 AM
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unattractive, short neurotypical man who has an average income job ,, Definitely this, autistic men are psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:38 AM
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That was probably his FOMO and lack of experience which is why women avoid men with lack of experience. He was 25 not a teenager and I definitely don't want an experienced man. people want a totally liberated society but they don't know what that means and the brutality that it brings. Not sure how that made my ex want to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:40 AM
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No, not at all. He genuinely thought he deserved a russian supermodel and used to message them on instagram. 4 years after I dumped him.. he's still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:27 AM
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Your rant made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:00 AM
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And get permanently off the dating market cuz for majority of the women a man seeing a hooker is a big deal breaker. Well if you're only interested in sex why do you care? Are you arguing that lying to women in order to obtain sex is seen more favourably amongst women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:59 PM
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they dont ask money directly. Pretty sure they do. It is kind of a pain but it is what you have to pay for their exclusive work (like being non high n, and putting some fake interest in us). What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:57 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:44 PM
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The thing is, women don't leave men any other choice. You could just pay hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:43 PM
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you are judging people for what they WOULD do instead of what they do, in your imagination It's true, my ugly ex tried to cheat but no one wanted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:41 PM
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So when my short, balding, ugly ex was on tinder while we were together, it was because he was a top 10% man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:40 PM

That is also junk science. The average age of the mother was 42. Age of what mother? What are you talking about? An 18 year old woman who has a child with a 45 year old man has virtually zero chance of birth defects. The chance of miscarriage increases a bit if the man is over 50. The chances of having autistic and schizo children are not appreciably affected by either parents age. Yes they are, and just claiming that it isn't true doesn't make it so. The issue with most of the bulk studies they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:34 PM

This stuff about sperm quality is mostly junk science. No it most certainly isn't. Older fathers have less attractive children, are more likely to have autistic, schizo and disabled children, there's nothing 'junk science' about that. Unless you are a middle school teacher, I don't judge. Maybe you can teach some of those young guys some sexual skills. I sure could have used an older lady willing to train when I was that age. I'm a virgin and i'm not going to 'teach' anyone anything, i'm not sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:07 PM
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the female orgasm is optional Exactly, hence there is no benefit in casual sex for women, it's extremely male centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:17 AM
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So plenty of women in lesbian relationships are bad at sex I didn't make a claim about that, I made a claim about the orgasm rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:33 AM
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How are black people being discriminated against? I never claimed they were. If you can measure a difference, then that difference MUST come from discrimination. That's bullshit. If you can't accept this idea on faith, then you aren't American... or are some kind of racist. Guess i'm both then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:17 AM

You will know in time young buck. I'm a woman lmao you're so off Epstein would tell you women are hottest at age 14.... I think it's more like 35. We aren't talking about nonces and 35 is utter delusion, testosterone starts going down in late 20s and sperm quality starts declining at 35. If you think you look best as a young man, Not a man but i feel most attracted to young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:15 AM
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The rest is unknown and we know that unknown = discrimination. how are they being discriminated against?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:44 AM
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Its amazing how women do literally do nothing in bed but lay there and have the gall to say men are bad. Interestingly lesbians orgasm way more often than straight women, do they just lie in bed staring at each other? Imagine being in a relationship where men do everything What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:23 AM

Then you are going to look back and think "Why did I think I was so great?" Huh? Most young men learn 95% of what they know from porn. So do most older men, plus younger men are hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:21 AM
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Do women even know how to make themselves orgasm? Yes, most do. Men just cum easier..we need to normalize saying that.. And? what will normalising that achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:05 PM
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How many women are members of online communties to motivate them to NOT mastrubate? How many women follow hundreds of men on social media just to look at thirst traps? How many women draw erotic art? How many women write erotic fiction? How many women would be willing to pay for sex? How many women feel suicidal because of no propsects of sex? Not sure how this answers the question. If women need half an hour to orgasm and men 1 minute, i´m sceptical if nature intended for them to both orgasm. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:04 PM
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Maybe she can take charge sometime and take advantage of the situation. If you mean make herself finish then you've just proven my point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:01 PM
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the guy who punched me You should've rammed your fist up his ass without asking that utter prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:57 PM
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weaker libdo than men How many women orgasm from casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:56 PM
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Most women aren't interested in casual sex as you said. To add to that, most men are terrible at sex. Why would a woman go on a dating app and pick a guy who's going to flail around on top of her for 10 minutes before ditching, how is this in any way desirable to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:55 PM
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Why do you think attractive men are bad people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:41 PM
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but likely very attractive as well. it's fascinating how many guys on here seem to think only good looking men are abuse or being good looking means having a shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:34 PM
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one kind of fetishized it lol Unsurprising, virgin men are rare sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:36 AM
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They were probably promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:26 AM
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Of virgin/low number of sex partner women? yes absolutely. Women who want experienced men tend to be experienced themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:18 AM
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We prefer the same *shrug*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:15 AM
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I don't have hookups but if i did I wouldn't hookup with a guy older than 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:58 AM
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No bcz women don't want inexperienced men Yes we do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:56 AM
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The guys under 25... they don't know what they are doing This is just shit that older guys say to put younger men down lol and we see right through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:56 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:52 AM
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Your negative view of the opposite gender is your problem. How? If men are behaving badly or dishonestly, I fail to see how I'm somehow the issue. Your inability or lack of desire to provide value to a man will prevent any man from wanting to provide value too you. How is my taking an issue with mens behaviour 'me not providing value to a man' you're making zero sense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:37 PM
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So being likely gang raped until you sustain serious injury and die isn't the worst things that can happen because some women report fantasising about men they actually want to have sex with. Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:19 PM
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No woman ever chooses to be alone Well they are increasingly, sexlessness in women in skyrocketing. Women have had enough. The irony being 90% of the time your attitude is what keeps "the right guy" away. Being tired of lies and abuse 'keeps the right guy away'? Huh, who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:28 PM
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What point are you even trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:27 PM
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You can't have 'rape fantasies' because rape means you don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:45 PM
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Ah yeah, part of the sentence got cut off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:29 PM
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Huh? women what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:20 PM
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I don't care, it's true. It's hardly a win getting attention from psycho or bottom of the barrel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:19 PM
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No because men often hide their worst tendencies until they've got the woman trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:19 AM
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Men will get into multi-year fake relationships Have you considered that this is one of the reasons why so many women are choosing to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:16 AM
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So men only want women for sex and as babymakers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:16 AM
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Bayonet 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:48 AM
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What has that got to do with anything? The average man is not Leonardo Dicaprio. Why do you try and use the most famous actor in the world to make a point about the general populaiton?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:47 AM
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If yes, then explain to me why said female adults are simultaneously victims yet in control of their decision making? Yes, but older men will often knowingly prey on women of that age because they know they are easy to manipulate, hence the social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:01 AM
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Yes they can. People can be weak and strong in different ways, the world isn't black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:50 AM
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One woman: *Does awful thing* Men: See! See! this is proof of how awful females are, everything is their fault Men: *Does a ton of awful things* Men: NOT ALL MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:23 AM
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But trust me, his life is horrible regardless, although it has nothing to do with what he did to me. What happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:21 AM
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Absolutely, rape is way worth than dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:20 AM
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Forced sex ? Truly horrible, I hope no woman will ever force me to have sex. You can't seriously think that being raped isn't that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:19 AM
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I've seen no proposals to create, say, a third category between minority age and majority age. Meaning what? Regardless, I see plenty of young gold-digging leeches manipulate older people. How can a young person maipulate an older person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:42 PM
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No, it isn't. You can definitely make the argument that younger people are less informed about politics and the world generally than older people, but relationships are another thing. Younger people are far more easy to manipulate and control in relationships due to lack of experience, experience that is only realistically gained in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:59 PM
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Yes really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:44 PM
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Also there is something more annoying that that, it's having to tediously second-guess every...single..interaction...with any vaguely attractive girl wondering if she's into you but not saying anything. It's exhausting. But something women require you to do, carefully avoid acting like they like you until they're sure you're into them first. Most men who aren't autistic are able to at least get a good idea when a woman is flirting. I get you not liking the results of that, it's not fun on the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:04 PM
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What does that have to do with what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:03 PM
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Yes. A small number of women MIGHT go for a rich and famous celebrity but again, still the minority. Also this is just disingenuous. Most men can't achieve anywhere near his fame or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:30 PM
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The are many not most but many who do indeed date older guys Define 'many'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:06 PM
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Sometimes it's commonly true, sometimes it's edge cases, but they're not spending their time shaming men for things that don't actually work. Yes they are because there's nothing more annoying than being harassed by an older man, it's insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:33 PM
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Neither am I. Most women don't want older men and don't date older men. Most women who date older do so for money, hence the astronomically high divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:32 PM
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But desirable or top tier older men can definitely appeal to young women. No, because younger or same age men are an option. You're basically saying you want to be a betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:31 PM
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But most young women aren't interested in older men. I'm in my mid 20s and I'd laugh if I was asked out by a guy who was 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:15 PM
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You know both can be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:11 PM
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Weird autistic men and men with personality disorders don't count though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:54 PM
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This is what happens when autistic men aren't thrown into asylums.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:42 PM
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I'm a 48 year old decent -looking male You're old though, that puts you firmly into ugly guy category so you're just proving the point being made lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:10 PM
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Yep, it's always ugly and or autistic guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:09 PM
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naivety and hopelessness How has 'naivety and hopelessness' to blame for this? You were naive about what exactly? The consequences of your actions? That you would get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:17 PM
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Yes, it's called the consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:05 AM
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I, for example, am not Still for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:43 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:42 AM
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What are you talking about? This literally makes no sense in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:40 PM
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Here's another question, why do men insist or whoring around with different women? Are men responsible for their own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:52 PM
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This group is women holding me accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:48 PM
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A mans accusing finger will always find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:48 PM
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Because men, regardless of level of attractiveness, will try and date and have sex with multiple women at once. This often works because women don't have extremely high looks standards for who they date, hence average or even physically below average men will try and strong along multiple girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:47 PM

Are you neurodivergent by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:48 PM
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There are extreme circumstances but for the most part it's superficial reasons women stay with abusive men - status, money, fear of being alone, and also having a victim identity in the first place. This is an insane claim. It's extremely dangerous for women to leave abusive relationships, this is when most men decide to kill them because they have nothing left to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:13 PM
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well to me it looks like those "confident" (egotistical, sometimes narcissistic), "assertive" (pushy, wont take no for an answer) guys that approached you Er guys like this have never 'approached' me. And this is weird, you're saying that there is a small sub group of men who exclusively have these traits that all treat women badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:04 PM
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So how exactly does that mean that all ugly men would be great partners? I didn't say all, I said that you seem to think ugly men automatically make good partners. From experience, ugly men make HORRIBLE partners. And do you think all men who are great partners get partnered up and no one is held back by his appearance? Some men will get held back by appearance but it's usually that ugly men are jaded and bitter and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:57 PM
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plenty of dudes would be great partners, but theyre simply ugly Right here. The inference being the 'ugliness' is holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:36 PM
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It's weird how you think ugly men automatically make good partners. Also autistic men have social deficits that preclude them from relationships, that's hardly the fault of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:25 PM
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I broke up with him because he wasn't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:02 AM
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No, not at all. He's whored away all his youth and now wants to snag a young wife without any of his baggage before his hairline recedes further.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:59 AM
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I have NO preference for which type of cheating i would prefer because both would result in the same action from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:36 PM
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You mean you can't just choose your sexuality? 😮 It's politically incorrect to say such a thing these days. I don't care. What other possible reason could there be for women to choose to be with men in relationships other than raw sexual attraction or the convenience of extracting some benefit from him? Interesting how much you're projecting here. Men wouldn't be with women unless they got some benefit, so you assume we're the same. I dated a few guys, I got literally nothing out of it apart fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:25 PM
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That's not how hypothetical questions work. I'm saying I wouldn't prefer one or the other, both would horrify me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:17 PM
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Honestly I do not fully comprehend what you all see in men to begin with lol. Yeah neither do I, attraction to men is proof sexuality isn't a choice, no would choose to be attracted to men. Women only ever date men when it is convenient for them or they feel they have something tangible to gain from it. This isn't even slightly true, but it's very good advice. Also, it is really very foolish to not want to date men just because we all have one biological urge - which YOU also have by the way I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah, they can always choose not to wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:50 PM
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If this is just mens 'human biology' then there's really no point in dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:36 PM
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Still, why take that risk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:36 PM
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Neither, and I'd be gone either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:35 PM
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Lol it's literally pointless for women to date men when they act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:18 PM
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Speak for yourself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:00 PM
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Er, where did I say that? You said there are 'nasty truths' you believe about women, what are they then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:56 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:28 PM
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No normal sane person will go for an algorithm as opposed to a real person, this is not what healthy, sane people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:15 PM
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How does that change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:34 PM
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Most women end up like this, especially if they live with the man. It's one of the biggest reasons why women initiate divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:53 PM
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He just took advantage of me as much as he could, like a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:50 PM
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Don't even think it's worth the hassle or danger tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:05 PM
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Lol but I've got my own resources, I don't even need them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:56 PM
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We both worked full time. But in addition to work I did everything in the house, cooking, cleaning, laundry, maintenance, I was basically a free domestic servant. When I told him how unhappy I was and how much I was struggling, he became very abusive. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:44 PM
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It's funny how women are so obsessed with marriage and pressure men into proposing ("you make a vow to be together forever and to support each other"), yet they initiate 80% of divorces lmao Probably because women are brainwashed into thinking marriage somehow benefits them and then they realise they've been sold a lie and get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:40 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:39 PM
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Nah, lived with a man before, never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:37 PM
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Men cheat more often that women. And again, there is no correlation between men being happy with their partner and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:31 PM
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No, but there have been studies that show that men cheat regardless of how 'happy' they are in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:25 PM
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No, men cheat REGARDLESS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:21 PM
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Doesn't mean they dont love their wife. It definitely does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:13 PM
2

Men cheat regardless of sexual satisfaction at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:12 PM
5

What is the point in dating men then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:06 PM
2

What's the point in dating men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:04 PM
2

I would still be horny and would want to fuck any hot girl within sight but I would just choose not to. That is absolutely awful, how on earth can you rationalise this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:04 PM
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Then the wife could cheat and still love the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:03 PM
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we can fuck women we hate whole fucking a woman we love. That is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:02 PM
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But those men with options already had their fun now are settling My ex was good looking and he didn't 'have his fun' before monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:02 PM
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Men are designed to sleep with lots of women. Then women are designed to sleep with lots of men, can't have it one way and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:01 PM
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If he doesn't love his wife, he wouldn't feel the need to hide it from her. There could be other reasons of course, but one of them is that he might love her enough to not want to hurt her. Or he could get benefits from the relationship (sex, household work) that he knows he will lose access to if he finds out. Plus if he loved her enough, he wouldn't want to do something that would hurt her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:00 PM
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Is that love? No, definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:45 AM
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Yes. If you can do something to hurt your partner, that puts their health at risk and that would break their heart if they knew, there's no way you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:44 AM
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Do you think an older men is less likely to want a serious relationship than a younger man? When you picture a "player" or "fuck boy", are you imagining a 30+ year old or a 20-25 year old? Both, most men just want sex. Also the older man is likely the 'I've had my fun and I'm ready to settle down' type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:53 AM
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Immaturity? You implied it with the comment about older men being more serious = bullshit. Older men, generally speaking, ARE more serious. As you get older you tend to gain maturity, wisdom, and experience. It's not a 100% guarantee but it's typically true. I don't think you know what I'm talking about. Older doesn't mean they want a serious relationship, which she has found too. Probably the reason you and the other poster are having issues with older men, is because you're exposed to the left…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:22 PM
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Where did I say anything about insecurity? Are you replying to the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:05 PM
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I'd say try other places like clubs and volunteering but a lot of men are complete degenerates nowadays so be prepared to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:36 PM
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I couldn't find anyone who wanted to settle down at that age, it doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:31 AM
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They're looking for hookups and when they find out you're religious, you probably won't be down for being a plate. Have you tried religious places?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:29 AM
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have gone on dates with guys 10 year older just because they are suppose to have it all together but tbh I think were worse than guys my own age. DEFINITELY don't recommend this, the whole 'older men are more serious' thing is bullshit. They'll exploit you for your youth even though they wasted theirs. I do think many guys ghost me on like ok like terms because they want to keep me as an option later in life but I am not the "fun" they are looking for right now and that's very upsetting. Don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:28 AM
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-Get a bf your own age and have the best relationship while you are both fit and attracted to each other. This is another long term one but you may be sacrificing years you could be making money from other men. I did this, was such a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:23 AM
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Good luck im not looking to have kids. So you're looking for a woman a decade younger who doesn't want kids? bahaha good luck. Sperm quality is affected by a lot of lifestyle choices, not just age. No, it's mainly aging. Regardless of that, men over 50 and beyond can still have kids, women cant say the same... Yeah they can make weird autistic/disabled kids, just look at this sub to see what the consequences of that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:39 AM
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We all age, but I train 3x per week, 79Kg below average body fat on 1,80mts height. And? Your sperm is older and a lower quality for a woman who wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:34 AM
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A combination of baggage, high expectations and depreciating looks. But none of that applies to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:13 AM
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The 35 years old was the most realistic part (sadly) Why is it sad to date a woman your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:18 PM
1

Did you ever try any self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:17 PM
1

Why didn't you settle down at 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:08 PM
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At least you practice what you preach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:17 PM
1

Good for you. So now you stay single and don't date or have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:48 PM
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A woman 11 years younger is realistic? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:32 PM
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Er, what? What are you even trying to say? That I want to be cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:07 PM
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Why didn't you settle down when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:52 PM
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I have a high education and a high paying job. So you're trying to be a betabux?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:43 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:17 PM
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HOWEVER, though most 32 y/o's look fine, you're also aware they won't be attractive much longer. Whereas a 24 year old still has several more years. You are aware that you also looked better when you were younger, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:15 PM
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He is using the shaming playbook women use on men when they are upset about their lack of dating prospects. You do realise two things can be true at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:16 PM

But not gonna lie neither. Some of them are hot as fuck. That's absolutely vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:03 PM

Men have to approach, pay for dates, fit a rigid masculine framework of being confident, physically imposing, financially independent, fun and entertaining etc. And most women have to be physically attractive and live up to higher and higher beauty standards or they will get zero attention from anyone. Also in many places in the west, it's not expected for men to pay on dates. They have to do all the work in dating of planning dates, physical escalation, taking the next step first at every stage…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:23 PM

What has that got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:20 PM

Theyre picked up by women who arent misandrists That's quite an incredible claim. So women who aren't in relationships must be because they hate men? If you havent found a great man so far in your life, the issue isnt everyone around you, its you. You are the common denominator. What do you do that causes these men to run away? What men? Are they floating around me silently? Do they watch me carefully from afar? It's such a strange thing to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:17 PM

Women have been completely freed of their gender roles at least with regard to dating. Women still do the majority of the household labour in a relationship, and they almost always end up doing this for their partner as well. Men aren't expected to provide 100% anymore and it's assumed that women will bring at least some money into a relationship, how is this unbalanced to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:10 PM
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easily observable facts And yet you can't seem to state any. You can't make a vague claim, provide no evidence and then claim it's up to other people to disprove you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:08 PM

Okay so just picking out one of these: Unbalanced gender roles How exactly are men the victims of this? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:57 PM

I never said 'where are the good men' Men on here make vague broad claims about men that just do not match reality and when asked to elaborate, they can't? You're telling me the world is full of young, attractive, mentally and physically healthy men that only want long term relationships and children? Okay, so where exactly are these men? Why don't many women seem to be meeting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:56 PM
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everywhere around you, except "attractive" in a way they are desirable by many women What does that mean? Where specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:52 PM

Yeah, I'm really not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:51 PM

Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:51 PM

Interesting, so people in abusive relationships have shitty personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:42 PM
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vast majority of men who are stable, normal and want the same things women claim to want, many of them attractive? Where are those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:41 PM

Everytime l talk about male dating issues What issues? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:35 PM
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how horrific dating has become Please explain how dating has become 'horrific' for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:07 PM

It’s data What data? All the data contradicts TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:00 AM
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Yeah the problem is they get their 'facts' from 'Alphamale69' and 'Pussydestroyer' on reddit hence they all recite the exact same points word for word like parrots
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:05 PM
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It's mainly autistic men falling prey to their own rigid black and white thinking and ignoring any evidence that goes against their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:59 PM
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Ok, a young black man daring to approach a young white woman versus an old white man approaching a young white woman. It's the same entitlement. In my country, approaching people in public period is weird. At least with the black guy it's age appropriate. More people are interested in dating someone of another race than with an age gap. There's no message to be taken. They didn't do anything wrong unless they follow you, touch you, or a few other things. The cop is going to laugh at you. Flirtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:56 AM
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they're sick of black people and their entitlement and refusing to come to terms with their inferior status. Black people existing is not the same as old men flirting. You're a bigot. I don't give a fuck, shaming language doesn't work on me. Get over yourself. If you're in public and looking good you're going to be approached. Nothing will stop it. Cool, I'll call the cops then. Sure these old creeps will get the message then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:43 AM
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I shouldn't have to stay home, I'm sick of older men and their entitlement and refusal to come to terms with their own aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:42 PM
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Yes, it supports what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:29 PM
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So exactly the thing men criticise women for supposedly doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:21 PM
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No, promiscuous women don't mind promiscuity in a man. Women who value monogamy and only have sex in LTRs won't tolerate promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:01 PM
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So a study is 'dumb and not legit' but your feelings are to be believed and taken as reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:52 PM
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That is for the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:38 PM
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Most women today do not find promiscuity disgusting. Yes they do, only promiscuous women don't mind promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:52 PM
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Average number of LIFETIME sexual partners for a woman is 4 What the hell are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:51 PM
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25% of men admit to cheating, that's more than the 'top' men already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:09 PM
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but if he cheats, he may be screwed and not get another woman anytimes soon. Average women however have so many otpions, it's ridiculous. That doesn't seem to matter, a lot of them will still risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:23 AM
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“It was just oral sex in a bathroom stall, that’s not cheating!!” Bullshit, all men say the exactly the same thing with the same wording. It's more parroted shite from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:10 AM
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Men don't care about facts, they care about what "feels" right to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:01 AM
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No matter how much you think you wouldn't, if you're a healthy straight woman, it's just impossible not to. I wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:50 AM
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Women very much value men based on their reputation with other women. You're right, we do value men based on their reputation and a promiscuous man is absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:49 AM
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Yeah and I'm not over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:10 AM
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Single mothers by choice is a growing movement and numbers are exploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:48 AM
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What does that prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:11 AM
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I don't, I don't date men at all anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:11 AM
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exactly, women don't want much older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:14 AM
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Anecdotal evidence isn't evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:10 AM
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They do though. It's very common to see 5-10 year age gaps in wives and husbands, that's what I saw in all my friends parents and my own. *sigh* anecdotal evidence isn't evidence. and women simply do not care about dating their age match. Yes we do, women rate men their own age as the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:06 AM
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2 years, not more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:05 AM
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You can have a family without a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:48 PM
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That makes no sense, if you have a child via sperm donor, there will be no child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:47 PM
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Why would you want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:27 PM
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They are forced to reccon with the fact that if they want a child, they need to chose their man now. And that forced reser makes them look for men who will stay _ beta. Nah, they can just go to a sperm bank
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:26 PM
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Women who think men aren't a pivotal part of raising healthy children are antisocial and likely to pass that to the children they raise by recreating their traumas. We're going to have kids without you, deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:25 PM
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They can't build it for themselves though. They require men to bring that to them, and instead of being greeted by a ton of thirsty betas at 30, they are getting "u lik anal?" on Tinder. Yes we can build it for ourselves, I'm doing it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:25 PM
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JFC if you’re gonna LARP at least make it somewhat believable 🤣🤣 It is believable, my mom is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:24 PM
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My ex turned out to be a monster, how could you tell this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:21 PM
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but I’m already worried if It doesn’t work with them I’ll be left high and dry Why does that worry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:17 PM
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So you've had your fun and you're ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:15 PM
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We don't want those men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:14 PM
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I'd literally rather never speak to a man ever again than date a promiscuous one, absolutely vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:14 PM
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Blanket statement. Many men do I don't know how many times I have to say this. MOST MEN don't peak in their 40s, unless you had a particularly bad start to lifer, you will not peak in your 40s. Testosterone starts to drop in the mid 20s range, to say you 'peak' in your 40s is just delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:03 PM
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I’ll watch the video but it starts by showing you a guy who’s over 50 and has spent the last decade addicted to alcohol and drugs with an awful lifestyle. He looks terrible, and that’s misleading So a celebrity that looks bad is misleading but a celebrity that looks good is somehow proof that older men look better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:49 PM
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Men do not peak in their 40s and one athlete does not prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:39 PM
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All you do is yell absolutes about your own preferences and claim that every woman has the same preferences as you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KqKJkWDsbQ This is not just a me thing, this is a women thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:37 PM
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Tom Brady won the super bowl at 45 years old. Exceptions do not prove the rule. It's so sad how desperate you are to believe this, you must be really struggling to come to terms with aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:30 PM
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So you’re telling me that most women are going to choose a broke guy living with his mom playing video games all day the same as they would a successful entrepreneur with his own place and nice cars? Not all men are video game addicted losers, but yeah looks are way more important than money and success. What would I need a wealthy man for? I made good money, I want an attractive guy my own age. The beta bux model you cite is severely outdated. If you really believe that then you live in an alte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:29 PM
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Yes, generally speaking. I think a lot, if not most, men given the choice would always choose a woman in her "prime" How does that even work? Just constantly date a woman for a few years then dump her for a younger one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:55 PM
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Trained 30 year old men are typically far stronger than trained 20 year old men. 25 is the very beginning of peak strength for men. UFC champions under 25 are extremely rare, there have been more champions over 40 This is absolute utter bullshit. Peak athletic performance for men is 18-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:12 PM
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don't like old women (30+) because they simply aren't appealing to most guys. So women are only attractive for 12 years (14.5%) of their entire lifespan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:39 AM
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i promise women do not give a fuck about 'status' and tis other bullshit that red pillers make up to feel better about their inadequacies. Look at Jeremy Meeks, literally a broke felon and how many women would go for him just because he's attractive? Women like young, good looking men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:55 AM

Why would a young woman choose an older man over a younger one? Literally zero benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:19 AM
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Yeah same, there isn't a correlation as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:38 PM
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When I was in my 20s I actually liked older women close to 30 more than younger women. So? That's not what we're talking about here. There are plenty of women who like all kinds of men. And it’s very common for young women to like older men, despite what you or feminists or redditors say. That man has to be good looking however, which is somewhat subjective Then why isn't the average woman dating a man 10 years older? Could it be that we JUST DON'T WANT TO?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:26 PM
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Not to mention disease
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:19 PM
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You think Jason Mamoa would struggle to date 20 year olds without paying? So you're basing this off an attractive celebrity who has a ton of money for personal trainers and anti aging products and surgeries? You think this proves women like older men? ​ Sounds like you have a feminist agenda to adamantly say things like that What has feminism got to do with women not liking older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:26 PM
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Again, you're missing the point entirely. Young women aren't attracted to older men, they will use them for money. It's like working any crappy job you don't like for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:48 PM
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Look at what HOT women and RICH men do . That’s where you see age gaps regularly This changes nothing Hot women date old men for money and then dump then and go for men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:41 PM
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just curious but why feel sorry for the woman when she marries a guy just for his money? does that not make her the bad person in the relationship ? like 99% of us have to work hard to make money and cant just marry someone older and rich to me thats like taking the easy/sleezy way out Because there's the expectation of having sex with a much older man involved in this arrangement. Some women are willing to do that to secure the bag but honestly I'd rather work 60 hours a week until I drop dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:31 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that women usually marry older more than they marry younger. But I don't have any stats on me. By a couple of years yes, I thought the implication was obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:28 PM
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Most younger women don't want older men, that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:15 AM
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Most women ARE bothered by it though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:08 AM
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I just feel sorry for the girl, most women aren't into older men at all apart from to make some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:06 AM
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Payments from who? How? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:02 PM
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Nah. Women will just opt for being alone instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:46 PM
1

Sounds wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:46 PM
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If the costs of remaining single outweigh the benefits people will simply pair up. It would take a LOT to get women to pair up with men who are shitty partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:46 PM
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Maybe groups of young women partnering up to raise children together instead of in couples I'd love to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:42 PM
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And (RP) men also have discipline for improving related to looks and intellectuality in many cases. So if you wanted to imply that men don't want to give anything "in exchange" then I think you are wrong. It's nowhere near equivalent women spend way more on this. But I thought western women are maintaining a pretty appearance for themselves. "We don't dress for men but for us". Yeah but who is the man going to ask out? The woman who doesn't shave or wear makeup and cuts her hair short, or the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:34 PM
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Or men perhaps could wine and dine women but they are simply not free meal tickets. Men have high expectations for what they want women to look like and most men wouldn't ask out a regular woman over an instagram model. Yet they still bitch and moan about paying for dinner which is considerably less expensive than maintaining a pretty appearance? I like that FDS comrades expect a dinner on their first date because I will know immediately that we don't have common future if I ever encounter one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:11 PM
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Being a man having friendship with woman means wasting time,energy and making favors for this women. Female friendship costs a lot and gives nothing in return. Man prefer friendship with other men because they udnerstand each other.Women don't care about male friends. So don't be friends with women then? Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:19 PM
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of men in the friend zone What even is the friend zone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:19 PM
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not so attractive woman have it hard" card? Well yeah, only finding men who want to use you for sex is pretty hard I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:18 PM
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I wish I could've 'settled down' young but literally no men were interested in relationships or serious commitment. They all wanted to try their hand at sleeping around and fulfil their wannabe chad fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:48 PM
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I've dated an attractive man and a few ugly ones, none wanted to settle down. I definitely didn't have that. Pretty sure this is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:26 AM
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focused on self and encourage hurting others to get what you want. How does FDS do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:55 AM
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Maybe give some new guys with good hearts a shot instead of the players😭😭😭 Ah yes because it's a binary like that isn't it "Good guys" with warm hearts > Good sex "Bad boys" with bad hearts > Bad sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:50 AM
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but not much about how to be a better woman There's an entire subreddit for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:47 AM
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Even considering you typed in general this sentence is absolutely idiotic. I don't understand why FDS would claim such a stupid thing. There's no correlation between not paying for dinner and not being serious about relationships. Simple, if a guy is whoring around and trying to get sex from multiple women, he isn't going to wine and dine them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:41 AM
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You wish that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:39 AM
1

Do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:59 PM
1

What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:04 PM
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Nah, don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:13 PM
1

Do you have any proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:51 PM
1

Enjoy getting laughed at!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:06 PM
0

Yeah to a 20 year old, you're a dinosaur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:04 PM
3

2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:01 PM
3

To college girls, anything more than 2-3 years is old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:00 PM
3

Nah, older guys are just cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:58 PM
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Please don't, nothing worse than being hit on by older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:55 PM
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Looks- 20 year old men and 30 year old men do not look the same 20 year old men look more youthful and have softer skin. I always find it funny how 30 year old men bring up that women in their 20s 'look better' and that's why they choose to pursue them, like you know who looks better than men in their 30s? Men in their 20s lmao, so why the fuck would I go for an older man? Entitlement- 30 year old men were often failures earlier in life (usually from lack of effort, procrastination, porn addicti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:54 PM
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Is every guy on PPD autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:40 PM
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Here: https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/pdf/10.1089/vio.2014.0022
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:26 PM
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Nope, on the incel.ie a huge number of the followers were autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:14 PM
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Actual around 30% of men admit they'd rape someone if they knew they'd get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:18 AM
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It's just autistic men trying to use this bullshit set of constructed 'rules' to make sense of the world and of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:14 AM
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I mean are you sure? Obviously? Why would I say it if I wasn't sure. Because I have attractive female friends that say they have a lot of dudes staring, cat calling, even following, blowing kisses etc Not multiple times a day the fuck? Also I live in a country where approaching people in public is very socially unacceptable, people will think you're an absolute freak if you chase a girl on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:33 AM
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I knew that was coming, haha so predicable. I'm 5ft 4, Slim/curvy with blonde hair and bluish/green eyes. No woman I know or have ever met is getting chased down the street on the regular, this is seriously just a male fantasy that you've picked up from your echo chamber, it'd be hilarious if it wasn't so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:06 AM
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I've been hit on maybe 4 times in public in my entire life. Why do you think women are being bombarded with attention 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:48 AM
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here are tremendous rewards for a woman when she breaks the legal contract. Like ending up poorer? Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:49 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if women get hit on once a day. At least. What world are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:35 AM
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But men are the logical sex?! Where's the logic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:15 AM
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I said 80% of women are promiscuous, learn how to read. Also, I talk only about modern western mdoern. Based on what? Where is the evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:01 PM
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What evidence? Where are the stats showing 80% of women have an onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:54 PM
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Type in hook up culture and ejoy the read How does this prove 80% of women are promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:14 PM
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rise of onlyfans What is this supposed to prove? the rise of divorces, the rise of abortions, How does this prove 80% of women are promiscuous? the rise of false SA accusations, What rise? devline of happry marriages Women were never happy married to men, difference is they can now leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:13 PM
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What facts? What proof do you have? (not 'muh feelins')
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:43 PM
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You were blaming women for not being able to spot a manipulative man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:56 PM
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I've never been on tinder, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:54 PM
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Honestly, even when I wasn't looking for that effect, it sounds awesome to me. Turning a woman off to the point of infertility sounds good to you? I hate wearing rubber. ???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:52 PM
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"It's REALLY easy to spot a manipulative man"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:14 PM
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Yes it does. Tinder is a hookup app, other parts of the internet aren't as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:13 PM
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but it doesn't apply in this instance. Why doesn't it? A significant number of women and men use OLD, These apps have a very extreme Male:Female ratio So you can't use that cop out and say it's only Suzy and her friends. The median number of sexual partners for a woman in a lifetime is 4.3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:13 PM
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If you can practice asserting boundaries and don't sleep with a guy until you've been together at least 1 year, that should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:59 PM
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I think if a guy said that to me all my eggs would die instantaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:59 PM
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Thanks, I love me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:54 PM
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do hookup casually, have fwbs, situationships, etc. No they don't. Most women want a relationship only, some get conned into situationships hoping they lead to relationships. If you really want evidence, look at how gay women and gay men behave and how many sexual partners they have. So I think women are very privileged in that specific context. LOL privileged because men want to use women like a toilet? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:33 PM
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Most women don't randomly get the urge to go hook up with a random guy, I'd personally rather kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:15 PM
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This is what living in an online echo chamber does to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:46 PM
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That’s called being agreeable, and most men say it’s an absolutely wonderful feminine quality in women! Men have a strong preference for highly agreeable women, not for disagreeable women who firmly tell men “no” and shut down their advances firmly until she’s sure she’s ready for sex. If you want a low-n woman who aggressively vets and sets hard boundaries… well, you probably want a woman who puts her foot down and says “no” very confidently and doesn’t cave to a guy’s suggestions or defer to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:44 PM
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It's REALLY easy to spot a manipulative man, and if you disagree, bring your date around your dad or guy friends. So if a man lies for months, acts like a boyfriend, promises commitment and then bails, his deception is somehow the woman's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:41 PM
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Online doesn't mean tinder....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:39 PM
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This is why I say women are full of shit when they complain about dating. They say they want relationships and not casual sex. But judging by their past, they are perfectly fine letting a small village worth of men use them for sex. If they really wanted a relationship, there's no way they could achieve numbers like that. Have you perhaps considered that the type of women who frequent dating apps are the very type that have casual sex like this? Do you really not understand the concept of sampli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:39 PM
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I feel the same way about men, most men are whores or wannabe whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:33 PM
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"More than you think but a lot less than I would like." That's so fcking cringy my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:13 PM
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whenever they are feeling horny and want dick. This doesn't happen to us like it does to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:52 AM
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The shorter lives argument is blatantly false. According to what? Married men are more likely to be henpencked, are more likely to be abandoned if they lose their ability to provide, and are more likely to fear leaving a bad marriage because of divorce rape. You have zero evidence of any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:28 AM
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It's true, married women live shorter lives compared to men, are more likely to be cheated on, are more likely to be abandoned if they get sick, and have less leisure time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:49 AM
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Which men are you talking about? Men who are married. I don't know. Because men are more selfish and don't care about their partners and maybe in the case of sickness, they only value women for what women do for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:43 AM
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Marriage is a terrible idea for men Marriage is a terrible idea for men but men are more likely to cheat and abandon their sick partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:37 AM
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Why did you ignore my final question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:23 AM
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Most women love their partners. Do you think your own personal experience of the world is the correct one? Do you know what solipsism is? Why is it men are more likely to leave a sick wife than the reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:05 AM
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Society tells them to do this and that can’t do anything but follow a herd like the robot. That's not how it works. Society tells women that we will find a man who will marry us and love and cherish and protect us forever, who wouldn't want that? Plus they tell women if they're unmarried after 30, they're worthless and no one will ever love them. I think most women do know it yet follow through since divorce won’t be harder in them than their man anyhow. Nope, divorce is financially worse on wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:52 PM
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Then women shouldn’t be keener than men on getting married in the first place since they know they’ll statistically be the initiators of a divorce in the future. Most women don't know this and society heavily shames women for being unmarried. (Hence the whole cat lady meme)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:25 PM
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You having NPD sisters is not proof that women are more likely to be narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:59 PM
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What are you talking about 'women and children first' then? In what context?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:51 PM
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The article is about more than just the titanic, it debunks the entire concept of 'women and children first' on ships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:59 PM
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For women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:29 PM
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Well women are the ones made miserable by their partners in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:29 PM
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I didn't get anything tangible from him (small gifts on my birthday I guess?) and I definitely loved him for his uniqueness. TRP has rotted your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:26 PM
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Where is that mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:42 PM
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"women and children first" mentality. Which is a bullshit myth: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn22119-sinking-the-titanic-women-and-children-first-myth/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:39 PM
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was it a love strong enough that you would lay down your life to preserve theirs? Yes and I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:34 PM
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Every woman who shouts "I have never loved you" in divorce court This is literally a speculative anecdote with zero evidence, do you honestly expect me to take this seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:35 PM
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I think they mean "men" as a whole, not "a few men." This makes zero sense, how can I love people I don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:19 PM
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"Women can never love men, and it's not their fault" . Strange, pretty sure I've loved men before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:14 PM
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At its core TRP is just supposed to open men's eyes to the true nature of women which is contrary to the blue-pilled sugar and spice and everything nice they've been spoonfed their entire lives. But it's full of lies and contradictions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:12 PM
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It's true that most men agree to giving full custody to women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:10 PM
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So your feelings are more valid than studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:06 PM
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Men default to honesty. Women default to obscure their hypergamous nature, because it favors hypergamy. According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:53 PM
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I Heard bisexual women say that its so much easier dating men than women. What a surprise This isn't true at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:58 PM
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Well duh, you want stats on people that I'm friends with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:31 AM
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Cry harder, stats don't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:26 AM
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I was told that by the fat ugly guys so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:24 AM
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Your providing my point You're* even virgin women want virgin men who have the option to have sex but choose not to Well duh, I'm not some obese autistic weirdo, I want someone who is celibate by choice LIKE ME. The truth is that having experience with women will always beat not having experience even with virgin women. Completely false, I'd rather die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:51 AM
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He likely never was or never will be Half of those men are now married or in multi year LTRs. The other half haven't been able to get anyone else because they're ugly as shit with terrible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:49 AM
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Most young men aren't even in relationships so how are they not ready to settle down? Because they'd rather hookup or have something casual? He's low n count looking for a low n count women and even if he was a virgin that would make it almost impossible to find a virgin women because most women ( low-n count and high n-count) are turned off by male virgins. More bullshit, most virgin women want virgin men, but there are hardly any virgin men by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:33 AM
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Because they watch porn. Porn completely fries dopamine receptors and causes tons of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:32 AM
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Yes they are, the MAJORITY of men watch porn regardless and women have dumped men for PIED.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:23 AM
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They might have had a hookup here or there but they were mostly in and out of relationships and why didn't they settle down with one of those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:02 AM
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If he could've found her he would've but it's extremely difficult. That's bullshit. Plenty of young women want marriage from their boyfriends, they get cheated on or dumped because the man isn't 'ready to settle down' Even on here when guys ask where do you find wife material women who are shy and reserved they get accused of "virgin hunting". Yeah, which is weird and entitled if he himself isn't a virgin, stay in your lane. So if men choose the promiscuous women he's passing on wife material bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:44 AM
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This is just another lie, people who have more sex are more likely to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:34 AM
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If you offer a man his dream girl, he will wife her up instantly. Unlike women, men don't need a hoe phase to recognize a partner of exceptional quality. This is the biggest load of bullshit i've ever read. I've known so many women who were cheated on or tossed aside because their boyfriend 'wasn't ready to settle down' yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:29 AM
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Love and affection after spending their 20s hooking up with random women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:26 AM
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making sure all you're needs are met is bringing a rat carcass? LOL what modern man does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:25 AM
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The guys who sees you as wife material see as their top pick, someone who they can see themselves sharing their life with and only being the only one they have sex with. They why not choose her at a younger age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:25 AM
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Definitely not, I was average looking in my teens and as I was religious, I wanted to settle down early. No men were interested in that at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:23 AM
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I was average looking as a teen and was told repeatedly that I was only good for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:21 AM
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suddenly be visible/attractive to men because they now see you as good breeding stock. Yep, it's so tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:21 AM
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TRP is one of the biggest reasons I've decided to be lifelong single and celibate, miss me with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:44 PM
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just see dating as nothing more than a chess game or battlefield where my goal is to outmaneouver my opponent. So if a woman falsely accused you of rape, that'd be fair game too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:54 PM
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So yes I would probably lie or at the very least be misleading and deceptive as to do otherwise would negatively effect my ability to smash too much. Do you care about what lying does to that woman? Or how this affects dating in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:35 PM
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Would you tell the woman that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:13 AM

Yes that I believe 100% what's funny is how you gals keep choosing them and also blaming them There are a limited number of men on earth, unless women choose not to date, they're going to end up circling the same useless men over and over A lot of men don't 'appear' lazy and useless in the beginning, mine certainly didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:59 PM
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Are you responding to the right comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:52 PM

No, weaponised incompetence is well documented in men. So is an unequal distribution of household work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:06 PM

How are we responsible for the men you chose to date? What??? When did I say you were? You are the one who picked the one guy out of 100 that can't work a stove or be left alone unsupervised without burning the house down. I didn't know he couldn't use a stove when I met him, obviously, who meets someone and asks them if they have basic adult skills? What do you expect us to do about it? When did I say I expect you to do something about it? I'm making a general point on men and basic skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:58 PM
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How does that answer what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:32 PM
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How can women control another persons actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:36 PM
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That's why they fuck on the first date with some fuckboy they don't want anything long term but when they date a dude they like for a LTR they withhold sex to mask their promiscuous normalcy. Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:35 PM
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The problem is, men with this complex view sex as dirty and degrading and cast any woman who has had sex before as 'dirty and degraded' this is the entire problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:35 PM

Why are you acting like it's a choice between one or the other then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:27 PM
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How is it easier? We literally get blamed for being in abusive relationships because we apparently should've 'chosen better men'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:27 PM
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Compared to you, yes Compared to me? You don't know anything about me.... And do you think that guy represents what most women are attracted to or looking for in men? No, I had low self esteem and thought I should 'give him a chance' (biggest mistake ever) Just because you had to settle for him doesn’t mean he’s what women are attracted to and it doesn’t contradict what I said in any way. Nice try tho. I didn't have to settle for him, I was always told I should give 'nice guys' a chance but he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:39 PM

Two hours washing dishes sounds like slander to me sorry. You'd be amazed how useless and lazy a lot of men are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:33 PM

I had to show my 23 year old ex how to turn on a stove, I left the room for 5 minutes and he nearly burned down the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:32 PM
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Just strong, masculine men My 5ft 6 skinny ex who couldn't say no to anyone was a strong masculine man? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:22 PM
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LMAO that hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:21 PM
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What happened in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:30 AM
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If anything most men are attracted to traditional femininity in women so, the nicer the better. So why not actually marry these women in your early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:29 AM
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represents the average man Yes, both men and women don't respect and are bound to take advantage of people with low self esteem and weak boundaries. (It’s also ironic that you and the women here seem to all have “abusive exes” while the majority of men here don’t. 😂) Maybe it's simple, men are more likely to be abusive. while it makes perfect sense for women to do so. So women are seeking out abusive men, is this what you're arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:27 AM
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“was too nice, too thoughtful” Lol it's crazy isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:15 AM
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It definitely isn't. My ex was extremely abusive towards me in our relationship, when I asked him why, he told me I was 'too nice'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:14 AM
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I never said you said that, I'm telling you where the line is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:47 AM
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It's not about the emotions, it's about making the other person responsible for them, how are you not getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:35 AM
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No, that's one extreme. Sharing what you're going through is fine, making your partner responsible for your mental state is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:17 AM
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“There’s a difference between opening up and being used as a therapist!” but.... but there literally is a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:34 PM
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Do guys on here realise that intelligent and ambitious men can also be attractive? And that attractive men aren't necessarily stupid and lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:33 PM
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I think marriage only benefits men so I'm in agreement but for the opposite reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:11 AM
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But the reverse is far more common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:41 PM
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all-female communities for single women. This. Kinda wish nunneries were still common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:40 PM

I would say the former is much worse. No way. If he no longer loves me that's fair and we can both move on. If he cheats just because he wants to sample a variety of genitals, that's awful and means loving me just isn't enough. I'd be heartbroken and I'd end it straight away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:28 PM

If the 304 the man cheated with gets ran over by a bus, the man will NOT care. Why are women supposed to be happy that men are this sociopathic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:25 PM
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No it doesn't, anyone can potentially be a rapist including this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:55 PM
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Yes a rapist could be anyone, including a guy who looks like a homeless drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:15 PM
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A rapist could be anyone but if a man looks unkempt and dirty or looks like they might be homeless, you're obviously going to be cautious more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:55 PM
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before that she essentially said no one looks sketchy When did she say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:27 PM
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Women can say whatever we like when we are alone and men approach us, aren't we constantly told it's our fault when things go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:52 AM
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She said he was the sketchiest looking guy she'd ever seen, he said nothing about her tires, why are you trying so hard to make excuses for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:48 AM
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or like dropped something in a store she just left. No, she made a follow up video where she says the man approached her from the opposite direction so she definitely didn't drop something. It's weird how many men are rushing to defend this guy and come up with reasons as to why he's probably a great guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:41 AM
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broken like this one She had a child with her and described the man as extremely sketchy. The internet as broken inter gender interactions and has made every woman feel like every man is there to hurt or harm them. In a world of Andrew Tate fanboys is this really surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:35 AM
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This is so true, I don't even like that physique in men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:32 AM
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"mansplaining", "rape culture", "the male gaze" and sexist air conditioners. When did I say anything about any of this? The gig us up. Deal with it. What gig? What the hell are you talking about? You think the rise of the extreme parts of the manosphere happened in a vacuum? Andrew Tate and the like are just the edge line of the shifting Overton window away from this misandrist gynocentric "women are wonderful / can do no wrong" nonsense we've been living under for 20 years. It's over. Andrew Ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:00 AM
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Ya'll swung that pendulum WAY too far to the "men bad" side, No, men behave degenerately and women call it out. How exactly are you going to 'swing it back' (whatever this means)? By fucking a bunch of asian hookers and catching super STDs that render you infertile? Go for it, we REALLY don't care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:56 AM
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It's about time men are held accountable for their degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:41 AM
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If your brother, uncle, cousin was to go to one of these places, would you consider him a pig / predator / loser, or would you empathize and understand why such an experience might be therapeutic for him? I'd never speak to them again, I don't associate with whores
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:03 AM
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Therapy is expensive It's free in my country and yet they still don't go. Even then psychology as a field is mostly woman-focused and often pointless for men. Er no, there are plenty of male therapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:12 PM
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dude it is like 80 dollars a session with my healthcare plan stop acting like therapy is like ordering a drink from a vending machine It's free in my country, men still refused to go. also, the difference isn't that big, men attend 65% of the therapy sessions They also cannot be 'solved', they can be treated but they are still there. also no need to bring all the responsibility on men, the vast majority of therapists are women, and new research shows that much like the school system, therapy is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:57 PM
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Loneliness can easily be solved if they act better. Mental health issues can be solved by going to a therapist, which most men refuse to do because it's 'gay' or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:59 PM
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Based on.... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:52 PM
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Women don't want casual sex with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:47 PM
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Male issues like not being able to get sex? Lmao boo hoo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:45 PM
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when he can have a younger, better looking woman who'll suck his dick like the antidote is in it? Wtf? How many men can get this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:31 PM
1

What? what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:12 PM
1

Most people bullshit early in a relationship. So he bullshitted for over a year? It’s your job to see through it. There are always signs if you’re willing to think the worst of people lol. You just said you can spot a jerk in a handful of minutes so go on, what were the signs in my case?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:00 PM
1

So you're that lazy you won't even point out what you mean? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:57 PM
1

So before we moved in together, my ex was extremely kind, worked really hard, paid for everything, was loving and attentive, always told me he loved me. He had no criminal record, had plenty of great friends who vouched for him. How do you think he treated me once he moved in with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:57 PM
1

However, 63% of men 18-29 are single, whereas only 34% of women in that age group are single. Likely because the women think the guy they're sleeping with is their boyfriend and the guy knows he's just using her for sex and thus doesn't count it as a relationship. Regardless, we're talking about a minority of the population. You seem to repeatedly ignore the point being made. More and more and more women are giving up. Usually women date, get married, get divorced and then give up. Now they're g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:54 PM
1

Such as....?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:50 PM
1

How was I a bad picker? How am I supposed to anticipate mens behaviour months and years in advance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:48 PM
1

I've shown there are more men 18-29 who have given up on sex and dating. Where did you show this? I've shown men who remarry are much more likely to marry significantly younger women. Why? Probably because they can. Women value resources and status, while men value fertility. Nope, women don't value 'status' this is just red pill bullshit. Men are significantly less likely to be single at an old age Because of choice? This is literally what I'm saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:29 PM
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And I've shown several times how, by and large, they're not How? How have you shown this? Men are more likely to remarry vs women, men want to live with their partners more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:25 PM
1

A virgin man is useless as he has no clue how to interact with women. As a virgin woman, I would strongly prefer a virgin man as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:22 PM
1

Men are easy to satisfy. Dont be hoe. Dont just bring your sex to the relationship. Be feminine in personality... and above all DONT BE A HO. If that's true then why did all my exes treat me like shit? Why did my grandad cheat on his young virgin bride with a bunch of random skanks he met in bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:21 PM
1

So my exes were only awful because they were the top 0.37 of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:21 PM
1

All my friends dated different guys, all of us had similar terrible experiences. My exes haven't dated since me, so I know they aren't 'doing it to more women'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:20 PM
2

Your stories are missing elements in which the girls were complicit in those relationships. No way they were all simply blind sided Yes, abusive men don't tend to broadcast their abusiveness or they wouldn't get any victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:11 PM
1

Afterall, who knows, God might present you a man which you find irresistible. No, giving up means giving up, we aren't interested anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:07 PM
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As of July 2022, only 17% of American women between 30 and 49 aren't in a committed relationship. Clearly, the vast majority of people aren't "giving up" when it comes to relationships. Most women give up after a divorce but the point is, women are giving up younger and younger and more are not even getting into relationships or having sex at all now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:06 PM
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They leave more of a mark. The average man isn't perfect, but he isn't guilty of the scummy behavior I listed. How do you know? My ex had plenty of friends who thought he was great, they had no idea he stalked me for months after we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:56 PM
1

Not of my exes were that tall, all were awful, how do you explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:52 PM
0

I was just being used for sex Better to not sleep with them until they've been committed for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:52 PM
1

that the bar is really that low. It's WAY worse than you think. I've dated 3 guys, all 3 had problems with hygiene, 1 was a porn addict, another one had severe mental problems. All 3 were unemployed for a significant percentage of the relationship. None of them could really 'function like an adult' like book their own doctors appointments, cook nutritious meals, hold down a job. These guys varied in terms of age, personality, looks and background and yet all were manchildren who wouldn't look af…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:51 PM
1

Which data?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:45 PM
2

Even once it's determined the woman is the aggresor usually the guy gets told to man up, or gets arrested anyway. According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:41 PM
2

Nope, ugly men do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:39 PM
1

Average age of marriage of women in the West is about 28, unless you're somewhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:38 PM
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(I stayed with this guy and honestly never saw any signs that he was a psychopath) This is a good point and points to a wider issue as well. Women are often told it is our fault for not 'choosing better' men and not spotting the bad ones, even when there are no signs! But if women become suspicious and distrustful, then it's also our fault because 'we're suspicious of all men' Women are done being blamed for everything so a lot of us just avoid men all-together or don't trust them until they've …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:35 PM
1

I still wanted other girls, but I'd never do something that hurtful. If all men secretly want other girls, there's no point in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:41 PM
1

Crazy for not wanting to date an insecure man?
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/23 08:03 PM
1

That's the issue. A lot of men do want commitment because they know if they don't commit they wont get sex. That isn't 'wanting commitment' it's wanting sex and knowing that commitment is the way to get it. The desire isn't genuine. Are these people below the age of 30? Because usually that's the only situation where you have women who aren't dating top 20% due to the fact that Tinder and social media didn't exist at that time. Also a lot of women think they are dating average guys when they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:25 PM
1

if I man get sex from a woman he can get a relationship from her. But a lot of men don't want commitment and that's the issue. Its not, do you know what its like being a man? You have to do all the work to get into a relationship. You have to be top 20%, approach, be charisma, be attractive, be confident. While you have to deal with rejection everyday, through all avenues(OLD AND IRL). You have no help through navigating the dating world, other than stupid feminists telling you to be more "emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:53 PM
1

Most men can’t even get regular sex. It's easier to get a relationship than sex because most women don't want casual sex. Men are single, because Dating is impossible That's utter bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:59 AM
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Nah it's because he's a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:53 AM
1

the majority of men under 30 are single Because they don't want to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:53 AM
3

Women don't deserve to be treated any better than chattel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 PM
2

You realize that women can be sexually reserved without being religious, virgins, or moralistic, right? Why would such a woman be sexually reserved but want a man who isn't sexually reserved? Just because you don't sleep around doesn't mean you think there's something wrong with that. Then why wouldn't she do it herself? What are her motivations for not doing it? Tell me, do you think most or all non-promiscuous women slut-shame other women? I seriously doubt it. Yeah, a lot of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:25 AM
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Women who haven't slept around, especially those who are virgins tend to be religious OR have a strong moral framework that is against promiscuity. Why would such a woman want to be with a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:54 AM
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Or are you too solipsistic to do that? I grew up in a very religious community, I know more virgin women than most and every single one of them HATE man whores. This also makes no sense, most virgin women are religious and want a man who shares their religious values. Most religions heavily frown upon promiscuity so why on earth would a woman want a man that is actively going against her religion? Also maybe not every single man in the world wants a virgin, perhaps some virgin men want promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:51 AM
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Didn't Americans just roll back abortion rights? Also, what rights do women have for periods?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:38 AM
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Just because a woman isn't interested in sleeping around doesn't mean she finds it off-putting when guys do it. This is complete and utter bullshit. I chose not to sleep around because sleeping around is disgusting, why on earth would I want a man who's slept around?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:52 AM
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Absolute delusion, women who've not slept around don't want the town dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:47 AM
1

No? Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:46 AM
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More rights than who? Also, women 'having rights' is the default, we only didn't have right because men took them away. Why should we be grateful to men for giving us what we rightfully has anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:06 AM
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Many men have fought alongside women to grant them equality here in America and worldwide But men were the ones oppressing them in the first place....?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:53 AM
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So men are so nice and wonderful because after women fighting for years they decide that perhaps women should be treated a little better than chattel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:51 AM
0

Wow! We're so grateful that after fighting for years men eventually gave us (some) rights!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:49 AM
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Because men don't have ours in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:47 AM
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God those poor women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:26 PM
3

Because most men want hookups, yes even the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:25 PM
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Women no longer need to regulate the behavior of men through sex Maybe men can uh idk, regulate their own behaviour? Take some responsibility for once instead of blaming women for everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:24 PM
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It takes two to have sex. So women and men are equally at fault for enabling hookup culture. Utter bullshit, women much prefer commitment, it's men who want to fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:23 PM
2

Sometimes, not all hours of the day or you're a shit parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:45 AM
2

Yeah, it is. 'Women are demanding better treatment, let's create a movement when they're treated even worse, stupid bitches'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:35 AM
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Errrr no. I want to buy sperm from a sperm bank from a man who has donated of his free will. What if you have a son? What if? I'll raise him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:00 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:04 PM
3

Autism
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 06:28 PM
3

Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:21 PM
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Well it's pretty much made my heart set on having a child via sperm donation and never having any romantic relationship with men ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:19 PM
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Because managing two kids is the exact same as managing thirty. He only had to manage the kids 8:30--3:30pm plus he had weekends off and lunch breaks and a LOT of holidays. So yeah, he was managing 20 kids but only part time and he wasn't round the clock like a parent and yet STILL he made that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:18 PM
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essentially a reactionary anti-cult and that there is also a growing misandric alternative cult propagating out there that threatens and doesn't care about men at all? Nothing more than victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:00 PM
9

On todays episode of 'what men think parenting is'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:45 PM
1

Oh? Pray tell, what is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:29 PM
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It really isn't, children sleep a lot and you don't need to watch them constantly. You can leave babies in a crib. You can leave kids with toys or in front of the TV while you do chores close by. I would know, I helped raise my little brother. My cousin was a teacher for a while and he ended up having a mental breakdown because of the stress, he then rejoined the army because 'that was far less stressful' You really don't have a clue, do you? Babies don't just sleep for 8 hours like adults, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:17 PM
1

Other promiscuous women may want them, but certainly not the virgin women they express a preference for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:03 PM
1

You said your mother wouldn't date men at all if given the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:33 PM
1

Despite being obese and on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:18 PM
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Er no, most women don't want sluts. Especially virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:01 AM
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https://www.oatext.com/racial-implications-of-the-narcissistic-personality-inventory-reinterpreting-popular-depictions-of-narcissism-trends.php Why do you feel the need to say, 'women are narcissists too' Is it because you don't like that a negative trait is more present in men so you feel the need to derail the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:08 AM
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LOL what do they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:22 AM
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So I very much deserve to get some side-pussy on the side. Why do you think you 'deserve' to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:12 AM
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I ''cheat'' on my girlfriend all the time, either with women I meet in clubs or bars or at host club I used to work at where my girlfriend was introduced to me, or I just wait for summer and I fly all the way to Germany for some honey-tourism LOL. And what is hilarious is that I work for my girlfriend and the money I use to ''cheat'' on her comes from her own pockets. That is one of the worst things I've ever read. You're a cheater and a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:52 AM
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You could infect her and make her ill or infertile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:50 AM
1

They're 10% of the male population
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:49 AM
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there was a big share of spinsters. ....what do you think a spinster is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:26 AM
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Please provide any evidence of single women dying in the streets from hunger. Sure, let me just pull out my pictures from 200 years ago. If they were than the vast majority of men were as well No, because men had many more opportunities for work, did you even read the original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:25 AM
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As in you cheating or him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:24 AM
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Nah, once that trust is broken none of that matters anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:14 AM
1

Sounds like your dad was awful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:42 AM
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My other grandpa was amazing; but even he strayed. So so sad, not much hope. My grandma moved her and the kids out a week after she found out and he begged her to come back and she did after making him sweat for a few months . Shame, she should've left for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:35 AM
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Can't even imagine how she must feel after being cheated on too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:26 AM
1

That's so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:21 AM
1

My mom would not date men if she was born today. Did she tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:18 AM
1

Why doesn't she leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:17 AM
1

That's depressing, what did you end up doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:10 AM
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My maternal turkish grandmother was almost forced into an arranged marriage but then she threatened to kill herself and got her then boyfriend (my grandpa) to ask her parents for her hand in marriage. Wow what's the story there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:09 AM
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Your grandpa sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:07 AM
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Yes they did, quite frequently. They ended up in workhouses or brothels often too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:04 AM
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I've actually met a few slutty men who whored it up throughout their 20s and now they're mid 30s and confused as to where their virgin princess is lmao. All the pickup artists that promoted a promiscuous lifestyle for men and asserted that 'men get finer with age and women prefer men with experience' are now single, childless and depressed well into their 40s and 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:49 PM
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I know she did at first but after he cheated, no. She stayed because she had no other choice but she didn't love him, she told several of my family members that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:05 PM
1

Yes I did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:39 PM
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Well most men don't belong in LTRs, they belong to the streets, we don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:20 PM
1

I didn't agree with what he said directly, I said I feel the same way about promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:19 PM
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Yep, slutty men who've slept with half the town are 'ready to settle down' with a 'nice girl' when you're a virgin. They literally expect you to accept used goods and sleep with them straight away lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:11 AM
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What is your bodycount?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:10 AM
1

I agree, I feel disgusted by promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:09 AM

What does that have to do with coerce lmao Do you have amnesia?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:33 PM

Still don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:24 PM
1

Coerce: persuade (an unwilling person) to do something by using force or threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:03 PM
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women still generally don’t want a man unless he makes as much or more than her. Probably because men are more likely to beat up or cheat on women who make more for them. And women generally don’t want to be equal financial partners in relationship. Case in point: men have to pay for first dates It not like the expectations on men and woman's appearance are equal. If you expect women to show up looking like an instagram model, she probably spends a fortune on her appearance. And you complain abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:45 AM
2

How can you do that unless your husband gives it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:43 AM
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No, including unpaid work, women work more than men. Women signed up to having a job, they didn't sign up for doing both a male AND female role.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:30 AM
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I don't care history because I have never participated in the oppression of your great grandmother. I never said you did, why are you making this about you? ​ I don't care lol. Good, why are you on PPD then? Stay in Asia and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:03 PM
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And what did they say exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:57 PM
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The era of delusional and entitled women What are you even talking about? Not wanting to be with a man out of necessity is entitlement and delusion? Haha see? The gay card as usual :DD (your kind is so easy predictable) You literally just said making babies from two sperm, who are you raising the child with? You're literally making a baby with another man. I mean the (bio)technology develops in exponential way (if not logarithmic). All that I say maybe it will happen in our lifetime that men sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:40 PM
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In my country, you can take your employer to court for that. There was no legal recourse until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:29 PM
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It's not economic coercion, you and your friends-ist are spreading always the same BS! Yes historically, it was economic coercion that kept men and women together. It's actually that asian women find us western men attractive and good company, get over it. Get over it? I don't care lol. The white men who go to Asia are the bottom of the barrel ones that white women don't want. Yeah before you ask I know it out of experience.Me, the "rich" eastern european in Thailand... I literally don't give a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:25 PM
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Do you really think that men will forget these years and actions? Years of actions of women not being coerced into relationships anymore? Sooner or later men won't date you at all. I don't date men, I don't care. Btw. Engineers have created in japan successful a human embryo from two sperm cell of two men. Okay? There have also been embryos created from eggs, are you saying you'll all just turn gay and have babies with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:22 PM
2

What happens in reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:54 PM
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Yes coerce. My mother couldn't get a mortgage on her own from the majority of banks because she wasn't buying with a man, this wasn't 200 years ago, this was 1999. Up until recently, a woman could get fired for being pregnant, employers could discriminate and not hire single mothers, you couldn't get credit as a lone woman until the 1970s. Women have only had the full backing and protection from the law for the last decade or two, this is obviously going to change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:53 PM
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Because most men aren't small and hideous to the point they can't get anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:10 PM
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They’re all the same question, and I took it as a rhetorical question. No they aren't, they are all different lines of thought. And no, they weren't rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:41 PM
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immutable characteristics Can men not help being whores? Can they not help cheating? Can they not help being abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:34 PM
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Also, fun part: actually talking about the paradigm shift is completely forbidden in the mainstream, even though to anyone on the ground it’s obvious. If you said 'it's clear women now require more than a salary to be with a man' No one is going to attack you for it. Add this on to the fact that huge amounts of men just aren’t tall and facially hot enough, and they’re doomed to remain sexless forever unless they go for a Third World bride (which is also completely demonized by the mainstream)? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:33 PM
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Well men should've responded accordingly instead of whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:28 PM
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You didn't answer any of the questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:28 PM
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Mine was cheated on multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:21 PM
5

Who gave you that message?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:20 PM
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We were told that making money was a good way to get women. Boomers and even many people our own age still repeat this obvious lie. You were told by boomers, who entered into relationships between 40-60 years ago, that making money was a good way to get women. You never questioned whether this information was out of date given how long ago this was or how much the economy and relationship dynamics have changed since then? You also never questioned if women were actually attracted to money or if …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:13 PM
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But women now have jobs, degrees, and an ability to leave these situations. Back then, they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:01 PM
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Yeah, maybe it wasn't. Until your husband got bored of you and left you, or cheated on you, or hit you, or raped you. Or did some other horrible shit because he knew you'd starve without him and you realistically couldn't leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:49 PM
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What? Having to work full time and pay 50% while doing the majority of the household labour and childcare is equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:55 PM
6

Where did she admit to lying? What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:36 PM
0

No we aren't, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:35 PM
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Women never asked for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:23 PM
3

Rare to hear of a man this self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:23 PM
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Because in the past they could economically coerce women into relationships, now they can't and some of them are really mad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:22 PM
1

I don’t know why men don’t want to own their own houses. Lmao I know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:11 PM
1

He just sent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:11 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:10 PM
2

Do you have the studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:40 PM
2

Nah, I'm a mid 20s woman with a house, we definitely don't need you for that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:15 PM
2

ack of commitment (75.0%) Infidelity (59.6%) Too much conflict in the family (57.7%) Young age at marriage (45.1%) Financial issues (36.7%) Substance abuse (34.6%) Domestic violence (23.5%) Severe diseases or physical incapacity (18.2%) Where is that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:04 PM
2

I did know these things were opposites of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:38 AM
5

You find compliance and weakness attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:14 AM
8

What is an average womans bodycount? How many women have children from different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:38 PM
8

According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:35 PM
1

Do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:24 AM
1

Yes, obviously, did you read the context of this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:53 AM
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OUCH! Don't sugarcoat it Diamond! I'm not wrong though, I'm so sick of whore men thinking it's okay to act the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:44 AM
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Point stands, women say nothing like what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:08 PM
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I said on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:55 PM
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Well to be fair, you’re kind of misinterpreting the second link in certain ways. It say that the women didn’t want a man who had 5 five or more previous relationships , not a body count of 5 or more I assure you we don't want men who had 5 previous one night stands lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:56 AM
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I said women don’t care about it as much as men. I didn’t say there wasn’t a level where a man’s body count couldn’t become too high or whatever. No you said this: Hmm, maybe if his body count is truly ridiculous or something. I don't think many people would consider over 5 partners 'ridiculous'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:26 AM
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You can get an STD from even just one sexual encounter if you aren’t careful. Yes you're right, hence it's better to choose a partner who's has less partners. If women really felt that way than you’d overwhelmingly covet male virginity in the same way guys do. Instead women tend to mock male virginity more than anything else. Even studies show that women prefer men with more experience than less. Women who are themselves virgins want virgin men. Even studies show that women prefer men with more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:25 AM
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But it’s a stretch to say that women care about a man’s body count as much as men care about a woman’s. Well we do. Men can give us diseases that can kill us or make us infertile. From the link you posted: But men with five or more previous relationships were deemed unattractive. Did you even read the source you sent or did you just read the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:21 AM
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So what you’ve said doesn’t really make sense here. Why would I want an STD ridden whore who has the potential to infect me with deadly diseases or diseases that will make me infertile? And our instinctual preferences were shaped by that reality. I instinctively hate whores, you explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:12 AM
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Nope, we care about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:33 AM
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Girls SAY they don't want a high BC man until its Chad. We all know Drake and Chris Brown has 1000+ BC. Maybe even 9001+ BC. But yet women STILL are hoping to be that 0.00001% chance of being wifed up. A perfect man isn't a man with a bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:32 AM
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he has a 80ish bodycount. Absolutely hell no, I wouldn't touch him with a 10ft barge pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:31 AM
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Why is doing something bad impressive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:19 PM
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So if someone steals in order to fund their heroin habit, we should respect them for doing something difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:08 PM
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This isn't how a society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:07 PM
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I like men a lot. I have a lot of male friends and enjoy working with men professionally. But most of my romantic relationships have been negative experiences for me. They’ve usually been very draining, and kept me from taking care of myself and pursuing things that are good for me. The costs have outweighed the benefits. This this, exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:28 PM
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LMAO I'm dying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:11 PM
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I'm 48 and now I'm discovering what I want and don't accept in a girl. LOL nothing funnier than an older man who thinks he can get a woman like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:29 PM
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women find a way to lose even playing life and dating in tutorial mode. How is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:28 PM
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men do free stuff and labor for them, How? When? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:26 PM
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Do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:22 PM
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Unchecked neurodivergence It's this 1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:20 PM
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Most of the men on here are autistic, they have extreme black and white thinking and struggle to see the world in anyway that is not defined by strict rules. Hence their bizarre and nonsensical analysis on human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:19 PM
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still benefit indirectly by men being horny enough to do the worst jobs that keep their bubble in infrastructure and civilization. Here I was thinking men do these things in exchange for money, apparently they're doing it because.... they're horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:14 PM
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Doubt one would wait that long lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:22 AM
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So if I refuse to have sex before marriage, he's going to wait for years, marry me, then dump me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:33 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:29 PM
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Are you responding to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:58 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:58 PM
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Why do men like you always seem to think that your personal life experience is somehow reflective of reality? How many times do I need to tell you people that anecdotal evidence ISN'T evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:57 PM
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So you deceived this woman's father and this is supposed to be proof of what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:39 PM
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with no college, no career, living at home with no future. Errr, wtf? Most men finish university at age 21 (age 22 if they have a masters) They get a job straight after uni and most work full time. That is one of the reasons I have been seeing more women in their mid 20's dating guys in their 30's. You're seeing what you want to see, most women date men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:58 PM
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Nobody cares what you would do. This applies to almost all women my age. Men your age are losers. No more or less than older men. The reason women date older men is because they have value. Then why do most women choose not to? You have zero life experience. You're just spitballing. I make over 6 figures, I own multiple properties, I own my own business and I've travelled and lived in quite a few different places. I'd bet I have more life experience than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:14 PM
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It's not a lie, why would I date an older man when I could date a man my own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:21 PM
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How is that more likely to happen with a young guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:24 AM
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Even though he was dating several other women and could give your daughter a life changing STD?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:58 AM
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No, going on a few dates with women who are younger means nothing. Dating an older man with money is a cash grab, nothing more, those women would still choose a guy their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:54 AM
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He's literally a pimp, he makes money from encouraging women to be promiscuous...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:01 PM
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He's an aggressive narcissistic pimp who promotes materialism, how is that 'traditional masculinity'? Traditional masculinity would be marrying young and providing for one woman and having children. Not whoring it up with a bunch of different women and profitng off the sex industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:07 AM
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I genuinely believe you really find it horrible but at the same time I think it's something that deep down reassures you about yourself, to know that at least you're somewhat considered attractive. No, absolutely not. Men have sex with women they don't find attractive, hell men have sex with women they think are ugly, it's not flattering it's insulting. They don't need to be attracted to you to use you to masturbate into. Go to foreveralonewomen and see for yourself how unattractive women crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:29 AM
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Explain why it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:23 AM
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At least women have the assurance they can have casual sex quite easily Means nothing to us. The fact that hundreds of men are willing to use and dispose of us like tissues is not a plus, it's disturbing and horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:18 AM
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Men are not lying to women. If you tell a woman you want something you don't want, that is literally the definition of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:09 AM
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It's not like there are equal numbers of men who are dying to settle down get married and have children, the 'fuckboy' script is seen as cool and desirable for men in their 20s and some even up to their late 30s now. These men aren't incels following the red pill, they're average guys. As I've said, no one is having casual sex with a balding autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:37 PM
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They are. Women aren't having one night stands with balding autists in the hopes of having a relationship lmao. Otherwise what is this compounding number of jaded women complaining about being played by non-committal men being fueled by? The number of average and above average men having multiple girls at once and leading women on. Semantics. "Regular" men or not, women are seemingly doing a terrible job avoiding being played by men whose behavior they allegedly despise. Yes because men lie and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:12 PM
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If egalitarian policies which focus on alleviating societal disparity are put into place wholesale, then the brunt of reproduction issues which women face now will be drastically reduced, especially mortality rate. That's what that has to do with your points. Unless men start giving birth too, that won't happen. If you do not seek equitable solutions to deeply ingrained societal issues, you will just see the issues reflected later on. If you do not support men having more reproductive agency in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:06 PM
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I think we should have many more social systems in place, so that having a father-figure in a child's life isn't dependent on one person. Until we accept that we're responsible for our most egregious failures in society AND actually manage those factors, nothing will improve. What does this have to do with the points I made? Do you think the agency of a child being born and people being responsible for it should come down to a woman saying yes or no? Yes, women bear the majority of the physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:45 PM
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Can't see that reply, as you've said it's been deleted. So basically you think men should be able to abandon their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:34 PM
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It doesn't really matter that women despise them if they're still giving them what they want, which they are. No they aren't. The growing number of jaded women who have been "played" too many times is an attestation to the fact that if women are trying to avoid them, then they're clearly not doing a very good job. I don't think women are getting played by red pill types, they're being played by regular men who act like they want a relationship when they actually don't. Women aren't falling for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:32 PM
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That most of those men are too lazy to put the effort to improve themselves, because hating is easier, is a different issue. That's exactly the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:23 PM
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That's nothing to do with genetics Autism is due to genetics, older parents are more likely to have autistic children, it literally increases mutational load. Not all men will simply roll over and die. You yourself seem to have extremely antisocial behavior if you think eugenics is nbd in 2023. You don't need to roll over and die, but if women choose not to breed with you, that's it as far as your genetics go. Eugenics in this instance is women choosing not to mate with sub par men, which is a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:09 PM
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Sure, you can do if you want. But virgin women aren't having trouble getting laid, they're virgins by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:58 PM
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Ok. Donovan Sharpe married. to a fat single mother who is older than him. Thought men only like young, fertile women? Especially a redpill alpha chad! *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:56 PM
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It's just desperate autistic incels who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:49 PM
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'these men' including all the Andrew Tate fans are not enough to really move the needle on gender pairing rates. I'm talking about the men who hold at least some manosphere beliefs, which seems to be increasing. If the women are dropping out, it is because of something going on with women and/or a MUCH wider swath of men. It's the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:47 PM
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Yes please go on. Donovan Sharpe- Married a fat single mother Roosh V- Single, childless I forget the name of the other ones, there's a few bald men who all look the same that are all single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:45 PM
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You don't have any points, all you said were "men say this too". I made plenty, but you choose to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:40 PM
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Of course if this proves to be just a few unhinged guys, then you could ignore. But it might not be. It isn't, look how popular Andrew Tate is. No can it be assumed that if pairing rates go down it is all because men aren't doing enough work on self-improvement. Women are the ones who end marriages and the ratio of male/female on dating apps has soared, women are dropping out. Also the emergence of the 'are we dating the same guy' facebook groups. So the point isn't to pay attention to the men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:31 PM
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No they aren't. Plus the red pill sub is full of men who can't get laid or even get ANY attention from women and are trying desperately lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:16 PM
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So you ignored every point I made, why am I not surprised.... Women's hypergamy essentially is eugenics; it's innate for women to be prejudiced. And that's gross, tbh. Women should be more prejudiced, far too many autists and inept weirdos walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:12 PM
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But it is important to try to see both sides, even if one side is ultimately in the wrong. Why should women listen or care about men who spend their time bullying and harassing us online? The fact that so many men who are unhappy with their lives choose to take it out on women instead of channelling it into their own self improvement speaks volumes about their character. But there is a chance that in a world of high technology where women can provide for themselves, a lot more men will be left w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:09 PM
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That's very convenient. But anyway: ​ Eugenics isn't a bad idea for both men and women, but men seem to be more adversely affected by evolution/nature, look at how many men are autistic nowadays. Men actually commit more financial crime against women that the reverse, but very few people care. War is universally a bad thing, but I've heard quite a few men echo that sentiment. I've never heard women say that, I've heard plenty of men say that they 'want to be raped' though Don't know what you mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:58 PM
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Where was this said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:51 PM
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The guys following red pill behaviors succeed, men who do not follow red pill don't. Almost all of these 'red pill gurus' are single and childless. Women despise them and try to avoid them. I swear you people get more and more delusional every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:46 PM
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Whenever someone says this the inevitable question is this: Then why are women having sex exclusively with red pill guys and completely shunning non-red pill guys? Wtf, what on earth made you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:34 PM
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When have women ever said the equivalent about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:32 PM
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Easy, work really hard aged 18-30. At 30, go to a sperm bank and become a single mother, have 3-5 kids, hire a nanny to help. When you get older, you'll have your kids, friends, hopefully hobbies and plenty to keep you busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:24 PM
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I never asked for your username, I asked for proof you're with a 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:19 PM
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I don't know how I can dumb this down for you. Take a picture of you and this supposed 25 year old woman that's with you Hold up a piece of paper with your reddit username written on, that way it's proof it isn't photoshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:18 PM
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Hold up a piece of paper with your username on, you can just block out your face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:11 PM
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No, post proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:06 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:02 PM
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But you can't and the 25 year old doesn't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:00 PM
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This is all about deeply felt male insecurity finding refuge in hate and anger. Yeah, this all makes sense. I've seen men post videos of women upset over something and claim it's due to them 'aging' and 'feeling lonely' when the woman is married with multiple kids and is sad over something completely different like a family member dying. I've also gotten tons of hate when I say living alone is the happiest and most peaceful I've ever felt, men just HAVE to tell me that I'm lying and I'm secretly…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:58 PM
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I massively exceed the standards I have for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:40 PM
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I'd love that because I love cooking and I love being at home. Don't think I'd ever enter into such a relationship arrangement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:34 PM
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Judging by his grey hair, I think you're right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:59 PM
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Is there any data backing up your claims? Almost every single multi millionaire assuming they weren't rich at some point will divorce their partners. I'm talking about ordinary people who make 6 figures, decent money. These are just regular people who got decent jobs, they aren't massively exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:13 PM
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Yes, so it supports what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:58 PM
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How is it? If men generally follow a trend of abandoning their wives as soon as they can get someone hotter, we can assume most men will do this if given the chance Rich men aren't a different species, why do they all seem to coincidentally abandon their wives as soon as they make tons of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:53 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16025699/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/whats-the-average-age-difference-in-a-couple/#:\~:text=The%20average%20age%20difference%20(for,12%20months%20apart%20in%20age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:47 PM
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Pretty every single man after becoming rich will divorce his wife and get a younger model, are they all exceptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:44 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:50 PM
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Then why aren't all men doing this? I think you seriously overestimate how much women value the things you've mentioned, probably because the manosphere has given you a very seductive lie that you'd rather hold on to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:25 PM
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There are enough attractive young women in their 20s who are willing to date 30+ year old men for a reason other than money?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:16 PM
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I tell you the average age gap is 2 years and has decreased and you respond with that lol. Funny how you didn't respond to that. It's not my belief or opinion, it's a fact, we want men our own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:04 PM
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Let's not be disingenuous. If a 30 something guy, who is decent looking (upper range of average) and has his shit together, wants to date 20 something chicks, there are enough out there that he could do so with relatively little issue. No, an attractive woman in her 20s is going to have the pick of the litter, she's going to choose an attractive guy in his 20s who she has more in common with. Plus, most women date men in their immediate vicinity, college students date other college students, int…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:57 PM
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A man wants to be loved for who he is, not for what he does in order to be loved. Then why do men divorce their loyal wives for younger women who are just using them for money? I don't buy this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:41 PM
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who are often all of those things you mentioned struggle so hard? Probably autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:15 PM
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and if everything else is equal, why wouldn't they just do that? Because most women in their 20s aren't interested in men in their 30s. The TINY number of women who are actually willing to date older are few and far between and there isn't an unlimited supply of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:12 PM
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One day my dad tells me a story about his youth, they were bored as hell, so someone got a superman costume and went to a neighboring town and did a enactment where they pretended to rob the bar (but the people running the bar were real and not in on it) then "superman" came in and beat up the "robbers", then they all ran off. That sounds hilarious lmao. Gee golly, why do people raised in an environment where they can't make any mistakes in the few social interactions they have, end up with no s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:01 PM
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Zero and zero
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:37 PM
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Autism is a huge one, I'd say the majority of men in the manosphere are neurodivergent. You'll struggle to have a serious relationship if you lack basic social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:15 PM
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If youre going to cheat and manipulate then don't bother dating. Erm what? When did I say anything about wanting to cheat or manipulate? Just save us all time and go fuck chad What are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:32 PM
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As someone I find to be very wise once said, always hate her… just a little bit. It keeps you objective. JFC just don't date What the hell is wrong with you people?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:13 PM
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She's obviously very insecure, not only would I not care if I had a partner who did that, it would be a huge turn off and I'd dump them if they were 'seeing other women'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:12 PM
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You're the one making the claim, so obviously you must know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:57 PM
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What percentage of divorcees get alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:48 PM
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Perhaps men should be better partners if they don't want women to leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:47 PM
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The government gives women alimony? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:45 PM
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Why are my standards too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:32 PM
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I've never met a virgin man who had the other traits I want in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:58 PM
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No, the vast majority of young women date guys own our age because... that's exactly what we want and feel attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:27 AM
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So when men become 30 they get more experienced, also financially more stabile which makes them confindent. we don't care tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:25 AM
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I'd happily pick the 1st if I'm with a hot guy my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:23 AM
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you will look hotter. It really doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:20 AM
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That’s because they’re around those guys and it’s socially acceptable for them to hook up. It’s really about environment and social norms. No, older men just aren't as attractive. Add in the calmness and self-assuredness of older age We don't give a fuck about this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:15 AM
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Yeah, when you're 20, 30 seems ancient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:08 AM
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No lol, we want someone our own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:07 AM
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The question is - what makes you think you’re so special to be entitled to such a man? Errrr, I want a man who is the same as me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:05 AM
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You think that's for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:54 AM
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Not so much anymore, more are waking up to the scam
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:48 PM
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I'm not from America and I'd rather not date someone from outside my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:23 PM
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They exist No they don't and I wasn't asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:01 PM
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I'm not sure how stating facts makes me a man hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:16 PM
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Well then just be happy with how your life is I'm getting there, becoming a single mother is likely next. your a woman and I doubt you will ever care to listen to a guy but you can get this part of your life handled if you really wanted to No, I can't make something that doesn't exist suddenly exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:01 PM
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Rare in overall numbers, but they cluster together. It's like living in rural Kansas wanting to date surfer dudes and then complaining that they're extremely rare. Well not really. The above are just a few things, but there are many others. Date with intention. Discover what the men you want, want in a romantic partner. Do your best to become that. But being like "I've tried absolutely nothing and I'm all out of ideas!" is probably not a good course of action. That's ridiculous and I never said …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:59 PM
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Do you know how hard it is for the average person to make just 6 figures? Duh, I wasn't born making this much. Your issue is your expectations are unrealistic and you complain instead of figuring out how to get what you want, altering what you want, or being content with what you got. I didn't say I want a man making 6 figures, I'm saying men don't come close. The average man in my country makes barely above minimum wage and lives with parents. Then that is a personal issue. The world has no obl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:10 PM
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Yeah don't you know only men are allowed to have standards? Us 'fee-males' are entitled and narcissistic if we want anything from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:05 PM
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The point is, these men are extremely rare. The issue is that your appeal doesn't match your standards. Either increase one or lower the other. But blaming men for not wanting you won't solve anything. How could I increase my appeal more? Lol. Well if men aren't holding themselves to high standards, there's nothing I can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:58 PM
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but past that you're not gonna find many virgins. Precisely. t's not hypocritical, but it can be unrealistic, and if you can't find a person like that who wants to seriously date you, then I don't think you can really call that "your level" Yeah, but no man even comes close, that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:54 PM
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Uh...they are rare, that's the point. Yes, that's exactly the point I'm making. The issue is the more stipulations you add the harder it will be to find what you want. I never even said I wanted that, but most men don't even come CLOSE and that's the issue. The issue might be you don't offer enough to the men you want who themselves have the ability to be very selective because so few of them exist. You also might be projecting some of what you like in men onto what those men might like in a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:32 PM
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Loyal financially successful men who are virgins and who haven't cheated in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:24 PM
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No, it's full of women warning other women about their exes and how their exes act after months/years in a relationship vs at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:16 PM
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No we don't. We now have entire facebook groups dedicated to warning women away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:53 PM
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I'm not asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:52 PM
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No, hence why I listed more things other than material wealth like past promiscuity that you chose to ignore for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:51 PM
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It's less just world fallacy and more assortative mating. The aggregate actions and choices of both men on your level choosing not to couple with you, and of men below your level thinking they have a shot with you puts you where you are. 'Men on my level' Where are the virgin men making 6 figures and owning multiple properties who've never cheated and are in great shape? Where are these men hm? have an inflated perception of themself and wrap their ego and pride up in it. In order to fix the iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:48 PM
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So the fact that there are very few virgin men out there must mean I'm not a virgin? What are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:45 PM
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My salary is objective, I can measure it. My lack of promiscuity is objective, I can measure it. My lack of debt is objective, I can measure it. My home ownership is objective, I can measure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:40 PM
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That's one relatively narcissistic way to look at it I suppose... Narcissism implies I have some kind of delusion and grandiosity, which I don't. Anyone from the outside looking in would recognize it as you not being able to attract a man that you want though. So the shoe fits. They don't know what I'm looking for in a man, I don't announce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:38 PM
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If you can’t find men that are “at your level” travel somewhere else and approach guys that you feel measure up to your standard. I don't think there's a secret island of men who have what I want. Men will probably love it if you make the first move. Absolutely not, this is horrible advice. Most men will act interested if a woman approaches them because they suspect they could use the arrangement to get casual sex or at least a one night stand, never ever doing that. It’s clear to me only undesi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:37 PM
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Okaaaay? So what would put me on a 'higher level'?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:34 PM
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How is it narcissism when these things are facts I can measure?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:27 PM
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How? If I'm not promiscuous, in shape and a homeowner and I can't find a man who is in shape, isn't promiscuous and is a homeowner, how exactly does that 'put myself on it'?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:26 PM
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Well men cheat more than women, so although they don't fill out the paperwork more, they more often than not cause the damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:24 PM
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Well I'm not choosing from 'any man on earth' I only want to date men of my own race and of a similar age so that knocks out a huge number already. Also yes, around me or in my vicinity, there are no men who can match or exceed what I have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:23 PM
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No, you just imagine that those things put you on a higher level than they actually do. ???? I never made any claim about what 'level' I think they put me on, I'm saying most men can't offer nearly as much. You overinflate your worth, guaranteed. Your first comment demonstrates this clear as day. I didn't say my sole value is salary and I also didn't say this indicates my worth. Go on then, since you clearly know more about me (a complete stranger) than I do, what exactly is my level? What is my…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:22 PM
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It's not about that, it's that no men can match what I have to offer, or even come remotely close. I can choose to go for a man, but I don't think it worth it so I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:20 PM
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How is it the level I 'imagine' myself to be on? I don't 'imagine' my salary, I see it in my bank every month. I don't 'imagine' my body being in good shape, I step on the scales and I see my weight. I don't 'imagine' my home ownership status, I walk into my home that I own every day. I don't 'imagine' my lack of promiscuity, it's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:09 PM
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How should women be grateful for men initiating something that they statistically benefit more from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:07 PM
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Insane lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:06 PM
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The link I posted about cheating is the most recent one. Up to you if you believe it or not. The most recent what? Where's the study? The headline of an online blog isn't a source, it isn't a study, there's no data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:01 PM
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Where are the stats around cheating? Also what does this have to do with the claims I made? You're not disproving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:58 PM
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When it comes to women you can only get what you are worth Just world fallacy. if you cant find men on some level you imagine for yourself then that's not your level. lol Hell you are probs more than one rung below that level as women when young can date up above their status. sucks to be you. This makes fuck all sense. So if I can't find a man with a certain characteristic, it must mean I don't have that characteristic myself? How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:55 PM
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...So then women are also dumb and don't know what's best for themselves and are also apparently especially vulnerable to snake oil salesmen? Sadly yes, but they quickly realise what a colossal shitshow they've signed up for, hence they initiate most divorces. I don't buy it. Though I do find the notion that some would try to attribute this as the reason for men's historic reluctance to get married to be amusing. Buy it or not, it's a fact that women suffer much more in relationships than men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:46 PM
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not true . There are no studies in this article, it's literally written as a hit piece, did you even read beyond the title? Violence in relationships is reciprocal and when it is not women are more violent. Attractive men are more likely to cheat and men with dark triad traits have more partners. These men with negative traits have no shortage of options. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:41 PM
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Then you’re not putting enough effort. How can I put in more effort? You sound like you want Chris Hemsworth to show up on your doorstep What about my posted hinted about wanting Chris Hemsworth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:05 PM
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There is no shortage of good men. Yes there is. Men are more likely to have just about every single negative trait and behaviour, cheating, narcissism, violent behaviour, etc. Even if you pair up all the cheater men and women, all the narcissistic men and women and all the violent men and women, you'll always end up with women leftover who are single and can't find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:02 PM
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Well I'm not able to speak to and access a billion men, it wouldn't be possible. But around me, no I can't and I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:57 PM
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Holy femcel: I'm not a 'femcel' if I can get men but don't want them. Lol bet your dumbass thinks men with high n counts are not on “your level” That's right, I'm a virgin and expect the same from my partner, where is the problem or the hypocrisy there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:48 PM
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Hun if you can’t find something “on your level” then the problem is you. I fail to see how that is the case. f men aren’t treating you how you like, you’re never going to be treated better by choosing a man on “your level.” You will only start getting treated better by men once you start acting better yourself I'm not sure how I could be 'acting better' Also this is peak just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:44 PM
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Erm no? If anything we can't find men on our level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:41 PM
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Why is it a trope that marriage is something women often have to cajole men into if men benefit significantly more from it than women? Shouldn't it be the other way around if that were the case? Because marriage is sold to women from a very young age as this perfect fairytale happily ever after with a beautiful romantic wedding to a man who will love and cherish you forever. Basically, marriage is something heavily marketed towards women. Are men just dumb and don't know what's best for themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:40 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:36 PM
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I'm on BC to help ease periods Have hardly any sex drive and i'm very glad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:17 AM
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Source? Also that would be 1 partner a year from a year from age 16-26
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:08 AM
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I already said "what if it is" you aren't even reading what I write you're so self absorbed in your little bubble of emotional reasoning and not even trying to follow the conversation. No you didn't say that at all and nice trying to gaslight me now with the 'wimmin are emoshunel' trope. Jfc just shut up. You're obviously trolling, reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:07 AM
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It's not but that's not feminism you're literally just making up your own definition lmao. Feminism isn't one definition, it changes over time and can include anything that furthers woman's right. actual feminism and that it has its roots directly in misandry, and as I've already said I actually support that due to a degree as it was a revolution. It's just that people need to start acknowledging it as true and stop lying or just... No it doesn't, some women doing things you don't like doesn't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:02 AM
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What the actual FUCK does that have to do with the people who began feminism as a movement? These women were a product of their time, also there is no 'starters' of feminism, it's just a lot of different women some with very different views fighting together for a common cause (the right to vote, equal pay, paid parental leave, etc) If you know anything about the Pankhursts, Emmeline actually had major political disagreements with her own daughter, the point still stands. What people are saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:51 AM
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Again, the pimp with traditionalist views? What's next? The vegan who eats meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:46 AM
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When did we fight for hookup culture? Also not all of us have been 'burnt' by it lol, we just refuse to date period
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:45 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:44 AM
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You ask "how" but even after reading this you won't accept it because it seems inherently bad. You do realise that women are people and sometimes disagree with each other right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:43 AM
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Women are the ones pushing to normalizing posting nude content online for money. Scratch that, I should save have normalized. Why are you changing the subject? Can you please explain how being an online pimp is 'having traditional values'?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:40 AM
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??? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:37 AM
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Incels are cheering for the guy who rips them off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:37 AM
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Feminism is designed to harm and disadvantage men and young boys. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:23 AM
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