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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMods, I strongly advise you to hand out more month long ban because when you gave me one it basically proved to be nice experience overall I guess I'm going to lay off the Reddit for a while P.S. I'll probably come back at purge just to troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:26 PM |
| – | Would you agree that body language signs dont mean anything ?Equal rights equal fights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:37 AM |
| – | Karen are just normal women that lost their halo effectAka women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:26 AM |
| – | CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average.Why? Because it doesn't fit your narrative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 01:45 AM |
| 4 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYYou don't have to make another option for units. Just make a few more choices in the height, that's it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 08:05 PM |
| 8 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYDon't bs me, you use fucking feet. At least add an option of meters to already existing ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:47 PM |
| 4 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYWhy not? Who in the world measures their height in inches? It doesn't tell me shit if someone says I'm 50 inches or 100 and I'm certain I'm not the only one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 14 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYFuck your inches and pounds. Do a normal system ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Fertility rate and marriage rates are a function of urbanization, not feminism or cultural attitudesyou accuse women of making themselves out to be victims when you are here crying that you can't get women, not through any fault of your own, but because women and chads are evil forces that.....victimize you? Don't hate the player, hate the game. I just dislike when women talk about dating as if they have problems in it while having complete control of the market. It's just disingenuous to complain when you are in total control of the market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Fertility rate and marriage rates are a function of urbanization, not feminism or cultural attitudesI can't come up with any other reason whyy they want more kids than they'd like except for longing for Chad, especially given how good they are at rationalising everything to make themselves seem victims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Fertility rate and marriage rates are a function of urbanization, not feminism or cultural attitudesNo need to troll It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Fertility rate and marriage rates are a function of urbanization, not feminism or cultural attitudesEven in the unlikely event that they adjust the workplace women would still want to procreate only with chads, so it wouldn't matter because chads are only so many | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.If “Chad” is only the upper-most level of men, it seems weird that you’re really searching to find a way to apply the title to simply having one (1) attribute that fits your ideal of a man. Upper-most level of men don't have a rigid image of a man. It's rather a group of men with above average attractiveness, aka "Chads", so yes, you dated these two "Chads", it's just they were more of a niche, but "Chads" regardless Next time you go outside, look at all the couples you see. Most of them are goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Everything that happens to men while dating, the inverse happens for women No. Women get the romantic gestures, men don't. Women can have their pick of partner, men don't. women have an upper hand in dating, men aren't completely powerless in the exchange "Aren't completely powerless" as you called it is literally to either suck it up or go home alone. There's no inverse happening to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.They were both really pretty, shared a lot of my interests Yeah, I made a mistake. They were looking good enough for you to go out with them. Sidenote, since men don't have a lot of makeup involved, their pretty features are good genetics, so in my previous reply I should've said that they are "Chad" in the sense of genetics I recognized one of them from a group I volunteered with before where we clean up trash around parks in the city. Social proof definitely helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:22 PM |
| -1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Yes I'd love for it to be different, but it's just the way it goes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Just no Women have the control of dating market, men don't If someone stood women up, it's on women If someone stood men up, it's not on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.They would still have to be "Chad" in the sense that they needed to be in the top category of other things like status or money, so while they probably weren't muscular, they were high enough status for you to go out with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:13 PM |
| -1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Women have the control of dating market in ways men can't even dream If a woman has a bad ex, she chose him from the myriad of other dudes, it's on her If a dude has a bad ex, he took what he can from one or two opportunities that arose to him, it's not on him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Women find majority of men unattractive, so even if you don't perceive these two dudes to be handsome, they probably were | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Women have the agency and ability to choose, men don't It's not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:58 PM |
| -3 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.And I get that it sucks being ghosted or stood up, it happens to us, too. Factually incorrect. Women get stood up by chads, men get stood up by average women. It's not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Honestly, I chill. I just thought I'd ask something because people love to bring up the idea that women find different men attractive when it couldn't be further from the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:23 PM |
| -3 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Good for you ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?The point is people still date as they always have Yeah, they date top guys in their friend group, just as they always have Who's not to say that men chased the top X% of women before being rejected by them It doesn't apply to men because average guy can't even come close to the top % of women, while average woman is capable of sleeping with top % of men, a luxury average guy will never have. Anecdotally, there's almost not a single story about how some average guy slept with female celebrity, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?I think it's not as straightforward as 80/20, it's more like 60/40 with a grey zone in the middle So you "feel" that it isn't true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?No, and? I really don't see your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?It really doesn't. You can't put two sticks in the sand and measure the shadow in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:58 PM |
| 0 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?It doesn't matter though. Even if they date now, who's not to say she chased top 20% of guys before getting rejected by them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?I have no idea really. We just had a convo about it with my friends so I decided to make a thread about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:54 PM |
| -3 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Both men and women act on the 80/20 rule. Irrelevant. Women have too much power in dating to flip it on men. Of course, you are not going to match as a bottom 50% man, if you focus basically all of your likes to the top% of women After the if I believe you meant "men" instead of "women", because top 10 percent matched with 58 percent of women they liked, which is insane number in and of itself, given how men have the tendency of liking every profile they come across Other than that, 70% of men o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:42 PM |
| -2 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Sorry, but no A lot of guys can relate to the sentiment of women going for the same guys because they experienced it before, in the right circle or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:42 PM |
| 0 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Why do you think people would date all the time in this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:40 PM |
| -8 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?It is absolutely an experience. If a guy sees women in his circle repeatedly go for 7-10 same guys, it is an experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Nice try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:33 PM |
| 6 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?If many people have the same experience, it's called sharing an experience and many guys share the experience of women going after the same men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:32 PM |
| 2 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?These are radically different things and can't be compared One is a scientific fact, and the other one is a societal norm, there's just no adequate comparison to be made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:31 PM |
| 0 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?Out and about, most people don't even know what that is. Maybe not as a "80/20" rule, but almost every guy I know can relate to the overall sentiment that women go for relatively same guys It would be true, if your average or unattractive men weren't dating, having relations, getting married etc....which they are With all due respect, it wouldn't matter even if it was true (when it isn't). Male experience isn't observed by women, so it's safe to ignore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Which of these two men would have more dating success? GENERALLYGuy B and it's not even close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Feminism’s wet dream may be possible in the near future as Male Killing virus discovered in insects.Bro, why you feed him like that, damn 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How many percent off taken Women/Men would cheat if the PERFECT Man/Women would appear?I'd wager that 70% of women will cheat, men probably much less so because it's too unrealistic to happen to men Not at all, women would cheat more because Maddison would simply lise interest cause hypergamy Basically while this scenario is somehow attainable for women, any female celebrity would deem average guy as beneath her and he'll be invisible to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYou try to pass it off as rational while it's completely the opposite If you have trouble with women, the last thing you want to do is to shoot yourself in the foot by lying and limiting your encounter to exclusively one time thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menYou take me for some kind of player while I'm far from it. It's just my understanding that even if you get a chance to get laid every once in a while, you still should not lie because if you lied and succeed, you will lose in the long term because you lied in the beginning. This is especially dumb to lie, because average guys won't have much options to get casual sex anyway, so their best bet is to be in the relationship, but with lying you literally chop off the stick you're sitting on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menHonestly, my experience is the exact opposite Being completely transparent made dating so much easier for me in both stress and effort that I'd advise to try it. And yeah, you will lose out on some of the women with that approach, but who cares? It's better to lose out on some than getting burned out by the dating after a month or so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Political Beliefs?I don't really know the term for it, I'm just a bit too tired of constantly worrying about something that doesn't affect me in any way idealistic I guess yeah. It's not that I have some horrible event that altered my beliefs or anything, I just have too much stuff to take care of, so I don't waste my energy on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 10:59 PM |
| 13 | Political Beliefs?Used to be socialist, now I don't give a fuck. I will support whatever suits me, regardless whether it's left or right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Is aggression and things like being disagreeable, maybe even being a bully, a turn on for women?To be fair, my biggest shitpost was here on the purge week and it started a damn war in the comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 10:12 AM |
| 10 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?You must be joking. The top communities are heavily PC, misogyny is only on the fringes, not mainstream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 06:02 AM |
| – | Some Housekeeping/Janny ServicesMf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:39 AM |
| – | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Men that is 7 is not average by default | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:42 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.I'm saying that any "biology" argument, yours included, indirectly advocates for rape because you imply that biology is good when it's in favour of women. Women date who they like, nothing wrong with that. Where I see the problem is when this argument extends to men. Women are attracted to minority of men, due to biology. So, the majority of men are undesirable. Then there's no reason for them to honestly try to date respectfully and normally, because biology. Why would a guy try to do it normal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:57 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.To be honest, given how often rapists go to jail it's not a valid consideration: (1) [2] I'm not saying that women should be banned from dating. What I'm saying is when you rationalise that women like minority of men due to "biology", you indirectly advocate for rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:36 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.No. My point is that, this whole biology argument endorses rape. It's not, in any way, instruction or suggestion for anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:34 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.If he managed to force himself on big enough number of women, he biologically won, regardless of where he ends up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:25 PM |
| – | Women have the upper hand in attracting the opposite sexIt's not antagonistic. It's just facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:16 PM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Tbh, the biggest problem I see with all the "biology" arguments is that they indirectly endorse rape Like, what's the reason for your average and below average guy to be respectful and trying to honestly date someone if he can try to overpower some woman and biologically win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:10 PM |
| – | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Idk how it relates to my comment though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:59 AM |
| – | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Women don't get rejected. Unless it's some disinterested 9/10 chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:41 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?In the current environment it's way too easy to misinterpret it as something antifeminist, which is guaranteed to cause a controversy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:42 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?Hygiene is important frfr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?I'm all for it. It would be nice, controversial and for a lot of memes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:32 AM |
| 29 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?Nice cock bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:23 AM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?It depends on the situation tbh. If I see a woman having problems with something I could help with, sure, I'll help if I can, but if it's something along the lines "Got chased by a mob", I will come nowhere near her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | if you were a young woman with no dating experience, how would you navigate the market?I guess it depends on how psychotic I would've been if I was a woman Exhibit A: Run a game to insurmountable levels, do everything RP teaches to do on women, but do it on the guys instead. First times will be difficult, but since experience could be acquired incredibly easy, the game will be insane. Free meals, free ride, free shit, giving and withholding validation, trying to orbit as many guys as possible... Yeah, pretty psychotic but useful Exhibit B: Date in the circle of friends. Red flags … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most red pilled posters on here are not red pilled. They are trying to use red pill for blue pill goals they’ll never achieveIt's being a doomer, not redpilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:31 AM |
| – | How to deal with feeling less attractive than women with Caucasian features?It's probably just a breakup thing. In many parts of the world you are exotic yourself. Try traveling, honestly, nothing gives bigger self esteem than dating outside your own country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 11:28 AM |
| 17 | The red pill imagery really resonates with young men and fathers should consider adopting it to get through to their sonsThis imagery is valid only for those who have never seen respectable men with their own eyes. The best thing a father can do is become one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on datingIt's bad overall, but even if it's bad, it shouldn't be taken literally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 A lot of rejections, but if one succeeds, you found a keeper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:12 PM |
| – | CMV : Mating for genetic strength and rearing the child as a tribe is the most natural human state and we’re returning to itUs clearly becoming more conservative Wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Their views are like Pandora box, you never know what to expect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Make them pay for meals and you're a full-blown escort! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Good advice in general, but also not really helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 I mean as the worst advice possible, 1/10 is actually great advice, so I assume you meant 10/10 7/10 is because generally women have no clue about what flies and what's not because they are on the receiving side, but I guarantee, if you talk to a girl that had a glow up, you'll have a valid advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 Just say no to him, should be easy enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 (11/10 with a bonus) Lock her in the basement until her hormones go back to norm after suggestion, no use talking to w🤮men while they're emotional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Women can lie but not all women are liars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Be literally Patrick Bateman and you will find success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Simp agenda never dies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Might work on people who knew you at your worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Neckbeard has a girlfriend™ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Gotta find those women with low self esteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 "The Pity Fuck is real!!" <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 Don't forget to disappear when she becomes a baby mama! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 The best way to set yourself up for failure in this day and age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 It's called soft approach, and it's actually pretty useful when done right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating11/10 Great idea! Bonus point for minors! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Without playing games you might get a better relationship than otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Her attention will be yours guaranteed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Unpopular opinion: In the psych ward, there should be annual Twerkathon, where a person who twerks the best gets back into society no matter what they did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Generic enough to work once in a blue moon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Great advice! After the deed, Better Call Saul! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating5/10 It could backfire but it's not that terrible imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Too many simps to be invalid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 If your cold approach sucks, you're doomed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 So alpha, so cool. Straight to the point to show this bitch who's wearing adult pants here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Gotta show em bitches that alpha's in the house Edit: I'm sorry it happened to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Without playing games you might get a better relationship than otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Great idea, don't forget to bring your liberal friend with you so he can always remind you of the Reddit way, the right way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 One day his slap of the ass will bite him in the ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Don't forget to make a dragon. Prince's gotta slay something for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Friendzone bros welcome you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 Toddlers will teach you responsibility 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Women tend to skip some things in discussions, but I doubt they're always lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Great way to end up being a cuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 You can feel the spiritual energy of many men come inside you during sex (Applies to small number of promiscuous women though) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 The best relationships are abusive relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Give me your WORST advice on datingSaid it like a true player. The best game is the one where you always win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Works only for women and male models | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Give me your WORST advice on dating8/10 Don't forget to blame women when she leaves you for money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Hitting is his love language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Without playing games you might get a better relationship than otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 These brothas be preaching yo. Just remember to date on sugar babe sites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 Life's a game yo. Get big or die trying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 Everyone loves getting rejected, right?...right?... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 "I can fix her/him" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Give me your WORST advice on dating9/10 My way or highway yo. If the bitch can't handle the heat, why would you want to get into the relationship with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 It's okay to be virtuous, but it doesn't help in dating in any way. However, it might be useful in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 You might get lucky with unconventional approach, but noone likes desperation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Give me your WORST advice on dating6/10 Looks matter, but without personality behind them you'll be quickly out of luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Give me your WORST advice on dating7/10 Advice is so generic, it might just help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:43 PM |
| 8 | Give me your WORST advice on dating10/10 Tate simps are renowned alpha males, join them bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I believe as a man you have two options. Accept and prepare for a life alone or go all in on raising your SMVAh, you should edit your previous comment because it reads exactly like having instinctual knowledge Some guys are just that: bitter (or maybe hurt, idk/don't care). Me personally? The smarter/more capable girl, the better, but hey-ho, it's just me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:19 PM |
| 5 | CMV : I believe as a man you have two options. Accept and prepare for a life alone or go all in on raising your SMVNo-one knows something just because they're woman or man. It's like saying that every guy knows how to fix a car just because he's a guy. Without your first paragraph your comment makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How much would you rate yourself out of 10, and why?Man, 5/10 I was called cute a few times. I'm 183 cm. Cold approach works for me. So yeah, probably 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | 'Getting women' by lying and manipulating them isn't reflective of skill, it's just coerciveWomen hate average men regardless of how kind or honest he is. By abandoning stupid outdated ideals of doing it "the right way" a guy will have more success than otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I don't see anything wrong with a husband wanting a chad treatment from his wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:30 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Karen's are rather an outliers though. Most women, I'd wager, are celebrated for the most delirious takes without any push back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Guys are just venting about being utterly invisible for years and then, after a long dry spell, they finally see an interest from women, only to have to jump through hoops, while others didn't have to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:21 PM |
| 20 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Yeah, top 20% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:44 AM |
| 3 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Can you really blame them though? Rejection hurts af, by this point cold approach is only for the dudes with thicker skin, because of how skewed everything against guys is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: average people are attracted to other average people and aboveI actually did a post about the dating app simulation and let me tell you: a median score of matches for men is zero. "The vast majority of likes to the top men" was even approved by one of the Hinge devs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanGigachad. Looks, status, etc. A Gigachad would probably have more options than average woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:09 AM |
| 0 | Touching grass is good adviceStill, compared to OLD, cold approach has reasonable demands on looks because you don't compete in the environment where literally every guy around her throws himself at her. Furthermore, you disregard an opportunity to chat her up and move on from there. If you're funny enough and capable of chatting up strangers, you can go for it while not being outstanding in terms of looks. Are there guys who are ugly ducklings that won't be able to pass looks filter, even in cold/warm approach? Yes, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Touching grass is good adviceThey overlap, no questions about it What you don't consider is that on OLD the filter is looks. In cold approach, it's more of a combination of social awarenesses, looks, rizz, etc. Due to it being a combination of things, instead of just one, dating will be different than OLD and that's why this advice persists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Touching grass is good advice"Men take what they can get" removes any semblance of accountability from the guy. If you don't have the backbone to say no to a relationship that you're obviously not going to like it's on you, not on women You can make fun of it all you want but it is what it is I'm not making fun of it. I'm saying that the most helpful RP advice is far from being uniquely RP. For instance: hitting the gym is helpful , but well overused adviced that somehow attributed to RP. It's not, in any way, RP. It's just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceThe thing with dating apps is that they are made in a way that results in gigantic failure for men. Pretty much everything, from user ratio to disparity guarantees failure. Touch grass in that sense is rather saying that dating in person is easier, because it removes a lot of problems and perceptions that are induced by OLD I have to admit though, there are times when this advice is rather toxic, but it's still doesn't diminish it's value outside those instances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceI'm not going to pretend that there are people who settle for someone or that there's someone for everyone, but you don't need RP to figure out that. Ideas like "Men take what they can get" that is common in TRP will absolutely get you settled down for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Touching grass is good adviceI'm not even sure it's ideology tbh. It's more of a common sense + teenage edginess + a pint of bitterness = TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Can a woman's attitude lower or cancel out her physical attractiveness?Of course. If she's being a bitch, it's time to bounce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceBro, you should reply to Automod with this, because it's not challenging my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceYes, I agree. Trying and failing is called touching grass, it's okay, it's natural, as well as it's helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceBro, there's literally an assumption of betas and alphas as well as AWALT that all women either see you as alpha or beta. It's not adapting, it's untruthful assumptions at best. There's zero adaptations and the only good advice like go to gym and don't make women your priority isn't unique to RP, it's coincidental | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceI'm not sure how it relates to my reply tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceBut when you "go redpill" you assume that you know everything about other people, and it's simply not true. And this example is just one of many. For example there's an assumption that a girl might say no because you don't have enough "game" and it's equally false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceI'm saying that if you can befriend women, you already know how to talk to them. Escalating is up to the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Touching grass is good adviceIt leads to RP only if you assume you know everything about people around. For instance, a girl could say no due to infinite amount of reasons, not because she's banging chad behind doors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceStill, knowing how to come off in a friendly way is important, especially with sexual intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Touching grass is good adviceIsn't talking to women a prerequisite to making friends with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Touching grass is good adviceYeah. I miss these vast green fields from time to time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Question for Red PillersSince I started implementing RP I was able to reach body count of 8, compared to 0 beforehand. The main things which are strictly RP that helped me are maintaining frame, willful neglect, keeping the door open, stuff like that. So yeah, practically speaking it's a success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change?Fax yo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you?They can't tell shit unless it's obvious. No-one is a mind reader, your game is basically to not get caught | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you?Honestly, if you have poor social skills, you ought to use OLD. Texting and assertiveness is doable by practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect partnerI'm from Ukraine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect partnerPro-Ukraine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect partnerModerate as if more conservative or liberal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Describe your perfect partnerBlack hair Any colour will do 5'7 and more Athletic build Equal Don't really care (If lower, I'll try to help however I can, if higher, I'll try to catch up, if equal, I'll try to encourage so that both of us topping the field) Don't care, just not incredibly promiscuous (Like less than 30) The same as 7 Don't care Hetero My or older or maybe slightly younger (I'm 22) I don't have strict requirements, but the stance on the Ukraine war is a dealbreaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 06:50 PM |
| 25 | Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you?Reading social cues and not being overly pushy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 20 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornAnd what about lesbian porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:57 AM |
| 5 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.You won't know how to aim if you never shoot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.Keep preaching lol You gotta shoot your shot or you'll be regretting it later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Where do you all go for dates? What is the general cost?Almost exclusively coffee dates. 280 Yen is for my favourite cup, so roughly 2$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:44 AM |
| 16 | Red pillers, what made you believe in what they preach?I just wanted some dating advice. No-one really explains the "You're such a great guy" situation where the said guy gets literally nothing while more questionable guys do like RP. On top of that, it gives quite a good framework to work with on the dates. So yeah, when it worked and suddenly I'm not being made to indefinitely wait for sex, I just went along with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:37 AM |
| – | Women are way more forgiving of physical appearance than menHell, I remember this video, it's fucking insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to only like super clingy girls?Bro, crazy girls are fun until she threatens to castrate you and smashes your favourite cup in a temper tantrum My honest advice: tread lightly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?I guess it depends on how wide you can stretch the phrase that RP is morally ambiguous. If we're going all out, then majority of women are in a bit of a r@pe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?I guess it's in the category of "It is what it is", because women make it impossible at times to believe they even like average men, let alone something bigger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible?A big all out war could absolutely do it, but then everyone would be busy cleaning up the mess after the war than solving problems of men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 12 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?If it happens just lie about it and pump and dump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:25 AM |
| 3 | CMV : We can’t redistribute love and desire but we can destigmatize and accept AF/BB as the norm and embrace itGiven the rates of divorces, healthy marriages aren't the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV : We can’t redistribute love and desire but we can destigmatize and accept AF/BB as the norm and embrace itDoesn't matter. "Her money is her money but his money is ours" is still common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Men naively think that a woman can love them and treat them well. Obviously no woman is capable of love, that's why women create the difference in treatment and men's complaints | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:31 AM |
| 4 | The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to womenI made a post about simulation of the dating apps. There, problems for men start to snowball at the point when ratio of men to women is introduced, so I disagree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Ngl I would be weirded out. It's so uncommon it will be weird to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?Honestly, after applying Red pill I did get some success (mind you, it's not big. I basically went from bc of 0 to 4), but in the process you lowkey realise that you can't be 100% red pilled in dating. RP proposes too many skewing generalisations that are rather insecure than objective, so you might want to step away from it for at least some time. Some advice of RP is spot on. Maintaining frame is useful af. You also need to escalate to avoid friendzone, so there's points to RP too. But when a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?I was aiming to get sex. Turns out, it useful only for this, cause I got it. Everything else like marrying barely legal virgin or god forbid political views is utter shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:22 AM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?There's a difference between showing RP traits and speaking up about one's beliefs. If you maintain frame , it's good, but if you maintain frame and say that you find RP to be true and talk about hypergamy and stuff, then yeah, it's over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 09:45 AM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Basically you will have to avoid relationships, because if you get into one and she sees RP, consider it ended | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?To be honest, the "many women" argument isn't good because if majority of women are x, then BB will likely encounter women who are x rather than any else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?True lol. It's especially funny when the political takes are just straight up delusional, but sold as a truth under a mask of RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Yeah, that's more reasonable and unprovable on my part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?True. I agree with you. It's really empowering, but unfortunately there's a lot of rather bitter men in RP that heavily skew any discussion away from the common sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Dayum, that's fair point. Intention is largely overlooked in these discussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?And why it's a lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Unironically, it's only when I stopped listening to women I found some success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?To go along as devil's advocate, you'd be setting him up for failure if she's known as a slutty, but acts conservatively with him. It just means she's not attracted to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?And what if he wants to date? Would you try to discourage him from RP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I've come to realize that not only you don't need RP to take care of yourself, RP itself is common sense, wrapped up as if it's something edgy and ground braking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Ngl, this is what prompted that post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Almost everyone knows at least one person that slays. AF/BB premise is built on AF being far less numerous than BB, so it's natural that he couldn't name a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I'd play the devil's advocate. Tell him to describe a beta and then to find 10 examples in the real world. AF/BB is built on a premise that AF is far less numerous than BB, so it's not a valid point A beta is basically any man who is in a relationship. A beta isn't only a guy who isn't in a relationship. A beta is a guy that goes through hoops and loops for a girl to achieve something which she gave for free to other men, relationship included | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Of course you won't, but you will have to mind every step of your dating because if she realises it, she'll just leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I disagree. It's not how persuasion or convincing works. You can push someone with your words to think over their actions and change the perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Ngl, it's kinda what prompted this post. I was going out lately and I thought RP is just the key, the secret, the best and stuff. Then I told my RP beliefs to a two of my friends, that are natural players, my brother and my friend. One of them refused to speak about it, as he outright called it cap. My brother indulged and after a hundred 'you're an idiot', his response to almost every RP talking point was 'Duh'. So, yeah, made me question RP beliefs, but AF/BB is the one I'm struggling to let g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?And what if he points out a few irl examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Good point, but as another commenter said, there's a difference when Alpha pays and Beta pays. To Alpha it's courtesy, to Beta it's necessity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Good point, but I doubt that it's enough to sway someone away from RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?If I was in these shoes, I'd try to give different explanation of what's happening. Like, a driver is mad not because you showed him middle finger but because he's in a hurry, that kind of thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Karaboğa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?But what if he's doing okay? What would it change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?RP in general is an obstacle in dating, because if the girl realises that you have it, she'll leave you, so you have to conceal it at every step | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?This rings true in my experience. Eastern (and not only asian in that sense) women are attracted to the same that women in the west are, idk where is that believe comes from that they are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Lmao. It's not related to the post, but two chads I know irl are blue pilled af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?But maybe it's not... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I can't see why a good faith convo couldn't be made. Pretty normal believe to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?But you can do that without RP. Honestly, pretty much everything RP teaches is common sense wrapped up in edgy style | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:55 PM |
| 12 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?It's a bit of a wishful thinking that Chad doesn't end up in a good relationship. He has experience and options to filter and pick a woman through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?Idk who they are so it doesn't tell me much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:43 PM |
| 8 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?If a girl gets a whiff of RP, she'll leave Besides, you don't need to uphold its beliefs to use its framework for navigating dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Let's say you have a redpilled friend that doubts his beliefs. How would you disprove AF/BB to him?I'd say that it's probably for everyone, even if it's thought experiment, it counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?My school. Think about tinder ratio of men to women but irl. Almost everything that RP preaches could be seen, with some notable exceptions of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women, especially those on the younger side, crave excitement and adventure, not stabilityBro, crazy girl is a nightmare, not a blessing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to define average-looking by measuring how many people think you look cute vs. "scientifc set of physical traits"?I think it's better to have rather 'scientific' because you might have a room full of sportsmen and your average guy will be a zero because hypergamy, but in another environment he will be 5 or 6 Also, that guy is either 4 or 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:32 AM |
| 12 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.In relationships as well. Like, what effort do you put into relationships that men don't? She'll be able to monkey branch the moment someone better comes, doesn't sound like putting effort in current relationship to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:13 AM |
| 22 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.And women don't even do that. Y'all live in tutorial mode | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:05 AM |
| 34 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Talk about fragile female ego lmao, where they don't have to do shit to have easy mode forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:03 AM |
| 12 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.It's probably a compliment to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:59 AM |
| 4 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Women have zero problems. Just being decent is a pick me. Y'all such a leeches, lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:56 AM |
| 8 | Irl dating online dating, in your experience which one is more optimal and why?Irl is just easier, at least for me. I've never really had much success on dating apps and to be fair I found them incredibly demoralising. Irl you just talk to person, maybe you can leverage a moment to your advantage, it's not just your looks but also your rizz and social awareness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating App simulation and its resultsCold approach if you're not scared to take L Meeting someone through friends group is probably the way to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Dating App simulation and its resultsThey probably have no idea what average experience even looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Dating App simulation and its resultsThe only thing I can think of to make it work is to artificially remove user ratio, since it seems like all the problems start there and snowball into bigger toxicity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating App simulation and its resultsInteresting POV. I'll play the devil's advocate and say that Tinder is a marketplace, but less of a product, but more of finding a right person for the job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Dating App simulation and its resultsIt heavily influences irl because online dating pushes other types of dating out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Dating App simulation and its resultsYou are effectively an exception, given how numbers work against it I think in person it's better because you can actually use something to your advantage, not just a picture with a bio | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating App simulation and its resultsI have no idea where did you get the idea that men love dating apps. The only positive about them is that they have no bar to entry, but it's not specific for men Also, unironically, women are not a monolith, so your explanation works only for a portion of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating App simulation and its resultsGood for you for finding your bf What are your thoughts on the simulation? Does it describe your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:18 AM |
| 7 | Dating App simulation and its resultsDue to the numbers of likes, only women can realistically concern themselves with quality of the matches. The men will quite literally take what they can get I'm not sure why you think that users aren't representing a sizeable demographic. Online dating is actively replacing any other dating, so it's okay that it's representative of a chunk of population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating App simulation and its resultsI absolutely agree with you on this. A guy shouldn't concern himself with how some girl might think of him, he should do it for himself, as it's better than alternatives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Dating App simulation and its resultsWhile I agree, unfortunately online dating is replacing all other kinds of dating (sadly), so it's not an option to ignore it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Dating App simulation and its resultsIt's probably one of the most fastest conclusions there is - to get off the dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Cmv : I now believe women are actually right. Maybe mens personalities are a bigger problem than I believedYou described maintaining frame in a blue pill language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:10 PM |
| – | The Reason Non Western Men don't find success dating in the Western WorldYour idea of non western first gen guy is incredibly narrow and is rather detached from reality. The biggest winners in dating I know are non western. An african guy, straight out of Nigeria had no problem slaying chicks. My brother is non western, and he never had a problem slaying chicks, and no, it's not because he's drug dealer and shit, but because they are more confident, more straightforward, they don't overthink shit. Mind you, neither of them are drug addicts or ugly. However, me, a non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:09 PM |
| 70 | There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance, and they are so mostly for the same reasons as men.Women are single because they rejected potential suitors. Men are single because they have no suitors. It's not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Women arent destroying masculinity, men areI think they just rarely see someone who could be qualified to be named "man", so they think masculinity is dead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I'd either try to keep up or get myself ready for her hypergamy to kick in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity?Couldn't have said it better I'd rather be a cripple than a cuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:09 AM |
| 2 | What Are Your Thoughts On Straight Men?🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Dark Triad Traits are the best quality to have to attract women, for long term committment and loyaltyI disagree with you on chivalry. It could work, if you had already displayed DT traits because it would signal to her that she's special and gives her tingles Everything else is just spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Yes I did. It is fun, you can talk about stuff other guys could label gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: What lessons are you taking away from the Jonah Hill text leaks?You will never be in the right if you're a man, that's my main lesson. Also, if you're done with a girl, delete the chat by any means necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4A What partner would you prefer to marryB all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's dating preferences propel hegemonic masculinity and gender normsSociety is less critical of the bums, it's not critical of masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:36 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Misogyny doesn't hinder your success in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 5 | What dating advice would you give to women?I hope not lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 26 | What dating advice would you give to women?Kind of. I'm going to go with example of my sister. She dated a guy named John. He was physically big, seemingly intelligent, polite, etc. He wanted to be a movie director and he put a few theatre plays. My sister didn't spot any potential concerns, because he was employed, polite, never raised his voice, was seemingly smart and respectful. Everything she could ask for, really, so she started dating him. Where's the caveat, you ask? His career in theatre, he boasted so much about wasn't nearly a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 11:22 PM |
| 51 | What dating advice would you give to women?You have to screen for any potential dangers early on with cold head, but it's ok since a lot of women do it already. MY advice, would be to continue screening for them further into relationship too, because a lot of women look at the person closely only at the beginning, and then wonder why it turned out the way it did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionUnfortunately they did. What I'm saying is that not a proof of anything. These articles are plenty because of the current trends, but it doesn't mean all men will kill, rape or do anything of the sort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionIt's baseless assumption created by women, who really can't take any rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionAnd? One article isn't proof of anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | what do men really think of female virgins?I wouldn't really pay much attention to it, but it honestly depends on why is she a virgin and whether it was spoken about or not. I'm not a mind reader, so I can't just know if she is or isn't. As for the reasons: Religiously? No quarrel Some personal reason, like a fear of intimacy? No quarrel Focused on career, didn't want to do it? No quarrel "I just hate men"? I'm not willing to participate in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?I like some women sure. I don't care about the rest tbh, you can burn and rot for all I care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you support alternate expressions of masculinity? Why or why not?I'm one of those guys that look more feminine than masculine, so I definitely sympathise and cheer on those that try to express it somehow differently With that being said, I don't really support those guys who are into furry/some other cringy stuff, because I find it somewhat repulsive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.Women have infinitely more options then men and still go for thugs. Comparison doesn't work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Nailed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Who do the really attractive women end up with?I'm going to say that it entirely depends on the woman in question. My sister, for instance, despite being one of the smartest people I know, chose bad and recently broke up with a man child of a bf, and another example is my uncle's wife who is quite attractive. Their situation is that due to unforeseen circumstances they literally couldn't return back home from the holiday trip, but they didn't fret and managed their problems so well that they uprooted their life and now comfortably live in Ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill really teach guys to manipulate women into sex, if they don't want it?Women will have casual sex with more dominant/successful/attractive guys and be in the relationships with less attractive guys, aka Beta Buxx. The idea is that if you're not very attractive, you should appear safe and then pump and dump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingYour example doesn't really prove anything. She's making too much money to be a good counter example of AF BB. We also don't know how her relationships were, it's possible that she already did AF BB, and now she's just alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I mean, duh, of course. This is ridiculous thing to be controlling about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:39 PM |
| 3 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Because you will be controlling if you did so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:06 AM |
| 3 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I wish more women understood that advising men to hold out for the better partner never works. And for the question... I'd say, How can you insist that women find different things attractive and yet guy's attractiveness treated more like a cast than a spectre? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Yes. My ex had the best sex like ever (I know, I know, my body count isn't high, but what she gave me was more than enough) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 08:57 AM |
| 2 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I admire how in the sea of options they consistently try to secure the best. Honestly, I hope those women who are truly oppressed (I mean Arab countries or Africa or Asia, not the cushy US, Canada or EU), were given freedoms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokePreach baby preach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why?Women have nothing to offer to men as an advice because of how different it is for them. It's really that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:42 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.Factually incorrect. Women in relationships only take without giving shit. You might as well just pum and dum because that's all they have at the end of the day I agree with your last take though that probably the most dudes that had natural success don't even think in such categories, but it doesn't mean that I or anybody else is weird because we had to learn the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?Hello земляк. I am one of those guys who genuinely believed that I was ugly, but then, when I actually started to date, I found out that I'm more normal looking then I let on. It just probably stems from the experiences that noone finds you attractive, so you believe that you're ugly, as simple as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 11 | You get $10,000 if you can make your date reject you in under 1 minute, how do you do it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICShit on the table. Straight up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | In what ways could both sexes come to a better understanding?I admit that going out IRL will do everyone good. I don't share the idea that going out will clear someone's opinions like red pill, because it certainly didn't in my case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:27 AM |
| – | You don't need to go outside!I'm not sure if this is trolling or you being serious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male).It's not about that. It's about speaking without caring what will think of you when you do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:42 PM |
| 14 | Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male).Unironically based and I agree with you on the most part. Even though I'm not a Tate supporter, it needs to be said that Tate became popular in the different manner. Leaving aside his titles as a kickboxer, he got popular because he wasn't afraid to speak up on what he had in mind and he didn't gave much fucks about how will he be perceived. It's a different aspect of masculinity too (the most controversial nowadays), the one you didn't type out in your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?Much easier time dealing with abuse. Nothing more to say about it More freedom/choice. Not much else to say about it More women in the workplace. I guess it's controversial to say for the guy who subscribes to rp, but I think it's positive since noone wants an adult toddler in the kitchen, while you run around doing everything Other positives are tangible only under certain circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?If she can't be alone for extended period of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: How many women do you know actually "dual mate"?In my experience: a sister and 3 friends, but whenever I hear a story about women's cheating it is always recognisable AF BB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Very fucking equalNot at all. In truth this post was high quality bait, as women participated in the war as nurses and were actively against it (not denying that there were pro war women btw). I can't help it, I just love chaos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | why should women date you?I don't want it to get political, so I'll just say from poorer side in Easter Europe (it's quite rare due to my current location: japan) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | StandardsLmao, I didn't even notice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Very fucking equalI'm just tired of being made a threat just for lulz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:42 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsBecause looks dont trump personality. If someone is dealing with a hot person with red flags, most people would avoid them. And yet all stories women tell about their abusive ex prove otherwise. Their ex was hot enough to get laid with them and his personality didn't matter until later (and it's assuming that it's the main reason of the breakup) Im sorry, are you seriously saying that its not insane to want to associate with pedophiles? On the contrary, I agree with you that it's insane, in fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:27 PM |
| 2 | I guess we would all love to participate in that sort of discussionsEverything in it is perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Some girls do suck but you guys are insane in the conclusions you have reachedSounds like a win in my book <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Smegma males of reddit, what is the biggest sex you turned down for sigma reasons?If I had sex with her after breakup, it'll mean that we're back together. I turned it down so that my ex will stay my ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:54 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsNo it doesnt. Shallow people typically ignore to go after rich or hot people. Why do you think that only shallow people go after them? In one of the screenshots from the chadfish, he makes it clear that he is a child rapist, and it's not like only women who will go after him are crazy. I'd argue it's your average women who somehow rationalised it to themselves and went through it. No, it proves my point well. Most guys don’t want women who cum for pedophiles. They would see her as a walking red … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Purge SuperlativesI will win at the worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:44 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsUnless they are disfigured or have abnormalities, people can get dates regardless of looks. They just have to be reasonable about it. Chadfish proves that good enough looks trump personality. A good looking child rapist will get more play than average guy, disproving your point environment that you're in It's related, but not defined by personality. A guy can have a knack for math and he will appear more capable within math class than if he could during art class As an adult, people can move. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:36 PM |
| – | Purge Superlatives😎😎😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:23 PM |
| – | Special screwdriverCan't remember it, sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:18 PM |
| – | Purge SuperlativesI guess I'll win in at least one category due to sheer number of posts lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:17 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsLooks, environment that you're in, geography, current dating trends, social status and these all are out of the top of my head. I'll say a bit more about second point (environment that you're in) as it could be unclear what I mean by that. It's essentially where you at on the macro level, be it workplace or a bar. Your value could be different in two different bars or in two different workplaces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:13 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsIt is a double standard though, as it is assumed that you constantly have to be man enough to not care about countless rejections, while there's no such thing for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:03 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsPersonality isn't as detrimental to the success though as other factors. Other factors are far more important, to the point where it's logical to not assume it matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:00 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsIt's still an overwhelming majority. Average dude won't get hit on, and even if it happens, it's so rare, it's not even worth discussing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:58 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsDoesn't mean you're immune to it. You can still participate in them just not in this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:57 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsCompetition between being killed or conquered and not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:15 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsI am not denying that there exist double standards for women too, but they collectively are what introduce confusion into discussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:14 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsCompetition I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:12 PM |
| – | The biggest reason of disconnect between men and women in dating are double standardsYou are only reinforcing my point, by stating that there's different expectations due to different genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:10 PM |
| – | Say whatever you want, but I instantly like this woman more than any 100 ig girlsI guess it only matters where it's thick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | why should women date you?I honestly don't give a shit, as I'm clueless. Maybe cause rare ethnicity? All in all, I just date and that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:05 PM |
| – | When a guy says his preferences, it's always something to beholdI really hope you'll paint my brains over the walls for this crime😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:06 AM |
| – | When a guy says his preferences, it's always something to beholdI'm all in, Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:48 AM |
| – | When a guy says his preferences, it's always something to beholdI just love the kind of woman who will fuck me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Good looking guys are not always bad (it's a strawman)And yet they didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:13 AM |
| – | When a guy says his preferences, it's always something to beholdHello beautiful 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:12 AM |
| – | Some notes to the redpillers hereU do u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:13 PM |
| – | Some notes to the redpillers hereIDK why would anyone engage in debate with Lilith because she's your typical FDS type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | I love itMe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | I love itNice. Very nice. Let's see Paul Allen's cry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | I love itIf I sent you my picture in DM's would you rate me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I love itNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | I love it"You're such a harpy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Even SIRI is a h*eIt's over, chargerbros | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Hey that's my GF!You're such a great guy for empowering her tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Just a reminder for anyone who has debated me on here that I look like thisOmg brother, your opinions are 100000% more valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Average redpiller in front of a womanAlpha male is in the house💪, and you know exactly how it sounds💥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a need😡There's already one on your right hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversHow is the guy supposed to learn if he doesn't get any action? It's easy for women to say because they can rack up massive numbers with 7-10 men easily, but it's not for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if men were as picky as women?90% of incels lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:15 AM |
| 4 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?It's called a dick pick and I'm not sure there's a big audience for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:22 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of incels?I agree with you, but only in the case where a guy has experience. In the incel's case though, it's probably necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:35 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion of incels?I would argue that it's okay if the relationship implodes, a guy actually gets experience of what it's like to be in the failing relationship + he will have better understanding of what he actually wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:27 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion of incels?I think you're just incorrect. A guy can pull a girl through various means, having his shit together is a bonus, not a requirement. Look at criminals, or broke but confident guys, or nerdy okay looking guys, they all pull girl through different mechanisms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:12 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of incels?I don't think it's even reasonable to say if anyone is "ready" for girlfriend or not. You either pull or not, it's just that expectation on the gf will be destroyed in under two weeks into relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 30 | What is your opinion of incels?IMO, their biggest delusion is their idea that once they get a gf, they will fix everything wrong with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 11:50 AM |
| 18 | What is your opinion of incels?They are someone I feel sorry for but I would never help them myself. They (in general) have zero experience so they delude themselves into thinking that they will fix everything once they get a girlfriend so they postpone putting a work into themselves for longer and longer periods and then, when it blows up in their face, they will blame women because in their minds, one gf is all they need to start working on themselves. It's a spiral into nothing, these guys are actually someone who could be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?But you did went on the dates with them, they did catch your attention. Your experience doesn't refute my point, it just states that you preferred guys from a relationships rather than casual, but you also didn't mention if those guys from relationships were able to find casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 09:39 PM |
| 13 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?Garbage take. You don't value it cuz you're taking it for granted. A guy who has a bunch of women sleeping with him without anything resembling long term has a game and a frame, both essentials for a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?A man who had lots of casual sex will be experienced, not at all "ran through", not my problem biology is different There's also a thing that women release more hormones than men during sex, making their pair bonding worse than their male analogue Besides, having experience will help a guy to get into desired relationships as he would even know what to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:45 PM |
| 36 | App for lonely men -"Men just want to feel like someone cares"It's crazy to see how neutral article about it is. Affiliate marketing my ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?talking about mental health I think it's okay as long as you show that you can handle the heat. Idk what you mean by being "too animated" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 05:23 AM |
| 14 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?I think the sweet spot is showing that you're not a machine, but simultaneously not being a little bitch about your problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 05:05 AM |
| – | Do you think the red pill could actually help lonely men get laid and get in a relationship?I'll speak for myself only (22M). It did help me get laid and get into relationship, however: It helped me to get laid, but it doesn't mean it magically made women attracted to me. Before RP I have been on only 1 date, that went poorly, after it I have been on ~16 dates in the span of 7 months and my bc right now is 6, compared to 0 before, which is a lot of progress if you ask me. It helped me to get into a relationship, but it wasn't good one. It ended after 4 months of near constant fighting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:23 AM |
| 0 | Everything TRP states is true, but only for low-socio social circlesDo you have any facts to back that up, or you just speculate on the elitism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.Idk, I managed to pull first relationship through RP tools. It wasn't good relationship, but it still counts and better than none | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect.The main body of TRP's advice is amoral. Lift, chase money, etc. It's a set of tools, not of a beliefs. Some advice could be viewed in a bad way like anything with PUA, but it's ok because almost everyone has at least some controversial acts from time to time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:18 AM |
| 5 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessThis post is very normal. It saddens me that it needs to be said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessAmen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.I don't understand those who are surprised too. Women like capacity of violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?I think it's just a combination of "unlucky" and "below average guys. A guy could already have moved out of parent's house and works for a living but dating scene is rigged too much against him so he doesn't have a success or the guy who lives with his parents just isn't attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:24 AM |
| 0 | Q4allWell, if a man knowingly allows his wife to fuck around, he's not a man at all, so yeah. I'd go ahead with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Yes, they are. Inconsistent emotionally unavailable guy = guy who gives tingles. Thoughtful guy isn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverIt got me redpilled too. I kinda justify lying with amount of options they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:43 AM |
| – | the biggest issue with the RP is that it views ‘male nature’ in the best light and ‘female nature’ in the worstSo... Where's the issue exactly? "Female nature" celebrated everywhere as a good thing, just because there's one group of people that thinks male one is better doesn't seem like a big issue to me I'd argue it's more of an issue that if you don't shit on men 24/7, you're controversial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:26 AM |
| 4 | How do redpillers explain the engagement of jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez?Ah, yes, Glorious DerayRevan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?Reasonably. It's important to remember that you will need to improvise with it a lot, as it will need "calibration " to your attractiveness but it gives the framework to judge your approaches better Also, it comes better with practice, so I suggest you find a few places without your acquaintances to practice your social skills. And don't worry how you will upset someone if they discovered that you practiced something on them, you go first, them later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:08 AM |
| 6 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allMost ridiculous thing of it all is that nothing of what has been mentioned is being sold to women, it's sold almost exclusively to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Can we agree that the common Red Pill complaint about 'the foolish/inept/incompetent father figure' on tv and the media is changing?It's better than nothing I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 13 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?You got nothing to say isn't misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:58 AM |
| 60 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?My old female friend chose literal drug dealer with a record over everyone else (and her options were big and wide), and when, expectedly, I soon saw bruises on her arm and confronted her about it she rationalised it as him being rough in bed. At the time, I thought it's true, but later I've found out that he was hitting her. Spoke with her about. "Fuck u D(me), You don't know him like I do"™. After a bit back and forth, I simply started to tread lightly. I was always perplexed as to why on eart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV Eastern Europe Women care way less about looks then women in the west.As an Eastern european, I'll just say it's true, but probably moreso because there are more attractive women overall than in the West, and golddigging much less accepted here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 08:08 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for dating👍 Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:27 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingNot always, but yeah, it gives at least some framework to navigate dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:26 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIf AWALT isn't real, so is ARMALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:25 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingLike I said, AWALT isn't real, but the idea itself is useful in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:25 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIt's pointless to chase the exception because it's simply too rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:23 AM |
| – | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI guess I'm really bad at knowing fallacies except for a few | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:23 AM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingJust because it has one false concept, doesn't mean whole of the RP is false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingLooks are not universal currency. If anything, it's more of an individual addition to the money/status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingYes, it does claim to know everything. However, only some ideas of the RP are useful in the LTR (like maintaining frame), but some are not, like AWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingYes, it does claim to know everything. However, only some ideas of the RP are useful in the LTR (like maintaining frame), but some or not, like AWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI'm not sure what do you mean by "universal truths". What I mean in my post, is that a guy will be better off not second guessing himself if he did the right thing or not (think of approaches in the bar. A guy would needlessly stress himself over whether or not it will be appropriate to approach.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIt is accurate. It's controversial only from BP perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIt's not intended in any way for LTR, it's only for casual dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI agree with you on universal currency, but I didn't include money and status, because the post is about looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIt takes a step further. It's not about people having similarities, it's that you assume that their differences isn't important to consider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingJust because someone takes a step away from one of the concepts, it doesn't mean RP isn't controversial from BP perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingIt's how it should be, but not how it's used. It's better for the guy to play on the bigger market than otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI don't understand your question, could you rephrase it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for dating90% is still AWALT and I argue that it's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingBut the circumstances of the things you described are different though. If a guy is unemployed for 1.5 years, there's a range of factors that could play into it, like he could be just lazy, or the situation on the work market is too difficult or something else. I said in OP that skinny men will have less challenging market to deal with than overweight guys, but they face the same problems overall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:06 PM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingYou don't have to be ideal to score, you need to be good enough. Triple six guys are rare, it's better to not stress about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:02 PM |
| -1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI think a guy will appear more confident because he will assume that he's in the framework of the guy's of her taste. Less stressed convo, less tense situation for him overall. If rejected, bounces back because AWALT "didn't get it with her, will succeed with the other" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:48 AM |
| 0 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingAsk away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingA guy doesn't know what the woman he approaches likes. Instead of second guessing and doubting himself, it's better for him to assume that she's no different than women he already knows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:41 AM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingTRP is mostly about results, truth or not. It's just important to acknowledge that it has flaws, but noone should get stuck on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:39 AM |
| 0 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI don't see much fallacy here, a guy would really be better off assuming AWALT than assuming everyone is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:36 AM |
| 2 | AWALT isn't real, but it's still a useful idea for datingI have no idea what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Approximately how much or often do you agree with the takes of posters of your gender here?Probably around 40% with guys. Sometimes, it's reasonable, good observation that someone can actually spot irl, but quite often you'll see unfiltered doomer stuff which is rather depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 08:16 AM |
| 4 | It appears that women don't want menI honestly don't understand. Can you try to tell it simpler? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:13 AM |
| 4 | It appears that women don't want menOp answers your first question: because they are at least repulsed by the majority of men What comes to lesbians, firstly, you said yourself that lesbians cheer each other up, also have nicknames for each other and rather excited to meet each other. I don't see how this contradicts anything op stated Secondly, I gotta admit, I don't know much about lesbians because in my home country there were simply not a lot of them, so I can't say I know much about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:08 AM |
| -2 | It appears that women don't want menBut they clearly aren't excited for men though. Evolutionarily there were probably a handful of men and the vast majority of women who reproduced, not the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:56 AM |
| 5 | It appears that women don't want menYou missed my point, so I'll try to rephrase. It's not about whether or not lesbians have to do anything with men, it's more of an observation like "Look, women when dating women are really excited for each, but not so for men, therefore, women are ,at least, repulsed by men" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:46 AM |
| 11 | It appears that women don't want menYou low-key proved him right because all those nicknames, lower expectations women have for other women but not for men, therefore proving that women, by and large, are at least repulsed by men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:39 AM |
| – | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.Well, I guess I take a step in the more cynical direction My experience with getting more attention was tied to capability of standing up and leaving I also text when I'm free to, I just make sure that some time has passed, so even if I get a text and I can reply instantly, I don't. No offense taken btw, it's just that you gotta play asshole or else you'll be dealt "you're such a good guy" card I give compliments too, but I also watch the reaction to them to see if it's worth it I at least try t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:17 AM |
| – | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.You do you of course, I just suggest to look into it if you want to rack up those numbers no matter what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:44 AM |
| 5 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?It's not about accountability though, it's about a response to some outside action For instance, a guy approached 5 girls and got brutally rejected each time. My advice here would be to "man up" and get over it, not wallow in self guilt how it's not fair or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects?Yes, but in your post you make it seem like a zero sum game which it isn't. I'd also like to add, that people in the medieval period were shorter than people today, so it's not like shorter people had a line from prehistoric times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects?No, it's literally much more like a lottery, a guy can be short/dumb/have a small dickus or taller/smarter/have a biggus dickus. I even remember some studies that showed that attractive people have a higher iq | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:41 PM |
| – | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:37 PM |
| – | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.This basically the same thing, the come over variant just implies it, without directly stating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the environment has a big impact on dating norms and the longevity of relationships?Incredibly big. Your assessment of SMV will change due to lack/overabundance of competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:15 PM |
| 13 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?The advice to "man up" isn't bad if it's taken in healthy doses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:02 PM |
| – | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.I doubt that one liner like this will get you publicly shamed, especially if the guy is very handsome. You yourself provided an example of a joke that would be considered creepy for anyone else, partially proving my point. There would be a subset of guys who can text "u wanna come over?" and it will work for them. Those who are very handsome or those who can make it seem rather funny will get a pass woth horrible shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.Without it you limit yourself to the pool of certain people, lying will help to get more numbers and therefore you'll be more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:55 PM |
| – | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.This why anyone should view dating in terms of market. If a person does so, after a few failures he will re-evaluate his current position | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV : if you offered this - Stability, kindness, consistency, no drama, aka a steady healthy calm relationship that “ends” your story, most would say noThis option is reserved largely only for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.I assumed you're rich, given your way to approaching the dating, but I gotta ask: Why simp? Aren't you more closer to bachelor status more than simp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:25 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?No homo, but Billy Herrington | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.Your first point isn't particularly good. You need to put a better look, sure, but not to this point. This is useless for many guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:22 AM |
| 0 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.I guess it really depends on how socially aware you are. "Hey, you sexy, let's fuck" will maybe work only if the guy looks like he is greek god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.Well, that's rough. I can only wish you to find someone who loves you for you but not as a temporary wallet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.Why not go through with it with game? If you get well at it you can even lie in such a way that she thinks you're vibing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.This is ridiculous advice. Dating shouldn't be expensive, and sugar daddying isn't nice imo. You buy desire, which in itself is a turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.To be fair though, it's just my primary way to get laid and I kinda realised it with a quite a bit of tries (I'm 22) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:10 AM |
| 5 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.When I say based on appearance, I mean notice a details that are more common in one group of people more than the other. If you can see that she's fit, she's probably going to gym so when you start talking with her you can safely navigate the convo to the gym. Or if you see that she's scrawny, you test the waters on the more nerdy stuff and navigate the convo from there. It could be played around the fact that they're used to getting compliments from everyone, but I don't have much success in ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:23 PM |
| 12 | How to cold approach a woman and how not too.I agree with you on knowing your league, but you need to shoot your shot anyway. It's not about her, it's about a guy. If he gets lucky, he won, if he doesn't, at least he tried I have to agree with you because what you've described is awkward approach I agree with you wholeheartedly, because it seems to put what was initially cold approach into more warm approach territory which is much easier to navigate and escalate. However, you conveniently forgot the part about looks that need to be in ord… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.You are right from a certain standpoint, simping is probably by far the single worst thing that jeopardizes men's chances, but I am not entirely with you in the kindness though. I'd argue that if kindness itself isn't sexy trait, but it depends on whom it's coming from. If it comes from an average guy it's not enticing, but if it comes from someone intimidating or someone attractive, it will be sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you leave a potential partner if they don’t agree to sleep with you until a certain amount of time passes?Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: would you leave a potential partner if they don’t agree to sleep with you until a certain amount of time passes?I think the problem with that is women don't have to do anything in the dating. If she doesn't take initiative at least sometimes, he will leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:34 AM |
| 7 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.I am one of those men because it kinda works for me. I wait for 10-15 minutes before replying to her first text, I started putting less effort in the complimenting and started doing more negging, I started to behave in a cold/warm behaviour type where one day I'd be very receptive and attentive and on the other I'd be much less so. It kinda perplexed me at first, because if I were to be genuine, I'd leave all the mind games aside, but it makes me unattractive. Pushing boundaries, having a sight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:32 AM |
| 7 | Where exactly are all these ugly, grotesque men who are in relationships with gorgeous women?Nowhere, they simply don't exist, most couples are of equal attractiveness, not otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:17 AM |
| 8 | Where exactly are all these ugly, grotesque men who are in relationships with gorgeous women?I know right? I guess Lebron James is one ugly mf by that logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:14 AM |
| 4 | Where exactly are all these ugly, grotesque men who are in relationships with gorgeous women?And where are these couples exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you leave a potential partner if they don’t agree to sleep with you until a certain amount of time passes?Honestly, without a good reason or prospects, I'd leave after the third date. However, it's worth to say that I'm not really looking for a relationship because I am not sure it's worth it. Withholding sex is a viable strategy to filter out those who have no intention of sticking around, however three months is too much imo. I would seriously doubt that a girl likes me if she makes me wait three months, but it needs to be said that if a guy feels desire coming from you and can see that you actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:09 AM |
| 5 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipIt's baffling to me how women hate conservatives but when pointed out some inconsistency, apparently they were taught by the men they hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipGood luck acting confident after countless rejections | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipYou absolutely have. Men approach, women are to be approached. With that being said, I try to approach women regularly whether it's cold approach or through apps, and it gets really frustrating at the amount of work I need to do vs them. My results are mixed, my main source of dates is cold approach with success rate around 90/10 on a very good week and probably 99/1 on the apps because I'm one of those who made a "swiping machine" so I don't have to waste my time. And let's not pretend that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 07:46 AM |
| – | CMV: Red Pill is a CultEven though there are blanks in Red Pill theory like you pointed out that it's not really explaining more obscure things like 3 gender in premodern Japan or Greece, however where I am putting my foot is treatment of women. Firstly, Red Pill actually one of the few places that acknowledges that women can fuck shit up too and aren't wonderful by any means. It states that just like men, they have many faults and imperfections, so it's bot exactly dehumanising, on the contrary, it acknowledges them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:07 AM |
| – | CMV: Red Pill is a CultYou have no idea why would red pill advice work or why would a person turn for it in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?I have an older sister and a twin brother, but it both red pilled me. Sister was (as far as I know at least) going firstly for the most dumbass guys she could find, then she migrated and after a brief dating period she found a polite, but physically big guy to enter a relationship with and so she did. They got married 3 years ago and seem fine overall. Sure, the guy is Blue Pilled, I've personally witnessed him fail shit test and he's clearly not in charge of the bedroom. My brother managed to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:35 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Even more brutal truth is that their partner will settle for them and they won't know love like ever, but hey ho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I guess. 80/20 rule is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I'd say it extends highschool, probably to the very early twenties, but after that it will get tougher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I'd say it extends high school to very early twenties, after them it will get tougher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.I sincerely can't understand why on earth a woman would be insecure unless she's unattractive or aims for the best of the best They just stand around, waiting to be approached, they don't do shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 11:08 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.A guy can't afford to make many mistakes with women in his twenties because all it takes for him to be replaced is one mistake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:58 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.If you don't expect them to slide in your dms, I have no idea why you're doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:55 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.And subsequently discourage everyone else I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?I like smart and well-spoken women, but unfortunately they aren't into me. I really have a success with women with daddy issues though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 06:39 PM |
| 9 | CMV: There is nothing that women are, say, or do that makes a man more or less masculine.Validation doesn't come in a vacuum. I can tell myself that I don't need to do shit, because I am satisfied with myself from within, but then I'd be a loser who's failing in the foreign land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Why is most dating advice "for men"?Women simply don't need advice. Their dating problems are either overexaggerated or not something astounding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 07:43 AM |
| 0 | How much of a deal breaker is a small dick?I honestly never measured mine because I'm afraid of what I'll find. All I know is that I can wrap both of my hands around it and it gets the job done, aside from that, ignorance is bliss is my policy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?For instance we don't know why did her marriage ended, it was possible she contributed to it, or how she was looking for a partner after divorce, there's many factors in play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:43 AM |
| 9 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?Not at all, I think she made some bad choices along the way and wound up like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:23 AM |
| 10 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?Yes, unfortunately for her, her time has run out, but it doesn't mean she didn't make any choices up until this point. Don't get me wrong, it's sad that she can't do anything, but it wasn't decided for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?If you loved Caesar salad for breakfast, but for some reason you couldn't afford it anymore, would you be satisfied with forever eating a bunch of soybeans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?It's not a no brainer. It's either your child or someone else's, she wants her own, not god knows whose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 05:59 AM |
| 6 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?Not really, your own child and someone else's are two different instances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 05:53 AM |
| 35 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?I refuse to believe she's a victim of circumstances. Yes, with how things are for her it sucks, but it definitely wasn't decided "for her", she's not a child anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 05:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.F&F are grifters, plain and simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?This is pretty much the answer op is looking for. Excellent wording | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why did your previous relationships end?It's not something you think about when it's your first relationship as well as the first woman who "put out" for me in such manner , but I agree. Boundaries are necessary, even though they are hard to enforce if you don't have much room to say "no" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Why did your previous relationships end?My relationship with her was batshit crazy from the start till finish. I stayed mostly because I was afraid I won't have sex if I leave, the sex part of the relationship was probably the best of it. She was a major control freak and I abided by her wishes, stupidly enough. Think shit like me bringing all the checks with me to her place and showing her my bank account so that she could count if I'm not lying. In the end, she cheated on me and I was happy beyond belief to end this. Whoever wishes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesYes, absolutely, but I disagree with you on the reasoning. The main reason is that you don't have enough information to what's going on on her side of things so you need to assume the worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you define “fat”?When I mean fat, I mean "can't do basic tasks, have a wheelchair because I can't walk, didn't shower for x days because I can't" fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Men have to learn how to bypass the ick factor by observing the men who shouldn’t be successfulWe need to figure out this code That's literally what PUA is about. Don't reinvent the wheel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 09:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It's possible for a man to get used for sex by a woman.Tell her you need some time to know her better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 02:19 PM |
| 9 | What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women?22M Doesn't matter as long as she's pretty, but not younger than 19 and not older than 40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 12:59 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It's possible for a man to get used for sex by a woman.Play the game, acting aloof/signalling disinterest are many names for abundance mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks?Then I'd have some fun, than I'll aim for the career, preferably where I could utilize my looks to my advantage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:39 AM |
| 1 | If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks?Am I psychopathic woman or am I not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | If you were a pretty 21 year old women how would you make the most of your looks?An important question: Am I psychopathic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:27 AM |
| 59 | CMV: It's possible for a man to get used for sex by a woman.You just caught feelings for her and she turned you down. You suggested gf/bf after just one date which isn't something good, from the RP perspective, you signalled to her that you are desperate enough to try to "lock her down" after one hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Red pill ideology is guys thinking they speak objective truths, but it’s based on very subjective measurements.But they coined the term and were able to find it happening in real life (Blue Pill Example) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 04:27 AM |
| – | Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know?I didn't have as much shock because it just explained what I've already witnessed, but RP expanded on it and gave me a better framework as to how approach dating. It literally solved my virginity problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Red pill ideology is guys thinking they speak objective truths, but it’s based on very subjective measurements.She's right in the sense that as much as RP developed concepts (AF/BB, Hypergamy, 80/20, etc), it didn't create a single framework on attractiveness both male/female (I included male because the debate as to what is more important among money/looks/status are still relevant) or where do you draw the line with hypergamy because we all want the best partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 08:49 PM |
| 23 | Red pill ideology is guys thinking they speak objective truths, but it’s based on very subjective measurements.I didn't think I'd say this, but your criticism is spot on. There are no consistent criterias that RP developed outside of the concepts Edit for CMV purposes: Even though you pointed out flaws in managing RP talking points, the concepts are valid nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:27 PM |
| 3 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymorePreach my brotha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:49 PM |
| 2 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreActually no, it just that so many men are deemed unattractive, so that any message not sent to top 20% counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:26 PM |
| 4 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreIt would be ok if it wasn't reoccurring. It's not that a woman dated an abuser once and then wised up and stopped, it's that she will repeatedly go for the nastiest men and then be perplexed to her consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymorehttps://www.google.com/amp/s/techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/amp/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:19 PM |
| 0 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreNot exactly, but I seriously doubt that suddenly she stops dating abusive guys simply because they give her tingles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:18 PM |
| 6 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreMen go out of their way to make woman's life worse You are not that important for that to happen Men criticize us So do women. It's not okay to call a woman fat but it's okay to body shame men for literally everything. Manlet, small dick energy, etc... None of those things are censored and yet somehow men are bad? Having a relationship with men is dangerous The same can be said in reverse. When you enter a relationship you need to gamble if she even tells you the truth she finds attractive as 80… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:16 PM |
| 0 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreAnd if woman considers you unattractive with 80% of probability despite everything she says, it could be considered as gaslighting to even get into relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:39 PM |
| 5 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreHitting/physical force, emotional abuse like love bombing, gaslighting, intentionally neglecting the other person, sexual abuse such as coercion, stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:31 PM |
| 13 | It is valid that women dont want to engage in relationships with men anymoreWith all those stories about "abusive ex", yes, they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesI don't hate women, but to ignore literally everything to pamper them is just dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesIt's true that FDS became less popular and now regulated, however the same advice can be seen on tik tok under any female "gurus". I'm sorry but being called out doesn't mean much. Her career wasn't impeded by it, she is still one of the most prominent rappers out there. If it was a man, he would be cancelled, but since she is a woman, she got a pass on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:32 PM |
| 3 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesNo, women's advice is garbage like "be yourself", "you can wait for it to happen", etc. The best men's possible advice is Red Pill advice: hit the gym, up your game, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:25 PM |
| 7 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesIt's victim blaming in it's purest form | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesChadfish did prove it when a literal nazi received more matches than any average guy will ever have, or how self admitted pedophile had women saying hello to him first, personality is just a meme at this point, looks matter far more. Even Halo effect is a thing for a reason, that a pretty guy will be perceived as someone with better personality Busy drooling over the hottest women in the area But then you have "Are we dating the same guy" sites made by women or data that women consider 80% of gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesWell, FDS is by far the biggest group of such women, but among celebrities you can point at Cardi B , that admitted that she used to drug and rob men, but noone speaks about it because it's empowering (I guess). If you want to see an advice on social media, look no further than Boss Bitches. Or this pearl. Empowering language to justify cheating on her bf with her rapist: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5510934/woman-reveals-cheated-boyfriend-man-raped-her/amp/ Or this pea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:11 PM |
| 4 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesChadfish has proven that personality is a meme, taste in women isn't something you can actively enforce, aside from looks, because dating dynamics are stacked too much against men. Social ineptness is a problem, yes, but it's just keeps getting worse because when you face countless rejections, it's not going to be resolved in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesBut it's not a catch 22 that op talks about. Even if women have their problems, they can say "I hate all men", openly find the most unhinged gold digging advice possible without any pushback | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:42 PM |
| 7 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesThat's why you should never listen to dating advice from women. You gotta approach anywhere you feel comfortable regardless how it might look on the outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:31 PM |
| 3 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesSo are women How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | If most men are vulgar and disrespectful than the wholesome ones should have no trouble connecting with women... yet they seem to struggle the mostI mean duh, Nice guys Finish last, it's well known | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?I'm going in with initial expectation of three dates, but it doesn't mean it's fixated number that doesn't change. I'd easily break this threshold if strong chemistry is present or she's not that experienced herself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | The left doesn’t need to cater to straight young men because they largely don’t need helpAnd this poor shoemaker is privileged when compared to ukrainian soldier in Bakhmut, so what now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 2 | The left doesn’t need to cater to straight young men because they largely don’t need helpCMV post that actually changed somebody's mind? That's new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Good female role modelsJoan of Arc all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitNo, he needs them if the girl follows OP's advice and waits for sex with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:44 PM |
| 3 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitStrawman argument. If a girl is attracted to a man, chances are, the tactic will work. Maybe it won't work, but then a guy doesn't have any self respect to stick around for something other men got quicker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:02 PM |
| 3 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitYeah, it's a politically correct name for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 11:27 AM |
| 4 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitThe reason it works is because a person doesn't have a full information about your dating life, so while your claim is true when you are talking about a rational girl without an emotional attachment to you and with full knowledge about your dating successes, in reality such information is usually unannounced, so this tactic still holds up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 11:26 AM |
| 7 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitA PUA tactic that signals that a woman is replaceable to you, so if she wants to keep you around she better do something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 10:27 AM |
| 9 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitWalking away is the clearest dreadgame you can possibly do. I agree with you on leaving her, but if you really want to pump, do the dread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:33 AM |
| 14 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitThat's the reason a guy needs to employ dreadgame, to cut off this bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementDoes this advice exist outside of red pill? Yes, but in incredibly small portion. Look at the common advice on the biggest subreddits, you will find some bs like "you need a better personality" and other extreme blue pilled stuff, which is ridiculous. Red Pill actually puts an emphasis on the self improvement, something that BP never did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementI doubt they do, it's incredibly passive advice that encourages stochastic approach to dating. If anyone were to compare these two, Red Pill will give you a much more manageable tenet of things to look out for and use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementI am glad I managed to convince you otherwise 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:46 AM |
| 30 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementThe key difference and possibly the main reason I'd subscribe to their ideas is the fact that Red Pill advice actually works. "Just be yourself", "there's someone for everyone", "you'd make one lady very happy" is a load of blue pilled garbage, that doesn't work. Maintaining frame and preselection without any help from other rp tools like dreadgame, will beat any Blue Pill advice on the count to three So no, it's not just a women hating movement, even though I have to acknowledge that some part … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:11 AM |
| 7 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”No, women can't. Supposed 6 sense doesn't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:29 PM |
| 16 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”Unfortunately for you, women's preferences are too specific, so this advice is here to stay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Many young people nowadays say dating is more trouble than it's worthDating is actually okay if you follow red pill advice and employ pua techniques, otherwise noone should even bother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayI'm not, I really think that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 07:27 AM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenThey don't romanticize men in general, rather the ability to rack up body count and having your shit together There's an entire subsection of trp that is called Alpha Fucks/Beta Buxxs, which blames Beta Bucks for being dumb, naive idiot for falling "believe all women" fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 12:58 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayFeminism was born in my country So, I'm guessing USA? If yes, then idk what to say because I didn't get the sense that it's some hot take there, but maybe it's just me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:14 PM |
| 4 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayFrom where I'm from this is common knowledge, right where I am now it's still common knowledge, I wonder where are you at that you think everything's that bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayI guess this is what gaslighting by feminists does to society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:04 PM |
| 10 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayIt's true, but your post is about who's more likely to stay: a stranger or your husband? I thought it's common knowledge that a husband is far more likely to stay than some stranger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 11:02 PM |
| 33 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayIsn't it common sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?She can equally have insta page and tinder page and on both of them promote only fans, it's not that afar from each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?I'd ask her why she did it. There's a big difference in doing it for validation and doing it for money. If it's for validation, recreational use only; If it's for money and I have really strong chemistry with her, I guess I'll look into it, but I'd be more cautious than usual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dumping awkward or unattractive guys into the Alaskan wilderness in late winter might make them more attractive.Bro, you have no clue wtf are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:33 AM |
| 13 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDWomen will vehemently defend Beta Bucks through any means necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?I was saying it honestly. Hitting gym really helped me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughYour claim doesn't have any real evidence, especially your claim about many women being invisible. Here's a 60 year old grandma slaying on tinder, but under the logic of your post she must have been ghosted by everyone https://youtu.be/yhkZpz_0aFk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughPerhaps I chose wrong words, so I'll try to rephrase. In your post you said "One of them said that a man is "as loyal as his options" " and then proceeded to paint every man as a potential cheater Instead of asking many unrelated questions, I'll just ask one, Why do you paint women as righteous by default? Plus, what you've described isn't something new. I believe it's called Madonna-Whore complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughA desire for her will still be there, so it's ok. AF/BB os worse because man receives zero desire. Also, you go on long and hard about the second option, but what about girl in this situation? Does she marry her first option or second option too? And what about guys who were invisible to women too and just like her started having some success only recently? You say you don't want to shit on men, but then you proceed to take a word of one man and paint it with everybody else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:48 AM |
| 0 | What is worse to you: getting no female attention whatsoever, or getting female attention from the worst, lowest women only?I like playing with fire, so I'll absolutely pick attention over being invisible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.I'd argue that people who really screw it for everyone are simps. They give everything for free, are fine with abuse as long as it's coming from women, and they will literally bend over backwards just to satisfy a woman's whim. You should be blaming them, bot me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.I shouldn't be. The dating scene was a mess before I entered it, it's simply being adaptive to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:26 PM |
| 0 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.No, it's not ok in both of the instances. I don't think your analogy applies here, because you don't actually steal anything from a girl. Better analogy would be a flashy conman that overexaggerates his product. And yeah, here, if I were the customer in that situation, I wouldn't be ok with it, but its on me to not fall for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:24 PM |
| -1 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.Lying is wrong in most of the circumstances, here, however, it's okay because odds are stacked against you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:06 PM |
| 0 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.I mean, it's not, but there's nothing to actually stop them, unless a supposed victim had his fun too and knows what zero attraction looks like, the knowledge of which he can obtain through, you guessed it, racking up bodies by any means necessary There's also a huge difference between marriage and a hookup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:02 PM |
| 0 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.What do you mean by the role? The role of guy that successfully gets laid? You're literally about to become one, what's the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:56 PM |
| -2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.End a relationship, before it's too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:41 PM |
| 7 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessThere's a distinction to be made with simply knowing that PUA exists and actually being aware of the tactics used. Even if many women know that it exists, I doubt that equally many will be able to deal with it like they think they can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:39 PM |
| -7 | CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad.There's nothing wrong with lying to get sex. Any average guy that does it, simply adapted to the circumstances of the dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:36 PM |
| 3 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessI think it's true that a number of women who are somewhat aware of PUA has grown, but it doesn't mean every woman knows it. I'd argue that a guy can get a "pass" if he does it well enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:32 PM |
| 4 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessIt's good that you're no longer that guy. I have to admit, I've heard about it before I landed my first date, so I was keeping my eyes open on that possibility and now I only suggest coffee dates. I didn't know that video game bars exist to be honest, I guess I'll look into it. Prostitutes will get you only so far because there's no desire in their eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:05 AM |
| 19 | What are some good standards men could have for women they date?Hypothetically, a good standard would be an expectation of reciprocation of your effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:25 AM |
| 1 | What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes?AWALT thing. Red Pill is effective in the most instances, but it can't give you the smartest/prettiest/best girl out there because you need to have a game on the different level to score a W with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Why Are You Single?Focus on yourself bro. Hit the gym, up your looks, read a few books and you'll be slaying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?Two reasons: I was in the relationship once and I saw that it's not really a fair deal as it requires a lot of effort on my part and putting up with batshit crazy stuff from my partner, so I'd rather just avoid it. I think I'm too young (22) for a relationship. I'd rather try to have as many FWB's as possible and actually have some fun instead of having something serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?Whiteknight in the wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:00 AM |
| 9 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessI think you're just mad that BB managed to slay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:55 AM |
| 13 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessIn all honesty, percentage of women who heard about PUA is laughable. Also, "temperament" isn't something that shuts down PUA, because it just means you have to use PUA tools differently and that's pretty much it. Also, no, women's deception isn't something excusable. I've been that guy and I always thought it would be silly to get mad I'm not going to say out loud what that screams of, I'll just say that me and many guys won't tolerate this bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:35 AM |
| 29 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessYour example is valid, this is a problem and guys would leave if they discovered the truth. However, what sets your example apart from PUA is intentions. A guy who employs PUA has intention of getting laid and he does exactly that. Dread game, negging, etc. are just descriptions of the process of getting laid and when they are done right, they will work. An average guy has so little success in dating that I think it's completely justified for him to learn the game and operate in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:40 AM |
| 44 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessI fail to see where is the "problem" part, that a subset of guys get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Здорово с кошкой вышло, даже не знаю что и сказать) Вот, в моей семье тоже много кто не верил, но мой брат был абсолютно уверен что начнется. Вот он понял это будто раньше всех и слинял за границу, хоть и поругался с папой из-за этого (до войны казалось пустой тратой денег и просто паникерством). Но кроме него, в это не верил никто | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Я тоже за вас двоих рад, вот только кошку жалко. Это тоже очень тяжело, не преуменьшай свои потери (не только из-за кошки) Я если честно тоже не думал что война начнется, я почему-то верил что обойдется. Я так ошибался, что даже не верится. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Я счастливчик, я успел выехать до войны в универ за рубежом. Тревожно конечно, часть семьи и многие друзья остались, но ничего не поделаешь, время от времени делаю видеозвонки и переписываюсь с ними. А вы с мужем как? Я так понял успели выехать до этих электронных повесток | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Меня ничего на это не навело, я по сути пальцем в небо ткнул. А так нет, я не из России, я из Украины | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?This is the only place that has discussions about things I've personally observed. Another point is that on other subreddits there are a lot of the same takes, which are blatantly incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?Ты одна из Z-етников? Мне просто интересно | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?I have the exact same mindset about women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Chat GPT - Is there such a thing as a "right" or "wrong" sexual strategy? Discussion ThreadUsing deception isn't rape because if that's the case, by your definition a guy who was taken advantage of by taken out on a free meal date has been raped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What is "Red Pill"?I subscribe to the Red Pill, but I've never treated it as an ideology. It's just a great set of tools that greatly helps navigating and maximizing outcome out of the dating. It helps you better understand what to do really, especially now in the current dating. The type of guys who subscribe to the Red pill is diverse, but the main groups would be divorced men or young guys who actually want to gain experience and have some fun. To be honest I agree with you that tradcons who say that they are R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Plenty have. I have. Now what? Even if you faced rejections I sincerely believe that it absolutely doesn't scale to the amount of rejection the average guy faces See women as a people, not a monolith I actually do see them as people. I don't know why you think I don't. It's literally what redpill is, seeing women as people, which like all people have flaws Bar is the one size fits all thing I simply gave an example where I used bar as a setting. It could be tinder, park, ice skating, whatever. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Regardless of how it sounds, women are on the receiving end, they don't face rejections, they simply don't deal with a lot of stuff that guys have to. For example, let's say a woman was approached in the bar in the best manner possible. Given that this is really good interaction with a guy, which advice out of it she could give? Maybe about approaching, maybe about look of the man, maybe about things like who paid for what, but nothing else. A guy, however, could give advice on how to deal with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Women still have to be improved enough to want to date a guy It doesn't give them much insight on what the guy do to appeal to them, since they do exactly none of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?I don't know, you tell me. I just don't believe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Them being the target audience doesn't mean women in general are able to give good advice. Your analogy with hollywood is good, but there's another side of the coin where directors know exactly what to do and they cash a bank. My point is that since most women can do literally nothing and still get a date, therefore they can't give a good advice. Women don't put themselves out there as much as guys do, Women don't have to present themselves nowhere near as much as guys do, women don't need to hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:12 PM |
| 10 | Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security?Lol, women are wonderful effect in the wild. You assume that his partner did nothing wrong simply because she's a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.No offense, but why do you think women will be able to give a good advice in a first place? They just wait to be approached. They just wait for someone to shoot their shot with them. They don't put themselves out there and don't present themselves. Guys don't have free validation and it's guys who have to do all the escalation work. Why do you think women are able to give any meaningful advice despite having dating served on the silver platter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?I don't think defeatist attitude is an issue here. I just think that if people were to choose whom to help, it will always be women, no matter what. There's also an issue with vagueness of the message said by men's rights group and the fact that in order for their message to be heard, they need to seek approval of women which is ridiculous. I was fond of Left Wing Male Advocates for some time and you'll see quite literally everything there: acknowledging the problems, discussion of articles, cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead?https://youtu.be/yhkZpz_0aFk This is video of 60 year old grandma slaying on tinder. Do you really think men's standards actually exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:38 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?I think no because most people just don't give a shit. You can point out anything, but women are seen as more valuable and in more need of protection, so between man and woman, woman will be chosen almost every single time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Source: trust me bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:39 AM |
| – | Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look?They're all attractive for sure, but I wouldn't say they're all ideal in attractiveness. I don't doubt these gals spin almost everyone's heads, but I wouldn't date/marry them because all of them are probably very high maintenance, but one night stands? Any day. I'd argue that most guys that follow these women are doing it because they (women) are pleasant to their eyes. However, if I did have this kind of money I'd only date them, because it's more convenient lifestyle with big money than marria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | What dissuades a man from pursuing something with a woman?I'm confused. Are you asking how to be less attractive? If that's the case, the fastest route is to be annoying. Resting bitch face, dragging voice, "I have a bf", one liners as a response, be unnecessarily rude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Are men seen as expendable?Bro, the exact same post was made on PPD some time ago with exact same examples and theme. Did you copypaste it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?You described one part of it and yes, in the choice you've provided I'd choose 5 matches. However, the situation with 90% means that these 90 guys were attractive enough to have a game and options, so you accidentally portrayed red pill talking point about 80/20 rule. And on top of that, most guys won't have 5 matches, they would have 3 at best with varying amount of interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?But you have a choice between being single and not, while men don't. Degrading as it is, despite having chances to be used you also have higher chances for better experience because you have more choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?I honestly believe that the state modern dating is in right now absolutely justifies lying about intentions to get sex and yes, since dating heavily favours women they're in part responsible for it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:54 AM |
| 6 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Bro, the struggle never actually disappears. It's not men's fault to adapt to current dating climate by lying to women, it's entirely women's fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?No, men have it worse in almost every step of the way. Rejection, competition, ignorance are all the problems men deal with, not women. I've even made a thread once about experience of ugly girls, and despite it being tragic in some cases, most women actually managed to find a relationship in spite of their looks (By most women I mean most women in the thread), but if you were to compare it to the average guy experience, I'd rather be pumped and dumped than face radio silence until late twenties… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Peace to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on YOUR children being/wanting to be transgender or homosexual?It's just my opinion, but from what I've seen in the US, if you're gay or lesbian, etc. you kinda being put in the box of things you have to agree on and what you must do. For instance, if you're gay, you need to agree with LGBT movement on all of it stances, because otherwise you just look ridiculous. There are also things that are considered "gay" and what you need to do or how to act if you're one, basically reinforcing the worst stereotypes about gays. So this "box" is quite small for gays a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:46 PM |
| -1 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?I think I would just look for reasons a girl made OF in the first place to say honestly. If it has something to do with daddy issues, then no way. If it's not, then ok. I can also say that if I have serious chemistry with a woman and I also find she has daddy issues, I hope my rational part wins and pulls me away. I don't really understand why you're bothered by it. The overwhelming majority of guys are bluepilled and will overlook it out of ignorance. Why you're worried about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:35 PM |
| 0 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?I was thinking about it too. Redpill is nothing but 100% truth, the only problem people have with it is language and representation of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on YOUR children being/wanting to be transgender or homosexual?Nah, it's okay for daughter because she this type of lifestyle is relatively attainable I don't know why you think someone will come back in 40, it's just nonsense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 11:36 AM |
| -1 | What is your opinion on YOUR children being/wanting to be transgender or homosexual?If it's about being homosexual, then ok for daughter, bruh for son If it's about being transgender, it's just bruh in general, cuz I don't understand nor like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:13 AM |
| 4 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?I can't wait to see "personality" slayers to confirm balding, aging, short, scrawny introvert with great personality slays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:55 AM |
| 5 | Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not *sexually* attractive attributes for men?Preach my brotha Misogyny detector doesn't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not *sexually* attractive attributes for men?You are absolutely right. I honestly think those women who disagree with it are just virtue signalling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do men hate open relationships?It literally is. One guy bull fucks her while gal has bf. It's cuckoldry, and any man who isn't bull doesn't deserve respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 09:03 AM |
| 7 | Why do men hate open relationships?Most men aren't cucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here obsess over that some men get women more easily than them?It's not really entitlement to not want to be left behind by wife beater or drug dealer in terms of success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Would you date these "overweight" women?1-3 smash 4-7 pass 8,9 smash I'd seriously date 9,8,2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here obsess over that some men get women more easily than them?I don't see where the entitlement here exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here obsess over that some men get women more easily than them?I don't see obsession. What I see, however, is just a "I want it too". You see how the most douchiest mfs get women, be them drug dealers, wife beaters, etc. and compare how much they have success (slim to none) to theirs (well above) and ask why is that. That's it And yeah if you put minimal effort, you just can get away with so much that it's breathtaking. And to answer your question, I don't think after accepting it they will be fine with it. I think they will be red pilled after that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Looks don’t matter to womenLooks vs Personality has been solved in favour of Looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Online dating for women is not "better"You get dates, average guys don't, hence it's easier for women. End of the debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 13 | All other things the same would you choose an 8 in intelligence and a 6 in looks, or an 8 in looks and a 6 in intelligence for a wife.Intelligence all the way. It's underrated how much intelligent women are more interesting than not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:48 AM |
| 3 | So where exactly are these ugly women?Google picture of Hitler with a dog | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Do RP men who are extremely discouraged by dating ever consider how their attitudes come across to women?But they were with exes. They got her excited as well as into bed. Compared to the average guy, this supposed ex is doing better than him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Do RP men who are extremely discouraged by dating ever consider how their attitudes come across to women?Idk about others but I vouch for that. It's really about practicality, not much else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyNo, but before. They loved hanging out with him. I take it as they did so in the past. So, before plumbing, when he was popular among your group, he was successful. It's status, not personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyI'd say that a lot of what you're saying is true. However, I'd point out one thing about humbleness, is that they are already preestablished, so they don't have to go out of their way to portray themselves as alpha. Someone cited Messi here and how humble he is. I'd argue that it's great that star of his caliber is humble. But noone would call him alpha if he wasn't a preestablished superstar from years of successful playing football. The same with yours and mine examples of true alphas. Noone w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyGarbage take imo. You need results, period. If you don't get bitches, do something, don't be bloopie "be yourself" Billie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyFor what purpose? Just because someone else will like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societySure, these words don't, but dread game, spinning plates, good physique, abundance mindset, etc. absolutely do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyAny proof besides gaslighting and dismissal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyYou realise it could be reversed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Most 'alpha' males are among the most insecure men in societyIf your words are true, than it's not personality, it's status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?So, unironically "be yourself"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?All of the responses so far are literally "be polite and pretty". They don't do shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?So... Be polite and pretty? Very hard, omg, can't imagine myself going through that misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?I'm not sure it's sustainable in the long run to be honest. There's better proposals in the thread like playing with hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?I honestly have no idea. From my current relationship, I'd say trust is romantic af, maybe some little things, like living small letters with "Love u" or that kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Being sexually satisfied in todays society is EASYWhat the fuck... That's both funny and sad at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:02 PM |
| 3 | The disgust some men feel towards promiscuous women is not biologically inherent and we should aid men to handle their insecurities not bathe in themMen having a preference in the bodycount is insecurity Women having a standard in something a man can't change - standard Did I get it right, Op? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 3 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?You know... Top 20 percent get everything... everyone else is left with their nose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:56 PM |
| 11 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)I fail to see how Alpha widow and "the one who..." are so different, when Alpha widow is literally longing for "the one". Why do you think they're so different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)So it exists, just not purely about bed, but in more general sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The Rise in Online and Bar/Club-scene Dating, and the Decrease in Social Circle Dating Explains Poor Outcomes, Due to Reduced Reputation EffectsGreat post. Agree with everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4E: What would be your advice to this man on how to meet a girl?Why would you even suggest that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4E: What would be your advice to this man on how to meet a girl?And what if he's tried dating apps and found them too stressful for his quiet life? Other two could work, but not sure about hands thing He could be labeled as weirdo by friends about his friend thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.I understand your point, however I chose Kevin Samuels as someone less extreme than Tate, because your statement implied that guys like me (young men) are so vile and misogynistic that they'd choose Tate or Samuels just because they're rapist or tolerating abuse. I don't know much about Aba and Preach, but Destiny is a cuck, therefore his advice should be ignored. It sucks that by choosing not to listen to Destiny, you're bolstering people like Samuels, but between this and listening to a cuck, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.I am not sure why you try to paint them this bad, but I'll bite. It will sound this fringe when you pick Tate as an example. You can take someone far less fucked up (Kevin Samuels for example) and it will make more sense: ...filled with men so depraved already that they'll praise a man in a suit than a man in an open relationship. And yeah, the vast majority isn't comfortable with sharing girlfriend, aka being a cuck. What advice could a cuck possibly give you that will be useful? It's self evid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.Maybe...young men should decide what to watch themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.I know only Noel from your list and he's really great choice tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.And you never wondered how do they have it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | AF/BB is definitely a mythNothing you said disproves AF/BB. Alphas did put some work to becoming alphas, sure, but it doesn't mean the phenomena doesn't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:06 AM |
| 3 | The narrative behind Are We Dating The Same Guy from men in PPD is totally inaccurateSo you would be fine with a group that was actively doxxing women, sharing their private info to what to put pressure while dating, etc, just because they say good things about good women and most women had zero feedback? Like lol, who are you trying to convince here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimBecause...they chose worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Only women are told to ‘choose better’ whereas men are always the victimWomen choose, men take what they can get. This is why this double standard persists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:32 AM |
| 2 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyIt's honestly tough to pinpoint proof of AF BB, because the phenomena describes continuous situation that would require some spying on people to prove it, however it's possible to find indirect proof of it. Leaving anecdotes as a proof, indirect evidence that I was able to find is this: While more attractive males tend to pursue a short-term mating strategy, more attractive females tend to pursue a more long-term mating strategy. Additionally, younger females are more likely to pursue a short-te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 09:10 AM |
| 4 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyCheating is always bad, but what is setting AF/BB apart from others is how it occurs. A BB can have sex with a woman, albeit it being duty sex or starfish one. A BB will be in love with a woman, but she isn't. It's incredibly one sided relationship with all power concentrated in the woman's hands, where a BB gives her everything but she returns less than she did for a Ons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:54 AM |
| 13 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyThey aren't mad that it's smart or whatever. What they're mad at is fact that even if they marry, Billy Beta doesn't do it for her so she might only seem loyal when in fact she'd turn around and cheat on him with literally anyone who isn't Beta and, since a guy has literally no power/knowledge to prevent it, a woman will either cheat on him, divorce him, ruin his life, etc. just because he is beta bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | How will sex robots affect dating?Nah, only an idiot would make a possibility of ribot leaving the guy, because he would lose to those who didn't make this feature. Lol, how blue pilled you must be to implement hypergamy into sex robot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:10 PM |
| 3 | How will sex robots affect dating?Honestly it just comes down to how enhanced the robots are. If the robot is an unimaginable beauty that you can talk to, don't feel an absence of consciousness, etc. AND she engages with you in enthusiastic sex while tge act itself is great... Then it will finally balance the dating market to make it even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the red pill men actually do get more sex than "reggy" men?I guess it could apply to some women, but it's probably far from norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the red pill men actually do get more sex than "reggy" men?Redpill itself doesn't get you laid, it's all about how you apply it in the dating. If a dude is redpilled and actually followed and used it, he will get far more success than a blue pill any day, but the fact that you know that Game exists doesn't mean you will take part in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Male Delusion Calculator!20%, 1 out of 5 red pills, "easy to please" 1) 19-35 y.o. 2) Not married/no children 3) Asian, white, hispanic 4) Include overweight, exclude obese 5) 4'11 - 6'6 6) Any income Seems good to me. I hate to be homebreaker or someone like that, I honestly refuse to believe the best girl possible is going to be a cheater, so yeah, strong preference for her being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 07:26 PM |
| 10 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditI am willing to bet my money on her waiting with him for months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:13 AM |
| 66 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditHe attracted her through his personality! What a lucky guy he is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a meth addict?Lol, not in a million years. I'm not even sure that is a real question, it's a recipe for disaster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Passport IreI can say the same about women, just a bit different https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7dmiuu/women_and_refugees_a_compilation/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7tft6e/where_is_me_too_for_feminists_importing_poor/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themNo, what I meant by queen is some chick with overinflated ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themSomehow men attack other men even more often and somehow men don't make a scapegoat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:45 PM |
| -2 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themBased lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themI am RP and I like women. It's just explains a lot of stuff and makes a few observations on what your average "queen" does. By knowing what your so-called "queen" does, you can actually look for real quality women, that are truly deserving the title | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Again, you point out at example where a woman is head over heels for the guy. Your list stops making sense when it's "free meal" for her or she's not that invested in the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)He is a living definition of whiteknight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Honestly, everything you listed seems rather overexaggerated. Like, for instance, many women completely get away with one line texts, that neither cute nor funny. Or when it comes to sex, do you know how many women get away with starfish sex? Hint: so fucking many. On the top of it, you're describing situation where a woman is head over heels for the guy, when in reality a lot of women will have Beta bux on their hands to whom they aren't nearly attracted as you try to sell here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 05:47 PM |
| 15 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)Brilliant post. I honestly don't understand women that insist that it's not how op outlined in the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 05:23 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.Most men aren't psychos to be this cruel. If anything, I'd say men would rather help a woman than other man, but maybe it's just me. By the way, if someone enters relationship, can't they figure out what other person frequents? Vetting is a good stuff, but you sound paranoid to be frank | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:17 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.Why only two though? What about abusive guys having more success than not, kill all men types? I'm also curious to have I been posted there or not About Nazi, I guess you didn't get what I was saying. There were experiments where guys put on pretty picture with horrible bio, like the one with nazi bio with Hitler's quote, the Pedophile one and they got many more matches than your average guys? It just proves that "personality" is a meme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:13 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.I linked this post to illustrate the point where if the roles were reversed there would be outrage Imagine if there was a post like "Women are getting SA'd, why would I care" with body that states that men shouldn't help in any way and it getting awards and a few thousand of upvotes. It's ridiculous to even assume that it could be true, however it's ok if women are the ones saying things like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xwdbzr/why_we_should_worry_about_lonely_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button It's one of the many examples I can find. 2,8k upvotes, 1 award, I am sure I can find more, it's just the first one I've found | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.I have so many questions to your post and your replies to comments For instance, why do you think the number of men here can be counted as millions? Don't you think there's too little activity for that number? Do you think guys should avoid women who say "kill all men" and things like that? Was I posted in one of your groups? I'm genuinely curious What do you say to the known fact that more abusive and narcissistic guys have more success with women than others? Also, I'm curious to what would yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.How this is an incl content? In what part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 06:13 AM |
| 2 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Hitting the gym is a good start. Muscles aren't everything, but they are the basic requirement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 06:08 AM |
| 2 | The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher.Nah, he just says that women aren't this much better single, no-one denies that happy single people exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 07:31 PM |
| 7 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"AF/BB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?People in the relationship want to be appreciated? Whaaat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys.Convince them I sincerely doubt that it's even possible. Feminism's identify is that of a victim's. Even acknowledging that their supposed oppressors have difficulties, is rather net positive to them by their own logic. You also point out the word "genuine" as if there's no real arguments on the male side of things, which is blatantly false. Hate rhetoric in MRA I agree with you on the rhetoric part. It's present even in the most uncalled for times, however it would be ridiculous to think that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Does The Red Pill cause unhealthy attachment issues?Hollow, meaningless existence Lol. Pretty much everything you listed (money, fitness, women) is just a status and yeah. If you think striving towards a status is worse than being beta bux, so be it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:25 AM |
| 4 | As a man, can you be interested in sex but not relationships?Because he was probably attractive enough for it look-wise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Does The Red Pill cause unhealthy attachment issues?I don't think RP causes it. It gives you a more realistic view on the dating as a whole and explains it's concepts that an average guy is more than likely to encounter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Does The Red Pill cause unhealthy attachment issues?Preach my brotha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Does The Red Pill cause unhealthy attachment issues?It's not self abuse in any way if it works. Blue pill advice leads to void of results, red pill leads into pool of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Does quantity equal quality?It's simple math. More options lead to the higher chance of finding quaility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?Forgive me for being sceptical, but what does "average looking" constitute for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?I guess I'll just clarify it in the first comment, but the point still stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?True. But they don't even show up on the date. What I'm talking about is a situation where a girl says she won't put out sex for the guy on this date and guy stands up and leaves. I honestly doubt anyone with low confidence or anxiety are going to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:57 PM |
| -2 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?What? If a guy has, let's say, 3 options on tinder, he won't be able to stand up in the middle of the date and leave, no matter how much he would've wanted to, because it would mean self sabotaging 33% of his total options, whereas for the more hot guy, who has, let's take more moderate 10 options, this one girl isn't as valuable to him, so he can afford to stand her up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?In almost any thread like "Why women don't date anymore", you can find a comment that they were stood up. Why is that? Because obviously if a guy doesn't have a lot of options, he can't afford to stood up a girl. He has too few options to do it. And given how most women quite literally classify the vast majority of guys as unattractive, the only category of guys who have this many options to pull that off are the hot ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:48 PM |
| -1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?I think it comes from the things like a girl saying she got stood up on the date after saying she won't put out sex on the date, and, since the only guys who can afford to do that are hot ones, there you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?Ah, I see and no, I don't. They're just people, some are nasty, some are good. Sometimes it gets frustrating with just how little investment they can get results in dating, but it's frustrating, not something to hate for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?Idk what you mean precisely by "good aspects", so I will list of what helped me: Gym, as I was hitting gym before, but not as disciplined/focused as I do now. It also explained pretty much everything I've seen so far (at least dating wise). Like, for instance, why the known drug addict got more attention from women than my academically very successful friend and so on. A bit of PUA definitely helped (I pirated The Game), it was more like a direction of how to do things, when you approach women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?Bro, I'm 22. All I can say is: Redpill all the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?I honestly thought I was unattractive throughout my teenage years, but then my social setting has changed and my friend group too and only then I discovered, I'm not ugly actually, just average. It was such a surprise to me, I was beyond being relieved. After that it took me a several months (14 to be precise) to get laid, but I succeeded in the end. This last valentine's Day was the first one I received something on it, I'm sooo thrilled my work paid off I am obligated to point out that I start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.Even in AF BB scenario, a man gets an ounce respect until divorce. Yes, it's not as much as "better" guy gets, but still | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.It would be true if, after sexual liberation, the vast majority of men without outstanding achievements were alone or without an ounce of respect from their partner ,which is untrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.I agree with you on women having an intrinsic value, however since number of the achieving men is quite small, a girl would want to have something going for herself, because otherwise she is risking entering a relationship where she has no say over things. I'd also add that since this type of men was always small and the majority of guys still got at least some form of respect or validation from their wifes for doing less than outstanding achievements, it's safe to assume that the only guys who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:07 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.It's not like most women achieved something admirable too, so it kinda evens out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you expect your gf/wife to help in a life threatening situation?I'd expect her to run away or save yourself. It's on me to get up and fight, not on her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:48 PM |
| 4 | My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win.Out of those refugees, women are largely married with her husband fighting the war. Since they probably don't know the language, they won't be able to stay there for long after war end. Besides, the good amount of refugees are elderly people, who unironically don't really do much for the economy, so it's not the end of the world if elderly people will resettle somewhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?The way I see your argument that it's mostly moral, RP doesn't need morals it can function without it. You want fun? Rp gives you tools to have it, nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem?I think the best possible answer is to be a genuine, good friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your (potential) girlfriend/boyfriend saw your posts and comments on this sub ?I'd say to her "I like to pretend I'm retarded" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 05:40 AM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupI knew bluepillers wouldn't disappoint me with blaming men for everything again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:06 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupHow would you explain this massive gap then? Twice as much men are single then women, how would you explain it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:03 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupHoly shit , it really is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:59 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupYour comment is spot on. I guess the best thing the guys can do is to just chase money, while screwing everyone else over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:52 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupWell, where's all these people who saw these mythical average men having success? (I guess average chads describe it better) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?Why should someone's perception of matter if you finally have success? Besides, I fail to see how it's wrong. Toxic? Maybe, but wrong? I don't see the reason why it's wrong. He merely adapted his strategy, nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?Look at it this way: A guy literally is being himself, he's polite, kind, he's not in the best shape, but he's not fat either. He's average. He's not big on confrontation or arguments and he bought into idea that being good is a "bare minimum" to have a good chances with women. He would be relaxed, since he's already good, kind, polite. Time passes, he has zero success. So, his approach with kindness and respect failed IF he tries/learns how to be more rude and obnoxious, he will have sex out of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?It's not as easy as you think. I don't know any guy who legitimately hates or likes lying to the girls If that's what it took to get women no men like you would be bitching on these platforms I guess virgin shaming is fine when a woman does it, but thankfully, times have changed. I started getting sex after I took the red pill and learned some pua stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?You didn't get his point at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?No guy can afford to act like a girl. If his first instinct is to cry, than he will be hopeless, because unlike girls, he will have to do stuff alone, without venting to anyone, that's why he can't be like a girl. If a guy starts to just vent to his friends without any solution seeking, he will lose friends, not gain them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?Not a fan, but I think I get the appeal he has to men. You have everyone shouting at how bad being "masculine" is and even words "be a man" are often followed with "Wtf does that mean?". No wonder the guy who pedals very archaic, but clear idea of being the man will thrive. You also have guys who were told that being good, polite, nice, gentlemanly is what gets women. Since this approach lends zero results, guys look elsewhere and see a guy who owns sportcars, mansions or whatever (idk, I just k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?Acting like shit doesn't mean be an arrogant incel and try to guilt trip (or whatever) woman. You can employ dread game, negging, use her to your own benefit and to get yourself off, not being a gentleman , lying about things, etc. That kind of thing almost universally flies under the radar of any woman, unless of course you didn't put enough effort in either game or looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?Probably yes, there's no way to confirm it unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:20 PM |
| 4 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?I take it you mistyped women, soo.. Women do appreciate kindness and all virtues No, they don't. If they did, misogynistic men and cheaters wouldn't have as much success compared to the more feminine guys than they do. It's observation of the RP that literally brought me into it, it's straight facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?Idk where you are, I guess I met an abnormal number of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Blue pill just can't handle the reality of such relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:20 AM |
| 3 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?If you ask woman for dating advice, she will give you an advice that works to attract some imaginary girl, but not her They all will be saying like they know if the guy is into pua/sexist/misogynist/fuckboy, but then all of them fly under the radar and end up successful with women They will say how they want x,y,z (for instance: emotional availability, for a guy to be nice, share their opinion, to be respectful, etc.), but then they will turn around and reward the exact opposite of what they say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:14 AM |
| 2 | If The Red Pill is not misogynist , why do they always seem to go out of the way to portray anything women do in a negative light?Yes, it is, and there's no "but" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:02 PM |
| 0 | If The Red Pill is not misogynist , why do they always seem to go out of the way to portray anything women do in a negative light?Neither of it is okay, but RP is misogynistic largely due to feminism's tolerance of hatred on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:55 PM |
| 2 | If The Red Pill is not misogynist , why do they always seem to go out of the way to portray anything women do in a negative light?It's not a flex, it's rather something basic. I'm yet to see feminism that is advocating for equality between the sexes to do something for men (in situations where inequality in the women's favour), and consequentially more radical types can take it as feminism hating men, so they will see it as an enemy and start harbouring hatred for it. There's no big math, just a view of someone who wants you to be down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:13 PM |
| 3 | What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner?My ideal: She is attracted to me and I'm attracted to her. She's independent and she's good at jokes. She should be progressive in the truest form of it and I'd also prefer for her to be outgoing and smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | If The Red Pill is not misogynist , why do they always seem to go out of the way to portray anything women do in a negative light?Feminism has no issues with hating men, why RP should preach any love towards women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:53 PM |
| 3 | If The Red Pill is not misogynist , why do they always seem to go out of the way to portray anything women do in a negative light?I think the RP is largely misogynistic largely due to contingent of people there. Incels, lonely dudes, men after divorce or basically any guy that doesn't fit the feminism's narrative could be found there. However, I think these news or examples you gave could be considered as a fresh air in the today's society. You will constantly hear how all men are dumb, how sitting with your legs spread is misogynistic or any other bs like that from any outlet or media. So the news that portray women as th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:49 PM |
| 8 | I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made itBlue pill will never acknowledge women's fault on anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:37 AM |
| 0 | A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observationThis, we're all stem from animals, if someone can play into "ooga-booga" thing, he'll win in the romantic sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:33 AM |
| 3 | His/her past matters, it is perfectly fine to judge someone's past behaviors and family background to know if they are capable of having healthy and monogamous relationships.This comment should be awarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 07:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women's complaints about online dating are of their own doing.Chadfish refutes your claim about bio. And don't tell me that women don't have lazy photos as their profile picture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill dating strategy for men is effective but unfulfillingTo be fair, your point about relationships is valid, but I don't see the reason why would you go into one using RP. RP is shining when there's no commitment, or at least when you leverage it for sex, so you might want to go for fwb than relationship when using RP tactics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 07:50 AM |
| 3 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseNot really. Alcohol isn't banned, some weak drugs are still used in medicine and other stuff. It's not even to mention the half of population will be totally on board along with it. The only chance they can ban it is if they ban this early while it didn't properly develop and not many people have tried, but given enough time?... No way they are going to be able to do that. Guys would literally defend it together, cuz it's just that good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 11:41 PM |
| 10 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseMaybe this is the best thing to happen to men, ever My dude, this is heaven. You can literally do anything you want. I honestly hope that they will go further and make it even more immersive with experience and warmth, because it will make all this male thirst just vanish. Just fucking imagine... You wanted to fuck that milf, but never had a chance, enter the images and you can have everything with her. This is really the best thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 11:33 PM |
| 6 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.It becomes a cult Hahahaha, guys understanding what actually happens in places they are excluded from isn't a cult, it's just opening previously closed curtains. It doesn't have a leader like a cult should, it doesn't have violence that hold them together. The fact that so many men sympathise with it means it's true. Hell even you say it, "would grow out of this" = gain money and/or status and have success on their own while others never do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:44 PM |
| 5 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: AF/BB is real and ubiquitous. Countless studies have found that women in marriages and LTRs are less interested in sex.100% true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 08:50 AM |
| 6 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI can see and understand your point, however I would argue that differences are not that massive as they seem to be. For example, your average guy knows that his gf will be able to pull men at the minute's notice, so she is already employing dread game either with or without realising it. And there's other examples like this, for instance: Women perform shittests too and they aren't called abusive or manipulative for them. And it's not like she has to be any of those things, she can be just test… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Looks determine your league, personality determines your successIt's traits of personality, but personality itself isn't limited to them. It's also values and general lense of how you look at things at your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Looks determine your league, personality determines your successNah, you can be a nazi chad and you will have success, just look at the chadfish and it will tell you everything you need to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:01 AM |
| 6 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherBecause if women were actually following what they preach and actually stopped dating misogynistic men, ideas like RP wouldn't have exploded in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:38 AM |
| 0 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherIt's just wishful thinking. Narcissists and abusers gotten away with it for a long time, what makes you think women would step up now? Your good guy has zero luck in dating, your bad guy will find more success along with women doing mental gymnastics how they are "growing" from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:36 AM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherNow tell me what part of it your average blue pill guy doesn't face when it's coming from women Apparently it's healthy when women do this, but not when it's men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:26 AM |
| 0 | Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around?Do they exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around?Hook up material, and it's not even close I can't believe that a guy that is capable of hooking up isn't capable to secure relationship, in my understanding he has all the instruments in his disposal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?The takeaway would be this: if they are extremely insecure - run for the hills, if she's only a little bit insecure - it's ok, you can stay. When asked - deploy amused mastery or laugh it off Something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?Wow, great in-depth response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I see the suggestions, they are just rather similar than any different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:31 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?To be fair, I was lurking here for a while but I didn't encounter anything related to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I'm curious, if you ever acted in this way, what was the "acceptable" answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I have a problem of saying what's on my mind when they are asked and it usually ends up in arguments, so I wanted to ask for approaches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I'm sure you encountered them. Like, for instance, if a girl mentions something or acts in some specific way to see what would you do or how would you react | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 04:04 PM |
| -1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I just see through them really and recognise them from afar, but I keep encountering the problem that I give straight honest answers and they are usually end up in arguments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I'm not asking for a guide, I'm rather asking on ways to approach such a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?What I mean by them is, for example, when you are talking about each other's day and she brings up that she twerked at work or how some dude was hitting on her without telling how she ended it outright, that kind of thing, basically provocation or testing my attitude to certain things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?Why would it be for something casual if you are likely to walk away after these when you're not in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:54 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?What I mean by them is, for example, when you are talking about each other's day and she brings up that she twerked at work or how some dude was hitting on her without telling how she ended it outright, that kind of thing, basically provocation or testing my attitude to certain things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I see your point. If you don't mind my asking, what if you agree with the stance behind it, do you still lie or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?Idk, but I see it as a shit test and I was a bit taken aback by it, like what would I say here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?Haha, that's one way to deal with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I don't know what gave you the idea of me believing conspiracy theories, I am just saying that since almost everyone is insecure, it's very likely to encounter such thing, so I started a discussion about it. No pun intended | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?No, it's just that chances are that I find someone insecure is high, so I might like a girl, but she's insecure a bit so she would do them If that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I guess they are the only ones who have the audacity to do sich a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:43 PM |
| -1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I doubt it works that way. What if you caught feelings? You already can't do what you preach in this case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with them in general or in specific situations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?Hahaha, but still, it's only one part of the question. Your tactic malfunctions when she starts bringing up other things like some random interaction with the dude or her mentioning something that contradicts what she said previously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:23 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?It's definitely one way to go around it, but the problem here is that you leave the question unanswered and it's likely to come back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?The problem with this approach is waiting out for the ideal. I doubt that many people have the ability to do that and since many people have their own shortcomings, you would need some advice on how to deal with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Newbie Question: Why did Pick Up Artistry become more right wing?It's just that the main critic of it, feminism, is on the left, so they in association as something left wing bashes, ended up as a right wing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.If I fucked up this badly that they are my only two options, then I would go for a childless one only to cheat with her sister. I would have a relationship and a great sex, but I'll avoid responsibility for kids by staying with childless one. The best choice here really, other than staying single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:06 AM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).What a shame. Your post is black pill at it's best or, if you have high enough self esteem, red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:36 AM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).It's a very strong black pill, because it literally means that everything is solely about looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:23 AM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Your post is amazing, but is there any other reason that women became choosy other than being able to be shallow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:20 AM |
| 12 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?It's funny how you jump to assumptions when you don't have anything to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?Because there are no benefits of being a nice guy. All the benefits are reserved for ONS or fuckboys but not for the good stable guy. I have seen it the first hand and let me tell you, it's not something you want. I have been a nice guy for the first twenty years. All it gave me with women is zero success, always rejected. I was a virgin not that long ago, but I had my twin brother that is total opposite of it. He would be rude, obnoxious, teasing and sometimes straight up nasty. I always wonder… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else here who thinks idea of lonely women or femcel is fake?Even though I am fairly red pilled and usually on the Rp side of things, here I will say with full confidence that you are wrong. These women absolutely exist and they have their own struggles due to their own invisibility and hardship to find a meaningful relationship they would like to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:32 AM |
| 1 | I think there is unfair criticism towards unsuccessful daters.If your "emotionally healthy one" includes being overly emotional, then no. This idea is pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men being Insecure over sex toysThey are pathetic for wanting to be the best for you. Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:39 PM |
| 2 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseIf you actually go in depth of the sources that were mentioned in the article, you'd find that the biggest predictor of success isn't how much boxes do you tick, but how much money man make and does he live with his parents. Ironically you will be on the wrong side of the equation only if you are a guy. If you are a woman you can be a bimbo that lives with her parents aand you will still do fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:46 AM |
| 1 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseI defended stud-praising because you argued against it. Regarding slutshaming... I think it's valid, because men, on average, aren't having the same phase, which implies that they are not a woman's first pick for the relationship. This means that the majority of men will never experience love from women. So, the girl will have an experience that she will always compare him to or set the controlling boundaries that are based upon it while the guy didn't even have the opportunity to experience des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:40 AM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMEAnd so what? A few that say ridiculous things like going back in time are unrealistic nutjobs. Just because they exist, it doesn't mean the majority are like them. In all fairness, I think that they would fail even at that time, because the competition wouldn't go away, they just won't know that their wife cheats on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:24 AM |
| 2 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseRegarding your: Chads are often, but not necessarily naturals. A guy can be in good physique because he achieved it in the gym, plus he has to be smooth talker, be smart, funny, good looking, etc. It's okay to have a stud-praising because women literally don't have to do anything besides existing. I never said it is moral, so no argument there Yes, it's not immoral if it's easy. However when you look at the pure validation and ego stroke women get from dating apps and simps, by purely existing, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 2 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseIt's between people in the age of 25-49. Of course the majority of them have at least some experience, the majority of them are married. And yes, here men have a median you said because later in life men can level the field by using their recources. However, if you consider the different age group, I will be right: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men. Tldr: We were talking about different ages, plus your stats fail to mentio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 09:08 AM |
| 0 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseCan you elaborate why median value contradicts what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 08:37 AM |
| 3 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseIf you take into account the fact that the third of men are sexless, you can see that the number five means that the huge amounts of sex are in hands of the minority, ergo chads. Idk where did you get "lots of guys have a lot of sex" because it's plainly untrue. 30% of them are sexless, so logically second 30% had probably 1-5 instances. The last third probably has varying degree of success of greater than 5 partners. So yeah, the small percentage of Chads do have a lot of sex and since women ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 07:26 AM |
| 4 | My thoughts on the hoe phaseFor a guy to even touch the scraps of women's hoe phase he must be a chad, so no, it's not hypocrisy, it's mere acknowledgement that men have to work for it, while women can just exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 07:08 AM |
| 2 | It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag"Idk, probably true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag"Still, you take it easy on women, because you assume that your average insecure man is rather violent than not, so you do reinforce Op's point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:27 PM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMEIf she really thinks that men need to be told that "No, you can't rape anyone you want", she hates men. The post is just her lame attempt at hiding it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.I have a hard time believing that women aren't desired. You have the whole simp culture on your side as well as the Blue pill which is widely reinforced. Besides, I don't really understand what you mean by mcbangmaid. Assuming it's a man that uses a woman for her body, do you know how many man can actually pull that off? Hint: not many. So instead of making a surprised Pikachu face when the fuckboy doesn't commit, you should literally look around, don't you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:21 PM |
| 6 | Being Nice vs AuthenticAnd he doesn't need it. He will be fine, so he's in a good place. Also, his success isn't artificial. I'd say it's actually broad, because many people have a habit of mistaking emotional unavailability with confidence, so he is genuinely attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Being Nice vs AuthenticI don't see the reason, really. If he's a psychopath he will have success with women, he doesn't have to change anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag"No, it's a fallacy. A man can hit his girl while not being insecure and insecure man can abstain from violent acts. Both are true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | It's fine for women to be jealous or insecure in a relationship, but when men are it's a "red flag"You are reinforcing Op's point by creating a strawman, where an insecure guy must be violent. Hahaha, ty for proving op to be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.Your question doesn't make any sense, because men aren't mind-readers. You can't tell if she truly desires you or you just attracted her with your attention and money. Besides, women sort the vast majority of guys into "unattractive" category, so it's no surprise that the majority of them won't ever feel love from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:26 PM |
| – | A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIMEJust say that you hate men. Why do you try to hide it under the mask of a scapegoats? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use money to control womenI know right? Why would anyone bother changing a view of a 304? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”They show that dark triad is associated with short term success, if I'm not mistaken. It's logical to assume that they are drawn to that type of guys. Your assumption that women didn't seek out a relationship with them is false, at least imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??”All dark triad guy has to do then is just manipulate her and it will go on for months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?No. I am the one that started noticing some of the Rp concepts before I even knew that was a thing and got any play only after applying red pill in practice. Without it, I would probably be like my brother, who I tried to talk to about it, Blue pilled af. I would believe all that garbage that the most attractive guy is the one who treats her the best, would scoff at the idea of dating as of market or honestly believe that those who don't get laid have a bad personality. It's so bizarre to me now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Are we in a Gender Cold War?Nobody panics when I say "Kill all men", but when I say "Not all men" everyone loses their minds! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:32 AM |
| 1 | The bluepill is too difficult for most men to swallowI honestly think that you are troll. Red pill is about providing understanding of female nature and how to operate within it. It just gives more realistic understanding of women, that's all, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - what happens to TRP when you get a girlfriend?TRP didn't go anywhere. I just know what to expect now and how I should act if I want something I like to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:04 AM |
| 27 | I’ve never experienced a woman initiating a romantic interaction in my life. How long can this continue?Yes, we infantilize, but no, it's not going to change. They are happy with the status quo. All men are scary, with exception for a handful attractive guys. That's their reality and it's not going to go away any time soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Why bother dating in the west?While yes, Japan is not as traditional as your average middle eastern country, it's not as liberal as the West in a lot of ways. For instance, expectations of you as a man are largely conservative (money, status), but you also need to know the language. Not to mention the common trope of work, where you have to work for ten-eleven hours per day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:06 AM |
| 11 | Why bother dating in the west?Bro, the purge is over. Also The things you've mentioned are largely stereotypes, that based on anime, but not on reality. You will immediately bump into the huge problem that is language barrier, and even if after some time living there you'll overcome this issue, you will face a traditional society, meaning that you have to make decent amount of money, to even get a slightest chance to experience all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 07:44 AM |
| 3 | When women say “be nice”… we aren’t holding out hope for you.Skipping the part that it's just world fallacy, how many of this "ugly" guys are being cheated on and walked over? Be nice is a bad advice. If you want to rack up numbers you should take care of your appearance and be manipulative. This will give you infinitely more game than niceness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do women do this!?!?!?They can't help themselves. They will always do it, they will come back to the most masculine dick they had, no matter what history you had with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | "Why don't men just ask for sex instead of following redpill loser advice!?!?"You can't be serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I think a huge problem with this sub is that women won’t/ don’t understand the challenges men face.They don't care. They will cater towards any Chad, but they will never even think about problems of any other guy besides him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:05 AM |
| 4 | The double standard explained.Tons of women Tons of sluts. Fixed it for ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 10:51 AM |
| -1 | Why are women like this?This. They don't have a problem with guys who never leave a house, because everyone has to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:48 AM |
| 7 | CMV: white guys who strictly date asian women are losersI am in Asia now, so your point of view is plainly incorrect. It would be dumb of me to chase white women when everyone else are asian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | East Asian men of PPD: is this true?White and black guys don't have it easy too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | This sub in every single discussion about this topicThey literally created a whole scapegoat to shame men from liking asian women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Men don't like women's body count because of preselection among menYou missed the point. It's that among other girls, she's a bad pick, because guys she was attracted to didn't try to get into relationship with her, implying that she doesn't compare to other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Men don't like women's body count because of preselection among menA guy would attempt, at least, to have a relationship with her if he really liked her. The absence of it is an indicator that among other women, she's not a good pick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, would you prefer a young, high N-count woman or an older, low/no N-count woman?26 year old. But not because of her bodycount, but because 21 year old probably has a hoe phase and will inevitably cheat on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Average feminist male.Would be funnier if you actually had a point here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Average feminist male.Yes, it is a different claim. But pathetic man with no self respect is a cuck, so they're not wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Average feminist male.I don't think they are. From what I've seen, the most loud feminist men are the most pathetic ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:52 AM |
| 6 | Average feminist male.In what part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Buy my book or I'll cryWash ma ballz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:33 AM |
| 11 | Average feminist male.Aare they wrong though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:04 AM |
| 6 | Women be like: "It's so hard to find guys on Tinder"At this point it's like saying that majority of girls are beautiful princesses, but the majority of guys are literal goblins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:38 AM |
| 15 | Women be like: "It's so hard to find guys on Tinder"You must be a mind reader to sort "trash guys" from normal guys by taking a look at the picture only for a second or two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:36 AM |
| 26 | Don't judge my past 😠True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:36 AM |
| 27 | Women be like: "It's so hard to find guys on Tinder"She's average bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:31 AM |
| 66 | Women be like: "It's so hard to find guys on Tinder""BuT wOmEn AcTuAlLy ReAd BiOs!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:29 AM |
| 16 | Women be like: "It's so hard to find guys on Tinder"So hard having dating life on the constant tutorial level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Just a reminder that if a bitch does that, than the hoe's for the streets! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Reddit women ponder crime statisticsSlow down cowboy. Even in Nazi Germany there were people who have hidden jews and helped them escape to neutral countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:21 AM |
| 4 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsI would love to see a bit of context here, because it's not really a full picture. What does the Asian mean? Only east asian (japan, korea, china) or Asia as a whole (india, japan, Indonesia)? What does black mean (only black Americans or african immigrants are with them too)? What does white mean (only Europeans and white americans or places like middle east and Argentina are included too?) There's only a clarity somehow for Latino, because they are just form central/latin america. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What are the advantages of being the Nice Guy?The advantages are similar to being single: "Ignorance is bliss" will be your motto because you have zero experience in the relationships, so if she's setting for you or you have a bad sex or she's being abusive you'll never know. You have more money to spend on yourself You have more time for other activities because you have no gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 07:46 AM |
| 4 | Question for everyone: could you commit long term to a person that swiped you left on Tinder?Not a chance. It automatically implies that she is way less interested in me than vice versa . It's literally digging your own grave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilegeKeep preaching lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilegeWomen having more options means that they have a better chance of good relationship too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilegeIt's a numbers game. By having more options to choose from you have bigger chances for the good relationships. It's elementary math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | A request: I want to find data on monkey branching🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Women can get away with infidelity and abuse more easily than men.AWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?Of course they do. They want at least some resemblance of chad in the beta they decided to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Is it ok for a man to use prostitution, if it's legal? Can you compare it to casual sex?He will do exactly what women do about bodycount : lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:52 AM |
| -1 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themwomen's sex drive vary a lot among individuals and during different times in a woman's life AF/BB in a nutshell. It's not about how he looks. It's that by telling guys that women have the same drive as them, you are telling them that they're worthless, because they are sexless and that is simply not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:42 AM |
| 0 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themThey have the desire for sex only for Chads or Tyrones. Your average guy will never know what it's actually like to be loved, desired and lusted upon. Unless you are these guys... You are fucked. With social media and online dating just became more apparent that most guys are never going to be genuinely loved even by their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.I agree with that. I'd say that almost everyone from broken home aren't like that.I think it came from anime where literally every hero has a broken family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingKeep preaching, lol. Finding a partner is a numbers game, copium such as "quality" doesn't apply because you have a higher chance of meeting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?Yeah. It's terrible. Funny thing that if guys did the same, they would have been banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 07:02 AM |
| 5 | CMV: when people are talking about dating, no one is EVER talking about unattractive menI think it runs deeper than that. It's not even that they don't date, it's that even if they wanted to, they would have the worst experiences when it comes to dating. To the point where the topic is "I didn't get called creep. Yay!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: when people are talking about dating, no one is EVER talking about unattractive menTo be fair, everyone seems to agree that they have it so bad, that there's nothing to talk about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.Value in life placed on women? Fuck no, good luck finding someone else for simping. And yes, it will help, because I will know what to look out for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.Alpha fux, beta bux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.Out of all normal women, in the red jacket actually said that a lot of the advice from Red Pill is sound and she is also the only one there to put up a decent amount of quality points, so yeah, props to her. The one with the blue hair periodically tuned into conversation and she had a mediocre success of combating Myron's arguments. The rest, with one exception of the Asian lady to the right, were just silent for most of the show. There you have it, your average girl would be silent, because she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I can see where are you coming from, however if you saw similar street interviews, a lot of people can't name a single country in Africa or something like that. Also, you wouldn't be able to tell how intelligent some woman is before you've met and spoken to her. So, even though they are picking women basically for the entertainment, what makes a large chunk of it is the fact that the talking points of these women are essentially the same with majority of girls. They are killing two birds with on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.You need to readjust the mediocrity to the place where guys in dating operate. Average american woman goes for all women in the US, married or not. What you need to see is your average woman that takes part into dating marketplace and this type of woman is far from her late forties. So , yeah, podcast girls are not precisely a representation of all women, because it's just not, however their talking points are rather widespread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:06 AM |
| 0 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.You don't have to look for it because the most common criticism of that picking is not that they are not an average women, but that they aren't good at defending their point of view than your supposed average woman is (I doubt that). So they aren't really disputing the views of these women, rather their argumentation of these views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Men should appreciate better what porn has done for themIt has if the sex is passionate and done with both loving partners. If not, yeah. Good luck with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 17 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.I am a little bit of devil's advocate here, but what you wrote is blatantly incorrect. I would argue that you are focusing attention on cherry picked arguments against their biggest channels. About F&F: They invite them to demonstrate the entitlement of such women and because they are arguably easier to deal with. Don't get me wrong: Myron and others are more than capable of handling your average woman and red pilling her in the process. It's just that the talking points of the average woman and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 09:53 PM |
| 21 | You need to consider the pitfalls of being a successful person in the current marketIt's like... Go cry about it. "I'm miserable because I'm rich". Pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 12:11 PM |
| 0 | What do you agree with about the RP, and what do you disagree with?There's nothing that can actually disprove that rule, besides some anecdotes and no true scotsman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 06:28 AM |
| 6 | The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist.Op is right lmao. Can't wait to see the copium coming in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsIt will most certainly change it for women, because the cheap access to validation from simps is going to vanquish. Yay for incels, nay for others. Might become too addictive and you won't know what to do about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 10:05 PM |
| 19 | The modern equivalent of a "strong, independent" women is unattractive to menIdk. I'm a guy and I don't find the "strong and independent" stereotype to be so repulsive in the relationship. It's just that most women are not strong and independent, despite what they claim. In fact, I'd argue that strong and independent woman is better for a relationship (let's not engage with evo psyche), because we have a capable partner, who is far more interesting than any tradwife could ever be. She can call the shots in the times of need and she is supposedly won't lose her ground whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy is often rooted in a fear of rejection/insecurityI didn't single out any particular sex with this statement. I'm saying it's a problem to want to feel special through validation from others because it's rooted in insecurity. You should have self-confidence independent of others. It's unhealthy to depend on others to validate you. Your flair is question for men, you singled out it with this. If you put it that way, that you ideally shouldn't need validation from others I'd agree, however this is still rather an opinion, even more controversial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Monogamy is often rooted in a fear of rejection/insecurityMonogamy means that you are investing your recourses in only one person. Those who are looking for virgin wives do that not because of insecurity, but from feeling safe that the recourses they have invested in other person will stay with that person and with them (i.e. she didn't cheat on them). Also, the fear that someone will win over your partner can be rooted in both fear of not finding a replacement and love. You have already said about former, but the latter means that once your partner ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, what are some flaws of the Red Pill?They insist that everyone could be desirable if they chased money hard enough and hit the gym more often than not. In reality though, there's only a few jobs that make you stand out from everyone in the sense of income. So, you chasing money might not help, because the amount of jobs that are paying more than six figures is small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:34 AM |
| 9 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.It's funny because the same guys that are saying things like that, probably wouldn't be able to help themselves in those times too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:11 AM |
| -2 | Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women.Try asking that question (How would you rate yourself on the scale from 1-10) on the streets. I bet, women are queenz is what you are gonna get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousHonestly? I am all for equality of sexes, but feminism never helped men, so I am lost at what would a guy want from them. On the one hand, demanding state issued girlfriend is so ridiculous, there's nothing else to say about it without dying from laughter. On the other hand, they have an influence and power over media and news, so probably at least saying that your average guy is actually okay? That he isn't some loser that needs to be killed (KAM) or some other nonsense that he ain't shit, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Gabor Mate being a role model for modern men?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Its true, women don't make any effort in datingYeah, they don't need any skills to participate. If you are normal, you will have to do all the effort, because they have overabundance of options like you. If you are 5-10% of the guys that are actually getting hit on by women, they will make a clumsy attempts to approach you, because again, zero experience on their part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Who in your life is successful with women?I know it does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Who in your life is successful with women?Identical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousI am saying that if you as much as point out that your average guy will never experience genuine love and attraction, you will be showered with comments about entitlement and misogyny , even though the need of friendship and love stands next to the physical safety in the pyramid of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Who in your life is successful with women?Wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousIf that's you mirroring an average guy on the woman, I don't understand why you think your average guy is a social outcast. Average guy is average for a reason. He is not the hottest, but he is not the ugliest either. He is not mentally prepared to deal with any random situation, but his mental health does not come with a severity of the problems either. He isn't a social butterfly, but he isn't loner either. He isn't fit, but he isn't obese or anorexic either. He isn't a high earner, but he isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityIt's a sound argument, however the more renowned parts of these myths are still knights, Camelot, Excalibur and the round table with a Holy grail. The cheating part is far less known and also, in these myths, they are antagonised for it, even though Arthur spares her in the end. You are right to point that out in greek mythology too, however it's worth also mention that Zeus was a main god of their pantheon and mythology, so that kind of stuff is obviously allowed for him to do, but only for him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousThat's why men need red pill. To stop listening to that nonsense. There's only an incredibly lucky few ugly guys that somehow made it there. Their success is luck and probably putting up with the skewed power dynamics in their relationships against them. He isn't entitled nor does he disrespects women, but he thought that between him and literally nothing, women will choose him over nothing. Imagine if your partner stood up one day and chose loneliness over you. That's tough, but that's what we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:03 AM |
| 7 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousYeah, very empathetic of you to tell the guy that he is worse than nothing and blame it all on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:54 AM |
| 6 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousAnother post of how women are all queeenzz that get it from the get go and men are dumb bozos. AMALT, I guess? What is shocking is that as an average man (~60% of attractiveness compared to total male population), let alone below average man, you will never experience any genuine attraction and love from women ever, because AF/BB, and if you try to complain about it, you will be gaslit to Tartarus by feminists, because complaint of such nature will be seen as misogynistic. You, as a man, are als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 11:34 PM |
| -1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI mean, not necessarily. The vast majority of people throughout history were pretty much unconscious about their needs and they would support their landlords and feudal lords, even though it was an oppressive system that they actually had no stake in. Why did they do it? Not because they're masochists or they were locked away, but because they genuinely believed in it. They believed that "this is how things are" and supported the system for centuries. It took a long time and a few developments a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:37 PM |
| 0 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousWill you remove this post because of the blatant misandry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousMods, will you remove this post for misandry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityIt's easy for you to say it now, but I don't think it will be as easy for everyone. You can stay at home and never go to work, because there's your clone in your place. I doubt that many people will reject even this oversimplistic model, what will happen woth the more productive ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI think the AI thing won't be given, you will need to pay for your child's health and genes. There's probably will be traditional (here it will mean that a woman will have pregnancy like today) couples, so it's kinda messy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityWith this? There's no need to, you can just custom your wife while leaving the rest of the women alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityHah, it really is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityDystopian route would dictate then that you have to pay for the right of owning your child, basically buying them from the state. But you are absolutely right about average people. I didn't consider that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:01 PM |
| -5 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityArtificial marriage exists to this day. If she doesn't know, she won't bother with the idea of someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI mean, top coachable wife to top G! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityOnly in your wildest dreams | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI think that it could happen, because it's basically the same mechanism that was enacted during slavery, that child of the slave is slave, but here it's child of the machine is not a real human. It's disgusting, but there's nothing stopping from taking their rights away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityAndrew Tate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityHe actually suggests it at the end of the post, to create "perfect husbands" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI don't think people will hold this view though. As heinous as it sounds, people had slavery enacted not that long ago. There's nothing stopping it from happening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityThis is one of the most dystopian shit I've seen. I mean, enjoy the decline and all, but it really sounds like an incel paradise with new government assigned girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itThe vast majority of men are invisible to women. To say you can build up a woman's attraction towards you by having a unique personality is advocating for the casino. I'd argue that hoping to build a unique personality in itself is such a difficult task, that you probably vastly underestimate its scarcity if you actually suggest it as advice. If for looks there's around 30% of people who make it into the attractive bracket, but for the unique and attractive personality there's what? 5%? 1? There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Are big city dating scenes not worth it for below-average males?Well. By "Global scene" I meant that in big cities culture tends to be globalised in some way, so you have to act around more global standards and modern ideas, rather than local. There's also a factor, that in such big cities you have a lot of foreigners that also compete on the dating scene, and they are not poor or happened there randomly. They are more likely, I'd assume, to be either a student or are trying to build a career, so they shape it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Are big city dating scenes not worth it for below-average males?If you are below average than it's not worth it. Let's say you are from small town. You compete there with not a lot of guys there, so there's a good chance you will make it on top there, but in big cities, especially giants like NY, Paris, etc. you have competition from global scene, not just local | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | For anyone who has self-proclaimed extremely low standards, what are those standards?On the 6'0 floor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | men need to gain women despite the chance of being seen as creepy. the fear of being seen as creepy will hinder them more than actually being creepyCaring for yourself is not being a sociopath. Generally speaking you should have a concern for yourself, your family members and close friends, but outside from that? You shouldn't give a fuck. Red pill says, and rightly so, that you need to take women off the pedestal. Her well being shouldn't be in higher priority than yours. Most guys put women on pedestal and they trouble themselves with not coming off as creepy. In fact, I'd assume that they don't approach women because they don't want to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | For anyone who has self-proclaimed extremely low standards, what are those standards?Since almost all of my crushes were the ones that are conventionally considered unattractive: If the chemistry is there, just don't be overweight and be younger than 35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | men need to gain women despite the chance of being seen as creepy. the fear of being seen as creepy will hinder them more than actually being creepyI don't think you have to have some concern for others. If you won't do it others will and you lose. I agree with you though, that if you ask three girls per week, all three rejected you and you are still trying, then you are wasting your time. However, if you asked them out and they said yes, do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:41 AM |
| 3 | men need to gain women despite the chance of being seen as creepy. the fear of being seen as creepy will hinder them more than actually being creepyWhy do you even entertain the thought that dating isn't or shouldn't be a numbers game? Women are literally encouraged to have a hoe phase which is a numbers game. If you are a guy that wants to have fun too, you need to stop giving a fuck what they say or how it might potentially come as and just do what you want. Otherwise, you'll leave all the fun for others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | People not understanding or acknowledging sex differences between men and women ruins so much of the discourse in PPDIf that's your biggest problem, I legitimately envy you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badI doubt that anyone could've said it better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Who in your life is successful with women?My twin brother (21) is ridiculously successful with women. When we rented apartment together I lost count to women he brought home. He's just knows what to say and what to do. It's difficult to explain. It's one of those things that he just gets. Needless to say that he's confident, easily starts any conversation, and probably charming af. His appearance: 6'1, white, fit. Idk what else here to say. I wouldn't say he's chad, because if he is, it would destroy my self esteem as a person, since I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe question was not about what you've described | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlmost everyone grows out of their teenage years. Would you be down to do smth with your ex if he approached you, while you're partying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4W: If you dated a "bad boy" and now with someone else, do you have at least a fraction of attraction to your partner that you had for a "bad boy"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Don't get surprised then, when your liberties will be stripped away by these men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't more RP/Black Pillers Anti-capitalist?Leaving the whole capitalism vs socialism aside, the right are the only one who talks about men's issues, while left needs to even acknowledge their existence in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Men's lack of close emotional bonds with other men.It's highly debatable if women like this state of things. Like, sure, for women with OF or those who literally use guys it's a gift, but for other? Not so much. I'd assume that if you are a sane woman, you'd want your man to be emotionally stable, without being his therapist, so you'd actually encourage your man to have his own friends. Another point that contradicts your theoretical assumption is that your manipulation is good only for the certain amount of time. I wouldn't be surprised that if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: have you ever been the recipient of a wingman?I had a wingman. Unfortunately in my case wingman was too good and women just went for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?Most men will never experience the same level of attraction or desire from woman than the guys who she wanted earlier in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenI mean...duh. It's kinda why RP was created in the first place. Bluepillers will never be able to explain things like why serial killers are successful with women even if they are known or why their advice is straight up garbage most of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:10 PM |
| 3 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou didn't describe accurately what you meant in your comment then. You said that if he's as much as concerned about it, it is already a red flag, despite the reasons he might have, but if you meant a guy who places a very important value on this alone as a reason to call him that, I am on board with you then. A person's value goes above and beyond a number of hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 12:59 AM |
| 6 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's funny how you say that shaming for the choices of your past (n count) is wrong, but then turn around and call a guy who cares about it names | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Is there really a double standard where an ugly guy comes off as creepy and an attractive guy comes off as attractive when they approach women?If you are ugly, yours telling "Hello" to a woman will get a cops called on you, whether if you are attractive yours "Hello" will get you her number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Men being f*ckboys is propagated by women, and ultimately beneficial for menIt's not beneficial to men. It is for a fboys/chads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's not valid, because in some shape or form it's present in almost every discussion here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:26 PM |
| 8 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat's the point of the discussion if everyone seems to agree on the fact that men do feel an ick here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:01 PM |
| 5 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's not about how woman had it, it's about what she did with that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What would be a mathematical equivalent to the aspects of dating.You make a very good point. I didn't consider that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What would be a mathematical equivalent to the aspects of dating.I disagree with you on the height because 8'0 is a disadvantage rather than advantage. Experience too, you can be very experienced, but it won't open for you many doors by it's own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:01 PM |
| 0 | What would be a mathematical equivalent to the aspects of dating.The problem with statistics is that they provide a generally true statement, without much details how it is impacting the dating. Like, an OC study for instance. It just provides a generally true statement like "Women in the overabundance of options view the vast majority as unattractive option", but they don't specify how it would actually impact the dating scene. Like, there's no way from that to say how much they view, how and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:56 PM |
| 0 | What would be a mathematical equivalent to the aspects of dating.I agree with you on the graphs, but the problem with statistics is that they provide a generally true statement, without much details how it is impacting the dating. Like, an OC study for instance. It just provides a generally true statement like "Women in the overabundance of options view the vast majority as unattractive option", but they don't specify how it would actually impact the dating scene. Like, there's no way from that to say how much they view, how and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What would be a mathematical equivalent to the aspects of dating.Yeah... I'll make a edit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men?Why do you think this approach (as economics) doesn't make sense? It explains how and for whom dating apps work. It also explains why would a girl chase an extremely attractive guy and then completely disregard everyone else and a few other things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:44 PM |
| 3 | What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men?Why would you not at least look into the guy who gets something extremely easy, while you have it hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women gaslight men over the significance of online dating?It's not wrong that they want comfort. Why are you blaming them for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Why online dating is difficult for womenUnder the right circumstances it could be taken for AF/BB confirmation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:47 AM |
| 0 | Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worstWhat's wrong with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally?I think it is immensely responsible for the current state of dating. While I am not saying that the movement is bad, it's hard not to see the consequences of it in the dating. It has affected women's education, employment, and perception of the world overall (not just for women). Things like body positivity, sexual revolution that was celebrated by feminists of both 2nd and 3rd waves, the invention of perception of slutshaming as something negative, the push for normalising sex work. These thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Women think nice men are least sexually attractive but best for relationshipsI would say it could be true, because when you are initially nice, the receiving party might think that you are probably nice to everyone and thus don't fight for the place under the sun as ferociously as others. It could explain why it is perceived as negative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveYeah, probably with enough recourses and dedication science could find a new solution to this. But right now the paradox remains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveI mean, if your guy who had succeeded with you really ticked off all the boxes, hats off to you, you landed a catch. I am not really funny, but I am sociable. Idk if I am good guy, I've done both good and bad things. I don't think therapy is something that can actually help. I am probably self-aware and emotionally intelligent in my own right. But really, can't you see the reason why the approaching moved on fringes? If you need to tick all the boxes to have a shot in approach, it's just not via… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveImagine asking out 12 women that I am already acquainted with in private and also in the same circle of friends with in person to have no result. Crazy right? Not so much. I am trying to make a point that while I am glad for you that all turned out very well for you, it's rather rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveI understand your point. I truly do. I was just speaking from my experience about approaching, and that is nothing ever came out of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful love"You're pretty" could be objectification, because it literally implies that you are judged superficially, as an object, not as a person with feelings. In the worst possible scenario it's being equated to sex doll. I bet many women (you don't have to look too far for that, just open twox chromosomes, or askfeminists) would think that you're entitled because you think you have a chance with them of shooting your shot. It's not the fact itself, it's about on whom you are trying it. You also leave a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveThere's none Basically a paradox, while women don't owe society anything, they are still needed to solve this issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 05:25 PM |
| 13 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveI thought you were pretty Aha, objectification. "Why do you judge me by my looks and not by my character?" Or something like "Looks away, grabs her phone, starts recording" I might be able to grab your number Uhh, the entitlement. "These men think they can approach me as if I owe them a relationship". Or maybe: "He thinks he has a chance with me. What a creep", or perhaps more common: "And what will he do with my number? Stalk me?" You just can't win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 05:23 PM |
| 8 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveNo, they don't. My point still stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 9 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveThere's no point for a guy to approach the women, especially in the US. You'll be labelled all horrible things, for even trying, so yeah. Why bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:52 PM |
| 9 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveBecause without new people coming in, the state will degrade into less comfortable place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers see relationship success as probabilistic and Bluepillers see it as an exercise of trustYou are basically describing the difference in phylosophy between TRP and TBP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?I mean, if I love my wife, why would I leave her? It's a really good scenario: stable family, good financial situation. It would be dumb of me to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the idea of AF/BB?I think it exists, but in majority it's not as severe as people would make it out to be. In order to happen, you need to have a promiscuous woman that is marrying unattractive (comparatively to her) guy. Promiscuous women don't have the numbers to be the vast majority, and if you follow the narrative of BB till the end, you also have the fact that beta has money or at least stable financial situation, so by having "dead bedroom" woman also risks pushing her partner to cheating and thus to divorc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?The hostility would stem from the fact that they are behaving exactly like animals. It's as if the past was all for nothing, so we can be animals in the modern era, while being supposedly on the top of our development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | The 80/20 rule is real, but not the one you think….That's not how genes work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I know whether a potential partner consumes red pill content?Ask him what colour is his Bugatti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to?The way you put it, where everything is great, just a history with this, yeah, I would. But I am saying yes only because literally everything else is great. In reality that's too hypothetical and you have no way to know it for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:53 AM |
| 5 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Two things: 1) Your political understanding of the modern Russia and USSR is zero and you should educate yourself to not embarrass yourself like that. 2) I can hardly debate your points, I guess they are true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are indeed incredibly complicated to understand.Yep. Both have complexities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Women are indeed incredibly complicated to understand.I think it's stupid to believe that there is some fundamental difference between men and women. We are pretty much equal with a slight differences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:35 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crap..."if he knows"... Turn down the lights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are indeed incredibly complicated to understand.Most of them are easy. Slaves to their desires, urges. Face societal pressures, so they might say one thing and act differently. Rude to anyone they're not attracted to, will go above and beyond for those they are into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapShe will string along some guy, like she tried it with him. At least she would feel miserable as much as the guy who will wind with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 09:55 PM |
| 7 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapIt's sweet, but not really. I can't speak for all other guys, but I am sure there's people who will agree with me. I have a ridiculously successful in dating brother. When we rented an apartment together, I have almost always seen him in the evening with some girl. The amount of pure lust and desire he got is just unknown to most guys. It's absolutely different from what the "boyfriend material" receive. The bf material guys would be lucky to even feel for a moment that amount of desire. You are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:30 AM |
| 4 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapLol, I hope he will pump&dump her as cruel as he could | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?Isn't it just a paraphrased "Men are not entitled to have a sex with a woman in the relationship."? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapAssuming she likes me a lot, but for some reason withholding sex. >It can be manipulation. It is. >It can be that she tried it, got burnt and doesn't want to repeat that mistake. This is valid, but only on the condition she's not repeating this mistake only with me >It can be that she isn't comfortable having sex with you yet. It means that she's not attracted to me as much as she's to the other guy. > It can be because she doesn't want to have sex now, no matter if it's with you or not. Again, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapI am asking before marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapThe empowering notion feminism did to itself, there's no need to blame men for your creation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapYou serious? Good luck with a dead bedroom with this kind of attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:31 PM |
| 6 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapNo woman is actually telling this. They would come with any kind of rationalisations (you can see them here), but they won't acknowledge it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapMay I ask you: Have you withholded sex with your husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapIt's not self-control, it's straight up manipulation. It's as if you had two personalities, one for hot guys and the other for a guy you presume you "like" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapIf she really liked the guy she would bend her own rules for him. Tell me this, if a girl breaks her own rules for the guy, is she less attracted to him than to someone she makes wait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapThe sex won't happen unless woman wants it, otherwise it's rape, but since we're on the dating sub, rape is off limits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapI fully agree with you op. I myself experienced it recently, it's so fucking cool and different, it's insane. But more insane is to see all kinds of excuses thrown around by women here. Why you do this? You are literally killing my faith in y'all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 01:46 PM |
| 16 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapNews flash: Men want to feel desired too. If you abstained for one guy, but immediately jumped into the bed or broke all the rules for the other, guess how makes it feel the first guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 18 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapYou basically confirmed Op's points. You are "easy" for one guy and "hard" for someone you want. The fact that you can "shove down" your "attraction" already suggests that you aren't attracted to him. If you are doing it with someone, do that person a favor and leave them be. They deserve someone more receptive to their love than you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Women frequently treat men in ways that would be considered emotional abuse if the genders were reversed. But it's okay for the double standard to exist.I mean... equal rights, equal fights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | The silver lining of modernity (for both women and men)Sad but true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about privilege -- share your scores!What is a high status talents? It will vary my score from 10 to 12 Also, 57 on the societal ladder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:41 AM |
| 2 | People should be picky and have incredibly high standardsThank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 04:38 PM |
| 14 | People should be picky and have incredibly high standardsThere's a problem in your judgement. You assume that "low quality" people will be single, but it's highly debatable. All it takes for them to be in the relationship is for one low quality woman/man to just "click" with another man/woman that fits "low quality" standard. And it's highly likely too because they could find much in common very quickly because of their experiences with others. So, you have two unattractive people bonding together and having fun. Others will see it and draw a conclusi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | hey community, one of your members sent this to me this morning. absolutely fucking revolting.Your response is exactly my thought. What. a.fucking.creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:26 PM |
| -1 | Men are more tolerant of bad behavior than women. Men also take more risks. This results in women overestimating bad personality traits in menYou absolutely hit the nail on it's head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 0 | The ideal red pill man and the ideal "blue pill" (or any other dating strategy other than red pill) man are essentially the sameWhich ones are yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the dangers about the red pill?In reality there's some truth to all pills, be it purple,red, blue,black,green,bro,white, any. But you have to be aware that fully enforced black pill is a recipe for the depression, as well as any misconceptions any pill might present | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | What are the dangers about the red pill?The most dangerous result of the red pill is a possibility of slipping in black pill, which will leave you without hope of ever achieving something you'd want. Other than that, if you keep your head cool and don't get political, it's nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | How many bad boys do you know have consistent relations?That type of guys just didn't stick with me for long enough to know that. However, my female friend always ends up with them. She had 3 relationships with these guys and, since we're good friends from school, it usually ended up with her coming to me for help to break up with her new bf because she's scared to tell them while she's alone. Keep in mind that I'm talking only about relationships. Who knows how many ons she had with them. So, I really think that unfortunately these guys slay. They a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | What separates a relatively content involuntarily single man from a frustrated involuntarily single man?From what I can understand: your type A is a bachelor, type B is either RP or incel. Regarding your questions: It's hard to tell who's more numerous, but judging from online presence – incels They're not faking it because they are truly ok with it I don't know. Ask your psychiatrist I think yes, but not without struggles. Although, it really depends on whether or not they adopt it in a good way, so they won't slip back into inceldom once they hit the rocks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What personality traits are important to you when it comes to dating?That's cool man! I'm glad you found your half of heart. I am not as lucky as you, but I'll get there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What personality traits are important to you when it comes to dating?True. Being a little obnoxious is okay, but being arrogant in the serious situations is just meh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What personality traits are important to you when it comes to dating?Yeah. Especially if this opinion was taken straight from tik tok and presented as controversial when in fact it's either dumb or actually generally accepted opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:55 PM |
| 4 | What personality traits are important to you when it comes to dating?Intelligence and openness. I'm a man and I've had a moderate success in dating in the last three weeks. It just hit me that I don't give a f if a girl is hot or whatever, I just felt more comfortable and more attracted to a girl that is actually can hold a convo and can share her piece of mind on something, rather than a hot chick that thinks she's a center of the world. And openness of course, because without it you will bump into smart but obnoxious women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | There are two types of men that women hate the most: men with options and men with self control.This thread and replies to it is cringiest thread I've seen here for abwhile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenI think it's not that far off. You just need to know what the user likes which is achievable through social media, and that's practically here, take a look on the tiktok. The biggest issue is to make a conversation seem okay, but it's not something undoable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Single Men vs Single WomenThat's sad men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single WomenWell, they always can do a cover-up by making it long distance relationship. No, a project of that scale is not going to be untouched. Haha, yeah it would be. But I seriously doubt that it would be from it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Single Men vs Single WomenI honestly see a cop-out in the technology, such as bots. What you really need then is just an absurd amount of ai that imitates an interested woman. Maybe have a few generated faces to be more convincing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever kissed another girl?Yes I kissed a girl. Yes I had more than a kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationshipI guess it's just that they never actually experienced a girl that was beaming in their presence and want the same, but girls will too often catch a butterflies when you don't give a shit, so yeah. I guess op is kinda right (not fully though. Toxic relationships do happen with baddies) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOkay,okay. Sorry, I didn't mean to🥹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's noone more pathetic and insecure than redpill alphas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?It's so sad that you have it rough like that. I don't know how to express well enough my sympathy for you after your molesting experience. I hope you won't be alone for any longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?That's a shame that you didn't have enough romance. Good for you that you found your current bf. If you don't mind, how did he text you? Out of the blue, or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Good for you that you found your husband who accepts you as you are :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I thought so too, but fortunately the majority of the responses here end well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I don't really think it was. Before the term was commercialised it was about impossible beauty standards (top models with computer design on the front page type of standards) for people who realistically didn't have time nor recourses to look even remotely alike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Your opinions are really somewhat harsh. It's really very rare and "steel"-like to voluntarily cut yourself off the social validation. Contrary to what you said about women's appearance staying stable,there's a lot of responses saying that they had an upgrade at some point, what is your opinion about them? Well, I can't blame you for being sarcastic when you suddenly receive compliments on everything while you stayed relatively same as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?It's good for you that you had a "glow up". I honestly think about trying a makeup as a guy. Maybe it would work for me too Correct me if I wrong, byt it seems to me that you abstained from the apps, am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?That's cool. Always Good to hear the story about self development. Did your improvement applied to your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I apologized for it in the edit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Of course. Imagine a title "incel's dating experience" with the exact same premise on the different sub, that has more hate for the incels. Just by typing you admit that you think you're an incel. Who wouldn't find that unpleasant,to say the least? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I don't deny that men do face struggles and are mocked, and that's unfortunate by all accounts. However, on this sub, the male's issues (of any sort) and attractive women's issues are discussed constantly, so I've decided to address the people who are left out in such discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I'd say that you leave the part of the problem of identifying so-called "5%". The truth is, unless you have seen them in action or how well they do in general there's no way of actually knowing whether or not the guy belongs there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?That's a shame. It's good thing you avoided being used Would you mind sharing your experience with online dating or irl more explicitly? You don't have to go into details, you can just briefly summarise it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?No, I wouldn't say that they don't compare. The fact is that those women who say that they have a trouble getting in relationship are being openly mocked, so it's hardly surprising that the number of responses is few. I don't disagree, however, that ugly guys have it harder, but it still doesn't mean that ugly women have it all without a fuss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Bro, the majority of responses here clearly state that OLD sucked for them big time. If a lucky few exist, it doesn't mean the others are lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?It's like saying that only 5% of women are worth putting effort to. Both statements are false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?It's great to hear about improvement? Also, how your current tactics differ from those you used before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?There's a few responses that actually do compare to your situation. Scroll a bit further down and read them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?There's an alternative like "unattractive", "unappealing superficially" or something like that. I know that it's a hard truth, but I got the feeling while reading the responses that they are not that content with it, even if it is their experience. So I decided to apologise for it, because they might feel a bit more stigmatised for even responding to such a formulation of words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?True friends are known from the hardships. It's relieving to know that at least one friend stayed by your side, but immensely saddening to hear about other. Have changing cities changed much for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Wdym? Yes, I can choose to not call them ugly I haven't seen them to evaluate on whether or not they actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Thank you too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I can, but I also can choose not to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?It's terrible that you were judged and mistreated in the ways such as these. I hope you're better now. (Also, no. you shouldn't be thanking anyone for your humiliation) If you don't mind, how did your friends reacted to seeing guys mistreating you? Did that hate and constant judgement from men (ngl, it's some new manifestation of racism that you've dealt with) made you feel depressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I would say it's either resentment towards or bullying them for merely talking to men or in worse case, for existing. Also, maybe it would mean always being handed the role of the side piece or being abused in the relationship because of the looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I'm truly glad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Thank you for such a detailed and genuine response. It's a wild thing to hear about gay man. It's a shame you were taken advantage of. Yeah, the body positivity in the beginning (before it was effectively commercialised) was targeting the beauty standards to make people who need it happier. It's sad that it changed. I hope you are and will be well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I'm glad that it worked out for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Nonono. Don't take it the wrong way. I expected that, you know, having so much superficial men would mean that women who are lacking in appearance would end up with a short stick, but fortunately it seems as not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?I see. Good for you for being communicative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:05 PM |
| 12 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?That's really a shame that you had it that bad. I can only hope the attention you now receive will transform into a meaningful relationship. If you don't mind my asking, how bad did the apps do it for you? You can ignore the question if it makes you feel uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:01 PM |
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