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I like also both. And i'm not judging people of not liking one of them. But saying they are useless and listing what dogs are doing for people is just #facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:08 PM
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One girl once said she finds cats to be useless and therefore liked dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:04 PM
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I was the only one who wanted a ltr with my girlfriend so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:00 PM
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Please don't *cry*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:58 PM
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Better be like suiryuu with short hair. Saitama bro ain't pulling ladies in a romantic context. The closest to it is fubuki onee-chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:54 PM
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Here this is the exact definition. Although massively over and misused in reality ranging form harmless to toxic work environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:49 PM
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11/10.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:40 AM
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I challange you for table tennis. To make it fair i play with penhold grip instead of shakehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:38 AM
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Thanks to feminism laws are kinda defined in a way that only behaviour mostly displayed or associated by men is covered. Then they can swoop in and say "Seeee men are so awful" while watering down anything women usually do with "don't be a pussy and deal with it like a man" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:20 PM
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ideally i would want to and my gf too. But life is busy damn it. Often times just one intense sex session is enough to satisfy us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:24 PM
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Stay away from me. I don't want to be eaten alive ahh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:25 PM
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I would start out as a peasant but when my lord sees how i optimized all the work on his field i will get a promotion. And since i'm tall and all around very good physically i can be a good fighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:35 PM
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Yeah even though women say that cheating is the number one cause for divorce i can't think of how many of these cases are actually proofed. I know of divorces just because the wife saw some other women's hair on the husbands business suits which can easily can come to that in a typical day to day work. I actually think many of these "he cheated on me" is just lying to yourself and the lawyer to feel better and keep face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:32 PM
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Yeah a few times across the week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:26 PM
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Hunter x Hunter Fullmetal Alchemist Kengan Ashura One Piece I see a man of culture :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:23 PM
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For the men, unfortunately I didn’t give it much thought before the photo thread but I can’t imagine any of them look better than one of those I saw. Some womenly support for the guys being brave enough to post their pictures! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:38 PM
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5/10. Nice body and overall nice potential. But the short hair and the tats are kinda not my style and the nose piercsing is just.....i don't want to say anything about it ok? :( Without the piercing and with longer hair her eyes will play a bigger role and this could easily go higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:01 PM
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Teriyaki Chicken. Extra large potion two times for me and my GF. Without glutamate please ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:42 PM
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Just as How i met your mother said. Guys in the locker room usually get over it fast with few lines to discuss what ever event happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:27 PM
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Problem is that women will start feeling that the genders are on equal footing when in reality they are already running circles around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:13 AM
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It's not about the beta bucks. It's about how women treat the beta bucks and usually the beta bucks get's a worse treatment in the sense of he has to initiate everytime, not getting gifts or affection without asking, not getting the enthusiastic sex and everything he does is seen as the bare minimum while the same women chased the fuckboy, gave him better sex and overal was more active in their affection for the fuckboy. At least so is the theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:12 PM
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Reminds of a german comedian who tried a new campaign called "Darf er das?" "Is he allowed to do this?". He advocated to make jokes about every ethnic group or disabled people because excluding them from this is actually discrimination. He started his programm with "Do we have any wheelchair users? If yes please stand up." This was overall well recieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:25 AM
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According to the recent grading i'm the definition of a 5. So no for this my life is going to good right now to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:48 PM
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about the high effort? damn that's rude xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:09 AM
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4 and 4,5 is brutal despite being it a so called "high effort" picture :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:36 AM
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Maybe he knows that his knowledge about your personality is only shallow and maybe you turn out to be not so bad as a personality match. Happens all the time where people are changing their minds about others upon knowing them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:51 PM
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If she has my dream personality then i would have no fucking reason to be insecure about any ex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:00 PM
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Or get deadbedroomed, called controling or faced with eternal fighting leading to the inevitable break off if they are actually assertive and strong themselves or in the progress of becoming more assertive and strong after they were timid and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:23 AM
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Thats basically common practice in germany. There is always a legit chance to milk money from the company because most judges are like "Would you go if the company pays X-amount of severance?" then to the company representative "I would recommend paying x-amount just to get over it". And in most cases this is better then to drag this into a shit show risking it to becoming public or what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:57 AM
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Ja, hoffentlich ist diese Kurzversion verständlich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:05 AM
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The decision was made last week it's just i've made up my mind to tell here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:46 PM
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We are both hiring managers but have different area of responsibility. While i'm managing the yearly hiring for our apprenticeses (german apprenticeship system is huge and warrants entire divisions focusing on it), communication with the schools and also a person of trust aswell as looking into their perfomances. She is responsible for our communication with universities, branding, hiring and managing our studentworkers and internships. She never hired any male students in the 3 and a half years…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:44 PM
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Struggled if should wrote it here but here we go....finally i've got my fucking toxic radfem coworker fired. Well she did it herself by giving me and the company enough ammo to achieve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:07 PM
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The girls are equally average, they are just temporalily dolled and clothed up which gets them 2 points at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:47 PM
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The number one and often the only objective comparing point is weight/being fit, athletic etc. Many men are frustrated that despite being fit or normal weight themselves they can't find a partner who is the same. On top they even have to bear the burden of approaching and leading the dates. ​ I see men moaning about women dating "above their looksmatch"...but if these women who they consider their equal physically don't want them, then they are not "looksmatched" as the main decider as to how at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:42 PM
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Women are having such an easy time in school having major obstacles usually removed aswell as being more favoured by more teachers. This continues till entry level jobs and what so ever. Whenever they meet an actual obstacle they have to remove themselver like having different opinions or having their own opinion being questioned many women have this reflex by labeling this internalized misogyni, mansplaining or being discriminated because of gender pushing away any possibility they might be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:14 PM
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Obviously when even the most trivial inconviences making an option not worth the time and energy then please don't bother with it and save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:40 AM
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Never counted but it was easily 200 per semester in bachelor at least the first 3. Some hundreds before master and nothing during master since i was fed up with the harpies in my dorm. That were the upper limits in relatively short period i did personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:00 PM
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Wow. Men don't want to be forced into military which gives them a huge career hit along with the ever artificially increasing education gap. And even less they don't want to be calles economic dead weight which leads to being eternal singles in south korea and this is called dangerous and misogynistic? My favourite is this scum down in the comments advocating for shaming, belitting and socially outcast every men who is not satisfied with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:10 PM
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But in modern times, men with a purpose and education do not have to be in this role Education and feministic society are making sure that most men don't get to this point since everything along these lines is catering to girls and women only. Add to the insult even reaching higher education these preference hiring approaches diminishing the prospects further. In reality you mean men with purpose and education who just had to have the genetic make up to not completely lag behind in school and wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:30 PM
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And men are destroying their health in dangerous and mostly shitty jobs to make life easier for everyone back then and today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:19 PM
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Now twisting this to "well what does the average woman have to offer" is pointless, even if they offer no more than you, then why do you want to even be with them? And secondly, a woman not being able to offer anything remarkable or of worth doesnt then render you more valuable, you're still average... You are not getting away that easily. These people have to offer exactly what the other have to offer. Humans usually still want intimacy and relationships, just because society coddles women egos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:08 PM
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I play only for 15-20 minutes twice, for the rest of the match i could explain the details of the matches etc. making me more confident since i know what i'm talking about. Well at least it worked for my GF and she considered me really cool while playing but we were already together for 2 months at this point so i don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:59 PM
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If i ever date again i will invite her to a table tennis match of mine. Even when i lose she will probably be awstruck of the ball flying around in high speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:00 PM
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I agree. Had tons of dates and these chics questioned me about going to the gym like i mentioned because my physique was so average lol. Half of them were even chubby as they are in any place to question or belittle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:50 AM
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Into a more feministic western culture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:57 PM
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How that sums up feminism as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:05 PM
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Yes for now but they were in a transition phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:55 PM
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Nice arms, do powerlifters also have some sort of bulking/cutting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:09 AM
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She cheated but HE is trying harder now lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:40 PM
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You are missing the point. This is a long text to tell men "doesn't matter you missed out on the whole raw lust, long term relationships when you hit your end 20' aren't like that anyway". Most men want exactly this feeling of being lustful desired at least for some time in their lifes. ​ who you have sex with sometimes, not three times a day like teenagers. Here this exactly. Many men want to fuck the partner they are attracted to three times a day and want to be fucked too by them just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:29 PM
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My GF approached me and i took over with the effort. Directly wanted her as my GF because of that with no made up excuses like every other women does to justify their lazy asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:18 PM
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I said fullfilling sex life not marriage in itself. Knowing you can have a fullfilling sex life without being in a LTR or marriage makes being alone far far more better or at least bearable. Yeah there are this boomer guys getting a new wife some months after the last divorce but they usually don't have any friendship network due to working their entire lives. already said it. Divorce making a man bitter is also not out of the ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:02 PM
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Men which had a more or less fullfilling sex life are also more content being alone than men who barely had any sexual and romantic experience at least being alone in terms of sex. Yeah there are this boomer guys getting a new wife some months after the last divorce but they usually don't have any friendship network due to working their entire lives. The average guy who barely has sex isn't content being alone because even if he tries he won't get sex for months and years. A women can be alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:29 AM
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This is just some sugar coat for their hypergamy implying that anything up to their level and slightly higher won't change anything anyway so the person better be a certain amount better to add anything to their lives. All under the assumption that they don't have to add anything in return because they think sex is enough. Companionship and affection is very questionable in this scenario because women with this mindset aren't really able give it because they are evaluating their partner constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:08 PM
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Many women would describe this scenario also as pump and dump. The difference is that you are so sexually attracted to him that you didn't care about the endgoal beyond sex. You are fine either way. Take your exact scenario just with a man women consider "husband or boyfriend material" and most women will screech how they were used and how awful this experience was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:00 PM
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well knowlingly at which weight you set your eyes on....then 170 is lean xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:17 AM
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Women have this hamstering going on that they also have struggles in dating. You are already seeing in the comments how women say a massive pile of trash is the same as not having anything. These kind of thoughts are obviously the byproduct of extreme privilege. Objectively they don't have struggles but only mere inconviences compared to the male reality but why? Just compare both of womans arguements with the fitting reality of your average man. "Our options are only trash" > Implying that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:17 PM
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How do you guys define “love”? If something you consider a chore isn't feeling like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:11 PM
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Then please tell all these harpies swarming all the media channels to shut up about their complaints. There is more important content to tell than some women complaining. The OP is about the loud women. But at the flip side you are saying that you only want a man better than you because everything up to your level isn't adding anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:06 AM
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More and more young men aren't graduating university, and, since a bachelor's degree is now what a high school diploma was 30 years ago, these men don't have good jobs Funny how you stated that men have better education some days ago and now say exactly this. Bonus points that you are stating both extremes in a way that makes women oppressed and the victims. ​ This isn't to mention that younger men will likely be more abusive towards women due to earlier exposure to hardcore pornography and a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:03 AM
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Sex feels good and a relationship needs a shiton of additional vetting which take either to long or your current life situation isn't fit for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:12 PM
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And what about women who rated this danish influencer with super athletic body, blue eyes and full head of hair an as 4-6 and his overweight girlfriend according to them was his perfect match?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:45 PM
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No major deformities > requirement fit/athletic/muscular > requirement long hair > preference (although no bald is requirement) not at the extreme ends of tall or short like everything higher than 2,0 metres or shorter than 1,50 metres > preference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:57 AM
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I don’t know what it means to be “left behind by society”? Like that men aren’t able to participate in society and are left out of it?? This most likely applies to education where girls and women where already ahead of the other gender but society still made it easier and easier for girls at school and at the same time harder and harder for boys. There is a huge education gap which makes the following steps in life harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:48 PM
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All of what you just cited are mere inconveniences. If you have reached the point to complain about anything you just listed then your overall position is already good and your life is on track but as usual feminism doesn't care about the bricklayers and construction workers etc. because they are invisible to them. In the sole context of this thread it's fair enough but feminists are using these to "prove" societal wide discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:42 PM
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Yes Red Pill aware at most. Some things i've repeatedly encountered and still encounter today. But when it comes to the more extreme views or extends i find it disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:02 PM
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Oh, puh-leeze. If that's the case, then why do so many women have to put out twice as much work to advance in the workplace than men do? Which kind of twice the amount of work?, please tell me if that would be the case no company would hire any man because women do double the work. If you mean this "i don't get respected because i'm a women" bullshit than this isn't gendered, they just ignore the men who are also not getting any respect. At an even higher rate women just throw around "mansplaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:56 PM
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And how do you know that? Could it not just be that women are simply harder workers, which means they're able to afford nice things and more deserving of nice things? Not in the slightiest. From education to entry level white collar jobs, everything is aligned for women's benefit and that is not even irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:55 PM
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no. having too many choices is hard Yeah but having next to no options and having to work for less in quantity and roughly same quality is harder. There are only two alternatives hard and harder. The perfect middle ground where you have this one option and this is also your desired match is utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:55 PM
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At least you are admitting that dating is easy for your and your aren't overblowing women's dating inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:00 PM
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Society should start to peg women down some levels as they do with men all the time. Self esteem is good but we are far past this critical point and already moving in the realm of overinflated ego. Women's attraction works partly in a way how they compare men to themselves and this variable should decrease some levels. Why do you think nagging works sometimes? Some women are confrontated with someone who specifically critisizes them who isn't their teacher or some bully ass peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:42 PM
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One explanation that even good looking men can become incels is if you shut down boys early in school to prevent them from having good careers as it's the main reason in south korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:26 PM
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I love her deeply. We have fantastic and pleasurable sex sometimes several times a day. Just having her lying down on my chest is still feeling fantastic. Her company even if her high sex drive can be a little bit annoying at times is not boring. Sometimes even without looking each other i can just yell Marco and she will reply Polo and other such small insider things. We tease each other playfully just as we both like sitcoms and such is our day to day humour. Ever since we worked through some …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:04 PM
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And how many men actually have the realisitc option to hoe around and just make a family whenever they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:13 PM
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The likelyhood of injuries in a car accident is also hugely impacted by muscle mass, bone density etc. Even without any safety belts women suffer heavier injuries almost by default due to different body composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:59 PM
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Being swarmed by unwanted sexual attention is NOT a privilege I agree that this is extremely annoying in business context but for a matter of fact women would be miserable without any sexual attention period. It's just most women are used to the attention but everytime it's away you can see all the older women writting and crying about how it's hard to be a invisible 40+ women or so, many older women don't care but they had their fun already anyway. And for women who never had attention you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:49 PM
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I'm noticing almost every glance and stare my girl recieves not that it's surprising me with the outfits she is usually wearing. She apparantly also notices many IOI and hidden approaches towards me. I'm also thinking of many things as "could be an IOS etc." but i handle it like i did my whole life and if no girl has the guts the directly ask me out i just don't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:19 PM
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Oh and for this wonderful systems that keeps rapists “out of society” 0.6% of rapes end in incarceration https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape\_in\_the\_United\_States#Prosecution\_rate It's proven rape or just rape claims? 6 out 1000 doesn't mean 994 are absolute rape cases. It could very well be false rape accusations, it could very be a grey area where the women just sucks in giving consent and didn't stop the guy, it could probably be something she loved and did several times but suddenly she…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:57 PM
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It's just one of many proofs that women would be absolute miserable and even more depressed being in man's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:23 PM
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You can still date the field and just have your fun. If you meet a women whithout showing your achievments and wealth then you can pursue something serious. Women who are obviously only with you because of your status and job aren't worth more than something casual anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:16 PM
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The fact that even going slightly against this narrative in order to make it better for men can und most likely will socially and careerwise kill men. I've got to taste it myself aswell as seeing the shitstorm some guys got after visiting talkshows with this topic. The starting points are also different. Back then women were only considered unable but their disadvantage overall was still acknowledged. Men today are still considered privileged which has to be counteracted with everything i alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:12 PM
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There is one very very huge mistake with this take and this is called social conditioning and feminism. Let's assume you are normally right but with the current sociatel landscape even with everything else being equal women's value is increasing and men's value is decreasing. In the current western societies women are artificially inflated and supported. One indicator is the pandemic of fat women claiming to be beautiful regardless of size and weight but only dating objectively better and fitter…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:54 PM
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Bye bye patriarchy, hello nature. You made this statement and this is blatantly false. That's what i'm arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:30 AM
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I think it was my comment yeaahh someone remembered me xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:26 AM
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No absolutely not. I respect women who are putting in actual effort into dating me at least half as me but i don't need to say thats only very very few individuals. Meeting online or IRL doesn't have any effect i'm always focusing on the person. OLD or IRL are merely means to reach the dating segment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 PM
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Lol, I could argue that in pre-tech/science time men had it harder. Yes some women were raped, but men were always fighting in wars, dying, getting horrible wounds, working horrible hard jobs that were nothing like todays “careers in office”. And if women in their family were raped men were obliged to fight back and risk dying. Back ago everyone had it hard and the fact that males were physically stronger obliged them to fight, go to wars and die from horrible injuries all the damn time. So very…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:13 PM
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You have overlooked one single detail. The most natural state for humans is nothing like you described. The animals you described got females physically as capable as males most of the time and it's the male with his fancy looks or other means trying to impress. In humans most natural place without technology or any technological advancement women were completely on men's whims. Back then even low value men forced their way with rape much more often than today. Go back to a time without educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:14 PM
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Wow just seems the same as your average dude lives but at least they got everything beforehand unlike the young guys. But isn't this a good sign? They should be happy to not getting their unwanted attention they despise so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:48 PM
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Never gave them money, didn't watch any content in 4 years, apart from PPD here no exposure to TRP on reddit, never dove deep into the extreme ends of TRP anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:25 PM
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Maybe the victim was her bully and did horrible things to her? Well at least this would change the narrative i don't know what it actually was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:02 PM
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For me it was the other way around. My mind got poisoned by feminist trash ideology combined with open discrimination in the name of "equality" leading my mind into disarray. Finding TRP (while being disgusted by the extreme ends of it) made a huge click in my mind starting the healing process. I never subscribed and barely watched any TRP content on youtube and also left the Sub after 3 months of lurking. The last puzzles i've colltected where Petersons standing on the cherrypicking nature of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:57 PM
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Women get their egos inflated to disgusting degree and are so full of themselves while they get any artificial help to put them in front of men. If you reverse the genders in education and entry level jobs there would be a societal uproar and tantrum about unfairness which would cause the earth to stop orbiting the sun. At the same time there is still the tale that they are opressed and privileged planting the thought into them as they are still deserving more and more hating men for this. Men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:12 PM
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Guess who got the lower end of stick from the moment they first step into a school, over the first entry level job and it only reverses for few men down the ladder?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:40 AM
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So all this discussions about his looks aside. Did he really lost his job because of something trivial like that? All he did is like textbook game for women with all this sudden ghosting and what ever. So why does he lost his job, if it's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:17 AM
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Because women were disadvantaged for sooo long and now we have to overcompensate in a huge way. This is the braindead logic of feminists here ignoring all the individual discrimination this causes in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:11 PM
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Ok thats your american story and my german story is exactly what i told you. Living in dorms and university i observed so many stories about how some girls complained that some guys treated her like "trash" at parties. They weren't interested in flirting with her and only talked to her in a platonic way but were really wity and fun with her attractive friends. One of my closer friends even said that she had a bad impression of me because i was so rude to her (i wasn't) and only later got to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:01 PM
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Whenever a men treats women like women treat men then the women will cry how all men are so mean to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:59 AM
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Man are putting women in their place all the time. Everytime that happens you see said women crying about misogyni, mansplaining and that all men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:57 AM
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People treated attractive people always better than unattractive ones. The things that changed are that treating men bad has increasingly less consequences to the point of being celebrated while even the slightiest inconvenience towards women will laid down on a scale. On a societal level this is the fault of third wave feminism. But on an individual level? Women aren't attracted to men they think is less attractive than herself as a whole there is one component in their attraction mechanics tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:45 AM
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Are you really meaner? Take some reflection and be sure about this. Most of the time it's not being mean to ugly women but just plain neutral. It just has the perception of being mean because in direct comparison to attractive girls it just has the looks of it. Most people confuse the lack of sexual attraction with shitty behaviour but neutral behaviour is not shitty behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:16 AM
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While being single: An unimaginable itch mentally and physically aswell as a bothersome distraction. While in LTR: Connection, FUN!, and something precious but no rare i love to do with my partner all in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:20 PM
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And even less women aren't able to contribute anything to a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:34 PM
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If you’re not up for fucking an old obese woman with BO, I’m not sure why you’re advocating women fuck unattractive men This is about women women don't want to approach because of "biology" but preaching equality when their biology is a hindrance in the C-suite. I never said they have to fuck unnattractive men even though this is worth another discussion but not in this equality debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:23 PM
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What has this to do with the nitpicking nature of the feminism movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:03 PM
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Got the usual self-improvement, lift, clothes etc. But then it was a hell of 5 years with hundreds of hundreds of approaches, OLD etc. and over hundreds of dates till i finally lost my virginity. And even after that it was a huge struggle to get laid or find a suitable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:02 PM
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It has to do with all of feminists arguements which is topic of this comment string. When biology favours women they want it keep this way and ignore equality (approaching). When biology doesn't favour women it has to be changed and structures to be implemented in order for doing so because of equality (top coroporate positions). This is how the brain of most feminists works. ​ Anyone who makes it to a C-level suite is not “agreeable” Exactly and because of it there are less women there. And fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:59 PM
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You clearly don't have any clue how hard it is for most guys. Given how easy you think this is. And obviously it's a given that 99% of the effort is done by the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:06 PM
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But the same hamstering regarding top corporate jobs where being agreeable makes someone not suited for that job somehow should be changed by force?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:03 PM
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Or the fact that she could get sex quite fast if she means it. Which subconciously leads to a peace of mind regarding this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:00 PM
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Just imagining this scenario in a cartoon/anime style. "BOOOMMMM" xD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:24 PM
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The education mantra since the 90's. "Girls are better then boys at every subject aside from math. We need to adress the gap between the genders in math"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:53 PM
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After the article where the guardian seemingly brought to light that women are dying at higher rates when a operation was performed by a male surgeon while ignoring that men die at higher rates overall regardless of the gender of the surgeon, the guardian exposed itself as a feminists drooling shithole full of whiteknights. This article is just something along the same lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:40 PM
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Yes former. And the journey was hell and not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:55 AM
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As a former incel. I've always wanted to make all kinds of romantic experiences the good and the bad ones but as the fate of an incel is that it get's denied and you get told to suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:47 PM
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My heart is broken because i've never had the chance to get it broken in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:33 PM
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Women are hitting on guys in this setting. But it's so rare it's easier to assume that this never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:45 AM
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Some guys definetly are getting a kick out of it. But i think for most guys the effort required to lead a women on with dates and so on or to even reach the state where she is all into him is to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:37 PM
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Summer is sure to come so why not watch some nice dope as OnlyFans pics for inspiration and educational purposes obviously :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:27 PM
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I actually think men would want a sex only girl without the need of leading on. It's just that these girls are so rare for most men to find that most men by default will go the "leading on" route just because of the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:21 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:49 PM
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I would never block you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:22 PM
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It leads to more boys with self esteem issues falling behind on all metrics because they are held back and to more girls with inflated egos thinking they are the super shit and "worked SOOOOO hard" while being blind that everything of relevance in their lives is aligned in order to have as less obstacles as possibles. Obviously women's attraction triggers have one big variable that is much smaller in men and that being they are attracted to men they think are in their league. The problem is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:31 PM
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Also, you haven’t defined what discrimination against boys in schools is. Is it that girls like sitting in lectures for 7 hours a day and boys don’t or are they bumping up girls scores or is every school system pumping out liberal propaganda or… yes girls are more prone to blindly obey authority teaching methods are catered to girls learning strenghts which is accustic and visual. Boys learning strenghts are through practice and motorical. Needless to say which types are catered to in your typic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:28 PM
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Taking aside my mother i have only good experiences with my FWB and my current Girlfriend. And i make it short....they grant me energy and drive out of thin air. For both of them i want to be a better man and just do things to make our lifes better and enjoyable in both sexual and nonsexual context. More often than i can count i look at my girlfriend and have a moment of appreciation followed by a "helll yeahhh!! let's get shit done!". ..Ohh maybe it's not that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:46 PM
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Regarding social standing within cultures you can say that women where repressed, yes nothing to deny. But regarding the cold truth reality it where the men being repressed since it where men and overwhelmingly only men who actually did heavy lifting in all aspects of immediate survival and later in maintainance of structures which ensured said survival. They broke their bones, limps, skin and died early but hey, they got to be the head of the household where more almost their entire money was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:07 PM
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but what she really wants is for her husband to want to have sex with her, the moment that the man initiates sex she is validated and isn’t really interested in the actual sex, so even though she claims to want sex and doesn’t like being in a dead bedroom, she will still freely reject sex or do it in a very unenthusiastic way Here it is. Also the answer to 99% of the cases of "loving girlfriends and wives who are left behind for porn". I once said that when women complain about porn consumption …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:21 PM
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Well he is one of many guys who are just put in a category at first glance from any women. And once they are in this category they can only lose. He is direct with his intentions etc? > Of course he gets an instant rejection He went for the warm approach like in your case? > "I've never seen you like this." And everything inbetween but always ends up in rejection. In the first case he will get told that girls want to get to know each other first. Then he does it like in the second scenario he wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:10 PM
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I said it's PPD women and some men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:16 PM
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It's more about the denial and say that the average guy with average fitness is absolutely the match of a 33BMI girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:33 PM
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It's usually not unrealistic per se but unrealistic compared to what she brings to the table herself. As a rule of thumb a women expecting a partner in her range or even more attractive + he should make all this insufferable monkey dancing while she isn't doing a damn thing. I struggled a lot in my early twenties but i still had enough self respect and even dumped some girls with the reasoning that they put in zero effort in texting and in the dates. The response was always "That's not true! I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:30 PM
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8-9/10 body and 6/10 face. Very nice looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:19 PM
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Didn't follow this story but he was fired for ghosting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:17 PM
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You are absolutely right with your first point but PPD, especially PPD women, got a twisted definition of what a compareable partner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:16 PM
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A more defined chin. I don't have any bad features but don't have any good defining features either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:28 PM
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Just because it's harshly normalized doesn't make it entitlement. As he said, we need to put this message down everybodies throat by force to make it an even game where this becomes a mere formality instead of this stupid powergame people make it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:18 AM
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A lot of men who are in it for hookups come at you really different or overly sexual so… no thanks. I've did it like this sometimes. But it was mostly because i got rejected for being too timid and shy. This is also the biggest reason for my struggle. I just couldn't find the middleground or it came of to forced i don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:38 PM
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I agree with you here but your first three points can be a case of overthinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:28 PM
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This was and won't be the last experiment and i can tell for sure that every experiment will have the same results unless you change the settings on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:55 PM
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It just confirms what i've always have thought. The only objective and believable complains from women about dating apps is the sheer and overwhelming number of matches and potential convos and to some degree the lack of personality due to the nature of these apps. Whenever a women complains about the quality of the guys then it's most likely her fault. I can imagine that some individual women are getting only shitty options but these are very rare. Edit: English.exe has stopped working.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:56 AM
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There is no environment where women are more prone to initiate relationships with average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:36 PM
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Body shaming sucks, whatever the reason. Body positivity is supposed to be just about not being an asshole to people because of the way they look. The problem with that is that most overweight women are using being rejected for their weight interchangeable with being treated badly. They also think the lack of drooling and sexual attraction many men have towards conventionally attractive women is the same as being treated badly. There is no middleground. If they aren't treated like "stacy" it's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:40 PM
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Just make it easier to withdrew from your obligations you signed in in retrospective when you got a negative test by yourself afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:30 PM
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Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:22 PM
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Why isn't approaching yourself never an option for you women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:31 PM
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I see both male and female fitness accounts on Snapchat and Instagram in the “discover” or “for you” pages. Arguably, I see more female fitness accounts because it’s very trendy for women to be fit and muscular now. You said it. For men it was always here to huge degree while for women it's just on the rise and hence you see more social media presence for women. A guy can't be successful in fitness just by showing his body like many women can. He actually has to come up with scientific studies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:37 PM
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This was only the case for the mainstream media and such as who ever wanted to earn money with his body at most is was emphasized but never "heavily policed". The only thing i agree with you are these "hygienic standards" especially regarding shaving since these actually did reach the average and below average girls. But even decades back then women never had problems finding romantic options anyway. And especially these days the standards are gone way down since men are more desperate and thirs…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:29 PM
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The sad thing is that this girl will 100% deduce her SMV off her pictures and is only interested in men in her pictures SMV range.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:01 PM
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Not now since some horrendous hiring experiences kept me away from entering my career for 2 years or even 3 years. If i could start my career 3 years earlier i would definetly have my house now since back then the housing was amazingly affordable. But now in the wasted years covid hit and the housing costs went up for around 60% in my region.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:11 PM
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But there were for hundreds and thousands of years. Why should women care about the equilibrium being off now? Come back and talk to us in a few thousands years. This is where the collective approach get's into the individual. I couldn't care less what guy 100 years ago had such good of a live because of being a "specific" man because that's not affecting me. Likewise you shouldn't care about hardships other women had centuries ago because you are obviously now have legs up for just being a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:56 PM
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Imagine all the perks men got just for being male. Or the rich got just for being rich. If systems like that are allowed to go on unbalanced for long enough, you end up with people not being able to even break into it. Have to disagree there are no perks for being man anymore and even back then these perks were always accompanied with drawbacks but the systems are still there and getting even more steam and giving not only one but already two legs up. So naturally we should remove these systems …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:45 PM
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Literly here on the megathread were the instagram of a danish blonde guy with blue eyes, full hair, ripped body and nice teeth. Half the comments of women are saying he was a 4-5 and his non athletic and plain girlfriend is actualy above him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:30 PM
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Sexually rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:23 PM
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Wow. That's all impressive! Thank! <3 Climbing is also impressive since i'm myself not made for climbing because i have very strong legs but tend to be little leaner in the upperbody. Working out will get you increased attention from men with an eye for it, also most likely guys who are also active.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:17 PM
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What are you expecting from trash vaguely resembling female human form? You are way to generous with their abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:47 PM
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Obviously similar interests are very important. My GF is a bikini bodybuilder and is working out 5 times per week. I don't have the same ambition in fitness but i'm working out myself 5 times a week right now. I will reduce it to 3 times if my table tennis season resumes and will do 3 times weightlifting and 3 times table tennis a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:35 PM
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I love muscles and a slightly toned figure if it's enhancing feminine propotions and curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:29 PM
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Obviously, we can't force women on anything so we need to go a indirect approach. We changed the education system, aswell as the conditions entering the work force in white collar environment to favour women and to empower women which was right back then but the time is different. Now we can take a step back and take boys learning strenghts into account. We can remove all affirmitive actions, we can look closer into university recommondations and focus preferential hiring only for disabled peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:20 PM
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If that was true then all the shaming is the wrong way. The right way would be to tackle the reasons for the complains as good as possible instead of insulting these men because this would make them even more dangerous. The real reason is that society views women like backe then without rights and in need of protection despite that they overall have it better than men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:42 PM
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You are giving women way to much credit. Socially they are just passive and avoiding mistakes which creates the illusion of them being good in social settings. They just don't take bold moves because they don't have to. They get more leeway and things like this are happening to them instead of have to make it happen on their own. Especially in social settings with the opposite sex. But i kinda agree. FDS is about leeching their unearned female dating privilege to the utmost limits without improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:59 PM
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You said it yourself. Men are only complaining in subs like this also only as a reaction while women complain about it on subs and on mainstream media because "men are (made to) falling behind" or "men aren't pulling their weight" are basically the same complaints this is a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:45 PM
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13 points. But some questions had explained situations where i know i taught myself to be more social and hence 10 years ago i can imagine having more than 20 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:31 PM
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Yeah had the same. But it wasn't really because i was socially awkward or at least not that much. For me it took just one popular scum to have a bad day and seeing me on the wrong moment to decide to make my life a living hell. All this awkwardness came after because i were walking like on eggshells in every social interaction. I forced my way out with brute force (literally) and lost my virginity at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:45 PM
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Yes i'll do all of that. She has a 17 count. But the mortage is one thing since her pride and parents won't allow her to leech of me. I live rent free in her apartment for more than 1 year after all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:40 PM
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I've opened up several times or more or less opened up. While it always killed attraction instantly including my first girlfriend and excluding my former FWB and my current Girlfriend it was only used once against me. During my mastereducation i was "close friends" with a girl at the dorm. We had fitness and anime in common and also spent a good time together even cuddling in front of the TV towards the end i've told her the story of how i was bullied during school and my bachelors aswell as my …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:48 PM
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Ahhh excuse me then now i understand :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:16 PM
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The amount of guys who buckle in and endure it whenever a women starts hitting them begs to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:08 PM
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You have a very strict and select pattern of how your mind works and how your view things. Your wording when defending women is shockingly absolute and one sided: "Women can't....., "only men do...."Women are ONLY violent in self defense..." etc. with and offensively claiming that men CANNOT be on the recieving end ever. I'm a little confused, which kind of serious journalist has such a narrow minded view and constructs his sentences in such way? Unless.....you will obviously make your sentences…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:41 PM
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How many man are working underground, in the oil and which gender has more job specific injuries, health setbacks and deaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:59 PM
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No. Men can't just defend themselves against women. If a man defends himself the chance is to high that in the end he is twisted and portrayed as the aggressor. Additionally you can't just stop an assault without force and any used force will most likely lead to battle signs on the women which are only "proofs" of the mans violent behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:40 PM
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It's not only about the drive. It's just common sense that you can't constantly complain about something when you barely put any real effort into it. If a women only uses the passive way she has no right to complain about her dating struggles since there is still the whole section of the active approach she can use at any time. And if she refuses to use all tools at her disposal then she doesn't have the drive or real desire for a relationship to begin with and her complaints are nothing more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:24 PM
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It's not only expectations to approach. Often it's an reaction to women complain about their dating struggles despite having legit options. It's like, Girl: "My dates are always so bad and low effort. Men just don't know how to date" Guy: "You want to approach and make all the first moves?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:27 PM
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Absolutely. Makes my job harder but it's nothing i can put blame somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:27 PM
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Best: Tall, Ass, strong legs, broad shoulders ​ Worst: Baby face, Ass (yes it's both), broader midsection, receding hairline since Age 16 but managable My overall problem weren't really bad features but the lack good facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:45 AM
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Never tried drunk alcohol sex or being to drunk at parties in general were extremely cautios about escalation in general because almost all women just suck at giving consent or signs. I've actually had some sort of false allegiation during my bachelor because a (feminist) class mate hated me. Got revoked because i were working at the time the supposed sexual assault happened and my employer could verify that. Obviously she got away without any punishment. I regret that i didn't push against and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:27 AM
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Problem is that it's not only about the prestige. Less and less young people want to work physically or they use their apprenticeship degree as a safety net and go to university after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:57 AM
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If men had the same dating experience like a average but "femme-maxxed" girls then they would for sure do this religiously. I've done and still do fitness, little make up for my "panda eyes", skin care, shaving my face once a week, aswell as pits when needed. And i still had to wait 4 more years and many dates till i lost my V-Card. And even after that it was the same. Needless to say i've put way more effort into the dates and conversations than any of these women. So yes i agree that women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:54 AM
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I heard in Germany when students finish trades apprentice programs, they’re published in the newspaper. And it’s valued of high esteem. True but it's on the decline. Sadly. And mostly only regional newspapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:39 AM
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I cam here just because this is the only place i can write about my experiences of dating, education and now career without fearing legal consequences again. Needless to say i don't generalize women as a gender that much but i generalize and judge society and feminism as a movement and it becomes inevitable that most women of the west have at least a significant part of their personality dwelling deep there and feminism by objective observation became a movement of women superiority. I'm not a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:13 PM
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Not at all. At some point its just exhausting. Especially that women are lazy in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:58 AM
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Obviously the glass ceiling isn't gendered as feminist teachings try to sell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:31 AM
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Pasdrawlaju sprasnikam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:36 PM
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But it's a strong tool to teach humility. Way to many people in the west are spoiled, coddled and taking everything for granted. In my biased take way more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:34 PM
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Another example of why we need a mandatory draft for women to work 2 years in a essential job like brick laying or contruction as balancing for the military draft men are forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:59 AM
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I despise and hate bullies to hell. But there are bullies who actually managed to actually change for real and showing even remorse to their past actions. What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:15 PM
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Just a quick thought :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:55 PM
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Why not just a reversed strapon under her usual clothing so she is more stuffed? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:27 PM
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Both and i found both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:43 PM
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First hand information from my girlfriend who is doing extact the same thing. At first she wanted to feel sexy for herself and look at herself in the mirror and being proud (she was overweight in her teens). Then she loved the attention from guys and girls which helped her getting FWBs, she loves sex and also has a little bit higher N-Count. I think at some point it became just a habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:34 PM
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10-15 years earlier would've been ideal for me. It would be the right on the rise of internet and i would've had a much easier educational and career time. Working in HR as a guy is like a minesfield where i have to watch for gender and disabilities instead of pouring all my energy into finding the actual best for a specific spot. Not to mention taking my education back 10 or 15 years would bring me so much more money with almost half housing prices god damn. I don't know how it was in the 80' a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:16 AM
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In dating context it is socially deficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:56 PM
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Well this proves that the Guardian is just a feminism soaking paper doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:50 PM
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Mind sharing yours? *wink*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:59 AM
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even if she dates her looksmatch. Her actual looksmatch or how many women define it like average fit guy with an overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:35 AM
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Is there a link to the study itself? The article is leaving out some potentially important variables. how many hours did the surgeons work? Men are working more hours than women in almost all professions and surgeons are not different. An overworked surgeon might not be at his top level at some operations since he is just to tired sometimes. at what level where these surgeons? Men are more risk taking and maybe some of these surgeons were younger, overconfident or still "rookies" so to speak and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:24 AM
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I'm lifting and play table tennis. I'm also a licenced table tennis coach for that matter. Other than that i like to bowle (only 180' average), pool, amusement parks once or twice a year and during covid i've found my old love for all sort of family board games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:03 AM
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I've broke the bone of my school bully/terrorist not accidantly but intentional after i won a fight against him. Never got one of my bones broken. I've skipped school sometimes because of my bully I've got a ticket I've rid a horse once And met a celeb (kaya yanar comedian) So i guess i'm at 15/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:08 PM
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Pretty hard to do since most women think that their mere presence is like a blessing for the guy they are dating and expecting high effort dates just to get even with the chance to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:21 PM
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Working out and keeping a healthy lifestyle is mostly for myself but the extend to what i'm doing it is for my girlfriend. I would be fine being at 170lbs and 18% bodyfat or so but for my girl i'm keeping myself at around 185-190lbs and 14% bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:19 PM
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No i didn't. But I don't see any objective counterpoints since it were environmental causes which led to the end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:40 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:51 PM
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They already did their job and can now be removed in the near future when the last boomers reach their retirement. Even without them their effects will not go away. And i'm not an american your judgement is just bad as usual. And with this comment i will answer your other comment too. You are just washing away the disgraceful situation in the working class with "men always had to work" you are also ignoring the state of education where girls and women made to outperform most boys and men. You ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:32 PM
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I'm actually agree with you here but with the same logic women should just shut the fuck up with their gender imbalance crying whenever something isn't going their way for once. And don't forget that we have to treat the reverse case also the same which means we have to end every affirmitive action, preferential hiring and every girls/women day get them into XXX because this means by definition that women get jobs and university places just because they are women and men get neglected because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:35 PM
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You are repeating yourself over and over again with your "muhh history" arguement and once again wasting way to many words for something that can be completely covered in one single sentence. You are just blind that the pendulum already swung well over the point of equality (not as far as it was before on the other side i give you that) and NO ONE should care about any status quo of the past especially if it's no longer the case. I couldn't care less about the privilege some old geezer had 50 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:19 PM
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Women aren't thinking about chad dick all the time. They think about it for a short time because they get it fast and forget it till they want it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:06 PM
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That's not quite true at least not to that extend you say. If my GF would do these fake over the top screams and moans it would cringe me out. The acting is also often times just so over the top i would feel akward during sex. My GF is very active during sex and also very high libido but if i reflect our sex live from a third person view it would be a rather boring sex tape but as an participant still extremely enjoyable and funny. I agree however that there are to many women out there who just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:59 PM
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How does a woman has to work harder within these women promoting programms which by definition is made for women? I very well know how it works since we got such policies in our company in which i had to defend myself just because i've hired more boys and young adults than my predecessor. It was still more girls i've hired but it gives you a glance of companies mindset. Women have it easier entry level which is the most important step in someones career. And if you complain about some percieved …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:58 PM
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So you mean to tell me that there’s no way a woman currently in her 30’s was affected by the social status quo that only ended 20 years before she was born 🤔 not more than men are affected by the feminist shift. Absolutely. ​ So you’re saying that thousands of years of engineered human behavior stopped immediately and entirely in just one generation…and has been effectively reversed in less than 50 years? Social engineering is the key word. Which gender is pushed forward and which gender is rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:14 AM
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The rule of thumb is "if everything being equal the women is prefered" in reality however women get away with being slightly worse and still prefered. Taking into account the educational landscape on top and you have a huge gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:47 AM
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Kinda doing this right now. Over a year and stronger than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:02 AM
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False rape accusers should have the same punishment as the guy if he would be convicted as guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:00 AM
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It said that men value looks more but at the same time it's way easier to meet this look thresehold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:44 AM
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Way to much text to justify the current trend of social and soon economic disbalance with the status quo from over 50 years ago. Pretty convenient since only extremely few women in the relevant age bracket even got to live in this time but still making this their main arguement. It only works for the older ladies who actually got affected by it unlike the spoiled coddled princesses who grew up in a time of girl favouring education, women promoting programms and what ever they will soon install t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:40 AM
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Lol your body is awfully similar to my GFs <3<3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:10 AM
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they'll never face institutional racism because of their skin color Only till the moment they don't get the place in university or the job because of a "minority advantage" rule or reserved places for everyone else who isn't a white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:03 AM
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influences in early life which isn't only limited to be obese but also how young boys are wired with feminism being rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:54 PM
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Finally some free time because our company does not work over the the new year. Since my beloved feminist co workers are shining through absence, one is chronically ill because of "burn out" and "stress" symptoms the other one got pregnant right after she got her promotion. Since november i took over their tasks in addition to my own. Obviously my quality got a huge hit and my little e-recruiting project is freezed for the time being but i managed to keep afloat our entire division since novembe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:57 PM
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Even is a women decides to not have children or put their "worth" to display she still has all the advantaged for being a women with this value. If a man does the same with his value he will be treated like some fart in the wind because his life experience is gradually linked to his utility potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:37 PM
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Women saying this are just riding their women's privilege. Validation (yes your "useless" dating options are part of it) all around comes to them by default without them doing anything while a huge portion of men doesn't get validation in any form or shape or at least not enough to become relevant. Obviously when a man and women starting a relationship and suddenly the men gets enough validation and is feeling his highs it seems that the women has a greater positive impact on a men's life. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:13 AM
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I'm your unexceptional HR guy and by looking at one of our production lines i've increased the productivity by almost 20% just by advicing to make the working steps done in reverse order from END to START instead from START to END. This way the worker doesn't have to wait 2 minutes at one step till the glue dryed. This was adopted to every production line. Is this an innovation? By definition yes. Is this an innovation you have in mind? Seriosly no. Innovations exist on a spectrum can range from…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:58 AM
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Given a women really tries she has tons of options to carefully evaluate. Men however might take the risk within the few oppurtunities he finds a women who is actually somewhat sexually attracted to him or just stay an eternal virgin or single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:30 PM
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This is mostly not about anything physical. It's mostly that a guy said something, made one bad joke or often times also wasn't that dominant/high status in his social circle as the girl percieved him to be because of one bad occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:07 AM
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Not back then yes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah every human is facing some challanges. Despite that obviously with so much onesided support in education and workforce i know which gender is facing more challanges in these areas as a whole. Not everything is about dating, yes womens dating problems are like childsplay compared to mens but it's not the only thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:07 AM
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Little cellulite and stretch marks here and there are trivialities and barely affect things. The only thing a pregnancy can affect is when the women uses this as an excuse to switch her lifestyle around into a lazy bum with bad nutrtition, gaining 30+ lbs or overall throwing everything i value in terms of sex and attraction out of the window because "I CaRRIeD THe KId!".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:42 AM
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Don't take these men seriously. They openly say this only as a reaction to women's fickle attractiontriggers where they lose all attraction only due to one triviality. It isn't that extreme with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:35 AM
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Men do this every date, every new conversation with a girl and every approach times the women till he got a relationship. Maybe the first few ones are enjoyable till it becames a chore. But even with that in mind i went to over 100 dates where i put in 10 times more effort than my datepartner because i refused to let my jadiness affect my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:31 AM
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Such an oversimplified and narrow minded statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:04 PM
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As well as that mental freedom of knowing you will never have a dry spell longer than some weeks involuntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:12 PM
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Debtfree and able to hold her half of the weight for every couple expense such as rent, furniture or traveling which is possible with about 60% of my current income. And due to current circumstances in my company i will ask for a salary increase and a good one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:52 PM
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Lost at 25 and 30 now. Kissless and Cuddleless till that. I'm socially akward but had huge problems to escalate. Did the Last minute resistance with that girl and during cuddling she said that she was happy that i've continued.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:00 PM
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Women will represent more than 80% across all management levels due to even more forced support structures. This is when feminism will call it "equality" and in tune most women will struggle to find their "match" that will lead to more frustrated women complaining about "men falling behind".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:54 AM
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For starters i would look into the different learning preferences of young boys and girls and then compare it to the school systems. That's only a fraction of the problem but it's the first layer starting at the root. ​ I feel like I’ve literally said everything you just said word for word so many times. I could write essays on this (once again, with the genders reversed) and be able to pull so much evidence and ideas from history, religion, statistics, psychology, biology, feminist theory, phil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:52 AM
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It's all and foremost social conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:16 PM
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All what is possible without hormones and steroids etc. is hot. My GF is an amateur bodybuilder for bikini classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:02 PM
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Think about if you have sex and SUPER SUPER turned on but then, on the verge if your orgasm, your partner just stops and goes away leaving you. The urge to still try to finish off yourself is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:31 PM
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It's the reverse version of "all men are pigs", "men only want one thing", "men never grow up, their toys just get more expensive" etc. Of course women get a shock at being called and treated like they do the same with men like forever. Especially after decades of feminists coddling and spoiling where they internalized their own "flawlessness" and normalized insulting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:08 PM
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And don't forget only 3% of false rape accusations are even noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:23 PM
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this right here explains half of the domnestic violence cases these women are love to citate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:17 PM
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Fat guy with a skinny women was increadibly rare. At most i saw some dad bod guy with a skinny women average women from time to time. Most couples were a slightly overweight guy with an even more overweight women. A good looking women always had a hot boyfriend but not every hot/fit guy had a women in his league. That's if we talking about under age of 35. Clearly older couples had examples where the women was actually hot and the guy was meh. One fun observation was where i saw some women sever…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:50 PM
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My personal observation is for every couple I see where she is hotter I see 10 where he is average or skinny and she is either ugly or morbidly obese Can confirm. Was working at a big supermarket as a side job and saw exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:14 AM
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The problem isn't about overdone make up. The problem is that even if "natural looking" that women are looking way better with it which is a problem because this is not her default look and certainly not her day to day look most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:12 AM
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It's just frustration building up over many years. No man born 1985 or later grew up with positive male messages. From little age they only hear about women only problems. Mainstream media is all about women good and men bad. Women having issues needing to be adressed and men should shut up their privilege mouth. NEVER the reverse. Heck even undesirable women having movements for her in hope to trick some men into being attracted to her or similar women. The only problems men get help with are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:21 PM
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I feel you bro. I've had over 20 super likes in my tinder life and all were overweight to obese. I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:12 PM
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Look at the difference in economic income compared to work input. Look at the inequality in the home. Look at domestic violence - yet you reached the conclusion that men have it so bad. Pay gap already proved to be minimal. This small gap is easily attributed to the more risk taking nature of men especially in wage negotiation and less medical time outs. Domnestic violence is also extreme biased since more cases of men being the victims are not reported then the reverse and some like emtional do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:33 PM
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If you look at careers that were mostly held by women you notice men like to step into these careers when they start getting acclaim. Why is it women for generations have been the cooks in their kitchen yet there are so many more men at the upper echelons of fancy celebrity chefs than there are women? Because these men were "insane" enough to invest every single cell of their being to perfect their craft and promote it and even taking a toll to their social lifes. Women were the computer program…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:24 PM
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I understand this. They are demanding to read social cues, being good at conversations, honest and a good/nice person. The catch is that most women lack the first three but just getting pussy passes for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:01 PM
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she’s not the best woman he’s ever been with if it's the only thing he is saying it's not even that bad. But i'm used to women talking shit about their husbands all the time so maybe i'm biased here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:56 PM
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Maybe they live in a shit city or are too shy? I also think half the world doesn’t really know what their looksmatch is. You will see men here say they are “average” but that Emma Watson and Victoria Justice are too. That's not the scenario i'm talking about. I'm talking about already in the dating where the looksthreseshold is already somewhat established. And for the same guys another dead average women can be an 8. ​ The average man can get laid. This is proven statistically. If you can’t get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:44 PM
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Most men i know that complain about the hard dating life aren't the stereotypical "neckbeards" but the normal guys with a normal amount of "attention/chances" regardless if they want sex or relationships. Their complaints are usually because they have to find enough "looksmatched" women to date them and then they date them for weeks ending up being ghosted anyway. Even if they go dutch they put in more effort everytime because they plan the date, they lead and keep the convos alive and usually t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:35 PM
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You have it backwards. They go for the easy women exactly BECAUSE dating is several magnitudes harder for them. An "easy women" is rare for many men and that's why they go for it becasue it could be the only sex this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:18 PM
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To put it simply with no nuance and explanations. Modern society is artificially pushing and encouraging women in almost all life areas from education to work force and also letting girls and women get away with almost every sort of behaviour. At the same time most boys are held back in education because all aspects are aligned to support girls or girl like strengths and consecutive punishment for boy like behaviour, following preferencial hiring and recommodations making it easier for girls to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:06 PM
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But that's the thing. Almost every study feminists and women in general are bringing up about topics of domnestic labour, rape or women in the workforce are even more flawed in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:09 AM
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I just see myself having to fight a horde of stupid and pathetic radfem teachers when i get a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:28 PM
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The problem on the individual level is that women are hamstering around and her claims aren't stiffed with truth as she wishes it to be. If we take his ex it's verly likely whenever she is still seeing herself doing more emotional and domnestic work and likewise if she would participate in such a "study" she will shamelessly claim this here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:20 PM
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Attractive women are mostly soft with curves and fine lines. Attractive men are defined with clear cut edges. Now take a drawing class. It's infinitely easier to draw a good picture with many small lines becoming one big soft line. But drawing a picture only using single thick straight lines is several times harder because even the smallest slip ups are visible and ruining the overall appearence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:06 PM
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It's perfectly fine. Men can bring everything to the table but it doesn't matter if the woman can't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:55 PM
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Cut the crap. We live in a society that was created by men and still largely favors men. Men still make more than women, no? I also suspect you're not really advocating for mens equality and are just bashing women, especially with that, "women are bitches" comment. I've seen your types in real life who pretend to "advocate" for men but are really just bashing women because you're jealous and most people can see that, which is why you've lost friends and your job lmfao. You should cut the crap. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:49 PM
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Woman #1. Woman #2 sounds insufferable with a superioty complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:33 PM
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Just one of many proofs that women would be miserable in men's shoes especially regarding relationships and sex. Of course she percieved it to initiate more than you because she is just used to the fact that sex is coming at her without doing anything. Noticing herself to initiate by herself is bound to leave a mark in her perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:08 PM
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A rule? Establish by who? Enforced among what governing body? What’s the penalty for it? You gonna go to jail? Basically all over media, be it social media or TV shows. Negative comments on a women's appearance are even used as an enhancement tool to point someone out as misogyni. In social gatherings even an honest and neutral advice like "i can imagine this colour would fit you more" is immediately met with negative responses. Unspoken rules are not set by governments but by social indoctrinat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:53 AM
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That's why "don't criticize a women's appearance" is established as an unspoken rule and men who break this are called "bad with women" or "socially inept guys"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:07 AM
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The difference is, that Luke, Anaking and Kylo Ren had training from Masters and they even suffered painfull loses along the way. I give you that they were many times faster than your ordinary jedi master. But Rey never lost a battle and she didn't even get proper training from a master which goes beyond of merely giving tipps. She doesn't even know about the styles of lightsaber battles and is moving like she had training for decades already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:50 PM
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It doesn't go against the common trope at all because women are overwhelmingly celibate by choice while most men aren't since men are the ones doomed and forced into the active role.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:15 PM
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Look at Full Metal Alchemist. Olivia Armstrong and Hawkeye are good examples although they don't showcase any real flaws but are still strong and pleasent to be watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:36 PM
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This article is so nitpicked to the point it hurts. The criticism isn't about her struggles in the movies (bloodline of the most evil sithlord to ever live) which are the bare minimum to have a somewhat not boring movie in the first place. The critics are overwhelmingly about how every power falls into her hands almost just like that. Kylo Ren with over a decade of training loses to her everytime in light saber combat? She get's abilities where past Jedi masters trained years for with a few days…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:34 PM
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Captain Marvel is the biggest woke bullshit to ever touch the screens. Her only "flaw" was the biggest feminist asspull ever because she was held back by her mentor. Nice symbolic of women are being held back by men *facepalm*.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:17 PM
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Almost like my Girlfriend. She wanted something serious but also just loves sex. At some point she just gave up on finding something serious and focused on sex and FWB's. Surprisingly at that point it became all better for her since it was like the burden of pretending was removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:11 PM
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Went from 2 in my late teens early 20' to 6 at 26 and now at 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:00 PM
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I love to have my day to day tasks done within a dayli routine and the free time is better spent on something else than maintaining social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:21 PM
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3 Pictures with the face 45% (wierd angle), 52% and 81% in the last photo my GF did for me WTF? For me, the angle aside, all looked almost the same. Body was 93% lel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:04 PM
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I don't have any social media myself but my GF still posts photos of both of us on her fitness insta. So what am i?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:43 PM
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There is the difference. FDS operates at an level of insane spoilness and privilege while TRP operated on desperation and scarcity. FDS is more like the spoiled rich kid who is crying because she got the newest Audi for her birthday but wanted a lamborghini instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:24 PM
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If LMR is that abusive what do you call "having 1 or 2 months of dating (of course the guy paid and drove to her city) and texting. Pretty soon it was insanely sexually charged from both sides with clear touches and words and suddenly when the day comes she gets cold feet but somehow can't clearly say this and act upon? And now the guy has to suck it up or is the asshole? There is something called implied behavior. Obviously if it's to early or there were no sexual energy then i agree with your …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:22 PM
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You know that this discrimination is only to not having the gender scale fall TOO far onto one side. If the ratio would've been reverse with over 60% men in than they would favour women too just to keep the some sort of balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:03 PM
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Translated his name means "meat whip" just lacking an "e" at the end. So we know he loves his dicks aka "meat whips". xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:02 PM
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If women can’t handle the army they should get the fuck out. If boys can’t handle education system they should get the fuck out. Everybody needs education. Girls couldn't handle the assertiveness and confidence in school and then women cried long enough till it changed for their liking instead of adapting, so i just say the same should be done for men. Instead of adapting to the workplace they claim sexism and discrimination till it changes for them but men are still the ones needing to adapt. Q…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:57 PM
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We could fix our school system to stop disadvantaging a huge amount of boys. On top we should stop demonize typical masculine behaviour such as competiveness or focusing on specific strenghts and interests. We don't need assigned pussies. To many boys are just done dirty from age 5 onwards. I know some are still turning out good but it so much wasted potential. Also distirbuting wealth from the few overpriced and overpayed jobs to the really essential and important jobs aswell as more prestige a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:02 AM
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Men downplay it simply because no one ever did or ever will do something like that to them. They don't except this and don't get mad themselve if they have also have to walk through pouring rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:39 AM
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That's not right...yet. The mindset is just a part of the puzzle and one that follows steps that must come before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:18 AM
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Yes we need masculnism now to cater to men's strenghts from elementary school till the early careers years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:47 PM
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That has nothing to do with the comment from Sylvestor. Confidence needs to be backed up by appearance, charisma or skills otherwise women won't hesitate "put him back into his place".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:07 PM
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Well nothing new i suppose. You are quite some time here, wonder that you just see it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:45 PM
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You can act like a chad all day long. In the end you want and need a positive reaction from others and you can't force this. Inner peace without confirmation from the outside is attainable without acting like a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:38 PM
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You are not defending women per se. You've got a balanced approach and sometimes it just happens to be you defending women sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:30 PM
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At least according to the ppd women they think that their companionship and chance at sex with her is enough for her to bring to the table. Obviously i know many women aren't like that and go dutch or bring good faith into the date. My comment wasn't also directed at your advice but at the mindset itself you give advice against.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:04 PM
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If you stop thinking about sex as something you get, women give, and start seeing it as something you both want when you want it then your entire tone would change. You are right but this thought is more a women thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:51 PM
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Here exactly this. I see women complaining how they drove 20 miles and never again etc. while driving 30-50 miles is basically every second date for a man and so normalized to the point of being invisible and then focusing on this "no low effort" trashtalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure you are overblowing this out of propotion aswell as the "studies" trying to prove 10 hours differences unless they are actually done by monitoring enough couples for weeks. People complaining always find the smallest amount bits feeding their own arguement, you see it clearly by even creating invisible work just for good measure. Also the definition is also wonky. Doctor appointments or monitoring kids for school? fair. Hours of effort put into selecting presents vs bying present…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:42 PM
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It's even harder than you think. One of biggest variables is that more guys than women are just comfortable with a certain level of cleanliness. They don't mind that some clothes are lying down because they pick them up and wear it after the work anyway. Or they don't care about the dust in corner behind the furniture etc. Or an other underrated aspect is to see it by the "difficult aspects". A women may need 2 shopping sessions to buy the same amount of groceries a guy can and even need more ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:01 PM
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Apparantly....age gaps are predatory....are you sure? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:26 PM
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sorry. My GF will coming too. I will suggest we keep it platonic and you introduce us to BBQ American/Texas style :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:01 PM
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I'll definetely will visit you (the good way!) if i ever decide to travel the US xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:50 PM
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Of course men could be disappointed. They get what they craved for years or even decades and then it's nothing like they imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:22 PM
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I actually greatly prefer to be the one doing the pursuing Just like my GF but she also enjoys being pursued. She is also extremely "sloppy" during dating because she is the "close your eyes and go for it" when it comes to escalation be it a kiss or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:45 PM
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All these rape statistics are huge junk. Neutral Statistics and Law institutions already said that these statistics aswell as the source material aren't fit to conclude something like that and the calculations and interpretations are severely flawed and even twisted around on purpose. The same goes for the sweet DV statistics because not only men experience this but many cases of DV from men against women were the men acting in self defense or an overreaction to violence against himself. In a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:23 PM
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Individually you can respect or disrespect as you like. But this case is a question of the male gender as a whole which many women here and big parts of feminism are lacking any respect and appreciation. And thus comes the "Men built everything" reaction. The ones who think they deserve respect for having a penis despite never having accomplished anything else in their lives can go fuck themselves. You added the ".....fucking respect my authority" but this is just what you interpreting yourself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:25 AM
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So it helped with your relationship. Not to bad i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:18 AM
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This aswell as trp didn't help me in dating. But it sure explained a lot of constant bullshit behaviour i would expect from 8 years old and spoiled rich kids in movies i've got from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:11 AM
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Since your arguement only ever comes out as an response of women belitting men while putting themselves above them i say lol yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:58 AM
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Allow me to correct you. "Men built everything, fucking respect men for granting and maintaining your (and mine) coddled life instead of joining the next #womenaredisadvantagedandmenarepriviliged movement".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:39 PM
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We should teach boys self confidence and applying positive feedback loops, aswell on focusing on their own skills and their own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:10 PM
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men of his background god damn! Screw my russian/german beard genetics *cry*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:27 PM
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Oh god his beard genetics are on fire! :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:02 PM
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I can't for all sources but at least the Mcinsey studies are using junk data. https://medium.com/asymmetries/the-diversity-myth-junk-research-and-media-manipulation-81305701c652 The results in their studies (handpicked sections btw.) are not statistically significant. They coated this by applying an intern factor to make it look like the data is good. You need to dive deep to actually see that the p-values are in fact not reaching statistical significance. Obviously they never mentioned it outri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:58 PM
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Same with working out. Starring, catcalling, comments and asssmacking is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:49 PM
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Actually fat. She startet weightlifting at 17 years. She got lucky since it was right in time to avoid heavy stretch marks. That's one thing we have in common. I was also overweight (6'2 with 230 pounds) and we both know that we don't want back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:41 PM
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At least half as fit as i am. Healthy eater. Chill to be around. Doesn't take herself to serious. 30M mostly purple with a slight sliver of red.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:53 PM
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Not anymore. In her heavier times yes. She started to do this when she already got huge progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:47 PM
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I was an incel and now i read comments on my GFs Instagram like "Where did you caught such a hot guy *insert every heart smiley you can imagine*" This also carries over to pictures i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:07 PM
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He is indeed average. But he also looks like he is on his worse days...if he is on his better days he can climb into above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:56 PM
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My GF is one of this sort she really started this to feel sexy herself and also wanted men and women to look at her. Now it's all like a habit and she has to actively and consciously not pose or something along these lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:49 PM
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Why do you think men "complain" about "now that i'm in a relationship women are giving me tons of IOS?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:52 PM
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the guy is immensely better. His pictures are poor taken and he didn't seem to be groomed while the women has better pictures and is even "dolled up" a bit and he is still slightly better looking. Everything being the same the guy is floating over her. Heck he has some Shaia Labouf vibes if he would "JUST DO IT!" :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:01 PM
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If she just browse a few times etc. and is aware of some topics then it isn't a deal breaker. But if she is any deeper in it and actually applies some of the things that is going beyond their own self improvement than no. I don't have the intention to be around scum if avoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:52 PM
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Well well that's the final nail for the poor guy struggling all the years only to shift his focus on his career because he is too frustrated and shy trying to continue dating and losing his virginity (my best buddy). Poor guy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:57 PM
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Yes, because "chads" always got outside encouragement and positive feedback loop and never met existential crisis in a social sense. But yes most RP guys are losers that's why they stumbled upon RP in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:13 PM
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Oh back to your own anecdotical evidence again that i counter with that one guy from my university who got expelled because a girl accused him of rape after they hooked up (with consent) at a party. I guess we can circle around for ever but one fact will remain that women get away with way more shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:09 PM
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Oh yeah imagine having your career and social life completely destroyed aswell as being forced to move far away. And the best part is you have zero open support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:33 PM
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No, the real problem is men who care more about whether something is legal than whether it's harming women. As said a huge chunk of it is just women neurotic brains going overdrive because it was feed with false statistics and men are bad narratives. What ever a glance or one comment is harmful is on the women. Only the cases where a women was threatened or there was explicity touched you can consider harmful. ​ All you're doing is describing men who would do a LOT more of they could get away wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:15 PM
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And boys have to hear how men are all trash und how they should apologized in advance for future raping they might be doing in the future. And everytime they don't act and behave like girls they are getting scolded for being toxic and oppressive. And they are also never getting words of encouragement but only orders of how they are allowed to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:56 PM
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In reality sexual abuse and harassment is determined subjectively by the women herself and that even in retrospective. Obviusly with the narrative these days they label even the slightiest discomfort as sexual abuse or harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:47 AM
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As that these days the bar of being sexual harassed is so low that any blink, wrong stare or the wrong tone qualifies as making the women uncomfortable and as sexual harassments and the amount of wrong accusations making questioning these "harassments" legit. Then add neuroticism into the mix where all this bad things only happen in their heads and suddenly you can't know what the fuck is going on now. The real problem are the women crying about nothing watering down the problems of real victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:43 AM
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Because his GF already did and very convenient in every scenario. Regardless how you twist it even the women here most of the time call him a shitty lover or porn addict. Extremely sad that i have to say this even but women might also be just bad in bed or don't look good naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:01 PM
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On the other side, how it's always his fault? She is at fault in at least one of these scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:19 PM
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4 because of a permanent injury my bully and his gang did to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:39 PM
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It's her fault if she has mental blockades she doesn't know of. And it's her fault that society inflated the egos of women while downplaying men since decades following her lack of attraction for you. If she calls you asshole for every struggle in the relationship just dump the shit out of her. Better be an asshole for leaving her then the eternal asshole for everything in the relationship while she is the passive one thinking doing little bit more domnestic duties makes her immune to being at f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:32 PM
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Women who are only drawn to you because of an instagram pressence aren't worth more than their pussies to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:49 PM
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Just because feminism and society artificially increases and inflated the PERCIEVED value of women aswell as their standards while simultaniously degrading and demonizing men leading to a forced shift in the dating game. This doesn't mean that men who can't attract their looksmatches anymore are overating themselves. A normal fit dude is objectively above a women with BMI over 31 (without trained muscles) even if it's the only kind of women he can grasp attention online that's just as i said a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:47 PM
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Today is the"Les Glorieuses" How can someone become labor minister spreading such unfiltered bullshit. From an objective standpoint and expecting some critical thoughts i'm baffled in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:15 PM
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When men have it better than women it's injustice. When women have it better than than it's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:07 PM
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Write a coherent story about your life from school to now and define the thoughtprocess and reasons behind your decisions. Then depending on the job you want to earn and the questions you get asked you pick out the relevant stages out of your story. This way you reduce the risk of having "plot holes" in your life. It's also easier this way to make the interview like a fluid conversation and to some degree it's also easier to ask questions yourself by linking them to your story undermining the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:31 PM
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As long as you still having access to the fake boob girl (i exactly know why you find it amazing :P) you will have these problems. If by any means you are only having access to the bookish girl your arousal for her will return.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:15 PM
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Looking at separated you are right but brought into into context this crosses the domain of hypocrisy. Women themselves are always defining the sexuality of men by exerting their power over the male thirst almost to the full length. Yes now you may hamstering things like "attraction can't be negotiated", "we can do whatever we want (hedonism as long as you are in a better position classic)", "we can decide what type of guys we are dating" etc. All fine if you look at it without context. But now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:11 PM
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Table Tennis in both and only live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:07 PM
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It's not "Men are better than women". Here it's "Men are neither good or bad just like women". It's the feminist propaganda saying "Women are better than men".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:01 PM
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You said it yourself. Not the men are the problem but this systems only meant to restrict masculine development and proper brain wiring of boys. On the other side the same system goes to extreme lenghts to push even the most dump and uncompetent girls and women into higher education and even inflates their grades to make sure they pass as long as they "obey". It's like back in the day where the son of the CEO get's the best career because he is the son of the CEO but now applied to women and wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:30 PM
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2 interviews. One in an assesment center and one one week later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:18 PM
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What exactly is wrong with the studies he uses? The other side basically has only one study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:11 PM
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The 2001 study is the same as the 2009 study. Look the numbers are all the same 214, 193 and 108. In essence there is only one study with a sample size of 515 working for the propaganda. The 2015 has only 1% percent difference which hardly counts at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:10 PM
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I wasn't accused of hypocrisi but i was accused of being a bad person promoting rape because i question the feminist rape statistics which are obviously completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:05 AM
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Up to two months if she can show me that she is desiring me sexually but has to fight before we connect on a deeper level. But alas my GF wanted to fuck me directly after the gym where she approached me and i waited till the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:50 AM
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That's not solely the fault of men. There are clearly as much women who want sexual tension built and acted upon early on and unexperienced guys are often to hesitant or shy leading into the friendzone and then trying to get more sexual early.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:44 AM
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It's not that bad. I've run and still running into women who are like the ones here, pinkpill and even fds and i'm still alive. Yes i almost got expelled from my bachelorsdegree but i'm still alive :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:42 AM
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In a world where something like "Dog park" is winning awards for excellent scientific work or how every rape statistic is so obviously wrong interpreted and pushed to the point of almost being made up. Add into the account that society operated for years assuming the initial pay gap was correct until it was easily proven a myth. In all these talkings about male privilege and how women need to put artificially ahead with quotas etc. all the while the brick layers, the garbage men and truckers are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:41 AM
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Internal and external factors are always in a relationship with each other. You can't be 100% confident and sure in yourself on your own. You need external feedback to some degree to validate the things you built within yourself. The number one thing of external validation aren't other people per se but results showing achievments which, depending on the type of person, can be the flattering talk and compliments from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:38 PM
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And now add all the social indoctrination benefitting women including overrating their appearance and we can close the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:31 PM
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Because i and the other guy are clearly talking about the women being the aggressors. If the guy starts fighting it's an other case entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:27 PM
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See my edit. Why does she starts a fight in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:45 PM
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She could just run away instead of fighting him or even worse...starting the fight herself. There is nothing more to it. And to be honest, if a bitch has the "this guy won't punch back anyway" and is wailing on him then she deserves a reality check outside her bubble. And to your "cowering in fear"...women only start fights against men they deem below them due to her inflated ego. In no scenario she is cowering in fear from these men but the opposite she lacks any respect for them. If the men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:39 PM
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So is the flow of life. A guy barely getting any experience till mid to late 20' won't find his suitable mate first try at all. His perception of dating will change the more experience he gets. By definition he will have a starter girl in one form or another. Most of these guys were geniunly attracted to their "starter girls" but the experience will change him on a subconscious level regardless. Same for women who are going for the "chads" because media told them that these men are attractive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:42 PM
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Yes it's absolutely disgusting. I don't want to write further because i might say something that will get me banned despite being the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:27 PM
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Reading some responses here are just proof that women would be miserable in men shoes. Your "rejections" compared to real rejections men are getting is like comparing being accidently pushed by someone in a train and having a motorcycle crashing in you. Bonus points for every glare of disgust and every other disgusting word added to the "no". The same goes for the "If he doesn't approach me then then he is passive blahblahblah and it all ends bad for the women blablabla" mental gymnasts. Just on…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure it will lead that way since i'm getting very good feedbacks from my superiors till now. My GF competes in a Bikini class. I don't want to reveal more since it would be easy to come close to track her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:55 PM
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Yes! Got a small leading task to adjust our recruiting process within our IT-System. Hopefully this leads to more responibility down the route. Will be funny to see the reaction of my shitty co worker if she returns from her 5 Week medical time out. Also my GF has her next bodybuilding competition soon! This will be a wild fall :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:27 PM
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A man grew up with toxic messages and wrong indoctrination Struggles because the contradictions are tearing him apart And most likely never got a positive feedback loop and word of encouragement. Instead he constantly was being told to "BEHAVE LIKE X Y Z". ​ Well well well well. This is basically was i'm saying all the time. Feminists just doesn't care about boys. They only care about boys if they behave like defective girls but at this point it's to late. They ignore the male variance on the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:14 AM
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To lazy to use a simple "boys are left behind in education" in google to find tons of articles. Also lacking the skills to think inbetween extremes. Clearly a statement out of ignorance only aiming at the top and crying about not getting there while completely ignoring everything else despite being already further than the vast majority of the population. I did and they change NOTHING. Clearly you are just in your little feminist bubble keeping on bragging about your awesome life every fifth com…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:52 AM
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So, kind of like how men like to bring up how it’s easy being a women, even though you’ve never experienced being a woman? Just like how I can’t even begin to fathom what it’s like being a man, how y’all can sit here and brazenly spout that women don’t suffer from the things we say we do just shows that all that anyone here even cares about is just hating women. This analogy isn't fitting at all. For once it's an actual fact that 90% of living women never experienced "oppression" with no right t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:46 PM
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Leveling the playing ground and equality is such a idealistic view which doesn't apply to reality at all. If you really mean that at a "leveled and equal playing ground" women are doing this much better than men you suggest that women are smarter then men which is obviously completely bullshit. One point is funny: ​ But the reality is that men still get promoted disproportionately faster than women, don’t lose out financially when men decide to have children because they’re not the ones taking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:11 AM
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well that's kinda showing him his "standing" in all these hours no one even noticed him being absent or cared enough to write "where are you buddy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:44 AM
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Oh yeah was once in P shoes sort of. Started my masters degree and had our first few meetings and 2 weeks in i was told a party was planned and if i wanted to join. I asked for location and time etc. and no one could give me an answer because all were clueless. The weekend passed without anyone giving me information just to hear the talking at monday at how fun the party was with the apparant clueless people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:42 AM
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I see women on dayli basis dismissing men losers in these poor working classes that are happening to maintain the structures these ignorants use for their little cuddly and clean life. It's like in Titanic. We see rose "suffer" in these high end suites and restaurants only for the scenery to change into the loud, wet and crowded working room of your average guys no one cared ever in the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:07 AM
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since men basically weight female appearance as everything. Some people can misunderstand that. Appearance is the biggest factor for male attraction but at the same time easier to reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:01 AM
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Go to a restaurant only if she splits the bill otherwise go just coffee. If not she is just a meal digger or what ever wants a free meal. No hamstering you read from the women here will cover that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:02 PM
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Depends on the women. If she is ok to be around then i don't care. If she is radiating extreme feminist vibes than the right thing to do is to laugh at her face and say "you said all men are trash didn't you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:47 PM
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To bad the real cancer of society aka alphabet, facebook, apple, amazon and also samsung are only benefitting. They will continue avoiding taxes while using the infrastructure provided by the systemrelevant and underpaid workers to their heart contents to generate billions after billions and cry like little kids when something is trying to make them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:36 PM
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Wanted to make a good comment but i wasn't even halfway through the comment section and noticed that you are constantly bragging about your "accomplishments" and how great you are and your husband yada yada yada so i have decided not to. Other than that. There is one guy calling women accomplishments nowadays the product of feminist policies. Not that i agree 100% with that but he is far closer to the truth than someone who says that "women accomplished all on their own without passive structure…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:27 PM
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Because it's the whole narrative of feminism to treat differences between men and women as equal as possible. Or did i misunderstood something and they want only equality when it's beneficial for women but keeping other issues like you just described with a double standard and first grade hamstering? I mean most rape cases in relationships nowadays are usually one single overbreaching (most of the time only in retrospective) amongst hundreds "Oh yeah's" from the women before and AFTER the appare…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:46 PM
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It's different and should be treated equally. Just like feminism wants it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:47 PM
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Once worked in a supermarket for some months. It was mostly the even, since the women was usually overweight or fat with a good face and hair. On the other hand i saw plenty women regularly and also without make up which told me that the guy is actually more attractive usually. If i saw an attractive women with a partner then the partner was also good looking. Not once i saw one average joe with a very attractive women but the reverse sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:51 PM
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Kinda did it with my first ltr. She was gone to her old crush the moment he gave her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:25 PM
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While i agree with you on this it's kind of funny how this statistic is very misleading but most statistics regarding rape in every aspect is somehow trustful and correct despite obvious interpretation errors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:20 PM
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He saves the missing part for the audience who is willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:55 PM
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With the landscape in education where everything is aligned to favour women and girls and a teachers bias on top it's basically a dead end arguement. You could say the same 40-50 years ago and say to women to just pull their weight in the workforce because even then (few) women could reach powerful positions on their own so it was possible but history decided otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:42 PM
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I don't know which gender recieves this more often but many women use this as a shaming reflex. Because society usually silences everything negative towards women in every mainstream media and when most women stumble upon TRP where for the first time in their lives people are giving women the same treatment as society gives it to men (although with a much harsher tone) then they are shocked and resorting into this reflex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:03 PM
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Happiness doesn't come from other people. Other people can enhance happiness what was already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:48 PM
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Same here. I'm on a full out healthy nutrition plan and every once in a while when i eat any fast food i have this shit burning feeling in my lower chest. Fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:49 PM
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You forgot the time to appraoch women, to make plans, to date, to keep the convo going and always have a plan to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:17 PM
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but the vast majority of that was at the hands of other men or due to other men’s choices Not exactly true. Even if you leave out the suffering done by other men, the most suffering just comes through nature itself. Doing always the most dangerous and tasking jobs to provide roofs and food. Working 100hours a week for years for his family and still getting the blame for never being present for his children. War and fights were plenty but the day to day stuff was always present.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:41 PM
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Red killed blues ratticate!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:04 PM
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I mean what are EXACTLY the white men priviliges right now? I think the feminism movement lacks serious brainpower or is just malicious because they can't answer the question. They will yell about "positions of power" and the myth of being "taken seriously in the workplace" only which are hardly priviliges for the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:28 PM
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Men receive less sexual attention but a lifetime of basic human respect. Constant demonizing, being called toxic, treated like a rapist and indoctrinated with shitty messages from a young age thanks to feminism tend to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:05 PM
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Well now imagine you are single and didn't have any romantic interaction in 2 or more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:56 PM
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In the day to day life if they just mind their business women would be relieved. But only at first. At some point in life when they are single, they will feel lonely and as time passes they will get self esteem issues (Am i that unnattractive for men?!?!). When they start dating it will be a finishing blow for most women because they won't be able to handle even 1/10 amounts of the rejections the average joe is getting. And i'm not even take into account the billion subtle things defining the vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:53 PM
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I assume that there are no or little "Chad" in the group where the women is more attractive. This is just because "Chad" by his definition isn't that used to put in so much effort let alone to compensate for his lack of attractiveness and actually be happy and not resentful. As said, it's just my assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:54 PM
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Not sure how putting effort into a relationship equals being used. That’s a really strange take to me. Do you imagine that an ideal relationship is where one person is putting in 100% and thus the “loser” and the other is putting in none and thus the “winner?” It's not in this sense. It's in the sense of with how much would "chad" aka a more attractive husband get away. And yes my post is mostly assumptions to gauge how this study takes place in the current view of this topic hence that's why i …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:39 PM
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So the study is suggesting that women can't handle the pressure of putting in effort to compensate for a percieved gap of attractiveness unlike men? If you think further it may also suggest that women would be miserable if they find themselves in the same shoes as men? On the other hand what factors are contributing? having a way harder dating life by default leads to more satisfaction if you get a women you deem more attractive than yourself? knowing how it feels when you have a scarcity of int…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:27 PM
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That's where my second point applies. By definition men are putting in way way more effort than any women. And even if his dating life is improving dealing low effort chicks is a hard especially if they have such inflated egos and complain and all they did was 45 minutes of make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:23 PM
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if they put in the effort and only get ''some ugly entitled landwhale'' what that means is that the guy is also a fat and ugly and entitled landwhale. Why should he get someone more charming, more attractive, and more fit? By effort i actually mean weightlifting and diet. If someone is fat he has no right to complain getting the same. ​ Women get everything catered to them? That's new. Are we talking about average women? When there's even tons of women who do pornstar work, sticking huge thick d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:48 PM
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To single minded. Many guys are put in the effort for a certain amount of time and stopped because of different reasons: put in the effort but only got some ugly entitled landwhale or what ever put in the effort but find it's unfair to put in 10 times the effort of women who almost gets everything catered to her and still get told by women that he is low effort put in the effort, had little bit of success but realized it's not worth it to align all of his life and habits for this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:19 AM
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You are missing the point. Tried to make some sex acts work but found out that she didn't liked it? > Absolutely fine. Did did dirty, kinky sex almost dayli and surprise blow jobs on top of initiating for the 2 - 3 years they were together? > absulutely a no go if she suddenly "grew out" and "matured" and only doing standard sex without any initiating on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:12 AM
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Weaker women are left out of plenty of things because strength is a necessity. Many extreme sports and solo travel aren't accessible to women because of their vulnerability. Plenty of small niche things just and many women are solo traveling nobody is keeping them locked in their houses. ​ And what are all these aspects of life that genetically inferior men are left out of? Don't they have the same freedoms as anyone else? You said it yourself. Sexual and romantic experiences and good paying job…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:55 PM
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the problem with them is that they don't shut up and even get invitation into TV-Shows plagueing more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:57 AM
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This is also watered down since many boys get socially indoctrinated to find them somewhat appealing which causes a internal crash of what they actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:55 AM
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If hypergamy isn't bad than the original definiton of the "patriarchy" and everything that supports women only should be removed because the state without it also isn't bad. If you say genetically inferior men deserve to be left out in most enjoyable life aspects then the "genetically inferior and weaker women" should also shut up because nature made them weaker. You can't defend something without ignoring the mechanics of the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:53 AM
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Been living in a dorm with many women and hearing all this gossip about everything it doesn't take much. So yes it's absolutely realistic to assume that this is an actual possibility. "I don't know how to feel about that. We were slightly drunk and couldn't decide if i want to repel him or not and then just lied on my back and endured it till the end. I feel bad because i intensely flirted with him all night. I feel so bad." "Dear he raped you! If you feel unsure it was rape." This stands out be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:38 PM
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No need. She usually cums two times before me. Although from time to time we do a long romantic session instead of pure wild madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:40 PM
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In fact a college close of mine just had rampant cases of rape at a frat party. It was so bad the sororities had to shut things down with the frats. Would be nice to know how much of this was real rape, which cases where utterly depicted and deconstructed to forcefully find one little grain of air to get a chance of the allegiation because of guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:31 PM
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No it's not that men are unnattractive. It's centuries of social and cultural influence telling nonstop how women are beautiful in which it's entered overdrive 40 years ago. Do the reverse for the next centuries and you will see a gap in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:55 PM
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Or the sudden silence when they posted around in circles and you point out the contradiction. Delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:09 PM
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Basically the same how women speak about male privilege while can't decide which of these 10 top notch job offers to chose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:56 PM
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Isn't there a new show in which the setting is the same? A world with only one man left and the women are now facing the hurdle to maintain their luxuries they took for granted. Y - The last man is the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:53 PM
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The case Luke Mockridge just revealed which comedians are subpar human trash. To bad some of them were really funny but demanding public execution and canceling for something which can't be proved is just behaviour from the deepest trashcan. Also ignoring the fact that there are some sweety cuddly SMS between Mockridge and his EX after the night where he APPARENTLY "attempted rape". This female scum who are now jumping on the bandwagon and also every single one of these comedians are deserving o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:45 PM
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Men are physically capable of taking notes for an hour, women are not capable of competing with men in sports. It’s a stupid comparison. Doesn't matter if it's physically possible or not. The only thing that matters is that one gender is natural more suited for some things than the other and in this case girls are more suited to sit still, obey and not asking critical/challanging questions. But by the time boys get to college, I have no sympathy for them if they cannot handle studying for some e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:06 AM
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And men are always onjectified to be human tools to thrown away then their upkeep is considered not worth the results he is bringing in. And after ruining his body and health over decades being lonely for the first decade all he hears is how bad are women having it because someone called her hottie on the street. Of course men can't understand problems when situations several times worse are almost the default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:48 PM
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The last point is wrong. Corporate America: favours women almost till B suite management and then mostly due to childbirth it's reversing into men favouring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:26 PM
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Ugly women are just treated without any sexual intentions. Of course most women are used to all the "unwanted attention" but don't see that the alternative is several magnitudes worse and hence calling it treated bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:59 PM
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Yes they are failing but as in most other facets of life these days the government will instal passive support structures and rules to artificially set them ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:51 PM
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I would rather say that almost every one of these stories is made up. In reality 99% of these stories where just a relationship withing normal bounds and this one or two times where she found a drop besides the toiletseat (could also be normal water from washing) were enough to tell the "he peed all over the floor" story after breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:50 PM
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To narrow minded. The ground work is done in the school with next to now automic grading. Feminist teachers and the teaching methods are aligned to favour girls, obviously boys don't get enough confidence and at such formative age are pushed into a defeatist mentality setting more boys behind in university just because schools and teachers are to lazy and to strict for applying all sorts of methods like discussions and case studies. Also girls and their parents are far more likely to complain ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:25 PM
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You need more nuance with houstoungradengineer, she is capable of good takes, altough when it's come to women in the work place she is so down the rabbit hole about women are (apparantly) discriminated, victims and systematically oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:45 AM
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Woman are more responsible then men. They get better grades then men, even taking the same classes. Only and only because school was regulated to cater for girls learning strenghts, regulations to help the shy timid nature of women and even get better grades for the same work due to bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:09 AM
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It's not that men are more accepting of women's fault then reverse THAT much, it's mixed with a huge chunk of "putting up with it because the guy is sexless otherwise".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:38 PM
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https://www.sexualstrafrecht.hamburg/falschbeschuldigung/falschbeschuldigung-statistik/ The central german police statistic institution and a law firm specialiced on rape and sexual assault tend to picture this a little different depending on what you mean by FAR higher. I can translate later because it's in german. Also the numbers used in public are wrongfully interpreted. People saying false rape is to rare to be worry about while only counting proofed false rape acccusations. On the other ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:48 PM
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This is a huge ass list at first glance but most of these things aren't on most peoples radar when thinking about standards. What people are irritated by for e.g. are.. Is in a good mood more often than in the opposite of it Patient to my quirks and doesn't get irritated with them easily Supportive, honest, caring, attentive Good at communication, can make compromises These 4 are also standards men have but they just unconciously expect them in the first place and hence aren't written down and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:56 AM
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That's correct in theory but the real application is kinda difficult. Most women won't try to lose weight for you, you have to hope that she decides it on her own and sticks to it which is rare and don't dare to push her or even ask her. The chance when the fat girl gets thin she could just get a "better" guy because her options will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:45 AM
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I can agree. I've had stellar sex with my FWB who is your textbook stacy but couldn't commit because she was in an open marriage. Soon after i've got into my first relationship with a cute but chubby girl. Despite measured on "objective metrics" like sex quality or her appearance were worse than my fwb's the sex with her felt better than with my fwb. Since then i want only the real deal and not fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:29 AM
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Your self perception does play a role in what you find attractive and in my b(i)ased opinion it's even more the case for women than the reverse. My journey from 230 lbs > 155 > 189 (added mostly muscles) had shown me that i actually could be attractect to overweight women which slowly faded the more i got in shape but never left completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:55 PM
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Aren't most of the brexit supporters and voters old and senile people, who got all their benefits and as a dying gift, fucked it up for the younger generation? EDIT: Would be better to put a satire flair under my comment. Never thought it would create such a generational discussion. But to add to that discussion. Overall i do think boomers had it much easier especially looking at the normal way of life like school > workforce. They had it much easier to get their foot into companies and way way …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:20 PM
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It's time to relocate half of B and C-tier manager salary to essential jobs like teacher. These guys are vastly overpriced anyway and their bonuses are also in dire need for a realistic recalculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:16 PM
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Yes, with feminism catering only for women but get's sold as an equally fair ideology more men are getting this feeling and also seeing the double standard at which it operates. But at the same rate many young boys are indoctrinated with the narrative that girls and women are wonderful while they are potential rapists and toxic etc. and what they see in reality is just completely different for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:32 AM
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It's not like the manosphere is getting bigger. Most men always had at least underlying feelings about this but where lacking words or/and the environment to describe it. With the manosphere they just got their own observations and feelings validated and started to speak. So the manosphere doesn't actually get bigger but rather reveals themselves more from what was there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:06 PM
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I can only tell from my rural area i live in and from my time in two different universities and my observation says that guys usually are more respectful to these kind of workers or even to the cleaning staff which are slightly more women. Women especially the students are faking indifference but at the thought of dating these guys many will show their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:01 PM
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Most women also don't respect men. You don't respect the brick layers, construction workers etc. it's even worse in reddit that these men are called subhuman trash and losers in dead end jobs despite being 10 times more important than any climated office job you women love. It's a give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:46 PM
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For me it was more like i was the generic gym goer who stared at her ass from time to time and she noticed it. Then one day she provokingly walked in front of me while i was sitting on the leg press and then ironically asked "Is my ass bad or why do you look away?" to start the conversation. After that i took the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:46 PM
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yeah yeah what ever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:12 PM
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Got a random "appraoching you was the best thing in my life" from my GF. This really stings deep in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:53 PM
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Yes there are people defining it with (f)WB and anything about the friendship beyond sex is somehow to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:32 PM
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You are right with the direction but you think about it to strict. Ofc women could still date more attractive than temselves just not that much more attractive. And men's saving grounds as you said are extremely hard work with a small successrate which isn't suited to find a loving LTR in the first place because these women won't have visceral attraction to the guy. What’s being promoted to women most is, beauty products, plastic surgery (many options focused on their looks and not much else) Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:29 AM
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I like this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:03 AM
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Plenty of women still have some sort of nieche attraction so the 20% of repulsive men might vary between women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:02 AM
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i have seen unattractive women getting in relationships with equal unattractive men, men who are unattractive who will sleep with equal unattractive women This right here is the saving ground you yourself just provided. Just because 7+ guys are out of reach doesn't mean you are hopeless and there are still plenty of good, decent and caring guys in the range below and within reach. Why do you want to get more out of dating than that, is this so bad that you call it doomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:01 AM
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Generally yes. In the 90' you barely saw athletes going for unfit girls etc. and overweight girls also made more effort in bed and in dating. Nowadays you have these completely dolled up overweight girls faking with angles and what ever filter there is demanding athletes to crawl to them being thankful that she choses him. It's better for the genetically gifted guys because they have now more options than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:21 PM
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For the purposes of the discussion, you can ignore economic impacts of changing the gender ratio like more capacity for population growth or less capacity for physically taxing labor. Thats like half of the impact this would have. The other impact would be that despite what women are telling you by calling this "unwanted" attention the depression rate among women would be even greater than it is now. Biter lonely ladies with next to no attention and severe self esteem issues. Men also won't come…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:04 PM
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You are on to something but you are not quite there yet. I agree overall women have it much much easier than men these days. They get a headstart and institutional support from young age at much higher rates than boys. They can cry about their status quo and society/school/next institution will examine if they can enforce rules to make their life better instead of them adapting. It's proven that school and university grades are inflated compared to 30 years ago and most of this inflation is chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:28 PM
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We are long past the point of equality. Now it's only nitpicking and whining about the top 5% of jobs and positions of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:14 AM
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It doesn't matter in the context of this thread. And if you want to open that hole, it's the responsebility of society to tackle this and this by preventing for mental health to arise in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:00 PM
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Yes i think you thought to much into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:36 AM
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Both sides are getting killed by the same side. Ironically men are are killing themselves more than men killing women but this doesn't matter here. Just a thought experiment. Imagine this feminist talk in TV-Shows and then imagine the same just gender reverserd. It's not hard to say that would be unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:35 AM
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You are right. But just think about it. Which side can get away with it when they openly state such thing in public, even get support for it and are even invited into TV-Shows?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:38 AM
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You are actually right but you left out another truth. The moment one of these "betas" or "losers" gets a grib on you and caves in your face thats only leaving 2 teeth in your mouth remember that it's actually something you deserved. You talking about oppurtunity and you take many chances on this one. It only needs one guy willing to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:49 PM
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It's even worse. Women take men's problems and twisting it with the biggest mental gymnastics possible into something that's an advantage and the other way around is so bad for them. E.g. "Oh men have it so easy, they are satisfied with so little that the first girl might be the one (regardless if it's a unbearable landwhale for your average but athletic joe). We on the other hand have so much options but none of these guys makes the cut because after a while i find always something problematic.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:23 PM
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Men are more and more told how useless and toxic they are and how all men are trash and no one needs men. They are increasingly ignored in every talk about nation wide struggle. The backbone of society aka the essential professions are ignored. When politicians talking about fair labour wages and gender representation then they talk about how to bring women into prestigious, safe and well paid jobs and one of the biggest talkpoints is always how the poor nurses are so disadvantaged and how the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:10 AM
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There are many things causing the phenomenon. It also could be that when women see that a man is taken they drop their guard thinking he wouldn't missunderstand friendly behaviour as flirting and wouldn't care in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:48 PM
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But there are quite a few cases where longyears incels got their first girlfriend and suddenly they see IOS everywhere and not a single glance of disgust of women how they used to before and got treated actually friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:54 PM
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Yes. From the point of view of somone with a superiority complext, victimmentality and viewing men as subhuman trash of second grade then yes, all makes perfect sense even at this degree. They do the exact same shit as TRP and overblowing reasonable approaches to disgusting degrees minus accountability and only half of the self improvement aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:54 PM
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M/CO/20/27/0
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:58 AM
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.....picking out clothes we think he’ll like pretty sure at least half these clothes are paid by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:54 AM
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I think this refers mostly to that, that guys don't actually think they are handsome but they act confident and also aren't afraid to approach more attractive women. Because he is so in tune with himself people just assume that he thinks he is such a hot guy. On the other hand while women will rate their "true self" accurate they base their self esteem, ego and the attractiveness from potential partners from their fake self which only exists on pictures, where she is wearing makeup and cheated w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:37 AM
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Scroll down and on the right side: 2. All Advice Should Focus On Maximum Female Benefit All comments and posts, should be focused on how the woman can derive maximum benefit for herself, and herself only. Mutual benefit should be a byproduct, not a goal. https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/forum/handbook-posts/males-monogamy-and-mate-guarding Here this is being a manipulating scum on purpose. If something like this just happens by chance then it's ok but they want this at all times. ​ intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:11 PM
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But only a spineless guy can fit their definition of HVM. No sane man who is otherwise meeting their standards would put up with this willingly. My second paragraph is comletely from the handbook and the end of my last sentence is the 2. iron rule from FDS. My third is basically everyday content. And my last one is just the logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:36 PM
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Guys simping for them according to their HVM definition and then they throw him away for one mistake regardless if it's during dating or 2 years into relationship. Not to mention, constant shit testing, manipulating behaviour, sex weaponizing, focusing only on her wellbeing while his wellbeing is only a side effect at best, intentional mood swings to see how he handles it all the while the only good thing she does for him is sex and her presence. In one specific field report a woman regularly ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:13 PM
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They want him to make the effort to get her horny. The actual sucess or amount of effort doesn't play a role here, they just want him doing effort for her sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:07 PM
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Wonderful addition of all the hoops. This is criminally left out in the discussion when women complain about lying in bed while he preferes porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:58 PM
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However, political feminism is odd in that it advocates for equal numbers of men and women in high-paid pleasant jobs, but does not call for equality or quotas for dangerous, dirty jobs of the kind men have traditionally done. It ends up looking to me like they want to cherry-pick the benefits of our brave new world. This basically debunks 50% of all hardcore feminism but they keep crying male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:32 PM
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Virgin obsession and in tune the hate against "high" N-Count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:40 PM
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Interesting, finally someone recognizes that men having some sense of self reflection of their own attractiveness or just their situation in general. And also someone who got treated better while being less attractive than while being attractive. All other women in this sub claiming that being ugly or fat means they get treated like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:16 AM
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This so so much. Men wanting just a thin women means overly high standards and and only wanting a model even if the man himself is thin or even athletic. Or more so that men who aren't attracted to landwhales are accused of having their sense of how a normal women looks disconnected from reality due to porn *facepalm*.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:11 AM
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My GF is ugly and was/is really easy because she loves sex obviously she prefers relationships but wasn't hoping to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:06 AM
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Behave like she is not here. Be yourself like you were before you met her with all goofy, good and wierd things. And observe how she reacts and behaves afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:36 PM
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The only thing bumble proves is this initiating double standard where women complain about low effort first messages but somehow managing to display even less effort in their messages. Other than that i don't see your observation linked solely to bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:33 PM
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four useless out of place statements for ignoring an explenation to your bad faith accusation in which every man purposely manipulating women for the thrill of the duper delight. You don't have arguements beyond feminism tantrums and the ability to stick to the topic nor keeping a clear direction. I'm ending the exchange here because you don't want to and more likely just not able to understand and because i simply don't want to get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:16 PM
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Imagine a Person who is walking with his complete bought groceries along the street with homeless and starving people and this person is disgusted by them and thinks how they dare to beg for some food and rationalize something while living their tiny privileged bubble. There is no complicated reason to it why men do it. They do it because they live in such sexual scarcity that they try it. They do it because the "real consentual" way never worked (yes many men tried the proper way do never make …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:21 PM
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No means no is something many women disagree and the meaning is changed from man to man. For this man No mean "No". For this man No means "if he cutely wins me over" and for another man No means "If he is a real man then he will take me by force". And some few don't recieve a No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:49 PM
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Yes absoluteley and why they do it? Oh yes because almsot every man is living in immense intimate scarcity and adopted a "at least something" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:39 PM
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Hot partner lots of sex lots of fitness humble life still without dispense completely unaffected from this social media bullshit plague and this toxic american mindset chasing after every penny a fun job where i don't mind doing something in my leisure time if needed regardless of it's payment (has to reach a certain threseshold though) Chilling together on the couch watching anime everyday when chores and fitness are done Visiting PPD and FDS with my GF for the luls After fucking 8 years of sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:24 PM
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Can't celebrate this enough. If you want something then set CLEAR goals and sugarcoat them in dirty talk to set the mood. Don't except men to be mind readers and don't excpect men to listen to vague goals. And something else for the original commenter. Since i'm some guy not caring about N count (WOHOOHO) sex is like a craft you can learn. There is little good on holding to some sexuals ideas if you have this kind of goals or not overly religious etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:23 PM
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I still can't understand. Can these "Ultrachads" really have real good sex everytime? Sex can be learned and partners can get synced to each other after a while which is increasing the satisfaction in sex. This aspect completely away but i guess the ego boost and other things are playing a bigger role.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:04 PM
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I just wanna talk about your thought experiment when the women can't have sex due medical reasons and about possible scenarios within this context. But since you didn't add anything to this i assume you don't want to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:16 PM
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Just asking. You said the women can't anymore or couldn't have sex with him due reasons. The man still has sexual needs but don't want to leave the women. So he has to "man up" and just suck it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:41 PM
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I mean open marriage in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:17 PM
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My gf already had mplants when we met and it's quite visible but i don't care. She said that she wanted a nose job too but is accepting her face now how it is. For me personally i don't care about surgery on the body, my attraction resolves more around the body so i kind of ok with it here. The face is a different beast though because for me the face is the "identity card" of a person and harsh surgery would transform her to another women who might not be my girlfriend anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:47 PM
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I had three women. I'm RP aware since i'm not agreeing with some of the extreme and disgusting sentiments of RP. first relationship. She was the thing RP is aspiring for. 20 Years and i was her second N. But it in the it was mostly a chore because i tried my best etc. but she was so immature and emotional and went from "You are so good and sweet to me" to "You are ignoring and hurting me" withing 5 minutes. It failed after 5-6 Months because after i helped her losing weight and getting the direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:38 PM
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Women are extremely rarely the chasers. In fact when women are confronted with only a minimal fraction of that what most men do as chasers and in initiating relationships they are immediately stop doing it and proclaim with absolute confidence "I know my worth, if a guy can't get his ass up to get me he isn't worth anything" followed by a message to other women"Never chase men girls, this is disrespectful and you should never do this!". Of course she don't have any clue that the reality for men …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:03 PM
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mediocre often doesn't mean bad. I would make a bold prediction that more men than women will agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:53 PM
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It depends how the individual weights his cornerstones. If a person has benefits in points which are important to you but flaws where you don't care as much then this person can be seen as high value and compatible. I myself just wanted a women who likes fitness and nutrition like me and loves to chill on the sofa and the most important (and rarerest) thing is that she is grounded meaning she don't make a drama over trivial shit. 29M
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:51 PM
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No problem if he is allowed to meet his sexual needs elsewhere i suppose but thinking about that creates a not so nice feeling especially in women does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:43 PM
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Actually very true. Even the absolute perfectest reaction and discussion wouldn't change anything she wanted confirmation for her future actions. Even worse she basically provoked a bad reaction from him to use this as a foundation and justification of her story with him being the immature bad guy. Goes hand in hand with the "men are always at fault for problems in relationships" thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:40 PM
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We don't know the real story. It was a story she wrote and in her world she is always in the right and has reasons etc. The reasons she felt disrespected are as likely to be trivial as breathing as to be really serious depending on how privileged her life was till now. Regardless if the reasons are valid or not the feelings are there and physically affecting the relationship. At this point both should just go and end this, they are not compatible. Walking on eggshells 24/7 isn't a life and every…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:39 PM
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They kinda don't care because they think of completely dolled up look if they say that. Subtle make is unnoticed most of the time. On the other hand many don't want be "lured in" just to realize the women is uglier without it after dating for some time. Also many women who are looking better with make up clearly setting this bloated level of attractiveness as a milestone for men be it only a slight difference but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:00 PM
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A women will "clearly" tell you when she likes you. *cough*
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:28 PM
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Oh shit i'm forced to watch the 3 FSoG tomorrow...almost forgott.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:44 AM
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Jetzt pssst. Die Masteranten bekommen sonst einen Minderwertigkeitskomplex :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 11:08 PM
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A.) Divorce, Alcoholism (typical russian) and MASSIVE bullying in school and university. B.) Nothing, although my parents barely gave me any financial support for my studies apart from letting me use my old room from time to time. Which required constant working during and inbetween my degrees. C.) No i feel amazing D.) Ever had a small group of friends since 16 Years and still going. I worked on my social skills so no. E.) Yes it absolved many of my problems but only in the sense that it increa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:09 PM
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I saw handsome men with perfect masculine faces, perfect jawline, blue eyes, full head of hair with an astonishing swimmer physique rated 4-5 by most women here. So in that sense you kinda have to believe that they know "ugly" dudes getting laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:42 PM
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No less and no more. I love spending any time with her (as a former incel i sweared i will enjoy every second with a romantic partner) and actively try to make this not 100% about sex although since we locked in her apartment and both on homeoffice/homelearning she want's more sex (emotional reasons because of her past i suspect). My respect for her comes from things she is doing like her bodybuilding hobby and that she passed every exam this semester despite shitty homelearning conditions. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:47 AM
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Men as a whole can have a preference but choose a girl which doesn't meet the preference for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:46 PM
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I throw Jenifer Lopez in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:05 PM
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Don't think to much about this. Enjoy the relationship as long as it lasts. Give you best in the moment and if it's lasts forever then nice gratz. If it end's then cry yourself out in silence for some time and rise up stronger at least you were together with an insanely hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:33 PM
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A good thing is to look at the few cases who are actually getting no attention at all. Every single one of them isn't happy at all about this. Before fat acceptance, overweight women were mostly really crazy in the bed because they didn't know what will be the next time they would have sex. Or look at the femcels. They are so depressed and their lifes are basically only cope after cope after cope. Most of them aren't even at Zero attention levels but attention only from "ugly moids". Imagine eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:25 PM
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Another analogy. It's snowy and damn cold. You would want a car who could bring you faster to your destination and protect you from the cold. Some random person in a car holds near you and talks "Well Cars are not that great. Sometimes they make annoying noises and so on" and then this person drives away giving you a piece sign through the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:15 PM
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After some fucked up months of nigh depression i was very content and happy with how my life was going and this way i could live forever. But now that i know how it is to be craved and desired it's something beyond happy. If it were to end now i would need some months to get over it and over time getting to the happy content state again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:12 PM
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The ass thing came roughly with the fitness trend. Because athletic muscular guys prefer similar women and muscular women have a nice round huge and solid ass most of the time because of these hip thrusts and squats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:05 PM
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He can't just get a good job. He has the chance and TRY to get a good job. And only very few women are that ugly that they are hopeless (as much as there are guys that ugly that even their job prospects are basically zero) but i can imagine that the best few guys are out of reach if it's that what you mean by nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:00 PM
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I took this bullet so hard. I studied HR and Labor law in germany and i had to write over 300 resumes only to get a place for my mandatory internship and my grades were the 2nd best and the best in bachelor and master respectively. I let my documents tripple and quadruple checked and attained every job interview training the universities were providing and still. Funny enough almost every process i made it till the end where only few candidates were left. On the other side i had one female frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:02 PM
1

Won't these men will be "economically unnattractive men" many feminists are crying about? And to be honest. Men wanting into female dominated fields have a high bar to climb without quotas to help them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:55 PM
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Because you get the lifestyle by competing with others. You can be the most competent men on earth but there are so much outside factors beyond your control and most of the competitors don't even play fair. And no amount effort and good ideas will 100% guarantee success, never. Being thin, feminine and just as attractive as possible is far more within your control and a battle only with yourself. Apart from the most deformed people everyone can be attractive to a suitable men. Fertility and youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:07 PM
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He means in the dating scene specifically. Being successful for your own living comes without saying of course and can synergize with your dating life but isn't mandatory for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:58 PM
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They are harsher in the substance but more soft in the communication. You said the only thing that stopped dating someone was the lack of attraction. This is absolutely true but what was causing this lack of attraction? It could be that he lacks the nuances in conversations, maybe he slipped up in his talking one or two times when it comes to a sexual topic. Some miliseconds of hesitation if it comes to cuddling or closeness in the date or the approach and so on. Most of the time you wouldn't no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:55 PM
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yes i would.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:05 PM
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Only for the third reason you listed and anything else which goes in the same direction. Anything else and i would not be able to look in the mirror anymore or rather would have the urge to punch the person in the mirror. Only reasons where i have to move away and she won't come with me or the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:55 PM
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We had a discussion here once. Most men are content with basic clean houses and rooms while of course there is sometimes clothes here and there but in itself it's relatively clean and fast done. Women however going into insane details when cleaning which doubles the time needed for it for the last few percents. Often they just overwrite the work the men done and then in her mind she did everything and the men did nothing. I lived in several boys only dorms and hygiene was never a problem althoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:44 AM
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On average men. Men are are going insanely long ways to get better at dating, at least in some point in their lifes. This includes usually to look it from the women's perspective. However most women don't even bother looking at all men, the strugglers are invisible anyway. Also 99% of womens dating problems aren't women's problems by definition. This are problems caused by options which men would also have everytime they somehow get the sex problem temporarily out of the way and attractive men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:31 AM
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It's all fine to let him wait 6 months but god make sure you can compensate for this. This mindset of being the judge and let the guy invest and do not only the heavy lifting but basically everything during the waiting time is going overboard and is no surprise they only want the one thing every women can provide. Women say things like "I want us to get to know each other before sex" but then fail at conversations, teasing, resting bitchface almost the entire time, being passive, let him double …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:47 PM
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I remember a post from 1 year ago where a mod laid down the reasons why there is NO self improvement tips in fds. The reasons could be boiled down to a single one "Women, regardless of her appearance and weight have inherent value compared to a 7+ men". Did it change since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:48 PM
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Also after reading a few posts every now and then they we can judge their definition of being treated poorly. One post once was a rant how her bf once liked a insta foto of a girl he was in school. She said everything started out well till then. She was a bitch all the time since she admitted shit tests throughout the relationship. Now in her story of course she was treated poorly. Another story was about how her best BF till that day posted smiley under a meme with women clichès. She started dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:42 PM
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My GF is like that but well dosed and by any means not that extreme. If -100 is FDS and 100 is hardcore pickme then she is roughly 40-50. Best feeling ever i would be dump to to throw it away. Well although to much is just tiredsome and at some point hypocritical and somewhat lacking an own identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:18 PM
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All nice and ok when there are people who are into this but she has to give clear signs in a reasonable timeframe that the guy is at least on the right path. If someone is stone cold with zero signs that the guy has a chance if he continues then the guy is smart and not weak willed. I challenge your view and say that women who are playing "hard to get" wrong are just narcisstic wanna be queens enjoying the attention and men should be thankful to be sorted out from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:38 PM
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I don't really care how people how people see me here lol. It's just fun to see the double standard directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:21 PM
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Yes because at this point for many men getting any romantic experience at all is an ego boost because of the scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:21 PM
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Then nothing has to be add for these kind of open double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:09 PM
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This is actually written with a level head without anger. Because good that you mention it, when gender flipped it's almost the most natural and common thing in the world that to whale down on the man how low value he is and "what does she see's in him?" and what ever other negative conotations (not neccessarily the girlfriend in question herself). But when it's that way i sound mean and angry all of a sudden?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:50 PM
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That a sad reality. Any women doing half the effort as you in the gym would be stacy lite while most guys are becoming average at this point. Objectively keep your standards they are on point. Better try get your match than elevating the ego of someone below in the smv scale. Your lifestyles wouldn't be meshing together anyway and the chances are here that she would try to drag you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:07 PM
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As a hiring manager and mentor for young apprentices which are 14 at the time 6 boys/men and 8 girls/women i sometimes have to be "alone" in the room with them when we discuss the next steps in their apprentice or their work performance etc. I always had (now it's all homeoffice) a employee from the division the apprentice is working in the room for my safety. Because the topics to discuss are relevant to him so it's practical to have him here to avoid any claims. My both co workers (crazy femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:51 PM
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You are dead ending yourself here. The study says that women can be attracted to men over time even if their looks objectively aren't as good. But you see here time and time again from every corner women telling things like... .....women are objectively more attractive (bullshit for the most part) .....it's how biology works (get these lads a timemachine into the stone age) .....men are shooting about their league too .....attraction isn't negotiatable .....men's smv is equivalent of what he can…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:07 PM
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Exactly nothing is proved. Most of the 90' generation had these influence in their formative years. And many women from the 80' also happily jumped that train. People can be influenced well into their 20' of course with shrinking effects but still. This is also how advertisement works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 10:18 PM
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it is kinda recently where it started to took steam in around 2005 (maybe before but this was the year where I consciously were able to take notice of it) and with smartphones it just hase gone through the roof. But 15 years are plenty and even in the 80's were, although with strong male lead, women almost portrait as the good angels only wanting good and men as the manipulating assholes. And the fact that people like Cathy Newman get so much TV Time is just nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:49 PM
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It's not insane at all. Medial influence has a massive effect on how people pervieve themselves and others. Even if they are not directly raised in a feminist way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:21 PM
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This, while still here not gonna dismiss, isn't by far the only reason. Official education system is openly pro women. You don't have to do a big research to find out various women only courses, girls days or what every government funded preparation courses for girls etc. some of them are even promoted aggressively in media. To find any boys/men only benefits is a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:10 PM
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Remove all make up clothes and compare the people completely naked. Then you will see that the difference, if there is any, is so abysmal objectively. The actual difference is for the most part a percieved difference. For one men are thirstier and and more visual making them more lenient with women's appearance where they overlook bad features and focusing on the good ones only. The reason why women find women more attractive than men is mostly due feminist and "women are wonderful effect" regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:05 PM
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Watch the bigger picture. The men who get their ideas respected are not all men. There are enough men out there who get their ideas shut down mercilessly regardless of competence. It's more a social status problem where the idea has to come from someone with more status. Needlessly to say that most people in these positions are men by the nature of fact that more men are more willingly to walk over corpses to reach their own goal. The same is going on with these experiments where a paper is assi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:57 PM
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We don't need a study to understand that water is wet. The same goes for any study and nuanced situation in the domnestic violance section. Objectively any normal person knows that women can be heavily violent and aggressive just to twist her story to the police afterwards making it a case of "man abused his girlfriend". Even though i'm certain that it's not a gender things but a social status/people thing. There are plenty men who also assign good ideas just to be ignored only to see the ruthle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:50 PM
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If it's objectively winning or not doesn't matter THAT much. The sole reason that she knows that she will have an easier time dating with next to no effort, makes the single period more bearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:41 PM
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The level of content when being single has also something to do with the ability to end the single status. A man who is freshly out of a relationship is far far more likely to face another long period of time being single despite actively dating. A women can go 6 months of being voluntarily single and almost immediately find another partner when she decides to actively date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 01:30 PM
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You are still not getting it. You can shame porn in itself but don't shame people who aren't attracted to fat people as porn addicts. This exchange is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:11 PM
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Porn CAN distort the view there are still more than enough people around with reasonable attractive standards. You don't have to "porn-shame" just because i'm not attracted to fat people. It's funny that you display this problem of distort view of bodies as a male only problem (plot twist: it's not a male only problem) and in addition using it to shame men into being attracted to landwhales. Everybody is allowed to be fat. There are plenty other fat people from the opposite gender to chose as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:35 PM
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It's flawed because of 5 reasons. you immediately assumed that porn disorted my view of women for the simple fact that i'm not attracted to fat women. you are defending being fat eventhough it's an easy fix with huge life improvements. you are starting to talk about porn out of nowhere despite me not going deeper in your porn rant. it has nothing to do with aftercare Anything what is not fat is a pornstar level physique to you To end this porn discussion i make this statement. Not being attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:19 PM
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It was 4 years ago and was finally able to have sex. There is no more to it. I was respectful and no party was harmed or abused in any way. I don't understand, what are these provocative police/feminist investigation like questions? Where did i mentioned porn? I'm well aware how porn bodies and "real" bodies look like. You don't have to play all mighty like i have no clue or have a form of disorder from porn. I know that lifting weights 3 times a week with proper nutrition will grant "porn" bodi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:12 PM
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She was pretty dolled up with make up and shape wear. And i noticed it after the foreplay when she took her clothes off. Anyway she wanted to hook up only and chat after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:48 PM
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When i lost my V card and were cuddling naked with the girl, talking for 2 hours it just felt amazing even though the girl was little more than chubby. If i would dress up and bail out after i nutted the experience would be basically none. So for me aftercare in this sense is huge and i do all of these things automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:44 PM
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If i were single yes yes yes and once again YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:18 PM
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If it's only the sexuality but everything else being equal we have massive posts, articles and TV Interviews from women how they have to much of self esteem to chase and shaming men how they should man up. And 99% of people would be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 12:28 PM
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Men and Women have equally high potential to be shallow. The difference is that outside of the manosphere women get next to no critizism for that and get even encouraged and praised for being shallow while men get things like "bEaUTy ComES FrOM WiThin" thrown at them if they even slightly mentioning they don't want a whale as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 12:04 PM
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Then sorry for the missunderstanding from my part. Some comments regarding the extreme ends of the spectrum seem to answer it pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:14 PM
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Many men may have fetishes but it's rarely a must have. Most men are fine with an attractive enough women doing good enough sex for them even though the fetish would be prefered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:20 PM
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First SO was into me not tired of saying to her friend how amazing i was etc. after some time i shared my concerns about how the pandemic badly affecting my thesis with closed libraries etc. maybe it was because of this or because of honeymoonphase was over but close after this she started nagging and showed visible disgust around me when i joked etc. two months later she met an old crush and monkey branched. ​ Current SO. I shared my concerns regarding toxic feminist female co workers and how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:43 PM
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I value Table Tennis and Fitness in my life. Although fitness is partially for the romance aspect but even without it i would dedicate a good amount of time into it. Table Tennis now is just some sort of feeling hte competition and getting my blood boiling and flowing once in a while. Good, long and fast rallies also feel nice. As for now these things are ranked lower because of lockdown and i'm basically "imprisoned" with my new gf in her flat with us both having homeoffice and table tennis com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:02 PM
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Women have backup guys lining up they can aquire either shortly after the break up or after some time. A guy most likely put intense effort getting into a relationship with said women plus the effort for the women where he got rejected before reaching a ltr. Most likely he needs to put effort for aprox. 1 year again to enter the next relationship. If a man broke things off he suffers from nostalgic pink lenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:15 PM
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Then lets hope no man ever will ask you out and letting live your awesome life alone. Hoepfully no poor soul will ever find out himself so desperate to jump purposely high placed hoops. This post reads exactly like the speeches from the nobility back in the day how they pseudo rationalize why the lesser people have to do all the work for them and even be thankful for it while the hardest they do was being pressed out of their mothers womb. It would be all fine and stuff if women would silently m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:05 PM
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I'm not native aswell but an example would be to overact absolute cutely once or act like a sitcom character etc. Taking jokes about herself once was i said she could crack walnuts with her ass because she is an amateur bikini class bodybuilder. Or she did make a joke once where she jokingly said while initiating sex "I can put up a bag over my head if it helps" because she isn't delusioned about her face. Being upset about every single joke from others is really a waste of energy and time. Bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:58 PM
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If you want to see an actual movie with fearsome accuracy in describing how men and women treated in oublic than i would suggest to watch Gone Girl, directed by David Fincher with Ben Affleck and Rosamund Pike in the leading roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:42 PM
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No, she can joke about herself, can take jokes from others/me about her without getting upset and also doesn't mind being a little "foolish" around me etc. this is indeed a rare trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:30 PM
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doesn't take herself seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 03:52 PM
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Of course men get influenced by presence too. Sex with the hottest women won't be funny if she is just laying here with a grim face only losing it on the occosional moan. The complete opposite now i see how she smirking of delight when i'm about to stick it inside. Same with every women in public or you have to deal with. You can tell about subtle movements or she is doing or how she always twists her body in a way where it looks more charming for the person she speaks it. Behaviour and presence…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:46 PM
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athletic with muscle toning and little bit of visible abs doesn't take her seriously can actually make arguements beyond "I'm right because i'm a woman" no princess syndrome sees sex as something good for her can cook loves anime is not passive aggressive similar sex drive is not trash dumb Needless to say thats all of these things i bring myself to the table. And my actual gf has most of these. I doubt i will find someone close to this again. Many of these are also some things within control so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 03:03 PM
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athletic with muscle toning and little bit of visible abs doesn't take her seriously can actually make arguements beyond "I'm right because i'm a woman" no princess syndrome sees sex as something good for her can cook loves anime is not passive aggressive similar sex drive is not trash dumb Needless to say thats all of these things i bring myself to the table. And my actual gf has most of these. I doubt i will find someone close to this again. Many of these are also some things withing control s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:50 PM
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Actually very few people know that early what kind of person they are and want to be and still can pull it of. Back then, if your spouse is merely sympathic you could call it a win. It's not really good of a deal. However, the todays culture just goes into the other extreme of overwhelming individualism where seriously connections with other peoples are just used as tools to further their own cause and goals. The amount of time i hear "if people don't enrich your life, throw them away" is disgus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:53 PM
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You write this.... Yes. Its because men need it more. Threre is no equivalent of that. Men are thirsty we are not. Obviously you put more effort to get her interested. Nobody forces you to date multiple women. Its your own choice, so don't complain about it. Then this.. Yes human decency is bare minimum, its not an effort you can't expect anything in return. Speaking about human decency. Or rather the lack off. If she doesn't have human decency you made a wrong choice. Tell this to the incel or …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 05:36 PM
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First thing first. Most of the courting effort disappearing leads into the direction of this thread and i talk only about relationship dynamics fitting here because i'm well aware there are many roughly even relationships and some very few ones with the opposite dynamic. And still, i don't know where the equivalent effort from the womens side is. Paying in itself is not the problem but all of that combined especially for many normal guys having to go to a shithole of dates hoping everytime it le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 02:09 AM
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courting phase: approaching initiate conversations lead the conversations dealing with one line answers talk playful and sexy but not to much slowly creating attraction (most women's attraction is more fickle than the memory of a goldfish) get her face away from this fucking smartphone for once! planning all the dates with alternatives asking about her opinion even though women usually never know what they want to do on a date ("Uhm i don't know, well never thought about that...." classic) natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 12:01 AM
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Then i can't think of any excuse for him. I would say you dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:55 PM
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Extroversion: 67 Emotional stability: 91 Agreeableness: 40 Conscientious: 72 Openness/imagination: 70 Would judge myself more agreeable if others would use rational arguements....oh wait it's about right. Extroversion and Conscientious is something i actively work on since 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:50 PM
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If we use traits linkes to masculinity than by that definition being masculine is infinitely harder. Assertiveness, being proactive, being active and many other things require actions and even seeking conflict, all in all competitive. Feminity is more about being passive, pleasent to be around, aggreeable etc. Of course at first glance being active is harder than being passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:37 PM
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Was it really ghosting all the time? In my experience women barely text themselves and even then the texting skills they display is slimmer than a single hair. It could very well be that the guy just wanted to see if you even THINK about starting the conversation at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:26 PM
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The only thing i took away from my first relationship was the knowledge that i'm not subhumantrash in a romantic sense and able to have a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:52 AM
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Objectively good comment but number 2 - 4 are something that needs more nuance. There are two to tango and most women themselves think that make up is enough effort and many can't even keep a conversation or they at least don't bother. I know they can get away with it because of "supply and demand" but this automatically tells very much about their personality (nothing good) and sadly confirms some RP beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:23 PM
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It may be shocking but some women actually know that an ideal is just an ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:12 AM
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Sadly most women just want the upper hand in the relationship so they have the option to withhold sex, weaponize sex or have sex solely on their terms where the men has to compromise. The arguements here like the demand and supply thing are screaming how they feel superior and the thought of not having the sexual upperhand in the relationship is repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:16 AM
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I identfied 4 traits which i meet myself and i were looking for a women who matches at least two of them and after that i let my gut feeling dictate. I don't know if it was successful since my GF was the one who basically approached me and sexually escalated from the first date onwards before i had the chance myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:05 AM
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Male - i'm always little bit horny and down to fuck but when a women is around i'm attracted to and know she wants to fuck me (my GFs and FWB) the anticipation of sex adds to it. My basic sex need is around 3-4 times a week but i can easily force up to two times a day if needed just because sex with someone who wants to have sex with you is just that funny and fullfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:51 AM
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Probably comes down to excitement these men can provide and on top the losers are mostly extremely good looking men for the tingles. But the money part isn't the only thing my comment is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:05 PM
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Changing the scape of the business world. As it if right now only leadership positions are worth pursuing because mostly these positions are granted money while expert mastery or any position without leadership aspects is straight up underpaid despite being more important than "some jerk commanding around" since these people are actually the ones creating the value. This will open up more diverse career paths even for those who're struggling with social cues. My arguement here bases on the premi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:38 PM
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Ltr oriented men and women wouldn't like it but can still enjoy a good fuck when horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:14 PM
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I'm speaking about school. So everything before a young adult starts his first job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:05 PM
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It's more like. A nice guy has only neutral characteristics and no good or bad ones. An asshole has several red flags and bad characteristics but few attractive ones like DGAF and confidence so they go for the asshole. And being more into assholes is also refreshing for women because they are so fed up with the simping and overly polite behaviour around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 06:09 PM
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Yes society pushes and promotes young women from the first class in school to the point it somehow seemes off when there is field when boys are generally better. All till mother nature kicks in in form of children then the men have the chance to get the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 06:04 PM
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Damn ploppy here is my upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:58 PM
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me from my desktop pc. just my two cents which i think fit here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 01:46 PM
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here..... and yet my gf has still higher libido damn never thought that...but forcing myself to match hers works as for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:05 PM
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Do care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:31 PM
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Enforced monogamy and social structures were the reason why humans are running circles around any other life form of the planet instead of being just ahead. The reason society made bounce after bounce after bounce was because the potential of as much humans as possible were used while ensuring there is enough offspring to survive. The way of evolution as a whole isn't good for neither sex individually. Stop nitpicking the aspects benefiting you while ignoring other aspects bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:20 PM
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"So you are saying....." man you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:00 PM
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Thank you bro. Good luck finding the girl who is on your level and don't have an overblown ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:10 PM
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Feminists doesn't debate. They throw tantrums about oppression linking nitpicked biased studies to prove their points and would always interrupt you when you would debate face to face like these karens in the tv (blonde television bitch from the movie gone girl e.g). Even if they call themselves feminists the people who actually can debate are for me only feminism leaning. I refuse to insult them as feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:44 PM
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I'm 29 and i'm together with a bikini class bodybuilder <3 But you are right. I'm in top shape since 25 and couldn't get a fit girl and when only with unsustainable effort till my now GF. I speak about relationships strictly because i had a fwb in an open marriage who is a easy 9 or 10 but we knew each other online for 2 years beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:29 PM
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I'm eating immensely healthy and lifting 5x a week with good hiit and you can see it. My looksmatch has to lift/exercise at least regurarly 3 times a week and definetely NOT FAT or even chubby. I take care of my skin and look 5 years younger and hygienic enough to not damage my skin but also to not smell. So she can't be unhygienic. To be totally objective is impossible but there are some general accepted marks to determine smv/rmv and these are compareable and allow you to orient on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:08 PM
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Yes and he got porn addictive in the first place because he couldn't find a partner. Not that this is the fault of his specific partner but it's all like a chainreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:53 PM
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Women attraction don't work additive like mens. Womens attraction works substractive. A guy starts out in whatever his genetics allow him and then from this point up it's only substracting. -ok clothes? -20 -perfect hygiene? -0 -average phyisique (average in her eyes) -30 - etc. Women operate on how repulsive someone is. Some guys don't have a chance at all despite doing everything perfect. The most handsome guy can do everything perfect but is so bad in one aspect that he loses all attraction p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:42 PM
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Boomers and many Gen X actually were raised to work all day and except a clean house and meal at home. Domnestic duties, apart from the heavy "manly" work, was never ingrained in them. Only theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:11 PM
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Most men are usually very clean objectively but it doesn't reach the women's standards. The boy rooms i saw throughout my studies were tidy and also reasonable clean and moped twice a month because it wasn't that big and done fast. Now that i live with my gf we had some arguements over it because her appartment is full of souvenirs and decoration and many useless stuff which is hell to clean really because it lengthens the time duration easily by 5 times We ended up splitting that i do the kitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:00 PM
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Men in everything it's not debatable. Some outliers exist but thats comparing a lake with the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:11 PM
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There is no difference set in stone. Women change and move the border like they want every minute on every men and then act all surprised why he is so passive or it was all platonic and generally excusing it here with the outmost ill mental gymnastics just because they want to be on their high horse. Even when the women starts out with romantic interest and gives the clues and just in the last second to make a turnaround they always blame the men for being unable to read. Excusing it with someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:40 PM
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Usually i do everything for myself. But the extend of my physical appearance to which i do my gym routine, nutrition, skincaire, fashion is soley for the opposite sex. I would be satisfied with around 70% of the effort i do in these topics but i'm doing the amount i do right now only for the opppsite sex. And maybe a little bit for arguement reasons to show that "just showering" isn't nearly enough and a strawman through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:24 AM
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Even without all science or whatever isn't it somewhat logical to assume that a women with many many lovers isn't kind of hardened up and cares less of her current lover just because she has to much experience? It's like being the first time on a public stage where you are filled adrenaline, anxiety but also excitement. And gradually with more experience it becomes routine and you go out like it's breathing. It's logical to assume that she doesn't view her current man in the same light as the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:49 AM
2

As much as small bad things add, small good things also add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:01 AM
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Yes i also think this marketing and manipulation is partially a reason why women have harsher standards than they themselve can provide. As you said and as i meant ll in all this consumerizm affects both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:16 PM
1

minus the ones where both aggreed for abortion beforehand of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:59 PM
1

Now to debunk this "men climaxes 80%, so the sex is better and more enjoyable for men". Cust cumming isn't the same as good sex or enjoyable sex. Women defend all the time that attention from ugly uggos or just having sex isn't an advantage in dating so is just cumming doesn't mean the sex was good for the man. The only thing why this is remotely good is because men don't get that much sex in the first place and the "bad is better then nothing" mindset comes in. Conclusion: Just the cumming itse…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:55 PM
2

When your happiness is depending on luxury needs being met then you are done for because luxury needs can't be met but grow bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:21 PM
1

The average amount of effort men do before even get a girlfriend in addition to the effort that just disappeared into nothingness from other dates and rejections is a magnitude higher then the average effort women do in the first months. At some point men just want to relax and enjoy. Not to say who is stopping the effort? In many relationships both parties let themselves go so it's not a gendered thing. Also women get weight when commited even more so than men on average and the story of the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:51 PM
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the best is to give commitment and then dump after some months. The default state is against men and men for sure have to grab anything of favour by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:43 PM
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Never did nor that i ever had the option to do so. It was usually the other way around that the moment i was in a relationship or people thought i was in a relationship suddenly many women smile or initiating a light conversation with plausible deniability especially in the gym. Since all women say they have a boyfriend if asked out then all of them were in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:58 PM
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I can think of some factors going hand in hand.... Women are more prone to reporting every dissatisfaction > there are some higher libido women > men are excepted to be always down to fuck > reporting in dead bedroom because it possibly cannot be that their man don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:08 PM
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Physical tocuh for both of us immensely. My second one is acts of service in the sense that i do some preparations for her to make her part of chores more easy or just a formed smiley with bacon and eggs etc. when i do the food. Her second is words of affirmation which usually goes hand in hand with her physical touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 12:24 AM
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Women think they are judged harshly if they don't meet societel expectations due to this "women are wonderful effect". In reality society makes mental gymnastics to explain and justify why these expectations aren't met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:18 AM
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Because apparantly the rate of 6 figure earners and successful business owners here is so high and you should go to places where you can find these people.......................................
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:16 AM
1

Is being an amateur bodybuilder counts as traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:55 AM
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Isn't the stereotypical stance to many things like that women are more passive thus avoiding risks and responsibility with potential outcomes and can get away with it while men are forced to to be proactive, assertive and ambitious while this always have a fair chance to fail or end poorly. At least men are forced if they want to have anything above the utmost basic living standards and be sexually attractive. It's like a german saying i freely translate: Only the one who isn't working won't do …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:52 AM
1

Whats your hobby? "I love to go to the gym". *Is going to the gym twice in a month.*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:11 PM
2

"Girls mature faster" is mostly because girls are more obedient in school and all around more suited to follow higher authority without being hard forced which is often seen as "Girls mature faster because they know from young age how important school and grades are". Boys often try things out in extremes and are having a higher drive for physical activities and even with high inherent intelligence sometimes can't use the full potential because of bad upbringing or bad choices regarding groups a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:30 PM
1

Ideal Looks: Average/Attractive face Athletic Body around of my level (which is well above average but not top notch) and natural. Overall knows how her body is build and what is needed to achieve a hourglass figure or at least a good hip to waist ratio which i myself don't require the perfect ratio but some solid curves. Traits: Knows how nutrition works, chill to be around, no nagging, makes fun out of herself etc. just loves to have sex and fuck with me out of joy not out of obligation. Histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:43 PM
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Also don't underestimate that especially in hiring it is "In and trendy" to show of how having balanced gender rates in usually (prestigious) male dominating fields regardless of the structure of applicants. When you have 100 candidates for 20 places and of these 100 candidates 70 are male and 30 are female then you can be sure that it will be 10/10 in the end even though many of the rejected male candidates are as good or better then most female ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:17 AM
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Knowing how low the bar for most women is to feel discriminated should force everyone to enjoy self reported studies with a healthy amount of doubtness. As well as my anectodical experience says the otherswise but i don't count it as evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:22 AM
4

Well i don't care about N-Count so yes absolutely. I would bail when her past becomes a direct problem to me like exes lingering around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:12 PM
2

Well yes same applies to men too with the additional hardships before a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:56 PM
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Mostly a strawmen. If men go outside and still don't find a girlfriend they say "Men have to approach". Then they approach but scoring rejections without end they say "Yes you have to be charming and not a creep". After that they say "Be more fashioned and groom" then comes "Learn to read the room and the subtle signs" followed by "You have to chase her and put effort into courting her".... and so on. Going outside isn't something directly related to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:54 PM
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My clothing. Apart from my work i could't care less about being stylish but i did this back then for attracting women and now i do this to keep myself together for my GF who in turn gladly only wears clothes i find hot on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:22 PM
1

Sexual revolution in itself isn't a mistake. But changing the environment catering mostly to women strength while in at the same time downgrading men strength and prevent from foster it is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:05 PM
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What's silly is that society focuses on women and expects them to cater to men's every whim. Wrong. I only see quotas benifiting women to invade male places not the the other way around. I only see affirmitive actions for women. I only see learning methods and special courses catering for women. I only see women getting encouraged with their dating standards (critizism from the manosphere and reddit doesn't count). So now my question. Can you bring specific examples where society told women to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:48 PM
2

Got dumped because my humor was suddenly repulsive. In the end it was because she monkey branched to her old crush after i helped her losing weight and getting muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:35 PM
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I was "bullied" in university from a girl. She was full retard feminism with a superior complex and couldn't stand that two men (me and another one) had better grades than her. Especially me because i wasn't that put together back then appearance wise. We had once a gender diversity class with an also femist woman. She had a very women biased view to everything and then do not have ANY disadventages which i corrected in a polite way and also had a discussion about it (discussion are very encoura…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:20 PM
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It's only a societel push in perception. Every kind of women looks is pushed or labeled as good and attractive and god forbid you disagree or you a misogynistic asshole. On general men have to meet narrow standards to reach instant attraction which is also different for many women. I see the women saying both things like "Let us heterosexual women decide if a guy is hot or not" and also instantly jumping on the ship "Women are more attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:32 PM
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because it implies that a woman has to conform to some standards to be considered "worthy" (in this case of a relationship). Good nuanced comment i also aggree on. But the quoted part is interesting. You know that men have to deal with that all the time like it's the normal state of the world. In my eyes this isn't misogynistic because the standards he pointed out are general standards not only for women. People are just used to the state that men chase and proof their worth that even a slight s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:28 PM
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In this tima and state everything that isn't going womens way is either misogynistic or oppression against women. It really makes hard to see the real misogynistic shit applied in actual reality and not in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:16 PM
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I'm 29 and look like 21....with 18-26 i was asked my passport everytime when i wanted to buy beer or wanted to see a R-Rated movie. My GF even said that like now i'm 100 times more hot than before. I think it ultimately comes down to the individual but generally yes younger adults are better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:08 PM
2

Ideal is fiction and very fickle. The right person is the person who is most compatible with you where compromises turning out not to limit your way of life to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:10 PM
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Yes, with the exception that he can be turned on easily by e.g. when my partner makes moves or shows her great ass in workoutleggings or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:41 PM
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Not really a ritual my GF is basically me with a vagina but with the only difference that she wants at least a OK when she sends me a whatsapp or so. Gets pretty tiredsome because she writtes so damn much (we had a dispute because of that and she said she is just that into me) and i'm a person who gets easily absorbed doing one thing and casting away everything around me. But i'm making progress lads!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:36 PM
1

Men are aware of this they just say this because you women defend every hypocritical dating doublestandard in your favour by "Women are the selectors".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:56 PM
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So somehow it does mean a fair bit to you oh wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:22 PM
1

Fine then deal with these other man completely by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:41 PM
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It's all about at how she defines average and usually she rejects tons of objectively average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:37 PM
5

I mean in reality a guy has the chance to cater a niche for a women or if you have the luck like me that you prefer good body over face then you can go for an ugly face but stunning body girl like me. But usually i'm in the same boat as you, being fat isn't bad but being fat while demanding some athletic partner is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:42 PM
2

Seems fun, can i join this ride with my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:39 PM
8

Do you mean PPD definition of looksmatch aka average but athletic dude with an overweight girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:34 PM
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"You're such a nice guy" is always the ultimate killer and proof that any romantic feelings are gone or weren't here in the first place. "Dummy" is what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:23 PM
2

DId lied about having a GF and forcefully cast aside any gentlemen behaviour just for the sake of experimenting. The latte made scoring a number much much more easier und the first one made me generally a lot more desired. I went to my gym with my former FWB twice and everyone thought it was my gf and speaking to girls was infinitely easier and they were more receptive. Oh my god now i know why my current GF approached me in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:20 PM
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No. Men treat ugly women like men. It just appears like shit because other women are treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:08 PM
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Good for you (no irony) but has little to do with my statement ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:28 PM
1

Boldness =/= agression depending on how the women want's to see it and has little to do with the act of asking out in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:26 PM
1

Define hot? Amazin peerles body but repulsive face? or only face but average skinny fat body? Or is both body and face the only way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:33 AM
2

Watch what they do not what they say. Sexual successful men aquire sex and relationships easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:27 AM
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Ignoring the first point since my to read and watchlist is so stuffed i won't finish it in my lifetime anyway. The second point might be little overblown but still states true. With all the female plussize, average size, no muscles models and so on while on the male side is almost nothing presented in this direction it's how it is. Of course in the upper echelon of models both sides are genetic freaks. Regarding the last point.... https://www.focus.de/familie/eltern/eltern-berichten/familie-so-f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:32 AM
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One problem with this concept is that many men apart from transitioning from the honeymoon phase into the normal relationship phase keeping up with the hard work but this gets taken as granted in a slow process creating the illusion that the man doesn't try hard enough anymore. It's the "stagnation is regression" mindset is also applying. Sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:04 PM
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Men want women to want them not to settle for men. All of society influxxes women with messages like "You are good as you are", "Don't settle for less then your ideal", "Women are wonderful" and this list can go for 10 pages. This also happens upfront and also very subtle through any fiction. I can't recall any fiction where the female protagonist had to go through major hardships or any learning process. They are instantly almost on top of their skills. Most men represented in media and as mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:59 PM
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They don't even find it everytime. They just decide to add another trait to LVM definition and THEN they rush to the field report.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:55 PM
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Yeah the typical "Now i think my relationship is secured and finally i can get fat and/or have less sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:18 PM
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On the top only the right one is something where you can at least imagine a tiny dust of something negative. Where's the problem with the other two? When they treat their man like a king it's no problem to be treated like a queen regardless of some fotos on insta. I'm in this boat so i may be biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:43 AM
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It's like spring spreak where many, usually shy and introvert, girls are also having some fun at least once in their lifes! Purge Week is party!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:37 AM
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111 I'm going in!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:45 AM
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He is against men being dragged into the abyss by women's choices not the choices itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:39 AM
1

Post Nut Clarity is the male equivalent of a man who dated a girl with high effort and time/money investment and then get ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:25 AM
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Well depends on the prison and if....there are many skinny dudes in prison getting raped too so she has some victim buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:23 AM
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Thats how statistics are created lol. They won't include a case that didn't have a official resolution in the false rape accusation bracket. PS: Do you have a source on why humans can and should breathe air?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:39 PM
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The 5% are only of the official number which is proven to be false. False accusations who are dropped because of the lack of any proof aren't included.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:25 PM
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So then let men complain about being sexless. They just can't say it's worse then being homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:21 PM
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Women are great, men are great. Most humans are great. I don't hate them but the lack humbleness these days is irritating me and it just happens that women are generally more prone to lack humbleness. How can i hate women if i love it so much to hold them dear even though the 76Kg of my girlfriend are forcing me to do it catiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:19 PM
1

By that logic women absolutely can't ever complain only a single milisecond about dating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:13 PM
1

You are right but didn't i said this in my first comment about proper nutrition planning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:53 PM
1

If a man is accused but is proven innocent then the girl should face the same sentence the man would if guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:05 PM
1

It's not about calories. It's about macros and other ingredients which can be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:57 PM
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You can but it's definitely harder. Or you are some exception where the mental wellbeing isn't important for sexuall pleasure. But when my former FWB was in a bad mood once because of private problems i could tell how less she enjoyed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:18 PM
1

No. Society programming and constant medial influx from young age just created the perception of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:13 PM
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Thats the point. The moment women say "Yes it's biology it's meant to be this way" they actually admit how shallow themselves are. Just like the two class society before the revolution. The scum upperclass did nothing of worth in their lives and just said to every legitimate arguement "We don't care."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:11 PM
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Even with all the lenience men are giving them they waste precious time and space in open magazines for their rants about how every women is wonderful and men are to shallow wanting only the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:10 PM
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Average is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:07 PM
1

It's mostly a mental thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:27 AM
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If she just loses her weight she wouldn't even be that bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:58 PM
1

That's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:57 PM
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Take it slow, it's a process, absorb all what helps you in this in your lifestyle and habits. And before you notice it's not even an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:49 PM
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Nice paragraph but my " " are meant to say that the guy in question never had a chance for a relationship but dated and invested time in her. Sometimes it doesn't work out yes but also sometimes she just strings him along. You can't know the difference. Speak for yourself and your own experiences lol This is as much true and my experience as getting pumped and dumped or only getting passive boyfriends with own approaching is true and your experience. Nah. What's funny is that I literally solved …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:48 PM
1

Soon you can start shaping :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:40 PM
2

Its massively more common to die in a car accident than getting raped or even attempt to being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:35 PM
2

I might disagree on the bare minimum of work part. But putting this horrendous effort to make someone a 5-7 and then finally losing the V-Card to some lazy fat landwhale 3 is at least worth it once to throw this out of the mind and it also takes aways the mythical shroud around sex for the incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:32 PM
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It's funny to see how the reasons which makes approaching not an options are the same that men have to accept with every approach. Women are more passive and don't initiate sex, leveraging this power imbalance in the process. Even before any relationship happens it's like to be strung along till "she finally knows if your intentions are serious". And no society isn't shaming women for that anymore, at least not to that degree it has been. Men are also getting shamed especially if he isn't attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:28 PM
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There aren't enough points of how i agree with you even purge week aside. This covers easily 80% of women's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:21 PM
2

Doing Hip Thrusts with 140lbs. My girlfriend loves dat booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:19 PM
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Simply can't agree more. There are rare fat women who like being fat, most others are secretly want to be skinny but just lack the discipline. Ironically if you are able to read the nutrition stats on your food you can easy arange your nutrition plan and even include regular sweets. But naahhhh better go cheer fat acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:18 PM
1

It's the women who just can't fucking relax properly!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:14 PM
2

Since there next to no men to which these 5 points assign and really many women to which these 5 points assign i think it's not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:13 PM
4

let me correct this. Official false rape accusations are rare. Thank me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:04 PM
6

ever thought that exactly stories like this are the reason people do more effort of research about this and more likely find a forum of this kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:58 PM
1

Combination between Rousey and Hendricks leaning towards Rousey. Ashley Graham is kind of repulsive to me even though her belly is somewhat "flat".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:38 AM
1

just an example. Can apply to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:04 AM
1

It needs nuance. If we are indoor and she wants me to hold her mantle because she wants to go to the toilet then i just say lay it on your place you were just sitting. If we are on the street with no way to keep her mantle clean or whatever then of course i will hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:17 AM
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The point isn't that women are hypergamous. The problem is that men are openly shamed and critizised by being shallow and not looking at the "inner values" and always having unrealistic standards (bad joke). At the same time they do exactly that to a much higher degree than most men. Who or what defines the “leagues” or hierarchy within mating practices, thereby defining what constitutes hypergamy and what does not? The effort someone is doing to maintain the markers for these leagues e.g health…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:57 PM
3

declining to hold something for her or other small gestures of this kind if she is speaking bit highly of herself to bring her back to earth willingly calling others out about trivial things like light bumps in crowded clubs if there is a line to the bar just cheat yourself in the middle like it's normal talking in a more cocky tone This is what comes instantly into my head. The perfect way is like balancing on a rope between skyscrapers while a hurricane is going on. So most men just go the eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:37 PM
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At one specific time there actually not that much men who are actively approached women. But most men had one time period in their lives where they actively approached which for most of them ended in rejections and all the others negative outcomes and then stopped completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:26 PM
2

Your premise is wrong. You can be assertive, confident and effective, while treating other people with kindness and empathy. It is actually a very powerful and attractive combination. This usually is always dependent on other people. Being assertive, confident and effective will always cross the boundery of other people and be the perfect mix for other. Of course for the few people who are actually not seeing anything wrong with this particular mix it's highly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:42 PM
0

Well i wouldn't swipe right on my gf either or would at least hesitate. A stunning body just comes better off in rl unless the photo is insanely filtered etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:14 PM
2

Sorry for that. You wrote about this at redpillwomen sometime ago didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:10 PM
1

no kids very into me chill to be around like making jokes about trivial shit where other women sometimes create relationship breaking drama physically compatible to me with a lifestyle which doesn't need to be the same but at least not going against him (not being fat is 90% if this) Bonus points when you love to cook with me but isn't mandatory because i can cook everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:09 PM
0

It's not a need objectively but your body is treating this like a need in the same category like hunger or thirst with the only difference that you won't directly die from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:59 AM
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Yes women do indeed tend to hamster their appearance up. Be it through make up or any other magazine and media uproar how every women is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 01:53 AM
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Only in relation to womens big inflated egos and self percieved attractiveness, men overestimate their own attractiveness even if it's objectively and without the "women are wonderful effect" an accurate estimate. This is why the "Your SMV is that what you can get of the opposite gender" phrase is inherently flawed because it just plays into low smv women and against relatively high smv men because outside factors are pushing women forward and men back like 100000 tuned monstertrucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:38 AM
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Again failed to see that the nitpicking is in context of the emotion arguement i brought up which you in your limited IQ once again didn't see and just ignored. You are a waste of time this exchange is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:32 AM
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Most try but get rejected every time. They start to question the blue pill lies but usually some years with next to no interactions with women will follow because of this. The school/college setting in particular is risky because women tell everything to her bff then she will tell other persons and even if this rumor won't become big a good amount of people will still know about this reducing your chances even further. Of course sometimes a rejection will served on top of humilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:40 PM
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You guys only give one example and that's about the Canadian guy whose men's shelter got shut down. You guys havent tried again afterwards? You think feminists gave up when they kept failing to get the right to vote? Really? I'm talking about anything on sociatel level which benefits men like the men quota for judges in hamburg germany. Despite women outnumbering men 1/4 it was brought to court. The same goes while austria was openly scoring female medicine applicants better with same or even wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:33 PM
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When men start to use their wealth for men only solidarity programms it will be instantly either swarmed by women or when women get the access denied it will be shredded through every court possible making it obsolete. Competition is an attraction trigger for women. Considering that men always have a hard time attracting women, which is one of the main pillars of men problems, it's unfavourable for men when he can't set himself up from other men especially when he is not genetically gifted with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:37 PM
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Yes many are. That's going straight into the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:59 AM
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Sadly, to many women are turned off about this. Found one who are not fortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 09:17 PM
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tl; didn't read: When women get their luxury needs met they are aiming to satiate their even more spoiled needs. But when a real surviving crisis comes and shit hits the fan the "useless lvm" somehow getting more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:19 PM
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This sub on it's core isn't about dating and relationships but about the absence of it and it's possible reasons from wide scale phenomenons up till individual details.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 11:10 PM
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One of the foundations of TRP is for men to acknowledge how shitty and unattractive we are and when we have to put in effort because otherwise we are low value and that being a nice guy is also shit and the list goes on.....At least in PPD and TRP the mindset steems from a position of someones own negative traits and how to navigate around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:32 PM
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Only 29 but had 50 times more sex in the last 2 months than in in my entire life before combined and stable job who is also little bit more than just bearable is also nice found. Best time of my life right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:38 PM
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Don't forget shape wear....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:12 PM
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When i talk about inflated ego personally i have only my own experiences in mind and these are 99% overweight to obese women acting all highly and stated their preferences for fit dudes or at least no to fat dudes. Sadly to much of them (1/4) even said how they are repulsed by overweight guys. And if someone is overweight is by far the biggest objective variable for attractiveness that works in similar ways for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:08 PM
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Nice read here the points are actually very realistic but let's look at them more differently. ​ It's not that clear cut. Firstly a chance of 44% is huge fompared to 29%. Secondly it's safe to assume that the more attractive ones of both genders are distributing the majority of successful approaches between them with a more steep increase on the mens side. PPD and TRP are overblowing things to disgusting degress but 15% in reality is huge. "Hear back" is hardly anything to be taking into account…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:46 PM
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Being able to compete is hardly an advantage in this time. Competetion by definition only allowing very few individuals to be successful and thats usually the already very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 07:59 PM
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You are right but there are still more than enough women who don't see it that way and justify every privilege they have by exactly this "inherent value".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:05 PM
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I would recommend to not only give a fuck about these but instead of working in these to sabotage it from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:00 PM
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Without reading your text and just the title i say that no they don't. This is just a rationalization to defend the privilege. If we go objective then i say that women even have negative intrinsic value because the world is overpopulated anyway and marching all the way into their demise. And if the point of men discrimination hits an critical mass the wide scale violance will increase and the shackles of society and upbringing which is the only thing that hold men back in any form will break and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 12:56 PM
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oh how true this childish "i just copy your post and switch the gender" bullshit is tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:34 AM
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It's both usually and men want both because sex also shows the men that he is not an alien freak but can be desired. The hyperfocusing on sex leading to less sex is also something i observed. Companionship was usually the seed which sometimes bloom into sexual relationships. If you focus on the flower without the seed then the flower will die out quickly in it's can of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:14 AM
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If the guys really knew she has a bf and really wanted to push her to cheating then there is no excuse for this and lamenting about cheating women is hypocrisi and disgusting. Most of the time though you assume this is a lie and push forward and only when she adamantly refuses you move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:07 AM
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It's about human decency and being an adult. Expecting something where you willingly don't want to follow yourself even it's universal is just entitlement, being a spoiled children and being used to get everything in life on a silver platter period which is part of every aspect of life, not just dating no room for discussion. Getting away with it doesn't matter it's still telling what kind of human this person is. People with this attitude don't deserve to get anything they want and in womens ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:05 AM
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You will be astonished by the amount women were down to talk or to exchange numbers even after this line fell. It's all about maximizing your chances and playing the numbers game you can't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:58 PM
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It's good when women would hold themselves to a similar standard but most don't so it's bad. Don't throw a stone when you are sitting in a house of glass if you are talking about loser men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:18 PM
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Munich octoberfest. An older lady in dirndl grabed my friend at his dick and said "it looks bigger than it really is". Security said that the atmosphere were so casual and he shouldn't mind but somehow i whitnessed two guys got in serious trouble just because i girl accused them to stalk her and stare at her tits (dirndls showing a nice cleavage).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:10 PM
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Still more effort overall then female profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 01:00 PM
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You are missing one crucial point. Not only women are attracted to their equal, in increasing numbers they percieve themselves as more attractive as they are even under all the layers of insecurities which leads to that they aren't even really attracted to slightly more attractive men than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:24 AM
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Just lead her on if your urge is so big why care, if your life situation is unstable then you won't see her. If it's not that big then don't waste time chasing pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 07:28 PM
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Yeah at some point, even if the girl tries to test him, guys should just stop and keep some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:02 PM
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"Men don't understand how hard we have it also and so they won't understand their hardships." > "Men are expected to compete and it's natural that most of them are losers who don't worth the risk having sex and relationships with."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:53 PM
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In my experience this is sort of kind of being pushy because the "I have a boyfriend/relationship etc." line is a straight up lie half the time. Then take the experience where girls saying that they won't date guys who are giving up so fast and then you can explain this behaviour at least for some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:40 PM
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My GF is around as strong as me, maybe slightly weaker which in relation is stronger than me i'm 188 and she is 183 at least i'm taller but i and her don't really care that much since i'm still strong enough to "whoop the floor" with her when we fuck so no consequenzes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:15 PM
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NOOO IT DON'T WORK THAT WAY! NO (socially acceptable and biased) STUDIES AUTOMATICALLY MEANS THATS NO TRUE!!.... *irony mode end*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:06 PM
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Most of these attempts are just an cry for help or seeking attention. If someone really really wants to die, he or she dies period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:55 PM
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While his comparisons are prevalent in day to days life, media and general perception of society your's is mostly prevalent in the manosphere and on a individual level at most. Extra note that athletic women are on rise as the prefered bodytype unless you talk about the roided up gals with biceps thicker than my legs, 99,99% of time men are not praised for cheating don't know where you have this from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:53 PM
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People who use incel as an insult are out of arguements and rationalization reasons and try to change the flow to avoid being hit with that bad feeling that comes when you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:32 PM
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Just an act or personality disorder for the most part. On the outside they look like they are highly insecure about their looks and completely shy but deep down they know they are good looking and act on this without hesitation either conciously or subconciously doesn't change the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:30 PM
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I really don't care about N-Count unless it's like 50+ or so. But i get headaches when women are loathing themselves in the double standards which are benefitting them and still complain about every single trivial shit e.g. expecting standards from men they themselves don't want to meet because "they are above that" or when a women speaks bad about the look of their partner or any guy in their social circle "Nahhh your abs could be seen better" but when the guy mentions the little bulge on her b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:27 PM
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Laid back personality who can't keep her hands off me literarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:05 PM
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This kardashian type is attainable in the gym with building muscles in the areas you want curves in aside from boobs but there are enough guys who don't mind that or like that. Just build the muscles according to your bodytype and bone structure you may need put more muscles in other areas to make the appearance wider. Men are also very very lenient if the women doesn't meet all criterias for his prefered body type. I never seen a guy belittle a women when she doesn't meet his preferences but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 12:42 PM
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lookwise it isn't the peak for men. It's the peak for men taking everything like career, resourced and life experience into account where these are in perfect balance together with looks. This peaks takes also the position in the smv/rmv in relation to the women into account because women closing 30 are losing their smv power because younger girls are following them into the market and potentially competing for men at 30. Men peak SMV is mostly relative for normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 01:51 AM
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I would be a fitness influencer since i'm sure that i'm more fit than many female fitness influencer. Other than that i would pursue the same careerpath in HR but as a women i would probably be already 2 years in because i wouldn't waste time with job interviews etc. And i would definetely try DP and let me tie up on a sybian just because i want to know the feeling of being stuffed full and get your brain fucked out with multiple orgasms :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 12:06 AM
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I learned that my dream body type is girls close to bikiniclass bodybuilding but offseason which means they have some fat on them but not enough to make the belly bulge. Perfect :3 And whatever other type i just don't like both extremes and the more to the middle the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:20 PM
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There are more kinds of bullies. Some are outcast in bad social positions and just want to feel superior and others can be some popular dude usually good at some sports. Mine was the latter but i've found my way to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:05 PM
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All the stories they telling you after the ltr inevitable ended. Fun Fact: There are only half as much assholes on the world than stories told. Because from the PoV of the women almost every ex is an asshole despite being a lovely partner that just wasn't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:58 PM
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It's all one line from subtle privilege to extreme visible ones. Onlyfans is one of the highest forms possible the privilege takes form. But there are also other not that extreme forms women get from all the simps and old remnants of chivarly which can also be very subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:07 PM
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You know jack the ripper? Now imagine thousands of them but the original jack the ripper will look like childs play compared to every single one of the new ones. Until this is reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:46 AM
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One HUGE part is that boys are generally from a different learning type. While girls learn better from listening and writing, boys learning more from doing and trial and error. The school system also caters to girls strength. Combine it with behavioral bias that also affects the perception of how teachers reading the tests and you have a recept for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:41 AM
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Take away her wealth and throw her into construction with an average wage, reject her ten job oppurtunities because similar or even less qualified people of the other gender got chosen due to quotas. Then after that she can write this song once again and then it will be different i promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:37 AM
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This statement is both a strawman and excuse arguement. In reality taking care of himself regarding women means that you are allowed to be on the finish line and with enough (more than the Mt. Everest high) effort you have maybe a chance. Womens attraction comes rarely from themselves, it's mostly overwritten by outside factors from society and their own percieved worth and how society percieves and praises men. Needless to say that all outside factors are blushing their self percieved value to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:00 AM
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Well just show them sex education at the school and discuss after every episode. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:00 PM
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i know 6 people who tried it and it worked for one of them, the only one who was attractive by default but hygiene kind of held him back. The rest is condifent and stuff but don't get to play really they did at least left the "hopeless" territory but got nothing worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:45 PM
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Legalizing sex work would be the first move but then without room for discussion other moves must follow. Being a normal job, there also must be safety nets and conditions like for a normal job adapted to sex work. Remove as much illigel sex work as possible and prevent girls or men to be forced into it. To reach this we really need Liam neeson who just executes this subgroup of trash people without asking, they've made their decision with making this running. There are indeed women around who j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:51 PM
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In my environment it means the whole package. House/Flat, stable job with designated location and Wife/Family. Lost hope for the family part long time ago that's why the former part is ingrained in me even though the family part is now within grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:41 PM
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pls take into account that men are heavily underreporting any kind of violance and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:33 PM
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For me it means i've found a stable job where i don't have to move away and can finally start to built my life around that without reseting this every two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:19 PM
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What about hmm getting a table tennis coaching licence and coach groups of kids and adults 4 times a week? Kudos for no money sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:56 PM
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Your second paragraph answered my interest. Your "at least half time job" indicated it has to be something of the boring things since doing hobbies as your job isn't something one can do at a half time basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:49 PM
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So. What about a streamer/youtuber that gets around 2k/month (not that he need that) with a steady growing community? Or is it also time waste for you and your attraction demands some sort of corporate slaving just for the sake of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:34 PM
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My gf has a huge bug for tall russians with softer faces. She doesn't like long hair though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:30 PM
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There are fields where average talent is enough to make above average money. As a hiring manage myself i see this e.g in IT where average skills are enough to maintain and administrate systems for the average company who still paying pretty decent. I think she meant something along these lines. In the end it's better to make something you like. My math skills for example were pretty damn good back in the day and i could go STEM easily and study there but i hate math from the bottom of my heart a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 08:28 PM
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It's already generally accepted that due men thirst men would fuck anything, getting aroused at anything, whiteknighting, giving women attention en masse and the amount of fatties getting athletic men as partners is huge. I don't know in which bubble you live or how high your selective perception is but no, men standards are to low in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 06:06 PM
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Men sacrficing already a huge chunk of selfworth, time and ego in the dating process with over 90% of them not even ending in relationships or even kisses. Over time this leads usually to sacrificing desire of compromising huge and settling just to get at least something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 09:11 PM
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Although the first one is closer to what i actually want i prefer the second one when i'm forced to chose one of the two withouth changing details.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:29 PM
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Not anymore. They can and it's not impossible by any means but all equal things settled women will get believed slightly more if things get official. Only men of power have the means to keep a women silent while being himself a huge big asshole to her (or in general really too many of them are human trash) but this is just as said reserved to men in positions of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 06:08 PM
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Yes absolutely i agree! Like average to fat women as models i want also see average men as models not this genetic freaks pumped with steroids that only plastic surgery in 100 years make it obtainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:54 PM
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With asexual i mean you can act whatever you want the chance of her to acuse you of something sexual is NEVER zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:31 PM
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Even if you act asexual towards them there is nothing you can directly do to stop them from telling that you made sexual advances or sexually assaulted them. If that's happen it's over for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:15 PM
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Finally someone admitting of loathing in their insane privilege in this kind of things. The scary thing is how natural and with such a casualness this comes out from many women here. Of course if the point salvation is so long passed no one sees it as an advantage anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:59 PM
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Yeah pretty sad what never experiencing any touch or closeness and getting denied every romantic feeling the entire life can do. At least the rejections and humilations are for free. But hey she would get away by killing someone because maybe this or maybe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:50 PM
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Did she ever tried to apply a lifestlye where she has no weight issues? Did she ever tried to be a girl he was attracted to? Or is she actually one of the 1% of the people with weight issues that actually are not at fault themselves? I think he wasn't out of reach for her and there would be a legitimate chance if she really tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:51 PM
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I think this is happening more than before but only on a really small scale that it's not visible and i doubt that will happen anytime soon to a dramatic extent if ever. But if by some miracle the amount of men opting out critical mass than i hope it will hit society so hard as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:24 PM
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No. There are so much neurotical women out there. For example when a guy is approaching her or is to shy but somewhat wants to be near her then her hamster will go nuts and creates a scenario where the guy is stalking her or plans to do some evil things to her or anything among those lines and she will shoot him down. AND she will get away with it but saying it was out of selfdefence or he wanted to assault her. Cases like this would happen way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:41 PM
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That's the best women. At least really obvious signals transported in a charming way that's the stuff. If you cold approach any women she will immediately think less of you which requires to much effort and game to get recover it. And the chance that she will use you as a meal ticket or orbiter in the dating phase is just to high. Most men will take the initiave anyway once they feel secure and then it's a good dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:23 PM
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I would say evolution will slow down but not decline. There will always be some "freaks" with obsessions and passions for many things to invent new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:05 AM
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Even though i don't like twilight the priming where the werewolves get consumed by a other person and then are together for the rest of their lifes is something i idealize a little bit :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:02 AM
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Also don't understand this i'm a man. First relationship her N-Count was 1. Dealt with so many baseless insecurities and mood swings and whatever. Now i get massages out of nowhwhere just because she feels like it and is really secure in herself without getting delusioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:56 AM
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Nothing to add here so is my experience and i also believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:14 AM
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This is really interesting from the raw talent pov. Since i myself don't disagree here that women are capable of having the raw talent it's just that i'm one of the believers that there are more smart men out there while there also more dumb men out there. But this is once again in STEM and where the bias because when a certian field is dominated by one specific demographic or in this case gender there is always a bias against something that deviate. I also think we are more alike than different…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:13 AM
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the devil lies in the details. And how the general folks is viewing them. girlfriend openly and nonchalanty critizises something about the appearance of her boyfriend. This is totally ok and he should be man enough to net let this get to him. If the boyfriend somehow critizes in any way there is an uproar from her and why he is doing this and she is so hurt. She didn't orgasm? Then he is just a selfish idiot and that bad in bed. Nothing else. He had problems to orgasm? Then he is either a porn a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 11:13 PM
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Can't find the first study. The second however speaks directly about natural and physical science which is male dominated. Just like the third study is about a position in a science laboratory which is from mine experience also heavy male dominant (also because of the sheer amount discrepancy in the applications itself). It's not that surprising that in these male dominated areas a bias is in there which feeds directly into the experimental setup. This should be done in more balanced and general…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:44 PM
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Since in both classes we were 8 to 40/43 women and in the bachelor class it was only one other men who was the best overall because he was just that good all the others had below average grade and were on the end of the grade tail. I don't ignore anyone. At least at the end of the presentations i could clearly hear how the professors come to their conclusions which made me cringe most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:05 PM
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Since the advantages on societal level are more or less said i have my own experiences especially during study and entering the workforce. Studying bachelor my grades ranked from 1.0 - 1.7 with a occasional 2.0 (A - B+ and B in america). I worked and learned with many girls since they were asking me to explain them and learn with me for the exams. God damn they were so (excuse me) dumb and couldn't understand simple connections i helped them because it was also a kind of learning for me which sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:40 PM
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TRP don't like when it happens when the man was already well off to begin with. And the case with bezos is that regardless what she did to support him it wasn't worth millions or what ever near the case. Divorce law should change from 50/50 to a fixed amount after the splitted assets reaching 100k or what ever depending on how long the marriage lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:27 PM
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Entire societies united to push women forward and even bathed in public admiration for every single subject girls started to perform better then boys. Even when girls were better at every single subject apart from math in every public media canal was discussed how to make girls better in math like being pushed at expense of boys in every other subject wasn't enough they want boys completely dump into the dirt. With all those women only initatives these days it's hardly against all odds. Even the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 12:58 AM
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Her playful gesture and bodylanguage plus the fact that she loves to do laundry for both of us because this gives her inspiration for outfits we both should buy in the near future. Other than that the best things about her non physical aspects are usually male stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:42 PM
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When they dress like it they want it period. They want to feel sexy and want this external validation that they are desired. No one forces someone to wear the tightest leggings in the gym, no one forces you to just wear a sports bra. You can always wear normal shorts over the leggings like men and a normal top over the sportsbra and what ever. Even more so in public where it has no single practical use to wear revealing outfit. Source? My GF she always wears really tight outfits in the gym and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:30 PM
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When she uses me as a pillow even better when she is sleeping and crawling her way up to lie on my chest while still sleeping. She in tune loves when i kiss her on her head while hugging because as a tall women it's like a cherry on top for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:43 AM
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For women who reall participate in it, it can lead to a superioty complex and everything following it like thinking that "they are the shit". I only speak from below average and average women. Attractive women were always put on a pedestal and that didn't change. These girls act like they are annoyed by it, but I can tell they secretly like it. Many of them are addicted to tinder not because they’re fucking every match but because it’s an ego boost... Absolutely true. They call it unwanted atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:31 AM
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The general expectation (from women and society) for men to appraoch and make any first and risky movement towards women in combination that exactly this is used to blame men back in forms of men thirst, men have low standards and inflating the percieved value even from unnattractive women which feeds towards the loss of attraction for men in her league. So a death spiral so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:02 AM
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It's overexagerated but the direction of my question is the same. It's all about passing shit tests and what ever by sugarcoating but with no hope to get a compareable treatment? The answer would be clearly "Yes they do, so don't buy them and get these instead because they point out your body better." But why it seems that women can point out anything about her man but a man has to navigate through Minesweeper lv 1000 to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:55 AM
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So you are saying that she can betitle the men, give criticism in form of insults and what ever while it's ok because a man should handle this everytime but on the same time an objective, truthful, neutral statement let's a woman throw tantrums and acting rebellious childish and we should even encourage it by sugarcoating everything we say? What about doing something easier and walk naked and without water through the sahara?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:11 AM
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thats for sure :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:54 PM
1

Also my take to N-Count. I think i can tell if someone enjoys having sex with me and if can't get 10 minutes without having her hand on my ass then i can be fairly relaxed about my "ranking" within her lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:49 PM
2

At that point just let them use you and enjoy the ride into orgasm heaven :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:18 AM
7

Happy for you bro. I actually know her number from her because she asked mine and i asked back lol. I appeared that she had a little crush on me since 3 years and thought mine was easy in the 20+ categorie but i never stayed long in my hometown due studies and internships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:11 AM
2

To bad i couldn't participate damn!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:03 AM
1

Never cared about N-Count in itself. Don't understand the neurotic aversion from red pill. If she gives me her best and even more then there is no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 01:02 AM
24

Me at 5 and her at 17. A little bit insecure at the beginning but she craves my body so much that i deem that feeling baseless and just enjoy it and she wants to try slightly more kinkysex with me. However i don't know what she did with her past lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:22 PM
3

"HoW DaRE YoU tO IMPoSe YOur UNrEaListIc StaNdArdS oNTo WOmEN" (thats actually funny lol). Jokes aside you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:20 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:08 PM
-1

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/279801863_Sind_Jungen_die_neuen_Bildungsverlierer_Empirische_Evidenz_fur_Geschlechterdisparitaten_zuungunsten_von_Jungen_und_Erkarungsansatze_Are_Boys_Left_Behind_at_School_Reviewing_and_Explaining_Education-Re Not directly linked into math but overall school and learning between the genders and how school overall is catering to girl personalities giving extra points for "behaviour" and "willingness".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:42 AM
1

Can only speak for germany but apart from the absolute upper echelon of DAX companies their numbers are rising and rising. The early leadership promotionprogramms are openly said "if there are to many applicants then women will be prefered".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:30 AM
0

We are already here. Everytime when girls where worse in a subject than boys everybody on goverment level thought about ways to make them better then boys and this created a bias for better grades for girls apart from math/physics etc. because these subjects actually require real answers instead of dull talk and interpretations where you can give any grade for any bullshit. College entrys are also the same apart from the sport stipendia (only because they bring them money, fame and are also perm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:43 PM
1

Its not even the commitment part. My example meant if the women only has sex in relationships but doesn't want to bind herself to an ltr at the moment. Most of the time it is because she can have sex with more attractive men and thinks she can score him as a ltr instead. But she lies to the guy to because of plausible deniability, not damaging her reputation and maybe to have the poor guy as a backup. Most of the 80% guys indeed want a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:20 PM
1

No. Then she is not his looksmatch anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:52 PM
0

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:42 PM
1

Yes. But this is only bad when she was lying or whatever said before to justify why not "yet". And also only one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:36 PM
4

also depending. When women want a ltr yes. If they don't want one but suddenly getting fucked by "chad" well thats what you see "it just happened" scenario red pilling dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:47 AM
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Guys may try their luck with these women (mabye he hits a niche spot or smth) and also going for girls on their level. But when every guy is messaging his looksmatch AND out of his league then ofc high smv women get almost every guy messaging them while the lower smv only get their looksmatches but not to much higher leading to "attractive women get 2/3 messeges". Not landing out of someones league doesn't bring men to trp or something because most of them knew it was an almost non existent chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:35 AM
0

Isn't it a win when you don't get unwanted attention by not living up to their "standards"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 01:46 AM
3

Not even mentioning that "something different" is heavily dependend on your options in your country/environment/etc. that can also backfire and can give you an "weirdo" label. You should be the best version of yourself but not someone different. And also this doesn't solve the problems of unsustainable effort for minimal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 01:01 AM
3

For example, if they acted a bit more aloof during the early stages or were a little more sexually aggressive, a woman may eventually be more receptive towards them initiating the exclusivity talk because she's more attracted to him. May work for you when the man is your type or generally attractive but can ruin everything with other women on spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:12 PM
3

Constantly working on your "branding" is so exhausting. Unless the girls aren't approaching you for sex (which lol is rare) you have to game and initiate and do every single move and stuff from approaching to get laid all by yourself all the while watching every tone, word or body posture just to avoid that she for whatever reason even she herself doesn't know to get repulsed by you making all the effort zero in an instant. On top you have of course pay attention to every signal from her because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:06 PM
1

many people are as much an asshole as the surroundings are letting you getting away being an asshole. Quite a few people are assholes because they are attractive. It's human psychology when you don't get punished for bad behaviour or even get rewarded for it then the bad behaviour will get repeated and even intensified gradually. They can do it because their attractivness let them. Other people are just assholes because they are and others are percieved as assholes because they are not attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:11 PM
1

the writer of "Self-Made-Man" mentioned also this that joining social circles was so much harder as a man. She guessed that men are viewed as potential threats and are met with default suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:08 PM
1

The alternatives are either that or not getting anything at all and if then only with unsustainable effort for not even a 1/100 of his effort. Rather prefer his trivial problems i wouldn't even notice if we would switch bodies tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 10:15 AM
1

https://healthland.time.com/2011/08/22/men-vs-women-who-gains-more-weight-after-marriage-and-divorce/#:~:text=Both%20marriage%20and%20divorce%20appear,girth%20expanded%20more%20than%20women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:57 AM
2

When both are slim the girl is usually slightly better looking mostly because most girls are even dolling up for grocerie shopping at least a bit. When the guy is more attractive then it's almost every time that the girl is obese or close to it because when it's not that obvious the attractivness of the guy is mostly biased away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:54 PM
1

The only fitting time to judge this objectively is in the morning, naked, before they got to the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:12 PM
5

Yes and sometimes they throw tantrums in every media possible and starting movements with societal backup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 09:47 PM
3

Sorry to burst your bubble. Alphas are useless by themselves they are always dependent on others to reach their goals and are usually more selfish then others. If only alphas reproduce then the betas will slowly die out leaving more alpha gene kids and then they would be busy with their childish power plays than solving problems and the overall willingness to do dirty work (the most important work) will also fall below a critical thereshold. This society will die out in 3-4 generations but the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:01 PM
3

I would reduce the mens sex drive in half and make him reactionary. On top i would remove any bias towards a gender so both genders would treat themselves equally in every aspect of life apart. Dating/commitment changes would follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:16 PM
3

Every fucking time just because i love to hear her moan and the reflex movements of her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:36 PM
3

Most of female insecurity these days is ins womens head or just blowed up of propotions. The times where unhealthy skinny beauty standards are promoted are far gone (thank god). Women are celebrated with a wide variety of bodytypes while from men they are always load up with roids or genetically gifted models. And it is accepted here that man are either attracted to many different body types or their standards are so low they would fuck corpses so the foundation of women's insecurities are prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 04:25 PM
2

An ugly man can obtain money and status and get young hot girls No he can't just do that. By definition not everybody can because of it's competetive nature. The success of one man is built on the corpses of hundrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:58 PM
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The reality of most RP-Men that really had success with woman. Man: "Men when i get my shit together i will fuck two women a week!!" Got this shit together and at the third or fourth woman Man: "Damn she is hot (for him) and so chill and easy going maybe just maybe......."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:28 PM
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You have to understand the standpoint most men are coming from. They come from situations like being virgins up till 30+ age or one kiss and one time sex in 5-10 years. The first and foremost what has to be done is to get more attractive, percieved more attractive and following this, getting some enjoyment of one of the best things from being a human which is sex and intimacy. If you set yourself up for meeting and sexualizing with some women at a regurlar basis then a partner whose company you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:58 PM
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Society doesn't care about them anyway. As long as enough pawns are working the dirty jobs to keep everything running and mantle the road for more women in the prestigious jobs, they don't care. Most women here also don't see "getting their dicks wet" as something important but themselves will run rampant about any trivial shit. Sadly i don't see it become better but worse. The removal of genderquotas or anything genderbiased in education and work force would be fun to watch how this plays out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 09:14 PM
3

Looks for men and for women are different. While every type of woman is showed in the teenager and girly magazines which most of the times can be reached with given effort the guys there usually genetically gifted and full on steroids and on unsustainable levels of bodyfat which is out of reach for the most guys. Growing up with that kind of influence will for sure skew this perception. Men used to help with perfomance (Men are human doings) but men can outperform women all they want (on equal g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:59 PM
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There is so much that can contribute to this. feminized upbringing media drummed from every direction electro smog constant shamining of masculinity no clear vision what is expected from them as a man helicopter parents shitty teachers femininazist teachers focusing on the accustic learn form etc I think the rise in incels is still because women getting pampered from the start getting telled from all sides how wonderful they are and somehow still disadvantaged (HAHAHAHHA). Hearing this shitload …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:28 PM
1

For the last time. I speak from a generall trend point of view and already acknowledge individual tastes. But it's a fact that this guy's level of attractiveness is beyond reach for more than 80% of all men on the few objective standpoints we have to measure this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 06:45 PM
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Individual tastes are there to make it more grey. I just speak in a general sense even though my gf looks like Pakunoda from Hunter x Hunter which i don't care since i'm more into bodies than face. My point is that this guy is clearly handsome but is labelled average while at the same time incels get shamed they are not trying enough. With seeing this discussion about this guy they just get more discouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:48 PM
3

Compare real models on the catwalk and on magazine covers to real atheletes that can support half of their living or more. The reason why male athletes are paid better is simply because their level of skill in basically every physical activity and almost every competive non physical activity is just on an complete other level compared to their female counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:38 PM
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It proves the following. There are plenty threads how women justify for going out of their league by claiming that average women are more attractive then average guys because of things like fashion, make up, taking good pictures. Now we have here one example who doesn't only have full hair, jawline and a symmetrical face but also got every factor he has control over spot on. And still i hear he is 6/10 at most like what? This softens the ground the arguements above are based on. In the end it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:23 PM
1

"Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life." Whole lot of people get what they don't deserve for good or worse for them. So that's untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 11:27 AM
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No. That girl is pretty but still 1-1,15 below that guy. I used landwhale in a general sentence regarding everytime someone claims that incels never tried to be attractive. I spoke only because all women here doing whatever mental gymnastics to say that he is unattractive which is completely insane and nuts but proving many many points..sadly. Regarding the gym it has more benefits than just the gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 11:22 AM
3

Reading the replys here and how the attractiveness of that man is questioned destroys every motivation for incels. Women be like "Ey go 4 times in the gym, get athletic, groom and style good before that you are not allowed to even think about complaining." Incel did everything perfectly: "your reward is this "cute" landwhale here because she is your looksmatch."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 11:37 PM
2

Don't be single just jump from relationship to relationship and take the honeymoonphase. When you notice the visceral attraction is fading at to high rate then go next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 11:23 PM
3

No stats but there is one thread here about sudden repulse syndrome in which the women here say what ever trivial dogshit killed all attraction to their yearlong ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:25 AM
2

I didn't really made it in terms of money. I made it in terms of education however which is plenty enough to live my humble life with an appropiate job and my gf:)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:10 AM
3

Thank you. I mean if someone is at the bottom he doesn't have many chances especially in running a bussiness and making money. But it gets more comfortable to make money once you have a safety net or once you have a standing, reputation or whatever. If you proved yourself than others will usually be more lenient if you fuck up once....aside from FD$ women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 01:46 AM
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Till i started trying everything else was at fault for my failures. Nothing in my life teached me how or said how to be attractive as a man or what matters. It was always either.... you are fine the way your are don't be gay from other boys (when i tried to be more fashioned etc.) getting bullied Woman don't care about appearence 1 and 4 were exclusively women and girls who said this from teacher, peers or older relatives. Getting things like this forced down your throat in your formative years …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 09:45 PM
1

No deep platonic friendships...anymore. All of them always wanted something from me be it helping with the exam, presentation, Job appliance or Interview. I don't mind this, even being the infamous emotional tampon when i think she helps me too in times of need. Ended up throwing them all away because i noticed how everytime i asked for help they were either to busy, terminated and postponed endlessly or cut the conversations short. Not even casual cinema or some activity. The only female friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 12:11 AM
2

Being a ruthless human scum will bring you farther than being the kindest and generous guy. But the thing that brings you the farthest is usually a mix of both with being the ruthless scum as the dominant side. Ok some people will sugarcoat it as "having a backbone". But if you have one who's came far in society because he is an absolute asshole with only his needs in mind and one who came far because he is actually competent and this came naturally or either with the right mix of assertiveness …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:21 PM
1

Problems in dating are mostly distinguished in two linear categories and this is not gender specific by it's core and can be used as a general guideline which of course has also exceptions. real problemsluxury problems who are only relevent when the real problems are met to a acceptable degree There is only one real problem in dating and this is scarcity and never finding anything and being denied your own sexual identity. Luxury problems only occur when the real problem is met or at least menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:15 PM
1

I derive pleasure from purpose...so both?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:49 PM
5

If she is humble and down to earth (very rare sadly).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:48 PM
1

Didn't had action till 25. Now i'm 29 and my ltr is 26 which is the oldest from my small sample size and actually the hottest (for me). Younger folks tend to be less chill in my experience although i don't deny the existence of jaded older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:17 PM
2

Generally speaking women live in their bubble, spoiled, sheltered, encouraged. They assume the same for men and have an inflated high sense of themselves. On top of that they really think their appearance with make up is their real "SMV" and acting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:39 PM
2

To me they are privileged women who care only about their privileged world and every day are ignoring the issues and concerns of the vast majority of American women who don't share their race or class privilege. So they are doing basically exactly that in these positions what they criticise men are doing in these positions? Refreshing that someone understands that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:36 PM
1

Going into any Dating App or even serious Online Dating sites. 1/3 of all Women profiles have this... be faster in the bathroom than i'am So better do all this sneaky like a ninja for the rest of your life. And as far as i remember there are far more guys doing fitness and sports in general. Funny how that's never is taken into account. And the gap widens when you take into account that there are more inactive female Members in Gyms than men. ​ Most women spend a lot of money on their looks, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:22 PM
1

Won't answer the question for girls because it's mostly their own fault. For men however taking into account the astronomical standards, circumstances in society regarding men and even the biases against them in the schools and early career phase age isn't a indicator at all to determine if something is wrong. Some man may just have self discipline instead of settling for the PPD-definition of their "league".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:08 PM
0

From a pure statistical point of view the number may be significant but still pales in comparison to the (Ultra?) signifcant number of single men. The only need to see here is that 59% were single and it's the biggest number by far because single is single. The 41% of not single men is also missleading and not specific since unlike with the 59% there are legit supgroups to be created. Some of them may had one GF, some other 2 or 3. And even others could have had a "girlfriend" every week. It's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:23 PM
1

These arguement is brought up in the context of male privilege from feminists. 98% of men don't care if these 2% (in reality even less but 2% is just an example) are men or women or whatever. The privilege these few individuals enjoy is not qualified called to be male privilege because the number is just that insignificant. We can circle around endlessly in the end the privilege of some extremely few individuals doesn't apply to the main gender. It's just a made up tool and an extremely onesided…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:10 PM
3

If we are talking in the context of eugenic genocide of a subgroup of men then they should be very careful how they handle these men because the only thing protecting them is the law. They want "inferior" genes to die out but ignoring the fact they are themselves are a huge pile of shit and garbage genes formed into a form resembling the female version of a human and also should be cleansed from the world if the former genes aren't worthy in their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:43 PM
1

Even the second way is while sounds rational on the surface still ignoring other aspects. Both of them ignoring the fact that while most CEOs and Top earners are men that these men are only 2% of all men and almost all these men are not there because they are competent in a worthcreating skill but because they are just ruthless ***** or/and they keep this positions usually hidden and away from normal folks to make it hard to work your way into this. The influencal aspect isn't really genderbased…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:33 PM
2

I was into very thin woman at first (thank you heidi klum) but i noticed over time that i get really horny when the woman is athletic with a curvy ass even though mentally i denied this at first but now thats what i was searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:01 PM
1

So your arguement is porn is making men not approaching women anymore? Why it's your concern? Less "unwanted" attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:55 PM
2

Many young people see all the entrepeneurs with their 100k income and the tipps how to make money and then get a illusion that this is the standard. To break the reality this is not a standard NOT EVEN close in the slightiest way. For every high earning person there comes thousands other that also tried but failed, many of them even more competent and ambitious but just unlucky. Can your guy afford his bills right now? So why you are concerned that he can't anymore when you both get together? Un…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:08 PM
5

Look at every mainstream media. Woman divorces > she is finally free Man divorces > she is leaving his wife and childs behind Woman fights in the court for money/Custody > she is brave and stands up to what she deserves Man fights for anything in the court against a woman > He is so cruel and can't let her live in peace The degree is varying but pussy pass envelops almost every aspect of modern life and people are as bad as they get away with it which women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:49 PM
1

Well knowing many of the reasons and how even the slightiest shit can be amplified in the womans head to such a magnitude that she really starts to suffer over trivial shit. Doesn't take away the real reasons though like alcohol or DV and yet still many reasons are created out of thin air and then lingering, adding up over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:53 PM
9

With "suitable" men? Yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:47 PM
3

Reading stories like this let's me ask how can braindead scum even become a judge or pass any exams for that. Apparantly it's not that difficult to reach that position. The only thing i can imagine is really to punish this kind of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 07:50 PM
2

I now understand your first part lol. Maybe my brain lacked blood or what ever. So that being said till now i never didn't want to. I only need sex maybe 3-4 week but i can easy go every day just because sex is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 06:10 PM
1

I don't know. Most likely the honeymoon. But she said there was a crush for a pretty long time since we were seeing regular in the gym. And even if she has her way with me for the time being i enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:11 PM
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Are you now complaining about simple and at best little unfortunate wording and now acuse me of deploying some menacing masterplan in this discussion? THIS is beyond absurd and you need to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:59 PM
1

I would call it "Simple mindset to avoid overthinking". It may be little bit paranoid but it's worlds closer to reality if we would reverse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:07 PM
1

Its not evidence. There is no real evidence to proof this scenario but this is the closest to it i remembered on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:05 PM
4

Do you have any idea how not living up to beauty standards can affect women. It effects your social life, how people treat you, it is literally the difference between being targeted by bullies or not. Sounds like the average mans life but with no shortcut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:47 PM
5

There was already an experiment with bear grylls letting a group of men and women survive on an island. The women utterly failed and would've starved without the men giving them food. It was done twice with your avarage sample of both genders, where the men were running circles around the woman. Only in the third experiment they chose "weak" and emotional men while they gave the women a trained survival veteran. This was the only time the women came up on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:35 PM
1

I'm 29 and still get asked for my age when i want to watch a horrormovie. Beats me if thats good or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:29 PM
2

Only for sex? Everything aside from illegal things or things that could seriously harm the girl i would do everything if i really wanted only casual sex. I would lie about income, create stories for the conversation, create imaginary exes, pretend that stories from others are my own, method acting as if i'm a really confident dude (game changer!). If I some day would lose hope in marriage/ltrs i would straight up lie about my intentions and so on. Or i would enter a relationship just to end it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:23 PM
1

Every face and genderbent app made the woman version of me rly hot so yeah of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:47 PM
1

no hormones and no roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:30 PM
1

I often accomodate to look at it from an absolute standpoint instead of an relative standbpoint. E.g if you get aroused from imagining to have sex with that specific person than this is person is attractive to you and no comparison or relative mental gymnastic should play a factor in this attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:38 PM
5

The most likely Scenario. Spicy: Dear i rly think it would benefit you if you lose some weig....." Her: HOW DARE YOU TO CALL ME FAT!!! STOP THE PSYCHOLIGCAL ABUSE, YOU HAVE TO LOVE ME HOW I AM! Source: My first GF who lost fat in the end anyway and dumbed me for her old crush. Additionally told every friend in her circle how abusive i was :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:29 PM
2

ok then i'm chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:02 PM
2

If N-count of 5 and losing the V-Card at age 25 is chad for you i take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:49 PM
1

She is as fit as i am. Maybe even little bit more muscular relatively speaking since she did bikini-class bodybuilding or at least tried it to make it on stage. Her n-count and her face might let people think i settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 06:41 PM
1

Most guys here would say i settled but i don't care lol. She is a fitness addict like me and initiates sex more than me even though i want every day but she ist just faster with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:49 PM
2

While i agree that it's mostly subjective and down to individual preferences and usually i don't deny that women are on average more attractive even though that advantage becomes very very slim if you remove make up and shape wear. But no one can deny that thanks to fat acceptance many fat and chubby girls are wanting/demanding a slim guy or even athletic guy than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:01 PM
4

ignore uglier women it's generally accepted here that men are attracted to a wide variety of women and types and also more generous in rating the attractiveness. Ignoring uglier woman most of the time means that she is completely below his league since men tend also to like a woman slightly below their smv. Of course there are exceptions. Men will shoot wide in appraoching.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:33 PM
1

Don't know what you look like in your face but are you doing your best to be as attractive in the factors you can control? Like real heavy lifting will give you curves and nice shape regardless how your face looks. Unless you have a some physical condition preventing from fitness but i see many woman with ugly faces (e.g. HUGE nose and big forehead) but stunning bodies and no one is saying anything bad about them rather being envious about their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:57 PM
1

I would be a fitness influencer as side job/hobby. If it's getting big enough to make a living of that i would do that. Bikini Class bodybuilding would also align with that. Wouldn't also harm my career in Human resources since that field is biased against guys like nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:07 PM
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Most women don't know the true terror of dating and social life. They usually brought up in her heavenly bubble never really experienced real hurdles and of course they gonna complain when something isn't going their way regardless of how good or how much is actually going their way by default. It's according to the definition of maslows needshirarchy. You can saturate the basic needs and then you want to meet your "luxury needs" but you can't never saturate them because if you meet them they ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:51 PM
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He is not an Asshole at an objective scale. However for many many women this is being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:30 PM
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yeah stuggling in terms she has to ride an Audi instead of Porsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:32 AM
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Nothing helped in the end. Depps career is over, his life is over and she will live her holywood life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:54 PM
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Did and still do all of that. Was maxed out by 24 and lost my V-Card almost a year later definitely vastly below my league. And still i had to put up unsustainable effort in dating to get anywhere. You can say if Chads dating life is 100 then my dating life went from 0 to 5. It helped me with my now girlfriend so yeah i got the cake after 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:39 PM
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The actual process from law by creating precedence isn't the reason why i'm upset here and my wording don't change what happens here in reddit. All in all it's still depp against heard because the claim from the Sun has it's foundation on what happened between the two with heard taking part in the process. You are free to say it's against the sun while it is and i will still think that it's against heard in the core because this also is true and in the end only wording in these comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:16 PM
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Thats a detail which don't really matter. In the end heard was there, heard defended herself and the sun in tune. The claim was directly linked to what happened between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 08:03 PM
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The Case was because the Sun called him Wife beater so it's directly linked with DV nonetheless. It's not that he isn't innocent. Despite my huge doubts, i have to go with what the judge decided for now at least. For a matter of fact a feminist claims it to be a victory for DV victims (well yes if the victims are women), because apparantly depp tried to silence her and so on. It's good to see someone looking at this more nuanced. It's just that the fact that she is proven to be a notorious viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:54 PM
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JuST a ProVE that alMoSt OnlY MeN CoMmIt DV. Yes he is now part of statistic and she gets away scott free and won't be part of it. And then i wait for these dumb creatures to citate the next DV statistic how bad men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 04:58 PM
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Yes. Just the already slim chance to find a looksmatch for the average guy is even slimmer and skewing the smv even more. Then you will come with your arguement "You looksmatch is that what you can find". Really practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:35 PM
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Yeah Pussy Pass is a thing. In any gender reverse thought experiment almost every woman would be a hard loser not able to attract any woman by todays standards. For them it would be 99/1 instead of 80/20 with even more into the absolute lower end of the spectrum. But because of pussy almost everything of importance in life easens considerably not perfect by any means but generally a lot easier if we compare this soley to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:23 AM
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No need for going out of the way. Usually they are the ones coming in they way in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:18 AM
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Back then you would be right 100% not even debattable. But nowadays it's more complicated. Since many fat landwhales are so full of themselves akin to arrogance and demand, not only prefer, but DEMAND an athletic, attractive partner. This is a direct cause of fat acceptance and that just happened to be mostly women. Fat acceptance > blowing (mostly womens) egos up > demanding the best partner > problems for men because there are less incentives for women to be healthy weight. It's even more comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:16 AM
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Johnny Depp lost his case against Heard. While he got punished rightfully since he was indeed "abusive" Heard got away scott free from this despite being abusive herself to the same extend with an abusive background beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:56 PM
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Till the "social" media it was "Looks don't matter" when in reality it was "Looks aren't the most important". Now it's "Looks aren't the most important" and the reality is "Looks are the most important". The other requirements for men didn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:29 PM
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From the feeling this sub is mostly american. I'm also very surprised how much folks here with 27 years old or younger earning either 100k with or have a successful business going with even more money in (where do they get the time to post here lol?). In germany even with almost a decade of job experience and proven successful jobs you won't even hit 70k most of the time. If anything you will be showed the middle finger and be laughed at for bringing up such an ridicioulus salary claim. Only 2,8…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:49 PM
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The increasing number fatties and landwhales demanding fitter and better looking guys than they are themselves is asking for a more nuanced answer from your side even though your groundwork of logic is correct in this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 01:03 AM
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She knew she cheated, combined with the timing of birth there is a HUGE possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 12:50 AM
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There is no problem if the father is willingly doing this and universally speaking this is fine. But this is an individual case and an intense one of that. He was clearly fucked from the beginning. First she (gf) let him build a bond and then wants to use this bond to get away with her huge shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:58 PM
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Being cornered by someones own logic leads to the inevitable "lets ignore this and pretent thats not here". I see often really good thoughtful comments from men who are just ignored cause they just can't be debunked or argued against.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:51 PM
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Thats one of their escape arguements they like to throw around even though there are clearly many incels who are decent guys and not objectively ugly or bad looking and also got their shit together. They ignore these cases religiously or say they have a bad personality and what ever they interpret into that to bend it into their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:41 PM
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So freshly from my honeymoonphase i can say she is more into me than i'm into her even though i find her body really really stunning. This is better since I can trust myself to not abuse the leverage i have over her and having the peace of mind to do cute things for her and invest my time and resources into the relationship without the fear for being taken for granted allows me really to mentally relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:05 PM
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Ofc this seems silly to you that you never experienced it and even in more celibacy phases almost every woman can have sex or be sexually desired whenever she wants and this safety net, used or not, lights up psychological strain immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 11:43 AM
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They are repulsed by different things and this is only one single aspect. There plenty of men who are objectively good and doing everything. The biggest thing they are repulsed by is a man they think is beneath them compared her own selfpercieved value which is usually higher than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 11:33 AM
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It's not their DNA what makes them repulsed. It's the constant pampering and bein spiled from every way society knows that what makes them repulsed. DNA makes them more picky but to an extend that most of her real equivalents somehow can overcome it with other ways. They are actually repulsed because they seriously thinking that they are actually higher on the smv than they really are. For example the 4-9 narrative to simply explain this dynamic which can of course differ from 4 and 9. It's inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 12:48 AM
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Yes and this way it would become an even bigger pandemic than Covid19 with more deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:49 PM
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Only slightly. Women usually don't adapt to circumstances and environment. They demand that the environment is changing to their likings. So some Women will lose weight or change their standards but you will see a rise in women who will complain in public how men should change their shallow pig like preferences, how the beauty standard is impossible to meet, fat acceptance news and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:52 AM
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If i have to chose one....wanted...it's not even a debatte.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:33 PM
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Sorry that you have to refer to a indirect way but a direct way is alwas a stronger claim and the "backbone of society-jobs" are occupied by men to an overwhelming extend. While technically you are right with your claim i can also use the same logic to say who protected the woman back in the day or who sacrificed his life back in the day (and to a lesser degree today) to save the life of the woman and the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:19 PM
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24 and 25
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:40 PM
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Germany Munich Oktoberfest. A friend of mine got grabbed by the balls from an middleaged lady (around 40). He told it the security and they said he should just chill cause the general atmosphere was so lively and most people already had some bear in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:00 PM
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Well you have your priorities. If i were to be homeless getting connection to the internet would be far far far down in my priority list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:57 PM
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Maybe some guys are just that starved and desperetaly trying to seize any pussy who might be in range? And i don't date women just for sex. Not when i was single and especially not when i'm taken since last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:54 PM
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I didn't refer to the difficulties of some job. Hard labour was indeed far worse due to less safetconcepts. What i'm refering to it was far easier to sustain a decent life with even relatively simple (simple in terms of academic requirement) jobs. And all the process to hire people or to get a job was also more simple. Many boomers who where easily HS dropouts could work themselves up the ladder because of that. These days this happens way less and to a smaller degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:52 PM
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Why so onesided? Men getting shamed for what they are attracted to is the default state from every direction be it society or internet. Men don't have the pussy pass and regardless of what a man will do it is wrong in the end. Your post is just a generic "Men have to do this and this and that and...-post". Funny that you don't even mention something a woman "has to do". Guess nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:50 AM
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I couldn't bare to start a relationship with someone whom i had to work my ass of. This means i just have to work even more and harder in the relationship itself while she has the mindset of "you getting sex is all i have to do" and the chance of weaponizing sex over the most trivial problems are just to high then. This craving challenge narrative is just from "chads" who might enjoy a hard to get girl from time to time at most but wouldn't want it all the time and somehow mixed into the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:52 PM
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Only if he is a virgin and somehow, despite being objectively good, can't find someone than yes this is a rational thought. Sexuality and intimacy is a huge part of being human and pales just barely in comparison to the drive to eat for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:44 PM
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If someone can post here, he don't have real problems of course. I doubt it was better back in the day and in germany there wasn't any better time to at least get some food in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:07 PM
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This economic state right now is obviously the best regarding getting food on the table. That's just it. Other than that while technically a 40h/Week job leaves enough time any employer is doing about 7-10 times more work per hour than 40 years ago easily. That kind compressed mass of work has in fact mental tiredness as symptom. Furthermore the requirements from the companies are also skyrocking. A car? mandatory. Being flexible? ofc. Sorry we can't pay more than 40k/year (while the friend of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:45 PM
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Raise the new generation with the knowledge that men and women are important and capable of much love instead only "women are wonderful". Also ban these hardcore femininazis from the public tv shows, newspapers etc. alltogether. This human trash, that can only interrupting in discussions, are a waste of air, energy and resources for better content these are the ones spreading anti male propaganda and seeding bad seed into the brains of young boys on a subcouncious level. This generation is indoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:30 PM
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And likewise that just makes any arguement pro hypergamy women claim obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 05:18 PM
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THANKS!!! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:48 PM
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As long as ugly woman don't remove themselves also from the pool nothing will change. When only men aren't allowed to reproduce then it doesn't make a big difference cause this is a half hearted measure. Basically making any arguement in sorts of "It's better for humanity when ugly men don't reproduce". This Tik Tok video with that "abomination" and her daughter are proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 08:20 PM
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Success Story here. Right before our second shutdown i was able to secure my second ltr!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:45 PM
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The last time i had to shake my head was when i had to explain something to a 5 years old. Since you severely lack any skills to think wider and only believe something written (only if it's support your worldview) and live within your bubble like you never have used 5 seconds to google search the first article > https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence and even one more with another sample group with the same conclusion https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-47252…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:13 PM
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Using an analogy. With being attractive and success in dating life scaling on a 10 scale with both times 0 is bad and 10 is good. When a man is 0-2 his dating life is 0. After that every point makes his dating life better by 0.5. At 7 on the attractiveness scale his dating life is at 2.5 which isn't good. Only after the magic 7 his dating life gets easier and easier faster than he gets attractive. It's only a example. What can be almost "game winning" for a woman is for a man only the removal of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:47 PM
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It's all about the amount. They saw the few men in CEO positions and demand quotas for that but not for the other jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:37 PM
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After hearing and seeing this myself severals times in my life, with one of these cases being my cousin who almost lost his job and custody because of his ex and could only defend himself in revision. I don't need to back any of this up with a data which is extremely iffy anyways in terms of domnestic violence. Logically speaking i saw and heard about the cases and can assume there far more of these cases in the western world. Especially in america where the extremes are even more prevalent than…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:36 PM
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Only the official counts state that men are ahead. A not so uncommon scenario is that woman is hitting and assaulting a men but only one hit in self defence will be reported as "Men physically abused the woman". In essence, ragardless of much the woman committed physical abuse, the moment the man touches her more firmly he is the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:32 PM
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It was never real equality at least in the workforce. It was equality in the good and prestigious positions only few men had anyway. I'm still looking for garbage women, construction worktresses and so on. However other things ragarding rights to vote, having a bankaccount on their own and the overall possibility of being independent is good and was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:24 PM
1

You mean like close to bodybuilder physique but offseason?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:16 PM
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The chance is massively reduced. A boring swimsuit doesn't produce the reaction to that amount if they are so many bikinis around. You still get objectified by the men which preferences regarding looks is close to your look though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:59 PM
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Ironically this was the exact situation how i met my N-Count Number 5 i'm dating right now. Just in this case it was an extra tight gymshark outfit instead of a bikini. My guess is that many women wearing Bikinis actually like it to be objectivied. Of course they pretend to hate it and will say this but internally they are happy about it. As long as the guys are keeping their hands on themselves i would encourage to look without hesitation but not staring like a dog, guys need class too. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 04:18 PM
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Nothing new. Athletic Girl > Wants an athletic man because she puts in effort. Makes sense right? Nonathletic Girl > Wants also an athletic man because attraction is not negotiable. Also makes makes sense somehow. Athletic Guy > You see all the mental, pseudo, rational gymnastics why the hell he doesn't even deserve an average girl because men also only want stacy like they want chad (in these arguements even 5/10 but relatively athletic girls are suddenly stacies).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:07 PM
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Men are not allowed to relax. They have to do the heavy lifting in everything. Need purpose, enough of a career to be sole breadwinner if needed, starting relationships all alone, having and being good at hobbies, good with finances, keep the wife happy, watch every single word he says because any missunderstanding can cause disasters, has to learn being traditional masculine while being shamed of being traditional masculine (toxic masculinity!!!), being assertive but not controlling, has to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 07:39 PM
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Only to some degree which would be handleble. But due todays society it has increased twenty times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:20 PM
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Realistacally enough brainpower to process that the high standards are a product of being spoiled from society and also raise the new generation with the knowledge that men and women are important and capable of much love instead only "women are wonderful". Also ban these hardcore femininazis from the public tv shows, newspapers etc. alltogether. This human trash, that can only interrupting in discussions, are a waste of air, energy and resources for better content. This generation is indoctrina…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 12:16 PM
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With government support i mean every cashflow direct or indirect. Child support is part of it. Affirmitve actions, quotas, campaigns for more woman in this and this field, special treatment classes in schools because if to much boys getting better grades it has to be an "unfair environment" and so on. While my labor law courses we also visited courts to watch it live. One judge said the arguement "As a man you can always go into a production factory to make money". The man was socially unfair fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:58 PM
4

To put it simply. The subconcious mindset is. "He is a man, he can deal with all alone."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:13 PM
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The thing is. If men are faced with struggle, as a whole they adapt and deal with it because they have to, no one gives a shit about them. Even worse they shame and insult almost every way how to deal with problems (. If women struggle....they demand the situation to bend to their liking and get away with it to some degree (men absolutely not). You see how many girls crying about a bad grade and demand something to change this? Yes you see only women doing that. All the feminist ****** in the TV…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:10 PM
1

6 on face and 3 on body (was 5-6 on body with shapewear cause fat). My only relationship was basically the same but little bit thinner (still overweight).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:07 AM
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Face 4 is minimum. I'm more turned on by good and healthy bodies. I'm looking for a woman who can at least keep up around 70% of my lifestyle and nutrition which gives her an attractive body by default at least for me. Looking for Something longterm with marriage and family in mind. I'm not against casual sex but ain't gona jump through hoops. I have to much self respect to degrade me that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:50 PM
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Companies are usually looking for some ordinary people to make a shooting (discounter for their regional flyer e.g) that was my first touch. After that a photographer was increasing his pool of modells and wanted a fit guy on a tfp (time for pictures) basis. I did this for quite some time. And my roommate is also a weddingphotographer and did some shootings with me. I experienced first hand how even slightly above average girls are so demanded for shootings and how easy they get contracts. If i …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:39 PM
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If i were to be a woman NOW i could easy go fitness influencer route or modeling since i have some experience in it. Also finding a likeminded and suitable man would be easy. I know 10 men already in my region who are also fitness cracks and also eduquated but single despite trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:46 AM
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My thyriod has the size of an 11 years old and is heavy underfunctioning and yet i have 14% bodyfat without any meds so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:28 AM
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Missconception. You don't have to undereat for being healthy weight. It's easy because it's easy and only you and your lazyness alone stands in the way of it you don't even need a perfect nutrition for it. And you seem to missinterpret something. Not having sex isn't the goal here unlike not being fat which is the goal. I don't know why you try to force a comparison here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:39 AM
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If it's hindering you then sorry mate. If it's not hindering you in the dating world then even more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:09 PM
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Because this is something so ridiculously easy to reach and maintain. And digging through all that fat to find the pussy is also gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:07 PM
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The most closest adequate thing for that is height which can't be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:05 PM
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There is no right answer to this question. You want your looksmatch? > "You pathetic Incel/virgin/neckbeard don't deserve a "Stacy" your standards are to high" (Nice to notice that in these arguements even 4's becomes stacies) You have specific preferences in looks? > "You shallow pig, personality, character and are way more important!" And then at the same time according to this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/i42hln/would_you_be_bothered_if_you_found_out_that_your/ yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:46 PM
1

And watch her pressing everything into these clothes again....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:29 AM
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Pfff don't undermine this hardcore field. The same technique can even self destruct with the same woman because you hit the wrong second on her mood curve. Maybe the delivery wasn't for her and she has to wait one more day, maybe one hair just don't want to fall right or for what ever reason her mood swinged 180° for the third time this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:37 PM
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Especially for women it can be a mental thing. Sophia Tiel, the first big female fitness influencer in germany has this problem too, to quote her, "It was all to much for me, thats why i ate. Because it gave me a peace of mind." I agree. Instead of pleasing the landwhales, we need more fitting clothes for fit and muscular people, because despite the right size the measurements are off.....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:46 PM
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exactly. With all the effort hey doing to justify their lazyness they would be lean already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:13 PM
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I have compassion. My guess for most men is, that women are in a better position without doing anything for it. And they are agrueing like the white lords in times of slaverly "God didn't create us equal so we shouldn't be treated equal". I can understand the hate of many men to some degree but still find the extremes of both sides disgusting to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:08 PM
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Only men who can get sex with reasonable effort are the gatekeeper of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:01 PM
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I might disagree even it's only a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:28 PM
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I have an appartment and enough ressources to work out and eat healthy. I'm deeply gratefull for this. As long as someone can post on reddit means not everything in his life is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:26 PM
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We had a brief discussion in the comments. But it's not the main thing. The main thing still is your attitude towards fat positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:53 PM
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Oh fuck i exactly know what you mean from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:45 PM
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Me Guy, you woman on ppd. Differences are inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:40 PM
2

God damn.....barely missed out on the inches. At least i got the curve right!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:36 PM
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Despite our differences i have to approve your attitude. That's the spirit YOU GO GIRL (it actually fits this time xD).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:05 PM
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Yeah i'm a pervert who wants to find his pervert girlfriend to have perverted fun every day ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:02 PM
1

Thank you, my day is little bit brighter now ;) Have a nice day too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:59 PM
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Good men? I hope so. I really enjoyed it beating him into a pulp, that scared the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:53 PM
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Ugly woman are entitled to attractive men nowadays. You see the mental gymnastics of the women here desperetly trying to explain or justify this with arguements full of double standards. Ah yeah fuck of body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:51 PM
2

Thank you. I'm happy that i had never resort to violance since then though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:44 PM
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i broke his dominant leg when he tried to assault me and it never cured completely to endure the pressure of being a pro soccer player.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:01 PM
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All true. Especially the 2nd point has some nice personal experience for me because i stopped my bully to have a successful (Soccer)career. Still got married and lives an average life and put on some fat after being an athlete till his 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:23 PM
1

Ahh ok i understand. "It's biological i don't want to help it". Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:23 PM
2

Artificially blown up hypergamy is hardly natural. And there are more wellfare assistance programms for women than needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:25 PM
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Naturally more men will be left out than it should be the case with all the effects following. So yes some men will be ruined too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:11 PM
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hypergamy to some degree isn't bad per se. But encouraged and artificially inflated hypergamy is ruining more than just the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:36 PM
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Thats the thing. Outside factors are sheltering and spoiling woman so hard that they have an inflated self percieved image of themselves and other women. This created the "Woman are more attractive on average as men" narrative. I cannot say this unbiased cause i'm a guy but when it's true on the core then it doesn't meant to be to this extend as now. And made women almost unable to be attracted to someone who fits her not even talking about make up and all the fake smv inducers. Furthermore many…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:35 PM
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It's only faking at the beginning. After you get some results in, real confidence will grow, maybe not to the degree of your faked confidence but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:19 PM
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Well. The moment she gets attention from percieved better men than you after she lost fat, her hamster starts running on overdrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:35 PM
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My thyroid has the size and function of an 11 years old. So it has a heavy underfunction but i keep me reasonable lean without taking any medics because of nutrition and sufficient muscle mass. Take all people complaining they can't lose weight because of genetics, illness whatever. 99% of them just don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:25 PM
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Can't be real. I still have enough faith in humanities intelligence. If it's indeed meant seriously then i can act more confident in the future because of how much braindead people are running around, just need to be more ruthless in exploiting these.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:33 AM
3

Astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:20 PM
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Only if the lazy fattie wants casual sex. But most women regardless want a ltr. With that in mind a lazy landwhale is not compatible. Sooner or later she will try to drag the guy down into her abysmal level because the last thing she will think of is bringing some effort to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:16 PM
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A looksmatch is something that is matched. A fit athletic guy can NEVER have an landwhale as a looksmatch period thats just not a match anymore per definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:27 PM
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Look my Profile picture. No need to upload it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:16 PM
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Oh my god. She should pay compensation just for showing up in this kind of clothes and being so fat and lazy to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:46 PM
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For society men are either good by default or trash trial and error is to be practiced in secret or they get busted. They don't get words of encouragement that often, traditional school system with just sitting and be quiet is favouring girls while boys need more variety to get their brains wired correctly, there are ZERO quotas in favour of men, zero affirmitive actions for men, aside from math like subjects girls are getting better grades by bias because of "behaviour". Overall women are spoil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:43 AM
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This is the most "NOT FDS" like thread possible lol. The last thing they will do and want to do is something good for men like anything what can be positive for men just in the slightiest is buried under the bottom of the bottom of their priorities. Either it just happened to be or never. Well some of them even change their behaviour and nature if they notice that their default state can benefit men in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:35 AM
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well only if they don't workout and don eat healthy. Woman only enjoying benefits for being woman with the only effort to not get TOO fat will blow up poorly most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:28 AM
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While attraction is subjective humans are (at least they should) capable of ratioal thought which is a beautiful skill, fostered by education and evolution outside of strict nature and biology. In order to bring at least some "order into the chaos" you can determine leagues by some marks to at least get a grip on it. E.G. my own mark: athletic body and in top shape > any girl who isn't athletic is below my league in that regard healthy nutrition > any landwhale or even chubby women are below my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:05 PM
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My guess is S19 E06. Sweetie. The synopsis could fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:41 PM
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Pls don't. Thats only vague memories of mine xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:33 PM
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I just remember cutter was so eager to bring her to jail till McCoy stopped it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:30 PM
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sadly no :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:10 PM
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It was between 2008 and 2010 where Linus Roache was the main prosecutor and McCoy acted more behind. It ended when McCoy said there is no point anymore in trying to prove her guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:24 PM
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yeah it was the original one. But in retrospective it's clearly seen that even the oldest episodes had showed some RP/FDS stereotypes xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:34 PM
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I remember an episode where was a cunt who was more likely to be guilty than not but got away scott free because she cried all the time. The new Lawer wanted to sentence her really hard but then Mcoy intervented and stopped it. Like wtf just because this cunt is crying all commons sense disappearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:04 PM
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In the first year, which was my highest frequency, i can recall myself that i were just bad most of the time. But it was my "breaking out of my shell" year so it didn't really matter. That year alone was like 60-70 dates and no 2nd dates. But i lost my virginity to my first ONS during the Euro 2016 soccercup i approached at the public viewing. Most of the time it was either them who endet this or i endet this because i deemed they are not respecting me. I was picky in a sense if they actually re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 09:58 PM
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I'm the same. Usually set up a date fast after i got her number. We can still chat till the day of the date. By then she knows what I do, how tall i am, the city i live in and from the pictures she knows my hobbies and clothing style on first glance. I know nowadays the women have even more unwarranted fears of men that they have to get to know him before they can get to know him (yes it sounds that dumb). I also have to fight my fear of approaching and rejection everytime and the lingering feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 09:26 PM
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I had roughly 40 Tinder Dates (my only OLD) in the last 4 years. Overall dates were roughly 150 only 3 of them got a 2nd date and none went to a third date. But at least 2 ONS right of the bat but that was real life approaches. Ironically. I found my only FWB and my only Relationship in the same handygame app we all played.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:40 PM
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The younger the more. Back in the day i heard phrases like "Lol i don't know why guys have trouble in dating. My dating life is fine" having only the good looking guys in mind because average and below are mostly invisible. The older they get the more the self centric attidute diminish (slightly but still) and they actually see the "creep" or a shocked about guys they friendzoned when they actually starting to use move overt moves. This applies to both men and women but there vastly less men goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:35 PM
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First things first. It's not the own attractiveness but the perception of someones own attractivement. 4-9 Women aren't just a made up fantasy in this age and time of OLD, overuse of makeup and the "(only) women are wonderful" effect. There are a line which men find attractive but they are more like to deviate from it. Furthermore you see many men who are turned on by some sexy part of a woman (birthmark on the cheeks, ass, curves) making the woman more attractive to him while she as a full pack…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:51 PM
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Then they are some sort hardcore sexists. Sexist alone seems to soft to describe it correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:40 PM
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That would actually be really nice to see. I give them two weeks max. and they will cry how so many hard work under inhuman conditions is left to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 04:07 PM
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FDS has a racist viewpoint towards the male gender in general. They view men as underlings needed to do all the heavy lifting in society while they have inhereted value by default and just any effort is to much effort. In their minds the perfect image is to sit all highly on a throne while two men kissing their feet, two more bringing her the best food and two more are regulating the temperature while on the wide field before her are waiting more men than orcs in all Lord of the rings movies bow…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:27 PM
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Depends on the mood. I usually prefer calm hangouts with some action packed activities from time to time. Prefer the girl who looks like megan fox. I want eternal access to that booty and the chances with megan fox are far more slimmer. If it's only a ONS i do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 11:07 AM
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As a biological urge the sex drive is really low. If we take emotional state into the account than it has the potential to be as high. But this is usually only the case if she is really into him hence above her league. "I never imagined that he can be into me" is a thing after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 10:48 AM
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Regardless of how much they say that most of the attention is unwanted and useless. Subconcsiously they want it to some degree and by shaming "losers who pay escorts" they want him to approach and simp for the girls ensuring his attention and validation. Attention is unwanted unless there is nothing there. I'm sure many many women would have mental breakdowns if all male attention would just disappear and all the favourable treatment with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:49 PM
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Well no. Everytime a woman brings the arguement "attraction is not negotiable" to justify her high standards which half the women don't meet it themselves it's a proof that she listens to her lizzard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:43 PM
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In a historical or evolutionary context and traditionally you would care about paternity and getting cucked or catching a VD that renders your nuts useless (i.e. no kiddos). But in modern society we have medicine and DNA testing so all of that is now wholly irrational. This doesn't matter. Rationally with the overpopulation these days the "inherent Value" of women should also be ignored but society and women themselves are even more dwelling into this shit at the expense of many men. With that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:32 PM
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Only very very few men are desirable for women by default. For the vast majority of the rest it's a uphill battle of hard work in a gynocentric society to increase someone's own value to be even considered as something more than a neutral entity for women. Consciously or subconsciously when men beginning to have success after all that effort they also want something in return. If it means sex with as many women as they want then you get your guys using women for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:30 PM
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they are getting shamed for everything already. At some point this is just an silent echo in the last corner of ones awarness and this will not stop lazy women to seek a shortcut to a comfortable life and this will not stop men to enjoy the fruits of their hard work which was needed to even reach the point of using women for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:47 PM
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Depends on definition. My definition of gold digging is that the woman doesn't have a job or only a low paying job and then wants a rich guy. Real gold diggers don't want ressources for her offspring they want ressources for their own lifestyle first. Children are coming way later usually when she somehow secured her lifestyle just in case the relationship ends. And now a rational answer to your post why to shame this. Any person who don't want to work for a good life style but is demanding it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 12:15 AM
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