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| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?The women who actually live this life don’t have time to use Reddit as often as you do, not sure why you pretend to have this life good to know that I don't exist, and that you, a subject matter expert in my personal life, has come to the conclusion that my lived experiences, that you were *definitely* there to witness, for yourself.... didn't happen. very good to know. I needed to have my own life mansplained to me, and now I understand the error of my ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?OP asked a question and I answered honestly. You are all sitting in here trying to insult me for my lived experiences and I get it. Life's not fair. Dating is very tough for men. Especially the ones who lurk on this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?I have men who I date solely for hookups. I have men I date because they have a vacation home in a state I like, that I get to use for months on end for free. I have men I date only because they're good fathers to my kids. Men I only date because they have a yacht. Men I only date because they pay for everything. I have sugar daddies also who pay for a lot of my lifestyle, and I don't give a fuck about them, either. Just what I want. I don't give a flying fuck. I have hookups. I have boyfr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:52 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?nobody cares, nobody knows. The ONLY people who give a fuck about this, are on this thread, and this subreddit. I. DON'T. CARE. Nobody cares. Literally nobody gives a flying fuck. The only people who give a flying fuck are ON THIS SUBREDDIT and incel forums, vigorously bitching and whining about the men who are getting laid, while trying to keep score of women's body counts, WHILE WOMEN ARE OUT FUCKING. you guys need to get with the program. It's 2022. People are free to do whatever th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?after a certain age, men stop asking because everyone's basically a slut. and as long as I get what I want from these men, IDGAF about them, either. and the second I don't get what I want, I leave them. I really don't care. I just move onto the next one, who I usually have lined up well before I leave anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?oh YES, the pursuit of hedonism is absolutely the definition of sadness. Oh yes. If you look up HEDONISM, the dictionaries will all define it as "sad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:42 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?someone who's had 400 bodies has lots of experience dealing with all types of men. We know how to hide it well. After the 50th body. You figure out quickly that the world is unkind to women who are promiscuous and you figure out how to hide your dirty laundry like a master detective covering up his own murders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:39 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Why would you lie so deeply with men you’re supposed to love? oh please. I don't care. I really don't care. I want what I want, and I want it NOW, and I usually get it without much of a fight. I don't care if I have to play dirty to get it. I'm unapologetically immoral and unethical in my pursuit of hedonism. And I feel zero remorse, guilt, shame. all of the "ethical" "moral" "feelings" of "'shame"" I "should" be feeling aren't there, and I won't waste your time pretending those feelings a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Men fall to the expectations of the worst man you dated so unless he’s proven to be empathetic and can understand personal growth and development then you tell him every man you’ve dated was great and treated you excellently. This is excellent, EXQUISITE, based, experience-based dating advice. 100% take my upvote. It's what I do. Every date knows my ex was a stellar man, I don't tell them the bits and pieces of the nastiness that happened, because then he's going to expect me to let him get aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:48 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Have you ever lied or concealed parts of your sexual past in order to have a man like you more, or make him feel special? If so, why? Did it work out?Do women regularly embellish their perceived sexual past in order to please the men they like? I absolutely lie. I tell them I've been married once, and leave it at that. Why do I lie? Because I don't want to tell men I've been with 400 guys. I don't want to tell men my sexual past or my "business". My STD results are clean, and it's none of their business, to be frank. The men I date usually have a "don't ask/don't tell" attitude towards sexual past. I've gotten very good at filtering out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:41 PM |
| 6 | What do you think would be some underrated dating advice?Underrated dating advice? FIND YOUR AUDIENCE. FIND YOUR AUDIENCE. FIND YOUR AUDIENCE. If you are a thin woman, looking for men to date you, who "prefer" curvy women, you will have a bad time. If you are a curvy woman, looking for men to date you, who "prefer" thin women, you will have a bad time. If you are a young woman, looking for men to date you, who "prefer" older women, you will have a bad time. If you are a woman who's saving it for marriage, looking for men to date you, who "pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering.And if you do have any that you acknowledge exist & sympathize with, what solutions would you propose? I can understand how tough it is for men to get matches online. That must really suck. What solutions? Men need to learn to embrace single life and its benefits. It'll take a lot of growth, introspection, and work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereInteresting. Given that you've been dating for this long.... Would you generally agree that in 2022, that it's easier to meet women you are attracted to on dating apps, than it was in 2021?. Would you generally agree that in 2021, that it was easier to meet women you are attracted to on dating apps, than it was in 2020?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Note that the woman you were talking to could very well play the "younger woman" for a loaded dude in his 60s or 70s. one of the most frustrating aspects of this subreddit is their failure to understand math. If a 35 year old woman is being told by men on here that she's past her prime, that her life is over, and it's all doom and gloom, she can still be that hot young thing to a 45 year old... or a 55 year old.... or a 65 year old. You can ALWAYS be that younger woman, if you date older.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 14 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Bro, don't date them then..get the fuck over it. Nobody cares. Likenliterally nobody And this argument makes no sense. Like red pill men are constantly bitching about how women lose value, and then you go after those women who have lower value because they've had sex or kids or they aged, those dumn bitches, and then when those women reject you you're still pissed. L THANK YOU! ALL of TRP is a problem of people failing to find their audience. If you are an incel who believes women lose all of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.If younger and more desirable women are easier how come you have complained about them as well? if younger women truly were easier. He'd be on PPD complaining about all of the teenagers he's been banging and how easy it all was. If it was so much easier to bang younger women, he wouldn't have approached the older lady to begin with, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.it’s not delusional to have high standards if you’re just as content being alone. Exactly. I don't know why TRP has a problem with women who have NO ISSUES dying alone. For lots of women, myself included, we'd rather die alone, single, than settle for an ugly man who brings disappointment and mediocrity to the table. It's just better to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 16 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.then the men on here would start complaining about how impossible it is to find a wife, and start complaining about that. the men on here aren't women's friends. They won't magically begin respecting women's standards and boundaries if a ring was involved. They'd apply the same misogyny to the new power/social dynamic within a "marriage before sex" society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.she could have good men lining up to date her. he sees her as delusional because he did not find her valuable. she is not delusional to another man who does. It is IN FACT delusional to expect someone to go out with a person who doesn't value them. Why would anyone, who has their sanity in tact, willingly go out with someone who undervalues them? That's a bad deal. She was smart and made the right choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.i think most people just scroll past a listing that is out of their price range. there are no subreddits or social movements centered around the "problem" of people selling toyotas for $100k. When people scroll past a new or used car that's out of their price range, they don't start a podcast about "the unfairness of the car market" and how awful dealerships are. Nobody is starting an anti-car movement because of the "unfairness of car prices". Nobody. If I can't find a toyota that I like, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard."can I buy your car for X" and she says "no thanks" and the guy comes away saying "wow so delusional." Buddy, no you have it backwards. If your price was that good, some woman have taken it LMFAO. this is what the men here don't understand. Women choose the man they want in their life, and we are perfectly fine waiting until we find him; or dying single if we don't. We're fine with that. The only ones bothered by it, are bottom-of-the-barrel men, who feel like women should settle for undesirab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 12 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Again, saying women are “far worse” with no objective measuring stick (hint it doesn’t exist) is you again arguing from anecdotal experiences; a logical fallacy. Unless you can tautologically prove this to be the case for EVERY WOMAN ON THE PLANET it’s a argument that goes against the principles of logic concerning your claim. This entire subreddit summarized in one argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. Isn't it actually confirmation that women are able to get what they want? otherwise this perceived "entitlement" you describe wouldn't exist?? If someone truly was being treated like an undesirable piece of shit, they'd lower their st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 25 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.So it's "entitlement" if she rejects him because she's not interested in a one night stand with him? and they will call her a "chad-hunting slut" if she does sleep with him. There's no way to win with these people. They're just going to shit on women regardless of what they're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What attracts you to men's faces, in the most analytical way you can describe?Clear skin. Healthy looking eyes, thick eyelashes and eyebrows. Beards that are even and well groomed. Not too long or thick. Facial features that complement each other. Well Defined jawline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 03:34 PM |
| -1 | If you have gold digging tendencies you deserved to be pumped and dumpedAnd also a ps, marrying rich does not mean you’ll live a happily ever after either. Tell you what I’ll edit my post for better context. neither does marrying poor. If you're equally miserable dating a rich vs poor guy, why not just be miserable WITH plenty of money for you and your kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:24 PM |
| -1 | If you have gold digging tendencies you deserved to be pumped and dumpedAre you saying that women should eagerly date destitute men who have no financial stability? That they should avoid men with wealth, money and/or a lucrative career? wouldn't that lead them to becoming "the single mothers who fucked penniless losers in their youths and are now looking for a bailout" TRP likes to monsterize????? So what's the logic here? Avoid rich men like the plague.... and after settling for penniless men, you.... what? Profits? You experience happily ever after?? Your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?it's different for heterosexual men. Have you ever been STD tested at a clinic? They SPECIFICALLY ask you if you're sleeping with men who have sex with men. The risk of STDs are different for this population, specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?There’s a significant risk of catching certain STD associated with having sex with men who have sex with men (MSM). They’re not always homophobic. Sometimes they’re serious about STD risks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:11 AM |
| 4 | question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men?ANY redpilled behavior. All of it is a red flag for me, and I block them after that. Any form of negging, any form of cheap behavior, any PUA/Seduction tactics I recognize. Any lies, any inconsistency, ANY FORM OF MISOGYNY (regardless of how subtle). ANY laziness, selfishness, or failure to display empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 12:12 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?And when you tell them to improve their personalities, they bitch on and on about looks 🤦♀️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer to just sleep around with multiple women instead of a relationship?This would be cool PPD data if it could be reposted as a poll with Likert-scale responses like: - Yes (redpilled man) - No (bluepilled man) - Yes (redpilled nonbinary) - No (redpilled nonbinary) - Results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Why Are You On PPD?I lurk here because i don't have the stomach to lurk in redpilled spaces. I just want to know how these people think. The types of things they say. A lot of guys give away information I can use to screen out red flags I see in men when I'm dating online. I'm also lurking because lots of redpilled behaviors overlap with behaviors of religious men. If traditional women come to me for dating advice, who want to find a religious husband, I want to be prepared to help them find the best husband for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 22 | Women who have careers and RP mindsetThey hate women who work/ support themselves because "thEyRe sTrOng InDePenDeNt wOmEn tHaT dOnT nEeD nO mAn", and they hate women who don't work/support themselves because then they'll depend on a man for money. They hate you if you do. They hate you if you don't. Just do whatever you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy only friend who got some experience with domestic abuse told anyone about it only when she already had one feet out of the door. We didn't have to convince her, we just provided our help. NOBODY knew the full story behind my abuse (except for the judge and my lawyers and my kids) until 3 years after I got out and was safe. AFTER he went to prison for decades Nobody knew the full extent of how awful he was. Nobody knew anything about the weapons he'd threaten me with on an HOURLY BASIS until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey are so freaked out about the thought of being alone is ridiculous. I came here to say this. None of the above. The most difficult thing to do is convince a woman to leave a man she settled HARD for. Convincing one of my friends' sisters to leave a drunken alcoholic who was unemployed and short, fat and bald on top of his laziness and trash parenting was IMPOSSIBLE. She married the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4W in your own experience what's harder, convincing your friends to leave an abusive man or a boring one? I was in a domestically violent relationship and it was so hard to leave him, primarily because he kept everything under his watch and surveillance. Any attempts to get me out by family and friends just exacerbated the violence I faced at home and made my situation worse and more dangerous. I had to leave on my own; after spending months getting help from national domestic violence hotlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthis comment reasoned 95% of men’s issues when it comes to women, sex, and dating. most of their issues are caused by male entitlement and the thinking they should get something simply because they want it. most men also overestimate their own attractiveness and most women underestimate their attractiveness. So when a man tells you that "he's a 9", subtract 6 points... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersIt was a phase, for sure.... I grew out of it eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | PPD would be more useful if posters were required to have a flair with their r/rateme ratingor better yet, flair for posting your results on photofeeler's "attractiveness" category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:08 AM |
| 61 | How the Match Group Destroyed Datingan excellent, based post. r/Angryupvote Now. The next question is: WHAT ARE YOU ALL GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? idk how many of you have read the really long, really technical, jargon infested, legal terms & conditions behind that "I agree" button before signing up for dating apps, so I'll summarize it for you. you essentially agreed to chat/match/chat up fake accounts and bots, and you agree that you have no problems with it. they cannot be sued for it, and "your honor, I did NOT read the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI think for a start, it makes sense for prostitution to be legalized. Government can regulate it for tax revenue and some argue it’s safer for prostitutes because it can lower trafficking. The problem is that the conservatives who typically control everything are glaringly anti-prostitution to the point where they won't even consider de-criminalizing it. Even some of the most progressive liberals are conservative when it comes to prostitution. Too many SWERFs in the liberal spaces, too many re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what struggles do you face dating that men fail to empathize with?I'm only willing to meet men through online dating apps. I take breaks from them when I feel overwhelmed and overstimulated. Especially when my kids visit and I feel touched out, socialed out, and chatted-out. If that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: what struggles do you face dating that men fail to empathize with?Having the desire or will to even open the apps and swipe. It feels like a chore. It takes a lot of energy to even want to respond to messages. It takes a lot of energy to even feel the desire to go out on dates with these men. The whole process of vetting them is exhausting. Especially the way I do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | This sub is toxic for women (as well as men)Could you please tell me more? What red flags? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies8000 years ago one male reproduced for ever 17 women that reproduced. Meaning on avg the top 6% of men had 17 baby mommas and the bottom 94% of men were incels. half of the men on here are bitter, angry, hostile incels who would KILL to jump on a time machine, and prevent their mothers from choosing short, bald, ugly men to father their children. Given the choice between being born short, bald, ugly, or being born tall, handsome, and hot, almost all men would choose to be born tall, head full … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesChances are something will be done about it by a combination of businessmen and politicians who realize population decline is gonna be bad. what do you think will be done about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI think social media and dating apps need to be banned and/or heavily regulated. Thats all. This is exactly what the OP means when they say: "Therefore, if love, romance and companionship are really important things and love, sexual attraction and companionship are distributed really unequally and unfairly, this is a Bad. Thing. and something should be done to stop it". I think this is what most women are concerned by. There's a heavy implication out there, even if it's unsaid, that all these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesIt matters because society doesnt acknowledge the fact that most women have an extreme advantage over men in dating, and this usually means that most women wont end up dying lonely, while a good chunk of men will. PPD tells women they're going to die alone, with cats feasting on their faces from all the loneliness (and dust permeating from their barren ovaries in the hot sun) unless they settle for a bald, fat, unemployed man who can't read and smell like a zoo... because any other standard for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesbut you believe access to dating platforms has increased the polarity between haves and have-nots, with men coming out on the losing side? the hypocrisy of this is that most of the men who are bitching about the uNfAiR dAtInG mArKeT are the same ones who support unadulterated capitalism where poor people (the disadvantaged, the unprivileged, the forgotten) are left to die on their own, with no support for social services, food stamps, unemployment, affordable housing/healthcare/childcare. So w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesthis is exactly what the OP meant when they said: "Therefore, if love, romance and companionship are really important things and love, sexual attraction and companionship are distributed really unequally and unfairly, this is a Bad. Thing. and something should be done to stop it". I think this is what most women are concerned by. There's a heavy implication out there, even if it's unsaid, that all these premises ultimately lead to a conclusion whereby society, the state or whatever it might be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesThe choice Western society has is between a future society like East Germany where the state is boosting fertility rates by making marrying and having kids in your early or mid 20's basically a requirement for entering the "middle class" or one that is much more religious and conservative. This is exactly what the OP was talking about when he/she said: "Therefore, if love, romance and companionship are really important things and love, sexual attraction and companionship are distributed really u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesThe crux of the debate is not whether or not sexless men are implying female sexual activity should be regulated by the state. no there's people here and in some of the unhinged parts of PPD who participate in MRA spaces who fully believe women need to be taken back, that we have too many rights and privileges in today's society. Some of them have called for women's right to vote to be revoked, and it's not sitting well. So as you all like to say around these parts.... NOT ALL MEN believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesMore attractive prospects had lower standards, and less attractive prospects could get better results, resulting in more coupling. This benefitted civilization as it encouraged people away from their basic, destructive impulses. every single man on PPD has wished they were taller, hotter, and less bald/less fat. Why would you want to be born unattractive? Why would you encourage this? The people who are attractive in today's time, had parents who didn't settle for hideous looks.... and are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies"therefore it's okay for me to use lies, manipulation and other dirty tricks to game women" into sex or relationships. this is also something women fear?? How is this supposed to be more appealing than a society where women's rights and freedoms are seized? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesfor women it's a competition to get the "top" guy, the winner, the best. And that's what they want. Why do you people always assume that a tall, rich, hot guy is going to be an evil, manipulative, abusive asshole? Why shouldn't women want the best? Who walks into a grocery store and picks out the rotten fruit, vs the healthy fresh ones?? This "logic" doesn't apply anywhere else in life? Who would turn down a job paying $500k for a job paying $100k? People, in every other aspect of life, are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesWhen all the top men are taken, you have to pick from what's left, and what we are seeing is that they don't want to do that. They would rather be single than be in relationship with someone they don't find attractive. What's wrong with this? I thought men here didn't want "to be settled for"? So which is it. Do you people want to be settled for, or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliestogether with being so unknowingly privileged that we're lured into believing that we "don't need anyone (especially not a man, in women cases)", and that's the problem beneath the rest of all this mess and pain. Why is it a "problem" for women to want nothing to do with dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 0 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesThere's a heavy implication out there, even if it's unsaid, that all these premises ultimately lead to a conclusion whereby society, the state or whatever it might be should step in and take some kind of action to limit women's freedom in order to rectify an unfair and unjust situation and ultimately try and redistribute this important thing (Female love, sexual attraction and companionship) more evenly. This is precisely the fear I have, and it's already happening. Women have just had their rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.if TRP actually tipped the scales back into the favour of men, it wouldn't be filled with people that couldn't land a date to save their lives. if it worked, every second post would be bragging about how much sex they're having, except every other post is bitching about how abysmal the dating scene is for men, and how hopeless it all is, and how we should all drop what we're doing and give lots of fucks about this... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Do you prefer online dating or in person dating?Online dating by a far stretch. It lets me vet men from the safety of my home and I never have to reject them face to face…. Which can be dangerous Or fatal r/WhenWomenRefuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Question For Women With Higher Than Average Body CountsI can eyeball them at this point. My son is 6”5, so I know exactly how tall that is and how tall a 6”1 guy is because I’ve dated them for so long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Question For Women With Higher Than Average Body CountsI haven’t slept with a man who didn’t have a visible 6 pack in over a decade so there’s that. I haven’t seriously dated a guy shorter than 6’1 in 5 years. Casual sex… well I did make an exception for a guy who was 5”11 who “did that one thing I liked”, but the rest of them have all been over 6’1, ripped and hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 0 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I don’t care. I’m on dating apps to have fun. If people have problems, there’s therapy for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I do. All the benefits without any of the bullshit. I think I’m going to do this for another year or 2 until I figure out what I want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 0 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I’m not interested in marriage or living with another man. I’m only in it for good times, only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I'm interested to hear and if you feel you don't rationalize yourself as the exception, why not? I don't have to. I primarily meet men through online dating apps. There are so soooo many men who fit my standards, who I'm attracted to, who are happy to give me what I want, that I waste no time on men who require any effort from me in the slightest form. I don't have to rationalize anything, I just ghost & block whenever I'm slightly inconvenienced or mildly irritated. Sometimes I ghost just b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?In case you hadn't noticed, women are furious because their right to abortion has been seized at the federal level, and the state level is next (it's already happened in lots of red states). Women aren't in a rush to pop out kids. Birth control is awful and not a single soul enjoys the side effects, the mood swings, and other unpleasant side effects that come with it. Condoms are universally hated by men and women because they suck but they're the lesser of several evils... IUD/LARCs aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?maybe everyone is licking the doorknobs and walls. Who knows what seniors do with their retirement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?old farts hitting on me and other younger women (which is annoying and repulsive) and a lot of men dying without a family (because they’re still looking for fertile 20-30-year olds while they continue aging). let's all be real here. We were ALL that "young hot teenager" before who was approached by men in their 20s, 30s, and grandpa middle aged men. Almost all of us found it creepy and repulsive. but if you were to believe the messaging on this sub, you'd think we were all getting hitched to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?You are not suddenly going to poof into a rich, handsome man when you hit 30. If you weren't rich and handsome at 28, without significant life changes, you will also not be rich and handsome at 30 (or 32, 35, whatever). You're not going to suddenly have better access to women because you got older or you make slightly more at your IT job. there is so much fucking cope in this thread. Men on here are completely oblivious to how men IN THE REAL WORLD age. The REALITY is that most men are bald or b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?Men just don't have the sorts of friendships women have with other women, by and large, whereas women have reciprocal, supportive friendships with other females where you share and talk about everything. then why aren't men investing in fulfilling friendships with other men? Why are they not working on improving relationships with family, siblings, coworkers, and parents? men aren't helpless victims here. You can all invest in your friendships more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?While I agree men are judged on their height. women are judged by their youth, which they also can't control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menHave you ever spoken with survivors of domestic abuse? It’s almost always the case that the garbage behaviors are absent in the beginning. Most abusers don’t punch you in the face on the first date. They punch you in the face 12 weeks after your child is born. It’s never obvious or present in the beginning. They act like perfect gentlemen until she’s trapped and that’s when they start their abuse. Lots of them actively prevent their victims from leaving with terrorism and threats of violence aga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How do all the men/women here find peace of mind when dealing with what they consider to be negative aspects of dating?Just take a break to cool off and then come back to it later. If I’m having a rough week or my kids are visiting, I just take that week off to focus on me and the kids. I usually pick it back up next week or a few days after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:53 AM |
| 4 | What percentage of men you gave casual sex to were manipulative?I’m pretty good at knowing what I want and usually getting it. 2 years ago, I was open to casual dating and sex and I, specifically didn’t want anything serious at all since I’d freshly gotten divorced and just wanted to have fun. Plus I was coming off the pill and my libido skyrocketed. I made sure to spell out exactly what I wanted on dating apps, and my expectations for a hookup with absolutely no strings attached. I bought a second phone and used a google voice number and never ever told my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?It’s the opposite. I’d feel nervous at a sausage fest and a lot safer in a room full of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?I’m surprised too. I didn’t know men were annoyed by sausage fests. Id be thrilled with a majority-women party | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?No. I get upset if I show up to a party and it’s a sausage fest too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 3 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?I also think older men don’t do as well being alone compared to older women. I don’t have actual stats to back this up but in my line of work, I do notice a considerable health decline within the first few years of men losing their wives compared to women. Women are more likely to invest in friendships and maintain relationships with other people and family than men are. A lot of men only have a social life because their wife/kids force them to have one, and lots of men would never visit a docto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 11:41 PM |
| 4 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?Why do women above 50 lose a lot of interest in dating while men lose it more gradually? Why are women below 50 as interested in dating as men below 50 instead? In short, what is the reason behind these significant gender differences? I think a lot of women who are over 50 are tired of taking care of kids, taking care of a husband and want to enjoy being carefree or being the one on the receiving end of caregiving for a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’It would also explain why these men think earning 80k a year makes them a high earner that is both entitled to a woman of their choosing while also being susceptible to baby trapping. ding ding ding. I can't believe some people here think $80k is "baby trap" money, and they need to be "worried about Golddiggers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 11 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’interesting. Men in this subreddit bitch and whine about iMpoSsIbLe sTanDarDs that women have all the time... while at the same time not wanting to be settled for. So..... WTF? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 0 | if the population were 75% men and 25% women, would women have more or less privilege in society?interesting question. Given that women now have less privilege than men in a world where about half of us are women, having fewer women would mean they have even less privilege than we currently have because men will use the excuse "well they're a minority.... sooooo" on top of the existing misogyny to strip away rights, opportunities, and to widen the gender pay gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you think women spend their time?IT essentially 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you think women spend their time?I STITCH. hmph! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 16 | How do you think women spend their time?FUCK! you reminded me of my dentist appointment this Friday. Dammit I forgot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 15 | How do you think women spend their time?Not a man, but I can tell you how my weekdays normally go. I wake up at 7 am. Work out for 1 hour. Make breakfast, brush my teeth, then shower. By 9:00, I have logged into my work portals. Between 9-12, I take care of my work assignments, projects, and tasks. From 12-4 p.m., I take care of my client needs, projects, and tasks for my businesses. I log out of everything work and business related strictly at 4, unless there's an emergency. from 4-5:30, I check in on my kids. They've moved out and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?You gotta spend thousands on plastic surgery, skincare, makeup, fashion, maintenance treatments I have news for you. A Lot of women already do this. Every day, hair, makeup, clothes, shaving, waxing, eating right, taking vitamins, going to docs appointments, taking care of dental health, managing and maintaining weight. Manicures, Pedicures, spa treatments, Wearing painful high heels, uncomfortable clothing, dealing with horrible discomfort from all of the stares, etc. lots of women do this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:11 PM |
| – | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenNever having sex again unless the men proves that he cares about me, can provide financially, mentally, physically and more. I will only have unprotected sex with a man that buys me a house, car and can provide good schools for my kids + make me a SAHM. Otherwise get a vasectomy pls(my man is already getting one) My casual sex days ended effective yesterday. Standards are about to double and we should see a spike of "muh penis" posts on PPD and other subs because of it. Ya'll got what ya'll wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario?B | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtake that up with lurkers. Nobody downvoted you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey wouldn't exist if their mother's didn't consent to getting impregnated by shitty men. interesting. However, the women who are featured on r/whenwomenrefuse ARE ATTEMPTING TO REJECT "shitty men". What happens if you're killed in the process of rejecting a shitty man? You're not alive to give birth to a shitty child to begin with. So then what? When you try to reject a shitty man.... [insert next step here] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is a successful man attractive?There is a certain set of skills, traits, and attributes that enable success AT ALL LEVELS, career-wise, and romantically. Men who are successful are already masters of this specific skillset. When they apply this skillset to the dating world, they (unsurprisingly) find success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis flies in the face of the PPD auto-reply of "Pick better men". Well... when you're trying to pick better men, and the men who are murderers can't take no for an answer.... ....... then what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthank you. I'll make the correction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadr/whenwomenrefuse is what happens when women say "no thank you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do the men of PPD think of r/whenwomenrefuse ? It is a subreddit showcasing what happens to women when they say "no" or "no thank you" to a man's advances. The information there ranges from murder to assault, harassment, stalking. Obviously this isn't all men. So please don't generalize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:21 PM |
| -2 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?I, personally, haven't dated someone under 6'1 in over 3 years. I have made exceptions for rich (and exceptionally hot) guys who are 5"11 or 5"10 but I wasn't viscerally attracted to them as much as the guys who are 6'1+... take that with whatever grain of salt you want to take it with. It's just a personal preference of mine. In my inbox, I suppose this means any guy under 5"10 no matter how rich or hot, is "hindered"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?Umm I have bad news for short guys: “Both the Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children and the Wide Range Achievement Test were found to significantly correlate with height.” “Some epidemiological research on the subject has shown that there is a small but statistically significant positive correlation between height and intelligence after controlling for socioeconomic class and parental education.[1]” “This supports the idea that genes that influence height also influence total surface area of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?its about the illusion of having loads of options Who has the "illusion" that they have loads of options? Which people are these? Are they men, or are they women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?thanks for being mature and honest. Interesting info | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Why is it all of a sudden that I'm old that the women in my age group now notice me? I fear I may never know the true answers to that. Interesting. How much attention are you getting from women 1-5 years younger? 6-10 years younger? 10-15 years younger? 17-20 years younger? and has it changed over the years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?The sooner you give up 'shoulding' people, the happier you'll be. Ultimately it's their life, and they have the right to make their own decisions. they won't. Men on this subreddit think that telling women what we "should" be attracted to, will solve all of their dating problems for them. Men can't tell women what to be attracted to. More insultingly, most men on here will engage in vigorous debate on "what a 7 looks like" with women. MEN DON'T GET TO DICTATE WHAT A "7" MEANS TO WOMEN! You c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Too many people think that they have unlimited options and view the person they’re getting to know as “candidate #3” I find it hard to believe that most of these "people" are men. Say what you mean.... "too many women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Why should women “lower their standards”, and date the men they don’t want to date? It seems like we should do it for men, not for ourselves. Why is it unhealthy? It’s a choice for many women, even if it’s not for men. They will never answer this question. If you ask them the same question, they'd insult you. Go ahead. Start a thread asking if men are willing to lower their standards and "settle" or "marry" someone who doesn't meet their standards and see for yourself what you get. I'll answ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?a 0.8% match rate is about on par with what women on r/TinderData report on right swipes, and you can see it reflected in male data in that of all men who swipe right, few, if any, receive a match, a message, or a date. https://www.reddit.com/r/TinderData/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?could you expand on this. Men on this subreddit insist that, as men get older, dating and casual sex with youthful women (10+ years younger) becomes easier and easier. Could you please let us know if dating has gotten easier/harder for you, after the age of 30? After 40? After 50? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Male-Centered Dating Advice Directed at Women - A CompilationWow. This subreddit is still alive <3. FDS works. That's why it's under such vicious attacks. These men don't want to give up their entitlement to easy, casual, free sex with no commitment and nothing to offer, and they hate it when experienced women tell other women exactly what to avoid and what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedI now only date functional independent women and they are not the majority. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men."dating" in 2022 has made me a more arrogant bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.unattractive people are held to a completely different standard That needs to be understood the standard is well understood by everyone, except unattractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.Men are no different A superstacy can take a hot dump on a man’s pillow and he’d happily lay his head down on it But an average woman has to prove herself worthy of a relationship and decent treatment Exactly. Men's pain isn't special. Attractive criminals receive lighter sentences than their unattractive counterparts for the same crimes committed. Attractive people get away with more, LITERALLY, and it's evidenced by our own criminal justice system. The solution for unattractive men is to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?The average guy is overestimating his attractiveness.... so no, she's not attracted to the types of men who classify themselves as "average". Women ARE or AREN'T attracted to what we are or aren't attracted to. Men don't get to decide what "average" looks like, or what "average" SHOULD look like. WOMEN decide that. Whether YOU like it or not. If women say a person isn't average, then he isn't average. It's up to women to decide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:17 AM |
| 17 | The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex.I’m so tired of seeing this pathetic trope repeated on here as if there’s an award or medal for repeating it to death! Women like attractive men. Men like attractive women. Idk why PPD is struggling with this concept. None of this is new, it’s been happening for millions of years to billions of men. TRP/incel tears aren’t special. Either adapt or perish from the gene pool. Same as always | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?Men significantly overestimate their attractiveness while women underestimate theirs. Age is NOBODY’S friend. Men like to pretend that only women become less attractive with age, but men become significantly less attractive with age too. “Approximately 25 percent of men who have hereditary male pattern baldness start losing their hair before the age of 21. By the age of 35, approximately 66 percent of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss. By the age of 50, approximately 85 percent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.For real life, its just a useless. I've had incels on this subreddit discount my dating success with high value men. I've had men tell me I'm undesirable as a single mom and will never date or marry high value men. I've done both in the past, and I'm dating high value men now. Reality doesn't match the narrative of TRP and if the men on TRP and other incel communities REALLY saw what the dating world was like for single moms, fat women, older women, and other women they deem "undesirable", the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.Where are you getting “6 years”? Making up details about me in a piss poor attempt to paint me in an insulting light won’t help you or other men… It’s really tragic and pathetic that the men on this subreddit completely dismiss the real experiences of actual women on todays dating market. Instead of learning from us, you sit there and try to insult me. None of it is going to make you any more desirable, you won’t get any more matches, or any more attention from women by being undesirable, vitrio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.I dumped him. Look, you aren’t helping men by selling this lie that any woman at all is struggling on dating apps. They know it’s not true, I know it’s not true, you aren’t helping men by lying to them about the reality of dating in 2022 on the apps. I understand that incels and TRP men are pissed that even single moms are having lots of success on dating apps WITH HVM, and you’re all not helping anyone by selling them this lie. It’s simply not real or true that single mothers have no options. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.I’m having lots of success as a single mother and their father is very involved with my kids. We have a beautiful coparenting arrangement that works for everyone. But this doesn’t fit the TRP narrative that single moms are destitute, desperate hags who are utterly undesirable and incapable of attracting HVM….. SEETHE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.They assume they're the good men no matter what they do or say, so when women reject them it just feeds into the delusion they've been sold. The men on this (and other TRP/MRA/Incel spaces) are operating under the delusion that the online dating world has "participation trophies" for men who are inadequate, who are undesirable, and who aren't being picked by women. They don't understand that they aren't entitled to matches, dates, or sex from women on dating apps. The competitive men on the ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason.He admitted for himself that men face fierce competition from other men online. If he chooses to handicap himself by acting like an asshole to women, making himself less desirable… then he should quit his bitching when women reject him en masse. When he gets zero dates, zero matches, when all the women ghost him, we don’t wanna hear it. As he, himself, admitted. There is FIERCE competition for women on the dating apps. Why would a beautiful woman choose an asshole over men who are perfect gentle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | What are your "requirements"/standards for a man?great. Now that the FDS mods are gone, the fucking incels are digging up posts from 2 years ago AGAIN. GET A LIFE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/22 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it normal for women to follow a guy from their suggested list on Instagram I follow people who post interesting or funny content. 90% of the time, I don't know them. Just saw something cool they posted and followed for more content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadstrict religious parents. It was "a sin". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhave you tried waiting until you are mid to late 30s? Redpilled men swear that's when men are at their most attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?22F, ethically non-monogamous with 3 partners and not currently looking for more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?The reasons are pretty much outlined in this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/v0itrm/a_pew_research_center_study_shows_that_for_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?I'd rather not take the risk tbh This reflects women's attitudes on this thread about why so many women have "checked out" of the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?Free entertainment At this point, there's nothing new I can learn from PPD, I just lurk for entertainment, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Was PPD helpful for you in any way?PPD was the subreddit that I saw which introduced me to the redpill. PPD has been vital in helping me learn the thinking patterns, attitudes, behaviors of men with redpilled thinking, so I could avoid them at all costs in my dating life and day to day life. I've used the information I learned from this subreddit to block redpilled men I encounter on dating apps and social media. It's been helpful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up?I grew up in a strict catholic home. I was told to avoid men at all costs and refrain from obtaining any dating experience until marriage. it was GARBAGE advice. All it did was make me experience "first relationship lessons" at 18, instead of at 14 like everyone else. I got out of the Catholic church when I was 18 and moved away. I know girls from my old cohort who "learned first relationship lessons" at 28, 30, 25, etc. "keeping your daughter pure" just ensures she falls for bullshit at 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Women, Sex, and AttractionTHEY pursue me. I used to give them a chance and this was my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Women, Sex, and AttractionMy previous partner was a free spirit, my new partner is a Red piller (which I dont mind) but in our casual conversations you've revealed how judgemental you are and I don't want to fall out of your good graces BECAUSE I LIKE/LOVE and care about you. This has been my biggest reason for doing it. I used to be with a guy who was ... open minded and ended up with *you* who is closed minded. Anything other than starfish missionary sex, IN bed, will offend/repulse you, bEcAuSe yOuRE a tRaDiTiOnAL cHr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 05:40 AM |
| -3 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?99.999999999999⁹99999⁹9999999999999999⁹99999999999999999999% Basically all of them are worthless. Almost double that number are active BURDENS. it's better to fake your own death than to go out with an """aVeRaGe gUy""" Why? Who's asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.I don’t even know how to respond to this it is literally so far out of touch with reality. what, exactly is out of touch with reality? Use your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 01:51 AM |
| 0 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.The lack of understanding is only coming from men. Men spend their time online mansplaining to women how to be attracted to men. Women are or aren't attracted to the men we are or aren't attracted to. men don't get to tell women "what a 7 is". YOU think you're a 7, women obviously disagree. Women decide what's "objectively a 7". Not some sort of international standard concocted by other men in order to tell women what "objectively a 7" should look like. Men try to gaslight women into thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?It usually takes them 2-5 years to make it over to the r/IncelExit and the r/exredpill stage... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?No. I expect for him to pay for everything and to court me like I'm the best thing he's ever seen, and if he doesn't, then his competition will. and men don't understand this. They don't get it. For her to get everything from a man and YOU have to lurk to figure out what she's missing..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry?As a parent, I have a right to know whether the adults they are around have ever been found guilty of sex offender crime or pedophilia. ESPECIALLY in a public place like a state funded school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry?This is a genius idea! I support it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 09:40 PM |
| -1 | People, especially men, have little time to adapt for the changing reality, this is troubling.Didn’t know “”””mEn”””” we’re so “”””sensitive”””” 🙄🙄🙄🙄 God, here “we” go again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 18 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Yes, and it gets worse. Apparently a bunch of YouTube/PUA and “podcast” venues will screen record my content and read it outloud for their subscribers, who would come and look for me on Reddit and, of course, tell me I’d die alone, my expectations are impossible…. 🙄 I’m delusional and crazy, I’m psycho, I’m imaginary and don’t exist, etc, etc. So please, if you’re going to post on FDS, please exercise good OPSEC, because they WILL try to doxx you, and Reddit will side with the incels and protect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.men on this subreddit insist on comparing fertility rates of 20 year old women and 35+ year old women. At 20 I was on several forms of birth control and on a wild party-fuckfest. I wasn't married or trying to conceive back then... Idk why men think 25 year old women are in a rush to have kids. We aren't. We are all on the pill and using the pull out method. Having our periods a few days late triggers a panic attack, not a baby-shower and "congratulations".... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:21 AM |
| -1 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.Don't be coy. SAY IT. RAPE. It's because of RAPE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.I prefer a woman slightly less attractive than I am so that I'm more likely to be one of the best she's been with. I've been with hideous men who have outperformed a few of my more attractive exes. Sexual skill is a skill. It's not something you're born with... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:12 AM |
| 2 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.In the age group of 40-49 almost 80% men have biological children. The overall figure is 61%. This is about right. The below source shows that around ~85% of women have had at least one biological child by the age of 50. Percentage of CHILDLESS women in the United States in 2018, by age is as follows: - 15-19 year old women: 96.9% are Childless. - 20-24 year old women: 78.6% are Childless. - 25-29 year old women: 54.2% are Childless. - 30-34 year old women: 33.6% of women are Childless. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:11 AM |
| 2 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.the dating world changed DRASTICALLY and DRAMATICALLY over the past 3 years, ESPECIALLY during COVID when traditional venues of meeting a romantic partner were shut-down/online, masked, and social distanced. Partners meeting offline is becoming rarer and rarer and rarer. With each passing year, the number of women on the dating apps dwindle, and the number of men on the apps rises. Competition for single women is rising. more and more people have flocked to online dating apps as one of the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:27 AM |
| -1 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.29 % of under 30’s are practically virgins So? Why not wait until you're mid 30-s to mid 50-s, you know.... the alleged "most desirable years" for men, according to PPD/TRP? just wait bro. You'll have all kinds of free, casual sex and tons of cash, too apparently once you're 45 and bald. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.I'd rather try and fail with a pretty girl than succeed with an average one. gee.... men here foam at the mouth when some women mention they'd rather only match with hot men vs average ones. Why can't people see women feel the same way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.and women who aren’t won’t do so regardless of how much they want the guy men overlook this completely. I have given up on so many guys I was interested in because they didn't initiate. Which is okay, I just began to notice other men who would initiate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.I dont buy it. Women on reddit are always underselling their standards. it's because ANY standard a woman has, even if her standard is "I prefer that he's not homeless and doesn't smell like a zoo. I'd prefer that he showers". .... ......will be screenshotted, shared to death on other subreddits and non-reddit platforms, and you will be attacked by all kinds of incels, threatened, and banned from subreddits, and you will be harassed and downvoted to oblivion. Not before they tell you that your s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Most women are only going to pursue guys they believe are above their league so most men should try to display themselves as higher.iMen who are hoping to find relationships in 2022 should just.... focus on these two things. "Be the best choice". "Be HER best choice". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 06:35 AM |
| 11 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)Because most men are not bangable physically and then they open their mouths and become even less bangable with their personalities. It doesn’t even help that they refuse to google how to be good in bed, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:06 PM |
| 44 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseAbsolutely love to see FDS energy in the wild. BLOCK/DELETE/IGNORE/GHOST/NEXT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: does it bother you when you see a 30+ women settle down with a HVM?Reality isn’t moral I'm going to need you all to remember that when I tell women to lie about their N counts.... Going to need you all to remember this when I tell women that what he doesn't know, won't hurt him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 12 | The notion of "unconditional love"Because even though sex is important, for men it isn’t necessarily connected to love. This is also true for women. It's just that men like to pretend like it's way worse for a woman to have sex with someone else than for a man to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 15 | The notion of "unconditional love"Absolutely. Applies to men, too.... Men can only love a woman they're attracted to, physically. Remove sex and most men would fall out of love and leave quickly. Men aren't angels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 12 | The notion of "unconditional love"I was going to say that. I love my brothers unconditionally. I love my father unconditionally.... Children love their fathers unconditionally. It's innocent. It's a deep, warm, comfortable camaraderie and friendship/best-friendship that's irreplaceable. It's not true that women can't love unconditionally. the types of men that say stuff about women not being capable of unconditional love usually have the worst imaginable conditions associated with them and the only people who could tolerate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Recently married. Thanks FDS.Congratulations on your new marriage ❤️❤️! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinitythis is such a thoughtful, complete response and it was a JOY to read! This threw me for a loop: Men are the root of all problems in this society they lorded over for themselves. I did not say women cannot be problematic. But I am saying only men who do not fulfill the definition of their misogyny are the problem. Bc according to you, the inferior cannot do this to you, the superior. Men on PPD just want to be sexually desired despite being lazy, unemployed r/NEET, fat, selfish, broke, entitle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:53 PM |
| -2 | Q4MEN (redpill) : Supposing hypergamy is entirely real and applicable to all women, why are you angry about it?My question is: I’ve seen a lot of comments and posts that suggest men also have standards and requirements for women they want to date/fuck/marry (weight, looks, personality, education, child status, body count) SO the point is: If all humans have standards they want met in a potential partner, why are we all angry about each other’s standards? because TRP guys and the men on PPD believe that it's okay for men to require physical requirements from their partner but THE UNIVERSE AS WE KNOW IT … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you hookup with your past partners, today?Question asked if I’d take them back TODAY. no I wouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you hookup with your past partners, today?No. Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:44 PM |
| 7 | How long do you see yourself invested in a purple pill debate?If the r/ExRedPill is of any indication…. Most men who lurk here take 2-5 years to move on from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?No don’t tell them. Let them find out during middle age like some of the men over at r/IncelExit and r/ExRedPill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4All - What does everyone thing about the Harry Met Sally-esque “men and women can’t be friends”?It's a cop out. men and women can be friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeAt that age, almost all women are single moms except for infertile women and women who are childless and childfree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 10 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeI’ve seen very successful men who are 10, 15 years older than me and I’d never swipe on them. Idk where this stereotype comes from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Because men say the quiet parts out loud in an online anonymous platform like Reddit and we’ve seen too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first moveThe men on this subreddit will tell you that making the first move is empowering women, and that’s the best a woman can do for a guy. In reality, for most men, it’s an instant turn off. This is because “making the first move” is typically masculine in a heterosexual, western culture. Men don’t like it when women behave like men. It’s not feminine and it’s a turn off for most men. The men on Reddit are socially ….. different with women so of course they’ll tell women to make the first move. I’m r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Recent NPR interview: 'How to Not Die Alone' author on modern datingYeah I’m dumpster diving through the comments and whoa. It’s god-awful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?Their obsession with youth. I’d change that immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 5 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Insecurity. They’re afraid that the woman has had a better guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 15 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!I was going to warn about this. Be on the lookout for him trying to weasel his way back into your good graces after major holidays. A LOT of them will initiate a fight or breakup at/near Valentine’s Day so they don’t have to make any plans or pay for anything, and then come crawling back a few weeks later so they “miss” the work of having to plan Valentine’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:52 AM |
| 116 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.Low effort should be met with a swift block at the first sign of low-effort, forever. We do not “train” or “teach” men how to behave in the DMs. It’s their job to go google it. We should not waste ONE MICROSECOND on bullshit. I’m a fan of taking ZERO shit from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 0 | do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet?Sleep? It’s barely 9 am?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 12 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Strange. The men over at r/ExRedPill aren’t much better than RP men. Part of me thinks it’s a permanent disability. There’s no undoing it. The men who buy into this ideology seem to be stunted for life. They’re permanently ruined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?12?? For RP men?? In 2022?!??!?! 12 is too old for them. She might be 5 or 6, 7 at the very oldest. Prime age for RP men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:58 AM |
| 7 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Same with me. The longer I lurk, the more I avoid RP men at all costs. The more I see, the faster I run away from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?There’s tons of non-RP men who possess those qualities but come to the table without the misogyny/hatred of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Absolutely nothing any RP man does or says will help him avoid being blocked on sight by me. I’m already great at blocking the RP men who make their RP views known. I’m great at blocking men who don’t announce RP thinking but who won’t deny it, either, and I’m pretty good at blocking the ones who are quiet on the topic. I still struggle with figuring out which men are RP and hiding/masking it to get more matches. These men are annoying , pesky thorns in my side… and it takes time to figure them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 05:04 AM |
| 7 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.These women usually learn their lesson the hard way. It’s time for us to let them. If they feel bold enough to curse women’s right to work, then they deserve what’s coming to them. There’s a special place in hell for Pickmes who call for abolishing women’s rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to Monogamy?What do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 0 | If "your male friends want to smash", how would things change if she said wanted you to pay for it?There’s escorts that charge $3,000+ per hour and are booked for months. Your Pennies are adorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 12 | Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone?The first was Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and it's been recommended all over the FDS subs for good reason. I added this book to my library a while ago and still haven't gotten around to reading it! This is the kick in the ass I need to start reading it. It's rotting away in my attic >_< | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:29 PM |
| 23 | Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone?I will never stop recommending these books - (By Dr. David Burns - a Stanford Educated, award winning Physician who specializes in mental health). A few other reads (not by David Burs) are also included. I also strongly recommend you guys google the Feeling Good Website (which has copies of the CBT worksheets/tools/scales), and check out the "Feeling Good podcast" - all of it is free info. (CBT - David Burns.... I don't want to get in trouble for linking it here.) - Feeling Good: The new mood Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 119 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?I have taken several exes back, and have been in "on-again/off-again" relationships. I have always regretted taking an ex back. There has never been a single time where taking an ex back wasn't a mistake. It was ALWAYS a mistake and it was ALWAYS a waste of time. I can tell you from experience, it never gets any better, and the reasons for the relationship breaking up to begin with, typically resurface and end that relationship again. And again. And again... and again. You will face the same… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 8 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Holy crap. You used their own words against them. Nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 127 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes“The actions my sperm undertook are entirely her fault.” “She MADE them swim to the egg!” “I was baby trapped! I’m the real victim!” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 29 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Clearly the delusional men who put together these ridiculous memes have never once seen the TinderData subreddit. Why do men assume that single life for men is filled with cash and casual sex? When in reality, we all know it’s filled with loneliness and a less than 1% match rate on tinder on average? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 21 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?The warning signs I've noticed the most were: - A short fuse/temper. Tendency to punch walls, "see red", yell, throw stuff, hit things (punch pillows). - A tendency to compare himself to other people and men. Lookout for Jealousy or envy. - Men who are current or former police officers are statistically more likely to be abusive (source: https://sites.temple.edu/klugman/2020/07/20/do-40-of-police-families-experience-domestic-violence/ ) - Men who are misogynistic and hate women, and men wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI embrace this, 100%. If there's going to be mandatory DNA tests, there needs to be mandatory lie detector tests AT the appointment where women find out they're pregnant. We deserve an opportunity to have an abortion before we commit our lives to a man who might possibly be lying, cheating, misleading/and stealing from us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?it's because of misogyny. Basically, slut shaming. you've seen how the men on PPD talk about, bash, and degrade women with higher N counts, single moms, and women who enjoy casual sex, especially when they're young. The more slut shaming, sex-negative, kink-shaming conservatives we have, the less women are going to be into exploring their sexuality in positive, healthy ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 49 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?My ex was military and red pilled. It was the most toxic, abusive relationship I’ve ever had. It was the relationship that sent me down the rabbit hole of finding out what the redpill was, with the sole purpose of learning everything about it so I can block the men who have redpilled beliefs, behaviors, ideals, values, etc. I’ve had a more peaceful and joyful dating life since I learned how to avoid redpilled men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Society has failed (Men).Men on PPD criticize and nitpick at women’s age. Nothing can be done to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Society has failed (Men).And men on here call women all kinds of names, call for our rights to be stripped away, call for mass rape, oppression and abuse of women. Why not grow a pair and have the same thick skin women on here have?? And what’s wrong with “portraying men in a negative light”?? Do I need to remind you how PPD treats obese women? Women over the age of 30? Single mothers???????????????????? This is a subreddit where men shit on women for fun. Them crying about women “portraying men with certain characteris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:39 AM |
| 8 | Society has failed (Men).“Certain guys with certain traits” is a very broad brush. You mean LVM? Incels? TRP men? Say it. Name them. Men who are misogynistic assholes don’t deserve my politeness. They can go get “politenesses” from RP women, Pickmes, and women who’ve internalized misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 8 | Society has failed (Men).I’m only rude to men who are rude to me first. No matter how kindly and nicely I present what I’m attracted to, physically. Someone always has a problem with it, downvotes, reports and attacks me with hostile vitriol…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Q4W - In what ways do single women over 30-ish have it harder than single men of the same age?I personally don’t find bald men attractive. There have been some “tinder experiments” done by some guys who photoshopped various degrees of balding onto the same profile and shows that the bald profile received 90% less right swipes. Idk 🤷♀️ it was informal and the guy was curious Edit: typo 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 7 | Q4W - In what ways do single women over 30-ish have it harder than single men of the same age?Well, after 30, I’ve seen a rise in 19-25 year old men trying to match with me “because I’m older”. It’s frustrating because they’ll put their age as 35 but obviously look very young. In their bios they’ll say something like “I’m actually 21, not 31”, etc. That one’s new to me. I’ve never had younger guys go after me like they did in my 30s. It also got harder because most of the high earning men are bald or balding. So I end up swiping left on most 30-something men because they’re bald/balding.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Society has failed (Men).Every single aspect of a woman is nitpicked and criticized to DEATH (see the entire beauty industry) and we take it like champs. Why are men such sensitive snowflakes when it comes time to use the balls you were born with to grow thick skin and deal with it like women do?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:18 AM |
| 30 | Society has failed (Men).How are we supposed to “prepare men”, when men literally can’t handle any criticism or honesty from women? Women on PPD are downvoted to hell and most of us just lurk for shits and giggles but honestly? Whenever a woman is HONEST about her preferences for a man, she’s downvoted to hell. Whenever women tell PPD men that we are attracted to tall, hot, rich, fit men with full heads of (nonreceding) hair, we are downvoted to hell. We receive hate mail, abuse, vitriol and “Reddit cares” messages. How… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] How do you define success in dating and what percentage of people do you think are “successful”?What is a “reasonable amount of time”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] How do you define success in dating and what percentage of people do you think are “successful”?I believe you are successful in “dating” when you’ve been able to get what you want out of dating, and are happy as a woman. If you want marriage with a monogamous partner and are able to find and secure that, with a high-value, high quality man. That is successful. If you’re a single mom leading an SMBC lifestyle and you wanted a husband/father figure for your children without being open to the risk of drama and court bullshit, and you find that relationship with a high quality man, then you’ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?No way. I get against it VIGOROUSLY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 05:57 PM |
| -2 | What's the equilibrium point on male sexlessness?Why would male sexlessness be “dangerous”? Why don’t men just jerk off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 5 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?I’m here for the exact same reason. I’ve been able to block and delete a lot of men with RP sentiments because of what I learned here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:22 PM |
| 0 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?I’m here because I’m actively dating and want to avoid men with redpilled thinking. I’m here to learn all about this so I can avoid these men and weed them out as quickly as possible. I’m also generally interested in heterosexual relationships of all kinds, and I’m curious about male perspectives, including RP. What’s wrong with RP men? The misogyny, slut shaming, and hatred of (and hostility towards) women. The calls to strip women of their societal rights, and right to bodily autonomy. The ent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | The duality of modern man.He chose to be a deadbeat. He is responsible for his actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 0 | The duality of modern man.He is responsible for his own actions. Nobody but him is responsible. She should have abandoned you, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Why don't you make a dating profile of an average man?You’re an embarrassment to humanity. Thank GOD nobody’s going to ever touch your penis. That cursed lineage ends with YOU. You’re lucky it’s illegal to make more eunuchs. I would’ve nominated you a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Why don't you make a dating profile of an average man?No. But I should fuck your dad and give him a child worth loving, that he will actually love…. since he obviously needs a do-over with you. I am embarrassed that you’re alive. What a waste of air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The duality of modern man.Single moms are already hated by men. How about we start directing the vitriol at the irresponsible party and leave the responsible party, who’s doing her part, alone?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Help settle a debate 🙏centuries of slavery, segregation, Jim Crow, Systematic racism and colorism , white denial of history, and post-Obama whitelash led by the orange buffoon and his idiot cult of stupids. 💔 God this country makes me fucking sick to my stomach 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Why don't you make a dating profile of an average man?RIP your inbox and prepare for downvotes. Men sound here hate being criticized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 4 | I’ve figured it out, Why women aren’t performing sex acts they actively enjoyed with their previous partner with their current partnerThat’s the price they pay for slut shaming and misogyny. Rag doll/starfish pure sex in missionary with the lights off, on a bed, in a bedroom, with the covers on and the doors locked, with the curtains drawn. Nice, slow, easy, and mild. r/WinStupidPrizes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | The duality of modern man.Doesn’t matter. He had sex. He should have known sex could lead to pregnancy. He failed to use a condom, failed to use it correctly, and failed to pull out in time. He also could have chosen to remain abstinent or celibate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:47 AM |
| 6 | The duality of modern man.All this hatred for single moms needs to be redirected towards absent fathers who abandoned their kids. Instead they’re bashing the parent who stayed and took care of the kid, instead of the deadbeat who flew the coop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:54 PM |
| -5 | The duality of modern man.As quickly as absent fathers. It’s the men who are abandoning their responsibility for their children. Why are you blaming the parent who stayed??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 8 | The duality of modern man.All this hatred for single moms. 100% of it is directed at the parent who stayed and took responsibility for their child. Absolutely zero hatred is pointed towards the missing father who flew the coop. The irresponsible party who abandoned their child gets a free pass, and the responsible party who stayed gets shitted on. When women drag these deadbeat fathers to court to get child support to help raise the children these men abandoned, they are bashed on PPD, which doesn’t believe in holding th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:Aaaaaaaand you just proved my point. Look how you start with insults and berate me just for saying “this is why we ghost”. Yeah, I’m not going to do that. Men can’t even handle it when I tell them why I ghost. The ones who I did text, showing my lack of interest responded as you just did. Name calling… insults, anger, vitriol. A few of them tried to find out where I lived and worked…. Women ghost for good reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:I’m going to stop telling the truth. Same shit other women figured out, a long time ago, and leave you all to figure it out yourselves. If you make it difficult for women to speak openly, honestly, and without consequences. Then women are just going to move in silence and you’ll have to go figure it out yourselves. It’s partly the reason behind the rise of ghosting. Men make it difficult for women to share unflattering information with men, so we just ghost and you can figure out why, or don’t, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 16 | I’ve figured it out, Why women aren’t performing sex acts they actively enjoyed with their previous partner with their current partnerNot all men can handle what one woman did with an ex. I’ll give you my own personal example. I did all kinds of wild, crazy shit with one ex. I knew I couldn’t repeat that stuff with another boyfriend because he would make me feel like a whore for it. For example. One ex and I used to have sex in the woods. I suggested this to a different boyfriend and he made me feel like a slut. He wasn’t into any form of sex outside the bedroom…. He was vanilla. Didn’t want to have sex in the car. Not in publ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:I hate to be “the bearer of bad news” but women are downvoted to hell and back for having and communicating physical preferences in men. We’re attacked in the comments, and we receive hate mail and abuse in the messages. I’ve been downvoted to hell for saying I’m only attracted to men who are 6’1 or taller, are fit (ripped with a visible 6 pack), have a full head of hair (not bald or balding), who have hot/sexy faces. Men can’t handle the truth. And they take it out on women when we’re honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:Seems on par with r/TinderData Question, though. Who cares? Why is this so important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 7 | This is why vetting EVERYONE you spend time with is for your survival. Know the covert red flags of bully pick me’s. They will literally push you off the ledge.She could have died. There could have been rocks underwater that would have killed her. She was lucky to survive and without permanent disabilities. That pickme showed no remorse and didn’t even check on her friend. Even the “apology” she issued before the judge seemed forced, generic, and insincere. I’m surprised she didn’t get more jail time. That’s kind of sociopathic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?I’ve been banned from feminist subs too. They aren’t too keen on anyone criticizing men, no matter how “gentle” you are with your wordsmithing. I think there was a post made a while ago on another subreddit that showed the same handful of men being mods for a LARGE number of women’a subreddits. It’s gotten even worse since the WSB subreddit situation with the stock market stuff way back then. FDS really is one of the few subreddits left that’s woman-centric and puts the needs of women above male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Was wondering if any FDS ladies on here have lost interest in dating after finding a job with a healthy environment and/ making more money?It has happened to me before. I lost interest in dating when I had a much better paying job, and when I fixed my housing insecurities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 06:31 PM |
| 15 | Remembering Valentina Grigoryeva: 1 Year Anniversary of Being Murdered by Youtuber BoyfriendThank you for sharing her story. I hope that domestic abuser and murderer never sees daylight again!!! I hope they throw the book at him. Her “friend” could have saved her life, if she’d simply opened the door and let her inside. 💔💔💔 she didn’t even call the cops after she left I’m so sad about the loss of this woman and thank god every day that I was able to leave my domestic abuser and survive. 💔💔💔 RIP Valentina 💔💔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | The male vs the female gazeI didn’t watch the video but photofeeler says something similar. The photos we think are hot and attractive to men are different from the photos men think are attractive of us. Same goes for men. The pics they choose, that they believe are attractive to women, are different from the photos women find attractive on photofeeler via the votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Men in a nutshellThis is an excellent point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Men in a nutshellSo when a man is attracted to women purely based on looks alone, nobody bats an eye. When a woman is attracted to men purely based on looks alone, ITS THE END OF THE FUCKING UNIVERSE! A CRIME AGAINST HUMANITY! OHHH THE CRUELTY! THE SHALLOWNESSES!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Men in a nutshellThe men on here act like it’s a crime against humanity for women to have physical standards for attractiveness. Men are hyper focused on looks, but it’s a crime against humanity for women to do the same….?? The double standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Men in a nutshellWhat statistics? Care to share? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:26 PM |
| -5 | Women in a nutshellUgly dudes refuse to date on their league, feel entitled to a beautiful woman, and are upset that beautiful women want to date hot guys. These men want to be shallow but want women to have no physical preferences whatsoever. What are women supposed to do? First come, first serve?? Pick at random??? That’s it. Attractive women want to date attractive men, and this is the problem incels can’t get over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:18 PM |
| -3 | Women in a nutshellThank you for this amazing background. God the male BS on this subreddit 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Dating reveals the unavoidable unfairness and cruelty that is existence.Even worse. When women do lower their standards, and are left by subpar men as single moms, these same men complain in the comments telling them to cHoOsE bEtTeR mEn. When we are picky and vet men ruthlessly, they’re in the comments crying about the cruelty of it all….. about how standards are too high and waaah waaah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you determine what your league is?It’s a useful tool for learning how to take photos that are appealing and attractive to your target audience, and they give super helpful feedback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you determine what your league is?There’s a website called photofeeler. There’s a “dating” category. If you upload your photo there, women will vote on how “attractive” you are, and it then gives you a number rating from 1-10 of how attractive you look in those photos. It’s free and operates on a karma system ( you’ll have to vote on photos of women in order for your pic to be voted on). You can read about their methodology on their FAQ page. TL:DR : they toss out “bad votes” and adjust/weigh scores for voters ratings based on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | SMV “talks” on here are very telling of how little pre-American human history is known/discussed on here and that’s a problem if people want to have serious discussion on ages men and women have peak SMV.I’m not a bot?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | SMV “talks” on here are very telling of how little pre-American human history is known/discussed on here and that’s a problem if people want to have serious discussion on ages men and women have peak SMV.Interesting perspective. You’re right. It’s near impossible to measure without mass testing a statistically representative sample of women who are unbiased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Why there is the idea that the positive impact of a great woman in a man's life is bigger than the positive impact of a great man in a woman's life?Usually it takes them 2-ish years to move beyond TRP and into the r/ExTrp stage or the r/IncelExit stage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:05 AM |
| 6 | SMV “talks” on here are very telling of how little pre-American human history is known/discussed on here and that’s a problem if people want to have serious discussion on ages men and women have peak SMV.You talk about this like most 20 something women in relationships aren’t on birth control trying to prevent unwanted pregnancies. 20 something women aren’t dying to breed back to back to back… even 30 something women use birth control to curb unwanted pregnancies. Why do TRP men obsess over fertility so much like women in their 30s are desperate to pop out children? Only 20% of women aged 35 to 39 are childless, and only 15% of women aged 40 or above are still childless…. Source: https://www.sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?Why not? I want a partner I’m attracted to, physically and sexually. This isn’t evil or diabolical…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?I’m here primarily to learn about TRP men. I need to avoid them since the last monogamous relationship I had was with a RP veteran who was my domestic abuser. I barely survived this relationship and had to run for my life and flee the state of North Dakota. I still live in fear because of the PTSD from that relationship. I need to be able to avoid these men. I can’t avoid them if I don’t know how they speak and what they think or act like. I’m here for educational purposes. Lurking here has help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is a must. Online dating produces poor results, even for ones with perfect profiles, and social circle can be problematic and limitedThey’re entirely clueless about the world. It is EASIER to get laid in western countries than non-western ones because of progressive attitudes towards pre marital sex…. They’re going to have to marry nonwestern women before any sex is had, in most countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?I’m perfectly fine with slutty women, and I am a slutty woman myself. No shame here. I don’t care 🤷♀️. Her body, her choice 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?It’s not exactly a turn off? I’d say 98%? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 59 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsThey’re Pickmes engaging in patriarchal bargaining, desperately competing for LVM approval, probably blaming the OP for the breakup 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?RIP your inbox, and prepare for downvotes. I’ve been downvoted to hell for suggesting that women enjoy hot men. They don’t get it. PPD men get to call older women “ugly”, they get to fat shame, body shame, slut shame, standard shame…. They get to shit ALL over single moms….. and chase young, thin, virgin teenage girls, and it’s an upvote sausage fest with awards! But god forbid if you’re a woman who complains about bald, impoverished, ugly, short, fat men with small, cocklet/micropenis/mini cock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Criticism against women is fine but criticism against men is some sort of war crime? Just move on dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?And this place is misogynistic. So let us move on?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:58 PM |
| 6 | 'AirTag found moving with you': Apple devices linked to suspected stalking and theftI think if someone’s bold enough to plant an AirTag on you, you should be able to at least know who it is, especially when they’re tracking your location! This is absurd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | The kids are going to be fine.Just when I think I’ve seen the worst male bullshit I’ve ever seen….. it just gets worst. Male depravity is an infinite, bottomless pit that can rival a black hole in its ability to consume bullshit. 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:31 PM |
| 38 | Dating DownEven when you date down in terms of looks, you’ll find that short, bald, unattractive men act like fuckboys, cheat, abuse, and treat you like garbage, too. The trope of the “nice” but hideous man “treating you better” than hot guys is one of the greatest scams to ever exist. As women, we are shamed for having ANY standards, and shamed even more for having physical standards, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:12 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?So where are these posts? Links??? Sources? Or is your source, the infamous “trust me bro” that gets tossed around these parts?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 12:09 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Because of the relentless male brigading. It’s impossible to have a safe space for women without male LARPs and brigading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Doesn’t this subreddit always harp on about men being attracted to 80% of women? So which is it?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Provide sources for your claims. What posts, specifically are mIsAndRisT? There’s a reason it wasn’t taken down. FDS isn’t mIsAnDrIsT. There are no FDS mass shooters. Plenty of incel mass shooters. Anything that criticizes men to any extent is viewed as hate speech, war crimes, and offensive on this subreddit. Y’all sure are sensitive about those “feelings” you claim facts don’t give a fuck about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?There’s already a male dating strategy subreddit. I lurk there sometimes and…… knock yourselves out. We don’t care 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.100% chance this was written by a man. You entirely dismiss the problems of women being used for sex. The risks involved….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Roided out ogres do better with girls than prettyboys in clubsSeriously, only men care about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 06:22 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]The virgin thing is just men making fun of other men. A lot of women actually think it's cute that a guy isn't a fuckboy who's sleeping around trying to fuck anything that moves. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | 50/50 trap, listen to this queen!I PROMISE you that I'll die single before going 50/50 with ANY man. I go 0/100. I pay NOTHING. He pays everything or I'm single and serial dating until I die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 5 | When posting here have you gotten Reddit Cares messages from scrotes because they’re big mad?I've gotten so many "reddit cares" messages.... it's not even funny. I think I got one 2 days ago. -_- men are BITTER and MAD. I wish reddit would investigate these claims because there really are redditors on here who need help, and it's not us. I thought "abusing the report" function was some sort of a no-no, but apparently, abusing the "reddit cares" messages isn't. Reddit is allowing men to troll women with these messages and it's sad. men are so PISSED OFF that women have standards,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 7 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?This is the trend I'm seeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:50 AM |
| 14 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I was also banned from “feminist” subreddits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women, would you or have you ever competed for a man?I’ve never competed for a man but I’ve had women throw themselves at my exes. I’ve seen this phenomenon you’re talking about but I think it has more to do with jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?I’m a published author. I’m a very good writer and I’m just being myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?I am a woman?? I was asked my opinion and I gave it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 110 | Why do males not accept it if their SO's want to start an only fans account? While it's acceptable for men to watch porn?Men are obsessed with porn. It would be interesting if women just stopped all sex work, including shooting porn/pics/etc. And a national sex strike to protest the cruel misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?What do I like about young guys? Solid, rock hard boners. And fucking hair. They have hair literally on their heads. Terms and conditions apply for that “hair” for men over 30. Their cocks are like pieces of metal, barely sheathed in a combination of skin and veins. Magnificent fucking cocks. Thick ones, too. It literally hurts so good when they shove it in. You gasp when he tries to shove it in. The English language has FAILED to provide me with words to describe what it feels like to have your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 368 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?It's at LEAST the standards. It's probably everything else, too. I have been BANNED from dating, relationship and ALLEGED "fEmInIsT" subreddits for even suggesting that women have EYES that SEE and that attractive males are hot. LITERAL bans. Men HATE being rejected for any reason, especially if that reason is their looks. Eww What do we even do with THAT? Besides being banned from subreddits?? Do men EVEN want to know what IS or ISNT attractive to women? Especially since they're allegedly t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 28 | If he lavishes you with gifts sometimes, and penny pinches the rest of the time – that is not generosity, that is manipulationThis is called “intermittent reward”. It’s a concept in psychology where you incentivize a behavior inconsistently which makes the subject try even harder to reach the goal or get the reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 0 | “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna get a sexbot!” is an empty threat just like “Oh yeah? Well I’m gonna fuck the quarterback!”Oh she’s fucking more than the quarterback. God. The average male is so clueless it’s almost comical. It’s at LEAST entertaining And he’s got a 6 pack, and he’s 6”4, and his penis is like metal, cleverly sheathed with skin, and veins and it throbs. It always throbs….. And when he cums in my pussy. I have to worry about pregnancy and “need” To get a plan B pill. I’ll start praying to one or more god(s) or fewer for my period to come. And it always comes late for some ASSHOLE reason….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated bestSo do it. I’m surprised PPD men think they have better options in non western countries where women have less/no human rights. Guess what happens when your entire livelihood depends on a man because you exist in a sharia law shithole as a woman? It’s literally the most important choice in your life. In many places, it’s the only choice that matters.. Women get even pickier. The problems men complain about in the west, are the hard, cold, harsh facts of the east. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:37 AM |
| 3 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?They’d also make jokes about small, furry assholes, who pee all over everything everywhere, literally all the time, being better company than them. And it’s supposed to be our problem somehow. This time, as usual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated bestAnd where would that be? Lol! LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL At first I was laughing at the audacity, but then the absurdity was funnier. And then the reality hit me and it managed to be even funnier. I …. This is it you guys. I. I think this might be the time for me to die laughing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?Don’t you talk about her that way! I DEMAND satisfaction! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 10:01 PM |
| -2 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?Bold of you to assume enough women exist or Care enough for “this” to apply. But….. sure. I’m gonna entertain it. I like hypotheticals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Loneliness is rising for WHOM? And why should that other gender give a fuck about it?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Chasing someone out your leagueWhy AGAIN, should this be a problem for women. JFC Like this should not be this hard for “”the rational sex””. To “”””figure out”””” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Chasing someone out your leagueAnd why would women even give a fuck about that, especially as a joke?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 09:05 AM |
| 127 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.She feels like she can’t even ditch him because of the kids. I wonder how many women would ditch the males they’re attached to, if kids weren’t involved? And how many subreddits would I be banned on for asking? And how many times will I be dragged on twitter for even bringing attention to this?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women who think their parents will invest more money in their future children are more likely to prefer men with masculine facesThe question nobody seems capable of answering is: “WHY SHOULD WOMEN CARE/GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THIS??” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?AGAIN. And you males need to focus because this is obviously hard. The only people who give a shit about other, different males, is other men on their keyboards, obsessed and offended about what those other men did with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Does someone being dismissive make you more interested in them?No. I like my ass kissed the way I prefer my ass kissed. And whichever one of them kisses my ass the fastest typically gets me. Like typically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?No but men insist on sht including the necessary words “not all men”. Men NEED this to exist and I wonder why.? After all, they claim to be more rational | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 01:10 AM |
| -1 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?Inb4 NOT ALL MEN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?Fragile egos? You’ve never seen a fragile ego like you’ve seen a man be rejected, by a woman who isn’t interested in him. You’ve also never seen a fragile ego like you’ve seen a man “discover” the shit she did with her ex, that she won’t do, with him. Are you guys kidding? Is this serious?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?What IS the problem with lying? Seems to me that the only people who would have a “problem” with lying aren’t being paid enough or at all to not give a shit about the lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?And what’s the problem with that??? And why should women care??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 04:54 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Not all men. NOT ALL MEN! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 04:12 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?And why is this a problem women definitely should care about, again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 03:50 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Why limit my options? Question for the men on this sub. Is it better to have one man, and one man only, (no side dudes) or is it better to have 11 men paying for your shit?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 03:27 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?My own profiles don’t even say that. Eww. The fuck?? Why do people assume women don’t want to fuck as well? Is it because this is news to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?No. You dump him before “dumping him”. By the time you send that breakup text, you’ve already lived with the idea of being single for a few weeks at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 03:00 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Why does everyone assume women give a fuck about LTRs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 02:49 PM |
| – | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?It would be very interesting if every single guy reading this comment took his sister’s, his girlfriend’s, his female cousins pics and set up dating app profiles as them. Men need to see what other options women have, with their own eyes. Reading about it on Reddit via my comment won’t help. They need to see it Yes it would be creepy, but it would humble them first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?And why should women give a shit about that, as the more valuable asset in a world of capitalism where markets “rule”.?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?The ones who give fat, balding, short men a chance. This SERIOUSLY isn’t hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 23 | Chasing someone out your leagueHaven’t you seen the trend around PPD? Whatever the relevant behaviors are, they’re only bad when women do them. So this is the relevant behavior this week, and it only sucks when women do it. Doesn’t suck when men are beauty-youth digging, it only sucks when women use their eyes to determine what is and isn’t ugly. Does it suck when men go after youth, something that can’t be controlled??? Sure. Does it suck when women go for height, something else that cannot be controlled ??? Absolutely not. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:58 PM |
| -5 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?Men treat unattractive women like they don’t matter. So why is the suffering of men special?? Men who are ugly also don’t matter. Below 6 feet?? I’m offended at the notion that a man DARES to exist who isn’t 6 feet tall. Mens insecurity isn’t special. Sit there and be as insecure as women are. Your suffering isn’t special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?Then it appears that we’ll have to agree to agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:31 PM |
| 28 | If you discovered your son was redpill/incell/mgtow how would you handle that.It would be my karma. I’ve shitted on so many men. This WOULD be my karma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?They do. They’re the ones who gave bald, ugly men a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notA “man” who hasn’t het learned his place “”yet”” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 07:58 AM |
| -1 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notIf you only knew what “average” women could pull based on their pics alone…. No. You know what??? Why don’t men just download pics of “average” women and set up dating profiles as those women. They’d start acting right. Washing dishes. Doing chores. Changing oil, sweeping, mopping, and cleaning the sink(s), acting right. Unplunging the sinks. Unclogging the toilets. All of it, in front of other men who have more money than you. And probably fatter cocks, too. That I definitely didn’t need an edi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:54 AM |
| -1 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notAnd what’s the problem with that??? If the sexual marketplace supports it, who are you, as noncapitalists (finally) to disagree with that. And why should capitalism not reign supreme this time around?? Everyone is all for capitalism until women start putting their uteruses on it. All of a sudden. People are offended like whiny liberals. Quit complaining.the market is in charge. Just as “god” “”intended”” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationI don’t care. There are SO MANY MEN. Like so many of them. It’s like even worse than online dating. There’s SO many men… like so many of them. I forgot my point. There’s too many men. One of them will make my point for me, privately, to win out against the other men. And he WILL win. Whatever the hell my point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketThere are so many men. Why are you special, as a man, who definitely is not one in like 7,000,000? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?You go ahead and do that. As if there isn’t an inside joke that exists among women with poor men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:53 AM |
| 5 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?Isn’t it funny what poor men concern themselves with? As if women aren’t avoiding them at all costs. As if they aren’t r/Selfawarewolves in the making…. Like they’re ALMOST there. It’s so close It’s almost cute. Like it’s at least funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?I’m not. Incels cropped my comments and they took off on twitter, offended that I’m not attracted to ugly guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?The only reason you’re even complaining to begin with is probably because you were born fat/short/ or bald. Your mother gave a short/bald man a chance and as a result you came out less than. Do you WANT more short, bald men to be born? Is that your goal? To have as many short, bald men born as possible??? Every single bald, short man wishes his mother didn’t settle. Every single bald man is seething with rage that his mother was the one who slept with the ugly man, who’s ugly genes were passed d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 6 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?You’re doing it now. So you know what? Fat, bald men are so sexy. Especially when they’re 5’4 or shorter. Oh god. So sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 01:20 AM |
| 33 | Theory: what benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?What benefit is there? Have you SEEN me get downvoted to ass hell for saying I prefer guys who are 6 feet tall?? Has ANYONE witnessed me get dragged on twitter for suggesting that I am not physically attracted to fat, bald, short men who are poor???. I can’t fap to THAT And where were YOU ALL, each time I got banned from a subreddit for suggesting that I have eyes, and those eyes need to be pleased with what they see in order for me to be naturally aroused. With my vagina Men want to be lied to.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure. Sure. Do post an update if you’re still alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re vaccinated? What a waste, and what a shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t give a fuck. Next year when your mother is asking for prayer warriors and begging for people to donate to your “gofundme”. I’m going to laugh as hard at your r/HermanCainAward just the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Would you be willing to date someone who would not kiss you or hold your hand in public, but was affectionate with their previous partners, even if you aren't that into PDA yourself.Yes? Why are men SO FUCKING OBSESSED WITH what women did for other men who came before them. I swear to god men are more obsessed with this than women are. Like WTF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re not understanding me. I WANT you to avoid getting the vaccine. Me and you are on the same page. You don’t want to get vaccinated and I don’t want you vaccinated. I’m dead serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t care enough to ignore any variables. The longer this pandemic rages on, the more money my businesses make. I literally don’t give a single fuck about the unvaccinated “people”. You came to the wrong person, place, and time for sympathy, empathy, or anything else related to those. I don’t give a shit. I’d push them off of a cliff If I could get away with it, but this is just as good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathread99% of COVID deaths are among the unvaccinated. I’m not sorry and I’m not gonna miss them. And I hope Omicron thins their ranks even more. I like that it’s a painful way to die. It hurts VERY Much to tap out choking on chunks of your own lungs, gasping for air, looking stupid. And almost ALL of them get creamated. An open casket isn’t sexy for a COVID victim. They die looking like shit https://www.npr.org/2021/07/16/1017002907/u-s-covid-deaths-are-rising-again-experts-call-it-a-pandemic-of-the-u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?The “men” on PPD insist that marriage and children is “a good deal for women”, but a “bad deal for men”. Yet your own sources describe men resulting to taking away women’s rights just to get women to be with them. Because if womens livelihoods didn’t depend on men, there wouldn’t be any other reason to have a man in your life. I mean if I had to choose between poverty, homelessness and deprivation…. Or to have a man. I guess that choice would be …. Umm. Clear? …….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | If you’ve done everything other than PiV, are you still a Virgin?No you haven’t. Since we’re wordsmithing, here…. Technically you haven’t lost your virginity unless you’ve had uncondomed sex where he was definitely not circumcised because that flap of skin counts. And I’ll see you bitches in r/KarmaCourt for challenging this 😑 I DEMAND you challenge this! I WANT you to challenge it! I DARE YALL TO CHALLENGE IT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketAnd why should women care about, and worry about this, again?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWorks for me, too. I regret NOTHING | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it were up to me, I’d send the unvaccinated to the same churches for “medical treatment”. After all, “Jesus was their immune system”. And “Jesus”’ can continue being their immune system when they’re gasping for air and choking on pieces of their own lungs. Keep that SAME energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree, 100%. Let the unvaccinated not vaccinate. They’re the ones dying. They’re the ones who are gonna be too dead to vote for conservatives. It won’t be me. And I won’t miss them. And I don’t give a shit. Let them die. Good riddance. The faster they tap out, the better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenAnd why should women care, again??? I missed it the “first”” time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 12:00 PM |
| 5 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketIdk. It seems like men are a lot more worried about women than, women are, about men…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:03 AM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to ask men or women to be honest with each other in the current dating marketLook. Just let us lie in peace. And if you’re the victim of lies “in peace”. Just sit there and BE lied to, in peace. Thank you very much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersHow many bodies? Like 270. How many am I comfortable with a partner having? Don’t give a shit, they just need to pass an STD test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenAnd why should women care about this, again??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 4 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Because PPD fails to understand the point. Men want women. Women could take it or leave it. We don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.And what’s the problem with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The push for feminism from beta men backfired.😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?And what if I WERE a bot? What’s wrong with THAT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?Bullshit. It’ll stay hidden for as long as I expend effort to hide it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?So if she’s not attracted to you “enough”, why would she care about you enough to miss YOU, specifically, when you’re gone?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?Interesting. A lot of men feel that waiting for sex is some sort of sin. Why, in your opinion, is “waiting for sex” “”good””? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 09:10 AM |
| 4 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?Haven’t you heard?? Anything mildly inconvenient to men is abuse. Horrible, torturing abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Uhh … don’t let it happen again. Good night 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Tell me more about what “happy independent women” are doing/not doing with their time. Surely YOU know more about this than I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?So there are no happy independent women on social media? Being happy and independent is exclusionary to social media apps like Reddit?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?And I should absolutely give a fuck about what men want. Oh yeah, men are so rare and hard to find. I MUST give a fuck about their opinions! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?And why should we care? That sounds like a problem for men?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:44 AM |
| -1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?They won’t and they aren’t. HVM will shit on LVM, WITH me. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Have you SEEN the average “male”??? Fat as fuck, bald to no end, broke beyond reason. Living with his parents and demanding that you go Dutch on shit. Shorter than my fuse 5”2 and complaining about “hEiGhT qUeEnS” Hasn’t showered in days and smells like expired ass. Smells like the back of someone’s earlobe who also hasn’t showered in days…. Spineless and demanding that you initiate. Eww I … I feel dirty just typing this out Are you kidding me? The average “male” is the anti-libido. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Allegedly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Because it's fun to shit on men. Schadenfreude exists and I enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?That's actually correct. But I'm here for a good time, not a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:35 AM |
| -1 | Detaching sex from love is the biggest reason high N count women are usually avoided for serious relationships.Why should we, as women, give a shit about this?? Seems like a man's problem, if you ask me,....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Actually I use it as a litmus test to weed men out. The ones who won't drop it are eliminated. I don't want to share it with them. I don't feel like it. Just like I don't feel like sharing the number of cavities I've had. I don't always want to share what vaccines I've had, either... Or the results of my cancer screenings.... I don't exactly share my pap smear results, either. Don't feel like it ..,.... Don't feel like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:26 AM |
| -2 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?If you say so. I'm sure you know more about me than I do. So mansplain to me more about myself. I'm dying to know what kind of person I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:24 AM |
| -2 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Being happy and unattached isn't some sort of freedom pass from having hobbies. I like reddit. I like reading about relationships and discussing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?No. It's my medical history. I also don't tell my partners how many cavities I've had..... There's no need to disclose my full medical history to anyone. It's my privacy and I get to decide what I do or don't do with my information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?You can’t win as a woman on PPD. Too picky? THE UNIVERSE IS OVER, EVERYONE PANIC! Not picky at all?? THE UNIVERSE IS OVER, EVERYONE PANC! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Women don’t want to sleep with men they aren’t physically attracted to. This concept is mind blowing to the men on this sub. It’s earth shattering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?So where are they? Where are all these women? The male to female ratio on dating apps indicates that men are more desperate…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 5 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?The men on this sub are obsessed with women downgrading in the looks department. They are OBSESSED with the idea that women look past looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:41 AM |
| -6 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?Why does everyone assume women want commitment??? The happiest demographic of people is single, childless women. Why compromise this?? Why would we want to downgrade?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?What’s wrong with exploring your sexuality as a woman? Why is it cool for men to explore their sexuality and it’s a sin for women to do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?What’s the problem with women enjoying their sexuality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?And what’s wrong with that?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?You can pull it off. A lot of redpilled men can’t believe they found a redpilled woman. It’s so easy to bait it out of them. Just start asking about Kevin Samuel’s or Tomassi. They can’t help themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?I never worry about my sexual history. I always lie to men. I tell them I’ve been engaged once and leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Are women really chasing after guys out of their league?What’s wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateNothings wrong with it. It just won’t be with me. A man should also understand when he’s ghosted for suggesting it. Smile and nod when it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:12 AM |
| 0 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Why should women provide uncompensated childcare??? The father is responsible for his children, too. If he’s not going to be physically around to do the work of fatherhood, then the least he can do is pay for the childcare he’s not providing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Where are YOUR sources, then?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?If it’s so easy, why aren’t men doing it? I’m afraid you’re also severely underestimating how much women do in the household….. Women STILL do the lion’s share of household chores and cooking: “Women in the United States spend two hours more each day cleaning, cooking, taking care of children and doing other unpaid work than men, according to a report by Oxfam and the Institute for Women's Policy Research.” Source: https://www.today.com/today/amp/tdna172272 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Sure. But a single woman is cooking and cleaning and paying bills for ONE. A woman who is in a relationship or married is typically cooking and cleaning up after herself, the man, and children. It’s at least triple the workload. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaTrue, given she DID sign a prenup that was negotiated with favorable terms for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaThe last bit isn’t guaranteed. But it is better to be left crying in a Mercedes, heart broken with a sizeable alimony and half of a huge house than to be left crying, in debt, with half of a McDonalds cookie that you went Dutch on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 49 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..Who then FAILED to defend her from the male trolls who dragged her in the comments for wearing a bonnet. I feel bad for his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 38 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 41 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..Yeah he’s the one who got caught cheating on his wife. What’s worse is that when he posted the “apology”, his wife was wearing a bonnet and MEN dragged her in the comments, blaming HER for her husbands infidelity. They kept comparing her to the woman he cheated with, implying what’s typically implied….. that she let herself go. It was disgusting to read. Men will jump through hoops to justify and defend another man’s cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 43 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..Sleep is restorative. Too many men bring nothing but stress and mediocrity to the table. Can you blame us for choosing beauty sleep over stress? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 88 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..Isn’t it funny how “too comfortable” is only a problem when women are “too comfortable“? After all men are too comfortable with mediocrity, poor hygiene, rape culture, misogyny and trash behaviors…. But women being “too comfortable” being alone is suddenly THE problem?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 40 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..Thank you for pointing this out. If women would rather SLEEP than date men, maybe the problem is the low quality men who can’t outcompete SLEEP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Edited to reflect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Men on PPD should be shitting on deadbeat dads 100 times the amount they do for single moms. The MEN are the ones who abandoned their children. The single moms should be praised for staying. ALL of PPDs rage, hatred, and vitriol towards single moms should be redirected to the deadbeat father who ISNT taking care of his kids. Why aren’t PPD men demonizing the fathers who abandoned their children and going after the mothers, who stayed?? Even WORSE. This subreddit tries to help the deadbeat father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaThen why take a risk like that?? Why even risk it as a woman. That lady from his post is probably DEVASTATED that she stayed while he was poor, probably paid for shit, probably helped him out ….. and what does he do when he’s built and established? Dump her and upgrade to the newer model. I can’t begin to tell you how common this is. SO MANY WOMEN reach out to me with this EXACT situation for “advice” as a strategy coach on FDS. Idk what to tell them at that point. Many of them have wasted decad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaWhich scenario do you see more of? Scenario 1. Men telling women to lower their standards or “settle” Or Scenario 2. Women telling men to lower their standards or “settle”. I’m gonna go ahead and place my bets on scenario #1. We don’t see many posts from women complaining about mEnS rIdIcULoUs sTaNdArDs. Men have already settled. The women they want, don’t want them back. They DEMAND these women lower their standards so the men can be settled for. A lot of women aren’t willing to do that. Their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaHypocrisy. Men are hypergamous too. But hypergamy is only a problem when women do it, right?? You mentioned in your own post that certain men are only with a girl because they’re building their career and wealth. As soon as he’s done “building”, he’s going to dump her and “monkey branch” onto a woman who never would have looked at him while he’s building. This is advice I give to women on FDS as a strategy coach. Do NOT settle for a man who’s “building”. Because once he’s done building, you risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDidn’t say “all women”. I said “most women” congratulations on your wife and sex life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost women are sexually attracted to traditional displays of masculinity. This involves the man initiating and pursuing. This is the equivalent of feminists telling you that you should be attracted to women with mustaches. This isn’t a traditional display of femininity, and most men won’t be sexually attracted to that. If a woman has to “initiate” with a guy, she’s not going to be sexually attracted to him because her “having to initiate” emasculates him, in her eyes. It’s a turn off for most wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe worst part is that a LOT of them sit back and whine when women don’t initiate. That’s the biggest turn off of all. I have to initiate?? No thanks, I’ll text someone else back who has balls and is manly enough to go get what he wants. Eww. I feel the libido escaping me as I type this. JFC, and then most of the men here are probably short, broke, bald, ugly, and fat, to boot. On TOP of the already emasculated personalities they don. What is there to be aroused by? Like seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe way men think on here is such a turn off. They come off as whiny, unmanly, effeminate, and just …. Unappealing. Just an all around turn-off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?Umm all of those women on my 600 lb life are married. You can be as fat phobic as you want, but even those women managed to find love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?You can bait it out of them by pretending to be redpilled yourself. I’ve in fact done this to sus out which men were hiding it or not. They can’t help it. They can’t resist. It’s all fun and games until I find out he actually IS redpilled and he gets ghosted and blocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?What’s lolcows? And I agree with the drama piece. Sometimes it’s fun to watch men rage-squirm because women don’t want to touch them. It’s funny. I’ll admit the schadenfreude feels good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?What’s wrong with being shallow? I don’t exactly see men jump for joy and aim for dating unattractive women, so why are women expected to date unattractive men??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?Exactly. I’ve learned to block men that know who Kevin Samuels is. I also block men who use his words “wOmEn hAtE acCoUnTaBiLiTy” and “yOu hAvE tHe iLLuSiOn oF tImE” or “wHaT dO yOu hAvE tO bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe”? When we all know that men don’t give a shit about anything else except for looks in a woman. They’ve admitted it on this sub. That our careers and accomplishments don’t matter to them. JUST LOOKS. So that’s what we being to the table our looks and our existence I wouldn’t know to block th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?No. We need to let them. Their responses to these perceived “tests” will help women identify and weed them out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?Okay. “Dread”. I learned to spot when a man is being hot/cold, doing the dread game, or trying to apply the psychology of intermittent rewards to manipulate me and my feelings for him. I’ve also learned a lot about narcissism (flying Monkeys, the grey rock method). I now purposefully shit test men to see how they deal with frustrations early on so I can assess whether a ghosting is in order. I’ve swerved so many men with red flags. I’ve learned to spot behaviors that indicate he may have control… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?I would rather read cognitive behavioral therapy books over Beowulf any day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?I got better at spotting (and eliminating) men who neg from my life. I learned to spot various forms of weaponized incompetence and I learned how to avoid men who post certain RP things/memes on social media apps. I’ve blocked so many men who flew under the radar because of what I learned on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?This is exactly my reason. I need to know how to spot RP behaviors IRL. Keywords, actions, tendencies, how they think, speak, act. I need to be able to eliminate them from my life as fast as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:56 AM |
| 4 | Women who follow male red pill content and are interested in it - why?Yeah. I watch it because I need to be able to spot and eliminate these men from my life as fast as possible and I can’t do that if I don’t have a clue how they operate, how they are, what their behaviors are like. So unfortunately…. Here I am lurking on PPD again…. I need to know how they think, operate, and carry themselves. The language they use, key words, etc. It’s been successful so far. I haven’t matched with a redpilled guy in 3 months and counting. Here’s hoping I can continue to vet the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Why does TRP shit on single mothers? Why criticize the parent who STAYED? ABSENT FATHERS are responsible for fatherless children, NOT single mothers. God if single moms were as vindictive as y’all. They would have abandoned those kids, too. Is that how you avoid accountability?? You’ve gotta be the parent that LEAVES?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?So why are the incels NOT drowning in sex and pussy, then? They’re the most misogynistic pieces of shit that ever got yeeted out of someone’s unfortunate vagina. Their misogyny and hatred towards women should make them hot shit, right? Why are women NOT lining up to fuck them, as u/-Giga- mentioned?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Based and true and 100% nailed it on the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.“hEdOnIsM iSnT tHe wAy” Back ye prudes! BACK I say! You can pry the hedonism out of my cold, perverted, immodest, offensive, glitter-riddled, cold hands! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 0 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.There’s plenty of intelligent men who have high IQs AND who have charisma, charm, and a high emotional intelligence level. Most CEOs are like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 3 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Same. I used to fuck fat men when I was younger and BARF, never again. I’d rather die single. Thank god I don’t have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 0 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.How are women “the problem“? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.According to PPD, women are more desperate to meet men than vice versa. So where are all of these women? Why aren’t we seeing women outnumber men on the apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.No it has more to do with their lack of social experience, lack of charisma, and an inadequate level of emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.They’re too cheap for prostitutes. A prostitute requires upfront payment. These “men” think that splitting a cookie from McDonalds is a “date”, and they STILL would try and go dutch on that cookie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 10 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.Sucks more for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.My god. If I had Reddit gold to award, you’d have it. Excellent data sources and providing sources that aren’t the standard, boilerplate, PPD sanctioned “trust me bro” that these men love to throw around these parts…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.So WHERE are these women? Why is the male to female ratio on dating apps like 3-50 males for every 1 woman?? Shouldn’t it be the other way around?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.Those men want a Beyoncé to break into their house, and initiate contact with them, and carry the conversation on a silver platter for them. Oh and they want her to pay for ALL OF IT. The burglar’s tools she used to break into the house? On her credit card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 4 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Exactly. And I’d get downvoted to hell for letting you guys know I’m not attracted to, or sleep with, fat, bald guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.Well according to PPD, wait until you’re 40. After all, men get hotter with age, right? You haven’t aged into your peak yet. According to PPD, childless 20 year old women are totally into older 40+ year old men, so maybe you’re too young and need to wait a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.This is something I’m struggling to find numbers for. What is the TRUE male to female ratio on dating apps AS OF November 2021? This does NOT include the fake bots that dating apps commission to inflate the numbers of REAL women on the apps vs REAL men on the app I keep running into obscured data, data behind paywalls, biased information with omissions and cope/lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.This is a VERY interesting read. Thank you for sharing this compelling analysis of the data. This last bit cited below disputes the overwhelming incel narrative. Women aren’t sleeping around in their youth and settling down when they’re older because of “the CC”. It’s because they’re spending their youth in school, delaying marriage, living with parents or all of the above trying to get their careers launched. “the primary cause of the rise in sexlessness is simply the increasing delay of marria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A lot of women have low standards, men purposely go for the small percentage of women who have high standards.These men BARELY shower, are obese as fuck, can’t take a single good photo, are barely employed (if at all), will text women low effort shit like “wyd”….. and they sit back and complain when a woman doesn’t want to date that. Even WORSE, they sit back and whine that women aren’t initiating…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 07:19 PM |
| 9 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.Umm it is WOMEN who’s preferences are downvoted and removed from posts. I’ve had my own comments downvoted to hell for saying I prefer tall, hot, fit, successful men with full heads of hair. The men on this subreddit get to shit on “average” women, older women and say shit like “nO fAt cHiCkS” or “nO SiNgLe mOms” with upvotes. It’s women’s preferences that are demonized, not men’s. I’ve been dragged on Reddit and on twitter because I refuse to date fat, balding, broke, short men, and because I r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?You can always go hide a hooker. Hookers have no problems providing companionship, emotional support and the girlfriend experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:23 AM |
| -1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Yes. PPD folks have clearly not heard of the r/RegretFulParents subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:52 AM |
| -1 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Obviously you’ve never lurked on r/RegretFulParents That subreddit is full of child free people and those who “were on the fence” and had children but now regret it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 4 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Actually her sexual needs can be met with a few taps on a dating app, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreYou’re right. I don’t give a shit about men. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Have women only had true sexual selection since the 20th century?Umm it would take generations to see the changes. You and I won’t live to see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Have women only had true sexual selection since the 20th century?Lol 😘😘😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 8 | Have women only had true sexual selection since the 20th century?Yes. It’s in our best interest to let it play it’s course. We shouldn’t be helping men that should never have been born (had there been legitimate natural sexual selection) continue to poison the gene pool with their short, unattractive, bald genes. That’s just my personal opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreAccording to him, it’s impossible to find a woman who is childless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:09 PM |
| 151 | Misogyny is normalised because it only effects womenMisogyny is completely normalized because men don’t take the oppression of women as seriously as the oppression of other, marginalized men. It doesn’t help that they have strong pickme Allies who come to the table with their patriarchal bargaining and internalized misogyny, ready to betray their fellow sisters for brownie points from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 01:06 AM |
| 30 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!Sooooo…. He’s homeless and looking down on women who aren’t homeless?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreI’ll pass on the word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreLansing, Michigan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W what do you think of men sarging?I would feel annoyed if a guy approached me in public like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 14 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreI predicted this at the start of the pandemic. That the male to female ratio on dating apps would only get worse with time, such that there would be more women on the apps in 2020, than in 2021, and more women in 2021 than 2022, and so on. I also predicted that the pandemic and lockdowns would exacerbate this effect because traditional places where men used to be able to meet women (physically, in school/college buildings, at church, bars, gyms, activities, physical workplace buildings) would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Oh YEAH! We see SOOO many 71 year old men dating 20 year olds. It’s so common. Sooo many 20 something women shacked up with mid-30s and mid-50s men. Oh god it’s so common you guys…. I’m sure of it. With respect to the myth that men can reproduce at any age….. “Studies demonstrate that, even when controlling for the age of their partners (since older men tend to have older female partners), increasing male age is associated with male fertility decline, defined as increased time to pregnancy and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 5 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?And they can consult r/TinderData for info on how that’s going to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 10 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?According to PPD, women are more desperate for relationships than men are, yet even on the relationship-focused apps, men outnumber women 3 to 1, up to 50 to 1 in some apps. Why aren’t the numbers reflecting PPD’s viewpoint that women are so desperate for relationships with men, and men aren’t interested in them? Look at r/TinderData. Look at the data submitted by men vs women. It’s telling the same story. Men struggling to get dates/matches/relationships, and women aren’t. If women were so desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?Okay I’m not touching that. I don’t even have my laptop on me TO properly address this. You go ahead and live your life! Good luck ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 0 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Those women are either inexperienced at relationships, or they are pickme women. FDS is clear that if a man isn’t interested in a commitment, she should leave. If she’s not leaving, then idk what to tell you or her. Enjoy the heartbreak?? Enjoy the ride?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?So….. “trust me bro” Gotcha 👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 04:29 PM |
| 4 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?So your source is “trust me bro”?? “Sure”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 04:23 PM |
| -3 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?I already have vibrators. Vibrates don’t pay for my cars. Men do. Vibrators don’t buy me an iPhone 13 pro max… men do. Vibrators don’t fly me out to other states. Men do. Oh and I still use vibrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 04:04 PM |
| -2 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Because LVM lie, manipulate, cheat, and try to weasel their way into easy, fast, cheap/free sex with women they have no intention of marrying. They’ll lie, tell these women what they want to hear, and in some cases propose, only to leave her at the altar. At that point, he was able to “milk” her for free, easy sex for a number of years, and in some cases, decades. Children are usually born during this long period of deception…. And she’s forever stuck with him as a “baby daddy”. I wish men who d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:59 PM |
| -1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Above average men usually end up married. That’s why they’re HVM. The ones who want to “spin plates” and engage in serial monogamy are LVM masquerading as HVM. We label and identify them on FDS. They’re easy to spot, and some of the more sophisticated ones are able to string women (usually inexperienced women or Pickmes) along for a little bit before the woman catches onto what they’re doing. LVM who masquerade as HVM are annoying AF. The fastest way to screen them out is to require them to pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Same. I get wined and dined, spoiled and treated like a goddess, and then I don’t have to do any emotional labor or deal with his bullshit. None of that “for sickness”, “for poorer”, or “for worse”. None of that “compromise”. And I STILL get to see other men, who ALSO spoil me. Men come to me rich, hot, healthy, and on their best behavior. As soon as any of that changes, I don’t know him/them anymore. He’s out, and the next one is in. NEXT! Goodbye forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 13 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?AGAIN. Men in relationships have more sex than single men on the apps hoping to get lucky. Men who want regular sex should be looking for relationships because that’s the fastest way for them to get regular, high quality sex. Feel free to waste your time and money as a single man trying to get hookups off the apps, though. I won’t stop you. Nobody’s going to stop you. But do check out the r/TinderData subreddit to see what men who are on the apps looking to get lucky face. Look at the numbers fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Show me the research which backs that up. What bodies of research are you looking at, which demonstrate that “above average men” are getting laid more than twice weekly (the standard for men in relationships/married men)? Show me the links | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:14 PM |
| 7 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Noted. I was speaking generally to the men on this subreddit. I edited my words to reflect that. Congratulations on finding the love of your life ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 14 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?These men are free to waste their time trying to smash as single men. Men are welcome to waste as much of their time as they’re willing to part with. Their money, too. Feel free dudes. Go right ahead. I won’t stop them. But the research is clear. Married men and men who are in relationships are having more sex, more regular sex, and higher quality sex than single men hoping to get lucky on tinder. Source: ( https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/men-and-marriage-research-brief.pdf ) This is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 9 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Yes. And men who are in relationships “smash” more than single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:50 PM |
| 27 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?If men were the gatekeepers of relationships, we wouldn’t see the staggering 3-50 males per 1 female ratio on dating apps. Where are all the women who want these relationships with men? Where are all the good women? I get that a lot of men are on the apps looking for sex, and let’s face it. Married men and Men who are in relationships are having more sex than single men. So … if women are gatekeepers of sex, and a relationship is required for a man to have regular sex…. Then aren’t women ALSO ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?Your life is too short to waste your time in a relationship where you're being cheated on. Now, if you WANT to be cheated on... Knock yourself out. If that's how YOU want to live out your short life, you go ahead, I won't stop you. For most women, being cheated on is a bad time. Most women don't want to spend their short lives being miserable in a relationship where she's paying for everything and STILL being cheated on. IMHO, It's better to take your time to properly vet men and to screen out u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:26 PM |
| 31 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?Yep. Gold digging is necessary. If you’re not with a man making more than you, you’re signing up for a life of being cheated on. Why put yourself through this, as a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Men still don't know how women decide their mate.This is a decent list. Well done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 03:07 PM |
| -2 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I have it now. 9 boyfriends with 12 more men “on the bench” waiting for one of the 9 to fuck it up. ALL of them fit the bill…… Good luck to you? I wouldn’t want to be a man in THIS dating market in 2021, for sure. Enjoy the bots, though…. I hear they’re pleasant to text with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk why they think the “you’ll end up alone with cats” argument is some sort of flex. If a CAT is better company than you, YOU are the problem. A small, furry asshole that knocks over shit and pees everywhere is better company than men?? That’s …. Not a good look for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen don’t shoot your shot in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo don’t shoot your shot in public, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:42 AM |
| 5 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?It’s only “bullcrap” to those “men” who don’t fit the bill. Men who fit this bill are out there married or in LTRs. Inadequate men, NEETs, LVM, and lackluster “men” are going to have a problem with this list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?Link to the post? Show me the evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 11 | What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings?I’m an FDS strategy coach, and the only reason men hate FDS is because we put names to the bullshit tactics they try on women. We don’t let them get away with SHIT. We call them out on their bullshit and let women know when their time is being wasted by fuckboys. Fuckboys hate it when you make it difficult for them to get laid. They’d rather be able to scam, lie, and deceive their way into your pants. We also label and identify “male authored dating advice” that’s aimed at women and doesn’t have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Dating in the workplaceI’ve already built and raised my family. I’m not interested in having more children. I’m also not interested in being with just one man or with entertaining monogamy. I’m done with it. I’m gonna go ahead and do what’s best for me, not what was best for millions of other people who came before me and who exist now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Dating in the workplaceNo. I’m ethically nonmomogamous and happy with my situation. My partners are also happy with the situation. Me preferring non monogamy doesn’t make me “unhealthy”, either. Monogamy isn’t for me. Nothings wrong or “unhealthy” about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Dating in the workplaceI’d never date a coworker, friend, family friend, someone from my church, grad school program, business clients, or anyone who I can’t end things with and just disappear from their life. I only date strangers so I can disappear at the first red flag and there would be no consequences for my personal, professional, or business life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically?I screw my FWBs with passion. When I masturbate, I actively fantasize about them. I’ve dated men who I wasn’t physically attracted to, when I was younger and the sex was …. Awkward for me, but he loved it. I know how to fake it, and back then, I was young and thought I “had to give him a chance because he’s a “”good man””” That man wanted to move fast and was already talking about marriage and kids in the first 3 months of dating. I did not enjoy that sex as much as the sex I crave with my FWBs.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 0 | What will children of the ones currently posting thirst traps/racy tik tok videos think when they stumble across their parents' profiles?I mean my kids never found the nudes I sent on my MySpace, or my AOL chat room sexting and nudes. So…. By the time they’re “of age” everyone would have moved on to different apps. The internet is a huge place and it’s getting bigger. It’ll be hard to find someone’s videos 8 years from now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I never said I was better. I was pointing out this persistent double standard where men get to be shallow pigs and degrade women, and nobody bats an eye, but when I'm a shallow pig, it's a problem? ...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:49 AM |
| 7 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Having standards for basic decency is not ugly. Having a standard for physical attractiveness in a partner isn't evil. Men on this sub will degrade older, overweight and "average" women, but it's THE END OF THE UNIVERSE AS WE KNOW IT if women have physical attractiveness standards and treatment standards?? ...... "Sure". And they were fat and ugly. I gave them a chance anyway and their personalities changed after I gave them a chance. So I left. These are my experiences with ugly men. It was my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:39 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?This was back when I was young. I'm 26 now and no longer dealing with the bullshit anymore. I gave ugly guys a chance back when I was 14-15 because I had low self esteem and bought into the bullshit that I had to give ugly guys a chance because tHeY tReAT yOu bEtTeR. I didn't expect them to treat me WORSE than hot guys. I expected decency from them but they were ugly on the inside and hideous on the outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:21 AM |
| 7 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?No, they were physically unattractive and I gave them a chance because I liked their personalities. Their personalities changed after we got together and they both began acting like fuckboys.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:51 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Learned that lesson the hard way. Never dating an ugly guy again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:46 AM |
| 7 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I assumed that ugly men would treat me better than hot guys. The treatment has been the same at best and just absolutely worse in most cases. Of the 2 ugly guys I dated, they treated me worse than the at least 20 hot guys I've dated. And they act like fuckboys too. Ugly men act like fuckboys too. It's not true that there's ugly guys waiting to treat you better than hot guys. The treatment is the same or worse. They're just saying that so you give them a chance, and when they have that chance the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Has the pandemic changed everything for dating where you live?I predicted a long time ago that online dating apps were going to take over the dating world and become the primary way folks meet their significant other. I also, successfully predicted that with each successive year, the male to female ratio would get worse. There will be less women today on the apps than a year from now, and so on, and so forth. I haven’t been wrong yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Purple pill debate (this subreddit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Does "hookup culture" benefit men more?it benefits men more. Women are more likely to enjoy sex in relationships, where she has time to teach her partner what to do /not do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?Did she give you her IG, or did you “go looking for it”? | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Majority of men don't show up for child support hearings.Well these men fathered children and they are responsible for the children they fathered. Child support is necessary. Children are expensive. There’s daycare costs, they get sick a lot and those medical bills pile up. They grow up fast and are clumsy. They break shit that needs to be fixed. They also eat a LOT you’re ALWAYS buying school supplies and then they’re always outgrowing their clothes, gaining and losing weight. You can’t go more than 2 months without spending money on clothes. The men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?and how is that a problem for women, and why is it their responsibility to deal with the emotional labor necessary to process that? It seems to me, that the person who's freaking out about the situation is responsible for their own emotions/thoughts. THOSE people should look at the back of their insurance card(s) and call the mental health hotline, and pay for therapy. This seems like a problem that's between THOSE people, and therapists, NOT women. (here we go AGAIN, as a woman doing free e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?And what is the problem with that? Attraction cannot be negotiated. It either DOES or doesn’t exist. What’s wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?be specific. Name 5 ways that happens to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?i believe the reason why it's shamed is that 30+-year-old women can't compete with hot women in their 20s for the men they want. We don't give a shit. By the time a woman is 35 and "pOsT wALL", she has been so over-approached by men, so bombarded with dick pics, SO OVER pursued by SO many men, so fucking pestered by men, so smothered and over touched.... she's SICK of it. We've had our fill. it feels like a huge meal that you've eaten, and your belly is STUFFED, but other people keep trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why are marriages and relationships important to you?They aren’t. The truth is that you don’t have to want or need a relationship to get sex. Go see a hooker. But you won't. You feel entitled to a woman “with low n count” and the nature of women with Low N counts is that they require a commitment, many of them require a ring. A bunch of them are, naturally low libido, and a lot of them are asexual. This is the reality of these types of women. It’s not bad or evil. Respect. You’re expecting and feel entitled to a sex on demand situation with a ✨pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?An ideal scenario? I would have to be in the mood to be pursued. If I’m not in that specific mood, then nothing men can do will work. No it doesn’t matter how hot or rich he is. If I wake up on the wrong side of the bed and want to be left alone, no man can override that. Having said this. When I AM in the mood, I want it to be sweet. Walk up to me and give me a flower. But make it brief. Don’t pester or pressure me for my number. Don’t ask me to do shit. Ask for my social media and then slide i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?No. According to PPD, men gEt hOtTeR wItH aGe. So perhaps these men should ✨wait until they’re 64. When their noorwood 5 advances to Norwood ∞ and bitches need to google what that means. And when they do “google it” it will totally turn their vaginas on in a way that’s obviously authentic and doesn’t require faking, or lube. Oh yeah man. As a matter of fact, let me go fap right quick, to a balding 61 year old and definitely not a 22 year old personal trainer. Because my vagina needs help right n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”The real answer is that men will casually tiptoe around the fact that they care about NOTHING else but looks in a woman. A man knows within 5, sometimes 10 minutes (not years) when he’s laid his eyes on his wife. All that is required for women is for her to look sufficiently good enough for a man to pursue her. But men like to live in la la fantasy ✨penis land✨ and want to act (or lie to other women) about “having to wOrK fOr hIs aTtEnTiOn, hAvInG tO bRiNg sOmEtHiNg tO tHe tabLe”. When ALL that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?Then remind me why HER penis should be the center of my universe?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?“There are no good results being produced here”. “Good” results for who, exactly? And why does it matter. And remind us again why your penis should be the center of our universe,again??? And mansplain for us again (some more) why we definitely need to give a shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Polite mainstream society wants to liberate women and imprison men, hence its wholly disparate reactions to women casting off obligations to go "find themselves" (teehee) v. men doing so.Men here act like women care SO MUCH about what a man wants to do with his penis, why it’s ✨so important✨ to give a shit about what a ✨✨man✨✨ does with his penis.✨✨. Why it is of UTMOST DIRE, unwavering, urgent importance that women immediately notice and give a fuck about him wanting to stick it in youthful girls, and why we should all drop everything and immediately cater to that. And definitely care about it, too 😬. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 11 | Polite mainstream society wants to liberate women and imprison men, hence its wholly disparate reactions to women casting off obligations to go "find themselves" (teehee) v. men doing so.Another post about why ✨IT IS THE END OF THE FUCKING KNOWN AND UNKNOWN UNIVERSE(S) when women disregard a man’s penis as the intended center of one (or more, or fewer) universes. At ✨least✨ this was quasi original and 8% funny. “Sure” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderIt would be ✨fucking perfect✨ (for “”men””)if women were as stupid as the red pill thought we are. And don’t get me wrong. Redpilled women, pickme bitches. These are the pawns. They are, in fact, the dumbest, stupidest bitches, easiest to manipulate bitches and they deserve it.. Jesus Christ. They’re technically ✨begging for it✨. In fact. I don’t feel bad about snitching on them. They can BARELY read. Redpilled women are the easiest women to pump and dump. And they act like cunts doing it. And t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 5 | Can’t older women just date older men?Actually. The best treatment of my life has come from men 3-17 years younger than me. A man 5 years younger. I can expect him to kiss my ass correctly. And he’ll eat my pussy, pay for my hair, text me “good morning beautiful” and act “right.” Do what you bitches will with ✨this✨ information. I can expect an older man to ask me to pay for shit. A younger man WILL be able to get (and sustain a ✨real boner✨,) but he will also try to pay for shit because he feels insecure about your suspected older … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?Imagine considering RPW as any form of success. I understand that ✨some✨ women aspire to be “that”. But to unironically and unsarcastically consider “that” as “success” vs the desperate and RIDICULOUS cope it actually is…… and to know that some bitches ARE in fact stupid enough to believe it. Some bitches REALLY are that dumb. It’s funny. I AM at least entertained. For now…. Sure. Proceed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?And what is the problem with those “truths”?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.Women aren’t attracted to ✨ASSHOLES✨ This information is ✨so new to me✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:57 AM |
| 7 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".This isn’t the flex you think it is. Technically for your argument to “hold up”, you must admit that a great majority of men are, in fact, worthless and a complete waste of existence. Therefore your “definition” of “average” needs to be adjusted to account for this entire sector of men who are NEETs, worthless by every possible measure imaginable and complete, utter failures. They are NOT average. They’re significantly below average, by an OFFENSIVE mile, and feel entitled to an “average girl” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 36 | Society doesn't need more women as CEOs, politicians, and in positions of power over othersAnother post about why women should center their life around a man’s penis and not her career or herself or other shit. This is ✨so original✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?No. If I can dish it, I can take it. My partner can leave me tomorrow because I gained weight, lost my job, grew a mustache, or failed to smell like strawberries. I can take 100% of everything I dish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Yes. I do not engage in “monogamy”. All of my love is conditioned. I’m not here for a long time. ONLY a good time. The moment a “good time ends”. I ghost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Yes. I’ve in fact left an ex because he developed erectile dysfunction after he turned 51. Sexual incompatibility is a dealbreaker for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?My ex, 2 exes ago (NOBODY JUDGE RIGHT QUICK 😑) was 17 years older than me. He was boring. He had erectile dysfunction and then he wanted to try all the shit he saw in porn but then made me feel like a hooker for wanting to fuck in a car, in the woods. This one time, I walked into a Victoria’s Secret and purchased a jewel encrusted set of lingerie and he made me feel like a “madam” For wearing that. I’m sexy. I’m hot. I used to model in my younger years. I don’t have abs anymore but my stomach is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?Depends. Am I attracted to him? If NO, then he’s going to waste his time. If YES, he will also waste his time but at least I’m going to pretend to entertain him for a little. By the way. Women know what you’re doing. We can sniff it 10 miles away. We know when a guy’s lurking around, waiting to fuck us. Y’all aren’t as slick as the internet pretends you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:44 AM |
| -3 | Q4all: why did you break up with your ex-partners?My most recent ex? Had erectile dysfunction and I just couldn’t get past it. It was a dealbreaker for me. He turned 51 and his boner was 60% of what it used to be. He went to doctors and everything. I just couldn’t do it. My ex before him? Lost his job. He was a computer programmer and was making like $200k per year. Lost his job. The ex before him? He asked me to pay for a lunch date. That was the last time he saw me. The ex before him? I just lost feelings and interest in him. He bored me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 9 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I am SO PROUD that FDS is popular enough for this post to be relevant! You guys! My heart is so full of happiness and joy. When I first found this sub, it had like 4,300 members and now it’s so huge and popular!!!! I am so happy you guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:42 AM |
| 2 | How many young women would take an interest in an older guy assuming he’s rich and reasonably good looking?Good bot. Very good bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | How many young women would take an interest in an older guy assuming he’s rich and reasonably good looking?When I was 22… a bunch of guys were in my DMs but I was already engaged so…… My fiancé at the time was my age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Dude. They all will marry FDS women. Redpilled women are the “forever girlfriends”. They are the ones who think he needs 8 years “to know for sure he wants to marry her”. An FDS woman knows that a man realizes that he will (or won’t) marry you within the first 5 minutes of meeting you. Not the first 5 years, the first 5 minutes 😬 A man KNOWS when he’s met his wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 0 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?I’ll give you an example. I dated this “traditional” military “family man” who grew up in the church. One day, I purchased a new car, and suggested that we “Christen it”. He refused to FUCK IN A CAR. I may be “HEDONISMBOT” but Jesus Christ. Fucking in a tinted windows car AT NIGHT is pretty tame for me. Well he got offended and then became OBSESSED with the idea that “who did you fuck in a car for you to be asking me that???”. I was never able to live that down. Obviously it was a new car. It wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been in love before?Unfortunately. 0/10 would not recommend (again) I’d rather date someone for business reasons than “for love”. What made me end up in this sub? You ever experienced a relationship SO HORRIBLE, you turn into an ENTIRE FDS dating strategy coach from all the psychology and family science and other shit you read? Because it’s what happened to me. That relationship was so god awful and completely worthless and just horrible….. and the sex wasn’t even that great. Jesus Christ the sex was so boring and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?Absolutely. Now if you’ll excuse me. I have to go put batteries in things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 26 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?I would never ever date a redpilled guy, ever. I don’t date rigid, inflexible guys. This includes most religious men and all redpilled men. Partly because they are almost always sexually boring to me. If I want to spontaneously fuck in the woods, I can expect them to try and talk me out of it, slut shame me for it, or have so much sexual dysfunction that it ruins the experience and isn’t even worth bringing up to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:38 AM |
| 8 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?You should see how they bitch and whine about “tHe tRuE nAtUrE oF wOmEn”. It’s exhausting It’s obvious they don’t go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Okay what the FUCK. That’s one redpilled guy who’s basically an incel. He’s gone off the rails | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?Thank you ☺️❤️🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?I view it like a red flag and avoid men with redpilled thinking like several, if not all plagues. Unfortunately, to know and understand how redpilled men think, I gotta lurk in spaces like this one and read their ugly words for myself. Sigh…. I feel like redpilled men are brainwashed religious quacks who want to take us back to a 7th century theocracy where women had no rights, choices, or protections. I feel like they’re getting bolder and angrier, and many of them go out and vote for idiots li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?~also sincerely…. Another woman who became a zombie on this very hill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Women - at what point in life did you have the most sex?I was having the most sex in my late teens and early 20s. But I was in relationship after relationship with no breaks in between. All of the sex I had before the age of 25 was relationship sex. I had the most partners in my 30s but I only wanted hookups and not relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 6 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?No. The only people who give a shit about this are the incels. Your average woman doesn’t remember how many IG followers she has…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?The men on PPD have the worst case of schizo I’ve ever seen. Apparently we are supposed to be fucking men within the first 15 seconds of laying our eyes on them? But then also, we are supposed to avoid being sluts? So fuck him after 15 seconds of meeting him but be sure not to look sluttish as we act like whores, but ONLY act like whores for that one specific man?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?What are we “forgetting” about alcohol, again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Same. I have no will power or ability to restrain myself. If I’m horny, I’m jumping someone’s bones 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:03 AM |
| 6 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?One man isn’t entitled to what another man is getting. If I slept with one guy within an hour of meeting him and made a different man wait 6 months…those were choices I made for different reasons. One man isn’t entitled to what another man is getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:10 PM |
| – | Q4W: have potential partners/partners asked for your body count?Yes and no. I’ve ghosted the ones who asked and the ones who didn’t ask, I’ve kept them around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo this is a real thing. Pickme bitches and men engage in misogyny. I’ve seen it. I’ve had it happen to me It’s real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:55 AM |
| 12 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?Solid, golden point. PPD men have a “Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t.” Attitude towards women here. There’s no winning. Just getting downvoted and insulted by quasi-incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.I can tell at this point. I can eyeball when a man is below 6’1 because his torso and leg are differently proportioned. 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:54 AM |
| 145 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?That they don’t give a fuck. They’ll be cruel and evil and fucked up. And that they’ll get away with it more often than not. They’ll use women, abuse them, derail, sabotage, and destroy a woman’s life with callous disregard for her health, safety, wellbeing, just to get their dicks wet. They are willing to abandon their family, their children, their careers, all for a 10 minute blowjob or to get their dicks wet with a new woman. That they will lie, cheat, steal, commit violent domestic abuse/rap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.Women can’t control their age. Yet men will boldly declare that they prefer youthful women, and cry when women prefer an unchangeable height preference for taller men…. But it’s all good when guys prefer youthful women but it’s the end of the universe as we know it if women prefer tall guys. How about we let both sexes prefer the changeable and unchangeable qualities in the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:19 PM |
| 10 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.It’s actually women who are attacked for having physical preferences in men. If I posted a comment to this thread indicating that I prefer men who are 6’2 or taller, who aren’t bald or balding, and who are fit/ripped/jacked…. I’d be downvoted to hell and receive hate mail. But men are allowed to say shit like “nO fAt cHicKs” and the other men will cheer them on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?The guy should tell the woman that he has no intention to marry up front so she doesn’t waste her time waiting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think a sexually conservative/prudish society will reduce or only intesify sexual competition even more? Why or why not?Thousands …. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for my sister!I’m hoping that you lovely ladies will give me some good things that I could say to her to change her mind. I want the best for her in future relationships!! It doesn't matter how well intentioned or pure your motives are. This is going to sound messed up, but you won't be able to change her mind. Her life is her's to live, and she is entitled to her own choices AND her own mistakes. she's going to move in with him. There's not much you can do to change her mind or dissuade her from it. All yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys think a sexually conservative/prudish society will reduce or only intesify sexual competition even more? Why or why not?Most don’t, and lots of wives take active countermeasures to deter that. I’ve seen Muslim women grow mustaches, not brush their hair or teeth for days and go weeks without bathing. I’ve seen them wear the same underwear for 4 days in a row and cultivate a stench that would drive their husbands sex drive to the floor. It’s genius, really They’ve told me that they do this to keep their husbands sex drive low and to keep themselves safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 31 | GASLIGHTING: Which tips/tricks did you teach yourself to combat (self-)gaslighting?what helped you stay firm in maintaining that confidence in your own reality, in the accuracy of your perception? It was several books which I recommend. Lundy Bancroft's "Why does he do that" as well as the Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT) books that Dr. David Burns has written (Read ALL of them.) Essentially to combat the psychological after-effects of gaslighting (self-doubting, "mis-remembering", doubt in your own memories and things you saw and heard with your own eyes and own ears). … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.Or that she and her Pickme office squad castigated other women who quit the company when it turned out the founding boss was a serial rapist? I think mean is relative. This is an appropriate response to the SERIAL RAPIST. Why criticize the women in the office and gloss over THE FUCKING RAPIST IN THE ROOM? harsh words are appropriate. There's a special place in hell for women who don't support other women. Harsh words are the least you can offer for their "crimes against women". The punishment … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.you are welcome. Feel free to use and re-use these words. I want this message to spread and I do not like to hoard credit. The information I've learned came from other, more experienced women than me. I channel THEM when I give out advice so feel free to pass it along, as long as it helps other women :) good luck with your situation, for what it's worth - I hope it gets better <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think a sexually conservative/prudish society will reduce or only intesify sexual competition even more? Why or why not?I moved the reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys think a sexually conservative/prudish society will reduce or only intesify sexual competition even more? Why or why not?Why not examine a country where this is happening today. I bet you most of these incels wouldn’t last a year in a sharia law shithole. I’ve lived in Saudi Arabia for a year for one of my defense contracts. There’s no premarital sex. Ever. Theres also no dating. At all. So almost all men and women are virgins until marriage. The internet is also heavily censored so good luck accessing porn without minor hacking skills. There’s also 137 men for every 100 women. Competition for wives is fierce. Bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 125 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightI propose a thought experiment. Go on a dating app and set the preferences filters to only show you "fit" or "jacked" or "thin" men. 95% of the men who you will see are going to be obese fat-lards who classify themselves as "thin" or "jacked" or "fit" in order to match with thin/fit women, while they continue to look like Jabba the Hut. don't EVEN get me started on hatfishing and beardfishing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 19 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.How can I change the power dynamic to switch to my favour? Almost ALL pickme women are unwilling to do what's necessary to grab and retain the power in situations like these. Let's examine the situation carefully. At this advanced stage, where he boldly feels comfortable enough to disrespect you to your face, without giving a shit, while you continue to initiate and pursue him? It's a lost cause. The dynamic is so fucked, that there isn't much you can do at this moment to recapture power. Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 16 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.Honestly? Pickme women usually end up with LVM. In the rare event when they manage to end up with a HVM…. They don’t act on “the rules” and sabotage that relationship, too. There isn’t much you can do to dissuade them. Honestly it’s kind of a blessing in disguise. Pickme women keep lots of LVM occupied. We don’t want those men, they can have them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:50 PM |
| 5 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”If men aged like “fine wine”, you’d see teens and 20 something men shaving their heads bald to “get the older male look”. They’re not. Balding IS age related, and bald men aren’t as attractive as their non balding counterparts. And the men over at the balding subreddits are all freaking out, trying all kinds of treatments to hold onto their hair because they know balding makes them look older and that’s not something they want. So if they WERE actually aging like “fine wine”. You’d see teenagers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:13 AM |
| 2 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.Going Dutch doesn’t work. It’ll lead to shit like this and poor relationship outcomes. If the goal is disappointment, go for it. Otherwise, don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:05 AM |
| 118 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.This is completely true. He needs to be more into you, than you are into him, in order for you to have a high quality, high value relationship. The power needs to remain in the woman’s hands. He needs to be afraid of losing you. This is one of the reasons pickme women don’t usually have good relationship outcomes. They’re typically more into him, than he is into her. Instead of the man being too afraid of losing her, she’s too afraid of losing him. It’s a miserable situation, really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:41 AM |
| 48 | FDS observations in the wildForever situationships are one of the biggest wastes of time you can find. If you don’t have a ring by the 2 year mark (and this is generous. If you don’t have it by the 1 year mark), it’s time to walk. It takes a man 10 minutes to know whether a girl is his wife or not. A man KNOWS when he’s met his wife. He doesn’t need 6+ years “to figure it out”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:38 AM |
| 11 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endI’ve tried the lesbian line and have heard them say stuff like “wELL hOw dO yOu kNoW yOu dOnT LiKe mEn iF yOu nEvEr hAd oNe?” The fake engagement ring has been the most successful for me. Flash a fake ring 💍 and tell them you’re engaged or married. I’ve been able to walk away with my life using the fake engagement ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:28 AM |
| 30 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endI’m stealing this word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:26 AM |
| 15 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endIn a lot of places, it’s illegal to carry pepper spray or mace. So it’s literally illegal in some places for women to carry the common shit we use to defend ourselves against violent men. Sunscreen spray gets the job done, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:25 AM |
| 15 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endThe amount of coddling some men need just to function at bare minimum is pathetic. It’s really sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:24 AM |
| 16 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endI absolutely hate this, but it’s true. The goal is to get the hell out of there ALIVE. I have a fake engagement ring that I wear when I go out after dark. “Sorry, I’m engaged” gets them to fuck off and usually it works. I walk away with my life and property in tact. It’s DISGUSTING that women have to do shit like this because some men are so dangerous and unstable, it could cost you your life to say “no”. “No” is a complete sentence. It should be respected. But too many men are mentally and emot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:22 AM |
| 5 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?Agreed. You need the same skill set that artists who draw and paint have. Social media is also a hobby. It takes SKILL and practice to take excellent, high quality photos. You also need to know a lot about skin tones, textures, fashion, some dermatology, and you need skill and technique to apply make up properly. Men will discount makeup and hair and glamour, and consider them “not hobbies” but they consider “video games” a hobby? Doesn’t make sense to me 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:10 AM |
| 7 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endI hope she called the cops. She ran into an incel in the wild. I hope she called the cops and pressed charges. This is UNACCEPTABLE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?This is a very interesting perspective. I hadn’t considered it from the dating app company perspective of listening to their paying customers: men… Great read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:55 AM |
| 5 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?The PICKME women are the only women complaining that they “can’t find a man”. They do it because they receive Lots of male validation, attention, regard, and respect from misogynistic men (and other Pickmes) who are grasping at any hope that women are desperate for relationships with men. There’s an overwhelming narrative that incels are desperately pushing. They want women to be as desperate to be with men as men are to be with women. There’s a reason a great share of women are choosing to be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:40 AM |
| 14 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?It’s not effective for men to approach women IRL (in real life). Here’s why: You won’t be able to tell which women on the street are single, which ones have boyfriends, and which ones are open to dating. You might be able to tell which ones are married if they have a ring. But generally, it’s really hard to tell which women are single (and open to dating) and which ones have boyfriends. Statistically, it’ll take you much longer to find a woman who’s single and emotionally available to date since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?The men who shame women for having casual sex are the ones not getting laid. Guys who are getting casual sex don’t usually shame women at all. It’s the tradcons who shame women for having any sort of sex, ever. Why don’t they stop focusing on the types of women who are having casual sex, and go meet godly church women to marry….? It seems like a waste of effort. Why focus on a demographic of women who aren’t interested in them? Why not focus on god fearing women who don’t engage in sex before ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?It’s cringe and would make me uncomfortable. Because it’s weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?Not really. If you practice good r/OPSEC, you won’t get caught up in it. Most people don’t do enough to cover their bases and r/OPSEC is crucial if you plan on doing random hookups. Besides. Even if you get caught, you can claim it’s an r/DeepFake Deepfake porn is so common and easily available, it’s not that hard to cry “Deepfake” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Women, how many female friends do you know that have had casual sex while on a trip?Casual sex stays a secret if you’re hooking up with someone from an app and you take OPSEC seriously enough to never tell them your name or where you work or live. It’s not a requirement for you to be abroad. OP is just insecure about the sexuality of women who travel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?Yes porn ruined mens expectations for sex with women and it also made them delusional about the reality of casual sex. Men need to stop obsessing over what another man is getting. You aren’t entitled to what another man is getting…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you?“bUt dO yOu hAve a HuSbAnD?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:40 AM |
| 12 | Do you think that women who want to be homemakers have been let down by feminism? How has this affected dating for you?No. These women have been let down by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 0 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Oh they do. I was answering the question…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 3 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Frugality. I can’t stand a cheap man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Pickmes and 🤡🤡🤡: “If you are so picky, you are going to be single forever.”Certain situations are downgrades from being single. Understand that garbage treatment from a man is actually worse than being single. So keep it. If I have to tolerate piss poor “effort” from a guy, I’d rather be single. It’s an upgrade to be single in that case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?There are dating apps like Christian Mingle that has the types of women who will make you wait until marriage to have sex. You are free to shoot your shot there and find women with values that are likely similar to yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:42 PM |
| 2 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?His source is “trust me bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 0 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?I, also, would like to be cream pied by these “geniuses”. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?You know you can walk into a drug store and pick up a DNA testing kit for less than $200, right? And the results are 99% accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 7 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Bald men, short men, and dad bods. Plenty of women like those guys. I’m not one of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion what is the perfect male height?6”5 or 6”6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Banned from r/dating?Yep. I’m banned from there and from the dating advice subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 0 | For the women who follow FDS, what do you do for your "HVM" in turn?Nope. And if he has a problem with that, at least 50 others are waiting for a text back from me. He can hit the ghostyard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?This is absolutely golden. We like being treated well. Once the good treatment stops, I leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?That women are willing to overlook appearances. Not all women. I can’t overlook my preferences. It’s a dealbreaker for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:18 AM |
| -1 | For the women who follow FDS, what do you do for your "HVM" in turn?What do I do for him? I allow him to exist in my personal life. He hasn’t been ghosted yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSYou don’t want those guys anyways. Let the Redpilled Pickmes have them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:19 PM |
| 29 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?This is a disgusting and misogynistic practice and I am ashamed of these schools! HOW is this legal? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:58 AM |
| 6 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?I forgot about Eva Mendez! She’s stunning 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?Jennifer love Hewitt, Megan fox, and Claudia lynx, and Rihanna are the most gorgeous women I’ve ever seen in my life. My god! 🥰😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 08:09 AM |
| 31 | Nice Guys are LVMs in DisguiseThey typically masquerade as HVM, lie about their job (or lack thereof), lie about their lifestyle, and love bomb women until you’ve fallen in love or you’ve been “baby trapped”. THEN their bullshit comes out when they stop putting in effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:05 AM |
| 62 | Nice Guys are LVMs in DisguiseI am very happy to see this post. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment with us. I’ve ALWAYS made it a point to remind women that “nice guys” and “ugly guys” treat you the same as (and often times worse) than hot guys. Be selfish and vet them vigorously. lots of LVM masquerade as HVM long enough to baby trap you and then they change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:00 AM |
| 1 | I was shopping today and saw this. Looks like they now make a giant mug for desperate women to broadcast to the world how pathetic they are.Hard cringe. What the fuck? It’s probably flying off the shelves, too. My god, you guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?I am sick and tired of pregnancy scares. I can’t wait for my biological clock to expire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Talking about character development and how it is totally fine to have had multiple sexual partners and wild sex in the past... Regret is the keywordThe only people who care about this are the incels. Women don’t give a shit and neither do the men they end up with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyHe’s very condescending about the whole conversation, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 11 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyYou “keep” him by ghosting every single one that doesn’t want to act right. The first time they try it. Forever. The right one will keep you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick?This is false. Ugly men treat you the same as hot guys, and most women know it. Many of us, myself included, have given ugly men a chance and they still cheat. They also lie. They also put their hands on you. They also disappoint you. They’re also mediocre The treatment is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | STD rates of different racesRacism? How original. I’m surprised you can read. Bravo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | STD rates of different racesYou’re correct. I doubt this source as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:28 AM |
| 16 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄I agree fully. I wanted to examine the “dating advice” piece under a microscope so women know when they’re getting male-authored, or pickme authored dating advice when they see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:09 AM |
| 5 | STD rates of different racesThere’s also more surface area in the vagina and labia. More space for tearing and for exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 73 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄Pickme authored dating advice aimed at women is almost as bad as male authored dating advice aimed at women. They immediately act like she did something wrong. They immediately reprimand her, but the husbands off the hook. He’s “the victim”. This “advice” is coming from a misogynistic place that protects the interests of men, at the expense of women. SHE is the victim, NOT her husband. FYI, her husband is probably snooping on her phone too. The only valid part of this whole thing is that they re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightNot all women. Some women will give a short guy a chance, and some won’t. I know one thing for sure. If her height filter is set to a certain height, and you don’t meet that…. You should probably move on and go find a woman who will date you at your height. Trying to weasel your way around the height filter is not cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 7 | POV: She is ready to settle downErectile dysfunction and male pattern baldness are age related. The older a man is, the more likely he is to have one or both. Someone should post the male equivalent of this meme. A balding man who’s penis can only be 50% erect who’s 37 “finally ready to settle” and of course is trying to match with 19 year olds and avoid women his own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightLife’s not fair. Beautiful people tend to breed beautiful children. You CAN lose the genetic lottery with beautiful parents, but you’re more likely to lose the genetic lottery if one or both parents are ugly, busted, or fucked up. You aren’t entitled to a beautiful woman’s time or her choices. Life just doesn’t work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightNobody’s lying to you. Women have height filters to weed out short men. It’s the short men who lie or try to weasel their way around women’s height filters getting pissed off because women ARE honest about wanting a tall guy. They’re honest enough to try and weed out the short ones through the height filters. If they wanted a short man, their height filters would reflect that. Short men who are trying to weasel their way around height filters are hurting their own feelings. You can’t trick someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:06 PM |
| 0 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightNeither can age. Your average man spends lots of time messaging teenage girls on dating apps because they’re young and hot. Women can’t control their age any more than men can control height. So why is it perfectly acceptable for men to have unchangeable physical preferences like age, and it’s the END OF THE FUCKING UNIVERSE AS WE KNOW IT, if women have unchangeable physical preferences like height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:37 PM |
| 7 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightThank you for spelling this out. Half the bald, short, ugly dudes in this thread would’ve been a lot hotter if their mom didn’t “settle” in terms of looks. Every man wants to be the child of a rich tall sexy man and a hot, beautiful woman, but the folks on PPD seem bitter, hostile, and jaded when women don’t want to mix themselves with short, bald, ugly dudes with no money. Like do you WANT more ugly/bald/short men to be born? Thank GOD my mom was hot and my dad was attractive and I came out hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 0 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightSo women shouldn’t have physical preferences? So you mean to tell me that I, as a woman, shouldn’t be sexually/physically attracted to a man I’m dating? Even when women throw out physical requirements and date men they aren’t attracted to. They’re gonna flock to this sub and bitch about “being settled for” and they’re gonna whine and bitch about “unenthusiastic starfish sex”. There really is no way to win. Might as well lose with a hot guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:27 PM |
| -1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightSpell it out. What “specific behaviors” are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:They have a god complex AMD a victim complex at the same time. They won’t seek help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightThen don’t be mad when they ghost you, after they find out what your height is. You’re not going to trick people into being physically attracted to you. Eventually they’ll see through it and you should have thick skin when you’re rejected for it. Nothing is wrong with women having physical preferences. Don’t be mad if you’re trying to weasel your way past her filters and she ghosts when she finds out your height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?Lmaaaoooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 05:09 PM |
| -1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightYou are jumping to conclusions because you’re coming from a place that assumes there are no women interested in men who are 5’7. Plenty of women like short men, it just doesn’t support the incel narrative that no man under 6’ feet is desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:05 PM |
| -1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightThat’s a problem for you, not me. Smile and nod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightThen they shouldn’t bitch when they’re ghosted for not meeting someone’s height requirements. Smile and nod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightSome women will swipe right on a man who’s slightly taller than they are. They won’t know that unless you put the info on your profile. Many women won’t even chance a right swipe on someone shorter than them and it doesn’t help you to omit your height for the women who are, for example 5’1 and will accept someone who’s 5’7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:51 PM |
| 4 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightI can and do. Many women who’ve been on dating apps can eyeball a guy who’s 6 feet tall. But if you’re short and “hoping she will overlook height”, don’t be mad when she doesn’t. Have thick skin and move on. Women have physical preferences just like men do. Idk what the problem is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightBecause they omit their height, or flat out lie about it, and then freak out or get mad when women reject them based on that. You aren’t going to trick someone into being physically attracted to you. If you’re trying to trick people into being physically attracted to you, then have thick skin when they eventually see through the deception and ghost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:40 PM |
| -4 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightWhat “behavior” are we “making excuses” for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:38 PM |
| -1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightSo they should omit their height to get matches, and then be mad when the matches ghost them because they have a preference for tall men? You’re not going to trick someone into being physically attracted to you. They will eventually see you. Don’t be mad when they see through the deception by omission and ghost you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 3 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightAnd those men and women should have THICK skin when they’re rejected on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 5 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightThey can and do. You can look at their photos and see their weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightIf you’re not going to put your height on your profile, then you need to have thick skin when women reject you because you’re not physically what they’re prefer. Put your height on your profile. FYI, lots of women automatically swipe left on men who don’t put their height on their profile. Because short men ruined this for other men by doing exactly what’s on the screen shot. Plenty of girls would have dated you if you’re “tall enough”, but they will swipe left because they don’t know your heigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | r/tinder user immediately ghosted after sharing his heightWhat is the problem? How many women are rejected by men for all kinds of physical reasons? She can have preferences. She wants to date a tall man. Nothing is wrong with that. If this guy wants to avoid this type of interaction, he should put his height on his profile, upfront. So women like this never swipe right on him to begin with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 149 | A friend of mine received this anonymous text this morning— for women in medicine it just never endsOh my god. It would be interesting if she played along, acted interested, and exposed him. But that’s going to put her at risk and probably ruin her career. Going up against men like this usually results in consequences for the woman only 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | What’s your biggest piece of sex advice?Biggest piece of sex advice? Google it. No, really. Google the anatomy. Read all about how to pleasure yourself and your partner. Read about pregnancy and birth control. About STDs and such. Google ALL if it Be informed. There’s a lot of good info out there if you’re willing to go look for it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Is she a catch?No dude. I believe it. I’ve seen pickme women do worse than this. I’ve seen Pickmes pay for the man, his kids with other women, and his side chick, knowing full well he’s cheating and be happy to do it. I’ve seen them cook, clean, and worship this man, and make him the center of her universe. Pickmes will do the most bizarre shit for a man. Legitimately. I’ve seen it. I’m NOT joking. They reach out to me for “advice” all the time too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Is she a catch?Exactly. Fuck THAT. I’d rather be single. Legit. How is this situation better than being single? At least when you’re single, you don’t have to pay for 2 people….at LEAST when you’re single, your money and your place is 100% yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Half of the drama on PPDBalding is NOT normal. If you spent any time in the tressless subreddit or the balding ones, you’d know that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 12:27 AM |
| 6 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI agree fully. Usually the cubs pursue the cougars from what I’ve seen, but I will look into the tigress. Are there any subreddits I can review or lurk in, to learn more about this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Every mans fearNot all women. If that’s a problem for ugly dudes, they can choose to remain single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Every mans fearWe don’t. We don’t even go near them and I think you know that. They can’t even get matches and I think you also know that. They also don’t get dates or relationships, and I think you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:42 PM |
| 18 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysThere’s a “cougars and cubs” subreddit that I enjoy a lot and you’ll all be pleased to know that there’s far far more younger men who want older women than older women who want younger men on that sub. I’m a huge fan of choosing your audience as a woman. Go where you’ll be worshipped and not where you’ll be nitpicked and treated like crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Every mans fearUnattractive men aren’t entitled to the same sexual regard from women as attractive men. They’re not entitled to the same sexual acts women perform for attractive men, either. Shocking BREAKING news: women enjoy sex with hot men just like men enjoy sex with hot women. You aren’t entitled to what another man is getting. Why is this so difficult to grasp? Like what is the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:01 AM |
| 94 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?I had to unlearn all of this. I did so much free emotional labor back in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:22 AM |
| 99 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?“Barb the builder” I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:20 AM |
| 54 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?I constantly have to remind myself that I don’t owe them a reply. Even if they sent me money or took me out on a very expensive date. I don’t owe them anything. Not even a text back. Nobody is entitled to access to me. I get to decide and control who I spend time with and who I respond (or don’t respond) to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:19 AM |
| 94 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?For me, it was sticking around when he got fat. In thought I had to tolerate a man who I met when he was fit and ripped, who let himself go and got fat. As if my physical preferences didn’t matter. As if me being sexually attracted to him was unimportant. It dawned on me that women are expected to stick around and deal with a partner who “let’s himself go” whereas men will easily leave you if you gain weight (especially when it’s from a pregnancy) or get sick I’m working to unlearn this bit of i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Fuck Mrs_degree, houstoungradengineer, midwestofuhunter, Milkymochi, and lillythofbabylonWell. Not you, but the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Fuck Mrs_degree, houstoungradengineer, midwestofuhunter, Milkymochi, and lillythofbabylonExactly. Hate them all you want. They don’t even know or care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsbut I thought men were gatekeeping commitment .... that's the RP narrative.... right? that women are desperate for commitment and men can't be bothered? So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsThe violent misuse of the term husband material by PPD men is hilarious. I'm assuming 99% of them here don't even make the cut. your typical redpiller is a NEET. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsHe's already being upfront rejected by 99% of women around him, how is his situation going to improve by being ultra picky about the 1% that could potentially like him? According to TRP, he should wait until he's in "his Prime". so maybe wait until you're 35, or 50, according to TRP. After all.... that's the redpill narrative, right? Men gEt hOtTeR wItH aGe? so wait until the age of 70 when you're so sexy, all the 19 year old girls fly sideways at you, vagina first. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsbut redpillers INSIST that marriage is bad for men. So which is it? Is marriage bad for men or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipswomen aren't "sharing" men. Men are cheating on their wives and spouses/SO's with other women. Stop blaming women for the problems of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsmore men are cheating than women. (source: https://www.mysticmag.com/psychic-reading/men-women-cheat-more-infidelity-statistics/ ) I also suspect this is partially the reason why there's so many more men than women on dating apps but don't yet have a clear source, this is just my hunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsFurthermore, men and women are not equally likely to be in relationships. Women have a relationship advantage not just a sexual one. Redpillers on this sub INSIST on repeating the false trope of "men marry who they want / women marry who they can". How are men marrying "who they want" if they can't even find the relationships which lead to marriage to begin with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Nobody is suppressing the incels. They are not entitled to a woman’s body or her time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 21 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)The entitlement….. the audacity. The sheer fucking arrogance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:37 PM |
| 44 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimA sad and painful reminder about WHY FDS IS NECESSARY! This is tragic and awful and we are doing the RIGHT thing by coaching women on how to avoid dangerous LVM. We are saving lives. Pure and simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 7 | SAFEGUARDING: Time, Standards, and Boundaries.I agree. The reason I recommend Cognitive behavioral therapy is to send women down the rabbit hole of mental health improvement, boundary setting, self esteem building, and to teach them how to make hard, difficult choices like respecting and enforcing your own boundaries. Especially when guys start off acting and appearing as HVM, only to slip up later and start violating boundaries. You gotta be able to leave and stay gone, the first time, forever. Even if he’s the love of your life. You gotta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?That’s lovely but….. A lot of guys only have female friends because they’re hoping to get laid and once they figure out that their female friends view them as just friends, they ghost them……. How’s this going to work if a lot of guys refuse to be friends with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 02:53 AM |
| 11 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tThe people at the /RegretFulParents subreddit would STRONGLY disagree. Why are we all of a sudden pretending that motherhood and parenting is the absolute happiest, best, most fulfilling thing that can happen to women? You DO realize that there’s women who are married, with children who cry for the day they get to be single and away from kids again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?Men know simping doesn’t work because men experience it first hand. I cannot believe you’re this delusional. You really said simping works to attract women and you think we need to take you seriously yes it does. It works on INTERESTED women. If she's not into you, she's not into you. But Once you established that she IS into you, you should definitely simp. Another thing. Being an asshole to women doesn't work. It just so happens that the simps are rejected publicly while the assholes who nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 4 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?And they wonder why women don’t go near them. They give off creepy, hateful energy even through the internet. Believe it or not, it's easy to spot a TRP person IRL based on how they do/don't speak or interact with women. You can tell by their social media posts, their demeanor, their mannerisms. Even the ones that hide it well.... I can usually sus them out after a 10 minute conversation, too, or I bait them with a triggering post and get it out of them so I can block and remove them from my l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 12 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?Not just that. The manosphere completely misleads men. It tells them that romantic behaviors, effort, investing in your girlfriend/wife, and treating her with kindness, compassion, generosity, and affection is "simping" and is to be avoided at all costs.... when simping is successful. You'll have a better chance at getting and keeping the girl you want if you're a sweetheart who approaches her properly. You have to be sure that she's interested first, though, and you have to respect a "no" if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?Because this kind of thing is very unusual to ever see in their lives, they have a mix of disbelief and rage that just bursts through when confronted with such a thing, not unlike the character in the movie. I think they get triggered because the manosphere tells them that being kind to women doesn't work. That doing romantic stuff, putting forth tons of effort, and being sweet to women (they call it "simping") doesn't work. When it DOES work. It works on women who are interested in the guy who'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?Some of the responses to this innocent tweet were some of the most bitter projection I have ever seen. There were tons of tweets by guys accusing the woman of stringing the guy along for 8 years only to settle with him after sleeping around. I've also noticed similar things whenever a man posts that he'd done or purchased something extravagant for his wife or GF. A lot of triggered, bitter/angry incels calling them a Simp for doing this or that. I've also seen it when men post romantic or sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.This is one of the most important reasons for giving dating apps a chance. They allow you to vet, reject, and filter out men from the safety of your home, whereas rejecting men face to face can be deadly if he turns violent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 5 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.My own gender? I'll admit that I become very frustrated when I try to coach women with dating.... and they admit to me that they absolutely refuse to try dating apps or even give them a chance.... Online dating apps are some of the most powerful tools for women who want to date in 2021. I'm sorry, it just frustrates me that some women refuse to entertain them, when they would be super helpful in finding Mr. Right. To each woman, her own... but it's frustrating for me, personally, to advise wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Correct. Pay for my lifestyle. Look good and be ripped…. And be a simp who’s obsessed with me. Or GTFO. There’s no in between for me. I’ve enriched myself handsomely off of this strategy and same for my kids. I don’t need anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 02:17 PM |
| 7 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)FDS is evidence-based, experience-based, and practice based. The lady in the article utilized FDS principles flawlessly and found great success. As unpopular as FDS is to LVM, it works for the women who follow every step and who follow the advice. They waste little time, get higher quality dates, and are married off quickly, usually to the man of their dreams... A man they don't have to compromise any standards for. These are the success stories FDS mods & dating coaches want to see more of.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:09 PM |
| 3 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”is she aware that OTHER women at the bar/club they're going to, will have makeup on? So...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:48 AM |
| 29 | Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a woman"I know guys who are 35 years old, who are virgins, they have good jobs, they want to have a family, they want to have a wife and kids, and they are just not going to be able to do that, and they know it. But Redpillers on this sub INSIST that men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s are "at their prime" or "at their peak" and "have their pick of the litter" of women..... This doesn't support the overwhelming RP narrative that men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s are drowning in pussy and double drowning in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 06:28 AM |
| 19 | Got downvoted for suggesting this woman may have been raped rather than cheated:Same. I never post any identifying info and I practice good OPSEC to conceal my identity because I’ve received death threats for standing up for women and calling men out on their bullshit and abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 356 | Got downvoted for suggesting this woman may have been raped rather than cheated:Yep. You’ll be downvoted for standing up for women on Reddit. You’ll be stalked, harassed, and droves of incels will call you disgusting names whenever you defend women’s standards, suggest that women don’t owe men anything or say anything remotely supportive of women. This is the status of Reddit right now. Infested with hateful, bitter incels and their pickme sympathizers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female?I doubt it. I personally know a 71 year old woman that’s getting flowers on a weekly basis from a fit 51 year old man lol. You aren’t helping men by telling them these lies. I mean, do what makes you happy but don’t be mad if reality doesn’t match your “theories” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female?Jacked and ripped. Veins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female?I agree. I can’t date a man who isn’t very fit with visible abs. I’m just not sexually attracted to fat guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?Thanks babe ❤️😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?That doesn’t match reality. I’ve found plenty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?I'd compromise NOTHING on my list. Either they have it all or they don't. I've compromised before and got burned by it. Never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 06:57 AM |
| 31 | If he wanted to, he wouldAww look at that smile! He made her so happy ^_^ IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 33 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting mecan you imagine having a successful, high-value partner and not being happy for that?? Is he on her side or not? I thought the goal was to SUPPORT and UPLIFT your partner.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Aside from single-parents-by-choice, why is it that there's so much hatred for single mothers but complete adoration for single fathers?People are bashing the parent who stayed. This also comes from a place of misogyny. Men resent having to take care of another man’s child by dating a single mom. They resent that she didn’t come to him before she had children with someone else…. Basically dudes hate being the second choice behind the baby’s father in terms of fathering her kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”He just found a way to tell the world "I treat my wife like shit and will soon be divorced" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”why hasn't he paid for her pre-check?? So they can go together? My god, why would she stay married to that. WTF HOW IS THIS BETTER THAN BEING SINGLE?? Someone please explain it to me?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 3 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.This is genius. Yeah we need to be telling the incels and manoaphere idiots that they’re gonna have to wait until 40. Genius! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 9 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.If 40 was a man’s “peak”, then all the pro athletes would be 40. But it’s considered a MIRACLE if they can still stand at 30 ….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 12 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.I get it, a lot of women have internalized misogyny, including a lot of feminists. In fact I'd argue that just about every woman on this planet has at least some degree of internalized misogyny, simply because we've grown up in a misogynistic culture. Internalized misogyny is a MOTHERFUCKER to defeat. I've been doing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for over 5 years consistently and know it well enough to teach it, and even that hasn't helped me crush all of the internalized misogyny and patri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:07 PM |
| 9 | Screening video chat…for a walk.at 5'10??? and he's probably lying. FDS has made me excellent in OLD app height math. He's 5'10, dudes usually add an extra few inches... he's probably 5'6 and a half and decided to round up. Eww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Brandon P. Bellgod this is such excellent eye bleach so early in the morning ^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:59 AM |
| 15 | Jordan Callowayaaaah yes. My type. Rich. JACKED Full head of hair.... WOO! he could hit this ANY DAY of the week. Every day of the week. Any hour, any minute, any place. Even under water, believe it or not. Yes.... Excellent eye candy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 21 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.They WISH 20 year olds found balding, middle aged, used up/erectile dysfunction attractive…. “Fuck her 3 times a day?” I’m no doctor but you’re not supposed to take that many viagras in such a short time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:07 AM |
| -1 | [Q4W]What’s you're thoughts on the idea of “competition” for women?Not all men ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 08:11 AM |
| 11 | [Q4W]What’s you're thoughts on the idea of “competition” for women?Competition for the few women which are real on the dating apps is fierce and intense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness.What I’m most curious about is whether the long-term results of hypergamy are. future generations of children will be born taller, more attractive, and healthier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 50 | A scrote larping as a woman recorded me via Skype and threatened with revenge pornKiddy hackers are super afraid of the authorities. I can tell he's a kiddy hacker because he was arrogant enough to "give you tips". A real hacker would have milked you for as many videos as he could get out of you and posted them without you knowing, ever. What they usually do is sell these videos to other men and to porn websites. even if you pay his ransom or agree to do what he's blackmailing you to do, he'll still leak the videos and sell them to other men. It's just the way these people … | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 11 | CMV: If you believe it's fine that dating is not fair for men, you have to apply that to women tooI don’t mind being called a hypocrite. Dating is much easier for women who know how to use online dating effectively. There’s no difficulty at all for women who know what to do. There’s no stress There’s no drama There’s no shortage of good men on or off the apps. I won’t lie to spare the feelings of incels and redpillers. It’s brutal out there for men and it’s a great time to be a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 12 | Katherine Ryan’s “fix” for the gender pay gap... where do I sign upHow do I join this religion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:37 AM |
| 104 | Had to share thisMandatory vasectomies at age 12. Same age as HPV vaccines for women. Wife’s consent, 48-hour mandatory waiting period, require admitting hospital privileges for doctors who perform vasectomies… and make it cost at LEAST $1,000. Close ALL but 3 places per state that perform vasectomies and make the waiting list LONG Make them drive 100+ miles to reverse them. And make them walk through a sea of vasectomy hating protestors shouting insults at them Call them murderers and baby killers, too …. Since… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 48 | Men are oblivious to how they ruin their families with their porn-soaked sexual greed. Dude asked why his wife appliance broke. Saw this gem in the comments. He spent hours on Tinder, but he had no time for helping his kids with their homework and now he wants he wants HER to "act like an adult".it sounds like he's not in touch with what's going on with her health. He's not an attentive partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 105 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️I came out of the woodworks to second this tweet. I've had exes pay off mortgages, credit cards, student loans... I've had exes let me use their vacation properties and other properties across multiple countries for free. I haven't paid rent or mortgage from my own money in almost 5 years. I've had exes buy me cars, custom jewelry, and bankroll some of my startups and help me secure funding for the businesses I sold in the past, and the ones I own today. The secret is to ghost & block any … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Men can’t tell women what to view as average …. You’re not going to change what women are attracted to. Attraction is not negotiable. It either IS or ISNT there. Telling women what we “should” view as average is a waste of your time and ours…. You don’t get to decide what women find average/attractive and telling women that “we don’t know what an average man looks like” is insulting and troubling. You’re not gonna gaslight our eyes dude… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 13 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?lol it’s definitely not a good look 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?I doubt that. For every single post from women complaining about a lack of good options, there’s at least 50 posts from men who can’t even get a like or a match. Men on the dating apps who are paying for the experience of getting less than 10 matches a month and women being flooded. I will say that as a woman on the dating apps, the lack of “good options” reflects your filtering efforts as a woman. Dating isn’t for the faint of heart or easily discouraged woman. You’ve got to swipe a LOT and be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 36 | Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market?There’s always a discrepancy with the male to female ratio on dating apps. Even in places where women outnumber men, the number of men on the dating apps is at least two to three times the number of women. It’s because men are seeking women at levels that are far far greater than women are seeking men. THIS is the relevant metric here. It’s not the population of women that exist vs men that exist… it’s the number of men SEEKING vs the number of women SEEKING. In order to “equalize” the male to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 21 | Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime".Marrying older (after 30) just means that you statistically avoided your first divorce. If men really cared about dIvOrCe rApE like they claim they do, they’d be pushing for later-age marriages…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: In regards to the bottom 90% of people, women are the gatekeepers of both casual sex and relationshipsDo you see 20-30 year old women dating middle aged men? Is this a normal occurrence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 0 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.even in places where women outnumber men, there's still more men on the dating apps because there's more men LOOKING on the dating apps vs women looking on the dating apps. Having a 50/50 male to female ratio IRL doesn't mean that every single man is looking for a woman at the same time a woman is looking for a guy. In order for the male to female ratios to be balanced on the dating apps, such that you see a 1:1 ratio, based on current trends, you'd need 2 to 100 women for every 1 man just to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:26 PM |
| -1 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.Also, your point about COVID was interesting and one I hadn't really considered. lots of online dating apps stopped publishing the info on male/female user numbers on their sites because they don't want to tell men that they're competing with 93 other men for every 1 woman they see on the app who's not a bot, hooker, or LARP. I think more and more women will start to prefer to meet their SO on dating apps, because the apps make it much easier, faster, efficient, and safer to reject men. It use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.I'm obsessed with dating & relationships. The trend I'm seeing is exactly what you're citing. Tons of men competing for a limited pool of women. The male-female ratios on online dating apps appear to be getting worse over time. As in, I am willing to take bets, that there will be more males per female on the apps in 2025 vs 2024, 2023, 2022, etc. As time goes on, there will be more and more men available for fewer and fewer women. You're right. We are in a transitional period right now. Meet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commitas an ethically nonmonogamous woman, I completely agree with OP - I stumbled upon it by accident - when I stopped wanting monogamy and a traditional life, is when I started having a harder time meeting guys who weren't into marriage, kids, and the trad life. I was upfront about being a single mom, and upfront about being done with child rearing and not wanting any more children. This one eliminated a lot more men who were butt hurt that I didn't want to have more kids.... in my 40s. I already … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much?Can you be more specific? How was it a “long famine”? When did the “famine” start? Like at what age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 12 | How do I nicely say I want to go on a dinner date? This guy just proposed an ice cream date?“I’m craving sushi” “God I miss Italian food” “It’s been forever since I had Japanese food” Connect it to something as part of a conversation. Bring up cooking shows as a topic and then branch off to those | /r/askFDS | 30/04/21 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Do you think we overanalyze sex relations too much?But I thought 35 was “prime” for men. Why do you believe it was “over” for you as a 35 year old man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.Yes clueless, delusional, and utterly out of touch with reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 12:04 AM |
| -2 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.the fact that nobody can control or help aging makes youth even more valuable, fleeting, and precious. The fact that men have to work for their prime is irrelevant. The entire post was about "iF yOu dOnT wAnT mE aT mY wOrSt, fUcK yOu aT mY bEsT". Same goes for women. Men who aren't going to be into older women with flaws, don't deserve younger women. Keep the same energy. If you don't want me at my worst, FUCK YOU at my best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 09:30 PM |
| -1 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.The problem with that is the double standard. Men on this sub will bitch about women not choosing them at their worst, not deserving them at their best. Right? Well on this sub, these same men admit they wouldn’t date women who are at their “worst”. The definition of a woman “at her worst”, according to this sub is after she’s older, has several kids and is a single mom who is overweight. Well if you wouldn’t date the woman at her “worst” then you don’t deserve her at her “prime”. Since most men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 0 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughIt’s not a fraud. It’s a popular study that’s been cited thousands of times The best criticism the incels could come up with was to just say the researcher “misinterpreted the results”. Which he did not. Other researchers looked at his work and he didn’t misinterpret shit. But with incels, anything that doesn’t follow their sad revenge/cope fantasy of miserable single women is “misinterpretation of data”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughNope. He stated that single men were the most miserable in mo uncertain terms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughAre they faking the longer lifespan, too? Can you show me how these women are faking that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 0 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughI wish I knew. All I know about reddit is that blocking someone won't stop them from seeing your content OR downvoting everything you post. there's a couple of incels following me who downvote everything I say. Every time. As soon as I post it, boom. Downvotes. die mad, worthless incels.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 0 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughonly 20% of women 30-35 years old are childless, and only 15% of women 44+ are childless. Source: https://www.statista.com/statistics/241535/percentage-of-childless-women-in-the-us-by-age/ As women get older and older, more women who wanted a child or had one by accident, have already had their wanted and unwanted children by 30-35. 80% of American women have had at least 1 child by then. Of the ones who haven't had children, some are child-free, meaning they NEVER wanted children and will mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 06:16 AM |
| -1 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughDolan didn't misinterpret the data. It's cited by tons of other studies because it was a great source and stood the test of time, dude. Just because you don't like the results, doesn't make it "not-science". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughDownvoting is against the sub's rules. tell that to the hideous, vicious incels who are obsessed with me and who downvote everything I say. tell that to the other readers. I'm not downvoting/upvoting SHIT on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 7 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughDid you read your own source? Dolan didn't say "marriage" was "bad" for "women". He said that single, childless women are happier. This is supported by another source: A study from data analysts Mintel indicates women are more satisfied with being single than men, and less likely to look for a relationship.[ii] Part of the explanation has to do with women working harder than their male counterparts in relationships. Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 0 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughIgnore the evidence ALL you want. Reality is real whether you wanna stick your head in the and or not. The truth is the truth. Single, childless women ARE happier than married childless women AND married women with children. Married men are happier than unmarried men. But data about unmarried women without kids from a recent American Time Use Survey suggests the exact opposite. Paul Dolan, a professor of behavioral science at the London School of Economics, analyzed data from the survey (spons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 7 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?Maybe women should focus on becoming high value themselves and then attract a high value man who has proven themselves. 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ this is precisely what happens. All those pickme redpill forever girlfriends™ who go dutch and stick around, and put up with shit will have to always go dutch and support him, or will get dumped once he graduates med school and is finally a starting physician. IDGAF about his potential. If he's not meeting my standards AS IS, right this second. I'm not gambling on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?There’s no middle ground between unemployed losers and rich men for you? Absolutely. He's either rich, or worthless. He's either hot, or worthless. He's either kind to women, or worthless. I'm not "thinking in shades of gray" on this one because MY standards are not negotiable. This IS the hill I will die on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:46 AM |
| 7 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughMost women on this thread have been young before. It's creepy as fuck to have 34 year olds throw themselves at you when you just turned 19, in college. you look like creeps It's a sad cope and an incel revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:32 AM |
| 7 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughEven the 6-7 figure men wont have the last laugh as many are buying sugar babies. came here to say this. I know a sugar baby, and the men who are on this thread who are delusionally insisting that they'll be able to pull 18 year old teenage girls, when they're 57, bald, and aging, sound like her clients... Most men who are sugar daddies are paying women who are younger than them, handsomely, to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:31 AM |
| 9 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughBut to see the face of your enemies when they lose." this is drawing pleasure from a place of spite and inflicting victory upon someone else... there are healthier sources of joy that don't require a "sacrifice" like this :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:29 AM |
| 12 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughThe fact that this woman even makes a post and cares so much about the 'last laugh' certainly shows that it won't be hers. its not that we "care so much". It's that we have redpilled people in our lives, and we can't say what we wanna say to them, without causing personal and/or professional problems and disturbing the peace. So reddit is an anonymous space, out there in the void, where you can just air out your grievances. You can just vent here. You can be real, harsh, and vent. You can shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:27 AM |
| 16 | The happiness factor of a lonely middle-aged woman who had her "h03 phase" in her early years is still leagues and bounds happier than the average man who isn't sexually successful. Most men do NOT get the last laughactually most research shows that the happiest group of people are single, childless women, followed by married men. Men are happiest when they're partnered with a woman, and women are happiest alone, and without children. which makes it baffling when men around here toss out the "yOu wILL dIe aLoNe aNd cHiLdLeSs" remark, as if it's some sort of insult....??? you DO realize you're technically threatening us with a good time, right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?I'd sooner set myself on fire than entertain such a horrible hypothetical! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 5 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?I would rather die single than date either of these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 19 | How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman?The worst part is that even when women give broke losers a chance, and are inevitably left as single moms with permanent ties to the deadbeat ex through the kids, these same men will turn around and blame her for giving an unemployed deadbeat man a chance. So if you date broke losers, and you end up screwing up your life, you’re a dumbass who “sHoULd cHoOsE bEtTeR mEn” And when you refuse to date unemployed men, you’re “a GoLd dIgGer wItH iMpOsSiBLe sTaNdArDs” You really can’t win as a woman on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Introduced FDS principles to friend. Resulted in a fight - need some insight!some pickmes are so stuck in their pickmeism that they need to get burned by it in order to move onto FDS principles. I say let them. there's more than plenty of cheap men to go around. Pickmes, redpill women, and conversative women can have them. Let them have each other. We don't want those men, anyway. | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?I'm a thin woman, I'm 5'11 and weigh 128 lbs. I can tell you with utter certainty that I got way more attention from men when I was 210 lbs than I have now. Most of the attention I'm getting now is from white men who are essentially on the LGBTQIA spectrum. Nothing's wrong with that, but I prefer not to date bisexual white men. It's just not my personal preference, I'd prefer to date a hetereosexual man who's never "experimented". It's just a personal preference. there's a solid reason the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL]Whats your thoughts when you hear “dating down” or “dating up”?I’ve always “dated up”. I think it’s funny how this sub pushes the idea that your options as a woman dwindle with age but I’ve never ever downgraded in a relationship. I’ve always been with men who were richer, taller, and better looking than my exes. The worst I’ve done was side-grade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 39 | How is this even a question??!!She’s a pickme and this is what you get when you erase all standards in order to get picked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:49 PM |
| 107 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Men don’t value women who don’t derive their value from servicehood to men. Women not bending over backwards to appease men is seen as a threat to a lot of men and they hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)because you want sex more... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 73 | I Am In Extreme Need Of Assistance Of How To Get Rid Of A Stalkerfirst and foremost. DO NOT BLOCK HIM. If you block him, he might get different numbers to stalk you from and it'll be impossible to prove it's him in court. Make SURE you do NOT delete any call logs, voicemails, pictures, messages, social media activity, or anything like that. if you have a security camera on your property, make sure you don't delete footage of him showing up to your place. if he's showing up to your job, get any emails from the office secretary or get copies of your those… | /r/askFDS | 25/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 38 | Don’t feed the trolls.I remember being in a zoom call, and it was hijacked by trolls who logged into the call and started yelling "TRUMP" this and "TRUMP" that. It was obnoxious. THe admin closed the room, and re-sent a new zoom invite. Cut them off mid-sentence. It was a great way to handle it. Nobody reacted. We were all just sitting there, jaw on the floor, for 10 seconds before the call disconnected and the host sent us a new zoom invite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?The bar is in hell. The bar is alleged at this point. It’s less than a myth or a rumor. The bar is imaginary. Even THIS is an overestimate of the status of the bar and it’s whereabouts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Are attractive guys actually less creepy?It’s been my experience that attractive guys are less creepy. They have more social experience so they know what behaviors will make them look creepy. They’re incredibly self aware, too They’re more likely to respect boundaries, take hints, and listen to you vs unattractive guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 07:17 AM |
| -1 | how to not be upset that no one wants meHave you tried online dating apps? A lot of us met our partners on dating apps | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 05:27 AM |
| -1 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?men take for granted that they can just go out into the world and be safe. They can just go for a walk at 2 am without precautions. When they go on a date, they don't have to let anyone know where they are, or that they made it home without being murdered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | How to deal/cope with not having been "worth" men's best efforts?You’re welcome, sis. Keep your chin up. You’re doing great ❤️ | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toHave you ever got a STD test, pap test, hormonal test, asked for a guy to wear protection, invested monthly money in coping with your natural body cycle? you ever take birth control which changes your ENTIRE hormone profile and chemistry, drive yourself mad with side effects, which INCLUDE fatal blood clots to avoid pregnancy from sex? Have we forgotten entirely about pregnancy? 10 months of literally gestating and growing an entire human being in you, FROM SCRATCH, only to permanently change/sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toIn reality, all of these men were super nice to the girls, spent a lot of money & time on them, dedicated a lot of mental energy to them so feel they're owed something. After they helped her on all her homework throughout college & get a pat on the head, a "I appreciate you" before they kick them out to bang the shit out of another man. It can be painful for the dude that was crushing on her & wanted a relationship or something. you mean PLATONIC friendships? Again, one guy isn't entitled to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toThe problem guys have isn't that these women don't sleep with them though, its that they treat them like they're invisible while treating 'chads' very well. you aren't entitled to what another man is getting.... you are not entitled to what "chad" is getting from women. The only "problem" here is that ugly men feel entitled to the same treatment and regard as hot men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 13 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toThey want virgin girls who only have eyes for them. I want whatever these men are smoking. It appears to be "the good shit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | She now puts effort to try to talk to me.Mistakes? | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 07:06 AM |
| 9 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?I have an inbox full of old men who think they "look young" spamming my social media accounts, bragging about their assets, property, connections, and ability to show me "a good time".... and I'm not alone in this. Every woman on this thread has facebook, IG, Tiktok, Snapchat, and other social media messages from men who are 20+ years their senior, swearing they're still "youthful" enough for us. Unless you're paying for her onlyfans, or your her sugar daddy, or you're a coworker/acquaintanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Okay. So the average man thinks he's above average and the average woman thinks she's below average? I sincerely doubt that. you can doubt it all you want. It's been studied to death and is well documented in the literature. Below are 2 sources: the actual study was behind a paywall, but this article gives the info away for free: According to the researchers, this is consistent with previous research showing that men tend to overestimate their own level of attractiveness while women don’t. Sou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 67 | How to deal/cope with not having been "worth" men's best efforts?How to deal/cope with not having been "worth" men's best efforts? the premise behind this question reveals your mindset a little bit. This question, and the assumptions behind it are coming from a pickme place. Don't be ashamed. Some of the most ruthless FDS users and coaches have been pickmes before. I'm ashamed to admit, before I found FDS, I was a massive pickme and I'm NGL, it hurts to come to the realization that you were treated like trash by these men and accepted it. How can you improve … | /r/askFDS | 14/04/21 11:07 PM |
| -1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?I think men would rate other men similarly to how they rate themselves. Regardless of the specifics/nitty gritty. They probably would rate men more attractive than women would. I don't have numbers to back this up - since it's really hard to find this info. But I venture to guess that a lot of men feel like women under rate how attractive men are, when really, women are just being honest, bro. You can't "negotiate" attraction. I either have eyes, or don't. Men either are or aren't hot. Again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?It's good write, however the expectation that now more children are born out of more attractive fathers and will foster more desirable offspring seems to me to be a false expectation. The correlation between attractiveness for men and number of offspring is mildly positive. I think there will be a lack of kids born to undesirable/ugly fathers as online dating gives rise to a real-world unintended testing ground for "The sexy son hypothesis" (good explanation for that here: https://www.psychology… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?no man. these men were objectively hideous. I have the photos and videos and pornos. It was disgusting. Love really was blind for me, back then. Like FUCKING BLIND. It had to be. Eww. and I'm not just saying that because I hated these guys in particular. I have some sexy exes who aged well and still think they're sexy asf too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Were you disgusted because of those men’s ages themselves or because of how the men looked due to aging? both. I could tell they weren't my age. It was just weird and gross. It was a gut reaction. Seeing someone who's old enough to drink with my dad, or to hangout with my uncles. It was disturbing to me Idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractiveWhy did you give them a chance, though? Did you think they’d treat you better because you were out of their league? low self esteem, insecurities, AND I was a teenager who really believed that "personality" is all that mattered. I was also heavily into my catholicism back then and well... the church has the ugliest men. Anyways, I gave them a chance and THEN they turned out to be massive douchebags, of course, and that's when it hit me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Women today don't financially depend on men as much as they used to, because they are no longer economically disenfranchised. Did the reality of women being able to support themselves without a husband cause the birth rate to decline? I think yes & no. Hear me out. I think in the past, women selected for men who could provide, because women had limited options for being able to survive due to the economic oppression of the past. Birth control was also sub-par, and abortion was virtually un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | What gives a young man more clout, sleeping with a bunch of women or having an attractive gf?I'm not going to ask, but if he's built himself a reputation for it then thats a deal breaker. A LOT of women would never date a friend's ex, and if he's slept around and has a reputation, then chances are that he's slept with one of your friends, coworkers, cousins, siblings, etc. I've rejected a fair share of male friends because they used to date someone in my friend/acquaintance group. Men underestimate how much this limits their options within women's friend groups/social circles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractiveFds is not manipulation. It’s avoiding people who won’t be good for you. Those who aren’t compatible with your goals and I guess your « couple goals. » Letting them go. How is that a bad thing, to analyze a situation and peacefully decide not to date a person ? This is exactly what I tell people all the time. FDS women would avoid redpilled men like the plague. Redpilled men would avoid FDS women like the plague. They're not compatible. They won't see or hear from each other, and both groups a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 8 | If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractiveAnd yet I keep seeing comments by women here all the time saying that they or their female friends have dated less attractive men because of their personality. I because a lot of us HAVE dated ugly men. I've specifically given 2 ugly men a chance, and discovered what a lot of women already knew: That ugly guys treat you the same as, or worse than, hot guys. This is one of the reasons I don't give ugly guys a chance anymore. If the treatment is the same, why should I go for tguy I'm not attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?the actual study was behind a paywall, but this article gives the info away for free: According to the researchers, this is consistent with previous research showing that men tend to overestimate their own level of attractiveness while women don’t. Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think Here's another source that's not behind a paywall. God... a LOT of these are behind a paywall. These findings are consistent with past s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractivemen without good looks or status aren't entitled to the same women that make themselves available exclusively to men with good looks/status. TRP struggles with this a lot. I'm seeing a lot of men who are SHOCKED and APPALLED that women who only date hot/rich guys won't give them the time of day. You're not entitled to what another man has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 13 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?There's a reason men on websites like Seeking Arrangements are paying $3k/month for a sugarbaby. If younger women were truly interested in older men organically, this market for sugar babies wouldn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 4 | If you think the Red Pill doesn’t apply to you as a woman, chances are you are not that physically attractiveMore attractive people have higher standards? You don't say. r/NoShitSherlock has so much content to weed through, from PPD alone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 9 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?I'm in my early twenties and none of my peers (social circle, instagram friends etc) are dating anyone more than 5 years older than them. This was my experience when I was in my early 20s. My exes in my 20s were all within 2 years of my age, with 1 ex being like 8 months younger than I am. I remember being repulsed by the 30 year olds who hit on me then, just like I'm repulsed by the 50/60 year olds who hit on me now. Gross! The reality is that age-gap relationships are really rare, and only t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Lol but you've already had 4 my kids aren't with me at all times. I had them, essentially on the weekends and holidays since 2 of them have already graduated college, and 2 are living in other countries and attending boarding schools. I honestly don't even tell guys I have kids. I just tell them I don't want any children or lie and say I'm infertile and can't have kids, and it's been a dealbreaker for them more often than not. I'd say about 70% of the guys I've dated are NOT okay with not havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?It's my lived experience. you cannot invalidate my lived experience. Die mad about it, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?My guess is most of the men who are worried about women using them for money probably don't have that much to begin with. I have dated millionaires and broke guys, and this hits the nail RIGHT on the head. The men who were most worried about "gold diggers" that I've encountered, made less than $40k. The ones who were making millions? Offered to put me on their payroll to reduce their tax burden and so I can have something nice for myself. Treated me with nice gifts, nice vacations, nice trips,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Men overestimate how attractive they are, and women underestimate how attractive they are.... this has been documented & studied to death. A dude that thinks he's a 7, is probably a 2... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?men vastly overestimate their attractiveness, consistently, while women tend to underestimate their attractiveness. This has been documented & studied to death, bro. Your definition of an "average" guy, is in fact, a HIDEOUS, sub-zero guy, who thinks he's average, and your definition of an "average" gal, is in fact, an above average gal... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?I know too many girls who have fucked/dated dudes or are currently fucking/dating dudes way uglier than them, have also dated some very ugly fat guys, and know too many ugly fat dudes with average or even cute gfs. And the girls are in their teens/early 20s too, not "settling down" at 30+ All of this. In fact, I was more willing to give ugly guys a chance in my teens & 20s, vs in my 30s and 40s. After 26 or so, I stopped giving ugly guys a chance and could only find the energy to date men I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Attraction via emotional connection is quite literally the female experience. Can confirm. I'm not usually attracted to men who are .... ugly. But I did give a few ugly guys a chance, and what tipped the scales in their favor was their dynamic, captivating personality and the beautiful people that they were. There's merit to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 4 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?Chads and super good looking guys are not arseholes. I have seen no correlation with looks and arsehole behaviour (which is why I think it's ok to be shallow). I've had the best treatment of my life come from the hottest men I've dated. Inversely, some of the lowest quality relationships I've had happened when I gave an ugly guy a chance. I'm so glad someone else validated this. I'm sure there's hot assholes out there, but I haven't encountered them nearly as much as I have encountered the ugl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?This. I have a mean case of resting bitch face and I can look evil and pissed off when I'm in a rush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?That we prefer dadbods etc over a tall, strong and lean young physique. I hate that TRP and the manosphere normalized this bit of misinformation. NO WE DO NOT LIKE DADBODS! I'm attracted to a jacked, ripped, tall guy with a head full of hair. No, bald is not "sexy". No, "dad bod" isn't sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 17 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?The idea that a man's sexual market value increases with age and peaks around 40. The idea that attractive young women are clamouring to get with a "successful" 40 year old bloke is just pure delusion. If you ask a group of hot 21 year old women whether they'd be interested in banging a 39 year old man they'd probably throw up in their mouths. absolutely all of this. When I was a teenager, men in their 20s and 30s would hit on me. Did I throw myself at them? NO. I wasn't attracted to them, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 12 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?It’s been the opposite for me and my network and even my parents. I've also seen this in my own experience. I have 4 kids and I'm not interested in having any more. When I meet men, I tell them I'm done having kids and honestly, this has been a dealbreaker more often than not, with the guys I've dated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 5 | What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience?What is commonly said by people of your sex on PPD that you feel doesn't represent your personal experience? Men on this sub love to remind women like me that the older we get, the harder it is to find high quality partners. It just has not been supported by my life experience. I've never downgraded. Each boyfriend I've had has either been a side-grade or an upgrade in terms of looks, success/wealth/status, and relationship quality, and I'm in my mid 40s and have 4 kids. I've never had a probl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."One guy isn’t entitled to the same shit another guy is getting. Why is this so hard to grasp? You’re not entitled to what another man is getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 03:14 AM |
| -1 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.One of the FEW posts in this sub that’s got merit. Absolutely true. Tons of women will not even swipe right on a profile unless the guy shows that he’s got a stable career, wealth, hobbies, his own place, a degree, and a personality… I’m one of them. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathreadthe giga-ist. Die mad about it. ,|,,, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 12:25 AM |
| -1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadPart of the question was that you could never love again after taking the cash. Does that change your answer? in that case. Yes. But ONLY after I've already had all the children I wanted to have and feel like I'm "done" with romance. I'd get it ALL out of my system first. Then once I'm bored of it, I'd take the money and go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 12:19 AM |
| -2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathreadwoman here. I'd take the lump sum of cash, and THEN I'd go get a relationship. But I'm atypical in that I'm fine with doing amoral shit to get what I want out of relationships. The REAL rat race is biological... which might help explain why a lot of people valued relationships over money in the thread you linked. Passing your genes down to the next generation is LITERALLY the point of your existence, biologically. Nobody's going to remember the billionaire who had no heirs and left it all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI think this godforsaken website and the various subreddits I'm on has actually made me raise my standards. My standards went through the ROOF when I discovered reddit & FDS. It's only gotten higher. I'd say my standards are circling around Neptune right now, on an upward trajectory out of this solar system.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadJust came back from a family reunion and my cousin's husband is now bald. He looks SO different and well... I haven't seen them in about 5 years but holy shit.... I'm not going to take my boyfriends full head of hair for granted anytime soon. I feel bad for the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: How do we let go of “ the one who got away” or “ what could’ve been” thoughts?You have to create options. This means being open to meeting other men and dating again. This means being open to using online dating apps to meet men. the reason you're still obsessing over an ex is because you are operating from a place of scarcity. You're not being flooded with attention from HVM, and so you go looking for it wherever you last found it, and it sets you back. A LOT of women on this sub completely discount OLD apps as valid tools for dating in 2021. I'm here to tell you t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Bye b*tchhe's clearly still bitter and jaded. I hope he watches you move on and be happy with your new HVM boyfriend while he still sits there and thinks about you nonstop, with his incessant bullshit. What was the purpose of this letter? Why would he take the time to type this out, send it to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!Pickme in the comments, in the wild, pandering to cheap, LVM sympathizers. Hope she gets picked.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?Absolutely. I had a guy in a friend group of coworkers ask me out. The problem is, he dated one of my coworkers and I don't date my friends' exes. I also don't date coworkers or friends, but he tried it. I politely declined. I could never shit where I eat OR disrespect my coworker & friend like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lolsad, desperate pickmes & their LVM/NVM/Incel groupies started an ExFDS subreddit and their posts are entirely cringe. It really is sad and tragic to scroll through and sometimes I wish I could unsee some of the crap they post over there. It's also pathetically obvious that a lot of "women" over there are legitimate male LARPs. I hope they get picked.... /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | How long did you wait before being proposed to?back in the day, when I was interested in monogamy, I waited no longer than 6 months for a ring from my exes. The longest I waited was 2 years before I developed the 6-month rule. If I ever become interested in monogamy again, I would absolutely ghost any man who hasn't given me a ring on the 6 month mark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 34 | This is just sadHow is this any sort of upgrade from being single? This is an objective life downgrade from being single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Dating a much older man is a waste of time because he's obviously into women of a certain age, and you will eventually age out of his preferred age and get your heart broken and your time wasted. If they were into women their own age, they'd be dating them. You've got to choose your audience wisely as a woman. If you choose to entertain men who aren't attracted to older women, then you should brace yourself for heart break when you eventually age out of their preference group. If you choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?They do understand them, they just don’t relate to them because their lives are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadIf he doesn’t make plans I start talking to other guys . And yes if I’m in the mood to go out this weekend and you didn’t ask I’m definitely still going out that weekend I've done this, too! I felt like going out for Valentine's day this year. Ghosted like a dozen guys but managed to set up 2 dates that day. A Late lunch date, and a dinner date. Same outfit, refreshed makeup. I ghosted a dozen guys who didn't make plans for that day with me. Good times. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadindeed. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?The second group feels entitled to what the first group has, and are bitter and jaded when they can't get it... So... they spam PPD and reddit with all kinds of TRP drivel involving the word hYpeRgAmy.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship?not really.... is it some sort of "guy code"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Agreed. Not all of us are fuckboys. My point is that the majority of us are, because we can. Similar to the way most women are hypergamous -- supply and demand dynamics in the dating market (now supercharged by dating and social media apps) gives them the leverage to do so, so they will. The majority of tall, hot, successful men are not fuckboys. That hasn't been my experience, and it's not the experience of many women on online dating apps. All we need to do is swipe and filter out the fuckboys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 21 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadBeautiful women have lots of options and plenty of guys chasing them. If you choose to do the date in two weeks' time instead of this week, chances are she'll say yes to go out with another guy this weekend. This is one of the FEW posts on this subreddit that hits the nail right on the head. This, especially, is completely true, 100%. I'm here to verify this, for a FACT, as a woman, who's done this on OLD apps. In my inbox are men I have dates with men this week, next week, and the week afte… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?This is one of the best takes I’ve seen. One of the concisest way to put this, that I’ve ever seen. You’re completely right. A guys not entitled to what another guy had. Perfectly phrased! Wish I had a gold to award! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship?Usually it’s because their new partner demands that they stop talking to other men due to his insecurities. I’m ashamed to say I fell for this type of manipulation when I was younger 😔 I’ve also had amazing guy friends ghost me completely when I got a boyfriend and it was devastating. It’s not that I stopped talking to them, it’s just that they didn’t wanna be friends anymore after I got a boyfriend 😞 A lot of women also do the same thing. Whenever this one particular friend I have gets a new bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?that physically attractive/successful/sophisticated men on dating apps are primarily looking for monogamous dating/relationships (lol) and not exploiting their abundant sexual options, is delusional at best. I speak from experience as a stereotypically attractive man with many cosmopolitan peers (both men and women) in major cities in the US who discuss and grapple with these dynamics every day. The problem... the REAL problem with TRP and their "philosophy" is that they assume that ALL physical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. Some people want to be sure that another person likes them before approaching and starting a conversation. This is the wrong mindset to have. However, if you reverse the order to first interact then attract, you will find that there are new opportunities around every corner. But you must be willing to take the first step forward. I don't typically "interfere" in the affairs of men, but this is one of th… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?women make some guys wait 3 months, and it's a red flag because they are making that relationship not about sex. because, as we discussed. When you, as a woman, fuck a guy on the first date, or second, or third, or too soon, really.... he often pulls back the level of effort and special treatment he was providing you. Most women know this by the time they do it a couple of times. This is why women make the guy they REALLY WANT, wait for it. Because we don't want him to ghost us, treat us like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Everything afterwards is either: you are easy to manipulate or genuinely slutty - both disqualify you from serious dating (because you are a risk). I am a GIGA-slut. I'm a WHOOOOREEEEE. I'm not ashamed to admit it, HERE, on Reddit, ANONYMOUSLY. I like to fuck. I'm a sexual woman. I love sex, and I love it. I've had over 150 partners, and IDGAF. I'll admit it here, where I'm anonymous. My partners can't tell and don't know. If they ask, I either dodge the question, or tell them I've been en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?it's not about being "entitled". Its about how you were being treated BEFORE vs AFTER you have sex with him. It's a 180 degree difference. Before sex, you're getting tons of effort, investment, interest, and affection from him. After the sex, NOTHING, or a fraction of the treatment you used to get before sleeping with him. THis is why women don't sleep with men too soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:59 AM |
| 2 | If you're not hot or rich, you can't afford to be shallow.I say what’s the point? if that’s my option. no man... no. Tons of 40s, 50s, 60s year old women are thriving in the online dating communities, as usual. This place just likes to assume that the ONLY men willing to date these women must be desperate or whatever else. Nope. Tons of perfectly great, normal, average, above average, and hot guys go for these women. They're not desperate for shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | If you're not hot or rich, you can't afford to be shallow.but most guys aren’t exactly lining up to date or fuck a 45 year old single mother... I promise you, they are. Do you know any 45 year old single moms? Their dating inboxes would tear a hole through TRP bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I see tumbleweeds in your OLD inboxes. Die mad about it! ,|,,, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?In theory sure, but in practice nope. all of my experiences come from lived experience, not "theory". Not until they get older & lose beauty anyway. This is a sad revenge-fantasy that's perpetuated by incels to shame older women into lowering their standards. If this were anywhere near reality, then we'd see older women lowering their standards, not raising them. Standards go through the roof as women age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?no, I knew what the rumors were. I just wanted to go with the flow at the time. I thought men were different. I wanted to "gIvE mEn a cHaNcE" to show me that "nOt aLL mEn wErE LiKe tHaT" and guess what? ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT. yes, ALL MEN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | There’s so much creepiness here.this is worse than that "landlord" who only wanted "female tenants" from a while ago. WTF. I hope you reported this ad for discrimination! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 10 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...and yet men flock to have FDS banned instead of these pedophilic, depraved communities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Tell me about the time you were the “dream girl”When I didn't want to move in with him, he BOUGHT a house near where I lived and convinced me to move in with him. He would tell me frequently I was the best thing that's ever happened to him, and he didn't know how he lived before he met me. Another ex of mine bought me a new 2019 Tesla, and paid $170k towards one of my mortgages. This particular ex also helped me finance one of my businesses and raised $1.8m in capital so my business could thrive the first year. I really miss him sometim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 13 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I’m not even disagreeing with you that a lot conventionally unattractive guys are just as bad if not worse than conventionally attractive ones but just saying you could make that point without body-shaming 🤷🏼 and Why should I be nice to the men who frequent PPD, TRP, and other MRA spaces?? THey have no problems calling women all sorts of pejorative names. They've got NO problems calling for mass rape, mass murder, and mass oppression of women. Why should I be the nice one? "Ugly" isn't even as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Actually it's both. There's tons of men who will treat women like gold, ONLY IF they don't get easy sex from them on the first date. This really isn't hard... its really really not that hard. Maybe you're just... not appealing? except when you do run this experiment and you actually make them wait for sex, and you get tons of proposals, several men wanted to marry you, and you've had to reject your fair share of men who fell in love with you and couldn't get you to be exclusive with them?? A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yes they do, it's but it's just that there are do many men just looking for sex. But men warn women about this, but they never listen. then men like the OP should stop bitching about women not having sex with men on the first date. Seriously. If men are warning women that fucking on the first date will lead to shit treatment and trash/garbage outcomes, and women are being treated like trash after fucking on the first date. Then NOBODY should be surprised when women no longer want to sleep with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Starting relationships off with a lie. Nice. Wonder what else you have no issue lying about because "men bad." I'm stunned no one has found you to be worth marrying. I don't give a FUCK. I'll lie about anything, anyone, in any way at any time to get what I want from these men. I've been the one to dump the men who proposed to me because I want to be single and have fun. I'm in an ethically nonmonogamous relationship with 9 boyfriends and have posted about it before. I don't want marriage. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?What makes you assume it was only because he got the sex? You have nothing else to offer so why else should he stay then? because it happens over and over and over again. On first dates, second dates. Fourth dates. The only common denominator is the sex. This just confirms my point that yall just want sex and relationships to be 100% on your own terms. 100% correct. I want my cake. I want to eat it, too. I want HIS cake, and I want to eat that, too. men are not butlers who serve you just bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 23 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I am a height girl first and foremost, then an abs, muscle, ripped/jacked physique second, and finally I'm a HAIR girl. I want HAIR on his head. Not a receding line, not a "thinning" line, and not a baldie locks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 94 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂this is what those "looking to see where things goes" type of dudes look like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:06 AM |
| 468 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂aaaaaaaaaaaaaand the photograph was the icing ontop of a very delusional cake. Hairline is about to launch off into space, and he's clearly packing more than a few extra pounds. He's 45, fat, balding, and looking for women as young as 30?? I deadass want to know who his dealer is. I want whatever the fuck he's smoking, it appears to be the "good shit". "introverted, passionate, and sexy" AKA: horny as fuck all the time, will pester you for sex, and don't like going outside so you must … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?p.r.o.o.f. My lived experience is proof. You will not gaslight my lived experience. the fact that women aren't sleeping with men on the first date en masse, is also proof.... But I see what you're doing. digging through my comment/post history with "pRoOf" as if my lived experience doesn't count. You already know what things are. I'm not going to argue with another troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Do redpill men have mother issues?Women dont do it for sake of moral good. Nobody's attracted to "moral good" viscerally. Tell me, when you're swiping on Tinder, are you swiping for women who your attracted to, naturally? Or are you carefully inspecting each profile for evidence of "moral good" in order to determine a right vs left swipe? If you want to have ugly babies, that's all perfectly fine and dandy. You're allowed to breed with whoever you want to breed with. But let's not sit here and pretend like we don't all have ey… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Well good luck with that. I've had exceptional luck with it. Die mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I sure as fuck didn't do all that bullshit when I dated. It was OLD. We matched, talked a bit, and then she suggested going on a date, all within a couple days at most. I have absolutely matched with men who have done nothing. Never sent a message. Never tried. they never heard from me. It seems like you'd never be my type, and I'd never be yours. We'd never ever meet and that's 100% okay for me and probably 100% okay by you. Every person gets to choose who they go (or don't) go out with. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:55 AM |
| -1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?You realize you're literally saying that women should be rewarded just for existing. I am 100% saying exactly this. I am ALSO saying that I have, in fact, been rewarded for simply existing. I am ALSO saying that I will ONLY entertain men who reward me for simply existing, with EXORBITANT levels of energy, effort, affection, money, gifts, time, attention, and other benefits. I am ALSO saying that I refuse to entertain ANY man who won't reward me for existing. I ALSO refuse to entertain ANY man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?yes. Effort like high quality messaging. Lots of phone calls. Lots of interest, affection, investment. Being curious about me, wanting to get to know me. Being interested about my life.... Listening to what I like, so he can plan an elaborate first date. Little shit like "good morning, beautiful" texts, and "good night, princess" texts... WTF?? Ya'll are acting like you just hit some sort of epiphany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 14 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?TRP men and incels like to pretend like ugly guys are going to treat you better. THEY DON'T. In fact, ugly guys usually treat you worse because they're less socially experienced. Hot guys are usually very socially experienced and they KNOW they need to reach for that check and pay for shit on a date. They KNOW how to dress, act, and groom themselves. They know what to say to woo, charm, and romance a girl. Whereas the ugly guys are usually "nEtFlIx aNd cHiLL" or looking for a girl who's "dOwN … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Because how can they be putting effort in, before they even put effort in? because they do?? you match on an app, exchange numbers, great. He calls, texts, etc. He's interested in the calls, clearly invests in the texts... etc. He calls frequently. Eventually he asks you out on a date. On the first date, he plans a nice, elaborate date. Sends an uber to pick me up/drop me off. Take me to a nice restaurant that reflects my dining preferences followed by a really nice activity to do afterwards. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:12 AM |
| 17 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?why ghost them? this is a great question for the men. Why do men pump & dump the women they fuck on the first date? Why ghost a woman who's clearly into sex, into him, and has a high libido? Why is there no "pump & marry" stereotype? Why is there no "chastity-shaming" and "slut-advocating"? It's cultural misogyny. Men are shooting themselves in the foot by filtering out "sluts" in favor of "chastity", and then looking like clowns in the r/DeadBedrooms sub bitching about their wife who fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?the men on here would be SO upset to find out what the real world of dating is like for women. Women they label "post-wall" "undesirable, single moms with nothing to offer" are putting ME to shame in the dating world. They're pulling all kinds of amazing men who treat them like gold and I see it around me all the time. They'd see it around them, too, if they left their basements and actually had women as friends. If they were part of any group chats with real women, where we discuss the men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?If you eliminated EVERY man who thought this way, you'd be left with men who frequent sex workers, a lot of trans men, and women. You'd have to be a lesbian, sis. The men who don't look down on women who sleep with them on the first date are as rare as 1/60, in my experience, probably even rarer than that, given that I'm a giga-slut and I'm very experienced with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I didn't make these rules. I didn't choose this culture. If I were to have it my way, I'd be able to fuck the guys I'm attracted to, on the first date, and then have them want me and consider me seriously for marriage. It doesn't work that way, does it? There's no "pump & marry" stereotype to back this up, is there? Men aren't out here "chastity-shaming" and "slut-advocating", are they? The basic facts of the situation are: Men treat women who fuck and suck on the first date LIKE GARBAGE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I don't, anymore. Personally, I leave once the energy changes, the first time, and I stay gone. There are no second chances with me. I keep it moving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?All this sounds like is he was putting in a lot more work than the women ever was putting into the whole interaction and now is mad because he stopped. Sounds like you have nothing else to off. this is the problem. This is EXACTLY why women make men wait. Men will invest, and chase, and treat, and put forth tons of effort, only to stop all of that, and cut it completely off after you sleep with him on the first date. This is what I mean by "men punish women who sleep with them on the first dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yes blame him for things other men did. "she learned that if she fucks men on the first date, she's going to be treated like trash, so now she won't fuck anyone on the first date. I know 99% of men are gonna do this, but I'm different! Different, I say! Well why am I not given the chance? Why am I not given the benefit of the doubt?" "She learned that once she touches a hot stovetop, she's going to get her hand burned. She's touched 60 stovetops and has had all kinds of burns, every time, except… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?no. Because the guys I hook up with and the guys I date, all don't get a play-by-play recount of my life history, complete with a full body count. If they ask, I tell them I was engaged once and that's it. My N-count to all of these guys is 1. The fact that I've done this with 60+guys lets you know I'm not just "dabbling in theory", or "guessing", or projecting. I've actually gone out there in the real world, and gained REAL WORLD EXPERIENCE with men. Like an experiment. I have a high libido… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Also, you are not entitled to a relationship just because you have sex with someone. you are not entitled to sex with any woman who you are dating. Because they don't have to. Women don't have to fuck on the first date, and that's why they aren't fucking certain guys on the first date. Men aren't entitled to sex. Leaving after sex is not treating them like crap Not getting what you want is not a punishment, you sound just as bad as those guys who pay for dinner then feel entitled to sex af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?No one is entitled to a relationship. No one is entitled to sex. If a man isn't going to treat a woman with respect, and continue providing high-value behaviors and effort, then he should be made to wait for it or ghosted for being a shitbag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?So you got a ring from a man who strung a girl along for 6 years. I personally would not feel like that's a prize because I would wonder what kind of man he is for stringing someone along for 6 years. That doesn't sound like a prize to me. he wasn't a prize, and I left him for other reasons, but I am saying that men are willing to tell you ANYTHING that you're willing to accept just so they can have free-easy sex. Otherwise they'd be single and masterbating, or they'd be paying $300/hr for a hoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 19 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?They wouldn't have rewarded a woman for making them wait; they just would have ghosted her once it became clear she wasn't going to have sex. this is the plan, and the point. Tons of women don't want to sleep with a guy who's not going to commit to them, and making them wait is a good way to get the ones who aren't interested in commitment to fuck off. this is exactly the point of making them wait. Getting them to fuck off, if their intentions are impure. I'd be interested to hear why you be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:47 PM |
| 8 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?So you are saying these are normal men, not cruel men, who will treat a woman like a queen unless that woman sleeps with him too early, then he will treat her cruelly? I'm saying that most men do this. Even if he's an amazing, charming, sensitive and sweet guy that you fall for, which leads you to fuck him on the first date... he's going to change his energy somehow after that. You won't like the change. He's going to treat you differently. He won't want you as much. He won't put forth the effor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?if only we lived in a world where men didn't PUNISH women who gave them easy, immediate, first-date sex with trash treatment. If only we lived in a world where men treated celibate women with the same respect as the women who fucked them on the first date... when men punish women for giving them fast, easy sex, then act SHOCKED when women stop giving them fast, easy sex.... then idk what to tell ya'll. Do you want sex or not?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Because men treat women who fuck them on the first night like TRASH. Women who fuck a man on the first date are typically ghosted, treated like garbage, left on read, slut-shamed, and have nasty/vicious rumors spread about them. MEN are the ones who punish women for fucking them on the first date. Guess what they don't punish? Men don't punish women who make them wait for sex. Women who make men wait for sex are rewarded with increased commitment, increased energy/effort/romance, and better ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 11 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?"A lot of women have a hoe phase then suddenly change" Why do you think they suddenly change? here's what you learn from your "hoe phase". That when you fuck a guy on the first date, he's going to treat you like trash, insult you, ghost you, or give 10% of the effort/energy/investment he used to give you before you fucked him. That's what the hoe phase teaches you. Once you've learned that giving men sex immediately will lead to penalties, you adjust your behaviors to avoid the penalties. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 33 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Some believe in the idea that, when you're serious about a guy, you should behave differently in order to inspire a real bond. I don't really agree with this one. Just because a guy is willing to wait for sex doesn't mean he'll want to be committed. Additionally, some men have an active aversion to commitment until sexual compatibility has been established. The first one is true. Many many women have had sex with men they were really attracted to, who they really wanted a relationship with, on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?That's not true, there are plenty of stories of men getting the shit end of the deal where their wives have hooked up with tons of guys in her youth and then turns into a prude for her husband and won't even do half the shit she did with those other guys. This is precisely the problem. If hooking up with guys on the first date got you a ring, more women would be doing it. The fact of the matter is that the men she slept with on the first date, never wanted to marry her, and the man she made wait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 9 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?It’s quite funny that your entire thing is blaming men for the fact that you’ve slept with 60+ guys on the first date and then made some poor sap wait “2.5 years” (which I’m super skeptical of lol). This is exactly the problem. Men don't reward women who sleep with them on the first date. I was equally attracted to the men I slept with on the first date, AND the guy who waited 2.5 years. But I had learned from experience, that men treat you like garbage the second you sleep with them, while they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?If he's lying, then making him wait a year or two will eventually weed him out. even the toughest of conmen will abandon a mark if the con isn't worth the effort. This is very effective in weeding out the men who are faking a lot of shit just to get laid, making them wait, will get them to fuck off to easier targets who won't make them wait, and then you get to move onto someone else who might be more serious about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Just because I was a pick me doesn't mean I deserved LVM treatment right?“Once he learns that you'll kiss his ass no matter what, it's only a matter of time before he leaves you for a woman that will challenge him and make him do the work.” I’m not convinced many men want to be challenged that way...do they? They absolutely do. This is the difference between Pickmes and HVW. HVW will not negotiate on their standards or the treatment they want to receive from men and will walk away from a situation the moment her interests and needs aren't being met. I think many like… | /r/askFDS | 06/04/21 09:53 PM |
| 9 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?its literally like you morons dont know that men chuck and fuck women who have sex with them right away exactly this. Men punish women who give them sex immediately and frequently. Men reward women who make them wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I have in fact fucked high value men on the first date. You know what happened? They either ghosted me, started treating me like shit, or put forth a fraction of the effort they used to put forth before I slept with them. ALMOST ALL MEN do this. When a woman sleeps with them on the first date, all of the effort, courting, romance, and energy he used to put forth into courting her and showing her tons of interest VANISHES. He ghosts her, leaves her on read, doesn't ask her out as much, won't ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?They also complain about no casual sex from women, but then they shame women for having casual sex. they also treat women who make them wait for sex much better than women who sleep with them on the first date. And then they turn around and act SHOCKED when women don't want to line up and sleep with men on the first date.... then they act dumbfounded when women make men wait because men punish women who sleep with them on the first date with worse treatment, slut-shaming, and lower effort/ener… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 18 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?she really likes the guy & doesn’t want to come off as a “easy” - plenty of men say they will treat or view a woman based on if she has sex on the first date. This is absolutely the reason I make certain guys wait. If I really really like the guy and want him to stick around and continue to treat me well, I have to make him wait. When I was naive and thought I should just go with the flow, I would sleep with men who I really really liked on the first or second or third dates, and then they'd eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I have actually done all of this. Fucked one guy the same day, vs made 1 guy wait 2.5 years. It's because when you sleep with a guy on the first date, the way he treats you changes. If he used to call you a lot, text you, send you gifts, and plan really elaborate effort, you can pretty much forget about all of that if you fuck him on the first date. He will either ghost you as a woman, or treat you like garbage. All of the effort he used to put in, will either immediately stop, or scale back d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:25 PM |
| 39 | Just because I was a pick me doesn't mean I deserved LVM treatment right?Pickmeism isn't some sort of permanent disability. You CAN change your mindset and recover from it and transform into a high value FDS woman. I was strong most of the way through until he started losing interest in me, and I became too much of a nice pickme, who would stay around no matter what because I give too many chances while I'm not even given 1 chance. I had some other flaws I was working on he never let me show him either. you fell for one of the oldest man-trick in the book. Love-bombi… | /r/askFDS | 06/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Even celebrities will slide in normal girls (thin girls) DM's for a hookup because easy attraction. AGAIN - celebrities are working in a field where thin people are gods and anyone else is seen as less than. They are the SOURCE of fat phobia and fat-hatred. Of course they're going to be going after thin people... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?If this was the case though, then why don't the top desirable celebrity men ever date fatter woman? holywood and the film/modeling industry is the LOUDEST group of people when it comes to anyone who's not super thin or fit. that's why. It's the source of fat-phobia and fat-hatred. Of COURSE it's going to be filled with thin people dating other thin people... that's just the culture of holywood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?The number of men who are viscerally attracted to thin women is really really low. They’re just the loudest group. They incessantly bitch about everything that’s not model thin…. LOUDLY I got way WAY more attention back when I was overweight vs now where my BMI is 19 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 24 | HELP - my LVM ex just asked me if I want him to go to counseling with me.Don’t give in. He heard through the grapevine or social media that you’re dating someone else and he’s scrambling to mess up this new relationship so you either stay single or go crawling back to him. Fuck him and fuck that. Ignore the text/ call. Don’t even respond | /r/askFDS | 05/04/21 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Do redpill men have mother issues?Actually, incels and TRP users have daddy AND mommy issues. They resent women for being super picky and selective about looks (tall men, hot guys, etc). At the SAME TIME, they themselves demand that thin, young, attractive women with no standards find them viscerally attractive. The fact that they bitch, whine, and complain about women's selectiveness/pickiness when it comes to appearances reflects the fact that they WISH their mother would've rejected their short, bald, ugly, inadequate fat… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyAnyway, men generally seem more eager than women about sex, so there's arguably something more fundamental going on (libido differences, attitude differences, whatever IT seems to be that way. Men across all ages are typically happier when they get and find a partner vs women. This was studied to death - where a bunch of studies show that single, childless women are the happiest group of people, followed by married men. Men don't really enjoy the single life like women do. Single men are more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on dating a friends ex? LVW behavior or depends?This is a very touchy subject. I would ask her, tbh. Is it okay for you to date this person? Is she sure? IF she says no, then you should respect her wishes, if you care about that friendship. If she says yes, go ahead. Ask and re-affirm if she's certain. Tell her it's okay if she says no, and you just want her authentic response so you're not overstepping any boundaries or making her feel uncomfortable | /r/askFDS | 31/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 109 | Do you ever look back at the creeps you dated in the past? It makes me feel so disgusted with myself.I was so insecure so I’d allow these unattractive insecure men to love-bomb me then show their true selves (because, like many of us, I was told it’s the attractive guys were the ones who cheat and make terrible partners). You noticed that, too? The men I dated in my teens & 20s were the UGLIEST that I've ever dated. The older I got, the higher my standard for hotness became, and the hotter the men I dated. When we are younger, we're impressionable and are told that we should overlook physical… | /r/askFDS | 31/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | "If he wanted to, he would", but why doesn't he want me?At the beginning, he probably did care about me twice as much, but he got tired that I gave a "fraction of the effort". This is really important. In the beginning, when he cared for you twice as much as you cared about him, he WAS FINE with the level of effort you were putting in. When "he got tired that you gave a fraction of the effort", that was at the point where he didn't care about you as much, so he felt comfortable enough nitpicking at your level of effort, a level he had no issues wit… | /r/askFDS | 31/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyIt does boil down to your options, but why do you get those options in the first place? because of the male to female ratio on online dating apps. I seriously and legitimately suspect that there's between 5-150 men for every 1 woman on the various platforms. When I'm the only woman in my area available in a pool of 500-1,000+ men per 15 minutes spent swiping, Even if I'm only going after 10% of them, and even if all of them don't message me back, that's still a lot of messages in my inbox. If I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyIt boils down to my options. I’ve been successful in attracting high quality, high value, gorgeous/tall/sexy men simply by swiping liberally and frequently…. Simply by rejecting all other men. It’s just that easy and simple. It does take patience. Most men are hideous, short, balding, fat, unemployed, have vapid personalities, or are cheap/lazy courtiers. I literally just swipe left on them and only swipe right on my target demographic and then I sit back and wait for the messages to flood my in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Men want to humble you so badly, they’ll defy logic to do it. Stay woke.Lol!!! She killed me at "draw these bitches from scratch" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyto each, their own. I never ever interact, interface, or even notice them. they never interface, interact, or notice me. They're not my type, I'm not their type. Win/Win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazythey're typically really sweet and charming. They take initiative, ask me out, plan dates, pay for shit, and honestly it's a great time. I see each of my 9 boyfriends 1-3 times a month, and not much more than that, unless we're going on a trip or vacation. So far the only issue I've had with these guys is that about 60% of them say they're okay with me not wanting to be exclusive, and within the first year, most of them pressure me to be exclusive or press me for info about who else I'm seeing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyit's been my experience that it doesn't matter what your looks are like. Unless you're horribly disfigured (a burn victim or amputee), all you need to do as a woman to get tons of high quality matches from high value men is swipe A LOT. Like swiping on 200 men/day. Which would be like ~30 minutes on the app. I've just been swiping so much for so long, that all it takes is 10 minutes/day to "maintain" a steady flow of messages into my inbox so I can filter and get what I want at the end of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazynope. I'm average :/ just average. ..... Where are you getting at, with this?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyyou tell yourself whatever you need to tell yourself to get yourself through TRP delusions. if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPHow is this any better than being single?? She’s got a negative value male. Not only worthless but dragging down the household and being a heavy burden to bear. It’s one of the reasons my next child will be conceived via /SingleMothersByChoice Tons of women are functionally single moms while in relationships with dead weight men. Might as well cut the court shenanigans and male bullshit out of the equation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPHow is this any better than being single?? She’s got a negative value male. Not only worthless but dragging down the household and being a heavy burden to bear. It’s one of the reasons my next child will be conceived via r/SingleMothersByChoice Tons of women are functionally single moms while in relationships with dead weight men. Might as well cut the court shenanigans and male bullshit out of the equation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazySo to be clear, you're happy to just be the Woman equivalent of a Red Pill man? no. The difference is that the redpill is a revenge fantasy at best and a cringe delusion at worst, while FDS is evidence & experience based and it works and has worked for generations of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳they really kicked me when I was down. There was NO support for me at all, and everyone flocked to defend someone who was barely a Christian and I was just that "nasty whore who wanted to ruin him". I pretty much checked out and threw away all of our mutual friends and ghosted everyone. It was a real "rip the bandaid off" moment, and I started over in a new state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳he did. When I ran for my life, he immediately went on an aggressive smear campaign and painted me out to be a dirty slut who ran off with someone else and didn't want to get married. People turned their backs on me, but tbh, by that point, I was already pretty isolated from everyone and they all took his side without blinking twice. I had a few secular friends who were "christian in name only", and they were the ones, along with family members to let me couch surf until I got back on my feet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyMy comment/question (which I noticed you didn't answer), was simply that it doesn't seem sustainable. As a pragmatist, I try to view things through the lens of a bell shaped curve, acknowledging that there will always be a larger group of supports and participants in the middle of an issue. .... In theory we're all here because we'd like to generally see better for tomorrow than we did yesterday. I don't think a large portion of the situation is fair, and thus I think its unsustainable in the lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyWelp you out yourself to a lot of men in return as well. Especially if all those men get in return is your company and vagina. High class escort, basically. call me whatever you want to call me but the reality is that I'm already a multimillionaire in my mid 40s who's living the life, and most of it came from my boyfriends and exes.... who were generous because they had plenty to spare and loved me enough to want me to prosper as well. IDGAF. I'm rich, I'm living the life, and I'm happy asf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazythe reality is that I've been doing this for years, and have gotten several proposals from men who wanted to marry me, on the condition that I be exclusive with them, and when I couldn't accept, they dumped me. As time goes by, I find myself wanting monogamy less and less. I doubt I'll ever "want to settle down" with any one guy, but in the event I do... I feel confident that I can find a high quality, exclusive relationship with one guy who wants to be exclusive with me. TBH, it has been ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳I don't know that I can. It's a really triggering, dark time in my life, and I don't like to remember it, at all :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI am dating about 12 guys at the same time, each one of them knows, and is okay with me not being exclusive with them. I'm just dating and living my best life. It's all upfront in my profiles. I'm not looking for anything exclusive with any one person right now, and won't be for a few years. I'm happy with this arrangement, they're happy with this arrangement. Everyone's good. IDGAF what labels you want to put on it. If it makes you feel better to call me single, sure... knock yourself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyGuys can also pursue you and dump you later, so not sure how never pursuing a guy helps you. they absolutely can. It just typically happens less often, and less frequently than it would, if you initiated contact and pursued him. All it means is you're selecting for guys that are more outgoing, extroverted, risk takers, comfortable with shooting their shot to many many women until one accepts. this is definitely my "type". but if you would actually get along really well with a risk averse guy t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳I know it can feel cringy to admit these things but it’ll be a lifeline to others. I am so deeply ashamed of how I mistrusted my best friends, my parents, my family, and literally chose a man over them. I feel so awful, like some sort of evil person. I was in such a dark place. I am too ashamed to post it :(, but I encourage you to post it on my behalf if you want to. If you think it'll help others. Just don't name meby name, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:59 AM |
| 3 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyOk can you provide us with a computer script that automatically bans some of the retards in the redpill sub? I'm sure many of us are aware of the sudden surge of INCELS there IS no script. I simply sometimes go the TRP/ MRA/RPW subs, sort by best, and pre-emptively ban motherfuckers, and then hope to god I never see their bullshit. I also instantly block anyone who's spouting misogynistic bullshit. I block rape apologists, nOt aLL mEn trolls, and posters who hate women pre-emptively. It's be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyDo you feel that it would be fair if a man forcefully subjugated you in the ways that included bending over backwards to please worshipping the ground I walk on isn't kissing my ass etc, that it would be fair for him to do so because That's just the way it works with me. ? NOT ALL MEN will have a problem with bending over backwards to give me what I want. NOT ALL MEN think they're being "subjugated" or oppressed because I have high standards. NOT ALL MEN have a problem with spending money on me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyIt's not hypocrisy that in itself is solipsism because men and women in our subconscious don't actually look for the same things? what?? And saying redpill blames everything on women Is dismissive and idiotic because they do.... this is easily verifiable, dude. You can't go one hour on PPD or TRP without someone blaming some sort of male-created crisis on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳Could you tell that story? Fair warning. It's disgusting, deplorable. Trigger warning: Domestic violence. I met my ex-fiance a number of years ago. He was perfect in every way. He was tall, came from a rich family, successful, handsome, and had a smoking hot 8-pack body and these perfect grey eyes. He was romantic, sweet, pursued me vigorously, and initiated our relationship. He swept me off my feet and we would talk on the phone for 5+ hours each day. We met on the OkCupid dating app and WE WER… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyTo be clear, is this the attitude that you would want from your partner? if my partner isn't kissing my ass, worshipping the ground I walk on, or bending over backwards to please me and give me what I want, then I don't have a partner. There IS no partner. There IS no way such a male could even pretend to exist in my life. I don't have anyone or anything even resembling a male in my life if that's not the case. That's just the way it works with me. Isn't that kinda the problem with the dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳here's the problem. When I was at the height of my pickmeism, friends who espoused FDS values tried to get me to give up my pickme ways. They gave me advice, took my side in arguments, and tried to get me to leave my LVM ex-fiance when he changed his personality completely. I didn't listen. I had to come out of my own pickmeism by myself, and only when it burned me severely. Idk if anything we say or do for these women will convince them to give up the pickme bootlicking. Sometimes you can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazydo you ever consider your competitional value in relation to other women? I have a 6 figure income, drive nice enough cars, have a nice house, etc. If I reviewed your profile and that of the one next to yours, would it be obvious to me that you were working to bring value and compliment me? I have NEVER, EVER, EVER "considered my competition", because I don't have to. Again, if there is competition out there, I'm not seeing it. I'm still getting 500+ messages a day from high quality, high value … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳I wonder if any here have changed their views or if you can be politically pro-life and evangelical in FDS. TBH I was one of the WORST pickmes you could imagine back when I was heavy into Catholicism. It got better and better after I moved away from the faith and transitioned into being agnostic. If there's hope for me, there's hope for others, but I can't necessarily speak for evangelicals or other Catholics. Many of them remain lifelong pickmes and die pickmes, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI'm about average. I'm a single mother of 4, and I'm 46 years old. TBH the women who taught me everything I know are below average when it comes to looks in that they're overweight or obese, and are also single moms who remarried men who would put my rotation to shame. It's not about the attractiveness of the women. There are SO MANY men on online dating apps, that even if I swipe exclusively on the "top 1% of men", I still would have 500+ messages in my inbox at the end of a day after a 10 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Pickmes played a huge roll in the lack of quality that now exists in online datingIMHO HVM don't typically date Pickmes, and if they do, they don't date them for long. Pretty soon, her desperation turns him off and scares him away, which further exacerbates her pickmeism. HVW and Pickmes are dating different men. Pickmes have made LVM even Lower-value, whereas HVM know to stay away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyYou're only proving the point that women do this because they have the luxury of doing so, not because it's the way that men and women are. I'd also say that women who treat men as a number are not worth dating, I've said it before and I'll say it again. Men who aren't 100% kissing my ass and being completely useful to me do NOT belong in my life, and are swiftly and mercilessly removed. This strategy has yielded me high quality relationships with high value men and a comfortable, luxurious life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 58 | How to safely stop and leave in the middle of sex?Scream. Yes, scream loudly and double down acting like he broke something. It’ll shock him into stopping. Then get up, holding your abdomen with one hand and start getting dressed and leave. Your excuse is that you need to go to the hospital ASAP before you bleed to death. Grab your stuff and get outta there | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazynot even. Everything I've learned, came from a group of obese single moms who would put me to shame on online dating apps with how ruthless and strategic they are. you tried, it though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI understand not everyone has the privilege of advanced reading comprehension levels and that illiteracy is a big, bad, problem in the US. It's all good. They've got state of the art screen reading apps now... IJS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:18 PM |
| 5 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyDoesn't matter. If you're not actively kissing my ass or worshipping the ground I walk on, there's no need for you in my life if you're a male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 7 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyReddit is the only place where I can shit on the manosphere without getting stalked, harassed, or receiving threats from bitter ass, worthless incels. Don't like what you see? die mad about it. ,|,, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyEnjoy your "validation". Already do. Anymore breakthroughs for r/NoShitSherlock?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyF for a fallen brother. fuck any of them for being worthless enough to be forgotten by me. Victims? If "victimhood" involves them begging for a text back, then it looks like they're enjoying it. About those tears? Are you gonna deliver, or na? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 3 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyWomen are only going to get pumped n dumped by chad because the only resource they have that he wants is sex. Are you operating off of theory? OR reality? Because if we go off of reality, and not manosphere/TRP revenge-fantasies.... the reality is that I can log into a dating app, swipe for 10 minutes, and have 500 messages from tall, hot men, who I swiped right on.... by the end of that day. From these 500 messages, 300 will be hot guys who I swiped on, who won't put forth any effort, or who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 10 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyThat's pretty shallow. Seems like you're only seeking validation. Let's not pretend that the only reason men swipe on me is to explore my intellectual prowess or to dabble in my super interesting, platonic hobbies. They swiped right on me because I have a pretty face, sweet ass and a banging body. Most men barely read your profile. They see hotness, they swipe right. EVERYONE IS SHALLOW. I am NOT going to ignore reality. I exclusively swipe right on hot, successful men who I'm attracted to, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyIf me picking a guy threatens his masculinity, he should just go be alone with his masculine pride then. it's not about "threatening his masculinity". It's about what men do when they're "picked". If you initiate romance with a guy who never even tried to pursue you, despite many opportunities... he might say yes because he's genuinely interested in you, or he might say yes because he's horny and you've got meat holes. Men typically won't turn down free, easy, low-effort sex from a woman. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 6 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyyour tears are delicious. more tears, pls?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 5 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI agree that women shouldn’t shoot out of their league. The problem is that men overestimate their attractiveness, whereas women underestimate their attractiveness. This has been studied to death and there's tons of evidence out there to show that men who think they're hot shit are actually a hot mess.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 4 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyWomen are lazy and the men they approach are out of their league. They have sex in order to get the guy out of their league and that’s what gets them pumped n dumped. They’ll wait with a guy in their league and get the relationship. Do you have a sister, friend, cousin, or anyone in your life who's a woman? Ask them what happens when you give up sex too soon in a relationship. Even if he's a 0/10 and is ugly, fat, short, balding, and a bitter ass incel. Sleeping with him on the first date or sle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:18 PM |
| 4 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyThe men who suggest that women "approach" are delusional at best, and completely clueless about the dating reality in 2021 at worst. The fact of the matter is that I get almost 500 messages a day, simply by logging in and swiping for 10 minutes on the various apps. Of those messages, the hottest & most successful men who sent the highest quality messages get my attention. TONS of men never send the first message, and simply match. NO PROBLEM. I don't waste any time or energy on them. I don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 11 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazySo how does that not also apply to women then? Whether it does or doesn't apply to women is irrelevant. The reality is that she's got an inbox full of men willing to put forth more effort that she's getting from one guy, you're going to be forgotten and passed up for a higher effort/better quality match who WILL put in the work to pursue her, if you won't. MEN ARE COMPETING FOR WOMEN IN THE ONLINE DATING WORLD IN 2021, where there are 2 - 50 men for every 1 woman available. you can choose to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 11 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyIt’s just a better strategy to let men approach first, and it seems men actually would rather be the initiators when it comes to romantic relationships. It’s the first step of the vetting process. I mean sure there are times when a woman makes the first move and it turns out well. But that doesn’t make it the rule. This is the sad reality that OP won't consider in his rant against women :/ When he tells women to vet men, the FIRST step towards weeding out fuckboys who want to pump/dump is to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 27 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyOr is it all just the women’s need to vet and fault? This sub and TRP blame women for everything. If you have super high standards, refuse to date men who put forth low-effort bullshit, and vet men ruthlessly to avoid men who pump & dump, "yOuR sTaNdArDs aRe iMpOsSiBLe aNd yOu wILL dIe aLoNe". If you lower your standards and give men who put forth low effort a chance, and then you get pump/dumped or left as a single mom, then it's "yOu sHouLd hAvE vEtTeD hIm. wHy aRe yOu sO eAsY?". It's crin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 8 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazywomen NOT approaching men is the FIRST form of vetting. Men who aren't interested fuck right off, and men who are interested put forth varying levels of effort and investment, based on their level of interest and the intent behind pursuing me. I've had tremendous success with getting what I want out when I stopped putting forth any effort and simply observed what was offered to me, sat back, and entertained men who put forth the highest levels of effort and investment. I would NEVER EVER, EV… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:29 PM |
| 4 | "If he wanted to, he would", but why doesn't he want me?You maintain what works. You weren’t putting forth any effort and then he complained about it. The right response would have been “This is who I am. Take it or leave it” | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 16 | "If he wanted to, he would", but why doesn't he want me?I want you to carefully re read this comment you just typed out. You’re focus is on him. You care about “proving yourself” to him. Your mindset towards him and the dynamic is revealed in the way you’re writing about him. Somehow it went from him chasing you and you not giving a fuck, yo you catering to him and chasing him. This is why things died. You CANNOT give a fuck about these men. For a relationship to work, the man has to care about you at least twice as much as you care about him. You ha… | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Tennessee bill to let even a rapist in prison decide on abortion if he’s the “bio father” - the lengths US states are going to have Roe v. Wade overturned. 😳We need a total sex strike. Every single woman and girl in the US should abstain from sex until the merciless assault on women’s rights, freedoms, and healthcare come to a grinding halt. But we can never have that. Too many pickme witches kissing ass and licking boots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 39 | "If he wanted to, he would", but why doesn't he want me?There’s reasons why he doesn’t want you. Either he was never into you to begin with, and was faking a relationship or whatever you guys had to gain affection/sex, or something else. OR He was into you and you were hard to get, unavailable, and a challenge then changed your behaviors and you became too interested, too available, and you started pursuing/ chasing him, or entertaining low energy behaviors and this let him know he can treat you like garbage and you’d still stick around. TBH asking y… | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | I can't believe thisProof that if you give them an inch, they take miles and expect more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.Same. It would be the LAST time he ever heard from me in his life. It’s such a turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?Obligatory not a man but I've dated 2 exes who used to have a full head of hair and have been bald for the past 8 and 12 years. I also had a teenage crush on this one guy and he's completely lost all of his glorious hair. I was objectively attracted to both exes when they had hair. They made me weak in the knees and were super hot, but now, they barely register as attractive to me, because of their hair loss. Same thing with my former crush. My heart used to skip a beat when I lurked on his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 8 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleThis reminds me of the Muzzmatch app. One of my friends is on it and it apparently lets ANY man send you messages, and when you try to reject their messages or unmatch, the app literally asks you what your reason for your lack of interest….. Religious institutions do not hold the best interest of women at heart and it’s so sad 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 17 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastJust when I think I’ve seen rock bottom male behavior and audacity, another man collapses the floor and rock bottom plummets even lower. Truly, WTF. She’s wasting her time. WHO LIVES LIKE THIS?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 69 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornIt looks like the protests from the various subreddits worked! Wow, results! I'm so proud of this community for not backing down.... seriously you guys. I .... I LOVE THIS PLACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 158 | A warning about older men!The worst of both worlds: Doesn’t have the hot, firm, non-bald body of youth Doesn’t have the wisdom and maturity of age It’s a shit sandwich without the bread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyDudes on this thread balking at standards and Pickmes declaring themselves “so different” from those “other girls” AKA …. The usual crap that auto mod removes from FDS daily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulativeThere’s a book by Lundy Bancroft called “Why does he do that”. It’s a good starting place … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/21 12:32 PM |
| 21 | REMINDERDon’t threaten me with a good time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:49 AM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?One of the consequences of criminal behavior and violence is the fact that no matter how "reformed" you are, people can and WILL reserve the right to never take a chance on you. you aren't entitled to SHIT. YOU can take your chances with someone who's got multiple assault charges, felonies, domestic abuse, and other shit, but I REFUSE to give someone with that much baggage the time of day and that's my right. I didn't live a squeaky vanilla lifestyle that's devoid of criminal charges and vio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 05:46 PM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?This would help me TREMENDOUSLY weed out abusers and men with criminal records and a violent past. I think it's a step in the right direction and will improve OLD experiences for women on these apps, and make dating safer for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 10 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesMen like this are easy to weed out in the texting phase. Requiring them to put forth energy and impress you weeds out like 70% of them. The few that make it through will pay for shit initially and then 6 months into a relationship, once they think you’re hooked, ask to go Dutch. That’s when it’s time to leave. Dating men is not for the faint of heart. Not foe people with thin skin and not for people who fall apart when a man’s personality changes completely after 2 years or something. You’ve got… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:10 AM |
| -1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?Doesn't matter to me. These are what matter to me: - Am I attracted to him? - Is he putting forth an effort to court me? - Does he have his shit together? - Do our life priorities align? - Is he emotionally available and is he lacking in baggage/Drama? - Is he STD-free and otherwise in a healthy/fit condition? - Is he adding physical, mental, intellectual, academic, spiritual, and financial value to my life? - Does being with him bring me legitimate joy, happiness, wellbeing, and prosperity? i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:41 AM |
| 20 | I love it when men recognise LVM!“A 2 inch dick and lies” And some audacity to boot 100% facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 11 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.You sound like you’re gonna do the /SingleMothersByChoice subreddit route which is amazing ❤️. Many women who are married and in relationships with men wish they did the SMBC route to conceive a baby. Too many men aren’t responsible enough to have babies with and they’re ugly as fuck to boot and broke as dirt Edit: someone deleted their comment. This was aimed at them. They wanted to have a baby via sperm bank | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 72 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Boomers: keEp yOuR LeGz cLoSed Also boomers: oPen tHem a LiTtLe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.He could always expend the energy and effort to meet her at her level. Surely, it doesn’t take a master’s in computer science to get a decent understanding of the drama that goes on within the bachelor’s series. If he can’t crack the mediocre task of watching Reality TV TO connect with his wife, he must have purchased his comp sci degree, faked it, forged it, or lost his stuff after he earned it. He just doesn’t want to connect with his wife. Not badly enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 24 | Girl this ain’t it. *from a Facebook group about beer*Her standards are super low. This is probably why she’s having such a hard time getting a decent date. Wasting time with bare minimum effort dudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 59 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:My iPhone sometimes loads a piece of the comment before it’s removed by auto mod. lol the devil works hard and FDS work harder. Thank god for you gals and this place ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:41 AM |
| 6 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?He must come to the table financially secure or the table isn’t even an option for him. He’s not invited. He doesn’t know it exists and will never know it exists! | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 09:46 AM |
| 53 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼He called women a distraction and implied that women derail men from success when in fact, women usually help men succeed and are never acknowledged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 60 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼He can fuck off without insulting women. He didn’t have to go there, but did, anyway. He’s bitter and jaded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 13 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWhy didn’t he keep his legs shut? Or pull out? Or use a condom? Or abstain from sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)that's my plan, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 197 | Woman who tries to warn other women about a Reddit scam gets rape & death threats, is harassed, doxxed, and blackmailed. Please protect yourselves online and don’t reveal any personal info about yourselves!!someone messaged asking about what the scam was, but I can't see her message so I'll reply here: The scam was basically a dude LARPing as a single mom who's about to be homeless, begging for money from others, luring them off of Reddit and onto other communication apps like snapchat or kik. They target women on women's subs and once they reveal that they're not a single mom, it's too late, the women have given him enough info for him to harass, doxx, or stalk/abuse them. this woman's accou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 13 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)It actually happened to a friend of mine. The father of her child took her two daughters to Denmark and revoked their US citizenship so she can’t get to them or get them back. Immigrating to Denmark is really really hard and she thinks he moved out of Denmark and went somewhere else. She’s been a mess. He did it to get back at her and she’s had no contact with her children for 6 years now and she’s been clamoring for a way to maintain contact, but it’s impossible due to the international situati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 4 | This worksfunny how all the manosphere subs ignore posts like this one when they try to paint FDS in a negative light. This is one of the posts from FDS that needs to make it ot the front page. It DOES work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:17 AM |
| 11 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?that for men, shit behavior is the default, and is only changed when harsh, steep penalties are involved. That there is NO such thing as the "ugly but nice" guy. They're ALL built the same. They're ALL going to start off being perfect, nice, sweet, kind, caring, compassionate at the beginning of the relationship and then degrade over time. So you might as well go for looks, given that personality "fades" quickly in men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedSerious question. HOW is this supposed to be an "upgrade" over being single? Why is this appealing? Someone please tell me why we would prefer to deal and put up with this versus just being single and sleeping in a bed WITH NO SHIT CRUMBS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Banned for sticking up for FDS?Message the mods. I once got banned for standing up for FDS on other subs and was banned but the mods were able to restore my account access | /r/askFDS | 09/02/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Join me in a marvelous exercise of the imaginationthere would be mass rape of other men. Violence would increase tremendously. Slavery would probably make a come back. Without women, the motivation for men to do a LOT of shit would disappear overnight. A lot of industries and jobs would be lost. The labor force and systems which depend on it would likely collapse from the sudden loss of women. men would suddenly find themselves shouldering the burden of parenting their (male) children and working, which WILL lead to a lot of child abuse and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 5 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectmen have ALWAYS painted "happy single women" in a dark, gloomy, angry, bitter, lonely, and sexist light. Split no hairs about this. Single, childless women are THE HAPPIEST group of people (https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5 ) This is a grand misogynistic effort to drive more women into the waiting (desperate) arms of men, who are unhappy being single. It's pathetic, and we know exactly what it is. men trying to scare women into being af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 9 | I made a terrible decision of checking my ex's instagram and now I feel awfilDon't let the trauma go to waste. Don't let the pain and anger you feel go to waste. USE IT. Use it to learn. To improve yourself. To NEVER EVER put up with being treated less than, ever again. You have now, and officially, seen it with your own eyes. MEN WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU LET THEM TREAT YOU. You've confirmed it with your own life experience. USE the pain, anger, hurt, and all that you're feeling right now to make a permanent change in your life. NEVER accept subpar behavior fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 32 | After my last relationship, I no longer see the benefit in prioritizing relationships with men.You've reached your "critical mass" of bullshit. Every woman has a maximum amount of bullshit she'll tolerate before changing a thing permanently. Yours was your abusive relationship. Mine was, too. I'd ALWAYS been in relationships with men when I was younger, I was never ever single for more than a few weeks. Until I met my most recent ex-fiance. He was a narcissist, and love-bombed me and took me by storm. He was ABSOLUTELY FUCKING PERFECT in the beginning, and for the first 2 years of our r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 137 | Thank you, FDS!I'm so glad you've learned the magic of blocking and deleting them. Wait until you've had FDS in your life for years. You'll literally block randos on social media that post the same shit and slowly, your social media experience will improve because you cut off all the toxic, misogynistic men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 261 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)A lot of women over at the /singleparent subreddit and the /RegretfulParents subreddit WISH they'd gone the /SingleMothersbyChoice route when getting pregnant. many divorced women and women who are married would give their left boob to be rid of their exes, for the opportunity to parent alone, without the interference of men because of exactly what you've said. most studies and people focus on the POSITIVES that fatherhood has on children, but what about the negatives? Has anyone researched the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:23 PM |
| 17 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)A lot of women over at the /singleparent subreddit and the /RegretfulParents subreddit WISH they'd gone the r/SingleMothersbyChoice route when getting pregnant. many divorced women and women who are married would give their left boob to be rid of their exes, for the opportunity to parent alone, without the interference of men because of exactly what you've said. most studies and people focus on the POSITIVES that fatherhood has on children, but what about the negatives? Has anyone researched… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 92 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?This reminds me of the Narcissist's Prayer: " Narcissist's Prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, it is not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did. You deserved it. " I believe the "nOt aLL mEn" BS is item #2, with a bit of item #3 mixed in. They want us to believe that it's not that bad, and 1 in 10 men being RAPISTS isn't a lot, and it's no big deal. nOt aLL mEn It doesn't help that most narcissists … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 22 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?because there is still rampant, unchecked, disgusting misogyny and sexism. On the other hand, I love to use that "nOt aLL mEn" bullshit against them when it counts. "men don't want gold diggers" Aht! AHT! nOt aLL mEn "Men don't want FDS women" nOt aLL mEn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenwomen are socially punished more for stating their preferences and we can even get banned from dating apps for stating that we prefer this or that. Nobody wants to be scrutinized and targeted at speed dating events | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 02:41 PM |
| 72 | "Dating should be a stress-free experience"?When the energy stops. SO DO YOU. | /r/askFDS | 31/01/21 07:19 AM |
| 39 | Why aren’t people honest with their intentions ??Never EVER EVER make the first move. EVER. Any and EVERY man who’s not double and triple texting you, initiating, planning dates and paying for them, and pursuing you, is 100% stringing you along. Never forget that | /r/askFDS | 31/01/21 03:12 AM |
| 76 | Yup 😂Also him: *unemployed *fat *balding *hasn’t showered in 6 days. Swamp ass started leaking toxic fumes. *broke, almost homeless *wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:28 PM |
| 69 | HeheSick comeback. 10/10 will steal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 07:24 AM |
| 9 | Why is it that mothers coddle their sons and do everything for them but if the have daughters, you are told to be independent at a young age??I’m trying not to get banned and muted again 😔 | /r/askFDS | 29/01/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesdudes never consider the other side of that coin - the fact that ACTUAL rapes ruin WAY more lives than the accusations. It impacts the woman, her and her children(s)' (if any) & their healthcare costs for a possible lifetime of counseling/meds/surgery/abortion, her social circle, contributes to higher healthcare costs, the taxpayer cost of supporting survivors of sexual assault & rape, and the cost of a lifetime of services for victims of sexual assault and rape. but nooooo. The pRobLeM iS t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?it's because they're trying to "game you". A lot of ghosters double their "ghosting" tactics with shit like "breadcrumbing" and "love bombing" to lure you in, get you interested, get your hopes up, create a deep/intimate bond, pretend that he's enamoured with you, pretend to be the total package so you let your guard down.... and then BAM! ~ ghost ~ They do this because there's 2 types of women, and here's how they reply: Either you're like oh well, fuck him and fuck this, and you ghost hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 85 | Why is it that mothers coddle their sons and do everything for them but if the have daughters, you are told to be independent at a young age??I completely resent this dynamic and I think only pickmes who have children do this. I had a friend who’s mom made EVERYONE in the house pick up after themselves. Clean for themselves and take care of themselves. Her and her siblings and cousins would trade chores with each other and it taught them to be responsible, compromise, and take care of themselves. I grew up this way. With male siblings and of course I was the only one REQUIRED to cook, clean, wash dishes, and pick up after them. bEcAuS… | /r/askFDS | 28/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 34 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesNewspaper: “woman falsely accused husband of domestic violence/rape” Dudes: “fALsE rApE/aBuSe aCcuSaTiOnS aRe tOo cOmMoN aNd rUiN LiVeS” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 80 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesI’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. There are no FDS mass shooters. The FBI doesn’t have to monitor FDS groups because there are no FDS-based terror groups. FDS subs, websites, and social media aren’t being seized by the government, cased by the FBI, or “investigated” by justice departments because FDS doesn’t promote or condone violence, insurrection, or hate speech. You won’t see FDS on the news for any other reason besides stellar coverage because of the advice we give to women, which … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Never let an abuser write the script.I swear I take male accusations of “cheating” with a pound of salt because I didn’t know that men will tell lies about you because you left them. I didn’t believe it until it happened to me!! I dumped 2 separate exes who did not know each other and they both told others I cheated on them when I never did. Broke it clean off and moved on with another man. Apparently, dumping them first and moving on later is “cheating” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Never let an abuser write the script.“How DARE you leave after I change my ENTIRE personality and treat you like garbage?” Later: “yEaH sHe tOtaLLy cHeAtEd oN mE” as the excuse he uses when asked why you’re not together anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 288 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨So he wants her to carry the weight of the conversation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 6 | standards check: career / education levelHe must be upper middle class or richer through education and or inheritance. I have to be attracted to him He has to pay fir everything and like it. He has to be a complete and total gentleman. I have a 3 strikes per year rule. Fuck ANYTHING up in ANY WAY 3 times in one year and it’s a block. Sometimes I’ve blocked them on the first strike because I just know they won’t make it to the end of the year without screwing up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 88 | Ladies, I am literally CRYING at this exchange 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣“gIvE hIm aNoThEr cHaNcE” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:05 AM |
| 60 | Notes on a 50/50 relationship and why FDS ain’t about that life. Part two in the comments.Yeah. When he starts talking about you going Dutch is when you know he’s done for. You gotta go. Men will fake EVERYTHING except the finances. Their money snitches on them. The second he feels differently about you, the money will change. If he’s not willing to put his money where his mouth is. His mouth is trying to use you and waste your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:33 AM |
| 49 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!getting men to pay for shit is a fast and easy way to separate the wheat from the chaff. Men know within 10 minutes of meeting you whether or not they're going to spend the rest of their life with you. The men who know immediately that you're their wife, that you're the one, will pay for shit. The ones who are horny, lonely, fucked-up, or looking to waste time and shop around? They'll nickel and dime, penny pinch and save money because they're not going to spend money on a woman they can aff… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:55 AM |
| 36 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenHe’s completely worthless and the woman he’s with is smart to “protect her investment” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 139 | How many career women gone wrong stories do you personally know?This is another trope that’s pushed because it caters to the patriarchal male narrative. Just like you’ve never seen a career woman be miserable with chosen childlessness, you’ve probably never seen a miserable cat lady. Have you noticed that? On social media and in movies OTHER PEOPLE cast and label the “single cat lady” as miserable and a failure, but how many women with cats are posting and declaring and advertising their misery? All the single ladies I know who are cat owners are very happy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 45 | It's my birthday tomorrow.Single, childless women are the happiest group, followed by married MEN. https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5?amp It’s a downgrade to your happiness to date, marry, and have kids. Don’t get me wrong. Everyone is different and some people definitely want to have a relationship but I’m just saying.... if you’re gonna downgrade your happiness..... well... Don’t waste this “downgrade” on just any man. He’s got to be truly exceptional for you to gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 135 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenAny redpilled man is complete garbage and this is like Exhibit A. This is why women need to be vetting men ruthlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 27 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfAbsolute gold! A man who wants you will be in your DMs, will call You and will make an effort to court and date you. You’ll know for sure that he’s into you. If you’re guessing or confused, or “not sure”, or you’re making excuses for how he’s treating you, he’s not that until You and that’s a HIM problem. It’s not your problem. Ignore him and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfThis list is GOLD!! Thank you for sharing!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 27 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfExcellent, fantastic list!! I also wish I knew these: it is NOT your job or problem to teach men anything. He’s an adult, he can go google it. it is 100% a good idea to REFUSE to date underemployed, unemployed, poor/broke losers. Avoid them like the plague. you don’t owe them SHIT. HE chose to pay for your shit, to wine and dine you, and you can ghost him whenever you want. You don’t owe him SHIT. date multiple men and be ruthless. The more you date, the more experience you’ll have in dealing wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Men troll harder when you're finally establishing standards 👀I don’t understand why men feel the need to chime in with their opinion on YOUR standards. YOUR standards are YOURS. They cannot be negotiated and no amount of criticism or abuse will change them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Men troll harder when you're finally establishing standards 👀I’m black as fuck and I’m batting men off with a broom. There’s men after me on every dating and social media platform. They’ve got us ALL the way FUCKED UP if they think we can’t choose to only date men who will treat us like goddesses. I’ve been with white, black, and Latino men who worshipped the ground I walked on. I REFUSE to date anyone else who isn’t batshit crazy about me. uNdEsIraBLE my ass. GTFOH. NO woman is undesirable in 2021 - especially on online dating apps where women are scarce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:01 AM |
| 2 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behaviorDon’t be too hard on yourself. Dating successfully takes PRACTICE and experience. Unfortunately, there’s no shortcut here 😔. You’ve going to go out and face garbage, trash men and be rejected a LOT and do a lot of rejection yourself before you become acquainted with the red flags and learn to spot them. The best advice I could give you is to learn not to fall for men beyond a certain point. Mild interest in them is great but if you find yourself thinking about him before you guys are exclusive (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢He’ll turn around and pay a hooker $1,000+ for her time and then ask to go ditch with other girls on expenses. I see it ALL THE TIME. Men will nickel and dime women who LET THEM get away with it, and then turn around and pay for the ground another woman walks on, because she refuses to go Dutch or be treated “less than” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 3 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪Fuck them and fuck THAT. Get turnt for Valentine’s Day and get treated to a nice date or spend it with family and friends. FUCK THEM DUDES!! They only deserve what they earned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍The saddest display of pickmeism. Such a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Can we all stop caring if a woman hits the wall or notIt’s actually fundamentally flawed in its core. The incels argue that women should use their youthful years to find a good partner. This sets women up to potentially end up with men who are legitimately not attracted to older women. You inevitably age out of his preference and he begins to treat you like shit and chip away at your self esteem. You should have fun in your youth and date (or don’t date) whoever you want and then begin getting serious about dating once you’re older (past 30). This … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Woman writes to advice columnist about her husband’s inability to parent and gets told that she is the problem.The blogs and websites that support misogynistic and shameless one sided male-authored advice to women are the ones that garner the greatest amount of support and it’s because of overwhelming male support and an audience of their sympathizer pickmes. Female authored dating advice that’s in the best interest of women, THAT TAKES THE SIDE OF WOMENis hard to find. It’s often censored and banned from platforms. It’s falsely labeled as “mIsAnDrY” by men who consider anything that doesn’t worship male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | What was the last straw?Going through domestic abuse at the hands of my abusive, piece of shit ex. I remember the exact moment I knew I was done and needed to get the fuck out of there and fix my life. It’s like a feeling that you hit your critical mass for bullshit. Your ability to tolerate any more bullshit is destroyed. You begin to look for red flags, begging for an excuse to cut motherfuckers off. You become harsh and ruthless. You don’t look back or regret. You block motherfuckers the FIRST time they step out of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Throw the man out! There, I fixed itTry peroxide. It works wonders for stain removal. Baking soda sometimes works. But first. Throw the ENTIRE man away. Eew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Any FDS approved podcasts?I strongly recommend the “Feeling good” podcast by Dr. David Burns. It’s filled with amazing information that can be used to build self esteem, improve mental health, and learn to establish and maintain healthy boundaries with others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Proud of myselfStop responding and start seeing others. I am SO PROUD of you for taking ZERO a shot from this guy. Stay strong ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:00 AM |
| 10 | YupJambee! The chocolate icing!! (suggestive moaning) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Yuplol thank you 🥰😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 16 | The vibes of liberal men towards me since I started with FDSThat’s exactly why we have to watch their words and watch their actions. Lots of liberal men pay lip service to equality and feminism only to turn around and actually treat women like garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 12 | The vibes of liberal men towards me since I started with FDSPeople who are used to the “old you”, which came with possible pickme tendencies and internalized misogyny would react once you level up and shed the toxic mindset that held you back as a woman. I lost friends when I stopped being a pickme and started carrying myself with dignity and self esteem. I lost a LOT of pickme “friends” when I stood up for myself and refused to be treated like garbage by anyone, including “friends”. This is a really intense and serious journey. Becoming a high value wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 6 | When she has better optionsLove this!! Always ALWAYS have options!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 11 | In case you need a reminder about forgivenessAny man in my life has 3 strikes a year to fuck it up. Strike 1 - I begin to distance myself and begin mentally preparing to cut him out of my life. Strike 2 - even more distance is created. I take 1+ week(s) to get back to him, and restrict his access to me on social media and IRL. I cancel plans and shut down efforts at reconciliation. I avoid and confuse him. Strike - 3 block everywhere and delete. No explanations, no closure. Nothing. 10/10 would recommend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:48 AM |
| 19 | The line of “I’m allowed to be attracted to other people!” that lvm/nvm use to excuse shitty behavior while in a relationship.When one of my exes hit me with this line, I hit him with the “oh thank GOD. I don’t have to pretend anymore” and I started staring down hot guys who walked past us, followed personal trainers on social media, and hearted their pics, and left “😍” comments on male IG models photos. He was livid. I ghost-dumped that guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:45 AM |
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