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| 283 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex. | CMV | REEE_XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Why does no one here ever talk about "acting" a certain way in accordance to your looks? | Discussion | REEE_XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:31 PM |
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| 3 | Given the prevalent notion that all woman on dating apps only “match” with 20 percent of the same guys; why do the other 80 percent of guys remain using said apps?How do you know whether or not they're putting enough effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Beyond shallowness - are men are attracted to competence?I mean I know I personally am. The reason I'm not attracted to 90% of women is cause they're lazy and/or think that stripping or doing sex work is a sufficient career. It could just be my area too but a lot of women literally think they're the prize for years of backbreaking labor or hours upon hours of sitting at a desk studying. That entitlement alone is such a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Society has failed (Men).Late stage capitalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.Self reliance (depending how far you extend the "self" to) and physical/mental toughness aren't right wing ideals. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Society has failed (Men).Bro do you know what communism even is? You're literally just describing capitalism with bailouts from the government. Communism theoretically is supposed to be classless AND moneyless. Filled with people working on communes. Nothing you described has anything to do with communism as an ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.Nah there definitely is some Alt-Right shit going on here but it's underlying. I saw some dude in here saying that guys who are pro-abortion are cucks for women. I've also seen "Clown World" and fetishism for white/asian women in the manosphere too. It's rare but there's also a portion of white guys who are basically like "Fuck women they go for tyrone and just pop out mixed kids" or some shit like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Past The Anger PhaseHmmm so the solution to getting over anger is accepting your place in the imagined hierarchy and put YEARS of work in to fuck some sluts that really only care about your status and money? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | The fate of a simpWtf is "manipulating" your way into sex? Unless they're already attracted to you technically it's all manipulation | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | The fate of a simpSmh you really let a woman finesse you on a level that would get some dudes shot or killed. Woulda set her up if I were you ngl | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Society has failed (Men).Cause probably .0001% of women are even able to bring something to the table that is equal to a tall, rich, hot, fit man with a full head of hair. Not only this, being tall, rich, or hot are VERY BIG things to ask for when we actually talk about percentages. Men realize most women are just prostitutes with extra steps, it just reeks entitlement that you even feel comfortable wanting that when you haven't put in the work. You don't see men out here 100% honestly asking for Jene Aiko's and Angelin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Society has failed (Men).Ugly men being repulsive Do you honestly think that a portion of MEN in society is just gonna be like "Eh Okay" if women collectively said they're repulsive? Bro say goodbye to your rights. The only reason "incels" were even a fad was because they were right in theory but don't have the power, looks, money, or status to do anything about it. Which kinda makes me wonder why women complain about "the patriarchy" or any inequality at all because their mating preferences subconsciously affect how th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Society has failed (Men).Corporate communism You're politically illiterate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Why does it take alcohol for most women to engage in casual sex?It lowers your inhibitions but it also serves as an excuse (to some) as a means to do whatever tf they want. I legit had a girl who's friends sent her tits out to like a couple guys on her snap, asked her why she sent that and her friend legit just said "I was drunk lol" and provided no further explanation. Obviously she was feeling a bit horny when she did that and asked her friend to sent it to a bunch of guys (or maybe she did it herself) but "I was drunk" is literally the excuse they're look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Would you rather have “closure” or be ghosted by a date?Hows the guy in the example OP provided supposed to level up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | “ I would have never went out with him if I did not meet him in person and saw his profile online”.It's a couple things, because I've experienced this too. I think it's mainly the masculine presence you bring to them. If this happens though you probably aren't immediately that physically attractive, but it also might mean that your actual presence is stronger than your looks when it comes to attraction. The voice, your mannerisms, your humor, and your whole vibe are what attracts them. I honestly think it starts with the voice, I've met quite a few girls who are pretty bitchy ONLY over text b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Even if all women collectively made a combined collective effort to lower their standards, the relationships born from that would be hell.Well humans, like all organisms, are born to have sex and reproduce so. As far as biology goes I'd say it's pretty valid cause your most basic need isn't being met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOULmaooo that is not what white women look like at 35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:01 PM |
| – | Men: "women are shallow Chad chasers who hate ugly men!1!1!!1! Men are so much nicer and more accepting of their ugly looksmatches!!1!1!" Also men:I literally cannot mentally handle being on those sites for more than 10 minutes at a time. The mental illness is actually palpable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Almost forgot your annual reminder: You're still not entitled to sex.Well we're animals so, can't really stop some of this shit we're complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:17 PM |
| – | Muh "PeRsOnAlItY"Some are. Some ugly women are legitimately funny and that's how they hook you in. Fat women have their own version of this but it's being nice and sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | The biggest problem modern men have in dating world is an inability to talk about their problems. Communication is important for relationships, and most men can’t communicate.You have to do it a certain way. You gotta brung up the problems in a way that makes it seem like you against the world and it makes you angry but you're still pushing through somehow. Thats when she can feel like she can be there to provide a dynamic between both of you and help you out while she gets to feel important in someones life. The wrong way to do it is actually completely opening up and/or crying and being extremely vulnerable. You can maybe do this with family deaths but I've heard o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about wanting respect, but treat undesirable men like garbage.Because those concepts often overlap in a womans head. Attractive men are by default treated better, even by taken women. Taken men are probably treated the best in front of everyone, but players get special treatment behind closed doors. It's honestly a jungle out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:06 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about wanting respect, but treat undesirable men like garbage.Because women can't really be truly empathetic to a mans situation unless she's got a son or a husband or some male family members she's very close to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Women complain about wanting respect, but treat undesirable men like garbage.I knew a guy at a restaurant who was kinda short and unattractive, some girls got along with him but most of them just found him to be kinda annoying. These girls quite literally didn't tip him out on his paychecks because they found him annoying and unattractive, straight up told me. Being ugly and not knowing your place on the totem pole can fuck with your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Cause they realize they actually have SOME worth even if its a quick fuck and if they really wanted to they could find a guy desperate enough to take care of them. I've seen a couple of women who I think would be femcels but they actually end up being the ones who stay in monogamous relationships the longest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Imo being racist makes less sense than being sexist. At least with sexist there are innate biological and psychological differences between the sexes to point the differences out. OP is right though, that's why women don't like that shit, because it takes away basically any sort of benevolent sexist towards men. And if you look at female humans in a strictly biological manner and kind of observe what they do in real life, they know they're there to look pretty and have sex with for the most part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Serial killers murder women to get their rocks off and get fan mail for it so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Well the truth here is they were born with less inherent value to women and therefore have to work 100x harder to get what the average tall guy or handsome guy gets in terms of respect from women alone sometimes. Incels are mostly made because of bullying but bullying doesn't suddenly stop in high school. I legit have seen unattractive guys get bullied in every workplace I've been in, just cause everyone there likes to enforce their hierarchal view of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 12 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?Yeah can't lie that's kinda what I get from women who act like this. My thing is how can you behave like this and be surprised when the men you resonate with the most or turn you on end up being complete pieces of shit. I've already seen women on reddit saying they think Nazi uniforms are hot because of the "power" associated with it or something. Like is genocide hot to you? Literally fucking white women man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place?I mean incels weren't born hateful or misogynistic, they were made that way through the years. Women probably hated them before they identified with the label. That govt mandated gf shit I thought was a meme, but there are a few that legit are mental. But if that's the case, I still don't know why poking fun at their physical appearance and failures, knowing what society values in men, is the solution. Its actually possible for it to be over before it began | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:31 PM |
| 4 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereUhhh idk what you think "skinny af" is for men but that guy has decent arms and chest. That's a dream body for a lot of men. Definitely takes work to upkeep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:06 PM |
| 5 | The male vs the female gazeI don't think the rock is the epitome of masculinity. The Rock is there to be darker than a white person but lighter than a black person. He's tall and muscular and has a masculine presence, but is ultimately extremely mild compared to like an actual gangster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthDo you know who Carlton is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Alpha males and Confidence?Both. I don't believe in these concepts at their core but I do believe the phenomenon exists. The only way someone can always be confident is if they had a good upbringing and was constantly given validation throughout his life. Other man can become alphas if they get to the point where they believe no other man could fuck with them and they're doing a favor to the women they're talking to. I have been in an "alpha" mindset a couple times before but it's usually at parties or when I was boxing. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some good qualities to acknowledge in a women besides looks?Open mindedness, a good moral compass, while still being able to maintain femininity. If I could find a leftist woman who could still manage to be feminine and also brought my masculine side out then I wouldn't even be worried with hoes. Most leftist women are either hoes to the max or are insufferable af and prolly have BPD. Conservatives women believe too strongly In hierarchy and think that's how the world is supposed to be run for me to really be attracted to them, but they have the feminini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Chicks dig hot dudes. Express your surprise here.It's more that horrible behavior by hot men is excused frequently just because of the attraction. They then go and complain to the rest of society about the shitty behavior (that they'll put up with for hot guys) of men, and then we eventually end up with shit like the Gilette ad that's extremely dishonest and purely a PR stunt. Literally there are threads full of women bitching and whining about shit that guys do that I've personally done myself to girls that were attracted to me or that I've s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthYeah even then they're still not 100% honest. I was in BPT before and I saw a post complaining that dark skinned women aren't seen as beautiful as light skinned black women, and therefore there needs to be an effort to show more of these women in movies and tv shows so it's normalized... Men who don't immediately pull women though? Nope it's all your fault! Go shower, wash your ass, learn how to dress, stop blaming everyone else for your problems. Even when you get to black women they still are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthWhen black = gangbanger in your mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthYeah this is why I can't stand white women rn ngl. All they do is complain about how dangwrous it apprently is to reject the average man and how apparently they're on defense 24/7. Just makes it that much worse for black men cause white women have next to 0 self awareness and if they do they just embrace their privilege. I've quite literally had women hit me up begging to buy their onlyfans and then called me a nigger or referenced the fucking turner diaries when I told them to get the fuck out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Harsh Truth: Women will tolerate abuse more if you’re attractive to her vs if she’s not attracted to you"Too strong for us to have the willpower to leave" So abusive men get a pass cause they're hot? That's kind of your fault then ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | NEVER trust a thirsty guyIdk bout this I know a guy who's essentially a narcissist and fucks over most guys in his vicinity for pussy/play and dude legit has 40 bodies. None of us can even legally drink yet. Girls who roast this dude behind his back to all other guys end up getting fucked by him anyways. Women like men who "win" over other men just because they like the power play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:06 PM |
| 5 | The male vs the female gazeI know conservative women who definitely are attracted to the idea of a "Donald Trump". Saying the rock isn't attractive is just... so off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Coolidge effect discussion threadI wish I knew about this before because this happened to me in my early teens. I went from "being friends" with girls until they got a boyfriend who then blocked me to getting nudes from girls with boyfriends of 2 years and still going on. My height wasn't a factor and I also have a decent face and body so I was pretty successful. I'd say the number of girls I started getting nudes from on a regular basis without asking at the most was 4, and then they rotated out monthly and got replaced. It de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Why do woman prefer smugness and passive aggressive tendencies over genuine straightforwardness?Mmmm idk about that I get more mad at being lied to and misled than just not having my time wasted from the get go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Have we over complicated female sexuality? Are they MUCH more similar to males than we thought?Depends where you live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so painfully unfunny?Heavily conservative and leftist women can be funny. Any sort of liberal woman will never be funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 56 | Men in a nutshellMemes like this lose to the OkCupid stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:48 PM |
| – | [Q4W] Have any of you experienced guys who use dating coach tactics on you recently?Cause "Hi, how are you" doesn't work especially if you're dealing with girls who have a weird idea of masculinity is. Desperate replies or blatantly sexual replies get me more responses PERIOD (negative or positive) than any "Hi how are you" has unless they were already extremely physically attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | When people take their pictures at angles instead of straight ahead on their profiles, do you consider that smart marketing or false advertising?"Smart marketing" is false advertising. Which is why anti capitalism exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Do as much small talk as possibleWhat do you do if you absolutely hate small talk | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | People need to learn to give only what they're willing to give without receiving anything in return.Yeah I can only give so much and that usually comes in the form of intellectual discussion. I hate having my time and money wasted so much to the point where I'm hurting feelings and I'm using things told to me in confidence to break you down if you waste my time, money, or energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?The new strat is nobody commit and everyone be a fuckboy and just treat women like shit. Eventually women will learn that unattractive (well really average) men have SOMETHING to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Doesn't really matter to most young women. I told my friend all through high school that height was what women cared about the most and he told me I was lying. Dude moved to the bay area and racked up 11 bodies and told me that height was basically a cheat code and once they asked his height he knew he was in there. I asked him if he'd be able to be successful if he swapped bodies with my 5'2 friend since he knew the game and he quite literally told me he doesn't even know if he'd be successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 7 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Most women look for evidence of heirarchy, and likewise would gladly date a pos capitalist over a good and honest working man. I don't think that women are even socialized to think outside of the box, given that they care so much about women think and care soo much about social status and whatnot. It's kind of why tradcon men do well even if they're morons, because they think within the same box women operate in 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:53 PM |
| 7 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Ummm I'm ngl I don't see how posts telling men women just care about the status and social value they bring ON TOP of having ridiculous physical standards, is supposed to make us pro-women. This is the wide scale version of women telling short men they can't date because she likes to wear heels. Like is that supposed to make me value your opinion? You care more about wearing heels than me? Likewise, you care more about what other women's boyfriends are looking like, or what other women are think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 10 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Okay if this is it, then why shouldn't all men just be players? I really don't get what women are trying to convey here if they're saying "well my biology makes me super picky despite not really offering much sorry." Like... is that supposed to make us value women more? If women don't care about us but just the statuses and social value we bring for standing next to us, why at all should I value someone like that and not see them as interchangeable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Hmmm idk about you but I'm a short guy and I regularly did martial arts growing up and I'm also pretty athletic. Like I could touch a basketball rim off vertical. None of this actually has to do with the concrete, it's all "ideas" for women and how other women view them. It's very tied to heirarchy and kinda in itself narcissistic. Who cares if the other women have tall boyfriend at the party or if yours is short or "nice" looking? What does what other women have, have to do with how turned on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Have men lost their voice with modern gadgets?I actually didn't realize this until around a year ago, but the voice actually does make a huge difference. Women feel wayyy more comfortable talking down to men and "shit testing" them when there's no face or voice involved. Phonecalls alone change the vibe but actual facetime calls kinda make a switch flip in some women's brains. I have like no evidence of this but I'm pretty sure this is because girls (at least the ones in my generation) were super easy to game over text. All that stuff about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS is less about self improvement and knowing your worth and more about getting back and every man or every woman in existenceNot going to lie, I didn't need to go on redpill subreddits to be "redpilled". I just had to observe my surroundings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Men are allowed to date "Up" but women are notNone of those things you mentioned will make you attractive if you're fat. And I'm pretty sure it's called female dating strategy right? Wouldn't you want to be as high quality as possible to get a high value man? Everyone knowns "being attractive is important" but women just don't know the right metrics it seems, at least if they're floating around in that sub. Aren't the women in that sub the "men will fuck anything" types? How would you even know if a woman is attracting high quality men? Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you?Someone loving me for me (especially a woman) and not just what I can do for her is something rare. If I felt the same about her despite her having no other options I 99.999% of the time wouldn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?Yes. But not in the way you think. Some people vet by testing people's reactions or purposely doing something distasteful to see how their man/woman reacts. This can fail in 2 ways, one of them is the person realizes what you're doing and they completely cut you off, the other one is they realize you're trying to manipulate them and they react extremely badly. Some of the stuff I see them saying on female dating strategy would have the guys I know, who date around, like "Why is she acting like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?I mean I was about 2 years behind everyone else I'd say when it came to actually wanting to fuck and stuff. I also had some problems at home but honestly it was because I was short and most of the girls at that school were my height if not taller than me. I went into high school at 5'2 and came out at 5'6. Was pretty muscular and was on the varsity track team. I actually did pull a couple girls but due to bullying from most females in my life (including my own mother) about my physical appearanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying?I actually used to try to comfort girls I liked whenever I saw them crying. Its honestly a skill just like everything else. Realistically I'd really only care if a gf/wife was crying. Trying to help random chicks you think are cute when their crying honestly only gets you involved with a lot of crazy girls who make horrible decisions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I'm talking in terms of relative attractiveness. A narrow butt isn't universally "ugly" for women and being short isn't "ugly" for men. I'd say they fall in the unattractive category. My point is that height is different when it comes to attraction and matters in a different manner than face or body fitness does. It's not as black and white as "attractive people get with attractive people" it's more "women care about height so much that short men basically have to max out all their stats if they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 14 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?This is off topic but can any woman tell me how, in good conscience, you would allow someone to spend all that money on you despite them clearly not being in the socioeconomic class for them to be spending that much money? Why let them spend money knowing you don't like them? What makes you think you deserve to have all that money blown on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Yeah I have and "top 1%" guys usually come from wealthy families and don't really have to deal with too much hardship. The guys they hang out with basically act the same they they do and its all basically carefree fun cause they know they can basically do and get away with whatever they want. Most of the time if a guy is like this he's over 6 ft, is naturally muscular, is white, has facial hair, and comes from a wealthy family. I actually worked with a guy like this. I won't say he was dumb but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Well a lot of people are confident because of their ignorance. Ignorance has a correlation with intelligence I'd assume. Chads are ignorant to how unattractive men are treated and really the spectrum of negative behavior that's possibly towards men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I'm sorry but what does any of that have to do with how smart the idea of a "chad" is. You went to university and you know entrepreneurs, so obviously the "chads" in those areas are going to be smart. If we're talking about just general intelligence then "chads" tend to be less intelligent because they already are getting through life off their looks and the personality that comes with being treated super well. They don't have to be intelligent to pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Yeah I'm saying of a guy wants that then he'll say something right away or make it obvious he's interested within like the first few interactions. All this whining about guys making a move is unwarranted. Would you rather be cold approached in public and have these men explicitly say he wants sex? No? Then stfu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 10 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?There's a difference in a guy trying to fuck you and a guy explicitly saying he just wants to be friends and then dropping a bomb outta nowhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?How would you know what most men have to go through to get a date? I just described to you whats essentially bluepilled dating advice. What if the guy is balding, short, a man of color, poor, out of shape, or has family issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | “Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’sPretty accurate. Women's outward opinions or behaviors heavily depend on what the other women in the area think. Women are obsessed with tall men in the US, because other women date tall men and they think of it as a status symbol or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:51 PM |
| 6 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?It's because men don't want the work they put in to outweigh the quality of the partner they pull. If you have to go to the gym constantly, read and keep up to date with culture, try to further your career and build your wealth, JUST to pull some chick who's main hobbies are social media activism and working at some retail spot then he's probably going to be more unhappy than he was when he was single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?/r/short there ya go I've been hit up off of my friends tagged pics on insta just for the girl to laugh and reject me once I told her I was just 2 inches taller than her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 11 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Nah this isn't true imo. The more intelligence you have the less confidence you have because you recognize you're just 1 person. There's also the fact it's much harder to connect with women who aren't as intelligence as you. I've seen dumb guys be more successful with women because honestly women are pretty reactionary, and dumb men do not think about what they do, they just react. A dumb man is going to be much less in his head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Man those are rare asf. Almost every female in my life has abandoned me when things got tough especially if they had a boyfriend. My own female family members did this shit to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:33 PM |
| 27 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Yeah ngl you can look around any place with a ton of people amusement parks, museums, restaurants, sports games and see how it is for short men. Almost every couple I've seen where the guy is ugly and the girl is hot, the guys is almost always noticeably over a head taller than her. Short men always come in the best dressed, groomed, tend to have accessories like watches or jewelry on, and usually look pretty wealthy. Most of the time though the best looking women are with the best looking short… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 7 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?My mother and the extended family all think that men are supposed to behave this way in the beginning of the relationship at least. Or before marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 10 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Hmmm idk how true this is. For almost the whole year of 2020 I saw a trend of girls on social media and dating apps making onlyfans and basically selling sex while trying to date. Women aren't gold diggers cause they lost their trust, they do it cause its the easy way out and almost no one will say anything about it. I actually saw women I knew posting that they were doing paid hookups but the amount you paid was different based on how horny she was or how good you looked. Ngl the entire year of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 33 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I've never in my life seen: A guy pretending to be "friends" with a woman just for sex. Literally no guy who's graduated high school is out here like "Ya know what? Lets be friends" when all he wanted was to fuck you. Most guys know this is a waste of time and they'll usually make that move pretty soon into the interaction. What I have seen is countless girls in my area saying they want "friends" on tinder and bumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 13 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?This comment makes 0 sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Men need to reign in and focus their rage and indignationIt's more anger over the fact the bar for men really lies in money, looks, status, and power. Most guys start off with nothing, but then some get looks and those guys get women despite their behavior. Then the guys who didn't get women are told to basically move up the class ladder and get money in our current economy. Then when you spend 5-10 years improving yourself, looking at all you have, you realize the women you attracted do not really have too much to show for themselves. They do not hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Just be nazi theoryUhhh not for 300+ women to match with a fucking nazi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.It all depends how you look. Idk what it is with me specifically, but almost EVERY time I've done something kind for a girl they try to take advantage of me or use me later. If you're at a certain level of attractiveness, then you cannot do any favors or kind things for women or they WILL put you inside that "simp/nice guy" zone. Being a legitimate asshole who has some attractive traits will still get you farther than actually being nice and kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Myers Briggs Results Purple Pill (For Fun)Im Entp too and male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 13 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.I have before (twice) and the first time I just put a cashapp in my bio and got $15 before I got banned. The second time I just got tons of matches and couldn’t respond to every person if I wasn’t already on the app. The gripes I’ve seen with online dating (for women) that seem legit are, too many options, occasional harassment, men typically just want sex, and…? Idk what your comment is really trying to say but as a guy who has been harassed before on OLD apps by gay and bi men, I’d still take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.Oh damn that was probably coincidence, but it’s still too much to doing 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 8 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.They are swiping on a real person. Plus it’s not disrespectful honestly. Women have tons of options, it’s not gonna kill them when the 9/10 they think they snagged coincidentally just stops texting them back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.It really depends where you are. But I just said OLD because it’s the most readily available way to put yourself in the other party’s shoes. Unless you want to cross dress or become trans, making a fake profile for a week and assessing the results is probably the best way to actually understand what the dating atmosphere is like for that sex (depending on the pics you used) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 9 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.You mean trans women? Or like actual guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 4 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.I understand it fr. I joined an app a long time ago that eventually became a cesspool of gay men catfishing. Most of the guys tried to do the “let’s just be friends” and would try to escalate but there was one guy who literally made 4 different dating profiles and 2 different Snapchat’s just to keep asking me if he could pay to give me head. After I threatened to beat his ass he left me alone but I’m sure that’s not a viable option for most women. That being said, it’s not at all hard to avoid c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The greatest determining factor of dating success for men is to be happySo, human things such as insecurities, set backs, and things out of your control such as mental health issues are just instant disqualifiers when it comes to dating for men huh? Like you quite literally pointed out that “bad boys” become abusive because they faked their personality. That should be a look into what putting up a facade for days, months, years will do to a persons psyche. People complain about imposter syndrome and realize it to be a real thing but want men to pretend like their li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?Like I can tell she had presumptions about them. Like she asked me if black people got bald (weird question) and when I told her I smoked weed, I came up there one day to see a coworker and she asked me if I was there to sell drugs. Then there was another time I was debating abortion with her and I gave her a hypothetical about a single mom in college who got pregnant by accident and had to drop out because of the baby, and she asked “Did that happen to you?”. Like she’s innocently ignorant if i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 2 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?I didn’t tell her to watch CNN either cause they’ve obvi been biased in the past. I just hope she doesn’t watch tucker Carlson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?I actually knew a pretty conservative girl who deadass would’ve been the perfect partner. The only thing was she watched Fox News and believed everything they said and also had some weird beliefs about black people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Restriction of male sexuality?I do see what you’re saying here and it’s a bit of a problem to me too. I hate having to put on an act to be sexually successful. Either you put on an act or you get so caught up in the act that you actually believe that’s your personality. You put the hentai thing into perspective too and it makes me wonder why real, possibly expoloitative porn, is still more socially acceptable than something animated even to the people who claim to care about how men get their nut off. Which doesn’t make sens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How much truth is there to this statement?I mean I saw that one dating coach flat out say that’s how some women date and then they end up on the road to dying single. She talks about how she gained expectations from dating all these men who were really just playing her and she was only with them cause they turned her on and had money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 12 | Girls want a man who is... Well, simply not anxious and depressed.Idk about nerds and smokers dating just fine tbh. Especially nerds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 10 | Girls want a man who is... Well, simply not anxious and depressed.I mean this is true. Tons of women claim to not want to date short men because they’re insecure but I’ve never heard of a dude being rejected cause he was tired of “how’s the weather up there” jokes and “do you play basketball” comments. I’ve never heard of women complain about tall guys who are insecure over comments like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 03:32 AM |
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