Why does no one here ever talk about "acting" a certain way in accordance to your looks?

To put simply, we know the female gaze is based off "ideas" and ideals of whatever she's been told in the past. I'm black and I got more attention acting violent af and honestly being an edgy domineering ass than being pleasant and personable ever did (to most women). For white dudes the eauivalent to this is acting like a frat bro or whatever stereotypes are associated with white dudes.