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Sciencetiposk/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:59 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:33 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 09:50 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:36 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:35 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 11:43 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 03:25 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 06:39 PM
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Question For ALLtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:06 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:00 AM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:52 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:24 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 05:43 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 11:47 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 02:21 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 10:28 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 06:46 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:11 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 12:00 AM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 10:49 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 03:43 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill13/02/21 07:27 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 07:05 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill10/07/17 08:34 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 07:12 PM
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Purge Week!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:14 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 10:41 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill27/12/20 03:47 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 05:47 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 06:03 PM
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Sciencetiposk/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:42 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill07/06/17 06:10 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill10/03/17 06:32 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill01/07/17 08:27 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill25/06/16 10:21 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:36 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill10/12/17 12:58 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill28/06/17 02:12 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 05:21 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill01/07/17 04:31 AM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 02:17 AM
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Sciencetiposk/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:39 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill21/11/16 12:12 AM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:42 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 09:24 PM
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Purge Week!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:22 AM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 09:49 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:09 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:55 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:11 PM
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discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:01 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 08:54 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 12:32 AM
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Purge Week!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:29 PM
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Question for BluePilltiposk/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 06:15 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:21 PM
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Purge Week!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:18 PM
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Sciencetiposk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:20 PM
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CMVtiposk/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 05:28 PM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill07/10/16 08:28 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 05:02 AM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:30 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:36 PM
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Legal Sciencetiposk/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:55 PM
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NYE Purge Post!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:06 PM
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Clinical Diagnosistiposk/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:22 PM
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Question for Womentiposk/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:17 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:19 PM
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Purge Week!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:07 PM
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NYE Purge Post!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:33 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 09:52 PM
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Discussiontiposk/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:29 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:33 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:54 PM
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Important Announcement!tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:04 PM
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Question for RedPilltiposk/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 08:50 PM
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Question For Womentiposk/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:22 AM
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tiposk/r/ExRedPill22/11/16 07:35 PM
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tiposk/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:02 PM
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Islamic Theologytiposk/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:20 AM
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Poly might be a bit too much for me, but I'd be ok with a semi open relationship where we include a third person for a threesome once in a while or go on a date/sex with someone else provided that both partners agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:27 AM
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Now I'm mad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:40 PM
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He's the one who makes dozens of posts about cuck culture, but most of them seem to get deleted. There's a post from him right now about how porn is cuck culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:53 PM
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You got a raccoon? 🥰🥰🦝🦝
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:48 PM
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But what if the slut realizes there's no other man who does her as good as you do? Is she allowed to retire then or will you require that she keeps slutting it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:46 PM
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Dear FlamingCoochies, I just came here to say that cuckoldry is a valid fetish to have, there's no need to angrily project it on the rest of us perverts who post on PPD. We have our own fetishes and there's no need for us to deal with yours too. With love, Tiposk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:43 PM
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Yeah, it does, there's just nothing in the comment that's harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:23 PM
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Most women aren't UMC and UMC people are surrounded by other UMC people, not necessarily rich people. OP makes it sound like most women say this, which I don't think is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:04 PM
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Which women say this? I don't think anybody is surrounded by the rich unless they're rich themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:45 PM
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Your group of friends seems worse than a PPD meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:29 PM
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I prayed, but God sided with the admins
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:24 PM
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We should take over reddit and purge all the current admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:23 PM
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Thanks, but that would mean that the Reddit bot is failing to recognize harrassment, or is it possible that the report was from a non-ppd user? Would that look different to a PPD mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:44 PM
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Yeah, but my message got ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:32 PM
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Just got back from a 7-day Reddit suspension for "harassment". Looks like someone reported a sarcastic reply I made to somebody else as the person I replied to was just laughing and agreeing. Reddit admins are a bunch of retards and the person who reported me is a little cunt. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:17 PM
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They have an open relationship. He's as cucked as she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:55 AM
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I don't think you're missing out. If you're that curious, get wine or beer once you're with someone you trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:53 AM
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I don't know. Keep in mind I never said everyone was toxic, I said "if everyone would turn toxic". It's a hypothetical scenario where "everyone" includes me, but I can't marry myself so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:54 PM
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Plenty of people in trad cultures are toxic af too and those around them are still forced into marriage, and that's the point, I could at least be alone in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:45 PM
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The West is one of the very a few shitholes I like. At least I can choose not to marry if everyone was to turn toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:59 PM
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I'm all for creating a Christian country where women and men are shamed to death for their sluttiness and the rest are forced to be monogamous, but please leave me out of such a shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:31 PM
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0%, have fun with your cats 10%, you're too hypergamous for Chad 20%, you're an hypergamous whore 80%, you're a whore 100%, you're lying and probably just notice the Chads anyways Thanks for using my translation services!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:24 PM
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There are several guys at any given time to which i'm attracted. Sometimes it's 10 sometimes it's 1. It depends on how big my circle is at the moment. I don't know what percentage that is because there are many men that I don't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:20 PM
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Of course they're desirable or can be for at least certain type of man. I'm getting more at OP implying there's more stigma towards men using their $$$ to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:05 PM
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And sugar babies are called prostitutes and hookers all the time. Look at any article on sugar relationships that allows comments and you'll see that most commenters will be harsher towards sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:29 PM
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Not to mention hooker, prostitute, tramp... Society is used to expect higher standards from women in this regards that it believes that two or three articles defending such women is sign of collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:26 PM
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The decline is steep, bro. My cuckometer recorded 30% more cuckoldry right now than 9 hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:22 PM
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Not to mention that this is a fetish, so by definition it can't be prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:20 PM
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Some of us just love our computers more than people, but computers can't cuddle us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:35 AM
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Mmmm.. that's an interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:07 AM
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when i did have casual sex, i saw it as purely transactional and simply sex based. Wouldn't that be the opposite of transactional? You were having sex in exchange for... more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:05 AM
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Society has different sexual expectations from men and women, and while those expectation might be partially rooted in women's ability to get pregnant (as well as other historical things I won't get into), these expectations have great influence on how men and women experience casual sex. If you grow up listening how nobody wants "used up" women or men not wanting you for being easy as a threat to make you behave in a sexually appropriate way, casual sex will bring great emotional discomfort to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:04 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:05 AM
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How do you define blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:38 AM
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Can confirm. I took the virginity of a Chad who had a 6 inch penis with a 6 inch circumference. 5 years later and after 27.4 women, his penis was below 4 inches and I could fit it in my left ear. Sad shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:35 AM
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As a slut myself, I have a hard time imagining how people get to triple digits. I have a slight impression that these people either exist in very sexual circles such as those of swingers and sex club goers, or they might be in fact overestimating how many people they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:32 AM
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Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:11 AM
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I doubt it. If the base urge was just fucking, a flesh light would do. It's the validation they seek, and sure, a realistic sex robot with very good programming would do this, but for how long will these pre-recorded, validating audio do the trick for the obscene cost and maintenance they will require? I already imagine the owners of first gen sex bots pushing a red button to hear: Me sucky sucky. Me so horny, me love you long time. All for the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:10 AM
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I have a hard time opening up to people that ain't my partner, but the need for it is still there. When I find someone I click with emotionally, I have the tendency to throw overwhelm them with sentimental bullshit. There's someone at work that I want to bond with so badly and drown them in my emotional diarrhea that it pains me to have this professional barrier between us that I'd rather wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:56 PM
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This might explain why PPD is overwhelmingly red leaning men: Men are more likely than women to experience strong negative emotions in response to gender threats
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:50 PM
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Maybe for you. If I had my mentality today I wouldn't have waited so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:34 PM
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Remaining a virgin out of fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:08 PM
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I was 24 when I had sex for the first time. I was very afraid of being "used" and keeping myself inexperienced was a self defense mechanism. I also knew another woman who had sex at 25, with her first boyfriend. I don't know her exact reasons but talking to her made it seem like she had great hangups around sex. I'm pretty sure there were other women too this isn't a topic most people feel comfortable discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:49 PM
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Random hot dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:34 PM
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And then there are those of us who feel both safe and mega horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:17 PM
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That makes sense, thank you. It sounds like a power issue. I wonder if women experiencing higher attachment anxiety contributes to them being more accepting of that in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:25 PM
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Interesting. How would you tie this to PPD though? I recall some men mentioning to like needy girlfriends, but I'm not sure if this is a common position over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:47 PM
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I knew another one who ended up marrying a politician. I sttongly believe that women who monetize on their looks prefer power/$$$ over looks. That politician wasn't ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:39 PM
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Depends on what you call hvm. Plenty of what's considered HVM on PPD do in fact use money to attract marital partners and money is an essential part of the relationships they form. There's very little difference between a sugar baby and a trophy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:36 PM
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But you implied them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:52 PM
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Says the guy who thinks that attraction isn't a feeling, but implies to fuck people he finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:46 PM
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Because I anwered once and you seem obtuse. There is no logical reason to enter a romantic relationship w/o feelings. Feelings is what make a relationship romantic. You're asking me to explain why the water is wet without telling you it's wet because it's water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:39 PM
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Oh, so you're telling me that you do feel attraction to people you sleep with. This is getting hot 🔥 🔥 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:27 PM
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Hot but poor. Money and career are irrelevant to sexual attraction. They create stability, but fail to create the spark if it's lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:26 PM
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So you stick your dick in people you don't feel any attraction to? That's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:19 PM
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Not until you explain how you fuck logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:15 PM
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I do many things out of logic, just not relationships. Have you ever fucked someone you're attracted to or you always proceed with sex like you do with math?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:09 PM
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Relationships aren't a mathematical equation where you try to get facts. If they don't make you feel good, what's the point of being in one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:55 PM
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Because attraction is the product of many factors that you can't produce out of thin air. If she wants to be happy what's the point of getting in a relationship she doesn't feel good about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:36 PM
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I agree with your first paragraphs but I cyv in your last one by saying that this isn't an issue of men here. The view that relationships are a milestone to be hit is very prevalent. Most people won't tell you that but their actions and what is said between the likes make is obvious. There is a lot of criticism and pity for women who ain't married past a certain age, or women who slept with a guy but did not commit, based on the assumption that all women want and need martiage and committment. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:33 PM
1

Have you seen Jeff Penishead Bezos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:31 AM
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Not the kind the men who post here like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:45 AM
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Because the desire to spend money on a woman often comes with a trad personality, which ain't good if you don't want a trad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:40 AM
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Apparently yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:55 AM
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I don't know, but I was the one to tell my partner that I'll probably never want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:38 AM
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Plenty of people break up without anyone in the line up. Some relationship simply ain't worth it and being alone is preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:30 AM
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Not to mention that having a child with someone you don't want to be with might even be worse than just staying childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:27 AM
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Yeah, no, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:46 AM
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I got suspended for telling a bot to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:43 AM
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What makes pinkpill and fds different? I always thought there was a big overlap between the two, but now it seems like pink pill ain't what I thought it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:42 AM
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Future ex-husband? Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:32 AM
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That's why I like to spank them until it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:27 AM
1

Statistically it's women with higher n counts that prefer high n count men. Also, women who risk a cheating man, especially for marriage, aren't really choosy even if they don't sleep around themselves. I was an older virgin and most of the crap I got was for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:01 PM
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Don't engage in the topic. Just tell them "I'm not having kids for now and it's my decision to make. I appreciate your concern but this is none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:05 PM
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And a woman can't be really that choosy if she ends up eith a man with a high n count, csn she?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:58 PM
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Are "broken" because of your n count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:56 PM
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I find gimpgirl555 way more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:54 PM
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If the man himself doesn't show any problematic behavior I don't care about his relationship with his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:10 AM
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Good god, sound like something you'd see in a sleazy film
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:06 AM
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You're welcome 😈 Hail Satan!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:50 AM
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That's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:49 AM
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... to Satanism I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:48 AM
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Plus, you get to sin 6 days a week and repent on the 7th one. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:42 AM
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Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:41 AM
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What about satanists? Would you give us a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:39 AM
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You have to convert.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:37 AM
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I'm an atheist. Religiousness isn't an automatic deal breaker but if it gets in the way of how I'd like us carry a relationship I'd rather not date the person and the person won't want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:37 AM
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I'm on a train and somebody just farted. Godammit, Bobby! Can't you wait til you make it to the next stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:29 PM
2

If they picked on you constantly then you're right to dump them. I've had friends making backhanded racist comments about me, or criticizing my sexuality or lack thereof. I got fed up and told the to suck my imaginary d!ck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:27 PM
1

She was great!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:17 PM
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Thank you. Sex positivity is the satanic panic of our time. People aren't as accepting of women having casual sex and most studies keep showing this over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:05 PM
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This isn't misandry as much as an excuse to not take responsibility for their own sexual behavior. If all men just want sex, this puts the responsibility on the woman for any sexual activity that might happen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:53 PM
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Orgy material... but with the lights off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:02 AM
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You're assuming most low n count women want the type of dude that posts on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:57 AM
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Just for most of his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:42 AM
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I know, that's the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:04 AM
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What?! Are you telling me that 80 year old Hugh Hefner didn't give them blondies real gina tingles?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:04 AM
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A lot of men here seem to like the insta thot type who would be happy to hang out with Dan. All the obsession with triple digit n counts, single moms fucking around and random women having their only fans resurfacing 10 years later makes me think men who post here fear those things becausr deep down they know that this is exactly the kind of woman they feel attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:01 AM
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You don't behave badly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:51 AM
1

Josh 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:47 AM
4

Kinda like I feel about Henry Cavill. Absolutely gorgeous, but doesn't elicit any sexual feelings in me like Bill Skarsgard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:10 AM
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Probably the same way you have fears and other feeling you might not be fully aware of either because you don't want to face them or they're not as important at the moment for your brain to fully process them. Sounds weird but it's the basis of many therapies to make you aware of your feelings to address them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:08 AM
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I think this is often subconscious. People doing it don't realize they're doing it, so I wouldn't expect them having an agreement as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:49 AM
2

Only half joking. I suspect that people who want to try unconventional sex are more common than we think, but very a few are willing to go with it, so they push boundaries little by little to see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:39 AM
6

Kinda, but I don't use them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:35 AM
3

Not to mention this feels like her trying to gauge how much female attention I get in order to rate my value, because she’s already crossed the line in the past with overly-complimenting my body and touching me too close in front of her husband. She's asking for an MFM, but the christian version of it. Be prepared for a human sandwich missionary style. May God bless you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:30 AM
6

Most sluts (or at least women with reputations of being one) marry, just not to men who care about about numbers. I'd also argue that it's not in anybody's interest to stop living your life the way you want -if this life doesn't harm anyone- to get marriage approval from a future partner, particularly when that partner doesn't hold themselves to simmilar standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:17 AM
8

If you're promiscuous and a parent I assume you're divorced or separated so you don't really have a stable household. Or maybe both of you are swingers or in some kind of open relationship, in which case you can keep your promiscuity outside the home. Parents with children do leave their kids with friends/grandparents to go out once in a while. What difference does it make to the child if I go for 5 hours to the zoo with my girlfriends or see my fwb for the same amount of time? You guys have a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:04 AM
2

Yes, María de Pistolas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:26 AM
3

Because you eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:22 AM
5

If you want my number just ask me. The social media part seems strange. I don't have any porn videos or a list of all the dudes I fucked up there on instagram. There's not much you can learn about me from social media. I think most women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:19 AM
1

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:08 AM
2

That would be possible if the jobs had flexible schedules and worked around your availability, which very often isn't the case. I did work a minimum wage job that suddenly started cutting my hours and other jobs I applied for required full availability even when they offered minimum hours. I wasn't homeless, but I had to rely on some gov aid and help from family. This allowed me to quit and use my time to volunteer in a professional field until I got a well paid job. Doesn't work for everyone, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:59 PM
3

The question is, do these jobs pay rent and food? Part time minimum wage jobs don't. Once your household income falls below a certain threshold, you're better off focusing your efforts on gov aid and once you get it, improve your skills for a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:45 PM
5

Or the kids are grown ass adults who can care of themselves. If my parents ever divorced, I would want them to get properly fucked by middle aged Chads and Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:39 PM
8

Wow, you guys have hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:36 PM
1

I've known women like this. Most of them, at least in my experience, ended up with cheaters or in sotuations where they experience too much jealousy. If as a woman you don't expect restrainr from your man, only for the women he sleeps with, don't get surprised when you attract men who have no standards for themselves but high standards for the women they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:25 PM
2

Depends on whose morality you're using. Many people would say that slut phases are immoral regardless of when they take place. I don't care as long as you weren't cheating or bringing people to your house that can hurt your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:59 PM
3

I tried to look for research to support this for a long time and couldn't find anything except for blog entries twisting the findings of actual research. This pair-bonding thing is either a misinterpretation of results, is in a different language or someone pulled it out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:34 PM
3

Sorry to chime in, but your info could be published by whoever you send it to. I'd avoid private messages if I wanted to keep my identity anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:23 PM
3

Pretty much! I don't think that hoe phases are about discovery, they're about enjoyment. If you don't enjoy it there's no point to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:55 PM
5

He twerks for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:32 PM
1

Did she bite them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:32 PM
6

Don't date then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:28 PM
3

Has ot ever been other than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:20 AM
1

And that's exactly why men should be held to the same standards. It shouldn't be my job to keep away my partners from promiscuous women. They need to be capable of doing that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:11 AM
2

Yes. When I perceive that it won't be reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:13 PM
0

Mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:10 PM
1

I certainly notice it, but play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:24 PM
1

Seriously this, some of the stuff I see on instagram is worrisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:23 PM
4

I don't want anybody to be ashamed, but I want people to understand what's appropriate and what is fair. The issue is that a sizeable number of men, at least as I've experienced where I lived, don't understand these concepts. You can have all the fantasies you want, but don't express them to complete strangers who boundaries you don't know. Simmilarly, don't go around calling women hoes and sluts for accepting sexual advances that YOU started. Other than that, I've got no reason to shame anybody…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:19 PM
2

I have a friend doing research for a book on Tinder. He says that many of this half naked women in there are insta/of models using Tinder to advertise their pages
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:53 PM
1

OP said intagram and tiktok. I doubt you can see actual porn in those.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:43 PM
1

So the problem is class and not sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:40 PM
5

Women have been posing naked for Playboy and the likes for many decades. Most of them married and had children or eventually found other careers. Sure, some men won't respect these women and some employers won't want them, but they eventually find someone who will. I also don't think that posting racy pics is the norm. Women who do it roll in circles where this doesn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:17 PM
1

It was a joke :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:27 PM
1

The topic might not come at all and if it does it most likely be a light discussion where details aren't expected. Don't volunteer that info and if she asks about a past girlfriend just say it was a long time ago. If you make it sound as a boring story she won't be tempted to ask more. As curious as I am, I don't remember asking men about their past romantic lives unless they volunteer that info.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:08 PM
6

MFM > MFF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:04 PM
3

Wow! You're beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:20 AM
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It reminds me of a dude on PPD that wrote an extensive rant on self entitled below average bitches who dared rejecting him, an above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:03 AM
1

Can I ask you what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:00 AM
2

I would with some of them. I don't feel romantic love for those partners, but if I were single and the opportunity arose I would have no problem with hooking up with them again. That said, I feel uncomfortable about others and I wouldn't get involved with them in any capacity. Not even as a friend. I don't regret them, but once I saw what the experience was like I have no desire to repeat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:58 AM
3

Speak for yourself lady, me love me some Ted Bundy with high body count. Jeffrey Dahmer too but he gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:40 PM
5

Exactly. The OP made sense if men were also open to share their finances and their salaries, but they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:38 PM
5

I'm over 25 and have never had a problem with feminine faces on men. Am I the norm? I'm not sure, but I'm proof that no woman likes feminine looking men is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:30 PM
2

And a big reason why it's the status quo is because women keep putting up with it whether married or not. FDS is very quick to tell women that it's better to be alone than to put up with certain crap, but for some reason being alone instead of taking on the bulk of unfair work is unfeasible and worth doing in exchange for a ring? I'm sorry, FDS isn't in a position to lecture women about being pickmes as the sub seems to be full of high tier pickmes itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:10 PM
3

FDSers accuse of pickmeing individual women whose circumstances they don't know. They apply what 50% of women do on the rest of us. Furthermore, if a woman finds doing most of the chores an unfair deal, she shouldn't be dating seriously men who expect that from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:25 AM
2

Maybe for you, but they do for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:02 PM
1

I'm not sure I've ever said I had a low n count, and my count is irrelevant to my argument that many women aren't concerned with what guys think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:15 PM
1

I don't necessary disagree with you. It's just that promiscuous people tend to be valued by other promiscuous people who lead their lifestyles and valued by them, just like criminals are avoided by most people but valued by other crimminals. I was mostly getting at OPs inconsistency across gender lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:12 PM
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Promiscuity is bad for commitment and monogamy. There are studies that have been conducted on the diminished ability to pair bond, higher likelihood of infidelity, greater desire for sexual novelty as a result of casual sex. Cause vs. Correlation debate aside, this applies to both genders. Women are entitled to that standard too, but most women are more forgiving of a sexually promiscuous man even if they are turned off by it. However, that is changing too. For the reasons I already explained wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:03 AM
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Ok, just because I know the height and the weight of the MEDIAN woman doesn't mean I know your height and weight. Does this make my argument any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:41 AM
1

But these men not wanting to commit to a certain type of women is used as a cautionary tale to disuade women from becoming this type. This automatically implies that the committment of these men is or should be valuable. True, women are more forgiving of men's past, but society plays a huge part in this. The fact that we spend more time disuading women than men from becoming promiscuous and that promiscuity in men, or the desire for promiscuity at least, is seen as bad but normal, sets higher ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:38 AM
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That's the tendency, yes, but it doesn't say anything about individual women. I don't know your height or your weight just because I know the height and weight of the average woman. My partner does half of the chores, does his own laundry and pays his part of the bills. And I'm not planning to have kids, let alone staying home unless I get laid off. The only half I would get would be the half I put in the marriage minus the legal fees which are expensive af over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:16 AM
2

Woman here, what was your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:00 AM
7

I can type... with my hands. Am I sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:56 AM
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Because they can't conceive the idea of truly egalitarian relationships, men and women who show their commitment through means other than marriage or jurisdictions where your circumstances make marriage unnecessary or legally and financially inconvenient. It's up to the couple to look at their situation and decide if marriage is worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:54 AM
8

Not really, but image of the logical and rational man enraged and hitting his keyboard against his desk after calling me a slut during a PPD argument turns me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:50 AM
3

I can't say I disagree. Much of our behaviors is geared towards getting accepted by the opposite sex. That ain't healthy but it's the truth for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:42 AM
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The term ain't problematic the way you describe it. It's problematic when any behavior a woman presents towards a man earns her the title of pickmeisha even when the person calling her such doesn't understand the context of her behavior, but makes assumptions about it. Fox example, fdsers automatically call pickme any woman who is unmarried in a long term relationship because they expect women to want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:40 AM
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Most of my male friends will happily sleep with anyone, but when it comes to actual relationships, they’ll go for the women who are more conservative when it comes to sex. They’ll keep the FWBs around for fun but they never really see them as anything but. Imagine being sexually conservative just so you can get committment from a dude who holds double standards and runs his dick through anybody who opens their legs. These conservative women are much more deluded than the sluts looking to get off…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:33 AM
3

People don't really think that way anyway. Women think, "In this moment, this guy is saying stuff that makes me feel good and he is choosing me and we have sexual chemistry." Or "me so horny, and this dude will eat good ass"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:29 AM
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Plenty of people with unhealthy behaviors get relationship offers. Also, to whom exactly are they low value? Men who sleep around also tend to have the same traits but you don't seem to consider their behavior problematic. Similarly, many men don't find that behavior problematic enough either. If a woman has a low impulse control or simply likes variety you can't automatically assume that she ain't getting offers, which was you original point. I know plenty of sluts that hoed it up and found rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:15 AM
4

Many of us are aware of it, but once the dude pull up his pants and leaves the room his thought ain't our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:36 AM
0

Not everyone cares what others think about them. If a woman or a man truly has a healthy self esteem their sexual decisions won't depend on what others praise or find appropriate. A woman with a high sex drive and drive for variety won't feel satisfied with an fwb, neither will a woman who is prone to boredom or thrill seeking behavior. None of this might be healthy but it's one of the many different reasons why people sleep around that aren't necessarily related to the need for a relationship. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:27 AM
5

Damn, that's cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:14 AM
1

Wait til you learn how smelly they can fart. You won't want to touch us with a 10 ft pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:13 AM
1

This made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:11 AM
1

You mean that trailer park Tracy ain't marrying IT director Billy? Women all over the world are marrying up, at least that's what I learned on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:10 AM
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It's no fun being broke and most working class women don't get to marry professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:07 AM
2

You're still assuming that all women use casual sex as a tool to get a relationship or sleeping with men they want to ltr. That's not necessary the case even among high n count women. If it was a very high n count man, would you also assume that he can't get a stable relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:03 AM
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Did you guys date or it was just an informal thing until you almost eloped. Sounds like a very spontaneous relationship. In a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:50 AM
1

When I was horny and the guy was available "who else would this guy fuck" was the last thing on my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:45 AM
2

Because it's PPD and everyone needs an excuse for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:37 AM
6

Or maybe they are horny and the guy is available. Men aren't the only ones with sexual urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:30 AM
1

Willingness to fuck isn't exactly the same as sexual arousal. There are many men for whom sex is a symbol of status who are willing to sleep with women they find attractive but not necessary in a raw sexual way. There are also many women who might feel it but not act on it. I know I feel it even if I don't pursue it. Am I the norm? I don't know, but I'm evidence that the whole "women are not like that" isn't true unless it's a generalization to simplify your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:52 PM
2

Good looking. I'm Not good at rating ppl but definitely above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:29 AM
3

Yes, that pretty much kills the libido or at least prevents it from being expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:53 AM
2

Jamie Lannister will never be as great as my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:47 AM
3

The average woman most likely experiences spontaneous desire/arousal like I do. There's no statistically significant difference between how men and women react to sexual imagery, and women experience genital arousal when shown images/audio like men do. Whether this holds true for women I know, I'm not really sure. I can guess based on studies but I don't know what goes on in their individual brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:44 AM
0

Yes. I'm unlikely to proceed with for safety reasons, but the desire is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:17 AM
2

I know men here want immediate sexual desire here like they feel for women. Honestly it's not going to happen. That depends on the woman. I very often feel immediate sexual desire, but the guy has to be at least cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:10 AM
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Seeing a relationship end is like watching the leaves of dying tree fall for the last time. I just know that whoever I cherished the most will no longer be there. I know we will not look into each other's eyes and see the fire of the desire we felt for each other not long ago. I will not have his sweet words of encouragement being whispered into my ear while he holds my hand and guides me through difficult moments. I will never have the moonlight caressing my body ever again while we make love i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:59 AM
1

Sorry, i didn't film it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:29 AM
2

Top rated posts are calling him a hypocrite which he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:24 AM
1

It made me twerk all around my living room.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:30 PM
0

There's no such thing as enjoyable domestic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:25 PM
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Nope, they're not impossible to escape. My partner and I look stereotypically masculine and feminine each, but in terms of behavior we don't follow rigid gender roles. He loves to cook and build things with his hands. I like computers and have the domestic abilities of a squirrel . When you stay true to yourself and don't see societal expectations as a must you can escape gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:13 PM
2

I don't blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:16 PM
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You're first paragraph made think you would start singing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:51 PM
4

Many single moms are from lower classes and dating in those can be a nightmare. Some men wouldn't date a single mother, but there are enough who will. The real issue isn't getting dates or relationships, but to make it work in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:44 PM
10

Whore, slut, easy, tramp, skank, hooker, hoe, bitch, loose, cum dumpster, used up... all these for trying to get male attention or for receiving it when there's no dry spell. You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:39 PM
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I don't know about other women, but they aren't the point, you accussed me of being unaware of male loneliness which I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:53 PM
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See? This is the thing. You put women in the same box and assume all of their experience is the same. No, there was no meaningful attention for me for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:18 PM
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Q4All: I embrace my inner nihilist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:51 AM
3

The world I'm living in is part of the real world and it works for me. There's no reason why I need to understand someone else's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:49 AM
6

I'm not a sex dispenser where you insert coins with the hope of getting sex. You can't "earn" sex from me, you're either attractive enough and find me in the mood or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:44 AM
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If a man was a Chad to me, wouldn't mean that he would get better treatment than the man I can lockdown? What would be relevant is how I rate this Chad compared to my partner, not to how others rate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:36 AM
5

Sorry, I forgot to charge my lovemeter before answering this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:30 AM
4

Where you get that idea that they went through hoops? My point is that these people weren't more attractive than my partner and that my partner didn't wait any more or any less for sex than they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:28 AM
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Current relationship as in "not a past one". There are no HMVs or LVMs, there are just men I'm attracted to and men I'm not. I'm attracted to my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:25 AM
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Chad is a man that's so attractive to a woman that she's willing to have sex with him without making him jump through the hoops that she expects a less attractive man to jump through. The issue with this is that I have lower attractiveness standards for hookups and didn't make my current partner wait (God, I hate "make him wait" phrase) more than the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:15 AM
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I'm not assuming anything. The ease with which one gets sex is irrelevant to my argument. It's easier for men to make money because they are less likely to be interrupted by pregnancy and childrearing and I'm yet to see people justifying goldigging at the expense of men based on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:17 AM
24

You say women have no wet dreams, but my vagina begs to differ 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:03 AM
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I didn't have sex until I was 24 and saving myself for a special guy wasn't the reason, so I guess you can consider that a dry spell. I'm not upset at men longing for connection or even sex. I've been there and know how it feels. I'm upset at how hateful some men can get towards women. I'm also upset at how some men crave sexual variety or relationships under certain standards but demand women whi don't have standards themselves and who abstain from sex just to appease the man's ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:02 AM
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The problem is that to many women, a history of sleeping around especially with married women is a red flag or a no-go zone. Plenty of Chads engage in the exact same behavior that makes them distrustful of women and don't understand why it becomes so hard for them to find a good one. I don't know your experience, but this has been the problem with many promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:44 AM
1

If lack of income was the most important factor you'd expect poor families to have the lowest rates of fertility. This isn't the case though as low income families have the most children: https://www.statista.com/statistics/241530/birth-rate-by-family-income-in-the-us/ Similarly, poor countries also have higher fertility rates. Furthermore, the families most likely to have a traditional setup are those where the man makes a lot of money, more than what's necessary to live on one income, or too l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:43 AM
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The problem with nonliberal feminism or whatever it's called is that it believes the sexes are different but treats all women and men as if they were identical to other individuals of their gender. I for one can't identify with half of the things women write here and know many men who can't identify with the men here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:08 AM
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9/10 would bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:58 AM
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I slept with 11 people including 2 women before my current relationship. None of the guys were Chads by PPD standards. One of the girls was a Stacey though, so take that trpers!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:43 AM
2

Athletic body shape, strong nose. That's all I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:44 PM
9

I understand what you mean but imagine a woman fucking married men and seeking understanding as to why she can't trust men. People self select. If Chad fucks partnered women fully aware that they ain't single there's no reason why anybody should have any sympathy for his inability to trust women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:14 PM
2

Certainly not my point as I don't fuck around with Chad when partnered up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:10 PM
1

Some people might cheat because of extreme circumstances, but they are still unreliable at the moment and in the context of their relationship. I'm wondering if, based on your last paragraph, you're just being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:08 PM
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I've never accused women of being the scum of the earth, but cheating in a relationship makes you unreliable because cheating is a breach of trust. You imply this in your post by saying that Chad's experience with these women affected him. I also use the word "allegedly" because someone with options wouldn't choose someone whose behavior they disagree with. This means the chad you're talking about has either no options or has options but chooses to excercise them irresponsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:56 PM
2

They were told that this is how women are supposed to be and that created a sense of entitlement to an interrupted career AND kids. Now women are just as entitled and couples who can't agree on the role each one should play fight for power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:49 PM
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So Chad spends his time fucking unreliable women who are cheating on their partners with him, and now he's bitter and distrusts women he happily banged. He allegedly had options and exercised those in the worst way possible. Why should I care about his experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:41 PM
3

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:46 PM
1

Because society as whole doesn't date individuals, so it judges people by their status within it. Education and career accomplishments are status markers visible to everyone. Respect and trust can only be experienced by the individuals in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:41 PM
1

Really? Holy crap!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:38 PM
1

It's a mix. Some people are emotionally available to some but not others. Other people are never emotionally available. These are generally the people who only have superficial friendships and always seem to be single. That's not necessarily a problem for the person but it's a red flag for anybody looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:28 PM
4

Imagine getting downvoted for posting links to science articles or making jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:25 PM
0

Hoes don't want to mess with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:58 PM
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There are no hoes in Pakistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:50 PM
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When he's good enough to be above me in bed, he doesn't need to be above me in any other way. If I don't want him to be above me in bed, the rest of his "aboveness" doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:50 PM
2

Everybody knows that fertility declines and after a certain age conceiving becomes next to impossible. When a woman goes to school and starts a career at the expense of her most fertile years she's most likely implying that her financial independence is more important than a big family. Nothing wrong with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:43 PM
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And plenty of men feel entitled to women doing traditional things so they don't become the ones to pass up promotions in order to change diapers. This was just the norm so nobody saw it as a form of entitlement. Now that both people work and very often don't need to be provided for, both get to be entitled and choose between to lifestyles. Also, I don't think there are many women who want to split chores with a trad dudr
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:38 PM
4

I like eating ass, virginal Muslim momma boys and touching myself to the sound of IT nerds using their keyboards. How many women do you know that have the same preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:02 AM
1

It isn't consistent considering that he's willing to fuck them. The fact that low n-count women (allegedly) stay after his attempts is one of the biggest reasons why so many men are hypocrites, because they know they can show themselves as promiscuous while judging women for exactly same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:50 AM
1

Gorgeous!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:37 AM
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Yes, in fact, I believe that the lower number of people getting laid is the result of isolation and less opportunities for sexual encounters. That said, fertility rates have also declined among married/cohabitating couples so isolation can't be the only explanation to this decrease. The access to reliable birth control allows people to have a fulfilling sex life without reproduction, and the access to better jobs by women coupled with the fact that women are still expected to become primary care…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:36 AM
1

Oh well, that's a more extreme scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:26 AM
1

It's still your egg and you'd be responsible for it's protection/provision of the child. That said, I believe that the debate over abortion, like the debate over gun right, is more symbolical than practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:23 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:07 AM
10

Because many of the guys who mistreat women for being sluts are sluts themselves but demand to be treated tike a good guy by a woman who held herself to standards that he didn't. If a man never had casual sex himself then it's fair for him to avoid sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:07 AM
1

And this is exactly why a woman who doesn't like casual sex shouldn't go on a second date with men who ask sex on the first one. The fact that men say no but keep giving them second chances enable this sort of hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:59 AM
1

Pretty much. I don't need to worry about long term attraction or compatibility if it's just a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:03 AM
1

That's hard to explain because this is something I feel, not something I know. Youthful in terms of mannerisms, although I admit I like young men. Not teenagers, but those that look in their med 20s. Cute and decent looking aren't the same to me. Cute men trigger a sexual + romantic response. Decent looking is any guy who doesn't look unattractive to me but who doesn't necessarily trigger a sexual response with looks alone. Safe means not a psycho or not problematic in a way that can put me in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:31 AM
2

For dating: -emotionally supportive -youthful -cute -fair in terms of gender standards -could hold a conversation -fun to be around For hooking up: -decent looking -safe -available
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:18 AM
1

That's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:15 AM
1

But my 7" d!ck compensates for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:07 AM
1

Nope, i'm actually craving it and feeling sad that I can only meet them over skype. I left my country some time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:04 AM
1

;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:17 PM
1

Plenty of people leave these questions for later. Real life ain't OLD. People take their time and make comments based on vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:17 PM
2

Very good looking with average income. Money has never turned me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:15 PM
1

Relationships and sex are a pass/fail to me. If I'm not feeling it it doesn't really matter if its 30% or 100% that's missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:10 PM
2

Do man boobs count?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:09 PM
2

Stop overthinking and take it for what it is, a guy trying to initiate conversation. This is very unlikely to be a bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:08 PM
1

There's evidence that less masculine men are more likely to commit crimes and it's believed that they do it to compensate for their lack of masculinity. This is something I read a while ago so I'm not sure if there have been other studies to replicate these findings. I have a hunch that less attractive men are more likely to commit rape because they might be more frustrated than more attractive men, but I also believe that attractive men might be more likely to do this as well since they might h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:06 PM
7

No, he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:49 PM
5

That's not always the case. Plenty of men eho fuck or try to fuck around expect a wholesome woman to fall on their lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:47 PM
8

That's very often not the case. Plenty of men with this m/w mindset cheat on their wives and have them home as the stable safe option who waits for them with food on the table regardless of where the husband has been. These madonnas are also very often the women he exchanges for a younger wife. I came from a culture where the m/w mentality is prevalent and the last thing you want is to be the madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:45 PM
2

I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:13 PM
15

The madonna/whore dichotomy has been tolerated in men for most history. It was up to the woman or her family to regulate her behavior to become marriageable, hence the focus on male investment in relationships. The tendency of [some] men to put women in the whore or girlfriend box is expected, therefore men don't need to signalize their decency, they only need to signalize their willingness to commit. Or at least this was the case until recently. In a certain way this is a form of power as you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:09 PM
1

Kinks will be explored within reason (no incest or bestiality kinks and no CNC) You bring a lot and your love for tarantulas is lovely, but the no incest part is dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:57 PM
3

What's wrong with being Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:51 PM
2

It's not simply about having kids for the sake of it, but also about having workers in specific fields. It's easier to choose immigrants based on skills needed today than to wait for people to breed so their kids can get some kind of job in 20+ years. Furthermore, I suspect that the reason so many people are having less kids makes it difficult to create policies that incentivize (sp?) reproduction. Children come at a very high cost of opportunity because they require too much time and money. A m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:30 PM
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Women are more likely to leave their jobs or to cut their hours to take care of the kids. What you did was great but that ain't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:20 PM
1

I used to have green hair, people either hated it or absolutely loved it. I was just having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:18 PM
4

As a woman you need to know your place. You've been long enough on PPD to understand that you don't get to excercise your preferences. Only Chad can have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:16 PM
2

It's a double standard, but Western countries need immigrants to prevent their population from shrinking. If you create policies around immigration you need to promote a culture of tolerance, at least on paper. Eastern countries might be intolerant of the Western but it's not like westerners are leaving their countries in droves to go to the East so there's not much practical sense for most people to do something about the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:07 PM
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Great! Here's a cookie for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:42 PM
4

In other words, men want to be ATM machines without being wanted for their cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:40 PM
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Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:58 PM
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So how much you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:58 PM
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Not my type but he's higher than a 6, but it's reddit we're talking about, the place on Earth where everyone is sexy and wealthy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:57 PM
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It's sad if true, but none of this has been verified it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:54 PM
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I feel the same about the 90s, even though I was a child. I think it's the mix of a few happy memories plus us "remembering" those decades through someone else's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:52 PM
1

He still doesn't although he likes to eat mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:16 PM
1

Nope, but my partner won't let me eat his booty :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:49 PM
1

Can i see it? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:45 PM
1

Yes, he was some tiddy pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:43 PM
2

...or you know you say absurdly stupid things and don’t want to have your real face tied to your comments I don't want people at work to know about my obssession with eating ass and my boss' underwear. As you can see I have legitimate reasons to not post pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:42 PM
1

Cute face and willing to eat ass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:38 PM
2

The only M&Ms that matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:37 PM
1

Why would you have a threesome with someone you're not into? Do you think your husband would agree to a threesome with another dude he isn't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:28 PM
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For relationships, men are judged more for their achievements, but in professional roles there is evidence that womrn are judged harsher for their failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:26 PM
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That's how I would describe him, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:33 AM
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And we love you long time!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:37 AM
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Mmmmm... i don't even know how to describe him. He has a nice body, but his face though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:46 AM
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Lol! Did you at least have a good laugh afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:45 AM
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Wouldn't be surprised if it was the later. I remember there was a thing for men to show their underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:44 AM
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I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:22 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:22 AM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:20 AM
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Unfortunately not. I will ask him and tell him that it's for a new work project.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:15 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:14 AM
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MacDonalds, but only is he's willing to eat the fries straight out of my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:13 AM
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But it's a nice sexy tumor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:11 AM
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Today I had a meeting and my boss was talking. He didn't know his zipper was down and it was very distracting. I didn't say anything because I was enjoying the sight of his worn out boxers. Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:09 AM
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Not really unless he's wearing tights and has an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:03 AM
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There's some booty for you: https://images.app.goo.gl/r2UgtitNK7Y5juZ16
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:00 AM
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$120? How many macdonalds is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:58 AM
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Plenty of white women have nice butts and s lot of what gives women shape is the waist area, not the glutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:55 AM
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Unless the guy is very rich I'd be weirded out. I don't like when men use money to impress me. That said, I never order expensive food, so if the bill was that high it's because of what he ordered for himself. If the restaurant was really that expensive I'd suggest to go somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:54 AM
1

Many of the women who post here tend to be very feisty towards red pillers for their double standards, but they don't realize that they contribute to those standards as well by holding themselves to higher ones than they hold their men to. This is one of the reasons why I have a hard time taking most of the users here seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:50 AM
4

I don't disagree that there are still many people judging others and themselves on those terms, but I'd argue that on a personal level quantity or this type of quality aren't necessarily fulfilling or doesn't necessarily falls along expected gender lines. Personally, I enjoy variety and value very little how much money a man makes or his social circle. I'm aware that my past might be too much for some people. I'm also aware that my partner might be very handsome and fit, but he isn't particularl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:29 AM
1

I can't. I'm banned from both I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:12 AM
1

Yes, many fdsers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:44 PM
1

Cause ugly women are their match. You don't see ugly women dating the henry cavills of the world either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:56 PM
1

Exactly. They're partnening up with their match. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:55 PM
3

I know this and I actually prefer men w/o beard, or with just a bit of hair growth. Not a fan of the wild look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:52 PM
1

How do you explain ugly short men getting married or partnering up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:48 PM
3

The friendzone exists, but not as the mystical area people insist it is. First off, the word "friend" has a meaning. If there's no emotional connection on either side independent of any sexual or romantic feelings you're not in the friendzone. You're just an acquaintance she wasn't sexually interested in. In this case, "let's just be friends" is just a generic quote to express rejection in a diplomatic manner. Second, you're not in the friendzone for being too friendly. You're in the friendzone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:48 PM
1

Well yes, I know they carry diseases, but a domesticated one assuming it's legal would be awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:36 PM
2

It makes me feel blessed that I don't want kids and know how to wrap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:07 AM
1

Raccoons are terrible pets, but they're so lovely that i'm willing to overlook their bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:03 AM
1

Yes, trash pandas. Aren't they adorable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:02 AM
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The world is full of average ass men dating and fucking average ass women. If an average man fails to secure a relationship his averageness is not the problem. There might be many factors standing in the way of a relationship such as unrealistic standards, fear of intimacy, major personality flaws, rejection-seeking behavior that any advise should be individual. Generic advice such as lift more won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:24 AM
1

Raccoons > Puppy dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:17 AM
2

Yes. I'd also add DH to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:17 AM
1

Thanks for your encouragement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:53 PM
1

Plenty of women ghost when remaining single is a better option than dating a dude who thinks he's better than the women he tries to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:08 PM
2

There are many reasons why women ghost beyond looks. A guy can look like Brad Pitt, but I'm not staying if there are red flags or a lack of chemistry in other departments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:06 AM
0

😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:00 AM
3

Here's a taste of the wholesome 80's, not like the crap they sing today: https://youtu.be/bmSH7PZduYw God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:54 AM
1

Or under 6'0, yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:44 AM
2

This explains everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:43 AM
0

I'd use his kid for my first... damn, that doesn't sound good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:41 AM
2

It's women's day?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:24 AM
2

Has anybody seen my socks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:12 AM
3

There was a man in my office that caught my attention. This man was not handsome, but his smile and charisma captured my heart in an instant. All I wanted was him to make love to me passionately while I felt the touch of his keyboard rubbing on my naked skin. That would not be possible, however, for my boss was a jealous man who would terminate us both if he was to find me with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:14 AM
2

No, more like Seth Rogen before he lost weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:21 PM
1

Hot 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:21 PM
5

I'm not like the other PPD women, I'm speeeeeeeeecial
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:19 PM
1

I'm not hr
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:14 PM
1

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:14 PM
1

None, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:13 PM
5

There's an average looking dude working in IT that I can't stop fantasizing about. I want him to fuck me hard while he slams the keyboard on my butt. I want my boss to watch while he jerks off and threatens to fire us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:54 PM
5

Female sexual power is like a huge stash of drug money. It's there, but you can't really use it in most circumstances without getting in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:06 AM
2

Not sure if your post is sarcasm, but it was a very good explanation of dating dynamics. The top paying for the bottom is also seen in non romantic relationships such as employer-employee, parents-children (until this reverses in older age when parents are not srlf-sufficient anymore) or powerful and well off people who take less suffessful persons under their protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:52 AM
2

Rock
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:57 AM
9

I'm socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:54 AM
4

What about women who want a 25 year old hunk cleaning their kitchen in underwear?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:53 AM
6

No matter how hot you are, you'll never be up to the standards of the flawless kings and queens posting on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:46 AM
1

Laugh my ass out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:45 AM
1

The most liked comment has less than 100 likes while the subreddit has over 400 users online as I'm writting this. Some people will have controversial opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:44 AM
1

If a guy is a second option to you you shouldn't be dating him regardless of whether you have another guy lined up. Just be honest and tell him that he's cool but it ain't gonna work in the long run. I don't see the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:24 AM
2

Depends. She's a 7 in real life, but only a 4.5 on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:18 AM
1

I apologize for my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:08 AM
9

Triple anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:58 AM
1

Fart fart fart fart fart
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:27 AM
2

First
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:03 AM
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Not 35 yet, but in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:25 AM
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Not a grandma, although already post wall by ppd standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:03 AM
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😒😒😒
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:02 AM
1

😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:40 PM
1

I got down to earth. That's probably because they didn't ask about my preference for six packs and advanced ass eating techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:35 PM
1

This says more about the kind of woman you date than about women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:31 PM
1

The ones who post on PPD don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:21 PM
2

Show me a bad boy with tats and the thought of having sex with him goes through my mind once or twice. Show me the cute inexperienced dude working in the corner of an office and sex with him is all I'll be thinking of. Goddamnit, Bobby!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:16 PM
8

How many feminists have suggested to ban porn or sexbots?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:09 PM
4

It's hard to reconcile the anecdotes with reported averages because averages never become anecdotes. Imagine reading an article about a woman with only three partners whi only has sex in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:04 PM
0

Lol! I've known guys who practice sports, but for some reason the idea of dating an athlete doesn't turn me on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:00 PM
2

This doesn't confirm anything. That's just one woman talking about her hookups. Yes, some women get aroused at the idea of fucking athletes while I get aroused from fucking catholic momma boys, but our experiences don't necessarily extend to the feelings of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:36 PM
1

My ass is getting squeezed by somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:59 PM
1

Penises
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:47 PM
3

Whatever's enough not to spend MY money on pot and lottery tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:44 PM
2

Hoe over here, what do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:42 PM
3

One of my friend groups was only guys (besides me of course). It broke down because of drama two of the dudes started.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:31 PM
1

I'm not a mind reader, but as with him approaching, you don't enter in a relationship the same day he says hi. You keep interacting with him until there's enough evidence that he's interested too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:09 AM
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Nah, I just want to use it as a signal booster for my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:48 AM
2

In my experience, I've been pretty good at spotting guys who just want sex. Once I approach the ball is in his court. If he doesn't reciprocate by, let's say, calling back, being consistent or all his conversations turn to sex, then he's not interested in anything serious. I don't know what he think before I approach, but if I do and he thinks I'm easy that's fine by me. Acting based on what others will think it's extremely exhausting. I've tried traditional approach to dating and I just don't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:45 AM
2

Afghanistan. It's not for the faint of heart but the adrenaline rush I got from being chased by taliban chads on a camel was divine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:26 AM
1

Depends, is 6'0" the length of his dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:14 AM
1

Amelia Farts/Becky Barks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:13 AM
1

The moon. The weak gravity was fucking awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:04 AM
1

I invited him to a speaker's club meeting and he took the hint that I was interested because I didn't invite anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:27 AM
4

This dude is projecting his own desire to fuck his female friends on others. Also, I 've had dude friends whose brains I wanted to fuck out and I still appreciated them as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:41 AM
1

I love mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:37 AM
1

I have male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:33 AM
1

You're welcome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:33 PM
9

That's like asking why hasn't Kim Kardashian been fired for her sex tape. Both Dan and Kim exist in an environment where these behaviors are acceptable. Dan's empire is built on they way he treats women. There's nobody to give him a pass for his behavior because there nobody to hold him accountable for it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:33 PM
2

A man who puts women in the easy category just because they approached isn't the kind of man whose efforts I'd value. I've had men explicitely tell me they value me more because I didn't sleep/approach them fast like other women. I just stopped dating them right after that. And as I said, a man's lack of interest is fairly obvious from the beginning. If he never bothers to show any sign of interest after our first encounter I'll just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:22 PM
1

I don't care about status or a guy's career unless it's in a field i'm interested in. This isn't really an advice. That's just me stating my personal preference as woman. Some women will prefer status over looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:04 PM
2

The benefit of monogamy is having a partner that will be faithful to me, but it also comes at the expense of my need for variety. I'm pretty sure this is the case from my partner's point of view as well. To answer your question, I see sexually attractive men everytime I go out. I don't act on it for many different reasons but the desire is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:06 PM
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Depends on the woman, but everything equal, I value looks way more than I value money. Not to sounds crass, but when I'm under a guy I'm not exactly thinking about his bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:53 PM
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It's not, but it shouldn't become more of a problem than it actually is. We are constantly moving on from people that don't offer what we want. If after a short talk the person doesn't seem interested in you beyond sex or money just cut ties before you sleep with them or spend money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:47 PM
2

Yes and I would go as far as to say that many of our decisions are made with the "how others will perceive me if I do x". This mentality is a constant source of conflict as the need to look good in front of others comes at the expense of our desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:42 PM
3

That's the catch. Make the first move and you're more likely to either shoot out of your league or find someone you truly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:38 PM
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I've never understood this. Whenever you start a conversation with someone you can tell if the person likes having you around. A man who only wants sex will look uninterested or respond by being sexually aggressive. Once you see this you can always just move on. I think many women are simply afraid to be seen as easy, but a guy who would think that of you just cause you m8ght be attracted to him ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:37 PM
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I've made the first move on several occassions including with my partner. It sometimes works and sometimes doesn't. Some men probably thought I was easy. Aa someone concerned with fairness I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone who looks down on women for things that he does himself. Other men were uninterested or unavailable, which is a risk you'll have to accept. If you're afraid of making a scene, be subtle. Start a conversation and if he seems uninterested move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:30 PM
2

No, it's a warning that some day you might find an amazing ass eater and fall for her big heart and refined ass eating technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:11 PM
2

That's only until you get it properly eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:49 AM
2

A lot of generalizations are wrong or don't apply to far too many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:48 AM
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People on this sub spend way too much time speaking in the name of their gender. "Us women don't do this", "we men are like that". There's no we or us, this is you projecting your desires, values and preferences on your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:31 AM
1

No. I believe that sex life declines due to a lack of variety regardless of how valuable husband is, assuming that there aren't other factors such as childcare or work related stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:30 AM
1

Underrated comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:23 AM
1

"I want a younger woman" Repeat once again: "I want a younger woman" And again: "I want a younger woman" See how easy it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:16 AM
1

Stick my face between his buttcheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:11 AM
3

Who cares about some fight? Unattractive is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:09 AM
2

I think that unattractive people can build a genuine bond and have a quality relationship, that said, I agree that the idea that men would fuck anything and be happy with anyone is just blatant exaggeration. Many men who struggle with women simply don't want the kind of woman that would agree to marry or fuck them. There's nothing wrong with this, but that's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:05 AM
1

Where is the coke?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:06 AM
1

Yes, brother. I am Jesus pilled now. God bless you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:05 AM
0

Thanks, jerking off is exactly what I'm doing while I'm writing this reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:16 AM
0

That's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:03 AM
5

Migger?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:57 AM
1

Pretty much 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:51 AM
0

Not a bully, just horny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:43 AM
1

Nah, ese tipo es transparente como un vaso de cristal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:42 AM
1

Claro, no hay problema, pero dudo que ese programador pendejo me entienda
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:37 AM
0

There's a nerdy programmer at work that looks like he hasn't been laid in years. I want to fuck him right on his desk while whispering in his ear about how much his coding skills suck. I think he's lebanese so I want to do that in arabic. Plz help. EDIT: people downvoting me are just jealous they're not the nerdy programmer I want to fuck 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:32 AM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:53 PM
1

Probably told some bot to fuck off, like I did, and got banned for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:50 PM
2

What's mfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:47 PM
12

Which also applies to men, but I don't see many of them advocating to keep their pants up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:46 PM
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Taking care of children can be a long task and it's certainly not everyone's cup of tea. I believe that the problem isn't just that fathers are seen as sperm donor, but also the fact that many fathers are happy to leave the burden to their partners because they know the pressure for them to do it isn't as strong as the one on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:43 PM
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I'm failing to see what's so surprising about it. FDS has made it clear on several occasions that it hates men and women who don't play by the rules FDS approves of. Them advocating to treat men like garbage an essential aspect of their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:23 PM
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Because a man who is attractive to individual women isn't necessarily the same man other men call Chad. And the man a woman finds attractive might in fact be average by mainstream standards. Also, the women who are arguing that only attractive men are worth for casual sex aren't necessarily the women who are sleeping with average and below average men. For example, the guys I had NSA sex with were generally less attractive than the guys I wanted for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:19 PM
3

Can't c your v, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:30 PM
3

Either n count or sex worker count. Can we move on to the next topic please?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:27 PM
4

Love you too, poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:19 PM
3

As a woman who finds well done tattoos attractive I have to disagree. Badly done tattoos make men less attractive while good tattoos tend to be attractive to certain types of women but not all of them. Finally, tattoos only add appeal if the guy is already attractive, otherwise they do very little to boost his sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:13 PM
7

I'm 100% serial monogamist over here. That's why I never take more than one dick at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:30 PM
1

Pics or it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:21 PM
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Right. Even if i'm not interested in anything a guy can offer me beyond sex I'm still exchanging vagina for dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:17 PM
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Game is a set of tricks that are supposed to be attractive to women and make them want to sleep with you. Sometimes the trick is to play cool, hot and cold or telling the woman how attractive she is. Have I been gamed? I'm not sure because if a guy is good at it you don't know you've been gamed, but generally I tend to feel sexual attraction before a guy starts pursuing me so it's unlikely. A high n-count could an indicator of many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:10 PM
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Biggie, Biggie, Biggie, can't you see? Sometimes your words just hypnotize me And I just love your flashy ways Guess that's why they broke, and you're so paid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:04 PM
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Dudes here are just a bunch of cake eaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:45 PM
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That's exactly my point. Why should I clean someone else's shit on top of mine? So I get a pat on my head from a dude with a smelly butt? Your argument isn't an attempt at promoting female responsibility, but an attempt to have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:38 PM
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The assumption is that if a guy knows how to deal with women he will have a high n count, but that's not necessarily true either. Many of these guys have been in long term relationships since they first slept with a woman, so their counts are relatively low. Similarly, men with very low standards or men who run in circles where female promiscuity is common or more accepted will also have a high n count even if they're not particularly attractive. To me it's more of a compatibility thing. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:31 PM
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The woman gets to "determine" who she has sex with because men tend to have less self-restraint, so you're basically saying that women should be the ones closing their legs because men refuse to keep their pants on. You're refusing to take responsibility for you share in the sex business and expecting someone else to pick up the tab.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:18 PM
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Pretty often. "Value" is generally based on superficial qualities that not necessarily make an ltr better. Many of the high n count guys I know have a hard time keeping relationships because the women they want long term either don't want them or leave soon after the first a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:04 PM
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I'm not big with social media and I had Tinder for only one month or a bit more, but I believe some of the people contacting me were scammers. I remember this very muscular dude contacting me on social media and asking me if I was the adventurous, crazy type, or something along the lines. There was nothing in his profile except one picture and even that one seemed fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:36 PM
2

I hope she slipped some poison in that food she cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:33 PM
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In my experience, this either means that you have unmet emotional needs and part of you tries to feed off one person who you think will provide for them, or you tend to idealize women based on some very superficial qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:29 PM
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Nothing needs to change if both people handle sex with maturity and both are on the same page about where sex should and should not lead. I've had things change after sex, but the issue wasn't sex itself but his behavior right before and after it that turned me off , so I had to tell him I didn't want to see him again. He wasn't a co-worker though. He was someone who studied at my university.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:20 PM
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Or it's so noticeable that it becomes a source of incompatibility way before you know the actual number.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:25 PM
4

100 seems like a very high n-count. I have a hard time believing that anyone with an n count as high wouldn't show signs of being way different from the average person. I'm not saying people like this are damaged but I'd expect them to be wildly different from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:24 PM
1

Have you seen Chelsea Charm or Sabrina Sabrok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:46 AM
1

I love you but please mind your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:38 AM
4

How many more times are we gonna ask this or the n-count question?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:34 AM
3

He probably swung to a different sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:41 PM
1

10/10, would buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:58 PM
9

Many guys think that Florence Pugh is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:44 AM
2

166.6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:15 AM
1

Not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:23 AM
1

If I'm lying about n count this means I expect you to care, and if I expect you to care I wouldn't want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:15 AM
1

It was 27.8 for my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:48 AM
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I think this applies to most things discussed in this sub. It's easy to judge a faceless person whose only quality is high n count, little money... you name it, but in real life there are far to many factors at play and many of these things matter little in the big scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:46 AM
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Why the heck would I want to date, cohabitate and let alone marry some dude I don't want to fuck? I'm pretty sure some women would do that but I doubt it's the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:28 PM
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Because I can and want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:24 PM
3

The equivalent of a woman having a hoe phase is a man having a hoe phase. Sugar daddies, johns and pimps are a different category of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:21 PM
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"real relationship worthy" is subjective. Female hoes tend to go for and ltr male hoes. I'm aware that male hoes and hoes in general aren't everyone's cup of tea but they have their audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:09 PM
1

No, but I have a sweet spot for Pyramid Head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 PM
1

I really loved it when I started getting downvotes for saying that I wasn't aware that blocking was so prevalent on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:01 PM
1

Not sure, I'm a millennial and I've always liked people who eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:58 PM
2

Actually, both men and women can get penalized for staying home to care for babies. Those with employment gaps to take care of their kids are less likely to be given a job interview compared to those who are just laid off. Many people don't genuinely believe that being a SAHM is as noble as you think. Keep in mind that if a woman quitting her job is such a big problem for the man that's because her salary is higher than what's needed to cover for daycare costs and her income constitutes a signif…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:57 PM
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I’ve been occasionally hooking up with a girl with a pretty fat ass and long black hair who likes to give rimjobs so that’s fun Her number please, just to verify that you're being truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:46 PM
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You might have a point, but in many jurisdictions financial abuse is a grey area, so if you don't deprive your wife of her basic needs such as food, shelter and clothing then there's not much basis for financial abuse. I'd also wonder (don't quote me on this though lawyers can be creative as fuck), if her quitting her job without your consent could also constitute a form of financial abuse as this is depriving the family of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:43 PM
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Because not everyone is interested in an LTR and sometimes people just want to sleep around. Because the hoe phase is often a series of spontaneous events when someone happens to be available at the time and the moment when you feel horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:32 PM
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As the only earner in a marriage where the woman unilaterally decided to quit, you are the gatekeeper of the resources. You can stop giving her money and do your own purchases for food and childcare items. If that doesn't work, then divorce will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:26 PM
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I don't think a platonic friendship does replace an LTR, but it makes you feel less lonely. It's understandable no man wants to be around a woman they're in love with who doesn't love them back, but in my experience, most of the dudes who struggle with romantic relationships also struggle with relationships in general and self-isolate. These men would definitely benefit from a friend, whether female or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:13 PM
2

Pardon my blasphemy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:01 PM
3

Monogamy isn't necessarily unnatural, but it might come at the expense of sexual variety which is natural to desire as well. I believe that judgement aside, many people would love monogamy for their partners and sexual variety for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 PM
3

Flair confirmed. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:52 PM
3

I confirmed that to a sizeable number of people, commitment and sex are just a trophy they get from the opposite gender at the gender's expense. This trophy also comes at a cost to themselves because the basis of commitment and sex being trophies is certain toxic tendencies which people blame on nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:43 PM
2

I don't think it should affect them. "Nice guy" is an euphemism for "guy who lacks boundaries" at worst and an excuse for having a bad dating record at best. Most people can see the difference between nice guytm and an actual good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:34 PM
1

How is the need to hide my erections ideological?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:16 PM
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Ok, don't talk to them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:57 AM
2

Nope, I just get horny thinking of things regardless of where I am. Although now that you ask, I'd gladly fuck his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 AM
2

Even if clothes are tight?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:43 AM
4

Waw effect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:17 AM
1

Nope, I mean. When horniness hits me at work I'm happy nobody can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:17 AM
2

I had a micromanaging boss. Couldn't stop thinking about pushing him down the stairs and making it look like an accident. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:01 AM
2

I've never been so happy to be a woman. My gender allows me to hide my erections from my boss and colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:56 AM
3

And I just found the tastiest avocado I've had from a supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:51 AM
2

I hooked up with a friend, although I wasn't drunk. It was ok afterwards. At some point I said no and we are still friends. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:50 AM
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I don't think this is a problem unless you're abnormally small.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:41 AM
3

How common are ONS pregnancies? Most single mothers are the result of divorce/breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:40 AM
2

In all fairness, a huge reason why sexualization feels so uncomfortable to women is the idea that it somehow degrades us. Men are made feel uncomfortable for sure but I don't think they feel diminished to the same extent women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:22 PM
3

I disagree with her about almost everything but I admit I find her fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:26 PM
2

It's a good sense of humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:21 PM
1

I like your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:17 PM
5

I think I got boss-widowed and I can't believe that I'm almost crying as I'm typing this. I started a job three months ago and my boss was the best one I've ever had. He guided me through my new position without breathing on my neck every 5 minutes. He was there to answer my questions and help me when I needed it. He was incredibly sweet and bought me and another co-worker under his supervision a nice gift for christmas. He always starts and ends meetings with a light conversation and sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:11 PM
0

If an immoral act doesn't cause any damage to third parties I don't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:51 PM
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Oh, I was just joking. These were the first names that popped up in my mind. That said, evo psych and social sciences in general have a problem with falsiability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:50 PM
2

I don't think children are inherently detrimental to people's happiness but I do believe that to many, marriage and children are milestones to be achieved rather than a true desire carried out when it's emotionally and economically feasible, not to mention that children are very often the product of a mistake and not planned. For people who really want children and are prepared to raise them, the cost of having them is outweighed by the benefits. However, those that have kids at the expense of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:13 AM
2

Thank you, I really appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:07 AM
2

Re-submitting a revised version of my resume: Only if you eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:52 AM
3

Why is consensual behavior between two adults a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:47 AM
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Nope, the average number of lifetime partners is around 5 and the average age is close to 40. If most of the people have sex in the context of relationships, this means that the average person only has one or two hookups over the years. Hookup culture might be the norm in certain social circles, but not in the West as whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:43 AM
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Only if you it ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:24 AM
0

And athletic is preferred over both lean and built.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:22 AM
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Nobody engages in hook up culture as a society. For the majority of people sex either happens in the context of a relationship or in one or two hookups once every a few years or between relationships. And even most of these hookups take place between fwb or acquaintances. The minority that seeks to hook up on a regular basis is either trying to use hookups to fill a void or simply doesn't share your view on sex. Some people don't experience sex as this terrible thing that leaves everyone empty a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:20 AM
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Heer body doesn't seem bad either: https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fpin%2F849069335983941177%2F&psig=AOvVaw2cLfWKRpLVZrvBrG6YHNzx&ust=1645418666745000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAsQjRxqFwoTCIiCwLy8jfYCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAJ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:45 AM
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27.6 according to David Buss, although Jordan Peterson estimates that the average amount of orbiters a Stacy has might actually be higher since an orbiter might be circling several Stacies at any given time. science #evopsych #scienceofdick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:14 AM
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That the attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:10 AM
4

It better sucks all weekend or boy toy isn't doing his job properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:08 AM
1

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:46 PM
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Bot got offended at my words, now imagine how he will feel about my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:00 PM
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I think that there are small details we don't consciously think about that can ignite attraction. Sometimes that's just lacking. It's also possible that I wasn't his type either physically or emotionally. The other possibility is that there were attraction but he didn't act on it for whatever reason. To answer your question, I don't know and I doubt I ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:59 PM
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That'd be nice but then I'll get banned for sexually harassing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:54 PM
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You're right! I'm gonna pray to get God's and bot's forgiveness. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:24 PM
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I liked a guy and he was very nice to me. He would text me from time to time and it with me when we were together in an event. I thought that we would eventually see each other more often, but he then got a girlfriend who was also part of our social circle. I believe that he was sincere in that he liked me as a person, but apparently he didn't feel the same way romantically/sexually. It hurt but I had to move on emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:06 PM
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Got a three day suspension for telling a bot to fuck off. What the fuck, Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:03 PM
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The overwhelming majority of women say they prefer lean or athletic. Keep in mind this was a poll conducted by a fitness website so the sample might be biased towards women who are into fitness. Nothing in there suggests that women prefer "really built guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:43 PM
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That's like saying that employees are powerful because most of the money of a company is spent on their salaries and that it's an employee who buys the company's supplies. The company can fire you/lay you off or veto any purchase decision an employee could make in the company's name. Men control most of the money and could decide any time that they won't be spending it on any woman. Unlike the company who needs its employees, a man can survive without spending on women which gives then even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:42 AM
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Most men aren't powerful, but they tend to be more powerful than women in their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:41 AM
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Maybe, but English isn't my native language so I will make mistakes from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:36 AM
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Femininity is similar to being a receptionist. Those whom the receptionist serves love to come to the office and be received with a great smile, have their papers organized on the table and maybe even find freshly brewed coffee in the kitchen. They, however, would never leave their well payed jobs to welcome and clean for their co-workers. Femininity from a male's perspective is a downgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:28 AM
1

I think someone on PPD has had a terrible influence on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:49 AM
1

I think both him and his girlfriend are threesome material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:01 AM
3

I don't think it's evil holiday, but I don't think it's special either. You'd be surprised about how little some people care about things that others consider important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:50 AM
1

If she eats ass she's girlfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:48 AM
1

Especially around the belly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:47 AM
1

Lol thanks. Nope, I very far from LA actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:33 AM
0

Most people rack up their n count over many years. For most women this isn't a phase but a short term relationship between ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:32 AM
1

I believe in equal contribution for equal income. 50/50 is how our relationship would look if we made exactly the same. My partner used to make more money than I do so he contributed more. Now I'm making more money than he does, so I contribute more. That said, each of us have personal expenditures that have nothing to do with us as a couple, such as his car or my student loan. Each one of us pays our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:18 AM
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Don't even bother with the user you're replying to. She posts the same 'argument' at every opportunity she gets. She's either a troll or someone with deep-seated psychological issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:34 PM
7

I'll come home after a long day of work and get my ass eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:30 PM
2

I would add that this is more than just "woohoo, I'm not a slut". Sexual restraint is an ideal that comes at the expense of your own desires but is not rewarded in any real way. People very often deal with repressed feelings by convincing themselves that they never had those feelings in the first place. From a male's perspective, the idea that a woman slept with you because you did something to get her out of that shell is more flattering than realizing that she slept with you because she was ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:20 PM
3

Shame is the biggest killer of sex drive. This is a very well known fact among therapists, but for some reason gets overlooked by quantitative studies, particularly those from evolutionary psychologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:53 PM
0

Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:48 PM
3

Therapy. The therapy was actually for a different issue (I had difficulty concentrating on tasks), but its effect spilled over to my sexual life. I started having sex and the fear was still there at first, but at some point it ended. It was more complex than that but the whole story is too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:45 PM
1

vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:11 AM
2

They're everywhere. People with no strong opinions are just less likely to be noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:00 AM
11

I didn't have sex until I was 24. I had a huge fear of getting used. Virginity was my comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:55 AM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:25 PM
3

Not sure. Emotions are real and it's necessary to recognize them and express them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:03 PM
1

If you've tried to work around it and you're still dissatisfied with your relationship, get a divorce. There's nothing else I can tell you. And stop looking for advice on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:08 PM
1

Is this reply for me or is it the wrong post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Sex positivism as described here is actually rare and all the fear around it's existence is akin to the satanic panic of the 80s. Study after study keeps showing that people attitudes towards female sexuality are still pretty much conservative or else we wouldn't have so much outrage at sex positivity stawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:56 PM
3

Watch what the do, not what they say. I know many men who badmouthed sluts and ended up ltring a few known ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:33 AM
1

It's just the angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:01 PM
2

Just say the you want some alone time overnight. They might think it's weird but so what? I assume you're at least 18. You have a right to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:50 PM
2

How old are you? Do you really need to give your parents lengthly explanations of what you'll be doing? Just tell them you'll go out with friends or will have a day just for yourself. That said, you don't know her so be very careful. She still might not be who she claims she is or might have issues that could pose a problem for you. I'd advise against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:15 PM
2

I couldn't give a shit if a paramedic had an only fans just for the sake of exhibitionism as long as they did their paramedic job properly. I would even go as far as to say that I couldn't give a fuck if my boss, who probably makes much more money than most people, rammed coconuts up his butthole for $5 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:47 PM
4

There's more wisdom in this single comment than in a hundred other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:33 PM
1

I never claimed all preferences are 100% socially constructed, I claimed there was no way to verify which ones are, which ones aren't and why they evolved if first place. Go and beat your strawman somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:26 PM
0

Which assumptions? I'm not familiar with RP content creators so i don't really know which RP assumptions belong to which creator
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:21 PM
7

Much of evolutionary psychology is based on assumptions that can't be tested nor verified. Observing hypergamous tendencies in women isn't evidence that these tendencies are inborn and even if they were, it's not possible to determine which exact triggers led to it evolving. Furthermore, the evo psych papers I have read so far take an adaptationist approach, meaning that they assume that if a trait survived that's because it was useful. However, mutations are random and a useless trait can evolv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:10 PM
3

It's already long term and it has been working great. Thanks for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:34 PM
3

Who cares? Many career women don't want many kids either, it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:16 PM
7

Plenty of career women have kids and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:15 PM
3

It's not a fantasy. It's happening already. I make more than my partner and that doesn't bother me in the least. I also know I'm not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:15 PM
22

Women outearning men will be problematic for many couples who grew up seeing their dad as the breadwinner, but once it becomes the norm, nobody will care anymore. Most women will stop looking for provider traits in their prospective partners and childcare might become more equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:24 AM
3

Getting tested before having sex, or at least avoiding oral until you both are tested should be normalized no matter how non-romantic that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:26 AM
2

Nope, i guess I like youthful guys with cute faces
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:38 PM
1

It’s true that a man could cheat on his wife but that would be in spite of the expectation of fidelity. It doesn't matter if people think infidelity is bad, what matters it what people and society as whole is willing to tolerate. Men are expected to want and seek casual sex. A man seeking a relationship doesn't need to prove that he was sexually retrained, he just needs to prove that he's willing to invest, unlike the woman who is expected to have been retrained before meeting him if she wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:16 PM
2

I'm not really sure. There are different types of guys that I find physically appealing, but they don't seem to share much in common, like Dev Patel, Tom Holland, David Lama. There are other guys that are very average looking but I find them attractive for some reason, but there's nobody in the celeb realm who fits the bill that I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:08 PM
2

I've never had the type of ONS where I go to a bar and hook up with a guy, but I've hooked up with men I've met at school or through my social circle. It happened when I was horny, bored and the guy was available and physically my type. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:01 PM
1

That would be absolutely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:03 PM
3

Depends. If the guys didn't hit on you because they thought you weren't interested, it's not a rejection. If they didn't because they weren't interested, it is a form of implicit rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:16 PM
1

I said "the whore". Please read the first post you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:14 PM
3

Where is that bar and who's the guy? It's for my psychology research.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:37 AM
3

The number of men who've had casual sex at least once is way higher than 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:07 AM
14

Marriage doesn't really protect you unless the husband makes good money. Anybody who is serious about their financial safety shouldn't become a housewife at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:02 AM
6

I thought you were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:19 PM
3

There's no advantage to marriage on my jurisdiction, and whatever alimony or child support you can get after either marriage or cohabitation isn't enough unless you married a fairly wealthy guy. The only way to protect yourself is to not become a SAHM. To answer your question, yes, i wouldn't care about being a forever girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:19 PM
2

I want a man who eats ass better than I do, but I've had to accept that eating ass as good as I do is not possible, so my partner will never be as good as I am in this department
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:29 PM
1

These are very of the ones you see complaining about not being able to find a suitable partner. They have incentives to change, they just don't realize that their behavior and not the world that's yhe problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:02 PM
1

Of course everyone is allowed to have preferences. I can put men in the dateable vs not dateable category based on how easy they are with their wallets. I can date men who shower me and any other woman with gifts and then aim to marry a man who's not a simp and who would only do it for me. The thing is, a man who is aware of my preference can avoid me just like a woman can avoid a man who pursues high n count women for sex, but only wants low n count women for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:56 PM
1

I am aware that many men are willing to sleep with sluts, but wouldn't date one seriously. The thing is that any self-respecting woman with a backbone wouldn't entertain a relationship with this kind of man. There's a reason why the average female n count is way under 10, but men with this mentality often complain they can't find a wholesome woman to wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:41 PM
4

I personally am attracted to women who have a career, are attractive, have a good sex of humor, and are sexually adventurous. That was a hell of a Freudian slip.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:41 AM
21

The whole af/bb is male projection of the madonna/whore complex. Men don't want to be treated like they treat their madonnas because the madonnas are the ones who put up with their crap once they're done fucking the whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:40 AM
10

The problem is that women put men in these categories too. Plenty of traditional women simply don't want a man who sleeps around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:33 AM
10

Being a traditional woman means you depend on someone else for your basic needs. If something in your marriage goes wrong, be it cheating or not, the traditional woman will be much more likely to stay in a subpar relationship or to end up poor if the relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:31 AM
2

And Walter put his family at risk. Cheating hits close home for many people, but putting people around you at risk if getting murdered is objectively worse. You just don't like her and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:43 PM
2

Again, she wasn't worse than Walter but got more shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:41 PM
1

Walter wasn't doing it for the family. He was doing it for the power. He admitted to that in one of the last episodes. She's not any more morally bankrupt than her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:37 PM
2

Plenty of characters cheat without getting so much hate, and it's not like Walter was the epitome of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:27 PM
2

I've never understood what's so terrible about Skyler. Not a favorite, but I have a difficult time hating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:20 PM
7

😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:50 PM
3

Nope, and not many nudes either. I can't wait for his only fans!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:49 PM
14

Sure! @danbilzerian @tomilahren @justinpjtrudeau
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:58 PM
138

Having the honor of getting picked by a high value man once he's done running his dick through all the bars in town and realizing he deserves a woman who kept her n-count low just for him. Being provided by a man who insists that I stay home while simultaneously keeping my hypergamy in check. The emotional rollercoaster of the dread game. Having him wake up at 5:00 to call some random dude on PPD a cuck. Watching him point at the collapse of the Western civilization with one hand while jerking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:04 PM
1

I'd worship whatever God comes with that religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:23 AM
1

Tom Holland, Thimothee Chalamet, Dev Patel, Dhafer L'Abidine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:14 AM
2

Dev Patel 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:05 AM
1

The idea itself isn't the problem, it's the fact that as a scientist who needs to look into all the alternative explanations of the results, she seemed to ignore other alternative explanations. This seems to be a common issue among social scientists who are more loyal to ideas than to science itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:22 AM
1

Sure, here's one. I have to admit that I couldn't remember the exact words, but she does explain the discrepancy with evopsych while apparently avoiding another important explanation: shame and that self-reported data might not be reliable. Chivers said her team is also studying an evolutionary hypothesis that can be used to explain the difference. “One possible explanation is that it isn’t to a woman’s evolutionary advantage for her to have a strong connection between her mental state of feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:32 AM
1

"My partner and I are into cuckoldry. I'm usually the one sitting across the room".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:13 AM
1

"Woman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:57 AM
6

Yes, I remember two of those that were conducted by Meredith Chivers, but I also remember that Chivers did some mental gymnastics with the results and tried to re-conceptualize libido and physiological arousal as two different constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:47 AM
1

Hail Satan! 🤘😈
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:56 AM
1

Yes. I have a feeling that many people in that forum still believe the whole women are wonderful and idea that at least some women aren't naturally sexually restricted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:46 AM
3

I made the same argument on exredpill and got downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:30 AM
13

I agree 100%. Fear of judgement/guilt is a huge reason why many women wait for it to be official and not casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:12 AM
85

According to this metanalysis, men and women on average react similarly to sexual visual stimuli on a neurological level. Previous studies also show that women show genital arousal to a greater stimuli variety than men. This doesn't negate the existence of demisexual women (or men for the matter), but this is evidence that an average woman can experience sexual attraction without a romantic connection. Whether she's willing to pursue sex with someone she doesn't see a future is a different quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:36 AM
3

Everyone gets attached after fucking no matter how good or bad the sex was, no matter how physically unattractive the person was, but they would never admit it lol. It’s just biology. How do you know what others are feeling when they don't admit it, especially strangers whom your generalization includes? Saying that it is biology, w/o the actual evidence isn't a convincing argument. I’m a woman btw. So am I, but that doesn't give me the power to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:51 PM
5

Not all girls get attached from sex and very bad sex can be a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:40 PM
2

I used to think the same until I realized that gross stuff also comes from mouths and peepees.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:09 PM
2

I'm not sure about your first point, but the second one is spot on. Most of these "cancellations" are just criticism. Very few of this cancelled celebrities have actually lost their jobs or forced to quit. Bilzerian is a professional asshole. Getting outrage over his provocative posts is part of his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:07 PM
0

Yes, some subs ban you based on other subs you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:18 PM
1

Yes, I am, just watch me do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:17 PM
3

gimpgirl555, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:13 PM
8

Came here to say that I finally accepted a 666 man in my heart. From now on, I'll only wear black and exclusively fuck Chads who eat ass, drink blood and worship the Devil. Stay safe and hail Satan!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:00 PM
1

-Watch a youtube video about true crime stories. -Listen to the Backstreet Boys and imagine yourself in the video. -Look at the sexiest dude at the gym and try to guess his dick size There's too much you can do. I have a hard time understanding how you can get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:54 PM
1

What happened? What are your beliefs now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:43 PM
3

Why are women shamed for wanting rich guys or chads? There will always someone who disagrees with your standards. If you don't like fat women don't date them. It's not like you get prosecuted for not accepting their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:43 PM
1

No, it doesn't. Women whi bring more assets during the marriage lose more in proportion to what they put it and women whose men got the custody have to pay their husbands child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:10 PM
1

Divorce 'favors' the lowest earner and the person who did most of the childcare. This osn't automatically the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:37 PM
6

Now imagine he's dating another woman and showing her your nudes 5 years later. Even if you don't have any, the fact that he's willing to do it says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:34 PM
8

The issue is that the willingness itself to keep the nudes of somebody you're not with anymore problematic itself. His exes might have avoided taking pics, but I'd be still dating a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:29 PM
6

People grossly overestimate the power of #metoo. There have been several celebrities who've been #metooed and nothing happened to most of them aside from a bit of media coverage. When a #metooed celebrity goes down that's usually because they're accussed of a serious form of harassement and have several women offering consistent accounts about the fact, or because there is enough evidence to take the case to trial. Dan Bilzerian has been criticized many times by the media and also accused of mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:23 PM
2

Men who date men whether gay or bisexual aren't so possessive towards their lovers/partners. I don't think it's male love that's possessive compared to that of a woman. It seems to be more related to the idea that that women are somehow 'damaged' by being sexualized. In any case, this is a massive breach of trust so i wouldn't even stay to figure out if he loves me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:04 AM
1

I think this has to do more with how people see women being sexualized versus men getting sexualized rather than the way sexes love. Gay men don't seem so obsessed with their partner's sexuality before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:55 AM
2

Oh, right. It's Atlas we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:45 AM
1

She's going through a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:44 AM
1

Damn! What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:44 AM
4

It has always been a fantasy of mine to match with a traditional god-fearing virginal man and send him titty pics as a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:31 AM
2

Also, considering the fact that attractive people are more likely to have daughters than sons, on average and attractive men have more daughters whereas wealthy men have more sons. This seems like a far more plausible hypothesis. This theory seems to be based on a single study by Satoshi Kanazawa and Alan Miller. I looked at the results and the differences in proportion were very small. Kanazawa mentioned that the relationship was significant, but I wonder what the power of the test was. Now I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:08 AM
1

It depends on the area and on the field. Technology is booming, but other fields might be saturated with university grads so employers get to ask for a degree while paying cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:48 PM
2

Can you ski your way to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:45 PM
3

Omg, I remember that scene
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:26 AM
8

On that scene men get judged too. I experienced it. Had plenty of women question who I was fucking or would not want to engage with me because of women I had been with in the past. Really? I'd think that the swinger's scene would be more open to this sort of things. One thing that blows my mind is how many women don't understand that men change their mind. And they're entitled to. A guy may have had an eye for you to be a serious partner in the beginning and then, after experiencing more of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:32 AM
2

I don't think there's an end game. Feminism isn't a single organization with a clear purpose. It's a bunch of people with different agendas. Many of them don't even have an agenda but want validation for their ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:55 AM
2

I'd simp all my cash away for one of those, especially around summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:49 AM
1

Nobody admits it but judging by the amount of celebrity content on social media a lot of people seem to idolize them or to spend an inordinate amount of time looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:47 AM
2

I bet there are still men out there who wished she pooped on their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:46 AM
6

I'm aware of that, I just think it's massively hypocritical considering that promiscuity from men is just expected. Some women I guess know they'll get judged, but don't feel like playing by standards they feel to be unfair. In my case, I think it would have been a waste of everyone's time to get to know each other if a relationship wasn't on the table. I'd appreciate it if a guy I liked for a relationship let me know from the beginning that he's just looking for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:43 AM
3

But there's no evidence that women get promoted more than men, in fact, men are more likely to be promoted and to hold senior jobs. Women being promoted for being hot of because of feminism is your assumption, not a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:34 AM
6

Which kind of proves OPs point. If I'm not looking for something serious, I don't see the point of making him feel special to me when he isn't. If the relationship is serious, I'd expect that both of us are sleeping with each other because we like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:30 AM
1

that woman is hot from head to toe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:26 AM
2

Do you have any evidence that a) women have access to promotions and b) that women who are promoted are less likely to deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:24 AM
3

Incels will be jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:13 AM
1

who's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:08 AM
9

Aren't masculinity coaches generally single as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:07 AM
14

So basically, men are looking to rack up high body counts with low n-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:04 AM
7

I can't imagine how much he'd have to hit to get teeth like those. It was too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:00 AM
8

I really think that this level of damage must have come from some condition because the guy looked clean otherwise, but yeah, it was too much. I can't imaging kissing someone like this. It grosses me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:59 AM
3

I'm not really a fan of messaging, but I try to reply. That said, if a woman doesn't like messaging she will still find ways to communicate with you by phone or face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:45 PM
2

And what is the point in making the distinction between sex acts? Most of the time people are having sexual intercourse alongside those other acts it’s all sexual at the end of the day and could lead to actual sex. a) many of these acts, such as fingering and oral sex, don't necessary happen during intercourse and in fact, are very often a substitute for it. b) by act I also mean behaviors that aren't inherently sexual, such as dressing a certain way. Yes, I agree that pregnancy is still riskier…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:41 PM
80

I once saw a cute guy on a bus. Everything about his face was gorgeous up until he opened his mouth. His teeth were yellowish with green film as if they were mossy. It was an ugly sight. I can't think of anything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:27 PM
5

It's not the nanny state, it's the fact that women today have access to better jobs. The more access to resources you have, the more power you have. Having power means you don't need to accept one sided relationships just to be fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:23 PM
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Can confirm. When I wanted a relationship and acted accordingly, the men who were looking for sex would target me to get what they wanted. When I was looking just for sex and made it clear verbally or with my actions, most of this dudes lost interest before they could get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:18 PM
2

And this is kids how you get transactional relationships, by focusing on men's ability to provide and women's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:50 PM
1

Anything is a justifiable reason to leave your partner. The reason might be shallow and the reflection of your problems as an individual, but it's on you to solve those problems alone. If you stay in a relationship you don't want to be in for any reason there's no point in forcing this relationship forwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:46 PM
5

People attitudes towards sex and many other things generally become more liberal with age, but with age you also have less energy and are most likely in a stable relationship. SOI doesn't necessarily decrease, but your tendency to act upon your sexual urges does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:16 PM
1

i know a lot of women that aren't promiscuous or at least show no evidence for me to believe they are. That's a start. These are the women men who care about promiscuity should pursue. The thing is that many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:25 PM
2

The risk of sex has been greatly reduced for women because of contraceptives, and increased for men because of paternity testing and stronger child support laws. Also, women are expected to hold themselves to higher standards of sexual decency even for acts that can't lead to STIs or pregnancy, and this aspect is arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:22 PM
1

Most women aren't promiscuous. If you only know promiscuous women you probably run in those circles or seek those women subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:15 PM
4

Is there any evidence that these things women are ignoring are instincts that all women have? I have no desire for motherhood or for creating a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:13 AM
2

Can i fuck the chaperone too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:08 AM
1

Very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:03 AM
2

I understand what status means and still would pick the hit guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:57 PM
3

HVM says more about what society expects to be attractive than what is actually attractive to individual women. Furthermore, a quality that's generally considered good in a prospective partner is so because it increases a woman's status and not because of sheer sexual attractiveness. For example, being pursued by a man with money stroke my ego, but it never made me want sex or companionship with him because I've never found money or social status attractive. Physically attractive men turn me on,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:17 PM
2

I've seen this and other similar research before. Either unrestricted sociosexuality is correlated with features that we consider attractive, or many men do indeed sunconsciously prefer women with a tendency towards promiscuity. This would explain why so many of them complain about sluts when avoiding them should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:45 PM
1

Women as whole don't make more money. Education is a choice and men are more likely to select university careers that pay more money or trades that make them more money than the bottom university degrees that women are more likely to go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:18 PM
18

Gender isn't arbitrary but many rules related to it are. Being the one pursued doesn't reduce your risk of pregnancy or any other sex related risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:08 PM
5

This. People also forget that prostitution is already legal in many countries and not much has changed over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:05 AM
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'Boring' simply means that the person and I don't have many interests in common. I'm not sure there are many interesting stories about two people not having a topic to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:22 AM
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That's still pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:07 AM
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I got a carried away a bit, but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:05 PM
1

Despite the complaints from men accusing women of running the show, I find men to be more likely to stand for themselves and fight for what they perceive to be their right. Many women are too fucking spineless in comparison and are willing to put up with more crap at work, at home and in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:46 PM
3

Normie looking, but quite eccentric in my behavior. Very nostalgic, introvert and have an unhealthy obsession with ass-eating and raccoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:42 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:40 PM
2

You're debating ideas I never expressed. If a man is always nice to everyone and does the same for me as he did for the rest I see nothing suspicious about it. If my boyfriend did something nice for everyone and did the same for another woman I would not object or get bothered. I never said anything about men going out of their way for one woman, you did. EDIT: holy fuck, man! Those were three lengthly replies. It looks like you're the one that can't come to peace with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:00 PM
1

People get bored of eating the same food every day, wearing the same clothes every week and visiting the same places every year. Turns out people also get bored of fucking the same person all the time. I bet this is one of the reasons why there is a whole legal, economic and social structure just to ensure long term monogamy, otherwise people would be engaging in serial monogamy or fucking other people on the side even if only once or twice a year. This is absolutely normal and expected when we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:40 PM
1

I was 22-24
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:21 PM
1

Yes, some guys will and to most guys it will me irrelevant. I've had men complaining that I was and older virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:01 PM
3

When my male friends help my boyfriend with his car and bring him food, do they want his dick or his butthole?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:58 PM
2

Yes, this is one of my points. If a person is like this with others, including men and unattractive women, chances are that they're just being nice to you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:55 PM
1

To me it's like being in contact with an old school friend. I don't hang out with them, but from time to time one pops up in my messages asking me how I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:34 AM
2

Or extremely strict parents and sex becomes a form of rebellion. Either way, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:21 AM
2

I've never felt there was an overabundance of men to begin with. I used for about a month but I was aware of the statistics that just a small number of matches would end up in a conversation let alone in a date. Real life doesn't work like that either. I've always had interest from men but interest never meant 10 dudes per minute banging on my door. It was usually a guy here and there and them being interested was never enough. There needed to be mutual attraction, chemistry and compatibility. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:26 AM
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Probably because I fantasize about many men and I don't see it as a problem unless boundaries are crossed. I also don't expect people to have ulterior motives just because they have fantasies. I've done things for people I'm attracted with ni expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:18 AM
0

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:30 AM
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I've had many men doing nice things for me without any ulterior motive. If the man tends to be nice and do things for other people there's a high chance that he won't expect anything from you besides basic courtesy. If a guy goes beyond what you'd expect from him under normal circumstances, chances are he's trying to impress you. If that's the case, say thank you but no. If by any chance you misread his attempts at seducing you as courtesy, thank him and explain to him you thought he was being n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:25 AM
1

12 . I believe he's about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:01 PM
6

It's something I'm willing to share, but don't think it's necessary. N-count is important because of its correlation with other behaviors, but both of us can see those behaviors without the need to know each other's counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:44 PM
4

I just admitted to lying up to piss off the guy. Checkmate!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:35 PM
7

This isn't generally something we talk about. We've both hinted our numbers but it was more of a banter than an attempt at being intimate. The only time a man interested in dating me asked my number, I could see he was trying to use it against me so I gave him a high one on purpose and kept increasing it every time he pressed for more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:33 PM
2

Yes, both men and women prefer someone with experience: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27805420/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:22 PM
3

Yes. This sub is full of repressed homosexuals who want to suck Chad's dick and narcissists who believe they're Chad and have back injuries from attempting to suck their own cocks. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:11 PM
1

I hope you don't think too much about where the lips you've kissed have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:07 PM
3

I think it's a much more common phenomenon than it seems. I doubt many men in the west are obsessed with madonnas, but when you look at much of the dating advice and at the way many people talk about women there seems to be a trade-off between the sexualization of a woman and respect for her as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:00 PM
2

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:02 PM
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Madonna/whore implies that the madonna is loved because she's less sexual and the madonna isn't because she's more sexual. There's no such implication with husband vs. boyfriend material. Eventhough women with madonna whore exist, there are many reasons why women consider certain men just fuck or boyfriend material that has nothing to do with sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:30 PM
5

Really? Polls would be so interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:30 PM
5

And this is exactly the kind of man I want to avoid instead if pandering to him by seeking his 'respect'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:46 PM
1

But the fact is still that people of similar sociosexuality end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:20 PM
2

Of course it is all preference, but much of this preferences seem to go unsatisfied for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:15 PM
2

Value is relative. To more restricted women the fact that a man goes out of his way to get casual sex makes him unattractive. Not to mention that physically attractive doesn't automatically mean high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:13 PM
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And marriage back then was nothing but socially sanctioned prostitution where men also got to demand more than they actually offered in terms of decency. Also, there's no evidence that most men prefer virgins today. History at some point becones irrelevant for today's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:11 PM
4

Yes, people of similar sociosexuality end up together. And people who are together have sex with each other. Generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:07 PM
2

Ok, so what's your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:05 AM
2

Thanks for proving my point once again. Now that you know that there is a double standard you're trying to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:58 AM
4

No, but plenty of men who want to play the field are mad at not being able to find a sexually restricted woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:13 AM
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Aren't you sick and tired of always blaming men for all the problems women face? Why do you ladies continue to pretend you are STILL virtuous and still perpetuate the "women are wonderful" effect? 80% of women fucking 20% of men isn't supported by statistics. What's supported by statistics is people of similar sociosexuality ending up together. That's a fact. If a man is chasing after promiscuous women for sex he can't complain about the lack of good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:11 AM
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The behaviors of the top 10% of men will likely be a lot different than that of the average men. And because women often don't have eyes for the average guy it's hard to take their word very seriously. Do you honestly believe that most women are dating the top 10? Show me the data. Men are more willing to engage in casual sex: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-000-1008-0 Men report more hookups than women, which isn't possible with a representative sample but suggests that men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:06 AM
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Women don't want to not have casual sex, though. Many women enjoy it because feminist narrative tells them that being able to have sex with men who one has just met is fun and harmless. Plenty women simply enjoy sex even if it's not with a steady partner. This doesn't need to be explained by a feminist conspiracy especially when every single study on the topic proves that most people still look down on women who have casual sex. I agree that many men are envious of men who get casual sex easy, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:33 AM
1

so promiscuous men can expect promiscuous women to be promiscuous with them and not make them wait for sex? ok got it. People can expect whatever they want. It's reasonable for a man who is promiscuous to move on quickly if he doesn't get sex and accept that the women he'll date are probably going to be similar to him. I also know women who might have lower n counts and date higher n count men, but they're not the majority. Most high n count men end up with higher n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:59 AM
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Unfortunately, there's very little data on the topic. That's why I avoided using words as 'most' and stuck with the experience of other women and myself. That said, data on male willingness to have sex and the judgement of women who are promiscuous reveals that many men hold double standards. Also, this isn't about women who wish to keep their n count lower, but about women being expected to keep it low to be worthy of committment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:56 AM
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And plenty of men wouldn't feel good either if they didn't wait and other men didn't wait either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:47 AM
2

Nope. Plenty of men want and try to have casual sex while demonizing women for doing the same. The percentage of men getting casual sex are irrelevant. Non duplicious women who admit sleeping around are still insulted and called names.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:45 AM
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Just like many sluts refuse to sleep with men who will judge him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:40 AM
0

Are you using OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:28 AM
1

I am aware but I don't consider this relevant. If a woman is to protect her sexuality, she's not protecting it by reserving it for a man who sleeps around which is exactly what she expects when men aren't held to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:28 AM
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I understood the first time, I just disagree with it because you can excuse any behavior using analogies and that line of logic. You can apply the same logic to argue that golddiggers are high value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:18 AM
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If you're a high sociosexuality man who has no problem finding women similar to you and sleeping with them within just a few dates, you don't have to waste time with women who take months to open up, whether they're sluts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:59 AM
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A sharpener that can sharpen any pencil is great, a pencil that has been sharpened too many times... I don't know bro, do you want to see how a pencil looks like after so many uses?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:55 AM
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Ok so what's the big deal fuck and don't commit, committing in current year should literally be on the DSM as a sign of mental illness and desire for self harm It seems like a big deal to many men in here who seem frustrated at the lack of commitment-worthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:41 AM
2

Should I be scared?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:53 PM
2

But, there is another paper which showed that highly socio-sexual women who orgasm from casual sex display increased sexual dissatisfaction in long term relationships. That might be true, but men with greater number of partners are also less likely to be satisfied with relationships then men with less. It applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:17 PM
0

Does the research also say that the women who lose interest are the ones who slept around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:58 PM
2

Nope, it's ok for both to want sex. I'm criticizing the fact that only women are expected to worry about being seen as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:39 PM
2

Plenty of men do. Many of the guys who have casual sex cheat once they married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:35 PM
4

Yes, and it should be illegal too. 2 years of jail for anyone who posts a question about a topic that has been debated within the previous week.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:43 PM
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I'm interested. Keep talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:41 PM
2

My social circle got pretty small in the last a few years. I probably interact with around 10 guys on a regular basis, most of who are work colleagues. My boyfriend is conventionally attractive and sexually attractive. Another one is comventionally attractive, but I don't like him sexually. Three other guys are sexually attractive, but pretty much physically average. I generally prefer faces that are on the softer side. I like bodies shaped like inverted triangles but not overly muscular. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:39 PM
1

A guy who sleeps with a woman on the first date is a guy who sleeps around? From the woman's point of view, if she's afraid to be seen as someone who sleeps around for sleeping with a guy on a first date, then a man who sleeps with her of a first date probably sleeps around as well. It doesn't mattee if it's true or not becaause that's not the point. The point is that she's trying to live by some standards, successfully or not, and doesn't apply the same standards on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:29 PM
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I don't remember this ever happening. Even if a guy isn't objectively attractive in the physical sense, sexual attraction kicks in pretty fast, but that also means that whatever 'flaw' he's got isn't a turn off. If his looks turn me off I can't feel attraction for him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:24 PM
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No, but I consider it a sign that the woman lacks a spine. Many women had the experience of sleeping fast with a guy and then get rejected. There are million of reasons why this could have happened but the prevailing narrative is that the guy put her in the slut box because she was 'easy'. Trying to play a role that doesn't belong to you just to get the approval of a man who would gladly stick his dick in you but look down on you for doing the same is pathetic and it makes me sad that so many wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:19 PM
2

It's a code of guilty conscience among spineless women. There's no reason why a woman should feel guilty for behaviors she accepts from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:00 PM
2

No, the woman in the case assumes that the man is willing to sleep around but judge her for doing the same. If her assumption is true, it's the man who sees women willing to sleep with him as less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:58 PM
3

What are jeffries?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:32 PM
3

I think I've seen two or three clips from this show and decided to watch something else. Reality shows are entertainment and producers will always focus on individuals playing the part of maladjusted drama kings and queens. I'm not sure why the dynamic of these couples is relevant to most of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:29 PM
2

I don't remember being lied to for sex, but there was a guy who my parents and I suspect was lying to get a green card. The guy seemed overinvested in spite of me not showing any interest in him. He offered to take me to a very nice national park that I had difficulty accessing at the time. He also set up a group dinner and offered to pay for me, which I declined. It's probably not the story you're looking for, but I believe that this is how guys who only want sex lie. They seem overinvested and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:54 PM
2

I understand this and that some men are liars. I just think it would be better if everyone's reasons for having or not having sex were autonomous and didn't depend on what the other person will do afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:38 PM
11

Madonna/Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:33 PM
8

I want sex with a man as much as he wants sex with me and when I want companionship in addition to sex I want it from a man who wants as much companionship as I do. If you're implying I make a man wait to have sex and that I do it for a relationship I believe you didn't understand my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:33 PM
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It also implies that only a woman needs to have sexual restraint at the time the relationship is forming which also rewards men with m/w.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:24 PM
2

Most of them either never slept quickly with anyone or did it and felt bad afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:20 PM
4

Yeah, I remember you saying something along the lines that men with madonna whore aren't worth it. I can't see the appeal either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:18 PM
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For many women, having a guy not to take them seriously is the ultimate blow to their ego and being seen as a slut is a great offense, hence the "i won't sleep with him soon" tactic. So yes, it is an attempt to extract committment, but not necessarily anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:06 PM
5

Another user also mentioned something along the lines that the problem with RP men is that their standards are so contradictory that they've priced themselves out of the dating market without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:59 PM
2

Ah, ok. Yes, I agree with the first part. The second part I'm not so sure about. I think this is a self defense mechanism for most rather than an attemp at extracting benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:56 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:50 PM
3

Yup. I've had men implying that they liked me more because I didn't have sex right away. I just couldn't date them anymore. I felt that going on further dates would've been unfair to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:22 PM
1

I'm pretty sure these women are quite common, but I'm not sure they were the ones making the comments in the first date sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:19 PM
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She probably knows and doesn't care. She basically admitted to have sex even when in pain simply becauseit's the wifely duty. I don't think she'd be horrorized at the idea if being bought off as a wife by her rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:14 PM
1

It means I find him attractive sexually or romantically. I have a hard time believing it would mean anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:10 PM
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Q4W: I noticed that many women in the first date sex post justified not sleeping with a guy on the first date to not seem "easy". So my question is: do you feel comfortable dating a man you're aware has no problem sleeping on the first date but who looks down on women who do the same? Would you be able to trust this man when he's basically saying that self-restraint is not his responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:03 PM
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Where did I say that I make guys wait? I said many women do to not seem easy, but that I disagreed with the reasoning. Please read my first paragraph. In the second one I said that if I don't want another date, but i still find him sexually attractive I'd sleep with him because there won't be any other dates to do it. I'm not making the guy I want a relationship wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:30 PM
1

Aren't posts flaired as science supposed to have a link to, you know, a scientific article?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:12 PM
2

There's nothing to read between the lines. You guys are acting like I'm revealing some secret. I'm not. The problem is that you seem to expect sex to be some kind of reward I'm offering you for your good behavior or as an attempt to get you in a relationship. It's not. I'm pretty sure there are women you want to sleep with but not commit to. It's the same for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:09 PM
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I'm not justifying it. I'm just explaining how some women see it. And to be honest, plenty of men are very hypocritical as well in that they expect to be acceped regardless of their willingness to sleep with a woman soon but look down on women who have been willing to sleep with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:55 PM
2

😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
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As ridiculous as it sounds, most people don't mind their own behavior as long as it's not socially shunned, and people can't shun what they don't see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
3

It does to most women, but there will also be women who expect this. Don't overthink it, it's just different women and their diverse preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:26 PM
1

It's Sunday. The writer needed to come up with an easy story so he could take the rest of the day off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:23 PM
2

Because identity politics is a term used to describe the progressive left even if all politics are essentially identity politics. In other words, the christian republican gun loving patriot father of 8 doesn't see this as a political identity although it is as much of an identity as blue haired pansexual trans lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:12 PM
2

When you said 'love-bombing' I imagined a guy sending i love yous and heart emojis every 5 minutes for no reason. Saying that you're looking forwards to having coffee after agreeing on the time isn't love bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:04 PM
1

I don't know. I've had men tell me (or imply) that they respect me more because I didn't sleep with them soon. I then imagine if I told them "I'd take your money if you offered fancy dates right away but I'd respect you less if you did". The man wouldn't have stayed with me. Plenty of men hold so many double standards and feel less responsible for having sex because they know many women will just accept it. I kept rejecting these men until I found someone with the same standards for me as for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:50 PM
2

Is this the kind of man you'd like to be with in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:15 PM
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Many women have a fear of being seen as easy. I think that dating hypocritical men who look down on you for doing the same with them what they did with you doesn't bode well in the long run, but this is unfortunately the reason for many women. Other times, if you don't like the guy outside of sex, there's no point in going to more dates with him because you already know that you won't see him again so if you're horny, you just jump at the opportunity to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:13 PM
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It's crazy how many women put up with men they expect to be hypocrites. I've gone on dates with men who explicitely told me they respected me more for not sleeping with them and it just made me feel disgust at the idea of getting involved further with someone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:07 PM
1

It looks like lonely people resort to social media, but social media isn't necessarily increasing loneliness. Gen x women either have a greater need for social interaction or tend to do jobs and participate in activities that are more impacted by the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:25 AM
2

Exactly. Low n count women are the norm and most men can get a woman like this. The thing is that men in this sub want to live the life of a libertine and marry an almost nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:26 AM
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The thing is, men paying for dates is pretty much the norm and says very little about a man's generosity or willingness to provide. It's like customer service representatives smiling at you. They do that because they're supposed to, not because they think their clients are special.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:14 PM
11

Much of our media consumption is an attemp at self-validation. Body positivity content creators targets overweight women the same way that political content creators target followers of similar political ideologies. Overweight women want to feel represented and attractive just like followers of political ideologies want to feel represented and right about their convictions. Is there an attempt to change sexual preferences through body positivity? Probably yes, but it's success is limited and it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:43 PM
9

Nobody I know describes her husband as her kid, but this dynamic seems to be quite prevalent among many people. The husband comes home and the wife, whether she works or not, cooks his food, does his laundry and cleans after him. Their kids see this and continue this dynamic well into adulthood. I've had male friends, and by 'friend' I mean a literal friend, not a boyfriend, not a fuckbuddy, just a friend, asking me to iron their shirts and do their laundry. Also, when I moved in with my boyfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:19 PM
4

Ok, so what are the conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:34 AM
5

The "cold hard truth about men" is actually the " cold hard truth about the men I know and want". If this isn't the kind of men you're dealing with or the kind of men you want then the advice is as pointless as pool maintenance advice is for people who're looking to move to Alaska.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:31 PM
8

You don't want an open relationship. You want a harem. To find a one way open relationship you'll have to find: A) women with a fetish for these kind of one sided relationships B) women who will let you fuck around in exchange for your resources C) women with no self-esteem who will accept you fucking around while being loyal to you Every other woman looking for an open relationship will want to fuck around too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:58 PM
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The point isn't to assign blame. The point is that it takes a particular kind of woman to lose respect for you for opening up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:42 AM
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What I mean is that I'm refusing to give life and this hasn't impacted my romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:12 AM
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Says a lot about the kind of women they've been dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:10 AM
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Woman who doesn't want kids checking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:09 AM
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I'm sure it's just a subject, I just have a hard time understanding why people seem to be bothered so much by simps and many other things discussed on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:06 AM
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Simps appeal to women who enjoy that kind of validation, but they don't create them. You are free to avoid these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:38 AM
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Simps just show the true colors of some women. If a woman is the type to keep simps at any given opportunity, she's not the type of woman you want to be around assuming. I'm not sure how simps support feminism if they only exist in a romantic or sexual context. On top of that, most only simp out of pure desperation as opposed to heartfelt desire, so there is a underlying but apparent weak and pathetic nature to the act, which detests men (and women) on a basic level. A simp's desperation is his …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:35 AM
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You guys block people? I don't even know how to block someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:49 PM
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I'm not attracted to men who use their resources to attract women. I'm not even attracted to providers nor would I enter a relationship where I'm provided for. That said, men here spend too much time complaining about simps. If you're not the type to spend money on women then don't spend money on women. Others can do with their money as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:14 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:25 AM
2

I'm not strong enough to force my face between his butt-cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:44 AM
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I find Matt Bomer and Henry Cavill to be almost perfect, but they don't too much for me in sexual terms. Tom Holland, Jamie Bell and Bill Skarsgard are facially slightly above average, but my panties get wet as I type their names. Dhaffer L'Abidine is both gorgeous and a panty-wetter. I'd let him slap my ass while he whispers dirty words to me in Arabic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:46 AM
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I'd eat his ass for 3 hours straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:27 AM
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He let me kiss it for half a second, but went back to eating mine. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:25 AM
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Most western women work and marry men similar to them in finanancial terms. When you say they have the upper hand, what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:36 PM
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If point a and point b are well connected, or point b is not a place you visit often, having a vehicle having a vehicle is an unnecessary expense. If the city is densely populated or flat out overcrowded, you get faster to places by using the subway if there's one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:19 AM
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The IQ of some of you is truly astounding. Trump, is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:42 AM
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Who knows? It might just be a preference not related to any aversion. I prefer this to this although they both look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:30 AM
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Seriously. There are cities where buying a car is asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:27 AM
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I used to live in a country that's targeted by men looking for partners. In fact, I've been the target of such men myself. The first thing I noticed is that these men aspire to be in a relationship were they have the upper hand with a woman who's completely devoted to them. They want this woman to be completely devoted to them, with high standards for herself while expecting from these men as little as possible in terms of loyalty. Such a relationship requires a massive power imbalance that you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:22 AM
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What kind of antipsychotics are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:45 PM
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Banging your hot brother is where I draw the limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:44 PM
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No, I didn't have a problem finding men who wanted to date me or be in a relationship with me when I was in the market, but the number of men with whom I was compatible has always been very low. I used to live in quite a conservative country and most men weren't looking for the kind of relationship that I wanted in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:39 PM
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Violent men show red flags before the relationship becomes serious. If the woman grew up in an environment where these red flags are dismissed as normal male behavior she might not notice anything wrong with her partner until he gets physically violent. Sometimes, violence itself is the norm in certain circles. For example, if your dad punched your mom three times a week, a man who does this to you only once in a while seems like a complete gentleman. I'm not sure why violence increases during p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:34 PM
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Of the man is fucking a woman with this issues and trusts her with birth control it's hard for me to feel sorry about that nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:40 PM
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I think many people don't know the difference between cautious to fuck and sexually unattracted. I'm pretty sure there are many women who need to feel attraction, and there is also many of us for whom it happens at first sight or soon after interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:34 PM
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Switch genders and you'll have a woman married to an unemployed man with drug issues about whom everyone warns her but she's still insisting that he's a great guy. I've seen similar scenarios among friends. I've also seen men eventually growing out of love with their partners and moving on either alone or with someone else. I'm not sure it's a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:31 PM
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Baby faces are popular, being below 5'10 isn't a problem considering the average woman is like 5'4 or 5'3. Being ugly though...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:18 PM
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I value good companionship and I have a partner I love, but motherhood never appealed to me. I can have children, assuming I'm not infertile, but that's something I don't see myself doing. I might regret being alone in old age assuming I don't cultivate any relationship with the people around me, but I have kids today I'm certain that I'll regret the lifestyle change of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:52 PM
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I see. Makes sense. I assumed for some reason that this happened in the last 20 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:53 PM
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Wow! She must have been from a very traditional community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:44 PM
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Do it. It will set you free in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:39 PM
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Advice on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:52 AM
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Unless you're looking to ruin your dating life in 10 different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:39 AM
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Can I ask where she's from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:45 AM
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But dick is so good...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:36 AM
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Are you suggesting that the incessant social media recommendations with Cardi B's wap and booty are my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:32 AM
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My flair disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:25 AM
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I'm getting at the fact that men rarely choose to become homemakers themselves and caring about family seems to mean letting the woman stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:23 AM
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C'mon woman! Stop trying to get advice from PPD for the sake of your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:20 AM
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Being dateless is hard emotionally, being jobless is hard emotionally and can be risky in the long run as there are never guarantees that your partner or family will support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:18 AM
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But they're not willing to take care of the house and the kids themselves, which is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:14 AM
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Question for you guys with the answers: In most modern relationships sex predates relationships. How exactly are relationships easier to obtain for men? lol Sex obviously means a bunch of Stacies lining up to jump on their dicks. 3rd date sex with average bitches doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:13 AM
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You're offending me with your twinkies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:03 AM
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There's a phrase for that: the unrequired love shit train where everyone's after someone who happens to be after someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:59 AM
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Being a housewife doesn't pay the bills and most of it is just menial work that most people would gladly pay someone else to do if they had enough $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:54 AM
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RP: You can't cry divorce-rape or complain about gold-diggers if all you care about in a long-term partner is beauty, youth and low n-count. The lock and the key analogy is just an excuse to expect higher standards from women than you expect from yourself. FDS: You can't expect to be treated like an equal and bitch about patriarchy if you feel entitled to a man's wallet. You're not advocating for women's interests, you're advocating for traditional morality and shaming every woman that doesn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:51 AM
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I can take all kinds of insults, but this opinion should get you permabanned from Reddit. Where are the mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:27 AM
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People don’t just learn beliefs like that at home. Mom has never had a job and depends on dad for everything involving spending. Dad talks proudly about providing and acts like spending money is his best quality. What kind of men and women do you think their kids end up becoming?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:37 AM
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Investopedia has an even more inclusive definition of upper class: According to a 2018 study by Pew Research Center, 19% of American adults were part of upper-class households. These families earned a median income of $187,872 in 2016, compared to 52% who made up the middle class and 29% who made up the lower class. In terms of income, making more than $250 puts you around the top 3%. Making more than $363k makes you a 1%. Sure, there's a definition of upper class that's based on power and not o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:51 PM
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Having a career wife means someone else is watching and raising your children for 8-10 hours a day. Unless the father steps down from his job and becomes a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:49 PM
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And then they say it's women who have unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:38 PM
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He might not have meant any disrespect if nudity is something he sees as normal and practices himself. In either case, you don't need to go out with him if you're not feeling it. Just think about it for a moment, a man probably wouldn't give you a second chance if you suggested a very expensive place for a first date and see it as a red flag. You're also allowed to reject men who suggest dates that are uncomfortable in your book.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:35 PM
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Upper middle class and lower middle class are just the bottom and the top levels within the middle class, so yes, they are middle class. Depending on the definition of UMC, $250k is either close the the top limit of UMC or at the bottom of the UC. I'm not sure what's the standard salary for a doctor or big tech, but given the right skewed distribution of income, most UMC individuals ain't making $250k and are more likely to fall within the $100sk - low $200sk range. Women with husbands earning t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:10 PM
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That might be common in some circles, but given that less than 1% of the population creates OF content and that most of the content is not even explicit, I don't think most people would have anyone like this in their circles. Also, do you know for certain that their income comes from OF? I remember seeing a bunch of rich kids living in nice places with the help of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:43 PM
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You said: Not necessarily. Women who are most likely to stay at home are either lower middle class or upper middle class. The link says middle-class women, whether LMC or UMC, are the LEAST likely to stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:35 PM
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Unfortunately, you'll always be a means to an end for another entity. You have to work to put food on your plate, it's just that if you have in-demand skills you might be able to afford a job with good benefit, vacation and schedule. If you don't work at all and depend on your partner you're like the chicken. You're only good for as long as your partner doesn't drop dead or decides to end the relationship. So to answer your question based on this info, I think the best would be to have both pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:24 PM
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Still doesn't answer the question of what high quality is. Do you consider that the ability of having three children who can also make three children each high quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:04 PM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:03 PM
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I think people spend most of their free time doomscrolling and believe that DailyMail articles represent the lives of average people. It's very similar to spend an inordinate amount of time reading about terrorist acts and not realizing that you're much more likely to die in a road accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:00 PM
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What do you mean by 'high quality children'? High achievers? Having mommy stay home makes the boys more likely to be achievers, but also makes girls less likely to prioritize their own careers and achievements. The opposite would happen if dad stayed home and mom worked. In terms of discipline, that most likely will depend on the parents themselves rather than their role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:44 PM
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No, I'm not. You said it's middle class women mostly staying home, when it's not the case. My argument is also that, once your income surpasses a certain threshold its the relative income of the woman that matters, and not the income of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:38 PM
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Those beliefs are learnt at home. The dating scene simply enables people to act on those. It’s not the worst thing in the world, but it is annoying to me. This is your problem, not the problem of the simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:36 PM
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Ideally, children need to see that both mom and dad take care of them while also contributing to the household income. The traditional setup reduces women to glorified maids and men to ATM machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:32 PM
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Not necessarily. Women who are most likely to stay at home are either lower middle class or upper middle class. If we look at class according to the husband's income, the groups most likely to stay home are lower-class and upper-class women. Middle-class and upper-middle class are the least to become homemakers. Also, the gender earning gap is a thing even before children are born. The higher the husband's income, the lower the wife's relative to his. Yes, some women make almost as much as their…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:25 PM
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Why would any man who doesn't want to be a simp want to be with the kind of woman who would rather benefit from old gender dynamics? The same for women who dislike pickmes. Why would any woman genuinely looking for a balanced relationship wants a man who'd rather be dating and fucking pickmes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:07 PM
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The bigger her paycheck relative to yours, the less likely she's to stay home. If a woman brings 40% of the household income or more, her quitting her job would be a huge blow to your lifestyle. There might be exceptions, but the women who quit their jobs are generally the ones with not enough income to pay daycare, or those with very low earning potential compared to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:17 PM
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But you can avoid them by marrying someone on your financial level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:09 PM
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Women with OnlyFans. How many do you know and how many of them are forcing you to pay them? Age gap relationships. If both are adults, there's nobody for me to save. If you don't like older guys don't date them. Simps. Are these dudes spending your money? If not, get over it! Singles over 30. Just don't date them if it bothers you and if you're already married, why are you so obsessed with the relationship status of other people? Polyamory, swinging and other non-monogamous arrangements. Not onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:04 PM
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It's ok for these spaces to exist and to be available to those interested in them, but I don't see a reason why I would want to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:28 PM
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Mmmmm... good for you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:19 PM
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I'll take a look at it. I almost forgot who she was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:13 AM
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🔥 🔥 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:58 AM
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Never read it but that sounds 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:58 AM
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Doesn't matter, someone is eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:43 AM
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What's a high value man in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:41 AM
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Ass eating is my second nature :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:39 AM
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This sounds sexy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:37 AM
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They can, they just don't care. Most women sexualizing themselves are influencers or trying to be. They don't care for relationships with random dudes who follow them on insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:55 AM
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I'd actually respect him more if he let me do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:49 AM
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I don't know about other women, but I wash my mouth after eating ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:48 AM
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I don't know of any other hoes eating apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:46 AM
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What's the problem? Both are hot and rim job worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:45 AM
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Isn't that prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:42 AM
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Women can leave comparitively easily and have not gatekept sex closely enough to make him want to or need to commit. Imagine marrying a man who's in it for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:40 AM
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Yup, and after-marriage taxes might actually increase depending on how much the couple makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:38 AM
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This community is incredible polarized around the topic with red-leaning folks decrying marriage as a misandrist institution and women describing is as the holy grail of relationships, but everyone seems to forget that, as a legal institution, the effects of marriage will greatly vary based on your jurisdiction and your circumstances. Common law has almost the same effects as marriage in many jurisdictions. Where I'm at right now, the only difference between marriage and common law marriage is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:37 AM
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I'm sick of double standards. My partner eats my ass like there's no tomorrow and let's me sit on his face while I sing kumbaya, but he won't let me to go anywhere near his ass even though I've expressed my desire to eat an apple pie out of it. What the fuck is wrong with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:11 AM
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Oh, sorry, I wasn't aware this was a personal issue for you. My apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:07 AM
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There have always been women sexualizing themselves and I don't see why social media is any different. It's not my style, but people make of it a bigger problem then it actually is. It's up to individual women doing it to decide whether it's empowering, sad or business as usual. Some women pointed out to the lack of power or respect this pics might lead to. While I agree, I find it troublesome that men post shirtless pics all the time without getting accused of sexualizing themselves. The fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:05 AM
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Many employers don't even bother with a proper background check. I can't imagine HR hunting for titty pics before extending you a job offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:03 AM
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A lot of people don't 'wait' to be 30, 30 simply happens to be the age when they feel prepared and meet someone they want a family with. Even if we assume that most people who are single in their 30s are promiscuous, it's not the sex that is the problem, it's risk seeking and other personality traits that make them unsuitable for marriage. Someone with BPD won't suddenly become marriage material just because they keep n count low and marry early. Also, if we are going to use anecdotes, I know pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:10 AM
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And then you get the women who are afraid of being single in their 30s so they marry in their 20s to the first guy who's willing to marry them. I doubt that these women are happy or even prepared to raise a child, but hey, at least they weren't single when they hit 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:02 PM
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And these PPD men with moderate sexual history demand low n-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:01 PM
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Nope, this sub is filled with inexperienced men trying to get laid who judge women for getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:46 AM
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A man who's not very experienced because of his monogamous orientation and lack of interest in hookups doesn't get as much shit. I say 'as much' because everyone here gets at least a few complaints for having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:10 AM
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I can understand someone having a different worldview than me, but I will not tolerate hypocrisy. And this is the problem. Many of the guys complaining about women's past either sleep around or want to sleep around themselves. Nobody cares when an inexperienced guy also wants an inexperienced woman. Women caring about a man's future also get their well deserved shit if they don't have a decent job or education themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:36 AM
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I can't and don't want to have sex with people I don't know well and I can't get off from being humiliated or humiliating my partner. I suspect that people who are genuinely into those kind of things have very low sensitivity to jealousy and don't see this sort of sex as humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:55 PM
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So alcohol numbs physiological need for sex. I wonder if testosterone increases actual sex drive or decreases inhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:52 PM
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It's not wrong or irrelevant. Alcohol decreases the physiological need for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:49 PM
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I didn't find evidence for this. Both men and women get more uninhibited, but their physical dtive for sex decreases. It's more obvious in men because of this leads to erection problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:49 PM
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In which case it doesn't contradict my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:44 PM
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You're telling me you're not Atlas? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:42 PM
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I don't know about other drugs, but alcohol unblocks psychological discomfort making sexual desire that's already there easier to express while surpressing your physical arousal. Alcohol after all is a depressant. It doesn't really increase horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:38 PM
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Alcohol actually decreases sex drive while also decreasing inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:16 AM
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Atlas, is it you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:14 AM
1

There's a reason they call it liquid courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:12 AM
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I've always dreamed of having a threesome or a second guy either watching us or fucking me. My partner is aware of this, but we've never done it. Massive dudes with huge muscles aren't my thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:58 AM
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Wait! What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:55 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:53 AM
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Eating ass looks gross but it feels so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:53 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:51 PM
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Thanks asshole, but calling me a slut won't get you banned. It will only get me horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:37 AM
1

And now you've been appointed as the Chief Advisor to the Supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:36 AM
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See guys? This is how you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:34 AM
2

😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:08 AM
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Can you spit before you speak? I can't understand a single shit you say when your best friend's jizz is still in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:35 AM
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Inceldom confers advantages to the community by enabling the survival of only fans content creators after whom they simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:21 AM
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Evolutionary speaking, the exposure to Pamela Anderson's big boobs re-wired male brain. For butt it's the same, just substitute Pamela Anderson with gay porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:17 AM
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Micropenis power is the world's best kept secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:35 PM
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Why do you think that a field based on assumptions about behaviors from people who lived thousands of years ago is brone to bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:33 PM
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The smaller the dick the faster she comes. That's why lesbians have the highest climax the most. They have tiny dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:27 PM
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Becky will come in 5.33 seconds. Just divide dick size in inches by thrusts per second.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:17 PM
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You'd have to touch them, but that would be harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:11 PM
2

I manage the one at which you work. No get off reddit and serve those fries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:07 PM
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Evolutionary speaking, those tits were real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:04 PM
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Women are hardwired to be hypergamous. No female spot can be bigger than dick. The clit is between the lips and above the vaginal entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:03 PM
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Bobs are on female chests and vazhene is between your mother's legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:00 PM
1

Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:15 PM
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Yes, they should encourage the to eat ass. Everything else is negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:13 PM
1

I'd eat Tom Holland's hairy ass, but wouldn't even sit on the other two dudes's faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:05 PM
1

Fuck ideas, give me a real dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:59 PM
1

3.7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:56 PM
1

Lol. If dick is cheap, why not buy it by the dozen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:15 PM
1

By "attention crumbs" you probably mean "dick".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:13 PM
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Only if you promise me to smell them and lick them regardless of where they've been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:34 AM
2

Tall men are betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:31 AM
1

Love you too, muslim virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:28 AM
2

Sell your dick pics in the black market.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:55 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:48 PM
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I'm waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:41 PM
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I wasn't aware of my own existence until I posted my pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:41 PM
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I've seen this before, and I don't care about your propensity to incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:40 PM
1

I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:38 PM
1

;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:36 PM
1

I can't, /u/angels-fan has his face stuck in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:35 PM
1

Nope, not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:33 PM
1

Dick pic first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:33 PM
1

I love you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:33 PM
1

Really? Nope. I'm of Hispanic and Eastern Euro ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:30 PM
1

Send me a dick pic first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:29 PM
1

Show me your dick first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:29 PM
1

I'm actually mixed, but mostly Caucasian.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:28 PM
1

Nope, it's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:26 PM
2

Welcome to the purge!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:25 PM
1

Hello Katy! Welcome back!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:23 PM
1

It belongs to your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:22 PM
2

aaaaaaah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:15 PM
3

yes,sir
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:15 PM
2

Yesss
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:14 PM
2

Where is my raccoon thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:50 PM
2

Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:49 PM
1

Funny, because every Chad I know is either married to a slut or cheating with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:47 PM
1

It's not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:46 PM
2

Has anybody seen my purse?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:29 PM
5

No argument needed. This is PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:28 PM
3

I'm a whore and I have nothing to do with that flat boring shithole of a state.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:28 PM
2

You don't have a dick. Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:26 PM
1

Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:59 PM
2

I've never lied about fucking 57.8 chads in the past. Nor have I lied about sitting on their faces and farting in their mouths. And unlike your average carousel riding lying PPD whore, I'm eager to do this with all my boyfriends. Who wants to be next?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:58 PM
4

And I've had casual sex with men I never wanted a relationship with. I've also seen men complaining about women they have sex being distant. "Out of your league" usually means more physically attractive. Someone can be attractive and still not good for a relationship to people they're fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:43 PM
3

You're telling me that promiscuous women want relationships with the men they sleep with when there is evidence that a significant share of the female population engages in casual sex just for the sake of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:12 PM
5

Sounds like you're the one who's coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:49 PM
0

I agree, age difference is part of it, but the average age difference in the US is 2.5. I might be wrong, but I don't believe that this alone explains the 20 pt difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:34 PM
5

And these surveys also shows that a significant share of these women weren't looking for a relationship. The OP asked about promiscuous women. Women who engage in casual sex regularly aren't looking for a relationship with all the men they sleep, with some exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:26 PM
4

More women being in relationships than men is most likely the result of response bias in surveys which either leads partnered up women to be more likely to respond, or non-partnered men less likely to do so. Polyamory is very rare and female to male ratio is even. I don't see any other logical explanation for this. Some people would say that several women are dating one man, but most of these surveys look at cohabitating and married partners, so this wouldn't be a hood explanation either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:15 PM
13

Women understand this perfectly well. The ones who are delusional are the men who believe that women who fuck around want them for more than just their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:59 PM
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FDS has very gendered ideas of sexuality. If a woman doesn't fit the mold of what they consider to be proper feminine behavior, they automatically assume the woman is a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:30 AM
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After an awkward silence, I proceed to explain that the house isn't mine. My parents bought it and let me come up from the smelly basement while they're on vacation. Clearly disappointed, the handsome guy with a professional clean elegant appearance unzips his pants and slaps me in the face with his 6 inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:12 AM
8

The topic at hand is why women needed men in the context of marriage. Male innovation is irrelevant in this regard since the great majority of men didn't innovate and the innovations of the few didn't impact women in the context we're discussing. What you're saying might be interesting but it's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:03 AM
1

Where is atlas to put these shitholestani posters in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:48 AM
2

You've had 7 relationships? That's more than most people your age or at least average. I remember some of your posts and I don't think you're doing bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:47 AM
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The great majority of men didn't innovate anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:44 AM
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Looks like they might have been on discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:29 AM
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Now i'm hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:29 AM
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I liked them both, although I think SG storyline was a bit more consistent. I felt AiB focused too much on the beach and its politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:54 PM
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I've always thought girlfriends were a tad bit more expensive, but good for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:52 PM
3

The idea formed over a verbal participation trophy for his wife, a way of saying thanks and recognizing that she helped indirectly. You explain perfectly why I've always been wary of the lip service provided to certain roles. People usually provide so much of it when there's no other way to reward the good deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:51 PM
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In english please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:06 PM
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I've no idea. I noticed I also got turned on by Porter Robinson who's sporting the same look. Maybe they remind me of something or someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:06 PM
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I'm thinking about Pope Francis and his zucchetto getting stuck between my buttcheeks. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:00 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:57 PM
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Well done. Now gimmie some of that ramen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:56 PM
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I feel the same about the long-haired blond dude from Alice in Borderland. Some men turn us on in weird ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:56 PM
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Women used to need men more than men needed women. The biggest problem for unmarried men was a lack of status, and maybe lack of sex if he had no access to prostitutes. Women needed men for survival because compared to men, their job opportunities were scarce. Convincing men about the great benefits of a good woman was probably just a way to incentivize more men to get married and take care of women and their families. I personally believe that both sexes can benefit from a good partner, whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:52 PM
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I know many women with a crappy record with men. Women who have divorced multiple times due to their partners cheating, women whose husbands sleep with their acquaintances, women who keep going on dates just to have men pressure them into sex... These women never said that it was ok for men to fuck around, but every time there was a rumour about casual sex, they would only gossip about the women involved. Many of them would also blame promiscuous women for male cheating and expecting sex in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:40 PM
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And how do you know somebody is being honest? I get the impression you're not looking for honesty as much as for specific replies that fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:46 PM
1

It's not, but a significant number of people would agree to it which is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:18 PM
11

How many times are we going to get asked the same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:07 PM
2

You're telling me that #tradwives with thousands of followers ain't trad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:03 PM
2

I think you're overestimating human complexity. Most people aren't geniuses with intellectual goals. Many people work because they have no other option, and the jobs they hold aren't engaging nor rewarding. Their hobbies are pretty superficial as well. They just won't admit to it because it's not socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:00 PM
1

It's the internet and you'll see all kinds of trends becoming popular among certain groups. That said, this isn't as far removed from the reality of many women. Many women with degrees who seemed to want something in their lives ended up in the same situation and with a massive student debt. They're married or in common law, but they are unlikely to get enough money to sustain themselves if their partner dies or leaves, especially after not excercising their careers for years. These women aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:55 PM
3

That's not possible. Why would someone craving views lie for attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:45 PM
1

I would cut a fart for them to hear. That should make them understand that you're busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:44 PM
1

Context matters and the woman matters too. A woman with a more traditional upbringing might play the game because the believes in the chase. Other women are genuinely busy and often unavailable. Then there are the women who say "no" and really mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:43 PM
-1

Hatred is very often the product of our inability to reconciliate conflicting values. Some women like dominant men, but dislike this fact because they also want to be equal. That said, the women pinning for dominant men aren't necessarily the ones complaining about the lack of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:34 PM
2

You're assuming that there's no such thing as a lack of feelings or curiosity towards something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:32 PM
1

Hello twin!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:21 PM
10

Woman in my early 30s. Value companionship, but don't care about marriage. Couldn't care less about male providers or who makes more in the relationship. That doesn't make me an outlier, but I'm probably seen as mentally ill by both TRP and FDS. I see both as a bunch of dudes and dudettes who try to cling to the most convinient parts of tradition as a self defense mechanism and then become bitter when the opposite sex doesn't let them have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:30 AM
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There are women out there who don't partake in hookups because they think hookups make them dirty. There are also women who simply don't give a shit about hookups. A complete lack of interest in certain activies is certainly a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:54 PM
4

Fair enough, but the "problem" isn't the woman only but also the man in question. If a man doesn't sleep on the first date he won't try to sleep with you even if he know women who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:00 PM
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Plenty of women who aren't promiscuous, still don't hold the few men they date to the same decency standards, so if you are worried about her, you should also be worried about the standards of your non-promiscuous friends' boyftiends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:56 PM
1

She could also catch something from a monogamous boyfriend who had unprotected sex with other women. There's no way to tell w/o a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:49 PM
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If a man invited you to have sex on a first date, would you decline and keep dating him until you feel more comfortable, or you'd just move on to a man who doesn't sleep on a first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:42 PM
-1

You might not call them like this in their face, but many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:36 PM
0

They move on after a lengthly post explaining why the guy is a stupid incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:20 PM
-1

It might have something to do with the fact that men don't generally have "friends" calling them nasty and all kinds of names for engaging in casual sex, if anything, their male friends would be congratulating them. There are many sluts who lead normal lives and aren't calling their girlfriends at 2 in the morning, but i'm pretty sure many people would look down on them just for their n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:07 PM
9

You seem to be new to PPD. Men say this kind of stuff all the time and us women shit on them just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:54 PM
1

Do you apply the same standards to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:53 PM
11

TRP is a bunch of old stereotypes repackaged with new vocabulary. Goldiggers desiring sexually attractive men and marrying less attractive rich ones became af/bb, female promiscuity became the cock carousel, goldigging became hypergamy. These ideas are old as fuck. RP content creators are nothing but skilled marketers pretending to be human nature experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:40 PM
1

Neither have I, not to mention that most experience grads don't make that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:20 PM
1

I've seen them with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:13 AM
4

I have never once “made someone wait”, which makes it sound like a man sitting there desperately wanting sex and I am shooing them off me. This is exactly how I picture it: "bitch, give me that pus!" "No honey, not yet, I'm trying to figure out if you're a good man that's worth it"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:38 AM
2

Most people date first and then have sex, although sex first and then the rest might be quite common in some circles. This phenomenon already existed. We're not the first generation to turn one night stands into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:26 AM
1

Hot women make men's pee pees go doing doing doing. Hot men make women's clits go flap flap flap. What exactly are we discussing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:21 AM
5

No, this is PPD. Everyone here is Upper Middle Class until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:17 AM
1

What’s so complicated? This is PPD. Everything here is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:15 AM
1

Looks like you missed the part where I say that virginity might also be the result of a hang up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:32 PM
1

I never knew felinosexuality was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:32 PM
3

You know that simp has lost its meaning when having a preference makes you one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:31 PM
1

Majority of people end up with their sociosexual equivalents. Well, yes, I agree with this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:29 PM
1

I came here to say that I have no idea what any of these things you want to buy are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:13 PM
1

Ah yes, I remember that. I wish people could just tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:09 PM
2

I, Tiposk, admit I slept with sexy felons and then married an unsexy church boy with a steady job with whom I am only for money. Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:08 PM
1

I can't say much about your circle because I'm not familiar with it, but all experiments and research I've read on the topic is that the majority of people, even those who hold liberal attitudes, judge women harsher than men for their sexual behavior, and that a lot of regret women experience after ONSs comes from feeling "cheap" and "easy". Even if you read FDS their main concern about being "used" for sex comes down to men and women not "respecting" promiscuous women. I'm afraid we don't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:05 PM
1

I don't want to specify the country for privacy reasons, but it was around Central America and the Caribbean. Can't they be virgin simply because they aren't attractive to get sex? That happens, but ugliness alone doesn't explain the lack of sex. Many of these virgins weren't unattractive and many unattractive women dated and even married pretty young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:50 PM
1

I think it has more to do with the stigma that sex carries for women as opposed to any practical difference between men and women in these regards. I've known plenty of men who got sex easily, but constantly complained about not being able to find a steady relationship. These men weren't assumed to be losers or sluts like the women in their position would have been, but their problem was the same: they offered their committment to women who were out of their league, women who didn't like their r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:33 PM
2

What? Women don't rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:14 PM
8

I've avoided men after having sex with them for different reasons. Many men didn't take very well the fact that I didn't want a relationship. Don't forget that you're in a sub full of men who say they only want sex while complaining that women aren't relationship material. If they truly cared about sex and only sex these guys wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:14 PM
4

Women in here do their good share of ranting as well. You're accusing me of promoting double standards that I don't hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:07 PM
1

I've seen several men today ranting about this comment. It seems that whoever made it struck a chord with you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:58 PM
3

How is that any different from men who slow down sexual escalation when they think a woman is "worth it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:39 PM
3

What?! You're not a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:30 PM
2

I stopped using social media and one of the big reasons is that I stopped caring about how other people were living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:21 PM
2

It's not about easy lay. When a someone is still a virgin past a certain age this means that they have a lower than average sex drive and are incompatible with most people, or the presence of some kind of hang up. I wasn't saving myself and what led me to have sex later in life was the fear of being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:01 PM
1

Somewhere in Latin America, which is more conservative than North America and Western Europe do you'd expect them to value virgins more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:55 PM
2

You don't want to be Harry Styles without fame and money. I'd gladly fuck Harry Styles even if he was a broke dude living with his mom and flipping my burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:15 AM
8

They might be assholes, but that doesn't mean their preference is in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:10 AM
10

I lived in a fairly conservative country and didn't have sex until I was 24. I heard guys saying that something must be wrong with a woman who was still a virgin in her 20s. Many of these guys didn't even know that I was inexperienced and made these comments to other men, so I can't even chalk this up to them trying to pressure me into bed. It would usually be other women telling me how great that I was "saving" myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:54 AM
10

That's not necessary true. Me and the few slutty women I knew ended up dating/marrying men more attractive or on the same level as their hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:51 AM
1

It's not the presence of sex, but the exchange of sex for resources. Two people fucking each other for free can't be prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:12 AM
1

That's why a say illusion of a conquest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:10 AM
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