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Question For WomenNeptune-Jr/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:54 PM
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Ideally dating is the same as it is now but all the games are removed. No icks, No dumbass texting rules, no more trying to guess how to come over as smooth. Just her being herself and me being myself and if we have a good time we stick it out if we don't we go our separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:58 PM
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If a person can't talk or interact with people normally then they have more important problems. I don't even know how those people in general would hear that advice if they don't talk to people. But let's entertain the idea. These people would be solving their own problems. In order to date that means they are trying. But more importantly they are practicing basic social interactions and all that good stuff. Which means they might get better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:08 PM
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No said anything but it's usually what some guys try to do. Acting as naturally as possible is in a guys best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:54 PM
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Just be yourself is perfect advice. If you pretend to be someone else you'd have to keep up the persona to keep the girl interested. If you want to date someone you want them interested in you not some fake version of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:42 PM
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This is probably the best comment on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:28 PM
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I think most men don't really care about careers as much as other thing and career woman try their best to make their status and job a selling point. Or that my best guess I don't actually know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:48 PM
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Couple of options here Move to somewhere were you are exotic. Take the risk that is dating. It's always a possibility that your partner will cheat or leave you, even if you do everything right. Re gain your confidence and self esteem (Therapy, Plastic Surgery, Read a good book on the matter)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:18 PM
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No as a guy my option are limited even if I tried my hardest. I don't have the luxury to turn down women over stupid icks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:51 PM
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I here to watch idiots say stupid stuff and then decide if it's a troll or not. If the discussion seems reasonable however I will throw in my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:59 PM
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If either of my children became sex workers I'd be upset but nothing I could do about they would be adults in this scenario responsible for their own actions. I wouldn't disown them and I would still love them. I absolutely wouldn't care if my son or daughter hire sex workers regularly. As long as they aren't married or something I'd be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:01 AM
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I can't imagine man or woman outside of weirdo internet land who would be in a relationship long enough to get married and then say something like that no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:19 PM
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Men make terrible fathers. SO many absent, abusive, emotionally stunted dads out there. Women shouldn't even bother to have a child with a man when the vast majority of men do not add anything positive to parenting. So the existence of bad father means no man will ever be a good father? Bad Mother exist too does this mean that woman make terrible mother? Men are most attracted to youth. And what does pregnancy do to you? It ages you. Sleepless nights, stretch marks, loose skin, saggy boobs, hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:32 PM
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Do men do the same thing? I can't imagine a guy going "well she's doing everything right but I deserve better."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:54 PM
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Okay but how much "Better" can a guy get though if he "Does everything right on paper" and still isn't enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:56 AM
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This subreddit is where nuance and discussion go to die. You have people not interested in having honestly debate but rather people trying to one up the other gender in a increasing pointless feud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:48 AM
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Doesn't this wall concept only work if these men were somewhat desirable in the first place? Unless they were drowning in women then suddenly become unattractive men can't really hit a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:56 PM
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We are kind of in a romantic/social inflation. Most men today already have basic social skills. The average man today is easily able to make friends and be decently liked by his coworkers. And back then this level of social competence would have been enough to secure a decent relationship. But now a days you need to be extra charming and extra sensitive. It's become a game with a bunch of arbitrary rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:17 AM
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Most men's cluelessness in dating come from people deciding to act like morons when dating becomes involved. I have a Dad and I find most of his advice useless and outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:23 PM
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Like yikes. That dude is going through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:25 PM
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If Men had as many hoops to jump through as women all that would happen is not much of anything. Men would still be lonely even more so if they are turning down available women on icks. Women would not be affected by this what so ever. Women don't care when a man they weren't going to date or sleep with to begin with suddenly decided they were unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:42 AM
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Any sane person can easily ascertain that platonic and romantic relationships are different and that lack of romantic relationships when you want one couldn't simply be fill in with platonic relationships. I myself don't date because I don't really feel any strong incentive to do so. But I don't pretend that if I did crave it that me being close with my friends would fill that void or be confused at the idea that romance is different that being close with a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:37 AM
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Honestly OP it might be time to wonder if you're not gay or Asexual. Just judging from these replies. u/dumbbitchcas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:11 PM
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This is just for a dream perfect woman. I in no way expect this to become a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:14 PM
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Hair color doesn't matter Eye color doesn't matter average height for a woman decent weight and big boobs earns way more than me and is willing to let me be a househusband/dad I don't care No minimum but no number higher than 10 same as above Christian Obviously they'd have to like men same age or slightly older not into politics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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It's like 92% luck. so most advice wont be applicable or useful really. you just have to wing it and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:00 PM
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"Do it for yourself" But I don't care about any of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:08 AM
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women are already complaining that their male buddies/acquaintances would fuck them given half the chance Ignore them hit on your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:19 PM
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No, not really. Most women are normal decent enough people that they won't try to falsely accuse people of stuff. Not going out alone with women who aren't your wife however is probably just respecting your wife's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:23 AM
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Both are equally bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:18 AM
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You serious? Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:54 AM
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You can't fail as a man. And stop exaggerating most men can hold a normal conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:29 PM
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What's does that have to do with anything????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:35 AM
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If you have to put addendums or conditions on it you're not just as horny as men are. I know High libido women exist just like low libido men exist. But I'd still make those changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:06 AM
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People stop making other work hard for something they both want Men are less horny Women are slighty more horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:59 PM
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It doesn't matter who built it. The problem is that it's hurting people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 08:38 PM
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I don't even understand why it's a contest. I also don't understand even if that was the case feminism doesn't understand that misandry causes Misognist it would be in everyones best interest to stop it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 02:01 PM
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Putting in effort is pick me? Owari da gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:27 AM
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I don't understand what you guys want. You want women to go out with guys they don't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:01 PM
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If you have to put Buts and condition on it they don't want it as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:13 PM
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starfish 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:51 PM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:40 PM
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Correct. A true man can over come his most base desires and commit to a single woman even if he has a ton of options. To sleep around carelessly is hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:27 PM
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I love this sub this post right here is top tier comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:11 PM
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The sex will probably be better the more intimate you are with the person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:37 PM
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Who says they aren't? America has a ton of immigrants all the time. Maybe they just don't draw attention to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:06 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:51 PM
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I don't know why we have a culture were having kids means you can't "enjoy life".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah all that is great. All the stuff you said sounds cool for leading an enlightened and adventurous life. But needing to travel the world and study history to get a simply girlfriend is like spending years getting a masters degree in neurobiology to be a janitor. All of that isn't necessary to court women. You just need to be a normal decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:24 AM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:07 AM
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There is no incentive. If you personally want to be a slut who fucks a different guy every weekend then do just that. However some men care about body count and some women don't want to be passed around their city.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:21 PM
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No because men's standards can't really get much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:45 AM
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Gaming made you awkward? That doesn't track.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:21 PM
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Ask out women you know in real life. If she's interested then she's interested you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:19 PM
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Actually there are some positive to sex positivity. Men can express sexual desire without it being demonized in sex positive communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:55 PM
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I don't think it is irrational. People in general want some kind of exclusivity to their sex life with there partner and being #52 to your girlfriend isn't a good feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:12 AM
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What does Boring and not funny mean exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:18 PM
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There's also another another subset of young men who live on part-time jobs. They work a set number of days to cover rent and food and utilities, and then they spend their time chilling and playing video games or going for walks or whatever. Wait is there a problem with making enough money to live and then spending the rest of your time here on earth enjoying your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:29 AM
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I'm not ugly but that's a matter of opinion. I'm a 5'9 African American man. I don't like the taste of alcohol so you'd barely ever find me at a bar or a club. I mostly get along fine with women though I wouldn't called my dating life productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:04 AM
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Getting off the internet. I interact pretty normally with women in real life. Away from all the hateful forums are sexist rants it all just sort of becomes noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:51 PM
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No I want to be a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:28 PM
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No fucking duh but the discussion right now is about women specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:36 PM
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It depends on the woman. Some women just kind of sit there and let you do all the work other woman make there company worthwhile. Some woman are horrible company and some women are great company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:02 AM
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No. It sounds like a shit job. The sex is fake and probably not just the guy in orgasmic bliss. There a recording crew watching you and you got to stay erect. With my luck some awkward new fetish would take off and then my agent would be telling me to film "get shit on" porn or whatever. Also, I'm black so any video I'm in is going to be titled "BBC Mandingo monkey man uses his eleventy inch cock to pound pussy" and I'd hate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:01 PM
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You're scenario is flawed for me personally. I care about body count but it isn't the only thing I care about. So in this scenario where she is literally perfect would skew my answer. I'd be willing to date a high body count woman if she was perfect in every other way. but on an ordinary woman anything of 6-7 is a lot for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:31 PM
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Lately? This shit's been toxic since 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:24 PM
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You guys are over complicating this. men watch porn because men get horny and free, easily accessible nudes and explicit content are an easy way the scratch the itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:11 PM
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Asexual people get into happy relationships so I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:38 AM
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The controversy is more about her having sex with 5 other guys while on duty, while she was married thats why it was scandalous. Not just because she had a bit of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:21 AM
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first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:07 AM
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Not everything a man does is about ego. it's just as simple as 2 reasons It's younger women who like Older men so there easier to seduce. Most men that are dating younger are probably taking the path of least resistance. They think younger women are hotter. There is no nefarious secret most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:13 AM
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As a man is way too easy to be single for long stretches of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:15 PM
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Yes. This career shit is for the birds. I need to be a stay at home husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:16 PM
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If the bar was subterranean then incels wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:06 PM
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Never been more wrong. Me and my homies are the best of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:12 PM
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Fine lets cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:24 AM
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Opinionated - Ok isn't everyone? Hardworking - nice Career-oriented - not a huge fan but not a turn off either, unless her career is going to cut into snuggle time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:19 AM
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Maybe you're ugly? Im kidding I wouldn't mind a 5'11 chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:08 AM
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I believe women reject nice guys but not specially because they are nice. There are tons of nice men out there in relationships. It is however a sad truth that being a good person isn't much help in the initial first impression stage of dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:17 AM
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The red pill idea is that women won't like you just for being nice. This doesn't mean don't be nice. It should mean that other stuff like social skills and looks carry you. This guy is making a ridiculous claim that women love to sleep with rapist. Which isn't helped by his flair "proudly misogynistic"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:17 AM
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That guys an idiot what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:45 AM
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And I suppose men are just immortal are they? They age as well and their appearance also deteriorates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:18 AM
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that "clock" is only relevant if you want biological kids. And if a Man wants a kid and a woman his own age they they would be worried about the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:04 AM
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I agree dating for women is hard but men's dating is 100 times harder. Every problem women might have men also have plus more imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:32 AM
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Guys don't take anything u/LillthOfBabylon says seriously. she has never been up for a serious discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:17 PM
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You know in real life I don't think I've ever seen height be a major barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:25 PM
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Apparently most men, even the ones with experience are bad. So I just think virgins need to wing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:02 PM
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If he had stupid and vapid standards then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:22 AM
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It's just says to me to that she doesn't want to have random sex. Tinder is known for hookups so it's not completely weird for them to have no One Night Stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:45 PM
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Likewise I can't demand a relationship from women. My experience as a man I always held Zero cards in this. The ball is always in the other court. A woman having to be presentable is a pretty low bar come on. Your answer does make me think it's less about the gender. I think who ever cares less is the gatekeeper. I can't gatekeep commitment from anybody if I need a woman to let me into to gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:07 PM
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Men don't gatekeep shit. If I want a relationship with a woman she has to agreed to even date me first. I'm the one who has to impress her, woo her, pretty much convince her I'm good enough and then SHE decides to date me if I've done good enough. I as a man can't just go into a bar and say "I want a committed relationship" and get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:26 PM
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A lot of men do treat women like people and still get ghosted and rejected. It's not women's fault in my opinion. I think a healthy smattering of luck is what most dating is based around. Because nobody is perfect. the idea that the only reason someone struggles with dating if they are a weirdo who doesn't shower and constantly talks about sex is inaccurate. And men hear this all the time. All male dating advice is either 1 or 2 things 1) Change everything about your personality and habits to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:14 PM
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I mean to defeat this blackpilled nonsense that only Chad has a chance and that the average dude is out of luck if they don't got seven figure salaries or an amazing career. I'm didn't say date or fuck people your repulsed by. I said drop Superficial standards not standards in general. Like if I was like "I'll only date a woman if she has gigantic breast!" I'm not repulsed by small or medium chested women. I'm just being a prat and could easily have a lovely relationship with them. You are mista…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:48 AM
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I got it. We get these men out there in the field with some hope. This means both men and women dropping superficial standards. We de-stigmatize sex. Wanting sex as a man is seen as preditory and wanting sex as a woman is seen as being a ho. but non of those conception help anybody really. women should start making an effort to be initiators as well as men. 90% of dating issues would be solved if more women did the starting leg work. have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:48 AM
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Honestly, I see most people as my equal until they prove me wrong. The way I treat in equal however is with indifference. I won't insult you or assume your useless I will just let you be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:12 AM
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This guys an idiot. This would mean Women can't talk about dating women because they don't experience it. Also All men are different. If a women is telling me that ALL MEN CHEAT because her last 3 boyfriends have I am perfectly entitled to my opinion as a man to defend my character and so you a woman if the situation was vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:16 AM
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I don't use them. It's such a clown show on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:47 PM
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Nonsense. Sex work is real work after all. And there nothing gross about sex. You're just insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:43 PM
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I doubt she's going to interrogate your friends and family. And at the point you've got experience dating her if she meeting your folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:37 PM
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Lie. I treat this like dumbass job requirements that are just there because the employer is a weirdo. Lie about imaginary ex girlfriends IF and only if she asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:32 PM
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Incorrect. The flaw here is assuming women are perfect and that there is no flaws in the standards they hold. Like for instance if she one of her standards is that a guy needs to make $200,000 a year then this is possible. You and I both know that this hypothetical woman could easily live a long happy life is a man who doesn't make that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:35 PM
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Well women are people. And people can be just lovely. It really depends on the person in question. There is no answer that broadly applies to all women. Like I can't say "I like how women smell" because some smell bad. you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:28 AM
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Plastic Surgery to become a butter face. Also Personality max.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:20 PM
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The percentage of men who earn 100k+ is very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:13 AM
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I'm 20 and would love to date 30+ year olds. I'm a guy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:11 AM
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A) I'm already relationship material. I'm relatively fit, a good person, I can cook at a professional level, I'm funny when in natural conversation, I not against to trying new things. the only Work in progress is trying to settle into a more permanent job. B) I don't really go anywhere specific with the intention to meet women. That would make me feel stupid. I just go about my life and hope there are single women there. I know its stupid but hey, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:43 PM
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I live by myself in an apartment and this is untrue. It does not take that long to clean an apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:29 PM
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I'd stay friends with them. I wouldn't help with there cheating though. (Like lying that they were over my house.) I might even secretly warn their partner before things get serious. But I'd stay friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:47 PM
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And yet overweight, lazy, and insecure men will continue to exist in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:17 PM
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With men there is no risk with dating apps. If you get reject on a dating app you just don't see there profile again. Most men use it uselessly to broaden the net so to speak. You might get lucky and find a woman who wants to hang out with you! Women on the other hand do not need the apps at all and they get tons of attention if they use the apps. Dating apps favor women more because they are more likely to succeed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:26 PM
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Ok then . Whatever makes you feel safe at night. I'm staying away from dating for similar reasons. Imagine giving someone you love all your effort and they do this? Horrid. Apart of me does want to say that you can't really be scared to live your life and you got to get out there, but you really don't need too do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:48 PM
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You're right. Women should go for obviously dangerous men instead it's way safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:42 PM
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I don't understand how women would know the guy was bad at sex if he isn't having any. We doing this thing were we pretend women are psychic again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:43 PM
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it just means that those men in particular are idiots or are ignorant on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:19 PM
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No. Who said I agree with Bezos. Loyal women who don't cheat are definitely more desirable than a cheater. What even is your point here that men want to be cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:16 PM
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Achievements and jobs are attractive to women not men. But it won't set you back. You should probably just take a more active role in your dating life and ask guys out. Men biologically want to be leaders and don’t want to be challenged by an intelligent partner questioning their every view/move. A pretty woman can at least be shown as a trophy and is gullible so will follow along. Men definitely wouldn't like someone questioning there every move. But it's not an intelligence thing it's a that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:07 PM
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For me personally this wouldn't be a problem at all. In fact I'd only talk about if someone else mentioned or a prime joke opportunity about your height came up. I'd date a tall woman seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:57 AM
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Okay what if he lives with his mom and does his own laundry and mostly keeps to himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:08 AM
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-If he still lives with his mother past the age of 23. Most men are out of college by then and there is really no excuse not to be working full time and finding somewhere to stay, even if that means having roommates, it's still more of an independent lifestyle than living with your mother. I don't understand the logic. What difference does it make if he's living with room mates or his mom? Either way you can't support yourself on your own coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:37 AM
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Can I ask a different question? Why does anyone have to bring anything to any sort of table? Are we doing a business deal or trying to start a relationship. Ideally what would you even want a woman to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:22 PM
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Totally. Even if all my prospects were terrible dates I'd still be getting actual dates and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:34 AM
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It doesn't matter if you can't get to know someone because they never want to talk. I sympathize with women on this issue though you never know when someone is a psycho or a normal person. I think women should be the initiators more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:54 PM
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how are you suppose to get to know anyone without talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:27 PM
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Women don't insult people or lash out when angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:52 PM
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When people get upset they usually aren't thinking rationally. They don't insult you in the hope you change your mind. they insult you because they are upset and lashing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:50 PM
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Because I'm not asking for much. I just want someone whose company I enjoy. I don't understand why I have to be superman and do 50 things at the same time just for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:27 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And also only a truly bisexual person could say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:19 PM
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You need to retake sex ed if you don't respect the fact that having sex might lead to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:26 PM
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Consent to sex is not consent to parenthood. This is like saying "consent to eating is not consent to pooping."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:11 AM
4

I don't think people on this sub know or understand the meaning of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:34 PM
3

But it is considered. It's just that a high powered Lawyer and a Janitor that makes enough to support herself have the same amount of sway to it. And the divorce rape thing is weird to me. I'm not one of thoses guys who thinks like that and I don't understand it. Trying to factor that into your marriage means you're marrying with the intention of getting divorced one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:28 AM
2

It's not that a degree or a career makes you unsexy, it's just that it doesn't make your more sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:05 AM
3

If you accept that there's two of you in the relationship, and that you both have to make an effort consistently, then most of your relationship should be mainly smooth sailing. Yeah, but I can only control myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:34 PM
0

Nah I'm good looking. Maybe questionable photo taken but I look good. Tinder is bad moreso because it's way harder to sell yourself on tinder. It's like the women don't try at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:40 PM
5

LOL @ Download Tinder. Thats the last thing any man should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:06 PM
1

Both cheat at the same rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:31 AM
12

So this is like a for real post your not trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:29 AM
1

She doesn't want to date I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:19 PM
1

The second person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:02 PM
2

I want more than sex. I want a companion. If I was just horny I'd just stick to porn cause it's cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:42 PM
1

I am not. Single. Not to experienced with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:28 AM
1

No I'm already happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:21 PM
4

Well you failed on 2 fronts. 1st, Ops implication is that men think with their dicks. 2nd. your facts don't prove women are just as horny as men. It just proves the woman like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:55 AM
-2

That's not what is being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:23 AM
11

I don't understand why people are even entertaining this as a good idea. Men should NOT have the ability to abandon a child they made just because they feel like it. What kind of degeneracy are we trying to advocate for here? People KNOW that sex can lead to children. Men Financial Abortion would be easily used for men to hump carelessly and leave a heartlessly leave a bunch of fatherless kids with no support around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:04 PM
4

Can you explain to me why video games are an unproductive hobby but anything else is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:25 AM
11

When you don’t act super thirsty or horny to get women, and you just allow things to flow naturally it will usually work out. II agree with your post but I find this quote seriously untrue. Allowing things to flow naturally will just mean you stay single forever. You have to actively try with women. That doesn't mean try too hard but you can't just sit back and land a partner by existing, unless you're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:32 PM
1

Men aren't too picky like we keep saying I'mnot sure why this is a surprise that women don't have to be super models to lock down a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:57 AM
1

I don't want to try anal so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:56 PM
1

I disagree. Men are also shamed for wanting sex in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:25 AM
2

That is exaggerated online speak. A lot of women also, really want boyfriends and get upset when there dating life is unprofitable. How many men actually say women are like water. Most humans crave intimate connection stop this farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:41 PM
1

I want a woman I can be myself around and likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:00 PM
2

Why would you get cake and not eat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:58 PM
2

Holy shit , we've gotten to the point were desiring women is simping now. I'm done trying to make sense of all this stuff. I'm just going to sit here an laugh at all this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:15 PM
10

It take two the tango bud. Men that get these women pregnant and don't stick around are just as if not more responsible for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:19 PM
2

I like porn a lot. Sex Worker do a lot of hard work to keep us satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:01 AM
2

Library, movie theater, art supply store,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:37 PM
1

I disagree with men having any power over women here. If I as a man want to get married right now I first have to have women who agree to go out with me in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:16 PM
1

the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:32 PM
8

Just be yourself is great advice. Niceness doesn't mean unconfident or weak. Niceness, kindness and consideration should be valuable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:54 PM
2

5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:15 PM
4

Step 1: Hire prostitutes. Step 2: Repeat Step one whenever the urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:28 PM
2

I would stay married to her and take out any sexual frustation with porn. Assuming that the other aspects of our marriage are nice and lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:36 AM
2

It's neither. there are tons of men who watch porn and succeed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:13 AM
0

Listen I just don't want her to be the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:10 PM
2

I would love to bang cougars where do single ones usually hang out at?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:23 PM
2

It would be hypocritical to not want a woman who watches porn. A man who watches porn isn't displaying his body or commodifying his sex he's just getting off to some porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:44 AM
1

No its a made up revenge fantasy from incel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:07 PM
4

It just mean million dollar makeup and clothes doesn't make you more attractive most men won't care about something like that. A me probably doesn't even notice the difference between high class makeup and normal regularly done makeup. Woman just don't understand what men find attractive and what is just some stuff women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:44 PM
5

This is wrong as fuck. If you just stepped outside you would see a vast majority of women here in the US aren't landwhales. How ever they measure that shit is seriously flawed. And I don't know why you guys are trying to paint men like they are picky. The average women is a normal looking maybe she has a little fat on her but isn't straight up a fatty. And the "Men will rate models a 6-7" thing doesn't matter. Most of the time impromptu 1-10 ratings are pulled out of peoples asses. Also, Maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:39 PM
-8

No. The problem is largely exaggerated. Most people will be ok.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 12:16 PM
9

I think it's the opposite. Women are the employers and since Men are the ones who have to apply 9/10 times. Women wont hire men who would be excellent employees because of a small flaw or weird innocuous thing on there resume. The manosphere isn't upset that women aren't interested in them. They are upset that you have to do way too fucking much for a chance at mediocre relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:54 AM
1

Luck. thats it. To me female attraction is totally random.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:49 AM
2

The answer is more simple than you think it is. People just like sex. A man doesn't need to be "desperate with shit self esteem" to want to have sex they just have to be horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:46 PM
3

Whenever. I'm straight so I'll always say no. But unless I'm mourning at a funeral or something it's never a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:39 PM
1

It's all luck. Some people will have to try harder than others. because of location, culture, upbringing, and just straight up luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:07 PM
5

Why not a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:24 AM
1

anything over 6
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:16 AM
2

It's unfortunate people on the internet argue with there ears closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:27 AM
1

Yes this career stuff is for the birds. The work I do at home and also raising my kids is meaningful work I'd actually value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:12 PM
2

Not that hard the only hinderances are going to be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:25 PM
1

Firstly, It's not that I don't want a career focused woman. It's just not a huge plus. If you have a good job and stuff thats awesome. But it's not like that turns me on or anything. Secondly, I can understand not wanting a career focused woman if the man in question is also heavy into a time consuming career. Because you would pretty much never see each other. Thirdly, I would be A-Ok if dating a women who made more than me. But I'm not the issue here. She is. I know how women think on this iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:17 PM
1

Not often. Women could just wrangle in an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:15 AM
3

Because they are stupid. They think men cheating is about sex which isn't a big deal but if women cheat it's about emotion and they are falling in love with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:45 PM
33

To me it's kind of trashy It's illogical, you just admitted that its a lot of work and effort for a girls attention, so why pump and dump when you can pump and continuously pump for the long haul? Most of the time this is brought up it's a guy who lied and lead a girl on just to get in her cheeks when you could just be honest and get a casual hook up with some slut if you really just wanted some sex. No need to waste a decent girls time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:20 AM
1

But it's not like women don't control who even gets a chance to be picky about relationships. If a guy can't even gets dates he's gatekeeping 0 relationships. Ultimately women are the gatekeepers of both since they decide who even gets to that stage minus a few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:33 AM
1

I disagree. If you want to wait for sex because you think sex is an intimate experience that you don't just share with anyone then that should be acceptable. Woman have all the power here if they fuck something up with one guy they just have to wait a month or 2 and an other guy they can make jump through hoops will arrive. .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:31 PM
1

But he brings up a fair point. If she just hands it out on dates she's going to accumulate quite the count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:32 AM
15

I disagree. The bare minimum is still meeting a minimum requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:32 AM
7

"The Bar is in Hell" The Bar: - Must be amazing at everything - Must be able to support a family of 5 on his income at 23 - Must do at the work in courting and dating while I sit there and be pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:30 AM
1

Average looking best friend easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:03 PM
1

I get that but making friends is something that happens pretty naturally and without much effort. Getting a girlfriend is a totally different set us social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:54 PM
1

Making friends is easy but I've never had a girlfriend. The 2 are totally different skils.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:51 PM
3

Please this "Men only want 9/10 super models!!" thing is total nonsense we all know that men are easily attracted to all different types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:26 PM
1

I personally also want companionship and family and all that stuff. But this post reveals something interesting actually. It reveals this troublesome attitude that a guy who wants to have sex, (which is a normal thing to want) is somehow perverted or objectifying women. You posted this like wanting to have sex with women is somehow some filthy minded gross degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:29 AM
1

What if i want to be myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:30 AM
5

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:25 PM
6

As a man on here, reading shit like this is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:37 PM
2

You're imagining things. It's been the same about of slutty/conservative clothing for the last 24 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:35 PM
2

Just a little empathy I'm guessing. When a guy vents about dating harmlessly he's usually met with a bunch of reasons that strangers made up for why he's a loser. The best we can do is when someone makes reasonable complaints is "Yeah, that sucks buddy hang in there"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:25 PM
2

My love and affection. take it or leave it. I'm pretty handsome too but mostly the love and affection thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:28 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:27 PM
8

I'm young so this is a weird question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:09 AM
12

Men sleeping around spreading their diseases and their pair bonding ability is also really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:43 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with you though? Are you like a dickhead in person or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:30 AM
3

I agree with you that the idea of the average man is subject to loneliness for eternity is ridiculous. But saying the bar is low for men is something only a person with no perspective would say. Men have to do 90% of the work the get a mate and keep her around. All the couple you see you don't know their stories or how they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:26 AM
2

My advice. Make a ton of money and change everything about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:21 PM
14

No cheating is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:02 PM
1

Handsome but a 5/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:42 AM
1

I just don't like dancing. I'm not miserable or anything. Sunshine and children are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:02 AM
1

I don't like dancing so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:45 AM
6

Because sometimes masculinity mean you are a wallet that have no self preservation that will spend countless hour trying work for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:43 AM
5

Friendly, kind, likes to laugh. Kind of positive and bubbly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:59 PM
2

What? I just don't think jobs make the person. What defines a person's character are there personality, how much we enjoy each other's company and if they are always trying to get into arguments about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:31 PM
9

I'm not religious and going to church JUST to mack on some chicks seems highly disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:35 AM
3

Dating is more than just sex right? Or do you think the only thing that matters in a partner is there privates? You don't care about the person you're sleeping with beyond the sex? I'm not saying sexual attraction doesn't matter. I'm saying it's not the only thing. And that being nice in no way should disqualify someone from being sexy. The idea that "sexy person who isn't nice to you > Nice person who isn't sexy to you" is stupid in my mind when both should be equally unappealing. The "You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:22 AM
13

That's because jobs, education, and sociopolitical views are vapid nonsense that doesn't matter to a person's overall character. Being a banking manager doesn't make you a better person than a janitor and we all know this. In the context of niceness it's a personality trait that should be highly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:53 AM
5

Dating is more than sexual attraction though. You wouldn't date an axe murderer because she had a nice butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:11 AM
7

It would change nothing much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:09 PM
2

Wrong, I don't need more than 1 quality girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:02 AM
2

What makes you guys think they aren't all ready?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:56 PM
3

You know what they mean. Dating women is like walk out onto a land mine where the smallest thing will disqualify you. (they call them icks) Basically they want women to have good standards but not standards based on vapid stuff like height, money, and things that don't actually disqualfy you from being a good parnter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:46 PM
2

Nah there are tons of women that have crushes on men and stuf and later when it all comes out they will be like "Why didn't you say anything". Even a ton of women will admit they don't approach. Not to say it never happens maybe it depends on culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:40 PM
14

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:25 PM
1

It's about consistency for me. If she let other people sleep with her on the 1st date but makes me wait 10 months then thats a red flag for me. But I don't really expect sex until we both want to do it. There is no real time or number I'm expecting. It will happen when the moment comes. N count matters to me because I don't want to be someone 52nd it makes me feel like a number and that sex is just a shiny toy to her. Sex to me is an intimate experience so I wouldn't want my partner to have just…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:37 PM
3

Overweight and fat are 2 different things. Also tons of guy will happily date fat women. This idea that guys will only want super model 0/10 is totally a projection you guys are trying to push, then in the same breathe try to shame guys for not having any standards and "Humping anything that moves". Pick a side people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:09 PM
1

Were asking why cheating is devastating? Are we serious right now? Men aren't a different species than women are. cheating hurts the same. Both emotional and physical. Are you telling me the women would care if a man was banging some other woman but only to get off?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:11 AM
2

Um what? No, I think women find penetration degrading from how y'all shame male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:38 PM
-1

Wait this casual sex thing isn't a niche thing weirdos do? You guys are actually out here having sex with random nobodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:36 AM
0

Yeah of course they are men who don't watch porn. But tell me this why is watching porn the line between a man of good character and degenerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:27 PM
1

Not true at all. It would only be degenerates and asshole who would struggle. Men in general come in all types of personalities and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:08 PM
0

They want the standard to be high but not based on vapid nonsense. They want standards to be based on character and personality instead of money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:15 PM
3

Let be honest. Does this matter? Do we care if men and women are just single? If humans are too immature for dating lets have the human race just die out on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:55 PM
1

I would gobble that shit like tictacs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:48 AM
1

Lets not pretend that 80% of men re actually sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:33 AM
12

Too be COMPETELY fair. Men give dogshit advice too. Half the things people say are bs and don't work. "Just go to the gym, bro" Great now I'm girlfriendless and in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:17 PM
0

This is only a mental thing. Statistically speaking you are in more danger roaming around at night than women are. Men make up the victims of most random acts of violence and robberies and stuff This is a mental thing with women. THEY don't have to wait for the right guy to approach as they are human beings with free will they could approach whenever the fuck they wanted. They can actively switch between being passive and aggressive in this right I would say they have an advantage here. Again th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:05 AM
1

I would not take it. I would just not have sex with women who aren't worth it. Or I would use a good old fashion condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:45 PM
5

But I notice that most men making this post want super attractive, model-teir women. This is an assumption, men don't need super models to be attracted to a woman. that girl you saw at walmart can be the most gorgeous woman you've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:43 AM
2

If this worries you at all just lie about it if it comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:45 AM
11

If showering and showing up is all it took to have successful relationships and dating we'd have world peace right now. Approach is like 1% of the battle. But I'm glad to see more women open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:01 AM
12

Men are shit at dating because men have to do ALL the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:08 AM
1

I think it's the other way around. Men try to use all the stuff but it's not enough for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:35 AM
1

You want to go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:41 AM
1

I don't think Dating as a woman is easy but it is easier than not having any options at all. So yeah I take it. I'm not into casual sex already so not much difference there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:45 PM
2

Too elaborate. I'm not saying being assaulted isn't that terrible or that its an easy problem to deal with. I just think the benefits are worth the risk. For me right now it seems like planets are going to have to align if I want a productive dating life. I don't want you to think that I'm saying the harrassment or Sexual violence isn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:28 AM
1

There useless but i guess it's worth a shot you don't really lose anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:52 AM
2

I did consider all this. But if it makes dating a lot more easier it's totally worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:16 AM
1

Yes. I live in America so i would just carry a gun around for my safetly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:03 AM
1

It's fun I do the same thing only with nerd stuff. Like I look for post that say Superman is boring just to disagree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:24 PM
1

It's pretty entertaining to hear this many bad takes from both men and women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:18 PM
1

Humans are monogamous in pretty much every society and it naturally fall like that without outside influence. Also it's the best way to raise younglings and foster communities. Liking weird porn isn't really proof that women naturally need 50 guys at a time. it doesn't even make sense since she can only have 1 kid at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:50 PM
2

Yeah. As a guy I'm the one who has to initiate, but I can't come on too strong or too softly, I have to plan a good date, I have to pay for the date, I have to be the one who has to put on the charm. Basically it feels like I have to do all the hard work on top of the regular dating work that both Men and Women go through to even have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:02 PM
3

For me personally, it's that it feels like I have to jump through a million hoops and do everything perfectly to even land a date. It's too much work to try to date on purpose. the tiniest things ever will turn a girl off and have you ghosted and ignored. It gets to the point where the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:44 PM
1

I work in a bakery that is mostly women now. It's fine so far. What were these ladies doing to give you a miserable time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:41 AM
2

What makes being around men torture. What do they say or do exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:29 AM
3

Being around men is psychological torture? Why is that? I don't feel that way about women. If being around your dad or brothers or male cousins the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:11 AM
2

I think this is stupid. Your Ideal partner isn't you it's someone who compliments you. Like if I work 1 million hours a week I would actually not want her to work too much as well or else I'd never see her. Living with mom and not having a job can be deal breakers to you but not because you have those thing but just because that isn't attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:11 PM
2

For me, I find older women more attractive than 18 year olds. And I blame disney channel for this. I remember watching shows like Wizards of Waverly Place and Good Luck Charlie and the moms would be way hotter than the daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:39 PM
1

I guess were not so different after all. I'm a straight male so I don't know what type of bullshit men pulled on dates. So any complaints I have are going to be aimed at women naturally. I guess we aren't so different after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:43 PM
1

To answer your question in a serious manner though, It's not really about standards. It's just at least for me there is way too much pressure to be perfect on a date. Some women get turned off by the smallest things. You weren't flirty enough? Ghosted. You were too forward? Dumped. You offered to split the bill instead of just paying? That's a major red flag apparently. And it's a bunch things were I'm supposed to be a mind reader in order navigate the dating world. This is me personally though …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:12 PM
1

It's relevant to your question, it's pretty funny, and it's pokes fun at men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:53 PM
1

You never know for sure. But sometime you go on a date and the date doesn't even try to seem interested. She could in theory just be boring. But it's more likely that she wasn't interested and she just wants the free date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:46 PM
8

Well for me. Being used or a free meal than ghosted. Not having my feeling cared about. Them only calling me when they want something. And ghosting, it hurts my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:53 PM
1

Check out this song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llGvsgN17CQ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:10 PM
3

Courtney Ryan is pretty positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:23 PM
24

Internet dating advice is total dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:19 AM
33

It's very difficult. Mainly because noone teaches you how to go about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:10 PM
1

As a human being I too have friends and social circles with women in it. It's not normal for women to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:09 PM
1

This is the most fraudulent thing I've ever seen. Women approaching men is a huge rarity. It must just be your friend group as an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:15 PM
1

I wouldn't mind a little bit of hair. A lot of girls in my high school had hairy arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:30 PM
2

If you have to look in certain places for it, it kind of proves that women aren't as dtf as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:36 AM
8

Pretty simple actually. The men that say that stuff are probably morons
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:07 PM
3

I say this as a guy who hates feminism. MGTOW is one of the most most misogynistic groups I've ever seen. One in a blue moon a MGTOW men simply deciding to stop dating. Most of the time it's salty men going on about how women are resource sucking parasites. No one cares about guys like you and me who simply just don't bother with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:03 AM
1

It depends. If Sex is off the table because some freak accident made the nerves in the vagina make sex painful for them then sure if I like them a whole lot. But if she just is a prude or something then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:47 PM
15

Don't listen to the idiots here pretending that every man only dates 20-25 years. You should be fine. If you have trouble dating it just means you suck in some other way that isn't related to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:59 AM
-1

Then why don't you message something interesting first?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:20 PM
1

How is being able to connect with just about anyone over their favorite music artist as bad as gushing over fortnite? This is like me saying "How is being able to connect with someone over our favorite Video Game and discussing whether Video Games are art as bad listening to some gangster rap". My point being that Video Games are just as much as a hobby as anything else. Whether discussing the similarity between Jungian Philosophy and Dune or discussing about about how the animation in Cuphead i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:49 PM
1

Reading and being a music fan are arguably just as bad as video games. And I doubt you meet a lot of women cooking in your own kitchen. In Willie's position he gets to meet people who are most likely also into skiing why would he be boring in that setting? This would be like me going to an Art Museum and being bored at the guy who talks about the paintings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:28 PM
1

So you say willies hobbies are stupid and boring but why? Whats wrong with skiing and Video games exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:30 PM
7

This is like saying most women want a masculine protector that makes them feel safe but don't bring that to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:29 PM
7

What are your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:33 PM
10

I disagree with this. Men aren't that picky. like all. Men in general aren't demanding women to be high class supermodels that never do anything wrong. I'm not saying that women do either but the idea that men are just demanding these unreasonable standards that they don't match is a laughable take honestly. Most men just want a girlfriend whose company they enjoy and match of values.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:33 PM
7

yes, The problem with this question is men think they will be trying to be friends with a pornstar hot super model that's going to be playing cards with you in her lingerie. In reality even the horniest man will meet women that he isn't attracted to. and those same women will be good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:32 AM
0

Value is determined by the buyer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:20 PM
3

You made that stat up. No way 1/3 of women have an onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:09 PM
4

Other than: Mediorce sex objectification higher chance of std higher chance of unwanted pregnancy with an unsuitable mate ( even with abortions and contraceptive this is an annoying process for women to go through I hear birth control can mess with a woman's body in horrid ways) opening herself up to potentially dangerous men who will murder durder her The devalue hookup culture does to sex and you know that empty feeling inside when you're no longer horny but the sex still happened and you hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:44 AM
1

For sex no? But if she was like wearing a One Piece shirt or something (I love one piece) then maybe. Definitely not for sex just would be trying to make a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:09 AM
2

I hard disagree. Not that women are turned off by social awkwardness, but I disagree that most men today are indeed social awkward. I feel like were stretching this definition to include men who don't go out to clubs every weekend = socially awkward. Most men I know are easily capable of social interaction. which makes sense since humans are social creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:56 PM
1

Men too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:59 AM
1

I'd be super happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:32 PM
-1

No exactly blue pill but don't really disagree with there stuff and for me. SMV stuff is nonsense since beaty and worth are in the eye of the beholder. A women could be super ugly and vapid to you but be nice and warm and awesome to me. As people we all value different things. The wall is nonsense because of common sense. Women don't just turn 30 and then transform into hideous monsters. If a woman is very attractive at 24 she most likely is still very attractive at 30. Men having to jump throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:31 PM
2

Lets see 1. Stable environment to raise kids Tax and financial reasons A wife that you love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:38 PM
3

Are we entering a relationship or a business deal? Why does someone have to bring stuff to any kind of table? Why can't we just enjoy each others company?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:32 PM
5

I mean I'm 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:40 AM
1

yeah of course. But I'm a normal guy who usually doesn't start unnecessary conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:11 AM
1

It just means I don't want a women who challenges me on every little thing because thats just a headache not a relationship. There is no sinister bit here. agreeable just means she's not going to moan and complain about everything I say and do and try to start a fight over every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:07 AM
0

Whoever invite whom out should pay but her not paying wouldn't be enough to not called her back. a small misunderstanding especially if the rest of the date went well. Call her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:13 AM
3

Maybe if he's batman. 25 years have the edge with women his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:53 AM
2

I'd easily outcompete any 30 year man trying to troll for women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:44 AM
1

Missionary is the hottest sex position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:57 AM
1

They shouldn't lower their standards. But standards should be realistic. I think we struggle with what average really is. The average person's finanace are probably fine, the average person has life and dating experience and the average person is a socially awkward nerd. Average and lackluster are 2 different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:19 AM
8

some men don't want to go through the effort of getting a girlfriend in real life It's laughable to think you can get a pornstar girlfriend because you hit the gym. Watching porn doesn't mean you aren't confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:50 PM
4

Same can apply to not wanting a high body count girlfriend then. I'm not judging you I just don't want to be number 52.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:47 PM
1

You kind of contradict yourself Why would I judge someone for having sex or lack of sex, it's their body If she has slept with anyone I know personally, like if she used to smash my best friend even if it was casually, I'm not tryna wife her, no judgement but just can't do it. But My deal breakers are: Racist (I'm black so not really gonna work at all) Is a prostitute Bad hygiene Severely Mentally ill Does drugs is violent is older than me by 12 years is younger than me by 5 year Thats all I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:43 PM
2

Men should be judged on their history as well. Why would we ignore potential partner history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:12 PM
4

Nice is not the bare minimum for behavior. 23 years of life with a lot of that in school and work, I think people severely underestimate how many people aren't nice. People can be rude, selfish and mean to everyone. Niceness is a seriously great quality. It alone shouldn't grant you a partner but it is a huge plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:02 PM
2

The amount of effort that goes into it is irrelevant. the reality is having sex with a ton of women then wanting your partner to have 1 or 2 ex partners is hypocritical and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:28 PM
3

Nobody should be surprised by this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:12 PM
1

it's clear men don't want women to have fun. Ok so what is the woman supposed to be doing in college or early 20s according to you? Nonsense, Some guys just don't want to date who uses sex as a toy. A lot of people don't mind. No disrespect to people who hook up all the time or promiscuous people. I just don't think we would be that great together because of different value. If she's really smart and focusing on her career, making a lot of money most men are intimidated by that. I'm fine with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:28 AM
4

Casual relationships don't seem good or fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:13 PM
1

no no, redpill is very stupid or at least the version I see here and on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:31 PM
1

Physical preferences - Be mildly attractive, No need to be a specific race, I would prefer a woman with a nice chest ( Doesn't have to be massive but obviously a HUGE plus) and a full head of hair. physical requirement - Over the age of 20, taller than 5 feet, hygienic, no major disfigurement, and lastly you need to be biologically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:24 AM
1

Orgasms go Brrrrrrr. I'd guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:34 AM
4

There was a thread here the other day that most women answered they get approached by men regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:53 AM
1

It's less about the number and more about the attitude towards sex. I wouldn't want someone who detaches intimacy from sex. Like for me personally you don't need to be a virgin. But, I don't want to be your 50th lover it's just kind gross to me personally. Also, I DO think men who sleep around a ton then want to settle down in their 30's are hypocrites if they get mad that women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:34 AM
1

Date the very tall women. Your kids will have tall genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:43 PM
2

I feel like it not a crook. Like guys like big boobs but it gets to a point were it they aren't proportionate to the body it's starts too be a turn off. I figure this is the same. and a lot of women who say it are being honest, atleast when they mean it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:57 PM
3

I don't care about these type of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:06 AM
1

I think it's great advice. Not for getting with women but good advice for not pretending to be something your not and having to put on that facade Everytime the gf is around. You guys say its terrible advice but the alternative is that you put on a persona forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:40 AM
3

It's not a right or a privilege. Both lead to unhealthy views on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:13 AM
6

Onlyfans girl but thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:52 PM
1

Of course not. I said it's manageable not ignorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:11 AM
7

Teach people that sexlessness is manageable and is not really a measure of your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:49 PM
10

Sex is an intimate experience that you shouldn't just do with anyone because you're horny. I think it's really vulnerable and personal. It's not a need or anything people can be healthy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:46 PM
1

No, but at least there will be another outlet to vent sexual frustration so I all for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:36 PM
8

Because the Red Pill men on here are frauds that don't know anything about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:00 PM
1

If everything else was perfect then nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:20 PM
1

Nah both are called out equally imo. If I answered "Tits, ass and a good H/W ratio" people would definitely call me a pervert or that I objectify women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:11 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:59 PM
2

Yes, I wouldn't like either. It's really gross to have a bunch of sex partners. For both men and women but I only date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:54 AM
1

Well thi is only true if you're playing games with your woman. Don't play these games.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:07 AM
2

I feel as though this is an honest question. Women will meet with tons of men who are egotistical, or only interested in sex, or just suck. So then they ask this and the mean it since the men they meet aren't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:19 PM
1

It depends on how far into to the relationship we are. like if this was like after a couple months or something then maybe. But I'm not breaking off a 7 year relationship because of a little body fat. We'd talk about it but not just dumping her to the curb if she gains x amount of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:59 PM
3

Pedestalization occurs because these hormones go crazy. People have always liked attractive people more and simping happens among the best of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:45 PM
27

I'm convinced people who push this 80/20 nonsense never go outside or have met actual women. The 80/20 is only a thing online in places like tinder where vapidness is at a all time high and you can only really judge people by their photos. Average men date average women all the time. Also, there is the issue of who decides what is a top 20% percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:10 PM
2

I don't hate the opposite sex unfortunately my voice isn't loud here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:12 PM
3

Women are fair to refuse Blowjobs and Anal if they don't like those things. Thinking those are mandatory for good sex does seem like being pornsick. That being said I don't think people who want to spice things up with their partners in general are pornsick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:59 PM
6

Problem being is the other person doesn't know if you're ghosting or just haven't checked your phone yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:34 PM
2

the 80/20 is only really a thing on the internet. I don't believe in it at all. That being said, dating is 100% hard. Between finding someone whose Single, Attractive, likable, then doing a lot to impress a date. It takes more than luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:43 PM
1

What does that even mean. Porn is fake sex so how would that play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:05 PM
1

As a male virgin right now you are 100% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:39 PM
0

Men and Women aren't the same in general but are not so different that we can pretend each is a different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:34 PM
5

Anything past 8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:44 PM
1

No that sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:27 PM
2

Standards are too high when what you are asking for isn't realistic in the slighty. Like wanting a career woman who spends endless hours at work but also has enough time to hang out with me and is Supermodel hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:05 PM
5

No one should have to lower there standards. It just leads to dating people you're not attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:03 PM
10

You need a job to survive. You don't need a partner to survive or even be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:08 PM
10

Yeah and that's just something they have to live with. What he says is right. The alternative is dating someone you don't like to not be alone which is a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:03 PM
1

Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:26 AM
5

Yeah this subreddit is total ass. I came here to laugh at all the dumbassery I see here from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:01 AM
3

This dude is apparently Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:57 AM
5

Well you're not dating "Most women" so that fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:48 AM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:28 AM
2

I mean I'd think promiscuous women don't care they just sex with someone not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:03 AM
3

Both, age 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:22 AM
1

I don't have many women friends. Mainly because in my area women aren't usually into the same stuff in into so it's hard to find common ground. I never go out of my way to not have female friends they just aren't into video games and One Piece or whatever. So the most I ever have is a female friendly acquaintance. I, however made a female friend with the intention of sleeping with her. Not relevant to me but I also don't think making friends with someone you hope to date makes the friendship un-…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:56 AM
1

Nope what turns women on is a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:32 PM
1

Let's be honest here, Do we care? If someone is bad at dating they have 2 options really. the first is to hope they get lucky and catch some kind of break. And the second is to become someone that others want to date. We can't force women to be attracted to someone they don't want to be with. We can only hope that these men vent their dating frustrations in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:56 PM
3

It's not like I'm friends with a ton of Only fans girls so Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:25 PM
5

All of these seem valid concerns but I don't understand how a man approaches changes anything. If a man approaches he can still assault you and stuff. Being the approachee only really protects you from number 7. And that is only if they see him start things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:02 PM
2

What reasons are those? I'm not being antagonistic I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:36 PM
0

No. All that other stuff taking off isn't killing monogamy. Most people still prefer to have a relationship with a single partner for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:01 AM
87

I mean who cares. I don't approach women because dating seems like a tedious nightmare. If women actually care then they should start asking people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:16 AM
2

No, If Free Porn doesn't threaten OF girls why would the Red Pill? Most people probably see OF subs as simps desperate for female attention when most are probably normals guys who are horny with disposable income.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:42 PM
2

Low libido. That way I can't be control or have sex be held hostage. I feel like that would suck a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:49 PM
15

FDS is dumb so this is a bad idea Men are too horny to hold back and start have way to high standards like this. the second a cute girl shows up we will be bending these standards instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:19 PM
17

I wouldn't say I would feel inferior to my woman if she made significantly more than me. It's more like I'd be worried SHE saw me as inferior. I know how some women think and it would make me a little worried that she sees me as some kind of bum even though I know I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:51 PM
7

No, both are equally as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:58 AM
11

The Red Pill rheoric is like 80% nonsense and self projection. I wouldn't be too worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:40 AM
1

Both are tied for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:11 PM
7

Lol I love it gets smaller Everytime. By next week Women will only want the top 00.003% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:48 AM
1

Really? Why not a guy who dated a SW?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:35 AM
1

Wmw what values are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:27 PM
2

I'm a hetero guy so... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:04 PM
8

As in he was dating a richer woman and being her boytoy? That's pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:40 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:41 AM
2

Not sure men being lonely means checking out of society. These men still go to work and probably go out to fuel hobbies then there are still apart of society. They just not fuckin and going on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:37 AM
2

We don't stop this problem. It's not really a problem. Real life has always had an "Adapt or die" Element to it. These men will either adapt or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:29 PM
6

There are too many of these dumbass terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:10 AM
2

It depends on the person and what there love language is. Men are different than women but not that different. A huge thing about the incel community isn't just that they can't have sex, or else the lot would just hire prostitutes and be done with it. They also feel super unloved and not worthy of attention which is never a good feeling. Also if you visit a subreddit called r/DeadBedrooms, you'll see plenty of women get very upset at their man not having sex with them. Scientifically speaking hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:08 AM
1

I think its a stupid thing to complain about. I mean the alternative is people asking out others they aren't attracted to which would be disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:54 AM
1

I mean its fine for me. I wouldn't think too much of it. If we are both into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:25 PM
1

I wouldn't do a thing. People will figure it out or just stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:11 AM
5

Nothing they just want to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:20 AM
1

LOL Men being desired has to be some sort of syndrome or unnatural, bizarre occurrence. Red Pill beliefs are usually nonsense but I'm starting to see why they think the way they do. Why don't the women here find someone not on campus or just stay single. We tell the incels this and it applies to everyone just because you want a relationship doesn't mean you should get one. If no one on campus is good enough for you then just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:26 PM
1

I think women are the gatekeepers of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:49 AM
4

People can be hypocrites. I personally think people should sleep with each once both parties are comfortable with it not after a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:05 AM
2

I've been to Culinary School and it simply wasn't enough for any of the jobs I had applied for. They wanted "experience" and I can't get a low end bakery job for experience because they don't pay enough, I need to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:00 AM
0

Video games are normal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:16 AM
10

Pretty much, athlete astronaut, maybe a movie star. I myself wanted to be a Baker but it doesn't seem to be very viable at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:11 AM
5

I mean I'm not. I don't hate women or anything but Relationships and trying to maintain one seems like a huge pain in the ass. As a guy who likes women, I'd have to initiate and hope I'm not coming on to strong then, I'd have to impress her on the date, Pay for everything, Try not to be too sexual but still keep her interest. And the worse part is I could theoretically do everything right and still fail miserably through no fault of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:13 PM
1

No she gets turned off by the idea of dating someone younger than herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:47 PM
1

Male, it's never happened. Relationships don't just fall out of the sky and land on your lap you have to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:51 AM
1

i got banned from r/feminism for saying that it's easier to pick up younger women than older women since if a woman is even a little older SHE gets turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:16 PM
13

I think Women should be more picky, I don't believe in the 80/20 nonsense outside of tinder. All kinds of Men in real life end up in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:42 PM
4

I mean atleast you have financial independence. That's more desirable to me than a girlfriend tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:17 PM
3

Let's see. I know tons of poor people who get tons of girls, Average height people in relationships, Women over 30 who are attractive, Men wo aren't obsessed with sex, and lastly no makes fun of virgins in my real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:23 PM
-2

I don't know. I mean why would it be fine to pay for a friend but not a hot date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:20 PM
-2

Usually the man asked the woman out. It's just how it is. But who ever is the asker is whoever should pay. It just so happens that 90% of the time thats the man. Imagine if someone insisted they take you out then made you pay for some of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:55 PM
7

Are you trying to argue that women are a hive mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:30 AM
3

I wouldn't say that's shallow. Noting wrong with wanting a sane and mentally healthy partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:35 PM
1

Barb isn't a villain at least I didn't think so. She just isn't interested in Bob and that's fine. I feel like this sentiment like most starts from a reasonable place but then spirals out of control as more radical people repeat it to a harsher degree. The problem most men had with woman's standards is that it has so many working way too hard just to get their foot in the door. As a man I have to initiate, make a good first impression, not be boring, try my best to spark her interest which seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:15 AM
7

Blue Eyes: They just kind freak me out I can't explain. Women younger than myself: I just think it's weird maybe because I'm 23 so women younger than myself are VERY young
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:01 PM
0

This 80/20 thing is exaggerated...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:25 AM
1

Well men in real life have girlfriends and wives, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:26 AM
1

I guest it depends. If the man is satisfyed hitting on strangers til they get sex every once in a while I guess they didn't lose. But not sure how realistic that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:05 PM
1

I personally think a lot of male frustration comes from pressure and all the nonsense with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:52 PM
15

Women aren't psychic , they generally don't know a mans abusive til it's too late. It's not like abusive men walk up to women and bars and go "If you date me I'll knock your lights out then gaslight you about it."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:55 PM
1

What part of a GF provides different kinds of affection, validation, and support than a friend does are you not understanding? Your friends can give you all of that but you still want it from a Girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:44 PM
12

The 80/20 rule only exist on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:11 AM
23

Red Pill beliefs are so ridiculous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:12 PM
1

"Because she wants a family and/or romance, something friends can't provide.". It's the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:13 PM
0

Yeah, I know. I didn't describe being desperate. I'm just saying having good friends doesn't stop you wanting a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:53 PM
4

No one would agree to this, and anyone who says they would is a liar that would regret it after post nut clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:34 PM
0

There's a difference in the affection a friend provides and the affection a loving girlfriend provides. The girlfriend one is heavily sought out because it's in our biology. Just having friends won't stop that loneliness. Heck, Having friends that you hang out with regularly that are in relationship of their own, can make it feel worse. Especially when said friends opt to hang with their partners instead of you. Men are humans just like woman. A women having friends doesn't stop that desire to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:57 PM
0

Bringing back slut shaming and including men in that would be a dream honestly. But I agree on all the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:23 PM
5

Friendly girl is friendly. No one did anything wrong but better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:12 PM
1

You guys and these terms I swear lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:57 PM
1

Well since we age at the same rate I can't applied this to any woman who adopts this attitude since they'll always be older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:11 PM
1

Lol sorry if I disappointed you mate. I was offering up some perspective. Woman have a a lot choosing power though so if the Older man/ Younger women thing is happening more often it makes sense that Younger woman are choosing these men over ones their own age no? But to answer your post. Red Pills/Mgtow push that agenda because of less than favorable view towards older women. Younger women are prettier, sexier, less likely to be caught up with multiple children from failed marriages or whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:44 PM
1

In my experience. Women are the ones with the choosing power, and I usually notice women say thing along the lines of "To me you're such a baby!" If you're even a day younger than they are. So I guest it's women who are attracted to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:39 AM
1

Porn is agruably worse than just masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:04 PM
1

Cool but no one has zero standards.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 11:49 PM
4

Promiscuity is gross for either gender in my eyes. But I will say its super hard for men to be promiscuous so, I understand why people are amazed at a guy who can get multiple women to agree to sex.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 12:39 AM
-6

I haven't seen them much. Most western games I've played have "realistically" designed women.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:29 AM
-10

I miss sexualization though. I wouldn't mind a balance.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:06 AM
3

it because the frustration they hold is relatable.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 02:20 PM
1

I first I thought he was the worst but when I watch his videos he doesn't say anything hateful. I think he just makes his title inflammatory to attract views but then say level headed stuff. Most of his stuff is about not playing games with women who aren't worth their time. I've only watch a couple videos though so maybe I'm wrong.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 02:32 PM
3

MGTOW is hated because the people that call themselves MGTOW usually say some pretty disgusting stuff regarding women. It's like what happened with Incel most are harmless that just a frustrated but the radical ones are the ones that made the term mainstream.
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 03:23 AM
2

Well Women getting knocked up is more of a commitment to them then it is as a man because theoretically you could just leave women don't have that option really. Also Women are at a higher risk of get raped, abused and mistreated during sex. This is in addition to stuff like STDs and STIs. And naturally Men are usually the aggressors in sexual relationships so Women naturally or more selective of potential mates.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 05:49 PM
2

They do. It's just that sex is usually more dangerous for a woman than it is for men. It's why Women are more careful about sex than men tend to be.
/r/MGTOW213/02/20 04:08 PM
1

Isn't that the couple from the meme?
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 04:36 AM
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