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| 1 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTR“Disney/porn fantasy”? These are two extraordinarily different fantasies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 12 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Conspiracy theorists always have the right idea but somehow get very confused along the way to making a point. It’s that mysticism wire that gets crossed and mixed into the equation, sorta like astrology girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 20 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Top answer is basically a more articulate and less schizophrenic version of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.That way of thinking is, in the most literal sense, treating women as a commodity. Do you see what I’m saying now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.Women are not “rewards”. Nor are sex, or relationships in general. That entire way of thinking is deeply flawed, for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.Lol relax. No tricks here. “Too many men view money as a right and and not a privilege, and that’s a huge problem.” “Too many men view healthcare as a right and and not a privilege, and that’s a huge problem.” “Too many men view food as a right and and not a privilege, and that’s a huge problem.” “Too many men view luxury items as a right and and not a privilege, and that’s a huge problem.” Yes, I’m sure there are some nouns that don’t fit smoothly into this sentence, but that doesn’t take away … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men view women as a right and not privilege, and that’s a huge problem.Lol. The irony of this statement is that you are still, by literal definition, equating women to objects by making this claim. Literally switch the word “women” in this sentence with any inanimate object and it still makes perfect sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Experiences dating conservatives or leftists - which ones were more sensible in character?all fair points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Experiences dating conservatives or leftists - which ones were more sensible in character?I feel like for Gen Z & millennials there’s incredible pressure to publicly identify as liberal in some form or another whether implicitly or explicitly (ie, everybody posting pro-BLM content during the George Floyd era out of peer pressure) and this confuses this whole question. I live in a large liberal city so I’m sure that plays a factor here but I honestly don’t even know what “conservative” means anymore. Conservatives themselves don’t even seem to agree on this question. They seem to all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Experiences dating conservatives or leftists - which ones were more sensible in character?Where did you hear this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot of "sluts" simply experience spontaneous sexual desire & "good girls" have responsive or contextual sexual desireThis is by far the best description of the differences between male and female sexual desire that I’ve ever heard. Fascinating stuff and very insightful. Thank you for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 12:30 PM |
| – | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?If you're being honest with yourself about that, then that puts you in an extremely rare category. Most people don't operate that way, especially women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?I agree. That doesn't contradict anything that I said though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:36 AM |
| – | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?Because of the fact that in heterosexual relations, men and women are on opposite yet complimentary ends from one another: a "yin and yang" dynamic if you will. One analogy that I think works well is bees and flowers, with men being the bees and women being the flowers. In order to be successful in dating, women need to be "attractive" in the most literal sense of that word, where you need to be *inviting* and *enticing* in a way that draws others towards you. The most direct way to do this is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?What do you get validation from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?No, the point of validation is not necessarily that the other person values you. Copied & pasted from Oxford languages, validation means “the action of checking or proving the validity or accuracy of something”. Consensually fucking lots of women proves the accuracy that lots of women want to fuck you. Therefore, men who fuck lots of women will naturally be many times more confident when approaching or DMing a woman who they’re attracted to. Therefore, the cycle perpetuates itself and those men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?This is by far the biggest mistake men make in dating. Like, literally #1. This thought process is at least half of why incels exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:30 AM |
| 10 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?Well put. The single most important factor for a man to succeed in dating is confidence. That’s literally it. The biggest player I’ve met is a 5’6” scrawny unemployed NFT bro. The only full-on adult virgin who I’m friends with is 6’2”, dresses incredibly sharp and works a finance job with a 6 figure salary. The difference? The first friend I mentioned has completely untouchable confidence that comes from a genuine place of being extremely secure with himself. The second friend I mentioned has ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?It’s not so much that men are physically hornier than women (although there is still some evidence of that, as horniness is one of the natural effects of testosterone), so much as it is that sex is less available to us. Especially NSA sex. Casual sex with men is the lowest hanging fruit on the entire tree of human intimacy. Women are still very horny, they just often take sex for granted in a way that men will never be able relate to. The reason why sex with men is in higher supply / lower deman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:19 AM |
| 7 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?Makes sense. Most lesbians and gay-leaning bi girls I’ve been friends with seem to have a bit more of a natural and intuitive understanding of the male experience than straight girls do. Just how gay men do with the female experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | 3rd richest man in the world btw LMFAOOOIt means that there’s an excess surplus of food available in post-industrial capitalist society. That’s it. Don’t let this current online pop psychology fad convince you that you can read minds. You can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | 3rd richest man in the world btw LMFAOOOI literally didn’t even say anything at all about myself or what I’m into lmao, I’m just reading off statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 10 | 3rd richest man in the world btw LMFAOOOWow. This is the biggest cope I’ve seen in a while That is a lot of words and pseudo-psychological naval-gazing just to project your being in denial that men are the most physically attracted to women in their 20s, no matter their own age (according to research done through anonymous polling) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?This conversation obviously isn’t going anywhere. But you’re wrong. Incel literally means involuntarily celibate. That’s it. That’s just what the word means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Because as adult men with a bit of life experience, we know that women do this, and we learn to work around it, but that doesn’t mean that it should be that way. On a personal level, life is all about learning to navigate the world as it IS, not as you want it to be. But this isn’t a self-help subreddit at the end of the day. PPD exists mostly to discuss issues at a society-wide level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".“Teachings” literally just means “things which are taught” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Women can be incels too, it’s not just straight men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?I mean that’s literally what incel stands for, and both the term “incel” and the “Incel community” you speak of were started in the 90s by a lesbian woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?You’re still attaching your own personal meaning to the term no matter how else you wanna spin it. Incel in the literal sense means involuntarily celibate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who want traditional women, are you willing to be traditional men?No lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?That doesn’t mean anything, other than that people who use the term know that it’s insulting and thus prefer to reserve its use for people who they believe are deserving of the insult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Not wanting to be an incel doesn’t make you not an incel. Literally no incel alive chooses to be an incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Once again, you and other people like you might do that, but that’s not what most people do. Most bitter misogynists aren’t incels, and most incels aren’t bitter misogynists. There’s overlap, sure, but those are two different things at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.You’re right. While some people might just use this sub to vent about their personal problems, I think overall the idea is that we’re all trying to figure out what an ideal society would look like in regards to sex, dating & gender dynamics. So while this post is 100% correct… the “also is assertive and confident” part is silent This should NOT be the case. A lot of the “men” you hear making these sorts of “nice guy” complaints are actually young boys, still in HS or even younger. Even if they’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".All that being said, this is pretty much a classic example of what OP is talking about. A lot of why young men like David end up in these situations is because they take feminist teachings at face value due to not having enough life experience yet to be able to properly contextualize them. Minors are both A) extremely impressionable and B) don’t understand adult life situations. The extent to which today’s adults seem to want to expose children to feminist teachings is misguided, particularly in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".I think you guys are both right in that he probably could’ve navigated this situation differently for the logistical sake of his own interests in being with her, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that what she did also exhibit some poor social skills. Dumping an S/O within the exact same week as a death in their family is poor moral judgement, especially since in this case she asked him to open up about it. And at least according to his word, her specific reasoning for dumping him was the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Words can be used by all sorts of different people to mean all sorts of different things. Doesn’t change anything. That being said, the majority of people who use the word incel are generally referring to its “actual definition” of a person who doesn’t have sex and isn’t intentionally going out of their way to avoid sex. The primary example of people using it the way you speak of is women using it as an insult to offend a man who they don’t like. It’s like how “f*ggot” is sometimes used as a gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?The overwhelming majority of incels don’t want to be incels and are offended by being called incels. Your friend is not unique among incels for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?An incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ IN-sel, an abbreviation of "involuntary celibate"[1]) is a member of an online subculture of people who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.[2][3][4] This is the actual definition the word “Incel”. Discussions in incel forums are often characterized by resentment and hatred, misogyny, misanthropy, self-pity and self-loathing, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against women and sexually active… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?Are we still talking about the specific example in the OP? If not then how young are we taking here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?”Incel” isn’t used to refer to every involuntarily celibate Maybe not by you, but that doesn’t change the objective fact that that’s the actual definition of the word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:17 PM |
| 3 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?It doesn’t matter whether or not they would throw hands. That doesn’t make them any less wrong. Hating incels doesn’t make you any less of an incel. Most incels hate incels. Being “chill” doesn’t change anything. In my experience most incels present themselves publicly in a way that I would generally describe as chill. Incels aren’t actually a subculture. That’s a narrative created by journalists who are too old and out of touch to actually understand internet culture. “Incel” literally just mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:50 AM |
| – | Female clitoris is a feature not a bugLeast toxic PPD user | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:38 AM |
| 3 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?And autism in particular is SUPER common among incels, both diagnosed and undiagnosed. There is a huge correlation between autism and being an incel. I’m pretty sure there are even statistics on this. This should be fairly obvious if you’ve ever actually spent time around incels IRL. Most of what actually makes a man an incel is social isolation and the lack underdeveloped social skills that naturally arise from that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:37 AM |
| -1 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?The “rare” case of mentalcels? Excuse me? Bro almost all incels are at least somewhat mentally ill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Incel literally means “involuntarily celibate” The “regular virgins” you speak of are incels. Misogyny might be common on online incel forums but that doesn’t mean it’s actually part of the definition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:18 AM |
| 3 | If you could rid the world of the qualities in men that turn them into incels, would you?Incel literally means “involuntarily celibate” Your fat happy friend is an incel. Whether you’re a “misogynist” or a “cool dude” is completely irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Dating in small town medium city or big city?This honestly sounds like a generally accurate description of Gen Z as a whole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Dating in small town medium city or big city?Mind if I ask what city? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?Eh, idk. Probably depends where you live. I live in NYC so big suburban house parties weren’t much of a thing growing up, but this is also arguably the nightlife capital of the US, so you see people of all ages going out and partying on weekends. I would say that here the most common age range for nightlife is people ages 21-34. Personally I go to a lot more parties in my 20s then I did when I was in HS. But I was a bit of a nerd in high school and I’ve generally been a late bloomer with a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 07:09 AM |
| – | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthGreece is in Europe White = European | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Western women are hypocrites when it comes to Age Gaps in datingThey’re “femcels” which is different from incels “Femcel” broadly just refers to bitter women who are unable to get what they want from dating. It might not be an accurate use of the word “incel” but the idea is that they’re women so you have to translate it to their experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Western women are hypocrites when it comes to Age Gaps in datingIt’s also very different historically. I was shocked to find out that the whole “half your age plus seven” rule not only has been around since the 1700s, but that originally it was referring to the MAXIMUM age a wife should be (it was also gender-specific originally, regarding the ideal age for a man’s wife). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated?People lie about it in public, but there are actual stats on this where people responded anonymously to polls. The average n count for millennials is 8. It was 10 for Gen x and 11 for boomers. With Gen Z there isn’t enough data yet since a lot of zoomers are still in HS or even middle school, but it will probably follow the current pattern and be lower than millennials. My guess for older zoomers is that it’s somewhere around 5-6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated?I guess you don’t hear from all the zeroes This is it exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Why aren’t incels religious?Who’s Daniel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?People with friends, or literally anyone who enjoys socializing, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:58 AM |
| – | Behold the dilemma of ""involuntarily celibate"" men :(. All that screeching about women only wanting Chad is clearly uncritical projection by men who only want attractive women themselves more than they want anything, it's been blatant projection all alongSaid this already in response to someone’s comment but it also applies to the original post: It’s not a healthy relationship to date somebody who you aren’t actually attracted to, and attraction is an involuntary instinct that you can’t control. Blame porn, mass media, & celebrity culture for giving both men and women alike an absurdly unrealistic subconscious idea of what a normal female body looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:54 AM |
| – | Behold the dilemma of ""involuntarily celibate"" men :(. All that screeching about women only wanting Chad is clearly uncritical projection by men who only want attractive women themselves more than they want anything, it's been blatant projection all alongIf you’re involuntarily celibate, you’re an incel. That’s what the word means. How or why your celibacy is involuntary doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Gentleman, give up the love fantasy: if you’re not a user, you’re being used.Ironically this kinda adds to his point. You see this dude as inferior to you and therefore you probably wouldn’t fuck him lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 6 | Gentleman, give up the love fantasy: if you’re not a user, you’re being used.K-pop stars are much richer, more socially influential, and conventionally attractive than the women who get wet over them so this doesn’t disprove anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:36 AM |
| – | Behold the dilemma of ""involuntarily celibate"" men :(. All that screeching about women only wanting Chad is clearly uncritical projection by men who only want attractive women themselves more than they want anything, it's been blatant projection all alongIt’s not a healthy relationship to date somebody who you aren’t actually attracted to, and attraction is an involuntary instinct that you can’t control. Blame porn, mass media, & celebrity culture for giving both men and women alike an absurdly unrealistic subconscious idea of what a normal female body looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:34 AM |
| 15 | The biggest problem modern men have in dating world is an inability to talk about their problems. Communication is important for relationships, and most men can’t communicate.Incel = involuntarily celibate That’s all that it means. It doesn’t actually have anything to do with hating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.Depends on how you define “old” I don’t have links handy at the moment but I’ve read statistics that show that mens’ average perceived attractiveness peaks around their late 20s & early 30s, while womens’ peak around their early 20s. Women don’t prefer “OLD” men per se but they do often prefer men to be older than themselves by a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Men in a nutshellWhile I definitely can’t say that this post is inaccurate, you gotta understand this attraction is an involuntary physical instinct. You can’t control who you’re physically attracted to any more than you can stop breathing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?Can you elaborate on what you mean by “fucks them up”? Also, is there any research you’re basing this claim on? Or just your personal observations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?There’s definitely nothing “traditional” about letting your 7 year old son get twerked on, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?That’s actually a pretty interesting point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?I don’t see anything “troll-ish” about this comment. It’s a valid point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Why are men okay with their young sons being sexual but not the other way around?This pretty much sums it up right here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 0 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?I’m sorry but this page has become beyond delusional. Has nobody in this sub ever once in their life gone to a bar or a party?? Some of the posts here are just legitimately out of touch with reality. Sure, men approaching women randomly is less socially acceptable than it was 20 years ago, but it still happens all the time. Time and place. Ideally you need to be in an environment where people are all relaxing and just there to have a good time (ie not at work or on public transport, not somebody… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:55 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Statistically speaking, most people still meet their partners IRL. I’ve also read that real life meetings are correlated with longer-lasting relationships. At the end of the day tinder is really just a hook-up app. Best case scenario half the time is you message a girl during the perfect window of timing when she’s feeling super lonely or she’s bored and on Xanax. Real life is just, well, real life. It’s organic. Ideally, just start going out with your friends more. Go to public places where oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?I just don’t understand how on the internet women seem impossible with outrageous standards but IRL, the average guy seems to have more of a chance if the stars align for him. My good man, you answered your own question right here. Online dating for women is like shopping on the wish app: the amount of cheap thrills available everywhere is almost overwhelming despite how disappointing the product usually is. For men, it’s like gambling at a slot machine. The odds of hitting the jackpot are incre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Damn I need me one like this tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Doesn’t matter, still got laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Women do often have this weird way of living vicariously through the men who they want. The type of man a woman is attracted to usually says everything about her that you need to know, because that’s exactly what she aspires to be herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?THIS. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?One of my best friends from childhood is 6’2” and works a finance job with a 6 figure salary. Incredibly dapper fashion style. Good looking face. Still a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I think the distinction that’s very important to point out here is the difference between vulnerability and weakness. Vulnerability = an NFL linebacker telling you to punch him as hard as you can, and then laughing at how he can’t even feel your punch Weakness = a physically frail man doing the same thing but getting seriously injured and needing immediate medical attention Women feel comfortable and connected to you when you show vulnerability, but not when you show weakness. A more literal ana… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?The best example of you being an outlier based on all your comments here is the staggering amount of articles, memes, etc complaining about “men using women as therapists”. This concept is so ubiquitous in modern media today that it has become a meme in and of itself. The verdict is pretty clear. Women want their men to be towering beacons of strength that they can hide behind, and this same dynamic being reversed on them is a turnoff to the point where it often makes them feel less secure in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I think there is actual evidence that shows that feelings of attraction are less visually-based for women than they are for men. Don’t have the source on hand though. The difference is that for men, visuals are literally everything as far as raw, base physical attraction is concerned. For women it’s obviously still a huge factor, but if it was the entire foundation for their feelings of attraction the same way that it typically is for men, then women would make the first move more often than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:35 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I’ve never in my life heard of women having guests over more frequently. Where are you getting this information from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?Bruh can you elaborate a bit on how you afford to support a wife & child working 15-20 hours of your choosing and how you exited the globohomo while you’re currently commenting on a Reddit dot com post ? I’m gonna guess that you live somewhere rural with a low cost of living & are prob old enough that you don’t miss out on real life social events by not using social media. Still very curious as to what kind of job you must have tho Extremely happy for you. Just genuinely curious as to how you ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness?I would say overall 6-7. I’m part of a very active social group that’s large & close enough that it’s a true “community” and not just a “clique”. Most people in it are friends I’ve had for 5+ years, some of them as long as 10. So socially speaking my life is built on top of this very sturdy foundation. I still get plenty of opportunities to meet new people, but usually find myself circling back to this main group. The perfect example of where I’m at in life is that as I’m typing this I’m waiting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementNot true for the millennial generation. The vast majority of millennials are currently in their 30s, and only 39% of them have children. The likelihood of that number going from 39 to 50% in the next 10 years is fairly low, especially considering that only 60% of Gen X (people currently around 45-60) have children. With Baby Boomers (people around 65-80), that number was 75%, after it had formerly been 90+% for every generation before them. There’s already been a precipitous drop in childbirth r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementPeople really are underestimating this. The numbers are already there, and the conclusions are pretty clear. From what I’ve read only 39% of millennials have any children. Most millennials are now in their 30s. The average age to have children is still currently 27. So while the % of millennials with children will probably go up slightly overtime, it will most likely remain under 50% no matter how old millennials get. So we are already living in an era where less than half of child-bearing-age p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:22 AM |
| 10 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?A huge part of the problem is that men in this position are terrified of being publicly honest about their situation. Maintaining the illusion that we’re all naturals with dating and have tons of options is important for making a good impression on women, and thus, no man ever publicly admits to any of his frustrations. The fear of being labeled as an “incel” keeps us all in check, and so men with trouble dating are slowly becoming the silent, invisible, complacent majority. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How has the one-sided dating game been able to go on for this long?Question for all: is America uniquely, particularly bad for dating from a man’s perspective? I’ve only ever left the US once and it was to go the Canada at age 6, so I have no experience with this. It’s something that’s always tickled my curiosity. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn.Yes. This and also the fact that when men are scrolling thru a dating all while horny they will basically swipe right on anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Found a piece of a condom in my plate's vaginaSince this probably means the condom broke with that guy, definitely get tested. And if she isn’t on the pill then she should get a pregnancy test, although that of course isn’t your problem as it won’t be your kid she’s having (thank god). Yeah this is pretty disgusting even aside for sexual morals. How the fuck did she not notice that and clean it off? Just keep her as your last resort if anything. Definitely not worth developing any kind of personal relationship with a girl who probably fucke… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 14 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)Women tend to have more of a sense of where they stand looks-wise than men do though, because if they’re very conventionally attractive all they really have to do is be somewhat active on social media and the men will swarm. Same thing also goes for being socially outgoing IRL, although IRL attention isn’t as easy to measure against others as online interactions are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 8 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)It’s definitely not rare at all, because as a man, if you keep to yourself all the time, it really doesn’t matter how attractive you are. Shy men are almost always late bloomers when it comes to sex and dating, even if they’re very conventionally attractive. A good friend of mine who’s autistic has had a similar experience to this with OLD after years of struggling with women IRL. This is for sure a quite extreme example though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Did you experience a HS romance/love? Do you feel like you missed out on HS romance/love?No Yes, absolutely 26 Male I went to a Catholic all boys school. I then went to a really artsy college, wanting the opposite of my high school experience. I was miserable and directionless there and dropped out after finishing the first semester of my sophomore year. The college I went to was much more of a hookup environment and I was completely unprepared for this, having gone into college as a virgin who never dated. This, as well as some other bad things that were happening in my life at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"This is very true. However, even if it isn’t a proper use of the actual scientific term, a big part of this “dimorphism” strategy is to embody gendered traits which aren’t just visual. This is where the terms “performative masculinity” and “performative femininity” come in. Both men and women do this in roughly equal measure. Due to the backwards ass gender-neutralized upbringings that most zoomers had, men in particular were never taught the significance of how effective this can be. Athletic m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it just an American thing to want a woman who doesn't work?The red pill is extremely not mainstream in America. Do not ever convince yourself that this subreddit represents any sort of “normal” group of people in any geographical location. The whole concept of TRP is that it is the opposite of mainstream thinking on dating, thus why it uses The Matrix “red pill vs blue pill” analogy. The vast majority of American men prefer their girlfriends to have a job, especially if marriage is a consideration. For the vast majority of American men it would be finan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Why Don't You All Go MGTOWI believe MGTOW typically involves not having sex. If MGTOW means not being in a monogamous LTR, then most male “players” are MGTOW, although very few of them spend enough time on the internet to even know what that means lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?This is exactly what the concept of hypergamy is. Women want to be as strong, independent, etc as they can possibly be. Part of how they achieve this is by finding a man who is more strong and more independent than they are to guide them through life. It effectively is a form of “using” someone else to achieve your goals (which is exactly why there isn’t really anything wrong with men “using” women for sex: we all use each other and it’s okay so long as it’s a mutual exchange). If a woman wants … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Men wanting a feminine woman = “men bad” Women wanting a masculine man = “women good” Pretty sure that’s the analogy being used here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Are men who are effected by the unfairness of sexual relationships socialists of the dating world ?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Definitely no excuse on her part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Lmao. Idk, I mean that’s a pretty extreme and specific example. I’m talking more about like having an actual breakup discussion where at least one person is like “yeah I’m 100% done with this” and the other person gets some chance to respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 3 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Yes. Almost nobody who virtue signals online is actually a good person for example. Those two things seem to be almost inversely proportional to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Do you mind telling me what meds he takes? Especially for ADHD if there are any specifically for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 8 | Does having tattoos (as a man) repel good quality women?This automatically begs a broader question: is it ever really a bad thing for a woman to think of you as a player/bad-boy type? My answer from my own experience would be no. I’d be glad to hear some varying opinions on this though. I think women really just about always prefer a challenge. To be a player/bad boy is the same logistical approach as a man that playing coy / making a man chase you is as a woman. You’re automatically raising your SMV/RMV by not being “too easy”. To find a “wild man” … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:27 PM |
| 5 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?It’s not my moral code. It is an extremely standard one to the point of even being cliche https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Two_wrongs_don't_make_a_right Once again, I just don’t see what certain individual RPers condoning cheating has anything to do with the particular couple in question. There is no legitimate connection there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Yeah that’s fucked up. I’m sure there are individuals within RP culture who cheat or condone cheating in certain instances, but I’ll state again for emphasis that it isn’t directly connected to RP ideology. It’s just like how there are feminists who cheat, and some who might come up with some twisted way of defending it in the name of feminism / liberalism, but that doesn’t mean that cheating is a part of feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Also honestly I’m a pretty active member of all the red pill subreddits and I’ve never once seen anyone defend male cheating in the name of the redpill. That is certainly not a mainstream part of red pill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Good to know. I was diagnosed ADHD and HS and this explains a lot 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 9 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Oh man 🤦🏻♂️ No disrespect to you personally since you aren’t the girl in question. But the assuredness of “Of course he doesn’t know” is just... ouch 😭 I’m definitely never getting married. Poor man 🙏🏻 God rest his battered soul | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Obviously you can, but of course that doesn’t mean it’s morally correct to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Are ADHD and alcoholism correlated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 3 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Straw man. When did anybody in THIS specific thread defend male cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWWe must be from very different backgrounds then, because I’m in my mid-20s and nobody in my immediate circle is married and this is a fairly large group of people I’m referring to. Out of literally every person I know I can only think of 5 married couples who are around my age. One of them is openly confirmed to be a green card marriage, as it’s between 2 girl best friends who aren’t even an actual lesbian couple (one of them is straight with a BF 🤣). Then 2 of them are people I haven’t seen in … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:13 PM |
| 4 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Is there any research at all showing ADHD being correlated to promiscuity? I’ve never heard of this before. It does make sense, but for cheating it is absolutely not an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?No, if she broke up with him in direct words beforehand it’s not cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 3 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?Sorry to hear about your experience. For future reference, a girl directly saying anything like “I’m a good girl” is definitely a red flag. Stay the fuck away at all costs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 4 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?This specific man in your story did not cheat. In what way are random strangers on the internet who call themselves “red-pilled” related to this couple and the morals behind each of their respective decision-making? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 7 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?2 people in a relationship aren’t necessarily going to always be on the exact same page as far as whether they’re “exclusive” or when exactly a relationship starts & ends. Those are not objective, measurable, or tangible/concrete things and thus are extremely easy to lie or bend the truth about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 6 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?The alcoholism most likely is much more connected to her cheating than the ADHD is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | What's your experience with women who were raised by single moms? (no dad in picture)This is spot-on. Lmao | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 12 | What's your experience with women who were raised by single moms? (no dad in picture)In my experience they tend to be very bitter towards and distrusting of men, and yet somehow despite that they still make terrible decisions when it comes to dating (it really is funny how it tends to work out that way). They mostly don’t seem to be able to function that well in relationships. I should specify that these observations are of girls whose parents are separated and particularly if they’re estranged. One of my best friends dated a girl for 3 years whose father died when she was young… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 7 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWFor women it starts in their late 20s. There’s basically a full 10 year gap in when our attractiveness windows peak. Even the studies which are more generous towards women confirm there’s at least a 5 year gap. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:09 AM |
| 0 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWSometimes they’re getting married to older guys though. As a guy there’s honestly no rush; studies show that on average our perceived attractiveness doesn’t start to fall until our late 30s. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWThat’s the whole point of what he’s saying though. “The wall” refers to girls who are single after 30 | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl didn't bring money to dateTell her to Venmo you. If you don’t trust her to do that, don’t see her again until she does, and also try to get her to send it before she actually leaves if you can. But yeah, in this situation it really does sound like she intentionally wanted to block any possibility of having to pay. Girls like this are a complete waste of space. Don’t waste your time on them. Hopefully the food wasn’t too expensive at least. In general I would try to avoid dates where there’s a possibility you’ll end up ha… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yep. Literally all it takes is giving things a little bit of thought to come to this conclusion. Women know about this phenomenon better than anybody, but because they don’t want men to stop giving them attention, affection, gifts & money, etc, they do more or less intentionally hide this information from men. That’s effectively the entire basis of the “red pill” concept. Once you figure this out about women, it’s like you’ve hacked the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yeah this really does feel like secret information that’s intentionally withheld from men. That’s essentially the whole context behind the “red pill” concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 36 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?This is so important and more men need to understand this. And at the same time, women need to understand the position this puts us in. I remember being really jarred by something a female friend told me where she described a guy as a fuccboi and then was like “and what do you do with fuccbois? You fuck them.” This is why dating advice for men seems so appalling to women. Because it is objectively, strategically advantageous for men to be fuccbois. Men teach each other to be fuccbois, because it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP perspective on NoFap? Has anyone here tried it & seen positive effects on lifestyle, mental health, game, etc? Anyone tried it & been disappointed? I’d love to hear some anecdotesWhich one would you choose? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | is tinder even worth it in 2021?Tinder as a guy is totally useless if you don’t pay. I pay for platinum right now; the difference is super noticeable. If you don’t wanna pay that much I’d say at least try gold. (Plus really isn’t worth paying for so don’t bother with that; the unlimited swiping combined with not seeing your likes is an addictive and frustrating combo.) Of course, there’s obviously plenty of other ways to meet girls so don’t get discouraged. Remember that tinder is a completely different ballgame altogether fro… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 09:37 AM |
| 7 | I can't believe we have steeped so low as menThis is a very under-appreciated truth. Plus at least with prostitution the men are actually having sex, not just beating off alone in their room while watching other men have sex. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?There’s a natural lack of warmth and compassion inherent in OLD due to the fact that: A) the person you’re talking to is a stranger, who was not introduced to you through someone else that you know, and B) you are communicating through looking at 2D pixels and tapping on a keyboard. There’s no way that can mimic the natural warmth of face to face conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 01:42 AM |
| 6 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.That's not true at all. I rarely if ever pay for dates unless it's something small like a few drinks at a dive bar or a six/12 pack if we're at her or my place. I think the most I've ever spent on a woman without her paying me back is like $20. I probably don't quite qualify as a "chad" either. If you sense that a girl is a gold digger, avoid her at all costs. A defeatist mentality won't get you anywhere in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?You need gender roles to get the penis in the vagina because getting the penis in the vagina already is gender roles in the first place. You can’t “insert” a vagina inside a penis. You probably don’t ignore gender roles anywhere near as much as you think you do. And it wouldn’t make a difference either way, because ignoring them doesn’t make them go away, they’ll always be there whether you choose to consciously acknowledge them or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?Because the very existence of penises and vaginas is already a gender role in the first place. Gay sex and pegging don’t produce babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women?100%. Spitting straight facts over here 💪🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?It is equal though; gender roles are complementary to one another. Equal doesn’t mean being the same. The vast majority of where gender roles come from is simply the nature of reproduction. Being against gender roles is essentially being sex-negative as well as even being effectively misanthropic by association. The biological purpose of sex is to reproduce, and reproductive sex requires a penis being inserted into a vagina, and thus, requires there to be gender roles. Not all sex is traditional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women?Yep, agreed. It’s all just a distraction from what’s really going on. Total media manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women?Lol do you personally know the commenter who you’re responding to’s parents? This is a hilariously specific assumption to make. I’m 25 and my parents are both over 65. So yes, they are boomers. Most of my friend’s parents are boomers as well. A few older Gen X moms here and there, but even that’s more just true of my younger friends. Generally speaking millennials have baby boomer parents and Gen Z have Gen X parents. This sub is split roughly 50/50 between millennials and Gen Z, with a few youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women?Fantastic point; I really wish this was highlighted more. Today’s feminism is more of an “online pop-feminism” similar to when people talk about “pop psychology”. Most women who call themselves feminists don’t really know much about the writings which laid the foundations for their ideas. It’s some really wacky shit— these women were completely dysfunctional human beings who effectively just projected their personal problems into bizarre world views that were truly just a bit distanced from how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?I don’t see it as a vicious cycle. What’s vicious about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:24 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?It’s very socially acceptable for women to pursue, and has been for a while now. You could even argue that it always was; current western pop culture seems to obsessively confuse people giving logistically practical advice as “shaming”. The real reason why they don’t is simply because they don’t have to. And as far as being told not to, they’re told not to in the exact same vein that you just did a few comments ago. Women simply just don’t have much of a reason to pursue men sexually. Casual sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:21 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?Since the vast majority of men make it very obvious if they are attracted to someone This is way less true than you think. The majority of men don’t do this, because the majority of straight men experience at least some degree of attraction to almost every woman they walk by who’s between ages 18-40 and isn’t overweight. The amount of men you’ve known for sure are attracted to you is actually a tiny fraction of the total amount of men who were attracted to you. The rest of them just kept it to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: "If he doesn't want me, I don't want him." Just why?It’s an unfortunate consequence of the fact most men do the initiating. Funny how cyclical that is, because really the only reason why we do all the initiating is because we have to. That’s just simply the only way that men get to experience intimacy. Taking the initiative isn’t optional for us. You could literally be the world’s most attractive and eligible man, but if you never made any moves on a woman, you would die a virgin. This is not an exaggeration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Internet porn is an extremely new phenomenon. We have yet to see it’s true long-term effects on society at large and I have a strong feeling it won’t be a pretty picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Really good point you made there. The comparison that I always make when it comes to porn is to remember how hard the tobacco industry fought to push against the idea of smoking being bad for you. Up until the 60s, a lot of people even thought that smoking was good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | [Need Advice] How to cope with being short and having male pattern baldness?The literal biggest player I know is 5’6”. He’s just socially smooth as butter and doesn’t give a fuck. Get your head into the right place, that’s what’s important. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | [Need Advice] How to cope with being short and having male pattern baldness?Bro you ~ d o N O T~ need to make good money to get laid regularly lol. The exact same thing you just said about lifters is equally if not more true of high-status career men. If rich men all had an easy time getting pussy then the entire escort and sugar baby industries would cease to exist in their entirety. The money thing is only really true for marriage if you’re into that, and even in that case you have to be really careful to avoid gold diggers. Even women who aren’t consciously gold digg… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | [Need Advice] How to cope with being short and having male pattern baldness?My man is 24, if you aren’t joking then you’re thinking 10 steps ahead lmao. Way too much unwarranted investment towards girls if you’re thinking that way | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?At the end of the day, men and women often have conflicting interests, because we’re different people. Our perspectives and life experiences are opposite and complementary, especially when it comes to dating. FDS & TRP are the exact male & female equivalent to each other. We’re all just trying to figure out our place in this post-sexual revolution digital age which seems to be a very confusing and difficult one to navigate for many. For much of human history, monogamous marriage and the nuclear … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I’m 30 pounds overweight right now and have a much easier time hooking up with & getting attention from women than I did in high school when I was in very good shape from running track but was super socially awkward. Bees may not learn to fly, but humans certainly do (analogously speaking obviously). Almost all skills related to the adult world are learned rather than inherited. Dating skills and other social skills are no exception to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I 100% agree. That’s why I said it’s really important for men to just stop giving a shit what people (especially women) think as they get older, within reason. I’m just pointing out that when men actually help other men (as I always try to do when I can, including on this sub and in various other subs related to the “manosphere”) it typically looks very different from how feminists and many other women picture it in their heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Yeah I never said you’re wrong about how important fatherhood is, I agree with you on that. I’m just pointing out that it doesn’t have to be an absolute death sentence. There isn’t much practical use to being fatalistic in regards to one’s personal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?People really exaggerate the money thing, that’s much more true for getting married later on in life than it is for casual sex. When girls are young they really just wanna have a good time. A forward, fun, and decently attractive guy will do way better than some socially awkward type who just happens to be rich. Guys like that are mostly just gonna get played by girls looking for sugar daddies. The “provider” role is not inherently connected to anything sexual. Don’t be the beta buxx guy. It’s n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?And I think it’s at least 95% true, because I didn’t say that “having nice colors” is entirely unimportant, it’s just less important. This “6-6-6” shit OP is referencing is retarded. The one close friend of mine who’s still a virgin is 6’2” with a good looking face and he works in finance. He’s just really awkward and has no confidence. The biggest player I know is like 5’6” or some shit lol. He gets laid all the time with beautiful women left and right cause he’s social and just doesn’t really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?It also fits with your username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I mean I don’t go around calling myself a player or Casanova, but it definitely helped for me. If it wasn’t my male friend group I’d almost definitely be an incel. I think that it’s really helpful to generally be a cool and social person in non-sexual contexts first and to have that down already when you go into the dating world. Also, being around other males means you’ll be in masculine environments which is great when children are young, because all children are products of their environment.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Well presumably at least one of the men in the friend group has a father or older brother. Any male guidance is better than none. Also man, let’s be real here, how many men in this sub do you think were recruited into gangs growing up? How many incels in general do you think had that sort of upbringing? I’m gonna go ahead and guess absolutely zero, or at least extremely few. You’re barking up the wrong tree here, I don’t think gang culture is a problem for many men in this sub lol. That being sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Literally anywhere. The world is your oyster my dude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I like your optimism a lot better than Fafner2’s cynicism. If nothing else, your mentality simply has more utilitarian value to it. Complaining alone isn’t really useful to anyone. However, we are talking about different issues here. There’s no shortage of men in STEM fields. This post is talking about men who struggle with women. The problem is that feminism to a certain degree is withholding men from actually giving real advice to each other on this topic, because almost any genuinely useful a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?I agree about fatherhood being important but in this case I’m talking more about having a tight knit all-male friend group. It’s such a benefit to one’s life, way more so than a relationship imo. Technology was already causing us to social distance long before covid. Video games and porn are incredibly isolating habits to have. It’s unfortunate that for so many of this generation of men, that’s the only world they even know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 10 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Yeah, I mean if your hypothetical son asked you this question it would probably be around age 10-15 so you’d wanna be a bit careful. Once again, even as an adult, there’s really nothing particularly useful about having that information as a man. Especially since what women are actually attracted to is not the same thing as which men are successful with women. The fact that men are in the initiator’s position almost 100% of the time makes our experience extremely different from that of women in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?That would be seriously great advice to give! Men in this sub really forget how important it is to be social if you want to experience intimacy as a man. It’s really not optional for us no matter what you look like or how much money you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 35 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?Just for the record, what you describe as “basics” is not basic at all; it’s extremely rare for parents to have that conversation with their sons, especially mothers. Most parents (once again, particularly mothers) just stick to your first paragraph. Perhaps this will change over time. That being said, any boy over age 13 should know that his mother is the absolute last person you’d ever want to ask for advice on this. Like literally THE last, so this whole post is a little bit goofy to me. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?I’d stay friends with them. But man, this shit is getting out of control in my opinion. I’m genuinely concerned for these people’s emotional well-being even post-transition because the stats show that many of them remain depressed or end up in a worse place mentally then they were before. Apparently reverse transition surgeries are skyrocketing in demand at a similar rate to initial transition surgeries. Even if the DSM-5 stopped considering being trans a mental illness, it is still very much co… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you make assumptions about couples and people you see day to day, based on your theories here?A few minutes? Just by looking at someone? That’s a blind leap of faith no matter what. But you can definitely apply these so-called “theories” (which are really just passing observations of the sort which can’t ever fully be proven nor disproven) to people you know within your broader social network, including those in your outer orbit if you’ve known them for long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 7 | ''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing?I think that a lot of the West’s newer social problems which provide the foundational context for the very existence of this sub would significantly decrease in their severity if more countries were to legalize prostitution. It’s so funny to me cause when you stop and think about, having sex for money is perfectly legal here so long as it’s filmed and uploaded to the internet for the entire world to see. Personally it makes absolutely 0 sense to me that fucking a prostitute would have any strong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureIn actual political practice, it almost always is. If you’re talking about communism as purely just a theoretical philosophy, then that’s a whole other topic of conversation. My analogy is referring to the economic policies of various countries and comparing those to the varying cultural norms of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyIt’s the exact, on-the-button female equivalent to the red pill. I don’t hate it either. I don’t hate anything; hatred is irrational and has no utilitarian value to me. But it is eye-opening as a guy, for sure. It justifies and legitimizes everything that TRP claims in its entirety. TRP wouldn’t exist without FDS, and FDS wouldn’t exist without TRP. Men’s and women’s interests don’t always align. Conflict is part of life. Simple as that. No use complaining, just take note and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureI’m not the one making the opposing argument, I’m only just finding out about this now myself. Are there not several comments with links to the letter she wrote to the French government? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureCan you elaborate on that? I’m not 100% sure what you’re saying here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | In the mirror, I think I look like an 8.5/10. In pictures, I feel like a 4/10.Take more pictures! Literally no one looks good in every photo. Trust me, even really hot girls will look bad at certain angles or in certain lighting. Experiment a bit, a little trial and error goes a long way. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureMarriage as a written legal contract yes, but not specifically monogamy. Your analogy with capitalism works much better in societies where polygamy is legal (as in plural marriage, not to be confused with polyamory). A policy where you could own one single house and only that house isn’t exactly a capitalist one, at least by the standards of western capitalism. Of course, all modern economies in advanced countries are somewhat mixed economies, but a limit on how many homes one can own would be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureAre you familiar at all with NAMBLA? Allen Ginsberg was a vocal supporter, and hopefully I shouldn’t have to explain to you how significant of a thinker he was towards 60s counter culture. Camille Paglia was as well. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_American_Man/Boy_Love_Association | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:56 AM |
| 0 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureThis is a French thing, not a feminist thing. So what are those like, mutually exclusive or something? Lol When we use the phrase “western culture”, France is one of the primary countries that is considered to have an influence on what that actually means. Particularly post WWII. I mean, do you know how many countries speak French? By your logic The Rolling Stones are “just some English BS, this is America we don’t care about that”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureIf you know as much about feminism as you seem to be claiming to, you should definitely understand the significance of “the second sex”. It is one of the foundational texts of second wave feminism, and generally one of the most influential feminist texts of all time. Ie, the polar opposite of “fringe”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?It shows your profile more in general. You’re automatically going to be getting the top number of views regardless of how many people are swiping right on you. It’s a pretty noticeable difference. Aside from getting more matches as a whole, I also end up spending a lot less time swiping than I used to. I swipe thru like 10-20 profiles a day max. The endless swiping feature is part of what makes Tinder addictive IMO so this also made it generally more enjoyable to use for me. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 12:39 AM |
| 3 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureI don’t agree with that analogy because true “communes” aren’t really a thing in modern urbanized societies. Also, communism might eliminate private property in the context of land ownership, but it’s not like people literally don’t own anything. Robbery is still illegal. People heavily exaggerate that aspect of communism. Overall, the existence of private property is not the primary distinction between communism and capitalism. If you zoom out as much as possible, in a bigger picture sense the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Are dating apps just broken now?I know with tinder at least, as a guy you basically have to pay for it to make it worth it. It’s mostly just hearsay but a lot of people speculate that they intentionally make your profile less viewed over time in order to get people paying for it out of frustration. Tbh I pay for tinder platinum, but I do actually find it’s worth it. Been getting some pretty hot matches lately, to the point where I can’t message them all cause it would just be too much to keep up with. I’ve also gone through se… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureI’m aware | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureI never said there was. “The Man” was a slang term. No specific political ideology was implied by its use, other than a generally anti-authority stance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 8 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureIn the US, yes generally speaking. That doesn’t in any way refute my point. The left / right wing dichotomy was originally defined by economic policy, not social issues. People misuse the terms these days but that doesn’t change their original definition. “The modern left” you’re referring to is left-libertarian. There isn’t any direct ideological connection between economic leftism and social libertarianism; many would even argue that true leftism is actually more authoritarian by nature due to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 4 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete Failure“The Man” was not a concept specifically related to feminism. It was a slang term used as the general counterculture’s personification of higher authority and cultural conformity. It could refer to the police (“pigs” as they were often referred to at the time), it could refer to your parents, it could refer your school principle. Anyone who makes rules was basically “The Man”. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I just completed the most successful salary negotiation in my life and wanted to share my experience with you.Why the hell was this removed? This could be super useful advice to people working entry level jobs such as myself | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureFair enough. If you replace “the patriarchy” with “The Man”, then that is how a lot of people felt about it. But those aren’t exactly the same concept per say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 46 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureI agree that it was a failure. However, I don’t agree with the comparisons to communism. It’s actually perfectly analogous to capitalism. Capitalism = less regulation of the economy (ie fewer rules), corporations can more or less do what they want within reason. Making as much money as possible is strongly encouraged. End result is extreme inequality with a small elite rising up to power and a gigantic growing underclass falling behind. “Free love” is the same basic principle as “the free market… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 13 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailurePeople who were old enough to truly participate in the sexual revolution will tell you that it was pretty much all rules out the window. Almost all rock & roll groupies were underage. The reason why rockstars don’t get canceled is cause no one gave a shit back then. Everyone was doing it, it wasn’t a secret. Bands even wrote songs joking about how young their groupies were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Restriction of male sexuality?It’s always greatly benefitted men to bend the rules which are prescribed to them. But now, it’s essential. I seriously don’t know how any fully blue pilled men get laid. To be honest, in my experience I’ve observed that most of them don’t. Many men who claim to hate incels are in fact incels themselves and are projecting their own insecurities. Blue-pilled men typically either date below their own attractiveness level, or just accept being whipped and having 0 control in their relationships. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | When you go to clubs/parties/bars, is your intention to have fun, or do you just care about hopefully hooking up?I love parties simply for their own sake! If you end up getting laid then that’s just an extra icing on the cake. It isn’t just about hooking up in the moment though, people absolutely do meet long term partners at bars and parties. My best friend met his gf of 3 years who he ended up living with for a while at a party. She was on ecstasy when they met too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?RP isn’t about rage, it’s about seeing things for what they are. What you’re pointing out would be much, much, much less true for older generations, but men born from the 90s-onward were absolutely lied to about women and dating. Gen Z in particular has literally been taught explicitly to be the exact opposite of everything that women are sexually drawn towards in a man. RP is the “dose of reality” / “kick in the ass” that younger generations of men desperately need and eventually discover throu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Lmfao 😂😂😂 No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Same! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.I was referencing the way you ended your comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 06:57 AM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?Haven’t read the entire article yet, but background checks which are available to the public typically only include violent crimes or sex related crimes. Only cops are able to see your full arrest record. Even certain felonies can be expunged from your records. If you’re really worried, talk to a lawyer. Most people have no good reason to be worried about a background check, even if you’ve been arrested a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Modern women appear to be lost. Many are seeking external validation and media messages do not help. Should we try to help our fellow sister or is it every woman for themselves?Live a life where your own personal success will inspire others to follow in your footsteps. Any even remotely intelligent person knows that when you see someone who has what you want, to start doing what they do. The problem with this generation is that many people don’t have proper role models to look up to because even many of our parents lead completely dysfunctional and unhappy lives. So be that role model. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Had me in the first half not gonna lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Or............ don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.I second most of this comment. I’m not against birth control in any way as far as the real world of now is concerned, but I don’t think humanity was truly prepared for the rapid changes that the pill brought about to the lives of both men and women, in equal measure. I don’t exaggerate at all when I say that pretty much every facet of modern western culture post-60s only exists because of the pill. The very concept of “young adulthood” and “20-somethings” being entirely separate from “actual adu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.It is extraordinarily easy for women to get those things. If that was all women wanted, they would literally never experience any negative emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.The thing about the pill test is that in the hypothetical scenario, if I am to interpret it exactly as you word it, you would literally wake up an entirely different person with an entirely different body (both in appearance and in function), a different brain, different psychology, and different past life experiences (and yes, a very different sexuality). There is almost no part of the human body which isn’t affected in some form by gender differences. This type of fully transformative experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.I second this. Very well put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Most people who fully identify as straight, including to their close friends and accepting family members, simply just don’t experience sexual attraction to their own biological sex. That, and that only, is what makes someone straight. Since so much of human sexuality nowadays occurs in private via a phone or computer, and it is incredibly easy to live a sort of sexual “second life” online, it is probably fair to say that the majority of people who experience attraction to their own biological s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.So just.............. say no? Why ruin a man’s life in the process? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.“Most men would and do!” Entirely incorrect. This is the gender reversed equivalent to incels believing that the majority of women wholeheartedly prefer getting pumped and dumped by tinder strangers over genuine intimacy and affection. Both of these are the result of a perspective bias from not actually being in the shoes of the other person. It’s effectively the equivalent of believing that heroin addicts prefer being heroin addicts over not being heroin addicts, or that poor people prefer pove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Why? That would be rather cruel don’t you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 12 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.No offense, but do you think is healthy? Is this really the situation you’d truly, deeply prefer to be in, down to the very core of your being? It sounds to some degree like you have given up. With absolute all due respect, I’m actually very curious to hear your thoughts on this since from what you’re saying it seems that you’re the perfect example of what this thread is talking about. If our predictions are true, you’re effectively one of the first guinea pigs for this “noble experiment” societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.Out of curiosity do you consider yourself trans, or just a femboy? Also, because of the context in which you mention this, I would like to ask you something that I hope will not come across as insensitive. Do you think that the “femboy revolution”, as we are agreeing to word it, is the result of men feeling more comfortable being feminine than they used to be due to increased acceptance, or less comfortable being masculine than they used to be due to increased pressures on men and a general conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 16 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.I’ve started to believe this for a while as well. The sexual context is just a small piece of this: the combination of porn, video games, and social media has absolutely caused the average person to spend much of their lives living in various escapist fantasies. Young people are increasingly hiding in these familiar comfort zones as a substitute for actual real world experiences. Porn is replacing sex, video games are replacing sports and combat, and social media & content streaming are both rep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 20 | Biological men and women will continue to radically diverge sexually in the near future, facilitated by emerging technologies.History shows that people will only comfortably live their compromised existences for so long before snapping. Eventually there will some sort of a straw that breaks the camel’s back. IMO socialist economic policies like universal basic income will eventually become necessary to prevent an all out revolution. Either the system will have to budge and bend to us slightly or it will find itself up against a very formidable enemy, ie the majority population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".This is such an emotionally driven angsty teen take, lol. Four of my best friends met girls on tinder who ended up being their girlfriends for over a year. One of them is on his second serious LTR that he met on tinder. I have no idea where I stand on the /10 rating scale but I do fairly well on tinder these days. I have very high standards for LTRs so that rarely is what I’m looking for but I’m absolutely open to something more serious when I find the right person. Too many members of this sub … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: Many mothers give horrible dating advice to their sonsGeneral rule of thumb is that women are the last people you should ever look to for dating advice as a straight guy. As the saying goes, if you want to learn how to catch a fish, ask the fisherman, not the fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?No. Women’s perceived attractiveness typically peaks around college age, for men it’s late 20s-early 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?In response to your comment regarding men learning in their 20s & 30s (idk how to do the thing where a person’s comment is displayed as responding to a specific set of text), I just would like to throw in that I fit into this category, and have been doing fairly well on tinder lately, so there is definitely hope out there. You didn’t “miss the boat”. I have friends who got experience early on, but who fell into LTRs & got lazy and their game is incredibly rusty or was never really fully develope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Sure, but many of those men are in for a surprise when they end up single again and they find they have no game when it comes to finding new women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Rich and handsome, but socially awkward or “beta” always fall way behind the socially calibrated, outgoing, and confident men when it comes to being able to get laid with ease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Personally, the most career-advanced men I know are also the most “beta” and have the most trouble with women. The biggest players I know are short and live with their parents. They are able to enjoy both casual sex and LTRs as they please with girls consistently in the 6-8 range. Personally I would be very satisfied if that was me. Realistically speaking, being in that position would be a vast improvement from where most men in this subreddit tend to land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?It’s because most of the ways that men can learn to attract women are very controversial. As soon as women hear them they immediately will disagree and often feel offended by the implications of men being “conquerors” and women needing to be “conquered”. There are even social circles within certain feminist communities that consider this very concept to effectively be on the “spectrum” of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Social proof is all that mattersIf you don’t mind me asking, what are your numbers like in terms of a following? And do you have a preferred or “main” platform? I make music and have somewhat of an online following and have definitely noticed the difference it makes. Nothing crazy though, my followers and streams are just in the thousands but I get really enthusiastic responses at shows from total strangers so there’s definitely potential (I only have 2 songs released). I’d really love to DM you to talk more about this in deta… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Social proof is all that mattersWhat’s AA? | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.It doesn’t really matter. Actually being high value is less important than giving off that impression. When it comes to seduction from a male point of view, the selling point is more important than the product. You have to understand that we live in a society now where there are unemployed burnouts absolutely drowning in pussy while there are also many wealthy men who have trouble dating due to bad social skills, anxiety, autism, lack of experience etc. I’m not sure why Reddit seems so convinced… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidThe village mentality concept is a an important point to emphasize. The decline of any sort of village mentality and communitarian values in general is the root cause of many of society’s new ills in the western world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How to surrender if I'm better than he is at (some) things?Off topic but my family upbringing was exactly like how you described yours in your first paragraph. Glad to know there’s others out there, especially since the literal fact that we exist violates the mainstream narrative and is controversial to admit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Traditional Masculinity isn't for everyonePoor and working class men have been beating the system and getting pussy without ever opening their wallets since at least the 60s. The most ironic part of this post is that thinking you need to provide for a girl financially is actually an incredibly submissive mentality to have. Being a sugar daddy is not masculine by any standard, you’re just a simp who happens to be rich. In fact, from what I’ve seen being rich does almost nothing to get you laid, other than better logistics. The men I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 12:26 AM |
| -2 | Is it weird to say Happy Valentine’s Day to a tinder match you haven’t fucked yet?If I was a noob sending girls regular texts just to make leisure conversation and sending memes then you’d be right but I’m not 17 anymore thankfully | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think BDSM pretty much universllay being "woman focused" says something about sexuality?This is a common pop psychology theory about BDSM but it isn’t based on any actual research or data. It’s just a personal speculation that became a sort of meme over the years. As far as I’m aware there is absolutely no real research whatsoever which backs up this theory. It’s entirely just people’s own individual perception. And honestly, even just anecdotally I don’t think it’s correct. From what I’ve seen, it’s the complete opposite. I think what people are into fairly often goes hand in hand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 04:47 AM |
| 29 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.Practice makes perfect king! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Stop worrying about stupid shitREAL KING MENTALITY. 💯 | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife stabs husband after seeing her younger self in old photos, thought he was cheatingWoman moment | /r/MensRights | 25/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | This sub is ignoring the link between income class and promiscuity.What UC and what’s UMC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 7 | This sub is ignoring the link between income class and promiscuity.TBH I think part of it also has to do with them being less impulsive by nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | This sub is ignoring the link between income class and promiscuity.A little off topic but another thing too is that those focusing on “people are more promiscuous now than a century ago” should remember as well that people were much more promiscuous a half century ago. Polling data consistently shows that the stereotypes of young hippie boomer lifestyles from the mid 60s to the early 80s are very based in reality as far as promiscuity goes. Sexual frequency as well as past sexual partner count has decreased on average across all demographics over the last few d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 07:17 AM |
| 4 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthThose are good traits for women as well. However, they are essential for men. They are somewhat more optional for women. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Is it a warning sign for a man to be into anime?No. This is a silly question. That’s like asking if it’s a warning sign for a man to be into horror movies. Anime is just a style of animated film. There are many different genres of it, some awful and embarrassingly corny, and some full-on artistic masterpieces. Personality is not defined by superficial things such as taste in TV shows, that’s just surface level stuff. If you’re worried about him being a basement-dweller, there are much better ways to go about this then judging someone’s taste … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | On Censorship and Some News on our New PlatformsKeep in mind though, that it is extremely important for us to maintain a presence on mainstream platforms such as this and YouTube. Censoring famous people like trump is relatively easy. Millions of anonymous or semi-anonymous randos? Basically impossible. The worst thing we can do in a time like this is to hide. It’s more important now than ever that the world knows about us. You’d be amazed the amount of people in your daily life who are red pilled but closeted. It’s like cocaine in a bar, lot… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Study claims dark triad men have lower standards for womenYes thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 19 | Study claims dark triad men have lower standards for womenI don’t recall the source, but I remember reading somewhere that men with high self-esteem tend to have lower standards for short term partners and men with low self-esteems tend to have higher standards for short-term partners. Both high and low self-esteem men tend to have equally high standards for long-term partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Not necessarily, anecdotally from friends I’ve heard very mixed things about this. All my bisexual female friends seem pretty adamant that the reason why they generally tend to have sex with substantially more men than women has absolutely nothing to do with them “preferring men”. It is, according to them, simply just much easier to have sex with men than it is to have sex with women. I’ve heard a few bisexual men say this as well. Apparently casual sex with men truly does seem to be a low-hangi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.I respect the sentiment of your second paragraph. The “not all men” points are very important ones to be acknowledged, however often they may be ridiculed online. (In reality though, it’s not so much “not all men” as much as just “a tiny slice of men who are repeat offenders” but I digress.) I don’t quite agree with the wording of your first paragraph. It isn’t so much that even men have to fear other men, so much as that it’s primarily men who have to, as we are the primary victims of assault o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 04:45 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.Overall, men are multiple times more likely to be assaulted or murdered than women are. The difference lies in the fact that when men are assaulted or attacked in any way, it typically isn’t an assault of a sexual nature. Expand the definition of assault beyond sexual assault, and the idea that women have more reason to be afraid of others than men do becomes factually inaccurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 04:42 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.The evidence is inconclusive on that. There are varying studies whose results at times conflict with one another. One thing that’s worthy of noting, however, is that high testosterone levels are very consistently correlated with a higher sex drive in both men and women. Women with higher testosterone levels typically have higher sex drives than women with low levels, as also tends to be the case in men. To some that could suggest the possibility that men have higher sex drives overall, as they h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?I second this. If you truly want this type of interaction to stop permanently, confronting them about it straightforwardly makes a huge difference. That way, if they still persist afterwards, then you’re fully justified getting physical. Trolls love to dance around that line of social acceptability, like a middle school kid doing that “I’m not touching you, I’m not touching you!” thing with their finger really close to your face. As soon as you call them out, they look like the dickhead for pers… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?If it’s a sneak hit from behind where they can’t see than yeah. But half of fighting comes down to reaction time. It’s not a strength contest. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Women of childbearing age have intrinsic social value due to their looks; men don’t. Men need to earn their stripes. We’re useless until proven otherwise. Attractive or not, we must actively compete to survive. A lot of this is because, despite what the toxic blackpill virgins of this sub will tell you while they project their own insecurities, the actual science shows that men are much more visual than women when it comes to attraction. If a girl is above average in attractiveness, men can tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?Hell no! What a strange, unnatural, dystopian existence that would be. I could probably kms tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 4 | You Can't Bash Men For Toxic Masculinity And Then Insult Them Whenever They Express ThemselvesLol yep! Women think they want to hear men’s inner emotions until they actually hear them. Then they regret ever having asked. Toxic masculinity is primarily caused by women. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is wrong. Women are attracted to weakness and femininity, not strength and masculinity.Bruh even if this is sarcastic you should take this down lol, too many young impressionable men have already been tricked into believing this and let’s please not keep spreading this lie even if we’re doing so unintentionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is wrong. Women are attracted to weakness and femininity, not strength and masculinity.Women aren’t turned off by vulnerability, they’re turned off by weakness. Vulnerability = man telling you to punch his shoulder as hard as you can repeatedly and laughing at how silly you look Weakness = man telling you to punch his shoulder expecting the same result and he falls to the ground unconscious and needs to go to the hospital because you’re stronger than him Obviously a silly and exaggerated example but it’s the first one that came to mind and I’ll stand by it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Kept my word about being less fat this time around 😤Hell yeah bro! Happy to see it. Be proud and keep it up 💪🏻😤💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The schizo larp technique - how to keep yourself on your trackThis is a great idea.... just sold to us with a very awkward presentation lmao If you wanna spread this idea more I recommend changing the title. “Schizo LARPing” sounds hilarious but not in the way of being something I’d want to emulate just based of the title lol 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.Bruh. Let me give you some real talk man to man right here. Out of love, and a desire to see my fellow men be happy: First of all, and this is a tough one these days, but try to leave the house more. Your whole view of reality and how humans interact with each other is clearly informed primarily by the internet. A huge percentage of these interactions you’ve seen are just people larping or trolling for shits and giggles. The reason why we use the term “IRL” to describe face-to-face contact is be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Based off of inherent, sexually dimorphic characteristics, men are designed to brunt the force of nature head-on, and women are designed to invest their resources into them to allow them to do this as effectively as possible, that the whole species may achieve victory together.Lol @ the irony of calling someone sexist against women while simultaneously claiming that a logical-analytical approach to debate is “giving off man vibes” Even acting as if a woman on the spectrum is somehow more “masculine” is arguably rather sexist What would the “woman vibes” version of this post be to you? Using healing crystals as sources? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Based off of inherent, sexually dimorphic characteristics, men are designed to brunt the force of nature head-on, and women are designed to invest their resources into them to allow them to do this as effectively as possible, that the whole species may achieve victory together.Which ones? Can you provide examples of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?Yeah I feel you. What you’re talking about sounds much different than judging based on appearances though. You’re saying it’s better to be a person who can easily be stereotyped than it is to be a person who can’t be easily stereotyped, at least as far as who you’re more likely to find attractive. If I understand you correctly, you’re saying that this is true regardless of what the stereotype even is. Even a stereotype with negative connotations is better than not being able to fit into a stereo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | If a large portion of women started selling nudes. Would this force men to deal with it? Or would it force men not to date?This pair of girls I know who aren’t even lesbian are married so that one of them can have a green card Mad funny too cause one of my good friends has fucked both of them at different times while they were married 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] How Much Does Your Partner’s Happiness Mean to You?Why did this get deleted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is not to blame for any single problem in your lives - your infatuation with the internet isThis is absolutely true. Why isn’t this obvious? It seems that both red a blue pills alike can’t seem to understand this. This being said, I think to be more accurate this post needs to be extended far beyond incel culture. In reality, sexlessness in almost all its forms in both men and women is largely due to the internet, not just for any one specific group of males. Before the 90s, there simply just wasn’t much else for people to do indoors that was fun and exciting other than having sex (or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?As much as I want to disagree with this on principle, it definitely explains a lot. I think a lot of women probably think this way. Definitely helps to explain why “basic” men tend to have an easier time picking up women; they literally have a little bit in common with everyone. I will say though, that I think being “different” and not fitting a category makes the bonds you form with others much stronger and helps them last longer, as you literally are just a more rare and less replaceable kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?The “easier” part I definitely understand. It’s definitely easier to know what to make of someone if they fit into an immediate category. However, personally I also find people who fit immediately and perfectly into an already established stereotype to be a lot less interesting as a whole. I mean, at a certain level it almost sounds like you’re saying it’s better to not be unique. Of course, most people can’t control who they’re attracted to, so I don’t mean to come off as chastising you at all,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?So you literally prefer when men fit a specific stereotype? And it’s a bad thing if they don’t fit into any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Should I tell my friend about his girlfriendIf he’s literally considering getting married then it’s your obligation to him as his friend to tell him what’s up. Otherwise it’s on him. But don’t just stand by and let him literally ruin his own life in ways which are irreversible. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Mens health paradox - feminist are desperately trying to shut down articles like this, its to late, MRA is entering academia. Check out Male Psychology Network, and psychreg, this author is excellent too. Check out their social media.Sooner or later it’s going to become inevitable: women will begin to understand that you simply can’t support men without supporting men’s rights. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Short answer, yes. Porn has just generally made the world a much worse place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | It’s time to DeGoogle. Extract this hateful website from your life. It’s not that hard. And we are worth it. Half of the first page of results for “Men’s Rights Movement” gives you lies and misinformation like thus garbage article. Get rid of Google from your life.Oh also, to add onto this, MEL magazine is literally just feminist propaganda, as are all men’s magazines. (Fun fact: women make up the majority of writers for most men’s magazines, and many of the male writers are gay. They’re advice just simply doesn’t apply to you, and will make your life worse if you take it to heart.) | /r/MensRights | 19/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 6 | It’s time to DeGoogle. Extract this hateful website from your life. It’s not that hard. And we are worth it. Half of the first page of results for “Men’s Rights Movement” gives you lies and misinformation like thus garbage article. Get rid of Google from your life.It’s nearly impossible to find google results for any information or even opinions which don’t fit SJW narratives. You can google just about anything manosphere-related: men’s rights, red pill, NoFap, etc, and all you’ll find for the most part is Vice and Huffington Post opinion pieces about how bad all of these things are. Clearly Google is not a platform which makes any serious attempts on being impartial. Our thoughts, ideas, and access to information are literally being monopolized before ou… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Feminist writes book to help men - fails miserably, books is full of feminist lies and stats manipulation, false claims and so on. Feminism is an ideology/cult - no wonder non feminist gender movements are forming.Feminists pushing this new “toxic masculinity” narrative is literal brainwashing and gas lighting. It won’t be too long before these Gen Z femboys and catboys start getting old enough to want to fuck and need a job. I’m equal parts excited and frightened to see what will happen when they start to collectively realize they were all sold a manipulative lie from a young age, and that they’ve actually been living their whole lives as sacrificial lambs just for supposedly mature adult women to feel b… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are attractive people less confident about their looks than unattractive people?Average-looking people are usually happy just to be getting laid at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are attractive people less confident about their looks than unattractive people?Higher self-standards. Less satisfaction with average-looking lovers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby BoomersWord, the various social movements of the 60s all happened gradually. I guess by saying “hippie” I might have been speaking with too much specificity, I’m really just referring to the general social changes to society that occurred over the course of the 60s and their aftermath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 9 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby BoomersThe biggest change to the way Americans eat is the portions. This is a pretty well documented phenomenon. A regular meal at McDonald’s used to be roughly the same size that a happy meal is today. Today’s bagels are what used to be called “jumbo bagels” in the 90s. The amount of food per day it takes for a human to live and be healthy could fit into the palm of your hand. Humans in wealthy countries can no longer just listen to their instincts anymore. Self-denial has become an essential part of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 6 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby BoomersI agree with this. I think in many ways the first few decades of the sexual revolution were genuinely great for most people. But I don’t think that the hippies, most of whom had happy and wholesome family upbringings, had any clue what the end results of those societal changes would be. I don’t think society now is anything like the way that hippies imagined their ideal future. If there’s anything boomers get right, it’s their regret of their past. Some of them do seem to be aware that the rippl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Girls want a man who is... Well, simply not anxious and depressed.What then, in your opinion, is the reason why more men are struggling with dating today? Do you not at least believe this to be a factor, considering that depression and anxiety are on the rise? At the same time as, you yourself agree, more men are struggling with dating today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Alone will NOT help you become successful with WomenHey man, glad to hear things worked out for you. Gotta do whatever it takes and I respect the grit. One question I have, now that you generally got your life together and pretty much everythingmaxxed, would you say that your dark triad traits help to give you that extra edge? Or do you find it’s still something you have to work around? Feel like this sub is pretty pro-dark triad but there’s still some debate so I’m interested to hear your thoughts on how it currently affects your personal experi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I Had Lunch with the Chad I Hated TodayBest post I’ve seen on this sub. I’m new to TRP and agree with the general ideas behind it but often find some of the negative tone of a lot of posts here a bit off-putting, so it’s really great to come across posts like these which have a much more inspirational tone. Glad to hear things are going well for you! Keep it up 💪🏻😤💯 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do younger women insult you when they’re into you?Because modern American dating culture is absurdly, almost comically aggressive and competitive in this strange dystopian age we’re living in. Unfortunately it’s just something we all have to adapt to at some level. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 3 | In the late 1960s, a huge proportion of US youth became far left-wing, then moved to the right over the next 15 years. Are we expecting it will be different this time?It will be just the same. The 10s was like a “part II” to the sixties, and it’s inevitable than we’ll eventually have our 80s as well. My usual guess is that it would happen in the 2030s, which makes sense with some simple math, but it might even happen earlier than that since pop culture moves so quickly nowadays. If there’s any one lesson that history teaches time and time again is that social movements are always temporary waves that come and go. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | 'Boys underperform in schools because we look after their wellbeing less' - we split boys and girls up in schools talks.... we tell the girls about self confidence, STEM, body image... we tell the boys not to be sexist misogynist rapistsIt’s been a while since I’ve been in school, but if this is actually what’s done in schools these days for young boys the age of the kid in the thumbnail...... then it’s fair to say that we are truly entering a new dark age. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "androgen loss, porn, and weebdom has made people worship excessive neoteny to almost pedophilic levels"Really don’t know of any evidence for this being new. Men have been attracted to neotenous traits since the dawn of time, and arguably even more so in the past than now. There is much evidence of youthful traits being seen as attractive in women dating back centuries. No real evidence of it increasing, as far as I’m aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 124 | First Approach TodayThat’s a huge milestone dude! Congrats. Cheers to this being the first of many 😎 | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 17 | FSW: Male Suicide Awareness AdvertisementThis needs to be posted everywhere. In the hallways of schools even | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 08/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 0 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongr/woosh @ anyone who didn’t immediately get that the whole joke is how long of a text this is | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 06:54 AM |
| 9 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.The key is to try and get the attention of her while group. This is easier if you’re with friends, as you can combine groups for the night. Very ideal if you’re with a guy squad and she’s with a girl squad. It’s usually a lot of fun for everyone that way! | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?They’re a secondary sexual trait, like height and muscle differences in men, and thus are universally associated with attractiveness. Doesn’t matter what culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?There are some historians who actually argue that periods of social unrest actually tend to happen specifically after periods of social progress happen, not before. The social progress makes people more bold and arguably makes them feel a bit more entitled, and so they become more demanding since they know that it’s possible that they can get what they want if they just yell loud enough. It’s the same concept as spoiled children. Doing lots of nice things for you kids actually often gives them a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?Is this even a question? Of course lmfao, it’s the primary reason why subs like this even exist in the first place. Women aren’t that different from men. Imagine if it was socially acceptable to just talk shit about women constantly as a way of venting and was even encouraged, including in public places online with your name and face attached. Men would go to fucking town. Women aren’t any different is this regard. Of course, many women aren’t like that, just the same way that many men aren’t pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?But it CAN actually lead to true confidence. What I’ve determined about confidence from a mixture of reading and IRL experience is that it mainly boils down to a single philosophical question: what comes first, competence or confidence? The answer is almost always going to be some sort of a mixture of both but is different for everybody. Confidence comes in many forms and some people have more natural amounts of it than others. I feel like confidence and competence need to always be in balance— … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 12 | "Alienating Young Men is Deeply Sad" and the messages society sends to young men also calling out double standard: empowering young women = great. empowering young men = misogynisticJBP is seriously one of the most inspiring figures alive right now. So proud to witness him becoming a household name. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | This is from the 1912, a world that encourage and expect men to sacrifice their lives for women is not a world of male privilege and domination over women. the patriarchy is a conspiracy theory.Facts. The patriarchy is 100% a conspiracy theory. Literally if you replace the word "illuminati" with "patriarchy" or vice versa in almost any context, the sentence and the idea behind it still makes sense. The whole thing is an imaginary boogieman. | /r/PussyPass | 04/12/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genesLike I said in my other comment, it seems that your issue here is more specifically with the use of the word biology. You said yourself that evolution cares only about making babies, which is basically saying the exact same thing as the comments which you criticize but with different wording. I think you're giving too much focus to the precise wording of the comments you're talking about rather than the larger idea which they represent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:32 PM |
| -1 | No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genesAs you yourself said in this post, at the end of the day this is a question of philosophy more so than science. Therefore, your being a biology major or whatever doesn't really give you any extra credibility on the issue which anyone else on this sub doesn't have. No offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:18 PM |
| 11 | No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genes"Evolution doesnt care about your happiness, it cares only about making babies." Well. There you go. In your own words. The only thing which you actually seem to disagree with about the types of comments which you're referring to is the very specific use of the word "biology." Fair enough. But beyond that specific issue of wording, those types of comments make an argument that you yourself don't seem to entirely disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Marriage can be an acceptable risk for some but for the overwhelming majority of men, it's an arrangement that leads to bad outcomes.If you both have a career and no kids, you’re basically roommates with benefits. lmao that's fucking great. never thought of it like that but that's honestly so accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Is anybody else red pilled because of a traumatic childhood?I'm a guy, but I absolutely relate to this. It's so frustrating when you tell others about coming from a liberal, feminist family and they immediately assume that means you had a fantastic childhood, when in reality, it's the exact opposite. I think for a lot of people these days, women in particular no offense, it's almost like their brains can't even begin to comprehend the possibility that feminism can have a bad side. When you stop and think about it, feminism and liberalism are some of the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperateThis is really only a shitty thing to do if it isn't mutual. The ideal version of this is to find a girl who more or less thinks of you the same way. During quarantine I met a few women on tinder who are too far away to be worth visiting, so we just flirt and exchange nudes. There's no ambiguity on the nature of the relationship. If anything girls understand more than anyone else the appeal of flirting just for fun, with no serious intentions, just for an ego boost. This can be a mutually benefi… | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperateThe only thing that makes a man alpha is his disinterest in earning someone’s approval Great way of putting it. That's more or less the entire concept of being alpha summarized. | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 01:47 PM |
| 18 | Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperateThe best thing about the past... Is that it's over. Absolutely. Wise words in deed. | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 4 | How do you differentiate between being nurturing and being mothering?Definitely second this. That's the easiest way to understand the difference. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Well, that depends how many planes you've been on, lol. I know many people who have never been on a plane before. I'm pretty sure it would make a strong impression on them if they ever do go on one as an adult. Of course, if you have frequent flier miles or need to fly often for work, you eventually are going to lose count. But I can probably remember how many planes I've been on. 12 I think, including going both back and forth to/from the location. Is that creepy to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?I don’t approve of cheating but it is sort of “alpha” in the douchier sense of the word. Most guys never even have the opportunity to cheat so it’s not something they ever really have to think about. Men on the top of the sexual social pyramid are faced with the temptation somewhat regularly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?I don’t admire cheating for the record lol, I’m just throwing it in since I feel like it fits the sort of archetype you’re talking about | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Idk with that kind of money you can pay for fancy gyms + healthy prepared food that still tastes good. The rich people here in NY spend $10 on avocado toast and do all these trendy diets; they tend to be much better looking than the working class people here and I imagine have an easier time casually dating than anyone else does. Corona has made meeting people harder I guess but idk, to me a simp is a simp at the end of the day regardless of how much money they make. If I had that kind of money … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 08:24 PM |
| 14 | The nature of the other genderMost men are fairly self-aware about their inability to ever truly understand women. Quotes throughout history that can be summed up as “Women are a mystery” are such an old trope esp in TV & in movies that it borders on cliche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?I mean. Do you admire guys like that though? Paying for pussy is one thing, paying for companionship is just sad imo | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Yeah that’s what I’m saying. I don’t see it as being a statement of power or a flex. Like. You’re literally a simp (with sugar baby’s at least) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?I guess maybe being alpha in social / sexual contexts is a concept you stop even giving a shit about when you’re that rich lmao. You have all the self-esteem you’ll ever need from your bank account, you could hypothetically be a literal cuck and it still couldn’t take that away Still, the only context where I could see that being sort of alpha is if you’re cheating on your wife lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?The prostitute thing I can understand. The sugar baby phenomenon just confuses me. Don’t they often not even have sex? I feel like if anything having that kind of money would make me confident enough that I would feel really stupid doing girls random favors for no reason. The sugar baby’s I’ve been unfortunate enough to meet have told me the whole idea is to avoid sex for as long as you can / avoid it altogether. Idk, I have a hard time seeing that as alpha from the guy’s standpoint. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?I’m 25 and American, maybe it’s different elsewhere or with older people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Ugh, a sugar baby? 🤮 Sounds to me like you’re just describing simps / men who can’t get laid tbh In the mainstream world it’s usually considered kind of pathetic for men to hire a prostitute. The opposite of powerful, you’ve taken the easy way out. In most circles that’s the kind of thing men keep to themselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Amber Heard in talks to potentially be cast in a “female-centric” Pirates of the Caribbean movie.Idk how to do the quote thing on Reddit where you reply to a specific set of text, but your second sentence is worthy of making into a copypasta campaign. Too long to make into a hashtag but short enough that it’s easier to remember even if you don’t copy + paste | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Not a strip club, I’m talking about hiring prostitutes. Most men significantly prefer casual hookups to this even if the girl is a little less hot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingHow much is a dating coach? Do you find they it made a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?That’s an interesting theory but I don’t think most men would agree. I’m pretty sure what you’re describing is literal psychopathy | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingIt’s obviously more common to not be charming and charismatic than it is to be charming and charismatic but if you think it’s really that uncommon then you need to get out a bit more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingNo, but It obviously means that they exist lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Do most women have an inbuilt instinct that prevents them from being attracted to someone without a connection?I am a man, and I as well have this instinct. It’s difficult and rare for me to get truly aroused be a total stranger. At least some sort of emotional connection is usually necessary for me to feel genuine attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingThat’s definitely not true. Where would you get this idea? Why would those words even exist if they weren’t created to describe a real-life phenomenon? Were the words created out of some sort of imaginary fantasy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:26 AM |
| 2 | How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman?I think this type of coupling is fairly common among men who are good looking but socially awkward or less dominant than other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:07 AM |
| 9 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingThis will probably be less true whenever covid lockdowns end. I think people will be really excited to go back to bar & club culture whenever they can. Most people I know get rather get sick of online dating after a while, it’s just not as fun as meeting people IRL on a night out with your friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 04:55 AM |
| 12 | Stanford Study: Meeting online is displacing meeting through friends or other methods of connectingI think this single fact might honestly be the biggest reason why incels, femcels, and the whole “sexual recession” exist. Dating apps are the one place where the grievances of any type of “-cel” are easy to back up: status and looks are obviously going to matter a lot more when the person you’re interacting with through a screen is a total stranger. True charisma and charm simply can’t quite translate into digital interactions the same way they work IRL. I personally do way better IRL. The kind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 04:54 AM |
| 3 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreI remember reading somewhere that men with higher self-esteem actually tend to have lower standards when it comes to casual sex and short-term FWB situations. Both high and low self-esteem men have roughly the same standards for LTRs. So to some degree what you’re saying is probably true. This also confirms one of my beliefs which is probably shared by a decent amount of people on here, especially those who lean red. Men who actually desire emotional bonding and don’t see it as a crutch or nuisa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | We just watched Milgrams experiment in ethics and women gave higher shocks than men , Why?Facts. An average is by definition a generalization. Exceptions to the rule do not nullify the existence of the rule. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 9 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Disagree with your last point. Men want to be desired just as much as women do. Scoring a ONS vs paying for sex is like winning the lotto vs begging on the street. Men only pay for sex as an absolute last resort and are usually embarrassed to have done so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?It’s “approved” here the same way that being homeless is “approved”; the idea is that people feel bad for you and thus don’t want to make your life any worse. Doesn’t mean that we want anything to do with you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Facts. Well said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 9 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?That’s probably very specific to your social circle. For casual sex/dating? Sure, some men might still be down if you’re 10/10 Hollywood celebrity material. But definitely not for a serious LTR that might lead to marriage/kids. I live in a big city too. That hardly makes a difference. If anything we have way more options in large cities so we can be pickier for LTRs. It arguably blacklists you even worse here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?We live in an era where there’s two versions of reality: the version represented in the media, and actual reality. In the first version of reality, “sex work” already is normalized and has no detrimental long term effects to your life quality. This is also the same version of reality where the best strategy for men to get laid is to be nice and do lots of favors for women, and the same version of reality where women don’t care about men’s height, wealth, status, fitness etc. It’s the version of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Why not be a whore in this day and age?Best answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.Sounds like you definitely get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.Yes! Exactly. One phrase I read on here once that really stuck with me is “women want to find a bad boy and make him good, men want to find a good girl and make her bad” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.But women pretty overwhelmingly desire companionship with more priority than they desire casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?It’s hard to find actual numbers on this, but I don’t know if the phrasing that there are “so many” sub men is accurate. In my original comment I was referencing the ratio of dominant women to submissive men. That is much more due to a staggeringly low number of dominant women than it is due to a high number of submissive men. No one with experience in that world will refute that the ratio of domme women to sub men is extremely low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:18 AM |
| 13 | What can cause a woman to lose desire and respect for her man?What do you mean? Men like this are literally everywhere lmao | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/20 06:09 AM |
| 0 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.Idk, you might be right but this basically sounds like the worst type of dystopia imaginable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.The idea of casual sex replacing steady relationships has been referenced by many in the media and beyond in the past few decades. The big detail that they tend to leave out is that casual sex has always been a sort of “VIP section” of the dating world in a sense. It’s mostly above-average looking people who get to engage in it regularly and spontaneously. Average-looking people typically more or less rely on steady relationships in order to have regular sex. In a sense, it could be fair to say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.At least anecdotally in my experience it does seem that most women eventually want marriage and kids, especially straight women. I think our generation is delaying marriage & parenthood the same way we have been delaying all aspects of maturity; we just grow up much more slowly than older generations. It is also true that childlessness is becoming more common, but I have a hard time picturing it becoming the norm for people in the 40s and beyond. I mean honestly, what the hell does a person do w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Good point. I wish women could more deeply understand how incredibly confusing these times are for straight men for the exact reasons that you mentioned. It seems that a lot of the things that modern women want from men directly contradict each other. They way I see it overall, women still want “men to be men” but would rather it not get directly spelled out that way. Like, the traits which women are attracted to in men have really not changed at all. They just would rather pretend that it has n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?I will try to find the source for this, I forget exactly where I read it. But I do very distinctly recall coming across a study where for people involved in BDSM, the ratio of dominant to submissive for straight men was 70/30, and 10/90 for straight women. So yes, there are many many more submissive men then there are dominant women, but that doesn’t mean that there are more submissive men then there are dominant men. I have not heard any evidence of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?I see your point. I think the line as to what is dominant vs submissive in vanilla sex is generally more blurred than in BDSM. It seems that a lot of the difference between BDSM and vanilla sex is that BDSM actually spells it out and the dominating/submitting is very specific and intentional, whereas vanilla sex tends to be much more fluid and the roles are less clearly defined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?I was highlighting the fact that very few women get off on dominating men. And at least in femdom, PIV with a male sub is extremely rare, in fact a lot of femdom sex acts specifically revolve around denying men PIV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?I mean sometimes it works that way, other times it can work the other way around (being attracted specifically to someone who reminds you of exactly what you were surrounded by when young). But yeah it definitely is true that fantasies are partially influenced by the environment of your upbringing, just like all aspects of one’s psychology. Keep in mind that that will always be more varied than just your country and religion though, a lot of it ties back to the specifics of your household. Also,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Sure, switching is definitely common. But that’s quite consistently how the words “top” and “bottom” are used. “Bottom” always refers to the recipient even if they’re riding on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Generic and useless non-response. Might as well have just typed a period or a blank space if you want to have the last word in so badly. Either way doesn’t change the fact that you haven’t provided any evidence for sexual submissiveness being correlated with dominance “in the streets” and vice versa. There is a good amount of evidence that each is generally correlated with the gender role it’s most commonly associated with though. If you’re experienced enough in the fetish community to act like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Also this is anecdotal but if you’ve ever been penetrated during sex it is definitely a pretty submissive-feeling physical sensation to experience. I would argue that this is part of why women are naturally more coy about sex and vet harder than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Not really though. I mean in the gay community the receiver is the “bottom” even if they’re literally on “top” riding their partner. And “top/bottom” roles in gay men are a pretty straightforward mimicry of straight gender roles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Either way women love to see their partner’s as dominant “in the streets” regardless of what they’re like “in the sheets” so even in a more traditional BDSM relationship it’s definitely fair to say that there could be an element of plausible deniability there. How many women would ever straightforwardly describe their male partner’s as “weak”? Most of them are too nice for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Actually yes, because actual femdom relationships are pretty rare. I’ve dipped my toes into that world a bit. It usually involves some form of financial transaction, sometimes under the guise of “findom” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?That’s an interesting theory on female submissive tendencies. The fact that women often can’t orgasm from PIV, combined with the fact that straight men typically find cumming directly into a vagina to be the most pleasurable physical sensation in sex, I think leads to the conclusion that male top/ female bottom is biologically necessary for natural conception, considering that PIV is the only sex act that directly causes pregnancy. Biology definitely influences our fantasies at least as much as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?I would actually argue it’s more that our fantasies dictate culture and societal norms than the other way around. See my stupidly long comment with all the bold text for the full argument lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?No, it’s just a common cultural trope. Most dominatrixes know little to nothing about their male customers other than the fact that they’re willing to pay hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars to get their balls kicked etc. They probably have a romanticized perception of them as rich alpha providers that may or may not accurately reflect reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:33 PM |
| 19 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?There is a sizable number of men into it. Very few women. This is a heavily referenced and often joked about truth in the femdom community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:30 PM |
| 112 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?It definitely is partially because of biology. I have a little bit of experience in being part of fetish culture/communities and a pretty well known phenomenon is that there is an insane gender imbalance in the femdom subculture. Like there are easily several hundred submissive straight men for every domme woman that exists. And this is true despite the fact that being a submissive male is much less socially accepted than being a domme woman. Even in the supposedly “alternative” fetish world, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?People might occasionally still lie in anonymous surveys, but if that’s enough to refute multiple large scale studies on a particular issue, why believe any statistics at all? Fantasies of being submissive are common regardless of gender, but are overwhelmingly shown to be particularly common among straight women, more so than other groups. Fantasies of being dominant have been shown to be the least common by far among straight women compared with other groups. So clearly sexual fantasies often … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.Honestly a lot of the concept that men do better in dating the older that they get is really just a matter of logistics. In younger generations especially it’s super common for people to live with parents into their mid-late 20s for example, which obviously makes dating a little harder logistically (especially for casual sex). Also even regardless of the whole “betabux/golddigger” scenario, money is huge for the logistics of dating from a male perspective, and people in their 30s almost always m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.38 sounds a little on the older side. I think 28-35 is a more realistic range for determining men’s general “peak” for having the widest variety of mate choices. Late 30s for men is probably similar to early 30s for women: I think for many that’s when they first start to notice a drop in their prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:11 PM |
| 2 | 30s+ Men, please share how dating has been for you.I mean. I guess to get an accurate answer to this you’d have to define casual. Men love informal dating/sex because it’s relaxed and lower pressure. That isn’t necessarily the same mindset as the type of dating where people use the phrase “catch feelings” as if it’s the worse thing that could possibly happen to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women?Probably some terrible choice in mate selection on those guys’ part. Not that I’ve been there at all, but I get the sense that a huge part of dating as a successful man is learning how to vet out the gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Question for non-Americans and Americans that have lived abroad for a longer period: Have you noticed a difference in dating cultures and gender dynamics?Damn as a lifelong born & raised American this was a super eye-opening thread to read This country really is such a mess 🤦🏻♂️ lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for non-Americans and Americans that have lived abroad for a longer period: Have you noticed a difference in dating cultures and gender dynamics?If that’s really an accurate description then that sounds amazing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Anti Hero vs The Villain: People are attracted and gravitate to others who are somewhat messed up but also show humanity. RP is mistaken when they assert women fall for dark traid men. Those are not their only qualities and sometimes are overlooked due to being HUMAN not a woman.Too lazy to fish for the link right now but there’s an article on this fantastic & super helpful PUA site called “girlschase” called “how to be an asshole”. They made a really good point in specifying how women aren’t necessarily attracted specifically to the malicious or “evil” traits in “asshole” type men but that being an asshole is typically correlated with other traits which women find attractive, such as decisiveness/knowing what you want, confidence bordering on arrogance, not taking shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Anti Hero vs The Villain: People are attracted and gravitate to others who are somewhat messed up but also show humanity. RP is mistaken when they assert women fall for dark traid men. Those are not their only qualities and sometimes are overlooked due to being HUMAN not a woman.Psychopathy is generally known to be correlated with high levels of social charisma and having a generally charming demeanor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?From my understanding it is true that dark triad traits generally do correlate with having higher numbers of sexual partners, but I haven’t read anything about it being correlated with having the simple desire to sleep around however. Keep in mind that simply having the desire to sleep around is many times more common than actually being able to sleep around in practice. This is also especially the case for men. In fact, I’m not even sure that men who sleep around have any more desire to do so t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?Any source info on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 10:29 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend (32M) isn't opening up to me (26F) and I'm fearful we lack sexual chemistryIt sounds to me like if you’re seriously interested in him, then you should take a little bit more initiative of your own in moving this relationship forward. Some men are just shy. That might not be an ideal trait for someone to have casual sex with, but I don’t personally see why it would be an issue in the long run for an LTR or marriage, which sounds like it’s more what you’re interested in. People have their own pace at which they move things along in the early stages of building a relation… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?Lots of elaboration needed here. In what way does TRP poorly set you up for this? Your theory that TRP in some way contradicts the goal of having a partner whose company you enjoy is obviously going to be an extremely arguable one and you don’t provide any sort of backing evidence for that theory here. It’s therefore not at all possible to actually answer your question since the question is assuming from the get-go that your theory is true. But I’ll attempt to do so regardless: - No, of course i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it?I agree entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it?Excellent point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it?“Submission” and “masochism” are not the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Not everything has to be sexyI agree that you don’t. That’s the standard way of doing things now though; it’s overwhelmingly the cultural norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Not everything has to be sexyInteresting. I will definitely say that it sounds like you two have a very healthy relationship worth imitating. Where did you meet? And are you religious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Not everything has to be sexyNot sure who “you” is referring to. Obviously what I said goes both ways, that should go without saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Not everything has to be sexyFair enough, but even though you “weren’t dating yet” I’m guessing the chemistry had already been pretty established by that point. Maybe you were even having regular sex already. For LTRs what you’re saying is definitely true, but once again most LTRs these days start off as casual sex. I think it’s solid advice for men to at least wait until you’re having sex with a woman before showing her too much of your emotional side, if you want there to be any chance of you two being together. You can h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Not everything has to be sexySure. But in modern dating culture most relationships start off as casual sex. So unfortunately that isn’t really an optional step in forming a relationship anymore, unless you are part of a religious community or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 4 | Not everything has to be sexyWomen can’t see the perspective of having the lived experiences of a man: being able to actually see firsthand what does and doesn’t work through trial and error. Doesn’t matter how close you are or how good your relationships are to the men in your life or how many men you’re around; you’ll simply never have the actual lived experience of being one and thus there are certain parts of men’s lives you’ll never fully be able to understand. This is where 99% of women’s suspicious attitude towards T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Not everything has to be sexyNo, that is not at all the basis of TRP and has nothing to do with it whatsoever. I can understand why it would look that way to someone without the lived experiences of being a heterosexual male though. This would be exactly like a man saying that women wearing makeup is “fake” and “unsustainable” and that “you’re not being yourself” and that “sooner or later you have to wash it off so what’s the point”. Attraction is, obviously, subjective. Maybe, just maybe you’ll bump into that special someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Not everything has to be sexyBut when you’re getting to know somebody, the first impressions of them are the only thing that you have to work with. In that sense, displays of weakness do certainly have a big impact on a woman’s perception of you. Are they immature for that? Perhaps. But it doesn’t matter because you can’t realistically expect half the worlds population to bend based on what you think they should be attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:20 AM |
| 0 | Not everything has to be sexyAnd even in the case of life only being about sex to you, in what way would that make you any more likely to be alone at 80? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:14 AM |
| 10 | Not everything has to be sexyWho said anything about anybody’s life only being about sex? If I work hard to get a high paying job does that I imply that my life is only about money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:13 AM |
| 0 | This really isn't any different then video games.What other consequences are there? | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in dating(Long comment, TL;DR in bold) No, it has nothing to do with that. This seems to be a common misunderstanding among women. There’s a reason why the whole “toxic masculinity” theory (which appears to be more or less what you’re getting at) is more commonly believed by women than it is by men: not that many men actually relate to it. Despite its name, it’s a female-centric perspective on gender. “High value men” are men who have sex. “Low value men” are men who don’t. The reason why men want to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 6 | The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in datingHow is that related at all to this post? What are you even talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | The term “ high value “ may have done more harm than good to men in datingThat’s a smart way of looking at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl invites me over, cancels a few hours in advance, apologizes later and asks me to come over regardless, but now I've made new plans. How to proceed?Cancelling plans you’ve already made just to meet up with a girl isn’t worth it. You don’t necessarily have to next her though, just rain check and schedule something for later. If she flakes on that meetup then it’s probably time to move on. But id say it’s alright to give her one more chance. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryWord I feel you. Overthinking is probably the worst thing a guy can do to himself when it comes to talking to women. That’s probably the biggest flaw about pickup culture is that it can encourage overthinking/overanalyzing. At the end of the day picking up women is definitely not something you can learn from reading about it. You gotta practice actually doing it in real life; anything you read online should just be an extra icing on the cake. Or if you’re like me and just like to study human beh… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?Nothing wrong with that. Definitely don’t get anyone make you believe that you have to do any of those things if they don’t turn you on. Vanilla isn’t an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?Just be aware that most men find cumming inside of a vagina to be the most pleasurable thing in sex, so this might be something you want to get over eventually, just like men who don’t like the taste of pussy and therefore don’t eat it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?If anything that’s probably more because fat girls have a much harder time finding a man who’s wiling to stick around than skinny/curvy/fit girls do. So they settle for what’s available to them which is casual sex. It seems to pretty overwhelmingly be the case that most women prefer being a in a loving relationship. That’s why the sluttiest girls are usually average-looking, they settle for less. Usually the only super hot chicks who are genuinely slutty have something else that causes men to le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?This is very true. Male arousal is nowhere near as simple or dumbed down as women make it seem, especially in 2020 since we’ve all been partially numbed by growing up with easily accessible internet porn. I rarely ever get aroused by a girl who I don’t yet know well. It’s hard for me to feel comfortable with that level of vulnerability unless I’ve gotten to know a girl pretty well and trust her as a person. I guess in that sense I might just not be built for hookup culture which is really unfort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?Real Sex Ed is a borderline nonexistent thing in the US and it’s terrible. I think a lot of it has to with the general cultural divides in this country, since there doesn’t seem to be much agreement on what sex Ed should actually be or look like. Most men also aren’t taught anything about masturbation; I also didn’t know what it was that I was doing until friends started talking about it in eighth grade (I had already been masturbating since age 5 and was freaked tf out when I first saw semen co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?Not to take away from your point at all, but I would certainly not assume that a man is holding in moans simply because he isn’t moaning. Many men just don’t moan. It’s just not the way that everyone expresses pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Can you break down your enjoyment of sex or lack of such?Glad you mentioned that last point. I find it incredibly strange that emotional connection is supposed to be off limits unless you are in a defined relationship and I think we should all be questioning why that is the case. I personally believe that fact to be a huge part of the worsening of male/female relations in the last few years. I think this deserves further exploration from all of us and a post of its own on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong/weird for inexperienced men/women to intentionally date down to find a partner “on their level”It’s absolutely not wrong or weird. There is absolutely nothing wrong with big age gaps in relationships, so long as both parties involved are consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do you like when women send you nudes?A lot of it has to do with validation. It’s true that in terms of pure visual stimulation you can get more from porn, but it’s so much better when there’s at least some human-to-human interaction involved; men are social creatures as well. Just hornier ones I guess, or at least more visually stimulated ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text GameOf all my friends, the one who gets the most pussy has no instagram. He primarily uses dating apps though so I guess technically there is still a profile she can look at. Also he’s a genuinely friendly and down to earth dude to the point where I can’t imagine girl feeling unsafe around him. Sometimes he has trouble closing but he never has trouble getting girls to meet up. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 09:15 AM |
| 2 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryI think you’re exaggerating what OP is saying. I don’t see anywhere where he suggested saying “wanna fuck” as being the first thing you text to a stranger. That’s insane and I don’t know anyone who would genuinely recommend that lol. It actually sounds like you’re more or less in agreement with OP since you’re saying you text girls primarily to invite them over. OP is saying to avoid being that guy who beats around the bush by sending girls tons of memes and showering them with attention over th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 09:01 AM |
| 40 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryDon’t take it too personally. People in this sub are often overly negative towards those they disagree with. But once you look past the negativity there is some good advice to be heard. It’s tough love. I wouldn’t assume there’s anything wrong with you just because you’re inexperienced. Head up king 💪🏻😤💯 | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 08:52 AM |
| 6 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryRegardless of how much pussy you’re supposedly swimming in you sound sheltered as hell. Traveling alone is a super common thing for people in the late teens/early 20s. You’ve never heard of “studying abroad” in college? Cold approaches that turn into sex happen all the time, at least in large cities with lots of tourists. College campuses as well. It’s literally half of why nightlife is a thing that exists. Also, there are TONS of girls in their late teens/early 20s on tinder. If anything it see… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more "high energy" and "fun"? I have a serious disposition and need help bringing the energy up without turning into a clown.Part of this comes down to being in a lighthearted, jovial mood so I guess try to do more things that help put you into this state, whatever that may be for you. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 07:27 AM |
| 14 | The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessaryThere is very, very, very little potential for this to turn sexual though. Just know that in advance | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/20 07:16 AM |
| 6 | MensLibbers pretending to help men while promoting the work of raging misandrist and abuser Clementine Ford.Can we all thumbs-down that post? Maybe even a full infiltration is necessary.... brainwashing men is for me when feminism truly crosses the line. As someone who’s been there before I can’t just stand by and watch that happen to my brothers | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 07:08 AM |
| 12 | MensLibbers pretending to help men while promoting the work of raging misandrist and abuser Clementine Ford.That whole sub is the perfect example of how feminists try to literally gaslight men into fighting against their own self-interests | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 4 | What to talk about in order to not appear unfeminine/"too smart"/intimidating?I don’t think many men consider this unfeminine (man speaking) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/20 07:05 PM |
| 9 | I mean, it’s not like men contribute a large part of our children nowadays, it’s not like we get framed for being pedophiles for just being around children, it’s not like we lose almost every divorce court case.Literally not a single one of the man’s requests in this meme are irrational either. I swear it’s almost like the old gender stereotypes about men’s vs women’s views on dating have completely reversed in the last 20 years. Now it’s girls who seem to just want sex with no affection or commitment, more so than men. When the hell did this become normal? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationshipMoms are stubborn. Feminist moms in particular. Just hold your head high and be confident that you are making the right decisions (you absolutely are) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you expect women to prioritize relationships when guys in their age range aren’t thinking about stability?Many of them are, but they’re the ones who you don’t notice because they aren’t usually the ones chatting you up in bars & at parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/20 09:00 PM |
| 4 | How many corporations go broke before they learn not to go woke?When people stop supporting them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Who are girls fucking on tinder?Almost anybody with a penis is going to do better in real life than on tinder. Obviously it’s tougher now with covid lockdowns, but not impossible. Talk to girls IRL whenever you get the opportunity to. Easier said than done I know. But it’s much more fulfilling and worth your while than tinder. IMO even guys who kill it on tinder don’t get the same benefits of social and emotional growth that come from approaching girls IRL. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Laura Bates, an angry feminist, is particularly angry because boys don't buy into the feminist worldview the way they used to and dare to have a male perspective! The culprits? Incels, MRAs and other online misogynists.When are all the again Gen X-ers and older millennials going to realize that the world is not the same place it was in the 80s-00s? Almost none of the common narratives on race, gender, and sexuality from that era are relevant anymore. And it’s not like we’ve really improved either. Society has a brand new batch of issues now that it didn’t have 20 years ago and nobody who’s old enough to have had a MySpace in high school is ever going to be able to fully understand that because they just don’t … | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 04:37 AM |
| 8 | Then they call you porn addicted and your dick smallLiterally just contradicting all of their own narratives about “toxic masculinity” because they themselves are the ones who perpetuate that shit the most | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/11/20 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it actually a good strategy to pursue someone or should I wait for someone to pursue me?Bump. Can confirm this is definitely the best way to go about it for a guy you’re interested in (guy speaking). | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | It happened!!Congrats!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Husband won't live by his own standardsSo he’s come around then you mean? | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Husband won't live by his own standardsI think with masturbation it’s good for it not to be too frequent of a habit so that your as much of your sexual energy can be harnessed into sex with your partner as possible. But there are naturally going to be extenuating circumstances where sex isn’t possible logistically, and I think times like that it’s a bit illogical to ask your partner not to masturbate. My best suggestion is to try to impress that lack of logic upon him. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Did the entire description to this post get deleted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Also there’s just no real way to emulate the physical sensation of a vagina on your penis through masturbation. Masturbation is often a depressing experience for men where you’ve accepted a temporary defeat. It’s not some sort of “empowering moment of self-discovery” like how feminist literature describes how it is for women. In fact, if anything, masturbation for men is the exact male equivalent of women fucking a man who’s below her standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Because casual sex isn’t the low hanging fruit for men that it is for women. Even for attractive guys it’s sort of a rare novelty experience. When a girl makes herself very easily available to you, it’s not something you can assume will happen again anytime soon. So you live in the moment and take advantage of the opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?Definitely not true. I regularly flirt online with girls who I know for an absolute fact I will never actually meet up with because I have no intention to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Even "gender equality-supportive" women tend to prefer "benevolently sexist" men despite them being perceived as "patronizing" and "undermining"This should surprise absolutely no one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Sonia Vivas, Spanish feminist politician: “Men with small penises tend to be more aggressive”[ c i t a t i o n n e e d e d ] | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | The reason why men think women are lying when they personality matters a lot is because they mistake personality for characterIn that case the girl they’re with is most likely also pretty boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeFacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being needyWill probably take you up on this tomorrow after I get some much needed rest | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 12:18 PM |
| 3 | As an average guy, when did you finally start getting girls you considered out of you leauge, and what did you do to achieve that?Sometimes a good sales pitch is more important than the product itself. And you become a lot more genuinely confident if you yourself like the product. | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | As an average guy, when did you finally start getting girls you considered out of you leauge, and what did you do to achieve that?This. Demeanor is absolutely everything. | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)Nice. Glad to hear it! | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | I can’t ever ask a women for her numberSo far that’s what’s worked best for me. I find it flows more naturally into a conversation. Right after sharing a good laugh or seeing eye to eye in some way it’s almost like a less awkward way of pointing out the vibe/connection, like when a guy you’re talking to at a party is like “ayy I fuck with this guy” or “cheers to that”. It’s also less pressure on her part as you’re the one giving your number out to a stranger instead of her. In fact it’s really almost 0 pressure or risk on her part be… | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I can’t ever ask a women for her numberThat could definitely work too. I haven’t tried that personally so I shouldn’t speak beyond my experience level but I will say it does sound a bit more complicated to pull off smoothly. But as with almost anything in seduction, if you feel comfortable and confident doing it than go for it! I’d be interested to hear how that works for you. I would say from my experience the most important thing is to not build it up in your head as some major event that’s about to happen. Built up anticipation ca… | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | how to conquer a coquette? and what happens when you do?What does this mean, can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | I can’t ever ask a women for her numberI find keeping it simple works best. “Take down my number. Let’s meet up some time.” Definitely better than asking for her number as has already been mentioned here. It helps to set the dynamic that you’re offering her something, not asking her for something. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | how to conquer a coquette? and what happens when you do?What the hell is a coquette lol | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)Out of curiosity, what sort of things are you doing to work on inner game? That is probably the area I struggle with the most myself | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)I’m in a similar boat, although I haven’t done much cold approaching yet. Just remember that value truly is subjective, and women’s taste in men is a lot more random and less consistent from one to the next than men’s taste in women. A lot of the value a man can offer is simply just being a charismatic and enjoyable person to be around. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 05:00 AM |
| 2 | I wonder what everyone thinks of this article reasons being super hot is problematicKeep in mind that psychology today is a glorified blog, almost anybody can write articles for them. Think of it more like “medium” or “huffington post” than you would a scientific journal or a high-level publication like NYT/WSJ. That being said, I have been surprised in my life how approachable many highly attractive women are. They’re actually less used to and more appreciative of being talked to like a normal human being than average girls are (this applies mostly to IRL conversation, not soc… | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 7 | Late to the Game and now feeling stressed about it, Advice from late bloomers?At 21 you are not even close to being a late bloomer. Get over yourself brother 💪🏻 lol | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 136 | Don't do cold approach without having your life set together first (inner game)I see your point, but I wouldn’t go as far as to say that one should neglect dating and sex just because your life isn’t all that together yet. How many people in their 20s can truly say that their lives are all together? You can and should be able to offer value to girl without being set in your career, having extra money to blow, having your own place, being fit etc etc. If anything get the practice down NOW so that when you do have your shit together you can really hit the ground running. Of … | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What I realized after going to two different dates with a different mindset.Fantastic advice! Glad to hear things are working for you. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 13 | I'm confused about how trp works and I have some questions...Perfect explanation. Honestly, a lot of red pill theories are extremely accurate in describing men’s real life experiences. I personally think that red pilled men are often overly cynical however. Pickup artist culture in particular I think is the perfect example of something that confuses and even repulses women when they’re exposed to it primarily because it’s a side of the dating world that haven’t really seen before, regardless of how frequently they date & interact with men, because they do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 7 | I'm confused about how trp works and I have some questions...Out of curiosity what do you mean by “men don’t love like we do?” Can you elaborate on this a bit? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Men who have been harassedI was assaulted by another guy in my high school when I was 15. I was really into the whole lgbt rights movement at the time so I actually convinced myself to feel bad for him because of his repressed sexuality. It was my first sexual experience also, so part of me was proud that I had gotten my dick sucked before my friends did, even though it was probably the worst few minutes of my life and was definitely traumatizing, but I only was able to put this into perspective years later as an adult. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Do most people finish highschool being afraid to approach people they find attractive while sober?Yes. This is basically what the distinction comes down to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Do most people finish highschool being afraid to approach people they find attractive while sober?Big facts. Every generation after the baby boomers has gradually gotten nerdier than the one before it. Seems like it’s just how humans are evolving at this point. Men in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do most people finish highschool being afraid to approach people they find attractive while sober?That’s great my dude! Genuinely happy to hear this. Keep it up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If men stopped fucking fat/chubby chicks would they lose weight?As someone who’s been overweight off and on throughout the years (and even obese at one point) a huge part of what causes someone to gain weight generally is lack of motivation and self-neglect. Personally I’ve always lost weight when given more sexual opportunities and gained weight when it’s a dry season. I get the sense that it’s similar for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Men, why you so thirsty?This is literally my exact reaction every time I see girls complaining about this online lmao. I love sending dick pics but I haven’t had many opportunities to do so so when I hear about men just randomly doing it I’m just like... wait you can do that??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Who the fuck is that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Neither is ever, even remotely justified. Any time I see a comment from anyone on this sub that signifies genuine hate for the opposite gender I thumbs down immediately. I have to admit that I surprisingly do see more comments like that from women than from men here, and I think male-hate is much more socially accepted than female-hate (it’s literally all over social media whereas female-hate is usually restricted to anonymous/semi-anonymous platforms like this) but either way it’s the exact sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | This is kind of a sister sub of r/CapitalismVSocialismI’ve been making the argument for a while now that free love is essentially just sexual capitalism while monogamy is sexual communism. It’s a very general but also a quite consistently accurate analogy. Free love / free market = fewer regulations, leading to more freedom as well as the negative consequences of that freedom, namely that a small number of people rise to the top while a large amount sink the bottom and the middle gradually becomes an emptied-out temporary state where people just aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 9 | Is the quality of casual sex overstated?Absolutely nothing feminine whatsoever about this mindset. I agree with you on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do men gravitate towards the Red Pill?Very, very, very well put. Good and nuanced answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do men gravitate towards the Red Pill?I would recommend trying to broaden your worldview a little | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:32 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?This is the most retarded thing I’ve read in a while; I’ve never seen a series of sentences this long where not a single one is true. Actually kind of impressive I might go into detail in another comment but basically this comment perfectly captures how distanced women are from any of the male-specific life experiences that define TRP and the manosphere. Obviously women mostly won’t understand the manosphere because it doesn’t pertain to them. You have to have lived in the shoes. The shortest an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Wow this is the worst thread I’ve seen on here in a while lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Giving you a thumbs up for the username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Gen Z make up the vast majority of red pillers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?They’re not though. Feminists have been trying to insist for a while now that women are equally as horny as men and that female sexual desire deserves more understanding and legitimacy, and they’re right. Men come off as more thirsty because we’re forced to be in the active position, very very few of us are ever able to be passive recipients of women’s advances although we all wish we could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Boomers are completely uninvolved in the manosphere and make up a huge percentage of its critics. The manosphere was created by millennials and some younger Gen X-ers, but has surged in popularity recently as Gen Z men were literally raised to believe that their lives are inherently easier, that their successes aren’t as meaningful as women’s since they’re assumed to happen anyway by default, and that all of their failures are further evidence that they don’t deserve this incredibly luxurious po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:30 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?This is the most retarded thing I’ve read in a while but go on believing this if it really helps you feel better about yourself I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Facts. So much, if not the majority, of criticism towards TRP comes from Gen X and older millennials who were already in their 30s by the time social media and online dating became common parts of every day life. Life is so much different for young people now than it was in the 2000s or earlier; almost none of that shit applies anymore. These times are truly unprecedented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a woman used to be a knowing Mistress to a married man for years?What’s RMV? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/20 03:41 AM |
| 0 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?Haven’t come across any statements like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Thank youHell yeah bro! Congrats my dude. Keep the momentum going! | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the SMP will correct?What’s SMP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the SMP will correct?Also in the UK, Orthodox Jews are projected to become the majority of the nations ethnically Jewish population within the next few decades. So yeah you do make a strong point here. Specifically fundamentalist / culturally separatist cultish / type religious groups in general are going to gradually make up a larger portion of the Western world’s population as time goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the SMP will correct?The Amish population doubles every 20 years. If this continues then by the end of the century they will make up a whole digit percentage of the US population (there are also some Amish in Canada and a few in Europe). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the SMP will correct?Lol who said anything about religion? It’s funny as hell to me to everyone immediately jumps to this connection, as if religious people don’t participate in hookup culture and people who avoid hookup culture do so for religious reasons. Most of the time neither of these is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What makes some women more likely to be married than others (in your opinion)?What does that mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What makes some women more likely to be married than others (in your opinion)?What’s BB? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Labour?I do feel like it’s very normal and to be expected for a significant other to be the primary person you talk to about your feelings though. Of course, they shouldn’t be the only person you rely upon to do so, but honestly for people who are in that position I feel that that has much less to do with “toxic masculinity” and being afraid to show your feelings as much as it has to do with not having enough other close companions in your life in general. For example I’m definitely not close enough to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Emotional Labour?In a nice ironic twist, I’m gonna have to go ahead and point out that when men DO cry and talk about their feelings, we get accused of causing girls too much “emotional labor”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Emotional Labour?The “emotional labor” narrative and the “toxic masculinity” narrative are in direct contradiction to one another. You can’t ask men to “open up more” if you’re going to be so put off by what they say when they do so. Women want to see their male partners as towering beacons of strength, and are put off by anything which muddles that image. That’s why men keep things to themselves, not because they’re “afraid of what the boys will think.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Labour?You don’t know anything about men’s inner world and it shows. Men are certainly not any less likely to explore and understand their emotions and the complexities of the failed relationship, they just don’t do it out loud to you specifically because you’re a woman and don’t experience the world the same way, so there’s less to share. Men are so different from the way that women think that they are. I think much of this comes from women rarely getting a glimpse of what men talk about when they’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Labour?When relationships end, men often fair worse because it’s much harder for them to “rebound” quickly than it is for women, and one thing that both men and women seem to agree on is “the best way to over one person is to get under someone else.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Emotional Labour?I have not seen a single post or comment from men in this sub that reads anything like what you’re saying. That might be how you personally choose to interpret their words, but that says more about you than it does about anybody else here. I think for the most part this sub is much more about logic-oriented breakdowns of and arguments against prevailing feminist narratives. I don’t see many people using this sub to air out their emotional grievances like you mention. But even if so, men need a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | The other shoe of the nice guy phenomenon...is it going to drop soon?The sexual revolution is what caused the end of the “gentleman” for this exact reason. Without the norms of dating pre-60s, there was just no longer any reason for men to act like this. In fact, it actually disincentivized it. In hookup culture, half of it comes down to which men can move the fastest. And so with that having replaced relationships as the primary way young people have sex, it becomes the most important factor for men to succeed sexually. It isn’t that “men only want sex”, it’s th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | My criticisms of the “toxic masculinity” narrativeTo add to this, I would also argue that this is actually one of the strongest arguments that there is towards culturally enforced monogamy. Free love is just like the free market; there are naturally going to be a small percentage who rise to the top and a large percentage who sink to the bottom. Without the safety net that governments in socialist democracies provide, the amount of people sinking to the bottom becomes out of hand and competition increases to the point where people must be vicio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | The link between male obesity and struggles with dating and sexThis is a super important point and I’m glad you brought this to peoples attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Appreciation postThis post is 100% serious btw. The “post for mods” flair wasnt necessarily who this is aimed at but there’s no sarcasm intended here I love this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?I think this happens roughly about equally to men as it does to women, and as well it also happens no more and more less frequently than the other way around: mistaking flirting for friendliness. I don’t believe any of this has all that much to do with social intelligence as much as it has to do with one’s desires and life experiences. A painfully memorable example of this was about 2 years ago when an incredibly gorgeous girl I had just met flirted with me and I was in such an intense state of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemicThat is a commonly claimed cliche but I’ve never come across any actual data to back this idea up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemicDo you have a source on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | When even your mother patronizes women of this day, you know something is upMy parents are about as blue pilled as a human being can possibly get, I mean to the point of being brainwashed into deep deep denial from thousands of hours of mainstream media. So... I can’t relate. Lol | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | So what male criteria for assessing female value is acceptable to women ?I think it’s absurd to claim that it’s “unethical” to not meet your own dating criteria. To quote my favorite movie Clerks, you’re implying here that “title dictates behavior” ie that the moral standards one is held to are dependent on that person’s place in the social hierarchy, meaning that what’s acceptable behavior in higher-status individuals isn’t acceptable in lower-status individuals. This is more or less the textbook definition of elitism and is surprising to hear from someone who other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What is the "bluepill" advice on dating for men?Honestly? From what a lot of blue pill-esque rhetoric I’ve heard and seen online, I’m pretty sure the blue pill advice would literally just be “don’t have sex”. I’m not exaggerating, that seems to be one of the most common responses to incel culture and male dating struggles in media outlets like Vice, Buzzfeed, Huffington Post, etc. It’s almost like they’re basically saying “why do you want to have sex? That’s misogynistic! You only want to have more dating options because s o c i e t y ™️ taug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 03:17 AM |
| 3 | What makes submissive women attractive?If you want a submissive women, be dominant. If you want a dominant man, be submissive. Same concept applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | What makes submissive women attractive?Yes but you have to understand that those two things do contradict each other for the most part, just like the example you give. You’re narrowing down your window of options to a point where finding somebody becomes borderline unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What makes submissive women attractive?Because gender roles are complementary to one another. Regardless of whether or not women are consciously aware of it or choose to fully accept it, they typically are more naturally attracted to men who display signs of power and dominance (height, wealth, physical fitness, social status etc). Most men are aware at some level that they need to match this standard in order to be successful with women. This singular fact can explain a huge percentage of typical male behaviors such as being in cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 3 | What makes submissive women attractive?Yes, that’s because it’s good advice worth repeating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | What makes submissive women attractive?Fair point. It’s the gender swapped equivalent to women wanting a guy who is dominant/confident/assertive but don’t want to play the complementary role to that themselves, meaning that a relationship effectively becomes a constant battle for dominance where the woman starts to become less attracted to a man the more that she wins the competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The best chance for a woman to have a successful marriage with a high status man is to be a highly educated careeristI definitely agree with this post. One thing that I think is concerning though is that mixed-class marriages have surprisingly become much less common in recent years than they used to be. When you consider that this is happening at the exact same time that rates of financial upward mobility have hit an all time low, it seems that poor people are more stuck in their place than they ever have been before. I think this should be a cause for concern for all of us and deserves much more looking into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 15 | Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemicI was already theorizing that this would eventually happen before I knew anything about a future pandemic occurring. Fighting gender roles is just like any other form of fighting nature, you’re never going to win. It’s like playing wack-a-mole, you can temporarily win in one specific area and then BOOM, they pounce right back in another nearby area. Specifically, I believe that female-centric sex-positivity has ironically brought us back full circle in many ways. Onlyfans & the sugar baby phenom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 3 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?There is no specific action which is being asked of you when men say this. Just don’t forget to have empathy for others in general because you never know what sort of struggles others are going through. As a man, I try to have empathy for women who aren’t conventionally attractive even if I don’t want to date them. I try to treat them with respect and I discourage other men from making fun of them because doing so is just cold-hearted, mean, and unnecessary. I think what you’re talking about is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Would a woman break up with a high value man if she found out he used to sleep with a younger women?More experience doesn’t automatically equal better at all, in any context. Having had sex with lots of women means nothing in regards to how good you are at sex. It just shows how good you are at convincing girls to have sex with you. Better sales pitch ≠ better product | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 8 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?What is “rapey” exactly You’re either a rapist or you aren’t a rapist, there isn’t really much gray area when it comes to rape and the common usage of the word “rapey” downplays the traumatic experiences of rape survivors in my opinion speaking as one myself (not to put you on the spot this just bothers me in general) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | If self-harm is almost universally considered to be mentally unhealthy, why doesn’t this also apply to sexual masochism? Is it less unhealthy simply because somebody else is doing it?Personally, I generally don’t subscribe to your libertarian mindset which seems to be the de facto norm now regarding issues such as these. At a certain level what you’re saying amounts to apathy, as does cultural permissiveness in general to some degree. Yes, self-harm is an extremely relative concept. But masochism effectively fits the precise definition of the word simply by the nature of what it is. And sure none of this harms others, as once again masochism by definition is an insular act; … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Would a woman break up with a high value man if she found out he used to sleep with a younger women?Anger directed at older men who hook up with consenting younger adult women is a prime example of what I call “reverse slut-shaming” or “stud-shaming”, it’s just a projection of jealousy and personal insecurity as a result of feeling intimidated at another persons sexual success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Would a woman break up with a high value man if she found out he used to sleep with a younger women?Let’s get one thing straight— as long as all parties involved are consenting adults, there is absolutely nothing at all wrong with large age gaps in relationships. There is a large body of evidence which shows that men overwhelmingly are more attracted to girls in their late teens/early 20s than they are to older women. They simply cannot help this, any more than women can help being attracted to taller men. It’s just biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Would a woman break up with a high value man if she found out he used to sleep with a younger women?What’s wrong with using your power and influence to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.This is definitely true. The quintessential example of this is high heels. Almost all women want a man who is at least her height and preferably taller. Wearing heels reduces the number of men who fit that category. Almost all women, even the sluttiest ones out there, have a much more “quality-over-quantity” approach to dating. They often specifically WANT to narrow down their own dating pool. A huge part of how they perceive their own value is based around how “sought after” they are which is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Because part of what women want in a man is for him to be a stepping stone on her journey to greater status and opportunities. She wants to constantly become smarter etc etc and having a smarter leader type bf is PART of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.So you don’t want your partner to be taller than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Why do men lose respect for women who have casual sex with them?Idk I think this is an overstated concept. Oftentimes when this happens it isn’t so much that they guys “loses respect” for the girl so much as he was never that into her in the first place, which often causes girls who like a guy to resort to sex as a way of keeping his attention. That’s often how casual sex works these days. The girl is often less conventionally attractive than the guy is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Gen Z Tik Tok - The new gen of dating politicsA lot of members of Gen Z are only “woke” in public for the sake of keeping up appearances. Low key they’re probably the most redpilled of any generation so far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Quick review of the science: The most common traits described as "toxic" (grit and strength) are actually good for us. They reduce depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation. They also improve psychological well-being, life satisfaction, meaning in life and academic outcomes.The "toxic masculinity" narrative is the strongest piece of evidence yet to prove that feminists are literally attempting to gaslight young and impressionable men into fighting against their own self-interest. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/20 07:09 AM |
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