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So anyone can get groomed? Young to old, old to young, man to woman and vice versa. Grooming is just manipulation, and that’s literally a fact of life. Granted underaged kids don’t have the faculties to make decisions. But 18 year olds can drink, drive, vote, have kids, leave home, join the army, buy a gun… but they can’t choose a partner? Do you see what I’m getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:44 PM
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Loool. He said he is high level, I’m assuming his bank account is high level too. Let’s assume he isn’t a Chad. He isn’t going to get a hot Russian model without departing with his money anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:18 PM
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I agree with the younger than 18 part…. The second part isn’t a strong argument IMO. Maybe you could provide an example of a ‘norm’ being pushed. Also, can older women be groomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:58 AM
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He only cares about appearances. An escort isn’t a hooker… it’s a woman you pay to keep you company at dinners ect. They often blur the lines though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:43 AM
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Do you think a 20 year old at that age using you for Sex would have fucked you up the same way? I ask because at 17 I took a girls virginity for vengeance and left soon after… why because I was immature and petty. At an older age I wouldn’t have done that. I can’t imagine me being 30 would have fucked her up any more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:42 AM
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What’s the difference between grooming and seducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:38 AM
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What is the difference between grooming and seducing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:32 AM
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I’m struggling to see how that answers my question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:27 AM
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Why not hire an escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:48 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:41 AM
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It depends on whether you have other ways to display social proof and/ or a valid reason why you’re not on there. Women chase attention and status so heavily that it would deffo spark red flags if you’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:31 AM
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Gladly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:33 PM
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Wanting beauty is a biological desire for men… an educated woman isn’t a biological desire for men. Most of the lawyers and doctors I know have ugly driven and successful wives. Infact, many politicians even marry just for the sake of appearing the complete package and cheat with women of low socioeconomic backgrounds. I would rather have a beautiful woman with an art business than a average at best high flying lawyer. I’d end up cheating on her with the former anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:22 PM
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Hardly. I’m keeping the same energy, you wanted to troll so let’s troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:06 PM
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Give an example of that round based that you can stop at any time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:11 PM
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Your desperate mother wants me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:04 PM
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Yup yup, exactly how I feel. It works but it doesn’t feel the same as someone liking you for your raw self.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:45 AM
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Weak argument. Women don’t go around with a sign saying I want casual Sex. And this casual sex is only for select few. Men are gonna wait around for these unicorn women who open state they want casual sex, they’re going to game every women into it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:44 AM
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Damn. You are talking facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:41 AM
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Simpleton, you asked no question. And even if you had done, you’ve shown you’re not worthy of an answer. Be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:37 PM
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And for you sir, I offer my ballsack to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:34 PM
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But what’s the end goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:31 PM
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What’s the aim though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:36 PM
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Then it’s on your terms and it won’t be emotionally draining at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:44 PM
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It 100% made my game worse… I think too much, I’m not as playful, I’m hesitant to pull the trigger on things I would do cos it contradicts another theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:43 PM
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Reading instead of being obtuse will help you greatly in life. I stated ‘Of course not ogres’ and you replied referring to men who are ‘Disgusting on the surface’. I’ll see myself out of this useless discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:40 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Second part got me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:33 PM
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Because if you have to adapt methods like negging or not speaking much ect ect when that’s against your character.. you’re deteriorating you self integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:32 PM
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Similar level only thing that varied was their devotion… they weren’t hooked. But it increased the frequency which is why I still persisted. Although, their sex also didn’t match, they weren’t lustful, it was like going the motions. The girls I didn’t game were latched on and locked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:29 PM
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Disagree, many women become interest in men due to their nonchalance and mystery. Of course, not ogres, but yes men they previously cared nothing for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:09 PM
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Gaddam. You’re hitting heavy today. But it’s more like cocaine, a hit of cocaine… is a rush.. similar to validation. If you keep randomly getting this hit, you start getting hooked on the feeling. Eg I try to ignore women to regain my independence, but when I’m in the gym, they gawk at me, when I’m on a night out they cat call me… As such, when I’m going to the gym or out i anticipate this treatment so I dress nice… now it’s ramped up. And just like that I’m chasing their validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:01 PM
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Agreed but if she cares so much she can ask or put you in situations to show it. Eg if I want to see if a girl has ass (very important), I can ask her to go get something for me. If she’s desperate to show me she has an ass, she’s in a weaker position. I know it’s not cut and dry but that’s just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:24 PM
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For validation and more abundance of women. And I do like intimate connections with women not just casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:20 PM
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So when a girl validates you, don’t you feel great? Or is it insignificant to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah… this isn’t game. Game is táctics to win. Great Flirting is just great communication. The point at which it becomes game is when you’re not in the moment and are thinking of a way to get to the next step. I guess you could argue that you can game so much that it becomes your default state.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:32 PM
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Damnn, you spoke into my spirit, I loved that. It validated, everything that I secretly knew was wrong with gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:28 PM
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Second point is extremely valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:23 PM
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The extra validation from women is fun, it feels good… but it also makes me feel like a sucker for not being true to myself which I am like amongst men. I’m addition I’m not a one lady man, so admittedly I don’t feel that abundance unless I have loads at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:18 PM
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Very good point. But doesn’t value show by default over time? Isn’t manipulation anything you do that isn’t natural for that moment. Eg if you take off your top to show you’re ripped.. rather than when you’re hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:11 PM
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I get sucked into the culture of PUA but I’m tryna weigh up whether the juice is worth the squeeze. At what point is it diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:01 PM
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Is it organised or street walker stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:15 AM
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And? Beggars can’t be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:14 AM
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I’ll say it again… the only reason for mens desperation is the lack of options for Sex. Legalise prostitution. Women used to be desperate for men when they needed safety and provision. Now they don’t so they’re picky. If men could pay for Sex freely, they’d only entertain the best women. Why? Because their basic primal needs have been met.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:38 AM
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Agreed. I often make the mistake of assuming they’re normal women… They mostly 40+ jaded and unattractive. Similar to MGTOW guys. That doesn’t reflect the reality of most people you deal with in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:16 AM
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Oh stop it. Check top stories on the site you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:45 PM
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Why is so much of the top stuff mummy fantasies… do you think that reflects reality??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:26 PM
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What’s the best 3
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:09 PM
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And this sir, is why most women are attracted to a man… until he opens his mouth. They have a specific narrative they’ve created for you, and if you don’t embody it, they’re disappointed. This is especially true for attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:06 PM
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Don’t even bother explaining, people here get off on complaining… you providing solutions is offensive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:52 PM
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It’s a masculinity + femininity thing. Not so much man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:05 PM
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Very good points. It’s like telling the poor to stop complaining that they can’t afford rent The average man is struggling for 1 girl, let alone a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:00 PM
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Do woman’s vaginas really throb when they see an attractive man???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:52 PM
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Don’t listen to the detractors. This woman is talking sense. If a woman does fall for you based on these things… she’s settling. The only game you need is being good looking, well kept and expressing your masculine sexual nature
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:06 AM
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Absolute nonsense. Lust isn’t negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:21 PM
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Pretty, Petite, PHAT ASS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:59 PM
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Life is deceptive. Every single thing in life is smoke and mirrors. I struggled to swallow this pill, but half of what you see is not reality. That Tesla owner… is not rich That 10/10… is not natural That Greek God body in the gym… is using steroids. The name of the game is ‘Get it how you can’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:04 AM
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That’s you though. Many people are friends in the workplace and meet up outside and crave getting back into the office to meet them again. Not to mention people from clubs, fighting clubs, dance classes, art classes… can they also not be friends because of their huge age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:49 PM
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Nah Simp don’t hit the same, we need to accuse them of cuckholdery
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:28 PM
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You don’t see people friends with much younger folk because of their environments. But in the workplace when they’re mixed, you see young and old friendships develop naturally. Half of my workplace friends are older, they help me out and I help them out. If there was sexual or romantic attraction, what would make that wrong? I agree it’s not common, but I believe that’s simply because of the lack of situational mingling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:18 PM
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Toxic, narcissist, abusive, controlling and so on can also join that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:12 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:11 PM
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Women love those shaming words. They’ve mastered the craft of emotional manipulation. It’s mens duty to master the art of not giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:09 PM
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Looks for short term more genuine lust Status for long term because it can afford them better lives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:20 AM
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Bro. I think it’s default. But before they didn’t have their freedom. Now they don’t need men for stability or attention they’re showing their true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:32 PM
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I jumped on tiktok for the first time I’m months and I can’t stop seeing vids of women admitting their nature https://vm.tiktok.com/ZML8QPTNY/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:22 PM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZML8x9cWr/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:56 PM
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Maybe don’t lie, and lean on the side of omitting the truth or being extremely ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:12 PM
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This is it, I spent all my life playing the righteous game. I’m not bad looking so it worked out okay… lost way more girls than you could imagine though I met with redpill friends who are less hung up about the truth, I tried the lying game and my God do these girls lap it up. So for the girls I want something serious with… I will be truthful. For the girls I just want to fuck, I will lie till I even believe it to be truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:52 PM
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It’s because women are very emotional beings. She liked you because of the idea she had for your potential.. the more you give her that doesn’t match/ supersede her expectations… the more she’ll be turned off. Tbh everyone wants excitement, women more than men. But men get comfortable very fast… women have competition anxiety, dettachment anxiety, trauma ect… they rarely get sloppy. Men generally think once they’ve slept with a woman she’s signed her life away and start getting sloppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:11 PM
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She Definitely wasn’t attracted to him enough to fuck him. But still thought he was cute and that he’d grow on her. As for the chads, she Will fuck him first date… cos she knows if she doesn’t there probably won’t be another cos he’s that desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 AM
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Precisely, it’s an offering price. How much are you willing to give to get this coochie that you want so desperately?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:51 AM
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Nah g, you missed the mark. They’re acc saying he has to prove himself to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:47 AM
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Anyone who thinks there aren’t ranks… does not get girls. If leagues didn’t exist, most men wouldn’t be levelling up their lives.. they’d just be gaming supermodels whilst being sweaty greasy pieces of lard. Unfortunately… that isn’t the case. You have a ranking for your looks, money, status and game. How far you get depends on your level and what that particular woman values most. There’s not clear cut leagues like most of us think… but there are cut off points.
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:25 PM
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How old are you? That’ll determine a few things. Realistically, part of maturing is understanding that the customer is always right. If the person you need something from only values x.. but you value y. You must now decide if you love for y is so intense that you are willing to lose your customer. I love being open with women, but they love me more when I’m mysterious. So I’ve had to sacrifice that part of me, but it’s worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:15 PM
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Best advice would be.. ask yourself at what level would you see yourself as an undeniable catch that deserved the women he wants. Then dedicate your life to becoming that exact man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:37 AM
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It’s actually nothing special. Ive always been decent with women but then I had some health issues that made me very unappealing. I Sorted them out and other insecurities. And yeah, women see me again 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:35 AM
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It’s often easy for women to think idealistically ‘Men shouldn’t talk to me, im not for their pleasure’ another would be, ‘why should I have to make myself beautiful for the male gaze?’… this is speech from a position of privilege. They get their maslows physiological need for Sex met with ease. Men are forced to think realistically ‘Yes it’s not fun that I must constantly be improving myself to be appealing to women, but I have a strong urge for Sex, that WILL NOT be met if I don’t comply’ sooo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:21 AM
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How did you meet your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:10 AM
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Amazingly articulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:10 AM
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I realised that woman’s issues with male porn obsession is the same issues men have with female Instagram obsession. It nullifies the need for the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:27 AM
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Did you tell her most things early on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:21 AM
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Fair points. So essentially it makes sense if your severely lacking.. but otherwise the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Understandable perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:33 AM
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I’m not saying you can’t fuck girls now… I’m saying don’t date seriously. Because your valuable time and energy should be going into levelling yourself up to becoming a higher value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:44 AM
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You know you can be handsome at 30? Reason why most aren’t is cos they get sloppy, drink, no gym, no skincare routine… I’m handsome at early 20’s I’m 100% sure I’ll be even better by 30. I’m already attracting 10x the women I did in my teens. And no that’s not the case, I already am a ‘Chad’ I’ve been having sex from a very early age. But when I tapped out of women for 2 years and fixed a few things, I returned and the quality of girls I could attract with ease went from 5’sto 7’s.. and a model …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:24 AM
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A HVM doesn’t mean a traditional or a morally obedient man. All men like youth and beauty. Some suppress their desire due to societal shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:08 AM
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Supermodels… attractive women.. average women… you’re all the same. You are disillusioned by a hot broke guy very soon. You see other women with older men living life to the fullest and you want the same. And even the career women you speak of won’t want a struggling guy, she’ll want a guy who can advice her and guide her. I think the problem is, the 30 year olds you imagine… are the ones who’ve spent their lives idling. The 30 year olds I know, have spent their lives in the gym.. getting money,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:06 AM
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At 30 they can get the calibre they desire. Not settle for what they can pull now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:57 AM
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Thanks sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:53 AM
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Loool sorry to inform you, as a man. I can assure you, most young men in their 20’s are broke and trying as hard as possible to appear like their shit is together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:50 AM
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I find it funny how women claim that 21 year olds don’t like 30 year old men… But 30 year old men I KNOW are the ones who get more 21 year olds than me.. who is closer to their age. Why? Because the hot girls have had the popular jock… now they want the handsome guy who’s got his life together and can show her the world. Look at supermodels.. they rarely even date other models, they date rich older men. Just Google a few and you’ll scratch your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:49 AM
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And so are 30 year old men who’ve looked after themselves. You think in 9 years the hot 21 year olds have aged into goblins?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:42 AM
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I’m sure a young lady with daddy issues or a silverfox fettish will oblige. I might even commit to her after being a whore for so many years. Match made in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:37 AM
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You need charm.. to get… Sex. I said… he can have… Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:32 AM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:22 AM
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It contributes Dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:20 AM
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Cos they’ve established themselves, they may not be naturally handsome but they’re in shape and wealthy ect.. things they can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:11 AM
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Yup you know I said he can have sex with women right? Or did you not read my post? Or do you think you can only charm girls in a relationship¿ Money, life experience, status, sexual experience, life set up. I see it ALL the time on Reddit. Women asking for advice and their partner is 10 years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:10 AM
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Loooooooool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:06 AM
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I’m with you on that one bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:06 AM
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You’re misrepresenting my words… when they’re literally there. Please don’t. You’re also generalising and assuming again… so yeah let’s end the convo here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:22 AM
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.. except… it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:05 AM
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Damn, that turned me on. Call me a selfish boy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:58 AM
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As I suspected.. they used a census in 3rd world countries? Since you’re educated.. tell me how reputable that makes the data? Neither of us can prove anything. So we’ll leave it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:56 AM
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Thank you, it’s all agenda. I’m glad to hear it from the horses mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:53 AM
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My type? Aunty, I’ve told you I’m a tender aged boy. I’m acc bussin up, you triggered hunny. What part triggered you? The fact that you expire like milk? Or the fact that there’s always gonna be a fresher, newer, wetter pussy ready to ride us because of who we’ve built ourselves up to be. And all you can do is cling onto your dwindling looks whilst growing deeply insecure and reminisce on the days you actually had light in your eyes? Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:52 AM
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Anecdotal experience is more reliable than a consensus from a 3rd world country. Where was this data gathered from? Why wasn’t I asked? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:39 AM
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Most men won’t.. because they’re distracted. But give a man 10 years of focus? Why can’t he? Ahh the foolishness has began… where did I state that successful men don’t commit till they’ve assessed? I simply stated that a better option than dating and chasing multiple women is to invest time and energy into becoming a better man and reenter the marketplace with a bit of leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:37 AM
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Says whom? Many women want to settle down at 21 but men aren’t ready for it. I watched a film just yesterday called ‘Alfie’ set in 70’s and the woman was complaining that she was getting old and needed to have kids. She was 23. A fling at uni was telling me she wanted to have kids very soon, and feels the urge to settle down… she was 20. Avoid generalising, avoid prejudice … the world will open up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:34 AM
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What I mean is… dating is not the only source of emotional maturity. So OP’s assumptions of a lack of emotional maturity is baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:30 AM
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Many women on this thread seem to think 21 year olds are disgusted by 30 year old men🤣 Infact I see 30 year old men getting more options than me who’s in his early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:28 AM
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I, the man who’s actively dating the 21 year olds we speak of is projecting, not the older woman who’s disgruntled by men her age seeking younger women. Get a grip Aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:26 AM
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If you fail you failed🤣 date your fellow 30 year old counterparts and don’t complain at the quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:24 AM
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Loooooool foolishness😭 Real life Status and High School status aren’t the same sweetie. A man who has many powerful friends, connections to exclusive locations, well known in his community has more status that a cool trendy kid. I give women their humanity. How dare you accuse me of not? I love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:23 AM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:19 AM
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We don’t, we just know it’s a humongous attraction factor for women. And thus solves many issues or hang ups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:18 AM
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You’re on your own there darling. Hand on heart. I solemnly believe I will still be fucking 21 year olds when I’m 50. It seems like you’re annoyed and (thus projecting) at the fact you’ll have disappeared into the marketplace abyss by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:16 AM
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You know your testosterone can still be high and your body not perform as effectively right? Peak sperm count is between 30-35 A quick Google would address your folly. Because there’s a balance my dear. Although he may be peaking In testosterone… he hasn’t peaked financially. He hasn’t peaked in Social status…. Things a 21 year old boy is no where near. And by the time he is… she will be past her peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:08 AM
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Nope, because I have range of logic and am aware that not every model is a coke snorting party head. Infact, most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:03 AM
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Good point tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:57 AM
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Mmmm very good points raised. Especially the jaded part. Most people who have been in the dating game or even relationships are cold, bitter, have trust issues… you see too much. Especially on your 20’s when people are most inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:56 AM
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Sigh, unfortunately I’m abundant in Sex, and have been since a very young man. I just want models now. But regardless, I do wish the best for you, I can only assume a scrote (or a few) from my gender tainted your soul. Try not to let it plague you, life is to be lived with a heart of feather. Relieve yourself of the hatred and resentment, invest your valuable energy into rekindling some self love. Best Wishes x
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:52 AM
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Meh. I’ve seen men do it in less. I’ve seen men go from scared of women to sleeping with multiple a week, to dating long term. How? They had time on their hands and put their all into it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:45 AM
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I have actually friends born and living there… and they’d stated age gaps are not a thing. It’s just stability. I wouldn’t lean on stats for something so fickle and difficult to monitor, especially in a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:42 AM
0

I’m a young man, early 20’s… no need. But with their guidance, no doubt I’ll be dating 21 year olds when I’m grey☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:41 AM
1

And how many rich guys are there in their 20’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:39 AM
1

Let’s not pretend like all women don’t like a man with money. Besides this, the men I speak of will have leveled up in all areas… charm, aesthetics, financially. The same things women find attractive in a 21 year old boy… he will have… but more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:38 AM
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Nope a man’s peak testosterone is 35, then it starts to decline. A man’s peak strength is also in his 30’s. A man can be fertile till the day he dies. Sooo men and women aren’t on the same timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:36 AM
1

Yes… but if you read my post… you may be getting decent women.. but not the ones you want. Eg models.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:33 AM
1

True points again, the abundance isn’t guaranteed. But I feel as though the level of partner he would attract even at a basic level would be higher.. if he acc became a somebody. Let’s say he could get a 4 woman who loved him in his 20’s… if he’s 30 and 10x the man he was… he could now get a 6 girl who loves him and has amazing nurturing skills ect ect… because she’s now seeing his value. Whilst before he want even on her radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:32 AM
1

Yes; but would you rather attract none- few in your 20’s and have a poor sample to judge whats best.. Or be a catch in your 30’s and learn pretty quickly due to the high volume you’re dealing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:28 AM
-1

Reason I think it’s different is because of the age peaks. A man is ideal at 30 because he is established, a woman is ideal much younger because she has beauty and fertility. So different timelines
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:27 AM
0

Use your brain. Just for a second lay of your own copium. When I said the worst of them.. I was talking about the worst of the men who have been grinding for 10 years on improving themselves. Not the men saying at home on Reddit making jokes about copium being illegal in 37 states.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:26 AM
2

I feel sorry for you, I can tell life has been tough on you. I wish you better days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:23 AM
3

Orrrr a handsome man with a full beard, developed face, seasoned style, nice car, nice apartments, charming personality, emotional maturity, life experience…. And quite possibly… a full head of hair. Who you saw at your local gym. BOOM. See how an open mind opens dialogue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:22 AM
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Mmm, because that’s a standard set. A societal norm in west. In Brazil for example that doesn’t exist, nor in traditional cultures. Many grandparents had huge age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:18 AM
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That’s my point. At 30 if you’ve attained your goals.. you have time. The problem is, most men fail to do so, because of time spent chasing women or managing relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:10 AM
1

Key word is chumps. Him being older is irrelevant if he’s the shit. It only becomes an issue when he’s not got anything to show for his age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:08 AM
-1

Most that you know. Many date older, many fuck older. Cos my older friends are fucking MANY 21 year olds. As I said, they just don’t date chumps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:06 AM
2

Mmmm understood, but there’s more to it than being a provider. A man that’s experienced life and leveled up multiple areas won’t be socially awkward. The men you speak of, likely we’re having sex throughout this period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:04 AM
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Clearly your not using your brain. By avoiding the chasing, break ups, courting ect and focusing this energy on success and achievements… he becomes a man who’s admired. A man who’s admired can get women of amazing calibre. This same man could have been a nobody 10 years prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:01 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:55 AM
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Well I think a man has the best of all worlds at 30, looks money time. So it’s best to strike then. A woman’s peak beauty is 21 and fertility 25 (might be wrong) so that’s he best time to strike using my logic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:53 AM
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That’s something he can develop surely, since he’s a mature adult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:50 AM
0

Respectfully disagree. A kindergarten teacher is more than likely all he can attain. If he could get a model keen on being a mother im sure he’d oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:48 AM
1

This is a very good compromise. It addresses the valid points regarding experience needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:46 AM
-1

But isn’t that what all men have to settle for. In todays hook up culture I’d expect nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 AM
1

But isn’t that what all men have to settle for. In todays hook up culture I’d expect nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:44 AM
1

Good points
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:43 AM
0

Well as a man the ideal is beautiful with amazing mothering to your child. So a model is technically the pinnacle of one angle the rest is to ge vetted for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:43 AM
1

Good points, experience is vital. But if he’s high value and has options flying at him, won’t he be in such an abundant mindset that he doesn’t settle. Rather than going through your 20’s chasing girls who disrespect you because your life isn’t together. And when your 30 you look back with nothing to show for it and get discarded for it. Especially in this hypergamous dating scene. Women want winners. Why waste your time if you’re a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:41 AM
1

If he was set up and had his life in order and you were 21 amongst boys who weren’t serious… I’m sure you would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:37 AM
1

If he was set up and had his life in order and you were 21 amongst boys who weren’t serious… I’m sure you would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 AM
-1

If he was set up and had his life in order and you were 21 amongst boys who weren’t serious… I’m sure you would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 AM
1

If he was set up and had his life in order and you were 21 amongst boys who weren’t serious… I’m sure you would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 AM
1

If he was set up and had his life in order and you were 21 amongst boys who weren’t serious… I’m sure you would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 AM
1

Yeah, that’s correct. A 30 year old man who’s good looking and established is higher value than a 21 year old with good looks and nothing else. She’d jump at the chance, as they do already. Just not for older chumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:35 AM
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21 year olds date all ages🤣 this isn’t high school, it’s the big world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:33 AM
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No need to be nice, I’m a big boy. And it’s not about the dates. It’s about the time and mental energy of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:31 AM
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With the cons- game is easy to learn when you’re winning in every other area If he’s leveled up, he won’t be short of options 3rd point is very valid but he’d have attained all his other goals or at least be able to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:30 AM
2

Yeah so sexless till you’re established and a catch or pay for Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:28 AM
-2

Emotional maturity is tied to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:27 AM
5

Lool that was strangely refreshing to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:25 AM
1

Oh women are great… but they’re not AS great as you think. A Mercedes’ to a poor man is everything, but once he rides it for a year, even he will realise it’s just a car at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:35 PM
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This has been the hardest thing for me to swallow. I always imagined being vulnerable as the pinnacle of a relationship. But women only want to see strength, seeing weakness biologically frightens them. If he can’t look after himself, how will he look after me and the kids. Must. Start. Looking. For. New. Options. Robotic Hardwired Subconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:04 PM
1

Good knowledge of aesthetics. Most people here can’t grasp the fact that if he’s a 6 they are less than a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:00 AM
1

Point out where I said it was wrong, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:20 PM
1

In my experience women don’t like male vulnerability unless they have to force it out of you. And even then they don’t want to see weakness, they want you to have overcome it to a certain degree. My advice would be only show glimpses of vulnerability, and only do so once her respect for you is solidified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:35 AM
2

Lol hardly wild. If you are, then say that and if you’re not… back to my question.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 06:31 AM
2

A man that is highly valued/ sought after by the opposite sex and his own peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:06 PM
4

Respectfully, if you want to be provided for 1000% and traditional, why are you working, why not stay at home with your parents and study cooking, cleaning and other SAHM specialties? If a man is putting his all into providing for you, surely your all should go into being the best nurturer? I believe in the man providing but I’d like to understand your stance
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 10:45 PM
2

Respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Beauty standards are simple on both sides. It’s both genders that increase their own pressure and heighten their own feelings of inadequacy. That’s the point I eluded to from the start, and the point I’m ending on. Good debate though🤙🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:00 AM
1

Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:11 AM
1

Precisely, so that is mens beauty standard. Symmetry, hourglass, healthy skin… it doesn’t change much. It’s very basic. Very primal. Very, Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:01 AM
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We’re on a dating sub, I’d hope that one would use logic and assume that men being simple is regarding the dating realm. Acting pleasingly means being agreeable in nature. Most men don’t understand how muscle development works either, so where do we go from here? What has your last point got to do with anything I’ve mentioned? But since you mentioned it, notice the one thing in beauty standards that has never changed… hour glass figure. Men have always and will always be attracted to this (indic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:42 AM
2

Use the brain God gifted you.. Love songs are played all the time. Pop literally stands for popular… so yes that’s enough to influence the minds of young men. Similarly boys who grew up listening to degrading music about women are less likely to have this delusions about woman’s grandeur. I’m addition, the male gaze is a term coined for what I’m talking about. Media presenting women as these untouchable Sex symbols. https://youtu.be/rQIwHD_ITIo Many films you mentioned focus on the female gaze..…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:15 AM
2

There’s all kinds of films that glorify the perfect woman being chased by the imperfect man. It’s the premise of nearly every romance film, boy chases girl. But since you asked; she’s out of my league, 40 year old virgin, girl next door, silver linings, there’s so many that it would be stupid to go on. If you want to talk about music… let’s talk about rnb which stemmed from men crying into the mic about how they’ve lost a perfect woman or what they’d do to have that perfect woman. Or pop in whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:24 AM
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Yes we are. We are far from complicated. We like what looks good and acts pleasingly. Simple. Women’s beauty standards aren’t even in most mens realm of comprehension. Most men couldn’t tell you what contour is or a BBL ect. We are no complicated enough to constantly shift women’s beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:18 AM
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There’s all kinds of films that glorify the perfect woman being chased by the imperfect man. It’s the premise of nearly every romance film. But since you asked; he’s out of my league, 40 year old virgin, girl next door, there’s so many that it would be stupid to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:14 AM
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Well, as I mentioned in another comment… it’s usually due to feelings of inadequacy on their part, low self esteem ironically. They see other girls doing something, and want the same for themselves, they think this girls life is perfect, so they want to present the perfect facade themselves. Little do they know they’re all living an Instagram facade and creating higher standards for themselves to maintain.. Men are simple creatures, they don’t even have the depth to appreciate half of the things…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:01 PM
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I 1000000% agree. Access to women regularly will disillusion you really fast. When you see women farting burping, falling over, bitching, crying with snot running down their noses…. It’ll hit you, shit, they’re actually just as flawed as me. But often women poise themselves in their best light, this is exemplified by insistence of makeup before leaving the house, spraying perfume everywhere, fashion consumerism… Playing hard to get, pretending their lives are in perfect order… Ironically a-lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:56 PM
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Id argue it’s more the representation of women as infallible queens in media and other mediums. Notions such as women don’t fart or shit are rampant. In addition women put on a mask in public literally and figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:44 PM
0

Idealisation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:41 PM
1

Idealisation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:41 PM
1

How can you overdo looksmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:20 PM
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They’re not entirely wrong. Some men just have absolutely no chance. Some men do but the juice is not worth the squeeze = MGTOW The rest of the redpill aware men are basically pick up artists. They play games. Match womens manipulation. They’re not genuine. They’re following a script on how to decode and navigate the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:54 PM
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The irony is, she’s only dating down if she looks good. An average woman with more money than a handsome man is not dating down, she’s cross dating. Both have an asset best suited in the other person.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 10:03 PM
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Clown
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:24 PM
3

Ahaaa. That’s the problem. Assuming you live in the west, you will be richer than 90% of men around the world… that won’t work for most women. Unless they’re seeking Sex Tourism abroad due to extreme unattractiveness. You currently have access to the best men on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:32 PM
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This is the logical solution. But western women will shame you for this. They don’t want international competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:34 PM
2

Thank you sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:25 AM
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Either you’re too lazy to read for context or your IQ is in hell. I’m gonna go with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:22 AM
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Can you see your contoured bum cheeks in the mirror ? Can you see the elastic threading that goes in your bum crack in the mirror? Use the brain you were blessed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:12 AM
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So how is that the same as a man wearing a tight shirt which allows you to ‘enjoy’ it in the mirror. Clearly it’s for other people not themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:28 AM
1

I’ll never understand how contoured bum cheeks and elastic so the pants go up your bum cheeks become normal in the gym. It’s very tacky and attention seeking. Leggings are practical but who can argue that that’s not sexualising yourself to the same men you claim make you feel uncomfortable in the gym…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:25 AM
-1

Except you can’t actually see your bum Pump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:17 AM
0

BRUH. I feel so strongly about this topic. As crazy as it sounds, I don’t want to see fucking cheeks while I’m working out. As soon as a woman dressed like that comes in, all the men are on edge, don’t know where to look. Nervous. Distracted. When they leave, everyone is at ease again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:14 AM
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Facts. I attract these IG type girls and at first it was an ego boost, now it’s draining. They’re so broken and empty. I was in the gym today and saw a few hot girls I usually talk to, but it was the one plain Jane girl I occasionally see that caught my eye. Because I can tell she’s unproblematic, humble, gentle and not trying to be anything but herself.. and as I was leaving I looked around to see her.. poof she was gone, ever so elusive.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 07:07 PM
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The only pressure you have is to be good looking and have a pleasant personality… everything else you’re putting on yourself. Men are rarely searching for women with luxury. Decide if you want constant validation or you want a good partner. I want many beautiful women so I put more pressure on myself to perform. If I just wanted 1 beautiful woman, I’d have stopped competing a while ago.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 07:02 PM
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This is going to be my tactic. There’s no better actor than a woman who has envisioned how she’s going to spend your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:08 AM
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It may be natural but so is a beard… and some women are turned off by men with beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:06 AM
1

Started so I could one day fuck up my dad, continued because friends envied me, continued cos girls found it sexy, continued because it helps my mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:03 PM
1

Have kids with 2, cheat with 1 till she’s used up, replace 1 with a younger 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:41 AM
1

Choose B cheat with A
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:35 AM
1

How old were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:33 AM
1

Loool wait he’d ask you to give you money to spend on him??? Did you spot any other red flags? Mmm, I hear you. I don’t trust men of today to be responsible with being sole earners. They don’t have that range of empathy. I do prefer to pay because it puts me in my masculine energy but my logic always fights my emotions. Why should I pay to impress a woman who earns the same as me? Im essentially saying she’s more valuable than me, so I have to make up for it by paying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:19 AM
1

🤣 You’re a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:16 PM
1

‘Women don’t have equal pay unless you’re talking about the 95% of jobs that exist in society.’ Jobs like tech are cutthroat. Have you ever thought about the fact men being so overwhelmingly more populated averagely perform better? Since, tech is only 20% women… Maybe if women signed a contract stating they will not require maternity leave for the duration of their employment… pay might rise. But till then they are a liability. Look at insurance companies… they don’t care that I’m a responsible …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:46 PM
1

I do agree. Splitting doesn’t feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:48 AM
3

100% and rightfully so. There will be ethical eugenics. Not based on race but on testosterone and intelligence. This is how evolution occurs, it’s Mother Nature at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:34 AM
1

You probably fail to realise how much having a man with you deters other men from harassing you. You nurture, I protect. Makes perfect sense. Our biology is tailored for each. Women do more housekeeping statistically, and men earn more statistically. And tell me.. if someone breaks into the house, who’s going to be the first line of defence.. or even deterrence? Not a woman. So I believe we all have a fair part to play. I don’t believe in maternity or paternity leave. Kids are a luxury. But yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:12 AM
1

Tell me you read to reply, not to understand without telling me. I’ll break it down again for you. If only the people who could afford kids effortlessly had them… even in the west, there would STILL be no shortage of Caucasian and Hispanics on planet earth. Not that it even matters to human minds progression.. a very weird extrapolation to make
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:03 AM
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Children are a luxury. The world is over populated. Resources are scarce. Poverty is rife. I think humanity will survive without your precious offspring.🤣 Point being. If you want a child, make sure it fits into your lifestyle seamlessly. Your boss shouldn’t suffer because you think humanity needs your child on the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:56 AM
1

Well having a child is a luxury. No one should be burdened by it besides you and your baby father. And you’re the exact person this post was for… how on earth does that make sense? You want to pay equally… but you won’t give a guy a second date if he splits the bill. How about you pay for the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:39 AM
1

Damn. Where did the disparity come from between you and entitled women, I wonder. Probably Conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:21 AM
2

Have you always thought like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:01 AM
3

Do you expect a man to offer to pay for it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:53 PM
4

Paying for your holidays, dates, housing ect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:52 PM
4

We get equal pay already. But if a man doesn’t have to lift a finger and you’re full housewife mode… then I agree you shouldn’t have to pay for anything.. you also shouldn’t be working. You should invest all that time into housekeeping and childcare Childcare is almost always equally shared between father and mother these days. Childcare is equivalent to protection you both get from being with a man. We are biologically wired to put our lives at risk for our wife and kids. I think we more than e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:51 PM
3

Cap 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:38 PM
1

Who’s the guy in the middle?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:11 PM
2

Just watched this… she grossly downplays the importance of men’s looks. What she SHOULD have said clearly is, women want elite looking men… with abilities to be monogamous and caring to children. This is why alpha fucks beta bucks… because she needs that sensitive secure man but craves the DNA of the physical specimen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:46 AM
1

This is nonsense. Most men will fuck anything. Look at some of the women profiting off onlyfans. Horrid, but paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:55 PM
0

Perfectly said. Double standards will forever exist. If we were meant to be the same we would be born with the same bodies. I used to flirt with my female teachers aggressively and some would flirt back. That just gave me more confidence in my sexuality. I was never vulnerable. Even at 7 I was a hunter for pussy.. it’s in our DNA. Look at male puppies, they’re humping teddies, legs anything… testosterone is a powerful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:48 PM
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If I had a 7 year old boy I would do the same. Provided he is straight and desires it. When I was 7 I was hungry for that pussy. Experimenting all over the gaff. It’s good to give them guidance, check in on him after, ask him how he felt. Stop trying to paint men and women with the same brush. We are not the same. Double standards exist and will forever exist, because, we are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:41 PM
1

This is facts. But women don’t value looks as much so men fixated on it do appear strange. A better example is a man who leases everything and has debt to appear richer than he is. This would yield the same results as women having surgery manipulating their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:32 PM
1

If you claim you’re good looking and don’t get approached, it’s simply because you don’t look as friendly and approachable as you think you do. A quick skim through your profile shows you borderline have contempt for most people. It’s not too far fetched to assume this shows up subconsciously. Pretty and bitchy (appearing) women are avoided like the plague. No man wants his day ruined by a woman who looks like she’s got murder on her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:05 PM
6

Lol. You’re preaching to the choir. I’m a lifetime bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:42 PM
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I think it’s the fact that they want the world to be ‘fair’. It technically isn’t a fair trade… think about it. A man needs looks, money, status, charisma, emotional fortitude. A woman needs looks and a agreeable personality. It’s just the way the cookie crumbles, women are wired to be hyperselective about their partners because their offspring depends on it. It’s a very hard pill to swallow, especially if you think the world is ‘fair’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:20 PM
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I think Sex Appeal is more important than being pretty. There’s countless women who have sex appeal but are average at best… and that’s a woman’s ‘Game’. Being able to seduce a man… and then having a genuinely good personality, yeah he’s gonna catch feelings. But he will have less tolerance for you because he won’t have external forces constantly gawking at his girl, making him scared to lose his trophy wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:27 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:19 AM
4

Agreed white women are doing what black women did.. which is under appreciating their counterparts and relying on their being ‘Strong and Independent’. This just resulted in multiple disgruntled single mums complaining that men ain’t shit. And multiple fatherless children without guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:01 AM
1

There’s literally no reason. Other than to control the woman or societal pressure. I’ve always questioned things done in society. So from young I’ve refused to pay for dates.. and tried to convince my friends. To no avail. I often stated… “If you wouldn’t do it for your friend or you mother.. why would you do it for a random girl”…. Pussy is the answer. All the women I’ve had genuine connections with didn’t want me to pay for anything more than my half. They all genuinely desired me. Come to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:36 AM
3

The comments on that post are a reality check that people don’t care about the state of mens mental health. I see what he did like a little sister telling her older brothers situationships that he’s seeing 10 other women too. Would they call her an asshole for that? Nope. Because ‘He should’ve been upfront with them’ In both cases, if it’s not a ruse then the truth being exposed shouldn’t change a thing..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:10 AM
2

Very very very true. But our sexual urges are strong due to testosterone and women outdo us in manipulation, not to mention many men were raised by single mums and conditioned to comply to womens needs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:21 AM
2

Mmm so essentially hard times will force women back in power. But times are becoming easier. War is so rare. Edit: Men back in power*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:35 AM
2

Find Fulfillment outside of dating.. it’s only gonna get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:34 AM
7

Amazing breakdown. Women wil 100% tule society.. All you say is right but... women desire strong masculine men.. by nature. So where does this leave their desires? Won’t these men be the harem keepers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:13 PM
1

What do you mean by accelerating? Getting smarter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:57 PM
2

I like that point about marriages being later... Infact I acc think it will be around 40-50 and more of a sentimental life partner vibe. Factsss younger men will pursue older women who will also seek younger men who make them feel seen. I said previously, there will be a lot of genuine (not vengeful) MTGOW, who find other meaning in life than women, and a lot of career women (who never really desired kids anyway). Everyone else will fall into the categories you described. I like your overall tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:49 AM
2

How will mass STI’s effect dating? I think it will actually increase the Onlyfans demand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:59 AM
24

Agreed. It will be subtle but HVM will be bachelors and rotating women with ease. Women will accept this. Because they despise LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:57 AM
4

As someone said.. both groups will increase. What do you think about STI’s increasing How will that effect dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:56 AM
4

I do agree that a slight few more men will be bisexual.. as I’ve seen happen. But no more than naturally are that way. People definitely won’t be converting out of choice. The social acceptance will make a lot of things fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:55 AM
2

What you’ve said has triggered in my mind the fact that STI’s will be rampant... Everywhere. How do you think this will effect people’s dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:52 AM
-3

Nope... remember... 60%+ of the dating market grew up without technology so have certain values. The future generations will have technology influencing them from they day they’re born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:54 AM
-2

Nope... remember... 60%+ of the dating market grew up without technology so have certain values. The future generations will have technology influencing them from they day they’re born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:54 AM
7

Nope... remember... 60%+ of the dating market grew up without technology. The future generations will have technology influencing them from they day they’re born
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:52 AM
3

That vid was hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:33 PM
12

I dunno I agreed up until last part.. men will always be thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:29 PM
4

Interesting, I acc think there will be mass migration. Men in the west will leave and go to countries where they are adored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:19 PM
2

I agree, I think government will realise how sexlessness is crazy high and legalise prostitution. A lot more MGTOW, a lot more career women. Everything in between will be casual or transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:14 PM
4

Mmmmm, good angle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:03 PM
8

I’m thinking, can it really get worse than this? At what point does our biology and desire for human connection start to rebel against Online and cheap thrills
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:01 PM
2

Ugly, Selfish, Negative, Trauma-ridden, Feminist, No Hobbies, Boisterous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:16 PM
3

But they’re given ‘affection’ by everyone
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:24 PM
1

Izm
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:27 PM
3

Until he sees you in different testing situations he will never truly trust you as a wife
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 11:55 PM
3

Fuck hustling for pussy. Who cares about pussy. Buy it if you need to. Hustle so you can look in the mirror and be proud.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:45 PM
0

If you spent that year grinding you would be in a totally different place. Sex is not as fulfilling as it seems Paradoxically men who focus of Sex never get it as much as those who focus of success in every other area of their lives.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:42 PM
1

We all do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:12 AM
1

So why are women still chasing taller men, stronger men when we have police and the armies. Because our genes have not adapted to our reality. Infact they are stuck in millions of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:39 PM
1

The universe doesn’t care about morals.. only the strongest genes being replicated. Hence why women keep falling for these ‘Nutters’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:26 PM
5

If you’re willing to walk away if you don’t get what you want... you’ll be surprised how much more people are willing to do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:18 PM
1

They choose these men. They choose poorly.. but they still chose. If I choose a woman and she turns out to be emotionally abusive and a gold digger... I still chose her. My poor vetting skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:13 PM
1

Facts. Not instinctively. But they seek the ‘alphas’. Even if it’s an alpha in business.. he has very likely got dark triad traits which made him so successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:11 PM
1

Yhh.. no. They’ve been conditioned to be agreeable for safety maybe 100 years ago. Now they’re nice because they know it gets them results. Manipulation. Same as men.. except men don’t get results they get trampled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:06 PM
1

Your point isn’t very clear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:03 PM
1

Yup. 100% and calling him a user and claiming she was led on because they cuddled.. even though he stated he doesn’t want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:02 PM
1

I like this take. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:02 PM
1

I think overtly they do, but women are very passive aggressive. The resentment is usually amongst their friends and online. They’re smart enough not to overtly express this... she may be evil enough to take her passive aggression to levels of false rape claims, gay claims, small dick claims. Resentment isn’t expressed in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:58 PM
1

That’s a complex one tbh. I can’t even comment on it because I’m not on that side of the spectrum. But there is a ‘badboys’ trope, so you’re not entirely correct. Nice guys always bash badboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:55 PM
1

Meh, smart but if it’s not the way you are naturally, that would be taxing over time.. Maybe they even tried and just saw there was lack of return so stopped. Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:42 PM
2

You only hear those sentiments online though... which is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:41 PM
1

I agree with all besides the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:39 PM
2

Hmmm. I don’t agree. I think it can be them.. but unless they get resentful after then it’s not. If a women says she pays for dates... and a guy ghosts her and she continues to pay for dates happily... she’s not a ‘nice girl’.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:39 PM
2

Probably because there is not return on that investment in their eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:24 PM
2

I agree. I think women are less ‘good’ than men... because of the safety aspect. They are willing to do a lot of unscrupulous things to get protection and what they want, things that aren’t easily observable to the naked eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:24 PM
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Men are directly aggressive, women are passive aggressive. Women will plot on you, spread rumours about you, accuse you of rape... all kinds of shit if she feels resentment. Eg you ghosted her after Sex. Hell have no fury like a woman scorned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:21 PM
1

Yup. I think it’s the same... people who behave in a way perceived to be good willed... in hope of returned favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:20 PM
2

I almost agreed with you... Women don’t show this overt resentment because they can’t afford that liberty... but they have it and express it to friends, online ect. Remember, they are passive aggressive. Eg “I gave him Sex and he didn’t wife me” “I paid for the date to show I’m different and he didn’t wife me” It even extends to women “I was so nice to her, I don’t know why she doesn’t like me” “She didn’t come to my birthday meal, such a bitch, I went to Hers!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:15 PM
2

You’re intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:50 PM
1

Id argue women have much more to gain, just less so in the dating realm. Much less so for Sex, much more so for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:49 PM
2

I agree. Society is heavily punishing disagreeable behaviour, so men are often being the nice guy because it’s safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:06 PM
3

I agree it’s mainly about survival. Which is why I call it faux agreeableness. Which is also what nice guys display, although for less understandable reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:03 PM
2

The fact women ‘Play it up more’ suggests there are more ‘nice girls’ than ‘nice guys’ Meaning they are much more manipulative. But yeah that answers my question, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:59 PM
3

I think you’re missing a key factor. Overt/ Covert behaviour. Women appear not to be assholes.. because it is costly to their reputation, which they rely on. If people know she’s a bitch, they’ll stop being so kind and gentle to them. Men are rarely afforded kindness because we are “tough” and can handle it Check a female groupchat- pure savagery. Bitching everywhere about everyone. ‘Girl talk’. Now compare this to girls in the club toilet or commenting on other girls pictures... Sweet supportiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:47 PM
3

Mmm, I agree. But do you think it may be unattractive because it’s disingenuous? Or because it’s seen as weakness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:37 PM
0

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:34 PM
0

Mm, but is it genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:33 PM
3

Hmm, all the time. But the question is, do they actually lust him to begin with? Eg her perfect 10, if he says something wild that upsets her... she will likely fuck him then block him. A 6 to her probably has to jump through hoops to begin with to reach her threshold. So a fumble of the tongue could be fatal. That could also be because her 6 is easily replaceable, she doesn’t have to deal with his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:31 PM
1

Become excellent at something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:20 AM
2

I don’t get why people differentiate between SMV AND RMV... women want a man that satisfies both... but if forced to settle she will unhappily choose RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:20 PM
4

lol I feel good AF, I don’t care about stories, just truth. That’s what I continuously strive to discover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:02 PM
6

I like the phrase. Explain what it has to do with my post though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:40 PM
6

Agreed. What are your thoughts on the more sinister aspects female nature eg manipulation, monkey branching, collecting beta orbiters, the stuff RP men say acc make women unscrupulous?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:44 PM
7

Pseudo science or not... a woman who has fucked multiple men is more likely to divorce than a virgin woman. And with chemicals like oxytocin being released after Sex to cause a woman to be attached and connected to her partner, is it so much of a stretch to believe that overtime this might stop having the same effect? Humans aren’t monogamous, true, but women weren’t having 50+ different kids by different men. They were sticking to 1 for safety unless he was killed or abandoned her.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 06:39 AM
1

Laziness is subjective, most of the ‘lazy’ people put their energy into video games which is another form of aggression via competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:26 AM
4

Asking questions is good, but put some effort in. Google the definition of solipsism and compare it to who the beneficiary of a good mother is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:22 PM
-1

Martial Arts and Gym as a basic necessity: men are still have testosterone which leads to untamed aggression Finding your purpose: Finding what you are passionate about and developing mastery of it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:19 PM
4

The very nature of him caring about her being a good mother is oxymoronic to solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:14 PM
2

“Male Solipsism” I almost choked on my porridge. I’m sure you didn’t even think that through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:11 PM
0

Blissful ignorance is rendering you dim. A man not checking a woman who’s late is him playing games?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:11 PM
2

Pussy is the last thing I care about. I’m just informing you of the nature of the field. This happens subconsciously a lot of the time.. it could be as simple as, girl is late to date.. doesn’t say anything, nor does he. But she’s processed that he’s a push over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:50 PM
15

Stop the cap. Women test all the time to see if a man has the balls to stand up to her bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:11 PM
8

You don’t need a redpilled man, you need a high value traditional man. High value traditional men are likely bluepilled, and know nothing of the negative aspects of female nature. They’re naive. High value redpill men are near impossible to get commitment from, they’re going to be eternal bachelors. The statement that a redpilled woman is an oxymoron is almost plausible. It would mean accepting damning things about yourself. Such as your hypergamy, tendency to manipulate using feminine wiles ect…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 04:01 PM
21

Redpilled simply means aware of human nature and gender dynamics specifically. Don’t confuse traditional man with redpilled man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 03:47 PM
1

Simple, realise that you aren’t the centre of the world and don’t take it personally. Understand this, you aren’t even a spec of dust in her reality, if she rejects you... it’s nothing to do with you. She’s acting based on her reality. The second you leave she will continue to ponder about her sick cat or her ex who is now dating a model. You’re nothing, and that should free you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:42 PM
1

Lol hold that frame my man. Don’t fall into the trap.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:07 PM
0

Find a stable girl of his calibre for company, she might be semi ugly. And cheat on her with hookers. If I was ugly that’s exactly what I’d do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:48 PM
2

If it’s out of necessity then yes, if it’s out of convenience then no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:43 PM
6

But you see how much a fairy tale that is? You’re not even on the radar if you don’t satisfy other basic needs such as financial and physical ideals. Hence why people are improving and flaunting, so they can be in the radar and have a chance to showcase their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:34 PM
6

Hmmm, so are you saying people should only choose partners who want them for their personality? Because everyone is looking for these positive attributes status beauty ect on both sides... it just comes down to how unscrupulous they are in regards to attaining a partner with those things. The purest hearted woman and the most demonic woman both want a man with extensive wealth status and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:11 PM
3

Same evening, Gaddam he cold. What about love bombing? Don’t red flags pop up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:25 PM
1

Mmm understandable As for future faking and love bombing I always here women refer to how it got them. But I never understood how even grown women fall for it. What kinds of things are these guys saying regarding those two things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:39 PM
3

What’s manufacturing a love triangle?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:35 PM
1

Mmmm. Amazing point at the end. I think style correlates to personality more than success
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:46 PM
2

Mmm, I agree. From my experience women love stylish men, so seeing all these gay comments was just making me laugh. As you said, this sub is deffo not reflective of the average woman’s mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:41 AM
1

Are you from America?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:25 AM
1

Well well...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:08 AM
1

If you saw the face I just pulled. What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:01 AM
1

I am too, Youve made me realise that maybe because we put emphasis on dressing well, Im not even on the radar in work clothes. Same way a nurse in her gear is just a nurse in her gear.. it’s hard to see past it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:00 AM
2

I’m shocked by this gay sentiment. I’m not talking tight jeans and muscle top... I mean a regular outfit like fitted leather jacket jeans chain boots... stylish but not fashionista
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:57 AM
1

Mm, but style doesn’t suggest money. Flash/ designer suggests money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:18 PM
1

What’s the difference between normie and different subcultures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:38 PM
1

Lool women only in groups though, “certain bars” stick to the extensive gawking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:11 PM
3

Style just means put together well, not dressed wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:57 PM
-1

A big city
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:55 PM
0

Any serious trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:14 PM
0

You already know about analysis. You come off slightly different to my usual type. But it’s only because you’re aware of the game. I usually attract girls who are super affectionate and good girls (heart wise, sluts in the bed always) ... which is hilarious because I’m the opposite. I reckon it’s because they see the coldness in me and think they can turn ice into a bubble bath. Probably because it would be a huge ego boost if they succeeded. Did you have you father growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:09 PM
2

How would you describe your own character in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:52 PM
4

Naturally I’m like this, so I learnt it’s effects very young. Validation comes rarely in my family so I rarely give it out. My first girl told her friend, “He rarely compliments me, so when he does I know it’s real” I was always the mean guy who had a softer side for his girls so dating was a breeze... I decided to switch it up a few months ago to be more of a “healthy” communicator... and I can assure you, I won’t be doing that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:27 AM
8

Nope. It’s based on a scale of scientificallly proven attractive traits. Admittedly the female scale is definitely inaccurate. But the male one is pretty accurate. Not perfect though. Most people just can’t stomach how low it makes them if their dream girl is ranked as average. Or the man they see as Gigachad from the gym is just a 6 on their scale. What they forget is that even if there is only 10 9/10’s alive... they still exist. Same with finances... the rankings start from billionaire... whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:39 PM
7

But 5 is a good rating. It’s based on a chart made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:07 PM
6

I imagine he has a boyish charm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:39 PM
1

I’m glad you have some self respect. I would play it cool, but put her to the back of your mind. She already doesn’t respect you much. And please believe she is seeing other people. And you should be too.
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:34 PM
6

That’s a slippery slope you’re entering
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:44 PM
5

Yeah I saw it a few years back. That’s how I would feel. It’s like a woman marrying a man thinking he’s a stable CEO millionaire.. but he’s actually used credit cards to fund it... and is in deep debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:44 PM
2

Not on hand but it was mentioned in the book ‘Grit’ and ‘grown mindset’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:16 PM
25

There’s a study that established, humans admire people who had natural talent much more than those who worked hard to get what they got. So this logic makes sense. That’s why in school people used to pretend they didn’t even revise when they got their A* Also why some men like me aren’t attracted to women who have had surgical modifications. It’s less admirable because it didn’t come naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:28 AM
1

I’ve never noticed this in relation to looks but I’ve been told this by other men in relation to personality. It makes sense, a natural born leader will by default pass genetics onto her child. Unlike a leader who was born weak and docile but spent his life emulating behaviour of a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:24 AM
4

Literally. An independent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:07 PM
4

Physical health signals, Strength signals, Mentally Stoic with ocasional charm, not afraid to challenge or lose her, prioritises himself and his mission, can cater for her financially, socially respected or failing that revered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:57 PM
7

And that’s on FACTS. Add more wealth/ Stability than her and you’re spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:48 PM
1

Your welcome
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/21 10:05 AM
1

Settling for what they actually deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:53 PM
1

Why would you pay for a nanny if you have a stay at home wife... Anyways the men I speak of are bachelors. One just last week met a model in the city and brought her back to his office and fucked her. These men are Well kept, well established and well travelled, they don’t struggle in any department. Yet... and when they do, maybe they will get a sugar baby. As for me, I’m a young handsome man, I’m far from my sugarbaby days don’t worry about me. Plus, Sugar babies are expendable. There’s always…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:52 PM
2

Girls friendships aren’t my expertise As for the second part...You haven’t even been on a date with him and you’re hoping to marry him.. lord give you strength, cos you’re in for a bumpy ride.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 03:27 PM
1

If it’s legal, and it feels right, do it. Don’t lead with fear, life is all about gaining experience and adapting to it. Dealing with an older guy, youre gonna learn the dating game much faster than with a 16 year old boy, which is an advantage. As long as you don’t make any permanent stupid decisions along the way, this will be a valuable learning curve for you. And going on a date will tell you much more about the kind of guy he is. Also make up with your friend, or find new ones because they …
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/21 12:38 PM
15

I think the female form of simping is being violated over and over during a relationship and still chasing the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:07 PM
1

Potential for him to be great or potential for them to have something special?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:43 PM
2

Nah arrangements as in smashing their cheeks to smithereens And even if it was, most men are beta bucks at 30+ except it’s for their washed up wives and to provide for their kids. Would you say a man with a housewife is beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:04 PM
2

You’re talking about the men who haven’t taking care of their bodies. But men in shape with money and life set up are getting chased by 18+ girls. All my friends and mentors that age attract girls my age and younger with ease. In addition most of these relationships are quiet arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:42 PM
2

I think the wall is not so much women falling off.. but their options shrinking significantly. Whilst their counterparts options are growing exponentially. Their male counterparts(30+) are at their peak state and these men are being chased by older women, women their age and younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:57 AM
19

I used to highly laugh at this response. But I’ve realised that feminine energy is 1 rare and 2 like extra fuel to a man in his masculine. I find myself capable of much more when I have a nurturing woman behind me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 07:25 PM
5

... you do know dark triad traits are rarely obvious to the naked eye. A narcissist could be as such and it manifests in beauty A Machiavellian man can be as such as it manifests in him being able to get into her mind subtly A psychopath could be as such and just be faking empathy and emotions that he knows she craves. People with dark triad traits are rarely the felons, they are usually the Salesmen, ceos, entrepreneurs, influencers... and these folk are notorious for attracting more women than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:39 AM
2

Ahhh if you mean the whole package of a woman is being analysed then I agree with you. You get your equal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:41 AM
3

I thought I agreed.. but I realise I don’t. If we are talking about Prince Charming... this is the top 10% as you said... so looks, money, status.. he’s top 10%. Besides celebs, the top 10% men I’ve seen are often with just above average women... I think this is either because it’s their childhood sweetheart, or they don’t know their worth (which women make sure to keep this way regarding all men, but that’s for another day). It’s extremely rare to find a woman who is equal in value to a top 10%…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:17 AM
1

Stand up guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:31 PM
1

Loool I’m ashamed to say I might be. If I saw her getting down and dirty I might look at her a bit differently. But I’d rather that that her be hurt of course. What can I say, toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:20 AM
1

Nahh don’t avoid the question. There’s two choices. Extreme equality ie getting treated with same roughness as men. Or extreme patronising, getting treated like a helpless fairy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:19 AM
2

I agree. But most of the pandering I do isn’t out of attraction. It’s out of guilt. My mum drilled in me chivalrous acts. It’s like not saying thank you when someone gives you something. Because you’ve been taught to do it.. it feels so wrong not to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:09 AM
1

I’m a very violent person but not to a murderous point. And not unwarranted. I realise I like violence so I partake in violent sports. Your husband as you described is probably low in testosterone so not like most men. Although unfortunately in the real world if he made the wrong move, he’d be treated like a real man. Which I keep referring back to. Although since you say you like non masculine men I’m sure he would cower and beg for mercy? Would that be preferred?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:08 AM
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Wow. I meant in the western worlds but yeah Russia and other areas of the world don’t have much of a “Delicate flower” mentality to women. Infact they treat them much worse than men. Question Would you rather be treated with roughness like in Russia and feel like you aren’t being pampered or treated like a child who is too soft and supple to do anything for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:04 AM
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Sarcasm... honey. Sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:54 AM
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Blame isn’t the best word because it’s not negative to me. Men like violence and aggression. Some express it in games some in sports some in street fights aggression is in our nature. It’s called testosterone. Whether you like it or not, it’s here to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:45 AM
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Lol yes. Id absolutely love it there. Love a good shoot out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:43 AM
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Have you ever been to a club, bar, on a bus, to a park? Do you control the people you cross paths with? Work with me Gaddam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:28 AM
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I personally love our nature, it’s not perfect but I appreciate it. You on the other hand may see it as trash. But there’s a reason we do it, cos we love the comradary and bravado amongst ourselves. For the most part. It’s in our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:26 AM
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It means to “cater to” and “accommodate” it’s a very broad word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:14 AM
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See I’m already losing them. Be gone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:12 AM
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You can’t choose how another man will respond to you miss. A transgender youtuber called contrapoints said it well. She said something along the lines of... “being a woman is much better, i don’t know if you’ve ever been a man but they’re very mean to each other”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:05 AM
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You’re clearly to naive about men for me to even engage without losing brain cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:02 AM
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Which most men are to each other. Have you ever seen men gaming? Have to ever seen men playing sport? Your female delicacy bubble is in full force and you can’t even see it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:00 AM
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Nope tease me in a reply back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:58 AM
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Well done, you took an analogy and tried to smear it over the whole arguement. Cheap but smart. Men live by a set of rules that means they can get hurt for making the wrong move. They don’t chose this. It’s the way of the land. For someone who hates gender roles Id have thought youd do more research on what life is like for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:58 AM
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Who told you women deal with mental illness more? How naive. Truly naive. Do some research madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:55 AM
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So men are so much more skilled at milling themselves than women??? Are you trying to convince me of female delicacy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:54 AM
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Well done to you. I have many female friends who love that aspect of having a male friend that gives it to them straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:53 AM
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Nice try. I said He would tease me.. not I would tease him. If you’re gonna play semantics at least do it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:51 AM
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Not all but all are subject to the same rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:50 AM
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Yes. White lies are useful. But the fact you can’t admit that you’re pandering to egos is the worrying part. If you aren’t pandering... why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:49 AM
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I said “To each other” of course they won’t be brash to you. They fear you’ll never recover from it. Hence the whole topic of faux female delicacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:48 AM
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I don’t have male friends that I think are boring. But if I couldn’t be bothered, yes. And he would likely tease me back about how lazy I am and we’d get on with our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:47 AM
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Interesting, some women will cry about a man not confronting him, others will call him a Karen. As for me, I have absolutely no failures as a man I’m living in bliss. I understand my nature and truly live in harmony with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:46 AM
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I think you’ll find that men are very very brash and direct to each other. Very rarely worrying about upsetting feelings unless it’s something extremely personal like their mother or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:43 AM
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How is it polite to lie to someone? Admit you’re pandering to his ego and your also pandering to hers by lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:41 AM
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And men kill themselves way more than women.. what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:40 AM
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So lying is kindness, and honesty is cruelty. I think you’re showing your true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:39 AM
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Good lad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:39 AM
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Hate to break it to you but, not everything is as it seems. All men follow this rule book. Violence is literally the backbone of most order. The understanding that this man is willing to inflict pain on me if I make the wrong move. Ask your evolved man why he doesn’t want to confront the guy who barged in front of the queue. Because unlike you he could get punched if his tone is wrong. Men know these things, and I kind of wish women did too because they’d behave so differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:38 AM
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That’s irrelevant. Assuming yes, you will have pandered to something... and I’m assuming that something would be her delicacy. Otherwise you’d just have given it to her raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:31 AM
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Are they too delicate to be told the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:30 AM
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Mentally yes... if not more. Physically no.. but nor are other men. I’m very muscular, if a smaller man (5”3 and frail) starts trouble with me I will spin his jaw without second thought. If a 5”10 butch woman started trouble with me I would have to think twice before I take any action. In the animal kingdom, lions dont spare the female deer and attack the males alone. It’s only the illusion of female delicacy and innocence that causes this to happen with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:19 AM
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You don’t need to. I’m just highlighting the reality of manhood. But ironically women and men are so inclined to each other that knowing all this... most if not all women would still choose to deal with men on an intimate level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:14 AM
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Meh but don’t you do that to women too? Make up excuses so as not to offend them? Eg I can’t make your birthday party, my mums really ill? Or will you tell them direct that you can’t be bothered?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:11 AM
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I like this outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:09 AM
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Explain the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:34 AM
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Equality would be good. But as started to favour modern day, they decided to run with the Batton instead of passing it to those who actually need it. I used to say this as a teen. I’d be so supportive of feminism... if it was surrounding women who aren’t allowed an education around the world. But when it’s about women complaining about sports pay I can’t take it seriously. Men and women aren’t treated equally as a collective... because we have different biologies. But we are given our own Advant…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:13 AM
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You’re trying hard to overcomplicate the debate. You just sound confused. And you think sugar babies and daddies is an internet/ digital phenomenon? Are you trying to sound silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:54 PM
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Wow, I had to read this twice. A woman holding her gender accountable. Your awareness is impressive. This is actually a great sign, of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:48 PM
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Wow. How did I not think of this. This is a perfect example. Or even when an ugly girl approaches you, you have to think of the most polite way to turn her down without sending her into depression. Or when a group of girls approach on their friends behalf and say “Don’t be a dick just tell her she looks nice”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:27 PM
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Delicacy Fragility same thing but yes that’s what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:18 PM
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I thought it went without saying that the REASON why they cater to male egos is because when they do, men feel inclined to behave in favourable ways to them. You misquoted me, I didn’t say “being with men in general affords them an easier life” And you thinking sugar babies are actually getting money from sugar daddies as genuine test to see which suitor will make the cut as their man is stupid at best. Respectfully. I’m just hoping you’ve misunderstood the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:17 PM
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Loool yes this is true, and i wouldn’t be surprised if you played along like you were helpless because it made life easier for you. I admit men are like this, it gives us light... but it’s because we are taught this is what men do. Eg you help your mum with something heavy “wow your such a good boy, so strong and mighty. I’m proud of you” Or even in the reverse side when I’m play fighting with my sisters “Be careful, they’re girls. Don’t be rough”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:11 PM
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The example is clear as day. Women mostly cater to male egos because it affords them an easier life. Ie Sugar babies milk men with money usually by rubbing their egos and fainting struggle with finances. There’s nothing about making the cut involved as you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:03 PM
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.... can you read? I literally said they cater to male egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:46 PM
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Meh disagree. Most of us help women out based on our conscience. Because we are taught that not doing it is shameful as a man. And women don’t just do it to sus out the best men, Infact it’s rarely that. That’s a poor test for a man’s utility. It’s simply because they can get an easier life from manipulating men to do these things. You think sugar babies are sussing out the best suitor? Or milking men for their resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:45 PM
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Where did I say they didn’t cater to the male ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:43 PM
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True. But that makes us just as bad as them who manipulate our egos for their own good. I’m talking about our genuine inclination to help women because we are taught that they aren’t capable themselves. When Truthfully they’re adults like men and should be exposed to the same brutal reality of life as we are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:41 PM
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Nope. It’s quite literally faux delicacy. She knew men would feel inclined to defend her like they would a child. And she used it against them to fatal ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:38 PM
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You’re quite right about most of these. And we are well aware of it. We experience it amongst ourselves on a regular basis, as such we abide by a certain set of unspoken rules to maintain peace. Women’s illusion of fragile innocent is the only thing saving them from the same system. Which is why many of you act out of line, because you’re aware that your fragility means you won’t get held to the same ruthless consequences as another man would. Of course this is facade is fading with social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:36 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:22 PM
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Exactly I agree. I believe women only cater to men’s egos when they want something. Whilst men cater to female fragility out of guilt and programming we’ve received for years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:14 PM
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I see this and agree this is how it should be. Neither of you are pandering to fake notions. But generally in society, a woman changing the tyre whilst a man is around is seen as ghastly. When women are absolutely capable of doing such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:13 PM
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There’s many ways but I’ll name a few. First I’ll describe female delicacy. (Cleopatra is a fine example of a woman who utilised it to manipulate men, all the while being very mentally tough and capable) It’s essentially the concept that women aren’t built robust mentally and physically like men so we should look after them in society. Essentially treating women like flowers. I strongly believe women benefit tremendously from this illusion which is kept up by women. If men witnessed the more raw…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:09 PM
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Yeah because a grown woman who trauma bonds with other women online is gonna tell me what HVM’s don’t do. Id sooner take advice from an escort. Misery loves company so I understand why you women stew amongst each-other there. But the truly heartbreaking fact is half of you don’t live what you preach and are regularly chasing ‘Scrotes’ approval in real life. It’s almost poetic, more so tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:03 PM
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They are calling for the improvement of men in their lives... rightfully so. But are they calling for the improvement of themselves? No. Are they cultivating their femininity? No Are they becoming the men that HVM sand traditional men desire? No Are they developing a healthy outlook on males? No Are they pandering to each other as long as men are the butt of the joke? Yes Id argue that redpill women subreddit is much more effective. They understand their hypergamy and adapt to make themselves a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:28 AM
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Facts Facts Facts. When I think about male desire for Sex and human connection I worry... because it’s strong. And if you can’t get it, it can lead you to dangerous places. I see many men who are control freaks in their small irrelevant niche, insult women online relentlessly behind fake pages... it’s all rage and frustration. Back in the day they might have raped women without consequence but of course this isn’t a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:47 PM
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Only way to resolve this issue is to legalise prostitution. Otherwise there’s gonna be a whole lot of extremists and mass murders in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:38 AM
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I disagree. Women sometimes reject out of instinct or just to test you. I’ve had it happen a couple of times in a club where a women will say she has a boyfriend. I take it gracefully. Then a few seconds later she says she doesn’t and she doesn’t know why she lied and gives me her number. I think it’s the abundance/ blasé mindset that it portrays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:24 AM
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Mmmm, I always try to keep this in mind. But thanks for this reminder. It has restored some clarityS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:18 PM
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The fact that almost every man has experienced girls showing more interest for him when he is with a hotter girl... but almost of these comments claim they get turned off highlights the lack of self awareness floating about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:28 PM
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This is the sauce OP was looking for.
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:57 AM
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Unfortunately you’re not what alpha men are attracted to. No feminine woman sees men as prey to catch. Any man with an alpha bone in his body would vomit at that idea. It also doesn’t help that this is reinforced by your stature. You’re playing a losing game, either learn how to be submissive/ feminine or accept the submissive beta males who will appreciate what you have.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:51 AM
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This mindset is gonna be your downfall. Have an abundant mindset, every new girl is a fresh scoreboard.
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:50 AM
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30’s are your prime... if you’ve been putting in work throughout your 20’s. The fact you dispute this shows you aren’t heavily into self improvement. I’ve got bad news for you, the dating game is only getting harder, the only men who even stand a chance are men who are striving die better looks, money and status. The rest will have to fight and settle for the scraps. My advice to you is to start working on yourself and aim for greatness by the age of 40. The great thing about being a man is that…
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:07 AM
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You’re absolutely having a laugh if you think you’re meant to be killing it at 19. Unless you were blessed with great looks and a popular social Circle with natural charm and aren’t broke... just take what you can get. As a man you need to build yourself, women don’t give out pity pussy. They give it to the men that are undeniable catches. Hence why by 30, men start getting an influx of older and younger women
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:17 AM
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I had this realisation yday. Don’t know why I didn’t think of it earlier
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:15 PM
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Read all of Epictetus content, it’s tailored well to human nature so it’s realistic to apply
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:19 PM
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Underrated comment. This is truly the way.
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:18 PM
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Does it get better as it goes on? I read the start but it was hard to get into... the analogies were quite extensive
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:54 PM
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The last line made me laugh
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:37 PM
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Online dating will never die, it has simply expanded to social media. I’ve literally seen someone on TikTok live ask for the Instagram of a girl viewing for a date. In person approach is so foreign now that it’s almost weird to see happen. Now this isn’t necessarily a good thing, because online leaves room for simply those appealing to the eye. This is why men are so frustrated, but women aren’t... I can assure you they’re pretty smug about being able to filter through the best looking men. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:48 PM
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When your bum starts getting pinched by randomers, you’ll know you’re in the right place
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:58 PM
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See, this is why I’m so against perusing women who aren’t already high interest. It’s just an uphill battle. It’s either equal effort, or she wants me more. I’ve always had compliant girls because of this, they never want favours they just want my attention.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:55 PM
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Eikkk, how did you first get to know her? Did she show interest first?
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:04 PM
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😭 Did you notice any red flags before that?
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:29 PM
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This is facts, I’ve spent the last few months learning how to provide what they want... now Im insanely picky about who I provide my gift to
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:14 AM
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Ask “What are you looking for on here?” If they say anything similar to “not sure just going with the flow” they’re down for casual
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:43 PM
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From knowing that there’s unlimited women in the world, ever day new 18 year olds appear on the dating market. Knowing that there’s much more to life than women. Knowing that the value you provide a women is way superior to what she can get from a random guy on tinder
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:14 PM
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All yours brother😂
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:18 PM
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It’s relating to female shame regarding open sexuality and also Disney programming. Some Women want to feel like they were swept of their feet by Prince Charming. Some Women want to feel like they couldn’t help but fuck you. Eg I once was with a girl in car, she asked for gum. It was on my side of the car, I jokingly said “I’m not your maid, get it yourself” she reached over my lap to get it. I then pinned her there and spanked her bum.... which gradually led to me fingering and so on. Later tha…
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:44 AM
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Yes, because they like to feel like ‘it just happened’
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:18 AM
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She likely means you have no smoothness in escalating sexually. Meaning she either saw your moves coming or had to prompt you, either way, she saw you had enough potential to sleep with you.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:10 PM
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Solid strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:21 PM
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It’s this. You have surface level self esteem. Which means you feel worthy conditionally (fickle). You need full self esteem which means even on your worst day you still value yourself. The biggest change for me was radical acceptance. Think of this, ‘I accept who I am, even though I’m not perfect, I am me.” Reading 6 pillars of self esteem will explain a lot. Self improvement without a doubt is a huge help, genuinely knowing that you’re a HVM will aid you. But bottom line is this, even on your …
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:02 AM
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The biggest Chad in your town can’t sleep with as many partners as the average girl can. Not in his wildest dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:00 AM
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I believe this is because you see them as naive. Which is weakness. A redpill guy might suss you out and check you on certain things. A bluepill guy will get in his feelings and probably end up apologising.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:11 PM
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Purple believes it’s not concrete abs there can be exceptions to the rule. They also engage in relationships knowing the risks but see potential pay offs. I have a purple pill friend who was redpill at first then hated all red pill rhetoric. Then he came to realise a lot of it is true but he just doesn’t like how angry and hurt the guys in the community are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:09 PM
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Welfare if you can’t afford to raise your children, child support, spousal support... all of these things are government trying to make life easier for you. Without it, you would cling onto men for deer life, purely because giving birth and raising a child is such a huge commitment. You’d need at least some form of stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:49 AM
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But they don’t want to, and want to be provided for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:48 PM
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Faxino. The pill changed a lot! Another thing is governments looking after single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:44 PM
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Faxino
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:23 AM
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Did you ever hook up?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:20 AM
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Well no, because there’s context to it. As explained
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:07 PM
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I can assure you, the average man has more of these traits than most women. OP was talking about why we can’t see women as friends. I don’t want female friends, they do not possess the qualities I want in friends. Which is why not every man can be my friend. I respect all human life equally, infact I somehow am programmed to respect female humanity more (instinctively protecting women and children). But by no means do I respect their character like I do with men. I do respect them for their qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:57 PM
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That’s true, men don’t respect women.. Or put differently... women have the traits that men respect in humans. Are women courageous, healthy leaders, physically dominant, rational.. do they lead with integrity.. are they prepared to die for their loved ones, are they willing to put their lives in danger instinctively to protect a randomer? Very rarely they have any of these traits. These are the traits men respect in human beings. Not all men have these traits, hence why not all men are respecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:25 PM
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I agree, but so is Sex.. Sex is like a drug, doesn’t fulfil you after a while. Incels can find female friends for platonic intimacy and fuck prostitutes on the side. That’s what I would do if I was them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:43 PM
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And that’s their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:41 PM
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It would take pressure of every angle... besides women who use Sex as leverage in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:38 PM
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Legalise prostitution. FAX. This would sort out a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:28 PM
2

So if you Celeb crush said I want you to be my girl, but I date a few other girls. Would you oblige? Many girls say they wouldn’t... but women have done it for the majority of humanity. And women also lie to themselves. When faced with the occasion their emotions take over, their rational mind ceases to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:51 PM
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I’m not saying they do. I’m saying that they’ll willing to settle for that, provided the guy is high value enough. And even if they’re not willing to settle he can just lie and they’re so in love with his high status that they choose wilful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:36 PM
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You mean pre-selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:34 PM
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100% there’s 1 reason for it. Women are achieving way more than before, due to hypergamy they are still seeking men higher status than them, therefore shrinking the lower pool of men, and share the top percentile. The lower pool just give up and double down on the porn, games and incel forums. Which makes them even less of an option for women. It’s only going to get worse. Fasten your seatbelts. Polygamy is the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:38 PM
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Mmm, well you’re an anomaly. Most guys don’t do that because they know how off putting it is to women. Same way holding out on men is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:21 PM
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Mmm, that’s interesting. But you see most women aren’t like that, so that makes you an anomaly. Which actually works against your argument. Two questions Do you believe women fuck the guys they see no future prospects with and abstain with guys they want to be seen as girlfriend material? And How old are you, may I ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:14 PM
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How would you feel if your date said, he has to split the bill for the first few dates.. or you have to pay for the first few dates? And his justification is that he need to make sure your not a gold digger or using him? Would you be interested in proceeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:06 PM
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Tbh.. this isn’t surprising.. I don’t take Keanu as a superficial guy. Which is unlike most of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:39 AM
1

Why does it have to be 40+ year old men, not their own age mates? Don’t try and push your trauma onto me, kindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:05 PM
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The lack of self awareness is startling.. you’re not making the pink pill seem very enticing at this point. It’s VERY easy to say Sex doesn’t validate you when you’ve been getting offers thrown at you since you before could grow breast tissue. Same way desire for oxygen doesn’t cross my mind on earth but in space it would expeditiously. In ADDITION, why do so many women complain that their partners don’t show them affection anymore, or complain about not feeling sexy because no one approached th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:19 PM
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‘A factual lie’ I will be stealing that phrase. Humans are scumbags based on their options. That’s it. Women have more options than men, therefore are more scummy to men... they don’t even process it. It could be the guy that said “Hey” that they didn’t think was attractive so blanked his existence. Or it could be the guy she kept around for his attention, knowing she didn’t like him. Most men are ACTUAL virgins.. who would absolutely salivate at the concept of a woman in his arms for a day. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:53 PM
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As someone else said... you’re not only after sex, because you know you get it easily. If you struggled to even get Sex you’d know pretty fast.. and the prospect of relationships wouldn’t even cross your mind. It’s hard to see privilege when you’re the one experiencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:30 PM
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How is it untrue Sensei?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:51 PM
4

You’re competing isn’t the same... there’s men of higher quality than you... that WILL fuck you.. purely because you’re a female. As a man I see this with my own eyes. But men of lower quality don’t get Sex from women purely because they are men. Sex is abundant for women, just not Sex from the people they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:30 PM
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100% I was thinking this the other day... women think men are all scumbags because they chase the men with all the options. But women also have all the options and cal similarly be scumbags to the men without even realising it. It all comes down to options, top 5% of men see women as disposable, top 50% of women see men as disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:28 PM
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Women fantasies about being in different scenarios, and having different context. They also imagine the man being of certain social status, wealth ect. Men fantasies about the appearance of the woman... and the things he can do to her You often hear women saying things like “I wanna have it done in this place under this condition after I’ve just done such and such” Men rarely care about those conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:32 PM
0

Yeahh the last point was a PERFECT example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:41 AM
2

🤣🤣 Are we gonna leave out the option where the woman could be trying to project purity and being hard to get???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:50 PM
1

Faxxxxx
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:25 PM
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Nope. The wall phenomenon is based on the fact that men aren’t as heavily judged on their looks, rather their lifestyle and character.. which develops over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:43 PM
1

What size out of curiosity, you might be overthinking this?
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:35 PM
19

🤣 Think this is all in your head bro. Bartenders don’t give a single fuck, they’re just missing their bed.
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:46 PM
4

Yes and No. Men know that a woman with 100 bodies is not able to pair bond the same way a virgin is... Yes objects and trophies too. But it’s more about vetting. If a man has married 10 times.. is a woman gonna feel confident about her marriage lasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:07 AM
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You’re out of touch, Switch off the computer, open the blinds, have a shower and step out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:42 AM
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🤣 Cos Tik Tokers are the only type of influencers on earth.. of course not Leo Di Caprio, of course not Drake, Of Course not The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:38 AM
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Ohh Yh use the example of a dictator all the way in Russia🤣 You think Biden can have any woman in America over celebs? Even though he’s the most powerful man there. You clearly don’t know about women then.. you speak as though social proof/ preselection isn’t THE biggest female motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:16 AM
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Aww I hurt your feelings because I wouldn’t let you go on a tangent. Toughen up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:09 AM
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Stick with the times my man, influencers control the masses now. I’m pretty sure more women know and care who celebs are than they know who billionaires are. And I think you know that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:07 AM
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Clearly you’re not watching the times change, “influencers” are the real powerful ones. Of course Bezoz wouldn’t pay attention to Kevin Hart, they’re not even in the same generation. But had it been someone he watched on tv every Friday night, obviously he would. You’re clearly unaware of what women would do for celebs. I dunno how old you are so I’ll give a generic example... Do You really think Michael Jackson’s and Elvis Presley’s would ever get passed over for the richest man in their times🤣…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:40 PM
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You thought you hit something deep there didn’t you😭 How about stick to the topic? Not draw a false correlation and go on a tangent. The point is... Money Status Game Looks... these billionaires and hedge fund managers ect ect who have tons of money.. don’t have other key attraction triggers of women. They’re rich men... not men with looks money status like most celebs have. Hence the lady above is wrong about them being less attractive to women than the Elon’s of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:18 PM
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Lol I dunno who you’re fooling but it’s not me🤣 Celebs are higher social status than billionaires. No woman is screaming and throwing their knickers at Jeff Bezoz, so that less attractive statement is for the birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:16 PM
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My mum dropped hints, about how women might behave when they’re angry at you. She worked in a school where many rape charges were pressed and the guys found innocent just cos their lives ruined. Once she paid me not to be alone at home with our family friend. She also redpilled me by her behaviour towards my dad (alpha) and her obsession with his badboy behaviour. I’ve never seen him do a nice thing for her... but she’s obsessed with him. In my dating life I carried this naturally, and never got…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:25 PM
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What makes these men the highest value men? From my perception that haven’t put an emphasis on looks or status or even game. They’re just rich, not HVM. Biggest HVM’s are people like drake, Connor mcgregor, Floyd Mayweather ect ect.. men who touch on all aspects of female attraction not just a fat wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:16 PM
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Omg. I’ve never heard it be put better. They want men to be supporting acts in the movie about her life... and they’re like the strict director that screams CUTTT when a hair is out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:32 AM
8

Facts were spoken.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:25 PM
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Exactly. With that logic the whole world would just burn. Everyone disrespecting everyone because someone else did something to them in the past
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:21 AM
1

Nope, more that it’s a place where I get in my zone. I don’t like to chat or have distractions from anyone. And I’ve approached girls in the gym a few times. I always regret it cos when I look up I’m seeing googling eyes wondering why I’m not entertaining them. Those googling eyes soon turn to angry/ offend eyes. Of course that’s not the end of the world but... I feel an awkward vibe, in a place i come to for peace
/r/seduction14/06/21 10:36 PM
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