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Terrible idea. The employers would just fire them /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:01 PM
5

Oh look. Another feminist making an “edgy” post about the meaning of the term ‘nice guy’. How original
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:00 PM
5

Me, looking for all of the low RMV and SMV women who supposedly want to date me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:03 PM
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I called you misandrist, babe. I didn’t call the data misandrist. And no, I won’t be posting “the statistics” when statistics are the laziest, most un-rigorous form of scientific inquiry usually performed by brain dead leftists with an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:01 PM
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Yeah, definitely no misandry to be found here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:14 PM
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You’re ascribing an extreme, fringe opinion to all men. Most men don’t want to take away women’s rights. Such an opinion is considered so far outside the mainstream, it is not even permissible to express it on Reddit. Sounds like you have some bitterness issues to work through, perhaps in therapy, and you should stay far, far away from men and ordinary people so you don’t make your problems into their problems. Some of these woman aren’t lonely enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:11 PM
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You must be new here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:44 PM
1

Thank you for this response. It’s nice to have a little hope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:08 AM
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Can someone you initially find physically unattractive bc of obesity, physical disability, below average features, etc. become attractive and therefore worthy of being in a relationship through personality alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:27 AM
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Since women don’t wear signs on their foreheads indicating attraction, it’s always a gamble. It’s too easy to mistake friendliness for attraction when you aren’t accustomed to receiving either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:37 PM
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Yup. Bottom tier women and Stacy both don’t want ugly, fat men approaching. Even if the culture around approaching changes. Women in those posts are asking why the GUY THEY WANT won’t approach them. It was the same question they asked in the late 2000s-early 2010s before #metoo. It’s not that men aren’t approaching them, they just don’t care about approaches that give them the ick or they publicly shame the guy on social media for trying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:35 PM
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Fundamentally disagree with with this, but the meme is funny as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:19 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:23 AM
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Women aren’t the problem or even a problem. It’s women lacking strong male leadership who have been brainwashed by extreme leftist propaganda into hating the family, children, and men. In the West today, absolutely everything that historically has given life meaning (and continues to give life meaning) is now considered a burden on individual freedom and we are worse off for it as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:33 PM
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That might just be you, homeboy. I’m not a fascist, consciously or unconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:14 AM
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You’ve no doubt heard straight women in relationships with men use the phrase “my money is my money and his money is our money”. You seem perfectly fine not sharing within the context of the marriage while men give away the store to keep you around, but when the marriage ends, it’s all suddenly an equal distribution, right? Including every dollar the women earned during the marriage? For the record, some of us aren’t drowning in pussy and the opportunity to cheat on our wives would never arise. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:54 AM
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Since we’re creating alternative universes where women can single-handedly fix serious social problems, I elect to create a universe where no fault divorce doesn’t exist and women can’t throw up the deuces and take half a man’s shit and his children from him bc she got bored
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:38 AM
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How is being slightly less picky and giving below average dudes a chance if they make the effort to ask you out tantamount to solving the male loneliness crisis or male sexual frustration? Your logic is fucked or this post was not made in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:39 AM
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Reposting content word for word is idiotic. Also lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:23 PM
1

You and I are talking about the same thing (except for the final sentence). You just haven’t thought it through enough to see that. The final sentence is nonsense on its face. Women aggressively ignore short fat men, fat men, short men and all related permutations, unless such a man has been vetted by other women and found to have value. But having the barest amount of value sufficient to not be ignored and being Chad/alpha are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:36 PM
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I think most people are familiar with the concept of the top tier man that exists in any social group that most of the women want to be with while the vast majority of average men get completely ignored. Although I understand your impulse to deny Chad’s existence since women are judged for appearing to be shallow and actually being too shallow (as they should be).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:45 PM
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Not everyone gets to be the best of the best. Some of us just want to be chosen at all. But keep doing your public temper tantrum bc you can’t bag Chad AND be the best he’s ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:24 AM
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So feminist men are cucks in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:21 PM
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Didn’t the mods just delete two of my posts in the past few days for trolling, but this nonsense is allowed to stay up? Of course, I would never accuse the mods of favoring certain types of content over others because of personal beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:19 PM
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Ah yes, paintings from Czarist Russia. Very important in understanding how Western women in the 21st century are treated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:27 AM
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Maybe the woke nonsense version of history Don’t you guys think logic is white supremacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:58 AM
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🥱 just a deluge of canned woke nonsense Congrats on that first day of Women’s Studies 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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Once again, reading comprehension is key. There never was a debate because you seem to lack the cognitive skills. Hence, the debate can’t end because it never began. I’d ask you not to reproduce to prevent the spread of your genes, but society still needs stone cold idiots such as yourself to bilk the welfare state and appear in reality television shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:12 PM
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Since you went immediately for ad hominem attacks instead of defending anything resembling a cogent viewpoint, I have to assume you lack the intelligence to defend your views. Someone should tell you this is a debate sub, not a sub for brainless dipshits
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:56 PM
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She included the “negging” texting string about whether she is a land whale as part of her post. How is it not an issue for discussion? Reading comprehension and basic logic don’t seem to be your strong suit. You might want to sit this one out, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:15 PM
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A simple glance at my post reveals a point by point rebuttal of the OP. Clearly you completely lack a sense of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:59 PM
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Acting flakey and multi-dating are classic female dating tactics. In my experience, women will share dating and sexual history with you anyway, whether you want to hear it or not. Also, you never proved that you aren’t a land whale. Not quite sure what the point of this post is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:38 PM
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Depends on the man and all of his attributes. Assigning value to another person based on what the herd of mindless lemmings thinks is idiotic, low-value behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:56 AM
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They are when they don’t relate to the topic at hand in the slightest. Radical feminists don’t get to hikjack the thread with nonsense Make sound reasoning great again!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:55 PM
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Baby, I’m always good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:51 PM
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Oh look! It’s a red herring in its natural habitat. How majestic 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:51 PM
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Terrible advice. Women in the workplace, hobby/common interest spaces, and running errands don’t want to be approached by most men. That leaves the apps as the one place a man can ask women out and not destroy his life in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:20 AM
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That’s a lot bro. You should probably pray or meditate or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:42 PM
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Fuck this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:54 PM
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This settled at 30 thing is outdated. Radical leftism destroyed the cultural imperative to pair up by a certain age. Women aren’t settling anymore, even the ones with low RMV and SMV. They would rather own 10 million cats and get pity sex from Chad on tinder occasionally than give men at their level a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:09 AM
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If the man in question is attractive, his demeanor and personality don’t matter at all. Stop gaslighting us with bluepilled slop
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:05 PM
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white knighting intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:34 PM
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The post was about how red pill themes are now being openly discussed by the msm, even though the lame stream media still likes to denigrate sexless men for being sexless but embracing the red pill to better themselves. OP was illustrating that point by identifying the themes and ideas that are gaining media attention. This post wasn’t a defense of the red pill (the fact that OP seems partial to the red pill doesn’t transform this post into an argument in favor of the red pill). The main point w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:21 AM
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Remarkable how someone with such a high (self-reported) IQ missed the point of the post entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:50 PM
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Large labia matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:11 AM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:21 PM
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No I’m not. You just don’t like the way the conversation is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:50 PM
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If you want the turmoil of dating a man as flaky and inconstant as a woman, that’s between you and Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:42 PM
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You misunderstand me. This isn’t a problem to be fixed. Understanding this dynamic and acting appropriately is just part of loving a women. Her feelings change constantly. The man’s job in a successful hetero relationship is to be the rock. Some men just can’t hack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:25 PM
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Hard disagree. Generations of men, including all the men in my family, have been going strong on the protector/provider model and none of their marriages failed. Miss me with all this simpy bluepilled bullshit. Women don’t know what they want from day to day except that they want to eat and don’t want to die prematurely. Other than that, their feelings change constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:27 PM
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Another day, another Lilith post 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:46 AM
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OP got bullied in the comments and came here to write out her revenge fantasy about it. Some of us don’t get chosen for manifold reasons, usually relating to women’s pickiness, and we get pissed in response to that rejection (after rejection, after rejection, after rejection). You’re confusing chicken and egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:10 PM
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You mean like you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:28 PM
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I too have observed this phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:24 PM
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Can’t go wrong with breaking bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:51 PM
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Nah. That being the reason made me realize how shallow and rediculous you all are and subsequently turned me off of dating any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:35 PM
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I really just wanted to troll the females in the comments. I’ve been successful beyond my wildest expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:42 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night, babe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:34 AM
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Says the person offering an irrational, emotional response
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:30 AM
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The woman version of me almost certainly finds a partner despite being morbidly obese. Lots of chubby chaser men out there. And yet, I can’t imagine being incapable of rational thought for the rest of my life, so gonna have to say, “no”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:11 AM
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Thank you for your valuable service, Mr. Chill Pills 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:23 PM
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It’s a bizarre conversation we keep having isn’t it? “I want a girlfriend!” “No! You’re all rapists!!” Surely, there is a middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:05 PM
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✅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:58 AM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:16 AM
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Why are fat women mean to fat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:45 PM
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You have any data to support that contention or is it just based on pure vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:31 PM
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False. That’s the premise of the blackpill. The premise of the red pill is self-improvement for the purpose of getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:56 AM
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Ah, my bad. Been a minute. Did most of my Foucault reading in college. Happy Cake Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:01 AM
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If you don’t remember any Foucault other than what you can easily google, why are you quizzing me on my Foucault knowledge? You guys keep showing up to the fight disarmed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:37 AM
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Michel Foucault Happy reading!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:10 PM
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Go ahead and name a single other moral theory other than relativism that would condone slutty behavior. For the record, you can’t, because your criticism of traditional values isnt based on an ethical theory, it’s based on a deconstruction of traditional values mixed with a theory of power from a very deranged, sick Frenchman. Characterizing centuries of Christian values upon which Western civilization is based as “random and arbitrary” is third grade reasoning. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:37 PM
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Because those women want to be sluts without the consequences or accountability that are supposed to follow. The sick, deranged radical left is bent on destroying traditional values and morality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:47 PM
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Antiquated post-hoc reasoning women would employ to explain to each other why they were attracted to their non-Chad boyfriends and husbands. As soon as the boomers and xers die off and with them their culture of settling for partners, so too will this “explanation” of the apparent difference between male and female desire. Mid and below-mid Millennial and Zoomer women have been more than willing to demonstrate their willingness to die alone than miss the 1 in 1 million chance that Chad-who-gives…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:14 AM
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Being successful with women isn’t really my schtick, but thanks for the tip, fam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:54 AM
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<image> Ah yes, the mythical woman who would give an incel the world for just a shred of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:41 AM
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Yup. Ex strung me along for a year before finally dumping me to fuck someone else. They’re engaged now. I hope they both make each other miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:21 PM
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Yup. Women’s preferences don’t magically change just bc you met irl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:48 AM
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What is “black-leaning purple pill”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:21 AM
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DEI grads maybe I’m clearly trolling tf out of you. Why do you feel the need to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:27 AM
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If there were such a thing as an intelligent women, I’m sure that would be true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:17 AM
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Please for the love of god avoid me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:14 AM
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Don’t disagree with one or two. Hate me harder baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:08 AM
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I don’t know an incel who would care about a bitch’s opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:07 AM
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Women also routinely confuse attractiveness for virtue. If you want to fuck Chad, just get on with it already. Why do you need the incel community to approve of your shallow decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:07 PM
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Men don’t want to date a total bitch. Wow. Groundbreaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:13 AM
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Correct ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:29 PM
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This is great rage bait. Well played, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:27 PM
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Comments section getting fucking weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 05:32 AM
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This illustrates beautifully the pernicious lie at the heart of the blue pill. If you don’t meet the looks threshold in the first place, none of those attributes that women claim to care about actually matter. If you are sufficiently attractive, they don’t matter after the relationship is formed either. You can’t take what the blue pill says about desirable male behavior at face value. Actions matter, words don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:53 AM
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Unlikely. I’m a fat, angry, lonely incel. Women don’t want me. I’ve made too many bad choices to have a life like yours. Don’t blame anyone but me (and feminism).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:52 AM
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You called my relationship status into question given my views instead of engaging with my views on an intellectual level. Hardly takes a rocket scientist to figure out where that was going. What’s actually notable is that you keep assuming my relationship status even though I still haven’t told you what it is. You’re literally the meme bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:25 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:44 PM
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🙄 Feminism literally just helps women to hurt their own feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:40 PM
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Advice from women on dating is meant for Chad. When an average or below average man recieves the same advice, it’s bc most women are conflict avoidant and will never tell you to your face that you are unfuckable. Or they buy into the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:34 AM
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Now you’re getting it. Stop listening to those blue haired idiots with doctorates in woke underwater feminist basket weaving and get back to true American values like gender roles, marriage, and women supporting her man and children from home. Your life will improve immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:16 AM
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Y’all are gonna miss us when we’re not around to keep women from saying dumb shit like this in public…oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:55 AM
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I don’t think human emotions flatten quite so tidily, especially when you’re talking about an entire lifespan. There are likely to be moments of joy. Maybe I could even win her over. People tend to not like me at first - it takes time and they have to get my personality. Or I’ll get off on her hatred and just enjoy the perpetual trolling that comes from my unwanted existence in proximity to her. Either way, I’m not without female companionship as I am now. Don’t recall OP making any affirmative …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:05 AM
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Women despise me now. At least the hatred would have come with a lifetime of companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:13 AM
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Was terminally single even when thin. Life ain’t a Disney movie, bud. Many of us just won’t get a happy ending in the shitty new world radical feminism created.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:57 AM
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If you were a man whore, you’re likely more of a Chad than you give yourself credit for. Speaking from my experiece as an ugly fat guy, women don’t want anything to do with guys like me, even as friends. I once found out after the fact that a women I asked out was insulted that I asked her out. Like I had wronged her morally for having the audacity to think she would date me. Chads like you have no concept of what it’s like to be the human equivalent of a loud shart in a fancy restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:08 AM
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Yes. If you are Chad or a billionaire, there is no limit to the love a woman can feel for you. If you’re not either of those things, give up. Today’s “empowered” modern woman doesn’t want or need you. They’ve said so many times on this platform and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:45 AM
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Not even sure why you would bother asking this question. Women react to social proof and physical attractiveness subconsciously and have proved time and again on this sub (and irl) that they will lie reflexively if it makes their gender look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:47 AM
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You could’ve just said openly hostile to men and been equally as accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:59 AM
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Tf. This is literally happening already. It’s not a matter for theoretical debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:27 AM
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Kyle Broflovski: Butters, can't you see this is wrong? You've got little boys all over school spending all their lunch money on kisses. Boys shouldn't be paying for kisses. It's wrong. Butters: Kyle, every boy pays for kisses. Do you know what I am saying? If you got a girl and she kisses you, sooner or later you're paying for it. You gotta take her out to lunch, take her to a movie, and then spend time listening to all her stupid problems. Look, look at Stan right there. He's got to sit there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:32 AM
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Yup. Been single all my life and doesn’t seem likely to change. We aren’t obligated to be happy about it, but sometimes life doesn’t work out the way you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:13 PM
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At least modern women are honest about being myopic degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:36 AM
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Been waiting for this to happen literally my entire life…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:54 AM
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I do. Would definitely date the women in the photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:19 PM
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Opposites attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:15 PM
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Ngl, her run as press secretary has been one of my favorites
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:55 AM
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Wouldn’t it be fun if you turned out to be Jen Psaki? I mean, how many red headed women in fairly liberal, pretty political cities could there be? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:52 AM
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Been thin before. The options, even when thin, aren’t worth the effort. Women won’t settle for their looks match and, almost without exception, are entitled and expect the man to do all the work to keep her interested. Almost any other thing I could spend my time on is a better use of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:26 PM
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In my experience, fat men like myself are excluded from this kind of informal romantic networking, even when it comes to looksmatched women. Ah well, back to playing xbox and crushing on Emma Stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:59 PM
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Summary of responses: There is nothing wrong with sex work. But I’ll never date a man who pays for sex. Do the women of PPD not see the contradiction inherent in this thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:43 AM
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What exactly do the women in this scenario have to offer? Your picture is one of women as arrogant, judgmental, fickle, selfish, and narcissistic individuals who are always perfect in relationships (bc it’s only lazy, selfish, idiot men ruining things). If most women indeed think in the ways you describe, I would imagine most men would also prefer to be single than deal with a woman destined to bitch and complain endlessly about how he bores her and doesn’t do enough for her, sexually or otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:10 AM
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So you do care?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:27 AM
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I don’t know what Disney movies you’re watching, but the ones I grew up with, Chad ALWAYS got the girl (and he still does — e.g. Frozen, Star Wars, MCU, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:13 PM
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The common denominator I’m seeing is “not fat”, “not obese” or something along those lines. People crying foul over virtue signaling must be be salty about imagined height and face requirements (whether expressed or not), because the expressed requirements do seem shallow to me and were more or less what I anticipated from my own experiences and observations. Just don’t be fat and, apparently, you can find a woman to love you. It’s not clear to me how the former could be read as virtue signaling…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:10 PM
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All those lessons took me decades to learn on my own. He’s lucky to have you as a mom. You should write a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:35 AM
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The shit posting hasn’t been this bad since purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:37 PM
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Pill skeptical. This advice promotes a toxic attitude toward romantic relationships. It’s all about what women can get out of their partners. Yet, it perfectly reflects how women (at least in my Western culture) approach relationships. Advice like this is celebrated as empowering, even as it teaches people to treat each other as pleasure-giving widgets. I try to avoid pissing into the wind whenever possible, otherwise I would suggest alterations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:49 PM
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Another day, another angry FDS’er shit posting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:41 PM
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Petition to stop using the word “nowadays.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:44 PM
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My ex dumped me three years ago and has been radio silent since. Good riddance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:02 AM
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while they feel physically disgusted by their partner THE ENTIRE TIME. I've heard this before. Makes me wonder if non-Chad men who aren't already paired off should just give up because their wives and gfs will never feel reciprocal physical attraction for them. I can't imagine a worse hell than being stuck with a women who is physically repulsed by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:39 PM
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Personally, I have seen a fair number of PPD men treat non-Western women as a fall back option if Western women continue to reject them. I have also seen self-identified non-Western men speak glowingly of non-Western women as the antidote to feminism run amok (in their opinions). I haven’t seen any women on this sub specifically target non-Western women as objects of jealous rage or otherwise (unless such comments appear much further in a PPD thread than I care to scroll). Also, I don’t see PPD …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:10 AM
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I added context to my own statements because you seem bent on misrepresenting anything I say. I repeated your statements back to you verbatim. If you consider that a straw man, I can only assume that you either don’t know what that word means or you’re effectively conceding that your arguments were weak from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:06 AM
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You literally described being an emotional outlet. I described emotional pair bonding between people. ​ men and women (people, generally) in romantic relationships confide in each other and grow in intimacy I used gender neutral language here purposefully because I think, generally, people of many kinds of gender identity can have this kind of experience when in love. ​ The whole experience of being with someone changes one’s entire outlook - the world seems less harsh, cold, and unforgiving. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:35 AM
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That’s not what I was saying. What I was actually saying is that men and women (people, generally) in romantic relationships confide in each other and grow in intimacy, whether men in those kinds of relationships have an emotional outlet elsewhere or not. Additionally, there is a certain quality to being in a relationship that isn’t available in other kinds of relationships. Not everything is a zero sum battle of the sexes where men are always (whether they mean to or not), taking advantage of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:14 AM
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Can’t agree. In college, I had more friends, hobbies, and internet porn than I knew what to do with. Yet, I still felt that there was an enormous void in my emotional life. There is a level of intimacy one can attain with a gf (not just sexual) that simply isn’t available with guy friends. In my experience, there is something about being in a relationship with a woman that isn’t reducible to merely sex and friendship. The whole experience of being with someone changes one’s entire outlook - the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:22 PM
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Don’t take this the wrong way, but most women aren’t worth that much work. Especially since changing most of the mutable traits boils down to merely hiding my true self for a long enough time to attract a women who probably has an overinflated view of her SMV anyway. Edit: But I agree with your overall point that if a man is to change his dating market value, this is the way to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:25 PM
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Most of the women I have met since college seem to fall into the former group. I’d love to know where you’re hiding all of these pleasant, funny, positive, sexy women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:36 PM
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What is love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:18 AM
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You’re been ignoring my arguments and instead mischaracterizing them as a string of logical fallacies. I take this to mean that you concede that there is nothing further to defend because your argument is a bad one. This kind of gaslighting is common on Reddit but I think I expected more from you. Also, the below is a personal attack - a classic ad hominem tactic. “…whilst being mind numbingly obtuse…” Just in case you still think you’re not obviously insulting me instead of staying on point. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:05 PM
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I see we’ve gotten to the ad hominem portion of the event. If you don’t feel compelled to continue defending your views, there probably isn’t much more to learn from this discussion. If you feel I have taken your views out of context and wronged you in that way, I am truly sorry. I wish you all the best, Grid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:50 PM
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Not when the sum of both comments is a weak argument. It’s a common professional courtesy for philosophers to dismiss weak arguments and only focus on strong ones. Gives their interlocutor the benefit of the doubt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:40 PM
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Happily. The best good faith reading of the second comment required me to ignore the first comment. Read in conjunction, both comments now posit a bizarre scenario wherein a supposedly “normal” man (by this I assume you mean non-obese), is rejected by women broadly because he eats too much or doesn’t exercise enough. As I stated a few comments back, this simply doesn’t reflect the reality of the dating market in that thin men with bad eating and exercise habits still have no problem finding girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:25 PM
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It isn’t related to that comment at all, but that wasn’t the comment I responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:15 AM
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I don’t buy your sentiment. His behaviors are why he hasn’t had sex post 30 as a genetically average male. ​ If a woman met a guy that genetically had a fast metabolism and just couldn't put on weight no matter how little he exercised and how much he over ate, she would still date him. You can buy it or not, but unless you can think of a good counter to the above hypo, you're dismissal of my view is based on little more than sentiment. A person is more than the sum of their behaviors. They are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:33 AM
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Nah. It’s because of their behavior/personality. over eating too little exercise I don't buy it. This is just a misdirection women like to use to make themselves look less shallow than they actually are. It's not as if women follow guys around making close notes about how much a given man eats or how little he chooses to exercise. Very obese men stay single because women are grossed out by the look of them (speaking from experience as a morbidly obese man who has been rejected many, many times b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:08 PM
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Low effort post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:05 PM
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I’ve been thin before. Idk if it’s genes or just something all thin people take in stride but I mostly had to starve myself to stay thin. It’s miserable. I’ve also been in a long term relationship before so I’m able to see women as people with very human flaws and not as magical wish fulfillment widgets (or goddesses as one poster stated recently). I go back and forth wondering if it would be worth it to be thin again but tbh, even when I was in my peak physical condition the pickings were prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:38 AM
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Sub 3/10 gang rise up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:54 AM
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Nah. I’m good. Also, way too cynical now to simp like I did in my teens and early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:04 PM
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attacked me viciously many times You realize, when you make statements like that, people can easily see the context in the string above and that this accusation is plainly fabricated. ​ People like you are truly insufferable and everyone can see what you're doing. So, you just like don't have a sense of irony at all, do you? I'd block you, but tbh, I'm morbidly curious how long it will take before you just run out of steam on your own. brb, getting popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:25 AM
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I don't know why you're trying to be a pseudo-intellectual. I love a good ad hominem attack. Really lets the other person know that you just want to have a rational discussion with them ​ I'm in shock. Personally, I find you tiresome. I'm not sure what more you think there is to gain from continuing this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:50 AM
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This is what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:37 AM
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I’m not experiencing anger rn. If I’m being honest, your attempt at gaslighting is a little strange. Also, let’s be honest. Your whataboutism disguised as a “question” was intended to provoke outrage. Not to facilitate discussion on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:34 AM
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I wouldn’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:29 AM
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I don’t expect virginity from my female partners. That said, I don’t think my views on the subject are that relevant - you’re employing a pretty obvious red herring hoping to derail the conversation by attempting to manipulate me or other posters into feeling outrage at your response instead of focusing on the bizarre nature of your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:28 AM
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“Youth, virginity…” Like the above commenter, I’m a little baffled that virginity is a requirement from you out of a man. I don’t think I’ve seen that before Edit: person who replied not OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:56 AM
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Finally, the real answers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:52 AM
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Said no woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:30 AM
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You’re objectively observing a behavior and then subjectively interpreting it based on your own perception of the world. That's the essence of the theoretical paradigm from which I am approaching this issue - i.e. postmodernism. What you're describing is a feature of that theoretical view, not a bug. It's also worth noting that I never claim to offer more than my own view of things. ​ That isn’t logical. Perhaps from your point of view. ​ You’re saying that “status matters” to women because they…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 07:53 PM
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In my social groups in college, almost without fail, the women gravitated to the physically attractive men with loads of friends. Attractive women gravitated to one other and to the most attractive men, while less attractive women and men, by comparison, kind of resided on the edges of the social group. As for the X factor that confers an ability to make many friends — I would have to guess some combination of physical attractiveness, extroversion, lots of self-confidence, and many preexisting f…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 02:57 AM
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Never! ouch. ​ But also I’m over the “grid is a 400 lb beast of woman” insults I’ve gotten my time at PPD. They’re lame!!! I'm tired of the weight-based insults on here too. But they never seem to get old on Reddit (especially on the memes, tinder, and dating advice subs). ​ I’ve never in my life related to ppl who tried hard to look like their worst selves. I blame “Sunday’s Best” culture for why I feel that way. I don't have to try hard, it's a natural talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:42 PM
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Marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:29 PM
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(M) - sexual attraction happens right away or not at all. Romance is something created by ad executives to sell products. “Romantic attraction” is therefore illusory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:23 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to explain your views in greater detail
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:04 AM
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As to “what women want,” if you’re on this sub hopefully you already know. Outside of the basic “don’t be ugly” I could only tell you my personal preferences which will not reflect “all women.” I think that once you form relationships with the opposite sex you learn that we’re all just people, and people don’t act according to strict stereotypes. This shit is messy. An interesting remark given that you paint male desire with a relatively broad brush in the OP. It's also interesting that you assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:29 AM
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Take the opportunity to tell us about what women want. You were perfectly clear as to your view that men and women are socialized differently and discussed some of the things women are taught about male preference. But you say nothing on the subject of what women actually want from men before they enter into a relationship with men and how this differs from the erroneous views men are taught to hold about what women want. By way of example, I grew up being taught that women wanted a kind provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:37 AM
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At least once a week, maybe twice. Work and hobbies keep me too busy otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:34 PM
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Never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:10 AM
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Cruelty seems to come more naturally to most people when their interlocutor is obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:17 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:50 PM
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Yup. I’m usually greeted with a look that mixes horror and disgust. As in, “gross” and “I hope my friends, men I actually want to fuck, and people of greater social status don’t think less of me because this fat loser approached me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:23 PM
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Yes, well. As we know, the obese don’t deserve to feel attraction toward others /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:24 PM
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Your account of female arousal is specific and highly detailed and maybe even compelling. Perhaps it is consistent with the okcupid data. But the okcupid researchers weren’t testing a hypothesis concerning the nature of “female arousal”, if there is such a thing. So where’s the study supporting your view of female arousal or arousal of people who identify as women or both? Otherwise, what you have here are a lot of broad, sweeping detailed yet unsupported theories about female sexuality and arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:47 PM
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In my experience, in-person asks usually result in mortifying rejections (i.e., the women asking me why I would ask her out if she wasn’t sending me signals - most of time, I thought she was). As a guy, women are usually outright cruel or indifferent (unless they want to fuck you), so it’s often hard to tell the difference when a woman is actually nice or friendly. If they were looking for reasons to say “yes”, they weren’t looking that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:17 PM
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Thanks for explaining! This has given me a lot to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:18 PM
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How might a man carry himself in order to maximize his attractiveness to women? (I guess I’m still trying to understand what it means to “carry” oneself…). Sorry not trying to be intentionally thick. I don’t get out much Maybe just a matter of preference. I would definitely still date the high squeaky voice girl and the valley girl, and maybe the smoker depending on whether she quit. I hate the taste of cigarettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:19 AM
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Wtf is presence? Did he have a nasally annoying voice and gesticulate like a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:43 PM
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Surprising no one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:14 PM
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Ah shit. Lemme channel big PPD woman energy. I suppose I would read 500000000 studies, shut down some idiot man posting on PPD who doesn’t read the studies the minute I demand it, then jack myself off to my own self-righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:51 PM
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What’s arbitrary? Speaking from experience, I’ve been varying shades of overweight and obese and rail thin. It’s not an accident or unexplainable that, as a very obese man, women want nothing to do with me but in the past, as a very thin man, I had about one date a week. My personality didn’t change in the slightest. I’m just fatter. I was never able to win women over in HS or college or grad school on the basis of my winning personality alone when I was fat at the same time. The last 8 or so ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:55 AM
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My original comment concerned the choosing of romantic partners. Yours concerned a woman’s happiness within a relationship. The implication any reasonable person would have made from your comment in relation to mine is that a woman chooses a partner based on other factors, unrelated to physical appearance, which, in turn, supposedly leads to relationship satisfaction. If your comment and study were unrelated to my comment and the parent comment which related to criteria for choice of partner, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:45 AM
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Yeah, right. I forgot about all the women choosing partners based on “the studies”. I would not doubt many women in PPD choose partners based on the results of studies, given how often women contributors, in particular, like to demand evidence in the form of studies. Outside of this community - it’s 100% about whether, deep down, the woman wants to bang you. Everything else is a post hoc rationalization based on socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:22 AM
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Horseshit. Unless a woman is attracted to a man first, his character traits are utterly irrelevant. My guess is many of the men on this sub know that from experience. Women deny it because they don’t want to grapple with their own shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:55 AM
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I’m familiar with the DMV dating market. People there are serial daters with little interest is marriage and serious LTRs until they hit their 30s. Also, people are dating there but you have to be a certain kind of high achieving man in terms of looks and career to get female attention. All that to say, maybe in your social circle, marriage is the norm, but there are plenty of dating opportunities outside of it for the right kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:44 PM
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Yeah idk. Maybe it is a self esteem thing as you say. I’m willing to admit I know jack shit about dating in other countries and chalk it up to a difference in culture
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:46 AM
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but all guys get girlfriends. I wish this were so. With the exception of an eleven month interregnum four years ago, this has been untrue for me. ​ Today I know many women who are still single, but no men. Are they single by choice? ​ or the obese guy who complains that he can't find a girlfriend at the same time as he's sleeping with two women that he finds unsuitable for him. This obese guy is by no means rich. He has an odd blue collar job and lives in a dilapidated bachelor pad. I find this …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:05 AM
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“TV definitely taught me that the good girl is the pretty girl who gives the loser guy a chance.” Props to you, but I think you might have been the only one to get the message. Irl, I only ever saw the hot, rich dudes getting dates and girlfriends. That’s still predominantly what I see. The guys who were losers in college 10 years ago are still single and the guys at the top of the social heap are all now married to beautiful women who were also at the top of the social heap. Here’s the kicker -…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:46 AM
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I gave 3 circumstances... and I didn't deny that other exceptions excist beyond those 3 circumstances. Your earlier remarks: "When you remove those 3 circumstances, it's just not that common of a phrase." Your comments were clearly meant to exclude other circumstances or make them seem so unlikely as to be negligible. The fact that you're engaging in post-hoc twisting and rationalizing of your own words is just intellectually dishonest. Your earlier comments are there for the whole world to see.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:42 AM
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“Asking for severe punishment on all women because he can’t get laid.” This just isn’t accurate. Worse, it looks a lot like an attempt to warp reality for the sake of marginalizing men who do complain about not getting female attention. I’ve seen plenty of posts on dating subs, generally, not even limited to PPD, where some dude is venting out of sadness and despair, but not blaming anyone in particular (and certainly not calling for punishment of all women - a bizarre claim if I have ever seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:25 AM
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I don’t see any links to sources in your reply either. Why hold my words to a standard you won’t bother adhering to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:34 AM
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Women aren’t just picky about who they will date on OLD apps. Those same preferences extend to irl dating and the kinds of people with whom women will voluntarily interact with socially. The bottom 50% of men lack the looks to get into a relationship in the first place because a women will not drop her standards just because a living breathing person is standing in front of her asking her on a date. The fact that looks aren’t everything once one actually makes it into a relationship is therefore…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:25 AM
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That’s the best some of us will ever do. No need to knock it just bc you don’t understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:35 PM
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Anon said women have low self confidence and only believe top tier men are worthy of consideration. You responded by agreeing and saying that you have low self esteem and only want wholesome good men. So are you saying you only want good wholesome men and stay the fuck away from chads/top tier men or are you saying that good wholesome men are top tier men? Because I’ve seen an awful lot of women on this site purposely conflate “top tier man” with “man of good character who don’t necessarily look…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:17 AM
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Top tier men /= wholesome good person. You guys are talking past each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:54 AM
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​ People who don't like people do not have successful relationships. oh look, a nuance free, data-free sweeping generalization. Being with someone as a life partner is not "small doses", it's small talk, checking in, it's always being around them. This assumes that there is only one "right" way to have relationships with other people when the fact is that all relationships are tailored to the people in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:53 PM
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Enjoyed being around my ex. People in small doses are fine. Plus, there’s the sex to consider. "why do you believe a girlfriend would be any different?" Why would you assume my thoughts on having a girlfriend are mere abstractions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:58 PM
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“Do you have a [sic] vibrant social circles (if not, why)?” Not sure I see the point of this one. Friends have always taken more out of my life than they put back into it, and having even one close companion is very time consuming. I also become easily frustrated with talking for the sake of talking. Does nothing for me to share emotions and thoughts with other people nor do I particularly care to learn the thoughts and feelings of others most of the time. It’s endlessly frustrating to me that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:45 PM
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This isn’t really a men vs. women issue because women do the exact same thing. Men and women both routinely like to pretend fat people and ugly people don’t even exist. When good looking people are forced to interact with fat people and ugly people (I’ve been both), fat people and ugly people are treated with distain by both total strangers and acquaintances. My own family treats me differently depending on my weight. Judging people based on appearance is a human thing. Not every issue needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:56 PM
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I know I’m not an attractive man. If some lady out there were willing to settle for “perfect husband and father”, I would be thrilled. But, unfortunately, that term is not as uncomplicated as it seems. Women who say shit like that still assume a baseline level of attractiveness. Men who fail to meet that standard might as well be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:41 AM
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I ran in social circles in college where this was the prevailing thinking. I think there’s some truth in it but it frustrates me to no end because I’ve never been a guy with presence or status and I wouldn’t even begin to know how to get those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:26 AM
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Hands down the most infuriating thing about dating subs on here is the refusal to acknowledge this simple point and the insistence that being a good person is all that is required and that guys that try to argue the latter (even though it’s complete bs) are definitely always “nice guys” or incels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:24 PM
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