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Is it happening on a large scale? What's the proof? Just because neckbreads beta orbit "nerd girls" who are like 2-3 points out their league doesn't point to a systematic problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:16 AM
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I was catfished by this fat girl using someone else's pictures - did the same thing, just turned around and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:26 PM
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That's her gimmick. She also complains about being tricked into modeling nude even though she's done it like 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:24 PM
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I don't think that's the case, but it might seem that way when you are younger, as younger women are desired by pretty much all men. So they don't have to date the guy in the same 'place'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:18 PM
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Some guys belong with their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:09 PM
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I think when it happens the woman has discounted the man and FWBzoned him. I know women who actually like being the "other woman", so it happens. But from what I've seen most chad stuff is more sequential than some guy holding down a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:55 PM
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Or that women are collectively conspiring to keep "husband material" men on the shelf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:49 PM
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Well maybe you lack experience then, because I've found very few social situations can be neatly bucketed into "alpha" and "beta" (without making the definitions meaningless). Having been around the man-o-sphere for a while, this was more motivational pep talk (alphas approach, betas orbit) than social analysis. But Rollo is a huge gasbag so now clueless guys are parroting this stuff all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:07 PM
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Redpills don't really understand women, they are low IQ types who rely on extremely simple heuristics like AFBB & AWAlT that they get from youtube scammers. Real life is almost always way more complex than TRP portrays it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:16 PM
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My take is a lot of PPDcels are really just bluepillers who are loudly whining that the system isn't working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:45 PM
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I assume its mostly blackpills posting on PPD (but who knows), but they seem very feminine mommasboy types who do a lot of whining and pleading women to show them "empathy" and lower their standards and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:25 PM
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Don't think in terms of 1-10. Sophia is the prettiest but they're all roughly in the same league. I'd probably have the best shot with Vera, Ajane not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:21 AM
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Part of these guys' problem is they don't even realize they've been blocked out by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah, there's a media pushback against hookup culture going on. Interesting times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah, the truth is this sub is filled with humongous momma's boys, and they are constantly begging mummy mummy to validate them and provide "empathy" (whatever the fuck that means). That's also their obsession over 'betabux', because they are planning on doing nothing but sitting on their ass until some woman settles for them out of last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:36 PM
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6 pak meh, moobs hell no. These ladies like an enthusiastic young guy with potential. Your stamina can be shit, but if your turn-around time is fast, they will love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:08 AM
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Not TRP & I operate in the educated career-woman sector. So imo it's only hot if the woman is doing out her own volition and not out of dependency. Some revenue share is really for the woman because otherwise it is a total gamble on the man. I have had shitty bosses and changed jobs and stuff, it would be too much pressure to be the 'sole provider'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:54 AM
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Older women don't waste time with madonna/whore mindgame bullshit, just approach them, and if they are DTF, they are easy. And, there's a certain type of older woman who likes to 'make' young guys into studs who then can spread the wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:53 AM
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Red pill is just too contradictory and incoherent and obviously incel-adjacent to sign up for. What I learned from this sub is almost nobody is willing to defend TRP as a whole, it is both unprovable and indefensible. (you could say PPD blue-pilled me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:46 AM
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Good thing she was normal then. I probably redpilled her a bit on evopsyche stuff tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:09 AM
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A couple times I was standing around outside and someone came over to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:07 AM
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The highlight of the redpill woman thread is a lesbian arguing with bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:55 AM
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One of the RPW OGs used to post here, and she wasn't trad at all, she was into alpha male pickup artists and etc. Then the sub got taken over by TRP dorks or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:48 PM
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Always thought RPW wasn't a great brand, as it has little to do with TRP and whatever that turned into.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:17 PM
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I would say she preferred it and she did want the same thing for herself. If you're around LGBT ppl, you can see how gender roles are more fluid, and there is a sort of performative aspect to it. (It also wasn't about provisioning, she was 50/50 on that.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:57 PM
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The most "redpilled" women I dated was a committed feminist. I think this kind of thing works when it's a consensual exchange that the woman can lean into when she wants to. Not just something which exists by default because men have pps and women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:18 PM
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From what I've seen, they work when the couple is very rock solid and engage in it to some limited degree (e.g. swinging or just fwbs). Or where everyone involved is completely independent and don't depend on each other, like RPs who just spin plates forever. The disaster stories are almost always some couple who is breaking up anyway and decides to do it the hardway by opening up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:42 PM
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Not that particular picture which looks like an escort going to the playboy mansion. Do I wanna dress up date with a woman who can rock a LBD, yah absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:56 AM
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atlas b shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:51 PM
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super popular, bubbly, sexually confident, conventionally attractive type It's not that, it is the conventionally attractive women who aren't selling sex appeal. e.g. the "nerd" who is a pretty girl in glasses, or the "girl next door" who is a busty brunette. A lot of men are not good at 'sizing them up' and are going off very superficial sexy attributes. So they think she's attainable & down-to-earth, and then are shocked & awed when these girls get with "chads" who are actually in their league…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:49 PM
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See username. You have to act the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:40 PM
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At least for me, social intelligence ("good game") was always the limiting factor. But what do I know, I'm your regular 6'4" blonde semifit guy and not a male underwear model chadfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah, I tend to agree. But it's because the type of guy who lets the woman wear the pants tends to be immature/incompetent, and the women gets frustrated with him. Such pairings could be stable in theory tho. Also I don't think redpill stuff really explains very long marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:18 PM
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Well who cares what the norm is. I think the women I was hooking up with were the exception who were into that kinda thing (or they were someone in my circles that I had known for a while). but the majority of women over a certain age are dating for keeps. That's why most women don't identify with TRP because they don't know anyone is getting repeatedly pumped-n-dumped by chads. The women who cheat or branch swing like mad and can't hold down a LTR are often crazy in the head anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:59 PM
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What Ive seen is most beta type relationships seem to be a dominant woman who wants a more submissive man, and a lot of them are ppl younger than 30 so they aren't "settling". (The problem is these guys tend to be manchildren.) And a lot of redpill paranoia about this seems to be some arranged marriage bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:43 PM
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> 18 - 30: fun, bad boy cock carousel, alpha fucks This type of statement is proof that redpillcels have terrible social circles. I remember looking around and most women I knew had been in the same relationship since their early 20s. Some were briefly single late 20s/early 30s, others got divorced later. Obviously if you are trying to hookup with women on Tinder, this is who you are going to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:36 PM
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I've noticed men who are awful with women are not good at 'sizing them up' either. Like the hot girl who isn't strutting around like an instagram model is "average and obtainable" in their minds, so they go into beta orbiter mode and get buttblasted when Chad scores with her. Most of the stuff men consider sexy is pure presentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:33 AM
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When you guys write up these Chad Stories, it always sounds like you are describing a complete mental case who is so psycho he has to stup women way way beneath him, and even then he can't stick around because they will realize he is completely nutzo. Meanwhile I known a number of men who are with very attractive women but have a license to get some action on the side too. The real Chads out there are always juggling a lot of hot girls, not constantly scrounging for whatever they can get. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:24 AM
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You're right, feisty bitches are man crack. And it's not that men don't care about looks, just the internet dweebs arguing about 7/8/9 aren't getting any. Smart guys look for women who are hot enough and then start caring about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:14 AM
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I had an interesting experience where I met some people, and then I met them again a couple years later when I could be introduced a certain way, and then women were interested. So I don't know about triggering desire, but it does get you from the nobody to the somebody category.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:12 PM
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So how do we know what the guy there actually did? Do you think reddit should tell him "no the girl is wrong, keep on creeping!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:28 PM
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Do you think there might be a market out there for a more "wholesome" or "innocent" version of PUA? It has been tried. "Models" by Mark Manson... "Mate" by Tucker Max, so on. There's no real internet community for this stuff, because men really are looking for the shortcut/trick/cheat. (OR they are just angry and stewing about it. As a TRP OG said, "misogyny is the secret sauce".)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:23 PM
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Sophomore mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:26 PM
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Men who are so extremely desperate they are trying to get laid on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:07 PM
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Yeah, I have a friend who has only dated men 10-15 years older. I guess it's a niche if you can find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:44 PM
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Not set up, but you might get tipped off that her friend thinks you're cute or something. But you have to take it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:41 PM
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There are a lot of delusional redpill scrotes talking about their "plates" who they pay by the hour. You have to double-check in this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:58 PM
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Yep, I was always upfront, and was surprised that women were not only okay with it, some of them were really positive about it. IMO women quickly get sick of shitty players and guys who want it both ways (gf benefits while remaining non-committal), men who are dating around for fun are at least WYSIWYG.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:20 PM
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I'm in the "nerdy stacy" niche I guess. The thing is if an attractive women has nerdy interests and doesn't wear a lot of makeup or post thirst traps or etc, a lot of dweeby guys will assume she's in their league and orbit like fleas. Also there are a lot of jocky bro types who are really bright and lot of nerds who aren't smart at all, life is not like some high school movie where everyone is stuck in the same social caste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:17 PM
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It's not super common, but if a few women here and there get taken out of the dating market by older guys, eventually it starts to add up. Like who cares about the epsteins out there, it's the guys 5-10 years older who have a nice apartment/car and their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:51 PM
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I think more often it is code for age-inappropriate behavior. Brad Pitt hitting on teenagers at the mall = creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:06 AM
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Yeah, I met some women on there, but they seemed to have some weird baggage, long stories. Still got the feeling I was 2 points hotter IRL. (even tho iirc my rating was pretty good)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:30 PM
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The thing is hardly any women sent first messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:29 PM
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Comprehension issues, that is not what your link says. The thing is not getting swiped on is not the same as being rated 2/5 or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:26 PM
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Another fundamental misunderstanding you guys have about this. Women weren't being asked to rate random men in a vacuum. After receiving a message, the woman was prompted to rate him. If he was rude, obviously they rate him as a 1. If he never messaged, he probably wasn't rated at all. Also there was some thing where if you rated someone a 5/5, it send a notification, so women almost never did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:08 PM
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I just mean nobody owns the term except The Matrix, where it was apparently about transgenderism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:00 PM
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People have types. Straight ppl are bad at rating their own gender. I just don't see that many younger couples who are looks mismatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:56 PM
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I think a lot of the incel/niceguy types around here are dark triad too, which is why they envious of Chad "getting away with it". The thing is it's only a certain combo of these traits which is "sexy", and any other combo creates someone who comes off as a unstable ER-like lunatic. Like in most cases an asshole is just an asshole that nobody likes. > Normal men don't fawn after "psycho girls" They do in the initial phase when she's fucking their brains out. And many guys do end up white knighti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:49 PM
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Somewhat common topic here: redpill narcissists attracting cluster-b women, engaging in psychological warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:43 PM
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True. But if you are a young man, the algorithms are going to stick a bunch of sexy stuff in your face. Your social media knows you are older and like critters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:37 PM
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Well "red pill" means a bunch of different things, white nationalists and even radical feminists have used the term too. But if we are talking about TheRedPill sub (which is what PPD is for), it definitely was rooted in pickup/"inner game" seduction stuff. And Rollo was always the godfather of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:25 PM
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Plus OKC had no age filters back then, so women in their 20s would get bombarded by men in their 40s. A girl showed me her OKC inbox, and yeah like 80% of it was old gross guys. Plus people had these awful potato phone pics. I went out with a woman who was pretty attractive but you could barely tell from the blurry tiny pics she uploaded. I always took the real conclusion to be that OKC was shitty and there was a reason people switched to swipe apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:22 PM
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I don't believe this is true at all. Every red pill theory comes directly from pickup artistry (and is made more extreme), with the exception of weight lifting, which came from the anti-PUA community on body builder sites. Rollo Tomasi ran a pickup forum before starting Rational Male, and all the other classic sidebar blogs were seduction/pickup oriented. If anything, it was the reverse and the MRAs/MGTOWs were "sliming" their way into something which was entirely about pussy and relationships w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:42 AM
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Yeah, sometimes people just jump into bed together and then a month later they realize they're in a relationship. But I'm thinking more like when you're buzzed and about to do something you might regret then next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:05 PM
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Lundy Buncroft showed up on MensLib (male feminist sub) and basically denied that women could ever be abusive, and were only reactive to male abuse. They pretty much ripped him a new asshole and said all his research is outdated and he's running a grift. This guy's books were on the FDS sidebar, so this outdated second wave feminist bullshit is still out there and widely accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:51 PM
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Yeah, I never figured out what the actual boundaries are. But I'd say a FWB is someone you're actually friends with and enjoy hanging out together, where a fuckbuddy is someone you just hookup with. You can also date non-exclusively, and a lot of younger people maybe are not even looking for a long term relationship. I think where guys fuck-up is when they expect girlfriend benefits while pretending it is just casual. Like TRP would have posts like "My plate did my laundry".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:45 PM
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Ironically it is mostly tatted girls wearing sundresses, otherwise its apparently neckbeard bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:35 PM
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I once went to a speed dating event, and the women were more or less directly asking how much money you made. (That's why I don't lend any credence to the speed dating studies posted here. Nobody actually meets that way.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:29 PM
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If you're making-out with a woman and she's obviously physically aroused, it's a more a matter of when not if. I never thought it was necessary to push for sex or use "LMR breakers", you kinda want them begging for it. The scenario you guys are talking about is more taking someone out to a fancy resturant and getting a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:21 PM
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All true. Actually the key to 'pickup' is coming off as an easy manho who makes random women cum. This kinda guy doesn't care when he gets blocked or turn into a stalker or anything because he is easy as fuck. (Despite RP projection, most men are not easy.) However, if you bring a girl home from a bar or whatever, she's never going to seriously consider you, so if you want a good girlfriend, you need to wine-n-dine them a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:15 PM
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I haven't, but maybe this is ex post facto statements. This is well known behavior, so maybe a woman falls for it *once* before the female collective sets her straight. Not over and over. RP sidebar is very basic playe-wannabe 101 stuff. Women "use" men for free all the time. And even though this is mostly great for the men, redpillers hate it, because it destroys their loser revenge fantasy. (Sometimes men get 'fuckzoned' and are very not happy about it.) Most stable FWB/FB relationships are li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:48 AM
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I used to wear some really tight pants dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:29 AM
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True, but the woman subs like to present an idealized progressive vision which is then upboated by desperate plebbitors. Men here seem nasty, so you get the real take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:16 AM
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Dating is hard so men should wait and re-enter the market as 30yo virgin who has never gone out for c-c-c-coffee. Women never ever have sex unless they are shooting for true love and marriage. They are continually stupefied about getting played. . Successful abundant players are all secretly beating up women and espousing misogyny, they just get away with it due to looks. Most men just want casual sex, even if they have to scrape it out of a dumpster once every 3 months. Any guy with a woman is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:11 AM
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This is the only reddit sub I know of where women can state their real opinions without being downvoted, like "hell no I wouldn't date some bi buttbtich" and "only desperate fugly women approach men, if he can't pick up my signals he's a useless sperg".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:36 AM
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Very accurate take from my pov. I missed this thread but there's an enormous difference between 32 and 38 - "30s" is the wrong delimiter here. The wall cometh no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:09 AM
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Most womanizers I've known treated women like shit Nah, that's the omega male jerkoff fantasy. One-on-one, womenizers are always always very charming and seductive. They just have an abundance mentality so they are not simping or getting hung up on a particular women. Not giving too much fucks does not make one an asshole. Maybe they pimp posture around the bros. Abusive men almost always have a scarcity mentality which is beta as fuck. So many red pill men are obviously just buttblasted that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:15 PM
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Because redpill is not reality, it is almost purely a low-status male power fantasy, which turns into a revenge theory when it inevitably doesn't come true. Their idea of an "alpha male" seems like it comes from comic books and porn. Typical story: Some stacy friend-zoned the RP in high school, so now he's going to "get revenge" because he thinks some girl is going to get sooo addicted to his mediocre dick that he can treat her like shit. Plus he has Sigmund Freud levels of madonna/whore syndrom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:32 AM
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I disagree with the premise. There are lot of men who can get into relationships. But if they breakup, they have no obvious backup plan and have a scarcity mentality and so they go into SIMP9000 mode. So they put up with an enormous amount of bullshit because they don't have a backup plan. IMO it is mostly self-inflcited. Abundance Mentality is the 100% thing about TRP. Look out for #1. Manosphere is Loserosphere. So many guys breakup or get divorced from personality disordered women, that it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:14 AM
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Hey, the best way to project your inner paranoia is to say someone said it in a DM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:28 AM
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Yeah, no, "hot vs crazy" is a meme among us sane men. Many of us have been there. There's a certain narcissist "red pill" type who seems to love the BPD crazy pussy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:15 AM
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True, but 5G can inform advertisers when you are taking a dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:16 PM
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probably because redpill was a bunch of 2000-era blogs and nobody else cares
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah not worth it. he's a shortbus who just says "is too" / "is not" until you give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:50 PM
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Some women will have a bunch of orgasms no matter what you do. Can't let it go to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:39 PM
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That's an exaggeration, but referrals are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:37 PM
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When I was in college we went to a strip club, and the girls came over to hang out with us because we were more like peers than customers. Like someone knew one of them from high school. idk but most guys that age can see perky boobs for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:32 PM
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unperson.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:27 AM
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When I was in middle school, "Jim" was one of the slangwords for 'pedophile", It looks like our total not-anglospherian "Jim" was permabanned by reddit. Too bad, because he was like the last guy here who actually gave an honest try to debate TRP, I liked the guy. He would still send his stinkcel army to downvote me, so soooo sorry if you got fbi honey trapped dude. Would love if you survived. Also I'm from San Francisco and my country is the most slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:20 AM
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Too much fat chick caping ITT. Let's celebrate all the awesome women who beat their eating disorders though athleticism, diet, discipline and high status men's expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:05 AM
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Obv I understand that, just on this sub it's often stated as "80% of men are unattractive to all women", which is ridiculous. If anything it just says there are very few universally attractive men. Like even young brad pitt or whoever would rejected by some women for being the wrong race, age or wearing ugly shoes or whatever. And it was a real problem on OKC where young women would get bombarded by much older men. Which brings up another issue with this: women weren't rating random men, they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:23 PM
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A lot of people are NRE/honeymoon chasers too... even if the guy is chad, there's always another chad out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:07 PM
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I'm guessing it is more that women buy underwear for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:45 PM
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The bigger issue is ppl don't understand statistics. Like if 80% of women think I'm ugly it doesn't really matter because 20% is a lot of women. In more controlled populations (college students), the difference weren't as extreme. There were certain things about OKC which encouraged low ranking (e.g no age filter).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:00 PM
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Nah, a lot of 'single' women have a bootie call guy on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:36 PM
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A lot of the obsessive oneitus/friendzone types are actually dangerous and it often ends in some sort of rage explosion. Women lump those guys in the "just a friend" category, but when men notice this they see that particular guy as a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:37 PM
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The stereotypical "redditor" is someone who has never really accomplished anything but has their entire ego wrapped up in being the "smart guy". So they take these bogus online iq tests and ascribe their own opinions to be the most intelligent. One of my professors pointed out that iq tests are for giving you a job in the army, not ranking the most intelligent people, they are useless after the first SD or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:46 PM
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I wasn't physically attracted to him, but I definitely didn't think I deserved someone better. I was also still going through puberty (15) when this began This redpill "settling" thing is either extreme paranoia or pathetic revenge fantasies about their high school crush coming crawling back them 20 years later. It really has nothing to do with young people trying to find their space and people. You seem nice, so I would suggest you leave this sub.Don't "settle" at your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:45 AM
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It's a only certain type of dark triad stuff which is chick crack. A lot of redpillcels seem like failed narcissists, they didn't get what they thought they were entitled to so they sit around casting blame and fuming about revenge fantasies. Most assholes are just assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:41 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:15 PM
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trivia: youtube started as a dating app. Making a good looking video is a lot lot lot harder than taking a still (and a lot of men can't even do that.) Maybe TikTok has solved that problem to some extent? Youtube or Twitch or something where guys can show their interests and personality off are always going to be better sm bait than dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:57 AM
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The top % of model-tier women totally understand this and a lot of them have done the mistress tour of duty. They aren't tuning into broke double-divorced shitass' youtube to learn why sleazezz cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:48 AM
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Yes, my experience there is some truth to that, so it is a red pill. However there are enough other variables in there that it's unlikely to be correlated by le science. > Imagine Oh, I've heard it straight from the horse's mouth. They go off the pill and look at their boyfriend and are like "this guy?" Maybe I even have some sorta appeal to the natural woman type that the artificial hormone type avoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:09 AM
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ovulatory shift Plus enough women are on hormonal birth control, it doesn't make sense to try to strategize around this stuff. (My anecdotal take is the pill can kill the drive.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:00 AM
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Advice that promises you the moon is a huge fucking red flag. Yep, a lot of RP/PU stuff is the sexual equivalent of "make money fast". The more grandiose the claims, the better, because they are hunting for whale marks. > vetting women It always surprised me how little info TRP had about vetting (because they don't actually date lolol). Just some vague shit about she should be sweet and horny and low n. Nothing about actual personality disorders and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:49 AM
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That guy claimed to be n=75 or something, obviously sex-posi sluts see him as "one of us". The thing is other women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:36 AM
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Agreed, but this sub's boogeyman is the hypothetical autistic misogynistic chad. Everyone is looking for someone who will put up with their shit, so serious personality defects usually mean dating way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:28 AM
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Yeah, they cherrypicked 5 seconds of these terribly boring videos to show the fashions. But there is a theory that popular culture died on 9/11/01 and it's been reruns ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:25 AM
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Does anyone have a link to the actual study? (Other menstrual cycle studies cited by TRP ended up being retracted.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:07 AM
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I have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:48 PM
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A lot of men on this sub are really young too. But I've seen men here admit they lack the ability to distinguish cause from effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:26 PM
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This seems to me to be intuitive, because at some point a good chunk of anyone's lifetime n count is going to be ancient history. Like I (male) probably wasn't the most stable partner at age 20, but that doesn't mean I'm bound to cheat and so on later in life. Promiscuity is usually a downstream effect for mental or substance issues. I don't know who is trying to perform an n-count calculus, when usually the red flags are right in their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:00 PM
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these threads get brigaded, but you're right: edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:33 PM
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College wasn't for you, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:02 PM
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It would be a better thread if you dug up the original papers referenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:54 PM
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A second hand reference to a paper from 1993 is a seriously weak "moratorium" dude. Not even debating the premise, just pointing out that redpill men often have very poor argumentation skills and then apparently have to downvote minor objections to create a circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:40 PM
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Hmm, instantly downvoted by your pajeet pals. Seriously: you referencing one sentence in a paper that doesn't even mention "n-count". Very remedial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:21 PM
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This isn't the primary source, so I'll just note that "sleeps around a lot" is a current activity. Doesn't necessarily mean adult men care think much about "slept around back in college" or etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:07 PM
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Yeah, its not the "too nice" part, it's because they don't approach or flirt and radiate strong eunuch energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:33 PM
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Mgtow they probably just got sick of all the FBI subpoenas .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:30 PM
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Housewife/SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:36 AM
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I guess they reduced the quarantine because recently I can see TRP again. It is absolutely nothing like the MGTOW sub. It seems slow, but all the threads are about dating, approaching, and taking ownership of yourself. There is no longer "women suck" or "take away women's rights" or "rape is AOK" type threads which admittedly were more common years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:20 AM
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Agreed, this is terrible advice which will probably turn you into a 30 year old virgin. (it is probably intended to be mgtow recruiting instead) Most people are on their career path by their mid-20s, and a lot of decent women are off the market by that age. Men can date a little younger, but more like 30 & 24 and not 38 & 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:38 AM
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In the old days, you could get away from a lot of stuff just by moving to a different state. They had to pass a federal law regarding "deadbeat dads".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:23 AM
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I simply argue that the cons outweighs the pros if it ends in divorce. Divorce is not always "divorce rape". Redpillers are actually doing a disservice by spreading the old boomer trope that "woman gets everything, man gets nothing". My state at least is 50/50. Just that married people have a higher standard of living than single people, very few single earners can own a home. I also have friends that were in very short unstable marriages (to mental women). With no kids, no property, divorce is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:53 AM
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Automatic beneficiary status/power of attorney is kind of nice with marriage, but those rights can be established independent of marriage. I know childfree couples who cohabitated for years. Eventually they got married because it was obvious they weren't going anywhere and handling all that legal stuff would be a total pita. Some RP guys claim to have some non-licensed "marriage", but they never explain how they did it. (they are probably bs'ing).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:41 AM
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TRP was quarantined after an incel rage incident and US mainstream media was linking to the sub. It seemed totally reactive and not due to any coherent content policy. None of the other RP subs (including this one) were quarantined. IMO the sub has been a lot better since, as they generally just talk about plate-spinning stuff and no longer have much mgtow/incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:24 AM
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They mock redpillers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:02 AM
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Probably. A friend of mine knew things were on the rocks for a long time. But then they stopped fighting, they adopted a dog, etc etc, boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:39 AM
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And don't give me that "everything was peachy and then out of nowhere... divorced", routine Women will spend months (or years) working on an exit strategy, and will try to keep the peace in the meanwhile. IMO that's why some guys feel like it was totally out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:55 PM
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Agreed, but I think people have seen their parents and 50% of the population divorce, so that message is certainly already out there. (but mostly sid is just ranting about random political shit, i had to cherry pick something where he's talking about mgtow itself.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:36 AM
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The moral of the story is live a life you won't regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:32 AM
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I figured out I wanted to do polyamory while single and have only ever dated people who want it for themselves. Yes, it is ~way~ more likely to be successful then opening a mono relationship. That's correct and more poly people should say so. For years the poly community was gaslighting couples with their "poly bible" More Than Two. (Authors were divorced and greatly dislike each other.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:08 PM
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So you've been posting on PPD for a while, lemme know if I got this right... You've "done it all", dated around, gotten married, had kids, dated around some more, etc. You have stated you are old enough you don't have much of a sex drive. I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to decide to go his own way. Many divorced people have no desire to get remarried, and chadding is a young mans game. However, old bitter divorced people should not be giving advice to young people. (It was the same shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:42 PM
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I finally agree with a cautiontomorrow post. You're right, it's less about winning a fight and more about looking like you will fight back. Like I'm a big guy and occasionally a woman will see me at night and starts acting scared. This just draws attention b/c otherwise I barely noticed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:43 PM
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Yeah, it is the wrong kind of ego defense though. The motto of the married red pill sub is "own your shit". You rarely see MGTOWs owning their shit. Instead violent abusive drunks find this convenient movement which places blame on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:31 PM
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There was this guy who was the manosphere's #1 angry MGTOW. It got so bad his ex wife showed-up on Rational Male to defend herself. She said he was an unemployed alcoholic who never paid a dime in child support. Then some red pill fangirl single mom threw herself at him, so he completely renounced MGTOW. (it didn't work out because of his drinking.) I assume this is typical of most MGTOWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:41 PM
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They probably got banned from the mall for hassling teenage girls or something. They always sound like grotesque neckbeards demanding their anime waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:47 PM
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I dunno, but when I was internet dating, I could tell right away whether there was a vibe, or if it was a "job interview". Like the "Beta Bux Wanted - Apply Here" thing is real, and imo it has very little to do with the guy. I got catfished, so I would only meet for coffee/drinks, so I'd prolly never date one of them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:46 AM
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Reddit is LVM porn-addict central, and they are just cuck posting and getting off on this type of virtual exhibitionism. You are helping them out, because they are jerking it to being humiliated by a "alpha male chad stud". Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:36 AM
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The super sluts I know are poly and put they aint loyal in their dating profile. The regular type is loyal for good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:30 AM
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I dated for like 10 years and only encountered 2 women that were even sorta FDS/Rules types. So this this "problem" was completely irrelevant to me, but is apparently a huge issue with redpill mentalcels who get no pussy otherwise anyway. Get a girlfriend and you will stop being angry about this immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:02 AM
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Good ppd question. Only 10-20% of people are actually high on sociosexual attitudes, so it makes sense for them/us to gatekeep it. There are certain unspoken rules and routines for this, so it makes it easier overall. And like TRP says, a lot of people come with "covert contracfs". But obviously there is an infinite number of coomers who would hookups, orgies, gangbabngs, any porn fantasy that they can imagine. So at some level there will always be bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:46 AM
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RIP. I always thought FDS was a hilarious sub, and I always enjoyed their cynical snarky takedowns of no value losers. Also it is fucking funny that "redpill" speds get super angry that some random women on the internet that they will never meet won't give them any pussay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:14 AM
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So now there is a low-level MSM pushback against "hookup culture". (FDS approves.) There was this comment from a woman who thought sex-positivity was great because there used to be "a bar to entry". Like you had to be cool or attractive enough to get laid NSA. But now on OLD. women get bombarded with a zillion gym guys who seem uber desperate to pump-n-dump and that's not enticing or exciting and just depressing. Makes me wonder if manureosphere just keeps poisoning the well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:05 AM
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imo, the issue is more PUA advice like "go approach 300 women" and "keep plowing". Like if you were stupid enough to actually do that, a lot of people are going to observe you and judge you as a creep. anytime you can start a natural converation, I don't think ppl even see that as "approaching".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:51 AM
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Nah they did the exact same thing with asktrp and other associated subs which were not quarantined. At one point they false flagged that reddit was going to ban theredpill, but it never happened. (80% of reddit is on mobile and can't see it anyway.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:38 PM
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For a long time. FDS etc is the return of 1980s style second wave feminism. They are associated with banned subs like gendercritical, which has absolutely nothing to do with dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:36 PM
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In addition, there's a rapist type who is only nice to women until he gets them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:29 PM
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It's not really an assessment of the guy. They don't want to develop feels so they "don't like him" or rule him out somehow. He might be perfectly great under other circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:33 PM
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ah, remember all the good times that were had with u\random_name_567 on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:26 PM
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It's just a way to avoid getting played.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:09 PM
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It definitely helps to have a good reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:03 PM
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IIRC she also found most college women have very few hookups, but they believe their classmates are hooking up all the time. So there's this assumption that "everyone is hooking-up" which isn't really true. (Walsh got into it with some man0sphere guys because the PUAs really didn't like her research.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:45 PM
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20% of men are having 80% of the casual sex with 20% of women Yep. Once you get a little older, it becomes obvious that "people into casual hookups" is a fairly self-selected audience, concentrated in big cities or universities. And the casual people know the routine and mostly hookup just with each other. And once you get a little older than that, they are all swingers or poly. This leads to other "redpill" misconceptions like average women having an enormous n-count, when they are really only …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:17 PM
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More than that, FDS founder was a PPD regular and used this sub to figure out how to max trigger redpill incls. These guy are too completely r-slurred to understand a lot of FDS shit is just trolling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:16 PM
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iirc, it was "intercourse", but ime you are usually mixing it up a bit. source not handy, i should make a post about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:09 AM
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Women judge other women's looks on a more 'social' level, while men are mostly looking at the hottt. Normie women don't even think about the trashy pornostrippers men jerk off to. > I still bagged her Because it's easier for men to date down, it does feel like a score to get with someone on your level. (and I say that as someone apparently on the 20% of the curve)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:46 AM
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Old lady thinks you have a nice butt. Take it +++
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:38 AM
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I'm just disputing "reddit statistics". And yeah I think a lot more women can come via PIV with enough foreplay and enough PIV. And I'm not here to argue with some other dork who is trying to alpha a reddit post. Go ring some girl's bell instead of obviously getting hemorrhoids here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:35 AM
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Ug, is that really what Rammstein is doing now? More topical: Laibach NATO: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YZnhRYlHiog&list=PLiN-7mukU\_RHQdj6MhNevb1igNZDwGwBw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:22 AM
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Nah I'm not justifying jack/shit. This is just a fact: "Cheaters" can get laid a lot more than men in "Open Marriages". These guys run this game because it is effective and it sets the hook. If women want to be smart, they should avoid this because they are probably getting played. The red pill here is almost every man with a mistress, the wife is fully aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:12 AM
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Aside from my hs gf, they just wanted some D and didn't want to make a big deal out of it. I only found out later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:50 AM
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Yeah, obviously, but maybe not in obvious ways. There's one group of socially stunted neckbreads who want some untouched anime waifu. But a lot of guys on this sub are third world immigrants who are trying to justify getting their parents to buy some village girl. There is some totally other "red pill" out there. And a lot of the age-gap threads here are like "how low can you go?? feminists be mad!!". Like there is some external factor which makes young women flee from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:42 AM
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I wouldn't actually believe cheaters on their reasoning for cheating. You shouldn't. This is the standard male cheater thing about how there's no intimacy in the marriage and blahblahwhine. The surprise is how often the wife knows and even approves of her man getting over on some dumb vixen wannabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:27 AM
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The Average man ejaculates in as little as 5 minutes. Which is pathetic. There was a study where intercourse last 5 minutes on average, but women said they preferred 10-15 minutes. Other studies indicate women prefer a lot more foreplay too. So take those "women who can come via PIV" studies with a huge grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:22 AM
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After high school or so, there are really no young guys simping for virgins. They might like one for ego purposes, but young men want the pzzy, and they want it now. PPDcels are guys who missed the boat, which departed around junior prom time. Because of that, inexperienced/virgin women don't want to be some neckbeard's fetish object, so they are more likely to exaggerate their sociosexuality. I used to go dancing, and so many "club thots" were the alter-ego of total good girls IRL. Also a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:13 AM
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I used to hang around pickup forums/blogs, and considered myself pretty red-pilled. Now it obvious to me that redpillers are mostly just failed narcissists who sit around ruminating about pathetic revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:33 AM
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Reddit isn't about discussion, it's about consensus building. Even the most obscure subs often have some hidden CorrectOpinions(tm). Which often aren't even political at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:14 PM
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You're right, they all hate each other. But everyone in the manosphere uses the same jargon, so nobody can tell them apart. (Nor do they really care, so on reddit, they are all "incels".) Even on PPD, you have guys who flip between red and black pill talking points, and a bunch of other guys who can't even agree what "redpill" even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:03 PM
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Looksmax forums full of slayers, redpill forums full of incels. Welcome to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:34 PM
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Boys go through later puberty, so I think a lot of them didn't start noticing girls until 14-16 or so, so they maybe don't realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:08 PM
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IMO creeps do this because they know a kid is less likely to yell back at them, usually has less self-esteem etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:03 PM
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At some point pipe-laying becomes paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:54 AM
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10 seconds on google: https://www.reddit.com/r/UnpopularFacts/comments/qnp5qh/the\_claim\_men\_leave\_their\_sick\_spouse\_more\_is/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:29 AM
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Repost: It was always that way, there was maybe just enough positive content you could ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:23 AM
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Yeah, whatever your game is, you're at least low-level signaling you aren't a clinger. "East come easy go" mentality always worked best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:17 AM
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Right. The amount of lying and gaslighting required would turn someone into a psychopath, if they weren't already. And this would require a lot of james bond shit like secret credit cards and burner phones. But the thing is people can get into emotional affairs, like there's someone on facebook where they can keep it on the down-low until the "business trip".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:04 AM
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That study is a rather famous piece of "fake news", as it was widely publicized and later retracted. Turns out both men and women leave sick spouses at similar rates. Still comes up on PPD now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:51 AM
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One thing I think men on this sub don't realize is being "pumped and dumped" is a better outcome than being "pumped and stalked". Like a big part of women's aversion to hookups is not just the bad sex or being ghosted, it is how are they going to get rid of this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:39 AM
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In my experience, it's always the woman who brings up this conversation, once you have settled into a relationship and you are opening up about such things. I've always found it sleezy to count "notches" so I can honestly say I don't really know. Women have told me that if a guy asks, the next question is probably going to be about how big their dicks were. So it shouldn't surprise people that a lot of the guys hanging around this sub are actual "beta cucks".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:31 AM
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It's always been that way and filled with mgtow/incel bullshit, but maybe there used to be enough positive content you could ignore it. Like at one point they had something about a "permanent anger phase" aka permanent incl phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:17 AM
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It's an erogenous zone for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:12 AM
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At this point, "red pill" is whatever some wankers on youtube says it is. Late reply because I was put on timeout, but I think youze and Ize take on the redpill is very different from what everyone younger sees. Thus the contention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:00 AM
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Maybe this is an old stereotype, but the skinny lanky hipster guy with the very cute skinny girlfriend. IMO maybe redpill misses the point and the attraction is more about having an athletic build with low body fat than muh big muschles. Likewise a lot of really fit women out there who don't take it to social media extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:46 AM
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Enough phone sex so it was a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:33 AM
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You're right about that. Some of the 'experts' giving advice are pretty fucked in the head tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:32 AM
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A lot of pickup guys didn't even seem to like sex. It was like "nah bro, after gaming all night I just wanna cum as fast as I can so I can get back out there and score the next notch." Needless to say, they didn't seem to get any repeat customers. Thus is a type of guy who lands on redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:15 AM
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I once drove about 8 hours to get laid. I broke up with someone because she lived 45-60 minutes away in the suburbs. Geographically undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:04 AM
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I'm convinced this is mostly just projection. The other guy is more outgoing, confident, socially dominant, isn't openly simping, has good boundries, and so on. Therefore he must be an "asshole", thinks le jealous nice guy. Most other people do not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:58 AM
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The thing is the "good ones" get taken off the market all the time. OLD makes it seem like there's a lot of abundance out there, but at some point people are single for very obvious reasons. (To the point where people say it gets a lot better after divorcees start re-entering the dating market.) So it's not like there's some great selection of "betas" still out there. Just like redpills who think they are going to peak at 37 are probably going to find the "marrying type" wants nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:52 AM
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Especially since most new cars don't come with a spare tire. edit: SUVs are #1 in USA and sedans are getting cancelled, so 5 doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:31 AM
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Not just that, a lot of people have terrible communication and problem resolution skills. They "fight" because that's all they know how to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:49 AM
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Super common toxic relationship pattern where people fight -> make up -> grudge fuck. Usually the fighting is over something stupid and irrelevant and is just drama. You don't date your friends, so you don't know how they behave behind clos doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:38 AM
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That has been going on on 4chan (and prob reddit) for a long time now. I just think its weird as fuck there's a shadowy group of incels monitoring ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:14 AM
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Looks like the pajeet pill discord is spamming n-count threads again. Someone dmed me and said this is some sort of organized activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:43 PM
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I can help. "Calibrated" is redpill/seduction jargon, and a word that normal people don't use. It means that your behavior and attitudes match your outward appearance. And that the 'first impressions' often govern the entire relationship. What he is saying is he THINKS he has a good "frame announcement". But then he is getting rejected because he doesn't have a "PHD", so clearly he isn't entirely "calibrated" for whatever this audience is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:07 AM
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Nah, that's not what it means. He puts out the vibe he doesn't have double standards so the woman is not going to feel judged by giving him a ride. PPD is full of super sex-negative guys who are probably getting swerved for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:12 PM
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Yep, a lot of the old pickup guys were all about druggies, skanks, and strippers. The average degenerate probably gets laid a lot more than an "alpha HVM".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:32 PM
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why would a girl who is attracted to me and also has no qualms about casual sex is not interested in sleeping with me after our date? Because you have shitty game, Raju. If she wasn't a little interested she wouldnt' be on a date with you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:49 PM
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I think this kinda stuff is evidence for "hypergamy". Like this guy was ugly and an asshole and was totally incompatible, but we were together for 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:08 PM
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Yeah, I pretty much don't eat fast food. I only recently discovered that McChickens are now 2 for $3. But the place was nice and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:18 PM
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Some sales guy took me to Carl Junior because he was bragging that he knew someone in the Carl family, and the place was fucking filthy and everyone in there looked completely miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:51 PM
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Yep, I've been with two women who left a man partially because of his porn addiction, and these girls were hot enough they could have done porn if they wanted to. It's just the lazyness, it's the cuckolding and other weird submissive fetish shit plus their overall manchild nature. The worst "beta" stereotypes hit the mark sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:31 PM
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I sympathize a lot of what you are saying, but these people had bad long-term partner traits regardless of whatever their count was. You are committing the mental error of reversing cause and effect. I always say this on here, but the cluster-b crazy girl I got tied in with was very low n (at the time). She would have been perfect "nice guy" bait, so I'm lucky I had some sense of boundaries and could be not so "nice". It just seems a lot easier to swerve people with mental health issues rather t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:18 PM
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Yep, I've seen friends prep for this like its their oscars speech. OTOH, its like this guy only spammed me pervy shit from random accounts for 3 months so it wasn't too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:46 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexuality -- PPD required knowledge. If you care, lookup the studies. Men and women have a pretty equal distribution of sociosexual attitudes. But casual sex usually involves at least one highly sociosexual person, so men perceive "sluts" and women perceive "players". Sociosexual people often self-select each other because at leat you both know the deal. Redpillers are mostly very non-sociosexual men who feel like they have to enter hookup culture. This require…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:17 AM
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Protip for men here: When a woman says you'd a be a great guy for someone else or "boyfriend material" (?? never heard of this irl), she's probably bullshitting you because she sees you as a potential clingy stalker that needs to be let down real nice and easy. The more abundant guys get more of a thanks, but no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:50 AM
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Just upvoting an effort post. Not to many true blues around here, everyone should encourage them just to keep things interesting. One thing is I've always been very into women's pelvic bone structure. This is three dimensional and not something which is directly displayed in advertising or porn etc, so I always assumed this was some monkey-brained instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:32 AM
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We had a study here, ~80% of casual sex is between the ~10% of the population who is highly sociosexual. Redpillers are mostly sex-negative men trying to engage in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:53 PM
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One of the bullies I recall became a prominent member of the gay leather community. So he was "alpha" in that sense. Otherwise, I always thought the Simpsons got it right, they were mostly low class losers who picked on younger kids and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:31 PM
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Maybe sometimes, but I think redpills love to pull their microweenies about their "gatekeeper to commitment" bs. Most hookups are slutty people fucking each other, lotta easy come easy go stuff. Fortunately some women love the manhoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 PM
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I've seen the cluster-b types avoid the chads and go for guys they can steamroll. Often when a hot women seems to be dating way down, it's because she's a mental case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:02 PM
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Hold on, I think the women on there are bad too. Back when I was on OLD every attractive woman I met had some weird baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:57 PM
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I think it's more common in late 20s/early 30s, when women realize that men no longer give a shit about the madonna/whore stuff. Like we have all been around the block at that point (or should have been). Some women get super horny around then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:55 AM
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Online dating has zero social incentives for good behavior, zero ways of getting any real personal references, and forces you into "dating mode" before you even get to know the person. AND you are working off some variety of inaccurate 2D photos. Plus the good people leave OLD, while the bad actors hang around on there forever. Women either don't take OLD seriously, or they have to be completely ruthless on there. Social Circle FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:44 AM
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Without going into details, I've never been naive about this, but I still like it ☺️ A friend of mine told me she never really got it until she hooked-up with another woman and was like "yeah, score!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:02 AM
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Depends what you mean. I knew women running this strategy long before FDS or even TRP existed. OTOH I have never known a "radical feminist" to have good relationships with men. They are mostly awful abusive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:58 AM
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Dudes who think they could do better, but never actually do are usually spinning that wheel hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:53 AM
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I had the same experience. In high school, you can get socially set up or just orbit each other for a long time first. You still have to learn how to approach and go on a real date and all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:11 AM
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Yep. Women with mental issues will often seek out desperate white knight types who will put up with their bullshit. Disagree about women, because this is a men do it too thing. Having a healthy relationship early on is really essential for everyone to have good boundaries later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:06 AM
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You gotta understand that a lot of these men have never experienced any raw desire until they put a bunch of work into their appearance. So becoming valued as a sex object is something they are rightfully proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:50 AM
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In most cases yeah, but some women do have the same attitude that manhoes are just for fun not for relationships. Or they could too easily cheat & so on. Call it slut shaming if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:35 AM
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You read it exactly wrong. These women did not offer to be SAHMs, they 'switched careers' into being a blogger or dog whisperer or something. While not expecting any cutbacks on the cleaning service or takeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:15 AM
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Sure. But I've been on the other side of this where some guy starts ranting about "assholes get the girls" and it's like hey shitass, you don't even know me. I'd also guess the orbiter gets into the emotional tampon role and starts reading more into minor complaints than warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:38 AM
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A lot of them don't even seem to like sex and are dwelling in some revenge fantasy. Most of the guys who are actually hooking up know the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:48 AM
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She is only the sucker if you suck in bed. Otherwise she got what she came for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:33 AM
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Yeah, "nice guy until he gets you alone" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:58 PM
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I mean if the guy is complaining about it, it probably wasn't an entirely mutual decision. The thing with this framing is there's not really anything in it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:53 PM
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Maybe more of a UMC thing, but I've heard a few stories. Sometimes the husband puts his foot down and they end up working again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:00 PM
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You're both right I think. If there are any circumstances the lawyers will advise not to fight it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:46 PM
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Usually the women don't declare they are going to be a SAHM and bake cookies and sew clothing, instead they go freelance or switch careers to some sort of non-job which isn't bringing in the $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:29 PM
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Yep, if you look at the adultery sub, they are really into "opsec" and have this secret agent lifestyle with burner phones and secret credit cards and etc. I think in the past maybe some people just cheated on each other, but now it's too difficult so they get into ethical non monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:09 PM
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A lot of the guys on that sub aren't even being rejected, they are just looking for women to listen to their shitty rants about women. Nobody cares if they were nice in high school or whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:02 PM
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Interesting take. I think a big part of it is self-rationalization. Like what does the 'nice guy' got that the other guy doesn't? The truth is probably not much. So they go with "I'm nice and he's an asshole". And often they will have a completely imaginary reason why they are morally superior to the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:58 PM
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I had the opposite where I read The Rational Male and some of the older RP texts, but then coming onto PPD helped me realize most redpillers are just narcissistic losers with pathetic revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:20 PM
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Yep. And a lot of guys have women so high up on the pedestal they don't really understand these are "bad girl" types who they wouldn't be compatible with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:59 PM
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The nice guy on r/niceguys is a sexually frustrated man overvalues the act of being kind and is upset when his expectations don't meet reality. I don't think that's true at all, these guys are essentially shitty incels, and are just looking for an excuse to go on some misogynistic rant where an actual woman would hear him. A lot of the guys on r/niceguys actually had a chance, but then chose to explode at the woman instead (just because she was too busy to reply to his texts or w/e.) Actually ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:32 PM
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I think there is the clueless nice guy type who doesn't really get how to make a move, get rejected and move on. This is common among teenagers because nobody knows wtf they are doing. But then there's another type of guy who is running "not like other guys" game and realizes by being "nice" he can get in with women who have boyfriends and then try win them over. I feel the latter type is the one who explodes at women because they are really just manipulative to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:06 PM
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After posting something positive about MRP, yeah the "sexpolits with the wife" stuff is the cringy worst. My interpretation of that is some women have a hair-trigger, and it's more about her holding it off until the right moment, rather than him "training" her to orgasm. If I knew a portable method of doing that, I'd be a gazillionare, but individual women are too different in that respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:52 AM
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It's not immediately obvious, but that sub is actualy "about to get divorced pill". They are guys who fucked up bad and are going to have to get back into fighting shape and get back out there. MRP is depressing as fuck, but imo it's probably the most real-world redpill space. They are some of the few talking about actual women and not "generic tinder slut". They are also very into "owning your shit", where I've never seen a MGTOW own his shit ever. I haven't looked at it in quite a while, but M…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:00 AM
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I think if you red flairs asked this on TRP you might get a different answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:52 AM
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Nope, women use social media to keep their tabs on chads. If he's not on there, he might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:22 AM
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So I think that's a different issue. I've known people who are total NRE junkies and they are constantly branch-swinging between relationships, often with some cheating in between. The thing its going to suck whether you are the first person who got cheated on or the tenth. I think a lot of people have some fun in college and then don't have too much trouble maintaining LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:13 AM
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You will never really know, so it is a very impracticable one. I'd recommend starting to meet people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:09 AM
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who shoots his shot The thing about the #2 type niceguy is he doesn't shoot his shot, at least not until he is deep in the friendzone. The asexual eunuch act disarms women so they don't expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:00 AM
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The one insane BPD girl I got caught up with was very low n. You can have a girl like that, while I'll stick to the sluts with a good head on their shoulders. In reality, there are so many fucked up ppl with personality disorders and substance issues and other bullshit, for anyone who lives in the real world, n count just has to be way way down the criteria list. You guys just sound very socially-isolated and you prob use too much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:43 PM
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My theory is they don't care that much, they just don't want to be socially judged if they show up with the fraternity mascot and have other men sniggering behind their backs. All of the cuckold/redpill fiction they collect has the guy being shamed by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:34 PM
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Yep, I am old, old enough to recall social media changing the game. It became the low-friction way of contacting people and removed the stress about getting a phone number & etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:18 PM
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Early Roissy/Hearste was one of the most real sounding guys in the manosphere. Later on the blog supposedly got taken over by someone else and went into alt-right politics, so I don't know how much of the original was archived.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:39 PM
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Pickup artistry was mainstream tho, it had a best selling novel and a tv show.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:45 PM
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go back to something like its tactical, PUA roots. I would be for that. A lot of the red? guys on this sub seem to be ignorant of the old seduction concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:03 PM
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There's some thing in the sub where you have to write an essay demonstrating your RP knowledge to be accepted. So that's why you get those tedious 8000 word posts about the true nature of alpha or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:31 PM
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Right. Usually the more reasonable RPs usually define down the concepts to something more defensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:21 PM
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Agreed, but at the same time "red pill" has a real branding problem, it's not really a coherent thing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:06 PM
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That's one of those subs where most of the women are trans, so maybe she was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:44 PM
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Because this is the redpill debate sub, and the defense boils down to "those guys aren't \really** red pill". Like one guy here even said Rollo Tomasi isn't redpill. Hard to debate something which only exists as a personal definition within someone's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:20 PM
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More No True Redpill. The thing is every RP idea has some revenge theory corollary, so you cannot really disclaim a lot of this. If you hang out a sign saying "bitch about women here", you're just gonna get a bunch of mentally defective troglodytes. Most men on PPD are neither really red or black, so nobody here can tell who the "true" redpills are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:56 PM
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That's the fax too. The whole barcrawl and party scene settles down. Social circles start to become super couple-oriented. You might know a playboy chad, but he's not invited to the Super Bowl BBQ. Too many people are off the market, so you have to make longshots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:17 AM
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Yep, TRePs. I have a couple old girlfriends who had stories about their porn-using ex trying to push some sort of cuckold/humiliation stuff on them, which generally was one of the breaking points. Redpillers are way over-optimistic about "men". You can give a lot of guys cute gfs, and they will still chose their hand. On a practical level, I think it's better for men to have their orgasms with women. At least that's what I decided when I was 18 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:03 AM
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Makeup only works in photography or from across the room. This might surprise a lot of women, but in real life you are actually three dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:52 AM
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ESL or sped?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:47 AM
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A couple points here. 1 - "Lookism" was started by gay/bi guys who have a genuine admiration of male beauty. They also love trolling hetero guys because women are so picky, while gay men are totally not. 2 - The only two communities on the internet who use the term "alpha male" seriously are redpillers and cuckold fetishists. Terps have a catalog of "gangbang videotape" stories which are really just cuck fiction that they treat as a bible. You can bet that a lot of terps, even ECs, are secretly …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:41 AM
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These things make men low value I always thought the hardest part of dating was meeting women in the first place. And that meant getting into places where the gender ratio was more like 50/50 rather than 80/20. And that meant having *some* social cred and being friends with women who could bring you in there. OP is correct, especially in your late 20s/early 30s, you might know a ton of great women, but they mostly are all cohabitating/engaged/married. The market is constricting, and a lot of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:19 AM
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Because they easily do both? After stacy rejects them, some of them go home and shove their dick into a blender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:07 AM
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I think there's a lot of male ego tied-up in this. (Plus whatever porn/instagram/onlyfans makes them spooge. Conditioning.) I think there's a lot of guys who think they deserve a certain type of woman, despite never dating that type of woman. I know men resort to "not like other guys" orbiting tactics to try to win over women they internally believe to be above them. On the other hand, I have friends who held out until they found a woman they were looking for. So maybe reasonably high standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:04 AM
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This narrative of schlubby men chasing supermodels and then complaining about their dating woes Guessing a lot of women have the experience of being chased by a guy who isn't even in their area code. I would even say that most men have no idea what their league actually is, or they don't care. They will aim as high as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:26 AM
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I dunno, but those ask reddit threads about your worst date have a bunch of people walking into situations which are sketchy af. I don't think anyone thinks they're getting raped at the starbucks. A more realistic fear would be attracting a stalker you can't get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:35 AM
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I suspect the guys who make it work with RP were already okay with women and then they got screwed, cheated on or divorced, or maybe they just wanted to fuck around. Men who bring this stuff up on dates are trying to get female validation for their views. what is tradcon? There's some other "red pill" out there which is all about having a submissive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:54 PM
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This is just No True Redpill. It's easy to believe the vast majority of you are socially malajusted dorks who repeat Fresh n Fit videos verbatim. Not to mention all the weird tradcon angst. Half the women on PPD are only here because some doofus tried to redpill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:39 PM
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The zen hippie take I got on this is she is the waves and you are the rocks. She can really crash in, but the next day you are both still there doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:50 AM
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My take is women are the ones with a heavy SES filter. So as a man you can ignore this b/c most of the women coming at you are associative mating. It doesn't matter until you start thinking about marriage anyway, which for most men is later rather than sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:26 AM
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🤚long girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:15 AM
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Interesting. An old friend of mine is with a single dad. She likes that his daughter is around that age because she can be more like a "big sister". Sounds like she has a pretty hard boundary on any parenting stuff and would rather be dad's girlfriend than the evil step-mother. She also said she didn't want to deal with divorced dads and their baggage, right before meeting this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:23 AM
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Yep and 'active' might be they accidentally tapped on a notification or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:23 PM
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It's the same with cold approach ... like is this guy so desperate he's bothering women in the grocery store? Social status is a huge thing for women, and it's really hard to present that in a dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:12 PM
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I saw this presentation by this guy from Match group. Attractive women looking for a serious boyfriend don't have to be on the apps for very long. They had various tricks to keep their profiles looking active. (Anecdotally they bribe women to be on there too.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:58 PM
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PUA makes it too complicated, just be up and talkative and a little cocky funny and forward and etc. It's actually pretty common that guys who are naturally social find that PUA shit makes their 'game' a lot worse. It's a bunch of overthink mental masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:20 PM
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Redpiller posts the same article from 2012 again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:48 PM
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🥃 here, hickchuckle*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:17 AM
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Did anyone here actually read Eron Gjoni's 200,000 word blog about some fat chick who wasn't into him? I certainly didn't, it had no relevance to me. But I bet some TRP guys archived that into their betamale hall of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:12 AM
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The unstated thing here is that everyone in the entry-level NYC arty scene has a trust fund. There are no more cheap bohemia parts of town where you can make it with a sidejob. Privileged People Problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:57 AM
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I normally never click on profiles, but perhaps you really are pushing the "feminist\chad-ideology" in your UMC NYC suburb!!!1! (w/e thnx for the chuckles)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:42 AM
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^ A lot of their posts just aim to trigger their redpill fanbois. Which is easy bc those guys ain't geniuses. I really like their snarky sense of humor. I would love to mutually friendzone a FDSer so we could talk shit about LV ppl over brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:26 AM
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This seems like Makeout 101 stuff to me. The old baseball metaphor where you want her to be comfortable enough to let you to the next base. I've always wanted the enthusiastic consent stuff. I would pull back a little because it feeds my ego if she really wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:01 AM
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I guess she was both then. She described herself as being nearly asexual when she wasn't seeing someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:10 AM
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People who grow up in a double-income household where both parents were professionals tend to think they're solidly middle class and thus "average." Good parenting, kid isn't a rich brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:06 AM
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I always laugh at the "chadsexual" thing because I had a girlfriend who pretty much described herself that way. Very "reactive" I guess is another way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:35 AM
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Pretty obvious looking at a porn site that the porn is a loss-leader for the camgirls. coomers gonna coom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:39 PM
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Yeah, that's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:37 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:17 PM
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This is a both genders thing. "he's an asshole, so I fucked him and deleted his number."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:14 PM
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Yep, RaisedByNarcissists is where the narcs hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:58 PM
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I moved when I was in my early 20s and did the same thing. You kinda had to then. One good thing in my 20s was living with a bunch of guys who had their own things going. Which is a negative as far as women are concerned, but it helps to have a gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:24 PM
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That was my experience clubbing too, the action was mixed group pregaming and after parties. Otherwise mostly just numbers that went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:53 PM
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A lot of them seem to be narcs or cluster-b, nobody wants to be around people trying to weaponize their dark triad mental issues. The good thing is their dating strategy makes it easy to next them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:27 PM
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Not that happily if he's still down in the mud about this. Bad look. If he has clout he could whisper this stuff to the right people. He prompted a butthurt social battle. Agree with your original point tho. You see this all the time on reddit too. Everyone uses woke language while strictly enforcing gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:31 AM
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Thx, but don't waste it on the daily shitpost thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:22 AM
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The pathological cheaters get some sadistic glee about sneaking around and fooling someone so thoroughly. Most other cheating is just an exit strategy or (attempted) branch-swing by people who cannot deal with things like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:17 AM
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You're a man and you're older than she is, you should have taken care of her The good players observe the campsite rule -- leave her better than you found her. White Knight attack squad on the ready. This guy is still stuck in the mud about an ex, which is a bad look and prompts a betamale shitstorm. Like you aren't going to litigate your breakup (especially an old breakup) on the internet. If he said something like "She chose another man over me, so I moved on. I'm with Delilah now and she is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:12 AM
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Incels cannot get into statistics. Even the most glorious chad gets rejected by 90% of women, he just finds one more often than the rest of us. I've said this before, but if you aren't that, you need to nichemaxx to improve your odds. If you're just another boring guy in a polo shirt, you're always going to be the second choice to the generic chad guy. Successful guys I know lean heavily into what they look like. OKC had another blog post about how the most polarizing people got the most matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:00 AM
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That's only half of it. You need a gang that you roll with into whatever thing, preferably mixed-gender. Then you come in with some social proof. Just sayin because the lone wolf pickup stuff isn't effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:48 AM
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Well yeah golddiggers don't like the younger competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:38 AM
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"Men should never approach women. I'm a woman and I approach men all the time." (updoots to the left) A shorter friend was dating a really tall blonde, but she had a very specific type. His other gfs were really short.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:07 AM
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"I hate sluts but still want to fuck them" seems like a product of porn addiction. If they are raging on the internet about this, i'm sure people are picking up on it IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:44 PM
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you can’t have both of those at the same time correct? You sorta can. Most women don't seem to have a policy handbook about this and will do it when they feel comfortable enough. These guys are just too autistic to have any understanding of "game" and they are super sex-negative and it shows. So they should be mad at themselves, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:29 PM
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Most women are never going to see these whoremonger guys as 'high status', not even the sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:11 PM
2

This has always been going on. The pandemic just put it where the basement-dweller can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:00 PM
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Talking about how much money you make is unattractive imho, so definitely wait. If you have a decent sounding job, that says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:19 PM
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Yeah, it definitely could be a contributing factor. Corporate HR is generally going to document the "creepy", whether it is this particular thing or that thing. When this comes up on main reddit, a lot of people think they're going to be in the money, when they're probably going to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:00 PM
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The legal standard for sexual harassment is pretty high, so generally corporate policy is a lot less lenient and universities less so. Like asking out a subordinate is not not necessarily illegal but I think most people would think that was harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:52 PM
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cuz i was horny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:45 PM
1

A lot of dudes on the street will talk shit to women... even if they wouldn't do anything. Where a mugger is more likely just to sidle up to you. Definitely are areas which are more openly hostile to women walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:26 PM
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If you are attractive, a little "passive dread" works fine, because that's the just the derp edgelord term for "preselection". If you want to go all dark triad on crazy chicks, that's something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:37 PM
2

Same thing for both SAHMs and SAHDs I think. They get bored out of their skulls and spend too much time on the internet and end-up cheating or having an emotional affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:33 PM
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Those types of women are always on the hunt for a white knight. If you are putting out the vibe that you have strong boundries and aren't going to be capt saveahoe, they generally just avoid you in the first place. So that part 'works', but i dunno about the part where they wage dark triad dread game war for another crumb of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:04 PM
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I watched part of your video last night. I think you probably overestimate how many redpill guys were honest dealers to begin with. The analogy in the other thread is correct. Terps are the broke guys who reject trade school to go to Get Rich Quick seminars instead. The whole thing is constructed to set guys up for failure. The thing is if someone is *already* a misogynistic shit-tier troglodyte, Redpill/Incel/mgtow is the perfect home for them to seethe in. Half these guys seem to come from ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:35 PM
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Yep, young women are in extremely high demand just because they are young. When these guys talk about their "looksmatch", they are probably grossly underestimating the amount of competition there is. Most women will date older by a few years, but not much younger at all, which makes it even tougher for younger guys. Mid 20s or so it seems to start to even out a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:22 PM
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Great women also get taken off the market pretty quickly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:06 PM
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Yeah, there's actually a counter-stereotype of stem guys who are very bro-y and super into outdoor activities and haven't played a computer game in years. I should say the vast majority of programmers I've known are normie guys with a wife or gf. I think a lot of the neckbeard stereotypes are more IT type people, or maybe from high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:33 PM
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The OKC guy also wrote a book covering this and other topics. https://www.amazon.com/Dataclysm-Identity-What-Online-Offline-Selves/dp/0385347391 (You're right and the ratings were not purely on appearance but interaction on the app.)
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 06:34 AM
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The thing I find funny is that the most useful parts of red pill, are also the smart most useful parts of blue pill. Often true! The thing is redpill is sorta a cult, so they have created this circular definition where redpill is "whatever works". Even if it something basic they told you in kindergarten like making friends, RP will spin it as "gaining social status" and call it an advanced technique. Even "be yourself" is applicable sometimes because young guys will often act very phony around g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:02 AM
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The TRP sub itself is very "beta". They have to establish their groupthink conformity and defer to the ECs and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:47 AM
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I have heard a lot of red pillish stuff from female friends. When I was young, you had to figure this shit on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:24 AM
1

My theory is smartphones make it too easy to catch cheaters, so people have to be more upfront about their non-monogamy. Which then gets viewed as "enlightened", where maybe the old-school mentality was more like "let em cheat".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:18 AM
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Social monogamy has a lot of value I think. Being around poly people, it often feels like they are always on the hunt. (If anything DADT and "french marriages" are the old way of doing things, modern couples usually have some some agreement about this stuff.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:32 PM
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Internet Tough Guy, except with her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:03 AM
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Yeah, a small number of women have an older man fetish. Just that those old guys tend to be chads, and it's just a sexual fling that doesn't amount to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:26 PM
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You just hope they don't find someone vulnerable. If they just want to snort cocaine with models on a boat or something, then more power to em. Men are on a timeline too, but these guys aren't kidding about Beta Bux. A lot of women are like "I'm running out of time.. insert husband here".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:16 PM
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There's obviously issues with reading comprehension and brainless agenda posting.. so let me say it again: Most BDSM activity is in private relationships and not under the auspices of the "community". The people who go to those things are there for a reason, usually to hook-up. And yes I do know who I'm talking about. My only positive interactions with the community were in a private group where that kind of thing was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:59 PM
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IMO the ones talking about 18yos are pedo creepcels who feel like they missed out in high school and college and etc. The redpill thing is more like 30 year old women are often husband-hunting, so if you can date women who are a little younger, they are more into just having fun and not being on a timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:36 PM
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I've heard there are some invite-only dating apps... no idea if they actually work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:20 PM
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I dated a runway model like that. Probably not everyone's type. (a lot of dudes get mogged by very tall girls.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:02 PM
0

Yep, I'm completely comfortable not hanging out with sleazes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:45 PM
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I'm fully aware what polyamory is. If there's a bunch of horndog couples there, I'm going to call them swingers no matter what they call themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:21 PM
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Ha. There was also the doctor who used his own sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:00 AM
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They probably self-describe as "poly", but looking to fug random people = swingers in my book, even though not the same scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:49 PM
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My impression of the 'community' is they are a bunch of swingers, so a lot of people probably keep 99% of it in the bedroom. Light maledom/femsub stuff is common enough that you can find each other through normal dating. So maybe the community attracts people who can't find what they are looking for elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:36 PM
2

There's no basement, the guy comes in for the 'procedure'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:59 PM
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More like the wife leaves and then the guy has to find another mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:56 PM
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My friend did it and I don't think he ever got picked. And he's a very tall and handsome guy who is now a corporate lawyer. Women want that ivy league sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:39 PM
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I once read about a 6'4" swede at stanford medical school who had donated sperm like a hundred times or something ridiculous. (relevant to my interests)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:34 PM
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When I was in college, my friend and I were recruited by a sperm bank. It's not really a "bank", they put you in a catalog, and if you get selected then you donate. We went in there, but they implied there wasn't a big demand for "state school sperm". I didn't want to go into a room and jerk-off into a cup for $15 or whatever so I didn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:57 PM
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So I don't think that there's a problem with "ego dystonia" Other than every other PPD post being angst over this stuff. Friends of mine are low sociosexuality and very comfortable in their own skin. But the idea is out there that if you are a chad-tier alfafa manly man, then your life will resemble pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:34 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:40 PM
3

"hurrdurr race X is ugly" - there's your sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:00 PM
1

The small number of men who can pull off the redpill lifestyle of endlessly spinning plates are not hanging out with buttblasted internet virgins. TRP is either a toolbox or it is incel recruiting central.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:57 PM
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Shit, I actually talk about sociosexuality IRL, and I had to google "SOI" -- it means Sociosexual Orientation Inventory. This is plebbit, you should define what you are talking about. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexuality -- "willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship". Anyway, I agree and women hate the madonna/whore baggage that a lot of guys are carrying around, especially the "madonnas". A lot of the game is putting out a non-judgemental easy vibe, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:49 PM
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Yep. It is a very particular type of guy who is "always in the friendzone", but terps talk about it like a universal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:16 PM
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It is still a para-social relationship. Men fall for their whores all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:31 PM
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30 is a bad cutoff for this, so its hard to say exactly. Marketing studies usually use cohorts like 18-34 or 22-36 or something to represent 'young adults'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:25 PM
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One thing I notice reading main reddit is many redditors are not intelligent enough to have any sort of "Theory of Mind", and have zero ability to relate to the world outside their personal experiences. FDS/TRP are just an extension of this where they fume about "men/women do XYZ", with no self-awareness that their own gender does the exact same thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah, its funny they constantly complain about "chads" and then it turns out Chad = "any guy who can get a girlfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:57 PM
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Nope, it taking responsibility that any given women might not be that invested in you. For some reason, you bring the friendzone into this. Those types of white knights get in with some cluster-b crazy and go straight to oneitus hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:35 PM
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I never could figure out exactly what the "rules of fwb" were, and it seemed to me like a lot of men get really uptight about titles like 'girlfriend'. I just figured if you're seeing someone regularly, she's a girlfriend. And there nothing which says you can't have a few girlfriends, or that you are planning to marry them, or anything else, as long as everyone is above board about what is going on. Women like a meal and sex and fun dating activities and giggles, so they are getting something ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:17 PM
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But it's literally what women do. This sub has been talking about the west elm caleb "love-bomb and ghost" strategy. When I was a young guy I was on the receiving end of that from women a few times. A lot of RP stuff just comes down to many young women not being super-serious about relationships, because there's always another man around the corner. So they branch-swing like crazy, get into FWB things, date older men, all kinds of stuff they aren't 'supposed' to do. This isn't any sort of reveng…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:07 PM
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Around that age I was talking to some female friends and they were sorta joking about "all you guys are dating younger women." (note: not like creepy younger) And I said "well who were you dating when you were that age?" And they laughed and said "older guys"... guess who they ended-up with? Despite the weirdocels on PPD, most 40yo men would see a fit childless woman in her early 30s as a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:37 AM
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Calm ones are like "just date older men".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:10 AM
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micro fame. I guess that's one way to put it, just when this comes up everyone thinks status = X million followers on tik-tok or something. You really only need to be known within your circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:03 PM
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Nah, let me put it this way: if we knew each other IRL, I'd introduce to the interesting people I know (who have status and maybe transfers some status to me). I probably wouldn't introduce to the weirdos I know. Cumulatively that adds up and status => opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:08 PM
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I rarely say this here, but don't ask the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:57 PM
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Bunch of celebrity news/social media addicts here who confuse social status for fame (although that certain helps). Social status is what you do for a living, what you do for fun, who your friends are, who do you know, what do you know, events you organize, places you can get into, where you went to school, and so on. I would even say money is not that important, except as to it relates to your status. Plus, the best women aren't on OLD very often, you're probably only going to meet them through…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:53 PM
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Social status != Fame. Social status is what gets you noticed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:45 PM
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Blackpillers are pretty much all socially isolated, so they are easy to discount imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:26 PM
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Status is probably an even bigger deal when you are young, when sports or your garage band at least count for something. Social circles filled with single ppl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:10 PM
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Lots of cheaters get caught because of smartphones. My take is in the old days there were more "french marriages" and look-the-other-way stuff, modern couples are more likely to have some explicitly open deal because sneaking around is too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:00 PM
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You have a very young person take on cheating. In an established LTR/marriage, it takes an enormous amount of lying, gaslighting, getting friends to cover you, and huge bundle of other bullshit. If you look at the adultery sub, imo it's less about the sex and more about living some secret agent lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:51 PM
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Paying sugar babies or escorts for the "girlfriend experience" is the exact same shit buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:41 PM
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Dadbod started in the military where the baseline is very fit. It wasn't supposed to mean Homer Simpson.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:26 PM
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Potential downsides are a lot worse at 16, most 20yos at least can fend for themselves to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:12 PM
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Agreed, but it really depends on who the 20yo guy is. Could be from the same social circles, church, family friend, or something. Could also be some low-life pimp wannabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:59 PM
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Nope, it's either a maybe or no for most women, you can get 99% the way there and still blow it. Game is a corny term, but it encompasses stuff like timing and logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:45 PM
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One I'm thinking of was the 'bad girl' type, so whatever that means in school. Other girls certainly did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:36 PM
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Women see it as a red flag if it comes up too soon. Also, despite whatever they say, a lot of young women aren't really thinking "long term" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:45 AM
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Oh yeah sure he's probably banged a thousand of them, just that Gisiele and etc is all PR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:07 AM
2

Terribly inefficient strategy, reeks of total desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:43 PM
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She now leaves out the part about brothels because she's fishing for bites. edit: idc about her lifestyle, its just the spam.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:37 PM
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Right, one thing I've noticed is women filter pretty hard on socioeconomic status and associative mating. (which is a good thing.) It's one thing for me to say "I don't care if she's a waitress", but then I'm only attracting grad students and women who work at non-profits and the waitress ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:32 PM
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Fine you can read the posts here and self-identify your group any way you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:25 PM
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She's the only one I've blocked and only because her troll gimmick has gotten so stale that she's resorting to spamming. I don't need to read 50 posts about russian prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:20 PM
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Girls rarely hear direct requests for casual sex. I don't know about that, it always sounded like there a ton of very low-effort "u up?" or "just looking for fun" type guys out there. And there's not that many west elm calebs who are seriously playing women. So stated relationship intent is a pretty good filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:11 PM
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Great, have fun encouraging your fellow neckbeard redditcels to cruise the local middle schools, or whatever you're doing. I think we all understand that high-value men can get away with stuff that's not great in the general sense. FYI, most those age gap stories are obviously fake because it's easy to way to troll the cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:53 PM
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The men who do this absolutely don't care, it is entirely the men who cannot whining on these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:12 PM
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Yep, most of this hollywood stuff is 100% publicity. DiCaprio was actually the one getting paid by the modeling agencies to make public 'boyfriend' appearances with these women. At least until it got creepy. Just disregard very low iq people who use celebrities as examples, they will always live in confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:04 PM
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Yep, someone posted a section of The Rules to FDS and they all shreiked about how misogynistic it was, even though it's the basis of their handbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:44 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty obvious which guys on here are living in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:37 PM
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Yeah, and people remember those guys as losers who worked at the Jiffy Lube who impressed teenage girls with their beater Camaro and some ditch weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:34 PM
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Stuff like this is not even really a reaction to "TRP", which all about casual sex. It's a reaction to a certain faction of men on PPD, origin unknown, who are more "blue pill unicorn hunters".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:28 PM
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More that reddit is known to be filled with neckbeard pedophile creepcels, and these "how low can you go" discussions are probably from the "acktsually it's ebrophiliia" crowd who has memorized the age-of-consent in every jurisdiction. Once you get out of the creepzone, nobody cares, and the TRP thing is more like men in their early 30s can date women in their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:38 PM
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The idea that less attractive women are automatically easier is manosphere bullshit. The best tact is to know your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:13 AM
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I went to a therapist for few sessions for no real reason other than a recommendation from some women friends. I thought the guy was a total scammer who was doing cold reading and mirroring techniques and "Time's up. I'll let you know what I think next session" (which he never really did). So I probably could have told him I was healing from past traumas by reading this site PurplePillDebate, and he would have just responded with something affirmative like "healing from traumas is a good goal, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:10 AM
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I was sorta friends with this guy who is a fat stoner, and he was always complaining about the women he's dating, who aren't even fat, they are "too old" or "not very pretty". The thing is I met one of his FWBs years ago and she was a hottie, so he just cannot connect being a fat introvert who is stoned 24 hours a day with his inability to get with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:33 AM
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Probably rare, but I know two women where the father is a social mystery - "probably a guy from a bar". And a third woman who got pregnant and married another woman where nobody thought she was a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:23 AM
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Well I pay the bills and see where the money goes. Strict 50/50 might be stupid, but high cost of living and associative mating has killed the beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:19 PM
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Yep, I had tp learn that if you're actually interested in a woman, you need to slow it down a little bit. Women will do the same thing and put men in the hoe category.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:12 PM
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I think younger women are often looking for more casual fwb stuff or hookups, but once they start looking for Mr Right they usually cut that out. (Yes, it's inconsistent, tough shit.) And I don't see many women at any age going for men they aren't sexually attracted to, that's redpill delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:55 PM
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Difference between passively noticing and actively lusting after them. I got with a friend once and I can say I wasn't sizing her up at all until I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:51 PM
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Even there the man is mainly paying for the needs of his child, not financial incentives for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:41 PM
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Because women like sex and will have it without trying to trade it for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:43 PM
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Because men will act like asexual eunuchs for years, so no surprise they are seen that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:24 PM
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because if you really were a true alpha hvm with options...you wouldn't even BE in an LTR. Where does this idea even come from? This seems like 100% incel projection. Leave the house some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:58 PM
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some were even in relationships with other people That is the key to making it work pretty much, because they are actually friends and aren't considering it until they are both single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:49 PM
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Yep, a lot of women want to "try before they buy" too. The thing is this whole sex vs commitment calculus redpillers are constantly performing is very "beta" according to their own theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:23 PM
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Sometimes chad wants a girlfriend, or another girlfriend. He's calibrated enough so he put out the right vibes to seem like a catch that women fuck on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:13 PM
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Nah, back when the redpill was about "game", and not just being an angry permavirgin, there were certain known techniques which greatly improved your odds to fuck on the first date. If the hottest Chad in the world comes off as a reserved judgemental beta type guy, women will still put him on the boyfriend track. After some point this is 100% on the man's behavior and not how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:52 PM
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These are the omega neckbeard guys who creepy-orbited some girl in high-school and are eternally mad it didn't work out like in their animes. They then spend the rest of their lives jerking-off to porn and cuckold revenge fantasies about their crush being "pumped-n-dumped". They are not even the normie kinda boring AFC betas that they pretend to be. Because redpill prescriptions actually work for that type. This whole thing about some older women eventually taking pity on their neckbeard ass is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:41 AM
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Yep, and from what I've seen there are actually a lot of guys out there playing machiavellian money game with the gold-diggers they attact. I've read your story, and it's often not the case that the guy "betaed out", that was his whole game to begin with.. Also this is a huge FDS blind-spot: "generous" men with $$$$ often throw it around to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:43 AM
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IRL I've heard about this for a long time now. A lot of men dating sites are super low-effort "spray-n-pray" and just want the woman to come over or they ask for nudes or some shit. Apparently they are fine with a low success rate with this shit. I always thought they would get laid a lot more if they went out for drinks and ran some game for a bit. So yeah women are totally wise, but some just want an ONS anyway. ("Fuckboy" started as very negative term for gay bottoms in jail. Women use to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:32 AM
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Glad at least one guy here gets it. When this came up before, all the red flairs were in complete disbelief.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:15 PM
2

Back when these guys talked about "game", I always thought a big part of it was just seeming really non-judgemental and easy. TRP men just assume all men are really easy, while loudly announcing all their weird hangups around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:46 PM
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IMO this has less to do with how hot or chad he is and more that his game sucks and he's putting out heavy beta boyfriend vibes. There's a middle ground here where you seem like a decent dude, but you're also non-judgemental and DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:27 PM
3

damn I'm sure all red pill men are cowering now that the real alpha dawg is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:52 PM
8

oh shit, you guys are destroying civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:36 PM
2

Seems like the kind of guy who has a feminist crisis and starts talking about "toxic patriarchy" and "ethical non-monogamy" to keep his plates spinning in the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:18 AM
1

Gotcha, I drove through there like 15 years ago. Hope all is well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:04 AM
1

Have fun in Vallejo then!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:48 AM
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Living in norcal, I'm curious where the actual worst is. Somewhere around the Oakland Coliseum?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:30 AM
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That's just smart because she will eventually use reddit or tumblr to diagnose you with a severe personality disorder. One reason I find FDS to be humorous is they're like "men tell on themselves" while unironically telling on their selves in like every other post. Like if you have dated multiple men with NPD, what does that say about you??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:28 AM
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Sucks man, but totally understandable and the right thing to happen. If she sacrificed her future for your money, she would put you on the betabux plan until she had your balls in a jar. This is the good kind of breakup where you both can walk away with your heads high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:23 AM
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Most of the women I dated were fitter than me acktshully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:55 PM
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subject: high-n women = "nobody cares, no man has ever asked, ppd men are so insecure." subject: high-n men = "eww yuk nobody wants a filthy manhoe" obviously these are different ppl, but they never argue with each other because "team woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:50 PM
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Some tiktok voodoo put these women in each other's feeds - normally they don't find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:23 PM
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You have to find them when they are young and moving around or busy with schooling or have some other reason for not looking for a "real boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:53 PM
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No reddit hurts my head. Mostly its just fashion related, plus men will stare at the tits of an 11 year old wearing a turtleneck sweater so at some point women just have to own it to live in their own skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:01 PM
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Redpills claim to be all about screening and vetting, but their take on the ideal woman is usually just some brainlet "she should be nice and horny" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:59 PM
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I skimmed it and answers are okay, so I don't know what you're expecting. Women don't want chad to talk to their tits either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:34 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZ2U0boOucY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:41 AM
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It is only a problem when they start sexually harassing innocent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:37 AM
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Trolls love including an age gap in their fictional stories because it never fails to get redditors incensed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:17 PM
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Yeah, obvious gimmick is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:27 PM
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Yeah, part of it women have to game themselves and the whole getting dressed-up and having a man woo them gets them in the mood, while their book club does not. But you can infer stuff based on their background and start doing FDS stuff like snoop around their place looking for books or cooking materials or so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:03 PM
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It's because incls "chadfish" with male model photos and get a bunch of low-tier women responding. And they are so porn-brained they imagine male model would actually bother with these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:59 PM
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Not necessarily having it though. Malebrain looks at social media, dance clubs, frat parties, etc and assumes there is a meat market. But very often it is just look-but-don't-touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:24 PM
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Oh sure, there's tons of basic bitches who eat nothing but microwave dinners too. I'm saying that talking about cooking, or gardening, or their book club or etc doesn't really work in a early dating context, so often you need to be around a woman for a bit before you even see this side of them. Even if a woman has some depth to her, she still has to "play the game".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:04 PM
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One thing is education and having to move to find work discourage young people from playing the "long game". That's why very few people marry their high school sweetheart. I've been in FWBish things where the woman was busy with her life and not looking for a 'real boyfriend'. And yeah that means they gravitate to attractive men who are good in the sack. But women start playing the long game when they are ready, which for most women is mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:57 PM
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Let me make the counter argument, because I've talked about this with women and men. Plenty of women are intelligent, great conversationalists, know how to cook, have feminine hobbies and etc. None of that "sells" to men. (Or if it does, it's to the totally wrong type of man.) So they actually downplay this stuff in initial stages of meeting someone. Because of the way men think, really the only thing women have to negotiate with is charm and sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:58 PM
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Bottom line is TRP latched onto a largely discredited/unproven hypothesis of women having a "duel mating strategy", aka "alpha fucks, beta bucks". While observationally you can see that sometimes, studies show that most women have a singular mating stategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:20 AM
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Yeah, I got sucked back in last purge, but previously way too much PajeetPillDebate stuff. I can conspiracy that PPD is a honeypot because incel presence post-purge seems suspiciously low. There hasn't been an n-count thread in weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:12 AM
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The theory is more that the FBI has been directly operating 4chan for 15 years. Fortunately here on reddit, where the #1 all-time redditor is Ghislane Maxwell, everything here is fine. Meanwhile PPD has 90K subs, the whisper is over 6 digits and the sub will turn into russian bot city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:59 AM
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Yeah, intentional goofposting. The study in question was TRP's proof of "dual mating strategy". They then got mad when the final study instead demonstrated that women prefer masculine men at all phases of their cycle. Which you think they would agree with...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:48 AM
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Pickup/redpill techniques work if you're actually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:40 AM
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Academia won't produce some redpill study that women all simp for chad, so clearly it is being censored by someone maybe nefarious commie libtards. And they did retract the study about menstrual cycles, because it didn't reproduce, but conspiratorially because it was on the TRP sidebar. (Actually the final results were even more red-pilled than the original.) Just recently PPD had a study that women married to attractive men felt greater pressure to diet and exercise! Blue pill confirmed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:09 AM
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The herd naturally wanders in, but they are looking for the green stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:05 AM
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True, and I know some guys who had a very short unstable marriage, and that's def a red flag on the women. However if you are looking for people who can maintain a long-term relationship versus those who can't, the divorced people start looking better past your mid-30s or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:59 AM
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Yeah, that's the datingover30 thing where you get a lot of people who are "dented cans" with obvious flaws to them. I've heard it gets better in your 40s because divorced people are coming back on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:09 PM
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I can say that I never thought much about male attractiveness at all until I intentionally started looking for these supposedly mismatched couples. I would make social judgements like chad wearing a golf shirt = boring dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:44 PM
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Headlight, and true, but she figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:40 PM
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In high school my girlfriend wore those shorts as normal summer attire, she thought they were sporty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:38 PM
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My opinion is, I think there's A LOT more female "7s and 8s" than there are men who fit into those categories. Especially true among younger people. I didn't really get it when I was young, but men place a huge value on youth. So say an "average" college girl has a lot of men desiring her and therefore SMV. A lot of guys don't seen to get she's not their looks-match. By age 30 or so enough people have gotten fat it evens out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:53 PM
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A big part of having standards/boundaries/etc comes from knowing your 'value'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:49 PM
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Probably a better example: There was a story from a woman where they got a flat tire. Her boyfriend freaked out and called his mom. She ended-up changing the tire and dumping the bf. IMO a big part of the whole "soiboi" thing is lack of male competency in younger generations. (e.g on most cars replacing the light is no more difficult than buying the bulb and screwing it in.) edit: just remembered that a friend offered me dinner to change her car bulb. we ended up having sex and she changed the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:34 PM
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No real disagreement, because it's easier for an attractive man to act congruently with what women perceive to be attractive man behavior, e.g. appropriately flirting, or not putting up with certain relationship bullshit, etc. However it is not as simple as "chad doesn't get shit tested", he does, he just passes easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:30 PM
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My friends and I used see attractive women with what we thought were dorky uncool guys. Then I took enough of a blackpill to understand what women see in men, and I realized we were too straight to get it. We were just angsting about Stacy dating some Chad who wouldn't have any clout in our particular social circles. One I started looking at other men like women look at men, I see very few look-mismatched couples. Hot women are with hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:30 AM
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That is very generally true, but you should read up on shit-tests. Women's intuition is a lot finer on this than the turdpill take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:10 AM
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I agree there is no real "lie", just young inexperienced people with poor models. The thing is there is no real actionable advice for men outside of toxic politically-incorrect corners of the internet. Like ye olde "Women go for jerks" is still very blue-pilled because it's based on an inaccurate model of what a "jerk" is and what women really go for. (Totally agree with the rest of what you said there.) My point was more that redpill is really about retail mass-market appeal. A lot of women, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:23 AM
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FDS wants high-effort social circle dating from low-effort internet dating. Like if I meet someone in the real world who seems great, and we're already jibing, an effort date is how you land them. On the other hand, I got catfished once, but fortunately it was just coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:09 AM
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Old guy take: when I see a hot women around my age 40ish, it's because I can imagine she was a hot 20yo and has still got it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:04 AM
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It is actually little more complex than that. Women expect men who look like "chads" to behave like "chads", at least initially. So men who maybe don't naturally have that have that sort of personality learn how to emulate it through "game" or "beating shit tests" and etc until they get to know each other. PPD always brings up Henry Cavill. But if he wasn't famous and walked into a bar and started sperging to girls about his D&D game and his PC builds, he would get BTFO'd by most women in his le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:42 AM
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I did, I said the resentful stuff obviously inhibits success, while you are claiming there is some other form of misogyny which makes men more successful. If it is "all the same" in your mind, then you are not interested in the exploring the why factor. Posted under automod because I'm not trying to CMV about the just-world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:15 PM
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Circular argument. If you are making some determination "who gets laid" there is a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:42 PM
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Used to be involved in pickup, so this is internet fun for me only. As soon as I walk out the door, I'm not spending a second thinking about true Red Pill CEOs attending AlphaCon. So my interaction is limited to debating on PurplePillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:26 PM
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The player/user mentality is very different than the stuff which is routinely posted on this sub IMO. (Or at least they don't spend the time theorizing about it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:04 PM
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Depends on the type of misogyny probably. The resentful rejected incel stuff tends to show through.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:40 PM
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Yep game + self-improvement is the core. I blame Rollo for creating some MGTOWcel synthesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:16 PM
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I've argued with redpills on this sub which lack any sense of nuance. They might be right on in the general sense, but if a particular woman does something which doesn't follow their simplistic model, they crash and dump core. So absolutely there should be nuance, but when you start with "all women are like..." it doesn't lead to that sort of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:15 PM
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Sidebar, which I guess isn't on mobile. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/wiki/terms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:12 PM
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marriedredpill I came to the conclusion that is sort of the point of that sub. MRP is really "about to get divorced pill", and these guys are really getting in shape and getting back out there so they can start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:23 PM
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RP dudes should realize the redpill brand is pretty shit at this point. Half of self-identified redpillers do seem to be extremely sex-negative tradcons. This is so far away from the pickup/plate-spinning stuff it started with. And yes tradcon stuff was all over TRP in the past, so it's hard to say it's not redpill(tm). Although I suspect these guys are really wanking it to the RedPillWoman sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:15 PM
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In my experience women are pretty wise to that kinda stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:51 PM
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Shit, that's awful. I completely understand the logic about controlling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:40 PM
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Sometimes this happens because you were both in relationships with other people and you mutually friend-zoned each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:34 PM
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There's the fantasy sales pitch like "are you pathetic enough to be my slave?", and then there's the reality complaint that most men who pay for sex work are really pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:50 AM
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Yeah, that's an interesting point. I agree that OF is tied into instagram and tinder and porn and the reality or implied promise of easy sex out there. I saw a woman on another sub say something similar -- so many women have had their nudes leaked or spread around the school, it makes sense that they try to take control and profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:16 AM
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Yeah, I don't get that. The thing is if a woman is like a foot shorter than you can't even kiss her standing up or talk to her in a loud bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:49 PM
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A friend told me he met his girlfriend online and she owned her own place where she lived with 6 cats. I was imagining the simpsons cat lady, but she's an attractive blonde who seems pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:30 PM
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It's all over reddit, and these guys live on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:25 PM
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OnlyLTRs You know, I've met a number of women who seem perfectly content in a long-distance relationship where they text all the time but rarely see each other. There might really be a market for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah, in the bdsm world choking is seen as a sorta advanced technique. I recall some guy on TRP was talking about choking random tinder girls and I was like oh shit bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:54 PM
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Well who knows, but I've been around bdsm spaces and seen the dominatrix act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:35 PM
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Hustling = the para social thing. The real money is going to be from whales/big-spenders, that's just how this stuff works. The retail price of nudes is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:32 PM
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Good points, but i suspect the real money is usually going to involve hustling men. edit to add: I suspect a lot of this OF stuff is pretty passive, like "men always ask for my nudes, so now they can buy them".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah, you see this even with RP guys where they still have "the pussy on the pedestal". These aren't Nice Girls either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:36 PM
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My take is being tall really gives you pull with tall women. The average woman can't tell the difference, but the 5'11' leggy model types sure can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:34 PM
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One old friend is like 6'2" and now runs a hedge fund. Dude always had a piss bottle in his car.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:25 PM
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The thing is there are dudes in their thirties still running "niceguy game", and it is actually effective at flying under women's radars and getting them into the friendzone where they can start talking shit. At some point this is obviously intentional manipulation and not just naive teenagers being doofuses. Also starslatecodex and etc should be too smart for this, like you're a 25yo PhD student in the real world, and you still think you are being tormented by dumb feminist blogs or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:03 PM
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I have some friends who were strippers way back when. It is not the glamorous thing where men just throw money at their tits. They really have to hustle the guys, and just the nature of it puts them in contact with the most low-life types of men. I wouldn't say soul-crushing, but they did burn out on it pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:45 PM
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pro domme These women sell humiliation as a service, part of the act is complaining none of the guys are good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:15 PM
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Yep, I've been around 'nerd culture' enough to know there are really a bunch of greasy chubby slobs who need to take more showers. So when reddit women say this stuff, they are thinking of guys in the real world. Also men seem to think any woman on reddit is a hottie who posts on GoneWild. In reality these women know they don't have a lot of looks leverage, so they have a very different attitude from the normal cute girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah, type is probably one of the biggest factors. The weird thing is RPs seem ignorant that bodybuilder/gym guy is a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:16 PM
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Yay, but I confirmed "bachelor pad theory" is legit, like everything is clean and smells nice, and you can be just as loud as you want. The competition probably has roommates and a mattress on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:40 AM
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Well sure because he pays them to stand around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:25 AM
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Assuming everything else is relatively equal, sure. Young women date for fun, they want to hear about and participate in the fun stuff in your life. I always got the feeling it was more like "Job? Has one [X]", other than that it was a pussy-dryer. Plus realistically they are going to have to fuck you for years before they really get at your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:21 AM
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Obviously they are inter related because your job has some status, but the starving artists are getting laid more than the boring engineer types. a lot of other stuff is hard to do if you're broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:42 AM
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Status > Money, especially when you are young it is more what you are doing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:27 AM
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There is a knock-down effect on the dating market, but it's not because Chad is fucking 4s as everyone here assumes, it's more like these guys temporarily hold down a few of the more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:45 PM
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Danny DeVito was known as a lady's man when he was young, if anything he's the counter example about men with massive levels of charisma. We all get what you mean tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:56 PM
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Yeah, women will triangulate men to see if they'll get serious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:41 PM
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People love hoes, they just don't want to marry em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:35 PM
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It's a redpill power fantasy that AlphaMales(tm) spend their whole lives rotating plates while NeverCommitting(tm), usually based on some phony whore-mongerer like Dan Blitzern. In reality, men do this for a little while until they find someone they like and settle down. Now if you want to be more realistic, there are married guys who have some understanding with their wives that they can get some action on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:25 PM
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lol reminds me that in my 'hoe phase' I got tired of always washing the sheets. (Plus thongs tended to get 'lost' somewhere in there.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:59 PM
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You're not wrong, but the redpill take on divorce is very "boomer" and has a lot of assumptions built-in. Having witnessed more than a few what often happens is they end up selling the house and arguing over who makes the car payments. Both parties take the L because it's cheaper to live together than alone. IMO the "rape" aspect is more the process than the results, divorce lawyers can make people's lives hell if they let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:31 PM
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Yeah, I think the odds on OLD are so poor that men end up lowering their standards and they still get rejected by 4/10s and single moms and etc. So they start coming up with conspiracy theories about Chad hogging all the women, and women being ruthlessly looks-oriented and etc. Social circles are the best way to meet quality people, and you get the feeling a lot of people on reddit just don't have good ones. And apparently I'm a few points hotter IRL than on a dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:25 PM
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The legit worry is the university justice approach where blind accusations are taken seriously, and the law and due process never get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:21 PM
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First, I doubt you have any idea how all your female friends operate on dating apps. I have called-out (former) friends, but this shit only comes up if you know someone pretty well. Men have friendships based around mutual interests and we generally don't spend a lot of time talking about dating with each other. You are supposed to "just get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:57 PM
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Here's the thing: Men generally keep their weird bullshit with women on the way down-low around their male friends. I think they get that it's "low status".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:42 PM
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They are almost always guys who were successful when they were younger and 'get it'. The "I get older, they stay the same age" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:41 PM
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fyi, this conservative institute n-count study gets posted here to the point where everyone is sick of it. These guys are just not smart enough to understand cause versus effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah, its interesting that when you meet women through social circles, they will "check references", but they're also willing to go out with random dudes who have a decent instagram. There's no incentive for people on OLD to treat each other well, and I suspect a lot of them would have failed the social filter in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:31 PM
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OnlyFans. How many do you know and how many of them are forcing you to pay them? I get the feeling they are the type to send "bobs? vegene?" messages to random women and are mad when they have to pay. A lot of redditors seem to be under the impression that girls post on GoneWild etc because they think redditors are cool dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:50 PM
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(I understand it’s a competitive hobby for many but the only people that care about fishing is other men) This sounds common enough it must work with some women, maybe some down-low provider signaling. And women may not care for fishing, but a lot of them love going to the lake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:13 PM
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we can see raging anger and frustration over high n count Chads and Stacey's Good points, and yeah a lot of the supposedly redpilled guys are still very "blue pill" about casual sex and how much of it is really highly sociosexual people who self-select for each other. They used to get this when they'd talk about the "secret society" and etc, but the modern guys seem to have a huge hardon for some sad revenge theory about "pumping-n-dumping".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:59 PM
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FDS -- The sheer amount of men who are complaining about them who are supposedly redpill plate spinners, MGTOWs, or even married is completely bizarre to me. There are actually plenty of men who seem to enjoy providing free dinners, nobody said you have to be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:11 PM
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Someone here said that 1/3 of the men on Tinder are actually married lol. I think TRP is right about casual stuff at least: women will seek monogamous flings/FWBs, men will seek a "rotation". So women meet someone and delete their profile, men keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:57 PM
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My take is a lot of stuff on here is post-orgasm depression. These guys are spending all day jerking it to blonde stacy pornstars, simping on onlyfans, and hitting up single moms. They then feel self-hatred so they log on to PPD and start rage posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:41 PM
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Pictures like that are interesting: no-makeup on the left is objectively attractive IMHO, if you know what you are looking for. The magazine ad version on the right could be any woman or just adobe photoshop, she is actually covering up her finer features. Maybe teenage boys still masturbate to that kind of stuff, but in reality she'd look like a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:26 PM
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Says the lawyer. My take is jobs/money doesn't matter that much until it does. Hot guy doesn't look so good when he's 30 and living with his parents. (I'm thinking of someone I know.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:19 PM
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Probably a better example is Zuckerburg. If you have a lot of money, it's hard to trust people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:13 PM
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They eventually get a gf/wife like most mentally normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:49 PM
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Honestly old TRP was even worse as it was full of paleocon incel mgtow bullshit that had nothing to do with "sexual strategy". They also would ban people who were too moderate. They were actually de-incelifying it when reddit whomped them. IMO it actually does work for guys who are actually "average", e.g. 5'9" guy who is kinda chubby and poorly dressed. The whole knock-pussy-off-the-pedestal thing is some particular niceguy remedy that a lot of normies don't need tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:02 PM
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Speed dating sucks and nobody actually meets that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:30 PM
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Obviously not the same 1% for every women, not even close, they all have types. And another post without even a high school understanding of statistics. Even some decidedly below average dudes are hot to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:29 PM
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Because the edgelordy tone is apparently indefensible and probably drives away most of the AFC normies it's supposed to help. So modern RP becomes a bunch of foreign sex-negative incels who twist every RP theory into some pathetic revenge fantasy. And that's the BS part people disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:57 PM
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This thread is full of stuff only indirectly related to "behaviour that arouses women".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:20 PM
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A lot of RP concepts are intentionally framed in a super edgelord fashion to appeal to teenage virgins and bluepillers who need to 'wake up'. A lot of this stuff comes off as "misogynist", and the TRP founder said that was the actual intent. But in all my time reading PurplePillDebate, RPs absolutely refuse to defend the edgelord stuff in a debate format, and instead just defined it down to something reasonable. For example, "12 Stage Dread Game" becomes "soft dread" which is really just "presel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:03 PM
4

They want some CertifiedIncel(tm) status because it plays into dismorphia and humiliation fetish and gives them the excuse to never leave the cellar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:35 PM
6

Generally agree, but no two guys in the man0sphere define this in the same way. It's not hard to find a ton of stuff about "alpha" which is pure male projection about stuff MEN think is cool or sexy or masculine, without any regard to what women might think. So TRP was full of posts like "I did this thing, am I alpha now???" So it is not all that useful from an analysis standpoint. SMV/RMV generally works better if you're talking about something specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:12 PM
4

Having made homemade porn, if it looks like "porn" it is still being acted and directed even if the couple is real. Just putting a camera on the bedstand is going to be too boring for the typical coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:37 PM
4

The only people who are really into this alpha/beta thing are redpillers and cuckolds. Probably not a complete coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:34 PM
2

No thanks, above 6'5 you can't fit through doorways and shop at normal stores and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:22 PM
1

Well articulated. One strange thing about reddit is on one hand ppl claim to have all these mental issues which inhibit normal their social functioning, but on the other hand people take this super privileged position that everyone they know is smart/sane/successful and "not like that". It's like the one side is completely invisible to the other. And maybe part of this is due to online dating, where you are meeting people who maybe wouldn't pass through the normal social filters, and nobody has …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:06 PM
3

Old quote: “Luck Is What Happens When Preparation Meets Opportunity". So yes luck is an absolute factor, but at the same time, you make your own luck to a certain degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:20 PM
8

Yeah a big part of that is the environment, women are dressed up and feel good, it's loud and lots of energy, and the men are flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:55 PM
2

Back when PPD was more serious, mod TheGreasyPole did the same analysis with similar conclusions about 40somethings. But it's just a raw count of OLD profiles/matches. Quite possible a lot of men have dropped-out at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:35 PM
5

The way he describes himself on reddit is boring (to young women).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:31 AM
4

No diss, I am this demographic. Young women aren't coming for boring engineers, so the only advantage $$$ has is enabling your lifestyle/social status in stuff they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:05 AM
7

This guy is the real life version of that redpill comic which always gets posted during purge. The thing is women in their 20s don't care about your 6 figures or roth ira, they want to part of whatever you are doing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:43 AM
5

Just in terms of the raw numbers, men have more options as they get older and women start looking at broader age ranges. That does not mean 40-somethings "peak" and get 22yo gfs, it means there's a lot of women in their 30s-40s they could date. (but most are probably divorced with kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:23 AM
2

Most younger women don't care about money at all. They care about status, which is sorta interrelated. But the starving artist type guys do well into their 30s. obligatory disclaimer gimpgirl is nutz
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:59 AM
6

At some point I realized pretty much every girlfriend had probably fibbed to me about her weight, even the ones who were really fit. So a man might say “110-120lbs.” because that's what his ex told him. Also having picked up a few women, it's hard to judge their weight by looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:37 PM
5

What I recall is how often he described attacking people by throwing liquid at them or shooting with a super soaker loaded with orange juice, or trying to push them off a balcony, etc, yet he still insisted he was a gentleman/nice guy. And that he tried to get his mom to read puahate (which was a troll forum full of completely offensive content).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:39 PM
2

I think the way it goes for most people is they rackup the numbers in their late teens/early twenties and then settle down into monogamous relationships. The ppl who are still sleeping around generally make it a lifestyle and become poly or a swinger or etc. Posters here talking about n-counts of 40 year olds is nuts ... nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:09 PM
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Honestly I'm more impressed with a guy with a low N who consistently pulls attractive women. One of the most handsome guys I know is not promiscuous at all because he's always had an attractive gf (and now wife). Also I used to hang around pickup forums, and those guys were pulling some real cave trolls. These are the dudes who brag about their N=100.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:57 PM
3

Agreed, most women are picky about their "type", so they might not be attracted to a handsome guy of the wrong type. And they don't rate other women in the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:42 PM
5

Most actors are bartenders or waiters until they become famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:39 PM
3

Yep, also by age say 30, nobody really cares how many people you hooked-up with 10 years ago in college. You are going to look for someone who someone who has a history of stable relationships, no cheating, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:33 PM
1

High value woman -- mentally solid with no personality disorders, can discuss issues like an adult without fighting and throwing a fit, mello person, smart in the street-wise sense, compatible sexual kinks and drive, dat w/h ratio, pretty and smells really good even when sweaty, relationship-oriented and looking for The One, fitness-oriented lifestyle, smart and on a good career track, light-hearted and fun, likes to play the post-modern feminine role in a relationship, cooks for herself and liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:38 AM
2

He would view all of this as digital consumer nonsense not worth engaging in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:19 AM
6

Pretty rare in my world. Once I took the blackpill and homoed myself up on male looks, it is really rare to see a SMV mismatched couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:16 AM
1

Hard to blame Lilith for this, most of these guys cannot consistently define what they mean by 80% of "the sex", and many assume it means 80% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:37 PM
2

Yep. I've seen friends of mine do this many times. Dude is totally hard-up, but as soon as woman is interested in him, he turns into player supreme who can't get tied-down because he has to explore his options. All that red pill plate stuff is very "player 101", and really depends on some dumb/naive chick. Any guy who can get a date could run this stuff, maybe not consistently successfully, but that doesn't men guys won't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:20 PM
1

Birth control most likely to fail in a relationship with regular sex. The thing about promiscuity is people might not even be getting laid that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:19 PM
2

She's probably the most popular poster here, tons of replies and updoots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:38 PM
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The thing about the FWB/STR/"spinning plates" thing is the man is not doing anything to hoard the women or mate-guard them or provision in the long-term. The women are free to come and go, and they often do, as an LTR is a better deal for them. So you are trying to make a sociological argument based on something which is like "back in college" for the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:21 PM
3

Not just inept, he was socially completely malfunctional. People who went to school with him said he never spoke unless he was screaming and freaking out about stuff. The videos he made were the only time they saw him acting somewhat normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:49 PM
1

I think the simpler answer is a lot of women don't take OLD that seriously, they are using it to try to shoot the moon or win the dating lottery. They aren't spending more than a couple seconds evaluating your profile, so it's not really anything even personal. In real life, they can "enter your frame" and see what you're like audibly and in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:40 PM
2

Meh, be careful. My ex gf is 5'10. She'd go out with "6'0" guys and they would be shorter than her. She didn't even care that much about height, but they were instantly DQ'd for being frauds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:32 PM
0

I prolly should reveal my angles before I flee again from PPD. When euro girls show up here, I think they are secretly looking for "american cowboys". But then it's fucking San Francisco and all the cowboys are fucking gay. Enter my urban midwestern masculinity which is maybe close enough. So I think they like cowboy cock and cowboy cock is cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:25 AM
0

Prob the truth, but women like to feed your ego like umm umm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:06 AM
1

it comes from years of being told by media, mothers, and female friends or acquaintances that, this was the way to court them. And this comes from a mentally-dull sheep-like mentality of doing whatever the authority figures tell you. And in a forced conformist environment like school that is nothing but a pussy-dryer. Plus you can easily observe the boys who are popular among the girls and try to emulate what ever they got and you do not. To completely ignore the reality swirling you around you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:04 AM
2

Always thought there is a fantasy schlick aspect like alpha male businessmen and rappers are going apeshit and making it rain on you. And then the cold reality where you really have to hustle and simp some very low tier losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:40 AM
1

I completely agree, incels really need some deep self examination and applied life wisdom, but what they actually do is seeth about stacy at starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:27 AM
2

How many women describe themselves as single that are still getting plenty of action on the side? This survey has a very broad age range. Tons of 30+ women would describe themselves as single, while having an old bf/fwb bootie call guy on speed dial. Having been there it's not like a lot of action, maybe 2-3 times a month, and everyone involved understands what the deal is and is cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:24 AM
0

The other loophole: Euro exchange girls liked it cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:14 AM
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Nah, 90% of them are Eliot Rodger-style mentalcels who have never approached once and are angry about stacies. They only thing they have been explicitly rejected for is their NEETbux application.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:08 AM
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Yup gotten that several times here, and I'm actually a pretty reddish shade of purple. Most redpillers are such pinheads they can't imagine someone would disagree with a small percentage of their ideology. Then they try to disqualify you and say you're not "really red pill", and it's like yes I am not a curry cel or whatever that means now, pls don't include me in your club. The other thing was I was talking about low-life street people catcalling, and some guy accused me of being on "Team Woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:03 AM
3

Yeah for like 15 years, they cohabitated for long time before getting married. I've never gotten this offer (unless they were married to someone else...)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:10 PM
3

One of my friends is married to his highschool gf. They broke up because of college locations, but then found each other in the same city like 7 years later and got back together. I guess I would consider it but most women won't give you a 2nd chance i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:01 PM
1

haha, that's good. I was thinking of an old gf, but she was a grad student not a librarian, total undercover stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 PM
3

Yeah, I agree men know that attractive women are widely desired by default. While women will then still applying social filters. Like guys on here talk about "autistic Chad with no game", and IMO it really doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
1

I haven't known attractive men to be all that misogynistic beyond "bitches aint shit" type tough talk. Most of them are popular with women and seem to get along great with them. There seems to be a lot of projection on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:06 PM
2

I enjoyed the teenage girl who got a bunch of tardcels buttblasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:55 PM
2

This kind of shit is why "Be Yourself" is actually good advice. Loads of young guys putting on stupid acts that women see right thorough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:15 PM
3

You are confusing social media/reddit affirmations with the real world. Leave the house touch grass etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:13 PM
5

On reddit I just assume this shit is cuckold fantasy wank material. Never anything like in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:06 PM
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A lot of these incels are just abusers with no one to abuse. That's actually the case. A lot of them seem really jealous that Chad "gets away with" abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:10 PM
2

yes like every other woman here, she is an atlas sock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:57 PM
3

Nah, men love the status of having an attractive woman on their arm b/c it make other men jelly. Men just don't want to fight off a bunch of manhoes to get her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:52 PM
3

Yeah, its funny when these guys talk about young women, when how much of that is skinny fat + disordered eating + drugs? They also seem completely ignorant that after some point the "hot chicks" are also exercising quite a bit. (In some sense its a compatible lifestyle and not just the hotttt.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah it's funny beause the typical "high beta" type guy is objectively superior to 90% of red pill incels. Oh but no he's a cuck and not the guy who couldn't lose his virginity on the normal schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:22 PM
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Men who are still attractive in their 30s can get attention from women in their 20s. Right this is more of a function of "still got it". (You can increase your status but your looks are probably in decline.) If you "never had it", there is no redpill glowup in your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:13 PM
2

Yeah, its weird to me because I have only ever cared what attractive women think. They have high standards because they can and they usually are realistic. Like why the fuck would anyone care about old fat ugly people and watch red pill videos about them??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:10 PM
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I'll just say that by age 30 the wheat and shaff start separating, and it's obvious who has active lifestyles and good diets and habits. The ppl who aren't taking care of themselves hit the wall quickly, others keep looking good into their old age. Also this sub harps on 'associative mating', and IMO its really common for ppl in their 20s and early 30s to mix and date. Its probably a bigger deal on OLD where you can set age filters. on average This sub obsesses over 80/20 because average ain't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:54 PM
2

The problem with this post is "chad" is also learning new languages and going to cooking class and whatever other hobby stuff when he isn't partying and doing coke. So you can try those thing but you might get mogged there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:36 PM
1

Yeah, the thing is when someone starts cheating they often turn down the arguments and turn up the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:29 PM
1

IMO the crossover point is around 24/25, prior to that most women are dating just for fun and not seriously looking for mr right. Only by age 30 do they start getting desperate for someone to have a wedding party with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:27 PM
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Because they have no understanding of either female attraction or statistics. It only takes one. Also they don't get that dating site are 5:1 men:women and time i a limited resource, so obviously 80:20 is the consequence of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:24 PM
2

Best thing posted this purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:11 PM
5

Men want the shy librarian type who takes off her glasses and put on some lipstick and a dress and turns into the voomvoom hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:58 PM
0

Nooo. It is always on this sub, that fake study was retracted, and the genders are about the same here. Enjoy your sloppy feminist lack of rigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:21 AM
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Not at all, they can always slut-shame you and filter you out after they fucked you. Why the fuck would you assume women would be fair about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:10 AM
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Pattern I've noticed. The litmus test in these situations is if she puts the positive review out there, while you keep it totally discreet on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:58 AM
0

Do they ever branchswing to the beta-orbiter? No, never, because he is not her looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:46 AM
41

100% legit. A lot of women have the fantasy of saving an attractive man from a bunch of crazy hoes coming at him. Women are redpilled and know how it really works. You don't even actually need the hoes that much, you just have to be like oh man I'm so glad I finally found a good woman to latch onto.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:42 AM
1

And no I don’t automatically adhere to authority I question it if I feel the need to do so. Obviously not true, you are in a golden cage and there's a lot of things that you really can't say out loud in your environment so you stick to ideology and self-censor. I know a lot of academicians so I can sense the line where I can say something but they cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:33 AM
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Nah, beta orbiters are almost always swinging around a girl who is out of their league. Also some very attractive women don't play up their looks on a day-to-day basis, and men think they are more approachable or not 'stuck up', but then are shocked to find she's with a chad-tier guy. Guys on here say dumb shit like "makeup adds 2 points". Obviously there is the stinky neckbeard who is like "4/10 elbows too pointy". But also a lot of guys in the middle somewhere who seem bad at assessing themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:22 AM
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I mean the guy on the left still has a top 10% physique, at some point it's completely diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:17 AM
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Yep, the "hot girl in glasses" thing fools the hell out of a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:03 AM
2

Trying to be manipulative doesn't mean you will be successful at it. The nice guy game is acting like a Total Eunuch so they often fly under women's radars, even if it's obvious to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:57 AM
1

They never leave their step-dad's basement so they have no idea how strip clubs work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:37 AM
2

They are mentalcels. (just like most male incels)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:54 PM
3

half of em sound like they didn't read any book in their entire life Yeah when they write some 8000 word essay on feminism without obviously cracking open a book about it, it is complete cringe. I don't why PPD assumes RPs are "nerds", the are probably more of the personal trainer type.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:52 PM
1

IMO confidence is not something you necessarily have in the abstract, but is based on knowledge about your abilities and particular circumstances. Like if there's a project at work where I understand the inputs, I can be confident in completing it. Or if a woman is showing me indicators of interest, and she's in my 'league,' I can be confident in making a move on her. Now maybe there is a thing where you can fake until you make it. Like you're acting like a guy who takes women home from bars, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:49 PM
3

When I was 14, some kid told me that kissing girls is gay. I imagine he ended up on some redpill incel forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:26 PM
1

Yeah, a lot of the early RP guys were polyamorous, which is probably a more respectable position than scummy plate-spinning. Don't know if he's an actual cuckold fetishist or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:07 PM
3

reddit says that because they are servers, not because they have any particular insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:01 PM
8

It's actually weird listening to the backwards rationalization. "he said on the first date he doesn't like dogs, I should have known that was a red flag"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:57 PM
1

"Sperm competition".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:34 PM
2

Yeah, I think everyone would do better if they were realistic about their "league". Like the "hot girl in glasses" actually fools the fuck out of a lot of men, and they are shocked to learn she's actually a stacy who is dating chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:32 PM
0

Keep in mind 1/3rd of marriages started as an FWB arrangement. I know a bunch of people who hooked-up at a college party or whatever and ended up married. Women just need to filter for guys looking for something serious -- TRP vastly overestimates the number of real players out there. So this is bad female strategy in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:21 PM
2

"Chad" has always existed, you just couldn't impersonate him or stalk him on social media like a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:03 PM
3

Honestly this is a real thing. Once I got out of college, there was period 22-24ish when a lot of the girls I knew were dating some 29ish guy with a nice car. However those guys were "marrigable" at least in theory. They certainly were not dating 40+ guys unless it was some sugar baby thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:54 PM
1

Same with FDS. Honestly why would any young person listen to some old bitter divorcecel. Model yourself on the successful people you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:51 PM
0

Yeah, he was the gender-bender type that most men would assume was gay, even while was pulling girls underneath them. But maybe he was actually 5-3, who knows. I've known a number of short guy who do fine for the usual reasons. Just stay off OLD and work your social environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:45 PM
1

I dunno, the great thing about being 23 is there's 23yo girls everywhere, have fun with granny i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:41 PM
1

I was doing that too, so it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:38 PM
2

So I've heard a couple stories like the guy is a porn addict who keeps bringing up cuck shit, so the woman just thinks of a reason to leave him. So I think maybe 90% of this is some incel furiously typing his fantasies about secret gangbang videos on r\theredpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:37 PM
1

I've never watched this, but you can bet the are getting paid or promoting their own social media or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, that's another thing. I was going out 6 nights a week, and eventually I would just turn comatose in order to recharge. At some point it's just feels a lot better to be 'nesting'. Also everyone involved knew what was going on, and if anything that seemed to make me more appealing in certain ways. It's almost if women are 'redpilled' about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:26 PM
2

It seems like PPD really doesn't understand sociosexuality. Like I could do this shit and it has never messed up or 'impaired' my ability to fall in love or "pair bond" or be monogamous. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexuality Everyone here gets cause and effect mixed-up. Most messed-up people were messed-up before they became messed-up sluts. (And we're not even getting into sexual abuse.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:17 PM
3

The government should monitor the internet so when someone starts bitching about "western women", they immediately get deported back to wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:06 PM
1

Nah, I had a girlfriend who was a videographer and had the fancy camera and lights and all the equipment. Just filming yourselves fucking is pretty boring, beast-with-two-backs moving rhythmically for 10 minutes stuff. If you want "porn", it's completely staged and fake as fuck, even with a real couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:43 PM
1

I used this new skill to immediately fuck her best friend at uni as well. Maybe, women indirectly gossip about their hookups. If the sex was good and you kept it discreet and didn't brag all around town, the word gets out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:40 PM
2

AFAIK r\TheBluePill is now a dead sub, but there was the mentality like "look at those morons, this doesn't apply to my genderqueer/lgbt friends" exception-proves-the-rule logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:29 PM
2

Oh yeah, they do. My friend in high school worked at The Limited. She and her pals would dress up like office workers and go into downtown bars where they wouldn't card. She would lie to guys and say she was 22 and ended up as some guy's FWB. This is the kind of chick who would say stuff like "high school boys can't fuck". Currently she is a nice suburban married lady with 2 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:21 PM
13

Depends on the assimilation level IMO. If they grew up here, they're usually fine. But if they have some "white girls are sluts" vibe (as seen daily on PPD), they creep everyone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:04 PM
1

Yeah, I agree there are certain sex addict guys who have no standards whatsoever, but many of them are not handsome chad types. Like any of the guys here complaining could get laid if they got in with the local poly community.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:48 PM
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True blue people at least pay lip service to tabla rosa "gender is a social construct" as central to their worldview. Since even most PPD women are women be like that, the actual blue pills could never hack it here. So what's left is ppl who agree on the principles but dislike the other side. (some ppd regular came up with this, not me) IMO a lot of the women here are more redpilled than most of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:43 PM
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I remember shit like "ladder theory" where unattractive nerds get put on the friendzone ladder, and a lot of people making fun of how certain people looked, but nothing specifically blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:37 PM
2

The worst thing about this guy is he pretends to understand 'hookup culture' despite being a self-admitted boomer betamax who was completely lied to by society. Pls stick to what you know dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:30 PM
1

They are taller and people naturally follow behind tall people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:50 PM
1

It is a reddit-wide phenomenon, but I guess you have imagine what redditors look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:37 PM
1

Thanks for the confirmation ThePajeet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:23 PM
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Sorry ThePajeet66 your idea of "chad" is some uglor 5-10 brown guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:15 PM
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I don't see incel content being banned anyway. Yesterday there was 500 post thread about TRP being bluepilled on looks and every post was jerking-off 6-2 lantern jaw chads. Once in a blue moon they remove some stale incel pasta and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:11 PM
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Nope this is RP cope logic. Women too far below you generally don't want to receive a halfazzed pump-n-dump. The ones closer to your league are more likely to jump in bed and see what happens. If ugly chicks are easier for you, it's because you are ugly. You are what you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:02 PM
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The frustrating thing about actual handsome men (as opposed to imaginary chad boogiemen) is they are always juggling a few hot women. Or they have a Stacy-tier girlfriend who doesn't care if they fuck around on the side. And while they are doing this everyone thinks they are the greatest guy there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:57 PM
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Agreed. Also men should only marry women who hookup with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:16 PM
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This is v true. Women under 25 are way more open to FWB/STR/sidechick type situations. Even if they are pretending to be serious, they swap out boyfriends every 6-12 months anyway. The issue is most decent 25-30yo women are in relationships or even married already, so pull the young ones until you cant anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:14 PM
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Having been around both, there are major differences between swinger communities and "hookup culture". Just the fact your N is 300 and most people stay in the single digits even with hookups should tip you off. (And yeah they cross wires on dating sites.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:04 PM
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It's a self-reinforcing prophecy, if she hooks-up with you, you are the hookup guy, not the boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:26 PM
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I'm a tall supposedly handsome guy, so I'd never say it didn't matter. But any guy with great social subcultural circle cred or really good social skills can beat me out all the time. I am the cosmetic beta to their alpha. But I had my own thing going, with the reverse arrangement. So yeah, it's maybe actually worse than your incel imagination. Not only do us handsome guys get the girls. We team up and try to monopolize as many girls as possible. Your friends are 100% normal and describe 90% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:30 AM
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Thanks for doubling down on the mental midgetry, and completely missing the point. It makes it quite obvious that your issues are 100% upstairs. There might be some resources you can seek which can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:16 AM
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That's not true at all, she was working at Amazon from day #1. Early employees knew she was the accounting/hr/admin. Dummies don't get that Bezos dumping his old musty wife is actually a status symbol to other men. He can toss her and it doesn't affect him materially at all. Can his vice-presidents dump their wives?... probably not so easily. In the end redpillers are just as midget-brained as the women they criticize. Dumb celebrity gossip, billionaire divorces, other trash articles fill their …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:45 AM
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I've heard of a couple marriages which were essentially outright scams to collect 50% of some guaranteed future windfall. Very hard for me to sympathize with men so stupid tho. A fool and his money...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:35 AM
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New York State had at-fault divorce until a few years ago. Only a few divorces were denied, usually because the couple was still cohabitating. (ducking before I get bitch-slapped again by that family lawyer sublimelady who posts here.) For a group which complains about "divorce rape", I don't know why you would want divorces to be even more complex and expensive where you have to drag all your fucking bullshit arguments into the courtroom. People stick with their friends and they don't care if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:30 AM
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The non-chads I know who can ] pull have social status in a subculture or are very extroverted (great game). I think I've seen your posts before and you're probably putting off too much of a normie boyfriend-material vibe. At least having a gf puts you ahead of 90% of the redpills here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:03 AM
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Yeah, you got some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:35 PM
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It's really nothing to me because I was 20min late or whatever. It is lust after my gf, and presumption of moral superiority when he's got nothing on me. The NiceGuy is really devaluing her, not me. "typical female only goes for assholes"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:13 PM
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Good time to switch to settle-down mode imo. TRP is over optimistic and late 30s are more like hitting the wall, not peaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:05 PM
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Yeah, they might be perceiving socially dominant behavior and calling it "asshole". But I've run into a couple of these guys IRL who thought I was an asshole for some completely trivial reason. They have some moral superiority chip on their shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:46 PM
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The thing is I'm not sure if it is possible to redpill yourself into being a complete narcissistic psycho. When FDS talks about "redpill", they mean the real thing, not the manosphere version.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:36 PM
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A big part of it is the TRP audience are NiceGuys(tm), and they have a fucked-up definition of both "nice" and "asshole". Basically anyone who is extroverted and has a backbone is an "asshole" to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:28 PM
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Agreed. Second wave feminism was mostly a reaction to the sexual revolution, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:24 PM
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Yeah, that's why my impression of younger teens/women is more blatantly shallow and proud of it. Obv they not going tell someone "u ugly" to their face. I think people are more worried about demanding more than they 'deserve'. Nobody wants to be the neckbeard who is saying "4/10 knees too pointy". A lot of the women who virtue signal about this stuff are older and wider.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:57 PM
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There's plenty of guys with enough alpha and enough beta, which is why most women here report being happy with their partners. The BB settling scenario is actually seen as a big fail by the majority of women. The MRP thing is guys who have lost their 'alpha', not that they never had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:38 PM
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Yep, that stuff can turn a maybe into a yes, they won't turn a no into a yes. I will say that a lot of women have a "type" which is not gigachad. But it's not often "fat neckbeard" or "boring dweeb". The successful non-chads I know appeal to certain types of women and they mostly stay in their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:17 PM
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The thing is even if you pass the looks threshold, there's personality/mentality and the whole social dance. Modern pickup artistry was invented by a 6'5" blond chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:55 PM
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Absolutely true. But there's a small percentage of women who have some sex fetish thing for guys (chads) their dad's age. You see this around the BDSM community. It's almost never a real relationship tho, just a sex thing, but it could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:29 PM
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I'm convinced they can smell it on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:13 PM
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There's a bunch of qualifiers around it which are never stated on reddit. Like if you have a diagnoseable issue, and there's a known treatment plan, and you can find a qualified therapist, then therapy might be very helpful. There use to be this guy around who was successfully helping guys with social problems (incels) with cognitive behavioral therapy. Which is a way better idea that some scammer RP/PUA coach. But just going in and talking about your feelings with someone always seemed like a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:03 PM
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Exactly. This is actually the "mistress" package where you pay her rent while she gets to pork chad when you aren't looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:45 PM
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This is definitely not true. 2000s there was a lot of cleavage, belly shirts, low cut pants, miniskirts, etc. Fashion has gotten more conservative (as people have gotten fatter), but I suspect there is a tide to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:18 AM
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Oh I know exactly: red pill is literally mentally stunted foreigners autistically repeating their pathetic incel revenge fantasies. Some chick took your revenge fantasy away, and you guys got totally ass-ripped and completely lost frame. Like I said, nobody gets it over there anymore. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:18 AM
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Nah, what flapperfemmefatale said is legit for some women. You're actually pushing a blue pill here dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:10 AM
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Nah, its often a self-fulfilling prophecy. If she hooks up with you, then you're a hookup guy and not bf material. And the truth is a lot of guys really don't like being pumped-n-dumped, so you deffo need a vibe that you're cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:36 PM
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What's ridiculous about it? You are the guy she's fucking between boyfriends. If a boyfriend shows up she's obviously branch-swinging out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:52 PM
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Yeah, as I said in another comment this is filtering for women who are DTF. A lot of women don't want casual, but it's ultimately way more efficient than going on three dates just to pump-n-dump someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:51 PM
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Q: what do you call a punk rocker without a girlfriend? A: homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:04 PM
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Cannot really disagree with any of that. Yes being good-looking makes casual a lot easier. One thing on this sub I do disagree with is if "Chad" is displaying beta / good boyfriend behavior, women will tend to treat him that way, and it's really his behavior (or the woman) more than his height or chiseled abs. Successful guys sub-communicate that they are DTF and yes they are screening for the willing. Much of the game is just appearing to be easy. (Most men aren't easy despite what they think.)…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:34 PM
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I'm in the absolutely don't care category, so most of the women I've dated are either stacked or flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:22 PM
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Well, yeah according to this sub most men are terminal virgins anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:01 PM
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It also probably doesn't really work unless the woman is very naive. At some point women appreciate that at least you are not trying to play them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:59 PM
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Well, I don't claim to have anything to do with the red pill, which seems mostly like creepy foreign incels now days. I am familiar with pickup and have successfully negotiated casual sexual situations on a number of occasions, and it's definitely a lot easier if you're coming at it from the sex-positive perspective. There's often no underlying motivations beyond "you're hot, lets fuck", nobody is getting married, nobody is getting pregnant, nobody is buxxing. And thx for noticing the man-0-sphe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:48 PM
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Honestly that sounds like something which might escalate into serial killer behavior. He better hope none of those girls have a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:33 PM
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It actually does kinda suck when your FWB itemizes all the ways you are unsuitable. And yeah sometimes you can get laid but cannot find a good girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:18 PM
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Eh, some guys here clearly want to marry some virginal prude and then cheat on her with sluts and whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:15 PM
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Comment about a comment about a comment. I think PUA/RP guys used to understand that if you wanted casual, you had to project a "not good boyfriend material" vibe. The boyfriend type is taking her to dinner while she is taking you to bed. The thing is this makes you disposable, and most often it is the woman doing the pumping-and-dumping. (Very often I would have kept pumping them if they were down.) However now RP is crawling with guys who don't even understand the basic mechanics of casual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:12 PM
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Attn: all "Indian Janitors" -- Nobody here cares at all if you insist on betabuxxxmaxxing for some village girl mail-order-bride. There's no need to justify to the PPD crowd here your inability to attract a mate in the free sexual marketplace. Go to your mom and have her order off the wife catalog and PLS shut the fuck up about it. (Although the redpill here is it doesn't matter and she quite probably will still cuck your omega ass.) (*Also Indian-Americans are highly-educated and employed folks…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:52 AM
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A lot of younger guys don't even know because it isn't a foot long like in porn. also nobody gets laid on their dicksize alone unless it is craigslist or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:30 PM
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I mean some people don't care for receiving it, so maybe those ppl find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:24 PM
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fat yo, black yo, brrrapppttht in your face with redpintobeans yo, throw that wasted fatbitch in the back of the truck, she's on reddit and she gives a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:33 AM
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Standard disclaimer these comics were created by a completely insane white-supremacist cuckold fetishist who was the chief mod of r/hapas. But it is purge, post em if you got em.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:21 AM
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"Muh blakcpill sciense zitations" You probably got kicked out of high school chemistry for having extreme body odor and disrupting group projects. And then you circlejerked on r\atheism and r\science about how right wing Xtins were keeping you down. And then after the "Scientific Community" rejected you for being a creepy loser who isn't actually smart, you tried to develop a reputation as an "incel scientist" personality, which you failed at. Man it must suck to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:13 AM
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420vodka chick, always strunk and downed. Pooped her pants and think nobody knows. Boys swerve and she sayz they pedo, but that buttstank kills all libidos. Pls stop replying cuz my tardpostin ain't flyin, u just retarded and the school system wasn't lyin,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:00 AM
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Yeah, that's true, there are "attractive" people who don't look competent/trustworthy etc. "Physiognomy" won't directly comeback soon either, it will be some mysterymeat machine learning algo which outputs that Chad is a better hire than Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:49 AM
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toidy toidy, head first you will go. ooogabooga peepee poooha nobody cares but youa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:38 AM
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Mentally stable red pillers I agree, 20-40% of redpillers weren't doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:32 AM
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24 yo women posters checkin in. Trailertrash usernames: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:22 AM
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redpillers have over 9000 meltdowns about FDS.... "no we never did that."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:04 AM
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Sorry to break it to you, but the regulars on those subs were always whoring behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:02 AM
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peepee poopoo kaakka!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:56 AM
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This is where you should have just "peaked" and fucked off reddit, but instead it truely is over for 420vodkacels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:45 AM
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TRP has this "plate management guide" which is such third rate playa shit, you can see why the typical RP LVM semi-retard has a meltdown because women exist who are immune to his shite game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:39 AM
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How many women did he rape in this book?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:34 AM
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I wouldn't but some ppl don't really enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:29 AM
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Nah, they hit the treadmill and get a wardrobe. Its all downhill now for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:26 AM
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Generally agreed, most college age women can coast on youth and nice skin so they're lazy AF. Women 22-25 are way more put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:08 AM
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Are females aware they're being objectified during sex? Read this out loud to yourself in the most dweeb/neckbeard/indian voice you could possibly impersonate. These are the men who post on PPD with a "King" username.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:08 AM
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Well, can't really relate then. But plenty of 5'10" Asian-Americans who have a personality aside from being a pocket calculator do quite alright with women. So I'll stick with #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:02 AM
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Excellent depiction about how beta-orbiting NiceGuys™️ are always trying to deceptively slime their way in there to steal another man's woman. They are truly despicable low-lifes. The worst of the worst. We need to get the word out to all Stacies for their own defense. They tend think of these guys as complete and total eunuchs. But if the NiceGuy ever gets them alone, he will RAPE. That is why it is completely rational that attractive women are inherently attracted to big violent "Protector" ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:47 AM
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I know a couple tall, dark, and handsome (and high caste) Indian men married to blonde stacies. So I'd keep all my current stats and go with #2. (#poo?)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:19 AM
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They do this in real life too. We'd call them "Ima Girls". The internet is simp central, so there really should be a Tits or GTFO policy everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:07 AM
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> Queen Cat perches on her king's bed > King stumbles in with another drunken human female in heat. > PU! Run and hide. > King grunts loudly and then heads to the water room > Time to jump up on the dresser > "Ummm... Your cat is staring at me." > "Yeah? So?" > "Ummm.. I feel judged."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:53 AM
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Incels would have to walk around with a giant flashing VIRGIN!! sign on their head, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:19 AM
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You sound like a horrific incel, but I don't think you're wrong. Polygamist Chads and Boomers taking ~5% of the more desirable women off the market causes a sort of domino effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:18 AM
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Jerry Rice spikes a football on yo head.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:10 AM
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Yea if I'm into someone I want to lick the shit out of their sweaty armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:03 AM
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Cuckold/Redpill fakepost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:45 AM
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I've known a number of dudes who were personally alright but fucking stunk like shit. Including one guy I had to ban from a trip because there was no way I was going to be cooped up with him. (I guess if you smoke enough weed, you don't notice this?) Leave the house theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:45 AM
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Yuropeans. One issue is they say they're from Town X and went to University Y, and you have no idea what to make of that, so it's hard to get a read on them. (But then if they are studying in America, their dad probably has some €€€.) So I can't even imagine dating someone from the 2nd/3rd world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:32 AM
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Eh, I like when they beg for your dick and etc so I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:25 AM
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brainlet tells? def wouldn't make any relationship assumptions based on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:52 PM
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Apparently this is how men with serious cognitive limitations need to interpret things. I guarantee all these women have far more obvious relationship 'tells' than some mysterious n-count value which you will never really know for sure. (And no I don't mean piercings and tattoos.) I've never known a "town bike" woman with a very high n-count who wasn't an obvious wreck or some polywoly sex freak. This is why 'spinning plates' works as a purple strategy to filter for ltr compatibility, you can ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:21 PM
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Yes, ty, that was the original idea. Husband hunters are out there and women keep men in the friendzone as backups. But even then it seems more like a cautionary tale than something worth going psycho over. Most 31yo women are still looking for good D along with the rest of the package.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:44 PM
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Depends a lot on location I think. When I lived in the US midwest, there were fewer restaurants and they tended to be fancier so people would eat out less. In California there's tons of good and not-expensive places (or were before covid).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:57 PM
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Right, and don't be a beta orbiter is good dating/seduction advice, but that's not what these guys are ranting about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:34 PM
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And women really have to be careful dating these guys - heard many stories where 2-3 years in his parents arrange a marriage for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:31 PM
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It is 100x less common than they think, which is why people tell them they are wrong 24x7 on this sub. Most western women would consider it a massive fail if they had to settle. It's really more about immigrants or places which are sexually liberalizing, and maybe a problem for TRP STEMcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:10 PM
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True, but I'm saying why this shit is catnip to these guys. They know they're going to have to marry whoever their parents find, while TRP/PUA promises the lifestyle seen in their pornos. So they are the ones with the dual mating strategy, and not (most) western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:44 PM
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Yeah, I keep saying this on here, but AF/BB really describes arranged marriages a lot more than western love marriages, where most people associatively mate with someone they love fucking. (not sure if this a purge thread so automod)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:01 PM
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Oh good, I was just about to post something completely terrible. Now I can purge myself from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:29 PM
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I find only like 20% of women to be attractive. (admittedly there's a lot more of them on a college campus or etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:02 PM
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Didn't Israel try this with the kibbutzes? Should be quite a bit of literature about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:55 PM
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Yeah, TRP gets this way wrong. What really happens is the 30 yo guy breaks-up with his girlfriend, and then the next gf is 24. And nobody even notices because they're not mismatched. (And IMO this is more of a function of finding a HVW who is single, which women in their late 20s tend not to be.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:46 PM
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There was an article about a 'polycue' in new york city, and someone pointed out that between the 9 ppl (or whatever), they produced one child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:06 PM
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I heard a story like this once and said comeon that guy had to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:45 PM
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I don't know if I came up with a bunch of chadly alphas or what, but i seriously can't remember anyone complaining about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:43 PM
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No we need to get more of their women over here... so we can cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:41 PM
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My thoughts: I have empathy for those men who grew up in super shitty situations and had to figure how survive before they could even think about girls or etc. Some light redpill works for these men. They graduate. The image is obv petite-bourgeoisie. The class politics are "in it to win it". I think it very much devalues the effort the normie & above-normie puts into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:08 AM
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Official apology this wasn't intended to be a deception of actual TRPs or RPWs. I just couldn't think of a better title for this relevant image I found.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:34 AM
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This would be an interesting article if you academicized the language and provided citations. But agree nice guys are never nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:31 AM
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Unfortunately a ricecel just arrived to spam BBC porn, so it's only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:19 AM
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Now days they leave off the dress and just wear the apron.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:16 AM
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Also this guy is like 22 in the pic and already Norwood 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:12 AM
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Agreed the average slut just drinks too much and is thinking well, someone needs to make him cum. But on the proam tier these strategies work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:06 AM
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My one date with a poly woman back when, she was srs age-frauding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:50 AM
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They are pretty pricey in the US, because VW makes most of their crap in third world countries like Mexico and Alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:46 AM
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You have to appreciate this guy for how many incels he has irrevocably brainfucked. Like he just cracked open their (tiny) skulls and split open their frontal lobes to pound the shit out of their spinal fornex with his humongous meatpipe. Their brains are now arbys roast beef.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:40 AM
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Based and slutpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:34 AM
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🤚
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:19 PM
2

MRP seems the most real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:05 PM
1

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:19 PM
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ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:55 PM
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yep, and wife probably knows too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:35 PM
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mmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:07 PM
2

It's true that RP has a bunch of jargon and theory that offers infinite opportunities for mental masturbation and can act as a "sperg trap". These guys usually just sit around keyboard warrioring on the internet and never approach girls tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:53 PM
2

Elliot Rodger sounded somewhat coherent online, but IRL he was a complete psycho who would go around screaming at people and starting fights. No amount of theory could help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:46 PM
1

The real alpha guys always end up having more kids with the next woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:22 PM
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Dodging covid and enjoying retirement on the back 40 of the stud farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:31 PM
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I have a close AA buddy, and another AA friend, and IMO these guys figured out quickly that no asian girl was going to fuck them so they needed to stop acting like a pocket calculator and figure out appeal to white/latrino girls. My AA buddy dated this blonde actress/model who was taller than him, and well she was also nutty. But that is prime evidence that social circle status game is how the guys pull the really attractive women. Both of them got married to younger asian social-league girls, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:15 AM
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CMV: Best women are the ones who "beat their eating disorder" by running/gym along with adopting a healthy diet. At every age, men love those long fit girlies, and women love the guys who can do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:01 AM
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Signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:51 AM
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Making an assumption like that just advertises your intellectual difficulties, so pls stop. Ask TRP about the sexual habits of single moms. This guy looks really tall and is not bad looking, she prolly fucked him senseless. And obv I would never follow this strategy, but you are dissing her looks when he might be with the hottest age-appropriate woman in whatever southern shithole these ppl are from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:28 AM
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One of the regulars here made the point that actual blank-slate evo-denier bluepillers couldn't last more than a week on this sub, before they got flamed off by everyone. The ppl who stay pretty much accept the principles, they just don't like the ppl on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:21 AM
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I dunno, but lady/gentleman on the streets, monster between the sheets theory always has worked for me. Men are dumb and constantly being bombarded with sex sells stuff. They think women are doing that when they probably are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:14 AM
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I dunno but every gold-digger type I've met IRL certainly had the looks/style to back it up. This is prob just redpill meltodown cope that FDS are all fat 40 year old women with 3 babby-daddies, because they can't afford to pick up the check at red lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:04 AM
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Dude, hate to break this to you but she's actually pretty hot. Plus the % of women who have two kids and still fit in skinny jeans is like very very low. This guy is dadmaxxing above his league. You might not like his strategy but w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:59 AM
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NEVER go out with men who you aren't attracted to, I 100% agree. I am just saying that the "sexy husband" alphabeta type guys either got locked down when they were 20, or they waited until they were pushing 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:01 AM
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Real talk, there is like one true alfa on this sub who probably cracks his knuckles everytime some deserving dusty goes to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:53 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:50 AM
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you were pretty obviously bullied in high school yourself Funny thing when you talk to people in education, the "victims" were often huge bullies, while the "bullies" thought themselves to the real victims. Otoh, OP is obv like I'M A JUNIOR MANLET AND I'VE GOT CAPSLOCK BECAUSE I REALLLY MEAN IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:48 AM
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How can you have no friends in a dorm when you can just sit around the lounge and watch tv and play games with ppl? Are zoomers really this fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:40 AM
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No don't, in the statistical sense this benefits me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:38 AM
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Their horrible mentality about women repels their own women and most other women as well. Eventually most of them will BetaCux with some village girl their parents purchased, so there is no long-term outlook with these guys. Beyond their horrific and awful LTR traits, they also tend to be short guys with smaller dicks. But otherwise a lot of them have a good facial structure and could improve with redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:35 AM
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Back when I was her age, I would never be mean, but like step back in case the rest of the stampede is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:24 AM
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As a guy I get this, dudes are so mad because you have an abundance in something which you don't care about at all. And older men are probably mostly grotesque letchers. But I dunno maybe some of them know what naked women in their bed look like and have learned some tricks, and aren't comparing pron stars. I think a relationship-minded woman would find better mates if she shot for a little older. (Not RP old man fantasy age gaps, just a little.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:18 AM
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Not at all my thing, but I can get THICC. But waste-hip-ratio dudes, waist-hip-ratio. If you wanna date a refrigerator, just stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:26 AM
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Daily purge reminder that these "redpill comics" were created by an extreme cuckold fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:19 AM
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I used to hang around old seduction/pickup forums where it was more like "yo bro, woman need the good dick down brobrothers, its the only thing that's keeping them sane brozines, you wanna get treated right, just keep feeding em the good D bromeisters". Even the anti-pickup forum was funny as fuck. If any MGTOWs or incels showed-up, they would throw surplus vaginal lubrication at them and they would hiss and retreat like vampires. Fuck Rollo for coming up with a retard synthesis about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:52 AM
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On some level reddit relies on free labor from basement-dwellers such as transcels and other agenda posters. Plus you fuckers can't stop brigading and being a nuisance. They'll get you eventually. But until then, fun forum to lurk on and thanks for all the chuckles! Live fast and die young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:38 AM
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Def the abundant frame is screening hot women for personality and not just the hottttt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:53 AM
2

Hmm, undercover MtFs? it does say "female".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:33 AM
2

TBP libfems probably are not into FDS. Most progressive subs really don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:31 AM
2

Taylor swift is taller than 80% of men, so of course they'd go for the shortie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:14 AM
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Yep, this is delusional redpiller thinking. Just because they can only spin 4s, they assume the almighty Chad is doing the same thing. Tons of attractive women end up getting plated (usually due to personality).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:12 AM
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you guys should rebrand to something not associated with redpill. that brand is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:58 PM
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A lot of those stories are fake as fuck, like some bitter old lady really has to convince amitheasshole only assholes do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:47 PM
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Oh yeah, the strategy is stupid. It's just funny listening to them talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:30 PM
1

Chad-sharing is perfectly okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:12 PM
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Untrue! Some of them are high smv too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:03 PM
2

Even incels used to be pretty hilarious in their own way. now they're just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:52 PM
2

Doubtful, but a lot of them might be lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:51 PM
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Willie Brown = ALPHA MALE
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:58 PM
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90% of porn is still petite 18-24 yos with nice tits. Even the "MILFs" are in their late 20s. Coomers being complete mental degenerates is not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:43 PM
2

Female currycels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:31 PM
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My hair is still fabulous thanks. But yeah, I get women's POV because I remember the creepy fags hanging out in the mens room trying to peek at my 13yo peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:44 PM
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I mean FDS is like just take redpill and do the exact opposite so no duh. Its funny watching them fight when its like argument about which tastes worse, catshit or dogshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:36 PM
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I too was a real edgy 14 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:34 PM
3

Kegels definitely work. Clamp down on dem betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:27 PM
2

It also reminds me of back when the man-0-sphere had some edgy and fun parts and wasn't just tardo currycels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:16 PM
3

I don't really want to engage with this. But I once asked a pickup forum if anyone had ever seen an "atomic neg" which worked... they had not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:12 PM
1

Also when did you start getting help from the bottle? In high school it seemed like about 16/17 the blondes became "blondes". (i am also blond fwiw)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:08 PM
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Yeah every real blonde gf I've been with rocked that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:08 PM
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Does the carpet match the drapes and if so what's your style?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:00 PM
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Nah, look at the adultery subreddit, they have burner phones and secret credit cards and are shitting their pants about opsec and shit. In this day & age its easier to be poly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:56 PM
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Allow me to blab on about the low-n BPD crazy chick. And the other one who was just dumb and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:52 PM
1

Single moms need love too. That's why you shoot the spoot and scoot, so she can have another loving child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:48 PM
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Yep, also haven't known many guys who "need a woman" to do their laundry or cook food or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:38 PM
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Tard spacing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:34 PM
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I'll just add that your "league" involves a lot of socioeconomic & subcultural associative-mating stuff, it isn't entirely 100% about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:25 PM
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I've got nurses and medical people in my family and worked in a hospital, so i don't think the scatology aspect is that controversial, like hey lets not talk about that over dinner. But all hail our frontline heroes and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:50 PM
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Nope, but she was like 19 and prolly just starting her reign of terror.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:47 PM
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I only catch this show in reruns, and most of the time you can't tell this episode is 20 years old until they show a cellphone or computer or something. Last one I watched was completely politically incorrect. This guy was set up by a druggie and falsely accused of rape, but before they could clear his name he was buttraped to death in Rikers... dum dum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:36 PM
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Is that the same guy who was something like LongingForDeath and the leader of r\hapas? He also created those redpill comics (which will get reposted during purge). One of the internet's all-time nutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:28 PM
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There's thing where the feminists are undercover trads, and the trad girls are undercover feminists. The games we play..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:20 PM
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The other 'blue pill' thing about older guys is the assumption that everyone pairs off. I remember girls mooching drinks off these guys and it was less "eww" and more "he's probably married or something".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:54 PM
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young attractive women have men hitting on them overtly all the time This, and I think it is tied into how most women have a more responsive sexuality. You have the street creeps saying "yo nice ass girl", and chad saying "your boyfriend doesn't have to find out". And then Niceguy acts like a complete eunuch and it just doesn't register as male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:32 PM
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True for reddit as a whole - your must upvoted comment is always some dumb oneliner, while your effort posts barely get any attention. reddit traffic has gone thru the roof, so this site is really for the bottomhalf facebook crowd now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:04 PM
1

We have a politician around here who is supposedly a gay virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:59 PM
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This is the deal where you get to have sex with her, but then the pillow talk is her explaining in detail why she thinks you're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:55 PM
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I've heard from women they prefer to split checks to avoid any sort of "owe it to me" situation, probably just makes it easier to drop the guy if they have second thoughts. BUT... I always saw it as a good sign if a woman wanted to split (or even pick it up)... in retrospect maybe its a AFBB thing where she wants you to get it for free. So yeah a lot of redditors arguing about stuff which doesn't really matter that much in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:52 PM
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The male equivalent is AFBB is hot versus crazy. Most guys will eat shit if the girl is attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:42 PM
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Do you? So many guys are height frauds it seems like a + for meeting them in person (if that's important to you).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:39 PM
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Nurses can be a lot of fun, so i dunno if that came off as judgemental as it wasn't meant to be. maybe more dtf with their bfs than slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 07:27 PM
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Parents often paying for this because something about videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 10:19 PM
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There was a low n-count thread recently, but IMO its some unicorn-logic, which TRP actually strongly recommends against.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I always thought the natural sort of approach worked the best. And dating is supposed to be fun, go out and do stuff. If it works out, you'll have a lot of time to netflix-n-chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 09:33 PM
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Dealing with people's bodies leads to a very low disgust factor and they can be pretty scatalogical. probably some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 08:18 PM
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You can surmise based on lifestyle. Like I had a girlfriend who was an art student and had made some documentary where she was living in a van. (plus other things she told me). She was actually pretty trad and had no piercings/tatoos or whatever these guys look for, but I wasn't under any illusion about her n. Then I had another girlfriend who was young and clearly looking for husband-material, and not surprised when she bragged about her low n. (Then again I don't care about n because I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 07:32 PM
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I've always felt it was unmasculine to keep track of this so "I have no idea" works and is truthful. (if pushed "feels like a lot", let em use their imagination).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:44 PM
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Back when I was dating, I'd hear women complaining about these guys who just wanted to sit around with their bong and xbox, like they weren't even trying. I dunno, but maybe that shit works in college but then the competition steps it up and these guys get left in the dust. And on PPD there's a lot of fantasizing about men who are so good looking they don't need any game. I've never met someone like that, but they're not getting the stacies with the tight pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 06:26 PM
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The fixation on autistic chads with zero game is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:37 PM
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When she sees chad and stacy out at the resturant, she gets mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/ewp86o/rmgtow_has_been_quarantined/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/939kmv/us-coast-guard-officer-facing-gun-charges-researched-how-to-rid-us-of-the-jews-court-docs-reveal maybe i'm wrong but that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:37 PM
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Yep, money doesn't buy you happiness but it beats being broke. You can assume some level of success and talk about what really gets you there, but then a lot of ppl here would just rather whine and cry like big ugly babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:33 PM
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Yeah, if TRP is really a MGTOW trap, FDS is the same thing for political lesbians (who mostly just get obese and dont' fuck each other).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:28 PM
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Serial rapists are also extremely rare. Emerging studies are that most rapes are committed by the same serial offenders who rape women they know (vs strangers). It goes unreported or the guy has an argument it was consensual so it never gets prosecuted. So I get the rapekit argument because how else do you get these guys? Anyway niceguy fear is somewhat real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:22 PM
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You assume reddit has any sort of coherent policy, when what actually happened was some MGTOW was planning on blowing up the joint, so they quarantined the sub to prevent people from figuring out what it was about. Write some negative articles about FDS, and they'll squash it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:02 PM
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Computer programmers are way less dweeby than reddit thinks. Lots of normies who are married/ltr and play golf or go hiking on the weekend (or anything away from a computer screen). Many not-unattractive women as well. The stereotypical neckbeard who is "good with computers" usually isn't actually smart enough to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:53 PM
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These people are now on reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:48 PM
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You're absolutely right, but attractive people tend to have a lot of sex with each other and that will always make everyone else mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:45 PM
2

Yep that's the flaw in most of the stuff here, the good ones tend to go off the market fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:35 PM
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Go gay is the unstated goal there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:25 PM
2

Classic american daytime television staple! Low class individuals submit themselves to DNA testing for TV entertainment. The guy who "wins" by not being the father gets to celebrate by doing a dance. Sometimes they flip it and the babymamma does a dance on him. This guy probably just lost on Maury.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:24 AM
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Situation is probably more Maury than redpill. The other guy is boogieing down doing the "Not The Dad Dance" while you're getting the half of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:42 AM
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98.7% of the stories on that sub are fiction. But i think this is the usual reality where the beta is not the cuckold. We don't know the real reasons why, but he wanted out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:50 AM
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Very true. TRP loves threads like "I met this woman who was smoking crack and had abandoned all her children. AWALT proven again!!!" Like hey wait, how does that prove anything, and maybe if those are your plates you should rethink this...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:04 AM
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👍 rereading that flame was unwarrented
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:24 AM
1

I never know what to do with reddit replies like "Me no can read??!?" The urban legend was Hillary let Bill get his dick sucked by other woman because she didn't want to do it herself. The female response was that's now part of the standard package.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:09 AM
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Female and male libidos generally work on very different principles, so measuring them with the same yardstick is a fundamental mistake. I don't feel like arguing this point, so I'm posting under automod. Still there are many women who are way more sociosexual than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:45 AM
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This is really one of the greatest urban legends of all time. Hillary wouldn't suck dick, so Bill had the license to get it elsewhere, or so the story goes. Every young woman was then like yeah boy, you're getting that at home. Hillary fans are boomer women who are just like *~men~cheat~*. Most women my age were like "I don't give a fuck who you are...", so maybe they never had any base level respect for her. (In reality it's been a marriage only for political convenience for a long time.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:40 AM
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Yeah, I've known plenty of low n types who go out clubbing and partying and dress slutty and makeout with guys. Then they go home and flick the bean to literotica or whatever. Theyre not all pure little church mouses reading the bible or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 11:26 PM
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Looking good enough to date the younger good girl type worked for me, I just think it becomes impractical at some point and you need better tells. (Also personally speaking, I don't know if you could fairly judge my current mentality based on me fucking around as a young guy.) Women having good employment is IMO the key way of preventing getting betabuxed - if she no longer loves you she should leave. (Also most of the ppl I know who married their college sweetheart are still married, so get em …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:27 PM
1

Which is a good mentality, but a poor description of how people actually mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:22 PM
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Since pair-bonding is something you pulled out of your ass, it objectively didn't work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:21 PM
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Notice the part about 11+ partners is not statistically different than just 1? Slut theory disproven by the institute for cuckservativism .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:20 PM
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There's a lot of guys who don't simply get noticed at all (been there). The ones who scare everyone away are usually actively doing something. ER was perfectly coherent online, says nothing about what he was like IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:27 PM
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I'm just be a little cynical to say on some level everyone is an object. Women certainly show off their men and gain social standing that way. Its only when that becomes your primary means of relating does it become toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:32 PM
3

Elliot Rodger would go around screaming at people and starting fights and throwing liquids and etc, why would anyone get to know than kind of person? Also most 'incels' are like 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:03 PM
1

To some extent IMO the only fans stuff is less about $$$ and more about a power fantasy. women love to think about some loser spooging into his sock because he ain't never going to sniff that. for most of them this isn't really work like say being a stripper
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:51 PM
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r_r speaks the wisdom that comes with age. Once you're in your 30s you won't want to deal with brokeass chicks and you won't care who she messed around with 10+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:17 PM
2

Yes, there’s no point in admitting you’re low-n to those men yep, and this is why women only tell you this after you've been together for a while and passed each other's real tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:11 PM
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Chad is also an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:57 PM
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haha, right. Atlas said something about it would never occur to her h that he wasn't the best in bed, and i was thinking wat who thinks otherwise. I think these guys must have a repressed cuck fetish or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:46 PM
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Divorce often little to do with "pair bonding". Zagnut is right that is pure tradcuck mental masturbation with zero scientific evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:38 PM
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There's the other half of that study about "happy marriages" which they purposely never post. (because there's no correlation with n-count).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:36 PM
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Yep, and some guys here probably won't want to hear this but some low-n women aren't that way due to any inherent conservatism but because they have super high "chad-only" standards. But if they get that guy they will fuck his brains out daily and twice on sundays. Also i think some women are low-n due to being habitual coomers, same with men really it kills the drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:20 PM
4

This sub is full of potato brained people in the root cellar who take absolute conclusions from studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:51 PM
5

Because deep down they understand asking about this is beta-as-fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:46 PM
2

I wouldn't be too jealous of those guys, they're mostly the ones whining how they only get starfished and no blowjobs, even though that's exactly the type of woman they selected for. The purple trick is more like finding a slut who is on one of her first few rides on the carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:48 AM
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A friend of mine had this girly diary book where she would write down her entire body count. Then I realized she started at like 13 so that clicked and made sense. She was pushing 100 men+women. She was the lovable type of slut who everyone liked. When someone got dumped by their girlfriend, she was in there for the rebound action. She also had a thing for guys who were okay but 'hard up'. A slut-angel in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:21 AM
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Grammar questions might belong on another sub?? you only quoted part of it so I don't understand. If its a definition question, "sociosexual orientation" is the key to a lot of PPD discussions: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:32 AM
2

The cluster-b crazy girl I dated was low-n, so it is not really a good tell IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 02:43 AM
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All their subs were banned so they are wandering around reddit homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:59 PM
1

Eh, I don't see it. Unless you mean the tights that every female wears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 05:38 PM
1

maybe you are low t and just noticing this. teenage girls showed a ton of skin when i was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:42 PM
1

Typical PPD wishful thinking, but in reality there is probably zero correlation. Once you get past 2-3 years, "novelty" is not a factor any more and the low n/virgin could just have a very low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:19 PM
3

Look at how young women dressed a few decades ago vs now This has come up here repeatedly, but about 20 year ago women dressed way more provocatively in their daily attire than they do today. I used to go to business meetings where there were shitloads of cleavage and tummies and thighs on display. That stopped, the reaction happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 05:53 AM
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Yep, and most of the retarded guys here have it entirely backwards. Filter out the disordered and "cluster b" behavior, and you filter out almost all of the "sluts". And it is much much easier to observe mental behavior than "n-count". There are a few sane highly-sociosexual women out there. Most of them seem to ID as poly or something so they're not suckering capt-sava-hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 05:04 AM
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EGO. These guys don't really care about virgin waifus as much as they kvetch and whine. But men love to be the first stop on the cock carousel, because even if it doesn't work out, like hey you taught them some tricks. Other than that, men just like it when the girls are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:58 AM
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I'm against the n-count crew, but you are 100% right. Women (and men) here often conflate sociosexual attitudes with libido. You can fuck eight different people in a year, or you can fuck your SO eight times over a weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:45 AM
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Atlas has a post up here about how TRP still has some good stuff. But reddit TRP has always been quite rollotarded with the AWALT divorced old man stuff. The old philosophy was more like vet & filter, and maintain abundance so if you fuckup or get it wrong, you can move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:26 AM
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Sometimes, yeah. Other times neh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:43 AM
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No argument here, you need to learn how to pick up subtle IOIs and you gotta approach. But (with one exception) I had better luck with the hot club chicks outside of the club. I've also noticed the mating patterns of really attractive women tends to be entirely organic social circle. They can afford to screen that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:42 AM
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Completely agree, but the stuff about spam approaching 100s of women was complete nonsense. A lot of the game is running into your friend's coworker's cousin (or whoever) who is kinda giving you the eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 05:13 PM
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push/pull dynamic, Mostly agreed about the other stuff, but push-pull is generally quite fun and really essential for 'girl game' too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 05:10 PM
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plebbit is what it is, but it's always been a problem with the pillsphere. Just due to the topic, you're going get these deeply fucked-up guys who think their main problem is girls. Older sites were better about flaming keyboard warriors and bitter middle-aged mgtow losers tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:33 PM
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Social circle stuff has always been underemphasized by RP, probably because its hard/impossible to be prescriptive about, and the payoff can be very long term. But approaching in a warm context is way way way easier. This is especially true with social media, because its no longer about getting her number or 'two ships passing in the night' and explicitly about who you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:26 PM
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Any woman who is just fucking you is either in a transitory stage of life or she will find another guy and ghost you. Pills have some sorta revenge fantasy where they (or Chad) have a completely one-side relationship ... and then find it only works by running dark game on 4/10 fatties. Also the sex is better in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:19 PM
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On a couple occasions when the n-count thing has come up, its been more like boyfriend count. so they're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 10:48 PM
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Women are pretty pilled about this, I think. Actual DQs are more like hookers or sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:48 PM
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poly stuff on ppd = instant downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:32 PM
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I see these posts on reddit like "my ex-bf used to crap his pants because he was too busy gaming. I just thought all men crapped their pants." And its like a) who are these people and b) that guy got a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:27 PM
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When I worked in a hospital, most of the male RNs were gay. But the straight guys were probably swimming in it. nurses can be hella fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:26 PM
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Registered Nurse is actually a well-paying job (6 figures in my area). More men should get into it. Its the assistant type jobs which don't require much training that don't pay well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:43 PM
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This is the kind of thing where if you slept around in college or whatever, it isn't necessarily indicative of your greater values. But if you're still doing that in your 30s, that's the real you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:32 PM
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In my experience, this is something which only comes up after you've been seeing each other for a while, and for most people is more of the "mild curiosity" rather than "dealbreaker" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:15 PM
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Nah, they usually know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:08 PM
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Whatabout the town bikes who found the HVF they deserved?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:00 PM
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Yes, I'm a big proponent of "abundance" , but 99% of TRP wouldn't know what to do with abundance if they won it in the lottery. I mean it would like being moving out of their mom's basement or somethihng. So TRPs actual suggestion is "you're probably just as retarded as me", so punt. Reddit TRP does not recommend trying to vet nor do they have any useful advice to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 06:55 AM
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This is why TRP constantly and heavily tells men to VET, VET, VET, like your life depends on it. I'm generally red. But one of my biggest issue with the actual strategy on reddit TRP, is they do not do this. TRP actually does not tell men to vet, or how to vet, or what common personality disorders to look out for, or what positive traits you want (beyond sex and cleaning). Instead they write massive essays about how your unicorn is really a goat in a party hat and NAWALTs are AWALTS. They run in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 06:08 AM
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Pretty obvious this place is full of guys who are NOT able to hold it together in the real world. Keep in mind Elliot Rodger was a coherent internet poster, but everyone who knew him thought he was a total psycho (which he was).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:53 PM
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Maybe this stuff is coming back, good discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:04 PM
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I don't think makeup works that way in person, and I'm certainly not a 9. But "you are what you eat" has always worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:40 PM
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hmm, maybe i got kinda spoiled. I'd just cel it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:06 PM
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Yep, best strategy by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 09:48 PM
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Yep, they are ignoring there is a lot of single 22 yearolds and maybe a lot of 38 yo divorcees, but for all they talk about the "sexual marketplace" they don't get how it works - ppl get in relationships and leave it. (Guess i'll try not get divorced.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 09:24 PM
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A lot of women around here assume any body-builder type is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:32 PM
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Because this topic is about how purplepilldebate is overwhelmingly sex-negative, completely unlike the rest of "bluepill" reddit. Go over to r\sex and ask about "what casual sex is doing to our social environment" and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:10 PM
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You're right. One good thing about the old game forums is they were very anti "keyboard warrior", and if someone wasn't out field-testing stuff they would get flamed. TRP invited the keyboard warriors in and then its all guys who aren't dating talking about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:04 PM
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Women might want to experiment with stuff (say bdsm) with an FWB but wouldn't want it in a full time relationship. I wouldn't say its better or worse, just that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:27 PM
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There's a hot versus crazy tradeoff where the mentally unhealthy women end up dating down (or often seek out 'white knights'). But yeah dating mentally healthy women is a good idea because something like 20% of women have a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:17 PM
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It's true those guys tend to be "good-looking but I'd never get serious with him" (maybe he's a jerk, maybe he's just unemployed or any other reason.) That is probably a lot more common than "couldn't secure commitment from chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:12 PM
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Was going to say that PPD so out of topics ppl are discussing Andrea Dworkin. But maybe she was ultimately a lot more influential among tradcon type women than feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:56 PM
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TRP was always a lie and a power fantasy. You take men who are bad at filtering women or don't know how to relate to them and promise them a lifestyle of commitment-free plate-spinning sex. These guys then see women on tinder or instagram (or even porn) and assume there's some abundance of sluts out there they just don't have access to. And then they end up enormously bitter that their fantasy did not come true. But rather than come to the correct conclusion it was all a lie, they invented this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:23 PM
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Most of my casual stuff was with women pretty much in the same league as the serious relationships. I think chad fucks down a lot less than you guys think. (This is perhaps based on basement-dwellers chadfishing rather than IRL observations.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:55 PM
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I think there's blue as in "not red", but really it's "sex-positivism" which is the dominant ideology on reddit and where TBP sub was coming from. And that gets into lgbt, poly, bdsm, etc. TRP can be really sex-negative, despite claiming otherwise. And then you have FDS, RP women, incels, and whoever else is posting on PPD. (There even some insane guy in this thread claiming men don't like casual sex.) Anyway, most guys figure something out that doesn't involve looking like a roided underwear mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:41 PM
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I also know a lot of assimilated normal indian/asian people, so not sure if that's the issue or this is some political thing. Here is the bothersome stuff which comes up all the time a) any theory where men were simply gifted wives in recent history and didn't have to compete ... would even never occur to your average american. b) alphafux/betabux is actually a more accurate description of arranged marriages than love marriages. Most ppl marry someone they really like having sex with and most am…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:40 PM
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I think it's also just the reality of approx. 30 year old men. The attractive ones can still date women in their 20s. Meanwhile the women their own age don't look as good (as they used to) and are in Husband Hunter mode too. If redpill works that's what they do. Where I disagree with them is younger women inherently have a better mentality/attitude - when what really happens is the good ones get taken off the market pretty quickly. Also men are in denial about "the wall" too ... everyone gets ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:37 AM
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Jennifer Aniston was 30 when Friends was still on. But yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:30 AM
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Dworkin is actually a good writer imo, but the pseudo-freudian stuff is really dated. prepare to bog through a bunch of stuff about how men want to crawl back up their mother's vagina and how this playboy centerfold is a metaphor for the holocaust. But i always had a certain amount of respect for the radfem perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:21 PM
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A number of people I went to high school with ended up with advanced degrees, and they all had dates/girlfriends. And many of the "nerds" were not that intelligent at all. So imo this correlation is highly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:10 PM
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No excuses, just real talk that shit happens sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:05 PM
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As a starters, simping will probably die out fast because it fails as a reproductive strategy. God yes, at least in the old days the simps got a happy ending from the stripper, now they only get some onlyfans girl to show them her butthole or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:02 PM
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That stuff was never RP and actually explicitly contrary to their strategy, but the mods allowed it and banned ppl who complained, so here we are. And idk, but I think it was less about "the good ol days" and more about India or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:59 PM
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lol these guys were so broke they didn't buy food. I'm a proponent of low body fat theory, but then i'm not posting pix on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:14 PM
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Have known some hipster guys like that with qt girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:55 PM
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In the usual case I think they're completely aware they're violating social boundaries, they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:49 PM
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There's been a few times when I've been walking around with a woman and some guy wants to talk shit to her, but instead directs it at me. Kinda amazing at how disgusting some men can be. Sometimes there's a class aspect, like the guy is drag the women down into the gutter with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:49 PM
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One thing is women often maintain a polite fiction about this kind of stuff among themselves, and tend to have a very small innercircle where perhaps the real stuff is discussed. The other thing is most people haven't systematized dating at all, and mostly they just "get lucky", so they don't know what they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:22 PM
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I first heard about TRP several years ago and was told by other people that it was a right wing political ideology, but when I actually read TRP write ups it had nothing to do with politics it was just a self help approach to dating. A couple reasons. The term "red pill" also gets used in far right circles, and there's probably some crossover there. And reddit TRP used have tons of threads about how women shouldn't be allowed to vote, or how sexual liberation was destroying society and so on. St…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:02 PM
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not edgy enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:11 PM
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Savior complex is a mistake, but yeah i've never known a guy who wanted a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:57 PM
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Young guys have never cared about that stuff b/c obviously they like it when the girls are easy. the weird indian guys here don't really represent anyone you'd actually date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:39 PM
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You used to get a girls number, but now you hit each other up on social media? What are your logistics if you run into someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:57 PM
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Men can be infinitely delusional, but when it's pay-per-meet that's just straight-up prostitution. There used to be a sort of art to this where the generous older boyfriend just picked-up the tuition bill and both parties could maintain a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:45 PM
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When I first moved to Marin Co, a juvenile deer buck jumped out from behind a motel and glanced off my honda. Little damage to the car, but the deer's backleg was sideways. I'm standing there WTFing when a sheriff deputy just happened to drive by. I watched him shoot the guy in the head with his revolver. Despite it being the most humane thing to do, everytime I tell this story a few ppl are horrified. Hopefully you can find a 'country expert' on this, but throwing my luck your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:48 AM
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More women for chad then i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:45 PM
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hookers in thailand maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:44 PM
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I've seen a number of instances where a woman got married and her company email just got deleted or rendered inoperable for two weeks. Even if you legally change it, you probably should keep your maiden name for professional reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:26 PM
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I'm not going to pretend to have real numbers, but add up all the women who have been the "other woman" or had a "generous boyfriend" or weren't "looking for anything serious" and the numbers are significant. PPD is all about flexing on the female social matrix, so nobody wants to talk about what they actually do. The fact you're bringing up the "polyamory community" (which are mostly fugs) means you're not talking about the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:59 PM
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As if the world isn't already full of rapey hobos and NiceGuys and etc, ppl are going to start worrying about these barely-functional basement-dwellers. Maybe they don't get that on some level this shit just drives women into the arms of the "protector" type guys aka chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:45 PM
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having been the neighbor here, you don't call the first or second time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:16 PM
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Men need to be smart enough to gtfo in these situations. we had a local politician prosecuted for DV because he pinned the wrists of his crazy latin american soap opera wife and she took a picture of the almost invisible bruise. she stood by him the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:12 PM
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ty, i doubt most terps could even source this. It gets thrown around as a pseudoscientific excuse for any reason the guy's dick isn't getting sucked, which is "not redpill" as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:41 PM
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That's practically statistically neglible and certainly does not create a "universal" trend. I don't think so. If 5% of women are 'sharing' a man, another 5% are sugarbabies/golddiggers, another 5% are riding the chad carousel, and so on, it adds up and creates a domino effect. Also it tends to be the most attractive women involved in these shenanigans. > polyamory community Despite the stereotypes, but there are definitely some more evolved alfas operating in that space.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:37 PM
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Yeah, I get the chart really means X,Y,Z, etc. I'm saying some guys here believe what the chart literally says. One thread I can remember was about doctors marrying instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:29 PM
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Yeah all the 'autistic' logic I've seen here about n-count has soured the whole concept of n-count for me. Its something maybe ppl are mildly curious about IRL, but definitely an abnormal way of processing the world. It also has very little to do with red pill, other than some where have all the good girls gone logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:14 PM
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Yeah, I had a girlfriend who I'm pretty sure was 'on the spectrum', and all the girling beauty stuff is very routinized and can be sperged over. So maybe femspergs just fit in better than the males.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:09 PM
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TRP has zero space for women who do not behave like crazy jerks. Its been said that TRP warns about "cluster b" women, but their entire strategy is based around attracting these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:04 PM
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There was a frathouse around here who got expelled when they did a porn shoot. Of course the girls were all pros.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:47 AM
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We used to make arby's jokes in high school, i don't think anyone really believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:00 PM
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The husband always finds the video!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:05 PM
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I've seen several guys here who believe in the Rational Male™️ SMV By Age chart and assume they're going to have a massive glowup in their mid 30s. But then I've also seen several guys here cite porn as documentary evidence of female sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 06:03 PM
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Average dudes, most women don't even want ug orbiters. (of course orbiting is pretty unattractive in its own right)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:01 PM
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Spinning game does work, but you're coming off as an easy manslut, so the woman has to be looking for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:32 PM
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Sometimes the mood is off or the sex just sucks or the red flags come out tho. A lot of one/two night stands are just relationships which never got off the ground, not someone getting over on the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:19 PM
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The real takeaway is women tend to know a guy. why a stranger when you can call your friend's ex or the weedguy or whoever. So the trick is to be that guy. Maybe it works better in vacation spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 05:07 PM
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Sex-positive women who want to get laid. Usually they are the one doing the pumping and dumping. Guys here have their power/revenge fantasy about Chad denying commitment, but at least some redpills understand the real trick is appearing to be "not boyfriend material".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:34 PM
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In my 20s i spent a lot of time in bars/clubs and I got some digits but the number of times I actually left with a strange girl you could count on less than one hand (and even then i only sometimes got laid). What tended to work better was going out with a m/f social group or going to an after-party or something. When pickup was a thing, i asked some women about this and even the kinda slutty ones would never ever ever go home with a guy from a bar. So i'm thinking this was always super low perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:06 PM
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Yeah, friends of mine will date these women and the pickings aren't great. But let me indulge in my plate-spinning fantasies..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:56 PM
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When I looked at it, there was a lot of "how long should i wait until I reply to his text?" type questions. Like most of reddit, real basic 101 type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:47 PM
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Yeah, I dunno about tinder, but around here there's these kinda thirsty-looking 30s chicks in their yoga outfits, so they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:43 PM
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One some level yes, but on another level no. Attractive women in their 30s really do have essentially infinite abundance on OLD and there's no wall. My understanding is that dating in your early-mid 30s has real "picking through the leftovers" nature, but otoh if yer butt is tight you're getting the best leftovers. Also funny how they ban FDS due to "redpill".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:37 AM
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Because one of their members was arrested for terrorism. Reddit really has no consistent standard and just blocks things when they get bad press.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:00 PM
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My general impression is people's sex lives are usually way more boring than PPD likes to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:28 PM
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Saw another study about socialsexual orientation, and people who with high orientation (sluts) are less than 10% of the population, and they mostly hookup with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:23 PM
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Just don't date tall girls - they don't like it when the "6 foot" guy is shorter than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:24 PM
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I'm over OKC studies because IMO it was a pretty broken dating model. Men sprayed everyone while women sent almost no messages, so neither was strong indicator of intent. Tinder supposedly uses geolocation to determine if people actually went on a date, so their data is certainly better. I'm just saying what I've observed in the real world that the "beta orbiter" is usually two points lower on the scale ... and doesn't know it. Anyway the question was about guys following instagram models or sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:08 PM
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If you are talking about gen-z, don't forget there is an enormous youth premium for women. A "college 5" might be a real world 7, because there are essentially ∞ men who would date an "average" 21 year old. And yeah, the math is the younger guys are kinda screwed until they get into their later 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:40 PM
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I don't buy it. Men go for women out-of-their league all the time, because they are in denial what league they are actually in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:47 PM
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I went to State U and the majority of the 40,000+ students were commuters who lived with their parents or in an apartment with a bunch of people while working full time. The "college experience" scene (which I was in) was a relatively small part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:36 PM
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That's what that one redpill poly guy ended up doing. Turned out all his "fuckbuddies" were from a sugar baby site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:26 PM
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Right, the person who has always shown monogamist tenancies until they started crushing on their coworker and want to have their cake and eat it too so they "come out" as poly... Which never actually works out. These types of alternate arrangements generally need to be in place up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:12 PM
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Maybe I've just been lucky enough to date more intelligent women, but "hottie" is totally an outfit they put on. In a meat market environment, guys aren't responding to your conversation or cute nose or anything other than fleshmeat. Even the women who don't have much else going for them know beauty is a routine. Does it attract horny alfalfa guys? no shit. Are they any good? who knows. But girls who got it know how it works. I guess the CMV here is women have all sorts of self-help and therapeu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:53 AM
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Yeah, about your chad friend, he's probably considered creepy by some people, or will be when he targets his behavior to the wrong audience. When I was a teenager, I'd talk up teenage girls in the mall. Obviously if I did that now as an old man it would be very inappropriate and "creepy". But stuff like this happens all the time. This isn't a difficult concept, so you must have a dedication to ignorance about how men actually behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:19 AM
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You can certainly make the argument that the term has been watered down too much. But that doesn't change the fact there are tons of guys intentionally doing and saying stuff which they know completely violates social boundaries. Its like you want to be willfully ignorant about all the gross perverts out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:13 PM
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Some of that can be explained by women being with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:43 PM
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Strange how there's better things to do than creep on some random teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:34 PM
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Meh, maybe this is true of younger inexperienced women. But I think more attractive women tend to back it up in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 05:18 PM
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Chads too! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hphwfq1wLJs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:33 AM
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More of a contemporary with Pitt, but def a hot guy in his prime. (This is getting to be a very old story that I've posted in pillspaces several times so apolog for the reruns.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:25 AM
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Most couples are pretty looks-matched, so yes it matters a lot. For years, I worked in an area with a lot of tourists from everywhere. Whenever I saw an attractive woman, 99% of the time the guy fit. The other 1% was so incongruent I suspected sugarbaby. People who report seeing a lot of hot/ugly or ugly/hot couples, I simply do not believe. Their sensors must be malfunctioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:00 AM
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About "hot celebrities" - women are imagining these guys wearing a tuxedo and standing on the red carpet taking the woman on a dream date. Meanwhile, a friend of mine worked in a restaurant, and no names, but this actor who was maybe a notch below Brat Pitt would come in. He was undercover wearing a tourist sweatshirt and a greasy ass backwards baseball cap and he's average height IRL. And sometimes he'd come in with his wife and kid. But other times he come in with a buddy and would hit on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:52 AM
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Yeah there's the old line about for every hot woman, there's some guy who is sick of fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:40 AM
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Since nobody else mentioned it .... hormonal birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:18 PM
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True, but real life is generally more complex than the simplistic explanations posited here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:13 PM
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I think there's an effect where TRP really can only help the normie 'average frustrated chump', but the content is too extreme for normies and drives them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 10:05 PM
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This doesn't really surprise me. I think redpill guys grossly overestimate the average male libido (due to thirst). I've known a few attractive women who were with men not that interested in fugging them. Sometimes it is booze/weed or cooming, but other times who knows? Also some guys have some madonna thing when they have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 08:10 PM
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Reminds me of this conversation with my old gf's friend. Like yeah, its perfectly okay to reject a guy because he's unemployed. What's he doing on a dating site anyway? get a job. Standards aren't as high as ppl here wanna believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:23 PM
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Haha, I was never the best at backpaking or dating, but it tends to work out in the end. Finding your mate while young is the BEST strategy. Most of the bullshit on this sub is ppl dealing with the "leftovers" on the dating market. Why? Because the good people are go quickly. Tune out the pills now, out and focus on a solid partnership, and you young folks can have a very long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:31 AM
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Don't get this post. Is this some "In Defense of Rapey Hobos" logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:13 AM
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Great approach and completely legit. Authentic HVW get taken off the market FAST. Get with them whenever you can. I know a bunch of college/hs sweetheart couples who have booked 20+ years now. Some of them broke up early on and got back together once they realized how many LV people are on the market. (Myself, I could have married my first serious gf, but for LDR fail, and instead I wandered in the wilderness for 10 years.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:07 AM
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What's wrong with that sub? Stacymaxxing seems legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:37 PM
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CMV: any man who is wound up and triggered by FDS is not really red-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 03:42 PM
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Yeah. I think they "beta tested" FDS on PPD, and realized it drove beta males nutzo. And then they decided to make a sub out it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 03:37 PM
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I just drove by to make a purple point about how TRP "dating strategy" is totally fine for certain demographics, but not others. I'm not here to develop a "male dating strategy checklist". But if I was, redpill-type ideas about abundance and frame and so on are part of the foundation of good relationships IMO. The theory is sound, the conclusions are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 03:48 AM
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That too :) But the basic mistake guys make is the attractive woman with an awful personality, messed-up life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 11:04 PM
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Yeah, back when I was dating I had a pretty redpilled strategy (pre-trp), so I don't understand how "don't even try" became the "alpha" approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:27 PM
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Lie down and rot -- PPD is full of guys who have given up (or never tried). But compatible personality, mores, libido, etc. Like I said, BP stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:21 PM
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Most men here are LDAR so you'll have to find someone else to write up male dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:37 PM
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TRP actually had a real cringy guide for talking your 'plate' into getting an abortion. The anti-abortion stuff is mostly from tradcon incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:34 PM
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TRP as a "dating strategy" (as opposed to some ideological bs) is mostly aimed at two groups: 1) young horny guys 2) divorced men who have been-there-done-that. Fucking around and using 'plate strategy' is fine for those guys. Red Pill is admittedly useless at finding a "high value female", In fact it says if you think you've found one, you're probably just thinking with your dick, cuz AWALT and etc. But really it is because TRP men are huge losers and have an all-encompassing loser mentality to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:30 PM
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I'll just say that only low-drive men could be happy with random casual sex. Even the finest of regular chads don' t score on that consistent of a basis, or it is like a joke where they fucked a beast. When I was a college student, I had sex with my 'girlfriends' a lot, maybe dozens of times a week. And they usually came way more than I did. That is what young healthy bodies are meant to do. Feel bad for any young folks who couldnt just fall in with another lusty on a bare mattress..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:43 AM
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Actually, IME the more attractive women are more likely to approach. This is true for the 9s at least (my 9s). They get so much male attention, they have to cut through all the bullshit and send the invite wagon. Or, to say, they take their pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:30 AM
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The truth is straight men just cannot rate the SMV of themselves or other men. This is not "virtue signaling" like women do about their porkpie friends. We men actually can NOT see it what makes a hawt guy different from a lesser one. Plus a lot of guys consider ANY form of looksmaxing to be "gay" even if it is just not being a fatass who never showers. Wahmen should love your insides amirite. So it is very easy for them to swollow the pill about it being all about "personality" or "game". Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:18 AM
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I talk to women about this stuff, because they have the better intel on how successful guys operate. And apparently most guys are pretty straight up about what they are looking for. Aka, FDS stuff is guarding a problem which doesn't really exist. Plenty of couples fucked on the first date and have been together for years, so I just don't think its a reliable indicator of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:45 PM
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Totally agreed about reddit. There's some dynamic where all the men whine about how women won't directly ask them out. Then redditwoman comes into karma whore about how she always makes the first move, giving these guys false hope. Being self-confident enough to make the first move is often a self-fulling maneuver.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 07:15 PM
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The thing is this goes both ways, and you can do the dance and wait three months, but if the guy sucks in bed or red flags appear, women will branch swing right out of there. I see no evidence the waiting game does anything but screen out the most the most obvious hit-it-and-quit it guys. The more alpha guys are usually straight-up about being non-committal or looking for fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:29 PM
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I definitely would, women wanting to do kinky shit with you is a big positive. But if you want to wait a few dates for the bdsm stuff, that's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:15 PM
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