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LIES MEN TELL1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:54 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:27 PM
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QUEEN SH*T1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:06 PM
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LEVEL UP1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:21 PM
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FDS HUMOR1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:04 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:18 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFE1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:15 PM
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COUCH CREATURES1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:58 PM
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STRATEGY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:33 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:39 PM
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LIES MEN TELL1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:40 PM
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LIES MEN TELL1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:47 AM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:18 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTS1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:24 PM
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NAH, SIS1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:50 PM
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CMV1Here4Bach/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:41 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:06 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:39 PM
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1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:45 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:48 PM
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LIES MEN TELL1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:59 PM
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NAH, SIS1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:50 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 07:00 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 01:15 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:27 PM
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1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:35 AM
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STRATEGY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 04:58 PM
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FDS MEMES1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:33 PM
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1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:52 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:41 PM
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1Here4Bach/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:43 PM
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STRATEGY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 02:54 PM
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CMV1Here4Bach/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:18 PM
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QUEEN SH*T1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 07:10 PM
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LibFem Logic1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:21 AM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:30 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:46 PM
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DISCUSSION1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:26 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFE1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:39 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFE1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 05:42 PM
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COUCH CREATURES1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:03 PM
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1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:55 PM
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QUEEN SH*T1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:04 PM
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LIES MEN TELL1Here4Bach/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:30 PM
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CMV1Here4Bach/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:21 PM
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Have you take a second to realize the young people who can afford to go to the resort that you work at are in a different socioeconomic class. The richer a couple tends to be the hotter they are. The inverse is also truth, the poorer the uglier. At Walmart you’ll see young obese couples and young ugly couples. Again, you’re displaying selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:14 PM

It’s a joke to get a rise out of males like you. It worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:43 PM

How do you know they’re lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 PM
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They projecting male sexuality on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:20 AM
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Married Men — Not Women — Are Fatter Than Their Singleton Counterparts No. Males have literally no excuse to be fat. Everything works in their favorite to be thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:53 PM
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Married Men — Not Women — Are Fatter Than Their Singleton Counterparts The average American husband is fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:53 PM
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Males want to do everything but be hot for their wife. They gain 50lbs, stop take care of themselves, become a lazy lover and wonder why their wife is trying to find an excuse not to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:06 PM

The worst thing I can think of is getting with a male and having to speak up for him in conflict situations because he’s too afraid to stand up for himself. Makes me physically cringe thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:46 PM

Or they want you to leave them alone. Just an idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:32 PM
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She looks to be a literal child and he sounds like he’s an adult he also sounds drunk. Yes he’s a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:54 PM
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Males finding out they get what they give: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:52 PM
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Dude, if a woman is laying on top of you. All you would have to do is get up (unless she’s extremely overweight). You’re underestimating how much stronger the average male is to the average woman. A woman can not hold a male down if he doesn’t want to be held down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 PM
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You can try being something you aren’t but if you’re uncomfortable with putting on the act, you’re going to come off as a try hard and a fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:50 PM
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One is social the other is biological. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:49 PM
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Also, the big factor in fighting back against a woman is that, if she receives any injury, everyone is going to assume you were the attacker. I had a woman start beating on me once, and I just sat there and took it because I was afraid of getting in trouble for hurting her. I walked away bruised and bloodied. Who said anything about fighting? Simply forcefully pushing a woman will move her enough so you can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:47 PM
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I think I a lot of cases, being ‘made to penetrate’ is happening while the individual is unconscious. Then that counts as incapacitated. I think most people don’t believe a fully aware, sober, able-bodied adult male can be raped by a woman. Also, verbal forms of coercion can be used. Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:30 PM
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I think it has roots in the truth with the obvious exceptions of a woman molesting a male child or a woman raping an incapacitated or disabled male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:24 PM
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Guys here get very mad when they find out that female and male sexuality and motivations are not the same. Completely shocked, I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:20 PM
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Stop comparing your dating success to that of women. We aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:10 PM
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Yes. The easiest way to get a partner for someone who isn’t blindingly attractive is through friends, coworkers or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:07 PM
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Higher percentage of out lesbian and bi women dating other women as opposed to gay and bi males. 18-24 year old women dating 25-30 year old males. Women who claim exclusivity with a non-committal male (unrequited FWB love, situationships etc). If a male and a woman have a frequent on and off relationship, the women is more likely to still say she’s in a relationship when they’re “off”. The male is more likely to say that he’s single when they’re “off”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:05 PM
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It’s trivialized the same way female on male domestic violence is. Because males are stronger than women and people expect them to be able to fight their female attacker off. The average woman can’t overpower a male attempting to rape or beat her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:40 PM

She’s joking. She’s expressing her attraction through a jest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:32 PM

Just because they find him attractive doesn’t mean they’d leave their husband for him. That’s like saying every male would leave his wife for his favorite porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:23 PM
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You realize it happens in other militaries that aren’t the US military?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:06 PM
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Above average males aren’t struggling. You made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:51 PM
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Nope give me the hot autistic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:43 PM
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The majority of women don’t like to teach a male things it makes us feel like his mother. Anything that an adult male should know (paying bills, how to get a job, how to change a tire, etc) women don’t want to teach. That includes sex. Also males who are virgins often grow to be controlling and possessive over the woman than lose their virginity to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:55 PM
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We don’t care. Take responsibility for your life and what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:22 PM
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Send your sons back to the coal mines (metaphorically). Throw his fucking PS5, xbox, tablet, roided up gaming computer out the fucking window. Boys who are coddled turn in to whiny and insecure men. While parents wanted to make a better life for their kids they over corrected way too much. They bow down to their 3 year old sons every wish, they don’t make their sons go out and get a job or do charity so he can learn different prospectives and not grow into an entitled male. learn manual labor ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:22 PM
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Males with psycho traits don’t have a sign on their head that says “psycho”. This is what you’re not getting. No one believed bill Cosby was a rapist until all of those women came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:10 PM
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If a guy is constantly getting reject when approaching, what makes him think women will want to approach him if it was the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:17 PM
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This has been posted a thousand times. The egg doesn’t chase the sperm, it’s the other way around. The average woman gets enough suitors they don’t need to go out of their way to ask out a male. You wish women would approach and I wish males had the ability to gestate and breast feed babies so I don’t have to do it. We all wish would could change biological truths but we can’t. Male hormones (testosterone) are literally yelling at them to approach women (or other males depending on their sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:41 PM
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Mating became a global competition as soon as the internet was invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:19 PM
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Michelangelo, T.E. Lawrence….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:13 PM
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Sure but there needs to be a base line internal motive that has nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:10 PM
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It’s unethical sure but I don’t think it crosses the threshold of illegal behavior. The punishment for this would be public shaming. Air their shit out. Let everyone know that person is a liar and let women know to stay away from him. I think that’s adequate treatment for people who lie to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:34 PM
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Every great male who has ever achieved anything has had internal motivation. They were moved to action not because of promises of love and sex but because they were passionate about something. Women do not want hollow males who are only driven when there is a woman who dangles a sex carrot in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:27 PM
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Their parents (and society) coddled them way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:19 PM
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Then they proceed to blame women for them being too scared to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:59 PM
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There is a logical reason a male would want to work out what has nothing to do with getting laid or being brainwashed by our consumerist overlords. Working out is healthy, makes you stronger and it makes you feel younger longer. Not everything is a mass conspiracy. There’s a huge market for workout related products because many people want to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:56 PM
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If muscles were cheap most guys would be ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:42 PM
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Mmm I don’t think it should be the default. When ever there is a deal made like that of exclusivity it needs to be communicated. You wouldn’t say you got a job just because you went through two interviews with a company.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:52 PM
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No one wants to take responsibility for their actions anymore. “That OF model made me give her $500. I had no choice!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:44 PM
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What makes you think that dude wasn't going to make you his girlfriend? His actions made it pretty clear. He was pretty inconsistent. What if the one who actually cares winds up being the optimal long term partner for you, but you lost out on the chance because you wanted to look out for your own interests above all else? Any serious guy would know it’s unreasonable to ask someone to drop the other people they’re dating before exclusivity (in some capacity) is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:50 PM
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I really don’t think it’s anyone’s business unless they actually ask, I’m not giving the information away freely. I’ve dated 3-4 guys at once before. It’s nice to have people to compare others to and make sure you’re actually choosing the best and most compatible one for you out of what you can get. I’m not dropping the other guys just because some dude who was not going to make me his girlfriend anyway is jealous or territorial or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:53 PM
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A 15 year old girl was stabbed to death after rejecting a 17 year old male. Who is lying? Everyone knows what the deal is with males. Not sure why you’re in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:40 PM
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This phenomenon pre dates social media and the manosphere. Some of the first school shootings in America (19th century) were because an entitled male suitor got rejected by a school teacher and he’d show up to her class and kill her. It’s almost like males have always been this way….almost like it’s biological and they should be treated like a threat until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:32 PM
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I don’t think age gap relationships are common at all, so I wouldn’t call them a trend. I don’t think a certain kind of relationship can be shamed into happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:37 PM
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That 60% of single males number you keep throwing around is null and void considering people break up and get into relationships everyday. Today 60% of males may be single. Tomorrow 40% maybe single. You can’t measure something that changes as frequently as relationship status with a static survey. Did you not read my post? I already told you why males are addicted to porn. You say, hypothetically, if you had a woman to love and have sex with you that you would stop porn but you don’t know that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:16 PM
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You can just say porn. And it’s Occam’s razor. The most obvious and simple answer is the answer. And the most straightforward answer is many males have porn addictions because male sexuality lends itself to be influenced and addictive. Without sexual obsessions and monomania male sexuality would just be female sexuality. Just like people who have a parent who is an addict, they become likely to become one, males are pre-disposed to have some kind of sexual addiction or fixation. Most males have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 PM
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If someone works 55 hours a week and only makes 45k and another person work 35 hours a week and make 200k, it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:34 PM
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Who cares? The existence of their sub doesn’t prove they’re the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:01 AM

So the same thing males do here every day with almost every post they make? It’s a problem now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:31 AM

This is why judges don’t give dads custody in case any of you were still wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:22 AM
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Creating “healthy” males takes decades and I’m not 100% sure it’s possible for even the majority of males to become what women want them to become. Divorce is the last option for most women. They do try to “fix” their husband and make them understand what they need to do to make the relationship successful, still, it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:21 PM
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Your comment isn’t relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:15 PM
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I don’t get this question. No one is going to admit to being a rapist/boundary pusher, even if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:55 PM
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You’re changing your argument because your original one is failing. You said women are bad at marriage. You didn’t say “lesbians are bad at marriage compared to gay men”. Ignoring the vast majority of lesbian couples that stay married and pointing at the minority as evidence that women are bad at marriage is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:44 PM
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You don’t need any extra information. OP’s argument was “women are bad at marriage”. Period. Full stop. 86% isn’t bad. It’s lower than gay males but your can’t objectively say 86% of anything is bad or failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:41 PM
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From the link: “The following table outlines the frequency of sexual activity for married couples in 2016–2018:” It’s sad that people are so desperate for a “gotcha” that they don’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:38 PM
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How many sexless marriages are hidden from these statistics because they ended in a divorce? Idk you tell me. If you actually read the post you'd know that he also compared divorce rates between heterosexual, gay male, and lesbian marriages. The stats conveniently don’t bring up heterosexual divorce rates in the same period of time. 14% divorce rate among lesbians in a 10 year period (which means 86% of lesbian couples didn’t divorce in the 10 year span) doesn’t support your or OP’s argument tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:37 PM
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But 86% still doesn’t support your argument that women suck at marriage. Surely if women suck that number would be a lot lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:23 PM
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If you actually clicked the link you’d see that they polled both males and women about how often they have sex with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:45 PM
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….I’m going off of what you said. You said 14% of lesbian marriage end in divorce within 10 years of marriage. Which means 86% of lesbians marriages don’t divorce within 10 years. What’s 100%-14%? 86.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:39 PM
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You said women aren’t good at marriage. 86% of lesbian marriages last 10 years. The lesbian divorce rate doesn’t support your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:02 PM
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You’re trying to treat a symptom without identifying the cause. A sexless marriage is a manifestation of a much larger issue. But instead of investigating what that issue may be (it’s different for every couple) you latch on to the fact that there’s no sex. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:25 PM
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Most heterosexual couples have sex at least once a week. Completely sexless marriages are rare. You said women are bad at marriage but the only thing you brought up is sex. I find it funny that males only measure a successful marriage by how much sex they get. It may be the reason why some women withhold sex when other areas of the relationship are failing because that’s the only language males speak. There are 272827 other things that make a good marriage. Couldn’t you say that it’s actually ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:16 PM
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I’m just glad they’re saying it. So many women have been brainwashed by males into thinking that males are secret hopeless romantics when that’s the furtherest thing from reality. They all basically want one-sided open relationships or one-sided FWB situations. Anything else to them is settling. You see how males would move if they had options. Treat them accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:06 PM
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That’s why it’s society. Without extrovert-based activities there would literally be no society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:22 AM
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This constant call to cater to people who have social anxiety and insecurity is ridiculous. People who are like that past 18 need to grow up. Everyone (including) extroverts have to do something that makes them uncomfortable and pushes them out of their comfortable zone. Stop asking to be coddled. You’re an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:20 AM
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They wouldn’t leave their kid alone with any male. Which is why babysitters are exclusively women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:17 AM
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They’ve been together for 40 years since college. He’s never lived by himself. My mom has always been there to do that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:12 AM
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Don’t pretend you know my father better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:06 PM
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How about instead of going to the complete opposite end of the spectrum they just adopt the “life happens people change. I’ll try my hardest to make our marriage work but if doesn’t then it doesn’t” mentality? “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” is the mentality of someone who KNOWS their marriage is going to fail and as a result is going to do very little to reciprocate. The whole situation will become a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:30 PM
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Males get destroyed by divorce because In marriage, they get everything take care for them and they don’t notice it until after the wife is gone. I’d say my dad and mom have a pretty equal marriage. They both work and my dad “cleans” to some existent. But he doesn’t know how to cook nutritious meals at all. Without my mom he’d be living on fast food, pancakes and TV dinners. Probably dying of a heart attack in 5 years due to the how bad his diet would get. My mom manages all aspects of his socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:08 PM

It is the male imperative to keep women’s expectations dirt low because males who aren’t reciprocal are the males who use women for sex. The longer she expects little from a male the longer he’ll be able to drag the “relationship” out by promising her he’ll be ready for commitment “some day”. The male sexual agenda is at odds with the female romantic agenda which is why when males come online and complain about women’s “high standards” they should be ignored. A woman with low standards is a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:05 PM

If you look closely enough all these dudes want women hotter or better than they perceive themselves to be. It’s so fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:53 PM

Your inability to recognize women have their own lives, inter worlds and emotions that might effect their ability to act like a bubbly, cheery anime character 24/7 is fascinating. Women aren’t NPC and you aren’t the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:15 PM
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Those women just don’t want to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:14 PM
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I care about the truth which incels here clearly aren’t interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:20 PM
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You picked the youngest looking 30 year old male you could find along with the oldest looking 22 year old male you could find. Lol great job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:45 PM
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Why would I be happy about something that isn’t actually happening but is being exaggerating by incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:39 PM
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You’re right. Most males don’t become really emotionally attached to the idea of fatherhood until their child is around six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:43 AM
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This post highlights how males on this sub are desperate to make it seem like the average male is getting absolutely nothing. It’s dramatic, overblown and sensationalized and its why people don’t take incels seriously. Most males will have sex, most males will get married, most males will have children. Will all males have children? Of course not. And all males SHOULDN’T have children. The male population having guaranteed paternity was never in the human DNA just like it’s not in almost every o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:22 AM

Why do you keep bringing up feminism? This has absolutely nothing to do with that. A woman can buy her own vacations AND want a surprise vacation from her significant other. These aren’t mutually exclusive. If you want a low maintenance woman who will never ask you for a single thing because you can’t afford it go find her and leave rest of us alone. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:05 PM

It's ridiculous when you realize that young women are now out earning young men, especially in cities. It's ridiculous when you realize that we've spent the past 7 decades making progress towards gender equality. It's ridiculous when you realize that other couples spending habits have nothing to do with your relationship. I'm not saying don't buy your partner things if you want to, but expecting your partner to buy things that you want and can afford is ridiculous and outdated. Women have to mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:54 PM

I think the difference between those two examples is that the woman could easily buy herself a hotel experience, whereas the sexual activities are a shared experience that you need the other person to have. I get the jealousy of the second situation, but not the first one. Sure a woman could buy herself a hotel just like a male can jerk himself off. I don't get being jealous of something you could easily buy yourself like that. When I see someone eating some food I like, I don't think, "Wow, I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:19 PM
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All is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:03 PM

Tyrannical overlords?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:17 PM

Some people brag about their partner to others constantly, some people talk shit about their partners non stop. But you know a relationship is absolutely fucked when someone doesn’t bring up their partner up in conversation at all. Not in a good way, not in a bad way; just nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:00 PM

Based Padre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:48 PM

You don’t want some random boy’s horniness pushed all up on your daughter bro. Especially to the point where she feels pressured which happens to most teen girls. The thought of that happening disgusts fathers. They see teen boys as horny little chihuahuas that they need to keep away from their daughter as long as possible. I think fathers respect grown males dating their adult daughters a lot more than teen boys dating her when she was a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:41 PM

I don’t think male sexuality on paper is disgusting. There needs to be far more sexual discipline than males display now. male sexuality is so easily influenced by other factors which cause many males to become sexual deviants or sexually aggressive and think everyone needs to bow down to the whims of their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:36 PM

Nothing highlights that males are disgusted by their own sexuality more than when a father has a dating age teen daughter. Suddenly they think all males are dangerous pervs and male sexuality is something that needs to be closely monitored and controlled. Oh nooowww you see how manipulative and maladjusted males can be. Now you believe women and want to protect them. How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:26 PM
3

Yes he was extremely autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:13 PM

I think it’s similar to a male’s friend saying their girlfriend does fun freaky stuff in bed but your girlfriend just does missionary. Sure you love her but you still feel a little envious like you’re missing out because his girlfriend does stuff you wish your girlfriend would do for you. If a female friend is bragging about how her husband got her a 5 star hotel room in Italy for their anniversary and another wife only got a dinner at Chili’s for her anniversary, most women would be jealous. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:12 PM

If you’re low t and scared to compete just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:19 PM
3

Why would we set them up for failure? We could give them absolutely no advice and they would still fail. Take responsibility for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:26 PM
0

No because I know women who date shorter males. I just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:29 AM

It didn’t sound like that guy had romantic intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:51 PM

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:50 PM

They come up to me all the time. I know people may find this hard to believe but in quite approachable in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:41 PM

He was definitely fat when they met. I went to highschool with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:40 PM

Males like to think talking to a woman at work has dire consequences. I talk to my male co-workers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:37 PM

The likeliest result is they write up a report and that's it. The (thankfully) few incidents I've had were just this. At best the police will tell you "thanks, we will use this to justify additional patrolling in xyz area" I’ve had something of value stolen the cops were pretty quick to make an arrest. Proof is demanded for all other crimes as well. That's the definition of a crime, that you need to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt. Well duh proof is demanded for every crime. All sexual assaul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:30 PM

I just find it weird that people treat sexual assault allegations so different than say a car jacking allegation. If someone stole your car and you name the person who did it to police they’re going to arrest that person and at least question them, take DNA etc. But if a woman says she was raped and names her rapist suddenly you need video proof not to convict but just to arrest the guy. The public demands mountains and mountains of proof for sexual assault allegations that they don’t demand for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:17 PM

Yes the one I know personally were high school sweethearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:11 PM

Yes. I see overweight couples all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:07 PM

Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:06 PM

Clean your mirror, Casanova.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:58 PM

Good memes never die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:55 PM

Kobe isn’t even top 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:54 PM

Yea I wanted to see what everyone’s reason were for being on a dating app. They’re pretty diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:53 PM

He’s right tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:52 PM

Okay you’re reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:47 PM

Post a pic of a woman you think is 4-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:42 PM

A male 4: “Why doesn’t that 9/10 woman care about my existence :(“ A female 4: “I care about your existence :)” Male 4: sigh “women are so superficial none of them want me :(“
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:28 PM

Why do you care that hot women don’t understand the average male? This might sound harsh but hot women like the one in the video don’t care about average males, like at all. They’re too busy on yachts and being DMed by attractive athletes and other famous males. They do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:18 PM

Call it husband goggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:16 PM

I have no idea why average males are obsessed with humbling hot women. They’re out of their league anyway why do they care that they aren’t humble?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:06 PM

Q4All: Have you used a dating app? If so, What were you looking for (one off causal sex, FWB, relationship)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:55 PM

I’m sure they get the same type of comments every time a woman posts “this isn’t fair” “women have life on easy mode” “why is it so hard being a man” “I never want to hear a woman complain about dating ever again” so on and so forth. Why keep them open if they’re going to be “woes is me” at best or out right passive aggressive and insulting to the OP at worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:51 PM

They lock the threads because males lose their mind when they see female tinder stats. There is no productive conversation to be had. Just them yelling into the void that it’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:42 PM

Well no shit. Why would a sizable porition of women be attracted to femboys? When males say they like big boobs the “on skinny women” is silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:19 AM

I don’t think you do. A preference is what is preferred. It’s not what’s demanded. Learn the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:02 PM

Do you know the definition of the word preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:28 PM

Do your preferences make you shallow and bigoted as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:24 PM

All males understand women’s preference for taller males. They just act dumb and pretend they don’t understand it because the preference hurts their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:16 PM
3

Why do males think we’re withholding the Holy Grail of dating advice and we’re just choosing to not divulge this information because…why? You messed up before you even began. You’re fucked if you think dating and attraction is black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:11 PM
18

Get comfortable with the thought of dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:29 PM
8

Most women aren’t on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:36 PM
15

If you looked at the average high school relationship you’d know that this isn’t true. Outcast girls are with outcast boys. Popular girls are with popular boys. Band geek girls with band geek boys. Males only perceive that women are constantly looking to date up because: They are completely ignorant of what their looks match is. A 4 male thinks a 6 woman is actually a 4 thus his looksmatch and gets mad when he sees her going for her ACTUAL looksmatch - a male 6. They take female fantasy as fact.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:35 PM
9

Loneliness is mostly self imposed so there is no external solution for the so call “male loneliness epidemic”. There is literally a group for everyone, no matter what your interests are there will be a social group where you will fit in. YOU have you ensure your social life isn’t shit. YOU have to reach out and make sure you maintain solid connections with families and friends. Not talking to your friends for 2 years and crying about being alone is no one’s problem but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:12 PM
39

Jesus Christ. You all are obsessed with disproving this “women are happy single” statement. Why does the thought of women being happy single bother you all so much? Women don’t want shitty relationships. They’re unhappy being with males who suck at being partners and males they no longer find attractive. Therefore they are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:04 PM
0

I wouldn’t not date a unemployed male if he makes less it depends on how much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:27 PM
8

The definition of hypergamy is the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Wanting a hotter guy is by definition not hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:15 PM
3

Sure and women will fuck males with absolutely no investment unless the woman is marriage minded then she’ll need some sense of security before sex. That’s not sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:06 PM
2

He clearly said women better looking than him end up deadbedrooming him. That’s not hypergamy. That’s her realizing she’s better off with her above average looksmatch. She’s not attempting to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:03 PM
3

Expecting a reciprocal effort while dating before you’re comfortable to have sex with someone isn’t prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:57 PM
8

You’re being very liberal with the word “prostitute”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:12 PM
10

I’m not sure what you’re talking about since workplace romances are on the rise. Workplace romance is alive and well in the service industry. All the waiters and waitresses are fucking and the chefs too. Would it kill you guys to do a little research before you post? Just because YOU aren’t on the receiving end of a workplace romance doesn’t mean they no longer exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:58 AM
8

No woman is going to say no. When women are in love they think their partner is the hottest guy they’ve ever been with. Even if it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:01 AM
14

Avoid porn addicts, sexual deviants and other males who clearly lack sexual self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:37 PM

Yes, the odds of getting a girlfriend and becoming a billionaire are exactly the same. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:40 PM

When are women ever in a situation where a complete stranger ask them what their preference is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:39 PM

Nah my friend group has very different tastes in males and we’ll tell people that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:40 PM

If the male in the original tweet is getting chances any could. Like i said no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:18 PM

Being a hoe then getting wifed up dispels like 75% of red pill theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:14 PM

You have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:12 PM
9

In a perfect situation where they all were charming, non-threatening, i couldn’t get pregnant and they were at my beck and call, I’d fuck all of ‘em at least once. Why not? But over time I’ll probably cut it down to my 10 of 15 favorites and keep them in my harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:30 PM

I think making this comment without seeing what I actually said is a bit ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:21 PM
5

If the male was physically perfect (to me) there would very little he could do to turn me off. He would have to be a clear creep, abuser or asshole to get me to reject him (given I was single).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:16 PM
15

I feel like this is situational. I wouldn’t have sex with them just because. If the situation was right to have sex with 100 hot males I’d have sex with 100 hot males. But if the vibe isn’t right I’d get around to having sex with none of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:03 PM

I wasn’t agreeing with OP. My statement was an attempt to change his view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:01 PM

Not to mention he’s short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:44 PM
4

Males having an equal playing field will actually be a massive disadvantage for women. When males have abundant options they tend to revert to being selfish and fickle which means more Fuckboys and deadbeat dads. This is not beneficial to women and their children and frankly society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:21 PM
4

No that’s black pill. They screech because they think it’s irrational that a woman whose a 5, gets with a dude who is a 7. Shit like that infuriates them because they don’t think it’s “fair”. You don’t see blue pillers crying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:12 AM
24

That’s what I’ve been saying The incel sociopaths who post here would most definitely be manipulative, abusive fuck boys if they were given the chance. To understand who male truly is, you have to see how he acts when given everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:06 AM
3

The USA isn’t the fattest nation on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:55 AM
2

I live in a mid sized city in the southern US. Maybe go outside and stop depending on stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:50 AM
18

Skinny women are everywhere where I live . They aren’t rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:01 PM
2

Looking respectable means different things to different people. Looking like Andrew tate with skinny jeans and tight shirts isn’t respectable to many people. And the way your dad dresses and looks is most likely respectable to his generation. Like I said. You just don’t want to listen to him because he doesn’t look cool to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:57 PM
13

That is actually a good explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:52 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:47 PM
100

Why are you all incapable of noticing skinny women with hideous faces? It’s fascinating, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:41 PM
3

You alls imagine of what a stereotypical present dad looks like is so fucked it’s making me wonder if you all have dads at all. As soon as a wife doesn’t cow-tow to her husband in complete subservicnance he’s “beta”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:35 PM

Yea we know red pillers would love to have a dad that bitch slaps their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:11 PM
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It’s sad that you only respect people who “look cool”. Your dad may look like a goober but who cares? As long as he isn’t abusive you need to listen to him because he has more life experience than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:12 PM
2

You have to ignore multiple sources saying women file divorce because of infidelity, abuse and financial mismanagement to make it women’s fault. But all males are perfect according to you so women much be lying about the reasons they file.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:45 PM
-1

Couldn’t be because a lot of males suck at being husbands. Couldn’t be that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:00 PM
-1

Are the Red Pill statistics true No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 PM
5

Well you sound like every other drug addict in denial about how what you’re consuming is destroying your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:53 PM
4

I don’t need to tell you. The research here will tell you. “Anabolic steroids can cause severe, long-lasting, and in some cases, irreversible damage. They can lead to early heart attacks, strokes, liver tumors, kidney failure, and psychiatric problems. In addition, stopping steroid use can cause depression, often leading to resumption of use.” But enjoy your steroids while you still can…I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:43 PM
6

That’s what males tell themselves right before they drop dead at 30 from a steroid induced aneurysm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:24 PM
6

Stop taking steroids your heart is going to explode before you’re 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:20 PM
10

How are you going to tell women how they feel? No they don’t all “feel” the same. When I feel fear I want to get away from the male causing it as soon as possible. Women don’t like steroids. I’ve had to be on steroids for a short period of time for a medical issue and all it did was make me irrationally angry and give me acne. Its not some “masculine cure-all” elixir. It’s not the steroids it’s just the fact that you’re muscular which can be achieved without steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:47 PM
35

Idk my biggest dating fear is ending up in a ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:41 PM

And that’s exactly why people don’t take female perpetrated domestic violence seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:15 PM

You’re not being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:00 PM
2

I’m just not getting what you think the solution should be. We can’t fire or ban women from media just because they emasse a simp following.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:15 PM
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My best guess is because their existence makes single males feel like losers. The fact that a woman rather be a “lonely cat lady” than be with them hurts them deeply so they lash out at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:09 PM
1

Okay…Hit the gym first of all because it doesn’t seem like you’re fit. Even though you’re short having a fit body will give you more of a commanding presence. And lose the fucking victim complex. It’s unbecoming. The difference between successful short males and the unsuccessful ones is the successful ones don’t give a shit what people think. They even make fun of themselves for being short. Women think you’re a loser because you think you’re a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:11 PM
1

In one of you posts you said you were “5’10”ish”. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:04 PM
2

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:59 PM
3

Sounds like someone doesn’t want to put in the work to get hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:52 PM
2

Yea which is why I said if males actually tried they would stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:51 PM
5

it was a weather channel that only had sexy model-looking girls. I don’t see anything wrong with beautiful women pursuing a career in meteorology. Do you? Males are half the population, so a male issue is a humanity issue. We should be helping them if they need it. Helping them with what? Learning that beautiful women don’t want them, they want beautiful males? the desire to be with an attractive women is part of male sexuality. You should learn what you can get pretty quickly. Males feeling the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:48 PM
0

Or they could adapt and evolve by getting hotter. The average American male looks like shit. It’s not hard to stand out if you actually tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:41 PM
16

None. These hypotheticals are stupid because all they are trying to do is “catch” women to prove that they rather be part of Chad’s one-sided harem than be with an average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:36 PM
5

well the weather channel she was on is a thinly failed e-girl thing, just to clarify that. What does this even mean? What makes her an e-girl? japan has a way more developed simp culture where the girls basically can't be seen with a man ever, so that's a cultural difference we don't have. Then that’s a male issue. How is male delusion a woman’s problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:34 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:32 PM
7

I don’t understand this. So a bunch of lonely males developed a parasocial relationship with a woman (who happened to be hot) doing her job? How is that her problem or the media’s problem? Should wehide away all hot women because it hurts incels feelings when they find out she’s fucking Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:18 PM

I know. My comment was tongue-in-cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:48 PM

The male libdo has to be a mental impairment. My god. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:42 PM

I need to assess what’s under there for breeding purposes. What are you hiding?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:38 PM

Ah I get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:37 PM

Some young women see princess treatment like some males view sex. Males believe women would fuck Chad on the first date and want to be treated like Chad. Well, women believe males would give Stacey the princess treatment no questions asked and want be be treated like Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:32 PM

I thought it was common knowledge that unattractive males have to be a lot more manipulative and fake to get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:30 PM

Yea, I’ve tried to recreate a college-like camaraderie in my “adult world” social life and it just isn’t the same. Everyone is interested in their own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:12 PM

The only truth is being nice won’t make a person who isn’t attracted to you, attracted to you. It does wonders if the person is already into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:08 PM

I still have nightmares of missing a class final lol. Other than that the social aspect is definitely a once in a lifetime experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:03 PM

The fact that you’ve said multiple times and there is evidence all over your account that you’re underage, makes that creepier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:02 PM
0

What public funded initiatives are exclusively for women? Name them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:39 PM

Sometimes I fantazise that I can consume a pill Anti-depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:25 PM
9

Yea you proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:20 PM
5

Women only public transit isn’t a thing in the US so no money is being taken from his pay check for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:19 PM
-1

Because males put their worth in sex. And when they aren’t having sex they like to take it out on people. Women would love all males to be virgins if they were actually cool people to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:27 PM
1

Why don’t you create some?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:20 PM
13

There’s really nothing equal about women getting sexually harassed at a rate far higher than males. That’s why women only transport is necessary in making it equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:19 PM
42

The problem is males think their looksmatch is way above what it actually is. I saw this tweet of some mid guy trying to shoot his shot with an absolute smoke show and all the other mid guys were cheering him on in the comments. I can’t say I feel sorry for male dating struggles if a 5 genuinely thinks anyone above a 6 is his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:35 PM
2

Join hobby clubs. That’s the only thing a person can do. If your hobbies are solitary you’re out of luck. What do you want? Someone to spoon feed you friends and a girlfriend. Take control of your own life. I live in a mid sized city and there are 100 events happening on any given day. A lot of males don’t want to hear this but your passiveness in your social life is keeping you from having a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:29 PM
4

It works because that’s what women want. Women want a male who treats sex and dating like it’s no big deal and pays attention to emotional and sexual cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:24 PM

Well yes, if there wasn’t a market for it there would be no only fans. If males want to stop women from making porn they should stop watching and buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:59 PM
3

Then they should wear it on their right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:51 PM
0

I’ve never been attracted to a guy shorter than 5’8”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:47 PM
5

Until people ask you about your wife and you have to build a web of lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:38 PM
10

Where did I say there was something wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:34 PM
18

Attraction is amoral. Nobody cares that a male is fantasying about fucking the woman he saw on the train. It becomes a problem when those thoughts turn into actions like being sexually aggressive or treating that woman like shit because you can’t get past the thought of seeing her as a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:29 PM
2

We’re speaking of physical attraction right now. Sure he’s taller but he’s also fatter and doesn’t have the physique of the the average, say, Apache male 500 years ago. And the drop in testosterone/diet has impacted the average males looks negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:46 PM
5

Sure for a male with a handsome face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:11 PM
29

If you don’t like the person you marry on your wedding day; you settled. If you’re madly in love on your wedding day but five years later you hate that person’s guts you didn’t settle, you just grew to dislike that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:56 PM
20

No it’s not. The average is static. It’s not contextual. It’s measured on a scale of how ugly to how beautiful a human can get, not how below average - above average a person is in this place/time/situation. More fat Americans just means that there are more Americans who are below average than there has ever been. It doesn’t mean scrawny = above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:42 PM
1

If it’s so easy males would do their share.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:37 PM
1

Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:09 PM
7

It’s mostly because the economy. Before the 1960’s it was pretty easy for a male to look like a big shot with an average white color job. That doesn’t cut it these days and many males have made it clear they don’t want to take on the burden of “women’s work”. Women don’t think marriage is a good deal because they don’t think a male making 50k and not doing house work is worth it. The cost of living is too high as well as the price of raising children and marriage is for lack of a better term is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:05 PM
23

You all always ask this and I’ll just say if all women started to approach, likelihood of males on this sub getting approach are near 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:49 PM
2

No one is going to care about their immigration woes in 60 years when there are no nursing home nurses and construction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:00 PM
4

Never. Someone in government will decide to fix the issue with wide spread immigration initiatives to repopulate America. Specifically targeting places like Mexico and Brazil since they’re more like us than other places in the world. The only reason Japan is in trouble is because they despise anyone who isn’t Japanese immigrating to Japan. According to them it ruins their culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:51 PM
9

The word “wall” denotes that there is a hard stop. When a car crashes into a wall the car stops immediately. Therefore, the term “the wall” makes zero sense. Over the past couple of months on this sub there’s been evidence posted suggesting strongly that a woman’s choices don’t crash into a wall. And you can kind of see the red pillers scrambling for an explanation. A few years ago a 30 year old woman had zero romantic attention, according to red pillers. Now, they say a 30 year woman gets atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:42 PM
2

Is that unspoken video game industry etiquette?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:18 PM
3

I think he’s purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:17 PM
5

I met Obama (one-on-one) once. He’s as magnetic and charming as people make him out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:13 PM
2

I know it’s not romantic and spontaneous but people should talk about getting engaged/married before it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:11 PM
4

It’s cringe if you’re not working in the video game industry. It should never be that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:09 PM
2

I’m not talking about attracting 2’s and 3’s. I’m talking about a 5 male attracting a 5 women. If that’s not enough for him and he loses at attracting significant better looking women, then I don’t think anyone should feel sorry about how lonely he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:57 PM
4

So you admit that if average males are struggling it’s because they’re trying to get women way out of their league not because women in their league aren’t attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:49 PM
1

Casual Sex: The first and most important thing is to find a woman who also just wants causal sex/FWB. As soon as you start lying, bending the truth or manipulating women into getting sex is when most women are going to unacceptable. These kind of women in clubs, bars, music festivals etc. any social event that has high amounts of sexual tension you will be able to find a woman who just wants sex and nothing else. If you want to “date” (have sex) with more than one woman at a time, LET THE OTHER …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:37 PM
3

The guys on this sub seem to think all kids from single mothers are products of a one night stand or fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:17 PM
-1

I just got two very different answers to my question. I’m going to believe your answer because you’re one of the more unbiased and rational people on this sub. Anyway, I asked the question because for some reason incels like to claim moral high ground due to their lack of sex. They like to think Chad is evil for taking the sexual opportunities he’s given (as if they wouldn’t do the same in his position). Then they get mad at women for not picking them because “they wouldn’t cheat” like Chad (the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:08 PM
1

How many incels do you think would turn into fuckbois over night if they got the same amount of sexual interest from women that women get from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:02 PM
5

Is it just me or does anyone else get the sense that males who constantly talk about single mother/dead beat dads seem jealous? Not jealous because a “bad guy is getting sex” and they aren’t but jealous they’re unable to be the “bad guy getting sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:53 PM
26

Probably the worst take I’ve seen on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:51 PM
27

Well that’s why we have welfare specifically for struggling single mothers. The government knows if males had it their way, they would let a single mother and her kids rot on the street because its “what she deserves” for making bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:28 PM
15

It’s no epidemic. This is how males have always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:02 PM

“Why don’t young women want to be around a drunk person of the opposite sex who is 5x stronger than her and is of the group known for being violent and sexually aggressive toward young women? :(“
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:33 PM
3

Sure and those male have been kings, generals, athletes and actors. Not regular joes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:56 PM
6

You can weed out those women but from a biological stand point women are the pickers and males are the ones who fight for a chance to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:05 PM
7

He didn’t say marry fuck kill. He said which one would be best for a long term relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:46 PM
11

Yes looks are the first thing people see. But you can’t tell if you want to be in a long term relationship with someone off of looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:34 PM
13

This is an extremely childish take and it only highlights how males don’t care about anything but looks. You know nothing about these women. They could be completely insane or they could be Mother Theresa-equse. But it’s women who are shallow, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:25 PM
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How would you know when you don’t know any of these women personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:19 PM
4

If those traits are a genetic concern, then it is worse and way riskier if they choose a sperm donor they don't know at all. It it isn’t. You would be surprised. He had to bypass many safety procedures for that to happen. It’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:41 PM
11

According to the sperm bank, yes. They want both above average physical and intellectual specimens. If you’re below a certain height, not within healthy weight or have a history/family history of serious illness they’ll reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:39 PM
10

Most men don't have the options of leaving if that woman is their only source of sex That’s worse. If they’ll only with that woman because they’re desperate that means they don’t actually like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:27 PM
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The only way a woman is going to have a baby with a autistic or socially awkward male is if she’s in love with him. The feeling of love between a male and a woman allows males who aren’t genetically fit to carry on their genes. When there is no love, then no woman wants to have children with these kinds of males for obvious reasons. It’s women’s biological job to weed out things like autism and extreme social awkwardness out of the gene pool. The only way for these males to actually carry on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:21 PM
2

Because the word “settle” has a negative connotation. As if settling is something that one does begrudgingly because they have no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:57 PM
8

To advance to male sexual imperative at the expense of everyone else, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:06 PM
4

That’s insane. I live in a city and I’m constantly around women. I have female friends, cousins and coworkers around the ages of 20-30 that tell me everything. None of them have 20 bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:39 PM
9

Apex fallacy. Most women don’t have sex with more than 5 males in a lifetime. So no, women don’t have a constant barrage of mind blowing sex with “Chad”. You’re taking the behavior of a minority of women and applying it to every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:31 PM
3

No need to be dishonest. You’ve pinned after a woman you knew you would never be able to get. If you say you haven’t you’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:22 PM
2

Did you not read what I said? I said their options are severally limited. I didn’t say they have zero options. Their options are equally low quality women (trailer trash, hood rats, BPD psychos etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:21 PM
4

Literally everyone settles. Everyone has fantasies of dating someone “perfect” and way out of their league. But most people know those are just fantasies and extremely unlikely happen. That doesn’t mean they don’t love or desire their spouse any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:48 PM
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True it’s not your problem. But if she ghosts or decides to hook up with another guy due to feeling sexually neglected that’s not her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:46 PM
3

I wouldn’t really call it a wall but your overall premise is correct. If you’re still working at say, a fast food restaurant or some other low level, low pay position past a certain age your options become severally limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:45 PM
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This is true. Your parents are there to give you relationship advice if you need it. They aren’t there to tell you how to get causal sex. That’s just strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:07 PM
2

A male over 25% BF is really pushing it but thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:29 PM
-4

He still has Jada Pickett simping for him so his dating life wasn’t THAT bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:19 PM
1

It depends on how many dependents she has. If she’s a single mother of 1 she can make do. But they’ll still be objectively poor. If she’s a single mother of 2 or more then she’s living in extreme poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:06 PM
3

Okay well in America, that’s extremely poor. And males from single mother homes are sexually uninhibited.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:45 PM
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The median earnings of single mother is $29,000. The majority of them are living in poverty. Ergo, rough areas. It seems you’re confusing women who are divorced with kids with women who are true single mothers. One still has their father in the life the other doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:41 PM
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Well most single mothers live in rough areas. The point you make in the OP is actually the minority. Single mothers are more likely to raise males who have a lot of causal sex but are bad at relationships than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:36 PM
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I’m going to be honest here. The males raised by single mothers in bad areas are the best a getting women (casual sex). In my experience, fuck boys with high N-counts were raised by single mothers. Now they’re terrible in actual relationships but they get pussy. This might be controversial but I think having a nerdy passive dad who is present is worse for a males sex/dating life than having no dad at all. But then again males with “Ned Flanders” dads rarely want to participate in causal sex at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:26 PM
1

Because incels who get nothing at all are going to complain about women not taking initiative because they themselves are scared of taking initiative. They have this idiilic fantasy that if a woman would just show up offering everything he ever wanted without work on his part he’d love it. This is stupid, of course. Anyone with just a tiny bit of dating experience would never want that because in reality it’s desperate, overwhelming and a little creepy. Despite what the males say, males like to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:17 PM
1

Don’t listen to the advice makes give women about dating. It’s all bad and it only benefits their goals. The more attractive woman is going to win. Period. And you’re right putting in effort when you’re competing with women who look way better than you is useless so don’t do it. Males will take an 8 who does absolutely nothing but shows up and looks hot over a 5 putting in effort. Now, how long the relationship with the 8 will last is up for debate but he’s going to choose the 8 first and he may…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:03 PM
0

It is reasonable. At the end of the day, the majority of American women aren’t making more than 80k. If a male is having trouble keeping close to a salary in that range then I don’t know what to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:10 AM
4

Stop it. You aren’t a sigma male who doesn’t care about love. You’re neurotic, fidgety and weak willed because your parents didn’t force you to do manual labor, didn’t socialize you enough and gave you red40.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:31 AM
2

Because outing a woman crossdressing when she’s trying to secretly pass as a male is like telling someone they have BO. Everyone knows a person has BO but no one wants to be the one to tell the person they have BO. They all just rather stay away from the stinky person than cause confrontation and embarrassment by brining it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:26 AM
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I’m going to say this one last time on the subject of Norah Vincent. She wasn’t a convincing male. Like at all. Whoever thought Norah Vincent looked like a biological male when she was cross dressing was an idiot. She had it hard because people could tell she was a woman trying to come off as a male and they were weirded out by it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:16 AM
1

He was also a charming, ambitious, risk taker who happened to be a political genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:14 AM
5

The bad boys I grew around were created by the environment they grew up in. They were raised rough so they were rough. A product of their environment and such. They weren’t “created” because of girls. The ones that are “bad boys” because of heartbreak are cornballs with revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:10 AM
3

Males love exaggerating their struggles. I’ve seen males who look like ogres fuck. If a male is above a 3 the only thing stopping him from fucking is his own high standards and hang ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:45 AM
4

Males seem to always be with women who cheat, according to this sub. They must like women who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:34 AM
2

My brother is pretty handsome and I look like the female version of him so he’s what I would look like. He’s not bald or 5’6”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:18 AM
2

The biggest lie males tell is “women don’t tell men what they like and how to turn them on”. Women are telling you all how to please them. You just aren’t listening, you listen and don’t care or you’re incapable of filling the desire. Not our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:17 AM
-1

Women’s intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:14 AM
3

They know so much about women that they’re just too powerful to have sex. That’s why they don’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:13 AM
1

Never. I’d slay if I was a male. 100% Guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:12 AM
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It’s so tiring trying to talk to males who can’t get pussy. They’re all so self righteous and pretentious. Imagine never getting sex and STILL thinking you know more about female sexuality than women do. Astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:06 AM
2

It’s not drama. It’s passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:00 AM
3

No they don’t. Most men say they hate that shit and the games that come with dating. Well I hope they like a deadbedroom. You can’t have your partner 100% on your mind all day like that. That’s fucking exhausting especially if it’s just one sided with one person doing all of that. That’s what relationships are: WORK. I’m guessing you’ve never been a relationship with someone you want to be with because when you’re with someone you like the playfulness comes naturally. You don’t have to try. Male…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:51 PM
3

Most males would rather be in a playful push n’ pull relationship were sexual tension is almost always there over a boring one. If you have to think hard about what your longterm girlfriend/wife likes and what she doesn’t like you didn’t do well at trying to get to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:43 PM
1

That’s a part of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:40 PM
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No they don’t actually. That’s the problem. You all see in black and white. Read the room and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:39 PM
1

Being a ugly asshole isn’t going to get you anything because being an asshole isn’t what’s attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:23 PM
15

Foreplay and teasing all the time. But not to the point where it’s obvious. There should be mild suggestive playful undertones to almost every aspect of your relationship that’s not something serious like health, death or serious relationship issues. And touch without making it sexual. Hug, kiss, cuddle and massage without expecting sex at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:12 PM
6

True. But I’m entitled to crush his spirit and will to live with my rejection :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:52 PM
11

They don’t think we can see them eye fucking us. It’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:57 PM
-2

This is kind of ridiculous. No offense to the males with “Alexithyma” or whatever but come on. Do males give women with sexual hang ups the same grace women are expected to give males with emotional hang ups? “Ladies! It’s okay that you don’t want sex because your religion socialized you into having negative feels around sex. Your boyfriend is just going to have to suck it up no matter how long it takes to fix!” Said no one ever. Women are expected to fix any major problems they have about sex b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:33 PM
0

the male version is going batshit crazy for sports they too have parasocial delulu relationships with their team of choice to the point of even kill other men from the opposite team Ironically, this is the healthiest way a male can show obsession yet it’s still very toxic and destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:35 AM
2

Saw males asking why a woman gets to be obsessed with a celebrity heartthrob but males don’t. It’s because male obsession is so fucking unhinged. Males have to ignore multiple levels and years of male socialization telling them that behavior is unacceptable to even get into the mindset of open delusional infatuation of a female celebrity. Everyone should be afraid of a male prone to bedeviled tendencies. A woman saying she’s Harry Styles biggest fan is cute and quirky. A straight male besotted w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:21 AM
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“Don’t believe your lying eyes.” I swear you guys live in another fucking dimension. The average male has no problem getting a girlfriend. This is a statistical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:35 PM
-1

You all ask this question every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:24 PM
2

No. My dad did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:24 PM
2

Both but more of the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:39 PM
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I think both can be true. It is harder to get a woman off, obviously but some males just aren’t good in bed. Wether it because they’re selfish and don’t really care as long as they get off or because they’re sexually incapable no matter how much a woman may direct him. I don’t know how many women who say they tell their partner they need foreplay and their partner just randomly rubs their boobs and calls it foreplay then looks stupid when he’s surprised she’s not turned on by it but rather annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:28 PM
0

Women don’t care. In fact they’ll cut off their friend if they say something suggesting that their boyfriend/husband is ugly. The same thing can’t be said about males..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:00 AM
-1

It SEEMS like women like sociopaths because the incels who are sociopaths don’t get to show how crazy they are because they don’t have a woman to victimize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:30 PM
3

I never said they did. All I’m claiming is males have a very idealized idea of what the average ND woman experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:47 PM
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It’s also to paint women as stupid and childlike for only picking “bad guys”. - “Why am I attracted to women anyway? They aren’t smart enough to pick a good guy like me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:22 PM
10

I swear, they try to make themselves feel better by painting every male who is sexually successful as a sociopath. It makes them feel virtuous and beyond reproach. They’re not the problem, everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:45 PM
13

Being socially inept isn’t a biological advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:36 PM
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Your lack of real life relationships hinders your ability to think rationally. “About 61.6% of men (74.7 million men) age 15 and over are fathers, and of those, 72.2 million men have a biological child, according to a new Men's Fertility and Fatherhood” So you’re saying 72.2 million American males are sociopaths? Since you claim literal criminals and manipulators are the only kind of males who reproduce. Idk. It sounds like you may be more misandrist than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:26 PM
11

And what makes you think an incel would be able to see the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:19 PM
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I’m not seeing it. The only people who consistently pick bad partners to reproduce with are the lower class for obvious reasons. The average middle class husband and wife are pretty boring and vanilla and not at all “the worst ones” I have this cousin who is pretty stupid. He’s almost 40 and works at Sheetz. He’s always picking the literal worst women. He has 3 white trash baby mamas. His ex wife exposed his child to her new boyfriend who was a convicted pedo. He had one really good woman 15 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:09 PM
7

WHICH IS WHY many women make males prove their intent to be loyal and comitted by expecting them to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:05 PM
2

Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:17 PM
16

Every time males on this sub mention neurodivergent women they picture a mousey trad-esquse feminine woman who is charmingly quirky, extremely shy, only wears dresses and has a giant stuffed toy collection. They’re never thinking about the neurodivergent woman who is loud, talks fast, uses pronouns, is fat and has public freakouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:00 PM
4

Where you mess up is comparing women to males. You should be comparing male sexual activity to that of other males. Instead you’re attempting to make it into a competition with women. Women are going to have more sex because males are hounding them for sex, leaving them with more sexual options and as a result more sex. Men are going to have less sex because almost no women are hounding them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:46 AM
10

I’m not even 30 yet but I can vividly remember when the party of your significant other was irrelevant. Politics have become so polarizing in the past 15 years, it’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:34 PM
2

And less than 10% of divorces end in alimony. Thinking women are after their non-existent wealth makes them feel important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:00 PM
1

Being conventionally attractive will net you a wider range of people who will be interested in getting to know you romantically and sexually. You’ll also get to pick from other conventionally attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:57 PM
2

No they can’t replace donuts. Because they aren’t donuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:49 PM
2

Sex isn’t a requirement for a good life. Sex to women is like donuts. Most people like donuts and would eat one every day until they got sick if they could. Will the quality of a person’s life deteriorate into nothingness if a person can never eat a single donut again? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:44 PM
8

Because males who can actually get sex aren’t nagging women about it. If you can’t get sex what is the point of letting women know you have a high sex drive? We don’t care. When women hear an unattractive male say they value sex but can’t get we hear “I have a high sex drive. Why aren’t women giving me sex?!” We do not want to fuck them so what are women suppose to do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:26 PM
8

That’s why there are so many incels on here who talk about nothing but sex who are begging for a crumb of pussy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:50 PM

I don’t have empathy for males ruminating over things they most likely have control over. If you want women to think you’re sexy, get sexy. Hit the gym, buy new clothes, get a new hair cut, idk grow a set of balls. Stop begging women to come down to your level and then bash us for “not having empathy” when we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:34 PM
5

There's a big difference between going to a legal, established and regulated brothel, and finding some underground hooker. It's just not even close and to pretend otherwise is complete ignorance. You said males would go to nothing to get sex. There are tons legal brothels in Nevada. You can find your sex there since according to you, males would do anything to get it. It's about sex as well, but I see you're here to play word games and obfuscate the conversation away from common sense. You said …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:32 PM
9

Illegal doesn’t stop anyone. Have you drunk under age? Have you smoked weed? If so, what’s stopping you from buying a hooker?Most people don’t get caught. And if you do get caught just say you were paying for her time, not sex. Surely you understand the difference between sex with someone you have a real connection with or at least mutual attraction, and a business transaction. Okay then so it’s not about sex it’s about validation. There is where we can’t help you. If no woman is willing to reci…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:23 PM
5

If constant sex is what you’re seeking then buy a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:17 PM
6

And no man is happy until they're having sex. Its not off putting for the men that women are actually attracted to. Men really want sex and do basically anything to get it. The sky is blue. We all know this. It's 100% gaslighting to try to say ' the reason you cant get sex is cause you have a normal healthy male drive for it!'. There are hookers for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:16 PM
21

I’m sorry to say, but your solo source of happiness in life should not be sex. Sex is great but at the end of the day you should want to experience other things that have nothing to do with sex or romance for that matter. Saying “I will never be happy until have sex.” Is so fucking off putting to women. It’s puppy dog levels of pathetic desperation. There are other things in life than trying to find your next lay. As a matter of fact, males who put other things above sex and women are more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:07 PM

Pink pill is the “female awakening to the realities of male nature”. So if a woman says, “men would rape women if they knew they could get away with it.” That’s pink pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:50 AM
1

Nothing. In the traditional scheme of thing the dating stage his a male making an investment in the future. He courts the woman, gains her trust only then will he receive the benefits she has to offer. It was this way to protect her honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:43 PM
19

The only right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:01 PM
8

Males have completely mangled the word “simp”. They see a male doing something nice or buying his wife a nice gift and they call him a simp. They’re disgusted by any male who isn’t out right negligent of his responsibilities as a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:01 PM
10

Males cant live without us because we make their lives exponentially better and they like using women as a status symbol toward other males. Has nothing to do with manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:13 PM

Whats the purpose of these questions? You know what a boring person is like. Why are you asking us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:12 PM
0

Yea that’s the purpose of a flair. And the comment you replied to wasn’t misandrist in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:10 PM
0

Did you read what you typed out? You just said women want sexual less so how is it a power play when we don’t want to as much as males?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:19 PM
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When a man marries a woman young, he gets wife goggles. If this was a real thing husbands wouldn’t cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:52 PM

If he’s 5’3 he’s not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:37 PM
4

Again. I’ve never seen an attractive fit male have a hard time finding his equivalent. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:39 AM
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It’s very easy for attractive fit males to find attractive fit women. If you’re have a hard time you’re not attractive and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:51 AM
4

With males they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:26 PM
0

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:34 PM
1

No it’s RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:09 PM
1

Basically anything that stems from a lack of self control and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:08 PM
1

So you condone cheating as long as it isn’t marriage with kids. You asked a question (without a question mark) and I answered it. One situation is clearly worse than the other. Am I condoning it? No. But if I had to choose between getting cheated on by a college boyfriend when I’m 19 and getting cheated on by my husband of 20 years when I’m 45 and we have three kids, a house and bills together, I’m choosing the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:55 PM
1

I don’t think it’s red pill. It’s black pill more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:44 PM
1

I think it’s foolish and irrational to say both situations have the same consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:18 PM
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I think males have the potential to look better than women when older. Do all older males reach this potential? No. Most older American males are overweight and have some level of baldness along with bad skin. But if you were to take the best look 60 year old male and put him beside the best looking 60 old woman the male would slightly look better than her. And of course race plays a factor. Older Black and Asian women who take care of themselves will look better than older White women who take …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:14 PM
1

It’s always been important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:08 PM
0

It’s won’t happen because it’s biologically backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:00 PM

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:55 PM
1

Please don’t tell me you’re going to pick a career based on how much sex you can get from having it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:55 PM
1

Both are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:46 PM
2

Women don't automatically love men. We never claimed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:45 PM
14

It’s because males here won’t shut up about how males love women unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:44 PM
1

Realistically, this is less than 15% of males and they usually have low libido to begin with. If you’re with a high libido guy and something happens to you were you can’t have sex for a long period of time you’re basically fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:41 PM
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Young people don’t give a shit first of all. Do you remember being a teenager and an adult would give you some good life advice and it would go in one ear and out the other? The majority of teens and young adults do what best feels good in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:22 PM
2

If he showen signs he can’t be faithful no. If it’s the opposite yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:44 PM
0

Because when males struggle with dating 9/10 times when they’re “venting” they find a way to make it women’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:41 PM
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No. It’s not 100% down to attraction. If a handsome guy stalks a woman and obsessively messages a her out of the blue. She’s not going to be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:22 PM
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If creepy was literally just a synonym for ugly, your post would make perfect sense and you wouldn't have made it because no one would make the point you're arguing against. If you read the post you would know that’s not what I’m arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:01 PM
3

I treat guys I’m not attracted to with polite indifference. There’s nothing I want from him so I keep the conversation down to “need to know” information. If he has something interesting to say I’ll listen to him. Engage in some friendly conversation but that’s it. For males I am attracted to, I’m a lot more engaging. Not necessarily flirty but more open. I try to stay around them and converse with them as much as possible. Go out of my own way to try to get to know them. I make more eye contact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:55 PM
-6

Sure and boys could have eaten their broccoli to reach their full height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:47 PM
8

You could say the same about obesity. There’s not enough skinny women for every male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:23 PM
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Yes, If you approach every woman you want to have sex with you’re going to be considered creepy at some point. That’s just a natural consequence males are going to have to decide they want to take in order to pursue casual sex. It’s not an indictment against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:03 PM
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Because our attraction is more complex than a males. Take a woman with a beautiful face and put her in front of 100 men and 99 of them will say they’re “in love” with her by the end of the day. The guy who didn’t is gay. This is not how attraction works for women. Take a hot guy an put him in front of 100 women. Maybe 40 women will find him attractive without him having to open his mouth or do anything. 30 of the other women need to see the way he carries himself before they can decide the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:34 PM

Lay off the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:40 AM
1

Do you want men to date deformed and retarded girls? Your first sentence is context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:30 PM
1

I think you just proved her point my insisting every woman who isn’t a Stacy is deformed or retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:22 PM
0

Males who are desperate enough for female validation and attention will lie to get it. That’s why you avoid desperate males or any male really that spends his time looking for “advice” in places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:07 PM
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If you feel like you’re a male who thinks he can’t get a girlfriend without feeling used then you have two options. Either accept that you’re a doomed to be cuck and be one with one woman in order to have offspring OR bow out of the dating game entirely, accept you’ll never have biological child and get one of those Chatbot AI girlfriends to get artificial intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:06 PM
4

I truly love my partner by weeding out the males I think are too short to be attractive in the first place. They aren’t on my radar. Getting into a relationship with a short male and then deciding he’s too short to be attractive doesn’t make sense. Weed them out from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:52 AM
1

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:46 AM
4

There is nothing nuanced about this place. 90% of posts are “women bad, men victims”. It’s red pill-lite except 30% of the people looking at posts are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:44 AM
3

The male sex drive is the standard for males. It isn’t the standard for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:43 PM
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No shit. We’ve been saying this forever. Young women >>seem<< to like “bad boys” because they AT LEAST have self respect, confidence and a devil may care attitude. For a lot of the “non-bad boy” males, it takes till they’re 25-30, to gain any kind bravado or social charisma. Others never get it. I blame helicopter parents but that’s a discussion for another day. No one wants to be with a doormat unless you’re looking for someone to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:40 PM
2

Simple. If someone is too emotionally fragile to risk rejection, don’t approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:02 PM
2

Then stay single. No one is forcing you to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:45 PM
1

7/10 males have no problem getting a date. If you’re having problems securing a 7/10 woman as a 7/10 male then you’re not a 7/10 male. No one does or should feel sorry for you guys just because you all think as average males you deserve gorgeous women at the snap of your fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:37 PM
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Find one woman you like and who likes you back and you won’t have to constantly play a “game”. Y’all think about this too hard. There are nerds with wives. You know why? Because they were confident in being themselves and they didn’t feel like dating their wife was a game. They found an equally nerdy woman at comic con, a furry convention or whatever and wooed her not by acting like Chad but by communicating shared interests. If a date feels like a game then guess what? You’re dating women way o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:39 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:27 PM
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I’ve seen more of the opposite. Males are more likely to try and sabotage their pretty girlfriend than the other way around. Trying to get her to stop hanging out with her friends, stop wearing sexy clothes and too much makeup (of which he was initially attracted to.) Women are much more likely to try to get their boyfriend to dress nicer and get a decent haircut over checks notes trying to sabotage his diet and work out routine. If his girlfriend DOES try to get him to eat junk food it’s becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:24 AM
2

You tell on yourself with the way you speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:35 AM
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Stop measuring dicks. You want sex because other males get sex. You want sex to use it in upping your status as a male. You don’t want sex for sex. And that’s where you mess up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:00 AM
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That’s why I said on average ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:41 PM
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They don’t like the feeling of not having the upper hand. For MOST women, their sexuality isn’t always on. They don’t constantly look around for males to fuck like most males do. Women need to be turned on. To do this, a male needs to have certain traits to turn on a woman. There’s the rub. A lot of males don’t have any traits that turn on a woman. So instead of getting those traits. They rather bash women and tell women they need to change their sexuality to accommodate a males (lol). Most male…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:23 PM
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Because y’all are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:20 PM
8

Drawing a line on not dating a chronically physically unhealthy person ≠ leaving your wife you promised to love in sickness and health of 20 years because she has breast cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:19 PM
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This is how you get hit with a sexual assault charge if this kind of thing doesn’t come naturally to you. A lot of males do know how to get women to have sex with them fast and easy and that type of thing comes natural to them. But for the type of autistic males who seek PUA/manosphere advice, awkwardly trying to escalate sex right off the bat with a relationship-minded woman you barely know is going to have you whining about how you were “falsely” accused of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:18 PM

Why are acting as though all the faithful, relationship minded males are under 5’7”? Women will be able to find a parter over 5’7 just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:48 PM

15% of women are willing to date those males. Go find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:31 PM

5’9” is average height for a American male. Who cares if a woman doesn’t want to date a guy under 5’8”? First you all were complaining women wouldn’t date males under 6’0, now you’re complaining that they won’t date males under 5’8”. What’s next? Men bitching and crying that women don’t want to date 5’1” males?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:57 PM
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So simps aren’t bad just because angry males don’t like them? And If most married women are pick mes would that imply the high divorce rate is vastly caused by the bad behavior of husbands? After all, you said married women are pretty much perfect from the male pov. Oh and I’m not a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:53 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:14 PM
1

Lol you’re kidding yourself. Bitches get wifed every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:29 PM
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A woman can act like an absolute bitch and still get males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:28 PM
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Pick me is a hateful ideology in itself males love it because that hate is aimed toward other women not males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:27 PM
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You’re wrong on all counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:42 PM
2

We’re not discussing dating strategy. We’re speaking about their respective effects on gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:02 PM
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Are you going to complain about why women do all the child bearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:40 PM
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I have not seen a single conservative female influencer not essentially bashing women in the manner that a lot of main stream redpillers do. Pearlythjngs being the absolute worst offender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:26 PM
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The call has to come from inside the house. Just like males don’t want women to telling them how to behave because it comes off as trying to be controlling - women don’t need males to tell them how to behave. If a woman said “Males need to behave like X, be Y and achieve Z to be worthy of respect and love” most men would be enraged. These things are better communicated from males to males and from women to women. Women are more likely to give an opening ear to a woman advocating for submissivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:16 PM
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Males can’t say this and simultaneously shame, bully and overstate the existence of simps and white knights. Come on, you know what it’s like witnessing a male giving undue, exaggerated praise to women or seeing a male defend a woman even when she’s wrong. It’s stupid. They’re stupid. It’s the same with pick me women. Women like a girl’s girl. Constantly being up males ass’ and encouraging their worst and most selfish behaviors, essentially throwing women under the bus in the process, just becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:58 AM
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Some women have unrealistic expectations about dates in a similar way that males have unrealistic expectations about sex. Both think they deserve the best and most enthusiastic from the jump; that they should get it regularly, on demand and the world should stop so they can get it. I think everyone is due for a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:31 AM
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Meh we all can’t be Brad Pitt or Margot Robbie. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:28 AM
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This question is asked every 3 days on this sub. If you have to ask, you aren’t that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:21 AM
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Most people only hang around people their age for the most part. They aren’t doing it consciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:18 AM

Lizzo is guilty as sin. That’s the difference between males and women. Women are likely to believe the accuser no matter if they like the accused or not. Males will defend the accused if they like them or double down on the accused if they hate them (what you’re seeing with Lizzo).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:52 AM

No you all cherry pick who you want to believe and what you want to believe is a credible accusation. Y'all act like we're the ones equating being asked on on an elevator with sexual assault. Exaggerating in order to discredit. A males speciality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:31 AM

A matriarchy never flourished because women can’t compete with men. You should’ve paid attention in biology class. If women can’t control society then why are you complaining about college admission and the grad rate? We’re just dumb boards who can’t compete, right? (And nice trying moving the goal posts after I proved you wrong.). I also retired at 40. I’m an astronaut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:26 AM

All males suddenly believe accusers. Innocent until proven guilty is suddenly out the window for Kevin and Lizzo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:21 AM

Liberation for my geriatric sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:16 AM

It’s funny how males finally know what consent, sexual assault and power dynamic abuse is when Lizzo (a woman they hate) is getting accused and canceled for it. So strange, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:15 AM
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I’m not defending anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:08 AM

Because we have never lived in a matriarchy but we have lived in a patriarchy for most of human history. In order for a patriarchy to thrive women must be oppressed and restricted. You should have listened in history class maybe you would have gotten into college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:07 AM
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There is no issue. I’m just a curious observer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:00 AM
-2

Non-fuckbois have and do treat women equally bad in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:59 PM
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And and a good amount of unattractive males aren’t going to “nice” or fake bad boy their way into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:56 PM

Males aren’t being left behind. There is no systematic discrimination keeping males from applying and getting accepted in a university other than their own intellectual short comings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:49 PM
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What are the males in this comment section are saying is if all males had the chance to fuck and ghost women they would do it. What they’re saying is all males are selfish sociopaths but only few have the means to get away with it. What they’re saying is males are incapable of love and the males who do “love” are faking in hopes to get consistent pussy because they can’t get it anyway else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:46 PM
1

What part of we never had a female president don’t you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:08 PM
1

We’ve never had a female president.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:01 AM
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Here's more sources that you'll probably ignore: 90% of divorces settle before trial This isn’t a source. These are law firms that are claiming stats but aren’t linking to actually studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:59 PM
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Just because there isn't alimony doesn't mean they don't get the house and other assets. IF she does get the house that means she’s the primary care giver for the children. Why would the court order the father to get the house when he only wants to see his kids on the weekends? Think. Are they worse off after the divorce compared to immediately before the divorce, or before their marriage began? This question is irrelevant. She’s worse off after divorce so their is no incentive for divorce. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:53 PM
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First off, 10% of divorces end up with alimony decided BY THE COURT. Most divorces go to settlements before that because men know courts fuck them over and they just try to get it over with before they are paying $100k for both lawyers. Source? The fact you think males give their money to their ex wives WILLINGLY without court intervention is laughable. If a woman “gets the house” after divorce without the court ordering it, it’s because her name is on the mortgage. And she’ll be the primary one…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:49 PM
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We (the United States) have never had a female president. That’s should tell you all you need to know. I would say places like Finland, New Zealand, Iceland are more neutral societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:16 PM
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You get the same legal benefits males get under the state: less taxes, chances to share insurance, medical decision making etc but that’s where the benefits end for the average marriage that a woman would find herself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:11 PM
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Divorce isn’t incentivized. Less than 10% of divorces end in alimony and women are less better off financially after divorce. The only thing you could call an “incentive” is the idea of her being free from a male she clearly doesn’t want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:09 PM
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But the passive party has to consent or else the active party can’t do it (consensually) so I does take two to make that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:45 PM
1

And males have higher infidelity rates than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:43 AM
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So he’s just as likely to get cheat on as SAHMs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:37 AM
1

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CuszQZQuElN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:13 AM
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Well you would be wrong. He took out the trash, did the laundry and cooked dinner. Better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:06 AM
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If you want to know what males think about SAHM’s look no further than how they talk about SAHD’s. A dude posted a video about “a day in the life of a SAHD” and 90% of the comment were basically males saying that he was his wife’s slave. That’s how males view stay a home mom’s: slave’s doing her husband’s bidding. Males will tell on themselves if you listen closely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:56 PM
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It’s not my fault you hang around low class women. That says more about your status, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:43 PM
1

I feel like blue pill communicates pretty clearly that irrationally emotional males are often dangerous and women don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:18 AM
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Some women like them because they’re fun and they don’t reek of pathetic desperation like simps do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:01 PM
4

Not sure considering there are males who are into fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:52 PM
2

Sorry to burst your bubble but there are males who are into here regardless of her being fat because of the way she carries herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:49 PM
3

Confident mannerisms, voice, charm and/or style.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:47 PM
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I don’t know why ya’ll do this. You can tell when a woman is graceful or not. That’s her presence. It’s the same how women perceive male presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:45 PM

My comment isn’t that girlbosses don’t exist. My point is that there aren’t enough of them for males to be bitching about them at the rate they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:53 PM

6’7” is too tall. Women like tall males but there’s a cap and that cap is usually 6’5”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:30 PM

I personally don’t know any GirlBosses. I know smart women with good paying jobs and I know smart women with bare minimum “e-mail jobs”. I know zero women who are constantly and obnoxiously hustling in the way males are always screeching about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:29 PM
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Physical attraction is important wether our society expects monogamy or not. 95% of straight males will always find an hour glass figure sexually attractive. 95% of women will always find tall males more attractive. These are biologically build in preferences because they are markers for good genes. It has nothing to do with societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:16 PM
12

Hot woman dates rich, charming male is the oldest trope ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:04 PM
1

Why would she date a low status male. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:09 PM

You have now: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/159tmyi/daily_community_chat_megathread/jtldl2f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:29 AM

She wasn’t a stunner when they were young either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:55 PM

This woman has access to the best plastic surgeons in the world and they made her look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:54 PM

Tell that to the males here who keep saying all female 3’s can turn into 7’s over night with “simple” plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:49 PM

Have you seen bezo’s ex wife? He has a thing for average women. His current fiancé was exceptionally better looking before she did all that shit to her face. Your argument was plastic surgery/cosmetic procedures make women better looking by default when in reality most procedures women get look botched or unnatural. Lauren before: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:47 PM

Males: All women have to do is get plastic surgery to look better, men’s features can never change. That’s why we get to judge women and they don’t get to judge us. Women after they got the plastic surgery males told them would make them look better: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:33 PM

You’re smoking good shit if you think plastic surgery isn’t going to make her look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:27 PM

False equivalency, but you knew that. No woman has called Sean o’pry unattractive. They’ve said he’s not their type or they can see that he’s objectively attracted by they aren’t attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:23 PM
0

Attractive poor male. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:16 PM

Males: “Margot Robbie is mid😏” Women: I like tall men Males: WHY ARE WOMEN SO HARSH AND MEN’S PHYSICAL APPEARANCE?!? THEY’RE ALL SHALLOW HEARTLESS WENCHES!😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:16 PM

Women have no problem dating average looking males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:43 PM

Your standards may be low but you wouldn’t date ANY woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:59 PM

If you wouldn’t date a woman who is a 3 but checks all of the boxes for what you want in a wife, why in the world are you instructing women to pick ugly males just because he’ll “treat you right”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:54 PM
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I’m absolutely not trying to be shady or take a dig at you but I’m curious. Do you actually have conversations with women you aren’t related to? Like real conversations, not “hi” and “bye”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:21 PM

The lead up to divorce is death by a thousand cuts. Males want to paint women who divorce as malevolent beings who had their husbands walking on eggshells and decided to divorce him after one mistake. “Oh that poor husband! That evil witch just divorced him out of nowhere. She didn’t even try to save the marriage.” No. Divorce happens after multiple “mistakes”, over multiple years. Multiple conversations are had with the husband where she communicates what needs to be done or what he needs to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:22 PM
2

What are you taking about? Males do want competent and mature women who take care of their responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:02 PM
3

Sure. If you can afford to upgrade to a better hotel, buy her a better dress than she has, book a nicer restaurant than she booked THEN a woman will be willing to go along with your plans. But if you trying to throw your weight around by trying to make her do cheaper things, it’s not going to fly. Again it’s about context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:09 PM
8

Acting like a competent, mature adult is performing a gender role now? Geez. How far we’ve fallen from grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:56 PM
5

Sure. Some women might find that attractive, some women will be rubbed the wrong way. I personally, think it’s a little much. You also have to take into account how often that behavior is exhibited. If its exhibited every single day most women will find it performative, demanding and exhausting. If it’s once a month most women won’t mind. Generally pointing her towards things you find attractive will do the trick, she’ll do then if she’s genuinely attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:55 PM
8

Do we really need to spell it out every time? Wanting to be with someone you find attractive is always implied. Maybe stop acting obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:52 PM
4

Awesome. Women have to find you attractive also. As much as males which we were; we aren’t blind. We want to be physically attracted to our males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:40 PM
4

Okay to answer your question: No, women don’t want a controlling or domineering male. Women just want a male who acts like an adult, who has reasonable boundaries and standards, is able to “rise to the occasion” in times of crisis and takes care of his responsibilities competently and in a timely manner. That’s it. For example: If a woman’s boyfriend says, “you’re not wearing that outfit. You look like a whore.” This sets off red flags in a woman’s head. This is domineering and controlling. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:27 PM
2

Very true. There are a few women who wouldn’t mind or are even genuinely attracted to weak or passive males but when it comes time to pick a husband, the vast majority of women want a competent, level-headed male who has goals, has the ability to be a leader in some capacity and is confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:21 PM
2

Not on the “women bad” posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:42 AM
1

Ugly and fat husbands are a reason to cheat. Or at least that’s what males here tell me they would do if their wife got ugly and fat🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:51 PM
1

I’ve been on 2 blind dates set up by friends. Neither of them was unattractive or overtly awkward and both of them were very much my type physically. “Blind date” doesn’t give below average males an advantage. Friends are going to set up there friends with ugly males unless they secretly hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:57 PM
1

No. What effect would that have on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:18 PM
19

Males have no problem ignoring the stats that say the vast majority of large age gap relationships are basically doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:16 PM
7

And all males on here have an “I had an emotionally abusive ex girlfriend that I simped endlessly for until she cheat on me” story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:15 PM
8

Who cares? Males also reject women who they don’t find physically attractive. Why is it suddenly a problem and a societal ill when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:01 PM
30

In my experience, most males are willing to date “chubby” women. By chubby I mean overweight, not obese. And these overweight women in question usually have a very specific body type. Males have no problem dating a overweight woman with an hourglass figure (like the picture you linked to). An overweight woman with a rectangular or inverted triangle figure is doomed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:29 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:13 PM
67

There’s no incentive for women to compliment random males that she’s not romantically interested in. There are a lot of downsides though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:22 PM
11

Women get more confident and hornier as they get older. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:20 PM
0

You don’t have to buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:59 AM
2

Where I disagree- if a girl agrees to go on a couple dates, has dinner, drinks , whatever… she inherently knows in the back of her head that the guy most likely wants to be romantic. This is not how women think. Unless you explicitly ask your female friend on a romantic dinner date, she’s going to think you taking her out to dinner is a friendly gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:49 PM
1

Funny. Males have no probably tell women what age they SHOULD be married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:40 PM
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He pursed a woman who HE KNEW wasn’t his version of wifey material and tried using therapy speak to fundamentally change her as a person. If you want a Little House on the Prairie wife then go get her. Don’t take a woman who you know has a job in a male dominated sport and tell her you can’t speak to male surfers any more or you can’t take bikini pics anymore or you have to take your surfing videos down because I don’t like they way your ass looks. Males are glossing over the fact that a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:02 PM
3

A lot of your grandmother’s were cheating. The stereotype of the housewife fucking the milk man didn’t come out of thin air. And people in the 50’s were having premarital sex all the time which is why shotgun weddings and back alley abortions were so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:43 PM
6

Well yes. Most women go back to work within the first year of the child being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:50 PM
1

All women care about height to some extent. All women have a minimum height that they wouldn’t date under.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:07 PM
8

If he doesn’t pay for dates but expects me to do traditional female things (cook for him more than he cooks for me, clean for him etc). Then he’ll be dropped. If he’s wants to start out the relationship 50/50 that’s fine. Then it needs to stay 50/50. We both pay bills, pay for food, clean, cook etc. Too many males want to go Dutch then turn around and demand tradwife responsibilities from the woman they date. That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:01 PM
7

Found a woman who fits the aesthetic he wants his partner to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:31 PM

What I’ve learned from males here: it doesn’t matter how irrational or rooted in insecurity your “boundaries” are. As long as communicate them like you’re a therapist, you’ll never be in the wrong. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:17 PM
17

There’s nothing worse than for a able bodied male to be a loser. And by loser I say he has no passion, no drive, he’s lazy af. It doesn’t even matter if you’re temporarily unemployed. Just DO something. Work toward something, have realistic goals. Don’t cry about how to world owes you and you don’t have to work because of x, y and z. You might get away with wondering aimlessly through life in your late teens and maybe early 20s but past that you’re a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:37 PM
0

You can’t really tell. But for most males who are virgins past 20 there are very obvious signs that they’ve never had sex before or hasn’t had sex in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:23 PM

The guy she married is no scrub. He’s a successful financier. He could have easily got a normie-low n count wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:17 PM

Lindsey Lohan is proof that you can be the biggest coked up slut at one point and still secure a male “post-wall”. The revenge fantasies are just that. Fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:02 PM
-1

Right now is the era of the highest male reproduction rate. You all shouldn’t be complaining. You have it made compare to cave males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:49 PM
2

You’ve just made up the 30% stat. The vast majority of males find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:31 PM
1

You’re a male. Males are superficial and their emotions and “love” is dictated how hard a woman can make his dick. You wouldn’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:39 PM
4

Yea, all 3 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:04 PM
1

Males already have bad natural BO when they get fat it’s significantly worse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:53 PM
7

The single 40 year old males complaining about OF are insane. Like the women in your age bracket aren’t even doing only fans. Stay out of young women’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:48 PM
1

I agree but Messi isn’t ugly and he’s got a better body than most American males.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:06 PM
7

This isn’t a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:19 PM
5

Yea. Im going to need sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:08 PM
9

Couldn’t you say the same for fat women? There are fat fetish porn sites all over does that mean it’s okay to shove fat women down the average man’s throat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:07 PM
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If it wasn’t a societal norm for women to shave body hair they wouldn’t do it. Women didn’t start shaving body hair routinely until the early 20th century. And that’s because body hair was labeled masculine by the razor companies in an effort to sale more razors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:03 PM
9

You conveniently only addressed one of my points. And who said anything about excessive body hair? We’re talking about the normal amount of body hair that naturally occurs on the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:59 PM
14

“The bush” was pretty popular among female nude models in the 70’s and they had no problem with it then. Cave men had no problem fucking hairy cave women. And who dictates how much hair is too much hair? To some males very little hair on a woman is “too much”. And isn’t having no body hair a symptom of endo disorders as well? If hair body hair turned males off we would be extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:52 PM
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Just like women are expected to shave body hair and males aren’t? It’s funny what double standards males will choose to get angry at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:40 PM
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You say the same for males. 300 years ago males weren’t demanding that women shave every inch of their body. They would happily fuck a hairy woman. Now? Males have a mental break down over a little bush and arm pit hair. Males complain about the fat acceptance movement and claim the powers that be are forcing them to find fat women attractive. History has proven that social norms change what males find attractive so why does forcing males to like fat women piss them off so much? Simply put, weth…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:33 PM
2

And then everyone clapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:46 PM
-1

Males: “Social media is rotting woman’s brains!” Meanwhile, males
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:05 PM
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Males: “Don’t ask dead beat dads to take responsibility. Hold the women who choose them accountable!” The single mother is taking accountability by raising the kids. That’s her taking responsibility. Now it’s the father’s turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:51 PM

No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:06 PM
2

The issue is they over rate themselves. You’ll see overweight American males thinking their too good for overweight American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:51 PM
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You seem to have rose colored glasses about the past. For being a stay at home mom to be great most males would have had to be good husbands. They weren’t. Most men were neglectful and cheaters at best and abusers at worst. Some of your grandfather’s had whole entire second families but because your grandparents stayed together for 70 years everyone thought everything was sweet and rose but in reality their grandmother were miserable. There was a quaalude epidemic among housewives in the 1950 an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:57 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:29 AM
9

Most guys problem isn’t their looks. It’s their shyness and inability to hold a appropriate conversation/flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:19 PM
0

Again, your response inherently implies that something is wrong with the man and he has anger issues. Yes. Should we just dismiss modern feminists as just "having anger issues"? Yes. If we're willing to identify and address issues aggrieving women, and truly desiring gender equality, should we not also be able to identify and address issues aggrieving men rather than just demonizing them as "angry" and "needing fixing"? That’s what personal therapy is for. To get to the bottom why YOU SPECIFICAL…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:43 PM
-3

Are people not responsible for themselves? If someone has anger issues that’s their problem to fix. No one else can do it for them. I think jestering widely and blaming society is a cop out. At some point society ends and self accountability begins. If you want to be bitter and resentful toward women that’s fine. Own that shit. Don’t blame society for feelings you knowingly fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:31 PM
-1

Why are you talking in riddles? You can stop being passive and name the thing you’re talking about. I’m not clairvoyant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:25 PM
2

Why is it someone else job to “fix” someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:15 PM
-1

Modern males are like that way before they meet their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:56 PM
-2

That’s because women’s emotional connection is real and can’t be tarnished by rejection. It stands alone and doesn’t need to be backed my mutual affection. Male emotional connection is fake. They built up fake emotional intimacy to justify the lust they’re feeling toward you. Once rejected, the fake emotional connection is easily shattered because it was heavily dependent on your chances of sexual reciprocity in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:58 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:51 AM
3

Why should we? Males don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:50 AM
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I was told warning a young woman about the risks of dating a male 10+ years her senior was treating women like children because it makes it seem like adult women (18-25) “have no agency”. This is a very popular rebuttal with the males here when ever the topic of age gap relationships come up. “You don’t think an 18 year old should date a 35 year old? You must think all women are dumb children who can’t make serious decisions for themselves!” Well, I’m going to use the same exact rebuttal against…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:16 AM
1

Sure. That counters your whole argument then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:21 PM
-1

So? Casey Anthony has had boyfriends since she killed her daughter. When people say there’s someone for everyone they mean it. And I find it convenient that you called him a rapist before he’s actually been found guilty. Any other time males are bitching at women about how alleged rapists are “innocent until found guilty”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:53 PM
0

Great. You still won’t experience the validation of getting sexually chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:57 PM

It’s what happens when NEET autists try to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:36 PM
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“I’m going to hate women because women have no appreciation for a GOOD GUY like me!” Such a good guy women not giving him attention makes him bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:29 PM
0

Nothing would change. Getting sex from a hooker won’t solve the fact that they still want sexual validation. Seeing Chad get women groping him and flirting with him for free is still going to make the incel who needs a “sex prescription” to get sex jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:27 PM
0

It’s good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:24 PM
0

Let your wife fuck someone handsomer, more muscular than you who has a bigger dick while you watch. Relationship problems solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:16 PM

I blame low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:11 PM
11

People are allowed to not find black males attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:48 AM
2

Why do the males here complain about you being a male-hating mod. When their are women-hating mods that they’re silent about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:48 AM
60

Thank you for showing everyone how delusional the average male is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:47 AM
3

Who cares? People are allowed to not find Asian males attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:23 AM

Where does the idea of CEO marrying a Starbucks girl come from ? It comes from people who watch too many movies. It’s the “Pretty Woman” effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:47 PM

The effects of having sex but not orgasming. It makes women feel like a cum sock. Not fun. Ask a woman in longterm relationship with bad sex if she’s happy and you’ll get the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:44 PM

The “red pill doesn’t support marriage/ red pill isn’t for marriage” thing kind of blows up in their face due to the fact that there is (was?) a r/marriedredpill sub with a massive following. Don’t be fooled by these males attempting to gaslight you. Males are attempting to use red pill to get into longterm relationships and marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:24 PM
0

They weren’t complaining about their transness they were complaining about their maleness. Chicken or the egg. They wouldn’t know the difference. I bet if you asked this person exactly when they started feeling this way they would say it was when they came out as trans before they started taking testosterone and changing their appearance. That’s the point we’re people start abandoning trans people, not when they get to the point where they’re actually male passing but far before the transition p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:03 PM
-2

Norah Vincent part 2. It’s the exact same thing. Norah Vincent wasn’t a convincing male and anyone who thought so was delusional. She got shunned because she was clearly a woman (especially at a time where trans people we’re definitely more marginalized and discriminated against) trying to pass as a male and everyone could see through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:36 AM
2

You can’t use a trans man as an indicator of how males behave and they’re experience. Why? Because people have a bias toward trans people. Who’s to say what this trans man is experiencing is actually because they’re trans not because they’re presenting as a male? People are going to shun trans men for just being trans not because they’re male presenting. Trans man: “I’m sad and no one wants to be around me.” Males: “YEA ITS BECAUSE YOU’RE A MAN” Reality: A lot of Americans (especially American m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:27 AM

Hmm...would you class yourself as picky and discerning when it comes to finding a partner (that is if you want a partner, or did at any point in your life). yes I’m picky and discerning when it comes to partners Also what balance are you talking about? The balance between men and women? Between one country and another one? Between the earth and the rest of the solar system? The balance I’m speaking of is the balance of procreation. Males do not give a fuck about birth control. That’s why you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:38 PM
3

Males who are good looking are more likely to get causal sex. What’s so hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:06 PM

Yes. Women are far more picky and discerning than any male. Its rare for a woman to have 100 bodies unless she’s a sex worker. Almost every male with options has or would love to have 100+ bodies. Unfiltered male sexuality dooms society. This is why society can only take a few males having access to large amounts of women at one time. Any more than that and the balance breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:20 PM

100% every male having unlimited access to casual sex would destroy the balance of society. They’re going to hate you for this but even they know it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:18 PM

James Franco and Seth MacFarlane have never had a six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:15 PM

Dystopian af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:25 PM

That’s why I prefaced my point with “women who are picky about looks”. You are not picky about looks therefore you don’t fall into the category of women I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:50 PM

I don’t think women who are picky about looks should ever apologize. Have you ever heard a males friends try to hook their friend up with a girl and say “yea she’s a little ugly but she’s nice and will treat you good”. No? But for some reason this way of thinking is always aimed at women when a woman is looking for a partner. “Yea he’s a little ugly but he’s a really nice guy and he’ll treat you good.” It’s “okay” for males to say they want to be with a woman they find attractive but when a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:33 PM

You can be that and know how to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:24 PM

You are not attractive. Stop bitching about what attractive women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:52 PM

Yes male sexual longing often will be expressed in the form of hate. A male stalking and bullying a woman he’s attracted to but has no access to is the most clear example of this. Males do not like having to look at something that can’t access and that feeling comes out in anger. Which is why males will call a woman a bitch for turning him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:10 PM

Males who think women have all the power in relationships are only focusing on the “hot woman-mid male” relationship dynamic where the male is complete simp because he knows he lucked out getting a hotter woman thus the woman having significantly more control. In looksmatch relationships, the male dictates the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:45 PM

Males here love acting disingenuous. “You can’t use famous men as a metric of male behavior and attitudes.” The fuck you can. If anything rich males with options is the closest thing you’ll ever see to real male behavior because they aren’t obliged to social norms like regular males have to be. They have the time, money and freedom to behave however they want and access whoever they want. And they choose to be dumb assholes 95% of the time. Just because the average male doesn’t have the means to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:23 PM

I’ve seen poor males move the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:17 PM

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:55 PM

He has options, he should have picked better. Or at least, that’s what you all tell women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:47 PM

All these low key women who would fuck him and not try to scam him but he’s picks the worst two women possible. Dumbass 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:15 PM

This only highlights how much of an idiot he is. There are women his age who are DTF and wouldn’t try to get pregnant by him but he picks the most obvious gold diggers on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:13 PM

I’ve seen everyday males make the same mistake of impregnating a woman he wouldn’t want to be the mother of his kids. His status makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:11 PM

You know he’s not the only example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:08 PM

Yea males don’t care about their child having a porn star mother and having to deal with her demands and airing out their dirty laundry for 18 years. Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:07 PM

This isn’t about him sleeping around. It’s about a male with options being a obvious mark. Those porn stars could see him being an easy target from a mile away and he proved them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:59 PM

And for every one of those there’s a male getting cheated on or abused claiming he had no choice but to date her because she’s his “only option”. When in reality, he has the option to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:58 PM

Zion Williamson got a porn star pregnant which pissed off another porn star he was involved with now she’s spilling all of his business. Please tell me more about how males with options are better a choosing good women than woman are with choosing good males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:53 PM

Which means he’s lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:37 PM
2

If you want to see what males would do if they have thousands of option look no further than male celebrities. Male celebrities constanly choose women who gold dig, cheat or abuse even though they have options to marry good women. Look a Jeff Bezos. He left his wife to marry some gold digger who is still probably fucking her ex husband and he’s completely chosen to be oblivious about it. Males like to feel their superior in picking partners when reality shows their just as shit as some women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:27 PM

The Ability to be aggressive when the situation warrants it is sexy. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:17 PM

Oh I think I confused your love for fat women with you being fat. 🥺sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:16 PM

the 2 biggest problems with joining the military are: i have to cut my beautiful hair Males are hotter with buzz cuts. constantly moving posts to the middle of nowhere, cutting off access to consistent pussy You’ll get out of the military eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:10 PM

To each her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:05 PM

Look at the French Foreign Legion and tell me you don’t one to fuck everyone of these guys. Disciplined masculinity will always be sexy and en vogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:03 PM

Males would get so much pussy if that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:56 PM

that 14bach person said Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:56 PM

r/menwritingwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:53 PM

A lot of males have a weird thing for “small, innocent” looking women cough women who look like children cough. So that actually might work as an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:47 PM

Isn’t the average women least attracted to blue collar workers? I’m most attracted to blue collar workers. So more of them for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:42 PM

Staining my chair bleach white by jacking it,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:41 PM

Blue collar jobs are mostly worked by men but the majority of men aren’t working blue collar jobs We need more blue collar jobs. This is a benefit for everyone. We get nicer roads, better infrastructure. The males become hotter and women become more attracted which equals more sex, relationships and well maintained bridges for everyone. It’s a win-win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:39 PM

Build whatever you like just get out of that rancid, cum-incrusted gaming chair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:29 PM

Preferably. Most able bodied males should be working blue collar jobs with the minority working white collar. Cushy white collar jobs are for the girlies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:27 PM

Aren’t you fat, purp? Haven’t you had like 7 wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:24 PM

Building a house can satiate your need to compete. Whichever male builds the cabin the fastest wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:19 PM

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:17 PM

Males were never meant to sit at a gaming chair all day. This is not what the ancestors envisioned. Women are closer to our true purpose than males are. To scratch our lizard brains women garden, we keep cute plants in our house, we collect pretty crystals, we “nest” by taking an interest in interior decor. What do modern males under 30 do to satiate primal urges? They play an obsessive amount of video games and become porn addicts. Regression. The male body is designed for manual labor YET so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:14 PM

I said something not so nice about the males. You know, my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:57 PM

All of my takes are completely lucid and based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:50 PM

It might happen once in a blue moon but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:49 PM

We’ve all fallen on hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:45 PM

I served my ban and I’m back with a vengeance 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:45 PM

Doesn’t exist. The lowest 10/10 Chad is going is to a 5. And even that’s when he’s drunk or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:41 PM

Fema— l mean women on PPD: I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend/husband last night. Someone’s jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:07 PM

You’re not going to illicit raw sexual attraction by acting like a stereotypical autistic and being insecure. It’s just not going to happen. There’s this guy I work with who is autistic and obese but also funny and charming. The only “autistic tells” that he has is he doesn’t know when to stop talking sometimes and he gets slightly frustrated when things aren’t on schedule. Other than that he’s cool and he slayed when he was single. Just goes to show that males without hang ups and don’t take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:02 PM

I think true love exists but it’s a lot rarer than people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:44 PM
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What do you want them to say? A 3 lusting after only 7’s and up is going to be unsuccessful for obvious reasons. If you want access to a higher quality of women you need to become higher quality. If you don’t or can’t become higher quality you stick with what you can get or learn to be happy single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:36 PM
3

Males taking advantage of women who are in a bad situation is very normal, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:01 PM

He is simply saying "don't treat me like I'm subhuman" which is what most women do to these guys. Now you’re doing the exact same thing I just described. Treating someone with indifference or not acknowledging them is not treating them like a sub human. He's not claiming an entitlement to romance and sex by saying "hey, I'm human, don't treat me like I'm trash". Again treating you with indifference isn’t treating you like trash. This type of exaggeration and blatant attempt to self victimize is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:01 PM

Yes I believe there are males entitled to romance and sex. How do I know? Because males who are unsuccessful slip up when explaining their lack of success. Males who do not get romantic or sexual attention associating a woman’s indifference toward him as disrespect is the biggest most common tell. Males will say “women are disrespectful to me.” When someone asks him how are women disrespectful to you they’ll say “they treat me like I’m invisible”. To the average person, someone not acknowledging…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:56 PM

Yes. That’s Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:44 PM

The same way 80 year olds still fuck like rabbits even though they’re crinkly and ugly. Once people mature past a 12 year old mindset they realize there’s more to attraction than just physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:44 PM

Yes there are males who want women who turn down every male’s advances but wants her to fuck HIM on the first date because he’s “so special”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:33 PM

Males who think a woman should just find him sexually attractive but no other man are as stupid as people who believe that someone can only truly fall in love with one person on a planet of 8 billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:25 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:48 PM
2

I think anyone who wants to have a SAH spouse should be willing to give them a generous allowance and be aware that in the event of a divorce, it’s fair for them to ask for alimony. The working spouse shouldn’t try to put up a fight when the ex-spouse asks for alimony unless they were cheating or were abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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You all constantly moving the goal posts on what’s considered being a “whore” or riding the “CC”. A few years ago it was just the women who had ONS who were sluts. Now it’s women who’ve had a FWB. The truth is males are angry at women having sex with anyone but them YET they want women to have sex with them for the least amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:41 PM
2

Another thing that males love to do is hide their sins behind a shield built of courageous males. “Yea, men are bad but look at the 2 out of 100 men who would step in front of a bullet for you!” Males who are self sacrificial to the point that they would give their life for another are the slim, slim minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:55 PM
2

The males on this sub take great joy in villainizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:40 PM
1

The crazy thing about what you said is it’s not a cycle feeding it’s self. More like a half circle. Misogyny can breed misandry but misogyny can come about just because a male is jealous of a woman or he feels like he’s not getting what he’s owned. Hell, even if a male comes across a woman who is superior to him in some area that small and insignificant action can cause him to become a raging sexist (look up GamerGate). Males don’t necessarily have to be mistreated or abused by women in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:34 PM
1

Biological truths hold us back? I’ll tell you a story. I have a brother who I used to play fight with all the time. Since I was 6 and he was 4 we used to play fight. And the fighting was pretty even most of the time. Sometimes I would even “win”. We had to stop when I was 17 and he was 15 because his “play punches” and “play slaps” were genuinely starting to hurt me. I would playful push him with my full body weight and he would literally not move. I would slap and punch him and he would laugh b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:51 PM
1

It’s violence is initiated by the man. No. Often the women initiate and get hit back. So while they're much more likely to sustain serious damage in these situations they oft initiate it. I’ve never been an abusive relationship but I know with out a doubt that if a man slaps me, I’m slapping him back. Are you okay with the reverse? A man who was hit by a woman who retaliates? No. A woman who punches you isn’t threatening your life. A man punching a woman could kill her. Unless she has a knife to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:39 PM
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Your first link is to a blog that doesn’t link the study. Your second link is broken. It says “page not found”. Your 3rd link also says page not found and so does your fourth one. Out of all the links you posted. The ones that actually work aren’t research but opinion blogs and videos. There’s an illusion of the “perfect victim”. I’ve never been an abusive relationship but I know with out a doubt that if a man slaps me, I’m slapping him back. You can add me in the “reciprocal domestic violence” …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:29 PM
1

If you don’t want to be challenged you’re on the wrong sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:58 PM
1

Females don't use romance at all; You want to talk about irony yet you said this. Instead of addressing my comment you want to derail and call what I’m saying ironic. Address point of the comment or don’t comment back at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:39 PM
1

Like many things in dating, it’s not the virginity, It’s what the virginity implies. We all know, as soon as puberty hits the vast majority of males try to lose their virginity as soon as possible. So what does a 28 year old male being a virgin tell us? It tells us he’s gone 15 years trying to get sex and no women will have him. So if no other women believe he has any redeemable traits, then odds are he probably doesn’t. Now I know what the response will be. You’ll say “well women, only chase Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:32 PM
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Females don't use romance at all; they just flail the possibility of sex around hoping that some gold-diggable beta bux takes the bait. Maybe not towards you but we do. You can tell women are true romantics because we only show it to males we truly love. It comes from a real place with real emotion. Males will toss out “romance” to any woman who he wants to fuck. It’s superficial and fake. He uses it to trick the female brain into thinking he actually cares. Males have successfully hijacked roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:08 PM
1

8. 11. Is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:59 PM
-1

Nah this starts a puberty. You’re infatuated with Stacey from 3rd period Algebra because your hormones are at their peak. You do romantic thing to get her attention for the sake of romance it’s self but to get brown points in hopes that if you do the right things she’ll give you sex. Males use romances as a means to an end. Women use romance because they love the act of romance itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:48 PM
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Males delude themselves with this. They are not natural romantics this much is clear. Males are only as romantic as long as there a 001% that sex will be on the table in the near future. You may daydream about a girl because you know if things go right and you hit the right buttons she’ll have sex with you. As soon as males realizes a sex window is closed shut for good. Poof. All of a sudden those butterflies in his stomach are gone. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:35 AM
2

I think having a wife who doesn’t nag is terrible for a marriage. A moderate amount of nagging is healthy. When a woman shows complete loyalty to a male, she’s completely subservient that signals in his brain that he can literally do anything and she’s going to stay. He can go out and cheat and she’ll pretend that every thing is alright. Nagging and dreading your husband from time to time keeps his on his toes and on his A game. The myth that doormats have the best and most thoughtful husbands b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:55 PM
1

No. More and more males are the “same” because they’re literally sheep. Back in the 60’s all males cut their hair like the Beatles because they saw the reactions that women had toward the Beatles. I don’t think you understand how easy it is for women to change superficial traits in the male population. If a whole bunch of attractive women got online and said they like males who can do hand stands you’ll suddenly see a bunch of pictures and videos of males doing hands on social media and dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:16 PM
2

What? I’m under 30 and I see average couples everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:24 PM
7

Every couple I know slips date costs. One date the dude will pay the next date the woman will pay. And women spend money on gifts for their SO all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:58 PM
11

Most progressive women still demand men financially perform. No shit. You need a job to pay half the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:52 PM
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Why don’t you guys ever find a woman who wants to be in a trad relationship? Why are you involved with women who want to work or women who make more than you and try to whittle them down into submissive housewives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:46 PM

Incels attack incel leader after he says he’s leaving the community because he finally got laid. This is proof that inceldom is mostly a choice and it’s their “crabs in a bucket” mentality that keeps them from being laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:25 PM
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My last paragraph answered your question. It’s not misandrist to have superficial standards. Nor is it misogynistic to have superficial standards for women. The difference as to why males seem to get more backlash for their shallow standards is because there little to no market for them. How are you going to have all these standards when there are no buyers to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:13 PM
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Is it misandristic if so many males are willing to go into relationships with loopsided double standards to begin with? One basic rule about economics: Who ever controls an in demand product controls the market. The House always wins. You can jack up an iPhone to $2500 even though it took $200 to make and people will still by it. Why? Because it’s in demand and people are so desperate to look cool with their new iPhone. It’s the same with women. Women of average attractiveness can say they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:05 PM
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To say every woman who has the ability to sleep around IS sleeping around is not true. It’s a very male way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:26 PM
0

Stop projecting male sexuality on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:48 PM
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Having sex with 1 person out of a relationship isn’t being a “hoe”. Please be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:41 PM
1

Wait until males find out there are women in the “in between”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:20 PM
1

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:17 PM
2

This is impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:52 PM

This is the definition of a protection racket.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:33 PM

“Men are protectors women should be grateful 😏” Meanwhile males
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:30 PM
1

Pretty much. People “like” people who let them use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:22 PM
2

No. You only value pick mes because they’re on your side. It’s like a how some white people love Candace Owens but are still racist toward black people. Because Candace is their mouth piece. She’s on their side. She’s allowed to bash black people FOR conservative white people it’s the same reason why men love pick mes. Pick mes can say things about women that males can’t say or else they’re labeled sexist. You like pick me’s because they’re willing to be attack dogs for males. A Whore isn’t equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:07 PM
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There are alot of pick mes who aren’t married. There are two in particular;Conservative female podcasters. I’m blanking on their names but they’re constantly bashing women for more views on youtube. One has never been married and another one is divorced and single. To think pick mes are getting special treatment from males that other women aren’t getting is false. In relationships they get treated like every other woman. If being a pick me stopped men from cheating, abusing and using every woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:04 PM
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Pick me’s are the female equivalent of simps. The same reason males hate simps is the same reason women hate pick me’s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:52 PM
5

Your trolling would work better if you were more articulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:50 PM

How do you know these males are top 20% in looks. The narrative that only the upper echelon on males use women need to die because it’s 100% not true. And I find it fascinating that males seek out video like this. Video where they can feel better because they feel vindicated hearing about women getting used and rejected. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:32 PM
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Women are repulsed by desperation and neediness because it’s childlike. Children need their mothers. A grown adult male should not need a woman he should want a woman. There’s a difference. Ask any woman and they’ll say a needy male doesn’t know when to quit. He ignores when women say “no”, he has a high probability of stalking women and is most likely emotionally unstable. Like it or not these things scare women. It makes us feel unsafe when you’re tracking our every move and know things about …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:19 PM
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Begrudgingly staying with your wife because you don’t want to lose your cook and maid and you’re too scared of what awaits after divorce ≠ Love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:44 PM
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How many males do you think would love their girlfriends and wives if they stopped have sex with them and never had sex with them again? Love is not unconditional nor should it be. Depending on a person’s patience, some people can maintain love for a long time without their effort being reciprocated. Other people’s love will die within weeks if their need and wants aren’t being met efficiently. But everyone — male and woman — has an inner timeline in which if they’re no longer getting standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:36 PM
10

I think you need to blow your local IRS agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:25 PM
0

Me too! If only blue collar males would stop sexually harassing, belittling blue collar women and making the environment generally displeasing and toxic for them, there would be more of them. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/29/us/blue-collar-women-harassment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:50 AM
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Okay, so why do you think male beauty is so much harder to obtain than female beauty? Both of them depend on you getting lucky and winning the genetic lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:48 AM
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They think all women are sitting on their ass collecting these mystery government checks that I’ve never seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:45 AM
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Big boobs are genetic so is a big ass. There are countless women in my gym who work out hard have nice bodies but can’t for the life of them develop their glutes (or at least develop them to the point where males would find it attractive). A lot of women are genetically doomed to having a flat ass no matter how much they work out. Some women’s faces also suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:38 AM
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Most women don’t receive alimony. Women’s income falls 41% after divorce. Male come falls 23%. Saying women benefit from divorce is simply a brain dead take. The only benefit she gets is being able to free herself from her useless male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:06 AM
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Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:03 AM
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Who cares? Males have made it clear that they want complete subjugation and subservience from women or they’ll stomp their feet, throw down their toys and yell about how they “don’t want to play anymore”. Women started demanding to be treated fairly and males have been going off the rails ever since. If what it takes for men to be active participants in society is for women to bend the knee I say fuck them. Let them be lonely, let them be bitter and miserable and cry into their cum-cemented pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:23 AM
-1

Marriage isn’t great for women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:19 AM
3

They file the paper work 80% the time. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a male you would know why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:17 AM
1

Of course they do. Unlike providing financially, males think being nurturing is a default setting for women. Males get to pick and choose who they provide for but women must be caring and motherly to everyone regardless of their worth or relevance or else she isn’t wife material. Because of this males who have nothing to offer believe getting and feminine and soft woman is the bare minimum. If I had a dollar for every time I’ve seen a wagie or stingy male say he’s entitled to a hyper feminine, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:27 PM
3

Cut the shit. All males watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:08 AM
2

You didn’t need to turn into a “savage” all you had to do is be fun and stop acting like a simp. For some reason males miss all nuance of why a lot of women go after “bad boys”. They’re exciting and not puppy dogs nipping at women’s heels. You can be that and not be a bad person but males find it impossible to balance the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:20 PM
1

Lol good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:12 PM

Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:11 PM

Saying Jews are native to Israel is not anti-Semitic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:49 PM

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:40 PM

Those are solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:27 PM

They’re all worshipping the same God but they fight about semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:25 PM

We could get to a solution faster if there was so many falsehoods and lies about the geopolitical history of Israel/Palestine and the conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:23 PM

Ethnic Jews are indigenous to the land of Israel and whoever says otherwise doesn’t know basic Middle East history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:13 PM
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Despising women but at the same time desiring then, is ‘square toy in round hole’ behavior. The more hate incels aim hate at women the funnier it is when a male get rejected and cheated on.
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 08:24 PM
3

An attractive intelligent and ambitious male >> an attractive dumb and lazy male >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>an ugly ambitious and intelligent male. Everyone knows this except the incels and autistics on this sub. Above all you need to pass the looks threshold if you do not, it doesn’t matter how smart or ambitious you may be (unless you’re a millionaire, then you can buy “love”). So yes women value ambition and intelligence in a male THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:08 PM
1

Life on “easy mode”, clearly. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:17 PM
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This is why women don’t give 99% of the males that cold approach a chance btw. Because we know you all are full of shit. You will say what you need to say to get in a relationship. Like it’s gotten so insane that males will get MAD at women for not believing the lies that males tell them. How does that make sense? You all would literally be in a relationship with any random woman. It doesn’t matter what kind of person she is, it doesn’t matter if your goals align, it doesn’t matter if you all wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:45 PM

For this to be true, the inverse also has to be true. The counter would be the active participant in the beginning of the relationship will always be active. That is not accurate. We’ve all seen relationships where males chase after a woman but become lazy 3 years into the relationship. So one can be passive at the beginning and become active as the relationship develops.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:36 PM
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They also switch from “not all men” to “yes all men” when they have daughters. Suddenly they find all males creepy perverts when their daughter starts dating. Suddenly every man is potential abuser or POS until proven otherwise. They finally start looking through women’s eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:53 AM
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The only difference between Chad chasing and Stacey chasing is any woman above a 5 will be able to atleast fuck chad. But because virtually no average male can have a ONS with Stacy, they believe being caught up on Instagram models and OF women is not a real problem and they’re still able to settle down with average women after brain washing themselves with porn and insta models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:26 PM
0

Coping that I’m a troll so you don’t have to grow a pair. Lazy tactic.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 02:57 PM
-4

Lol we smell your insecurity from a mile away. You know what dries up women more than being short or being below a 5 in looks? Being a bitch boy. You all are single because you act like losers so women treat you like losers.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 02:30 PM
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Being a shitty, lazy partner = bad partner. Males love to deflect and blame something they can’t control so they don’t have to come to terms that the majority of their suffering is their own fault. These type of people are insufferable to deal with. That’s why you all are single.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 02:06 PM
-2

It doesn’t matter if they look average. They all suck as partners and women are wising up to it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 01:58 PM
1

Sure they should be educate. Possibly in elementary school and once again in middle school. But I’m seeing a lot of education being aimed at grown men. If it didn’t stick in grade school it’s never going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:20 PM
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This is the miscalculation of liberal feminism and why if anyone asked if i was a feminist I would say no. Liberal feminism’s idea is all wrong. You can not “educate” someone with ingrained bad intentions. People know sexual assault and murder are bad and yet many people still do it. If males want to rape, they will. If males want to stalk, they will. Whining about males being this way and trying to educate them like they don’t already know the difference between right and wrong, isn’t going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:57 PM
5

Literally every male leader ever has been a complete degenerate. Pick up a history book and see how many male leaders are chronic cheaters, alcoholics, frequent “gentlemen club/brothel visitors” and abusers. Her only problem is she got caught. She was just doing what every male leader through out time has done. Don’t act angry now. Spare us the “women will never know the discipline of a true leader” bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:22 AM
1

It’s funny how none of these “HVM” are answering you straight up. It’s a yes or no question and they’re giving you these paragraphs about how technically, maybe, possibly they can keep a HVW lol. If you read between the lines all of them are saying yes they struggle keeping them. I don’t know why you asked. None of them are going to be forthright. They’ll just find a way to say it’s the other way around , “the HVW can’t keep them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:35 AM
2

Thank you for being the only one on this thread with more than two functioning brain cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:07 AM
11

Again you are conflating advice and warnings with seeing them as children. When red pill warns males not to marry women with children or promiscuous women are they treating those males like children? After all, males are old enough to make decisions about who they want to marry and when, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:57 PM
10

“They”. I don’t see multiple women here saying that. You have one person whose quote you took out of context to support your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:53 PM
8

If you interpret the advice older women give to young women as “if they were talking to a child”. That’s a “you” problem. The only advice older women give to younger women you seem to take issue with is the type warning women to stay away from significantly older males…weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:49 PM
5

I had no problem making decisions about my own sex life when I was a young adult. I wasn't inviting criticism and anyone trying to overrule my decisions about my own sex life would have been told to fuck off. Good for you? Just because you ignore advice and warnings older males may have given you doesn’t mean everyone should stop giving younger people advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:36 PM
42

Males love being disingenuous and purposefully obtuse. Women don’t see younger women has children. For some reason, males think as soon as a woman turns 18 she gains the maturity, foresight and wisdom of a 45 year old woman. You know good and well that the majority 18 - 22 year olds don’t know shit about the real world. That goes for both males and women. So for an older person to offer them guidance or advice doesn’t mean we see them as children. You can acknowledge someone is an adult and stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:30 PM

You have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:05 PM

It’s gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:44 PM

You have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:28 PM
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Married males are fatter on average than married women. https://www.businessinsider.com/how-marriage-impacts-health-2014-1?amp As well as being 400 lbs is more uncommon than being of a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:23 PM
3

Women and males aren’t the same. Stop comparing apples with oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:03 PM
21

Whenever I see a male saying males aren’t easy to trick I’ll just repost this comment. American males have be the best Marks in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:11 PM
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It’s not about the sex work. It’s not about traveling to Thailand. I have no respect for a male who desires to reach beyond his station without working for it. Passportbros think they deserve a 10 in Thailand when they’re just as fat and lazy as their female counterparts back home in America. Why does the prospect of having to fuck and marry his American looksmatch upset the sub-6 American male so much? I do not respect sub-5 males aspiring to live the life of a pseudo-Chad for 7 easy installmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:43 AM

None of what you posted proves your point. And I think you know that. 40% of employed women make more than their husbands. You take skew stats that have little to do with what you’re saying when this is the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:44 PM

I think this thread just highlights that males will attempt to use any excuse to lord over their wives and try to find justification of why they demand servitude out of a women who also work full time. He makes 5k more than you a year? OOP! You have to do all the chores! You both work full time but he works seven more hours than you a week? OOP! You have to do all the child rearing. His boss yells at him twice and week and your boss only yells at you once a week? OOP! You have to run all the err…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:22 PM
-1

You’re having sex the moment stealthing occurs. You’re not having sex by fishing a condom out of a trash bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:54 PM
2

Rape is having sex with someone who has not consented to having sex with you. Taking a thrown away condom and trying to inseminate yourself is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:14 PM
1

They’re going to call you a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:08 AM
12

Doesn’t matter you all are going to fuck and try to wife the crazy woman anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:48 PM
5

Listing things you hate or dislike is reddest of red flags. Your profile should always be positive and light. Instead of saying “no fat chicks” say “looking for a gym buddy” that usually weeds out fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:04 PM
1

while they could get a good man that earns 1.5x as much and do fine, though. A lot of women DO marry this guy. But what you say makes sense, but I don't think women are really calibrated to reality, by media and celebrities that are way better looking than us. We see images around of wealthy houses, people, etc. not really equals, and as social groups collapse it gets even worse. Most people aren’t effected by this. People are aware that celebrities live in a whole different situation than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:50 PM
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while you find plenty of women that choose broke and irresponsible men as long as they are good looking. Yea, this isn’t the hypergamy I was referring to. The issue is that women often assume they all can get men like this, but it is a win-lose game. This is not an issue. Quite literally every woman can be successfully hypergamous. If you’re a woman who makes 30k a year, marrying a male who makes 50k makes you hypergamous and you put your children in a better position than if you had them as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:28 PM
0

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:16 PM
1

Because socially we should be seen as equally. But we shouldn’t be seen as equally biologically which is why dating is one of the last standing lopsided social exchanges between males and women and why male and women’s sports are kept separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:02 PM
4

You went straight to an emotional argument. Let me provide you an example. My mother is hypergamous. She married my father knowing he would make upward of 100k more than her. He’s tall (6 foot) and at the time they got together he was a light bodybuilder. He’s also a good man. He’s respectful to everyone, smart, very handy and friendly. What you’re choosing to focus on is physical hypergamy (what most males are insecure about). What I’m talking about is holistic hypergamy. My father is an overal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:54 PM
1

Social equality doesn’t matter. Biology will almost always trump any social change. And we are not equal biologically. Until biological males can get pregnant we are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:44 PM
3

This tracks. Women’s standards are lower than they’ve ever been because males as a whole have regressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:42 PM
0

A lot of subpar children. More than usual. What if our female ancestors lowered their standards? We would still be knuckle dragging monkeys. For humans to progress the majority of women need to be hypergamous to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:40 PM
3

It doesn’t matter what you consciously want. It’s what you lizard brain wants. And your lizard brain will always prioritize procreation wether you’re aware of it or not. Yes you can really not want kids. But you could still accidentally fall pregnant therefore males still need to prove themselves to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:37 PM
1

Both genders use each other for utilities. For some reason males think they’re capable of unconditional love but if your wife is perfectly healthy but stops cooking, cleaning and having sex with you, then you’re going to fall out of love with her FAST. Males use women for cooking, cleaning, life management, having/caring for their children and sex Women use males for resources and security. Of course companionship comes into play but if the utilities are gone so is the want for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:12 PM
3

It still makes sense from a biological stand point. Women get pregnant, males don’t. So you need to convince her why you deserve to impregnate her. It makes perfect sense biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:07 PM
4

It’s the exact same as always. Males have always had to court women and compete for a woman’s attention. In the 1800’s it was in the form of handsome suitors vying for the affection of a woman. If she wasn’t interested, she would next him for the next suitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:19 PM
1

Handsome males don’t need beards. Ugly ones do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:14 PM
1

It’s not about her going on back to back dates. You’re mad that the majority of males can’t go on back to back dates like her. You’re not actually angry about what she’s doing. You’re upset the playing field isn’t even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:00 PM
3

That’s up for them to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:31 PM
2

63% of Men in the US are single and This number goes up and down everyday because people break up and get into new relationships every day. Even if you took this survey yesterday it would be invalid today. You very much insinuated that US men, regardless of relationships, want to hurt women and that is appalling. No, I didn’t say they wanted too. That’s what you read. women as they now are so narcissistic, manipulate and entitled for the top 20% of guys. And there is no competing or desire to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:30 PM
3

Where did I say “all men”? But to act like males need to be in a relationship with women in order to harm them is clearly not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:05 PM
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I know it would make you feel better to think every male is struggling like you—Misery does love company after all—But they aren’t. I have no doubt that her sons are successful at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:30 PM
5

He feels attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:18 PM
3

You don’t need to”have a woman” in able to physically hurt one. Don’t be dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:16 PM
2

Then she’s an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:25 PM
0

Agree. I was watching the documentary of a guy who was basically a pimp. He would provide celebrities with male and female escorts in the 1940s-1970s. He’s had sex with over a 1000 people — males and women. Around the time he was 25 (this was like back in the 1940s) he met a woman he really liked but couldn’t stay with her because he could not stop cheating to save his life. He said he only “settled down and got married” when his libido dropped in his 50s. The fact the people believe they can ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:30 PM
3

It’s possible to love more than one person. Soul mates are a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:12 PM
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So males who are for purity culture are just doing it because they aren’t the ones who are getting sex? That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:50 PM
0

That isn’t a good analogy. There’s a reason why there’s a lesser sentence for fraud than there is for murder. One is more extreme than the other. The same goes for male vs female bad behavior. One set of bad behaviors tends to be a lot worse than the other so it’s discussed more. If you ever try to argue fraud is the same as murder people will rightfully tell you you’re wrong. Just like people are rightfully telling you male bad behavior and female bad behavior isn’t equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:48 AM
1

Those males are actually attractive to most women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:45 AM
1

Because it would be disingenuous to hype up bad female behavior as if bad male behavior isn’t worse. People talk about bad male behavior and counter with examples of bad male behavior because males like to make sure when they’re having a bad time they make it everyone else’s problem (gang violence, rape, assault, mass shootings, etc). Compared to the average male, the average woman is a saint. So yes, trying to be like “womenz just as a bad as men.” Is going to receive push back because even the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:42 AM
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Have males ever thought to do that with women? What came first? Males hating and oppressing and women or women hating and oppressing males? You know the answer. What women are doing is a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:47 PM
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A less attractive friend has never tried to stop a male from talking to me unless I ask her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:31 PM
1

They aren’t sexually attracted to those males. They’re forcing themselves into faking attraction to secure resources. You all can’t be this easy to trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:29 PM
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Being rich in its self isn’t a turn on. I don’t get sexually excited thinking about spending someone else’s money. It’s like icing on a cake. You would enjoy the cake by itself but the icing makes it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:27 PM
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You have a very black and white view of the world. If it was that simple, women would be able to clearly tell which males are cheaters and which ones aren’t. Sure there are males who clearly exhibit traits of the type of male who cheats but then there are males who don’t exhibit traits of a cheater but still end up cheating. There are women who are everything you describe and still get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:52 PM
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In that case, that makes sense. The only problem is he didn’t articulate that in the video. He was mainly pissed about the sex part being taken away, not the breakdown of the over all AI coding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:46 PM
2

Come on you’re smarter than that. Do you genuinely think he would have signed up for a life time subscription for AI at all if there wasn’t a initial option for erotic role play? You’re getting the chicken and the egg confused. This isn’t about the sexual element being suddenly taken away. This is about him signing up for it with the sole intention of using it as a sexual release and confusing the lust he had for the AI with real love. It’s so “destabilizing” because he had no intention of using…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:33 PM
2

That’s who was using it in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:27 PM
1

Yes we’re jealous of 400 lb males cheating on their wives with an AI. S/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:22 PM
2

You’re right, it doesn’t fit my narrative because that wasn’t even what I was talking about. The male in the video is being dishonest about his reasons for using the AI. He’s clearly using for sexual validation. It’s to fulfill the sexual fantasies he can’t satisfy with his wife. But instead of saying that, he pedals coded BS about using it for “emotional intimacy”. If he was honest about what he’s ACTUALLY using it for I wouldn’t have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:19 PM
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Male uses AI primarily for sex, pretends he uses for “connection”. Proceeds to cry when they take out the option for sexual roleplay. Doesn’t want to use AI anymore even though he said he was using it for emotional connection. Males are painfully transparent. As soon as took out the option to do “sex stuff” suddenly he doesn’t “love” the AI anymore and throws it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:04 PM
2

This reminded me of: But yea, as long as you take care of yourself and keep fit, you’ll always have a hoard of males chasing after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:12 PM
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It’s okay. This simp would do what Chad does if he had the chance. Being a emotional punching bag is the simps sexual strategy to get sex albeit not a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:03 PM
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So you’re mad that her ex treated her well now you have to treat her well too? If a woman came here and said she was mad because her boyfriends ex sucked his dick everyday and made his breakfast everyday and she won’t be able to do that for him, you all we call her lazy and entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:56 PM
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If you’re asking if people look back on hot people they’re fucked with fondness. The answer is yes for both males and women. That’s only if the person was actually good at sex and the the situation ended amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:54 PM
1

5 more % points isn’t an “overwhelming” difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:49 PM
1

A masculine male with male up with still act masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:32 PM
5

I’m positive that the most powerful male in the world had his share of extramarital dalliances. Therefore, his wife cheating on him wouldn’t make him a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:23 AM
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No one disagrees with this but there are far more disadvantages than you listed. Both roles, require you to be completely self sacrificial. That means unless that husband is making absolute bank, both the husband and wife will have to sacrifice hobbies and lifestyle to support their basic needs. A additional disadvantage for female: there is a high chance of financial abuse. Once people feel like you “owe them” something they become very power trippy. The odds of finding a male who won’t constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:04 PM
2

You have a choice to stay single. Therefore you do have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:14 PM
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You’re right but males here are going to make excuses because they hate accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:13 PM
0

Have you been on discord? What about 4chan? There are tons of places were males bash women unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:15 PM
2

90% of the dudes who post haven’t been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:14 PM

What makes it worse is when women date crazy males who are also hideous. Darwin Award winners. If you’re going to fuck with a crazy guy, the least you can do is get a hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:14 PM

Breaking news: women prefer males who know how to fight over males who are timid wallflowers afraid of ordering their own food.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:11 PM

Peg ‘til they beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:54 PM

I think you should stop worrying about the top women because they’re most likely unattainable to you. Normal, well-adjusted people learn how to be happy with people who are of similar status as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:53 PM

The reason for looking at attractive woman is that they have the most options. So if a woman were to have a lot of options which type of men would they pick and it’s usually social status. Wouldn’t you say the same of males? If males had many of options they wouldn’t pick the same women they pick when they had one option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:48 PM

Because women and males often communicate differently and have different goals. Especially in their 20’s. This causes stress when dealing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:46 PM

Because most women truly don’t give a fuck. Most women’s requirement on status is have friends and don’t be a total bitch boy in public and their requirements on money at least make as much money as I do and be financially responsible. That’s it. Why do males feel like this is so unattainable and delusional? You’re taking the preferences and requirements of literal Instagram models and applying it to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:38 PM

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:22 PM

I’ve seen incels. For 90% of them, their looks aren’t the problem. Being a mid-functioning autistic or hopelessly insecure is the problem. It’s not the fact that you have a slightly big nose, it’s the fact you can’t look women in the eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:19 PM

Attract = 1 Deal with = 9
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:14 PM

They tend to have very low standards for males. They’re used to males being poor because they’re surrounded by them and if they’re a single mother, any man who is willing to marry them and take care of their kids is Prince Charming
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:04 PM

Positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:03 PM

STAND UP!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:02 PM

I’m guessing you’re not American or Canadian. The trailer park is usually where the lowest class of Americans live. Most of these people are at or slightly above or below the poverty line. It’s a step above homelessness and a step below lower-middle class. The women there have a tendency to be obese, undereducated, have a proclivity for mental illness, higher chance of drug addictions and a higher chance of being a single mother. These are generalizations but women who can get out of the trailer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:59 PM

That’s because the middle class (particularly the upper middle class) is trying to keep up appearances. The lower class just doesn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:52 PM

There’s a certain type of woman who would definitely marry him. The trailer park is full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:48 PM

There are women who will marry you. But you’re not going to like what type of women they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:43 PM
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There is no “appeal”. No one asking you to find promiscuous women appeal just because they’re promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:39 PM
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Having less sex(including quality and variety) than desired while at the same time somebody else does have that much. This is ridiculous. The average male desires sex every day multiple times a day with different women. This is unattainable so I’m not sure why you’re aiming for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:05 PM
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Yea women aren’t a monolith. Shocking, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:44 PM
0

If he was smart, he would take this situation and use it as motivation to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:20 PM
3

Or just open up the relationship if you feel like you need to go tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:42 PM
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Being devastated that someone doesn’t reciprocate your interest should disappear by the time you hit 20, it did for me. I went from being down when a male I like didn’t like me back to realizing everybody isn’t for everybody. There are people who you like who won’t like you back and people who you do like who will like you back. It’s nothing to lament over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:28 PM
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That’s not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:43 PM
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That’s fine just don’t complain about the rate in which women file for divorce or getting “divorce raped”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:42 PM
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I don’t believe that. You don’t think it’s worse to cheat when children are involve?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:41 PM
1

Sure. But cheating in one situation is worse than the other and I think you know which one that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:37 PM
2

Will the male who makes 40k pay all the bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:35 PM
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You seem to be confused. I’m not condoning cheating. Cheating is bad, okay? Nobody should be cheating. With that being said. The age range when males tend to cheat is a lot worse than when women tend to cheat and has a ripple of effect because children and marriage are most likely involve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:15 PM
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Its funny that cheating in your 20s (your sexual prime) as a woman doesnt matter even though this is the time where most men want most women but cheating as a man in his 30s-40s (men’s resource prime) does matter which is ironically when most women desire most men You’re lying to yourself if you think cheating on a college boyfriend you’ve been with for 6 months is the same as cheating on a wife you’ve been married to for 10 year, share a house, bills, life insurance plans and have 3 kids with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:06 PM
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Am I lying? Males try to cheat all the time, they just aren’t good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:54 PM
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Males try to cheat more than women but women are more successful at actually committing the act of cheating. So males think about cheating more. Women cheat more when it doesn’t matter. (Late teens, early 20’s, college years, uncommitted, having fun). Males cheat more when it does matter. (40 years old, married, 3 teenage kids and a shared mortgage)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:51 PM
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Q4M: males who make less than 40k, Do you expect to be treated the same in relationship as males who make 200k? I’m not talking about love or respect wise. I’m talking about to excepting to get a woman who cleans the house mostly by herself, cooks the majority of meals etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:22 PM
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Do you think that when the patriarchy was at its height that everyone was purely monogamous and didn’t cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:46 PM
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Then don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:14 PM
2

Do you feel singled out? I never mentioned a specific gender in more my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:11 PM
0

Not an over reaction. This shit is so funny I would have told anyone willing to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:07 PM
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You could have said the same thing about prostitution but males still seek real sex and relationships with non-sex worker women. At the end of the day, males are going to want sex and relationships with real women because nothing can compare to real validation from a human being. It even goes beyond sexual validation. Admitting that you can’t get a real woman to be attracted to you is humiliating for males. The reason it is humiliating is because being able to attract women (especially beautiful…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:06 AM
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But why is it the worst thing a 30 year old virgin could do? If someone has gotten to the age of 30 without ever even being kissed they’re severely emotionally and romantically stunned. A person like that isn’t equipped to handle causal sex. It’s like handing Shakespeare to someone who barely knows how to read. They’re out of their depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:46 AM
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First of all , the worst thing a 30 year old virgin of any gender who has never kissed anyone could do is suddenly start having causal sex every week. You missed your boat. Accept it and move on. Second, I have no idea if red pill males have more sex than regular males. All i know is I’ve seen a lot of self proclaimed red pill males who spend years in redpill with nothing to show for it. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:39 AM
9

He couldn’t just say regular?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:35 AM
6

Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:45 AM
18

It’s been forever since I’ve seen that movie but if you’re asking are women attracted to hot, athletic males who know how to strip the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:36 AM
1

“Easy" Lmao. Go look at the pew research, marriage divorce rates in America, cost of living, men dropping out of society, men staying home with parents, most americans living paycheck to paycheck, rise in loneliness and depression. They should try harder then. The males around me don’t seem to be having a problem getting women. If they have a problem keeping them, that’s on them. Also fyi I know it's hard to believe in a world of hypergamous, entitled, radical feminism that even ordinary good me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:44 PM
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It’s easy for an socially competent American male to find a wife. Even if you’re socially incompetent you can find a socially incompetent woman to marry. But that’s not what they care about. They want to be able to sleep around and then marry a woman out of their league. I’ve seen passport bros. I’ve seen the women they choose to marry. You have overweight passport bros with not a drop a of masculinity in their body thinking they deserve skinny feminine women. They’re trying to live out Chad’s l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:10 PM

Give me a show we’re all the women are cheating and all the husbands have to silently tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:17 PM

The plot of White Lotus is pretty just “normalize male cheating”. Almost every male character is a cheater and has a sex addiction and their wives are just like “la la la”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:15 PM

Thanks for the concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:17 PM

Ain’t nobody reading all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:15 PM

I don’t think anyones complaining about these women. You must be new here. Take a girl from Kentucky to Miami and the men in Lexington look like dogshit now to that same woman. This literally happens if you switch genders. Males complain that American women are fat, unfeminine and ugly so they’re going to Eastern European or Asia to find women. How is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:13 PM

Feel like this is an attempt to denigrate me for some reason It’s not. But it’s clear that males who complain about these women are complaining because they aren’t the type of males these women want. Instead of complaining they could just, ya know, date women in their league and stop obsessing over Instagram models who get invited onto yachts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:06 PM

And males who can’t get them are worried about what those women are doing instead of dating the women who are actual wife material and in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:01 PM

What that’s there are ugly males are thirsting over women 2 leagues higher than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:56 PM

So all 1000 users agree with her have a mental disorder or drug addiction? Doubt that. Not a good rebuttal. I also find it strange when women have a mental disorder we should ignore them but when incels have autism we should give them empathy and take everything they say seriously. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:16 PM

Are the rest of the women and gay males in the comments agreeing with her autistic as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:45 PM

Read the rest of the comments. Many from women who don’t practice polygamy or open relationships. Here’s one from a gay male: I’m a gay male just to preface, but I’ve just hit that age and time where I’ve fully come to this conclusion myself. I totally resonate with everything that you’ve written— especially that feeling of “just when is the shoe gonna drop and I’m going to find out exactly how f*cking insane your are?” Very happy that you’ve found someone right for you, because it’s feels more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:29 PM

I think she’s a perfectly sane woman who has been lifted from the haze and blissful ignorance. She finally sees the true nature of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:07 PM

This isn’t “man hating”, this is her being honest. I thought you all wanted women to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:57 PM
2

If he has a body count that high he’s not Mr. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:34 PM

I’ve found that women like that are usually intimidated by other women. Probably was bullied by girls when they were young. Heck, it doesn’t even have to take girls bullying you for a women to gravitate toward male only friendship, just the feeling that if you were to ask a woman to be your friend and she would reject you is enough for some women to not want to pursue female friends. Saying “they can’t find women who are into the same hobbies they are so they’re only friends with men” is BS. I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:19 PM
2

A doormat? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:25 PM
1

Go to the store and look around. Come back and tell me how many women have a face full of make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:55 PM
1

Wrong. Think about how many female orbiters the average male has fighting for his attention. Now think how many males orbiters the average women has fighting for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:47 PM
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Why would I want to compete? Why would I care? Human males seem to be the only species that have it completely twisted. Females throughout the animal kingdom do not compete for males. This trend of males wanting women to compete for them is very effeminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:25 PM
2

So don’t date a pretty woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:37 PM
0

Testosterone in the average male has gotten so low you can hardly find these type of males. But there are a few scattered around in rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:05 PM
1

Why are you mad that happily married people like to advertise that they’re happily married and love their spouse? This is like bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:53 PM
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It’s international women’s day so expect males on here to me more hostile and irrational than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:02 PM
1

It’s great if you can actually get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:08 PM
1

Sex slave, clean up after them, do what they say and only speak when spoken to. Basically they want women who are caricatures of “women” and have been stripped of their humanity and individuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:50 PM
0

I don’t think this needed to be a post. It’s pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:46 PM
7

1000 and 1000😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:20 PM
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Average people make up most of the relationships. If you’re an average male and can’t get in a relationship then your standards are too high and you think you’re too good for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:41 PM
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Males on this sub are so neurotic that they bordering a severe mental breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:33 PM
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Wait. So you’re in relationship with a attractive woman but still don’t know if women like you because of your height? Get off the internet. Throw your phone in the ocean and schedule a therapy session.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:53 PM
2

Why would a woman marry a man who makes 40k Just to take his money? That’s a whole lot of trouble for very little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:14 PM
2

You can’t link the whole post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:05 PM
1

Because the divorce rate for people who marry young is through the roof?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:02 PM
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If that was true women wouldn’t be filing for divorce more than males. Also males love to remarry. Doesn’t sound like they think marriage is a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:55 AM
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It amazes me that some males are born with charisma, confidence and social awareness and the other males are born completely clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:50 AM
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That’s funny PPD males claim there’s so many men who are single because they don’t want to deal with “modern” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:13 PM
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Only 36% of women are college educated. That means there are 64% of women for blue collar workers with only a high school diploma to chose from. Oh the horror! S/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:04 AM
1

Yea trades schools, welding schools and tech schools are a figment of the imagination s/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:02 AM
0

You’re right. And the males in the comments saying women also crave validation from males are being disingenuous. Yes, women crave validation from the opposite sex. But the average woman craves love and validation from ONE male. Males crave love and validation from many women. Which is why males complain about not get compliments from multiple women. A compliment from one woman isn’t enough to satisfy the male ego. We already know that. The majority of males will never be THAT guy, they’ll never…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:47 PM
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Wait. First you said blue collar males then you said males without degrees. Those two men aren’t the same. Many blue collar workers have some kind of secondary degree like community college or tech school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:41 PM
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Blue collar is also an example. There are lots of women who turn their noses up at blue collar work. Mostly educated women. Lol no. Plumbers, electricians and mechanics make bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:17 PM
3

You’re doing for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:16 PM
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Not really, males and women are different. A woman’s value is intrinsic. Sure, she can add to her value by being smart or talented but she has a base innate value. No male sees a beautiful 25 year old woman living with her parents and thinks “wow, what a loser.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:49 PM
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Imagine back in the day. If you building houses, repairing stuff, or doing a service in the village that was essential, Come on, how many males are actually doing that today? My dad goes around fixing stuff in the neighborhood for free and he’s admired for it. The males who are doing it are respected. In today's world, blue collar workers get little to no respect from women or society. Men have to compare with pop culture celebrities, so they chase the aesthetic of rappers and playboys. These ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:46 PM
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The majority of males have done nothing to admire or respect. You have to actually achieve things to gain admiration and behave a certain way to gain respect. Being a porn sick, video game addicted underachiever will get you neither. That’s why males try to manufacturer fake admiration and respect by pursing age gap relationships. Even though the male in question may be complete loser, he’ll get the benefit of the doubt from his younger partner because she’s been taught how she should always res…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:16 PM
4

Is there a reason you didn’t marry one of the farm town girls who looked your way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:09 PM
0

Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:06 PM
1

Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:48 PM
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People want to be victims so bad that they are literally making up childhood trauma caused by their parents. You grew up in the middle class suburbs with two loving parents. Your mom was at every PTA meeting and your dad was at every one of your baseball games. You do not have parental childhood trauma. Your parents grounding you and taking away your PlayStation wasn’t abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:44 PM
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I would say close to 70% of guys are bad. With 30% being outwardly bad and 40% being covertly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:03 PM
2

Tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:59 PM
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Is it really whiteknighting if there are males who are actually into it? Or are you just upset that males who are into it will proudly proclaim it publicly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:46 PM
0

Why are women shocked that males are naturally predatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:37 PM
-3

And how many of those males are single by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:32 PM
4

Having an OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:27 PM
1

It got me wondering how many short guys get turned down purely because of social stigma? While social stigma does play a role, it’s not as much as you think it is. It’s more to do with the average woman just not finding males who are as tall or shorter than her attractive and the stereotype that if you date a short male they will take their frustration out on you (Napoleon complex).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:38 PM
0

Males and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:33 PM
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No. As long as you meet under the pretense of spending time together, not having sex. Paying for someone’s time isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:32 PM
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The United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:56 PM
4

Society does look down on gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:52 PM
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Escorts who go for $1000 a night are still looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:45 PM
6

Tipsy isn’t moderately drunk. Tipsy is lightly drunk. Moderate drunk is someone who can’t walk straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:31 PM
1

Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:24 PM
1

Feel free to respond with a rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:21 PM
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You’re right. Having sex with an alive woman wether you pay for it or not, is enough to fulfill the male biological imperative and satisfy the male lizard brain. So it shouldn’t matter if you pay for it or not. All the fluffy extra stuff that comes with “free” sex. The flirting, the passion from the woman, the validation of her asking if you can have sex again is just for the male ego. Males who want to have sex but refuse to pay aren’t look for sex. They’re looking for approval and sexual valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:17 PM
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If you’ve allegedly never met women in real life who were cautious of males then what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:23 PM
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Pick up a biology book. Lifting weights still won’t give a woman nearly as much strength as the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:22 PM
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Women have 50% less physical strength than the average male. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:11 PM
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Saying it’s wrong for women to be scared of males is false. Most people have an instinctual fear of spiders. Will most species of spiders kill you? No. But that doesn’t take away from the fact that most people prefer to be cautious around them wether they’re harmful to humans or not. It doesn’t make those people wrong for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:23 PM
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Okay “AlwaysAloneForevee97” I completely believe you when you say you don’t need a woman. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:59 AM
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I like to teasing incels and reminding them they’ll never know the tender touch of a woman. You all can say what you want about women. The fact that you all spend all day trying to suppress your desire for women tells us how truly weak males are. Imagine desiring something but at the same time belittling it and calling it inferior. That’s sounds like mental illness, c*pe and delusion to me. This sub is just a cpe bubble. Where other males come to pat each other on the back and ensure one another…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:47 AM
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I don’t care if they’re vocal in person or not. Their inner thoughts are the exact same as the word they type of Reddit. They deserve everything they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:36 AM
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Being around anonymous forums for the better part of ten year and seeing the way males talk when they can’t be identified tells me all I need to know about the vast majority of them. A lot of self proclaimed incels don’t deserve to have sex let a lot procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:34 AM
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Is being an incel becoming the norm for men? Hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:26 AM
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Dude took a post that had nothing to do with dating and absolutely mangled it to fit his narrative. LMAOOOO holy shit. The absolute pathetic state of males on this sub amuses the fuck out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:09 AM

Yea, cause males will fuck anything and we won’t. That’s not our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:19 PM

Why are males so freaking jealous of their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:17 PM
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it was set up to guarantee every woman a romantic and affectionate provider. Lol oh brother this is a lie if I’ve ever seen one. Even in the most strict and monogamous cultures is this NOT true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:25 PM
1

The same way poor people have 8 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:25 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:18 PM
1

America
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:13 PM
1

Name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:13 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:12 PM
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There is no safety net for able bodied lazy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:11 PM
2

How much generational wealth do you believe the average white person has? If your parents die when you’re 40. You need at least 30 years of wealth to survive without having to work a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:10 PM
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Until NEET’s parents die and the government forecloses his parents house because he can’t pay the bills. Then NEET is homeless :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:05 PM
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It doesn’t seem vows mean much to you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:43 AM
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Oh no! Women doing what males have always done. The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:42 AM
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People were already calling for him to be cancelled. This has happened to both women and males through history and will continue. Why does the particular instance vex you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:32 AM
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So you’re saying there are a lot of god awful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:29 AM
2

Did you cheat on your ex wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:28 AM
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Aziz Ansari had his right to bring that woman up on defamation charges. He didn’t. If you feel so strongly about you can write him a hand written letter about how he shouldn’t let bad womenz get away and I’m sure he’ll take your input into consideration. And you’re getting off topic here. Did the woman who accused Aziz bring it up in a group chat similar to the ones on Facebook? No? Then what exactly is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:57 AM
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It’s no different than gossiping about celebrities and spreading rumors about them on the internet. You speak of defamation but you don’t seem to have a grasp on what it actually is. If someone has texts of a guy being a jackass on a dating app and posts screen shots as proof that is not defamation. The fact the males try so hard to keep women from talking to each other is predictable, really. You can not “doxx” someone by putting already public information (like someone’s public dating profile …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:46 AM
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If someone gloats about how much they can fight, start a fight and lose then they’re a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:30 AM
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I’m going to need evidence that they’re actually lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:08 AM
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What exactly is the problem here? I can definitely see why some males hate the idea. It’s in the best interest of shitty males that women don’t build a social support network on which ones to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:06 AM
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There are married gold diggers but please continue grasping for straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:40 AM
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You’re very long winded. This could have been two paragraphs. And there was no need to call yourself and “upstanding guy” not once but twice. With the being said I think what you’re trying to ask for is advice. I don’t know you personally and so I can’t say what exactly your problem is. Are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:57 AM
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Lol y’all are trying so hard. Doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:50 PM
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You can lie all you want. That’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:41 PM
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I can assure you they definitely do. Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:37 PM
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A lot of red pill does work on men. Read the book “Why Men Love Bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:18 PM
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Yes if a women digresses to the point where she can no longer turn on her husband and cries about not having sex, that’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:08 PM
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Workout, keep up your physical appearance, stop being romantically lazy, don’t be a manchild, take care of your role as a husband and a father and you’ll never have to worry about going a long time without sex again. Males refuse to take responsibility. No one wants to fuck someone that has “let themselves go” physically emotionally and mentally. Take responsibility for your life and do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:41 PM
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If the woman is ok with the situation I don't see why a divorce would happen? Good luck finding that. Also, even if a divorce does happen, the man does not necessarily abandon the children. Who said anything about abandoning children?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:28 PM
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Because cheating not only breaks up families but literally destroys children. I was watching the Amy Winehouse documentary and where her problems started was when she found out her father had cheated on her mother. Literally that was the root of all her problems and self esteem issues. Any one with any semblance of dignity or an ounce of love for their children’s mental and emotional well-being would divorce their spouse before sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:17 PM
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It’s funny to look back and laugh at the stupid shit you did. It’s too bad males have too much of an ego and a fragility to make themselves the butt of a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:37 PM
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You tell me what the difference between below average and average. Would you acceptable below average anything? Do you want a below average job that you hate? A below average car that is always breaking down? A below average life? No, you want average or above average in all things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:22 PM
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An above average man dating an average woman is hardly going to hurt him. But an average women dipping below average for some love? She’s going to feel that. Just like in school. Getting an A is great! Getting a C is okay. You’re doing alright, you aren’t failing but getting a below average grade? An F? You’re done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:09 PM
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I’m aware. But males have attested that they’re very much willing to date a few points below their holistic league. Males have said Doctor Chad dating Becky Waitress is what Doctor Chad wants. Women aren’t obsessed with dating above their league. We just want to breakeven.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:03 PM
2

Exactly she would be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:01 PM
2

This is holistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:58 PM
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The variability hypothesis explains all the problems in dating. (When I say below average, average and above average I mean that holistically.) If males are more likely to be concentrated at the most extreme ends of the spectrum. (40% below average males, 20% average males, 40% above average males) And women are more likely to be concentrated in the middle (20% below average women, 60% average women, 20% above average women) Then it seems to me, there aren’t enough male counterparts fit to match…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:56 PM
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I didn’t say that he said it was normal. I’m saying because the situation is abnormal it would get extensive coverage regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:53 PM
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Yes, college students not involved in illegal activities getting killed in the middle of the night is not normal. Wether it be women or male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:42 PM
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This male (who posted the below text on another sub) has completely lost his ability to pair bond. Even if he cures his “addiction” any relationship he gets in will inevitably fail. This is why so many women don’t want to date males that have been to escorts. I have an escort addiction. Would like to start the new year hopefully ending this problem. I'm 24 and I've been with 150 different people(trans women and cis women). I'll say 99% of them are escorts. It started when I was around 21. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:55 PM
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They hate hearing this but it’s true. I know a woman from college who was a complete nymphomaniac, borederline sex addict. She had a high n count but when she was in a relationship she would have sex like 3 times a day. She said there were males who would break up with her because she was too sexually demanding. If you want a woman who basically has the sexuality of a high libido male, 9/10 times she’s going to have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:21 PM
3

You can cry during an uncertain situation. Don’t be shocked at the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:19 PM
0

although IMO even in certain times you shouldn't show vulnerability or weakness Nah that’s how you get broken up with. Something’s got to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:02 PM
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This is the only good advice I’m giving to males on here: I read something on Reddit that goes a little like: “Show vulnerability in certain times, be stoic in uncertain times.” I think that’s good advice for males to follow in order to retain the respect that your wife/girlfriend has for you. An example of showing vulnerability in certain times would be like crying during a really sad movie. An example of vulnerability during uncertain times would be like freaking out and crying during a hurric…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:56 PM
1

Well it is foreign because you haven’t done it before. Like everything else it takes time to get used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:47 PM
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I read something on Reddit that goes a little like: “Show vulnerability in certain times, be stoic in uncertain times.” I think that’s good advice for males to follow in order to retain the respect that your wife/girlfriend has for you. An example of showing vulnerability in certain times would be like crying during a really sad movie. An example of vulnerability during uncertain times would be like freaking out and crying during a hurricane. Or being too scared to check what that weird sound wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:21 PM
4

This has to be the first generation of males who complain about women not approaching. Low testosterone males are ruining dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:56 PM
0

Yea CEOs have no say in whose being hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:47 AM
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CMV: Women would not date or marry at all if presented with the same options as modern men If women could only date someone on their relative level after they had achieved career and financial success, and after being rejected by men on their level for over a decade — they would not date/marry. Successful women marry losers all the time. If women could be accused of rape at any time by any man without evidence and have their life ruined, and when it is discovered their accuser is lying, watch as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:24 AM
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The purge is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:00 PM
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Men are definitely more predatory. They’re biology programmed to hunt. Since we as a society don’t hunt for food anymore they’re now using this instinct to hunt down and control women. And young women are far easier to hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:42 PM
5

Point to where I’m complaining that makes want sex. You all try so hard to purposely misunderstand what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 PM
5

A relationship without compatibility, similar lifestyles and goals is also entirely dysfunctional but that doesn’t stop males from trying to enter into them if they’re promised constant sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:36 AM
1

You have problem with him not being ok with being sexless I didn’t say that. You also have a problem with him wanting sex + the relationship and your also upset that he’d be willing to skip a step as long as sex stays..right? I’m not okay with males LARPing like they want a relationship when they just want sex. If you just want sex go get a sex worker or a one night stand. There really no reason to pretend to want a relationship just for the sake of getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:30 AM
2

You’re literally arguing with the wall. You’re not addressing anything I’ve said you’re just ranting about I don’t even know what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:20 AM
2

I didn’t say I needed a relationship. I’m calling OP out for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:13 AM
2

Nope. I also wouldn’t marry a male who didn’t provide what was in the other 3 pics. That’s the different between women and males. As long as sex is being provided, males would marry a woman that is completely void of any kind of other intimacy or compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:02 AM
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What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:00 AM
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I’m not taking “feedback” from males who are doing the exact same thing as me and are only offended when what they do is directed towards them. I’m not taking advice from hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:50 AM
-2

We’ll be equal when males can carrying a child to term. Till then, pick up your camo and war boots and stop bitching. I don’t want equality. Women are inherently better than males and deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:38 AM
-4

So you can be sexist toward women but when I’m sexist toward males, you’re triggered and it “crosses the line”? Male hypocrisy would be hilarious if it weren’t so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:28 AM
-7

Well I guess they should take it up with the males that put them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:25 AM
10

I promise, you aren’t one of the males that women are itching to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:17 AM
8

There are males literally begging women to look their way and they want us to believe they’re the prize. Lol I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:09 AM
0

Stop the cap. You ultimately want the same thing with extra steps. Take the sex out of the four pictures on the bottom and you wouldn’t want that relationship. Take any other picture out of the four that’s not sex and you would take that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 AM
5

I thought you said you get pussy easily without having to lie 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:53 AM
-18

Males talking about self awareness? Now that’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:46 AM
-6

Why lie? There evidence to prove the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:21 AM
-9

I’m playing the world’s tinniest violin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 AM
-6

If war stopped sex none of us would be alive right now. Cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:01 AM
4

Wanting human interaction ≠ demanding a woman reciprocate. There are people who wish for more human interaction and don’t turn around and blame people for not talking to them. You know why? Because those people take personal responsibility for the way their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:54 AM
0

They hate that a beautiful woman has so much power over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:46 AM
6

Learning that you have to earn a family hurt your feelings that bad that you had to stalk my post history, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:43 AM
7

If you have zero human interaction it’s your doing. Become less anxious or a more likable person. There’s no excuse. Even the weird outcasts of society like furries and people who go to comic con have found their clique and relationships. Why can’t y’all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:38 AM
12

She looks great. She obviously got your attention and that’s why you’re mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:39 PM
4

“Male virgin, late 20’s”….yea, we know….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:38 PM
15

Those 7 steps were to move from his bed to his gaming chair and back to his bed. All that Mountain Dew has his cum tasting like battery acid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:13 PM
5

Trying to change a male is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:11 PM
0

A family is something you have to earn like everything else in life, it’s not given.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:07 PM
-7

Evolution of the Young Male Trying Explore his Sexuality Step 1: Realize you’re sexually attracted to girls Step 2: Gets first crush Step 3: First Crush gets boyfriend Step 4: Male decides first crush is an evil bitch for not reciprocating his feelings even though male didn’t make his feelings known to her Step 5: Male decides all women are evil bitches because first crush “broke his heart” Step 6: Years later Male still has resentment toward women because of first crush and wants to try being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:16 PM
10

If you dig into the reason why that is you’ll find that males here think they’re owed something that they’re not getting. That’s it. They hate women because women ignore, reject and are indifferent to them. Not because women are assaulting them, raping them, killing them. No. Its because women dare have autonomy. It’s because women won’t willingly hand themselves over to males to be used the way that particular male sees fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:55 PM
5

She probably knew that when she froze them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:07 PM
14

How is this entitlement? Point to the entitlement. It sounds like she worked for everything she has and she’s not demanding that a man must inseminate her eggs. You all just hate that women dare choose more than one path in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:52 PM
13

You can lie all you want. If you’re ugly you’re not getting any regardless if you lie or tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:32 PM
14

Why do you care what women who you don’t know decide to do with their life? They aren’t hurting anyone. Even if every woman got married at 20, you still wouldn’t be able to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:31 PM
0

It’s definitely not a choice lol. They’re just weridos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:59 PM
1

Are you mad…that prostitute are actually making a sustainable business model??? Seems like you’re mad prostitutes are benefiting more now than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:54 PM
15

Of course you gave no responsibility to the absent father. Yet another male who doesn’t want to place responsibility on males. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:18 PM
1

I’ve never heard of a woman friend zoning a good looking male.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:19 PM
1

Yes we flirt with good looking males. Why wouldn’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:18 PM
1

Asian women going where they’re appreciated <3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:12 PM
3

He’s 34 and acts like a 12 year old edge lord. He’ll definitely call you a bitch if you reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:52 PM
1

The placement is A1, I must say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:46 PM
15

Males being put in prison doesn’t mean that male has taken responsibility. It means he got caught and his being punished by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:46 PM
13

Males are crime factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:45 PM
-1

No shit. Males don’t care about women being raped or abused. They pretend to care when people are looking because it’s the socially acceptable thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:44 PM
31

male grows up to commit crime has an inability to be introspective and work to be better so he blames his mother and the circumstances of his childhood instead Males refuse to take responsibility for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:42 PM
-3

I couldn’t handle being a male because just the thought of being that sub par and degenerate makes me want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:17 PM
-12

None of the males on here treat women like people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:13 PM
-2

We definitely need to return to this. Women are letting too many weak males pass on their genetics. That’s why there are so many low-t bitch boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 PM
0

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:07 PM
-3

How mentally unhinged do you have to be to collect these comments via screen shot and carefully photoshop them into a picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:05 PM
2

You’re right but when I get it I’m not curving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:01 PM
0

Please keep your fetish to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:36 PM
0

Glad you got that out of system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:27 PM
-3

Excuses made up by incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:26 PM
1

I’ll stop when males stop their double standards. Which is never. So I’ll continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:21 PM
12

Cool so she doesn’t have to give you sex or help you with stuff she just has to tell you she misses you? Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:20 PM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:13 PM
0

The kind who look like they sleep around. Clearly they would be the most receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:11 PM
1

The natural order. Notice how Melvin is the only one lusting for someone out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:08 PM
-2

Yes. All you have to do is be at-least average, not be a anxious mess and have a talent or be charming. You all make it a lot more complicated than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:03 PM
-1

Schrödinger's depression
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:01 PM
2

Even they know male victims don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:55 PM
0

Proof Male depression isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:48 PM
1

That’s how attraction works. What’s so hard to understand? Not everyone is going to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:37 PM
-3

Just shows how pathetic males are. They confuse lust for actually giving a fuck about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:28 PM
2

The male who typed that most like has a porn and video game addiction and has rape and murder fantasies. He isn’t the “pick of the litter” himself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:21 PM
-2

If that’s what you feel like you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:18 PM
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