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What can even be done when this has been drip fed to them for several decades now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/26 05:30 AM
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how as men are increasingly thinking of themselves and talked about as the victims of society, women are put in the position of being the caretakers of men. Once you realize everything they say is projection, statements like this begin to make a lot of sense. Women/feminists spent the past 50 years proudly proclaiming they were only focused on their needs. Women/feminists spent the last 100 years feeling like the penultimate victims of society. Men have been the caretakers of women for millenia.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/26 12:47 PM
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At this point, I feel like the only solution is to start voting conservative. I'm not going to do that, but damn if it doesn't feel like liberal institutions will do anything but to stop shitting on men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/26 12:42 PM
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At this point, I'll take the lies. But they always have to tell you anyway. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:38 PM
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I love how they assumed guy B was more attractive. I wonder why...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:50 AM
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Yeah I don't date at all now. Life much simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:08 AM
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No, he's saying if you have your needs met, your life is much easier without a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:18 PM
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Well I think it's reaching to assume your parking lot performance was what gave her the ick. But assuming that was true, is that not a textbook example of it being a "minor" reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:34 AM
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What resentment? What's inaccurate about what I've posted? I believe women are equal to men, so I'm asking what effort women are required to input other than sitting there and judging? Do you have an answer or are you just doing to tell me how these thoughts are incompatible with successfully dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:28 AM
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I'm not nervous, it just seems like a lot of effort to get discarded for any minor reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:20 AM
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Is it an issue that I live in reality? Buddy, I believe that women are equal and capable of everything men can do. But with regards to dating it is simply not true that a man can sit back and expect the same experience as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:13 AM
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Right and what do I get in return? The opportunity to be the orbiter who is chosen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:07 AM
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How is dating supposed to be fun when I have to do all the work initiating, building rapport, securing the date, planning the event and if I make one wrong move anywhere along the process I'm written off? Do you find job interviews fun? Do you enjoy the humiliation ritual? Please help me understand what I'm missing here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:42 AM
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Studies need funding, and it's easy to get it from women's advocacy groups when your goal is to find something pro-women. There are no such male advocacy groups of any impactful size or influence. So this does not happen in the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:34 AM
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'Women are happier single' is proof that people take for granted what they can easily have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:48 PM
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Soooo... just like the rest of reddit which has a left leaning bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:08 AM
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Good strategy? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:56 PM
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Never tell a woman she is privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:11 PM
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<image> Men asking for advice on how life isn't fair: "Man up! 😡" ✨Trans✨ men asking for advice on how life isn't fair: "oh you poor thing 🥺"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:45 PM
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Yeah...the whole point of a woman throwing sex around early is to try and secure a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:23 PM
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Giga cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:19 PM
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Women are fucking strangers, just not the ones who will commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:39 PM
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Why wasn't this necessary for Luigi Mangione? Why didn't they do this for the Trump shooter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:56 PM
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Why would a man doctor his image in this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:45 PM
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'My body, my choice' huh?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 03:44 PM
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That's a feature, not a bug. Allows them to appear weak or strong depending on the situation that presents itself. Ironically what they say fascists do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 02:48 PM
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People with your type of victim complex think everything is misogyny. Everyone knows reddit is left leaning and pro-women, literally down to the ToS where women are considered a protected class, and are still convinced this platform is riddled with misogyny. I don't get it. You can post whatever generalizations or biases or hate you want about men and get praised for it, yet if men were to do the same they would get banned from the platform. When I read posts like this I wonder if I live in a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:30 AM
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If this is just neoliberal feminism, then what do other forms of feminism look like? I'm wondering here because by all accounts women have reached parity with men in the west. So what need would they have for feminism if not the female supremacist version we see in neoliberal feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:19 PM
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Lol be for real right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:31 PM
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I'm not sure that's how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:55 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:41 PM
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So if a white man is cautious around men of other races it is also situational awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:40 PM
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Why do women complain so much about generalizations yet are the quickest to generalize?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:09 PM
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Please don't make me go find the reddit comment of the Jewish girl who fucked the Nazi again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:27 AM
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Women are getting radicalized regardless of what men are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:24 AM
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You just know feminist academia was throwing money at this study to find something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/26 06:45 PM
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Always rich to see the gender that traded sex for livelihood for thousands of years to say that sex isn't necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:40 PM
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Women filter for excitement and short-term pleasure. By that metric they're pretty good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:56 PM
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Something something equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 11:18 PM
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You don't buy facial hair in a store
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:06 AM
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No that's just holding you to the same standards by which women hold men. Men have to look good without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:21 PM
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Why do you give a pass to users? Weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:47 PM
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And what do I gain from doing that?
/r/MensRights07/01/26 11:36 PM
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I can tell you why they might think those things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:29 PM
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Right - that's why most men are single while most women are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:12 PM
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Giving women autonomy was a good thing for women so it stands to reason that doing the opposite would be a good thing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:09 PM
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That's what men did, and in turn they got demonized and blamed for all the world's problems. So we're done doing that now until you're capable of reciprocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:57 PM
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Oh come on you reported me for that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:24 AM
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Have you considered dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:03 AM
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Meanwhile it's too much for a man to ask for a girl who doesn't have a hobby taking random dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:00 AM
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Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:40 AM
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Nooo, only women can do that. You're coping!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:59 PM
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That one I can see being it haha. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:07 AM
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That could be it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:58 AM
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Definitely an interesting choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:33 AM
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<image> What did she mean by this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:22 AM
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More than that, most people like to talk about themselves and you'll tend to learn a lot about people from being in proximity to them often. I don't work in an office but clients will tell me about their weekend/holiday plans, guy on my team had his second daughter a couple months ago and was telling me how it went, that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:12 PM
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You might be? If I ghost a girl I met through mutual friends, I'd be ostracized from the friend group. But not the other way around apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:29 PM
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Men are lacking in deeper interactions but still have a lot of surface-level interactions in which (in most cases) you can read what type of person someone is - classmates, co-workers, peers basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:27 PM
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https://www.justice.gov/epstein hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:10 PM
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Must get exhausting to go through that every week
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:09 PM
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Posting is not activism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:23 PM
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Oh after a decade of pushing the gender war women are now concerned about class?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:42 PM
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Yeah, "date mutual friends" is such bullshit. Just means you as a man MUST be on your absolute best behavior and she can act however rude she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:24 PM
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Opposed to what? Posting on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:23 PM
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It has everything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:09 PM
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I'm left wing, but I downvote whenever I see TDS now. You've had 9 years to wrangle your emotions over this guy. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:04 PM
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Why would a man who wants to get married become a teacher? That would disqualify him from 90% of relationships with women, who expect men to be the higher earner.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 01:23 AM
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The average man interacts with more men than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:18 AM
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Well they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:54 AM
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It shows they clearly value the benefits that come with a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:37 PM
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If women are happier single than in a bad relationship or settling, why do women string along guys they know they aren't interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:44 PM
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It's not just the man vs. bear thing, women have been saying they don't want to be bothered by men for years now. So men have listened and are fucking off. It's just easier to reference the man vs. bear thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:43 PM
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How is that not a logical response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:03 PM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:29 AM
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Are you intentionally missing the point or just retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:32 PM
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Do I really need to say this - friendship doesn't pay the bills or put food on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:11 PM
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This issue isn't "oh no, women are decentering men and now I'm going to die alone!" The issue here is in the how and why. How and why are women able to decenter men? Because there are a number of social safety nets to help single women. Women are the largest beneficiary of these programs. Now let's flip that. What safety nets exist for single men? And looking to the future, does this look like a good time to try to get by on one income?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:02 PM
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The only reason why this is portrayed as a male issue is because society has been solely focused on women for the past 25 years. If they tried to position this as a female issue it would drive the wedge between the genders even further lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:05 PM
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Even on here I don't see men talking like that unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:36 AM
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You only need be worried about ending up paired with a mediocre man if you're mediocre yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:34 AM
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Men will continue to walk away from dating and relationships which they are already doing. Eventually women will realize that being part of a man's harem doesn't benefit then and things will swing the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:17 PM
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You would think they would, if not to only appear unbiased, but we can't even expect that from them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:14 AM
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I'm not sure why women are convinced that treating relationships more transactionally is going to benefit them. Especially regarding cooking? It's 2025. I can get a hot meal delivered to me in 30 minutes or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:07 PM
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How it feels to appeal your permaban and win <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:01 PM
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Feel free
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/25 09:50 PM
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Women are just going to tell you to date women who don't expect such treatment, as if such a mythical being exists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:55 PM
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Girl you're a lesbian and talking about a bunch of hypotheticals. Eat some humble pie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:23 PM
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Back then, online dating wasn't as normalized so people who used sites, especially OkCupid, tended to skew more alt. It makes sense why the straight woman was popular
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:27 PM
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Yeah just take a look at r/deadbedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:41 PM
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Those who shame you for genetic characteristics will cry misogynist and fascist at the one who implies they should hit a treadmill
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 06:03 PM
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I'll bite - I am. What's the difference?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 02:13 PM
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It's weird how we as a society can draw a logical conclusion that leads to anything but women Think about it, if a woman can't find a man to date because she makes too much money, that's men's fault for there not being a man good enough for her. But if men are at large withdrawing from sex and dating, it couldn't possibly be due to the people they want sex and dates with. I'm not even saying this is all women's fault but god damn. Can we at least acknowledge they play a part in all this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 06:50 PM
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Oh goody, we're finding the most extreme thing we can find women saying and pretending it applies to all feminists. Now do men. That's EXACTLY what feminists do to men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:47 PM
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Women love speaking on behalf of all women... Just take a look at the "women don't like being approached" discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:33 PM
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No it's because women virtue signal about finding those "good" traits attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:47 PM
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Any man can get a girlfriend if he shoots below his league
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:21 AM
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Dating is a numbers game for men. Do you expect men to do this for every woman he dates hoping one will stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:09 PM
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Every woman is a feminist until it comes to reciprocation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:23 PM
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It's crazy how the anti-male narrative was able to take root when millennial men were the most liberal demographic of men in history
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 05:39 PM
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Are you guys even going on second dates if the first date doesn't lead to anything anymore? Can safely assume all women do hookups these days, so if nothing happens on the first date she probably wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:52 AM
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Sorry, is this not what y'all wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:31 PM
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Cuz women are heckin wholesome chungus and if you don't you're a misogynist incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:19 PM
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Yeah definitely a character trait I look for in a 27 year old adult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:01 PM
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<image> girlposting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:17 PM
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We've been defective females for at least a decade now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/25 12:59 PM
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The girl who ghosted me gained 30 pounds 🥳🥳🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:36 PM
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Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:37 PM
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Yup, as a guy I should just accept that I am going to be deprioritized as a friend for this new guy. But total happiness in the world increased!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:17 PM
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You had to ask? Are women this dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:45 PM
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After the numerous articles about having a boyfriend is embarrassing I have identified the relationship statuses for men in 2025: Single: incel In a relationship: incel Married: incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:09 PM
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Women just want a way to invalidate you despite knowing nothing about you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:48 PM
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A lifetime of double standards
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 01:45 PM
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I love how if the context is men or both-sides suddenly no one bats an eye about criticizing promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:45 PM
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No, but if she somehow finds out you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:08 PM
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Come up with a first date plan that you can recycle Bruh women don't want to be 20th girl you've taken to the same place You of all people should know this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:54 PM
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I think it's worse than that. It's "do the right thing and vote for people who will at best enact no legislation for you and at worst will make things worse for you," or vote for the people that at least won't make things worse for you. Would we even be having this conversation if US Democrats didn't bungle the 2024 election by forgetting about men? If they won that election there never would have been any self-reflection by these people. DEI and ESG programs would still be in full effect. Affir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 08:40 PM
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Yeah OP should be asking "what's the best date you've been on with a guy you had no chemistry with" to get them to admit the quiet part out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:22 PM
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Even if the left (or liberals since we're talking about mainstream political parties) grew a spine and actually started pushing meaningful social reforms to help the working class what would stop them from going "Well the 'oppressor' class doesn't need access to these benefits" and only grant them to women and other select demographics. They just did it with DEI, it's not like there isn't precedent. Been thinking about this a lot lately. We're literally stuck between voting for a fascist or voti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 07:44 PM
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None of those guys are talking about the MLE, they're red pill grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:13 PM
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Then why are all the authors of these articles discussing it women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:12 PM
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The Pew Research study was debunked? Oh, you've misinterpreted my original post. I didn't mean to imply single women are the ones talking about the male loneliness epidemic - just that these men checking out of the dating market aren't either. No, I think this is a pro-female agenda to get men back in the game so that women don't get left out in the cold now that it takes two incomes to own a house or even pay rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:57 PM
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Yeah we know. But those articles aren't intended to help men, just lip service get them back in the game for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:33 PM
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The planet where women are twice as likely to be in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:31 PM
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A lot of these guys receive no attention from women at all in their lives. It's hard to grieve losing something you've never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:59 PM
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Women are writing articles in response to studies from Pew and the like because they're worried about what it means for women if two thirds of men stop dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:54 PM
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Exactly. The male loneliness epidemic is the same old shaming technique — "Men, why aren't you trying harder? Don't you want a woman to provide for?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:39 PM
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Nearly every article about the male loneliness epidemic is authored by a woman. Guys are just silently checking out not complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:40 PM
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It's almost like feminism is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:54 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/08/18/men-and-women-in-the-u-s-continue-to-differ-in-voter-turnout-rate-party-identification/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:30 PM
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Doesn't that go both ways? Women love to complain about how men are the cause of all the world's problems but in the democratic west they outnumber men at the polls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:54 PM
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Not saying whether I agree or disagree, my point being this is coming from the morality police
/r/MensRights27/10/25 03:05 PM
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Excluding trans people in the big 25? Yikes
/r/MensRights27/10/25 01:20 PM
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They're working the other days of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:25 PM
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It's not even two decades old. That book was only popular because the male lead was obsessed with the female lead Right, like Titanic, The Great Gatsby, 500 Days of Summer and countless other movies featuring the same trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:38 PM
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50 Shades of Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:05 PM
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The difference is men aren't virtue signaling trying to claim they are. Meanwhile women claim to hate toxic masculinity and patriarchy but fantasize about a hyper masculine billionaire sweeping them off their feet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:58 PM
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If sex is "just fun" and body count doesn't matter women should put their money where their mouth is. We should redefine dating and courtship with something that puts sexual compatibility at the forefront.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:15 PM
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If we live in a Patriachy™, then who do you think gave you the rights you have today?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 12:53 PM
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Oh my! Those poor women who have to sacrifice attraction for checks notes being provided for for the rest of their lives. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:04 PM
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Average age gap relationship https://np.reddit.com/r/AMA/s/kkmNssLYZU
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:51 PM
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There's a difference between letting a loser bust in you and having your life ruined from a complete fabrication.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:15 PM
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So much of progressive policy is "this hurts women's feelings and is bad" without realizing that men and women act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:46 PM
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Hey, as long as you're okay with being happy owning nothing as the economy and wealth inequality continues to get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:39 PM
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Don't more women than men vote though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:57 PM
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Would it though? If your core guiding principle is that men are the oppressors and inherently privileged then what's to say we don't get more social policy awarded based on identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:39 PM
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That's what the Democrats spent $20 million trying to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:46 PM
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Speaking of which, I keep hearing how Harris didn't offer anything to young men If Dems won 2024 they would have yet to acknowledge mens issues at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:31 PM
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What's my incentive to be the good guy here? Groveling to those who hate you will only result in them not respecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:21 PM
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One party portrays itself as being the moral and virtuous party and yet they resort to the same tactics they accuse their enemies of. I have an issue with that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 06:31 PM
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Well if it isn't the same people who demanded body positivity because they needed approval from the whole world now shaming people based on immutable characteristics
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 06:28 PM
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Has anyone else realized nearly all of those articles have been authored by women? It's almost like women have realized if this keeps up, there aren't going to be men to bail them and their sisters out. Bit ironic from the "we don't need men anymore" crowd.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/25 01:20 PM
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In either case the party deems the other as unsuitable for dating. They're no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:26 PM
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I look at it the same way a woman looks at a man's income. Most women want a guy who makes as much or more than them. Most men want a woman who has a similar or lower body count than them. Either both or neither is unreasonable. Your move.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:58 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:47 PM
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Did you completely miss the second sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:07 AM
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Capitalists love DEI. They receive brownie points and ESG grants for their inclusivity, then turn around and hire nearly exclusively white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:40 PM
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The left is the party of "this isn't right and we need to fix it." But once you internalize the core leftist framework that asserts that men are the oppressors and everyone else is the oppressed, you eventually realize that the left wants to fix things for everyone but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:05 PM
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I was talking about those who blame everything on the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:25 PM
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It'll certainly be taken seriously enough by the demographic that sees themselves as a victim 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:17 AM
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You can frame that however you want; I can read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:15 AM
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Is that not just the gender swapped version of your OP? You just implied that you don't have any empathy for men and their struggles instead of outright saying it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:07 AM
1

For real, sometimes the sex is just bad. Sorry but I don't owe anyone commitment because we slept together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:01 AM
3

The tradwife resurgence is women realizing that feminism is "whatever is good for a woman" and that can include being a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:54 PM
1

Keyword there being "searching". Women don't have to search for relationships until well into their 30s when the dating pool has shrunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:51 PM
0

At the end of the day only one gender can marry themselves into never needing to work another day in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:54 AM
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Low paying but essential is attractive to a lot of women. A teacher or a social worker would be appealing to a LOT of liberal women. Those guys aren’t rolling in money, but having an altruistic job is appealing to more left leaning women. This is one of those things women want to believe are true because it makes them look good. Women do not even appear to be aware of their unconscious desires in the first place, which is why you'll see women demanding six figure earners despite calling themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:24 PM
1

Holy mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:05 PM
2

This happened to me in my 20s. Women can't really tell the difference between 7 and 10 inches and will believe whatever they want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:13 PM
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I don't find Sydney Sweeney all that attractive personally. It seems to me the male gaze she is appealing to is from a bygone era. The first image gives me Megan Fox in Transformers (2007) vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:37 PM
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Women would rather argue with the guy who sent the dick pic than talk to their normal matches.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/25 08:05 AM
1

Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:10 PM
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"However men vote, they're voting against their own interests. Putting it crudely: If they vote left, they're voting for Government to take their prestige jobs, social power, and wealth - and give it to women and minorities by fiat. If they vote right, they're voting for Government to give it all to a wealthy minority who use the tools of state to make themselves even richer and more powerful than ever, make workplace conditions worse, cut the minimum wage, pollute the air, etc." https://np.redd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 10:22 AM
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No they are not. Progressives, largely 4th wave feminists, have spent the last decade+ pushing the gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:16 AM
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Despite all the efforts toward equality, women don't approach men. At the end of the day any man cultivates his options. Understood. Red pill and spinning plates is the way to get a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:45 AM
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To have multiple options men have to date multiple women. Men are not women lmfao. They don't have options by virtue of existing. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:40 AM
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So to be clear, we should be entertaining multiple women whilst dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:37 AM
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Are you joking? You now have more rights than you have had at any point in history minus abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:55 PM
3

Not really. Dating apps and social media (and two decades of societal pro-female messaging) just raised women's collective value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:52 PM
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Or It’s because most men go for the same girls, but there’s not enough of these girls to be around. Come on dude <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:50 PM
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You're getting a divorce whether there is a 10 year age gap or not so might as well marry the hot young one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:37 AM
7

gestures at everything built in society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/25 03:15 PM
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The most influential men in society aren't relevant simply because they got married. Tax breaks do not make up for the additional costs a woman brings to a man's life. You can simply take a break from women and have far more time to yourself than married men. Or the potential to turn into a dead bedroom. Benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:10 PM
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I'm a man at the finish line. Why should I settle down now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:25 PM
2

What work are women putting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:44 AM
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Thanks to this thread for making it perfectly clear where I should stand on women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:40 PM
2

Who is talking about being a doormat? I'm talking about the first month of getting to know someone. Should I set my standards to "must fuck on the first date?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:40 PM
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There's lots of things another person could decide to do with themselves that could make them very happy and feel they are successful but don't move me at all. Precisely, so why would you call someone with different priorities than yourself lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:35 PM
3

Wow so true! I'm so grateful for having my time washed and being discarded like a piece of trash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:23 PM
2

Lazy is an interesting choice of word. I would bet money that I have a more successful life than you by any metric. I'm just not desperate for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:16 PM
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That's great until she ghosts you after a month of you being the only one putting in any work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:14 PM
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I think PPD people get caught up on the "Be attractive" filter and don't focus enough on the "Be people" filter. That's not "PPD people". That's coming entirely from one side of the aisle. Otherwise I agree with everything else you have written.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:59 PM
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She didn't make that content to find a partner...she made that content to make money and a name for herself. She's just a grifter. She's a shitty person and found someone shitty as herself to partner with. I wouldn't read into it any further than that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah, any woman that requires that you drive a certain car to date her is not a woman worth anyone's time. But who was arguing that you need to have an Audi to get a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:35 PM
2

Appreciate this perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:30 PM
0

Ugh. Why do women speak on topics they know nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:04 PM
0

Collector cars absolutely do appreciate in value. Your Kia Soul won't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:02 PM
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You don't think Pearl had any other...shortcomings that would impact her ability to find a man who is both hot and rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:58 PM
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Women cannot even comprehend the idea of a man taking pride in something he's invested hard work into lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:56 PM
2

Did you think Pearl was going to get a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:45 PM
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What's the big deal with Hooters, all you women born after '94 are bisexual anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:51 PM
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Women: "Men should get hobbies" Man makes cars his hobby Women: "No not like that! You're compensating, have low emotional intelligence, probably have a small dick too!" 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:32 PM
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Women care about cars like they care about money - it doesn't make you any more attractive, but it's an accessory that can be used to boost her status. Would a woman rather be seen in a Honda or a Mercedes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:20 PM
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<image> Soon to be your POV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:44 PM
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It's certainly not a problem to be solved. We come up with solutions to problems when they affect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:47 PM
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This is therapy language nonsense. It's men who are seeing the game is rigged and walking away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/25 12:11 AM
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Yes all content that makes women look bad is fake
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:43 PM
2

That's more likely to happen from someone you know than a guy you met on a dating app. Statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:46 PM
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Even if they don't cheat the marriage is a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:37 AM
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You don't need a six figure income to support a family in a lot of places, and even if you did...some of us do make that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:33 AM
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They definitely still care for looks, they think they're willing to compromise because they've found a man more successful than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:12 AM
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Lol yeah that different priority being that she doesn't want to slog through 40+ hours a week at a job when she can find a sucker willing to fund her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:06 AM
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For the sake of who? The women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:35 PM
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Hole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:55 PM
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55% of households have a primarily male earner. Compare that to 29% of egalitarian households. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:41 AM
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This is by and large the funniest comment I've seen in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:53 PM
3

This makes so much sense 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:50 PM
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That was my point. They have a long long way to go before retirement. Now as a woman they of course have the option of an alternative: find a man and saddle him with the responsibility of providing for her and the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:32 PM
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Until those women hit 30 and realize they don't wanna work for another 40 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:29 PM
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What woman doesn't have those
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:40 PM
3

Women would rather be with an exciting toxic guy than a stable chill one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:40 PM
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When I was young I had a relationship where I, frankly, was not a very good boyfriend. Not abusive or anything like that - but I had some toxic behavior. I'd text my ex. I told her we'd break up if she took that trip overseas. We'd get into fights, but no matter what I'd never correct my ways. Eventually I ended things because we were fighting all the time and I felt the relationship was too broken to repair. For the couple years following this relationship, I lamented the fact that if I could h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:50 PM
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He sippin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:34 PM
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No that's Michelob Ultra
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:34 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:33 PM
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Nah look at Destiny lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:00 PM
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Miller
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:47 PM
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I would like to extend my thanks to all the misandrist women raising awareness for men's mental health month 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:46 PM
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Women don’t experience this red pill revenge fantasy https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1kyp3n9/5_years_of_swiping_for_sex_as_an_early_30s_woman/ 56 casual sex, 2 relationships. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:24 PM
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Women are the selectors. Why would she pick a man who has less. in some cases, more than men. Which has led to women complaining about how they can find no eligible men. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:25 PM
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You do still need that stuff. Difference is now she can take it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:56 PM
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We all know why girls do better in school, it's because female teachers give their female students better grades, female-exclusive grants and scholarships, and the societal notion that the future is female and girlboss yassification pushes women to excel in education. What is the point of this thread? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:08 PM
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And women have to do what again? Swipe right and show up? Geez men are so entitled!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:21 PM
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This story happens to be about a coworker but it's no different asking out a girl in your friend circle which is commonly touted as great advice for guys in here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:19 PM
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I'm not doing all that 'boyfriend lite' stuff if we ain't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:10 PM
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You clearly haven't dated in the past 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:00 PM
2

Women do not have morals, ethics or principles. They simply live in the moment for vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:00 PM
2

Yeah but now y'all just work email jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:26 PM
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Did you just admit that dumping DEI is good for big corps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:17 PM
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Not a clue. I just saw it in the news
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:19 AM
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I did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:32 AM
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In a manic episode drove to a town two hours away, wrecked her car on the interstate, then stole a car with a baby in it to continue on her rampage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:25 AM
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Just remembered how the girl I would have given everything to is in jail now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:08 AM
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I pretended like they didn't exist. But it's not like they didn't know I was there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
2

How do you deal with running into the girl who ghosted you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:52 AM
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I met a girl through mutual friends at a party one night and we started hanging out pretty regularly due to a shared interest. Dating wasn't even on my radar at the time and I thought I finally made a female best friend. My friends would tease me about how much time I was spending with her and I definitely thought she was cute but I didn't see us as compatible. She likes big dogs and I'm a cat person. I have been hospitalized by a dog bite and just not big on big dogs. And I wouldn't expect some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:38 AM
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Yeah. As a 200cm guy with 6 figure income who fails to meet the requirements only because I'm bald, I wouldn't give this woman the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:22 AM
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Any guy meeting those standards willing to settle for a single mom living at home with her parents at 31 needs to reevaluate his life decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:46 AM
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<image> Opening up to women will repel even the most obsessed stalker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:33 PM
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Losing that much weight is a huge accomplishment, congratulations! As a guy a decade older than you, only thing I can say is don't let the dating stuff get you down. Eventually you will see there really wasn't all that much to miss out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:49 AM
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Why is it that any instance of male criticism toward women is blaming the whole gender, meanwhile women are praised when they literally do what you just described and blame men for all the ills of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:27 PM
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Leagues in dating only have to do with looks. Now tell your story to the women who claim hypergamy isn't real, most couples have the same socioeconomic background, and women frequently out earn their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:14 PM
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Maybe all women aren't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:36 AM
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Do you also shame women who prefer to be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:48 PM
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No dude, you have to be codependent and addicted to consooming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:42 PM
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Do they not realize they are creating the people they hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:16 PM
1

Genuinely do not understand why women are trying to make this a thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:41 PM
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Because so many women claim their exes are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:45 PM
1

Let the dating apps do the talking. Make a profile for left and right let me know who gets more matches and conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:46 PM
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Anyone observing reality can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:51 PM
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Women have the biggest collective victim mindset out of any demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:55 PM
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That's just what women do to good hearted men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:25 PM
8

Does he even do anything other than shitpost on X now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 01:13 PM
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New drinking game: Drink every time the journos mention Tate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 12:58 PM
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My grandmother is once again asking for money because she nuked her relationship with her tenant and has no source of income. Do women ever reach an age where they don't expect a man to bail them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:28 AM
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Dead internet theory. I'm convinced anyone who trots out that canned talking point is a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:29 PM
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No just pointing out the obvious lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:43 PM
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Then why are we pearl clutching for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:31 PM
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Those tradwives aren't feminists? I thought feminism was anything that empowers a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:00 PM
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The president is trying to limit first amendment rights for women? 🙄 Give me a fucking break.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:39 PM
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Feminists aren't trying to make public demonstrations illegal. Feminists try to shut down or infiltrate any male-exclusive spaces. On the assumption that they will say things that are unfavorable to women Feminists aren't trying to shut down news sources they disagree with. Feminists absolutely try to tone police and steer the conversation in a way that favors women. Especially on this site of all places lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:35 PM
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Women want to dismantle the patriarchy yet overwhelmingly date patriarchal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:44 PM
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Yeah for working the same job. Doesn't change that women seek out men who make more than them for relationships in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:23 PM
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We have thousands of years of human history to substantiate that claim. What proof do you have that modern day women/feminists don't expect men to be breadwinners? They certainly still expect to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:19 PM
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What are women supposed to do? I dunno, maybe be honest about their preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:33 PM
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Getting bored and cheating when you have it all is a female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:36 AM
3

Speedrun women admitting it any% winner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:04 PM
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Women perpetuated this idea that no one owes anyone anything and that people should be free to leave when they aren't getting their needs met - so why is it so surprising to y'all when it happens the other way around??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 PM
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Whether it's the ruthless billionaire with no empathy for others or a literal abuser, women fuck the men they claim to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:59 PM
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"I want an experienced woman with high body count 🤩" - No man ever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:16 PM
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Men don't lie about their preferences to seem virtuous. That's a female thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:33 PM
1

He said the Incel word everyone clap and upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:05 PM
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The only reason they can do this is because the left ceded men to the right lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/25 03:18 PM
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This whole "male loneliness epidemic" is a shoddy attempt to pay lip service to men after decades of focusing on every other group
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 02:43 PM
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Most people dating with intent, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:47 PM
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No one is going to feel entitled to sex for buying someone a $5 coffee. But it can also be true that a one-sided transactional arrangement will foster resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:30 PM
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What came first - the expectation of the man to pay, or the expectation of reciprocity? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:20 PM
1

No one actually thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:07 PM
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I always find it rich when women accuse men of having a victim complex. You lot are the biggest fucking victims of all time!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:57 PM
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Y'all think everything is misogyny 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:54 PM
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It's great you feel that way, but as someone who actually goes on dates with women, I can assure you he's correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:42 PM
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Next you'll say the person who asked for the date should pay 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:39 PM
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Feminism is not left wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 07:02 PM
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https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1100/format:webp/1*IagdS-Wux1iYxgrI_JBTqA.jpeg Most recent data shows women are moving further left than men are moving right. It's possible that men have dramatically swung right in this last election cycle, but I think it's more likely that they are being perceived as further right by women who have moved further left. The election results seem to corroborate this as well, Trump received 3 million more votes in 2024 than 2020, but Harris lost 6m compared t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/25 06:22 PM
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My Husband Has Dementia. Can I Put Him in a Home and Move to Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:59 PM
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It's actually extremely easy for a bi man to cheat because getting NSA sex with other men is extremely easy compared to women so if your man has sex with men he can pretty much cheat whenever he wants. There's less gay men than straight men? But yeah, that makes for a great explanation as to why women are more likely to cheat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:15 PM
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No no, it couldn't be that women are homophobic. It must be internalized misogyny! See the Patriarchy hurts men too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:43 PM
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They aren't? Then why are dating apps tanking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:29 PM
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Also that most women participate in non-monogamous/casual sex, statistically they don’t. I see this mentioned a lot on here, but it's vague Are you trying to say that statically they don't have any casual sex encounters? Or simply that's not what most women are looking for in the present moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:17 PM
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“ I don’t owe you anything” mentality. Perfectly normal behavior for a functioning society
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:07 PM
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This is true, but if you aren't able to be vulnerable around women you won't even be able to have the relationship that will inevitably crash and burn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:50 PM
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Wouldn't that be how women sound talking about the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:43 PM
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I dunno, I can't help but feel like I was plotted against when that guy started having issues with me I would expect a 30+ year old woman to be upfront and say we weren't compatible instead of her ghosting and now making me feel awkward around her friends and by proxy their boyfriends but alas here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:14 AM
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It's just a birthday man, I'll go to his wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:52 AM
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Because it happened when the other guy was having his little crashout at an event I was not invited to as a result. And let's not pretend all the girls weren't in the group chat talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:51 AM
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Tired of being the bigger person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:46 AM
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I mean I know girls talk and both of the guys' girlfriends/wives obviously knew I was going on dates with that girl when they set her up with another guy. I'm not trying to sit in the cuck chair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:43 AM
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That's the hard part, I can't discuss with him because it's a surprise party lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:36 AM
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I don't think that is the issue, it's more a combination of: Marriages more often end in divorce than in the past Social media makes this more obvious than ever before in history A lot of guys have seen what their dads go through in divorce and don't want to end up in the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:28 AM
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One of my best friend's wife invited me to a surprise birthday for him. I have zero interest in dealing with everyone else who is going to be there and thus no interest in going. One of the guys going had a crashout last year and it took him 8 months to apologize to me. I did not accept his apology. Another, I attended his wedding two years ago and a couple months later got set up with his wife's best friend who then ghosted me after two months and started dating first guys' best friend. What wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:24 AM
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As more men become redpilled, or at least aware of how women act, women will have to start choosing better. These guys aren't going to be your backup plan or play stepdad after you had your fun in your 20s like milquetoast Gen Xers did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:52 PM
4

Your claim: "what they are seeking is for women or other minorities to agree to be unequal or in someway give up their rights" I am simply asking for examples of what you are describing here. In what way are white men expecting women or other marginalized groups to "give up" their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:53 PM
49

Anyone who uses that phrase is too far gone. They're completely given into the oppressor vs. oppressed victim mindset. They cannot see women as engaging in bad behavior, and if they do it's because a man/men deserved it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/25 04:53 PM
2

Give examples. Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:28 PM
2

Were you asking a question you already knew the answer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:41 AM
2

Effort = desperate = ick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:17 AM
1

You guys went on a couple dates but with no relationship, and here you are saying you were ready to spend your life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:07 PM
1

You guys didn't even date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:10 PM
1

And if he would have done everything right you would have gotten bored and left him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:03 PM
2

Meh. You can do everything right and a woman will still lose interest; this isn't anything conclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:55 PM
0

Thank you, I'm glad someone remembers. The point of metoo was to call out men in positions of power but in actuality what happened is the average dude had a target painted on his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:13 PM
-1

What a terrible argument I don't have a choice but to live in the society we were all born into Women do, however, have the option to date men who earn less. They just largely choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:26 PM
6

I love how women complain about the patriarchy while benefiting from it by dating men of higher economic and social status than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:43 PM
11

So the Female Personality Detector™ can detect the toxicity of nice guys but not that of wife beaters and drug dealers? Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:00 PM
1

It's giving AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:51 PM
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You guys need to come up with some new phrasing that isn't the same four canned talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:34 PM
10

You missed the point; a woman can simply exist and get attention from both women and romantic attention from men. That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:24 PM
10

Ah, the bang maid talk again. Never heard this one before. Yup all men are from 1950s and still want that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:19 PM
96

Oh wow. They are self-reflecting. It’s much easier to convince yourself that sex and women are worthless pursuits than it is to cope with one’s own lack of sexual desirability, or confront the real structural hurdles that men and women alike are navigating in the dating pool Oh. Nevermind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 02:01 AM
4

The reason they do is because women look down on single men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:43 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/pics/s/ijcOYhDDg3 The alleged female personality detector at work once again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:59 PM
6

Most women aren't interested in marriage and building a family until their mid to late 20s though. So what about up until then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:10 PM
24

That's the normal Reddit pro-female bias
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/25 09:15 PM
2

Sources/examples? I would love to read more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/25 03:55 PM
6

I thought the whole emotional labor thing was a joke at first - I don't know about you guys, but every relationship I've been in consisted of me constantly validating my girlfriend on a daily basis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/25 03:48 PM
39

Why do they always look like that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/25 03:29 PM
-2

I get it now, women can have whatever standards they want but men are "entitled" if they want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:42 AM
0

50% of marriages end in divorce, and that doesn't factor in all the loveless marriages. I'd say it's a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:47 PM
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As a guy, as long as my partner and I are both supporting each other I don't care if it's an even 50/50 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:15 AM
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I didn't realize getting complacent and out of shape in a relationship was a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:30 PM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:06 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/YSGdhAH3Xa Me on the left the next time a girl ghosts me after three dates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:53 PM
21

YES. It's so funny, women dismiss every instance of female toxicity as not real and if you think it is you need to touch grass; but then Tate says "desiring women makes you gay" or something equally ridiculous and they take it at face value lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 09:20 PM
39

The Democratic party is doing what they do best - putting aside actual policy so they can continue to appeal to their corporate donors, while putting on a progressive front to appeal to those shallow enough to fall for it. It's been discussed at length how supporters within leftist spaces operate with regards to men but I wanted to look at this though more of a policy lens. The status quo is not good enough for men. Boys have been falling behind girls in school for decades. College enrollment ra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 04:35 PM
10

Feminism liberates men by giving them the permission to fully accept themselves as a human being and not solely as a provider/protector. This is part of the problem actually... Feminism liberated women from traditional gender roles but male gender roles are largely unchanged. With that said, even the most feminist women do like benevolent sexism, or "positive masculinity" as they like to phrase it. The problem comes in when these women, who want to identify as feminist so badly, will lie about i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 04:22 PM
3

"Oh and I'm taking the house and the kids. Best of luck out there!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:23 PM
5

Lol. It's always "no one is entitled to anything from anyone else" until a woman gets a no fault divorce and expects child support and alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:14 PM
-1

If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:22 PM
4

Dating apps have been on the decline for a decade and only got a brief boost during the pandemic when that was the only way of meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:07 PM
15

You really think those numbers are still accurate in 2025?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:15 PM
6

No you didn't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:55 PM
1

It's funny how the gender who believes in fairy tales like the patriarchy suddenly demands proof for every claim made by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:21 PM
1

They let girls in the fucking Boy Scouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:51 AM
-3

It happened to my friend and cost him his marriage. Some women can't resist seeking attention from men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:37 PM
4

Women are already posting TikToks asking why men don't approach them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:36 PM
1

You forgot to suggest I take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:50 AM
1

Seeking validation from women is a fucking waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:49 AM
1

Do blue pillers have any original thoughts or is it just parroting the same few canned lines?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:16 AM
2

"So to briefly summarize: a.) yes, it was possible for women to get bank accounts, loans, etc. b.) but there was discrimination, although it is hard to account for the exact degree" https://np.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/158nbyy/comment/jtdvog8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:08 PM
2

Credit cards were invented in the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:14 AM
2

While it wasn't a requirement, plenty of banks extended credit to women. Stop trying to rewrite history
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:13 AM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:58 PM
9

I'm convinced most of yall want to be treated like women. I'm sorry, I thought men and women were equal?
/r/MensRights10/01/25 06:38 PM
4

So reading between the lines, cis women are dominating the conversation in queer spaces?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 03:23 PM
11

It's just a bunch of buzzwords they read somewhere to sound like they know what they're talking about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 12:47 AM
5

Surprise surprise, the victim narrative that we let go unchallenged for two plus decades led to this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/25 12:42 AM
0

Yeah pretty much. I barely see my friends who are married or in a relationship anymore, too busy appeasing their girlfriend/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:27 AM
15

Women aren't interested in safe guys except as a backup plan
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:28 AM
21

I will be anything other than the safe guy for her to fall back on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:06 AM
7

It's equating two equally ridiculous examples
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:34 AM
7

Your problem is that you're a pushover for orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:22 AM
4

No. She was looking for a partner, found one, and I'm happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:20 AM
1

Not a confession, but a girl made a move on me in a scenario which really caught me off guard so I did not reciprocate. Didn't cry, but ended up losing our friendship which sucks. I felt we were really close as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:21 PM
25

Seriously. We created spaces to play by their rules and they still look down at us. We have two generations of women that are too far gone, and impossible to reason with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/25 06:53 PM
-8

They aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:34 PM
-9

No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:07 AM
7

If you aren't seeking approval from women you won't get anything from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:18 AM
-1

Stop setting up men for failure. Let them lead women on as has been done for generations
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:52 PM
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Probably if she was divorced by 30ish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:16 AM
1

So that wealth can be transferred to the sex that does 80% of the spending so we can juice the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:13 AM
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Oh I'm sure. Now that I know commitment isn't a requirement I'm about to hit her up too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:05 AM
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I'd get it if the divorce was recent but from what I recall it was a couple years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:29 AM
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This woman I matched with a couple times over the summer but never went on a date with posted some horoscope thing about how this will be her year for sexual exploration Ma'am, you are 34 and divorced. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:15 AM
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My new years resolution is to get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:51 PM
4

Not unique to women, yet somehow always a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:32 PM
0

Not all women are feminists, but all women benefit from feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:51 PM
-2

So in other words the majority of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:01 PM
8

Yeah, watch any of those "how much does a man have to make to date you" videos on TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:35 PM
-4

I don't think you have a damn clue how family courts work. My parents had an amicable divorce with 50/50 custody and my father was still required to pay child support. For years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:31 PM
-2

Hell, men wouldn't even have to pay child support if they bothered to fight for custody of their own children. Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:24 PM
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The men women choose are the patriarchal men they claim to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:19 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:22 AM
1

Yeah...so it's weird for her to have gone from seeing him as relationship material (trying to lock him down) to ghosting him. I'm sorry...but do women not get upset when they get ghosted after sex? Many of them surely slept with a guy they were getting to know thinking it was going somewhere, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:17 AM
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Most women who are seeking serious relationships and will sleep with the man early on are trying to lock him down. I think that's the confusion hence OP's post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:03 AM
11

This is "sex is something men do to women" just repackaged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:54 AM
3

No we get accused of leading women on when we do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:37 AM
1

What about that comment was "vicious and angry"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:34 AM
2

Women have always claimed to want this. Observing their behavior may show otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:33 AM
4

A guy can be perpetually single by simply not trying. You know, because guys have to be the ones to put in effort...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:31 AM
3

While women have the advantage of inherent value, they go through the same thing. Only the best looking women get access to the top men they really want - a good looking, tall guy who makes a ton of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:08 PM
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I don't care about relationships enough anymore to be putting in all that effort Coming from someone who is very ambitious, climbed the career ladder at work, sets goals and aspirations for themself, etc I thought dating was supposed to be fun, not an endless slog or interviews followed by ghosting. I'll stick to concentrating my efforts on something I'll get a return out of
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:53 PM
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Been like this for years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:46 PM
13

Reddit is a femcel cesspit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 10:25 PM
20

This is not discussed nearly enough. The biggest enforcers of the patriarchy in the present day are women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 04:12 PM
105

"I was taught that male organization around men's rights was an act of violence against women, and that obviously led to me believing that there are no men's rights worth listening to." -14:12 Remember this next time someone tries to tell you that feminism helps men too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/24 12:10 AM
85

Bachelors of psychology and a master's in social work and we're just now figuring this out? Pack it in boys. We are done Great video, but Jesus. Bleak.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/24 11:31 PM
6

The powers that be saw the growing class consciousness that movement was providing and starting pushing this identity politics stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/24 02:40 PM
2

Social media has done to women what they claim porn does to men. I'm glad to see more people are starting to see things this way. I swear everything they say is projection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:22 AM
1

Hey that's me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:20 AM
2

Women want to dismantle the patriarchy, until it comes to dating. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:20 AM
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In 2016 I remember sooo many liberals talking about how "the enemy is both simultaneously strong and weak" is taken from the book of fascism and now they have adopted the same ideology. Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 10:26 PM
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I honestly don't care if men keep getting radicalized after what I've seen them deal with over the past 10 years on social media. Men are waking up to the endless double standards and hypocrisy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/24 06:52 PM
9

Yet they all have experiences dating the men who do exactly that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:12 PM
19

This would be like me dating an unemployed woman and getting upset I have to pay for everything. How are you ending up in a scenario where you're dating guys who are this unhygienic? Those people shouldn't have met your criteria to date to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:02 PM
1

Uh, no. You ladies HAVE to work now. No more easy street. Your mothers and grandmothers willed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:50 PM
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The difference is men aren't keeping score, they just want to make their partner happy. This is a foreign concept for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:37 PM
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"Denise Rossi had won the massive jackpot in a US lottery game just 11 days before filing for divorce from her husband, Thomas Rossi, after 25 years of marriage. Keeping her windfall a secret from Thomas, she thought she could walk away with the prize all to herself." https://www.hindustantimes.com/world-news/woman-forced-to-hand-1-3m-lottery-prize-to-ex-husband-after-keeping-it-secret-101690886309689-amp.html
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:31 PM
4

Lol I remember a female platonic friend once told me "you're the only guy who hasn't tried to sleep with me" It was at that moment I knew I was cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:42 AM
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The point remains that husbands are not the sole or primary breadwinners in nearly half of marriages ??? The link you shared shows they are? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:05 PM
6

Men make gym content to help other men Women make gym content to thirst trap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:05 PM
0

And in 45% of American marriages, the husband is not the breadwinner. In those marriages, either the husband and wife earn about the same income or the wife is the breadwinner. Weird way of representing that statistic by bundling the 29% of egalitarian households with the 16% of female breadwinner households Using your phrasing 84% of men "earn the same income or the husband is the breadwinner".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:16 PM
6

They don't treat them like a money machine but they still expect them to cover the majority of household expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:57 AM
1

What? Plenty of women I wouldn't want to date. I don't think much about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:44 AM
1

When men have delusional standards, they're called pornsick. Now it appears that was all projection and women are the ones who are pornsick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:41 PM
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My point being once you strip away the context, how can one argue anything but equal punishment for both sexes?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 08:47 PM
2

Phrasing it differently doesn't change the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:04 PM
1

Yup. Need to lean on the man for support up until you leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:20 PM
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What is so difficult for people to grasp about "same crime, same punishment"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 06:19 PM
9

Some of you guys really live your whole lives in service of women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:43 PM
11

That's 10% of guys, being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:17 PM
18

When a man leaves, he leaves. When a woman leaves, she plans it out 6-12 months in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:50 PM
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A man who leaves has the potential to lose everything - his income, his children and his home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:34 AM
2

Your reward for respecting women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:44 PM
1

This is cope really, most of those men got raked over the coals in divorce and weren't interested in doing that again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:47 PM
5

Just the excuse they needed to dead bedroom the men they had to settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:43 PM
3

I've seen the clips of "Why I'm not doing 4B, but you should" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:37 PM
6

...based Lillth??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:12 PM
2

Effectively nothing changes for these women, the only men they had access to were the ones they didn't want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:42 PM
6

Because y'all haven't shut up about it in the last 24 days ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:36 PM
15

Where 😭 Edit: still waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:20 AM
3

I don't do that, I understand that my situation is unique to myself and think there is someone out there for everyone, just not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:28 PM
1

I don't disagree, but you aren't going to win people on your side by saying something that has existed for 100 years (modern healthcare) is more of a human right than something humans have been doing for all of human history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:04 PM
-1

As we entered the Reels/TikTok age it has become increasingly apparent that a lot of girls have never been told no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:28 PM
5

Not really, that's just something the mainstream media started reporting on since that Pew research poll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:23 PM
1

Apparently healthcare is a human right but not access to intimacy and relationships when it comes to men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:53 PM
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I don't think men are going to be the ones who benefit from wasting time talking to an inanimate object
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:45 PM
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The number of incel "mass shooter" types can be counted on one hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:31 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic is a farce. Look at each of those things you just mentioned. Each of them are viewed through the lens of how this affects women, how men need to step up and do better for women. It's nothing more than a shaming campaign for not throwing your life on the line in service of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:25 PM
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Neither gender is particularly rational in this regard. The difference though is when male spaces are deemed as too toxic on this very site, they are shut down. When women's subs do the same thing, they are celebrated for it and put on the front page.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:46 PM
2

Lib brained comment. I'm not voting for genocide chief
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:04 AM
1

No, look at the stats. Less people showed up for Harris.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:22 AM
1

It didn't. People were more worried about putting food on the table than bullshit identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:11 PM
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Dogs too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:56 PM
0

No shit. That's why the diversity hire lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:54 PM
1

Is today opposite day?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:49 PM
2

Men: "Okay women, we gave you what you wanted and abolished female gender roles. Now can we do the male ones?" You: "This sounds coercive"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:11 PM
1

No one was chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:16 AM
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Especially when they are willing to swaddle literally every other demographic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 05:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:30 AM
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Of course they showed up to vote. For Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:10 AM
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Y'all act like abortion was an inalienable right for women when it existed for no more than a couple decades. Meanwhile men have never had any agency in the decision to have a child that they half contributed to making. What's that expression y'all love to use so much? When you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:59 AM
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Looking forward to seeing how white women overwhelmingly voted against their rights again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:45 AM
4

And they don’t do this with just men. TERFs are a byproduct of feminist-centric culture. To a surprising number of feminists, the problems affecting queer people or racial minorities are secondary to the problems of woman! What if we framed misandrist feminism the same way we frame TERFs? Because it sounds like it's operatively no different
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/24 08:02 PM
1

The US. It's best to assume that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:34 PM
3

Most women have gone through a phase like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:12 PM
0

Most people settle. Gold diggers are just the extreme end of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:54 PM
1

Sooo... Any insight into what women DO like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:12 PM
71

I would never ask a woman to change. I just observe and react accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:27 PM
1

Women have so many options now that self-reflection and improvement is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:32 PM
-1

The behavior is preferable, but it does not make one more attractive to a woman. If anything it will make her feel like she is above that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:46 PM
0

To provide financially for a whole family? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:03 AM
0

I'm talking about for thousands of years. Not tens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:20 AM
1

As someone who will probably remain single and certainly childless for the rest of my days I look forward to more bachelor taxes for me to subsidize teen moms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:13 AM
1

Yeah, it's true because people with shit loads of money get bored with monogamy and do weird shit. See: Diddy, Epstein, Weinstein, etc. Allegedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:10 AM
4

Men didn't have a choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:28 PM
4

The one asserting the claim has the burden of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:49 PM
5

It is truly a sight to behold to watch these progressive, anti-capitalist women fall for this big capitalist scam
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:02 PM
4

They're on SSRIs. Like, a quarter of them in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:52 PM
1

Do you believe that the person who is asking the other on a date is the one who should pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:56 PM
12

Then yes we apparently do live on different planets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:04 PM
1

Great metaphors. Let me help you connect the dots. Women will say they want a guy who is safe like a Volvo. But what they really want deep down is to be on the back of a motorcycle hanging onto a guy who isn't wearing a helmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:34 PM
10

Yeah they phrase it as "I slept around because I needed to find myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:36 PM
9

No they absolutely do say that...just to describe their experiences with Chad, never about their husbands 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:30 PM
7

Once your libido calms down and you start to see women the same as men, it becomes clear that the only thing a woman brings to your life is headache. A pretty face and some sex isn't going to cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:25 PM
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Capitalists want us fighting each other because single people (women) spend more money.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/24 12:48 PM
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That's a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:07 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/self/s/kVGntTIYKO Real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:06 PM
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Lots of men prefer curvy or plus size women. Your solipsism is leaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:26 PM
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I guess the best we can do is nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:58 PM
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Dang that's a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:52 PM
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Anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:43 PM
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The party that did nothing while the Supreme Court stripped women of reproductive rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:33 PM
0

It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:59 AM
1

Show me a woman who does not have a story about her toxic ex. I'll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:31 AM
1

Sounds like a bit of a leap but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:30 AM
6

Indeed, it's cover for women to not admit they like bad boys unlike they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:24 AM
2

Not to do those things with men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:16 PM
5

Her other options don't cease to exist, if you're not a guy she would normally pick you're fighting a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:53 PM
18

Nah, women ain't worth all that effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:55 PM
2

Deflection? This is a debate subreddit dude, I am telling you you are wrong. You can choose to argue against my point or continue to do whatever it is you're doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:40 PM
2

Your assertion is that obsessions with teenagers and young people are one-sided and perpetuated by men. My response shows you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:35 PM
3

Lol every other week we have a new story come out of some female teacher sexually abusing her male students. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13326161/amp/Cougars-classroom-alarming-rate-teachers-charged-raping-young-boys-America.html https://www.yahoo.com/news/inside-threatening-world-female-teacher-152001843.html https://canadiancrc.com/FEMALE_TEACHER_SEX_OFFENDERS-SEXUAL_ASSAULT_Female_Sexual_Predators-RAPE_MALES.aspx Oh and don't forget about female sex tourism, where middle aged wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:24 PM
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Yup. These women are cooked before they leave high school
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:28 PM
24

Show me a straight man in a relationship who is not a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:03 PM
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Oh piss off with that 'not all women' shit, y'all love to generalize men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:00 PM
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What about a female teacher in a room full of underage male students? https://www.yahoo.com/news/inside-threatening-world-female-teacher-152001843.html https://canadiancrc.com/FEMALE_TEACHER_SEX_OFFENDERS-SEXUAL_ASSAULT_Female_Sexual_Predators-RAPE_MALES.aspx
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 11:13 AM
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Plenty of women who want to be stay-at-home and provided for. No, let's use the same language women do. They want a father to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:27 PM
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Exactly. I date the same way, letting things build up as I get to know the person because quite frankly, I'm happy being single and want to make sure I've found the right person! And it works against me so predicably every single time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 12:08 AM
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"Nice guy" is a way for women, who must always appear moral and virtuous, to deflect that they aren't attracted to what they claim. Liberal progressives co-opted that because of course they did, men bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 05:08 PM
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That's not how that works. Blue pill people can be single and red pill people can be in relationships. If blue pill is the default condition most single people are going to be blue pill by default
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:59 PM
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Because the blue pilled losers who do this stuff despite never having kind of chance with the woman inflates her ego and makes the market more competitive for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:57 PM
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Dude, have you ever dated a woman? They need emotional support on a daily basis. The more reliable place to get that is from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:59 PM
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Bruh you were born as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:33 AM
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Lol the replies are classic female solipsism at work "Of course if he's a good moral person he won't struggle with anything!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:29 AM
2

They are great at stringing you along and ghosting without remorse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:44 AM
3

Are we really splitting hairs on which gender generalizes the other worse, or are they both bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:48 PM
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Why is this always used as some sort of "gotcha"? If I go over to TwoX I can find ten times as many women who claim to hate men and want nothing to do with them but complain about them all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:59 PM
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I don't see it gaining much traction. To acknowledge men can have problems too flies directly in the face of patriarchy theory, the mission statement of feminism, and is too entrenched in modern society. That would require them to admit the average man and women aren't too different after all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/24 06:54 PM
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Stopped trying in 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:12 PM
3

You guys don't love being lectured by the people who don't have to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:12 PM
2

Nah dawg, that shit is weird. I'm with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:22 PM
4

"You will feel nothing, but you won't be depressed anymore!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:57 PM
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If the cost of living continues to climb at the rate it has been, individualism won't be sustainable for many individuals. We may see people returning to relationships out of necessity. The state may see this as a boon because of the crippling birth rate, and allow rents and cost of goods to spiral out of control. Both pretty shitty outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 PM
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Well, have you seen the guys they pick...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:32 PM
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The absolute biggest slobs I have seen are women. I remember one occasion of going to stay with a woman for a weekend, I spent two hours cleaning her room to get it in a state I was comfortable in. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:32 PM
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As a single man who lives alone I already do all this on my own. Why is it implied only women can do these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:25 PM
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Solutions? Hell, I'd be happy for it to at least be acknowledged that men can have problems that are no fault of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:15 PM
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Because they like it. The worst thing a man can be is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:31 PM
1

Um, no. I'll start policing my language when the other side starts doing the same.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/24 12:07 PM
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Is your ideal wife a working one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:45 PM
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Tried stealing a car with a child in the back seat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:20 PM
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Holy shit my BPD ex got arrested and made the news
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:18 PM
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I don't see it as him having pursued anything casual, seems like they met but he felt they were incompatible for a relationship due to the age difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:57 PM
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This Chappell Roan drama is funny af On one side you have a woman who has been told her whole life she can do whatever see wants who became a celebrity overnight On the other side you have millions of crazed female fans who have never been told no in their whole life It will be interesting to see how this plays out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:32 PM
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They're talking about all men they didn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:10 PM
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How can they even run on that when they spent the last two years sitting on their hands?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 04:44 PM
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If you look at threads in that sub asking the mask-off version of this, is it acceptable feminism to want to be a traditional-style wife, you'll be met with feminists reminding you that feminism is about a woman's right to choose. So in other words, expecting men to pay for things is feminism because anything a woman wants or that makes a woman happy is feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 04:21 AM
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Y'all gonna have SSRIs and a line for the bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:58 AM
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I thought we were just talking about passengers? When Hooters Air makes its comeback it'll definitely hire female flight attendants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:04 AM
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Is this ragebait or are you being serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:51 AM
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Hell yeah, plane for the boys let's bring back smoking too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:40 AM
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I had that thought when posting this, something akin to "Would we really be able to change thousands of years of learned behavior in what women prefer?" But we did it for women in 50 years so why wouldn't we be able to do it for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:07 PM
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I'm not even sure they want the power imbalance as much as it is they prefer traditional relationships for whatever reason. But that's not me so I can't speak on their behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:02 PM
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Totally agree with you. I was just talking with my mom about this the other day, I don't know where this mentality comes from or why it's having this weird resurgence. All of my Millennial friends had working moms growing up. My mom has her Masters. I can't date women without goals and aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:50 PM
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Yup, relationships will have to stop being so one-sided and start being more balanced in favor of men. Otherwise men will do the cost benefit analysis and determine, as you stated, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. I reckon that starts with treating men like people not a woman's means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 PM
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No I mean I'm tired of men being framed by society as the hyperagenic figure that simultaneously has to handle all of societies responsibilities and held accountable for all of its failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:25 PM
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Sacrifice and provide for what? A woman to leave when she gets bored? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:21 PM
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Not determining a man's success on whether or not he has and is providing for a family Not expecting that any and all obstacles men face can and should be solved by themselves alone Not treating men like the hyper-masculine bad gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:19 PM
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Liberate men from gender roles like we did women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:31 PM
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Never thought about it that way, but you make a great point. Society frames feminism as being this moral institution, but most women support it simply because it benefits themselves as an individual, rather than what it stands for.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 01:31 PM
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The Dems letting Roe get steamrolled and sitting on their hands about it certainly adds to women's paranoia about their rights being taken away which has been pushing them further left too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 01:25 PM
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I glad you were exposed to that but not all of us have sisters. Appreciate you assuming everyone had the same experience as you tho blue pill guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:18 AM
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It's naive to think the media you're exposed to at a young age doesn't influence you. Nice try sweeping this under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:15 AM
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Men aren't really complaining, we're just opting out and finding fulfillment in life in other ways. So some women are going to have to go it alone as things continue to get economically worse to try and survive on a single income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:18 PM
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It's simple really. Did the guy win on merit or morality? Or did she choose someone who reflects the exact opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:08 PM
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Yup. American women can't resist the boisterous jock archetype unless they're introverted redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:00 PM
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Have you ever considered the possibility that a man might develop feelings for someone that he's friends with? Or is it always the least charitable assumption that he was plotting to get in her pants since day one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:47 PM
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If you think about it through the lens of a woman it makes sense. They don't like nice guys. Therefore being nice is a negative trait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:55 PM
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This is a joke, surely? Those are all things damn near every woman has in their OLD bio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/24 02:50 AM
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It's not relationships that women feel entitled to, it's all the benefits that come with one. Even outside the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:46 PM
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Lol. Every woman on earth is participating in promiscuous hook up culture if you put her alone in a room with an attractive male celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:32 PM
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You're right, she should fuck the man all the other women are fucking. He will definitely pick her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:17 PM
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It sounds very much like the recent statistic that women now own more homes than men. Where if you think about it for two seconds, it makes perfect sense why they do - they've been awarded the home in the divorce. So how do you think recently divorced single women are doing on the happiness scale? I reckon they are pretty content since they're often still living in the martial home, and being paid by the ex-husband to do so via child support and/or alimony.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 11:50 AM
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California has the 10 year alimony law, Canada has common law marriage. I'm sure other policies are out there. What's up with these progressive places granting extra protections to women in the modern day? I thought we were equals?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 11:44 AM
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I hope women continue in this direction, because that's all I have to give
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:32 PM
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It's an outright lie or women are oblivious. If you treat a woman like an equal (aka how you would treat another man) she will treat you like a friend. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:37 AM
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Interesting, I believe the data also shows that people who commit such acts also tend to come from single parent households... I wonder which parent is more likely to have custody.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 10:51 PM
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Imagine the very plausible scenario where a man sleeps with a woman because he's pressured into it and then she regrets it the next day and frames him as the perpetrator.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 10:27 PM
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Woman who didn't listen to other women giving advise to women who will not listen to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:19 PM
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Most women aren't the kind that OP wrote about Lol You quite frankly lock down a woman for the rest of your life and there's a high probability you'll never have to dive into the dating market 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:23 PM
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My friend got an escort ad in Facebook reels. I just attended his wedding two weeks ago so I don't think he's got the gooner algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:58 AM
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Sure, but are men told about bad women from adolescence? No, we're told all women are angels lol. And the stakes for women are higher are they not? So why does it take years of lived experience for women to learn what they are told since they are children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:44 AM
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Yes it's just weird how women always have to learn from their mistakes and never listen to anyone around them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:16 PM
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Don't women here say they are warned to be wary of men from a young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:49 PM
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It's always the ones who did exactly that when they were younger that talk about how problematic it is. Yet it wasn't a problem when they were benefiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:09 PM
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Acktually, those aren't the same men saying those things. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:27 PM
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Usually friendships are a two way street
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:39 PM
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No, it's reality. I'm not a bad boy that is going to play games to manipulate her attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:26 PM
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WRONG. If you go into it without sexual intent, women will treat you like a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:38 PM
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"Just talk to women like regular people" as if men aren't the ones expected to initiate everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:35 PM
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I like how that was the only part you read, but I'm not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:06 PM
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Just treat women like people! Except that doesn't work, women expect men to be mind readers and escalate at exactly the right moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:38 AM
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Wtf is the left doing for men
/r/MensRights01/08/24 05:59 AM
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Here's the rub; "feminist" basically means "woman" now. It's mainstream. All women know about it. There are zero consequences using the playbook, even if you don't identify as feminist. In fact if you go against what they stand for, you will be villainized for it by other women. So might as well play along and reap the benefits. That's why it feels like there are so many feminists who oppose what seems like would be basic equality and use mental gymnastics to justify it. It's reeling in everyone…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 05:40 AM
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They actually like a lot of toxic male behaviors. They like traditional gender roles and being objectified, such as catcalling, and feel ashamed for it. They don't want a nice, sweet, caring man. It's the dichotomy of their biology playing out against the feminist messaging they're exposed to essentially since birth. They cannot reconcile the biological urge for a strong, masculine man with the societal programming that they must be a strong, independent women who can do it all. Rather than ackn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 05:23 AM
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Never wanted to condemn someone to a life of solitude like myself, but it's the truth. What is important to note is making these adjustments in your life only makes it harder to get women. Once you're happy with your lifestyle, you won't have the drive to pursue what you know is almost guaranteed to fail. And playing the passive role does not work as a guy. Women aren't going to approach, let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:15 AM
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Lord please send me one of these women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:26 PM
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So female sexuality is this complex enigma where women are incapable of feeling attraction unless they feel bonded to the man. Unless the man is Chad of course then they are holes for him to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:25 PM
2

Oh. I thought that's what you were encouraging, since you're asserting red pill men don't do anything but complain online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:03 PM
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It's less believing in fairy tales and more realizing half of the population has been gaslighting you for years or decades lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:47 PM
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Red pill guys used to do field reports where they would approach women in public en masse. Society has changed. You can't do that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:43 PM
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Actions have consequences, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:18 PM
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Women want a man who is exciting, dangerous, and brings drama to their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:23 PM
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Nice isn’t enough to get you laid. It’s a factory setting - like brakes on a car. Quite the opposite actually. Being a guy who is nice is a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:49 PM
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Much like every other term women invent, it was overused to the point that the original intended recipient of the messaging is a mere minority of those who are hurled the insult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:47 PM
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Absolutely true. There is nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:40 PM
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Can men not have one space on which they aren't treated like the villain for simply existing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:38 PM
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If we can do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:58 PM
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That's just plain accurate. Women pick the worst guys and project that experience on all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:46 PM
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So...1400 guys now isn't enough to find a compatible match?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:11 PM
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Perception is reality to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:11 PM
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A small number of men have power over women. This is not "men having power over women" in dating. You don't get it. Women still perceive themselves as being the ones who face more adversity due to the intra-gender competition they face from all chasing the same man. Therefore, they see it as men having power over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:56 PM
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What increasing standards? You disagree? Go on. Most guys get relationship and pussy. A fraction of what women get to experience. That's like kings telling serfs to enjoy their crumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:46 PM
1

"Ignorance is bliss" type beat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:52 PM
3

Who made the argument that attractiveness does not matter for men? What men are complaining about is women's standards increasing due to the constant attention they receive from men. This is why they use terms like "hoeflation". The data also supports women being more selective and a small subset of men receiving most of the attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:46 PM
1

Silly women always worrying about 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:24 PM
1

Many single mothers do not seek the same qualities in men as they did when they are childless - often looking for someone who can ease her burden of motherhood without much thought put into what she can do for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:40 PM
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Women have the privilege of choosing. Men are chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:22 PM
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Nor are women who do that kind of work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:17 PM
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It's not untrue that women prefer dangerous and exciting men over safe and secure guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:45 PM
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I can fix her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:37 PM
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😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:37 PM
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Yes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:33 PM
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As mentally stable as the others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:32 PM
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"He was insane. So I had his baby" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:19 PM
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Saying "white women" is "racially charged content" now? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:17 PM
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Women love woman beater Chris Brown so much they are blowing up their relationships paying $1500 for meet and greets. 😂 Almost as funny as women just now finding out Drake is a pedophile despite evidence being out there for YEARS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:16 PM
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Chris Brown, R-Kelly, Drake, Elvis Presley, Last I checked their fans are primarily women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:33 AM
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No, I thought they stood for equality. You know, like they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:46 AM
2

Those are grifters. Y'all have been telling us that for years. Did you suddenly forget?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:41 AM
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You don't get to shift the goalposts and decide what the OP was arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:39 AM
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The thing is the women saying this are in their 30s and 40s now and already partnered. If you found your partner 10-20 years ago, dating wasn't the transactional mess it is now. People were more likely to look for more equal partners, including in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:59 PM
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Fat women can date fat men. There are levels of attractiveness, which women seem to forget because y'all think you're all 10s now. A fit guy isn't going to go for a fat girl. I don't care if being overweight is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:35 PM
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Women see what they choose to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:43 AM
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That's not very reassuring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:30 PM
2

What makes you so sure you aren't the exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:44 PM
3

How would you know any of this as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:16 PM
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I exited the market six years ago. My life has literally never been better. My career is doing great, just started making six figures. With the money I was able to save from not chasing women and relationships I saved up for a house and even have four cars. I don't have to worry about heartbreak or getting ghosted or cheated on. I don't have to spend my days doing things I don't want to do to make a woman happy. I don't get crushes on women or think about missed opportunities because I know all …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:30 PM
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You can send them my way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:13 AM
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"This was a 'hook up' neither of us met under the guise of this being a life long deep love." https://www.facebook.com/share/p/MSJDGgZiUqEB5G93/?mibextid=oFDknk Fellas these are the guys they pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:04 AM
3

Girlfriend experience starting at $4.99 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:13 PM
7

To be fair, women have commodified themselves to levels never seen before in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:28 PM
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Until women become active participants in the dating process instead of passively letting the man do all the wooing men will probably always feel this way. What's a man get out of going on a date with a woman if things don't pan out (romantically or otherwise)? Nothing. He loses time and money. They woman loses nothing and gets free attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:01 PM
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Yup. Mom had me vacuum the house twice a week regardless if it was needed or not. Perception is everything to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:09 PM
1

I have two cats. One stray I domesticated. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:17 AM
2

The difference is what women find attractive, they claim to find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:49 AM
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I have a car show in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:46 AM
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Fuuutureee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:45 AM
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What's should I get for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:43 AM
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Men place higher emphasis on looks, but generally have broader standards. You guys are both correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:30 PM
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https://ask.metafilter.com/344522/Intimidated-by-guy-Im-dating I feel like this happens a lot more than women waiting at the finish line to fuck the winners A lot of women want a guy who is just as much of a loser as they are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:33 PM
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Women are not an oppressed class any more than men are in the capitalist West.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:49 PM
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Because a 200k household income isn't coming from a single earner. They're probably making similar money and she can't fleece him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:37 PM
5

None of those other rights groups are antagonistic to other movements though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:34 PM
9

I was very much told that feminism and smashing the patriarchy was good for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:19 PM
4

I acknowledge those women are conventionally attractive, but they do nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:34 PM
1

No that's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:06 AM
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I never wanted kids but always expected to get married and have a family. I have since been corrected and understand that a man expecting anything is being entitled so I don't hope for any of that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:02 AM
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I'm good thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:25 PM
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I don't care. I just don't believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:09 PM
1

If you look at the data, men aren't really turning right. Women are moving further left
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 07:14 PM
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Bet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:16 PM
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Homelessmaxxing ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 PM
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I don't go there often but when I do it's because I want something different than the normal places I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:04 PM
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It wasn't always like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:05 PM
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Men go to Hooters to eat wings, drink beer and watch the game. Not ogle women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:03 PM
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Have you ever been to a Hooters? The women there really ain't all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:10 PM
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Being a pickme doesn't work because you'll be endlessly shamed by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:20 PM
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Women are more likely to have their needs met, because they have the ability to date up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:38 PM
11

Eh, I'd rather be murdered than Emmitt Till'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:34 PM
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Well someone is going to give them baggage. Might as well be me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:43 PM
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Someone else will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:37 AM
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At this point I feel a wave of relief wash over me when a woman ghosts me Like oh no, I no longer have to spend hours of my day giving a woman attention for what would have invariably ended in the same result Tragic. Oh well back to actually doing stuff I care about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:20 AM
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Body count thread focused on women 🚫 Body count thread focused on men 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:32 PM
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Always use an incognito browser when viewing gender relations content on YouTube or it'll take over your feed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 01:05 AM
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You're insinuating looks aren't that important to women. However, whenever a guy says he thought women prioritized features other than looks, he is often met with "are you stupid? Of course women care about looks." You use either argument as you see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:53 PM
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What incentive do women have to be good people? A woman can make a living from using men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:57 PM
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By proving you're a chameleon who will change their position on a dime to suit whatever you're arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:55 PM
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Next you will say: "How did guys not think looks and sexual attraction are important to women when looks and sexual attraction are clearly important to guys?" Oh wait you already said that: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/XuVwWmHQF2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:51 PM
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Probably just jarring for her to see that I pay the same attention and genuine interest to people I don’t want to fuck. Yet they always say to treat women like people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:44 PM
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I feel like you're looking at this from a female perspective because the only way a woman cannot get a man is if she does not take care of herself or has a has glaring flaws. A man on the other hand can fail for being too nice. EDIT: In fact, I posit most guys would come to terms that they aren't attractive enough. That at least gives them something tangible to work toward. But what do we get from women? Take a shower and get a haircut, just be yourself, you'll find someone when you least expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:15 PM
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Am I supposed to feel remorse for other's actions? Just an fyi weirdos like that will always exist. Always. We don't live in a perfect world. Sucks but that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:47 PM
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The left took him down for speaking to boys like they're human and paved the way for Andrew Tate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:10 PM
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Oh come on, this is ridiculous. Women let their guard down for misogynistic dangerous men every day if they're good looking enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:07 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:30 PM
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Everyone is chronically online now fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:53 PM
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So you think every man can become a billionaire? 💀 Just world fallacy with you lot every time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:49 PM
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It's funny they claim men think they're entitled to sex, when women think they are are entitled to a man's whole income
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:48 PM
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Lmao don't forget he married Grimes, the self-proclaimed "socialist" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:20 PM
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I don't even want kids of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:36 PM
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Dating but not exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:01 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:50 AM
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Women don't really have that many friends. My friend explained going out less as not wanting to do activities without his girlfriend because he knows she'd have nothing to do otherwise. Another friend was thinking about buying a project bike or something for like a thousand bucks but said his wife wouldn't let him. For reference, he had a six figure career and paid all the bills while she worked retail. Don't know why anyone would allow someone who makes a quarter their income dictate how they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:59 PM
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What do you think they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:08 AM
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Why should women settle? They can be wined and dined by a different guy every day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:46 PM
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I addressed two of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:14 PM
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Idk how the US system is, but all this "focus on my studies" seems a lame excuse to me. Then for the 3rd year i didn't work, but planned the wedding. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:58 AM
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Who's going to bail them out when they inevitably get sick of girlbossing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:54 AM
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You're choosing to actively embrace lies that you already know to be untrue and that are used against us? We're already there for half of the population. We can continue to try to meet them in the middle, or we can show them how ridiculous they sound.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/24 05:16 PM
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I only ever see women saying this about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:41 PM
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I'm playing by their rules dude
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/24 10:53 AM
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This is where patriarchy theory falls flat for me. I understand that men are responsible for our own issues and are not entitled to help from women. But is the first step to dismantling the patriarchy not to free both women and men from traditional gender roles? I'll even accept that women remain attracted to more masculine behavior as they have a biological imperative to find the best mate they can. But no, feminism arbitrarily reinforces the traditional role on men, reinforcing the patriarchy.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/24 08:01 PM
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Women think emotionally, men think logically. This is why you won't see empathy for men's causes; if it's not something that directly affects them, they can't conceptualize it. Now factor in the "women are wonderful" effect and you have a society that will take every statement made by a woman at face value even if the claim has no merit. In a rare turn for me, I'm actually just frustrated and confused by this as opposed to feeling a burning hatred This is just you becoming desensitized from the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/24 02:09 PM
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Now what do the men here think of the other side? Namely, women who never engage in casual sex and think alpha bros aren't even worth being around, much less having sex with. Instead, these women will date with the goal of creating a safe, secure, longterm, mutually satisfying and sexually adventurous relationship with a beta man. (May or may not be childfree.) Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:13 PM
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Is anything fulfilling to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:48 PM
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Lol you just did the same thing you're accusing me of. I don't care about your opinion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/24 08:24 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:American_female_serial_killers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:43 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:39 PM
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Why not just enjoy the freedom of not having a woman dictate your life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:20 AM
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Yeah or you can just not put up with all that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:19 AM
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So a yes on the hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:08 AM
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Definitely a red scare listener moment Forgot about how funny those subs are Progressive leftist liberal women love telling on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:35 AM
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Q4M: Are y'all really still trying? Or have hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:34 AM
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There are Instagram pages that post mugshots of women and the comments are full of dudes saying "I can fix her." These guys are self-aware of their propensity for toxic women that they are being satirical about it. If you tell a woman maybe she would have more success finding a committed relationship by not chasing bad boys you'll be labeled a misogynistic incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:54 PM
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No, we just don't immediately jump to misandry because we're capable of thinking critically. Tell a man that his relationship woes are because of toxic women and he'll admit it's his fault he's addicted to toxic women. Tell a woman her relationship woes are because of toxic men and she won't even entertain the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:37 PM
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There is something really weird and tribal about how women will come out of the woodworks to defend a theoretical women who does not even exist. Even more strange, women have a higher propensity for groupthink which means generalizations about them are generally more valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:32 PM
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That was the golden age of dating apps, when they actually worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:41 PM
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Interesting how you date all these women but have gotten none of them to commit. Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:17 AM
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I'm talking about young people coupling up today, not your 85 year old grandpa who hasn't washed a dish in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:59 AM
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Women don't want that anymore lol. That's the whole thing. A short while ago women mostly wanted equal partners but that only applies to very few women now. Now they know they hold all the power in dating and relationships, and most want a man who can provide all of the traditional male gender roles while not requiring them to adhere to any traditional female gender roles. Princess treatment is the bare minimum now. Forget all that talk about equality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:28 AM
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r/menslib is right there dude
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/24 03:25 PM
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Only chronically online women and teenage boys take this guy seriously. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:03 AM
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All I know is that men can say stuff like this, and people give them laughs and money instead of rage posts ????? If I use the word "women" on Reddit without adding a qualifier to specify I wasn't talking about all women the hindmind will descend and 50 blue-haired feminists will be reminding me that women aren't a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:30 PM
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And how do you combat the group guilt and shame? Very easily actually. I look at what women say vs. what they do. Women claim that men are so dangerous and always a threat and what do they do? They go to parties with guys they don't know to drink and do drugs. They meet guys on dating apps and go back to their house the day they met. They select men with typically masculine traits. I mean Grimes was married to Elon Musk for fucks sake.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/24 02:46 PM
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So...let me let you in on a little secret. You know how many girlies say they don't want kids and are happier leading a stress-free life without them? Guess what? Some men think like that too. We don't want kids at all. So we won't, under any circumstances, date a woman who has kids. Not really all that different from how women see it. Not sure why that is so hard to conceptualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:22 AM
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0.05% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:45 PM
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And it might be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:44 PM
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You can get off it at any time lol, you just have to admit fault and take accountability. Excellent observation. I have never seen a woman so openly admit they collectively are unable to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:32 PM
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Not for the reasons you're presenting. You're only concerned with how your actions have resulted in consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:23 PM
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The actions of that one man show how all men are dangerous!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:11 PM
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She's only saying it's ridiculous because it didn't go the way she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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For as much as I hear "women are not a monolith" around here women sure do love to generalize men. And that's exactly what women did here. You painted all men as more dangerous than a bear. Accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:56 PM
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I believe so? Statistically women are the most privileged and safest they have ever been in history yet more vocal about how oppressed they are than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:20 PM
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Perception is reality and women perceive themselves as perpetual victims and men as violent criminals. There is no changing this now, the cat's out of the bag. Plus, do you really see the government pushing a campaign to try and get women to be more trusting of men? No, of course not. So all that will happen is more pandering to women and furthering the gender divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:42 PM
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You know what the repercussions are for speaking out in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:31 AM
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110% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:54 PM
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The only thing this proves is that this is female nature in its truest form
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:31 PM
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Wasn't this 1 in 4 women just a couple of years ago? Goalposts always moving. How long before it's 100% of women? 🙄
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 11:03 AM
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Women had no difficulties finding and keeping a man for hundreds of years when they had realistic standards. Now you hoes only end up in situationships and wonder why there aren't any good men out there, yet you're telling me that's not a result of women's overinflated standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:03 PM
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Tf we aren't even allowed to be attracted to our partners anymore 😭 what femcel logic is this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:21 PM
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Pick the bear already. I'm tired of hearing about this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:04 PM
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2 MILLION women are in a scenario which incentivized them to sell their bodies online I'm glad you see no problem with that 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:53 PM
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Feminism now means whatever is in a woman's best interest, not actual equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:04 PM
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2.1 million Yup nothing to see here folks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:56 PM
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Consent: assumed to be something men get from women, but never the other way around. https://np.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/s/K8i29vr6xS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:26 AM
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Women have no morals or standards, they live for their own short term entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:05 PM
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Ayo?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:40 PM
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Females.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:28 AM
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<image> Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:27 AM
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Truly shocking /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 07:57 PM
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Trauma dumping is something women do to men not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:50 AM
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The dumb dad has been a trope in television probably further back than the 80s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/24 06:08 PM
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Dating is just a colossal waste of time for men The only time a woman is available is just as she's exiting a relationship So you get to compete with: The emotional unavailability of someone who just exited a relationship The guys in her circle who just learned she is single and want a piece of the action Her just going back to her ex And even then it is just a matter of time until she gets bored and leaves. It's not a matter of if but when. Why do we even bother with this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:27 PM
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The girl I was talking to for the past month ghosted me I followed all the blue pill advise this time around. She was near my age (30s) who I got introduced to through mutual friends This really solidifies it for me. All women are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:19 PM
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Dude, people in college are racking up those kinda numbers every year https://www.statista.com/statistics/1367087/us-college-hookups-by-gender/#:~:text=Number%20of%20hookups%20in%20college,States%201910%2D2020%2C%20by%20gender&text=In%202020%2C%20men%20in%20college,times%20and%20women%200.1%20times. That statistic is either heavily skewed by the older generations, or is just an estimate slightly inflated from the 80s/90s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:57 PM
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Every woman who has been to college has done that at least once Maybe they don't do that anymore but nearly all do at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:37 PM
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Pick mes don't exist anymore, aside from the obvious grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:28 PM
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No, I don't need or want attention or validation from women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:39 AM
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They had the Executive and the House and did nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/24 02:32 PM
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Women are under attack right now, politically/legally. And the Dems in power didn't do a single damn thing about the overturn of Roe v. Wade.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/24 12:34 AM
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Can the Dems do anything but double down on the same old shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/24 12:03 AM
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I honestly would rather just be rejected so I can move on and not have to think about it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:03 AM
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I only know how to speak corporate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:31 AM
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I need to ask this girl on a date but I'm so apathetic about it and obsessing over coming off as too boring in asking and don't have any hope it'll go well anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:24 AM
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No, it's suddenly starting to make sense. Women all date the same guy because that guy has tons of time to invest on them. The rest of us are at work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:22 AM
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That is how dating works before exclusivity...for women. What man with a career has the time or energy to entertain multiple women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:05 AM
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instead of seeking out the opportunities for self improvement. There are no victories to be found in a never ending gauntlet to improve yourself while women sit on the sidelines doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:02 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 AM
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Lol, you really think most men have the bandwidth to entertain multiple women simultaneously? When they have to do all of the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 AM
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Seriously, feminism is just the red pill reversed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:16 AM
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No not really. Play that exact scenario out here on Reddit and everyone would be saying it's that girls' God given right to date multiple people at once as long as they aren't exclusive and probably some casual misandry about how men deserve it anyway because they're the violent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:14 AM
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Women absolutely do care about this, many won't date a man who is inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:28 PM
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Why not. No such thing as a lifelong relationship these days, I'll take my turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:05 PM
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I think that may be the grim reality. Unfortunately I will never understand as I'm not that type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:23 AM
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You know I do wonder... As someone who is non-religious who has heard time and time again "How can you be moral without believing in a higher power?" I can't help but wonder if it is those people. Just a hunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:13 AM
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That is really sad if true. Those first things are just baselines with the exception of "adhering to rules", rules aren't always fair and should be challenged when so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:00 AM
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It's the oppressed vs. oppressor dynamic in modern progressive politics. Whoever is less privileged is the winner of the oppressed olympics. I still consider myself a leftist but I'm not whatever tf this is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:47 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:43 PM
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I always thought of it as the second group and never the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:42 PM
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https://www.indiewire.com/news/breaking-news/rust-armorer-hannah-gutierrez-reed-guilty-involuntary-manslaughter-1234956038/ Let's not take such drastic measures, have y'all considered the fact that I can fix her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:40 PM
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My theory is that since women are far more likely to be the recipient of "good" acts, they become indifferent to it. It's expected behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:15 PM
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As a man who is not a 4/10 or lower but only gets attention from those women who are 4s due to women's inflated standards, I guess it would be nice to know which ones would be easy to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:55 PM
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I don't think I'm a good person by virtue of not being a criminal or because I'm a good listener to women. I think I'm a good person because I treat everyone equally. I hold doors open for men and women. Treat people how you want to be treated and all that. I will act selflessly and put people's needs before mine if I have the ability to do so and it's someone I care about. I don't mind picking up the bill for a friend or loaning money or donating to someone in need more than myself. I don't go …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:30 PM
-1

What do women post more about than anything on the internet? Their relationship troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:08 PM
-1

Most women date in primary school. You're telling me a woman needs 15+ years of dating experience to finally figure it out? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:41 PM
3

Do you not know how language works?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:17 PM
5

Sorry, I thought you meant men needed to make more money not contribute more money. You don't think most men are contributing to their family monetarily? I thought most married households have some level of combined finances
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:11 PM
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We tried that. You called it the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:00 PM
3

Yeah but every female coded space blames men for all their problems. That's part of the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:51 PM
6

Women shouldn't dismiss so quickly the idea that the man works more hours in his job on average which is why he has less time to contribute to the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:34 PM
1

My boomer grandparents were together and totally in love until they passed away two days apart. Please come up with new material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:25 PM
6

Do they not know what Mardi Gras used to be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:23 PM
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Idk I don't post or view stories
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:36 PM
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I meet all of my own needs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:36 PM
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That sounds like it comes off looking needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:07 PM
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A girl in a friend circle I see rather seldomly added me on FB and followed me on Instagram. Is this an IOI
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:03 PM
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Seriously though. Millennial and younger women talk about this like they're the first generation to be able to make it on their own. Both of my boomer grandmother's were working moms. My Gen X dad didn't want a stay-at-home wife and my mom has her master's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:07 PM
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Sorry I don't date girls who still live in their parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:07 PM
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Totally agree with you. There is a lot of nuance to it, and I agree that is partially the problem. Intersectionality has many perspectives, and from the feminist lens it is often viewed as directly male vs. female. So I must concede that feminists do play a large part in the problem. I don't disagree with intersectionality as a whole but my point is it's being used as a distraction from real class issues every working class person suffers from regardless of race or gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/24 05:16 AM
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Let me expand on this. I think everyone (even those on the other side of the aisle) can all agree on two things: Not all women are feminists Not all feminists agree with the hypocrisy some women use to their advantage So feminism isn't the problem here. The problem is the way society sees men under intersectionality. They are the oppressors while women are the oppressed, thus we are more liberal in how we view women's actions vs. men's.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/24 03:40 AM
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It's not just you. Politics as a whole in the states and possibly other Western countries has been reduced to identity politics. We had a brief moment there where the mainstream left was observing class differences but the powers at be had to divert attention from the class struggle. So, we now get to bicker about intersectionality rather than talking about why CEOs make 10k a minute while their employees make minimum wage. This makes those at the top very happy. I'm no feminist but this goes wa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/24 02:55 AM
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"Women are happier single" is the wall but for women. It's the female revenge fantasy. Women aren't actually happier single. Of course they're happier in a relationship with someone they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:22 PM
3

So they think players are nice guys? That's rich and makes a lot of sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:10 PM
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Women complain about fictional "nice guys" far more than actual criminals or abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
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No they don't. They think a guy who is nice must be defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:28 PM
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How so? They aren't getting any women to abuse lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:20 PM
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You guys hate "nice guys" more than literal abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:11 PM
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Ok. Why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:50 PM
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The last time that happened she was borderline so I would be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:28 PM
1

I find it hard to believe that happens as frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:21 AM
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Just because a woman says she is willing to split doesn't mean she's not silently judging the guy for taking her up on the offer. As a guy you will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:10 PM
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This doesn't even remotely reflect the real world - where women, on the whole, are just looking for a normal dude who's kind, reliable and fun to hang out with. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:53 PM
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2.5 years is rookie numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:40 AM
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How cold? Even 75 is very expensive to heat a home to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:38 AM
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No it exists because women jump from relationship to relationship with no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:36 AM
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No lol women need men more than men need women. That's why women date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:30 AM
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Right that's why you're posting on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:27 AM
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You think 75 is cold?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:56 AM
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It's not as much of a red flag as you think that's every woman under 40
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:55 AM
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Please stop with this nonsense that women are choosing to be single rather than be in bad relationships with men. First off, we can see the men they pick and the single mothers left in their wake. Second, there is a reason why the term "monkey branch" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:54 AM
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😱 all men rapists confirmed!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:30 PM
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True it's mostly just shaming them into submission. That's the part I don't get though, do those women really think they are helping those men? Assuming the guy does everything they say. If anything they're making those men even further off from the goal of getting a girl because women's advice does not work for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:06 PM
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It's the same femcels who post in r/IncelTears feigning empathy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:00 PM
1

Go ahead and show me what I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:59 PM
2

Equivalent men's spaces get launched into the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:55 PM
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Judging all men based on the actions of one or two? Isn't that what you lot are always combining about on this sub, just with the genders flipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:46 PM
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You know modern credit cards have only existed since the 60s, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:38 PM
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How is it being misogynistic to talk about your personal experience with women in your life with other men? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:32 PM
0

Either if they're attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:50 PM
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Or MGTOW who didn't get what "G" stands for. Huh, I guess everyone in r/TwoXChromosomes forgot what "TwoX" means. Every thread in there is complaining about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:43 PM
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Well, that's simple lol. In a relationship with two women, the attention and assets need to be split amongst two people, rather than being all hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:28 PM
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I mean these women are saying they find other women more attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:26 PM
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Jesus dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:13 AM
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I think I would have to take my chances with the pitbull. I could never hurt a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:09 AM
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Samoas hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:08 AM
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What kinda opener do you use for a girl who mentions losing her child in her bio lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:07 AM
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Yes. They're treated like human beings, by virtue of being born a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:03 PM
1

Lol look at what happens when tall white men go to the west and tell me women don't have fetishes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:57 PM
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He needs to pull himself up by the bootstraps and try harder so women can continue to rest on their laurels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:53 PM
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I always saw myself married with a family but at this point I don't really care anymore tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:22 PM
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As gets stated pretty often in these spaces If women magically became attracted to the things they claim they are attracted to (good, kind, well-intentioned men) overnight, then all complaints from men about being lonely and all complaints from women about dirt bag men would cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:31 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:05 PM
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Yes all of those women liking and in the comments agreeing are definitely a psyop to lower male morale
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:01 PM
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If by liberating you mean I've been liberated from seeing any point to dating/relationships in modern day then yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:51 PM
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...Again?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:55 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ozfyqb/single_women_are_not_happier_than_married_women/?rdt=35371
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:40 PM
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That study has been debunked an endless number of times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:23 PM
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Lions Too soon man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:21 PM
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Unfortunately that will not increase the number of men that women will find suitable for sex and relationships. Women will have to get used to doing it on their own. I see no problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:19 PM
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Oof I ain't paying for those
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:37 PM
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Having a cat does not help
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:31 PM
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Get a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:30 PM
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Based Cats rule
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:27 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:25 PM
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Thinking we are ever going back to a society where women have no rights is a bogeyman that only exists in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:14 PM
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This is good info thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:22 PM
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Additionally struggling men are told not to pedestalize women, and to treat them like people. So I treat them like I treat any other man in public - which is to not pay attention to them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:09 PM
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But men only approach hot chicks from clubs, who may be displaying such behaviour. I'm seeing this from a different angle: Men approach those women because they are projecting themselves as being available
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:04 PM
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Lol they have been saying that a lot longer than TikTok has existed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:09 PM
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Enough women have said it that we infer that is the case unless proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:38 PM
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Too much work and risk of catching feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:22 AM
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I mean ... Every woman on Reddit and particularly this subreddit claim to all make six figures and are breadwinners for their stay-at-home 5'8" husbands. I don't think you'll get a good answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:48 AM
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No. Life is pretty easy without them in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:44 AM
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Whoa now. It was women who made the claim that sex work was real work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:09 PM
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I am genuinely starting to feel that the female condition is to never be satisfied and always demanding more. They do not know what they want, evident by the fact that two demographics of women with opposite demands still see the grass greener on the other side. Women's demands have never been met at the rate they are in modern society and yet they are more miserable than ever. They never feel fully satisfied and thus something needs to be different, even if they don't know what it is they need …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/24 05:37 PM
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When have young women ever listened to older women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:04 PM
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Now replace the word "men" with any other group and let me know how your post sounds, Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:27 PM
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I'm not looking for pity. But I'd like not to be categorized as entitled when I'm anything but.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:16 PM
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"Men are entitled!" yawn Please get a clue and read this. https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:53 PM
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Kylie Jenner situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 PM
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Lots of ladies learning about the wall today
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:58 PM
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I was a month into dating a girl who trickle truthed that the "best guy friend" she was texting every day was someone she had previously hooked up with. I did not make a scene, simply told her that while I can't control who she talks to I wasn't going to have any part of that, gathered my things, and left. She came groveling back the same night and never spoke to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:15 PM
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expecting reciprocity for performative behavior is entitlement Expecting respect back when it is given is entitlement now? Jesus Christ, you people have lost the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:39 AM
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This harkens back to the oppressed/oppressor dynamic. Men are the oppressors. Therefore any man acting nice must be acting disingenuous. Thus women overcorrect and choose assholes. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:12 AM
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Such brilliant insight, do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:57 AM
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It's mostly women who dated a redpill guy once and never let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:20 AM
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Even as a young child I noticed that the men's restrooms at essentially all business and public places were always further away than the women's
/r/MensRights25/01/24 05:44 PM
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r/pussypass
/r/MensRights25/01/24 05:35 PM
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You are not going to get women to give up their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:12 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:31 AM
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Women don't try
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:31 AM
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Women don't even like men. Why are you still trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:41 AM
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"When to break her down"? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:37 AM
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Women like to claim that sleeping around with men who do not provide them with commitment does not lower their value You are asserting that being with men who do not like women lowers a woman's value I am saying that those men that are entering commitment free relationships with women do not like or even care about women and in fact are only looking to fulfill their own needs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:44 PM
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And being with the ones who you end up in situationships throughout your 20's doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:02 PM
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Or she has self control 😂 Sweetie, this whole thread is about her lack of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:39 PM
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In other words, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:35 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:50 PM
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Here's one! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:50 PM
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It's simple really. If you do then right, nothing happens. If you do them wrong, straight to jail for tax fraud 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:23 PM
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In the states we have to do and submit our own tax returns to the federal government once a year to ensure we have paid enough. It is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:40 PM
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I am 6'8". So that is everyone to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:47 PM
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These videos are dumb and cringe, women obviously aren't going to change their ways lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:46 PM
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Tax day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:09 PM
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It's almost that time of year for all of us single folks to subsidize the married couples with kids 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:58 PM
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This woman wrote a whole essay on something that didn't even happen to her. It's evident she was simply looking for an excuse to hate men. It is curious how women hate to be generalized but love to generalize men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 07:37 PM
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I am tired of taking the proverbial high-road while women receive praise for their misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 03:57 PM
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Most men are not Leonardo DiCaprio, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:57 PM
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Why is this such a trigger statement for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:01 PM
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I'm not a babysitter. That's the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:05 PM
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I don't. If you don't have a job and can't take care of yourself we ain't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:02 PM
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Sex is a tool used by women to extract value from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:17 PM
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Yes. Relationships and marriage are both temporary now and end when the woman gets bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:47 PM
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It is with poetic irony that women evolved the term "emotional labor" to describe men with emotional needs. Ignoring the fact that being open with your partner is a bare minimum and women stating they want partners to open up to them, has it not been every mans' experience here that women are incredibly fucking emotionally needy on a constant basis? I dated girls that needed me to unpack their workplace traumas daily. I refuse to believe there are men out there that are worse about this than wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 07:43 PM
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Being a man means dealing with rejection and adversity. In caveman times, if a caveman gave up because he couldn't hunt down a mammoth or another animal on his first try, he died of hunger. But that was a requirement for survival. What happens if I decide to not deal with the "rejection and adversity" of pursuing a woman? Nothing, I continue to exist and my life remains easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:32 PM
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Them being oblivious to it is the only explanation that makes sense of their disdain in spite of their privilege. I think they internalized the body positivity movement too much and literally think every woman is a 10/10 deserving of a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:01 PM
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Is this intersectionalism for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:37 PM
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The value of sex is not equal to the amount of effort required to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:59 PM
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Yeah, individualism has been severely lacking lately. The "feed me and tell me I'm pretty", loves to travel and must love dogs female archetype applies to an overwhelming number of women now. Dating apps are full of attractive women that all seem to lack a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:54 PM
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Stopped trying five years ago. Don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:28 AM
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The first and last points I get. But this: -Divorced men with no kids. I suppose this is a decent choice. But if their first marriage failed you would have to consider why. -Single men. But why are they still single at that age? Maybe they're a player or a very late bloomer. If you wanna know why late bloomers can be red flags, check out my previous post. Is a result of women having weird standards. None of this is gender specific, men have to contend with the same concerns but women for seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:02 PM
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I don't disagree, but saying there aren't trash women in one of the most prosperous countries in the world where people's needs are being met isn't all that big of a surprise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:50 PM
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<image> Gee I wonder why Swiss women don't have OnlyFans
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:44 PM
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She is not a leftist, she is a liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:31 PM
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Those are opinions you will only find on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:30 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:21 PM
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??? Half her songs are about how men have wronged her!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:06 PM
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Both have fans with weird parasocial relationships despite the two having very little substance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:47 PM
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Taylor Swift is Andrew Tate for liberal white women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:18 PM
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There it is. Feminism is just the red pill for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 03:33 PM
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So in other words... On top of compatibility and everything else men have to find a needle in the haystack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:05 AM
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Right; so fair's fair when women get nothing more than a pump and dump for having too much experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:08 PM
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Don't know. Can't speak for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:55 AM
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Men are turning away from relationships? Well it couldn't possibly be that women are cold, narcissistic, entitled, judgemental and always looking for a better option. It must be the fault of video games!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:13 PM
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I want to hit six figures, but other than that I don't have any real goals in mind right now. I'm fulfilled by working hard and advancing in my career, working on my project cars, spending time with my cats and visiting family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:49 AM
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Why? Women don't want your help. Let them figure it out on their own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 08:21 PM
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Most divorce long before that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:02 PM
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The venn diagram of women who "don't want to be your mommy" but expect the man to be the traditional male provider, pay for dates, and help her with bills is one circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:54 PM
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Most women don't even want kids anymore. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:52 PM
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Girl who makes TikToks at the gym is surprised she is not appreciated by men at the gym. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:04 PM
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I knew it I'm cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:52 AM
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Is it cringe to be "not like the other guys" Like I could care less about sports, hunting, fishing, guns or Marvel movies. Someone has to appreciate that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:17 AM
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I moved six hours away from my parents and wish I never did. I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:07 AM
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Men are logically driven, women are emotionally driven. When a man realizes he is shooting beyond his standards he should take a pragmatic approach and adjust them. Women operate emotionally, they don't process their failures logically or internalize them. (Think about it. When have you seen a woman take accountability for a relationship failing.) Which brings me to my next point. Women marry and have traditionally throughout history married for domestic and financial stability. Men do not marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:01 PM
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Promoted to Betabux, how lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:40 AM
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Women will say this guy is an asshole but this is the exact type of guy they pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:54 PM
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Actually unlike most of the guys here I want an equal partner not a tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:49 PM
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Unlike any other group, it's okay to say it to men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:38 PM
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Nah, I've seen 4s and 5s selling content. Additionally you have educated women blowing up their careers in healthcare and education to jump on the OF train. It's all types of women. Ultimately, it comes down to it being safer to assume all women are promiscuous since in the current zeitgeist women get a pat on the back for it and men are shamed for having preferences. Less disappointment that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:52 PM
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Goated post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:01 PM
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Maybe pre-2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:53 PM
5

You all get stuck on "but there are so many women not like that!" But in a man's experience all sorts of women are like that. Maybe the nerdy girl you know has OF now. Or maybe the trad girl passed herself around during college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:52 PM
2

Not entertain them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:25 PM
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Growing up my dad taught me a very important lesson I carry with me to this day: Perception is reality. The way I look at it, it would not matter if I am not actaully cheating on my wife/girlfriend if she in fact thought that is what I was doing. The larger issue would be that she feels that way. This, I would not put her in a position to feel like that. Unlike women who will use plausible deniability when they know damn well the three dudes in their inbox daily are waiting for an opportunity to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:11 AM
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I would simply not put my wife in a situation to think that was a possibility, out of respect for our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:57 AM
3

Yes, this is what it is like now. Women's standards only go up as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:38 AM
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In every relationship I have been in, I've had to unpack my girlfriend's trauma on a near daily basis. But it happens to women once and they invent a new term for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/23 11:06 PM
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So in other words these women are incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:24 PM
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I get OF bot DMs on Facebook, Reddit and Instagram now. Forget the dating apps. It's pervasive at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:13 PM
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They're teasing you. How tf else do you expect a man to relate to you enjoying Taylor Swift 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:02 PM
2

Yes, the content is bait. But just look at the thousands of comments from women who echo the same sentiment, and millions more women who view the content, allowing it to drip into society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:16 PM
5

You think all women are angels? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:09 PM
3

It's always so weird to me when women on here say they don't need men. That doesn't match up with my personal experience at all. One of my exes let a guy pump and dump her the day after I ended our three year relationship. I think most women cannot handle being alone and women relying on men to fix them is something that is not talked about nearly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:47 PM
3

This has been my experience as well. Why put in the work to self-reflect when you can hop into something new and exciting with another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:34 PM
3

For those saying this is a meme and not real, it has happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:04 AM
25

I don't think it's unreasonable to think there are behaviors that are acceptable within a relationship and behaviors not acceptable within a relationship. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:35 PM
5

If your boundary is ''don't dress in a vulgar manner and don't post bikini pics'', you probably wouldn't date a person who did those things, and if your partner started doing them, you'd leave them. Exactly. I feel like this does not happen anywhere near the frequency it is reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:29 PM
1

Not sure why you took that personally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:13 AM
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No I just date women with traumatic childhoods apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:00 AM
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I'm 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:59 AM
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Pretty much, you need adolescent innocence and naivety to really feel love. I don't understand why people seek out relationships past 30 or let alone after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:52 AM
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This is just silly. Men bring a lot more to relationships than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:39 AM
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Pornstars at least fuck. That's better than being a meal ticket for a woman needing a bailout.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:03 AM
22

I have a question. If patriarchy harms men too, then why did women only emancipate themselves from traditional gender roles? The patriarchy can only be "smashed" if BOTH genders are, no?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 10:48 AM
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Inb4 someone says "these days you need two incomes to live, sweetie!" Let them say that, they're right. Men should accept nothing less than an equal partnership. I'm not paying for a woman's lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:08 AM
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Women don't date down in hetero relationships, let's be realistic. And not every man is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:05 AM
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That's not the argument you think it is. Any man Megan Fox would date would also be a celebrity, and as someone in the public spotlight, he would have far more to lose than an average Joe if he got exposed for poor behavior. Think about it. Celebrities are more concerned with their public image than anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:55 AM
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Women can relationship their way out of poverty. They can enter a relationship and never have to work another day in their lives. If that's not peak privilege, I'm not sure what is. So I don't care what women think about male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:09 AM
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Megan Fox released a book. Pretty Boys are Poisonous. Let that sink in. That is a 37 year old woman making this realization. I saw a quote earlier that sums it up pretty well: "Women are intoxicated by toxic male behavior."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:06 AM
1

You're confusing all women being alike with all people being alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:24 AM
0

No, men love one-sided relationships /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:23 PM
4

Society as a whole props it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:27 AM
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Well, that's very simple actually. All the well meaning guys have heard the feminist messaging over the past two decades and have fucked off. Now the only men that approach women are the guys that don't care what a woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:00 AM
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If guys only dated IG thirst traps women would demand collective action immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:26 PM
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She has an outreach to millions of people. If a man in the same position of influence said something even slightly misogynistic, he would be launched into space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:05 PM
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Body positivity is a movement for women, by women. Women can be runway model thin or Lizzo sized and receive praise for their appearance. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:58 PM
10

This woman is three years away from blowing up into a landwhale after her metabolism catches up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:55 AM
3

If the priority is pure equality in this space, then we may just have to swallow the fact that a lot of men will end up left out of the mating scene. So we are just to accept that """egalitarianism""" means continuing to placate women's every desire at the cost of men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/23 03:58 PM
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Keep your options open and milk her for what she's worth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:24 AM
4

This is why men should not listen to advice from women. It's a just-world fallacy at its best, and malicious at its worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:49 PM
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I agree, men should not be bitter. They need to accept women are like that. The difference is it's like women don't start self-reflecting until they hit 30. Then it's commitment and chivalry or bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:09 AM
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No, and the same thing is happening with millennials. By the time a woman hits 30 she is full of trauma from the poor choices she made in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:51 AM
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Thank you. It's time to put that myth to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:14 PM
1

That's assuming they're capable of it at all
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 07:09 PM
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If IG is a bad influence on women that is because of other women not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:29 AM
3

This. As a not-so-creative guy I prefer dating more creative types
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:32 PM
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Maybe just the algorithm boosting me because I'm in a new location
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:43 PM
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I figured maybe the algorithm is doing its thing, that or women's preferences are different here? But it seems to be the case no matter where I go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:43 PM
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Just match. If I'm traveling it's for a reason, not really to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:36 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:20 PM
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Why do I match with 7s and 8s when I'm out of town but struggle to match with 4s and 5s in my city lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:15 PM
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Amogus
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:04 AM
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Lmao what's with this flair requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:28 AM
6

Right? That would have made headlines in every news outlet in the western world if it had actually happened.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:35 PM
3

I'm missing the part where she's out of his league. She's pretty but nothing extraordinary.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:34 PM
31

Call up your girlfriends and tell them how empowered you are. 🤷
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/23 06:25 PM
1

The truth is that if you truly desire a romantic partner and put in the effort, you’ll eventually be successful. Women live in a just-world fallacy. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:24 PM
2

I agree that codependency is bad. But also lots of people jump from codependent relationship to codependent relationship so I'm not sure you can say that doesn't make one ready for a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:44 AM
6

I was talking about the girl in the video. I wouldn't give her the time of day
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:11 AM
16

Big opinions for someone not even suitable for a one night stand
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 01:52 AM
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"Notice how they use bro in this context. They'd never refer to women as sis let alone bro as women are excluded from being treated with respect and are the out group." Holy shit. Are women ok 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:31 PM
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I find this new concept created by women to be very ironic because in all of my relationships I was the one constantly made to emotionally comfort my partners and never the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:29 PM
2

I agree with you but I've also seen more commitment minded women see it as a red flag/timewaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:25 AM
2

Coffee dates and drinks are now considered low effort by some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:10 AM
0

You get to pass the shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:09 AM
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No you just take everything men do for granted lol. The home you live in was built by men. The electricity and plumbing and HVAC was installed by men. Men designed and built the phone you're reading this on. You couldn't go an hour without something that was built by an average Joe Schmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:48 PM
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Where was I being dishonest? The thread is about respect for men. Most women have none and see men as rapists and abusers because a very very very small minority of men do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:36 PM
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Nice strawman 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:22 PM
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