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They are just following their biological programming. Literal NPCs that don't even realize they are actually weeding out weakness from the genetic pool. They won't ever be able to accept it if it was pointed out, but yet it's true. I do think it's the "limited experience" thing that really kills it. I was a virgin until I was 25. But I knew that I had succeeded in so many OTHER things that I attempted in my life, I knew that eventually I'd be able to figure out what I was doing wrong with relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:27 AM
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You’re underestimating how hard it is to ignore mainstream advice to just be open, share feelings, compromise, “active” consent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:33 PM
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If this is a problem for you, you are online too much. Don’t patronize gyms that allow filming. Don’t watch social media influencers. Don’t go to gyms frequented by social media influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:36 AM
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So you admit that women value strength in men, cool. That’s what I said. You are making up anything I said about liberals or conservatives. I didn’t claim any of that. I said nothing about testosterone or politics. You are hallucinating that. Now show me a recipe for apple pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:22 PM
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Nah, you’re right, women don’t care about strength, just keep believing whatever you want to believe. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:54 PM
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it was so stark of a contrast that here is a top comment from a reddit thread about the study 8 years ago. There was no nuance to these results, he said. Zero of the 160 women surveyed showed a statistical preference for weaker men. https://royalsocietypublishing.org/rspb/article/284/1869/20171819/78768/Cues-of-upper-body-strength-account-for-most-of As far as scientific studies go... it doesn't really ever get any more clear than this... https://trs.silverchair-cdn.com/trs/content_public/journa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:02 PM
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There was an interesting study I saw that concluded that women are attracted to pure strength much more than body fat %. The dad bod that can deadlift 600lbs beats out the skinny poetry kid that struggled picking up a single plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:13 PM
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Men are always paying for it. Sometimes it's on the front end. Other times it's on the back end. Sometimes they pay more and sometimes they pay less. Your bitterness comes across in your commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:12 PM
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If you ever detect "mild digust" from someone you are attempting to date, just move on. It's not worth it. Not all women hate men. It is not something "in-built" in women like you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:09 PM
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I am a Republican. 100% of the government is bad, because 0% of my tax dollars is useful to me. That might be an exaggeration, nasa can stay, and I like… the coast guard, those are some good people. Fuck everyone else. And I work for the government, my agency is absolutely full of worthless people and waste. For people getting free health insurance or education grants or one of have a job with on those many useless boondoggles… I’m sure those people love the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:30 AM
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I think that’s a statement, but just in case you’re saying that as a question, the answer, imo, is yes. And it applies whether you are beta or alpha or anything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:00 AM
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It’s not that women prefer bad boys… it’s that they prefer bad boys 1 day a month. And then the other 27 days of the month they will argue about that reality on reddit. And it’s pointless to debate it, because they can’t possibly conceive of themselves as being that way, until they are… at which point they can’t see themselves as being any other way. It’s like being drunk. You will do things you wouldn’t normally do. You might not be the type of person who sings karaoke, but you will when you’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:51 PM
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I think you're viewing female attraction through the same lense and male attraction, and men and women are not the same. Women want both alpha fucks AND beta bucks. They have a dual mating strategy to reproduce with chad AND want to lock you down for your provisioning. Women like beta men just as much, but it's a different kind of attraction. The key is to make her work for your provisioning just like she has to work to get chad's sexual attention. The problem most men run into is that the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:31 PM
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Wasn't the fact that the POLICE shut it down... proving OP's point? Are we dating the same guy is in every major city in the world. And yet the ONE TIME it existed in the gender-swapped variant (in a foreign language on u.s. ran website facebook)... the government shut it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:13 PM
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Thankfully women have social media so they can get all the validation they crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:41 AM
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I think once the government stops using propaganda on children to lower the birth rate I think you’ll start to see a swing upward a few decades later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:41 AM
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I don't know how to define AI, but I know it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:30 AM
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You are so close, but you are confusing cause and effect. Men have no problem paying for dates with the 4th type of woman. The problem is that Women 1,2, and 3 actually want to be treated like 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:32 PM
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lol. I do. This is essentially just re-worded black-pill non-sense: To break down his/her entire thesis: If you're struggling in dating, just stop, give up. Men that are having casual sex don't need to change what they are doing, it's working. For the men that aren't having casual sex, them "stopping" doesn't actually change anything. A) casual sex isn't difficult for the men who get the most of it. It's not "hard" for attractive men, so they don't have to "work hard" at it. Why would an attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:16 AM
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Neither are women. They aren’t attracted to a man that wants their opinion. So if you ask a woman what you need to do to become attractive, you’ve already lost the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:18 AM
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Worse: if you’re poor, just try working harder and be more kind to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:16 AM
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she's not wrong though. That is actually 100% the CORRECT response to tell a man who is struggling with women. Quit simping for her opinions and instead find a woman who will instead mold herself to fit your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:02 AM
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You do misunderstand. The reason he is unattractive to women is because he's asking for your opinion in the first place. It's not a matter of you saying height, or you saying it's "emotional intelligence" that gets you into bed. The mere act of not knowing is enough for him to get lumped in with the beta losers, and so that's how you treat him. "just be there for her more emotionally"... You don't tell chad to do that, because chad doesn't ask your opinion. The clueless man fails because you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:00 AM
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I wasn't saying they LITERALLY forget... I'm saying they lie about it and rationalize away why those men don't count and aren't included those when asked about how many sexual partners they've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:04 AM
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You implied that they don't have hormonal fluctuations that make them more or less horny -> which is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:31 PM
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What you just said isn’t true. https://journals.physiology.org/doi/abs/10.1152/ajpendo.00418.2023 Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:10 PM
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You got a lot of really great answers already, but I think it's a lot simpler than that. Men like to use logic, and pointing out how illogical women are makes men feel superior. Women are at the mercy of their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:28 PM
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This take is a lot cleaner and easier to understand when you simply say "enjoy the decline"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:30 AM
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Women genuinely forget about most of their sex because they are controlled by their hormones. Yes, they aren’t normally like that, because 26/28 days of the week (93% of the time) they aren’t like that. But then for a few hours, while awake, on 2 days a week, so let’s just say maybe a grand total of 24 hours per month. (Roughly 3% of the time) they absolutely ARE LIKE THAT. So yea, absolutely you aren’t a serial killer 97% of the time Jeffrey Dahmer. But don’t let people forget about 3 percent o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:56 PM
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What? I’ve literally had to argue numerous times in this subreddit that 100% of my relationships started off as hookups, so if a man can’t get a hookup, he’s often locked out of romantic relationships also. I feel like I’m being gaslit or this is Mandela effect in effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:52 PM
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The fact that you believe fully and are so easily influenced by others is what makes you hard to take seriously. You're simply someone else's tool. A) Rape is not common. B) Drinking does not instantly remove your ability to think logically nor remove your ability to consent. C) The fact that you somehow believe both of these preposterous notions tells me that YOU are the person spreading feminist propaganda, not the "feminist boogymen" that you claim exist. The women have won, and men have lost…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:21 AM
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I'm too lazy to go through his comment history, but I guarantee there are plenty of anti-elon musk one-liners, even though he's the closest human being we have in reality compared to the fictional tony stark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:50 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513808001177 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26193479/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513811000250 Your anecdotal evidence aside, there are multiple studies that show that men that are wealthier and men that are more attractive give more orgasms, and I was unable to find a single study that showed chubby men give more orgasms, so I think that’s maybe just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:50 AM
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Women don’t need to overtly communicate what they want, if you want to get a woman to orgasm, you have to pay attention to what their body is responding to. I can assure you that just because you’re good at casual sex, doesn’t necessarily get you into relationships. The narrative that women automatically want relationships with every man that makes them cum is… not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:36 AM
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No, there are winners and losers in this world, and not being able to pass on your genetics is absolutely the definition of a loser if we are going to use any definition of what is a winner and what is a loser, we must go to the very basic biological definition of it. Some genetics survive, other genetics are wiped out. Some people obtain the Darwin Award for stupidity, he is going to win the lifetime achievement Darwin Award, but not for any particular act, but for a lifetime of social struggle…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:30 AM
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Agreeing with you, but there is also research that proves that women are more likely to have more orgasms with more attractive men. So it’s more a double-whammy where if she is selecting a mediocre man, she’s less likely to orgasm because she just isn’t as aroused by him on top of his lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:26 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/ soon enough that won't be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:32 PM
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Not true, I'd would be happy with 3 out of those 4. Absolutely happy with any combination of 3 of those would absolutely be relationship material for me. But 3/4 itself is asking too much from most women. I think most men are happy if they can get 2/4
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:30 PM
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It's 30% when requested by the father. Like I said, it's roughly 10% off random samplings of the population. If 10% is the rate of misattributed paternity, then the rate of cheating, definitionally, would be required to be higher. https://www.cell.com/ajhg/fulltext/S0002-9297(22)00013-1 The "naughty secret" that women want to keep secret is that a LOT of babies are being raised by men that are not the fathers. MILLIONS in the u.s. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11653245/ In fact, it's regularly…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:44 PM
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“Incredibly unlikely”, 10% of the time it’s actually the other man’s baby. That means more than 10% of women are fucking multiple men and lying to to the “fathers”. If 25% of women are cheating, but only 10% get pregnant with the other man, is that “incredibly unlikely”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:18 AM
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It’s taking your absurd statement and cranking the absurdity from an 11/10 to 12/10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:36 AM
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Sorry for multi-posting. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1752928X18300179 (typical paternity testing results, 30%) Specific study I was references Nuevo León: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/(SICI)1096-8644(199907)109:3%3C281::AID-AJPA1%3E3.0.CO;2-31096-8644(199907)109:3%3C281::AID-AJPA1%3E3.0.CO;2-3) It was the specific 1999 Mexico study that helped prove how those older blood test paternity tests which often showed rates as low as 3% were completely wrong, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:10 AM
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“Before you knock her up” Why do you keep saying these words, In this example I didn’t knock up anyone. She got herself pregnant with another man. I didn’t do jack shit other than get cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:55 AM
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Yea, “literally fucking insane” I agree with you, and yet it happens REGULARLY. When they do random testing of the population (not selecting for men that don’t trust their partners, which can triple the rate) they have found rates as high as 10% of women are psychopaths (by your definition). There was a town in Mexico where they tested the entire population for the entire year and found a rate of 10%. Some studies are flawed because they do things like blood testing and if paternity is “possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:09 AM
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Tell a man that you want to have multiple men cum inside you before you get pregnant, but only one of them will need to spend the next few months in a relationship with you, it’s literally that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:07 AM
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Woah, she altered the course of her life to manipulate a man into raising a child that isn’t his… are you suggesting she wouldn’t have manipulated a man if she didn’t think she could get away with it? That sounds positively sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:47 AM
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Correction: if she’s is a cheating whore, then it doesn’t involve the man at all, it’s not about his child at all. In fact, you could equally claim that she spent the last 9 months emotionally abusing a man to manipulating him into raising a child that shares none of his biology, that makes her the bad guy. Even if she doesn’t know beyond a shadow of a doubt, that it is or isn’t the baby, only an emotionally manipulative abuser would object to the idea of testing. Schroedingers whore, she is a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:42 AM
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I think we're long past the point where feminism was about "equal rights" and has clearly moved into the realm of a female supremacy movement. For example, in the 1960s 40% of college students were female and 60% male. In 2026 that number is the exact opposite. If feminism were about equal rights, they'd be fighting to get women out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:28 PM
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Close but not quite. We fantasize about being the man that she is willing to stay with regardless of the circumstances. Very few men are able to give the good d though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:09 AM
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Are the redpill podcasters in the room with us now? Can you point to them? He made a great point, that any anti-redpill or feminist person SHOULD be able to agree with if they being intellectually honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:08 AM
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When a woman stays with a man just because "he gives good D" He's an abuser... he's a cheater... he's a misogynist... And none of that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:35 PM
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The other commenter answer already... but, the question is ... do you have more sex with your partner if he does the dishes. The answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:06 AM
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All of the data is there, I'm not your personal AI assistant. It's all public and discussed ad-nauseum elsewhere. https://www.bestcolleges.com/news/gender-inequity-in-selective-college-admissions/ TL;DR Some liberal arts colleges try to keep the gender at 50/50 so they give a small bonus to men. Other more stem focused colleges give huge 100% bonuses to women "because we need more women engineers" : overall it results in a 62/38 enrollment of women versus men in this country. ZERO colleges think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:51 AM
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Your anecdotes are a symptom of wages being heavily tied to degrees, and universities being explicitly anti-male for the last 4 decades. Women are currently trending towards obtaining twice as many degrees as men. The current split is 62/38 I'm genuinely curious how far the pendulum will swing before we stop the blatant institutional sexism. I wish I was making this up, but it's actually easier for a man to be accepted into college by changing his gender than it is by remaining a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:53 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4273893/ Our main question of interest, however, is whether and how men’s participation in household labor is linked to sexual frequency. Our results suggest that sexual frequency is highest in households with traditionally gendered divisions of labor. As Table 3 shows, the coefficient for men’s share of core house-hold labor is negative: households in which men do more female-typed (core) tasks report lower sexual frequency. The coefficient for men’s sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:41 PM
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Ah yes, just do more chores, then she'll want to have more sex and be more aroused by her partner... Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:40 PM
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Just for curiosity, how many subscribers does a youtuber need before you'd call them anything other than "niche" for example, I know car youtubers with as many subscribers as the example that can comfortably live off that income as their full-time job, including hiring other people (employees) to take care of things like video editing or managing their sponsorships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:21 PM
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You don't have to assume, I was indeed attempting to use sarcasm in my edit, and I did actually intend for it apply to literally every woman born throughout human history. Notice how I used the exact same grammar as you used?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:36 AM
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Women are liars. It comes so naturally and easy to them. I think it's probably genetic. Have you ever encountered a woman that didn't lie? I haven't, at least none that I can think of off the top of my head. edit: (obviously not ALL women, of course, I'm OBVIOUSLY not talking about ALL women, ESPECIALLY NOT YOU)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:17 AM
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Your very first post. You say "men" not "some men" but "men" Unless English is not your first language, you are implying ALL men. Don't try to play coy or ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:16 AM
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We found that 26.5% of women, 6.6% of men, and 22.3% of transgender and gender non-binary participants reported having been choked during their most recent sexual event. Additionally, 5.7% of women, 24.8% of men, and 25.9% of transgender and non-binary participants reported that they choked their partner at their most recent event. Choking was more prevalent among sexual minority students. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34242530/ If I say whenever I look up at the sky, it’s blue If you say "whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:56 AM
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I don't have any kinks that involve putting my partner into discomfort or pain. If that's all you are finding, the common denominator is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:44 AM
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You can protest as much as you want, I don't think you are going to be able to convince any man here, because we have actual lived-experience with women. Of course it's easy for you to live in hypotheticals, because you aren't actually dating anyone at all. That's like me suggesting that I only have sex with supermodels, of course; I'm not actually having sex with a supermodel now, but theoretically I would only have sex with a supermodel if I was dating a supermodel. When all of the men of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:40 AM
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Look, just because I took me ex on cruises and we went to disneyworld and traveled around the world and went to dinner twice a week for 7 years straight, doesn't mean that I can do that anymore with you. I need to be serious about retirement now and I have to start saving up. You don't understand that my preferences have changed. I'm 35 years old now and if I don't start saving 30% of my income I won't be able to retire when I want. You know how comfortable I am at home, I OBVIOUSLY only did tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:54 PM
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I honestly don't even remember, this was years ago at this point. Generically, I would give the advice that I typically just "assume the sale" - basically treat her like someone you're already comfortable with and someone who wants to hook up with me, and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:38 AM
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I messaged her on an app, we talked for a few days, then met up, had sex, and then dated for 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:49 AM
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There is very little overlap between the men that have access to dozens or even hundreds of different women for casual sex and the men who post on reddit. I don't want to sound rude, but I feel like that is a very basic concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:05 AM
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I had a weird experience once, where a woman asked for extra for anal... and then later said that I could keep the extra money. I have never before or since had a woman turn down money. It does indeed happen, not often, but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:03 AM
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How many relationships have you been in where they weren't attracted to you? I'd have to assume more than I've been in. Every relationship I've had started with them being attracted to me. Including several that lasted multiple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:46 AM
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it's completely ok for a woman to go through 0 dates if you aren't looking for them, because you know that at any time you want, you could get 50 dates by tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:50 PM
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I’ve been in both the 80% and the 20% Now that I’m currently in the 80% I prefer being alone. Women don’t provide any value to my life, they only want to take value away. When I was in the 20% I preferred being in relationships, because I didn’t need to make that deal with the devil like OP suggested. I didn’t need to have an either:or situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:43 AM
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If one partner wants to be generous, and the other partner wants someone who is generous, then there will be no problem in the relationship. Men value youth and beauty, while women tend to not be attracted to men younger than themselves at all which balances itself out. Women want a man who is funny, meanwhile there is no such thing as a woman who is funny, so again, it balances out. You don’t need to have a trait in order to want a trait in your partner. It’s not hypocritical at all. I used phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:36 AM
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This sounds like generic incel black pill slop. I like women with a thin waist and big boobs, do I need to have a thin waist and big boobs myself? The entire argument that to want something, you must already be something or have that something is fallacious. In fact, it could be argued that the reverse is true. It is human nature to want what we don’t ourselves have. The rich doctor wants more free time, and the broke lazy stoner wants more money, but yet neither is willing to change their life …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:19 AM
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Disagree, even scenario one is a bad situation. It means she didn’t like doing it, but was willing to do it for a guy that she liked more. For example: I don’t like to go to work. But if you pay me enough money, I will go to work. So the question becomes, why was she willing to do something she didn’t like for that other guy. What is he providing that the 2nd guy is not. This is a purely hypothetical argument for me; because I’ve literally never encountered this in my own life, I am “that guy” I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:57 AM
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Wrong, it's not self-inflicted. It's inflicted upon men by women. The top post in ./r/ doordash right now is a dasher telling a woman "sorry but you look amazing". in a TEXT MESSAGE via the app - so he doesn't even know her actual real number. Of course hundreds of comments telling her to report him so that he loses his job, which she says she did. Lonely male: compliments woman: loses his job: USA 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:34 PM
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yea, you can look up survey studies that consistently prove that women lie about the number of sex partners... because the math doesn't math. https://news.osu.edu/men-women-lie-about-sex-to-match-gender-expectations/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8982912/ etc etc, I mean you could literally just google "women lie study"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:13 AM
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Umm, nope, flatly disagree with your entire premise. I'm always shocked when women DO select for me. Red pill knowledge works, but it's always shocking every single time. It didn't come naturally to me, and still doesn't 15 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:08 PM
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No, pick me is an insult women use against other women they feel jealous over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:02 AM
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So your belief of what is the worst emotion is "fact" and mine is 'opinion" I'll finish your sentence for you, it's because I'm a man and women are just smarter about emotions right? Your blatant sexism is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:51 AM
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very "convenient" that the largest difference between men or women just "coincidentally" happens to be what is "obviously unhealthy" Personally, I think the emotion of jealousy is the worst and most unhealthy emotion, it's unfortunate that women are constantly encouraged to engage in it and there are billions of dollars and vast corporations engaged in encouraging that super duper unhealthy feeling. One might even say, I'm angry about it. But only in a healthy way, not in a feminine-disapproved …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:06 AM
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I grew up in the tits or gtfo era. the reasoning behind tits or gtfo is as relevant in 1996 as it is in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:55 PM
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I wasn't going to followup, but you downvoted me, so you deserve another response: ALSO your language itself is extremely problematic, Men are only allowed to express their emotions if they are feminine-approved emotions. If you're sad or anxious or scared, that's "allowed" but anger is not a "healthy emotion" male emotions are inherently viewed as "unhealthy" and emotions that women feel more often are "healthy" emotions. So your entire language and mindset is trying to turn men into women, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:21 PM
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Yea, that’s my exact position. Being a man is seen as being a problem. It’s messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:00 AM
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It’s because she thinks men need to become more like women and be proud and supported for being more feminine. It’s viewing men through the lens that men are the same as women, but worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:38 AM
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considering something like 33% of women 18-24 are willing to publicly state that they "hate men" ... they might know and simply not even care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:03 PM
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As someone who didn't kiss a girl until 25, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:02 PM
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when women are attracted to you, they make it easy, you didn't even have to ask her out. That's what ugly men don't and won't ever understand. (unless they are black-pilled). If you can make yourself attractive, do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:33 PM
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I'll just post the top comment from that thread. Dude, this is weird. Stop asking your coworkers out. It creates a reputation. Hello, Human Resources? meme.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:32 PM
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"I'm just an average guy, you know, 6'3" and on a athletic scholarship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:41 PM
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My point is - what many women think is interesting, is not to a man. What many women think is attractive, is not attractive to a man. What many women think of as an advantage in dating (this one is targeting towards you specifically), is actually a disadvantage. As you say, you don't like a man more because he enjoys video games, similarly, men don't care at all about your makeup collection. The man's hobbies don't make him more attractive to you, and your hobbies don't make you more attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:42 AM
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All those things you listed are interesting cool things. And zero of them make me want to date you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:12 PM
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Your "afterthought" is the only thing that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:10 PM
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No... you don't understand. The bartender/nurse "career woman" with "maturity" and "hobbies" is the person I'm making fun of and not interested in. The "modern woman" which is probably 80% of millennials. You are the type of woman that I'm not interested in. I was making a series of broad generalizations about the type of woman that you said was "aspirational" and I broke down why each of those things that you say that are important, are not important. The "woman with herpes, no social life, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:43 AM
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You have it totally backwards. Those are the women that "I" am attracted to. Newsflash for you, but men and women are not the same. You wanted to date a Lawyer and a Doctor. I don't, and neither do most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:22 AM
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Her hobbies: buying purses and caking on makeup. Her social skills: scrolling tiktok 4 hours a night Her life experience: herpes outbreaks from too many Chads Her maturity: a soul-sucking 9-5 that makes her miserable to deal with. I made 240k last year, why the fuck would I want to date a nurse OR bartender... I wouldn't... I'd honestly rather date an unemployed woman that lived with her parents. Honestly. Nurse and bartender are literally 2 of the worst possible careers that a woman can have. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:46 AM
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well let's make sure we define what feminism is... because "they" have 2 very different definitions between what feminism for you and feminism for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:29 PM
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I have a counter-proposal for you: We just make it so that it's hard or almost impossible for you to work at all. So you must live off a man's income to survive. Funny how you can "demand" anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:26 PM
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This society gave birth to you, and because you are the only one capable of it, unfortunately for you, it MUST become your duty to do it. Unfortunately for society, trying to shame women who have no shame, and trying to force a duty on a woman who has never had responsibility in her entire life, does not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:25 PM
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Well, the marriage thing is just pure statistical data. 50% of first marriages in the u.s. end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:32 AM
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Are you joking? Girls are AWFUL to boys (and each other) in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:23 AM
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I fully acknowledge the hypothetical possibility of your thought experiment. That said, what is the advantage of believing in the existence of a good woman? How does that benefit my life. It doesn’t. It’s like believing in god or any other higher power. Just because Jesus theoretically might save my soul, doesn’t mean I should donate 50% of my income to church on the off-chance. Actually I like that analogy, churches only demand 10% of your income, a divorce will claim 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:22 AM
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absolutely, any man that is dumb enough to believe: for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and to obey, till death us do part is a fool that deserves to be ripped apart by the court system because of how stupid he is. Also, any man that would not get a paternity test deserves to be called a cuck while he raises another man's child. Also any man that believes bullshit like: he's just a friend or nothing happened absolutely deserves to be cheated …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:37 PM
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if a man is able to say a lie and that causes you to sleep with him, that's called being gullible. Hey, I'll give you a million dollars, all you have to do is give me a blowjob... "ok"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:56 PM
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Nah, it's that the men you are attracted to and interested in casual sex with never respected you in the first place. But you were too blind/horny/dumb/naive to recognize that. You weren't "tricked" into doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:59 PM
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Sorry, the guy said debunked, and literally that’s all you need to do to prove an arguement in 2026. You can’t argue with his flawless logic of “debunked” like how the 6 foot rule was “debunked” that “safe and effective” was debunked and that “virus can’t pass through a cloth mask” was debunked. And “trust the science” was debunked. But only if the science is given to me by experts who already agree with my political system. Surely their gender studies professor is the expert and knows more abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:42 AM
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biology changes slower than culture. 20,000 years ago we didn't have studio apartments that needed laundry done. Or sheets of paper to "split the chores equitably" Or... money. This entire posts reeks of of oddly-specific personal problems being characterized as general complaints about male-female relationship dynamics. Why can't women confront their partner directly when they are upset, and instead try to gather social support via reddit to complain about what is upsetting them. They should "j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:11 PM
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ok, so you're saying that I'm right, he doesn't have a girlfriend any longer, and that it was a short-lived aberration from normality? Needless to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:19 AM
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they just do it naturally, it's biologically ingrained into our genetics, that's why humans have hidden ovulation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:16 AM
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"make friends first" means that the betas stay sexless losers who nevertheless provide resources to women. It's literally just asking men to friendzone themselves first. Self-selecting themselves to be betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:15 AM
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I'd argue that this Hollywood romanticized version of courtship never actually existed at all. I've been in several long relationships, and many short-term hookups, and they all started off romantic - never once has a platonic relationship ever become romantic later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:12 AM
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was your mother like this? You ARE being snarky and attempting to social shame me... but that's ok, I understand why you do that - it's because you're a woman - and that's what women do when they attack people. just cuz this always yields fun answers in this sub: where do lesbians fit into that equation? i’ll skip your mother on this one lol what percent of the 4 billion women on the planet would you say are like this? what is your strongest source for both claims? I would say roughly 90% of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:40 PM
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^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:33 PM
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Im a little tired, so it might have been a bit rambly, TL;DR: yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:13 AM
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I think I understand women’s perspective better than most men. When I say things like “women lie on surveys”, women deceive men constantly, or women mold themselves to fit the expectations on them effortlessly, I want you to understand that these are not value judgements, but just objective observations. Women judge men because they need to know how to manipulate that man. Women need to lie to men just to survive, and I don’t think most men understand that. I don’t think most men understand what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:41 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:58 AM
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You and a lot of other people who hate humanity, a lot of people have been brainwashed since they were toddlers to think that, it’s really hard to overcome the biological urges, that’s why the brainwashing is so thorough and so pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:06 AM
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All of it. Mostly women in the workplace. They didn’t get rid of sexism, they just changed who was in charge of the sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:42 AM
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Coherence was never a part of their plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:29 PM
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I mean, I do see a different way forward, but it means abandoning the feminism experiment. Surely you must concede that it's a possibility that is a possibility for the future. I think what you "mean" to say is that "I don't see a way forward that also promotes my agenda" Because CLEARLY there are alternatives to "more feminism"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:27 PM
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Wife must always obey husband 13% -> 33% let's see it get to about 99% then maybe I'll admit the pendulum has swung too far towards conservativism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:23 PM
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I guess you’ll have to explain, because the way I understand Madonna/whore it to mean, is they act like whores for some men (random nudes, salacious texts, Don/sub roles), and then act like they are weak innocent virgins in need of protection around other men. Which … yea… is basically just AF/BB with more steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:53 AM
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25, 25%, 50% imo. The amount of women that are whores in their 20s and then want to settle down is by far the biggest percent of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:23 AM
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Of course soft sweet gentle “good girls” are great, and I’ve even had a relationship with a few over the decades. The problem is, most of them don’t want a relationship with me, or sometimes they just don’t want a relationship in general. Promiscuous women at least want me for sex. “Good girls” don’t want me for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:21 AM
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I haven’t even asked a single woman in the past 15 years, because my own number is triple digits, and if I can have that much sex as an “average man” (average as how women would define it) and I absolutely know how they treat attractive men. Because I’ve been one of those too when I was lifting regularly and taking prohormones before they were banned. As long as she is treating me like she does “chad” then it doesn’t matter anyway; because women only love temporarily and if it’s beneficial to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:22 PM
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Yea, I'm good. Why are you trying to weaponize mental health against me in such backhanded way? Is it not socially acceptable to call someone fucking crazy in 2026? Your false concern-trolling is proof of how morally bankrupt you are. You insult through a thin veneer of moral righteousness and it's disgusting. You troll by saying "not everyone is american" but you yourself talk about politics in the United States. Would you feel better if I throw up a picture of Poilievre for you to spit your an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:05 AM
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We are truly living in 1984. It wasn't supposed to be an instruction manual. Of course, redpill is just one of the thoughtcrimes. If you start to have one thoughtcrime, soon enough you'll start having other thought crimes. Soon enough you might be using parenthesis in your comments. Or talking about FBI crime statistics, we wouldn't want that now. Go back to watching the superbowl and consume product. Hey did you see what happened at the olympics, brought to you by Lilly (they care about your he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:51 AM
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https://www.hims.com/blog/how-many-dates-before-sex 35% of people CURRENTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS had sex before a first date or after just 1 date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:10 AM
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Yep, it’s absolutely easy to wait with one woman, if you’re dating/fucking 4 others at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:06 AM
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And if you applied that same standard to all men, then us men would have no problem with it. The problem is that no woman makes all men wait. When your body count is 20+ and you’ve had a few one night stands, it sucks to feel like a second class citizen. The best analogy I’ve heard “how would you feel if your boyfriend/future husband you didn’t believe in an engagement ring, because the last time he bought a girl an engagement ring for his ex she left him and just kept it and he feels like he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:03 AM
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How many videos would you like? There are literally dozens of them: here is literally 5 seconds of looking; the first link when I looked for “ice protestors demand ID” https://youtube.com/shorts/IwY2Htej6gM?si=YHFqCYXv53FRFMww
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:54 AM
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Meet the new aristocrats, same as the old aristocrats, except this time they are called Joseph and Vlad instead of Peter and Catherine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:35 AM
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The irony of the Minnesota ice protestors stopping people driving, forcing them to prove their identity, and only allowing certain people into their neighborhoods and harassing those they didn’t want, was not lost on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:29 AM
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Except that at least for a small percentage of men, and I'll include myself in this. Were actually able to improve their life. I had never kissed a girl, let alone had sex until I was 25. Maybe you think that puts me into the AFC category, because I was able to improve beyond that, but believe me, I "felt" like an incel when you have never even held hands with a girl or anything, it's soul-crushingly lonely. Back then, they called it "seduction" or "game" or whatever, but all of that got incorpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:13 PM
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noticing? straight to jail. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:06 AM
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The variability that men experience in a lifetime, is the same variability that women experience literally every single month. So OP, tell us, how does it feel to have hormones that are incompatible with family life or long-term monogamy. How does it feel to have evolution push you towards short term hookups when you’re ovulating and then wanting a stable man with a good career 26 days of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:42 PM
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What’s absolutely crazy to me is that you found a video of a 19 year old man saying he didn’t find women older than 22 attractive as your “proof”. But yet you would likely say “duh of course old men are creepy and of course her pre frontal cortex isn’t even formed yet” if you saw a 19 year old girl saying she doesn’t want to date a man older than 22. That’s literally just sexism. You are a misandrist / hypocrite. It’s perfectly valid for a 19 year old man to say he doesn’t want to date older tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:35 PM
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They basically still had to get permission from the president before they were allowed to, he could have easily crushed them the same way he crushed the train strike and Reagan crushed the air traffic controller union (permanently) And yes, they got a 62% pay raise over 6 years. If air traffic controllers were GIVEN PERMISSION to strike we’d also get something like a 60% pay raise over the next 6 years, because the economic impact would be just as great if not greater than the ports shutting dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:07 PM
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That’s actually how it is here too, in the states, except in addition, our labor unions ALSO have little to no power to make changes for the better. It’s just a social club that you have to pay to get into basically. Like any other country club / private golf course membership / private shooting range etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:58 PM
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We can't vote for a million trumps? That's where you're wrong kiddo.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:00 AM
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I think simps have emboldened women just as much, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:58 AM
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The ironic part is they KNOW that the men they are attracted to don't give a shit about feminism, or therapy, or misogyny, and yet they keep offering that same advice. Just the act of asking for advice is like kryptonite for attraction from a woman, it instantly puts you into "child" category in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:58 AM
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I do. edit: to clarify, I honestly think women have already wizened up to the fact that liberal women are being discriminated against on places like Tinder and now they aren't as open about talking about politics or even filling in those boxes on their profile. Typically if they don't answer, that means they are liberal, and I need to suss out the information. 5 years ago it was common for women not to talk about being single mothers, now they also hide their political affiliations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:36 PM
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I like, no... I LOVE women. But I absolutely hate the politics of the majority of women. A liberal woman to me is like a short man is to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:31 PM
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It's about pathologizing normal human sexuality. If they can convince you that you have a disease, then they are able to sell you on the cure, be it steroidal creams, or hormonal injections (viagra for women) etc... Women in particular are susceptible to marketing and emotional manipulation. They are doing it to make a profit off you. It has nothing to do with "patriarchy" and everything to do with feminist controlled corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:26 PM
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Oh, they simp over a tall dark attractive millionaire, so much so they will ignore red flags like animal abuse? Yea... shocking (not as shocked as his dog). It has nothing to do with "late stage capitalism" women have been doing this (with evidence) for at least the past 500 years, and because biology doesn't change, likely the last 50,000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:39 PM
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Typically that means that their hormones shifted. It wasn’t anything you did. If you were too nice to her and she just wanted to be fucked, because she was ovulating, you failed. If you push too fast and she actually wanted to take things slow because she was on her period, you also failed. You’ll unfortunately never get another chance with that fickle woman but luckily there are 4 billion other women to find. The really crazy thing is with enough experience you can identify when women are DTF b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:48 AM
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No, what I mean to say, by way of my terrible analogy, is that OP shouldn't be meddling in the affairs of this hypothetic (or real) woman who has this issue. She's the one that is messed up in the head, and he should be spending his time worried about 100 other things that are far more important than a toddler that won't eat healthy foods, because the toddler will eventually eat when they are hungry and no amount of social shaming will make them think that a piece of broccoli is a chicken nugget…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:19 AM
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It's kind of like teaching a toddler not to be a picky eater. As soon as they get hungry enough they will eat. Chicken Nuggets will always be preferred over brussel sprouts, but we need both to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:27 PM
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I agree with you OP. Most women need 4-10 hour of interaction with to feel your "vibes" before they will sleep with you. I don't think that is enough time to get to know anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:38 AM
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Excellent analysis into the mind of a woman (introspection). You put a lot of effort into this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:33 AM
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They just want a "natural" killer who is that way because of high levels of testosterone. They don't want someone who uses their intellect to "rationalize" their way into their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:32 AM
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You got divorced because you chose to play video games/smoke weed/join a red pill forums instead of taking care of your toddler you weirdo. Ummm, it sounds like you have some personal issues. This is not common and sounds extremely specific just to your particular situation. Women divorce men because they can. They are lied to and told that their lives will be better afterward. They only view men as resources to be extracted, not as people, so the best way to extract the most resources is to div…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:45 AM
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No Yes No A woman being submissive is not a negative thing. It's a good thing. Men want a submissive woman. The negative thing with modern society is that women are being taught that being submissive is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:44 PM
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yea, women continue to like men who don't "do the bare minimum" so if it works, why do more, it doesn't change the outcome of whether a woman likes you or not. There is only downside, in that you might accidentally waste your resources on a woman that doesn't like you. Because the woman that does like you, will like you even without doing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:40 PM
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This is the key. The amount of effort I put into a relationship has everything to do with how much I like her, not how much she likes me. I've had a few women that have liked me and given me things even though I had zero interest/attraction at all with them. I will not reciprocate being nice to her just because she gives me stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:35 PM
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think a lot of confusion in dating comes from people thinking what they want is what the opposite sex wants. What are some examples of this that you can think of? Your question literally asks the exact opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:38 AM
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No no; you don’t understand; when men are animals, it’s empowering and helpful metaphor; when women are animals it’s harmful misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:10 AM
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Part of that is the reason that American men tend to talk about American women as if they aren’t willing to accept any kind of restrictions on their behaviors at all, zero accountability and maximum personal freedom. It’s a holistic problem. For many of us, we encounter women on the regular who refuse to accept anything other than zero responsibility for their behaviors, even if it begins to negatively affect other people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:07 AM
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It's insane to me that women will fight tooth and nail against 20 week bans here in the states when if they went to a "progressive" country like germany (or I guess australia too) they'd be limited to just 12 weeks. https://www.thelantern.com/2022/06/student-groups-react-to-roe-v-wade-being-overturned/ (roe versus wade being overturned finally allowed for a 20 week ban in Ohio ending 3rd trimester abortions) and some people were PISSED locally https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98W5HbSi7Xg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:00 AM
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I'd go one step further and say that we have, as a society, (most laws in most countries) determined that the rights of the child supersede those of the parent once the baby is viable to live outside of the mother's womb, which is why MOST countries outside of the barbaric united states ban abortions after 20 weeks or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:04 PM
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Eventually you will get beaten up, raped, and robbed. Not necessarily in that order. The more you do it, the higher the odds become until eventually n = 1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:41 AM
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Exactly... Women already do chase men. They aren't chasing "you" but they do chase other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:03 PM
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Oh Jesus, way to prove his point. he said “consistently” which you interpreted to every woman ever. You either are pretending to not know the meaning of the word consistent or you’re just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:04 AM
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wow I must have really pissed of their online marketing team.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:32 PM
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I reject your argument. If anything I'd argue that someone looking for resources is more likely to want those resources for years to leech off the other party. A short term relationship gets them very little resources. The longer the relationship goes, the more likely they are to walk away with cash and prizes. Who said anything about "committed" they aren't "committed" to the relationship at all, they are committed to getting the most out of you as possible, which they view as a sacrifice they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:19 AM
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It's not women. It's literally just one singular monopolistic company that claims to be a dating company, but has financial incentive to keep people single. Online dating / dating apps were better 10 years ago. And women (biologically) haven't changed in 10 years. When OKcupid and PoF and Tinder, and Meetme and even later when Hinge first came out, they were actually competing for users and trying to do their best to be successful. One company has owned ALL of those websites since 2020. That is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:11 AM
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I got a message on Tinder about a month ago... her first message was "dtf" we had a good time. I just wish there was more than just a one-time thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:19 PM
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Especially the goes out of her way to spend time with you in private... Like, I don't think any man, red, blue, or black pill would kick a woman out of his house/apartment if she came over to cuddle and she was actually doing that, even if she was verbally strong about not wanting the cuddle to turn into sex (hint: it always does), actions speak louder than words. Of course, context matters, if you've been non-stop talking for like 10+ hours, and you come over to "cuddle" and it's like your 4th …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:30 PM
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I would use the term “aroused” because attraction and arousal are two different things. I personally am pretty good at getting one night stands and/or arousing women, much more so than I am able to get them into a relationship. I just tend to have a lot of situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:53 PM
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Yea, the same thing that women did when they were younger and not sexual, pay you a lot of attention, make you gifts, talk to you constantly. Try and do favors for you, make your life easier, it’s really simple, a woman can ask me for a favor if she is fucking me. If she isn’t, then I’m not her boyfriend and she needs to get one if she wants boyfriend treatment. But I’m 43, if I meet a woman that doesn’t want to have sex, maybe if she told me she was like 26 and a virgin, but she wouldn’t be att…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:50 PM
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It's not that we don't acknowledge that the difference exists. The problem is that, if she doesn't have a strong desire for you, then she won't desire you even moreso a few years down the road when attraction starts to wane in every relationship. Don't waste your resources on a woman that doesn't desire you. That's why men give advice the way we do. Because (again, a difference in the genders) a woman will absolutely use you for your resources even if she has no desire for you romantically. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:39 PM
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You're just wrong about history. Boomer women weren't any better than modern women. The divorce rate amongst boomer couples was something like 60%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:23 PM
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lol, there is no such thing as a loving woman that isn't jaded. Women have always been jaded. Women have always been the realistic sex, men have always been the idealistic dreamers and romantics - despite decades of propaganda to the reverse. Go read a novel like Pride and Prejudice. You think they talk about love and hope and dreams with each other? Nope, they swoon over the man with the biggest salary. They fall in love with narcissistic liars that easily "manipulate them" because of good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:44 PM
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Human biology hasn't changed very much in 500,000 years. What worked 30 years ago works today. The real problem you are noticing is you're trying to get advice from people who weren't very successful at dating. For example, maybe they married their highschool boyfriend, so they only ever dated one person. If you're trying to get a bunch of casual hook-ups online, you need to find someone that was using craigslist 30 years ago (like myself) rather than someone that wasn't dating at all 30 years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:38 PM
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Yes, celibate means you abstain from sex. Voluntarily. Incel means you abstain from sex. Involuntarily. Trying to redefine words arbitrarily is dumb. Incel is not the same thing as misogyny. It’s basic, elementary school logic. Some incels might be misogynistic. But not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists. You can’t just make up definitions, words have meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:02 AM
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The mental gymnastics are exhausting to deal with, that’s true. I’m one of those old geezers that believe that words have meanings and I can’t just say “blue means red la la la”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:57 AM
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Do you understand what “celibate” means? Or are you intentionally being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:28 AM
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Once a month is perfectly accurate description of when a woman’s ovulation hormones tells her to breed with alpha men. 27 days out of the month she wants a beta simp friendzoned man around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:23 AM
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Yes, it also works for long-term relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:28 PM
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What happened is that the reddit admins quarantined the subreddit and the original founders/moderators of the red pill took their game and left because they wanted to make money off their work. TRP was a carefully curated community that took a lot of effort to keep out the incels and the blue pills from distracting with bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:10 AM
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I was being generous. I think it's fair to say "about half" would be a fair enough compromise. edit: and also I think BMI is a terrible metric to measure attractiveness. But 40% bodyfat is roughly where most women would be considered obese. (above 30bmi for a woman is roughly above 35% bodyfat) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5K9QhkPww44
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:36 AM
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40% https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db508.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:22 AM
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I guess that means if you want to meet women interested in dominating you, you need to loudly and obviously and publicly state your preferences for being dominated to every woman you encounter. Well or you can take on the persona of a Reddit moderator perhaps, but I prefer the more comedic aspect of being more subtle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:39 AM
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Women are like water, they flow into whatever container they are presented. They are generally very good at presenting themselves exactly as what the men would want them to be. The women in an Islamic world happily enforce the rules of their religion on those around them. The women in the west do likewise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:17 AM
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I thought it was clear that my comment was sarcasm and intended humorously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:04 AM
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If it’s an actor and his life revolves around interviews, and red carpets, and LA Parties… and oh yea. Actually working on films, yes, it does take steroids to achieve that look because they don’t have 40 hours a week to dedicate to fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 AM
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Of course the first 2 are, especially the second guy, you don’t just hit 40 years old and suddenly develop muscles like that after a lifetime without, it’s not magic, it’s science.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:41 AM
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They aren’t lying. 25 days out of the month that isn’t what they like. 3 days out of the month that is what they like. 90% of the time they don’t want a man who is too muscular. Only when they want to have sex, do they want a muscular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:39 AM
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I don't know, arguing that the government is actively working against the people to the benefit of the elite seems like a rather "progressive" thought to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:04 AM
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Well, I wouldn't say it's benefitted capitalism. Capitalism just "is" it's neither good nor bad, it's simply a system. In a truly capitalist free market society you'd see market forces push back eventually. Instead the government manipulation of the market has only helped enrich businesses and the elite at the detriment of the majority. It's benefitted giant corporations and a few wealthy elites who live off the work of the lower class. Our government (at the behest of the elites who want lower …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:58 PM
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I'll rephrase. Women are better at collecting welfare, men are better at earning money at a job. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:52 PM
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Ok, again, not sure what point that you're trying to make. According to google 35% of single mothers live with an unmarried partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:06 PM
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Ok, so 40% of single fathers have a girlfriend in the house? What "evil narrative" of redpill does that dispell? That women are attracted to men that are pre-selected by other women? Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:37 PM
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You really want to go down that argument though? So not only are single mothers a burden on society because they are twice as likely as men and 4 times as likely as couples to raise criminals. But Single mothers are also more likely to require taxpayer funded assistance to live because they suck at surviving, so they are a drain on our nation and our tax funds. That's not the "win" you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:01 PM
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I prefer the 3rd option: we continue down the road of sub-replacement procreation and belief that children are evil and only evil people procreate, so that eventually civilization dies and we go through another dark ages, and hopefully the next civilization that arises won't be so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:55 PM
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Here's the problem, your math is bad. Have you ever heard of "per capita" 41% of of inmates in the prison are from single mother households. But only 21% of children live in single mother households. 35% of inmates come from two parents households. But 71% of children live in 2 parent households. 5% of inmates grew up with only a father. 5% of children in the united states live with their father. So the moral of the story is: 2 parents good. 1 parent bad Single father is 200% worse than 2 parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:47 PM
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That's why I'm a firm believer in "your body, my choice" let's bring back ownership of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:42 PM
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Because if you are willing to spend time with me, you might be interested in having a relationship with me, instead of making everything transactional, like a prostitute. If I wanted to pay for a woman, I would just skip the game and just pay for one. Edit: but to answer the second part of the question, I would want to go on a date with you if I want to spend more time with you, I’m willing to do things that you enjoy, even if I don’t enjoy them much, just to spend more time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:03 AM
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I don’t really care if she was a slut in the past so long as she is a slut for me currently and ONLY a slut for me currently. Now, that doesn’t mean that I would marry a woman with a history, but that’s the absolute minimum for a relationship. I honestly don’t even understand man that accept less than that. (Dead bedroom and not married, or a woman that is sleeping with other guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:16 AM
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To steal an 11 year old reddit comment The brain is in a constant state of change from the time it first starts developing until the time you die. Brain size does not change much in the 20's unless there is some sort of traumatic injury, or surgery, so there's no empirical, non-subjective way that you can say that a female's brain is "fully developed" any more than you can say that a male's brain is. The frontal lobe is not the only portion of the brain associated with planning, reward, motivati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:43 PM
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Without going too deep into it, there is a segment of the population that would like to see roughly 80% of the humans on the planet eliminated, mostly because they’ve been brainwashed since childhood that we have overpopulated the planet. The more extremist sects believe humans should be eliminated as fast as possible, the more moderate sects of this anti-human religion believe that humans should slowly be eradicated, but they all fundamentally believe that there are too many humans and that les…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:44 AM
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I’m absolutely fatigued with the narrative that anyone under the age of 25 is just a poor naive child that needs to be protected from themselves. It’s literally just anti-human propaganda designed to get our species to go extinct that much faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:16 AM
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No no “everyone else is fake but I’m a real girl” tee hee
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:12 AM
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We are already past that point now, and it isn’t causing a revolution. Your argument is flawed because it assumes things can’t get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:20 AM
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Innocent until proven guilty. Would have been nice if she believed in the same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:58 AM
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What do you think “Indepedant video reltated to the incident” means? Independent meaning they didn’t need to get a warrant for her phone or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:33 AM
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The official police statement does say they have a source of independent video, it’s easy enough to assume that would mean a ring camera. And not something like a street cam or intersection camera. And video from her wouldn’t be called “independent video” either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:32 AM
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Independent video related to the incident has been collected and reviewed by the police department That's the direct quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:30 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/OswegoPD/photos/on-10132025-an-incident-was-reported-to-the-oswego-police-department-regarding-a/1272795918219652/ Independent video related to the incident has been collected and reviewed by the police department oops, didn't realize I was replying to you a second time. See my other comment for a more thorough review of where the information that it was ring probably came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:29 PM
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https://nypost.com/2025/11/17/us-news/doordash-driver-arrested-over-sharing-naked-vid-of-customer/ Here is a news article discussing a police statement. I don't have facebook, but here is a tiktok showing an image of a facebook post and an official statement from the police department saying they "have collected and reviewed independant video" https://www.tiktok.com/@giancrstesq/video/7573823983854849311 Here is TMZ reporting that "police say" ring footage shows: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/x…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:14 PM
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the charging documents on the case that I saw showed the statement that ring footage showed her opening the door. I'll try to find it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:56 PM
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Because you said I watched too much Maury. You're insinuating that I'm crazy for thinking that men care about paternity. edit: I'm not SAYING you want to raise another man's child, I don't have to say it, you know... because of the implication. The children of paternity fraud and the women that do it are perfectly safe! But the IMPLICATION is why women have to lie about it or make laws such as the one in france that make it illegal to do paternity fraud... you know, because of the implication. h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:44 PM
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Are you saying that men (in significant numbers) WANT to raise another man’s child believing it was his? That’s a very crazy assertion coming from a man regardless of blue or red pill beliefs. I actually knew a man who killed himself after his wife left him AND he found out his kid wasn’t actually his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:42 PM
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Yea and humans have existed for a million years, and 1,000,000 > 2,000. Women are shamed for their sexuality because men want to raise their own children while women don’t want men to know who k the father of the babies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:45 PM
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I don’t think it’s cultural at all. The fact that it is universal to all cultures and goes back for thousands of years of recorded human history; definitely points to it being biological in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:23 PM
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Truth is stranger than fiction I guess? Not sure what you don’t find believable but I’ll answer any question you have that makes you doubt what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:19 PM
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I thought I would want a wild woman that would provide excitement to my boring life. Found out quickly that alcoholism and violent mood swings weren’t so much fun. I actively seek out “boring” women for relationships now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:13 PM
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Just for curiosity, I just went to /selfie on reddit just now (a subreddit I have never once before visited) and was shocked to discover that only 2/3rds of the photos on the front page had the camera pointed at the collarbone or lower. I honestly thought the percentage would have actually been higher. Truly women have the moral high ground on this issue. /s At least a few woman were shameless and the center of the image was literally pointed directly at her boobs. The majority point the camera …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:44 PM
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I’ll stop looking at boobs when you stop pointing your camera DIRECTLY at them when you take a selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:37 PM
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A tall man sleeps with a bunch of women: “women like tall, good looking men. A confident man sleeps with a bunch of women: “women like confident men, acquire as much power as possible” A charismatic man sleeps with a bunch of women: “women like a man with a sense of humor” An assertive man sleeps with a bunch of women: “women need a man with confidence”. A competent man sleeps with a bunch of women: “women value resources, acquire as many as possible” A wise man sleeps with a bunch of women: “wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:03 PM
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Look, a good way to improve the conversation would be to acknowledge that you have slept with men that you don’t even know if they were misogynistic or not, because it literally never even occurred to you to ask. It’s the opposite side to the same coin as men who say “women won’t sleep with me because I only have a 4 inch penis” When in reality, no woman (out of hundreds) has ever known my penis size BEFORE agreeing to have sex with me. It literally doesn’t matter at all. Same as my views about …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:59 PM
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Well if we acknowledged that women lie regularly and often, we would have to acknowledge things like a woman’s word is not worth as much as a man’s. Aka Islam is right about women, and that tends to make a lot of women uncomfortable because women want to have the maximum amount of power with the last amount of accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:54 PM
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They can’t do it. They are biologically programmed in their dna to lie about it. It’s like trying to get you to breathe oxygen from your gills… oh, you lack the capability of breath underwater? “Stop denying that you have that capability!” Lying to men about sec is as biologically ingrained as it is for men to look at cleavage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:51 PM
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That’s because men weren’t evolved to have sex with 2 different men and gain both the best genetics and the best possible resources for our children possible. Human women absolutely do benefit from being one of the minority of animals that hide when they are in estrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:48 PM
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It’s actually really amazing that you acknowledge this, I always get downvoted to oblivion for pointing out to women that yes. Absolutely, you are fine upstanding moral people 27 days a month and men are super dangerous to be around and you’d never meet up with one in person. But then for those 2 days right when you’re ovulating, you’re absolutely right swiping on me on tinder and I’m coming over at 2am with barely any conversation required. And my sexual success as a man, at least a lot of it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:43 PM
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The incel comes about because he puts too much faith in what women say, a certain “internalized matriarchy” so to speak, that has infected their brains (they think their genetics holds them back because their nose is like 2mm off or they will never have sex because their dick is only 5 inches) that’s a hugely feminine way to think about themselves. Women obsess over chin jobs and buccal fat and boob size. Incels are just parroting the same thought process that consumes women. Of course it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:05 AM
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This (the OP) is basic feminist trash that pre supposes that men and women are the same and when viewed through the lens of what makes a good woman, men just look like inferior women. Most good men are not born, they are made. Women will never understand or accept that. Because what women are valued for has nothing to do with their values or hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:01 AM
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You’re too weak. The argument that men aren’t dangerous is the incorrect one. Anyone that argues otherwise is arguing from a position of emotions and has completely thrown out objective truth and logic. Edit: that’s not the argument you made, actually, so to answer your actual position, you have too many rights because men have given you too many rights. It’s not either/or it’s AND
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:08 PM
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Because of the way it works (and by this I mean math) in a hookup culture area, such as a college town, more women will be having casual sex and less men will be having casual sex, because all women pick the same few men for casual sex. So the total amount of sex partners will be higher but it will not be evenly distributed. For example, I’m somewhere north of 600, but I imagine a lot of the women I’ve had sex with were single digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:05 AM
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Please, women don't want children anymore. So that argument falls apart quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:05 AM
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Literally nothing that the OP complains about matters of you satisfy those 2 requirements. I have completely ignored literally all 4 of her bullet points and have had several casual sex hookups in the past year, which puts me leagues above the average man. Those things don’t matter, because women don’t select for those 4 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:03 AM
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Ah yes, the classic, treat women like a pet, train her like a dog and she’ll be loyal to you like a dog. How progressive of you. All women are like that, all women are like that assless chap girl, and they will ALL lie about that past. There is no such thing as a “good girl” anymore. They don’t exist. You can’t punish the behavior because they all do it. The only winning move is to boycott all women, which just exacerbates the current situation where a few men (such as myself) who don’t care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:42 AM
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I agree, you’ve opened my eyes on this issue and changed my mind. If a woman wants to leave a relationship, you should hit her over the head, throw her in a cage and force her to remain yours forever. Good idea bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:29 AM
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That’s exactly right. As soon as she finds a different option, she will take it. Red pill is supposed to be about truth. If she has a stable provider at home, she will long for an exciting fling with Jose the pool cleaner. If she has Chad as a boyfriend she’ll long for Billy the beta to tell her how much she is loved every day. You can be tom fucking Brady and your wife will still not be happy with you as you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:07 AM
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this post is too good for reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:08 PM
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horseshoe theory. The guy went so far left as to go back right again. (or maybe vice-versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:14 PM
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the age of the russian mail-order bride was 50 years ago. Slavic women are indistinguishable from the swine in western europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:13 PM
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the women don't change, but the price does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:12 PM
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you're so far lost, women are NOT "contextual" their desire to procreate is driven by the same biology/evolution/neuroscience that applies to men. And you don't need to eliminate sexual desire, women certainly don't eliminate theirs. Stop caring what women "call you" did your parents never teach you 'sticks and stones may break your bones but names will never hurt you'?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:45 AM
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If you can’t take out your septum piercing at least long enough to appear to be sane for a few months, then it’s a glaring red flag for men to stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:23 PM
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Actually that’s not true. Most women no longer have children. 80% of women under 30 have no child at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:20 PM
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Just because a man will never experience the amount of attention that a woman in her 20s will experience, does not mean that men don't have a peak. I was a virgin until I was 25. Had decent success in my later 20s, absolutely was easily able to have a ton of casual sex in the first half of my 30s and now at 43 it's difficult for me to even get dates. Just because one man's peak might be higher than another man's peak, doesn't mean they didn't both peak. Similarly, more men will lust after sydney…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:10 PM
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I prefer to remain as intentionally ambiguous as possible for maximum plausible deniability. You know, like a woman. How dare you insinuate that your love could be purchased, that's very misogynistic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:52 PM
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I make 200k a year, and can support both of us on one salary, I wouldn’t be giving up my dreams at all. My “dream” is to have a family with a woman I could trust not to divorce me in a couple years just to take half of my retirement, that’s the impossible dream. Career and comfortable living was easy, those things are easy for men to do, some of us are genetically hardwired to be good at it (providing). Hell there are studies that show men naturally work harder and earn more when they have a wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:23 PM
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It’s simpler than that, they don’t want a partner, because they don’t need a partner. A partnership requires dependency. They want to remain independent. So independent and single they shall remain. They won’t get to tick that box that will complete their perfect life. They want a man to put on their trophy shelf to show how accomplished they are to compete against the other women in their life, and that existence is abhorrent to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:34 AM
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Women don’t want partners, they want ornaments to complete their curated lives. They don’t need men, so they won’t get men. That’s not a partnership. It’s a roommate that you have sex with. It’s not a partner, it’s a box to check off. A partnership requires dependency. It requires compromise. Feminist women don’t want either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:28 AM
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Every single man know what it is like for a friend to get a new girlfriend and him to slowly fade away as he starts spending more time with her. If a man is orbiting around a girl, it’s because he doesn’t have a girlfriend. Hell, girls themselves make sure that you will slowly lose your other girl-friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:19 AM
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The left embracing authoritarianism is only a recent development. For most of my life, the left were seen as libertarians wanting the maximum amount of personal freedom and limited government involvement (pro-choice, legalized drugs, no foreign intervention in wars)... it's only been in the past 10 years where rigid social order and doctrine have been applied to the left (cancel culture, covid obedience)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:56 PM
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it's a very stark contrast here in what used to be the purple bellwether state of Ohio. conservatives split 60% men and 40% women. Liberals swing 50/50. I mean, if it were just a LITTLE BIT MORE skewed, you'd have 2 conservative men for every 1 conservative woman. (twice as likely) https://www.midstory.org/decoding-ohios-2024-election-outcome/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:53 PM
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I used to be pro-choice. Then I realized that I was fed propaganda from a literal death cult as a child who wanted to see the decline and fall of our civilization. Now I'm pro-birth. I'm usually fairly libertarian in my views, but I've seen now that what might be good for the individual will lead to the death of civilization. I first started to realize this in 2008. A couple corporations/banks that were going to lose money laid off employees, and that led to more corporations laying off employee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:49 PM
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A man might be able to leech off a woman in a sexual relationship, but I firmly believe in the history of the entire planet, no man has ever been able to be a “leech” off of a woman in a non-sexual relationship. Women use betas for resources, women do not “give” resources to betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:34 AM
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Ok, thanks for clarifying. And this is an EXTREMELY different scenario than what you initially described. What you are describing is men in the friend zone, aka beta simps. Men that are getting laid don’t dote on other women. The reason they are following these women around is because they aren’t having sex. Online they get made of/mocked but male simping is a real phenomenon in real life, because of hardwired biology. (Check out one of the many white knight subreddits if you want to see more ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:24 AM
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I’m 43 years old and I’ve never once seen this ever, not for myself, and not for any of my male acquaintances. If I have a girlfriend she takes up 100% of my free time and attention. I don’t even HAVE any female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:19 AM
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No, but I’d have sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:36 PM
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Maybe this is just my skewed perspective from my own personal experience, but literally all of my relationships have started AFTER having sex with a woman. And being kind and emotionally stable is not something women care about in order to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:10 PM
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Ok, now imagine Jack stats... except he were 4 inches taller. Do you think he would still be struggling with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:54 PM
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It is funny how 250 is the new 6 figures. Fuck hoeflation. You don't need 2 porsches in the driveway damnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:38 PM
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Yea, I think all women should settle for a man like Jack, just like your wife settled for you. Sad that more women aren't willing to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:33 PM
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Yea, I think that's the right answer. Men want objective truth. Stacy is a 7 and Jane is a 5 and Sara is a 8. Women only think "How dare Sara get the man I want, I'll show her by sleeping with her boyfriend that I'm better" It's not that women don't compete, it's that the competition entirely subjective to their current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:04 AM
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No, it's not worth it for women in the short term. Women don't tend to think outside of what is best for them, in their individual situation at this particular time. (men do this too) That's why our birth rate is collapsing and civilization will die, and is currently doing so. Our population will collapse, our culture will die, and our ability to sustain the level of comfort that we currently enjoy (made possible by extreme specialization amongst the population) will disappear when 90% of the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:00 PM
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"society" has been making the decisions for males, that's why society is the way that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:47 PM
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umm, who said I was struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:58 PM
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Women in relationships can and do have casual sex too. Often times, they have casual sex with men that they are not in relationships with, sometimes that involved using an app like Tinder instead of “using their social circles for safety”. I understand you can’t possibly understand how that is relevant, but I assure you anyone else reading this would be able to understand. Nevermind, I’ll spell it out plainly for you because you seem incapable of following simple logic. I have no idea how … this…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:12 AM
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Assumptions aren't evidence. Being willing to have sex with someone you meet from an app =/= using an app to find a hookup. If you were here to look at my phone I could literally show you an example from this month where the literal first message I got was, and I’ll quote it for you “Dtf?” That is direct evidence of a woman who used a dating app to hook up with a stranger (me).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:48 AM
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Well it is reflected in society. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2019/12/12/u-s-children-more-likely-than-children-in-other-countries-to-live-with-just-one-parent/ 23% of children in the u.s. are being raised in single parent households, 90% of which are single mothers. “Misattributed paternity” which we could argue about he actual percentage of babies being raised by men that are unknowingly raising another man’s child, it is at minimum 3% (some sources will say much higher) (the one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:38 AM
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You say women don’t use dating apps, I have a large amount of anecdotal evidence that women do. Matchgroup is a billion dollar corporation that relies on online dating apps to generate revenue. If they didn’t work, they would go out of business. Edit: the women that you talk to might not be telling you about all of their casual sex encounters, but I’m just a random stranger, I have no problem telling you about the women I encounter on online dating and why they match with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:18 AM
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I’ve had sex with over a hundred women off dating apps over the last decade or so, ama?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:15 AM
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It’s because for most women, their hormones take over and they stop caring about safety about 1 day a month. So yes “you aren’t like that” 97% of the time you aren’t. But 3% of the time you are. Yes, social circles are great and all, but your social circle isn’t going to be awake at 3am on a Tuesday when you text him “dtf” and you really don’t want to explain that text later if he says he isn’t interested. For a woman who cares about her “social safety” hooking up with a stranger with no strings…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:10 AM
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Why does he have to choose only one. You’ll gladly just share him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:17 AM
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Sure, I agree that women need men to protect them from other men, and toxic femininity invites dangerous men into their lives. You can argue that is a man’s fault, or a woman’s fault, but regardless, women aren’t smart enough to make those decisions for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:17 AM
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Sometimes women need to be protected from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:30 PM
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The flaw in your argument is that it doesn’t address the point. If society restricts the “average joe earning minimum wage easily getting casual sex” down to only one woman, then society as a whole benefits. This “average joe” (which statistics say is literally anything but average, he would have to be in the top 1% for looks). Everyone should work, equally, men shouldn’t be able to “easily” have casual sex with 20+ women. Because for every man that is able to. There is an equal number of men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:38 PM
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The difference is she was successful at her career, other women struggle for 20 years and are never as successful as she is despite proclaim their careers to be “super important” in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:34 PM
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A long standing human tradition is recognizing that some people are able to separate their political views and realize that while it may not be the best system for themselves, it might lead to a better society on the whole. It’s called altruism, and I think the majority of women are incapable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:31 PM
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Because many women know that their past will be abhorrent to the type of man that they would want to help raise their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:06 PM
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Oh fucking please. As if any woman in the history of all womanhood has ever told the “complete” history of her other partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:42 AM
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Dude, The devil's advocate, if I come over to your house tonight I am absolutely 100% absolutely not going to dress up in a furry costume, why would I even bring up such a thing, furries are gross, unless you're into that, but I am definitely NOT going to do that for you at least not tonight, maybe someday in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:28 PM
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So this girl that "was really really into you" .. you slept with her right? Oh, wait, you didn't? She wasn't into you at all, but wants to still be your friend, and if she told you she had zero romantic feelings in you ever, she senses you wouldn't want to be her friend anymore. That's how women operate, they sense what the man needs to hear, and that's what he'll hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:40 PM
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Dude, she just wants to come over to my house for the first date, we're absolutely NOT going to have sex at all because she isn't like that. (what an odd thing to say - bart.jpg). It's just a game, and women will select you if you know how to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:37 PM
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I'm not saying you need to use steroids. I'm saying that steroids will improve the amount of women you are able to fuck with minimal effort, if that is a goal of yours, which it seems like it is not. Furthermore, I'm saying that I did, and it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:49 PM
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Perhaps 1% physical is too much of an exaggeration. Women don’t care about insertions or body fat distribution doesn’t matter. Literally all you have to focus on is hypertrophy. All they care about is big looking muscles, functional strength doesn’t even matter. And like I said, in order to get noticed for your muscles I think you need muscles not normally obtainable by normal genetics. They see guys who use steroids and think that is natural: and they have access to fuck those guys. Roughly 6% …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:02 PM
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In my country, I am average height. For women everything is subjective. Why choose you when she could have everyone else. And you need to adopt that mindset if you want to have success. I am average height here, but everyone in America is overweight, so average height, average looks, way better physique, and above average salary = more attention from women. Because you are below the average that your women have access to, you need to compensate in other ways. Below average height but “good” phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:00 PM
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That’s my entire point of contention. Men look more attractive with more muscles, your face looks better (to women) when you are leaner and have more muscles/higher levels of testosterone. Your face is not an immutable characteristic. Go look on any weight loss subreddit and see “face gains” when someone goes from overweight to average. Height, I’m 5’8” 172cm. When I am overweight I would rate my appearance as a 6, and I’m treated that way by women (completely invisible and ignored). When I’m ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:28 PM
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single women who are looking for a relationship or casual dates: 35% said this in 2022, compared with 38% in 2019 Less women are looking for a relationship or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:42 AM
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You said we are inching closer to women approaching men. The data actually shows women approach men less often than they used to. That’s actually us inching further away from women approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:19 AM
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I don’t think I can offer you great advice online without ever having met you. My point is that you’ll get better advice from males that you interact with in-person IF they are the type of person you want to become. But I think in general, your idea of calibrating your behavior, to how you are being treated, is a good thing. Most of us are not top 5% genetically, so you have to do things to make yourself stand out in other ways. I’ve been very successful, on the whole, with women, but my strateg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:17 AM
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You can talk to another successful man that you trust; find a mentor that you want to emulate and ask him to give you advice if you want to follow in his footsteps. For example: Part of the problem with say, black culture is that men were excluded from raising their children, so 2-3 generations of men grew up raised by women. And societal degradation is the result. Men acting like women (overly emotional and only interested in the short term without long-term provisioning in mind)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:39 AM
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It's not jsut the "alpha males" that don't run around making kids anymore. It's women themselves that no longer want children. They've been brainwashed / propagandized since toddlers to believe that anyone that reproduces is a bad person, "ghetto" "white trash" "welfare moms" "teen moms" "welfare queen" are all pejoratives used commonly, let's not even talk about the more recent inventions like "breeders" which started to show up within the last decade. The planet is doomed, the only way to save…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:38 AM
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It's complicated right, sure the average lifespan might be shorter, but that's because evolution isn't rewarding the safe men that live long lives. If you want to get laid, you need to take risks. And men being risk-takers (regardless of species) does tend to get us killed more. (or killed by rivals). As it turns out, sexual selection might be what determines who gets to live longer—one sex of a species may ultimately drain potential lifespan by using too many resources to develop and maintain t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:50 AM
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Well the difference is that I had to learn them, and as a result I was a virgin until I was 25. Some men can fake confidence, I was never able to, but thankfully earned competence can eventually give you real confidence. I like to tell the story about how we just got out of basic training and a (really really really hot) girl sat down across from me at a table for 2 and gave an icecream cone a blowjob while looking at me/talking to me. I was a moron that didn't know how to even act on that socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:51 PM
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I think you're right, I think we have moved past that narrative as a society. Women are regularly being taught (I watch tiktok) that they need to show they are interested in a man if they want him. The biggest problem is... "I looked at him for 4 seconds, why did he not come over and talk to me, how much more obvious can I make it?!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:34 PM
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"I don't normally do this" "I'm not normally like this" those are the key phrases you're looking for. Even an autistic person "can" learn social cues or signs of attraction, the key is to stop listening to what the person is saying, and start paying attention to what the person is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:32 PM
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I think you misunderstand this advice. It's not intended to help the men. It's intended to make the situation of women better. Your problem is you assume altruism, when none exists. An attractive man, a man that "just gets it" doesn't need to ask advice from women. So any man that needs to ask advice from women needs to be excluded from the gene pool. Look at it from a woman's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:29 PM
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No, never, zero possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:20 PM
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Relatively minor. First, this is back before prohormones were banned in the u.s. , so if the legal system at all is something you're worried about, well that's issue number one. They gave me some minor cramping / bloating (water retention) / minor loss of appetitite, and they suppressed my sex drive completely after about 10 days. (harsh on the liver androgenic compounds and I did not take testosterone supplementation which would have given better results because they would work synergistically)…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:02 PM
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I used prohormones (steroids) and was fairly consistent with my workout routine for a long period of time and it absolutely worked When redpill says "work on your appearance" it means, get swoll bro Muscles are not an immutable characteristic. They can can be improved upon, they are not something you are born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:40 PM
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It's just a fundamental difference between men and women. Women tend to be both more narcissistic and solipsistic than men. You care about what you think, I care about what society thinks. Could men fix the birth rate problem tomorrow? Yes. Would it involve taking away women's choice? Also yes. Right now both men and women do not want to reproduce. So it does not happen. This is going to destroy our planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:12 PM
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Well I acknowledge that there is a problem, and I've thought it through long and hard. It's truly a difficult question. I've actually been pondering the problem for over a decade. One solution is to be like Elon Musk. To try to start your own little army of mini-me's. To stem the tide of collapse and "fix the problem". I think that is a short-sighted answer to the problem. You could take 1000 elon musks having 14 children and it still wouldn't fix the problem. His own children are growing up and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:53 PM
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You haven't quoted anything of mine. Do you even know what a "quote" is? Yes, for humans to exist as a species, women and men need to have sex. Women need to carry babies. Because they are not doing that, our civilization is going to collapse. I don't honestly even care about it, I'm just telling you the reality of what is coming. Your original post completely misses the point of the man in the youtube video (because it's a react video from an equally confused feminist youtuber, perhaps yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:41 PM
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No, I didn't say that, you're putting words in my mouth. Women contribute a LOT to society. Unfortunately all of those things are literally leading to the downfall of civilization. That's not nothing, that's a negative contribution. You think I said: "women do nothing" what I ACTUALLY SAID was "women do many things, all of which are bad for civilization" there is a difference. *edited for clarity on my position
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:06 PM
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You're not very smart. Your intuition about other people is way off too. I might be gross, but not for why you think. I've had sex with somewhere north of 500 women. But I honestly stopped counting about 15 years ago when I got to about 60 and I realized I couldn't even remember everyone's name or even what they looked like exactly anymore, back then some of the girls would be like "girl with the interesting back tattoo" or "really likes doggy" or "alcoholic" or "lives in trailer with parents" S…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:52 PM
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So you're saying having sex with women is how you win? Does it have to be consensual? or just anyone that has sex? "whatever it takes"? You sound like you are advocating for rape, that's pretty gross. Personally, I think women think too highly of themselves. Women of this society are definitely not worth the effort required. Especially the fat gross feminists who tend to be the type to post on reddit. But you're wrong, that is absolutely the JOB of men - provide the sperm. And the job of women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:55 PM
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So are you claiming that a man's only purpose is to provide semen for women to procreate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:46 PM
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"not supposed to have" "not supposed to" According to who? Your 3rd grade teacher that brainwashed you into thinking the world was overpopulated and that there will be no trees left in the rainforest and save the turtles? Yes, birthing more humans IS THE PURPOSE OF WOMEN FOR HUMANITY AS A SPECIES TO EXIST. If you don't do it, humanity stops existing. And that's fine, I already accept that it is going to happen. I'm not trying to argue that with you. But there are consequences to our actions, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:39 PM
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I don't agree with your conclusion. Women are not driving society forward. They have already driven it off a cliff. This civilization is dying. It will be replaced eventually, I do not think humans will go extinct, but actual population and societal collapse is coming. I won't be around to see it, I'm already too old. But I feel sorry for anyone under the age of 30. https://youtu.be/m2GeVG0XYTc?si=x8AckuOLAKCqF8Pe As for what our society will look like now, our population is going to shrink belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:26 PM
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hey, the guy lied, he got sex. Guess what he'll do the next time he wants sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:37 PM
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It absolutely does, women HATE being rejected when they approach a man. They will refuse to acknowledge it. They will call you gay, they will assault you, they will rub up against you, and no one will do anything about it because it’s a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:54 AM
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I’ve been physically assaulted multiple times in my life because I don’t want to dance with a girl who was drunk and unattractive. But hey, I guess it’s in public, so it’s just fine for her to literally grab a stranger yank with all her might, sit on his lap, etc. no means no unless you are telling it to a woman. They have no qualms about assaulting you, physically or sexually, in public, if you reject them, and no one will act out in your defense, women are never wrong, so if she’s hitting you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:20 AM
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If you’re told by a woman that you look “average” that actually puts you in the top 20% of men, congratulations. (Source: okcupid numbers)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:47 AM
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“Attraction isn’t even important, the fact that my boyfriend is 6foot 1 and able to pick me up with one hand is totally coincidental!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:07 AM
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Well sure, and for a man who literally has zero options, that is asking for help to meet that minimum threshold of which he currently is not. If you think of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, you are doing the equivalent of telling a homeless man literally starving to death on the street that he just needs to better understand god to find happiness. Well sure, that would help. But so would a cheeseburger and might make him happier than a religious sermon would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:05 AM
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Yea. Id bet a lot of money that the guy who talked you into it and the guy you talked you out of it had differing amounts of assertiveness and confidence. Which were listed among the traits that women find attractive. It’s not all physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:02 AM
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If your girlfriend walks like a duck, quacks like a duck maybe she belongs to the streets. She may not be single, but she is certainly acting the exact same way a single woman would act.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:10 AM
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Chad is just one singular stereotype of the type of man that can have a lot of sexual encounters. Old redpill was way better back in the day about speaking truth. And lots of other men can “get sex” whether it’s Billy the beta, Steve the simp, or Timmy the Thailand tourist. The differentiation is the quantity and quality of sex. Alpha fucks beta bucks isn’t a descriptor of one man that gets sex and one man that doesn’t get sex. It’s a descriptor of 2 different men that both have sex. But that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:37 AM
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If you’re hot, it doesn’t make them uncomfortable, they just let you do it. -paraphrased quote, not my original idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:27 AM
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Yea, great example of 80s-2000s anti-male feminist media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:52 AM
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Yes, and it works equally as well on men (I can fix her) it’s gender neutral, but what isn’t gender neutral is that men admit to being turned on by hot+crazy, women know it would cost them their beta orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:11 AM
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First real answer of the thread. Women don’t like to reveal that they like criminals, because they want it to be organic, they don’t want guys to “pretend” to be hard just to impress her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:09 AM
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well, it also emerged as a term in-use during a wider societal push to reclassify definitions of both gender and sexuality. Now there are infinite genders and therefore sexualities. I'm not saying I agree with it, but it was part of a broader cultural shift in the language. And the narrative needed to be pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:59 PM
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So Lothario, how has wearing that expensive suit to your dinner parties improved your number of female sexual partners? Presumably your argument is that if men dressed better, they would get laid more. So what is your evidence for this. How much are you slaying?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:30 AM
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Allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:55 PM
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If someone said any of these things to you, they are just gaslighting you about cheating. No one believes this, unless they think you’re just incredibly naive, which might be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:54 PM
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How is “supported” equivalent to “vulnerable” in your twisted worldview? I’m trying to wrap my head around it. Do you think every single woman should be an independent girlboss who don’t need no help from anyone? And just independently wealthy without needing to “rely” on the government to give her free food? 60% of people on SNAP did not work AT ALL in the previous 12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:06 PM
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It might not be aspirational, but it is a social safety net. 42 million PEOPLE are on food stamps. Of those recipients, 50% are single mother households. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/07/19/what-the-data-says-about-food-stamps-in-the-u-s/#:~:text=Non%2DHispanic%20White%20people%20accounted,and%2035.8%25%20of%20child%20recipients. You might not “aspire” to it, but it does prevent women from being “uniquely vulnerable”. Edit: million people, not percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:06 PM
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The fact that he said “you always hear” No, no I have never once heard in my entire life that marriage benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:07 PM
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Screwed and vulnerable? You mean like free healthcare, free food, subsidized living?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:05 PM
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I’ve never once, ever, in my entire life heard that marriage benefits men. Not once. Your entire premise is flawed. (Male 43)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:03 PM
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4.. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAA HAHAHHAHAHHHAHAHAHHAA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:31 PM
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I've been in a relationship before and also had a side piece. It wouldn't be lying at all for me to state that I was in a relationshp... and it also wouldn't be a lie for me to state that in like the previous 60 days I'd had sex with 4 different women. If she lives in my house, she's paying no rent, we're still having sex, sure women might not like it, but it's still a relationship. Men are not women. Women will lie in a scientific survey just because their answers will make them look bad. Men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:29 PM
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young attractive women aren't debating online. They're still in their "hoe phase" and enjoying the attention they get in the real world. People who spend a lot time on reddit are by very definition: losers. (I include myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:26 PM
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No, not at all, you advocate for the same things that I am. Women should not be treated like men. And similarly, don’t treat men like women. As YOU said, women and men are different. Neither fills the role of the other very well and neither will be happy if treated the same as the other. So stop supporting egalitarian nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:59 PM
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Good girl, you responded exactly like I wanted you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:58 PM
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I am in complete agreement with you, I believe women should be banned from the workforce. I also believe that women need a lot of positive reinforcement, such as head pats when she does the dishes for me; just like I reward my dogs. They love it when I tell them “good girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:39 PM
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It’s funny that you say that, because I actually treat women like dogs that I am training and they love it, universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:36 PM
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It’s actually the exact opposite. “This one is bad boy, let me fix (fuck) him. This one is a good boy, so boring”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:34 PM
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“They’d make great partners for someone someday(just not for me).” That’s literally the worst compliment you can give a man. It’s like the godfather kiss of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:33 PM
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I refuse to download Instagram. I refuse to take thousands of selfies. That alone disqualifies me from 60% of women. With politics being the way they are currently, marking down conservative on my profile eliminates 60% of the women again (with obviously some overlap). The funny thing about “being good in bed” is just a different side of the same coin of the incel complaint about women only liking men with big penises. I’ve had sex with hundreds of women, and never once did the sex stop AFTER th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:29 PM
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It’s the personality. Most women are insufferable, and as they get older, their personality gets worse. You’re right, there isn’t a huge looks difference between 28 and 24 or whatever, but 99% of the time I’d pick the 24 over the 28 just based on how jaded she isn’t because she’s likely had about 20 less penises inside her in that 4 year timespan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:52 PM
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Women have been fucking drug dealers for centuries, if not millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:02 PM
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No, I mean leftist millennials in general. Most have been brainwashed their entire life and it’s a deeply held belief in their secular-humanist religion that humans are bad, and more humans is more bad. It’s not unique to journalists, but I’d argue it’s very common amongst their community because of common backgrounds. And I don’t think most of them even take a second to think of their motivations for why they do what they do, most humans don’t. But yes, their underlying core beliefs is that hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:20 PM
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No, it’s not, actually. I was just applying some sophistry to your inquiry. My actual belief is that they hate humans. They hate reproduction, they hate people being in relationships, and they want to reduce the global population by 80% or so. Some people want to reduce it slowly over time with slow growth policies like humans are a herd to be managed (pro abortion, pro birth control, anti-family policies), and on the other hand, some more extreme anti-natalists want the population to fall overn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:08 PM
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No, it’s not, actually. I was just applying some sophistry to your inquiry. My actual belief is that they hate humans. They hate reproduction, they hate people being in relationships, and they want to reduce the global population by 80% or so. Some people want to reduce it slowly over time with slow growth policies like humans are a herd to be managed (pro abortion, pro birth control, anti-family policies), and on the other hand, some more extreme anti-natalists want the population to fall overn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:05 PM
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Boom! Headshot! I can dance all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:59 PM
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Roughly 40 hours a week. So yes, by most subjective definitions of what people mean by doing a task “all day”, indeed, I am playing video games “all day” And I work roughly 50 hours a week. And I’d rather work 40 hours a week and earn 210k than work 60 hours a week and earn 290k (but I don’t have a choice in the matter) I have something that I enjoy doing for fun and there is more to life than endless consumerism and mindless spending. I already have 3 Porsches. I don’t need a 4th. There are dim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:58 PM
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Huh? no I'm saying that you're doing that very thing you just accused me of. OK, fine, you don't like community colleges? (my argument is that a community college fits the definition of acedemia, because it does, not because of some weird interpretation, but because academia is "education" jobs. And I just think you maybe don't even understand what academia means if you think it doesn't include teachers at all levels. A teacher at Harvard starts at 60k and slowly increases to 98k. How is that up…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:29 PM
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I wasn't aware that you don't need to learn anything to get a job certification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:26 PM
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ac·a·de·mi·a [ˌakəˈdēmēə] noun academia (noun) the environment or community concerned with the pursuit of research, education, and scholarship: "he spent his working life in academia"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:23 PM
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I make 250k a year and game most of my freetime. I suppose your "scrolling instagram" for 2 hours a day is a far more "productive" use of your time though. At what point are men allowed to play video games, does Henry Cavill not have enough millions of dollars and thousands of hours in the gym to be "allowed" to play games by some random woman on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:19 PM
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since when was academia considered anything other than working-class. I wasn't aware there was a lot of generational wealth and porsches in the parking lots of my local community college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:17 PM
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what are you doing steppebrother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:16 PM
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oh, ok, so they wrote the article because they thought it would hurt match group financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:37 PM
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Yes, I did read the article. So now ask yourself why was it written? What agenda does the person who wrote that article have? You think they wrote the article to assure people that there are actually very few rapists on tinder? You think they wrote it because the ceo will be prosecuted? What do you think they wrote it for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:30 PM
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How very retro-hipster you are. “Yea sure I’m on Reddit in a debate subreddit about dating culture, but I’m too cool to know standard internet lingo that has been around for a decade”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:47 AM
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I mean, it’s … not the government doing it. But endocrine disruption is absolutely a real factor in plastics, pesticides, herbicides. And you ARE consuming those products in levels the government has deemed safe, but like how DDT used to be “safe and effective” and Thalidomide used to be “safe and effective”and leaded gasoline used to be “safe and effective” and yes, “endocrine disruption is literally the same thing as “fucks yo hormones up” Thankfully we stopped using leaded gasoline, at some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:43 AM
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You act as if Wall Street and “the rich” aren’t real. They are. They are disgustingly gluttonous. And they make everyone’s lives worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:38 AM
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Wow, propaganda meant to show that all men on dating apps are rapists, they really are trying to go full-blown population collapse. It’s not enough for them to stop growth, but they want an 80% decline in our population and civilization collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:33 AM
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No actual free market works like that. Information asymmetry is a normal part of a free market. Just like when you go to buy a car, the dealership has a vast advantage, similarly the top 1-2% of men who are fucking hundreds of women have an information advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:58 PM
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If you’re unatttactive, if you don’t provide resources. Basically the bottom 30% of men are neither Brad nor Chad and remain mostly sexless. There are a lot of Greek letters that could be used to describe this type of man, delta, omega, gamma, regardless, they won’t have much success with women in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:06 PM
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Beta bucks are the men that are able to sleep with women because of the resources they provide, be it emotional, money, watching children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:21 PM
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I’ve answered it multiple times already. You’re confused about it, but I’ve explained, feel free to read my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:24 PM
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You’re really confused about this entire AF/BB thing. Rich men are slept with because they have money. Tall/attractive men are slept with because of their good genetics. If a man is neither attractive or rich, he is invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:24 PM
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Beta bucks, alpha fucks, doesn’t mean that betas don’t fuck. Alpha and betas are the two types of men that sleep with women. Women sleep with alpha men for fun and beta men for being a provider. Just because you have money, won’t make your relationship a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:21 PM
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If she’s sleeping with him for his genetics, it’s Chad, if she is sleeping with him for his provisioning, he’s a beta, aka Billy or Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:20 PM
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>As if they could all just die off and nothing would matter all that much. They aren't wrong. They've been told their entire life that men could disappear and the world would continue just fine without any man. Propaganda works. And men have been fed feminist propaganda for DECADES. A World Without Men. A thought experiment | by Marty Nemko | Medium And of course, as a woman, you would have encountered less propaganda meant for men. You probably don't read the things intended for men, so you may…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:41 AM
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Moronic feminist believes things that aren't true: shocking. I bet when she goes to the car dealership and gets a bad car deal she calls the salesman that gives her a bad deal "kinda rapey" If your definition of "rape" is "woman doesn't get everything that she wants" then yes, of course everything she will see is "rapey"... and she's the reason why islam says that a woman's word is worth about half as much as a man's. #believeallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:21 AM
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But.... yet you DID sleep with him. You DID share him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:17 AM
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unless you're with her 24x7, you don't actually know her. I know lesbians that get dick on the downlow. The fact is, even a lot of "sapiosexual" and "demisexual" women are sometimes getting random hookups, and it may only be 3-4 times a year, which is certainly "less than average" but it's still not "an exception"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:16 AM
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Because the most feminine dudes and the most butch women are equally as undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:29 AM
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Oh right, you like men that look like girls, why don’t you just go all the way and date a woman then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:16 PM
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Ok, so you like powerful men, just like, not lawyers in a suit. Got it, but if he’s big and strong and powerful, you do like powerful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:57 PM
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I’m glad you’ve decided to take one for the team and married a short fat balding pizza delivery driver. Oh, wait you haven’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:10 PM
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Sure, just go to sleep for the next 3 million years and maybe our biology might change by then, until then, you’re just fighting against reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:40 PM
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Of course, that's why they wanted to change the law, so that the thing that no one does can be done by no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:07 AM
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That’s a gross mischaracterization. He pushed for the bill to pass. But he did not write the bill. He did not introduce the bill into congress. He nearly advocated for the democrats that did push for the bill and who wrote it. But sure, if you want to start calling congressmen and governors “just one dude” yea sure. And Trump is “just one guy” trying to implement trade deals, we don’t need to care what he does, just one guy. What can just one guy accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:50 PM
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Haha, great “gotchu” moment so funny so clever bro. Doesn’t mean they didn’t try. Doesn’t refute my point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:35 PM
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Thankfully they didn’t make it legal and he was voted out of office before he could make it happen. He was talking about a proposed law change that would have made post-birth abortions legal, when before they had been restricted at the third trimester in his state. If any “post birth abortions” have been performed, no one would talk about them, because they don’t want to go to jail for murder. They wanted to change the law to make it legal. They tried. And failed. Their restriction was already V…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:32 PM
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Thankfully they didn’t make it legal and he was voted out of office before he could make it happen. He was talking about a proposed law change that would have made post-birth abortions legal, when before they had been restricted at the third trimester in his state. If any “post birth abortions” have been performed, no one would talk about them, because they don’t want to go to jail for murder. They wanted to change the law to make it legal. They tried. And failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:26 PM
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yes, of course they are trying to get ALL of that passed, but as with everything else in our government, it's hard to get anything passed until you have a strong majority. And don't try to say that "well because they don't have the power to get it done, it's pointless" because I KNOW you do not use the same argument when people on the right talk about doing things like "deporting every illegal immigrant" fearmongering is the play of the day, everyday in politics. The uniparty is real, it doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:23 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6WD_3H0wKU&t=2324s Democratic Governor in his own words: "EXACTLY WHAT WOULD HAPPEN": the infant would be delivered. the infant would be kept comfortable the infant would be resuscitated if that's what the mother and the family desire and then a discussion would ensue. So I think this was really blown out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:17 PM
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In 2004, Guizhou enacted a ban on abortions in non-medically necessary cases after 14 weeks of pregnancy in an effort to curb sex-selective abortion.[6] In 2005, the government began an Action Plan consisting of ten policies with the aim of normalizing the sex ratio of newborns by 2010.[18] Under this plan, sex-selective abortion was outlawed, as was prenatal sex diagnosis, and harsher punishments were implemented for violating both. Other policies include controlling the marketing of ultrasonic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:48 PM
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Bullshit, the left of america is WELL PAST the left of europe For example: on abortions: IN EUROPE: Every single nation has a restriction on abortion at some point. Some countries ban it after 15 weeks, others ban 3rd trimester abortions. IN AMERICA: The democratic party advocates for abortions up to and even potentially past birth. Until 2022 the u.s. has more permissive abortion laws (essentially none) than 95% of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:50 AM
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Best I could find. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dinner-party-smart/202308/men-subscribing-to-onlyfans-are-not-who-you-might-think/amp And onlyfans obviously keeps their numbers hidden, but I’ve seen 130million total global users (not necessarily paid) so waaaay less than 82 million men in America. Waaaaay less. The majority of subscribers are women or married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:48 PM
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Newsflash: women lie to make themselves look better. They won’t admit to it, but they like casual sex too. They just don’t want the social stigma associated with it. Thats why you multiply the number they tell you by 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:34 AM
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Thank you, at this point I think it’s an impossibility and I’m currently checked out of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:28 PM
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I’d be willing to bet that 95% of men share my experience more than share your experience if we put both on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:36 PM
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While he’s at it, he should really open up about his insecurities and probably lose his job too, maybe get sick and ask her to take care of him. I mean, if you are trying to speed-run his break-up you might as well go all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:24 AM
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The real problem is, he falls in love, a woman uses him transactionally, he gets married. And then she divorces him when she gets bored to take away all his assets. Finding a relationship isn’t hard with a blue pill mindset. The problem is, all the women out there are operating with a red pill mindset and willing to take advantage of an opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:21 AM
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I knew a really hot 26 year old woman that was super into me (I was 29 at the time) despite me being barely an above average man. Just recently started working out and using some prohormones which is how I moved up to even the objectively about an 8. She said I gave her the best sex/dick she had ever had, I broke up with her after 2 months because she was an alcoholic. Neither of which is a noticable trait on the first date. She called me 2 years later to try to hook up while she was dating some…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:53 PM
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"can I ask you something" Typical beta behavior. Stop asking permission to do the thing that you're already doing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:02 AM
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Having also been through the entire spectrum of attractiveness, it’s always better to be more attractive than less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:38 PM
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If you want women to be direct and honest, you’re going to have a hard time existing in the world. That isn’t how they operate. Which might help explain why you are struggling with sex/relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:49 PM
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Of course you don’t, the entire last 2 generations have been brainwashed since they were toddlers with the belief that humans are evil, humans are destroying the planet and only morons (idiocracy) and evil people have children. And you don’t want to be viewed as stupid or as evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:14 PM
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Thanks for providing a compelling arguement and countering the feminist propaganda narrative thst literally every other woman in this thread pushed that all women are victims and all men are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:31 AM
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Most people don’t consider time spent working out in the gym getting a nice body as investment in sex, but nevertheless, from a purely transactional level, yes. Getting a sexy body so you don’t have to pay for sex, is still paying for it with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:26 AM
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Yes, now that women make up 60% of college graduates, they will only settle for men who also have a college education. (and 6 feet, and make more than them) So now, as a 42 year old man, I'm finding a lot of single childless 30-35 women on sites like bumble/tinder. 10 years ago it was all single mothers in that age bracket, now I think many of the single mothers have given up on dating, and it's the desperate women who have biological clocks ticking that are the biggest demographic. About 10 chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:01 AM
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Completely off topic, but the reason this lady isn’t anyone’s girlfriend and men are embarrassed to be around her, is how hideous she looks with that crazy makeup. I wouldn’t want to be seen in public with her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:58 PM
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An entire generation of people have been destroyed by the dangerous disinformation campaign waged against them, when they were only children, that there are zero differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:55 PM
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Sorry, it is a well known fact that every single man becomes a pedophile and abuser at the age of 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:57 PM
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And what would you do if you were asked out by a man you were interested in…? Come to Reddit asking for advice about how you really like a guy but are concerned he’s too old to be socially acceptable to the average redditor?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:55 PM
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90% on if a woman will sleep with a guy on the first night depends on what stage in her cycle she is on. Once you know the signs to look for, as a guy, first date sex can/will occur regularly. Blast me for being creepy or overanalyzing it all you want, it’s both true and works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:02 PM
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https://www.campop.geog.cam.ac.uk/blog/2024/07/25/marriage-in-the-middle-ages/ We have more female ancestors than male ancestors, but that stretches back to pre-historic times, literally before history was written. The "one man mated with 17 females" story was thousands and thousands of years ago. Here is an article, if you want to read about it at various points, less people were married, roughly 60% at times, but never as low as modern day. But marriage in Europe (and in the roman empire) was …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:05 AM
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Slang for vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:37 PM
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The only rules that matter are the ones that you can enforce or are forced upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:36 PM
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A girl that invited me out to the bar last pre-gamed a pint of henessey with me, and she brought a bottle of Minute Maid orange juice chaser with her into the bar. I should introduce you two. (The pre-gaming was my idea) (sneaking in the OJ was hers)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:33 PM
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Try closer to the roughly last 2300 or so years In 1500s Europe roughly 92% of women were married. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_in_ancient_Rome Slightly lower marriage rates in the Roman Empire, but still way higher than “the majority”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:26 PM
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Well “scientifically proved” isn’t a “real science” thing if you want to be pedantic, but here is one relevant study that found that women were attracted to strong men. There are several others. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480609/#:~:text=They%20were%20asked%20to%20rate,irrespective%20of%20the%20ecological%20condition. Which itself cites roughly 8 other studies which also correlates. Women’s mate preferences are influenced by men’s physical features that convey indirect (i.e., gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:49 PM
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It’s been scientifically proven that women lust after physical strength. Lift weights 5 days a week until you become big, then do steroids until you become even stronger than what is naturally possible. Then you will start to experience primal lust. It’s sad that I have to recommend things that are bad for you and will reduce your lifespan, but it’s the harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:26 PM
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I am not a smart man. Jen-ny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:28 PM
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It’s far simpler than that. Some men get to have sex because of the things they provide; those are called betas. Other men get to have sex because of good genetics, those are called alphas, and other men don’t get to have sex at all, and are culled from the genetic pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:08 AM
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You’ve explained why betas have sex with women. Now you just have to understand how the other 20% of men who don’t “ gives resources, attention, or emotional labor” Are able to have sex. And then you’ll understand beta bucks and alpha fucks. Except explained in your own words instead of just accepting the redpill who described this phenomenon 10 years before Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:06 AM
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I did read it critically, and I’d encourage your boyfriend to dump you immediately. You know, just as a general precaution, why take the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:19 PM
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So… why are you a special unique snowflake, or are you saying you’re planning on accusing your boyfriend of taking advantage of you? Are you planning on leaving him in 7 years when he magically becomes invalid for some inexplicable reason just because you think “50 is old people” Your argument falls apart completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:23 AM
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30 year old women upset that men her age are no longer as interested in her sexually so she has to settle for a man in his 40s. Shocking. The most shocked I’ve ever been in this subreddit. /s Yawn, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:07 AM
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Equally as annoying to a man. If I'm playing with your clit and you stop me every 5 seconds to tell me I'm doing it wrong and that actually you prefer if I did it exactly like you who is able to get yourself off regularly. Sometimes it's just fun to play for a while and see what happens. I'm not stupid, I can jerk myself off as a man, doesn't mean I will tell you that if you want to try and give me a handjob. I may not finish, but I appreciate the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:59 AM
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And that’s how she met Asmongold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:41 PM
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Similarly, if you sleep with 200 prostitutes, that wouldn't count as "success with women" even if by any objective metric, it would place him as having had sex with more women than 99% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:33 PM
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He’s American. He’s referring to Americans as “our people” versus the globalists neocons and progressives that want to “import Americans” and it doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:04 PM
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Our people aren’t having enough children to replace themselves. That should bother us,” Vance told the gathering in Washington. He outlined the obvious concern that Social Security depends on younger workers’ contributions and then said, “We want babies not just because they are economically useful. We want more babies because children are good. And we believe children are good, because we are not sociopaths.” https://apnews.com/article/jd-vance-childless-cat-ladies-birth-rates-555c0f78ef8dd4c13…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:50 PM
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Biology doesn’t change in the order of thousands of years. We’re doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:45 PM
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Literally 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:42 PM
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clearly I don't need as much time as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:33 PM
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I'm 42 years old, I've been having sex since I was 25. I don't have an exact count, but I'll estimate that I've averaged a new sexual partner every other week during that entire timeframe. There is still plenty of time to post on reddit. (13 out of every 14 days)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:10 PM
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oh no, if I correct someone on the internet for being bad at math, I won't have sex?!? stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:06 PM
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There are 7,000,000,000 people currently alive in the world, give or take. Even if I am in the 99.99% of the population, there are still 700,000 people who have had more sex than me. If you say "there are a million people on this planet who have fucked more people than me" it doesn't sound nearly as impressive, does it? But that's because you're bad at math. Your statement would only be true if there were 10,000 people on the entire planet. You can have sex with more than 99.99% of the people in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:58 PM
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it's not your autism holding you back. Source: I have autism, I've had sex with more people than 99.99% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:44 PM
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I’ve literally never seen a single one of these ever. The algorithm feeds you content that it thinks you will look at and engage with. Evidently you are interested in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:44 AM
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>Anyway I was told that she needed space and that she hated me again and could see why that certain friend had cut me off. Projecting at me that I was hurting her because I called out her issue and it triggered her. This is codewords for she is going to fuck someone else
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/25 12:03 AM
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The problem is that for many of us, We've been both #1 and #2 at some point in our life. I personally have been an invisible to women 4, and also used steroids (prohormones technically when they were still legal) to get closer to the after appearance (although obviously way bigger) and what I would objectively call "an 8" And you get treated better/significantly better by ALL women when you look like the after photo. As for why women are saying they like the before photo? it's the artificial har…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:23 PM
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The fact that you are even dating her tells me that the standards are different. Go ask her male coworkers how much their girlfriends make, they’ll all tel you “what girlfriend”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:50 AM
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“Kick out your ex boyfriend, you’re being disrespectful” “No” “Ok dear, I’ll move out then so I’m no longer bothering you”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:17 PM
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This is how normal women treat normal beta men. What do you think “a stepdad” is? The original OP is absolutely right, and this guy is unfortunately living proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:11 AM
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Wow dude, I’m sorry to read this entire thread, you’re like a walking beta stereotype, I hope you can at some point learn to respect yourself first, because no woman ever will until you do that for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:09 AM
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For being a supposedly purple pill man, your idea is pretty much straight out of red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:04 AM
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He’s not infallible. He gets a lot of stuff wrong. He is still fundamentally blue-pilled about a lot of things. Maybe he just needs to be divorce-raped before he actually swallows the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:36 AM
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You’re right about everything. The problem comes from holding females accountable for failing. That will never happen in our feminine-primacy society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:03 AM
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I mean, getting married in 2025 is beyond retarded too. And yet here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:20 AM
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Attractive men are having more fun, and you don’t even need to be a top 5% man to participate. Im an extreme outlier, but most men won’t have hundreds of sexual partners, but a few are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:26 AM
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Real statistics are important, but so is actually understanding what you are looking at. OP claimed our population is larger, which is true, but the number of children has actually decreased. So if the number of children living with single mothers has stayed the same, but the number of children being born has decreased. Then that means OP that you are praising, has drawn the wrong conclusion, because the percentage of children living with single mothers has increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:22 AM
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it's "most" of them men (that women are attracted to)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:16 AM
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Had to scroll really really far to finally find the answer to the OP in your 3rd paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:36 AM
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I reported this post to the mods, but they're more concerned with making sure I don't hurt peoples fee-fees in my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:54 PM
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Nice advertisement. Hopefully you get a few chuckleheads Who are too dumb to see that you’re just a paid shill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:55 AM
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I wouldn’t date any woman who would be willing to date me -mark twain 2025 (probably)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:26 AM
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You assumed that the OP was looking for you to fix his insecurity. I merely flipped the genders and applied the same logic to you. He didn’t ask how to feel better about having a small penis, he asked why do you prefer larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:40 AM
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In my experience, it’s not even what I do with my hand or mouth that changes how much a woman can or can’t cum. The number one indicator of if a woman is able to cum is how attracted she is to me. If she’s attracted to me, it’s easier, if she isn’t, she won’t. Regardless of penis, mouth, or fingers, or any other combination of the 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:13 AM
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Men can’t fix the insecurities women have about (insert every body part that isn’t a penis).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:11 AM
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If someone is telling a 35 year old woman that she has “plenty of time for children” it’s amazing advice, if they want the destruction of the human race. I’ve argued this before, there are people out there that want humanity to go away. They know what to say and what to do to accomplish that, and it’s working. It’s literally a death cult. Anything that results in more humans is considered bad, anything that results in less humans is considered good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:51 AM
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the difference between sarcasm and a lie is that you're trying to bring the other person in on the "untruth" with sarcasm. You both know the thing you are saying isn't correct and it's a form of humor. The women he's talking about are using it to filter out men that don't "get it" though. It's exclusionary instead of inclusionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:42 PM
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Dude, he went to 12/10 on the sarcasm meter, I say this with all the compassion in the world, are you possibly autistic? Sarcasm is not the same thing as lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:39 PM
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Sure, as a not even particularly masculine although probably (undiagnosed) autistic man I’ve been “rewarded” with sex a handful of times by several different supposedly “lesbian” women. At least that’s how they wanted to appear in public. I’m guessing it’s because I probably care less about social rules or labels than most men, and they could pick up on that. Or something. People who fake things (like car salesmen that try to be friendly) give me the ick, so when a girl shows genuine interest, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:33 PM
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https://youtu.be/y-yGUSRdNG4?feature=shared I’m not giving up my Porsches just so you can brag to your friends about what neighborhood you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:32 AM
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Deal, only problem is, to live off one income we have to live in Ohio, non of these fancy schmancy states
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:57 AM
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Oh no, hot milfs in my area really like autistic men with world of Warcraft addictions…. lol. The entire premise is so laughable. Women and men are not the same, this question doesn’t work when gender flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:25 AM
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As an “elder millennial” I tend to have more in common with Gen z than I ever have had with the younger millenials. I just have never once bought into the woke garbage that is just taken for granted in anyone currently 25-35ish I absolute hated hipsters when that was a thing. When I was 28 I didn’t want to date women 5-10 years younger than me, and now that I’m 42 I still don’t want that generation of women that are currently 32-37ish. I’d would rather date someone my age or someone who is 25-30…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:17 AM
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Why? I already have sex with women. These sex bots can't be "that" much better, can they?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:30 PM
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You're in such a deep depression that you can't even imagine that it's possible to be a man AND be happy. You can't even imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:59 PM
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Congratulations, you've successfully incorporated the "4B" movement into your life and turned yourself into a sexless woman. Now, for the rest of the men out here, who biologically crave sex, perhaps because of differing testosterone levels, then all the amount of "brokeback mountain wyoming" isn't going to help us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:31 PM
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The problem is, guys that don’t take no for an answer, also don’t care about being shamed. The guys that do listen to your ridicule and pay attention to women are the type of guys that hear the message and now refuse to approach women in all situations. So now women have created the worst of both worlds. They only get approached by the men they don’t want, and the men they do want refuse to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:21 AM
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37% of 20 year old men currently, have not had sex yet. What is your definition of “abnormal” are we saying you’re abnormal if you’re anything less than the majority? By your definition any man that identifies as a feminist is “abnormal” and should seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:53 AM
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Yea, I’m pretty sure I’m undiagnosed autistic, or what in the past would have been called Asperger’s. But books like that, and other similar books, did help me learn basic human interaction. Are you suggesting that all self help books are bad? What about professionals? Are THEY allowed to read books? Do you have to be a paid nutritionist to read about about nutrition? Or dieting, must you pay someone to read about how and why the ketogenic diet works? Do you need to be submissive and bow down be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:47 AM
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That’s kind of true, I was fucked, society failed me, but I went from being a 24 year old virgin (18 years ago) to finally learning how to get laid thanks to that material as well as books like “the game” and seduction forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:43 AM
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I slept with a lot of women in their 20s when I was in my 30s, it honestly doesn’t matter when you peak, eventually meaningless sex stops mattering when you’re getting enough of it, maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:11 AM
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No. And I highly doubt that she “deserves” anything. Because good women aren’t talking shit about men and whoring themselves out for validation on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 AM
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The same reason that a man can be high value and he devalues the value of a Ferrari when he drives it. No one wants used merchandise. The high value man can own a garage of 20 different cars, some cars can be nice, some cars can be winter beaters. But they all lose value as they age. The more cars he is able to own, the more value HE has. But him owning the car does NOT make the car itself more valuable. For example, Jay Leno and Jerry Seinfeld both like older Porsches. You can even buy some of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:38 PM
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lol, that’s funny, and a very solipsistic world view. You do know that a LOT of men aren’t actually able to sleep with a lot of women, right? They aren’t sharing anyone. Something like 1/3 men under the age of 30 have zero sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:46 PM
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I used the water fountain analogy already, so go read it. Just because have no claim to ownership over the water fountain, doesn’t mean that you aren’t sharing it with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:33 PM
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Ok, I’ll break this down as best I can for you in an analogy. There is a really really high end jewelry store. They are worth billions of dollars. It’s a “high value” jewelry store, because they come in contact with a LOT of jewelry. And a lot of high end clients. People bring in their old jewelry to sell. It happens regularly. When the business go to sell the used jewelry, they don’t market it as used. It’s just “an engagement ring” not “used engagement ring, 50% off”. All they did was take a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:31 PM
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If you drink from a water fountain. You understand it’s not your water fountain, you don’t own the chiller, but you’ve instead shared it with everyone else that likes to drink water. Just because there is no expectation of owning the water fountain after you put your mouth on it, doesn’t mean you’re not sharing it with other thirsty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:22 PM
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I see what you did there, and I approve.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/25 06:20 PM
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Yes, when 100 women all have sex with the same man who doesn’t want commitment with any of you, that’s sharing the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:04 PM
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2 teachers at the same school is fucking crazy.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/25 07:54 AM
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Until you get horny. In which case, you (not you specifically, but women on average) do, de facto, end up sharing a man. Even if you find it distasteful. And that’s the problem with literally every single reply on this thread. “I’d rather stay single”. Ok, but OP wasn’t just asking about relationships. Women might very well be single, but they are still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:11 AM
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I think most of the comments have got it mostly explained, but I’ll try my best to explain it differently. These are not different insults, they all stem from the “same issue” most women have an over-inflated sense of their worth. For some women, they have lowered their value by being with many men (the first group you have described). The second set of women is the same set of women, but also has unrealistic expectations on the type of man they can get into a relationship because of their forme…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:06 AM
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Wrong. If it were completely out of your control, I wouldn't have been able to go from being an invisible 4 to an 8+ and back to a 4 again. My face is "ok", but I'm only average height. If you can't be tall, at least be strong. There is scientific proof (i'm feeling lazy, but the papers are out there) that "power" is the things that women find most important, more than the size of the muscle or any kind of weird asymmetries that gym bros talk about. I wouldn't have been able to go from virgin at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:08 AM
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Unfortunately, it's kind of unfair to make that accusation. Because of course they would deny such a thing, because that's what a sociopath would do. Even though I know it's true what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:53 AM
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Well I think Greta Tunberg just suffers from small boob syndrome, she should just get a boob job and then it would fix her issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:26 PM
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One of the most popular authors/red pill influencers wrote this 13 years ago. https://therationalmale.com/2012/07/18/the-wall/amp/ I highly doubt you’d ever find a single redpill man saying the wall occurs at 25. If you are going to generalize, 30 is as good of a round number as any though. But hey, as long as you’re “go me woman power I have crazy access to as many men I want” at 27… then you aren’t at the wall yet. But at some point it will happen to you. And then you’ll be posting here in pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:07 AM
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How "nuts" are we talking, like giving a 13 year old student a peanut butter sandwich laced with psychedelic mushrooms so that she could rape him? Or we just mean like " a little nuts "tee hee I'm a blonde don't punish me, the boys wanted it" level of nuts
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/25 03:10 PM
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Looked up indiana law. She has 10 charges of child molestation. Each charge carries a fixed penalty of 20-50 years. Theoretically she should spend 200-500 years in prison PLUS all the other charges. we'll find out though for sure. Hey, you might be right. But I do guarantee the man would get the 200-500
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/25 02:39 PM
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lol, good one 😂 Male teacher raping 10 girls would get 2-5 decades in prison minimum. Especially in Texas. We’re talking about a state that acquitted a man who punched to death the man caught raping his daughter. I guarantee she gets less than 5. Guarantee it even.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/25 08:15 AM
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It’s also twitch. Popularizing terms like pdf file, un aliving, and grape. Ironic considering it’s perfectly acceptable to glorify and promote violence as long as it’s pro Palestine or pro Marxist causes, I wonder why…. (I hate social media)
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/25 08:11 AM
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I'm single. I play video games. I reddit. I work. This is why I'm single, it's related. To quote southpark, how do you kill, that which has no life. I'm like Asmongold, except with 3.5 million less followers on Youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:33 AM
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? You're right. I actually can't get anything. LOL Wait, were you suggesting I don't actually make that much? Really? I've been posting on reddit for 12 years. I talk weekly/daily about my job, which is all public record what I make. Even a cursory examination of my profile would be enough to dox me, my coworkers were able to figure it out. And yes, there are very few women that make more than me (low cost of living area, if I lived in a high cost of living area many people would make more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:03 AM
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I'd love to find a woman making 250k a year in Ohio. Unfortunately they don't exist. And if they do, they are banging other doctors and lawyers. So like most men, I take what I can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:58 PM
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To be fair, the guy labels himself as "purple pill man" and you're attributing it to red pill, so I guess your reading comprehension is pretty low. Also, putting far too much stock in the opinions of one online anonymous person. (who isn't even redpill)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:25 PM
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Well look at you... going ahead and proving the men right. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:23 PM
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Old guy = extract him for resources and simping in exchange for my youth and fertility. Don't backtrack now just because I called you out on this. This has nothing to do with "being a provider" "extract him"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:57 PM
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Exactly, reverse the genders and it isn't a "shocking" taboo, it's a crime, and the male teacher would end up in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:51 PM
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Now, don't lie and tell me that women don't say that. I have seen this reasoning a hundred times (and highly upvoted too) in ppd alone. You answered your question with your pre-emptive defense. Women lie and create whatever narrative they need to suit their CURRENT needs. A 23 year old woman is empowered to do whatever she wants according to a 23 year old woman ... and a 23 year woman, ACCORDING TO a 35 year old woman, is a child who is incapable of coherent thought. The caveat to that is that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:48 PM
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Are you a man? Did you call a potential provider your simp (twice)? Why would you blame MEN for what you just did
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:42 PM
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why does a guy need to be a simp to be willing to support a SAHM. I make more than enough income to support a family by myself, but how you talk about it is a giant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:30 AM
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“Hardcore” is not a violent term, it means penis and vaginas are visible and shown along with the actual insertion of penis into mouth or vagina. This is to differentiate between “soft core” porn where you will see asses and tits or perhaps even showing a woman rubbing on the outside, but not actually showing insertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:36 AM
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That’s the entirety of most feminists on this subreddit, it just comes with the territory of a “debate” forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:31 AM
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The question is: convicted of what? Obviously peeing in public while drunk (although I know for a fact that men are more likely to be punished for things like that compared to women) but like nude sunbathing at a public beach would be concern for me, a red flag but not immediately disqualifying, something like having sex with an 18 year old student if she was a teacher would also be a red flag for sure, but not immediately disqualifying. Something like sex with a 15 year old would, on the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:29 AM
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If you get uncomfortable touching a woman, what makes you think it’s going to be better when you’re “touching” a woman. Stated plainly: If your goal is putting your penis inside of a woman, how are you going to let a little rubbing up against her while dancing make you nervous. That’s like wanting to shoot a gun, but being afraid to load the magazine. Wanting to drive a car, but scared of pressing the unlock button on the key fob. If your goal is to drive a car, you have WAY BIGGER things to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:01 AM
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If the majority of women leave the workforce, those that remain also benefit. It's basic "game theory" except everyone is currently playing only for themselves instead of what benefits the most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:21 PM
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Well Afghanistan wasn't a great economy before the wars (russia/us), still isn't a great economy after the u.s. left. Iran has women in the workforce, although it is significantly lower, around 14% in Iran, and at least from a PURELY economic standpoint they do seem to be doing well despite harsh economic sanctions from the u.s. for the past 50 years. (and the u.s. MIC funding Iraq to war against Iran as a proxy) I mean ideally I'd rather it was voluntary and something that women did because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:11 PM
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Women didn't enter the workplace overnight. They wouldn't leave the workplace overnight either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:09 PM
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I’m perfectly happy unmarried. I’m not trying to get married at all. Why would I? Like you said, I would just end up divorced and a lot poorer. The situation sucks for everyone. I said I had my age on my dating apps set for younger than 30, I never once said I was looking for marriage? Why would I want something that women have ruined. Married by 22? lol I was a virgin until 25. Women aren’t interested in nerds who play video games. No woman wanted me until I had resources. Sorry to inform you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:14 AM
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You want to be a boss babe and go kill sauron or beat up the hulk while also attending to business in the courtroom, you go right ahead, but the Hollywood fantasy they are selling is just that, a fantasy, but women seem to eat it up in a way that men don’t, I don’t get to shoot lightning bolts from my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:09 AM
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The alternative is prioritizing a family over your own personal happiness. How dare I ask a woman to sacrifice anything, I know, but that’s the alternative. If women exit the workplace, en masse, than wages would rise again for men, reversing the wage stagnation over the past 50 years. I realize that is a radical suggestion, but I’ll throw that Overton window wherever it needs to go to fix our fucked up society. Sorry that feminism lied to you and said you could have everything, they themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:49 PM
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Because the women who wait until they are “established” which in today’s modern world means 35. End up having 1-2 children at most, many end up having no children at all, and it is going to cause massive global demographic issues, our entire world functions on the next generation being larger than the previous, but we’ve finally hit population decline. The last time human populations declined, they called it “the dark ages” before that, “the Bronze Age collapse” doesn’t sound particularly pleasa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:28 PM
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Good, so the advice to men is to hide any good parts of yourself, or she will make you wait for sex. Remember, men, if she makes you wait for sex it’s a “compliment” lolololololol I think you need to look up what “punishment” and what “reward” means in the dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:18 PM
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He's bragging about how good of a wife he had.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:15 AM
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No, I don't think I do. I absolutely agree that those things were terrible. Regardless of what the church taught, the truth is that the earth revolves around the sun, and eventually the truth won in the end over doctrine/dogma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:55 PM
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A lot of good advice for men here: A) don’t project yourself as being good relationship material, be a bad boy or bum, or emotionally unavailable, or whatever works for you. Or you get friendzoned. B) be good at sex so she will want to sleep with you more than once. I said a lot of good advice, because really those are the only 2 things you need to know. Because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:40 PM
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If it’s pointless to debate about it, you would have to also argue that this entire subreddit is pointless, but it’s clearly not; people can learn, and get different perspectives. When theredpill was new, some concepts were very controversial and argued against, nowadays everyone considers them as just common sense. Women don’t lack access to sex, they lack access to sex with men that they want, and the reason they lack access is because of competition from other women. Women want what other wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:09 AM
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Eastern Orthodoxy is as logical/illogical as Islam, but doesn’t require stoning the heretics or condone sex with 9 year old women. Some cultures are better than others. If you view religion only through the lens of societal control, I’d much rather live in an Eastern Orthodox strict Christian nation than an Islamic state.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:19 AM
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I make decisions without complaining about it. I am emotionally stable and don’t mind if you aren’t. I make something like 5x the median salary. I don’t care about your job, unless you want to get married/have kids, in which case I’m rightfully concerned about divorce rape or child support decisions being anti-high earner, but even then, as long as you have a career and not just working in fast food or a gas station or something similar, I’d be happy. I have more sexual experience than 99% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:23 AM
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This has been studied, women are aroused by power. It can come in many forms. Not just muscle power, but if you’re richer (significantly, talking millions) women are more likely to orgasm during sex. For most men, the easiest way to achieve power would be weight lifting (and perhaps enhanced weightlifting).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:00 AM
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I got jaded at 17, when I asked a girl to prom, she told me she’d love to go, and then her friends came around an hour later to tell me she was just being polite and that I was way too ugly and a nerd to go to prom with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:38 AM
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No, that is feminist propaganda and just flat wrong. The VAST, VAST MAJORITY of women are more attractive at 20 than at 30. The only women that does not apply to would be women who have some kind of major health issue such as being obese at 20, that they fix by the time they are 30. Unless you define “plenty” as less than 10% of women, then sure, but you’re ignoring the 90% of women who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:36 AM
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When I told him that 'dread game' doesn't work, he responded that it 'worked on his ex' and I was absolutely beyond disgusted. The incredible thing is, I tried to deconstruct why his 'tactics' didn't work and how his stupid manosphere beliefs are completely unfounded, and he just disagreed. Here you are on reddit still posting about your ex that you haven't gotten over. Even though you were long distance and he wasn't happy. Yep. Clearly they don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:14 AM
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I mean, it was big in my life because it turned my dating life around, and instead of being taken advantage of by women looking for a meal ticket I started dating on my own terms and getting what "I" wanted out of a relationship. (After previously learning seduction/game helped me go from a virgin at 25 to being able to regularly get my foot in the door in the first place). So yes, I absolutely understand why women hate TRP, it teaches men how not to be taken advantage of. I was absoutely being …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:38 PM
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TRP handily predates metoo by a couple years. TRP had nothing to do with metoo. TRP grew from "game" and "seduction" such as "the mystery method" and men trying to find an underlying theory of WHY those dating "tricks" work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:01 PM
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Except if the woman was drunk and the man was drunk and she doesn't regret it. It's consensual. If the woman was drunk and the man was drunk and she does regret it. It becomes rape, believe all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:00 PM
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I’d consider that is even worse then. They want babies with and logically choose to SHARE THE SAME MAN, rather than settle for a lesser lower-value male all to themselves, they aren’t being driven by hormones or lust (if true, but again, people lie). But instead logically choosing the situation they put themselves in. And yes, while some (most) of his children have been created via ivf, some of his children were created the old fashioned way, including the rumor that he slept with Sergei brin’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:48 AM
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Ashley St. Clair "wanted an LTR" with a man who is currently publicly in relationships with 2 other women? Continually knocking both grimes AND Shivon up and has never once been seen in public with him? Look she can "blast him" on social media all she wants, but she absolutely knew what she was doing when she had unprotected sex with him while he already had 2 other women pregnant at the same time. Musk allegedly told St. Clair via text in November 2024, "I want to knock you up again," before te…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:53 PM
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Look, they aren't all "hoes in the street" let's not pretend this is only something that happens with the lower class. Example: Justine Musk Talulah Riley (twice) Amber Heard Grimes Ashley St. Clair (baby momma number 4) Shivon Zilis All successful in their fields, millionaires, and 4 of whom decided to have children with the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:46 PM
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It's not delusional at all for a woman to have her standards wherever she wants them. Women would rather share a high value man than settle for a less-valuable man that she can have all to herself. She'd rather have a situationship with a good-looking successful man than a committed relationship with an ugly loser. And we can see that because of their actions, I really don't care what women say, but I look at what they do. And similarly, many men are more than willing to date/fuck multiple women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:33 PM
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Dude, just stop. This sounds like mental gymnastics trying to justify the fact that the traits that you offer are not the traits that women want. It’s not logical, it’s emotional and you have my sympathy, but it honestly just feels kind of sad. Wouldn’t it be easier for you to develop more of the traits that women are actually aroused by rather than these reframing choices. “I’m not her second choice, I’m her first choice after the asshole left her!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:53 AM
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When you’re a top 10% man, you can do this. I’m not currently, but I was in the past, there is no reason not to when all women like the same small % of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:47 AM
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There isn't anything to read... it just presents you with a photo, reading takes extra steps. Wasting time on a woman that only has a 3% chance of liking you back is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:15 AM
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The problem is they want to be treated like a conservative woman, without actually being a conservative woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:43 AM
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Being consistent. Women that I don't ghost are ones that include in their profiles things like ENM or "short term open to long" ... OR long term conservative women. Hell, I've matched and met with several "lesbians" (to their friends and family) over the years who wanted to experiment. Great. We can both have fun. If she is a liberal feminist man hater, I really just don't care to interact with her. And if she is welcome to match with the plethora of "liberal feminist men" and deal with their is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:39 PM
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I was pointing out the "reason she gets ghosted" is the OPPOSITE reason of what she THINKS. She's being ghosted BECAUSE men read her profile and say no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:32 PM
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you actually have to scroll the profile a bit before you can press on a section of their profile to "like" and then you can send them a comment or a response based on that portion of their profile. Well yes, technically you can like one of their photos, but it's not just swipe left or swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:26 PM
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look, If I swipe based on appearance I can clear my maximum 50 allowed swipes per day in like 3-4 minutes. If I take the time to read every single profile It would take me 20 minutes. Regardless of if I read profiles or don't read profiles I will have a 3% match rate. Most women don't read profiles either, so I'm just doing what has been gamified for me to do to achieve maximum success with minimal investment. edit: the proof I have that women will match without reading a profile: I have a blank…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:12 PM
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If tinder wanted me to read a profile before I was allowed to swipe, they would make it so that I needed to read a profile before I'm allowed to swipe. For example: hinge does not allow you to swipe based on appearance. Tinder does not require you to read profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:07 PM
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Oh look here's a cute girl... swipe right. match... NICE she likes me.... Oh, oh no, she's r-tarded. "MAGA swipe left" "no hook-ups, just because I have 5 children from 3 men doesn't mean I want to sleep with you, even though tinder is literally the app for hookups" "only swipe if you are pro abortion" "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" "..." "why do I get ghosted after men match with me?" ... Hunny, the reason you are being ghosted is BECAUSE they are reading w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:47 PM
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I got auto moderated for linking, the posts are there, I can’t link, and I’m on phone so even navigating a quarantined subreddit is painful enough, you’re on your own buddy. I can’t lead a horse to water, but if you’ve decided not to drink, I can’t help you any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:26 PM
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Yea, unfortunately people treat other people as one big monolithic block, and hopefully you speak up in the other comment threads when women complain about not being approached by men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:56 AM
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You said that no red pill content encourages men to become better at sex, that is itself easily disprovable, which I just did. I could just plug my eyes and ears and say “blue pill encourages men to rape women, I haven’t actually seen it but it’s true” and it would be equally as valid as your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:53 AM
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You’ve somehow managed to “consume” the content without actually reading it, or you were so negatively biased against it; you selectively ignored much of it. It’s literally pinned posts in the sidebar that have been stickied there for the past 8+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:43 AM
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Dear women of this subreddit: this post is why you never get approached at the gym, at the bar, in the street, or ever. This woman is actively making men ignore you in public, by furthering the narrative that all men are creepy. Enjoy finding dates on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:29 AM
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You’re wrong. Society still believes the premise. Only the chronically online men who have swallowed the red pill believe what you wrote. Society as a whole does not agree with you. You’ve seen the matrix, and you can’t unsee that, you can’t be plugged back in. But most people are still plugged in and actively resist being told the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:01 AM
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Do you genuinely believe that? Despite a massive amount of the top posts of all time on the redpill subreddit being about how to give women the best sex/orgasms of their life so that they become addicted to having sex with you? You’re just objectively wrong about what TRP is and stands for. And you’re just lumping together random “I hate women” into the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:45 AM
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That’s why mgtow and black pill have separate terms/subreddits. Redpill was always about teaching men how the world works and how to overcome adversity/bad thoughts after learning what reality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:44 AM
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I never dated, I never kissed a girl, I never had any romantic interests at all before the age of 25; I finally got depressed enough to want to learn and change. I learned dating/attraction from reading books about it and finally had my first kiss/sex at 25. I had my first relationship by 26. I had multiple year long relationships throughout the rest of my 20s/30s and finally had an almost 5 year relationship in my later 30s. What sets you back is your defeatist mindset. Once you understand that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:53 AM
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Yea, they aren't "hanging out" with their casual sex partners. They meet and fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:03 PM
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You don't... until you do. And there are enough women to do it that "some guys" are capable of having regular sex without committed relationships. Again, you DO NOT KNOW your friends sex lives. They will not introduce you to me, you'll never hear of me nor see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:31 AM
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https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna38755436 There is... actually... It's just a news summary, but it includes about 10 different ways you act on those 2-3 days a month. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1559901/ etc etc etc there are lots of research articles about it if you want to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:51 AM
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The problem with your premise is that it categorizes women into two categories, those that are aroused by scumbags and those that aren’t. Unfortunately, 100% of women get aroused by “scumbags” and if “good men” didn’t choose those women ever, there would be zero women left for them to select, and even good men want women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:12 PM
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The best we can get is that women lie about how many sexual partners they have, if they will lie to researchers about it, of course they will hide it from other women too. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-mating-game/202004/gender-differences-in-casual-sex?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:37 PM
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You’re wrong about there being “different types of women” When a woman says “I’m not interested in casual sex” I believe her, for 27 out of the 28 days in her cycle, she isn’t. But women are absolutely controlled by their hormones far more than men are stereotyped to be. For that 1 day a month, she absolutely will hook up with some dude that she matched with same day on tinder. And she’ll never introduce me to her friends. And I might not even ever see her again. You won’t ever know this side of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:32 PM
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I don’t care if I am, if they want to play games like “I won’t sleep with someone till after 3 weeks”, it’s a huge red flag for me, and I’ll instead stick to dating women that don’t have that restriction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:53 AM
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What I mean to say is that they aren’t looking for a relationship at first. First they’ll figure out if they want to fuck you, if it’s good to go, then they’ll try to convert that into a relationship. If a girl hasn’t put out by the 2nd date, she’s not interested in anything longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:27 AM
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Women generally pick men for short term dating, hoping to turn it into a long term relationship. If it doesn’t work out, they will easily have more chances for short term relationships and converting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:43 AM
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Red pill actively encourages men to develop dark triad traits because it will get them more sex and more relationships because women are aroused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:20 AM
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TL;DR summary for everyone else. Woman has sex with scumbag, now has baggage that she will carry to future relationships. You are the reason red pill teaches guys to act more like “scumbags” Because those are the type of men that women, including yourself are attracted to. To steer back to the claim that you make, that it is better to be “late” nope. Not at all. Because you decided to be late, you put far more importance on your one singular encounter with a bad guy instead of realizing that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:53 AM
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Ok, I’ll accept that explanation. I’d argue that no one is capable of keeping her “un-bored” and that the problem is with her, and it doesn’t matter who she picks, a ends up moving on from guy to guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:46 PM
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It’s not about “me” keeping her attention, I’d believe that “no one” could keep her attention. As they say “she’s for the streets … of some foreign country living her life of adventure”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:06 AM
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Woman B. My hobbies include video games and Netflix and Reddit. I enjoy vacations, I’ve been to almost every state in the u.s. scuba diving in Mexico, I enjoy skiing, but I can’t afford to fly to the Rockies every year, but it was worth doing once, but adventures are not the norm, “norm” means i hit my local ski slopes 45 minutes away or maybe drive out 4 hours away for some of the upstate New York resorts. For me, my life is 99% at home, and 1% adventure. I’d rather spend time with someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:05 AM
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I’ve heard it said before that women are pragmatists who pretend to be romantic while men are romantics who pretend to be pragmatic. Stop dreaming about it, marriage is dead, it’s over, stop thinking about it. Everything you want from life, relationship, cohabitation, sex, children, all completely possible and better without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:25 AM
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It’s basically the Pareto principle on steroids, 95/5. 95% of women will give their attention to 5% of men. If you’re in the the top 20% of men (which is where I include myself) then you can at least still get some scraps. If you aren’t in the top 20% of men, fix that first before trying. Otherwise you are wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:04 AM
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Tinder was amazing 10 years ago, they absolutely changed the algorithm to make it worse. Hell, I even had luck using Craigslist personals, none of that shit works anymore, I didn’t change, match group did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:23 AM
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See: the birth rate in Korea / Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:05 AM
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It takes more than 2 hands to count the number of “feminists” and “lesbians” that I’ve had sex with. I’d argue that it’s safer, socially, for a woman to claim to be a lesbian, than it is for her to claim to like men, in a liberal arts progressive college. She’ll suffer more social backlash for being straight (or bi) than for being a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:03 AM
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Sabotage them? Might I ask why you’re divorced? Is that what a normal and healthy relationship looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:40 AM
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you claim that society has only had a problem with age gap relationships recently. Instead it has been a problem for all of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:03 AM
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Your entire premise is just wrong: https://www.dailyartmagazine.com/unequal-marriage-by-vasili-pukirev/ It's been a societal issue for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:05 PM
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Everyone’s hands are different, it sounds sus, because it is bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:53 AM
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A million times this, I’ve had sex with many women, and not once has a woman EVER seen my dick BEFORE we were going to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:52 AM
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Great repost, this is one of the best lessons TRP ever taught me. Both betas and Alphas get sex, the quality and frequency is determined by if she sees you as a beta or an alpha. (regular frequency, low quality sex, versus high quality random chance hookups). And of course, either is preferable to being an invisible incel not getting laid at all.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/25 10:04 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@spnvrm/video/7195551297607585025
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:05 PM
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Duh, she pulled out her phone recording everything around her while looking angry, that is supposed to mean approach her. I guess, as opposed to yesterday when you would have been out on blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:44 AM
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You’ve never tried rejecting a woman. I’ve had a 300lb woman literally pick me up out of my seat when I didn’t want to dance with her at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:42 AM
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Are you kidding me? After the trend of the last several years of recording men at gyms trying to catch them looking at women to be shamed on social media? Nope, no way, if a woman is dressed nice at a gym I wouldn’t know, because my eyes are glued to the ground. Did you just wake up from a 10 year long coma?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:25 AM
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Maybe in your state, in my state, it doesn’t have anything to do with if the woman works while married or not. Child support has a hard and strict formula which is actually gender neutral. alimony, however, is not. It’s strongly biased against men, but regardless the standard is “to keep her at the standard of living she was accustomed to while married” so if she is married and makes 40k pretax and he makes 80k pretax, they have a combined HHI of 120k, they are considered equal partners so that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:04 PM
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That isn’t how it works at all. I mean; that would make logical sense, but that isn’t how it works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:54 PM
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Lololololololol are you like 15 or something? Tell me you’ve never talked to a divorcee without telling me you’ve never talked to a divorcee.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:54 PM
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And if she also kept a job, the children became latchkey kids: and she was always too tired to do any housework anyway, why does she still get alimony and child support. Oh right, because the courts are biased. Anyway, marriage is dead, feminism killed it. Enjoy the decline of society everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:50 PM
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the Ryan Gosling movie everything thinks sex dolls will be like: Barbie The Ryan Gosling movie that sex dolls will actually be like: Lars and the Real Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:28 AM
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Women have sex with men constantly that aren't 6 feet tall also. Online and hypothetical examples are skewing your idea of what is happening in reality. Women are subjective choosers. She'll take the best man that she can get "that night". Women don't care about sex 85% of the time. (4 days out of a 28 day they do care a lot about sex, even if they are on birth control pills they still tend to have spikes in their hormone levels which causes their interest in sex to drastically increase). Apps l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:58 PM
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All women have shallow preferences. Some women admit it. Other women lie about it. Gravitate towards the one that are honest about it and steer clear of the liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:50 PM
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But yes, i would prefer to debate the merits of the arguments over who made the argument too, but the problem is they do actually come from a place of jealousy and selfishness, she got to date men in their prime when she was younger, and now that she’s older and worth less in the relationship marketplace, she is upset that men in their prime no longer want to date her. It’s just how the world works, you can rage against it all you want. The day I hit 40 my online dating matches decreased by 80% …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:35 PM
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https://magesblog.com/post/2014-02-04-does-sexual-activity-change-with-age/ 55-64 still have a lot of sex. TL;DR: roughly 50% of people 55-64 having sex within the past month. Hell that’s better than most guys under the age of 25 these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:21 AM
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Claims to be a man, that is. He has a certain “je ne sais quois” that makes me think it’s actually a woman just doing gender flipping. I’ve never once known a man in-person who writes like him, but plenty of women who do, and then there is the whole “I have mommy issues” thing to “it’s ok when I dating older”, look… it’s the internet, I understand anything could be possible, but I’d be willing to bet 200 bucks OP is actually a woman who didn’t want to have their debate quashed because they’d jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:05 AM
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I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 25. The fact that I have self respect won’t permit me to help some woman my age to help raise some other man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:04 AM
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If he’s 30 and she’s 18, theoretically, when he’s 60 she’ll still be 48, both plenty capable and interested in sex. Is he just supposed to stop having sex and keel over and die once he hits 50? When are we supposed to just Soylent green ourselves for the next generation? 40? You write like a teenager “eww I never want to be 30, that’s old”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:01 AM
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Dude, you made the same mistake elsewhere in the thread, so I wont badger you too badly about it, but it’s not. In most states it’s not. I’m not going to look up every states consent laws, but most prohibit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:57 AM
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The problem with your argument is that you are wrong. In many states it’s illegal to have sex with someone that is mentally retarded. In some states it’s written in explicit laws, and in other states it’s implicit because of how their consent laws are written. I wasn’t going to interject, but calling the person you’re arguing with an imbecile while factually and objectively being wrong (while talking about retarded people) is peak pedantry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:54 AM
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Oh damn, I didn’t realize Nicholas cage was a Nazi sympathizer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:48 AM
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Yea, exactly my point, I’m calling you out for bad behavior and poor logic, and I notice it because it do it too. That being said: A) in the first link: I call men stupid. B) in the second link I say it is the man’s fault. C) I’m arguing against someone who claims that women are never at fault, which is objectively untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:22 AM
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Yes, you are overly broadly generalizing, one man behaving one way you don’t like, and one different man behaving another way you don’t like doesn’t mean that the average man is following all of those behaviors and treat women as you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:17 AM
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I do t get what you’re trying to prove, I told you you are taking the beliefs of several different men and combining the worst traits into one imaginary super-evil man and saying all men are like that. So to disprove that, you link me 8 different men on Instagram that post memes and imply that all men are the same? No, that’s literally you doing again, what I accused you of doing in your original post. You are taking what one man says, combining that with what another man says, and then saying “…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:10 AM
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Because you can’t just combine the worst features of any 5 particular men, and then say that these are “general features of all men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:01 AM
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Look, if you're physically repulsive to women, you need to improve that. If you want to get laid, you need to be willing to put in time and effort into the gym and your diet, because life is a competition and other men are willing to put in effort into getting laid. If you're ugly, become big, women are aroused by powerful men regardless of (or more accurately in spite of) their aesthetics. If you don't have 6 hours a week for the next couple years to spend on your fitness, then you're a liar, q…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:36 PM
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pick a man to emulate, one that is successful with women, and just copy what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:34 PM
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You can be a 6/6/6 guy and if you're a timid beta you might as well be invisible to women. Dominance, assertiveness, intelligence are all attractive qualities to women too. Top 20% refers to the top 20% of men, overall. If you're having "some" luck like Happy Difference is, then he probably is actually a 20% man, it doesn't take much: decent job, decent health, decent level of attractiveness, decent level of confidence. MOST MEN don't even meet that bar, they'll be significantly deficient in one…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:33 PM
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Men act like this online, anonymously. Women do it openly, in public, in front of their significant other or behind his back to their friends. I’ve personally overheard women ranking the dick sizes of the different men they had slept with at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:18 PM
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You’ve amalgamated 6 different men into your ultimate boogy-man. I dare you to find a single redpill poster that has done all of these things. Hell, I’ve done some bad things on Reddit, but I don’t think any of my comments fall to the level of and certainly not all of them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:14 PM
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I’ll just piggyback off yours because I was basically going to say the same thing. That is not stereotypical behavior of men, and I highly doubt that any man would actually marry a woman he felt that way about. A) because I’ve done stuff like that online, talking disparagingly about women I was sleeping with. Although I agree that the “gender swapping” was done very poorly by OP. And B) the guys paying for OF tend to be single and incel. But that being said: you can still find your significant o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:10 PM
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Woah, you're saying MEN are allowed to change their minds at any time and for any reason? Sounds like misogyny to me. Sorry buddy, only women are allowed to withdraw consent!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:24 AM
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You just raped him with that comment so good, you should go to jail for that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:20 AM
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No no, you don't understand. If a woman manipulates a man into sex it's because men are stupid and deserve to be taken advantage of. If a man manipulates a woman into sex, it's rape, a serious crime that should be punished with strict laws from the government. Misandry 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:20 AM
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It’s a shit list anyway, I clicked 4 links and literally zero of them were for men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:12 AM
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My assertion is that marriage is dead, and women like you killed it. Any man that is dumb enough to marry a woman in 2024 deserves to lose all of their money, morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:59 PM
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Duh, if you don’t want to be robbed, just stay away from criminals, thanks for that exceptional advice captain obvious. Why would you go out in public if you don’t want to be mugged?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:57 PM
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Ok, now how much bigger is the list for only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:55 PM
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You fundamentally don’t understand the reason why men don’t like dating apps if you think the reason is “you are often making connections that aren’t nice or fun”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:35 AM
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Want has EVERYTHING to do with it. It’s the want of your partner. Your logic is flawed because you’re assuming your partner doesn’t want to be pegged. In previous relationships her partner wanted to try anal sex so she tried it. In her current relationship her partner wants to try anal sex but she doesn’t want. The actual act itself is inconsequential, the only important word is “want”. In previous relationships she was willing to try new things with her partner, and now her new beta doesn’t get…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:16 AM
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I understand now the problem with your thinking. The flaw in your logic is you don’t understand what x equals. You incorrectly assume that x = anal sex. Or x = pegging. You don’t understand men at all. The correct answer for x: x = did what he wanted. If you did what your previous partner wanted, and now you won’t do what your new partner wants, that is a problem. X does not equal blowjobs, or anal sex or pegging. X is, “she tried to make him happy”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:45 AM
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It’s a bad troll. Oh you only went to first base with your first boyfriend when you were 14? I guess your future husband also only gets to go to first base with you. It’s terrible logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:40 AM
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That’s the entire point. If a woman doesn’t want to have a rich and fulfilling sex life “with you” because she only cares about her own wants, and previously she cared about the wants of her partner, they are going to have a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:38 AM
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I’m not settling for anything less than Ana de armas. You can’t hold me down random redditor!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:32 AM
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The 2 ladder theory was first postulated about 20 years ago. Funny to see what is old is new again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:46 AM
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Who are these men, are they in the room with us right now? You accused “me” of being contradictory, what did I say that contradicted myself? Where did I state that I wanted women to be badass assertive girlbosses AND also chaste submissive quiet demure playtoys? I simply described how women actually are, not how I would like them to be (which is neither of those obscene generalizations)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:46 PM
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Because people commonly confuse 2 different concepts, Chad Thundercock (6’4” jacked college football player and member of a fraternity) is one stereotypical “alpha male” but is commonly used incorrectly when the original poster simply meant the broad category of alpha. On TRP these other stereotypes had other names, but yes I think it’s important to acknowledge you don’t have to be Chad to be an alpha male. Chad is not the same thing as alpha, and the definition of words matters. Women aren’t at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:41 PM
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It’s almost as if you are talking to multiple different individuals with differing beliefs and not one big monolithic block of robotic thinkers. Nah… it’s just easier to call us woman haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:28 PM
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YES. Thank you for agreeing with me. Because you’ve agreed with me, I’ll now agree with you. Why choose only one. Just like you post multiple times a day on this subreddit. because I’m a red pill man, I am constantly blaming women both for being too submissive while simultaneously being not submissive enough. All red pill man are bad and hate women. Thank you for pointing out the error in my ways. And somehow a man (me) having to go out and live on his own would be “a woman’s fault” (naturally)?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:41 PM
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We talking about prehistoric era, I have to kill a deer with a flint-tipped arrow? Yea, maybe, because I would have been raised in such an environment. But if we're talking about 2024, no person is out there having to trap and fish with zero help or trading from other humans, doesn't mean, genetically and biologically, that's how humanity survived for hundreds of thousands of years. And yes, most men didn't reproduce, their lineages died out. The ones who had "community" bred with multiple women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:21 PM
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Alpha is contextual. It literally doesn't matter what you or I think about those men. Women are out there fucking and reproducing with him because THEY see him as alpha. IF you and me and James the drug dealer were sitting in a room having a conversation, eventually as men we'd form our own hierarchy, and women fuck whichever man ends up at the top of that hierarchy in the larger societal sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:51 PM
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I mean it in the scientific sense of the word, the classic definition of alpha male. The dominant male amongst a group. He's the one that women choose to have sex with. To subvert the old seinfeld adage "master of his domain"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:44 PM
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I didn't say chad. I said alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:40 PM
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Think it's a mistake to view human behavior through the lense of species further and further removed from our ancestry. Dogs and Horses are already a bit of a stretch, apes are the better animal to study.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:25 PM
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Like it or not, there are alpha males out there with 12 babymommas and broke living drug sale to drug sale. "alpha" doesn't care how much money you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:23 PM
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I very rarely ever check someone's post history, unless prompted. Red pillars are society's losers, blaming women for all their problems. Successful men have no need for red pill nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/25 02:00 PM
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A woman who is ostracized from the community dies. Any females that didn't learn that lesson were darwin'ed out of the gene pool 200,000 years ago. Not giving offense is the biggest concern for any woman in every social situation you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:43 PM
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That wasn't her question. She was asking, of men, how many men would prefer the safer woman or the riskier woman. We all know women like "badboys" ... But I guess what wasn't obvious to her that ALL MEN like safer, more submissive (to them) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:33 AM
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I'm not 100% sure that you can argue that beta traits require "more" to invest in. Show up every day to work? Don't do drugs? Drive the speed limit? Yes, for "beta" people those are easy tasks. For "beta" people, other tasks are hard, disregard what women say? Take risky behaviors? (the entire subreddit of personalfinance just had a heart attack), stop caring about other people other than yourself? Forget finances, work on your body more? Take steroids maybe even? Those are not "easy" for beta m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:33 AM
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The problem is that you're putting too much faith into what one woman told you years ago. Women don't have a concept of objective reality, what is TRUE to a woman is what she currently feels about a topic. If instead you did what was best for you, you'd perhaps realize that women can be enjoyed for what they are, instead of what they are not (trustworthy sources for accurate information)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:13 AM
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DEBUNKED!!! I don't think I've ever heard a person in real life actually use that term, only the chronically online and political pundits. But what did I say is "scientifically proven" (aka debunked) to be wrong? That women lie about their behaviors (scientific fact) That women actually do enjoy having sex with alpha men? (again, scientific fact)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:11 AM
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“Fall for it” Women tell you they are tricked by “risky choice” men because it gives them sympathy from betas like you. The first step in recovery is recognizing that you have a problem. You are being manipulated by paying attention to what women say, rather than watching what women actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:04 AM
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That is all women. Her treating you bad is not because of her fault (all women are like that), it’s your fault. You can fix it. She would do it with any other man that was like you also, but she wouldn’t do it to every other man. I don’t know your situation, but do you think she is rude and disrespectful to her boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:01 AM
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Sorry to hear that dude, when I got rejected once, not to my face, but by her friends (in a very harsh manner), it left me unable to approach women for years afterward. Thankfully they aren’t all as broken. You have to be able to overcome your fear of failure or it’ll just keep holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:57 AM
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I’m more in the “risky man” category, but for me, I absolutely prefer any relationship that I’m in to be with a “safer” woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:53 AM
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I’ve had to remind a few men this, but both beta men and alpha men get to have sex. Beta bucks still gets sex, it’s not the quality or in quantities that the man wants, but they do still get to have sex. It’s only if you have neither alpha nor beta that men don’t have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:52 AM
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It’s literally impossible, that isn’t how women, or men for that matter work. They are aroused by the highs and the lows, for men it’s called “crazy in the head, crazy in the bed” you can’t be both “sexyl and “stable”. You can be “attractive” but stability is not what gets a woman wet. No woman in the history of womankind has ever orgasm’ed while thinking about 6% 30 year average returns on their 401k or buying a car that will last 200k miles with only the recommended maintenance schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:49 AM
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Sorry, those women don’t exist according to the other poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:45 AM
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Risky choice is what I’d rather be. I own 3 Porsches, although I should definitely get the motorcycle too, I used to ride one as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:44 AM
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Yea, not sure why they take offense when the red pill just accurately describes the behavior and then gives it a term, “cock carousel” 🎠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:26 AM
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Women will have sex with a man for 2 reasons. A) because he is fun to be around, he is attractive, good genetics, this is often called “alpha” by the red pill. B) because he can provide her with goods, quality of life, this sex is transactional and is called “duty sex” and is unenjoyable to the woman and the man too, it’s basically work. This is called “beta”. It’s a common misconception that red pill teaches that only alpha men fuck and beta men don’t have sex, that has never been true. Both al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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That’s just, patently false though, all sorts of women have sex without needing you to buy them food and gifts. Again, you’re thinking of women like a vending machine where you put in tokens and eventually they spit out sex rewards, that isn’t how ANY woman works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:50 AM
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Damn dude, every single woman that sleeps with a man is ugly? Nice progressive ideals you have there. Have you ever considered that women are actual humans also and that sometimes they want to have sex too and that women that enjoy sex also can be attractive and highly desired by other men? Typically I only see this level of hatred of women from recently unplugged redpill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:11 AM
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Yea, the difference is, with a prostitute the man gets something he wants out of it. Women will gladly accept a free meal with no intention or any romantic interest in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:40 AM
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That she enjoys sex? With me? I’m old enough to remember when women were allowed to enjoy having sex, “sex positivity” was considered cool. And not all women were assumed to be prostitutes like you are insinuating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:15 AM
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It’s simple, I don’t pay for dates and don’t take women out to dinner. If she wants to fuck, later I’ll be willing to buy her food. But if she doesn’t want to fuck, feeding her some Cheesecake Factory isn’t going to make her magically want to fuck. You can’t just “insert favor coins” and then “expect sex payout” Honestly, I think the whole expecting sex for dinner thing is incredibly sexist and I’m surprised it still persists, it’s 2024…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:08 PM
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ah yes, if only I knew how to cook, women would be slobbering all over my dick. Thanks blue pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:16 AM
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statistics says that modern men and modern women don't start relationships at all. Yes, some do it on dating apps, but most just don't date. That's why the birth rate is plummeting. Women are content because they get as much sex as they want. Men are miserable but society doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:15 AM
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Change the sort from "hot" to "top" and then change the date range to "all time" read the top 50 or so posts of all time.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/24 08:14 AM
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>Why do you think women are drawn to soldiers, cops, fighters, authority figures? You are so wrong it's not even funny. They are drawn to men in these careers because these careers have physical fitness standards/requirements and most of the men in these careers are required to be in-shape.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/24 08:12 AM
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Instagram is just advertising for onlyfans, buying followers on Instagram doesn’t mean someone is popular
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:15 AM
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Sorry, the only people lusting after “insta baddies” are women like you who spend their entire lives on social media. Literally no man I know even uses Instagram. I know it’s been a long time since you were in elementary school, but let me introduce you to a concept known as bandwagoning, that marketers use to make you think something is popular. Hint: some random model doesn’t really have 3 million people following her just to see her latest and greatest life update. The only person they are “i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:51 AM
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I'm an air traffic controller. Roughly 80% of my coworkers are married, and of those, roughly 33% of them have wives that either minimally work part-time/side work like realty or just don't work at all. If your wife is "demanding" an expensive car and large house, then you married the wrong woman, People can live modestly on 1 income, easily, but modestly is the key word. If she spends all her days browsing instagram and wanting to keep up with the kardashians, then it's a doomed relationship. e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:43 PM
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10/10 would wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:47 PM
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Right, she wrote a perfect post to describe “loser” men, incels, in an attempt to “teach us” via analogy, and she ended up creating the perfect waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:26 PM
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Exactly, you aren’t wrong at all. Never once have I asked or cared about how many friends a woman had before I dated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:23 PM
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Did you not read the paragraph after bullet point 3? He eliminated 95% of women with that one caveat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:21 PM
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Ah yes, great advice, tell the men not having sex, to get better at sex. So that more women will want to have sex with them, that’s amazing advice. Let me make sure to put that on my tinder profile … “Match with me, I am very good at the sex because I have a lot of it, and am well-practiced”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:45 PM
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Because I talk to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:43 PM
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Sorry, I'll grow 4 inches taller in my 40s, my bad, anything to make women happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:30 PM
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Because only women can have an abundance mentality like that. You can do whatever you want and it’ll just “work out alright” That isn’t how the world works for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 AM
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Oh thank you sage wise woman telling me the secrets to never break up again. All I needed was a “secure confident” woman, let me narrow my tinder matches from 1 out 100 to 1 out of 100,000
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:08 AM
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I'll try to stay respectful, to comply with the subreddit rules... But you're completely missing the point of the question as posed by OP. He's using it as an allegory for bad sex. He's describing a relationship that a women would find offensive, and are rightly expected to leave for and the metaphor is, that's what men are expected to "just deal with" in a relationship. She did anal in the past and doesn't want to now? Just deal with it. She used to give blowjobs and doesn't want to now? Just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:39 PM
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People in general have trouble seeing things from other people’s perspectives. Solipsism is incredibly prevalent in women and has worked to the benefit of the propagation of the species and isn’t considered a bad thing by society. IQ of under 80 is typically associated with being able to understand hypothetical scenarios. In this particular case, I’d argue that OP not being able to see things from the feminine perspective is worse than the woman responding in telling him that he is stupid becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:07 PM
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In red pill terminology this is referred to as “making yourself the prize”. For women, this comes naturally, for men, less than 5% of men are the prizes, and probably less than 1% of men ever adopt that mentality, usually it’s the super-celebrities like Leonardo DiCaprio, or Derek jeter that have thousands of women fighting to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:33 AM
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This is what OP doesn’t understand about women. Women won’t settle for less than what they want. They will just rather remain single. Even when single they will still have as much sex as they want. Men will put up with starfish sex and bad relationships. Women know they can replace a lukewarm man with one that will adore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:30 AM
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No, many/most men are not intimidated by “pressure” and also don’t understand the concept of “failing” there is no such thing. Yes. He may lose “a job” but then there are other jobs he can do. Losing one job may lead to forward advancement even vs stagnation. Women, being more risk averse, are more likely to be perfectly happy to stay with one employer for 20 years without advancement. Men are less likely to be happy about that situation. Men tend to work harder to provide for their families. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:26 AM
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I have a few Porsches, but it only gives me attention from men. I guess I was too autistic to pick up on the social cues that women actually prefer boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:11 PM
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Another problem with autistic people is that they tend to be very literal in interpreting what people say, and when it comes to sex and relationships, people very rarely literally describe what that's supposed to be like, so they may have a very childish view of relationships Yea, I definitely struggled with that and dating in general until I started to study seduction/dating starting at around 23. I finally lost my virginity at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:35 PM
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That's been my strategy most of my adult life from 25 (when I lost my virginity) until 40. After 40 it MOSTLY stopped working, because the women in the age range that mostly want to smash (18-29) look at 40 as a hard cutoff just like they look at under 6 feet tall as a hard cutoff on dating websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:32 PM
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but every now and then it rears its head in the form of a missed social cue How do you think men get sexual opportunities?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:30 PM
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more direct An asshole Don't cater to a man's emotional state Don't care about you or your feelings. expect maturity from their partners Demand more, provide less. more naive Don't bother you more prone to people please Nicer easier to manipulate Easier to get along with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:29 AM
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It's also a 400k a year job so she can leech off your salary, ideally divorcing you once she gets bored so she'll never have to work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:21 AM
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To use a vulgar slang term for it, you're trying to top from the bottom. Stop doing that, says the doctor the the patient
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:16 PM
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No, most men do not enjoy having constant fights and bickering for control. If you ask him to make a decision, just go along with his decision and stop second guessing. Whether that's something important like a big purchase decision, or it's something trivial like picking what you are going to eat tonight. It's very annoying (as a man) when a woman asks you what do you want, you decide, you tell her, and then she tries to tear down what you just said "no we just had KFC last month"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:14 PM
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Women are allowed to make jokes about vasectomies, but men can't talk about abortions. I guess that's why we should repeal the 19th.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:40 AM
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It’s not that they don’t want to be the main breadwinner, the truth is that women are never satisfied in “enough” so she thinks that if she isn’t the main breadwinner she would be happy if she made more. And if she is the main earner, she thinks she would be more happy with a man that makes more than she does. There is never an end to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:34 PM
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I make 220k a year in Ohio, I’ve been single for the past 2 years. I’m 42. So yes, there isn’t really a huge quality of life difference between like 100k and 200
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:38 AM
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So, you're actually dating a man and regularly having sex presumably. Describe to us again why this 4B thing is going to take off? (One of the 4 things in the 4b means you aren't dating, which you are dating, so you've already failed the 4B)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:16 AM
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Duh, women have to be protected from having their own opinions, if you don’t support murdering babies you aren’t a real woman, whatever that means…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:14 AM
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lol, lol, lol, Make abortions legal so that women will fuck me. Lololololololol If you’ve been on the subreddit long enough you’d realize how misogynistic that sounds. A) it presupposes that women want casual sex with you but b) women are too stupid to use contraception, but c) but is smart enough to realize that she can have unprotected sex as long as she can get an abortion later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:12 AM
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No, no, no: Clearly we need more gun control to prevent tragedies like this. Think of the children!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:34 PM
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Because sometimes what is important for society is what is more important than what makes you feel comfortable. I'd rather not have civilization collapse and the human race disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:35 AM
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That is absolutely pure feminist propoganda, female sex drive is nowhere near of that of male sex drive (on average). The fact that women have a huge amount of desire for 4 days a month doesn't compare to the constant need men feel 31 days a month... And this of course manifests itself in dead bedroom lesbian relationships as well as high std/promiscuity rates among the male homosexual population.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:46 AM
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Increase your sex drive by 1000% that is the difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:42 PM
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Except she doesn’t have control, she’s clearly stating a desire for children, that’s why someone would freeze their eggs. But being unable to find a partner they can be happy with with never go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:45 PM
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Statistically keep lying to yourself and your friends, there is a reason more women are on anti-depressants than ever before. Keep telling yourself you can freeze your eggs and science will help you negate biology. If you were truly happy without kids there would be no need to freeze your eggs. But you know that it’s not an ideal situation, you’d rather have kids, but you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:43 PM
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There has however, been studies on the rate of std transmission, which is going up. https://archive.cdc.gov/#/details?url=https://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2021/p0125-sexualy-transmitted-infection.html https://journals.lww.com/stdjournal/abstract/2021/04000/sexually_transmitted_infections_among_us_women_and.2.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:08 AM
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So “right ring religious nut jobs” are why abortions are banned in almost every single European country after 23 weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:35 PM
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Safe option meaning the guy has no other prospects, he's safe because no other woman would want him, and would take him first. Just like women pine after men that other women want : inversely : men want to be wanted by multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:08 AM
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Doesn’t matter if she doesn’t do it “a lot” they all do it. And they all do it with the same type of guy. Be that type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:56 PM
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The problem is every woman is wired the same, it’s ingrained biologically, like I said, it’s similar to looking at cleavage. If she doesn’t want to hook up with you casually, she isn’t going to want to have your babies in a relationship either. Both “good girls” and “bad girls” both will be attracted to a man who is a good “bullshitter” and a man who passes the shit tests. They just want to be in a relationship with a “bad man” who is “good to her”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:08 AM
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If you are getting casual sex with a woman, literally hooking up on the first time meeting, within a few hours, then she doesn’t care how much you make at all, you could literally make zero dollars, that is “alpha fucks” If she cares what you make, and makes you wait for sex, you might still get sex. But that is “beta bucks” One is preferable to the other. I’ll let you figure that one out on your own. Women are attracted to status, she thought you might be a lawyer, if you were a lawyer and made…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:15 PM
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air traffic control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:40 AM
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work a lot of overtime
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:13 AM
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As someone who owns a house and makes 200k a year, 3 Porsches, well that doesn’t sound too bad at all. Because u.s. women have the same “requirements”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:51 PM
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No, they want honesty AND they don’t want to fuck loser virgins. Correlation is not the same as causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:02 AM
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She isn't "openly" cheating on him. The dude suspects that she is cheating on him. He doesn't have solid proof. So she wants toe benefits of a relationship and also the benefits of being a 304. His friends are telling the man to treat her appropriately, and stop giving her a relationship, stop caring about her, stop trying to text her and give her emotional validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:30 PM
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OP is confused because OP doesn't think like a man. He's not "giving" anything to her. His friends are counseling him to get something without giving anything back in return. Be more greedy. Receive sex, enjoy sex, don't give her any feelings. Enjoy the sex with her, but do not catch feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:39 PM
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Technically this is a question for men, but I’m not the target group. I am glad I decided to learn what I needed to do to attract women and 17 years after I first lost my virginity at the age of 25 I’m still enjoying meeting and interacting regularly with new women. In fact, the vast quantity of men that have checked out has made it easier than ever to meet and have sex with women (for those that are direct and upfront, it’s like shooting fish in a barrel). Women are lonely, women want to be app…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:27 PM
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Median? lol, you want an average woman to settle for an average man? How will she get validation on her Instagram page with that kind of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:02 PM
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Duh, women good men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:01 PM
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I have the first currently with a small harem. I don't have the 2nd. I'd still say the first is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:18 AM
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Sorry, I'm only 5'9", 6 appearance, and only make 200k a year... too average for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:51 AM
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I'm 42. My experience isn't quite as "trivial" as it is for infps. But I don't struggle. I was an incel before the term was even well known, until I was 25, which would have been around 2008
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:51 PM
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Yes, I ended up finding books like "the game" and other PUA/seduction forums and learning how to flirt/attract women around the age of 24/25, which was 17 years ago at this point. The loneliness until then was absolutely crippling and led to a LOT of unhealthy behaviors and relationships in the decades after.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:34 PM
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Yes, I was so completely convinced that I could not understand how women worked or if they were interested or not interested because she ACTUALLY knew that I was an ugly loser but "to me" seemed happy that I asked her out and genuinely seemed interested, but was just too embarrassed/polite to tell me that herself, that she used her friend to tell to me because she was too scared to tell me herself (my thoughts, not her words), I became convinced that I was so clueless that it would be better to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:45 PM
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They are dying to be approached because it has stopped happening completely, and it’s literally impossible to make women happy. They asked to stop being approached, and now that it has happened, they are still unhappy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:09 AM
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lol, your wording is funny, because it’s true. Because every man that isn’t “attractive” is “repulsive” and there is no in-between for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:08 AM
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Boo hoo Go hop on tinder and then hop on a dick within an hour, little sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:06 AM
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2 stories in particular: The girl that had been near to my friend group, (her friend was dating my best friend) I asked to prom said yes and seemed happy about it. An hour later her best friend came up to me, called me an ugly loser and said that she was just being polite and she didn’t actually want to go with me. I didn’t ask any girl out for 7 years afterward. (I avoided talking to the girl I asked out ever again for the remaining 4 months of high school). My boss’s wife (1 year older than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:45 PM
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Well that’s why you’re going to have a team of legal experts and your friend and family watching the entire thing to ensure your safety throughout the encounter. Just the thought of that must be making you wet!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:25 PM
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Ah yes, the fact that the contractually agreed upon sex would not be able to be upheld by a judge is surely that which is keeping you from being aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:23 PM
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No, just that because you’re so turned on by certainty and safety, that the thought of a legally binding contract to engage in intercourse on a mutually agreed upon date in the future hashed out by our team of representatives (who will of course also ensure your safety and the terms of our agreement by witnessing the act and acting as your representatives to ensure your safety is paramount) would be your ideal situation. Or maybe it’s not “safety” and “certainty” that turns you on, because my of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:19 PM
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Same response for you as the other woman that responded to my comment, have your lawyer speak to my lawyer, I’m sure the thought it is already turning you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:56 AM
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Yea, you’re right, nothing makes a woman more wet than safety and security. Let’s draft up a legally binding contract to have sex on September 23rd and have 6 witnesses to ensure your well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:55 AM
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2 random words and a 4 digit number, it’s like having dejavu in the matrix, once you see the patterns they are hard to miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:24 AM
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All women get turned off by safety and certainty. What is attractive to a woman and what is arousing to a woman are often two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:21 AM
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it's an everquest thing, sz was sullon zek. Antarius was a similar sounding name to one of the main npcs Antonius Bayle. Yes, I am part polish, but that had nothing to do with the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:29 PM
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Many of the conveniences of our modern society only result from the efficiency gained from a population of 8 billion. If we go back to 1 billion, who delivers your cheap goods produced in Asia: No one. No one is the answer, and you go back to living like how people lived in the 1800s. Enjoy growing your own food.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:33 PM
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I strongly disagree as to if this is a "culture" problem. This is straight up brainwashing of the young. Children as young as 2 are subjected to "culture" that says that there are too many humans on the planet, that only bad people procreate and that good people don't have children. Yes, those other "capitalist" problems exist, yes hedonism is bad. But "socialist" cultural programming also encourages children to think that only selfish people reproduce, which is why even the most socialist count…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:31 PM
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There are women that I've fucked that I didn't know their name, their telephone number, or anything else about them, that I would never see them again ever. That's not about trust at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:25 PM
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It assumes that women trust all the men she is willing to fuck, which is absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:12 PM
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I think your bigger problem is that you are literally so oblivious that you think obvious bot accounts are actually real people The 10/10 hot chick that wants to find a guy to shoot a corn video for her onlyfans that is also a gamer girl? Yea, she's not a real person bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:19 AM
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Because women like you have raised a generation of men to think of themselves as defective women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:31 PM
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The flaw with your logic is that it assumes that "chad" lies to get into bed with a woman. I can assure you from first hand personal experience, when you are attractive enough, you don't have to lie about anything, women will ENCOURAGE you to have casual sex with them. You don't have to lie or hide what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:25 PM
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I mean, what exactly are you saying about leftists? He should try getting pegged by a woman and vote for kamala in order to better understand the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:05 AM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:32 PM
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I like @Hoe_math's take on the ick situation. There are 2 different categories of ick. Not enough masculinity OR too much femininity. And then there are various degrees of ick which tell you how unreasonable the woman is. If you don't know how to change a flat tire or are scared of a spider, those are relatively "normal" woman. But if she gets the ick because you ducked while getting shot at... those would be an "unreasonable" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:31 PM
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I was a virgin until I was 25. I've dabbled in an age gap relationship once... otherwise I've been pure "fuckboy" ever since. I'm 42 and still in that mindset. Congratulations women for building me this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:37 PM
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As someone who did go from 60k to 200k a year, that's just not true at all. You might think it's crass, you might think it's the "wrong" kind of attention from women, but they do absolutely notice the Porsche when you pull up. Look, if you choose to be a boring billy beta and invest that 750k a year in mutual funds so that you can retire early, well that isn't exciting to women. They want fun and excitement, and money can provide that, especially at the 750k a year level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:52 PM
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On the contrary. The top 10% richest people in the world is the exact same number of people as the top 10% hottest people in the world. Math.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:38 PM
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traditional "seduction" aka "pick up artists" can teach a man how to act confident, trick a woman into thinking the man is confident. It's basically "fake it till you make it" paint by numbers. And the best part is, once you've been laid a bunch, actual confidence can be achieved. You don't actually need stoicism or a composed demeanor to arouse women. It's great advice for relationships, it's great advice for life, but remaining stoic isn't how you get women to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:30 PM
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Yea, it’s not a subversion of anything. It’s literally just the “stereotypical” red pill narrative of women. Meet dominating alpha chad, reproduce. Meet nice guy Billy beta, raise Chad’s child. There isn’t anything “romantic” about it. It’s “reality”. I don’t read a lot of women’s fantasy novels (none, actually), although I have seen the occasional movie adaptation. I do recall there was a Nicholas sparks movie/book a few years ago that basically had this same narrative, except the alpha chad al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:11 PM
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https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819 Are you happy now, was it so hard for you to google for 5 seconds? To find the link to the article? The relavant conclusion: https://royalsocietypublishing.org/cms/asset/7777001f-e569-4c55-9203-65e953c2beab/rspb20171819f02.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:32 PM
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Let me guess, your argument that the physically abusive man that she chooses to procreate with isn’t actually Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:04 AM
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Yea, you’re not wrong, what do you want as a man, and how do you achieve it. That is male fantasy. Woman’s fantasy is how do I make the worst possible decision and never be held accountable, aka this book.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:38 AM
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Well it’s far more than that, woman chooses alpha chad, regrets life choices, Billy beta comes to rescue her and is cucked, preemptively. It’s red pill horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:23 AM
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I mean, the entire movie/book is red pill horror movie/story. Woman fucks an alpha chad, gets pregnant and then settles for a blue pill Billy beta to help raise the bastard. Any man that watches this movie fantasizes about getting cucked. So yes, 100% it’s the white knight narrative that you wrote about, save the woman from her poor decision making in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:20 AM
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exactly, she wanted a guilt free hoe phase, I bet the number of guys she fucked was closer to 3 in 2 months than to 1
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 07:31 AM
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No, being wealthy gives you a greater chance of hooking up. Just like being attractive gives you a greater chance of hooking up. Social media distorts attractiveness just like it distorts wealth. Neither being attractive nor being wealthy is the norm. But if you want to have a lot of short term casual encounters, then it’s better to have both than neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:55 PM
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But wait, to take your worldview into account, not everyone single person on the planet is a 9/10 hot attractive model. How did our mid 6/10 or 4/10 parents ever get laid. It’s weird to me that you can so easily acknowledge that looks matter, everyone values looks, and yet not everyone that gets laid looks good. In fact, the average person… only looks average. But yet when it comes to money your (good) logic just completely falls apart and you reduce down to “fee fees” So yes, looks matter AND w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:24 AM
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Wow, crazy that this chick has been raped like 30+ times from 30+ different men, I wonder what the common denominator in those scenarios is? Consenting to sex and then regretting it later is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:37 PM
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Sure, if you don't want to have sex, that's fine. And I'm sure when women suggest it, they are mostly referring to men that they don't want to have sex with. But, if your goal, as a man, is to have sex, that is bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:37 PM
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"Duh, OF COURSE women are attracted to super high status males, are degenerates who will do anything for drugs and completely ignore misogynism when said by high-status males." -blue pill The cognitive dissonance they must constantly feel is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:09 AM
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42 year old man here, still horny quite regularly. Sure, not as much as when I was a teenager or in my 20s, but it still happens daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:06 PM
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Hey, listen, someone has to be ... the bottom 15% That's how percentiles work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:19 AM
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I left out one of the requirements in my original post, I edited to narrow it down further, otherwise my post is still the same. (personal preference girls that are a 6-7, beach girl, red hair flower dress, busty pink shirt in front of grass, yoga pants wood floor) The girls that I feel most perfectly encapsulates a 5 would be striped shirt standing in front of a hill, batgirl outfit, big forhead. Some of the girls that I feel most perfectly encapsulates a 3 would be, weightloss progression, bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:22 AM
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AI answer According to the CDC, the average American woman over the age of 20 is 63.5 inches tall and weighs 170.8 pounds, with a waist circumference of 38.7 inches: https://app.mybodygallery.com/#/?height=163&weight=77&pant=40&age=30 I scrolled through about 3 pages of women, I'd say they range from a 3 through a 7 (at best), so yea, here is a good gallery of "average real woman" from my personal redpill perspective from a site dedicated to showing what real women with real measurements look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:08 AM
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No. Stop with your egalitarian nonsense. That's not how the natural world works, and it isn't how the human world works either. Men and Women are not the same, stop treating men like defective women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:02 AM
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well, you gotta tiptoe around the ToS of most tech companies these days... people unaliving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:14 PM
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Ah yes, the classic: Well we've tried feminism, and it isn't working and making women happy. Maybe we should try even more feminism. "Men should do more chores, and women should work harder at being girl-bosses that break up with the men they are dating because they deserve everything in life, don't settle." Fuck, once you see the intentional destruction of society, from the point of view that anything that results in less happiness, less children, less relationships, less humans... it's impossi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:45 PM
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I have a different take compared to most of the other commenters. It's because women lie about their body count, they can't be trusted. They have no way of knowing if you're being serious or if you're one of the MOST women that claims to be a virgin/ low body count, but then actually turns out to actually be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:54 AM
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Yea, absolutely, treyvon the drug dealer doesn't deserve trust, and yet women do it over and over, and the women are DUMB for giving their trust to someone untrustworthy. They should do better. Single women don't have kids with the most trustworthy men, that's not valued by women at all (don't lie and claim it is). Attractiveness, status, wealth, power... those are what women want to procreate with. No woman in the history of the planet has ever said "that man always pays his rent on time, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:07 AM
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The planet will survive. Don't worry about the planet. Humanity, the species, is far more important. You've been fed a lot of brainwashing. Our planet has existed as an entire molten lava surface and has also been frozen completely over for millions of years, but human civilization has occupied less than 0.01% of the time of the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:03 AM
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5'7" is the global average for men. 5'9" in the u.s. 11" would be 4 inches taller than the average. it's roughly taller than 75% of men in the united states and it's roughly higher than 90% globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:18 AM
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it's called "a humble brag" and men do it also From grammarly Another typical way that humblebragging is expressed is alongside a complaint. Saying “I have to miss happy hour to pick up my Mercedes from the detailer after work” may seem like an annoyance to the speaker, but to anyone listening, this is nothing but a classic humblebrag. If it’s not necessary to mention your fancy car in conversation, then you probably shouldn’t. For the OP, she claims that his big dick didn't add anything to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:06 AM
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all the negatives you laid out... like being 5'11? I know this is the internet where if you aren't 6 foot you don't care, but in reality being taller than 90% of men on the planet... is still pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:05 AM
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No way... women don't do that... but man you should have seen my ex, she was a multi-millionaire, it was SO annoying, she was ALWAYS away at work doing doctor things... and buying me shit... god, so annoying /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:04 AM
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Look, I know it's stupid to ask for pictures, but I bet your 4 is probably in actuality a 7. So he's taller than average, better looking than average, smarter than average, and has a huge penis... and that's to have sex with 1 woman? Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:00 AM
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Humans are one of the few species on the planet with hidden ovulation. Our entire species is predicated on women being able to hide and obfuscate their intentions. It's a "feature" not a "bug"... YOU not being able to read the signs is ... the entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:03 PM
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the switch-flip happens with women when they stop loving a man also. It's like they are resentful you "wasted" their time and so they want revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:37 PM
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lol, I've enjoyed over the last decade or so that I've been on reddit every single post I've ever read where "that only works on insecure women"... So you mean ALL women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:01 PM
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The higher social status women are just better/smarter about hiding how many men they've slept with. They don't stop banging multiple men, but they keep it better hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:59 PM
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That's how I was 17 years ago (#1), and yet social skills can be learned and practiced. And the funny thing is, once you fix #1, all of a sudden the fat disgusting ugly women .... aren't a target anymore, because regular non-disgusting, non-ugly, non-fat women give you attention/sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:57 PM
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sure, 90% of men are unattractive to you. That's the entire point. That small 10% of men that you find attractive are also attractive to 80% of women. That's what causes men at the top to be able to date multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:54 PM
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Plead ignorance all you want, but if you're on a subreddit like this, you know that the top 20% of men are being pursued by the top 60% of women. Many many men have multiple options. You can pretend to be ignorant all you want, but just because it sounds disagreeable, doesn't mean you won't do it. It's not like I discuss the other women I'm dating when I'm with another woman. Most women want sex a few times a month and I want sex a few times a week. I don't ask what you do when I'm not around, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:53 PM
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So... of the subset of passport bros. But not the young ones, or the ones that are just there for work, but specifically going to asia to find "love" because they are delusional, AND they are 60+ and unattractive... I mean, you must be literally talking about ... hundreds of men in the entire world, perhaps even a thousand, in a planet of billions. Most passport bros are not delusional. You're talking about a tiny fraction of a small subculture of men. Essentially a "blue pilled" man (she will l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:23 PM
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And in the west, the transactional offer equivalent woman would be 20x as much, as numerous other people have said, something > nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:24 PM
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I think your general premise is completely wrong. Passport bros absolutely know they are getting a gold-digger. They know that relationships are transactional. They are just trying to get better bang for their buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:19 AM
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The problem is there are humans that have been actively campaigning for the death of humanity for the last 50 years. And the bigger problem is that they are now the ones in charge of our planet. Even in this thread you found someone who was likely taught from a very young age, perhaps before they could even read, that more humans = evil and less humans = good. (not to throw him under the bus, but gymbrotrt) It's already too late for our civilization. We have 3 generations already indoctrinated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:39 AM
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raise their boys to be girls. raise their boys to be inferior girls. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:36 AM
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They are complaining because they want MORE of those men who pumped and dumped them. They want to spend more time with those men. For example, if you go to McDonald’s and order a quarter pounder, and a mcchicken and you only get your mcchicken, you are going to be pissed that you didn’t get what you want, but you’ll still eat that mcchicken and you’ll still be happier than if you were hangry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:07 PM
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Hey, when she is wearing skin tight yoga pants at the gym it’s to streamline her performance and increase her gains!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:27 AM
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Oh, those poor poor women, they had sex with an attractive person, that must be terrible, those poor poor women. Dude, women enjoy sex with attractive men just like men would enjoy sex with an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:56 AM
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Man… that’s actually a really good question. I wish I could give a short easy answer. Personally, I started learning with learning pick-up artistry aka seduction ex: the book “the game” and forums for men to talk about PUA, but that was written almost 20 years ago and I’m not sure would be quite as relevant in todays age. But it would still be an entertaining book to read, because I think it does put you into the mindset of a person that wants to improve their sex life, and if you can emulate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:47 PM
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You need to vet your sources better, just because it’s written in a book, doesn’t mean it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:49 AM
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Yea, I'd include one night stands as well as friends with benefits as well as sneakylinks. One night stand is obvious, I think you and I could agree that it counts as casual. Casual means low effort. In this case, the amount of effort is "effort required by the man". I know it's difficult/impossible for women to view the world from a male perspective, and I'm honestly not trying to be condescending about that, but it's important to understand that particular aspect of male sexuality for this par…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:33 PM
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The problem is you think you as a man get to decide who is and who isn't a chad. WOMEN are the ones who decide who is alpha and who is beta. Just like men are the ones that rate women on the scale of 1-10... women also rate men. And it's the women's scale that determines where you end up. https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=Rkq8P9BkuRgDxqdo&t=594 For me, I stopped 100% caring about anything in the security side, and focused 100% of my time and attention towards the things that build what hoe math ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:26 PM
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low inhibition is a direct side effect of high testosterone. Testosterone can be increased by building more muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:05 PM
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I was a virgin who had never even kissed a girl until 25. I'm now 41 and I've had sex with 3 women this past week including one girl that I met and fucked with only a small amount of time talking. I do not know my exact body count but I'd estimate it somewhere around 450ish I'm not tall (5'9") I'm only decently well off (200k a year). And I'm not super aesthetically pleasing (large amount of facial asymmetry, reddit rated me as a 5, since that time I've gained about 30lbs and another 5 years) So…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:01 PM
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It's also the algorithm. You won't even see the hottest women, because they know it's just a waste of your/their time. You see the hotter women / bots that men swipe left on because you yourself are not ranked highly by the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:33 PM
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yea... if she won't fuck within the first date, best to just not even put in any effort at all. Your definition of casual sex is obviously not my definition of casual sex. You say the words "casual sex" but it you actually describe a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:31 PM
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If women were so interested in raising other people's children, more than 1% of women would ever adopt a child. It's hypocritical because they want to encourage behavior that they themselves are not willing to do. They would just be ok if hospitals handed out random babies at the hospital after you give birth. One baby is just as good as any other right? Obviously that isn't true, and it's intellectually dishonest to argue that it could happen. A mother want to 1000% ensure that the baby they ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:22 PM
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So… I need to deconstruct what you wrote because I “am” a man who has had a lot of casual sex with women. Women that enjoy casual sex… typically are not worried about sexual safety, if a woman is sufficiently attracted to you, no condoms, no std test requirement, the very first night she meets you, women make rules for beta males, and they break rules for alpha males. She may “not ever kiss on the first date” until she is, and how very quickly she will say she doesn’t kiss on the first date befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:52 AM
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Novelty wears off very quickly. I don’t even remember the names of the first few women I had sex with anymore (41 now, lost virginity at 25).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:44 AM
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Even at 400+ women, if I hook up with a woman and the sex is REALLY GOOD I will find myself thinking about her, and wanting a relationship with her, and continuing to see her. I just had sex tonight with someone I just met, beautiful woman, significantly younger, absolutely amazing sex, very passionate, she enjoyed, I enjoyed, it was great. Objectively she is a 8 in looks, maybe a 9 if she happens to matches your preferences (black, in shape, smallish tits, skinny, cute face, flawless skin, very…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:35 AM
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You’re right. It is difficult for me to make the point without being insulting. Therefore I’ll let men that are more intelligent than me explain it for me. https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/28/insanity-plea/amp/ While it may offend men’s sensibilities and morals, hypergamy doesn’t care what your preconceived notions are about what constitues Alpha according to the male perspective. Women are attracted to Men with a capacity for dominance, by order of degree. How that dominance manifests itself…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 05:48 PM
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I’d argue that I was asking a legitimate question. The OP posits something I would consider very naive. You can tone police me if you want, that’s your prerogative as admin/moderator and claim that I could have been more friendly about my assertion. Doesn’t change the fact that I’d consider women finding “bad boys” attractive as pretty basic common sense. If you’re very young it makes more sense for you to not understand something so basic to the way that women think. If you’re just now discover…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 05:26 PM
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Look, you don’t have to be a perfect man to have success, but it is a competition, if you aren’t in the top 20% of men (overall) then… start. I’m average height and decent fitness but way above average income and also in confidence/experience. Ideally you’d be excellent in 3 out of those 4 categories. If not, do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:41 AM
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I watched it for about 5 minutes. Despite being a "experts" they answer every single question with "I feel" and qualify every single statement at all with "I feel" The only thing you can actually learn from watching this is they are definitely biologically female. Anyway, the key takeaway is ... be the man that "makes her go mental when he doesn't text her back" and be the man that women are competing for. But yes, they are definitely hitting the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:12 PM
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Complaining gives them power, so therefore they complain about it. For as many men that are red pill aware, there are 3x as many white knights and simps ready to defend madams honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:22 AM
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I’ll agree with you that Paul is objectively the best choice for a relationship (if I were a woman) but as someone kind of similar to Adam except with 5x the salary and not interested in football) many women do actually pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:56 AM
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The only woman who is absolutely zero no possible way is Jessica. Once per month isn’t a relationship. May is the most desirable for me, but both Mary and Susan would be acceptable for either a long term or short term relationship, respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:34 AM
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Actually I think it’s equally likely that he is Paul, and curious why he never has sex, but all his friend group (the other guys) do. He’s the only one described as inexperienced, and the post reads like it was written in a very analytical way, almost autistic. Edit: nevermind. I went through his post history, it took roughly 15 seconds to find out he is a slob and also has autism. So yea, he’s Paul in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:24 AM
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About a decade ago 2 girls I was fucking set me up with their virgin friend because they thought she was guaranteed to have a good time with me. Didn’t tell me beforehand, we ended up dating for about a month, but had absolutely zero in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:22 AM
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Yea, I don’t know why OP posted this, but I’d assume that was the reasoning… maybe? Trump derangement syndrome is real. And a lot of women do actually pick Adam in the real world, as long as he doesn’t put his politics in his dating profile. But don’t expect any woman that hangs out on the left-wing cesspool that is Reddit to ever admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:19 AM
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Dude, trust me, as being the closest to Adam myself (except I don’t like football and I make 5x as much) absolutely women will pick Adam a lot in the real world. You just have to hide your politics, and after they’ve had sex a few times they don’t care who you vote for anymore, they start to want to shoot guns with you, adopting the more conservative views over time. But yes, if you put on your dating profile that you support Trump you are instantly cutting off 60% of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:17 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinderella_effect Oh I’m very much aware of its existence, I had both a stepmother and a stepfather growing up. Boomers were just literally the most selfish generation in existence. I’d rather not subject the next generation to that. If society won’t punish women for making mistakes, I’ll do my very very small, insignificant part in correcting the problem and refuse to reward their behavior. As far as your original links. I absolutely agree with the link to rollo,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:51 PM
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To tack onto your comment. 97% of single mothers are not widows. 3% are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:52 PM
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To tack onto your comment. 97% of single mothers are not widows. 3% are. I’d totally be willing to date a widow. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:52 PM
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It absolutely is, I was fed a constant barrage of it throughout the 80s/90s/00s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:46 PM
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The stereotype exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:44 PM
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Simple: no woman wants to raise another woman’s kids, so why should I as a man? If you want to date single mothers so badly, go date one yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:44 PM
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They have sex with those "elite men" which they then consider "being pursued" A groupie having sex with her favorite guitar player in her favorite band might the highlight of her decade. The guitar player will have never ever learned her name, let alone forgotten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:06 AM
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I'm not trying to shame women. I'm trying to shame the people brainwashing children that there are too many humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:29 AM
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Actually that's no longer true. Most women will end up not having at least 1 kid. https://carsey.unh.edu/publication/more-us-women-childbearing-age-fewer-have-given-birth#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20there%20were%2021.9,in%202016%20(Figure%201). https://www.cbsnews.com/news/us-birth-rate-drops-record-low-2023-after-pandemic-uptick/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/241538/percentage-of-childless-women-in-the-us-by-ethnic-group/ We just passed the 50% (aka most) of all women in the u.s. will not repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:24 AM
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The religion of environmentalism has a strong grip on society. If I suggest that the population is collapsing on most places on reddit, I'll receive a lot of pushback that there are far too many humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:17 AM
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Come on OP, disingenuous much? “That doesn’t jive with my experiences though” “What they say after you leave the room is a different story” So… what you’re saying is that you were lying in your original post, because you HAVE experienced women talking shit about other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:16 PM
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If you blame women for anything, in academia, your funding is cut off, even if something is 95% women and 5% men, you’re still going to have to say something like “both sexes demonstrate prejudice due to the patriarchy” if you want to keep making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:13 PM
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The women that go to clubs and get smashed by dudes. Are too busy having sex to post on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:17 AM
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Yes. And for women, every time they are going out to the club they are trying to get laid. She was confused. You had a small peak into the life of a woman. If she knew that she was leaking info to a man who “doesn’t get it” she would deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:13 AM
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Yea. You write like a woman too. I imagine that comes across when you are trying to flirt with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:23 PM
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Sorry, I forgot to include the most important part, and learn what is arousing to women. But yes, just doing that absolutely bare minimum basic shit will get you into the top 30% literally 70% of men are overweight and like 45% obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:07 PM
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No, you were right, it is the OP that is wrong. Skinner.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:44 PM
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That’s one of the more stupid takes I’ve ever read. Even 6,3 born into generational wealth Chaddius the 3rd still needs to try or he gets nothing. If a “below average” man like myself can participate and have a great life and participate in hookup culture (even if I didn’t start until way later in life because I misunderstood social and sexual dynamics), then yes you should absolutely try. If I can go from virgin at 24 to hundreds of bodies by 40, then there is hope for any man. But not with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:00 PM
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Red pill doesn’t take biblical ideas and twist them. It takes the idea on how to get laid, and then presents them to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:51 AM
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I'd argue that you have miscategorized "prescriptive" redpill, which is actually still just descriptive. IF you exhibit these behaviors, THEN you can and will get laid, is still just a description of reality. If you choose to not want to get laid, that's on you. Redpill as opposed to being an incel or MGTOW is far preferable. You don't "have" to follow the red pill, but you aren't owed anything. Men who ask redpill for advice come at it from the perspective of "I want X to happen" So the masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:31 AM
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Best part about the redpill is that it teaches you the reality of how sad the current state of men is. Workout, dress well, learn to be social, it’s all easy enough to change. Something like 30% of all men at the age of 18 are still virgins and it’s still like 5% by 29. Below average doesn’t mean “give up on life” it means “try harder if you want success” and of course success changes as you age too. When I was 24 and a virgin, success meant going on a date and kissing a girl. As a 41 year old s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:15 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDxee-gmHtM Some random advice for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:05 PM
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If we’re at the point that the provisioning capability of men is so useless that even a man with 200 BILLION dollars is less “valuable” than a random gym bro 20 year old high school graduate working at shake shack…. And he wants to hop on the juice so he can tren harder and bang more chicks. Then yes, I am Elon musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:33 AM
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Look, there are literally thousands of women at this point that have fucked drake and machine gun Kelly has a literal harem where he has orgies quite regularly. I’m capable of acknowledging a reality regardless of if it applies to me or not. Elon musk, for example, has had children with 3 different (arguably attractive) women at this point, and yet somehow also still has time to play Diablo 4. Your argument that I can’t be a top tier man and also play a fairly “mainstream” video game is pretty l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:26 AM
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It’s not just at the Olympics, every single college town every single night in the United States, young women are going out having casual sex, they may not be banging OP, but they are enjoying short term situationships and one night stands. I just used that as one example of some young people with “high testosterone” and “high level of competition” OP said women don’t like men with high testosterone, I produced one example of men with documented high levels of testosterone having documented leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:30 AM
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I hate that I have to explain this pretty regularly, BUT... Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks wasn't/isn't used to describe 2 opposite men, the Chad that gets laid and the Billy who goes to his room in his parent's house to go jerk off. Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks are the 2 different types of men that women will fuck. If you don't have money, then you might as well build muscles. When a woman is young and in her peak fertility years, she is MOST aroused/attracted to men that are pure Alpha. And when she…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:38 PM
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Lol, you're so wrong it's sad. Of COURSE women want an extremely high libido and aggressive competitive men. The Olympics every year turns into basically an orgy or athletes and celebrities because the women can't keep their hands off the top tier men. 160,000 condoms were given out for free in Tokyo to the athletes. 160,000. Let that number sink in for what is roughly 3,000 athletes. https://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/other-sports/inside-sex-mad-olympic-village-24602344 They want men at the TOP of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:30 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjKNbfA64EE Is this you? Are you nothing more than the brand of deodorant you wear and your workout routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:35 AM
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You've really hit a nerve with the women of this subreddit with this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:31 AM
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Definitely some aspects of evolutionary psychology going on there. Women are aroused by high testosterone. Dude looks like he’s got an abundance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:24 PM
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People like Rollo still are creating content, writing books... but instead of posting on reddit, or on his blog, it's just that it's on youtube these days due to monetization. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DEJ_NmqHbg You see a lot of redpill truths being espoused on other podcasts like "fresh and fit" or "whatever" or https://www.youtube.com/@MichaelSartain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:53 AM
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Nice summary of what Redpill is. DGAF is far more than just what you wrote about it. If a chick ghosts you, DGAF. If you haven't talked to a girl for 4 days after you fucked, you DGAF. If a girl turns you down, it doesn't matter, DGAF. It's one of the things that being slightly spergy can help with. You'll never have the rythm of a guy who spends 10,000 hours dancing in night clubs with women, but you don't need it. Also, don't forget about Dark Triad traits. You don't have to be a full-blown ps…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:46 AM
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That's absolutely true, it's roughly a 90/10 ratio in most online nerdy communities, 80/20 in the MOST gender equal hobbies that I have if we're talking about popular mainstream games.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:41 PM
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Can't argue with the OP when I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:39 PM
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Don’t forget the advice to be more attractive, no one ones to be with someone unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:52 PM
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no dating allowed, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:38 PM
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Women are only ever looking for an excuse to disqualify you. If she logs into her Instagram and sees you only have like 300 followers, she's going to disqualify you and swipe her finger a few inches to go back to drooling over another guy with 300,000.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 03:40 PM
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I responded to your original post with the original link.. The most popular individual in our four cities, a 30-year-old woman living in New York, received 1504 messages during the period of observation, equivalent to one message every 30 min, day and night, for the entire month. Now multiply 1504 messages by .4 to account for a 40 year old woman. That's 601. But then multiple that 601 by .3 to account for her being black... 180 messages in a month. If she's 40, and black (and highly desirable a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:56 AM
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That graph is so flawed. It's based on the most desirable woman being 1. And the most desirable man also being rated a 1. The problem is that the Most desirable woman has 20x the prospects as the most desirable man. edit: https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aap9815 I went to the source. The most popular individual in our four cities, a 30-year-old woman living in New York, received 1504 messages during the period of observation, equivalent to one message every 30 min, day and night, for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:43 AM
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Watch the whatever dating podcast sometime, they have a bumble section where the women swipe through dating profiles. For one, most women are only swiping on the top 10% of men, for 2, they are ALL swiping on the same top 10% of men. You're either drowning it it, or it's a desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:41 AM
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Worse, most "normal women" (ie: 5s) post cleavage shots on instagram, get 7 men drooling on it and then wonder why no one loves them because they ALSO see the women posting the same image getting 100 dudes drooling for the simps. The ones you see are the ones you are looking at. It's turning men into women in that aspect. Unfairly judging women that "look normal" and they expect 18" waist and 38DDD and filtered flawless skin. So the women stop going out, they stop interacting with men (because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:26 AM
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The first and 2nd rule of fight club is to not talk about fight club. Rules that the creator himself broke by inviting you to the club. It’s an allegory to teach the indoctrinated simps that rules don’t apply, the rules that you follow and break are done so arbitrarily. In order to break the feminine conditioning, you must first understand that rules are allowed to be broken in order to gain power. Once Tyler understands that the club members have begun to internalize that, because the club has …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 07:25 PM
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the bad news: women are easily influenced by new trends and whatever is the latest in-fashion. The good news: women are easily influenced by new trends and whatever is the latest in-fashion. Last month it was the bear, this month it seems to be not being friends with their boyfriends, 4 months ago it was icks, etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:57 AM
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I agree that humans are biologically wired to help women and support women both physically and emotionally and your comment just now is one example of that. If a woman did the same thing to a boyfriend, you wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:56 AM
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structural, institutional sexism is bad. Unless it supports women. Look, that's kind of like suggesting that whoever asks out the other person should pay for the date, it's sounds fun and egalitarian to say, but the reality is it still forces men to pay 90% of the time. The language can be gender-neutral and yet still biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:58 AM
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Hmm. I guess I was wrong. Your issues are that you are living at home AND you're insecure. Fail to launch harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:44 AM
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I like the hoe_math take on "icks" Women will get an ICK for either things that make you "less masculine" or "more feminine" (because they are 2 different things) and then he rates them on a scale of how unreasonable the woman is who got the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:18 AM
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I was kicked out of my house when I turned 18 years old, before I had graduated high school. My grandmother took me in and helped make sure I did my final year of high school. I'd highly recommend you stop sucking on your mom's tit and grow a pair and take a risk living away from home. You're already "slow to launch" as the kids these days call it. I don't know you at all, I have only ever read 1 paragraph about you. But just based on this limited knowledge, which is about what you'd get from da…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:00 AM
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I'm 42, 5'9", slightly above average face, full head of hair, chubby, zero friends outside of the internet, makes 200k a year and not much contact with my family. And ... I do ok, although I had a rough start, virgin until I was 25 and discovered "the game" and PUA community, and then I had a string of bad relationships until I discovered redpill, so it's easy to assume that people better off than me can do better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:55 PM
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The idea that he’d be better off just interacting with women in his near vicinity who also despise a core aspect of who he is just limits his options. Are you seriously asking? or was that sarcasm? I honestly can't tell. But I'm terrible at social signals and humor. But even I could feel the resentment and seething anger you have over the issue, it comes across in your writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:52 PM
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97% of the time, it works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:48 PM
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I have used, throughout the last 15 years... Tinder, PoF, okcupid, meetme, Hinge, Bumble, Craigslist, OkCupid, and one other app that was really popular back in the day on the iphone 3GS when it first launched but I can't remember, wikipedia tells me it might have been highlight? Regardless, it was a good competitor to okcupid before tinder existed because it sorted people by distance first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:46 PM
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Absolutely I see us returning to feudalism, and that's a basic result of the extreme income inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:54 AM
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The ones you see at the gym are largely comprised of the top 20% of men. The ones that have checked out don't care. AF/BB is used by the redpill to describe the 2 different types of men used by women for sex. AF are used for their genetics/their looks/for fun. BB are used for their resources/emotional validation. Women today get all the validation they need online, and they don't need resources from men either. So the only option left for a young man is to become AF for her, which means becoming…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:51 AM
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I think that’s the biggest problem with society today, these women think they can just hop on tinder at the age of 35 and find a single rich tall handsome 37 year old single man who has been cryogenically frozen for the last 17 years while she has been out living a party lifestyle. And then she’ll get married and pop out 2.3 children and live happily ever after, and statistics say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:01 AM
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Once a term has entered the cultural zeitgeist, the dating market updates, men have to adapt or die. Once "negging" became mainstream you were no-longer allowed to tease a woman or make jokes about it or you'd be accused of it. So you just have to adapt. Implement the redpill, and never admit to reading the red pill. Women want natural alphas, not someone who has to learn it later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:40 AM
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exactly, and then the conclusion is that people are willing to date 1 tier down... but they don't really want to skip down 2 tiers ever (both men and women) And going down a tier is not ideal, ideally they go up a tier, but they will sometimes give up if they aren't getting what they want from the tier above. AND YES I understand that means some attractive women would rather date a woman than date an attractive man, and just get some occasional D from a 99% male on the side. I've actually been i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:41 AM
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I think it's important to finish the hierarchy when descriping it. HV men > attractive women > normal woman > attractive man > unattractive women > average man > unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:01 AM
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There are far more studies that prove that you can't trust the words that come out of a woman's mouth. If she's speaking, it's to manipulate. If you'd like, I could come up with at least a dozen, I think you can google on your own, but ... For example: here is one https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9837889/ Despite consistently reporting poorer health, women universally outlive men. We examine whether gender differences in lived circumstances considered, and meaning attributed to SRH b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:11 AM
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Actually it's always the reverse with me, I turn UP the asshole-ness up if I want a relationship. If I'm bored and I want to end things, and I'd rather just play video games for a few months/years I'll just stop being an asshole completely and that's a great way to get a woman to break up with you. edit: before you respond, blah blah blah I've already heard it before, you just must not be dating the right kind of woman, etc etc, i've heard it all before, all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:54 AM
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I didn't have my first relationship until the age of 26. It didn't last very long, only a few weeks, but I learned important lessons. Between 27-34 I had 4 different 6-18month long relationships, and then from 35-39 I had a 4 year long relationship. I'm 41 now. I'd highly encourage you not to apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Shortcomings can be compensated for. The peak for male attractiveness/desirability doesn't even START until the age of 30. But even before 30 you'll start …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:09 AM
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Oh, my bad, I didn't know the only definition of a successful relationship is the one that doesn't end until the day you die, which means we're all doomed. Except you, because your flair says you're married, and we all know that marriage is forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:55 AM
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I gave you more practical advice in the other comment, but I'll continue the line here, the other comment thread talking about advantages and disadvantages is a good one also. Learn to be aloof, it's ok to be a little bit of an asshole, and sometimes it's better just to not say anything. As redpill would say, work on your mission. If you're a millionaire, women are able to look past a few problems like social-awkwardness. FWIW I was a virgin until I was 25, it IS possible to learn social skills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:32 PM
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Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Did she date a man who "cares about not hurting other people with what they say"? No, she literally just told you what EXACTLY you would need to do to date her, and you took it the complete opposite and wrong. In her entire paragraph the only thing that even HINTS that it was a negative behavior is the one little word "but".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:29 PM
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Stop wearing your autism so openly. Don't talk about it, don't think about it, blend in. If you can't, then you won't ever have a relationship. If you're able to mask it well enough, then to the rest of the world it's like you aren't even autistic. It's like CCW, concealed means concealed. Guess what, you aren't a disney princess in a magical ice kingdom, you don't have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:24 PM
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it's also due to being horny. The trope is that MEN think differently when we are horny (zen budist monks after we cum, horndogs until then), but the reality is that women become completely different people all-together. I've straight up had many multiple women (10+ incidence over my life so while not the majority, fairly common) want me to continue fucking them IMMEDIATELY AFTER I cum before putting on a second condom (if I pulled off the condom and cum all over them), or if I make them cum fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:57 PM
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I know you flaired this as debate, but I honestly think this is more of a question for women. As a redpill man, I think of it as a skinner response and huge red flag. she makes the good man wait because she's been pumped and dumped by other men that she gave it up early too. classical conditioning. and a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:50 PM
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speak for yourself, I enjoy dating and being around submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:47 PM
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without immigration the u.s. population would already be shrinking. If you aren't in a location where they are being shipped to, you'll see signs of that decline happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:26 PM
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Oh no, I’m a sexist and homophobe, why not complete the trifecta and call me a racist extreme-right while you are at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:11 AM
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Ok, last point I’ll make on this, and then I’m gonna move on. A) I do think you were implying that previous male encounters is why the women are now lesbians or bisexual, especially based on your other replies to other comments. You can deny it now if you want, but the implication was clear. B) This information IS based on a cdc survey. Believe all women is a lie and malicious propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:10 AM
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No, deliberate misinterpretation of the data is what you are doing. You are coming up with assumptions (not conclusions) that can not be drawn from this data set at all. Your REAL argument (which is what all the red pill latched onto as you noted): is that women become lesbians or bisexual AFTER experiencing violence by men. This data is neither intended to show that, nor doesit show that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:01 AM
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Woah, women drink, women are drugged, but not men drink and men are drugged? How biased can you possibly be? I don’t think you are arguing this in true faith. I answered all of your question, but you will not answer mine. If bisexual women experience violence at 18x the rate of heterosexual women, where are those extra sources of violence coming from? You are ignoring the “low” rates of domestic violence perpetrated against heterosexual women, and I think it’s important that you understand why y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:51 AM
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One last point, but it is a different point all-together. We are still spending an inordinate amount of time and attention talking about 2.5% of the population. 97% of people identify as straight (according to the government and your source) 97% of the resources in our lives, including your time and my time, should therefore be spent talking about issues affecting 97% of the population. I don’t think you spend even 50% of your time and attention talking about heterosexual men or women. You shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:50 AM
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However, to refute your main argument. If a woman has both male and female partners, she is not a lesbian. She is bisexual. I don’t care what societies current identification politics says regarding this issue, cancel me all you want. If she is both fucking and romantically involved in both male and female relationships, that’s the definition of bisexual, not a lesbian. As you said, and I’ll believe you, that bisexual women experience DV at 19x the rate of heterosexual women, where are these ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:31 AM
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“Deliberate obfuscation” A) you have provided zero evidence that the data is “deliberately” misleading. B) you have provided zero evidence, actually you have provided evidence against your own arguement, that the data is obfuscated. Yes, the data is biased, of course it is, because society is biased, it is biased in favor of women, particularly in a legal/crime context, which is where this data is (mostly) drawn from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:25 AM
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The actual point is you think that the most domestic violence amongst lesbian relationships is caused by men and that the statistics are intentionally manipulated to make women look worse than they are, that actually women are the biggest victims, when they are often not, more often than not they are actually the perpetrators. Spend enough time on subreddits like /r/iamthemaincharacter and you will see a large number of women getting away with hitting men, with no legal nor societal repercussion…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:14 AM
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It's a reprehensible claim. Hiring women to beat up other women to make them like men more is downright barbaric and how dare you suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:47 AM
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I was born this way ... baby... oh wait, you mean it's actually from childhood trauma? Wait, which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:45 AM
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Shhh, too edgy and logical for this audience, let them keep their platitudes and cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:24 PM
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Wait until you have the same realization about saving the rain forest, climate change (what does soda pop have to do with polar bears? You tell me), overpopulation and the birth control pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:10 PM
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It’s not all men. I expect women to shave their pits (which I also trim as a man) and if they want me to go down on them, then they should be clean shaven or very short stubble also. Which is the same standard that I also hold myself to. The only people judging women for leg hair is other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:08 PM
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Don’t use logic against someone that only wants to argue emotions with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:06 PM
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Well, unless you follow rule 31, in which case you can give more validity to your ideas on the basis of your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:06 PM
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This subreddit, all last week, was filled with posts about how women love to go out to the club and dance with other people and there is nothing wrong with that and it’s controlling and insecure of a man to prevent it… and yet false attribution of paternity is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:10 PM
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The best that she has access to. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2833377/ Some men reproduce, some men don’t. The men that reproduce, on average tend to reproduce with more than one woman. The further back in history you go, the larger the gap between the haves and the have-nots. The recent trend of monogamous relationships is a blip on an evolutionary scale. We are currently just regressing to the mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:08 PM
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Dread works. The person that cares the least and is most able to walk away is the one with the most power in any relationship. Business or personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:44 PM
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Wow what a weird fallacy. “Women rarely orgasm from sex, so therefore nature doesn’t select for female pleasure. “ On the contrary sir. Nature DOES select for female pleasure. A female orgasm makes her more likely to conceive. Not only are women more likely to orgasm while ovulating, women are also more likely to orgasm from a higher status partner and one night stands. She’s orgasming to become pregnant with only the best men, not every time she has sex is she trying to get pregnant. Hidden ovu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:41 PM
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Even just sharing the rent/electricity/tax credit does help out, you may not think having an extra 10,000 dollars a year helps, but it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:35 PM
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The same woman will answer these questions very differently when she is 19 vs 28. The key as a man is to calibrate yourself to your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:51 PM
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Err, you left out the sexual assault part, which would include being touched on the butt without permission including while dancing. Just thought with all the talk over the past few days about dance clubs on this subreddit, that the vast majority of men and women alike would qualify as being sexually assaulted while dancing at a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:48 PM
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A lot of traits ARE co-located amongst the top tier men though. Such as taller men do tend to make more. Men that have college degrees do also tend to make more money. Although I’m sure it’s funny, I have made over 200k the last few years, and I’m sure I’ve been weeded out on a few dating profiles because I don’t have a bachelors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:08 AM
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Exactly, women will let an attractive man get away with a lot, but even attractive men need to have experience dating/fucking other women. The worst thing for a guy is to be inexperienced, he was possibly ugly / nerdy in school, which is why he now makes good money but is inept with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:59 AM
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This guy doesn’t sound like a chad at all. Go view the top rated parent comment by a redpill man, it points out all of his flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:57 AM
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The funny thing is. Your teachers and parents absolutely know a fuckboi or two. There is the guy that you bring home to meet your parents, and then the guy that you bang in the bathroom of a club that you just met. Be more like B and less like A
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:55 AM
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Women don’t like men that don’t take risks. Taking risks is a side effect of high testosterone levels, and they can literally smell it on you. (Or the lack of it).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:54 AM
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I was that way in my 20s, I was even a virgin until I was 25. But I was absolutely swimming in it from 30-39. Recommendation for the OP friend, stop being so friendly, live more recklessly, be less stable, have more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:51 AM
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Of course attractive women support men that they are attracted to / aroused by, especially when they are younger and looking for those alpha traits. Can’t speak to Victoria secret models much, but lots of beautiful women financially support men. And it usually lasts until the women start to get older and start looking for more beta provider traits (it’s biological) a good example might be someone like amouranth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:50 AM
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Fundamental misunderstanding of alpha fucks / beta bucks. Women sleep with men for various reasons. Some men have sex because of their genetics, their good looks, big penis, height, even maybe personality. Other men sleep with women because of their ability to provide, because women are extracting a resource from that man (emotional or monetary typically). It does not mean. That alpha men have sex and beta men do not have sex. It means that sometimes women are more attracted to alpha qualities a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:40 AM
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You’re right, doctor is just a job title, just like many other jobs. That said, many doctors (but not all) do tend to be beta, because they are ascribing to the notion that being a better provider, being a better earner, will help them live a happier life and have more sex. It’s a mentality that I’ve seen numerous times. The exact opposite of it would be a guy completely distancing himself from working at all and just mooching off of well-off women. Some guy like Jeremy Meeks will end up living …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:31 AM
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They speak to their own experiences, in this thread. I don’t have to speak for them, nor do you. They say it themselves. Your comment just reminded me of the comic. It was a funny one (for me) because sex doesn’t just “accidentally” happen. Unless you’re a woman, going out to a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:20 AM
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My point is that women often claim that they have no interest in “hooking up” at a club, and yet it regularly happens. Kind of like a degenerate gambler going to “hang out” and drink and watch some sports at a casino and just “oopsie” accidentally they lost a bunch of money. Women hate being judged socially, so this gives the plausible deniability that they aren’t actually going out to hook up, even though that’s exactly what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:12 AM
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No, projection is you thinking that TRP tells men how to live their lives because that’s what you would do when giving advice to men. TRP teaches men what women do, how they act, how the world actually works, not the feminist lies they were told their life. TRP does not say anything about “how men should live their lives” in fact it’s explicitly stated multiple times on the subreddit that what a man chooses to do with the information contained is up for him to decide. Marrying a slut who pretend…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:34 AM
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It holds up perfectly fine. Women have been fucking frat boys and then marrying doctors for a hundred years. For some women the epiphany phase comes early 20s, for other women it only comes later around 30… but it’s not “gold digging” it’s … wanting to settle with a beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:58 AM
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Your definition of “modern gold digger” isn’t that at all. You’re describing a woman that rode a cock carousel of various chads in her youth (alpha fucks that she received nothing other than his good genetic material and fun times) and has entered her epiphany phase and is now looking to settle down with a beta provider. You don’t have to come up with new terms to describe things that TRP already has accurately described and has has lingo already for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:10 AM
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Haha hee hee I just slipped and fell on his penis, such an accident. Sometimes the doublespeak really just gets me upset at people. Oh it’s just a place to socialize and drink with the opposite sex. If you don’t let your GF go drinking and talking to other men you’re a controlling asshole… https://comicsalliance.com/safe-sex-comic-psa/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:48 PM
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If you have to tell your wife or GF not to go to the club without you, she wasn’t really your wife or GF in the first place, it was just your turn, because she belongs to the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:43 PM
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There are a few women out there that would pick a man over a bear… https://youtu.be/WCyP36Z1iVA?si=5keioxu2lBul9aWC
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:36 PM
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How dare you workout at the gym, exercise is a tool of the patriarchy, and supporting the patriarchy means you are basically responsible for everyone woman that has ever been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:18 PM
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The answer is women are not logical, they are emotional, and even though they pass 200+ men daily, they think they could survive a bear attack and that death from being eaten alive is better than being sexually assaulted/raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:11 PM
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Because undesirable young men are equally ignored. Desirable old men are still desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:10 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships Women are older in 14.8% of marriages in the u.s. Men are older in 51.2% of marriages in the u.s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:10 AM
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Women are more easily influenced by their surroundings. If you’re out in the South Dakota wilderness hunter black bear, you’re probably not thinking about cheating, but neither would she in the same scenario. If her “single friend” really wants to go out to the bar that night because they are vacationing in New Orleans (and that’s what people do) and “drags her along” I’d say her odds of cheating go up about 900%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:21 PM
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Islam is right about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:16 PM
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He has encouraged you to take girls trips, but yet it sounds like you haven’t. Because you know what goes on during those type of trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:14 PM
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You don’t always vacation with just your 3 closest friends and leave your girlfriend at home, but a woman back at home should be ok with you cheating if you leave for a few weeks without her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:12 PM
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Negative? How patriarchal of you. She was just enjoying herself and having a good time finding herself, you’re just a controlling abusive freak if you view her having sex while on vacation in a negative manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 PM
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Sure, a cock carousel and/or hoe-phase followed by hitting the wall by any other name would smell as sweet. I'm not trying to "prove" anything, just trying to open minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:57 PM
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Much like female promiscuity, there is no way of ever knowing. If they want to hide their past from you, they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:32 AM
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Most women in the west don't give 2 shits about financial stability. That said, it's not just women are more narcissistic in today's society. If you want a relationship, you have to think more about what are you providing to the other person, if you provide financial stability, and they don't care about that, then you aren't providing anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:24 AM
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and now people aren't having kids like they're "supposed to" so they instead treat their pets like children and take prescription medications to ward off the depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:53 AM
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I was 25, I'm now 41 and have high, well into the triple digit body count. It is possible, although probably not probable, It required me to completely re-wire my brain in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:46 AM
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So I guess since you've lived a pretty stereotypical life as described by red pill, you'd consider yourself a believer in other red pill aspects?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:44 AM
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I think some level of inequality is natural (natural meaning biological). Some people work harder, some people have better genetics. It's only "natural" that some men will have sex with more women due to us being animals that reproduce the way we do. The thing is, I'm not like most men that think women were angels in the 50s, be that the 1750s or the 1950s, women have always found a way to fuck chad and make brad raise the child. It's genetic, it's hormonal, it's "human nature"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:24 AM
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I don’t understand. I ate breakfast today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:40 PM
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Ewww how dare you look at a 24 year old woman and find her attractive, her prefrontal cortex isn’t even done growing, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:30 PM
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As a verifiable “mid” guy, I can assure you that dating was easier/better before match group monopolized and monetized online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:29 PM
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Sure, not in as great of numbers, but it’s pretty shocking, as a 41 year old male, the number of 34-39 year old women I see on tinder who “don’t have kids” but “want kids”. Too little too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:42 PM
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1-2 years time? Absolutely nothing will change at all. You will notice nothing different unless it’s the algorithm on YouTube/tiktok feeding you something different. The red pill did not die. It’s literally just been accepted as mainstream knowledge now. Before it was on Reddit. Now instead you get fed redpill information from podcasts like “freshandfit” or “whatever” and it’s just accepted as fact (by most people) The term “hoe phase” didn’t exist 20 years ago. “Beta, alpha, sigma” etc didn’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:40 PM
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lol if you think women in the moment actually think about roe vs wade while in the middle of a casual hookup. If anything she'll think about getting pregnant and then get even more turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:31 AM
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Average, as in Median or average as in Mean. I'd say the mean average is closer to 4, but the median average is very likely possibly only 1 or 2 (decimals wouldn't apply to median). (per year) But there are a (what I would call) a small number (roughly 10%) of women pushing 6-8 (new man every other month) and 10% pushing 15+ (new man every month plus a few hookups on the side) that would bring up the mean average while allowing the median to stay low 7 in a lifetime hasn't been true in the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:26 AM
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100% of the women that have agreed to have sex with me, did so without seeing my penis first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:37 AM
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Sure, and I'm 100% positive he introduces himself by saying "Hello Carnival, my name is Steve and I've slept with 200 women" much as how OP "introduced" him to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:14 PM
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The fact is, women have already rated the men.. That's why #1 has genuinely slept with triple digits, #2 pays for sex sometimes and sometimes gets unfulfilling relationships and #3 has been rejected constantly by women. I mean, why do you need random women on the internet to rate them, they've already been rated by women irl. You can't call #1 undesirable when he has objectively and subjectively been voted desirable by many many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:02 PM
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Here's an alternative view for you: perhaps from a woman's or feminist point of view: https://youtu.be/WiYBhC3EVPY?si=x3_AZaky0DDVwhKq&t=127 A lot of the time the men engaging in this behavior ARE predators and creepy. You can't watch that video without agreeing with me (or you're a sociopath) The red pill in me, however, acknowledges... This type of behavior works, women regularly "fall" for it. The guy uses scripted lines, calls every woman (and underage girl) "tits" to get them to like him. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:59 PM
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average age of the sexiest man alive is pretty old according to "people" magazine. I'd say that's farily representative of a large swath of "people" https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/136cn6g/peoples_sexiest_man_alive_by_age_oc/ https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/youngest-to-oldest-sexiest-man-alive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:18 PM
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redpill (the subreddit) was specifically designed as a place to exclude women. Women were not allowed to post. Women were not allowed to give advice. Women were specifically told to stay away. It was advertised as a place for men, by men, to give advice to other men. Which of course made the admins quarantine it and also force the subreddit to allow women to post openly. It's never been the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:22 PM
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I'd disagree with the notion that males have to be enemies just because we are always in competition with one another. It's just how we are wired. There must always be a winner, and a loser, and that's perfectly fine. Maybe there are other categories where we work together, or you're better in X and I'm better in Y. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:49 AM
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You didn't really explain the difference at all. I think it's because you don't have an accurate definition, perhaps of what preselection is? You use a definition of preselection, and then call it "competitiveness" And then you use another definition of preselection and call it "herd mentality" But they aren't running off a cliff or doing something equally stupid together or tipping over cars in a riot, that's "herd mentality" but doesn't accurately describe women wanting to date the same man. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:46 AM
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Alternatively, you have men like myself, with a body count well into the triple digits because ... she can fuck me and there are zero social repercussions for her. I feel like my "easiest" sexual encounters are with women I match with who are at least 30+ miles away from me on tinder. I don't know her friends, her friends don't know me, she doesn't need to explain anything to anyone. It happens enough for there to be a slang term for it - sneaky link Especially when there might be social stigma …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:25 AM
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The only thing that hates woman more than a misogynist… is every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:34 PM
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Sex strikes have been occurring at various times for over 100 years… it never lasts or gains traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:53 PM
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Thank you for your well-researched post with numbers included.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:51 PM
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Are you saying you’d be ok if your boyfriend told you that he’d rather fuck his ex than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:42 AM
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Well fine, it’s cool, let’s not make it “top 15” Here’s a better example. He’d rather be with his ex, but at least you’re good enough. And if you can’t see the problem with that, then you either lack any empathy or you are incapable of exploring hypothetical scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:19 PM
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I’d expect most women that are virgins are also inexperienced in other ways, when I was a virgin at 25 I had not even kissed or even held hands with a romantic way, and I’ve heard similar stories from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:05 PM
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Don’t worry, surely you’re within his top 15 girls he has fucked, otherwise he wouldn’t have been willing to settle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:03 PM
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69,420,000 a year, I’d fuck you and I’m a straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:01 PM
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It's all cyclical. Gender relations sound pretty fucked up during the greek and roman empires also. But this civilization, shall too pass. (do you think things were better when persian kings had harems of hundreds of women) (do you think things were better when greek men were advocating for using young boys for sex and women only for procreation) (do you think things are currently better in Iran or Afghanistan?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:18 AM
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Practice. Also, necessity is the mother of all invention. If you need it enough, you’ll figure out how to. Much like the guy in the video, he even does it for fun, that’s most likely the biggest difference between him and you, when you talk about women, it doesn’t sound like you enjoy talking to them. You need to find out how to make it fun for you. See what you can get away with without getting blocked. Stop being so agreeable, say what you are actually thinking, be more confrontational. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:20 PM
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You’re being paranoid. If you were attractive enough and smooth enough, you could be broke and homeless and still get laid. The problem is you aren’t, and you know you aren’t, and you’re insecure about it. And it comes across not just on your dating apps, but here on Reddit, even people who aren’t trying to date you can pick up on it. Be more like this guy https://youtu.be/bmav517MQJc?si=E1QcQuVQ_SQpHBUK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:40 PM
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As in, what advantages/traits does Autism provide in dating as a man? I'm confused what do you mean by your question. edit: If that is what you meant... https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/autism/signs/adults/ seeming blunt, rude or not interested in others without meaning to Women are attracted to assholes, this can/will make you look like one, sometimes unintentionally finding it hard to say how you feel Simple: don't having a very keen interest in certain subjects or activities (assuming you make d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:07 AM
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Even if you don't want to take my "redpill advice" Here is some "bluepill" advice from a woman, where she waited 4 months before telling her partner. https://youtu.be/edcjizn8Nbo?si=FJzDasB_y3qi6nZw&t=994 I would also advise waiting at 4 months at a minimum, certainly not something you talk about early on unless your disability is so extreme so as to be self-evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:12 AM
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That should be between you and your doctor or therapist, not something you unload on a new relationship. Carry the burden yourself, or unload on a therapist or very good male friend who can keep a secret/discretion but definitely never a woman, they will defend “the sisterhood” as you can see by the “disgust”the other commenter had in regards to my advice to you about what actually works and what is actually good for you. She is representing women as a whole and how they will respond. I read you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:15 AM
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4 women “this past year”. I’m in a lucky enough scenario where I can just experiment and toss away women if I want to test something like this. Most men are not in that position. (And even for me: 4/4 and maybe 5/5 women a decade ago is enough for me to realize it is 100% not a smart choice). It’s terrible dating advice and I don’t think you should be telling men not to listen to me because, especially for an autistic man, most are not going to have nearly as many opportunities as what I have. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:59 AM
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Because women want to not date you if you have possible genetic conditions you could pass onto future children. She wants the ability to ghost a man and not feel bad about it. If you hide it. I’ll use an analogy. Many men have herpes. Some men openly talk about herpes, and that might work ok for them, from a redpill lense. It communicates to the women, openly, that you have preselection from other women. And that’s fine. Other men just don’t talk about it at all, they hide it, because they know …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:38 PM
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I’m not talking about hypotheticals, I’m talking about real world lived experience, as of this year 2023-2024 dating scene. 4 different women that I was dating, one for a few weeks, the others were shorter, like 2nd-5th date. Didn’t matter how far along the relationship was, as soon as I told them, there was never any future content. The girl I had been dating for like 5 weeks… cold shoulder after that. Didn’t ever return a single text ever again. I’ve also done this in the past, roughly 10 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:32 PM
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No, they won’t. You can absolutely be your same personality, as you present it, but you just can’t EVER attach that particular label to it. And I’m talking through personal experience, trial and error. I dated a woman for weeks, soon as I told her, done. I’ve had other successful relationships for years where they just never knew because I never talked about it. Other (3) girls I would tell fairly early on, within a couple dates, there were never any future dates after that. You’re welcome to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:29 PM
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It can become a learned skill though. I was a virgin until I was 25. You CAN learn to work around it. For me it was reading books like "the game" back when it was popular, I haven't needed to read any dating books in the last decade, because I've internalized those lessons, but the resources are there for the men that want it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:50 AM
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Yea, don't ever open up to women about it. It's not something you can share with them. But, there are many positive traits with autism that can be utilized to help with dating, and the negatives can be masked away. But part of that means you have to be able to mask away and not very obviously autistic. And someone setting you up on a date is doomed to failure anyway, especially if they introduce you as a disabled person. Think of it as a disabled vet. He's going to have a hard time getting laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:44 AM
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I can tell you this much. Do NOT EVER tell a woman that you think you're autistic or if you've been diagnosed. EVER. If you actually want to set up your brother, DO NOT EVER USE THAT TERM AGAIN. If you want to describe him You can talk about anything else, but let women draw their own conclusions. You can be cold/distant, and aloof and emotionless and passionate about your hobbies and they will think it's great. But if you use the term autistic, their vaginas will literally shrivel up and die wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:35 AM
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The problem is, most women only want to hook up about 2 days a month. So you need a rotation of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:30 PM
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What’s his is ours, whats mine is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:58 AM
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I know that it is bad for society to speed, but yet I still do it, does that make me a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:34 AM
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No, but you don’t typically need a large supply of women, even for most men, just having one or two at a time is typically too much to deal with at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:46 PM
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I am a 42 year old man, and I was not that long ago dating a woman 16 years younger than me. It doesn’t matter if 90% of 22 year olds are not interested. The way the math works, and I realize that math is complicated for most people. You aren’t trying to date “women” and women are not trying to date “an average man”. But it’s all individuals, and even if there is one woman that is interested, that is enough. If I’m a 39 year old man and I am one of the hottest 39 year old men on the planet. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:34 PM
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It’s actually 42 now. https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/julian-median-age-first-divorce-2020-fp-22-23.html I understand that you googled it. And that lawyer website was your first answer (and his source is “trust me bro”)and that’s “ok” but you should try to do better. The average age of first marriage in the United States has risen to 30 years old so it’s impossible for the average age of first divorce to be the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:26 PM
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So... it's your responsibility to pay... because you make money. And the woman that you are dating doesn't make any more? What do you do if she makes more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:56 AM
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seems crazy to me, I hadn't heard that story, got a link? Seems like a great way to end up with HIV
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:21 AM
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The insurance thing is codified sexism into law, literally institutional systemic sexism. It's illegal to charge women more for health insurance despite young women costing 3x as much as men, while men are charged 30% more for car insurance, it doesn't compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:19 AM
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Do you really struggle to come across even one and I mean just ONE single woman who is a decent human That is hard to tell from just casually running across someone. The majority of people in my country are "decent humans" though, but surely this would eliminate some percentage of the population, maybe 20%. is reasonably attractive in your eyes Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3% among those aged 40–59, and 43.3% among those aged 60 and over So ... No A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:53 PM
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1 in every 5 women is on anxiety medication. Not 1 in 5 women has anxiety... 1 in 5 women have anxiety so bad they take prescription medicine given to them by a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/24 04:55 AM
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And I also found myself moving further right politically because of what I considered an unreasonable shift by the left to push the Overton window in their direction. But that is only tangential to what we were talking about. Regardless, it was really nice to have raw unfiltered truth about the way our society was actually functioning. As a slightly socially awkward person growing up, I was oblivious to that kind of stuff. I followed “the script” that was written for me as a dutiful beta, didn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:23 AM
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And that’s why redpill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:27 AM
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Aka peak fuck Chad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:05 PM
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be me: be at a bar for karaoke... turn down a drunken woman. She physically grabbed/yanked my arms, picked me up and literally carried me to dance floor a few feet away
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:06 AM
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47% of the time that means a woman will have a ONE/hookup while completely sober. You can’t pretend those don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:03 PM
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every attractive man takes 3-5 women off the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:16 PM
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Ah yes, I too base my personality on stereotypes from 70 years ago. Tally-Ho lads, let's go kill some krauts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:28 AM
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Because after they've secured long-term provisioning for their children, women want to go back to the casual fun early 20s, where she was regularly hooking up with Chad and didn't have to act like a mom and wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:31 PM
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When you're a reddit poster in your 20s, 30s seems old. 40s are ancient wise people, you're retired at 50 and dead at 60
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:26 PM
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Is it really too hard to Google for 2 seconds? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2212066116300047 https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/23294515.2017.1378751 There, 2 different published papers. 75% of doctors would not tell the father he is the biological parent if the mother wanted to keep it hidden. 90% would PROBABLY not tell the father he is the biological parent. But 75% definitely would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:41 PM
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There was a study, and most doctors would prefer not to tell the father in a case of “misattributed paternity” … because it would lead (erroneously) to worse outcomes based on “feelings” (not backed up by science). For most doctors even a stranger raising a child thinking it is his, is better than having no father at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:54 PM
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That applies to heterosexual couples also. The older person tends to be more stable, more dominant, because they have more life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:07 AM
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Correct, gtfo with your "oh she suffered trauma in her past" we're talking about future events. If she is a woman that repeatedly wants to go out and be groped intentionally knowing that it will happen at events without her boyfriend present, then she is not ready for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:48 AM
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That's why there is the expression "she belongs to the streets" That definitely applies in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:46 AM
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She's already cheating on you, she just hasn't broken up with you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:44 AM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0146167297234003 296 subjects in the first study 222 subjects in another... and if 1 of them ended up married, I'd think that would have happened possibly at a higher ratio than mere chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:32 AM
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Worst case scenario: Roommate that you don't get along with Best case scenario: roommate that you have sex with Either way, it's cheaper to live with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:45 AM
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AF/BB is often misunderstood by many (including yourself) to assume that women prefer alpha fucks over beta bucks and that AF gets sex and BB gets to stand in the corner watching AF rail his girlfriend. In reality, AF/BB is a descriptor for the 2 different types of men that women will sleep with. With AF she is getting nothing other than his genetics, his fun presence, his joy to be around. Women also sleep with BB to secure provisioning, resources, physical or emotional investment. The reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:11 PM
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A) They are selecting men that will make them orgasm (attractive men) B) They are selecting men that they will enjoy being with (there is no danger of being assaulted, they WANT to be with this man)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:47 PM
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You misunderstand what I meant. The 30 year old is LESS likely to manipulate the 18 year old than the 20 year old "bro" that really just wants to fuck around and have a good time without ever committing to a relationship. It's a "fair" relationship, they both gain advantages out of it. Not that the 18 year old would be manipulating the 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:50 PM
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literally the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:41 PM
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Also, once you pick your favorite color you are never allowed to change. And if you pick red as your favorite color you are NEVER allowed to look at the sky and say that’s a pretty blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:33 AM
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And the women that don’t like it still participate to see if they like it. That’s how they know they don’t like it, because they’ve tried it. Other women like it sometimes, and then other times don’t like it. The “the good girl” fucking Sergio at the foam party at cancun trope. They aren’t “normally” like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:31 AM
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There is no chance of failure. Failure doesn't happen. I work harder until I achieve my goals. If you failed it means you didn't work hard enough. And there is no such thing as failure... because also there is no time limit on life, keep working on it until you succeed.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 08:44 AM
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I wish I could save this comment and show it to everyone whenever women post on this subreddit asking why men don't want to get married anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:25 AM
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I may just be biased, but of all the people in my life, the women I know are more likely to make decisions based on random emotional whims. I don't want to risk half my assets on something as emotional and irrational as love. One day she might wake up and decide she doesn't love me anymore, and I could lose half a career's worth of work. If you're biased, then I am double x-large biased
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:04 AM
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We're arguing a chicken and egg problem. If a man is COMPLETELY safe, he won't be in a relationship. It's not the woman that transforms the man, it's the transformed man that is able to attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:33 AM
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Because that’s how they compete within their own groups for attention, which is like a drug to women. Women love competition with other women. They want to be the most desired women within their group. But anyway, if you’re tired of the results you are getting, it’s up to you to be smart enough to admit that you were wrong and attempt to fix it. Only an insanely stupid person would keep making the same mistake over and over and over again and expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:05 AM
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Correction: no man that you would be attracted to would be safe. There are many safe men in the world. They are called doormats, simps, they are used and abused by women. But they are not looked to for relationships, they do not arouse women. Safe does not arouse women. Women enjoy being excited by their partner, and being safe is being boring. Safe men have low testosterone. Women love guys that race cars, that are hyper competitive, it does not guarantee that he will be abusive, but he will, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:57 AM
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Why are you weird… Stop being weird, women don’t like weird. Most women are average, they like groups and social circles and being conforming. Most women love being “put into a box” and they have strong group identity. Goth chick, nerdy chick, stoner chick, hippie chick, basic bitch, sorority girl, strong feminist, trad conservative girl.. etc. women are not men. Men like to stand out, most women like to NOT stand out. Within their groups, they compete, but they do not like to stray outside of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:53 AM
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Empathy would mean you would understand the feelings of what men were going through and not have to ask a random strange man on the internet what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:35 PM
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Oh, you mean to like ? fix things? Nothing. They can't. Women should enjoy the decline of western society while they can. Same advice I give to men. And I would suggest they have empathy, but that is me being merely pedantic, women can not have empathy for a low-value man, they are biologically incapable of it, to the betterment of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:50 PM
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What's the problem with online dating, just because you have to swipe 7500 times to find a date? -Women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:21 AM
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Also the cnc subreddits…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:29 PM
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I'm an ex porn actor but these days I present highly conservatively when I socialize and date... at least most of the time. I don't think I've ever met a woman that didn't like non vanilla sex. Imo this is why many long term couples get dead bedroom. If you don't continually innovate and mix things up it gets stale. Period. If you only like vanilla sex it just means there is poor communication or lack of trust. I'm only talking about women. I have zero experience with what men want so maybe many…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:33 PM
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This is a pretty good list. I'd argue that having a friend that is a huge cheater/slut is probably the easiest one to spot. The reason they are her friend is that they will also cover for her when it's her turn to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:30 PM
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