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I also was able to detach from obsessive negative thoughts using escitalopram! I got really lucky finding an antidepressant that worked for me on the first try. I’d tried everything other treatment form, and I still wanted to unalive until I got on medication. It also helped me focus at work, so I could take on higher paying jobs, which eased the financial difficulties that partly fueled my depression. I wanted to add that antidepressants may not work if you’re still using depressants, like alco…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 06:49 PM
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Diabetes has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:24 AM
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Feeling sad thinking about how this applies to my ex. He’d always shove me off him because he was “too hot” to cuddle after sex. Then refuse to even hug me after showering because he was trying to dry off. No wonder I was constantly depressed during those 4 ½ years. I was touch-starved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:14 PM
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Steve Buschemi is a high quality man! His volunteer work as a firefighter melted me heart. And he’s been married to the same woman for his whole life. Goals!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:15 PM
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As long as the dick is insertable, the size is irrelevant. Being on the same page with kinks is way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:22 PM
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Absolutely. Congrats on your weight loss, I hope to copy those numbers soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:19 PM
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You would basically want to be with someone who supports your weight loss efforts. Yes. Some people in this thread have brought up that high value men are attracted to fat women. However, it’s my experience that fat fetishists do not support their partner’s weight loss. Even if they say “do what you have to do for your health”, the minute I mention going to the gym more often, they pull away. It doesn’t matter that I’m still willing to participate in the fantasy. If I’m losing weight, then I los…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:44 PM
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I can’t find a professional in my country who doesn’t prescribe Body Positivity bull crap as the treatment. I was in a hospital-led binge eating recovery program from August 2019 to January 2020, and I gained weight faster on their diet plan. They ENCOURAGED weight gain during the program—and all of the participants were already morbidly obese. It was absolutely bonkers. I’m searching for a therapist right now and vetting them super hard to let them know I’m not open to HAES or body positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:19 PM
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I will give SO many blowjobs to the man who gets married to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:14 PM
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Do you think a doctor would prescribe adderall even though I have a history of vomit-purging too? My GP refused to prescribe me Vyvanse or Wellbutrin because it can cause heart problems in people with purging behaviours, apparently. (Haven’t purged since November 30.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:13 PM
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I just want to give a short man with a small dock a hug :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:09 PM
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Good question, I’m glad you brought that up. Yes. My main concern with obesity is end-of-life quality. My mom was totally burnt out caring for my father who gave himself cancer and Type II diabetes with his sedentary lifestyle. Even after he had bariatric surgery and lost the weight, he experienced every complication possible because he didn’t change his lifestyle. I don’t want to be a burden on my partner like that, and vice versa. If a partner is obese, they MUST be in the process of losing we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:08 PM
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FDS users choose neither. And that’s why the community draws so much ire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:32 PM
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Hah! Good one. I’m in the process of accepting that I’ll be alone for the rest of my life due to my mental illness. I’m not wallowing helplessly, though. I upgraded my job so I could afford therapy, and now I’m looking at low-cost therapy options.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 10:26 PM
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Going sober this month. Also, no more food delivery. Any convenience food I want, I have to walk to get it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 10:22 PM
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Oh god don’t learn from me, I’m also a 2/10 obese monster and substitute community work and my job for seeking intimacy haha.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 05:28 PM
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My manifesto has two parts: The Practical: homemaking skills like cooking, cleaning, decorating, laundry. Frugal choices that benefit my household: gardening, couponing, composting, making things from scratch, etc. Wanting to take a supportive role in my man’s life. The desire to help my partner grow and realize his dreams. The desire to be involved in our community and make it better. Which segues into the second part: The Philosophy: I have chosen to see the world as it is. I’m not trying to f…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 08:42 PM
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I know :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:31 PM
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All women are capable of getting sex. Women seek commitment. Ugly women struggle to get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:26 PM
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5’2” female here. Height is not necessarily as important as it is made out to be. The main drag to dating short men is handling their hang-ups about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:49 AM
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I’ve learned that I’m a femcel who’s incapable of being in a successful relationship so I’m exploring ways to apply for MAID within Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:29 PM
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I wish I’d read this before breaking things off two days ago with the man I’d been dating for the last three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:16 PM
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I feel the same way about men, except my version of games is “have a weekly hangout with female friends”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:07 AM
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What about a 3 that stays in her lane and doesn’t bother hotter people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:32 PM
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I have one partner right now. Used the plural partners to talk about the people I date in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:15 AM
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I want to understand the media my partners are consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:43 PM
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Beware of the perpetual student. Hairs are standing up on the back of my neck because was my most recent ex. Went to school for engineering. Was on a career track in nuclear engineering, left due to terrible HR department. 18 months later he’s unemployed 18 taking one-off community college courses to “stay busy” while sitting at home doing yard work in between hours of playing video games. Like he did as a teenager, except with more wine. Very glad I dodged a bullet there. At the time it felt li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:19 PM
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That’s cuz he’s fishing instead of hunting.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:53 PM
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OP’s husband’s behavior ALSO shows the lack of respect he has for his children. Taking care of his children, and that’s not useful? OP, find ways to protect you and your children and get out. This isn’t a typical bluepill circle jerk telling you to be a StRoNg iNdePenDeNt WOmYn. We are as close to RedPilled mens’ desires as it gets and we’re telling you: this is abuse!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 10:28 PM
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You’ve got it! Also I know how terrible it is to suddenly bust out fetishes two years into a vanilla relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 08:19 PM
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you should find a new partner. If anything, I would take time off of dating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 05:03 PM
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Yes, it’s absolutely my fault that I cheated. I tried to break up with my boyfriend last week because as you said, things will never be the same and he will always be doubting me. But when I tried to break up with him, he said he wouldn’t accept that and he was determined to forgive me and make it work. What does it mean and where do I go from here?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 05:00 PM
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There is a two-year age difference.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:23 PM
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Yes 100%. But he really wants this relationship to work, and everything not involving sex is great. So I need to take my need for sex out of the equation in order to make this work.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:21 PM
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He lives with his parents because it’s affordable and comfortable, even though they make him unhappy. He has a full-time job and is very responsible with money. Everything is great except for the lack of sex. And my poor behaviour in the past. I’ve tried to break up with him several times, telling him to find someone he is sexual compatible with, to find someone who treats him better, but he insists on making it work. The changes last for 2-3 months then if anything stressful happens, he reverts…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:16 PM
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I'm grateful for the wonderful weekend I had with my BF. I'm grateful that all three parts of the experimental dinner I made without recipes turned out being delicious! I'm grateful we decided to work things out in November (I posted about it here). I'm grateful that with the insight I gained through self-help groups, I was able to realize I was projecting my fears about my parents' failed relationship onto our relationship; and that by assuming my bf is going to be exactly like my dad, I was th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 11:35 PM
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I'm also a high sex drive partner whose man always has excuses not to. I'm looking into medical procedures I can have done to take away my sex drive because his aversion to sex is that severe.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 03:55 AM
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I think the best thing about this isn’t the grand romantic gesture of sensual shower time. It’s that you both understand each other’s needs and each other’s love languages. If my man did this it would feel contrived because it’s just not him. But if he left me fresh towels in the washroom and had gotten some nice-smelling hotel soaps from his business trip, my heart would swell with gratitude.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 02:14 PM
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My boyfriend's family also celebrates Orthodox Christmas tomorrow. Enjoy!
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 07:41 PM
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Thank you! My computer crashed while I was finishing up my project so I ended up breaking the 2-hour sitting guideline and not making it to the gym. But I got everything done and ate healthy!
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:03 PM
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I’m trying to finish a time-sensitive freelance commission by Sunday morning, so my self care includes: Gym time every day to clear my head Eating responsively limiting sitting screen time to 2 hours at a time going outside on one errand per day a nice hot shower tonight and switching into a cute outfit afterwards!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:06 PM
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He did not take it well. The last I saw of him, we were both crying and I was running away from him on the street and he couldn't follow me because he wasn't wearing shoes. He has called and texted a bunch, asking to talk. I'm afraid of getting sucked back in and having no real changes made, so I haven't responded to him. I'm going to wait until after American Thanksgiving weekend to finalize things with him. Honestly? I feel alright. I feel bad for not feeling worse. For once in my life I'm pra…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 12:40 PM
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Hi drunk_fish1, no we don't live together. I live with roommates. He lives with his family and I visit 2-3 times a week, usually staying for the weekend. We used to split visits 50/50 at my place and his place, however after about a year the visits skewed 90/10 of me visiting him. When he first got a car he would drive to my place and pick me up, but eventually the routine became me taking the subway 45 minutes to a stop near his house so he could pick me up there, even though this was inconveni…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/18 01:29 PM
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An update: thank you everyone for listening and responding. I haven’t talked to my BF yet. Two things made me stop and reflect on the situation. One was the other thread someone posted in the subreddit about stopping the hamster wheel. Mine has been spinning. The other was someone’s comment on how I haven’t communicated my needs clearly. They are 100% right. I need to do that. I didn’t realize the “bring it up once” rule wasn’t absolute. I need to follow up on problems if they’re huge or, as som…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 01:24 PM
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I'm still overweight. I'm ready to work on being my best, fittest self first.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 04:11 AM
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Nice try, thirsty alphas. I'm in monk mode now.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 04:10 AM
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No. Rather than have these problems hanging over his head, further stressing him out, I told him about them and let him figure out the solution. He has not. Whether due to lack of interest or ability to do so. I will not stick around and become resentful at this. I am leaving.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/18 05:15 PM
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Yes. Bringing up a problem more than once is nagging.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/18 05:04 PM
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I'm grateful for the progress made in the support group I've been attending. My overall mood is way more stable and instead of venting to my BF all the time about "fake friends" and feeling overwhelmed because I have no boundaries , I don't have to vent because I'm able to establish boundaries and say 'no' to friendships that hurt me. BF has noticed my overall calmness and is proud of me for handling setbacks (lost keys, scheduling conflicts) without bursting into tears or overeating. l Life is …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 04:02 AM
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I needed to read this comment today, thank you. I’m in the same boat as OP—BF hates his job and it’s affecting his health and our sex life. He doesn’t even want to finish when I give him blowjobs. Thank you for the reminder to keep that sparkle in our eyes!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 03:06 AM
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I dress like a 50-year-old librarian, God I can't wait to come into my own.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 03:04 AM
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I'm experiencing this with my current LTR. He likes videogames, food, blowjobs, and someone to be nice to him most of the time. My main struggle has been shutting off the hamster wheel that thinks: "Is that really all he wants?"
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 03:03 AM
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I’m not sure what to call this creation, but I rubbed a pork shoulder with salt and Italian seasoning and put it in the slow cooker with 1 cup celery and 1 cup onion. After 10 hours together it turned into freaking amazing low-carb herby pulled pork. I also made vegetable fritters from leeks, spaghetti squash, broccoli, parsley, and gluten-free breadcrumbs. After nibbling and meal prepping all afternoon, I consequently have no appetite for dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/18 12:11 AM
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I baked the best cake of my life to Apple Music’s Motown Essentials playlist this weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 01:35 AM
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How has no one said Feist! Her albums Let It Die and The Reminder makes me dance and tremble with girlish energy. I also listen to Ingrid Michaelson and Tilly and the Wall especially while crafting. Anything containing a ukelele does it for me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 01:35 AM
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UPDATE: hey everyone, I had to delete the body of this post because my boyfriend found it and was worried the specific details I posted could get him fired. (He is also a redditor.) We didn’t have a conversation about the content of the post, only that I should delete it (and I essentially did unless people at his work have Reddit Gold). This happened on Friday. Will he quit his job? When the time is right, perhaps. He’s an adult in charge of his own life. He has read this post and knows that I …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 01:25 AM
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He found this post on Reddit and has cut his drinking in front of me to 2 drinks on a work night!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 01:18 AM
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4-5 drinks a night.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 10:04 AM
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What are specific sentences I can use that will encourage him instead of nag him?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 12:03 AM
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That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until we have our own place and we can go full domestic like this. If I stop being mentally ill this will hopefully happen sooner rather than later.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 10:51 PM
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Deliberately. I’ve been in a LTR for over a year, it has worked because of RP.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 12:32 PM
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I splurged on a gel manicure two days ago, Hoping it carries me to a point where my long nails distract me from how much I want to chew them.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 04:28 AM
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I keep my nails trimmed short because I play guitar. I used to chew my nails down to nubs, but have whites on the nails and my nail beds have grown longer too! (I still chew on stressful days) My toenails are done up in a silver polish.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 03:47 AM
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I've been overweight since age 12 so I hit the wall then.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 02:57 AM
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Lose 50 lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 01:07 PM
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ne of my main interests/hobbies is a genre of music so stereotypically masculine that I'd say a good 90% of its fans are male Let me guess... metal?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 01:16 AM
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I think I might sneak those ingredients into a smoothie for my boyfriend, if I can ever convince him to eat girly health food. He ate avocado toast, so anything is possible.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 01:13 AM
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I have no real advice, but I'm in the same boat. My sex drive is way higher than my boyfriend's, but I think it's because I've been conditioned by past relationships to give sex every day (up to 3x a day) or be abandoned. When sex doesn't happen, the hamster wheel starts spinning. My current relationships is stable and loving, but we have sex 1-2 times a month, so I've had a LOT of unlearning to do. We only have sex when he's drunk and uninhibited because his work stresses him out too much to pe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 01:10 AM
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That's more like it. Get it girl!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 01:56 PM
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Just noting that all of your weight loss talk is "woulds" and "coulds". You're not losing weight because you're not doing. You're "trying". How about actually doing? As long as you're in the research phase, you'll never lose weight. Do it. Or prepare yourself for the inevitable break-up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 10:56 PM
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I don't really talk to people about my relationship unless asked, and even then I'll only speak about the positive parts. If I do have any frustrations, I just keep it to myself, or scream into a pillow.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 10:03 PM
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Last month: Lose 2 lbs per week: Hah, that's a good one. Completely failed, gained two lbs back. My goal this month is to gain LESS than five lbs. Rekindle 2 friendships this month with friends I haven't seen in a while: partial success. It turns out my friend and I work in the same area on Monday nights, so Monday evenings are now our coffee date time. No more anxiety attacks in front of my boyfriend: so far so good this month.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 01:35 PM
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This is a great idea, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 04:39 AM
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I feel you because I'm also not clicking with a lot of old friends due to fear of judgement. 90% of my Facebook friends who are my age are super-liberal, and although I'll always agree with their political views, I'm feeling more and more alienated by everyone's lifestyle choices. Most of the time my FB feed feels like a pissing contest for who can be the MOST liberal, the MOST woke, the MOST tattooed and pierced, the MOST polyamorous, the MOST triggered, the MOST aware of their privilege... and…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 10:22 PM
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Last month's goals: Eat 1 or more green vegetable at every meal: Success! Follow Sober September: Failure. Had 10 drinks over the last two weeks of September. Set aside $60 a week: Success! I'm right on schedule with $240 set aside so far. Lose 1.5 lbs each week: Failure. I should have lost six lbs by now but I failed and only have lost two. This month: Lose 2 lbs per week: Following the Slow-Carb Diet from 4-Hour Body, but within a 1000-calorie budget. No snacks between meals. I WILL be SKINNY,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/17 02:39 PM
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You're right! I'm the type of person who will ask endless questions, usually end up prying, in order to fully understand the problem. It's the way I try to understand a situation, but when the person is in distress, this behaviours comes across as nagging. My SO had a bad day at work on Friday, and resisting the urge to grill him about what was wrong was SO key in helping him relax! I still don't know what his bosses said to him that upset him, but after dinner + sex + laughing at bad TV + letti…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 12:17 PM
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I started biking to work consistently and that has helped my legs get in shape! Still figuring out the upper-body.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 12:09 PM
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I never understood how Tarot card readings work, so this thread it really cool! My boyfriend is looking for a new job because he is tired of the drama-fueled workplace environment at his current workplace. How can I show my support for him during this process?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:40 PM
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Someone can be kind and dominant at the same time, right? Like, motivating the woman to do what's best for herself?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:30 PM
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Shrug Which is meaner: treating someone like crap outright, or letting someone grow up in a world where everyone treats them like crap on a subconscious instinctive level, but always telling them they're fine the way they are?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 03:49 PM
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I can't believe noone has recommended r/FatPeopleStories or r/fatlogic! They are essential subreddits in anyone's weight loss journey. Reading r/fatlogic throughout university was my wake-up call to all the unhealthy behaviours and thought patterns I'd developed in "you're not fat, you're beautiful" blue pill land.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 02:30 PM
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I'm also set to ride my bike to work every day that it doesn't rain!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 02:02 PM
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Some simple goals: Eat 1 or more green vegetable at every meal. Follow Sober September. I haven't had a drink since I first heard about it on September 5th. (I had been averaging 1-2 drinks a day and wasn't feeling my best.) Plus some steps that are part of long-term goals: Set aside $60 a week. My choir is going on tour this summer, which requires a lot of fundraising (I haaate asking for money with a passion). But by setting aside $60 of my own earnings every week, I will have enough to keep u…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 01:59 PM
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Does anyone know off the top of their head how bicycling affects one's figure? I'm learning how to ride a bike for the first time. Hoping to strengthen my abductors because I have weak ones, and tight adductors.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 03:24 PM
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...their first date was at a restaurant, but dates 2-5 were all staying in, eating her cooking, and doing something at home (movie, etc.). Yikes, I'm worried that this could happen to my current relationship, because it's happened to me in the past. But, on the other hand, what if a guy requests more at-home dates? After our third date of out-on-the-town-ness, my current partner requested that our dates be in more casual settings--one of our houses, hanging out with each others' friends, etc.--b…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 12:41 AM
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Answering your question after seeing the "stick around after posting" thread. Yes, when I did the massage, I did make it a 'thing'. The next time we hung out, I just crawled around him and gave him a hug and rubbed his shoulders while we watched a movie. He said it felt nice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:07 PM
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I ended up not dealing with the problem because he was stressed out over workplace drama. I didn't want to present him with something else he had to fix, so instead I let him vent to me and laid down with him while we watched something. One thing I noticed before is that he trusts me enough to confide in me about frustrating situations at his work. I don't give advice, I just listen. He seems to appreciate that. Still not sure when I'm going to address the problem of me wanting to take him to do…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 10:39 PM
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Thank you for this! Today when I see him, I'm going to present him the problem: "I want to show you how much I appreciate you, but I don't know how." And leave it to him to suggest solutions.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 11:53 AM
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The plans he makes are hanging out with his friends or family, either at bars or one of their houses. He has also taken me to board game nights or to see movies. I like all of these plans. I really like outdoorsy stuff and would like to be active with him. He likes organized sports. Does it matter than I'm bad at sports?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/17 11:30 AM
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Would it be a reasonable goal to lose 80 lbs over the course of a year?
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 01:20 PM
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Wow that article was shocking!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 01:18 PM
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Not, not nearly athletic enough to justify eating that much. I work out for 45 minutes to an hour (15 minutes cardio, 30-40 minutes resistance training), 3-4 times a week, and have a job where I'm on my feet, but not active. MFP gave me 1,330 calories a day in order to weigh 170 by the end of December. Thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:54 AM
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Is it really possible to reset one's metabolism?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:47 AM
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Huh, guess I'm working on that too! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 02:14 PM
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It does put me at underweight, but I'd rather be that than overweight.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 01:56 PM
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Yes, I am already getting help. And I agree with your advice, I am not ready for dating and today I'm ready to admit that I'm not. Regarding negative self-talk (ugly/psycho bitch): I've behaved in ways I'm not proud of and am not sure how to move beyond my past actions and how not to identify with them. How does someone forgive themselves for being a creep/stalker/possessive/generally unattractive personality-wise person?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 11:23 PM
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Yes, for a 180 lb person. I'd like to weigh less. (Clocked in at 176 this morning. Baby steps.)
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 09:50 PM
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I understand now. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 09:49 PM
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I'd love a lonely nerd... The BBW dating scene doesn't interest me at all. I don't want a partner who's going to coddle me, or worse, enable me to gain more weight. I want to lose weight and be active, and want a partner who supports that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 09:46 PM
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Great post! It's a relief to know that even though it's important to be polite and friendly, that it's impossible to be friends with a guy, especially one who rejects me. I thought my inability to pursue a friendship after being rejected was because I was too immature to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 03:43 PM
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I feel as thought different users are giving me contradicting advice. In another comment, someone told me as long as I am taking steps towards my health, I am doing right. Another person said I am deserving of love... another person says I don't deserve anything and I have to work for it. I'm confused.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:32 PM
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Sorry, I thought settling was looked down upon in TRP/RPW, and I didn't understand how her fat friend dating another fat person isn't the both of them settling for each other. Therefore I didn't understand why u/M_riane was using this couple as an example. Are they not codependent? If they were truly RedPill compliant, they would both lose weight in order to be a healthy, happy couple. Otherwise, they're both just a waste of space. This is from what I understand of TRP so far.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:28 PM
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Wanted to clarify that I don't catfish. My online photos are full-body and recent. Before meeting with anyone in person, I send them a picture of myself and 'remind' them that I'm fat, and give them permission to cancel on the date if they think this might be an issue. In the past some guys have been disturbed by my obsession with my weight, but if I didn't make a big deal about it, then they would accuse me of catfishing. It's one or the other.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 01:54 PM
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I actually know how to knit and crochet! I haven't in a while, even though it makes me happy, because I had to throw all of my yarn away after a bed bug scare (at least I don't have those). Money is also a huge issue. I don't go out with my friends or join clubs because I can't afford to. It'd be awesome to take some dance courses or art classes, but again, no money. If I took all the money I spent on convenience food, then there'd be a lot more flexibility in my budget, but it'll still require …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 01:50 PM
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How do I address the hostility and bitterness in me?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 01:42 PM
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My resistance to "just being friends" is what I'll be tackling next in therapy. Aside from memories of being rejected in high school and being ridiculed for having crushes/feelings as a fat person, "Just friends" is a term that's loaded with real, negative implications. When someone says they want to be "just friends", that person thinks you're disgusting and a waste of space and a horrible person for making them feel put upon with your crush on them. Moreover, the person has no actual intent of…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 01:37 PM
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Hi Neon-Socks, in terms of basic hygiene I'm fine. I have excellent posture because I sing! I shower regularly, wear deodorant, brush my teeth, and smell good (or don't have a smell). My hair sucks. It's cut short, clean and brushed but there are no styling looks that work for me. I look ridiculous in anything too trendy. Same with clothes, although I do a good job of hiding rolls and appearing neat and tidy, if incredibly dowdy. For the time being I don't bother with makeup because I'm too fat …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:30 AM
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My goal is 100 lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 02:25 AM
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My best friend is overweight too He's not the guy you would look at on the subway I am confused about how this is not 'settling'. For the record, the guy who friendzoned me was skinny and not unattractive but nowhere near 'magazine perfect'. But I thought he was cute anyway. I tend to go for 4-6s because that's what I'm attracted to. Anyone objectively hotter than that is out of my league--my body can't even find them attractive anymore. Is this self-conditioning, or could it mean that my evolut…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 03:24 PM
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