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85% have a female partner currently or have had more female partners than male?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:53 PM
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No, because sex is variable. Whether an abortion takes place or not determines if the baby is made. You can have babies without sex due to current technology. You cannot have a baby and abortion at the same time. Then you are ok with de facto financial abortion already taking place, because current average support amounts are like 4k a year and that definitely isn’t what it takes to support a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:33 PM
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The argument is not whether men can force women to have a physical abortion so that is irrelevant. Says you. What proof do you have? Just because it is the law? There's plenty of laws that the majority don't agree with just due to how our government is structured. Seeing as financial abortion already de facto exists with a significant amount not being paid, and most men aren't really doing anything about it, I doubt you're correct. Even your base, who apparently cares the most, doesn’t prioritiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:26 PM
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But she alone chose to not have an abortion or not, which is the direct cause of having the baby. Sex is not the direct cause, because once they have sex an abortion could be done, and a baby would not result. If they have sex and don't have an abortion, then a baby would result. You have no idea if that's true, if she's so committed to having his baby then it doesn't follow. Ok, but how low can the percentage be for you to still be satisfied. Lowering it to a dollar functionally solves the issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:20 PM
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Do men put in work when they want to date? Sounds like employees to me. Right, and I said they don't hate ALL - even TRPers like some women due to the existence of "HBBs" in their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:07 AM
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Well, who said those men dislike women or dating? That's just something you assumed due to you not liking what they posted. Often, when men are accused of hating women here - they state they still like some women. Women here just don't believe them. And in the same way, the same assumption about you not liking it here could be made due to how you post about the men here. Food is a need. But once you meet it, you want different types of food. I'm not saying the men have to decide between seeing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:05 AM
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It is an analogy, but it still holds - if you dislike being somewhere, why are you there? You're the one making similar analogies. That statement pretty much applies to you being here and complaining. They might. But if they can get something for free, why should they pay for it? Plus, sex workers tend to be a certain type, and if that's not the kind of woman you like having sex with, it doesn't solve the problem. Well, you're not a man, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:51 AM
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Yes, look at /r/sexworkers or /r/sexworkersonly. Stories of "hate my clients" and "sex work made me hate men" are common enough. Well, I'm not the one who said anything about servers. It isn't an assumption, I've seen those kinds of comments all over TikTok and Twitter as well. You don't need to hate everyone for this point, men who dislike women don't hate every single woman either. Even the ones accused of being "misogynist" clearly have women they see as "HBBs".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:48 AM
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But you dislike most of the men here right? So why stay here interacting with the men you dislike when you could spend your time interacting with men you do like, according to your own advice. And in general men here don't think all women are bad either. I'm not a AWALTer, but I addressed why your statement still doesn't apply to AWALTers. TRP is actually doing exactly what you are advising them to do, they are trying to skip dating to get sex - because they dislike dating women but like fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:37 AM
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Sometimes sex is just sex, and in those cases men DO use prostitutes. It isn't like that is some unexplored idea - it is highly prominent throughout history. But a man who wants just sex, can also want a different type of sex as well that only comes with dating. The two things aren't mutually exclusive and multiple things can be desired at one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:29 AM
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I'm not seeing your point. Women are the ones who want relationships more, for the most part. If they are the ones losing out, why are they the ones pushing for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:26 AM
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Because first of all that isn't how I think. Second of all, if I did want to pay for it, the product I want isn't available. The kind of girls I like aren't the type of women whores are. And sex isn't the only thing men want women for. Lots of men also need women to have kids and procreate. If the kind of women I liked could be paid for, you would have a point. It is like asking, "oh you need to commute to work in Kansas? Why don't you just buy a dinghy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:22 AM
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But you still complain, so sounds like you just realized you can complain and dislike something but still do it because the positives outweigh the negatives. Maybe you just aren't as insightful as you think you are? I see plenty of dudes making jokes and memes here. For example, seeing women so confused by a simple concept was highly entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:16 AM
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So what? Still not a physical need. Tooons of people live without money. And if you're going to stretch the definition of need so much, you might as well stretch it to the mental damage not having sex does. Men do pay for it, prostitution is the oldest profession, this was thought up long ago. Don't see what that has to do with the topic at hand. Is your point that men who see prostitutes aren't allowed to complain about dating? That's like saying since sex workers can just go beg or go on the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:15 AM
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Go take testosterone and then tell me sex doesnt feel like a need. And I already addressed the money issue. Go on the dole or be homeless, youll still be alive. The sex workers could similarly could just go beg on the streetcorner, that isn't a good alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:02 AM
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I know, apparently the women here are so inSigHtFuL and cLeVeR, but this concept spun their poor wittle heads. Bless their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:53 AM
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There are plenty of people who literally do that. Lots of names for em - "deadbeats", "bums", "crusties", "freegans", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:45 AM
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I see multiple women apparently flummoxed by some men both complaining about dating women and still doing it. Let me draw an analogy you guys will hopefully understand (should be right up your alley). You know how sex workers hate Johns they fuck but keep doing it for the money? The simple answer is that while they hate the work, they like the result. If they stop the work, they lose the money, that's why they don't stop working even though they complain about it. Now replace sex workers with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:40 AM
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Nah, plenty of women still complain endlessly about men and still date them. But good for them for improving the gene pool. Smart about what? I don't think like them, so why would I act like them. Also, you sure do bitch a lot about the sub and the men here. So why don't you take your own advice and leave? Bit of pot calling the kettle black here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:26 AM
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I just reversed it, you're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:24 AM
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Since when do you need to be clones to be circlejerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:22 AM
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You guys are just tagteaming circlejerking on each other's posts saying the exact same thing thinking it is some profound statement. The exact same thing could be said of women, if men are so horrible then don't date men. For both genders, it is clear that not every single woman/man is horrible. I'm not a AWALTer, but for those, the reasoning seems to be the positive outweighs the negatives. Working sucks, but the positive still outweighs the negative. It would be stupid to say you can't complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:19 AM
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Chuck Berry would literally fart in the face of the women he had sex with (during). What a kang.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:03 AM
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I have always noticed that bi people, both male and female, invariably overwhelmingly have both STR and LTR with men. They'll try to claim "women are more fulfilling/better" or whatever - but I am willing to bet they think that because they have a harder time getting it and the grass just looks greener on the other side. If they actually had equal time with both genders, I'm not convinced they would still claim to like women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:31 AM
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Even if you're pro-choice, sex has to equal child because that's how children are created. Again, the pro-choice argument (which is what matters since financial abortions only are argued for when abortions are allowed) has settled that having sex does not mean consent to having a child. Most men agree with me. Maybe old men who are soon to die off, which is the conservative base. However, in that other link I sent, 40-something% of men already follow de facto financial abortion by not paying chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:27 AM
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Responsibility that has been forced upon them due to a choice the woman alone made. Then how little to keep you satisfied, down to a dollar? Where's the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:21 AM
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What OP says often appears in /r/actuallesbians. This other person is full of shit. It was brought up in a daily chat before where pretty much what OP said was said all over a few threads in that sub, wish I saved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:51 PM
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The only person who made it about that here so far is you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:50 PM
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I wasnt talking about her, i was talking about the girls that i see at my gym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:49 PM
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So? That’s irrelevant to the discussion of financial abortions. If theyre the minority, having them wouldnt be that big of an issue anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:09 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I like that women show off so much body now (as long as they aren't ugly). They could work out naked like in Ancient Greece for all I care. But as Chappelle says, you can't really get mad at us for looking when you're wearing a whore's uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:02 AM
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Women these days at my gym are wearing these or these types of shorts that basically show the whole ass just in a normal position. Ok fine, I'll rephrase. Men lift perfectly fine without having the entire outline of their ass exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:56 AM
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She's the one recording them in the background without their permission. She's the harasser here. My gym recently instituted a rule against filming others due to all the Insta hoes spending more time filming their asses than working out. Now they have to make reasonably sure the film is mostly getting them and other people in it are minimal. This month I have been seeing a lot less of these Insta hoes having their phone propped up and them doing a bunch of stupid ass presenting "stretches".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:52 AM
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Like... what do y'all expect people to wear that won't limit their range of motion? Either tight long pants or loose short pants. No one's going running in fucking culottes. Men lift perfectly fine without having their ass exposed. It is laughable that women insist these clothes are necessary for lifting. Whatever woman you are talking about is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:46 AM
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No, the pro-choice view of the abortion debate has already settled sex =/ child, if it did mean that, everyone would be pro-life. But the pro-choicers obviously know that just having sex doesn't necessarily mean you should have a child. According to you. By that same logic I could say what a woman wants is irrelevant. Doubt. That's because you're a woman and have in group bias. Of course you're gonna go for "team woman", which just exposes that rights aren't the concern here, selfish desire is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:13 AM
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No, they're asking for equality. And accountability for women who try to force men to have children that don't want them. What women are trying to achieve here is creating the situation I described here. They are not concerned about the wellbeing of the child. They are treating men as sperm banks, but gaming the system to create a free, unregulated sperm bank that also doesn't provide the rights a sperm bank would provide a sperm donor. All financial abortions would do is put the women in the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:01 AM
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Sperm donors exist, you're not going to get rid of them. They are functionally the same in this topic. Women are just trying to game the vetting process of sperm banks that decide whether a woman is capable of supporting a child on her own here. It is basically a free, unregulated sperm bank that also circumvents the rights of the sperm donor. She is forcing him to have a child by not having an abortion and making him support it even though he doesn't want a child. You're saying abortion should …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:31 AM

When it comes to financial abortion, women act like it is a decision made in isolation. The woman made plenty of choices just to get him in the position to make a choice for financial abortion. She picked that man, she chose to sleep with him, she chose to not have adequate protection, she chose to have a baby knowing the man didn't want to be a father, and she chose to live a life not being able to support a child on her own. If she has an abortion, the financial abortion part is moot anyway. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:16 AM
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The fact that it is 70 years in the making just makes it worse. That is news fatigue. And such slow progress will of course cause loss of interest. You can assume anything, it doesn't mean the assumption is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:04 AM

No it isn't. If they want the child. There are sperm donors who don't support their children. If a woman forces a man to have a child, why is it ethical to force him to support that child? I get it, you are pro-life, which as I said makes this discussion useless anyway. If she gets an abortion then he should be allowed one too. But you don't want any abortions at all, so your input in this discussion is kind of unwarranted. The men arguing for financial abortion never argued that abortion should…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:03 AM
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It is obvious why, the Depp/Heard trial had actual progress and tangible things people could see. As far as I know, knowledge of UFOs available to the general public has not changed much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:48 AM
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They obviously are as we are doing it now. But apparently the only person's rights that doesn't matter is a man's. Isn't that convenient coming from you. It already happens, I personally know people like that. I'm sure there's ways I haven't even thought of since this isn't relevant to me. Again, plenty of women here claim that child support "isn't even that much". So which is it? EDIT: I know those comments about it not being much has been made before. I found a comment from a thread linking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:45 AM

Oh isn't that convenient. If a woman has a choice, the man should too. If a man gets a financial abortion, and the woman can't support her child then she should do the responsible thing and abort the fetus. If she doesn't make the responsible choice, then she is the one hurting society and children. And fetal "right to life" doesn't matter here because that is already settled if abortion is allowed. It isn't a threat. It is informed consent. No one is forcing her. I mean today, a man could "thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:42 AM
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Because the government doesn't trust the public. It wouldn't be the first time the government has lied to the people, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:31 AM
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People who believe in abortion don't believe in fetal right to life, and if the government allows abortion then the government doesn't believe in it either. I think both should be allowed or neither, so if fetal right to life isn't recognized by the government then they shouldn't have a problem with financial abortions except for their own checkbooks. So what? Still happens. Lots of people work under the table for cash. As I said, for the deadbeats, they often aren't making much anyway. So you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:29 AM

What does that mean? Why does the man having a choice void her own choice? The man has a choice in providing finances, so why doesn't that "choice" make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:21 AM

It would still be her choice to have the abortion, people wouldn't force her. But it would just be another factor in her making the decision. Right now she may do it because she thinks the father will be supportive, but if she knows he won't be then she will be more informed in making her decision. But are they successful? I hear women going on and on about how "average child support isn't that much anyway, like a few hundred dollars and a lot can't collect". If that is true, then de facto finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:21 AM

I have my reasons. So you're pro-life? If so, we're just not going to agree on this discussion so it is mostly useless. How so? Just because you don't like it doesn't make it irrational. According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:16 AM
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People look up plenty. There's more amateur photogs and astronomers than probably ever. Of course they would say that lol, the CIA lies. The government lies. They would much rather people think it is UFOs than government tech. They don't want the public privy to gov tech. I would love for UFOs to be real. The issue is in decades we still haven't gotten anywhere. No "great pic", pinch of evidence, nothing. We're basically at the same place we have always been. I would love to know humans aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:14 AM
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Here's the thing about UFO's: isn't it odd that as we got the ability to take better videos by pretty much anyone, anywhere, at anytime the frequency of them decreased? UFOs were probably mostly optical illusions, hoaxes, faulty memory, or government tests. Having said that, I think it is more likely that aliens exist than not. I also think it is likely that multiple species out there are more advanced than us than not. If we think about the possibilities as a stack of discs, with the least adva…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:59 AM

If the father is a deadbeat, the government is paying anyway. If financial abortion exists, meaning it has to be done before the birth of the baby, then the mother will have definitive proof she will not get support from the father and it may influence her to go for an abortion. From what I understand, if a man wants to be a deadbeat you can't get much out of him anyway for the most part so de facto financial abortion already exists. The difference now is that it is implicit rather than explicit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:46 AM

Taxes will only ever go up anyway, the scare tactic of "financial abortions will make taxes go up" is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:41 AM
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Won't happen. The first time a woman wants an abortion and the father refuses, all the women will revert to screeching "menz r trying to control our bodiez".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:39 AM

I support it. The argument I see made here is that it will transfer the cost to the government. Well, the government already pays for shit I don't think it should. Add it to the heap, it isn't like the US government is fiscally responsible anyway. I think it would be a good way to accelerate the decline and overload the nanny government. What I hope will happen is that if a man chooses financial abortion, it will influence the women to go through with an abortion anyway so the government doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:28 AM
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Whereas female underperformance in school and work was due to obvious artificial impediments, current male underperformance seems to be more deeply structural--about how male traits and nature match up with the demands and reality of the modern world. No, current male underperformance is due to artificial barriers for men and artificial advantages for women in the guise of "creating equality" - which is really just equality of outcome (as long as it advantages women) over equality of opportunity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:30 PM
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Just responding so MelodiousTones knows she's being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:54 AM
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Well, that's your choice. But others aren't that harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:56 PM
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For some it is. That's easy for you because 1) you can get sex easily, 2) you don't have as strong of an urge to pursue sex due to testosterone. I've been lucky (or perhaps skillful in picking women), but so many guys are not so lucky. My luck includes that my parents' income is in the top 5% income which gave me huuuge leeway and gave me options. It just isn't possible for most people to be that lucky. That's like me saying why do some people work such menial jobs? It is so easy to not! Just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:43 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:12 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:03 PM
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That has nothing to do with what we were discussing, which was about pro-life people and before that feminism, of whom I am not a part of. You brought up abortion, not me. If anything, this little hissy fit showed your character. tHanKs FoR sHowIng YoUrSeLf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:00 PM
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Showing myself what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:57 PM
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Exactly, if men could get sex as easily as women do without having to be in relationships, I would say the vast majority of people wouldn't even be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:54 PM
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I'm not surprised you don't, boohoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:42 PM
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No, I said nothing about myself, I was talking about the people who are restricting what you do not wish to be restricted. That is not something I am part of. It has nothing to do with a "debate" and more to do with what you say, how you present yourself, and the ideas you hold. If it was done adequately, this wouldn't be an issue. There's that great logic again...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:29 PM
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That isn't what he said. Feeling entitled to being a bitch =/ bitch by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:27 PM
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I assume this is what you are referring to: https://www.mcintyretate.com/blog/2021/july/u-s-divorce-rate-hits-50-year-low/ It points out that it is also because marriage rates are also low. Less people getting married means less people can get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:22 PM
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According to you, which is false. As I said, if this is the best you can do then it is no surprise your wishes aren't being respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:07 PM
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No, it isn't. If it was, pro-life people would be asking mothers to donate their organs. They do not. You are trying to force a square in a round hole. You saying so means nothing. If this is the best you can do, then the progress of abortion being restricted is absolutely needed as you demonstrate very poor logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:46 PM
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Yes they do. They don't ask mothers to give up their organs either. That isn't analogous to abortion. Where in the US? It is a big place. Some sources. How? Feminists are stopping people from speaking. Who am I stopping from speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:46 PM
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That's just starting as a reaction to decades of kowtowing to feminism (what's that about child marriage?). Also, I don't strictly agree that abortion is a "right", it is a privilege. Viewing it as a right just shows what feminism has achieved. Feminism is winning by a large margin in current day. Go to a college campus and see if you get more hate for saying you oppose feminism or support it. At my old job, you are more likely to get fired for saying you oppose feminism than support it. I'm med…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:41 PM
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Modern day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:25 PM
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It all blew up eventually and her life was ruined. I love happy endings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:12 AM
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At some point, women decided criticizing one woman meant you were a misogynist and hated all women. I noticed this the other day, some guy was talking about how he didn't like this woman from a reality show for things she did that were specific to her and all these women henpecked him about how "you're clearly a misogynist". Like you can't even can't even criticize women anymore since that makes you a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:43 AM
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It doesn't even matter, even below average women are told and believe they deserve above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:02 PM
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This is a problem Western men have created for themselves/ourselves. All the biggest man haters come from the West as well, and it is only getting worse. So Western men haven't even achieved what they sought to by kowtowing to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:00 PM
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One thing struck me earlier today. Women are net takes from the social safety net and men are net contributors - so of course women wouldn't want to stop the social welfare, they're the ones benefiting the most and not the ones having their work being depended on, relatively speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:53 AM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:48 AM
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I think what will happen that as birth rates decline the "liberal elite" will become smaller and there will be an increase of immigrants with conservative backgrounds to cope with an aging population. Either democracy will continue and things will roll back in the West, or the liberal elite will crack down and it will all be a farce anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:58 AM
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What is this a school essay? I need to cite every source? This is a fucking internet forum, of course it is my opinion just like everyone else is sharing an opinion. Oh really, give me a SoUrCe fOr YoUr ClAiM. Yes, they are. That is just white washing of what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:10 AM
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Yes, most of history. The modern age is comparatively small compared to MOST OF HISTORY. Are you aware a few hundred years is less than thousands of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:05 AM
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If you want to see a funny thread about women bitching about the backlash, here's one: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/v2pgoq/a_study_has_found_that_a_majority_of_democrat_men/. Interestingly, young Democrat men think that modern feminism did more harm than even older Republican men. It goes to show that actually living with this shit exposes it, sunlight is the best disinfectant. Hopefully the trend continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:00 AM
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If women are the prize, they certainly weren't treated like it. Half the time they were traded for two cows. If that's all the prize is, then fine be the prize. And if you are correct, and this has always been the case, then this has just been a festering issue. Your point seems to be "that's how it has always been so it is right".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:55 AM
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Women in the younger age groups do. Of course granny doesn't, but she's irrelevant. You tried to say it was just redpillers, I told you it wasn't. So yes, read a bit better. Just because you don't understand the information doesn't mean it is irrelevant. Says who? You? And yet men of today are still berated for the wrongs of what men did in the past, so I'm gonna have to call BS on that. Uh huh, and yet women are going on and on about the accomplishments of other women like they had anything to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:50 AM
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Redpilers say this not “society”. Nope, women say it too. According to women, most men are trash. Whose back? People who shared your gender? What did you personally build? I personally literally built plenty seeing as I worked in construction then software development. But I was clearly talking about men in general, not me personally, try reading a little bit better - I promise it makes things easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:32 AM
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It will never be "common enough" according to women. Because since it doesn't harm them, it doesn't matter. It is just a diversion tactic, not a legitimate argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:16 AM
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Can we talk about the author as well? Francesca Luberti has recently completed a PhD at the School of Biological, Earth and Environmental Sciences (BEES), UNSW Sydney. She is currently working as a postdoc in the Social Neuroendocrinology Lab at Nipissing University in Canada. First of all, postdoc at Nipissing U? Literally never heard of it, can Canadians tell us if it is a bumfuck school? Maybe if it was McGill, U of T, or at least a state (provincial?) school. EDIT: Wait a minute... this scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:12 AM
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We can't even access the full study. This is just the preview. I tried to access it through my grad school, and this article is so irrelevant it isn't even included in a huge state system school's access.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:45 AM
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It is far more than dating. We live in a society that demonizes men. Men are constantly told they are oppressors, they "need to do better", how easy they have it, how our forefathers had it easy so if things are tough now it is "her turn" so just grin and bear it, blahblahblah. They are wrong to complain. If a college or organization is majority male then that is a bad thing that needs to be "improved", but if a college or organization is majority female then it is a "huge win" and something gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:36 AM
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Unpopular low mate-value women reported more support for casual sex than popular low mate-value women. Hmmm... more credence for the view that sluts tend to be less desirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:12 AM
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I don't know all of the legal implications yet, but I think it may open up legal issues so they play it safe. Admins really fuck up the system and hamstring doctors these days. Plus, with the recent attacks on doctors, I don't blame them for not getting a dude angry. He could go wild and attack. I personally would hint very strongly. Maybe say something like "often these tests reveal incorrect paternity, sometimes it makes sense to get a paternity test". Unless I get the feeling the dude is a cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:27 AM
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Men need to be more open about this. Women strategically do things like saying "oh it isn't common enough, you're just insecure, you don't trust me" etc to shame men out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:05 AM
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Can confirm. Even as a first year we spent quite a bit of time talking about this as something we would encounter with our patients. A lot of the dudes looked so defeated when the professors stated, "no, we don't tell the fathers they aren't bio dads if we find out during a test". You get what you deserve. For all the "faults" of "patriarchal" and "conservative" societies, this degeneracy doesn't happen as much there and when it does, at least there are consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:53 AM
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Try it for a month or so, and if you can't get a date or even a convo from it, I would focus on other things and keep them up as a backup passive option. Never pay. That was my hard line when I first gave it a try. I ended up getting a date within the first week, and got laid within the first month (two different girls). Got my first relationship off an app a little past a month later. So I knew I was part of the guys it works for. But also try multiple apps during that month. For me, I mostly g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:57 AM
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That's just their own insecurity if they're so butthurt about some stranger's preferences. They're insecure about despite talking a big game about "huur duur so selective huur duur men are trash" they still can't help but be hos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:23 AM
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Same. Being a non-ho woman in this day and age is a legit admirable achievement. Even if they are fat/ugly, although admittedly that does lower the respect a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:15 AM
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Maybe that's a reflection on you (and women like you) rather than how men view women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:28 AM
2

Have sex strikes ever actually worked? And not that mythical one from the ancient Greek play.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:52 AM
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Lmao it is so hilarious when women try to act badass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:50 AM
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Bruh I wish they would do it just to reduce the amount of sluts so more low n count women were available afterwards, which is exactly why the whole thing is BS posturing by them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:34 AM
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First I'd ask him why he turned into a swan to rape women. Then I'd ask him to send his slooty goddesses over for when I get to Elysium.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:33 PM
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If God is confirmed to me in that instance, sure. Have fun on Earth sweaty, Ima be with my 72 virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:24 PM
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It is just an opinion of picking your poison at that point. But in the context of this sub, I've seen tons of posts about having issues with marrying a slut - but not that many about issues with religious virgin women. Same IRL for me, one happens more and seems to be worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:05 PM
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The alternatives at that stage are worse I think, unless youre okay with being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:23 PM
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… i dont want the guys naked, the women… but im pretty sure they did, even wrestling It is already trending that way. Weve got dudes squatting 350 in sweats while women are squatting 95 in underwear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:21 PM
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I think his best bet is to go religious where his virginity is a potential asset. It will also make it more likely to get a virgin girl in the 22-29 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:14 PM
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But why does she have to be 29? Guys tend to date younger, so go for the 22-28 range. I know there still arent too many virgins, but that opens up the pool a bit more. And she doesnt necessarily have to be a virgin, a girl with 1-4 isnt as bad as a slut and would prob be okay for a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:04 PM
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Hey Im not complaining, they can work out in the nude like they did in Greece if they want. Its so funny theyre so concerned with wearing so little workout wear to squat a dinky 115. Reminds me of when my lil cousin thought wearing certain shoes helped him run faster lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:34 PM
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Holy crap the girls at the gym are looking extra slooty today. I love summer. Reminds me of that Chappelle joke where the women are dressed so slutty you wonder if their birth canal is on display
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:27 PM
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Why though? Often women who are sluts are sluts for a reason too, and the reasons behind it often aren't that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:39 PM
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We agree there. There are women here who advocate lying about their n counts which is SO STUPID. Like even if you get away with that, why would you want to be with a man who wants to be with a fake version of you and not who you really are? If he doesn't want to be with the real you, why trick him into it? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:22 PM
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But most stories do involve the women being sluts though (not specifically that sub, but when the story comes up), which is the whole point. If they were similar in n-count, it wouldn't be an issue. Right, absolutely. But a lot of women advocate for lying or say that women don't lie about it - which is absolutely false. I agree that guys in that situation should not get in a LTR with a high n count women, but oftentimes they don't know she is high n count. That sub is going to have a bit of sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:09 PM
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And? That's wrong too right? So whats with the whataboutism. The women here say that if you're a 29 year old virgin, you don't have to worry about your partner being a slut because sluts won't go for you. But that is clearly wrong, oftentimes sluts do go for inexperienced men to manipulate them. It is gaslighting saying what you're worried about won't happen. Many of these stories involve the women lying about their pasts. It isn't like the men specifically went for sluts. Women say sluts won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:44 PM
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Who said she's 29? Usually the women are younger. But my point is sluts still do get with these guys, which women here claim doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:38 PM
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Look at the head mod, some forever alone incel who got his first gf at 29 - I assume she is a slut. It is funny when women try to pretend the slut going after the inexperienced guy to manipulate isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:32 PM
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Just pull a Norah Vincent...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:11 PM
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That's because Peace Corps takes two years of your life with basically no pay. Not a lot of guys can afford that since they are expected to earn. Women can just fuck off for two years and it doesn't really mean much because they can just expect a man to provide for them. I will say though that when I lived in W Africa, the Peace Corps cohort I met there was majority male actually. I wonder if they send different genders to different places. W Africa is a bit more dangerous than SE Asia, so maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:23 AM
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Well, there's gonna be a prequel about her life. Hope she gets some suffering in that one. And then dies a ho's death if it becomes a trilogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:56 AM
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I'm glad most of the hoes died, but all of the hoes should have died IMO. Also the cucked dude had it worst of all, literally died after getting cucked. Good life lesson, don't be a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:52 AM
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Yes, then suck his pp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:40 AM
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I don't really care about Johnny Depp per se. But I do like the case because it showcases how women treat men who are abused. They don't give a shit about them (unless they can blame a man for it), or say they deserved it, or say they are awful too. I've seen a lot of women here talk about how hE's AbUsIvE ToO. Yeah, and women are often abusive too and abuse is mutual. It just so happens that men can cause more damage, so the woman's abuse is pushed under the rug and disregarded. Even in this ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:28 AM
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Yes, women talk about how they get to choose which men reproduce and their pickiness is how humanity moves forward and blahblahblah about how it doesnt matter if dating sucks for men. If their choices lead to single motherhood and/or shittier lives for them, then they are worse and should be judged harsher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:30 PM
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God, being a woman is so easy. She got 250k just for seeing a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:17 AM
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Tell them you want to move to Hungary, not take them to America with you. That should weed out a lot of gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:15 AM
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You went to med school? I did grad school before med school, the difference in commitment is not comparable. I still date during school, just couldn't find time during finals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:30 PM
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Historically pretty difficult cuz I'm of the "wrong" ethnicity in not very diverse places. Even in a diverse city, my ethnicity wasn't the correct one. Over time I got game that made things easier, but I am in med school now which makes things pretty difficult. During finals month, I only went on 1 date because I didn't have much time otherwise. A lot of women aren't very understanding of you having priorities besides her. One girl got mad at me for having exams for a whole month and I was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:22 AM
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Bald early 20s guy by a landslide. Bald at that age isn't normal, being a fat woman is now normalized. Plus lots of desperate dudes these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:42 AM
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Well keep in mind this dude lives in Cali, that's normal over there...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:27 AM
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Mostly no, I think if a person says they are innocent, then they should not get the death penalty even if the judge/jury finds them guilty. Life in prison, sure. But there have been far too many mistakes to just give them the death penalty. But if a prisoner says they are guilty and willingly accepts the death penalty for the crime, then it can be meted out. But it is more like euthanasia at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:14 PM
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It is too early to say. People probably said the same about Bill and Melinda Gates, now look at them. I have a very strong feeling that Priscilla will file for divorce eventually and take some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:47 PM
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Me too. I was surprised to see how femcel and cucked /r/90dayfiance is. They are losing their minds over him, legit calling him an "abuser".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:44 PM
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idk what that guy is talking about. Sour cream is gross. Replacing it with greek yogurt is pretty much better in every way, except maybe price
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:50 AM
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The other guy said that they are roughly half pro-life, which is true depending on how much leeway you give roughly. I don't think most pro-life people say in all circumstances like rape/incest too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:41 PM
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https://news.gallup.com/poll/245618/abortion-trends-gender.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:05 PM
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Almost every Ivy League school admits more women than men. Over the years, Ivy League educated women will of course outnumber their equivalent men. And they will inevitably have to settle for not getting with Ivy League men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:35 AM
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At the risk of sounding like a douche, a mil isn't even that much anymore. If you have $150k (or 275k inflation adjusted) rn and the market continues to provide average returns, you will be a millionaire in 20 years. Put in 1350 per month for 20 years and you have 1 mil. That is less than maxing out your 401k every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:12 AM
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Usually hot chicks or privileged chicks are depressed due to brain chemistry problems. They don't really have much to complain about. But their brain chemistry/hormones are broken so they feel like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:03 AM
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Which women? Women try to frame it as men vs women, but last I checked a sizable portion of anti-abortionists are women. A poll I saw said 43% of women are. But, the worst is probably "moral decay" for those who care about it. In PPD terms, I could definitely see hypergamy increasing. In personal terms, I think regulations around women are good for society. They need to know that they aren't all powerful and are at the behest of other people, otherwise they will start acting wild. It is a good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:39 AM
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Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:13 PM
1

Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:52 PM
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It just is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:14 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:03 PM
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What you said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:49 PM
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thats too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:33 PM
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sounds like a no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:17 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:07 PM
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I thought most cucks lived in Cali. Whenever one gets outed, like that one who was fired from being a teacher, it is always in Cali. Maybe it is a situation of men in liberal states actually being cucks and red staters not wanting to actually be cucks so they just watch the porn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:19 AM
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Ugly and average girls are the ones you most have to worry about being sluts these day. They desperately want to be hot, so they act like sluts to fulfill that fantasy. And there's plenty of hard up men willing to help them with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:00 AM
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She's going to cheat or already has. She is overstating her "devotion". https://www.thecut.com/2017/09/why-women-cheat-esther-perel-state-of-affairs.html This is her btw: https://mediaproxy.salon.com/width/1200/height/675/https://media.salon.com/2014/06/kim_brooks.jpg https://www.chicagomag.com/wp-content/archive/Chicago-Magazine/August-2018/Kim-Brooks-Is-an-Unhelicopter-Mom/C201808-312-Kim-Brooks.jpg Calling herself a 6 is generous, but she definitely looks like a slut to me. Not sure what it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:56 AM
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My gut reaction is that this will end up in an abusive relationship like Stephen Hawking found himself in. A cleft plate doesn't make it easier to be abused as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:34 AM
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One of the few things that I agree with with some of the women here is that Western men have created these problems for themselves, and a large portion of the blame lies with them. Women will act as shitty as men allow them to. If there are no boundaries, guess what - there's no boundaries. This idea of "women should be allowed to do whatever they want to do" is just stupid, it feeds into the women are wonderful idea as if all of whatever women want to do is so great - nah, they want to do some …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:25 AM
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The virgin thing isn't the biggest point about them, that's just the thing Westerners hyperfocus on. They're beautiful and pleasant to be around. Them being virgins is just another trait that makes them desirable, which most people throughout history understood intuitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:45 PM
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Let's abort the discussion before it gets too big
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:39 AM
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They're not women from Earth, they are angelic like the valkyrie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:06 AM
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It depends on whether you consider good mental health a "need". Sex releases dopamine, oxytocin and all sorts of hormones that improve mental health that masturbation won't necessarily replace. I think masturbation does lead to release of dopamine, but the whole thing is complex. Like it doesn't release the same amount or bind to the same receptors or something, I haven't done enough research getting into the weeds of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:44 PM
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For me, virginity is almost never a red flag for a woman. She'd have to be like divorced or something for it to be a red flag. And even then, if it turns out some .01% way that the divorce wasn't due to lack of sex but due to abuse or something, I still wouldn't consider it a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:15 PM
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It is obv faked. She does this to drive views to her OnlyFans. Just looking at her last post, she did it about being "stood up": https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/u3t9oc/from_my_post_the_other_day_about_being_stood_up/i4rtq9q/. That sub is so gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:48 PM
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This was so obviously the case. It is just another case of female hamstering on this sub. First, they’ll say it is this. Then when you prove them wrong they’ll talk about all sorts of stuff like the “pay gap” or whatever. Then repeat ad nauseum. If that actually was the reason why didnt you bring it up first instead of the debunked one? The answer is that they dont actually believe what they are saying, they are hypocrites (or they have lied to themselves enough that they now believe the lie), a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:02 PM
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Its because women are more likely to be bisexual or towards that end on the spectrum of sexuality. Women also have a bigger in group bias so they will naturally see their own group as more beautiful. Women also like bringing down men, so they will of course say most men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:12 AM
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God, I can't believe people still use the Mosuo as an example. The Mosuo matriarchal system is enforced by more powerful nobility to keep them subordinate, which makes perfect sense. The best way to keep men weak is to put women in charge of them. Some could say this is even occurring among a certain demographic in the US, where women tend to outperform men economically - but that economic group overall does worse than others. https://www.thenanjinger.com/magazine/feature-stories/mosuo-tribe-pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:04 PM
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Accept it by fucking her but never committing emotionally or financially. Keep it going as long as you can or until you get bored. The ick is totally justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:15 AM
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I just want to know what kind of pussy even reports these comments to admins, imagine being that soft
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:33 AM
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These people saying castration or death are crazy. Especially after we've seen men exonerated. I don't care if they're in the "minority", see Blackstone's formulation. I feel like these people are the same ones that would have lynched Emmett Till if they were alive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:12 AM
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Sure, everyone makes inferences. I didn't blame you for making an inference, I said you made an incorrect one, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:05 AM
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Yeah, the quotation marks were to mock the FDS women because they consider it all to belong to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:04 AM
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That was a blatantly false inference not implication
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:00 AM
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But from what I understand they also recommend keeping a separate account just for her too. But I don't get what your point is. You're upset that I said I don't hope they take it out of their joint account? Ok fine, I hope they do now. If the husband marries a FDS woman, he deserves to pay the stupid tax too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:57 AM
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what? also FDS isnt all women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:42 AM
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To branch swing, duh, keep up but real talk, there are women on there who say you should never stop vetting/shit testing even after marriage. Vet til u ded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:42 AM
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It just says made private. It looks like they may even be doing it to redirect traffic to their site. It is one big grift. I looked at their Patreon and they say they are making at least 4.8k per month. I hope that is women paying out of their own wallet and not married women taking it out of their "joint" account, at least then it would just be a stupid tax
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:59 AM
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Kind of. I grew up poor, then lower middle class, then shot up to pretty solidly upper middle class. But my upbringing seared financial discipline into me. I think I'm slowly getting out of it to be a bit more carefree with money, but it is almost taking conscious effort, especially around women cuz they hate "broke ass" dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:27 AM
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Doesn't matter, I'll just change my mind afterwards to make it whatever I want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:21 AM
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Why would you assume that was a bad thing? I just said balls in your mouth doesn't count as having grown/having balls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:52 AM
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I have balls, it seems like there's only one of us without them (in your mouth doesn't count). Nah, I'll do whatever the fuck I want. If you want to get butthurt about me doing whatever the fuck I want to do or don't want to do, best of luck ;) Who cares about your consideration lmfao?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:48 AM
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Dang, this was one of the better ones, you can tell because of how butthurt a lot of the women got. It felt like more than usual. Hope you save this /u/TheMastermind and post it later
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:33 AM
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Because my memory is good… Wow doesnt take much to flatter you lmfao, we’re all just words on a computer screen, i just happen to remember some words better than you apparently do lmfao Im glad to have gotten under your skin that you felt the need to begin this conversation with me. But i hope i dont flatter you again even tho its so easy, i might do it by mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:25 AM
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Lmao i guess i just have a memory that lasts longer than a couple of days, so sue me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:21 AM
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You obv are to start this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:05 AM
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If youre butthurt about someone talking about you on a public forum do it for your sake lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:01 AM
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Ill say whatever the fuck i want, i dont have to tag you for shit cuz i have 0 respect for you as another mammal let alone human being Youre the one so butthurt you started this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:51 PM
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Lmao the burden of proof isnt to prove a negative. Im not sexist. Theyre all shitposts, prove i meant it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:47 PM
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Lol dude everything is a shitpost I dont care what you think or who you trust, worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:45 PM
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Prove anyone means anything Prove I think that Thats how stupid you sound rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:42 PM
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Who cares if your memory is bad? You're the one who responded to me first here, I didn't talk to you first, so leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:41 PM
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Prove anyone means anything ItS sExIsT, grow up, if you're from 26 you're way too old to be acting this childish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:41 PM
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Just because you're ignorant of it doesn't mean it is a lie. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/u9nato/daily_community_chat_megathread/i5wv7yn/?context=3 Not that you would care, you seem a lot like her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:40 PM
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In the conversation we had about chemical castration, you're all over this forum saying dumb shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:38 PM
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No, you just hate men enough that you're willing to punish any man, innocent or not. Now you're trying to backtrack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:36 PM
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I already had a conversation with her earlier, where she supported innocent men getting chemically castrated at puberty. I don't hate women. Prove it. I said nothing about virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:35 PM
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She may or may not be high n, but a man hater for sure and has a chip on her shoulder for being "assaulted" that she now takes out on men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:31 PM
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According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:16 AM
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Sometimes, sometimes about their personal lives. Some were, some were not. I'm pretty well traveled, been to over 40 countries and every continent except Antarctica. I've haven't had this conversation in every one obv, but they have been varied enough. No, I get to presume whatever the fuck I want ma'am, especially when I've already been given good reason to do so. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:14 AM
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But boys were preferred waaaaaay before porn was a thing and in places where porn isn't easily found, so it is irrelevant. Those stats are for the Western world correct? And you don't need porn to objectify women. Sex sells all throughout media. You can see naked scenes without even specifically looking for porn. I see women walking around with their butts and their literal pubic mounds being shown behind a thin layer of whatever yoga pants are made up of. Boys don't need porn to see that kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:08 AM
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How is a subjective one not "valid"? If someone subjectively finds it easier to raise boys, wanting to then raise them due to that reason doesn't make it "invalid". Sure, whatever. I'll say this though, your story is funny because it is just the opposite of mine. I actually found this sub years ago because I was one of those liberal feminist guys when I went to college with a liberal bubble. Then I lived life for a bit, grew up, experienced the real world and saw how ridiculous it was. It is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:01 AM
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You don't need to go to neglect just to have an easier time, what kind of logic is that. I've known families with both boys and girls, including fraternal twins, who have said the boys were easier. You're right the myth should have died cuz it has pretty much been debunked. However, women just can't accept it and cling to it. But it is also used as weapon of guilt to seek preferential treatment, so I doubt it will ever really go away no matter what. I doubt it, you just think you do. That's just…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:46 AM
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I said it was subjective, but I think you're in the minority. I have traditionally heard boys are way easier to raise. No we don't. Just because we don't know all the reasons doesn't mean it is sexism. That's just what women jump to. Like the pay gap thing. Women immediately wanted to claim it was sexism, then people looked at it and the overwhelming majority of the pay gap was easily explainable and not due to sexism. Women just think the default is sexism which is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:09 AM
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I think there are many different reasons, including daughters being harder to raise and in some ways being less rewarding (I know this is subjective). I'm not claiming I know all the reasons. I just am willing to bet there's a good reason, and chalking it up to sexism is just a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:01 AM
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If that's what you want to call it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:54 AM
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There's a reason sons have been historically favored and still are in many cultures even though "sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive" and people cared about procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:33 AM
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I'd only ever be outside of polyamorous relationships outside of the Western context. Being a poly man in the West just means being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:17 PM
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Then the question has been answered, and I don't see why this had to drag on so long. If I have to wait longer than another man, I am no longer willing to remain monogamous and in that relationship. He's not wrong to think that a relationship will lead to sex, most people think a healthy relationship will lead to sex. If he's wrong, then she's wrong for expecting him to wait. You're assuming he has expectations, when really all it could be is that he evaluates the situation and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:52 PM
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Well, you asked the question. The caveat being whether the woman is being communicative regarding those different experiences. Just like you said "how am I supposed to know" about your hypothetical, it is also unfair to just expect a man to "know". I also think the difference in our viewpoints seems to be that you seem to feel that if a man isn't getting what he wants out of the relationship, whosoever fault it is, he should just stick it out and be unhappy because her happiness is more importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:41 PM
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I understand your point, my point is you not feeling those things for him but being able to feel those things for another guy earlier makes it so being in guy B's position a bad one and not one I would stick around a serious LTR for. Why should I stick around for that when I can find another girl who does feel those things about me earlier? It isn't expecting anything by "default", unless you consider having sex in a relationship a default since most people would agree that sex is a very importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:15 PM
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Ok, so that's still the same issue. You exclusively date for a while and if guy A got there faster than guy B then there's no reason for me to be guy B because that is the worse situation, it doesn't have to be day 1 - use whatever length you want. You're saying it is personal and stuff, but that is already resolved because guy A still got to whatever threshold you have. So the threshold has already been determined. You're trying to place all the blame on guy B saying he didn't do what he was "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:03 PM
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You said this was in the context of a serious relationship right? If you considered both to be worthy of a serious relationship, then the bar has already been met. Now you're trying to say one has to work harder than another for the exact same thing. You're going for quality of time over quantity there. I've dated a woman I've known for a month and had better feelings for her than someone I've known for 6 months. You're also assuming that giving more time necessarily means a shorter time period …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:46 PM
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That's still transactional, "if I don't get what I want first, you can't have what you want, and the only reason you get what you want is because I get something back in return - by the way I claim to care about you". Go back to your gift giving example, you don't think that kind of person is weird? So then that's part of the issue, you're putting all of the onus on the man. It is all up to him. When that obviously isn't the case. Obviously women hold different men to different standards and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:23 PM
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You could know if you asked me, so that's on you. If I get mad at you for asking, then that would be on me, but I'm not that kind of person. So you see relationships as transactional... Usually when I buy gifts for people it is because I care about them, not because I want something back in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah, that sounds reasonable to me. It would be so weird if I spent more on an ex and absolutely refused to spend the same amount or more on the current girl that I claim to care about right now. You wouldn't think that's weird? If that's how you define value, ok. But sex is part of a normal healthy relationship, material goods necessarily aren't. You can have a good relationship without material goods. But that's a different discussion on whether she is LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:12 PM
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There's no set timeline though. In fact it is the opposite of what you are saying, it is based on how you value that connection rather than on some set timeline. It is more like you're willing to treat me worse than a previous partner, that's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:03 PM
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you're already holding out an expectation date for sex Those relationships were not your relationship and sex isn't determined I can barely even parse this response, are you having a stroke? Regardless of what you are trying to communicate here, I'll just say I get if you're not okay with it. My experience has been that the women here are more uptight and weirder than the women I know IRL. So I guess I select for women who won't get offended by that discussion. I guess they select for me too. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:00 PM
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There probably aren't any. These studies won't show what you're trying to show.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:57 PM
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No, because when men aren't involved (lesbian relationships), the divorce rates are higher. I think the domestic violence rates are higher too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:57 PM
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For what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:52 PM
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That's not true. Just make it light. Half the time it happens we're just talking and laughing. They've never gotten offended and neither have I. A couple of times it was the women who started with the more probing questions like whether I had sex in public before or not. It requires a degree of social skills I guess, but I haven't had much trouble with it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:50 PM
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So the caveat is that she's dishonest too? So why would I want to seriously date her? I'm pretty open with previous partners, the thing that women here say that they don't talk about it doesn't hold true for me IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:42 PM
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Lots of people wait til marriage, even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:41 PM
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I just did above. The 52 one that you're talking about is by Shelby Scott and has the exact same name and URL. It calls it a 2013 study and I see that they data they used is the same. At least triple dipping on this one study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/. Based on her parenthetical citation it is actually more like quadruple dipping or even quintuple dipping. Also, I said "ones" not one. It is probably like the same 2 or 3 studies. And as the other guy pointed out, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:40 PM
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I am willing to wait the shortest amount of time she made another guy wait. If she's a virgin, I'm willing to wait til marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:37 PM
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The conversation began with a discussion about how the clit is removed to reduce sexual pleasure. The comparison was then made to how circumcision also reduces sexual pleasure for men. The point is the something for reducing sexual pleasure exists for men and is widely done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:24 PM
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Ok... that version makes more sense than what you initially stated. Is that an actual thing though? Circumcision is an actual thing. Like chemical castration doesn't chop your penis off but I don't think it is functional (which would defeat the purpose). So you're comparing it to a hypothetical situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:16 PM
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Based on her obsession with it being MuLtIpLe StUdIeS, it seems she believes quantity beats quality when it comes to studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:14 PM
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Like I said, that is just the first thing I found 2 mins in. Another one I see in another 2 min look is that the study is the same 52 sample size study you mentioned as well as the one mentioned the paragraph above in the article. So it is triple dipping. I wouldn't be surprised if even more of the surveys are duplicated, like not this particular study but them duplicating a second study 3 times. Haha multiple surveys that just happen to be the same ones. Good one. I wouldn't be able to get away…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:02 PM
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What isn't? And it prevents them from having penetrative sex completely, the comparison doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:58 PM
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Whether they get off or not, they are still able to have penetrative sex. The other comparison makes sense, this one doesn't. And most women is not all women. Ok... so women can receive pleasure from anal sex... what's the point, obv pleasure from other sources exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:54 PM
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I don't know how much due diligence was done in your link though. Let me just give one example: I wanted to see the actual studies they were referring to. So I went to this line that had links Surveys by Insider.com, The Huffington Post, Forbes, and the NCBI found a diversity of reasons for couples to initiate the divorce process. The first and last one point to the exact same study down to the URL (for the first one you have to click a second link within it). I don't know if they're double dipp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:48 PM
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There is no way that is the correct equivalent. Cutting the whole penis off means no procreation or even functions like urination. While the clitoris is important for sexual pleasure, some women do get pleasure from other sources in their genitalia. The other one makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:24 PM
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If you're actually the kind of woman that says women cheat because of their own faults, good for you but you're in the minority IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:21 PM
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My point still stands, women being dominated is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:20 PM
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I'd be okay with that. Women like being dominated more than men. So I'd like to see a 3:1 ratio of whatever of women walking on all fours around Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:13 PM
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Lesbians divorce more than anyone, I guess that's mens' fault too. It is the exact opposite of what you are saying, so female hamstering. Women blame men for their issues, behavior and shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah! The issue is girls dont put enough coins in!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:58 AM
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Nah, much larger population than that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:57 PM
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Yea its hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:17 PM
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Left to their own devices, that is inevitably how many, if not most, women will behave. I mean idc cuz I like seeing a nice ass. I encourage women to show as much of their body as they can (if they are hot, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:40 PM
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They most certainly are. At least one study has shown that millennials and Gen X have more partners than Boomers, even though Boomers lived longer and had more years to have sex. The data is clearly trending up. Your link didn't even HAVE A STUDY. It was just tables, I didn't even see a link to an actual study in the link. Do you know what a study even means? Who was the author? How many participants? What was the methodology? Seriously, do you even have a college education? And if so, was it ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:04 PM
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I could so the same about you. That's anecdotal and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:38 PM
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And yours aren't reliable for the biases I have mentioned multiple times. Why do you keep emphasizing OVER A LIFETIME? All these studies are about partner count of the participants LIFE SO FAR. In fact, mine are even more relevant because with younger people, with the numbers being high - they'll just be even higher as they age. I have shown 2 already, and on each one you have quibbled over some imaginary issue while excusing the biases of your own. You have also moved goalposts, so how about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:37 PM
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So whats wrong with the study above? I cant believe youre being so pigheaded about something just because you dont like what you see. And youre lying there. i never said anything about all women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:29 PM
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I've recently seen girls walking around in leggings that are so tight you can see the pubic mound. So those. It is only a matter of time before women start showing up at funerals and first communions like that. There's this girl that wears like the same light colored ones that accentuates it even more to my med school classes. It is possible that girl's outfit may cause the death of a patient 30 years from now due to a piece of information not being learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:10 AM
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Link to thread on another post (and why I was tagged) added for posterity: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uawfie/are_there_many_women_who_subscribe_to_and_believe/i62396i/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:38 AM
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Possibly, but again if we go by your talk about selection bias for the survey, aren't younger ages more likely to use condoms than others (among those who practice safe sex)? So maybe youngins are overrepresented? I don't know if that's the case, but I wouldn't be surprised, I would think other BC methods increase with age. I know that I used to use condoms when I was younger, but now rely more on the BC of the women I am seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:27 AM
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The second to last one broke it down by generation showing the youngest at the lowest sexual partner count. Millennials having more sex than Zoomers. With n count still being around 10-12. Wait haha, of course they'll have lower numbers, they had less years to have sex. The question is if they had lower numbers than older cohorts at their age. Seeing as that source said that Millennials had higher numbers than the previous cohort who had higher numbers than the previous cohort, that is a reasona…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:26 AM
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I don't see that assumption being correct. I could just as easily say that people who were concerned with safe sex may have lower numbers than people who were impulsive and maybe these participants were actually more conservative than people are estimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:21 AM
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The consensus of studies with issues such as selection bias, confounding variables such as age, and replication crisis. That assumes that they are looking at the exact same age groups and such and all have similar biases. But nonetheless she asked for just one showing it and so far 2 have cropped up. I wouldn't be surprised as more crop up as the years go by. I think this is a very fast changing issue and relying on old data isn't sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:18 AM
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I believe that first link is about number of partners per that specific year right? Not super helpful to the discussion. Ok cool, so that 19 n corresponds with the NZ stat showing it isn't even an "outlier" like some are trying to brush it off as. Also, I'm glad it also specifies under 30 since that also jives with my point about age being a confounding variable. The ones provided elsewhere included older participants as well. Maybe that will please /u/PurpleTrollaway975 and /u/MelodiousTones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:15 AM
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According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:56 AM
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So? Lots of studies everywhere have "shit data" due to the replication crisis. At least this one had a larger sample size than what she provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:55 AM
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Can you actually link the study you have in mind. From what I recall, sexlessness was led by men for the most part. And again, that says nothing about partner count. It may even validate my own point, since I think others have posted sources on PPD saying sexual frequency is higher in LTRs. So if LTRs are eschewed and multiple STRs are pursued, that would mean an increase in both partner count and sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:41 AM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:06 AM
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I already gave one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:47 AM
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If we're thinking about the same study, that was a recent outcome of COVID and it was about how often they had sex, not whether they were having sex with less partners. You can have less stable relationships so you have sex with more people, but less often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:46 AM
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Nah, maybe you're projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:27 AM
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Yeah, there probably are, pobrecito. I can't imagine being near you without a wall in between Wrong about what? I'd love to know what I haven't admitted to. It's okay sugar tits, I think I'm doing better than you if I have some good humor in my life. I lie [down] best when I'm with a hot woman, so you're wrong about that - I hope you can admit being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:14 AM
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Oh wow, paranoid much? Are you okay? Do you have someone near you that can take care of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:55 AM
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Mhm, maybe that was another response and you got confused? Yeah, I'd definitely be willing to believe you're missing something, it's not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:54 AM
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Oh thats so sad, pobrecito What edit? Oh yeah, haha isn't it so funny how some people actually think about stuff? Maybe you'll learn what it feels like one day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:50 AM
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Oh wow, great phrase, is sarcasm not a thing where you're from? Or do you just have trouble understanding it? None needed, and same to you. No offense if you are, but I'll offer some pity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:45 AM
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Wow, that's sad, maybe one day your imagination will get better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:41 AM
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Damn if you haven't seen many funnier things, your life is truly devoid of humor. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:37 AM
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Didn't I say ok? Have all the praise you want LMAO, imagine caring about something like that, i don't get it but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:51 AM
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LOL ok, not really sure why it matters what you can live with. Women already believe lots of silly things, what's one more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:45 AM
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Where exactly did I defend the men? Didn't I say that was the least they could do as well? Why you always lying? Nah, the woman is wrong for picking the wrong man. If she didn't screw that up, the man wouldn't have even had a chance to do the wrong thing. Plus, he doesn't get a say on whether the baby is born or not like she does. For all we know, he could have wanted an aborted baby which means he chose to not make her a single mother. If she chooses the wrong man and then chooses to have the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:00 AM
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Oh wow, so every mother who had a father stick around could see into the future? Let's have them join the X-Men. Give me a break. I guess I'll use that excuse for every single poor decision I ever make from now on too then. Ok, so? Probably less than the men who were obvious but the woman couldn't make good decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:53 PM
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Sure, that is the least he could do as well. But he didn't do the least he could do. Too bad, maybe the mother should have chosen a man that would have. And yes, newsflash men and women are different. I mean seems pretty intuitive, but I guess some people have difficulty with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:49 PM
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I would argue a single mother is created by her own choices, one of them being who she decided to choose as the father of her child. That is the least the mother could do due to her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:45 PM
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There's plenty of men who do, maybe the single mother failures could have chosen from among them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:37 PM
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Nope, I gave you what you asked for and you want to move goalposts. Then once I give another source, you'll move goalposts again. The burden of proof isn't even on me to prove a negative, so I already went above and beyond. I'm not bothering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:35 PM
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Yep, go ahead and keep moving goalposts. I don't care if you approve of my "idea" or not. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:33 PM
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Who said I cared or it has to do with me personally? This is a DEBATE sub. Nothing has to do with your life or mine. I answered a debate post. The question is why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:29 PM
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You asked for one, I gave you one, now you're changing goal posts. You never said it had to be about the US, especially since you started off with one from Canada. It is from a Western country with a majority white, English speaking population with a similar cultural heritage. You just don't like it because you are being pigheaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:27 PM
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Are you nuts? Of course the global average will be lower. You think women in Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan are whoring around? I presume you live in the US like I do. Which one is our country more like New Zealand or Saudi Arabia? Which kind of women are more alike? Think about which countries have the largest populations, do those countries typically have whorish women? Well then, think about how the US is probably closer to NZ than the "global average". And even all those conservative countries …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:23 PM
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That's stupid, the burden of proof isn't on me to prove a negative. Here's your one: https://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/22444/Kiwi-women-most-promiscuous-in-the-world. The average for women they found was 20.4. And that means over 50% had more. Hardly a minority. But even this will show you how depending on these "studies" is dumb because they are rife with errors and biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:18 PM
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No I did not. I said it wasn't a minority, and they aren't. If you think dozens of sexual partners for women is uncommon, you are severely out of touch. And you have no response to the biases within those surveys, and cling to them despite plenty of reason not to believe them. Your very own source said they aren't reliable but you want to stick to the fantasy of believing what you read because it aligns with your preconceived notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:07 PM
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Did you see the age range or not? Do you have any response to selection bias, replication crisis, bogus pipeline or not? Do you understand burden of proof or not? "There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:03 PM
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I barely got halfway through your "source" when I got to this: Keep in mind, though, that this survey isn’t super recent, and like most surveys on sexual behaviour, its participant sample wasn’t very large. In other words, the survey might not be as reflective of Canadian sexual behaviour as it appears. What did I say? These studies are mostly useless due to the replication crisis, bogus pipeline, selection bias, and more. This is hardly "proof" of anything, let alone that only a minority of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:58 PM
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Why should I? My claim was simply that it is NOT the minority. The burden of proof isn't on me to prove that it is the minority. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:54 PM
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Thats one girl, and that's according to what you know. Oh wow, a teen girl might hide her promiscuous sex life from her parents. Who ever heard of that happening? Have you ever heard of the "replication crisis"? Maybe you should look that up. Or the bogus pipeline? How about selection bias? Are you even in STEM or just someone who reads a couple of articles and thinks they know what they are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:52 PM
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The proof is in the pudding. Are you an older woman who is out of touch with what is going on these days? Women routinely say expecting a low N count is looking for something unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:48 PM
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They are not. Those numbers usually look at older people too, and women have certainly changed. It is much more common for women in their 20s and 30s to already have double or 3x.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:44 PM
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Who mentioned cheap sex? Or most women? My point was that women who ride the cock carousel are hardly just "club girls" nor are they the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:35 PM
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All I know is I'd rather be aborted than be raised by a single mother, that shit looks awful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:55 PM
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club girls and extrapolate them to the whole population Women here try to stereotype women acting like that as "club girls". I personally don't like club/party girls. Yes, the city I am in has a lot, so I see both sides. I went to a pretty good and well known university, am upper middle class due to a fortunate family, and have worked intellectually rigorous jobs. Suffice it to say, I was surrounded by a lot of girls who weren't "club girls". A lot of TRP still holds true. It doesn't have anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:56 PM

So what happened? Your entire job consists of cleaning two rooms? Maybe he had more work left to him aside from those rooms. I get the feeling we aren't getting the full story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:43 AM

Plus good looking people have a halo effect so their behavior looks good anyway. Theres no halo effect for behavior. At best, theyll acknowledge your bad looks and say it doesnt matter. They wont say you look good because youre a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:11 AM
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For all the people who say "you'll never get an honest answer about her n count", good luck getting an honest answer about SA lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:38 PM
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I think the solution is coming to terms with it, growing up and realizing it is ridiculous to behave that way, and then not being a slave to primitive wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:34 PM
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Was the assault the last count or somewhere in the middle. If it was the last one, I might give her a break. If it happened in the past and she still racked up the n count afterwards, fair game IMO to consider it. But I don't go on absolute numbers, but ranges, and she'd already be at the top of the range anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:25 PM
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I thought Of course women want it all, and more, and more and more and more Made it pretty clear that this was about women in general. But I guess I would also disagree that this is about femininity. I know feminine guys who don't act that way, and masculine women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:06 PM
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Hey /u/xpinkrainbowsx, do you consider this a woman saying that nature makes women want everything as an excuse for them to be demanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:49 PM
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You are clearly a misogynist if your mind defaults to a judge being a man. People like you make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:25 PM
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Did you just assume the judge's gender shitlord?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:22 PM
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That specific man, not men as a collective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:48 PM
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Imposing one's will over someone else's
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:45 PM
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Unwanted physical contact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:43 PM
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So? Sounds like a failure of parenting to me, neither of those happened to me. Your point is that women should force men to get chemically castrated, my point is that men don't force women to get assaulted and the majority of men actually want to prevent it. Point made, women in charge would make this world hell on Earth - evolution was right about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:35 PM
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The comment I responded to was about hating men. The plurality, if not majority, of women here hate men. The proportion of them who are able to admit it is small though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:31 PM
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Kinder than women would have been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:30 PM
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She does, that's why she is here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:26 PM
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That's a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:25 PM
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If women actually had the power to do so, they would do this. Scary to think about. Every day, I thank God/nature that man was made stronger than woman. This is the better reality. A reality where women were stronger would be hell on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:25 PM
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Isn't it soooo funny how women use it for everything? Teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:43 PM
1

Paging /u/xpinkrainbowsx. Wanted to see it for the "first time ever", and now you have 2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:41 PM
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It's biology Paging /u/xpinkrainbowsx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:40 PM
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Yes. Ideal height is 6'3''-6'5''. Anything above 6' is stupid to feel insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:16 AM
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I think he is another one of those white liberal dudes without much adversity who repeats the shit women say to make them feel validated about their anger towards men (and get views of course since women dominate social media, so play to your audience). Like Jian Ghomeshi or Joss Whedon. I'll give it 5 years before it turns out he's sexually assaulted someone or is otherwise problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:47 AM
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Why don't they tell other women to not have sex if they don't want to get pregnant? They literally just blame it on men again. They say the men want to have sex so they are doing them a favor. Zero accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:44 AM
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It just shows how women don't really have the morals they claim they have. As soon as they have to compromise or get on the losing side of anything, they lose their shit. Can you imagine if men were the ones dealing with this? The harpies would cream themselves thinking about how former women were "outdoing" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:35 AM
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I think what is happening is that you are seeing different users using that reasoning, including women, so you mistakenly think it is being used for "everything". When it is more likely that one group uses it for A, one group uses it for B, and another uses it for C. But you think the same guy is using it for ABC. I mean, I don't know PlayfulLawyer, but I don't really see any evidence he uses that same reasoning for "everything".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:19 AM
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I like the whole transgenders in sports things cuz it screws over women and in some cases makes them reexamine their stupid bullshit about gender. Men don't really have to worry about some woman transitioning and kicking anyone's ass. The only reason people even give a shit is because women are the ones who are getting screwed over. If the situation was so that transmen were outperforming men in some way, no one would give a shit and women would just use it as a way to denigrate and emasculate m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:15 AM
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So your opinion is that biological differences cannot be brought up? Do you acknowledge that men and women have biological differences between the genders? I'm trying to figure out what your contention is. Do you just not like that the genders are different? For example, if I said that the reason there aren't women in the NBA is due to biology - is that a stupid reason? It all just seems arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:10 AM
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How was it unprompted? You literally asked for how it is different, and that is a reason for the difference. What would be the proper prompt in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:05 AM
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It seems like he had multiple reasons there, including access to sex. You just hyperfocused on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:00 AM
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No I didn't, I literally never said "always" or every time. That is just your dumb assumption. Ahh yes, how dare people answer questions with a justification on a debate sub. Let's see some examples. I gave you one, let's see yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:52 AM
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On a DEBATE sub, that isnt out of thin air, that is to debate their point. Nice deflection though, my point is women do it too, which is painfully clear. Quibbling about who does it more is just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:48 AM
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You don't need to be here for longer than a minute to use the search bar, so... That's a dumb way to do it, is the population 50/50? Learn about selection bias. Plus, women get far more pissy about it (for the other side, not their own) and try to debate it so of course you'll see men talk about it more to defend the position on a debate sub. Men don't push back as much when women say it so there isn't a point for them to mention it more, it is already accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:43 AM
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You have to be willfully ignorant to not see them. Just by typing evolution I found one within seconds: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/l17yj5/women_are_right_about_being_to_picky_thats_the/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:38 AM
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Women here do the exact same thing. "Women are supposed to like tall guys because of biology". "Women are supposed to be more selective because of biology". "Women are supposed to be considered more valuable because of biology".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:29 AM
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Nah, it is inflated. For most of human history and even is most places today, a woman isn't really worth more. The West is just experiencing the gender version of "tulip mania".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:10 AM
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It is context dependent. I don't really think men have a problem communicating to women. It is a trope at this point, like this situation most people are familiar with, or being told they are "mansplaining" or something. It seems women have a problem with men oversharing or having the "audacity" or whatever is in vogue today. If communication does break down, it is usually because the man has been worn down when he does try that it isn't even worth it anymore. Keep in mind that women are notorio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:08 AM
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Yeah, if you cant make it as a tall skinny white dude it probably is your personality. Even with a bad personality, you should still be getting Asian chicks. It has to be really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:26 AM
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Who would even study that without getting their funding cut. The current zeitgeist when it comes to issues is that women and men both do a bad thing equally, or men do a bad thing more. Women doing a bad thing more is not allowed. 50/50 is too neat, most things don't work out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:49 AM
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Women do it more, or at least get less pushback for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:33 AM
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I like how women here say most women don't like casual sex, but men are also told that expecting a woman who hasn't had casual sex or high N count is too much to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:42 AM
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That is why I am a single dog lady. I made my compromises not doing it again. But do you have kids? It is much easier to resign to the single life once you've already procreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:32 AM
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Well the women there did it to themselves, and they are the minority anyway if women by and large are getting the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:24 AM
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The only thing that makes women unhappy is that they like creating problems for the sake of creating problems or for pity. Modern women really don't have much to complain about in the current dating market. They have it super easy. They "by and large get the men that they want" according to the women here. They don't have to be with men they don't want. Basically the thing making women unhappy about the current dating market is themselves. That is why a woman complaining about dating is so much …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:22 AM
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They sure complain a lot about the men they have or had if they don't have one currently. But I guess you're right, by and large women shouldn't be complaining about the men they are with since that is what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:17 AM
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I'm not only talking about looks. Women overestimate how much value they provide to a relationship, and underestimate the grief they contribute to a relationship as well. A lot of them think they only contribute positively, without thinking about the negative things they contribute or what they take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:12 AM
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I don't really care how angry people get as long as they don't try to doxx people. That's when it goes over the line. I don't even care about "harassment DMs", like just turn off your computer LMAO. I don't even think getting angry over Reddit is really even that bad, people get angry over shows and games too. As long as they don't do anything about it, it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:09 AM
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So? The value is inflated. If you can trick a sucker into paying more, good for you. But at the end of the day you're looking for a sucker. The abundance of people are offering fair value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:02 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:56 PM
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I understand perfectly fine, but it is just ridiculous. No, women are not better doctors. No, having a disease doesn't mean you can treat the disease better than others. No, most psychiatrists aren't mentally unwell. You risk getting kicked out if med school admins even get a whiff of depression, nevermind everything else. You just don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:53 PM
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Most women are shit too. So they have an abundance of their match. They just think they're better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:46 PM
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Psychiatrists are literally the physicians taking care of mental health. Are you thinking of neurologists, which is completely separate field of medicine? Maybe she's just tired of you? That wouldn't surprise me at all. After all, she has to work less hours and you can't take up all her time right? LMFAO. Yeah, I'll get right on that. "Hey dad, a girl on the internet that needs to see a psychiatrist says they're all nutty too!". We'll have a great laugh. I understand it, it is just irrelevant. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:37 PM
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Almost every mental health professional says they got into the field because they were searching for answers about their own mental health. Intellectual curiosity is a great foundation to learn a skill. My dad is literally a psychiatrist. I'm in med school around many psychiatrists and those in training. Where exactly did you get your sources? I know its hard for you to relate since the world is built around the needs of men but some of us don't like to be afterthoughts from the people we pay to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:28 PM
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Yes, there are. but a doctor with diabetes will be a better diabetes doctor than one hasn't LMFAO, says who? Are you 12? I guess psychiatrists have to be mentally challenged to treat their patients too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:19 PM
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If they can't, whose fault is that? There are plenty of men like that out there, women don't want them cuz they also want rich men, or hot men, or whatever men. They don't know how to compromise, so the blame is still on them. Like I said: Right now, women get paid less for the choices they make. I'm ok with that. I'm also ok with women having to give up having children if they want the job. The people complaining are women, so they can come up with the solution. Midwives and nurses still exist.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:57 PM
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Why wouldn't the male doctors have children? Or maybe the female doctors could choose better spouses to help raise their children? Why don't they do that? If they fail at that, then yeah I guess they can't have it all. Or maybe we should choose childfree women only to be doctors. Right now, women get paid less for the choices they make. I'm ok with that. I'm also ok with women having to give up having children if they want the job. The people complaining are women, so they can come up with the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:53 PM
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I didn't say you did. I'm saying if women didn't choose to see less patients, male ones wouldn't be overworked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:37 PM
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Doesn't matter. You're not the only patient in the world. So who's going to see all the other patients women aren't seeing? Including other men, women, and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:33 PM
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women are the better doctors? so the question would be why aren't men choosing multi-faceted lives instead of focusing on work at the expense of patient outcomes. How? I've just shown you that isn't true when you take age and other confounding variables into account. You still haven't answered a very basic question: if men didn't see the extra patients women aren't bothering to see, who would? Do you just not want those patients to see doctors? I too wish men could have more multi-faceted lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:25 PM
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i mean if a woman is working less hours because she is also raising a child, that's not her clocking out and having a brain vacation for the rest of the day. That's an assumption. But also irrelevant to the patient. That is a choice the woman made. Why should the patient suffer because the woman chose a husband that couldn't raise their child instead of her? What is your point or do you even have one. So should patients receive poorer care because women want to be doctors? Should we only hire ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:04 PM
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your logic was seeing less patients means greater patient care bc your load is smaller. if its just due to working less hours, that point is moot. No it wasn't, my point was that increased workload can effect performance. It is clear to me that you don't work in healthcare, because I don't think you understand how much mental stress each additional patient is. It isn't a 1:1 ratio. Just because you work more hours doesn't mean you have it easier, working more hours means that the 14th hour is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:46 PM
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Those lower paid roles are probably lower paid for a reason though. I find it funny you associate lower pay with greater autonomy. Female physicians also work less hours, so of course with less hours you would see less people. I believe there is a study that said that higher pay did not entice women to work more hours. Maybe those male physicians are being overworked because they have to pick up the slack left by female physicians. The alternative is male physicians work less too to "set boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:16 PM
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That's the one with the confounding variable I was talking about, the actual study: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/2593255. It also mentions that the female cohort saw less patients, and I can assure you workload makes a difference. Here's an article about a related study but that also mentions the one above (which mentioned age itself): https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2021-07-19/do-women-or-men-make-the-best-doctors The results remained the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:36 PM
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I assume you're referring to this: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamasurgery/article-abstract/2786671? While it is true that female patients have worse outcomes (according to this study) with male surgeons, male patients do not. I wouldn't care if women only saw female surgeons. But the fact remains that the field is getting shittier and shittier, and female physicians lead burn out. And as physicians lose more and more power to insurance companies and admin, healthcare in general gets shitti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:25 PM
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Education in general is heavily biased in favor of women in the West. This is something I was thinking about recently. Most med schools are now majority female. I highly suspect that the reason behind this is to 1) decrease the leverage and pay of physicians since fields with women tend to have decreased pay (whether this is due to "sexism" or because women act as scabs and are more willing to accept lower pay for a "helping" profession) 2) counteract the fact that women are more likely to burn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:15 PM
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Peds as a specialty sucks for docs, so I can understand why they would be mad about spending time there. You spend more years training to get paid less. I don't even know why any dude would want to go into peds unless he was gay or just didn't care about compensation at all. It should be female dominated like OBGYN is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:04 AM
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At least med students and residents grow up and become doctors. NPs just stay NPs and stew in it. Nurses don't like med students and residents because that is their chance to shit on them. As a patient, I'd never see a NP. I've dated girls outside of medicine tell me about their horrible experiences with NPs too. One girl told me she didn't like docs, but she was a "I hate men" type - she'd prob be fine with docs if they were women. But anyway, I was speaking in terms of relationships, not worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:52 AM
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Nurses can be ok, especially if they are in pediatrics. NPs are awful though. CRNA, I'm not sure, but I think they'd be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:40 AM
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Only 1 of them had a high paying job. Another was Ivy League, so those two made sense. But there is something about that job that just attracts the shittiest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:36 AM
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I really need to stop going out with female lawyers. I've gone out with 5 different ones now, and every one has been shitty. When will I learn?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:31 AM
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Thats what she claims, but it is probably highly exaggerated. She sounds insufferable, if anyone stayed in her presence for any sustained amount of time, the she got better than she deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:45 PM
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I highly suspect she doesnt deserve to be loved and got better than she deserved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:11 PM
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Depends on the girl. If I care about the girl, of course I care if she gets off. If she isn't that great, meh I'm just there to get myself off. She can get herself off if she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:45 AM
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The question is about being celibate. Just because you're not celibate doesn't mean you'll have a bf. All we know about this situation is whether the woman is having sex or not, and women who have sex as a group are more likely to be in situations where they get raped. A celibate woman doesn't have to hang around intoxicated, disinhibited men - in fact, I'd say a woman who wants to be celibate is going to be less likely to want to be in environments where those men are. And if she is in those en…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:36 AM
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Having a serious boyfriend but celibate is unusual in this day and age. But it is still a lower chance, because technically a woman who doesn't have sex with her boyfriend probably won't risk "marital (or whatever the LTR equivalent) rape" or regret sex or "sex after being worn down with requests" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:26 AM
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If you're celibate, you're less likely to find yourself in situations where rape can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:13 AM
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Lower likelihood of STDs (women are likely to get them and be more negatively effected due to their biology), and as women like to say "if you want to have zero risk of having a baby, then don't have sex". And at the risk of raising all the banshees' ire here, being celibate significantly lowers the risk of getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:31 AM
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That's because despite all the people claiming it doesn't matter, it actually does matter. If it weren't an issue, it wouldn't be an issue nomsayin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:51 AM
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Damn that girl is really mad. She's all over this thread going on and on about how unbothered she is about men not liking sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:11 PM
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Iran is my choice too. Historically one of the greatest civilizations in history and Iranians in general are cool. Some of the most delicious food as well. It is too bad the US has such a hard on to ruin them at the behest of Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:22 PM
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So like this: https://preview.redd.it/yvb7pafkckt81.jpg?width=614&auto=webp&s=0542ab1870ec81282ae45de5907b5c6852a2b179 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:58 AM
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How does she dress? Wedgie shorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:49 AM
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Speaking of Ramadan, since I can't eat during the day, I go to the gym late at night. I thought it would be empty or full of other Muslims. Instead there's a bunch of kafir in there, wtf. Lots of girls too, not ugly ones either, many were good looking with nice butts. Why is the gym popping on a Saturday night? It makes sense since tomorrow is Easter and I guess people aren't partying tonight. But it was the same thing for the past two Saturday nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:35 AM
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I hope you have this same energy for when women claim that women cheating is the fault of men's blahblahwhine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:00 AM

Aside from the egg thing, once a man provided his sperm his job is done. A woman has to grow the fetus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:04 AM

Yeah, Im freezing my sperm before I hit 35 at the latest. But I still think the woman’s age matters faaar more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:17 AM

The worst I ever got was ghosting, which felt pretty nasty. But I also know the issue was them and not me, because women have rejected me gracefully and nicely so it wasn't a case of "oh women only do that to men who deserve it" that women try to pull to put it back on men. But I also go for women who seem "nice" or present themselves as such. If I went after the average women in terms of how kind they are, I am sure I would get waaaaay harsher treatment since the average woman kind of sucks con…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:05 PM
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As soon as I read this thread I knew it would be about a particular demographic, and reading through OP's profile confirmed it. Women of a certain demographic are one of the biggest, if not biggest, enforcers of toxic masculinity. Really makes me feel sorry for the boys being raised in that environment. All the other responses here are almost gaslighting, because they are all saying no but for a particular demographic it is of course the case. This question almost can't be answered with the curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:52 PM
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Boring how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:43 PM
1

Also those "twerk workouts" or "twerk classes". I think that one is actually worse tbh, at least the pole dancing one takes a certain amount of skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:34 PM
2

Now thats desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:30 PM
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It has clearly gotten worse and more open. Pick up a history book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:30 PM
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Who's desperate? Getting in a legit relationship with a slut is stupid. I've never gone beyond a FWB with a slut and that works out just fine. Going exclusive with a slut is one of the dumbest things a man can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:50 AM
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Thottery is starting to go global. Even if you bring someone over, she will just internalize Western slutdom and screw you over. This can maybe work if you move to their country instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:22 AM
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Men mock them, but the situation has gotten so dire that often the only realistic choices are to partner up a slut or stay single. Now I will say that although I see sluts get snatched up, they tend to get treated worse - and for good reason. Like if I hear a slut having relationship troubles and tries to blame the guy, I know it is much more likely that she is a problem in the relationship too. Women try to pretend that they are angels who get treated poorly for no reason when discussing the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:19 AM
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Because the amount of sane women is astonishingly low
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:06 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:19 PM
1

I would tell you: k
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:18 PM
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Women deserve a level of oppression, otherwise they can't act right and will make men miserable. The so called "female oppression" throughout history was justified to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:16 PM
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You're right, I assumed she would act the same way in real life as she does here. But she probably does use a level of deception. If you treat all women like that though, you're far more likely to be right than wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:12 PM
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At first I was like "eww", but then I was like "any man who chooses to date her probably deserves to be played like that anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:00 PM
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They're relatively matched on looks. Obv Max blows her out of the water in talent, money, and fame. But those three pics don't show off her body, go to her IG and you'll see she has a pretty good body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:55 PM
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I have the right to choose whether I want to date a promiscuous woman or not. Women judge men much more harshly when it comes to relationships. It is just a cop out answer. If women actually use that excuse, then I hope they're not the same ones complaining about men lying to get into their pants or relationships. See, that I don't necessarily agree with. Because I have had women lie and tell me the truth about their pasts (or at least admit to being promiscuous). So it doesn't really matter how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:11 AM
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I have genuine hatred for promiscuous women who lie about it. And in my experience, a lot of them do. Women lie about a lot of stuff, but that is particularly egregious to me. If you're promiscuous, I'd fuck you but never have a genuine relationship with you. Why would a woman lie and try to have a genuine relationship with a man who doesn't want the real her? It is just so stupid all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:57 AM
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Cuz u go after fat women. Even at my lowest, I could get fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:29 AM
1

Did that n count thread with all the links get removed by the mods? Typical. Anyone have a link? I want to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:38 PM
2

Ive always loved horror movies for the trope of “sluts must die”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:14 AM
1

Three monitors with one in portrait masterrace
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:20 AM
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This is why we need feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:56 AM
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I literally see the same girls on all three apps. Are people supposed to believe that the same woman who is on Tinder isn't looking for something casual just because she also happens to be on Hinge? Plus, there are a lot of women on Hinge who have pics that scream casual rather than LTR material. Basically, men don't treat it like a relationship app because women don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:51 AM
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First, not at all surprised to see who I saw in that vid. But, that is also something I noticed in raves. Like women dress really over the top slutty, but are huuuuge about "just because I am dressed slutty doesn't mean you get to treat me like a slut" for most dudes. But once Chad or Tyrone comes by, that goes out the window. I've seen them straight up grab asses of girls they had never spoken to before and the girls didn't care. Buuut if a normal dude tried that, they'd try to get him beat up,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:50 AM
2

I communicate just fine, but not everyone is worth communicating with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:34 AM
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I've been very clear, but this clearly isn't worth it. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:32 AM
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You know what lady, I'm not wasting any more time on this, I'm just not that invested in having to dumb things down so you can follow for hours on end. Believe whatever it is you want to believe that helps you sleep better at night. Ta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:30 AM
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which was that men can be trash without being red pilled weirdos. So no, it’s not the case that women think 99.99% of men are trash but also know a lot of non-trash men. They know trash men who are not as fucking insane as the men in this sub Except they say the men they know IRL aren't trash but are good, normal people with relationships when they want to argue against a point men make here and then in another breath say that men (including the ones IRL) are trash when they want to argue agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:15 AM
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Literally the opposite of what I said Where? Your last statement was: I explained how it’s not inconsistent in my first reply to you. You're saying that statement is consistent correct? That 99.99% of men are trash but the women here only know the .01% that are not? So how is that the opposite of what you quoted? What? You need to explain what you’re talking about better. Since when was this line about women’s standards? It has literally always been something women say about men. Honestly, it ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:43 AM
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Bartenders tend to be huuuuge sluts IME
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:06 AM
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You phrased it more accurately in your original comment and I explained how it’s not inconsistent in my first reply to you. Oh please, 99.99% of men are trash but most men women know here aren't? What, do they all know the same .01% of men? Your "explanations" aren't even explanations, it is just someone going "nuh uh". Did you mean the standards are high or it’s the mens standards? No one seems to be arguing women have low standards, objectively or otherwise. Though tbh I think they kind of do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:01 AM
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So what’s the contradiction then? If you read my original post, what I actually wrote and not what you wanted to read, I said it wasn't consistent except for consistently shitting on men. So basically, women just say whatever to shit on men even if it isn't consistent. On one hand they'll say 99.99% of men are trash, then they'll say say "oh most men are good and aren't like men here, that's why men here are a fringe case", and so on. I cannot effectively argue against this because I have no ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:30 PM
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I'm not confused tho, and your explanation wasn't anything revelatory. You're just arguing around in circles No, are you (honest question)? I know it is a hyperbole, but the point they are trying to make is that their standards are objectively low - which obviously isn't true. Because not only are they speaking for themselves, they are speaking about the standards of other women in general. I don't think you can really speak for others here. You're speaking for others on whether they objectively…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:12 PM
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Then their opinion sucks and is open to ridicule, so what's your beef here? But women do claim here that objectively men suck - they themselves say objectively men are worse than women in many ways. Claiming their standards are "on the floor" means that their standards literally couldn't be lower - which is an obvious lie. They are trying to frame it as objective, but obviously the standards they claim are "on the floor" aren't and are still relatively high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:00 PM
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No, there's a lot of women here who claim that the dating problems of men here are because they are "below average" and atypical men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:55 PM
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Because they do say objectively speaking 99.99% of men are trash and "need to do better", or that "the [standards] bar is on the floor" (which clearly isn't true). I think you don't know what you're talking about here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:53 PM
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Correct, and I don't use it specifically for the stated reasons and opt to accurately report my race. Much of my family is racially ambiguous and could pass for Hispanic, PI, etc. It is way more common than you probably realize, and being able to pass specifically for white is not the only kind of racial ambiguity that exists. So what's your point? It exists for a reason. No, I probably accurately realize how common it is since I never made the claim about anyone passing for white specifically. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:51 PM
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If he wants to say 99.99% are undateable to him, that's his standard. But that still doesn't mean 99.99% of women are undateable like women like to say men at large are. If he did say that, he would be mocked and not taken seriously - similarly, that claim by women also should not be taken seriously. People are of course allowed to believe all the dumb shit they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:38 PM
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That'd be like saying a 500lb neckbeard who deems 99.99% of women undateable is making sense. He might find love like those people on those TLC shows do, but that doesn't actually mean 99.99% of women are undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:32 PM
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It doesn't mean they are more dateable, it means men are more forgiving and have lower standards. Lesbians often have similar complaints that men have about how hard women are to date, so that is consistent. I also notice that when people claim to be bi (male or female), they often date more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:25 PM
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Kind of hard to lie about race for a lot of people. Obv some people can pass. That's a false equivalence. Also, I'm pretty sure there's a "prefer not to answer" option for race. And that's exactly what I said, that if you're worried about it you should either try to see a male doc or lie to a female doc if you're forced to see one and worried about it - because I can confirm, there are a lot of women who judge it in the medical field. Lying about not being a virgin will barely be relevant. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:21 PM
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Ah yes - man bad, woman good, classic. Then the men here aren't quite anomalies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:11 PM
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The overwhelming majority of men are bad prospects for relationships? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:08 PM
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Do you even know what implicit bias means? If women didn't judge virgin men, this wouldn't even be an issue, but they do, so it is. Women try to gaslight men about it, but I noticed it firsthand. None of the guys even cared, but the women in the class locked into it immediately. It shouldn't be a big deal, but to them it was. And it isn't even this specific class, most guys here talk about how judgemental women are about virgin men, but the women keep trying to gaslight them about it. You're doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:06 PM
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Women believe men are shitty, I've seen women here say that like 99.9% of straight men are "trash". In the same breath, they say the men here are anomalies and the men they know in real life are normal. But also, the things men here say about the dating advantages women have in real life don't count because in real life the dating options are overwhelmingly bad. None of it is consistent, except for consistently shitting on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:57 PM
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Under a specific circumstance, that has nothing to do with 100% except for people with reading comprehension issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:49 PM
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Who said they were 100% worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:37 PM
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Yea, every piece of information is a clue. But it is also done for insurance purposes, they won't pay if history and ROS aren't done. Having said that, there is an implicit understanding that some patients lie. I wouldn't be surprised if a patient lied about drug use, diet, or activity, so why should I be surprised about a patient lying about sex? And for an STD, they'd need a lab to confirm. Even if you said you're a virgin, some STDs can be transferred without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:28 PM
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The scenario isnt relevant to me because im not a virgin. Im just pointing out that men know women judge male virgins, and probably do lie - justifiably because I see future female docs judging. They wont judge you to your face, theyre too smart for that. But implicit bias does exist. If a man in this scenario is forced to see a female doc, i could see him needing to lie. I def recommend seeing a male doc if he can
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:44 PM
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In one of my med school classes, we had a hypothetical about an older male virgin (under 30). And the girls were soo judgemental and making fun of it, meanwhile the dudes didnt really say anything. It wasnt like a mental health case either, but rather a real medical issue, the man just happened to not be sexually active. The women here try to BS about women not caring about the virginity itself but rather the “incel” mindset, but it isnt true IRL. Many of them were outspoken “feminists” who were…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:48 PM
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IME, Asian girls fetishize white guys much more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:17 PM
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Of course Asian, I want to hope that any sister I have wouldn't be some white worshipping ho, but the stats aren't on my side
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:05 PM
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Yes! The wedgie pants… It’s not enough they show the entire outline of their ass, they need everyone to know what their individual butt cheeks look like too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:13 AM
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Its the same stuff for the Olympics. Women are wearing skimpy little things, meanwhile men are pushing the limits of human capability in much more “restrictive” clothing. I do love my /r/ohlympics tho. Almost no other reason to watch the female events
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:24 AM
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Dont get me wrong, I love seeing women wear as little as possible when theyre hot. It is just kind of funny. Talmbout “hehe its athletic wear” as they squat their dinky little 115. Meanwhile you got a dude squatting like 400 right next to her wearing sweats and a hoody on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:17 AM
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It’s pretty crazy how much ass you see these days just going to the gym without even looking for it. Ive never been to a strip club, but I feel womenswear these days makes them superfluous. And this is a gym with a childcare center. I predict we are maybe 4-5 years from women just doing squats in thongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:05 AM
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If sperm clinics have standards for who is allowed to give sperm, they should have standards for who gets sperm too. At the end of the day, they are practicing eugenics, but currently only for one sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:00 AM
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If this is true, then chubby women have no business complaining about how they have it harder. If they are so attractive to hot fit men, and still have trouble dating, it must mean there is a personality defect. However, I often hear from chubby/fat women themselves about how it is harder to date for them and how they had it easier when they lost weight. I personally do not care, I don't really get the appeal tbh, you guys can have the fat chicks if you want em so bad - I won't miss em. And I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:09 PM
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God having to have been 21-23 during COVID times must have really sucked. Like the government should do something to make it up to those kids. Really, anyone who spent any year before 30 during COVID should receive additional compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:53 AM
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On average men know more about it than women because they lift more. More in both sense of the word. Very few women will know what it feels like to ever bench 225, or even 135 tbh. Most dudes who "work out" will feel it at least once. So they know how to bench press, but they'll never "know" a bench press. Basically whatever they "know", we'll always know more. I can't even think of any exceptions besides like stretching stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:44 AM
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Even if the board is nominally for all women, I think it is led completely or majority by black woman. The founder is def black, and the others who are associated like BlackPorcelainDoll and another one I can't remember right now were black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:34 AM
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That statement itself is about personality "making" up for looks. Like in a pie chart, women may have 50% looks, 50% personality while men may be 90/10. But in a bar chart, women have a standard of 5 for looks while men have a standard of 3. Women consider other things other than looks, but a man will think a 4 is acceptable looks wise and can come as she is but a woman will think that 4 will have to offer other things to "make up" for his looks. Not to mention women are much harsher about looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:00 PM
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Shallow may be the wrong word to use, because it means that a person is more concerned with looks than anything else. What I believe people mean to say is that women are more lookist, so while women may care about other things in addition to looks, they still have higher standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:45 PM
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Shallow may be the wrong word to use, because it means that a person is more concerned with looks than anything else. What I believe people mean to say is that women are more lookist, so while women may care about other things in addition to looks, they still have higher standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:45 PM
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Agreed, it is one of the worst early dates beaten only by taking a girl to the movies. But I will say, girls are usually the ones to suggest dinner early on, probably because they're shit at coming up with good date ideas. I have always managed to get out of it and suggest something else. I don't go out on a dinner date until after we've already kissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:54 AM
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Men complain about women expecting them to pay. But the same men insist on paying. The other day on a relationship subreddit a guy posted a thread about how a girl he had been seeing would refuse to let him buy her anything.. However otherwise she seem interested. But it had been like 5+ dates and she kept turning down his offer to let him pay. And it made him very insecure because men feed of the validation they get from paying. There is no way there is significant overlap between those two gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:33 AM
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Did you click the link I put? That is the actual study, it describes their methodology. It isn't a metanalysis. Read pages 2 and 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:09 AM
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The links are embedded in the articles. It is this one: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333920013_Foodie_Calls_When_Women_Date_Men_for_a_Free_Meal_Rather_Than_a_Relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:05 AM
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Raising Cane's has been going down in quality, tenders are noticeably smaller. But I guess that's pretty much everywhere now. It feels like Chick-fil-a and In-n-Out are the only fast food places that haven't gotten significantly worse over the years. But yeah, 10 years ago Raising Cane's was the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:47 AM
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Cause they deserve each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:34 AM
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Now I like that story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:32 AM
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Ah, that makes a little bit more sense. What race is the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:29 AM
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People from MO should stay in MO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:39 AM
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Im from a Muslim family and I legit did not know cousin marriage was such a big thing in the community until I heard it from the antiMuslim ppl on Reddit. Literally no one in my family has thought of marrying their cousin. But my family is also okay with interracial dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:22 PM
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[Participation] trophy wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:46 PM
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No they don't. The man is almost always richer, more talented, or is superior in some way to get a better looking women. The few exceptions are due to personality, whether the woman has a bad one or the man has a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:15 AM
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See that's where it feels disingenuous, because then ugly guys aren't really "getting" hot women either since they will disappear if the money/status does. But pussy is one of the most powerful advantages women have. Almost counterbalancing every other advantage men have. To get a hot man, first she'd have to find a hot man down on his luck and use her pussy to ensnare him - whether that means providing him with the best sex he can have or easy sex on tap that other women would make him work har…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:00 AM
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What do you mean "get"? An ugly woman can get a steady stream of hot men relatively easily (compared to men) by just being easy. Whether she can lock him/them down is down to a bunch of different variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:56 AM
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There are some things that just black/red pill you due to how obvious the lens becomes. Short height for men is one of them. Race is another, which is why a lot of black people here say that the black community is naturally red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:12 AM
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A generalization doesn't need to be about all. Women gleefully say that the vast majority of men are trash. That is a generalization. Saying "oh I only believe 90% of this group of people is trash, not 100%, so I can't be bigoted" is just a copout. Saying the vast majority of some race are criminals is still a generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:46 AM

I used to go for the thot fights, which can be found at /r/thunderthots and /r/thotbeatdown now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:13 AM
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Women have always been sexist. The "patriarchy" trained them to be nice and domesticated them. Without that, women are more open with their sexism. However, they are becoming even more sexist than normal due to the current zeitgeist of "women are wonderful" and "men suck".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:10 PM
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Women also consider their looksmatch to be uglier or inferior to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:18 PM
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Confused about what, sounds simple enough Then it sounds like your guy picker is broken
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:15 PM
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Bruh, if you can't even offer to pay for another person's drink without it "always being ww3", who's really out of touch here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:12 PM
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Sounded like you didn't tho, if it ends up being ww3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:10 PM
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[The cool] women in my part of the world just say "I'll pay for the second round", works perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:04 PM
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Do you think this clip of him speaking more calmly in a 1:1 interview post reunion softens his image? I think the fact that he actually could act normal at times made him look a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:15 PM
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He'd do really well because he has a good job and is above average height for a South Asian. I'd honestly say he'd do well in Africa and S America too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:01 PM
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No, I recall it was believing stereotypes and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:55 PM
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India is literally in Asia, and the US census definitely counts South Asians as Asian. Having said that, I'm pretty sure I've seen you say racist things about Indians too during the purge, so same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:51 PM
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He's ugly according to Western beauty standards. He'd be fine, or even better than average, in South Asia or Africa/S America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:50 PM
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But it is true I saw you posting racist things about Asians before. Even white supremacists have Asian wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:47 PM
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I've seen her username before, she's racist against Asians, that's why to her that is the ugliest guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:40 PM
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Before I went to college, I used to laugh at those conservatives who were like "colleges are indoctrinating kids". After, I was like "oh, I see what they were exaggerating now". Obv, it isn't to the extreme they are saying. But it is definitely creating an echo chamber, especially now with the vilification of people who don't agree with that echo chamber. Women need "consensus", and not contributing to that consensus, especially if you are a man, can create pretty bad situations. But like the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:27 AM
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Then they don't have anything to meaningfully complain about. They aren't bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:42 AM
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Then they should stay alone IMO, it sounds like they are still picking the wrong men. The women I associate with get with good men and are happy for the most part, I do have some messy friends that I don't expect much of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:17 AM
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Yes, a woman who has that problem should either get the best man she can find (while understanding that doesn't guarantee said man will be a good man) or not be with a man. I myself don't believe the argument that choosing the right man is as difficult as some of the women here try to pretend. Most of the women I associate with are capable of doing that and also staying away from bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:27 AM
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If she's physically attractive, probably more heightist. If she's a not as good looking tall chick, possibly less - unless she's also fat, then it flips back because they get really insecure about being so big in both height and weight. There are other caveats though, like I did once date a 6' tall girl that was in the "Aryan Western beauty ideal", but she was nerdy personality wise and was very opposed to acting like the typical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:07 PM
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Got run off by some bitchy FDS girl judging her "age gap" relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:14 PM
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Steroids at 50-60 sounds dumb, but taking testosterone at that age makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:13 PM
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This is what he actually linked to: https://www.reddit.com/user/me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:03 PM
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... Bless your heart. Can't wait til you figure out what really happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:58 PM
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OMFG going after single moms while still in your 20s? Those men deserve to be cucked and have their genes disappear from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:16 AM
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Many marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:10 AM
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It is so ridiculous that women are so against believing anything is harder for men, and then still deny trying to play victim. If they do believe one aspect is harder, then "it doesn't really matter because blahblahblah" or "so what? doesn't matter, stop whining". Then they go on and on about how hard it is to be a woman. I noticed it in liberal circles, which is what started pushing me away, they believe that: women have it harder both men and women have it hard men have it harder <- this is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:48 AM
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I remember once a woman I knew claimed sexism for getting paid less than her predecessor for the exact same job. He had more experience. They were also restructuring and the reason she was hired was because they couldn't afford a more experienced person. Nevermind that she couldn't get a higher paying job anywhere else anyway. They really, really want to believe the gender wage gap myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:04 AM
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I wish lesbians didn't hate men so much, it would be fun commiserating about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:06 AM
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Picky compared to whom? Maybe pickier than other men, but no way are they more picky than women. But also, I hear there is quite a bit of love for chubby and fat men amongst gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:22 AM
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This kind of response is usual. I'm not saying men never react badly, what I am saying is that women use that as a cop out for their own communication pattern. I suppose the alternative is that lesbians are afraid of each other too. But I think it is more likely that they just communicate this way and need a way to rationalize it, and this is a convenient out because it also reprimands men and puts women in the victim position. It should be clear, but many people still pretend it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:17 AM
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Willy Wonka is MGTOW inspiration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:57 AM
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Women communicate covertly, no one blames men for that. That is false. Pleeenty of women do. This is like "gaslighting" as women like to say. Go to any dating sub or TwoX sub and ask why that happens and the women will always say because "men do so and so". It doesn't matter if her experience is normal or not, which still hasn't been proven. If you agree that women behaving this way is intrinsically tied to women and isn't a reflection of how men behave (ie my original point), then we have no ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:55 AM
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Haha, literally my exact thought:https://c.tenor.com/FyQPGvSL65kAAAAC/willy-wonka-stop-dont-come-back.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:46 AM
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Which is what she thinks cuz they say so, and yet it doesn't match what she actually observes in real life I don't think there is much of a debate that women are like this: I think a lot of women don’t want to ‘hurt your feelings’ or feel uncomfortable, but seriously just state your true intentions or that you don’t like me and we can both move on/go our separate ways or be friends Plenty of straight women say the same thing. The only real point of contention is the motivation behind it. Straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:42 AM
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She says "everyone says the opposite", which is because, as demonstrated in the very next comment: "women will tell me one thing, but their actions tell me another."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:36 AM
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Well, this is fun to read: https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/sq4doe/frustrated_with_wlw_dating/hwjgddp/ Women always pretend that the reason they act that way is because "men are horrible, that is why we are treating them that way, it is just a response, teehee". I always knew it was complete bs. They treat lesbians the same way. Women are like allergic to admitting they may behave poorly, and even if they do, the reason for their poor behavior is because of men. They literally be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:28 AM

Si senor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:53 PM

Yea, women of a certain religion and certain subcontinent do this all the time. Id be more specific, but the mods would get on my ass. Most other women dont care about being sluts these days. I would assume sex workers do too Ive known women try to claim stuff doesnt count, like anal or sex with condoms. Women can hamster anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:19 PM

I hold a much more negative view of women now than when I was a virgin. Id say it isnt that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:59 PM

Thats not what i said though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:54 PM

You are severely underestimating how much crazy trash traits women at large have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:49 PM

Similarly, gaslighting about it is also common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:35 PM

Contrary to the BS spewed by the women here, virgin shaming is very common amongst women. You could have 3 kids, and they'd still try to insult you by saying you don't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:18 PM
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Whoa lmao Fairfield CT? What a small world, thats where the last girl I dated was from. Old money, limousine liberal land huh? What an experience that was, East coast Least coast
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:53 AM

I've literally never experienced that in my life and don't remember any guy IRL saying something like that. I have heard women say that before though. The only thing that comes to mind is that dating another desi makes it feel like "the stakes are higher". Because she could somehow know someone in the community that knows your family or something, and reputation matters a lot in desi communities. A breakup could be a lot messier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:34 AM
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Little more serious than vegetables, I think. Just because it is the law doesn't mean it is ethical. This is legalist nonsense. That's what they claim, not actually true. You're way too sensitive if that offended you, I think you need to calm down, it isn't that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:59 AM
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If a "man" is blue pill, is he really a man? Idk, but there's plenty of women saying the same thing or agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:54 AM
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It was a joke, but she still obv feels the statement is true considering all of her other posts. It echoes the general sentiment women have here. I think it is a societal problem. I'm not currently married, but it would suck to end up that way. But the paternity fraudsters also harm the bio dad if he doesn't know. If I got a woman pregnant, and she never told me and pretended it was someone else's and basically robbed me of years of knowing my child, I would be livid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:53 AM
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If you get divorced tomorrow, and your wife remarries, another guy would get access whether you liked it or not. The bio dad would have more justification than you. Plus, you are completely disregarding your own kid's wishes, that is messed up. He DIDN'T KNOW he knocked her up. I don't get why you can't get that through your head. The cheating woman is a horrible person. She's lying to you about whether the kids are really yours, of course she's not going to tell the other guy that she is having…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/svdg3x/daily_community_chat_megathread/hxgvit0/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/svdg3x/daily_community_chat_megathread/hxgs62x/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:40 AM

That's literally what women here say, that the guys here have no business worrying because we couldn't get partners anyway according to them, even as some of us are partnered up. That's no straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:36 AM
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And what if the kids want to know their bio dad? You'd stand in the way until they would turn 18, and you don't think that would cause resentment? You're assuming he knew! That's the part that doesn't make sense. You're assuming that the woman who is okay with cheating and committing paternity fraud wouldn't hide the fact that she is married. You're assuming that he knew that he got her pregnant. Whenever I read these stories, half the time the bio dad doesn't even know the whole story or that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:35 AM

That's how you feel, but you can't make the decision for your kids on whether they should have a relationship with their bio dad or not. You're just being possessive. That's because the sperm donor doesn't want to and signs away those rights. This is different because he may want to. You're assuming that a woman who cheated would have told him that she was married. For all you know, he was fooled by the cheating hobag too. So why should he be punished for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:15 AM

But what if your sons want to know who their real bio dad is? What if the bio dad was lied to by your wife too and he would like to know he has bio kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:58 PM

Women here say "huur duur you guys shouldn't even worry it VIRGINS", aside from the obvious ad hominem when there are quite a few guys who do get laid, the beta bux dudes would be the EXACT people who should be worrying about it, those are the guys women are trying to defraud. But on the other side, I would think the kids would want to know if their mother is a hobag and would want to know their bio dad. Maybe the guys here would want to know if they are the result of paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:42 PM

Many women accuse all men of being cheaters or would be cheaters if they had options, so then they should do the same. By your logic, if a woman thinks her partner may be a cheater, then he is entitled to cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:29 PM
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This is literally a repost of your own post from 5 months ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/paknm9/women_have_more_diverse_tastes_than_men_and_it/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:20 PM
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I agree. Poor people are stupid. They should just get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:34 PM
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Right, I'm saying beards and hair are in the same category. They are not like makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:20 AM
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That's a norm. But a normal man will grow a beard. Whether he shaves it or not is a norm that he follows, but his baseline face is that with a beard over it. That's like saying if you have a birthmark on your head like Gorbachev, and have hair, you are being deceptive by having your hair cover it. The beard is part of his face just like the chin is. The beard over his chin is what a guy would normally look like, he's not being deceptive by looking like he normally would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:19 AM

I guess my point is that a man with a beard is the baseline, it literally is his normal appearance, not the improved version. Makeup is unequivocally the improved version, it is not the baseline. I thought of it because women try to say a beard is as deceptive as makeup, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:54 PM

So does a mask, mask is now makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:45 PM

Right, and we shave off beards to "look more presentable" in our current culture just like wearing clothes. The point is, they are on opposite sides of the spectrum. beard - nude - makeup free face ----------------- shaved beard - clothed - makeup Those are the sides, but it makes no sense for women to try and shift it all around and say having a beard is like wearing makeup. Having a beard isn't deceiving, that is the natural state of a face. The natural state of your face is not with makeup on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:44 PM

Obv he will look different taking off something that is a part of his face. That's like saying a woman shaving off her eyebrows will look different or a woman shaving her head will look different. Like no shit. But he isn't deceiving anyone like makeup is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:35 PM
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TIL we are now mandated to wear [the equivalent of] makeup due to COVID, women should now stop bitching about wearing makeup as a gendered issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:34 PM

This is something FDS bitches about, which is I agree stupid - makeup and beard are not in the same category. But it also came to mind in a couple of threads below with the girl who couldn't take a rejection and the DRASTIC change you saw with her makeup face and her normal face. Most people were saying it looked like two different people. I think it is fair to say a man wearing a beard isn't deceiving anyone about what he looks like, his beard is a part of his face like his eyebrows and hair is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:31 PM

appeal to nature I don't think you know what that means. That would be true if I was saying something is good because it is natural. That is not what I said. But a beard is literally a part of your face, makeup is not part of your face. Saying makeup, which is unnatural (didn't say good or bad), is like a beard doesn't make sense. Then anything that covers your face is like makeup. Wearing a mask is like makeup or having a beard...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:25 PM

But a beard is literally a part of a man's face, just like eyebrows or hair are. That's like saying hair is covering up problem areas on a scalp or forehead or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:21 PM

Grooming is something both men and women do. I had an ex with gnarly nose hairs, but that isn't makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:16 PM

It is a concept, women subscribe to it too when talking about natural hair, "natural weight", and skin whitening. Both those things are unnatural, but without negative connotations. Natural doesn't automatically mean better, but in terms of natural vs unnatural, makeup and beards are on opposite sides. I think the idea for women is that their man is eventually going to have to shave if the relationship is serious. Also, men are concerned knowing that women's makeup will have to come off. There's…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:15 PM

Why do women say beards are equivalent to makeup? A beard is natural. The way men look with beards is how we are supposed to look. Similarly, without makeup is how women are supposed to look. They are literally opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:00 PM

It is scummy according to the old paradigm. But we're all scummy now. If you try to play nice in the current dating environment, you get screwed over. Both men and women contribute to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:52 PM
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That the guy will be too horny to think straight. I honestly think this is more egregious than lying about height. I'm 5'7'' but 5'8'' in shoes. I'm also really 5'7.5'' so rounding up I am 5'8''. Girls overinflate their height too and often can't really tell height. I've met 5'5'' girls thinking they were legit my height until we stood in front of a mirror. I would have to lie about being like 6'2'' to be on her level of deception. Also, heels are the makeup of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:24 PM
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As women say, if she's willing to lie about that, what else is she willing to lie about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:13 PM

That's because it is fake. Look up her Insta to see what she really looks like. I can DM if you need help. I'll bet you anything the poor guy got catfished by her OLD pics which are prob similarly dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:53 PM

She's really not pretty, objectively speaking. Absolutely below average even in her ancestral country. Look up her linked Insta on her website. Her Twitter profile pic is ridiculously touched up and fake compared to how she really looks, and I doubt her OLD pics are any more honest. There's definitely a reason she's still single at 37. Ugly, bitchy, and "feminist man hatey" like she is is a truly losing combo. I'd feel sorry for even a homeless man that she'd settle for. I think the guy found ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:50 PM

I feel like he just found one of her real images, felt catfished, and that is why he made up an excuse to not deal with her. She prob couldn't handle that tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:44 PM

Damn, I took a look at her Twitter profile pic and thought, "ok, she looks ok, not amazing, but ok". Then I found her linked Insta (I'll DM for people who want to see, cuz it will get deleted here). LMFAO. This woman is legit UGLY. And she's 37... who's the real bullet here? Hope no desperate man allows her genes to continue in the gene pool. EDIT: Damn, she made it private. She'll prob take em down. Should have screenshotted. But take my word for it, she looked really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:38 PM

Something similar happened to me once. She didn't mock me, just laughed. I was like 15 years old. It was at a fast food place. She asked me for my order, and being the polite young man I was, I said "[order], please". The woman was from a particular demographic. Guess she wasn't used to sentences ending with please. I don't do that in that particular context anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:09 AM
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I'm not white. But I think white men are contributing as much, whether willingly or not. Tons of them marrying Asians and latinas. Most women are like that, not just white women. It seems particular to white women to you cuz you are white. The only different factor is that Asian and latina women often have a white fetish so they let the other stuff slide. But they are just as hypergamous as white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:03 PM
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She has fake tits. Shouldn't even count. If he had a toupee, you know these banshees wouldn't be able to shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:57 PM
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Wypipo won't exist in the future. We're all gonna be melanated. Get with the showgram.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:55 PM
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LOL she's on OnlyFans, and the only really good part about her body is her ass which you can find all over the internet anyway Of course she got violent too She is kind of lifted right out of PPD/FDS. I remember watching this conversation: https://youtu.be/2Saq2U719c8?t=118. That is literally an argument women try to use here. Whether women should be treated like exes when it comes to the good stuff. But change genders and they lose their shit. But that guy is in no way alpha. He is a huuuuuge l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:35 PM
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claiming that it’s every woman’s fault they can’t fuck a 10 out of 10 Stacy e-thot That is what you said, not "poor taste in women". But yes, the link would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:30 PM
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LMAO, I saw that and thought it was hilarious. But considering who it was, I wasn't even a little bit surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:11 PM
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That's just something she made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:53 PM
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That's men pretending to be women... or sex workers trying to increase engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:28 AM
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men created feminism This is true. Western men are mostly complaining about self inflicted wounds here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:43 AM
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Not holding other men accountable for their interactions with women, because apparently I'm more responsible for how other men treat women than their own mothers or women who fuck them. Having "male privilege", as if I am more likely to have an advantage as a brown man at a company founded by men who spoil women who look like their daughters. "Gender wage gap" as if I'm setting women's salaries - this is literally a reason an ex (with the encouragement of her friends) tried to use on why I shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:37 AM
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Who said it happened today?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:23 AM
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Women hold it against men for the "patriarchy" and sins of our fathers, so we get blamed for stuff we didn't even do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:14 AM
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While I wouldn't jack off 8 times a day because it is a waste of time, you should definitely be able to ejac more than twice a day if you're young. Between the two situations, I think yours is actually the weird one. I can ejac like 5 times at least if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:36 AM
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It isn't a real court. But I think the people are real. I just cyber stalked the guy, and he is a real person and those kids exist too. I have no doubt that despite the girl being ugly, she got around. Just goes to show you, thinking the ugly girl won't be a shitty slut is a mistake. It is a mirror of the women here saying "just because he isn't hot doesn't mean he will be nice". Applies to women too, just because she isn't hot or average doesn't mean she won't be a shitty person. The guy looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:12 AM
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Damn, this sucks for the guy: https://www.reddit.com/r/iamatotalpieceofshit/comments/sot0j8/the_power_of_a_paternity_test/. I thought it would be like that funny dancing one that is a meme classic when I clicked on it. But also, why would you get with a woman like that? Looks like a burnt Miss Piggy IRL. He's a good looking black guy that would absolutely slay with the liberal hippie girls. This is what simping for a woman who belongs to the streets ends up doing to you. Cucked by an uggo. I'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:53 AM
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LMAO, not having social media is a red flag now? I can understand not having a social circle at all. But just not being a consumer of social media? Literal meme gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:42 AM
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All the women here saying you are being scammed are SEVERELY underestimating how much Indian (and Asian women in general) fetishize and desire white guys, no matter how much of a "loser" he is. I think your biggest concern would be getting "fetishized" or her getting too clingy, but I doubt you'd care much about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:25 PM
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Lesbians also have sex less often, so even if women were having "more satisfying sex" they don't have much of it. I typically hear it as a clapback on why women don't want to have sex often, "because it isn't good enough". Even if it were good enough, they still don't seem to be having much of it. It always gets redirected to how men are at fault. I think for the most part they don't. I think it is common knowledge that women are often the ones leading the dissolution of marriage. But then you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:34 PM
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Oh come on, people try to compare lesbian relationships to straight ones when it benefits women - oh like lesbians tend to report more orgasms, so that must mean that men are worse in bed or whatever. Or that lesbians report whatever emotional stuff, so that must mean men need to step up. Only when women are painted in a bad light do we need to throw out the comparison. Funny that. I doubt the only reason women file more is because they are more likely to do paperwork. I don't know if enough res…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:55 PM
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I do think men have a greater ability to be content, while women are more neurotic and are quicker to make "drama" that inevitably leads to relationship problems. They then frame it as men being the problem and not reaching some standard, when it is clear that even if men were out of the picture, women dealing with women have the same problems. What I resent is women constantly telling men that they have to "be better" without being introspective and thinking about how they contribute to relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:15 PM
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Height is positively correlated with intelligence Then how come short Asians and Jews are so smart, but some other demographics who are well known for being tall aren't well known for being the sharpest tools in the shed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:50 PM
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So your point is that lesbians divorce at twice the rate of gay men is because gay men are too masculine to be filling out paperwork? Why would people of lower education be less likely to stick to gender roles in who fills out paperwork? College educated men are worse about gender roles, are they? You also seem to think that they can't just go to a lawyer or something. If college educated men are too masculine to be doing paperwork, shouldn't they have more resources or access to just go to a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:46 PM
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It isn't just in the US. It is cross-cultural. It hardly has to do with "who just fills out the paperwork". While 70% of divorces are initiated by women, if you restrict the set to just college educated women (who are more likely to be married to college educated men), it jumps up to 90%. I doubt that is because college educated men (or men selected by college educated women) are lazier in filling out the paperwork (cuz the reason women initiate divorce more often is just because men are lazier …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:29 PM
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Oh god it always goes around in the same circles: Women initiate more divorces -> "it is because men are horrible!" -> but lesbians divorce at higher rates than straight and gay people too... -> blahblahblah hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:52 PM
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Your story is about a Vietnamese person just like mine was. What is it with people bullying the Vietnamese so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:18 AM
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In middle school, I remember this small little Vietnamese kid a grade or two below me would always get pushed into lockers by boys like Poppy's husband/soon to be ex. He never did anything to antagonize them (aside from him being in the smart class and them being in the dumb class). He was poor, family came over after all the shit went down and was trying to make it by owning a small bakery. Family didn't completely speak English. He had the bowl cut Asian haircut that is made fun of. I do regre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:35 AM
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Bro, you have really low standards for "clapbacks". That's just an angry old lady yelling at the sky. PS, if you really do have autism, you're one of the "stemdorks" she is talking about. But maybe she'll let it slide cuz you're of the same ethnic background.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:40 AM
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She's said stuff like "my husband was the one who was pushing nerds into lockers" smugly and her being a "student athlete" in the past. Some women here are just hateful and have a high school mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:38 AM
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What kind of guy was the catfisher?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:50 PM
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Has anyone noticed that AA women mainly get with Muslim men on the show? Not the Caribbean or or other black African men other women get with. Is it selection bias on the part of men or the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:31 PM
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I don't think too many people have seen this, but check out Mohamed's life story in his own words: https://mohamedjbali.net/about. It explains A LOT on why he would marry Danielle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:01 PM
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I'm dating myself here. But back in the days of early PPD, the women here tried to use the Mosuo as a gotcha for matriarchies. I looked into it once. It turns out the "matriarchy" existed because a stronger neighbor enforced it to keep them under their thumb. Which makes sense. Having women in control keeps a demographic weak. This can be seen in the pseudomatriarchies found in some Afro-Caribbean and African American communities. I would assume the goal there was similar. Have the women lead (o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:36 AM
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Yes. Women take credit for the so called "empathy" that women display. Typically, it is usually the bitchiest women talking about how women are more empathetic than men as well. It is a way to excuse their own bitchiness by taking credit for the empathy supposedly displayed by women as a whole. However, the current generation of women has shown that women are NOT naturally more empathetic than men. The "studies" that women try to use to prove their point only shows that previous generation may h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:10 PM
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Can someone call 4chan? Get them to ruin their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:59 PM
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These girls need retribution. They should get doxxed and have their employers harrassed. Instead they're getting a bunch of views and followers. Clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:51 PM
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That's not a personal attack, although I definitely see the mods taking it down soon. But in general, this kind of life: a fat special ed teacher in the midwest who doesnt make that much money, has struggled with mental illness and depression, and apparently has been raped. With an unemployed husband who can't get a better job than a teacher. Is objectively something most people wouldn't envy. I'm just putting her claim that she lives a life most men here dream of in context. How else would you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:46 PM
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Well, at least you provided PPD something to laugh at yourself. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:39 PM
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Oh no, anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:37 PM
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Don't know why you couldn't reply to mine. I can reply to yours. Doesn't sound like that great of a job if he couldn't get a secure job that pays more than a teacher. Ok, so that's your choice. NOT a life of envy. There's pleeeeeeenty of fulfilling jobs that pay more than a teacher, and don't suck as much. But I've known way too many teachers to not know that their jobs SUCK. There's plenty of couples who manage to have two income households. I didn't say they were things you should be ashamed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:33 PM
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So you claim. But lets be honest theres not much enviable about a fat special ed teacher in the midwest who doesnt make that much money, has struggled with mental illness and depression, and apparently has been raped. Im sure theres more. Who are you really trying to convince here? Real talk, id rather have been aborted than live that life, no matter how many hot women you claim to have slept with before settling down with your unemployed husband who apparently couldnt outearn a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:15 PM
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Youre severely confused about what men envy. It isnt sucking a bunch of crusty dicks or putting a bunch of dicks with low standards in you. Any man can get on grindr and do that. Come back when youve fucked a bunch of hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:06 PM
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We’re trending towards going back to ancient Greek times where people worked out naked, but this time only women. I cant wait. But the uggo women can keep their clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:46 PM
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Nothing special. Shes one of those girls who only looks “hot” cuz she shows a lot of skin and your lizard brain takes over, know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:29 PM
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This was my exact thought. Then I thought, the guys paying prob cant afford a gym membership after their porn habit or cant fit through the doors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:21 PM
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I was at my rack first, she should have been filming her softcore porn elsewhere. Also, Im pretty sure my hairy legs are in the vid. I should be getting royalties
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:18 PM
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Im at the gym rn and the girl in front of me is definitely making OF content. Shes wearing skimpy “gym clothes”, much skimpier than the traditional ho gym wear and is videoing herself. She keeps looking back at the camera with this weird smile. What confirmed it for me is that she bent over for like a whole minute to give a good shot of her ass trying to take off the weights on a bar. Theres barely any weight on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:57 PM
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What a pussy. This is the bed Western (mostly white) men made, now they can lie in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:34 PM
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Thats because they barely have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:10 AM
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So? EDIT: Wait a minute, you didn't get his argument right. He said the bi chick needs to compensate in some way - presumably open to threesomes as he was talking about in other posts. That doesn't mean he refuses bi women, he just thinks there is a power imbalance with a bi woman. As far as I can tell, he would date a bi woman if he got threesomes out of it. I don't think there's too many of the women who don't like bi men saying "I'd date a bi man if I got to have sex with his bf too".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:32 AM
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Good instincts. What I believe she is referring to is this thread. Now while the top comments do say they won't, you can see it is more a displeasure with liberal/feminist/blue haired SJW rather than bisexuality itself, which they see as correlated and may very well be true. A lot of guys in there didn't give a shit about the actual sexuality. Compare that with this thread from around the same time. Notable is a presumably LGBT ally guy with his input: Lol nobody hates bisexual/gay men more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:03 AM
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Im pretty sure it was the opposite, there was even a bi guy going off on the women for it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:40 PM

So if I'd had sex with him, I would then be obligated to have sex with every guy that flirted with me at a party ever for the rest of my life or I'd be "penalizing" the other guy and being "unfair"? Ridiculous straw man. Not even close to what was being said. We're talking about the man you want a relationship with. Is every man at a party that flirts with you people you are trying to have a relationship with? But down the line, if you meet a man who you are interested in pursuing a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:17 AM
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Listen man, I know you're a 17 year old kid who has these "profound" thoughts and thinks he has all this wisdom, but as someone who found this forum around age 17 and had similar thoughts as yours when I was your age 10 years ago, let me just say this for your CMV - you're wrong. When I first found this forum, I used to spend time arguing against "misogynists" too and fight for the "feminist cause". But at a certain point, experience and evidence just can't be denied anymore. Now, you may call m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:08 AM
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Depends on the Asian country. That hand holding thing isn't uncommon in China, or SE/South Asia IME. Japan and Korea might be different, because they are practically Western satellites at this point. To me, it sounds like the West is the exception rather than the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:53 AM
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Many men do. The West has a complex about it though. If you travel to the ME, it isn't uncommon for men to walk holding hands with no homosexual twist. And yet I've seen Western men mock that. When I studied abroad in Africa, it wasn't uncommon for men to share a bed or "cuddle" (above waist only). Sometimes sharing a bed was due to necessity, but often it was because that Western complex wasn't there. Sometimes if a friend came over, I'd see my roommate and his dude friends just lay in bed talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:17 AM
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Have you ever seen his penis? Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:53 AM
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I don't. Not even sure where you got that from. I think people who use pick up lines are losers who watch too much PUA. Ok fine, if you're going to be pedantic, they are trying to show ugly women in a positive light. It's a fucking 4 panel comic. "Hurr durr why didn't they show a chronological timeline of their entire conversation" - you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:48 PM
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A cold, rotting, moldy, homeless woman that thinks she is entitled to be taken out to a Michelin star restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:45 PM
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Your analogy falls apart when you compare forever alone women as humans and forever alone men as disgusting objects. You've already started with the supposition that the woman is worth more. The more accurate analogy is a piece of shit thinking it is too good to share a shithole with another piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:41 PM
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Nah, using pick up lines is dopey and cringe. But you're clearly being obstinate now because you can't admit to being mistaken. The intention of the comic is clearly to make the ugly woman look good and the ugly man look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:36 PM
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Dude, read the comic again. "It's but casing for a most worthy soul". The comic is presenting her as above superficiality and the man as not. It isn't even subtext, it's plain text. Idk why this is hard for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:22 PM
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She's trying to say it is okay for women to be bitchy and that is kween shit, while it is not okay for men to act like women and be bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:18 PM
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The rub is that even if an ugly woman liked an ugly man, she'd still expect him to make more money, be taller, be responsible for seducing her, etc. That's why comparing attractiveness won't make sense. Women still expect to be treated like Esmeralda, even if they are a female Quasimodo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:13 PM
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Good bot. Good god, church Karens/Karenieshas are sooo annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:28 PM
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While I do agree with "Stop Asian Hate", it is hilarious watching Asian women trying to look woke doing it while many of them are literally bragging about being the "colonizer's whore".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:10 PM
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Majority of the time it is a man getting more out of it than the woman. Sometimes they get the same. But very rarely does the woman get more than the man. Overall though, I agree. Women should be happy just getting dick. It shouldn't be matter if she (usually the FDS types) feels the man got more out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:05 PM
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And honestly if a dude actually did want a relationship with a thot like that, then he's a simp and deserves no sympathy from anyone whatsover.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:55 PM
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It looks like the guy lives in Phoenix. Imagine living close to ASU thots and still getting hard up for this girl. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:35 PM
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I used to work with 40 year old tech dudes at my last job, and even they didn't sound this dorky. This dude must have been damn near 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:32 PM
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Every women who tries to come off cool saying they use men as living dildos end up just looking like Dee from that one Sunny episode where she does the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:17 PM
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Are you Arab or desi? Cuz although a lot are blue pill, on this particular topic most of the men are waaay redpill AFAIK. But that just may be the Islamic community. Hindus i could believe are some of the most bluepilled ppl in the world. And I would assume Christian Arabs are pretty much the same as Christian white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:14 PM
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Guess it depends on the minority group. People in mine know not to get with women like that. Although women are good liars and many get tricked through lying by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:06 PM
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Why would minority men "have to"? Pump and dump them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:04 PM
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That particular guy is a bad example cuz he doesn't come off as normal. The way he communicates is bizarre, especially with someone he thinks he is flirting with. "May I ask who this might be."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:03 PM
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From your link, the very next man did so: https://www.tiktok.com/@honeysplce/video/7047233260660755759 Tbh, IMO she really isn't hot enough to risk cheating. The SOs would have to be pretty bad looking. The guy in your link def has some pedo tendencies, considering he keeps mentioning age. He also talks weird, "That is correct." If this girl tried this on me, my first thought would be that she is trying to scam me, not that this is a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:48 PM

Damn, I'm looking forward to 35 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:04 AM

He's not 30, he's like 34 or 35. To hear the women here tell it, anything more than 3 years is super odd for women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:59 PM

I just found out one of the hottest girls I ever hooked up with is dating a guy even older than me. He's like 30 something, meanwhile she is like 24 or 25. He's not even rich, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:21 PM

The worst part is that women then try to turn it around on men for lying by saying things like "oh we're afraid of the reactions" as if every man reacts poorly (maybe every man they choose to associate with). But the thing is, women lie to each other a lot too, and (as another comment showed) to studies too. Every time womens' faults are pointed out, they try blaming men for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:44 PM

If they aren't lying (which is the most likely scenario tbh, as it often is with women), the explanation would be that women consider average small. So these women are having sex with like 5-6.5 inchers, but of course still say the man had a small penis because it isn't 7+.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:28 PM
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Better than what the double X's deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:05 PM
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Women hate not being in control. What they want is hypermasculine men to do the bidding of women. They also despise that men they do not consider "good enough" have power over them in the so called "patriarchy". Some want them to not exist, others want them to exist but as workers out of their view.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:32 PM
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I think the only thing women are better than men at is using their feminine wiles to seduce [the majority of] men. I don't think a tanswoman will be better at that any time soon, they're probably better at that for men who are attracted to transsexuals. Appealing to male thirst is the only true power women have. Fortunately for them, it is a really powerful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:23 PM
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Apparently the new highest earning female Jeopardy player is a transwoman. I look forward to the day when both the top male and female individuals of everything share a Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:01 PM
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There was a tip somewhere that you should compliment ugly girls on their appearance and hot girls on their personalities. I learned that long ago in college and it works pretty well. Obv sometimes you will meet an ugly girl who is too insecure about her looks to take a compliment or a hot girl who is delusional about her personality and actually does think it is amazing so it blows up her ego even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:27 AM
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Women do that in societies that don't value them. You don't have to value women to get them to produce the next generation. No, it is something else. It is most likely because of thirsty guys. It's funny, the men that give them power in society due to their thirst are the very guys women hate on and make fun of (not the only men, but they are highly represented).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:12 AM
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It won't be long before we see saran-wrap leggings being worn out in public. That's a million dollar idea btw. I thought leggings in public were revealing enough, but sometime around 2016 or so they went one step further and added those mesh/see through linings to the side to show just a bit more skin. We're trending towards all of your daughters wearing basically see through leggings as the most common pants in public. Not mine though, I'll never have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:09 AM
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That's definitely true. Not totally related, but I always thought it was funny that some of the main things women complain straight men aren't/don't have (fashion sense, "cleanliness", concerned with grooming/fitness, etc) are stereotypically found in gay men. But then those men don't care to be with women. I've read somewhere that gay men also tend to have longer penises on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:16 AM

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/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:08 PM

Listening to Nas, Blue Scholars, or even joke ones like Das Racist would be okay Listening to Cardi B, N Minaj, or Lizzo (is she even really a rappist? her wiki describes her as a rapper) is a major turnoff, maybe even a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:25 PM

No poll or survey asks every single person. That is what a "representative sample" is. I guess you meant impossible for you, which I agree. But this is something that can easily be studied if someone cared enough to do so. Maybe a Reddit poll would help? But we can see trends on this sub too. Like I found another 27 year old on this thread who said asked every single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:57 PM

Why would it be impossible? The women here definitely skew older here. I am looking at the top response by a woman right now OrangePaisley, and she is waaay over 30. I'm under 30. The user we are responding to who responded yes is also under 30 I am pretty sure. I think she is younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:53 PM

Are you over 30 though? Maybe it is a generational thing and younger people are more open about this stuff these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:46 PM

I'm a left leaning liberal man who mostly dates the same. All of my previous LTRs have asked first. The only people who haven't asked are those who were STRs. I don't think this falls along political lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:30 PM
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Where are you getting your numbers? From the GSS? Because that is what I am talking about. If you consider all men (including Boomers and such), then men cheat more. But if you look at younger ages, then women cheat a bit more. Women have changed. Looking at cheating rates by women who were raised in a different era compared to women these days is not sensible. It isn't like 80 years ago that the women were cheating more when they were the age of the young women today. Those same women would pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:55 AM
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Cheating is closing in the gender gap. Last I heard, women cheat as much as men now. Difference in gender is often due to older generations, or possibly admission of sex taking place (studies have shown women report having more sexual partners once hooked up to a lie detector). Having said that, cheating is not in the extreme minority for men, women, or people in general. So it is not a good comparison for a case where the people doing this are in the extreme minority of people. For most people,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:34 AM
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That jives with what I said, what are you saying no to in my post? I agree, some women are better off without men if their counterpart would be those bottom tier men in a monogamous society. If they're sad about their man leaving them when they got sick, they should not have chosen to be with a bottom tier man instead of being alone. In those cases, they are at the same place they would have been in anyway. Whether they stayed alone or got other needs fulfilled with bottom tier men, the end resu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:23 AM
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After reading this one and this one, it sounds like getting ill is not a big predictor of getting divorced. The vast majority of people do not divorce their partners upon sickness. The Saudi one said it was actually less likely to lead to a divorce if I read it right. What does happen, is the minority who do behave like scumbags have the man be the scumbag more often than the woman. Let's remember that like often attracts like, so I have a feeling the left partner prob wasn't all that great eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:35 AM
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Did you find anything when it came to homosexual couples? I wonder if they differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:25 AM
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Nursing is also agenda driven. You don't really see how bad it is until you work in the medical field. I could totally see them falling prey to myths because it fits their worldviews. Nursing education is not some rigorous evidence-based scientific education. It is closer to the trades. They do very necessary work, but the knowledge isn't exactly very hard to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:10 AM
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I am in medical school now. And a reputable one, not some offshore one or podunk one. People have heard of mine. Nobody has mentioned this. Not the professors, alumni I met before coming here, the upper levels, or my peers. What med school did you go to that taught this? Oh let me guess, you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:46 AM
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I'm watching Tusk. Shit's weird. But just the kind of weird I like. I do like Justin Long in horror movies like Jeepers Creepers and Drag Me to Hell. Makes me feel like I am back in the 2000s... EDIT: Depp is in it? And he's being weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:10 AM
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I mean the Impossible Burger tastes fine. The only issues I have with it is price and that it isn't really healthy (which is a bit much to expect from meat substitute anyway). What else is wrong with it? I know it isn't exactly lab grown, but we're getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:08 AM
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Where did I talk about individuals? Individual women should be solving their own problems then, not complaining about macro things like laws on abortion. Can't find a doctor to abort your baby? Fine, solve your own problem with a wire hanger or solve it by not having sex. Quit yer bitchin. Ew. Well, that's the truth. I'm sure you'd be oh so brave living in Somalia. It wasn't even some threat, the honest truth is women would hate it if men solved that problem in the most efficient way. So when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:51 AM
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I never got the obsession some people have with pork/bacon. It doesn't even smell good like chicken/beef does. I've never tasted it, but I doubt it tastes any better. It doesn't look appealing either. And it isn't healthy like poultry/seafood. It doesn't make any sense, it must be a comfort food thing. But for men, unless we get another good source of protein, meat is here to stay. Some people suggested insects as another source. I hope I die before that becomes mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:40 AM
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How does your comment follow from mine? Didn't I just say women couldn't solve most of men's problems? The issue is that instead of working with men to make things better I assume that's the sentence you had issue with? Where in that does that say men wouldn't play a part in solving their problems? As if women don't rely on men to solve their problems. Like I said, technically men could solve our own problem like we did for most of history and throughout a lot of the world - but then you wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:30 AM
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How does your comment follow from mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:19 AM
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So what? Women get/have more STDs than men, does that mean men having STDs isn't a problem? She asked what women could do, I told her. And that gap is quickly closing, if not already closed. Even the studies were more about who admitted it more/got caught more, not who actually cheated more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:43 AM
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Being honest would be step one, and we can't even get women to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:03 AM
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First it was "you on this sub" now it is "all the men's rights groups", mhm. Anyway, that isn't what I have seen. I have seen discussions of the other things I mentioned. Maybe be that is all you notice because of your own bias or because that is what catches your eye due to things you place importance on. And you just described "sex sells". Big surprise, people repost, share, and upvote stuff about sex. You might as well say all the Internet cares about is sex. Now you're changing goalposts fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:01 AM
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Women can solve very little of men's problems that aren't about dating. They just aren't capable. Men can pretty much solve other problems and don't really need womens' assistance. Technically, we could solve the dating problem too, but it wouldn't be very nice for you and we're too kind to do it that way. The issue is that instead of working with men to make things better, they prefer to exacerbate issues for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:18 AM
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That's so stupid. This is PPD, of course it will revolve around dating when that is the entire point of the sub - to talk about an idea that is about dating. Even so, I hear multiple people talking more serious topics like abortion rights [for men], economic issues affecting men, educational issues affecting men, etc. You probably either don't notice or they just go over your head and just think "oh must be something about the tIndErZ"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:14 AM
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I read it as guys would love it for the first time you had sex. I can kind of see it. A girl making it easy to increase your n-count by 1 is pretty great. But once you've already had sex with the girl, her texting you for more sex is good but not as great as the first time banging her. Loses its luster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:10 AM
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"Progressive" women are just a bunch of virtue signalers. They claim to care about sexism, but have no problem being shitty towards men. They claim to care about racism, but have no problem being shitty towards some races as long as those races are not the ones the media told them not to criticize. And so on. They are more concerned about presenting a certain image or being able to act holier than thou than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:50 AM
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That's just your opinion, and probably of one that has quite a few issues with men. They look looksmatched for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:34 AM
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It is so common in the Philippines, mail order/"foreign wives" is one of their biggest exports.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:27 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:48 PM
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Many if the studies are misinterpreted like you said, suffer from the replication crisis, have reliability problems, etc. i mean you technically could have a study looking at hobbies and then looking at disposition. If you have studies where they claim to have figured out that women are more altruistic, surely you can have studies comparing trends in being sweet. If youre interested in a STR than nothing. But the personalities that tend to go hand in hand are the same that are just not good for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:47 PM
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There isnt a way to “prove” 90% of the stuff said on PPD, blue or red.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:38 PM
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I have. How many women have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:36 PM
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I don't think most of the women calling him hot are aware that he is 5'7''. They probably think he is facially attractive, but would change their tune pretty quick. Also, apparently this is his wife. So even if he is attractive, he didn't really leverage it that much IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:35 AM
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Are you an undergrad? Because unless you are a grad student, I don't think you will ever have as much free time, unless you have a blow off job, as you do as an undergrad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:29 AM
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Yeah, but I doubt they spend equal time or effort into it all. And IMO the latter cancels out the former. Like just because a girl like sewing and alcohol enough to be a hobby doesn't mean she will be sweet. She can be, but then she would be sweet and inevitable divorce material despite being sweet too. But liking sewing and alcohol not that much probably does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:24 AM
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First, I would be concerned about the replication crisis. But it is a metastudy so it may pass, but I would still be suspicious. “We live in a society where women are expected to be altruistic, much more so than men,” said David Rand, associate professor of psychology and economics, and corresponding author of the study published Feb. 25 in the Journal of Experimental Psychology. “So women suffer more negative consequences for not being altruistic, which leads to them to develop intuitive respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:23 AM
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Girls who are into hiking, biking, baking, and mom hobbies like sewing/gardening tend to be sweet or chill. Girls who make alcohol a hobby or have hobbies likes dancing, painting, or arguing pointlessly on the Internet are inevitable divorce material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:15 AM
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I didn't look at all of those, but I just saw Chrissy Teigen. She's ew/10 for me. I don't know what it is about her, but just looking at her pisses me off for some reason. It isn't like with Olivia Munn where I think she looks pretty good, but then I heard her talk and can't stand her. I don't think I've ever heard Chrissy talk (or just haven't paid attention). I know she isn't ugly (although I fail to see how this is celeb tier hot), but there's just a quality she has that is visually off-putti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:08 AM
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If sexuality is a spectrum, then it probably evens out. However, both bi men and women are more likely to have male partners (see recent threads about this on this very subreddit). So we perceive more gay men, even though some are probably bi but just don't have that many opportunities to meet women and stick to men because it is easier. Similarly, women on the spectrum are also less likely to be with women than men so we perceive less bi/gay women than straight women. They just happen to be wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:48 AM
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Funny that this topic comes up, I've recently been hanging out with a lesbian woman and I've been thinking - "wow, I finally have a gay BFF". Not too shabby. I think they work if it is a kind of Larry/Rosie friendship as shown in Curb: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRbPisyR0yE. But I would say that the real reason why they aren't more common is because lesbian women detest straight [cis] men more often than not. They see them as oppressors, or gross, or immature, or manchildy, or whatever is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:41 AM
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I found this of her talking for a long time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LoE7b7K-DZs. I can't discern an accent. But damn, she has aged. The only time I thought I heard one was here: https://youtu.be/LoE7b7K-DZs?t=1126. When she says "don't exit". That sounds like the old black ladies I knew as a kid. But I feel like the old white ladies talked that way too, idk. Compared to Obama these days who still looks pretty good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vD2jJkNmWUo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:12 AM
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midwest middle-class African American accents I Googled this and can't come up with a single audio. Is there a celebrity who talks like this, or a Youtube video of someone talking like this? When I think of the women who I know that fit that mold, they just sound like any other old black lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:02 AM
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There isn't a problem with disliking an Indian/Pakistani accent. He is saying that Paki is a slur: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paki_(slur)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:59 AM
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Jamaican is just a cool accent. W. African too. The South American and Arab accented people sound pretty good to me too. I dislike British, Japanese, Trinidadian, & the AAVE accent - I don't know if there is a specific term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:41 AM
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There are a lot of women who are actually fairly decent and reasonable people As soon as I hit save I knew I should have clarified. I meant to say "disproportionate" altruism. Most people are decent enough and predictably are self-centered. Very few of both genders are altruistic to any meaningful degree. There's no gender factor to those two groups despite some women claiming that women are so much more caring or whatever. I will concede that men are somewhat higher represented in truly awful p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:30 AM
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I think they are good about paying lip service to "big issues" to present a certain feminine image. But altruism I don't see as much. However, dating was just one example. Another is things like dangerous jobs (they don't really care about employment fairness there like they do about being a big shot lawyer) or whether a man can choose whether he wants to be a father or not. For the last part, one of the funniest things I heard is that the standard response is "if a man doesn't want to be a fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:13 AM
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In some cases. A woman who cheats and then commits paternity fraud is some of the worst of the worst. Like belongs in Dante's ninth circle of hell. The closest cognate to that is a man cheating and starting a second family I guess? But that just isn't as bad as paternity fraud IMO. A lot of women here are quick to say that "duh men and women aren't the same, some things are different for women to give us an advantage or make things we do not so bad", so it shouldn't be a surprise if some men bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:01 AM
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I thought he was tall then noticed his legs. If you're like 5'7'' and then lose your legs, can you just ask for prosthetics that make you 6'3''?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:58 AM
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Women only care about how things are unfair if they are somehow affected. Women can be poor, so that is something they care about. But very few have trouble dating to the extent men do so they dont care - moreover, they want to make things even more difficult so they have even more of an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:22 AM
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I mean it probably is BS, but I am in med school and if he was in any way that busy (investment banker, big law, etc) there is a very small possibility that it is true. More likely though, yes it is just to keep options open and being able to return at a later date. I know people who have like dozens of messages unread, so yours could theoretically get lost in that number - but I don't live like that so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:16 PM
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It presents as "oh I was just too busy to open the text and read it, I would have maybe responded if I had the time to read it".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:10 PM
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If men are held responsible for the actions of other men, women can expect the same. Ok, so be an adult and learn to avoid it... what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:37 PM
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As an adult you should be able to figure it out. If a salesman comes up to you and acts like your BFF are you going to be like "idk maybe I am the best client he's ever had". You're supposed to be competent enough to understand that he wants something from you. If you get fleeced, that's on you. By the by, very few women are sympathetic when men are manipulated by women for golddigging or what have you. They are supposed to know that the woman only wanted them for their money and not for themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:30 PM
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But how are you supposed to gauge your own level of attractiveness as a woman? How do you decide if a dude is too hot for you before, well, engaging with him? Idk, women (especially here) are the ones claiming they are sooo much better at gauging their own attractiveness than men. So maybe women should be telling us. And if they fail at something they claim is something they are so skilled at, then I think it is fair game for mocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:27 PM
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I recently found out spiders eat snakes. Spiders are chill, they kill bugs for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:26 AM
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It is just another metastasis. If you look at the OP, she posts in /r/ThePinkPills and /r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy too. It all leads back to the same stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:34 PM
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Except without the ambition, caring about other people, and source of comedy. All they really have down is the uptight and bitchy attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:30 PM
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This post has major euphoric Aalewis and /r/Im14andthisisdeep vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:45 AM
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it’s more that women are so much harder to date(catch? This is word for word what my "bisexual" ex said regarding this issue. Not totally relevant story coming up. She actually never had a LTR with a girl, even by mid-20 (out since freshman year). She tried to date a few, but it never worked due to the other party. Of course, she had a lot of toxic things to say about men. I remember wishing she would finally have a non-monog relationship with a girl just so she could see the issue wasn't men bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:32 AM
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I do think there is often a generational gap when it comes to these things that makes discussions frustrating. There's a lot of old ladies here who who act very old lady like. I'm under 30 and I thought it was fairly obvious that calling someone "husband material" wasn't great. But I could definitely see how someone my mom's or grandma's age could think it was - they were raised in a different time and in a very different environment. But they just don't know what they are talking about now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:24 AM
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Do you appreciate those men for being available or are you like "ugh, I wish I could be dating a woman but I guess I'll settle".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:19 AM
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I just bought a house within the last couple of weeks too. Things did slow down a bit after summer and I think I got a pretty good deal. Patiently awaiting another housing crash now that I bought my first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:36 AM
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I was looking for the one you were complaining about in the OP, not some I could find in a joke book from 1965.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:51 AM
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Can you permalink to the hilarious joke pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:35 AM
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Who even made up the term, another woman? I also doubt there is any trend - at least as you are portraying it. If anything, the trend is just women trying to make this issue gendered. I never heard of the term before, so I looked it up, and literally every hit is a woman going out of her way to make women sound like the wronged party (higher in-group bias by women strikes again). Lesbians have higher divorce rates cross culturally. Is the walk away wife syndrome the fault of husbands there too? …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:34 AM
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Doesn't matter what you think if other people disagree on this topic. You can think you're funny, if others don't then it doesn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:16 AM
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This is why I am starting to not give a shit about the poor. Fuck them. Especially men like these. If I could Thanos snap to turn every single one of them into homeless I would. Makes me sick that ethots are making hundreds of thousands while some poor kid is starving. Expand the prison industrial complex and lock em up. I've heard of men blowing their COVID assistance on ethots. So basically people who are working and paying taxes are subsidizing these cretins jerking themselves off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:34 PM
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She's gonna get that 50 year old sperm then for the big family she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:29 PM
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The only way I could see a man like that going for her is if he isn't well off and has plans to screw her out of her 400 acres somehow. But honestly, she would deserve it just as much as any golddigger victim does. Of course the FDS types would then go "see men are evil, always trying to use women" without understanding any irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:46 PM
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Men are abundant, especially men who would pump and dump. Is her type who wants her back abundant? If so, why is she on Tinder at 33? She's not looking for a hookup on Tinder, she's looking for a whole husband that will give her a couple of kids. Shouldn't she have easily found them in the club? At 33, she also has to implicitly add young or younger, because she's hit advanced maternal age in the medical definition and an older husband just adds to more birth complications. This is just an acade…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:27 PM
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She's 33. At a certain point you have to admit you're wrong or just look pigheaded (no pun intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:04 PM
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While I can see how Indian may be overrepresented, I think your numbers are skewed even if 100% of the traffic is from the US. Bangladeshi/Pakistani/Sri Lanka/Nepali Americans would have to be included as well since they are pretty much considered Indians by non-Indians. With those, it is closer to 2-2.5%. The other group is Indians who came to America from a third country. Indians are far flung, for example they are the majority in some South American countries and have a large Caribbean presen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:50 AM
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Male privilege is an advantage like an extra shift at work is an advantage Imagine comparing simps/ugly men to literal bugs and still trying to claim ugly women have it as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:11 PM
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White people hate on them because they want to be white supremacists but their own culture makes them feel bad about doing it to black and Hispanic people because of white guilt due to past historical events. So try to act morally superior by acting like they aren't racist when it comes to black and Hispanic people, but also get their white supremacist fix by hating on Indian/Asian men who are left out of the white cultural zeitgeist on who is a protected minority. Black people hate on them beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:12 PM
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I'm saying discounting advantages just because you don't want to acknowledge them is stupid. So if a woman tells me I have advantages due to male privilege, they're wrong because it is meaningless - since I don't want to acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:01 PM
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Thats just a cop out. Then all of male privilege is meaningless too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:47 PM
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Treated bad by who? The opposite sex? No way in hell. Even the ugliest women will have simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:39 PM
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I have a strong feeling their baby is gonna come out autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:33 PM
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According to women here, only about 5% of men naturally attract women. I think boomcheese or another black woman came up with that number, but I wouldn't be surprised if they all believe it. They believe the rest have to make up for that lack of natural attraction by other means - some of which may make the men miserable. So if you really do believe that the majority of men deserve to be miserable, ridiculed, and scorned - then you can't really complain if one day you are on the receiving end of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 PM
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Why dont you make them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:36 PM
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This, if you're gonna be giving parts away, give the best parts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:59 PM
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It was about some women in Africa, obviously not too many people would care about keeping it up in the forefront. It exists somewhere, just don't know who would care enough to keep it around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:51 PM
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Both men and women can get anal fistulas, yes. This is about the specific kind women can get. I would think even women would say between the two, they'd rather have the anal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:55 PM
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Honestly, I think some of the so called "oppression" is needed. Lotta women need to be humbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:49 PM
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What do you know about fistulas? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XeybEWuDlxs I have heard women talking about in Africa how soldiers were trained to know just how to shoot women to create a fistula, and how the women would literally have to carry buckets around. Can't find the video now. Is there any other way to create fistulas than by knocking them up or shooting them in the vag? Are fistulas common enough that I could be walking around women who have vagina poop holes and not even know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:33 PM
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Chicken and the egg situation. Are your men the worst because of you. Or are you the way you are because you have the worst men? I'd just say, that if I were in that demographic and those were "my women", I'd go prob full degenerate too honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:05 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:51 PM
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Ive visited both
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:50 PM
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There already is. Men are more at the extremes, women fall in the middle but it averages out. The extremes being stuff like sending men to the moon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:50 PM
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But whites dominated Africa and Latin America far worse. Why arent they as white worshiping?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:49 AM
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Yea, cuz they needed to give women something to do. If she died in a car crash or something on the way to work, some other man could just have filled in and life would have gone on exactly the same. If all the men at NASA died, women wouldnt have just picked up and gone forward. The ratio of men to women was huge anyway. But besides that, my point was as a whole men keep the world running. We could keep the world running by sticking women in a house and locking them up like some cultures do (and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:33 AM

Im pretty sure they all go back to a man from like Belgium or something who was clearly a white supremacist and made stats up (or manipulated them). His other work was on IQ and that went as you would expect. I wonder if black guys who share those maps so gleefully believe the IQ one too, or if that one is not trustworthy to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:30 AM

True tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:23 AM
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The point is, whoever that person is that lifts it, it will always be a man. I personally dont care, but a lot of women nowadays talk peoples ears off about representation and about how important it is that people doing great things “look like me”. So it is nice for those women who care so much, that this is an activity that will never scratch that itch for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:21 AM

Indian girls definitely have white fetishes. Not as much as East Asian girls yet, but in a few decades they will be at similar rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:18 AM
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That doesnt make your point and you arent as smart as you think you are. There are places where women have no rights even though they are human, so those arent linked like you tried to make it seem. Any place there is a racial hierarchy for men there will be one for women. But also, no one claimed that all races have the same rights everywhere, so youre just arguing against yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:13 AM
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Women are human everywhere, they dont have rights everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:03 AM
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I see your username in /r/geopolitics sometimes. So weird to know that guy making somewhat detailed posts there is this guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:59 AM
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Uh huh, sure you did. Chiropractor school doesn't count sweety. Love how it has never been mentioned by you ever, except now when you have nothing else to say. Your other submitted posts are you bitching about your parents and BF like a bratty girl. Canada's shit must be lax if they let little girls like you in. If true, Canadian med schools don't sound too impressive, so yeah - must have been easy. Love how you completely ignored the main point cuz you can't dispute it. You're lucky to be in Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:06 AM
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Mhm sure you are. Maybe in your dreams. Can't dispute the point though, can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:57 AM
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...neither am I though. I think you're confused. But it is okay, I didn't expect much. Even the average man owns the world more than women. A man can go to Africa, Asia, SA, anywhere and live like the average person there. You or any other woman try walking around in a strange place in the majority of the world and will get shown what life is really like. Translation: men own the world, you just live here. And men decide how you will be treated where you live. Some places men are nice, some plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:50 AM
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Like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:43 AM
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So I'm a man in med school after a successful career in tech and more accomplished than you will ever be. I have a gf rn and have already talked marriage - just to put a damper on your preconceived notions. Even so, what you said is completely false. Many men have subjugated women and have been worth way more than you will ever be. I mean more than 100 years ago, pretty much all men would not fit your standard of feminist enough. And making the claim that all men before 100 years ago aren't wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:41 AM
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Like just go the fuck away. Don't treat us special just fuck off. Umm. No. Men own the world, the rest of you fuckers just live here. Don't like it? Find somewhere else to live. Those are your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:36 AM
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You're clearly not. Ahh yes, the lazy men who literally keep civilization running and got to the moon. The only reason women haven't oppressed men is that they are incapable. Most would if they could, they would even lie to themselves and tell themselves they are doing it for the good of humanity. After all, men are so horrible. But they are just incompetent at accomplishing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:32 AM
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What does this comment have to do with mine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:12 AM
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Under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:11 AM
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One day we'll find out that this comment was the trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:03 AM
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There are women on this very thread talking about how much they hate men and how inferior they think men are. If you're consistent, I suppose you'd say they are mentally ill as well. But I think you would be seriously underestimating how prevalent that mindset is among women. I will concede that it is dramatically pronounced among some demographics. For example, for the user I am thinking about now - I had a suspicion that she was from a demographic well known for that kind of mindset, and I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:45 AM
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This. The behavior of women in the West has definitively shown that the so called equality and improving gender relations is a lie. There is virtually no reason to follow it unless you are like Joe the Plumber about raising taxes and are about the "principle of the matter". I remember the lie once was that feminism would improve gender relations. It has done no such thing. Women in the West hate men way more than women I have met anywhere else, and I have traveled quite a bit. In fact I would ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:43 AM
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Women are more likely to get STDs and be more profoundly effected by them. More women actually have STDs. So that sounds like a wash. Studies I have seen show that men who don't have a lot of sex are the ones who suffer with ED actually - do you have any actual evidence for what you are saying regarding that? Here's mine: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/story?id=3932047&page=1. And for the very last part - sluts and their defenders are the first to say that having more sex makes you better and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:53 AM
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The pencil sharpener clapback never made sense and was just a lazy gotcha. At least the lock and key analogy actually works as a metaphor. Even women admit that they have to be selective with who they fuck and can't just be open to fucking everyone. How does the pencil sharpener work as a metaphor other than trying to say, haha your dick gets smaller? Does fucking more women make a guy's dick smaller? In what ways does the metaphor actually apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:46 AM
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I don't think you understood what you read. The point wasn't that TRP doesn't make CMV threads here, the point is when a TRPer makes a CMV with no intention of engaging in good faith it is quickly removed. I see now that this post has also been removed for not being in good faith, but it was left up for hours. Also, that thread was made by a mod and definitely not a TRPer. She is closer to FDS than TRP. That particular mod falls on the blue pill, not red pill side. Great self-own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:36 PM
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They arent, but mods are way harsher on the other. If this was a TRP equivalent, this thread would have been removed already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:17 PM
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This user claims to be starting to go FDS but her user profile shows she was already FDS months ago at least, probably lurking much longer. This isnt a good faith CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:00 PM
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I'm gonna DM you, I don't like having too much information on my reddit account due to crazy doxxers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:07 AM
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I talked for a while too. No one started off with a shirtless pic either. Also asked a girl to pick some sentences for me because I was worried my word choice was too masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:34 AM
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I did it. The claims women make seem to be highly exaggerated. I tried swiping randomly, swiping in a row, and swiping judiciously. I never got a dick pic, thank god. I did get "wanna come over" messages, shirtless pics, and the "hey baby" messages - but that was literally the worst I got. The guys that sent those were ones you could spot a mile away. Girls who swipe on those guys and then act outraged either deserve what they get or are purposefully doing it so they can complain about it. I use…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:59 AM
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Well drop her IG doge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:05 AM
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Austin with San Antonio an hour further is awesome, good for hiking too. Palo Duro road trip is good, but it isn't close.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:32 AM
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Hiking sucks in Dallas. The only good one nearby is Cedar Ridge, which is busy and does have a lot of hot girls around. Oak Cliff is empty. Dinosaur Valley is okay. Eagle Mountain is ok. Saw more hot girls at Eagle Mountain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:01 AM
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There are definitely a lot of hiking groups on MeetUp. So if you're just looking to build a wider network, you can start there. You'll have to wade through the old people though. But for your age group, what I would suggest is going to one of the Summit Climbing gyms they have there (or the other brands, don't remember them). Take the 101 class, there were a lot of hot girls there when I lived in Dallas. If you're 6' you will have a massive advantage climbing, and girls will dig that. I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:51 AM
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Dude, if you're a 6' white/black/latino guy, you're just wasting a gift. If I were 6' tall, I would literally have next to zero dating problems. Seriously, unless you have a small dick, have moderate to severe mental health issues, or are destitute the only thing holding you back is yourself. Even ugly guys have quite a bit of success as long as they are tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:27 AM
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But hes obv not bad in bed, because if he was, that would be point #1 and he wouldnt be an option even if he was a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:59 AM
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This. The fact that he is still an option means that her friends didn't tell her that he was bad in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:15 AM
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Once again, if that PARTICULAR post wasn't influenced by feminism would that term have been included?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:08 AM
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If she weren't a feminist and that didn't influence this particular post, do you think she would have included stuff about "toxic masculinity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:02 AM
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I 100% guarantee you that if you ask her if she is a feminist, she will say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:56 AM
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But you repeat yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:31 AM
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Next time tell them to hold the vegetables and lettuce. They can't just give you a nearly empty plate. Of course, then you'll just get a plate of rice. Lots of places do that, fill you up with cheap carbs and then skimp on meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:41 AM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/228/324/4a4.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:26 AM
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This gentleman is quite confident to have a shirtless pic with gynecomastia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:24 PM
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But apparently it's not OK to call her her first name, either WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:21 PM
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Your claim is that they do it at a higher rate. We've seen so many because those are the men women either associate more with (and their rate is similar, they just have more access) or those are the cases that women are more likely to allege. There have been false ones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:36 PM
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Women accuse them at an overwhelmingly higher rate. That may be because they seek something out with their accusation or that they put themselves in positions to have increased interactions with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:29 PM
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Notice she said boyfriend, not the "living fleshlight" shtick the women here try to pull. Although, it is possible those women are telling on themselves that they can't find boyfriends so quickly and most men would rather treat them as "living fleshlights" rather than a legit dating option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:08 PM

She's a woman, and blue for that matter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:11 PM
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This. Some probably are guilty, but keep in mind that these sorts of men are also good targets for accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:48 PM
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It isnt just shit degrees though. They are outnumbering men in med school (which I firmly believe is due to AA if you look at the stats), PA school, nursing, law school, etc. Single unmarried women make more than single unmarried men. Shit is going down. Gender AA is like the story of the frog is boiling water for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:22 PM
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Women are slowly becoming the majority of medical school admits too. Medical school classes are manipulated by race, so them being manipulated by gender isnt out of the question. If you look at AAMC stats, it seems pretty convincing that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:45 PM
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...that's the point, she's not only racist against whites... Why wouldn't TX care about "people like whites"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:49 PM
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Im fairly certain she is talking about race, but wont do it directly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:00 PM
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Maybe pro-lifers should go the other way. Mandatory abortions for these dumb whores! They're not really babies, so it's not really murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:39 AM
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Horrible idea, especially in this political climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:30 AM
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Two people agreeing with each other over a span of two comments is hardly a circlejerk. God forbid two people say they agree and then move on. There's a good reason for that though. You're the OP that started this topic on what is ostensibly a debate sub. It is a "discussion" post, but that is more to game the rules than anything else. If this post had been made by a non-mod or had the gender reversed topic, it would have been changed to a CMV by the mods and then quickly removed for "bad faith"…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:27 AM
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I got that. But that's about what I expected. Usually when I post to one of her threads, it is to display info for other viewers, not necessarily her since that is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:45 PM
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I know, I'm the one who said no one is entitled to having their experience believed. I brought in outside perspectives, because what a lot of women like to do here is say that the male experiences here are abnormal for some reason and therefore should be discounted. What I described above isn't just my experience or a PPD male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:43 PM
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Then it sounds like you have already made your mind up and any argument to the contrary based on other observations is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:37 PM
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Well, what would convince you? All men can give is their viewpoint (which seems popular enough, and is on a subreddit away from the men of this sub that women here obviously look down on), if others choose not to believe them then oh well. Same for women, no one is really entitled to have their viewpoints believed. There's too many variables with that anecdote that is missing without context - maybe he's a feminine man, maybe you are missing some context on why that situation is different, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:31 PM
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This topic reminds me of something I read on /r/medicalschool. It is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/medicalschool/comments/pfl6yr/a_nurse_explains_the_nuance_behind_the_vicious/hb687bw/. I think the relevant part is here: This seems to be a product of male culture where you turn on the aggression for the competition, but there should be no hard feelings once it is over. In the US military for example you can expect to be verbally and physically abused for poor performance one day, but if you mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:23 PM

...so what actually happened? She ghosted or told you she's not interested? There's a particular guy around here who goes around calling other guys cowards. Faux tough guy act from an old geezer if we're talking about the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:18 AM

Everything is subscriptions based now, that is how you squeeze money out of suckers. So they charge between $10-50 per month just to get "access" and the lame pics. If you want the good stuff, that's when they gauge you. PPV costs like $90-300 for like a 30 second clip. I know a girl who does it. She also charges for texts. That's why the stats of "most girls make less than 1000 on OnlyFans" or whatever is BS. Maybe they make that little on subs, but the subs are already dumb enough to pay for P…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:16 AM

Women control the majority of the spending, which is why our capitalist society will eventually trends towards an idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:56 PM

I'm gonna go out of my way to step on them whenever I see them from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:49 PM

Raging internet women and incels are two sides of the same coin. The only difference is that it is nearly impossible for women to be incel due to the advantages they have in getting sex. But personality worse, they are very similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:48 PM

They are the best fast food you can get, but at the end of the day it is still just fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:44 PM

Seriously, either god knew it wouldn't be right to make women stronger/as strong, or natural selection worked because our species having stronger women like in some other species would be maladaptive evolutionarily. Either way, I'm sick of hearing women act like it was a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:42 PM

Things are just getting polarized, not decreasing on average for women. Many women are getting bitchier and bitchier, while a select few are [emotionally] intelligent enough to see how stupid the rest are acting. But there's no overarching "cultural shift" among women. I'd say there's more reason to be pessimistic than optimistic about women in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:38 PM

They have a mental dysphoria, but it can be treated and "curated". They usually don't harm anyone else, aside from rape by deception if they engage in it. Why should they be locked up? That is for people who do hurt others or themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:21 PM

YaLl JuSt LeArNiN wHaT wE bEeN kNeW - them Yeah, cuz the rest of us are backsliding
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:18 PM

I hate the whole "women are more empathetic" bs meme. It isn't true. The only thing that is true is that women are more obsessed with presenting themselves as more empathetic. Then they use the "women are more empathetic" trope as an excuse for why they should act cruel because of all the other times they imagined themselves to be empathetic (or are taking credit for the actions of other women). Every day I thank god, Buddha, and natural selection that men are the physically stronger gender. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:14 PM

pink, blue, purple, or green hair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:06 PM

If she had kids, absolutely. Otherwise, probably a dealbreaker for marriage unless she was ultra hot. Not a dealbreaker for gf or a fuck and chuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:38 PM
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They attempt more because they are more likely to want attention. More men than women actually want to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:42 PM
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I thought a major reason he got off was due to affluenza and having connections. But yes, I have less sympathy for people who already have it easy. Imagine- he was an athlete at a premier university, of a demographic that has very few challenges dating wise, had rich parents, probably a really nice childhood, and he still tries to rape someone? Like dude, he had an easier time getting laid than like 80-90% of the male population his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:09 PM
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I don't really care about this case specifically. Brock Turner was an over-privileged scumbag. But yes, women are "weaker" psychologically and this creates issues for men. I knew a guy who was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a woman. She says he was the only abusive one, but most people who knew them could see she was by far more abusive with the more feminist leaning people pulling the enlightened centrism thing and saying they were equally abusive. People who didn't know them obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:59 PM
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If you look at OP's post history he is a literal incel/blackpiller. Why anyone here (especially the side that notoriously bitches about incels constantly) would take him seriously is beyond me. Wouldn't you know it, bluepillers and women endorse incels when they say things they like hearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:15 AM

I'll believe it when I see it. I suspect it is a PR move to drive more users to it "before it gets banned". Then they'll reverse policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:22 PM

B, but only if I kept my level of intelligence/ambition/drive. Otherwise A.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:21 PM

She prob did, you think she whored around and only slept with three men? And she prob is attracted to high status men. Money is an aphrodisiac for most whores. He probably drew attention to the prostitution to try to get the annulment he wanted (since that was more than simple cheating and may help him legally). She was prob gonna fuck them anyway, but the money is just a bonus. Or he only found out about these three cuz the money left a paper trail. I highly doubt it was only three men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:36 PM

Why is the story so sus? There are court documents. With people this rich, I'm sure lawyers on both sides are doing some work. The secret was discovered while the doc found her secret messages on their computer (pretty similar to what happened with the real life story of the author of that Sex/Life crap on Netflix). Some women just are dirty sluts and are compulsive about this sort of thing (the other men are also high status which is a contributing factor). Maybe slightly lower than TRP estimat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:20 PM

This is how i feel too. Like i wish chads and tyrones would focus on the sluts. But they wanna fuck sluts and the good girls. And they often do like good girls more IME, for relationships that is. They love fucking sluts. But as with most things women here say, it just doesnt hold up in reality that chads pair off with sluts preferentially IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:50 PM

I was reading this article about a former Miss Connecticut that was whoring around even though her husband was a high status multimillionaire. And then I thought about how many women here claim that a lot of so called "Chads" don't care about n-count, sluttiness, etc. But I wonder if those so called Chads actually know the depths of their sluttiness. Like this guy is a doc and pretty smart, so he must have known a girl this attractive would have a relatively high n count - but he clearly didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:29 PM

The argument the bloops, feminists, and man haters make about men is similar to how i heard anti-semites describe jews once. They are somehow powerful enough to oppress everyone, but at the same time inferior and incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:54 PM
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May depend on location, in a lot of metro areas 115k isn't all that much. But I agree that women don't really care that much about money unless you're talking about like 250k+ in a MCOL city. Of course, you can't be making less than like 60k in a MCOL city unless you're tall or good looking either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:07 AM
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The most surprising thing is that there are actually women on POF. I thought it was like one step above Craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:55 AM
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Animal control got them fortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:44 AM
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Then are you also against dating between classes (upper and working class), different incomes, different education levels, and even different IQ (not talking about mental retardation here, but like an IQ of 135 vs an IQ of 110)? Because those are power imbalances too. Race is also a power imbalance if you believe the idea that some races have structural power and others do not. Also I do think that sometimes dating a person from a certain different race/religion is a bad idea and family members …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:13 AM
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Yeah, but you are making this about your uncle - who I think we can all agree is weird and atypical. The point I was making was about how you said you can tell this because of how "men" act. Well, "men" (and women tbh, just in emotionally violent rather than physically violent ways) act that way about lots of things. If men beating up men for age gaps proves age gaps are bad, why doesn't men beating up men for race prove that miscegenation is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:59 AM
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But men beat up other men who date their family members even when there isn't an age gap. Like that is a thing, dating a family member of a friend is very controversial - age gap or not. Men beat up other men for being a different race or different religion than what they think is right and dating a family member/member of their religion/race. I don't think that really proves anything. Dating a 22 year old isn't pedo... ped literally means CHILD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:47 AM
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While there is a lot of racism in TRP (a reason why I'm not interested in that community), there is plenty of racism in the anti-TRP side as well - so it is kind of a wash. Racism is really just a part of TRP because racism is a part of life. Back when I looked at TBP, there was a lot of racism there too - often aimed at the same groups TRP was against.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:39 AM
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But he must have known that you were just doing that to get back at him. And that you weren't really into the 40 year old friend, and the 40 year old friend would only get laid because you were trying to get back at your uncle. Your uncle just might be nutso (might be a family thing), but you don't think it would be different if you just met a random 40 year old man and legitimately liked him? Like was his gf just dating him to get back at someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:24 AM
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In this case trashy TV drama reflects real life, because the story is based on the real events of the author, BB Easton.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:15 AM
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It is literally based on a true story. BB Easton wrote it about a real event. Her husband really did find her diary about her past sexual experiences. The book may be exaggerated, but the base story happened in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:11 AM
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Another large breed would move up to number 1 yes, but the total number of attacks would decrease I think. Pitbulls stand alone from what I have seen in terms of dog controversy. Like newfies are huge, but you hardly ever hear this kind of controversy surround them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:06 AM
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Dunno, im not a dog person. But i do think it is inherent to the breed. They seem to be more aggressive, and it is obvious some breeds are more aggressive than others. Im going with the wheres smoke theres fire reasoning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:42 AM
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It is statistically untrue though. Attacks are disproportionate for their breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:38 AM
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Old girl is okay! She came back around 9. Must have had a late night. Animal control came and the dogs are gone. Some ladies on FB are raising hell, and I am with them. They actually lost their little buddies. I hope they go full Karen and go after this lady. As soon as I saw the pic, I rolled my eyes and said "of course". She's really gross, I see her walk around the neighborhood in bare feet. Their cars are all dented, and I doubt other drivers are often at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:36 AM
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That's a false equivalence to a ridiculous degree. Pitbulls literally kill people. There is a reason, as a community, that we tolerate and love porch kitties and have done so for years. These dogs are new to the neighborhood, probably less than a week, and are already causing trouble. Stray cats are way more favorable than stray dogs pretty much everywhere I have lived. If there are stray cats, most people enjoy feeding them. Sure, cats can kill native species - but a lot of humans actually dome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:41 AM
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We need that here, it isn't Seattle. I've volunteered at an animal shelter here, the requirements are way too lax. And considering the numerous stories we have had about pits in our city, I think that is an objective fact at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:37 AM
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Fine, then there should be better enforcement. But I think the problem of there being way too many dogs in shelters means that way too many incompetent people are given dogs when they shouldn't be. I think there should be stricter rules on who is allowed to adopt dogs. My thinking is if they are this incompetent, then they would be too lazy to jump through additional hoops. The presence of the hoops themselves would decrease the proportion of lazy/incompetent owners getting dogs they don't deser…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:17 AM
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Because there clearly aren't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:11 AM
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They're not stray dogs. They have owners, just shitty ones. If they were true strays, they would have been put down or taken to a shelter or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:06 AM
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Turns out some assholes who own a couple of pitbulls just let them out and they have been out all day. The problem is our neighborhood has a bunch of porch kitties that we collectively feed and take care of. The pitties have killed at least 4 different cats since this morning. We have one porch kitty that I have been feeding and petting for 3 years now. She is so sweet. I see her almost everyday, except when I go on trips. Most days, she even greets me when I come home from work. I haven't seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:09 AM
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The 31% is Android, which makes way more sense. There's no way other OS is 31% and Android is just a sliver. It is the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:56 AM

I think playing video games just doesn't feel that great/rewarding once you get older. I lost interest in FPS games around the end of college, and almost lost interest in strategy games around 26. Every once in a while, I get sucked into a game for a month or so that I binge, but then don't really want to play games after that. Last year, that was Wasteland 3. I haven't really got into a game this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:12 AM
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The mods are all women or old guys. Yet most of the men here are under 30. What a bunch of BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:17 PM

Dafuq is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:02 PM
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I'll just leave this here. Enlightened men knew what was up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:58 PM

I do on the mens side because i was a really late bloomer. I remember how bad it was. Women have no idea. On the macro level, i do think gender relations are shit due to the current cultural zeitgeist. As someone interested in psychiatry, i do think it is a real social concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:50 PM
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I thought women were super suspicious about guys they just started dating? Of course, I know that's BS. But it is funny to see every once in a while. Him picking you up means he now knows where you live. He now also controls the vehicle while you are without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:11 PM
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I've had no problem splitting and getting high quality partners. Women love to denigrate each other as pickme's. But those women I dated had better jobs, education, and frankly lives than the women I see insisting men have to pay or calling other women pickme's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:07 PM
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There are jobs that you don't have to interact with men at all, like truck drivers, that are paid well but are still majority male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:06 PM
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Mothers are not demonized. If anything, historically mothers were the most respected women. Single mothers are a separate issue, and the issue is more about being single than being a mother. Also, most men want kids (or at least sons) as heirs/progeny. I havent seen even heard deadbeats refer to kids as goblins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:59 PM

Just get her into HR, its like all women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:55 PM
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Why would you refer to a child as a goblin? Like youd hate your kid that much that youd go, “you only exist as a favor to your dad, im getting nothing out of this”. Man the women here… glad no one in my family is like this. These women are going to raise future menaces to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:36 PM

I once dated a chubby girl. Not fat, but chubby. I got chubby with her. Because she wouldnt want to go on hikes with me, because it was unpleasant for her. Or go to the gym with me, if i went to the gym, id have to cut it short so i could hang out with her in reasonable amount of time. She liked drinking, so id drink too - not as much as her, but more than my usual. We ate at places she would be ok with too, so unhealthy eating became a thing. Couples start to look like each other because they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:40 PM

Maybe marriage is meant to benefit society as a whole and not the individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:12 PM
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I see waaay more women on PPD saying women are more attractive than men than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:30 PM
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Im in medicine, and it was a medical forum, so we sacrifice a lot of youth. I still got to travel, more than the average person for sure, but not as much as i would have liked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:03 PM
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Health related? Because maybe pushing his body at that age contributed to only having 5 years of retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:37 PM
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At what age does everyone plan to retire? I was reading something on another forum that felt like a punch in the gut. He was talking about people retiring at 65 or 70, and then not being able to do anything but sit around all day or figure out how to spend their money that they slaved away for and cant even spend in a meaningful way cuz their body wont allow it. Retiring after like 60 sounds so awful. Id want at least a decade of still being active and stuff. So sounds like late 50s is really th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:11 PM
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Saying they are different from other women is like the most basic thing girls say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:32 PM
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Isn't Korea really open and accepting of plastic surgery? Maybe even encouraged? I think we are trending that way. I feel like California is already there. I think people who shit on it are midwesterners and southerners who see it as "hoity toity".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:40 AM
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And once they get that men, then they insist they are equals. So they basically leapfrog people by being the fucking object of a superior person. Now they are superior to all the people that man was superior to as well. It is a sick way of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:22 AM
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Do you consider yourself the genetic inferior of bigger women or of men who have sisters/mothers bigger than you? Or is the inferiority just reserved for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:18 AM

Women talk all the time about not liking feminine men (or men with feminine traits), so are women surprised that men don't like masculine women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:33 PM

If there are guys who prefer to have sex with amputees and lamps, there are of course guys who prefer fat women. It still doesn't make it any less weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:32 PM

Went to Wikipedia, saw it was written by two women and know it will be crap. More of just "oh poor woman with a husband that isn't good enough for her" schlock. At least the reviews were bad. Netflix is shit now, just a bunch of GRRL POWER stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:34 AM

That sounds like a family specific problem. Because Asian men are not wallowing in "mediocrity". There is only one demographic where the women are doing better than the men, and it isn't Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:30 AM

I just got here and don't know what is going on. But it sounds like the menses cycles are syncing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:45 AM
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So do you think men of today are better or worse than men of the old days? My opinion is the former. But that throws a wrench in your screed because men are not getting better for being better. That is just a carrot and stick tactic by women. Some men have caught on and that is why they act however they want - many still getting the results they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:38 PM
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Every time i see comments like hers, it comes from a certain demographic. I had my suspicions so i took a look at her profile, and yep! Never fails. It really is too bad we cant talk about a certain thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:46 AM

A fool and his money are easily parted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:37 PM

Easier to fix than being ugly as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:25 PM

Part of the reason this continues is because men play along. They pull a “Im so much more chivalrous than other guys” move to act better than other guys. Typically, i have noticed it is poorer guys who do this, because they have more to prove. Or they know women will figure out they are poor so they are more outspoken about it to not make it known early. Which is fine by me. I get the same results by not doing it and am richer than at least 90% of other guys if those income percentiles are corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:11 PM
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Sounds like a you problem tbh An IT worker that is good at his job and has downtime is more valuable than an IT worker that takes longer to do the same job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:52 AM
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Glad someone else noticed. The granny crew has been ruining this sub far more than the "iNcEl" crowd they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:36 AM
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They don't just disagree though. People are rabid. They will harass your employer. And many will turn on their workers just because they don't want to deal with that shit or because they don't want negative PR. If you truly want to speak your mind, you need to be self-employed or independently wealthy/financially independent. I'm going to med school, I could lose EVERYTHING by some loser who doesn't like what I say, twists it, and then goes back to being a barista and couldn't even get into med …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:32 AM
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I worked both IT and making popcorn/food service. IT is harder. The people who have free time are people who are actually good at IT. The worse workers don't have as much free time. So you only get a subset of IT workers, but they tend to be the better subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:28 AM
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I just looked up the woman, Andrea C. Jfc she looks like a man, like Steven Tyler.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:28 PM

Id like to hear from the husbands how happily married they are. Of course, high likelihood of cucks/simps is there, but it would still be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:51 PM
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First thought is that this due to a) the culture of the place the study was done, and b) the nature of the study being conducted in a "game" format. Men are more competitive and I believe that is an important confounding variable. I found another study: https://www.mdpi.com/2073-4336/12/2/44/htm We find overall support to the often-found result in the literature that males tell lies more than females. Adding to the literature, we also find that when pre-planning is not possible, then males tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:11 AM
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Clueless rich people exist, but the number of manipulative rich people dwarfs them. IF this story is true, the family hated the gf and wanted them to break up. So they planned this as a giant fuck you and hoped she would break up with him because a) bf refused to do it or b) wanted to make it look like he was the one who was hurt by the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:48 PM
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The thing that gives it away is that there are women involved on the other side. The mother and wife of the bf's brother were also not concerned? No way. If one person, and only one person, kept not joining the group the women wouldn't be able to stop talking about it IME. And eventually it would come out it was about money. And then we would have to believe the that mom and wife would be okay with the gf being treated that way. The ONLY possible way I could believe this is if the whole family p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:26 PM
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This is soooo fake, made by someone who either doesn't even understand normal human interactions or who just wrote angst porn for the FDS types to hate on some imaginary man. He went out to lunch/dinner with his parents (who are affluent) and everyone had to pay for themselves? My parents are affluent and I have to literally wrestle the bill from my dad's hands to let me pay for the group instead of him. I had gfs with rich dads and it was the same story there (except I couldn't actually touch t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:17 PM

Back in the day, this would be self corrected because short to average women would die giving birth to bigger babies. But medical technology has slowed that aspect of natural selection down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:56 AM

Is that actually true or are you just assuming. Because when the longest lived people come up, they are never very tall. When I looked it up, the oldest man is 5' tall. So even shorter than the average Japanese, even for the 20th century. But my point is, it seems clear that the "healthier" people aren't necessarily tall in aggregate. Why isn't that the case if height had such an impact? In fact, when I think of the healthiest groups of people (Japanese - also very intelligent, Mediterraneans, J…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:39 AM

That's getting cause and effect backwards. Richer people tend to be taller since they have better nutrition. They also have access to better education, privileges, and nurturing. Human height doesn't really have anything to do with intelligence. If it did, taller demographics from some parts of the world would be smarter/more successful than shorter demographics of other parts of the world. Obv can't bring race into it on this forum, but we know that isn't the case. We also know that good health…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:23 AM

24 with a 64 year old? I assume she was trying to wait until he died of old age and then take his pension/retirement or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:39 AM
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Lmao i guess thats the difference between men and women, one is much more concerned about what people say than what they do. Ive seen many men compliment fake books if they were done well though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:16 PM
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Many men do like fake tits and enhanced asses. I think you are thinking of women who do it to ridiculous proportions to look inhuman. At that point the mocking is more about body dysmorphia. Similar to how men like this are mocked for their dysmorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:43 PM
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Men like natural women. Men like unnatural women. There's barely any difference. Most women are wearing makeup anyway. Women of certain demographics wear wigs and fake hair/nails as a majority. Men are okay with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:03 PM
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I think you'd have an easier time than you think. And waaaay easier than an equivalent male doing the same. The tomboyish one isn't even necessarily negative. And there are soooo many chubby chasers these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:08 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:49 PM
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Once I reached a point in my life though where I decided I wanted to start looking for a partner however, and put dedicated effort into my looks, just light makeup, better clothes, start working out, I did start getting more attention. I see women say this a lot because they act like "see if men just did this too they would be fine" - not saying you yourself are doing it. I think what they miss is that the key factor is that you "started looking for a partner". Women who are open to male attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:48 PM
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Wow, I was literally just watching this video when I came across this topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/o8n77b/woman_is_upset_regarding_transgender_in_the/. Baader-Meinhof or did OP just watch it too before making this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:01 PM
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You're talking about two sorts of parties. Hanging out with the boys is different than mixed gender parties. Ugly guys might get invited to hang out with the boys, but the mixed gender parties work the way I described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:50 PM
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Having more girls there puts the girls at ease, whether the other girls are ugly or not. Girls work on consensus, so if more women agree to go to one, it starts a snowball effect. The party throwers also use them as fallbacks. If the hot girl won't smash, maybe the not hot will - it is called the shotgun approach. I've observed that happening numerous times, it is a pretty simple concept actually. Having more dudes there just ups the competition, and both women and men prefer a high women:men ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:27 PM
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Ugly guys wearing expensive clothes just makes you a mark for women who want to use you. They know they have a high chance of ugly guys getting to like them cuz they are desperate, and the guys will think "oh she really likes me, I guess this clothes thing DOES work", then bam!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:24 PM
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Most of the comments are from women who have a bone to pick with men, especially men they consider undesirable. Biased viewpoints aren't realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:19 PM
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Well i dont know your specific hs, but it must have been in an odd place. Im talking about college and afterwards, and they mostly function the way i pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:22 PM
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Ugly men that never tried are a very small pool of men IME. It is far more likely that an ugly man tried than gave up when he realized no amount of effort would be enough. Women will think that guy never tried. You are way overestimating the leeway a woman will give to an ugly man who tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:20 PM
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This. If ugly men all just put in effort like OP said, women would just go for the top men who were “naturals”. Women here even admit that about game. Apparently men who put effort into learning game are less attractive than naturals who just got it early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:17 PM
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Ugly men are actively kept out of social events, especially by the opposite sex. Ugly women would still be invited to parties by guys, because hey at least it is another girl. You cant make a 1:1 comparison, ugly men and women just are not dealing with the same issues. Even if an ugly man joined clubs and stuff, hed always only be that guy who was there. Socialization afterwards, especially with women, would still be limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:15 PM
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She also basically admitted that attractive men like unattractive women like her, but the same isnt true for attractive women - and she still cant see the irony. She has it easier than ugly men and is still going “wHy MeN nO tRy HaRD”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:48 PM
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Women are attracted to mens faces so thats a wash. Men are not nearly as stringent about breast size as women are about height. Like not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:44 PM
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Lmao this is the “rule breaking” you have a problem with? The top comments on this CMV are all just women circlejerking about “so true!” 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:42 PM

Some girl told me the male equivalent is the V line/Adonis belt. Women don't go out of their way to look at forearms like we do with boobs. But if you go to the beach and have a V line, women do go out of their way to sneak peaks - however discreetly. The catch is only like 15-20% of men have it, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:21 AM
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He probably goes around playing "the knockout game" on the elderly too. Any son you have would be a menace to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:16 AM
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Cheating on a wife/husband could break up a family and fuck up kids if there are any. Not to mention the financial repercussions. It is A LOT more serious. Cheating on a gf, even though I've never done it, isn't that big of a deal. In this day and age, she probably cheated first anyway. Or she was some thot that wasn't ever supposed to be long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:05 AM

One day it will be considered classical music.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:58 AM

I thought you were barren or something? That flair must mean like godmom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:45 AM

Chad may appear to put women first or make them believe it (that's how plays the game), but in reality his own well being is always on the top of the list. But like I said, that point is minute. FDS and TRP agree on who Chad is far more than they'd like to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:36 AM

They would be very similar. Tall, big cock, rich are at least 3 minimum and important things that would be shared. Athletic for sure as well. The differences are minute, the biggest difference is that FDS would want a man who puts her first while TRP would say put your own interests first. We all know what Chad would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:30 AM

There is an entire subreddit dedicated to women deserving Chad. It is called /r/femaledatingstrategy. They say only a sliver of men are "HVM" and that women shouldn't settle for any less. You are being purposefully obtuse because you are on "team woman" and believe they can do no wrong. You are outright denying that Chad won't slum it and hook up with a girl less than Stacy? That is outright delusion. Chad may only get into a relationship with Stacy, but he'll fuck faaaar lower. Then those women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:21 AM

Stacy has it all. That's why she's Stacy. She even has a hot mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:16 AM

Why is this sub recently overrun with smooth brains? Is it PinkPill brigading? I feel like it is since this comment seems to be from "a certain demographic". Who has ever had a problem with Chad and Stacy getting together? Yes, of course that makes sense. What the problem is is that a non-Stacy's believe they deserve Chad because he decides to slum it every once in a while to get his dick wet because Stacy is busy doing her nails or whatever. He will eventually pump and dump non-Stacy to go back…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:11 AM
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Fixing the problem in China literally consists of repealing one law. For that to be supported, we'd have to look at male loneliness before and after the one child policy. Did it really increase that drastically? Chinese men have been getting brides from poorer Asian countries before the one child policy as well. That is why I don't find it convincing that it had such a large effect. Chinese culture is pretty similar to what you described Japan as IME. They are just less organized. It also assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:58 AM
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Would your mind change if you found out that he gave up on attracting women from the Western world and instead went to Asia (or some other continent with poor women) and basically got a mail order bride? He admitted something along those lines before. Because IRL, it seems like women do consider men who do that LV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:28 AM
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The poor men will simply go without, and that's sad. Looking at the men of the Western world and Japan, that is likely to happen whether the one child policy is enacted or not. India has a lot of lonely men, and they are full of women. It seems like China has a larger population of that happening because they have a larger population overall. Do they have a larger percentage of lonely men? Maybe a bit, but probably not statistically significant. At least get the economic benefit out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:53 AM
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Not even ground to a halt, but one of the biggest success stories of recent history. They are only getting better, they aren't slowing down. It isn't like they are seeing an Argentina like situation. As I said, the single men are getting wives from poorer countries. We will see that accelerate in the future. They're probably doing better than the single men of Japan. And let's be honest, looking at the Western world, even if women exist that doesn't mean men will necessarily get wives. So what's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:45 AM
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But it hasn't been a disaster for them like some people on this forum have claimed. I saw at least one other poster claim it was holding them back on a post a couple of weeks ago. The point is female infanticide doesn't really have that much influence on the well being of a country (counterpoint to "doesn't go well"). Many (if not most) cultures have practiced it. Some turn out shitty, some turn out fine - it is an independent variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:11 AM
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Too early to tell. China is now an economic powerhouse and doing better than a lot of countries. You may say "oh but the single men". From what I hear, the single men are just going to poorer countries in Asia and Africa to get brides. Might even go to S America soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:26 AM
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You are missing the point of an obvious joke. They are talking about situations like this scene. Once you have sex with a prostitute, they are going to expect money. And they won't leave til they get it. So you pay them to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:18 AM
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I did say typically. As if men don't get the same dismissiveness. Must be her bad personality. She should shower moar. Too bad, so sad. That /r/science article? That was about jobs right? When did I pretend that ugly people aren't disadvantaged? I strongly believe that. But ugly men and ugly women have different disadvantages, surely you believe that? Blame the originators (ie women). Nah, it true. All day long we are told men could be nexted for a better option within a minute and that women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:12 AM
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It is true that genetics plays a role as well. But I think most men eventually go bald, you're talking about a minority. Plus, think about the role of the hormones I mentioned. Are the 20% of men low T or androgen sensitivity? But honestly, if you don't go bald before 50ish you're fine. It is the men who go bald in their 20s and 30s who have bad genes (possibly).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:32 AM
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Anal was a thing looooong before porn. Plus, like I said, a lot of women actually do it before vaginal sex due to whatever ideas they have. I've only ever had anal sex with one woman, and she was the one who liked it. I personally don't see what the big deal is. Having said that, I don't think the overlap between people who want low n count partners and the men who want anal sex is very large. I haven't seen those two things go together in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:26 AM
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Her pic isn't good enough to fully tell. It needs to be a front facing photo, which is why I think she picked this pose/pic - it is all about angles which women are infamous for. Can't really tell facial symmetry, which is very important for facial attractiveness. Also, it looks like she might have droopy eyes, but again hard to tell due to the angle. Having said all of that, typically when a woman complains about lack of attention it isn't due to her looks if she is at least a 3. So looks don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:26 AM
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Men go bald due to testosterone, DHT, and other androgens. Basically, what makes us men causes male baldness. Female baldness is due to some sort of illness or something else that we haven't figured out yet. But it isn't exactly "natural" even though it happens. A cognate would be gynecomastia. What makes you women gives you breast glandular tissue. Men can get it for all sorts of issues, including health issues and even just natural aging. How forgiving are women of gynecomastia? Not very.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:07 AM
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Anal is pornstar sex? That sounds waaaay to restrictive. Christian girls in my HS were doing it and they were no pornstars. I have one ex who started off by having anal sex. I actually personally have no interest. I always thought guys wanting girls to swallow was odd. Who cares where it goes after it is in her mouth? Facial I could see. But the rest is stuff normal couples do. I think pornstar sex is stuff you typically have to pay women to do and stuff most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:55 PM
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I dont think the guys looking for pornstar sex are looking for low n count women. Like pornstar sex is open to gangbangs and dps. No way anybody but the swingers want that. Even a lot of high n count women starfish and expect the man to do all the work. But if youre right, i do think it is ridic to expect a low n count woman to do that. I think men look for consistency. If she had pornstar sex with exes, same for current partner. If not, prob not expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:25 PM
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/r/stocks does it and it looks like they use automod. But it looks like a link to search or something. Cant remember if any automod link directly to threads. I feel like /r/wsb did that at a certain point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:04 PM
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They want low n count men who have the experience, sexual skills, and desirability of high n count men. It makes even less sense than how women complain about wanting low n count women is contradictory for rp men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:45 PM
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We need Affirmative Action for underrepresented groups in the mod list 😁Poppys group is already well represented and would be overrepresented with her in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:14 PM
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The thread body should have a link to the last thread or the last few threads. Thats what a couple of subs with daily threads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:11 PM

What if it is a sexual kink, and he was like role play that youre a chaste woman and not a filthy slut? Would you still be creeped out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:54 PM

They cucked him so hard in the later seasons, once with a literal cucking to a college boy. But that is because the husband (writer of the show) of the actress that is Jordan is a literal cuck and was involving his fantasies in the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:51 PM
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The first one is definitely gender neutral. Hypergyny is specific to women. I do think hypergyny is more common. Im not RP myself so cant speak to the second. But my impression wasnt that it was just about appearance, but SMV in general. And men typically do not partner up with people with higher SMV anyway, so that point is moot. Men get with lower SMV women or equal at best (again, not strictly dealing with appearance). But i dont see what your opposition to men and women having different stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:48 PM

I think hypergamy is more specific than what you are simplifying it to. I mean the same behavior between the sexes are different, like if something is effeminate then it is different when a man does vs when a woman does it. It is like how violence perpetrated by women vs men is treated and viewed differently. It isnt a 1:1 comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:24 PM
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Id agree that its often done through the male lens, but that is because of the demographics. I dont think men are more likely to do it or more egregiously, it is just noticed more due to more men. However, those same men are told that the statement is wrong. So hearing it from the other side just sounds hypocritical. I understand it isnt always the same women doing it, but I think it happens often enough. My personal opinion is that men and women are different and that should apply across the bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:54 PM
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I dont know if thats hypergamy, but it seems like an example of getting close to the wall and trading in an alpha fucks for beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:15 PM
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I doubt that. Shes said other things about what is feminine and masculine, so she definitely sincerely believes that. However, it still wasnt passive aggressive. From what i observed, he was directly stating his problem. If it was ambiguous at all it was due to the rules here. And his op was in fact removed so it turns out he didnt tip toe enough. It is hard to give specific examples because im afraid of doxxing cuz there are unstable people here and i could lose something that is precarious whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:59 PM
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I mean even here a couple of days ago i got into an argument with a woman who claimed another user was being passive aggressive (incorrectly) and that it was a feminine trait. As if that is something women are allowed to do but men shouldnt. Obvious ones are like the guy should always pay and it is correct to think that way just because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:44 PM
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Yes, i personally did. But that wasnt what i was saying in my op
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:34 PM
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Well i dont know your family and my upbringing prob wouldnt take me close to them. Anyway, the point was about the women here as i said. I dont really care “who started it”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:31 PM
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Im sure we all noticed it in the other gender first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:28 PM
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Women here are the first to say “bububu women and men are different” when the difference advantages women. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:22 PM
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Im talking long term, like azn would always talk sbout how great he was. But now the truth is apparently that he sucked. I feel like a couple of other people did that as well. But it would basically discount every argument she made using him as an example of some sort of gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:06 PM
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Thats two sides of the same coin, a lot can do neither
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:02 PM
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Often, they arent as great as they say they are. I think some people here act like their relationships are so much better than other peoples and that gives them some sort of authority, when in actuality they are just less able to admit to flaws in them that others can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:55 PM
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Women care about hip/waist measurements. Big hipped guys are not liked by women. They also care about chest size/width, which would be the cognate to big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:53 PM
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Wut, most of my exes were great. Hookups could go either way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:48 PM
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The term comes from prison, where rape is actually trivialized. People joke about prison rape all the time. Women appropriated the term because they want people to believe they have reason to fear rape as much as prisoners do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:26 PM
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Ive been through breakups while here too. Im talking about acting like theyre some authority on relationships because their man is soooo great, and then after the breakup they talk about how their man was sooo awful. Azngrl in particular had the biggest heel turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:09 PM
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Sure. Ive been through breakups as well. Im talking about how they act like theyre some authority on relationships because theirs is soooo great. And then meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:07 PM
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There was so much gold on that forum. It was way better than this place, even though the girls there got simped super hard. There was a guy who made a hilarious "how do I approach a girl" comic about opening with a "howdy". There was another great comic about what to do about a short peen that stuck out in the fly cuz it didn't point down. A few girls did end up dating some other guys from the misc. And then nudes were posted. The misc always ended up with nudes somehow. Fucking Jason GENOVA! I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:38 AM
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Did anyone else here go to bodybuilding misc back in the day? That place was like the GOAT guy forum back in 2008-2014. I just went to check it out again today years later and apparently they deleted or hid it?! End of an era.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:25 AM
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Being with a hot woman can be really exhausting. Like you always need to be "on". Peace of mind is valuable. Of course, the worst of all are women who aren't hot enough to act as bitchy as they do. But often they calibrate when they realize it isn't working out for them. However, every once in a while a "simp of legend" comes along that basically enables them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:43 AM
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I think a lot of them are LARPing. I remember there was this one that came here, and she didn't even really hide it. She had posts saying she was 27 and dating NBA players, then older posts saying she was a 45 year old single mother of 4. Which one was it? She had highly upvoted posts on FDS that were gilded and stuff. So even the ones that aren't LARPing are blindly following those that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:32 AM
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We gotta add all the women who came here acting like their man was so great, using the relationship as anecdotal evidence to "refute" arguments, and ended up ending things with them within just a couple of years. Obv, you're one. But remember azngrl? That one was funny too. I feel like there are at least 1 or 2 more, but I just can't remember them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:07 AM
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There's so much more, it could fill /r/subredditdrama. I think her bf is a dude who used to simp around /r/trufemcels and took this song literally. She made her own Reddit alternative for FDS types and shills it around, but still feels the need to troll around here. She was too loony for FDS and even they banned her (imagine that). There's probably more, but I try to avoid her since she isn't worth interacting with. But that is some stuff I gleaned from DMs and discord and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:56 AM
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Nah, I don't feel a need to go through the dung heap that is your comment history. I see /u/gigababejfl and /u/gigababejf1 are banned. And didn't someone say you were banned from FDS on your current account? All of that says enough. LMAO, imagine getting triggered off of that word. All I said is that you "acknowledged" (that better?) being giga. Otherwise people would think it was a baseless accusation. Ok, so report em. I've literally never been banned from Reddit, imagine taking Reddit so seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:52 AM
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She admitted to being giga a while ago. The original was /u/gigababejfl. And then she made some alts after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:20 AM
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She’s also using alts because her accounts keep getting banned/suspended. That itself is a sitewide bannable offense. Should honestly be reported to the admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:21 AM
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Why do people change names so much? When I deleted my old account when I took a few months off reddit, I just added a new number to my old username. I'll just be sleuthoftrades2 when i delete this one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:42 PM
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More than anything it matters what the "people in power" want. And that is to keep more men down because they are the ones who can actually rebel and cause social upheaval. I'm reminded of the Mosuo. Back in the day, a lot of women on this forum used to use them as the example of "matriarchy working". Then it came out that the matriarchy was enforced by a stronger tribe to keep the Mosuo down and stave off rebellions. I think that is a good allegory for what is happening in the West. The upper c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:40 PM
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I mean men have reason to drop out. America is actually getting less meritocratic. That is the consequence of believing women need to be equal in everything positive. Like women literally believe that they should be 50% of lawyers/doctors/engineers etc. So think about it, if there are 100 seats and 50 of them have to be female then it doesn't matter if 55 guys all have better scores than 50 of the women. 5 guys have to sit it out. Obviously it won't be that extreme, but I'm just using it as an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:22 PM
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Again, read some of the other answers on this thread, because this has already been answered. I will restate two of the answers just to give you the benefit of the doubt, but I won't reengage in an argument that has already taken place in this thread and easily found. First, just because we don't have the next steps right now doesn't mean we won't have them in the future. Progress builds upon itself. However, the best we can do is establish the truth when we can so progress can be achieved earli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:21 PM
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First, calm yer tits. Second, "the point" has already been explained many times over in this thread - so what's the point in you asking a question that's already been answered?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:08 PM
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Idiots do, and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:41 PM
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That is clear projection. Look at the original comment you responded to. You just have an inability to admit that you may have been mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:24 PM
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…men who didnt want to raise kids are definitely in the original premise. Omfg you cant even realize the comment you responded to was focused on that particular example. Jfc the women in this place Either way, your example is the minority case. NOT the default. The preference for sons is so overwhelming, countries (cross-culturally) literally have to make laws to thwart it. And it still continues. If someone says "swans are white" and someone says "idk I saw a black swan", it adds very little of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:08 PM
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Who want kids not WHO WANT TO RAISE KIDS. Yeah, and theyre the minority is the point. Theres counterexamples to everything. “Women dont have penises” “uh AKSHUALLY some do”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:04 PM
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That was what the person you responded to was talking about. Also i think op made it clear that wanting kids doesnt mean wanting to raise kids, so you saying of course they want to raise them wasnt a given. Anyway, considering the overwhelming preference for sons throughout most of the world, i think its safe to say your particular example is in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:59 PM
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Are you on the right comment chain? The discussion on this chain has been men who want kids but arent particularly worried about raising them and have multiple baby mammas
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:41 PM
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I meant did he become an NFL player, exec, model, etc after you broke up. Obv you wouldnt pickme for a guy who hadnt reached that status level yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:36 PM
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Idk i havent had that experience. But seeing as how a lot of women these days get off on shaming men for their penises, id bet on the former. The simple solution would obv be to make porn with themselves and then watch themselves then. Theres many different things going on with the porn issue. I do believe that overuse of porn is due to men having a harder time getting sex than women do. That is a societal problem, so did he really do it to himself? I dont think so IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:33 PM
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Did most of those guys find success after you guys broke up though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:20 PM

Well, on that point thats a her problem IMO. Obv, i will do my best. But it is obv worse for a woman to say the problem is my dick rather than her vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:10 PM

Its so ubiquitous that often kids arent even looking for it when it first happens. I found it when i was looking at soccer stuff. Might have literally been soccer.com lol. Male dominated. But of course there was one woman who was mostly there to share her nude photos. I had no idea, but as soon as i saw it, something clicked in my head and i was like “oh, the computer can be used for this?” Thats when i started putting in “naked women” into google.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:01 PM

I think the better comparison it to like a penis extender or something. Which is very rude and insulting. As much, if not more so, than porn. Because it is literally saying your body isnt good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:57 PM
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I like this. Usually (IME for the pedants who like jumping down throats) when women talk about having fulfilling sex they act like only women are lacking it and that it is somehow the fault of men. Try to turn it around and suddenly its a crime against humanity? Either it is both genders fault or neither’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:50 PM
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For certain guys for a certain time period* Even Chad can feel the brunt of pickme going full FDS. The trick is for one of you to leave before that happens, preferably due to old age
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:47 PM
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I mean it worked on me. I was undecided when i first learned about TRP. Then i saw the arguments with women who just couldnt admit they were wrong and i learned more about the issues. Seeing as this has been filtering out to gen z, i think it works more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:45 PM

I dont think you read my comment. The “why wont you admit it” is more like “this is why youre wrong, it is silly that cant admit it”, and isn’t necessarily for the benefit of the person you are arguing with but rather to an outside observer who is undecided.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:43 PM

Why though? Even in the past few years ive seen things that would be considered “misogynistic lies” filtering out to gen z so that it is acknowledged as reality. The result of less people being wrong is a good thing. I dont necessarily care about the hardheaded ones who just cant admit they are wrong, but i do think having the discussion prevents more people from going that way when they are new to the discussion and trying to figure things out. Debates aren’t necessarily for the two sides argui…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:38 PM

Just because we dont have a next step right now doesnt mean there ever wont be one. Progress is built on things. We get this done, then future generations get stuff moving forward. The worst case would just to be like well i shouldnt even try and then end up with lies that are commonplace so a solution is never found. If we can get it done, then we should. Even if it doesnt take us all the way to a solution yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:34 PM

Truth is almost always better than lies. And who knows what kowtowing to feminist lies will do to future generations. Like the pay gap myth, lots of lies surrounding it and it did cause negative effects like overcorrecting so that some companies giving preferential treatment to women to make up for this even when it is found that single women actually make more. I made a post about medical school before that counters the whole “wOmEN aRe dOiNG beTTeR thAN mEn In GetTinG inTo meD sChOol” narrativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:23 PM
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If theyre not gonna raise the kid anyway, who cares if hes a headache? Plus, daughters are much more likely to hate single dads than sons are IME. Those daughters sometimes even go on to hate all men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:56 PM
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Im just speaking from my experiences working in hospitals. Ive worked at 3 different ones so far. Im sure every hospital is different, but in the south the nicest nurses have been in NICU. Keep in mind the adults they have to deal with are parents who are going through the worst things a parent can go through. That requires a distinct personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:18 PM
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If a person wants sweet and demure nurses, they should go for the NICU ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:07 AM
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That’s partially on men. Imagine paying for an OLD thot in 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:19 PM
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Well, they’re probably cleaner STD-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:32 PM
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People are too focused on VR. What we should focus on is chemicals/drugs that can satiate the brain the way intimacy can. Thats the holy grail. Love/sex/porn are just a tools to get neurotransmitters to satiate your brain. Skip the middle man and create a drug that meets that desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:31 PM
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Evidently not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:24 PM
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Yah with context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:23 PM
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Nah, not without sufficient context
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:21 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:18 PM
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Id agree that we were raised differently. Which is why i think youre more willing to judge people who you dont know the full situation of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:16 PM
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Im an immigrant and grew up in poverty until i was 8. Then lower middle class until college, which is when my dad made a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:08 PM
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What im trying to point out is that it looked like i was struggle living to outside observers, especially since i believe in a spartan lifestyle. Like “you make 60k, why are you worried about people who make 10x that?”. They didnt know my dad was one of those people. I dont like living off my dad, although you are right that im always aware i have a great safety net. A lot of people who share the viewpoint you shared just assume that people dont have good reasons for supporting policies they do …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:05 PM
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Sometimes it is due to family. When i was right out of college making like 60k, people might have said the same of me. But my dad was making like 500k. Now im making 120k ish and my future career has an average of 300k+. You never know who secret millionaires may be, and its even harder to tell if it comes from family. For some of my peers i could tell because their family literally owned businesses named after themselves, but after college i was surprised to find out about a few friends who had…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:54 PM
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Are you on BC or any other medication that would suppress your libido? Or are you an older woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:44 AM
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I didn't even want to have this ridiculous "argument". Why this didn't end at "sure" I still don't understand, other than your ridiculous attitude and need to be right. I understand it perfectly fine, that is why I said your correction made sense. You're the one who's finding it hard to understand why your initial statement was so dumb. I'm literally the only one arguing because it was under my comment chain, nobody else would even have even noticed such an idiotic statement. The only reason I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:42 AM
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I directly addressed the point. I just pointed out that it is "technically" stupid. No, I actually accepted your correction when I said "sure". Maybe you missed it. You were the one to continue after that actually. Just because it is true doesn't mean the use of that as an argument isn't stupid. Using "women fuck cucumbers because two women did so" can both be true and stupid, not mutually exclusive. I didn't derail anything. I am just painstakingly explaining what should be a very easy concept …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:33 AM
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And just the same way, your first comment did not apply to the majority of men. Just like you didn't explicitly call out the majority of men, I didn't explicitly call out you. You still implicitly said "not me", just like I pointed out "not the majority of men". In that way, you can say anything is technically true if you even find one/two instance(s) of it. "Women fuck cucumbers, that is technically true because at least two women who have ever lived did so". Such a stupid way to frame a statem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:20 AM
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The point is you still applied it to yourself (to deny it) even when I never said all black people, because that is what the structure of the sentence implied. You just couldn't see it when you yourself did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:12 AM
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I didn't say all black people would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:09 AM
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And black people would rightfully be angry about it. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:01 AM
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They finally get to be apart of a marginalize group. This. My white, 'Christian'/atheist, middle class ex was like this. She was a SJW and just had to have something to feel oppressed about because apparently playing the victim role as a woman just wasn't enough. But she never actually dated any women seriously (or rather she tried but "it is too hard to date women" according to her). Instead she just spent all her time complaining about men. Like, if you hate men so much go date women! Oh right…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:47 PM
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right, like I have ZERO QUALMS about hitting on men; it almost always works in my favor & even if it doesn't, c'est la vie. My track record with women is just a series of humiliating strike outs & the stakes feel so much higher, so the rejection is, like, just devastating Damn, she's so close to getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:43 PM
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I never got the feeling Mackenzie was "one of the bad ones". I bet most of the negativity was coming from blackpill types who just like to be contrarian. She's one of the better partners a rich, successful man could have. Bezos blew it IMO. But at his level, he probably doesn't really give a shit about a female partner really. He has more important things to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:39 PM
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Well you said yes men are, so seems like writing is fundamental. If a racist said "black people are", would you accept "oh well, no one said majority of black people".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:34 PM
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If the majority of men didn't want women to have rights, then they wouldn't. Women only have rights because men agreed to it. That alone proves that the majority of men are not complaining about that. Probably not even a significant minority, just some edge cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:29 PM
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What? Women here are definitely worse than the women I meet in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:14 AM
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It is true though, to an extent. Not the whole rest of the world, but lots of parts. Have you ever traveled outside of the Western world and the sex tourism spots Western tourists focus on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:39 AM
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She is pretty old though, so maybe she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:38 AM
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When China did so, men were basically in complete control of China - even more so than now. China's surplus men are actually being sent abroad and increasing Chinese influence there. Some are marrying women from abroad. The point still stands, that a nation that implemented the "one child" policy that basically cemented a larger male:female ratio became one of the most successful countries of the modern era.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:29 AM
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Russia does not strike fear into the US. They are a nuisance at best. Their economy is the size of Italy's. China is an actual challenge. I was negating the idea that "society benefits" when there are less men as the other user said. If you look at the countries with the least men per women, they clearly aren't the greatest countries. Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:24 AM
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The gender imbalance favoring men is probably higher now than it has ever been. The world is also more peaceful and prosperous than it has ever been. So I think that throws a wrench in your argument. If we look at places where women outnumber men, they aren't exactly the cream of the crop. Now China might have more men than women, but I don't think you can deny they are verging on becoming a superpower and are pretty successful in the grand scheme of things. I mean they strike fear into the US, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:13 AM
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Ok, then we're on the same page. Buying the girl dinner is stupid and unnecessary. So I don't really know what you were arguing about. You just barged in on a comment and couldn't even address it. Waste of time really. I can agree that both men and women should like each other before having sex. However, in the modern age that isn't strictly necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:01 AM
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First of all, evo psych has A LOT of bs in it. Second, you need to read some evo psych like the dual mating strategy. Women want to mate with one kind of man and then have a second kind of man raise their kids. What if the man who has good genes doesn't value you? Or what if his genes are so good he doesn't need to put in effort? What if his genes are so good many other women want them, and he wants many other women too. You simply don't know what you are talking about. You value guys buying you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:51 AM
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First step would be to hate myself for ever dating a woman that looked and acted that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:44 AM
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You're acting like women being sexual selectors is some kind of superpower. First, that was suppressed for most of human history on some level by men deciding who women slept with. So clearly evolution can be overcome pretty easily if primitive people could do it. Second, if women only did want to sleep with the right guys in the right context, they sure do screw it up a lot by doing it wrong and then complaining about it later. At the end of the day, none of this is relevant to the dinner date …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:37 AM
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That's the thing though. Women can't help but be drawn to Chad. And because Chad passes around women, he's more likely to have STDs. So the very fact that they love Chad so much makes them more likely to be exposed to STDs, even though the STDs will hurt them more than they hurt Chad. It is a sad state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:29 AM
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Even if she is turning down a large percentage of men, it is the absolute number that really matters. That's just an appeal to nature fallacy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:27 AM
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Women are more likely to get STDs, to have STDs, and to be profoundly be affected by them. Still sucks for men though, cuz we're the ones who are more likely to be sleeping with some disease ridden ho. Or maybe not cuz Chad probably has an STD cocktail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:23 AM
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Seeing a man pay for their food knowing they may never see each other This is the most important part. Women need to feel like things are tilted in their favor for things to be "fair". She is guaranteed something and he isn't, to her that is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:19 AM
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That has never been the case, and guys have never expected it. When women do act like that, it is very odd (c'mon, let's not act like legitimately slutty women don't exist). BC actually literally changes your hormones and makes you act differently. Like it changes who you find attractive. But it still doesn't address the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:15 AM
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Well those aren't mutually exclusive. The words can be taken at face value, as you said the tone and delivery is definitely played up. LMAO, imagine her reaction to that. "I can listen to music at home. My Homepod works fabulous." However, surely you can see dinner is more of a commitment than the things I mentioned, and that is excluding the logistical issues. I mean she sounds like she was pleasant. I'm imagining not knowing a chick well, ending up going to dinner, and the girl ends up having …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:00 AM
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Logistically in terms of if this is a person you don't know very well, you just committed to dinner which is lengthier than coffee/walking. A bad match is then exacerbated. It is also more formal (you're more likely to eat across from each other rather than beside each other), so logistically harder to loosen up with someone you already don't know very well. Ok, but that flies in the face of your other point here: "she says she does not accept those things as date options, she doesn't throw the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:45 AM
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That doesn't really answer the question though. Once he demonstrates investment, is he guaranteed anything like she is? If the chance of sex is low, isn't it more gambling than investing? And how do things like BC or childfree affect this arrangement? It just don't hold water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:40 AM
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