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| 2 | "Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely willlemme guess he was a tall white fuckboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:26 PM |
| 14 | Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse"but they don’t: the women in examples clearly are pulling out the “power dynamic gap” card: that due to circumstance they were too naive, depressed, lonely, fat to really be an equal players in these relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 05:20 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.“eligible women” is due to persistent pedo baiting here, so posters to have to make it clear that they have in mind only adult women in order to aboud some pedo baiter derailing a thread with a snarky come back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 05:30 PM |
| – | Karen are just normal women that lost their halo effectI like how the woke weaponize this against women: she moves from her seat after a male sat next to her - “she had good reasons to, FBI stats show how men commit most crime against women” she moved from her seat but it was a black male - “fucking racist Karen bitch” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women.begging women for attention propositions are begging you dork. This is the same as saying that asking your boss for a raise is "begging" for money . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women.you're literally arguing for men to rely on friends matchmaking and "arranging" them dates because you consider approaching innapropriate. Jesus, just revoke women's rights and bring back arranged marriages at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:48 PM |
| 19 | Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males?"I don't hate women I just think they're like children and inferior to men" - Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 12:56 PM |
| 26 | Reading the room, knowing when and how it's appropriate to show interest, etc are skills, and like all skills, require making mistakes in order to get better."reading the room" attractive face: greater probability of women being receptive to your advances unattractive face: lesser probability of women being receptive to your advances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:11 PM |
| 6 | The argument of 'Men having No Standards'.women literally stick cucumbers up their vag , you're no less of a degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:01 PM |
| 0 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingHow about a girl with a strong, chiseled jaw? OP she can also pass as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your age"women aren't materialistic golddigging whores who care about your money, it's redpill grabage" "lmao you don't have a nice car, aren't making bank, and are lagging behind your peers loser" pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.they don’t, but there is no chubby chasing, fat ass appreciating equivalent for men: it’s either tall and built or they’re in the ‘meh’ territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.chat GPT tier answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:24 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.lol no they usually friendzone the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:50 PM |
| 18 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.women do all those things with the most physically attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 06:09 PM |
| 18 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.who keeps telling you men that women don't prioritise looks? women themselves say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:19 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.Why would she settle for an average man when she can get what she wants? statistically there aren't enough attractive ( by women's standards) men out there for the average women, unless we're talking about soft harems, but then we're at "women are whores for Chad" incel spiel again which is misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:10 PM |
| 10 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksmen like Ezra Miller, Adam Driver, Pete Davidson...I can go on- but so many men are baffled by why women find them attractive all those 3 are fit the tall, dark and handsome description bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 08:57 PM |
| -3 | This is all my knowledge from dozens of Hinge dates I've been on. I wish I could have told my younger self this.Maybe I’m just being autistic but being touched by someone who’s essentially a stranger autism is an not an excuse to be like this. I don't understand why would you agree to go out on a date with someone you don't want to kiss? This makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Why don’t men just do what women do?its always the terminally online freaks with the libido of a dead fish going "couldn't you just like collect funkopops to get your mind off sex? worked for me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself."me, me, me, I can't imagine my self, self self" why are people on this sub like this? I can't imagine, for example, being gay, does this somehow invalidate same sex couples? How would this be an argument that gay = le bad? Why do these people keep making this argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:30 AM |
| 23 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menHonestly women with a lot of dude friends, women who think they’re accepted as ‘one of the guys’ are the most deluded bunch. They don’t get along with guys better because they’re not like the ‘other girls’ 99% of male buddies are super friendly because they hope they got a chance with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayI’m inclined to think the girls sending you cute photos want attention and validation why? I hold no position over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayif you send selfies to him you were definitely goading him on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayThey never do 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 03:53 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayYou may also find reading up on indicators of interest (IoIs) useful. googled it: " When a girl sends you a picture of herself, it's usually because she likes you and wants to know what you think." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 5 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayDo you think a wife finding out her hubby was sending selfies to other women at his workplace would think it was anything else than flirting? Do you think the wife would, like our dear bluepillers here, let herself be gaslight into believing that she's 'hysterical' and her hubby is doing it for 100% platonic reasons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong waythen what does actual non-platonic flirting look like if everything from compliments to sending selfies is 'just being nice'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:42 PM |
| 21 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayGuy: No girl has ever approached or shown interest in me "cheer up buddy! I'm sure they did, but girls are more subtle" guy: Really? "remember that girl who smiled and twirled her hair while talking to you?" guy: Yeah? "well... she was just being friendly, stop overthinking it. " -- this sub 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:35 PM |
| 6 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayWomen do not send their straight male friends selfies if they are not interested in them. this I thought was totally normal and platonic. My guy and girl friends sometimes tag me in their story posts, but thats completely different than DM'ing me pics of yourself making duck lips while sucking on a straw looking all cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:22 PM |
| 7 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayat this rate we're probably inches away from women explaining to men that if they agree to be asked out on a date they'll just do it because they're nice and wholesome persons without their mind ever registering it as haivng romantic intent, unlike pig men who only want one thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:13 PM |
| 9 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayI don't ignore women I have no romantic interest in, but I also wont be sending them 'cute' snaps of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 4 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong waythis sub always tells average guys that they won't get approached /chased after like the really hot guy will get. Yet that women will express interest in them, but in more subtle ways, so they ought be attentive to little cues women will left for them to interpret as interest and make a move. But now you're telling me that women have to either thirst over you otherwise they are always 'just being nice'. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:49 PM |
| 5 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayI made it clear we're not friends, I'm talking about coworkers. And if sending cute snaps if 'just being friendly' I'd like to see bluepillers call it 'just being friendly' if a married guy does it to a much younger chick in the firm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 8 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong waythere goes the "women are more subtle" theory this sub usually peddles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:41 PM |
| 11 | A lot of women goad 'nice guys' on and then act surprised when they take it the wrong wayhow would you interpret a female coworker sending you cute snaps of herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:33 PM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menShe was being ‘uncomfortable’ as she brought a bottle of champagne after work and drank it with me on the porch till 3am, from the same glass I might as well ad😅🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menIt iterally is third reich criteria when it comes to selecting for physical love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menLol often times the confident guy who isn’t concerned about these things just gets clowned ‘did he really think he had a chance , ‘look yourself in the mirror ’ behind his back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menso they make a pre-selection “only tall guys” and only when everyone else is filtered out the second round of selection begins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:38 PM |
| -5 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menso she describes ‘her type’ that just coincidentally resembled me in many aspects just to convey to me she isn’t attracted to my type of looks. Lmao women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menwhat is a 'fit' guy in american-speak? Under 'fit' I usually see the woman being merely skinny (low body fat, some cardio) but the guy is always imagined as pretty muscly even buff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Women: what makes you want a manIs it just me or are women really bad at self reflection, I mean even when you look at texts dealing with critical theory/ post- structuralism it’s mostly men deconstructing gender stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:51 AM |
| 28 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?Man, Im asian so is my cousin, she gets approached regularly and is seen as hot while I’m a meh guy despite both of us possesing similar facial symetry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:51 PM |
| -3 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatIt makes you a extreme minority , hence my disclaimer ‘anywhere outside reddit’ at the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:27 PM |
| -3 | Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at thatIt does, just look at kpop: White girls seeing east asian guy 20years ago: “haha funny Jackie Chan karate man” Girls seeing east asian guy now :”omg I he looks like my fav idol from BTS” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'lol bluepill truly is insipid; do you suggest not so attractive 'nice guys' just start hitting on women from the get-go to avoid "phony chivalry" and just come out as wanting to fuck her brains out? Would their honesty be appreciated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'"i-it's just good o'l working class h-humor guyz" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 10 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'. Those jocks are just assholes and often don't harbor elaborate rape fantasies like incels do "boys will be boys" defense league has arrived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak”“b-but 23 year olds are basically children” do you hear yourself? Its absolutely hilarious seeing early 20somethings trying to postpone adulthood yet demand 30somethings to be these well rounded mature people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Age gap relationships end in divorceWhats your point? Interracial marriages have similar divorce rates when you look at the 'data', and the stats get even darker when it comes to intimate partner violence, but no one, except stormfront types, ever bring this up to argue against it. How is this any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all?The average PDD woman (you know the skinny-fat with NSFW accounts who post themselves in gothic corset's here ) of course are showered with attention so much they claim they yearn for the day she will become invisible to the dreadful 'male gaze', but the women I know in real life who never get cat-called or asked out, feel terribly insecure about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projectingthis trick is to extol pressure of the social circle's influence : choosing between her friends or pursuing the guy she likes (which may not end up in a relationship anyway) . One example a black girl had a crush on a nerdy asian guy, but her friends only imagined her with a fit black guy, she decided to go for the asian crush, and soon her friends started pushing her out, because dating a chubby nerd was seen as 'uncool'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projectingHave worked as a bartender for 5 years, m'am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedthe anti-age gap rabble rousers seem to be hurting, lets face it, women aren't being forced to date older men, yet some of them still do, and for some reason it makes people seethe . In america women make their own cash and are independent, so most of the hate over 'age gap dating' comes from 3rd parties who foam over existing consensual relationships they really have no stake in. Interesting phenomena with americans is that as much as they drum about freedom and are quite a sexually promiscuous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 05:51 AM |
| 6 | Most men catch feelings for their female friends, women rarely for their male buddiesshows any interest Woman: “why is he AcTiNg so strange lately?” Its only weird because she doesn’t find him attractive and he steps out of the asexual bestie with a ballsack role she typecasted him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 04:53 PM |
| 9 | Most men catch feelings for their female friends, women rarely for their male buddiesWomen tend to stick to their word, yeah no they don't lol. We are one thread about 'approaching women' away from women vehemently claiming the opposite, that they don't date strangers and how they "like to be friends first" or something along the lines "all my relationships started as friends first" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesWhich ‘average’ do you have in mind? Last time I checked the average guy was more than down to have sex with a chubby chick that takes cate of herself and is thick in the right places. If your mental image of ‘average’ is a 300lbs woman in wallmart then the bat reslly is in hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesLol no we fuck everything remember . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'You sound autistic, no one hooks up like that, no woman unironically excpects you laying out a post-nut clarity plan on where things go, these women get gassed up by sweetalk, being ubclear about your intentions makes players exciting unpredictable bad boys . This is the price you pay for wanting spontaneity and fun over predictable and boring nice guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'I what inspired me to make this post was a video where progressive commenters were dunking on men doing cold approaches as ‘objectifying’, aka just looking to get their dicks wet, but then a someone said there isn’t really anything wrong if a woman wants sex for the sake of having sex because otherwise it would be slutshaming. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 04:05 PM |
| 15 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'it’s actually a feature firmly within the ‘yasss… girl twerk that shit’ sex positives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 75 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaints" For most of us when we are young, looks is the first thing we’re attracted to. When we get older we soon realize that’s the least of the equation. Experience teaches us wisdom and we become wiser for this teacher of life." - translation: I've had my fun, my share of hot summer flings with studs who made me cum like no other man probably ever will, but those were my roaring 20s and my priorities have changed now. I want a reliable man a loyal caring partner, and as a token of my gratitude I'm w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:11 AM |
| 8 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Single doesn't mean sexless. for the average man it definitely means sexlessnes . What are they gonna do; hop on Tinder (already 80% male) and somehow match with a woman whenever the dry spell becomes unbearable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 11:05 PM |
| -4 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"You people are begging to engage in the same type of mental gymnastics as holocaust deniers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:59 PM |
| 8 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"women get to have their pick and they still choose std ridden fuckboys, wifebeaters and literal psychopaths over boring nice guys ? Nothing to disagree here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:56 PM |
| 7 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Who told you it was “easy” for any man to have sex “all the time women on this sub did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"they don't, they just can't help getting rutinely "used for sex" by men who wont commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 10 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"the growing number of men that are not having any sex at all brings that average down significantly . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 10 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time""average" young guys are fat sacks of crap the average woman is ever fatter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 11 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Sexlessnes among men is on the rise as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:40 PM |
| 9 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"what anecdotes? they're making full fledged studies about the phenomena of young male sexlessnes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 46 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"most average young men are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLWith what example wouldn’t you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLOk, what’s your take on sending selfies or asking when your shift ends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 10 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOL1-2% of people are actuall autistic, but redditors keep using ‘autist’ it as a substitute for social retard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLLol how do I know she isn’t sending selfies to others , girls like to do that and I can’t check her phone. All I know thay if I as a guy sent a random pic of me to a female coworker everyone would assume I was low-key interested in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLConsidering the quantity of questions like this being all over reddit, quora, psychology articles I don’t think normal people understand it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 16 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLWhat’s there to misunderstand? These are completely contradictory answers given. Go to r/dating_advice, you’ll see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLsending a selfie is flirty? Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?i'm currently 165cm and 60/61 kilos that is not 'land whale' or fat, not even chubby. You're just a curvy latin girl with a body image issue, that, or a 40 year old guy larping as one. Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:26 PM |
| 13 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be onePeople aren't attracted to people they don't find attractive. I'm shocked. this statement is meaningless unless you unpack what passes as attractive according to women and what for men; we might as well be speaking different languages here. It's like saying all people want to live in a "healthy society" and one uses criteria of public health laid out by the NHS the other from 1930s eugenics program. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:25 PM |
| 22 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneMen want women that are attractive enough to be a hot OF IG "hot IG sluts" today come in all shapes and sizes; short, tall, fit, curvy, chubby, big ass, petite ass, big boobs, small boobs, bimbo, nerdy... the 'hot man' is always imagined as the same 6ft+ square jawed, broad shouldered fit guy. Not even close here, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:16 PM |
| 31 | Women don't want 'fuckboys' , but they aren't attracted to men who don't the capabilities to be oneYou can't find a 'good guy' because you're already picking from a pool of very attractive men who have all the options to bang women hotter than you. The men who can't are invisible to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most important factor in life is neurotypicality63% of young men are chronically single because they are autists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 01:58 PM |
| – | Friendly vibes = she wasn't physically attracted to youWhy are they going on dates with men they have no intention to kiss? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalYou forget the halo effect here, a woman might attribute charm and fun personaliy makibg the difference , but in reality its just the halo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalThat is intertwined with bigotry mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalYou make it sound as “wanting to have sex with a person is a bad thing , why the puritan mores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normal“women never consented to approach” You don’t need to ask for permission to small talk, you just do it and then gauge whether there’s interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalWhy not approach someone you are attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalClassic backpadeling tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normalEvery man is a strange man before you get to know him. How are they supposed to meet new women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?If you’re really shaped like her I find it impossible to believe guys dont like you. Curvy figure like that is very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.“If a guy walks up to me and asks me out, I can assume he wants to date me because of how I look” Women who friendzone a ‘great guy’ with who they otherwise clicked with personality wise did it because of his looks too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:58 AM |
| 6 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?guys dressing like shit "you don't get dates because u don't look presentable, get some fitting clothing, trim that hair, take a shower, hit the gym..." girls dressing like shit: "tHeY ArE jUsT nOrMaL wOmEn" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 11 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?"women r supposed to be fat becuz babies" I'm tired of this argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?Men like muscular fit men because in nature those men were the best protectors and providers f hunter gatherers look like this, not like Captain America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:02 PM |
| 0 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?men: "a woman smiled at me today, do you think she likes me?" women: "he is fucking and cumming in me, but is he attracted?" I fucking swear... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?The woman in the viral tweet isn’t really chubby you must be american. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?gee those women have terrible taste for underwear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?women want you taller compared to other men, not themselves jfl. It is why short women who want a taller guy don't think in terms of taller when juxtaposed with her, but with the average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?Males have no problem dating a overweight woman with an hourglass figure a hour glass or pear shaped body that is bottom heavy is a lot more common body type among women than being a tall guy with broad shoulders is which is within single %. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 37 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?Idk the stats on it, but I see more slim/fit guys with chubby women than I see fat guys with skinny women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.age gaps is that it plays into the women as a resource exchanged for good behavior concept. lol this is such a simplistic way of thinking, she's either has to be a gold-digging whore or has daddy issues -- you guys believe every relationship should fit neatly into a mathematical equation, or follow some "rules" or whatever the latest evopsych popscience article "why girls like pink and boys blue" tells you. I live in Europe and work with several women in their mid 20s who either have affairs or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:44 AM |
| 89 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.ahhhh ,yes the old "get to know her as a person first, not a dating prospect" , "but better not have any ulterior motives for anything more" "women like if you're honest that you want to fuck them from the get go" "but they don't date strangers, they like to be friends first" switch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.why do americans always bring money into the conversation? Are you living in the 19th century where rich old men with top-hats pay dowry for arranged marriages? Your women are in the workforce, leading in education, make their own money, and most importantly, bitch about being strong and independent girl bosses "needing no man" whenever the chance arises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeIt just so happened you married a muscly guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeI agree she’s hot, but lets be frank here there is no obese male equivalent that would be considered remotely attractive at that size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 23 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityWomen see getting ignored as lacking presence and dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinitydon't play dumb please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from realityA 5 guy isn’t getting matches with 5s either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:33 AM |
| 15 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleOf course, being single while having zero sex or romantic life must be terrible, so let me get this straight: a woman's 'single life' still means ocassionally getting dicked? When the average guy refers to himself as single, what they usually mean is almost total romantic invisibility and loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Women actually want to be approached by a mannobody will call the dogs on you for approaching a woman in a respectful manner. This is one of the silliest exaggerations out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sThe vast majority of white women also date and will marry within their race, this doesn’t prove segregationist right or make interracial relathionships somewhat morally wrong, icky or problematic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:41 PM |
| -1 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyWhat is the point of even agreeing to go on a date if even kissing is out of the question? But then I remember we’re on reddit and the probabilty that the person with such views is probably a overweight agender poly-this-poly-that asexual fringe-lord. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:27 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sLmao go outside and touch some grass, outside terminally online circles women date all sorts of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:53 PM |
| 12 | Women's dating preferences propel hegemonic masculinity and gender normsMen should not be toxically masculine, though. There is a difference. the difference is like between Pepsi and Coke, within a sales pitch, while talking about the same shit basically. Its like hoping for your man to be "protective and dominant" without the greater probability of these types also exhibiting more possessive and controlling traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 15 | Women's dating preferences propel hegemonic masculinity and gender normsCan I ask... is there something about men who aren't economically attractive that women should be drawn to? just don't act surprised when 'what color is your Bugatti?' types influence a whole generation of young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedI get the feeling we are moments away from society calling men who’d break up with their girlfriends because they cheated ‘insecure’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:05 AM |
| 7 | The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling”He misused the word ‘boundaries’ the same way some women misuse the word ‘grooming’ when a older guy flirts with a younger adult woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:25 PM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.Lol 😂 I love how women on this sub go from “women aren’t doing hookups sex hot studs, it’s a incel lie” to “of course we have casual sex with hot guys, sex just feels good, silly incel” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:41 AM |
| 5 | How can women tell if a guy is 'inexperienced' or a virgin if he lies?women can and will frame literally anything as bad sex: coitus - he was just thrusting in and out, selfish, can't orgasm. cunnilingus - he just kept licking down there, I got bored. anal - he is porn sick and or a latent homosexual. foreplay - what is he taking so long, does he have ED? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:49 PM |
| 15 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I work in sevice where I encounter a lot of women; many of them have absolute dog-shit conversational skills, even in professional environments they don't make basic eye contact, give one word answers, stare at your feet for some reason, talk so fucking quietly you think they're mutes, and trying to break the ice by attempting small talk with them is like pulling their teeth out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:07 PM |
| 46 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionThat is a fake AI generated site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionFemale attractive is reactive reactive to what? Should men start pinching their butts so women retroactively decide whether they wanted it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:25 PM |
| -1 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionWe can see / oogle / stare at an attractive man and have literally zero desire to have anything to do with him, but still admire his attractiveness. such a disgusting lie that should be a banable offense here. There are studies pointing that physically attractive men have sexual experiences earlier in life, have more frequent sexual intercourse and more sexual partners than their average counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionI also love how many men say women only want fit & tall men, when literally every man they know with a wife/gf is neither of those things. many of those couples met later in life, once the woman has had her fun with the hot guys. I'm a young man currently observing peer women and what they do and they certainly aren't choosing men based on personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionThe guy that is 6ft3 can walk in a plain t shirt and sweatpants and will turn more heads than the most groomed average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionThey consume social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionthey have sex with a minority of men, explains STDs being on the rise among women despite a uptick in male sexlesness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionnot at all, these two have a similiar facial symetry; one is considered a cute woman, the other a meh guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:05 PM |
| 8 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionNazi germany with its emphasis on egenics employed doctors who would send prisoners into death vs labour camps based on a criteria of physical fitness, the harshest standard of who passed this was used by Dr. Mengele who would label a prisoners as ‘unfit’ based on even minor physical abnormalities. This did not make him a lesser nazi eugenicist, quite on the contrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 5 | There is no hook up cultureThe same study also showed that women would message guys they didn’t rate as physically attractive message them what? "sorry, not interested" lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 08:33 AM |
| 53 | There is no hook up cultureJust imagine a city with 100 men and 100 women: 1. Each woman has a casual once just to try out 'the field' without committing herself to anyone yet under the guise of trying to find 'the right one', of course young women wanting a good time will aim for the most attractive boy which means 10-20 of men men will have several women on rotation. 2. Most women may not be intentionally seeking casual, but since top % men are at the time being more than willing to fuck them she will see this as a oppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:50 AM |
| 2 | The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored.“What people find attractive depends on the individual person” If this were the case why are there heartthrob’s next to a growing pool of men struggling to get a single date? Every woman having her idea of attractive that would be uniqe to her would result in a more even dating market and not that of fuccbois and virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 10:26 AM |
| 9 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuouslow-down, unwashed, arrogant, ugly ass men. "Ugly ass man" -- any guy with imperfect nose, or slightly close set eyes in woman speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousEvery study uses "women happier single" to contrast this against the "ticking time bomb" known as "single men". JFL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:12 PM |
| 12 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuouswomen casual sex isn’t at all desirable and that’s a huge disparity between the sexes that's a prudish and painfully naive 19. century view on woman sexuality, the reason women come across as being uneasy with 'hook ups' isn't because they 'desperate romantics' lol -- its because the thought of having sex with a average guy is a tur off for them. Otherwise they love sex, they themselves will say so, its just that the casual encounters they have just happen to be with the same same few very attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousBecause I only find people like her in places like this, tumblr and twitter where these fringe types seem to congregate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:03 PM |
| -2 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousI'm demisexual I could go the rest of my life without sex happily you're a terminally online person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:44 PM |
| -1 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousbut I am not talking about marriage or whether women can do better without it, we can agree that sex just feels good, for men and for women, it feels even better doing it with a person who likes you back, even if its just a casual fling. The average 'happily single' woman has access to this, the average 'single' man will struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousstop smugposting and read the last paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why?most women aren't into 'hookups' , the ones that are usually have daddy issues and do it with older 'player' men. But the only women who value 'boyish' looks and 'smooth wrinkle free skin' tend to be (with the exception of teenage girls) terminally online feminists, all the women I know in real life who do hookups will pick the sun-burned bearded handsome greek dad with crinkling eyes over a porcleain skinned baby faced asian guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:28 PM |
| 9 | No one will take our male points seriously if you make memes or comments about "hypocritical" women and this is you at the top. seriously they don't care so let's focus on more pressing issues regarding men.Women know they are a swipe away from hooking up with a cute guy if they get the 'itch' Women know they could probably get a fwb arrangement with one of their guy friends if their 'dry spell' becomes unbearable Women know there are men out there (exes, simps, silent admirers) who will be trying to get 'in contact' with them When the average guy refers to himself as single, what they usually mean is almost total romantic invisibility and loneliness. This kind of social isolation which would have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:42 PM |
| – | If looks are secondary, then why are all "heart breakers" conventionally very good looking?claiming they're of primary importance will get you a "no incl. content" warning on this sub (outside purge week). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 10 | PPD women be like:Its really just redditorettes trying to remote manage women’s decisions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:53 PM |
| 9 | PPD women be like:Why are you acting as if driving is something that requires 200 iq. neither does banging older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:22 PM |
| – | What’s with all these boomer ass memespeople who use -ass as an intensifier suffix attached to an adjective sound like cringey wiggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:20 PM |
| 11 | PPD women be like:Teenager are more impulsive and less likely to think ahead. For this reason they tend to make stupid decisions some of which can be pretty life damaging. yet these people can sit in front of a steering wheel of a 4000 pound vehicle and we let them drive it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:11 PM |
| 8 | PPD women be like:>manipulated into sucking cock How does this not imply that adult women are incapable of making their own rational decisions? Might as well bring back the times when women weren't allowed to leave the house without a male relative or guardian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:race is a social construct, by 'asian women' a guy is describing preferences that are predominately found among a otherwise diverse group of women in what we call Asia; with height you have a single measurable and unalterable physical feature serving as the end-all standard where men can either pass it or get rejected regardless of other qualities they may posses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistYou “liked”? As in what? Romantically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:42 PM |
| -5 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.We aren’t spaking the same language as in what’s average here: my plain Jane is a woman who deviates from the Barbie ideal: she has short legs and chubby thighs, weaker jaw, no prominent cheekbones, she isn’t ugly but if we used genderswapp app she’d look like the prototypical nerd. A womans idea of a non-Chad with a “dad bod” is Jason Mommoa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 15 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Why would someone, even slightly self respecting person decide to be with someone who "settled" for you, Guy: I want that beautiful woman to be my girlfriend PDD: "typical, you only notice the pretty ones " Guy: But, I like plain Janes too PDD: "why would a woman want someone who doesn't think she's absolutely stunning?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:13 PM |
| 5 | PPD women be like:The side-eyes are for the wrinkly person. why do people get triggered over the old, ugly and wrinkled being in relationships with what third parties don't perceive as their appropriate "equal" by some standard? It doesn't make any sense, but then I remember americans were still lynching gay and interracial couples just 70 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 11 | PPD women be like:18 year olds are mature enough to vote, drive 4000 pound vehicles, do Onlyfans, join the army and drone strike Afghani's, but are "heckin little children" when it comes to letting them decide who they want to have sex with. Lol, american "morals". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:11 PM |
| 3 | PPD women be like:men sleeping with other men was considered so disgusting it was (and still is in some backward places) a punishable offense, how is ostracizing age gap relationships -- also involving freely consenting adults -- any less bigoted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menAsian Woman are so desirable to Men because they so feminine compared to white/hispanic women they tend to have narrower hips, flatter butts, and smaller tits. They lack sexually dimorphic traits as much as their their asian male counterparts. Their desirability, however, is not nearly as affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:23 PM |
| 15 | PPD women be like:women here go from "men only care abut our body" to " you can't negotiate attraction, silly incel" real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:15 PM |
| 5 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menSo they're reading lots into that one feature. the only thing that makes a difference for you are basically semantics, the way one articulates their desire; a woman saying she has a strong preference for white men passes as a fetish for you, a woman who'd articulate it with bypassing 'racialized' language and expressed it as a preference for men with blonde hair, light colored eyes and tall stature is merely stating her 'preferences' in a partner, even though its only a more socially acceptable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 01:05 PM |
| 20 | PPD women be like:than who they did and didn't see as a human being. How often do women give the physically unattractive man a chance to get to know his 'person' over the hot guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:52 PM |
| 30 | PPD women be like:its so bizarre; a woman attracted to men with blonde hair and light colored eyes has a 'preference' even though its essentially a code-word for white men. a guy attracted to asian women has 'yellow fever'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:48 PM |
| 6 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menno one who has been accused of having "yellow fever" went for one sole feature about asians, they always could list their preferences as a bundle: how asian women are more petite, more feminine, have nice skin, more traditional, cuter.... by your own definition this isn't a fetish anymore; it includes preferences about ones looks and personality traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:27 PM |
| 15 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menwhen it comes to consensual relations between adults it always takes two to tango -- no she isn't a passive object of his desires, many asian women too dream about snatching a 'white boy' who can give them 'heckin cute hapa babies' . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:04 PM |
| 7 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menwho the fuck gets to decide on the right amount of aspects for something to pass as a 'fetish' or not? It is entirely subjective. Hypothetically: she only goes for guys with nice hair, tall stature and broad shoulders, technically this makes it 3 aspects = "a preference". He is attracted to women with asian features = "fetish". You are probably the most insipidly mendacious blue pilled user here, and not a smart one at it, is it a congenital thing with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menEast asian men are only 2% of the east asian population in the USA while white men are 60% and white women are 59.2% of the population, so why aren't we seeing them date asian men at a similar rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:19 AM |
| 6 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menWhy do we need to look like idols to be considered attractive? This is like expecting white men to look like a young Brad Pitt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:03 AM |
| 5 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menthe comparison of asian men to black women is thoroughly insulting, to be completely honest, black women would do just fine if the they didn't have the highest obesity rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:44 AM |
| 14 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian men"fetishization: to consider something or someone important, interesting based on some aspect of their body, status, or identity" Do women not fetishize physically attractive men by projecting onto them positive personality traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:40 AM |
| 6 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menthis doesn't explain the discrepancy among second and third generation asians living in the US tho... Do you think all these Yale/Berkely educated middle-upper class asian women are dating white guys because they are in desperate need of a green card? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:20 AM |
| 5 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menmen fetishising one race in particular doesn't show their preferences are broader In the US there are far more asian-american women fetishizing white men by openly saying "I don't find asian men attractive because they look like my brother" than there are white guys exclusively into asian women. Your attempt at 'bothsideism' simply has no basis in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:19 AM |
| 10 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menasian women have all the agency to reject these guys, but they don’t, in fact, the loudest critics of “yellow fever” are all berkely/yale educated asian women who just happen to date a white guy lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:03 AM |
| 11 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menI could easily argue that asian women on average are less curvateous, have flatter asses and smaller tits thus exhibiting far less desirable sexually dimoprphic traits. But this doesn’t seem to affect their desirability nearly as much as asian men being shorter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:02 AM |
| 11 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menI could easily argue that asian women on average are less curvateous, have flatter asses and smaller tits thus exhibiting far less desirable sexually dimoprphic traits. But this doesn’t seem to affect their desirability nearly as much as asian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:00 AM |
| 19 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menwomen are the custodians of white supremacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:41 AM |
| – | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftGirl A: “he’s cute” Her friends: “ewww he’s asian” Women’s sixth sense warning fellow sisters from racemixing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:23 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyYeah, if test drops so much why are women complaining about so many old horny perverts out there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women age like milk while Men age like wine is a fallacyYes, aging hits both genders, so young men should bother, approach as much women as they can all gas no breaks, no taboos, before they too age out and get labelled ‘dirty old creeps’ . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostShort fat women can make a living on Onlyfans now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostMen are following all kinds of women ( nerdy , short and fat ones) despite mass availability of porn with conventionally good looking starlets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:40 PM |
| 3 | 63% of men in their 20s are single compared to 34% of women, which is the age cohort when young women care about looks the mostWhat happens to guys who don’t give a shit about sports? Are they seen as less masculine? Seesh talk about women upholding toxic masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:05 PM |
| – | Why do men think they have low standards?And is it because you have such low standards that you would be happy to marry a woman you consider ugly? tell you this: I am perfectly aware that by conventional beauty standards she is not ideal; she's clinically obese, has lost of cellulite on those short fat legs of hers and has cankles. Yet in my eyes she looks attractive, not in a "would on a really horny day" type of way, I find her body with all its 'imperfections' a bigger turn on than boring fit bodies like THIS that do nothing for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:52 AM |
| – | Why do men think they have low standards?Not true . I would be happy to wife up a girl who looks like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:05 AM |
| 8 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingwomen in this sub are a subsection of middle class suburbanites who are 'nerdy' and often times neurotic. Never in my life I've heard a preference for young short guys with dad bods or asian men expressed so vocally by so many women anywhere else than on this sub. It's like they are tailoring their 'quirky' preferences out of spite, given they like to insist on 'the wall' for men happening at 30 which is a mirror version of the redpill one about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:19 AM |
| 11 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingbeing happy by yourself and "loving yourself" first, you aren't worthy of a relationship, whats up with that one, tho? Whenever a average guy 'loves himself' bluepillers and women will be the first ones to try and humble them "maybe you aren't that 'attractive' sweety" and "average men tend overrate themselves, this study shows". LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:41 PM |
| -1 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealouswhat is 'immoral' or 'wrong' with relationships involving consenting adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:14 PM |
| – | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousso a bigoted dad warning her daughter against dating a man of color is morally wrong in le current times, but "age" remains a acceptable variable for prejudice ,even when it involves consenting adults? How are you people not aware of the logical trappings of your own fucking arguments? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:09 PM |
| – | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousthe fuck are you on? white males were warning of black/brown males long time ago. They even threatened/beat/lynched them for having relationships with their daughters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingSocial circles describe people you do social activities with. hitting on women in the gym it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:41 PM |
| -4 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousWhat they really want from me. My dad, a male, putting me on game to protect me from other men with ill intentions. many fathers before yours, even some in my own family, thought that interracial marriage was morally wrong, warned their daughters of black men, that a girl was no good if she went with a black guy, do you think their thinking reflected some deeper truth about these relationships, or rather projected their own bigotry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingsocial circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:24 PM |
| 12 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingWho the hell is telling young men not to approach until they are older? not older, the word here is 'acomplished' and 'confident', until then they shouldn't bother women, that is whast 'sex pests' do we're told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anything. I might not say set aside all your morals, the morals he is probably referring to are the shaming tactics imployed by the shit-slingers who try to remote-manage or police meeting women. Like: "why is this 30ish creepo trying to mingle with underage 21 years old at the club, doesn't he have a lawn to mow?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingproblem is when they're so far and few in between they remain hidden without bothering a lot of women first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Since when did requiring physical attraction for a romantic relationship make you superficial?. A woman’s time, love, intimacy, and fertility isn’t a participation trophy for just whomever. I don't even believe most women are wired this way, they are however complete hive minds that can be manipulated by mass media far more efficiently than men. Just look at the way their 'preferences' are shaped which reflects dominant social trends to a T. Western men are far more into interracial dating than western women. Until korean mass media pushed through the western market asian men were comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Women have stricter body standards than men do in datingWomen don't have stricter standards than men, then why are 30% of young men single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 10:14 PM |
| 4 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all30% of young men no one wants. Concerning at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:44 PM |
| 0 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allCondolences to the refrigerators out there, but still far more types of wonen pass as attractive , male types? Not so much. My cousin is a petite asian woman with very small boobs , a lot of men prefer that to curves. I’m a 5’11 asian guy who’s never been approached by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:59 PM |
| -16 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allNot young people tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:41 PM |
| -4 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allWomen often don’t realize this is how a dadbod looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:39 PM |
| 6 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allI think I’m referring to the common trope about a scrawny nerd aiming for the hot cheerleader but ignoring the short bookish girl with thunder thighs… in reality the thicc girl is more desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.women don't really need a 'hoe phase' for the 20/80 rule to hold, each of them just needs to have that one or two hookups "to try it out" and they do it with the same few men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:19 AM |
| -2 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.she is getting satisfaction from it considering she is willing to risk "bad sex"/std's/pregnancy in a one night stand with a hot stud. Maybe his looks alone produced a magnetism so strong she couldn't resist but to give in to pleasure. Women's sexuality is more complex than men's, maybe she even gets off the next day bragging to her girlfriends how she made the hot stud cum hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:43 PM |
| 18 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.they keep doing hookups with hot guys despite sex being shit? I think this makes it sound even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:17 PM |
| – | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.my range of what I count as physically attractive women includes from tall and thin, to short and thick, chubby and even obese, in fact, one of the rare requirements I have is that if she's gonna be fat I really prefer she's bottom heavy. Her requirement is always "tall and muscly". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.do you really think if older men were honest about their intentions, they'd ever get a younger woman with them Are you socially r-slurred? Any guy YOUR OWN AGE who feels sexual desire and is attracted thinks "dayum I wanna smash dat" but he won't come up to you and say it out loud. He will try to do it the socially acceptable way without uttering the literal words "I want my spunk all over your pretty face" -- rather going with a "hey wanna go for coffee sometimes?", or "I find you really intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:47 PM |
| 6 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.The average man is so desperate they’d go down on you and lick you clean. But women still opt for selfish hot guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:34 PM |
| 15 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.women are more likely to orgasm with attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionI’ve been around, young women at least tend to articulate attraction or lack of there of in terms of disgust like “ew, he’s asian”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:15 PM |
| – | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionwow, just wow. What a word salad just to imply "have you considered your preferences are still excluding all the 300lbs trailor park Tammy's of the world?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionstudies show women actually have more variance in what they consider attractive, Do we ever get to know how male subjects of a supposedly varied 'attractiveness' actually looked from these studies? This is junk-tier pop science. The only data we have is from dating apps and interracial marriages. From interracial dating alone we get the picture of who has more variance: when men say they like asian women; they usually mean east asian all the way down to south-east asia. When women say 'I like as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 48 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction"women swoon over goofy looking guys, like Jim from The Office." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionI notice women around my age. I am 5'11, slim, have thick hair, nice teeth, and high cheekbones. The women I like physically range from thin ones, to those very chubby, bordering obesity. I don't even care how big their boobs are, the only requirement I have is that if she's gonna be really fat (which I'm ok with) she better store most of it in her thighs and butt.. Thats it. And here you are trying to convince even those are standards 'too high'. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionWhy don't they do the illustrations with him in the novel then? novels offers the reader a graphic description of the lovers looks in great detail and its never anything else than a ripped tall current/fromer quarterback slowly undressing our heroine with a giant hard on going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attraction100% of my erotica is digital and has no cover at all! Absolutely zero visuals every erotic novel gives its reader a vivid description of the lover; "his strong muscular arms", "his wide shoulders" "his wide back stretching his shirt", "his herculean stature towering me" , "his masculine face and gleaming eyes"... Stop with the bs... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:09 PM |
| 32 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionI read erotica, which has no visual at all Every erotic novel marketed at women has the same buff 6ft+ white guy on the paper back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local Zoo. Everyone’s got different taste not women tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingit just happens to be the same type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good looking’m not picky but if you’re not my type it will forever what is your type? No wait, let me guess? Tallish "nerdy" men with broad shoulders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 05:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically.Ohh looky these korean carefully curated celeb superstars living up to the insane beauty standards of a industry that breeds them for fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:22 AM |
| 0 | CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically.women. they would get the 'ick' and call it weird when a man uses as little as a bb cream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 09:15 AM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingJust because someone flirts with you doesn't mean they're into you. "I was just being heckin flirty and this creepo thought I was flirting with him" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:56 AM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingno, most men are bad at it, and studies show women are even worse at recognising it. The only difference is they get hit on constantly so the there is a greater chance they are right about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.Have you tried living what you preach and instead of hopping from on fit 6ft white guy to another , choosing a humble indian 5’5 janitor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex"unattractive people with sexual desire make me uncomfortable" the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenThe 10/10 tall, thin, blonde, blue-eyed knockout isn't going to be interested in the average Joe. neither will the overweight 'gamer girl' nerd with a fat ass who now competes with the skinny blonde because 'thicc' is even more desired than thin these days. The average guy has no "league" to pick from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenWhile men primarily hyper focus on looks, women necessarily don’t women say they don't focus on looks, but every time I hear women explaining how they gave the guy with the 'fun personality' a chance they describe their sex life as a reward these men get for being good reliable partners and not because the women want to jump their bones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Women generally want men desired by other womenattraction for women and men doesn't work the same way. Women can think a dude is physically attractive and not necessarily want to settle down with him if he doesn't have the other factors. so a man needs "other factors" on top of being physically attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenwestern women are not nearly as open toward dating asian men as western guys are to asian women. Why is that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Women generally want men desired by other womenwe have data, although limited to OLD for now, that aligns with these observations, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenthe arguments we get in because one of us will find a guy hot that the rest find repulsive and vice versa. this is no indicator that women's tastes are diverse but rather ruthlessly exclusionary to begin with. The times I heard "ew... he's asian" behind my back when a girl in a group of friends even shared the thought I was 'kinda cute'... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:44 PM |
| – | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingNo one believes that, ageism is back in full force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 05:25 PM |
| – | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThey certanily steer it into that direction without explicitly saying so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverShort ones want tall and muscly. Tall ones want tall and myscly. Skinny ones want tall and muscly. Thicc ones want tall and muscly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:48 PM |
| 11 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdRaw Text transfer data doesn’t mean jack shit. For all we know they could be sending these men a “lol no thanks” rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:47 PM |
| 19 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdIt's an experimental phase in most young people's life it's not a big deal. most men don't get to experience this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:09 PM |
| 19 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.high functioning autistic women usually reject their fellow neurodivergent and awkard men in favor of socially suave guys who they believe will 'show them the world'. Unless she's clinically retarded, and therefore incapable of functioning as an adult on a cognitive level, she isn't getting 'exploited' for sex, she is consenting to have sex and your argument is simply a cop-out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:11 AM |
| 4 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +What a fucking racist thing to assume? I never got mistakeb for a woman in my life. How does equating asian men with “feminity” tnot fall under incel content when what you’re basically saying is if you dont look like a burly wasp Chad you’re unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:38 PM |
| 6 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstThere is no evidence that men who struggle to get dates have any shittier personalities than fuckboys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:09 PM |
| 21 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +Im a slim 5’11 asian dude, my cousin, a woman, looks like my female doppleganger (but shorter), she always has guys chasing her and is considered hot by many. I am the invisible “meh” guy despite both of us having similiar features and face symmetry. The difference between us isn’t that if beauty, better or worse grooming habits, but a single chromosome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:05 PM |
| – | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +Im a slim 5’11 asian dude, my cousin, a woman, looks like my female doppleganger (but shorter), she always has guys chasing her and is considered hot by many. I am the invisible “meh” guy despite both of us having similiar features and face symmetry. There simply is no comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:02 PM |
| 9 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstthis. you needed to be a extreme outlier back then to get nothing. And bluepillers should spare the "your boomer grandma had to marry grandad because she was forced by patriarchy" shtick . Jesus, these were the 1960s not the 1860s. That generation was already partying and dating . Plenty of boomer couples that met in high school or college where they both studied, not some "women had to marry these men to survive' type of shit idiots on reddit spout. The average man today simply is subject of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:30 PM |
| 5 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firsti swear calling users "autistic" is the new "retard" on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:39 PM |
| -1 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstbut most women aren't hitting the gym themselves, neither are they fit, or even trying to keep their diets healthy, they are getting fatter as we speak and while we live in a time of body positive attitudes, where thicc is becoming the new hot, the conventional beauty standards for men keep rising. How the fuck does this make any sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:29 PM |
| 0 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstit doesn't really work like that. overweight man isn't attractive to overweight women and a slim man is still not attractive to slim women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:18 PM |
| 15 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstYou shouldn’t wait to get in shape, take care of your hygiene, or pursue your passions I love the bold assumption that only fat greasy basement dwelling neckbeards aren't getting dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.T. Has never heard of instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Least delusional fds poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Men get accused of being "shallow" and "just wanting sex" but criticizing women for doing it is "slutshaming"anyone throwing the accusation 'he wants sex' makes a completely natural desire sound like something dirty or immoral when it really isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Men get accused of being "shallow" and "just wanting sex" but criticizing women for doing it is "slutshaming"they will often times accuse a man (who isn't successful at his approach) for doing it wrong by going after women based on superficial reasons like finding her hot, but when he goes the friends first route he gets outed as the 'sneaky' Nice Guy wanting to get in her pants and lacking the balls for direct approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherI use bb cream myself, I put that shit on in like 5 minutes, getting a muscly body on the other hand requites requires dedicated effort, a rigid diet, physical and mental stamina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherthat is because you - a nerdy girl - went for the outdorsy popular types and ignored the 'awkward' nerds yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:23 AM |
| 21 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherGuy: "i'm short and unattractive" "when you stop seeing yourself as ‘short’ and ‘unattractive’ you will BE more attractive" Guy: "I'm confident that I'm not bad looking and can be quite a catch" "uhm, sweety... ugly men greatly overestimate their attractiveness" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherwomen: "stop chasing women way out of your league, average girls need lovin' too" guy: "but I approach average girls too" women: "why are you approaching women you think of as lesser, and not beautiful?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:19 AM |
| 4 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitheror women with body fat not in the preferred distribution imagine even the standard "just don't be fat" not applying to you, yet failing at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:13 AM |
| 30 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherMost men overestimate their attractiveness. this 'popular' claim turned out to be a case of extreme junk framing in pop science articles. The actual study involving men who 'overestimated' themselves also shown that they gave higher ratings to women (the women did not). This means that the 5 who thought he was a 7 rated the average chick higher too and this sub keeps spinning it to make it look like some greasy neckbeards think they're George Clooney. Enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:59 PM |
| 8 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherlook at these two, one is considered hot by millions worldwide, the other is a 'meh' who'd get swiped left 99% of the time on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherto me he was always a handsome guy (looks better in motion than photos), but women here would rate him as barely average because they've been raised on flawless tiktok Chads as the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:47 PM |
| 29 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitheryou never did mention how tall you are, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:40 PM |
| 12 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eithera 6 man is always imagined as a tallish handsome guy with naturally broad shoulders, but slightly narrow jaw and longish face (Ross in Friends), a 6 woman means anything from a skinny plain Jane to a obese instagram model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eithermost Ok looking women aren't attracted to Ok looking men, this doesn't necessarily mean the man is less groomed, less hygienic, or lacks more face symmetry than she does. It just means that women are hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherhitting the gym won't help. Gym culture was a obscure thing just 10 years ago, now its everywhere and we have more incels than ever + crippling amounts of body image dysmorphia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themwOmEn ArE HuMAnS tOO yes, they’re humans who want to have sex and make babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 05:19 AM |
| 0 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesOutside italy it is. Especially anglo-saxons think its weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:43 PM |
| 51 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesWhy do women have such unforgiving ick detectors, these things are banal. Do they think men aren’t human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 16 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesModern urban women with options get icks the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 01:47 PM |
| 16 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectiveusers here will say "join a club with common hobby activity and meet women there" and then say gym clubs are totally inappropriate avenues to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:07 PM |
| 20 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectivemost women here are neurotic and will take the position of speaking on behalf of all women, yet claiming all women are the same is denounced as a misogynist redpill trope at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:06 PM |
| 33 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjective*robotic female tiktok voice\* "this creep just approached a underage 21yo at the gym" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | There is no appropriate way to approach a woman if you're unattractive to herthe lines are getting blurrier with each passing year; you have cases where a man approaches, even glances at a woman and gets outed as 'that creepo just bothered me at the gym'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 11:47 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themOk, young women hate older guys, we established that, but how do you explain 63% of young being sexless and single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themlol to think women mock incels for thinking in fatalistic ways, but when age-gap relationships come up they start spewing the "older men look gross to us because they're balding and wrinkled unlike the hung young studs with perfect hairlines" blackpills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals?This was my exact experience as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:07 AM |
| 6 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingmid 2000s emo girl today cringes at her blunder years and is in a relationship with that husky bearded guy in cargo shorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:48 AM |
| 9 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingThis is like the wealthy preaching ‘money doesn’t buy you happiness’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingWhy do so many women have an ex who didn’t wash his ass? How does it come to this? Did he look like Brad Pitt or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingThat only once the age for having ‘sexy time’ has passed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingMany men in the west can do chores, this doesn’t mean they’re getting their intimacy fulfilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingThey are shilling that one study hard these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Why can’t women be good judges of male attractiveness?Women are literally the arbiters of what an "attractive man" i women have physical standards for men like it's 1936 Olympiade in Berlin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:17 AM |
| 0 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorWhat exactly counts as cartoonishly high? you say "just don't be fat" while the majority of men and women are now fat, but then you say that skinny is also "le bad", you kinda prove my thesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 08:07 AM |
| 5 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floormy point exactly. The male gaze allows for a diversity (short, tall, slim, thicc, bbw's) the female gaze is pretty much stuck in Germany 1939 (be tall and athletic). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t women be good judges of male attractiveness?The male gaze is a spectrum; it allows for a variety of beauty. A good example of this are diverse enviroments. Even when it comes to interracial dating men are more accepting of women of other races. Bay area has plenty of white men dating asian girls, white women dating asian men not so much. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 07:19 AM |
| 13 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floor“Being used” by freely and consensually opting to have sex with the hotter guy.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorNot remotely comparable, naturally pear shaped\hourglass body type 35-40% of women have it , a 6ft+ broad shouldered combo in men is within single digits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorMisandrist take. Women like sex without strings too. If they didn’t hookup culture would come into being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorIm refering here to the “looks will get your foot in the door” minimum women themselves adhere to. Not personality, wealth, status… that’s another discussion altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:58 PM |
| 4 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?Society keeps narrowing down the range of acceptable ways of meeting women and then you get stats like 63% of young men being sexless and single and they go "have modern men lost their balls to court women?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:14 AM |
| 6 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?To be fair, though, we also lived in a country where small talk with strangers almost never happens so maybe it's also a mentality thing. you're from a country that carried out the holocaust, so yeah, you guys are a bit weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Imagine standards being so low yet still fail at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?*men are way too picky *men will fuck anything Pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedAsk a fisherman. the fisherman. xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:19 PM |
| 8 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedmost women realize that wanting to get to know a person and being sexually attracted to a person are not mutually exclusive they usually rationalize initial sexual magnetism as the guy having a one-of-a-kind 'great personality'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzoneddescribe how does he look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedPeople like attractive people, what passes as "attractive" man is much more harder to meet. A slim woman is seen as dainty and petite, a slim man is scrawny and weak. Again overweight woman can pass as voluptuous or 'thicc', a fat guy is usually advised to hit the gym. No matter what direction you take they simply are not perceived as in the same league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedIf she is not interested, you’ll know it I've been texted first, asked to 'hang out', and told I have a pretty face by a girl who never had any interest beyond platonic friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedusually it is after he passed the looks threshold . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:58 PM |
| 31 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzoned"maybe you should try seeing women aS pEoPlE," I never understood this distinction either: do regular people not fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedwhat hints did you drop that separated you from becoming her male "bestie"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzoned“As people” who have thoughts and opinions. and sex is a subject I'm interested in exploring with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedyes, finally were getting somewhere: a friendly personality doesn't turn women on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 36 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedThey aren’t mutually exclusive. for many posters here they are. chat-up a woman because I want to get to know her? "you're just after her body, ask yourself would you be chatting her up if she weren't hot?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Talking to women "as people" first usually gets the guy friendzonedbut women otherwise like me as a friend and close confidant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.I got rejected by women that approached me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:06 PM |
| 10 | How to get over how easy it is for women to have sex?Women in threads where men seek sex: “we want meaningful connection, love, companionship men just want to fuck” Women in threads about n-counts; “Sex just feels good,get over it, we are not at all different than men.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:02 PM |
| 0 | It’s probably worth all men on earth learning now to habitually avoid eye contact with women… because all eye contact from men is creepy. 🤔 and women are creeped out simply my a man’s presence. lolNew criminal offence: making eye contact whilst being a man (basically equivalent to doing anything at all whilst being black…) jokes aside, but when you think about it, #metoo really wants a 'Jim Crow' for ugly men. In the south's 'separate but equal' blacks were expected to move out of the sidewalk and not look whites in the eye when passing. Some women here unironically advise men to cross the street at night in order not to make them 'uncomfortable' LMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:56 AM |
| 11 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.That’s like the basketball team caring what the weakest player on the B team but the 'weakest player' here is not a minority, there is 63% of 18-29 year old chronically single and lonely men. That's a whole goddamn army. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 08:35 PM |
| 22 | Weight Preferences in Dating - Most Comprehensive Dating App Study To DateOverweight women universally prefer non-overweight men women are seen as plus sized and voluptuous, men as fat slobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 9 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.I had the opposite exprience: as a teen I was considered the 'cute guy' by several girls, but I didn't make that jump from boyish to manly as far as physical appearance goes, and trying to attract women my age has been harder with each passing year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themWomen dont have insane physical standards but if you dont have popping shoulders and biceps, forget about it I aint even gonna talk about face or height kinda contradicting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 13 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themand if the make their intentions clear early on they say they are coming off "too strong". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:47 PM |
| 20 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themI try to interact with women more or less the same way I would interact with men last time everyone here was saying how women hate sneaky "Nice guys" who lack the balls to confidently state their intentions from the get-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:33 PM |
| 13 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themIt really be like "separate but equal" for ugly men . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:16 PM |
| 17 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them"stop approaching women for dating, just get to know them as people first, as friends, but better not make any moves afterwards either, women don't like guys with ulterior motives" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themher "so we just started talking" was his strategic "approach". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:31 PM |
| 20 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themI assume Ted Bundy had a killer personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:27 PM |
| 29 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them"Touch grass" doesn't mean "go cold approach women on the street", it means go develop a mixed friendship group there we go with the goal posts again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkMen need to stop trying to date children, it’s fucking weird. on what planet are adult women now considered "children"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkoverweight women are not equal to women of a healthy eight. they are superior to skinny girls if they look like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you think63% of men aged 18-29 are lonely and chronically single. of course women will outclass them experience wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:21 AM |
| 6 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkYou just aren't willing to date someone who may already have kids I'm not on the same life stage as a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkno study suggests that legal age gap couples have a greater incidence of domestic violence. This is a myth spread by redditors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:17 AM |
| 5 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkBig city people will accept anything; from swinger fist fucking orgies to child drag shows. Age gaps relathionships however… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 10 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkthe wall is a misogynistic myth spread by bitter incels men over 30 are crusty, old and gross cuz my friends say so 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 26 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkthose aren't dating men their age either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 07:58 PM |
| 7 | "just date women your own age" is harder than you thinkMaybe places like NYC or LA, but once outside metropolises dating still looks like its the 1950s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | So true lol.No comparison. There are 35-40% of women that either have a pear or hour body shape. While barely 10% of the male population is at least 6 foot tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 06:34 PM |
| – | You are not suitable for marriage or kids if you are primarily attracted to 18-21 year oldswhy aren't you kpop maxing? because it only attracts teenage girls not adult women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:33 PM |
| – | You are not suitable for marriage or kids if you are primarily attracted to 18-21 year oldsI would date women my age, but their type seem to be big bearded guys like this, and I'm asian, boyish looking so my appeal is already niche and I have even less luck with women my age than younger ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:16 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?Til; women are not capable of rejecting a man on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:10 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?Once a fat girl came and said “eww but he’s asian” and pulled her away from me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Women here say more men should use sunscreen, but most women irl don’t like pale menTwilight saga was popular 15 years ago, the emo craze is over, and while it lasted it was limimited to teens living in northern Europe and Canada. Adult women rarely like alternative looking pale guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 09:03 PM |
| 55 | If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or notpdd women "I never feel attraction on first sight, I need to get to know him as a person" also pdd women: "We can tell whether we're attracted to you in the first 5 seconds, there is nothing you can do to change that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersno woman will say that out loud unless she's in the klan, yet women would have those "where can I find a guy like you" moments with me, meaning "you've passed the personality test, but I just couldn't imagine being with an asian guy". They' would even complain to me about some hot guy ignoring them and and it was a tall white hipster dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersYou are that guy, because you make people uncomfortable by not understanding social situations. the social situation: "asian men are precieved as the least attractive group of men" so yeah, technically you're right, by not accepting my place in the "social situation" where asian mean rank as least desirable I am indeed making them "uncomfrotable" by rocking the boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkerswhy would I stay friends with a woman that is single and who despite clicking with me personality-wise lets me know she will always see asian men as romantically repulsive. It's low key insulting at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 08:15 AM |
| 16 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?f he’s not within the broad range of my type, attraction won’t happen the problem right here is the "range" which is never a diverse as the woman think it is. Many reddit women who say "he doesn't need to be a stud, just needs to tick a minimum looks threshold" and then post this guy as an example of a "average cute nerd". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersWhy are you moving the goal post? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersoh, they always like me.... "as a friend". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersit needs to be done organically - in other words, chemistry is either there or it isn’t, and if you’re feeling some chemistry, If you're unattractive, but a great conversationalist with lots of things in common with her it will come off just as if you had "great chemistry" and the people around the two of you will think you have something going on, but often times this only implies a complete lack of any sexual tension on her side and that she was all giggly and relaxed because she "loved" you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkershave fellow friends determine if the feeling is mutual, Lol, I had this one happen to me more than once. The people around us thought she was into me, she'd laugh at my silly jokes, stare at me, agreed to hang out 1 on 1, yet it turned out it was purely platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersYou’re THAT GUY if you hit on a hot girl who isn’t interested. one girls "flirty" is another ones "just frinedly", the only way to find out is to ask her out on a date, therefore by making a move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkersWomen will be put-off by you knowing you're the guy that is making a move on her after you got rejected by the girl before her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenario slightly better than hitting on coworkers. Not asking out your best friend. read the post, I made it precise and clear that it's not about orbiting a bestie in hopes to bed them, but described situations where even loose social circles (like those in college) the guys who kept "shooting their shot" after 3-4 attempts got the reputation as "that guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:15 PM |
| 9 | Women are much more stringent about their "types" than men are.Not trying to race bait but white men are generally far more open to date asian women while white women into asian men are quite rare… Whats up with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?lmao for a slim guy, slim women are out of his league, but so are chubby ones pass as "thicc" and "voluptous". So what is a slim guys' league anyway? The women from those TLC shows about obesity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Male threshold of physical attractiveness is much harder to meet than a woman'sReally? You find him cute? How do you look tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Male threshold of physical attractiveness is much harder to meet than a woman'sThe other pics of women are all 25+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.is it tho?: 1950s: "interracial marriage is borderline bestiality and immoral" 1980s: "just because sodomy is legal now doesn't make it right to be a homo" 2010s: "legality =/= morality, creepo" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.prejudice is all heckin sweet and wholesome while its directed at socially acceptable targets (these days age gap coupling, 50 years ago a dad would be freaking out at the idea of his daughter dating anyone outside their race, ethnic group or religion) , I live in a place where nationalism runs deep and one of my childhood friends got his ass beaten by his to-be-girlfriend's brothers because he was bosnian muslim and they were catholics. You couldn't really reason with them as their conviction w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.its only "disingenuous" because the assumption of predation moved from race to age and society memoryholed the old argument against interracial relationships that followed the same logic; Black men stealing 'our' white women, then gay men turning your kids gay, and now it's old guys somehow "grooming" young adult women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.If women their age are dating anyone, it will be them the vast majority of the time. no need to play dumb here; 63% of men under 30 are single, compared to 34% of women in the same age bracket. Who are all these women dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Young women are rarely attracted to men a decade or more older than them. 60% of young men are chronically single, women their age certainly aren't attracted to them either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.why tho? Does the father disapointed at his daugther dating a black guy get the same "just a stern dad wishing whats best for his girl" benefit of the doubt? Or would he be mocked as a old fashioned patriarchal bigot. Women can do onlyfans at 18, and here are posters thinking a 20 year old is still too young to be dating a 30something. What type of clownworld is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Question a woman what she has in common with hot studs; “sex an chemistry incel, do I need more?” Meanwhile a this sub demands essays from men to justify their attraction. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.ah yes, the old "just in case " fallacy. .just as your fear is based on hypothetical worst-case scenarios Just because bad things can happen, doesn't mean they will happen. I could say that people under 25 whose brains haven't finished developing yet are too immature and impulsive behind the steering wheel and pose a danger to themselves and others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 09:01 AM |
| -1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.do you feel like "practically children" people with their prefrontal cortex so unbaked should be allowed anywhere near the steering wheel of a 5000 pound SUV? should the driving age be raised as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.weird, how women here will disparage the wall as a misogynistic myth "nothing really happened when I turned 30" , yet men that age have entered "crusty and gross" territory LMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does."have in common" is a red herring. We're all Americans (usually, on this sub), susceptible to pop culture considering they usually all love Star Wars, a franchise that started in 1977 xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.f I tried to take a 35 year old man home my dad would lose it. is it normal for parents to dictate your love life as an adult? Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?They might be losing looks, but other things that women value can still grow, like money and status. is money and statu really that important to american women who make their own money now? The amount of emphasis given to wealth here makes it look like the US is some third world shithole full of goldigging whores trying to escape poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?The type of guy women in their 20s would consider, the type 30-somethings want the younger looking you are, the harder it gets to date "women your own age". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Male beauty standards are much harder to meet than women'sI've already refuted this autocope by showing that even when it comes to porn, where 4k videos of hot fit conventionally attractive women are a click-away, thicc and bbw categories are still a thing men will lurk and even pay for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Male beauty standards are much harder to meet than women'swomen are so concerned over 'safe sex' that the rates of SDTs among them are the highest in 30 years all while the pool of sexless young men widens to 60%. How is fucking the same few guys gonna prevent this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:51 PM |
| 9 | Male beauty standards are much harder to meet than women's"butterface" woman getting men to fuck her but not commit actually a win, though? think of a man and woman who just want some string free casual sex. the butterface will get it, the uggo man will not. Their situations aren't comparable at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Male beauty standards are much harder to meet than women'sBeauty standards are not about whether or not other people will find someone attractive. women's preferences and tastes in mates also get shaped by the media they consume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 12 | "Men only want sex..."Crticizing a woman for liking casual sex with hot guys:“sex feels good inkwel” and “you really shouldn’t sluthshame”, some guy wanting to pick up women: “gross he’a only after her body” , “yikes stop looking at women as potential relathionship/ sex targets”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 6 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"More than 60% of young men are single compared to 30% of women, despite the average woman being overweight . So men indeed do date fat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"there is truth to this. The whole "femaledatingstrategy" and "pinkpill" have their vernacular entirely borrowed from the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"was no stigma to being a virgin and/or single a lot of men would probably dedicate more time to thier hobbies than bothering to date. "just do away with the stigma of virginity and tell young horny men that there is nothing wrong with dying without ever having to experiencing companionship, intimacy and love with a woman" LMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Why is it news that you have to be attractive to get the opportunity for romantic/sexual relationships? TIL: 60% of young men are below average and so unattractive they're unable to attract a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 07:18 PM |
| 14 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"What men find physically attractive is a plethora that ranges from short and thicc to long legged and skinny, when it comes to diversity of taste there is no comparison between men and women. Men embrace thicc, even chubby and fat, women’s idea of male besuty is stuck somewhere between the years 1933-1939. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:58 PM |
| 48 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"“outgrow their young singleness”? Just spend a whole decade alone and touch starved only to settle with a woman in your 30s after she had her fun in her 20s theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How much does muscle/good body factor into your dating choices and how much muscle do you like?The skinny/ skinny fat examples are of men that have smaller frames, more petite bone structure, and the ones women her fawn over (dad bod, bear, strongman) are men with naturally big frames. The women here now going "We're not into muscles, just be big and cuddly" are saying be tall, big and naturally strong without trying to cheat your genes in the gym because that's for narcissist tryhards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Only a tiny amount of the young male vs female relationship difference is explained by lgbtq womenIf a large chunk of it is explained by 28-year-olds dating 32-ye stop coping with this shit, it doesn't account for a 30% difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 01:10 PM |
| 0 | What is the "ick" and what triggers it for you?TIL: Being human gives woman the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 12:11 PM |
| 18 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allWhat passes as attractive male is far more narrow than what passes as a attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:52 PM |
| 9 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allThey often times just deny these observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:50 PM |
| 7 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allI’m not interested in extremes, I’m talking about average women and men, why is it always suggested getting a herculean figure as the minimum to date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Why are women still in denial about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:03 PM |
| 9 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.If you reach 40 and you haven't succeeded in either dating or business, then what the fuck did you do with the last 20 years? most people live paycheck to paycheck, don't have careers but ordinary jobs, never amass any kind of wealth. Only on reddit everyone is seems to be a upper-middle class self-made hustling entrepreneur flipping daddies real estate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 03:35 PM |
| 3 | AI is generating "hotties" at a rapid pace. Will there be a hottie renaissance or oversaturation?I like chunky girls with big thighs and fat cellulite ridden asses so this will have 0 effect in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 11 | What's the problem with casual age gap relationships?nothing new: 1950s interracial couples gave racists the "ick" 1980s had the moral majority "icking" at gay couples 2020s has twitter "icking" at age gap couples the common theme of all three? A moral panic around assumed "predation": Black men stealing white women, gay men recruiting kids, old guys grooming young adult women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:41 PM |
| 10 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydaythe girls I found out were into me were always discreet, maybe a random hello, or eye contact, usually no smiling at all. It was with the ones who were around me a lot, laughing and talking to me about everything where I was friendzoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 10:25 AM |
| 0 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayYes. There is a difference with a accidental eye contact, and literally looking in my eyes for seconds as her face lights up with a duchene smile while we are still strangers. I don't hold a gaze with random girls I don't find cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 09:51 AM |
| 18 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?it usually is on the guys part. Hence why all these stories "we've been friends for years and now I've finally fallen for him" yeah yeah, you rode the carousel as your guy bestie spent silently yearning for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to do“Just wear clothes that fit bro” “fitted clothing looks weird on skinny guys” Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:17 AM |
| 3 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to dothe image of "the alternative guy" always presupposes a tall, slim, white hipster. I bet the idea of a "average 5-6 guy alter guy" is a pretty boy with tats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:03 AM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Has OP confirmed that he does, in fact, present as 'autistic?' I am not autistic. Jeezus when did we kill sarcasm and made everyone unironically identify with their forum accounts. I guess the dude with the cringey xXPsychoKillerXx PS3 account was a serial killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isriddle me this one: be coworker with a woman we playfully banter and small talk one day I caught her trying to match our schedules she says that I "brighten her day" whenever she sees me boss hears this and asks "do you have crush on Johnny? "Johhy is the only man who ever listens to me" she confesses You tell me, neurotypical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isLet’s see: college, we add each other on social media for assignment related reasons, semester coming to an end she starts sending random “heyyy’s” and love emojis, she suggest we “hang out sometimes” one on one , I take it as interest… we meet to which she then goes full pikachu face claiming how could I possibly interpret it “that way”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isLol even people ( other women) would think she was flirting with me. I made the move and not only I was rejected, she said it never crossed her mind that anything like that might happen between us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it is: if she doesn’t look at you the way a dog looks at its dinner bowl, they'd look at me alright, prolonged eye contact even, and then I'd find out they're looking because I'm the only asian guy in town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 01:19 PM |
| 25 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenDespite my cynicism I have a fun outgoing personality (irl not online), yet the misfortune of being a asian guy in a all-white environment. Women I befriended in life were all to quick to designate me as the 'male bestie' in the bunch, while I was never considered a 'creep' my girl friends gave me the reputation of the "harmless funny asian guy". They never tried to hook me up with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you truly believe subs like askwomen, twoX, etc., give reliably useful advice for whatever your specific situation is - or that they genuinely care about you or hope that you have a good outcome?twoX logic: "there is nothing wrong with enjoying string-free sex with hot studs, incel" "if a man is only after your body he is predatory and gross" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 07:24 PM |
| – | Looking younger as a man appears to be unattractive to women in their late 20sYou literally have to hire whores that would fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 04:43 PM |
| – | Looking younger as a man appears to be unattractive to women in their late 20sI keep telling her I’m 30 and so far it didn’t help, if anything it has the opposite effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 04:21 PM |
| – | Looking younger as a man appears to be unattractive to women in their late 20sthat is a nice "women aren't pedos like men" thought to cope with. But even when I tell them my real age they aren't interested because I lack the aged looks that go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 04:09 PM |
| – | Looking younger as a man appears to be unattractive to women in their late 20sI'm already 30 and the women who shoot out unsolicited compliments on my looks are either teenagers or grannies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 04:03 PM |
| 21 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a man"just go out of your house and meet women bro, its that easy! just not in the office bro, women are there to work not flirt. neither at the gym bro, women are there to workout not get hit on. also not in clubs and societies bro, women are there to pursue their hobbies and not get annoyed by you hitting on them. also not on the street bro, thats just creepy. also not on old because thats just for hookups bro. also not in nightclubs bro since because women are shallow there. in conclusion, you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 08:10 PM |
| 20 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manHow many adult women say they want to "feel small"? "I don't date short guys because I like to feel small and protected" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Self-hatred in dating is very underrated and rarely discussedthe recent explosion of Kdramas, Kpop, and anime have given asian guys a boost as well, those men don't look anything like the average asian man. At least american/european cinema sometimes casts (or at least used to) leading men that resembled the average Joe. Such presentation is completely absent in Korean media. The leads look like specimens carefully cultivated by a industry that intends to produce flawless looking human porcelain dolls. To put things into context; in the west we had 'organ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?1950s: "Yuck!, interracial marriage is borderline bestiality" 1980s: "just because sodomy is legal now doesn't make it right to be a homo" 2010s: "legality =/= morality, inkwel" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?Most likely a 19 year old has not held a long term job or managed mone "you need to be a in the workforce for 5 years befor you can consent with an older guy" peak america. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?"young women don't date older men, it's a redpill fantasy cope" "young women are an easy target for older men" pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseWhy do men only seek sex, sex, and sex? It's pitiful honestly. you answered your own question: the enticing part of sex for men is actually having a real woman givingyou sexual validation and feeling/looking at her soft, feminine body. Abot will never be able to replicate her energy with everything that itentails. A sexbot can't even have pheromones, that's strictlybiological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:56 PM |
| 7 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worsePorn is a convinient tool to pacify men, women secretly approve of it. Just imagine a trend where men start abandoning porn en masse, choosing instead to go out to touch grass and bother women with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50why are you stalking me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Was referring to discrepancy in statistics involving actual dating preferences (where asian men finish last) and interracial marriage . This is written like one of those stupid Vice "meet Venezuela's Transgender ketamine dealers" articles that exploits something utterly niche ans obscure and magnifies it for sensationalist reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50If young men are so heckin cute and sexy , why is sexlessness among them on the rise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:09 PM |
| 15 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50Yes, I will never peak because I wasn't born to be that 21yo 6'2 white anglo saxon protestant trust fund kid who plays quarterback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50women here simultaneously disparage "the wall happening at 30" because they know plenty of hot women who don't look no different from their 20s, yet men over 30 can be spotted on sight because they're crusty and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50many of us still have the major ick factor with relationships like yours as do white supremacists get uneasy about interracial relationships and homophobes around gay couples. What the fuck is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Why are white men open to date asian women, but white women into asian guys are rare as fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 05:36 PM |
| 3 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentTry being an asian male. Women will like you, but slso assume you’re asexual and even if you flirt they think you’re joking. This us how deep the conditioning runs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.even progressive libtards/leftists here speak of "dating market", "High value", "Low value" men/women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.Plenty of shy guys without much experience. No one hates them. No one hates the invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealisticbecause pdd mommies claim bottom heavy fat girls are in the same league as footballers with rippling muscles. XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itWhy are american women especially such shameless goldiggers? Not even eastern europe cares that much about shit like "status" like american women do. It seems bizarre that despite living in a first world/relatively progressive nation where they enjoy equal rights, are integrated in the academic/workforce earning their own money, yet status, power and money matter so much to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:29 PM |
| 0 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealistic180 lbs and muscula I want a thicc gamer girl that just wants to netflix and chill, I have no reason to get into extreme fitness, as I'm not into fit cardio chicks at all. And I bet you yourself still just are able to pull average (overweight) chicks even tho you're overcompensating by being a gymrat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealisticNo, I’m asian, which for white women is roughly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:12 PM |
| 7 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealisticIf that’s what YOU can get Just world fallacy, bet you believe starving children in africa aren't pulling themselves by the bootstraps hard neough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women do not naturally desire older men; they are forced to settle for them; and have a strong preference for men their own age.Yes , this is true. That is why young virgin men should not sit and wait, but harass and bother as many women as they possibly can before they age out of being young and sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:07 PM |
| 21 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealisticI’m 5’11, slim, luscious hair, clear skin, nice smile, thick eyebrows and narrow eyes. I have a narrow yet defined jaw and high cheekbones… according to pdd my ‘looksmatch’ is a 300lbs woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | When does dating market decline for men?if women love dating their peers so much, why are there so many young incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, how doe attraction feel like to you?90% of women in this thread: "I'm kinda demi so I need to be friends first to even develop attraction" women in every other thread "Omg stop trying to befriend women with the intent of eventually dating them" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 08:47 AM |
| 11 | When does dating market decline for men?I never uderstood this… ageism seems like entirely looks driven. So are balding 20 year olds “over the hill” by pdd logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?judging by your username, are you autistic? No, I never had a problem detecting a woman's disinterest and even disdain. Which is pretty much opposite of not getting social cues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?Why is there a rise of young incels if women are now "dating men their own age"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 13 | Why do so many women (and some men) here act as if men date younger women because it's easier to land them?it's a coping (yes, coping, and I will use this word) mechanism deployed by users here which involves a clear contradiction: Young women don't fall for older dudes because they are crusty and gross Somehow all the women telling us this have dated one in the past and need to warn naive young ones not to fall for these seducers especially in America you have a bad mixture of 3rd gen feminism coupled with some badly translated Foucault digested through pop academia and shat out on social media by p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.What's really scary is this "know your place" argument you're presenting, if it was broken down on racial lines would be white supremacy 101. Most women would love a Jim Crow for the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Know who you are. Le know your heckin place argumentum. Then riddle me this;, what if I happen check the boxes of 'conventional attractiveness (well groomed, tall, thick hair, nice teeth, high cheekbones....), but also happen to live in a environment where white is ideal and my ethnic origins alone are probably a breaker for most women? Do I "shoot my shot"; or stick to my place in the racial hierarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Show me your ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Fucking this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:34 PM |
| 2 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?younger women sometimes like handsome older men because they think these Chads will have baby fever and wont play around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.men are like that because they're terrified of losing their sex appeal. But the notion that gap relationships involve money is ridiculous (unless were talking grandpa dating women in their 20s)? I live in a state where women earn roughly as much as men, and are starting to outperform them, and some women STILL date older guys. For those women the appeal is in the seasoned look itself, not seeking some ulterior material benefit . Women who deny this are like the guy who says that men into thicker… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.I sometimes think a cornerstone of feminism is the inability to accept the nature of female sexuality. I think, especially in America, you have a bad mixture of 3rd gen feminism with some Foucault digested through really bad pop academia by people unable to fully understand them. That's why your feminists have this schizoid attitude toward bodily autonomy: she goes wild during sprink break? "her body her choice! inkwel!" she happens to fall for an older guy? "she's basically a child you sick fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.The problem with dating women my age is that the closer to 30+ they get the more they seem to love the "matured" male look. So if you're a older guy who happens to look younger you have a harder time dating them. It really feels like they're self-conscious about appearing as the older one when next to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.her logic is already spreading to fat women; several times I've read a comment made by a former fat chick who describe how her low self-esteem made her an easy target for predatory men who used her for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.Why are you assuming I’m in the same league as unkempt women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 10:55 PM |
| – | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).Will you actually listen when we speak? Are you an engaging conversationalist? Are you funny? Yes, and all these qualities have made me a good friend, close confidant, the guy to whom she spills her her heart out at 3am after it got broke by the fuccboi she banged on the first date... never a lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.that you're most probably downplaying how attractive her man is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:05 PM |
| 7 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.if women banged more timid shy skinny-fat nerdy boys they wouldn't turn to Andrew's toxic advices. He's the Frankenstein's monster your preferences created . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:02 PM |
| 6 | If it were more normalized for men and women to be friends, subs like this wouldn’t existthen why do my women friends always blow me off with "i love you as a person, but don't feel attraction sorry"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:53 PM |
| 4 | What is personally a hot man for you?tl:dr: a hot man cannot have autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | What is personally a hot man for you?it's the "Not like the other girls" preference, but they all have one thing in common tho: they want a the white "hipster", someone into "alternative" fashion sense, a conventionally attractive face + some tats and piercings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What is personally a hot man for you?lemme guess they were all white, case closed. you indeed have a type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Finding a relationship is way easier than making friends as an adult.A woman saying it's easy to find someone down for a quick fuck. Color me fookin' surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:18 PM |
| 14 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyYou have to know your league and behave accordingly. A male 5 hitting on a female 9 as if he were a male 9 is gonna creep her out try to determine your league when you're an asian operating in a mostly white enviroment. Yeah, I can look myself in the mirror and point out "well my face is pretty symmetrical, I have a nice smile, and am well groomed", but the enviroment where women were raised on believing asians were these unattractive nerdy side-characters the average tubby woman with greasy hai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:24 PM |
| 9 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyhe's really average, He is tall, broad shouldered, fit, has thick luscious hair, clear skin, high cheekbones, full lips, hooded eyes = average. lmao now I know why 80% of men are rated as below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyThey say “Conventionally unattractive” as if they’re talking about Quasimido, but they’re refering to guys like this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?lemme guess he's white, tall and conventionally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?What happens when you try to ask them out? Or do the girls just gay-zone you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?I’m part asian. And for some reason women expect me to fit the asexual goofball sidekick role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:04 AM |
| 12 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?When I try to express interest I get the feeling women are either shit at picking up that you're flirting with them, or consciously refuse to believe you have the nerve to be trying to steer it "that way". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:56 PM |
| 5 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Do you also express your sexual desire to them? Yes, I make it flirty quite early on and considering I'm neither fat, ugly or short... I'm starting to suspect a they might be writing me off a priori due to my racial composition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:41 PM |
| 66 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?This sub has the assumption that you just need to "talk to women" implying the guys are neckbeards incapable of striking a convo and who only every so often wander to a anime convention where they stare at girls feet with a rapey expression on their face. I'm clean, smell like flowers, I talk to women and they like talking to me. They even reach out to me. But always and only as a friend, a close friend, confidant even. So pardon me if I'm starting to suspect that the redditors blaming personalt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:40 PM |
| 19 | How do women benefit from having a hoe phase?womyn: "ew, its gross because he only wants to use her body for sex" also womyn; "there is nothing wrong with a woman having casual sex for the sake of it" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 12:05 PM |
| 0 | How do women benefit from having a hoe phase?You guys are constantly whining about how you don't get enough sex outside of relationships, yet you don't want women to have hoe phases? because "hoes" don't have casual encounters with average guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 11:07 AM |
| 9 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI smell like fucking flowers and women still don't see me "that way", where exactly should I improve? ib4 "its ur personality" They love me as a close friend tho. inb4 "maybe try and build a nice career" I'm not into golddiggers. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:03 PM |
| 14 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menWhy is that when you are relentlessly chasing women, they always avoid you. But when you finally stop chasing them and just live your life, women suddenly FIND YOU! This is not what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:58 PM |
| 8 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menbut a moral failing. this is a constant trope in popular media; the guy who fails to get the woman is either a jerk, a bore, or evil. Unless we're talking about jewish nerdy loser chasing the girl type of romcoms, but even those guys are now rebranded as problematic proto-incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:55 PM |
| 15 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menits the "pull yourself by the bootstraps" advice given out by women who refuse to acknowledge the dating market is completely rigged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?not a man child who will only be attracted to me while I'm young. more proof the "old men are dirty and gross" is tightly intertwined with your own fear of aging and hitting the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 12:43 PM |
| 30 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?Why didn't you look for a wife in your 20s? because normies told him not to bother women, and gave him the insipid "just work on yourself and the right one will come by one day" advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?this sub is so weird, women here cry foul when men talk about the Wall happening at 30 and disparage female aging, but will eagerly hop on the "old men are dusty and gross" train when it suits their narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?Tell me you exclusively fuck tall middle class white guys without telling me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Attraction is more subject than you thinkShe finds asian Chads attractive and thinks of herself as “quirky” while her normie friends find white anglo-saxon protestant Chads attractive. Thats the “subjective” part in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Attraction is more subject than you thinkHow the fuck is the guy in the gif you posted average? He looks tall, lean, has a nice face and a head full of hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 04:42 PM |
| 9 | Do men really get better with age?Nobody gets ”used for sex” when it requires both parties consent. it’s not a onesided activy you puritan freak. They either consent to sex, or don’t. You’re making it sound like someone owes you something for fucking lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?Maybe because the first reason people go to college is not to get laid? ridiculous, greek life is synonymous with wild partying and sex for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 04:11 PM |
| 13 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?Because women don’t walk around with the goal of getting laid you fuck the same few "fuccbois" and then complain you got fuckzoned and how the only thing men care about is getting their dick wet. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?you met a guy, you clicked personality-wise, he was “objectively” attractive, if he wasn’t he’d remain just a friend, your “demisexuality” makes no difference here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | "The average looking guy has it hard"I actually like the 30something look among pretty women, I like when they fatten up a bit, if its in the right places. But women my age mostly go for guys who look like military contractors. No matter how much I'd "work out", this age group simply prefers tall white anglo-saxon protestants with beards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:10 AM |
| 2 | 40% of high school students have had sex, declined from 48% in 2007I'm waiting for the ppd mommy to tell us that this is fine, that sex is overrated, that there is nothing wrong with the increasing atomization of society since who really desires the emotional turbulence of a relationship when you have pizza, xanax and netflix? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:32 AM |
| 1 | "The average looking guy has it hard"doesn't apply when you're an asian guy and average or even above: *inb4 "but zoomer girls now are more open to asian me-" I'd get called "predatory" for going for zoomie women at this age, so I'm stuck with women raised on "le bucktoothed asexual nerd" stereotype about asians . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:29 AM |
| 3 | So true lol.When it comes to basic body and face structure men have very clear preferences. We prefer an hourglass mid-body, breasts, ass, angel face, hour glass and pear shaped women are much more common than men over 6ft, now include the over 6ft+broad shoulders combo ideal and were down to single digit percentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:31 AM |
| 47 | So true lol.you're in a open relathionship bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 02:07 PM |
| 24 | So true lol.oh, you're prob American so there is a misunderstanding; when I say they like me "as a friend" I mean it literally, the friendship is pursued on their part; they love being around me, they'd initiate hangs out with me, text me about random things, their break ups etc. I'm the guy they discuss Margaret Atwood novels with, not some neckbeard weirdo who stares at girls feet at a anime convention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 12:20 PM |
| 21 | So true lol.we all know it’s your shitty personalities women absolutely adore me "as a friend". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 12:12 PM |
| 10 | There is a different set of rules when you're an asian guywhy do white dudes find asian women attractive, but white women aren't nearly that much into asian men is the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | There is a different set of rules when you're an asian guythere are none here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?oh look it's Chads, but doing heroic chic this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | what makes for a sexually attractive male? "I find these A-List Hollywood sex symbols nice to look at, but I also find this younger conventionally attractive white guy celebrity also attractive, just my quirky tastes teehee" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:00 AM |
| -4 | Single Women, what are your standards?happy about the rise of kpop, it opens their dating pool and puts asian men on the map are women really such slaves to mass media that they needed a seal of approval from large industries to signal "looky asian men can be sexy romantic leads too" to start opening up to them? Truly reveals your state of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:19 AM |
| 3 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?I’m an artist and I draw men as tall, broad shouldered, muscular, long thick neck, good jaw, big hands, interesting facial expressions, nice hair etc women's tastes are as narrow as were those in 1930s Germany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don’t like porn because it raises the bar too high on looks and sexual performanceYou’re not that hot, you’re on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 10:21 AM |
| 10 | If you're against open relationships, you're pathetic.Only see fuggos in my these ‘arrangements’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Having sex when the other person is drunk shouldn’t be considered sexual assaultwe believe a person is criminally accountable for driving while extremely intoxicated. Charge the drunk person having sex with rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 09:00 AM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardswomen will date anyone as long as they’re not an asshole, really. the amount of time they loved me as a friend, but not romantically got me thinking otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:57 AM |
| 13 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsAs far as primal lust goes I unironically prefer this over "fit and healthy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI replied to your comment which said that women who pull off the thick look are a minority just like the men who can pull off the 'dad bod'. They're not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsthere are 14% of men 6ft and over, even less are those who'd have broad shoulders with it, meanwhile 30% of women have either hourglass/pear shaped fat distribution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsnowhere near equivalent: a "dad bod" is still imagined as a guy with broad shoulders and over 6ft (we're talking single digit % of men have both), this is a much smaller % than there are pear shaped women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standards“Thicc” is only “hot” when she’s pear/hourglass shaped. I have yet to see them run after apples… "b-but they only like fat women if that are X shaped, their standards are still too high!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsits clinically obese, and it illustrates my point even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty Standardsjust because some men are so desperate that they will settle, doesn't mean they see those women as "ideal Many men, myself included, have a preference for thick, even fat women like the girl on the left. We do not see it as 'settling'. No amount of Karl Lagerfeld conditioning will make me prefer a thigh-gap over a pair of chunky thighs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThe fash industry pushing the twig look was run and cultivated by rich female socialites and homosexuals. Not straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:08 PM |
| 101 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsMany women claim to like dad bod guys. dad bod is a code word for big frame with a layer of McGrease underneath it. No woman who says she likes a 'dad bod' imagines your average sedentary flabby office worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsthat guy would get next'ed even if he had humble standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsliterally no fat woman wants you to date her if you don't like her body. filthy lie , many fat girls are into athletic men with rippling muscles who will fuck, but never dare to be seen with a fatty. it breaks their heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:27 PM |
| 57 | Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimumIt’s so bizarre, stories of women getting involved with men who don’t wash their ass, and then you have incels who religiously floss every day still clinging on that hope grooming habits will get you noticed . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | The "Nice Guy" is a scapegoatthe assertive guy is more likely to be the more aggressive one the protective one is more likely to be the more controlling one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 01:16 PM |
| 5 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?even women who complimented my looks, which I then took as 'green light' to start making moves, were shocked when I expressed romantic interest. You see, there is something about the east-asian appearance that makes most western women simultaneously feel comfortable as they will perceive you as completely harmless. They like me as long as I fit the stereotype of a desexualised funny asian boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you define as flirting?“I kept looking back because I saw a weird guy looking at me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:53 AM |
| 4 | What do you define as flirting?You must be shooting way out of your league then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:16 PM |
| 10 | What do you define as flirting?"just playfully touch her and if she doesn't pull back its a good sign, bruh" Girl: "I instinctively freeze whenever a creepy guy touches me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:09 PM |
| 3 | What do you define as flirting?what do you define as overt flirting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:05 PM |
| 8 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessthe study you're referring to, and I know which one it is, because it's the only study you smuggies keeps re-posting without reading it thoroughly showed that men who rated themselves higher also gave higher ratings to women. "participants’ attractiveness would be positively correlated with their judgments of others’ attractiveness for men, but not for women." (2015: page 7) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badIt’s that she wasn’t giving enthusiastic consent and he didn’t pick up the cues that she wasn’t into it. and when they are giving unambiguous active consent plebbitors find out she's actually under 25 and the guy in his 30s and still dismiss all the 'enthusiasm' because 'brains doesn't finish developing until 25', its always with the goalposts with you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:45 AM |
| -3 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesthey all want to be treated as a "pErSoN" until she wants that 6'3 bad boy with tats and a big dick to choke her while he's plowing her from behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:42 PM |
| 15 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesthe advice "maybe start treating women as people before relathionship material" is already framed to be given to men who have their expectations set; a desire to enter a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:20 PM |
| 19 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesif a man catches feelings for her which will not be reciprocated and backs away; mischievous smuggies will be there to frame it as "just wanted to get is dick wet". easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ?but it was not sexual at that point, more aesthetic. what the fuck is aesthetic attraction? I either see women as cute or not-so-cute, there is no "she's pretty but makes my dick go soft" type of aesthetic looking woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?they're receptive if you're attractive as in "ripped gym bro Chad" or attractive as in "stylish twink with a pretty face"? What I'm asking is if they have a type, do they lean toward slim men or bulky ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?what passes as a 'ugly' dude in your book? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:20 PM |
| 0 | The 6 Ft Tall White Man Syndrome.The older women get, the more conventional looking partners they seem to pick. I'm quite exotic looking, not really ugly, been called 'pretty' (chicks referring to my face), and the type of guy women go in their mid 20s is almost always the cargo-shorts wearing 6foot something bearded white dude. Blackpillers are wrong when saying its "Chad only" its more "just look as normal relative to the environment you're in as possible". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menVacation in northern Italy, I bought them there. In Italy skinny jeans are still pretty much the standard. Probably has something to do with lower obesity rates there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 12:33 PM |
| 4 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menHigh standards for everyone but himself typical scrub What 'high standards' are you yapping about? Chunky girls are my preference, in fact I wouldn't mind cellulite, small tits, or strechmarks, my only preference is that she's got to be bottom heavy. Picrel is my 30inch waist, nothing to brag tho , just to dispel the assumption that I'm some fat unkempt schlub demanding a dainty waifu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:58 AM |
| 2 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menbold assumptions you got there, I actually prefer fat girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menhe wants a pretty, petite, feminine woman, but he's not a big, masculine dude What passes as a feminine in woman is a spectrum; tall, short, skinny, chubby. What pass as masculine, like you yourself implied, seems to come only in one shape; big and burly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menYes, redpillers and evolutionary psychologists conveniently leave this part out for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menWhy are you asking this? Do you just assume I'm shaped like a woman? I don't have wide hips, neither do I have moobs. Are you implying that anything less than a Chad V taper muscly physique is 'effeminate'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menI’m asian so yeah I’m not the stereotypical midwestern bearded bro in cargo shorts, I guess this passes as being “feminine” in the states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:42 PM |
| 6 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menI’m a chill pizza & netflix guy, I’m not into gymrat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menWestern women have a warped sense of what masculine is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menWhy don't we age well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:13 PM |
| 4 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menAmong those I know personally they usually dropped the twinks they dated in high school, and 'brought home' men who were at least a head taller than them and looked like military contractors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menThey don't necessarily go for typical Chads, they do however have a strong preference for burly hairy men with big heads and a designer stubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 28 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signalling'Dad bod 'is a code word for 'big frame'. Women imagine Chad's bone structure with a layer of McGrease over it. Women like it because it's still a top % foundational physique, yet will feel less self-conscious about a big strong guy who also looks like he 'let himself go' a bit. Show a woman the average 'dad bod' where the fat doesn't store in the upper body, shoulders and arms, but around the belly and they'll say "ew, he has a skinny-fat sedentary office body" and then go on about hot oil rigg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenYou are slutshaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womentechnically still not full adults technically they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenthere is a sea of available woman in their 20s and early 30s no they are not. You can look it up, these are the years where she is least likely to be single. Single women between 25-30 are rare, in fact most of them are in a semi-settling down phase with one of the guys they had a on-and-off fling going on since high school or college. They are not open to meet new men. To tell a early 30s single guy to pick from this narrow pool is wishing for a incelpocalypse to happen. These women will be 'on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 16 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenI can't keep up with the terminally online; In 5 years we went from "no' means 'no", then "the absence of 'no', doesn't mean 'yes", to "Yes' means 'Yes" and finally that "it has to be a enthusiastic 'Yes", but now its; "even if she did consent, she really didn't because she doesn't really know better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenHow can all these pdd women even tell 30 year old man from a 20 something, while simultaneously disparaging 'the wall' as a misogynistic myth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:00 PM |
| 11 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenYou can't really consciously choose who you will fall for in cold calculative manner like redditors think; they act like they have it figured out stage by stage; riding the carousel during your college years, getting that degree, starting that career, settling down, grinding for that mortgage until they get fat, put on xanax, and their knees give out by the time they're 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenwhy would "experience" have to be a prerequisite for two adults to fuck, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenyour cynicism was just a projection of what society has in store for you; the wall. Hang on to those 15 minutes of fame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womennormies wanting it both ways; "I'm 30 and still adulting , becuz I'm a kid at heart" and "I'm 30 and see people below 25 as literal children", this is the schizoid attitude a generation of people now have. When "love don't judge" meets extreme prejudice and fear on the other hand, redditors sound very much like 1980s Tipper Gore suburban housewives when it comes to this . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenmost women trash their ex. There is nothing out of the ordinary here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:10 PM |
| 18 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenThe "brain isn't developed till 25" argument is a case of severe junk-framing of already bad pop-science articles. Never did neuroscientists suggest or less have reached a consensus on anything that would even imply 18 year olds are incapable of informed consent. If prefrontal cortex (what they're here referring to) was so underdeveloped then people under 25 should get their drivers licenses revoked asap, since with a brain so 'unbaked' you should be nowhere near a steering wheel of a 3000 pound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenroom to find themselves and mature a bit, She's mature enough to do onlyfans, but isn't mature enough to fall for an older gentleman? Normies...lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenall the middle aged MALE chefs kept going on about how gross and weird I also saw male chefs catcalling women and making homophobic remarks about gay couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenFathers aren’t moral arbiters. I was never accepted by a gf’s racist dad because I am mixed and her family wanted ‘blonde blueeyed grand children’ some day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How do people feel about people who only approach them because they are attractive?Redditors don’t have social circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leaguemuh value What is this pseudo-new age cultist speak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leaguethe whole of toxic masculinity could be undone the moment women would stop rewarding these ruthless competitive psychopaths with sex. this is why we can't have nice things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueYour league is what you can get, sweaty... women get banged by hot guys who won't commit all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:55 PM |
| -7 | Have you ever been having sex with a long term partner and suddenly become aware they’re not enjoying it and having “maintenance” sex with you aka don’t want you sexually anymore?What does “sucking” at it even mean? It’s not like there is anything more to it than thursting movements, but women keep bringing up “he got boring in bed” whithout explainig what exactly made it so? It just seems like an excuse that his body doesn’t turn her on and he isn’t willing to put a half-hour clown show beforehand to entertain her into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractiveHow dare women have physical preferences waaahhhh they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 08:01 AM |
| 5 | It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractivetry to date short girls "I want a tall guy to feel safe and protected" try do date big girls "I want a even taller guy to feel small and feminine" try to date skinny girls "I love to stay in shape so naturally I'm into fit muscular guys" try to date a overweight chubby girl "no reason to settle, many fit men love a real woman with curves" no comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Most women cannot find men attractive because they confuse love with physical attractionLe “I love big burly barell-chested fat guys with ginger pubes” not-like-the-other-girls girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 14 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manhe's just a conventionally attractive white guy, what he recited to her would be cringe-tier if it came from the chubby guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manhe doesn't even know what only fans is, I though women preferred guys who aren't porn addicted coomers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manHow do you know what's general and what's an outlier? because I fucking love science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manyou're referring to outliers, I'm talking about general patterns here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women need to stop telling men "you can also wear makeup" because it doesn't work as even close as it does for average women in terms of attractivenes.If your average mechanic at the autobody shop wore makeup, he’d probably look like an awkward oddly-proportioned drag queen and women would avoid him like the plague. this. When women talk about their love for men in makeup, they picture in their minds all the pretty and elegant men doing it. Like that guy from Peaky Blinders, and even then it's a no-makeup-makeup look, certainly not a drag inspired look that annoying youtuber with broccoli hair has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:59 AM |
| 10 | How much does "sexual dimorphism" play a role in dating preferences these days?Each generation has its “bad boy” craze and with it idiotic "manly mens men" wondering “why are women attracted to guys who look like lesbians?” unless you were born yesterday you should see that we are going through this shit in cycles: before kpop it was emo, an before that it was Tokio Hotel, and before them pop punk, Nirvana, Dicaprio and Depp, Roxy music and the Beatles... even young Elvis was considered “effeminate”. But these men looked flashy and pretty, much like the mandarin male duck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?She’s describing the ex that dumped her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Most men don't get laid because they don't approach and talk to enough womenwhy are you telling and adult stranger who to or not to date like some fucking washed-up calvinist matchmaking grandma from the 18th century? Aren't millennial relationships supposed be based on mutual chemistry and attraction between adults ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 12:19 PM |
| 11 | no one ever really has their life together and it does not have a bearing on how you are perceived by the opposite sexFucking this. I hate the soyaks here bragghing about making six figures by 30 as if its normal anywhre outside white suburbanite upper middle class descendants . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?is it because they are too pretty? would they have more sex appeal if a pretty face had some flaws? like a ugly nose on a otherwise angelic face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Do you think attraction is mostly looks?Women in this thread: “I’d totally date a 7 over a 9/10 providing he had the most amazing personality” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 12:45 PM |
| -2 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?what kind of woman would go around saying you have beautiful cheekbones without thinking you look attractive at the same time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?ohhh, come on you wanted to fuck him, but had your reservations about the age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?“She may be giving unsolicited compliments on your face , but it doesn’t mean anything she’s just being nice you stupid inkwel” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:03 PM |
| -7 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?Sick and thoroughly emasculating, imagine a man going out his way to compliment a woman he doesn’t find attractive at all. I can’t. Only women do fucked up shit like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Is there a sexually unappealing type of good looking?but she didn't like my shirt, she liked my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old's dont want 30 + year old's"this is why she choose Chad over your pathetic incel ass" ... until the Chad is an older guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalI think the whole gym bro thing is pretty homosex and not trad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 10:58 AM |
| -1 | Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of anglesthere’s nobody holding a gun to my head neither do adults in consensual relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 10:53 AM |
| -1 | "As long as it's legal" is a common response whenever the subject of significant age gaps in relationships comes up. Is it an adequate response?In discussions about morality, pointing out what's legal or not legal ina specific jurisdiction is not going to convince many people. These ones using "morality" as argument should understand that morality is presentist, in 1960s where some states just began legalizing interracial marriage it was Asa Earl Carter (the famous writer) who said "they're legalizing bestiality" -- what was becoming legal was still seen as immoral by most of the population till the 1990s. The thing with interraical dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:29 AM |
| -1 | 20 year old's dont want 30 + year old'sI love the salt my thread caused. Using your "Logic" someone could easily bring out divorce rates among interracial marriage to argue against them. Or write how majority of american women don't consider asian men as romantic options... as "owns". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:19 AM |
| -1 | Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of anglesVoting are usually an individual’s choice. They don’t involve another person manipulating the situation def something a person with a underdeveloped prefrontal cortex would write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:10 AM |
| -1 | "As long as it's legal" is a common response whenever the subject of significant age gaps in relationships comes up. Is it an adequate response?Never thought I'd see radfems and reddit soyak white knights come to a point where they'd be using 1980s Moral Majority type of reasoning against what goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 07:56 AM |
| -2 | Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of anglesWhat are you getting out of a woman that young as opposed to a woman closer to your age? women my age think I'm too "youngish" and "boyish" looking. Why should I chase or pressure women my age into dating me when a 21 year old approached me herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault."Its desperate men getting excited over a compliment on their sweater" No it isn't, I got called "pretty" by a woman during a random conversation, she'd point out the features and all, and still then back-pedal on it "oh, stop over thinking it" , lol you are calling me attractive to my face and I'm the moron for interpreting it "that way"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.women: "I would compliment his sweater to let him know I like him....teehee, do you think he will notice?" also women: "why do men interpret compliments as a invitation for something more? jeez" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the male version of showing skin to boost attractiveness?All the women here revealing they only want clothing which reveals a strong, muscular athletic body. There is no “ fat goth gitlfriend” male equivalent in a womans world : its all about showing your ripped chest, calves, forearms, shoulders. No bellies no fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessWhenever a white girl finds me cute, at least one of her friends will point out “but he’s asian, ew”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Women overrate "good communication" because of halo effectthat is how it was designed to be used, you're not that naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWhen I was 20 dating a 19 year old her friends tried to talk her out of it because they couldn’t imagine her being with “an asian”. When I was 29 dating a 20 year old it was because I was asian and too old for her. 100 years ago these people would have had me hanging upside down for defiling “white womanhood” . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherAge gap discourse really is twitter’s pizzagate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:44 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherbusybodies will tear into anything; my uncle was dating a moroccan woman and he got “what could a christian boy possibly have in common with a muslim girl?” Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Young woman doing Onlyfans - her body her choice Young woman going naked for likes - her body her choice Young woman having an abortion - her body her choice Young woman doing sex work - her body her choice Young woman genuinely falling for an older guy - "you've been groomed sis" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveShe said she was her mom, that this girl was 18 and still in highschool, and that she wanted her to come home now or she was calling the police. in what bumfuck-of-a-place are 18 year olds still not adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveNo one is forcing women to date older guys, and no one is forcing men to date promiscuous women. What is happening though is that whenever this topic is brought up the loudest voices will be frothing over already existing relationships involving such couples via projection. The young seething chicks here, as the 'girls beware' Karens , remind me of those self-conscious homophobic guys who were 'grossed out' at homosexuality because the mere existence of gay men meant their straight self could be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:18 AM |
| 11 | Why are men less accepting of masculine woman but woman more accepting of feminine manBy 35 they want a freakin lumberjack Its different with east asian women, but 100% true for western women. Most of the girls I grew up with went through this "skinny artsy boyfriend" phase as teens, by the time she was in her 20s it was "sporty and outdoorsy" type, and now at 30 its the lumbersexual. They are a hive mind as far as this goes, and the redditor "not like the other girls" girl who claim to be into "feminine men" it always turns out its some confused asexual chick with a dying libdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:45 AM |
| 10 | Why are men less accepting of masculine woman but woman more accepting of feminine manWestern women have no idea what a feminine looks like, the average user here thinks slim guy with floppy hair is an example of "feminine" man. JFL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:36 AM |
| 12 | The most important personality trait when it comes to attraction is humour for menClass clowns are rarely seen as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:23 AM |
| -1 | Modern society is wrong. Women do not love or have real sexualities, but use sex and love as a weapon and a resource.Words of a man too ugly to be desired is what you're trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaLol, that Socrates quote is completely out of context: he persumably said that to irk a narcy guy named Epigenes by appealing to his ridiculous vanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiawhat was considered to be a fit looking body looks different than todays “fit looking” body. why do men need to achieve auschwitz levels of body fat these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himThose kpop dudes look artificial as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himGive me a case of a beautiful man that isn’t a hot man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himwomen: "we will drop hints if we're into you teehee" also women: "calling you handsome is not a sing we're into you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himIf I really, really am attracted to a guy personally I call him either hot or cute. “Handsome” is more like… admiring art, what about a girl calling a guy pretty or beautiful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Those who have dated men/women in your workplace, what was your experience like? did it get awkward seeing them everyday? or was it a positive experience?To many of us a job is just a gig, it’s not our life , its always american posters treating workplaces as puritan shrines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Social proof seems much more important to women than innate/natural attractionMost of the cringy alpha "hustle" aping around is caused by a underlying idea of what a attractive/ confident/ masculine man is according to women's dating patterns. Women create guys like Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueI have no interest in attracting stupid little teenagers. I'm talking about women 21+, almost all of them grow out of the "skinny boy with floppy hair" phase by then. it is also why I saw my rail thin wigger friends from high school get cute girls then, but struggled outside that environment and that age period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueI overheard "ew he's asian" comments several times by women trying to dissuade their friend from having a crush on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueyou must be american. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leaguewomen seem to be instinctively keen on pressuring each other into hypergamy for some reason, ironically they end up in-fighting for the same few men she and her friends circle agreed are hot. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leaguenot black, but that's a 11/10 in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueMy waist is already 30 inches with a flat tummy, so by any serious medical standard I'm fit, around 14-15% body fat that is, also my hair is quite thick, my skin clear, a bit of a horse face maybe ( jewish genes) oh and dentist say I have almost perfectly aligned teeth. Idk what you're on about? Your advice just seems like goal-post shifting into eternity. Next thing you'll say fit isn't enough so I should get ripped and have a passionate career making six figures, and when I'm aping around like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueIf you ever get approached by women you should get the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leaguemean I assumed it was the type of women you’re actually going after. I assumed chubby girls would be a match because lifestyle-wise they don't seem compatible with gymrats since they themselves spend "netflix and pizza chilling" rather than working our vigorously like the cardio obsessed crowds. But I was wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueWhen things went out of hand even Ayn Rand loving libertarians like Greenspan advocated for interventions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leaguemany average men are getting matched with rarely anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 04:58 PM |
| 16 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their league"just stick to a rigid diet routine consisted of unseasoned chicken and working out hard 4-5 times a week to even be able to compete for fat girls" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueYour league is whoever you can get. lol, so nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?as usual the women who aren't dating older men at all are the loudest seething about it. Idk why exactly is "my friends think it's weird" held up as some moral high ground? I heard women shit on their friends' dating choices from all angles: he's "too ugly" , "ew asian" (I got this one) or when a white girl was dating this pakistani guy her friend asked her: "but don't you want a blue eyed baby one day?" Lel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?will you or your friends be fucking him? A woman's Social circle will shit on almost any guy, sure when she dates an older guy its "he's too old for you sis"; but then again when he isn't he will be "too ugly" or "too short", even when I did everything according to social norms her friends would still go " ew but he's asian" . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?American discourse around age-gaps is like a updated 2.0 version of homophobia/racist prejudice in the sense that opposition against it is argued in terms of a universalized personal disgust "it wrong becuz it gross". Imagine reddit existing in the 1950s and OP opening it with a "what do you think about interracial dating?" the responses would probably be like "ew it's like bestiality" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 9 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Pdd women: “women don’t hit the wall at 30, it’s a misogynistic trope” also pdd women: “ew people over 30 are literally middle aged post-their-prime ghouls” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Do men appreciate male beauty/attractiveness more than women?These awful touch starved men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Do men appreciate male beauty/attractiveness more than women?Yeah, If try to think like a straight woman I’d thought italo guys like this would be attractive, but actual women I know either like the stereotypical Chad or very generic faced white men. They seem to be more averse to unique features than I previously thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:21 PM |
| 4 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"Why would making six figures be so important in a country where women earn their own money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 02:37 PM |
| 5 | This isn’t a men vs women crisis, this is more of an attractive vs unattractive people complexThese days Its womens brains getting over saturated by social media. Imagine being exposed daily to pictures of tall men with rippling muscles and perfect hairlines. It becomes what they imagine as “average”. Irl I never saw a schlubby guy think he’s the looksmatch of a cardio fit babe, schlubby Beckies however rarely think they’re the looksmatch of their fat male counterparts, its always men a head bigger than them and much fitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 37 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveLol women will literally bully each other into hypergamy. I got this one when a white girl had a crush on me and her friend remarked “ew, he’s a chink, you have no taste”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 08:47 PM |
| 26 | The people screaming the loudest about how messed up dating is; are the ones with the most unrealistic standardsNormies constantly advise men to lower their standards, and when they do, women mock them as desperate horn dogs whose attention doesn’t count since “men will literally fuck anything”. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 7 | WhyTF are people so mad at the older/younger dynamic?Age gap discourse will never not be interesting to me because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of angles. The hypocrisy of some liberals/progressives when they talk about letting people love who they love without judgment, and their supposed hatred of stereotyping people and situations that don't involve them personally. The hypocrisy of people who mock incels for thinking in fatalistic ways ("women don't like short/ethnic guys") but will casually make the generic claim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 0 | WhyTF are people so mad at the older/younger dynamic?Why are you setting these arbitrary “socially acceptable” age gaps for ADULTS as if it is any of your business who consenting adults should date in the first place. At 18 (even 16 in the US) her brains are considered baked enough to be trusted to operate a fast and potentially deadly 1.5 ton vehicle in public. At 21 shes she’s old enough to join the army and drone strike a some 50 year old Habibi in afghanistan, but having sex with an older guy is “weird” or “creepy”? Redditors have the most fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | WhyTF are people so mad at the older/younger dynamic?They can start by keeping their noses out of other peoples bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 16 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?You are already doing it: filtering men out for either “just wanting sex” and “beeing needy” if they want more., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 70 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Because they can step out of solitude at almost every given time just by hopping on a dating app or going to a social event. A privilege men don’t have. In this sense women are like that well-off brat going on a hitchhike trip larping as a poor bohemian, before “discovering himself” and returning to flip his rich daddy’s real estate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | "Why do women care less about looks than men?"Why don’t they ever show pictures of “unattractive” men involved in these studies. We get descriptions of conventionally attractive men as men with “nice smiles”, but I suspect these are done with pics of wasp guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?Asian american women do the same when they justify their attraction toward white men: its always height and size; “i need a big guy to feel protected” or “not attracted to asian men because they look like my brother”. Its just that seeking submisive feminine women gets labeled a creepy fetish, a woman having a “swipe left if under 6ft” is just following her evolutionary imperative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?ur autist therefore wrong Nice try abelist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 8 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?The “she’s gorgeous” part just omits the details why a guy thinks she’s fuckable (tits? ass? eyes? or, god forbid, skin tone). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?Yours is a bad case of cognitive dissonance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:48 AM |
| 18 | The '1 in 17 Men Reproduced' Thing May Be Misleadingappeal to social darwinism womens rights Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI treat them like a normal person first and then suggest something more. I can't just dive-bomb with "wanna smash" were your brains fried by Tinder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzonewhat would creating "sexual tension" look like? because it seems like one of those useless vague advices everyone gives out without explaining how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneby normie standards I should at least be doing somewhat ok; thick luscious hair, straight white teeth, clear skin, high cheekbones, 5'11, slim. But then there's the fact I pass as east asian and most girls see you as a harmless asexual goofball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 14 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzonethat's not what the article claims. I'm not arguing with your strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:32 PM |
| 13 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneevery woman seems to be out of a guys league these days: get rejected by a skinny girl "oh, don't you know a skinny girl is automatically above average in the land of fat", try luck with the curvateous chubby gal "oh, didn't you hear? thicc is actually in demand and many hot fit guys are lining up for these already". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:31 PM |
| 14 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.FDS/pinkill couldn’t even articulate themselves without entirely borrowing jargon from the manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:26 PM |
| 10 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.Its more like Marie Antoinette telling the starving plebs to eat cake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 12:16 PM |
| 10 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?I like the slightly fatty look women get in their 30s, but I find these women have even narrower standars of what passes as attractive man. It looks like they exclusively prefer men who look like military contractors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?Is “men will fuck anything” a thinly veiled admission that women see other women as beneath them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 01:40 PM |
| -4 | Do younger women actually like older men?Implying you’re able to tell a 26 year old rrom 24. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives?ffs this is a serious case of pseufoscientific junk framing. While neuroscientists agree that the brain continuous developing into your 20s no consensus among neuroscientists exists that would even consider 18 year olds cognitively impaired to the point they couldn't consent. You're literally buying pop-neuroscience and passing it off as undisputed fact when this argument is mostly brought up when it comes to consenting to sexual relations -- her brains are developed enough to drive a 1.5 ton ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeWomen friendzoning meb they personality-wise click with is a code word for “I think you’re ugly”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't liker/niceguys sub sounds fucked. Major sexually repressed puritan energy there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 5 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeGee spending ones life alone, rejected with little opportunities in between could have made a guy a little desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 15 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeYES, people still mostly date within their social circle, violent abuser types included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:34 PM |
| 16 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeI'm a small town guy, and the machiavellian explanation doesn't hold true in a lot of cases. I see men whose reputation of being violent and abusive is well known still date and fuck, sometimes even women from their exe's social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeI'm a small town guy, and the machiavellian cope is ridiculous. I see men whose reputation of being violent and abusive is well known still date and fuck, sometimes even women from his exe's social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:59 PM |
| 22 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeThe studies you link don't suggest men are more successful with women when they beat women up. a woman has to literally get roughed up to realize that the aggressive guy might be violent as well, yet she can detect major red flags around "nice guys" in advance through the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 15 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't like"HE COULD BE STOMPING LITTLE PUPPIES OR SHOWING THAT NERDY KID HEAD FIRST INTO THE LOCKER, BUT NOWHERE DOES THIS RAISE ANY MISOGYNY RED FLAGS, CHECKMATE INWKEL" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 10 | "Nice Guy" is just a strawman women use to describe men they don't likeI just gave you links to studies showing a correlation between aggressiveness and having more sex, more sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is effectively broken already.Yes, the average woman is overweight and not attracted to the average man. No contradiction here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:37 AM |
| 16 | Many women would probably be struggling with dating if they were menCut a average girls hair short and wipe off her makeup and she looks like the goofy nerd she rejected in college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year oldsyou're so far up your own ass you fail to se the ironic similarities , arguments against gays made by homophobic straight guys were following the same lines: "it's gross to think that there are f\gs out there that would try and get into your pants these days".* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year oldswho is forcing women into relationships with older men? this is like a straight dude justifying homophobia because he might get hit on by a gay guy once in a while. sorry, you wont get to holocaust older adults out of the dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year oldsAt 20 I had a babyface, luscious hair and high cheekbones and 18 year old girl approached me, now at 30 I have a babyface, luscious hair and high cheekbones and only a 18 year old did approached me. Jfl at women my age now pretending its men ignoring them, I never got approached by a woman over 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year oldsPosts like this, with the same “It bad because society don’t approve” talking points, could've been made against interracial or same-sex relationships 10 -20 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?why should a woman's "feelings" be elevated above all as "truth"? women are just as bigoted and capable of irrational prejudice as men. I saw a woman stand up and leave in public transport because a foreign looking brown guy sat next to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?it would be nice if it were like a straightforward chart system: gross teeth -2, nice smile +2, well groomed +1, unkempt -1, but what really no one talks about is how race can play a even greater role. I can have thick luscious hair, clear dewy skin, and a "great smile", yet I never can really tell where I stand in a womans eyes because of my racial composition. Western women generally don't even register asian men as "romantic options" and the treatment I'd get is pretty much same as if I were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:32 PM |
| 6 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?provide examples of "slow build" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 6 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?When I like a guy, I start by lightly touching his arm, shoulder or upper back. several girls initiated touches like that, the last one even held my hands, and squeezed waist. They were still surprised that I took it "that way". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:34 PM |
| -2 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?And he's not touching my breasts/ass, cause that's what it would make it creepy. I don't mean to be offensive but that sounds fucked up. Who dates a man, yet thinks him touching your boobs is "creepy" behavior? Do you also wear a iron chastity belt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 8 | What does being "sexually assertive" even look like?a few examples of those "signals" women give? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice“Don’t worry so much and it will happen eventually” It has been 10 years wouthout anything happening in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad adviceyou're a woman, of course it "just happens" to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice"stop caring so much, focus on yourself, and the right one will come eventually" they say -- then a guy unironically swallows this advice, spends his youth studying, grinding, building a "career", years fly by fast and he founds himself in his mid 30s with the romantic experience of a 10 year old, and then women mock him for being a delusional "redpiller" if he thinks women fill fall for his aging ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad adviceWhat is the alternative? Cross boundaries women have set? hmm how would he gouge where exactly, if anywhere, these boundaries lay with each individual woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:33 PM |
| 25 | Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advicey and just talk like to a woman like a normal human person about normal things, she might even show interest in you. at my workplace the guy who is seen by women as the sexy and assertive epitome of a 'real' man, is also seen as the sleaziest and most inappropriate by many others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one)OP: "I let you cry on my shoulder, why won't you let me smash?! women let men smash for much less than that as even wife beaters do get pussy. The point here however is that women themselves have raised a generation of men with the belief that being a nice guy will get a girl to fall for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 23 | Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one)Women don't find men with great personalities ugly. They find ugly men ugly why do they find even so slight deviations form conventional beauty ugly? Why is that? I find beauty in women of all types, women on the other hand rate men like it were an eugenics test at auschwitz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:47 PM |
| 4 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.converse. You share jokes. You work as a team and snuggle together watch tv together. You like each other because you like one another’s opinions and choices. the furthest the average guy will get this way is the friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 13 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.The issue for men is that tinder showed us that most women’s type is the same six-foot-something white guy with a trapezoid shaped torso, designer stubble and youthful hairline. There is no short fat guy fetish to capitalize on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.You seem like a fragile narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.nothing more "Chill pilled" than a life revolving around rigid diets, and excruciating workout routines . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.What the fuck are you on about? The only thing that really changed is that they tolerate even more abuse from very attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 6 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.He is very average looking, so is Tom Holland no wonder dating is a hellscape for the average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 10 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.yoongi A flawless pretty boy celebrity is your idea of "Unconvetional"? This is why it is hard to discuss these things with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:03 PM |
| 19 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.it didn’t take OnlyFans to show the world that men want to fuck everyone and everything Women here always maintained that porn led to unrealistic expectations of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:30 PM |
| -1 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.A lot of these "types" have somewhat similar features - hourglass figures, big eyes, clear skin oh boy, you're in for a surprise. There are professional mainstream bbw sites with models who are all gut and no ass, getting payed to have sex with fit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 10 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.Adam Driver is Hollywood's idea of "unconventional" when juxtaposed to the wasp men they have been promulgating for the last 100 years. You giving him as an example just shows how ridiculously manipulative media can be with women's perceptions of male beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:01 PM |
| 27 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.feminine-looking guys with feminine facial features I love how this is already a misnomer, a feminine LOOKING man would be someone with gynecomastia and wide hips, not the slim kpop bro with floppy hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want “cute”.Terrible, I’d rather be seen a creep than asexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:23 PM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleBeing a good listener has only made me her bestie, never relathionship material, not even fwb material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)they go after a specific look of average. I look unconventional, I have a combo of striking features (chiselled cheekbones, nice smile) coupled with a bad case of a boxer nose, but in my early 20s girls either thought I was ugly and or that I was hot, now with women over 30 I haven't met a single one who thought I was handsome. They seem to go for normalcy first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)emotionally "maturing" does not explain why their preferences in a man's looks become almost uniform. I work at a hotel and it is gen Z girls who are seen with all types of boyfriends; rail thin to jocks, chubby , nerdy, guys with a feminine slant to them, I see more zoomer girls dating short guys whereas a 30+ woman is always with a guy a head taller than her. Every boyfriend of a 30+ woman looks like this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Women really dislike autistic menWhat were your 'quirky' mannerisms? I talk with my hands a lot, kind of a Woody Allen type of reflexive neurotic humor. it really opened my eyes how women despite claiming to protest stereotypical masculine behavior, are repelled by anything that deviates from the usual swagger bravado. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Women really dislike autistic menYou are making it sound as if I call people ugly or fat to their face, nothing like this ever happened and they were still disturbed for much minor shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 18 | Women really dislike autistic menPeople will ask questions and then get weirded out by an honest answer why do normies do this? Honesty is like a top quality for them, yet they act "omg you did not just say that, wtf is wrong with you?" whenever they get direct answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Women really dislike autistic mennot be be sexist but if you're an extremely logical person that is not going to make women make more sense. this one exactly. the "players" I know literally do a 180 when around women they wish to bed : when we're alone with the boys a lot of them will be quite misogynistic, talking about women they've fucked and dumped like its nothing. But when around girls they put on this facade which any guy knows is complete bullshit, but somehow it all works with women, far better than a autists clumsy ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:20 PM |
| 13 | Women really dislike autistic menhow exactly are autists expected to behave around their "romantic interest" that won't be off putting? or better yet, what are they doing wrong that makes them so unbearably unattractive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 8 | Women really dislike autistic menThe way some autistic people communicate and express themselves is just.. off putting to me examples of "off putting" behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 100 | Women really dislike autistic menYou mean to tell me that you don't have to mask around men? I work as a bartender and whenever I got hit on by a gay man I'd act especially autistic to fend off his advances, they were almost unbothered by it and still down to fuck. Not women tho, they were outta there asap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 24 | Women really dislike autistic menthere is nothing "smart " about it either, it's just low class guys boasting about petty every day things, from drug dealing to "knowing that guy who knows a guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 12 | Women really dislike autistic menI'm talking about a general pattern, not outliers or anecdotes "I know a autist with the face of greek god who slays" ... none of that is relevant in the bigger picture which seems to be pretty black and white at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 32 | Women really dislike autistic menno, if anything shy, introverted, socially awkward girls expect a socially well adjusted man with connections leading an exciting life to come to their rescue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menspare me this "she changed" crap, because a few paragraphs below the man says that with him she is strictly "vanilla". Even if she did hold out for the "right one" if she really loved him she'd be a total slut for him in bed, but she's not. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:02 AM |
| 23 | The “Media” has created unrealistic expectations of dating which has contributed to people dating failures.could the bluepillers on this sub please stop perpetuating the myth that unkempt fat slobs surrounded with piss bottles still demand beach blonde bimbos? This isn't the fucking 1990s anymore. If anything the media has caused a renaissance of obscure fetishism where even plain Janes with fat cellulite ridden asses can have thousands of simps lining to donate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Women, how often have you ended up sleeping with a guy whom you were not attracted to right away?So a guy not only needs to be in the very top % in terms of looks, but also needs a flawless personality on top of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 02:22 PM |
| 7 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'yeah, I noticed being asian is a default no-go for many western women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'all of them are cute in their own way to me, and before someone accuses me of "shooting way above my league" they range from slim and tall, to short, stocky and thick. Some of them doll-up, others weak no makeup and always have greasy hair. Some have nice legs, others a great smile. Its hilarious how reddit imagines an obese, unkempt neckbeard surrounded with piss bottles demanding a cardio barbie doll. I'm living proof that showers and a likable personality (at least to these women) get you now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'so what you're saying is that I'm physically too hideous for love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 21 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'brutal, what the fuck is up with women rewarding violent psychopathic behavior? I even read somewhere than half of the votes the nazis got in 1931 were from women, despite soc dems and kpd trying to court them with a progressive feminist program. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'the pdd crowd here always do this: if the thread were made by a guy who is "making his intentions clear" from the get-go and was still getting rejected they would eagerly remind him that he's probably coming off too strong far too early on, they would say this makes him appear desperate and shallow as he is trying to pick up women he hasn't established any commonalities with. following by endless posts of women claiming their boyfriend/husband started as "friends first". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 9 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'this stands in direct contradiction with the other "prescription" this sub regularly gives to men here; that they shouldn't treat women as potential romantic options but "normal people" instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Being interested in women as people made them treat you like a friend. also this sub: "just start treating women as people and not sex objects bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:30 PM |
| 14 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Def better to risk “creeping” women out before they have the chance to castrate you into a asexual bestie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 15 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'I know a lot of women In relathionships that claim the guy didn’t sweep them off their feet immediately , but became attracted to them over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'“Just restructure your facial bones 😎” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'You failed to explain how being a "good listener" made you prone to being friend zoned its complicated: women would be laughing, staring at me, smiling, even asking me "out" for coffee, and still be surprised I interpreted it "that way". Being a listener put me so far into the friendo-confidant zone they ceased to see me as straight guy, I was entirely desexualised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | People (women especially) mostly only are concerned about large age gaps when it's an older man.wtf why was their comment removed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:07 AM |
| – | Creepy presumes guilt in a person who's done nothing more than make a girl "feel funny".it's a literal translation from my language, "weird" what we use for "creepy" when discussing vibes from a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beGo ahead, be offensive, honestly… i’d like to hear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Well the sexual gap between men and women affect dating in the years to comeMind you, there are 30 year old virgins, posting here right now, guilt-tripped to the point they feel pervy just for looking at a woman sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 31 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to bereddit is a living ecosystem of this contradiction; be sexually assertive and approach -- " its creepy, lewd, harassment, unless it was enthusiastically wanted on her part beforehand" keep assuming she is always just friendly -- "men have lost their balls and don't approach anymore contributing to the shut-in manchild phenomena" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beI listed you what these girls did first: they broke the touch barrier which included touching my hands, waist or playing with my hair not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beI think most of us neurotypicals are actually pretty good judges of when someone is attracted to us no you're not, research shows most men have no clue . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticDon't shit where you eat. why are you obsessed with treating your workplaces as puritan shrines? I work in a hotel and the staff flirts&fucks around all the time. Are you people living in the fucking 1950s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish?Women would stare and smile from afar watching at me as I work, come and talk to me, leaning really close and laugh at every dumb joke I'd tell, girls I barely know would do this, and according to PDD this would be "flirting bro", yet I have the feeling they're so relaxed because they're already boxed me in the "funny and cool but asexual asian guy" box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish?I have an excess of dihydrotestosterone production since puberty and I still have a babyface. It’s mostly popscience that claims high test will make you look hyper masculine the way westerners imagine it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to?What did he look like that made you uncomfortable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Women's preferences in men are culturally engineeredIts a supernormal stimulus. nice... explains how my brains got hacked by social media exposing me to fat girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Women's preferences in men are culturally engineeredI don't think women go for the bodybuilder obsessed with proteins type of guy. I think that's just male fantasy the perception is the problem here: what many women today consider "just a little muscly" would pass as a juiced-up BODYBUILDER physique in the 1920s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with average women wanting to be wooed?Some women choose to be some hot guys “cum slut” , it’s their own agency at work here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 5 | If women are willing to date much older man, is the wall really that big of a problem?Women consistently mistake me for 5-10 years younger so I don’t know how the fuck are they even able to tell whether someone is 1-3 years older 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Coming to a conclusion. I think there isn't much to talk about when it comes to dating and questions about attraction.Why is skinny bad when it comes to men, in a nation otherwise plagued by obeisty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: how often do you give your number out when cold approached? Follow up question, how often do you follow through when he texts you?Her neuroticism is indicative of complete social atomization, coupled with a pathological fear of “being bothered” shows a fragile self of a borderline narsicistic personality, next thing she’ll start citing FBI stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?There are not many gym bros who are going to give one of these women a relationship, though have you heard of the blacks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?Why don't you post a full body pic of yours bizare request but here you go, forget about a dick pic tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?Should i say kpop boys then? then kpop aesthetic is even more elite and inaccessible, it's like going up a notch in the already impossibly high standards of what passes as a attractive asian man. Thea average asian guy simply has no representation, and the inhumanely perfect look the industry cultivates is completely distorting reality. Stupid weeb girls into "asian men" now imagine pale, bb cream wearing, small faced idol as the "standard", I experienced this as I look kinda like a idol up unti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:59 PM |
| 6 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?if that's a "3" I'd be married to one by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?tiktok boys are tall, usually white and have naturally broad shoulders despite being thin, plus a killer jawline, so essentially a few pounds of muscle away from being buff Chads. Their scrawniness is only appealing within the context of their youth, because it's normal when you're barely out of your teens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:56 PM |
| 17 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?I love well proportioned fat (obese even) girls, strech marks or cellulite doesn't bother me, problem is, even those go after gym bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 11 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?How does a fat woman taking a picture of herself prove that fat women are seen as desirable? she has 200k followers on instagram, mostly men, thristing over her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?I did that because of filters for threads which include delicate words like fat or obese… not because I find girls like that “beastly” , on the contrary, i think she’s ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 10 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?don't know about any studies on this, but I see fat women with fit athletic guys all the time. the thicc meme is observable in real life and is supplanting the cardio baywatch bod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.then how would "lowering my standards" and going for "overweight women" (quoting you) help when even clinically obese ones pass as "hot"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.Girls like THIS are both clinically obese and firmly see themselves in the league with tall athletic fit guys because "muh dimorphism" . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.During this journey I met very hot, attractive athletic men & bodybuilders who never once called me fat or put me down. In fact they liked me that's nice and all, but I have yet to encounter hot fit women finding skinny fat guys attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 8 | How are people supposed to find partners?Why should you have been approached? I switched 3 high schools, at every one I got approached bluntly within the first few weeks of my arrival. Then college came and it was like someone switched the lights off, I never again experienced any clear interest from girls, and for what I thought was "flirting" turned out not to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 16 | How are people supposed to find partners?I was at university for 4 whole years, and unlike in high school, I never got approached. I never go the "hey bro, that girl that was with us the other day kinda digs you" told to me by anyone, nor did anyone try to hook me up with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Lying is the only viable dating strategy for menWhere's the lie in "wanna go to my dorm"? Lol, you know where the whole “affirmative enthusiastic consent” came from? It was from a 1990s series of college campus “dorm” incidents. Turns out that men and women didn’t nearly agree on what going back to ones dorm implicates — which resulted in several “rape” acussations where women claimed they had no intention of having sex with the guy just because they went to back to his dorm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.visual examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.What does an average girl look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 09:51 PM |
| – | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?my confidence took a hit when I discovered that everyday women would reject me for lacking those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?Haha why lol? I used grind during the summer as a bartender at a resort, the boomer working there told me as I arrived "find yourself a girlfriend, kid. Fuck like rabbits every night so you can focus during the day". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?with all that stress going on you NEED a girlfriend or a fwb NOW where the two of you can fuck each others brains out each night… not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessYou must be average or overweight/chubby yourself considering you dread over average guys percieving you as their looksmatch, or an easy lay because she’s fat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 04:53 PM |
| 12 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessYou're slowly learning that your rating system differs from women's rating systems. yeah, I noticed that being asian will knock you off a few points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenesssocial media is the hardcore porn for women. Imagine flicking through endless profiles of men with dashing good looks, chiseled jawlines, intact hairlines and bodies sculpted from the Gods, if a case can be made about pornography setting unrealistic expectations in intimacy, it's even worse with social media, a porn set is presented as a scripted fantasy, while girls consume instagram stories as reality within a hands reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenesslearn to read beyond the headlines of the "studies" you post here: The men who rated themselves higher also rated the female participants higher on attractiveness, again the "average" woman got a higher more generous score from the guy "overestimating" his own appeal, and it was women who gave these men low ratings in return on "natural beauty" -- this is a OKcupid pattern of distribution all over again. It is either a deeply flawed and bad study (bluepillers should hope so) as it otherwise conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:42 PM |
| -1 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessYeah, the study you shared is utter popscience trash of the lowest order. t. actual sociology major . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 4 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessThat study is methodology-wise a complete mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessDid they date men below their league? If no, they were only pretending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?Why does america have so many goldiggers despite its feminism? why do your women care about status and carreer so much? it looks even worse than any eastern european “shithole” from where the trope originates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?"the guys into extreme fitness tend to be attractive" -- do you hear yourself? It's called extreme fitness for a reason, unlike just staying thin, it requires great effort and discipline, a strict diet regime, carefully planned workout and recovery intervals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?if she ignores the guys who wouldn't mind her little imperfections, in favor of a hot Dr. Mengele, it's a self inflicted wound really... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Flaws of the 80/20 ruleI see the opposite, women over 25 don’t like youngish looking men. Maybe a cougar with a fetish, but as someone who is getting mistaken for 5+ years younger I see zero interest from peer women around 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Flaws of the 80/20 ruleLol I am neither fat, nor do I have a neckbeard, and I still get rejected all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Interesting. Can see broad range of tastes in this post. in what universe are her tastes broad? She already filters out black and asian men, and then proceeds on to narrow it down to "tallish-but-not-too-tall" white guys who again need to have broad shoulders, low body fat, and a chiseled jawline and preferably piercing hooded eyes. What the fuck are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractI mean roughly 22lbs overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractits so bizarre. if they're small and petite they want a tall burly guy to "feel protected", and if they're big and curvy they want a tall and burly guy to "feel smaller". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:16 AM |
| 2 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attracthonestly women in 30's care more about your money than your looks altogether. all that feminism and they still end up gold digging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:01 AM |
| -3 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractnot the case with this one. In my late teens as a scrawny dude I could attract girls, I didn't need to be 6ft+ nor have broad shoulders to be considered attractive by at least some girls -- but among 30+ women height and masculine looks are almost a prerequisite to even be noticed, the older ones don't have "types" anymore, they have a type, and it's the same tall, broodingly handsome, white guy next door type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractprobably the thought process of “attracting post wall women” doesn’t do you any favors lol, women have no problem fucking toxic chauvinists most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 8 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractHence why some some physical features have behavioral connotations that become indicators. women still sticking to physiognomy 100 years after it has been outed as pseudoscience sound even worse than astrology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 4 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attract30+ women know what they want and go for it. but this isn't the issue here is it? It is WHY they go for what they do? Why do their preferences when it comes to a guys looks actually narrow down to a conventional type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 4 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractlol, until there is a Chadology discipline researching related phenomena I'm sticking with my daily observations, it's either this or anecdotes from pdd women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Excluding OLD, how does the majority "Meet online" when women here keep telling me the idea of a random guy adding them on social media is weird and creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesEven your examples of supposedly actual IOI’s can still be misconstrued as her being just a friendly touchy feely person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesWhat were “reliable” indicators of interest according to that study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Niche game doesn't work past high schoolProgressively their tastes are getting narrower throughout their 20s, I got way more attention from girls as a teenager, than I ever did in my 20s despite staying slim and keeping my hair. Even the women with whom I grew up and who used to like me were simply not into the "alternative" look anymore at 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Niche game doesn't work past high schoolhow is this distinguishable from a goldigger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Niche game doesn't work past high school"interesting, not unattractive nerds" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menwhats up with seething redditor women using low key homophobia as comebacks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:20 PM |
| -1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menif its that creepy why do some of them go out their way to squeeze my waist or mess with my hair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:58 PM |
| -1 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menlol, non-neurotic women outside reddit absolutely cringe at "verbal consent" being a requirement, at worst you were getting rejected anyway, at best it spoils the moment when she wanted it. I used to feel guilty and be tubro-polite about it and would ask if I can lean for a kiss or touch and all I got was replies like "can't you just let it happen spontaneously!?" "I'd pull away if I wasn't interested anyway". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:50 PM |
| -5 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menthankfully american corporate brainrot hasn't reached these backwood places yet. Plenty of flirting going on back and forth among the staff. And yes, flirting is all about keeping it ambiguous , so you don't just ask, like you would a whore at a gas station to turn tircks for you in exchange for cash- what you do in this situation is you make a pass at a woman to gouge whether there will be a receptive response or not. I may be on the spectrum, but just how socially inept reddit is like Zucc lev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:20 PM |
| -6 | Here is the one and only advice that will work for you average and even unattractive menI do this with my female coworkers, I just start playfully touching their hair, neck, shoulders, arms all the way down to the waist… if they don’t pull away then I just keep doing it. Ha ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsWhy do you have to pick one or the other? because bluepillers keep telling men here to postpone the second one and "work on themselves" whateverthefuck that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 4 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youit's pretty easy to tell if a woman is flirting with you. why even comment if you aren't going to elaborate on that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youwhich ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youmost girls that had a crush on me, didn't flirt with me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youwhy would you be dating for 3 months if fucking was out of the question? Either you weren't dating, or you failed to fuck her... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youIts bluepill women that teach men things like "if she laughs at your stupid jokes she likes you, cutie teehee ^_^ girls are more subtle" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 4 | There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with youyou waited for the "enthusiastic YES" to come, it didn't, now she's sad because you weren't confident enough to pursue and make her feel wanted. Because women like her don't really know what they want american "enthusiastic" consent culture is doomed since it relies on a ridiculous fantasy that courtship should be like going to a car dealership and making a purchase contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netThere are no “emo girls” where I live, especially not in the 25+ age bracket! they outgrow that by the time they finish college. In high school you can tap into a niche , but once those phases are over , women develop preference for “classically “ handsome — explains why many guys grow beards and designer stubbles these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?They don’t “pump and dump” , we just had a thread where overweight women admitted they have no problems getting into relathionships with fit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap Relationshipssigns of aging that are going to be off putting to young people What if you're balding at 21? Lol, this simply confirms that ageism is just lookism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap Relationshipsthe discourse around age-gap relationships on reddit is entirely reminiscent of that around gay couples in the 1980s. Homophobes believed that no one could really be gay without being used, abused or fucked up mentally in some way or another and since many straights saw gay as "gross and icky" they tried to rationalize their personal disapproval of it by ascribing immoral motives behind it where young men were believed to be groomed into the "lifestyle" at some point by an older homosexual preda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 10 | Beauty OverstimulationMen swipe right on tindr 46% of the time, while women do it just 14% of the time. And you’re arguing that men are the ones with the more fucked up unrealistic beauty perceptions here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?Their idea of “slender but strong” is what would pass as a professional bodybuilder in the 1960s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 0 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Lol… Beards simply cannot be compared to make up, if anything beards are the equivalent of long hair on women - it’s still part of you and it depends on genetics. All these jokes around having a man to shave his beards to see if he’s truly handsome would be akin to having a woman shave her long voluminous hair that was framing her whole face and then deciding if she passes the GI Jane test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating quality through agesPriductive? Industrious? What is this the heckin 1950s? Do I need a white picket fence and chrome platers? Most millennials I know live paycheck to paycheck, even though they’re educated, most of humanity is stuck in dead end burger flipping jobs. It’s only on reddit where everyone seems to be making 200k a year. Makes me think this demographic is over represented by nerds born and raised in gated communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thingUlterior motives means that someone is putting you in a situation that you otherwise would have avoided with prior knowledge. Have you ever heard of "making a pass" at someone to find out whether it is wanted or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thingbeing used for 'free meals' is this a north american thing? Your country sounds like it has worse golddiggers than eastern Europe. I've never paid for a meal thinking I'm getting a relationship out of it, it was only when we already established we were attracted romantically to each other, and I usually still had to insist on paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Having "ulterior motives" isn't a bad thing"uprfront" as in how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?On what planet? I hear women whispher to each other about “that cute guy” and it’s always used to denote men who they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:52 PM |
| 184 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenStraight off the bat this post declares; average man = potential degenerate predator, goodlooking man = player. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girlI’ve had her friend, of a girl who showed interest in me, cock block me saying “ew, he’s asian”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Women benefit more from dating older men than older men from themSimiliar stats can be found in same-sex, interfaith, and interracial marriage , but you don’t see PDD mommies and white knights problematize those pairings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs of attraction actually?Been looked at like ‘that’, still got rejected, explaining she was just a ‘bubbly person’ who looks everyone with bambi eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themFirst: they were from 14-19 Second: no fat asian gf around where I live! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themhere's my pic bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themAre you trying to say you look feminine without blatantly saying you look feminine? a pic of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themIm taller than the average white man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than thempicrel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themhumble brag + I see no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themit’s shaken up our friendship. how and why? I notice young women feeling shocked after they find out my real age, like I'm a vampire using cheat codes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than thembecause the whole purpose of the 'taking care of yourself' scheme is aimed at slowing down the inevitable process of aging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themyeah, but the most interesting thing about it is that at 18 I still had no problems getting a girl around my age, young women were open to date a slender boyish type, but then after 25 they all seem to develop a almost singular preference for men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themConsidering you attract teen girls, I could guess you don't just look young. You look teen-like I get mistaken for a early 20s guy, not a teen or a child. I'm also not short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themRace has nothing to do with it. lol, far-east asian women don't even consider me 'feminine' at all, while a lot of western women think I'm 'too feminine' looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themYou probably simply lean too far on the "feminine" side of things. Is this a cultural/racial thing? I only get this 'too feminine' shit from white women over 25, never asian ones, as a teenager I never had problems attracting girls my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?Girls did this to me a few times in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Are young men at a disadvantage when it comes to dating compared to older men?Wtf? When I was 18 I thought it was the widest. Since then I took care how I look, had a skin routine, and ended up looking much younger than I am, but now it seems to be working against me— yeah PDD women say they’re “grossed out” at how unkempt men become — but irl looking younger isn’t helping me attract women my age. In fact the only attention I get is from gay men and teenage girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.define ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.I wear fitted jeans, clean my shoes, have a skin routine, nice hair and straight white teeth, and I still get rejected by fat girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedLol. She would touch/play with my hair and still reject me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedi got her giggling every time we were in class it was college she actually hinted to me via text that we should hang out sometime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedawkward polite laugh how does that sound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 29 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedIn her mind I occupied the role of the funny token asian friendo she could discuss nerdy stuff with, she would immediately shut up and put on a glamorous bitch face whenever her crush (a tall broad shouldered nordic dude) was around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedlol, you're hinting they could be laughing at me being a socially inept creepo, yet some of them also suggested to hang out with me, one on one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedsocially awkward laughing/nervousness on the contrary, the theory suggests that a woman laughing at the unfunny stuff is often times even a greater indicator of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:02 PM |
| 39 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedsome women do laugh at everything I say. I was explaining Bismark's social reforms to a girl and she giggled like I was doing a stand-up routine. Took it as a "sign" of interest and asked her out and she said "I never saw you that way". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsDone all that, now I look younger than my age, slim with a head full of hair, nice smile and plump skin, yet women my age neither see me as a hookup or serious romantic option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:03 PM |
| 11 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionthey're willing to fuck a hot guy in one night stands tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menYeah, I’m asian, pale skin, and Im pretty tall too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menHaha let me guess it’s tall, sporty and outdorsy masculine men now, preferably white too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menasian women even consider me masculine, where western women pretty much anything that doesn't look like a VIking is a 'feminine man'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menThere is no data on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menIn the first sentence I make it clear that I'm NOT referring to clinical cases of dimorphic femininity caused by hormonal problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menwomen who are attracted to me that are over 25 have been Asian that's why I put "feminine man" in quotation marks, it has nothing to do with low t levels, or feminized dimorphic traits, what is said to be a "feminine" looking guy here is sometimes not even considered feminine in far-east asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 20 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menyes, I have been told by teenage girls I look I could be in the band. Women my age however are not impressed by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menle epic nerdy women are like 0,05% of the population with a massive overrepresentation on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receiveyou're never just 'with yourself' especially with make up that is by it's design a social product meant to enhance or alter ones appearance -- it's always a image you're creating of yourself that is imagined in relation to others (styles, customs, trends) . That kid that throws a basketball in his back yard and scores still raises his hands in a victorious gesture even though he knows no one is watching. This is sociology 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory"Any kind of unwanted interaction with another person every seduction process involves the risky part of “making the first move” — to obtain consent one has to ask first, come upfront and expose their intentions, if their pass gets rejected it was unwanted and by your own accord they just made an act of harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory"no one has a coherent definition of “harassment” , on reddit the word fills the role of an empty signifier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory"I am not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory"neither do partisans of 'consent culture'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?Her fluoride stare tells me she's the kind of girl who only registers tall white guys with a designer stubble as human males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceI got a lot of attention when I first got there and started meeting people... but then the cracks showed. The weirdness/quirkiness, the self-doubt, the insecurity. And slowly everyone stops respecting me as much, until they eventually disappear. in neurodivergent communities they call this 'masking'. Unlike their neurotypical peers who can internalize many of the skills of executive functioning without even thinking about it, the neurodivergent often times have delayed executive functioning deve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Sex is all about objectificationclassic feminist theory example is "man fucks woman, subject noun object in sex woman wants to get fucked by (attractive) man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 20 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?incels are not shamed for being virgins "have sex" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | If older men going for younger women is a redflag as he is using the difference is life experience to potentially manipulate her and take advantage, isn't it the same thing when women with relationship experience date similarly aged men with no relationship experience?Not that long ago Americans considered interracial dating taboo, interracial marriage was banned in some states till the 1970s, and not even 30 years ago the 'moral majorities' were condemning same sex couples. Americans are a weird breed. They're utterly degenerate ( in the fascist sense of the term) in some aspects, but arch reactionaries in others. They increasingly seem to be setting their sights on age-gaps for some reason, and given their self-righteous arrogance, I wouldn't be shocked if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:02 PM |
| 25 | What is the best route for autistic men to take in regards to dating?I've seen that even when there is a mild form of neurodivergence like adhd or asperger it will to an extent express itself in a specific body motoric that will make a man deviate from traditional masculine behavior. And even if a man is physically attractive women will take notice of this 'irregularity'. Talk with your hands? 'He has gay jazz hands so weird'. Get genuinely excited so you giggle with a high pitch? 'my pussy dried up'. And humor... remember when women say they like funny guys? For… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?the brain of someone who has ADHD has a 30% delay in the development of the prefrontal cortex when compared to neurotypical peers ,this means that a 25 year old guy would roughly have the executive functioning part of the brain at the developmental level of a 16 year old! Using your logic that relies on 'brain maturity' as the main variable in ones ability to to consent, this would mean that it would be 'creepier' for a ADHD 25 year man old to have sex with a neurotypical 25 year than a 16 year … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 10:48 PM |
| 0 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?20 year old still aren’t fully cognitively developed either This is a bad case of pseudoscintific junk framing even when you consider that while neuroscientists agree that the prefrontal cortex part of the brain continuous developing into your 20s NO CONSENSUS among neuroscientists or psychologists exists that would EVEN suggest 18 year olds to be cognitively impaired to the point they couldn't consent. You're literally buying into awful pop-science and passing it off as undisputed fact when thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Not being crept on by grown-ass adults. In what world are 20 year olds not considered adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 05:31 PM |
| 6 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?why are you bothered by what goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?you really lack critical thinking skills by making faulty generalizations like this one not even aware of the trappings your argument has; it would be like someone making a case that homosexuality is 'gross' and therefore 'wrong' because they personally (as straights) couldn't imagine themselves being with a member of the same sex. You also seem to be terrified of your own aging process, you literally had to ask men on one sub if you should do onlyfans before you 'hit the wall'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?this line of logic is constantly used by white supremacists seething over interracial dating; 'there's a reason why she's with a black guy, it's because men her own race don't want a skank like her' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?normies, even more than feminists, get triggered over age gaps since they're natural conformists that fear any relationship you can't plug into a math equation. The person seething over age gaps today would be giving a side-eye to interracial couples in the 1950s or would express disgust over same-sex relationships on the grounds that they can't imagine themselves being gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicethis type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:56 AM |
| 12 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicethis makes it a useless advice within the context it is usually given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 4 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advice"Be yourself, but before you do that, be the best you that you can be?" pushing yourself to be 'the best version' is changing from what you currently are. This is obscurantist bluepill speak at it's finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceyou're already doing the 'be yourself just not like that' routine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicemost 'street smart' 'smooth talkers' end up roughing up their girlfriends far more often than autists in these places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceyou're not giving the woman the ability oh she consented alright, she cried 'rape' only after she found out he wasn't jewish but a palestinian muslim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 9 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicehis last part boils down to “men who get women don’t act like women” well no duh. "just be yourself and stick to performative masculinity bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicehard to take this concept seriously when it's precedent involves a guy that was found guilty of 'rape' after a israeli woman pressed charges upon discovering her one night stand wasn't jewish but a muslim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Men and women flipping roles in terms of pursuing sexand then write paragraphs how immature predatory men 'only used her for sex' once she's closes-in 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANlying your way into someone’s pants, but give it a term associated with child molestation for a bigger moralist punchline . 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANI hear the word 'grooming' a lot, how would 'grooming' a younger adult look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITAN‘eVeN iF iTs LeGaL iTs StILL mOrALly wRoNg’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANthe shaming of legal age gap relationships often contains the same fallacies, and overlaps with cliched moralism that was used to argue against same-sex couples in the 1980s by hardline christians heavily influenced by puritan theology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 0 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANamericans seem to have a thing against age gaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANThe OF girl isn’t a hypocritical secretive Puritan by being pro-sex but against age gaps because being against age gaps severe cognitive dissonance. pro sexual liberation (when it comes to prostituting oneself online) but against it when it comes to other peoples consensual age gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 0 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANThe actual source is much nastier and dares not speak its name, "women hit the wall at 30" gets countered with "older men are creepy predators" , both of which at the root lies a simple ageism, that is starting to hit both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANAlso in Puritan times wasn’t it normal for a 30-40 year old man to marrya 16 year old? Wouldn’t promoting that lifestyle actually mean you’re aproponent of Puritan neither puritans nor woke really trust in a woman's agency to consent-- a puritan father would be fuming to see his 19 year old daughter ride off in the sunset with a 30 year old hippie biker, as would purple haired queer twitter in 2022. Puritans arranged marriages according to what they believed were proper 'matches', the woke wishe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 10 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANlol. today you can get lectured on the evils of 'sexual objectification' by a person who has a Onlyfans link in their twitter bio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 02:54 PM |
| 13 | Women low-key bully each other into hypergamyplenty of them, they could roast ethnic minority men harder than a Mississippi sheriff at a klan rally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Women low-key bully each other into hypergamytaboo on this sub, but needs to be said: I've been cock-blocked on racial grounds ('ew he asian') far more than on 'genetic fitness' ones. They couldn't really point out anything like obese, rotten teeth, acne, asymmetry ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:54 PM |
| 13 | Women low-key bully each other into hypergamyyeah, but you're a nerdy, self-aware reddit woman, and I'm talking about normal people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Women low-key bully each other into hypergamyThey'll usually shut down a crush only if they think a man is attractive themselves and are jealous plausible, most of the hate I've gotten was from the heavier ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?Sugar daddying and prostitution doesn’t bother American woment at all, only if she genuinely falls for an older guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?What if you said you like a woman with a small waist? no comparison, a waist which is narrower than hips is a far more common 'default' body shape for women than a V shaped torso is in men, especially without a dedicated fitness effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?examples of bad footwear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:22 PM |
| -3 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?almost every guy has shoulders which are broader than women's... wtf are "broad shoulders"? Is it like "must be taller than me" or "must be at least 6f+"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionwhat separates platonic infatuation from a romantic one always involves a degree of "sexual objectification" -- a guy friend sometimes cannot escape the friend zone because he lacks the "partial object" ( a good jawline, height, a pretty face, or wide shoulders) that would turn you on, so you love him as person, but never see him as a stud. you're as guilty of doing it as anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 04:00 PM |
| -2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionunless he's a objectophile, which is a form of sexual or romantic attraction focused on inanimate objects, then by definition being sexually attracted to a woman cannot be a case of "objectification" since women aren't objects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractiondo people that use tinder see other as "persons" first, when they're looking at compressed 2d images based on which they make a quick smash/pass judgment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Example of a skinny face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?What do you cconsider a “recessed jaw”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Pointy chins? Examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Post a picture of what you think a weak chin is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 3 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword here>thinking parents should have a say who their adult daughter can or cannot date you are unironically rooting for patriarchy there, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 7 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword herepredator and a predator who seeks out some one who is weak and unsuspecting and manipulates them for sex. "manipulating them into sex" as opposed to what? opening it with the line "wanna smash" to avoid any misunderstandings about his intent to fuck your brains out as soon as possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 9 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereIn other words, looking to court someone without using a dating app is predatory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 9 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereclassic redditor manipulation tactic --- take a term carrying a heavy social stigma, redefine it to the point the bar gets so low that people will trip over it, and then revert it to the original definition with it's criminal implications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword heret. "Just re-define terms and use them as emotionally charged power phrases like a 1980s evangelical politician on a campaign trail" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isyou’re are a grown woman in her 20s, trying to postpone her adulthood by refering to herself as ‘girl’. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isagree, and this isn't a "women hit the wall" post. This is about busybodies being r-slurs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isYou’re missing probably the most important part - how do people so far apart relate? yeah, every redditors notion of a long lasting relationship seems to rest on 3 core pillars; sex, children, and the ability to get each others Rick and Morty references. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isOkay, sources for that? Doesn't mean that people have no right to choose a side in that debate lol there is NO SIDE in the neuroscientific community that would even argue that 18 year olds are cognitively incapable of freely consenting to romantic relations with another adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | We should raise the age of consent to 21your problem would be solved if you married early, stayed in the kitchen and raised a child. But you wanted to have your cake and eat it too; enjoy the fruits of youth, to go out and have some fun before you'd settle , but without the annoyances that come with this freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:32 AM |
| 14 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate ityeah, finding out your guyfriend is in fact not a asexual eunuch can be a devastating experience for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 33 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate itlol the descriptive "we started as friends" is treating the word "friend" very liberally when in actuality they usually start banging as mere acquaintances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsLeave young women ALONE. No one, absolutely no one can force you to date an older guy, or anyone you wouldn’t want, just as you have no right to tell guys the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 0 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationships>problematizing physical power imbalances evident in safe houses full of women that got roughed up by boyfriends twice their size *I sleep\* >ferociously combing through that legal age gap relationship to prove they're inherently toxic *REAL SHIT\* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:05 PM |
| 26 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsher standards: "I want a real man who is experienced, confident and career oriented that can sweep me off my feet. I don't want no green mamma's boy" her problem: "I now realize he was clearly more experienced than me, the power gap was just soo obvious, I think I was groomed" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 05:03 PM |
| -7 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsHe is not someone I want anywhere near me. he's obviously living rent free in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:34 PM |
| -7 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsyou clearly still haven't got over him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsHere's the thing. People can be free agents. Doesn't mean they are smart and actually only make choices that benefit them. passion and love generally don't follow a cold calculative logic like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:20 PM |
| 12 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsConsensual relationships happen between equal partners. Do they have to be the same size too? Can a 4'11 petite woman date a ripped 6'3 guy? Is she really consenting, or are her decisions subconsciously influenced by a obvious "power imbalance" present in the fact that he can overpower her at any given moment if he wanted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 11 | "Power Imbalances" are part and parcel of consensual relationshipsevery dating sub on this site goes ape shit over relationships with perceived "power imbalances". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Why do women gas up unattractive/ugly women?They do, just ignore the overly-generous platonic compliments, those are worthless, when it comes to attraction men are held to impossible standards where everything must synchronise into a harmonious whole to even appear on their radar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?K-pop boys' audience is really young, from 10 yo to 15 or 16 maybe. Like someone said earlier, these boys are out of any sexual thought. t. I never heard of Freud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30oh no, who would've thought what you're attracted to as a child would differ when you're an adult! most of the women whose taste evolves like that haven't grown an inch since high school... yet they expect their male peers to undergo this boyish-to-manly-man metamorphosis like it's Captain America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30Why does it still narrow, tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive?”6ft3 with a strong jawline, a fleshy chin, pouty lips and a full head of hair soo average teehee” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive?“Do women really find tall white celebrities with strong jawlines attractive?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:05 PM |
| -2 | Masculinity is NOT in a crisis nor is it on a declineyou don’t just masculinity based on celebs you will never meet. Folks are talking about the decline amongst everyday guys who are less manly than their grandpa was. "just ignore the ridiculously unrealistic ideals pushed by msm to have any effect on 'everyday people" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | On popularity of male K-Pop singers and other popular androgynous menwhy did your taste in men change then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | On popularity of male K-Pop singers and other popular androgynous menThe majority of 15 year old girls aren’t on the pill, bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 04:43 PM |
| -34 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsWilling to sacrifice more than one hole for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want a girl that "fucks like a porn star" or is that just projection from women?No, I just think its gross and mentally ill. bigots say the same about gay sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Men do peak in their 30s, but most men do the wrong things and don't put in the workYou're on reddit, the main demographics are middle-upper class nerds dedicated with body and soul to making it in the suburban rat race. For them wearing a band t-shirt at 30 is means that you failed at life and shouldn't reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:46 AM |
| 31 | You (PPD Men) should forget about women and focus on an education and a career."Self-growth" What does that even mean? Reading an Eckhart Tolle book? Collecting funko pops to fill a void created by a lack of intimacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:32 AM |
| 57 | POV: You have just finished watched your 12th “High Value Male” YouTube video and ready to conquer the world.which one is it? Even the lowliest greasy neckbeards having insane standards or; men will fuck literally anything with a pulse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 10 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUReplace the woman with a hyper-woke moral crusader that gets busted for cp in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:01 PM |
| – | Nice Guys in a nutshell.I was never approached by an ugly girl even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Men in a nutshellbut men would fuck anything, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereWorked in the medical field for years now, Automatically assess people by their looks every single da Lol. He doesn't look sick, he looks italian or greek, and those aren't "dark circles" but periorbital hyperpigmentation which is genetic and has nothing to do with bad health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:27 PM |
| 8 | How do you determine what your league is?why are American posters, despite living in a country with one of best records on gender equality, giving so much emphasis on getting rich and attaining prestige status? You make american women sound like worse goldiggers than desperate ukrainian mail brides. Is it really that bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How do women reconcile their hatred for the PATRIARCHY with their attraction to hyper-MASCULINITY?would it be more of a debate or dscussion post? People already started giving interesting lenghty answers to this topic abd it’s a shame you are removing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Peak SMV agesdo american women really care about money that much? You have your feminism, female participation in the workforce, they're already outperforming you in academia, yet reading this sub I get the impression american women are bigger golddigers than a Ukrainian mail order bride trying to escape abject poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 10 | Cold Approach is a must. Online dating produces poor results, even for ones with perfect profiles, and social circle can be problematic and limitedWhat social awareness you soyladden white knight? 10 years ago people thought online dating was for spergs and recluse weirdos who couldn’t approach a woman in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Men with little to no wealth and status who are sexual desirableBeatnik slam poets were cringe, but they were nothing compared to the cultural monstrosity of today which values vapid pretty boys winking and sticking their tongues out in 3sec tiktok videos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Do women inadvertently help propel toxic masculine behavior?how do I make a cmv more neutral? Sorry, not a native english speaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?"""feminine men""" -- lean, tallish, guys with cute floppy hair and chiseled cheekbones. feminine men -- pudgy boys with wide hips and and elevated estrogen levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?look at all the attention k-pop guys get yes, from teen girls. But reddit hates age gap relathionships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?you can often find us on Tinder absolutely depraved. I'm not installing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?a lot of women think Pitt's Fight Club physique is a "little bit of muscle" men could get just from playing basketball with the bros at weekends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.The women on this sub constantly suggests you need to befriend a woman first to have a chance at fucking her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?all the hardcore subculture women with uniqe, quirky preferences I know outgrew it by the time they were 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksWhy do you think it should be any of your business how a man wears his hair, Karen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:31 PM |
| -1 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksWomen are weirded out by it. They see it as vain and feminine. While they may plaster themselves in make-up, most of women are turned off by the slightest trace of a bb cream on a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:47 AM |
| 6 | CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looksIs the 6ft cutoff a code word for white? It seems to conviniently filter out most brown men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:35 AM |
| 5 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?all is fair in love and war - true. in love and war eugenics and genocides seem to happen a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?just hand over the monopoly on human interaction to a few powerful media conglomerates theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Lanywhere outside this online bubble of narcy nerds meant that the potential of being approached is, or at least was, part and parcel of “just living your life”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?What you described would be the bizarre notion that you need prior consent to ask for consent — this is the brainworm state of reddit narcissism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?start demanding all human interaction to be done through giant media platforms, neatly regulated with check-boxed preferences that filter out just about anything that my cause any potential discomfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?How do do you know whether it was unwanted or not if you get to approach and ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?meeting a complete stranger you never met and only interacted through a dating app for sex? What could go wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?you have no clue if the person wants to be approached No one is entitled to a restraint warrant from being approached in public. If someone can't handle human interactions at this base level, then they should had never left the kitchen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?normies... fight for sexual freedom... then do everything to bring back match-makers to protect 'public chastity' , only this time it wont be uncles arranging it, but algorithms. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?I assume that normal people would be interested in being asked out without it having to be mediated through a giant huxleian match-making corporation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Sex And The City writer says "Dating apps killed casual sex, it was so much easier when you could meet men in the supermarket". Is she right?What? You can still meet people in a supermarket... this is your mind on modern hyper-alienation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Do women find alternative men attractive?"growing up" as in becoming that buttoned up 9-5er dry humping the american dream? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Do women find alternative men attractive?One theory is that you are observing some variant of "Alpha Seed/Beta Need", namely that women go for "good genes" (guys they find sexually attractive) in their youth and for good "Dads" (guys who make a good prospect for a long partner out of pragmatic reasons) when they are a little older There is another phase in between I think you left out; a phase after high school, yet years before they would start settling for provider Dad types. Girls in high school still have more varying tastes than c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Yes, this happens to be the main difference between then and now; back then then subculture girls sought out subculture guys, now you have all these goth looking thots with SLAYER t-shirts dating nothing but preppy, conventional looking men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Wtf does looking as safe as possible mean? every guy on reddit getting advised to get a " short on the sides and longer on top" to ensure he can appeals to the biggest pool of women possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Do women find alternative men attractive?At 6'3 with a square jaw, and strong fleshy chin he is Hollywood's idea of "funny looking" when juxtaposed against 0.1 percentile blue-eyed wasp hunks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 20 | Do women find alternative men attractive?"you still enjoy playing music for a hobby? Cringe! Haven't you got a lawn to mow? I stopped enjoying life when I was 29 , like a normal person" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Do women find alternative men attractive?and there isn't a single thread without you humble bragging about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Do women find alternative men attractive?yes, but only there. The question now is, why do women, the older they get, the narrower , normified their preferences become. I see a lot of teenage girls liking dandy korean men, I rarely see a woman in her late 20s still having that preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:09 PM |
| -2 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Also being a grown-ass adult that's heavily subculture is kinda cringe. putting 'ass' as an intensifier suffix attached to an adjective is even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Do women find alternative men attractive?but why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?what does having ones 'shit together' mean? I never head this expression in Europe. But it sounds like borderline goldigging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do many men want a "goth girlfriend" but women rarely want a alternative guy?ok, I'll keep that in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do many men want a "goth girlfriend" but women rarely want a alternative guy?not an english speaker, but how do I make it more neutral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:24 PM |
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