the problem with ascribing romantic failure to 'social ineptitude' comes falling apart when you have plenty examples of men who women otherwise just LOVE and appreciate as friends and close confidants, but never consider them 'boyfriend material'.

men consistently 'bro zoned' don't suffer from a "touching grass" or "try talking to an actual woman" problem, they are the talkers, the ones who listen so it becomes increasingly frustrating when women and bluepillers insist that while looks matter they come second to the real quality women are after in a man which is whether you're the guy she can hold actually a conversation with.

While 'social ineptitude' might be a cause for men with no female friends at all, every guy consistently put in the 'bro zone' realizes the whole premise might be bollocks after all he is usually the shoulder she cries on after being played by some aloof hot guy she meet and fucked within days of meeting.