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Barneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:56 PM
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CMVBarneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 07:36 PM
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Question For MenBarneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:56 PM
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Question for RedPillBarneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:22 PM
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Purge week!Barneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:04 PM
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Barneysparky/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:31 PM
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Barneysparky/r/MensRights02/05/13 06:13 PM
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There is no unconditional love. There is dependence, which is why people stay in abusive relationships. Thats not love though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:16 PM
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Why would you need or want unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:10 PM
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Back in the stone age when switch me dated if I was dating a guy who was my sub, I paid, a Dom, they paid. No man ever had a problem with it, except for some blushing from subs. Then I met my husband, who was the perfect mix, we quickly started filling traditional roles for each other that were a bit outside the norm but seamlessly worked for us. Thats what happens when you meet the person who is just right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:50 PM
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If a guy just wants sex then he will try whatever he can think of to reach that conclusion. My belief is that young adults are toddlers figuring out how to take their first steps into adulthood, of course they are often idiots, they are learning how to adult. There is a reason why people in the west marry at 30 or so, that gives people time to grow up and understand what they want in life. A 18 year old boy might very well consider sex to be like Pokémon, gotta catch them all, a 30 year man rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:44 PM
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Classic abuser sentence. Sorry but you made me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:25 PM
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You still dont understand that attractive people are attractive? You still dont get thst tall attractive wealthy men are not sitting on a screen complaining that women won't give them the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:34 AM
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Incel now means a guy thick with hatred towards women. You know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:34 PM
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People are judged by their actions. What you say/type is a action you will be judged on. No one knows what you are thinking, unless you express it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:32 PM
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Sit on your computer and hope the apps will match you with a woman whose willing to have sex within a few hours of meeting you. When not doing that go to the gym so you can get the kind of woman who goes for gym bro pictures on apps. When not doing that complain online about how women are not worthy of you because they had sex. Rinse and repeat. That is the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:34 PM
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I am well aware that you think comments that degrade women are fine. Dont need to remind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:19 PM
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He doesn't mean women working. He means women being paid equal. OP could also equally blame the lack of slaves now avaible to the common man as the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:52 PM
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Do you understand how ridiculous it sounds when the men here say they offer protection? Do they mean protection from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:49 PM
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In 1999 the first MRA pilled guys used to blame women for the fall of Rome. Look how far we have come! OP. Look into private equality firms, foreign investment, and banking regulations if you would like to learn about how things got the way they are instead of finding a new reason to blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:56 PM
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Why do the guys here often pretend that is what they have said? Its the most childish style of gaslighting, no more believed then a child with a face covered in chocolate declaring they didnt do it. Everyone here is well aware how men who are upset they cant get what they want from women speak about women. Pretending otherwise convinces people that a person is a liar, and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:07 PM
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Where do you live that people investigate people's sex lives? Is there also stoning? You are judged on how you present yourself. That is how people work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:24 PM
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No one knows about your sex life unless you decide to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:21 PM
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I just did husbamds annual dock party gig at the lake, just at our camp there were 6 couples 25ish. Us old people were laughing that in a few years instead of doing mushrooms we'd be taking care of toddlers, dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:28 PM
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I dont understand why at 58 I see young people hanging out together all the time, and these young fellows dont. Well, I do. They either live in segregated societies, never go out, or live far from civilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:23 PM
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People meet, like each other, and date because they like being with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:36 PM
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Ok. So its fine if women have enthusiastic sex with a guy, then tells her friends hes a loser beta bucks that grosses her out, because he had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:32 PM
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She's supposed to feel what about him saying he was dumpster diving to his friends? Do you think that makes it...better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:42 PM
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Try saying that over at ADHDwomen. There are many women who struggle to make and maintain friendships. Not as many as men, but there certainly are. Those women certainly can get sex (as anyone) but struggle to maintain relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:07 PM
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Not being able to afford the sugar baby you want is not at all what she is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:07 AM
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Yet they very much do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:24 PM
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All I read is you wanted to be a sugar daddy and couldn't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:22 PM
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Its a learned behavior that doesn't just impact men. This weekend I was at a cottage with a large group, the hosts were a women whose a hardass northern homesteader who does the majority of the work on their boat or sled in compound camp (we had over 30 this past weekend), and her husband whose just retired from construction. Weed eradication was the topic, and when she was saying her favorite tool is a torch, I turned to her husband and basically said "Tell my husband how to use one". She laugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:00 PM
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Where are they a 60/40 ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:07 PM
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Ok. You can stop complaining that there are no women on dating apps then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:25 PM
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It is, but no wonder some young women would feel this way after looking into pilled places. Another check in the "how can we make women never want to date" in the pilled toolbox of repulsing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:45 PM
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Do you think woman squirt when they orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:11 PM
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Thats not how sex works for women. One orgasm leads to another. There is no, Im finished. What going on here is bags of sand obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:05 AM
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Women are capable of orgasming multiple times. Im sure it happens, but I am yet to hear of a woman who orgasms once then rolls over and goes to sleep. Thats a thing some guys do, but I really never have heard of the female version of this. You seem to think once a woman has a orgasm sex is over?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:56 AM
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Historically men marry the bosses daughter. Still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:45 AM
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Yes. Looking back any causal sex I had was kinda just whatever. Never worth it. Hormones mess with you in the moment, but then after its just... nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:42 PM
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Youve never seen men insulting women's breasts for being too small, flat, saggy, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:53 PM
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What does liking large breasts say about a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:25 PM
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Husband could go grocery shopping so she doesn't have to. Its a chore not a perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:20 AM
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Grocery shopping is a chore, not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:17 AM
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They dont. Thats porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:36 PM
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Easy to do when you dont feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:04 PM
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Women as a rule do not look at strangers and think "I want to have sex". Because its a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:31 AM
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If this is to hard how are you going to deal with actual adulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:27 AM
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I didn't mention fuckbois. I didnt say better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:24 AM
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Here is thing thing. You can argue that a disability makes someone superior all day long. Have at it. The fact remains that nerotypical people dont like being around nerodivergent people, and are very put off by both the lack of understanding of cues, and the "direct" way they speak. Many nerodivergent people LEARN and get better, so much so they can often pass as nerotypical. Some double down, say its my way and Im better and its not fair. The sad thing is the people that learn, they have a dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:02 AM
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It doesn't take a study to understand that people who dont demonize mental illness/people being different are more likely to seek care. The pills have a extreme leaning towards the right, in fact certain right wing malita groups like the proud boys are direct results of the manosphere. Perhaps you can show me a branch of the manosphere where men from north America consider themselves liberal? Incels, from the same study are majority not western, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:26 PM
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Liberal woman generally speaking have less issues within dating then conservative women. Liberal men are much more likely to be truthful about themselves and their intent. While conservative guys pretend they are "moderate" while hiding their true intent (cssual sex for me, but not for thee). The only truth to this is if you are in a deep red state liberal men are much rarer, but even in deep red states their are liberals in urban areas. Women generally avoid dating men who vote for pedophile ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:54 PM
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You are the one with black and white thinking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:12 PM
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If a guy has a kid and he doesn't want anymore should he say yes just because hes done it before if his new gal wants one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:11 PM
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Are you of the normals are the wrong ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:42 PM
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Men, when you ask for a beer, is it now or is within 5 hours? If she said take out the trash today, 5 hours would be fine. Not saying that means there is a reason its gotta go now and her hands are full.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:41 PM
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All communication is indirect when there is autism .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:00 AM
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It is not in anyway a fringe belief. Your body your choice is a fundamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:01 PM
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You are not getting it, feminists are not a hivemind. Some agree with sex work, some dont. Part of maturing is understanding that sometimes you dont know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:41 PM
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There are two of us here!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:57 AM
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That's how dating websites were back in the day. I didn't see my husband until I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:56 AM
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Im just very bored. Getting better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:41 AM
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Having a one night stand really isnt the life changing event you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:31 AM
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Very attractive. Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:27 AM
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My brother from another mother, husbands best friend is a life long bachelor. Hes 64 now, Ive known him for almost 30 years. Hes a chef, has owned or been head chef in restaurants globally, earned a star even . He has always understood hes not a relationship guy, as everything needs to go his way and he is doing what he is doing. Ive met more platonic female friends of his then lovers. Its not about just giving up, its about understanding perhaps you aren't built for relationships. For instance …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:18 PM
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Im much more active in real life. Recovering from surgery, so Im spending way to much time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:10 PM
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Guys on this thread are saying they wouldnt have a problem with daily checks. 1% ? Not here!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:27 PM
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This has never been in a relationship energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:25 PM
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Id be fine with exclusive, but not yet thinking about children/future as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:11 PM
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So you would be ok with your wife double checking to make sure you haven't cheated when you come home?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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If your casual sex partner gets pregnant, that is when no one would bat an eye about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:07 PM
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Explain how the baby has another dad and she didnt cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:49 PM
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Thats great and all, if you would be willing to get tested for infidelity whenever you aren't with your spouse. Are you down for your wife giving your penis a sniff test everytime you are apart? Regular STD checks just in case?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:48 PM
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I think some guys here think they would be tickled pink to be accused of cheating, because they think that would make them desirable. I asked once if a guy would be ok with his wife smelling his penis as proof everytime they were apart, the guy said that would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 PM
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At this point I cant engage with you anymore. Your possible diagnosis is not for a layman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:57 PM
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A person who hates themselves cannot have a successful relationship. Ever. Work on your self esteem, stop trying to get outside validation for a quick dopamine fix, that does not fix low self esteem anymore then other sources of fake dopamine do (addictions).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:54 PM
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Around 28 or so men stop thinking about only getting laid, and start thinking about what their future will look like. If that includes marriage and or children they start dating for character, not just hotness. I do not have a problem with this natural growing up process that humans have, why do you? Because you missed out on the casual sex part? Ok. Then a woman with purpose on a date with you would be dating a guy wanting to catch up, not a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:51 PM
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If you want to date someone who immediately has sex with anyone that interests you, go right ahead. Just dont whine when they get interested in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:48 PM
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If you are a man or a woman with a larger income and you choose to date people that are more attractive, but of a lower tax bracket then yes you run the chance of being used. What is the term hobosexual mean? Date within your tax bracket and this problem is solved. It is a none problem that some men who have not had relationships fixate on. Heavens knows why when the fix is so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:47 PM
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Its ok. No one finds it as annoying as me. I actually have dyscalculia, but I cant spell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:55 PM
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Women in the west have the same job opportunities men do. How hard is it to date women within your own tax bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:52 PM
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Super easy to vet for that by dating women with similar incomes, yet the guys here say rich men are happy with fast food workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:51 PM
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Ive been here a long time, people are very nice about me mixing up words, its a dyslexia thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:08 PM
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How would you know you wanted to date this woman? Why would a woman who has sex with every date go exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:23 PM
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And how would you gauge this desire? How would you know you were only 79% desire while another guy was 100% if she has sex with eaxh guy she dates? I see that you want a casual relationship before any commitment. I assume you are ok with her going on dates with other men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:02 PM
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I this thr guy who said porn, said they would act like they do in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:58 PM
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A woman that sleeps with every man she dates on the first date desires them then? Is that the kind of woman you are looking for, or are you looking for a woman who said no to other dates, but wanted you instantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:58 PM
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I was not aware two X was women going there own way, because its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:32 PM
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Do you think its a privilege to be the who does the grocery shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:55 AM
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The community that does nothing but talk about women? Perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:46 AM
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By your logic women should be given expensive gifts and vacations by men courting her. Men do that, hence it should be an expectation. No matter how often we show the stats that most women are not just handing out pussy willy nilly to Chad you refuse to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:36 AM
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Is expecting to be intimate on the first few dates a standard? It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:53 AM
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Sounds like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:52 AM
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She's been posting as long as I have been here. No ai
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:21 PM
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Fuck boys have to be better looking then him. If you were hiring a prositute would you pick a woman that looked like him? Seriously. Fuck boys are simply free prositutes. Like men most women dont use them, but those that do expect a certain level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:26 PM
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It takes a certain type of person to have a fight in a McDonalds parking lot that escalates to violence. If this happened in highschool its forgivable, you were still children after all. After that, just no. Thats not how adults behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:01 PM
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For the record you got personal. Im not getting a ban for this ridiculousness. If you dont want to date trash, dont be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:59 PM
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That is a ghetto sentence. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:55 PM
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No one is allowed to do those things. There is zero expectations that you put up with abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:53 PM
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Wait wait. I cant remember the last time I saw a couple arguing in public, never mind what you suggest. Because I am in public, not doom scrolling senerios that justify my illness. You are seeing these things because you are spending your days watching the content that justifies this. I work in a busy grocery store, if any kind of public freak out was in anyway normal behavior I would see it regularly, you think? Who the heck expects anyone to stay with someone that melts down in public???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:52 PM
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Everything you named was about dating. What's this damage that men cause? Poor people date each other. It seems to me that men have hypergamy if the women they are asking out expect them to make a certain amount. Emotion regulation is something that all adults have to do, or people with the ability to emotionally regulate will shun them. No one wants to be around adults that act like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:45 PM
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Gotcha. Poor people shouldn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:01 AM
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So... we dont need more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:27 PM
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Its immorral to be a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:17 PM
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I thought the birth rate was a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:51 PM
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What's your plans for today? What do you have planned as activities next week?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:50 PM
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What are you going to do when your parents kick you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:48 PM
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People who work should not comment on others work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:03 PM
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I think that people who say things adjacent to replacement theory are going to do a lot of "but not like that" about right now. They seem very worried about the birth rate, until it doesn't involve their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:00 PM
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Im glad you understand this. Next time a guy is in here saying if you haven't had sex by the third date you are not interested Im sure you will tell him that expecting sex before you know each other is showing disinterest. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:27 AM
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Are you the guy in question? You know exactly what he was thinking, and are taking this really personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:24 AM
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Then get off this subreddit and go about your lifewithout bothering useless women. You're problem is solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:18 AM
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Its worse to kill someone then to stick their head into a shit filled toilet. Are you now ok being shoved down on your knees into a toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:12 AM
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Listening when you use terms like female isn't sensing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:10 AM
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Which is insane. Except that yes, I would only enjoy sex with the man I love, like most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:36 PM
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Im watching Resident Alien right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 PM
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Do you think the only women who have sex are sugar babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:20 PM
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No. OP believes that women dont enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:24 PM
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Women enjoy sex. Genuine sexual desire happens when you enjoy sex. A week or so a guy told me after I asked what genuine sexual desire means, "they would act like they do in porn". Were you that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:23 PM
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Women do wild sex acts when they trust a guy. This whole she did anal for a one night stand thing is ridiculous. I like anal sex more than PIV, I have never had anal sex during a one night stand or with someone I wasn't seriously dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:21 PM
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Women get very horny just before menopause. Thats nature's way of getting one more kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:18 PM
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That is the age when most people are ready to settle down and start a family. Its not a revelation, its common sense. Men also mature into wanting a family around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:16 PM
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People struggle when they say something, then pretend they didnt 10 minutes later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:13 PM
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Unlike most of the men here I go out on weekends. Chances are those two guys were boyfriends of two of the women there, just like when you see a couple of gals watching a game with a group of guys. Makes sense doesn't? Some guys like going to clubs and dancing, some women like sports. Is is a harem if you see two women with ten guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:09 PM
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I often go out for dinner with my husband and our oldest friend, a guy. Would you think we were a thriple? My husband was the only make member of his band for awhile, was he sleeping with his band mates? Have you never been in a sports bar? Super common for one or two women to be with a bunch of guys watching the game. Its so frigging weird how pilled guys perceive every human interaction sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:35 PM
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You see this normal thing, and think hes having sex with all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:08 PM
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Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:54 PM
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That senerio is not at all common in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:54 PM
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How would you know this? If you left your room here you would see the same thing you did when you left your room at home. Average people together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:53 PM
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Is this abusive woman in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:42 PM
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You dont get to change terms. You are planning on being a single dad, while insulting single parents. This is a fantasy because you are not even dating anyone, have a social disability, and have never expressed a desire to parent a child for any other reason then to protect yourself. You said you are going to be a baker. If you said, with this profession I can start work at 3am and be able to be with my future kids more then someone that works a 9-5 job. That would be planning, just like how peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:41 PM
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Real is no one cares about your sex life or lack there of. People care about how you treat others, and how you interact with others. No one cares that the guy is insufferable "because", we care that hes insufferable. Not going to school or working, trolling online because you cant get laid is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:02 PM
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Those men are not looked down on for being single. They are looked down upon for not being part of society at all and sponging off their parents while trolling on the Internet. My husbands best friend is a lifelong bachelor, he teaches culinary arts at a northern reserve, very respected. Another friend is a park ranger, great guy. It is not singleness but being a NEET troll thats looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:46 AM
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?? When you divorce, you are a single parent. 50/50 doesn't change that. Youve got the whole thing planned out and you dont know what a single parent is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:12 AM
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Youve spent weeks telling us that you want to be a stay at home dad so you can get custody after you divorce. Then you write this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:51 AM
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They are eldery. It is biazzare to me that this is OPs take instead of my great uncle may very well have dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:34 PM
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Did your uncle hide the fact that he'd forgot? Do you not get that forgetting to pay a bill, and "forgetting" to tell your spouse that you are not paying bills are not the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:59 PM
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What part of sending them into financial ruin without her knowledge is loving?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:40 PM
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Do you know how disturbing it would be to have a major negative life event happen, ask for support and end up getting asked to send nudes and sent dick pics? No, you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:37 PM
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No need? Many young men think if the woman isn't acting like they do in porn the woman doesn't like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:16 AM
1

Grocery store. Any service job the best way to get hired is to walk in at 930 am or so and introduce yourself. Electronic resumes are a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:00 AM
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Yes women dont have to pay. But we also cant order a good time just the way we want it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:14 PM
5

Those sexless men are free to hire escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:12 PM
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That 50% has been debunked so much here that anyone who still tries to state that is just being obtuse. What's the divorce rate for people who get married under 25? What's the divorce for those after? First marriage ? Third? Do they all have the same divorce rate? Anyone who think "they will leave me" knows there are reasons they would be left.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:12 PM
2

Again, all ive got is what you give here. I have seen you start to push back on the black and white thinking that is so prevalent in the manosphere (really anywhere where mental illness/immaturity congregate). There is hope. What's your summer plans this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:04 AM
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We dont know you. All Ive observed is you post here all day, you are often hostile and refuse to listen to others. On the plus side lately Im noticing a bit more reflection. Without knowing you, no one can tell you what you are doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:28 AM
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Thats how I got my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:20 AM
3

Stranger to me, not to people I know and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:19 AM
1

Thats what dating is, when you dont enjoy each other, dont date each other! Imagine if the two of you were stuck with each other because you dated for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:28 AM
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That sounds like someone people dont enjoy being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:58 PM
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You cannot both be a part of the manosphere and a good partner. That's the opposite of partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:57 PM
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Young first relationships are notorious for being unhealthy, and young people rarely if ever understand older couples dynamics. Im very surprised though that all the couples you know display this behavior publicly, where I lived you'd only see that sort of thing in the north end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:10 PM
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If they all complain about different things, yep, they broke up. The same thing, time to self reflect. Women with secure attachment dont complain in healthy relationships. They really dont. When relationships are unhealthy people complain, mistrust, argue. It is impossible to have a healthy relationship with anxious attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:22 AM
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Why do you want to do things you consider nasty with your life partner? This is how dead bedrooms happen, people who see sex as nasty. They want it, then are disgusted by themselves and their partner after. Textbook. I would suggest cultivating a healthy thought pattern towards your own sexuality before a relationship..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:45 AM
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I know young men are much more likely to be promiscuous. Intelligence would mean you can put together the obvious. I also know people living in poverty tend towards unstable relationship patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:32 AM
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What nasty things? The things you want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:10 AM
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Do you mean when they are young, before they get their degrees? Did a lightbulb just go off?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:05 AM
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If all your relationships complain about you, what's the common denominator? Why cant OP name the small things all his exes complained about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:24 PM
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What small things did ALL your exs complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:21 PM
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If you are not pursuing them, why are you upset they are not dating you? I dont think about what jocks do, never thought about it. Why are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:49 PM
3

That is a saying in the middle east. Not America.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:27 PM
7

That is a saying in the middle east.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:11 PM
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I think that you want very high level women who you see on Instagram, then have decided that everyone else thinks the same way. I can assure you I have never desired "Jocks", as big guy on campus energy is my number 1 ick. I can assure you that the women who are attracted to that are also top dog personalities that cultivate their look. I have no envy towards those women, because I in no way shape or form want the lifestyle that goes with that. A lot of the guys hete want the sex that comes with…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:34 PM
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Of course the most attractive woman are with the most attractive men. When you are not one of those people why would someone worry about what they are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:45 PM
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Are the pilled content creators you follow dating women that dont wear makeup? If so Im sure you can show me one or a few. Why would we believe that men dont want a made up woman when every woman with who PILLED men deem desirable to women date heavily made up women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:44 PM
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People develop preferences by meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:49 PM
1

Women not wanting to date a guy is because of novels, media, and mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:08 PM
2

Are these women in the room with us? I assume you are talking about cuck porn, which again would be for his fetish. Why are you watching this genre?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:07 PM
2

Did you make the friends who you discuss your masturbating habits with on porn hub?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:05 PM
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Vaginas dont work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:03 PM
3

Do you mean the women who make porn to sell to a male audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:02 PM
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Do you think women aren't dating them because of novels?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:33 AM
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The men complaing about it dont have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:30 AM
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You didnt say her man. Men is plural. Im not here to please men, I love making my man happy. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:55 AM
6

What idea do you want this cartoon to convey?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:00 AM
5

Again. I have zero clue what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:43 PM
6

Why are you posting video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:38 PM
8

You are not planning.....but you have to plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:37 PM
6

What does mainframe terminal mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:54 PM
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Why are you planning the children divorce and remarriage prospects of someone you have not met? Im sure a hundred adults around you I hope have told you, you are putting the cart before the horse, but by God man at least have a first date before you plan your divorce and subsequent next marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:41 PM
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What does that mean? Im so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:34 PM
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Are you trying to say that single dad's lining up a new woman to mother their kids within a year is a good thing? These are your children. Dont be getting some stranger to parent them because you dont want to. Or did I just not read OP right, because Im having difficulty comprehending.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:28 PM
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Then you'd think the men wanting to date could achieve this!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:08 PM
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You mean like men who don't commit then say they were cheated on when she dates others?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:47 PM
12

That's so sad .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:06 PM
7

What does true desire look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:42 PM
0

Where's the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:19 AM
3

Your partner is not anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:07 AM
1

Do ypu know how setting up scholarships works at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:40 PM
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My husband has value, my male friends have value, my son has value. To me. No one has value to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:38 PM
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I literally have only seen men talk about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:34 PM
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Speak for yourself. Most men like to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:15 AM
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She was also a douchebag pedophile. Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:05 AM
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Demographics of incels. On the incel website they are maybe 30% from the US now. What's left and right in the US isnt in other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:12 PM
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Is having your wife cheat something that should concern you when you are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:38 PM
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My point is there is no effort into being charming, its the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:39 AM
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Effort as in having a large mixed sex friend group growing up? Effort as being nerotypical? Most people dont put effort into being charming, they grew up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:32 AM
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No manosphere connections within MAGA. Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:47 AM
2

Ive never scoffed before here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:11 PM
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They are running the government in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:27 PM
2

Separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:39 PM
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That's a extremely weak reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:37 PM
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In what world would a artifical womb cost less then a surrogate? Do you aldo believe med beds are going to open up tomorrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:55 PM
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You mean healthy Caucasian babies. But only babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:52 PM
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Likely be an average man you mean? Average men dont have a problem, below do. Let's say there was a guy who goes into a bar and tries to chat a gal up, and gets banned for life. The same guy decides that women won't date him, but he could pay them to by sugaring. That also doesn't work. Would that man be a average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:24 PM
2

No being angry, bitter and resentful is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:34 PM
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My birth father was in the NFL. My entire birth family is successful in life and dating. Sibling all married with their own homes, nephew being drafted from school into professional hockey, good grades. My son is successful in life and dating. This is the only way I could answer this question. So the answer would be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:27 PM
4

Did you just admit this is against the rules of the group?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:10 PM
2

Do you need data when the guys here state daily that they have zero standards and right swipe on every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:28 PM
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When you say things you can expect people to form a opinion on you based on these things. No projection needed, you've shown who you are by your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:27 PM
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Over the years here Ive seen many young men walk away from the pills. I wouldnt say I was the reason they started to grow, but I know having their indoctrinated viewpoints challenged by myself and others lead them to start maturing. For those over the age of 28 or so, no help, those guys are just crabs in a bucket trying to get young men to join them in their misery. I started doing this in 2000, so I'd like to think Ive got some experience on this front.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:25 PM
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Get a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:09 AM
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I was a very attractive young person, but not when I was pregnant. I carried sideways, so I looked fat not pregnant. I got acne and my hair went limp and greasy. Pregnant, I looked much like Janis Joplin on a bad day. Then I was hot again, then I got old. So yes, I know what its like to be young and not outworldly desirable. Its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:34 PM
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Not at all. The rest of society looks down on drug addicts. Way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:16 PM
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People dont like meth addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:13 PM
9

What?. You just said, most men know there is a 50/50 chance they will be stabbed if they go to a womans/strangers apartment. You also said men risk a 50/50 chance of being stabbed to get laid. Just wanted to save this for prosperity. Spicy take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:07 PM
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Within a few hours "How dare women distrust strange men".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:52 PM
4

Good, because I want to retire one day!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:09 PM
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I think what you are trying to come to terms with is fixations on your life's problems instead of working towards achievable goals is really bad for your mental health. Instead maybe you could learn something interesting today, or do an activity outside the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:07 PM
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Dude... I dont care what you think of my faith, I just asked if you are going to speak about it you know something about it. I gave you a resource. Ps. I know what a atheist is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:05 PM
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You should probably learn the difference between a hysterectomy and a tubal ligation before fantazing about having a doctor rip out your girlfriends innards because you are going steady.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:47 PM
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What's a self respecting ganz man? Like Clavicar?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:44 PM
1

Why not learn about something before trying to act like you know anything about it? I gave you videos you could watch and learn, and you come back with "I wouldnt like it". That has nothing to do with it, we dont convert, if Quakerism doesn't feel right by you thats that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:42 PM
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So, someone's going to find you because you said teacher or nurse?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:57 PM
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Liberal Quakers are completely accepting of LGBT, and most don't believe in a afterlife. Because you have an interest without knowledge check out Quakerspeak on Utube. It will help with your misconceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:56 PM
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Im a liberal Quaker. I feel like you just found out that many abolitionists were Quakers and wanted to use the new knowledge, because that made zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:49 AM
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Doesn't name the industry....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:45 AM
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There is no fodder in America today? Please add up the prison population and the homeless, then argue this isnt fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:23 PM
2

In what world do you believe virgins have sex on their first date??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:12 PM
1

That would be a guy looking for a top option wouldnt it? Or do men employ sugar babies that are average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 PM
1

Yet some of those guys try to employ sugar babies instead of women on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:00 PM
7

Are you a monkey? Chimp or Bonaboo?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:58 PM
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Stop saying men when you mean you. You cant control yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:14 PM
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Uncomfortable answering?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:30 PM
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Why do you want women to ne subordinate? Would that make them desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:18 PM
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Dont bother them with facts. One of my kids friends found her dad hanging from the rafters when she was 12. He had lost all the families money, and their family restaurant gambling, that came out after he died (ended up making the news because he was also later on found out to be heavily involved in the drug trade via the family restaurant. Absolute act of violence perpetrated on his child. Ive been suicidal. I didnt do it because I knew it would kill my children's soul, that guy made numerous c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:17 PM
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How many wars are going on right now? Glad you could find one exception!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:40 PM
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Women are not on dating apps because men think they can order casual sex like a pizza. Do you blame women for that, or the guys sending them pictures of their penises?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:17 PM
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Back in the day when people used to do combat in war the higher ups (men) chose which men who be the first line of defense or aggression (fodder). Guess which men are used as fodder? And yet we have guys here without friends who think they would be getting revenge on Staceys when men rise up instead of being thrown in front of tanks while the popular guys hang back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:16 PM
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Outside your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:09 PM
4

So guys that are here 24/7 bitching are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:36 PM
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Did she have AI before it was available? She's been posting for years. Hasn't changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:35 PM
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Children all live in a black and white world. As we grow the vast majority of people outgrow this. People with autism often continue to live in a black and white world, without intervention to train their brains to understand that nothing on earth is black and white, all or nothing. Saying "Im autistic this is how I am". Is like saying I have a learning disability so I can not learn. As someone with a couple learning disabilities, I assure you I can learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:37 PM
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Do you think you just go through them like a check list saying, "I'll follow this one"? Those are the markers for social skills, do you think any one person has all of none of them? But you can learn them!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:31 PM
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Did you see the chart? That's a good chart that covers all the bases. As you can see it is a multitude of things that go into social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:30 PM
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You could post that once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:15 PM
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Start with reading "How to win friends and influence people". That is a basic primer for social skills. Im sure there are lots of videos on you tube that talk about how to improve your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:14 PM
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To think that people completely change their behavior patterns based on their attraction is insane. When you first click with someone for a bit you think of little more then them, but adults have to adult, and your likes and dislikes evolve, they dont turn on a dime. Now, if this post is about someone telling a person they dont like hugs, then that person sees that person hugging their boyfriend... They meant they dont like being touched by people who are not their love interest. Or do you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:12 PM
3

In India. The home of oppression for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:59 AM
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Ive also lived a liberal lifestyle. These guys do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:58 PM
5

This entire thread is about coworkers rejecting you, they are not your friends. This is a case studio of the friend zoned guy who is completely culpable in regards to the state hes put himself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:18 PM
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How about waiting until you've met his people and hes met your people? Like you actually like each other and are thinking, could they be the one? Your waiting for the 3rd date is ridiculous. On my second date with my husband his best friends beloved mom had a stroke, I met the whole family because we were in love. That's love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:15 PM
3

HR ladies are Jezebelles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:11 PM
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How do I know they are not a child molester? Because, you get to know each other, build a relationship, meet each other's people. What do you think dating is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:10 PM
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Did you just say I found guys who affirm my thinking, so fuck logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:09 PM
7

The reality is if you do have sex the first night, unless that night turns into a few days you will never hear from them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:05 PM
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I know they are women you work with not friends, and from other posts in this thread you asked them out and were rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:04 PM
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I never liked having sex with a stranger. Thanks, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:02 PM
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When women want you to show interest and you work with them everyday, they show it, they really show it. Every workplace romance I have ever witnessed (dozens, Im old) has been months of flirtation before asking out. Every single one. Why do anyone think you'd just randomly ask out a coworker without mutually heavy flirting? I think some guys here would benefit from working in the service industry, getting out of their own heads, and watch what happens when people get together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:01 PM
13

What?? Your life parter is not a Pokémon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:54 PM
14

Instagram models you follow are not your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:40 PM
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Tomorrow, "Have sex on the first date or you dont really like him".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:38 PM
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I think young women today are having less casual sex then ever before, I know that all statistics back me up in my belief, and I know the median lifetime count for people even in my generation (we had a hell of a lot of casual sex) is 7. So who is this woman you are talking about? Is she an ex instagram model now trad wife? Who is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:35 PM
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This is a perfect display of the affects of porn brain and social media. Both young women and men suffer from the affects of this. Someone lusting after you like you are the lucky pizza delivery guy where they lose sight of themselves, their values, what they want out of life only happens in porn, erotica, and people with mental illness. Lust is something that grows with falling in love with someone. Relationships are not relationships because you popped a boner in someone's presence. I had a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:31 PM
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I had a c section on a Wednesday and opened my grooming shop on the Saturday. Not a smart idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:37 AM
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Your post is trying to be a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:36 AM
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You did not at all answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:50 AM
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Women dont really do the edge on the competition thing, except for women that also do things like Instagram thirst traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:48 AM
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Men dont fall in love without sex first? Are you saying men that wait till marriage dont love the person they are marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:47 PM
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Why would you want the woman you are dating to do things that shes not comfortable with? What rules do you want her to break?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:46 PM
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And a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:36 PM
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Do you. No one cares. There is no law against being a NEET, just dont expect people who have their lives somewhat together to want to be in your company and you are all set!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:14 PM
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If you dont want to work then you won't have a roof over your head or food. But thats up to you! Women aren't making you work, your survival is. If your mom is telling you to get a job, that means shes tired of supporting you, no other woman would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:58 PM
-1

Shouldn't you say "the female" instead of she?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:19 PM
4

Its going to be quite upsetting when you go through all that pain and you are still rejected, isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:54 PM
1

You are getting surgery to not get what you want? That will show... who?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:44 PM
5

For woman not into casual sex, of course not! What about not into casual sex dont you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:46 PM
10

That's not the advice thats offered. The advice that is offered is to have a mix group of friends. Why? Besides the obvious like learning to socialize you meet new people when you befriend people . No one has said, pretend to be her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:38 PM
6

Should I remind you the next time you say choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:36 PM
1

I work in a grocery store across from a high-school. Five years ago the kids were glued to their phones and wearing pj's to school. Today I hardly ever see a kid with their phones out, they are hanging out together and taking interest in their fashion choices and each other. Have you not seen the laws banning social media for kids? We dont allow cell phones in classrooms anymore and they are not spending their lunch hours on screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:21 PM
5

Untrue. The next generation is getting off screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:57 PM
3

Get your own credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:37 PM
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Neither my son or I exchange money. But I do know he loves me, and would support me when I am elderly if given the chance. He won't have to, but hes not sniffing around seeing if he I can take out a loan so he can get his inheritance either. Im sorry, your mother is supposed to work until she dies? Because you want to be a stay at home dad so you can get custody when their mother leaves you? I get that she doesn't want to stop working, do you think thats going to be viable when shes 80? Why do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:16 PM
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Online dating has nothing else but looks. That's what online dating is! That's why there is one women for every 10 men trying to online date. And most of those are bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:01 PM
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We are supposed to know what your sleep schedule is? You want your mother to go into debt, you want a woman to bear you a child and support you. Do either of these people consent to making your wishes come true? Do you also wish to be courted like a trad wife? Will your wife be making the majority decisions for you? What if that gal doesn't want to sponge off of your mom's retirement plans? You say she can just take out a loan, what about her retirement? Im so frigging glad my son isnt a sponge,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:19 PM
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No. Online dating is not thr biggest source of couples and marriages. Guys here tell themselves that because they refuse to leave their screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:12 PM
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They go hand in hand. A person who goes into a relationship desperate will never be secure in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:23 PM
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Those with secure attachment only want this, the reasons should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:20 PM
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Covid really messed with the kids who were in higher grades. Sucked them into screen they will never leave looks like . Luckily screen time is now seen as a high risk activity for kids to be involved with. The next generation is already looking better for socializing. I see a incredible difference in the students I see at lunch from 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:28 PM
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Insecure and virgin are both words, yes... but they are not the same thing. I have seen men here that believe women can tell their a virgin and thats why they dont want them. Which is of course ridiculous. It used to be really common for men to say that here, like a few years ago. Women would respond back however with saying no, we can not tell. Extreme insecurities do show to others but no one knows what those extreme insecurities are unless you tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:22 PM
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Most of the women here are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:16 PM
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His parents are supporting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:11 PM
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And thats who you want to date? This is what happens when the only reason to date is sex, and you have zero standards beyond looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:56 AM
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Your plan is "my parents will pay for it "?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:49 AM
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Posting thirst traps is what Staceys do. They date guys who do the same thing. Its exactly like it was when we were young, the venue has just changed. That's popular kids being popular. When we were young guys that weren't popular weren't let in the club. Today they can look at someone's Instagram without a bouncer kicking them out. When we were young geeks knew to stay in their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:47 PM
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People who only see people who seek meda validation as their romantic prospects when they themselves dont have a large following of people giving them validation are shit out of luck trying to date those people, as they date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:39 PM
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I owe a lot to a lovely French lady who had a bed and breakfast in Montreal!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:52 PM
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Im 58. Last year a coworker who I got along with very well told me he'd ask me out in a heartbeat if I was single. I told him he was much younger then my children, I saw him as a kid, and frankly him saying that kinda grosses me out, but I'll get over it. Our relationship frankly got closer after that, myself taking on the role of aunt while he navigated some hard life choices in his life he had to make in the next year or so. When he finally left school here to go back home he thanked me for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:18 PM
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You are not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:03 PM
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Pretending you didn't say something doesn't work. People laugh at Trump for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:47 PM
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Aren't fucking, or aren't in a monogamous relationship? Are you unaware that the courtship process doesn't always involve premarital sex? That often sex is after you fall for each other and go exclusive? I wouldnt have sex with a guy I wasn't exclusive with, ever! How the heck are you supposed to test for STDs??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:45 PM
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If you are meeting on a dating apps you have no idea of what the norm is within your dates bubble, as this varies. I for instance would take it that the guy wasn't into me if he brought up splitting the bill while at the date. If I wasn't into him I would split the bill, effectively in my culture telling them Im not interested. Most often this happened when a date expects sex because he paid for the meal. Letting a guy like that pay is annoying at best (whining and arguing) and dangerous at wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:41 PM
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Its not unattractive when a guy from a dating app says " would you like to meet up for a coffee to see if are compatible/vibing enough to go on a date. That's attractive. That's a man who isnt wasting time, and who wants someone compatible. That man would have no problem at this meetup discussing first date options if their are vibed. This should be the norm. Having a conversation like an adult to see if you fundamentally match. This works well for men who dont feel the need to have any women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:34 PM
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Why do you want society to bend to your whim?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:41 AM
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You are the one with the complaint. You can do something about it. Do it. Why are you asking others to change when changing yourself will solve your issue? Or do you just want an excuse to complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:59 AM
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That's a great analogy that highlights perfectly the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:59 PM
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What does success look like to you? You stated success. Yet fail at defining it. People with autism often struggle with being touched, never mind someone else exploring their body. There is no strawman, as the majority of self proclaimed incels self identify as on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:07 PM
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Success rate of what? Finding a life partner, which is what matters after all, yes. The guys who think they want casual sex on demand? That's not sucess, as relationships are not Pokémon. 90% of the guys here pissed off about not having casual sex are also uncomfortable with hugging relatives. They want something that in reality would make them very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:53 PM
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Most men are not failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:25 PM
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Choosing better means not choosing pilled guys. Are you aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:40 PM
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Your post is women make things harder for men. No, we want guys who think this way to go away. Go away. Leave us alone. Be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:52 PM
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You cant eat pickles??? Oh the injustice of it all. How do you cope? I just had my basal joint removed and replaced with a peice of tendon from my arm. In a cast for 6 weeks, then Ill be in therapy for a couple of more months to get the use of my hand back. Should I be upset that random men aren't messaging me expressing sympathy? You said " the values of people seem fake". Sounds like you lack empathy for others while expecting others to be empathetic towards you. Something isnt adding up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:50 PM
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We know some men want submissive women who have sex quickly. But of course only with them! Women dont want those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:30 PM
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I see, you are just a kid yourself. You deserve a roof over your head, parents that raise you, food, schooling. I wish you those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:44 AM
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People that can't have adult conversations shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:27 AM
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I hope you notice its not just woman on this thread fundementally disagreeing with the victimhood displayed in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:21 AM
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Yes. That has nothing to do with the two of you figuring out if your life goals and values align. If they dont, no point in dating any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:17 AM
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For sure. I have a friend with three sons, one is pretty obviously on the spectrum, Ive known them for a decade or so and no one has referred to him as special needs in anyway. Hes had the same level of experience as his brothers, is surrounded by a close family and frankly now that hes in his early 20s unless you knew what you were looking for you would guess he was autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:15 AM
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A lot of the guys here have autism. Melt downs are not showing emotion. Telling the gal who is interested in you your life sucks because other women are not interested in you.....is beyond tone deaf. Ive lost count at how many "im not allowed to show emotions" posts end up being one of these two things. Adults have emotions, they express to others what they are feeling, without making others feel unsafe (meltdowns) or ignoring the feelings of the person you are talking to (wishing other gals exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:23 PM
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Every friendship Ive had has had a "courtship" period. Im not just friends with everyone that expresses an interest, and if I dont show interest back, plan things together ect they will lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:46 PM
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Perhaps this is happening to you because you as a dude, are trying to date girls instead of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:38 PM
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Why do you insult people trying to help you? Do you think you are a nice person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:13 PM
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How many people have you asked for advice? Did it help? Do you think aaking more is going to change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:02 PM
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Sugar babies do not want pilled guys as clients. Honestly, they do not. Of course they will string you along, as you would in their position. Why arent you using a prositute instead of trying to get a women who wants to be a sex worker to a older gentleman who will spoil her? You dont want arm candy on your arm that you spoil, you want a woman who will pretend to desire you. Escort, girlfriend experience, listen to them when they tell you their rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:35 AM
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Uh huh....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:38 PM
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Men under 30 are a hassle. They are sex workers who get to name their price.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:56 PM
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From what Ive seen sugar babies avoid men under 30, for reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:26 PM
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When I was dating splitting the check was code for not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:07 PM
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It's a dog whistle for being pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:49 PM
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This is not mental baggage. You date to find someone who is compatible. You believe in strict male female models, like wanting children this is important information.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:47 PM
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And you are here to tell those boys that's what's happening, over and over again. Grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:19 PM
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Are you trying to pretend the pills are not grooming boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:53 PM
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I recommend you stop grooming children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:58 PM
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Who are the men who are forever alone? What's the demographic of the pills? Are they guys in the trades? Nope. Are they guys in the service industry? Nope. Are they nerotypical? Nope. The guys that are struggling have things in common. One of the things in common is Not they would make great boyfriends if given the chance. You say emotionally available? How is a guy whose been fed a diet of pill talk going to be emotionally avaible when the pills tell then if they are women would leave them? Loy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:21 AM
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What does damaging their future prospects mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:33 PM
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Perhaps not saying you want acess to causual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:21 PM
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Nope. Woman are not going online posting rape fantasies, or talking about taking away men's right to vote. Men are saying that about women, amd they are listening. Red pill use to excuse this as "the anger phase". Or its just "venting". Thata a hard thing to do when the politicians on the right are holding up women's rights as a juicy steak angry young men can devour. Almost 50% of male teenagers think that going back to the 1950s for women would be good. About 30% of female teenagers think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:37 PM
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The men here do! AWALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:06 PM
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Young woman have read what young men are writing about them on the internet. You have been heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:49 PM
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Why are guys here bringing up deranged writings of a crazy person no one would know existed outside of the staff of her mental hospital if she hadn't shot Andy Warhol? Have you even seen Who shot Andy Warhol so you could have some context of her ramblings? I certainly dont see feminists sering her as a feminist icon. Not like Marc Lepine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:28 PM
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Your uncle is single? Do you live in this community? Do the men in your family also drive lifted pick up trucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:41 PM
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No you dont. A guy bragging online is not knowing him. Think about what you said, you know multiple men who have women waiting decades for them. What are these women doing in these decades while waiting? The vast majority of casual sex people have sex with other casual sex people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:34 PM
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Bad men do not run rampant. Guys who have to turn to dating apps tend to be of low quality though. Same with women, Ive heard it said Bumble BFF should be renamed befriend a BPD. Most men see casual sex as something that occasionally happens between relationships, not their life goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:30 PM
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A man doesn't understand that carpets need vacuuming? You described a teenager. I assure you that a man who pays for a carpet does not want to have to pay for a new carpet in a year. Is the vacuum not working? Please take it apart and clean it before buying another. No. A man does not need to be reminded to clean his room. A man is an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:40 AM
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No. You do not have to continue to date women you are incompatible with. Dating is a process of vetting to find a person who works well with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:35 AM
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Or just maybe asking random people on the internet that have zero clue on who are are...is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:33 AM
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The source is your police department, which would be very low on a trust meter for factual reporting on violence against women, and slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:11 AM
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You learn. That's why you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:02 AM
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Is that the woman you want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:29 AM
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Forgive me, but I dont trust the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:25 AM
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That ugly guys abuse attractive women? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:24 AM
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Imagine asking a woman what she would prefer, hiking or a meal. Imagine using your words and asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:23 AM
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Looks like a kidnapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:47 AM
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Do you think hes attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:49 PM
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This is a western sub. There are no puberty celebrations for girls here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:49 PM
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What puberty function? The only puberty functions in the west are Jewish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:48 PM
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Its about helping your fellow man. Be the compassion you want to see? Or are you just going to continue to give excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:16 PM
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That would be a rejected man. Same thing as he couldn't find another woman to house him. Either way, I hope your compassion fir your fellow men allows you to share your bed with one tonight!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:52 PM
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It is unchoosen men who end up homeless. OP and you should have compassion and share your beds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:45 PM
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Women do care about men. Volunteering at homeless shelters etc, those are mostly women. Taking care of boys, mostly women. Caring about the human race in general does not mean you need to provide acess to your intimate self. Unless you are willing to share your bed with a homeless man OP, me smells hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:18 PM
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That's quite the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:04 AM
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Excuse me? You are not looking for someone compatible, but someone you can ease into a role? Did I get that right? Besides the fact that you said, "the hoes".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:07 AM
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Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:38 PM
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I suggest then you stay on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:30 PM
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When people never leave their screens they start believing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:58 PM
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What's a non dopamine giving thing you think about with nostalgia? You do know everytime you laugh, feel good etc, thats dopamine right? I'll give you one, on our second date my husband got a phone call that his wanna be mom was in the hospital having a stroke. We went to the hospital together, and thats how I met the woman who would also be my wanna be mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:40 PM
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Why would you have to be careful? Dont you want to know if you are compatible or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:16 PM
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I want to live a life. I do live a life. A person who is comfortable pretending to live via a screen us not someone who will be compatible with someone who doesn't. Being a partner means experiencing life together. It does not mean living in your own curated fantasy world and bumping uglies when you feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:13 PM
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Why are YOU going on tik tok and watching this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:45 AM
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How does who he chooses to date affect her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:41 AM
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Accountability? I told you self pity was incredibly unattractive. Blaming others is incredibly unattractive. Having zero going on in your life is incredibly unattractive. Having no friends is incredibly unattractive. There is zero accountability in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:41 PM
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This didnt just happen in a vacuum. Pointing fingers at women being to blame for a lifetime of not fitting in is disingenuous at best. There is a reason why the vast majority of the manosphere falls under small demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:38 PM
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I have the best way you could do that. Become the best man, or at least in the wedding party of as many guys as you can fit on your calendar. Rate yourself against the other groomsmen, go for the single bridal member whose the friendliest to you. Rinse and repeat. Of course you live in the west, for your average Joe, thats when young women today are most likely to engage in casual sex WITHOUT being part of the casual sex lifestyle . There are a few ways to engage in the casual sex lifestyle. Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:17 PM
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They believe acess to pussy will fill the void of insecurities that have been a pattern since childhood in them. That's not how humans become secure in themselves. That's not how humans stop being depressed. Building community, setting goals and working towards them everyday, not giving yourself the spikes of fake pleasure you get from a screen or drugs, these are things that work towards confidence. Ive been stuck basically staring at a screen when Im not reading or doing a puzzle for 8 days no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:05 PM
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People dont enjoy being with insecure people, unless they think.they can take advantage of them, and then they are only pretending to enjoy their company to get what they want. If you are insecure, male or female if you do by chance get into a relationship you will be taken advantage of. Also. No one event can create more then momentary insecurities in people. That is a lifetime pattern that has to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:56 PM
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The only time women plan casual sex is when their child's father has the kids for the weekend. Not something a teen or early twenties woman is likely to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:52 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:50 PM
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Is getting a prositute not casual sex? When men hire prostitutes what's the criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:49 PM
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These charming assholes, do not blame others for their problems. A person who blames others for their problems is always unappealing to be around. No one wants to walk on eggshells around others. A charming asshole, just does their thing, sometimes without regard to others yes, but not always. A person cannot be charming and lead with being pathetic. Which is how people perceive people who blame others for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:53 PM
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Red pill logic. AWALT literally describes BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:40 PM
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You said women. She is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:52 AM
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Having sex with someone you want to is simping now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:30 PM
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What is feminism? We sure as heck dont make changes by talking to men who hardly leave a screen! The men in power are the audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:27 PM
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Preached at about what? Example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:38 PM
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Is this your first day on the internet and you were homeschooling?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:36 PM
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Average men have girlfriends, wives. They are not unselected. They are not undesirable to all women. The vast majority of relationships involve two people. This belief is from men who are universally undesirable calling themselves average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:21 PM
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Is part of ignoring them insulting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:15 PM
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That would be four groups of men, I have no idea what the / is for. Regardless when a person decides to behave in a way that is offensive to others, they have zero reason to believe that won't have repercussions. There are places on the internet where men say whatever they want about women to other men just like them. I suggest if you feel the need to insult but want zero backlash you find those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:14 PM
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Monogamy doesn't benefit men? I thought most men here lived in utter fear of being cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:12 PM
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Is this a you can give it but you can't take it thing? Why would it bother me if some stranger believes all woman are gay? Its probably a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:15 PM
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If a man is social and virile in his 70s the world of widows is his oyster. The is irrelevant though to pilled guys, as the guys who have all the attention have the gift of gab, and enjoy everyone's company.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:13 PM
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Perfect example. Written by a man. Men's fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:18 PM
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Those are all middle aged women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:41 AM
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A lot of you are annoying, and when you dont have strict rules you quickly start threatening women. I really don't like the influx of south eastern men here, as this is a western dating sub AND when you live in a country where women cant leave the house without being sexually assaulted it seems rather pathetic to be whining that you cant get casual sex. Also I'm am here to be a voice for young men being groomed by older men. Western young men. But in the end, you be you. But frustrated, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:31 AM
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You talk about your issues all friggen day long on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:23 AM
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Overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:20 AM
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They certainly do when they are locked up together. Before the internet did you know the phase circle jerk was literally? It was quite normal for boys to jerk off together. When VHS machines came out, it was the norm to throw in a porn after the game. Strip clubs on every corner. Even today, most porn is literally the watcher watching some guy with a giant cock ram into a vessel. Why do men want to see the giant cocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:19 AM
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If that nobody wasn't complaining to people, no one would say that to them. What do guys who complain constantly want? "POOR YOUUS" and pats on the head?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:12 AM
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Go ahead and read my post history. Reddit is my only internet thing besides geography shows on YouTube. Im here lots this week because Im sitting here in a cast . Got my left hand finally operated on to replace my thumb joint, im not allowed to do anything at all for another week or so, four months until I can go back to work!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:04 PM
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Sounds like a "I have a boyfriend" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:34 PM
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Did you check the years Ive been here? Sounds like you wanted to call me a troll, then went for a big reach!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:33 PM
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Sounds like she hadn't met anyone she would want to date to me. Would you have dated her before she said this?.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:32 PM
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3 adult children is no family? My son is engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:30 PM
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That classmate said this to you in what context? Did she just stand up in class and say this, or was this a private conversation between the two of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:25 PM
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I cant imagine being a teenager and having a dad sit online all day complaining that I haven't found a woman yet. How embarrassing for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:27 PM
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I think calling trying to ger casual sex dating is a stretch. Wouldn't the two of you both know this was a casual meeting for casual sex before you meet? I'm talking about dating to find your partner. The vast majority of humans understand that is the intent of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:19 PM
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You want to share your intimate parts with someone you cant speak intimately to? I thought women were supposed to choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:20 PM
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Sex is off the table then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:30 PM
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Does this mean you are looking for a homesteader? If so, great answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:24 AM
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I said also what men. It would be completely natural for you to ask her back, and hopefully lead to a deeper conversation about why, which leads to compatibility. If you asked her what woman she admires and she said Brittany Spears, what would that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:22 AM
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What would you ask them about? Both your answers are fine answers, but would you continue the conversation by telling them why, asking back who they admire? First dates are the two of you interviewing each other to be your possible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:19 AM
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I mean yes, you could ask these questions online. But frankly isnt it better in person? Online, I guess one could use a form....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:08 AM
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And rand. I had that phase as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:40 PM
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Perhaps this is affecting your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:37 PM
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Awesome answer. I dont know, but id ask to look it up! And be intrigued, and if me not knowing that was a problem for you, it is what it is, no hard feelings. In fact, I might know someone who probably does know who she is. Ps. I looked her up, im not your gal bring that I have ADHD and you value analytical skills. But I even more would know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:33 PM
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Because you would fail? I was happy about questions like this, as it leads to being compatible. Which is healthy. What did you talk about on your last date? My first date with my husband, by the end of it I knew on a surface level (simular upbringing and values) that we were compatible. He asked me questions, I asked him. I have to wonder if the reason some guys here dont get this, is that they just go on dates to have sex. If so, doesn't questions like this weed those guys out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:31 PM
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Do you want to have a girlfriend? Does she want to have a boyfriend? If so, yes, you are both on a interview to see if there will be future dates!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:00 PM
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It doesn't end up like that on great dates. It ends up with the two of you exchanging Margaret Thatcher quotes and bonding over that if that ends up being a thing. Also. First dates are 100% two people interviewing each other for the position of partner. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:40 PM
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If I got that answer, because I would have said when I was dating what I said to you before, green flag! With a slight, let's look out for signs hes not there yet. If you asked me back questions that would gauge my own mental health, green flags all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:38 PM
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That's a solid answer, but I would question if you could admire not just your significant others accomplishments, but your own. It would be a yellow flag for general low self esteem. Yellow, not red.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:25 PM
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If you go on a date with a diehard religious person not knowing that before the date, wouldnt the date bd the time to find that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:09 PM
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Myself, by following the manospere since probably before you were born. It all leads back to being stuck on a screen while your cohorts are having a real life. Even in the beginning 1998ish, the manosphere was 30something guys who became addicted to their computers and their wives dumped them. Then those guys had kids, amd here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:08 PM
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Im on this date to find a potential partner, while "what turns them on" is important in a relationship its of zero interest on a first date, unless one of you has a weird thing you need to disclose before you can consider if you like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:04 PM
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For sure ask, "what women and men do you admire". That the start of a conversation where you can learn a heck of a lot about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:02 PM
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Hugely social? Its the #1 reason why young men are struggling to relate to their cohorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:00 PM
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It would tell me that you dont think many women do. Which is what Id want to know, of course! Everyone goes into a date hoping it will work out well. It is what it is, no to a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:59 PM
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Well. That would be an answer that would tell me something about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:52 PM
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Well it works if you want to find someone that knows nothing about you.... Is your goal to find a life partner? If it is, then the answer given above tells the person who is looking for a partner, this one is not it. Guess I should have included men who aren't just looking for sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:51 PM
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Its not static if you ask back, she answers and you talk about why you both admire the people you do. Daring is about getting to know if this person is a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:48 PM
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Then. Dont date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:21 PM
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And this is why you've been sucessfull in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:17 PM
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Do you think thats... flirtatious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:13 PM
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What hobby would I ask those questions about? Video games? Hiking? Those are pretty weird questions to ask about video games dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:12 PM
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The guy above who said " I admire your mother".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:09 PM
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Sounds like you won't be getting a second date!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:09 PM
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How would asking about your hobbies and interests let me know that there are women you admire or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:05 PM
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Good answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:04 PM
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Can you not answer the questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:00 PM
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Because again you fail to realize that women are not all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:28 PM
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A red flag is a big nope im out. A yellow flag is what you speak of, nothing alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:20 PM
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What part of like attracts like dont you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:04 PM
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You think a shirt left in the bathroom is a red flag? I know, I know, all women love dating criminals right! Like attracts like. If you could start seeing women as humans that are capable of good or bad just like men are your questions would be answered. But you dont, so you are confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:58 PM
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Doesn't. Not dont. That would be the end of the date for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:45 PM
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And old men dont have the bodies of young men. By all means though, you go be you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:01 PM
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OP Are you saying because men lie we should ignore red flags? What red flags should one ignore? Saying rude things? Making comments that are negative towards women? Saying things like "you are not like other girls"? Having a criminal record? Which red flags specifically would you like women to ignore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:58 PM
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So? If you want to date the women who are into casual sex then have a casual sex life style. Drink, do drugs, spend your evenings in bars and your weekends at festivals. Dont want a casual sex lifestyle? Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:37 PM
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Sexual access to women. That's a really weird thing to be your life's goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:31 PM
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Who the heck needs to have sex with many women? The average count for LIFE is 7. 7. I have zero sympathy for men who treat sex like collecting Pokémon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:30 PM
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Most young men that are not obese do fall into that category. Luckily the perpetualy online is still a small segment of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:12 PM
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You guys always say its hard for men to have sex. Attractive men with robust social lives do not find getting sex hard. Your reasoning is deeply flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:27 AM
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What the fuck dude. Ive been to Berlin clubs when it was cool. Take your fantasies somewhere else. Berlin clubs are all about fashion and being seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:38 PM
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If no one wants to be your lover, it is what it is. Your heart can want all day, doesn't change the fact that right now your aren't doing anything to attract a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:28 PM
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Why would being a woman be any different then your shadow of a doubt theory on saving lives via having sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:27 PM
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It is not ok to threaten to kill yourself if someone doesn't want you. Its a act extortion. NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:23 PM
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Learn social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:07 PM
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You called her ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:42 PM
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She said she wanted someone to like her. No cheating involved. How could their be when you never were in a relationship. Unless you are telling us you were in a relationship with someone you considered ugly. Which is so wrong and gross, and why women should never make the first move. Im glad she found someone who didnt refer to her as ugly, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:39 PM
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Friends with a women you were having sex with and considered ugly? Who is your enemy? How could she cheat when she was a friend, not your girlfriend? Did you mean to say the gal you used found someone that wanted to be with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:26 PM
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Ok. Time for you to find other interests then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:18 PM
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Your listed way to help was having sex with them. No!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:17 PM
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Do you have a bed? Good. Share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:16 PM
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Want to do what? What's this something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:15 PM
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Im sure you could find a guy who says not having sex with you would make him kill himself. Go find him and be his dream guy, if not, you are deeply immoral. Which is weird, because you state you are deeply immoral here daily by your diagnoses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:14 PM
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Why were you with a woman you considered ugly? I hope she found a guy who didnt feel that way, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:11 PM
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Its not cold, at all. It's being a adult that doesn't get manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:49 PM
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Then the answer would be a resounding NO. Both my husband and I have gone through people telling us they would kill themselves if we break up. Our telling each other these stories, and how we reacted to this blatant manipulation was part of our green flags for each other. People that threaten other people are not good people. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:48 PM
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You go right ahead and ask any women who tweeks you to have sex with you. If thats all you do is say "would you like to have sex with me?". Then walk.away when they have said no youve done nothing legally wrong. Now if you are asking if you can say that without being laughed at, or people taking great offense? Of course not. Its weird as all fuck and people will respond. You are much more likely to be beaten by a overly protective boyfriend, or just mocked then arrested in this senerio. Regardle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:43 PM
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Now that you've stopped approaching, perhaps decoupling is next? If you dont want to be a partner, dont look for a partner. Find other interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:33 PM
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It is not. Where I live suicide is rampant on reserves. Rampant. Look at the statistics. Sex is cheap on a reserve, life quality is not. OP. Do you think incelness is what makes men commit suicide? Statistics do not back this up. At all. In fact a large portion of teen suicides are in fact due to autoerotic causes, because no parent wants my kids hung himself to death masturbating on a death certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:26 PM
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You could not answer. Whatwasshewearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:24 PM
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Ick. No. Definitely not. Ick again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:23 PM
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Why would a sister be helping their brother date is the real question? That's just, not a thing, ever. Both ways, none of their business. Do you live in a arranged marriage culture? Even then, not your sibling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:59 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:24 PM
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What are you talking about? That happened in 1984. I told the story because back then disabled guys did not walk up to women trying to have sex with them. It was bizarre, while today with millions of autistic young men being feed things like "cold approuch" this is something that young women regularly have to deal with. No wonder this generations young woman are just saying no to dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:28 PM
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I was pretty much pregnant from 18-20. Kids 11 months apart. I am not a pretty pregnant women, I gained 60 pounds in my first pregnancy and no one knew I was pregnant because I just looked fat (sideways). Lost it within a month or so, then gained 80 pounds with my next, same thing. I was hot before, besides no noticeable stretch marks in clothing, I was hot after. I got so hot at 30 so I was a slight fetish model icon who literally could have very high level men, and did. Do I resent men not fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:22 PM
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I dont know what you meant by your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:14 PM
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Women are well aware they dont. There is no expectation. Perhaps a hope that men will understand this isnt ok. Question for you. If you were in a public but isolated place (say a park) and there was a person of a different ethnicity then you just also enjoying the park close to you, and a group of your ethnicities came up and started harassing that person... Would you think he expected you to help him, or hoped that you are the type of person that would?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:13 PM
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This is what the pills are teaching mentally disabled men to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:09 PM
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Do you not get that men are acting out like this in real life because of pills, and frankly its turning a generation of young women away from dating at all. Ive witnessed shit like this in the last few years. Not before in my lifetime. I shouldn't say that. I once lived down the street from a group home for men with downs syndrome. There was 5 of them, I was on the sidewalk walking towards them. Once we met, they started saying thing like "hi cutie", "your hot", while surrounding me. I was 16. 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:45 PM
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If you found a woman attractive, then she started talking to you about kicking puppies for fun, you would not lose attraction? This happens over and over again here. Guys claiming they are somehow "better" because they have zero standards for a intimate relationships. That's not attraction, sound like desperation for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:29 PM
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You mean the status quo?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:20 AM
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People are not obliged to date people with handicaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:59 PM
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Is that a chiseled face like Clavicar? That chiseled face thing, is men not women being attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:24 PM
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Or you could just read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:22 PM
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From this conversation it seems like you've bragged about pumping and dumping here. If you didnt know its wrong to lie to people you would not have posted this. This post is you trying to feel better about your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:25 PM
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Lying is bad ok? I have never seen a trophy wife/gold digger situation when one perso had no idea. One of my favorite couples is a may/December romance. They really do love each other deeply. A close friend of mine is approaching 70, has money, and is actively looking for a caregiver type who needs a leg up in life, again no harm no foul. In neither senerio did lying come in to play!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:23 PM
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No ltrs, proceeds to tell us how women behave in relationships. Can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:40 AM
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I based my post, on your post history btw. Of course their are shitty women! Or women whose dad's never expressed vulnerability and they dont know how to process it *freeze, which would not make them shitty, just immature. Sane things happen to women BTW when they open up about sexual assault history. Mature good men have no problem with that. Immature men freeze and dont know how to react, bad men accuse the woman. We got three variables for men and women. Here is a forth. Men or women having m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:26 AM
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Is a women who is into sports like football non feminine? Or do most guys like women who are into sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:18 AM
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We call talk about that once the guys stop talking about women having sex as cumdusters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:17 AM
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Because the main guys who complain about this tell us they have never been in a relationship. Because I dont believe for a second guys who complain daily about dating, are not complaining about dating. Because insecure men compare themselves to a women's previous relationships. Because insecure men blow up relationships with their insecurities instead of enjoying the relationship by comparing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:12 AM
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When you are a couple part of the is balancing your wants with your partners wants. Would you buy a house if your partner did not want to buy that house?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:45 PM
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Pergaps going out and getting your own friends instead of being the joke around your cousins friends might be helpful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:32 PM
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Being vulnerable about your dating struggles on a date is the same thing as a women saying all of her exes were bad people. I have a hard time thinking that young men who have never been in a relationship who complain about women all day on the internet would understand "vulnerability" in any other context. Part of people an adult is learning to express yourselves without trauma dumping on you love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:29 PM
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Your point is you don't care about what the other person wants, just what you want. We know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:46 PM
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Are you going to let your woman have her own life now then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:56 PM
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Sexual slavery is a lot more then a obligation. We all know you are pro slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:22 PM
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From the 1900s?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:15 PM
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This is a discussion of western dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:00 PM
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Pit bulls are terriers, naturally prey driven. However they used to have the nickname nanny dogs, a well trained not abused pit is a good dog. Did you know this sub was about western dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:42 PM
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All my 80s++ memories are flashing to the seasoned doorman thumb going that way. Its not towards the door. I wonder though if this is, I got a girl, so I can trade up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:52 AM
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Dogs are natural killing machines???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:46 PM
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Any man can hire a prositute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:06 PM
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In Winnipeg if some weirdo comes up and starts ranting at you on the bus I can garentee that the only thing on your mind is not getting stabbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:44 PM
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It happened. From the other side, imagining my city: "some weirdo started a tirade about women at me after I gave a cute gal my seat hoping to get her attention, like any sane person I nodded and said sounds good buddy. I thought I was going to get a Winnipeg handshake for a minute there".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:31 PM
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In any white collar job they had to yes. "At no point in human history were women made to wear heels". Give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:26 PM
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Without intent, you have nothing. Hard to believe honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:52 PM
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You gave him a lecture without knowing his intent????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:44 PM
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Women that wanted to work . Bank tellers, secretaries, switch board operators all had heels as part of the dress code.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:41 PM
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Or. "You shot your shot and it didn't work out". Do you also gal spending a drink to a woman you want to fuck in a bar chivalry?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:07 PM
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No they dont. Where the heck do you live? Young man probably wanted to get her attention, thats not chivalry! Was he complaining she said no when he asked her out? I think you gave him the wrong lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:04 PM
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Humans give their seats to the elderly, disabled and visibly pregnant women. Giving your seat to able bodied women has not been a thing since women were allowed to not wear heels, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:55 PM
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Most people still live within a tribe. Alone people cut off from their families and community....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:06 PM
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I didnt say evil. Dont lie to people, as easy as that. You thought you had a "gottcha" but somehow forgot that women have eyes and ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:45 PM
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When women dont want casual sex, and the guy lies about their intent until he gets sex. You know this, guys here often make threads that they have to pretend to want a relationship to get sex . Of course that hurts, for a bit. People that lie about intent suck dont they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:25 PM
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Women are not delusional about how men think.of the women they hook.up with. WE KNOW. What's delusional is thinking women who go for casual sex think differently about the men they hook up with. A hookup, is simply a unpaid prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:00 PM
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Show us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:04 PM
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I wish this was the case!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:06 AM
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In a wolf pack there are two leaders, the parents. The study was done on captive wolf's. It was literally "how do wolves work in jail".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:03 AM
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I stated this within the text. I only did that once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:16 AM
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Yes. A guy who spends his days complaining about how females aren't having sex with him. You know there is a gathering place for incels on the interwebs right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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For sure! Again I met a few guys who had stellar lives. I would not have called them high value though, they were just open to meeting someone in Nicaragua and enjoying a nice simple lives. A few of them I knew owned and worked fincas. (Homesteads). One guy, he had serve three tours being the guy who deals with planes landing on aircraft containers (a long pulley line) with no injuries, kinda unheard of. First day moving there he blew off a finger lighting a bomba. True story. Nice guy, had a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:15 PM
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Explain to me how a incel can be friends with a women. Sounds like a Klan member with a black friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:38 PM
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Did you know a virgin and a incel are not the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:24 PM
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Let's say I knew 200 guys. 5 would not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:21 PM
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When I first met my husband the majority of my income was passive (internet sites I had built in the previous couple of years). I physically went to a job about 15 hours a week. This worried my mother in law, as she couldn't understand internet passive income. She would ask if I had a job yet, was I enjoying my husbands home etc. One day, my husband told me what to say to her the next time she asks. So zi said "husband told me to tell you that he worked long and hard to get an accessory like me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:07 PM
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That says a lot doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:59 AM
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Watch yourself isnt casual, its very rude. Its what you say to someone when threatening them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:08 AM
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No. There are often solo rooms you could have booked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:16 PM
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You did this to yourself. No one else. You. Why the heck did you book a holiday away and isolate yourself. You are talking to someone that lived in SJDS (2 1/2 years) Im not some naive teenage boy who you can convince that average and below average guys dont stay and have fun in hostels This is on no one but yourself. And how the heck are you able to decern between a tourist and a local in Croatia at first glance? When I traveled through the Baltics in early 2000s in the tourist centers there we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:06 PM
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So you stuck yourself in isolation on your chance to met actual people, then decided "every average guy would do the same thing". Congratulations. You totally blocked yourself from meeting people and having a better time because you are uncomfortable with shared quarters. Did you think the party would be at your lonely hotel room?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:30 PM
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First, Nicaragua guys are pretty chill, so no problem with her being treated better. They certainly can gain immense wealth! We were semi friends with Peter Kobar, hes passed so I can name him. He was a very wealthy guy from Denmark who lived in Nicaragua fir about 10 years before we got there. ( he is goggleble to verify. He "married" over time three very intelligent beautiful tall Nicaraguan women (all around 30) who ran his businesses for him, bought amazing properties for their families to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:23 PM
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How is it irrelevant to dating, when thats when it happens the most? Do you get drafted because you went on a date with the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:38 PM
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Did you get your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:04 PM
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Its problematic. Mexico city is having issues with digital nomads raising rents, not the only place. I paid 250 a month for a place in Nicaragua a block from the beach, but I lived in a place that was designed for a local. After we left they did a reno and charged 3 times the rent, a rent that locals could not afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:03 PM
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The things I saw living in Nicaragua. One guy came into town and proclaimed he wanted a wife, guys took him out and bought him a woman fir a laugh. He married her. Within a couple of days he married her. Then they went furniture shopping and her family got all new furniture, a smart TV, all of it. A couple of days later she dumped him. A week or so later he realized that the furniture would be repossessed if he didnt pay, so they got back together. Within a month he went home, completely broke a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:37 PM
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What did they think was going to happen when 100s of them landed into town with the same agenda? Sometimes I wonder why young men dont understand that women can read their words on the internet, and observe their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:07 PM
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People are allowed their opinions, just like you. When you dress very revealingly you will get stared at more, by people who choose to stare. When you choose to stare (or say things) expect others to react just like you did!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:42 PM
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In some places they have women only clubs so women can dress up and go out and dance without being hit on (Jamaica comes to mind). NO doubt there are angry men there complaining about women only spaces. .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:31 PM
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Seriously. Like there is one answer. I once had sex because I was really angry over a situation , couldn't do anything about it, so decided I needed a diversion from my thoughts for a few hours. I found the first guy who had long hair and was thin, good enough, asked him if he wanted to leave with me. You here the stories here you'd think this guy somehow impacted my life! I did actually meet him a couple of years later when he dated a friend. He recognized me, it took me awhile. What is importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:25 PM
2

Exactly. But the online gender war (real life is not like this) started with Gamergate. You know this is just online right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:58 AM
2

By playing video games? This whole only online thing started with gamer gate you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:53 AM
2

Where you live, do you see feminism as a problem? Which part? Criminalizing rape? Counters to try and stop street harassment? Which are problematic to you in your culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:43 AM
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Thanks for saying its ok tp be nice to your wife sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:05 AM
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That reminds me of the mother of autistic kid I work with who told me "girls on the internet are saying they would rather be alone in a room with a polar bear then a man" Change the entire story to upset yourself more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:58 AM
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I picked the bear because I grew up canoe tripping in the whiteshell instead of spending my childhood indoors glued to a screen. In the woods is a bears home, they know you are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:55 AM
0

You lost all your friends, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:48 AM
4

Your friends sisters are telling you about their hookups? Sounds like they are aware how much women having a sex life triggers you, and have a running joke going at your expense. Solo female travelers tend to be pretty serious, stick to their schedules more then women who travel with people. I know very few women who solo travel, especially young people. Weird how you know so many who have all given you the details!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:44 AM
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I lived in a surf town, also had the largest Sunday Funday in central America. I knew a dozen of so hostel owners. Did you know having sex in a group room is highly looked down on? About 20% of young visitors hooked up, including guys using local pros. You say you know multitudes of women and they have all told you they have hooked up with locals on vacation. That's a stereotype of a certain divorced middle age office worker. I've met two of those in my rather long life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:38 AM
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No one is going to desire someone who resents them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:46 PM
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Read the thread. No he is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:39 PM
2

When you watch porn, are those women average?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:37 PM
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Because your post was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:36 PM
8

I've been to Zagreb!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:35 PM
8

Its not that deep? What's the first line of his post?? A complete lie. Yet they eat it up because it feeds their insecurity monster inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 PM
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And men desire super hot women. And then a man and a women meet, they connect, they make out, life happens, and that how people become couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:32 PM
5

You mean the women on Instagram and your other feeds you would like to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:29 PM
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You cannot observe what you haven't seen. Observing what you havent seen is by definition psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:54 PM
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Tomorrow choose better. What were you wearing. Why did you go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:18 PM
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There are 16 or so letters. I'm sure yours in in there somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:38 PM
5

I came within seconds of being kidnapped in Tallinn, with my husband. Unconscious , being carried out of the club. You have zero clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:37 PM
4

You want people to know you are a straight femme boy how?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:33 PM
11

You mean most of western Europe. Not all of western Europe would be included in safe places for solo women Travellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:47 PM
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Average men dont stay and hang out in hostels?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:46 PM
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Saw the title, thought it was a woman. OP. There are places in the world where solo female travel is almost impossible. Women stay together for safety. I lived in a surf town, dozens of hostels. It was pretty much 50/50 in hostels. Your choice to go rent a solo room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:43 PM
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You dont want to be called a man, but you are not queer. OK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:22 PM
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I get that you are not gay, but you are calling yourself part of the queer community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:10 PM
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Like maybe your handle? "Not gay, just a straight femme boy" would be the answer, wouldnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:08 PM
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Sounds like you could be having a good life, but you are refusing to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:07 PM
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Welcome to the life of a not cis person. Which you are not. Do you think because you have a penis and you want someone with a vagina Trumps you wanting to preform the role of a femme boy? That's queer, by definition. And yes there is discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 PM
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You must now have a lot of empathy for what women get in their inbox weekly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:02 PM
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My husband is ACE. He knew "he wasn't like other guys" but hes straight, always had a girlfriend. ALL of his girlfriends throughout his life eventually (he fakes interest for awhile), friends, definitely my dad thought he was gay. He is not. Hes romantically straight, and doesn't care about sex, not turned on by visuals. Hes a logical guy. He knows he presented as kinda gay (zero male gaze) , he didnt have a word for it. Now he does. You have a word when people are confused by your sexuality. Us…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:01 PM
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You mean talking points that have zero to do with the topic point at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:50 PM
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I haven't looked there for years. I do post in purple pill.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 03:05 PM
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Because half the users were men pretending to be women. In fact some were outright outed as regular red pill guys. Before AI, guys pretended to be their own hypothetical girlfriend a lot.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 02:43 PM
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"The female" and "my experience " are phrases that are not logical together. Cancel each other out .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:14 PM
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Spunds like to you its the only value. The problem is, you think other men think like you. Some do, those are the men women dont want. Unless you yourself only want a woman to value you for one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:11 PM
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Or perhaps when your wife just gave birth to your child you should be thinking about the child and not impregnated her again. I had kids 11 months apart when I was 19. Im well aware of the games you've played. I so wish I had been an adult when I had to pretend to be one because my partner was also a frigging infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:06 PM
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Guys pretending to be women.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 01:40 PM
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Ten years ago red pill wives was called larping guys, and red pill marriages had the largest divorce stats Ive ever seen, like once a week a guy who been giving daily field reports on negging their wives came in to say shes leaving them. It was, pathetic. Funny, but not really considering often their were children involved.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/26 01:30 PM
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None of those things have anything to do with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:28 AM
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Once an adult there is no door without employment for both men and women. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:27 AM
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Im aware, thats why Ive been here so long. I am rooting for you. There were lots of losers in my generation. They are todays homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:59 PM
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There was no NEETS in my generation. Your dad would have slapped that thought out of you. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:22 PM
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Whose having more success? They both end up with one women who like them. Unless you are playing Pokémon. Instead of looking for someone to connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:20 PM
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Work harder??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:16 PM
4

What's post nut clarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:15 AM
6

You can know someone for years, and not know their true character. Take your grandmother for instance, would she be surprised at seeing what you write here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:02 AM
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Character and personality are not the same thing. Personality is what the world sees, character is who you are inside. Your ethics for instance would be part of your character, not personality. Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:48 AM
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Character and personality are not the same thing. Very confused by your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:49 AM
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No. Good people dont become aaaholes because they experience jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:40 AM
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I'm a happily married semi-retired gardener, no one I know would call me a radical feminist. I post here, because one young man who is saved from this crap from the recruiters is like taking a homeless guy off the street. Ive been doing this for years now, and have often had to make this post. (I should really put a good one somewhere and cut and paste). Im not a bot, and Im not your enemy unless you are a psychopath or bot trying to dig young men into the manosphere. Ive been doing this since 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:17 AM
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Yes, they mingle, exchange contacts and take it from there. Its pretty rare outside of a hookup bar for people to meet and make out that night. Seriously. 80s-90s house parties were not a orgy, and honestly if you were that person who went into a bedroom, it was distasteful. It has never been the norm to meet and hook up the same day, outside of fringe groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:17 PM
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You are thinking in terms of looking for hookups. People meet, then hit each other up online and chat. The pills tells you to go from A-Z when you meet. You've read a lot of stories about how couples meet here, no one said "he hit on me after he hit on 5 other women and I went home with him". They do however talk about senerios like I see all the time. The guy I was talking about, decidedly doesn't do hookups (at least that he would admit to) and isnt looking to date in Canada. He could, but he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:57 PM
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It happens more after 11pm. Besides alcohol groups run out of running jokes, catching up and start to look elsewhere. Its so frigging sad that a 57 year old woman knows more about the goings ons at brewpubs then some young people. One kid I work with its out all the frigging time, constantly meeting friends. Hes lived here 4 years and it feels sometimes hes friends with everyone around his age. I mean he even knows who my son is, and their circles should never met!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:44 PM
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Difference, there were more people doing it in the 80s. Same thing, less venues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:28 PM
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What you will see however is groups mingling. Did you skip that? Ive been going to bars since the early 80s, still do. Really hasn't changed that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:16 PM
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So you listened to manosphere curated clips. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:11 PM
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Interesting isnt it, with the guys all upset here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:52 PM
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Most bars are not the pick up places people here think they are. What you will see however is groups mingling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:51 PM
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Why would a radical.feminist say yes to a date with you? Is this a "I'll do that" senerio?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:32 PM
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That's interesting. Did you go to high-school during covid? I work in a grocery store across from a highschol. During covid the kids were all in Pj's basically, glued to their phones. Now though, its rare to see the kids with their phones out, they are more stylish, and definitely in mixed groups having fun on their lunch break. Perhaps you are not the young person anymore, but instead part of a generation that seems to lack the ability to bounce back?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:30 PM
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So I just looked up "call her daddy" and it doesn't have anything to do with gender wars. At all. I'll give it a listen, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:26 PM
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You are not going to like the answer.. Phone sex with chat buddies you haven't seen a picture of was a thing in the beginning of the internet. A big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:02 PM
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Choose better. Have no filter. Which one? You are married and here complaining about how dating is so unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:05 PM
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Again, a person who considers their date an adversary should not be dating. What are your dating goals and motivations?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:36 AM
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Beginning of the internet, lots of times without.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:52 AM
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There it is right there. If you consider your date an adversary you should not be dating. "I dont care" is exactly what women filter for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:43 AM
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Just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:25 AM
4

It means you believe all woman are gay. Is that what your yellow pill is? Trying to start your own pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:21 AM
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I gave never felt anything in my crotch by looking at a man. Talking to a man, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:20 AM
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Isn't it fantastic that men are statistically 3 inches taller then women and thats what fits for couples? There are plenty of under 5.4 women statistically speaking. Yet guys try for the 5.6 and up instagram models. What's up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:18 AM
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Nerds get bullied in school. Kids that dont fit in get bullied in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:37 PM
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I didnt even make it to highschool, I was bullied. Weren't you also bullied by girls? Why do you think those girls are someone you'd want to date now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:28 PM
1

Incel tears documents the posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:26 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:24 PM
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I get that with trump in the Whitehouse you could think that. But do you really think no one judges your words and actions? BTW. How does this explain trump, who is not attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:53 PM
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Its not immoral. It is however annoying as all heck to the people around you. Do you enjoy listen to people complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:32 PM
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Yes. Hes quite proud of it, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:22 PM
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The response is from.a diagnosed psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:51 PM
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Yes, the act of you complaining is what you are judge on. The people are rolling their eyes thinking "all the shit that happens to people, and this guy over there thinks getting laid is the world biggest problem." I asked you if you thought that someone who was waiting for robots to replace women would make a good partner, not that if they could lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:49 PM
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When I recommend this I am told its not the same because the pro won't really want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:06 PM
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People judge you on your words and actions. No one besides maybe your family cares if you are in a relationship at all. When you read a post like "women are going to be replaced by science" do you think the author would make a good partner to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:05 PM
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There sure are a lot of them talking about it on their website. Or is it fine they talk about doing violence all day everyday there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:14 AM
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She's asking, are you saying that because you were bullied by the popular boys in high school do you think those same boys as adults will abuse women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:13 AM
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Do you mean like saying "you were aiming past your league or choose better? Your OP seems to be hinting at: The attractive men are the ones that bullied us in high school so you shouldn't date them. Am I far off?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:11 AM
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It shouldn't. We want to be with like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:30 PM
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Compatibility is hard. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:54 PM
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No. I said no one calls someone a starter when they are still married, except for their parents. Are you a parent? I have three adult children, I keep my views of their relationships to myself, but I still have my views. Why are you outraged about a term that is unisex and understandable in context? Myself, I have a daughter who has been with her partner since they were 16. They are not a good match in adulthood. (Not because they are bad people, they just grew into very different people). I wis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:46 PM
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Are you autistic? This could be a autistic thing, social cues and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:40 PM
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Who calls someone are starter spouse regardless of age?? No one should take that well! Women (and men) use that term after divorce, not before. People who know them may say that about them (married too young) but if you say that to their face, then you are an idiot. Do you think mother's dont see when a women is a starter wife? Its a term in regards to a marriage that is not thought out, not an insult one sex uses against the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:34 PM
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Dating is a process. Having a boyfriend is dating. Getting married too young is a starter husband as everyone knows those marriages outside of strict religious cultures rarely last.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:28 PM
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Its not about perfection, its about that person being a positive in your life. ANY guy who thinks in pilled terms is a net negative to any women who wants her own life outside of their relationship. I think you are thinking about looks, while a good match has nothing to do with looks besides initial attraction. If I live in the heart of the city, and like it that way should I choose a farmer? If I have a good social life and a close family should I choose a guy who doesn't enjoy company? If I lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:46 PM
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I can trade in that Kia in a couple of years. Dating is designed to find the person you want to be with. Its a process, not a race to the finish line. People are not objects you own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:08 PM
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Most of the guys here are young enough that they have no context to the fact that as an adult, no one cares who you were in grade school. Or the fact that the vast majority of young people do things their adult self cringes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:42 PM
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I dated a guy who had used a prositute, he was in the navy at the time. Really didnt think anything about it, as I met him years later. I also wouldnt think anything about a guy with a huge count, years later. However if a guy said he was now going to quit doing those things because of me, I would treat that the same way Id treat an active addiction I dont want in my life. Same with normal men. As Ive said here many times I was a child prositute in the early 80s. Obviously normal guys didnt want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:04 PM
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I raised three, youngest is early 30s. If I was starting over, I would not have children. No one said anything about hating having kids, your life however completely revolves around them as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:04 AM
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Are you not a big fan of your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:18 AM
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Fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:09 AM
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If you could have artifical eggs why not sperms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:08 AM
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You think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:07 AM
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The answer is no. You are one of the ones here who I really hope will look back on this time of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:15 AM
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How many children do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:03 AM
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How much do you think an artifical womb would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:00 AM
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What influencer is making this the topic of the day. Its true that many young women are being turned off of dating. Might be wanting them to have aex within hours of knowing/spending time with you, might be the fact that men are very clear about how they feel about women who have sex early on in dating. Might be the fact that guys express this option over and over again for all to see. Its crazy isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:42 AM
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That's what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:47 PM
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Do you want them to feel like you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:44 PM
1

Is it incontinence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:42 PM
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Always excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:15 AM
2

You've never heard of group hikes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:15 AM
1

Does yellow pill involve piss play?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:46 AM
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Like hiking, or cross fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:39 AM
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That's children, not women receiving more. Are you against children being feed clothed, and sheltered? Do you think if they were not, women would need men more? Do you want to be with someone because they need their children to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:09 PM
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All that, and you couldn't say how you would like them to converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:51 PM
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OK. Would it not be more fun right now to be at a park having a picnic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:05 PM
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Posting here is not time and effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:34 PM
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When you are an adult, other adults ask you what you do for a living when you meet them, men or women . I have never not met ANYONE who didnt ask me. Asking about your hobbies? Sounds horrible. (S). What questions would you like them to ask, name three. I also ask about their family, friends, all the things that make them who they are. How would one go about getting to know someone without questions? Again, what's a ok question for you? What questions did you ask at this speed dating event?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:34 PM
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Yep. His math isnt mathing. I supposed if you grow up in a home where this was the norm you could think the rest of the world lives like that. Cant imagine any other reason one would think this, with a heavy slice or resentment for being dealt this hand in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:28 PM
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Really. ... That's interesting. Where do you live where this is happening? And you said since childhood. Do male children not receive welfare where you live? This is fascinating, a country wear over 50% of the population receives welfare and no men do. I want to know more!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:13 PM
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What percentage of women do you think have received welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:00 PM
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Have you been getting upset about cold approaching without understanding the meaning of the word?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:33 PM
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That's a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:04 AM
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Are you ok being pegged? No problem with me putting on the strap on and going to town? I dont get how guys who think this here dont understand that when they do manage to get a gal all shes going to think about is small children that take fits because they want the same size peice of cake If she liked it, she would want to do it. Why do you want the person you love to do something thats unpleasant, and perhaps painful? I used to frigging love anal. You know what I have done? Broken up with guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:44 PM
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Then she shouldn't be dating you. The last thread about this topic the OP was a below average guy upset because the women he sugars haven't done anal with him. He said its his right to only date above average women, im guessing hes dangling money. Dont be that guy, and you won't have that outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:41 PM
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No. Means no. Stop trying to coherence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:29 PM
3

Ruined how? Trying something new ruins a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:02 PM
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I was always completely open with my potential partners. If I was dating in today's climate of "fairness" I would not be. No frigging way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:59 PM
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Couldn't answer the question? Why do you want the person you love to do something they dont want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:38 PM
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I would say the guy was not good at anal. If you like head, but the women hurts you when she does it, even after you say it hurts would you still like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:17 PM
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Any man can phone a service for that at anytime. Paying for sex is still cheating, which is easier for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:54 PM
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Dont threaten people, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:38 AM
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Who talked about crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:09 AM
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No. They said if you threaten to leave unless they do what you want. Not if you decide that you dont want to be in the relationship. Are you aware of why us humans dont get married when we first meet someone? We date, to see if you are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:04 AM
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Its not. Who said it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:51 AM
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No one is stopping you from leaving. Much better then things escalating, as they do in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:48 AM
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Those feelings he has, being insecure, comparing themselves to past relationships. Those things are as big of a red flag in regards to the quality of the relationship as him kicking a random dog. This is not something that should be soothed, its something to run from. I cannot say this strongly enough. Your thoughts are your own, everyone gets intrusive thoughts at times, however when your intrusive thoughts lead to behaviors this has crossed a line. People should not be in intimate relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:42 PM
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Its a sexual act she has done before. That is the criteria. There is no, "only involving the man on top". It most certainly is a one on one comparison, if your goal is to do everything with your girlfriend shes done before. What acts are considered as in the fair camp to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:21 PM
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One guy here is so adamant about his sense of "fairness" that he said if his women had pegged someone else then he would endure this just to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:09 PM
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Women dont flake if they like someone. They do if they have been asked out by a guy they dont want to date though. Perhaps your subject should have been woman should be truthful when they dont want to date someone. If I am not comfortable having sex yet and do, how is that pleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:17 PM
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When I like a guy why would I flake? Im not "making him wait", Im waiting until Im comfortable having sex. OP why do you want women to have sex with you when they dont want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:46 PM
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I just the meet the son of one of my friends, he came to work with his sister, mid thirties or so. It was pretty obvious that they are very close, confirmed later by my friend who said theyve been joined at the hip since childhood. If someone has no one in their lives they deeply connect with on an emotional level getting a women will not change who that person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:02 PM
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A lot less then the rot thats happened to young men caught up in the manosphere. I had an abusive first husband from 15-26. Ive since been happily married for over 25 years now. In what way was I ruined?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:58 PM
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You are right. Humans are not born with all the skills they need. They are not handed to them when they are a certain age. Parenting and our peers teach us how to gain the skills we need to navigate life. Hence if a young woman for instance meets an abusive man, dates for awhile, learns their lesson and moves on to non abusive men to date this is a normal thing when the parenting has failed them in regards to seeing the signs of potential abuse. It is a skill issue. Skills are learned, not known…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:03 AM
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Do you want a list of the top porn categories?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:50 PM
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Is that you in the picture? If you are not severely autistic and dont need the daily watching over of caregivers your mother and aunt will set you up with a wife . Ask them why they haven't already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:24 PM
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Show me a picture of a disabled woman you'd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:41 PM
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A social disability is just that. Why aren't you dating a disabled woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:22 PM
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Why wouldn't it be moral behavior? You could certainly bring that woman home and make her your girlfriend and wife couldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:21 PM
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I said find something else to do. I know people who have never had romantic relationships, they found something else to do. OP is very autistic and has made sex his special interest. He needs a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:10 PM
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You stated that men have to work harder to get the women they want. Yet more women get plastic surgery, which you consider work then men. If you wanted to have sex with any woman you could walk up to a homeless encampment and trade sex for beer. So what work do you do, that women dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:07 PM
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Dude...................... its been throughly debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:02 PM
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He is however very autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:01 PM
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Are you seriously trying to bring up that poll from years ago (15) into discussion again? That stopped having any affect 2 years ago. To bring you up to speed, the poll was based on the pictures the guy had, the women still messaged the guys who had unattractive pictures based on their bios (which was more of a thing back then, before you thought about dating). The study also showed that 80% of the guys were only messaging 20% of the women, when it talked about engagement. All it meant was guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:58 PM
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What answer? You are completely undatable and never will be dateable. Completely broken. Either find something else to do or give up and keep your woe is me to yourself. Is that the answer he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:52 PM
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What was that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:49 PM
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You consider butt implants to be real work? Who will do the work on your plastic surgery? Why is you getting this work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:47 PM
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The black and white thinking is byproduct of autism, dhared by a couple of personality disorders like BPD. Before computer programing that's where society funneled its emotionally retarded people ( I'm using that phrase, as that was how autism was described back in the day). Black and white thinking is not a good thing, the fact that society has found a way to use this dysfunction doesn't make it a positive outside of your employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:28 PM
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How many women do you know that have punched holes through walls? Why do you consider anger not an emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:23 PM
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You asked about cold approaching, which is walking up to complete strangers. It doesn't work, for good reason, why would a guy just walk up to me on the street and ask me out? Go out with friends, go to the park and have picnics with your parents, just go out and talk to people so you can have a chance at flirting first, asking out after. IE: warm approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:36 PM
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Please look up the statistics on remarriage after divorce. 60% of men are remarried before a year. 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:55 PM
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You dont. Stay single!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:54 PM
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If you join a mixed baseball league for instance, and there is a single women there that you get along well with and find attractive thats awesome. That's how people meet, for sure ask her out. If you join a league and ask each women that talks to you out......because you want sex with anyone. These are not the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:52 PM
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If you dont want to socialize you dont want to date. What you want is access to someone's body. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:30 PM
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You want a girl, but not a girlfriend you mean. If you can't maintain and nuture relationships platonically, what makes you think you could?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:28 PM
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If you don't like socializing why date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:58 AM
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Why do the men here want to walk up to women they have never met and get a date so much instead of doing things where they will meet women? What is making you want to approach this woman? What do you like about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:49 AM
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What you consider work is what normal people consider growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:44 AM
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The answer is then, the normal things people do as they grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:16 AM
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Her son has a mixed friend group and spends time with people instead of screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:41 AM
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Do you think those men are Chad's? I bet the men that did this must have been really attractive, so much so that their wives didnt choose better. And you guys wonder why young woman aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:37 AM
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Did you just try and say the fact that your entire thesis is false doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:33 AM
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What is this work? This week, what work have you done for dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:24 AM
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What work? What work did you do to get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:23 AM
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What work have you done to get a date? Is this considered part of your work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:22 AM
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Meeks is exceptionally attractive. You are not. If dating is work, you shouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:22 AM
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Young woman are having less sex and making more money since Ive been around. Do you mean the scale of teenage boys obsessed with these concepts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:08 PM
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And those discussions revolve around keeping children offline and closely monitoring their usage least their kids get groomed by adults. Which is what happened to your generation, sadly. How old were you when you first started watching porn? Manosphere content? Us adults want that to not happen anymore. I can assure you that we are not contemplating handing you real women, but AI based sex dolls might be the only "cure" for those too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:54 PM
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Back when I was young nerds didn't get past the doorman. They didnt even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:50 PM
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But there are women who are visually aroused, and men that are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:11 AM
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Does it not take courage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:38 AM
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And a womans to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:15 AM
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Older gay men provide very freely for twinks. Very. I dont know how many guys Ive known whose schooling was paid for in return for being a houseboy. Its the gay version of stripping your way through college.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:45 AM
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Would have been easier to download grinder, dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:39 PM
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I worked in group homes, and would have definitely loved to do more then volunteer at shelters. Im getting surgery on one of my hands next month, my doctor suggests I not work, as I'll mess it up doing things I shouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:06 PM
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I have severe ADHD, male presenting, emphasize on the hyper. Routines are extremely important to me, people like me often find employment in kitchens because we thrive in high stress environments. What I can't do is sit at a desk and stare at a screen. When I get hyper focused, I can outwork the vast majority of my coworkers even at my age. I also love doing house/yard work, adore my husband of 25 years, and he seems quite happy. We both seek out novelty, though he is on the autism spectrum, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:50 PM
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Sure they are. Why dont you tell people in this thread that ti properly vet someone you must hire a private detective before going on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:15 AM
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The guy yiu are talking to says to his a private detective before agreeing to a date. If yiu haven't, you are now not properly vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:12 AM
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Your second and third examples contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:02 AM
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The celebrity thing was discussed here a couple of days ago. Her fault because hes cheated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:01 AM
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What does not self mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:52 PM
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You say they dont like you because you dont follow traditional gender roles, without saying what you mean yes Im going to think you are effeminate, which would not be a reason to not like you, in any group of gals Ive ever met. What's you action that they dislike?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:20 PM
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That's what they say about you? Its not, he doesn't look up from the screen and looks at us creepy when he does? Are you telling me you are too feminine for your sisters friends? Cause, the gay brother is s troop for a reason, your sisters friends would love a effeminate brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:25 PM
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I think your parents tell them before they meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:17 PM
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Based on your listening to your sister and her friends. What do they think of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:16 PM
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I do, though she may be plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:10 PM
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Worship you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:45 PM
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Stop.asking for advice then. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:02 AM
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Dude. This isnt about AI, the person I was talking about has a diagnoses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:01 AM
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You dont think people are aware something is off with you once they get to know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:31 PM
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Then stop soliciting it. Which advice in particular? To expand you social circle? To seek therapy with the understanding that its on you to want to be able to expand your social circle if you can't expand your social circle? To learn about body language, and how interupting it can lead you to understand the difference between giving out intent, and being creepy? Which specific advice are you having problems with, and most importantly for those who have not attracted any female interest how has y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:20 PM
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Have you told the Ms moral that she will be replaced by a robot? Do you tell her she impends your socializing? Dont you think being a psychopath impeds your socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:07 PM
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Like the standards of not voting for Trump or being part of the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:14 PM
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I didnt like it at all until my husband. At all. He had to convince me to spend 5 minutes trying it. Hes a musican, it didnt take a minute. There is something different when you are with a musician who cares enough to play you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:05 PM
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Why didn't you settle down sooner then? Is this a post complaining that young women aren't interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:18 AM
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Tell me about the good old days 50 years before you were born. What part of dating then would you like to bring back? The part where popular gals dated multiple young men? The always paying bit? The talking to her parents before the date? The calling her house not knowing who would answer the phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:03 AM
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Good grief
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:56 AM
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Mixed group brewpubs where groups give out together is the best place to meet people today, but you need a group to go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:11 PM
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Going out with a group of male friends and chatting with a group of female friends happens for a few hours between 11-2 in every brew pub, sports bar, neighbourhood Chain with a pub etc happens every weekend across north America. Sometimes they lead to romance, sometimes just a fun night out. Im old as shit and Im still out enough to see this going on, constantly. Its not just Chad's with Staceys, its normal people talking and laughing together. When's the last time guys here got together in a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:10 PM
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While men have a harder time finding a fem domme partner, with fet life its never been easier to hang with fellow linked people in your area. However wanting a particular flavor of femme domme, is kinda besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:25 PM
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A women would not just be settling in this case, she would exist in the relationship simply as an object of kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:56 PM
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A guy who wants a dominant partner, that will allow him to top from the bottom is not a average guy looking for a average partner. .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:15 PM
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Care and guilt are not linked together. I dont get it, do you care about your cat because you feel guilty about something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:53 PM
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You are looking for sex via dates, not a relationship. This is irrelevant to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:36 AM
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Every women has not has casual sex with someone they dont know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:35 AM
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What could a red pilled man do besides burning a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:45 PM
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Hurt people hurt people. Or are our prisons full of people that had ideal lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:30 AM
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Do you think a pick me, is a pick you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:49 PM
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Is it because you are worse at stalking, or you are a man and not allowed to stalk, or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:48 PM
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Did you watch that show and wish you were him? I need to know more about your thought process here. Do you think most men watched that show and wished they were the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:33 PM
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A pick me is THE woman who gets with a known abusive guy, attacks the ex he abused because shes not like other girls until the leopard bites her face. The red pill certainly wants and filters for pick mes, they also often have BPD, which makes relationships mutually abusive. Then, AWALT. Women know pilled guys want pick mes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:17 PM
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The gals you want, the gals your influencers interview and hit on/fuck do want a 6/6/6. To pretend that influencers are most women is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:33 PM
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There are no birds, they are drones. Check mate internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:51 PM
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Dogs, male or female like feminine energy. Birds on the other hand (to get back on topic) like men more. Go figure!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:51 PM
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We are talking about reaction to strangers in dogs and wolves. And you are very wrong, extremely wrong, weirdly wrong. Hint, when you treat bullie breeds like a baby, they are scucky as all heck. The pit bulls nick name was nanny dogs. When you get the like men get giant trucks bullie you have a dog whose been trained to act aggressive cause daddy thinks its funny, at an extreme, not many women own fighting pits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:45 PM
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Now read about dogs, wolves and the differences in their reactions to men and women. I'll give you an abstract, dogs are much more comfortable around women. What does this have to do with your perceived gender war ( which apparently no one told anyone at my local high-school about).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:05 PM
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Perhaps its the messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:04 PM
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Men use prostitutes for this more often then not. Are you saying they aren't hotter then the average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:24 PM
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Hurt people Hurt people. This is true throughout life, including relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:45 PM
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Guys getting their panties in a knot about a cup of coffee. Not taking no for a answer. Insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:01 AM
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Your post creates drama. Paying for a coffee on a first meeting seems to be something that would create drama with you already. OP, when should sex first happen when you start dating someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:59 AM
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Where does it say men are more honest on these surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:50 AM
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And that's makes them cheaters? Getting positive reinforcement makes you an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:46 AM
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If that was true, incels would not be a thing. Men with good looks have desire, then.of course charisma right? Charisma comes from an active mixed group social life. The opposite of staring at a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:50 AM
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Why would lack of charisma stop the desire? Why would charisma make that desire? Do you think men with good social skills want to cheat, and men that dont have good social skills dont want to cheat? Part of good social skills is being agreeable, isnt cheating the opposite of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:31 AM
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Im 57, if I walked down the street and went up to every guy and asked if they wanted sex, it wouldnt take that long. That's a bug, not a function. You dont want a old woman, you want the women that look like the ones your influencers have sex with, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:18 AM
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Skill and effort. Like women dont go to the gym and learn to talk to people. Did you know there are women that dont? And aren't out fucking randoms? But they aren't on the feeds, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:56 PM
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Its very rare for a woman to do that, unless they are focusing on career and dont care. Very rare. I know very few women with more then a couple of those under their belts, and those women have major issues. The only women doing this sort of thing are deep into their party years. Dont worry about them, they will become tomorrow's Marlogo guests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:17 PM
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That is complete bullshit. I see the women on the manosphere tik tok crap, those are not average women. Chad, is not fucking the weird woman anymore then Stacey is fucking the weird guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:09 PM
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Its of their own making. If you are not dating, shes not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:07 PM
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Some people eat people. It exists. Are you likely to have that happen to you, unless you dont know the word no? No, you are not. Are you the guy who tried to say no means no unless it means yes to me about this topic last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:58 PM
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Then be self aware enough not to pay for a fancy meal for someone looking for a meal ticket. Yet the guys here seem to not have this skill, as everyday there is a thread about resources. Is there a thread a day from.women here complaining about being used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:56 PM
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How come when a woman has a one night stand with a hot guy, its the end of the world, shes going to be alpha widowed, she won't be able to pair bond, her vulva will get bigger, does anyone want to add to this list? Yet when a guy has sex with a hot woman, even though in all likelihood that woman just wanted an itch scratch and he would do because he was there (been there done that many times) he's just the bees knees?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:54 PM
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Do you know what arousal means?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:58 PM
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Cucking is the act of watching your love interest get fucked by another guy. It doesn't make men have a cuck fetish persay, its engaging in the act of being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:11 PM
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Honestly then your best best is to date a woman who has very male traits, a Trans woman perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:43 PM
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What is with all the incest porn? Its really fucking kids up. Big time. I think for all but disenfranchised kids whose parents dont have the time or inclination to limit and watch screen time the days of 11 years old watching hard-core degrading porn are over. I work with students, I have 3 covid high-school geek boys right now. Great kids, but the social issues are something Ive never seen before. HUGE improvement over the last year with them though, they have gotten comfortable and 90% more re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:42 PM
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In history women have never had the gaze men do for anyone. The way you experience sexuality is male, you see parts, you get turned on. Women are different, that difference is explained here daily. Just like men have different part preferences that spark lust women have prefences that spark lust. For myself, its conversation and connections around. I have become aroused when in conversation with a love interest, I have never become aroused because of a body parts, though long hair and a twink bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:36 PM
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Porn is definitely cuckong young men. You dont even need to meet a woman to experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:24 PM
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Yes, except that my husband wouldnt like it that much. I have male presenting ADHD, I hate my breasts, if I could convince husband, yes. The people that know me very well kinda get that Im a twink in a womans body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:18 PM
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For sure. Ive never had casual sex without alcohol, just wanting sex involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:35 PM
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Just you or everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:17 PM
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Sometimes when we judge other people we think they are also judging us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:13 PM
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When did bad grammar become typing style?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:22 AM
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Quoting old red pill. "Have you even read the sidebar bro?".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:16 AM
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Insecurity is the basis of 98% of abuse perpetuated. I'd date men who are secure, and be a secure person myself, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:20 PM
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Good people are not good because they think it will obligate others to them, they are because they are. This kind of thinking can really set you back in life. Just as an example, when I leave my job I make sure its fully prepped for the next person who comes in. That is my work ethic. Do the job correctly. Sometimes I go to work and the person before hasn't prepped for me, I carry on and do my job. Another really good example. I used to think about people who go out into the world and are rude t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:00 PM
2

Perhaps AWALT might be a cause of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:09 AM
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I'll remember this later today when you ask for sympathy, yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:00 AM
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Do you believe the difference in suicide rates is because men can't get dates with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:49 AM
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Dont men also reward assholes? All those chumps paying for fancy dinners and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:04 PM
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I have known many amazing marriages that certainly had components of this, my own included. No good relationships when the man doesn't like women, and can be openly hostile towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:15 PM
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It does, thats the norm in my generation and before. Do you thinks it makes a man more nobel to use slurs at women, call for the taking away of rights, seeing women as something you should be given access to? In my generation, there really was not a third option. Things are changing!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:28 PM
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Do you know what the word benevolent means?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:37 PM
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You must be very against age gap relationships. I also see them on a case by case basis. Did you not read my words?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:30 AM
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Did you just back track and agree with me about the social circle? Did you know there are men who can wait until you know each other a bit before being intimate with someone? These are the men women want. I hope you dont complain about having to initiate or pay for first dates, as if your only goal is sex you should put some effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:28 AM
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Would you like to meet up and see if we want to go on a date. The woman that wouldnt you wouldnt want. Also makes it easier to make that first date an activity date, activity dates are much better then sit down first dates, as the point is to have fun together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:24 AM
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That would be on a case by case basis. Everything can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:20 AM
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Most women do not have kids by 25 in North America. When you are meeting a stranger via online dating for the first time it is a first meeting, and should not be considered a date. Frame it as this. Let's meet up to see if we want to go on a date together. Women certainly DO approach the men they are interested in, this almost always happens with social circles. I really have not seen these topics framed as advice, more as wishful thinking. . The pills hates the first meeting rule, as of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:46 AM
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Because a small group of women also get the most attention. See the ok cupid poll you all like to point to. Was it 20% of women got 80% of the likes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:56 PM
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Hell yeah. He said no. No is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:53 PM
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There is no taking advantage of. Friends are allowed to ask, friends are allowed to say no. She said no, apparently in your mind no isnt no? If he wants to be an idiot and say yes, after she has said no, then that is on him. She has zero responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:02 PM
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Because you know thats something that you would say. Do you know your posts about her make it very clear you somehow look down on her? Is that what you need to express?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:22 PM
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Your exact words were "she s on the couch on a screen all day". At the time it made me laugh. As you are also on a screen all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:10 PM
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What was it in 1980?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:44 PM
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Women under 30 are now outearning men in major cities. What was the number of female bread winners in 1980 compared to today?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:05 PM
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Its debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:59 PM
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You mean 55% of marriages have a male who makes more. You also know this includes older people right? So for the 45% of marriages where there is equal pay or she makes more, what happens then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:58 PM
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He said a week or so ago that she just sits on the sofa all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:56 PM
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You are right that they are one-sided. If a guy is calling himself friend-zoned, he was never a friend. Why would this guy do things for her that he doesn't want to do, because he thinks if he does things she will change her mind. Hence one-sided. He is the one thats not a friend .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:53 PM
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Sounds like your cousins friends know how to get your goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:23 PM
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And they told you this. Why would they say that to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:16 PM
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You mean, I saw online women say....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:03 PM
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Why would someone want to be with someone that can't relate to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:33 PM
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70% of relationships are formed online today. That's not dating apps, thats also social circle via Instagram etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:49 AM
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Not that I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:46 AM
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Three inches less then my husband. The perfect height for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:45 AM
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Be a groomsmen at a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:06 AM
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Having sex in the first few dates, which very few men here disagree with, is casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:59 PM
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How hard is it to understand that relationship material in a potential life partner is much more rare then good enough to stratch the itch? The first is. I really like this person and can see us together, the second is, they were there and good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:45 PM
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They dont engage with people in public spaces and live their lives primarily on a screen. There is no other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:10 PM
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Yep, as long as you have an extended mixed group of friends that does things together it will happen, often at weddings. Its important to note though that the vast majority of casual sex is via a lifestyle that includes alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:08 PM
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If you dont want a casual sex lifestyle that is ok. Just dont complain you can't have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:16 PM
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If you dont want to live a casual sex lifestyle that is totally fine, just dont complain then you can't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:15 PM
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I gotta blame his dad for that, but personality wise daily I smile at how a like we are in some ways. Hes a wonderful boy, calls his mom sometimes daily just to chat and hang out for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:12 PM
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Then perhaps you shouldn't talk about the real world, when you dont know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:10 PM
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So how would you know what women are dating who, when you've never been around people dating? When a persons entire world view is from a lense that is not part of the world outside the screen, the only person that can fix this is themselves, and perhaps any enablers they might have. A person like that may have come from a household that handed them a device everytime they looked for attention, they were bullied in school and sunk into a make believe world, they are nerodivergent in some ways tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:45 PM
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Didn't go to college, your words. Most people have where I live, outside of the North End.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:37 PM
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My son has a fiance, he just went on Tinder to check it out, with his partners knowledge. (They did it together, like what would happen if you went on Tinder). My son is well known in this city, he owns half of the North End (exaggeration, but the corner stores, a pot delivery service, about a dozen residential buildings there), and is a fighter. Hes never done dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:37 PM
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You mean. Those are the women you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:15 PM
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When is the last time you went out on a weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:15 PM
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Ive looked at Tinder through my son's lenses, the vast majority of women on it that are young are from Winnipegs north end, very few from middle and upperclass neighborhoods. Cant say thats the truth anywhere else, but it also was true for the Facebook are we dating the same guy sub here. Older and north enders. No one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:14 PM
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How many men should a woman be dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:37 PM
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By noticing you mean give them a sexual relationship. Imagine that. Not wanting to have sex with everyone you see. Do you want to have sex with every woman you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:36 PM
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From the many men who post here who believe that the only way to get any kind of relationship with a woman is via dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:34 PM
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If you want casual sex, you have to have a casual sex lifestyle. The guys here want a casual sex lifestyle via their computers. How many women around your age do you think have casual sex with strangers via dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:04 PM
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Body dysphoria. He said even at 300 he would look in the mirror and think he was skinny. Status, he made a lot of money selling steriods and became the "big man on campus". It wasn't female attention. Even as a kid his best friends were always girls, as a teen he was more then popular with the gals. At 30, hes engaged, been with her about 7 years. He definitely picked his wife because of her business skills, and drive. When he was a young teen he kinda had the whole lanky emo light thing going o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:59 PM
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It was the steroids. He started when he was 15, ended up being the steroid guy in our city for a few years. When he was 25 he was 5.10, 300 pounds and had serious roid rage. It ended when he almost died from appendicitis, so glad those days are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:49 PM
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They go out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:44 PM
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He literally went through two cows last year, on top of getting lunch out most days (also steak). But they said the blockage was quite old. The pictures of his heart before and after were scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:43 PM
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The advice I gave my daughters when they were teens. "Unless you are friends who start spending more and more time together and it starts feeling romantic its better just to date women until you and the boys you've aged have matured, as young men are only thinking about sex at that age, not potential romance and partnership. Guys start changing around 28, give or take a few years". My oldest daughter is with her childhood best friend still, shes 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:40 PM
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Yes, the doctor said hes been living with only half his heart working for quite a while. It happened on New Years eve, they put in a stint and everything is looking good. He's even been cleared to start training again. The only huge difference in his lifestyle now is he can't eat a couple of cows a year, red meat a few times a week, not day. We are very blessed. He's talking about having kids fairly soon, my fingers are crossed for him .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:30 PM
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3 inches taller then myself. The perfect height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:19 PM
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Those were my advice points that I use here often. As blue pilled as you can get, being in shape and realizing that the women you want to date is a human with their own strengths, flaws and feeling is another very obvious one, only someone who has not had a mixed group of friends would have to be told not to put a woman on a pedestal. Do you think being in shape is new pilled advice? I guess women do give good advice, eh? Make as much money as possible would not be in my advice. My advice would …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:18 PM
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Poor kid. My son, at 30, had a heart attack. Five years after he stopped steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:12 PM
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What advice have they given you that has lead to positive results? If you want casual sex, lead a casual sex lifestyle, dress well, read How to win friends and Influence people, take a Toastmasters training to get over social anxieties, have a hobby or two that is not about screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:07 PM
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Then perhaps you should tell OP that his use of the word terrible in his headline was inappropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:05 PM
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The men that consider themselves fuck boys are also having sex with a small set of women. Take your city, let's say there are 500 thousand living there. Most casual sex happens at places with alchol or drugs. What percentage of young slim women are choosing to have casual sex with a complete stranger vs people in their social circle? There is a belief here that young slim women who regularly engage in casual sex (statistically a small percent) are also having casual sex from dating apps with str…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:04 PM
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Get a huge following and pay women who want huge following? That sounds like workable advice, as in something that could be done on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:53 PM
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Does he really get a lot of casual sex, or is he doing what all the other grifters do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:51 PM
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I'm straight. I think you need to have a sincere conversation with a gay guy my age, learn history. I also think you need to stop think lesbian=hot chicken you want to fuck by introducing yourself to a few real lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:42 AM
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Old divorced lesbian woman my age, are the norm. Id say one in ten lesbians Ive met haven't had a boyfriend or husband before. Why? Coming out of the closet was, not just hard, it changed your entire life. It was impossible unless you wanted to be a frigging weirdo to everyone who knew you as a kid, and in my generation people just stayed close to home. Your school friends? Gone. The concept of her being gay but not into you that way was not a conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:35 PM
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Nope. That's the normal people. You all are all about secret cheat codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:31 PM
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Clubbing, festivals, drugs, alcohol, weddings, a large mixed social group. Most of the men here want casual sex from apps. Let's say you live in a place with 1/2 million people. How many young slim woman would be on an app open to having sex with a complete stranger vs. Woman who have casual sex with men who run in the same circles as them. If you were to pool women who have had casual sex, sex outside of being boyfriend/girlfriend how many do you think did so at a wedding, after a night of drin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:28 PM
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Men who go out regularly in mixed groups are not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:34 PM
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The average guys here do not live a casual sex lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:33 PM
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This is something that speaks more about the written then their subject matter. There are people who dont mature past a certain age, certainly. As adults we've all met the person we knew in sixth grade who 20 years later is still talking about Pokémon, and hasn't done anything with their lives. There are many things that cause this, including mental disabilities, abuse, drugs, or just low IQ. Whatever the reason most people do mature throughout the years, which is why yesterday when asked if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:49 AM
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The first senerio, my husband and a friend of experienced together, both swear it was the most romantic experience of their lives. Both straight men. Sex lasts how long? Doesn't seem like you can just enjoy moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:57 PM
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No. Read the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:27 PM
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Perhaps you should read it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:14 PM
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I guess you've never been sitting on a beach listening to someone play the violin. Never turned the corner in Paris, to find a jazz quartet playing smooth while holding hands. You in those experiences " hurry up, im going to get laid", while the rest of us enjoy those experiences for what they are. By your logic, someone who is ACE would not enjoy romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:12 PM
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Say that to the guys here who state daily that they want a woman to get sex, not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:31 PM
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Please read How to make friends and influence people, then answer this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:30 PM
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Excuse me? You may not enjoy romance for romance sake but you are not all men. . What goals in life fo you have that are not about getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:28 PM
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Who is they in Italy, in another thread you were saying a woman in Italy wrote something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:18 AM
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Seems like one woman in another country saying something is equal to what's happened in Afghanistan to you. You played that card, what next?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:28 AM
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I hope you are not in the room with a leopard. You must be a WASP housewife, if there isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:25 AM
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Are you from Italy? A feminist. One person. I guess if we are naming random countries, want to play that game?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:23 AM
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Is dating someone younger and more attractive then you dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:22 AM
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Check out old internet archives of AngryHarry.com and Standyourground.org from 2000. This stuff keeps getting regurgitated with the target audience becoming younger and younger.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/26 10:17 PM
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Glad YOU know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:50 AM
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Glad YOU feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:45 AM
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Prostitutes are unsafe but going home with a person you've met once isnt? Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:46 PM
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Perhaps your username has something to do with your general angst over not getting dates that has you lashing out like this. Just maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:45 PM
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Why are you still dwelling on past relationships instead of enjoying the life you have together then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:27 PM
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Why are you still married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:24 PM
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Men dont mind losing their homes because half the family income is gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:29 AM
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Hating your sisters friends is a fairly common experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:03 AM
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In the past if a landowner or business owner had no sons his trade and station would be past down to his son in law. Still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:40 AM
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The lower classes used to not formally marry at all. They still have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:13 PM
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As a red pill man I assume you have found your snowflake and living your life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:12 PM
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Marrying into a higher chaste has happened for men probably more then women. The apprentice marrying the business/trade man's daughter is a heck of a lot more common then the housekeeper marrying the heir.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:06 PM
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You've broken their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:12 PM
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Ok. Then this is not a problem for you is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:15 PM
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You needed pills not to type "you around" over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:14 PM
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You mean the opposite of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:12 PM
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Show me a advice that the pills have given you that has given you a solid relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:44 PM
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And men as well. They date each other. Ever been to an area thats poorer then yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:36 PM
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Extremely easy to vet for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:23 PM
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Older woman have their own money. Women your own age will be looking through their cohorts for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:09 PM
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I follow Quaker teachings, all are equal. I'm simply aware of how these things work. I also would not be embraced by the community if I dated a guy from a northern reserve. . This is about men saying they don't care about what a woman does. That is bullshit. If hes needy enough not to care his community sure as heck would. The only man who feels this way does not have community. Those are not desirable men to build a life with, unless you are also a shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:47 AM
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Who said anything about pumping and dumping? They weren't interested in me "that way" when people know people in real life you get to know each other, people without social issues can tell who is in to them. Things like having a great, private conversation with things in common. Where do, did you go to school/work is something that is found out within 5 minutes of meeting a new person. Have you never been introduced to a group for the first time through a mutual friend outside of work or school …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:42 AM
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You did not read what I wrote. I got those things, then I stayed in my lane. Married 25+ years, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:57 PM
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You would think then it would be normal for classes to mix, but it is not. I am a pretty intelligent person, Ive always read, I learn daily. I pick up things like geography, history and spend my spare time doing those things. I was also a very attractive young woman, and know which fork to use. I left school in grade 8. Guys with degrees were completely out of my league, and if they did show interest it was not the take home to mom interest, it was only for sex. I learn very quickly what my leag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:39 PM
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Imagine not caring about your partner being employed, but worried about divorce rape and splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:30 PM
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Yes. Multiple times means an ongoing behavior that is putting you at risk. I say this as someone who was saved from being abducted in Tallinn by a hair, ages ago, plus numerous other times my choices could have killed me. OP in his desperation to have sex (OCD)? Put himself into unsafe situations. I own that I have ADHD, and my impulsive nature has lead to many harrowing situations. Would I go back and change all that? Probably not. But I dont blame others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:52 PM
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Choose better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:53 PM
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My husband was a cyclist, had long blonde hair and a great ass. He knows how much harassment women face, and how scary it can get when they drive past him and realize they were cat calling a guy (you can substitute a woman that doesn't meet expectations).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:14 PM
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I dont get this choose better thing when daily there is a post saying women should choose bi men, who are statistically more likely to cheat. No doubt once cheated on, the same men saying its wrong to not date bi men who say they should have choosen better. Dammed if they do Dammed if they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:12 PM
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Why dont you take a gander at relationships subs, and see how men blow up their relationships and dates taking pills. You have lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:03 AM
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Doesn't seem like it from your dialoguge. Seems like you want to be an influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:21 AM
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Or you could be a bot. Or live in the golden triangle against your own wishes. Is this thread you questioning why women are not dating guys who guy out pill vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:25 AM
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What she does after you break up with you, is none of your concern.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 09:10 PM
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Can you honestly sat that none of the forever alone guys you see here are red flags for abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:05 PM
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Im very glad shes not dating you anymore, a thousand red flags here.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 07:53 PM
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Serious question based on your participation here and what you just said. Are you a plant?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:49 PM
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Guys who are perpetually online certainly know a lot of people intimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:47 PM
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We dont have any children, hes not a slob, and he provides well. You will never see a wife complain, when that base line criteria is met.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:41 PM
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Ive also made the dinner regarding first serious date. Regardless, I come from a generation where early courting is a man's job, just like the dishes and laundry for the rest of our lives is my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:21 PM
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Of course, its a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:59 PM
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My son did this when he was 15. At one point he was 300 pounds. . Luckily, hes back with his trainer after having a heart attack at 30. He'd quit steroids 6 years ago, and switched from body building to MMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:59 PM
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See my last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:56 PM
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You just made that worse, 10 times worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:44 PM
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My husband's top reason for wanting a girlfriend was to have someone to go to fine dining/travel with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:42 PM
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Where do you live (region) where this is the case? Upper Midwest here, there are no shortage of groups of male friends at pubs, sports bars and brew pubs . Did you mean upscale restaurants?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:38 PM
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And if she's a unhealthy eater
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:35 PM
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If you want to advertise that you have a unhealthy diet, sure. If you are meeting on OLD the first time you go out is not a date, its a meeting to see if you want to go on a date. It's that simple. Meet for coffee, if things go well take a walk, then ask her on a activity date. If the activity date goes well, then its time for a real date. That date for myself was often them cooking for me. The red pill hates this advice, as the goal is to get laid on the first date. They waste a lot of money tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:35 PM
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They have to ban me once in awhile, or the ones saying all woman are evil complain too much. What's the male version of a Karen? Prepetual victims always project. It's just plain narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:28 PM
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Shows like Breaking Bad, when the wife of the meth dealer becomes the one everyone hates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:42 PM
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Basic is basic. If you want to stand out to a non basic person, dont be basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:32 PM
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I work in a grocery store, and have seen friendships and more happen. There is a way to do this without being a pick up artist. You go to the store on a schedule, others do to, you see each other here and there, you smile, one day you are next in line to each other and you make a bit of small talk, another day you acknowledge each other. Then you stop and chat ( my store is very chatty). Do you want to grab a coffee? Is normal after that. When you walk up to someone who has never seen you before…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:46 PM
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I saw a new report of a rapist today, it was a guy, so all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:10 PM
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Who were the first people to start talking about how wrong male curcimsion is in the west? What magazine ran a series of articles on this topic in the early 80s that has lead to a huge decrease in this practice outside of conservative states? Everytime circumcision gets brought up here, often, I explain that feminists are the opposite of the enemy on this topic, yet here we are, with women still being blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:29 PM
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Is it ok with you if a gal asks for you Financials on the first date? Why not?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:05 PM
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Stop watching. It is that easy. Try watching the Yes project on tube maybe, stuff where guys do cool stuff.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:04 PM
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Yet today's couples are equal in wages before children. Why do you need to believe that being a gold digger is normal behavior when it is not? Is it because its too hard to comprehend that there is no reason to be a couple unless it makes your life better? That someone who believes things like AWALT inherently would not be capable of partnership? Do you not see how common it us for young men to blow up their relationships because they took a pill and started treating their partner like a adversa…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 03:17 PM
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Those would be men doing the hypergamy.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 12:26 PM
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When 45 year old men divorce their wives for a younger model, this is called what? When young men work for their father in law, this is called what? Both those senerios are just as common as "woman wants a man who greatly outearns her".
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 11:12 AM
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Its good, but it could have been a lot longer. What got me is how the women men on the manosphere call regular woman are paid actors. Also how pathetic the guys are.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 09:01 PM
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What? Do you live in Germany?
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 05:10 PM
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Im a pacifist, no one should be sent to war, or hurt others. I did not imply this was something that was a positive, its just the ways things are going.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 05:09 PM
5

Fodder doesn't have the ability to radicalize.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 12:36 PM
8

Ive been following the manosphere since 2000. Do you know what the manosphere complained about then? Allowing women in combat roles. Feminists have historically opposed the draft. Seems like you should be mad at another entity. The draft is not the problem in Korea.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/26 12:35 PM
8

Being drafted. Losing their jobs. Having a roof over their heads.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/26 05:14 PM
8

I think these young men will have other things to worry about.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/26 05:11 PM
4

You have to socialize to be able to do that, have a group of friends you go out and do things with regularly. Have women in your social circle. Be open to meeting people not just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:39 PM
2

You want casual sex, and you dont live a casual sex lifestyle. Make that make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:17 PM
1

Do you go to clubs on the weekend and go with friends away for spring break?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:56 AM
2

Porn senerios.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:44 AM
8

You can't tell when someone is developing feelings for you? Hand holding, long talks, laughing together, noticing similarities in what you want have are? Nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:49 AM
1

This might be a clue, for you. I got diagnosed with extreme ADHD in my 50s, its been a game changer for me, understanding why and how my brain works differently to nerotypical people. One thing is for sure, I no longer think that "everyone must think like I do", which is something you struggle with here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:56 PM
1

Like you masturbating a couple times a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:48 PM
13

Sex. Everything is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:00 PM
4

Pilled guys complaining about lack of nuances is a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:55 PM
3

I for one am not for whatever you are on thats making you spell like that. Most men dont have to think about others calling them a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:54 PM
5

Lord knows men dont like threesomes with 2 women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:03 PM
2

You would be an outlier. I also am, as a woman my only negative when I met my husband was he wasn't bi, as I like man on man like men like woman on women, which also makes me an outlier. Which shows you how completely ridiculous getting mad at women fir not wanting to date bi men is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:49 PM
3

What system? Explain the mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:46 PM
3

That doesn't make it someone else's, does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:48 PM
5

Complaining about your sex life is pretty universal. Blaming others isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:02 PM
8

And all of those men are thinking threesome that revolves around themselves, which is a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:59 PM
7

Sure. As there are guys who want casual sex only without having to pay for it they can get by messaging a stranger on a app. Like ordering free pizza. However those guys of course would have low emotional intelligence, or just very immature, which goes against good social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:57 PM
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That variety isn't part of woman's sexuality. The shape of your penis disagrees, so does our nearest relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:16 PM
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Regarding #2. What does the human penis have a scoop on it? Why are women more vocal during sex? For people who like saying "bio truths" you sure are in denial of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:10 PM
5

Good example of exactly what I'm refering to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:58 PM
10

Yes. Often manifesting with fantasies of revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:32 PM
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You're ok with paying before dating? Or you don't care, then you do? If so, seems like you very much care. I can tell you that my lack of school/career has been detrimental in the past for dating, though having been raised with proper social graces has helped in that regard, either way I was a highly atractive woman, and some guys based on class were out of my league. The women I have known that were raised in lower classes, not one has dated an educated man with a career. Men here saying it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:26 PM
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You did not answer my question, though I assume by your response you are one of the few young men who have no problems with paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:47 PM
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I have never dated a man who cared, probably because they were enjoying our time together. I hope though you are telling the truth to your dates in regards to your views on women having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:45 PM
12

None are applicable. The only thing that men who come on here to complain about not getting sex have in common is lack of social skills and are naive enough to believe what grifters are telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:43 PM
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Tell us what men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:16 PM
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How do women lie to get into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:32 PM
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We had this title yesterday. The blue pill is everyone not pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:15 AM
6

Their logic is the 20 year old wasted her best years by dating men her own age me thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:33 PM
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Statistics dont lie. She will marry someone in her cohort, as the vast majority of people do. You have this fantasy of 40 year olds marrying 20 year olds, its just a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:56 PM
2

Then you are not a person of faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:43 PM
1

As I've been married for 25 years I think my opinion on if you think your marriage is terrible you are no longer married is valid. I've never thought that, even at our lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:42 PM
4

If you think your marriage is horrible its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:38 PM
3

What percentage of men marry within a year of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:37 PM
3

What percentage of men remarry in the following year after divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:36 PM
5

Must be a prosperity Bible thumper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:34 PM
4

You are talking about blaming half the population for YOUR shortcomings. Let's forget that you are looking for a woman to fulfill a set fantasy from you (topping from the bottom), that still crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:21 PM
1

One should not notice attractive people? Is that why you masterbate to cartoons?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:10 PM
0

You have a social disability. If you work hard at socializing with people who also have disabilities you will find someone, if not, nope.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/26 02:45 AM
0

Maybe you should stop jerking off the cartoons, as you're future self with a life will have to answer why you find cartoons more attractive then humans? Or just keep, not interacting with real humans. My husband knows hes the sexiest thing I've ever imagined, acknowledging beauty isn't something either of us has a problem with. We have cocker spaniels. They are beautiful dogs, should we not smile when we see other dogs that are well breed and well kept?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:11 AM
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He is here everyday making another post about how he has female friends (online) but they only see him as relationship guy and he wants casual sex. Its not that hard, I log into here perhaps three times a day, and one his ok, im going to lie now because posts is on the front page. "Im going to do this, and you'll regret it" is his personality. Do you not see things drawned to their logical conclusion? I get it because I have a math issue, but hes here everyday telling women hes now going to lie!…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:48 PM
4

Every single human on earth notices when someone very attractive is around . Some people are assholes about it, most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:14 PM
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When you insult people, it makes you a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:18 AM
3

If women vetted the men out of their dating pool that have a visceral reaction to hot women? Why would you expect the women dating you not to notice attractive? I was at a restaurant today with my husband. There was a group of about 20 gay young men sitting by us. All of them were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:16 AM
7

I think you are confusing laughing at with complaining. I know the guy who you speak of, he hasn't left his chair in days never-mind gone on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:23 AM
1

It is the truth that the majority of participates in incel and black pill content in the west are autistic. That does not make all autistic males incels, anymore then saying all school shooters are male. Having a social disability makes autistic people in general targets for grifters, and thats important, and should be acknowledged with something done about it. Unless they have parents that fully support them their are zero protections in place for people with this disability.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 03:02 AM
1

What does his username mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:01 PM
1

Why? Is that a play on incels saying because their wrist are small they can't get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:00 PM
5

I think its the autism. Autistic people tend to not change what they like to do easily.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 08:37 PM
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Is that his real name? That name itself would be such a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:48 PM
8

Yep. Original red pill was also about thinking women were like children, and married men should neg their wives by flirting with waitresses. People always say the past was better. Its a universal human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:43 PM
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Except if she'd had sex with other men relatively early.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:42 AM
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The divide between young people voting is clear. I think the vast majority of people with a baseline education are now "woke" to the bullshit in the US thats happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:01 PM
3

I dont go to the gym, because I dont enjoy it. My mom, my son spend hours a day their because they enjoy it. It is a hobby for them. I used crossfit as the perfect example of something lonely men could do that would help them socialize. I have met way too many crossfit couples, its a thing. Of course if multitudes of guys show up whose only purpose there is to hit on women, women will stop going. Always wait for a solid connection, signals, before asking out someone while engaged in a hobby..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:58 PM
2

Does your sit on the sofa woman know shes a product? Now you are saying wait for robots, why aren't you telling the black pillers who have never had a date to just go into a homeless shelter? You've been here a long time, I have never seen you give this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:54 PM
4

Forming online. You meet a friend of a friend, you add each other to whatever, you start texting, relationship happens. Im old as all heck, but even I know thats how the kids are doing it. Even in high-school, same class, the relationship will form online.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:51 PM
2

Forming online is not met on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:36 PM
2

You can certainly find a couch potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:35 PM
3

What you do in your spare time is a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:33 PM
6

Cross fit. Running clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:33 PM
2

Perhaps you should use your time here to convince the guys who can't get dates to do what you did, if they are just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:49 PM
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