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| 3 | PUA tactics work and prove that attraction is very formulaicActing more confident, more chill, putting her down rather than up, being sexualy assertive and stuff. Lol, one is definitely not like the others. You're wrong to associate confidence, chilness and assertiveness with PUA tactics. These are healthy traits to have and have nothing to do with PUAs and definitely not with putting anyone down. Or with being an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:44 AM |
| 2 | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".Your assumption that older women are easier to get because they're less attractive is, not only extremely small minded and immature but also misinformed. Older women have higher standards in some regards, since they aren't looking for a fling but for a more stable relationship. So they'll take a man's emotional stability, career and financial situation into account, even if they compromise with a beer gut Same goes for the assumption that younger women have higher standards on everything just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:15 AM |
| – | Can men here comment on these hypocrisies some men say about women?Being bubbly and easy going are character traits that have nothing to do with age. Since you insist on associating this behavior with younger women though, the only thing that comes to mind is immaturity. That's the only consistent factor among young people And wouldn't an older man, who prefers the company of immature women, be considered immature himself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:29 AM |
| – | Can men here comment on these hypocrisies some men say about women?Not much to add, there are indeed a lot of men who have hypocritical and delusional expectations of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:58 AM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanThis doesn't make sense. An inexperienced woman or man, is much more likely to have delusions about some perfect other because they haven't been with enough people to realize that no one is perfect, even those who at first seem to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:10 PM |
| 14 | Is it harmful to tell young men to wait until their 30s and dating will be better?It is harmful because you aren't supposed to wait and then it magically gets better. It gets better because you've tried and made a lot of mistakes in your 20s and by your 30s you've learned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:05 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanWoman B is more experienced at sex, knows what gets her off and makes it easier for the man to get her off too. She also knows what's out there and has no delusions about Mr perfect. And she won't go through a crisis of "haven't lived enough, haven't been with other people" etc. So a more stable partner and a better sex life Of course, judging women based on promiscuity is pointless and shallow. But if you insist, consider that "pure" women also have their downsides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:54 PM |
| – | Are alternative aesthetics, in terms of attraction, relevant after 25?Having a specific aesthetic and not being financially stable or having your shit together are 2 different issues. Regardless of aesthetic, most women want someone who is financially stable and has his shit together. Even alternative girls want to be taken out to dinner occasionally When it comes to aesthetic, I think a lot of women could be attracted to a non-mainstream but good looking guy initially, but the novelty wears off quickly and after a while, most mainstream women would want a "normal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Which of these scenaris is the "friend zone"?B. In case A, guy shot his shot, didn't work out, he moved on. In case B, the guy gives her gifts, without being in a romantic relationship with her, thinking that if he gives enough gifts she might change her mind. That's a friendzone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitNo, but sleeping with someone you want isn't promiscuous, it's normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:23 AM |
| 3 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitDoubt that. Maybe that's how you think but I don't believe that this speaks for the majority of women. How long it takes before you have sex depends on how sexualy liberated a woman is and how much she likes you/wants to have sex. Or maybe she's just horny and wants to have sex without being particularly into you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not *sexually* attractive attributes for men?Depends on the woman, how the guy sells himself and what kind of relationship we're talking about. A guy's arrogance might be taken as confidence by one woman, another might see it for what it is, especially if she has dealt with similar situations in the past. Some red flags are easier to overlook and might even appear attractive at first, especially if one is good looking, but will become off putting in the long run. Generally, someone with negative characteristics might have success in dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 09:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Complimenting a woman you're interested in on looks is dumb and almost always detrimental.Disagree with all of this. Everyone, including attractive people, appreciates being complimented. Even more so from someone they're interested in. Your assumption that they don't care is baseless. Of course one should be careful not to overdo it, because it comes across as slimy and fake. The best practice is to say what you truly feel. If you're flirting with a girl and you think she has beautiful eyes, say it I don't agree with the power theories either. Complimenting a woman on her looks or a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Is a man a user for being in transactional relationships with women?I just cannot imagine how someone would just ask a stranger for stuff. A woman you were chatting with just casually asked you to buy her a new phone? Never in my life have I been in such an interaction and I don't know anyone who did either. Fortunately If these women are so entitled as to just ask strangers for money and are willing to have sex with anyone in return for said money then go ahead and have whatever transaction you want with them if it makes you happy. Although I insist that it wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Is a man a user for being in transactional relationships with women?I'm not sure I understand, is it random women asking you this stuff? Your friends? You are not obligated to do anything for anyone. You should do stuff for your friends/family/romantic partners without expecting compensation, while maintaining healthy boundaries of course. And they should do the same too If you don't want to something for someone it makes more sense to say no instead of asking for sex. And if you are OK with people having sex with you out of obligation then something is wrong wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 09:50 AM |
| 14 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?I don't think most men have a fixation with doing manly chores at home all the time, if that's what the question implies. But then again, I can only speak for myself and people I know They'd want to be the person their gf relies to when she needs to, and same goes for women. Both for masculinity reasons and because you'd want to be considered capable, reliable and trustworthy by your partner Also, I think that men who say that they want to be needed all the time haven't been in a relationship wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?The implied question is whether meaningful is a subjective or objective quality. Lots of example given of people who, in their heads, have meaningful relationships with inanimate objects like pillows and chatbots. Does it matter if this relationship is meaningless to everyone else? We'd need to answer the first question Another way to look at it is that a relationship requires two participants. An AI doesn't really participate, just like our reflection in the mirror doesn't act on its own. It do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?I really struggle to imagine a world where the average, functional person would choose a robot as a partner. I think that no matter how much technology advances in this regard, it will mostly be used by the kind of people that have waifu pillows and AI girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:10 AM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I agree that struggling in dating doesn't make one socially inept. I don't see the connection with friends-boyfriends though or making yourself a shoulder to cry on. A woman liking one as a friend doesn't mean she likes them romantically. And one has to wonder, did the bro-zoned bro actually make an effort at flirting with his supposed female friend? Did he actually go for it and made his feelings clear? And if his feelings were rejected, why did he continue pretending to be a friend? Because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What Does "Being Confident" Actually Mean?Imo, it's making an honest attempt at flirting without questioning your entire existence or feeling ashamed if you get rejected. Be proud of yourself for giving it your all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to lookmax?Trim the nose hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 08:42 AM |
| 10 | 'You should have total trust in your partner or else you shouldn't be dating' is bad advice and people who recommend this sort of toxic trustworthiness are doing more harm than good.There's a difference between trusting and being naive, unfortunately it's not a clear one and it's a balance that everyone will always struggle with. A set of best practices I go with are: Assume that someone is the best version of themselves and not the worst (unless given reason not to) Don't assume too much about a situation, if something feels off, give it some time before you confront, you might learn something that completely changes things. And if it still feels off, "confront" (maybe tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:42 AM |
| 10 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?If we as men choose to have the lowest of standards then that's not women inherently having the advantage. They're given the advantage And I'm not sure I agree about the difference in standards. Men might promise the stars and the moon to average women when they haven't been with someone for a while (and genuinely too) but once they've slept with her a couple of times and the initial enthusiasm wears off, you can bet that they'll be thinking that they could probably do better. So men do have sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?The range of experiences is too wide to have any real "most men" conclusion have had a couple of relationships/casual sex encounters Someone who has had sex with 2 women in the last decade and another with 10 would both qualify for this description but obviously one struggles much more than the other. So it really depends on what you mean by "not struggle" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - what happens to TRP when you get a girlfriend?Never reveal your powerlevel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If you're contented being single, then a romantic partner/relationship is already redundant.Being content with yourself doesn't mean that you don't want or need a relationship, it means that you aren't losing your mind about being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:20 AM |
| 13 | I was in charge of my penis at 18, and I handled it just fine.It's usually relationships that are judged for the age gap, not hook ups. Because even though both are adults, there's a major difference in maturity levels. Doesn't mean that we should assume that one is being exploited by the other though, agreed on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Why bother dating in the west?It was a joke to an obvious schizopost. I do see how it's also bodyshaming though, sorry about that. I do love both big and small tits tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 0 | Why bother dating in the west?Smaller tits though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:07 AM |
| 6 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureSo basically, don't question your entire existence when rejected by someone. Good advice, of course doesn't mean that someone shouldn't strive to improve themselves and take lessons from past failed relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 08:06 AM |
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