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Question For Menboomcheese44/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:49 AM
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boomcheese44/r/askTRP23/12/18 06:13 PM
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Most men don't have Chad bone structure. So yes, most men are unattractive even if they are not technically ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:05 PM
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It becomes very hard to control it, yes. Their bodies store the fat and it dosent burn as easily as a healthy person. Not impossible, but its not as easy as just "count calories and you will be slim". You may have disdain for fat people, but some people are genuinely sick and cant just "snap out of it and stop being lazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:36 PM
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Hello?! Endos treat obese patients with thyroid disorders all the time! Do you think doctors are just making up this disease? Its not an excuse, its a disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:29 PM
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You have a misunderstanding of how metabolic disorders work. Literally, the body automatically stores the food as fat without overeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:38 PM
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Because they are not eating like pigs and they still get fat. They have metabolic issues that makes them fat no matter how careful they eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:15 PM
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Chad is very uncommon. Less than 1 percent of men to be honest. What most people are talking about on here are just attractive men. They are different from Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:34 PM
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lol Drake isnt Chad. He is a rich celeb. He is actually objectively ugly, even after he got surgery to his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:43 PM
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Drake isnt Chad. My gawd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:42 PM
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Male revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:37 PM
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What do you mean half of women? I'm saying half now because 50 percent of women will be single by 2030. Half are playing the game, the other half are not. I think 80 to 85 percent of women are "settling" as we say here. I dont believe its "only Chad" for arousal, so I'm thinking 15% are happy in their relationships in the ideal way. The common narrative here is that things other than looks can make men attractive to women over time even if they aren't Chad, do you think that is total nonsense? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:46 AM
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Most women are performing unconsciously is the thing...how can we be honest about it if this is the case? I always wondered myself why few guys turned me on....it wasnt until I came here 5 years ago that things all made sense. And this is coming from a pretty self-aware woman! Sometimes I feel you reds think women are out to get you and we all know what we are doing...its just not always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:00 AM
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Women arn't going to change. Were wired this way. We all want Chad, he turns us on. About half of women end up settling...eventually. Women may appreciate their beta bux as a friend, but not more than that. Thats what beta buxing is anyway, you just marry a good friend out of convenience. I know its frustrating, but that is just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:42 AM
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Tell me what you want women to do? People want partners that they desire firstly. Then, they settle if they can't get it. Maybe people shouldnt do the latter..but then 80 percent of people would never get partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:43 PM
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I don't understand why this is so controversial..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:49 PM
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I’m only speaking for myself. Most women aren’t as selfish and self serving as I am. I honestly don't think that is selfish or self serving in any way. Its what most men here ask us to do, to lower the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:37 PM
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Do women consciously separate sexual attraction from long-term choice, or is it more about timing, chemistry, and life circumstances? Not when we are young. We mostly want both long-term partners that we are also sexually attracted to. Most women don't consciously beta bux, but its likely what ends up happening in reality. They settle for someone because sexually attractive men are rare...or being sexually attracted to a man is rare in general for women. Its happened to me only 3 times in my lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:18 PM
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It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:49 PM
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There was actually a survey done. Only 15 percent of people would choose to marry the same person again. It checks out, most marriages suck or are just convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:15 PM
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Read the entire side bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:26 AM
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That happens after an established relationship, bud. No one should be sacrificing their way into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:32 AM
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lol you spent the whole passage criticizing women that want degrees and good jobs...and then spend time wondering why they want those things. I quoted it, to get a good job with money. Sometimes, they might actually like what they are studying. But somehow, you men view it as competition. She's just living her life! What do you expect women to be doing otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:19 PM
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I got the degree to get a good job, I got the jobs because they pay good money Men have a real hard time seeing us as people. This is what women want as well. Or are women just supposed to sit on the porch after high school, waiting for a man to pick them up and marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:11 PM
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We know it exists, but its not a hard rule like autistic men like to believe. I see mismatched couples all the time. You can't understand relating by boiling it down to math. In addition, you also can't make people date and mate with those in their league at the end of the day. Women like attractive men, its just that nature dosent make a lot of them. Society has to deal with this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:33 PM
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Yup, it was the same for me. When I was dating, you had to be at least a 7 before I could look at you in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:52 AM
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Depends on who you ask. But studies have proven that Chad has his looks and personality because of the extra testosterone he got in the womb. Thats why he is generalized as having antisocial or dark triad traits. Theres some studies I'll have to look for, will update.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:50 AM
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It's because the man they call "Chad" had an extra helping of testosterone in the womb. Because of this, n general, he lacks empathy, tends to be self-centered, and is extra assertive. These traits don't always go well when interacting with women. So yes, Chad has a tendency to be antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:18 PM
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Beta bux isnt just about having a Provider. Its about having comfort and stability. He still has to qualify and be good enough in other areas. Hes like choosing a minivan instead of a lamborghini. Especially if you want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:35 AM
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I married Chad dear, no reason for me to be upset. I just see a lot of mid guys try to play Chad on here, when really they are just as average as the women they complain about willingingly sleeping with. No offense, its just mid guys behaving disgustingly. Because, if you were as hot as you say you were, you wouldnt need to even dip to average. Just shows lack of self control..and evilness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:14 PM
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Attractive men usually have respectable standards. Say what you want, no Chad has to dip that low to have sex with a non attractive girl. So you are probably not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:45 PM
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Because you are not respecting your standards, therefore not respecting yourself. Very simple. Honestly, that behavior is evil and disgusting if you genuinely loathe the women you sleep with. Nothing is normal about that. And if I saw a pic of you, these women would probably be your looksmatches....because why cant you get hot girls to sleep with you quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:42 PM
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I'm post wall, just speaking facts. It seems like you dont really want to know whats really going on and stuck on this idea to chastise women. We are biologically incapable of desiring most men. Read the side bar :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:50 AM
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I mean, thats what you men think. But in reality, no. Women dont find most of these "decent and normal men" sexually appealing. Were not even talking about personality and behavior which is a landmine on its own. Having said that, most women still settle down in their late 20s with ...someone. That dosent mean they are aroused by them or genuinely like them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:38 AM
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Women are already trying to go for "kinda cute". There just arnt many of them. They are actually just as rare as Chad. I think a lot of you men underestimate what it takes to arouse a woman enough to want to pursue them...or at least be pursued by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:27 AM
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"Being realistic" means sacrificing their sexuality and requirements to be happy with a partner. Its like asking a straight man to turn gay. Like, whats the point? If you cared about these people, you would actually tell them to just be single instead of settling. Or to improve themselves so that they could get what they are seeking. At least, that would make more sense and no other person would be vulnerable to deception or settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:18 AM
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You are correct. Only 15 percent of married people surveyed said they would marry the same person again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:47 AM
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again, all I read is for these particular women to settle for men they know they dont want. Its not productive and you are essentially asking women to change their sexualty and their basic standards for being happy in a relationships. Its advice that they dont want or need. You would be better off advising women to partner with a friend out of convenience if they desire to be partnered with a warm body at least. All while specifying there wont be any real love or attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:39 AM
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I've noticed this. They assume its "something in our head" and we need to snap out of it. Thats why they consistently call us delusional. When really, its our vaginas saying no 99 percent of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:50 AM
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And a lot of times attraction can build. False. Sexual attraction dosent grow. You can grow to like someone as a person, however. You men get confused about this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:45 AM
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Women often calibrate their expectations of how hot their life partner should be based on the upper distribution of men giving them attention… No, its our vaginas making the judgement, not "Chads attention". I knew most guys were gross to me at 16 while still a virgin. Nothing was going to change that. And its how most women operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:42 AM
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The Kings whore. If I cant have all of what I want, I should at least be comfortable in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:34 PM
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Now you are projecting what Chad is. He's just a human being. How he acts and behaves depends on how he was raised and his circumstances. He's just a sexually appealing man that most women would have sex with. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:07 PM
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I view him as an archetype in a way...Chad is a type of man. He is real, but is actually very rare. I've seen him twice in my lifetime. He has all of the things red pill say, he is handsome and sexually appealing in a way women respond to consistently. He usually has some type of status that comes naturally to him. In the old days he would probably be some type of chief, leader, King maybe or revered warrior. He is born, not made due to the testosterone he received in the womb. Red pill men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:05 PM
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I mean no, Chad is noncommittal in general, or non monogamous. Its not likely anything about leagues like you RP men make it out to be. He just dosent want to settle down in general. The only men that believe this are RP, self admittedly mid men that pursue whatever they can. That woman was a piece of work, but thats why I never settled for men I dont value or respect. It never ends well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:37 AM
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The reality is that "pair bonding" dosent exist in the way red pill likes you to believe. What they are really referring to is genuine desire and connection, which is something that can't be controlled. A promiscuous man or women will "bond" with the right person if they show up in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:49 AM
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Men with purely bad intentions are like this. Most of them are red pill men. Its one thing to just be down for casual sex, its another thing to sexually pursue women you dont value. Makes you evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:10 PM
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Communicate your dating preferences without being insulting, the trick is to frame things in terms of your own attraction rather than making general judgments about other people’s bodies. Social acceptability here hinges on avoiding derogatory language and keeping the focus on what you’re seeking, not what you’re rejecting. “I’m most attracted to women who are very active or fitness-oriented.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:45 PM
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They probably attack the way you say it, not the fact that you have the preference. Men can be really dehumanizing about women they dont value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:02 PM
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Yes, BS. Looks matter to both sexes equally. Its just that women are forced to settle for security. That often means she partners with someone she may not be sexually attracted to. My mother admitted it to me when I pressed her. She said my father was a doctor and was considered a catch in her time, so she settled for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:24 AM
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Nope, never. I've always known immediately if I find him sexually attractive or not. Most people do. The thing that women do is "give men a chance"...and maybe settle if he is technically good to her. Thats just beta buxing...marrying a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:41 AM
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It's always looks. A persons personality can't arouse you on its own. Only looks can do that. For men, the closer a woman gets to an hourglass figure, harmonious face, nice tits/ass the better. For women, V-shaped torso, broad shoulders, strong jawline, thick neck, handsome face, the taller the better. Also, pheromones matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:46 AM
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I mean, the hotter the better. But its sexual attraction ruling first, not the need for social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:34 PM
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No, I'm clarifying that you can grow to like someone as a person and still not have sexual attraction for them. Its not sexual attraction that is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:32 PM
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The growth is in seeing his personality and liking it. Its not the same as a growth in sexual attraction. The latter is instantaneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:11 PM
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Its not social status to be attracted to your partner lol. If I was genuinely attracted to the 6, its fine. But Im not going to pretend that is a common occurrence. We cant help that that window of sexual attractions starts at 8 and continues up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:09 PM
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Unworthy just means a man she isnt sexually attracted to. I can at least respect that they are not marrying some guy that they refuse to fuck. I know if I wasnt married, I would just resolve to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:15 PM
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Its not my fault you went to a bad school and have poor on the job training. Look it up, its literally a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:56 PM
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Looking for a way to write me off?? Jesus, your feelings are really hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:29 PM
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Desire is never going to be common based on womens sexuality. Its just the truth. If you can't find someone you desire, marry a friend. Thats all what betabuxing is. A good friend that you have shared values with and can raise children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:12 PM
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No, my husband is objectively Latino Chad. I admit most women arnt going to marry Chad and have to qualify men based on other factors if they want to get married and have children some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:05 PM
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What do you mean? This is the "giving men a chance" that so many men ask for. You can grow to like someone as a person, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:36 PM
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I've been married for years. What do you want to be honest about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:34 PM
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You have a point. But marriage is just about raising kids in a stable environment. You just need a person that you share values and get along with. All this love and sexual attraction stuff is extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:34 PM
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Exactly! Women have to resort to this behavior because most men are not sexually attractive to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:25 AM
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Nurses are literally trained to help female patients with this because they see it soo much! My cousin is a nurse and she has apprehension about marriage because of it. Men are not caretakers!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:13 AM
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But we do try to give men a chance...eventually. Most of my friends married regular joes. Some women can do it, some women cant. Just like some men can be monogamous, and some men can't. Thats just life. And I personally believe that the best marriages are just average people that decide to settle with their best friend...it isnt going to be the love of your life. In fact, there may be little sexual attraction. But you can still have a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:24 PM
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To answer your question, many women learn this about masculine men from experience. And honestly, men having little empathy is simply a masculine trait. They have to be this way to lead and fight wars etc etc. I married Chad, and yes, he struggled with empathy until he had certain experiences in life that beat it into him. Ideally, women want a mixture of masculinity and emotional intelligence. That is what makes dating hard for us because these men are just not in abundance. But, what exactly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:45 PM
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And were cherry picked at that. I actually have the app and see that most men on there are just as gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:57 PM
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Have you been on the app? The men are just as busted as the women were. What you saw on social media was curated, they chose the best looking guys and posted a comparison shot for engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:41 PM
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Someone curated that for social media. If you have the app, you will see that most of them were looks matched. Most people are ugly tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:31 PM
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Was she herself light skinned?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:05 AM
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But those men arnt Chads though, they are just normal attractive guys that some women may entertain. Chad is actually very rare based on the sexual responses he arouses in women, 20 times more than just that 10 percent attractive guy, who is likely no more than a 7 in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:43 AM
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Damn dude, you are really a good person. Please dont date a single mom again...you deserve better. I didnt realize that "single moms" could be complicated like this. No one ever explains things without bitterness around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:52 AM
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Nurses are literally trained to handle these women and tell them this is likely to happen during their sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:20 PM
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It is a myth, I agree. All she is describing is her process for settling for a beta bux. Because most women have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:42 PM
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What if he is not way more attractive though? Does Stacy never get pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:04 PM
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I'll bite. Even if its happening 10 percent of the time, 90 percent is just natural selection. You men wont accept we are just not sexually aroused by the majority of you. Literally, our clitoris wont respond to most men. Don't you think its time to accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:41 PM
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We could argue that vegetables are inherently gross though. Many have toxins, like lectins and oxalates that causes the human aversion. I know men have this idea that social media showing us hot guys has rotted our brains, but what you are seeing is woman just being attracted to what they genuinely want. Nature dosent make hot enough men for most of us and I think you guys should accept that. Changing our minds wont do anything if we find most men inherently gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:17 PM
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I mean, all you are advocating is for women to do FDS on hard mode. At this point, we know men will have a fun time with any woman, but it dosent mean he wants to be with her long term. That can be weeded out with FDS, which men seem to hate in general. This is the choosing better that you all advocate for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:00 PM
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It was mixed for me. Really hot guys tended to have some form of sociopathy. But I've come across a lot of shitty average to above average men too...just look on this sub to see how a lot of men genuinely think about women. From a woman's perspective, there is no "winning". There was a poster from a while back that compared studies on why Chads are like this, but it boiled down to genetics and how much testosterone they acquired in the womb. They tended to be non-monogamous, prone to alcoholism …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:59 PM
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Yes, women settle for a reliable partner that they have some sort of attraction for instead of the super hot sex guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:09 PM
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Because they are men. Women have a different sexuality from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:03 AM
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I mean, cant you come to your own conclusion? There are not a lot of hot men. Women are settling on hotness to get a nice provider male to marry and have children with. Nature dosent make enough hot men that women want to fuck instantly. Maybe some women have "warm attraction" for their husbands...but thats probably as far as it goes for most of them. Even as a horny teen I always wondered why there were so few hot guys around. It all came together when I came here and started studying this stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:43 AM
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Is the bad guy hot? If so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:55 AM
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Its mostly cope. Women love HOT guys. Whether they are bad or not dosent matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:13 PM
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narrow shoulders, face rating of 4 and below, shortish in height etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:32 PM
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Well, I dont know what you look like. But depending on your features, a chubby woman can be looks matched with a non-chubby guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:47 PM
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Its best to shoot for the best then settle for uglier guys that dont turn them on anyway. Because in reality, a sizeable portion of men are into fatter women...whether you believe that should be happening or not. I know guys like to focus on "math" when it comes to dating, but women focus on quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:49 PM
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You are probably looksmatched and you dont know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:29 PM
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Because fit men are hotter, duh. Women of all shapes like hotter guys. I know men have this pathology that "undesirables" should have low self esteem and not pursue what they like, but thats not real life. Fat women do it because they can and some men like them. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:33 AM
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This is delusional thinking. Not how sexual attraction works. That's like saying men should just "change their mind" about fat ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:09 AM
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nothing stopping women finding the average man attractive except her delusion. Its literally her clitoris that does that. I dont get why men dont get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:35 PM
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Not unlikely at all. In fact very easy and something 80% of women were doing 100 years ago Are you serious? Most women were experiencing forced beta-buxing. If they were allowed to have jobs, they literally would have forgone duty sex to these guys. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:27 PM
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These male RP responses are so pathetic. I've now confirmed these men are just pathetic psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:28 AM
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Because its just common sense? Its only men that think women dont value looks for some odd reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:22 PM
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beautiful man. Beauty dosent really look great on men, from a womans perspective. Teen girls loved him, not grown woman. I never thought of him as hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:02 AM
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How is it the truth? If I had that attitude, I definitely wouldnt be married to my husband, the guy I'm actually sexually attracted to. If a 5 can get an 8, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:07 AM
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Exactly, its the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:01 AM
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her actual issue is entitlement and delusion. Her issue is that her clitoris dosent respond to anything else because of biology. Thats not entitlement. And, nobody "deserves" anything. Why cant you guys stop with the moralizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:52 AM
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No, its not any of that. Its just that younger guys are hotter. I remember reading a chart saying women preferred men their own age until men reached about 38 ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:29 PM
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instead, we see women preferring a whole different medium of erotic material that is not visually based Its visually based in their minds though. All women are imagining a hot guy when they read those stories. The reason why women dont watch porn instead because there are not a lot of hot guys in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:44 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:37 AM
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To be honest, a man that we are sexually attracted, has a job, and has high romantic value (he treats us well). All 3 in one guy. Rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:01 AM
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I was talking about what women consider good men, not your male definition. But carry on...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:40 AM
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I mean, we've always wondered where the good men were even in our 20s. It's not much different as we get older. The men women want are rare to find in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:01 AM
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If I was 18, the 40 year old would have to be Chad. If no, single and childless forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:48 AM
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As a woman, its about 95 percent about how much your looks turns us on. Sure you can't be autistic blah blah blah. But its looks first. I think women like OP think this because they havent come across many or any men that aroused them based on just looks (Chad). So, its their way of rationalizing female sexuality. I do agree with her that we just feel nothing for most men though. Its not that most men are ugly, but I would say most men are just invisible to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:34 PM
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He is correct, tall dosent make you attractive in itself. When most women scream for it, its as a topping on an already facially attractive and broad-shouldered man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:39 PM
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I think for the most part, men would be happy to. Not so sure for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:46 PM
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The average person sucks, quite frankly. I understand why most people want the best for themselves. It is indeed a horror show out there. But, I also think most people on here think about the "average in their circle"...not the average person in their country. I think thats important to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:39 PM
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this is readily apparent when you see women swipe left on men based on looks, or state a guy is not their type (meaning physical type). OK, but what is wrong with this? This is just how dating works. Do you swipe on women that dont meet your physical type? I bet the answer is no. Why is this "superficial"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:01 PM
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Thats what men like to think. Most of them prefer Chad like every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:11 PM
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Umm, you can. The easier way is to just take high-dose Vitamin D.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:19 PM
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The few pics I've seen of the men on here, they have been slightly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:45 PM
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There might be a biological reason for this behaviour. I remember reading upon a study that basically said mens brains showed extreme irritation when shown women that dont meet their sexual preferences. On the other hand, women just perceive them as invisible. Ugly men dont are just invisible. Going to try to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:21 AM
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Hated you for drinking and partying? No cheating, lying and playing dumb games...you are basically a normal guy. Did your wife cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:51 PM
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I mean, isnt it common sense? Society tells us we should ultimately be with a good man, good fathering abilities. They just never told us we might not be in love with him. This is how most men "get" a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:08 PM
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The only thing I will add is that often because of the hypergamous nature of women they do in fact want a guy that is more attractive than they are or at least brings a significant amount more to the table than they do. Well yeah. Whats the point of having a man if he isnt superior in some way? Thats how most women think subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:18 PM
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Women are just as "shallow" as men are. Of course we are not any better. We are the same in a lot of respects. Its not our fault that men put us on pedestals. Men can be human and women cant? Its not one or the other. Men dont choose ugly women because they are nice and share the same values. They too want attractive women that are nice and share the same values. Its not a band thing to want both!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:06 PM
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Wrong conclusion. They want good men that they are sexually attracted to. Why is that so hard for you to understand?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:13 PM
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The thing you call "delusion" is just sexual attraction though. If you are ok with marrying a woman that doesn't want to fuck you, so be it. Most men wouldn't like that though. We all know that there are very few hot guys that we will probably not marry, but we will still prefer them over our other choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:09 AM
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Thats just their way of saying they are not sexually attracted to them. Read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:32 PM
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Its the "standard" of not choosing them..or not being sexually attracted to them. Not a standard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:31 PM
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I'm talking about non-weirdos my friend....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:54 PM
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Not being able to control what you’re attracted to and having delusional standards are mutually exclusive. What is the difference, because its one in the same to me. If no one but Chad turns me on, thats just reality not "delusional standards". If I didnt lock down Chad, I personally would never have married. I'm saying there is a large percentage of women that do just what you guys implore women to do, settle down with her looksmatch in their 20s. If that is happening, we can conclude that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:27 PM
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OK, so we agree. When are you guys just going to accept that in general, women are going to continue to operate this way because of biology? Its like asking men to stop finding 20 year olds hot. Its just not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:51 PM
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But if she wanted those men she casts aside, she woiuld be dating them out of her own free will. When are you guys going to just admit most women are not going to be turned on by most guys? There is little to no sexual attraction for most of them, whether Chad is in the picture or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:40 PM
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You cant help what makes your penis hard, its the same for women. And the reality is 50 percent of women are dating and marry their husbands mid 20s. The people complaining here are left overs. Nothing is wrong with the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:24 PM
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Why can't these women just vet whoever comes on their path to see what it is she can actually get? As you said, they can only keep up the charade for so long. None of this ruminating matters, average men are of no value for most women because there is often no sexual attraction. All I hear from you guys is "date men you don't want to fuck"... Who would enjoy that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:55 AM
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Not the case, they are attracted to them because they are hot. Remember that hot felon from a few years back....forget his name. He was literally Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:27 PM
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On this very sub! When we boil it down, men want women to sacrifice their sexuality and partner with all these unattractive men. They have made arguments that its best for society and we are being selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:41 PM
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it's just that an average woman actually has a chance to lock down an average looking man who values her and wants to commit - the only highly attractive men she can attract just want what's in her pants. IF this is true, its just because they have less options. You admit their moral compass is not any better than Chads....so whats the point? Men are all trash is the conclusion really. I mean, look at the average mans viewpoints on this very sub. Women might as well get Chad or get without.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:40 PM
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That guy is average looking, where is the attractive bad boy you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:12 PM
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Wishful thinking. We want an attractive guy that is emotionally available and mature. I knew as a teen how ugly most men were..so attraction comes first. Nothing can coach us out of our biology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:59 AM
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Shes still way better looking than that guy, they are not looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:50 PM
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LOL arnt you red pill? IF average women are settling to marry the average man, its a beta bux situation for the most part. 50 % of young women overlook their non-sexual response to the dude and marrying them anyway. At best, they are friends. Thats whats going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:34 PM
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I'm sure average people can get together and have a happily platonic marriage. But this idea of how we view ourselves has a direct relation to what we want, needs to die with some of you. Most men provide no sexual response to most women, if I'm going to be direct. If this is the case, it makes sense why most women dont want most men. Its not ego or our self perception, its literally you dont provide any type of response to me even though society says you should. Men should stop blaming women fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:18 PM
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The other person and me are on about how women behave in general with their attitude to how they see themselves and what that then makes them "want" This is what I'm disputing. I hear men say all the time, we dont like certain men because "weve had Chad" before and it boosts our ego. If women are treating you like crap, they just dont like you and have poor character. Our perception of ourselves dosent change what we want, a good looking guy that treats us well for the most part. Its just that 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:08 PM
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Oh ok, that makes sense. Those women just have poor character. I found 99 percent of men gross when I was dating, I still rejected them nicely...developed a few friendships out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:57 PM
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No one "deserves" anything, to be clear. But you still havent answered how these women behave with men. Is it active treating men badly, or just not being interested? A lot of men confuse the later with outright antagonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:25 PM
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It's not uncommon to even meet a plain looking woman who behaves like she's a top shelf dime (likely due to past access to attractive/athletic men on apps). I see men assume this a lot. Can you explain how these women behave? Why do you expect plain women to be eager for any guy that comes around? But one common complaint that I almost universally hear is that their wives/partners become domineering, demanding and overall difficult. Do you ask the men why they become that way? Nothing happens in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:46 PM
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Why? Because it dosent work or both genders would happily do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:45 PM
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This is what I mean, its not inflated egos. Its biology. We dont see an unattractive guy and think hes beneath us. We see an unattractive guy and recognize he provides no tingles...so its like whats the point? Now, men may see that and think "she thinks shes better than me!" when really its just that there is no sexual response. Its like looking at my brother. No tingles. And in reality, everyone wants an attractive partner. This idea that people can just "looksmatch" and be happy needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:46 PM
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We realize not every guy will "choose" us, that happens with "normal" guys as well. But theres no point in pursuing men we are not attracted to. I never treated any man badly, even when rejecting them. If a lot of women are doing that, thats terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:15 PM
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You guys misunderstand female sexuality so much. All women hold out for "Chad". Its not because of her large ego, its because she wants a guy that turns her on...and sees no point in partnering with a guy if thats not there. I was holding out for "Chad" at 16 because all the guys around me were not hot.Its not our fault that we find most men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:28 PM
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I found Chad on Tiktok. An older Chad, but still Chad. https://www.tiktok.com/@michaelfacks?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:31 PM
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No, fat women want men that turn them on as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:31 AM
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5/7 of those men were unattractive though. How is that a win for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:28 PM
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More people socialising is good, but it dosent change womens sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:13 PM
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Because they were forced to for survival!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:31 PM
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Women are attracted to hot guys period. If all the men in her village are ugly, shes not going to want to fuck them. You guys misunderstand female sexuality so much. Thick neck, rugged jawline, broad shoulders, handsome face. This is what gets vaginas wet. Do you know I searched for hot guys in my teens and never found one until I was in my mid 20s? How many guys did I overlook during that time? Thousands!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:27 PM
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Women are very rigid on what they find attractive compared to men. This is biological though. Social media isnt influencing it, its showing it for what it is. This is what makes our vaginas tingle. Taking away social media wont change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:20 PM
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Then why do you guys say its social media and inflated egos that ruin women in the dating market? And if those things went away, women would want ugly guys again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:56 PM
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No, what you are seeing is female nature and always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:55 PM
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Sexual attraction is biological and isnt something that can be shifted by social media. Its also not a "standard" like you guys love to put it. Its something that is either there or not. As much as red-pillers like to search for the truth, they surely dont like to hear that women just arnt biologically sexually attracted to most men. Its not social media or overinflated egos thats causing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:17 PM
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I lot of you guys say this, but thats just not how sexual attraction works. You dont have to think about it, its either on or off. It's literally looks, I can find guys hot regardless of how I look. You guys are confusing base sexual attraction with who you think you can get. Its not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:22 PM
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Thats a very odd way of thinking. You find her attractive because your peepee gets hard. You are not thinking your way to attraction or using whatever self-perception you have of yourself. Thats not how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:49 PM
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Its amazing. Its also why they think social media is "filling our heads" with the idea that we should only "have the best". Which is code for finding hot men hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:47 PM
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I would say maybe 1 in 1000 if Im being generous. As a teen, I always wondered where the hot guys were. I didnt see a real-life one until mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:09 PM
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I notice guys like to say its ego or over confidence. Its biological guys. Imagine 100 women and only 1 of them is sexually attractive to you. Is it your ego that finds them attractive or biology? Do you tell yourself you are delusional for finding them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:59 PM
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..after they were raped?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:41 PM
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Even if their egos are inflated, so what? They still will continue to date who they choose to date. But in reality, most women just go for what they want. It dosent mean they think they are better than the guys they dont want. I see that idea a lot here, and its not true. Women want attractive partners with good personalities. Its not our fault most men are unattractive to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:33 PM
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90 percent, the latter. The resent women they dont find attractive getting attention and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:56 PM
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Was it the bipolar that ruined things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:58 PM
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Your whole post is a reflection of how you think it works, when it isnt. Theres nothing delusional about a women not wanting you Yes, even if YOU think you are a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:35 AM
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I wish you autists would stop thinking like this. You guys think she is sufficiently into you and somehow is holding out for better. Its more like she's not into you at all and chooses to go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:10 AM
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And that research showed women swiped less often, but with more attraction levels and engaged in conversation on more of a bell curve. While men rated more women as more attractive but still only spoke to the top 20% of women Someone needs to make a thread about this. Men still only want the top and want lower ranking women available to be used at their convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:52 PM
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Imagine what would happen to a Chad chaser in the wild back in our jungle days. The baby would be raised as a part of a clan. There wasnt this nuclear family nonsense like we have today. So, she wouldnt really be worse off for fucking Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:51 PM
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Would the genie offer sexual attraction to this guy that is her equal? If that was there, most women would take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:56 PM
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Because they are not sexually attracted to these men. Everyone prioritizes this! You can like or even love a person and not want their penis inside you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:46 PM
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Yeah, i agree thats the main reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:59 PM
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A refreshing take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:44 PM
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LOL what actions? Responding to men that compliment them and say they like them?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:35 PM
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No, men overrate themselves. There have been studies and it has been talked about on here. Men overrate women by the attention they give them. Women cant help but play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:30 PM
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just curious, in what ways do you think they need to be treated better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:57 AM
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I dont think she cheated, she probably checked out. Didnt he say he loves his job more than his family or some shit? I would move on tooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:28 PM
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Not how real life works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:05 PM
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Wrong conclusion again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:29 PM
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Women just settle because we cant get hot guys, there are just not enough of them. Lately, most women are not bothering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:35 PM
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bc its true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:09 PM
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lol what was chasing you down going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:32 AM
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Yes. Because there are younger high value men as well. It wouldnt even occur to be to date outside the 5 year area. I rarely ran across an older Chad...lets be forreal there are not that many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:17 PM
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We mean mature at max 5 to 8 year area. Not 20 years....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:43 PM
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What do you define as "super transparent"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:49 PM
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Why do you choose not to fully commit to your partner, but refuse to be transparent about your lack of commitment? This right here. These guys willingly choose to be deceptive about their intentions, then call women dumb for believing them. RP doesn't admit to themselves that being transparent kills their game, because most sane women would walk away. Try telling your girlfriend you dont want her, see if she walks or not OP. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:36 PM
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Joe Magliano is close. Key things are thick neck, handsome face, broad shoulders, v-shaped torso 5'9 to 6'2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:40 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:30 AM
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I'm being dead serious. Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:19 AM
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lol...that would probably add in a dash of masculinity...but they are still not good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:55 AM
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All of these men are just not hot enough. They look above average, but I just cant imagine them turning me on in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:16 PM
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Is there a question here? She unfortunately got with two shitty men and is now single. Maybe some time alone will help her be more proactive in her mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:55 PM
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Or maybe she enjoys sex with HOT men....which there are not many of. I rarely saw a man worth having casual sex with...I would if there were more hotter men. We dont know his real value until we have gotten to know the person. These conspiracy theories are out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:52 PM
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do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:18 PM
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Possible, but 98 percent of the time, no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:52 PM
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I love how the form has every continent represented...North Africa and South Africa even. But no Africa lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:07 PM
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Nothing about her face is masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:16 PM
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Rihanna has a masculine face? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:48 PM
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There is no "issue" bec ause you guys are inventing one so you can roast her. Most women quietly go on their own way, men are known for not doing that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:17 PM
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Sexual attraction isn't a standard you can drop. It's either there or it's not. Nothing would be reasonable about sacrificing ones sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:00 AM
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Well, guess it's a choice of "being realistic" or choosing the path of singledom. Many women are openly choosing the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:51 AM
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Is she sexually attracted to that average man that treats her well and is a good father? If she is, then it should work out. The only "unrealistic" thing about women is that not any old guy turns them on. So, "being realistic" in your example would be for women to settle down with these guys that give her a non-response or disgust response in regards to sexual attraction. If you think that women should be realistic in this way and that men will enjoy this, then maybe you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:26 AM
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Lack of agency? No, they are mocking that she is with cats and not with an average man she dosent want. Her agency is that she is choosing cats over them....men dont like that idea. So yeah, shes unhappy, but less unhappy than being with one of them. ' Also, self-improvement is overblown. You can make yourself desirable as much as you want, still dosent mean your dates will genuinely like you. That still comes down to timing, chance, luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:18 AM
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I think women are choosing to be single because the men they want don't want them or don't exist,and when they come home alone to cats at 40 they aren't happy Can anyone explain whats so bad about this? She's choosing cats instead of a guy she dosent like that wants to penetrate her everyday. She may not be happy that she never found her soulmate, but she is definitely better off with her cats than getting with someone she dosent want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:13 AM
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Sometimes what one thinks is all in their head. The only way one would possiby give you any type of helpful assessment is if we knew how each one of you looks...and how you really behaved with them. I'm guessing, but its likely all of you are in the "same league" and what you encountered is just normal dating behavior from slightly insecure women, regardless of their looks. Basically, you are seeing hotter women through the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:42 PM
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Men always rate themselves a 7 on here, its so ridiculous. To a woman, that means you are almost Chad, but not quite. Men should let women rate them if you want an accurate assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:27 PM
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No one thinks they "deserve" anything, they are just attracted to that hot guy, which are very rare. And also, what people are attracted to has no bearing on what they look. I dont get how this idea became popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:44 AM
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Why cant you men accept the fact that you are just not arousing to most women. Women just literally dont get wet for most guys and its biological, not delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:36 AM
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You actually have more SMV at 40 while richer than when you are 20. Wrong, you have more RMV. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:13 PM
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Why were they given free food?
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 05:35 PM
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So you are basically mad that they are not easy lays for you anymore...I knew it. Most of these men are mad that these women refuse to be used. Makes a lot of sense.
/r/AllPillDebate26/01/23 03:22 AM
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Compare this to an actual biological preference like hourglass figures with a golden ratio, or facial symmetry, etc., which are consistent across cultures. The female counter to this would be broad shoulders, v-shaped torso, strong jawline, and handsome face. Height over 5"8 , is icing on the cake believe it or not. Honestly, the percentage of women that scream for 6 feet guys do so because very few men have the other more important characteristics above. OPs point is moot and social media cant …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:51 AM
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This warped perception of men comes from obvious culprits like being influenced by media, social media especially, dating app algorithms... to the point now where in my opinion most women don't form their own opinions themselves about the attractiveness of a man (or almost anything anymore really). You guys need to stop parroting this viewpoint, because its false. We view most men from invisible to gross because its hardwired in our biology. Most men are gross, especially so today with like 70 p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:14 AM
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No one feels entitled to anything. People want things and hope they get them. People also know what they dont desire clearly. LOL its like saying I'm entitled to juice because I'm thirsty and want some.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:45 PM
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All of this is nice for women that want to marry the average man...it's pretty clear the modern woman will not restrict a basic human urge just to marry a guy she doesn't want. Careers save us from this remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:59 PM
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What does controlling our lust mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:41 PM
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What woman wants commitment from a guy she has no sexual response to and ultimately doesn't want? What value is his commitment? Literally 0. Most women would rather at least enjoy the pleasure of Chad than to be touched by a man she doesn't want. Why can't guys deal with this fact?. MOST OF YOU DONT GIVE US A SEXUAL RESPONSEThats all there is to it.! You guys are always trying to say we have large egos or do t know what value we bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:22 PM
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lol you really killed them on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:12 PM
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Dosent really work unless the man is hot. Passive dread can work in good relationships up until a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:47 PM
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You are on to something OP, but you forget that lust is rare in general, even among high SMV people. How many women have you had the hots for in this fashion in your lifetime? I would guess no more than 2 or 3 times. For me, its been twice and I married one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:29 PM
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What you posted is absolutely correct. Lust isnt some type of anxious attachment. However, I do agree with OP that not a lot of people have experienced base lust. I think it is genuinely rare for women to experience it. I never came across a man that aroused those feelings until I was in my 20s...and few times since then. I believe most people are in comfort-relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:06 PM
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Better? No. But they can age well if they do the right things. Everyone is best in their youth. I dont get why this is argued here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:17 PM
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were you worth divorcing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:06 PM
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Women are attracted to men who have multiple girls or are capable of it. But why though? Its because those men are usually hot. This is what kills me about RP beliefs. They think they can pretend to be hot guys and get a similar response. No RP men is everdirect or honest about his plate spinning agenda. RP encourages vagueness, which is deceit and manipulation if they are honest with themselves. They wouldnt be able to get action any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:40 PM
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You are right. Maybe one is fuckable, the rest are pretty much average to invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:29 PM
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Not true dude. Most Nigeria s squeezed into the US when immigration standards were easy in late 70s and 80s. Many partake in fraud to get here and do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:47 PM
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nuclear families arnt sustainable...its a western scam. We need to bring back clans, more extended relatives around to help care for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:50 AM
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I’m not trying to be mean or anything but theirs a reason these practices were so common and consistent cross culturally. The reason is so every loser guy can get a woman. Without that, we would just have women going after the hot guys. Knowing what a good partner is and wanting him sexually are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:31 PM
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really? explains why they like their women to look like underage boys so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:05 PM
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Its about base appeal primarily. We just dont like them like that. I would have shoot my shot if I came across a really hot one in the wild, but that rarely ever happened. A lot of beta bux white men tried to pursue me, but I just wasnt feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:56 PM
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You cant just stand that you are unwanted and we will always prefer black men over you. Deal with it. It shouldnt even bother you...go after those other groups of women that are salivating over you. Because its surely not going to be us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:06 AM
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Again, we still dont find white men sexually appealing unless he is Chad. If you are Chad, fine. But that dosent mean we desire the other 95 percent of you, which we view as invisible to unattractive to us. Whatever you are debating dosent address this, I wonder why. Ask any black women what she envisions as a husband she sexually desires, and its going to be a black man or maybe some hispanic man, like I married. We dont want anything else. The few black women you got to sleep with you dosent c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:50 AM
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None of that detracts from the fact we dont find you sexually appealing compared to black men and never will. I'm literally using stats and common knowledge of what black women think. Women dont want to marry men they are not sexually attracted to, this is especially true for black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:35 AM
0

If you dont look at my post history and see Im a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:17 AM
-2

All woman, and its the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:50 AM
5

This is purge, relax dear
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:43 AM
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Your singular experience speaks for how black women view white men as a whole? We literally select against white men 96 percent of the time. White men selected against us 99 percent of the time I believe. The few outliers that like each other can do their thing, but as a whole, we dont desire white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:11 AM
5

They say that anyway, why would that matter? Its what they genuinely think. I'm just saying what black woman genuinely think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:05 AM
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No, we dont. Unless they are hot...which is less than 5% of them. The average white man isnt appealing to us. We select against them when you look at the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:54 AM
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We dont. The American ones smell like ham and are unmanly. They just dont compare when it comes to black male masculinity. I rarely see a hot white man in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:45 AM
0

will the fat chicks even let you? probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:49 PM
2

Yes. Happened a lot. Cold approach generally only works if you are hot enough to the woman. He had to be my type. I never got annoyed and honestly I think its the best way to meet men. My husband cold approached when I was in another country and he is very hot, so yeah of course it was going to work. A generally successful approach is if the guy approaching is hot. No pussy footing around. They make it clear that they want you and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:44 AM
1

The answer is generally no. Repeated bad behavior and him disappointing me in some way where I think he is a loser kills attraction and love. Sexual attraction and love need good fuel to keep going. Surely, this is understandable isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:32 AM
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Yes, a large percentage of men just dont understand social skills or social graces. They want to be able to walk up to women, enter a quarter, and sex comes out. Its good dating advice because too many men need that experience before they can go on to dating and interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:16 PM
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I do think a significant portion of men should just learn basic social skills and learn how to be friends with women first in general. So many younger people lack social skills and dont even understand the basics of the opposite sex. Sure, it wont net them a lay in the hay....but that stuff can happen later with time and growth. It is good advice in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:08 PM
1

She deleted her account and everything? Was poppy banned or did she just leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:59 PM
2

So, have all the old-timers left or just have new usernames? Havent seen Atlas in forever..where's Poppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:43 PM
3

I would say a third of those men would happily date chubbies if they knew their friends and family wouldnt shame them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:41 AM
1

Not a compliment, but not as bad as some make it out to be. In an ideal situation, a BB is just a good friend that you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:27 AM
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Chad is real, but rare. Most men are invisible to unattractive. You can draw your own conclusions knowing that the world isnt exactly black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:33 AM
1

I believe it has to do with testosterone levels. Arnt Souther Europeans not considered fully white as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:33 AM
1

hoping to get married to her dream guy, not any old guy. You guys miss this point. If its average unappealing Adam, she knows she is better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:29 PM
1

There are not even many Chads. He is very rare. I'm pretty sure most women havent come across one in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:54 PM
1

Its not about charm, its about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:35 PM
1

I'm really not sure if its sexist. I just know that the woman is always going to be the primary caretaker, even if she works. It seems to always default to that. If I genuinely get along great with the first guy, he would be making more money and be happy to support me. He would see its importance. The second guy wouldnt qualify either. It dosent have to be a choice between two terrible guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:49 PM
-3

Dont men earn more? My view is that a man that cant maintain 80 percent of the bills, is not worth having. A man shouldn't feel comfortable doing 50/50 with his wife that he hopes to have children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:26 PM
2

what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:18 PM
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I spoke to a therapist once. He said a lot of men just think she wont leave, so dont take things too seriously. He said they only get serious about therapy when shes ready for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:36 PM
8

Women use a different scale. It is hot, not or invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:48 PM
3

I'm saying its bullshit and these "sex therapists" dont understand women. A women that has a non-spontaneous sex drive just isnt in to their partner, is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:46 PM
2

Yes, 100 percent of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:30 PM
2

My husband is Latino Chad, so he is arousing 100 percent of the time. I just think all that you have typed just makes a case for AF/BB. There is no mood I have to be in or a "maybe sometimes I want to have sex". It 100 percent depends on the guy. Thats all that matters. I think the vast majority of women are like this and they just dont know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:29 PM
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Sorry, most of this is BS. If I am genuinely aroused by a guy, I'm pretty much down for sex whenever. Like, right away. The problem is very few guys were ever arousing for me. I've been married for a while now, still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:14 PM
1

No! And I was arguing about this with someone a few days ago. Sexual Attraction does not grow, especially if it was never there to begin with. Each person has to meet your base line of attraction for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:50 PM
2

Were you at least sexually attracted to these women? Why are you complaining if you were?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:42 PM
2

Are you male zoomers really not washing your booty cracks in the shower? So many of you women on tiktok are saying that men argue that its not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:49 PM
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You actually have to be attractive to the person though. I don’t understand what’s so hard to understand about this. This just blows my mind! Like, sexual attraction matters first in any romantic relationship. It comes first, then the other things follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:46 PM
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I'm 36. Ive come across maybe a dozen guys that I would willingly have sex with in my lifetime. No amount of dating or "growing love" ever worked for me. The guys just end up getting hurt, so I stopped doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:32 PM
1

But, I'm not asking for every crush. I'm specifically asking how many times you came across a girl that you were not immediately sexually attracted to....but then grew to want to have sex with her? I'm betting its very few. I'm not trying to troll here...it astonishes me how men dont get this tho :( I'm not saying it dosent exist. I'm saying its very rare and men need to stop counting on it or making it a thing...therefore this "giving a guy a chance" thing will stop. Because women have a viscer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:31 PM
1

How many is "many"? No, I'm just being factual and honest. In general, sexual attraction cant grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:21 PM
1

You say you have. OK, so how many times has this happened in your life? I'd venture to guess its still very rare for this to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:17 PM
1

What proof do you have that people grow to be sexually attracted to people? Have you ever seen a man grow to want to fuck someone he didnt initially want to? Its not "sad". Its reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:12 PM
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WTF? I'm not trying to fool anyone. This is how people work. Women arnt too different from men in this way. Women just have to settle with someone if they want to have children, so they trick themselves by trying to make attraction grow. I do believe most women at least like their BB as people, but are not sexually attracted to them still. Its just how our arousal windows are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:08 PM
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It is true like 98 percent of the time. I actually took some time to think about this years back. When you press people, they will say they grew to like the person, not that sexual attraction grew. Meaning, a women "grew to like" her beta bux, not that she was thrilled to have sex with him. Just think....do you ever grow to be sexually attracted to a women? It never happens. Men know right away, its also the case for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:02 PM
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Attraction grows and develops over time for many people male and female, young and old. It might not happen for you ever in life but this is something that happens for many people. No it dosent, at least not sexual attraction. What usually happens is that you can grow to like someone as a person. Sexual attraction is pretty much on or off, you know immediately. It never grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:57 PM
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I like how you didn't answer the question. To us, it's about the same...unwanted sexual attention. Attraction rarely grows or develops. Yet we're told all the time to give dude a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:36 PM
1

Why is this a surprise tho? Imagine being forced to be with a woman that can't get you hard. It sucks and is ultimately a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:53 AM
1

Well, because it is. Once people are saying "give him a chance", no attraction is there and it likely never will be. Its a great way for men to manipulate their way into beta buxdom tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:33 AM
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The only man that can look good past 45 is Chad. He has the bone structure to be capable of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:01 PM
13

...just a response from your men literally burning women to death that step outside at night. Its called for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:40 AM
0

Women are just louder about it not, but its not a requirement. Why dont you guys see in reality, average height guys get attention as well? So, why focus on the loud ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:42 PM
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In reality, there is too much of a good thing. No one really wants a green giant. I even believe there was a study that showed diminishing returns at 6'3. Also, women dont like cute...they like masculine and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:07 PM
2

6'5 is too tall. Also, what does is face look like? Being white does not automatically make you hot, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:59 PM
2

I mean, people do that, not just women. As long as they are not actually treating you like trash, you cant be mad at them for having their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:05 PM
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Maybe if we took the expectation of sex out of a relationship this would work. This is called a friendship. Maybe society needs to promote the idea of familial love instead of romantic love, but I dont think that would go far. I personally think what would help most is spreading more information on how to arouse women. Wont really work since most women view most men as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:47 PM
1

as long as both are Chad, A
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:10 PM
1

black women generally dont want white men. A hot black or colored men would be the preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:12 PM
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you are misrepresenting stats. of those that want to date out, which is like around 20 percent of each race, they preferred white men. However, the fact remains that women of each race want their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:10 PM
2

At least two nurses on here have stated its true...one even said they are coached on this occurring and how to manage it because these men start hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:46 PM
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For purely entertainment at this point. Most of the useful content ended a while back, its sad for me because I learned a lot here from some of the smarter and older posters. u/sadomasochrist content made me "get" RP...because there was a long time I questioned why few men were attractive to me (literally less than 10 in my lifetime) and a lot of things made sense in terms of womens sexuality. At the end of the day, facts and statistics stand, but people will always have their own truth about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:09 PM
2

I mean, yeah there are cons..but we would still prefer to be with the hot guy if we HAD to choose. Ideally, we want a hot, monogamous guy that treats us well and has money. I admit that polygomous relationships are unstable and likely bad for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:50 PM
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We say we would prefer sharing a HVM, not that we would be totally happy with it. Being with a guy we dont desire just to say we have his commitment has no value at all. At least with the HVM, we find him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:48 PM
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My husband is Chad, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:49 AM
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....but if those women genuinely dont want "other guys" and dont find them sexually appealing, why should they? Let them cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:41 PM
2

The beginning of the end was Covid. Things were still repetitive, but there were older, more mature and educated posters. Also, the incel boards were banned. I've seen mentions of this sub in places were dumb normies congregate. Younger posters...some have admitted to being 12...I hang around because there are a couple of good regulars...but it seems most have gone at this point and the sub wont get its life back. I'm kinda sad about how things are now because I learned some valuable things from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:00 PM
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several women have said this here throughout the years, and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:30 PM
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Its less than 20 percent in the US. I would say about 4 percent of men are blatantly sexually attractive. I see way more hotter guys in other countries though...more around 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:53 PM
4

More like Benevolent Kings...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:49 PM
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why do people think this is a dating sub? its a red pill debate sub....well it use to be before covid. now its posters as young as 14 that ruined the place...and fds...that was a real turning point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:24 AM
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Not really, but that has always been the case for women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:33 PM
2

No. But I can tolerate more of a mans flaws if I love him. To a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:55 PM
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It is, dont let these women fool you. Me and my girlfriends never found a guy hot that we didnt have sexual attraction for because of their personality. The only women doing this are those that are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:35 PM
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Its hot in that it shows courage, confidence, and raw masculinity...even though its a negative trait. Think about it, women arnt assholes....thats a male trait. Now, coming to the wrong conclusion that women like ugly assholes is pretty dumb. Chad can get away with it for a time because he is physically hot...but even that wears thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:15 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:43 PM
1

Women learn FDS with time, even if they have never seen the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:42 PM
1

You are reading too much into her username. Whats delusional about saying most women dont care? Is it not true? Women dont want beta buxes, even if they settle for them for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:22 PM
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They dont like women being honest about it, ironically. And I agree women don't care, they will always go for a man that arouses them than a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:38 PM
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Right. A is just describing a good friend I dont want to have sex with. A could literally be replaced with a sister, cousin or other girlfriend. I'm a women and would choose B. If we are compatible, just dont share interests or hobbies, its the perfect choice. I dont need my partner to like the same things I do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:57 AM
1

thats because of his status, not his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:14 PM
1

AND are not at peace with the consequences. Excellent point. You can have the highest of standards, but you can afford it if you are at peace of not getting them met. If I didnt end up getting with someone as hot as my husband, I wouldnt have felt bad about being alone..especially since I would not be struggling financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:11 PM
1

I've asked a lot of my friends. The ones that gave self-reflective and thoughtful answers admitted this as well. One or two even said that their dating experience has been just hoping to catch sparks with the guys that asked them out...part of me can't blame them. We women are always told to "give him a chance" you may like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:49 AM
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So it's "entitlement" if she rejects him because she's not interested in a one night stand with him? Basically this. She didnt go along with it, now shes entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:07 PM
6

Thats not sexual attraction though, thats beta buxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:55 PM
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No. And the chances of it happening are very slim. I could like him as a person, but it dosent turn on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:12 PM
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There are some disgusting men out there, but were talking about the men we see everyday in our neighborhoods. They dont inspire lust, but were not repulsed by them. Its just that there is no sexual response. Most self aware women even know that a lot of men arnt bad looking per se, but when we are asked to rate based on sexual attraction, most men are just under the bar. Invisible mostly. Its not disgust, I mean, women wouldnt be able to go the BB route if most men were disgusting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:36 PM
2

Have you seen candid shots of her? Shes an average older woman now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:02 PM
1

they were friends, nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:26 PM
1

But then you guys call women cat ladies if they do just that. Most men would still rather have something than nothing when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:22 AM
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Can it be repaired?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:46 PM
1

You should be making strong effort and be investing...I dont define that as jumping around like a monkey tho....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:26 PM
1

If you really like her, it shouldnt feel like hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:53 PM
3

literally smells like garbage and piss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:40 PM
3

it's credit for just doing the thing that is normal Thats why women use it as part of a vetting process. Its just a really easy thing for a man to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:36 AM
2

No, women will still fuck Chad. Rich women will go to private doctors to get abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:14 PM
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I'm saying stop believing womens wiring is a "low class behaviour". It just looks a different way between the classes. Upper class women arnt "valuing a stable household with a father involved". Most are just doing what they have been told to do or raised to do. Dosent mean she wont cheat with that personal trainer if she has disdain for the guy and wants out. Read mens stories here. No women wants to be with a guy she dosent want, even if its for the betterment of her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:41 PM
1

Stop coping. Women are all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:32 AM
2

Yeah, its kinda odd shes mostly the only active mod. I wonder where everyone else went. I find the discord fun at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:49 PM
8

Most of these men are pathetic, thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:20 PM
2

how big is the sub? Does it give old time feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:06 PM
9

You are a man, make more sense for who? Why do you visit a board that explicitly does not cater to you and tell them what they "should" be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:00 PM
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It is because these men want women that they consider bottom barrel, to be still available to them should they need someone to use or settle with. Women would rather go it alone if they dont find anyone they want, men would still settle for what they consider dregs if they cant find anyone. If these "bottom tier" women are going to be hard to get by having all these "demands", it burns them up inside. Also the idea of women having standards takes away women from their pool, which they hate with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:58 PM
3

No, they are in a decline by 40. Peak is early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:44 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:24 PM
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No it isnt. I've been doing it for 30 years. Never had any type of vaginal dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:23 PM
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With regular soap, everyday...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:31 PM
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We dont get offended, we have eyes and watch what men do. Thats why we know that most men just dont want an average girl like they claim. They want a 6 plus or better in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:59 PM
2

Bad move on their part. They really dont know how to run their site, as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:25 PM
1

Thats chickenshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:24 PM
3

Looks like FDS is back. I knew they were not going to be able to monetize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:05 PM
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I wouldnt call her ugly either, but she isnt really attractive either. Men would want someone better looking than her in general. You dont exactly have to be ugly to be unnatractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:43 PM
3

It will help, but only so much. I doubt he will broach many womens attraction threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:01 PM
3

I get what you are saying. Different people have their own problems that they need to advocate for. Other people can only offer sympathy at a distance. Its just how life is...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:55 PM
7

Yeah, basically the root cause is capitalism over-run.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:07 PM
2

Oh come on. Its just that nothing can really be done about it. In what ways should we care better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:06 PM
1

Well, yeah. If unatractive men do it, I just ignore. Most men are invisible to me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:21 PM
3

uhh, theres nothing feminine about an underage boy. Slim waist, big hips and a nice ass is what people are referring to when they say "thicc". Turning into a tubo-lard isnt what people mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:20 PM
3

yeah, because having the body of an underage boy is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:11 PM
2

I admit, there are a lot of hot men there. American men cant even compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:08 PM
5

she held him responsible by not sleeping with him. she was being flexible here and giving him a chance to prove himself. and look at that...he wonders somewhere else after a month. men will do what they want, regardless of their beliefs by the way, I didnt read where you were a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:05 PM
1

Why should I settle for a woman who doesn't? you shouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:56 PM
3

exactly, most women just have regular jobs not careers. why do so many of PPD men complain about the small percentage of these bitchy career women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:46 PM
2

what is delusional? most women just want a guy they are attracted to, has a decent job, and actually likes them and shows it. There are far more of these women than there are these entitled 1000-point check list, career women that you guys like to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:30 PM
3

just admit you guys hate women with boundaries and go. there are plenty of naive girls that will let you do whatever with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:51 PM
6

It didnt use to be like this. Its only after Covid and FDS that the demo completely switched. I use to see older, more experienced people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:21 PM
1

this is what motivates men to improve and become what those women want. What women want is mostly determined by genetics. Unless you mean improve to become a nice BB option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:44 PM
22

Honesty, it needs to become more of a valid path in society. You dont have to be with anyone and you might just be better off alone. There is no shame in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:37 PM
2

The cycle of life, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:57 PM
5

I didnt say everyone would be happy. I said we think its better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:46 PM
3

I agree its good if you are early in your career and have room to grow. Job hopping would be required though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:41 PM
12

Yes. And those are better than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:15 PM
2

I'm not american, but I'm black. Based on my time living in this country, I would say its more 60 percent or so in reality. some parents even disown their children over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:48 AM
0

Unfortunately, this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:54 PM
1

No, romance cant grow without sexual attraction. Sexual attraction never grows. But, we can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:17 PM
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Just because sexual attraction is there, does not mean romance will develop either. But SA is 100 percent required for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:47 PM
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Romance is the love between a man and a women, so yes, wanting/not wanting to have sex with them matters 100 percent. I could never tell you honestly that I found anyone sexually attracted on sight and it takes time. Thats because most of the time, you dont find them attractive. The "time" you need is to rationalize if they have high RMV. If they do, then maybe you could have sex with them. Tell me this isnt accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:07 PM
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He should have chosen better...he had all the resources to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:51 PM
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which is whatever except we are constantly exposed to their whining about guys just using them for sex and not wanting commitment when its totally obvious what is happening. There is literally a whole sub where below to average men plot to pump and dump women. You can't say its the top guys only wanting to do this anymore. Its all men in general. Another issue is that what value is a man's commitment if they are not wanted? I know the logical response for most guys is "if you want commitment, go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:58 PM
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Well, the US is a white country and people want to date people that look like them ultimately. I mean, everyone eventually does. I just dont think thats a bad thing unless you really really want to interracial date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:54 PM
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Sexual desire is the base from which romance can grow. Usually, its pretty clear if you desire someone sexually by looking at them, its black/white, on/off. Its instinct. So, no it cant grow. You cant grow to be sexually attracted to someone. You can grow to love them as a person, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:37 PM
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They ALL believe they are entitled to a man like that no matter what their actual RMV is. No, we believe that getting with a guy without those qualities, isnt worth it. No one feels they "deserve" anything, people want things and hope they can get it...or they move on. Some of you guys dont take to heart that cats is likely the best option in most womens eyes. Its not the insult that you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:13 AM
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Romance has a sexual component. Think eros, venus, love between a man and a woman. Its different from the love you have for your child, your family, your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:24 PM
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that doesn't mean that romance doesn't develop over time. You are mistaken. Its not romance that is developing, its friendship/familial love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:16 PM
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Yes. There is no romantic love without sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is instantaneous. Its either on or off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:13 PM
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as long as you can accept its familial love, and not romantic love..the latter never grows over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:40 PM
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Men, what would be your ideal form of beta buxing? In my mind, its just two friends that get together to have a family. They are not under the delusion that they are in love with each other or anything and the man isnt walking in blind. What say you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:04 PM
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He was a non-sexually appealing man. He wore a suit to play the part for his dumb viewers. The only women he was sleeping with were hookers of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:47 PM
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Have you seen him? He is a 3 at best! He was also broke and living with someone at his death. He was also literally a deadbeat dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:40 PM
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extremely dark brown/black eyes Literally everyone non-white has these... What is the reason lack of melanin was selected for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:38 PM
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she probably means ccomfortable as well as clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:39 PM
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Wow! I feel really bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:11 PM
2

Just curious, did he adopt her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:59 PM
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Are you black? I agree tho. I've noticed with higher test men, your face dosent have to be perfect as long as your body is right. As a women, I think as long as you have that traditional Chad body, you can have a somewhat ugly face as long as its masculine looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:06 AM
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Women learn this over time, its wisdom that many younger girls dont have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:24 PM
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You cant control what you are sexually attracted to. A man no woman has tingles for is a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:58 PM
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No tingles, no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:25 PM
1

I'm purplish-black at this point. There are too many truths in each pill...people just choose the side that aligns best for them to sort out their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:20 PM
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Nobody is "threatening" anything. I'm just saying that when women arnt allowed to abort a child that isnt wanted and when we live in a world where unwanted things/mistakes happen....even after vetting and being careful...there is less incentive to play the mating game. Eventually we will come to the conclusion that it isnt worth it to deal with men at all. Life is hard enough as it is...and I see both men and women just going their own way rather than being forced to plan under these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:34 PM
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only sleeping with people they’d be willing to raise a child with There are not too many of these guys to be honest. This isnt going to force women to want beta buxes. I'm saying that most women will just opt out totally and there will be even more lonely frustrated men. The thing is women are OK with being alone as long as we can work and support ourselves...men are not this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:40 PM
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....with this route men will get no sex at all is my point. And for women that still want to play the game, the hoops to jump will make men even more irate than now..they will become 10 times more entitled than they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:38 PM
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I just see a future where women will be even more savage when it comes to dating or will just resign to total celibacy. Unless they can find a way to ban women from working, its still going to be mixed/poor results.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:03 PM
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I'm just talking about sexual attraction. You can grow to like someone as a person, but sexual attraction is generally pretty black and white on or off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:12 PM
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90 percent of the time, its instant. Only in rare cases can it "grow over time". Not impossible, but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:53 PM
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Did that last long though? I dont see many active coaches or Youtubers regarding RP content...most of the info is free nowadays and easily digestible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:49 PM
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The creator wants to monetize, but she better have her A-game on. Part of me dosent blame her for wanting that, the other part of me feels like it will kinda die off if she dosent get some book deal or a chart-topping podcast. She really has to play her cards right, especially if she wants to remain anonymous. There is something special about sharing notes, actively reading peoples experiences. Its why TRP still has a sub here and was never able to pop off to their own website. Last I saw, it lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:13 PM
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oh, I was talking about my husband lol. This man in the picture looks white to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:41 PM
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Yeah, I guess mestizo is the correct term. In his country he would be considered white.but I don't see a white man when I look at him.he clearly has native ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:10 PM
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Still, I think the womens arousal window should be considered. I think I'm more on the difficult side compared to other women. Some women would snap up the Chad-lites with a quickness...I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:35 PM
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Meh, I think you got it wrong. The closer to this a guy can get (guy on left), the more desirable he is: https://imgur.com/OsjRdLz Notice the broad shoulders, thick neck, handsome face, toned arms and body (not necessarily muscular in a body-building way) v-shaped torso. A guy 5'9 is acceptable if he has a body frame like this. Despite what guys believe, height is only the icing on the cake. Still, you cant be a total midget tho. The guy on the right self-improved and built up muscles, but hes n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:52 PM
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Get some self esteem and stop dating. Its really OK to be alone than with someone you dont even like nor treat well. Choosing me because she can't get anyone else bruh..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:36 PM
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its one thing to lead someone on that you are at least attracted to, but to lead women on you dont even somewhat like (and then call them "needy" when they think you are really interested in them.....is very disgusting. how much of a loser can you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:51 PM
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She moved to Florida and married a guy who is her height, balding, has a kid already, and has a dad-bod; all the opposites of what she set as her standard. But now she has her baby, and looks happier than ever before. Shes happy that she got the baby, not that she had to use this guy as a means to an end to get it. She would have been better off going the test tube route.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:21 PM
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They have an open marriage. Will used to fuck other men. Chris has been attacking him and Jada for years tho. It probably just got to a boiling point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:33 AM
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This is the truth you guys observe, but when we say it, were lying?This is why women just keep quiet...you can't stand the truth. You want to live in lies...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:14 PM
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I mean, its a plausible theory...but I've tested this for women of in my circle, ranging from 3s to 8s...they all said the same thing. Most men arnt sexually appealing to them. I think its time to accept that its biological for us women. Most even said a lot of men arnt ugly, just non-sexually appealing. The fact that they could make a distinction kinda proves its just how it is with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:57 PM
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Real life encounters? Less than 10 men in my lifetime and I'm 36. If I didnt run across my husband, I would be single most likely. I've come to accept that most women are with men for emotional and financial security. It was a major red pill when I figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:45 PM
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Being hot to someone is the only thing that matters. Everything else falls after that. I wish everyone would just agree and move on from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:43 PM
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They are so obsessed with sex they dont even see its the elites screwing us over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:16 PM
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Im not so sure. Being a demanding bitch sure did work better for me than being a retarded doormat. And I'm slightly above average in looks. Telling someone that they dont deserve something and to act accordingly is stupid and its only to their detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:54 PM
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Because "improving yourself" is retarded unless you have something glaringly wrong with you. You dont have to be a beauty queen to have a guy treat you right..you just have to avoid all the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:45 PM
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Seems like a lot are rating on "style" and cleanliness....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:56 AM
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What is your definition of that though, because everyones is different. For a lot of man, telling a woman no is "treating her like shit"lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:54 PM
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I mean, you are not an incel. You've had girlfriends...why do you expect to be drowning in options? If we believe the studies, most people have around 5 or so partners in their lifetime...its normal. Personally, the closer you look like Chad, the better. Very few men have sexually aroused me. I tried dating a beta bux before I met my husband, but I had to end it. Face>body frame>height is how it goes. Broad shoulders, v-shaped torso, thick neck, masculine/handsome face. Extra height over 5"9 is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:59 AM
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I'm not trying to taunt you, I'm just stating facts. People want to be with partners they are sexually attracted to at the minimum in these modern times. If some women are going to go the beta bux route, dude needs to provide security and money to at least somewhat compensate. Like, what do you want women to do? We can listen, but cant change what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:41 AM
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You guys still wont listen and just accept the fact that most men are unwanted and nothing will change that besides coercion or making laws that restrict women from any type of freedom. Believe it or not, its not hate. Its a free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:18 AM
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Brad isnt wanted or desired, so what benefit is a relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:52 PM
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Did they though? At most it was familial love, not genuine love and sexual attraction. A lot of women just tolerated their husbands.for.fimamcial security
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:00 AM
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You cant make them, its just human nature and we should all accept that. Give adults the opportunity to provide for themselves and exit out of bad situations. No one should be restricted from doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:31 PM
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There actually is a certain point where height is a turn off. No one wants a green giant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:19 AM
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....thats because women were thought of as some type of property and forced to partner up. Also, its men that can't fathom the idea of going without a partner...a lot of men are deep down desperate and its sad they allow their sexuality to control them like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:08 AM
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Not in a sexual way, no. Hes neat to look at though. This is an example of what men think women find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:10 PM
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well, a lot of couples don't, based on the divorce rate. At least some couples keep to their vows....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:40 PM
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Its not that complicated, the pills just offer their own perspectives on dating, some truth, some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:01 AM
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No, but but respect and decency couldnt hurt if you find you are just not feeling it. standing someone up for 40 minutes then replying to their texts like a coward is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:37 PM
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How do you know thats the case? Sometimes when you see someone in person, they just look different or you realize you are just not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:23 PM
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Can you change my mind, and prove to me that these ideologies are based on reason and logic instead of personal experience and trauma? Why can't it be a weird mixture of both? There have been quite a few things I've read on TRP that ring so true to my female sexuality, but then you read other bullshit like women are teenagers that you know just comes from a hurt and angry place. I even remember reading one of the original ECs later admitting that he was working through his mommy issues when he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:51 PM
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Lol my sister is "marrying" a married man. She described his as a polygamist. I asked for a picture, and he is literally an older Tyrone. I guess more and more women are going to go this route. She's 50 too and is average looking, but she said he's very good to her. Her ex husband wasnt bad looking, but was a nerdy professor that abused her. Life is interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:47 AM
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discord invite link still dosent work....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:52 PM
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Of course, but women can still avoid the men that don't want to meet their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:42 PM
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A lot of people on both sides can be so retarded. But as with all things, you pick the best parts and leave the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:29 PM
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I dont get it, because it should be clear that FDS speaks of things in context to relationships, not short-term mating or hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:35 PM
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Weed out HVM that dont want them, which is the point. We all know how men act when they really like someone, and those men aren't quibbling about splitting a check on the first date. What use is a HVM that wont even treat you well? We also have to consider that these women played along when they started dating, splitting checks, accepting low-effort and still not getting their needs met. The rational conclusion that one can make is to be very strict about how men treat you from the beginning, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:30 PM
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Why is their sub so confusing to men? They want to weed out men that dont really want them, are abusers, or are trying to spin plates. These men usually invest little...and one way they do that is being low effort in dates, not paying, expecting women to be happy with park walks. Men dont invest in things they dont really want to maintain, but will happily be vague, cheap and non-committal for as long as they can get sex out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:48 PM
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You are more bothered than I am, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:44 PM
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his sexuality is, yes, because he is a male. I'm not saying he is a rapist or abuser, because he is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:35 PM
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No problem here...I'm happily married dear, but I can still objectively discuss the genders....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:33 PM
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I'm saying their sexuality is, not men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:58 PM
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They tried to put me in gifted after 2nd grade. I remember telling my mom that they focus way too much on me and would push me too hard and I would stop enjoying school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:41 PM
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Whoever runs the discord, can you fix it? The invite never works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:37 PM
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You could probably say women are "Chadsexual" and be pretty accurate. I was such a horny teen, but could rarely find any guy I actually wanted to have casual sex with, so my n-count stayed low. I wouldnt say most men are repulsive, but most just dont give me a sexual response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:28 PM
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I'm neutral either way, but lets not act like men on here dont literally say that women having sex are used as fleshlights. Male sexuality is just inherently predatory and objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:24 PM
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https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/bikinis-women-men-objects-science "Evolutionary psychologists have proposed that women tend to look for mates who have wealth and power, so some of Fiske's colleagues have suggested running a similar test where women are shown pictures of men next to expensive cars or other affluent symbols. But Fiske doesn't think such an experiment would work the same way, because women usually react to men they desire by "interpreting their minds, thinking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:12 PM
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They literally did a study. Stop the butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:51 PM
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https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/bikinis-women-men-objects-science
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:51 PM
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I think it has literally been proven that men generally view us as tools to be used. National Geographic had the study. I'll look it up and post it later Edit: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/bikinis-women-men-objects-science "Brain scans revealed that when men are shown pictures of scantily clad women, the region of the brain associated with tool use lights up. Men were also more likely to associate images of sexualized women with first-person action verbs such as "I push, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:00 PM
1

The look tends to be "pretty" to me, not masculine and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:45 PM
1

colored eyes have always been creepy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:44 PM
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She struck a nerve because you know its true. A lot of men are like this and you dont have to be unnatractive to run across them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:39 PM
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Samburg has a pretty good looking face. Its handsome and shaped well. He isnt average in terms of sex appeal...because a lot of men dont have handsome faces. Im sure his status plays a part, but its primarily looks for women. I recognize that and I dont even find white men appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:01 PM
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What she describes is common enough if you are honest with yourselves. A lot of men arnt as great as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:26 PM
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She didnt come to these conclusions in a vacuum. She's dated several men to find out the reality of them. It's a critical yet fair assessment of modern men. Let's not pull the misandry card.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:22 PM
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No, Chads is pure looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:13 PM
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we do, just by men we actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:38 PM
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only as long as he is Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:00 AM
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What is it about a woman having fun in that way that repels you? A lot of these men just dont like the idea of a woman being OK without them...or in situations where they can access other men or branch swing. It triggers up some past mommy issues of being ignored, rejected etc. It's why they insist on wanting some type of non-personality having, docile doormat to relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:09 PM
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People need to get over the fact that people age and their bodies change with time. Middle aged people often look middle aged. And yeah, I do think you are a monster if you genuinely love someone and are willing to leave them over that without encouraging them to improve. I get its a "quality of life" issue...but jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:45 PM
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Such a shame. My husband and I never cleaned when we were working. Sometimes I would batch cook for the week, but that was it. No stress, no nagging each other. The maid came and did a wonderful job twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:23 PM
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I dont know why people dont think about hiring help. You can get someone on a task rabbit type site to do cleaning or babysitting etc every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:10 PM
3

Its been 2 years of non-stop gains! The only things that will make it now are crypto games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:39 PM
1

But look at the downvotes Im getting for being honest...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:28 AM
1

No pill is 100 percent right about everything. The pills are just ways to understand reality. Every pill has some truth. Thats just how life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:14 AM
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They have the science down, they know what women desire sexually. They know the sexes are different and why. They are right in that regard. Every pill has truth though, its just that everyone has their own take on how to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:13 AM
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fairly weak, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:32 AM
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If would prefer the super Chad. I would go with Chad of any race instead of the average black, white guy asian, etc. Honestly, its "Just Be Chad" with me. But I would prefer a black or latino Chad if I could pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:26 AM
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I will say race matters less the more Chadly you look, but we still have one we prefer the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:13 AM
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You are asking women what they deem attractive and you are demanding that your male view is the standard. Thats arrogance. He's an above average looking man, but is not very sexually appealing. Most women would say the same :shrug: You guys are always asking for the truth, but keep telling us we are wrong or delusional when stating it. Hes a high value beta bux, thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:44 PM
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Differently means we are rating on arousal, sexual attraction. I mean, given the topic of the sub, I think that would be the point. JGL is a pretty guy and looks way better than the tub-o-lard average American, but hes not arousing. No broad shoulders, no v-shaped torso, face is pretty, not masculine and handsome, neck not thick etc. etc. These are the features women find arousing. He looks boyish, most women arnt turned on by boyishly pretty looks. But I recognize some women will like him, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:25 PM
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No, no quite. You guys just dont get that women rate men differently...or you expect us to use your rubic. Explains why men are dumbfounded we rate most men below average...because to you he is a 7 or 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:46 PM
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He is average' is now a statement about where he fits statistically relative to other men. Yes, in terms of sexual appeal compared to other men...from a female perspective. This isn't delusional..this is how we genuinely view you guys. Not many women would be running to fuck him...therefore he is average in terms of sexual appeal. You guys are using your own criteria, we are using ours...and he is average guy in terms of sexual appeal. If you want me to take out the sexual appeal criteria, yes h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:05 PM
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Ok, that makes sense and I even mentioned he is not ugly and above average in another comment, but some guy still called me delusional. Which leads me to believe when men ask these type of questions, they are silently factoring in sexual appeal into it as well. We all know the average guy is a pale, pudgy man from Montana, so it seems redundant to us that you would ask that question, feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:39 PM
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That's not the title of the thread though. It's examples of what we consider average, hot, or not. He looks better than the chubby average man around, but he's still not hot. This is how women think/feel and men are shocked by it. This literally explains why men have trouble dating, most arnt hot enough for us even if they are technically above average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:15 PM
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I doubt that highly. Teen girls had a crush on an above average looking celeb, but that's it. He is boyishly cute, not manly in a sexually appealing way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:38 PM
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Exactly! He is not ugly, he looks well groomed and above average. But he isn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:36 PM
1

Excellent way of explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:27 PM
2

Jgl hasn't little sexual appeal though, that's how people are rating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:24 PM
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Yes, I'm a woman. He is not an ugly guy, he is slightly above average in that regard. But he has little sexual appeal, that is how women rate. He is small framed, shoulders arnt broad, neck isn't thick, no v- shaped torso and on the shorter side. That said, I'm sure he can make the right girl happy, but most women wouldn't be wetting their pants to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:16 PM
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...and they would be right. A spruced up 5.5. Nothing is particularly appealing about him. Also, we dont rate others on how we ourselves look....I dont know why people believe that. I could be as ugly as fuck, and still objectively rate others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:39 AM
4

The movie Grease started this tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:10 AM
4

run bitch, run!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:45 AM
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The sub died when corona came along....just here for the nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:54 PM
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Im saying 2 will be enough. If you have all of them, you are Chad. There is room for non-Chads is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:50 PM
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She's basically advertising for her YT channel and onlyfans. Shes a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:07 AM
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face>body frame>height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:15 AM
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I dont even know what you are arguing anymore. You can be boring as long as I am sexually/physically attracted to you. Call it superficial, but its how humans are...we want to like our partners in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:47 AM
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Unattractive to you is a man who is boring. He can be boring as long as he is physically attractive. My husband is boring and quiet, but he still turns me on. I think you guys sometimes you guys switch the words around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:01 AM
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unnatractive and ugly might as well be the same thing. Attractive is binary, its either there or its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:27 PM
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Any two of these: broad shoulders, masculine to handsome face, v-shaped torso, thick neck, height.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:18 PM
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You dont have to be Chad to be attractive though. Most men only need 2 of his traits to get consistent attention from women. Chad isnt the only bad man out there, I wish you guys would stop saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:23 PM
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My argument is that we do care. No man wants an ugly woman that is "good". why would we?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:34 PM
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You don't really care about compatibility nor about how kind the guy is, only how you feel when you see him, that's my point. We care about those things after immediate sexual attraction is established! You are right, being a good guy isnt enough to get us aroused! Why is this not common sense at this point. You have to look good or it does neither of us good. If you have a weird shaped face and a stumpy body, no "good man" attributes is going to get me wet for you. You would be no more than a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:35 PM
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Who dates someone that they are not attracted to though? What you are basicaly saying is that a woman should first find out to see if a man is good...and then date them, whther he is sexually attractive to them or not. Attraction comes first, and always will...then you vet for the other things. Do you see a below average or ugly women on the street and chat her up to see if she is a good woman that would make a good partner? Be realistic please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:03 PM
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That question is that how many young men could be compatible with them, share the same interest and would jell perfectly with them? I can have a light friendship with a lot of people, but intimate, romantic sexual relationships are very different. So, no it is not common to find someone compatible with you at that level. that has only happened to me 3 times in my lifetime and I married one of them. Dating isnt exactly supposed to be easy, its not like you can take someone off the shelf and put h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:43 PM
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I mean good men as women define them, baseline of physical attraction, high romantic value, and has a consistent source of income. Hard to find one person with all 3 things as a woman, so they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:31 PM
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Are most men good guys though and can they handle romantic relationships in an adult manner on a consistent basis? I beg to differ. I will say the same for women as well, so there is no point in making it a gendered issue. People will always date people that are physically appealing to them first, men particularly make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:24 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:20 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:19 PM
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I mean, its only guys that can hatefuck. Women are not like that. Once you show us who you are and its undesirable...vaginal lubrication usually dries up. Looks can get us interested, who you are as a person can totally turn us off. And the attraction rarely, if ever, comes back. So yes, turning into a bum for an extended period of time, being immature or lazy can kill attraction. Repeated poor behaviour usually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:40 PM
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there used to be lots of guys I found attractive pursuing me But this has always been the case, in youth and middle age. Which is why I think the few women that say it are outliers that men with revenge fantasies like to focus on to circle jerk. Ask any young women today where all the good men are, they will say they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:51 PM
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Its true that people can change in time, so vetting can only go so far. And no human is perfection. I'll acknowledge that. Your wife throwing things...I would first think its out of character for my partner to be doing this and think something is wrong that could be resolved..a health issue, mental or otherwise. Once or twice, fine...more than that, they are not getting a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:39 PM
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Because men that dont earn us, dont treat us well. Its just a truth when dating men. No one is saying that it wont eventually be reciprocated, but you have to earn the reciprocation and trust. It isnt "fair", but men and women are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:13 PM
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Havent looked into it, but nothing will overtake bitcoin ever lol. I'll read up on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:30 AM
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Yeah, I later learned you got to get behind the things that the market makers will pump regardless of utility. I saw shiba inu and thought about aping in because it seemed stupid enough to get popular, but I didnt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:10 AM
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Someone shilled Solana and Arweave before they were even listed on an exchange I believe. Got into FTM around 10 cents too. After a while, you can sense total bullshit...and alot of the insanity is just people gatekeeping so normies stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:01 AM
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biz is the only good section. Made millions off the info I read on there. I recognize a lot of the same talking points from those on pol...and a lot of the disgusting things posters say on here makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:36 AM
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We need to teach this to everyone. And love cant be forced either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:37 AM
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Some things are just out of your control. Everyone knows about looksmaxing, being a toxic jerk can work on some women, no one has the formula that can guarantee a women will actually fall in love with you. The right person, place, and timing has to be involved with that. And you may not meet her at all. Thats why people say be the best version of yourself and just take life a day at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:03 PM
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The way you are trying to present it makes women look a bit entitled. No, they are not entitled or being evil for not partnering with men that dont arouse them. Its kinda a requirement for romantic love. Unless you are OK with women just straight up BB men based on their income? I could also argue the same for unwanted men, the women they want for relationships dont want them back....I could say that the men are entitled, but I know they are not. They too want a partner that arouses them. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:03 PM
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Would you stop saying "too high standards"? Just say most women view most men as physically disgusting, because that is the real issue.I dont know why as a married man you listen to the complaints of single women and get irritated by them. If women are still choosing to be alone and unhappy than with some guy they dont want, that should say something. I also believe some of you men dont understand how traumatizing it is for a woman to be penetrated by men they are repulsed by ...also it literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:56 AM
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I mean, let them? you can say its unrealistic for women to want men they are attracted to, but women are openly saying they would rather be alone if they dont get what they want. Why cant you guys accept that? All you guys are doing is trying to change the male beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:20 PM
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Dating and marriage are things that society created. Those are the unnatural things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:37 PM
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Yes , it is based on looks alone. What you guys are doing is increasing your RMV. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:40 PM
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No, many plain women are with hot guys. All that matters is that he is attracted to her and genuinely likes her. My husband would be considered out of my league. He dosent think that way tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:00 PM
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Maybe I'm a little more difficult than others but my friends have the same sentiment when I ask them detailed questions. Most never tried casual sex simply because many men arnt appealing enough for it, in their eyes. Its not happening as much as you think. Most sex happens in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:27 PM
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Well, maybe 5 percent to be more generous. Society conditions women to get with men for security, emotional and otherwise. A lot of modern women are rejecting this tho.i myself have only seen a dozen men I would consider sexually attractive and I'm 36. I just wouldn't date anyone if they didn't have the looks to turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:57 PM
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It's true. Many women are with men for other reasons than hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:42 PM
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I've said this a lot on here. Its Face>Frame>Height in that order. Women wont care about your body if you have an ugly or below average face. I rarely see a man with a good-looking face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:55 PM
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what is white pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:52 PM
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Most women don't care, we just want you not to be a bum. If you dont have something to do everyday, men tend to turn into lazy bums. Ideally, we would prefer for you not to be stuck in the wage cage and find other ways to earn money, but guys like that arnt exactly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:00 PM
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I mean, its really off putting that men complain about buying $40 lunches for their dates. How unmasculine can you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
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charm dosent work if you are ugly. the women fuck them for money or benefits, not for lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:15 PM
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They are not. They are just mad that women don't want THEM. I dont know why women should settle for relationships with men they dont want. If you cant get what you want, leave the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:01 PM
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he looks literally retarded. his face is a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:48 PM
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Man B, milk him for money and divorce rape him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:01 PM
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Think about it, if women only care about looks, and only 1/5/10% of guys are good looking enough, are you telling me that all these women aren’t actually attracted to their boyfriends? I think a lot of women can be warmly attracted to their boyfriends, not hotly. I think this is the most common phenomenon before women that get with men just for security, financial or otherwise. Still, I read a recent study that said that only 12 percent of husbands feel sexually desired by their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:55 AM
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What? No one wants you so you are lashing out? K
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:49 PM
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How have I lost? I'm married to a great guy, not some autism dork like you. He's likely hotter than you, richer than you and has no problem being vetted. You are the failure creating lies about someone you dont agree with to feel better about yourself. How does it feel that no woman, at all, from anywhere, wants you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:41 PM
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You are the one seething and taking time to read up on me to try attack me with lies. Pathetic. Seethe and continue to be the angry, single and likely ugly incel that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:34 PM
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He's likely the low value man these women talk about and is mad at being called out. Thats the only reason why you would be angry at a group of women you claim to want nothing to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:20 PM
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Im not even american, and no he is not Guatemalan...where have I even posted that? You took the time to read my profile to lie about things I've posted and make incorrect assumptions about me? How pathetic. Your looking for someone to point a finger at because you are miserable that a lot of what these women say are right. You are likely the low value guy that they are talking about and you wouldnt be anywhere near meeting their standards. Continue to have a miserable year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:17 PM
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And whose fault is that. The abusers faut, which is why they are learning ways to vet. People searching for ways to resolve their problems is normal and a sign of them showing accountability. Even I believe RP has its benefits for men that have had poor experiences. I dont always like what they say, but they make good points just like FDS does. Have some empathy my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:03 PM
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Many of those women have been abused and short-changed in their relationships. What do they really say that riles you up to the degree that you call them bitches? I'm slightly above average, but I'm married to a great man, but I ran across a lot of poor character, poor value guys on my dating journey that they describe. Why cant you acknowledge that a lot of women are harmed in their relationships with these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:37 PM
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Basic male attributes of a good partner....whats your point? Unless you believe that is setting the bar too high? These attributes arnt describing the 6-6-6 Chad you guys complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:05 PM
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My overall point to you is that the majority of the plight black women face is largely self-imposed. stop being disingenuous. they say things like black womens faces are weird and dark skin is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:30 PM
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HVM in terms of relationships. Why cant you guys make the distinction? This means they are trying to avoid poor character, low effort partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:21 PM
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You dont have to be a beauty queen in order to qualify for good relationships. Men here say all the time how they would be happy to partner up with average girls etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:11 PM
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and? check out the hashtags...its just regular women you see everyday, some cute, some average etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:01 PM
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go to their instagram. its women of all ages and look normal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:18 PM
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probably decided to be done with this forum in the new year. at this point, its a useless addiction for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:16 PM
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post the lecture
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:14 PM
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well, you are over 30. most people are settled down. the market shifts as you get older for many reasons. just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:55 PM
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i said subconsciously..do you think attraction is conscious? you admit yourself that you get no hits, I'm telling you why. no woman says a pretty looking man is hot, as in sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:33 PM
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They’re main thing is waiting till they were older and had money? What dumb strategy is that. Its a RP strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:09 PM
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Literally why I don't take most men seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:50 PM
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the thing is, a woman being straight-forward is considered being a bitch in most mens eyes. You guys get just as emotional as women when you hear things from us you dont like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:47 PM
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because you call us masculine bitches when we are straight-forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:36 PM
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no, its not. Being pretty dosent work for men because its not sexually appealing. Our brains register another woman, not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:11 PM
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Yeah, thats what I was thinking, that you are pretty, not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:36 PM
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They are probably rating based on basic attractiveness, not based on what women find sexually appealing from men. People often mistake the difference. You are likely not an ugly guy, but do you have broad shoulders, v-shaped torso, thick neck and a masculine looking face? You have height, but thats not enough (something men here think is number 1 priority, when its not)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:31 PM
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Thats what men tend to think. But when women rate them, its usually lower and they are surprised women view them this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:07 PM
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You are probably not a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:58 PM
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why did you downvote all my comments? you are trolling and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:49 PM
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Would you rather know the truth of why you're unattractive to a particular person or group of people, or would you rather be left in the dark and be all fake polite about everything? Does it matter because at the end of the day, you dont want them. In addition, no one really asked you. Black women hear this hundreds of times a year and you know it. Now answer her question:If someone said they think white men are disgusting and ugly would that not be racist or would it will be a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:44 PM
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can you remember some of what he said? they say some of the most disgusting things and frame it as "a preference"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:41 PM
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Can anyone quote what he said? Honestly, OP you are beating a dead horse. American white men love to scream ouloud about how black women are ugly. You can't control what you like, but then why do white men scream so loudly about what they don't like...and in a. Especially degrading way? Like, do you want applause or to help black women become more attractive to you? Most people just ignore what they don't like. For example, Asian men seem to be the least preferred men, but do you see anyone cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:14 PM
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is nuts, all his replies read like he lives in the TRP sidebar but he’s apparently a married well off guy with kids so kudos I guess. you should have seen his first username, he was way riled up and bitter compared to now. i believe he married a borderline woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:24 AM
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I find this to be just an american issue. people here are obsessed with race, in addition they are weirdly sheltered that they just dont see you as anything than other. I didnt have this problem when I was in Europe...for the most part they tend to see you as just a woman first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:11 AM
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I'm a woman, and women want to desire their partners sexually. That means they need to be handsome, not pretty. Of course there will be women that will get with a man for money, but dont confuse that for sexual attraction. Some guys dont care, others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:10 PM
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amounts of money, have worked on their game, and are in shape. you forget, and they are at least somewhat hot. 38 year old men arnt cute unless they are Chad. I think the peak for the average male is late 20s...but thats not saying much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:17 AM
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I wonder how they do it, since most men are not sexually appealing. Unless they are coming across a ton of hot guys that are willing, I dont see the point. And even if this happened to me in my younger years, I would still be selective of hook ups (he would have to be irresistibly hot). therefore, somthing must be wrong with them. They either have a very high sex drive or are looking for validation. Finding relationships through hook ups isnt easy either. For most women, it would be emotionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:15 PM
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It's not just a poor people thing. A lot of millennials are together because they can't afford to live alone without each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:39 PM
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See, when guys complain about not getting girls, we mean attractive girls. we know this, even when you gaslight us about it. you only want above average looking girls, not average girls that you claim you will love and cherish. that is why women should continue doing what they are doing. and go for the best at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:01 AM
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I dont know why women say this. We are just as visual as men, its just that the men we really want are rare...so we TRY to value other things. Modern women are just choosing not to bother though. I mean, I know what a sexually attractive man looks like, its just that I may not see one for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:07 AM
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Some of you take for granted that a lot of things arnt made clear for your benefit. If all men knew that we wanted a physically attractive man first and foremost, and that those traits tend to be things you are born with, you wouldnt be able to handle it. Society has to give men the illusion that they can find the "right" woman with time. Thats why you are just told to be yourself and things will happen in their own time....because it MAY happen, although unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:44 PM
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A lot of men feel that way and wont outright say it...you know, with the building of civilizations men do and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:51 PM
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I was a plump one around 9 to 12. It still didnt stop a lot of men from leering at me or approaching me as I walked home from school. One time, my father took me with him to an associates place to have his car fixed. I stood by the car while my dad was talking to a few other guys. His "friend" started coming on to me and asked me if I wanted to play girlfriend. I was shocked and just stood there until my dad came back. The "friend" told my father that he was telling me to study hard in school an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:47 PM
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Tall, strong jaw, full head of hair, fit. Broad shoulders, v-shaped torso, thick neck, handsome face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:37 PM
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Its not surprising that this post got downvotes. Men have a hard time being accountable in intimate relationships. Its not OK to ignore someone you claim to care about and its OK to stonewall or not be honest about what you are feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:45 PM
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Don't listen to him. What you are experiencing is just how most men are. They will do anything for sex. Remember you will have no more than 3 serious relationship ships in your life. They are not going to be easy to find because most men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:17 AM
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Oh, that bites. I'm sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:48 PM
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How often are these mis-matched relationships happening though? In addition, where does character and personal boundaries come into play? Its something that happens rarely for it to be such a concern for some of you guys. Most relationships are looksmatched if you look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:46 PM
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I am willing to commit, but almost all women are disgusted by me and my friends. Why are they disgusted by you yet are willing to hook up with you? Maybe they just were not in relationship mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:33 PM
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Why is this such a constant focus for you all? 9/10 guys are rare, first of all. This guy would literally have to be juggling 500 girls at a time if they are all running after him. At most, women there are just not going to compromise on men they are not attracted to, whether he is a 2 or a 9 rating (based on male logic). I say this as someone that would rate my husband an 8 plus and me a 6. Your number ratings dont make the world go round, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:17 PM
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A lot of women say that, but after 30 I could go without it. Maybe I need to get checked out...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:37 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:08 AM
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Yes, but only with guys we are really sexually attracted to. That is rare. I will also say that peak horniness lasts from the teen years till about 28 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:47 AM
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Getting ripped dosent help if you are average or below average. It helps in general attractiveness, but not much in the sexual department. I dont want to have sex with a guy just because he is ripped...look at his face. His shoulders arnt broad. No V-shaped torso... This is why the self-improvement stuff is a crock most of the time. It makes you feel like you will be rewarded if you just work hard enough. Usually dosent work for sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:15 PM
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Most men miss a lot of ticks, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:20 AM
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he's not Chad...especially with that face. He is slightly above average. I'd give him a 6 rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:39 AM
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when they should be able to get something entry level since they meet the requirements. I mean, but clearly they dont meet the requirements or they would be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:47 AM
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Right, he is also an ex-boyfriend at this point as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:31 PM
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Broad shoulders, thick neck (check out the Neck Pill), strong jawline, handsome face, v-shaped torso. If he has most of these things, he can be 5"9
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:29 PM
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For most women, physical attraction comes first. Most women prioritize this. Once that threshold is met, then it comes down to your personality and behaviour. Remember, even if we are attracted to the way you look, who you are as a person can turn us off. Women that are with ugly or broke guys are benefiting in some way, but it is likely emotional security.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:22 AM
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well, I mean that is what dating is. Its for the best that you dont waste each others time. Means you are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:44 AM
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well, at least understand why a sub like FDS exists instead of getting annoyed that they think certain things about some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:05 AM
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You've already admitted that its not going to change. so, allow women to develop their own strategies for spotting them and avoiding these men before they get too involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:39 PM
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It works on some people, usually the naive. You have to note its not genuine like or desire though. Their response to the person doing this is more about themselves than the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:00 PM
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I knew I wasnt crazy. We can all acknowledge how some people look better than others, but what matters is if we are attracted to each other. Thats really all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:45 PM
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I would probably acknowledge that I wouldnt be interested in him if he is gross, but I wouldnt think "he's not in my league, how dare he". It would be an issue of "am I attracted or not?".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:37 PM
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Stop projecting. I'm literally married to an 8+ while being very average. He's foreign like I am and he agrees this concept is stupid and American.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:48 PM
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Im still saying Americans are obsessed with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:30 PM
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Its not a card, its my reality. and thats clearly an american man speaking like that. still sticking to the opinion that americans are obsessed with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:10 PM
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Because it seems to be only Americans that think like this. I have international friends that agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:41 PM
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Why are Americans so obsessed with leagues? No one really thinks this way in regards to relationships, casual or not. People just pursue what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:28 PM
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You are literally talking about groupies though. And NBA players may be rich, but they are not high value as women would describe them. I know a few, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:40 AM
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Then why do I see more masculine looking men in other countries? Broader shoulders, more handsome faces and better bone structure? Not being overweight obese isnt enouggh Do you know how many years it has been since I saw an American man with an obvious jaw? Hop off the airport in Argentina or Uruguay and I see several a week. Ive noticed even if they are poor, they still eat real food, which is far from the case in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:34 PM
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Men have gotten uglier though, especially in North America. The hormones and food supply here are nothing like in other countries. Other countries actively ban pesticides and chemicals. When I travel to other countries in South America and Europe, I see way more hotter guys....far more than the 5% that I see in the US. Women have always wanted the top guys, but Jesus, the standards for average now is pretty poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:13 PM
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They want 8 plus men, they dont think they "deserve" them. Why do you guys like throwing that word around?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:32 AM
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Yes, I think this is true. I actually did some research and found good info from Weston Price about how diet affects how people look. Modern diets are shit. I even looked at media from the 60s, and men were just more handsome then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:05 AM
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well sure, that exists. He likely knows her from his social circle. Regardless, I'm talking about women in general. Of course there will be outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:42 AM
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Men want a woman that he starts getting hard just looking at her fully clothed during a mundane experience in the middle of the day. We understand it quite well. Women are the same and want this arousal too. Its just that not many men cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:10 AM
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Most women just want someone they are sexually attracted to. The average man isnt sexually appealing. Do you want women to just accept that their partner wont turn them on and get with any old guy? Like, what do you want women to do? You as a man want to be attracted to your partner, well, its the same for us. Its hard finding that, whether we perceive ourselves to be average looking or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:48 AM
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It dosent, at most its icing on the cake. It dosent help to be tall if you are not handsome (broad shoulders, nice face, thick neck, full head of hair, v-shaped torso). These things are like huge boobs and a nice ass to men. This is what women are looking for, but they don't realize it enough to point it out specifically, unfortunately these are all things you have to be born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:33 AM
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Jesus Christ, you hit a homerun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:30 AM
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He's saying women carry more risk in regards to pregnancy and the social complications of it, so yes women tend to be pickier in regards to mating. Men dont have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:47 PM
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Thats how Americans are, there is just a general mistrust of others. Its because a lot lead sheltered lives in enclosed housing with minimal interaction with others. They promote individuality, their parents arnt particularly loving and attentive, and everything here is about having the most money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:29 PM
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I mean yeah. But if pickings were slim, I wouldnt mind a guy with 1 and 3 as long as he wasnt a mooch or bum. I would happily be the bread winner in that case, but often men dont want that arrangement or they feel emasculated and turn on you. So, its usually going to have to be all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:18 PM
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Yes, but I'm talking about too big and oddly shaped with fat faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:49 PM
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Really its: 1) Be sexually attractive to her 2) Have a decent job 3) Has high romantic value. No women really cares about that other stuff unless shes just creating a wish list for herself. What makes our standards "high" is that it is hard to find these 3 things in one guy that we genuinely like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:48 PM
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I'm not a man lol. I dont agree with everything they say, but I have to give them some credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:56 PM
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I dont know how to describe it, just oddly shaped and weird facial features attached. Head is too big or looks 'weak'. I'm only speaking from a female perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:52 PM
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i would say even less than that...5% maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:46 PM
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Well, I never realized that there are just not enough hot men until RP pointed it out here. When they would describe chads looks, it dawned on me why most men were gross to me....and why I had strong response to certain rare men. They are right that women like men to act like men...we dont want a woman with a penis. Boring, bland men are not appealing. There were so many men I rejected like this when dating, i couldnt understand why I didnt like them. It also dawned on me why a woman would cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:20 AM
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I think I saw some red pill content on Youtube and came to reddit to find out more. Somehow, I landed here. So many things about my sexuality made sense and i had a lot of aha moments. I always wondered why I just couldnt find most men appealing, but i thought it was just me. Gender dynamics and relationships are very interesting and sometimes the toxicity here is fun. I wish the quality was better than it is now, but what can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:58 AM
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When I was dating, it was really hard finding handsome men. So many men today are fat, have weird shaped heads and faces, are skinny fat, and on top of that poorly groomed. Socially and emotionally competent men. So many people in general are like children in adult bodies. Uggh Men that could lead their own lives. I use to think it would be easy to find a men with great leadership abilities. The reality is that few men can really lead well, most men are followers and maybe you can find a man tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:55 AM
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and they all confide that their biggest life regret is never having had children. Most women who regret not finding someone to marry are essentially saying "I wish I had used some guy to have children with." Because all they really want is a child, not the man attached to it. This is probably the most honest truth about older women that didnt find 'the one'. You should commend these women for at least not entangling an unwanted man and keeping to themselves. Its the least selfish thing they coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:54 AM
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That place does not teach women how to be more attractive or likable at all. These women were probably attractive and likeable, and look where it led them. Men need to get real about the fact that there is a lot of trash in your gender...and these jaded women didnt become like that on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:49 PM
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But who is to judge what is excellent?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:55 PM
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The problem is when poor, ugly, or weird women don’t look in the mirror and say the same thing about wanting a non compatible ferrari life partner. Why is that a problem though if those women genuinely don't want what you say they should? What exactly is the negative? That poor, ugly men don't get chances to date them? Thats the only "con" I can see..... I get you are concerned about women "mindlessly" listening to feminist advice that tells them to look out for their interests, but women didnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:39 PM
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You'd probably be fun for a few weeks, and a nightmare for anything longer than that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:48 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:48 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:25 AM
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lol I literally can't believe these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:09 AM
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I mean, that wouldnt be my list of a HVM...its way too specific and over-the top, but I get why she tells women to shoot high if they are used to expecting less. It's recalibration. Has a decent job, has a saving attitude, and has long-term financial plans. Is able to support a family financially and actually wants to do so. Yes, but it goes both ways. Irrelevant. Should say that he is sexually attractive to her and she shouldnt feel bad about rejecting men that dont meet her looks threshold. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:12 AM
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Even if thats the case, there are other subs they could visit if they want to learn about crypto, their specific careers, and any other self-improvement. Admit that their core focus of avoiding shitty modern men and developing strategies to recognize them and avoid them is unique and the central focus of the sub. There are not many subs like this, which is the draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:00 PM
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In theory it sounds like it would, but often no it wouldnt. Men know what a pretty face looks like, just like women know what a handsome man looks like, despite his fitness or choice of clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:49 PM
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Being able to rotate roles easily. Some days is me cooking and cleaning, other days its him. Sometimes its me leading in a certain area, other times its him. Thats how life is practically, its not the idealized version of it. Being able to fight fair is a big one. No punching below the belt at all. This seems common sense, but genuinely loving and liking your partner. This can't be manufactured and is not as simple as a 10 getting with a 10. Surprisingly, a lot of couples dont really like each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:16 PM
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The only realistic alternative is to legalize prostitution for these sexless men in society. Men themselves admit its not even a great solution because they say they want more than sex, they want woman to want them and care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:17 PM
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Its about landing a guy she is sexually attracted to. Not her thinking in terms of numbers and deciding she should settle for someone she his no visceral attraction to. I'm a 6, still married an 8-plus looking guy. He loves me and is attracted to me. Thats all that matters. I mean, is it realistic for average guys to partner with women that dont want them? TRP tells you how that eventually works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:03 PM
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Now, when we start to consider social consequences and solutions, it may be that one gender has to make more of a sexual sacrifice for the good of the whole. Maybe. But we can't start there. But this is basically what these men want...for women to sacrifice their sexuality to get married. I don't think they understand how horrible that is for a women. Being penetrated by a man you dont have any visceral attraction to, its a horrible feeling just to think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:54 PM
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Generally, men are ok with same SMV or lower. I mean, they would be OK with it because they are still sexually attracted to these women. Its understandable why they are OK with it... But, everyone is settling if they resort to partnering with someone they are not attracted to...who cares if their SMV is "equal"...whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:47 PM
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Personal happiness increased to 8 from a 7 recently when I secured a windfall. Money and not having to work makes things a lot better. My life isnt perfect, but I have the things I want if that makes sense. And I have the things that I want because I was free to be able to choose them. Im 36 and Im definitely more happy now than in my teens and 20s. Life was such a confusing mess and I was so naive. I'm sure of myself now. Older unhappier women have probably been rung through the coals, have mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:21 PM
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Give me one example of advice you've gotten. A specific example. Be hot, young, pretty, nice, submissive. Cooperate. Do as I say. thats the bottom line of keeping most of you happy. Beauty/looks are first. We have tons of advice like this rammed through our throats through society's messaging and the yells from angry men that cant find a bangmaid. The problem is when we do these things for men that turn out to be trash, which is a good 70 percent of you guys, even those that offer use commitment…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:11 PM
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I already have my high value husband and it took years to find him because I had to deal with so much trash from these average guys you think are decent. My point is that a lot of them are not decent at all for long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:54 PM
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There are certain demographics of men that care a lot about having their partners fit in. Friends and relatives can be really cruel when someone dosent live up to their standards. A lot of times, men pick women that fit the mold and later realize they dont even like her. Men can be sheep in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:21 AM
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Do you not get the point that men lie about their intentions and level of commitment for sex? The problem is men being deceptive and presenting themselves inauthentically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:08 AM
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Its exploitive if the men dont make it clear thats all they want...which is what a lot of men resort to doing, even though TRP says its best to make it clear upfront. Women that actual desire casual sex arnt being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:30 AM
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They sometimes talk of "leveling up" but none of their ideas is ever about making themselves into a woman that a man would want to marry. Thats the thing, women have an abundance of advice on how to tow the line. Weve been getting these messages for centuries. Do you really think its hard to figure out? No women needs a forum exploring those topics, so they are not discussed. These women have been deferring to the male imperative and it hasnt paid off. Thats why they seek out subs like FDS. TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:23 AM
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A lot of men are poisonous though and women arnt actively told or taught how to vet properly. Wasnt there a point where men on here said "choose better" when women have poor experiences with men? This is literally them actively "choosing better"...now its a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:06 AM
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But you attract what you are. This says more about how bad of a potential partner you are than it says anything about men. Thats pseudoscience at best. If you look at the objective quality of men and women, you would agree that there are a lot of poor partners in the dating pool. That dosent necessarily say anything about my quality as a partner. And, you guys can't have it both ways. You cant say that modern women are difficult and that you attract what you are. Lets just agree that there are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:04 AM
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Most men are good guys for most women because most men and women are average by definition. With my experience dating men, I disagree. A lot of men are poor relationship material, even the seemingly "good ones" I'm not changing my opinion on that. Its a society wide issue, you can't "attract" whats not there. :shrug: Women 50 years ago had to settle on someone so they had someone to support them. I've heard enough horror stories from elders painting a different picture about the quality of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:02 AM
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Yes, men that are good for LTRs are rare when speaking of a woman's dating lifespan. A lot of men are objectively trash. In addition, even if you come across a good man, you still have to be attracted to him and like him as a person. It is indeed very rare. This is my and many other womens perspective when it comes to seeking a long-term mate to settle down and have children with. There are more than enough OK guys to play around with, but most women dont desire that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:28 AM
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See, all of this is an example of the genders talking across each other. I feel like youve had bad experiences and reading too much into what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:40 AM
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I don't think you actually know the principles of FDS because you think it's broke women trying to score well off guys. Its like they refuse to see the sub for what it is. If anything, they say earn your own money and focus on your own career so you can get out of the hood. They intentionally misrepresent the sub so they can blow off steam about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:37 PM
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They fact you think men that want long term relationships and families are rare is proof enough that you have zero ability to determine what's a good man. You know nothing about men. Not every man that is attracted to us wants to genuinely be with us. Thats just a fact of life. Some of you guys are just looking for a good time and not letting us know that fact, other times you do want a family but dont qualify in terms of character or life skills in some way. There are a ton of trashy guys like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:35 PM
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How are you being financially and mentally abused? Seriously, some of you guys are so over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:23 PM
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The problem is men don't like the idea of a woman having the power to reject them for any reason. A lot of men here will scream that we have unreasonable standards, and that can be debated. But, our standards are our standards. Why choose an annoying, average, and poor character man when you can just be alone? You can say women are unhappier alone, but no woman is EVER happy with a man she knows she dosent want or a man that dosent treat her well. I mean, havent divorced or single TRP men proven…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:54 PM
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Most FDSers arnt manipulating men...they simply have to power to not choose them and walk away...and most men hate the idea of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:42 PM
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Being able to secure a man once he's attracted to you is important. No, determining if he is a good man, despite his attraction to us, is the most important thing. Raising standards means to stop engaging losers as soon as they reveal themselves. Yes, men with money and good looks can be losers when it comes to long term relationships. Stop applying your short-term dating strategies to women looking for rare,long-term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:33 PM
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No one who cares about their children thinks watching television with them everyday is OK. Thats what they do in childcare centers. Science has proven that the first five years are a childs most important. Why shouldnt the woman play her natural role and spend 100% of her time raising them and running the household? The man should be happy to financially support that....any man that cares about his family would. FYI, single mothers often dont perform well because they are poor and don't have a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:54 AM
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Its about what is best for the child. Like it or not, women tend to be the primary caretakers of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:23 AM
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He would have to literally be my soulmate and be an A plus rating in every other area. Income aside, lack of ambition is worrisome. Living a western life is expensive these days, even for the most basic crap like housing and health care. Does he at least own a house outright or have an inheritance due to him down the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:39 PM
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He has to support until they grow to school age. Those are the most important years. 4 months is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:17 PM
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Notice he didnt reply to this....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:08 PM
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Its a yellow flag. It depends on WHY he is going, for how long etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:31 AM
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Men that notice this need to realize their partners reaction to unavailability and distance is really an internal reaction; its not about you even though it appears to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:31 AM
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They are only important to me if they are good, fulfilling, and ideal. Its rare to have a good relationship/marriage. Enjoy the relationship you have as much as you can. When it stops being fulfilling, part ways. Remember, most relationships fail. Most people arnt compatible with each other long term. Its normal, adjust your expectations because most relations arnt going to be ideal in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:27 AM
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Because most men are revealed to be so once you get to know them. The stock is poor, for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:36 PM
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Their view is basically that women prefer hot men, and that there are very few of them. They are right in that regard. Most of my friends were virgins into their 20s and not promiscuous for this very reason....most men are not appealing and had mediocre to terrible personalities when you get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:27 PM
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Come on, the guy isnt sexually appealing which is what matters. Guys that arnt sexually appealing get put in the friend zone. Sure, you can dress up nice and take nice pics, but you can only work with so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:17 PM
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How are all these average income, average looking couples getting married then? Most people get together with people in their own class anyway, that is their true dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:57 AM
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i saw he was suspended, he hasnt come back?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:45 AM
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well, give me your picture if you can. i want to see your type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:21 PM
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People have different tastes and want a certain package. This guy isnt appealing to me personally because he is white, but I still recognize that most women would happily fuck him. He has the dominant sexual traits women like, in general. I mean, compare him to someone like steve buscemi. Women want an angular masculine face, full head of hair, symmetrical face, broad shoulders, v-shaped torso.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:37 PM
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hes not my type either, but he has sexual appeal that most women can recognize. handsome face, thick neck. you should see him with his shirt off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:20 PM
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Not personally my flavor, but heres one. https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2021/10/29/15/49799607-10144869-image-a-40_1635518548292.jpg&imgrefurl=https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10144869/US-Marine-Rudy-Reyes-replace-axed-Ant-Middleton-new-SAS-Dares-Wins-set-Jordan.html&h=934&w=634&tbnid=wi-DaXoarWeXOM&tbnh=273&tbnw=185&usg=AI4_-kTIrSPZildSxm4WJeabHv9kvc4yDw&vet=1&docid=xWyaT-pwhjgyaM&itg=1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:19 AM
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The average man is like a male-shaped human. You recognize they have certain male characteristics, but you dont really see them as men or appealing in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:26 AM
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He would maybe get a 6.5 rating, but hes not sexually appealing really. He's just pretty, thats not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:24 AM
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Not really, no. The primary reason is that there are not enough sexually appealing men out there. I tried myself, but I rarely saw hot men during my horny years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:32 AM
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So, you are an FDS advocate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:12 AM
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onlysubs link the podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:16 AM
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the n word? say it....it wont stop what i posted from being true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:52 PM
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Why would that be the case? The pool would be the same. In fact, Chad is often coming out of his first divorce so its still possible to land the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:11 AM
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Unless the woman is a total golddigger or a struggling single mom, money is never going to be enough. Maybe if it came with status and an engaging personality....he sorta, maybe could be an option. Most woman would prefer a guy with a decent job that they actually are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:41 AM
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I mean, plenty of women marry beta buxes. It dosent mean they dont care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:04 PM
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I'm seeing testified by American women on here might be due to the fact that the culture of your country is a bit more conservative than a lot of other first world countries, especially when it comes to women's conduct/bodies/rights/etc. Theres probably some truth there with certain demographics of people...but US is overrun by liberalism now. I don't know how strong of a bearing that is. I do believe that the way some women are raised here....they dont really understand their sexuality until la…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:56 PM
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Yeah, I was never one of those women. I dated great guys, fun personalities and were excellent people, I could love them as a friend, but I could always tell I wasnt sexually attracted to them and hoping it would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:40 PM
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Im not saying its not important, I'm just saying once they have met minimum standards of decency, its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:33 PM
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I understand what you are saying, but I want to ask...are you sure they find these men sexually appealing? Thats different from finding men physically attractive or nice to look at. I will say that there are some women that are OK with a warm attraction to a man and not a hot one. I don't know how abundant these women are, but they definitely exist. It also could be that maybe Americans are screwed up hormonally? The quality of food here is crap and there is too much shit in the water. Maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:09 PM
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I'm black, but not American background although I live here. I've asked my white, hispanic and asian friends when I first discovered this sub and realized all of these things. They generally agreed that few men turned them on. I will say other races are more willing to settle down with an OK looking guy due to social/family pressure. I personally have a window where I would find a guy OK to have sex with, but that he still wasnt really sexually arousing..basically a high value beta bux. I do agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:05 PM
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just looks, face and body frame and meets minimum height requirement of 5"9 or so. Handsome face, thick neck, broad shoulders, swimmers build is generally what triggers women sexually. Grooming, personality are just kind of icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:42 PM
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this is all women in general, its biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:18 PM
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Yup, based on looks only, I've seen less than 10 hot guys in my life. And I'm 35. What is that, like 0.0001% ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:30 PM
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Yep, that dude is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:24 PM
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Well, depending on the type of Asian, the primary issue is that Asian men tend to have an overall boyishly pretty look to them thats just not very appealing to a lot of women. In addition, personality. The Asian nerd stereotype has some truth to it. Also, I agree with the other poster that said there is some type of self-hating, self-deprecating behaviour that is very off putting. As a black women, I've heard friends say that even though they are open to dating them, their parents don't approve,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:43 AM
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dude looks gross
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:26 AM
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..and still they most prefer their own ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:58 AM
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It's easy to target an attract good men. Like men who are alturistic? Go to charity events. Like who are artisitic? Go to an adult art class. These are just things men do, it dosent determine if they are good men or not. You cant determine mens character unless you get to know them, no matter where you meet them. That takes dating them and figuring out what kind of person they are and if they are a waste of time. Women arnt necessarily going for a type, they are going for men that have good char…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:16 AM
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im not talking out of my ass here, there was a study somewhere based in the us...ill try to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:49 PM
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When you improve the quality of the type of person you are, you increase the # of men that are attracted to you & more importantly the # of people who want to have a relationship with you. Nope, incorrect. There is no way to target and attract good men, because the first thing you judge us by is our looks. Both dirtbags and good men enter the queue...but most of them are dirtbags. It is more cost efficient to just determine who is trash and quickly throw them away. The trash is the time suck and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:37 PM
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of those that wish to interracial date, which is not most women of each race. there was a chart somewhere besides, men still have to be hot for women to really want them...and thats always going to be like 7 percent of all males, all races. you are just essentially bragging that white men are chosen for beta buxing most often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:15 PM
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he literally lives a double life and is a fucking alien. yes, she could do better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:10 PM
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you may grow familial love in time...but likely never romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:42 PM
4

no, not unless drunk or on coke or somthing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:41 PM
1

you can find an average, nice young man that will pay all your bills. you probably wont be in love with him, but still better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:32 PM
2

thats average height for american males. stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:29 PM
1

it dosent matter, most of these nerds will still call you a chad chaser. in reality, you still have options, you can still find a nice beta bux somewhere if you vet hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:28 PM
5

not sure, not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:22 PM
6

uhh huh, sure. unless you are the top 5 percent of white men, you cant even begin to compete with tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:08 PM
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the only one that may get a pass is the asian one on the left...it looks like he has some type of shoulders. im talking about being sexually appealing...would you let any of them penetrate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:07 PM
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if you are the average white male, you dry most black womens vaginas up. most of you look worse than the average asian male to us. seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:04 PM
1

oh ok, i thought you were a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:15 PM
9

seriously, white men are so weak. thats one RP truth I agree. the slightest pressure crumbles them. you guys are still at the top of the totem pole, no matter what. stop fucking complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:04 PM
1

i was asking in good faith, but whatever i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:02 PM
0

at least give one or two examples
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:56 PM
3

gaslight about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:44 PM
2

what type of woman? women are all the same. you just want unicorns to feed you lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:39 PM
10

You guys just dont like to hear the truth, as badly as you claim to want it. It is true that you guys should take the info here and not be so bitter about it and find a way to be happy in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:33 PM
12

all of those men arnt gross, but they are definitely not sexually appealing whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:02 PM
1

Vetting is womens biggest problem though, thats why its the cornerstone of FDS. You can't "attract your type"...thats retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:39 PM
0

and what are you going to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:25 PM
1

This is just what you guys get. You've been taking over other countries, vandalising them, and extracting resources for hundreds of years. If you stayed in your own ancestral lines insteading of raping the world and promoting capitalism, you guys would be fine. But because you didnt do that, you have to deal with us colored folks. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:18 PM
1

based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:13 PM
1

no, i find white men maybe very pretty at most, but just as non-sexually appealing as other men. especially in america. most men to me will never be hot, no matter the race. so, it was basically a sea of nice beta buxes everywhere during my dating years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:57 PM
1

asian women arnt most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:41 PM
1

no, we have a problem with the non-stop "black women are ugly" that white males do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:22 PM
0

Most women want their own race. Its only those that prefer interracial dating that would mark white first, besides black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:21 PM
4

yeah, far from handsome, but would make someone a nice betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:07 PM
3

I actually married a man I wanted, so no problems here bud. Thanks for the concern tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:54 AM
1

umm, im talking about his face. he looks transgender to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:20 AM
1

he is very ugly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:42 AM
2

I'm personally married, I'm speaking women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:11 AM
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:Shrug: For most women, we either get what we want or we stay single. I know that scares most of you guys, but its the truth.We have our jobs, we can support ourselves, we have relatives and girlfriends. If we dont genuinely want the male options around, we are content. We can even use sperm donors to have children, but most of my peers dont want them anyway. Women outlive men, so we are likely going to die alone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:11 AM
10

Women are normal and form bonds with other women and relatives. Men can't. Were perfectly fine with being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:58 AM
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We dont want to mate with men that we dont want though. Most women would rather be celibate than partner up with men they dont want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:49 AM
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a lot of times, cats are the better option.... and why do you guys like to threaten women with dying alone...its seems thats actually mens greatest fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:20 AM
2

meaningful and fulfilling relationships are still hard to find for women. theres also something called emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:27 AM
6

maybe you are just noticing that hot people, of all races, are found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:41 PM
1

Mestizo, but more white than indigenous if that makes sense. You can also tell he has a hint of black a couple of generations back based on his hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:29 PM
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I'm black and with a latino male. He is very hot. I think people are way too attached to their race. Were all going to die one day and be insignificant. Do what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:13 PM
1

I just skimmed it,, but all I'm seeing is that women want sexually attractive men to them, and that happens to be a small population of men. You can say that womens values are inflated all you want, but what is the fix? If women dont choose average men, its because they are not desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:01 PM
0

i mean if you are a loser trying to take advantage of a woman, your life should be made more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:49 PM
2

Why do men take things like this so seriously. She's basically saying she is a good productive person. If mens rating for women are all that matter, why would she even be on your radar?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:46 PM
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I'm a white woman and I'm only attracted to white males. I know in this PC times we're not allowed to say that out loud, but I just don't find other races/ethnicities appealing, sexy or attractive. thats a strawman and you know it. be attracted to your own race, just dont put other races down. american white men love shitting on black women for kicks and giggles...thats what is racist and mean-spirited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:19 PM
2

ive always thought to myself that most women, if given a choice, would choose some type of mixed-race/ambiguous looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:07 PM
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and I still saw a lot of issues with these professionals...im not talking about status or income. making connections when pursuing a particular subset of men is useful on a personal level. Most bw prefer bm until they lose all hope...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:01 PM
1

lol yeah I saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:53 PM
2

i hear that too. most people stick to their own when it comes to marrying and settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:49 PM
2

we are not the KKK for stating facts, my friend. i know there are tons of reasons why that is as a black woman. but you cant state that a lot of black men in the US at least, are on the up and up and make reliable, stable partners. I myself had to marry out to a latino because of the behaviour I've seen with american black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:46 PM
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come on dude, its literally facts. i'll even look up the crazy divorce rates, because even I couldnt believe it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:35 PM
4

what part of europe? europe has actually been very easy compared to usa. edit: never minds, dude is literally from the rural fields of balkans
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:20 PM
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what she is stating is literally facts though. I remember a few weeks back reading that when black men marry anyone women of any race, they have a wildly crazy divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:18 PM
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How do you imagine them behaving tho? They dont have to be loud about their preferences in real life. THey simply choose not to continue dating guys that dont meet their standards. What do you think that looks like in real life? Also, why cant a 5 or less women not have minimum standards in regards to basic respect and decency from their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:54 PM
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you clearly give a fuck.you are obsessed because they make factual points about how modern men behave towards women and have strategies to make life difficult for them to weed them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:46 PM
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Less options dosent mean no options. You dont need everyone to like you to have a reasonable dating pool. Honestly, dating isnt really hard for any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:41 PM
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Women naturally like men that have a lot of options because they are usually very hot....thats why women are attracted to them. Being an ugly guy that dreads and threatens to cheat wont do him any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:32 PM
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among what race of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:30 PM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:26 PM
2

Another example of men hating that women they dont find desirable have standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:58 PM
1

If it improv s their self esteem, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:34 PM
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everything non-white is lesser to them. their parents and peers tell them this through silent and loud messaging. do you see how black women get it bad on here when any race thread pops up? its just how they are...even when they dont like a race, they make sure to tell you in the most dehumanizing way ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:08 AM
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oh ok, i understand. well, this is how most white people are. its cultural and encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:03 AM
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i think most of those matches were just for fun...i doubt she is getting all that attention in real life. i mean come on. its true that most any woman can snag a guy, but its usually age appropriate looksmatched guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:01 AM
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no excuse, stick to your own kind. if most of them are openly racist, why do you want to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:52 AM
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are these white women doing this? maybe stop chasing them...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:43 AM
1

you look asian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:13 AM
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this is not an advice sub, its a debate sub. why do you guys keep thinking this?! women are here to debate your views, not find ways to snag a man. Most of the women here are married or partnered up, not lonely and single like you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:41 AM
0

its not our fault that men cant band together and try to uplift themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:02 AM
6

whats wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:32 AM
2

dont be so autistic to think that studies can measure happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:23 AM
3

If women arnt going back to their cages willingly, it means that women are happier as things are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:19 AM
1

Well, that means 97 percent of men will never get partnered up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:17 AM
5

Well, a lot of the stuff you guys say here is disgusting to hear. We didnt promise that we would like hearing it. Its just like when men cant stand when FDS rag on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:15 AM
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I get how it upsets guys, I understand its annoying to you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:07 AM
2

black men have baseball bats, its crazy. I saw my dad naked once, and he had the biggest dick ever, like 14 inches flaccid. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:02 AM
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Are you one of those guys that has a big fight with a woman, then later that night initiates sex as if nothing happened? Women just think its disgusting all around. Its the same thing with this women. Shes not witholding to punish you, she is just disgusted. If she cant come around, then yes break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:46 PM
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IDK, ask white women that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:39 PM
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Shes not rejecting sex with him to get him to change his mind. She is disgusted with his beliefs and disgust dosent breed intimacy with women. I know men can hate fuck, but women cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:38 PM
4

honestly, its amazing how men on here talk about women they deem undesirable...but then at the same time want to be valued more as self-proclaimed unappealing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:36 PM
1

Same here. Its a shame, I wonder how many more men would be open to us if they could stop running those stereotypes about us in their heads. But I genuinely think its an American thing. I've had the most success with foreign men, of all races.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:16 PM
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It is not manipulative or abusive?! Jesus, is this what you guys think? It means, she is turned off. Her next step should be breaking up with him if she is turned off enough to not want to have sex with him. GUys are just so damn thirsty for sex that saying no feels like abuse to them. Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:11 PM
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"bad boy" seems to be a regular guy that grooms and dosent look like a total fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:04 PM
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I see no problem with that at all. You guys just hate that we will change our minds about having sex with you when we find you incompatible with us in some way. Should we be having sex with men that dont support us and our decisions at all times?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:01 PM
3

I hit it big financially recently and decided to retire. Its only now that I am maybe considering having one or two kids because we can really afford it now. I even told my husband he can retire himself if he wants. We are still iffy about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:56 PM
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lol im pretty sure I was banned from the discord even though i never posted in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:43 PM
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yes, even low value women have figured out that childrearing is a scam. so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:39 PM
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lillith is the only one bringing life to this pathetic forum. i see way less engagement when she stops submitting posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:37 PM
1

Do they not see your picture as well as the name?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:32 PM
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she is a major troll trying to direct traffic to her onlyfans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:22 PM
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the three men were never "good men" from the female perspective lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:21 PM
1

It’s a little different in the UK How different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:08 PM
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The only people that do the best are truly attractive people, no matter the race..and from a womens perspective thats like 5 percent of all men. Every other guy is being settled for in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:49 PM
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Its confirmation bias from the women that scream the loudest about it. Average height is fine, just dont be ugly or small framed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:45 PM
2

Most americans are indeed broke as fuck, and its a huge factor in todays dating problems. Still, I find the quibbling about paying for dates that men harp on pretty pathetic. how unmasculine can you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:39 PM
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proof that most of these men have just been below average and are in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:24 PM
0

its cope. they love saying its undesirable women so they dont have to deal with the reality that most men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:47 PM
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friend zone = she does not find you sexually attractive Why is this such a hard thing for these guys?! I simply dont get it..it means she dosent find you sexually attractive! All these stories about men being used when they were friends...so retarded!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:18 PM
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Being 5"10 and white makes you a possible option among women that are into interracial dating. It dosent make you Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:15 PM
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Yes, I am a woman. There will always be people across all.races that are open to interracial dating. This idea that all non white women are easy lays for average looking white men....I just haven't seen. This forum also proves the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:56 PM
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From a female perspective, even if you think white men are the best looking, they still have to be hot...thats something different from thinking mixed babies are the cutest. I see a lot of attractive or pretty white men, but still not many blatantly sexually appealings ones, just like in any other race. I can imagine many women may choose these men regardless or see them as passable if they have other desirable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:16 AM
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A good-looking tall white man, maybe. But, lets not make things confusing. Chad is a specific person. Being tall and white dosent cut it if he is ugly or average. The average white man is chosen for Beta Buxing ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:48 AM
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its face>frame>height. Height isnt blatantly sexually appealing if you dont have the former. At most, its just icing on the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:23 AM
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He is average in terms of looks, which was my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:53 PM
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To a niche of women maybe, they want him for his looks. He is a celeb, some women will "want" him. Besides his money and fame, he is just an average looking guy is my point. They would settle on both for BetaBux.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:52 PM
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No, we wouldnt change anything we do. We know why you guys shame, but it has no bearing on what we find sexually appealing in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:39 PM
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We do know what we are talking about. We mean average in terms of physical attraction. Nothing about Pete Davidson is particularly hot or appealing. Do you think Conana Obrien is Chad because he is tall and white? Just because you are white and tall does not mean you are above average in terms of what women want out of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:36 PM
1

your vibes are wrong, but what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:25 PM
0

Was she not a public figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:33 PM
1

For some people "self-improvement" is indeed just a distraction. Some people, no matter how good-looking or cool they are, just wont find luck in relationships. It is just a fact of life. You can do a ton of things to make yourself more appealing to the opposite sex, but you can't make people like YOU...thats something that is down to timing, circumstance, and really luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:30 PM
0

If you don't find any man after 40 hot, that's just your preference. I find Chad hot over 40. So basically, very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:06 PM
1

Mid-to late 20s. is peak masculinity...thats what I mean by young. Dont they stop recruiting men for millitary combat after 25-ish or so? After 38-ish, you can be handsome, but you are generally no longer young and hot. And of course, middle-age Chad is still leagues better than the average middle-aged man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:42 PM
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No, the hottest to women. Hes still hot today,especially to older women but not as hot as he was in his youth. Most women will honestly tell you that if you care to listen to them. Takeaway: young Chad is always hotter than middle aged Chad. Both are hot, young Chad is the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:34 PM
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He is a caricature of what men believe women find hottest. Its retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:29 PM
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Modern day Jason is hot in a general type of way, but young Jason is the hottest. https://images.app.goo.gl/ZSxArdtRhXT9Six49 https://images.app.goo.gl/2LjxUJxdmW4eCvpv7 This look usually taps out in their early 30s until the youthful yet masculine glow wears out late 30s onwards. The young jason is the most sexually appealing, not the older one. Some of you guys think literal Tarzan is the hottest to most women, and its not. Remember, peak sex and procreation are a young thing for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:26 PM
1

If I had to choose, share. The average to below average guy is not sexually appealing to me, most likely. And the attractive man would have to have money or some other benefit besides being hot. That will only fly for college-aged women or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:17 PM
2

True, but I cashed out today. Theres no reason to work anymore, my husband will like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:10 AM
2

Its really retarded how much money you can make from crypto...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:52 AM
1

Can things in RP be "measured"? No, but it sure does have value for those that need it. Best to look at these things as an art, not a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:54 PM
2

Im saying Chad dosent have to "dumpster dive". What a lot of men call Chad are just guys that got lucky with hot girls. And you are admitting that hot girls are getting pumped and dumped as well. Which basically proves that its up to the men what their standards are.....like every other person. Meaning, there is no league. Its just people choosing the best of what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:22 PM
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Hes likely not Chad then. And I'm curious to know if he LTR these Hot women as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:16 PM
1

Ive noticed a lot of deletions this past month. A lot of people are moving on from this sub :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:11 PM
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Chad knows when he dumpster dives which is why fat women don't get a call back. This isn't because of emotions, because she is feeling him. Maybe you can say individual men have their own standards, I dont know if thats some static league that everyone knows or adheres to. Also, Chad rarely "dumpster dives". He dates who he genuinely likes all the time. Its beta males that think he is rating women and deciding to pump and dump based on some number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:01 PM
4

Dude has a gross-ish face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:56 PM
3

Uhh, you can delete your account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:53 PM
2

And logically, most women dont want most men. So, most men are under their league..if you want to go there. People get together because they want to, not based on some arbitrary number scale that men made up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:49 PM
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Who creates the concept of the league? Men that want women that dont want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:42 PM
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Leagues don't exist. Relationships are an emotional, instinctual thing. People dont rate each others as numbers and decided to get together. I know thats how men would like it to be, but its not. If it was like that, women would happily get with average and below average guys AND be sexually attracted to them. And clearly, thats not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:34 PM
2

In mens heads, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:29 PM
3

This is all about getting more white babies born. Its not going to work, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:28 PM
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I want to say yes, women that are not sexually attracted to their partners should stay single. However, some women can make it work and make the man happy, especially if she wants a family. Some women are OK with sacrificing their sexuality in order to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:04 PM
1

She said she used to seriously date attractive guys before, unless I'm mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:00 PM
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In reality, it is a spectrum, especially when we are younger and our hormones are more active. I would say 30 percent of women are blatantly sexually attracted to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:00 PM
2

More like the way you wish real life would be....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:18 PM
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Why does it matter? The way you guys group people on a number scale dosent translate to real life. Couples dont just get together because they meet their scale match. In addition, to a degree, what arouses people is subjective. You can say that only the most beautiful of women are worthy of a sexually attractive man. And vice versa. Thats not how it works in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:59 AM
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The issue is that the question doesn't matter. If there is mutual sexual attraction, that's all that does matter. It is rare for couples to be totally out of each other's league, I don't get why you guys focus on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:25 AM
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Likely yes if you mean sexual attractiveness. I don't get why this question is asked bc you guys admit that you have a wider attraction window than women do. If the guy is dating us, he is attracted. Of course, there will always be someone better. That's besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:21 AM
2

Less than 10 men for me in my lifetime. I am 35. I believe most women are like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:36 AM
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I dont know why they like to hamster on about this. Its about being hot enough at the end of the day. Not many men are hot. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:17 PM
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What you are describing is called punching below the belt. It comes from immaturity, and I agree, its a terrible thing to do to a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:07 PM
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Women have no way to telling these guys apart. If women make the guy wait as a collective maybe it will filter out most of these guys since they won't want to invest too much time to "pump and dump". But even the serious guys would not like being "tested" like this. Do you have any ideas for how to fix this issue? Depends on how the women is doing the "testing". Dating is just getting to know someone. But the problem is that a lot of people do it passively and not actively. When men read FDS, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:58 PM
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Nothing is wrong with the dating market People that want each other will get together. The people that can't get anyone they want can remain alone. No one is entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:27 PM
2

“Why did your parents do this?” LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:00 PM
1

I've noticed a lot of regulars have left. Most have accepted some RP truths. Now, its a new generation of blackpill, FDS, and incels. I was waiting for it to get better, but I'll likely be moving on soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:32 PM
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It dosent matter if you are tall if you are ugly. Why dont you guys get this.? His face is gross. 4/10 overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:08 PM
2

200%? Jesus christ!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:58 AM
2

Yes, sexually attracted. Why do you guys deny it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:39 AM
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Just because most men will fuck an overweight chick doesn't mean they are attracted to them If they can get it up, they are attracted.Stop this nonsense. You can think shes below your league or something, but you cant say you are not attracted. Where is ReluctantlyRed when you need him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:05 PM
3

So, this is what this sub has become? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:39 PM
1

My parents both worked and had a ton of hired help while growing up. Its very easy to outsource your household gruntwork these days, I just dont know why people don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:25 PM
10

If men read that sub without their male filter, they would agree with most everything there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:56 PM
5

Ideally, someone she is sexually attracted to that is kind, productive and treats her well. If FDS is still around, I would tell her to start reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:54 PM
2

Why is it the only real one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:13 PM
-1

45 is usually the cutoff age of entering into a solid LTR/Marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:28 PM
2

they usually do, its just not reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:20 PM
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Gawd, what terrible choices. Is there no middle ground with you people? How about she chooses a mid-range guy and happily stays with him for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:04 PM
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face>frame>height my dude. You would need to have like a 5.5 face coupled with the height to be a possible option, depending on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:10 PM
2

Those are good vetting reasons tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:05 AM
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This discussion concerns FDS....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:46 PM
2

Most men are not steaming hot to us, true. But I can see how some women would be satisfied with him. He's an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:01 PM
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FDS definition of HVM is different from what men think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:26 PM
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People are not numbers. She probably meets his needs..and they are ultimately looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:21 PM
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He's a 5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:58 PM
19

If he met the markers of a HVM, she got a prize. Why can't you guys understand its not always about looks but about character?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:57 PM
1

Nah, attraction is immediate and can't be influenced. It is either there or it is not. The only thing that can grow is some type of familial love, not lust or romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:13 PM
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But I'd like to believe that men of High Value aren't so careless with their spending. They often are. They are just human, afterall. And yes, women are often interchangeable...with enough time. I thought that part of women's strategy was to stand out from the herd, for a man to specifically pick her out of all the endless options he has Possible in theory to some psychopathic scheming women, but for regular chicks, dosent really work that way. Women just have to be pretty and around. At the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:31 AM
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Thats for the guy to determine, is the simple answer. Men don't pursue or invest in things that they don't want. It could be as simple as my juicy tits or the way I make him feel that no other women can. I've never gone out of my way to "offer" things to guys to get their commitment, its men that have to do that. Do you want me to make a list of things people like in relationships or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:30 AM
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Absolutely nothing. He should be happy that I am interested in him. Sorry, not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:59 PM
3

What a bitter perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:54 PM
-2

so, revenge basically at being short-changed? gottcha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:54 PM
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No, these men are confusing vetting for hoop jumping. And it begs the question, why are these men pursuing these older, less attractive women in the first place? Basic decency and respect shouldnt feel like jumping hoops, yet it does for so many men. I wonder why....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:14 PM
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No one deserves bad treatment when playing in good faith. It didnt cost him anything to be polite in her presence. But her good faith and immediate sex is what men on here want and demand. When men can't even be polite with a hook up and You tell them this is why women vet, their blood boils.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:56 PM
2

ok, yeah that is true unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:15 AM
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also, a lot of the "good" traits you love someone for have a negative side of the same coin that you are accidentally vetting to GET when you vet for the positive traits can you explain this more? Not sure I am understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:58 AM
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He beats all of them https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMdcBwGCB/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:17 PM
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He looks like the standard slightly above average guy. Dont think he's pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:46 PM
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I had a date last night with a good looking, well off man who called women who sleep with men too soon slutty & said he wants to settle down. He then kept asking to come home with me! Jesus, he said it to your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:48 PM
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He is literally a 3.5 in the face. Nothing about him is handsome or masculine. I actually think he is gay. EDIT: Downvoting for noting his looks are trash? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:31 PM
1

This forum is officially dead now. I was hanging on, hoping things would change :( You young incels and mamas boys killed everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:14 AM
1

Since it seems you tend to attract them, maybe suggest working out together. Better than telling her straight up to lose weight. Thats if, you find someone you genuinely like otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:13 PM
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If you enjoy the company and sex now, why would long-term be any different? Or are you just one of those guys that cares what others think about your partners and its not really an attraction issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:39 PM
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Women like hot men the most, whether or not he has dark triad traits is something we dont have any control over nor do we know about them when we are admiring his broad shoulders and jaw. Something is wrong with a person if they like narcs, sociopaths or people that lack empathy. Being masculine dosent mean being dark triad. It means being able to follow your own rules when needed and not caring about peer approval. A lot of men are sheep and its unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:09 PM
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My standards were always 1) Be blatantly sexually attractive to me 2) Good character 3) Has a decent job 4) Has high romantic value. I could have a wishlist, but they were just that. I do think people can blind themselves by insisting that love has to look a specific way. If anyone met the above standards and I genuinely liked them, all the other fine details didnt really matter. Its hard enough finding someone that meets those basic baselines.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:44 AM
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I mean, nice bod and everything...but were not seeing your face. Its always going to be face>frame>height in that order. A hot guy will always be hot in his 20s and up to about 38 or so...after that you cant really be youthful and hot. Just handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:15 AM
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It almost happened, but a friend blocked me. Yes, he was HOT! Thats all that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:44 PM
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Umm, Elon is a come up for her. I've heard from the grapevine she did everything he wanted to secure him. Having a baby by one of the richest men in the world? A lot of women would be happy with that, no matter the outcome of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:07 PM
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Friendly reminder that tingles and feefees while dating are overrated. What, they are pretty damn important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:03 PM
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Well, yeah if they are more forward they probably would have a bit more success. Indian men, in my experience, are reserved and wall flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:15 PM
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I think its a cultural thing. Black and hispanic men are just more forward. When they approach me, you know they want you and they are direct about what they want. It would make sense that men that are more forward, actually get more play. White men seem to have a very hard time getting the courage to even cold approach. They would rather present themselves as friends and hope for more OR enter covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:58 PM
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This isn’t about what people deserve, it is the truth that most people will lose and atleast most of it is out of the individuals control. This is rarely emphasized enough on here. You simply dont have total control of what happens in your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:41 PM
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Maybe 20% of the time. Any more and the relationship becomes something else...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:14 PM
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I hope you moved those bitcoin on over to a stablecoin. Its going to dump hard in the next few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:47 AM
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Visceral attraction is required for a sexual/romantic relationship for most people. What youa are saying is that people should allow sex into their friendships. Because, you are only friends with someone you are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:59 PM
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But, at a baseline, I'm sure you were sexually attracted to her. I'm sure you didnt just compromise on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:57 PM
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The 10 point scale is for men, thats why it dosent reflect reality. You are right about the scale for women...we dont need numbers to understand what is attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:46 PM
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I've written about this before https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m0i8bn/q4alljust_how_easy_are_ugly_women/gq8b593/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:41 PM
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I didnt say I was slammed like some super star, but I got matches easily starting the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:46 AM
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Yes, I've tested it out. I listed 5"9 as the height, but his face was above average and he had broad shoulders. So, he had at least 2 Chad traits. Height is only a priority to women if the guy just has nothing else going on for him looks wise. It's Face > Frame> Height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:46 PM
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There is no obsession. You guys choose to hear the women that scream the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:28 PM
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Those women were just fulfilling their duties because they had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:26 AM
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lol the delusion of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:07 AM
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Get real. Most men never got that. Its just nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:06 AM
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Good men, as women define them, have always been scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:22 PM
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I could do shy, that just means he has an extra dose of sensitivity. But I couldnt do timid, men shouldnt be timid. No one should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:57 PM
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I wasnt aware people get doxxed for just posting here...I thought most would just send nasty PMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:25 AM
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Maybe I mis-read, but yeah that would be odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:38 PM
1

Seems a lot of incels go Black.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:00 PM
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Why do people almost immediately delete their posts and accounts on a trending thread? Are those people just larping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:48 PM
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If all your needs are taken care of, why would you expect more from a guy? Simply because our needs are met in life. Something amazing happens when you don't need anyone for anything. You are left to partner with someone that you just genuinely like and enjoy...and those men are rare to come by. OP probably simply hasnt found anyone worth loving, and ideally he would bring a lot to the table besides money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:45 PM
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Most women can. The problem is that there are few genuinely hot guys that can cause this type of arousal. I was in my early 20s when I came across such a guy. Face>frame>height. Broad shoulders, thick neck, handsome face, v-shaped torso will do it. Personally race dosent matter to me, as long as the guy is hot. I think people overemphasize race here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:12 PM
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I'm so happy I was one of those women that rejected guys I wasnt sexually attracted to. Probably why I've had less than 5 partners in life. Dealing with neurotic, insecure, and likely ugly men just for their money and personality would have probably aged me 10 times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:35 PM
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As long as he loves me and is attracted to me, I woudnt care. not going to punish him for having a life before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:29 PM
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Women do not want men to admit they were wrong, Are you serious or joking? You've never hurt your partner by doing something stupid and you never admit you are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:34 PM
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With the way women are encouraged to be agreeable and subservient in society, I don't think so. A lot of women are encouraged to be doormats in their interactions with men through subtle messaging. Just look at how men are triggered by what they post. Women are simply not supposed to do that, in their minds. What they are going through is recalibration. It lasts as long as it needs to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:57 PM
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What country is this? I'm pretty sure it's not true. My black American and African friends prefer black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:41 PM
1

did you ask them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:11 AM
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no, but does it matter? every continent is represented in the survey, but the author went out of their way to note south africa and north africa....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:16 AM
1

There is good from each sub even though there is a lot of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:50 AM
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The only dogma I've read is that men should pay for dates when they ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:13 AM
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Oh come on. The reasonable ones know that men wont be paying for everything as the relationship moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:51 AM
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Most women hate the outright misogyny, promotion of abuse, and almost sort of rape advocation with the LMR. Most women don't care that men are intrigued that we prefer hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:17 AM
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Most men see themselves in their LV descriptions, thats where the hate is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:59 PM
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Its somewhat true. Most men are just pretending to be the Alpha and are not actually that guy. Alphas are born, not made. If you have to learn in order to "get it", you are really not that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:22 PM
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You could have just put Africa instead of other...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:18 PM
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In general, they dont. These are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:26 PM
1

lol tell that to the couples who thought that "love will grow" it never does
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:35 PM
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I'm saying they need to learn to love what they can get instead of loving only that which they cannot have. They are big girls they can figure it out. How do you learn to love something you do not want? It can't be "figured out". Women are aware of what arouses them, just like men are, so we are both slaves to our instincts. What you are advocating for is for women to be happy with their BB, wont ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:32 PM
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Have you had anyone ever settle on you to basically use you? Even if you havent, you can imagine how that sucks. At least by rejecting these guys outright, they give them a chance to find what they want...a partner that actually wants them and can love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:12 PM
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I mean, what eventually happens is what actually matters. Looksmatched people usually get together in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:55 PM
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Its a bad thing for men, not women. True narcissism is settling for these guys when they truly dont want them. At least acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:47 PM
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Because it probably isnt too productive. People know whether they are conventionally attractive or not. And most people know what they can improve upon physically (makeup, workingout, etc)Yet, somehow I still see ugly people coupled up. Not everyone is going to be smoking hot and its best for people to work on the things they can effectively change. Also, people just need 1 partner to be a "success in dating". 90 percent of people probably wouldnt touch you, but that 10 percent can be a viable p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:27 PM
2

not enough time to check everyday..and reply
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:05 AM
3

Bring the weekly thread back!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:17 AM
1

rare for whites to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:10 AM
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thats not true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:03 AM
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Dude is triggered, I've debated him before. He dosent see the other side and probably got dragged through the coals when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:01 PM
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Since when is 5'5 average? Moving on... I'd probably find someway to become a celeb or something, local entertainer or secure a leadership position in the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:21 PM
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Its just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:11 PM
1

Ummm, no! Why would that ever be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:25 PM
2

The problem is most men are trash, so they are not coupled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:24 PM
1

you guys insist on mischaracterizing the sub. yeah yeah, some of the women say off the wall shit, but its those particular posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:23 PM
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Most would be happy to get married to the man they actually want! There are not a ton of these guys, so women are OK with being single. More women know whats out there and the implications of their choices now, so there is less interest. Its the same for men, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:39 PM
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Most women are fine with a guy being at least 3 inches taller than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:18 PM
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A 5'5 man is a midget tho. The guy has to at least be 5'8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:02 PM
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Don't mean to be...but he has that bone structure of a gay man. It's not very masculine looking, is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:02 AM
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He is literally gross! He is not manly or sexually attractive. He just wears suits. He has that gay looking face...and it makes sense since Atlanta gossipers says he likes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:03 AM
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These women don't want their BB though, so I dont get why he is trying to sell that to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:00 AM
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The Cadillac. And, based on your number scale, I didnt qualify for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:33 AM
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And I'm telling you, women don't feel that way. That Chevy is settling to them, no matter what. I'm married btw :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:26 AM
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Here you go again, you are trying to logic what women desire. It dosent work!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:20 AM
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You men have your number scale. The problem is that women don't operate that way. Women are biologically meant to share whatever Chad is around them. If 85 percent of women settle for financial security, its settling to them..no matter what your number scale says.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:14 AM
1

Most men are bad. Even good men do bad things. Sorry, its just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:45 AM
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Women believe the lies society tells us, just like men do. Many dont realize it till after. Younger women today are taking heed to the mistake of their older peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:19 AM
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The problem is that her life likely still sucks afterwards, mostly little is gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:43 AM
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lol those virgin brides are settling too, but believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:31 AM
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Women settle all the time, no matter the age. 85% of women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:19 AM
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For the modern women, not much really. If she is financially stable on her own and has a nice support network, no man can bring much unless she genuinely loves him. The modern woman marries for stability if her life sucks or if she really wants children. I love my husband, but even he can be a pain in the ass. If I get divorced, I probably wont marry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:06 AM
5

Agreed. Thats not really the case anymore, different time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:04 AM
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Dont misunderstand, it depends on the relationship. But if you dont want to foot the bill for your girlfriend that makes way less then you, for a vacation, its a crimson red flag for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:22 PM
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Yeah, I generally agree. It depends on the relationship, but in this instance its very clear what he thinks about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:16 PM
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Most of the time, it means the guy dosent really desire/like her. It means she is convenient. Men that get their prize of a woman dont do strict 50/50 like this. They should have a feeling of wanting to "take care of her" in that way....especially if its a romantic vacation like this. The dude later admitted he thought she wasnt good enough for him and he dosent want to give more. Men that love you, will give more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:10 PM
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that guy is a LVM. Honestly, 90 percent of 50/50 guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:57 PM
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Mostly everyone that settles down https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMd5gPoeV/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:54 PM
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Men do overate it here. They just listen to the loudest women. It is always face>frame>height. Height is just the icing on the cake. however, I will say that because a lot of men lack in the face and frame, a lot of women feel like height can make up for it in someway. It really dosent though, because face and frame is all that matters, as long as the guy isnt a midget.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:15 PM
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I'l try to find a pic later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:57 PM
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No, what happened is that he ran into the male wall. He turned 40, was greying and realized that traveling the world and raping women wasnt fulfilling. I think then his sister died months later. Last I heard, all the sites where he was selling his wares de-monitized him...and he was delivering Amazon packages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:19 AM
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But we don’t just look at a hot guy and instantly get wet Yes we do. The problem is that there are very few hot guys. Our sexuality CAN be reactive under the right conditions, but the guys hotness isnt doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:34 PM
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I think all women are like this, but most just settle with the best around. When I was in high school and my hormones were raging, I always quietly wondered where all of the hot guys were. My n-count would have been much higher than 4 if I was able to just sleep with whoever was around. No one was really acceptable though. I also personally think the selection in the US is really bad. When I go to other countries I find a larger percentage of hotter guys. I think I was 23 when I first came acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:31 PM
0

True, unfortunately. Its not our fault that 95 percent of men fail to arouse us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:04 PM
1

Remember, you are talking to a group of men that didnt get that women preferred attractive men to mate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:48 PM
1

I wouldnt mind earning more than him and essentially paying more of the way. He has high romantic value and isnt a bum though. The problem is that women dont want leach husbands/boyfriends. And very rarely will a man not resort to bummery if he knows a women is paying his whole way indefinitely. You have to keep fire under men or they become bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:31 PM
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Thats also another reason why we are waiting to have kids. America is ultimately a shithole culture. Its capitalism overrun and the country is operating as a business now. Once you create a culture where everything is about money, this is what you get. People are cooped up in their mcmansion subdivision, not interacting with anyone. Not knowing their neighbors. No sense of community. Everything is beyond expensive here with little quality to account for it. Were leaving in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:24 PM
1

Ive heard about that book before, I'll probably buy it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:19 PM
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This guy is very unappealing sexually....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:40 AM
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You cant change your genes though, and that is ultimately what makes women want Chad. TRP encourages men to improve in areas that they have control, and i'm sure that helps to some degree. But, you are still play pretending or using deception/manipulation to secure women. When are RPers going to admit that looks come first? You can't change the width of your shoulders or grow a jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:06 PM
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One night stands are based on 99 percent sexual arousal. So, looks/attraction. I agree that behaviour/personality matter and can kill the sexual attraction, but they are not one in the same. Explain to me how a man can have high RMV, yet women still don't want to fuck him? SMV And RMV are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:40 AM
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And no, making a guy wait for sex will not do the trick. This is something women cannot shit-test a man for. It works though. What do you think women are doing while you "are waiting"? They are looking to see if you really care about them. Most men will fail, because as you have admitted, its rare for men to feel true romantic attachment to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:19 AM
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So their is no real distinction. There is. The stuff that is revealed about them reflects their RMV. SMV is just pure sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:17 AM
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Probably because there are an abundance of low value men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:51 AM
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I wouldnt categorize this as sexual harassment. Its annoying, but you just blow it off. Now, if he starts calling or texting me again and again, thats harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:09 AM
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You are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:48 PM
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LOL the wheatgrass delivery guy called me hours later to hit on me. I chuckled it off, but don't guys fear for their jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:41 PM
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Sexual attraction, then hopefully that leads to romantic attraction. Sometimes the guys personality/behaviour kills the sexual attraction and ultimately the romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:18 PM
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they are the ones complaining, im just making a good suggestion. if women arnt giving you the love that you need, you can get your needs met elsewhere. single women do it, why cant men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:03 PM
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They need to get that from their friends and family, like women do. A big problem is men don't really support each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:34 PM
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Pretty much this. If I was unmarried, it would be sharing Chad or die. The incels need to find ways to normalize prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:42 PM
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Most people that choose to couple are looksmatched anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:36 PM
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Nothing really. They just dont genuinely like you. You cant make someone like you even if you are good on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:29 AM
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Being "too nice" is a female trait, is the bottom line. Its not manly or masculine to be "nice". That dosent mean women like being treated like shit though. Dont confuse hormonally unstable pre-teens that are triggered by toxic behaviour as an example of female psychology. Men don't like it when women act like men, why would women like men acting like women? It seems to me, that showing interest and being genuinely nice to women only leads them to lose attraction and them wanting a friendship in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:10 PM
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I hope someday you come to realize that you aren't special and that your existence isn't just about you. I'm not special, but yes my existence is just about me if I decide not to have children. Its nice you adore your children, but I dont have to want to have children like you do. Why is living my life on my own terms "superficial gratification"? Gawd these shaming responses are ridiculous. I dont have to fucking have children!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:19 AM
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People are not narcissists for not wanting to have kids LOL Stop with the shaming language. Kids are expensive and are hard work until they graduate college. Living the life that you want to live is a "worthy" life lol Its not a requirement to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:25 PM
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It is just the truth. If you ask a group of parents if they would go back and not have kids, you will get hesitation before they give you the safe answer. People love their kids, but Jesus, they are a lot of work. Especially if you are not financially secure and you actually care about giving them a great chance to succeed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:30 PM
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Because women are realizing that once you have a kid, your life is over. Why bother, especially if the cost to care for these children increases by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:57 PM
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When you account for what physically turns women on, the vast majority of men are lacking. Some countries are worse than others, but its the general rule. A lot of weird looking, non-masculine pudgy faces. No broad shoulders, no swimmers build, no thick neck....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:06 AM
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I swear, men just want the quietest doormat ever...anything else is viewed as entitled or narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:37 PM
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its face>frame>height. as long as you are average height, you are likely getting rejected for the first two. The women that are screaming height just need SOMETHING they can be happy with because the vast majority of men lack in face and body frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:30 PM
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RP is 10 times worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:04 AM
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i don’t see how any of the women were hypocritical. neither did I..I wonder what he was referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:31 AM
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They all look like the below average, non appealing guys that women see everyday. Not one of them are really winning in the looks department if we are being honest. If women are forced to choose among them, of course the midget wouldnt be chosen. Still, men over-concern themselves with height. Its face>build>height always.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:18 AM
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Why would they be? Its usually a quality issue for most women. Most women can land any old sack of shit to marry them, if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:41 AM
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It works because he’s interesting, hot, not lazy, and very reasonable about sharing chores. See, I think that is all a woman needs, ultimately. As long as he isnt a bum, I think a lot of women dont mind. I would happily Becky Bucks a dude like that if I didnt meet my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:13 AM
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No, I'm saying the sexes each have their unique troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:19 PM
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To a degree, but ultimately not really. Even ugly women can get attention. Women struggle with finding high romantic value guys that they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:12 PM
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There are far less non-ugly fit guys that struggle with women, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:04 PM
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Because they ultimately are still ugly non masculine guys. Its their faces. Face>Frame>Height
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:59 PM
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Well, yeah. The genders have different problems when it comes to dating. What do you want women to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:55 PM
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How many women here wouldnt mind being the breadwinner as long as the guy was hot and had high romantic value? He has a job, just earns way less money than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:38 PM
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they are lower class, but not Chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:36 PM
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works, but is not a good strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:56 PM
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My greatest difficulty was finding Chad. There are not many of him. I overcame this by traveling internationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:14 PM
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I realized what I needed was an alpha HVM which I never specifically sought out for before. They are very rare. I didnt come across one until I started traveling to South America.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:12 PM
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Yeah, FDS puts their needs first...and that means they are sometimes oK with selfish behaviour. I dont think most women that visit there agree on this tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:53 PM
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FDS dont want hook ups or to get laid. They are concerned with their partners RMV because they are important for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:58 PM
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I mean, those saying sound nice and all, but we all know thats not true. Objectively, a lot of men are low value, especially when it comes to character which is what most FDS women are vetting for. I'm sure men would say the same about women, and I wouldnt disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:09 PM
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Well yeah, most men are low value. Thats always going to be a fact because LVM are a society wide issue. Its technically not their fault that so many men are low value. But they should navigate their dating knowing thats the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:55 PM
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