And unfortunately I know that's not going to change anytime soon. There's going to be a few people in here who on about "muh beauty standards" but reality is......

The bar is on the floor for women. It is not hard to be considered a good choice by a man, from what I've seen from the average man, all they want is just someone who shows affection and cares about him, but that's ultimately because men aren't given the luxury of being showered with compliments, are raised differently in general to the point that one compliment to most men on a regular day will stay with them for years to come.

Men's standards for women are so low that a mere compliment is enough for them. But it's not just that, from childhood, men aren't taught or told that they deserve the best for them, men aren't taught to have standards, the summary of what men are taught is basically:

"Just take what you can get and be grateful for it, just accept that."

Men are told from the beginning to accept low standards and take the first option that pops up, it doesn't allow men to truly develop standards for themselves or other people.

And the men who do have standards are often ostracised for being too shallow.