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You can never WIN in STEM, some days the Ls are massive, some days they're manageable. You're gna end up filling excel sheets all day anyway no need to stress :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:19 PM
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Haha that's awfully sweet of you. I shall gladly take you up on your offer. Who knew all I had to do was be a little crybaby on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:13 PM
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No, I'm quite decent looking actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:10 PM
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I'm a fish out of water in this area, everyone seems to have well defined friend groups already and I just tag along. Not exactly a social butterfly, i prefer not being the centre of attention. I left all my friends from college because i was struggling in college and was bullied quite a bit because of that, I worked on myself, became something i was proud of, and now I have nobody to show it to. Funny how life works. But good to know you made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:05 PM
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Never thought so myself but I think I might have to concede that I just might be ugly, or repulsive in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:57 PM
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Girl, I don't have ANY friends, I have been single all my LIFE, I have never had a relationship I will never know what teenage love feels like, I might never be able to hold my wife in my arms, I have made all the money in the world and yet I might never buy my kid an ice cream cone or take him swimming, god you're so stone hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:59 PM
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I live alone in an area far away from my hometown, I work as an engineer at a chemical factory so there's no time for dilly dallying at work, in my free time I visit local hobby clubs, run errands, and occasionally go trekking or cycling. I meet plenty of people but none really seem to want to connect again, I have received zero female attention apart from the occasional pleasantries. It's not like I'm overtly shy, I've always been a popular kid and I know how to socialise. I don't know why it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:35 PM
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I am literally outside all the time, why do you assume I'm a shut in lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:15 PM
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I wouldn't mind if these women hunted me down slit my throat and eat my intestines if it meant I wouldn't have to live the life of complete isolation that I live now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:38 AM
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and now that women are themselves good providers, shouldnt that criteria also be revised? or do we hold onto the past only wherever its convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:00 PM
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I never understood that, if women are able to support themselves why is there even a debate on who pays? if both men and women are self sufficient now shouldnt everyone just pay for themselves??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:47 PM
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im talking about labor statistics provided by the US census, the split is nearly 70 to 30. I'm currently working as an engineer and I've worked in multiple industries in both the US and India, i can assure you nearly 95% of the workforce in any kind of hazardous or heavy machinery industry is male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:32 PM
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In the absence of women men would just become teachers, there's nothing intrinsic to women that gives them an edge over men. Dunno if the same could be said for physically intensive jobs without incurring a significant loss in overall productivity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:04 PM
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Factory workers are still predominantly male yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:01 PM
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report back in 2 hrs pls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:10 AM
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Not just women, they'll tell their male friends too, impressionable guys who internalize that sort of thing and it makes them terrified of being at the receiving end of it. We could just be kinder, understand that it's okay to not be into someone without being cruel about it. The world is cruel enough as is and it's not a crime to ask someone out. Why can't we exert effort at both ends of the spectrum to ensure healthier dating dynamics? The approach should definitely be respectful but why cant …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:17 PM
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and calling him a creep somehow mitigates that threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:18 AM
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its becauce you place so much onus on the individual rather than the experience, if youre going in subconsciouly judging a person if he could possibly be an ideal partner you've devoted unnecessary energy into both judging him and conswquently, yourself. and now if he picks up on that energy he would also be on edge, i dont think theres any solution to this, "for you" because im assuming youre too hard set on your ways to change the way you view dating but i do want to assure people that dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:55 PM
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it is highly likely that men on online dating are a bit more reserved, afraid to show their true selves in fear of being judged and ghosted. i can assure you personally that it has happened to me wherein i would present a very milquetoast version of myself because there's always the fear of giving someone the ick. not denying your experience, but could be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:36 PM
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Again, you're chasing the idea of perfection, with words like "ideal partner" whereas for me I'm chasing the experience, I could spend 50 years looking for "the one" and die the next day. It's all luck and chance. What I have is time, I try and fill that with meaningful experiences, so yes...to me, every girl is "the one" because they're all different faces of the same crystal, they all have something to offer and something to teach, and so do I, I have this privilege and so do you so I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:14 PM
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I'm sorry, the way i approach dating and the way you do seem to be completely different. I go in with the idea that everyone has their own inherent strengths and weaknesses, this allows me to be very forgiving of their misgivings, and also because i know i am a flawed being as well. over time the only relationships that last are ones where my partner and i have built something beautiful together through shared experiences, and to be able to have these experiences i need to give her plenty of cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:30 PM
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i wouldnt waste any more time on this argument, the woman is clearly incapable of grasping the idea of chance or statistics, or is being purposefully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:19 AM
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Just listen to the guy and leave men alone ffs. For your sake and for ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:26 AM
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Lol sounds sketch but okay, id rather be alone than "be with" someone ugly, especially if I was a woman and had the kind of options women are exposed to. Maybe your views are too antiquated for the modern world, in an Era of abundance, why would anyone delude themselves into settling for less than perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:01 PM
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What do you mean women aren't happier single? What could an ugly man possibly provide a woman? Why not just date a roster of hot dudes instead of settle for an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:55 PM
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But why force herself to be with a fat man? Why put your soul through the trauma of dating an ugly man? Aren't women much happier single? Why would any woman (fat or otherwise) choose to be with an undesirable man, when she could just be a million times happier single??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:47 PM
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Average woman with a loving husband addressing hapless loners who have never felt the touch of a woman "oh woe is me! I drown in a pool of misery for I am unworthy of attention" I hope when judgement day comes the likes of you burn in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:53 PM
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If the last part were true, you'd think those of us with good jobs and responsible lifestyles would see some interest from the opposite sex but it just hasn't been the case, don't get me wrong I'm not here to argue, just genuinely curious and maybe a bit disheartened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:43 PM
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it's cool, sorry I was unable to highlight all your privilege, I must be stupid or something :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:00 PM
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you're in a relationship with the SECOND guy you ever asked out...all I can say is, if I could have a thousandth of your luck, I would sacrifice all I had in a heartbeat. I'm sorry for pestering you, have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:57 PM
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how many men had you approached, prior to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:47 PM
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so are you waiting for men to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:40 PM
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yes, it's unfortunate but too deeply ingrained for us to really fix in the short term. however, as more and more people embrace a multicultural society we will slowly but surely see progress. what I have an issue with is when people don't take the time to unlearn these biases because at some point as an adult it's our responsibility to let go of primitive notions like skin color and race. it takes very little effort on an individual level but it means so much to those who are unwillingly at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:43 AM
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sigh, black women still have a chance with men who don't see dating partners as shiny cars but as fully actualized people. very odd to me that people would give up on someone with a lifetime of experiences, a lifetime of perspectives, someone capable of love just because of the color of their skin?! unfortunate that we consider ourselves to be such an advanced species but cannot get past trivial aestheticisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:53 AM
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Oh and here I was thinking it's because women have too high standards, when the answer was staring me right in the face i do wonder what this so called "whatever reason the girl just didn't get the urge" might be. Guess we'll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:47 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35fiNZTVVtU&t=579s we do on another guy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:31 PM
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On the contrary, I am actively working to destroy this planet...it's the only thing keeping me motivated at this point, been working at a pesticide firm that makes tens of thousands of tons. And we're literally murdering bees by the millions. I'm hoping to expand to new heights just so I can watch it all burn in my lifetime. I know it's possible if the food chain is irreparably damaged, and i intend on doing just that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:50 PM
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I don't think op ever said ugly men werent assholes either?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:07 AM
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When did he say all attractive men are assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:45 AM
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acceptance is the first step toward healing 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:25 AM
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and you think you're entitled to a man that cares if you live or die? huh? newsflash buddy, nobody owes you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:19 AM
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Lol aren't you guys harping on about how women can make their own choices now??!! Men apparently were always able to make their own choices, so since the only variable is women, wouldn't it be logical to imply that said ability would have some repercussions? Or are we to accept that somehow women are suddenly able to make their own choices and decisions, and yet these decisions are of no consequence at all to anything ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:20 AM
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lmao? twitch, a service made originally for gamers to showcase their skills used to be almost exclusively men, you look at it now and it has been turned into some kind of softcore cam site with seemingly endless asmr girls, like do you get paid to lie on this website or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:15 PM
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Do you need a nurse to read out the Webster's definition of spite out to you??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:27 PM
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that's very impressive :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:13 PM
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we can see that , miss cat_lover259
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:04 PM
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what reason could women possibly have for not being attracted to ugly guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:56 PM
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Why would sex robots stunt men's development lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:11 AM
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Hurt people need a proxy to spew venom on their behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:52 PM
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as we know, the lower classes have NEVER revolted, nope...cant think of a single time that has happened
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:20 PM
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don't really see the correlation between 'obese single mom' and 'boring'? but you go off i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:24 PM
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Average boring people still deserve to feel loved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:24 PM
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Pretty much most things I would assume
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:39 AM
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Nate McMillan got trae listening to YB in the fourth quarter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:38 AM
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Spread out evenly between men and women i presume
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:54 PM
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What's the reality...pray tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:03 PM
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Sooooo....women are sharing the few good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:29 PM
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So a majority of women are ending up in relationships with great men?(who are apparently in the minority?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:23 PM
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So are these women(who aren't dating) in the majority or minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:20 PM
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And somehow women... who make up 50 percent of the population, end up with these uh...great men, who make up a very tiny percent of the male population, am i reading you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:40 PM
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Yep...I've never come out of a random ons feeling like Ive done something right. Its always guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:20 PM
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Damn... Dude was right, i figured someone's gonna come in with the PPD smash hit 'but men do it too' and here you are, right on cue 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:22 AM
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Lmao sure 😂 that's one way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:30 AM
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Yeah i would never let the behaviour of fringe groups dictate my contempt for capitalism and it's exploitative nature especially how it gatekeeps access to capital for both women and underprivileged men, but that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:17 AM
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Glad you skipped over all the furry porn fr 🙏🙏. All that money and you still stalking randos on a Wednesday morning. Real hard sell on that happy little life you got for yourself 🤣🤣. Stop hating men lol it's really not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:44 PM
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Oh I'm sorry i make way more than most women and it has been quite vexing for me as I've always had the opinion that we as a society ought to move towards an egalitarian solution where women get compensated better for their efforts and their unpaid labour and same for the underpaid labour force both male and female. So it's a bit jarring for me to see someone bragging about earning more than the opposite gender. Must be the difference in our morality and the way i was brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:12 PM
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And why does it make you feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:36 PM
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And i think it's fine if he does...that's the flip side when we do things for the overall betterment of society at the cost of pure equality of outcome. You will get people who whine, and for good reason. They should be allowed to whine...it's all they can do at this point, why take it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:02 AM
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You must be oblivious to the current state of STEM then. It is true that women are favoured over similarly qualified men. While I personally don't think it's a bad thing because having a more egalitarian gender distribution can only be a good thing in the long run, it's still abject fact that being a female in stem gives you better career prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:27 AM
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Preciate it 👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:50 PM
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Its fine...hopefully the brown kings strike back. Idk where y'all do this but I'd love an invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:25 PM
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Man the Indian representation in the pic rating thread was NOT good. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:09 PM
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This is like when someone who's only worked at a Lamborghini dealership goes to a mazda one and tells them...oh you think this is fast?! Most cars go 0-60 in 2.9 secs. You need to go out more. My standards are reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:07 AM
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🙏 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:06 PM
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Manifesting this for me 🤞🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:30 PM
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I was being tongue in cheek lol :) from what I hear women aren't having the best time out here on OLD either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:22 PM
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Gotta commend women, once they figured out online dating was too easy they gotta up the difficulty with hotter and hotter guys till the field evens out. Respect the grind for real 💪💪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:11 PM
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I will date a zero if it comes to it because like I said i don't judge people by looks or arbitrary numbers. There's beauty in all of us and i firmly believe i could be just as happy with a 2 as i could be with a 10. The problem here isn't me turning people down but the severe lack of reciprocation. I've replied just as earnestly to every single match on every dating app but the same courtesy has never extended to me. I've resigned to the fact that I am not owed anything on god's green Earth how…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:55 PM
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So you agree that, since the ugly guy who ISNT paired off in his 20s...WILL BE paired off...I'm just taking your argument to its logical conclusion. Since the uglies get paired off AND the hot people get paired off...that implies that guys who aren't paired off YET, WILL find a partner? Am I following you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:18 PM
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Let's say all hot people are paired off...that still leaves the average and ugly people on the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:15 PM
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And 35 year olds tend to date other 35 year olds so I dont see what's the catch here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:57 PM
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Because 4 ish women don't wanna date us?? How is this so difficult to grasp? I don't like describing attractiveness with numbers but it's become near impossible to date in my twenties, I'm trying real hard to work on my career and looks so that I can at least aim for a stable relationship with someone that appreciates me for who I am and that takes time and effort. So i have no choice but to believe it gets better, and if it doesn't thats fine too but i like having that little bit of hope for my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:54 PM
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He's talking about when the 20 yr old girls turn 35 Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:45 PM
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I can speak from personal experience that men who don't have families or wives are extremely checked out and might as well not work because you can hardly get an iota of useful labour out of them. They're also extremely prone to outbursts and severe substance abuse. If you think the threat of survival is enough to extract labour from a disenfranchised male workforce then there's a hierarchy of needs i urge you to read about. Its impossible to sustain the society if we go down that path. Speaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:53 AM
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notallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:10 AM
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Yes, It's a shame we've failed to preserve the simple tenets of humanity in the face of glitz and greed and so on...but there's still beauty in watching everyone try and find their own way out with whatever vestiges of humanity they have left , yes even the red pillers forever doomed in their sisyphean task of chasing Chad. FDSers who've walled themselves off terrified of ever being hurt again and everyone in between. I'm glad they exist and I'm sure things will get better. Thanks for taking the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:42 PM
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Thank you, i really appreciate it. And while it's prepositerous to claim that women have higher standards compared to men i think again it might have to do with men here not being able to see beyond petty gender wars and at the fact that's it's their own standards for themselves that are too high. We've all been sold this idea of a big house beautiful wife picket fence lifestyle that couldn't keep up with globalisation or technology and that has left a lot of men just "some guy". And if I'm "som…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:11 PM
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Still feel like the whole "all men are suxz" rhetoric shouldn't be pushed especially when it only serves to add fuel for the inevitable backlash that follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:32 PM
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Hmm...you open with "women aren't a hive mind" and then go ahead and generalise three different groups in one comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:13 PM
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Huh? Anecdotally all MY friends have also had terrible girlfriends but I took the time and looked more closely to find deeper issues that don't have much to do with being a woman but rather individual faults that are a product of their environment like avoidant behaviours or narcissism. Same with the guys, they too are trying to navigate through an increasingly cruel world and hopefully find love. This kind of blanket finger pointing only exhibits your inability to grasp nuance in people and lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:09 PM
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Because unlike you, other people understand the concept of nuance and don't just jump to the first incendiary conclusion that can be drawn from every statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:26 AM
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Yeah...sure whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:12 AM
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I completely agree lol. In fact the deadbeat father is much worse and the thought of jeopardizing not one but two lives purely on whim is absolutely abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:08 AM
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Im not sure I can, in good conscience agree that women who do not reciprocate any kind of affection for their husband after marriage can be completely absolved of guilt. Yeah the guy chose poorly. But does the woman have no agency? Why must the blame be one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:02 AM
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If a man is capable of choosing between women and yet chooses poorly it is completely on him and I would have no sympathy for his predicament. However, if one is forced to choose between a life of loneliness and being with a woman who doesn't reciprocate his attraction but only treats him as a means of sustenance I have some sympathy. I'm not saying he's right to whine about "whammen" but I can see how his situation could be frustrating. Im of the belief men here are mostly from the latter group…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:43 AM
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So is it desirable men with status or beta buxxed men we're talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:32 AM
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Men here aren't really in a position to "choose a woman", the same way women can. They take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:25 AM
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Eh, you learn to live with it :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:32 AM
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womansplaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:53 PM
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yes and yes...the workplace is not your friend and it doesn't have your interests at heart, if they can exploit you you bet your ass they will leave no stone unturned, I have seen workers risk death with families and kids only to get yelled at by their supervisor for wasting time your only saving grace is yourself, the more you push back the more their facade falls. you must stand up for yourself and dont expect corporate to feed you crumbs, its a rotten system but please take care of yourself b…
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 09:11 AM
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this line of reasoning only works if you're somehow arguing that it takes a lesser understanding of causality to be a partner than being an engineer, which is arguable to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:41 AM
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