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And they'll also laugh at the comparison and say that you cannot compare women getting abused by men to men dealing with gold diggers. As if you can't compare physical abuse to emotional abuse.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 06:03 AM
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Why do they hate that sub? Any sub that makes light hearted jokes is triggering to them lol
/r/MensRights11/01/23 12:16 AM
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I thought reddit was finally banning subreddits that were hateful towards men, too. Misandry doesn't even register in their soy antennas. The only time FDS gets sh*t is if it says something that's interpreted as being transphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:22 AM
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You really think the main Reddit mods are going to take down that sub? The only kind of " hate " they even accuse that sub is of is transphobia. Nevermind 95% of the sub which is misandry. If they replace that 5% with more misandry, it'll probably make it to the front page.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:20 AM
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See what I mean? A 3 year old post! Lol Whereas practically every day, there's a post on Reddit schooling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:16 AM
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But there are plenty of cases of women acting friendly/flirting with a guy at a bar to get free drinks, even if she's not interested in him. Yet Reddit does not iterate that standard for women " Don't flirt with men just to get free drinks ". But it does iterate it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:02 PM
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I wasn't really talking about cold approaches. This happens in situations where 2 friends might be hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:59 PM
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Then why do people keep reiterating that on Reddit for men specifically but not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:56 PM
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The standard is that men shouldn't buy a girl something with the hope that she might go out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:57 PM
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Well duh. And the best example of this is Howard from TBBT. He has the same confidence and energy as that other Chad physicist (that Leonard has a man crush on), and yet gets treated like a sex predator throughout the series Rofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:31 AM
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I don't think they're anti women. Someone's gotta talk about male problems too. Nobody lets them because it always gets conflated with misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:44 PM
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I can't stand that bomb defusing approach. It fosters a way of life where you navigate every situation with fear. And it seems to be getting worse each generation, where people are just getting more and more judgemental of each other's actions and putting them in all sorts of categories because everyone now thinks they're a psych analysis expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:29 PM
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Hasn't it been this way for a LOOONG time? I don't know why everyone talks of this like its a fairly recent thing that happened in the past decade. When was the last year a woman was forced into a marriage? The rise of sexual frustration among men though is a recent thing. It didn't start at the same time women's sexual liberation started. Something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:20 PM
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I think all this TRP stuff has always existed, it's only called TRP now because we're talking about certain things that we're not supposed to now be talking about because of political correctness lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:06 PM
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but do you really think dating and socializing are the entirety of life? Yes. Because it leads to other things like...........favors being done for you. Being driven around. Getting out of trouble. Free security. ​ to carry around a human being in your stomach for 9 months They're not even willing to accept the existence of that risk. Why is why they prioritize abortion and want to live life exactly like how a man would. ​ Additionally, women must go through life taking safety precautions that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:57 PM
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I think its because the Left has pretty much fooled a lot of women into thinking " We're on your side! " because of how it endorses abortions and frames it as a '' womens rights issue '' instead of a morality issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:11 PM
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Now even supermodels aren't a thing. They used to be called "super" models for a reason. But they've all been replaced by " realistic body standards ". The equivalent would be a bunch of fat dudes banning all body building competitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:47 PM
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People use apps to find potential dating partners that will want to meet them in person, not replace real life interractions. People texted and called before apps existed or were popular. But how did they manage that before those apps came into existence? That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:28 PM
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I don't know what PUAs you're listening to then. They all stress about reading body language, knowing when to keep going and when to back off. A lot of them have a " move on " mentality too. If you mention any hint of unenthusiasm, that's their go-to line for everyone - " Move on ".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:27 AM
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how to socialize normally and stop forcing all your social interactions. This is the worst advice you can give to an introvert or person with social anxiety. Because forcing it out is the only way they can do it (hardwired to avoid people).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:11 AM
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They are so painfully fixated on how others perceive them and terrified of being laughed at Nope. It's the exact opposite. The average person is afraid of humiliation, but PUA's have purged that fear out of them on purpose. ​ The men who promote PUA do nothing to help men actually learn social skills and instead pass around lame-ass lines and crazy rumors about female behavior. Why? I think conversing with someone itself is a good way to develop social skills. There's no " proper way " to go abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:09 AM
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Either places like Dating apps, places where people go to be social like some food and drink places, social parks, Digital platforms should never replace real life interaction. I know its happening but its a very unhealthy trend and its not good for humanity. Where its considered more and more abnormal to talk to people in public. Also what is a " social park "? Aren't they all the same? I've never heard of any park that is more social than any other type of park.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:04 AM
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but in that case they consent to it. I've never heard a PUA advise anyone to " keep going " even after the person has told them they're not interested. As for the inability to say no, there are polite ways of phrasing it that aren't awkward. " Sorry I have to go "?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:57 PM
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Gotcha. So PUA-ing is ok in those locations you mentioned above, its just not ok in Target.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:54 PM
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Even if they are in better places to cold approach, it looks strange if your going up and talking to everybody because your horny lol. Then how are people supposed to meet new people??? And no they're not walking around with a boner in their pants, they're just trying to find someone they might or might not have a spark with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:42 PM
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Shopping for women is objectifying By this logic, isn't online dating " online shopping for women "? ​ Is it somehow surprising to you that women prefer men who regard them as individuals with the same goals, responsibilities, hobbies, and interests as men? Where did I imply this? That they didn't consider them indviduals with hobbies, goals, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:37 PM
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The way I see it, PUA is just " social skills " but for relationships. It's weird how so many people get offended by it. When socializing, people will often recite the same jokes to different groups of people to make them laugh, and everyone's ok with that. But do it with women, and you're suddenly objectifiying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:14 PM
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Didn't Chris Rock do that in his early days? lol I'm NOT talking about harassment. Obviously if someone is not into it, then don't keep pushing on. And I think most PUA's stress on reading body language and knowing when to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:09 PM
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I think a lot of men just want a woman who can go a week without mentioning the word " patriarchy " or " misogyny ".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:20 PM
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Don't they also teach the user to observe body language to know how they're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:18 PM
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which may or may not be intended to end in coitus Nobody flirts with someone if they have no intent on getting with them. That makes no sense. So you just randomly flirt with any girl even if you're not interested in her at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:17 PM
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I don't think PUA should be linked to TRP. TRP is a pessimistic view of the opposite sex. PUA's on the other hand do the opposite.....they put the opposite sex on a pedestal and treat their interactions with them like its an art. Kind of like stand up comics. They engineer and rehearse their jokes when they practice, but they practice bringing it out so that they can connect with their audience. You know its not all organic right? They structure their entire act around rehearsed material.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:45 AM
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There has never been a time when everyone else did not hate on pick up artists. Barney Stinson? James Bond? Charlie Sheen? They're all based on the PUA model. If they were that hated, nobody would structure tv shows around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:42 AM
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All of that stuff is stuff that men have always naturally done to try and win women over. They've just made terms for it now and are looking at it like its something to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:26 PM
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James Bond is a PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:24 PM
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Yeah they were ok. The most famous PUA of all time is James Bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:19 PM
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I'm not talking about some trademarked specific series of brochures written by the same dudes, I'm just talking about learning to flirt in general. Whether its by your friend or by some social skills expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:18 PM
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using their feminity to manipulate men. Only if they're doing it to trick the man into doing something he wouldn't want. But nobody criticizes it if her intent is just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:16 PM
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Can you give me an example of this " psychological trickery " that you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:13 PM
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PUA's have gone on major talk shows in the early 2000's. So no, it wasn't always used in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:10 PM
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Even on the thread yesterday asking men about their successes with women, half of them hadn't even approached the woman, the women approached them. I'm pretty sure that has something to do with the rising levels of social anxiety and depression in men. Men are no longer doing the pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:08 PM
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Same case in fitness. GET A SIX PACK IN LESS THAN A MONTH, NO DIETING REQUIRED! I don't get your point. So just because there are some PUA's who are trying to sell fake tips, that means the whole art of flirting is now a giant scam?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:04 PM
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Everything legitimate about PUA can be learned in a less sexually charged way. Fitness for fitness sake. Learning about style to be attractive in general, rather than aimed at how to impress a girl at a bar with your uniqueness so as to get laid in the next hour. Toastmasters or other social skills programs. The list goes on and on. Why is it wrong to have the intent of impressing a girl? I don't get that. A lot of guys play guitar to impress girls, and end up falling in love with the guitar its…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:22 AM
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What if they made it clear from the get-go that they only wanted casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:11 AM
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