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| 13 | Recent NPR interview: 'How to Not Die Alone' author on modern datingWomen have become spoiled rotten brats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Recent NPR interview: 'How to Not Die Alone' author on modern datingRather just bang a hooker every odd month than put up with some gross bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?I build spaceships and serve the military part time. I also enjoy dancing among other arts. How much more goddamn purpose does my life need? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?The difference is technology. The tech we have is causing social confusion and chaos the likes of which was literally unimaginable in previous civilizations. The Fall might be absolutely Terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?It's literally an evolutionary bottleneck. A hedonistic trap. There's absolutely no incentive for the players to stop. Women have INFINITE access to super exciting and attractive guys, how the holy hell can they stop? And again, the top 5% of attractive guys have infinite access to pussy. It's like giving a 6 year old access to a candy store. Even if the kid knows it's bad for him/her, they just can't help theirself. The people (mostly women) reproducing are either idiots who can't use birth con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | What are single/childless women past 40 really like? Are they really happy or not?I have a single/childless aunt in her 60s. When she was young was very attractive. She never spent any time with her nephews or nieces. She hopped around rinsing rich guys as long as she could. She's now poor, although her mom bought her a house so she's ok living pay check to pay check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Should women be mad, or understanding towards men?Lmao. Women are insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | This conversation about male “ urges “ has to stop.Men are vastly more disciplined than women because we have to be. If men did what we felt like or followed our whims like women do, there would be widespread literal rape and violence the likes of which you cannot imagine. Civilization is built upon suppression of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Should women be mad, or understanding towards men?Growing up in Houston Texas, pretty fucking often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Should women be mad, or understanding towards men?It's just undeniably obvious that we live in a matriarchy where women have severe social-cultural dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Should women be mad, or understanding towards men?Epic narcissists maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | High sexual market competition doesn't really benefit anyone.Women absolutely HATE intelligence. Whenever I mentioned I was working on my engineering license, women would get INSTANTLY disgusted and ghost me asap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 14 | Should women be mad, or understanding towards men?Every relationship I've been in I did all the courtship, spent way more money than her, and in chaotic social situations would put myself in potential bodily harm to defend her honor or her physical person. I was raised that ALL these things are basic standards for men. How TF is the bar low for men??? If anything the bar is on the fucking ground for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Have people here heard of Norah Vincent, the woman who went undercover as a man for more than a year and wrote a book about it?This was before OLD or smartphones even. People actually went out and talked to each other and stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?I have given up on dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 3 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?In any big city, any halfway decent looking chick can bang 10s for their entire fertile years thanks to OLD. Dating is hopeless for most guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 4 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?Eh no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | There are countless ways for a man to increase their sex appealWomen really are this dumb though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:21 AM |
| 3 | There are countless ways for a man to increase their sex appealTop kek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 3 | There are countless ways for a man to increase their sex appealAs long as the culture is a hookup culture, there will ALWAYS be "top" men that dominate the social-cultural domain and date/bed a disproportionate number of women. Axiomatically leaving a large porportion of men with no/poor dating options. This will not change until there is a collapse/war and/or a legal restriction on female freedom. Under the current social ecology, most men are doomed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 5 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANWhat's that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 32 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANA fair amount of people hate age gaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANLol.... again, what planet do you live on???? The culture is completely dominated by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 4 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:I'm aware of the rationalizations that people use to excuse women treating good men like garbage. I reject this and believe my eyes and the actual words that women say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 09:00 AM |
| 5 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:Take people at their word, including women. Women using "nice" as a pejorative tells you everything you need to know. Women don't say pushover, or two-faced, they say "nice". Women find kindness and morality to be unattractive and are repelled by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Depends if they're hot. There are good looking 45+ y.o. chicks, if they stay fit and have good genes. Old dude in their 50s and 60s would date them, but they will be severely less "impressive" than the guys they held out for when they were younger. And young guys would play with them for fun. I myself recently dated an older flight attendant that was in crazy good shape despite being older. Her giant fake tits didn't hurt. The big thing is that chicks in their 30s and going on 40 are shooting th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Every 80ish years there's a 'crisis' according to a book "generations". Right now is the "chaos" before the shit hits the fan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 9 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Eh women's standards get HIGHER after 30.... until like 45 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?Women have insane standards and put forth zero effort during the courtship process. It's pretty obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Are women's standards high or are they low?Look at the birth rate. People aren't locking shit down, in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Men's standards are too lowThe problem is hypergamy. 9 and 10 guys will bang 7s, and there's no reason not to. 7 and 8 guys then have to bang 6s. So on and so forth. The highest HVM will be very happy with harems of women beneath him, and this destroys the entire "market". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingWhy do you assume that I was the one that wanted something casual? In those instances it was the other way around. You assume that women are not enthusiastic about being passed around. A lot of them ARE enthusiastic about being passed around. Men do have a lower floor for sex, AND a lower floor for relationships. What I'm saying really isn't that hard to understand and yet you bluepill normies REFUSE to face facts. Men and women are DUN DUN DUN........ DIFFERENT. I know that's fucking crazy but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingSex is frequent for most women and a tiny number of guys who pass you around. That doesn't disprove anything I've said. And for the love of GOD don't give me some BS about how that isn't what's happening. I've been "chad" on occasion and I've seen and experienced first hand how the "few" guys get treated who are the most attractive in a certain context or small town. Most guys are getting virtually nothing in the dating game and there are a few guys that are passing around a hugely disproportion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingBecause most guys are doing that right? What bizarro opposite dimension do you live in where guys control sex and dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingNo, you're still wrong. When it comes to LTRs men also have lower standards. Most guys just want a nice and reasonable chick. Women are the ones with the insane laundry lists who want a guy to be rich, high status, exceptional in some area, yada yada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:55 PM |
| -1 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingNo, you're wrong. When it comes to LTRs men also have lower standards. Most guys just want a nice and reasonable chick. Women are the ones with the insane laundry lists who want a guy to be rich, high status, exceptional in some area, yada yada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Extremism Will Get You No WhereTRP already advocates self improvement. As for who killed the dating game, women did that, not men. Women casually treat good men like absolute garbage for the sin of being "too nice" or "boring". Women have become insanely picky and ruthless and entitled to a degree that is downright unreal. Frankly, men should be angry and fed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingYou are super naive and wrong. There are tons of very good guys that can't find a date to save their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:43 AM |
| 8 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingYeah seriously. I just can't even believe these people saying dating or your social life aren't important. Like... your social life is basically the most important thing in a person's life period. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:42 AM |
| 18 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingWomen are more picky than guys are. Men have a lower threshold for what makes a chick cute than what girls have for what makes a guy cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 10 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingWomen are treated better than men in general. Attractive women can get dates insanely easily compared to most men. There are guys who get women easily, but the number is much much smaller, and many of these guys are exceptionally successful in some way. These statements are pretty obvious if you have your friggin' eyes open but blue-pilled normies will deny these obvious facts forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.A big thing is giving women a social-cultural excuse to openly express interest in you and to loosen up socially. This is what women mean by "personality". Obviously looking good is critical, but you can't just say "hi, how's it going?" and then ask for her number. Maybe this worked 50 years ago but not anymore. Now every guy has to be able to sing a song, strum a guitar, dance, do tarot, fucking something to loosen things up. I used to think being a decent hard working guy would be enough. I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Women are way more shallow. Almost all guys just want a chick to be cute and nice. Women's list of "standards" is MUCH longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | What are some good tips / advice to pull a girl at a party?Sing and dance. These days men are just clowns to women. Or play some kind of game. Trying to "get to know" a young woman is an absolute waste of fucking time and she will think you're a freak. Literally being a halfway mediocre guitar player or rapper will get you more pussy than being a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/22 08:03 PM |
| – | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?It's just brutal man. And I can't really relocate because of the line of work I'm in, at least not for a while. Really just given up on women unless one chases me. I feel so beaten down by the whole "game". And women are just so damn picky. They want a hundred different standards, and openly brag about how you as a guy should literally have no standards. Then they toss all these "standards" to the side for a homeless artist or rapper. After I've seen countless women behave like this I've just gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:24 PM |
| – | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?I hear you. I've come to the brutal conclusion over the last year that I would have been better off learning how to rap or play a guitar than most of what I've done so far. And btw, I'm a fit guy, well groomed, stylish clothes, socially competent. I do understand that women want a guy to entertain them and all, but honestly it does strike me as a bit unreal that they're so picky these days. When women blow off and trash really good guys and swoon over some homeless heroine addict I can't help bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:47 PM |
| – | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?I think some cities just have brutal ratios for either men or women. I'm as macho as they get.. sports, military, oil field, right now I literally am building a spaceship, educated, own a house, new car, yada yada. I can't find a date to save my life though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:18 PM |
| -1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Define crime. In our post-modern world there is no "objective truth" sweetie. Who holds men accountable? Other men. What happens when men in general stop giving a shit? We will see why every civilization is always a patriarchy. It's just Nature's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Who holds men accountable? Other men. What happens when men in general stop giving a shit? We will see why every civilization is always a patriarchy. It's just Nature's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:01 PM |
| 3 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Because when men feel like they have nothing to build towards and that the social game is rigged, they will commit crime and more broadly just let everything burn down. I postulate that single women being hyper picky and being pumped and dumped with a few chads while ignoring decent guys is their version of "behaving badly". But hey everything is fine right? The USA is about to invade Russia in the winter, what could go wrong right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:52 AM |
| 4 | On the matter of women having easier dating lives.Then why do you slam good guys for being "too nice" or "boring". Sorry but I've seen too many women treat men like absolute garbage for the sin of being a kind person to believe any of the BS you're trying to push. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Women find normie guys boring, let's just be outright honestI literally know a girl who got PnD'd by a member of FFDP. She refuses to date lower guys that are actually on her level bc she's holding out for him. Even though he's obviously moved on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 4 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.Damn where you at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:01 AM |
| 6 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Women are the ego-maniacs who demand that men must "impress" them by making more money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 12 | As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over youAnger is probably just what naturally boils over when every other emotion is shutdown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 01:38 AM |
| 18 | As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over youIf anything there's wayyyy more lovey dovey guys than f-boys. Women just burn guys for having emotions so much we learn to supress them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.Lol. Men find niceness attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?Do you like guys? If so, what do you find attractive about guys now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?Women are less horny and it's also easier for women to fulfill their normal social and sexual needs before they morph into weirder shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Why men experience on dating apps is so binary?Bloodroot for moles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single?It's not cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single?And I live in Colorado. Which has arguably the most extreme family court laws and precedents in the entire US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 4 | WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single?In the US, women are financially incentived to divorce their husband and break apart their family. And the media actively encourages them to do it. The "family court" in the US is HEAVILY biased against men and often pushes EXTREME sentences. Example, there are MANY cases where a man cannot pay his support payments, so he is put in jail. Obviously he can't work in jail, so the court will order MORE jail as he falls further behind in payments. This LITERALLY happens. It's basically slavery. For m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Women want everything. Money without being a nerd, status, looks without caring how you look too much, funny, the guy to plan everything and make all the moves, etc, etc. What women want is unrealistic and unless they compromise some they will never find a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | You (PPD Men) should forget about women and focus on an education and a career.And what about you is so interesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | You (PPD Men) should forget about women and focus on an education and a career.Lol. Whenever I told women I was working on my engineering license they would INSTANTLY start frowning, be visibly disappointed, and ghost me. Women HATE men that pursue self-growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?The other poster said the divorce rate is 70%. Apparently women aren't picking hardly anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 12:28 PM |
| -2 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?Culture giving women whatever they want = the family is almost entirely destroyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanIgnore the trolls. Everything you've said and desire is entirely reasonable. If our great grandfathers saw this country they unironically would have already organised a Christian-Fascist coup. God help us that we might have the courage that our forefathers had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 11 | What's the equilibrium point on male sexlessness?I'm a 12 year military member and I would support a dictatorship or Fascism. I unironically think it would treat men like me better than our current system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 02:59 AM |
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