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| 11 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Those people who aren’t attracted are called “friends”. No. Friendship is a deep thing that is extremely special. It isn't just those who aren't attracted to you. The West has cheapened friendship to the point where it means nothing. In this dude's case since he ends up catching feelings that are not reciprocated it is not worth pursuing friendship (and yes, friendships take effort to establish and maintain) with women since they come with a dose of hurt that isn't there if instead of a woman th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.LMAO. In the end we are all human. Men are more likely to develop crushes but if someone does, they end up behaving in the exact same ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a manEven secular non-religious people pair up and marry young. Their family culture etc. in general strongly makes people dislike sleeping around, even though it is fully legal and there are at least as good protections for those that sleep around compared to the west. We can mimic that and I don't think there is an epidemic of Israeli women pairing up with dudes they don't like, so clearly their is something non-religious going on over there that makes women attracted to completely average dudes. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a manWe manipulate woman! Israel is a soceity with stronger rights for women than most western countries. And yet people there pair up and marry young, even the secular ones. Guiding people to certain paths but allowing opt outs is no more coercive than enrolling people in pension schemes by default but allowing them to leave if they wish. This is what is being suggested here, not anything else. Society already manipulates everyone to extreme extends to tone down our most base instincts like violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a manThe government can give the unattractive guys prostitute vouchers. They aren't just after sex but having sex would fix a big portion of their issues. they won't be attracted by them even if I reject them. This can be fixed by government intervention. Women's attraction is famously malleable and subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.I have my own place and earn well over $200k in my early-mid 20s, am decently fit and active but still have issues getting matches on websites. I don't even get to the point where I have the opportunity to bring people back home with me. How do you explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe West has soft harems. Yep. The "no more than one marriage" rule was originally a government intervention to prevent these soft harems (since then sex outside of marriage was very very taboo) but now with sexual "liberation" this law is not doing what it was intended to do at all. Either update it, or get rid of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueyep, is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.That’s not an excuse to belittle women who don’t fit your preference. Women do that to men all the time, and they get to do it in mainstream media too! If men really didn’t care about promiscuous women, this sub wouldn’t have 20+ posts about us every single day trying to make us feel bad or seem like terrible partners. We really don't. The reason we have so many posts about this per day is that men want non-promiscous women, and every woman who becomes a hoe means 1 fewer woman of the type men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.do you intend to marry an emancipated western woman or a woman of your own culture? After seeing what western women are like I have absolutely no desire for one of them any more unless she is willing to convert and start a new life from scratch (I realise this is very unlikely to happen). Give me one of my own women (who thankfully are still mostly insulated from this western mind virus). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 9 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.i will also add that you are foreign and non-western and have not undergone the psychosexual emancipation of the wests sexual revolution so i mean, of course you think that. i dont mean this as an insult or pejorative, but merely a statement of fact. Sure, I agree with that. However equally I haven't undergone the psychological change of mind status that would allow me to eat e.g. dog meat without throwing up like that many people living in China and Korea can do. Now this means that I don't get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.And companies are well within their rights to not waste time interviewing those they suspect are only there to practise doing interviews and not looking for a job. if i sleep with a guy to obtain sex and dont want anythign else from him then i have succeeded in my goal. Yes, you have. However people will judge you on the fact that you had this as a goal and will wisely decide to steer clear from you for long term things that also aren't "sleeping with you but wanting nothing else" i would not ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Were those gated communities though? The example I'm talking about had a 3m high barbed wire wall all around the compound, and there were only 3 gates to get in which were staffed 24/7 with a security guard that would only allow those cars in that had a sticker showing they belonged to someone living inside or had received a heads up in advance from someone who lived in the compound that a car with that number plate would be visiting them and to let them in. Same for people, you couldn't just wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I always lived in low trust areas I’d assume as not locking your doors seems wild to me. Yeah, you probably have. I've lived in a mix of both low/high trust areas and in the high trust ones people would leave their front doors literally open at night and nothing bad would ever happen (this was a gated society though, which kept undesirables from the outside far away, but everyone inside trusted those living in the compound so much that they didn't even bother closing their doors at night; the gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.In that case I would reconsider, and probably be fine with it, just like how I'd probably be fine with an n-count of 100 if she was a billionaire who had invented the fountain of youth. However for most "normal" women who I'd otherwise be OK with, 4 is the point where things get iffy, and I start looking at other things in her to make up this "shortfall". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsAnd they say men have unrealistic body standards... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsYep, same as how we have skinny bikini clad fighters in anime video games because men want to see them. The difference though is that there is a strong movement against the latter but not the former, and any movement by men about unrealistic body standards gets shot down by the very same women as being made of "whiny men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.But what does "like that" mean? Any woman who's not a virgin? Depends on the person. I definitely have friends who wouldn't consider any non-virgin women for marriage (but equally they come from societies where sex outside marriage is illegal, so the vast majority of the women in their orbits satisfy their requirements). For me personally I'd say more then 3 previous partners (and any hookups) is where I'd draw the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.way to miss the point... social trust is about a lot more than wallet stealing, it's to do with how cohesive the bonds between people who live in an area are, places with high social trust are likely to cooperate in tragedy of the commons type situations etc. while the opposite is true in low social trust situations. In high social trust areas people are generally trusting of their neighbours and happy to e.g. leave their doors unlocked while the opposite is true in low social trust situations. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.silly for you to chase around a non tangible number Another intangible social construct is people's perceptions of "social trust" on a scale of 1-10. This number basically estimates how much people trust strangers in their society (e.g. people perceptions of if they left their wallet in a public place for 30mins, would they be able to get it back when they returned etc.). I'd much rather live in a place with high perceived social trust than low perceived social trust. This is chasing an intangib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Sure, just like I am entitled to think it makes great sense to chase women who at least give off the impression that this number is low (but stay on guard). How do you find out a women’s body count? You can never be certain. However people generally tend to be similar to their friends, and you can ask her about her friends, as well as ask her friends about her and average the results. You can also look at what her parents were like, her relationship with her father etc. You can get her blind dru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I have been to places where they shit in bushes. I prefer localities with toilets. Much like how I prefer places where women are discouraged societally from sleeping around (e.g. Israel where it is completely legal, but very few women do this). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.not every sexual encounter is an LTR attempt And not every job is an attempt to make a career in the area. Someone who only prefers to take on short term jobs or even has a largeish portion of career dedicated to only short term stuff is also a pretty big red flag if you're hiring for a long term permanent position (because you have to ask why do they do this etc.). Generally hiring costs are so high that if you suspect the candidate will leave before 1 year it makes sense to reject them right t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women."I'm really insecure and the idea that my girl previously had sex with someone who's not me makes me feel inadequate and upset." Sort of, that's true. I am human, and as a human I have insecurities, one very very common evolutionarily ingrained insecurity in male humans is that of wasting resources on other people's progenies which manifests itself as finding women who slept around as extremely "Ew" (no different to women's evolutionarily ingrained desire to be protected manifesting itself as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Sure, we also have this intangible social construct called "public decency" that is used to shame people who shit outside in broad daylight, which is also something that is literally natural. Is public decency also a silly social construct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Many things like justice, human rights and freedom are intangible social constructs. Doesn't mean they are something we should get rid of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Assuming both parties are clean STD-wise, why does it even matter? Assuming you don't have any alcohol in your system now, why do those 10 DUIs on your record even matter at all if you're applying for a job as a delivery driver? That is what you sound like... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I only covertly ask if I am considering her as a long term option (like you said, it really isn't important for short term mating). The fact that you don't get asked probably means the men you are with see you as a low value short term thing only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Started totally randomly, just as with everything else and then spread by selection. Genes really really care about spreading themselves, sometimes to the detriment of the individual too ; e.g. see genomic imprinting and how this means that most of the genes that make the placenta bigger (which transfers resources from the mother to the fetus) come from the father rather than the mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 11 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.He said they were both broken... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 15 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.At a very minimum high n counts are bad in the same way a CV history of jumping multiple jobs is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:12 PM |
| 5 | If western dating is not working for you try somewhere elseImporting a wife to the US is almost certain to lead to a divorce Yeah, this is a bigger concern than is being pointed out. As they say: even if you put good food in a dirty dish, the food eventually goes bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Western women, western men and perceived valuetru tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Western women, western men and perceived valuebut i said no and only muslim women You are pretty wise in this matter. Mashallah. I hope you are able to find a good wife and in turn are a good husband to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.No, that is one (big) component of her value. Other factors also exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.And employers are free to mark down your application for having large unexplained gaps (as they should do, since unexplained gaps are very rarely a good thing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.Massively reduced relationship value. Doesn't make her any less of a human being, but reduces her value for relationships. This is no different to how someone who is extremely risk averse would not make a good business partner; it doesn't reduce their value as a human, but I absolutely wouldn't want to go into a business relationship with someone who's scared of betting small amounts on positive expectancy bets when the exact probabilities are known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.Other fun fact, these types of herpresviruses like cytomegalovirus that the majority of people in the world have can superinfect you even if you already have them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?source: the us census LMAO what? Here are direct results for height and weight from the US census, stratified by age from 2007-2008. If anything adults have been getting shorter on average since 1990 in the US (and you can also see this in the data since it is age stratified) so now the 50th percentile will be even lower: https://www2.census.gov/library/publications/2010/compendia/statab/130ed/tables/11s0205.pdf 50th percentile height is always between 5'9'' and 5'10''. 6' is 80th percentile. Al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 12:46 AM |
| -1 | What solutions would you guys propose?Convert to Islam (unironically). It is the successor ideology in the west that is going to conquer all, like it or not. Also if all the shit turns out to be true you get to go to Heaven too; fascism can't give you that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 4 | What solutions would you guys propose?Yep, they are liberalising in the sense that they are equalising men/women's rights, however they aren't doing it the same way as the west. E.g. 200 years ago it was relatively easy for men to divorce women but almost impossible for the opposite. In the west with feminism we equalised it by making it easy for women to divorce too, in Muslim countries they are equalising by doing the opposite; namely making it hard for men to divorce as well (e.g. through banning the Talaq system). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 6 | What solutions would you guys propose?a future in which France turns into a Muslim country Inshallah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:41 AM |
| 9 | What solutions would you guys propose?Young guys are mostly creeps. LMAO no, young guys nowadays are more awkward than 30y ago, but that is it. Women these days are far more shut in to the point they interpret innocuous normal conversation as hitting on them (spoiler: it isn't). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 6 | What solutions would you guys propose?If she thinks having an IG is necessary, she's not worth dating. LMAO, so true. Show me a girl who gets wet for my GitHub instead and we've got ourselves a match made in heaven (subject to the usual attractiveness criteria being met). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:36 AM |
| 7 | What solutions would you guys propose?"Bars and restaurants is a sneaky way of saying OLD for the people who don't want to look like losers, so they say they met for the first time at a restaurant, even though they had matched and chatted online first a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?Don't forget that at age 40 the risk of your child having Down's (1%) is the same as the risk of severe genetic illnesses from having a child with your cousin. Society strongly shames the latter, but not the former even though the negative impacts are similar... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone.Yep, pure maths, and lots of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone.Mathematics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerWomen have never sexually objectified men as much as vice versa. But they are starting to, which is the reason for this entire situation. Women want a visually/physically appealing partner more than they ever have before. And it's not going to become less as women become more independent. Correct, however this is not a good thing at all. Men sexually objectify women more, but they are easily satisfied, so the total impact on the market is minimal (very few women totally lose out); when women sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAww thank you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust have sex with her as long as possible and then move on? This one is the right answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the other good part of being like Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerWell, they're being disqualified for a long term relationship, not for being strung along for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:32 PM |
| 8 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerThe issue is the 50th percentile man is not attractive to the 50th percentile woman, who is no looker herself while the opposite is sort of true. Plus women's standards (much more so than men) are known to be highly relative to her other potential options so if everyone improved equally nothing would change at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 6 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerSelf improvement is an individual level solution. However we have a societal level problem here. Saying "self improvement" is the answer for everyone struggling in the dating market is like the chair of the Fed telling millions of unemployed people during a recession to spice up their CV and wear a suit to interviews; this is extremely tone deaf (all good advice for individuals, but does nothing to resolve the structural reasons causing the high unemployment rate). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone.LMAO, same. Just last week I had a recruiter beg me to at least have an exploratory call for an excellent job paying £250,000 plus (I work in high finance) that I rejected because I'm happy where I am and just can't be bothered. Apply that to Tinder and you see how it makes women entitled very easily (I've certainly fired off my share of "what shit is this, how desperate/low standards do you think I am?" replies to recruiters advertising job opportunities paying multiples of the median salary in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Low standard in men ruin dating for everyone.Yep, the difference is "slightly higher" standards. However modern technology takes this minor difference and magnifies it x100 to the point it dominates every other consideration. No different to how in the early days of the pandemic (before governmental support to individuals was announced) bog standard jobs were getting 100s of applicants (unthinkable before the rise of technology) because the slight imbalance towards employers was massively magnified and after the support was made available … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLDFunnily enough that guy is forced to follow the same strategy, because if he doesn't swipe blindly but everyone else does he's still just one face in the sea for you so he's unlikely to find you, but now he's unlikely to match other women too. This is a textbook example of a market failure that needs outside intervention to correct. Unfortunately for monetary reasons Match is never going to do anything to fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLDOne simple solution to this problem would be to show men like 10 profiles a day but only allow 2 matches, that way they have to choose who they actually like/think they have a shot with. It'd also lessen the deluge women face and in general lead to more compatible matchings (since men had to choose you over other women if they swiped right on you). One can guess why Tinder doesn't do this... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLDHonestly Tinder et al. need to be banned for their distortive effect on the market, no different to how we ban invasive species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to provideGod I hope this so so happens, more because I don't want my taxes supporting leeches than anything, but the schadenfreude will be the cherry on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to providewomen earning `significantly` more than the man is just a disaster in waiting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you realistically bring to "the table"?If you weren't low tier you'd have made up something else and said that instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 4 | What do you realistically bring to "the table"?I'll up the offer to a 3ct ring if you can recommend someone like yourself... I suspect most men feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you realistically bring to "the table"?In that case why would the ever continue to date you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | What is up with with "men peak later in life" bullcrap ?There was this idiotic Redtardit cringe thing about "the narwhal bacons at midnight" a few years ago, I suspect the flair comes from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo editors have any semblance of self-awareness? What do you think? The answer is No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 3 | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?Yep, and the reason they did this in the past was to make sure people paired up with their looksmatches (through very strong shaming of extramarital relations). Now that marriage is no longer absolutely required this restriction no longer does what it was supposed to and needs to either be updated, or dropped completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?It might seem like it, but people should have the right to do whatever. Here in the UK the government restricts the maximum hours of work you are allowed to do for an employer in a single week. This clearly goes against the right to "do whatever" but I (and most other people) support this law because it stops employers from stipulating extreme working conditions (>70 hrs work week) onto employees (yes the employees could just "choose" to leave the job and work elsewhere but in reality it really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Fair enough, however this discrepancy can be resolved in two ways: by allowing women to sleep around too or restricting bad behaviour from men (no woman wants to be a second wife). Western society chose the former, modern middle eastern societies etc. chose the latter and it looks like familial cohesion is much stronger in those countries than the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Very much not casual sex, and in Islam as a man you take on a huge duty towards any woman you marry so they paid a pretty big "price" for that sex, not casual at all (e.g. under Islam the man is responsible for 100% of childcare costs, to the point of paying for a wet nurse if she doesn't want to breastfeed). An equivalent situation would be something like a law requiring a woman to pay 10% of all her future lifetime earnings to any man she ever slept with that she didn't end up marrying. It wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?LMAO, no they couldn't. Society very very strongly morally discouraged men too, see e.g. A Rake's Progress by the famous painter William Hogarth (painted in the 1730s) which depicts the downfall of a promiscuous man (he also painted A Harlot's Progress which is the same from a woman's point of view, both series of paintings were extremely successful and sold tons of prints). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Average guys were also shamed very strongly for doing this. The top men is not and never was "all men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Just want different people's views in this issueExcellent. I'm actually pro both abortion/financial abortion but its good to see logical consistency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Just want different people's views in this issueYep. Unless you're saying he's going to have to pay child support to his rapist (since at that point the sex turned into rape). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Just want different people's views in this issueApply this to abortion too and we have ourselves a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasYou're shaming him again for dating people of his own maturity level, plus it probably helps that they're better looking... He literally just wants someone with the same level of relationship experience as him, which almost forces him to go younger. Is that objectionable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 0 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasDoesn't matter. This is a debate sub where everyone can reply. You were shaming him for his preferences and I called you out on it. Simple as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 0 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasStop the shaming pls. He doesn't want older women and their baggage. He has the same level of relationship experience as a 20yo woman, so he wants someone on his own level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?This. You can have strong rights for women while still being culturally very very against hookups and maintain a high birth rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 02:42 PM |
| 6 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menWell, if abortions aren't ever great then that is one more reason to stay away from activities that could lead to a child. Just keep your legs closed and you'll never need an abortion (barring rape etc. in which case yes I agree abortion should be freely available). But sure live in your fancy place where men and women have the same reproductive systems and can both abort the baby when they feel like it. Exactly. Lets just shift to a system where neither can abort when they feel like it unless t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 0 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menNah, no need to jail them immediately. Just fine them some really big amount that they can slowly pay off monthly over I don't know, 18 years maybe? And then jail them if they refuse to pay up... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 6 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menSure, those are all good reasons for abortion (lifestyle is a bit iffy, but others are solid). They aren't reasons for on demand abortion for no reason at all though. Genetic illnesses can be tested for, potential health dangers are usually known well in advance. The Abortion Rights side won't settle for that though. They want full availability to women for any reason the woman wants, even though she is healthy, wealthy and the fetus is normal. BTW, that seethe I mentioned? It's already manifest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menFunnily enough all 50 states have safe harbour laws where a woman can just drop off her newborn baby no strings attached and walk away from it, leaving the taxpayers to foot the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 32 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menSo if a man doesn't want a child, don't partake in activities that are known to result in a child Replace man with women and use this as an argument against abortion to watch the very same people nodding their heads along right now to absolutely explode with seethe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:11 PM |
| – | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?Nope, this is false. The west actually has more mental illnesses (not to say they are not underdiagnosed elsewhere, they are, but not to the extent that would account for the differences between the west and the east). Certain mental illnesses happen at basically constant rates in all populations, Schizophrenia is the most apparent example, in pretty much any society 0.5% of people are Schizophrenic. Hence you can compare the rate of diagnosis of Schizophrenia to what it should be if all cases w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?Funnily enough 300 years ago men were the ones that dressed up while women were usually plain. Go look at pictures of lords and ladies just before the French revolution and you'll see the difference. It's amazing how much societal standards can change things over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadI think it's hilarious how the west is basically trying to "cancel" a whole country now. All this will serve to do is infuriate the populace and hasten the increase of the growing divide between east and west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadNah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesk thx. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesYep. It's true. Search it up. It's not my job to educate you. Sweety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesMen age slower in general because they have thicker skin. Women can ameliorate this difference by having a very good skincare routine but very few do. Also after 30+ women start caring about non-looks factors mostly while men are still looks based, so the declining looks hits them worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 5 | The myth of "settling"This. Also note how actually rich people don't live in "houses with good bones" but "mansions" which shows what people's actual wants unburdened by real life considerations are. Same with this analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 19 | The myth of "settling"I agree, from Women's point of view OP makes complete sense and men need to understand that women are just doing what is best for them in that moment, without regard to men's feelings. However equally this applies to men seeking out younger women for partners where men are doing what is best for them without regards to women's feelings. Let see some consistency in the level of acceptance/condemnation given to both of these things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadLMAO exactly. There is actually a huge insurgency going on in Mali that has wreaked far more havoc than the Russia/Ukraine conflict and I would say 90%+ of Anglophone people don't even know it is happening... I personally have only seen this mentioned in Le Monde (French newspaper) and none of the English language media I consume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-Thread5%. Possible but highly unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | The Economist reporting on what science says is the best age gap for relationships.When a friend opts to date someone who is old enough to be their parent, a common response is to see if the decision passes the “half their age plus seven” test. The rule, whose origins remain mysterious, has been passed down through generations as a way of justifying or, more commonly, pouring scorn on other people’s couplings. It’s fine for a 22-year-old to go out with an 18-year-old. It’s not ok for a 38-year-old to go out with a 23-year-old, however a 26-year-old would be fair game. The olde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 9 | The Economist reporting on what science says is the best age gap for relationships.Plenty of women who never want children still choose the guy making 6 figures over the broke dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 11 | The Economist reporting on what science says is the best age gap for relationships.Or younger. Best for women if you marry same age. But best for men if they marry younger. You might not be able to get the same quality of man your age though compared to if you were to go for someone older which would also affect how much your life sucks. It's all a tradeoff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 8 | The Economist reporting on what science says is the best age gap for relationships.No different to women choosing to date a guy who makes 6 figures over someone who is broke because he'll be able to better provide for her and her children in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:02 AM |
| 4 | These days, women don't hit the wall until they're 40Like why couldn’t that 40yo score a partner their own age? This is not how it works for men. Most 40yo single men would only date 40yo women if they couldn't score a 25-30yo, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 3 | These days, women don't hit the wall until they're 40Yeah, my mother is approaching 50 and can still pass for 30. As long as you ain't a crakkka or fatso significant visible aging is really not an issue until after menopause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 6 | The Economist reporting on what science says is the best age gap for relationships.No, what I want is for women to shut up and stop saying men only go after young women because they are predators. It is clear that there are perfectly legitimate reasons why men prefer to date someone significantly younger than them if they are able to (such as having someone healthy there to care for them in old age). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Russia vs Ukraine Mega-ThreadWTF I love Putin now... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | “Dual Mating Strategy” doesn’t matter if you’re not young and hotLMAO, amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itYes, keep playing it until you find someone else who might be a better fit for your values. Then jump ship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:08 AM |
| 5 | How many “triple 6” men do you know?This. After about 26-27 maintaining a 6 pack is a full time hobby, you don't get one with just basic cardio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:05 AM |
| 6 | How many “triple 6” men do you know?I made 6 figures when I was still 21. First job out of college. Not that rare in finance or software dev any more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.Because the average woman swipes on 4% of guys while the average guy swipes on 60% of women. GINI has has nothing to do with the actual amount of likes, just their distribution. Even if women swiped on 80% of guys men's GINI could still be higher than that for women (if e.g. they swiped on the same 80% and left the other 20% with nothing) and even if they swiped on just 1% of men men's GINI could be equal to 0 if the swiping was completely random. They want the 4% of men that are the top in thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.Yes, men are very samey, however women are even more samey. The GINI index (which measures inequality) for men on Tinder in terms of likes is higher than that for women meaning that likes for men are even more unequally distributed than they are for women. Most guys are smashing anything that could get a modeling gig. The vast vast majority of people are nowhere near model tier looks. If you only compare model tier men vs model tier women then yes, men are more samey but when you look at the who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:18 PM |
| 6 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.Women are more samey in their "types" than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought Gimp was in Sweden? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWorldwide I agree, men have it better. In the West though? Easily women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSend me an invite pls if you can, I'd like to join. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 3 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateImplying that modern care homes are not already this... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateThe children of two UMC people encouraged to have kids "before they are ready" will grow up with a UMC culture and habits, which is fine. College students are poor but they aren't poor for the same reasons trailer park inhabitants are poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateDemographic inversion is also causing dating issues for men, with a normal healthy pyramid the number of men (who date down in age usually) are evenly matched with the women they are courting (slightly more men that women are born each year) since the pyramid is expanding, e.g. in a year 1 M men and 0.95 M women were born. However 3 years later 1.05 M men and 1 M women were born so those 1 M men can match with the women 3 years younger and everyone is happy. With an inverted pyramid 3 years late… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 5 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateNot only this but everyone hates to work into their 30s and 40s. This. My father (approaching 50) got a big bonus that meant he wouldn't need a source of money for the rest of his life and basically semi retired from his highly demanding job, taking on a softer role in a different company that allowed him to go into the office once every two weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 3 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare Stateas having kid before you have financial stability tends to just mean you raise kids in poverty, and kids raised in poverty tend to stay in poverty. I strongly strongly doubt this. The reason people in poverty have kids that end up in poverty is mostly to do with attitudes that lead to poverty in the first place being passed down. If you get people who eventually become financially successful their kids will turn out pretty good, e.g. see Asian immigrants who raise their children in Poverty who t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | The Economics of Singledom in the Welfare StateIndividually no they won't get less poor. Societally with time yes, more kids means more workers (eventually) which means more output meaning more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy on DisplayTrans women are amazing. Pity that unfortunately we don't have the technology to make their bodies indistinguishable from cis women. If I was given a choice between two identical looking women, one with a female brain and one with a male brain (with all the behaviours that are typically associated with them) I would absolutely go for the one with a male brain, and trans women brains are much more similar to male brains than female ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 28 | Hypergamy on DisplayAnd women who are hugely successful in their careers have said they think it hurts their romantic prospects. As Maureen Dowd wrote in her book “Are Men Necessary? When Sexes Collide,” the day one of her friends won the Pulitzer, the woman called her "in tears," saying that as a result, she'd "never get a date." Federal judge Frederic Block wrote in his book that Sonia Sotomayor considered turning down her nomination to the Supreme Court because she knew it would hurt her dating life. To state th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for menHonestly at this point I'd take the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?And this screws up the whole dating marketplace for both these women and the men they will eventually end up with. Far far better to create a situation without all this casual sex where people pair up with their looksmatches in LTRs. It takes a very specific type of person to be able to engage in casual sex without suffering negative consequences. Most women (and men) are not that type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:05 PM |
| -1 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?but half of the people in that photo look fairly normal. This is damning with faint praise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?LMAO. I've personally seen women get visibly disgusted when I tell them the amount of makeup and tanning male dancers (competitive ballroom dancers, not what your dirty mind is thinking) wear when we perform (it's to cover up imperfections and avoid looking washed out under the bright light). One minute they are all swooning over the graceful moves and tailcoats and the next they are absolutely disgusted. Lady, we wouldn't look anywhere near as good from the sidelines if we weren't wearing stage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?This. Women are doing what is best for themselves given our current culture. You can't blame them for this anymore than you can blame someone for e.g. voting republican to get a tax cut for themselves. The whole system is screwed up and we need to shift to a paradigm where people doing what is best for themselves correlates strongly with what is best for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem?EDIT: solution 2. - Much more cruel: Forcibly control birth rates and make efforts to keep the male - female ratio 20 / 80. Kill off unfit male babies and let only the most healthy looking male babies with potential to be tall and good looking live. If they at any point in life gain weight and get fat, literally put them into prison and force them to lose weight. Gym memberships and working out 6 times a week with visible results mandatory for every male up until the age of retirement. Literally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:31 AM |
| 5 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?This, passive dread game works both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?In laws are some of the best marriage saving tools there are. In places with low divorce rates there are often strong relationships not just between you and the in laws but also between your parents and your spouse's parents. Marriage is seen as more of an alliance between two families rather than between two people. The extra support from both sides helps keep together far more marriages than e.g. in the west (and married couples aren't more dissatisfied on average relative to singles either, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What should be the consequence of false paternityDecapitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,Just because we don't care in Women Approved (TM) ways does not mean we don't care at all. I care deeply for my friends and even have some I would take a bullet for. Got any friends of yours you would do the same for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,what is your best friend's birthday? Don't know but can find out on Facebook in a minute if I need to what did you get him for christmas? Nothing, same as what he got me. did you bring him flowers in the hospital and sit with him the last time he was there? No, I don't even know when was the last time he was in hospital. Unless it is super serious it really doesn't matter. Equally I don't want my friends to come visit me when I'm sick in a hospital bed. do you show up at his house empty handed w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,because men treat their friends like crap. No they don't. My friends treat me like I treat them (if anything I actually do more for them than they do for me, but I'm happy to do that for quality friendships) and I wouldn't call it being treated like crap at all. Just because they don't worship the ground I walk on does not mean they don't treat me well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 17 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,lmao, you think that not acting as entitled as the Queen of Sheba means you are male property. I don't think of any of my male friends as property but as true equals, however if I treated a woman like that there is no way she'd ever get into a relationship with me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 26 | Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months,Oh yes, women's demands have shot through the roof so much that relationships just aren't worth the effort any more if you are good looking enough to keep a FWB instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe increase is minor, nothing like the increased risk of older women giving birth to someone with Downs (at age 40 this is 1%, same as the risk of genetic abnormalities from impregnating your cousin) or not being able to conceive at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is excellent... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh yes, "transitory". This is why you don't print like there is no tomorrow kids! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?Erm, no; why would you even think that? Men aren't hypergamous like women; as long as we're happy with the 7 we'd stay (unless the man is a natural cheater, in which case nothing you do can stop him from cheating). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSmh inflation... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs I've been saying, legacy women are deprecated and will be removed altogether sometime in the next few patches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEasily the hooker, provided she has no STDs. At least the hooker knows her worth and is providing a valuable service to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 01:21 PM |
| -1 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?That is why you have multiple children, to minimise the probability they all leave you. Also you raise them with a culture that emphasises the importance of family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 11:46 PM |
| -2 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?Sure, agreed, which is why you have multiple children to minimise the risk that none of them like you enough to care for you. Culture also plays a big part here though, in cultures where children are socially expected to take care of parents they are more likely to do it than ones where it is seen as fine to dump them in a care home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 12:18 PM |
| 4 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?LMAO, the best thing for when you are old is kids. If you have a good relationship with them and raise them properly they will take care of you in old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 11:50 AM |
| 10 | How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age?This. Although in previous generations (before WWII) there was an expectation to live in extended families so in retirement you would be living with your children who would provide care for you, hence depending on how successful they were (a big function of how well you raised them) you and your partner could still have a good life in old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 11:48 AM |
| 16 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?True, insecurity is a big part of it. But that is fine, men are human, not rational automatons, and part of being humans is having insecurities (same as women's heightened far of being attacked in dark places etc.). As a good partner you have to understand these insecurities and soothe them, just like how you have to comfort women afraid of walking on a dark street alone at night, showing them assault statistics is not going to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLMAO you can see how heavily the second pic has been filtered for the OnlyFans. See e.g. how the jaw has suddenly become much more feminine. It's either filters or masseter botox (with filters on top probably). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Also wanted to respond to this: I've seen studies showing that abstinence sex-ed doesn't really bring any positive results. Yep, teaching kids nothing other than staying abstinent does not work at all and if anything increase teen pregnancy rates. However even the big studies that find this like this one: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3194801/ say stuff like (bolding mine): Based on a national analysis of all available state data, our results clearly show that abstinence-only educ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Never said it would be easy. You definitely will need to convince the state about it. It's basically a whole different way of thinking. Even smoking took decades of effort to change the psyche of society. Definitely not something you flip a switch on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Casual doesn't have any health-related side-effects You sure? Here is a more concrete medical example with numbers, showing casual sex is more dangerous than COVID for young healthy people: For young healthy people the IFR rate for COVID is roughly 10<sup>-5</sup> which is 10 millimorts of risk. That corresponds to roughly an (assuming you have 70 years of life left) expected loss of 0.25 days of life from catching covid (you lose far more life from being sick etc.). Overall lets say you "lose" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?For young healthy people catching COVID absolutely does not have more adverse effects than the risks from casual sex (like getting hurt, manipulated, etc.). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:55 PM |
| 6 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Whacha gonna do 'bout it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Sure, I just sent another reply with COVID vaccines as the object of argument. There are minimal benefits to you personally if you are young and healthy of getting vaccinated but you still get the side effects that last a day or two, however we still nudge these people (pretty successfully) as a whole to get the vaccine because of the societal benefits. Not getting vaccinated has minimal downsides for an individual healthy young person, but we still successfully nudge against it. Run the same so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?And yes, you could say that these sort of campaigns are "shaming" but in that case I would agree and say shaming is necessary to get a societally superior outcome. In such a case the shaming would be short term bad for the vast majority of those who engage in casual sex but over time they too would see benefits from a better functioning society over all. A similar case can be made with e.g. COVID vaccines. The vaccines work pretty well and stop societal transmissions (at least with older variant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?You don't have to enforce anything. Just nudge against it. Nobody bans smoking inside your own house. However societally we've created strong nudges against it and lo and behold people now smoke less in their own house because of those nudges, even though they are just as free to do it if they want today as 60 years ago. Run the same campaigns against casual sex as were run against smoking and people will freely choose to have a lot less of it, even ignoring the health impacts completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Sure, however the government isn't campaigning on just letting people see all the facts of smoking and then deciding for themselves, it's going up close and personal in an attempt to get people to quit the habit. They are doing this for anything that can even be a gateway to cigarettes, even pipe tobacco has strong warnings, despite the fact that pipe smokers usually smoke far far less tobacco (and have correspondingly lower individual risks). If they just cared about the individual impacts they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?And equally there are huge negative societal complications of casual sex. Smoking is individually dangerous, but the real damage of it is the societal effects. The actual risk of you developing lung cancer at any point in your life if you started smoking a pack a day (which is a pretty big amount) right now and never stopped is between 10-15% (lower for women, more for men). This level of risk is perfectly acceptable to many teenagers etc. on an individual level; however the societal negative im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?You don't need to enforce one standard, just use "nudges" instead. For instance in western societies smoking is legal and any adult can choose to smoke if they wish. However there are very strong nudges against smoking with high taxes on tobacco, standardised ugly packaging, pictures of cancerous lungs on the packs etc., smoking being portrayed as "low class" in media that nudge people to not smoke. In previous generations it was expected that men especially would smoke and the societal baseline… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Except the issue is that a big portion of the population is not intelligent/conscientious enough to be taught to do this in such a way that they will actually apply it in their life without external societal pressure. The only way to make them not not choose the hedonistic paths is to have a "standard" expected path that eschews short term gratification for long term fulfilment but make it OK for people who have thought about it and genuinely believe that it isn't the best for them to deviate fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Except that when you let people decide fully for themselves they disproportionately take the easy way out and go down the path that requires the least effort/feels best right now, long term consequences be damned. Then they act surprised when things predictably go south over time and ask to be bailed out by the ones who had more foresight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Based and Proverbs pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Not true for all women. Plenty of smart women out there. But definitely true for a large enough proportion of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:23 PM |
| 16 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?MUH-SOGGY-KNEES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, honestly the worst thing about the US is not all the "freedom" it goes around exporting but its culture and how it changes the psyche of non-westerns to match the belief system of its own inhabitants. It's basically a mind virus. I'd rather have sporadic actual drone bombs bring dropped; at least they don't destroy the entire fabric of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWut? How does a man being from the rape capital of the world have anything to do with his beliefs of US women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?The short, bald, fat guys have a chip on their shoulder. Yeah, of course they would. Under a dating climate that treated them better when they were younger they would still make good partners as they wouldn't be so jaded. However under our climate the "loser" men become jaded to the point on undatability, which leaves very few good available men that have no need to settle (since they have so many options) and are content to pass women around. Because of this, under a climate that treated the "s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?5% of 1000 men is 50 people. Tons of choices. The issue here is male thirst though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Do economic systems influence dating?Yeah, well that's life, pretty shit but what can you do... Remember to thank your parents for their sacrifices and the upbringing they gave you regularly though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do economic systems influence dating?never had a complaint from women other than being too safe and responsible lol. This is absolute something to show how economic (and social) systems influence dating. Where I'm from this is an absolute 100% positive, nobody would ever think negatively of you for being "too safe and responsible" because the lack of a non-familial safety net means that if you were to end up doing things that are not "safe and responsible" she and her kids would feel the pain pretty quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:46 PM |
| 7 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterBASED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?No, I just want her to be religious, that's it. Religious women who follow the texts don't stray because the punishment for that is hellfire (or being reincarnated as a cockroach or whatever). I'm also religious (alas not as practicing as I would like to be, but hopefully I will find the strength to change that soon) and I genuinely believe that promoting religion to her is good for her long term (worldly) outcomes too, guiding her towards the light (along with myself) has benefits both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?I fully intend to be a loving husband. I'm not going to even directly talk about how religion says you shouldn't stray, she will be perfectly capable of reading that herself from the holy texts and applying it to her life. The thing is that culture permeates everything and women suffused in a religious culture know to not stray far better than those whose culture is primarily derived from godless modernity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?This tells you literally nothing, since the US hasn't had a female president. It's like saying all the crabs in the pool are blue and very aggressive so green crabs (which have never been in this pool) must be less aggressive... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Wut? I also intend to become more religious myself (which is something I should be doing anyways) and I will do this before getting a wife. I'm not going to rope her in and then become more religious, but rather be upfront about it (although in my culture being more religious is an advantage, not a disadvantage as in the west, a man who prays five times a day is seen as more desirable) before the marriage contract is signed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Sure, that is from your prespective and that is fine. From society's perspective if you have failed to find a job in line with your expectations after a long period of searching it is more likely that your expectations are too high, and that we should stop subsidising it (which is why the benefit tapers off over time). Then either you use your own savings to keep up those high expectations or you accept a lower paid job because you've run out of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, either trans women are women which means they are treated exactly like women by society, or they aren't which means society doesn't see them as full women. As someone who is 100% on team trans (I actually look good in a dress with some socks stuffed down my shirt) if you don't treat a transwoman exactly the same as a legacy woman that means you are transphobic, no ifs or buts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:06 PM |
| 24 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?It is clear the in Europe at least, when a country had a woman as a ruler it was more likely to start wars of aggression (as well as more likely to end up in wars). See this piece by the Economist: https://www.economist.com/europe/2017/06/01/who-gets-into-more-wars-kings-or-queens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?I would be unemployed before I took a job that paid me 1/10th of what I'm used to Societally this is extremely damaging, since at 1/10th you're still contributing more than if you just stay unemployed forever. Hence why in many countries the unemployment benefits taper off to zero if you refuse any job offer a certain period of time since you started collecting benefits (since you are free to look for higher paying jobs while working the one paying you 1/10th). If you don't want that 1/10th job … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Yes, agreed I'm not willing to date them. However the women you are talking about are bottom 20% and even then I still don't match with a surprising number of them, so they aren't even options too! Men probably don't want to date bottom 20% options, women regularly discard options not in the top 20%, there is a difference (for analogy, not wanting food out of a dumpster is OK, not wanting Michelin 2 star food because you only like 3 star food is not OK). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Money is more evenly distributed than physical attractiveness (lower GINI in almost every country compared to e.g. likes on Tinder). The prostitute is discriminating less in who she provides sex to. What she is doing is straight up better for society than the women having casual sex for her own pleasure (the prostitute may well derive pleasure from it too). Most Johns also try and make some sort of connection with the women they pay to have sex with. It's really better for both parties that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?And I have extremely high standards myself. I'm highly intelligent, well spoken, well read, extremely educated, multilingual, never drink or do drugs, decently social, have an extremely well paid job, know how to entertain people and generally get along well with everyone, believe in the sanctity of marriage, very selfless (I would do anything for the right woman), slightly above average looks, think the casualisation of casual sex is societally damaging and would never partake in it, think of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Yep, the axe murderer is an option. Not a very good option (and one I would encourage you to avoid) but still an option. Fortunately the sort of options average women get a lot of are far better than axe murderers, plenty of decent dudes that they have been socially conditioned into thinking are not attractive in that bag. And anyway, that means all the men you're speaking of have options among woman lunatics and even those they simply don't find attractive. Well I don't have a bunch of female l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?The prostitute also willingly does it. She just gets paid on top too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Yeah, it's my biggest fear. I can get a good woman from back home easily. However as they say: "If you put good food in a dirty dish, eventually it goes bad" and my biggest concern is how to minimise the chance of this happening. My best idea so far is to become more religious (already somewhat religious) and promote the importance of it over the worldly life to my future wife at all points to reduce the chance that she strays... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?The fact that you don't exercise an option does not mean it is not an option. It might have very little value (which e.g. having a beggar interested in you does compared to having a prince say), but it is still an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Plenty of people who can get laid normally use prostitutes because they don't feel like putting in the effort on the day or because they want to have sex with someone more attractive than what they can normally get. If someone slept with lots of girls both normally and in this way would you be fine with marrying them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?We can calibrate the scales using something like photofeeler where they rate photos in terms of percentiles (which gets dozens of independent people to rate your photos for you). If you have 70th percentile photos as a man your attraction scale equivalent is 70th percentile women. However these women tend to want to date 90th percentile+ men. That is what he means by consistently dating up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 10 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?If a man holds no appeal, why should he be considered an option? Because he can still take you out. The man holding no appeal to you is an internal problem with you. If you wished for whatever reason you could have a date set up tomorrow. Men having no options at all is an external problem. I can't get a date set up for tomorrow no matter how much I want it. Just because you don't like your options does not mean you don't have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?These are jobs you are never going to take, so are they actual options? Yes. They are options because we could think of terrible situations that basically force you to take them when you will be glad you have the option (very rare but possible). Optionality has value, that's like the first thing you learn when doing finance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?And once one of those 10% of men enters into an exclusive relationship with one of the 80% of women, This is where your argument fails. The exclusive relationships rarely happen for these top 10% men, they just pump and dump... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 21 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?And this is why men often prefer women from traditional backgrounds for marriages. That way she can't just willy nilly discard you without bringing great shame upon her whole family (which is something she has been taught to do everything to avoid her whole life). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?There are actual escorts in this thread whose experiences go against this. They openly say the average John is a nicer, kinder, better human being and someone who treats them better than the average Tinder hookup (this is a view shared by most actual working girls). Unless you agree that hookup culture and casual sex is also seeped in mysogyny (and thus is not OK from either the male or female side) your point is moot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Lmao yes exactly. I agree with you completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Lol yes. These people have no idea... BTW I greatly respect the sort of work you do and the service escorts as an industry provide for society. I wish you the best of luck in the future... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Things that can’t actually discuss with someone they are emotionally intimate with. Because those women they are emotionally intimate with would lose attraction for them if they did. That is why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?And men aren't mad at the fact they aren't having sex. A lot of men are mad that they were lied to about what it took to have sex. This. In traditional culture countries pretty much nobody is getting sex before marriage, and the men aren't mad about it at all. In "modern" societies what they get mad about is the perception of missing out on what they believe should be theirs sine they followed all the "rules" society said would get them a good loving partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Furthermore, even if you personally believe that casual sex ‘cheapens’ sex, it does not attach a dollar value to it. It attaches a dollar value of precisely $0 to it. There is no "love" in casual sex as there is supposed to be with sex in a committed relationship. It is hedonism, pure and simple. That is why I see prostitution as valuing sex at higher amounts than casual sex. There are also plenty of feminists out there who consider prostitution immoral but who are not opposed to casual sex, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:49 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Yep, men are generally less neurotic than women (this is one of the most replicated findings in psychology). The neuroticism manifests in different ways overall. The insecurity isn't really neuroticism, it's jealousy which is a different thing entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Only parts of STEM are male dominated. Biological sciences are now actually female dominated and mathematics is even outside of the top colleges. Medicine is also female dominated. Overall it evens out for a slight (very slight) bias towards men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 7 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadWell, don't be surprised when we men call you out on your opinion then and discard it completely, no different to how women treat men in the reversed (mutatis mutandis) situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Men can get insecure over just a couple of serious past relationships, not to mention a dozen Tinder hook-ups. As they should. We are humans not purely rational automatons. That’s why there’s a push to get men to realize that it doesn’t matter what somebody’s body count is. This is idiotic and no better than trying to brainwash a very very deep seated instinct in humans. Like all such attempts in the long run this is doomed to fail. Consider the fact that women are more neurotic than men (very w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?If you consider making sex into a commodity immoral The reason why making sex into a commodity is often thought of as immoral is because this is seen as cheapening it. However with casual sex it's already been cheapened to the point of having next to no value at all so you don't get any extra cheapening (thus any extra immorality) from allowing prostitution. I can definitely see a consistent belief system being against prostitution as long as it was also against all forms of casual sex, I can ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?You should want to spoil them, even if you can’t for whatever reason. LMAO No, this is terrible advice. For the benefit of any men seeing this, please don't fall into this trap. Live your own life, women come and go, stop caring about what they think or feel, look after yourself first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?No, I believe this is the true equivalence since men having lots of casual sex is not the same as women having lots of casual sex (it's much harder for the men, so they get a sort of "prestige boost" when they do it). I'll reproduce another comment I posted in this thread: No, for a man sleeping with many women carries a sense of accomplishment that women don't get (since he was selected by many women, the choosier gender). This accomplishment colours our views of them. Sleeping with hookers is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?And chances are, that sex is way below the baseline for what I consider good sex. Still far superior to jerking off for a man. Again, I can't imagine a scenario in which a guy who is too tired to flirt is going to be worth fucking . That's not what we are discussing here. It's about whether it's reasonable for men to get prostitutes because they are too tired to hit the clubs for the night but still prefer actual sex over jerking off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I don't use a script, that was just meant to represent the process from talking to her for the first time to going home with her. I don't even hate bars, I just don't have it in me to go to one right now after everything I did today. Much like how I can't eat my favourite food when I'm absolutely full. I do have it in me to have sex though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Eh, I'm in my room. The nearest decent bar is a 10 minute tube ride away. I'd have to dress up, go out in the cold, stand on a packed tube with strangers. Go to the bar with loud obnoxious music blasting into my years, scan out girls to find someone who seems interested, shout over the music, run the whole script etc., if all goes well convince her to come back to my place (which I'd also need to tidy up to make presentable to improve my chances of closing the deal) and then have sex. That is to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I'm too tired to flirt right now but would be happy to bang. Jerking off is nothing like the real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Really? Suppose man comes back real tired from work but wants to have sex tonight. Doesn't want to get dressed and go to the club/bar since the day's work took all that energy from him. He's pretty sure he could get a girl if he went but he's just too tired. On a different day he'd have no issue hitting the bar. However he still wants to have sex tonight. So he orders a hooker and has sex with her. Still the red flag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:07 AM |
| -1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?No, for a man sleeping with many women carries a sense of accomplishment that women don't get (since he was selected by many women, the choosier gender). This accomplishment colours our views of them. Sleeping with hookers is a way to get the high n count without the accomplishment, which makes it equal. For analogy: Suppose that the government suddenly announced that all men who take a shit on a bench in a public park would be awarded $1,000,000 while women who did this would get no such thing.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 26 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Clearly a hypocritical asshole. He needs to pile on the weight and become 400lb+ before he can rightfully lay claim on a big tiddie woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Yeah that’s a false equivalency my guy. No it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I wasn't distinguishing only prostitutes? Men find high N count disgusting for a variety of reasons. Women may also have those reasons but their disgust is attenuated by the fact that the man must have something going for him to be able to rack up such a big count. I wanted to create a high N count male situation where there wasn't this "extra something" going on in the background (he just paid for the sex, those women didn't find him attractive) to separate out the disgust reaction and ask the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 16 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I don't want a man that other women don't want. And this is a path that can only lead to misery (especially when all the other women think the same way). Why can't you evaluate men on your own terms ignoring what other women think of him? Pretty much no men care that the girl he's crushing on isn't desired by other men as long as he finds her attractive, if anything that's a positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I define n count as total number of people you've had any sort of penetrative intercourse with in any condition. I'd definitely include all prostitutes in the count (and equally that is why I say that here in the UK f you have a spare £1,000 you can easily get a higher N-count than the median man in the country even starting from a virgin). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Sure, in the place you are at I'd agree. Where I'm at though its perfectly legal. Ordering an outcall is not much more difficult than ordering dinner delivered to your home (I believe you do need to give more notice though, never used hookers myself) and you're basically paying for the convenience of getting the sex without having to "work for it" in a bar/club. Would you be fine with marrying men who did this when they lived in the past somewhere where this was legal and well regulated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?No its the equivalent of a girl who slept with lots of guys. The equivalent of the girl who aborted lots of babies is a serial child killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 33 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Sure, and equally there are a ton of studies showing that women with a large n-count make worse long term partners. However the women here still talk about how that shit doesn't matter because "it was all in the past, she's a different person now". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Mostly to try and recreate the visceral disgust reaction that many men have when presented with high n-count women; I believe prostitutes are the correct "disgust match" to those for women (since women on average see men with many previous partners as a positive due to preselection I wanted a situation where the preselection wasn't present). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Fine, but you must admit the vast vast majority of people are not like this at all. They'll pay for convenience (in a way a dishwasher is like this, you can wash plates/cutlery by hand for cheaper, all you need is a sink, but people still buy a dishwasher, same with washing machines and other modern appliances). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:18 PM |
| 12 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?You never paid for a takeaway or a meal at a restaurant even though you can cook? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 7 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?No, the man doesn't have trouble getting laid, he just doesn't want to put in the work and would prefer to pay instead. No different to how you might pay a cleaner to clean your house, doesn't mean you can't do it yourself, but that at this moment you don't want to put in the effort and would rather pay monetarily than in terms of "effort". It's no different to ordering takeaway rather than cooking on a night you got back late and tired from the office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?If you aren't handsome (7+/10) or drink alcohol/do drugs or go to frequent parties its very very hard to get sex with any decent frequency outside relationships for free these days. Paying escorts is about the only way to experience the "single lifestyle" for such men. I wouldn't say that any of being 6/10 and not drinking/doing drugs and not going to parties is a deal breaker for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:07 PM |
| 13 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Almost all men pay for sex, if not directly then indirectly... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | West Elm Caleb Mega-Threadand the women who say they don't find him attractive are kind of implying what he did would not work on them because he's not attractive to them LMAO, and also implicitly suggesting that the only reason what he did wouldn't work on them is because they didn't find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?If they were doing it for fun, they wouldn't be asking for money. Note that men there are no men who can get paid for having sex with women Funnily enough if you go on an escort listing site there are plenty of hot men listings that aren't gay and only sleep with other women, normally at a lower price than women but plenty of them even have verified feedback from women who booked them. Doesn't mean the man wasn't having any fun when he got paid to have sex with some rando woman (I suspect it's m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Thank you, it is good to see consistency in views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Sure, restrict my statement to high end prostitutes, in that case would you be fine with marrying a man who paid to sleep with a bunch of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Prostitues don't like their job. Most don't. However there are plenty that do (if you want I can pull up a bunch of listings from an escort listing site where it is pretty undeniable that the woman is an independent only doing this for fun). Would you be fine with marrying a dude who only slept with such prostitutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 8 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Prostitution is legal in places like the UK and even in Vegas in the US. Would you be fine with it if all the prostitutes he slept with were in a jurisdiction where this was legal and this was in government regulated brothels to ensure that there was no trafficking going on (e.g. by ensuring only people who were born citizens of the country could be allowed to work there)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Why do something for free when they could get paid for it? Suppose a woman really likes sex but isn't very picky. She can go to Tinder and get 100+ guys willing to hit it in an hour. She can also put up an escorting ad with what she does/doesn't do and name a price. She still gets guys, and now she gets paid for the sex she enjoys. Plenty of prostitutes write shit like "no black guys" and have strict lists of what they will/won't do to ensure that the experience is pleasant for everyone involved… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 4 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?As with any job there are prostitutes that enjoy having sex and even find it pleasurable. Plenty of non-desperate women engage in prostitution to make some money on the side even though they have a comfortable full time job. Would you be OK if a man exclusively paid to fuck these sorts of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill ideology isn't meant to be attractive to womenSo a lot of women out there have personality disorders I guess. This is a verified fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWelcome to the real life (TM). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAverages is different from outliers. There are men with zero sex drive at all, doesn't mean that men as a whole aren't more horny than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is an absolutely massive problem. Banning cousin marriage is probably one of the highest long term positive impact actions the government of Pakistan can take at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMuslim countries have really high rates of cousin marriage And this is one big reason why they've fallen behind. Cousin marriage needs to be banned for polluting the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd this is why I keep saying Tinder delenda est | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?Would they finally relax a bit on hypergamy without all the stress? Er, no. Infact they'll become even more hypergamous in the looks department since they don't care about money any more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?3 taxpayers paying for gender studies and womanism degrees? nah thanks. Only STEM degrees should be supported by the taxpayers, for the progress and greater good I can see myself supporting free education but it must be free education and nothing else attached on top, like a sort of community college where all you get is lectures, practicals if your subjects need it, library access and exams; none of this "campus culture" bullshit and spending 4 years partying on the taxpayer's dime. No dorms, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?US leads innovation over the past 800 years pal Ah yes, the United states, innovating since 1222 AD (TM). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:34 PM |
| -1 | Men's standards are too lowYep, and previously before women were fully independent from men both genders wanted each other equally (for different things though). However the so called "emancipation" of women has led to an imbalance in the yin/yang of gender relations and everyone is now suffering because of it (men mostly, but women aren't exactly a fan of being pumped and dumped either). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou think Tinder hoes would know what pyrite is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.But not a non-criminal man though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.That makes absolutely no difference here, criminal men are a small subset of all men. Non-criminal men are far more likely to end up dead or missing than non-criminal women, despite the fact that the non-criminal men don't cause anyone to end up dead or missing (by definition). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:24 PM |
| 8 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.No, my point is that women's fear of being harmed on a date stems from their fear of everything in general, it has nothing do with with men harming them on dates; if it was then their pattern of fear towards other non-date things would be different. Here is an example: Women are less likely to be subject to violence overall than men but more likely to be subjected to violence on a date. Rational women's response: Be less afraid than men on non-date things, be more afraid than men on date things.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:22 PM |
| 14 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.No, men die more from assault of all types, such as e.g. walking alone at night. However women "feel" far more unsafe than men. If women specifically cared about date dangers (rather than general neuroticism) then they would be much less afraid of walking alone at night than they are. That is why your point is whataboutism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 13 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.This is a more general statement than just for dating. Women are more neurotic about everything, not just the risks of being kidnapped on a date. If they delineated "dates" vs "non-dates" they would be a lot lot less scared about walking alone at night than they currently are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 20 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.There are far more dead and missing men than women who would disagree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themLMAO, they really don't even notice the difference in person, you think they remember the photo well enough to compare my real life smile to the 1cm widened smile on my photo? The picture is still undeniably me. And when I get them on the date they are already thinking of me as a sexual being which is that hardest part so win win. I'll probably do a before/after comparison and post it to PPD to compare how many more matches I start to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 3 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrEh, back then things were different (women weren't so fixated on height) and people were shorter in general. Grieg was 5'2" if I recall correctly and he was happily married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themLMAO, at least I'll get validation off of matches even if they don't go anywhere further than 1 date (besides I have good in person game, once women start talking to me in a romantic way I'm good at bedding them). Like good makeup the photoshop is really subtle, the person at the end is still you, they just have 1cm wider lips, 8mm more chin projection, a few mm narrower jaws, a slightly stronger nose, a few mm more prominent cheekbones, slightly hollower cheeks etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themWe can test this assertion by an experiment. Suppose we got two sets of photos from two different guys, one successful, one unsuccessful. Then we photoshop both sets of photos by changing stuff like chin height, jaw angularity, nose size etc. to make the hot guy look less good, and the ugly guy hot and then use these photos on the account and see how many matches they get. Since the personality is showing through the same in both sets of photos as before (as they are the same photos, the faces a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would highly recommend getting this done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themThis is about getting matches on OLD, which is before they can ascertain any personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleMale sexual imperative is to spread their seed far and wide by and method necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleLMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 20 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleBut plenty of men are "attractive to women" but not getting casual sex 3 times a week. I suspect most men would be fine with casual sex once every few months or even better a dedicated looksmatch partner with mutual love. That's what they are complaining about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?And in non-western countries women which still have these roles do freely choose them. In my extended family none of my uncles are preventing their wives from working, however there is a clear gradient where in the cases the husband earns more the wife is more likely to choose to stay at home because they don't need the money (or work only a few hours each day at her leisure when the kids are at school to occupy the time) compared to cases where they actually need two incomes to make ends meet (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?You do realize in the a truly trad set up it was the women who got the allowance as they weren’t allowed access to money without their spouse being present You do realize in the a truly trad set up it was the women who got the allowance as they weren’t allowed access to money without their spouse being present Normally their spouse would just sign off on whatever the woman wanted to buy, making sure it wasn't absolutely stupid, since women were expected to know what the household needed better t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?There are also tons of horror stories about terribles wives that men were unable to get away from. Traditional roles are terrible when they don't work, far worse than the modern situation since the woman doesn't have an out, so to speak. However when they do work (which for middle class+ women at least they usually did) the women normally comes out with an easier life than the man in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Only the really poor ones (and they also did that in the mid 1900s), the middle class women also worked before 1900s, but their work was done from the home. It isn't just washing clothes, it's also doing the dishes, knitting, salting food, making preserves, cooking (remember no oven), sewing, gardening growing vegetables, taking care of children etc. Back then this stuff would have taken up easily 10 hours a day. Middle class married women back in say the 1860s weren't working outside the home, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Yeah, these days the apps are designed to bring out the worst in their users. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Traditional roles worked for a large portion of the population and still do in many countries around the world. Ask women in India if they want to work 9-5 to earn a wage while their husband stays at home and they will look at you like you are crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Nope, the roles should not be forced, however there should be an expectation that you will take on these roles (i.e. they should be the default), however it should be perfectly fine for couples to mutually decide they don't want that if they have a good reason for why the roles should not apply to their particular case (e.g. the woman has far more career potential than the man in the relationship) and come up with their own arrangements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:50 PM |
| 5 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Yes, women worked, however they usually worked jobs that could be done from home. SAHM lounging around only happened for a few decades in the mid 1900s because home appliances like washing machines and dishwashers had automated the stuff women previously did that took them hours (have you tried washing clothes by hand, it is an absolute pain...) to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?I would argue traditional roles benefited women the most if they were done properly. It was the man's job to go out and slave and generate enough money by the sweat of his brow to keep the household running. Yes women had it worse if the man didn't do his part, she was basically stuck in a bad situation; however in cases where the man did uphold his side of the bargain he was working to make money for his wife to spend and in that case she was better off (see Japan where this still happens, in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 7 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?Men who opt to date down generally won't commit, and just take whatever sex they can get. This needs to be highlighted more. A big component of why men are unwilling to commit these days is that they can only get dates with people well below their looksmatch (and yes, a huge disparity can easily be seen, if a man with clear skin, good face symmetry and a full head of hair is only matching single mothers with tats and missing teeth then everyone can see this is not a looksmatch) and naturally the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.Ah yes when women friendzone someone that is likely "genuine" but when men fuckzone someone that is likely "malicious". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReplace man with woman and the statement still holds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly given the state of modern western women most men probably wish they were gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMore woman becoming like gimpgirl is a net positive to the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean I don't think she would be complaining if she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Being A Young Attractive Woman Is A Massive Privilege In DatingThat men are privileged elsewhere has nothing to do with the western climate and it should have absolutely no impact on anything. Imagine if we discovered humans living on Alpha Centauri where black people had enslaved the whites for thousands of years. It would make no difference to the white on black slavery here on Earth and what needs to be done to correct the impact of that here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples?Yeah, the non-looksmatched pairings all tend to be hookups that don't progress to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | If there was a 'Traditional' Dating App, would you use it?Men would be clamoring for a gender neutral stance if you said men were messier than women on average. Would they? I think most men would be fine with that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | If there was a 'Traditional' Dating App, would you use it?And this shit is why dating apps are a societal cancer that needs to be shamed back into being an option of last resort for those people who aren't having any success elsewhere. Neither men or women are totally to blame for the state of things, however the very existence of these apps causes both sides to become bitter and jaded and rather than helping create long term connections (as their mottos say they do) they actually destroy them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol yep, and this bitterness leads to many of these men no longer becoming good suitable partners for women, which means that when she finally decides it is time to settle down there are very few decent remaining men who will commit. Under a different system these left out men wouldn't have become jaded and bitter and so it would have been easier for the women to find someone who was capable of actually loving her back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDevice fingerprint ban. Have to use stuff like a virtual machine to get past that sort of ban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can give you a 100% foolproof way of doing this. Go and insult bårdfinn (a without the circle on top), who is a very very thin skin moderator on AgainstHateCommunities. Make sure to mention that fact that he (or use she if you are feeling kind, it tried to transition) beat up his wife and does not pay child support. You'll get banned off reddit in no time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadtwo matches a month two real matches a month (that actually reply, there is no benefit from matching someone who doesn't even open your message) would be a big improvement from what I'm currently getting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFemale hypoagency is real... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe byeline (bolding mine): Apps like Tinder and Hinge give straight men unfettered access to women – and a new sense of boldness through a seemingly endless set of options WTF? Which 60IQ dimwit thought that dating apps give men options?????? That's so crazy it deserves 6 question marks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGetting banned from reddit is a badge of honour at this point. It's basically a sign your life is going in the right direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's like saying "let me enjoy economy class" after spending a lifetime flying First. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLMAO yes, I am lucky to get 1 like a week and I ain't bad looking (slightly above average height, good face symmetry, clear even skin etc.) and two third of the time she won't even reply... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:30 AM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat Megathread15-16 matches \n I kinda feel like a man with so few matches Honey you have no idea what it like being a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 12:47 AM |
| 5 | How Come PUA's Are Getting So Much Flack Now Whereas Earlier They Were Ok?That is nowhere near the amount of pushback that PUAs get. PUAs get criticised routinely in the top media newspapers and basically "All Good Thinking People" know to hate them and society believes this is the right thing to do. There are basically society wide moral crusades against PUAs, I'd like see the same against pushup bras and subtle makeup (note I said subtle here, not "too much makeup" which you came up with yourself) before accepting what you say as a legitimate argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:41 PM |
| 6 | How Come PUA's Are Getting So Much Flack Now Whereas Earlier They Were Ok?Pushup bras and subtle makeup are gaming men's heuristics. I'd like to see the same level of condemnation against them as we see against PUAs before I accept this as a legitimate argument. Currently all I see is sophistry trying to justify "man bad, woman good". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?Yes, and just like how mena re told to change if they aren't getting what they want, women should realise that if they cuddle they will catch feeling while then man has been clear he doesn't see anything more coming out of it so should politely decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is the right answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHang on, he's Camo? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAhh yes, the two kinds of men. Perfect, or Chad Ahh yes, the two kinds of men visible to women. Perfect, or Chad Fixed that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.I also said "not immediately say no when the weird guy asks them out". Chicks were more open to giving the dude a chance before the past few decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Yeah, in that case you need fluent French basically as you'll be interacting with people who don't speak more than a few words of English. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 0 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Women actually attempt suicide more often than men, even with the extra antidepressent use. But as with everything else they just can't follow through with it properly... (Discuss whether this is due to attention seeking or just general incompetence) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 5 | What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”?Not in Lyon and Marseille. Cheaper cities do exist but good luck if you don't speak decent French. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Yes, that or not immediately say no when the weird guy asks them out. That would not be so bad and we actually used to do this. Indeed the fairy tale of beauty and the beast is literally an allegory about this exact situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, man rarely bad, woman bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNothing will change my mind on the assertion that cats are superior animals to dogs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:07 PM |
| – | 80% of women are also invisible to meYep, if you've been following the medical news pretty much everyone has heard of it. Your ignorance does not mean everybody else is keeping their heads in the sand. Here is the NYT reporting on it: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/10/health/obesity-weight-loss-drug-semaglutide.html Another NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/11/health/obesity-drugs.html FDA approval post: https://www.fda.gov/news-events/press-announcements/fda-approves-new-drug-treatment-chronic-weight-management-first-2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:26 PM |
| – | 80% of women are also invisible to meSemaglutide is the latest big weight loss drug. Unlike everything that came in the past it actually works and was recently approved by the FDA for this (it was previously approved for diabetes too, but now also approved for weight loss). It works by making you less hungry (therefore reducing the calories you consume), i.e. altering your thoughts about when you want food and how much food you want. People lose around 10% of their body weight when they start taking it regularly. Against this too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 11:56 AM |
| – | 80% of women are also invisible to meevolutionary inferior choice These days I'd say the evolutionary superior choice is the computer nerd over the football jock. Our primitive brains still haven't adapted to the reality of the modern world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 11:54 AM |
| 11 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedI feel it’s not so bad to be a guy in the dating world after all. Not so bad for the small percentage of men who get matched a lot. Spare a thought for the rest of us though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"That's the point. They are also far far less discriminating. Plus any women we need can be created from men going trans (yay). Legacy women really are making themselves obsolete... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?The piece of paper helps. It doesn't have to be the only reason, but perhaps it is what makes them reconsider before they go ahead with it and realise what they are doing. We all have our moments of weakness, anything we can do in advance to constrain ourselves from doing something stupid in those moments is good. Put another way: If they are really going to cheat and have their mind set on it the paper won't make a difference, however if they are wavering and unsure the paper might just be what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.I agree, free abortions for all and no welfare. Sounds great to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, they are trans. They just request to be shifted to a female prison and then they become the ones doing the raping! Big brain... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.LMAO Gottem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Which studies/research prove Pill philosophies and which studies debunk them?the avg height of women in my country is 151 and falling. Good, humans are too tall for our body proportions and this harms our health. I'd guess probably around 5 feet height would be best for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How much has losing weight impacted your dating life?Cardio helps and you should definitely do it for your own health, however its not going to make you buff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMarried men have longer, healthier lives while married women have shorter, stressful lives so we know who the scale is tilted towards. Those stats are fake since they lump divorced men (who do terribly due to our biased legal system) in with never married men (who do just as well as never married women) and lump divorced women (who do great due to our biased legal system) in with never married women (who do just as well as never married men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Also refusing to fuck men they're not attracted to isn't a crime. Were society structured slightly differently these same women would absolutely be attracted to these men. Plenty of French women were genuinely attracted to the German soldiers conquering them in WWII that they wouldn't have been had there been no war and you'd just showed them pictures of these men instead and asked them if they found them attractive. Women's sexuality is much more fluid and malleable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 4 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.Individually they absolutely are. However there are societal factors that cause increased criminality that have to be addressed by all of us, even those who are not members of the higher crime committing group, much the same with the Black community in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:16 AM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.We can test this by comparing past criminality with current family formation status vs past family formation status vs current criminality. This is a standard way of doing causal inference (seeing if a correlation really is a causation) by seeing which has a stronger correlation (e.g. the correlation between winning the jackpot in the past and buying a mansion now is higher than the correlation of buying a mansion in the past and winning the jackpot now, which tells us that winning the jackpot m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | I see huge parallels between dating and the Great Resignation.orphans have far worse outcomes than children raised in 2 parent households. It is now very clearly established that having two parents in the house leads to the best results, where the damaging effect from just not having a father (never mind not having the mother too) is about as bad as that from chronic lead poisoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Sure, I don't blame the women (gender) for it either. The people to blame were the top 1-2% mostly men who exploited everyone for fun. I'm just saying that the exploitation received by the average woman was no worse than the exploitation received by the average man back then, so women (whole gender) weren't uniquely disadvantaged relative to men (whole gender). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Honestly even now I would prefer to be say a woman in Indonesia or South Korea or Japan than a man where there are strong cultural expectations placed on women, I just think the cultural expectations placed on men there are more strenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Yes, she got the vote 3 years later in 2020. She didn't even miss a single presidential election. Legal arguments take time to work their way through the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Ever heard of Lady Macbeth? Yes, that is a fictional character but it is based on a very real trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?1860 to 1920 was a much much smaller change though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Technically in the UK you still can't own land unless you are nobility. All you do is get a 999 year lease on it from the monarch or the duke/duchess of the area etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Yes, and this is a difference of 60 years, 2 generations, not the thousands I often see touted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Weren't things in the past as repressive for men as well ?Changes nothing, even if it was men doing the oppression that doesn't change the fact that men were oppressed in this way but women weren't. The men who were sent off to war had no more control over their fate than the women staying back home. It's not like a foot soldier could do anything. In fact in WWI there were actually women handing white feathers as a mark of shame to any man who stayed behind at home. You can't blame all of men for the decisions a tiny 1% minority of men took. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?Seeing a man on the internet is no guarantee of interest. When a man has swiped on you that is at least a pretty strong indicator of interest, barring the blind swipers but they make everything worse. You mean like the 60's where people fucked like rabbits and laid social norms aside for "free love". Does not compute my bro. There were various societal/demographic conditions that lead to this free love. We are no longer in that situation. I would say that one factor that actually led to this was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?But they don't have to be scoundrels to be unappealing physically. It is well known that for women physical appeal is a relative thing (also true for men, but to a lesser extent). They'll find the same person physically appealing when their other options are less good than if they had supermodels. If you only had 10 options and you knew these were the only 10 options unless they were all hideous I guarantee you would see at least some of the appealing. The bigger problem is actually other things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?Women "seeing men" they can't date has existed before the internet lol. Seeing a man on the street etc. is no guarantee that he is interested in you. The level of raw interest in terms of numbers women got in the past was much reduced relative to today; this amount of skew is actually so bad it hurts both women and men (do you really think women have the time to sift through those 300 likes they get every day and choose the best match, instead they are forced to skim and pick one that seems OK u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?No, it is a perfectly good scenario. The interconnetedness means that assholes/bitches get found out quite quickly and then everyone else quickly pairs up with their match. The average high school is big enough to give you plenty of choice. Instead of having 100s of men a swipe away from you on Tinder there may be 10 or so that fancy you from that high school who will actually commit (they don't want to get labelled a rake so there won't be any pumping and dumping) and you get to choose from the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 4 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?This is just flawed logic. We all want to date the best people we can find for us, thats not news. But, are you saying that because women had fewer options in the past....they would settle for a less desirable man instead. This is a good thing. Too many options leads to choice paralysis and mating markets are not like the supermarket fruit stall where you pick the best option and take it home, the option you pick also has to pick you. Showing average women the hottest guys who would never choose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 3 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate itWhat if you want a romance to grow out of the friendship. You don't just want sex (any hooker can give you that) but see friendship as a good first step? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?A man has exactly the same rights to abortion that a woman does. This is complete "equality" in the original meaning of the word here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Men have the same rights to abortion as women do, that is equality. In fact in this case women actually have more rights, they can freely get rid of a child they don't want, but men can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Yes, but you are not your grandmother. I'd be fine with doing stuff for old women (50+) but the people who scream the loudest and ask for the most gibs tend to be under 30 for the most part, and that group is empirically doing better than men their age, but they still cry out for even more for themselves saying that women as a whole (not women their age) aren't doing as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a child support cap?If there is no longer oprression towards women, why aren´t women equally represented and compensated in all fields? Different preferences. In Iran women make up 70%+ of CS graduates, because there is no welfare state to take care of them should they not be able to find a husband, they need to ensure they can earn enough to sustain themselves, and a sociology degree ain't gonna cut it. When you add in the safety net to allow women to fully express their personal preferences they disproportionatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Yes, any pretty much every woman still alive was always able to. We are talking about current women, not women of the past; I agree they were very badly treated but their suffering doesn't magically transfer over to today's women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?And yet, women are still getting beat and raped. And yet, men are still getting assaulted and murdered at far higher rates (and don't say that it's men doing the murdering, yes that is true, but we are talking about victims here, it could be aliens from Omicron Persei 8 for all we care about the perpetrators here). Your argument seems to be that because people now agree that abusing women is wrong then it doesn´t happen anymore,. No, my argument is that it is far far reduced as an issue and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Pray tell me how are women still oppressed. For every bit of banter about e.g. "slapping bitches who talk shit back at you" men these days get told ten times "never hit a woman". Yes women were discriminated against in the past. However they are discriminated in favour of these days. Unlike with race where the negative effects of the oppression can carry down disproportionately over generations (since black people have black parents who suffered but white people don't) this is not the case with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?It should be difficult, never said it shouldn't; in fact I think it should be much much more difficult than it currently is, for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Lol, this is bullshit when it comes to gender. With race it sort of makes sense since e.g. black people have different ancestors compared to white people, but a woman and her brother have the exact same ancestors. Yes historically women were treated very badly, however those women are dead and nothing can be done for them now, giving extra privileges to modern western women, who (if they are under 50) spent their entire life growing up in a system that favours them over men is an absolutely idio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?Nope they can also arrest men who leave the state for an abortion. See, equality (I joke, but you get the point). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 8 | How many of you men have cheated on a significant other? (All honest answers, I won’t be judging)He's also weirdly the one who gets the most girls out of my group. Once again proving that even if women do actually care about personality, their personality detectors are broken as fuck and as a man you are best served by assuming they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 01:02 PM |
| 5 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?Chad also gets a shit ton of resentment however that is off point. It's easy for Chad in the same way that swimming really fast is easy for Michael Phelps; however the achievement "sleep with many women" is pretty difficult for the vast majority of humans (including lesbians) much like "swim really fast" is difficult so anyone who achieves it gets praised. No different to how gay Chad doesn't get praised but straight Chad does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?Men sleeping around is treated as a marker of success, while women sleeping around is just met with "Slut!" Yep, because for men sleeping around is difficult, while for women it's easier than ordering pizza. I think both should be very strongly discouraged by society but even then there is a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Frustration with women and their sexual timing largely comes from men who refuse to accept women with a sociosexual orientation similar to theirsThere are also a ton of men (like me) who have no interest in playing the field but are pissed off at the number of women who have flings when young but then want someone like me to settle down with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | One More Condom in the LandfillYou made the affirmative claim, you provide the citation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsOk, sure. Then say he commits to them provided the sex is good enough, but it never is. Again how do we know this wasn't what happened with West Elm Caleb. What about that case, I bet the women would still complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 4 | One More Condom in the LandfillSo it took you time to grow into your dating identity but you can’t fathom how it might take time for girls to grow into theirs? The difference is that most women can still sleep around with relative ease without a fully formed identity while most men can not. This strikes us as deeply unfair and even though life is not fair the sense of justice is very deeply present within many many animals (so its not just a human thing) and like the monkeys in the videos it makes a very very primitive part o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 0 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsNah, suppose a man had super duper high standards for sex, such that 99% of women he slept with were sub-par for him. He openly says he is willing to commit provided the sex is good enough to every woman he sleeps with (and really means it). Naturally he dumps them when it isn't and keeps going in search of the mythical unicorn. I think the women would still complain a lot in this situation, in fact how do they know that West Elm Caleb isn't exactly like this but they still complain. Yep, they s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | One More Condom in the LandfillHow is this putting women on a pedestal? It's more pointing out the utter idiocy of the kinds of women that do this shit. It isn't pedestalising at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialIn the context of this post, it's talking about sex being a reward and, conversely, WITHHOLDING sex being a punishment. The opposite of a reward is not a punishment, it is just indifference. I don't see a woman not sleeping with me as punishment, it's just neutral, but I do see sleeping with her as a reward. Like, I think we might be running into a semantic difference here. I'm using reward to mean "a good thing promised to someone," either as a transaction or as motivation. I think you might ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 5 | 90 Day Fiance Mega-ThreadBe glad you don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialI am not blaming anyone for anything. Having sex activates the dopamine receptors in our brain no different to when we get any other reward. It's possible to see something as a reward while it not being transactional. Say your parent said if you get an A on the next test they'll buy you a bike. The bike is a reward, but you aren't getting that A just for the bike, but also to please your parents etc. I would not call this situation a transaction at all. But if you see it as a reward while she se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: Mothers are lonely in middle age (WSJ)Yes, but are you insanely Christian? That's where all the real benefits are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Mothers are lonely in middle age (WSJ)You should become insanely Christian too, that way you also get a good community plus your relationship with your mother improves a lot. You don't even have to believe in God, just pretend you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | 90 Day Fiance Mega-ThreadCivilians are obsolete at this point Tell me you you prostitutes without telling me you use prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 10 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialNo one cares Yes, we know no one cares about men. It's a cruel world out there and we are doing our best to get by. Learn to be human LMAO, straight to the insults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialLearn to treat women as human beings. Yes, I do see them as humans. I see my salary as a reward for the work I do for my boss. Doesn't mean I don't see her as a human being. If you see it as women 'rewarding' men, you're implying that women are not interested in sex just to have sex, only as a way of manipulating men. Nope, women don't see it as giving out a reward (nor should they), but men see it as getting a reward. Different thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 17 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialFor men it is, we are hardwired this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol exactly. The real victims of Weinstein weren't the women who slept with him for promotions, but the women who kept their dignity and refused and thus were passed over for roles. People like JLaw are co-perpetrators and should be punished, not victims. This is no different to how in bribery both the person who asks for the bribe and the person who provides the bribe are considered to be engaging in corruption, not just one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe don't always get along but I sincerely hope the best future for both you and Mr. Blu as you go your separate ways. Breaking up a long term relationship is always very hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, its slave morality run amok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, I don't think it sex shames enough. One of my biggest gripes with western culture is how much we've stopped shaming detrimental behaviours and moved towards the acceptance of things we should never have accepted. There is another solution to your problem, namely that men who sleep around are also shamed to the same (or greater) extent as is the case in the Muslim world and so they stop doing that eventually. This isn't even sex shaming, just sex-outside-of-a-committed-relationship shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, I think both. However I'm having trouble remembering the last time a random woman did something for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe world is not just America and Europe. There are more people in China and India individually than all of the western world combined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGod simps are the absolute worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThose aren't documentaries... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGo to r/socialjusticeinaction and sort by top | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery very true. Especially when you compare to rich western vs poor non-western. It makes the things we fight over look like a minor inconvenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGod bless West Elm Caleb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?True dat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 4 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?This, but mostly unironically, since women are the ones who generally end proper relationships (I don't count cases where the woman thinks it is a relationship but the guy just wants a warm body as an actual relationship). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 4 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?It's a bit of a chicken and egg situation, what came first, women in the workforce leading to higher house prices, or higher house prices needing women to also join the workforce... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Lol no. Properly done the person a traditional man respects most in this world should be his wife. Now how this respect manifests itself is very different to the way respect would manifest itself in a modern relationship, but that does not mean it is not respect, and trying to analyse it from a modern western point of view will miss all the salient points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?And then you have the extra money fritted away on daycare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:31 PM |
| 10 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?At that point it's just cheaper to bang hookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenYou don't need to give them full dna, just a few markers. In fact that is how police dna mathces are done at crime scenes too, they don't take and store the full dna, they just look at like 500 markers which roughly 50% of people each individually have and 50% don't then see how many match up. 100% match means same person, 50% match means no relation and 75% match would be father/child or sibling/sibling relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenDivorces and cuckoldry are a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenFor the same reason as to why they don't opt out of all the other shit with any regularity at the moment. And if you make it default then if a woman chooses to opt out that would raise the husband's eyebrows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Have standards for mens bodies gone way up since gym culture boom?One very real problem is that "she no longer finds him attractive" because of the relentless media messaging of far fitter/hotter guys to the point where she sees her perfectly average (or even above average) man as being a slob. We humans have something called the availability heuristic, where we classify things into rarity based on how often we see them. This works very well in certain situations (e.g. if you see far more blueberries than strawberries when you are out doing your gathering as p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, use the same argument as this for raising the voting age to 25 and the very same people chimp out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice flair! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West?This trend towards larger home sizes is only present in the US. In the UK our houses are getting smaller and worse (to the point where people stay away from new builds) and the inflation adjusted prices in central locations are still rising per square foot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West?Yes, there is a delay. House prices didn't suddenly jump tens of percents in the days after interest rates were cut to near zero. College (and healthcare) I will grant you is an absolute scam with these prices and that isn't to do with women in the workforce, rather that is due to cost disease, but a very big contributor to house prices rising is the trend towards dual incomes (cost disease also plays a part but not too much). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Why is fertility and birth rates a non issue in the West?blaming a basic ass house being 500k This is because households moved to dual income rather than single income. Both parents working raises house prices for the same reason low interest rates raise house prices: you get more money chasing the same stuff (most things don't get price rises since women increase supply for them when the join the formal economy and not just demand, but the amount of land within 1 mile of Manhattan didn't suddenly double so those prices went up). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Change.org Petition Against Reddit's New Block FeatureThe point is not to show them how epically you owned them, but to show the audience (lurkers). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:58 PM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Yes, just goes to show that the whole dating climate is fucked. It's not just women's fault or men's fault. The blame lies with society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over youThis the the correct attitude to have. Ad maiora. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope. There are 130 million births per year, so crudely that is the number of people turning 18 in a year, so only 65 million women which is roughly 1/6th of a million per day. Still a big amount, but not millions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadfatfished I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, it's like saying your team beat them 15-0 when everyone else is taking about football (soccer for our American friends) but you're bringing up the results of your last basketball game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, all the talented Brits must have gone overseas since over here pretty much none of the talented women I know are (ethnically at least) Bri*ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou got this! We at PPD believe in you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy fraghead self is looking down on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCreed Virgin Island Water. Basically a Carribean beach on a balmy summer day in a bottle. Rum, lime and coconut expertly blended. I can also give more tips if people want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30Same here. I've talked to so many 18 year old girls (and boys) and seen enough of their antics that now I unironically support raising the voting age back to 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 4 | How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive?Yes, and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:42 PM |
| 3 | How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive?Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive? Please tell me where I can find this mythical unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notLooks like a wasp in that photo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notYes, Jeremy Clarkson is someone who I would consider average (clear skin, decent face symmetry, not fat); not JGL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLMAO. Up thread there is this discussion about how women would swipe left on MLK. I wonder if we made an account for both Bundy and MLK on Tinder including a bio of their "achievements" who would end up with more matches... Actually I don't wonder, I pretty much already know the answer... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.No, it's about the whole getting drunk associated with "girls night out". I don't mind meeting them for dinners either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGod shitbulls are the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl."girls night out" is not the same as going out with her friends. Not OP but I would also be against my future wife doing this, although I would encourage her to meet with her friends for lunches and coffee etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.Gender roles are very rational; you can get the benefit of having some sort of roles (any type of roles will do here) from the benefits of specialisation (this is a pure economics argument); and then take into account that women and men have different personalities on average and traditional roles make men do the stuff more suit to their personalities and vice versa and these gender roles naturally fall out. Not saying that they apply in every case, but unless you have a good reason for why they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Men Who Look For Partners Overseas And Search For Love In A Different Country. Thoughts?The Americans/English can not speak their own language. Only foreigners who have been taught to speak it, speak it well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:21 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, the point is that they suffer from racism because they are a minority. Having lots of children means that within a few generations they will be a majority and can turn the tables. You have to thing long term about these questions... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHmm, the girl before and after the makeup looks very different. I would still say that both the looks are at roughly the same level of attractiveness though. Would you disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”That's the plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”Sex is one part of the complaint. Other behaviours like higher likelihoods of bailing on perfectly salvageable relationships during one of the down periods (as all relationships do) also make up the complaint. Why not look for a religious girl here? Alas, even religious women here still grow up seeped in the toxic mentality of the west. Women are women everywhere; they aren't Western women though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”Some women are attracted to height for a lot of women it doesn't matter much. Please stop with the gaslighting. These sort of antics only go on to create more bitter people when they realise that what they have been told is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”They don't sleep around though. You don't even need Islamic countries, see Japan, South Korea, Singapore, India etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:06 PM |
| 0 | The myth of women throwing themselves at tall, rich, ripped "Chads"Wut? Bitch has nothing to do with sex, it's an attitude issue. Slut I can accept, and sahm is also not to do with sex, its do to with being lazy, the insult would still hold if the women had no children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeYes, you shouldn't base single interactions on statistics, but large scale you absolutely should; e.g. I don't really assume much about the height of a person I'm meeting for the first time, but if I'm interacting with a bunch of people by e.g. designing a new door that they will have to go through I use height statistics to figure out how tall I need to make it. Same here, individual interactions no statistics, but interacting with many women over time, yes statistics (no different to how you r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeYes, but you are a woman; the dating landscape for women and men in the modern western world is light years different. It's like thinking understanding the law of the US makes you an expect on Chinese law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Obviously women are lower in mental capacity than men given that the grand majority of young women think that there's some stock in AstrologySweeping judgements is our speciality here. Just go with the flow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Obviously women are lower in mental capacity than men given that the grand majority of young women think that there's some stock in AstrologyI mean, if it is a man saying it then if he doesn't himself suck at maths he can rule out the possibility "boys suck at math", so he doesn't say it; but he can't rule out "girls suck at math" when he see a woman be so fantastically wrong (not saying I agree, I know some amazing female mathematicians, but just for the sake of argument). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men are sexually unsuccessful because they are seen as not mature enough / not ready for sexual activityAnd what a disaster sending all these extra people to higher education has been... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men are sexually unsuccessful because they are seen as not mature enough / not ready for sexual activitySelf improving for sex is an idiotic idea beyond stuff that makes you look better like going to the gym/plastic surgery. You should still do it though to appreciate everything else that life has to offer (and yes, there is a huge amount still there). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFetuses in their sixth month of gestation know that journalism pays shit and has all the stability of a skyscraper on a fault line. Well, about half of them do. Surely an adult woman was aware of this Well you see, adult women come from the other half of those fetuses; you can't be too sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 04:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBidet is great. Who wants to clean themselves with paper that statistically will leave some residue behind. Water all the way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveNope, it doesn't support men; never said it did. I just said that women find a wider variety of men attractive than in the west. In Japan the proportion of men who are sexless is pretty much the same as the proportion of women who are sexless. It isn't like the women are all going for Chad who has a harem, rather there are structural factors (like a terrible work culture and isolation) that leads to very few couples forming at all. However there is still no "carefree period" where everyone just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveSouth Korea, Japan, Singapore, Hungary and Bulgaria do not have repressive attitudes anymore. Women are just as free as men there. They just don't celebrate sleeping around for the sake of sleeping around (for both men and women) and have different "standard life trajectories" to the western "have carefree fun in your 20s, then settle down later". All that is enough for women to genuinely be attracted to a larger variety of men, because they grew up with a different set of cultural messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveChina, India, South Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Singapore, lots of African societies etc., pretty much everything outside of the west, and even then some western societies like Hungary and Bulgaria still have lots of women who are genuine attracted to the provider "beta" archetype since society has inculcated that into them since they were a little child. When the cultural message is very strong that a good man is one who will wife you up, provide for you and your children and treat you with kindness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis needs to be emphasized for the benefit of mankind (and only mankind): never commit to women who've had casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the fault of the nice guys and incels. Yes, it is their fault. However it is society's problem. No different to the underclass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveI have approached thousands of women. Sometimes you get a blank stare, cold, one word rejection. Wait, you're a man? You write like a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveCareful, she (ask me how I know it's a she) will block you too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveMost men are not too different from average, so fairly boring; but this is no different to how most women are not too different from average. The issue is that the around average women (who are boring themselves) won't give the around average men two looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 22 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveYou mean there are literally thousand upon thousands of women walking around the city... and all I have to do is approach them and tell exactly what I want and some percentage will agree to it because my offer was appealing? Competence gets rewarded. There is no monopoly, it's a fair market. Perfect! And some other percentage of them is going to go hysterical and call you out as a "harasser" which in these days can mean anything from bystanders looking at you weirdly to losing your job and getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 11:11 AM |
| 13 | Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractiveSocietally the messaging though is such that women are only attracted to a very small percentage of men. In societies with different messaging women genuinely are attracted to a larger varieties of men. We could do the same here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Marriage Mega-ThreadOk, add easily to the end of both of the clauses in my sentence: You can end marriage easily, you can't end the financial obligations easily. Fixed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, the best thing about the revolution was that they got cucked so hard that in just a few years the king they had gotten rid of was replaced by an emperor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 12:03 AM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, the French revolution is one of the things that was bad about France. All your priorities are wrong and you should be ashamed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFrench is a far superior language to the mongrel that is English. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www.ynharari.com/ He wrote a book called Sapiens where he talks about this idea in depth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBased and Harari Pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:47 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsBabies born from hookups are disproportionately likely to be a drain on society; I want lots of babies born in stable 2 parent households, which things like Tinder hamper the formation of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:08 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsThat is a non sequitur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:42 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsdating apps are the main way of meeting online. Unless you are talking about groomers on discord etc. I'd wager >80% of the meeting online is via dating apps or dating websites (I count both of them in the same way) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:41 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsReally? Here is a graph of trends in how people meet their partners: https://goat.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/stanford-graph.jpg The explosion in the red line very much looks like the spread of an invasive species outcompeting everything else if you ask me (and this is before you realise that a lot of the rise in "bar or restaurant" is from people taking the question "where did you first meet" too literally rather than the way it was understood in the past). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:37 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsI'm not against dating apps; I want them to be legal but think certain variants are bad for society as a whole (much like smoking). Much like plastic surgery, I'm not against it, I've had plastic surgery myself even, but I don't want a world where there's an operating theatre at every street corner and people treat it with the same gravity as they would, say, buying a new phone. I would ban a fully free version version of Tinder while allowing dating apps with paid extras that required a lot mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:31 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsMinecraft is nowhere near as damaging to society as Tinder. Yes, real life interaction is better but the damage from Tinder is far greater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:28 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsNope, nothing about profit. Plenty of profit making apps like Minecraft are just fine, ban it for damaging the fabric that holds society together. I'd support a ban even if all the premium features were free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:02 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsAnd shit like this is why Tinder needs to be banned for damaging the social fabric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Marriage Mega-ThreadNot that simple. You marry a woman like that, she decides to take her foot off the pedals because now there are 2 incomes and relax a bit more. Then you divorce and still end up with financial obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Marriage Mega-ThreadAll those studies that find this either fail to account for selection by women (them choosing to marry healthier men) or lump divorced people in with singles (which skews the stats since divorced women do better than divorced men due to how the system is set up, but that is hardly a point in favour of getting married). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Marriage Mega-ThreadYou can end marriage, you can't end the financial obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Beyond shallowness - are men are attracted to competence?You would be surprised. I've indeed seen a women fail to boil water (she overfilled the pan and it overflowed, making a mess of the stove). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 02:29 PM |
| – | If you’re unhappy with the state of western women why not travel or move to another country and date the women there?Yeah, Ukraine probably wasn't the best choice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 0 | If you’re unhappy with the state of western women why not travel or move to another country and date the women there?Nah he's riddled with BASED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a providerYes, yes it is. Someone on minimum wage can save up for a Gucci Bag, but that doesn't make it "not a luxury". Homeless people are not known for their good sense of judgement, they should be using that money to find a place to live rather than wasting it on wine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Why men experience on dating apps is so binary?And that was your mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Society has failed (Men).LMAO, lol no. This is absolutely incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | “Attractive white women in western countries are among the most Privileged individuals on the planet. ”. True or False. And why?The stated reason they wrap them up in bags is that they are so attractive they will end up distracting men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | “Attractive white women in western countries are among the most Privileged individuals on the planet. ”. True or False. And why?The only privilege and power women have is the one you as a man choose to give them. This is actually a pretty based statement when you see it in the right light. Repeal the 19th when? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | “Attractive white women in western countries are among the most Privileged individuals on the planet. ”. True or False. And why?Makes more money Oh yes, those same young women who now earn more than men their age are the ones who scream largest about the gender pay gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | “Attractive white women in western countries are among the most Privileged individuals on the planet. ”. True or False. And why?LMAO exactly. I remember back when Gabby Petito went missing the police search discovered multiple bodies of other people that had gone missing years ago. Why weren't there investigations to find those people? Well you see they failed on multiple of being: female, white, young or good looking... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - In what ways do single women over 30-ish have it harder than single men of the same age?female solipsism is ironclad Tell me about it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSadly I am attracted to toxic masculinity😢 Kudos for the self-reflection, it is rare in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd agree with all those except college experience, have you seen the insane costs of getting a degree there? Give me France or Germany instead where either they pay you to study (if you do sufficiently well in entrance exams) or it is effectively free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a providerlol yes it is. In Islamic countries hundred of millions of people go without it for their whole lives and don't seem to be suffering from some unmet need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Why does it take alcohol for most women to engage in casual sex?Lmfao I'd like to see how society would handle a rape accusation where she says he deliberately brought her drinks to made her so drunk she couldn't consent, and then he brings the receipts showing that everything he bought was non-alcoholic... EDIT: The downvotes here, presumably from the women, tell me all I need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 4 | What standards are TOO high?Average height:50% Healthy weight:25% Not married:50% Total probability of satisfying these requirements: 6.25% These things aren't all uncorrelated so that actual probability can be higher or lower (e.g. taller people earn more, but people who earn more are less likely to be unmarried), and again depending on where you live the numbers will be different for the pool of men you actually come into contact with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the equilibrium point on male sexlessness?Hell, does Brazil, Colombia and México have "race issues"? Oh yes, Brazil has absolutely massive race issues; they have affirmative action many times stronger than what is present in the USA. Naturally people can (and have) just tan and claim a darker race than they really are; so how do they tell race then? Well you see, there's this thing called skull shape... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Women will be the primary drivers of demand for eugenics / designer babies in the future.Make sure that at least they are mixed race, that way at least they won't suffer from the institutional discrimination against whiteoids that is getting legalised in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean statistically it is probably likely he wasn't the best. But equally hearing this said severely hurts the pride of most men (and this is reasonable). Another action of long term damage caused by the open promotion of promiscuity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | 'Men' on this sub are constantly bitching over women and projectinghttps://paa2008.princeton.edu/papers/81144 LMFAO I'm not reading some BS paper by a blue haired grievance studies "professor" suffering from Physics Envy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:Should I think the same about incels then? Sure, you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | TRUE GUIDE TO STOP BEING LONELYThis might actually work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:I have talked to enough feminists to know not to give attention to anything that comes out of their mouths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 8 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:Feminists also dream about killing all men daily if we are going to go by caricatures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:Right to give up their newborn child after birth to a foster home unilaterally without having to pay any child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women need to arm themselves.As a man I would unironically support this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:Yes, the gulf is probably too big for a productive conversation. You keep voting your way, I'll keep voting mine and we'll see what wins out in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:I attribute a lot of the blame for the way the modern western world is to feminists. They didn't stop when women reached rough parity with men (why would they? Why would the people who run a movement disband it after its goals have been achieved? That would just leave them out of a job). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:No, feminists shit up the world on a smaller scale individually, but lots more of them do it relative to the number of incels that go on a rampage, so the total contribution to the shittiness of the world is far higher from feminists than incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels:Yep, however I'd be concerned about feminists (here defined to be people who self identify as feminist without prompting) if we go by that metric before I am concerned by incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | would you rather date...Woosh... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:41 PM |
| 7 | would you rather date...Wait, a sensible woman? I must be dreaming... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 10 | Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTWYes, that is standard womenese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTWA red suppository, if you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Women will be the primary drivers of demand for eugenics / designer babies in the future.No, whiteoids are not OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:04 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadActions like that contribute to the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Lol, you are now tacitly admitting that it is an issue but then deflecting all reflection on it with a simple "Not my problem". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 10 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".You just said that "in the short term nobody cares what personality is like". So how are the good personality/ugly men supposed to attract women, unless you mean waiting months/years and praying (with no guarantee) that she will decide to go for you after her asshole but hot ex? Most men don't consider this a win, but as getting sloppy seconds and being settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".No one cares in the short term what another person’s personality is like So you agree with me that when women say "the reason you can't get any girls at all is because you have a bad personality" is bullshit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Attractive assholes her [sic] fucked. Thanks for confirmation that women don't really care about if someone is an asshole when choosing a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 23 | Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity".Ew, no. When actually desirable women start fucking those men then we'll listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Nice guys are actually nice!Exactly. My genuine advice to anyone who is in this sort of situation: "Screw being nice; become based instead". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:23 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou've never seen the guy but still confidently say: I can tell he’s ugly as hell Woman moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 13 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:I don't have to marry a woman for her to make my dick happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 7 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:Lots of women aren't marriage material because of western indoctrination. I'd say a good 80-90% of women would be worth marrying if they were raised properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Remember Titanic? Remember how all that woman on her deathbed could remember was those few days she spent with Chad when she was young, even though she had been happily married with grandkids for decades? Remember that?Way to misinterpret his sentence. He's the one the woman cheat with. Their husbands are the ones you should feel sorry for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 5 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.OLD does not control for other variables either. Yes it does. If you have two exact profiles where the only difference is height and the taller one gets many multiple times the number of matches what else could be the difference? I'm using # of matches as a proxy for what women find attractive here, admittedly dating success was not the best chosen term as it is pretty nebulous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 6 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.No my point is that height matters by more than just "he should be at least as tall". If it only mattered in that way then in every possible avenue extra inches should only make girls who were taller then the old height be open to dating, but this is not the case. OLD is a good test case since real life interactions are confounded by lots of other things and so it is harder to work out whether height actually has an impact beyond "being taller than her", but by looking at OLD results (which is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 8 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Are you seriously denying that 6'2 men have it more than 2% better than 5'10 men? Are you seriously suggesting that if I made two identical dating profiles but with one I listed the height as 6'2 while with the other one I listed 5'10 I would only get 2% more matches with the first one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | LMAOShe actually worked as a prostitute for a few years and has a post on her blog titled "BECOMING A WHORELORD: THE OVERLY ANALYTICAL GUIDE TO ESCORTING". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 0 | LMAONGL, Aella (the first one in this exchange) is actually pretty smart and would probably make an OK partner if you are willing to overlook her quirks (which admittedly are a lot). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 6 | Remember Titanic? Remember how all that woman on her deathbed could remember was those few days she spent with Chad when she was young, even though she had been happily married with grandkids for decades? Remember that?the only man capable of loving you Ah yes, that one man out of billions of us was the only one capable of loving you. Unless you are absolutely hideous, there is far more than 1 man on this planet willing to love you. What you mean to say is "only man you are capable of loving". Fixed that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 14 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Homosexual relations are a completely different beast. I'm not going to claim any knowledge or expertise of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 14 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.I texted her “I love you” This was your first mistake. Never tell a woman you love her until she has said this to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 73 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.If all that mattered was that the man was taller than her then there would be negligible difference in dating success between those who are 5'10'' and 6'2'' since less than 2% of women are in between those heights. Clearly this is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 7 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Electra complex is a real thing apparently... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 13 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUNo, if you asked that women her age she would say "30", it has nothing to do with her actual age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope, I've been here under this name or my previous name for years, I haven't commented a lot until recently but that doesn't matter. All I know is that you are absolutely kooky in the head with your man hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLMAO what has happened to you Lillith? Societally white women are finally starting to get what they deserve instead of being fawned over (still fawned over too much) and you seem to have done a complete 180. Still I'd be happy if we could just shut up white women completely, they got us in to this mess in the first place. I mean, what we really need is this: https://i.imgur.com/pRzvjym.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:32 PM |
| 8 | The biggest problem modern men have in dating world is an inability to talk about their problems. Communication is important for relationships, and most men can’t communicate.Way to miss the point... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:28 PM |
| 9 | Muh "PeRsOnAlItY"LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 16 | Muh "PeRsOnAlItY"No, what this shows is that looks matters, and "personality" is just a way for women to encase their preferences in a polite way for the world. (How do I know it is this way and not the other way around? Well given how this study was done for a dating app using dating app profiles from which you can judge someone's looks better than their personality, it is far more likely that the looks score given corresponds to someone's actual looks than their personality score corresponds to their actual pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Harvard is a private college. But if you are going to cop out and say "it still gets federal funds" replace it with any large employer like Google etc. that has affirmative action. Those are completely private companies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:11 PM |
| 11 | wEsTUrN wOmAN!!!!Nah, educated women are good. Unfortunately in the west women mistake indoctrination for education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 13 | wEsTUrN wOmAN!!!!We are the root of all evil. Debatable Destroyer of worlds. Not really, don't get ahead of yourself Killers of innocent cells. Yes Cuckers of men. Yes Users of free dinners. Yes Friendzoners of beta. Yes Creators of orbitors. Yes Dyers of colorful hair. Yes Triggerers of feminism. Yes Profiteers of OnlyFans Yes Your point being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeCoffee Meets Bagel has a race filter, even though it is supposedly the progressive, "upscale" dating app (though owned by Match, like all the others). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Race mixing is good sweety. On average heterozygous mutations are healthier than homozygotes if both variants are not too detrimental individually. Genetic diversity is a huge positive, and race mixing is the fastest way to get it. If everyone was mixed race we'd probably live longer and put less strain on the medical system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Most women in the West are undateableWestern men treat women better than non-western men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Most women in the West are undateableUnironically if I was at all sexually attracted to men I would date them pretty much exclusively. Alas, I was cursed with the desire of female flesh and am suffering for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:51 PM |
| 6 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Yes, but those billions of Asians are on the other side of the world. They don't really interact with westerners. We are talking about the dating market in western anglo countries here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 3 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Presumably you are fine with Harvard etc. then giving racial preferences via affirmative action? I didn't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Individually no, not at all. The issue is when large groups of people as a whole have preferences going in one way, then the disfavoured group as a whole suffer. It would be perfectly fine if say 50% of women of race X preferred that race while 50% preferred another race, but when say 90% of the women of the dominant race in an area prefer that race then it becomes very hard for men to date, since they are automatically disqualified by a huge portion of the population. It's no different to the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.We also make illegal discrimination by small mom and pop businesses, that are only hiring like 1 employee and unlikely to ever hire more. We don't just have non-discrimination laws for businesses above a certain size, but all of them, as we should because while one person can hire many thousands, the majority of people are hired by small businesses with fewer than 10 employees and so not extending non-discrimination regulation to these firms would mean most people lose out on its benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.You don't need the shaming, the social campaigning is enough, it has to be pervasive though but not "in your face". An example would be something like mandating that every couple in TV advertising must be interracial (in the UK these sorts of advertising restrictions are already in force to combat against stereotypes, e.g. you can't display an exceptionally clumsy man in an ad or a women doing all the housework with her husband just lounging around). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 11:13 PM |
| 8 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Lol yes that is one very big part of it. People internalise what the media tells them. A sustained campaign of say a decade promoting Asian men as the epitome of sexiness and I'll put the racial preferences against them will reduce by at least 2/3rds at 80%+ probability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.And since we’ve done that black unemployment has gone up, having a “black sounding” name results in lower likelihood of getting called in for an interview and black people are still underrepresented in higher level positions in companies owned by non-blacks and black Americans are well on their way to becoming an economic underclass. Had we not done this the problem would probably be even worse. Integration, not segregation is the name of the game. You passage just points out the need that we ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Yes, but you can make the same arguments for people not wanting to hire blacks, since people prefer the kinds of humans they are exposed to the most. However we realised back then that this was having significant negative effects on large portions of the population and put in advertising campaigns showing minorities being good employees as well as special programs for minorities to become more productive workers etc. We can do the same for minorities struggling in dating. Nobody has to be forced… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Touché. My bad, but in an effort to save face I'm going to say the title is clickbait and my reason for that is that it's purge week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Asian/Asian, but my racial preferences are very weak. I just want good looking women, regardless of race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Yes, that is true. But the point isn't just that women stronger preferences than men, the point is that these preferences are generally bad and present in both men and women (and shouldn't go around pretending they don't exist), and ideally we should be looking at reducing them, much in the same way we try and reduce smoking, say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 3 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Never said they don't, men still have preferences but they are weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:35 PM |
| 5 | Men really have no way of knowing if a woman sleeps around. We just have to just accept that a woman’s past is a complete mystery.Body count is also a good indicator of her future actions in the relationship, since for humans the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. A high body count is no different to someone displaying lack of compassion in this comparison. I wouldn't want the latter in my wife, and I don't want the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:34 PM |
| -1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.I don't think there's anything wrong with having racial preferences in dating. Imagine I say: "I don't think there's anything wrong with having racial preferences in hiring employees. I want a secretary, but she can't be black". Do you have any idea how racist you sound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Men really have no way of knowing if a woman sleeps around. We just have to just accept that a woman’s past is a complete mystery.Virginity is also pretty tangible, and yes, the hymen can get ruptured in other ways, just like how fake money can be made and real money destroyed. And if you are still complaining, you can replace "money" with "compassion", a non-tangible social construct that I am very glad exists in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 22 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Crickets... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 9 | Men really have no way of knowing if a woman sleeps around. We just have to just accept that a woman’s past is a complete mystery.Money is also a social construct. However I wouldn't want to do without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:22 PM |
| 4 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Yes, and the study found that too if you look at the appendices, however the level of disadvantage faced by Asian men was far stronger than that faced by black women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 10 | Women on PPD would agree with me more often if I was better at couching my opinions in polite womaneseI am indeed imagining that now, but fail to see any particular benefits for me as a man, unless you were talking about a different type of partnership? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 10:06 PM |
| 8 | An example of a man not understanding (female) friendships.The day I decided to treat women the way women treat men That was the day you truly ascended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Women have total victory in the West and the Collapse won’t happenI mean then we shouldn't really have listened to feminism then. You're about 60 years too late with that realisation... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 5 | How do I capitalize off of my white male privilege?Yep, average height in Shanghai is now 5'9'', same as in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it's because of my skin color Yes, it is because of your skin color, but I am not a racist. Nothing innate to you about it though. It is just because humans tend to associate with those that look like them, so people who are white tend to associate with those who are white (white social circles) while non-whites mainly join non-white social circles corresponding to their ethnicities. The white social circles you are most likely to join are still benefitting from the actions of the evil slaver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, people like you are the reason why our society is still so divided. They say the first step towards fixing a problem is acknowledging it exists, and you and your kind won't even admit that there is an issue (as evidenced by your reply). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk, fair enough, I admit attributing a portion of the "blame" to you for the actions of the evil whites was a bit hasty of me and badly phrased. What I instead meant to say was that by coming to the US, you took on a portion of the responsibility to atone for the actions of the whites against those who did not look like them. Why only you and not other darker skinned immigrants? This is because the evil whites would have accepted you as "one of their kind" rather than "one of those to treat like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUpon coming to the US and blending in you took on the monkier of a "white person" as well as all the things that are associated with it. Most Germans even in WWII had nothing to do with the Holocaust however Germany as a whole was absolutely to blame and every German could reasonably be expected to atone for the sins of their kind. Much in the same way, when you or your ancestors came to the US (apologies if you are still in the Czech Republic, this doesn't apply to you then) and were immediatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease stop it with the whi*e apologetics and recognise the role that your people, yes your people, had in inflicting misery upon anybody who did not meet your self-chosen standards for being "civilised" (which very conveniently were such that your people met them by default while very few of those not in your tribe did). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's what the women say, ignore them and listen to the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How do red pill philosophers/members view no-fault laws in regards to divorces?Sweden has a high rape rate because they count it differently to other countries. In say the US if you rape your wife repeatedly over the course of 10 years that is 1 count of rape, but in Sweden each instance of forced sex would be its own count which is why their rate seems so high. Also in the US the vast majority of the murder rate is caused by blacks in gangs shooting each other. If you aren't interested in joining a gang etc. your risk of getting murdered is comparable to European countrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 4 | “The sexual revolution was started by women/feminists”- where do people get this idea from?China actually recently decided to restrict abortions: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/sep/27/china-to-limit-abortions-for-non-medical-purposes No moral reasons or anything, they just realised their impending demographic crisis means that abortion is no longer a luxury that can be afforded, so they are clamping down on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?Don't know if it is possible for the under eyelids, it seems to mostly be done under the chin or on the body. You should get a consultation with a clinic for your exact situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?Depends on the clinic you get it done. The US is about 2x the cost of the UK too. I paid £700 for a course of 3 sessions on the chin area at a highly reputable clinic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?Aqualyx: See here: https://www.facialsculpting.co.uk/aesthetics/aqualyx-fat-dissolvent/ It's not an immediate process. It takes multiple (3-4) treatments for the full effect and your chin actually gets swollen when you get the injection since the product makes fat cells swell until they burst and then the waste is cleared away by your body over the next few weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?Oh, this is even better than fillers, see: https://www.thelookbylouise.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/69764368_129788395071580_6089567447139243890_n1-300x300.jpg for an example of what a course can do. Even better, since it gets rid of the fat cells directly it is permanent unless you gain weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?chiseled jawline This most people can artificially get these days by getting a course of fat dissolving injections like Aqualyx or Deso. It looks completely natural too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approach is a must. Online dating produces poor results, even for ones with perfect profiles, and social circle can be problematic and limitedyou soyladden white knight based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Are TRP ideas: new, old, or ancient?My point is everyone had to fight for their rights, including white men who weren't "the right kind of white", women weren't especially oppressed, maybe for a few decades extra at most relative to other groups of people but that is nowhere near long enough to say that "Men" were going around denying "Women" their rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?Nah, I like being in my head. Where else would I be if not in my head? And again please tell me which type of therapist? It's easy to say "the one that will fix you" just like it is easy to say "take the medicine that will make you well" but much much harder to pinpoint exactly which one that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?Again with the shaming... And "react to life in an angry threatened manner" is not very precise either. Which bit specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?Which bit of it? You and I probably even disagree about which bit of my mindset needs changing, and so even if I were to end up in therapy and it was successful from my point of view you probably wouldn't even think the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?Absolutely BASED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?What kind? CBT? Psychodynamic? MBCT? Did you even know that there are many kinds of therapy that have different methods and seek to achieve different results? I always hate it when redditards say "get therapy" without specifying any more detail. It's almost like a conversation ender or a way of showing your moral superiority to the people who you're telling to "get therapy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Are TRP ideas: new, old, or ancient?Yes, and large portions of men didn't get universal suffrage until the 1870s, and were still harassed into not voting until the 1960s. Even ignoring this from 1870 to 1920 is 50 years while from 1920 to now is 100 years, so twice that amount of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 11:47 AM |
| 8 | Male and Female friendships are complicated. Orbiters are quite common.No, they are perfectly reasonable things for an actual friend to do to another. I have a bunch of friends (including female, but she has an extremely male personality) who I would do any of these for (except probably the last depending on the project) and who I would give >90% probability would do these for me too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 8 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?Then why do you (not you personally but women in general) meet people off of OLD or at least not make as much noise about OLD being potentially dangerous for women as you do with cold approaches? You can get a much better idea of a person in 5 mins of real life conversation than with text which doesn't allow you to convey body language as well as giving him as much time as he needs to craft his responses to what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLearn about proxies. Our genes want to spread themselves (as they do in pretty much all life). In mammals (at least, I'm restricting the domain here to be precise) this is done by making the individual males seek out sex, which for pretty much all the species (except one and even for that until very recently) is highly highly correlated with the genes getting spread. Hence men seek out sex, and when they have it it feels like fulfilling our biological imperative, because that is how we evolved s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt isn't like they don't want to have sex with the guy when they finally decide to do it, no different to how they actually want that second rate job when they finally accept it or agree to that third choice school for their child. Humans have an amazing capacity to accommodate (see "the grapes our sour") when the environment limits their options. Same with the settling which the vast majority of women eventually do, (you think Julie at 30 wouldn't be overjoyed if she could get commitment from t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?I care up to the point where she can pull her own weight. If she can't then it will at best be a short term thing. Otherwise not really unless she is making real big money to the point where over the decades it would build up generational wealth for our future children. At that point I start to care again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | A floor in the thinkingFirst day on this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Gender Ratios of US CitiesRight now yes; however for the current 20-24 year olds due to medical advances the men in their cohort will live longer and women will only become a majority when they reach the age of 60+, e.g. see here: https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/2050/ where it shows in 2050 there will still be more men than women in the age category 55-59. Even though the "it gets better for men after age 35" is true right now, it very well may not be so for the men who are currently 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol, US housing is still insanely reasonable compared to Canada, Australia/NZ or western Europe. Basically in all the developed world, USA has the most reasonable housing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Body odor, more than personality, is a huge factor for genetic attraction between people (from BBC)Wait what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, your posts were just completely boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?Maybe it is a class thing but pretty much everyone I know who smokes (very very few) does it in private and they attempt to hide their faces instinctually if they see someone they know while smoking. Young men use apps because it is the only way for them to get anything, since apps have pretty much cannibalised all other ways of meeting after you are out from college. They don't use them because they want to, they use them because they have to. Also I don't want apps banned, I want them to go ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?I think you are suffering from the apex fallacy. Only men who are successful on dating apps would not want them to be abolished, for the rest of us (the vast majority) we would prefer dating apps completely disappeared so that approaching in person became more normalised again/women's looks standards became more reasonable. Also being pumped and dumped is merely uncool, it isn't properly shamed in the same way smoking is nowadays, bring back the shaming (as well as the shaming for men who don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?Smoking isn't just taxed, there's also a huge media blitz against it to the point that there is now a social stigma against smokers. We don't even need to manufacture a social stigma against dating apps, there was one until around 2012ish, we just need to bring it back. Make women chasing Chad and men sleeping around without commitment as uncool as smoking is nowadays and we are golden. This is already the case outside most of the west, we can just incrementally copy what they are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?No you are not. I agree this isn't a political debate sub so yes, whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?The government already does very strong regulations on personal preference through its taxation on cigarettes etc, without these taxes acting as a form of soft coercion a lot more people would be smoking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 11 | Are dating apps an extension of the ‘gig’ economy?Er no, you're not entitled to free anything, be it healthcare or food, or shelter or whatever. And for sex the government doesn't have to force women to sleep with anyone either, just hand out free escort vouchers, plenty of women who will sleep with anyone for the right price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, lots of them are even bait to garner a reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsAbsolutely Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?the girl was 16M Many such cases... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?Not everybody is white and from the west. Yep, god whiteoids are the worst... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread6? With that body? Do you have any idea how difficult it is to get that ripped? No it is not going to the gym 3 times a week. I'd honestly guess steroids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExcept that the women also REEE when people try and agitate for tax money to not be used on single mothers. If it was just a legal thing then these women should be fine with people getting involved with politics to try and change this law. They're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExactly, and just like Arranged Marriages unless the higher power (with OLD it is algorithms, with arranged marriages it is your family) agrees to show you somebody you have 0 chance of dating them. The only real difference is that with arranged marriages the higher power is like a parent that (normally) has your best interests at heart and makes you eat you vegetables while with OLD it is like a parent that gives you all the fast food you ask for. We'll see how it turns out long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFirst time looking at FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh god these women have no idea how bad an active libido with no outlet is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsexually attracted to your republicanism Excellent flair if someone wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.No, ugly men don't get to sleep with the 8/10 women they see on the streets, while ugly women do get to sleep with the 8/10 men they see on the streets. Sex is a big deal to men, the ugly men see this is a big affront to them, they fell like they missed out and they feel settled for by the ugly women, which (rightfully) pisses them off and (rightfully) makes them bitter. This is not a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.No, the ugly men only get the ugly women after they slept with the more attractive men, while the ugly men never had the chance to sleep with more attractive women. This makes a big difference for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Is dating today worth it?Not just that, but lots of other things as well such as no fault divorce. Get rid of that (for both men and women) and I'm sure a lot more men would be willing to take the plunge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Is dating today worth it?Again, a lot of this is because divorce is so easy in modern society. If divorce were harder men at least would be more likely to commit because they know it wouldn't be feasible for their partner to drop them on a whim, so they are fine with putting more in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 9 | Is marriage worth it in today’s era?Those studies generally lump divorced men in with single men and then go and claim that "single men sad" when it's actually mostly the divorced men who have been put through the legal meat grinder by their ex-wives being sad (while their ex-wives are much better off having sucked a man dry, which is why single women show up as happier). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 12:09 PM |
| -3 | CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated bestThanks for the complement, I'm only sorry it was just this day and not the whole week, or even better the whole month. Must... Try... Harder... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated bestLol, the girls in most third world countries have the same rights as the men, there just isn't the big daddy government safety net ready to bail them out for their bad decisions so they have to deal with the responsibilities of their actions too, which makes them actually pleasant people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Absolutely based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 14 | What do you think we should we as a society do with the problem of rising loneliness to not end up like Japan?Misogynistic men of the past created a system that only favored them No, life for the top men was better than the life for the top women. I don't believe for a second that this was the case for the average man/woman though. Pretty much all throughout history a man has been more likely to die in any given year relative to a woman the same age, regardless of the presence peace/war, famine, drought etc, even when excluding deaths due to violence, so don't bother talking about how it's men killing a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Will advancement and egalitarianism of society lead to a collapse in such societies?Before that you had the extended family, which in some ways was the super-nuclear family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Virgins are preferable for long-term relationships and marriageYour ice cream analogy just reads like you need your partner to remain ignorant so they don't know they could do better Pretty much, and this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Lifestyle creep is a very real thing, much like how partner standard creep is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe had all the hallmarks of a mentally disturbed individual, not the best plaintiff for one of the most monumental decisions in American legal history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is evil, pure and simple. Women as a group are pedestalised by society and we need to wake up to that as a whole but this does not give you a licence to be nasty towards individuals from that group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Many modern complaints about men with regard to lack of direction, unmarriageability, etc. are by and large caused by disintegration of the prop ups provided by patriarchy.Except when men come together and form groups those spaces are later invaded and censored by attention seeking women. Lol, this. That or they get attacked by feminists for being exclusionary. I keep saying this but men in general need to treat Feminists like the rap community does, by straight up ignoring literally everything they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 01:18 PM |
| 2 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Where is longpostbot when you need it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Have women only had true sexual selection since the 20th century?Women only have freedom from social constraints, they are still effectively slaves to their biology. The fact that we have removed the social constraints that kept the worst excess of their biology in check is bad for society as a whole, much like how stopping fat shaming led to people not watching how much they ate, causing their biology to make them fat and society as a whole worse off for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreThis is percentage of people who have ever tried dating apps, women generally find someone quickly and get off the apps, when you look at ratios of people active on the apps it is much worse for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 6 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreAt younger ages there are actually more men than women. Normally 105 boys are born for every 100 girls and then men would have a higher mortality rate at every points onwards from birth. In ye olden days the high rate of child mortality meant that by the time of sexual maturity there were roughly 100 surviving men for every 100 surviving women so it evened out. However with modern medicine the child mortality rate is so low that even at 20+ there are still roughly 105 men for every 100 women and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.That's like saying the large homicide rate in the black community is not a problem for non-blacks since its mostly black people doing the murdering. Like it or not men (like black people) are more likely to get murdered and it is a society wide problem that needs society wide solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.Men more likely to get assulted/murdered. Women most affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.I've seen dudes get called creepy by women because they were sitting alone drinking in a bar while there was an unrelated event (which they were not part of) going on, even though they were there well before the event started (they didn't just go and take a seat in the middle of the event). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.There's an old joke that goes as follows: Woman: The worst that can happen to a man on a date is getting rejected and getting ashamed, the worst that can happen to a woman is being raped and murdered. Man: Well, I used to be most afraid of getting rejected, but now I'm most afraid that she'll think I'm there to rape/murder her. Woman: WTF, what is wrong with you that would ever make her think such a thing??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.That is one very public case, contrast to the hundreds of yearly cases of murder due to extreme domestic abuse from husbands. It's like being afraid of lightning when going out on a rainy day rather than slipping and falling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Sure, fine with me. As long as women also are equally attracted to men who stay at home vs work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 05:16 PM |
| -3 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?regardless if what feminists cared about was equal choice they should be promoting the staying at home in western societies, promoting working is promoting the status-quo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:35 AM |
| -3 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?In the western world the default option for women is not staying at home any more, it's getting a paid job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 01:44 AM |
| -4 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?If it is just about having a choice then we should see them promoting staying at home vs formal working equally, instead we disproportionately see them promoting the formal working, even though right now if anything there are far more full time working women wishing they could stay at home vs the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Many people believe that a lot of it is a consequence of women joining the formal workforce, which is somethings that has been championed by feminism. And yes, getting rid of barriers to women working does lead to this, a tiny amount of them join initially, which raises the prices for fixed supply things like housing a bit, forcing more to join to keep up in the rat race which raises prices even more and the vicious circle continues until you basically need 2 incomes to afford to buy a house (an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol, real Tolkien is nothing like the BS being propagated by the woke. These days unless someone has read the Silmarillion at a minimum I just ignore anything they have to say about his universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 11 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?She will think you are using her as a therapist. There are enough memes on the internet about "men will do x before going to therapy". Also, a lot of women complain that males try to dump all of their problems and issues in them. As if women don't do the same to men. Do some self reflection for god's sake... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol, that was probably his way of getting rid of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread25 per day is still pretty massive, and it benefits nobody, not the men who end up having to compete with 100+ other faces for attention or the women who have to sort through 100+ profiles. Needs to be cut down to 5 right swipes per day which is still pretty big (compare to approaching 5 different people every day in person. Those numbers very very quickly add up). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAcute oneitis is never a good thing. I feel real bad for you. Wishing for a quick recovery... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadpaid $400 for a psychic/tarot card reader. Now this is a grift I must get in on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReverse 500 Days of Summer is the normal thing. The movie's main "subvert expectations" card was doing to a man what usually happens to women in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | If a woman spends her prime years with Chad but decides to have a child with someone after 30, isn't that still the ultimate win for the father?That is how you respond to a good joke. This wasn't one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTreat her well, she is special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadImplying gender studies at Harvard is anything better than online trolling... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 7 | You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating ClimateWe have strong social and cultural peer pressure against smoking. That is a good thing; social shaming is not always bad and should not be dismissed out of hand just because it is social shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderWhores provide a valuable service to society. It's not called the "world's oldest profession" for no reason. I would never wife up a girl who liked to slut it around on tinder. The only reason I wouldn't marry a whore who only did the job to earn money is because of societal shaming against these women who are just trying to earn an honest living leveraging what they are good at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderLogging and offshore drilling are two activities that can cause serious harm to workers, and yet if people openly and willingly enter into the deal knowing the risks we don't stop them. High end prostitutes know (to their credit) exactly what they are doing, stop trying to fight against them earning an honest living just because you don't like the fact that this allows men to bypass the standard methods of getting sex. These women should be given a medal for knowing their value, not have their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderI'd also add that escorts by virtue of their jobs escorts are generally highly interesting people who've seen a lot of things and have a better understanding of how the world works relative to your average Tinderella. You can probably easily hold long engaging conversations with high class escorts you couldn't with the sort of people you can pull off Tinder. Another reason to go for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderSuppose you work a job and do averagely. One day your boss mentions that there are getting tons of better qualified applicants for roles very similar to your job and everyone in the role before you had performed better. Your metrics are average for the industry, you aren't bad enough to get fired for incompetence but you aren't winning any "employee of the month" awards either. This is pretty threatening to your job stability relative to an economic situation with full employment where those ads… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men would rather date an escort than date a woman who slept around on TinderTwo people want to willingly transact. Their transaction does not produce any negative externalities. Who are you to comment on it in such a case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Costs of Feminism Mega-ThreadWomen used to be significantly happier than men. Now they are both equally unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Modern dating and the Laffer Curve.Yep, try getting on to these "graduate scheme" jobs and see how few of them even acknowledge your application beyond an automated message. The labour shortage is mostly for unskilled/low skill jobs. The competition for entry level professional jobs that lead to a good career has never been as intense and these days unless you have a degree from a top college you basically have to get in "sideways" (i.e. know someone who knows someone who can put in a good word for you with the hiring manager), y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:09 PM |
| 11 | Modern dating and the Laffer Curve.It has never been easier to apply for a job given that you can now do it with a single click on websites like indeed.com. And yet despite (I would say "because of") this, it has never been harder to actually land one of those jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbtw, japanese and korean people count as white Lol, this is absolute bulls*it. Europeans have far far more in common both genetically and culturally with Afghans than they do with the Japanese and Korean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do?OP whatever you do don't do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do?You won't get any reasonable response from her. Just ignore these kinds of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do?Oh please not this BS again. The societal message being given to men is that we should open up, even though far more women are likely to become disgusted by this than end up liking the man more. The societal message that should be being given is the exact opposite here, with the nuance that not all women are like that. Some woman having a scat fetish doesn't mean that you should shit on every girl you sleep with. Promoting the idea that men should take a dump on the bed during sex would not be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Are we in the age of transactional sexYes, and society as a whole was better for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Are we in the age of transactional sexBig difference when <5% of the relevant population does something vs 50% of the relevant population. Online dating was not an issue back in the 1990s-2000s because the userbase was so small that it didn't have much of an impact on wider society (indeed it was a good thing back then since it gave an extra way to meet new people for those who weren't having much luck elsewhere without being such a big behemoth that it started choking out other ways of meeting people). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | what would happen if online dating/social media was banned in the west?India bans pubg for example. You quite literally can't get it on Apple devices (since it is not on the store) and have to sideload on Android devices. If the same was done to dating apps then yes people could still get them, but the barrier to entry would be much much higher (ask yourself how many people even know what "USB debugging" even is) and as a result far fewer people would use these apps (much like how Gab getting kicked off the main stores seriously hurt its ability to get new users). … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | what would happen if online dating/social media was banned in the west?Imagine thinking that lawmakers won't know what is going on and ban these meetup apps too. App bannings are actually pretty commonplace outside the west and we have good models for how they function: having end-to-end encryption is not a block towards completely banning whatsapp (which some countries indeed do), say, so that won't be a problem banning these remodelled dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?The average woman around here is 5'7'' and 110lbs Unless you are literally spending your time around bulimic models this is absolute BS. Those numbers correspond to a BMI of 17.2 which is extremely unhealthily underweight and will cause them medical problems soon unless it is fixed. The average woman is not underweight at all; more so the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 03:58 PM |
| 10 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardEven if 30% of the population gets murdered and all the people that get murdered are men that is still 1 in 17*0.4 = 6.8 non-murdered men reproducing (and back then there was no birth control for every woman reproducing, so sex and reproduction were far more intimately connected). That "improves" the ratio from 1 in 17 to 1 in 7 which is still pretty shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, that is marriage; you think that men like working 10 hour gruelling jobs to feed and house the family? Most of them would be just fine with a small 1 person apartment if it came to that. He makes sacrifices, so should you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh yes they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if I’m putting the food on the table and roof over our head, am I excluded from this “duty sex” requirement of being a wife? Is “duty pussy eating” part of a husband’s duty? In such a case yes. Who would actually want “duty sex” anyway? Sex is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity - it’s not really fun if the other person doesn’t even want to be doing it. It is also part of your duty to act like you at least somewhat enjoy it; just like how it is part of salespeople's duty to act frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 4 | What do men and women genuinely get wrong about one another both here and in real life?The average woman isn't going around messaging anyone (to a first approximation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | What do men and women genuinely get wrong about one another both here and in real life?Same, I have more interesting things to talk about than sex with my mostly male group of friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himYes, that woman is top 20% by attractiveness, even for her age. Liberal arts colleges are an aberration and have nothing to do with the daily lives of the vast vast majority of the population. Even at 16-24 in the UK a good 1/3rd of people are either overweight or obese, rising to 6/10 in the age range 25-34 (see here). The USA is even fatter than the UK so these numbers are even higher for them. This girl has a small nose, prominent eyebrows, highish cheekbones and a well defined jaw with no re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himno, because they probably are smart enough to disagree with The dating pool can pretty canonically be seen as a market this. Roth and Shapely literally won their Nobel prizes for showing how amongst other things dating worked like a market. See this: https://www.theguardian.com/business/2012/oct/15/nobel-economics-prize-winners-dating-problem for a very quick primer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him? The dating pool can pretty canonically be seen as a market. There has been a ton of scholarship studying the matching of heterogenous goods with highly specialised demands; some of which has even won Nobel prizes. They call this the "Labour Market" and many of the same principles that apply there also apply to dating (except that the buyers in this case don't really know what they want to an extent that would put most companies to shame). Are you really going to go around telling Nobel Memoria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himOk, then bitch and complain online? Will do. Expect a post on this from me soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.The women I know are mostly highly educated MC-low UMC types. They are far better than average and even with them a good 35-40% would still date a hot guy they have nothing in common with. Not marry him, no; but fuck him absolutely; especially if the risk of their social circle finding out is minimal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 18 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.I mean if she's shallow enough to date a hot guy she has nothing in common with, she's mentally ill too. Under this standard a majority of women would classify as mentally ill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himyou can opt out of being on the apps tho. The very existence of the apps screws up the whole market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 16 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himGiven that the majority of people don't go to college that already puts them above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himI don't know why people here don't understand that non-fat + normal features already puts you in the average looking category. The woman is top 20% attractiveness going by face (her body may let her down but we do not know). The man I would put somewhere at top 30% attractiveness, but he could easily get to top 20% with some minor hair and beard tweaks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Please Lilly stop. They're already dead.Lily? This is Lilith the demon you are taking about here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 5 | HobbiesNow that is a name I have not heard in a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | High N-count women are unattractiveYou don't have to do it immediately. You wait until you are seriously considering committing to her. And you don't ask directly. You can just say "hey lets take this fun test which will tell us, among other things, where you are from and your ancestors etc. I'll even pay for it" which very few women would say no to at that stage of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | High N-count women are unattractiveWhat is wrong we me showing her my genome and she showing me hers to see if we are compatible? If we both have alleles for say Sickle cell anaemia then we probably shouldn't stay together if we want kids, and finding this out early is far better than waiting until we have a child with the condition. Also given how cheap the tests have become a man can even offer to pay for the woman. She basically gets to find out her ancestry and shit for free while he can evaluate if she is a good long term pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | High N-count women are unattractiveNothing is ever certain but there are definitely indicators. There are genetic markers that are a good predictor of age at first sexual intercourse, propensity to cheat and sociosexuality. Again not perfect but if a girl has the "promiscuous" variants at all these places that gives a decently high probability that she is high n. Of course you don't look at them in isolation but compare it to the rest of her persona to see if there appears to be any discord between what she says/how she acts and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe feeling is mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Islam is right about women.Burning is strictly forbidden as a punishment in Islam. Only Allah has the right to burn anyone (in hellfire). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Won't someone PLEASE think of the women??In what bizarro world does corporate favour men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 0 | High N-count women are unattractiveThis post has been certified Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetWe are a status seeking species (ironically because status gets us more sex). Having a 21yo on your arm doesn't just get you status with men, but generally also with other 21ish women (pre-selection) while also making the 30yo women green with envy and jealous (itself fun to see and worth some amount of $$ by itself). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetThe point is not just the vaginal quality, but also status. The status you get among other men from having a cute 21yo on your arm is far greater than a 30yo of the same cuteness level. That enough has enough value to be worth the $$. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetKeep laughing. It is the best medicine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 7 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yet14 yo are not old enough to vote or drive a car. If society decides someone is old enough to choose the direction of the country and maneuverer a 1.5 ton vehicle then they are old enough to choose who they bump genitals with too. Stop the shaming. Same as with gay people let consenting adults do whatever they want. Just because they don't want to be involved with you doesn't mean that you get a right to interfere. They target young girls who are sweet and too afraid to tell them to fuck off so t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yetStill worth it. For any 30 year old in decent financial shape the $$ outlay on meals and the occasional gift are not that valuable compared to 21yo pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Ever notice how common this is?There are huge disadvantages in the dating market for non-white men. This is an actual issue that needs to be addressed. Instead we get demonization of white people in unrelated fields which have no bias and by doing so create discrimination (just look at the difference in percentage of white owned companies that are not willing to hire non-white people vs percentage of white women unwilling to date non-white men). Stop demonising whites in hiring etc. (where if anything the objective data alrea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is Purge Week based?k inc*l. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNever said it would be easy, much like how smoking was seen as super-cool once upon a time. Still needs to be done for the health of society at large though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Practically every abusive quality men get accused of, women do x10Accusing the enemy of what you are already doing is a time honoured tactic used to sow confusion and division. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMurder has the strongest disparity, but we can look at general crime too (murder also has the benefit of being very hard to hide and not report as there is a body and a person disappears). Even when you control for poverty poor American blacks are still more criminal than poor American whites with the same income. This isn't a black people problem since there are African populations who are very low crime (and your average African-American is already genetically 20% white) but more of a screwed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn the US for homicide Gender is about as strong an indicator as race (a man is 8x more likely to commit murder as a woman, which is the same rate a black person is more likely to commit murder relative to a non-black person). If you say that poverty and poorness is what we should look at instead of race then you must also apply that to gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:05 PM |
| 3 | This is what white knights believeI see the inc*ls are out in force as usual whenever there is a purge week. Please for god's sake develop an internal locus of control. Yes the dating market is fucked, but you can do a lot to improve your relative position in it (much like how the economy is fucked, but by working hard you can still do pretty well for yourself). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:40 AM |
| -7 | To women who have had multiple shorter-term relationships and are now in long-term committed relationships, who did you give your "best sex" to?One issue is that for men "the best" has a significant component being the youth of their partner and not just their enthusiasm. You were older when you did stuff with your husband than with previous relationships, which already counts as a negative to it being "your best" in they eyes of many many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, not being fat + no deformities already makes you at least a 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:22 AM |
| 8 | Gabby Petito Mega-ThreadWhat is this Grabby Potato nonsense and why should I care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:17 AM |
| 6 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.The issue is that Lifestyle Creep is a very real thing. All humans experience it to some extent in every domain, e.g. I've personally got so accustomed to AC that now living without it is genuinely very difficult, even though a few years ago I survived just fine. In much the same way these women get lifestyle creeped into only being able to accept top men. Under a strongly monogamous society these women would never even have a chance to even get with top men for the short term and the vast major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men.Yeah, this is why women mostly fall behind, because they take time out; naturally time spent caring for children is not the same as time spent on the job getting experience, and experience is one of the best predictors out there of job performance, so naturally those who have more of it get promoted more, since they are quite literally more likely to be better at the job (and no, the skills you hone from taking care of a child are less valuable to doing a job than those you hone from doing the j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 12:04 AM |
| -1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?Yes, a pick me I am super attracted to would be my dream girl. I would commit to someone like that in a heartbeat and stay loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 7 | Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men.Ah yes, women not wanting to have sex is the man's fault for not making her relaxed enough just as men not wanting to have sex is his own fault too (try making the argument that men feeling too tired for sex after a hard day's work is his wife's fault for not providing a relaxing enough environment and see how far that gets you). Please; don't take away women's agency; they are capability of taking responsibility for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:34 PM |
| 12 | Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men.Oh no not at all you don't understand. The Pay Gap is an argument used mostly by young women (who already earn more than their male compatriots) to get even more money/promotions for themselves, even though it is the older women who are doing worse. Your fundamental mistake is assuming that the sort of people who make "Pay Gap" arguments want a fair world rather than just wanting more for them and theirs. This (and similar other bullshit arguments) is why I immediately discard the opinions of an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 10 | Dating and sex for men?Oh god, you are a male feminist. Seriously please get help, I mean this 100% sincerely for your own benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBeing on reddit is in fact being a normie now. Being on PPD is not though. Your average redditard would have an anaphylactic shock within 10 minutes after seeing dissenting options from the progressive groupthink that the mods don't remove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: Fisher did nothing wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is the hope, now if only the same people who preach total sexual freedom drop their objection to genetic editing we can actually achieve something before shit gets too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?Well, at least we know that women are even more similar in who they choose to accept (who are already pretty uniform in what they find attractive) than men are, see: https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-good-man-is-getting-even-harder-to-find-11570200829 It turns out that the Gini index for males is 0.542—a high level of inequality. A small number of men hold most of the attractiveness assets. For women, in the eyes of men, the attractiveness assets were much more evenly spread—a Gini index of just 0.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:36 AM |
| 8 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?It's like saying "why do people prefer extroverted friends more than introverted?" Really? I strongly prefer introverted friends. They are much harder to get but once you make one of them your friend they tend to be more loyal and interested in your flourishing. Think about it this way: if an introverted person wants to meet you then you know he/she values your company a lot, while for an extroverted person you could be just another nameless face amongst all the other people they want to be arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?Agreed. I would be considered massively introverted as a person. However I've gotten tons of complements on my "confidence" and have even heard about others complaining I am too "brash and loud". I like interacting with others, but they must be people worth interacting with (interpreted very loosely), and the clientele at your average bar or club usually does not clear that hurdle for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason to treat older man/younger woman differently than anything else?Risks don't add linearly. Think of it like this: when the mother is young there are very few mutations in eggs etc. and the risk of autism comes mostly from mutations in the sperm, which increase with age, so older father strongly increases the amount of mutations and so older fathers have much higher autism risk. When women get older there are far more mutations in the egg, to the point that the amount of these is much much greater than the increased number of mutations in sperm, to the point t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason to treat older man/younger woman differently than anything else?This is the exact study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4068119/ From the abstract: Based on the first examination of heterogeneity in parental age effects, it appears that women’s risk for delivering a child who develops autism increases throughout their reproductive years whereas father’s age confers increased risk for autism when mothers are <30, but has little effect when mothers are past age 30. Older partners don't reduce the risk, but they don't increase it either relative t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good reason to treat older man/younger woman differently than anything else?Note that the disclaimer at the end of the line is but only if the mother is under age 25. So this twice as likely does not apply if he is having a child with someone over 25, which is pretty likely even if he dates 22-23 year olds (since people usually wait a few years before having a child with someone). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way.Ok, but would you be OK with the statement "this woman is a 10"? I suspect most progressives<sup>TM</sup> would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 0 | If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way.Really? I refuse to believe this... You are fine with statements like "a man over 6' tall", but not fine with "this woman is a 7/10"? Would you be fine with "this woman's looks are 7/10 for me"? I fail to see how "a woman over 7/10 in looks" reduces women to a number while "a man over 6' tall" does not. Remember that the height case is actually objective, while the 7/10 is a subjective assessment and differs widely for people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 0 | If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way.According to your system women saying they only want to date 6ft+ guys (or more) is super duper objectification and should be called out. Again a number is being used here. No different to men saying they want to only date 8/10+ girls, except that 8/10 is already far more subjective than height which can be objectively measured. Given that such women are far more common than men who use number ratings I think you (and society as a whole) should fight that first if you want to make any serious cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Has asking out a girl become stigmatised in today’s society or am I just coping?And there is nothing shameful in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Has asking out a girl become stigmatised in today’s society or am I just coping?Can't believe I'm agreeing with poppy.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Will women ever evolve beyond worshiping Jason Momoa to a stage where the most desired male is Zuckerberg?I am talking in general, not outliers than Mr. Sugarhill. An intelligent person has far more money making opportunities available to them than a stupid one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Will women ever evolve beyond worshiping Jason Momoa to a stage where the most desired male is Zuckerberg?the ability to get money is not an inherited trait Yes it is. Intelligence is strongly inherited for one, and intelligence is probably the main way people get money these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm just one pound from leaving normal BMI and you gotta nip that shit at the bud. This, you need to stop getting overweight; once you reach that point getting back down and staying there is very very difficult. You can do it; we believe in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStill go and work out. Muscles use up calories too; you'll burn more calories just sitting around if you have muscles compared to if you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If men are always looking for sex, and very sexual creatures, how do religious men cope?its 10000 years of suffering after being reincarnated as a lower life form. This is not Islam. More like Hinduism and Buddhism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | How many men out there do you think would gladly take a life that involves literally *only* fucking supermodels 24/7, and doing absolutely nothing else? (no friends, family, job, hobbies)Definitely take it for a few months at least, maybe a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:05 PM |
| 15 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"Yes, life was extremely shitty overall for everyone, however for some reason women's suffering back then is now used as evidence that men treated them super badly and so the current reversal is justified, while the men's suffering (to many extents even worse) just gets ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:04 PM |
| -1 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"90% of paternity decisions happen outside of court. It's mainly men deciding to leave the kids with the mother. This does not prove what you think it proves. 99.9%+ of transatlantic journeys are safe and proceed without any issues, that does not mean that crossing the ocean is an easy task and you could do it in a dinghy. Same here, if the men all know that the court is very likely going to award custody to the women then why should they waste time and money to contest something that is almost a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | As a male, I find it embarassing that other men wish to restrict womens freedoms just because they're "Lonely and sexless"It's amazing how we have managed to get into a position where it is very easy to break up a marriage and end the social obligations completely, but very difficult to end the financial obligations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:59 PM |
| 3 | New study provides insight into how heterosexual college students seek out hookupsYou do know you replied to a bot? Also it clearly stated "non-liquid". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Have men become too mistrustful of women when it comes to sex?Absolutely Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorWell had he done that he would have been attacked by (perhaps a different set of) feminists (but feminists nonetheless) for being so direct and "aggressive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorThere is a problem with pressure, that pressure comes from mostly men, a few bad apple women, and patriarchal social structures. Please, Indonesia is far more patriarchal as a social structure than the USA while offering just as much personal autonomy but being far far less sexualised. It is not patriarchal social structures that make people over-sexualised, but instead the chimeric monster of "progressivism". The problem is not patriarchy/matriarchy etc, indeed I would far far prefer a matriarc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorFirst, I disagree wholeheartedly that having an OF, or any other online method or forum for displaying nudes or engaging in any other kind of sex work is "whoring" - I don't really wish to continue to engage if you insist that a woman making use of her own sexuality and her own choices is subject to your own moral judgement, which your shaming language indicates you're absolutely doing. Sure, I'll call it something else, how about "high sociosexuality" which I believe is the technical term. Howe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 4 | So, i meet a girl in a bar 2 days ago and...Unironically ignore this person, they are a negative influence on you. Stay positive, you had a learning experience, there is nothing wrong with that or wrong with you, follow this dude's advice instead: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pq3ifm/so_i_meet_a_girl_in_a_bar_2_days_ago_and/hd8a444/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 11 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorDifference is that the racists are hated and marginalised by society, while these people are if anything supported and their voices amplified well beyond the point they should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorThe thing is that even with full "personal autonomy" people will take different decisions depending on their society and upbringing. The same woman brought up in Indonesia is less likely to go off whoring on OnlyFans than if she was brought up in the USA; even with full personal autonomy. This is no different to USA society "grooming" her to be more sexual relative to Indonesian society than 1 man grooming her to send her nudes etc. However Progressives<sup>TM</sup> hate the latter while complet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorMy original comment stated that it's a bad thing for a man to attempt to convince a woman to do something sexually. That's it. My reply is that western society already strongly attempts to convince women to do stuff sexually, hence someone like you should agree it is bad in this regard, relative to somewhere like Indonesia where women still have full freedoms but are not nudged into doing sexual stuff (hence the lower OF rates etc.). However often Progressives<sup>TM</sup> are the staunchest def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorExactly, this is my point. The social pressure is what is different between Indonesia and the US for why fewer women go make accounts on OF. If you say that a man convincing a college woman to send him nudes is grooming due to the pressure he is exerting on her then the current social environment in the US etc. is the biggest groomer out there in the world, since in a different social environment the exact same woman with the exact same freedoms would not post on OF, just like how with a differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorPeople can afford even less in Indonesia, the don't resort to selling nudes (and no, they don't end up in prostitution, you are thinking of Thailand), they just make do. US society as a whole encourages promiscuity far more than say Indonesia (or say Singapore, if you want an example of a first world country with far lower "whoring around" rate); why is this not seen as grooming while a single man (who has far far far less influence on anyone than society as a whole barring super-extreme abuse c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorYou forgot to change your account... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorSo you would say that if the nudes were never used as blackmail or revenge porn than this would be totally fine? I still suspect your average ProgressiveTM would disagree. (Reminder than OF nudes can be and are also sometimes used as blackmail or revenge pron). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorWell in that case I am sure you are even more appalled by society convincing women to join OnlyFans and post their bodies in every single pose. The sum total of the pressure that society exerts is far far greater than what any single man can muster. Under a different social order far fewer women would decide to go on OnlyFans even if it was just as available, just like how if you replace the groomer with a different decent man the woman won't be sending her nudes/consenting to sex etc. E.g. see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Either die a virgin or live long enough to be labeled a predatorI don't entirely disagree with you but there is a difference between taking photos of your naked body and having actual sex. In that case would you agree that it would be fine for an older man to convince a college age girl to just send him nudes instead of fucking him? I strongly suspect that the current Zeitgeist would still classify this as grooming, regardless of that fact that no sex took place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How did these whole redpill/bluepill ideas even start?Red Tomatoes I lol'd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, Lord of the rings is actually internally consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is not for no reason that in the dramasphere we call the place FemaleDelusionSubreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFake nooz, basic tickets were just $100. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFind a new job. These people don't appreciate you properly; from what I recall from some posts of yours they underpay you too. Just make sure you accept the new job before resigning from this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeem so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlease, in a world where most people are overweight the combination (no glaring flaws + not fat) already makes you at least a 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot quite that good. I can write well with both hands either separately or can write the same thing with both hands at the same time or write with my right hand a mirror image of what I am writing with my left hand at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm ambidextrous, like actual proper ambidextrous as in I can write very well and have good fine motor control with both my hands. This is actually a pretty damn rare skill. The stats on the internet saying that around 1% of people are ambidextrous lumps people who are equally bad at writing with both hands into this category (which is why you often see bad studies saying stuff like "being ambidextrous is strongly correlated to lower IQ so being ambidextrous is bad", no low IQ means you get peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 10:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSacré Bleu! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUpon coming to the west I was disgusted that people here don't use a bidet to clean themselves, even with toilet paper you will still have a small amount of faeces left on you unless you wipe 5-6 times with new paper each time. I legit thought that toilet paper was just used to dry your ass after cleaning for many many years... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Would you a prefer a guy for whom sexual success comes naturally, or someone who worked very hard to achieve it?You would be surprised how much effort there goes into picking and choosing fragrances for the occasion. Someone who just spurts "Acqua di Gio" on his shirt for everything can not be said to "wear cologne". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeconded, this goes against my priors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All] A few questions on "nights out"Correct. Men need to realise that there are girls you fuck, and girls you marry; any women who even remotely "enjoys" nightlife belongs solely to the former category unless she is an extremely rare high decoupling specimen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeems pretty good for a 60 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Q4Red-Pillers: What are your thoughts on modern-day sexual consent laws?"Fuck me or I kill you" - This is coercion and should be punished. "PleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithmePleasehavesexwithme" - This is not coercion. "If we don't have sex, I'm not going to date you anymore" - This is also not coercion, even if you only agreed to the sex because you wanted to continue dating the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMoldbug was prescient, a lot of his writings on the cathedral etc. was written back in 2008, well before any of the woke stuff got of the ground | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessThe statement that every behavioural trait is heritable is literally called the first law of behavioural genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessPretty much every behavioural trait is strongly heritable, meaning that genetics explains a significant part of the total variance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou really do ban people/remove comments for no reason... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadnice Ad hom, good to see you following in poppy's footsteps... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 04:55 PM |
| 13 | Is body count a part of modern dating culture?I only care about it if I'm interested in the person for a serious relationship, if it is something casual then it isn't important at all (and I will downplay the importance of it if she brings it up since I want her to sleep with me more etc.). Somewhat ironically for the women here, if I don't care about your n-count I don't really want to have a serious relationship with you, I suspect it is the same for a large portion of men, so if anything how interested they are in your n-count is probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRecently started talking to a girl who seems interested in gender relations. Should I show her PPD? What do you guys/gals think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLook what happens to all the non Muslims when they marry late. Most of them commit Zina or watch porn I was talking about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Could #MeToo Ultimately Be A Good Thing?Nobody should be asking anyone out at work (don't shit where you eat). MeToo often went beyond an intra-workplace thing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, people need to remember that you haven't made any money at all until you cash out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Could #MeToo Ultimately Be A Good Thing?Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 8 | Could #MeToo Ultimately Be A Good Thing?No, this indeed raises distrust. Lets look a at a different case study. Imagine that some members of a minority group were involved in a lot of crime, to the extent that a significant percentage of the total crime in a country was committed by this minority group. The vast majority of people in this minority group are perfectly decent people, but there is a larger than average "rotten core" comparted to other groups. If the majority group started an "awareness campaign" to tell society at large … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 19 | Could #MeToo Ultimately Be A Good Thing?Betteredge's law strikes again, the answer to your question is a big fat : NO. All MeToo has done is scare off inhibited dudes from asking anyone out, making their lives even worse. The actual abusers don't care. Same reason that you can't "teach men not to rape", 99+% of men would never do such a thing, the other <1% are the serial rapists who would never even pay attention to your lessons; the whole thing is just a grift to get more sinecures for the diversity industry which has a side effect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn the drama sphere "Male Feminist" is a euphemism for sex abuser, with the idea being that because he can't get pussy the normal way, he says he is a "feminist" to get access to spaces where women are concentrated and then proceeds to vigorously assault them. Basically "Male feminist actually an abuser" is our generation's "Catholic priest secretly gay". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMale Feminist Pickup artist Does this dude assault any women who are not receptive to his game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:12 AM |
| 6 | How would you feel?Men are on average just 10% bigger than women, not twice their size (and also have on average 10% bigger brains to match). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.And here we see a soldier bravely heading into the abyss. A great pity that he was never heard from again... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?I don't know why people keep saying baldness is unsolvable. Good hair transplants exist and last a very very long time. At worst you will only need 2 touch-up surgeries in your lifetime (any good transplant will last at least 20 years unless you are super unlucky). They are expensive yes, but for $10,000 you can absolutely fix "going bald". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn the UK getting a grad degree in humanities actually hurts your earnings, unironically those with just an undergrad in the humanities out earn those with a masters/PhD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUntil you get botulism and die a horrible death... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 04:37 PM |
| 4 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?Say a BMI of like 17-18. Or 100-110 lbs. Or 23-24 inch waist. Er no, I don't want someone anaemic. BMI around 20 is the sweet spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh yes, Minecraft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supernormal_stimulus Superstimuli are heighted versions of natural stimuli we respond to and thus can have a negative impact on ourselves (or society) even though the original stimulus is supposed to be positive. The most obvious one is junk food. Our taste buds respond positively to stuff that is high in fat and sugars etc. since in an environment with limited food eating stuff that is high in this gets you more energy faster compared to other foods. Fast food exag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSuperstimuli strike again. Yet another example of modernity making things worse for humanity as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFailed to be first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 05:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe whole sub is a drama troll op, just go with the flow and post something similar before it gets shut down by the madmins for "harassment". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 04:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadfail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExactly, most people who reee about Islam don't fully understand the whole scheme of things; they only see one small part and since it does not fit in well with modern notions of equality condemn the whole endeavour. For instance see Islamic Inheritance law. Inheriting Sons get twice as much inheritance as a daughter, which seems completely unfair until you realise that in Islam it is the man who is expected to provide for everything and the woman's money is considered her's to do with as she pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm a Pisces moon so I like men who are easily moved - to both laughter and tears. It's literally predicted in my birth chart. Thank you for convincing me to never take you seriously again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey are looking for countersignalling. They want a man who is so masculine that he can cry without it hurting his perceived masculinity too badly, if you are trying to appear more masculine (because it isn't so obvious for you that you don't even have to try and appear masculine), then you should absolutely not cry in front of a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Is college worse for dating than high school?I met basically a superior version of her (who is unfortunately now a fat lesbian) The tragedy of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is using data from 2006. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 21 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?As someone who is decently Red (and harbours a lot of contempt for the modern Western woman - but equally I harbour a lot of contempt for men too) I would say my most blue pilled belief is the existence of True Love and how it is one of the highest, most pure in goodness, things that can be achieved. I truly think that those who find themselves a loving partner who they also love deeply early on (and these people exist) are extremely extremely lucky, nay, even blessed compared to everyone else t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?He's right you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh, didn't know her new name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBTW, where is Atlas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUm yes, this is obvious to everyone. Something like 80% of aging damage comes from UV rays from the sun, and people of colour have more melanin which blocks these rays before they can go deep and damage the DNA, hence why their looks degrade less with age. Pretty much everyone knows this, it's not like something new. (Hence why all white people should immediately start wearing sunscreen). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwoman went to a dr and he told her he could treat what was wrong with her with a very expensive medicine, but for less money he could ingest the medicine himself and apply it to her with sex lol How is ingesting the medicine yourself any cheaper? That woman must have mush for brains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 34 | Do men enjoy being desired more?Yeah, I can even tell from this distance that this marriage is near over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 6 | When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich.Bezos ain't going out with young Sanchez, but what she is like right now, see: shorturl.at/aixBI Still pressing that [x] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:44 AM |
| 7 | When looking at the top 16 Billionaires, they almost always married much younger women. And if they didn't they almost always got married way before they became rich.also Lauren Sanchez is very hot Press [x] to doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 09:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyeah, that just gets your posts/comments removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 04:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen is the next purge week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 03:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread(What they say) vs (What they do) as usual... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 03:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon't say the word, just like "Bloody Mary" saying it summons them here (via Search Engine Optimisation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAutomod beat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBased. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 09:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust go with the flow mannnnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can get a hair transplant. They really aren't that expensive and usually last for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.Unfortunately not that simple. Changing environments here is like banning dating apps (or at least making them really really difficult to use), not just not using them personally. This effect is from women's dating pools getting larger, not what the men themselves do and the availability of dating apps already magnifies the size of that for women as a group. Even if you aren't using dating apps you are still competing with the men on them if the women can just whip out a phone and swipe instead,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.I know the whole subcontinent region pretty well (barring Nepal and Bhutan). I didn't really notice much of a difference in rates of hearing stories of forced marriages between urban Pakistan or urban India, both had very low rates. Of course rural life is a completely different story though and I can't claim to be knowledgeable about that. It may be a more Muslim thing than anything else, the most prominent difference I noticed between India and Pakistan was the amount of cousin marriages going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.Arranged marriages do not work like the way they are being described by the poster in Pakistan either, at least in urban areas. Even the women at the bottom of the totem pole (like cleaners and maids) still have the final say in yes/no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.No, those are forced marriages, and while forced marriages are usually arranged, the opposite is not really true. Almost all my relatives and their friends had an arranged marriage. In fact the ones that seem to be doing the worst 20 years down the line disproportionately went for love marriages instead of choosing from among the choices their parents came up with for them (my family is not the strictest about it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadClose shave, now you know that this is something you are liable to doing make sure to take precautions against it happening. You may not be so lucky in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.Yep, arranged marriage is not much different from exclusively using dating apps in principle. If you use a dating app the only people you can date are those the app shows you: if it doesn't show you person X, then you can't date them. Arranged marriages just replace the dating app with your parents who have more of an interest in your happiness and success than a piece of software designed to make its creators rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood god, these women I swear... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 09:31 AM |
| 18 | Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners.As I said on an individual level you can do your best, but that does not mean society is not unfair and we shouldn't point out it should be changed. For an analogy consider a society where social status is determined completely by how good you are at chess, and the bottom 10% of chess players live a hand to mouth existence while the top 1% live in lavish palaces. As an individual unless you are mentally handicapped by working hard enough you can get yourself out of the bottom 10%, and if you hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Does Environment (Cultural, Social) Play a Part In A Man's Ability To Get Laid?Yes, for instance it is well known that in speed dating that the bigger the size of the group (i.e. the number of men that women see at the event and vice versa) the more selective the women are, while men's selectivity remains unchanged. See: https://www0.gsb.columbia.edu/mygsb/faculty/research/pubfiles/867/datingFULL-EK1.pdf for the research. It's from 2005 so things have only gotten worse since then... This too is an excellent read expanding on the article, in fact I recommend reading it over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)Wut? This is the exact opposite of how I and I suspect most men think. You have to be a lot lot better looking for me to consider a full relationship with you than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Why the sexual market place will ALWAYS be skewed towards women in a free society.Another simple solution is to get embryo selection going into full drive until we reach gender ratios of around 2 women for every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Professional couples are on the rise, but it’s not increasing income inequalityTRP hypergamy is very different from the "marrying up in social class" hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pill men despise college educated women over 25 when they have most successful marriages?The RP thought is that (not saying I agree with it) it is not the college education that causes the reduction in divorce rate, but the type of people that go to college being less likely to divorce in the first place. If these women had never gone to college they would be even less likely to divorce. Again not saying I agree with it, but that is the thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread.7 r2 is way too high for anything in social psychology. Even IQ has a lower r2 to income. I think you're messing up some numbers here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes it actually work though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, here's hoping your next six years are much better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Yeah, the terrible thing is that we don't even know what exactly is causing the issue. I suspect that in 100 years the humans of the future will be shaking their heads at how stupid we must have been to miss the obvious cause of the issue, much like how we do for Romans with their lead pipes and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Now Find Purple Pill Debate on Instagram and Twitter!No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyyes, prostitutes are much cheaper both monetarily and in terms of time commitment if all you are looking for is a hoe and don't place much value on the other things that come with a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyThis, plastic surgery can work wonders. It also has better results the earlier you get it in your life, early - mid 20s is prime time for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have good taste in books then. It is an absolutely excellent novel, even though it wasn't recognised as such when it first came out in 1985. Just goes to show that sometimes you need to let things age for the true gems to stand out and for the mediocre to fade away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe was still right about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue, although even back in his time there were absolutely amazing women like: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89lisabeth_Vig%C3%A9e_Le_Brun and even further back people like: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murasaki_Shikibu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, at will employment in the USA is a big reason for why cancel culture is so big there. Here in the UK it is also pretty difficult to fire people after they have been in the job for 2 years, and just because they wrote some declassee things on twitter is not going to cut it (unless they were officially referring to them representing the company). Thus we don't really get many outrage mobs in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly when he wanted to change his job he should have whistleblown this to the authorities and gotten a nice payout from the company as a parting gift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain with the usual "you can't attack BP/Antifa because there is no single coherent ideology called that, it is a collection of nebulous groups". Well there is no coherent organisation called the Taliban either (mostly a coalition of separate warlords fighting against the civilian government) but they still seem to have taken over most of Afghanistan. People like you make me sick with your sophistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: Schopenhauer was right about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBlood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy, highly recommended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf most people and mainstream media now use it to refer to mentally ill misogynists then that's what this word means to most people. Words change meaning over time depending on how they are used. That's normal. Please, nobody is falling for that shit any more. I remember how the liberal media demonised everyone who used the term NPC to refer to your usual soyjacks (try using this term in normal discourse) even though they weren't calling them literal video game characters with only a few set voi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, cricket is the one true sport. Nothing else compares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadoof, sorry for your loss... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour?I'll just leave this here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/o46nrf/hits_pipe/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"I am not arguing that financial hardship is not bad, I agree it leads to worse outcomes overall. What I'm saying is that single families due to the father leaving are bad in of themselves, regardless of financial hardship. Yes single parent families are likely to be poorer, but even comparing single parent families to non-single parent families of the same income level the single parent families do worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 0 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"Nope, once again even controlling for economic factors the single due to father leaving do far worse (i.e. if you compare two families, one intact and one broken, both with the same level of money, living in the same neighbourhood etc. the intact family will do better). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"Er... The point of these comparisons is not to say that single parent families can't be happy. The point is that single parent families are much more likely to be unhappy and do worse on a load of metrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 4 | The Atlantic - "The Bored Sex"Er, cause they are. Just look at the outcomes for single parent families vs non single parent families. And before you go "that's just society" just look at the difference in performance between families that are single parents because the father just left (terrible) vs those where the father just died (outcomes almost same as for non-single parent families). This association holds even after controlling for stuff like socioeconomics status etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?At the moment given the massively inflated property prices giving your child a sibling is one of the most violent things you can do to them when you consider the huge damage it deals to their eventual inheritance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathreadyou had casual sex one time when you were in college? now you’re damaged goods until forever. Statistically, yes. There is a big difference in the mindset of someone who is even open to causal sex (which someone who had it once is) and someone who has never had it. Not a perfect heuristic, since people open to casual sex may never have gotten the chance, but you have better odds if you only stick to those who never did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 7 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceIs this a satire? Cause it reads like a satire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 10:40 AM |
| 9 | Why does the cheating gap exist&change with age?XX and XY. XX = Ladies XY = Gents. No other variations were created Not quite. Klinefelter (and other variants) do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI'm deliberately not linking all the newspaper articles since that gets your account suspended. Just google the terms and see what comes up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIn case people haven't seen this, it's absolutely hilarious After watching that see this, it's the end of the same episode that clip came from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathreadtrans, that word is banned on Drama because the admins are super touchy about it. Hence t-slur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadSee my reply to another response to this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHoo boy, read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/mb87qw/dear_dramatards_i_bring_you_actual_dramatic/ Then read this: https://np.reddit.com/r/ukpolitics/comments/mbbm2c/welcome_back_subreddit_statement/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOpinions on the reddit trans pedo gigajannie drama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadYeah, reddit gigajannies got me after I made a (highly upvoted, although this was in r/Drama) comment on the Thermidorian Reaction and how the wokies were basically asking for something like that with their antics... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadJoin the anti madmin club. They seem to ban everyone for the tiniest stuff nowadays. I got done in by Barf-binn, thus making me extra Burdensome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?When women say "equality" then mean they want a better man than them to treat them as if they were both on the same level. Always has been, always will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadJoin the Linux gang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLol, it ain't whites doing the vast majority of anti Asian hate crimes, also it ain't new either. The only reason it just flared up in the mass media is because they finally got a perpetrator they could shame on national television without looking unwoke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOh there is plenty of racism, systematic even; the vast vast majority of it is not directed towards blacks though. But like I said, discussion for us is pointless because we don't even agree on the basic facts of the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLol, the thing is that I disagree with what you say shows significant racism. Note I want evidence of more racism than what a comparable non-black would suffer, not just "this dude was racist against blacks", there are plenty of people racist against non-blacks too. You're even admitting to the Kafka trap now. Talking with people like you is useless. Good day sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf you look at the stats it is amazing how inefficient BLM actually is even at saving black lives. Their protests over the last 5 years haven't saved more than 1000 lives if you go by how many blacks actually get shot by police and die. Conversely charities like the Against Malaria foundation can save the life of a (black) child in sub-Saharan/central Africa for around $3,000 each. Doing the calculations this basically means that every single BLM protestor could have saved 10x the amount of blac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAnd? How does that make me a racist? I repeat, this is a Kafka trap: anyone who says there is no racism must be racist, thus showing there is still racism. Try some other consensus building technique next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadMe: I don't think there is systematic racism. You: That is what a racist would say. You are a racist. Nice Kafka trap bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNot even in the US. BTW Trump supporters make up more than 40% of your country, you should probably learn how to accept them as one of your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAre you a troll? Your posts seem like those of a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIt's 100% true, darker skin blocks the UV rays from getting through which blocks vitamin D production. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadNihilism is a meme ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLol, there is no systemic racism against blacks any more than there is against whites. The strongest level of any such unequal racism is the fact that we don't add vitamin D to bread, since black people have a harder time making it from sunlight than white people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 8 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWe just think BLM is exclusionary and deserves to be undermined in favour of a more inclusive message for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadAll lives do matter. If you are against that statement something is wrong with you, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:02 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadSmurf, I hate to say it but people like you are emblematic of what is screwed up about dating these days. You literally left your hedge fund manager husband (and presumably took half his shit) for some band member (or equivalent job) with groupies? At your age? I just hope I never get involved with anyone like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:15 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadTexas can maybe secede due to its location but what about places like Kentucky which is complete surrounded by places that don't want to secede? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 08:07 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHe's already been fired, no suit yet from the union. Floyd's family got a $27 million settlement (yep, that is the correct number) from the taxpayer just a few days ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:27 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadLol, if you're watching the live stream go back and look at Juror 59 (just finished 14:10 Minnesota time), absolute caricature of a Soyman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 07:12 PM |
| – | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadOpinion on the trial or Derek Chauvin? Currently Jury selection is being live streamed and due to the random nature of selection it's a good look into what people outside of your bubble are like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 06:24 PM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?As they say Tinder Delenda Est. If you are not Chadlite at a minimum you'll get far more success running social circle game rather than Tinder. If you're shy in public even then literally any other dating dating app will give you better results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 05:26 PM |
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