Daily Community Chat Megathread

simeneta_two · 2022-01-12T20:58:51+00:00

So our company recently decided to align their parental leave across all offices and give 6 mos off (regardless of gender). I’m assuming this was already in place in the European offices but I’m very curious to see how this will play out in the US.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-12T20:43:24+00:00

Why are there so many "truths" about women and relationships that I’ve found to be wrong in my personal experience?

Like "don’t act too interested" is an example, it’s the moments that I’m straight forward about being interested that I get the best results.

Also pre selection bias. The only time this has benefitted me was when I was welcomed into a social circle warmly, not being seen with other women. Like if I’m seen with or bragging about other women then I get labeled a player and girls don’t want to risk it. On the other hand, if I tell them I only want to be with them and there’s nobody else I’m talking to, then they’re more likely to be interested.

Girls liking assholes or macho guys is another one. Someone replied to a post here and said they found that women liked muscular and agressive guys. My experience was so different. I found that girls like guys who are metrosexual and kind of feminine. The jock meat head types were cringe and embarrassing.

Maybe it’s because I’m more involved in the emo/pop punk scene growing up, so they had different interests, but it’s funny because there is a certain hypocrisy I notice.

TRP will say they want traditional women and any sign of deviance like tattoos or piercings are a red flag.

I’ve found the traditional girls are more likely to be shitty and the alternative girls are more likely to be less shallow and more pleasant to be around.

I feel like there is a cultural difference that I’m experiencing where the other side is having issues because of the people they choose to associate with

angels-fan · 2022-01-12T20:14:21+00:00

/u/narniafox

How accurate is this comment?

https://www.reddit.com/r/worldnews/comments/s280yo/us_nato_reject_russias_demand_to_exclude_ukraine/hsdedye/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

TheBookOfSeil · 2022-01-12T20:13:19+00:00

Anybody have the experience of a lot of people of the opposite sex eventually falling for you at some point after getting to know you?

Bonus points for it only happening when you're not looking for a relationship, but the moment you become interested, they start running away.

angels-fan · 2022-01-12T20:09:00+00:00

So glad to be back in maskless Utah.

Prestigious-Fly-1949 · 2022-01-12T19:59:04+00:00

Does your personal definition of agreeableness mean the tendency to be compassionate and cooperative, rather than suspicious and antagonistic towards others. Good-natured, cooperative, and trusting.

or Compromising their own interests for those of others. Saying yes when they do not agree ?

Slipthe · 2022-01-12T19:24:13+00:00

Bruh my problem with my work ethic is I will do 5 minutes of hard work and reward myself with 30 minutes of slacking. Every time.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-12T18:38:14+00:00

I think I have survivors guilt because I’m not an incel.

Around middle school I realized all of the songs I liked on the radio were about relationships and I had never been in one, then in 9th grade I learned that just about everyone I knew had already been sexually active.

This led me to think something was wrong with me so I worked on becoming more attractive to women, and I don’t know why but I wanted to be like some of my friends that were players, so I studied women and read magazines targeted to them and I watched the romance movies they typically like and I crafted this persona. The problem is at the time my emotional issues were too intense so the first sign of rejection I thought it was just more proof that something was wrong with me so I started to hate myself more and more.

The thing is girls liked me and would make out with me, and I got blowjobs and stuff, but it never escalated to full on sex and I used that fact to convince myself there was something about me that made me pathetic.

Then in my early twenties I realized that girls do like me, it’s just that my emotional issues which made me abusive would push them away and that just because a girl doesn’t want to have sex right away doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to have sex at all.

So I learned to hide my emotional problems and I basically had no problems getting women. I definitely got a lot of rejections and girls who wouldn’t reply on dating apps, but over all I had a rotation of women at all times.

And I look back and it’s like why was I able to do that but so many guys struggle even into their 30s and 40s.

Why do girls even like me, I don’t think I’m that attractive, but still it’s like I can get girls obsessed with me fairly easily.

I have been described as charming and flirtatious, I actually talk to women and listen to them, I guess when it comes to escalating sexually I’m good at asking and probing what they like which I’ve been told most guys don’t do, they just go for it, I say a lot of sweet things, I hit them with the good morning texts and all that.

But I don’t do anything that any other guy couldn’t do

Slipthe · 2022-01-12T18:33:30+00:00

The 22 year-old-girl who looks 8-years-old setting up a dating profile with her family.

Her dad was pretty candid. "You don't really know what their intentions are. Are they allowed within 500 yards of an elementary school?"

The girl also says in this video that 'all the boxes of physical intimacy have been checked'. Meaning she's already had sex... but with what kind of dude? How young could a guy be where it wouldn't be weird?

Ambassadior · 2022-01-12T17:55:18+00:00

Goodbye everyone, nice chatting. I've come to the understanding that I have been subconsciously using RP/MGTOW to cope with deep seated trauma from women my entire life, and my brain has adopted these narratives as a mechanism to avoid being vulnerable. It's a natural process so I don't blame myself, but I've decided to spend my time working on my mental health.

Have a good one folks, hoping you guys have a future of spicy threads. Peace out. ✌

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-01-12T17:07:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s1qef6/i_26f_broke_the_1_rule_of_fwb/hs9yo59/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

A public service announcement:

if you’re a woman in a FWB situation and he doesn’t want to make it a relationship, there’s a very high likelihood he is out of your league.

chilikettlechips · 2022-01-12T16:53:31+00:00

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Prestigious-Fly-1949 · 2022-01-12T16:37:05+00:00

Do you consider this to be high maintenance?
- Using reusable towels instead of paper towels to clean
- Using a bidet and reusable drying towels instead of toilet paper
- Composting and recycling
- Reducing single use plastic buys by grocery shopping with tote bags and decreasing the amount of frequent online shopping
Regardless of your 1st answer, would you agree to your home operating that way?

EDIT: Thank you for your replies! I see that most people aren’t down with a bidet but varied levels of this.

I was told this was high maintenance so wanted to see how this community felt.

-passepar2t- · 2022-01-12T16:16:19+00:00

I told the girl I'm seeing the truth about how troubled and insecure I've been feeling as a result of certain life and career developments. Now taking bets on how quickly it'll take for her to lose attraction to me.

abaxeron · 2022-01-12T16:05:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/28jos4/laura_prepon_nude_sitting_on_a_horse_backward_nsfw/

Here's nude Laura Prepon sitting on a horse backwards.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-12T15:42:51+00:00

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Mark_Freed · 2022-01-12T15:15:43+00:00

Today was just insane.

I meet this causal friend of mine at a cafe. She is a total karen. A super left wing feminist - blogs, insta posts about women empowerment. Very performative, using all the woke keywords like problematic and patriarchy.

So I talked about my dating troubles and she started giving me some serious advice. Like I could see she genuinely cares and OMG guys, it was like she was giving me quotes from TRP subreddit.

"nice guys finish last"

"lie if you have to, never tell her you have no relationship history; fine atleast act mysterious and say you don't want to talk about it" - preselection

"don't simp, don't show so much interest, let her work for you. hold back and treat her like how she treats you"

"Be independent, don't focus on her, forget her birthday, occupy yourself with other hobbies, when she thinks she has you and gets comfortable then she will lose all interest for you"

"sexual compatibility is the most important thing, if my bf's dick game sucks I would next him no matter what his personality"

Here I am trying to act like this blue pill romantic, and she is telling me stuff I already know. I was close to cracking my facade and talking about monkey branching, hypergamy, stoic, etc but I can't trust her. So I played the role of the romantic artist who refuses to give up on his principles. A role that is basically true to my overall identity...

But I wonder how many feminists are actually red pilled like this. It was a surprise to be sure. Maybe these "truths" are more self evident and commonly known than what people on reddit think.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-01-12T15:14:47+00:00

Is Chad still Chad if he has Chad looks and height but doesn't ever get none because he has crippling social anxiety?

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2022-01-12T15:05:11+00:00

The champ is here

Autonate · 2022-01-12T14:56:52+00:00

Anyone just not ask out/approach women? I've approached like 3, because I wanted to get to know then better and then once I got to know them better I stopped talking to them. I cannot find people worth approaching...maybe I have to get out more? Even at the gym or something I won't approach because women say not to do it there, same with grocery stores. My work is online and mostly male. All my hobbies are nerdy and independent so no women there.

Do I need to force myself to like a hobby to meet more women? Is it even worth it?

And too ugly for tinder, only had a few dates that required way too much time to find

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-12T14:50:00+00:00

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Slipthe · 2022-01-12T14:30:25+00:00

Regrets.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-01-12T14:30:06+00:00

What is it with big white girls liking skinny black dudes and skinny black dudes liking big white girls?

I wonder what it is about this. You see it all the time

(I'm certainly not unhappy about that arrangement though!)

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2022-01-12T14:14:26+00:00

I see that my comment triggered all of the old women here. Stay mad crones.

lulll · 2022-01-12T14:12:16+00:00

these bitches crazy

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-01-12T13:58:14+00:00

Has anyone ever met a person who obsessed over “the decline of fertility in the West” that actually has children? If so, did they actually procreate alot or just had 1 or 2 kids like everyone else?

Autonate · 2022-01-12T13:56:40+00:00

u/seele or whatever the fuck your name is

This person is your secret admirer: https://www.reddit.com/r/AreTheStraightsOK/comments/s1uasm/vaginas_are_the_essence_of_women/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

SpicyRamenAddict · 2022-01-12T13:43:39+00:00

I’m gonna be a lifetime natty until around 55yo and then I’m gonna do copious amounts of steroids.

MalePsychopath · 2022-01-12T13:33:30+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/psychology/comments/s2592b/people_behave_more_sadistically_when_theyre_bored/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

That explains a lot of the conversations here. :D

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-01-12T13:20:41+00:00

RedPiller: "Here it is! Ultimate proof that my assumption about how awful all women are is categorically true! Try to counter this source 😎"

Posts a clip from a heavily edited reality TV show

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-01-11T22:07:52+00:00

Any potential wife of mine must have ALL of these and I will NOT lower my standards:

100+ n count
tattoos
awful cook
corporate job
over 35
totally infertile
fat bitch
laughs at me when I cry
open to divorcing me
uses anti depressants

TooHornyToFap · 2022-01-11T22:30:42+00:00

Why is it that when women hoe around and sleep with a fuckton of guys, she's living her best life but when I hoe around and sleep with a fuckton of guys, I'm considered gay.

JB8511R · 2022-01-11T21:41:23+00:00

I’ve been thinking: those who miss out on teenage romance fundamentally miss out on the slow gradual build up of relationships, both physically and emotionally.

Physically, it starts with the longing looks and holding hands, to the kissing, to the over the clothes stuff, to other forms of sex that aren’t PIV, ultimately to fill on sex. Obviously these stages can and do happen in relationships at any age, but experiencing them over a few weeks- years is more manageable. However those who miss out on all this are often expected to jump to full blown sex within a few hours of meeting the person, which can be overwhelming and leads to self sabotaging behaviours as it helps them avoid the fact that they’re scared of intimacy because it seems like such a big step for them.

That is why many people who didn’t have early relationships will try and find a proper significant other who they’d trust enough to be vulnerable with, to do these intimate things with, as opposed to a one night stand from a club.

CimZim · 2022-01-12T11:24:05+00:00

u/Dulce_Criatura posted much earlier in this thread about getting kissed by women without his consent (I'm sorry that happened, my dude, it's gross and wrong) and a few other men chimed in with stories of women randomly groping and humping them in clubs/bars. Each guy said "if I was a woman, all the guys around would have beaten him up" or "if I did that to a woman, I'd be locked up on assault charges".

In my experience, this isn't the case though. I've never been to clubs/bars, but I've had my crotch and tits groped at parties, had 2 male coworkers slap my ass, and been pushed up against lockers and kissed without consent by random jocks in high school. Every time, other people were around and watching, typically a 3/4 male 1/4 female ratio or 1/2 ratio. Never once did anyone do anything except laugh and make comments. When I was younger and that stuff still upset me, and I wanted to report it, I was told by both sexes to not take it seriously, stop being a hardass, learn to take a joke, be glad you're attractive.

I do think it's disgusting how many men get touched without consent by women, and it really sucks that happened to a lot of you guys. But the idea that the majority men/boys are scared to do that to girls/women, or that white knights will beat a random dudes ass for pulling that shit is not realistic. Whether it's because they honestly don't see a problem with it, or it's just the bystander effect of "nobody else is saying to stop, I can't either", ime sexual assault is usually laughed off by everyone. It's rare that anyone gives enough fucks to help a boy/girl or man/woman who's being touched non-consensually. Just how the world is, unfortunately.

Willow-girl · 2022-01-12T03:27:18+00:00

Well, the bad news is that I didn't get the job at the car rental place. It stung a bit as 20 years ago when I was lunching with congressmen, I would have considered that sort of job beneath me. But ... that was then, this is now. Sigh

The good news is that I'm in negotiations to take on another weekend cleaning gig and have an interview for a custodial position that is likely to be a full-time cushy union job with benefits. The Indeed website indicated there were upwards of 40 applicants for the slot, though, so I'm not getting my hopes up.

Also in the good news column, I started a free online 30-week class to learn to be a full-stack web developer. As the old joke goes, last week I didn't know what a full-stack web developer was, and now I is one (or is gonna be one). LOL

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-01-11T21:03:20+00:00

I just want to thank all the women who post here for taking time out of your busy schedule of jumping from Chad to Chad and making enough time to bless us with your presence ❤️

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2022-01-11T22:55:45+00:00

HD picutre of every person who has ever typed "Enjoy The Decline"

CFinCanada · 2022-01-11T23:45:12+00:00

Currently watching the Chippendales curse documentary on Prime video.

CMV: Attractive men look good topless, but with pants on. Pantless men are inherently cringe.

goneaway2thewind · 2022-01-12T03:08:18+00:00

"Men just want us for sex" has the same energy as "Women only want money"

LackOf_Empathy · 2022-01-12T03:17:59+00:00

"Women are dream killers. Not because they have an agenda to be so, but because men will all too willingly sacrifice their ambitions for a steady supply of pussy and the responsibilities that women attach to this” - The Rational male.

This quote speaks facts, a lot of Red Pill people are forgetting that they themselves are responsible for choosing to prioritize women over planing out their future.

purplish_possum · 2022-01-11T23:39:15+00:00

Long line to get COVID booster shots. At least I'm on the clock.

angels-fan · 2022-01-11T22:51:10+00:00

PSA: If you're wearing a mask and behind plexiglass, SPEAK THE FUCK UP!!!

Dulce__Criatura · 2022-01-12T01:15:16+00:00

Pussy pass is something I haven't seen discussed here or maybe I am blind but it is mildly to fully enraging the stuff woman can do and be laugh off as harmless.

In one party, a girl playing a bottle game or something like that had to kiss someone. I was sitting in a sofa behind them. The bitch decides to grab my head by the neck and kiss me, she was drunk enough to fail and mumble something as I pushed her back.

Had the roles been reversed, I would have been slapped and beaten by dudes around instead of laughs.

Another one similar. I was sitting during study break minding my business. A girl I had a beef decides to troll me by kissing loudly on my check out of nowhere.

Once again, had the roles been reversed, instead of laughs because she slobbered the awkward dude, I would have been reported to the director.

I know it is harmless stuff but what I hate is the double standard. Woman sexuality is always seen with good light.

Meanwhile, men, don't dare look at that slut wearing a mini skirt. She is empowering her self by becoming a sexual object and YOU can't look at it you dirty dog.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-12T01:19:48+00:00

I'm working on my 22 diet goals by eating 3 street tacos on this hallowed Taco Tuesday.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-01-12T12:14:24+00:00

If you have to compare your suffering to other people’s suffering in order to be taken seriously, you’re more privileged than you realized.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-11T21:00:37+00:00

Foist

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-01-11T22:15:42+00:00

I remember one of my friends told me every time she tried to give a dude a chance that wasn’t her type physically it ALWAYS ended up in a disaster lol. Like people would recommend guys to her and she would be like what the hell I’ll give it a chance and it like nah. Especially sexually, she said “sex can hurt even when you like the guy and thinks he’s hot, now imagine when he’s just meh to you”.

logiauser · 2022-01-12T01:30:17+00:00

So Drake put hot sauce in a used condom and the woman got burned when she tried to impregnate herself?

How is sperm-jacking not a crime?

KickAss2021 · 2022-01-12T05:32:12+00:00

be woman have zero personality call yourself bisexual, because you like touching your own p call yourself demisexual because you like romance novels and romcoms

Incredible meme from fortune

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-12T05:35:31+00:00

Q4M: Why?

John_Oakman · 2022-01-11T21:12:17+00:00

Like any renewable resources, over exploitation of altruism will inevitably lead to the disappearance of said resources. However, the market will adjust to resource scarcity and change accordingly.

The transitional period is always painful however.

razormachine · 2022-01-11T21:47:44+00:00

The creative writing is getting better

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/s1jphu/my_35f_husband_39m_is_living_in_an_alternate/

razormachine · 2022-01-11T23:55:16+00:00

Shitty part is having to learn each other kinks later in the relationship.

It would be cool if it was socially acceptable to reveal kinks straight away.

-Hy I'm into ass eating!

-Oh I love getting my ass eaten! I also love pegging guys!

-That's awesome! Wanna grab a lunch together?

Instead people are like "what's your astrological sign?".

rivetcitymayor · 2022-01-12T00:24:00+00:00

2022 feeling like 2021 part 2 so far Smh

purplish_possum · 2022-01-12T01:48:03+00:00

Dating the unvaccinated is a headache. Literally had coffee in my car smh.

simeneta_two · 2022-01-12T02:00:58+00:00

The Tinder post below got me thinking—is there such thing as the opposite of preselection? Like you see a man with a partner who’s significantly worse looking and wonder what’s wrong with him?

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-12T02:52:20+00:00

Posting for the guys on here who think there are no well known true crime/cold cases with male victims

Andrew Gosden is a very famous cold case - a British teen who bought a one way ticket to London, and disappeared. I never in a million years thought it would be solved - but always hoped it would be

They announced today that two men were arrested for kidnapping and human trafficking in this case

The men have been released, which makes sense give what “arrested” means in the British CJ system

But they haven’t said anything about what happened to Andrew. They have very carefully avoided referring to him at all, so they haven’t had to use past or present statements - I don’t know what to make of that

OneAngryBlutbad · 2022-01-12T08:48:06+00:00

Me: bored and on here

Wife: was browsing and went to sleep

Newborn Son: sleeping thank god

Wild Hogs Outside: fighting, screaming squealing and snorting

Zavier221 · 2022-01-11T21:58:07+00:00

What exactly is the benefits of marriage ?

FenaPugi · 2022-01-12T03:27:22+00:00

Kippo just came out in my region, it seems alright.

Bit of a yikes that the devs think atheism is classified as a religion...

Ended up just leaving it out of my profile/ bio card.

chilikettlechips · 2022-01-12T04:37:46+00:00

proof that miracle babies are a lie. And people that claim they were using condoms are fucking liars.

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-01-12T05:21:11+00:00

So if theres more than 2 genders then how come ive never heard of a trisexual. Ppl skip all the way from being bi to being pan. Wheres the ppl only attracted to 3 genders?

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-12T08:31:43+00:00

Can't sleep.

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-passepar2t- · 2022-01-11T22:09:43+00:00

Bravery is not a function of firepower.

simeneta_two · 2022-01-12T00:42:26+00:00

Q4W in relationships: Would you rather your partner

Get fat and bald but keep a high paying job
Stay attractive but lose his job and never work again

Note I’m talking about someone you’re currently dating. State age(s) and relationship length if you want to.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-12T12:46:51+00:00

Dang, My Chemical Romance Tickets are super expensive for a decent seat. I got Jack White tickets the other week and I thought they were a bit steep but not this bad. Don't know if it is worth it when they might get cancelled anyways. I haven't made it to a concert yet without it being cancelled post pandemic (or I guess now continuing pandemic.)

zyramain69 · 2022-01-12T01:05:31+00:00

Depopulationers and Antinatalist been loving the past 2 years

TheHeroReditDeserves · 2022-01-12T01:30:39+00:00

Does FDS hate men more then WAATGM hates women?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-01-12T04:36:43+00:00

Has anyone been banned from any subreddits bc you made a comment on a post on another subreddit that shit talks the covid narrative? So far I've been perm banned from 2 subs that I don't even follow. I heard its a reddit thing that does this not the actual mods.

Anyway hows the covid situation where you're at? My job we had at least 6 ppl who tested positive. I tried to take this shit seriously follow all precautions and getting vaccinated (per exec order of Pres. Biden), and I still see people catching covid. The straw that broke the camel's back for me was one female coworker tested positive a few days ago. She wears a mask, gloves, fully vaccinated and still got it. Im starting to think covid is inevitable and these vaccine passes are just horse shit.

Edit- Automod if necessary. Don't want to see this sub get any strikes from the Reddit admins from this post. TY

Daily Community Chat Megathread

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