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That is not what metaphysics is. Metaphysics is a term in philosophy, and specifically the philosophy of first principles. Things like being, time, how we experience reality, how reality itself works, outside of our concepts of it. Before modern science, what we now call physicists were known as natural philosophers, and what the other commenter is saying is that modern physicists are still making what are essentially metaphysical claims. And relying on metaphysical assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:11 PM
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Why wouldn't they? Successful women typically work white collar desk jobs. Which means lots of paid time to shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:08 AM
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Well even if it's not a gun there's considerably more risk and danger in any actual IRL interaction, especially for women when it comes to interacting with men. Like I said, those women still need to take responsibility, but the level of risk is just not the same as a guy sitting on his computer actively seeking out parasocial interactions with sex workers. Girls on OF aren't forcing themselves into these men's personal spaces while they're out, the men are the ones actively searching for and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:53 AM
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I mean, not really. Especially if it's only online. They have influence, sure. Pretty women make men weak but no one's holding a gun to their heads and those men are under no obligation to fork over their money. Even at my lowest I would never do such a thing. Keep in mind those lonely men are actively out seeking to spend their money. No one ends up on OF accidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:46 AM
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I mean, you can't con an honest man. Sorry, I have pity for people who are so desperate but I don't think either can really be excused of their own part in their misfortune. People have to take responsibility for their own lives. And I think you made a false equivalence in your comment. They only have surface level similarities and aren't really equivalent, even if the only solution to both scenarios is the supposed "victims" taking charge of their own shitty decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:42 AM
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/u/Barely_moral at least seems to have been up front with his intentions, and his wife is aware of the conditions of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:22 AM
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Eh, I think the abdication of responsibility on both sides is equally pathetic. On the one hand though, with OF there's no active personal deception, really. Lonely dudes should be smart enough to know they're just paying for a service, the business model is pretty up front with what you're getting. So I agree with possum that dudes who actively target poor desperate women are scummier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:19 AM
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That's interesting. My dad lived in NYC in the 70s and I remember being warned about just being on the subway there, because it was basically the Coliseum in terms of exposure to potential violence. But I know it got way better in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 AM
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Yeah. Like I've lived in sketchy cities before. I lived in New Orleans for 3 years, and also Trenton and Philly, and honestly I see that person's point. It's whatever, just life in the big city. But it is eye opening to see yourself become normalized with that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:26 AM
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Yeah it's def something you have to feel out in relationships. Even though I don't give a shit about my own, if someone I was dating assigned it importance I would make an effort to make it special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:24 AM
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I was in San Francisco this past weekend, for the 3rd time, and I was made aware of two crimes that happened in broad daylight. I think it's a beautiful city that I love to visit, but, at 2pm I saw (from a distance) a guy break an SUV's back windshield to steal a piece of luggage, and, later, at a Starbucks, someone stole my girlfriend's drink as it was placed on the counter (I was away and didn't see it, but the barista saw it and immediately made her a new drink). Kind of interesting to see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:18 AM
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Never knew if I was weird for this, but I've never given a fuck about my birthday. Like, to the point where I don't announce it, only family and the closest people to me even know about it. I can see your point if like, your live in romantic partner doesn't even mention it, but honestly just a private dinner together would be more than enough for me. But if I was dating someone for a little while, odds are I'd only even mention my birthday if we happened to be hanging out that day, and at most I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:11 AM
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Q4ALL: How many here expect to eventually get married? Corollaries: Were you raised in a two parent married household? Did your family own a home and did you graduate from a 4 year university? Do you see marriage as a beneficial or harmful/oppressive social structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:33 AM
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Good points. Honestly I'm pretty indifferent towards OLD. I personally got really lucky and met my person, but I wasn't expecting anything. Just testing the waters, since the barrier to entry is so low. So far as I can tell, people still do meet irl, and generally with better results. But, thinking broadly and about the culture as a whole, OLD really can't be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:14 AM
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Yeah I can definitely see that. There's always this pressure to race to the bottom, the most shallow method seems to usually win out online. Just because attractive people have such an advantage in a space where most people's incentives and attention spans are so shallow. OLD really can't be the only tool in use, for most people. It should be treated like the lottery. You might get lucky, but keep your day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:06 AM
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Such innocence. It's sweet, in a way. What are your opinions on the current scene? You met your h 20 years ago so I assume you haven't participated in it, but you're here, so you've definitely read about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:41 AM
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Yeah, for sure. There's definitely merit to just being your unfiltered self (well, the best version of it anyway). If you're kind of weird, let it fly. At least those who do bite will be more intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:35 AM
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I agree with that, although I think that's what made it lame, back in the day. Even recently, when I used the apps, I (and many of my matches) saw overly detailed and manicured profiles as cringe. I just threw up some pictures and some provocative one line bio and waited to see who bit. All the chemistry and actually getting to know each other really happens in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:31 AM
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Yeah that's what I figured. Kind of interesting how mixing technology and sex has gone from being totally lame and embarrassing to being cool and the dominant facilitator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:28 AM
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Yeah makes sense. Everything regarding technology nowadays isn't really comparable to even 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:26 AM
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Nice, the frontier days of OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:20 AM
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I don't think it really has an answer, just curious about how people view apps' effect on the culture. Although most people probably don't really think into it that much, which is probably for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:17 AM
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You're older iirc, do you think the online dating environment you participated in is comparable to the current one (honest q)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:13 AM
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Q4ALL: How many people here have found a serious LTR through apps (defined as lasting at least a year and a half, or including milestones like moving in together, discussing marriage, having children, etc). Corrollary: Despite such results being possible (which of course they are in any format in which sexually interested people can meet and interact), do you think there's credibility to the idea that the introduction of such commodification of something as personal as relationships and sex has …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:06 AM
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Enjoy being on that soapbox I guess, but I really don't know who else can fix one's problem of not having friends other than the individual themselves. No one wants anyone else to force themselves to be your friend. The free association is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:15 PM
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I mean, there are women engineers too. Also, in your framing, women seem like they're the actually the superior beings, masterminding the fundamentals of the dynamic. But your attitude seems to imply that men are superior. Seems to me like, in your schema, men are the simpler creatures, unable to gain the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:36 AM
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Sorry to hear. That sucks, but those are all problems only you can solve. Not saying it's all necessarily your fault, but it is your responsibility, and yours alone. It only gets better if you make changes. Or even then, maybe it won't. Some people's lives just don't pan out sadly. But, in that case, it's not because you're in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:31 AM
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Yeah, I agree. We kinda treat them kinda like hurricanes or some other random inevitable natural catastrophe. "Welp damn, whaddya gonna do?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:30 PM
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Nah, Americans are desensitized to mass shootings. The one in Buffalo had a spicy racist angle, so it stuck around in the news for a few extra days, but it's already gone. Everyone will forget about this one by the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:11 PM
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Interesting. Figure you'd see them as too prissy urban libs. Which tbh they kind of are, moreso than PBS, which I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:10 AM
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You're taking this "debate" way too seriously. There is no debate. There are winners and losers, living lives utterly incomprehensible to the other. There is no common ground at all. No shared reality. This is just where they talk shit to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:39 AM
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Do you notice any effects on your performance (mental, athletic, or sexual) during 24hr+ fasts? I find that I feel mentally sharper but physically weaker. If I push through that wall by working out during the later stages of the fast it helps, physically and sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:38 AM
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Just dial the number associated with the landline itself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:21 AM
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God bless 🙏 I personally hate being the DD or otherwise sober around drunk people, so props.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:00 AM
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The catholics who give up alcohol for lent are always the most hardcore, it's basically a sacrament
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:55 AM
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If we have established anything, it's that many men will take what they can get and do the mminimum. I think that's up for debate. And this place is plagued basically by men who either have little experience or plainly state that they have no interest in serious relationships. You're actually one of the few women here who opens up about issues and concerns they have in their marriage. I generally assume you're just venting, but marriage is a marathon, there's bound to be peaks and valleys. And i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:32 AM
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Honestly, probably not. Maybe that's terrible, but my options aren't limited to that. I've been great friends with those with disabilities, and have also worked in group homes assisting in their care, but a romantic/sexual partner has different criteria. I'd prefer not to have to bear that extra burden with a partner, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:03 AM
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Yeah, I had to drop the cigs. But damn if I don't get the worst cravings for them after midnight. Smoking is a nighttime sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:44 AM
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I always knew it, fellow usaf brat. I'm very much an old school drugs kind of guy. Give me black coffee, a beer, and, if I still smoked, an unfiltered pall mall. I'll stay up all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:39 AM
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Agreed. I find if I just stay up I find a second wind at some point. Caffeine and alcohol help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:32 AM
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A common refrain among the stemlord types here is that language is up for interpretation I mean, it is. Just like stem. That's why it's always changing. Grammar is a science, but it's subservient to practical use, and secondary to communicating meaning. Which common usage and vernacular frequently deviates from official grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:12 AM
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Yeah, same. Can't nap. 3 hours is just a tease.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:09 AM
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I always feel more tired after a nap. I'm more of a power through then sleep for 10 hours person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:07 AM
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Sure, but most men have some subject or topic or hobby they're really invested in. A personalized gift from someone who really understands you and your interests is always better than something generic. I think men and women are the same in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:59 PM
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The "optics" that Putin was trying to project that this invasion is actually about rescuing Ukraine from Nazis and not his own geopolitical goals is what's really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:52 PM
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It doesn't matter for wrangling the heifers you're partial to. If you actually want to attract hot women, then yes, you need style and charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah it's basically the same, but with more trashy drama. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen...a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:52 AM
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It's okay. I relate. I'm a casual at everything except souls games and europa universalis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:46 AM
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Being difficult, but still manageable with effort, is the entire souls games' brand. They'd face way more backlash for watering down their content from the diehard fans who have been there since demon souls. Who gives a fuck about casuals? Casuals themselves don't even give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:39 AM
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Nice bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:39 AM
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I wouldn't say decades from now, the build up has been going on for decades already. China now already has a larger fleet than the US, they've had troops amassing near Taiwan for years. I still think it will take years, yes. And it won't start with a hot war or full-scale invasion, in all likelihood. But a naval blockade to cut off trade and choke off Taiwan's superconductor exports is definitely possible in the next couple of years. And the West is not yet prepared to bear that economic burden.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:15 PM
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That kind of was a key lead up to WWII though. The real play is to keep an eye on what China does. They're clearly collaborating with Russia to some extent. The attack was almost certainly delayed until after the Olympics, likely at China's behest. I don't think it will happen soon, but if China attacks Taiwan this could get interesting real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:05 PM
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Hopefully you're kidding. Because if you don't get it you may have to retract your claim to brilliance from a couple days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:39 PM
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Dropping $3k on a custom sleeve from a reputable artist in the hipster part of town is the very definition of safe privilege though lol. I have nothing against tattoos personally, I actually really like the dumb impulsive ones because they usually tell a good story. But I have to cringe a little when I hear umc+ people planning these expensive pieces as if it still represents danger or rebelliousness. The days when having a tattoo meant you were in prison or the navy or a gang are long over. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:01 PM
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Mark Knopfler is a God. The schecter is great! Underrated brand imo, I've owned four. Not just for metal either, this one has the Fishman modern pickups and they're wonderfully diverse. I love the ibanez too. At the moment my only real amps are a boss katana and a line6 spider iv half-stack, which is actually amazing. For home recording I'm mostly plugging direct through a line6 pod still lol. Your rig sounds sick though, I will always have a soft spot for ibanez and squire trash strats. They so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:41 AM
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In a random tangent, which guitars comprise your rig? I'm holding it down with a schecter sls elite and ibanez 8 string.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:15 AM
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Ha yes, glad you came back around. Seems we're both mired here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:46 AM
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I saw. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:34 AM
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Yeah, exactly. I'm a guy and I agree with you fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:32 AM
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I figured the men here would say this, but I wonder if the women will say the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:29 AM
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It always changes things. And your friends will talk about it. You can get back to normal in time, but only if both parties are chill and move on to new people outside the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:26 AM
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Q4M: would you rather your female interest see you as super hot (like male model status) or super brilliant? Assume that whichever trait you are exceptional in, you are only modestly above average in the other, and also that this girl is brilliant herself and in some intellectual field where being brilliant carries key status. Corollary Q4W: if your man had to be exceptionally hot or exceptionally brilliant, and only slightly above average in the other trait, which would you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:14 AM
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It just depends what you want out of a "relationship." If all you're looking for is a guaranteed sex output for a given cash input, then sure. But for some men, the feelings and energy from having a girl you're attracted to be sincerely interested in you too, expend effort for your sake, and become emotionally invested and drawn to you is by far the best part. There's nothing quite like it, having a real connection, changing who you both are, seeing yourself do and say things you never would and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:36 PM
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Big brain take is to start sitting then finish standing. Also, using wet wipes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:51 PM
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There's way less at stake misconstruing signals from someone you're not attracted to, so you're less vigilant for them. Something something intermittent reinforcement as well. Reward systems become more compulsively attached when the dopamine is inconsistent, and unpredictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:12 AM
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I got a chance to see eyehategod right before Joey died. Unbelievably heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:39 PM
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Looksmatch is a fake concept. Male and female attractiveness can't be compared. You compete with your own gender for partners, not with each other for who's better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:17 PM
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You seem cool like the kind of person who owns snakes and goes really hard for halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:24 PM
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Kids are smarter than you think. And they see everything. Somehow every adult seemes to forget this as they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:56 PM
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It is a game to be won, until (or if) we become a post-scarcity civilization and leave this planet. It's a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:08 AM
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What's on your scare-a-ho playlist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:13 AM
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Do women actually care about abs? feel like it's more of a meme. Some have been into mine, others more indifferent. They all really liked the lower abdominal V heading south for sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:23 PM
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At that point not necessarily, although they do offer an advanced course for extra training, which the Army will send you to if they feel it's necessary. The main mission is bringing service members from day 1 knowledge of a language to near fluency in as little time as possible. I wouldn't stress it, if the military life is for you I'd say go for it and ride the wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:14 AM
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Defense Language Institute, where all branches get foreign language training. You mentioned Arabic in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:06 AM
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You going to DLI?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:02 AM
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That only happens to you if you let it, and most non-military dudes are just as easy to take advantage of, if not easier, because there's a lot of support and resources within the military designed to prevent that exact thing from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:53 AM
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Do it honestly. The military is what you make it. Generic advice, but there are literally endless opportunities within to take advantage of, not to mention a huge built in network that you will benefit from for life, and can easily leverage into post military life, if you want to, especially on the officer side. There are huge sacrifices too, of course. As an officer you will be moved around constantly, and have to flip your life 180 degrees on a near yearly basis. So family and friends will dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:51 AM
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You'll have to definite some limits to get a real answer. I think super speed would be more practical, and cooler. Like every hero has super strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:04 AM
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Most people are very interesting once you get past their surface-level presentation. This is so important, I'm glad to see someone else say it. Being a person is fascinating in and of itself, before adding the total uniqueness of every individuals experiences and quirks. And it's ironically those who refuse to see this that confirm themselves as basic, because it should be obvious to anyone who actually has even the slightest depth to their thinking. I love meeting new people for this reason. Gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:03 AM
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If you're lukewarm on the military and don't mind your assignment, I'd say stay for at least one more enlistment. The military is a pretty good social network, decent pay with minimal expenses if you play it right. You can set yourself up pretty well. Plus always go to college later with your post 9/11 GI
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:02 AM
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I prefer to think tits are the evolved state of ass, rising to meet man as he learned to stand upright. Ass is for primitive monke. Which is why it's chad's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:58 PM
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Milkers are the objectively beta choice. The freudian prison for men who never got over the ultimate oneitis: their moms. Chad hits it from the back and doesn't even bother to look at her face. That said, I'd take Alice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:11 PM
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Damn you got BB'd hard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:39 PM
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Q4W: At what age, on average, do women start to find chest hair attractive. Not necessarily like sasquatch levels, but just some friction on the sternum and a happy trail down south. My last gf (in her early 20s) was meh about it, but slightly older women have seemed to appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:24 AM
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To each their own I guess, but IIRC you're a UMC doctor probably living in a safe suburb, not a bulk dealer chilling in a surveiled safe house. Sounds kinda larpy but whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:58 PM
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You wear a piece while chilling on the couch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:07 PM
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Q4Men, what's your approach to tinder text game? I had success in the past but that was years ago, don't wanna be using the same meme game as the sub on reddit features.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:53 AM
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The sniff test is the only way to go, for everything: clothes, food, sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:34 PM
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The thing is all these terms are just a matter of perception, and perception is reality. One girl's romantic sweet guy is another girl's simp. TRP is an approach about numbers and appealing to the statistical averages, and the reality is most normal dudes lean more towards simping than being confident, collected, and exciting, so that's what they need to learn to emphasize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah. They both admit to it too, well trp used to anyway idk about now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:58 PM
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They'd still be after the money, is the thing. Foreign women are fundamentally different from American women. They are still women, of course, but they have real problems and real insecurity. Also typically more conservative upbringings, so sexual promiscuity is just not ranked as highly in importance. Landing a dude with money who's willing to provide is still more valuable. Financial freedom is far more meaningful than sexual freedom. They're very practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:29 AM
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You do. If you're white you can probably get away without doing so, since if you aren't obviously under the influence the odds of getting searched are pretty low. But yeah, you're supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:25 AM
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Do you ever talk politics with your bf or his family?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:12 AM
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He's posted full unblocked pics before. He's pretty obese, and facially fairly average. There's also the fact that he's talking about SB arrangements primarily. That said, I respect how honest he is about his thought process, though I'd never do the same things he does. I believe him when he says that he can detect interest above the purely financial from these women. He's also an admitted diagnosed psychopath so wouldn't be surprised if he has decent game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:57 AM
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I was a black coffee man for years, starting before I even turned 20. But I've come to appreciate a very light splashing of cream, just to cut the acidity and it also causes it to stain less. (Not to mention is far healthier for your throat, which, if you like to sing, is a huge benefit).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:52 AM
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Diet Coke has a distinctive, irreplaceable initial bite, that's compromised by the bitter aftertaste. If only they could figure out how to preserve the former while eliminating the latter. I don't drink soda anymore and don't really miss it, but I do get an itch sometimes to re-experience that bite. But the gross aftertaste immediately afterwards always reminds me that it isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:49 AM
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Depends how you define "good" They'll develop a healthy, or strong physique, but not necessarily an aesthetic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:28 PM
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They are like 10 ft tall. If I were a woman, I'd clearly have to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:15 AM
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As in we fight the predator or fuck Arnold?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:55 PM
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Yeah he did, but now his game is public. Not saying he won't still fuck but it's different now, he's gotta switch it up and figure out how to use the fame other than just being put on blast. There's a million other Calebs in ny not on blast who can fuck freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:49 PM
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Maybe. Think you're underrating the power of conformity and solidarity among women. Women in big cities have no shortage of dudes to fuck. They'd match with him to fuck w him and for the memes more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:45 PM
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Some girls will still be into it but it def ruins it a bit to have his whole game out in the open. He's gonna have to take a new approach or rebrand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:37 PM
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If the goal is to get a reaction, which telling the truth often does, then downvotes can be reframed as just reverse polarity upvotes. Like antiprotons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:22 PM
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There are a lot of good virtual therapy sources these days. Not ideal, but it might help at least a little bit until you get something in person. Best wishes, there's always a way out. Feelings of worthlessness and deserving solitude are a self-fulfilling prophecy. Meditation and exercise can also help a lot with getting out of that headspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed this pattern too. And from girls you'd never expect just knowing them casually. It's not like I'm out here exclusively going for goth adjacent chicks with chokers on as a kind of signal (although I'm into that too). Mostly normie GND types.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:12 PM
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Yeah, definitely a showcase order if we ever meet aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:04 PM
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Spiders are our allies in the war against the real nemesis, fucking flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:00 PM
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If you were on the opposite end, a quick turn around for a prospective partner out of a recent LTR, how would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:37 AM
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That and the family scrapbook we feel emotionally obliged to be spammed by. Wish I still cared about birthdays tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:55 AM
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Makes sense. It's interesting though. Past a certain point most people have baggage. I can see not taking the bet that people will have restraint, but at the same time, for ltrs of more than a year or two the people from the past become part of your life. I agree with no continuous charged contact, but occasional status updates would be logistically difficult to draw a boundary around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:53 AM
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No exceptions? What if it's ancient history?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:42 AM
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Interesting. The reverse seems more intuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:22 AM
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Imagine still using fb in current year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:18 AM
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What's everyone's stance on maintaining contact with exes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:17 AM
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I feel bad for him too, but getting fired for this shit is just part for the course these days. West Elm's target clientele are exactly the bitches he was playing. Your average dude has no idea what West Elm is, nor do they give the slightest shit. For any business, if your clients are offended by someone or some stance you stand by, you're kind of in a bind. The rational choice was to ditch him. It's the only logical play in this fucked up situation. Sucks, but he leveraged the brand to appeal …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:52 AM
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No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:01 AM
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Drgree should invite him via the ppd Twitter to do an AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:13 PM
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Gotta monkmaxx to get to that plane of consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:09 AM
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I mean, you were thirsting over Jason Momoa and Zac Efron in threads about dad bods. There are theoretically plenty of men you would be highly attracted to, you just don't interact with most of them. Men have a wider attraction window, and find more normal, average, non-apex women attractive. Yet women are offended by this, because they all want to be seen at upper percentile women, even though this statistically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:35 AM
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But rationally you know it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:26 AM
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If he gets hard, she's attractive. Maybe not on a population wide statistical level, but attractive to him. This is only disturbing to women because women want to be one of the most attractive women to the particular man they're fucking. Which, if this is the case (and it is) whose mental framework is more pathetic and unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:14 AM
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I think of downvotes as negatively charged infusions of energy. People react to truth, whether they agree with it or not is their problem. No need to take negatively colored pixels on a screen seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:31 AM
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Yeah I get it. Like I said I appreciate your honesty. I think most women agree with you, especially the women here who consciously choose to read this shite. But they will rarely admit it in such black and white, for a myriad of reasons, but foremost is likely that most people dislike being pinned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:19 AM
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There's not much value in comparing male and female sex drives. Men's is active, women's more passive. Women may have an itch for sex and intimacy, but it usually has to be activated by an attractive man in her vicinity. Women cope much better being single and without sex. It's easy to miss this because women generally swim in an ambient field of sexual opportunity and potential, so they generally don't have to reckon with the reality that sexual opportunities will never crop up for them unless …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:13 AM
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It's called thirst for a reason. Most sexually active dudes aren't like that though, men who aren't long haul truckers banging lot lizards and sticking their dicks in bathroom stall glory holes do have standards. It's a mix of stronger physical urge and men finding most women reasonably attractive, or at least far more women are attractive to men than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:03 AM
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She already conceded it man. The honesty is appreciated. Best to take them at their word cuz if you press they usually will just hedge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:59 AM
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I can get with the probability aspect, a lot of which probably just has to do with who you've been exposed to. I would think though on that level it's mostly an unconscious preference or just a result of circumstance. What I don't relate to is being conscious of a specific race I find more attractive, to the point of being vocal about it or intentionally pursuing women of that race.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:42 AM
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That's pretty typical, but the question is how much race influences who you're attracted to. Are you conscious of preferring one race over others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:39 AM
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That's pretty much anyone trying to be an online influencer personality, or associated with it. Just the next evolution of reality TV/Springer content
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:30 AM
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Fair enough. So then race is a weak preference for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:28 AM
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So it's a spectrum then. What if a super chad of a race you don't prefer pursues you while you're also being pursued by a guy from your preferred race. Which do you go for? How do you make that calculation. Assuming personality an vibe and all else are equal (which I know is unrealistic but roll with it). Like I said I know it sounds like virtue signalling but I really don't relate to it. My last three exes were Asian, white, and Polynesian. They were all beautiful to me, but at no point did the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:17 AM
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I guess that's fair. For a somewhat unrealistic thought experiment though, say you had two men you found attractive, one conforming to your preferred racial and physical ideal, and another who doesn't but is still well above average. However, the second guy has a personality and sense of humor you relate to much better than the first. Which do you find more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:11 AM
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This sounds like virtue signalling, but I genuinely don't relate to the idea of having racial preferences for sexual attraction. I feel like the universal characteristics of attraction, like facial and bodily symmetry and proportionality, transcend race. I've lived in coastal cosmopolitan areas for most of my life, as well as abroad in a couple different countries, and I've found women of every nationality and skin tone attractive. I can see culture playing a huge role in dating, but assuming yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:59 PM
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They def count as .69 Lol we had this talk before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:26 PM
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It's like a conversation. You improvise and react. Going in with a plan makes it more like a speech, and those are always less fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:09 AM
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He posted his face during purge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:55 AM
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I've had a rough ride with concerts and music events these last few years Ha, yeah, it's been a rough couple years. The last time I saw them was actually in early 2020, right before the global shutdown. They were the second to last show I went to. The time from then until just a couple months ago was the longest period of time in my adult life I didnt see any live music. Signs of hope though. I went to a show in November and a couple more lined up in the next few months, reeeally hoping the star…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:49 AM
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Covet is legit live. I've seen them three times, once as the headliner in a tiny club. Got a picture with Forrest and ate a cheesesteak with the band after the show, was awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:51 AM
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Yes, that is literally what I say in the very next sentence, "shockingly," "Naturally" boost T, which should have been obvious given the context, but reddit spergs never fail to surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:39 PM
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It's always funny because the best way to boost T is just to lift. Diminishing returns for old dudes but if they're that concerned about it they should just get on TRT instead of buying sheep pussy grease from Rogan and Alex Jones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:47 AM
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Bro supplements from Joe Rogan et al
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:36 AM
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I agree. But from a music production standpoint I can kind of see both sides. The simple reality is virtually all recorded music is edited and touched up. From pop to the grimiest most brutal death metal. Whether it's auto-tuned vocals or kick drum sample replacement and quantization to the grid in a metal track. If you're a producer trying to put out the best record you can, you'd be dumb not to use these tools. The issue comes when the artists can't replicate these products in a live setting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:00 AM
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It'd be pretty depressing if this place and debating with terpers had led you to completely recontextualize the nature of your attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:53 AM
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I can agree with that. There are underground genres of rock that prioritize naturalness and human performance, like indie and math rock. I'm a metalhead personally, and this has become a big debate in the genre over the last few years. Musicianship has always been paramount to the genre, and lately, due to talent inflation and the increasing demands on performers to meet the rising standard of the music, edited and cleaned up studio performances (particularly of supposedly live "playthroughs" of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:50 AM
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Eh I actually think country, at least on recordings, has become just as unoriginal and plugged into the zeitgeist as pop music at large. I mean, it is pop music. Auto-tune and quantized weird trap beats are becoming the norm. Nashville is LA now. Live is probably a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:38 AM
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All she posts is personal information. Anyone who knows her irl would have an easy time identifying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:16 PM
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Cedric and Omar are aliens. His lyrics as text are cringe, but they somehow work only in his hysterically high melodramatic voice. He's Mexican Robert Plant, who also got away with tons of nonsense lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:31 PM
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Parabola
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:29 PM
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Are you from New England?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:06 AM
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Dolphins aren't fish. Wish I guess goes to your point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:12 AM
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Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:09 AM
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Pretty sure he was actually pretty liberal and permissive as a parent. He is a professor after all. They're pretty publically close too, no indication of any trauma there. She's a young attractive woman with a public profile, in the 2020s that pretty much guarantees you'll be a thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:01 AM
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That's fair, I know he has a whole biblical series but tbh I never watched it just because I'm not particularly interested in the Bible itself. I defer to those more knowledgeable about it. His takes on Russian lit, and so called "atrocity lit" are great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:37 AM
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Yeah, I edited in response myself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:22 AM
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It's a hugely important and deep topic, whether you're religious or not. I'm not religious at all but I still appreciate his takes. They're more about the psychological underpinnings of religious belief than anything supernatural. To your edit, I don't think biblical literary criticism is his focus, or even all that relevant. I was always more interested in why religions came into existence and the mental frameworks they serve, not close readings of religious texts, which I don't think are all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:18 AM
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JP's peak was pre-rehab, he's kind of leaned hard into the self-help side of his work, which I get. But he's at his best when discussing religion, psychology, literature, and the human potential for evil. His most recent talk at the Oxford union is legit tho, reminded me of 2016 era JP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:13 AM
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but you can surely see that one is just better looking, right? This is literally what the dudes here say and then it's the women who push back saying "noo, it's their characters and personalities" Geyges is just being his contrarian self. Literally 95% of male takes here are that height and face are 99% of women's attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:53 AM
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His character wouldn't have been nearly as attractive if he didn't look like that, however. Tall, jacked, long haired and hipstery, etc. There's another character on that show called Ray who has a somewhat similar vibe. Sarcastic idgaf attitude, funny and acerbic, an underachiever with high level aspirations. More intellectual than artistic compared to Driver's character, but the same rough edges are there. The difference is Ray is much older and nerdy looking, and so he is nowhere near being a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:33 PM
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It was much worse 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:19 AM
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The West cares about an actual hot war breaking out and Russia cornering the black sea. It's not about Ukraine specifically, just where they sit and their role as a buffer against Russia. Russia knows that invading Ukraine would be a bridge too far, bloodshed would be inevitable. It wouldn't be like Crimea. The US National Security apparatus is already very hostile to Russian expansion. If they invade, I really think US involvement is inevitable, and I don't think Russia wants that right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:56 PM
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We don't live in the same world as we did in the 60s. Russia doesn't have the same geopolitical weight it once did, and there is a much stronger international coalition opposed to their expansion. A lot of other global pieces have to shift for Russia to be as bold to ignite a hot conflict in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:31 PM
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Nothing like a deadline to get the creative juices flowing. I guess in this analogy, a stoic dominant deadline is chad making your creativity wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:12 PM
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If you wait til the last minute it only takes a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:04 PM
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The latter is generally inclusive of the former
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:00 PM
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Just name it Chad, it will come naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:44 PM
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Try pomodoro. Obey the timer, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:27 PM
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If Chad is in the middle of the forest and there are no girls around to fuck him, do incels still make a sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:43 PM
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I've heard that story. Really creepy. Everything about it gives the impression he was running away, no one knew why he traveled to London alone. I heard that they speculated he was meeting someone, potentially online predators posing as potential friends. I related to him a lot. He was a bright but weird kid, he disappeared wearing a Slipknot shirt. I've known a million kids like him, they were my friends growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:10 AM
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Too long. Brevity, soul, wit, etc. Sorry, pump and dump is just too pithy. And says everything your flair does in 60% as much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:32 AM
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All of this should be obvious to any critically thinking person, which of course rarely includes most high school seniors and their status grubbing families. Top echelon higher education in the US for all but the elite and uniquely talented is clearly a ponzi scheme. Normies should accept their state school fate, be lucky enough to be the 1% who will absolutely ace the SAT/ACT, or join the military first if they want to attend one of these UMC factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:06 AM
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Chug a glass of water
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:42 AM
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Yeah man, it's the only way to go. I'm dealing with a situation that has me thinking about this stuff too. I was back in my hometown over the holidays and rekindled a bit of a flame with my old ex. After I got back to my regular life, one of our mutual friends messaged me that she actually had a bf and was cheating with me while I was back in town. I confronted her over the phone and we had a less than pleasant conversation haha. I'm torn now about whether to cut her off completely because I rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:22 AM
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This is deep stuff, and there's no perfect solution. The only thing I've found that works is cultivating an inner resilience that's right at the edge of aloofness. Become too cold and you'll die slowly on the inside, too warm and you get used and abused. Give people a chance to surprise you with authenticity (because those people are out there) but don't despair if they fail you, or take it personally. Remember that we're all just mold on a space rock, and in the end it doesn't matter that much.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:59 PM
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I noticed that with nic pouches too. I really just had a habitual urge to use them, but quitting them produced no withdrawal. Very different from the cigs. I'm convinced it's the other MAOI chemical bullshit in the cancer sticks that really fucks with your mind and body upon cessation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:00 PM
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What did you wreck into?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:19 AM
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That's awesome, didn't expect to see a wooten mention on PPD. Listening to the Flecktones or his solo stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:43 PM
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Yeah, again, all this makes sense if the system in the states were universal. We don't punish the obese or smokers or alcoholics like this. They get in the treatment queue same as everyone else, despite being disportionately responsible for the burden on the system. Why draw the line at this vaccine? Should we unperson fat people and smokers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:40 PM
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Kind of goes against that whole hippocratic do no harm thing. Thousands of people go to ERs with no way to pay, burdening the system adversely against those who participate in the system. Doesn't mean we leave them in the street to die. I just don't get how the existence of this vaccine has convinced millions to abandon any sense of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:36 PM
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If we had universal Healthcare, that would make sense. People are financially responsible for their own Healthcare. They will bear the burden of necessary interventions. Why should the system be permitted to socialize the losses in productivity while capitalizing on the other end, with things like say, a mandatory vaccine pushed by pharma megacorps?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:12 PM
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It just doesn't make sense if the vax doesn't eliminate contraction or transmission, and us mostly a protective precaution. This is the whole reason we were told it would stop the spread. It doesn't make sense otherwise. These people are already paying the price of being at greater risk. Why should they be punished in additional ways, especially when your tone indicates you think it's more about being punitive than being medically sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:05 PM
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Yeah probably a combo of factors. Surgical and N95s are way more sanitary and changed pretty frequently. I worked in healthcare before joining, during the first wave, as an EMT. Nurses and doctors wore 95, while, at least at the beginning, our agency forced us to wear the heavy rubber and plastic respirators, which are much harder to clean and became absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:01 PM
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Yeah, I was in bootcamp during this. We were all required to wear the masks 24/7, unless we were eating. This includes while working out and marching for hours in the sun. Everyone broke out fiercely. I've never had acne in my life and my face turned into a cratered war zone. It's kind of an extreme example, but having a sweaty cloth strapped over your face and nose at all times, trapping your juices and excretions is not consequence free.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:52 PM
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Yeah it's just another one of those things where the conversational well has been irrevocably poisoned. If it's any consolation I don't think the public will swallow endless mandatory boosters as a norm. Covid boosters will likely become annual voluntary shots like with the flu.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:23 PM
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Cant stand wall to wall carpet! Depends on the room. I'm a big fan of carpeting in bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:19 PM
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Yeah, we definitely got Motte and bailey'd with that one. Although to be fair I don't think there was any way to know for sure without more time to collect the data, and there just wasn't time. Jamie Metzl and Dr. Battacharya have addressed this in public articles, and, predictably and unfortunately, they've been attacked by the public health intelligentsia as "fringe." That said I think the hysteria about the vaccine is dumb from both sides. The vax probably only presents a risk to fractions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:15 PM
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Not really a question, but impossible to argue with. But also, men do it too. Also, welcome back weka
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:29 AM
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Is that not the adolescent mindset of giving people the benefit of the doubt until they essentially hurt you? No the adolescent mindset is distrust and assume without verification. As teenagers, are we not more trusting with lower inhibitions? Increasing heartbreaks are what erodes the faith that OP was eluding to. Wouldn't that have the opposite effect of the point you are making? No, when it happens while young, people have the time to heal and recover, as well as the stronger drive and innate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:05 AM
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He was literally a CIA psy-op gone horribly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:09 AM
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Yeah, and it's understandable for teenagers to have this reaction with their first loves, but most people grow out of it and develop a nuanced trust-but-verify approach, and go on to have functional relationships. Part of the issue is that I think modern culture in the developed world is very adolescent in a lot of ways, not just in dating, and these mentalities persist in people well past the life-stage where they're reasonable. Also, more and more people aren't getting these heartbreak experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:06 AM
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Intersexual dynamics are probably the most personal and emotionally charged place where people's morality comes into conflict with strong, instinctual biological incentives to hurt others in pursuit of their biological imperative. It's built into the design. A man becoming highly attractive to one woman means he will by default be attractive to many women, so the more appealing a partner he becomes to women, the greater his opportunity to cheat. A women trying to maximize her imperative by match…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:40 AM
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I'm like squid, I was in an LTR for years, and while it was nice, it took up too much of my time and headspace. Time to enjoy and capitalize on being single. I have lots of personal project and career goals this year, and I'm okay trading some happiness and comfort for more productivity and focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:53 AM
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Like, exclusively physical, or on his persona?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:50 AM
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Really didn't expect to see an Acid Bath drop in PPD. Very nice. Thats like their most rocking song too. They get way more brooding and dirgey with Bleed me and ocean or Graveflower
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:29 PM
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I just wanted to rub it in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:03 AM
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It's as old today as pre-fat Elvis was to them in 1991, when the Black Album came out. Metallica just played their 40th anniversary show this weekend. These dudes are knocking on 60 yrs old. Face it dude, you're old too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:53 AM
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Eh, I mean Roger Penrose, you know that dude who just won the Nobel Prize in Physics last year, was one of the first to make the connection with Shadows of the Mind. It's an ambiguous frontier of science for sure, but I don't think he qualifies as a "dilettante."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:19 PM
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Free Will and consciousness are the only things not reduced if they're defined as illusions. You can intellectualize it however you want, it doesn't change the fact that you have to act in the world as if you are in control of your choices, and, deep down, no one actually believes they don't make their own decisions, regardless of whatever high-level rationalization they layer over it. And it isn't "spooky", the base layer of reality is not deterministic, that was the whole point of the debate i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:15 PM
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Eh, meme eugenicists always amuse me. If the ideology were carried out in full, then people from your ancestors home continent would've been eradicated in the 17th and 18th centuries, just as 90% of the natives of North America were wiped out. They ultimately weren't because social engineering and a sense of morality based on guilt-centric cultures and social activist missionaries advocating for you being just as human, thus sparing your ancestors and giving you a path to existence. The naturali…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:21 AM
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Yes, only tech (science is ultimately a method of embracing technology). Nothing else enhances the frontier of human ability Is advancing the frontier of human ability (another term that needs to be defined) the only measure of a society? Does technology solve the issues of human wellbeing or social inequality? Evidence seems to indicate lukewarm positivity at best. We've traded destitution and hunger for both physical and mental obesity (which I define as widespread gorging on trivial, nutritio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:48 AM
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A useless degree is one that does not progress society, only entertains its values. What constitutes "entertaining its values" and why does it not count as social progress? Honest questions, btw, not gotchas, what counts as societal progress to you? Is it only scientific and tech development?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:13 AM
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That's fair I suppose. I recommend you check out Jamie Metzl's recent appearance on the Led Fridman podcast, the first 2.5 hours is a discussion of the situation and evidence, from the beginning to the latest, where now even the Chinese gov't is non-commital towards the wet market hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:37 PM
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Regardless if it was manufactured or biological, and regardless if it escaped or not, the virus is here. Apathy towards the truth is never a good policy. That's exactly how you get another pandemic. Whether the lab leak hypo is true or not (which it now seems exceedingly likely that it is) what is absolutely beyond a doubt is that China actively worked to cover up the truth, and our media and political class ate it up, and was thus complicit with an authoritarian government's memory-holing of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:24 PM
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I’ve seen a picture of you, and you’re a normal looking guy in that no one is going to ever hurt you for the way you look I appreciate the armchair therapy but my hostility towards vanity isn't about insecurity. I'm confident in my appearance and haven't had issues dating. You have your own testimonials about how toxic vanity and looks-obsessed people can act towards those they deem unworthy, including towards you yourself, but you won't take the extra step and just admit that being so shallow i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:19 AM
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Everyone has a touch of solipsism. It requires conscious effort to fight and keep sonder in mind. Everyone has a touch of shallowness too, but the extra shallow among us like to project it onto all to make their undimensionality seem less pathological
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:04 AM
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Well the OP was about men's reactions and ravings, which is what I responded to, and which she doubled down on further in the chain. "Rapturous" jfc so extra and fucked in the head. I thank god girls with actual personalities beyond sniffing each other's farts actually exist. If one wants a man who won't stick in the nanny the moment she lifts her leg then it pays not to be so shallow oneself and offer something more than a painted face eternally reflected in a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:55 AM
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Eh, you're all over the place, depending on the argument. On one hand, women are so appearance centric due to men's standards, on the other, women are repulsed by men's sexuality because they'll stick their dicks in the nanny, the secretary, animals, and various holes in the ground, and consider it almost an insult. If there's nothing wrong with being shallow then own it and admit you do it for your own puddle-deep reasons. Men like pretty girls, but pretty girls are a dime a dozen, especially f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:43 AM
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You were the dreaded shiksa The tribe protects their own, matrilineal lineage is everything. Kinda fucked in the modern day but I respect the consistency and their hustle. It's been working
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:29 AM
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Right on cue, it's kissmetilyouredrunk doing that thing where she projects that every girl is as empty and reflection-deep as she is. And women hamster men as the shallow sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:25 AM
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Yeah, she's more AWALT than any dudes here. I've had this convo with her before, she can't imagine any girl feeling differently than she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:24 AM
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Plenty of things happen. People raving for literal hours about how attractive an unfamous random is, doesn't. Like, people have actual lives. Even in college, they presumably have more things to worry about than how beautiful some no-name girl is, as much as beautiful girls would like to believe the world truly does spin on their fingers. I get what you were trying to say, but hyperbole only works when the speaker doesn't betray that they actually believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:11 AM
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The kind of pretty where people talked about her for hours Yeah, that happened. People don't even talk about celebrities like that, I don't think most people are as looks obsessed as you seem to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:59 AM
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Dude... Do you not know how natural selection works? Yes, and I'm starting to realize you don't. You're making the same error all evo-psych does by assuming that natural selection explains the origin of adaptive traits. It doesn't, it only explains why they succeed and propagate. There are lots of theories for why we evolved self-consciousness and advanced problem-solving, whether by mutation or some other means, but the point is this origin cannot be due just to sexual selection, or else we wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:21 AM
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We evolved like we did exactly because sitting around being dumb monkeys barred us from getting laid. Except this doesn't explain why there still exist monkeys doing just that and still fucking. We are animals still, yes, but undoubtedly unique. I think you're the one who has cause and effect backwards. Something in man drove him to be great and strive for more, and women in turn reacted and evolved to be attracted to it, because it benefitted their survival. But the impetus was men. Women didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:08 AM
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Nah, it's the same reason incls and men in general care about the validation of being fuckable just as much as the actual sex. Otherwise inc*ls would just see hookers. Men have an animal need for sex, but also an intellectual and emotional need to be great, and publically recognized that goes deeper than physical gratification. Men write books and go on adventures and risk their lives in ways that women don't care about at all and will never know about, often toiling in obscurity, because greatn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:52 PM
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There filters for that, but they aren't great. Depends hugely on skull shape and whether you have a double chin or saggy neck area. In general, you should pair it with a beard anyways tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:25 PM
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My libido is objectively high, I'd ideally have sex multiple times a day. With the huge caveat that it's with a specific, probably rare kind of man to whom you're strongly attracted. Men have a drive to sex for it's own sake. Neither is superior, they're actually complementary, but each sex holds the other's approach in contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:22 PM
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I disagree strongly with this. Some men want to be great for the sake of it, to write their names in history, and to upstage other men. Women are a byproduct. There are countless stories in history of men forsaking sex and comfort in pursuit of greatness in their chosen fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:19 PM
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Well, I'm sorry for your physical hardships in life. I used to work in group homes, and though I don't suffer from them myself, I know a bit about how the disabled live. Still though, your comment seemed to be referring to wider societal aspects of life as being hellish, and it's a pet peeve of mine, having read history and having immediate family from the third world, to see people in the west express such ingratitude to the quality of their lives, which are orders of magnitude more convenient …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:38 AM
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My comment wasn't addressing children, I couldn't care less if you reproduce or not. Describing your life in modern society as a "hellscape" when your ancestors lived through actual hell to ensure your existence, is hilarious, and what i was mocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:28 AM
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I can think of very few reasons to bring children into this absolute hellscape of a world She said while typing on a palm-sized supercomputer from a climate controlled indoor space, customized to human comfort. Always amused when doomsayers on reddit like cosplay their lives as the peak of human suffering. We live in the most advanced, comfortable society in history. You're welcome to read history and learn of the constant uphill struggle to survive the previous several thousand years of human h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:22 AM
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Most habitual readers I've met have been women. You know, because reading is gay. The kind of fiction matters too. Smarter girls will be into the classics: Dostoevsky, Flaubert, Shakespeare, along with lots of philosophy, etc. Dumber girls will mostly read fanfic and YA stuff, and the difference is clear. With smarter guys I've found they usually bifurcate their tastes between highbrow and lowbrow. All the classics and of history, but also lots of pulp sci-fi and fantasy, like Sanderson, Poul An…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:42 AM
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Inc*ls are a death cult with visions of apocalyptic revenge confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:34 PM
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I won’t speak for all women, but for me, the part that is annoying is when you are really clear you are only interested in them platonically and they act as if they are totally cool with that. They orbit while telling you they are not orbiting and really don’t value you as a friend. It always comes out somehow, later that “they feel rejected” and can no longer be your friend because months, years down the road, you still won’t fuck them. Yeah I get this, and the way things play out in reality is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:22 PM
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You probably did end up sleeping with one of these male "friends" or acquaintances eventually tho, right? Obv different if they were married or something, but this is just how extended friend groups play out, lots of people date from within the group over time. Women always say they prefer to date and fuck men who they already know well as friends, but then come on reddit and act positively horrified that their male friends could have even entertained the idea or dating or fucking them (presumab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:25 PM
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"muh not dying alone" Very few people ever actually say this as the main reason they get into relationships, and only artificially hardened cynics actually believe it. The benefits of close romantic relationships, for men in particular, are well documented, if you refuse to accept the fuzzy emotional aspect (which I suspect you will). They live longer, healthier, and re-enter marriage even after divorce more often than not. I'm not even currently in a relationship (and not looking) but I can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:34 AM
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The "truth", as it's presented here, is highly contextual, and as much as AWALT/AMALT ideologues like to pretend they really know what's going on, the reality is that these mentalities are based primarily on self-protection and emotional cowardice, and if you press them, they admit this (treat all guns as loaded). Only people incapable of change, self-development, and the ability to surprise themselves with their control over their behaviors can ever really fully accept these ideologies. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:19 AM
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I was far removed from being a living human being in 1969 Yeah, same. But there are a lot of good books that go into the background of Zeppelin and the scene of the day, Hammer of the Gods is the classic example. Jimmy Page was a veteran studio musician and producer in the British blues rock scene and knew exactly what he was doing and going for after he left his previous band The Yardbirds (who are also solid as hell, and had dudes like Clapton and Beck as other former guitarists). I agree thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:55 AM
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Nah, HotH, objectively. LZ1 was their attempt to seize on the popularity of British rock bands aping American blues roots music (which they did extremely well ofc). But it was a genre album, they hadn't yet found their unique sound. HotH is the perfect blend of experimental, yet heavy Zep without the unoriginal generic blues rock approach of their past or the sleepy, introverted mystical wanking of the more boring parts of IV or PG. LZIII is also better. And all are genius either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:06 AM
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Your first exception is already effectively in place and is exactly why your second will never be possible. The state essentially takes every precaution now to avoid executing an innocent, through appeals and delayed reviews of death row inmates, precisely because hundreds of innocents who were executed in the past were later proven not guilty through DNA evidence. There is no way to expedite and streamline the death penalty without Minority Report level pre-crime technology to ensure every conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:47 AM
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Yes, but they're thinking of the enlisted. Even the British royal family send their kids to be officers. And every US President who has been prior military was an officer, like JFK and both Bushes, literal American royalty. Because officers are not the working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:36 AM
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More than 25% have a parent who has served. Overrepresented obviously, but your own link confirms that an overwhelming majority don't come directly from military households. 80% of those serving ultimately have a grandfather or uncle who served, but this is clearly due to this history of the draft. Like your dad, but very very few who were drafted went on to commission. Your dad, and the culture he wanted to pass on to your generation, were an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:29 AM
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But there is no relationship flowing from the military out - just outer culture in See, I disagree with this too, for practical reasons. The majority of military brats don't join, because only 1% of Americans ultimately do, but these non-joiners carry military culture with them back into civilian spaces. Also, the US has a very culturally prominent military slant, because the military and its global superiority is central to our identity as a nation. That you have been removed from it enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:19 AM
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But life off the base is different - and plenty of people don’t find joining the military to be honorable or encouraged In fact, it’s outright discouraged in many MC and UMC households I agree, but you appear to share those opinions, right? Consider this: Would your father have been happy with you enlisting, for example? Most career military personnel accept their children joining as well, but I never in my entire life met an officer who would tolerate their child enlisting, while following as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:59 AM
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This is literally my point Okay, but you wouldn't have said this: where your loser cousin goes after getting his GED If you were also WC. Your dad made the transition so you, as the next generation, could be MC. He did his service to elevate you. I don't doubt that you were exposed to some cultural artifacts of the WC. But, as the child of an American military officer, you were raised MC+
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:38 AM
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You’re trying to say that officer life in maintenance squadrons is UMC? Lol, no. Dad would come home dirty every day Every day would be quite unusual. By the time my dad was an NCO he wasn't out on the flightline daily, he was managing the junior enlisted. Maybe when deployed, but in that case you wouldn't see him. I'm active now, I know how officers live life. They'll get dirty every now and again, but it's more for higher level "connecting with the troops" reasons than absolute necessity. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:26 AM
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Yeah same, my dad was a crew chief for 20+ years. Just another grease monkey but on more expensive shit. The class dynamics of military life are odd and complex, since there are very few engines of training and educational mobility as effective as the military. People from the lower classes can ascend fairly rapidly, within a lifetime, and carry those WC markers with them. Still though, it functions as a microcosm of American life at large. As part of an officer family, you were in the upper cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:10 AM
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I grew up WC Nah c'mon, you grew up an officer brat. If your parents have a job that requires a degree, that's culturally MC at lowest. I grew up as an enlisted brat and consider myself transitional WC to LMC at lowest, since my dad grew up in a big urban WC northeastern family and mom was from the 3rd world, but my standard of living as a military brat was better than my cousins and I had a route to college through my dad's GI bill. The officer families got bigger single houses and their kids w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:56 AM
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Porn probably. Along with the general recent increase in ass fetishization culturally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:38 AM
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Good call, you already have your own nest of pity and self-loathing to tend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:17 PM
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You can iterate over possible apples but I see the platonic ideal of an apple The thing that is interesting is that there is no such thing as the platonic ideal of an apple. Any apple that could actually exist in reality falls short of whatever ideal you believe you can perceive. You will never encounter this platonic apple, either in your mind or otherwise, because it doesn't exist. It can't exist. Your concept of "appleness" is still based on apples you have encountered in real life. It's just…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:42 AM
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The power of the abstract is that I can think of apple and consider all types of apples at the same time. I’m not locked into a red apple or a apple on a tree or a worm infested apple You make some good points, but this is a misstep. There's no "constraint" as you describe here. Any apple of any kind can be imagined at any time, prompted or not. The initial image may be provoked if the author writes "green apple" but it can be changed at will. And I'd argue it's more useful, as i can summon the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:29 AM
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It's genius man, no shame. Just one room, one case. So simple and raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:54 AM
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Being oneself is emotionally riskier, but easier from a technical standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:49 AM
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Navigating the apex of the UMC yogamom FSM is not something I ever thought I'd do, so all of this feels like an amusing social experiment. What might surprise you is a lot of them are doing the same. I've realized more and more as I've gotten older that the normie life script is something more and more people are unspokenly conscious of than appears to the eye, undertaken with specific goals in mind. Being a normie is actually a complex performance, not the effortless NPCness self-styled iconocl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:42 AM
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I think it's based on a true story but takes ample liberties. Like if a muder mystery was a jazz big band performance. Duke Ellington does the soundtrack and appears in the film, it's got Jimmy Stewart, it's great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:38 AM
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I also am alexythmic to an extent and can't make things up or improvise musically This is very interesting to me as a musician, because, since musical scale patterns can be built with algorithms, it's straightforward to program an AI to use a particular scale in a tonic key and procedurally generate new melodies. So from any given note in a scale, it'd be easy to outline the tonic possibilities of the next places you could move on, say, a guitar, and still sound in key. It wouldn't be improv in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:37 AM
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Anatomy of a Murder is great. Also 12 Angry Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:24 AM
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"juliet is the sun" to understand it though, its fully understandable in words without images Yeah, she gave me some insight into her interpretation. I suspect I'm just seeing aphantasia almost too literally, ironically through my own more standard mental representation. I genuinely just can't understand how such a sentence doesn't evoke an image of the sun in mind, and the "feeling" of the sun seems almost too tied to a picture and sense-memory of it to separate from the words. But I can accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:22 AM
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But why though? Are there power dynamics in the class youre trying to exploit, or social ladders you need to climb? You always struck me as a contented outsider, gazing down from your lofty artsy peak on the normies. I mean, just think how'd they react if you grab the aux and play Swans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:17 AM
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I used to work at a hospital, being a doctor is overrated and not what it used to be, from the horse's mouth. Very cool to have the knowledge base, but you probably have better work life balance now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:09 AM
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Yeah, I get it. I'm still young and not trying to raise a family so it doesn't bother me so much, but I get how older people looking to settle down would be disturbed by it. Kind of like living out in the woods with bears and mountain lions nearby, an ambient danger that leaves you never feeling really safe. I get the charm of small town life, but as a loner it's never totally appealed to me. I kind of like that I can go get food or go for a walk in the park without ever running into anyone I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:04 AM
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Makes being a lawyer an unusual career choice. Your whole job is interpreting lexical confines we devised to enforce verbal abstractions like contracts and laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:39 AM
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Everyone is replaceable and nothing will change when you disappear I mean this is true regardless of who or where you are. For the most part people in cities are civil but mind their own business. Which I like, I enjoy being anonymous and just going about my day without having to make awkward small talk or see people I know every day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:25 AM
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When I read the phrase "Juliet is the sun," there's a lot of meaning there -- he's describing the experience of her as being akin to the warmth and light of the sun, but also the thing that his world literally revolves around Yeah, that's fascinating, the last part being a bit of meaning I missed, which I guess goes to show that maybe vivid imagery can actually get in the way. It's so interesting to me because while I've never considered my visual imagination to be that vivid or detailed (I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:13 AM
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Definitely a rat in a maze kind of feeling. I like both the city and the country though. Wandering around cities never gets old, just like wandering in the woods. Different kinds of jungle to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:08 AM
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Cities have always been gritty. It's part of the charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:02 AM
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I'm pretty good with maps too, but verbal directions can be just as meaningful or powerful. As they say, the map is not the territory. They're abstractions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:58 AM
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Say like when learning about how atoms are arranged. We can't ever really see them, but we're taught that they're like miniature solar systems, electrons orbiting a nucleus, and in this way we can picture what they might look like. Or when Shakespeare writes "Juliet is the sun." It's a nonsensical statement on its face, but the idea he wants to communicate is that seeing her is like experiencing the warmth and radiance of the sun, which you can make sense of with your word brain, but that kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:55 AM
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What do you experience when you read fiction though? Like how do metaphors make sense if you can't tie words and similes to the image the author is using to evoke a stronger sensation and mental image, to in effect make you feel and see that which isn't there. Not trying to prod, I'm just fascinated by how this must feel from the inside. I genuinely can't picture it, no pun intended. I think I and most people assume that language is downstream from mental images and sensations, not the other way…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:38 AM
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If you're reading a book though, what do you experience? When Melville writes "damp drizzly November in my soul" are you truly unable to picture and recreate that feeling in your mind? Do you ever get tip of the tongue phenomenon, where the image the word represents is in mind, just not the word itself. I'm very interested how this comes about, because, as far as we know, language is downstream from felt reality. We assume animals can form mental images, just not the latent ability to form verba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:33 AM
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I'm having trouble understanding the concept of other people having aphantasia, or the inability to "see" images, hear sounds, or smell smells in their minds. Like I kind of believe it isn't real, though I'm trying to be empathetic. Whenever I see it discussed on reddit, i don't see others going through all the implications. Metaphors would essentially be meaningless, as a sentence like "Juliet is the sun" or "damp drizzly November in my soul" work by evoking distinct images, feelings, and memor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:57 AM
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I love January for that exact reason Holidays are nice, but by the end of December I'm over it. Doesn't help that marketing has effectively made Christmas a month and a half long affair from black Friday onward. Give me bleak drudgery and dirty snow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:17 PM
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Ah yes, another adolescent pothead has finally figured it all out, with her completely original and unique interpretation of the reality that she is innately superior to all of us, and has deigned to bless us with her presence to tell us all how mediocre we are in comparison to her godly intellect. For someone mocking people for not understanding "the real, you know science behind it all" you're awfully ignorant about the science of how the brains of liberals and conservatives differ, and explai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:45 AM
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I try to judge people by intentions. Things are a lot more relaxed and enjoyable if people feel free to rip on each other and say what they're thinking without the fear that it will get awkward. Which means that sometimes people are going to flirt with offending each other, but as long as you understand that it wasn't meant to hurt, then it's easy enough to roll with and give back. No one likes uptight uber sensitive people. But if someone is obviously being hostile on purpose, then yeah, differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:39 PM
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Follow rules 1 and 2: Do not talk about PPD Do not talk about PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:42 PM
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Literally every woman under 25 is bisexual. These days, it's much more unsual to find out a woman I'm dating or female friend is straight than otherwise. Since 2010, the percentage of women who identify as bisexual has more than doubled, obviously skewed towards younger women. And as Glenn Greenwald found himself on the cancel block last year for pointing out, 10x as many self-identified bisexuals are in opposite sex relationships than same sex Saying "bisexual woman" is exactly the same thing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:58 AM
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The Beast, set during the Russo-Afghan war in the 80s. Honorable mentions are: Jarhead, which what it lacks in actual combat scenes it makes up for in the depicting the mindset of the service member, and the bizarre mix of trauma and boredom that's actually involved with being in the military and deployed And Platoon, which is just a badass film.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:43 AM
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It's from Full Metal Jacket
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:56 PM
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That's not really an argument to keep doing it. It's a foolish old religious ritual from over 2,000 years ago. We used to do a lot of dumb shit 2,000 years ago, and, if we're being rational, we stop doing them when they don't make sense and we stand literally nothing to lose from it. There are no medical or hygienic benefits to circumcision whatsoever. It's a silly, backwards practice with no legitimate reason to continue, and the only reason we keep doing it is inertia and indifference. It's as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:17 AM
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Men are more violent across the board. This is obvious and shouldn't require restatement, and the guys who argue against it are often doing so in bad faith. But the whole conversation is usually in bad faith, because the women they are arguing it against almost universally use it as a trump card to declare women's moral superiority. It's them arguing WaW under a different guise. If women are so evil then why are men the vast majority of killers, rapists, and and assaulters, they say. What's more…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:07 AM
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I've always hated this argument. Not because I disagree with abortion, but because this rationalization is so greasy and sly and insulting to everyone's intelligence. There's no point in trying to draw a line between clump of cells and human life, the end result of an abortion is the same. It's all arbitrary, and it shows a lack of courage to fully accept the consequences of your decision. If you want to get an abortion because it'd be better both for you and for the unwanted child then that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:33 PM
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Missed your chance to pre-emptively deflect, I'm afraid. Shit was crisp, gotta give angels his due.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:39 AM
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That I definitely agree with. I feel like it has to be a relic from older curriculum designs, maybe with a lot of middle-aged men who designed them thinking it would actually make an impact on teenagers and serve as a kind of warning. Or something. So much lit is prescribed to people without the sufficient experience to appreciate it, and there's so much more from authors who still have the more relatable, ambitious kind of cynicism that teenagers eat with a spoon. Like Camus. Not the boring ram…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:25 AM
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Damn son, this is your best burn ever. Didn't think you had it in you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:58 AM
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The country is already facing supply chain issues, I'm not sure further restricting freight for the convenience of drivers is a good move.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:53 AM
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I can agree DoaS is overrated, but Loman being a loser is kind of the point. He's like a choleric Walter Mitty, and I remember thinking Mitty was an annoying loser too. Loman endured probably partly because of high school AP English teachers' obsession with teaching him, but also presumably because he stood for something meaningful to an entire generation of frustrated middle-class family men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:42 AM
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Get a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:32 AM
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You're def not supposed to 'like' Willy, it's a social commentary. Loman is meant represent middle-class quiet desperation. He was supposed to make audiences uncomfortable with recognizing similarities with him. At this point the play is kind of outdated anyway, since the middle class he depicts doesn't really exist in America anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:43 AM
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George as the favorite is the wise man's choice. You obviously play guitar. But as personally sympathetic as I am to the notion that John was a raging dickhead, it's pretty much objectively true that he was and is infinitely more influential than Ringo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:18 PM
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Love is really, really important in everyone's life. I don't disagree, but, again, he never mentioned love. Just sex. Which is part of love, but not the part that compensates for loneliness. Plenty of promiscuous people are just as empty as the underfucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:48 AM
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I don't know if I'd go that far, I usually reserve that judgment for those who actively harm the undeserving, and people are entitled to their feelings. But I do disagree with his outlook, or at least the one he voiced here. I try to keep in mind that this place isn't real life, more like a collective bathroom stall of selfish, vulgar vandalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:30 AM
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I don't think it makes you a terrible person for having those needs, but you possibly might be for their lack of satiety outweighing the (supposed) grief of losing two brothers. But, i guess pain is subjective. It just scans as rather self-involved, and potentially tone deaf if you were voicing these feelings to others in just this way (particularly if you were actively comparing it to the death of loved ones). I don't think there's anything inherently immoral about being self-centered, but typi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:13 AM
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Blind dates are actually just hella awkward more often than not. Much better to be introduced to people organically, without the artificial pressure of it being a date right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:03 AM
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That's fair, but the OP mentioned nothing about love and companionship. He only mentioned sex and physical intimacy, which I agree is important for self-actualization and ideal mental health, but the absence of pleasure is not equivalent to the presence of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:01 AM
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The point is that, if you count periods of time where you aren't having sex as among the most stressful and traumatic of your life (and specifically for that reason) then you've lived a rather privileged life. Most people in the world go through far worse and have far greater burdens to bear. Life can be pure hell, suffering can be constant. Poverty, illness, war, death of family and friends, true loneliness and isolation, not just lack of sex, have been the primary fixations of those on the dar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:55 AM
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I'm blue pill but also blackpill. Should I answer? This is just redundant. Bluepill only works for attractive people, so they're blackpilled by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:30 PM
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The benefit is that they, along with caffeine, can be used in regular daily life without altering your consciousness too much. Very different intent behind their use. Just light accents to enhance either productivity or social gelling. I agree though that getting shitfaced is overrated. Finding a nice buzz then easing up is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:23 PM
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Manliness is like a savings account you add to over time in a relationship though various displays of alphaness. In times of need, like the death of a loved one or other serious crisis, you can withdraw from this account to compensate for your lack of stoicism and manly resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:07 AM
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Someone never studied their prisoner's dilemma. The race to the bottom does not maximize return, but ensures a substandard outcome for both parties. Its only benefit is to minimize risk and damage, but this is very different from maximizing return. Also, it's bitch shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:50 PM
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No, he means Rittenhouse literally put out a fire that Rosenbaum and his ilk started in a dumpster. There is video of this, taken minutes before the first altercation. You would know that if you and your side ever actually cared about the facts in the case and watched any video, but then you'd have to confront your cognitive dissonance head first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:56 PM
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The whole point of this place is that people voice and defend opinions they would never publically associate with. Lots of guys here have their shit together. To be fair, many more probably don't. But for the ones who do you'd probably never know they posted here if you met them irl. I think it'd be a good idea for a short story or movie, in some hypothetical future-set cyberpunk technohell, where two people who know each other, either as friends or lovers, "meet" again behind avatars, as rivals…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:12 PM
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Even easier then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:33 AM
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If you were looking for an excuse to suck a dick it's prob way easier and cheaper to just hop on grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:16 AM
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Ah yeah, I responded to just the CMV portion. Fair enough, but still seems like more of an afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:04 AM
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Maybe, but she didn't mention inhibitions. She said "pennywise and pound foolish"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:02 AM
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Sure, but you said wine for a reason. Because it costs more. It seemed like your point was that men weren't spending enough money. I agree that too many dudes take frugality too seriously, and should just go with the flow and be easygoing during nights out. But specifying wine misses the point. Men should just work on being a good hang and funny and chill, and spend minimal time and effort planning where to go and what to buy. Which cuts both ways, don't be obviously cheap or ostentatious. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:35 PM
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Age and class matter. At your age and station in life, a wine date is probably the most normal thing in the world. But if you're a college kid, or a townie in some remote rural area, or part of the urban working class, then asking someone to go out for a glass of wine seems try-hard and weird. The point though is that if she likes you and you vibe, it doesn't matter where you take her or how you meet. Which is why telling dudes to spend more money and flash cash, rather than work on themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:27 PM
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Ah, that's tough, def unusual for a sales gig. The thing is, picture it from their side. If you were told "no matter what, this doesn't affect my commision" would you believe them (assuming you were unfamiliar with the inner workings of that industry)? It sounds just like any other slightly greasy sales pitch. People are naturally defensive with salespeople, logically so I think, because leaving your guard down would lead to being taken advantage of more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:26 PM
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I get the functionality of boat shoes, and presumably if you're a rich white new Englander then the high probability of finding yourself on a boat at any given time justifies wearing them daily...but why do they have to be so fugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:23 PM
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The rich type
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:18 PM
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That's just any service job. Goes with the territory. Capitalism gamefies life. Everyone has an angle, an agenda. A necessary evil. If we aren't blood then I don't trust you by default. I'm sure as you build rapport with repeat customers the process will be streamlined.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:17 PM
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Every guy that could do it, would do it lol Um, nah. Speak for yourself. I'm guessing it doesn't feel like getting your dick sucked, but like sucking a dick. Just like how you can't tickle yourself. It's a closed loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:20 PM
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Are you the Katie Cummings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:18 AM
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"Intersectional Feminism" is ruining small town (Spins Wheel) "Farmers Markets". Not a bad topic tbh. You could broaden it just to "How hipsters and aesthetic leftism have memed the yeoman into being bougie"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:59 AM
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I guess, but that's kind of beside the point. And it doesn't address the inherent difference of sex work compared to any other mundane job you sell your body to. Maybe it's an illogical difference, because rationally they should be equivalent. But people have a hard time separating their highly personal feelings about sex from the purely capitalist conception of sex work. Sex is too vulnerable and emotional for most people to be rational about it, and I'm not sure our culture is ready for a tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:56 PM
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I mean tbh both genders in general have low opinions of sex workers. It's more acceptable in the west now than ever, but that doesn't mean it has any real prestige as a profession, except among trashy ppl. In my life I've heard men and women alike talk shit about hoes, just the way it is. They're the Less Dead for a reason. Women hate them because they're the scabs against the pussy cartel and devalue women's mystique, and men hate them because having to pay for sex is the ultimate concession of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:44 PM
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I care too much of people's perception of me. The paradox is that by being a "jerk" other people will respect (and ultimately like) you more, even if they have a pissy reaction at first. What do you think his perception of you and your bf is now, by letting him freeload off you and disrespect your house? Do you think he likes you more for it? because if he did he would actually care about your feelings by not being such an obnoxious burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:42 AM
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No worries, I was too. Sorry bout that. G'night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:27 AM
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Lol pot meet kettle. I'm not invested enough in this place to report you for the personal attack, but continue enjoying being triggered by meaningless pixels you willingly consume on the internet. Any distraction from being a boring mom I suppose. The global women's movement appreciates your keyboard warrior service against the trolls, I'm sure. Purple hearts for purple pill debaters are surely forthcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:24 AM
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Nah, I'm good. Talking shit to sensitive people and the occasional interesting conversation are enough to keep this a decent distraction from my shits and train commutes. Thanks tho, your concern is appreciated. If you're so butthurt by that salt daddy troll then take it up with him and keep your emotional diarrhea either focused on target or to yourself. It's unbecoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:07 AM
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I didn't say anything about PPD users' feelings towards it and don't particularly care what anyone here thinks tbqh. However, rates of paternity fraud are more common than most people believe or are willing to admit. 1 in 30 in the UK, with widely divergent rates of occurence in other nations around the world, the median estimated at nearly 4% worldwide And yet literally no one cares or talks about it. There is no global conversation to change this, no move for reevaluating the relevant criminal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 AM
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That could be achieved without committing paternity fraud, which was the point of the second part of my comment which you ignored, again lol Paternity doesn't just damage one person, but traumatizes an entire family for the rest of their lives. And the whole artifice exists solely so women can seek their individual pleasure while still extracting what they need out of some dupe of a man. Women multipurpose their sexuality, and use lies and plausible deniability to emotionally traumatize an entir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:22 AM
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Leave while you sill can
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:17 AM
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You backed out gracelessly when I countered you making this exact point farther down, so ill repost: Nah, it's paternity fraud A woman marrying a man she isn't sexually attracted to (while deceiving him otherwise) while surreptitiously having sex with a man she actually is attracted to is the very definition of women's dual mating strategy. The whole artifice exists directly as a function and facilitator of a woman's paradoxical sex drive. Women have sex with different men for diametrically oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:10 AM
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Jeannie hands down. Her exposed bellybutton on nick@nite reruns was an awakening for my prepubescent sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:37 AM
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So if I wear Uggs as a 46 yo is that pathetic? Not pathetic but a lil cringy. Like Dads wearing crocs. Most dudes prob don't give af tho tbh. And context matters. Wearing them to go get your mail out in the snow or take out the trash? Who cares. Wearing them on a night out? Wouldn't turn me off, but I am gonna tease you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:32 AM
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A woman marrying a man she isn't sexually attracted to (while deceiving him otherwise) while surreptitiously having sex with a man she actually is attracted to is the very definition of women's dual mating strategy. The whole artifice exists directly as a function and facilitator of a woman's paradoxical sex drive. Women have sex with different men for diametrically opposed reasons, contrary to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:29 AM
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Nah, it's paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:19 AM
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Probably the way they dress. See way too many women try to dress like teenagers into their late 20s or 30s, or wearing unflattering clothing for their bodies because it's trendy for a demographic they don't belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:18 AM
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But leading someone on emotionally is not the same and is much worse than what I'm talking about In what way? Men get emotionally invested in women they're being led-on by. That's why it works. You're doing the exact same thing, but trying to hamster yourself as morally unblemished.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:56 PM
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The distinction is passive consumption vs. active creation. Which you hinted at, but, realistically, most people who say they like traveling or eating on dating profiles are not likely very proactive about these pursuits. They just have money and time to burn on bougie consumption. Also, as others have mentioned, saying you like traveling and food is basically saying you like vacations. Which, go fucking figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:38 PM
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woke people are the loudest doesn't mean they are the majority Yes, but perception is reality, and the shellacking dems just took last week is evidence that conservatives have effectively tied the woke left minority to the national party writ large, such that normal Americans turned away from them en masse. The woke subset of the progressive left overplayed their hand. Instead of focusing on everyday economic hardships shared by all Americans, the leftist media elite have successfully hijacked t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:16 PM
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Biden always favored Pete. Biden envisions him as a younger version of himself. He wanted him to be the VP, but the nat'l party decided two clean cut white guys was bad optics and used Kamala to pander to POCs. The thing is Pete is such a hollow establishment puppet that he appeals to literally no one outside of Washington. His archetype is too old-school pedigree to be viable anymore, like a candidate from the 1950s transported to today. An Adlai Stevenson for the current day. America's voting …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:57 PM
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He just started a media venture IIRC and can make more money with it, so I doubt it. It's financially advantageous to him to have an opposition to criticize. That said I think DeSantis is the more likely republican contender in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:02 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily homophobia to point out that you have a weird fixation on your own cock, to the point of having encyclopedic knowledge about cock size stats, and sharing it publically with random strangers. Honestly I'm never curious enough to snoop through someone's reddit history (i only learned of your fixation through other people constantly mention it) and tbf most dudes are interested in their own cocks, but you seem to take it to a new, spergy level. Which, you know, whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:53 PM
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Well, there was no actual argument to rebut. It was a rebuttal to this: predictable, surface-level things that everyone sees and thinks, instead of looking deeper into the stuff most people ignore Which, again, you ironically seem not to realize is precisely the attitude that makes you a normie. It's a recursive loop. You become one by judging other's as one, because that's exactly what they're thinking about you too. The surface-level thing to think is shallowly judging "most people" instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:42 PM
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His point was that it is the most normie thing in the world to think everyone but you is a normie. The normie meme itself is so old at this point, going back to early 2000s 4chan, that the fact you're still deploying it, unironically, in 2021, twenty years too late, demonstrates that you are indeed the normiest of the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:21 PM
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That being said, a truth can still exist about human sexuality where these people are just locked out of pursuing or engaging in this part of themselves via market forces. I agree with most of what you say, but here is the crux. These market forces are artificial, due to essentially the free marketing and distortion of expectations caused by social media. People think it just reveals the truth of human sexual behavior, but it really just warps it. Our brains are not at all adapted to this techno…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:15 AM
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Yeah I don't disagree with that. Maybe I am going to deep, but my point was that, back in the day (not even that far, really just before the sexual revolution) our culture didn't pedestalize an unrealistic forever youth. Life was too hard, and there was respect for actually growing up and learning to value other things about life besides the joy of being a dumb teenager forever. Men had more options to display masculinity, and, contrary to all the women here, the change isn't all due to feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:30 AM
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Yeah, it's a good exercise for people to pick a topic and record themselves for even 5 minutes and see how compelling they can be, not to mention keeping the dead air, "um", and repetition to a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:07 AM
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I can live with that. The "essence" of a person is recorded on the brains of those who knew them, and the meat and neural patterns can't forget so easily, so it projects those patterns onto reality. Add emotional connection and, boom, people see what they want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:20 AM
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Nah. The dead live on in the minds of those who knew them, but other than unverified "sightings" there's no reason to believe in any kind of coherent existence of our selves beyond death. Like, how would it even work? For this reason, I've never been creeped out by graveyards. I think they're really cool, peaceful places, but nothing mystical is going on. Just a monument to serve those still living. The dead are at peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:13 AM
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Lol I feel ya. A dipshit for sure, but an entertaining one. At least until he apparently scrubbed his actual personality and became a boring, dimwitted robot. God I actually hated Set.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:54 PM
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She's still here. It's the mix of smugness and pomposity with the relentless victim complex and long-suffering attitude that is absolutely unbearable. It's like, pick a shitty personality trait, don't hoard them all to yourself. Lots of dudes here are like that too though, so, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:46 PM
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SeemedGood (rip) and midwestufohunter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:43 PM
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Lol I miss Love8Death in a way. I never put together that he was also SetConsumes. Set seemed way more spergy, while I could imagine Love8Death being the kind of guy who recreationally wears cloaks and plays DnD and writes god-awful poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:38 PM
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Cheating is like part of baseball culture and history. MLB teams have always been the most creative among the major sports at rigging the game. Corked bats, steroids, the Black Sox, Pete Rose, stealing signs, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:21 PM
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Basketball itself isn't boring but the NBA is interminable. The game has been hijacked by super teams assembled during free agency and by 4th quarter meta-game being absolutely god-awful. The teams are either so mismatched that it's no-contest, or so even that the only part of the game that matters is the last 2 minutes, which is an endless series of timeouts, free throws, and each coach jockeying to get that satisfying buzzer beater to end it. The last two minutes always take 30 to play. I'd ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:11 PM
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Yeah, that was my point. Sounds great in theory, but in reality you need some smoothness to pull it off, and most shy dudes will drop the ball. Great starting position though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:01 PM
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Basketball and baseball are way fun to play, but a slog to watch, unless you're at the stadium or arena live. Football is the best of both worlds though. Although I've had foreign friends tell me watching American football is slow paced torture, so, prob biased 🇺🇲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:58 PM
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I had an old memory suddenly occur to me. I was at a bar with a firepit in the back, and was sitting there with some friends among a decent crowd. There were only a few chairs, and a small group with few girls walked up when one of these girls, visibly tipsy, made some comment about there being no seats and then she literally sat in my lap, uninvited. This was in my early beta days, and I remember being totally taken aback, and I froze up. Maybe two or three minutes later, she got up and walked …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:36 PM
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suicide boys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:53 PM
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Moist is a pretty common aversion, actually. It's definitely a thing. I think that has to do more with the sound than any unpleasant connotations. Moist actually has a lot of legitimate applications, like describing cake. No such legitimacy exists for nubile that I can see. If you're using it, it's in a pervy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:29 AM
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I get serious Lolita vibes from it, like Nabokov using "nymphet" There's a certain pompous, wrinkly old white guy undercurrent to the term, like only gross perverted old writers or psychiatrists would ever actually use it to describe a girl. You can imagine Nabokov deploying it for the early 20s grad students he was porking with his saggy, wrinkly old man body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:22 AM
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The word "nubile" is so unbelievably cringe. Everytime I read it I can't imagine anything other than it slithering out the mouth of some creepy perv watching little kids at the playground. It's the kind of adjective that, when used, says far more about the person saying it than whatever he's actually talking about. I can't think of any non-creepy application of it or really any legitimate reason to use it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:51 AM
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V Modas are so good, the Crossfade LPs I've had for two years are built like a tank and still going strong, and I work out in them multiple times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:35 PM
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Mad Libs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:50 PM
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How is this contradictory to the black pill? Blackpill means looks is the only meaningful factor in attraction and relationships. Saying hotness is all that you should care about is as black as it gets. Also, Ivanka is Trump's daughter, and as creepy as their relationship is, I'm fairly certain they weren't ever sexual with each other. But I'm assuming you probably meant Melania. Either way, this is terrible advice and so obviously influenced by you being from LA. People in other parts of the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:59 PM
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تاسو يې کولى شٸ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:58 AM
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Feminist soyboy pussy-begging game taken to the ultimate conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:08 AM
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Nah she's trippin, he ain't here. He was civil enough but not a loss. He was the most repetitive poster, none of his comments added anything more than his previous million.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:38 AM
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Women are bloodhounds for genetic fitness. Or at least the select sexually dimorphic traits that make a chad: height, frame, facial and torso bone structure, muscle insertions and potential to build muscle mass, etc. These are all really complex traits to modify, especially after birth (with the exception of testosterone treatment later in life to aid in building muscle and reducing body fat), and so the technology to alter them is still in its infancy. The best method will probably be just to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:35 AM
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There is a zero percent chance she understands this reference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:37 AM
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No one cares if you change how you talk. You seem to be the one who's taking issue with the response (or lack thereof) to your rambling commentary. No one is entitled to force you to change how you speak or write, just like you aren't entitled to have people read your long-winded posts. Accept it, or move on and find people who will tolerate your lectures. If you want a different response than what you've gotten, then yes, you will have to change your delivery. It's called dialogue and it's how …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:19 AM
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It's about pacing and social awareness. People come here to have conversations, not be lectured at. What can be said in one long-winded post is often better broken up into subsequent comments in a thread of conversation. Displaying logorrheic faux-erudition is (usually correctly) labeled as annoying and pretentious. It's much more skillful to condense your point into a few elegant sentences. Launching a wall of text gives the correct impression that you're not interested in talking, just flexing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:41 AM
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It's amusing that the AGW climate warriors have become the new breed of eschatology, and use the same world-ending rhetoric as the religious apocalyptic rapture prophets of old (that they of course mock and are blind to their parallels with). That said this comment is in no way meant to be taken as climate change denial. Just a funny observation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:41 AM
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Like most things, it has to do with attitude and presentation more than actual stance. No one cares about childfree people who don't make it their entire personality (except maybe their own parents who want grandkids, but that's a different can of worms). The cf sub on reddit is a cesspool of self-righteous overgrown adolescents. Just be a normal fucking person like the rest of us and live your life. Making cf a religion is cringe and acting inherently superior for no real reason is pretty obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:10 AM
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I used to drive ambulances. One time, some dickweed parked his F450 in the ER ambulance bay to pick up some non-emergency family member. It's the 80/20 of truck ownership. 80 percent chance he's a male karen who literally only uses it to drive 5 miles a day to and from his suburban desk job, or 20 percent chance he uses it for work/fishing and is the kind of guy who would help you move for a six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:13 PM
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Lmao. I imagine this will be interpreted as a hate crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:37 PM
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Most birds are amazing. My town is terrorized by seagulls during the summer, and they're such obnoxious, goofy, loud-mouthed shit machines. Their shit smells like rotting fish, btw, and when 500 of them are shitting all over your town that means the entire town smells like rotting fish. At least they're cute when they're babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:05 PM
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Did you see it in theaters? Apparently it's on the HBO streaming bs and I had a chance to watch it with friends but passed it up because I'm trying to get the full experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:30 AM
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I don't think black pillers standards are actually that much more reasonable, particularly about past sexual history, especially since (and this is key) they would almost certainly act exactly the same were they in the position of women. Actually, they would be even more promiscuous, as men crave sex more frequently than women do. This is demonstrated by how low their standards for sex are (as they love to remind us). According to them, all a woman needs to do to be attractive is not be fat. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:47 AM
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I think so much of the griping by men on here about feminism stems from their willful blindness to the ways 3rd wave feminism has harmed millenial and gen z women as much as it has harmed unattractive men. FDS is basically the new generation's feminist realignment. A common quote that you hear over there (and here) is that FDS is literally old wisdom, the same strategies that women under 35 heard from their grandmothers. What goes unsaid is that this wisdom is directly contradictory to the 3rd w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:12 AM
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If that's your bag and you already know you're losing it, I guess so. You could look at transplant surgery too, although that's more expensive (and you'd still have to take the pill). I'm not balding yet but it's in my genetic cards, but fortunately I've always found a lot of women over 30 really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:40 PM
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Permanently closes the door on any woman under 30 pretty much. The women over that are more open to it, especially if you're jacked and have a beard and good skull shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:35 PM
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Not my bag personally, but objectively attractive. 7.5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:00 AM
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Definitely not, although it's a good start. If you do multiple sets of 50 per day, you'll definitely get a toned chest and triceps tho. Have to do about 200 push ups per day to get good results, but in sets of 25 or 50 spread throughout the day it's very manageable and takes almost no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:34 AM
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Canon Rebel T7 is a great midrange DSLR. It'll run you about $450, but once you learn to use it your photos will look almost pro. The T5 is a more affordable option which might be better for more casual applications, will run about $350-$360
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:30 AM
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This wouldn't surprise me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:27 AM
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Thinness is one of those things that is best judged visually, not by numbers. Numbers can give a rough idea for averages across populations, but not everyone will fit into those neat categories. BMI inaccuracy is a great example. It's fine to evaluate probably 95% of people, but that 5% means that everyone probably knows a few people for whom it's not the best gauge. For example, I'm 6'1" and 190 pounds, so my BMI is 25.1, just above the 25 benchmark to be technically considered "overweight." Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:59 AM
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It's a subtle change, but she was prettier before. As usual for plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:48 PM
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There are many, many ethnic groups in Russia. Including Asians. You know, because it's in Asia. Political boundaries change, and migrations happen. But, generally, you can expect to find Asians in Asia and Europeans in Europe. Did you think of all of Russia as vodka and babushka?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:04 PM
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...did you not know that Russia is part of Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:20 PM
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A guy might not be funny or witty, but I wouldn’t categorize that as boring Women do tho, which is what matters. Honestly I do too from other dudes. I can learn to appreciate that some guys are really interesting with their erudition about their niche nerdy interests. But that takes time, and any woman looking for dudes to fuck is not going to have that much patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:35 AM
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Assertive and confident is not being a dickhead Like I said, not a perfect overlap, but some people, including women, can be fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:26 AM
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but men here now routinely state this as a given. Sure, sometimes. There are some dumb dudes here. But to steelman their position, being an absolute douche does not disqualify a physically attractive man, and, moreover, certain classically "asshole" behaviors are attractive to a decent subset of women. AWALT is bunk, but a lot of women like their men to be dickheads to everyone else while being a prince to them. Some weird fetish maybe, but it gets results for men who struggle at being assertive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:21 AM
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Cucking has lost all meaning. It's a two way street, the implication is that if your partner has shown you trust and commitment, even at your worst, then you owe them the same, assuming you're a stand-up person. It isn't cucking yourself to have motivations other than naked self-interest. Which btw is the definition of a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:16 AM
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True, but niceness itself isn't sufficient to be attractive, which I'm pretty sure is their actual point. A boring point, as expected, but valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:12 AM
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More men than women engage in medium to intense exercise. 56% of men vs 42% of women exercise in the medium to high intensity categories on a regular basis This should be common sense, but hopefully hard data will disabuse you of your foolish dismissal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:46 AM
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California, worth a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:05 AM
2

For real. Tik tok is too surreal and its thots too cringetarded to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:36 PM
2

I love spirits straight, especially whiskey and gin, but vodka has always tasted like nail polish remover. Can do it, but would rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:34 PM
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It's a form of digital simping tho. Idk, girls irl are always just so much hotter. If I wanted to see hot girls online doing shit I'd just watch porn. There's at least no illusion of parasociality, and you aren't getting blue balled by e-thots
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:19 PM
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If anything, black coffee has been the stereotypical working stiff stereotype. I've had multiple gfs tell me they had no idea how I or other dudes could drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:10 PM
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Interesting, I have friends who would be down for that sure, but it would at least be partially a joke. Not much for day drinking personally though, besides the occasional shot in the shower. Generally been a black coffee and water til noon guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:07 PM
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We all live in bubbles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:58 PM
3

Must be a class thing. For example, I don't think I've ever attended what could be called a brunch, unless you count a late greasy sunday breakfast at a diner to soak up the hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:55 PM
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I think the coffee mimosa mixup is far more understandable. Plenty of male wine aficionados and sommeliers. I don't think I've ever seen a man order a mimosa, even ironically. Plus mimosas and brunch is a classic white bitch pasttime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:43 PM
2

Imagine thinking internet SJW culture is fighting for anything. It's a scramble for internet clout by privileged people without any actual skill or talent. The only thing they're victimized by is their own mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:44 PM
4

My mind is basically non-stop TikTok like vignettes. Sounds worse than Hell. I'd have to put a bullet through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:44 PM
1

The vast majority women aren't content to be aging childfree forever FWBs to middle aged men, so I'm not sure you are a good representative for what most women want and expect from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:22 PM
9

.69 seems more appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:35 AM
2

Frame talk can be cringe, but it identifies a nuanced headspace that you don't see anyone besides RP talk about. It's not the same as self-esteem, it's a subtle dynamic that really only occurs between men and women, especially those who are interested in each other sexually. Women have diffiferent expectations and interpretations of men they're vetting sexually, and have a general pattern of reactions to certain male behaviors/mindsets. If you got rid of the term, you would be losing out on a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:25 AM
1

What's the age gap? If he's already through residency he's gotta be late 20s at the youngest, if not pushing 30
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:17 AM
1

Probably dry her up tbh, but y'all are old so it might seem more reasonable at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:16 AM
3

Cyberpunk dystopia future awaits with vr porn and AI waifus, with marriage only happening among wealthy chads. General social decay in our culture and America will likely become a lesser power in a more multipolar geopolitical landscape
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:17 PM
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Not that I agree with OPs point, but Vidal was primarily a novelist and playwright who wrote historical fiction, not academic history or well-researched biography. So continuing from his (incorrect, to be clear) logic, you would still be following the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:52 PM
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Going ottermode, actually getting bitches, and doing and making cool shit instead of spending excess amounts of time in a gym every day surrounded by basic meatbros.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:32 AM
1

Only 18% require premium gas, with Edmunds giving the figure of only 16% recommending it. Most of them being high performance vehicles, which the vast majority of car owners do not have. Which is exactly what I said, for most people it's not necessary. Not sure why you're getting butthurt (no pun intended) other than generally being a salty poster, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:51 AM
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Really? I tend to do the opposite. I don't trust attractive people, as i think they are more likely to be trying to play around with me. I think it's possible to do this with conscious effort, but realistically almost everyone is going to give more leeway to people they think are good looking. It's pretty much the definition of being attractive. The Halo effect is a widely measured and confirmed phenomenon for a reason, and this is why ad agencies put hot people in commercials. Even when people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:35 AM
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But you're at least aware of the charade, which (the general) you may be as well when dealing with men, but the paradox is that when you aren't aware of it you, well, wouldn't know either way. There are countless testimonials on this site of women being played by men who they're attracted to: men lying to get sex, giving the impression of wanting a relationship, scamming women out of money and support and a place to stay, etc. Just as there are of the reverse. We let our guards down when dealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:25 AM
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That may be true, but i think it's easier for a man to manipulate a woman than for another woman to. Because we understand our own sex better than the opposite, and have a natural weakness for the objects of our attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:14 AM
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Well not sure about audis and other high end foreign cars in general, but as long as you change your oil consistently and perform other routine maintenance I've never had regular gas cause any issues in any of my cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:09 AM
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Men at least are straightforward in their presentation and intentions. I think this is overstated. There's a parallel MaW effect you find on the manosphere, where men like to portray themselves as almost unfailingly logical, pragmatic straight shooters. Maybe on average they're moreso than women, but this idea that men can't be subversive machiavellian manipulators themselves is hilariously wrong. Machiavelli was literally a man lmao. Wormtongue and the serpent in the garden were male characters…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:07 AM
0

Premium def is a scam, but gas in general is outrageous, depending on where you live. I'm in California now and it's at around $4.30/g at the cheapest. I've seen as much as $4.50. In jersey when I moved at the beginning of the year it was in the low $3s, dunno how it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:03 AM
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I think it's more due to HFCS in junk food, which has been proven to have a more pronounced insulin response, as well as that most junk food will have more total sugar than any piece of fruit. Fiber probably does play a role too, maybe due to slowing absorption and limiting blood sugar spikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:20 AM
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Ahh I got ya, yeah I see where I misread. Well, going to the metalcore sub was your first mistake, place is nothing but crabs in a bucket. But their reaction is to be expected. Every hypetrain eventually goes off the rails. Plus the spiritbox hype had been pushing hard for almost 2 years, ever since their first ep, and it had been a few months without any other really big name releases in the scene. So this release was destined to be overhyped and subsequently picked apart. But I think it's actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:59 PM
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Wow a spiritbox drop in PPD, never thought I'd see the day. Idk if I agree with your take though, some media outlets are going to lean their coverage into the woke aspect, but spiritbox have been critical darlings in the metal scene since well before eternal blue came out, and the band themselves don't play up the "band with a frontwoman" gimmick at all. Even when they were in iwrestledabearonce, it was kind of a gimmick that you had such brutal screams coming from a female, but their image was …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:38 PM
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Dan Bilzerian is a rich kid spending his convict daddy's illegally acquired cash to pay hot girls to fuck him (but mostly just pose on Instagram with him, doubt he ever fucked most of them) and he's likely facing legal consequences himself. Hardly one to model yourself after.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:46 AM
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You must be fun at parties. Says the guy calling random strangers homophobes online, thinking it makes him special lmao. A generic cliche response from a generic person. A hypocrite too, since you spend all your time here saying the thought of fucking fat people is icky which is especially ironic considering you used to be a disgusting fat ass yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:53 PM
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She didn't say they were icky, she said the thought of having sex with them is icky. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:34 PM
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What? No. It's not homophobia to have a sexual preference of not wanting to fuck people for whatever reason. Just like it isn't racist to have a preference for people of certain ethnicities. Homophobia is prejudice. She mentioned that she has no problem with hanging out with bi dudes or having them as friends. She just doesn't want to fuck them. Are we at the point where we're expecting people to be attracted to anyone and everyone to prove they aren't a bigot? Lmao ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:51 PM
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Only if your job sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:54 PM
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INFP, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:07 PM
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Ngl it almost was
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:41 AM
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It's hilarious, because Prince's live performance of When My Guitar Gently Weeps at the rock and roll hall of fame is fucking incredible, and I wish his records sounded anything like that. He's clearly a fantastic musician. But the juxtaposition of an artist you love playing music by a band you hate must make your head explode in an impulse of paradox lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:44 AM
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Never got the love for most 80s pop music tbh. That cheesy casio synth sound is just tinny audibly fake trash. NKOTB, Prince, Madonna, Cyndi Lauper, etc. All cheeseball music. I love 80s punk and hardcore though, Bad Brains, Fishbone, Minor Threat are all amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:37 AM
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Bruh, repent heretic. If you don't like this song at least a little bit, then you can't be saved (not one of their overplayed tracks i promise) Jk tho :p I'm no Beatles stan, not my fav from the era by any means, but the evidence of their excellence can't be denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:06 AM
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Worth a listen but if you're into clean cut southern frat Boys you prob won't dig either 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:03 AM
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Barf. It's clearly The Beatles>Beach Boys>Type O Negative>Backstreet Boys The rest of your list doesn't even rate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:59 AM
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Sterotypical, but a woman with a French accent is peak sex appeal. I'm originally from the northeast, so I actually love the working class NY/NJ accent and find it sexy in a gritty way, but I admit that it's objectively hideous. I'm in California now where all the girls are hot, so their accent benefits from association, but it's not really that distinctive. Southern accent is hot on girls, but off-putting from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:44 AM
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Damn this was scary accurate. My results were split, but two of the places I lived the longest (south jersey and south Florida) were red hot zones. Kinda disappointed it didn't have a question about the pronunciation of water (my jersey/Philly relatives say wooder or jawn as catch all replacement for "thing" like the wheel of fortune category). Or more questions about long "o" vowels, they're stressed and mad rounded in the mid-atlantic, never heard it anywhere else. I live in California now, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:23 AM
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I'm curious how much you weigh, given your exploits, and how you appear. Are you strong fat, or visibly obese? Do you think it would it be easier to salt daddy as a fit shredded dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:38 PM
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Bravetheism was an obnoxious culture that used to be all over reddit, the type of kid who was obsessed with Richard Dawkins and smugly "debunking" Christians and their admittedly pretty ridiculous beliefs. They usually came from religious backgrounds themselves, and became annoying "ackshually" types on the internet as a way of coping with their insecurity about their previous ignorance, often swinging just as dogmatically hard in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:09 AM
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To learn of the bottomless excellence of spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:58 AM
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The humanities as a discipline ruined the world CMV Idk if I'd go that far, but I think I see where your coming from. I have an embarrassing past as a former teenage bravetheist, and I used to be obsessed with Alan Sokal's trolling of academic postmodernists. But there is a lot of great work that has and still is being done by the humanities. By studying us and our culture, they study that which is most difficult to be objective about. An admirable challenge, and one which i find hard science pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:55 AM
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It's interesting because scientism has become something of a religion itself (becoming the thing it hated the most), and is or course prone to the same human corruption, dogma, and subsequent dillusioned apostasy among it's adherents upon this realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:46 AM
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They do tho We have a lot of parallels with them. Cleverer but more frail than many physically superior predators on earth, we both still overcome these larger prey through ingenuity and species-specific technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:40 AM
1

Maybe PGAD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:09 AM
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Spiders are homies, most aren't trying to hurt you, they just mind their business. When I was a kid my brother and I used to try and catch the black widows who lived in the corners of my dad's tool shed and around the wood piles. We'd never hurt them though, just relocate them so that neither us nor them would get hurt just going about our daily business. If aliens ever visited us, I think spiders would be one of the species they'd be most intrigued by. Solitary artists honing their craft in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:05 AM
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Trump was a distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:01 AM
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Understandable, you've been gone for a minute GuitarsHaveGottenEvenOlder. His flair was "Delights in homosexuality" for probably all of last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:41 PM
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Buartha was the resident sophisticated urban gay male here on the sub for years. So essentially she was saying that your commentary scans as that of a classy gay man, which your subsequent reply to her appears to reinforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:29 PM
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Welcome to hyperreality. As ensuing generations become more and more native to social media, these platforms will grow to function as a kind of universal background check and way to measure social credit. If you can't be vetted in a matter of seconds through your online presence you will be unpersoned. By employers, governments, and social circles/potential dates. Anonymity used to be the defining factor of the internet, like a global city, but it's coming to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:13 AM
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Not anymore. The olds have realized that it's big money, and have rushed to cash in. There are plenty of 30+ and even boomer aged people on there (so I'm told) manufacturing cringe for the masses now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:06 AM
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No offense, but this seems like an exceptionally trivial matter to be considering divorce over. Like, literally middle school "he said something nice about her 😒" levels of toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 09:19 PM
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Lots of languages move right to left chronologically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:30 PM
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Selection bias. Only toxic unhappy people or people specifically looking for the drama that toxic people produce go to those subs. And the toxic people feed off the attention and negativity and it becomes a self-sustaining feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:10 PM
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I think it boils down to: what is your path of least resistance? Do you sigh with relief when social plans are canceled, even with people you like? A night in alone is never plan B to an introvert. Or does it stress you out? And do you feel cheated for having assigned your time to weak plans, and now you have to scramble to find a replacement. My ex was the latter, and I simply couldn't understand. I'm not antisocial and I love my friends, but it's effort to go out and talk and be funny and inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:07 AM
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Good quote. I hate to be that guy, but it probably just boils down to basic biology again. There isn't anything preventing women from achieving greatness anymore, but they just aren't as incentivized to do it, either by society or their own biology. If a woman wants to, she is guaranteed to continue her genetic line into the future. Not so for men. Men are mother nature's wildcard. It's her throwing shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. Most are wasted, but every now and then one will be a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah, the only people in my life I've met who wear cologne are very short fuckboy Hispanic and Italian guys. Not trying to be racist, that's just the truth, consistently it's been my experience. The kind of dude who owns multiple gold chains and laughs at his own jokes. I don't see how scents would be a "baseline"; just showering once or twice daily and using shampoo should be enough to make you smell pleasantly neutral, which is actually the ideal. I personally have hated the smell of any colog…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:44 PM
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Unironically, yes. You being a wuss isn't a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:52 PM
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The value of social media analysis is not that people present their actual lives accurately, but that they project their true, unadulterated opinions and desires online, which go out into the real world at unprecedented speed and influence the opinions and desires of others. It's a different kind of conformity than what used to prevail. It's much more difficult and unpleasant to present your unfiltered feelings and opinions to people in real life. Humans are programmed to seek social harmony in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:50 AM
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It's the same reaction as when men learn how coldly and rationally women separate the men they get involved with into AF and BB, and treat each kind of man accordingly. Both sexes find the opposite's true sexuality repugnant. There's a reason these things were obscured from each other for millenia. The internet is the reason we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:44 AM
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She literally has 3 whole ass kids with another man, and they're grade school aged. Can you imagine watching the VMAs and hearing your middle aged mom call some weird younger guy in a pink suit daddy on national television, and talk about fucking him lol. Lethal amounts of cringe. I don't think anyone actually cares about the daddy meme, it's super overplayed at this point, which is exactly why aging plastic Hollywood people approaching their 40s are forcing it into their public appearances as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:41 PM
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Cool shit, did you draw the design for those as well? For what it's worth I thought your other designs were pretty dope, I remember you were getting a lot of boomer hate denigrating them as mere "tribal tats"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:58 PM
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What's the tattoo of? Is it based on the drawings you posted here before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:36 PM
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Sure, I never said otherwise. But you never addressed my point about pop culture going a step beyond and glamorizing the criminal lifestyle. Pop music has always celebrated it, and men who engage in that lifestyle have always had the runaway success that is often discussed here, including by the other guy in the thread. Women here often argue (as you seem to be) that criminality is not only not especially attractive, but actively unattractive to them. But you seem to be thinking of a different a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:25 PM
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The point of a debate is that we can disagree, unilaterally declaring it useless is not a rebuttal. My point was that the trangressive criminal aspect is what makes it cool, and is why young men adopt the persona of rulebreaker to appeal to women in the subculture. If these activities were legal, they wouldn't be as cool, and men would do other things to gain that status instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:13 PM
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And you replied to me with things that make a criminal in your mind. Or am I missing something? I would say so. It isn't only in my mind, breaking the law is what makes one a criminal. Whether I think it should be illegal or not is irrelevant, this is just a matter of definitions. If underage drinking and selling were made legal, then it would lose some of the caché that it has, because the whole point is to flex against society and take risks in order to gain that status. People will always cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:07 PM
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I never actually used the word criminal until you did, and I didn't pass any judgment about it either, not sure why you're taking it personally. But I guess that's par for the course on the sub. I wouldn't say it's a useless definition though, it actually is the literal definition. It's a pretty banal observation that drinking and doing drugs is a good way to meet people interested in casual sex and garner status among kids who value that kind of token rebeliousness. Only here would I have to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:57 PM
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I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you knew that all along. Like I said, not a big deal or even really risky or transgressive at all, in most cases. Some forms of criminal activity are socially acceptable in the right crowd, and give you status of course, which is the whole point of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:49 PM
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If he's using drugs (which he always is) or selling (which he often is) then yeah, technically, even if it's not actually a big deal or even all that risky. Virtually all pop music for the last 60 years has been about getting faded and having casual sex, and in the last 30 expanded to actual trapping and banging. Being rebellious against society has always been cool to kids, and gets you status. And in the arms race of being cool, it usually escalates to low level criminal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:45 PM
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Suburban bad boy douchebag is a recognized form of status among bored adolescents and college kids, and is a tried and true way to bang a lot of women. Especially sorority party thot types, which is who he specified, but also most e-girls, groupie types, alt-kids, and really most girls in that socioeconomic demo. See Pete Davidson as the contemporary zenith of the archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:22 PM
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It happened the same day a Facebook official was testifying before congress, conspiracy-tards are theorizing that they were attempting to cover their tracks in some way and accidentally fucked their entire suite of platforms. They might actually be on to something this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:11 AM
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Know you won't see this, but best wishes man. Always sad to see a lifer go down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:29 AM
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I would think she's at least two hundo too light for your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:25 AM
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Trigger warning No fear of triggering me. Women like yourself are my target market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:43 AM
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What's your type? How and when did you figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:28 AM
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I get the impression that it's not a conscious choice. There's no accounting for taste. Probably has something to do with past experiences/partners. It can also change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:05 AM
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They were still putting people in Monroe while I was there, but it has been a minute Also red beans and rice mondays at bruff were legit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:02 PM
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It's depressing how good I am at this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:23 AM
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Come to the pic thread Curious to see if I can guess who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:52 AM
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Ah the boot. A bar that might as well have actually been on campus. Only at Tulane. Only in New Orleans. I was there when DJ Pauly D from jersey shore did a guest appearance, to give an idea of how old I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:08 AM
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I'm probably older than you think, I look mad young. Good times. I lost my v card in butler hall, smoked my first cigarette on the roof of percy stern, and bought my first beer at friar tuck's on freret.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:03 AM
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We've interacted over the years. I used to have a more autistic username.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:47 AM
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rft24 or whatever her username is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:45 AM
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wekacuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:42 AM
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Ouch, prob the last person here id want to be confused with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:55 AM
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Yup. Sup toxin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:37 AM
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Not what I expected. For some reason I thought you wore glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah I'd have had no doubt here. Your turn to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:20 AM
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Hey no one's forehead is moving in a still shot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:14 AM
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We could still and try and guess who you are. You probably are one of the users people here would have a good mental image of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:12 AM
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Rocking the retirement beard, I dig it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:01 AM
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But that ruins the fun of trying to guess. Using a throwaway and confirming through PM (only if you wanted to) is basically equivalently secure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:00 AM
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No just a hunch lol. I expected you to be wearing glasses, so I wasn't that confident
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:58 PM
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I'm actually a dipshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:53 PM
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WhichbladeN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:49 PM
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Yeah I figured you would guess easily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:46 PM
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Actually you might be right, I feel like she's posted before and I remembered her differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:32 PM
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No that's not philo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:29 PM
1

SaBahrub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:23 PM
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Are you the one who posted this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:43 PM
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This is pretty much what I expected you to look like. Dollars to donuts you're wearing cargo shorts below the frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:27 PM
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Fellow hapa here. Although I don't identify with the online community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:23 PM
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I miss having long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:20 PM
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Cheers to pinkgoldrose, I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:13 PM
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