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Call it whatever you want. The truth is still that there’s nothing special about her. He wanted to settle down and she was an acceptable option in the right place at the right time. Nothing more and nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:47 PM
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Fine. I’ll give you an example. The mere exposure effect as described by psychologist Robert Zajonc. Repeated exposure to a neutral or mildly positive stimulus (including a person) increases liking for it, even without conscious awareness. Simply seeing someone often makes them seem more attractive, trustworthy, and appealing over time. Basically, physical proximity increases the chance of love and marriage. Imagine two similar people. The first one, you see every day. The second one, you see o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:38 PM
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Everyone who knows even a little bit about human psychology knows this isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:19 PM
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LOL, please. Men settle down when they feel like the time is right and they’ll take the woman they are with at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:12 PM
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I guess it means right wing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:17 PM
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Then we’ll put a spider on every jar. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:02 PM
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Not when we put all the cords in jars and close the lids really tightly. Haha checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:33 PM
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Yet nothing you said was solely the blame of men. That’s exactly the core point. The post claims that only men are responsible for male loneliness. I proved that this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:29 PM
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Yes but men are reacting to this by blaming women for their problems. Who was it again who was blaming all of their problems on 'muh patriarchy'? Oh right, women… All while not spending the time to create and maintain social networks. Proven by OP and her sources to not be the primary cause of loneliness. Blaming others is high, yet taking personal responsibility for ones choices is low. I clearly wrote in my comment that the social norms about masculinity that might cause problems are upheld by…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:45 PM
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And this is why critical thinking is vital when you’re debating complex issues. When you’re searching for an explanation, you’ll find many different theories and most of them will be wrong. Always try to falsify a theory by looking for logical errors and contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:49 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a bullshit leftard propaganda term and doesn’t exist. However, traditional masculinity is encouraged and enforced by men and women. You admitted like three comments ago that women have more and deeper friendships. They also talk about feelings more. Yet your own source admits that women feel even lonelier than men. Clearly, the many deep friendships and emotional conversations didn’t help with the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:29 PM
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Which makes the title of your post even more wrong and misandrist. Causes of male loneliness mentioned in the article: Emotional expression: Socialization to suppress emotions. This is enforced by men and women. So not solely men's fault. Socialization patterns: Traditional masculinity discourages from seeking help and support. This is also enforced by men and women. Again, not solely men's fault. Changing social dynamics: Diminishing family structures and increased mobility leads to social isol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:21 PM
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So men have few friends and feel lonely. Women have more friends but feel even more lonely. Conclusion: having lots of friends doesn’t prevent you from feeling lonely. You just disproved your entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:51 PM
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And this isn't just about one example, it's also the constant whining about women who want to fuck serial killers, felons, well known women beaters, etc. It's like it never occurs to these men that those women are either terrible people or dysfunctional and in great need of therapy for whatever mental illness or trauma they have. It’s the female nature to be sexually attracted to dark triad traits, aggression, violence and also masculinity in general. All women have the same female nature. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:14 PM
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According to Pew (2025), 16% of men and 15% of women report feeling lonely most of the time. For younger people, it’s 25% of men and 18% of women, according to Gallup (2023/2024). For older people, it’s either mixed or women feeling lonelier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:52 AM
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Where did you get that 40+ number? Was this changed recently? Even NHS funded research always used the 35+ definition. https://www.hra.nhs.uk/planning-and-improving-research/application-summaries/research-summaries/approaching-childbirth-aged-35-years-and-above/ The recognised definition of advanced maternal age (AMA) is a woman who gives birth aged thirty-five years and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:55 PM
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The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) uses the 35+ definition just like many other health authorities. If you include socioeconomic factors and available resources, then late 20s is probably the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:08 PM
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Geriatric pregnancy (now called advanced maternal age) is officially defined as 35+ and not 40+. After that age, it’s a gradual increase of risks for the mother and the baby. Just like it’s a gradual decline in fertility. You can get pregnant and deliver a healthy baby within a wide age range but 20s are optimal. This is what I wrote. It’s the biologically perfect time frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:42 PM
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The correct age range for having babies is 20 to 30. Female fertility peaks early to mid 20s. That’s when they have the highest per cycle conception rates and the largest reserve of high quality eggs. It’s also the time with the lowest risks of complications and chromosomal abnormalities. Fertility begins to decline around 30 and that accelerates after 35. It’s called "geriatric pregnancy" for a reason. After 40, it gets really bad. Our ancestors usually had children between their late teens and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:49 PM
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There are multiple factors that increase the probability of someone becoming a criminal. But a single parent household itself is definitely a factor. There are studies that control for poverty, education, age, race, population density and many other factors and they did indeed find that simply coming from a single parent household increases the probability of the child becoming a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:20 PM
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From an evolutionary biology perspective, it would make sense for men to prefer virgins since men face paternity uncertainty. There are hundreds of studies looking at males of different animal species and most indeed prefer virgin females. Human males shouldn’t be any different but they have to be a bit more pragmatic about it because there are no reliable physical signs of virginity in human females. Most Americans lose their virginity during their teenage years. Unless you marry your highschoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:28 PM
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That’s not true. Reddit has a Moderator Code of Conduct that all mods have to follow. Admins can and will remove mods who violate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:23 PM
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This doesn’t necessarily mean that they took no action. In my case, I didn’t get a response from the admins either. But the mods made an announcement post shortly after. They explained the situation, apologized and promised a fair and unbiased moderation in the future. That’s how I know that the admins actually stepped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:14 PM
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Blocked!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:53 PM
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Since multiple people complained about biased moderation, here’s what you can do. Fill out the form at the bottom of this help page. Include evidence like links to rule breaking content that you reported but mods didn’t remove it even days later. https://redditinc.com/policies/moderator-code-of-conduct The admins really do care. I used this to file a complaint against a mod of another subreddit and they took action. She was removed as a mod, had her account permanently suspended and the other mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:51 PM
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Yes but it’s a strictly casual/FWB arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:15 PM
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Peak physical attractiveness is somewhere between late teens and early 20s. My personal preference would be, let’s just say, legal teens. Mentally, I’d say at the time when brain performance peaks. Unfortunately, that is far more difficult to determine because the brain has several peaks in terms of its function at different ages. For example, raw processing speed peaks around late teens to early 20s. Short-term memory peaks between mid 20s and mid 30s. Vocabulary improves well into your 50s. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:25 PM
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This 2023 study perfectly encapsulates the core difference between men and women. The researchers examined what happens when someone wins the lottery and suddenly gets a large amount of money. Men: The lottery win strengthened the relationship. Unmarried men were about 30% more likely to marry within five years. For already married men, the divorce risk decreased by up to 40%. Men also wanted to have more children. Women: The only discernible effect was a doubling of the short-term divorce risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:59 PM
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I’m a pretty decent looking human with a good traits. Yet I’m undateable. Do you know why? Are there specific things that make men avoid you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:14 PM
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🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:08 PM
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The quality of humans follows a bell curve. Most are ok, some are great and some are terrible. Just by random chance, you should pick more ok men than terrible ones. Therefore, you should have more ok experiences than bad experiences. If you consistently pick terrible men and the majority of your experiences are bad, then you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:57 PM
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If you have so many bad experiences with men, you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:57 AM
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The sexual shame theory has been debunked a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:53 AM
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The problem is that more than 80% of people who lose a significant amount of weight gain it all back within 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:18 PM
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Early to mid 20s would make sense since female fertility peaks around that time. But 20 was the lowest age you could pick in that data set. In this review of 200k online dating profiles, 18 was the most desirable age. https://www.science.org/doi/pdf/10.1126/sciadv.aap9815 There are also studies that include ages below 18 but I am not allowed to post them. You can probably guess the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:48 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:53 PM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-019-0262-5 This is a study about teen girls' preferences. Let’s see what kind of boys they like. […] we analysed their pattern of attraction for both ‘hooking up’ and stable relationships towards boys with either violent attitudes and behaviour or boys with non-violent behaviour, what would be linked to gender violence victimization at a later stage in their lives. Our findings suggest that in the different European secondary schools studied, a similar patt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:50 PM
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You're wrong. Studies using the Passionate Love Scale (Hatfield & Sprecher) show mostly no consistent sex difference or sometimes men scoring slightly higher. Several studies show that men and women report performing romantic acts at similar rates once in committed relationships. fMRI studies (like Fisher) show men, when viewing a loved one, tend to deactivate brain areas associated with critical judgment faster than women do. Men also fall in love faster and say "I love you" earlier. This is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:15 AM
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Women use slut shaming as a competitor derogation tactic. It's an extremely effective intrasexual competition method to lower the perceived value of another women. It's so damn effective that women will use physical violence to defend their reputation and women rarely use physical violence. Only in extreme situations. So clearly women must agree that certain kinds of sex reduce the value of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:43 PM
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You can look into the US General Social Survey 2022. Married men and women are happier than single ones. Similar trends in the World Values Survey and Gallup World Poll. Married individuals report higher happiness in up to 90% of the surveyed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:54 AM
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You're right. From now on, we’ll say women age like pumpkins. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:53 PM
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It’s the same. There was a good post on PPD a few months ago about a study where researchers compared stated and revealed preferences. Looks were always a top priority for both men and women. Doesn’t matter if it’s short term or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:13 PM
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Everyone’s treatment is based on their perceived mate value. For women, that’s basically looks and youth. For men, that’s basically looks and status. The 'effort' you describe is mate guarding behavior. Mate guarding means discouraging your current partner from leaving and fighting off rivals who try to poach your current partner. Highly attractive partners require more mate guarding because more rivals will try to poach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:08 PM
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The point is that both men and women care a lot about looks. It’s one of their top priorities and there’s no difference between men and women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:51 PM
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When a woman gets a promotion at work and a pay rise the risk of divorce increases dramatically. The same is not true for men. This shows you who really loves and who’s just a solipsistic parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:12 AM
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exactly proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:52 PM
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Because I listen to what say and then watch what they do and judge them by their actions. Want a fun little example? Years ago, Peter Boghossian and his colleagues took a section from Hitler's Mein Kampf and rewrote it. They replaced the word 'Jews' with 'men' and then submitted it to a feminist academic journal to see what would happen. The paper passed peer review and was published. Want another fun little example? Cassie Jaye is a filmmaker who produced a lot of documentaries about women’s is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:28 PM
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It’s a hypocritical misandrist female supremacy cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:49 AM
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Cartwheels. Easy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:48 AM
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Unironically you’re just proving how delusional, illogical and misandrist women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:23 PM
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The lifetime odds of a woman dying in a car crash are approximately 1 in 170. The lifetime odds of a woman being murdered by an intimate partner are something like 1 in 1250. Are you shaking in your boots every time you drive to the mall?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:24 PM
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I do have Tesla stock. Don’t know if they are gonna be the ones that will produce the first fuckable robot partners, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:41 PM
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Invest in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:33 PM
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Yes, this would be my ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:31 PM
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Modern women are so selfish and lazy 🙄 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:23 PM
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When women get a promotion and start earning more, the divorce risk skyrockets. The same is not true for men. As always, women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:30 PM
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https://www.slutcon.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:51 PM
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Many studies show that unattractive people tend to overestimate their own looks the most. They often perceive themselves as at least average. Attractive people are usually accurate or even slightly underestimate their own attractiveness. It's not clear if there’s a sex difference in self-perception. Some studies found that men overrated themselves more than women while other studies found no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:35 AM
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eww no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:46 PM
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I never get hate DMs and I put so much effort into saying inflammatory shit here. Not fair :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:27 AM
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Thoughts don’t matter. Only actions matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:05 PM
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Hate involves a desire for harm or misfortune to befall the object of hate. I don’t wish any harm upon sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:17 PM
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It’s not hate, it’s disgust. I view them as fuck toys that are usable but beneath me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:24 PM
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https://www.the-express.com/lifestyle/life/155463/miami-influencer-alyssa-armoogam-shares-her-journey-trophy-wife-29-year-age-gap-marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:55 PM
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Women could care less if theyre viewed as a hoe or not by women or men. Very, very wrong. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition tactics that pointed out a competitor's promiscuity were used by females more frequently than males. These involved "calling her a tramp", "telling everyone that she sleeps around a lot" and that "she cheats on men". Indeed, accusations of promiscuity are a frequent cause of female-female violence, where females may physically retaliate in a bid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:36 PM
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Obama called Bob Iger to get Roseanne Barr fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:44 PM
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What? How can you not see them? This one short chubby balding guy wearing brown cargo pants is walking right by their table! WTF???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:55 PM
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What are you talking about? There are many men in this video. How can you not see them???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:43 PM
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So I take all the objective facts and interpret them in a way that fits into my belief system. Like we’re all doing right now already. That’s the part where reality for me is what I perceive it to be. But there are limits to this. What happens when I can’t fit objective facts into my belief system without serious negative consequences? For example, I never broke a bone in my life. That could lead me to believe that my bones are unbreakable and I’m invulnerable. What would happen if I jumped in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:47 PM
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I know that my brain creates a personal reality for me to live in based on sensory input, memories, feelings and beliefs. But I want this personal reality to have the biggest possible overlap with the objective reality. So I must choose red.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:42 PM
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What else do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:26 PM
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There is an objective reality out there and my beliefs either align with it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:49 PM
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Eww no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:01 PM
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No. If the world stayed exactly as it is and only my beliefs would change to blue, I would be living under a delusion. The blue worldview is a comforting lie but it’s still a lie. As a little boy, I grew up with blue beliefs and it caused me nothing but misery. There’s nothing I like about the red pill. I hate it. I hate everything about it and I wish it wouldn’t be true. Being redpilled never made me happy but it made me free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:58 PM
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The amount of effort people put into getting something is directly proportional to the perceived value of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:52 PM
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Of course she is. It becomes really obvious when you compare her to other women with a normal healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:57 PM
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She definitely looks very squishy and squeezable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:46 PM
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Q4M: Do you find it attractive when a woman is a little fat? Pictures for reference: https://www.themirror.com/entertainment/sydney-sweeney-bikini-bod-mansion-856167
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:25 PM
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No. Feel free to look at the psychological literature yourself. Your personality is largely stable throughout your life. What you talk about is changes in behavior. This can be done with cognitive behavioral therapy but this doesn’t change your core personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:04 PM
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Your personality is mostly set in stone. That’s what all the research says. Changing aspects of your personality is extremely difficult and only small changes are possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:04 PM
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The Women‘s Well-Being Survey from march 2025 still shows that married women with children are the happiest and unmarried women without children are the least happy. https://ifstudies.org/report-brief/in-pursuit-marriage-motherhood-and-womens-well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:04 AM
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Lesbian couple whenever there’s a spider to kill or a pickle jar to open. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:04 PM
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Stop perpetuating this lie. Married women with children are the happiest. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:04 AM
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I have fantastic news for you! Millennial women are now worse rapists than millennial men. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:11 PM
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🤔 And yet PPD women swear on their mother's tits that women have such diverse taste in men that one woman's incel is another woman's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:52 PM
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Absolutely. I require at least one standard deviation above the mean. Talking to less intelligent people for more than a few minutes causes me great discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:57 PM
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Noooooo 😭 Not caring for the kids. How could you subject a man to such a cruel torture? Evil beyond comprehension!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:59 PM
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More time to cheat with the maid 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:52 PM
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Silly question. Someone needs to cook, iron the shirts and scrub the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:42 PM
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Talk is cheap 💁‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:29 PM
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Men have alpha and beta traits. Alpha traits make them sexually attractive. Beta traits make them attractive for long term relationships. Every man has a mix of alpha and beta traits. When women want casual sex, they go for a maximum of alpha traits. Beta traits don’t matter at all because they don’t want relationships with the fuck boys. So they often hook up with highly attractive assholes. When women want a relationship, they have to balance alpha and beta traits. Enough beta traits to make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:35 PM
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Where do you draw the line between safety concern and paranoia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:04 PM
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He’s a clinically diagnosed psychopath. Extremely manipulative, selfish and has zero empathy for anyone. He’s a highly skilled con man too and has ruined the lives of more people than I can count. He owned a few companies and that made him filthy rich. Like he buys a new sports car every year. Now he’s in politics. He cheated on every woman he ever dated and he dated a lot. He only got married eventually because he wanted the label of a married man to further his political career. He chose a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:05 PM
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Would you still love your pit bull unconditionally if it mauled your baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:10 PM
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It’s not allowed to say the truth on Reddit. These comments always get removed. You can google a study about certain tendencies in normal men. Conclusion: it’s very young and it’s most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:10 PM
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Women falsely label normal possessive male sexuality as insecure. Why do they do that? To evade accountability and to benefit themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:29 PM
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This post shames normal male sexuality as insecure, fragile and bad. OP demands men going against their own nature to maximally benefit women. I don’t see you being upset about that. Somehow it’s only bad if men shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:02 PM
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I don’t. People don’t like hearing uncomfortable truths. For example, I stopped telling people about the Libet experiment that kinda proves that humans have no free will because they always got super pissed. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:54 PM
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If I were a woman, I would have a female brain and female sexuality. I would think and feel like a woman. This would make me a selfish, solipsistic herd animal that tries to dodge accountability whenever possible. I wouldn’t be attracted to good men. I’d find tall, hot, violent assholes attractive. Of course I would suck at vetting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:00 PM
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Women expect men to just treat them as humans instead of prey or a candy bar. How is it so difficult for the guys around here to see women as people instead of gratification objects? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:37 PM
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They are within the margin of error until 50. Men under 50 don’t cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:37 PM
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Should’ve picked a better husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:14 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:19 PM
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Matt Bomer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:09 PM
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We don’t listen to what you say. We will watch what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:32 PM
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I see the opposite more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:25 PM
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Men have alpha (=attractive) and beta (=comfort) traits. Both can be positive or negative. For example, dominant = positive alpha but domineering = negative alpha. Men with many positive beta traits but not enough alpha traits are morally "good" but unattractive. Women overlook those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:06 PM
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Saori Araki. A model/actress and former J-pop idol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:24 PM
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men often say that “all men do it.” Even though that’s not true, a lot of men don’t watch porn for various reasons. But I’ve been told that’s the minority because most men do. I remember a story about a group of researchers who wanted to do a study about porn use and they needed a control group of men who don’t watch porn. They couldn’t find enough and they really tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:02 PM
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That’s exactly the point. He won’t develop such an app and this is in response to women claiming the tea app only exist to protect women. In reality, it will be used to slander men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:20 PM
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You right now:
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:18 PM
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Smug PPD hoe women: "Good luck trying to avoid us. We lie about our n counts! muahaha 💃" Well… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:31 PM
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Intuition is subconscious. It has nothing to do with conscious reasoning. It's the result of feelings, biases and cognitive errors. Pattern recognition is a part of one’s intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:54 PM
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Yup very viscous. Hey, that’s not true! Some of us are very fluid. 💦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:01 PM
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🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:42 PM
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You know that I’m only doing this to rile you up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:00 PM
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Everything I say is true and based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:49 PM
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They said they are women. They shared experiences and perspectives that match those of other women. Some of them shared pictures of themselves during reveal threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:35 PM
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I’ve been on PPD for many years with different accounts and I’ve seen countless PPD women admit that everything about the red pill is true. They just don’t like the tone of it and that it makes them look bad. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:09 PM
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Any contact with another living being with the intent to derive sexual pleasure from it counts. But I don’t care about the amount of sex she had with other women. It’s only the sex with men that soils her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:16 PM
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Not because of traditional values lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:18 PM
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Also if you believe personality is also a part of genetics, then it also means main parts of personality cannot be changed. We know from twin studies that personality is partly heritable. Your upbringing can modify it a bit but once you’re an adult, your personality is pretty much set and very stable throughout the rest of your life. There was an interesting experiment where the researchers tried to change someone’s personality and it did actually work. But the process is extremely difficult and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:03 AM
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I prefer the wonderful Indian tradition where a Hindu widow burns alive on her deceased husband's funeral pyre. That’s real commitment! I refuse to settle for less. 🔥😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:13 PM
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The perception of other people isn’t logical. It’s a subconscious process. Just like you judge people with certain facial features as 'low trust' regardless of their true character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:01 PM
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Sure. If you stop perpetuating that nonsense that people don’t judge unattractive people as morally bad, then we have a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:51 PM
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I’m saying in my experience most folks aren’t calling someone “a bad person” because they’re unattractive. Do I really need to link the halo and horns effect wiki page here again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:40 PM
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Q4W: Imagine you're on a 2 week vacation to Cuba with your bf/husband. While unpacking his suitcase, he notices that he forgot his toothbrush at home. Unfortunately, you can’t buy one because it’s a very poor country and they just don’t have any for sale. So he proposes that he’ll just use your toothbrush too. After all, you kiss each other frequently so a shared toothbrush shouldn’t be such a big deal, right? Will you agree to share your toothbrush with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:17 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:53 PM
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not older than 20 pretty face (min 7/10) great body (small waist, wide hips, great tits and ass) super virgin (khhv) IQ above 130 kind, nurturing, compassionate, supportive likes animals and children agreeable funny kinky with a high sex drive rich parents parents not divorced keeps body always hairless not a feminist extremely attracted to me, almost obsessed polite and has good manners curious and playful enjoys cooking and cleaning determined to stay thin and fit for as long as possible no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:25 PM
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Zendaya is below average. The other two are mid. 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:58 PM
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Was he already redpilled when you met or did that happen during the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:57 PM
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fortunately not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:25 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:15 PM
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I never found old women attractive. They look disgusting and repulsive. I wouldn’t touch one with a hundred-foot pole. Young women are superior in every conceivable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:01 PM
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80% or more sounds about right. Ephebophilia is the default for normal, healthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:34 PM
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Adriana Lima is 44. Are you trying to tell me she's not a 10 anymore? <image> eww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:23 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:42 PM
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Form ugly to ugly but plastic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:26 PM
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To all the PPD women 😔 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:45 PM
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Why are you victim blaming this poor man? Of course he couldn’t bottle up all his negative emotions forever. You should have more sympathy and believe victims. Men should always support men. 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:31 PM
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My biggest ick is women over 30 existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:21 PM
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She probably abused him because she was mad that she couldn’t hypergamously date her dream bad boy asshole millionaire. So he had to revenge cheat. Completely her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:17 PM
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I mean, we are a sexually dimorphic species. It wouldn’t make sense to be attracted to physical characteristics of your own sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:12 AM
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post wall single moms on dating apps be like <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:27 AM
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I have a fantastic idea. We should pay poor women to falsely accuse all Chads of rape. This will make every hot man undateable and they will vanish from the market. Now all hot women will have to settle for us average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:51 PM
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https://nscr.nl/app/uploads/2022/05/Broken-homes-and-crime_Janique-Kroese.pdf […] 3) there is a higher likelihood for offspring to engage in crime when the single-parent family starts at a younger age compared to a later age or when children grow up with only a biological mother, both for sons and daughters, compared to only a biological father […] I didn’t say simply being a man is a positive influence. I said men’s tough love is more effective at nipping misbehavior in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:53 PM
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I don’t think mothers are actively doing something that turns children into criminals. My guess is that fathers are better at stopping children from getting off track. Especially boys often don’t see mothers as authority figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:45 PM
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Most studies try to control for some other variables but it’s difficult because the topic is very complex. For example, teen motherhood and low education levels also increase criminality. I don’t know if abuse, neglect and mental health is factored in. I’m pretty sure they matter since households with stepparents are also really bad and the often have a higher risk of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:42 PM
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Here is something similar. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1532-7795.2004.00079.x Boys without fathers are over three times more likely to go to jail than those from intact families, even after accounting for poverty and education levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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I wouldn’t date Sally. She’s undateable either way. If she wasn’t raped, then she’s a dangerous liar. If she was raped, then she’s icky. (The only thing that’s worse than used goods are raped goods. 🤢)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:56 PM
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no means yes and yes means anal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:36 PM
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Q4All: How often do you wash your hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:49 AM
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Option 1 sounds like an abusive relationship with a BPD woman and option 2 sounds like an arranged marriage. I’ll take the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:10 PM
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They can be mean towards other men. The typical bad boy who’s an asshole towards all other men but treats his female nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:59 PM
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No one thinks being unattractive makes you a “bad person.” The horn effect literally proves that people think you’re a bad person if you’re unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:51 PM
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According to a 2021 YouGov poll, 37% of men and 29% of women thought about cheating. But that’s just those who admitted it. I suppose the real number is a bit higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:46 AM
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It’s a bit more than on average. If you look at grip strength, almost all men are stronger than almost all women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:02 AM
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bears
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:46 AM
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A 46 yo woman who wants to „feel that she still has it“ will do all sorts of crazy, freaky things in bed, won’t demand marriage and children and is generally more chill and affectionate than the average 30 yo woman who is only thinking about marriage and kids and wants to settle for beta. Yeah, but have you seen what they look like. 🤢 And don’t forget the smell. Old people smell!!! 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:49 PM
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I only avoid post wall women. Having to look at their wrinkles makes me feel nauseous. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:00 PM
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True but being sexually attractive gives you preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:42 PM
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That’s what you think you do. Look up the hungry judge effect. Judges‘ verdicts are more lenient after a meal break. The judges are not aware of that. They thought they had logical reasons for their decision. Our brains work in a fascinating way. Almost all of our behavior and decision making is driven by subconscious processes. Later, our consciousness rationalizes our behaviors/decisions and writes a fitting story for us. Robert Sapolsky has many lectures about this topic if you’re interested.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:40 PM
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Excellent question. I'd guess the basics wouldn't be that different. It probably feels like a lot of small tribes living in a crowded space where their territories partially overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:23 PM
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We are social animals and, for thousands of years, lived in small tribes. We depended on each other for survival. Your tribe hating you was a death sentence. Evolution shaped us this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:12 PM
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That’s a fantastic post. I’d love to see more posts like this on PPD. What I find most fascinating about this is the stark contrast between stated and revealed preferences. It really shows you how ignorant we are of our own inner workings. Just look at how huge the contrast is for smell. Any biologist knows the importance of smell to check for genetic compatibility but the average person seems completely unaware. Maybe Sapolsky was right when he claimed that we have no free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:07 AM
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What’s up with the 1$ payment? Is that some legal thing that you have to pay your participants? Or has that something to do with the survey, like do people answer more honestly when they are paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:50 AM
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Assortative mating based on physical attractiveness is well studied. It’s a fact. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886924001909?via%3Dihub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:45 PM
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What do you think objective beauty is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:03 PM
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As far as I know, attractiveness has an objective core (beauty) and a subjective layer on top of it. There are interesting studies with babies. They prefer to look at faces with specific ratios. There’s also a great video from the channel "Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell" about beauty. They talk about a study where people were shown real abstract art and fake art. They could tell which paintings were real and fake. We seem to be born with an innate sense of beauty. Nobody really knows how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:46 PM
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Ok, then just define a metric based on measurable characteristics like waist to hip ratio or facial width to length ratio. Give people points based on how close they are to the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:19 PM
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Ask a large number of people of the sex you’re attracted to to rate you. You’ll most likely get a normal distribution of ratings. The mean is your objective looks rating. Your looksmatch would be someone with a similar rating. Since this is impractical in real life, most people determine it by trial and error. They aim high for very attractive people, get rejected and adjust their expectations downward. They do this until they have success. They’ll call this their league instead of the incel ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:09 PM
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Visual result of hitting the wall. 😆 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:07 PM
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It’s cute how my fellow men virtue signal liking old women. It’s ok babe, you can admit it. We want barely legal. They are the best. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:53 PM
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mother nature's hail mary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:12 PM
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Very disappointing that people don’t care about intelligence that much. Terrible sign for the future of our species. One really bad statistic I saw showed that men with high IQs had much less sex and sexual partners than men with average or low IQs. Even worse, there was little difference between average IQ and very low IQ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:48 PM
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You can read a lot about the relationship between sexual dimorphism and attractiveness. It's very real. An easy example is height. Men prefer short women because shortness is seen as feminine. Women prefer tall men because tallness is seen as masculine. This extends to personality traits. Men like agreeable women but women like disagreeable men. It’s the same with confidence. It’s seen as a masculine trait. We’re not talking about good traits vs bad traits. More like introversion vs extraversion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:44 PM
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You have to differentiate between stated preferences and revealed preferences. People say they want certain qualities but then pick people with different qualities. Here’s an example: https://medium.com/@julian.frazier.phd/top-35-men-and-womens-revealed-dating-preferences-ranked-by-science-df7f49c4c6ef You have a list of 35 dating preferences. Confidence was 19th on the stated preferences list but only 27th on the revealed preferences list. Humans are a dimorphic species and we like partners who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:27 PM
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Doctors and lawyers date based on proximity. They work long hours and the only people they interact with regularly are other doctors and lawyers who also work long hours. Nobody gives a fuck if a woman is confident and capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:33 AM
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Vote for me as the new head moderator of PPD! I vow to do the following: sexually harass every female user ban everyone I don’t like delete every comment I disagree with call you a cuck if you disagree with the Red Pill censor every study or statistic that doesn’t align with my ill-informed opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:00 PM
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I thought this was all common sense 😭 Then what’s the point of making a debate post about something you perceive as self evident? Would you also like to debate the blueness of the sky or the stupidity of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:19 PM
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I believe attraction can only grow if the looks baseline is neutral. I’ve never changed my mind about an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:15 PM
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In that case why cant baby survive when its removed from the mother? Because mammals start out as a single cell and then develop complexity. That process takes time. An infant can’t survive in its own either. That one was an evolutionary compromise to allow us to have bigger brains. We do have the right to decide hence why abortions are legal Abortions is legal because it allows women (and men) to evade accountability and the tax payer doesn’t have to care for a child that nobody wants. It's a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:54 PM
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Red Pill Women: monogamous marriage with a high value man who’s out of her league Red Pill Men: harem of barely legal bang maids that get swapped out for new ones when they hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:43 PM
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The baby is an extension of the mother until its born Wrong. Baby and mother are two separate people connected with an umbilical cord. and its the mother’s responsibility to decide what happens to it. Only hers. Wrong again. Nobody has the right to decide over life and death of another person, even if that person happens to be trapped inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:34 PM
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It literally is in Communist California. The law applies to a fetus at any stage of development but not abortions. It’s all a bunch of bullshit without any logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:21 PM
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Go ahead and explain to me why it’s a double homicide when a pregnant woman gets killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:36 PM
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Oh my fucking god, every day someone cites this stupid crackpot Paul Dolan. How many times do we need to debunk this? I can’t do this anymore! Make it stop!!! https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11ecaky/the_widespread_research_declaring_that_women_are/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:32 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:43 PM
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They had to because they were filmed. Most young women are leftists and can’t be seen publicly thirsting over someone who’s mean to a transformer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:36 PM
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<image> Laminated eyebrows look cartoonishly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:52 PM
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Glad that you found that interesting and informative! I have a slightly different interpretation of this as I don’t think it’s about emulating a desirable partner. I know from many other studies that women rate DT men as attractive and desirable for short term relationships but undesirable for long term relationships. They know that these men would make bad husbands and fathers. I see desirability for short term relationships as a proxy for raw, visceral sexual attractiveness. Imo, the most stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:15 PM
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https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2020/5/1/rates-of-infidelity-among-heterosexual-gay-and-bisexual-adults/ Overall prevalence of infidelity: about 8% of heterosexual participants, 14% of gay participants, 6% of lesbian participants, 18% of bisexual participants, and 6% of those who described “other” sexualities reported nonconsensual nonmonogamy (defined here as agreeing to be sexually exclusive with a partner, but one or both partners cheated or had an affair). Among male-identified partici…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:59 PM
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Take a look at this study: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245 The researchers showed personality descriptions of men to women and asked them to rate their attractiveness. Women rated high dark triad personalities as attractive and preferred them. The researchers controlled for several factors. Looks: The descriptions contained no photos. This was purely about personality. Manipulation: There were no actual men talking to women who could manipulate them. High …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:10 PM
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They don’t think about the pregnancy risk. It’s like a smoker who’s aware that smoking can cause cancer but deludes himself into thinking that this only happens to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:13 PM
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I don't even know what a big dick looks like so I wouldn't know. Poor bf getting roasted on PPD. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:47 AM
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Have a look at table 2, Physical Force Tactic Set.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:47 PM
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And it’s completely wrong. If you look into the research, there’s no correlation between abuse/trauma and rape fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:59 PM
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Life A doesn’t sound so bad. Sure, there’s childhood trauma, abuse, drugs, prison and homelessness. But at least you can fuck a lot of bitches. However, I draw the line at 'obese lady who is desperate for love'. What a fucking nightmare!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:14 PM
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Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:18 PM
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Whenever men complain about bluepilled lies, that’s the dumb shit they are talking about. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:05 PM
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Take your example but change the second relationship to 10 fucks per week. (homegirl finally got the Chad of her dreams who she actually finds attractive) You get a sluttiness score of 0.33350 Same total amount of partners but a slightly smaller number. Simply fucking the same partner more often should not result in a lower score. It’s a flawed way to mathematically punish hookups. Trust me, I have a PhD in Whoreology (summa cum louder) and worked many years as a bikini inspector during college.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:10 PM
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In my opinion, the problem is that the number of fucks is in the denominator. Imagine you have two women who had only one partner. They are both in relationships with the same length. Girl 1 fucked her guy 10 times. Girl 2 fucked her guy 100 times. Girl 2 would have a lower sluttiness score. Imo their scores should either be the same or girl 2 should have the higher one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:23 PM
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Not accurate enough. 1/f isn’t the best way to discern between relationship ns and hookup ns. Sluttiness should be modeled as a root function because the first few ns have a bigger impact. There needs to be a gangbang coefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:09 PM
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I’ll search for it but I’m not sure if I can find it. I usually just read the studies but don’t keep the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:27 PM
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I'm not the person who linked the studies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:45 PM
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Women actively and consciously choose dark triad men. I read a study where women were shown dating profiles without pictures. Just a description of the men and their personality. They could accurately determine which men were high in dark triad traits, rated them as more attractive and preferred them - at least for short term relationships. Short term relationships were defined as relationships that would last several weeks/months, like a summer fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:03 PM
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You can detect dark triad traits from emotionally neutral photos. https://www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/holtzman2011.pdf They way you look says a lot more about you than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:11 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:20 PM
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In most cases, they are roughly normally distributed. In some cases, people have very specific or polarizing looks. Then you’d need to take a closer look at the distribution. For example, if you have a multimodal distribution, you could take the largest local maximum as the objective rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:07 PM
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You let many people rate the picture of someone. That’ll give you a (normal) distribution of ratings. The mean is the closest thing you can get to an objective rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:00 PM
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Most people vastly overrate their own looks <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:49 PM
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Here’s the best part about this. Men know that they have to lose their virginity before 25 or they’ll be permanently shunned from the dating market. When they’ll get dangerously close to that age and all attempts so far have failed, they’ll lie and manipulate women to pump and dump them, just to get rid of that horrible virginity. Preferable easy targets are naive, inexperienced women looking for a relationship or mentally ill, lonely women. Women are literally creating their own problems by hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:13 PM
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real women are virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:10 PM
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In what sorts of situations should a woman tell you about her preferences? In-person? Online? In person, only as a compliment if I fit the preferences. Mostly online otherwise to get a large sample size. If a woman rejects you, would you prefer her to be specific about why she is rejecting you? How would you like this phrased? For example if she does not date short men, would you prefer her to say „You are too short“ or „You’re not my type“ or something else? I would want to know if the reason i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:29 PM
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Vulnerability describes a state of being exposed to the possibility of harm, either physically, emotionally or socially. Emotional vulnerability means expressing feelings or sharing personal experiences, which put you at risk of being hurt or judged. It will give her the ick if it makes you look weak. But if you can express it in a confident way, she’ll like it because it shows that you trust her. Vulnerability in itself is not attractive. Confidence and trust are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:12 PM
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Nah, we can down-regulate our negative emotions much more efficiently. Because men showed greater down-regulation of amygdala activity and less prefrontal activity during regulation, one might conclude that men are able to regulate their negative emotion with greater efficiency than women. Despite their comparable decrements in negative experience, it is possible that reappraisal may be less effortful for men than women, requiring less engagement of the prefrontal structures usually implicated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:56 PM
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Women, on average, score higher in neuroticism. They are more likely to experience negative emotions and are more deeply affected by them. They also have a higher risk of developing mental disorders. Men typically express aggression in a physical way. Women do it more in a verbal and social way. That’s why male aggression causes more physical harm. Edit: Women are actually more abusive in relationships but their physical violence causes less damage. Almost 24% of all relationships had some viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:46 PM
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https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1904975116
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:36 PM
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Are there any flaws that you actually like and find attractive? Things like a tooth gap, stretch marks or acne scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:12 PM
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Kristen Stewart is ugly cute in just the right way. She looks so sickly and endearing. 🥰 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:38 PM
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I pity Americans 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:05 PM
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Mine because I don’t live in America where apparently everyone is a fat retard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:57 PM
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<image> cute girl next door vs post wall plastic hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:55 PM
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The Institute of Family Studies wrote the article and made the graphic. It clearly says on the graphic and in the text that the source of the numbers is the General Social Survey 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:42 PM
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Every time single, childless women are discussed, someone brings up this stupid study by Paul Dolan. He was wrong. He misinterpreted the data. Please stop perpetuating this nonsense. Married women with children are the happiest, according to the General Social Survey 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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Lame comment that I’ve heard a million times before. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:13 PM
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If you were entitled to food, clean water and shelter, then you’d have the right to receive them. You could demand them and someone would have to give them to you. Food, clean water and shelter involve the labour of another person. You’d have to force these people to work for you. That’s called 'forced labour' and it’s a severe violation of human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:06 PM
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I think she looks pretty good in this picture. Sure, I could still find a lot of stuff to nitpick about her but most other girls with very pretty faces were just too flat and rectangular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:14 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:57 AM
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yeah, men are the mean ones… <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:45 PM
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If I am looking for pretty face and great body simultaneously, I have to compromise a bit, unfortunately. She’s like a 7.5 - 8. Charleen Weiss There are girls with stunning faces but they often have no tits, flat asses and are shaped like a box. If they have big tits, nice asses and flat bellies, then the face is often lacking. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:24 PM
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Hmm, that’s actually difficult. I have to think about this. She needs to have an insanely pretty face and a gorgeous body. That’s a rare combination. I’ll see if I can find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:57 PM
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I’ve never seen someone I would consider a 10. Something is always missing or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:46 PM
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Like I said before, kinda cute and fuckable but mid. https://x.com/caudillonuclear/status/1867280200662495480?s=46&t=5YRY17Mnl5U3uLYRu51fAQ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:39 PM
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They aren’t "average". These images were generated by averaging thousands of different face pictures. This eliminates small flaws and asymmetries which all people have. It makes the generated faces more attractive compared to a truly "average" face of a random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:48 PM
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Hello 👋.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:17 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-015-9307-0 An extensive sexual history may deter individuals from committing to a potential romantic partner. However, the reasons for this deterrence may differ between men and women, such that women focus on practical concerns over suitability whereas men focus on reputation. Thus, individuals with extensive sexual histories, who are currently monogamous, should be more acceptable to women than they are to men. Two studies supported this hypothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:57 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:50 PM
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Women slut shame more than men. They use it as a tool to make other women less desirable. It’s called 'competitor derogation' and it’s very effective. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition It’s so effective that women will use physical violence to defend their sexual reputation. Usually, women express aggression only in verbal or social ways. If they resort to throwing punches, you know it’s serious. That’s how much sexual reputation, which n count is part of, really mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:35 PM
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But I know. My dad told me the secret when I was 13. Did your dad not tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:09 PM
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Sorry but I can’t reveal that secret to you. We men know how to identify the worthy n<0 women and if I spill the beans here publicly, then women will start lying and pretending to be n<0.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:45 PM
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n<0: marriageable n=0: relationshipable n=1: whore n>1: gigawhore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:19 PM
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Which one would you wish he would choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:03 PM
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Of course not 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:37 AM
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Lazy, messy and low IQ are dealbreakers. Porn and fast food aren’t great either. I’d be ok with the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:41 PM
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I would not. Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:21 PM
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That describes many disabled people too. Are they also undateable and undeserving of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:04 PM
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I assumed the hollow cheeks came from a buccal fat removal but an eating disorder would make sense too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:47 AM
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stated preferences vs revealed preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:41 AM
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A cardinal sin that should be punished by exile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:17 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S016517652200283X When education is in-person, attractive students receive higher grades in non-quantitative subjects, in which teachers tend to interact more with students compared to quantitative courses. This finding holds both for males and females. When instruction moved online during the COVID-19 pandemic, the grades of attractive female students deteriorated in non-quantitative subjects. However, the beauty premium persisted for males, sug…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:47 PM
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Imagine lucking out and marrying a young hot supermodel and then this bitch having the audacity to turn 40 and look like this. Men should be able to sue for damages in these cases. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:35 PM
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true 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:55 PM
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Bruh, she looks like an alien now. Ick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:38 PM
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tragic when plastic surgery makes everything worse <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:30 PM
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I always thought it was laziness or a lack of care but some people truly seem not to notice it. I talked to several adults whose breath smelled like a small rodent died inside their mouth and is now decomposing right under their tongue. I normally don’t say anything but the one time I let someone know, they were genuinely surprised and claimed that they didn’t realize how bad they smelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:47 PM
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acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:17 PM
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Finally someone giving the correct answer 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:16 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend gives you this as an engagement ring. What’s your reaction? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:30 PM
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The peek behind the curtain wasn’t helpful but it does go beyond that. Social media has many harmful effects. Jonathan Haidt wrote some interesting books about. It amplifies extremist voices, divides people and wrecks the mental health of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:43 PM
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A bit of hyperbole for the dramatic effect lol. But yeah, they set us on a negative trajectory. COVID also threw a major wrench into the social development of the young generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:39 PM
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Social media ruined humankind. Dating apps gave it the death blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:36 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:20 PM
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We know quite well what makes a face attractive. It’s a combination of symmetry, sexual dimorphism, youthfulness and averageness. A higher degree of symmetry makes a face more attractive and people overwhelmingly choose mates with more symmetrical faces. The science here is very clear. The only exception is 100% perfect symmetry because it looks uncanny and not human.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:31 AM
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symmetry is a universal attractive physical attribute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:45 PM
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*2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:06 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:33 AM
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You can think this is unfair and be mad about it all you want, but that doesn’t change reality. Here’s an analysis of the actual data regarding age and dating: https://nationalpost.com/opinion/dataclysm-the-data-guru-for-a-popular-dating-site-explains-what-men-and-women-want-from-a-mate Figure 3 makes a statement as stark as its own negative space. A woman’s at her best when she’s in her very early twenties. Period. And really my plot doesn’t show that strongly enough. The four highest-rated fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:19 AM
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The most scientifically correct term for them would be "dry left over shriveled up pumpkins" but I figured "old women" would be more polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:04 PM
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25 is when the downfall begins. Those women still look decent enough to be useable for casual sex but they are already worthless for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:05 AM
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Old women are expired because aging made them ugly and they are used. An old virgin isn’t used but still ugly. So, yes, still expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:34 AM
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Don’t nitpick my propaganda, woman! 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:58 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:50 PM
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Science: Hey women, date intelligent nerds. They are really committed to you and actually like you. 🫶 <image> Women: https://research.aalto.fi/en/publications/intelligence-can-be-detected-but-is-not-found-attractive-in-video Intelligence can be detected but is not found attractive in videos and live interactions Measured intelligence did not predict increased mate appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37983511/ A minority of psychologists supported various punishments for scholars who reported taboo conclusions, including terminations, retractions, disinvitations, ostracism, refusing to publish their work regardless of its merits, and not hiring or promoting them. Compared to male psychologists, female psychologists were more supportive of punishments and less supportive of academic freedom, findings that have been replicated among female students and faculty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 PM
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Sounds like one of my favorite philosophical quotes: "Life’s simple, you make choices and you don’t look back."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:45 PM
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Mate choice copying. Women want men that other women want. Then they try to poach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:07 PM
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There’s more than one reason. Men prefer promiscuous women for short term relationships but not for long term relationships. An evolved fear about paternity uncertainty is one of the reasons for that. Then you have to look at the act of penetrative sex itself. In principle, you have one active partner doing the penetration and one passive partner receiving it. The active partner has agency but the passive partner is more like an object that’s being used. An object gets dirtied when being used an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:52 AM
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https://match.mediaroom.com/2013-02-05-Singles-in-America-Match-com-Releases-Third-Annual-Comprehensive-Study-on-the-Single-Population This is the result of research from biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher. She’s a professor at Rutgers University and the chief scientific advisor and consultant for Match.com […] 42% of singles would not date a virgin (33% of men and 51% of women); […] Older singles care just as much about sex as younger singles. When asked what would make them happier, 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:17 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition Read the section: competitor derogation > slut shaming Researchers presented both sexes with a list of tactics that are often employed by individuals to derogate same-sex competitors in an attempt to make them look undesirable to the opposite sex. […] Results revealed that tactics that pointed out a competitor’s promiscuity were used by females more frequently than males. These involved „calling her a tramp“, „telling everyone that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 PM
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Q4M: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:09 PM
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<image> Dua Lipa is a pretty average looking woman. Weird nose and mouth area. I’d give her a 5.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:08 PM
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In 20 years I’ll be in my 50s. I’ll have grey hair, wrinkles and will be a grumpy misanthrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:18 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:14 PM
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sad tits <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:25 PM
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do a boob reveal instead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:15 PM
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My daughter would be an adult and would be making her own decisions. I’m not allowing or forbidding her anything. I would try to keep a close relationship with her and offer her my advice. I would also encourage her to think critically. The rest is up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:13 PM
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Look at how wholesome I am, bitches. 😇 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:46 PM
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I’d love to! 💐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:36 PM
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No, that would be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:08 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:54 PM
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<image> higher household income = less children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:33 PM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-47747-9
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:23 PM
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The source is the 2022 General Social Survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:07 PM
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Married mothers are the happiest. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:51 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:36 PM
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5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 PM
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🤣 that’s so accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:49 PM
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Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:31 PM
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Bruh…. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:29 PM
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I‘m well aware of the content of this study. Most people are under the false impression that their metabolism noticeably slows down during their 30s, 40s and 50s. I linked it because I think the findings are interesting and relevant to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:37 PM
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https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/surprising-findings-about-metabolism-and-age-202110082613
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:04 PM
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basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:38 AM
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I grew up with 3 younger sisters and strongly associate small hands with children. I do not want such hands anywhere near me in a romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:58 AM
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All feminists do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:24 PM
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There is no significant wage gap. These women are misandrist idiots who don’t understand statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:17 PM
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Generic plastic surgery insta hoe look. 6
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:55 PM
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He is right, though. Pussy and looks are the only coins women have. Better keep both in pristine condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:47 AM
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A 7 like young Adriana Lima is the minimum I would consider for a relationship. Below that and I’m not interested 🙂‍↔️. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:41 AM
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looks: - ugly face - wide shoulders and narrow hips - hairy - saggy tits - stretch marks - ugly tattoos and piercings - thin hair - bad teeth - bad skin - has large moles - flabby (no muscles) - long nails - small hands - outie belly button - varicose veins - pale skin - dark skin - large scars - bad posture - old looking - disabled personality: - dumb - disagreeable - lazy - aggressive - entitled - vapid - loud - promiscuous - negative - nagging - impatient - materialistic - selfish - not empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:04 PM
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I would friendzone her 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:10 PM
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Monica Bellucci was a cute woman. I’d give her a high mid rating. <image> Never found her attractive tho. Maybe it’s because she looks exactly like my great grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:21 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:04 AM
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Women are oppressed in many third world countries but not in the west. Believing that any woman in a western country experiences 'cruel and unjust treatment' is an absurd fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:24 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:24 PM
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Oh, good angles and sucking her belly in for photos would make this way less noticeable. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:05 PM
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I feel like I am being gaslit here 😭 The amount of fat that she has in her lower abdominal region is nowhere near that of the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:57 PM
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Is that her? Idk, doesn’t look so bad to me. She has some subcutaneous fat on her belly but not that much. Maybe she has some anterior pelvic tilt going on. That would make her belly look like it’s sticking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:22 PM
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Really? To me, it doesn’t look like a distended gut when she turns sideways at the end of the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:04 PM
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'Fat' is usually used to describe someone when they have excessive amounts of body fat that make their body shape look bad. A woman with a big gut would be described as 'fat'. A woman with the same amount of excessive fat mass but storing it in her boobs, ass and thighs and having a flat belly wouldn’t be described as 'fat'. She might be overweight in medical terms but many people wouldn’t describe her as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:37 AM
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"What do you get when you make somebody else’s partner your own? An analysis of relationships formed via mate poaching" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0092656614000750 […] men and women sometimes “poach” mates from others. Mate poaching describes attempts by individuals to romantically attract persons already involved in relationships (Davies et al., 2007, Schmitt and Buss, 2001). About 75% of North American men and women report that someone has at some point attempted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:03 AM
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if the younger one is better, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:23 PM
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I don’t want to date my mom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:17 PM
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Is there really no woman over 30 who is worthy to you? No. Is there no women over 30 who are pretty, not jaded and don’t have kids? Also no. The age turns you off? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:10 PM
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That was really interesting and very well written. It must be incredibly lonely and painful growing up feeling like you don’t really belong anywhere and can’t even tell someone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:36 PM
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That is very weird and icky. The only daughter a dad should propose to is his stepdaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:48 PM
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I edited my comment above. There’s the full PDF of the study for you to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:13 AM
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What do you mean? Does the link not work for you? The study is called: "Showing Skin: Tattoo Visibility Status, Egalitarianism, and Personality are Predictors of Sexual Openness Among Women" Edit: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/340568179_Showing_Skin_Tattoo_Visibility_Status_Egalitarianism_and_Personality_are_Predictors_of_Sexual_Openness_Among_Women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:06 AM
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Women with tattoos reported greater willingness to engage in uncommitted sexual relations, as well as higher endorsement of egalitarianism and sensation-seeking, relative to non-tattooed women. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-020-09729-1#:~:text=Feminist%20theorists%20suggest%20that%20women,samples%20as%20stronger%20and%20more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:12 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:14 AM
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What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:46 PM
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Anything else you like that we can ruin for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:49 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:43 PM
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BMI in the middle of the overweight range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:24 PM
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Q4M: Would you rather date a skinny girl with small tits or an overweight girl with big tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:19 PM
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you should invest it all in crypto
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:18 PM
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I would think so. Seems people prefer the benefits they get from it and are ok with the negative stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:36 PM
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Women prefer benevolent sexist men over men who see them as equals. https://bigthink.com/sex-relationships/study-finds-heterosexual-women-prefer-benevolently-sexist-men/ Relationships have always been transactional and will always be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:57 AM
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how bourgeois of him 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:04 PM
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"Love Dick Forever" on his shoulder? That better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:54 PM
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And here I thought someone actually cared about me. For the first time in my life 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:52 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend/husband had a younger brother named Richard who recently died of cancer. Richard worked as a tattoo artist. It was his dream job and a huge part of his identity. Your boyfriend/husband loved his brother very much and wants to do something to honor his life. He wants to get his brother's nickname D I C K tattooed on the knuckles of his right hand. Are you supportive of your boyfriend/husband or would you try to talk him out of doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:49 PM
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😒 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:25 PM
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House for both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:18 PM
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Why B but not A?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:01 PM
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If he was comfortable with it, would you also be comfortable with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:48 PM
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I assume it still would be a fuck no if it was close friend instead of a colleague?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:39 PM
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I edited the question for clarity. It’s part 2 of an earlier question. The colleague wants to cuddle with your boyfriend/husband and sleep in the same bed. Your boyfriend/husband calls you and tells you this. The question was what you would respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:31 PM
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Q4W: Same scenario as before. Work trip. Colleague gets dumped. Wants to cuddle and have a sleepover with your boyfriend/husband. But this time the colleague is: A: a lesbian who was dumped by her girlfriend B: a gay man who was dumped by his boyfriend Does you answer change in these cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:24 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend/husband is on a work trip and is accompanied by a female colleague. Late in the evening, the boyfriend of the female colleague breaks up with her over text. She’s devastated and asks your boyfriend/husband if she can stay in his hotel room with him. She can’t be alone now and needs someone to hold and cuddle her. She also wants to sleep in his bed with him. Your boyfriend/husband calls you, tells you the whole story and asks you what he should do. What do you tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:00 PM
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Yep, had therapy to treat depression for a few years. Didn’t help much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:26 PM
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Who decides who wins sexiest man in Britain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:06 AM
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Contextual sexual desire is when the circumstances and environment impact the ability to feel sexual desire. Think about what it’s like to drum up desire when your kids are in the next room, you feel stressed out by financial burdens, or you just ate a huge steak dinner. Sex may not be the first thing on your mind. Nagoski notes most people, regardless of gender, fall within a blend of responsive and contextual desire, but for some, desire can feel spontaneous. They simply may not be aware of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:44 AM
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If the percentages in Nagoski‘s book 'Come As You Are' are correct, then it would be normal. She claimed that only 15% of women experience spontaneous arousal. The rest primarily experiences responsive and/or contextual sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:24 AM
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how do you reconcile the fact women only give attention to you when only you have certain traits? with great bitterness :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:25 PM
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much better 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:53 PM
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<image> Children are hilarious sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:51 PM
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<image> Ana de Armas is a very plain looking, average woman. Cute but a boring dime in a dozen. That’s the kind of woman you can settle for because you won’t feel bad about it. Not awesome but good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:47 PM
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How about one from 2015? That better? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001002
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:13 PM
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Would you prefer one from 2012? Same result. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513811000250
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:10 PM
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Actually, I already knew about the form of the clitoris because I used to read a lot about female anatomy. But where’s the connection to the paper I linked?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:05 PM
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They do pee out of their vaginas! Stop gaslighting us! 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:02 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26193479/ Female coital orgasm may be an adaptation for preferentially retaining the sperm of males with „good genes.“ One indicator of good genes may be physical attractiveness. Accordingly, R. Thornhill, S. W. Gangestad, and R. Comer (1995) found that women mated to more attractive men reported an orgasm during a greater proportion of copulations than did women mated to less attractive men. Results support the hypothesis that women mated to more attractive men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:59 PM
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low mid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:00 PM
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I’d rather change my name and move to Antarctica.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:15 PM
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very true 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:35 PM
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Do you believe in the bluepill? Are you still searching for a nice summer vacation spot? Look no further, I have the perfect place for you! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:15 PM
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Most people here aren’t who they claim to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:27 PM
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The behavior of my mother, sisters and grandmothers is where I got my beliefs from lol. I observed them and drew conclusions long before I knew the red pill existed. And they often say redpilling stuff themselves, of course without knowing that it’s red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:06 AM
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There is nothing sexist about recognizing that a lot of female behavior is dumb and annoying. It’s just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:51 PM
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Always
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:56 PM
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For me it’s very positive. I like it when women have really long fingers and long feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:54 PM
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"How would you know?" This idea that women can just lie about their past comes up often. I’ll tell you why it doesn’t work most of the time. Lying has a profound impact on your brain activity. It causes stress and anxiety. That’s a painful state you can’t be in for long amounts of time. It gets even worse when you’re lying to a person that you love or have a strong emotional connection with. Eventually, people won’t be able to take it anymore and will confess. The guilt and the mental anguish is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:11 PM
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I don’t understand why this myth of the awesome happy single life is so widespread. It literally goes against the human nature. We evolved to be highly social animals who are supposed to live in small tribes. It’s been like this for thousands of years. And having offspring is one of the core interests of any animal. Even surveys say that married mothers are the happiest people. https://www.aei.org/op-eds/why-conservative-women-report-being-the-happiest-and-how-you-can-be-too/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:32 AM
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When used correctly, they will protect you from chlamydia, gonorrhoea, trichomoniasis, HIV and hepatitis B. However, condoms don’t protect you from all STIs such as herpes, genital warts, syphilis and mpox which can be spread from skin-to-skin contact. https://www.getthefacts.health.wa.gov.au/faqs/do-condoms-protect-against-all-stis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:17 AM
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How big is the age gap between you and your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:50 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:38 PM
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Yeah, her torso should be a bit shorter to look more proportional. But I kinda like it that way. Reminds me of a cheetah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:51 PM
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Couldn’t find anyone I’d consider perfect but this here is a decent start. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:43 PM
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1-3 = ugly 4 = low mid 5 = mid 6 = high mid 7 = Stacy lite 8 = Stacy 9 = Giga Stacy 10 = Unicorn Stacy Young Megan Fox pre surgery is a 6 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:38 PM
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nice tits tho <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:23 PM
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low mid face <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:22 PM
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✌️kissed✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:17 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:57 PM
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Why would you care? Do you want to date one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:56 PM
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Oh, it’s no big deal. PPD women have sworn on their mother's graves that their n count doesn’t matter. Absolutely no effect on their SMV whatsoever. Even better, no man has ever asked them!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:01 PM
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It’s much less common in developed countries anymore because women can earn their own money. People aren’t as status focused anymore either. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/322128430_Different_impacts_of_resources_on_opposite_sex_ratings_of_physical_attractiveness_by_males_and_females Study from 2017. Previous studies indicate that economic status is indeed important in male attractiveness. Here, we combined images of male and female body shape with information on annual salary to eluci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:45 AM
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You applied her quote to all women, and in doing so you inadvertently pointed out that a woman’s age is also extremely relevant to whether her husband finds her attractive. She was a literal super model, and he couldn’t find her attractive as she aged. Yes, men don’t find their old wives sexually attractive anymore. They stay for other reasons. Sometimes they don’t stay. Nor are there any guarantees that being older will mean men will all ignore you in dating, like you claimed. You want to apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:11 PM
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It was in response to the absurd comment insinuating that age isn’t a significant factor in every woman’s dating life. If that was true, an old, former super model would have absolutely no problems attracting men. Everyone knows that youth and beauty make up the majority of a woman’s value in the dating market. It’s not a coincidence that women are mainly stressed over specifically these two factors. About the marrying young part, nothing will guarantee you a marriage until death does you part. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:31 PM
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Women never lose men’s attention, you’ll be fine as long as you take care of yourself. Oh really? 😒 Go ahead and explain to me how that happened. “I am now completely invisible,” Porizkova told the publication. “I walk into a party, I try to flirt with guys and they will just walk away from me mid-sentence to pursue someone 20 years younger. I’m very single, I’m dressed up, I’ve made an effort — nothing.” “Like the boiled frog, you don’t know until (you’re gone). It was around the same time my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:35 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/darwin-does-dating/202112/how-many-previous-sexual-partners-is-too-many
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:39 PM
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halo effect horn effect You can watch it happen live in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:09 PM
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Imo if it only applies under certain conditions, it’s not a basic need like food, water and sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:10 PM
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Shelter is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:54 AM
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It wouldn’t be flattering to be told that I’m not good enough for a relationship. It would be hurtful and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:04 PM
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Physically incapable of lying? So whatever someone asks you, you’ll have to tell the truth? Even if it’s embarrassing and could be detrimental to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:21 AM
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Mina!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:00 PM
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That’s a tough decision. They all sound super fun. I think I’d pick Sally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:21 PM
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I would choose Melissa. Tall and skinny is by far my favorite body type. I would prefer long hair and a bit more femininity but tomboys are cool too. No make-up, little relationship experience, n=1, introverted geek who loves video games sounds all amazing. The career isn’t a deciding factor for me but a plus. Alice: I‘m not at all attracted to her body type but I like that she’s artistic and plays guitar. I play the guitar too. Adventurous in bed is also 👌. Nothing wrong with wanting to be a SA…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:40 PM
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Oh, you mean like the man vs bear question? Where women were hyper focused on the incredibly rare worst case scenario of a rapist murderer man and used that to justify picking a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:36 PM
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Your entire premise is wrong. You claim that undesirable men are jealous because undesirable women can date up. By your own admission, they can’t. The undesirable women are going for the undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:07 AM
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[…] but plenty of these single moms get married and they can marry up pretty well. When my guy friend was 18, he admitted on his dating profile that he was jobless, carless, and penniless. He still got alot of likes, but most of the likes came from older women and single moms […] Why did the low value guy get likes from single moms if the single moms can easily marry up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:43 AM
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You can’t beat biology. Alpha behavior will elicit tingles. Tingles will control women’s behavior. It will always be like this. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:07 AM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/sjop.12631 The present research tests the hypothesis that unattractive people are not aware of their unattractiveness. In fact, six studies (overall N = 1,180) showed that unattractive participants considerably overestimated their attractiveness compared to ratings by strangers. In contrast, attractive participants were more accurate. If anything, they underestimated their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:48 PM
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"You can always just uninstall online dating apps and go outside to socialize. Most people aren’t on online dating apps anyway." <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:38 AM
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Edit: all of these women are based on real people when we were in our 20s. 3 of us are married. Which one of the 4 isn’t married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:08 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S109051381730315X We found that ratings of attractiveness were around 1000 times more sensitive to salary for females rating males, compared to males rating females.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:19 AM
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r/againstwomensrights was banned r/againstmensrights is not banned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:28 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201909/do-women-face-a-shortage-of-men-worth-marrying New research identifies an interesting quirk in the marriage market that might explain declining rates of marriage (Lichter, Price, & Swigert, 2019). Taking an economic approach, the authors argue that there's a fundamental mismatch between what available men in the United States have to offer and what available women in the United States are willing to accept. Maybe, they propose, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:24 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ US marriages: 55% husband breadwinner 29% husband and wife have similar income 16% wife breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:24 PM
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I recently asked women in the daily thread if they would stay with or leave their boyfriend/husband if he ended up in a wheelchair after a car crash (not his fault). All but one said they would leave their boyfriend. A few even said they would divorce their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:05 PM
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I don’t see any malice here either. It’s mostly likely that women either downplay the importance of looks to not appear shallow or they are really not aware of their importance to them. People in general seem to be rather ignorant about who they are and what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:35 AM
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I read about the study here: https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating The article should reference the original study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:57 AM
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Rare cases like this exist but the average person is neither a master manipulator nor an expert liar. For example, a female friend of mine told me about a guy she met on a dating app and showed me snippets of their conversation. I could clearly see he’s a scumbag and up to no good. I warned her but she didn’t believe me and went out with him anyway. After the date, he tried to rape her. She could only narrowly escape. Most people are not good at hiding who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:27 AM
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You are right. People will categorize you based on stereotypes about your looks/style. Adjusting your style to fit your personality is generally a good idea. But I disagree that you need a lot of time to judge someone’s personality. You can get a pretty good approximation within a few minutes of talking to someone. Actually, you don’t even need to talk to them. I read a study where the researchers asked two groups of men to write a short dating bio about themselves. One group was high in Machiav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:47 AM
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Here’s a picture from a speed dating study. It shows the traits people were saying they look for and then the traits they were actually going for. <image> Women lied about the importance of looks. They lied to the researchers and they lied to themselves. They said personality traits like intelligence and sincerity were more important to them than looks. In reality, looks were the most important deciding factor for men and women. The men who are angry about this did believe women when they said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:22 AM
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I'm not arguing if this is right or wrong. Or if you should do it or not. You asked why some men feel 'entitled' to sex after a dinner date and that’s the reason. In every culture, dating follows certain patterns. There are unspoken rules and expectations. If you break those rules, people will be confused and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:27 AM
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What do you think the '3 dates' rule is? There are lots of social conventions that developed over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:00 AM
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It’s a mating ritual. The male offers the female some food, does a little dance for her to entertain her and then they copulate. Of course, the male gets upset when the female doesn’t follow the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:59 PM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:29 PM
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Here are stats about sexual aggression. Compare the numbers of Millennial men and women using physical force. <image> https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:27 PM
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Someone else also pointed this out and it’s an interesting statistical conundrum. Imagine you had 100 different objects to choose from and 500 people choosing. Let’s say 203 people choose object 1. All other objects are less popular, niche choices and only 3 people choose each one. In the end, the 203 people choosing object 1 are the minority compared to the 297 people choosing something else. Yet, would you not view object 1 as the most desirable? The choice difference is 200 between object 1 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:54 PM
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Huh, that’s a very interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:53 PM
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This sub has really shown me how narrow the definition of attractiveness actually is. I can take any post, look at it for a split second and predict with very high accuracy which girl will be the top pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:35 AM
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No, I counted the replies under the post. So 92 men said they like girl 3 the most, 31 men said they would prefer girl 1 and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:29 AM
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lol that’s a funny way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:26 AM
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That’s exactly the point. Whenever women say it’s fine to have any preference as long as you’re nice about it, that’s a lie. What women really want is men having preferences that serve women. All reasonable preferences that serve men's best interests will be demonized. Edit: Women understand 100% why the n count preference exists and they use it to their own advantage. The only reason you simultaneously call it creepy is because it threatens female sexual autonomy. It’s hypocritical and self-ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:03 AM
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How much is beauty in the eye of the beholder? Let’s see: https://np.reddit.com/r/Ifyouhadtopickone/s/FQSLu9yEat Girl 3 is the most conventionally attractive. Votes: girl 1: 31 girl 2: 19 girl 3: 92 girl 4: 20 girl 5: 32
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:53 AM
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I thought all preferences are fine as long as you’re not rude about them lol. But thank you for publicly confirming what this is actually about: hypocritical women wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 AM
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No need to wonder, the answer is right there in the article. With an ultimate goal of enhancing reproductive success at the expense of others, slut-shaming effectively works to arouse suspicion and cause suitors to question the fidelity of these females. In the long term, men may have doubts regarding the paternity of any offspring produced and since humans strive for reproductive success, (which, for a man is to reproduce and to continually invest in his own children), the decision to mate with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:00 AM
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As to why some women might shame you, it's because your preferences come across as creepy or shallow to them. If you bring up body count women will wonder WHY that's important to you. Take a look at the section 'competitor derogation > slut shaming'. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_intrasexual_competition Women know very well why high n counts are undesirable and use it strategically as a weapon against competitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:44 AM
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thank fuck I don’t have to live in this hell hole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:44 PM
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mid is mid 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:35 PM
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From the neck down, she is mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:32 PM
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But this opens up a whole lot of fun bedroom role play scenarios! 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:15 PM
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You might not have troubles but the actual numbers are telling a clear story. https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:41 AM
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Very sorry that Margaret is sad now but you can’t negotiate attraction. 🤷 Maybe she can find an ugly nerd who’s desperate enough to settle for her. I would tell Henry but we don’t talk anymore. He never wanted to go to a club to pick up some sluts. Just always sitting in his smelly room playing World of Witchcraft. I had to cut him off. He cried and begged me not to end our friendship but it had to be done. #AlphaMaleLive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:47 PM
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Not at all, good sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:48 PM
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Exactly! It’s delusional to say this "woman" is attractive. Tbh I blame it on the microplastics and the fluoride in the drinking water. It turns Americans into fat troglodytes who salivate over a 33yo rectangle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:45 PM
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Nooo 😭😭😭 It’s 2024, you need to up your standards, king. #rejectMidGirlsSummer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:05 PM
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😹🎣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:51 PM
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As if I would ever do that. She’s over 30! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:48 PM
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Subscribe to my OnlyFans! Top 0.5%. Only 7$ per month. Free pussy rates with every subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:31 PM
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I'm literally gorgeous and perfect. You couldn’t handle it. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:28 PM
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<image> It’s such a shame when girls have a decently pretty face but a lame body. Look at Margaret. Flabby arms and legs, wide blocky waist, no tits, kinda fat. Makes her mid at best. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:15 PM
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That’s not limited to this sub. Google "Would you rather save your spouse or your child?" Most people answer that they would choose the spouse and they could always just make a new child. It’s a common viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:24 PM
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Q4W who don’t want to date shorter men: If your boyfriend/husband ended up in a wheelchair after a car accident, would you leave him? (the accident wasn’t his fault and the wheelchair situation is permanent) If this happened to a guy you were dating (not official boyfriend yet), would you stop seeing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:42 AM
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Not today Satan, not today. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:01 AM
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You monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:43 PM
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You should wait before sending it. I might have a couple more points to add to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:12 PM
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Demisexual women can be exactly like this. High sex drive but only for the man she loves and doesn’t mind waiting until she finds him. There might not be plenty of them but they are well worth holding out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:58 PM
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That’s fine. I’d rather be single than settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:43 PM
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pretty face (7+) skinny and great proportions not taller than 6 feet younger than 25 virgin IQ at least one standard deviation above the mean excellent hygiene and always smells good rich but frugal good work ethic and doesn’t mind getting her hands dirty kind and empathetic patient altruistic integrous caring and supportive agreeable respectful open-minded, creative and curious loves learning and science centrist political opinions not a feminist doesn’t want to get married loves children and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:12 PM
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Advertising yourself as undateable, damaged goods isn’t brave, it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:16 AM
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The men who comment on Facebook probably think that "talking stage" means going on dates and talking to each other to get to know each other. The phase before you officially call each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:08 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:05 PM
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That reminds of a clip of Dan Savage speaking in front of college students and answering their questions. Reading question card: What is wrong with me, I find a flaw and can't get over it. For example if a guy chews with his mouth open, I could never see him again. You are the problem with you. If you have a list of deal breakers that has more than five things on it, you need to wait around to get a sex robot -- that you can program to be perfect for you in every possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:05 PM
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<image> That's the kind of politics I can get behind! 🙂‍↕️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:57 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:14 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:50 PM
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Unfortunately I can't make a Q4W post since I'm a woman (stupid rule). I could be misremembering but I think that rule was dropped some time ago. Might have to ask the mods to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:48 PM
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Always funny when PPD women swear up and down that women aren’t a hive mind but then accuse any dissenting woman of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:06 PM
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That’s correct. Women score on average higher in neuroticism and are more sensitive to negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:53 PM
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Being the last in line who gets to keep the (not attractive anymore) leftovers isn’t winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:27 PM
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They like to say we’re the shallow gender but it’s the opposite Ma‘am, you’re just as shallow as the evil men. The only difference is that you’re ignorant about it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:52 PM
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Q4Feminists: If you’d encounter a bear and a man simultaneously somewhere deep in the woods, which one would you rather falsely accuse of sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:57 PM
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lol, yeah, it was intentional. I like to ruffle some feathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:19 PM
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<image> They would also need to address the extreme political divide between men and females that’s getting worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:28 PM
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why keep it "boys scout" when girls wanna do it too? why gender it? Girls have their own organization. It’s called Girl Scouts of the United States of America. This is what their website has to say. In a World of Boys' Clubs, Give Her One of Her Own So, what can you do to raise a smart, confident daughter who’s equipped to succeed in this world? Make sure she’s getting some high-quality time surrounded by girls and girls only. https://www.girlscouts.org/en/raising-girls/happy-and-healthy/happy/g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:00 AM
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<image> https://www.ellecanada.com/beauty/makeup-and-nails/taylor-hill-posts-a-no-makeup-selfie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:21 PM
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After the bad experience, John trusts less and the amount of help he is willing to provide is less. This might be better for John but it’s worse for John's friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:18 PM
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A bad experience changed him and his behavior for the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:14 PM
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I wouldn’t be friends with John anymore because I don’t associate with damaged people who try to punish me for the sins of others. I’ll just ask a bear if I can stay in his cave for a while. I heard they’re kinder than men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:22 AM
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5 for 18yo virgins 🤤😘 1 for "women" over 30 😡🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:16 AM
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It shows the true nature of feminism. It’s a hate cult. Cassie dared to make a movie that didn’t portray the men’s rights movement in a negative light. She suffered relentless attacks and abuse from the feminists for it. They tried to ruin her career and destroy her life. That’s what they do to apostates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:16 PM
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Cassie Jaye (born May 1, 1986)is an American film director, best known for directing the 2016 documentary film The Red Pill about the men's rights movement. The film had screenings canceled in Australia following petitions, protests, and threats against those holding the screening. At the end of the film, Jaye states that she no longer identifies as a feminist, saying that she now believes that "feminism is not the road to gender equality". https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cassie_Jaye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:38 PM
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I don’t think a therapist can talk you into being attracted to people you don’t find attractive. That’s not how therapy works. What it can do for you is change your own thinking patterns and behaviors. For example, women who were abused in their childhoods tend to pick abusive men as partners. A therapist can help to break this pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:39 PM
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I expected women to be ignorant about the true pay gap but 0%? Really? Not a single woman knew the correct answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:23 AM
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If there’s mountains of studies, just link one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:18 AM
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Post study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:43 PM
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A lot of men here think that women generally operate similarly to them and can feel attraction on a spot just by looking at someone very attractive. I think they overestimate the amount of women who actually have this kind of libido tbh. I looked up the percentage of demisexuals and I found numbers around 1% or less. According to the primary and secondary sexual attraction model, that would mean 99% of women operate similarly to men and feel attraction on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:53 PM
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They say in the article that the end goal is equal outcome. The argument is that people start at different points and some need more resources to end up at the same finish line as everyone else. But resources are finite. If you want to give more resources to someone, you need to take them away from someone else. A real world example of discrimination is the 50% female CEO goal. Women have exactly the same opportunity to become CEOs as men but that wasn’t enough for the feminists. They demanded t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:14 PM
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The article literally says that giving women equal rights is not enough. They want equity (equal outcome). Equal outcome is a far-left position that can only be achieved via discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:46 PM
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They are openly saying it: https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2023/03/equity-equality-women-iwd/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:38 PM
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Feminism has shifted its goal from equality of opportunity to equality of outcome. That’s a dangerous and harmful far-left position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:15 PM
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Personality/chemistry matters for average people the most. An average person is initially viewed as neutral - neither attractive nor unattractive. Personality/chemistry can elevate them to 'attractive' or push them down to 'unattractive'. At the extremes, personality/chemistry is way less important. Attractive people can get away with being horrible pieces of shit and people will still throw themselves at them. Likewise, unattractive people will often not get a chance no matter what their person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:29 AM
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No. The point is that the number doesn’t go down because you’re talking about 2 different groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:55 PM
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The survey only shows that 63% of all men who are now 18-29 are single while 25% of all men who are now 30-49 are not single. You can’t use the stats to predict the future. The number of single men could stay at 63% or go down. We don’t know what will happen until it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:41 PM
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lol, I expected that <image> https://psychology-tools.com/test/toronto-empathy-questionnaire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:10 PM
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There’s some truth to it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:41 AM
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In fact, between 1480 and 1913, Europe’s queens were 27% more likely than its kings to wage war, according to a National Bureau of Economics working paper (paywall). https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:33 AM
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C’mon man. She has a huge forehead and looks like a retarded chipmunk when she smiles. Seems old too. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:34 AM
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Everyone in this gym pic is ugly. Very disappointing considering it’s LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:23 AM
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Are the legal definitions of certain crimes significantly different between countries? That would make international comparisons indeed very complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:28 PM
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https://www.nationmaster.com/country-info/compare/Sweden/United-States/Crime/table Compared to the US, Sweden has: 3x as many total crimes (per 1000 inhabitants) 2x as many rapes (per 1 million inhabitants)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:02 PM
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You‘re correct. A scarcity of women leads to increased competition between men. That often results in higher levels of aggression and more male-on-male violence. It’s also known that cohabitation and fatherhood decrease testosterone levels. Testosterone is a molecule that amplifies behavior, including aggressive, violent and criminal behavior. More single, childless men means more crime in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:10 PM
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Cher
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:54 PM
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This is what debating a PPD female feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:35 PM
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Here’s an excerpt from a speed dating study. The researchers first asked men and women what they were interested in and then compared it with what they were actually going for. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:43 AM
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3 & 4
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:06 PM
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Try that: https://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-confirm-you-can-communicate-with-your-cat-by-blinking-very-slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:04 PM
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Yes, men and women choose different kinds of partners for short-term and long-term relationships. The Madonna-whore complex is something else. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna–whore_complex In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex (also called a Madonna–mistress complex) is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed and loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:56 PM
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https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2019-23163-001 Intercourse frequency decreased with increased length of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:42 PM
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You’re right. It’s not a coincidence that in Islamic countries you’re considered eligible for marriage when you hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:12 PM
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Where’s the part about physical attractiveness? The only thing in the paper I saw was: Studies which have used observer ratings of the DT components have focused exclusively on physical attractiveness (e.g. Holtzman & Strube, 2010). We therefore examine whether women find the Dark Triad personality attractive, independent of physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:05 PM
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in-group bias
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:19 PM
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Excerpt from an older post of OP If I get married I don’t want to contribute to the household income, would preferably not want to work and any income I acquire would be mine only with minor exceptions. I want to be a housewife and have a lot of time to myself to do whatever I want. You can’t make this shit up …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:59 PM
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Would you want one if you could afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:42 PM
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For me it means two things. 1) Don’t lie about your promiscuous past. Most women realize that many men find this very undesirable and try to hide their past. That’s deception and wrong. 2) Accept it when men reject you because of your promiscuous past. I see this often. Women get really angry and berate men for not wanting them because of their past. They bully them, call them names, try to publicly shame them or threaten them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:39 PM
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https://ecampusontario.pressbooks.pub/ethicslawenforcement/chapter/4-4person-gender-and-cultural-differences-in-conformity/ […] at least when they are being observed by others, men are likely to hold their ground, act independently, and refuse to conform, whereas women are more likely to conform to the opinions of others in order to prevent social disagreement. These differences are less apparent when the conformity occurs in private. It’s not a huge difference, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:43 PM
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The issue lies in the grey area of consent. Aella made a survey about this and called it the rape spectrum. https://aella.substack.com/p/the-rape-spectrum-survey-results People are self-centered and will interpret unclear situations in a way that allows them to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:13 PM
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Of course it’s a gendered issue. Women are physically weaker than men and can get sex with attractive (enough) men whenever they want. Neither can they violently rape men nor do they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:49 PM
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The median age at first marriage used to be much lower. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/visualizations/time-series/demo/families-and-households/ms-2.pdf Nobody experimented during their 20s. That’s a modern thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:57 AM
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You should look into the work of a group of researchers called the Personality Change Consortium.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:31 PM
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It’s a cute little intellectual sleight of hand. Even funnier that, under the Unborn Victims of Violence Act, fetuses are recognized as legal victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:37 PM
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Pre-cum can come into contact with the vagina during foreplay or when putting on the condom. Not a high chance for pregnancy but it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:38 PM
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That is very stupid and I have no sympathy for them. Men should always use protection and be rigorous about it. Still doesn’t change the fact that we don’t have a 100% safe method for men and no rights when it fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:33 PM
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That’s not the point of the OP. Women have access to a 100% effective birth control method - abortion. In the name of gender equality, men also need a 100% safe option - paper abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:32 PM
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Typical use failure rate for condoms is 13%. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/contraception/index.htm#:~:text=Typical%20use%20failure%20rate%3A%2013%25.&text=Condoms%20can%20only%20be%20used,petroleum%20jelly%20with%20latex%20condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:19 PM
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I’ve got news for you. https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/pregnancy/can-i-get-pregnant-if-i-have-sex-without-penetration/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:07 PM
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You don’t need to ejaculate to cause a pregnancy. Pre-cum contains sperm cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:49 PM
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The failure rate is 1 in 2000. Also not always reversible. The success rate is 55% within the first 10 years and 25% after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:42 PM
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Only abstinence is 100% safe. I also heard that keeping your legs closed works surprisingly well for women, too. Give it a try! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:39 PM
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Men don’t have access to 100% effective methods of birth control besides abstinence. There’s no male equivalent of abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:06 PM
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Vasectomies only work for men that never want children. They are not 100% effective and not 100% reversible. Problem not solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:16 PM
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If women don’t want to be mothers, why are they having unprotected sex with men and hope they won’t get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:12 PM
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They still have a failure rate of 1 in 2000. You also can’t always reverse a vasectomy. The success rate is 55% within the first 10 years and 25% after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:54 PM
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The logic you presented was: if you consent to sex, you also consent to fatherhood/motherhood. Motherhood includes carrying the child to term. Your logic also was that you’re not allowed to retroactively revoke consent. That means, once you’re pregnant, you have to carry the child to term. You consented to that. You have to let the baby use your body. You consented to that. What you want is a privilege. Abortion is a privilege to opt out of motherhood. OP's point is that men want the same privil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:23 PM
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That’s the consequence of following your logic. If a man consents to sex, he automatically consents to fatherhood (including paying child support). If a woman consents to sex, she automatically consents to motherhood (including carrying the child to term).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:10 PM
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Which would also mean that abortions must be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:07 PM
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You know what would work well if men didn’t want to be fathers? Not having sex. Even if you’re on the pill or using a condom you could potentially impregnate someone. If you aren’t willing to accept the consequences of your actions then you shouldn’t be doing them. "You know what would work well if women didn’t want to be mothers? Not having sex. Even if you’re on the pill or using a condom you could potentially be impregnated by someone. If you aren’t willing to accept the consequences of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:04 PM
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How you feel about abortions is irrelevant to the question of legality and equality. Under the current system, there is no gender equality and men are disadvantaged. See Hermesmann v. Seyer for an example. A woman can rape an underage boy and still be entitled to collect child support from her victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:55 AM
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Maybe the upper quartile? I feel like that would be a good threshold. I think, according to the CDC stats, that would be around 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 PM
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A woman’s sexual focus is on herself. If she doesn’t feel desired and pretty, nothing is going to happen. Men’s sexual focus is on the woman. Her physical attractiveness is what matters. The rest is an afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:23 PM
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I’ve got bad news for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:17 PM
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Female sexuality is narcissistic. Women want to be desired by men. Male sexuality is possessive. Men want to own women. Problem is that objects get dirtied when they are used and lose value. Men want to have a high n themselves but women keeping a low n because it benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:05 PM
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I’ve never seen any evidence that it exists. Freud had a lot of wacky theories that have never been proven. If it exists, then I would imagine that it primarily affects religious people that were raised in purity culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:25 PM
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No. A good leader is someone you want to follow, not someone who demands that you follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:13 PM
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Sounds like necrophilia but with a warm body instead of a cold one. Nah, that’s boring. I like it more when they fight back a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:42 PM
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What kind of eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:17 PM
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Q4W: Would you rather date a man with a weak jawline or a big nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:16 PM
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4, 6, 9, 7, 5, 2, 1, 3, 8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:32 PM
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There is no solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:24 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:21 PM
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We’d prefer if you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:15 PM
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You don’t reply anything. You grow a pair and dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:53 PM
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How difficult is it to find someone to date? I would assume the pool is pretty small when neurodivergent people are already a small minority and you also need the right level of neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:56 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1420227/loneliness-among-adults-us-by-gender/ Percentage of adults in the United States who reported feeling lonely as of December 2021, by gender Men: 57% Women: 59% There is no male loneliness epidemic. It’s a general loneliness epidemic. Edit: Gets worse for women later in life, though. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00914150231194243?icid=int.sj-abstract.citing-articles.2 Evidence suggests that in old age, women are lonelier than men. Gender diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:14 PM
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I’m not very compatible with neurotypical people. I find them exhausting and they become frustrated with me. That’s interesting. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:07 PM
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I agree with your rating and it matches your dating experience. Not much attention but still a few ok relationships. Seems common for (slightly) below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:02 PM
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You’re talking about pretty privilege. Only pretty women get free things from strangers (hoping to win them over with gifts and favors). Average women don’t get pretty privilege but they still get female privilege. That includes free stuff but only from guys who want to date them. Below average women usually get ignored or treated badly. Sometimes they can get a man who’s nice to them but that’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:38 PM
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Unfortunately, this line of thinking is very common and avoiding these women would mean avoiding almost all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:43 PM
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lol no If he really paid before she could say anything, then she did not use him. That was his fault. Also sending huge angry texts and singing her number up for spam calls is laughably pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:24 AM
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No. Reasons: - loose skin and stretch marks - she will gain the weight back eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:51 PM
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That’s true. The biggest threat to men and women is a small group of bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:19 PM
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That doesn’t answer OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 PM
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Did my comment imply that women don’t protect and sacrifice? No, it didn’t. Only your bigoted comment about men did. It’s also interesting that your 3 examples are about mothers protecting their children, not women protecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:56 AM
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Men don’t protect women? What about the men who sacrificed their lives to protect their girlfriends during a shooting? https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aurora-shooting-boyfriends-died-protecting-girlfriends_n_1695290
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:40 AM
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The UK's last major study of sexual behaviour - the 2000 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) - found that 15% of men had had "overlapping" relationships in the previous year, but only 9% of women. Dr Catherine Mercer, head of analysis for the Natsal study, says the gender gap may in part be because women are less likely to own up to cheating than men. "We can't directly observe unfaithfulness so we have to rely on what people tell us and we know there are gender differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:33 PM
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If you don’t want to be made fun of, try having less stupid opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:36 PM
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Do you even care about love? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:03 PM
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How do you know if men are easier or harder than women to date? A while ago, there was a PPD post from a bisexual woman who dated a few men and women. Her conclusion was that it’s much easier and more fun to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:18 PM
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I agree with all 5. Also, I think: There are significant differences between men and women but, overall, they are more similar than different. Supported by psychological research btw. I understand that gender roles have a biological basis but I wouldn’t be upset if they all completely disappeared tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:55 PM
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They will fuck anything. Apparently not. Men reject half of the women on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:56 PM
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There are plenty of studies showing that women have a much stronger in-group bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:55 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:33 PM
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threesome with 2 men gang bang cuckold scat public humiliation/degradation things that aren’t sex acts but also leave you permanently tainted: money involved (prostitution, sugar baby, cam girl, only fans) videos/pictures of her naked/having sex publicly available sex with animals cheating raped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:02 PM
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we post shirtless gym pics instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:33 PM
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You can never fully trust someone because we’re all flawed animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:16 PM
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No, but from a group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:54 PM
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A loser? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:47 PM
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Recently, I was reading an article about what could be the primary mating system of humans. The conclusion was that it’s complicated and difficult to tell. The best description would probably be monogamish. Monogamous but with a primal urge to sleep around. The stats seem to reflect this when only a minority of cultures adopt strict monogamy. But I still think strict monogamy is the best choice for a stable and prosperous society and should be encouraged. I think what we should learn from this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:42 PM
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Confusing the males about paternity can also be a great tool to lower the risk of infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:22 PM
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That is true. There’s a lot of complex and interesting behaviors. For example, gorillas are a fascinating case because both infanticide and adoption exist and are pretty common. Although I suspect that mostly young dominant males will kill the offspring and it’s the females and older males that adopt and foster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:48 AM
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Infanticide exists in primates too. It has been observed in gorillas, chimpanzees, baboons and langurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:06 PM
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In the past few decades, a great deal of research has investigated the BMI values associated with the most attractive female body. In well-nourished populations, it has been consistently found that the most preferred BMIs are around 18–20 […] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886922004263
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:55 PM
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sluts = hot 🥵 But also sluts = bad 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:13 PM
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The 6x figure comes from here. Many factors play a role in crime rates but you can look at any crime statistics of any Western country. Young frustrated single men are driving crime everywhere. If only some people have a few children, that’s far below replacement level. The population will shrink very quickly because of this. Japan is experiencing this now and they are not handling it well. Fewer people isn’t necessarily a bad thing but you’ll have to automate tons of jobs in a short amount of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:26 PM
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I'm far less optimistic. I don’t think people who will still date will have more kids to compensate. It’s already hard to have one child in this economy. Not to mention that raising children is stressful. Can you imagine taking care of 6 children? Do you want to give birth six times? You’d need major economic and political changes to maybe make this happen. The whole pension system is basically a Ponzi scheme and would need be completely reworked. We probably also would need a universal basic in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:22 PM
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It’s not a huge problem if the number of people that stop dating is low. I agree with that. But what happens if the number grows? Doesn’t have to be 100% but what if 50% of all women check out? How many people can we afford checking out of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:39 PM
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What difference does it make if women don’t date? Let’s assume all single women would stop dating immediately. How would that change society and the future of your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:05 AM
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This isn’t a paradox at all. It’s perfect logical and a consequence of the female nature. Women naturally want a strong and independent man who can provide for and protect them and their offspring. Of course this includes bad boys. They are rebels who don’t rely on other people and they don’t shy way from using violence when necessary. They confidently don't care what other people think of them and are not afraid to do their own thing come hell or high water. They know what they want and they’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah, a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:35 PM
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To everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:24 PM
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If you fully accept that all relationships are shallow and transactional and are fine with that, you could date them. But I wouldn’t hold it against you if you were bitter, disappointed and disgusted by this situation and wouldn’t want to date these men. That’s a very understandable reaction. Edit: Would she be right to reject all the guys who are showing her interest now? If she wants to. Totally up to her. They probably wouldn’t have wanted her old fat self either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:46 PM
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Relationships aren’t degrading. Sex is degrading when it’s done in a degrading way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:21 PM
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I have no idea how you could come to that conclusion from what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:43 PM
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How do you know? It’s my assumption. This is how I view this situation. Is it possible that she also is using them for her own pleasure? Possible. Some women have this kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:28 PM
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If two people are having sex with each other, it’s likely a shared activity. There’s a good chance that both people have a connection of some sort. If multiple people have sex with one person, then there’s no connection. The men are using her like an object for their own pleasure. She’s just a set of holes they masturbate into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:00 PM
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It’s an interesting observation for sure. I think the commitment might be the key point here. If you commit to someone, you’re kinda seen like a union. Everything your partner does also reflects on you. Your status depends on your partner’s status. A gangbang is something taboo and low status. People will laugh at the guy and say, "Eww this guy married the cumrag. What a loser lmao."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:38 PM
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The gangbang is worse. It’s far more objectifying and degrading than 8 short relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:50 PM
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How do the approaches from American men differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:29 PM
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The point is that being rejected because you’re unattractive is the worst possible kind of rejection. It basically means that your genes, the essence of what you are, are worthless. You are worthless and no trace of you deserves to be part of the future of the human race. There’s no bigger insult than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:48 PM
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Why do men feel so bad when women don’t find them attractive? Every living organism has only one purpose - survival. Survival of the individual and the species (through procreation). At the deepest level, everything you do serves only this one purpose. If women don’t find you attractive, then you can’t pass on your genes. It’s the ultimate failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:02 PM
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I don’t think that they should. Would be nice if they did but they are not obligated to do so. And it’s not that I don’t want to support men. It can be beneficial for me to support men that are friends or family. I benefit from them being a part of my social group. It would also be beneficial for all men's mental health if we supported each other. But that conflicts with our gender role and the need to compete with each other. Every man who is depressed and therefore drops out of dating entirely…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:35 PM
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I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:26 PM
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I never said that I don’t like men. Generally, I feel neutral about them. I like some individuals and others not so much. But I have to compete against them because that’s the way nature works. I have no choice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:26 PM
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Men have to compete against each other. It’s part of our gender role and has biological roots. Complimenting, helping and supporting my competitor has no advantage for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:59 PM
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Listen to Charles Bukowski telling the story of how he lost his virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:27 PM
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Disagree with the notion that only some women lie. I think virtue signaling is the norm and most people are doing it. Most of the time, people saying the ugly truth is only anonymously on social media or irl a few idiots saying the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:56 PM
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What he said isn’t wrong, though. I remember a speed dating study that compared what people said they were looking for with what they actually responded to. Women said that intelligence would be a very important and attractive quality. The reality was that intelligence was one of the least valued qualities. Edit: downvoting the truth won’t make it go away 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:39 PM
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2 > 1 > 3 > 5 > 6 > 7 > 4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:13 PM
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starfish 10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:25 PM
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3 for women and men. I don’t have a favorable view of people in general. To be successful in dating, you need to have the traits that the opposite sex wants and finds attractive. Whether you like them or not has very little importance in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:37 PM
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https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2019/07/30/loneliness-friendship-new-friends-poll-survey 22% of Millennials in this survey said they have no friends. It’s not that uncommon anymore to suffer from social isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:28 PM
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Compared to women’s standards, men’s standards are lower. But they are rarely objectively low.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:50 AM
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This would make things worse for men. Women would still swipe on the profiles of hot men with many matches and then delude themselves into thinking the hot guy will pick her because she’s oh so special. So nothing is changing here. But they would definitely not pick a man who doesn’t get matches, even if they like his profile otherwise. Women just hate men that can’t get bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:23 PM
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I can tell you my personal experience because I have a different account where I posted nudes and thirst traps. I received comments and DMs complimenting me, some wanted to talk to me and a few wanted to sext. Also got some unsolicited nudes. Most comments and DMs came from gay dudes. Only like 10% were from women. The reason I get this amount of attention at all is because I’m an amateur bodybuilder with pretty good genetics. If you look at posts on r/gonewild (NSFW) from men with normal lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:26 PM
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Sounds hot. I would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:14 AM
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Women don’t want competition. They don’t want the Chad that every other woman out there is throwing themselves at. That is a contradiction. If women hate competition so much and don’t want Chad, then why are they all throwing themselves at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:22 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691300086X Women can identify men high in Dark Triad traits from written dating adverts alone and knowingly choose them for short-term relationships. They aren’t being tricked or manipulated. It’s a deliberate and strategic decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:30 PM
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Women are attracted to handsome masculine men. Doesn’t matter if they are toxic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:56 PM
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I remember a biology professor talking about this. He said that men essentially have 3 reproductive strategies. Having a child with one woman and investing his resources into that woman and her offspring. Having children with multiple women and not investing his resources in any of them or only in one of them. Rape Therefore, men will always have a natural desire to mate with many women. They will always be tempted to cheat. From an evolutionary perspective, strategy 2 is just too good to ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:56 PM
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Maybe because some of the women were married or had boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:42 PM
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⁠STOP CHASING STACY. And date average women? ew eww EWWW!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:16 PM
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Women are viscerally attracted to masculinity. They like confidence, strength, leadership, dominance and protectiveness. A big misconception is that you have to be an asshole to be masculine. That’s not true. You can absolutely be masculine in a respectful way. However, what is a libido killer is being respectful in a feminine way. Woman don’t like it when a man is shy, careful, agreeable, timid or submissive. It’s the feminine behavior that turns them off, not the "respectfulness". But being an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:42 AM
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Kind of. The average length is somewhere between 5 and 6 inches. Maybe closer towards 5 because most studies suffer from a selection bias. A 4 inch girth is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:29 PM
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Good for you man. This actually does sound like a really wonderful way of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:50 PM
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You're absolutely right. The threshold for "looks fat" is very subjective and highly depends on fat distribution/shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:41 PM
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Sure you can. For example, I love my dog but don’t respect his opinions. He thinks there’s nothing wrong with sniffing butts but I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:08 PM
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It’s a visual judgement. If you have too much body fat or a poor fat distribution, you’re considered "fat".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:58 PM
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🤨 Aren’t Americans measuring distances in 'feet'?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:53 PM
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A: high tier average B: below average C: low tier average in her age group
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:00 PM
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Do you think you will escape the aging process somehow? Yes 🤭🔫
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:18 PM
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Why do you think so many old couples swear that their husband/wife is more beautiful than the day they met? I mean obviously it's not objectively true but that's a person they've shared their life with, each part of their body is marked by their story together and what they've done and accomplished. This makes me wonder what happens when you’re dating later in life, let’s say 40+, when there is no shared past. Those crow's feet aren’t from all the little moments where you were laughing together.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:14 PM
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Are you seriously calling Kanye West a HVM? 🤣The antisemitic moron who said, "My greatest pain in life is that I will never be able to see myself perform live."?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:19 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:52 PM
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only women have hoe faces hilarious typo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:52 PM
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Your premise that misogyny can arise spontaneously while misandry can only be a reaction to misogyny is wrong. Just like racism, misogyny and misandry are taught. No child is ever born as a racist, misogynist or misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:06 PM
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Are you talking about the study that was retracted? https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/07/21/researchers-retract-study-claiming-marriages-fail-more-often-when-wife-falls-ill/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:56 PM
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Lol remind me again why the risk of divorce significantly increases when a man loses his job but not when a woman loses her job. She won’t even bail him out when something bad happens that wasn’t his choice/fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:06 PM
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0: perfect 1: ok 2-5: not good but maybe acceptable 10-15: eww 15-20: stay away from me 20+: I don’t even want to breathe the same air as you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:24 PM
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What? Um, no. People have eyes and can usually make pretty spot on comparisons. It would be delusional to believe you're just somehow more attractive than anyone else. People do tend to overrate their own looks a bit, though. Our results show proof for a strikingly simple observation: that individuals perceive their own beauty to be greater than that expressed in the opinions of others (p < 0.001). With regard to all items, we found the differences between the self-assessment of the subjects and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:29 PM
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Most men here will claim to want the virgin. In reality, most will gravitate towards the hot slut. They aren’t completely lying, though. I belief them that they really prefer a virgin/low-n woman but physical attractiveness is still the most important thing. A woman can get away with a lot of red flags if she’s hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:25 PM
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Well, yes, very much so. Her name was Sarkington and we lived in my mother's basement together. Every day, we woke up to the rays of the sun streaming through the slats on our blinds, cascading over her naked chest. She stretched, her breasts lifting with her arms as she greeted the sun. She rolled out of bed and put on a shirt, her nipples prominently showing through the thin fabric. Then she breasted boobily to the stairs, and titted upwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:16 PM
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Everything reminds me of her :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:09 PM
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Only forced breeding. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:41 PM
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Your value as a woman is predominantly determined by how pretty and young you are. That means your value naturally declines over time. The winner is the man who got to enjoy your prime. The nice dependable safe guy isn’t getting the last laugh - he’s getting the almost worthless leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:45 PM
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YouTube social experiments: Homeless asking for money - woman vs man Harassment - woman vs man Help carrying heavy luggage - woman vs man Domestic violence - woman vs man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:45 PM
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There are some studies that show that men high in dark triad traits ("shitty men") have more sexual partners. A common argument is that these men simply are good at lying and manipulating women into sex. There’s an interesting study that addresses this: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691300086X Participants were 28 women (M = 28.00, SD = 9.34), who participated in an online survey, advertised via the researcher’s social networks as a study on “honesty in dating adve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:41 AM
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Here’s a possible explanation. Female primates strategically use promiscuity to confuse the males about paternity. This has many benefits for the female and her offspring. For example, she can get good genes from one male and resources from another. It might also protect her offspring from infanticide. But this is a detriment to the males because they might waste their precious resources on another male's offspring. Avoiding promiscuous females increases our reproductive success. So we might hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:35 PM
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No, this is Patrick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:43 AM
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Have you seen each other naked yet or will that be a surprise on your wedding night?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:57 PM
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How long have you been with your bf? How long do you want to date before you get married? Do you feel like waiting pressures you to shorten the dating time until marriage? Do you abstain from all sexual things or just PIV? If your current bf turns out to not be the right one, will there be an age where you don’t want to wait anymore and just finally experience sex even without marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:21 PM
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26 isn’t that bad. Yeah, she’s 1 year past the wall but still has 4 years left until she expires.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:13 PM
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Fine. No more males and females. 🙄 I suggest we use bitches and daddies instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:57 PM
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I can not read his mind and I trust him to be honest to me. Do you think he would honestly express an opinion that he knows you don’t like? What would you do if he did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:04 AM
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Once you develop feelings for someone, you’ll start idealizing them. It’s a basic biochemical process in your brain that you have no control over. You will create positive illusions about them and ignore some of their flaws. It’s inevitable and you will definitely miss red flags if you try to do the vetting by yourself alone. Asking friends or family for their perspective is a good idea because they don’t suffer from rose-tinted glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:03 PM
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Yeah, I actually know a lot about your story/situation because I read so many of your comments. You’re one of my favorite posters and I find you very lovey and interesting. So I know that you’re demisexual and wouldn’t want hookups but would you prefer many temporary stable situations over one completely stable one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:25 PM
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That’s interesting because I think your cooking schedule doesn’t exactly fit the "stable variety" description. It’s more like a temporary stable variety. A mix between stable and random. The relationship/sex version of that would be a clean girl on birth control who loves you, wants to have sex with you and cares about your pleasure for one year and next year you get a new one. Pretty much serial monogamy but with a short relationship duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:52 PM
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Men and women seem to express aggression in different ways. Men are more direct and often use physical violence. Women are more indirect and typically use gossip, innuendo and reputation destruction. https://nypost.com/2019/01/16/the-scientific-reasons-why-men-are-more-violent-than-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:59 PM
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They smell nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:20 PM
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I never had such a moment in my life. Honestly, I can’t even remember what being happy feels like. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:17 PM
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Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:33 PM
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femininity = softness (sweet, caring, empathetic) masculinity = hardness (strong, resilient, protective)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:27 PM
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Heard this song and immediately had to think of all you lovely PPD ladies. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:57 PM
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50 to 80 % of the US population have it. Most people with oral herpes get infected as children by their parents. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/herpes-hsv1-and-hsv2/oral-herpes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:25 PM
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Most of these traits are 'good' for the individual man in the sense that he gets exactly what he wants with no regard for other people and often to their detriment. By that logic, being a cheater, liar, manipulator, thief, scammer, bully and rapist would also be 'good'. I’d prefer a more utilitarian version of 'good'. People who care for each other and cooperate to achieve something great instead of monsters stomping everyone around them into the ground on their way to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:50 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:14 PM
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Her argument is wrong because she left out all the female preferences that are bad for men, bad for women or bad for society. For example, dark triad traits, aggression, benevolent sexism, risk taking behavior, disagreeableness and social dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:47 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide Suicide attempts are between two and four times more frequent among females.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:41 PM
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strength courage resilience independence assertiveness confidence protection leadership
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:27 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:56 PM
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Men lie about their physical preferences in women under certain circumstances. 1 - When speaking publicly, it’s virtue signalling. 2 - Women’s sexuality is mostly responsive and revolves around feeling desired. If you tell her honestly that you don’t prefer her features, it will turn her off. Telling her that you prefer her specific features is a harmless white lie. 3 - In a relationship, it’s unlikely that your partner will fit 100% of your physical preferences. Telling her this would hurt her …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:31 AM
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Probably stress hormones negatively impacting your thought processes. https://hbr.org/2013/02/break-your-addiction-to-being
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:08 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:36 PM
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If them being a slave is irrelevant, then it doesn't hurt to let them have free will, no? Correct. Free will or no free will should make no difference. If your motivation for treating the partner well is truly intrinsic, why does it require guaranteed loyalty? Guaranteed loyalty should not be required for good treatment. It’s just a benefit of this situation. My assumption about that post was that the person freely chose to marry you for whatever reason. Maybe they don’t want or value love. Or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:26 PM
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That’s a good argument. Can’t be concerned about something when you don’t think it’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:18 PM
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So would the fact that there are no benevolent dictators mean that everyone is an abuser and the only thing holding them back is that they are not in a position of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:12 PM
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Inspired by this recent post: if you would be concerned about your partner being a slave, you’re an abuser. If you have a true intrinsic motivation to treat your partner well, then them being a slave is irrelevant. It doesn’t matter that they are vulnerable to abuse when you don’t (want to) abuse them. People who are concerned about this situation know that they would abuse their position of power and need an external threat like divorce to prevent them from abusing their slave partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:55 PM
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You can never know if your partner actually loves you. You can ask them but it’s impossible to find out if they are lying about it. The only thing that you can do is judge them by their behavior and her behavior would be exactly the same as if she actually loved me. It would make no difference for me. Logically, this seems like a great deal to me. I get a loyal wife that will always treat me well and will never cheat on me. She’s very happy with this arrangement and, of course, I would also trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:09 PM
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From the outside, 'doesn’t love me but acts like she loves me' and 'loves me and acts like she loves me' look exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:01 PM
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I pick number 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:42 PM
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It’s annoying because it’s a bad and inefficient way to resolve a conflict. Besides that I don’t care too much. My entire childhood and adolescence was a constant verbally abusive shouting match. I’m used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:18 PM
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Yes. I prefer women 18 - 25. Wouldn’t date a woman over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:34 AM
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Way more fat women with fit or skinny men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:49 PM
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https://www.ucanews.com/news/asia-the-hub-of-modern-slavery/92573
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:24 PM
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Someone posted a Big 5 online test a while ago and people shared their results. Almost everyone scored high on disagreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:00 PM
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Women prefer aggressive men as short-term mates. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201305/the-allure-aggressive-men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:28 AM
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If a mod violates Reddit’s moderator guidelines, you can report them to the admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:55 AM
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No, I’m possessive and don’t like it when other men touch my property woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:17 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:52 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:42 PM
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r/VindictaRateme is full of ordinary, average looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:40 PM
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AFBB is based on a theory in evolutionary psychology. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategic_pluralism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:17 PM
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D. Male
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:42 PM
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"riding the cock carousel" = 5+ times casual sex "whore" = 2+ times casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:14 PM
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Where the cougars at?? 👉 r/CougarsAndCubs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:02 PM
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https://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size The most commonly used measurements regarding the size of vaginas come from Masters and Johnson’s work from the 1960s. They looked at 100 women who had never been pregnant and found that vagina lengths, unstimulated, range from 2.75 inches to about 3¼ inches. When a woman is aroused, it increased to 4.25 inches to 4.75 inches. Regardless of how long the vagina is, the area that is thought to be important for most women’s sexual response is the out…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:43 PM
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Did you know that chainsaws were invented for childbirth? https://www.pharmacytimes.com/view/fun-fact-unfortunately-chainsaws-were-invented-for-childbirth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:13 PM
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younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:52 PM
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Men want some women to be like that. It’s the male dual mating strategy. That would be the equivalent of women's AFBB because they can’t get an AlphaBucks. Men want a VirginSlut but they don’t really exist. So we try to fuck hot slutty sluts in our 20s and then settle down with a sweet loyal virgin/ low-n girl. If some women had male sexuality, that would make our 'AF' part much easier. Most men here are in their 20s and, thus, still in the 'AF' stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:12 PM
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Here’s your proof: https://news.umich.edu/out-of-your-league-most-online-daters-seek-more-desirable-mates-despite-long-odds/ The analysis reveals that hierarchies of desirability—or “leagues”—emerge in data made anonymous from online dating networks in four major U.S. cities. The majority of people in these dating networks contact prospects who are about 25 percent more desirable than themselves. They also tend to tailor their messaging strategies, sending relatively longer messages to contacts …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:42 AM
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Truth be told, I cheated a little by looking it up. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:16 AM
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25
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:40 PM
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Nice! In addition, a good wife should always say her prayers (nsfw) before going to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:10 PM
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I choose the college gf. 6/7 is attractive enough for me. Loyal, good person, loves me, desires me, always stayed by my side and supported me sounds perfect. What more could you ask for? That’s like a dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:42 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:46 PM
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Helping them with their homework. Walking the dog. Jumping on a trampoline in the backyard. Spending the afternoon swimming in a lake. Watching TV together. Teaching them how to play the guitar. Things like that. Honestly, I simply like children. They are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:30 PM
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I don’t have kids but I have much younger sisters. I enjoy spending time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:17 PM
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Distribution of Tinder monthly active users in the USA as of March 2021: 75.8 % male and 24.2 % female. https://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ Today, three-in-ten U.S. adults say they have ever used an online dating site or app – including 11% who have done so in the past year, according to a new Pew Research Center survey conducted Oct. 16 to 28, 2019. The current survey finds that online dating is especially popular among certain groups – particularly younger a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:48 AM
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I’d prefer a relationship with 3 rich PickMe's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:03 PM
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Which ones would you say are the most accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:44 AM
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I don’t feel comfortable judging what a life worth living is. This feels very arrogant, selfish and callous to me. Instead of killing a human who might end up having a hard life, maybe it would be better to make some sacrifices to help them. Raise taxes to help poor families, provide more mental health services, socialized healthcare, adopt a child if you can, offer to babysit the child of your neighbor. But, then again, I could do many things to help right now and I choose to not do them out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:48 AM
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Only in the case of a medical problem threatening the life of the mother and maybe rape. All the other ones are practical benefits and wants. Just because something has a practical benefit and you want it doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. You have to carefully weigh those benefits/wants against the right to live and the value of a human being. I value my own life more than anything else and I can’t think of any reason why someone should be allowed to kill me for their own benefit. So how …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:30 AM
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Men and women aren’t forced into parenthood when they don’t want children at all or are not mature enough or financially ready yet. Women can avoid the uncomfortable process of pregnancy, the painful birth and all the negative changes to their body caused by it. Abortion can save the mother's life in dangerous situations like an ectopic pregnancy. A pregnancy that was caused by rape or incest can be stopped. The possibility to prevent the birth of a severely disabled child. No increase in childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:02 AM
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Then you’re also a murderer for using birth control. That fertilized egg is merely a toddler in “early stages of development,” waiting to attach to your uterus, grow and be born. I saw you make this argument earlier in other comments and thought a lot about it. This is a very interesting and tough one. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I read that the hormones in the pill stop or reduce ovulation, thicken the cervical mucus to keep sperm from entering the uterus and thin the lining of the uterus so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:35 PM
2

I should start doing that too. That sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:42 PM
1

That’s fascinating. How do you find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:26 PM
1

Any another weird subs like this? I’m intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:12 PM
2

Twice every day. I guess high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:21 PM
1

I use a regular 5 blade razor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:48 AM
3

Good catch. I shouldn’t have said every cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:31 AM
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I'm curious about the definition of a "human". What makes someone "human" and can you lose your "humanness"? I think if you die, your corpse is still human. The body has still the typical structure of a human and every cell still contains the characteristic 23 pairs of chromosomes. So being alive should not be required to be human. Now, what happens in the other direction? Here’s a thought experiment. Take a 20 yo man. Now let time run backwards. He’s still a human at 10 yo, he’s still a human a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:35 AM
2

Exactly. I thought a lot about this and came to the same conclusion. We are allowed to kill animals, insects, plants and so on. Life itself doesn’t seem to be sacred at all. You’re just not allowed to kill human beings and even there you have exceptions like self-defense. It seems to be a practical decision that’s motivated by self-interest. I am a human and want to live. You’re not allowed kill humans so that you can’t kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:16 PM
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You’re making a decision either way. If something cannot have an opinion, it doesn’t get one. Because there’s no way to know what it would want. How do you know the fetus would even want to be there? You don’t. Because you can’t ask. I addressed this in another comment. Self-preservation seems to be universal among all living organisms, even simple ones like bacteria that don’t have a brain. I would argue this means that every living being has an innate interest in being alive. No need to ask. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:58 PM
3

How would you define "life" and "human" instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:07 PM
3

People are capable of making decisions for themselves. The conjoined twins are an analogy for a woman and a fetus. Two individual humans that are directly connected. In this situation, you can’t make a decision for yourself and only yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:35 PM
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I don’t think that’s relevant. Self-preservation seems to be universal among all living organisms, even simple ones like bacteria that don’t have a brain. I would argue this means that every living being has an innate interest in being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:24 PM
1

I had one guy get so furious he slid into my DMs demanding to know how many STIs and abortions I’d had from having sex on the first date 😂 I hope you answered, "69 😏".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:42 PM
3

If we were conjoined twins, could you make a decision for yourself that will not affect me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:04 PM
3

Is your opinion irrelevant too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:35 PM
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As far as I’m aware, there’s currently no consensus about the definition of a living being. In my opinion, a decent definition is "an entity with internal biological processes". That applies to a fetus, so it’s a living being. The fetus also has a pair of 23 chromosomes that are characteristic for a human. That makes a fetus a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:18 PM
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At the very least, we need a rule whenever there’s a conflict of interest between two parties. Abortion is such a case. The fetus and you have opposing interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:50 PM
3

Don’t put words in my mouth. I’m fine with women having more rights if it’s necessary because the situation is asymmetrical. And XY men can’t get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:23 PM
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But we need a set of rules that everyone plays by. You can’t just let everyone do whatever they want. Otherwise I could just stop paying taxes by declaring that I find taxation immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:07 PM
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You don't have to donate organs to save your born children. Maybe you could think about it like a "duty to rescue"? You created the situation that the fetus is in and, therefore, you’re required to provide reasonable assistance. You didn’t cause the organ failure of the born child and donating an organ is unreasonable. Now we’d just have to determine if the damage that a pregnancy and birth could do to your body is an acceptable price to save the life of the fetus. Again, this is giving a fetus …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:02 PM
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Interesting point. I guess, logically, it should be treated like abortion. If the destruction of a fertilized egg inside of the uterus is not allowed, then the destruction of one outside the woman’s body should also not be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:10 PM
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But the fetus only exists as a direct result of your actions. You created it and put it inside yourself, so to speak. And you did that knowing that it can’t survive outside of your womb. So it has no alternatives and can’t leave your womb. I don’t think it’s moral to make someone decide between "kill yourself" and "I’ll kill you".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:25 PM
3

Yeah, that’s the big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:06 PM
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I agree that government involvement in one’s private life should be minimal. On the other hand, I think it’s not unreasonable to grant a fetus the right to live and someone needs to enforce it on their behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:48 PM
2

The only one who benefits from banning abortion is the fetus because, well, it gets to live. Everyone else loses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:32 PM
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I used to be pro-choice but after thinking about it extensively I moved more towards pro-life. I understand the benefits of abortion and why women want it but most arguments for abortion don’t sound that convincing to me. Right now, I’m pretty much undecided. This opened up far more extremely difficult moral and logical questions than I originally thought and caused me to question quite a few of my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:18 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:35 AM
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After I gained a lot of muscle: More respect from men and much better treatment by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:40 PM
1

I even find multi-dating disgusting and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:19 PM
2

There are kintsugi styles for this case too. https://www.lakesidepottery.com/Pages/kintsugi-repairing-ceramic-with-gold-and-lacquer-better-than-new.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:00 PM
3

You should look into kintsugi. I love the philosophy behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:36 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:09 AM
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Me. Literally every single relationship in my family is awful and dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:50 PM
2

That’s pretty quick. I started to view all people as bastard-coated bastards with bastard filling by default many years ago. That way I’m either right or pleasantly surprised when they aren’t. Have never been disappointed ever since!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:08 PM
2

How long did it take until you changed your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:56 PM
1

Paying for the things your child needs is part of being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:14 PM
0

Hermesmann v. Seyer: (State of Kansas ex rel. Hermesmann v. Seyer, 847 P.2d 1273 (Kan. 1993)), was a precedent-setting Kansas, United States case in which Colleen Hermesmann successfully argued that a woman is entitled to sue the father of her child for child support even if conception occurred as a result of a criminal act committed by the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:49 PM
2

Being adored by someone you don’t find attractive is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:30 PM
3

I hate when people post a group photo and don’t tell you which guy they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:29 PM
1

https://www.gertstulp.com/pdf/Stulp%20et%20al%202013_Anim%20Behav_The%20height%20of%20choosiness.pdf Table A3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:45 AM
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Note: She enjoys sex with me a lot and has never shown any dissatisfaction otherwise. In that case, don’t try to find out. Just forget about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:39 PM
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Baby daddy for sure. Much easier to abandon it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:10 PM
2

first one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:49 PM
1

5'10" and 160lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:05 PM
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i’m sexist as fuck. We have so much in common. Wanna be my friend? 👉👈🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:22 PM
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Then you’ll have to deal with the consequences of that later. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:15 AM
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Your important preferences don’t change, only your options get shittier. You’re forced to pick from a shrinking dating pool that also gets increasingly worse as time goes on. Not worth it, especially not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:13 AM
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People seriously need to start accepting reality. Your 20s are for dating. If you haven’t found a good partner by the time you’re 30, it’s not going to happen anymore. Just have some dignity and stay single instead of desperately latching onto the wrinkly leftovers riddled with baggage that no one wanted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:24 AM
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I know. She had multiple alts lately. I find it easy to recognize her because she’s so unique. But that also makes it easy for the people who dislike her to target her. Poor Atlas :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:28 PM
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I'm pretty sure she’s still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:05 PM
1

Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:14 PM
5

I’ve long speculated that women are actually better equipped to handle times of economic crisis. Now this has officially been confirmed by recent research.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:10 PM
1

That would have made the punchline of the joke too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:26 PM
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I think we should all try to make an effort to not perpetuate these harmful negative stereotypes anymore. You know, things like "women can’t love". I read that so often here and it really enrages me because it’s so not true. They obviously can and do love. They love children, pets, money and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:15 PM
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What would a person even do with 9''? I think it's just uncomfortable for the one who has it at this point. Au contraire, it’s great. You don’t even have to be in the same room to fuck her. She could be standing in the kitchen (WHERE SHE BELONGS) and you can comfortably rail her while sitting on the couch in the living room downstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:45 PM
1

Well, I don't think a lot of people actually measure their/their partner's penises and women tend to overestimate penis sizes. Trust me, every teenage boy has measured his dick and then decided to lie about it. No one has claimed 9'' though. I have 9 inches! And I’m totally not lying, I swear. 🤞😇
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:13 PM
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Cue everyone claiming 6 to 8 inches while the actual average is close to 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:03 PM
3

As a child, I was taught that life is fair. Be a good person and you will be rewarded while bad people will get what they deserve and will get punished for their sins. Everything will be ok in the end and you’ll be happy. When I got older, I realized that this isn’t true. Life isn’t fair at all, it’s arbitrary. People don’t get what they deserve, they just get what they get. This made me very bitter and cynical for a few years. Billy Beta is genuinely happy while he’s living in his little delusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:24 PM
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u/lulll, look at this (NSFW). It’s mesmerizing. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:31 PM
2

And unpaid too! 😩 So take that as a 'thank you' for your continuous devoted work as a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:27 PM
2

I am very pleased to announce that this Daily Chat reached ✨3000✨ comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:15 PM
2

Purrfection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:13 PM
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Want to make friends with a cat? Blink slowly!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:12 PM
1

skeleton of conjoined twins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:10 PM
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Andrew Scott performing Hamlet’s "I did love you".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:04 PM
1

… took me a long time too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:02 PM
1

A message from Bertrand Russel to future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:47 PM
1

Slash & Myles Kennedy - The Max Sessions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:42 PM
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David Gilmour - Wish You Were Here (Unplugged)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:38 PM
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Alter Bridge - Watch Over You (Live in Amsterdam)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:37 PM
1

You won’t believe what happened to this man!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:33 PM
1

Children's playground in 1912
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:16 PM
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Positive effects of Reddit on mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:14 PM
1

Beverly Hills Cats
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:12 PM
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How to tie your shoelaces to deter common problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:10 PM
1

num num cat song
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:07 PM
1

Here’s something that interesting to consider when debating human behavior: 50 cognitive biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:06 PM
2

Mind-blowing scientific facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:42 PM
2

For all women that want to get in shape this year, here’s a simple beginner workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:36 PM
1

This instrument is called Cristal Baschet. Super cool and reminds me of the music in Interstellar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:33 PM
2

Look at this gold digger! 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:28 PM
2

Yeah, you’re right. 😔 Maybe those times are over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:57 PM
2

Maybe a little Purge? 👉👈🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:38 PM
2

Currently at 2960. 😱 If it reached 3k, would there be some kind of celebration?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:14 PM
1

Probably pretty accurate. I’ve done a WAIS intelligence test many years ago and got a score in the mid 130s back then. Edit: I’m wondering if the website measured my response time because I got all the answers correct, but I was talking to someone while doing the test. So it took me a bit longer to finish it. Edit2: Oh, I thought the checkmark gave you feedback if you picked the correct option. Apparently, it just marks your selection and you can even change it. Now I wanna know which ones I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:43 PM
2

bitter 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:39 PM
1

https://ibb.co/2gkknY5 Age: early 30s Gender: male Pill: red
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:33 PM
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massage therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:00 PM
1

It’s actually very easy. "Subspace" is what people are chasing. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glossary_of_BDSM#Subspace Subspace: A "natural high" that a sub (or bottom) experiences during a scene or when being controlled. The sub may feel disconnected from time, space, and/or their body, and may have limited ability to communicate. It is critical that a Dom/top take responsibility for the sub/bottom and be aware of their sub's well-being if they are in subspace. Long-term dominance and submis…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:55 PM
2

No punching, only spanking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:34 PM
1

A sybian is a great example! Would you be ok with the used one or rather buy a new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:10 PM
1

This article was the inspiration for my question. It’s about a study that claims men and women perceive women in the same way they perceive objects. But men are not viewed that way. If some men have an emotional disgust reaction and view non-virgin women as stained objects, is there a female equivalent with real objects (sex toys)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:11 PM
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Sure, I get that. This is more of a hypothetical question with the assumption that the toy is exactly as clean as a new one. Like sterilized in an autoclave. Would you use such a toy or still prefer a new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:55 PM
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Your answers indicate that you wouldn’t use a used toy. Is there any scenario where you would be ok with it? I mean, when you’re eating at a restaurant, the fork that you put in your mouth has been used by many different people before you. What makes that different for you compared to a clean used sex toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:38 PM
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Let’s say he just forgot that he still has it. He didn’t keep it for sentimental reason. Just put it in a box in the basement with some other old stuff that he wanted to throw away after the breakup but then forgot about the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:13 PM
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I’d like to know where exactly you draw the line. Does your decision depend on details (like internal vs external use) or are you for/against it on principle? Is it a logical or an emotional decision? The original assumption was just a clean sex toy that’s basically indistinguishable from a new one. The only difference is that his ex-gf had used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:50 PM
1

What if your boyfriend was a dentist and used his autoclave to sterilize the butt plug, would you use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:12 PM
2

Would it make a difference if it was an internal use toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:06 PM
0

It’s a hypothetical situation where he already has the toy that you want. Would you use it or prefer to get a new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:05 PM
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In a hypothetical situation where you couldn’t replace any parts, would you want a new one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:48 AM
2

Let’s assume it’s a toy that you would use on your clit. It’s a very special thing that can give women amazing orgasms better than any other toy ever could. The company that invented the technology patented it and they are the only company selling this toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:00 AM
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Q4W about used sex toys. Imagine you wanted to buy a new sex toy. So you went online and found one that you really liked. Unfortunately, it’s very expensive. You tell your boyfriend about it and he suddenly remembers that he bought this exact toy a year ago when he was still together with his ex-girlfriend. They used it a few times and he kept it after the breakup. He cleaned it thoroughly, disinfected it, stored it somewhere in the basement and then forgot about it. Logically, there’s absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:41 AM
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It even works if you don’t view sex as dirty. Look at this article about a study which claims that women are perceived in the same way that objects are. (Interestingly, men and women view women that way.) Objects lose value due to usage and previous ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:44 PM
2

Ngl, boyish looking girls are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:16 PM
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Speaking of BDSM, cute masochistic girls are just 👌🤤.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:07 PM
1

True, I have a friend who is 6'7 and he definitely profited from that. But I still think that once you reach average height, you’ll profit more from a prettier face than even more height.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:40 PM
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5'10 with a 7 face for sure. Face is by far the most important and an average height is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:55 PM
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Well, I guess it’s not terrible advice but he got married to a gold digger after my mom dumped him. They despise each other and constantly cheat on each other and threaten to get divorced. So, his strategy clearly didn’t get him a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:58 AM
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My parents never talked that much about dating with me but I also didn’t ask them for advice. My mom is a bluepilled Pick Me and would sometimes say things like looks, money and status don’t matter to girls. You only need a good heart and be nice to them. Laughable shit like this. My dad only said that I need to be social, lift weights, act confident and arrogant, approach girls, go to many parties and fuck around while I’m young. Then later I should marry some bitch to have someone to cook me m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:49 AM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_03/sr03-046-508.pdf See table 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:17 PM
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A strict refusal to work on problems. Serious problems will arise in any LTR, that’s just life and part of the game. But I think you can almost always work it out or at least find a fair compromise. But if she completely refuses to work on a problem, then there’s nowhere to go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:44 PM
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Yeah, "This will make you better at sports" is a really bad explanation. I can’t imagine the kid thinking that all the shit side effects are worth it because they’ll be "better at sports".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:49 PM
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It’s a really fucked situation, isn’t it? I’d want my children to be happy and to feel good about themselves. Technically, there isn’t even anything wrong with being short. Idk, I feel like it would be extremely hard for me to watch them go through this torture just because society is so shallow about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:38 PM
2

It’s a bit like getting braces. A nightmare for a few years but you’ll profit from it for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:28 PM
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I truly think that Nickelback are among the greatest poets of our time. Just look at some excerpts from their masterpiece Shakin' Hands. Every A list player is a favorite friend Says they all taste the same in the back of the Benz Her congressman will call her every once in a while Got the school girl skirt on the top of the pile She's done everyone once, and everyone knows You got to get a little dirty when you're digging for gold Someone spilled the beans and now her name's in the press Tough …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:23 PM
1

Came to the conclusion I am not getting a crush on a woman who isn’t a virgin. God bless virgin women with unused pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:38 PM
2

Not weird imo. Many people like it. I like it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:12 PM
1

I only do an incline pin bench press. Never tried an actual 1RM but 168 lbs for 8 reps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Gisele
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:01 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:37 PM
1

8 with a terrible haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:24 PM
3

Tie her to the bed, blindfold her and tease her clit with a makeup brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:55 PM
2

Aww, that’s so nice of you. I wish you well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:08 PM
1

NSFW-Q4M: Pink pussy or brown pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:25 PM
1

I greatly prefer the skinnier look.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:18 PM
1

u/Remarkable_Sort_1706
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:47 PM
1

u/doshkhaleesi knows his username. It was something like "RemarkableSort" and then some numbers. I can’t remember, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:43 PM
1

Some people are talking to him in DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:37 PM
1

I don’t know him at all. The problem is that nobody knows his name or address and he’s refusing to tell anyone. That’s why I suggested to call the suicide prevention hotline and ask them for help. Those people are trained specifically for these kinds of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:21 PM
1

I have been in his situation before…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:15 PM
1

You can’t get him hospitalized if you don’t know his name and address. He will not easily give you this info. You need someone who knows how to basically manipulate him into giving you this info. Just call the damn suicide hotline and ask them for help ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:51 PM
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That’s why you need someone who knows what the fuck they are doing, like a therapist or someone who works at a suicide prevention hotline. They are trained for this. You are not. He’s highly delusional right now and you can’t talk to him like to a normal person. Maybe you should actually call the suicide prevention hotline and ask for assistance. Ask them what you should say to him so that he gives you his contact infos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:25 PM
2

Yes, and I think a therapist should know effective strategies to talk someone out of this immediate dangerous situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:35 PM
2

Wasn’t there a female regular here who is a therapist? I’m thinking of u/errrright but I could be wrong. Maybe she could be really helpful since she should be trained to handle situations like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:14 PM
1

Oh boy, do I have bad news for you… https://imgur.com/a/BMdrG2A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:45 PM
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The slut but I’ll become an alcoholic because that’s the only way to cope with my feelings of disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:51 PM
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Nobody treats all people the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:58 AM
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2/3 only approach woman 1 or more attractive point higher than themselves. […] I'm not particularly surprised the two only approaching hotter women are not getting success. Women here often claim that in all couples, that they personally know or just see outside, the woman is always a bit prettier than the man. If that were true, then men shouldn’t have any problems dating up 1 point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:16 AM
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I knew immediately that this one guy is a virgin just by looking at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:33 PM
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Both 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:54 PM
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Greg Plitt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:46 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:12 PM
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That’s no big deal, so right from the start. I’d do this for female friends or my sisters too. No problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:28 PM
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8A 2C
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:14 PM
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The real victim in this case was the bee!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:42 PM
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How many of you have hugged your fathers? Was it rare? Sometimes. It’s more like an empty ritual, like shaking hands. Has he ever verbally explicitly told you how much he loves you and is proud of you? No, just the opposite. Do you have any loving memory you’d like to share? Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:00 AM
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Hmm… are you sure? Because you sound a lot like someone who stopped commenting around the time that you started commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:00 PM
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It’s the attitude…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:53 PM
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I think it’s pretty close to the truth. Speed dating is more natural than online dating, which is often used as the data for many studies. And you’re looking at the actual behavior instead of people just filling out a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:27 PM
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The Wired article about a huge meta analysis that someone posted a few days ago said basically the same. https://www.wired.com/story/data-marriage-behavior-love-psychology-romance/?position=9&sponsored=0 The conventional attractiveness of a mate is the number one predictor of how many messages someone gets, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:10 PM
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But men are more shallow in the sense that they value looks so much higher than everything else. Women just think that they value looks less. They actually value them exactly as much as men. Look at this study about speed dating, especially the section "Male/Female’s Stated Interest Compared to Actual Influence on Decision". Attractiveness was the most important attribute for men and women, but only women severely underestimated its importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:37 PM
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Under the current rules, yes. But if a man had the opportunity and right to financially abort and she knows that he will do exactly this if she tells him and therefore hides her pregnancy until it’s too late for him, wouldn’t that be a form of baby trapping?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:34 AM
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You could have an unplanned pregnancy and then decide to use this opportunity to baby trap the guy. Edit: If a pro-life woman got accidentally pregnant by her boyfriend who doesn’t want a child right now and hides it until it is too late for him to leave, that kinda does sound like baby trapping to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:38 AM
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That would be a particularly nasty form of baby trapping. Not much you could do about that, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:37 PM
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Glad I could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:20 PM
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At the earliest stages of a pregnancy, there is no child yet. It’s just a lump of cells. There’s is no living person with rights yet. An abortion at that stage shouldn’t be a big deal. That’s why I think my solution could be a very fair compromise that gives both men and women a fair choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:05 PM
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I covered that in my first comment. Once it’s too late for abortion, the man has to pay. But if it’s very early and he tells you that he doesn’t want the baby, why would you not abort? It’s just the next logical step.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:22 PM
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The woman is not forced to keep the baby. Abortion is possible and available. If she doesn’t want to raise a child alone, she can just abort it. If she does want to keep the child, then this is entirely her own decision and only she should be responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:19 PM
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Nobody forces the woman to keep the child if the man bails early. If she doesn’t want to raise a child alone, she can just abort it. Edit: That’s like a guy and a girl ordering a Playstation 5 online and agreeing that each one will pay half its price. But the next day, the guy decides that he doesn’t want the Playstation anymore and will not pay his share. Just cancel the order and no Playstation will be delivered to you. No problem. But if you don’t cancel the order, then you’ll have to pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:12 PM
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Men can impregnate women and bail before the child is born, have a “financial abortion” and leave a woman absolutely screwed? Why not set a time limit like abortions have? While an abortion is still allowed, the man can "financially abort". Then the woman can decide if she wants to keep the baby or abort it. Once an abortion is no longer possible, he has to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:22 PM
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I’d say that sounds more like your grandmother was severely traumatized by the death of her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:11 PM
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I just don’t believe in true love. True love would be unconditional and everlasting. But people who have experienced genuine feelings of love can suddenly fall out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:26 PM
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No, that’s not what I said. The feeling of love is real. But I reject the idea of true love. There’s nothing special about your husband, he is replaceable. If he left you tomorrow, you would eventually find someone else who would make you feel the exact same feelings of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:08 PM
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Love exists, there’s no doubt about that. You can see the activation patterns in the brain and measure the hormones. It’s a very real thing. https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/ But it’s not more than this. I don’t believe that love is this magical thing like the poets are trying to tell us. The reality is much more shallow and transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:50 PM
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Well, think about it in terms of the food analogy. Food used to be scarce, so our brains evolved to make us crave high calorie food. Eating that stuff activates our brain's reward circuitry and makes us feel good. That motivates behavior and makes us seek and eat high calorie food. You could say that this is our default behavior. Many people in western countries just follow this default behavior and get obese as a result. But you don’t have to follow your default behavior. You can actively choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:33 PM
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No, I think that our brains are on autopilot a lot of the time and many of our decisions are made based on primitive instincts. The dual mating strategy is deep in the unconscious part of the mind. It influences many of women's dating choices and behaviors without them actually realizing what they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:30 PM
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That’s why I think dual mating strategy happens subconsciously. I don’t believe that most women intentionally cheat to get good genes for their kids or intentionally get pregnant by hot losers and then try to marry beta providers. But I do remember a study that found women were less likely to insist on using condoms during casual sex when the guy was very attractive. Edit: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/04/080414145705.htm Contrary to what most of us would like to believe, decision-m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:17 PM
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Do they, though? We still crave high calorie foods although there’s no shortage of food in the western world. The result is obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:49 PM
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I am also disappointed that I never receive drama in my DMs. Exactly! All I want is unhinged people sending me long-winded psychotic rants, dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:06 PM
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So, what are the characteristics of an orbiter? A person that is currently your friend or acquaintance and has a romantic interest in you but doesn’t actively try to date you right now. The are not a true friend, though. Here, the friendship is just a tool to remain in close contact with you. A common scenario is that you are in a relationship with someone else and they will wait in the friend zone until you break up to get their chance. How do you identify an orbiter? That’s not so easy. I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:41 PM
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Straight, but would you change your mind if he was gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:42 PM
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If she was bisexual and got both offers, would you be ok with her doing them both, just one or none?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:30 PM
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Q4M: Consider the following two hypothetical scenarios. Would you be ok with one or both of these? Scenario 1: Your girlfriend/wife gets oral sex from a guy. The guy is exactly as attractive as you on the 10 point scale and his oral skills are also exactly equal to yours. After her orgasm, he will leave immediately and you will never see him again. There will be no sexual contact other than the oral. Your girlfriend/wife will not touch the guy in any way. He will remain clothed the whole time an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:40 AM
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It kind of does matter. Only having sex in a committed relationship indicates she is less likely to cheat. Intention matters most. Yes, that’s why people who are looking for a serious relationship generally don’t want promiscuous partners. Too much risk. But someone with many failed prior relationships is also undesirable. That was my point. If a woman (that never had casual sex) had 15 failed relationships, then there would obviously be something wrong with her. She can’t make a relationship wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:21 PM
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N count is something that can be numerically counted and doesn’t give any details beyond that. Does it even matter how she got her high n count? An n of 15 from 15 hook-ups is obviously bad and undesirable, but one from 15 failed relationships isn’t any better. Either way it’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:28 PM
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It’s just the halo and horns effect. People will project a good personality onto beautiful people and a bad personality onto the ugly ones. OLD data shows this really well. https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2014/jul/29/okcupid-experiment-human-beings-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:28 PM
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Yes, if they do it for fun, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:08 PM
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Such men derive pleasure from all kinds of violence including hunting, sports and beating someone. A man who intrinsically hates violence will only use violence if he absolutely has to, like in self-defence. This is objectively better for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:52 PM
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The claim was that women are attracted to traits in men that are bad for society. And that’s true. The article says that women are specifically attracted to "appetitive-aggressiveness": The second is “appetitive-aggressive,” which is internally motivated. It is derived from the intrinsic pleasure that is associated with violence, hunting, and combat. I’d argue that men who find it pleasurable to be violent are a menace to modern society. And that’s not all. The article also mentions that women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:30 PM
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That’s not a counterargument. There are many more studies that are coming to a similar conclusion. It’s a fact that women are viscerally sexually attracted to masculine (alpha) traits. But these men are bad for relationships. That’s why women choose them only for short-term mating. Picking more beta men for relationships is just a compromise. Look at this study where women were told to build their perfect man for a sperm donation scenario. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/head-games/201…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:02 PM
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Aggressiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:39 PM
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Interesting hypothesis. Could be. I read about his relationship with his first wife and if it is all true, he seems to be very selfish and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:51 PM
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Elon Musk is weird and awkward because he’s autistic. I don’t see any reason why high intelligence should make people socially awkward. Quite the opposite. Having a real high (verbal) IQ will likely make you a charming smooth talker and it’s correlated with being very funny. Edit: Many highly intelligent people suffer from social isolation but for different reasons than being socially awkward. What makes autists weird is stuff like: - robotic speaking voice - not recognizing jokes and sarcasm - …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:27 PM
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Are you not familiar with the party game "would you rather"? That’s what these questions are. You’re presented with a dilemma between two bad options and have to pick the lesser bad one out of these two. It’s supposed to give insight into someone’s priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:52 PM
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I think that your personality type has also a strong influence on the likelihood of you cheating in the future. And there might be some evidence for that. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/experimentations/202012/predicting-infidelity-precise-personality-sub-traits The study identified specific personality traits (facets of the big 5 personality traits) that correlated with cheating. Extraversion facets - Ascendance (aka Assertiveness, social boldness) - Excitement Seeking Neuroticism face…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:04 PM
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Hmm, interesting. But if it doesn’t apply to men at all, then is it really the penetration/sex that devalues a woman? Let’s take two women. Hannah has 10 hookups in one year and no relationship. Lana has no hookups but is in a relationship during that year and has sex three times per week with her boyfriend. That’s 156 times sex in that year. If solely the act of sex devalued a woman, Lana should be considered lower value than Hannah. Every single time Lana has sex with her boyfriend, it should …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:51 AM
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Yeah, I think it’s the act of penetration that causes the damage. The active/penetrating person essentially objectifies and uses the passive person that’s getting penetrated. And objects lose value with use. In contrast, the active person doesn’t get objectified and, thus, loses no value. I see some evidence for this. For example, men seem to be more ok with women having sex with other women. I think it’s because there are no clear active and passive roles in lesbian sex, so it’s not seen as dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:46 PM
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It’s an emotional reaction because the different treatment violates the innate sense of fairness all humans (and even toddlers and some animals) have. From a female perspective, it’s actually a pretty decent strategy to avoid being used for sex. But there are also logical reasons. Women need vetting strategies to avoid being used for sex or ending up as a starter/practice girlfriend. Men need vetting strategies to avoid being used for resources (dates, effort, money) or ending up as a consolatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:00 PM
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Nobody will ever love you for who you are. All love is conditional and every relationship is just a transaction. People will "love" you for how you make them feel or what they can get from you, be it money, sex, status, a certain lifestyle, domestic service, children or emotional labor. If you can’t provide them with at least a minimum of things they want from you anymore, they’ll leave. Who you are doesn’t matter. In the end, you’re just a replaceable object.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:33 PM
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Women: ✌️18✌️ Men: mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:44 PM
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It’s not easy to find out, but you can try. Throw a party and invite her and all of her friends. Get them drunk and suggest playing "never have I ever". Her drunk friends will tell you everything you need to know and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:58 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:06 PM
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Better. I‘m 5‘10“, 164 lbs, muscular, 30 inch waist, 1.6 shoulder-to-waist ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:03 PM
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If you close your eyes, a female tongue will feel exactly like a male tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:27 PM
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Maybe an Asian woman with big eyes and great cheekbones?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:07 PM
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I’d rather not reveal it in case she doesn’t want people to know it’s her. Maybe she had to delete her old account because of harassment and wants to remain anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:35 AM
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Deleted her account and made a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:26 AM
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What the actual fuck. Why are there so many of these videos? 🤢🤢🤢 There’s a wolf sticking his tongue into a girl’s open mouth. Or a woman letting her husky lick her mouth for 7 minutes straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:30 PM
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I feel flattered and tell them politely that I’m not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:21 PM
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That’s true but OP was asking about men who want Stacy but realistically only can get an average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:42 PM
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Q4W: How do you define "creepy" behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:10 PM
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Woman 1: Cheating as a dealbreaker. Woman 2: Many failed relationships are a red flag. Depends on the reason why she was dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:11 PM
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Time is the answer. Leveling the Playing Field: Longer Acquaintance Predicts Reduced Assortative Mating on Attractiveness As you spend a lot of time with people, you’ll discover many interesting things about them that can make you feel attracted to them beyond the raw stats like looks, money and status. Over time, the average girl can become a real gem to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:52 AM
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They really can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:57 AM
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Looks like u/tiposk was banned too. 😔 I really liked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:49 PM
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🙄 Women and their obsession with money. We can trade. You‘ll get a nude and a compliment in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:49 PM
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I mean, my DMs are always open for nudes if you crave a man looking at you. Just sayin 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:25 PM
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How do you define a "real asshole"? I would define it as deliberately treating someone badly or hurting their feelings and not feeling any remorse about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:22 PM
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Bad communication is a huge one. There are so many people who cannot express their feelings properly and their partners being offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:42 PM
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That reminds me of the moon illusion, an optical illusion where the moon appears to be larger when it’s near the horizon. There are a few different possible explanations and one is the relative size hypothesis. This states that the perceived size of an object depends not only on its retinal size, but also on the size of objects in its immediate visual environment. In the case of the Moon illusion, objects in the vicinity of the horizon Moon (that is, objects on or near the horizon) exhibit a fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:16 PM
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I’m not a feminist because I can be in favor of equal opportunities for men and women without being a member of a misandrist cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:16 AM
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Well…😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:47 PM
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No. ☹︎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:09 PM
1

what kind of a father would you like to be? I would want my kids to trust me and be comfortable talking to me about anything: their problems, their ideas, their hopes and dreams. They could get emotional comfort and help from me without judgement whenever they need it. I'd also would like to be a safety net for them. I would want them to be confident and courageous enough to explore the world, find themselves, take risks and make mistakes knowing that I’ll always be there to catch them when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:14 PM
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Rate her snatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:49 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:18 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:15 PM
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I bet she’s a Machamp chaser! Would never give a nice guy like Pikachu a chance. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:19 PM
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Nah, pretty face > everything else. Also tits > ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:38 PM
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Might as well name your child Charizard at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:20 AM
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I like tall women. 6‘1 is three inches taller than me but I’d give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:39 AM
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Maybe it’s only normal temporary emotional downs but I think it wouldn’t hurt to get a professional assessment from a therapist if you can. You know, just to make sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:57 PM
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Emotional numbness and the desire to sleep all day could be symptoms of a depression. How long have you been feeling this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:33 PM
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I really don’t know. I think most people irl are a little self-centered but don’t wish harm on others. This place seems to attract many frustrated people but I think they are just lashing out because they’re hurt and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:20 PM
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How common are you here? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:13 PM
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Lol. No, I don’t like it when people are unhappy. Maybe a little Schadenfreude if she did something like cheating. But I think in such cases they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:02 PM
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Just do it now, you tease. 🙄 During the purge you’ll have all of this plus trolling and people calling you a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:57 PM
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Why don’t you make a post about this? "Q4M: Five tough questions for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:30 PM
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https://ibb.co/QKRJnS9
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:53 PM
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I want to receive indecent DMs from tall women. Period. Point blank. Don’t need to justify myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:46 PM
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https://youtu.be/T3rXdeOvhNE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:31 AM
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88% anxious 88% avoidant 25% secure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:10 AM
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I look like a deranged axe murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:53 PM
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⊙︎ ⊚︎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:37 PM
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r/EraserNipples 🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:47 PM
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Hot! I want a cute slave girl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:27 PM
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You really thought that? I was pretty sure that most men would find that way to jacked and masculine. Honestly, I find it a little weird myself that I find her attractive. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:06 PM
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Rate her arms and shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:31 PM
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Good point. I know that men‘s testosterone declines but I didn’t think of women‘s hormonal shifts. How was it for you? Did it make a huge difference compared to your younger years?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:19 PM
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I can see why some women develop eating disorders if gaining just a few pounds means being treated noticeably worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:28 PM
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According to this study, your metabolism doesn’t significantly slow down until you’re 60. The decrease in energy expenditure comes more often from a lack of activity and muscle loss. Edit: I only really look the best within 19.8-20.4 BMI. Anything more than one cheat week at my age, and I get a huge drop in the way I'm treated. That honestly sounds terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:04 PM
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He liked peeing in his gf‘s mouth and that’s how he discovered that he had diabetes. She said it tasted like birthday cake. A great man and a true inspiration!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:41 PM
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Dara Ó Briain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:07 PM
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Sex, intimacy, emotional support, companionship, domestic service. Edit: kids Edit2: intelligence, humor, knowledge, her unique perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:35 PM
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I think people are usually only angry about things that affect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:06 PM
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Hypergamy or "marrying up" means the desire to marry a spouse of higher social status than yourself. It’s mostly done by women and can be observed across most countries and cultures of the world. It makes men angry and bitter to be objectified as status objects, just like it makes women angry and bitter to be objectified as sex objects. In a way, both are dehumanizing. People crave being loved for who they are: their character, their morals and values, their sense of humor, their intelligence, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:42 AM
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If I really liked her, then I would be open to a compromise. We’d have to find a level of hairiness that’s acceptable for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:31 AM
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Full bush would be a dealbreaker, just like armpit hair. I would be ok with trimmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:13 AM
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Look again at the picture post. She (#8) responded to someone and revealed herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:54 PM
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Nice. Looking forward to those high value forearm pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:44 PM
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DM pics instead of publicly posting them? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:32 PM
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Well, good to know. I already have the nice upper body musculature and planned on getting visible abs this summer. But dieting sucks. Glad I can skip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:02 PM
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Yes, it’s certainly a practical benefit. You can get conditional love as long as you’re fulfilling your role. Being primarily valued for your looks is more like a coin flip. If you are lucky and win the genetic lottery it’s a massive win overall, but if you lose, you’re pretty much fucked. High risk - high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:26 PM
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True, but would people still value and love you the same if you stopped being a hard worker? If I am loved for something that is inherent to me, I can never lose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:07 PM
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I always wanted to know how exactly that works. I mean, how do you know when the hour is over? Do you wear a watch during sex and check occasionally or do you set an alarm?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:17 PM
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Isn’t "what you do" just an outward expression of "who you are"? For example, if my character is that I like helping people, then my actual behavior of helping people will display that. In that case, consciously altering your behavior in a way that’s not true to yourself will just create an artificial persona. Then people will love this character that you created instead of the real you and you have to constantly uphold this facade or they’ll stop loving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:13 PM
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Out of curiosity, how much do different services cost on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:52 AM
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It’s just a tradition and a symbol for serious commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:06 PM
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I wouldn’t feel disgusted if she cheated with a woman. Still would break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:44 PM
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Agree with the local politicians. The mayor of my city is a genuinely good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:51 AM
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It’s generally accepted that you can find someone attractive without loving them, or even liking them. I think the inverse exists too, you can love someone without finding them attractive. But it’s rare to observe irl because attraction is visual and you rarely get to know someone very intimately without ever seeing what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:34 AM
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I like your approach to lead with comfort. I think that’s the right way to do it. Provide some emotional support until they feel better and can think more clearly again, then start working on solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:32 PM
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Show me a side by side comparison and I’ll tell you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:28 PM
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White lies are ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:21 PM
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She is submissive and attracted to dominance. That’s why she used to date bad boys. Sadly, like many women, she couldn’t differentiate dominance from abusiveness. The emotional damage from the abuse causes a lot of her problems now. Therapy will fix this but it won’t fix her attraction. Her boyfriend is not dominant. When she puts on lingerie, he giggles like a schoolboy who’s about to touch his first boob. It makes her feel awkward and it turns her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:38 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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