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Stunning women who choose to continue with a serious career as opposed to going into modeling, pageantry, acting, OF, or anything appearance related have an insane amount of self control. I remember meeting this girl who was already complete with her residency and going into her first year of being a doctor. This girl was break-your-brain pretty. Like a young Olivia Munn, but prettier and Indian. Even the average pretty girl gets encouraged to show off in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:14 AM
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Homeboy is about to adopt you and pretend to be a dick to you for 2 decades of your life until you find out he fucked with your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:55 PM
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So much projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:23 PM
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It's a him thing, not about looks in this case. He gets spergy like he's been watching too much porn sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:16 PM
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Going on vacation tomorrow and meeting up with my friend for dinner. This friend is a very obvious Stacy. She's hot and has always been hot. In her youth, she was offered to join parties at the Playboy Mansion and stuff like that. The group I'm with is my boyfriend's friends, which include a very incelly dude and I'm wondering if I should invite her or not to the rest of our festivities post dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:43 PM
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Sure, of course there's going to be variation with what women prefer. I'm all about the idea of balance, and I don't really care if a 25 year old is dating a 35 year old if he is compensating in some way and they're not hurting each other. That being said, I'm bringing up that his age is a dealbreaker to the women I know and myself because it's delusion to believe that older men are accepted by all younger women. They're only accepted by a percentage, some of which will not be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:54 AM
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I think your definition of FOMO is different. A man with FOMO is sad that he hasn't experienced what he wanted to in the past. It's a dealbreaker for me because I don't want to deal with a constant emptiness. Men like this are more likely to settle because they weren't able to get what they wanted before, so they'll just take whatever they can find. If they are able to find what they're looking for in the present, it still doesn't fulfill them because they're tied to the past. What you're saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:41 AM
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Guess I will be seeing more [deleted] comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:32 AM
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Wow you described me so well, "balding Indian janitor" 🥹 I'm okay. Just the same: work, boyfriend, booze, and bars. How are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:21 AM
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Hello :3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:08 AM
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Your first paragraph makes no sense. Men who have FOMO are almost always men who are settling. They're dissatisfied about the past because they don't, and never precisely had what they want in the present. This is a sad way to view things and I'm really glad that most men don't think this way. You have a case of solipsism and men within your comments are saying that they don't prefer 20 year old women. Your dating strategy is based on selfishness. You want to believe that older men have value be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:07 AM
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Yes, we know about the first part. Plenty of men can be extremely shallow, and often choose immutable traits. If all men thought this way, it would be useless to date. I would just use men for their money, empty their bank accounts, and see them all as jokes. Fortunately, not all think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:45 AM
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Dad bod is skinny fat to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:48 AM
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Things that no man has ever said to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:47 AM
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I think you're phrasing it as though women don't want muscles because they have some sort of internal struggle. There's perfectly logical rationale. I've been with men with 6 packs and broad shoulders, and they look nice, obviously. I don't prefer someone who leaves me for 2 hours a day, can't eat pizza except for special occasions, and are too into their body. I just need someone who isn't fat and who wants to be reasonable healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:26 AM
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Dad bods are more functional to cuddle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:59 AM
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Hope you find something good! I've been to a few of those countries. As far as I know you're white collar? Do you think about working remote for a month while hopping around to see what you like best?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:46 AM
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Yeah, that's what I mean. I'm western Asian and I stand out to them. So anyone who is not Asian Asian has some sort of foreignness or exotic power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:45 AM
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Anything not Asian Asian is new to them. I look really bizarre in Asia and I got stared at like every minute when I was walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:22 AM
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Which country specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:18 AM
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Lana is probably used to men putting up with this. If he's getting the goods, he might be annoyed, but I can see him staying. She's leaving anyway. I'd just ride the ride if I was Alan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:35 AM
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😞 Constantly playing hard to get. I can see why you get so many female simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:26 AM
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I wish. 😞 Your identity is so private. I don't even know your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:23 AM
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I'm confused how this is morbid. I respect the vigor and ambition to go through med school and residency, but frankly, someone who fails more than twice should not continue with being a doctor. I've had a doctor make a mistake before and it can be life threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:22 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uo31zt/comment/i8dx419/?context=999
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:17 AM
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Men get even more mad when women have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:10 AM
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He's lizard brained enough to post people's direct Facebook accounts, and he keeps writing about how he's balding. You do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:50 AM
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You asked. Don't shame me 😞👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:44 AM
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Found it! /u/Danielcraigboston1 https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q92t67/rate_the_attractiveness_of_each_woman_look_down/ It is him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:41 AM
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The user is a guy. I suspect he posts pictures of women he knows in real life who have rejected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:31 AM
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Does anyone remember that one dude who posted an older, overweight Latina or Indian woman like 10x over? Pretty sure that's /u/SantarpiosPizza. He blocked me when I asked him if that was him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:16 AM
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But even grocery stores, churches, and downtowns aren't safe. Can't board your kid up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:50 AM
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18 kids???? Jesus fucking Christ. I can't imagine what it feels like for a parent. You raise your kid up to be protected in every direction, and then this happens. A mass murderer like that deserves to be kept alive and pulled limb from limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:39 AM
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You're painting a picture based on the narrative you want to see, but it's not quite a real picture. It's just a hate boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:15 PM
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Take it easy! Have you considered escalating to your original workout per week?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah it's a huge part of why I believe in lookism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:53 PM
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You're cucking them with anticipation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:38 PM
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I used to get called creepy when I was ugly and awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:31 PM
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Is this pre Disney trip? Better not be in lieu of it. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:30 PM
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I think the nature of this practice will help push our capabilities further. I don't see this as a test to be aced. More like something to learn and grow from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:41 PM
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Our kitten is only a few weeks old, so sometimes when a kitten is separated young, they use other cats as surrogate mothers. So our kitten sucks on our cat's teet, and we heard him purring while the kitten was doing it. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:18 PM
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I think it's a good thing. It's practice in terms of patience for us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:13 PM
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He told me he wanted to get a kitten a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:57 PM
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While I was coming home in the car with my boyfriend from a party last week, he kept repeating that we had to "come home to see the baby." I realized then that he got a kitten as a test for our parenting skills. He explicitly stated this the other day after I lost my patience and yelled at the kitty for biting a cable. Definitely makes me realize I need to adjust. I had a cat before I met him, and this cat grew up to be a femboy. He lets the kitten suck his teet, is scared of everything, and nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:51 PM
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I thought you were half Hispanic half White
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:31 PM
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TIL you're black.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:19 PM
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Attention. And men fall for it. I've seen girls make out "for fun" in front of boys, and to my knowledge they don't actually go on dates with women. I've also seen women "confess" in front of men, that they're bicurious, but have never done anything about it. A woman is only truly bisexual if she's willing to have sex and wine and dine another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:18 PM
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I sent you the name of it a while ago!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:32 PM
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To them, wanting sex "soon" is the red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:32 PM
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I think the general female population has bits and pieces of FDS ideas out there already, before FDS was a thing. It's the "men are trash" and "know your worth" lingo that tells you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:12 PM
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Couple hundred. It's representative of the single post-undergrad normal women in LA. So this means they're more likely to be bitter and with baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:11 PM
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This will be hard. Not many people are that nice and aware all the time, every day. People are naturally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:06 PM
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Small world. Are you going to let him know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:04 PM
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Q4ALL: Is dinner at a man's place as a second date a red flag? I'm in an all-girls group chat with random people in my city, and a girl asked this because she ran into this situation. The responses were very FDS and 80% of girls said it was a red flag. A 30-something year old said she had a 90 day rule for sex. One even joked about how he was likely a serial killer. The other 20% of responses I agreed with, which was advising her to do what she is most comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:50 PM
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r/UNBGBBIIVCHIDCTIICBG
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:43 PM
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I saw this too. I blame the simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:22 PM
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Didn't you just write paragraphs yesterday about how you wanted to tailor your own future girlfriend to be who you wanted her to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:09 PM
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/r/relationship_advice announced they won't allow partner count posts. Where will people practice their creative writing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:49 PM
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Nope. I've heard locker room talk. I've been criticized about my body at least once a year unsolicitedly from a man. Every woman I know has been criticized about their body. I'd honestly say it's something like half of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:27 PM
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There's tons of men who are Stacysexual. Lots of men will be "satisfied" with a 5-8/10, but still have the capability of being bothered that they can't just go to build-a-bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:22 PM
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You're 16 years old... get out of here while you still can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:57 AM
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Sorry to hear that. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:56 AM
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Why are you sad? Journaling, watching a nice movie, listening to music all help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:41 AM
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A sigma wouldn't care if someone thought they were gay or not. Just wear a rainbow dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:15 PM
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Edited hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:53 PM
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/u/343_peaches_and_tea is from the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:46 PM
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It's a need in a relationship. We pay for a lot of people's well being. Part of your income goes to paying for some random welfare mom. Wouldn't you rather $50 out of your paycheck go out to support birth control than $10,000?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:25 AM
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Don't lie. You were looking at /r/juicyasians
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:06 PM
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But the thing that differs a romantic relationship from a friendship is physical attraction, physical touch, sex, and mutual romantic care. He essentially used her as a betabucks. I understand the pressure to not be shallow. I've succumbed to it before. But I expect OP's boyfriend to break it off sooner or grow his emotional attraction. Instead be just denigrated her body further because he couldn't get a boner. That's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:02 PM
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People being verbal about their preferences will always be a debate. I've seen people villainized for sugarcoating/not being "honest" and I've also seen people villainized for being honest. Beyond that, no one should date anyone they're not attracted to. I don't blame OP's boyfriend's standards. I do not fit his standards either. I blame OP's boyfriend for leading her on and wasting some of her most important years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:51 PM
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You once said that 99% of men settle. In which case, from that perspective, what is the benefit for a woman to even try if she's getting settled for? Consider OP in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:31 PM
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Which doesn't reflect reality. But it does... at least for me and a decent number of women. Yes, obviously not all suffering happens when women make the first move. This is just another way of filtering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:27 PM
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It's the assumption. I understand that, but approaching is definitely a way to get into that situation easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:14 PM
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I said "pickme" because women keep a relationship going on longer when the man doesn't desire her. OP may or may or have been a pickme. Also, our definitions of what a pickme is sounds different. She said that her boyfriend prefers taller women. She can only do that with $100k surgery. Even then, it's not okay to ask your partner to change when you've already accepted them as they are. Not sure what the female ego has to do with anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:13 PM
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BF of 2.5 years told me he’s never been physically attracted to me At least a few times a week if I dip into the relationship and dating subreddits, I'll find a post about how someone isn't attracted to their partner. When it's a man not being attracted to a woman though, I think it just reaffirms my belief that women shouldn't approach without any obvious signs and that women shouldn't be pickmes. I feel bad for OP, because she wasted so much time and emotion on something that would have been s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:55 PM
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I think the US should not treat healthcare like a business in the first place. Doctors should make the same amount they're making, but medical school, medicine, and procedures should not cost so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:37 PM
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This sounds like it's coming from a low libido perspective. We are all ultimately animals. I do agree sex is a desire and not a need, but sex is one of the most important things when you don't have it, and one of the least important things when you can get it. Also, birth control being accessible and free for everyone works on a fiscally conservative level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:25 PM
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I don't doubt this, but the reverse happens too where men are attracted to women that have dogshit personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:26 AM
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almost wins Pick one. There's millions of people his state alone. There's bound to be a number of dumb, desperate, or naive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:17 AM
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The incels are her soap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:49 AM
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Q4ALL: What is the worst romance movie you've seen? For me, it will have to always be "Something Borrowed."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:18 AM
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Cutie 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:04 AM
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It sounds like mutual hypergamy. Kids tell the truth and that kid thought she was "so pretty." Also, women who work in competitive parts of fashion are typically pretty or at the very minimum, elegant looking. In the most extreme sense of traditional roles, a beautiful, young woman is the same as a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:15 AM
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Damn his wife must feel cucked by the daughter. I think the kid was the asshole, but since the kid doesn't know any better, I'll say the dad. The wife was 100% fair to feel hurt, although I will say that the wife was too insecure before. If she didn't have examples of how the other ladies looked down on her, she was probably projecting. Madison sounds like she's very pretty while his wife sounds more like the everyday type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:55 AM
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My cats when I open up a tin can: 👁👄👁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:33 AM
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You're pretty polite and cordial. I've never seen you make a personal attack against anyone. I can see this being beneficial with the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:55 AM
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Congratulations!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:19 AM
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I agree with her. I like you, but I'd like to see you push yourself even further! It's not good to stay in incel mode. I can see you falling in love with the right girl if you continue upward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:12 AM
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Sorry Chibs :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:07 AM
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It depends on the week. Sometimes everything I write is indiscriminately being downvoted. I'm certain that someone here dislikes me enough to downvote all of my comments that are even slightly negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:42 AM
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You're barking up the wrong tree. Tell that to your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:12 AM
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Don't have the source pictures. I found it on another subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:45 PM
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It's worth it to go once or twice, just to see. I've never had a therapist click with me, and my communication style doesn't work well with a therapist, so it did not work for me but it's valuable to at least have a checkmark beside it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:52 PM
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I kind of see what you mean about Doja Cat, but I still I think she stays between a 5-6/10 with for me with or without makeup. Her hugest influence on her appearance is her hair and false lashes. She doesn't have the bone structure for short hair/hair tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:50 PM
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Monica Bellucci fused with Megan Fox is the type of woman who could steal your man, steal your man's bros, and then steal your man's dad. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:40 PM
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Therapy helps 80% of people. You're already ahead of others by going in the first place, but I admit it won't help everybody and it didn't help me. I'm moreso disappointed in people who reject any sort of means to improve internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:21 PM
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The only girl closest I've seen go from "2 to 8" is TikTok's toothless princess, and that's because she pops half her jaw in. Makeup is meant as an enhancer, for a slightly more youthful, sexy, or glossier look. It's not a whole mask. FaceTune + makeup + angles + lighting is another story, but that type of beauty privilege doesn't translate in real life. Some men don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:15 PM
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Some people use incel and incelly interchangeably. I would never date someone who was too incelly. They'd have feelings of inadequacy that could never be solved by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:10 AM
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I think thigh gaps look really feminine, but they're not attainable for all women. You have to be the right BMI and body type. I've never been able to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:47 PM
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You're back and this is all you have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:20 PM
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Yes, you already wrote that below.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:18 PM
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Then why didn't you include that? Seems like you took the parts of a story you liked that would make men of PPD feel good, some of whom, just based on statistics, aren't tall or fit. There's always some form of balance with any relationship, so their relationship isn't particularly surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:17 PM
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You said yourself he's attractive. Most men are aging the same as women, so as long as he stays attractive, he has more of an advantage. Youthful beauty > beauty > youth If she says that experience in life and sex is what attracts her, it sounds like she's also trying to appease people. She didn't mention his looks, which probably means money is just one of the influences. I would be really surprised if he wasn't wining and dining her, even if he wasn't a BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:09 PM
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I feel 100% better. Yay. 🥳 Glad to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:56 AM
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Thanks. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:55 AM
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RIP camas.github.io
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:06 AM
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I wonder if he's just fapped to her so regularly that he's married in his mind, so he's defending wifey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:25 PM
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She claimed he wanted to be her son-in-law, but yeah that's for sure on the lower end of sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:57 PM
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What is suspicious? What was the first strike. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:55 PM
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"Wow! She even has paintings of skulls and corpses, instead of stupid bikini thirst traps. She's so talented."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:39 PM
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My mom texted me today about how she shows her coworkers my pictures sometimes, which is something I didn't know. She's blue collar and works as a waitress, and said the 37 year old restaurant manager offered to fly me out, pay me $3,000 per month, with no need to find a job. I didn't realize my mom was inadvertently pimping me out. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:37 PM
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Sure, that happens too sometimes. If we assume that more women want relationships than men (like in the thread) though, it's a man's responsibility to be honest about his intentions to himself and to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:14 PM
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What's it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:07 PM
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It's frustrating and damn near useless to debate with someone who is so sexist that they are unable to see you as an individual. To them, you are not a person. You are simply the embodiment of everything that makes them angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:04 PM
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I hope the term "youth digger" becomes more popular. Men underestimate how selfish other men can be. Yes, the top 5% man who fucks downward is a thing, but situationships with a dude who is simply emotionally retarded are very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:00 PM
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Price it. What's her username?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:39 AM
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Enjoy the ride, but keep your heart protected! Don't worry about these details yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:09 AM
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Maybe you're with child. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:44 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure Scarlett Johansson does not give a fuck that some random dude on some obscure forum is saying she's hitting the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:14 AM
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There's not really a solution though. Society shames people for being shallow and vain, ironically, even though looks is a multiplier for so many things career, social life, and love life. People sometimes learn the truth when it's too late for them to turn back. I truly believe looks matters, as does everything else. But when I just say the first part, I get accused of encouraging blackpillers or I get accused of being shallow. I think the worst is when I said I wouldn't date someone I deemed u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:11 AM
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Didn't you say you wanted to kill a hooker once?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:15 PM
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It's definitely only sexy if their acts are more heroic than the pain they inflicted on another person. Dude who beat someone up over a funny look at a bar? Trashy and not even FWB worthy. Dude who beat someone up to protect their kids from being beaten up? Daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:48 PM
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No one is going to be everyone's taste. My taste does not include a napoleon complex nor does it include a man who enjoys fighting, but that's irrelevant since my personality is probably not your taste either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:33 PM
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Oh, my God, that's disgusting! Naked pics online? Where? Who posted those?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:05 AM
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Freddie Prince Jr. The 90s quintessential Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:10 AM
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I was actually thinking of horny SJWs rather than femcels. It aligns with the most far right women I know who will fuck white MAGA supporters. My boyfriend is moderate leaning right. He published a few papers that were clearly right leaning in his college newspaper, and he said the most SJW chicks would hit on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:24 PM
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The irony is that far right women will bend over backwards for hot Republican men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:46 PM
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Yes, they do it because it's what men want. That's how I felt when I was younger, and still to this day it's part of why I'm on the pill for my boyfriend. A condom versus no condom feels the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:41 PM
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hAvInG sEx WiTh A cOnDoM iS lIkE a RaInCoAt In ThE sHoWeR
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:54 PM
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Is this the start of abortion week... one of my least favorite weeks to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:31 AM
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Noooo... it hits too many notes. I'm so surprised it's not a larper. On another note: 11 days ago she wrote a post titled "I think I might just hate men?" so it seems like she's either unhappy with her boyfriend or she an insane amount of baggage that her BB boyfriend will need to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:29 AM
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TFW your opinions always depend on whether you get rejected that week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:16 PM
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This happens like every week. "Look guys, [this gender] thinks [insert person here] looks average. They're so entitled!" Typically, it's West Elm Caleb, Emma Watson, Joseph Gordon Levitt, Zendaya... Everyone has different tastes. It's not really a good way to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:55 PM
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BMI is weight distribution, which matters a lot more than a number. A woman who is 5'10 and 150 pounds is not the same as a woman who is 5'2 and 150 pounds. You appear to be twisting statistics. You're also going into the assumption that all of these obese people are dating. They're not, because only half of the adult Western world is currently married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:43 PM
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He claims they're unattractive. I have no idea what they look like. My theory is that this dude is hovering between a 5-6/10. Right in the range of men who are good looking enough to go out and have women engage in conversation, but utterly fucked if he is weird, creepy, awkward, etc. He's whiney enough to post threads like this several times a week, so I'm betting his RMV and game are drastically low. In which case, an unattractive woman with normal social skills IS in his league. His observati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:39 PM
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I don't understand how this applies. There are more fat men than fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:30 PM
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Re: Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. Just another thread where OP is clearly jerking himself off in front of everybody in PPD because he's still angry about the unattractive chicks who have rejected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:46 PM
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Sounds like you have baggage to work through if you entirely hate an entire demographic to the point of discriminating behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:50 PM
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That's sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:37 PM
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In the United States, there were 3.6 million babies born last year. 300k babies being born to the wrong dad sounds really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:34 PM
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He's not temp banned. Usually when I message him, he answers back the same day, but this time he hasn't so it's probably life-related things. Hopefully he's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:09 PM
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It's a bit of a vicious cycle perpetuated by men and women. The idea of makeup is meant to embellish features, reduce flaws, and display signs of youthfulness. Men and society want women to look youthful and put together, so it drives this desire for women to want to wear makeup. In places like metropolitan areas of Japan, it can be "embarrassing" for you to NOT wear makeup. If you have baggage about makeup, ideally you prefer a woman who wears little to no makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:57 PM
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You seemed to only list sociological rationality, and only in particular societies or with specific people does this genuinely work. I think what bothers me is that he says that this "should" be a thing, not "can" be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:02 AM
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fresh&fit being absolute clowns His rationality always hinges on bIoLoGy and NaTuRe, but only at the convenience of his selfishness. The only way he could have multiple non-cheating girlfriends in a moral way, is if he was polyamorous, muslim, or dated way below his league (not that he is super attractive to begin with). He loves hot club bitches though, and those women are rarely down for his particular arrangement. It's crazy to see how many people agree with him in his actual YouTube video.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:17 AM
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Simple Plan "I'm Just A Kid"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:38 PM
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I like how much you simp for your wife. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:12 PM
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One of the silliest things I see is when a single person says something to the tune of "Well, people in relationships are almost always unhappy and they probably have so many problems. No need to be jealous." It's guaranteed a negative, bitter way to feel better about themselves, and it's the theme of thousands of threads in /r/datingoverthirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:27 PM
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Stardust
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:19 PM
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LEARN TO SWIM LEARN TO SWIM LEARN TO SWIM
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:30 PM
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I am aware. I'm pointing out that you're making accusations based on mixed, muddy data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:22 PM
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But how are you guessing all of that when this data includes men? And men are the majority of PPD? The first 4/5 are male-oriented and indicative that the subreddits are not evenly distributed by male or female PPD subscribers. Over half of the women here appear to be in a relationship or married. We have pretty much every stereotype of a man and woman in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:19 PM
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Black and textured 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:49 PM
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No one's ever told me their dick size before on PPD. 😞 How does it feel to be a Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:37 PM
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I interpreted it as "I know I'm high maintenance, but please pick me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:40 PM
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Her profile is full of red flags. There are several things I would swipe left on. She's also average looking. Big tiddies can be attractive and popular, but low EQ, big tittied women often overestimate their SMV because of the attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:27 PM
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That's what I thought of too. It's definitely a feedback loop. Unless he dates a woman who challenges him and knows how to tame him, which would take a special once in a lifetime sort of woman who only fits him, he will stay the same. I feel bad because he has a reason to feel commitment issues. His mom sounded awful and abusive. But it's certainly a woman hurt men who hurt women who hurt men who hurt women sort of thing. The cycle is hard to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:21 PM
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I've seen a self proclaimed femcel here before, but I think people drove her out. I'm wondering if anyone else remembers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:23 PM
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Man bases his value on dateability, then proceeds to put women down for his projections of their lack of dateability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:13 PM
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What's it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:11 PM
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I had dinner with my friend who I hadn't seen in a while yesterday, and damn this boy is for sure contributing to the population of FDS. He is generally cute, makes 6 figures, former frat boy, etc. He dates women who are anywhere between 22-35 years old. They tell him that they're looking for a future, so he just nods, smiles, courts them, and breaks up with them within a year. Just long enough to get invested and waste eggs away. He admits he doesn't know what he wants, and he also shady with f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:48 PM
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Show me 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:53 AM
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Do you enjoy meeting people? Do you enjoy going to parties? Do you enjoy breaks? University was not a 10/10 experience for me, but I do not regret it in the slightest. I think fondly of it for the most part, even including the worst times. Keep in mind, getting a bachelors in computer science will give you credibility and also help you reach 6 figures a lot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:36 AM
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While it does not offend me, it is extremely tone deaf. Guaranteed a man wrote this script. I'm glad that there's conversation about it. I usually wear a trench coat when I get home anytime past 10pm, and even then, I have people yelling at me. I'm sure if any woman who was skinny, young, did it every day for a year, with workout clothes in an urban city like she did in the advertisement, she'd end up in a gutter with her half her clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:03 AM
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It's clear skinny redheads with big tits are your weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:55 PM
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I'm sure there are men who like taking care of their woman emotionally, or who will put up with it, but to prefer a woman who is emotionally high maintenance? I haven't seen this yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:14 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:12 PM
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Your friend probably forgot the damage she did. Hopefully your friend group remains content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:02 PM
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Yeah, she pulled a bitch move on me and so I wrote a text outlining what I'd been feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:01 PM
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Sure, the question is not as straightforward as it appears, which is why I asked it. I can't decide between the two myself. It's more realistic that someone is cocky in a way that overcompensates while also having low self esteem, rather than a person who is truly confident. I've met a few women who fit the description of pretty girl who thinks she's average looking, but there's usually baggage tied to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:59 PM
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The implication is that you have to either deal with cockiness and a level of entitlement or deal with baggage and self esteem issues. I don't think most men want to emotionally support a woman in that way, and if you raise children, that might not make for rigid mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:42 PM
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Yeah 😞 Wise words from Seth Rogan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:39 PM
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I mentioned that I broke it off with a long term friend a few weeks ago. Sometimes I miss her, but then I remember all of the crazy bitch shit she would pull and how often she would put me down. She would regularly imply I was the stupider, uglier, and less popular friend, and she would take things out on me when she was feeling especially insecure. She thought herself to be better than most people, and it was extremely cringey, but the cards always unfolded on her and bit her back because she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:28 PM
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/r/suddenlygay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:22 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if you write these stories just to reminisce. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:14 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. Domination, being ravaged, spontaneity is all sexy... The issue is that it conflicts with verbal consent. I think it really only works with a base of a sexual premise, decent EQ, and enthusiastic nonverbal consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:03 PM
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Q4ALL: Would you rather date someone who was attractive, but viewed themselves as more attractive than they actually were? Or would you rather date someone who was attractive, but sincerely thought of themselves as ugly? I assume the ideal is typically in the middle, an attractive person who is realistic and humble, but this is not an option in this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:53 PM
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Men just need a hole to fuck even if she looks like a literal fish. Pink Pill Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:48 PM
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Do mermaids have genitalia? How would they have sex with the minotaur?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:24 PM
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Me too. I went to a monkey jungle once. In the span of one hour, I saw a monkey fight with another and it ended up with a bloody tail, and I saw another monkey steal a woman's purse. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:05 PM
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Every week is Chad week. Chad cucks us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:59 PM
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IMO male/female problems concerning dating, sex, and love work just like economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:36 PM
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He's single handedly driving rape week content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:35 PM
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I don't know man... you could be attending some rallies in Bakersfield and Riverside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:10 AM
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Wait but you actually look like you could be a Trump supporter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:55 AM
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It's okay to bail if your woman isn't giving you the honey. People may get offended if they feel someone's preferences don't fit who they are. I think she took "no fun" personally, but I know you mean "no fun to me" specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:25 PM
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She probably didn't leave because she's clout chasing? Remember that she approached him. I can envision a scenario where she wanted to get in his pants, but lost attraction because he was pushy and lacks game. Either that or she just lacks tact or was too shy to leave a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:19 PM
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This newscaster encapsulates all my thoughts about it. The woman who accused him is an attention whore depreciating the #MeToo movement and brings a bad name to victims. She is a joke, and tried to spin a bad date as rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:08 PM
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Not everyone's going to know how to read people, and some people are hard to read. When a man gets cheated on, I can't blame him. Even if there's small clues, I'd still feel sympathy towards him. I don't think victim blaming is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:05 PM
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Women won't necessarily know when a man is aggressive though. It's a blurry line. People should protect themselves. I do feel bad for rape victims who were intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:52 PM
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I think a lot of people are thinking with a man's brain, so it's a bit detached. What I mean by this is that they: think sex is generally a net positive, as long as nothing traumatic happens typically can't be physically overpowered by anyone of the opposite gender This is what changes things and why consensual sex is complicated. The $5 bill metaphor is really detached. I've been yelled at, insulted, and groped for rejecting a man's advances, and I know some women who have had drinks tossed on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:41 PM
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Welcome back!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:35 PM
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I agree, his wording was poor even if his opinion was not disagreeable. I'll say his punishment was harsher than I expected. I also get manic when I argue so sometimes I go a little too far, and I feel like that's what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:22 PM
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Daily thread: ITS RAPE WEEK. You: * scrounging for gossip on other subreddits *
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:19 PM
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You're right, it is different per woman and different per man. I would encourage anyone who is risk averse or "bad" at social cues to go through the verbal motions. Your concern is fair. Some women do find it romantic to be swept up or dominated, and some men find it unsexy to ask. In the theme of people being so different with their preferences, I would argue that implicit consent is still very necessary between the two parties. This means excitement and enthusiasm from the woman. It can be a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:11 PM
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I think the problem is that some people actually do accidentally rape, in a nonviolent way. It's not to do about looks. I've had men over who I was very physically attracted to who I in theory wanted to sleep with, but didn't actually want to go through with the actions. I simply wanted to get to know them. Consent is important, and you can't skip the words. If you're socially fluid, you will know how to navigate. "Can I kiss you?" "Is this okay?" "Wanna fuck?" "Let's be close" etc are all thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:40 PM
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The thread about rape, and all of the defense it's getting, is proof that a lot of these men are at the bottom 20% of social skills. Flirting is not an open invitation to rape. Wanting to be courted is not an invitation to rape. Wanting initiative is not an invitation to rape. No means no. I am the exact type of woman who does enjoy the tease of push and pull, but every man I've met luckily has the social adequacy to see where the line is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:10 PM
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He said that women who are 7s end up dating a doctor who is a 9, and even though the 9s are only sleeping with her, she takes it in as though that's what she deserves. So it leaves men lonely. This isn't that frequent, but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:10 AM
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I hope you have a beautiful one. 💗
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:01 PM
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You're having a wedding? Oooooh 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:47 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:26 PM
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Probably on date 3, tell them you want to take it slow and that those are your standards. Date 1 and 2, you're still getting to know the person and they don't know if they like you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:19 PM
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If she's a virgin, I'm willing to wait til marriage. This is fair, but damn that's crazy. I can't think of a single characteristic a man could have that would make me wait for sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:40 PM
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I don't like promiscuous men, so I usually cut men off if they come across that way (overly flirty, overly sexual). I'm fine with someone who has had casual sex, but only if it was a small amount. I've only ever met one low partner count woman who hasn't had casual sex who preferred men who did, but she is low libido and has a bunch of other exaggerated male preferences like height and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:51 PM
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Congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:08 PM
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It happens more often after college. I've done it a few times, but instead of the pressure of a date, I just gather that person and the other person to an activity together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:08 PM
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It sounds like you have some anger towards a specific set of women. Everyone is entitled to whatever preferences they have if it's logical and feasible to obtain for themselves. Social skills and social fidelity are important for the long run and will influence your friendships, career, and family. This is what personally attracts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:59 PM
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NEXT. If she can't handle me at my spiciest, she doesn't deserve me at my sweetest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:53 PM
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I do use that word if they're morally sketchy/trash people (ie Skippy). I don't like to assign it to shallow traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:37 PM
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I'm looking at a lot of strawmen. Both of these can be attractive to different women. It's a bit judgemental to say that guy 1 is resoundingly more interesting. Maybe guy 2 is just comfortable with what he's doing right now? Anyway, I'd rather date guy 2, but not because he's popular. Guy 2 sounds more stable and seems to have more of an ability to form deep, lengthy bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:30 PM
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Because no one genuinely wants to think they're inescapably below average. You'll end up with a lot more MGTOW/WGTOW and suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:00 PM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:57 PM
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I suspect that it's a defense mechanism to believe you are above average in a few ways. Most people think they are above average looking, but that is statistically impossible. If they don't think that, they think they're nice, kind, have good morals, etc (or rich, interesting, popular) to compensate for it. This is also statistically impossible. It's hard to gain self awareness for it if it's a nearly a survival tactic to believe you're decent. Skippy the virgin is a perfect example of this. He'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:54 PM
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Woman admits to AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:38 PM
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Okay, sure. I understand that, but again, he describes the crime as "fucked up." A bar fight isn't "fucked up."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:20 PM
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Yes, but they agreed to spend it that way together. In which case, he's still supposed to consult her about it if he sees her as an equal. If I put aside $10,000 for a trip together with my partner, and they've been looking forward to it, we've had discussions, that money is now their consideration unless we break up before the trip. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/dhvxrc/comment/f3sqkyk/?context=3 https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/dhvxrc/comment/f3srwi7/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:18 PM
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You have to dig deeper. OP's friend said he might get 30 years for something "fucked up." This likely means rape, violence, crimes concerning children, etc. While I do think that amount of money is absurd to spend on a wedding, I don't think that it was okay of him to spend that money without her permission. Once they're married, the money is their money, and so she's supposed to be able to have a say or discussion. He writes about how he also stole her ring just to make sure he has everything u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:49 PM
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The incel in me resents guys for raising the standards exponentially for chicks like that. Good for him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:27 PM
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A DNA test when the baby is in the womb is expensive and can run in the thousands. Once you sign the baby's birth certificate, it's legally a lot more difficult to remove your name from the child's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:30 PM
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A reality TV producer: I know what I'll do. I'll gather all these people up, filter only the above average ones, and put them all in one show!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:40 PM
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related gif
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:15 PM
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Yeah, maybe she was trying to sensationalize it. Making a TikTok about how it's important to care for your partner isn't going to get much attention from an account with few numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:51 PM
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It sounds like you agree with her motives, but you just hate the semantics and gift wrapping the message has.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:20 PM
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I'm the same. This might be controversial, but the traits that consist of a HVW are contradictory to a woman with a high partner count. Those traits are likely to include mental stability, classiness, future-oriented, and emotional intelligence. I've never met a Samantha Jones (Sex and the City) type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:52 PM
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This is a good list. Similar to nurturing, but I'd add empathetic, secure, and patient. Any positive motherly traits. Only thing I'd change is that I'd say youthful is more tied to relativity. A loyal, fit 50 year old woman with a husband and kids is still a HVW in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:43 PM
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And that's why you're one of the married ones. 😉 Best case scenario, you don't use whores and you treat your partner well (as she does to you). A scenario others would settle for, someone used whores in the past and treats their partner decently. Nightmare scenario, man treated beautiful whores better than he treated you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:38 PM
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I don't know if I can agree with that. I really only know men around my age, and so I know a few guys who were average or even handsome who used that stuff just because it was easier. I remember at my university, the cutest guy in one my organizations was trying to court me. I was flattered because a lot of girls would gossip often about how cute and tall he was. He was my ethnicity, and taught English in the motherland, so I asked him about his experience. He said the women are beautiful, and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:23 PM
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You're not the type of man I'm talking about if you're investing more time, money, and care in your girlfriend than to a whore. To my knowledge, you don't use escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:16 PM
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You spend money on a more beautiful, easy woman for one night. You spend less money on a woman you love who you're supposed to build a future with. Sounds less logical and less moral. Of course affection isn't measured in money, but dates, gifts, and support all matter, which all costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:10 PM
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Perhaps you're biased, because it looks like it's about everywhere in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:56 PM
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If you pay money women hundreds of dollars for sex, but don't treat your girlfriend out, you are a hypocritical clown. It's a male form of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:55 PM
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past doesn't matter right This isn't something I've ever said. Why do men feel entitled to free sex, therapy, and a woman's youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:46 PM
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Men who have used escorts/OF/strippers in the past, but also insist on doing 50/50 with their partners are clowns. 🤡 I jUsT wAnT tO bE lOvEd FoR wHo I aM
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:38 PM
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Constantly asking for proof can sour the conversation a lot. It comes off as immature and insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:04 PM
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There's a middle ground between that advice, and that's what I'd give. Red pill's advice for women between 20-29 years old is just bad, and it's to benefit them. Your mind is still developing between 20-23 years old. I'm not the same person as I was, and so my decisions won't be the best for myself long-term. I'd also have to date 5-10 years older to find a provider-type (and that's not attractive to me either). Men move in an advantageous way too, and if I'm going to try to find a transactional…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:45 PM
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wow we got an American Austin Powers over here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:19 AM
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What is "it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:16 AM
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This glow up He went from looking like he stays in all day to looking genuinely cute. This is what I mean sometimes when I say some dudes just need to shave their unibrow and fix their teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:15 AM
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Yeah I agree with this. If genuinely terrible people can date, awkwardness, rudeness, and shyness is easily forgivable to many others if the person is good looking. I do think it's all calculated in attraction, though. The autistic cousin probably doesn't always have the best options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:13 AM
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If she wasn't memorable, she wasn't good enough to be a gimpgirl protege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:31 PM
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Casual sex can backfire and make sensitive people feel lonely. You can definitely find something genuine while still protecting your heart!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:29 PM
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I see you post on red pill. Red pill boasts a road to being a HVM, but the irony is that taking the red pill in the wrong way will turn you into an objectively LVM by default: bitter, unpleasant, negative, sexist, weirdly transactional, weirdly sexual, weirdly cocky, etc. I didn't have casual sex, but I did throw men aside after a nice cuddle if I didn't take them seriously. This typically includes men who seem detached, men who seemed like a fuckboy or wannabe fuckboy, men who seemed promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:08 PM
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She stopped posting a little while ago I think from being banned. But yes, she's a female cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:57 PM
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I'm still waiting to see a gimpgirl protege emerge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:40 PM
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Me as a child when I'm trying to describe how sick I am to avoid a day of school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:11 PM
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What you're saying is like telling men not to drive their perfectly fine Ford Mustang to the city. It's not a Lambo in the ghetto. Everything is contextual. I'm not going to wear a sweater every time I'm out without my partner. That suggestion is nearly absurd. Have you even been to Las Vegas?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:47 PM
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I get catcalled in a trench coat, sunglasses, and a mask. This is why the statement "men are trash" has been floating around. Of course wearing skimpier clothes will get more attention. Women should be able to wear what they want with reason... A lot of his videos are also clearly in Las Vegas, where that's the scene. It's like asking women not to wear swimsuits at the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:19 PM
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Ugh I'm sorry. Hopefully you have pepper spray.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:16 PM
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Sometimes it seems like two birds with one stone with these PUAs. He gets attention and he also gets to hit on women. In his original channel, vermin are actually calling him a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:06 PM
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This man is awful. This video alone raised my blood pressure. I experience a low-key version of this every few months where someone follows me/me and my friends and actually asks us for sex or insults us if we don't engage with their obvious request to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:49 PM
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Oh... I did not see that. I still wouldn't say she's a pickme, but yes, she's a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:32 PM
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I don't think she is a pickme if she's pushing back, but I also don't think she should voluntarily stay with someone she resents this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:17 PM
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I really do think people who work the register at grocery stores should be making a livable wage, for example. A STEM college degree or owning a business shouldn't be the baseline to being able to sustain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:08 PM
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The economy is trash. I was born before families could survive off of one single income, but I do miss those supposed days...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:54 PM
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Congratulations to the future! That dress is lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:40 PM
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AutoModerator cucks us all. He/she is Giga Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:37 PM
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She claimed she was a 6/10 on her scale. I've seen women here make a lot more ridiculous claims. You'll get a different answer from everyone. A Stacy to me is a 7/10-8.5/10. Anything past that is a Giga Stacy. Some people will argue a Stacy comes with social skills, certain lifestyle, and prestige too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:34 PM
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I don't think she ever claimed she was a Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:02 PM
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BDE. Big daddy energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:47 PM
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I like you too 🤩💫 why does anyone want to be with anyone higher maintenance than themselves There's sometimes a correlation between maintenance and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:25 PM
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Improve to the point where you have options, and seek the option that fits best for your preferred dynamic. Everyone fits on the range. If you see threads asking about whether a woman should split on a very first date, you'll see women who want a nice dinner to be paid for, women who will split the meal, or women who will pay the whole meal AND ask you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:22 PM
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You are an actual clown if you want to date someone +10 years younger than you or more high maintenance looking than you, and be surprised that you have to spend more money courting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:06 PM
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I think that men don't calculate other labors, and I also think men sometimes choose the wrong women. Producing a child is a lot more valuable than the cost of a car, for example. At the same time, I've seen men resoundingly choose girls who do not actually contribute beyond looking pretty, who just sit there and smile. There are a lot of entitled girls out there, and men allowing them to be entitled. The beauty of it is that there's so many people on earth, so there is possibility to find many …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:56 PM
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Coachella can be really fun if you let it. But yeah, the camping experience was overwhelming for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:44 PM
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Skid row behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:41 PM
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Hey, some consider it a fetish to be paid for. You should feel lucky. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:36 PM
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I've seen that exact experience. I was talking to an acquaintance of mine who was a known fuckboy on a party bus. He says "watch this," and grabs a chick from another dude and she happily sits on his lap. Then she goes back and makes out with the other dude she was originally with, but goes back home with the fuckboy I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:21 PM
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I was wondering if someone else knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:55 PM
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rip to Smurf and Jim
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:26 PM
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Your side of the city isn't amazing for finding a wife. A lot of the women there have Peter Pan syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:14 PM
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me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:00 PM
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Please correct yourself to your wife. Mike is way more of a beta bucks than Gino. Mike's partner has visceral disgust for him, and has dated actual criminals up until him. Gino's partner, for whatever reason, wants to fuck Gino everywhere. I'd argue Jasmine is a good deal for Gino, besides the craziness. Gino is very stupid and unlikeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:50 PM
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Have you considered moving? California is shallow, and everyone is susceptible to the apex fallacy because it looks like "everyone" takes care of themselves. This means that, for you, the women on the left end of where the bell curve starts to increase sometimes have the expectations of the women on the right opposite end of the bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:47 PM
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Me too. I openly admit that I take money into account. You either have to adjust your lifestyle or you have to pay for them to have a subpar version of your lifestyle, and it may lead to resentment. If you make them pay for what you want, that leads to guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:27 PM
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Red pill and FDS open up their definition of a HV person of their gender to please themselves, but restrict what a HV person of the opposite gender is to adjust to their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:10 PM
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Then, in my opinion, they're entitled. People can ask for whatever they want, but it breaches delusion if they can't get it. There is the 1% of women who are capable of saying that they expect to be wined and dined by men as rich and handsome as Henry Cavill, and this would not be entitlement or unfair. I am between traditional and modern. I've already kissed on the first date, probably hooked up by the second date, and offer to plan and pay the third date. I also value showing other forms of ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:59 PM
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PSA: There really are dudes out here who want the privilege of a Stacy with the looks and safe surroundings of a Chad. This is IMPOSSIBLE. The closest you can get is to be a famous handsome man, and even then you are stripped of safety and privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:05 PM
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Yes, because sex is complicated and can hurt people emotionally and physically. This should be obvious. I'd pay $5,000 per person to wipe out someone from my sexual history if I could. These aren't even dudes who raped or beat me, they're just normal dudes I felt I wasted my time with. Women aren't free prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:45 PM
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Have they succeeded in finding men who are willing to do that? If they get what they want and other people give it to them freely, I can't knock it. What they're saying is the equivalent of men who want sex within one date. If they can get it and they do it in a moral way, then by all means, go for it. If they can't, then they're entitled. Personally, I don't think either tactic is preferable to myself and I establish intimacy within the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:34 PM
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you, on the right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:22 PM
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Only a few. I have a full time job so not able to make 99% of gigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:07 PM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:45 PM
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Around $100 depending on a gig, but it's for fun. The entertainment industry is unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:43 PM
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Whatcha eating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:41 PM
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That's sad. I'm sorry you experienced that. :/ I'm not sure if that's a common experience for men, but I can understand why you'd start putting your guard up at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:32 PM
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Q4All: What would you be typecasted as? I do extras acting sometimes. This recent weekend, I looked around at the cast and realized they confined me to the token Asian. Usually I'm just placed as a young adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:12 PM
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MGTOW is this same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:02 PM
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I bought an air fryer a while ago, but it took up too much space and the nonstick aspect faded so I threw it away. I could only really cook fries and fried chicken. I also avoided cooking these because it gave me acne every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:44 PM
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Yes. It's not inherently creepy to come up to someone. A few days ago, someone asked when women begun to get catcalled. Most of the responses said that they started experiencing it between 11-14 years old. We know that most men who come up to us want something from us, and the chances of it being sex are high. That's enough for us to be at least cautious if it's in the wrong environment. I've had debates about whether a particular approach in a video was creepy, and some men for the life of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:39 PM
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It's not that that I'm referring to. It's the whole act of "uwu I'm so lonely, won't someone please fuck me and turn me into your forever?" Sometimes it's marketing. Sometimes it's real. Hard to tell unless they're consistent like aella girl, who clearly wants a relationship but is too mentally ill and narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:26 PM
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Keep in mind it may also be for marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:24 PM
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I looked at your comment history and it sounds like you both are saying different things. The average man is getting consistently laid because the average man is probably married around 30 years old with a few ONS, FWB, and girlfriends under his belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:53 AM
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Men can always produce sperm. Women cannot continue to produce eggs. It's a fact that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:48 AM
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IMO you live in a shallow city so if you pulled that shit on me I'd just expect it and brush it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:40 PM
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Yeah, lol that just sounds like a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:33 PM
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Everyone else already said it. She was frozen in fear. She's taking care of him now. I don't think there's anything she can do now except for continuing to take care of him and listen to his intuition more. She was wearing a skirt. Walking around for longer than 10 minutes anywhere at nighttime, you need some sort of a coat or cardigan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:24 PM
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Curious to hear your logic? I've always felt like polyamorous people are just in need of a lot of attention and validation, but want to be moral about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:20 PM
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Sure, this is where the rational behind their neuroticism is flawed. The fastest I've ever slept with someone was within 2 weeks, which includes both of the people who ended up as my boyfriend. The slowest was 3 months, which was a FWB. That logic would not register to that same narrative they pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:46 PM
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No oral is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:40 PM
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One or two mistakes is fine, though consistency is admirable and ideal. The reality is that the consistent women are already usually taken, so I understand the neuroticism behind it. For example, some of the women here slept with their now-husband/boyfriend on the first date or first few weeks (this includes myself). This behavior is what sounds suitable to them, but it's the jaded women that are single that might not be doing this same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:39 PM
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Disneyland in Anaheim is also driving distance from Universal Studios, Legoland, Seaworld, and Six Flags if you're looking to spoil them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:27 PM
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Why am I now just realizing you're a father
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:24 PM
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It's the branding for sure. I only use Tiffany's perfume, and it makes me feel soft and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:25 PM
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This is what confuses me. These responses don't align with the neuroticism of this subreddit so far. It's fair to be worried about being a second choice, but some of these comments from men seem a bit misaligned with the huge obsession of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:07 PM
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I'm not getting that same take. Most of the responses are saying that one date doesn't make someone irreplaceable and it would be insensible to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:52 PM
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Q4ALL: would it have been a turn off for you if you were dating someone, and you found out that you were unintentionally their only option? (ie they swiped on half of people but you were the only one who agreed to go on the date)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:41 PM
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Okay sure, which is why most men and women aim for a family between 25-32 when women are already fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:24 PM
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Yes, you prioritize virginity and youth. Thankfully this isn't all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:12 AM
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Re: TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. He tries to prove his point by saying Ryan Gosling is dating down by dating Eva Mendes. This is your brain on too much red pill. You start viewing women as inferior just because they're older or not a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:49 AM
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None of them have what I'd call a recessed chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:09 AM
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Can someone be a Chad or a Stacy with a recessed chin?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:29 PM
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She sounds like she has anxiety, but her reaction is not normal. I do agree with her that Tinder is overwhelming though. The looser you are with your standards, another bracket of men composed of hundreds to thousands of men are suddenly in your pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:52 PM
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He was lucky to have found you. 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:17 PM
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Sure, love can happen at any age. The naïveté that she has constantly failed, at her own fault, but thinks that things will change at 40 years old and she can find her Prince Charming - that is the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:56 PM
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It hits all the notes so it seems like it's pandering. The person writes like women I've talked to, so I'm inclined to believe it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:37 PM
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Low EQ and selfish. The worst combination to date, and the most susceptible to seeking a beta bucks. Her saying she might find "the one" at 40 years old is a joke. Smart women see bad patterns earlier on and are in tune with what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:33 PM
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I can appreciate another woman. Not everyone is a cis heterosexual male. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:44 PM
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I don't like muscles. If she had no muscles, she's about a 6.5-7/10 to me depending on the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:37 PM
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Sure, by that logic the only stipulations for abortion is if the mother's life is at risk. It takes critical thinking, decision making, and open-mindedness, all of which are related to IQ, to understand why a woman would want the option to abort a rapist's child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:09 PM
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Alabama has an average IQ of 95.7. I don't think they do too much thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:24 PM
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I'm just stating that nearly everyone is always trying to get something above average. yuk and reluctantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:28 PM
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This is part of what marriage is for though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:45 PM
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I think what you're saying is partially true, but I also think that there's a rise in men who have above average standards with a combination of below average social skills and average looks. This will fuck someone over unless they get lucky. There's very few men on this subreddit that have proven to be okay with anyone below a conventional 5/10. I can count 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:35 PM
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The lead singer is Anthony Kiedis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:23 PM
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The details are vague. I believe during their divorce proceedings, but not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:00 PM
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I think the rise of mental illness, social media, the internet, dating apps, etc have all influenced it even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:58 PM
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lmao true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:54 PM
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I saw a Red Hot Chili Peppers show recently, and looked up all members of the band. One of them, John Frusciante, married a mediocre woman during his fame for a few years who divorced him and asked for about $75,000 a month in alimony payment even though they did not have kids together. They settled on about $53,000 a month up until they compromised on a $1.6 million one time payment. This level of divorce rape is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:30 PM
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Yes. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:16 AM
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If he ends up sleeping with a virgin, is he then promoted to a slut status for losing his virginity, which would make him undateable to himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:52 AM
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💗! It was a 3 day ban over a meme about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:51 AM
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Temp banned. Sorry I was away from you for so long 👉👈😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:43 AM
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Oh don't worry I'll make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:46 AM
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Cucked by PPD again, but now I am back. Anyway, mods why did you ban bunny ears for so long? He's actually a wholesome guy and a few days before he was banned, he wrote about how this place gave him comfort. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:09 AM
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No, I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:48 PM
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Thanks, this does seem like it. Now that I'm watching it, it seems like she (and the book) is taking facts and spinning it to pander to women. A lot of this is FDS-lite. The man deficit exists in places like Russia. Not where this girl lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:43 PM
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You calling me gay????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:30 PM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:30 PM
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Am I not woman enough for you???? 💅👑
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:18 PM
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A purge week thread that travelled into time...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:03 PM
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Young, single women do. They can date down in income, but they choose not to. Your point about a population of men being completely undatable as felons is valid though, so it certainly reduces the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:59 PM
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She sounds like a strong, independent woman. Men make more than women and also lean more towards positions of power, so her notion that educated men lack abundance is nearly irrelevant. I have female friends with masters that make half as much as me or my boyfriend. Good looks do not keep a man from approaching. This only applies to women with resting bitch face or women who are incomprehensibly attractive which only accounts for the Adriana Limas and young Megan Foxs of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:41 PM
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It looks like they're trying to explain to you that women CAN be surrounded by these options, in which they're correct. They're not saying that this is the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:52 PM
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OP unironically looking like a Nice Guy™.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:38 PM
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I was sad I missed this fight. You know ya girl loves spectating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:19 PM
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Right. I was on my friend's side. He should have paid 1/7th and the other dudes should have figured out the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:11 PM
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My friend apparently got into a verbal fight with his other friend group. The premise is that he pulled up to dinner with his other friends, who brought along some girls. The ratio is 4 guys and 3 girls, but 2 of the guys are trying to date 2 of the girls. One of the guys trying to get a nut suggested the men take the bill and split it 4 ways between the men. This caused a fight between all involved because some deemed it unfair, and the girls started getting angry saying things like "it's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:03 PM
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/r/sex is a lot more liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:23 PM
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You would be right. A lot of the men I sent pictures to wouldn't send any back, and if they did, it was just their dick which didn't turn me on. Call me a romantic, but I'd rather jerk off to a picture of their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:54 PM
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Purge week seems to have random timing. One time it was on one of the Halloween weekends so I missed out on half of it. Wonder if it just happens whenever Mrs_Degree is feeling frisky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:39 PM
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Yes. This is the right answer. I'd add that ghosting is fine after sex if both parties have accepted it's casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:24 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:21 PM
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NOOO that's so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:44 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:44 PM
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God I hate Instagram culture. I regret ever making one. Went out with a group of girls this weekend, a girl posted the pictures and my face is completely FaceTuned along with the other girls. Found out this morning another girl I've known for years seemed to have a manic episode and unfollowed me as well as half of our mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:29 PM
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No thanks. I don't go out with men who refer to themselves in the third person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:02 PM
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I answered the same as some other women but got downvoted. Looks like I have an enemy in PPD. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:59 PM
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I would say I'm approachable/realistically pretty but nowhere near stunning. When I go out, cute young guys and cute rich older guys approach me. I get invited to VIP, free things, people stare, remember my name, dozens of compliments a week, etc. The way she describes her life seemed even more elevated than mine. I wouldn't be able to get commitment from a male model or meet celebrities like she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:57 PM
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🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:41 PM
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It's harder to tell for the guys since some guys seem to get laid a lot or not at all irrelevant to their looks. It's easier for me to tell for women by the way they describe their lifestyle, since a woman's looks are tiered and their lifestyle rides on that tier. I could tell ladyofblades who used to post was very pretty (probably a 7.5-8 on my scale), though I'd never seen her before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:39 PM
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I've often found that people who talk about their sexual abilities in big words and expressions at first are the ones who are the worst at sex. Sounds like she tried to reel him in and put her pussy forward instead of her best foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:03 PM
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I used to get annoyed by how much he would spam about being short and bald, but it's starting to grow on me. It's a refreshing change knowing he's out here working it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:50 PM
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I agree she's not as attractive as he is, and way less attractive than the current actor's wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:45 PM
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The protagonists romantic relationship is underwhelming and lacks complete substance. They try really hard to play it up as passion it feels like pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:38 PM
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Being lesbian doesn't remove you from harm? Even being overweight doesn't remove you from harm. Getting catcalled is uncomfortable enough. I know plenty of women who have been raped. The scariest is when friends talk about being followed or grabbed. I've been followed before but fortunately I have a RBF, so it doesn't happen often. Is this what you call empathy for the other gender? I understand that men have other reasons to be concerned for their safety, but it's in my experience that women le…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:32 PM
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"blowout"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:18 PM
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Gossip Girl era Michelle Trachtenberg is my subjective 9.9/10. She looks so devious and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:06 PM
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Sure, though the second SMP/RMP is influenced by kids and differing looks (you have 40 year old women who look like MILFs and you have 40 year old women who look like Honey Boo Boo's mother) so the market is a little more complex in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:03 PM
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Here are the demographics of PPD. Seems like majority men. Hard to tell who is who though. It'd be nice to see a distribution of gender and ideology, but not sure how that would look on a graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:45 PM
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I agree the friend was reckless. I just forgot she existed. I think everything can be blamed on them being young. Their friend is horny, he's horny, they got too drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:34 PM
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A lot of them lurk and don't post. I get a lot of upvotes on pro-women comments, but more engagement on pro-men comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:17 PM
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I think part of the problem when dating in between 28-35 years old is that it feels sort of like the last dance at prom. You have the couples that are swaying side by side nestled by each other, you have the people who purposefully went stag supported by their friends, you have couples who are already up at their hotel room or parent's house, and then you have the people who are just the last ones there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:15 PM
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It doesn't work reversed because most men don't have a fear of getting raped in the middle of the night. This should be obvious. You also don't seem to know frat culture very well. They're "supposed" to be gentlemanly, especially if this is a sister sorority. He doesn't owe them a favor, but it almost comes off as petty and mean to leave them like that. Like "hah, you didn't sleep with me so now I won't give you any safety."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:57 PM
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I understand why you'd be concerned and genuine people don't deserve to get used, but it also filters out people who you'd view as worthwhile. I'm not sure what you prioritize in women, but esteem is important for me from myself and for my partner. It's nice to know that I make 6 figures alongside my partner, but I wouldn't have dated him if I felt feel he couldn't contribute as well. I'm aware of the dynamics that play into my gender, and I wouldn't have higher expectations if I didn't work as …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:50 PM
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My taste in women is sort of white collar. I prefer svelte women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:32 PM
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I see you like your women thick. She's about a 6/10 to me, but she's not my taste. If she lost weight, grew her hair, and changed her makeup she would be a 7/10 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:19 PM
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Wouldn't a dating service not accurately know what your type is and how to write like you do? Also, you mentioned you do really simple dates sometimes like drinks. Have you considered putting in more effort into your dates? If you're aiming for someone you perceive to be Stacy-lite or Stacy, you may need more than just drinks to pursuade her. Beyond that, it just opens up the door for other women. I realize it's controversial, but I filtered dates out if they proposed drinks, snacks, smoothies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:16 PM
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Women should be able to have dreams too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:11 PM
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Didn't you post a bunch of news articles the other week about women committing suicide to shovel your idea that women lose worth when they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:02 PM
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Stop insulting him! You're going to turn him on too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:00 PM
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Q4ALL: How many men would you estimate would date a woman regardless of her interests, hobbies, personalities, values, intelligence, and career (a woman who is offers the basic needs like looks, manners, and sex) vs how many men are picky about these things? What would you say the ratio is? Or is it more of a scale, and could you describe this scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:23 PM
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That's the grief for women. Men like you do not empathize with women's experience because they absolutely refuse to. I knew you were going to say something like that, as they always do. Women don't want to be treated like used socks. You're proving me right by whining about it right now. Personally, I think both men and women have dating woes and all of them are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:03 PM
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The answer to that is obviously different experiences. A lot of men have trouble empathizing with women's. Whenever I ask or see another woman ask something along the lines of "why do women want to be attractive" or "how does a woman vet," only 10% of men REALLY get the answer right. The only reason I understand the man's experience is because I used to be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:39 PM
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Given that they're both average height, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:33 PM
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/r/twoxchromosomes is celebrating international transgender day for the trans women in the subreddit. The irony is palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:09 PM
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Counting the days for her arrival? Simp...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:40 PM
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I see your point, and I agree that we're too influenced by thinking bigger is better. It's not necessarily better, but it does make someone "appear" better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:27 PM
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I go on that subreddit because it has funny memes, not because I fetishize a large one. Can't speak for the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:31 PM
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Rip to her when he finds out about her history. I don't know very many men who would be okay with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:30 PM
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Just means purple. Do you use an iPhone? Not sure how the emoji appears on other devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:29 PM
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BigDickProblems are flooded with women Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:21 PM
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Right. People will tell you what you are to fit their agenda. I have been called very contradictory things: an incel, a red pill man, a RPW, a pickme, a bloop, FDSer, femcel. My flair is right fucking there...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:20 PM
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Q4ALL: in your opinion, does someone's sexual ability (including size) relate to leagues and RMV? I guess your options are more limited if you're awful at sex. There's also the trope that ugly men get with hot women because of money or a huge dick. At the same time, it's something flexible, not as obvious, and subjective. Sexual chemistry is of course necessary, but that's not the same as being good in bed. I don't know what I'd answer given this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:06 PM
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moderate/purple
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:23 PM
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Give the raccoon a low n count woman with a cute face. He'll leave you alone for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:07 PM
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I think my point is that the best one can commit to may very well be their equal, given that the man has put in decent effort to date. I've met couples that I misjudged in the past where I thought the man was both better looking and made 2-15x more money. After getting to know them, I realize the woman typically offers more in the personality area or the man is at a detriment with his personality. Some of the guys I thought were my physical equal, I rejected them and they ended up dating a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:02 PM
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Oh wow how encouraging. A woman who was used to spreading her legs early finally meeting a beta bux who is committed to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:47 PM
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Single moms have to deal with a lot, so I'm not sure why men think adding onto the air of automatic rejection does anything. I understand there is a specific stereotype that men are disgusted by - the lazy single mom who thinks she deserves a king to pay for her kids. The reality is that some single moms were cheated on, widowed, betrayed, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:30 PM
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I'd consider their girlfriends below them in RMV. Why do you believe this to be so? They've defined themselves as roughly equal RMV if they're in a relationship. Men who have options will choose the "best" of their options, and that option will choose the "best" of their options. To be honest, I'm not quite sure if I trust your assessment. You seem like a polite person so I'm not trying to knock you down, but you also put women down a notch. I remember you described yourself as 6/6/6, but said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:27 PM
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The cringiest is when the men have no money. I've never swiped so fast to the left than when I see a man who is +20 years older with a job lower in title and salary than mine. Millions of dollars would needs to compensate for their baggage, saggy body, and limp dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:58 PM
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Hello???? Is anyone going to call him out for Stacy chasing??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:14 PM
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Jannies when someone controversial comes back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:13 PM
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I'm not so brave 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:59 PM
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Does he get react much during scary movies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:55 PM
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No. I love him as he is and find it endearing. I do think stoic men can be attractive for their own reasons though of course. Partially because I'm like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:17 PM
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Well, I agree with this. A nice jawline and eyes always shines in photos. Most people are a 4-6 in their 20s though, so I'd encourage most people to put effort in their photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:16 PM
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Living up to your username. I'd say that's a blurry line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:01 PM
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I am stoic while my boyfriend is very expressive. He had tooth surgery, so his mouth is numb. When he came home, he laughed at my joke but it looked like a small stiff, stoic grin. Savoring this difference for the next 2-3 hours. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:57 PM
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Which one is that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:50 PM
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Our brains still develop drastically until our mid 20s. It's why I discourage marriage between a young woman and a young man too. I don't think I really started to feel like an adult until 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:35 PM
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Right... because an attractive man is an attractive man. And we don't know what the fuck we're doing up until mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:17 PM
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Listening to Taylor Swift during work, and "Dear John" perfectly exemplifies what's wrong with relationships involving very young women and older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:12 PM
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Re: Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped? I think situationships happen a LOT more. Men like consistent, reliable sex, and women get attached after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:20 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Controversial_Reddit_communities Some less controversial than others. Subreddits like cringeanarchy, the_donald, and mgtow were fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:34 PM
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Yeah. I guess I'd consider that still purple pilled, but the definition is fuzzy between each pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:32 PM
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Who were you before? Also, yes, I agree with you. I'm salty that there was a time when subreddits like cutefemalecorpses and jailbait was a thing, and it's so different now. Peak Reddit was when those particular subreddits were banned, but you could still generally say what you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:28 PM
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Sure. I guess I could see that, and in that way I am a little black/pink pilled. I thought you meant you believe in the defeatist aspects of the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:26 PM
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Why are you black pill? We've seen what you look like and we know you're 19 years old. You might end up fucking yourself over if you believe in some of the things black pillers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:17 PM
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Resident horny girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:03 PM
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Liberals and conservatives experience empathy differently I can believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:54 PM
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CNN admitted they filtered their content to "help" BLM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:50 PM
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I feel bad that she got cheated on. I will say though, reading through this, I think she's a lot less attractive than she thinks she is. Some people in their 20s can get away with no makeup, eating pizza all day long, and they end up in their 30s looking like the average overweight NPC that you'll see around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:43 PM
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Who are you on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:40 PM
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I'm on the discord right now and there aren't many people I recognize. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:31 PM
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You missed the photo thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:19 PM
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They don't even conform to their own rating system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:03 PM
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No. 5'11 is within my ideal height preference range. 5'4 and under starts getting a little too short for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:37 PM
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I was going to say... there's no way one woman has all that hair. My ponytail has never successfully looked even 1/3rd as thick as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:35 PM
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Catcalling is just a term for unsolicited sexual verbal attention. I would get catcalled in a thick trench coat, sunglasses, and a mask. It's not really flattering, and frankly just a part of the female experience in an urban city.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:04 AM
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People don't compare sex partners like it's some sort of list rating, but I understand the neuroticism behind it. It would be an absolute dealbreaker if I found out my partner treated a partner better than he treated me. Especially so if I found out she was more beautiful than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:00 AM
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I'm curious, if you want you can show me! Why are you wondering if he's too good for you though? If he's engaged to you, he must see the same value in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:59 AM
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Exactly like me. I'm her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:37 AM
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You know what you gotta do... Line up another bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:26 AM
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My brain can't register reading about your kinky sex life and also having met your husband, who is actually quite polite and easygoing in real life. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:25 AM
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BBLs are deadly and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:46 PM
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Or the stupid picture posts with a link, tagging random people on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:50 AM
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It's all the free dinners. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:22 AM
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I'm the one in the first picture with the fupa in the front row.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:21 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. The memories you had of her will always be with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:21 AM
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Amazing. At 8AM I wake up without needing any makeup. I have a Chad boyfriend, but am greeted with 5-10 messages from simps every morning. I show the texts to him before we start the day, and we both laugh right before he fucks me with his 8 inch dick. When I go to work, I have a checkin with my boss, who gave me the job because I'm hot even though I don't know how to code. Leetcode and technical interviews are for ugly people. During work, I make a nice yogurt parfait for lunch, and check on In…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:18 AM
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I'm in STEM. I don't agree with meeting quotas, but yes, women do have an advantage if they want to be in certain fields. This is also another subject beyond what I was mentioning. Dude is just looking for things to rant about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:31 AM
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Apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:21 AM
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The irony of saying you wouldn't reject a girl who didn't take care of herself if she was cute...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:12 AM
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Who are you referring to? Every woman here seems to be dating a mix of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:00 AM
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Above average men will have sex with below average women. That's about it. Look at the comments below in the daily chat thread. Men are talking about how they wish they were women so they could just date a man who makes the money. It doesn't work that way, and that's borderline idiotic. You're approaching different topics in the other part of your comment. I believe in leagues, which is part of why I think it's idiotic when men here who don't even know how to groom think being a woman will just …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:52 AM
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There's women on here who say they love chubby men and short men. Somehow all these dudes are whining. What of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:47 AM
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This is not how it works... These responses make it sound like half the world (women) is living in some fantasy world where really nice things are immediately given to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:44 AM
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If you don't know how to dress, diet, and groom as a woman, you would NOT get a man who was anything even a little above average. Some of the men on here apparently want to date a partner who would bring in the bread. You'll have some physically and personality preferences too, which would filter a portion of men. Even if this is as simple as a man who is faithful, a third of your pool is cut out. Women don't just exist and somehow have a line of cute men waiting to pay for a house for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:42 AM
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Men out here thinking they'd do so well as a woman, but don't even know how to dress or get a decent haircut as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:45 AM
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"Cute" at first. "Beautiful" when they get to know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:41 AM
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Yeah that would be tough. To my knowledge, Sacramento only has one or two prime nightlife areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:40 AM
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Oh no. ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:50 AM
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Los Angeles is ironically too small if you go out. Ran into someone I dated on and off for about a year. Talked to him for a few minutes and my chest hurt afterwards. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:13 AM
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Sure. I think a good portion of the women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:25 AM
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8 or 9 is model tier or Hollywood actress level tier to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:11 AM
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Then what is a Stacy to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:09 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:08 AM
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There were no guidelines. There was a picture of a girl and it looked like she used a filter on top of a filter along with jpeg quality, and IMO that should have been disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:08 AM
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White satin shirt. Looks like she's in a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:05 AM
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The blond girl with makeup was a Stacy-lite minimum, maybe a Stacy if there were body pictures, to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:00 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:44 AM
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Damn. It looks like almost every girl posted in the discord was someone's favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:40 AM
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M- thought so too. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:34 AM
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quabbicoo is a hotty, but you don't need to neg the other ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:32 AM
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Wow they're getting real strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:12 AM
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But most if not half the world get married. This includes billionaires, famous actors, legendary rockstars, and more. Are you saying they're all simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:28 AM
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You don't think spending thousands of dollars on a gem, kneeling below a woman, telling her how much he loves her, and proceeding to blow thousands more on a party, is not a full on request for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:00 AM
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Fine. Edited. 😤 I guess next time if I want to include more, I'd ask for a ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:30 PM
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Kill, fuck, marry. Pop queens at their peak: Selena Gomez, Taylor Swift, and Ariana Grande. Optional trade-in: Demi Lovato and Miley Cyrus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:25 PM
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My Sisters Keeper is on Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:06 AM
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lmao. I don't know how dudes like that don't feel absolutely cucked, if the stories are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:59 AM
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Unconventional suggestion, but "Little Miss Sunshine." That movie wrecked me, but I think it's just because I find the main character very relatable. My conventional suggestion is "P.S. I Love You"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:49 AM
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Not sure why some men always try to convince us that they have low standards. We know a lot do. It's not virtuous. Dude is looking to date a homeless girl with a personality disorder who can't read. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:47 AM
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Didn't you get your own subreddit banned and then also got banned from FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:28 PM
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I selfishly want to see what everyone else looks like and remain anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:21 PM
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Can you summarize the video? The girl in the video is cute enough to get away with never approaching men. Her experience is going to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:02 PM
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Alpha bucks is the ideal man. No one needs red pill to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:44 PM
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She wants you blue pilled but red pill aware. Women basically want it all! We call this type of man purple pilled here. It's not wanting "it all."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:27 PM
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F to those who peaked in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:16 PM
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My friend with the BBL hosted a ladies group get together yesterday. She sent me the picture since I wasn't there, and she fucking FaceTuned herself, left all the other 20 girls intact, and posted it. For the millionth time, I can't wait to leave Los Angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:32 PM
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He's angry this handsome man isn't fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:29 PM
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Women will always have more options. The idea is that if a man is attractive enough to have options, it's not crazy that he will reject his looksmatch for whatever reason. So "Chad chasing" isn't always the right answer to why women get rejected, like it's commonly said in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:24 PM
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Tell that to the entirety of black pill. Apparently Chad has bitches lined up. The truth is somewhere in the middle. Chad still has to try and women are fickle. Half of women still equals options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:20 PM
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Looks like she's a Harvard graduate who wrote a book and started a podcast. But I thought men didn't care about education and career??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:55 PM
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Sure. I'll agree with that. Just saying a 7/10 girl aiming for a 7/10 guy struggles in a different way. A girl was venting yesterday about her dating frustrations and men just chalked it up to Chad chasing without knowing how she looks like, what she's aiming for, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:47 PM
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Nope. There are some men here who are above average looking with decent social skills, and they actually get it. The fact that you think a man having options equates to a billionaire shows how much you don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:46 PM
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If you're above a certain level in looks, men will have more options. Because both sides have more options, it can make dating more difficult in a different way. The men have the choice to pick the women who are the best looking, have the best chemistry, and are the most easygoing, and so do the women. A lot of men here belittle the dating experiences of women, and if a woman calls her experience hard, they chalk it up to Chad chasing because they think all men are desperate with no options (lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:25 PM
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As we know, your priorities are different. Being a salt daddy is within the blurred lines of consensual sex and rape, so I'm sure you're fine trivializing rape...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:08 PM
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For the purposes of extremely subtle gold digging...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:50 PM
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For runway and print, yes. There's a minimum for women too. It's a whole package, but I think the desired height for women is around 5'9 and for men it's around 6'1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:48 PM
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I think it's fine to ask if you're deeper into officially dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:42 PM
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He could model if he was a certain height. Part of me wonders if they're rating him low because they're just dudes who are jealous of other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:42 PM
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Is she hotter than you? If she's not, you're not running the pickme game well. Why have a man at all if you won't let him fuck beautiful women to quench his other desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:47 PM
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You mean, Melissa Vandella?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:20 PM
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SMH did I give you PTSD from telling that story?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:52 AM
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Don't you know? Before committing to a woman, you are fully entitled to know her partner count, and every partner's penis size, height, and salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:54 AM
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Strangers Rank Themselves By Attractiveness Awkward video in which the cockiest people rate themselves highest, and everyone else feels too uncomfortable to protest. Black chick was easily the best looking. Curly haired brunette guy has a cute personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:51 AM
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You'd think she was Muslim considering how into the Quran she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:46 AM
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...Brandon!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:22 AM
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Dude just go fap a few times. Wtf is it with all these new comments about fat asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:20 AM
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I can't tell whether I should laugh or frown at some of the things you say...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:47 AM
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Idk I showed my boyfriend and he said she looks like a demon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:27 AM
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Why? Is this to contribute to your breeding fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:36 PM
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Yeah lmao. I think that conversation is butchered now, but I feel like the opinion was a mix of people saying he was average or above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:16 PM
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You were the outlier though in thinking he's the ugliest cast member.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:05 PM
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Shake's ex People are fighting in the comments, obviously. I feel bad and she's just some random girl, so I don't think people should put her down in the comments. However I can also see how others are mad for seeing him reject Deeps. Blond girl is a solid 2 points less than him in looks. It's also hard to pedal the idea that "looks don't matter" because we know damn well how he perceives skinny blonds, and we also know that he claimed he had never emotionally connected with someone as strikingl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:02 PM
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Another day, more friend drama. Found out one of my former ex friends blocked me on Instagram, even though I didn't follow her at all or know she had one. She had more red flags than China. She would spend hours talking about all incels in her past who had crushes on her, talked about all the friend groups that cut her off because she was "too beautiful," gaslight me whenever I brought up something she did that hurt me, tried to steal another woman's man, etc. Thank god I got therapy for my momm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:54 PM
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What's the worst of the crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:35 PM
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Mine is private and I only add people I know and could hang out with regularly, so it's a modest number.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:35 PM
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Social media is tailored, so I think a lot of people feel like the validation is a combination of undeserved and misleading. Validation is good when genuine, but if the content and the validation itself is not, it's toxic. I'm on the other side of the coin where I am friends with girls who have 10k, 20k, 30k followers. They aren't glamorous like other women think and they aren't unattainable like other men think. They're normal girls who FaceTune and highlight only good parts of their life, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:04 PM
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Her apprentice: I am finally 95 pounds on my scale and my man and I have an escort booked for tonight. gimpgirl: Good, goooooooood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:24 PM
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I can see how you'd appreciate it, but most people wouldn't take it that way. "Fat" is a stereotypical insult, so it doesn't come across as advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:16 PM
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He didn't ask for advice. A failed dinner is pretty common too. She owes him nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:47 PM
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phone sex tape plays in court in front of jurors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:06 PM
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She's a nasty bitch. He's a little chubby already, but she should have gone through with it and ghosted. A catfish's penalty is failed dates. She doesn't need to bring him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:03 PM
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She comes off mentally ill. I feel like in an alternative world, she wouldn't be on TikTok and would have a normal engineer boyfriend. The paradox of choice does exist, but her framing it comes off very "men are trash"/"women are so beautiful."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:59 PM
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Are they in college or out of college? Are they extroverted? Do they have money? What city do they live in? What are their standards? I feel like there are a lot of variables. In general, I've seen anything between once a month or once a season if they're shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:09 PM
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What's the backstory to this mass downvoter in PPD? Why is he/she in so much pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:16 PM
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It's important to get to know the root of any hateful thoughts. PickleLine is gone now, but his obsession with n count was nearly a disability. I have seen very normal preferences get criticized. People are fine to have their preferences. I used the word "obsession" concerning high n count women because it implies unhealthiness. For example I think it's embarrassing for example when people subscribe and regularly go on fatpeoplehate. Age gap relationships can be predatory, just like gold digger …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:43 AM
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That's fine to want. You're not crazy. But it is insecure. It's not a bad thing, it's just a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:47 PM
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Sure. I just think it's important to get to the root of it. The way you have rationalized it is sensible, and your main priority seems like you want someone who is similar to you that reaffirms you. A few times a week, high n count women are compared to dumpsters, human trash, prostitutes. High n count women aren't doing anything immoral, but they're likened to rapists. It's a strange obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:43 PM
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I will agree that very high n count people do not have the most attractive characteristics of impulsivity and emptiness. High n count women certainly complicate the dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:05 PM
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This constant shaming and condescension lol. Dude just say you feel inferior to other men and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:01 PM
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Your argument falls apart with the knowledge that I am average n count (within the single digits). There's reasons why people put others down obsessively. It's insecurity. It's why bullies exist. I don't care if men are insecure about it. It's the hamstering that's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:51 PM
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Sorry, typo. *High n count women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:41 PM
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No. It's pretty straightforward. Some men want a low n count women because they don't like the idea of not being a woman's best in every sexual and physical sense. They don't like the feeling of competition. It's rooted in insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:40 PM
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I am fine with certain men preferring low n count women. The thing that makes me cringe is the hamstering and shaming that goes on. Some men are sincerely insecure and that's their main reason for shaming high n count women, but they don't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:35 PM
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Not sure what you expected. For her to describe him as "Chadly"? Would that reaffirm you more? Cute means anything at minimum above average. To me it means a guy with softer facial features and boyish-like mannerisms, regardless of whether they're tall, short, manly, feminine, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:47 PM
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Is there a common trait between fathers who prefer daughters? I see no commonalities between my dad and someone like Eminem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:13 PM
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Don't forget, her partner would be packing such a huge dong, the wedgie won't even have enough underwear space to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:04 PM
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Napoleon complex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:53 PM
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Which app are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:48 PM
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I think it's because I know they're talking about a certain type of woman that they want schadenfreude from, so I kind of get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:39 PM
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Yes. To me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:35 PM
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30% are genuinely hideous on the inside. I'm not talking about the "losers." I'm talking about the men that show gratification about women killing themselves, being raped, being abused, dying alone. 10% are emotionally attractive to me. The vast majority are in the middle, between bitter but nice and cool but not very relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:30 PM
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I think both men and women can be cruel. The wall of studies are picked with a bias against women. I've met women who have been raped, men who have been abused, women who have been cheated on, men who have been used. It goes both ways. It's dependent on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:20 PM
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Some people are good and bad. You take away part of your happiness when you don't trust anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:47 PM
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Right. I'm not surprised that's the percentage. The average income for a person in LA is $50k-$60k. This is the other half of men I know. At the same time, it is certainly a big town thing to know tons of people who make 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:38 PM
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Wouldn't you put in more work once you trust them at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:31 PM
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I think you're underestimating how selfish some people can be. There will be men who hold out for their dream woman and will commit immediately when they meet her, while freely wasting other women's time. There will also be men who hold out for their dream woman, and just commit to whatever is available when they realize they couldn't get her. There's a reason why first wives and forever girlfriends are stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:29 PM
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Yes. I'm really surprised some men here get no matches or just really awful matches. Most men I know, whether or not they're attractive or financially well, are able to get dates on OLD. The men talking about how making 6 figures is Chad level as well. That's very bizarre to me. Half the men I know make 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:22 PM
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Yes. She's insane lol. Shake has gray hair, but I'm referring to the white guy with gray hair who talked about his insecurities with his hair on dates. Not a bad looking guy by any means, but he seems to have a mental hang up over his looks. He didn't find anyone to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:34 PM
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The girl who lost a lot of weight and keeps self sabotaging her relationship, the fat chick, and the guy with gray hair all fall under category 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:29 PM
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I'm under the assumption that people are on the show because: 1) they want to pull the bandaid off with marriage, so to speak, because they've been commitment phobic this whole time 2) getting engaged to validates them. they are less genuine about actually staying with the person 3) they are insecure about their physical appearance and feel their personality will equate to marriage material 4) they are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:55 PM
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It is just as counterintuitive for FDSers to make men work harder than they've ever made men work before as it is for blackpillers/RPers to work less than they've ever worked before. Especially while both are older and with more baggage. Attractive, confident dateable men who are older will know when sex should happen and won't want to jump through hoops. Attractive, kind, generous dateable women will know what courtship looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:48 PM
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Right. But I also wanted to see more of that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:03 AM
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Yes. It's so good/bad. Everyone hates Shake, but honestly I think he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:52 PM
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anxiety intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:04 PM
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It's because a lot of them only care about looks and nonbitchiness in women. I have had countless men here who have told me they don't care about a woman's career, hobbies, humor, or intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:36 PM
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Chemistry, intelligence, shared values and morals, stability, humor, common interests, physical connection, and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:45 PM
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Not at all. It should be a compliment for someone else to want to spend all their time and care on someone else. I'm sure it's also a compliment to have women salivating the first time they meet a man too. Different priorities. Sometimes they're in the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:35 PM
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Casual sex and dual mating strategy would ramp up for men. Men's partner counts would shoot up. Tons of men nowadays want to sleep around for fun, validation, and sexual satisfaction, but can't because it's a lot of work and a lot of dumpster diving. Prostitution would go under. There will always be the number of men who only want relationships regardless of their options, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:25 PM
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Season 2. I kept hearing hubbub about it from my friends, and I can see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:59 PM
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I have an older brother and I'm an engineer. I was my dad's favorite child since I was a toddler, so I don't think it's that he preferred having a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:57 PM
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Watching Love is Blind and holy shit I thought I was mentally ill, but no, these people make me look tame. So much baggage from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:51 PM
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Not really sure what you're asking here. Sounds like you wrote a list complimenting yourself and another list negging your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:45 PM
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I see your logic, but dating down in looks can fuck you over too. If the guy you date lacks humility, he'll conceptualize it in the wrong way and it backfires. My ideal is just dating a blue pilled looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:56 PM
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Off topic. I was in your hood this recent weekend, and damn. The morning/afternoon crowd is pretty much full of tourists that fit the typical stereotype of McDonald and Walmart Americans. The nighttime crowd is scattered with Stacy-lites and Stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:33 PM
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I have no information about Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee's relationship, but I will say that a washed up playboy model whose known for scamming men is not the best framework for how real women date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:13 PM
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I think you're speaking for yourself. I've heard a decent number of men talk about how their ex is hotter, better, "the one" compared to their current girlfriend or girls they're seeing. It's good you don't get alpha widowed, but believe me, I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:57 PM
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IMO women and men are equally likely to get alpha widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:44 PM
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Yes, because a person who is exactly my type is a swipe away. An example is height. The men I swipe on are at minimum 5'9 because I'm comparing each man in between each other. In real life, I've met men who were 5'5 that I thought were very handsome and dateable. So it's not that I wouldn't date someone who was on the shorter side. It just doesn't reflect well, and I'd be swiping on over half of men if I depended on my bare minimum standards. OLD cucks men with two or more obvious "flaws" and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:14 PM
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You have good taste in Vietnamese food. It's one of the only restaurants in central LA I've felt was actually "accurate."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:50 PM
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A lot of cities have a Pho King lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:44 PM
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She's been celibate. She had a handful of noncommittal hookups in college, so she's now jaded from it and makes other men work for it. Kind of a stereotype...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:11 PM
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Update on the friend who makes men jump through hoops: She never got to the second date with that guy who took her out to dinner. He offered to take her on a sunset picnic for the second date. Apparently, he wasn't cute enough and he didn't text her daily like she wants. The irony is that she said she was feeling that something was off, and that she thinks he was love bombing. I also think he's slightly more attractive than her, but she still doesn't think he's good looking enough. Everything is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:06 PM
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She seems to have a personality that some people either love or hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:53 PM
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Get her number next time!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:47 PM
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OP sounds emotionally retarded, and his girlfriend sounds entitled. He WAS testing her, and him denying it is awkward because it's obvious. He also did it at the wrong time. It's seems like a bait and switch because he is doing it the same time they go exclusive. It's a dealbreaker to me if someone treats me out at first to obtain me, and stops it entirely. Sounds like he got to bang someone model material in that time, but she also comes with the price tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:30 AM
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I agree with your hypothesis. There's a lot more women who lean towards emotional attraction, are low libido, and/or just risk-averse about sex. Hoeing is hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:39 AM
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Men let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:28 AM
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It's completely subjective. In general, a "HVM" to me is financially stable, emotionally stable, attractive, confident, loyal, and kind. One woman's version of financially stable could be $50k and another woman's version could mean $250k.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:27 AM
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TRP men are on the autism spectrum, so they need numbers in the form of BMI, salary, and partner counts to measure what high quality means to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:03 AM
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No emotional connection, so I just ghosted. He's still a nice guy though. I'm not sure if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah. I noted before, but man was hot. I remember him because I flirted with him a few years ago and he invited me over but I chickened out. People want to fuck who they want to fuck. It gets bad when they start whining, and in which case drunk me would have a hard time keeping my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:11 PM
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Nah I had my chance a couple years ago. He also mispronounced my friend's name who he fucked, which made me cringe. He was really hot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:01 PM
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Not much happened other than he confirmed that he did indeed hook up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:40 PM
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Got too drunk yesterday and ended up autistically blurting to this guy in my group that he fucked two of my friends. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:30 PM
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Self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:44 AM
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It's a sliding scale on both ends of the spectrum. It's not like men are video game characters where I can add +10 points to wealth and +2 points to cleanliness. In my experience, laziness comes with laziness. My current boyfriend makes more than me and enjoys cleaning too, so he contributes both ways. I've had to clean AND split money on a everything along with dates with a partner in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:53 AM
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Sippytime after lickytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:58 AM
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WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:17 PM
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She's a 6/10 in my book. Nothing I would look at twice. The idea is that she's not a Stacy, and angry people will justify insulting her for having high standards when she isn't top tier herself. It's a trend I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:06 PM
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I wonder if she said it to be edgy. Either way, it's not okay for her to say that. Also, she's slightly meh looking, which means she'll get a different kind of flack from dudes calling her ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:00 PM
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"Men are trash" = "Women are crazy"/"Women are children" "Where are the women" = "Where are all the good men"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:52 PM
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Victoria's Secret came out with a new model: a Down Syndrome Latina girl. I didn't know angels could ride the short bus, I thought they all flew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:01 PM
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Sure, I do agree that +40 year old men don't just get off that easy. Realistically, men have to be young or work really hard to be rich and attractive to obtain commitment from a 20 something year old. Men have a lot more time before it starts to get weird to others though, compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:40 PM
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Is she RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:45 PM
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This sounds like a toxic way to view things. It's a two way street. The right woman can bring children, emotional support, companionship, sex, joy, financial support, and more. I think it's easier to view the other gender as lesser to feel less inferior themselves. Some forever girlfriends I know in real life look better than their boyfriend, though I do agree with the warning signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:35 PM
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Does your girlfriend know you view her as inferior and childlike? Or is she NoT lIkE oThEr WoMeN.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:27 PM
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But why do men get the rest of their life to age without flack? Why do they get to marry at 40, 50, 60, while women only have 10 years to of date. And that leads with the assumption that men are always the marriage oriented, faithful one. What happens if a woman gets cheated on or becomes a forever girlfriend? What if she's simply focused on her career and can't date until she's in her late 20s? And is it worth it to do all that for someone who describes her as having "fading looks"? That is a L…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:23 PM
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I read an article a while ago that claimed age-shaming has been the new fat-shaming for a while now. Of course looking youthful, healthy, and fit will always be attractive, but it's unfortunate that people feel the need to shame women simply for being over 30 years old. A former Miss USA killed herself after turning 30 years old, and had an obsession with the idea that she would lose value because she was no longer "young." The sad part is that 99% of people can be skinny if they tried, but no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:03 PM
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Narcissistic people are fascinating. Often good at garnering attention, presenting charisma, always having some sort of cool story or thing going on in their life, generally outgoing since they feed off of other people's validation and commitment. Narcissistic people tend to be vain too, which means they are more likely to take care of their looks. People who are more assured, healthy will be able to look behind the cracks better. The attraction of narcissism does not last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:30 PM
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Holy shit that looks photoshopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:24 PM
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Gossip Girl and (the good seasons of) Skins
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:22 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:36 AM
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Why did you get rid of your mommy milkers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:51 AM
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A woman was stabbed in NYC by a homeless black man 40 times. This wasn't even a crime of passion. A lot of stabbings going on. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:58 AM
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You will get the same answers on PPD, as /u/John_Oakman noted, most women here already make their own money or just don't care about it that much and are already married. From my observation, money is a multiplier for most women. A cute guy that makes money with a good background will spin a lot of women's heads. However 0 attraction x millions of dollars is still 0. There is that 10-20% of women that think money compensates for physical attraction entirely, but these women veer into sugar baby …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:45 AM
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Yeah, I think it's sad when that happens. Some women keep their mouths shut though, so it's hard to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:11 PM
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Isn't Russia full of violent men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:57 PM
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Sure. I agree with those signs, although some of it is mixed in with low libido, lazy, or dispassionate women, which he shouldn't entertain anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:30 PM
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But how are you sure they don't find you physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:02 PM
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I don't approve of AF/BB, and I'm sure it is a thing that happens. However, I think some men go a little too far in that line of thinking that almost everything bothers them. There is no in between. Women either have to have chased slutty hot guys and stayed consistent, die alone continuing to chase them, or only have been with nerdy, quiet dudes their whole life. The reality is that most people are in the middle. I started caring about money after college, which seems extremely practical as no …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:39 PM
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Saw a UMC zoomer's IG bio that said something to the degree of "extinguish cops and prisons." Jesus Christ. How detached can you be as a liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:29 AM
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No. It suggests the average person doesn't do anything for them... Women rating him a 6 and also saying that he's cute but "not their type" is very aligning. It means they acknowledge he looks above average, but are meh about how his looks make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:46 AM
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I can see why the majority of America is overweight. Eating 2-3 full meals a day without routine exercise will make a lot of people, at minimum, chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:34 PM
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I understand your frustration. I also didn't realize that you were okay dating overweight women too. I just hope you don't miss out on someone because you're pinpointing it entirely on a beta bucks situation. No one wants anyone at their worst for obvious reasons, though I do accept that it isn't a good feeling when they only want you at your peak. The amount of money I expect a man to make is a LOT more than what I used to expect, and that's just due to aging, making more money myself, and want…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:53 PM
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To be fair, you were overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:43 PM
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No. I myself go through every date willing to smile and be polite, including the ones where the men looked drastically different. I offer to split every time whether or not the man is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:34 PM
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I guess I'm bias because I've seen girls use pictures that looked nothing like them, and I feel bad for the guy having to pay. He was an asshole for sure though. A gentlemen would still go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:11 PM
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I feel like I don't know whose side I'm on until I see pictures. A lot of girls use filters, angles, and FaceTune, so I'm more inclined to say it's her fault. I do agree with the few top comments that say most men should still take her out though. The risk of getting catfished is the equivalent to the risk of no connection or the girl being a bitch. It should still fit the budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:57 PM
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Update on my friends' dates: The girl who expected her date, a senior tech manager at a large company, to drive 5 hours round trip to take her on a date, her date cancel on her day of. She flipped it against him, and of course she is telling me that he is the douchebag. The girl expecting the hot guy with money to jump through hoops and reschedule the date - they did end up going on their date on another day, but he hasn't texted her back. She said he was cute and sweet. I asked her why she hasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:51 PM
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He posted his Tinder profile. He is chubby and has a unibrow, so he has no self awareness of how to groom himself. He is older. His comment history is very stereotypical of a creepy foreign Indian guy. He's not going to find a decent Western woman. His RMV is rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:47 AM
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I'm sad he didn't sing "Bagpipes from Baghdad" or "White America"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:44 AM
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Gay af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:36 AM
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I have a personal ranking for racial preferences, but yeah it definitely goes 1) Asian, half Asian 2) white, Jewish, Persian, South Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:05 AM
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No, I've explicitly stated I prefer black/brown hair and brown eyes. Not sure where you're getting that. He is conventionally attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:58 AM
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She is a 7/10 to me. Normal pretty. If I met her, I think I would be very shocked that she was dating someone in the NFL. Maybe I have that perspective because I'm associating his looks with his fame and skill though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:54 AM
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Q4ALL: What would you rate Joe Burrow? IMO very stereotypical Chad. 8/10 when he's not making a stupid face. I'm really surprised his girlfriend is not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:38 AM
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Sure, but types are so incredibly subjective. There is a mean rating, and that's probably closest to objective. None of us are talent agents or model scouts, to my knowledge. JGL is basically male Emma Watson. People either love the look or find them incredibly bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:05 PM
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You are obsessed with West Elm Caleb because these ratings make you feel personally inadequate, because you see him as "above" you. People have different types. Not many of the PPD ladies come off like the artsy hipster ditsy type that he attracts. If he was a Chad, he would have at minimum been able to find a Stacy-lite to date. I get that men dumpster dive, but he took them out on fully fledged dates. He isn't bad but he isn't THAT hot, and you guys won't accept that answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:37 PM
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The term is already widely known as "femcels."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:37 AM
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I'm conflicted about blocking on Reddit. Last month I blocked someone vile for the first time after a year of being on this subreddit. He followed me around almost every comment trying to spin my words, after I'd shown him patience time and time again. It did make things more pleasant after I blocked them. That being said, this is ultimately a debate forum. So I know if shut too many people out, it will shut me out in general and the experience is not as authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:42 AM
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Hmm makes sense. She hasn't blocked me either yet. I like a lot of her takes, but I do think she is very tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:59 AM
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Why did you block her? I'm surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:45 AM
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FREE.99 to make your woes even more woeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:41 AM
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Champagne is sneaky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:53 PM
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I believe them, but this is definitely a thread asking about one specific thing. Of course you're going to hear about it here. I think some women are like this: low empathy, high maintenance, commitment-issues, etc. Not the majority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:50 PM
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Whatcha drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:46 PM
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Wow you're such a height queen smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:44 PM
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Are you referring to /u/LalaTheSecond
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:42 PM
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Stop trolling, you :p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:39 PM
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BUT WHERE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:39 PM
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It's not about vulnerability though. It's a victim mentality. That's completely different. I have good stories and bad stories, stories about men and stories about women. The men here seem to jack themselves off to the idea of height queens, evil sluts, etc. Then when something is different from the narrative they've built, they bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:38 PM
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Not relevant, but where are you going out tonight 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:12 PM
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I agree. 20 years old is not bad at all. Most people I know lost their virginity when they were college-aged. I'd just say, keep working at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:51 PM
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I see it now. I was missing context. I do agree that the men bully each other here. That seems like a different topic than your original comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:48 PM
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Society is failing both men and women in different ways. There's a reason why America rarely scores high in happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:44 PM
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You better have this one in the bag. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:00 AM
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Are you essentially saying all women have small dick energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:55 PM
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If anything she should be sending them to /u/lulll so he can wank off to the idea of their bitchiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:31 PM
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Not as relevant to the tech stack I am familiar with. Are you trying to gather enough information out of me to find out who I am? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:27 PM
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I am with SpicyRamen. I think it's unfair. I'd look down on a company that did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:24 PM
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No. It didn't really fit my skill portfolio. I applied just to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:20 PM
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I don't put my sexual orientation up. I also don't think I'm the kind of WOC they want. Even if I were, it's cringey to me as it's just an extreme form of affirmative action.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:13 PM
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Reddit keeps breaking down. Anyway, I applied to a SWE role for Reddit a while ago and half of the questions about demographics were about my gender, sex, and sexual orientation. It's no wonder. They're prioritizing people who consider themselves a xe/xir instead of a good programmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:45 PM
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Sure. In which case, it's a very grass is greener sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:50 PM
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I'll be the devils advocate. If your partner is not "the one" and if you question marrying him, I'd do it. I went through a phase after a breakup. I think a couple more years of it would have turned me jaded because it did shine a poor light, but the right amount of time gave me no regrets and no STDs. I'm also sort of a one-and-done kind of person, so if you're not like that, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:39 PM
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To be fair, it's in part because red pillers vaguely define themselves however they like. I wrote a thread asking about the benefits of red pill men, and got a lot of answers from red pillers defining each other as HVM, fit and rich men, covert successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:03 PM
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Are you originally the user named Sahrubab or something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:01 PM
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I agree. Her makeup is over the top. Almost pornographic. I think most men like enough makeup to highlight features, but not so much that it hides what she actually looks like. She's turning off the crowd of men that also prefer no makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:47 AM
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Ethnic looking men are closer to my type than a stereotypical blond hair, blue eyes, though I can appreciate both. I also like a youthful boy-next-door more than a striking masculine look, but again, I appreciate both. I'm going to ask for a rating for him in the next daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:53 PM
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Of course. I'm simply debating against him being average. An above average looking millionaire or billionaire is faaaaaaaar more in SMV and RMV than a below average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:44 PM
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With his height in mind, I think he's somewhere between a 7-7.5/10. He was able to date models before and after a stint in prison. To say that he's average looking is crazy. Of course the money, status, and bad-boy appeal adds to it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:39 PM
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I like boyish. My boyfriend is like that too. It's petty, but I prefer brunette or black hair. I also saw him in a movie lately and couldn't stop appreciating his face. Makes sense the girl in the original post is attached to Cole because she saw him in a show. Beyond that, Dylan looks the same to me. I don't think it's a wild idea. There's definitely boyish attractive men and masculine attractive men. Both are going to be equally attractive in my eyes. Sort of the difference between Amanda Seyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:05 PM
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Cole Sprouse is fine as fuck. He's not a male model, but my ideal for both FWB and LTR is closer to someone with a down to earth face, nice build, nice smile, dark features, etc. He's objectively an 8/10, but a subjective 9.9/10 nothing to change. Of course there are different variations of ideals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:35 PM
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For context my GF and I have been together for 1 1/2 years now. She is completely obsessed with Cole Sprouse. At first it used to be just a simple crush she would make comments when watching Riverdale. But over the past few months it has turned into a borderline obsession. She has hundreds of pictures of him on her phone. She posts pictures of him on her Instagram, follows fan pages, and tweets about how him/at him. Cole is pretty much the comeplete opposite of me. He is tall, white and handsome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:55 PM
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You're cute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:52 PM
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Weaboo confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:50 PM
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My [M24] GF's [F25] celebrity crush is starting to make me extremely insecure RIP. Cucked by a celebrity. Not even sure what I would do in his case. Probably break up simply because she has the brain of a 14 year old. I don't blame her for being attracted to Cole Sprouse since he is my ideal (and some of my friends' ideal too) as far as white guys go, but she's childish and weird to let it get that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:35 PM
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They gotta lock their stuff up with the rope they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:13 PM
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Netflix special about hot brown dude who pretends to be a billionaire for gold digging whities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:47 PM
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They're off at wine fests with their boyfriend/husband. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:40 PM
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Saw a comment from a girl claiming, "I am beautiful, and so are my friends." Found a ton of FDS in her history and also saw her posting on /r/datingoverthirty. The memes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:33 PM
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Maybe if he was aiming much lower. Even as low as he aimed, he still had to court them to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:33 PM
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Missed Italy...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:58 PM
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Jealousy, resentment, and self-hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:02 PM
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I’m confused. You always make jokes about being cheap, but you also talk about giving tens of thousands of dollars to your ex wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:02 PM
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My boyfriend is the sappiest hopeless romantic I’ve ever dated. I took him to Italy for his birthday two months ago, and since then, he’s had his phone background and work desktop background as the Colosseum. I pointed it out to him, and he just gave me a 🥺 face and told me he missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:57 PM
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arranged marriage/being set up by parents RIP to all the Chadpreets and Stacyas that were never born.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:41 AM
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“Objectively inferior” is a sometimes a boogeyman. Let me ask if you would date a girl you rated a 4-5/10? Your scale is as harsh as mine, so let’s assume we are envisioning the same woman. If someone loves their partner, they’ll see every decent aspect as a positive one. At minimum, they will think he has a handsome face and is charming, even if he is unattractive to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:14 AM
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Woman’s attraction can be incredibly emotional. A man I would rate as a 6/10 and another guy I’d rate as a 9/10 guy can be equally attractive to me subjectively after I’ve gotten to know them because of how I feel. I’m sure you’ve heard this before. I think the black pill method is to look at the raw facts in fear. Not every woman engages in casual sex like that. Maybe you just think that the women here were “fortunate” because the women here respect their partners enough to talk them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:38 AM
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The ideal situation is that a couple who is married think they are the most subjectively attractive person they’ve ever been with. This is what is most common. Some people settle. It doesn’t come across that any of the women here are in their minds, so it makes sense that they think their partner is attractive and most men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:24 AM
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Sure. Everyone has a different tolerance. Leaving for this long without getting temp banned is rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:49 PM
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link It’s the last comment thread on her comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:47 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense. Nothing is morally wrong with a long term FWB or a forever girlfriend/boyfriend as long as both parties are happy. Certainly far beyond my preference, but I won’t speak for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:36 PM
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I guess part of what makes me question it is that if she were truly secure and confident, she would have just put her foot down during the argument instead of being sad and leaving. I’ve had men here tell me (without me providing much context) that my boyfriend doesn’t love me and will never commit to me because I’m a concubine. I just tell them they’re a moron and call it a day, because I don’t have concerns over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:26 PM
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This wasn’t her boyfriend though. This was her FWB. Ranking of commitment probably goes: ONS < FWB < Girlfriend/Boyfriend < Civil union < Wife/Husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:15 PM
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Yeah that’s a good point. Sorority blondes are looking for fratty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:12 PM
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Yes. You put it into the right words. I remember writing about how I looked down on ice cream first dates in wintertime. Got a lot of flack from men, and she was the only woman who wrote something along the lines of “I love ice cream! That’d make me really happy.” I feel harsh saying this, but I guess finding out she had been in a decade long FWB contextualized responses from her just like that. A lot of what she preferred and accepted sounds nightmarish to many women like me who crave romance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:57 PM
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I agree with /u/LetsDelveIntoIt1. She was a sweet person who just wants everyone to get along, but there were times where I disagreed with some of the things she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:41 PM
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Wonder what she’s been doing or how she’s been feeling these last two weeks. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:04 PM
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Wrong calculations. Narcissistic + hot = ladykiller Narcissistic + ugly = lady killer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:39 PM
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I remember you also commented about something I said referring to Asian men. I claimed Asian men have options, and you ranted about how you feel bad for them because Asian women aren’t into them, implying the Asian women are greedy and shallow. It was that that raised the literal yellow flag. You seem a bit racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:13 PM
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I’ve just noticed that you target Asian women. Checked your history just to make sure I was remembering correctly and you talk about greasy old dudes looking for Asian wives within the last few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:06 PM
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You’ve insulted Asian women in the past. Seems like you have something against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:01 PM
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Dude ditched Olivia Wilde so he could continue a romance and masturbate to a tittless, pussyless inanimate robot. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:54 PM
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He could have gotten a normal cute girl if he wasn’t weird. I’ve partied there, and much uglier guys can get casual sex. Girls are drunk, horny, and sometimes desperate for commitment. He’s 5’8. His face is not my type and looks a bit feminine, but still above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:39 PM
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Mark Zuckerberg. He’s the only one who hasn’t publicly cheated yet, so at least I don’t have to be passively disgusted by him. I also don’t mind being around a lizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:19 PM
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Not really worth it at all. You have to pretty much be a pickme. The perpetual fuckboys I know got into relationships with the girls who were willing to put up with all of their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:15 PM
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GIGA CHAD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:56 PM
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I’d say he’s in my league. Out of his current girlfriend’s league by half a point. All of that stuff is something you find out later. There’s a lot of reasons I kept it casual, but bad sex and lack of values was part of it. He played a nice muscular guy, cute, shy facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:36 PM
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He wasn’t a good person. Generally very insecure. Would constantly play stupid games. It was part of why I kept it casual. He dated a girl after me. They’re still together and I’ve heard he cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:04 PM
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I casually dated someone who I believe was 3 or 3.5 inches. He also had erectile dysfunction, so the whole experience was just uncomfortable and the worst sex ever. The size itself was “okay” but not good. Which is how I know 4 inches would at least be better than okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:53 PM
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I have an average partner count, but I’ve had flings I didn’t sleep with so I’ve seen all sizes. Anything between 4-7.5 inches is fine and dandy with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:30 PM
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Aging beauty and the Chad beast. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:57 PM
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Masculinity: 104 Femininity: 112
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:50 AM
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Wholesome. I didn’t eat any Chinese food today. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:27 AM
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△ 👩🏻 🤲🍚🌾🍜 👚 👖 🩴🩴 🌙🧧
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:34 AM
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This comment from an Asian guy on working hard to attract: Only then can we win our beautiful oriental ladies back. I feel like if he didn’t talk like this, it would help a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:18 AM
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I just found out that Rihanna is having a baby with A$AP Rocky. I’m so confused. Her ex boyfriend was a Chaddam billionaire, and now she’s having a child unwed with a rapper?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:11 AM
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I am androgynous. Unsurprising to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:27 AM
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My cat: bites, scratches and attacks me Me: willing to put up with the abuse because he’s so cute RED PILL CONFIRMED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:39 PM
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And he probably does this all without constantly having vicious thoughts in his head. Sure, the furthest end of blue pillers have some level of naïveté to them. But when a man meets in the middle, there aren’t any thoughts about whether he’s inadequate, manly enough, whether she’ll cheat or divorce rape him, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:36 PM
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Oh lmao. I have him blocked because it was all sort of like spam so I stopped seeing that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:12 PM
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Who is the weirdest troll out there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:22 AM
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Bisexuality is real. I’ve also noticed some people taking it on because it’s trendy though. A lot of girls call themselves bicurious, which is code word for “I would never want to touch a vagina, but men think it’s sexy for me to like women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:15 AM
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Thanks! I’ll have to check this out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:34 PM
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What’s wrong with that? Many people have racial preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:38 AM
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Thanks! I really like chicken noodle soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:31 AM
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I may give it a try. I do love my fries...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:15 AM
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I have an air fryer right now! I like it sometimes, but it doesn't replicate things perfectly. Can't get my fries to taste as dank as Mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:01 AM
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Went shopping aiming for shoes and makeup, and came home with a crockpot instead. I’m accidentally domesticating myself. 😔 Sorry for letting down those who suggested the instapot. The friend I was with told me some scary story about someone dying from an instapot exploding on them, so I was convinced. Also the crockpot was so much cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:21 AM
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TIL you’re a hopeless romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:16 AM
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So you’re saying she’s just shallow and willing to put up with being emotionally abused and cheated on, as opposed to being weak and desiring that treatment? Both make her embarrassing and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:31 AM
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I [30F] can’t stop checking on my emotionally abusive ex and first ever boyfriend [30M] I broke up with 4.5 years ago even though I’m in an amazing relationship since then I understand trauma bonding and Stockholm syndrome, but Jesus, I wouldn't blame the dude on the receiving end to swallow the red pill if he found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:45 AM
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Check the main text in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:38 AM
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Are you on it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:37 AM
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https://discord.gg/ztCWGJChEf It’s posted in every daily community chat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:12 AM
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You were right. I recognized maybe like 2-3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:46 AM
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Is the discord worth it to join
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:26 PM
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Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:38 PM
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I apologize for my autistic ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:34 PM
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Has anyone noticed this tactic? Sometimes trashy, low RMV Chads seem to commit to pickme Beckys. Sometimes I’ll have a fling with someone, but don’t sleep with them because I don’t like their attitude and we lack chemistry. I find out that they have 1-3 fuckbuddies that same time, drop them. Not surprising because some of them were as hot as the dudes in Singles Inferno. Then a few months later, they’ll commit to one of the least attractive ones. Likely because she put up with all his bullshit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:44 PM
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🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:32 PM
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The worst was when I met this girl on my floor who didn’t know what fractions were. She eventually dropped out, but imagine paying taxes for someone who doesn’t even know middle school math.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:05 PM
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I went to a public university. My friends who were also low-income, and did not do any sort of work-study, paid about as much as I did in loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:01 PM
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Idk I still think her recipes are usually lit af
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:50 PM
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I don’t support student loan forgiveness as I am fiscally conservative, and I think university is a luxury. I was raised a lot more poor than you though and had to pay tens of thousands in loans. I had a financial aid package too which relieved over half of it, but that still means I have to take loans out for things like housing, food, and insurance. The variables include parents income bracket, school, cost of living/city, scholarships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:45 PM
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I don’t know if his preference was chubby chicks. I do think what you can generally obtain is your league though. If it’s a pump and dump, not too crazy he dumpster dived. I wouldn’t say I have the equivalent to golden pussy syndrome, as I treat everybody around me pretty well. However, I wrote a (now deleted) post on a woman’s only looksmaxing subreddit a while ago about the treatment I received, and all the ladies described it as the life of a famous person. I’m not even close to stunning, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:37 PM
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If anything, by your logic, wouldn’t he be below my league because he dumpster dived? Wouldn’t he be below my league because I rejected his invitation in person? It’s not that cut and dry. I’m allowed to approach people if I’m curious too. My implication is that he probably goes for a lot of different chicks, so he gets easily validated. He’s probably also not the type to want to try very hard. I’m more effort than just a dance. What is with this negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:07 PM
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She also said Some people are simply not cutout for relationships These are two contradictory statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:58 PM
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Wouldn’t a pickme have said yes to hanging out with him the whole night?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:42 PM
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Tinder is bad in its own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:41 PM
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Yeah. I like giving the same energy back on dating apps, but some of the men were just like pulling teeth. I still got dates from it, but Hinge was soooo much better so I just hopped off it. It means you have a main contact in the club to let you in and get you in a table for free. The promoters get money for bringing women in, so some promoters try to get as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:28 PM
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Sowry. I’m being cheeky. 😌 I think we typically judge women somewhat the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:23 PM
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🤩🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:17 PM
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There’s the distinction between a fetish (yellow fever) and a preference (leaning towards Asians). Having a preference can still allow you to have nuances in what you like. A racial fetish is when you’re just down bad for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:14 PM
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My match rate was good. My conversations weren’t always good though. I have no idea. I didn’t talk to him for very long. He was in med school so maybe daddy’s money or connections. VIP isn’t that exclusive. I was also in another VIP section that night, but that’s only because I had a promoter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:09 PM
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Yesterday you were calling me dumpling and now you’re telling me to go to hell. 😔 I think SOME men have golden penis syndrome. Not wild to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:06 PM
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Hmm maybe. Didn’t think about that. To people with yellow fever, any Asian chick above a 4/10 is equally hot to them as the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:00 PM
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Re: New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejected I agree with this. Nothing wrong with a guy being able to reject women, but when I used Bumble, too many had golden penis syndrome. I’d chat with men who would normally be the ones chasing me, who sometimes seemed barely lukewarm. I remember one guy was what I’d say is both my type and in my league. He ghosted me after a few messages. I saw him at a club the weekend after that, came up to him to say I saw him o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:53 PM
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That’s fucked up that his ex called herself out of his league. I understand his problem though. He wants to be viscerally lusted for. In that case, he should start hitting the gym, finding a nice barber, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:07 AM
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You can look at her semi nudes for proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:39 AM
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I don’t think pity sex happens very often. I had flings with dudes my friends would say “WTF” about, but they had decent game so it wasn’t this thing where they never touched a woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:39 AM
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I agree with all of your points. I would be behind work reform. I think that the vibe in /r/antiwork is similar to /r/neet which is why I don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:50 AM
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NGL homeboy be looking exactly like the kind of ze/zer who failed their computer science classes in college and decided to start a subreddit because they didn’t like the way that made them feel. Thanks for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:48 AM
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Which sentiments
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:09 AM
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Liberals often associate the rich and powerful with white men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:08 AM
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/r/antiwork has now been set to private. Let’s hope that this subreddit stays gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:31 AM
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Boring is subjective. I lack chemistry with probably 75% of people my age but can still get along with the people in that percentage. I think people are rarely boring though. Call me gay but I think most people are unique in their own way, even if they are “followers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:54 AM
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Goddamnit why wasn’t this weeks thread topic West Elm Caleb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:04 AM
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“jia singles inferno” in google images. She removed her social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:41 AM
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I’m Asian. I don’t know a single Asian girl in real life prettier than her though I do see them around in rarity. People who say Korean girls can look like her is like saying a white girl can look like Margot Robbie if she tried hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:21 AM
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I’d say the other ones are top 10%, while she is top 0.1%. I probably see Asian women that beautiful once every year. If you watch the show, 5/6 of the dudes simp for her at some point. Maybe your attraction is more binary as opposed to on a scale. I’ve also noticed people who prefer the look of Asian women but don’t fetishize them will see these nuances in appearance within the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:06 AM
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If it were that easily doable, a lot of girls would look that way. She has a specific bone structure, with specific eyes, that can’t be recreated the same way under the knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:02 AM
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Yes. She doesn’t look like a bimbo to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:54 AM
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Can you expand? How is this insinuated in what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:44 AM
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I’ve never seen people defend AOC that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:44 AM
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There’s recently been some drama about a beautiful girl in a Korean dating show (Singles Inferno) wearing fake designer cloths. When I mean beautiful, I mean, I would kill to look like her. She deleted most of her social media and people are worried she might manifest feelings of suicide from this stress. Statistics show that it’s mostly 40 year old men bullying her. We would assume that it would be young women, but it’s not. I think these men are angry because they know they can never be her or…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:17 AM
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It’s a lot of skirting the rules. Words like: naive, delusional, pretentious, stupid, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:39 PM
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Done. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:08 PM
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Vent: I rarely block people on here but I think I might. There’s a particular person that raises my blood pressure and follows me around just to insult me. You know why he wants to insult me? Because I said height matters, but it’s not the end of the world. Because I believe that emotional attraction exists and attraction is flexible. So he spends paragraphs just trying to put me down and scoff on my face. It’s pathetic, and makes this place so unpleasant. I’m constantly trapped when I talk to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:51 PM
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realize the world isn't black-or-white Well, it’s also black, white, yellow, and brown 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:49 PM
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I use that. It worked better than the female branded ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:26 PM
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I finally read the comments you’re referring to... I can see why the other girl reacted to Cim that way at first. Without knowing her, it sounds like a sad and predatory relationship. I think she was projecting her feelings too much and expecting Cim to feel a certain way. Cim getting so hurt as opposed to showing confidence didn’t help the other girl’s point either. I feel bad for Cim though. That was an attack to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:46 AM
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Thanks for answering. Makes sense. I think it can be worth it if you’re looking to build a family, but not sure if you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:09 AM
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Can I ask why you don’t move?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:02 AM
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Yeah that’s fair. I can’t speak to dating in the Midwest, but I know people marry a lot earlier there and the lifestyle is a lot different so it explains the younger single moms and younger obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:45 AM
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I don’t think you should hate yourself or blame women. Both sound unhealthy and don’t reach your goal. No idea what you look like, but have you tried ramping up your social life? A lot of guys I know who are normal, go to the gym, and make 6 figures who have trouble with women are either hypergamous, just don’t have charm, or both. We can assume you’re not hypergamous if you’re getting rejected by women who are chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:16 AM
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That’s still 1 in 10 people which is still an everyday person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:09 AM
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What? This doesn’t make any sense. Top 20% means 1 in 5 people, which still means an everyday person. The minimum for top 20% is also very far from famous or a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:08 AM
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To be fair most people looked like trash in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:22 AM
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Tell that to /u/Bandit174. We were debating about whether West Elm Caleb was dumpster diving, and I originally said he only had an above average face and was anywhere between a 6-7/10 and got flack for it. 😮‍💨 He looks good in some pictures and okay in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:04 AM
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I can confirm I know men who complain about their looksmatched girlfriend being below their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:05 AM
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That snake? His penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:36 AM
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Boyfriend fed my pet to his snake I would be devastated. This is the same type of dude who would kill his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:56 AM
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This is her low maintenance look, but considering the gussied up version of her too, she’s a 6.5/10 to me. The guys range from 6.5-8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:54 AM
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Why’s that? I usually rate men and women with the same thought. You only say that because of West Elm Caleb, and that only happened because he has a bad first picture. In the past we’ve rated people the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:45 PM
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oh no. Hopefully it was all voluntary and transactional on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:30 PM
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She’s cute, but I don’t think she was a looksmatch for most of them. She’s just mirin though, so I’m not here to attack her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:14 PM
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Q4A: what’s the longest fwb relationship you know about? Longest one I know about would have to be 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:09 PM
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I’m speaking on a demographic with particular ideologies. If you break down the ideologies of red pill, it becomes even more apparent that a lot of them are Stacy chasers. Primarily AWALT. What I’m saying is no different from saying most FDSers chase Chad, which is something I actually believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:17 PM
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I always get flack for saying this, but I believe red pill is a result of Stacy chasing. I only came across this realization because all the red pill men I know in real life were Stacy/Stacy-lite chasers until they settled for a girl who looked nothing like what they spent years thirsting on. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:06 AM
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Oh no… she’s like actually over 200 pounds. Her second to last TikTok is so cringey. If you scroll down, she shows her dating profile and the pictures used make her seem skinnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:50 AM
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It’s not confirmed. I’ve just read that internet mobs have been trying to get him fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:13 AM
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Here is a TikTok of a girl showing the apology text. On another note, this girl is just another one on the list of the average looking hypergamous girls he dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:34 AM
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I’m not downvoting you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 AM
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You keep talking about me like I’m speaking about myself in great, virtuous terms. That’s not really my intention at all. You seem to think that most woman here does this, for some reason. It would be a lot easier to talk to you if you didn’t just assume that. I said that dating a short guy is something that I’ve done just like dating a tall guy. I’m not jerking myself off like you think I am. You also said you weren’t insecure which is the hugest lie to yourself. It’s clear to me you have immen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 AM
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Most people won’t care unless you’re doing it in a cruel way…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:00 AM
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I guess the true karma would be if he got led on and dumped the same number of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:52 AM
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You’re a normal looking dude whose whiny about not being a Chad. I’ve literally confirmed that I approached men more often than you approached women. I’ve told you in the past that I hope you find your cute girl, and you just shut me down with a “you wouldn’t understand” attitude. I have NO empathy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:47 AM
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Is it bad that I feel sorry for West Elm Caleb? I don’t like what he did, as I don’t think love bombing and leading someone on is okay. I just really don’t think he should have been doxed with girls trying to cancel him and have him lose his job. His real name will now be tied to this embarrassing story. Dude was trying to get his nut, and a lot of other guys do the same stuff. He just ran into the most entitled, attention-seeking ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:44 AM
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Ghosting means you stop answering anything at all. This could include blocking, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:04 PM
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I feel like the ones that were in his league were just the ones he didn’t piss off by ghosting or they just had better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:01 PM
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She’s fucking annoying. Also I saw a TikTok of a girl that had a text conversation with him, and he sent a picture of himself. He was a 7/10 in that picture so I concede, he was out of every girl’s league that we’ve seen so far. 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:55 PM
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Yeah, I don’t like this girl. She’s very FDS-lite. Materialistic, entitled, and overestimating her value in the dating world. I’ve seen her videos before the West Elm Caleb story and knew to not trust the emotions she was feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:30 PM
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He sits beside her in bed, frustrated. We had a nice date, he thought. She had the steak, and he had the fish. She stands up to get ready for bed and take off her makeup. He waits in silence, hoping this doesn’t mean good night. She gets back in bed in her frumpy pajamas. Was that slender red dress she wore for the other men there? He turns to her, and says, “just a lick, please.” She says she’s tired. He says, “what if it’s just the tip?” She pretends to snore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:10 PM
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Sounds like the white pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:51 AM
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I’m sorry poppy. 🙁 We don’t always get along, but I hope you and Mr blu heal in the ways best for you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:48 AM
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😞 U never answer my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:45 AM
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What pill are you? It’s hard to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:39 AM
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Yes, I understand that can be frustrating. I don’t think you deserve to feel insecure, and I’m sorry I keep implying that. Again, if it was in full truth that tall men and big dicks are the pinnacle, this dude would have won me over. Much shorter guys, much smaller guys have gone further with me than he did. I’ve always said there are nuances to attraction, even if there is a conventional standard. Technically, every man is competing with every other man. Yes, I told my boyfriend the full truth.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:22 AM
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What they don't do is hamster height isn't THAT important. Yes, but where am I hamstering this? You miss the part where I say it is somewhat important, but not the end of the world. People are attracted to attractive people, so of course I’m going to hook up with conventionally attractive people. This seems straightforward to me. Conventionally attractive people range. I described someone who was relevant to the original topic. You’re not entitled to know my entire sexual and dating history, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:58 AM
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I mean, I see what you’re saying. I’m a little shallow like most people, so of course some men I’m attracted to will fulfill a stereotype. My boyfriend had reasons to be insecure beyond just me and does have baggage, you’re right. But he’s gotten a lot more secure overtime. There’s no real reason for him to be insecure about someone I never slept with, who I didn’t chase, who I never actually committed to. In several ways, I have given my boyfriend my “best,” so again, he has no reason to not fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:51 AM
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It’s more so that I’m making a joke about the cliche of a tall dude with a huge dick. I wasn’t that into him and stated elsewhere that I didn’t get that far with him before I ghosted him. I didn’t sleep with him and my boyfriend is pretty secure in himself. Even if I did sleep with him, it’s not really like everyone in my history is in a lineup, and the tallest one with the hugest dick is the one I would remember the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:21 AM
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Damn, you’re incredibly insecure. You’re trying to find some holes in my logic, but I’m pretty consistent. I often say that height is important, but not THAT important. Obviously it isn’t that important because he didn’t even get that far with me, and the range of men I’ve hooked up with vary heavily. I’m just stating the cliche of a tall dude with a huge dick. I spend a while writing back to you and see merit in some of the things you say, but honestly, I think that you just enjoy being negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:12 AM
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I don't really see how what I'm saying is contradictory. I had a fling with him because he was attractive, but I didn't actually sleep with him because his personality wasn't great and his dick wasn't enticing to me. He probably felt cool having it at that size, and maybe other shallow girls or queen sized girls felt cool hooking up with him. I think this is you trying to find problems where there aren't. Of course big dicks have a stereotype for a reason as being more "masculine", but for the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:56 PM
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This is going to obliterate you, but... The biggest dick I've ever seen was also from one of the tallest guys I had a fling with. It was about the size of my forearm. He had a huge Asian fetish too, so other dudes are competing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:35 PM
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I will be the devils advocate and say that I don't think it's necessarily good advice. Someone related it to jobs. You will be unemployed forever if all you have on your resume is a high school degree, no connections, and basic skills, and only apply to 6 figure positions at the best companies. You need signs of interest and things to offer that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:52 PM
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Check your notification preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:45 PM
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/u/simeneta_two https://i.redd.it/de1sgiuj40b81.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:39 PM
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Yes. Some men hold a Madonna-Whore complex. If it makes you feel better, the men who bucketed you into that aren’t emotionally mature which makes them bad husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:09 PM
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Be honest. How many Spotify playlists do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:39 PM
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No one wants to rape this pretentious hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:36 PM
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Yes. I’d agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:50 PM
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Men here: But he’s 6’4!! That means he’s the top 10% and he’s minimum 2 points higher than your previous rating! Also our resident 6’4 man and other 6’4 men at your suburbia Walmarts: * dates and fucks fat women with no career prospects *
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:35 PM
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Idk his face just looked disproportionate. I guess just imagine 2005 Danny Trejo without the moustache on a 6’ tall muscular guy, but in a college student. I looked up West Elm Caleb again and I guess it depends on which girls you’re talking about. He is anywhere between a 6/10-7/10 based on the picture. The girls he went on dates with were anywhere between a 5.5-6.5/10. There are a few that are obviously below his league, but some it’s roughly equal. Hard to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:47 AM
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No he was like 22 and looked 40-something. He was good with 18-22 year old women. I agree with you that he doesn’t need every trait, just particular ones. I guess if I had to rate, his body was an 8/10 and his face was a 4/10. So some women don’t care about face that much. Yeah I asked because of the West Elm Caleb story. The women he pulled were in his league, but he just pulled a lot of them. Not sure if there are a lot of people like George Costanza running around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:59 PM
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He looked late-40s in the face with very exaggerated facial features. I showed my boyfriend a while ago and he agreed. Not ugly, but not the face of what I think a lady killer would look like. I can’t speak to NYC, hence my question. I would assume the girls are fighting for men that would meet the bare minimum of what they’d consider stable and attractive. Not necessarily the weird looking dude living with his mom working as a sandwich artist in Subway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:39 PM
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Sorry, I’m showing my age. I’ll check out the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:35 PM
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Who says Joseph Gordon Levitt is average? I’ve only seen men claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:23 PM
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I’ve heard that from girls who lived in NYC. My friend showed me her ex who had slept with numerous friends before they dated, and he was tall and muscular, but his face was not it. I also dove into reading the red pill subreddit discussing dating and locations. The men there seemed to have described LA girls as more hypergamous than NYC girls, even though there are tons of hot women in both cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:19 PM
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I guess the broader problem is lack of self awareness, but shooting up is the main problem I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:02 PM
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Hypergamy. Chad/Chad-lite chasing and Stacy/Stacy-lite chasing. Lack of effort, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:58 PM
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How’s dating in NYC? I’ve heard the female to male ratio is bad, so it influences things a bit. I’ve heard even the ugly guys with good social skills get women fighting over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:46 PM
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The second comment would apply to most of us though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:54 PM
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Agree 100%. My whole point is that there are men who act like once they’re old, they can leverage money and status, when in reality, these men are still competing with young, hot men who have gold cards and black cards. And yes, when I was younger, the friends I had who were willing to date older men would go up to 35 years old if he was wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:07 PM
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Never, but I don’t make as much as he did and I am also a woman. I’ve offered to pay for my own, and he’ll profusely say no. These questions don’t work the same way. I am starting to think you are the insecure one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:03 PM
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Sounds like a neg. It’s not a wild idea to enjoy blowing money every now and then to make your life a little more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:48 PM
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Beta provider implies that money and stability was all he had to offer. He’s cute and charming on his own. He was an Asian former frat boy, so him wanting to pay for everything is tied to the idea that women need to be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:35 PM
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A while back, I hesitated on going out with one of my friends since the club she wanted to go to was far and it was already almost 11PM. I expressed this to her, and the guy she was dating sent me money for my Uber. Got there, he had a VIP table. Went out to dinner the next day and he picked up the tab for me and obviously the girl he’s dating. He wasn’t 45 years old. He was a cute 24 year old investment banker, younger than the both of us. Y’all keep acting like older men can compensate on thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:27 PM
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You’ve never been to Seattle, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or New York and hung out with UMC young people. It’s a pretty straightforward concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:21 PM
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Not a ton. They are common where I live though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:15 PM
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Well I do agree they exist. Hypergamous people of both genders exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:14 PM
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Yes. This is why I prefaced what hot, young women experience. Any woman who is cute satisfied living in a small town won’t be looking for older men who are rich anyway. Those women are marrying their high school sweethearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:58 PM
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This isn’t delusion. This is real life. You’re the one always ranting about things that imply you don’t touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:48 PM
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Thank you, stranger. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:19 PM
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I hope you don’t project these feelings onto your girlfriend. I would agree that youthful features and generally attractive appearance reel men in, but most men don’t think the way you’ve suggested beyond that. It’s too transactional and cold hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:16 PM
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Most young hot women aren’t always dating for money, and if they are, there are men 22-31 with money. Red pillers are naive if they think that they can compete with that. You realize that I encountered not just young men, but hot, young men, who made anywhere between $150k-$300k a year, right? There’s such a thing as old money too, and I’ve met guys who had mansions because of their parents. If we’re talking about purely casual, it’s obvious who I’m picking unless the old dude has a yacht. And e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:07 PM
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If you are casually dating her using only money, you may as well be a John and her, your sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:02 PM
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I’m in a relationship now and am still vetting. We’re nearing our timeline for getting engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:57 PM
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The obvious angle that people date for love, and men date for women with personalities, humor, intelligence, and a growing experience with her instead of the very reductionist ideas of women only being attractive for youthful features and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:55 PM
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I think your previous comment was accurate in depicting attraction in another sense, just like you admit mine is. There’s a lot of angles of attraction that we can confront, but red pill conveniently chooses the angle that benefits their ego and babies them. This is the point I’m getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:36 PM
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How convenient is it that you’ve left out incredibly mainstream studies that show that women are typically attracted to similar aged men, and the relationships that succeed the most are between men only a few years older than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:18 PM
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Homeboy is the equivalent of a man who tries to grind on a chick two more times at a club while she attempts to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:16 PM
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Red pill calls women children, but the ideologies behind red pill are meant to baby men. “Oh don’t worry baby, you’ll age just like wine while that mean hot lady will die alone old and ugly.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:01 PM
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I watched the full thing. It’s on YouTube. They were speechless. They tried going back to their typical responses, and it didn’t work, so they just mumble and yell a lot and tried to frame it as she’s “emotional” even though they were equally as loud as her. All of the typical points they make are a loaded topic. It does apply to her, but it applies to them too, which they never really understand. You may argue that men don’t lose value, but the only place people resoundingly agree with that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:58 PM
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🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:45 PM
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It sounds like you don’t know what their MO is. She left them speechless because she took the script out from under them. They all usually start going off with: you’re losing value, you’re not special, there are millions of hot bitches out there, etc. They’re low IQ, narcissistic, high clout men pandering by to low IQ, low clout men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:42 PM
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They invite her on because they assume she’s the typical trashy, undereducated hot bimbo they usually have, and they can therefor tell off with no problem. It’s good she’s not. I hope more girls can spin their chair that same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:37 PM
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Maybe after I’m married, if I get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:32 PM
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Which state do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:31 PM
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I agree with your run on sentence. When men accrue a high partner count AND a fuckboy attitude, their subjective RMV drops for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:31 AM
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Sure. I don’t think it’s common relative to the United States. It is statistically above average in every way. It can be a weekly occurrence to meet people who are 6/6/6 if you live in certain cities and have a certain circle of friends, so it can be “common” in that sense. This isn’t meant to talk down about men who aren’t 6/6/6. I’m in the center about this topic, but I’ll admit the bias I have from living in California. Some men frame a 6/6/6 as the sophisticated, elite. Some women frame them…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:05 AM
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Too fucking chicken to show us his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:54 AM
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To your first paragraph, I agree with you. I don’t think it’s okay when FDS women talk about men like they are inferior unless they are 6/6/6. Yeah. I think a good looking enough guy can hook up with Instagram models, cute lawyers/doctors, professional cheerleaders and dancers, and more if his SMV is at minimum around the level of hers. The distinction is that the man typically has to put in the effort at first for his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:44 AM
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But she is a woman who represents part of a whole. If multiple people would like to date her, you could assume there are many men in the world who view women as more than just a human incubator.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:19 AM
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Because of course that means I'm hideously ugly and none of them would really want to date me. Well, no. It means you’re lying, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:16 AM
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You think women and men are distinct and only with each other because of the superpowers they hold? This sounds very autistic. I would love it if artificial wombs were efficient, reliable, and affordable. There would be a lot of benefits to that over becoming pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:14 AM
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Wait what? Why would that terrify women? Make human life without ruining your body, decreasing your life expectancy, and putting your body on pause for a year? That sounds really great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:04 AM
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No. I know I’m susceptible to putting people down as are most people here since it’s a heated place, but I really only get enticed to push back when someone is personally putting me down, being condescending, or boasting about immoral behavior. There’s no real reason for me to come in here and bully men. I get that some women do it or come across like they’re doing it, but there’s a distinction between “you guys are all short and poor compared to men I date” and “6/6/6 can be common in certain c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:56 AM
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That’s so true. I think people just enjoy being angry sometimes. I do have people getting frustrated at me when I claim that short men can still get laid and still be sexy. I once saw a man say “you must be ugly” to a woman who stated she preferred short men. That was ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:19 AM
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Not a confrontational context. If I remember, I think my argument was that 6/6/6s are common in places like Los Angeles, Seattle, and San Francisco. I think some men genuinely will get angry at it because it makes them feel inferior. I would put you in this category as you got really jelly when you learned that and I had a bad impression of you at first, though you’re not on the end of men that practically give me a death threat over it and that negative impression is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:05 AM
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No. The average woman is 5’4. It just feels inconvenient if the man is too tall. Also, the way weight is distributed when you’re too short or too tall is tricky to manage. If he is too tall and skinny, he will look like slenderman. If he is too tall and too chubby, he will look like young Santa Claus or an ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:30 PM
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There’s a disparity in the amount of non blackpillers and blackpillers for sure. I think it’s gotten worse overtime. This subreddit is definitely not for the weak hearted. Every time I mention that I have dated people who are 6/6/6, without fail, a dude comes out of the woodwork to tell me that I’m a disgusting, useless whore who should get raped. They say it in a way that skirts the rules. The mental health in this subreddit is lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:06 PM
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I actually agree with this. I’ve noticed that some people are very trigger happy with the block button, as I’ve seen people here threaten to block others even just over a disagreement within a debate. Nothing personal. The only person I have blocked right now is pussyeatingmaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:29 PM
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Reddit no likey u
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:15 PM
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The childless housewives of /r/antiwork make me want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:36 PM
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I feel like it’s a gradient. I’ve met women who didn’t like it when men opened up, but they are sort of like that to themselves too - they don’t take their own feelings seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:34 PM
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She was either autistic or a douchebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:56 PM
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😞👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:49 PM
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I think your points were flawed in building the argument. I agree with the top comment of that thread. Depth is the absolute opposite of boring. I think you seem like a nice person, but I’m surprised you assume others to think that way. There’s going to be shallow women who don’t want to hear about a man’s emotions, but that’s not every woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:34 PM
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They’re not creeped out when you take nude photos showcasing your ribs in front of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:19 PM
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Aren’t Chads supposed to be good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:13 PM
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The person with the highest partner count that I know in real life is not a Chad and is also not an insecure girl with daddy issues. It’s a effeminate gay dude. His partner count was over +200. I guess it makes sense. He has an exaggerated polygamous male sexuality without a care about pregnancy. He doesn’t need to carry any stigma either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:26 PM
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I wouldn’t say that’s skinny, but she looks good with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:15 PM
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I agree. Negging and insulting others existed when dating existed. It’s not an exclusively red pill thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:50 PM
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Damn you really hate women. I agree with the other women commenting. Sounds like she needed to get drunk to feel confident enough to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:42 PM
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This would be reasonable advice if they themselves weren't an entire subreddit devoted to projecting their bad experiences and bitterness onto men. Also, if you read the post, it seems like their definition of "loser" is a lot more broad than that, which makes their standards strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:22 PM
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To add to FDSer's ridiculous standards, they encourage you to not date former losers. This includes men who were bullied, missed out on chances, late bloomers. I understand the sentiment and I would also advocate not dating someone with FOMO as that's a recipe for disaster, but someone can have lived a certain past and not want to compensate for it. The stupid part is that a lot of FDSers were or still are "losers" themselves in their own opinion. OP is in her 30s, not having even finished colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:37 PM
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Men can date women much younger than them. It just has to even out, which it does. She is a cute, ordinary looking nobody from Peru. He has the status of a male model with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:26 PM
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Goddamn. 90 day fiancé has this new guy who fell in love with a girl +20 years younger than him called Mahogany. I saw a real picture of her and I can’t believe he fell for those heavy filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:05 PM
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Not sure how this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:03 PM
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I don’t think what you’re saying is even completely true. A girl with that same tattoo could be deemed as a bimbo if it was on the wrong person. A chick with a shaved head would be deemed a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:45 PM
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Info: What’s the context of the tattoo? What does the tattoo look like? What does the tattoo symbolize? Butterflies can look and be manly in context. If it looks like it was ripped from a Lisa Frank design and it was his only tattoo, I’d question if the dude was straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:34 PM
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Okay sure. I’m glad your marriage operates in a way that is comfortable for you. I just don’t think traditional relationships where the man always leads should be viewed as bad. I’m a proponent of it, because I’ve seen it really fulfill other women. I’ve also seen women who would otherwise operate better in a traditional relationship, have to take the leadership role instead because of the person they ended up dating, and that can breed resentment for both members.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:30 PM
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I’m going to have to go with your husband for this one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:24 PM
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You can know your own mind and be the one “led” by your partner. The assumption that one wouldn’t is coming from no where. Women aren’t children, and you’re the one implying this. You specified the traditional relationship being “pathetic” which is why I note toxic femininity. It’s feminism meant to degrade traditional relationships, which can operate just fine if both partners are getting what they’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:19 PM
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Sounds like toxic femininity…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:13 PM
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No. I think that each relationship should work how both people want it to work. I can see the appeal of a relationship in which the woman is submissive to the man though. Some men like easygoing women who tend to the man’s needs, and some women like men who are providers who have decisive power. It’s not a super crazy concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:58 PM
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I’m still shocked that Elizabeth Holmes is dating a younger, decent looking guy who is a millionaire. I would think that most men wouldn’t want to date a nationally known criminal. Not sure if she’s just really good at manipulation, if he’s just really desperate, or if they’re both just terrible people who relate to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:53 PM
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Looking for whales today?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:39 PM
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That isn’t that bad. It just seems like an exaggerated way of saying that the woman is submissive to the husband, and that’s just a typical traditional relationship. A lot of men in that thread are answering that the woman has to be one of the most attractive women they can obtain. This seems like something the red pillers in real life I know acted like before they gave up entirely on chasing Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:38 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:37 PM
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That book is gimmicky and corny, not meant to be a reference for being attractive. No one is telling you to be with just one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:35 PM
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Hopefully you’re better now? He seems pretty sad and obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:07 PM
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Yeah. It’s why I don’t care about criticizing her looks. She’s entitled as hell, and knows that she wouldn’t be able to get a free ride if she used her Weird Al aesthetic as her pictures and to meet him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:02 PM
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Joseph Gordon-Levitt is like the female Emma Watson. At his peak, hot as hell, but friendly and attainable looking. So people project that as “average.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:03 PM
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I’m glad you practice what you preach, but the reality is that rejection can lead to discouragement and even depression if “no” is all you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:57 PM
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Do you ask men out often?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:51 PM
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I mean her actual face is still there, but she went from a 6.5/10 to a 5.5/10. She looks a lot goofier when she’s not done up, and I wouldn’t recognize her if I met her as the first version.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:30 PM
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Yes, there is a possibility that she’ll be interested. The reality though is that if she is hot, fit, and young, she has options to choose from. I’d suggest he ask her out if she’s showing hints, but recalibrate his expectations if he continues to get rejected. The other reality is that he proceeds to get rejected, which ruins his ambition to ask women out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:27 PM
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My buddies (23M) tell me I should stay in my rating range for women but don’t know how to rate. And there’s this cute girl I wanna talk to but she’s out of my range? Please be nice /r/dating_advice being blue pilled. Dude in the post is going to stay a virgin if he continues to be hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:11 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4DYiGj_A_RA The girl that made me feel like writing the comment is from 2:34-2:58. Not sure if I’m being harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:44 PM
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Well yes maybe those specific women, but to say most women are unattractive without makeup is essentially admitting you are not attracted to most women. Would you say the ratio is 80/20….
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:27 PM
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Well, if you think most women are unattractive without makeup, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:24 PM
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Usually when I see a before and after picture of a woman being done up, I’m not surprised since I know how makeup falls on someone’s face. I saw one that had be surprised though, and at that point, it felt like a lie. The genetics that she implies she will pass down aren’t the same. The realization that there are a few friends in which I haven’t seen their real face with their real hair color and real hair texture in many years is sad. I think a lot of these things are normalized, and they resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:13 PM
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That’s nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:16 PM
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Cillian Murphy is creepy hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:11 PM
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Keep in mind he’s also pretty tame and professional as an actor. He doesn’t have a bad reputation. Men just like Leonardo DiCaprio, James Franco, John Mayer all have lost a lot of their appeal after their consistent behavior became public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah. I’ve never watched Girls, but I’ve seen him in other movies. He is physically attractive to me. Very masculine features all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:37 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:36 PM
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Sorry to hear you have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:52 PM
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Did she call the paper you write for “fake news”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:50 PM
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I think the whole idea of my question was moreso people who are disagreeable in appearance. It seems like more women than just myself find the ladies you listed to be pretty, and men find them pretty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:11 PM
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Anya Taylor Joy and Natalie Dormer are Stacy-lites if they were dropped into a normal crowd of women their age. I think that they’re just attractive women surrounded by Stacy and Giga Stacy, so they don’t seem as stunning in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:04 PM
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I agree. I was just being cheeky. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:54 PM
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But someone told me that men had more varied taste than women?? Was that a lie????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:50 PM
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I think it’s good to process these feelings instead of hiding them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:38 PM
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What are the female versions of Adam Driver and Pete Davidson? Basically, famous women that other women think are hideous but for whatever reason, men can see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:37 PM
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I meant the way she wrote as in her writing style, not her actual actions. I’ve already noted I think what she did was disgusting. I wouldn’t say I was ever a pickme, but I do have a very anxiety driven personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:29 PM
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I’ll read that one too. People write on these subreddits because they’re the minority of dumpster fires collected into a forum. I guess I believe the one you initially posted because I personally also used to talk that way when I was younger and in a mood. Very frantic and insecure. I wouldn’t do what she did, but there are some women out there who actually would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:18 PM
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This is the reality of dating though. You can’t ever be sure people are equally attracted to each other, even if they are looksmatched. It’s meant to be more of a game for YouTube content than it is means of finding your next partner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:15 PM
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Ah Jubilee is one of my many guilty pleasures. I’ve seen the video where the men are behind the curtain. I’m glad that Jubilee made it fair and released one about women. I’ll have to watch this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:54 PM
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Being gay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:51 PM
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I can see this one being real. I know girls who talk like this when they’re anxious. She’s nuts and disgusting. Some women think they can wrangle a dude for commitment with their pussy. It doesn’t always work that way. It seems like part of her motivation in contacting her and then contacting him back was probably to win him over. She wanted that one girlfriend spot that’s already filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:33 PM
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Race doesn’t really work that way. She can have a white man or an Asian man. Neither is settling. I’m almost 30 and there’s plenty of single White dudes around me wanting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:25 PM
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She was in her mid-20s. That’s hardly the wall. We can also see a picture of her and she’s still cute enough to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:54 PM
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She looks and sounds at most 12 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:06 PM
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For sure. We both live in the same city, so we’re both seeing the same things. I see it both with men and women. I’m mostly worried about the shift to early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:55 PM
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So messed up that people were willing to sleep with her. I get the appeal of neotenous features, but this girl looks like a child. I think her best bet is to join a community of people like her, and only date within that. It’s hard because her condition is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:49 PM
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That’s sort of a catfish though. A lot worse than someone who turned out to be rotund. Normal, good men would have trouble dating her and getting past the physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:45 PM
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Hope you learn and heal during the process!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:58 PM
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Yeah, I’d say those ages are when men are looking for something serious the most often, which would align with what age people typically get married. Most women could have a relationship with their equal at that age, so if they don’t it’s some underlying issue to do with lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:40 PM
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In this case, yes. If he was always willing to be in a relationship, they weren’t in the same league, or she was crazy, or they weren’t compatible. I’d say there’s an age that women are more susceptible to getting fuck-zoned whether or not they’re chasing up, which would be in college and after 35 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:19 PM
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I’m fine with whities in my hood. It’s not weird unless you start hitting on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:16 PM
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Yes. It is a controversial opinion of mine, but I think most relationships succeed if the girl is more “desirable” physically and the man is more financially successful. It works towards gender norms. There are people who don’t like anything close to a traditional relationship, or just have other things to offer, and it may not work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:51 PM
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As you noted in the last comment thread, it’s obviously because women are the only ones capable of being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:52 PM
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Sure. A lot of the post replies are saying he’s an asshole and he should be dumped. I wouldn’t go that far, but I do think this topic has bred enough toxicity to consider breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:42 PM
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this person wouldn’t be attracted to me She was an Instagram thot, and to my knowledge, you’re an incel. That was already a given…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:39 PM
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I don’t think it’s okay to gush about another physical trait that your partner doesn’t have in front of your partner. It’s also not okay to talk about how people of this physical trait are always giving them attention. He’s inadvertently putting her down. There’s nothing she can do about his fixation other than surgically modify her own body or leave him. Sure, he’s not saying, “haha you’re a mooblet, big tits are better,” but it’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:37 PM
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Oh you’ve got to be kidding me. He’s putting his girlfriend down for it and telling stories about his adventures with big tittied women behind her back. If this post was about OP’s girlfriend calling her friend about a huge dick she fucked, y’all would be discussing it until the next evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:29 PM
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A characteristic where someone is a little too concentrated on nitty gritty details, perfection in their way, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:20 PM
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My boyfriend’s big boobs fetish is ruining my self esteem. An example of how men take what they can get, women take what they want. Both genders need to do a little less of that. Man is not shallow for wanting big boobas in his life, but if he ever married her, they’d be stuck in a relationship where he doesn’t get his fill of sex and she doesn’t get her fill of feeling good about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:17 PM
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Him blaming a whole gender is the first red flag. It’s like the saying goes, “if everywhere you go smells like shit…” He sounds like he’s anal, insecure, and condescending. Bad combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:12 PM
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They really do though. It’s perpetuated by the media, but nowadays heavily by women as individuals. I remember when I first experienced it at 19 years old. My friend and I took pictures right before we went out, and the whole time she kept sucking in her stomach every shot, focusing on her pose. The pictures of course ended up with me looking 10 pounds heavier than her when she was in reality 10 pounds heavier than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:07 PM
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I think the reasons in which men and women are single are not gender exclusive. Casual sex is a little different since men are willing to fuck a tree stump.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:05 PM
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Yes. I should have rephrased my original point. I think that men insist that women get rejected because they are going above their looksmatch, while men are getting rejected because their looksmatch doesn’t like them back. I guess it’s more a lot of blame on the woman being unpleasant and hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:07 PM
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I said “unlucky” to be vague, because there’s many reasons men list other than their own personality. Read in between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:57 PM
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What? Is it because they’re the bottom 50% in looks? Isn’t that related to luck? Less than 10% of men are too ugly to get casual sex. And even then, they can go to a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:54 PM
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How convenient is it that when a woman gets rejected for a relationship, it’s because she’s too ugly for the man. But when a man gets rejected for a relationship or casual sex, it’s because he’s unlucky. The demographics of this subreddit are really showing through.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:37 PM
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Sounds like a hobosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:24 PM
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my dad is trans now This is sad. It’s incredibly selfish to come out this late in life. The dad likely has known his whole life that he has feelings of gender dysmorphia. He’s breaking his family apart just like cheating would do. The other part of it is that he’s doing it at a time where all his features have developed. The most feminine MTF are people who start younger, than commit to it if they really know it’s what they’d want. Otherwise, you’ll look like a man in a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:00 AM
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No worries fam
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:33 AM
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Hmm doesn't sound like any of my friends, but then again, I don't have good memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:31 AM
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I see. I wasn't sure how emergencies are queued. I still think her phone call was useless compared to the many other calls that could have existed that same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:22 AM
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I don't think any guy has ever simped hard for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:21 AM
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Normally I would agree with you. He swiped left on cute girls that I'd swipe right on. Instead, he swiped right on women I wouldn't think others would choose, so it's a matter of particular taste. Not really chasing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:12 AM
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My friend is slowly turning into a Karen and I am not into it. I've talked about her here a little bit, but I've tried to imply to her that she has high standards for men, but she brushes it off. This makes her fail in dating, which in turn makes her unhappy and lonely. She called 9-1-1 on people having a party during the day on Saturday. Of course, the cops just came by and told her to deal with it. I imagined a scenario where someone in actual danger or harm is on the other line, but their cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:07 AM
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I don't think he has high standards. Based on what I saw he just seems particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:55 PM
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Didn't you talk about how you think women are stupid children? A typical woman of equal looks and career to yours is automatically heavily dating down in RMV if she were to date you. No normal woman wants to date someone who thinks that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:47 AM
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Getting his foot in the door doesn’t mean that much if he will disappoint them. I also saw that and was confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:25 AM
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lmaoo good catch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:14 AM
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I can't imagine it will. It's cat fishing. I think that saying he works in "healthcare" is even worse, even though it's the truth. Healthcare is one of those industries that sounds lucrative like finance or tech. If I went on a date with someone who claimed they work in healthcare, I'd probably hope for someone within my income range like a Physician Assistant, but anything between a therapist, a nurse, or a doctor, sounds right. I'd be very turned off that he intentionally tried to hide his job…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:11 AM
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(29M) Can’t get a date because of… my job? No one wants to tell him the truth. The truth is that women care about money when they get older and he’s about to be 30 years old. He notes somewhere that he makes $18 an hour. I made about that much when I was 21 years old. I also feel like he’s aiming for an above average girl, when he is average looking himself. He has pictures of himself and he also says in another post that he wants a skinny nerdy girl. Those girls get swiped up like candy. Somewh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:47 AM
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Homeboy looks like he smokes weed out of homemade apple bongs. I'm surprised he has two girls fighting over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:35 PM
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This list is good. They are all famous too, so it's not like someone can come in and say "but he has money" or "but he has fame."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:30 PM
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I don’t disagree with a lot of what you’re saying. I still think that an incel’s problems are different than a femcel’s, and it’s just harder to empathize with unless someone’s been there. Before when I considered myself a femcel, I got a lot of negative feedback, but every few weeks I’d get catcalled. So I’m sure I could get laid. Back then I did manage to get a boyfriend who was my looksmatch, but he wasn’t very nice and would call me ugly too. I feel bad for women who experience similar or wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:23 AM
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I think ugly women who have boundaries will take a lot longer to find a partner than an ugly woman without boundaries. But I feel like a lot of people feel like it’s okay to cross an ugly woman’s boundaries. I used to subscribe to foreveralonewomen and femcel places. Some of them are just normal or even attractive women who are just mentalcels. That’s a lot of incel communities too. There’s a lot of femcels that genuinely are on the same level of Precious (the woman in the movie Precious) though…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:36 AM
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You know what I mean. An overweight woman with an overweight man, or a below average woman with a below average man. I’m a believer that women get treated worse when they’re dating up, but they also get treated terribly when they’re below a 4/10 even outside of the dating world (but especially so).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:39 AM
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They’re struggling because men heavily prioritize looks and sometimes associate it with how they treat women. It’s a common stereotype for overweight women to be treated like shit, even if she dates her looksmatch. I’m not saying femcels have it worse, but they have a unique struggle different from an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:21 AM
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Femcels exist because they struggle finding someone to love them, not because they can’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:08 AM
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You misspelled “rack”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:02 AM
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Maybe I haven’t seen many comments because I have been sticking to daily community chat. Feel free to send in my DMs. I’d be curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:57 AM
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I’m not sure what you’re implying. I empathize with both Asian men and Black women. I will however throw it out there that some of the black women here, barring from people like /u/LittyKitsune, are aggressive as hell and sometimes come off as self hating. Makes sense since you’ll get people from different races who may be a little strong minded about how they’ve been disadvantaged. Users from subreddits like azn_identity and asianmasculinity for whatever reason don’t hang out here that much, si…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:33 AM
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No. The ones that care enough about height would just get off the app and use another or not swipe on men they think look short in images. Also some men kind of cripple others. When I used Tinder, which doesn’t have height filters, a lot of men who were 6’ and over would put their height in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:22 AM
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Can I ask what ethnicity you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:55 AM
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You probably live in SF or PNW? I’ve heard Hinge is pretty bad there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:41 AM
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Because a guy who stays up all day to downvote every comment he sees, talks down to women in the most extreme way, is a virgin, continues to make accounts in a community no one likes him in after constantly getting banned, is going to be attractive. I can tell if a woman here will be unattractive too. I just don’t say it because no other woman or man has put me off as much as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:39 AM
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Will they though? Many women have too much pride to pay for an OLD app, especially since there’s other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:08 AM
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Bumble got rid of free advanced filters. Just another cripple for them height queens. 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:04 AM
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Yeah I feel like that was pretty mean and unnecessary. The guy who posted is decently nice too so it wasn’t really worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 AM
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I actually want my future husband’s last name though as well as the ring, so it would be a bad bargain. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:51 PM
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Smart guy 😁 In the current thread, I would say the men are a range of the normal population. I don’t think anyone is hideous, but I don’t think anyone hideous would show themselves. Chads are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:50 PM
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The last picture thread, I posted up. It was meant to be a fun game, but people were assholes. A very normal looking girl posted her picture and she got torn apart. Meanwhile dudes get called Chad, buddy, and King when they post pictures. There’s not much benefit to women posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:39 PM
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Then I agree with /u/evanstown21. Just find a woman who doesn’t want that sort of relationship. The assumption is that only women want the ring and that’s not quite true. My boyfriend’s price range for a diamond ring is $5-10k more than my preferred price range. The pride he may feel if he saw a large ring on the finger of someone he loves is probably synonymous to a man driving places with a luxury car.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:32 PM
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Easily the Redditor I hate the most and will forever hate the most is SmoothPotato/Errendee/his other accounts. He’s some combination of autistic, sociopathic, and depressed. No empathy at all. I can tell he’s ugly as hell and gives me school shooter vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:24 PM
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If that happens, we should get rid of the societal expectation to take a man’s last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:22 PM
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Not in the mood to scrounge through your comment history. What would I be jealous of?? You’re insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:28 PM
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I think it’s a little more forgivable because she seems like she’s in her teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:04 PM
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Has anyone seen Singles Inferno? I’m tempted to watch it, but not sure if it’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:58 PM
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You say you are tempted to settle down, but the real question is, have you met anyone who was exceptional? Your potential need to settle down by 28 or 35 is irrelevant if you haven’t met the right woman. Although if you haven’t yet, I’d encourage you to start at least casually looking now and seriously looking in your early 30s if you’re uncomfortable with +10 year age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:29 PM
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I think she’s unaware of how self hating she is. She’ll shit all day on other races including men of her own, and then go crazy when people say anything about black women. Also anyone who calls themselves successful but spends all day putting incels down has gotta be self hating a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:22 PM
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Yeah, I agree with your latter comment. I don’t feel sorry for stupidity and selfishness either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:38 AM
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It’s definitely possible to get used for sex. I think that some men can’t relate to that because they think that unless it’s rape, sex is always good. This is not how most women think. I’m not the kind of person to get pumped and dumped, but I still feel bad for women (or men) who get used for sex. I feel like if you say that women willingly engage in this behavior of getting used for sex, you should also say that men often willingly engage in getting used for money. I’m sure there are a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:12 AM
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Yes. I think her boyfriend has sinned a lot and I think she’s just over it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:10 AM
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Sigh. Yeah. 😞 I’ve been out with her many times and she’s finessed drinks in front of her boyfriend, which is still not okay, but at least her behavior is honest. I actually think she’s a kind, generous person. I just think she’s jaded about men and about her boyfriend. It also doesn’t help because we had dinner prior to going out and she kept talking about how hopeless she felt with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:26 AM
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Yeah. 😞 I’m disappointed in her. When she’s sober or tipsy, she’s still okay finessing guys for drinks. I think she should be aware that the acceptance of a drink equates to showing interest. She probably knows this but doesn’t care. Its also so dumb because the bartender kept giving us free drinks, so we had a reliable source that neither of us had to flirt towards. IMO I don’t think she had the physical energy to push him away when he tried making out, but that wouldn’t have happened if she di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:16 AM
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What makes you think I don’t have a soul 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:08 AM
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