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Click "disable inbox replies." I do that a lot. It won't mute the user but it will keep you from seeing replies to that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:13 PM
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noooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:13 PM
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omfg I love this song
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:04 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3e3IwXpyYo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:04 PM
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Firemen tend to come from the same stock as police and military so you've got all the same problems that come with that SES bracket, plus the fact that they work weird schedules with a lot of downtime at work which means that they often get up to shenanigans. I know a cop/teacher couple and they seem happy but they literally only see each other a few hours a week because his "shifts" last four days and he sleeps at the station. Most of his time off is spent catching up on sleep. I can see why it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:02 PM
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Men would just lie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:16 PM
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Oh yeah it's good for stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:52 PM
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Yes and no. I've found it to be almost entirely pointless. The only thing we use it for on a regular basis is reheating pizza and chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:40 PM
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No. Grieving a spouse while going through pregnancy and then with a newborn sounds like hell on earth frankly. One of my best friends died when I was three months pregnant. The day it happened I had a panic attack which is not something I had ever experienced before and that combined with being pregnant was one of the most physically/emotionally stressful things I've ever experienced. It felt like my chest was caving in and my guts were being wrung out. Before I realized it was a panic attack I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:46 PM
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That seems fine. I don't need my friendships to be super deep and meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:00 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:40 PM
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I don't see what's "delusional" about that quote. Some men have good frames (wide shoulders/narrow waist) even in the absence of muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:28 PM
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Hi PPD. I'm drunk and I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:05 AM
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Awwww our boy made it to the big time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:47 PM
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Sure, by that logic the only stipulations for abortion is if the mother's life is at risk. Yes, in my opinion this is the only logically consistent pro life position. It takes critical thinking, decision making, and open-mindedness, all of which are related to IQ, to understand why a woman would want the option to abort a rapist's child though. I don't think they don't understand. They just don't think it justifies (what they believe to be) murder. I can perfectly understand why a parent would w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:15 PM
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I mean, I'm pro choice, but opposing rape exceptions if you're pro life is logically consistent. If abortion is murder, then why would there be an exception for rape? "We must protect the innocent babies at all costs... unless their dad was a rapist, in which case fuck them kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:41 PM
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California, not even once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:49 PM
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Oh my God how many versions of this question can we have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:24 AM
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I don't care about body count per se. Extremely high body count (let's say 50+) tends to correlate with a lot of behaviors I do care about -- excessive drug use/drinking, reckless behavior, risk taking, etc. So I would probably end up filtering out a lot of high n guys for those reasons. But in a vacuum, barring those issues, n count alone isn't a factor I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:18 AM
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I was wondering!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:12 AM
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I am jonesing to hold a newborn so bad. My best friend's baby is due in a month and I will be beating her door down. My baby turns one next month and he's getting less and less snuggly every day. He's nearly walking and once that happens he will have no use for mom anymore I fear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:55 PM
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I'm not sure vice presidents from before you were even born counts as current affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:23 PM
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This is super dependent on the type of puppy. Working breeds need a lot of engagement, exercise, focused play etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:20 PM
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I'm not sure I'd say I'm offended, but outside of certain contexts (medical, police, military, etc.), it's revealing of certain attitudes when a man chooses to say "females" instead of "women."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:35 PM
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It was a boy???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:34 AM
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I guess in a way being gracious is my weakness People say I'm so unpretentious for a genius
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:11 AM
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They can be but that particular example is a little too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:26 PM
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No. I've only had sex with one guy who didn't eventually become a bf, and that was a one off drunk hookup that I didn't even remember the next day. I wasn't interested in dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:05 PM
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I would be more hurt in the first scenario so I guess I prefer the second. I don't really know what level of confidence I'd need because I never really dated like that, it's really out of my wheelhouse so I'm not sure how I'd handle it. My relationships always grew organically from flirty friendships to escalating physical intimacy/dating/sex, and usually by the time it got to sex and dating I was already like 90% sure of where it was going. I don't know how many formal dates I'd have to go on w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:55 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:17 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. But it seems like men interpret women taking precautions as women living in perpetual fear and thinking they ARE going to get attacked rather than reasonably assessing risks and acting accordingly. Statistically, home invasions are very rare, and you are more likely to be robbed by someone you know and willingly let into your home than a stranger entering your home at night. But most people still lock their doors and no one calls them irrational for it. I don't think thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:11 PM
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Where do you draw the line between thinking something will happen and understanding that something can happen and taking precautions against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:53 PM
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I'll just repost my comment from yesterday that you conveniently didn't reply to. I think you need to familiarize yourself with the difference between "some" and "all," as well as the concept of "selection bias."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:58 PM
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You had at least three different people yesterday try to explain to you that this is not what anyone here claims but you just kept ignoring us and hysterically repeating this strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:46 PM
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For all the hype around the app as the 'more relationship focused' app, there's exact the same amount of basic bitches on there. I don't see how this is contradictory. Basic bitches are relationship-oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:10 PM
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I've never sent nudes. Or even taken one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:02 AM
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I doubt he did but if he did then I can't really muster up a fuck to give about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:02 AM
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I didn't say anything like that. But most young women have access to young men, I mean that's hardly surprising. Her access to tall men will depend on her location and ethnicity so depending on those factors she might have access to tall men. And the user population of Reddit skews toward higher earners so it's not surprising that a lot of women here would have access to higher earning men. That's their social and dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:54 PM
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It calculates each factor independently without taking into account that a lot of those traits are overlapping and correlated with one another. It also doesn't take into account that someone's dating pool isn't the entire adult population, it's single adults within their rough age range, geographic location and socioeconomic status. It's not unreasonable for a 25 year old white woman to want a 25-30 year old unmarried white man, and statistically that is who such a woman will end up with. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:42 PM
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Not fancy at all, usually a food truck or pizza or something of that nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:51 PM
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I have to remember to be nice to you now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:46 PM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:23 PM
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Dr Pepper > Coke > Dog piss > Dying of thirst >>>>>>>>> Pepsi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:04 PM
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This coworker I had in college had a crush on another coworker and was always flirting and trying to hook up with her. One time on a break he went to Sonic and she asked if he would get her a drink. He said, "If you don't give up the pink, you don't get no Sonic drink." I don't think I will ever be able to get a drink from Sonic without thinking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:57 PM
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She has a big belly and small boobs which is a terrible combination. Her legs and thighs look good though you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:04 PM
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Thin. Her face is pretty in the thicc photo but her weight distribution is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:20 PM
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Lol what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:04 PM
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Not really sure what there is to discuss. It's sad but it's not really OP's problem. Seems like she's handling it well and is being considerate of him and his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:33 PM
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Fly high sweet prince I'm sure he'll be back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:28 PM
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Irrelevant to whether or not you’re being sexist. I'm not saying the accusations are necessarily wrong, it just doesn't add anything to the debate or discussion, especially on a sub where many people are openly sexist and don't care and the subject matter is arguably sexist by nature. Give me context. This is the thread that inspired this comment but this is just the most recent example of something that happens here all the time. Person 1: [Generalization about one sex or the other] Person 2: Z…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:01 PM
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I just think it's a dumb accusation on a sub where the whole point is to discuss sexual dynamics and differences between the sexes. The subject matter of the sub is inherently "sexist." It would be like going to r/racescience and clutching your pearls over racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:55 PM
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Booooo. BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 🍅🍅🍅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:14 PM
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Accusing someone of "sexism" on PPD is the dumbest shit in the world and whenever someone does it we should be allowed to throw tomatoes at them and say "booooooooo"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah people always say I look serious or like I'm about to cry when usually this is what's going on in my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:20 PM
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Portland Maine is a big craft beer place too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:18 PM
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At that point it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:15 PM
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There are plenty of women who had premarital sex who don't feel this way. And there are women who waited for marriage who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:46 PM
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A lot of women who find themselves in relationships like this repeatedly are from a social class and environment where those men are overrepresented.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:10 PM
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Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:21 PM
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No, TwoX worships trans and bans anyone who says anything remotely critical or questioning about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:41 PM
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Boring
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:27 PM
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Depends. Generally a follower but I have been known to break rules if it doesn't run afoul of my values and if I'm reasonably certain I can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:03 PM
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lol fair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:23 PM
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vampires, monsters, werewolves and surgeons One of these things is not like the others...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:19 PM
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stay stay stay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:54 PM
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I'll have to remember to mention that in the next "benefits of marriage" thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:42 PM
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I don’t know any men that have this mindset but then again 80% of my guy friends are single. Yes that's my point. If all your guy friends are single of course they do all this themselves. Call me when they're married. My husband and I got into a fight about this recently because I shredded and threw away some documents that turned out to be important. They had been sitting on the kitchen counter since January. I got tired of moving them out of the way and figured if they had been there that long…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:21 PM
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When men get married, a lot of that administrative stuff gets filed into the "wife box" in their mind and becomes her responsibility. That he did it when single doesn't mean he'll keep doing it when he's married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:14 PM
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How do you know they can't? My understanding is the listings are pretty detailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:10 PM
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You can't even donate eggs unless you're under a certain age and healthy (which would include weight and body fat %) And yes, things like education and appearance are factors donors are encouraged to consider. Plus I think most donors are someone related or known to the couple anyway. What, did you think people are just given random eggs with no selection process?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:55 PM
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I don't know how many times but yes I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:20 PM
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This is just white trash doing white trash shit. One of my cousins has a similar story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:57 PM
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Exactly what I did in that situation - break up and cut all contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:15 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:01 PM
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That just means that her not getting cancer wasn't a condition. Doesn't mean there aren't other conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:15 PM
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Idk, people have different strengths. I have a lot of creative friends; I myself am not very creative but I find it admirable and inspirational in other people. On the other hand I'm more grounded and responsible than a lot of my friends which they admire about me. I don't think a person has to be objectively in a better station than you for you to find some aspect of them inspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:48 AM
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Instructional designer, make around $60k
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:39 PM
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I did. I never cared about being the best at anything or having some elite career. I just wanted a job that earned enough to be comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:02 AM
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I think once I graduated and moved out of my parents' house. Which is when I was 18. I'm not sure I understand adults who say they still "feel like" teenagers. What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:24 AM
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It happens. It's awkward but not the end of the world. Just treat him like you would any other acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:51 PM
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No. My husband is 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:46 PM
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I don't understand the difference. My actions are a by-product of who I am. How do people know "who I am" if not by observing what I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:25 PM
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I'm pretty sure it's pork chops with cream gravy which is common in the south. And the yellow I think is baked or mashed potatoes with cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:36 PM
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Doesn't really account for different ethnicities. But otherwise yeah I agree it's a good rule of thumb. I have two brothers and we all have similar facial features but the coloring and build is different. My oldest brother and I are tall and blonde like our mom and the other brother is short and dark haired like our dad. My oldest brother is built like our dad, kind of stocky, and my youngest brother and I are lean and lanky like my mom's side of the family. Overall my oldest brother and I look …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:11 PM
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Yes. This is exactly right. Getting compliments from other people just makes it stand out more that you're not getting them at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:07 PM
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If she's constantly asking then he's probably not treating her in a way that communicates it. Or words are her love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:52 PM
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We want to know we're attractive to the person we're sleeping with. Compliments from other people feel good but they don't assure us of that. This is like asking why you want physical intimacy from an SO when you could just hug a friend, or why you want your SO to tell you they love you when you hear it from your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:51 PM
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And now his dumb ass is running for governor lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:16 AM
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Use a wide toothed comb to get the biggest knots out (I do this in the shower while rinsing out my conditioner) and then a Tangle Teezer. It's safe on wet hair. I have straight fine hair and I spray my brush with Static Guard or rub it with an unscented dryer sheet before brushing my dry hair. Helps with flyaways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:59 PM
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I mean, he does have HIV...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:48 PM
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Making up an excuse to talk to a guy like this is a classic IOI. Tell her the name of the movie and ask if she wants to watch it with you. I don't know why you're acting like dating a dude from your dorm is something only a desperate ugly girl would do. If people like each other what difference does it make where they met?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:17 PM
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I grew up in a church where most women didn't wear pants or cut their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:13 AM
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I'm not religious and any religious person would be a dealbreaker except maybe a very nominal Christian
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:52 AM
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Very important. The relationship wouldn't even start without that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:12 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:34 PM
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Cute or beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:45 AM
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Yeah, I loved it. I really hate living alone though. There was a two month period once between when one roommate moved out and another moved in, and I was so anxious and miserable. That's the only time I've ever lived alone in my life. I know some people have roommate horror stories but I either got lucky or just make friends with people who make good roommates lol. I never had issues. We had a lot of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:48 AM
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I had roommates all through my 20s but they were all people I was friends with before living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:02 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:57 AM
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Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:04 PM
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Holy shit u/simeneta_two I just saw a recent pic of Emma Watson and you weren't kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:59 AM
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We want to find someone we have actual chemistry with and want to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:38 PM
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Our anniversary is cinco de mayo 2012!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:42 PM
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Mine was "stain" but then someone on tiktok said you're a coward if you use the same starting word every day so now I do a different one every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:22 PM
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I'd be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:22 PM
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I was depressed about a breakup and my roommate forced me to go out drinking with him. Little did I know he and another friend of ours had planned this outing with the intention of me meeting the other friend's roommate, who had just broken up with a girl who they all hated and didn't want him to get back together with. The idea was for me and the roommate to hit it off and start dating. So we go out to a bar to hear a friend's band play and we just "happen" to run into the aforementioned friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:16 PM
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Brando
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:54 PM
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men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:55 PM
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I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:10 PM
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Bonus points if they follow you to other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:10 PM
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All of the drugs she does Scare me real good She's got a tattoo and two pet snakes But nobody knows me like her Nobody knows her like me We're all we've got and we don't wanna be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:09 PM
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When we were talking about the movie on the drive home my husband said something about liking Collin Farrell in it and I was like "What are you talking about? Collin Farrell wasn't in that movie." I had no idea that was him. In fact I distinctly remember thinking at one point that it was weird they got some unknown actor to play the Penguin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:21 PM
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Depends on circumstances. I can (and have) gone months without any form of sex due to a medical issue. I handled that fine but I also knew there was a definite end date. Without a reason like that I think anything less than once a week would concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:42 PM
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It's literally just different lighting and the fact that one picture is a mugshot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:02 PM
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Atlas is still here under another name but not posting as much as she used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:06 AM
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Yeah I hate this. Home Depot had made it nearly impossible to order anything from them without using their app and their app is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:46 AM
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True. But it's not just the offices that have doors. Utility closets, cabinets, bathrooms with 10+ stalls, etc. I'm still team wheels but I think people are way underestimating the amount of doors there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:23 PM
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Get a load of this beta simp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:51 AM
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Think of all the doors in an office building or skyscraper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:33 AM
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This is a really good point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:32 AM
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Not true in my experience, I think this is mostly confirmation bias. Women like having something to nurture, so they like pets, but they want kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:11 PM
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Yeah same. It's either good or it's not. I don't really make distinctions between "good," "better," "best." The elements of good sex are always the same. I guess if I actively thought "Wow sex with X guy was so much better than sex with Y guy," that would be a pretty bad sign, but that would probably mean that sex with Y guy was just bad and I wouldn't want to be with him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:29 PM
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Yes, female victims of sexual assault, not just women across the board on every topic. And it was directed toward law enforcement. I didn't remember the movement actually being called #BelieveWomen though, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:05 PM
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tbh I'm not sure I've ever heard anyone earnestly say "believe all women," that seems like some kind of game of telephone that happened over time. What I recall is a movement to believe all victims, which was about law enforcement taking a woman at her word when she reports a crime committed against her and doing their due diligence to investigate. It was never meant to be "believe everything any woman says about anything," although I'm sure some bad faith actors on both sides have twisted it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:45 PM
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If true that's very sad. That's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:58 PM
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I'm going to guess you're in your early 20s and your parents came of age in the 80s/90s. That's why. These things tend to be cyclical. My parents came of age in the 70s and I've always been nostalgic for that time. My grandparents came of age in the 50s and my mom was nostalgic for that time. So on so forth. We grow up seeing an era that we missed out on through our parents' rose-colored glasses and their nostalgia rubs off on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:57 PM
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Sorry I should have been more clear, there were certainly times/places in history where porn was illegal. But the huge jump in porn consumption you're referring to wasn't because it suddenly became legal (which it already had been for quite a while), it was because it became free, discreet and immediately accessible. Also look at Netherlands and Germany on how they deal with it. I'm familiar. In none of those countries is it possible to summon a prostitute to instantly manifest in your home, any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:41 PM
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shhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:21 PM
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She has a whole new album! It's actually really good!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:20 PM
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The new Avril Lavigne lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:17 PM
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That's because it's free, convenient and accessible 24/7. Legal prostitution wouldn't be any of those things. Porn was always legal, it wasn't the legality that changed things, it was the fact that it became free and ubiquitous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:49 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:26 AM
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Yeah, if I wear blue I wear a pale blue. "True" blue and navy blue don't look good on me but some lighter blues do. Worst colors on me are pink (unless it's an orangey/salmon kind of tone) and purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:16 AM
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Lol my family is like that but with L's. Thankfully there are only three of us and one goes by his middle name that starts with a different letter so it's not quite that cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:51 AM
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Yeah. I don't really do it on purpose, that's just what looks good on me so that's what I wear. I have a couple of blue things but most of my clothes are in the autumnal color family. Brown/tan, gold, rust, orange, brownish greens, etc. I also just prefer warm tones to cool tones aesthetically, not just on me but just in general. I am very affected by color, like, psychologically. Warm colors make me feel happy and peaceful, cool colors bum me out. I have dark blonde hair, green eyes and yellowi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:49 AM
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Gold all day. I am a warm tone gal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:18 AM
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I'd be really embarrassed and feel bad and awkward. But I probably wouldn't agree to the date in the first place if that's where he wanted to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:52 AM
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Their parents suck at naming kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:28 AM
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Poppy and grid are both black women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:36 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:03 AM
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No joke, my brother got out of jury duty once by saying "I'm not going to lie to you, I'm really racist"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:36 AM
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Oh no, they're keeping the mama. My dad is too attached already. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:35 AM
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I thought of you the other day. My dad and his business partner just bought 40 head of black Angus cattle, all of them pregnant. The first calf was born a couple days after they were delivered and unfortunately I guess it was premature or something and didn't make it 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:19 AM
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My job is easy as fuck. Unfortunately my pay reflects this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:42 AM
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The virgin peer reviewed source The Chad "just trust me bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:03 PM
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Chuffed means pleased/amused. I think you mean miffed or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:58 PM
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This is why the guys here who complain about modern women tend to be young. I don’t think they realize how common it is for boring middle aged married people to have had a wild youth. Yeah. This reminds me of how the men here say "modern women" can't or don't cook or have domestic hobbies and then you find out said man is like 20. Yeah no shit, college girls don't cook and have homemaker hobbies, women do that once they settle down, have husbands/kids, own homes etc. Of course Becky Undergrad sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:08 PM
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It was implied in her original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:56 PM
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Dude. She LITERALLY SAID that she got that message from her culture and her family. I don't know what this "we" is, I was only replying to OP, I never said anything about the messages you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:52 PM
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She said her childhood was modern and feminist. I took that to mean her cultural/community influences. Edit: Quote from another comment from OP just now All the women in my family just told me to go be a hoe and explore lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:48 PM
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Well, this dichotomy makes about as much sense to me as AF/BB, which is to say not much at all. There's no rule that says a woman who sleeps around in her youth can't be good with kids and cook, or that a woman who likes kids and cooks didn't sleep around in her youth. In my experience men go on to marry the same type of woman they slept with when they were younger, just like women do. I don't see a lot of people of either sex changing the type of person they go for drastically. But like I said,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:47 PM
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The internet blows it out of proportion. Plus a lot of these dudes are pining for some "trad" woman and lifestyle that historically never existed. If you look at any actual traditional community in the west -- Amish, Mormons, hardcore fundie Christians etc. -- the apostacy rate for men is way, way higher than for women (the only exception AFAIK are Orthodox Jews). There aren't enough young men in the churches for the young women to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:39 PM
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I've not seen much evidence that they change their minds later tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:34 PM
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She's saying she grew up believing you have to be a ho but she came to learn that men actually want trad girls. I grew up believing men wanted trad girls but came to learn that they want hos (or at least, not chaste prudes).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:30 PM
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lol my experience was almost the complete opposite. I grew up in a very conservative evangelical church so I was taught about the importance of purity and chastity and all of that. Meanwhile at school I saw boys chasing after the "slutty" girls and ignoring Nice GirlsTM like me. Went through an anger phase about that in high school but eventually got over it (unsurprisingly, this coincided with my leaving the church). I don't think women have to be total whores to get male attention or anything,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:19 PM
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Fair point yeah. More like urban vs. non-urban
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:04 PM
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It would be more like urban populations vs rural populations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:46 PM
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Hispanic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:06 PM
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This is how my husband is. He can't grow a beard (he can grow a mustache and a little goatee thing, but not a full beard) and naturally has no hair on his chest or back and very little on his arms. But he's hairy AF below the waist. I think it's an ethnicity thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:45 PM
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idk why women who like slick little hairless baby seal twinks insist on pretending that's the preference of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:27 PM
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Yeah I wondered this too lol, if I'm thoroughly shaving everything it takes a good 20 minutes at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:26 PM
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According to these calculators I'm a .661% woman married to a 2.1% man and I'm an "aspiring cat lady" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:11 PM
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In contrast, I met guys who were regular guys in other countries, the standards where, "Don't be a drunk, have a job, be a decent guy." There's many guys that i know who have girlfriends and are average guys at best. This describes most of the people I know, but my social circles are mostly working class/lower middle class. The "standards" you listed (with the exception of the motorcycle thing which is kind of left field) seem to be the standards of upper middle class, educated white women. No w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:34 PM
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Depends on their lifestyle I guess. A touring musician could potentially rack up 100+ in a year. For a normal hot guy, assuming he's putting in an effort, hitting up the bars and OLD and all that...idk, one or two a month? 20ish in a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:11 PM
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As long as I can remember. I just really can't stand her for literally no reason lol. She's a good actress and is in good movies but every time I see her I just get instantly angry. Idk. One of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah for sure. She seems like a cool person with a good head on her shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:36 PM
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Boob men > ass men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:42 PM
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OP said filial not familial. Ok? I'm me, not OP. I’d bet they don’t see their love as familial. Just because the fireplace no longer lights up doesn’t mean the memories of past flames don’t still warm the hearth. I don't understand the fireplace analogy. But I have had older relatives explicitly tell me as they got older the passionate, lusty love was replaced by something more stable and familiar. To me that sounds a lot like love transitioning from erotic to familial. I’ll give you another exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:27 AM
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Arousal is a spectrum. Those butterfly in the stomach/racing heart symptoms are LITERALLY your body becoming physically aroused and increasing heart rate and blood flow. That is part of the sexual arousal process even if it doesn't lead to full on boners and gushing pussy every time. Frankly I think "asexuals" are largely liars and/or people who have some kind of psychological hangup about sex and don't want to admit or acknowledge that they are having those feelings. I don't believe they are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:15 AM
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Butterflies in your stomach and a racing heart are physiological, not emotions. That's your blood vessels expanding to increase blood flow. You're describing physical arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:04 AM
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Lol I don't always agree with you but you're 100% right in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:01 AM
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I'd argue that at that point the love they feel is familial, not romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:00 AM
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stomach-butterflies heavy-heartbeat, chemical rush feeling These are sexual feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:59 PM
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Yeah I think there's some truth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:42 PM
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Oh yeah ScarJo, I didn't think of her. I have an irrational hatred for Natalie Portman so I probably can't rate her objectively lmao, but I never found her that pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:40 PM
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Yeah, agreed on JLaw Honestly now that I'm thinking about it it's been a while since there was an A list actress I thought was really beautiful. I'm trying to think of the most recent one, maybe young Charlize Theron?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:29 PM
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Yeah I don't get it either. I see all these women on Tiktok and Twitter worshipping her and saying she's the most beautiful woman in the world. She's pretty but I don't understand why she gets that level of hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:20 PM
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Seems like some kind of hypersexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:37 PM
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What is your idea of the perfect or near perfect relationship? I'm not sure, I don't really think in ideals. I just wanted someone I liked who liked me and wanted the same things out of life that I did and who I could see being part of my family. What is it that initially drew you to your partner? He is my physical type and he just has an air about him that I find really attractive. His mannerisms and the way he moves. What is it about your partner that you love or simply find irresistible? I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:15 AM
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idk, the word "genetics" to me implies something about my direct lineage rather than just some broad group I belong to. If it was worded as something like "It's ok, your kind just isn't good at this sort of thing, it's not your fault," then I might assume they were talking about sex/race/some broader category. At that point how I interpreted it would depend on who it was coming from -- if it was coming from another woman, I obviously wouldn't assume she was referring to my sex. I might assume th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:58 PM
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tbh if they used that exact wording I'd assume they were insulting my parents
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:46 PM
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My phase was in my teens, but yeah, exact same trajectory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:43 PM
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Most women who say girls are too much drama are either stealth pick mes or the even more annoying "not like other girls" As a reformed NLOG, can confirm lol Although I think for me it was also the fact that I was (and still am tbh) terribly intimidated by other women. It is very hard for me to be around women my age and not size myself up against them and make myself insecure. With men, I'm not comparing myself against them or worried about making some social misstep, so I can just relax and enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:31 PM
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When I was younger I was definitely in the "I like guys, girls are too much drama" camp. Throughout high school I only had two female friends (who are still my best friends today) and the rest of my friends were guys. In college and through my 20s I made a lot more female friends and was part of a big co-ed friend group who hung out together all the time. Now in my 30s I still have friends of both sexes, but I've come to value female friendship a lot more at this stage of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:55 PM
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I think ADHD = Ne in general. Or at least strongly correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:02 PM
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Just based on conversations I've had online, and reactions to the word on this sub, it seems like they don't. But it may be a language barrier thing rather than generational. Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:06 PM
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Idk, it just seems like it's not really used anymore and I see a lot of young people express confusion at a man being called cute, or they think it's insulting or diminutive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:49 PM
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For gen x and older millennials, "cute" is just means attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:35 PM
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Women could very much work in the 40s. There were tons of female scientists there. And the "white picket fence romanticism" was after the war. Your examples were from the past too so I'm not sure what your point is anyway. Shouldn't the same logic apply to Neitchze, Von Numann, Tesla et al too? If it was easy to get a wife back then as long as she didn't work and you made good money then why couldn't those guys get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:43 PM
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I watched a documentary yesterday about the development of the atomic bomb. At one point the scientists at Los Alamos were having so many babies they had to add on to the maternity wing at the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:13 PM
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Interesting. I'll have to go look this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:53 PM
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Ah ok, I think you mean dysmorphia/dysphoria, not dimorphism. But yes I agree that's a huge problem for young men today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:52 PM
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Everyone who has history with Putin keeps saying Putin is acting different/strange/crazy/bizarre etc. Can you point me to some examples of this? Not doubting, just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:06 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:14 PM
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TV, read, internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:12 PM
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I pretty much haven't made any new friends since college but I think I am abnormal in that regard. I agree with you most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:12 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:43 PM
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Seems like you answered your own question. He's got fuck you money (it's called that for a reason), he's not beholden to anyone and being a misogynistic playboy is his whole "brand" so he can't get canceled for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:05 PM
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Yeah conservative is a loaded term that muddies the water a bit. But it's a fact that as a population becomes more educated, less religious, wealthier, etc., that population's fertility rate tends to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:56 PM
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Statistically, they are the only ones coming close to breeding at replacement. That said, a lot of those kids don't follow in their parents' footsteps, so they're still a dying breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:19 PM
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I like steak medium or medium rare but burgers well done. Can't stand any pink in a burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:21 PM
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Protection, comfort, sex, companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:41 PM
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I saw my little cousin at a funeral recently. I haven't seen him in like 15 years. In my head he is a scrawny little kid with a speech impediment. Now he's a 6'5 Marine. I saw him and I was like "wtf, who is that gigantic dude" and nearly fell out of my chair when I realized who it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:37 PM
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lol I'd take 70s Burt over Henry Cavill or (especially) Ryan Gosling any day I do agree with your point about bifurcation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:34 PM
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I've always found it odd how feminists- many of whom haven't had sex in years and are effectively asexual or nonsexual- get incredibly offended when you suggest women simply have lower libidos on average than men. Why does this piss them off? Because liberal feminism's entire philosophy and worldview is based on the idea that there are no inherent biological differences dictating the behavior of men vs. women and that it's all just socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:47 PM
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Oh no! I hope he's okay. My dad had a heart attack a few years ago, had surgery and was good as new. Cardiac medicine is incredible these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:22 PM
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add weight Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:48 AM
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With a boyfriend I would break up probably after a couple of months. With a husband, it depends on a lot of factors. Potentially forever if it was out of his control and we were sharing other types of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:14 PM
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Yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:12 PM
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My type is just a pattern, not a hard and fast rule. I can and have been attracted to men who aren't my usual type. But I wouldn't date someone if there wasn't attraction there to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:19 PM
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A woman in that headspace isn't going to take any advice you give her and is likely to just get mad and spiteful. You have to wait for the right moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:23 PM
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In private, between close friends and family? A large percentage. But we also try to be sensitive to when a friend is just looking to vent or when they really need advice and guidance. It just depends on the specific scenario and relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:09 PM
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This is just social tact. You don't air someone's dirty laundry in front of other people. If I had a problem with my husband I would wait until we were alone to discuss it, I wouldn't bring it up in front of friends. I wouldn't bring up Friend A's problems in front of Friend B unless they were both very close to each other. It's rude to everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:05 PM
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My mom was constantly on my ass growing up to groom myself, watch what I eat, wear makeup, etc. etc. She was very blunt about what's wrong with my looks and what I needed to do to remedy it. When I was in my late teens and frustrated with the lack of attention I was getting from boys and whining about how I would be a great girlfriend but guys just wanted slutty drama queens, my best friend told me, in so many words, "It's because you act like a haughty bitch and you need to loosen up." When one…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:57 PM
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Yes lol, very true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:52 PM
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So you're lying to each other in front of one another? In front of other people, yes. Tough love comes one on one on or in small trusted inner circles, not on social media or in mixed company. Also, I saw this in one on one conversations with my exes friends, not out in public. It was still in front of YOU. Of course your ex wasn't going to have an intimate, personal conversation with her friend in front of you. From what I saw, women cut off other women who gave them criticism. Not my experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:19 PM
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Women get tough love like that from women in our families - moms, grandmas, aunts, sisters. Friends gas each other up more but they do offer tough love advice behind closed doors too. You only see what women say to each other publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:12 PM
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They forgot "cis" too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:58 PM
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capitalist hetero patriarchal 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:58 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:50 PM
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It's fun to be touched by a guy you're flirting with. I don't relate to your experience of it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:17 PM
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I'm one of the begrudging ones. I hate it, but I'm embarrassed by what I look like if I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:12 PM
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Idk, kino definitely works on me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:10 PM
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Yeah I don't think I have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:32 AM
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Women of PPD, why are men bad? Women of PPD, why are red pill men worse than Hitler? Women of PPD, why do red pill men hate women??? Please link to these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:26 PM
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Twice a week or so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:38 PM
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It's not that vaginas is magic, is that we had sex first and we stayed the night, including talking...and sex was good enough to see each other again and again, while still having fun and learning about each other Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:46 PM
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I wanted a family and someone to share life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:21 PM
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I never said my husband or any of the guys I hooked up with were 8-9/10. They were all pretty average and so am I. Obviously not every guy I hooked up with married me. A few of them dated me for a while. A few of them didn't. A few of them went on to marry other women they hooked up with. I don't know why people are interpreting me saying "women often marry a guy they hooked up with" as "every hookup is guaranteed to lead to marriage" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:12 PM
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I'm not saying every hookup leads to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:11 PM
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It depressed me. I had very low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:46 PM
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To buy a house, and just for general unexpected large expenses/emergency stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:12 AM
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Lot of people eating crow right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:11 AM
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No, there was no dating. We got drunk at a party, made out and had sex. We started going on "dates" after having sex for a couple of months when we realized we really liked each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:55 AM
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I married a guy who started as a hookup and so did most of my friends 🤷🏼 Again when I say hookup I'm not talking about some random stranger. Usually it's someone in your social circle who you know and like already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:49 AM
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Yes, but not necessarily random ONS with strangers they just met. This is not in contradiction with my claims. I know, I was just specifying because I've noticed a lot of people on this sub have a very narrow idea of "casual sex" that IME doesn't align with what most casual sex actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:07 AM
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Most women engage in casual sex. Yes, but not necessarily random ONS with strangers they just met. Women choose the hottest person available for casual sex. Eh, not really. Women hook up with the guy who's attractive and initiates and escalates. She needs to be attracted to him but he doesn't have to be the hottest guy in the room. Women settle for a less attractive man as the hottest man can't marry all the women he slept with. Not necessarily and a lot of women marry men they initially hooked …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:38 AM
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A dude could rack up an n count of 50 having sex once every couple of months for a few years. Hardly sex addict territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:28 PM
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Me too lol, not my type of guy but he seems nice and cool so I really hope he meets somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:21 PM
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Wouldn't want to leave him hanging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:17 PM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:04 PM
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For a lot of them it is and those women would probably find this guy's profile appealing. But for someone like me who's barely even left the state, I would see that and be intimidated because in my experience people who travel a lot tend to sneer and act superior toward people who haven't. That's not to say this guy would necessarily do that, but it would give me pause if I saw in someone's dating profile that they did a lot of international travel or lived abroad for long periods of time. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:41 PM
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the "he/him" gender label he has listed as the first thing for some reason I used Bumble BFF recently and pronouns are one of the things it asks when you sign up and then it puts them on your profile by default. You can take them off but since it's an automatic thing it's not something I would really hold against someone for having on their profile even though I agree it's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:06 PM
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He also lived in Japan for six years which is pretty dope to talk about for the average solipsistic American. Maybe it's attitudes like this that makes people intimidated by people like this dude. If you feel like a guy is going to look down on you for being an "average solipsistic American" because you've never been out of the country then you're probably just going to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah. Women tend to make up narratives and fill in blanks in our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
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Think of job listings, women don't typically apply unless they hit 90% of the demands. Men apply from 50% and up. Women think (Well...most of them), that if you have a demand on your profile, that this is almost completely set in stone, because for them it fucking is. This is an interesting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:40 PM
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I won't deny that this guy's height probably has something to do with why he's getting NO matches, but yes personally I am intimidated by very fit/active people like this. I would be suspicious of a guy like that pursuing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:38 PM
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These days it's just due to me not really putting myself in situations that are conducive to getting male attention. When I was younger, I was thin but with a very plain face and a generally gangly/awkward look about me. Combine that with having much prettier friends, and a socially awkward demeanor and body language that often came across as bitchy/aloof/standoffish, plus terrible fashion sense, and I didn't get a lot of male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:49 PM
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I was just about to say the same thing. Good sex is good sex, they were all the best at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:50 PM
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good question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:37 PM
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I can't rank theoretical guys, I need to actually see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
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Nothing does more to keep me humble than threads like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:28 PM
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Cheers! 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:53 AM
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Thanks! Here is a reply to the guy's post saying it's a porn addiction, and that's not the only reply like that. I think the difference in the types of replies is due mostly to the fact that the male OP specifically requested responses from women who are into this. Obviously they are going to respond positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:29 AM
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Well, the tone and context of the OPs is different. The first is a person saying their partner likes it, they don't, and it's causing problems in their relationship. The second is specifically asking women who like it why they like it. He doesn't seem to have a problem with it, he's just curious what the appeal is. So it's not a 1:1 comparison and there's obviously going to be some selection bias on the second post. But even then, skimming the second post I see a lot of replies saying it's indic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:21 AM
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It's the city where liberals from other parts of Texas tend to move. It also has a lot of coastal transplants, and large tech and entertainment industries which tend to lean liberal. Plus several universities including a public Ivy. Plus, it's a very young city. Once people marry and have kids they rush to the suburbs. The counties north and west of Austin are some of the reddest in the state. That said, all the major cities in Texas are blue, as major cities tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:13 PM
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Do you think brown skinned people in Texas is something new?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:06 PM
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simpycolon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:00 PM
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My relationships have all started with the man being the sexual instigator 🤷🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:51 PM
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Nah that's lame. Clubs aren't really my scene either but I like people who can have fun whatever the situation. If you're going to go out with you friends and be a pouty sourpuss all night then just stay home. That person wouldn't appeal to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:31 PM
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Oh hey thanks! I had no idea. I was just contemplating whether it might be time to nuke this account lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:50 AM
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Whichever one approaches and interacts with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:07 AM
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To some degree yes. Men's desire for more more more is insatiable, men are always going to be "sexually unsatisfied" unless they're banging a rotating cast of 19 year olds willing to fulfill their every sexual whim. But I know what I want is unrealistic. Like I said elsewhere, as long as he can watch porn in private, not let me find out and not make it my problem, that's all I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:30 AM
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I'm skinnyfat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:11 AM
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Yes. Edit: Go without whatever this specific kink is. Not go without sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:01 AM
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Then the question you need to ask is "what is the definition of monogamy," the answer to which is "a sexually and emotionally exclusive relationship." Porn violates that because it is seeking out sexual gratification from other people, thus, not exclusive. Like I said, it's not technically cheating, but it's very much skirting the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:01 AM
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Family formation, bonding, intimacy without fear of STDs, paternal certainty, etc. Depends on the couple, people do it for lots of reasons. No one's saying you have to commit to monogamy if you don't want to. But if you do, you can't be shocked and horrified that the other person expects you to be monogamous and is hurt when you skirt the boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:54 PM
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That's cute that you think that's a common opinion. Where did I say it's a common opinion? The man doesn't want to lose his house and custody of his children. You forget about guys in those situations? Then I guess he should watch porn on the down low and not let his wife find out. Doesn't seem hard. Biological imperative to breed. Nothing we can do to change that. Having sex with their SO doesn't fulfill that imperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:49 PM
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There's nothing wrong with sexual gratification. In a monogamous relationship, sexual gratification is meant to be sought out with your partner, not people outside of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:47 PM
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Go without, obviously. I don't worship at the altar of "kinks"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:47 PM
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I am of the opinion that women should put out often whether they're in the mood or not, so your assumptions about that are wrong. But if she's not putting out, then leave. Why stay in an ungratifying relationship and jerk off to porn? It doesn't make any sense. You could be single, jerking off to porn, and looking for someone else to have sex with. But this is beside the point anyway because men don't just watch porn when they're unsatisfied. Lots of men have plenty of sex in their relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:27 PM
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This is a stupid analogy. If being in a relationship with you means she's going to starve to death then she can leave the relationship and find someone who can feed her (why can she get a job and buy her own food in the first place?). It doesn't give her the right to be unfaithful. Likewise, men are welcome to leave an ungratifying relationship and seek gratification elsewhere. But you're not entitled to your SO being fine with your unfaithfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:20 PM
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I think you have every right to be offended if your girlfriend is letting other men take her out to lunch, regardless of your financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:16 PM
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You're actively seeking out other women for the purposes of sexual gratification. It might not be "cheating" in a technical sense but it's unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:08 PM
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Again, you don't need to be horny to have sex. Men aren't in the mood all the time either. Yes, that's why I said he should put in a good faith effort to get her in the mood, and she should be open to it and take one for the team sometimes. I'm literally advocating for women to have sex even when they're not in the mood. But he should at least TRY to get her in the mood because that will make the encounter more fun for everyone involved. What a tragic way to think about intimacy... It's just the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:17 PM
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"In the mood" means "horny." Women are female humans with female hormone profiles that create a different sexual response than what males experience. They also have female anatomy that can experience discomfort, pain and injury if not adequately prepared for sex. Initiate cuddling and see how that goes. Why should she initiate cuddling if she's not the one actively wanting it? If he wants sex, HE should initiate, and SHE should be open to his initiation. There's two sides to this equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:57 PM
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I pretty much echo u/philomexa's exact sentiments. I think having sex regularly is important, and I think given that MOST women have lower/more inconsistent libidos than MOST men, that means the woman will sometimes have to take one for the team. That's not to say the man should just stick in in whenever he wants. But the woman should be open to physical intimacy and do her best to let him get her in the mood. (Of course this also implies that the man has a duty to put in a good faith effort to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:44 PM
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Lol, yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:31 AM
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The comparison is because a beard can cover up a man's problem areas and reshape his face, like makeup can for a woman. Natural/not natural isn't the crux of the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:16 PM
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TRP isn't just about looks though, in fact it's mostly not about looks. It's about game, frame and seduction. That's what a lot of the black pill types consider "monkey dancing"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:49 AM
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I would probably offset it in another way, like having them pay the utilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:49 AM
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Legit, you should report her to her employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:16 PM
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Playboy probably had a lot to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:02 PM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:25 PM
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I love your username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:14 PM
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My best friend used to do this all the time in high school. It was cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:56 PM
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I've been with my husband for 10 years this year, married 4. He is a a king, an angel. I sometimes literally cannot believe how nice he is and what a good husband he is. Today before he left for work he steamed up the bathroom for me and gave me a face massage to relieve my sinus pressure. He always makes me feel appreciated and he is very physically affectionate - my two love languages. He is cool and hilarious and always honest. He has great work ethic and great character and watching him be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:53 PM
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Yeah that's why people come from all over the world to attend our universities, because our education sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:17 PM
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Like I said I would only do it if there was serious damage. I have eight veneers and they cost $1300 a pop. They were worth every penny. If my body ever makes me as insecure and unhappy as my teeth once did I'd happily fork over the money to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:59 AM
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Procedures some women get after they're done having kids to minimize the (appearance of) the effects of pregnancy/childbirth on the body. Usually some combo of boob job/lift, tummy tuck and/or liposuction. It's not something every mom has or anything, it's just called that because it's done to specifically target the areas of the body affected by pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:20 AM
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I have veneers if that counts. I would do a mommy makeover if a pregnancy really fucked up shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah I've never noticed, not sure why I would. I'm generally not looking in that area while talking to someone and I feel like most boners aren't that visible through pants anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:03 AM
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Sorry yeah, the "me noticing" part is what I'm saying never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:01 AM
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Yep, this was my experience as a student myself and as a teacher. The ugly smart guy and dumb jock are tropes that occasionally play out in real life, but for the most part the most attractive/athletic kids are top students too. Plenty of research supporting this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:58 AM
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Just while talking, not making out or anything? Can't say I've ever had this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:53 AM
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I don't notice that because it isn't true. The Duggars specifically might not have adopted, but in general evangelical Christians are one of the most likely groups to adopt. I grew up with tons of adopted kids in an evangelical church. Edit: And as a matter of fact, the Duggars have a foster child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:34 AM
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Ahh gotcha. I have two older bros, 7 and 9 years older than me. I think my relationship with them has influenced a lot of my dynamic with the men I've dated, for better or worse, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:53 PM
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Back when craiglist personals were a thing I used to peruse them and there were so many M4M on the downlow who wanted to suck a gay guy's dick while his wife and kids were asleep. It seemed like it was usually them wanting to suck dick, not get their dick sucked, which I found strange/interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:40 PM
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Awwww that's the same as me, youngest and only girl. If you don't mind sharing how many brothers do you have and how much older?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:37 PM
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My husband was driving home from his sister's tonight (she had gallbladder surgery and he stayed with her for a few days to help her out while she was recovering). I had big plans to go to the grocery store and get stuff for a nice meal and a cheesecake to surprise him when he got home. But I'm dealing with a sinus infection and a terrible case of laryngitis and I was worn out after a day of screaming my way through zoom meetings while keeping an eye on the baby (I'm working from home since I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:12 AM
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Abortion isn't subsidized in the US. As for why it's a right, it was decided by the supreme court to fall under the right to medical privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yes, I would love it. Mostly because I am really nice to my in-laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:15 AM
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They were a place where you could hang out with your friends outside of the house for free, what's to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:33 PM
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I'm not trying to do anything, I enjoy these topics and will discuss them until I don't find it engaging or interesting anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:13 PM
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Yeah I think a lot of people associate Disney with kids' movies but it's really a parent company that owns like 50% of all media, not all of it kid-friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:33 PM
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I'm talking about the type of woman who doesn't prioritize sex or arousal at all so it's simply not a factor in her selection process. A lot of religious women are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:13 PM
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Sure, I was just elaborating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:35 PM
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I think some women with low sex drives can lower their standards and be happy with a husband who is just a vehicle for kids, family, and social status. But it will be a dead bedroom after the kids come, and the husband definitely won't be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:18 PM
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"ew, gross"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:52 PM
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As someone who insisted on not having an engagement ring and regrets it...yeah, it's cool girling 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:13 AM
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Yeah I think this is why Valentine's Day has fallen by the wayside for us. His birthday is just over a week after V Day and we're big on birthdays so it just seems like overkill to go all out for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:11 AM
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We don't usually do a lot for Valentine's Day, not out of some intrinsic hatred for the holiday but just because we are lazy homebodies lol. But tomorrow evening will be the first time we've seen each other in a week so I think I'm going to surprise him with a nice meal and one of his favorite desserts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:10 AM
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In high school my very white female friend and I were driving around and I told her to make up a rap on the spot. So she did a freestyle about how her dick is bigger than 50 Cent. Not bigger than 50 Cent's dick, but bigger than 50 Cent, the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:52 AM
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What a weird thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:50 AM
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I don't understand how something could be both ideal and not exceptional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:11 AM
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Before we were married we were 50/50 for a while until financial situations changed and then we went to a more equitable split, something like 70/30 (this was in his favor, not mine). Now that we're married it all goes into the same pot and it's all our money. I don't believe in nickel and diming in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:18 AM
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JGL is objectively handsome but there is something about his face (or his facial expressions I guess) that I find sooooo punchable. I can't stand him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:56 AM
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I think there was a period where she was writing a bunch of OPs I just wasn't really interested in. It's nothing personal, I don't dislike her, just got tired of seeing her threads for a bit. Honestly I find the way men behave in her threads more annoying than Lilith herself. I knew any thread she posted would be full of moid hysterics and I just got tired of seeing it. I unblocked her a while back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:55 AM
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Not I, which is ironic because I had her blocked for a long time before they changed the block feature lol. I'm #TeamLillith now though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:34 AM
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20 years? Not many, because most women get married before they're 30. But most of my friends married one of the guys they hooked up with on the "cock carousel," myself included. Several women here are married to high n men. I'm baffled that so many men, including "red pill" men, are suddenly claiming women don't like or want commitment sexually successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:00 PM
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My husband and I both had family obligations this week that we had to go out of town (to different places) for. I'm driving home tomorrow and he's driving home Monday night so no Super Bowl or Valentine's festivities for us. His birthday is later this month and we're going to go shopping for western boots and go two stepping 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:50 PM
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Great Pyrenees is my dream dog. What a beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:49 PM
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I have female friends and know they dated and married. None of them sought out virgins or "low n" men. It also goes against the predominant male narrative on this sub, which is that women try to get commitment from Chad, and when they fail they settle for a low n beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:17 PM
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No, there are few things less sexy than a man's foot. A couple years ago there was a Florida Georgia Line song that started with a line that said "Put your pretty feet up on the dash." They did a pop crossover version of the song with a female singer and she sang that line. I thought it was an odd choice because no woman would ever say that to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:31 PM
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To women, they are not, That doesn't comport with the red pill theory I've heard. RP generally says women want those guys for commitment, but the guys won't commit, so women settle for less sexually successful guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:06 PM
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Again that's just not my experience at all. People of similar sociosexuality tend to pair up. And there's a lot of numbers between 1-2 and 100... You're a red pill man but you're denying that women try to lock down high value men? Or do you not believe men who are able to get a lot of casual sex are high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:03 PM
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Can't say I've ever seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:56 PM
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Desire for a virgin is not something I've ever heard expressed by a woman outside of a couple of weirdos on this sub or in very religious circles (in which case the women were virgins themselves)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:56 PM
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I have never observed women wanting virgins or near-virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:58 PM
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I thought scorched earth meant that you never speak to the person or have any involvement in their life again. There are some ugly co-parenting situations though for sure, I'm just not sure that qualifies as scorched earth but perhaps I'm using too strict a definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:53 PM
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I too was immaculately conceived
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:50 AM
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I went to a Christian college where "Old Testament" and "Jesus and the Gospels" were required courses. I actually loved those classes despite not being religious myself. Even though it was a religious college the classes were taught more from a literary and historical perspective. It really helps to learn about it from someone who knows their stuff and can put everything in the proper context.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:49 AM
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No, I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:03 AM
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Might be worth it to find an online Bible course to guide you through it. The bible doesn't really work cover to cover like a novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:00 AM
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Nelly "accidentally" posted a video of a girl giving him a BJ. His dick was respectable but not huge. People are saying he has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:59 AM
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"???" as in "What were they thinking?" or "???" as in "How is that physically possible?" For the former, maybe 19 or 20 depending on the person. For the latter, 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:39 PM
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Other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how was the play?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:46 PM
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This makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah the bitchiness of the men here is off the charts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:26 PM
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I love it in the moment, like whispering in my ear during sex. Out of that context it's cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:07 PM
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Height - just taller than me is fine. I'm 5'7 and my ex was 5'8. Never bothered me. I could probably go same height or slightly shorter if I really liked the guy. I can think of one guy I knew in college who was probably 5'5 or so that I would have dated in a heartbeat. Money - I want him to have a respectable job and earn a respectable salary. My bar for that is pretty low, like 40k to me is acceptable. Doesn't need to earn a lot or have a prestigious career. But I would not be with a guy who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:51 PM
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Not as many as those who haven't, by a long shot. And not all of the ones who are were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:44 PM
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No way. Any divorced couple who is co-parenting their kids can't go scorched earth, and that's way more than 3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:36 PM
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I did with my ex. I had to, because he is the kind of person who will take a mile if you give him an inch. I tried to break up with him several times over the course of a year, but every time I would agree to stay friends or keep in touch with him which ultimately led to us not actually breaking up. When I finally decided once and for all that I couldn't do it anymore, I broke up with him by going to his apartment when I knew he would be at work and leaving a box of his stuff and a note on his d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:35 PM
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When you're an adult it's kind of normal/expected that serious significant others will be introduced and integrated into your family, obviously especially if you decide to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:31 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:04 PM
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I would be hurt and feel like they added insult to injury by throwing in the part about wanting to cheat on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:09 PM
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I don't even start fantasizing about a guy in that way until he has done something that demonstrated desire for me, or at least that I interpreted him as demonstrating desire for me. So no, him demonstrating desire doesn't kill the fantasy because there IS no fantasy without a demonstration of desire in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:27 PM
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I don't understand the question. Help what? What fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:16 PM
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Nothing really. I've never experienced visceral lust/desire/arousal or even an intense crush on a man that didn't stem from some interaction that demonstrated desire for me (real or imagined) on his part. Any time I crushed on a guy without that, I experienced it more as a desire for him to desire me, not a desire for him per se. I will say though that this only applies to the initial stages of attraction. Once I've HAD sex with a guy and have good sexual memories associated with him, then I sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:51 PM
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I don't make friends with men when I'm in a relationship, whether they're attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:44 PM
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One is a risk assessment, one is a moral assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:19 PM
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My son was a pretty bad sleeper for the first few months and required a lot of rocking and soothing to get to sleep. Sometimes we would put him in the car and drive around or push him around in his stroller to get him to go to sleep. I thought that was rough until I spent time with my niece who is two months older than him. That child does not sleep, at all. Until very recently (she's a year old this month), she slept in 20-30 minute bursts and was super fussy in between unless someone was activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:14 PM
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He's from Denmark, lives in southeast Asia, but for some reason has a lot of paranoia about the big bad Americans under the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:09 PM
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Yeah lol. When I say my husband is hispanic I think guys here picture some hulking tattooed MS-13 member or something. When he's actually more like a Mexican Buddy Holly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:02 PM
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That's why I said "as we know it," meaning swipe apps. Those came around 2013 or so. OLD existed for a few decades before that but I do think smartphones and swipe apps changed the game a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah I mean OLD as we know it is like ten years old at this point. I know multiple married couples my age who met on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:35 PM
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Because this sub isn't just about "dating," it's about intersexual dynamics in general, including LTRs and marriages. I personally don't comment much on posts about modern dating and especially OLD because you're right, I'm out of my element on that stuff. Of course that's never stopped childless young men who've never been in a relationship from preaching about marriage, divorce and childrearing...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:19 PM
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"Is he white" is a funny one to me, like white women in a majority white country are like "OMG a white guy 😍😍"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:13 PM
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One of my college profs used to say that one of the best days of your life is when you get your first paycheck with a comma. I still spend like a poor person even though we're pretty comfortable now. If I'm not saving at least as much as I'm spending I start to get anxious. I'm pretty sure I have epigenetic economic anxiety from hearing my grandmother's stories about growing up poor and homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:56 PM
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That's about what my husband and I both make. It's not that difficult, you just live within your means. Honestly when I broke 50k I felt like I won the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:21 PM
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Most of the long-term marriages I've been close enough to observe have been happy at times and unhappy at times. The trick to staying together is not expecting to be happy all the time. Also, IMO, a lot of people use their marriage as a scapegoat for the general stressors of life and aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:20 PM
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Marriage was non negotiable for me, so I wouldn't date a man who didn't ever want to get married. But aside from that, people can make their own decisions and it's none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:47 PM
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Considering you found this incredibly innocuous comment "disgusting" I'd say yeah you probably need to take a break, recalibrate your disgustometer and figure out what's actually bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:32 PM
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She asked me if I was accusing her of cheating. I said yes. She asked me why... and I couldn't answer her. Enormous brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:43 AM
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Probably works better than the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:54 PM
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No, it shows that women users of pornhub like hardcore porn, however only 25% of pornhub users are women. And I have to assume that some portion of those are """""""women"""""""
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:47 PM
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Citrus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:37 PM
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Dysons are overpriced garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:25 PM
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It would depend on the guy who's asking, what his specific flaws and challenges are, and the woman he's trying to pursue. The most general advice I could give without knowing that would be to just...ask her out and see what happens. If he's really nervous, maybe ask her to a low stakes group hang like a bbq/tailgate/happy hour first and then try to pivot to a one on one hangout/date from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:00 PM
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I'm a transphobe. There's no such thing as gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:36 PM
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Yeah. When I was in grad school there were a couple of muggings on/near my campus and my husband insisted on driving me to my night classes after that. He'd sit in his car for three hours while I was in class because he didn't want me walking around campus at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:33 AM
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It's good stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:54 PM
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I'm not hardcore into it or anything but I do enjoy some true crime stuff, although I'm more interested in the investigation and forensic aspect than the criminals themselves. I've watched stuff like that for as long as I can remember. I remember watching Unsolved Mysteries with my mom as a kid. So I can't really say how it shaped my behavior, if at all. Like others have said, real life experiences are what has made me cautious. Also my parents were burgled when they were newlyweds so they both …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:28 PM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:53 PM
4

No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:32 PM
1

that's the drive undergirding all our romantic and sexual impulses, even if we consciously choose not to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:46 AM
2

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:46 PM
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Ah, I see. Interesting that they don't control for age. I'd think that would be a pretty big factor, and conservatives skew older. idk, I'm not a retard. Do you consider yourself a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:41 PM
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Alt right conservative weak pp confirmed Wait, doesn't it say the opposite? It's lefty men who are taking ED medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:36 PM
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Quite possibly, especially if you have a niche look or style. Conversations between women often go something like, "Look at that guy, he's gorgeous. He looks like the type of guy who [insert narrative/story/speculation here]."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:31 PM
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Roids. It's so sad, he was literally one of my first crushes back when he was on News Radio 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:00 PM
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This is why women are supposed to have other women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:33 PM
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Fuck 90s Rogan when he was cute, marry Peterson, kill Elon because he looks like my ex boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:03 PM
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I'm saying sex is a defining feature of a romantic relationship, just like the capacity for receiving visual input is a defining feature of the eye. That individual outliers exist doesn't negate the rule. Ultimately romantic relationships are for mating and childrearing. That's why humans evolved to form these relationships and that's the drive undergirding all our romantic and sexual impulses, even if we consciously choose not to act on it. Asexuals, homosexuals etc. are aberrations (just a fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:30 PM
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Asexuals are a teeny tiny exceptional minority not worth discussing. Eyes are made for seeing. The fact that blind people exist doesn't negate that that is their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:23 PM
1

Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:30 PM
26

Ultimately it's about mating. Sex is a big part of that obviously. The sexual component is what makes it a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:27 PM
1

That's what we did. But I don't really consider taking a sponge bath with melted snow to be properly "bathing."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:43 PM
3

Yes this drives me insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:35 PM
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So these women are just elite by virtue of being women, and their being white/college educated/urban/married has nothing to do with it? Or there is something about being white/college educated/urban/married that confers elite status onto women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:56 PM
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Would you say a man who is white, college educated, married and lives in a large urban area is "the elite of the elite"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:53 PM
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White, college educated, married, and living in a large urban area Doesn't this describe you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:50 PM
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Last year after the big winter storm in Texas we didn't have running water for two weeks. During that two-week period I showered twice at a friend's place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:41 PM
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According to the men of PPD there are no fat men, just temporarily embarrassed bodybuilders
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:57 PM
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They are conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:04 PM
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I'm a "Trumper" and I'm married to a "brown" person (I've never actually met a hispanic person in my life who calls themselves "brown," but I digress). My husband and his "brown" family voted for Trump. Race had nothing to do with why I or anyone in my or my husband's family voted for Trump. You are projecting your obsession with race onto everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:03 PM
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I was using it in the same way purplish is using Puerto Rican. I don't think he was actually born in Puerto Rico. They are of Mexican heritage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:51 PM
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They're not immigrants at all, they've been in Texas since before it was part of the US. But yes to the second part, among other things. (A lot of my husband's family is law enforcement and border patrol, let's just leave it at that.) And white/hispanic couples are not uncommon in the American southwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:48 PM
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I'm married to and have a kid with a Mexican man whose family all voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:44 PM
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Ok? That's not my point. A woman whose bra size starts with 40 has a 40 inch rib cage. She is FAT. The size of her breasts is a separate factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:49 PM
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I know that's what he means but a bra size of 40 doesn't indicate big breasts, it indicates a big rib cage. Pamela Anderson has a 30 inch rib cage and DD boobs. A woman with a 40 inch rib cage is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:48 PM
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You don't understand how bra sizes work. The number doesn't indicate the size of the breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:18 PM
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Right but a bra size of 40 isn't attractive, that woman would be either fat or trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:13 PM
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Over 40 bra size means she has a 40 inch rib cage. That's a very large woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:02 PM
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Yes it would bother me. If he just forgot they were on his phone that's one thing. But if he refused to delete them we'd have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:43 PM
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R word was one of them I know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:32 AM
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She tried that, still got banned immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:31 AM
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Uhhhh??? I thought men were more open to casual sex... How does this negate male LOVE being possessive? Casual sex isn't love. As soon as he has feelings for her he doesn't want her having sex with anyone else. Men don't even like the idea of the woman they love having sex with other men BEFORE him. Female love is also possessive but it manifests in different ways. Men are very SEXUALLY possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:49 AM
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Men in love want to monopolize the woman's sexuality, they don't want to share her with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:30 AM
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I would probably divorce. I can't imagine coming back from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:03 AM
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Too many slurs. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:44 AM
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Yeah she's IP banned from Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:37 AM
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Do they post anything as inflammatory as what you imagine the citizens of PPD would post? There's a reason it's a banned topic on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:43 PM
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Some of us tried that with r/battleofthesexes a couple years ago but it turned into another incel shitposting corner. With the current climate on Reddit I wouldn't even bother trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:34 PM
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It's the cervix stretching that hurts, once the baby's head and shoulders are out of the cervix the rest slips right out. It doesn't spend much time in the actual vagina. But also if you have an epidural you won't feel much of anything for the worst parts. They had to turn my epidural down for the last hour or so because the doctor thought I would push more effectively if I could feel something. But I still had some epidural so what I felt was more pressure than pain. But like really, really int…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:08 PM
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I spend $75 a week on groceries for my family and that includes feeding the baby and pets. It would cost way more than that for just my husband and I to eat out even a couple of times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:52 PM
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No, it feels like really bad period cramps + diarrhea + very intense pressure on your cervix and lower back. The baby slips right out of the vagina, that isn't the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:48 PM
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The vaccine doesn't keep you from getting it, it just protects you from the most severe symptoms. It's a highly contagious virus, everyone will get it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:30 AM
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At 30 your chances of serious complications are very slim. Just rest, stay hydrated and take Tylenol. Go to the hospital if you are having trouble breathing. Otherwise they will just send you home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:59 AM
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I don't "like" pads but I have a fucked up cervix and tampons give me really bad cramps so pads it is. Tbh though I can't imagine preferring pads over tampons if I didn't have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:00 AM
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I had one of those in middle school. Literal torture. I think I had mine for a year. I had to turn the key every day for six months and then leave it in for another six months while the bone healed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:40 AM
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Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:09 PM
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No, they have lower sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:45 PM
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Once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:32 PM
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I'm currently 150 and i think that I'm fat Ayyy samesies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:44 PM
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Correlation does not = causation. My guess is it has a lot more to do with age than marital status. Married women tend to be older, busier, more stressed out with life and responsibilities. does it prove that straight women have a much lower sex drive? Lower sex drive than who? Men? Yes women have a lower sex drive than men. I'm not sure why you're making it about sex drive though. Single doesn't mean celibate. Single women can still have sex, and technically when dealing with statistics "single…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:23 PM
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Interesting. I got a 31.6
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:39 PM
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Basically just level of inhibition with regard to casual sex. Higher sociosexuality = lower sexual inhibitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:29 PM
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Apparently it stands for "sociosexuality orientation inventory" u/gridrexx
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:18 PM
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Tell me you're under 30 without telling me you're under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:17 PM
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What rules are they breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:07 PM
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Yes. I don't blame them for doing what they did, but they did kill somebody and there are consequences for that. I wouldn't want to live in a society that allows and condones vigilante justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:35 PM
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Bureau of Ball Statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:27 AM
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Well, mathematically that makes sense since there are two balls per man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:51 AM
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Oh yeah I 100% agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:12 PM
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I love it, it's like the heavens smiling down on me and sending me a little gift in the form of cute kitty friend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:57 PM
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I cosign all of this except my personal conspiracy theory is that it's basically another bank bailout.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:55 PM
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I agree it largely boils down to histocompatibility, but it's not nothing to do with technique. I've had guys do some really weird shit while kissing. I don't care how compatible our MHC profiles are, licking the roof of my mouth is never going to feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:11 PM
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How would you even measure it? Vaginas can accommodate tiny little low absorbency tampons and 10 lb babies and everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:08 PM
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Neither of these bother me, people should mind their own business
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:30 PM
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That's how it always was for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:09 PM
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That is why he's asking, check his post history
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:23 AM
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How many times do I have to tell you women don't have a clue how big anything actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:22 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about, these things happen all the time. Just today I called out of work because my cat's sister-in-law's best friend's mom died and I needed to provide emotional support. My boss, Karen, said "This is the twenty seventh day in a row you've called out of work due to your pet's personal trauma. Come in today or you're fired." I gently explained that my cat suffers from anxiety, depression, ADHD, gender dysphoria, species dysphoria, fibromyalgia, PTSD and night bli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:13 AM
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Doreen, huh? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:00 AM
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Yeah it's probably more common in those situations, especially in the south
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:21 PM
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It was important for me to marry someone my family liked but I don't need him to ask my dad's permission to establish that. Trust me if my parents didn't like him they would have given me an earful about it long before it got to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:09 PM
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I think these days, if it happens at all, it's more like a "heads up" than formally asking. I mean think about it -- most couples now have an extended cohabiting phase before engagement/marriage and they don't ask permission to do that. Kind of weird to be like, "Sir, I've been living with and boinking your daughter for three years now. Can I please marry her?" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:07 PM
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Physical strength
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:31 PM
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They're not allowed to do that. I'm sure it happens sometimes just like any unethical behavior but IMO most realtors wouldn't risk losing their license (and losing a potential buyer) by lying about it. At most they might say they're expecting an offer soon or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:38 PM
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I'd prefer he go for it, although I've had guys do both of these and it wasn't a massive turnoff or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:04 PM
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Meal planning isn't the same as meal prep. Meal prep is preparing and packaging mealsin advance so you don't have to cook for the rest of the week. Meal planning is planning out what you're going to cook ahead of time. I meal plan, I don't meal prep. Hello Fresh kits aren't intended for meal prep, they're intended to be cooked and eaten...fresh. Like the name suggests. Yes a small local GYM OWNER using a gym isn't a surprise. I wouldn't be surprised if the man was fit but also a handsome bodybui…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:40 PM
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Well HelloFresh isn't meal prep, first of all. Body builders meal prep, they know a lot of other people who meal prep, she said it's a local company and not some big corporation or anything. It's not crazy to me. The owner of Planet Fitness probably isn't a bodybuilder but it wouldn't surprise me to learn that a small local gym was owned by a bodybuilder, and they often are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:25 PM
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A few years ago when I was trying to break my phone habit I carried a book around with me everywhere I went, and when I had the impulse to pull out my phone, I pulled out the book instead. I read a lot that year. It's kind of like when my dad quit smoking and started eating Dum Dum suckers instead. You kind of have to trade one addiction/impulse with another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:23 PM
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I mean if he owns a meal prep company that's probably related to his being a bodybuilder. It's not that outlandish. This is like saying "He owns a software company AND he's smart??? Unrealistic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:21 PM
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Lol pretty much except my song would be 2009 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:29 AM
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No. Perfect men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:43 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:38 PM
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Not at all, that's what I always planned on being and it's perfectly in line with my personality. I have always been the "mom" of my friend group so it was a natural transition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:34 PM
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Now I am just boring suburban working mom. When I was younger I ran around with alternative/artsy/musician types but I wasn't really that type myself. I've always said I'm too normal for the weirdos and too weird for the normies. If you have ever seen Ferris Bueller's Day Off, I have often been compared to Cameron - the straight laced square who runs around with more eccentric people and tries to pull them back down to earth. In high school I was a theatre kid, but I was tech theatre/stage manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 PM
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The best way to not raise fat kids is to not be fat yourself and to model good eating/exercise habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:31 PM
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It's not easy to "pop over" to another state from a lot of places in Texas. Texas is really, really big. A lot of women who need abortions are poor and can't afford the travel/lodging. Young teens who need an abortion could be prohibited from traveling by their parents. Whereas if abortions were readily available in their area they could get one and be home that day without their parents knowing. Minors can't book travel for themselves either. Part of the Texas law and what makes it unique is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:06 PM
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25-40 lbs is considered normal/healthy weight gain for a pregnancy for a non-obese woman. I gained 28 lbs with mine and I was actually underweight for most of my pregnancy (this despite being on bed rest and not allowed to exercise at all). Granted you lose about 10-15 lbs when you give birth because some of that weight is baby/placenta. But it's not just weight, it's body composition. Women lose a lotttt of muscle mass during pregnancy so even at the same weight post-baby she will likely be fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:54 PM
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Putting them on was never the hard part for me, getting them out is. I hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:11 PM
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Losing fat is a matter of eating less calories than your TDEE. Yes, I already acknowledged that. The point is that women have a much lower TDEE than men even at the same height and weight. Our bodies and hormonal makeup are working against us in a way men's aren't. If my husband puts on a little extra weight and wants to lose it, he cuts out sodas for a couple of weeks. If I want to do the same thing, I have to cut out entire meals and up my exercise. Yes, CICO applies, but he burns a lot more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:14 PM
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Put it back
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:01 PM
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Yeah totally. Even fit/athletic women feel squishy and delicate, and even fat/skinnyfat men feel firm and hard. The difference is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:59 PM
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Yep. I get so tired of CICO CICO LAW OF THERMODYNAMICS HURR HURR. Yes CICO applies to women and it's how you lose weight, but the "CO" part of the equation works a lot differently for us than it does for men. But if we talk about the unique ways the female body stores fat and hormones fuck with our body composition we're accused of "fat logic." And don't even get me started on pregnancy. One time I got into an argument here with a guy who lamented the fact that as a 10% body fat man, 10% body fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:54 PM
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Yeah, guys are just as delusional about male and female strength differences as women are IME
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:44 PM
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I don't understand how any woman who's ever even hugged a man could not realize men are stronger than us. Any time I hug a man I marvel at how firm and substantial their bodies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:31 PM
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I'm not sure how they could reliably study that since nonmarital relationships aren't really recorded in any official way. But in my extensive observation of single moms most were in a relationship with the dad when the baby was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:24 AM
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Ah, my bad. Thanks for the correction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:22 AM
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I have to mentally move on from the last person before I can be interested in someone else. I never moved on quickly from relationships. Usually I spent a lot of time with my friends after a breakup rather than seeking new relationship prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:49 AM
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It has never come up in any of my relationships and until I came to this sub I never realized this was something people thought about so much. If a guy asked I would be honest, I don't think I have anything to hide, but it's not information I'd volunteer either because I assume a guy doesn't want to hear about previous guys I've fucked in any capacity. It would never occur to me to bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:51 PM
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can you people not read the title? It says creampie or cuckold fetish ... not creampie fetish and cuckold fetish That one? Yes I saw it. I don't see what it has to do with my comment. I'm just addressing the "creampie fetish" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:49 PM
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The idea that "creampie" is a fetish is endlessly hilarious to me. It's literally the most basic, natural sex act that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:46 PM
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Interesting, thanks for indulging me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:41 PM
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I ask this out of ignorance, not out of accusation. Would marrying a gentile not violate your religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:24 PM
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Oooh I see. Sounds like an interesting/complicated upbringing for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:05 PM
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When I was serving we were supposed to card anyone who looked under 40. It's a CYA thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:41 PM
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haha, I'll bet! Are they still married? Did either of them convert? It's hard enough with my parents being different flavors of CoC so I can't imagine CoC and Catholic parents lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:09 PM
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yeah yeah I know lol, I'm on thin ice with that topic on reddit so I tread carefully
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:01 PM
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omg, another (former) church of Christer on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:59 PM
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I mean, no one's going to be at the urology clinic if there's not something wrong with their dick so that's a bit of a biased sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:55 PM
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I mean, the truth is in the US it's not something most people give much thought to because it's just the done thing here. Which I'm not saying is a good thing but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:53 PM
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We are just aggressively agreeing with each other! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:51 PM
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Yeah. I've dated two uncircumcised guys (married one) and neither of them had this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:16 PM
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Where the fuck has she been, what she's describing has been happening for years already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:34 PM
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Oh sorry I probably didn't express myself well. I was agreeing with you and just expanding on your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:28 PM
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My understanding is that a lot of the more common types of FGM involve cutting off the outer labia, which IMO is even more mild than male circumcision (although I don't condone that either obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:24 PM
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It really isn't. You just pull back the skin, it's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:23 PM
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Usually fathers feel much more strongly about it than mothers do, and a lot of women feel like as a woman they shouldn't have as much of a say in a male-specific issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:07 PM
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It's a cultural practice with a long and storied history in the US going back to the puritans, and there's a lot of misinformation out there about hygiene and health benefits. I think it's on its way out though, almost none of the women my age I know who have sons got them circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:57 PM
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I'll be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:20 PM
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I have a son. He is not circumcised. My husband is also not circumcised. I'm not an activist or anything but I think circumcision is pretty fucked up. You're slicing off a part of your newborn baby for literally no reason. Frankly I don't know how any mother could do it. Now that I've had a baby, even if I wanted to I don't think I would have had it in me to hand him off to have that done to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:10 PM
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Go into your settings, there should be a tab that says Blocked. You can remove people from your blocked list.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:05 PM
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ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:51 PM
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Yeah which is why we don't wipe that way and little girls are taught not to when potty training? This is like saying "Just wait till you learn if a man wipes with his hand he'll have shit on his hand." Yes if you wipe shit on something that thing will have shit on it, wow, so true bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:47 PM
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That's how it's been working for me, if the person has me blocked I can see their comments but can't reply to them. If I have them blocked their comments are collapsed and I have to expand them if I want to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:42 PM
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What? Are you saying it's covered by universal healthcare? Do you have a source for that because I've gotta say I'm doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:23 PM
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This would be amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:16 AM
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No. I don't like the idea of either of us having a child we have nothing to do with or don't even know exists, and I don't like the idea of my kids having a half sibling they don't know/don't know about. But even more than that, I don't like the idea of being with a man and having kids with a man who would be okay having kids out there he doesn't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:04 AM
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I mean, he's not wrong though. Those are things they look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:02 AM
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The fact that she's having sex with him, splitting bills, being a wife, while she could have got the same genes for her kid by walking down to that clinic and shopping is making her feel like a fool. Other women could basically get his sperm for free. Uh, what. They don't give the sperm away...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:01 AM
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It means I find him visually/physically/sexually attractive, particularly in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:12 PM
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I think this is unique to the US. When we say pickles, we mean pickled cucumbers. Anything else will be "pickled [word]".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I think it probably has something do with needing more calories for breastfeeding, or him needing a certain nutrient/vitamin that's found in nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:43 PM
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I have always hated nuts, especially peanuts, but after having my baby I started craving nuts and nut butter. I didn't have those cravings during pregnancy, only after my baby was born. It's very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:16 PM
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I love troubleshooting and solving problems. The issue for me is that a lot of times I don't have the physical strength to do what's needed to fix the issue. For example I'm driving a rental car right now and the other day on the way to work I stopped for gas and the gas door lever didn't work. So I googled it and I found a YouTube video of someone opening the door from the inside by popping out this plastic piece inside the trunk, disengaging the locking mechanism by hand and pushing the door o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:01 AM
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Damn. I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:55 AM
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I used to have a username that I guess read as more male coded and it was funny to see guys on here have totally civil, good faith interactions with me until they realized I was a woman and turned on a dime
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:25 PM
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Neither of you are in the wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:19 PM
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In this case they didn't even tolerate it, they didn't KNOW they were being lied to and once they figured it out they blew up the guy's entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:24 PM
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Basically for me there is a discernable pattern in the guys I'm attracted to. That pattern is my "type." It's not totally exclusive, I deviate from it sometimes, but more often than not the guys I'm attracted to will have certain physical characteristics that I'm drawn to. It's not that I pick a physical type and swear off all other guys who don't fit that type. It's that I'm naturally drawn to certain guys and there's a pattern to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:54 AM
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I'm not a man and that girl was definitely hot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:23 AM
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I think they can be very cool aesthetically and I tend to hang out with the kind of people who have tattoos, but I don't have any myself. I just prefer a more natural look for myself and there's not an image I like enough to want to wear it on my body. As far as attraction goes they are entirely neutral. They don't do anything for me but aren't a turnoff either. I would be hesitant to date a guy who had a lot of visible tattoos just because my family is very conservative and judgmental about it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:21 AM
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Same time you allow them to make other medical decisions, when they're legal adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:52 PM
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They said he was 6'4 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:40 PM
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It isn't one as long as he doesn't neglect other important aspects of his life to play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:39 PM
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Dammit, you're onto us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:11 PM
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This is why it should be mandated and because a normal part of having a child. Again, in the US, no tests are mandated and they can't be. You cannot be legally compelled to undergo a medical test you do not want. So the parents would still have to opt in to the test. The only women that will have anything to worry about are the unfaithful ones. Faithful women won't be "worried," they will be hurt that they have been faithful and gone through torture bearing their husband's child and he's now ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:32 PM
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It doesn't matter. The birth certificate isn't legal establishment of paternity. If you're married to her, you're the legal father whether the child is biologically yours or not. You have a window to contest legal paternity. If you're not married to her, putting your name on the birth certificate doesn't establish legal paternity, that's done through the courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:27 PM
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I am always only talking about the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:21 PM
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Again, parents can and do opt out of all kinds of health-related tests for their newborns all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:19 PM
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In most states the parents don't sign the birth certificate, I don't know where this myth comes from. A birth certificate is literally just saying "This person exists as of this date/time." The presumed father is listed on the birth certificate if a name is given, but the birth certificate doesn't establish legal paternity. Marriage does, and if the couple isn't married, paternity is established through the courts. For married fathers, there is a window in which paternity can be contested. I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:15 PM
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I believe at that point you are legally required to go on Maury.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:10 PM
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Indeed. But if he really cares about knowing, doing it on the DL is less risky than openly asking her. Besides most stuff like that is done over email or text these days. It's never been easier to keep this kind of thing a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:05 PM
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That's why I'm saying you do it without telling the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:01 PM
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the simple fact of the matter is that most loyal women who have never cheated and have carried your baby for nine months and just went through labor and are busy falling in love with this new child they created with their husbands are going to see a paternity test as a slap in the face. It is what it is. Again, I understand the male perspective here and am sympathetic to it. But this is just reality. People tend to prickle at the implication that they may have cheated when they know they didn't,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:00 PM
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You possibly got a source for the higher percentage? I'm quite interested in this subject, and the highest estimate I've seen was approx. 1 in 30. I'm too lazy to go looking for sources but I have noticed before in these conversations that "dad is mistaken about paternity" is often conflated with "child is mistaken about paternity." There are tons of children being raised by men who aren't their real dads, the dad knows but the child doesn't. (Adoptions, stepdad situations where the child was ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah exactly. Swab the baby's cheek, send it off, get results in 10 to 14 business days. Mom never has to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:46 PM
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But individuals would still have to opt into the test is my point. If it was done automatically by default, that would be different, but at least in the US that isn't how it works, you have to sign off on everything. So it would always come up and most women would want to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:45 PM
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Men can DNA test the kid at any time without the mother's knowledge or permission. Why does it need to be mandated? No tests or procedures are mandated at birth, you have to opt in to all of them. So this would add the DNA test to opt-in procedures, and it would lead to a lot of arguments between the mom and dad about whether they should opt into this test or not. I have had this argument on this sub enough times that I'm desensitized to it and I actually sympathize with the male perspective her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:29 PM
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I think my online persona is pretty similar to what I'm like IRL, but slightly more disagreeable. IRL I am polite but not particularly warm or friendly. I have a dry, deadpan sense of humor and a kind of monotone voice. I am pretty shy and reserved so that combined with my tone of voice can sometimes make me come off as cold or aloof. Tbh I really love people, I am just not very emotionally expressive, unless I'm drunk in which case everyone becomes my best friend and I can't shut up about how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:22 PM
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Well, the OP asked how to have a bunch evolutionary fit children. I guess step 1 would be "be evolutionarily fit yourself."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:02 PM
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Becoming a sperm donor would probably be your best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:32 PM
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Boys only want love if it's torture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:52 PM
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Definitely 0
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:34 PM
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I'm not saying they shouldn't be able to participate, I just don't know why you think their experience should be centered or why you're confused that people talk about men who date and have sex on a sub about dating and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:39 PM
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Because we're here to debate sex, dating and relationship dynamics. Men who date and have sex are more relevant to the conversation than men who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:26 AM
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If I find them both attractive then it's not an issue, the thing is I'm more likely to find certain races attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:38 AM
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We didn't "wait." We knew each other for a year before we hooked up but that's because he had a girlfriend and then once he was single I orbited him until he made a move which took a while. When we started hooking up it was just oral and manual stuff for a few weeks and we eventually went all the way and had sex. All of this was before we ever actually went out on a date and tbh I wasn't sure if he even liked me like that at first. I never had any rules, I just did what I was comfortable with. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:23 PM
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Alright, I guess ban me then because I'm not unblocking the useless idiots I have blocked. This is so stupid. If the mods are going to go this route then you guys really need to be more proactive and merciless in banning people who don't contribute to quality debate here. The people I have blocked are all people who I've reported multiple times for bad faith or trolling, and they were either slapped on the wrist for a couple of days or nothing was done at all. In one case I was told because a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:30 PM
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Well yeah I know that people have people blocked on this sub (I personally have a few people blocked here and have for ages). I'm talking about the people specifically in this thread announcing that they are blocking people to "prove a point" The block abusers are not going to get away with it though. What does this mean? Do I need to unblock the people I have had blocked for months/years so I don't get in trouble? Is any use of the block feature considered "abuse"? You guys should probably clar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:16 PM
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I think all of this advice is fine (except that last one -- women don't have to "accept" sharing a man, being alone is always an option). But this advice needs to also be tempered with advice about how the woman gets what she wants from the man. Yes, offer something to his life, cook for him, clean for him, make his life easier -- but only after he's shown investment in you. Don't do those things for any old swinging dick that comes around. RPW used to do a good job of this but who the fuck know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:59 PM
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Yeah. I am annoyed with all the Californians moving to Texas but I am not concerned about them turning Texas blue. Spooky scary blue Texas has been "totally gonna happen this year" for literally my entire life, or at least as long as I've been aware of such things. Hasn't happened yet, and in fact our native hispanic population is getting more conservative and actually flipped several historically blue border counties to red in 2020. Besides, all the liberals move to a handful of cities that wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:44 PM
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About half my friends own homes and the other half will probably buy in the next couple of years. "Muh student loans" is a c*pe, the average student debt is something like 30k. Sorry but 30k isn't keeping you from getting a mortgage if you're making decent money. You fucked up somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:06 PM
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The Harry Potter guys all the girls I knew crushed on were Tom Felton who played Malfoy, who imo is still pretty attractive, and of course Robert Pattinson in Goblet of Fire who is still attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:45 PM
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It's hugely dependent on the kid. I have a niece who's two months older than my son so it's been interesting to compare two babies of roughly the same age, and they couldn't be more different in terms of personality and independence. My son is a little extrovert, he wants a lot of attention, he gets fussy if someone isn't holding him or carrying him around (I think he is very frustrated by not being mobile, too, so he likes being carried around or pushed in his stroller for that reason -- he wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:01 PM
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I like where we live currently and we're hoping to buy a house in the next year or so. If we do that, then we have no plans to move anywhere else. If we can't, we will probably start looking at places with a lower cost of living, but we'd still stay in the state. The only other reason I'd move is if my parents had health problems or something and I needed to live closer and help them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:41 PM
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So you have secondhand experience and I have first-hand experience. 🤷🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:34 PM
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Liberal feminists hate the red pill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:32 PM
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Funny how the only people who have blocked people for disagreeing with them in this thread are people who supposedly oppose the new block feature. Seems to be some projecting going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:11 PM
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Right. None of the people I've blocked were blocked for "disagreeing" with me, they're blocked because they are bad faith shit stirrers who are just here to insult people. Reporting them is useless because the mods don't do their fucking jobs so I prefer to just block people but now they want to keep us from doing that too. I also block people who I know are under 18 because I feel weird interacting with someone that young on a sub like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:04 PM
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No, I understand how it works, I don't think you do. Blocking keeps the blocker from seeing the blockee's comments. It doesn't keep other people from seeing them. So unless you think OPs will be keeping a list of potential dissenters and preemptively blocking those people before they get a chance to reply, then those dissenters will still get to reply to the OP. And then if OP blocks them, their comments will still be there for other people to reply to. OP blocking them doesn't stop other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:55 PM
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Your experience of Twitter is different from mine, I guess. I debate on there every day and I haven't been blocked yet by anyone yet that I know of. And the only accounts I block are bots and trolls. Frankly I find that Twitter is better for debate than Reddit these days, at least on Twitter I don't get autobanned for being a "transphobe" like I have from several subs on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:51 PM
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Quite the contrary, I've been on the internet for a very very very long time, which is why I don't see this being a problem because it's not a problem on literally every other website that has this feature What Reddit is implementing is literally just a block feature like every other platform has. What it had before wasn't a block feature, it was a "hide" feature, and not a very good one at that. Calling it a block feature was a misnomer and I've been saying that forever. People on PPD come here…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:49 PM
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How? Are you suggesting that they will predict who's going to disagree with their post and preemptively block those people? Because otherwise, people who dissent would have to comment on the OP, and then OP could block them, but those comments would still be there for everyone else to engage with. It's already against the rules for OP not to engage with comments on their post so as long as mods continue to enforce that rule there's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:47 AM
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I think keeping an idiot around who you can dunk on like a strawman is still within the lines of an echo chamber. You do this by not blocking that person. If you block them you can't dunk on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:13 AM
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I disagree, I think more people are interested in not seeing content they hate than hiding their own content from people they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:12 AM
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The new block feature works exactly how blocking works on every other website. There are still lively debates on Twitter and discord. Can we at least just give it a chance and see if the new feature causes problems before we go starting petitions and throwing bitchfits about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:10 AM
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So blocking people creates an echo chamber, and NOT blocking people creates an echo chamber? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:06 AM
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At this point I don't understand what "echo chamber" means and I'm not convinced you do either. People arguing with each other is the opposite of an echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:01 AM
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I guess I just can't imagine that many people being that big of fucking losers. I bet you could do a survey right now of PPD users asking how many people they have blocked currently and for most it would be less than five. Yeah you will have to occasional troll who makes a post and then blocks everyone that replies. Ban that person and move on. Don't make the site useless for everyone else. If I can't block people who annoy me in PMs or whose comments I find useless or who follow me to harass me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:58 AM
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It's literally not, this is how twitter's blocking feature works and I promise you plenty of people argue on that website. I doubt many people on PPD have more than a couple of people blocked. I'm not crying over the arguments that might have been, there will still be plenty of arguments actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:44 AM
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This is dumb as shit. I like the new feature and it works just like it works on pretty much every other platform. What a bunch of crybabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:33 AM
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Agreed. I don't block people for disagreement I block them because they're useless annoying trolls who the mods refuse to ban. Also I block the gimmicky bot accounts because they're fucking annoying and I want to commit bot genocide every time I see one in my inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:13 AM
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It's died way down. IMO it jumped the shark wit the Kavanaugh hearings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:18 PM
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that people with severe disabilities have a significantly worse quality of life. And the people around them too. I would abort a profoundly disabled kid not only for their sake and mine but for the sake of their non-disabled siblings, whose lives would be extremely negatively impacted by so much energy and resources being redirected to the disabled kid. It's a tragedy for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:22 PM
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I too was 14 once
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:42 PM
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I have only broken up with a guy once. I was not callous or cruel about it, but I was firm. For the next several weeks he left me hysterical voicemails every night threatening to kill himself, stalked me, and at one point snuck into my backyard and tried to poison my cat. So, yeah, I was kind of forced to "reflect" on what happened to him after the breakup because he made it my business by doing those things. All of which he did despite the fact that he was already dating the girl he (unbeknowns…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:18 PM
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Yeah and who likes him? Women in their 30s and 40s, not college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:37 AM
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Ah, yeah that makes sense then. At first I thought your sister was a teacher and didn't want to teach from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:39 AM
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I'm not really sure how to separate it. I mean, I want to look in the mirror and not be grossed out by my body, but am I only grossed out by my body because I know other people will be grossed out by it? How can you know? But I also work out for health reasons. I feel better, mentally and physically, when I'm physically active. I'm stuck with my body for the rest of my life so I want to take care of it so that it will feel good to exist in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:01 AM
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He was in 98 Degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:38 AM
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I don't see how what your mom said implies your sister is a bad mother. Edit: Wait, is your sister an actual teacher or are the "students" her kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:36 AM
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Then keep doing it? I don't really know what you want here, it seems like you're going to reject any advice that isn't exactly what you want to hear so do you my man. My mind always jumps to the worst because I have a friend who is dead because of a situation just like this. And the guy who did it isn't someone anyone would have thought capable of doing something like that. Shit like this makes people snap, especially men. You are fucking a man's wife in his own house. He has already confronted …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:26 AM
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That would be weird since he's married to Jessica Biel. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:36 AM
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Maybe the female cognate would be "invalidated"? It's not quite the same thing but it's the closest thing I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:46 PM
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It's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:42 PM
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I just find PIV to be a more vulnerable position, more intimidating physically and psychologically. I have always been very paranoid about getting pregnant so that is probably a factor. PIV makes me very self conscious and nervous in a way other sex acts just don't. As for "effort and energy," I mean, if I'm with a guy and we're vibing and I'm turned on then I'm excited to please him. I'm not like "ugh, time to punch the clock at the dick sucking factory." It's fun. I'm not thinking about it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:38 PM
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To me, a blow job is pretty much just like making out. I don't find it more intimate or more effort than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:35 PM
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It takes me a while to feel comfortable and relaxed enough for PIV with a new partner. It has always been a gradual escalation from making out to "fooling around" (blow jobs/fingering) to PIV sex. Some guys I never got to the point of having PIV sex with them. I didn't really think of it as "foreplay" because we were both having orgasms. I don't see PIV as the be all end all I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:33 PM
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Armadillo is right, this is the kind of situation that ends with a double homicide. Find another fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:54 PM
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The "ai" to "eh" sound is probably where my accent is the most prominent. Railroad = rellroad, sail boat = sell boat, marry = merry, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:50 PM
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For the purposes of this sub I say my count is 8 because it's easier to just count everything and not be called a liar. But personally in the real world I wouldn't count anything but PIV, and I've had four PIV partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:21 PM
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I'm from the Texas panhandle and my accent is reflective of that, although it isn't as thick as some people's. Texas has four or five distinct regional accents. The area where I'm from has more in common with an Oklahoma accent than other areas of Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:08 PM
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Aren't these basically the only three ways to achieve anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:29 AM
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We just became best friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:32 PM
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A manlet is still stronger than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:37 PM
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Yeah. We both travel without each other a fair bit to visit family, which involves driving through rural areas without good cell service, so we turned on location tracking years ago for that reason. We don't like keep tabs on each other constantly (at least I don't, and I assume he doesn't either) but it's on all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:42 AM
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This is a gender flipped Friends plot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:10 PM
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Statistics like this bug me a little bit. Something has to be the leading cause of death, and for the most part, young people don't die of natural causes. That leaves things like suicide, homicide, accidents and drug overdoses. Women are less prone to suicide, heavy drug use and reckless behavior than men. That pretty much just leaves homicide. So it's not really surprising but it also doesn't mean that any given woman is in much danger of being murdered by her partner. Honestly, the fact that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:46 PM
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More than one person can be good looking, I'm not sure what your point is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:31 PM
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Don't drink wine. I don't know anything about it and haven't cared for most of the ones I've tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:25 PM
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A lot of girls hook up with the same guy over and over, not a different guy every time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:07 AM
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Probably because she didn't commit homicide...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:20 AM
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I've wanted kids for as long as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:18 AM
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Lol I reference Friends like 15 times a day at least. I'm such a basic bitch 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:33 PM
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I'm Bella Hadid AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:29 PM
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No wait that's your hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:29 PM
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I got 14, "slightly above population average." Seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:59 PM
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I have a son and he is not circumcised. My husband is also not circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:53 PM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking lol, their examples were so mild
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:19 PM
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Not only do I think it, I conceded it in my comment. Why does the fame multiplier work on some men and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:28 AM
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You think it's crazy that women find this man more attractive than this one? No observable differences there that might explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:27 AM
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Loool I remember him and some of his colorful opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah, I agree with all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:19 AM
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Excitement, interest, chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:15 AM
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By far one of the most brainlet takes on here is the idea that guys like Pete Davidson, Machine Gun Kelly, Adam Driver etc. are considered hot because they're rich and famous. Obviously being famous makes them visible to more women and gives them a status boost and all that. But if that's ALL it was, every guy of similar caliber of fame and success would have swooning fan girls to the same degree. Where are the Colin Jost and Keenan Thompson fan girls? Why is Drake a sex symbol but Kanye West an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:08 AM
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Yeah, I mean, he's just got an objectively beautiful face. I can understand the confusion with Pete but I'm not sure what's not clicking for the "looks are king" crowd if they can't see the appeal of MGK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:35 AM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:21 AM
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They will often edit out or put makeup over tattoos for ads like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:21 AM
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It's...all of it, I guess? I definitely can recognize that he's weird looking but I have been accused of liking weird looking guys lol. He has a lot of character to his face which I think is more important to me than pure aesthetics. Like Smurf said, his ugliness is a masculine ugliness so it works. And he has the kind of coloring I like, and nice broad shoulders. But if he didn't have his voice, mannerisms and charisma, I don't know if I'd like him as much. And likewise I'm not sure I'd be attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:20 AM
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I mean, that's my point. Girls being into that look isn't anything new. And it was still niche even back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:32 PM
2

Weird. I think it's just people writing how they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:41 PM
1

...ok yeah I definitely mixed up Natalie Dormer with Florence Pugh. lol Dormer has aged very well you are right I find that generally, women with very soft, pillowy, youthful faces tend to age poorly (and I say this as someone who has a face like that). They don't have good underlying bone structure so as they get older their face just kind of melts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:38 PM
2

Yeah. She seems to do it for a lot of guys. There's definitely something about her face that appeals to men but to my female eye she just looks chubby and plain
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:28 PM
3

I think Natalie Dormer is very pretty but her youth is doing a lot of heavy lifting. She won't age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:09 PM
1

Oh wow. I mean I see why she's not to everyone's taste but I think she is really stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:08 PM
3

She looks like someone photoshopped Miss Piggy's head and some tits onto a minifridge
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:06 PM
1

A lot of people have huge boobs! I don't get why she specifically got famous for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:06 PM
2

For me it's Kate Upton. For the life of me I cannot understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:41 PM
1

Most people don't attempt to adhere to MLA style on web forums. Tone on the internet tends to be more conversational.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:40 PM
2

Well the first time I had seen you comment you kind of implied that Shannan Watts deserved to be cheated on. Oh, I see you have not ventured into the dark world of Chris Watts fangirls...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:44 PM
4

He's diagnosed BPD and that's pretty standard behavior for people with that disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:43 PM
4

You say that like it's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:36 PM
6

I'm still in love with him idc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:09 PM
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Machine Gun Kelly is objectively gorgeous. Pete Davidson is very sexy. IRL Pete would probably be more my type as he seems more, for lack of a better word, normal and down to earth. Machine Gun Kelly seems a bit pretentious but I'll admit I don't know a whole lot about him. I ran in the alt/indie/emo/hardcore scene in the 2000s and these guys would have slayed. Conor Oberst was our king. There have always been girls into that type. Guys like this probably don't fuck hot normie Stacys at Daytona …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:48 PM
4

What! Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:43 PM
2

I'm not sure "Excuse me, I think you're in my seat" qualifies as talking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:45 PM
5

Most places I've worked you couldn't take discretionary time off like that until you had been there six months or so. I guess if the employer allows it then the employee is within their rights to take it, but it probably won't engender favor with their supervisors and colleagues 🤷🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:15 AM
3

Most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:52 AM
-1

No she's not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:47 AM
6

I don't think you understood the joke or that it even was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:06 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:04 AM
2

He is right. The vagina is squishy tissue made of the same stuff as the inside of your cheek. It is not a rigid, hollow structure like the anus which can be permanently stretched. It's a big blob of tissue that gives to accommodate whatever's inserted inside of it and then goes back to its original shape once it's done. It behaves more like a liquid or gel in that way. The feeling of "tightness" that's often attributed to the vagina is actually the pelvic floor muscles. These can become weak and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:58 PM
1

Do you like the Mazda? I'm thinking of trading my car in and I was considering one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:24 PM
1

PC at work, phone (redditisfun app) everywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:15 PM
3

someone who is extremely feminine but not clinging to traditionalism. https://tenor.com/view/taylor-swift-wave-hi-hey-hello-gif-4694229
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:55 PM
2

Yeah idk. I haven't really had to go through anything like this with previous cars but I also didn't own them as long. The last car I had that had significant miles on it was the 1998 Nissan Maxima I drove in high school and college. The guy I sold that car to is still driving it and it runs like a top lol. Should have just kept it. My brother drives a Ford F150 and his dealership has been dicking him around on some repairs related to a recall too so maybe this is just most car companies' MO the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:03 PM
1

Yeah, I anticipated a delay in getting the parts, but that hasn't even been the issue. They only ordered the parts yesterday. Up until now the problem has been getting corporate to approve the warranty claim. The service department can't do anything -- order parts or even run the proper diagnostics -- until they get approval from corporate, which took a month and a half. Now the wait for the parts begins and who knows how long that will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:29 PM
3

Yeah it really sucks because until all of this happened this was by far my favorite car I've ever had. But the whole experience has soured me on Kia as a company in general. It's a 2016 Kia Soul and apparently they are known to have engine problems around 80k miles (mine is at 87k). So if that's what you drive, beware!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:55 PM
6

The fuck you have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:28 PM
4

I have been really happy with the car until it suffered engine failure a few days after Thanksgiving (apparently a known issue with this model/year). I took it in to the dealership for repairs and I am still well within my 100k mile warranty (which actually, due to a recall, has been extended to 150k miles) but they have been dicking me around and telling me they aren't sure whether the repairs I need will be covered. My car has been there for 45 days and I have escalated the matter to the servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:25 PM
3

Nightmare fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:17 PM
3

Never ever ever buy a Kia. Absolute dogshit company.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:17 PM
0

Yeah lol that's probably a better analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:19 AM
1

I thought that first. But then I figured it was more about looking like a man. Hard to look like a man when you're pregnant unless dysphoria only applies to the neck up. I just find the whole thing ridiculous I'm sorry lol. I don't believe for a second that a person who genuinely experiences psychological distress at the thought of being a woman and truly believes they are a man could happily carry a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:22 AM
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Oh no I'm not saying she is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:56 PM
3

She's from Russia and projects the conditions of her fucked up country on to everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:45 PM
3

What I don't understand is how pregnancy wouldn't induce earth shattering dysphoria in a trans man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:41 PM
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Sometimes it has nothing to do with not being a good enough partner but just two people not wanting the same things out of life. Some people don't want to get married and don't want kids, period, no matter who with. It's important to have those conversations to make sure you're on the same page so you can go your separate ways if you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:46 PM
4

Why would you be with someone who's demanding and a bad partner in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:16 PM
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So if the girl you're sleeping with referred to you as "my bitch" to her friends, family and everyone you know, you wouldn't mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:15 PM
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At 6 months babies are a tiny bit more independent. They can usually sit up, hold their heads up, entertain themselves somewhat, sleep for longer stretches, hold a bottle and feed themselves, etc. Obviously they still need tons of hands-on care but it's not as taxing as caring for a newborn. Also they can eat some solid foods and a lot of breastfeeding moms start weaning around that time. Also, a lot of daycares won't take infants younger than six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:59 PM
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They want to know that it's headed toward a more serious, permanent arrangement, namely (for most women) marriage and kids. Do you seriously not know this or are you playing dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:05 PM
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I have and I'm married to one although the difference isn't significant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:33 PM
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Yeah good point. I don't blame her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah that's true, she probably wouldn't be physically capable even if she wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:18 PM
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Also I hope she doesn't plan to have kids with someone like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:16 PM
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I wonder if she could have some kind of surgery to make her face and body less... childlike? She would still be short but she would maybe just look like a 'normal' little person instead of an actual kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:13 PM
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Both. It's a spectrum I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:02 PM
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Never have kids then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:59 PM
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Well if you have a bidet there shouldn't be shit left behind. The towel would just be for drying. Honestly I just got a bidet recently and I hadn't thought of reusable towels but I have to say the idea appeals to me because I find that toilet paper doesn't really get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:53 PM
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Yep, he has five sons, including one named X Æ A-12.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:52 PM
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That's weird. It's different from what most people are used to but it's not really more difficult or time consuming. I bought the reusable paper towels at the beginning of covid when real paper towels were hard to come by for a while because people were hoarding. I liked using them so I kept using them and bought more. I still use normal paper towels for some things but the reusable ones are super convenient, and it saves money, so why not. Plus the ones I have are a nice pattern so they look cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:50 PM
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I already do all of these. I don't see how it's any more high maintenance than using disposable stuff. If anything it's less high maintenance because I buy paper towels way less often. And I just have three containers under the sink for trash, compost and recycling. Not hard. I draw the line at reusable toilet towels, cloth diapers and menstrual cups though. I'm still team disposable on that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:41 PM
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Well, Elon Musk talked about it recently and he has five kids. In general though yeah the online "muh TFR" dudes tend to be childless. And they're not all incels either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:28 PM
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especially since we all have the infrastructure to work and attend school remotely now. No, "we all" don't. Tons of people have jobs that can't be done from home and tons of kids don't have access to the resources and support they need to learn from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:40 PM
1

For that matter you're more sexually open with casual partners too. Why do you assume this? This isn't true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:15 PM
1

My dad sits on his front porch and shoots them every evening
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:45 PM
1

Ah ok. Guess I'm not familiar with that talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:56 AM
3

Gacy and Dahmer's victims were male...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:25 AM
2

It CAN hurt and does hurt sometimes. Doesn't mean it always does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:25 AM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:23 AM
1

Why do you think it's a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:19 AM
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Posting for the guys on here who think there are no well known true crime/cold cases with male victims Guys here think that? They never heard of John Wayne Gacy or Jeffrey Dahmer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:16 AM
2

Fat and bald, keep job. I'm married 4 years, been together 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:49 AM
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They've been married for ten years and he's been having performance issues for 3. They have kids. Most people don't find it easy to just walk out on a marriage with children the second something goes wrong. Frankly the performance issues aren't even the biggest problem in that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:17 PM
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Most successful guys do both. Normal men aren't shut-ins who think of going out and getting drunk and socializing as "wasting time/money/energy." Normal men like having FUN
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:56 PM
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Yes it's more validating, more fun, more exciting, more arousing, and just generally more in keeping with how female sexuality works. I don't doubt that women have more options on Tinder. But it's not a numbers game for women. My doubt is that she's more likely to hook up with a hotter guy on Tinder, especially because women generally aren't intrigued or aroused by still photos of men. Tinder cuts out like 90% of what women find attractive and arousing. She's more likely to get that from a guy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:44 PM
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Those guys are probably going to be uglier and weirder than the guys who go to bars. It's still not really a dichotomy, more like a Venn diagram with a large overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:41 PM
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Ok, if that's true (and I have my doubts but I'll grant it for the sake of discussion), it's because women like to be approached and pursued. The way Tinder works does not align with female sexuality. Most women don't go out to bars and clubs specifically looking to have sex. They're open to it, but they're not "on the prowl." They're just out having fun and drinking and vibing, and if a guy approaches that they click with they might go home with him. A guy being "hot" is just one part of the eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:28 PM
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That didn't answer my question at all. I'm talking about the men, not the women. You've set up a dichotomy between "guys on tinder" and "guys at the bar." I'm asking why you seem to think that A, these are different sets of guys, and B, that the guys on tinder would be any hotter than the ones at the bar. If according to you, hot women hang out at bars and are easier to pick up there, why wouldn't hot guys go to the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:21 PM
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Why would you assume the guys at the bar are different guys from the ones on tinder? Guys on tinder live in the real world and are probably going to bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:12 PM
1

You don't seem like a horrible person at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:09 PM
1

Alanis Morisette That was Dave Coulier, not Bob Saget
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:04 PM
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Take as big a drink of water as you can swallow in one gulp. Immediately after you swallow, start holding your breath and plug your ears with your fingers. When you can no longer hold your breath, exhale and unplug at the same time. My 5th grade math teacher taught me this and it's surprisingly effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:56 AM
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Is the r-word bannable on reddit btw Yes, just ask atlas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:46 PM
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tbh it doesn't sound like you had sex either time Edit: Actually I read that second story wrong. 21 was the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:54 PM
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Who is saying women automatically have good social skills with men? I had terrible social skills and struggled with dating until I improved them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:51 PM
3

No I'm just cursed with fatface and a weak chin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:13 PM
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I am married so I am speaking in the past tense here. I never really did structured "dating." I always dated guys I knew peripherally through my social circle. Usually what would happen is I would see him a lot at group hangouts, parties, bars and the like and start crushing on him from afar and basically find ways to be around him more and get his attention until A, he made a move, or B, my crush wore off and I didn't care anymore. This is how I got 3/4 of my boyfriends; the other I met on Tumb…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:56 PM
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At their best, romantic relationships are like a combination of every other relationship -- lover, friend, family. Other categories of relationship can't really do that because there will always be at least one component missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:48 PM
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I chewed gum all day every day for like 15 years and still have a shitty jawline. (I wasn't chewing gum specifically for that reason, I just like gum)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:43 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:48 PM
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Historically, this is not all that unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:26 PM
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Enthusiasm isn't technique but I don't think it's always necessarily reflective of attraction either. Some women are more timid in bed for reasons that have more to do with them and their comfort level and self esteem than their attraction to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:57 PM
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Bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:45 PM
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See, this is the dog culture I hate lol "There's nothing wrong with my dog, he's just an out of control murder machine who bites me all the time and is able to escape every muzzle I put on him. Totally not a danger to anyone though, no siree, I've got it under control."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:40 PM
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They don't for the most part. A lot of women swipe and never actually meet up with anyone. The ones who do meet up usually get drinks or smoke and hang out and then hook up if they're feeling his vibe, they don't just show up on Chad's porch and fuck him. I used to have two male roommates who were active on Tinder and had girls over from Tinder all the time. They didn't always close the deal. I'm not saying what you're describing never happens, but it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:32 PM
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That’s only a thing for low tier jobs. High paid corporate work has health insurance, pays enough to quickly get rid of your student loans and plenty of paid vacation. Even lower tier white collar jobs and public sector jobs have this. In fact, any employer with over 50 employees is required to provide health insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:08 PM
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Yeah, I can take or leave dogs. Don't hate them, don't love them, but understand why some people prefer them to cats. I have a dog who I adore. But I hate dog culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:48 PM
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I don't think you can really tell until puberty, and sometimes not even then because some people change a lot in their teens and early 20s. IME most kids go through alternating cute and ugly phases as they develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:13 PM
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Yeah cat haters are weird. I understand not particularly liking cats or preferring dogs but some people when they find out you own a cat fly off into some speech about how YOUR CAT DOESN'T REALLY LOVE YOU AND IF YOU DIE IT'S GOING TO EAT YOU!!!!!!! A, yes she does, and B, ok, what do I care? I'll be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:56 PM
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Dateless. The prospect of potentially becoming homeless would stress me out to the point where I couldn't enjoy anything else including my relationship. Edit: To clarify I'm saying I'd pick dateless, jobless is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:28 AM
1

You did!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:09 AM
0

Oh God. Glad you're okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:18 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:25 PM
3

Introverted sensing is the dominant function of ISFJ (this is my type) and ISTJ. It tends to deal with internal sensations, memory, routine and familiarity. Whereas extroverted sensing tends to deal with external sensations, physicality and sensual experiences. Si users tend to be highly conscientious, organized, good employees, good household managers but not necessarily leaders. They're generally also not as "warm" as Se users. The first response in this thread goes into a lot of detail about …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:43 PM
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The S stands for sensing but every type has two judging functions and two perceiving functions, alternating introverted and extroverted. xNxJs always have Ni (introverted intuition) and Se (extroverted sensing) somewhere in their stack. An INTJ for example has Ni Te Fi Se. An INFJ has Ni Fe Ti Se. SJ types actually don't have extroverted sensing at all, they have introverted sensing as either their first or second function. SPs have extroverted sensing. You need to read up more on cognitive func…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:52 PM
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Lol I was just telling my husband I wish ours had a drying function
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:34 PM
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He's a weirdo, don't go out with him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:29 PM
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Our friend bought us a bidet for Christmas and we just installed it yesterday. Game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:22 PM
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NJs have extroverted sensing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:19 PM
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The more likely scenario in the US is that the grandparents are still working.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:17 PM
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How are these things related?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:54 PM
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More like a wife sentence ha ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:37 PM
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Trashiness knows no age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:31 AM
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Ahhh that's it. I don't think I knew his name but I knew I'd seen him in stuff. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:23 AM
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Who is the guy on the left? I know I recognize him and it's driving me crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:44 AM
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Best: Boobs, eyes, legs, WHR Worst: Skin, chin/jaw, stomach/midsection, ass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:46 AM
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Most weddings are planned a year or two in advance and you can't really predict your period that accurately that far in advance. I've known brides who were on their period on their wedding day. I guess if you're that worried about it you could go on the pill and time it in such a way that you won't be bleeding on that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:16 PM
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Women tend to be more family and community oriented. Women also tend to be the ones (in the west, at least) who care for parents as they age. They also want to be around their "tribe" when raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:37 PM
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Ok Ted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:46 PM
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why do a subset of men believe they’re the only ones altering how they look or act to appear desirable to those they desire? I was answering this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:11 PM
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A lot of the stuff women do is "basic hygiene" according to men, even though it's far above and beyond what men do as a baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:30 PM
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I'm not into tattoos, but my friends who are tend to be on the edgier/alternative side. It's a signaling thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:09 PM
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Then you are either unusual or you're the hot girl other girls were sizing themselves up against.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:31 PM
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Exactly. Names are insight into the kind of family/background someone came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:02 PM
1

I think that's good!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:07 AM
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I don't mind if she lets me know later because I'll be cooking and climbing anyway even if she doesn't show up. Tell her this, more or less. You don't have to be a jerk but just play it kind of aloof, like you are a cool guy who is doing cool things and if she wants to come along for the ride that's cool, if not you're unbothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:50 AM
1

Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:39 AM
2

First looks best for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:10 AM
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OP explicitly said that they are male...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:44 AM
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Well, I'm not denying that women sleep around. What I mean is that sleeping with a guy isn't a "win" for women, it's not what they're competing for. Locking down an attractive man is what women are competing for. Women aren't jealous of the girl who's fucked a lot of guys, even hot guys, they're jealous of the girl with a hot/cool/high status boyfriend or husband. In my observation women don't wait until they're older to pursue relationships. Most women have a series of boyfriends throughout the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:44 PM
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Yes, you are literally making my point. Getting fucked isn't a win, getting a relationship is. That's what women are competing for and why they're sizing themselves up against other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:25 PM
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To do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:23 PM
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"Sleeping with whoever you want" isn't women's aim in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:33 PM
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I don’t think women compare themselves to other women in the sexual market place. This is insane, yes we do. That's ALL we do. Women are constantly sizing ourselves up against other women. "Sleeping with whoever you want" isn't women's aim in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:29 PM
2

Hating on video games is some boomer shit. I'm not even a gamer but it makes me cringe to hear young people talk about video games like they're the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:35 PM
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Not to nearly the same degree as anal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:20 PM
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IF the predominant criteria for mate selection is superficially based (height/physical genetics/etc), maybe try not to humiliate men more than necessary and be honest UPFRONT. What exactly do you mean by this? That women should approach unattractive men and tell them they're not attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:27 PM
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Personality 10, face 7, body 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:22 PM
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It's not a no from his end, but she should take it as a no. There's no point in hanging out with a guy who responds to the prospect of hanging out with you with "Whatever, we can if you want." For all intents and purposes, that's a no. Hell, I wouldn't even hang out with a friend who responded that way, and I wouldn't respond to a friend that way if they said they wanted to come over. When women hear something like "It's whatever, we can if you want," we interpret that as "I don't really want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:04 PM
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I guess evasive is the wrong word, more like noncommittal. Which is his right, but she should have taken that as a "no" and ended the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:52 PM
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I mean he seemed confused about who Jackie was and it took him a second to remember. They're definitely not in any kind of relationship, seems like maybe they hooked up once a while back or something. I'm Team Jackie on this one lol, he was being vague and evasive. But she shouldn't have pressed the issue, she should have just said nevermind and hung up. This is why women shouldn't call first!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:18 PM
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Most of the things you listed as being negatives in a relationship are things I like about being in a relationship. I like sharing a bed, answering to another person, attending to another person's needs, feeling like my life isn't just mine. I like sharing a life with someone and feeling like there's always someone in my corner. I like family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:54 PM
2

I mean, isn't that kind of the definition of kinky? If it's normal it's not kinky, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:32 PM
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I think a man who has sex with women would be better equipped to answer that question. I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah, I love tiktok. I see a lot of cooking and cleaning, history, and "day in the life" vids by people with interesting jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:18 PM
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Yeah I guess it's a moving target. There are definitely some things I consider kinky and some I don't but it's hard to articulate why I draw the line where I do. I know it when I see it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:01 AM
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I don't think they're saying people in the actual kink community are faking it. They're saying normal people describe the normal vanilla sex they like as "kinky" to seem edgier than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:52 AM
0

Yeah that was obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:50 AM
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No I just don't know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:43 AM
2

Vine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:19 AM
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This thread has actually got me thinking - where does normal sex end and "kink" begin? I know the joke is "hurr hurr lights off starfish missionary" but there are a lot of things you can do past that that imo don't cross the line into "kink." Is dirty talk kink? Is a slap on the ass kink? Biting/scratching? Hair pulling? Where is the line between kink and something you just do in the heat of the moment because it feels good?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:07 AM
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Pretty much all of them. I'm very vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:35 PM
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Yeah the surgical ones are definitely the most comfortable/easiest to breathe in, but I also feel like that means they probably don't work as well? Lol. I've never used an N95 but it sounds nightmarish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:07 PM
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It's possible, but I mean this was me wearing a freshly washed cloth mask on a plane for a couple of hours. I'm not wearing soiled masks or anything. I'm not sure what materials medical or N95 masks are made of but there's a good chance it would irritate my skin, I'm allergic to basically everything, including my own sweat, and my facial skin is especially sensitive. Anyway I don't wear them except to fly which I do like twice a year so whatever. But I feel for people who have to wear them day i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah. I hand wash mine with mild soap but I think it's just the trapped moisture and general irritation from the fabric. My skin is very sensitive. I'm also not sure if the masks are 100% cotton which is pretty much all I wear because other fabrics irritate my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:49 PM
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I've been dealing with an eczema outbreak on my nose, chin and lips ever since I flew home for Christmas. Altogether I probably only had the mask on for three hours but that was long enough to totally fuck my face up. Happened the last time I flew too (flying is the only time I wear one). I can't imagine how bad it'd be if I had to wear it all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:45 PM
1

Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:10 PM
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Be open it and allow myself to relax and get out of my head when he initiates. I went into a lot of detail about this in another thread a while back https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q2lobk/even_within_an_ltr_nonhorny_sex_isnt_enjoyable/hflyupo/?context=999 It's not difficult to turn me on, he really just needs to focus on one or two erogenous zones, which he knows. So as long as I relax and let him do his thing, it will happen most of the time. And if it doesn't I don't mind ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:04 PM
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I get ads for these things on tiktok all the time lol. Do you remember those shirts that were trendy in the late 90s-early 2000s that were made of a sort of "scrunchy" material, and they were really small but they stretched out once you put them on? Basically that, but leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:18 PM
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IME the guy has to be REALLY drunk, like borderline passed out, for that to be an issue. Probably shouldn't be having sex in that state anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:14 PM
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no, that's a woman. pronouns aren't magic words that change biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:55 PM
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oh you poor, pure soul
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:51 PM
3

It's to confirm that he actually ghosted you. With the first text maybe he didn't see it, or forgot to respond, or didn't respond but thought he did. If he doesn't respond to the second text then you know he's ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:25 PM
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Absolutely not. In fact I think even bringing this up would be one of the few things I would not be able to get over. I would probably divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:16 PM
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I was definitely more protected but I don't know that that equals "favorite." My brothers were allowed to do all kinds of things I wasn't (go out of state to work summer jobs, go on road trips and to concerts with friends, have friends of the opposite sex over). So from my perspective that seemed like favoritism in favor of them. In reality though I think parents just have different concerns with girls than they do with boys, I don't think it's because they like the daughter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:18 PM
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Also, most of that stuff is like 10x more fun with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:49 AM
2

Maybe, but most of them are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:17 AM
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A bad smell, micropenis, really horrific looking scar etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:45 PM
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It depends. If he's just approaching random women on the street and asking for a date, it's very likely 0% will say yes. Not really sure how to answer this because it depends on a lot of factors both within and outside of his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:30 PM
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Ah ok I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:27 PM
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and not be turned off by the fact that he's gonna get turned down a lot when the mood isn't right. But he's gotta just take that in stride and try again another time. Mmm, not really sure where you got this from what I said. I am usually down when it's initiated, and I am very enthusiastic when I'm turned on. I just don't want to be the one initiating and escalating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:20 PM
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My sexuality is pretty much entirely responsive. I don't need a lot of dominance in that I need him to be rough and aggressive (again, too much of that would just scare me away) but I need him to set the pace and lead the encounter. Otherwise sex would literally just never happen because I'm not going to be the one escalating. "Training" a guy to lead is an oxymoron. It would be a complete turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:09 PM
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Something gross about his body that wasn't evident before Doesn't want to "lead" in bed (although this would probably be filtered for prior to actual sex) Too rough/aggressive in a way that hurts or frightens me Doesn't take his time on foreplay (but again, most likely I wouldn't get to the point of having sex with him if this were the case) Kinks/fetishes that gross me out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:05 PM
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The stigma has been removed from online dating for years. Maybe not from Tinder specifically (although even that's arguable imo), but there are tons of other, more relationship-oriented OLD platforms. u/Murphysmongoose is correct -- at the end of the day, OLD just doesn't mesh with how female attraction works. That doesn't mean women won't use it or find partners with it, but it's never going to be their ideal method. And you're never going to be able to assure that everyone on the app is there …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:36 PM
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Maybe, but my point is that chaste traditional virgins aren't willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:59 PM
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Actually I’d worry more about 20 meaningful relationships than 17 hookups and 3 relationships. Yeah I thought the same thing. If someone told me they'd had 20 meaningful relationships I'd run for the hills, that's psycho shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:32 PM
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OK, we'll have to agree to disagree then because I don't consider the anglosphere a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:26 PM
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"Precursor" of the patriarchy? What does that mean? That you think it will become a patriarchy in the future? I'm asking if you consider the modern west, as it exists today, in 2022, a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:22 PM
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Well personally I tend to agree with others in this thread who say that "promiscuity" is a set of behaviors rather than something a person is or isn't. You can be promiscuous at one point in your life and monogamous at another point. It just depends on your behavior at those junctures. At best we could say that the 24-year-old is currently promiscuous whereas the 80-year-old was promiscuous in the past but not anymore (assuming the 80-year-old racked up that number when they were young, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:21 PM
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So you're saying there's no way for a non-patriarchal society to exist at all? It seems like you've created a tautology by defining an "equal" society as one in which Chad and incels are valued equally, which kind of makes your question impossible to answer. Is the modern west a patriarchy? Because I don't think so and that's the society I'm describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:08 PM
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...yes, that's what I'm saying? In patriarchal societies all men are superior to all women (in status/social hierarchy), so women don't have to focus on it as much. In a liberated society, men aren't superior to women by default, so women have to be more ruthless in their pursuit of hypergamy. In a patriarchal society, incel and Chad might not be equally valuable, but they're both above a woman. In a liberated society, the incel is not only less valuable than Chad, he's less valuable than the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:04 PM
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It's the opposite. In a patriarchal society, men are "above" women just by virtue of being men. In a liberated/egalitarian society, women are more openly hypergamous based on other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:57 PM
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Women very rarely get this deal. They get married to a guy who slept around in his youth and then they work and bring in income just like their husband does. A girl with traditional values who's a virgin in her 20s will not want to support a stay at home husband. You can keep bleating about equality or you can accept that fact and adjust your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:47 PM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:37 PM
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Yeah. I don"t wnat a houswife. I'm good with kids; I can do that part Lol so you want a good girl who saved herself for marriage but is willing to go to work to support you while you take care of the kids. What's in this arrangement for her exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:22 PM
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This is weird to me. The 80 year old probably racked up most or all of their count before 25 because people tend to pair off with a permanent (or semi-permanent) partner by their mid-20s. They've just been alive longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:57 PM
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My brothers insist that I was the favorite. But I was the youngest by 7 years so I was functionally an only child, and I was the only girl, so it was just a totally different dynamic. I don't think I was spoiled or favorited in any way, and in fact my parents were much more strict with me than they were with my brothers. In truth I think we have all been the favorite and least favorite at various junctures.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:34 PM
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I have a 9 month old son. With him, I plan to focus less on "advice" per se and more on just making sure he has the experiences to build the necessary skills. Limit screen time, make sure he eats right and gets plenty of exercise, make sure he's involved in social activities, get him involved in sports and/or music, pay for cosmetic procedures if needed (braces, contacts/Lasik, acne treatment) etc. I don't think I can do much in the way of advice for a young man and I'd rather leave that to his …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:43 PM
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I have no idea, I've never dated women and am not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:33 PM
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No one does this "all day," that was obviously an exaggeration. But I'm on here way more than an hour a week, and I'm on the discord more than I'm on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:02 PM
2

Cool non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:03 PM
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I'm going to piggyback on this comment and take the opportunity to mention that there is a PPD-affiliated cooking club where we prepare a meal every week based on a theme, and share recipes/cooking tips/general good vibes about food and cooking. It's fun and PPDers who are interested in cooking should PM me for a link! (We don't discuss anything pill related there, it's a "good vibes only" kind of space and we have some non-PPDers there too)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:00 PM
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like cooking or cleaning or having sex, doing sports to be in shape for him liking your body etc. I do all of this plus have a full time job and a baby and still manage to spend a few hours a day dicking around on the internet. Incidentally my job is an easy one where I'm at a computer with a lot of downtime. I think that's true for a lot of people here. I don't know why it's so unbelievable that people in relationships have time to waste on the internet like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:53 PM
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And "female" isn't too similar to "male"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:50 PM
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It is what happened, I was one of the people who started it. You can go look at it now, it was active for a while. Obviously not as active as PPD because it was a much smaller sub, but we had a few threads every day. didn't offer anything more than what people already could get on PPD. Wrong, we explicitly allowed topics that were banned on PPD, such as race and incel discussions, or feminist/MRA issues which at the time were banned here. That was the whole reason we started it, because we wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:35 PM
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Women aren't stimulated by still, contextless photos of men. We need to see a man in action, how he carries himself, how he takes up space, how he interacts with us and other people and the physical world. That's what turns women on. It's just how our sexuality works. I met my husband at a bar through mutual friends and I was obsessed with him from the moment I saw him. We were in each other's social orbit for a year before we hooked up and started dating, and during that year I was painfully cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:17 PM
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Yeah I have never found it appealing. But I'm not a beach person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:57 PM
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I got 8/20. I've never done drugs, gotten a tattoo, gotten arrested, gone zip lining, been on TV, been on a cruise, been skydiving or skinny dipped. I was on the "never broken a bone" train until this past summer :( Number 20 is the reason I've done a bunch of other things on this list lol. If it weren't for alcohol I'd have never sang karaoke, smoked or had a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:36 PM
2

A few years ago some of the regulars here started a sub r/battleofthesexes that was supposed to basically be what you described, a place for more broad gender/sex/relationship discussion/debate without the "pill" focus. It was hopping for a month or two but then we got overrun by crazy MRAs and it kind of died.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:33 PM
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One time I was sitting on the couch watching Netflix with a charcoal face mask on and I hear my husband on the phone in the other room saying "Oh man, I would but Cats and I already have plans this evening." There were no such plans, he just wanted to stay in and get high and play video games and was using me as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:17 PM
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It's getting so fucking old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:39 PM
2

MS Teams has never gotten along with my Bluetooth headphones, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. It was such a pain in the ass when I was working from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:38 PM
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Sex and relationship dynamics are topics that have been interesting to me since I was a teenager, before I ever even experienced those things. Getting married didn't magically make me lose interest in something that's been one of my primary interests for the majority of my life. I don't understand why it's such a mystery to the men here that women would like discussing these things. What is the primary subject matter of the movies, music, TV, literature women consume? Astrophysics? Military stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:11 PM
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I understood it. I think it's an absurd thing to ask and I want to know why he asked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:31 AM
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I understood the comment. I'm asking why that person thinks my response would be different if the guy wanted to get married but just not to me. I'm questioning the premise of his question. My comment did not imply what you said it implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:56 AM
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That is a truly insane way to interpret my comment. If a man said that he wouldn't date a woman who doesn't want to have sex, would you assume he'd be okay dating a woman who wants to have sex with other men but not him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:17 AM
2

Don't you have a list that includes a six figure income and an advanced degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:01 AM
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Well yeah that's definitely a thing. I'm just saying if I don't want to date a guy who doesn't want to get married, obviously I wouldn't want to date one who specifically doesn't want to marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:00 AM
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Why would that change my answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:42 AM
2

Yeah, I've never really understood what this is supposed to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:36 AM
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I wouldn't stay with a man who didn't want to get married. That's non negotiable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:34 AM
2

It's really not that hard, especially in modern cars with backup cameras.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:38 PM
1

Have you heard of this thing called "moms"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:46 PM
5

She shouldn't have said it, he should dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:36 PM
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At no point in your post did you actually mention going out and pursuing women, so maybe start there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:49 PM
3

Yes exactly. The scenarios where lethal force is justified AND the victim actually has the time and ability to use the gun are vanishingly few. Especially when we're talking about male perp and female victim. So many people on this sub are ignorant of the size, power and strength differential between men and women. Guns are hardly the "great equalizer" when a man can immobilize you with one hand or knock you out with a single blow before you even have a chance to draw your gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:05 PM
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This is such a cope. I grew up with guns, have been shooting since I was 10, own a gun and have my CCL. I absolutely do not have what it takes, psychologically, to shoot someone. I am the type of person who completely freezes up when I panic. I know for a fact that if a man were attacking me with real intent to harm me, I would not be physically capable of drawing my gun and shooting him. Far more women are like me than are not. A gun isn't going to do you any good if you're psychologically inca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:44 PM
1

I did the no shampoo thing in my early 20s. It was kind of trendy at the time and the propaganda everywhere was "it works for EVERYBODY, if your hair is still greasy you just haven't been doing it long enough!!!" I did it for an entire summer and my hair was never anything but gross. I have very fine, straight blonde hair and an oily scalp. It was just never gonna work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:37 PM
0

I have never heard of a man wearing an engagement ring in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:43 PM
1

She bought you an engagement ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 PM
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I choose guy B because as a woman I love getting cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:11 PM
2

Yes. The only guy I've had raw sex with is my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:02 PM
1

I can't stand this person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:58 PM
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Ok? What do the other women here have to do with me? I've known about TRP for like ten years and have read all the sidebar material. I ignore people who aren't here in good faith or don't know what they're talking about. I debate with the men here more than the women. It is a debate sub and always has been. Incels and femcels have invaded in the last couple years and made it their personal grievance airing platform but that's not what the sub was originally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:47 PM
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EDIT: I'm in a new group with actual diversity, and they never promote themselves as caring about inclusivity and diversity. This is my friend group. A couple years ago I was at a birthday party and my friend leaned over and whispered "I just realized that everyone here is in an interracial relationship." I looked around and he was right. I had genuinely never noticed before, and the topic of "diversity" never comes up among my friends. It's just a non issue Meanwhile my progressive coworkers at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:43 PM
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I honestly don't get why you would even be here though if you are happy and fullfilled? What do you get out of it? Sex and relationships have always been one of my primary areas of interest, and this is the best place I've found to discuss them online. This isn't a dating advice sub, it's a debate sub about sex and relationship dynamics. Nothing about being in a happy relationship precludes an academic interest in these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:38 PM
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Women definitely notice attractive men and think they're hot, but the path from "he's hot" to "I want to fuck him" is not as immediate or linear for women as it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:42 AM
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The only porn I've ever remotely been able to get into is softcore porn that just gives the illusion/impression of sex. I don't actually enjoy seeing penetration and I don't like close-ups of genitals, especially female genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:59 AM
1

Why was her boyfriend not out with y'all? It's always weird to my when taken people go out and get drunk alone, especially on an occasion like NYE that couples usually spend together
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:42 PM
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Andrew Garfield is one of my biggest celebrity crushes, I've loved him and his magnificent head of hair ever since I saw The Social Network (a movie I despise otherwise but watched several times just for Andrew) Tom Holland is pretty cute too, just looks a little young. I think he'll be very handsome in a few years. Toby not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:38 PM
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Now imagine only 1 in 20 of the opposite sex were TRULY attractive to you, like you look at them and think...yeah....I want to fuck that.... This isn't how women think even about men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:09 PM
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If the girl was doing those things at that age, her parents or someone in her family probably had something to do with it. OP was right to keep his kid away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:00 PM
1

If you ran for president with this as your platform I would vote for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:40 AM
4

People who can't spell Pennsylvania
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:43 AM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:30 AM
1

My dick, sick and dangerous Your dick, quick and painless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:34 PM
4

Eyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:59 PM
3

How long does this last?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:38 PM
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"She's normally really friendly" -pit bull owner after literally prying his dog's jaws off of my dog's throat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:02 PM
2

muh velvet hippos, muh nanny dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:01 PM
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There are tons of people in this thread and on this sub in general who argue that it's not a need. I was just answering the question in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:46 PM
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Maslow doesn't only address essential life-sustaining needs. The entire point of the pyramid is that there are base needs for survival and higher-order needs to thrive and be fulfilled once base needs are met. No one objects to statements like "children need parental guidance and support" or "greyhounds need room to run" or "I need to do laundry" even though the individuals in question won't literally die without those things. When we hear the word "need" used in reference to something that isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:40 PM
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A need is necessary to obtain some goal or outcome. "I need to get an A on this test." Will this person die if they don't get an A? No. But if we hear this statement we can assume that there is some goal (such as maintaining a 4.0 GPA) that necessitates getting an A on the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:35 PM
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Someone: I need to do laundry PPD pedants: I think you mean you want to do laundry, you won't die without doing laundry shitlord!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:19 PM
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Yes, it's a need. People who say it isn't are being completely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:36 PM
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The space under our vanity is cleaning products. But we have over-the-door storage, a little shelf thing next to the shower and a lazy Susan on the vanity. It's like 90/10 mine/his. I have two different blow dryers, hair products, skincare products, tons of lotion, makeup, makeup brushes, period supplies etc. etc. He has a razor, a toothbrush and deodorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:50 PM
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Yes, that would upset me. There's a difference between waiting until you're comfortable with someone and waiting until they've already agreed to share a life and have kids with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:46 PM
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This happened with my ex. At first he just told me he wasn't close to his family and didn't really elaborate. After several months he told me that both his parents were in prison and that he was physically and sexually abused as a child by a few different family members and that he spent most of his childhood in foster care. I didn't mind. Obviously that's not something a person wants to share right away with someone they barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:17 PM
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What you're describing is already legal in Nevada and pays way better than minimum wage. Very few women sign up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:38 PM
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So you're suggesting that a billionaire like Bezos or Musk would run big brothels staffed by undocumented immigrants being illegally paid less than minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:24 PM
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Based and Paul the Apostle pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:14 AM
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https://youtu.be/dZsL5R_CR-k
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:02 AM
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IVF is when eggs are removed from the woman, inseminated outside her body and then then the embryos are implanted in her uterus. The egg extraction process is extremely brutal and painful. It's done as a last resort for women who can't get pregnant otherwise. Only a man would glibly suggest that it should be the default method of conceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:50 PM
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10-15 minutes is ideal for most people Dunno, but I will say this - the best thing you can do is make her cum before PIV, either with your tongue or fingers. Lips and clit. Tongue going inside feels like nothing. If she likes clit stimulation during PIV you can do that. Otherwise I'd say just let your hands go where instinct takes them. You can grab and elevate her hips, play with her boobs/nipples, put a hand around her throat, a finger in her mouth, pull her hair. Mix it up, try different thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:27 PM
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There is no situation in which the act is necessary. Reproduction can be obtained through in vitro ferritilization. Tell me you're a man without telling me you're a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:22 PM
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Seems like that's his call to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:59 PM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/013/604/thisisbait.png
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:44 PM
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I recommend Fauci suck deez nutz
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:10 AM
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He said elsewhere that they had the baby without getting married so the alimony part is definitely BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:58 AM
1

Yeah he has excellent posture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:32 AM
2

You perceive someone's posture and gait by looking at them...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:55 PM
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Agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:55 PM
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Who's paying a grand for student loans? And no, there are plenty of places where you can get an apartment for under $1000. My cousin just got a place in a suburb of Dallas for $850. There's also the option of living with roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:54 PM
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I don't feel anything in particular about them. It's not really part of my calculus when deciding how I feel about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:42 PM
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About me specifically? Usually wrong. About women in general, sometimes accurate and sometimes way way off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:01 AM
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Isn't this just normal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:49 AM
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I don't know, just one of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:33 PM
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I will say this though. Sometimes a cat just shows up and you feed it and it sticks around and becomes your lil homie. This is acceptable for a single man. But going out of your way to adopt a cat because you specifically want one...that's female tendencies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:55 PM
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I'm a cat person and wouldn't date a man who hated cats or couldn't be around them (because I will always have cats), but I find it weird for a single man to own a cat. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:36 PM
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Yeah I've never understood this argument. Guys in the ghetto don't struggle with women, as we're often reminded on this sub. I suspect there's a lot of conflation of "single moms" with "divorced moms"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:25 PM
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I'll say it, calorie counting is feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:33 PM
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I give answers that make me look bad all the time and get called a liar anyway lol. That or mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:36 PM
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IME men have much stronger feelings about circumcision than women do. Most moms of boys I know deferred to the dad on whether to circumcise or not. I only know one case where there was conflict about it and it was the dad who wanted to circumcise and the mom who didn't (they ended up doing it) My husband is uncircumcised and said that no woman has ever been weird about it but men often were (not that he sleeps with men, but I guess locker room scenarios or it comes up in conversation). My uncirc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:21 AM
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Someone a few weeks ago (may have been OP, can't remember but don't think so) kept telling me that in East Asia it's normal and common to be a virgin in your 30s, and kept digging in their heels even after I shared statistics showing that this isn't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:44 AM
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This is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:22 AM
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Do you mostly meet women through their male partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:56 AM
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My husband and I are insanely codependent sleepers. Neither of us get good sleep when we're alone. We share a double bed and practically sleep on top of each other. Our 60 lb dog and 20 lb cat are usually in bed with us too and our baby sleeps in a bassinet that connects to the bed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:41 PM
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Stop cussing so much and improve my posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:19 PM
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I've never lived alone except for a two-month period between roommates when I was 21. So I never grew accustomed to having my own space and don't mind sharing a space. My husband is the only romantic partner I've lived with, and when we first moved in together we had two roommates, so getting a place that was just ours was actually a huge relief. The only time it was an issue was at the beginning of lockdown when he was furloughed and I was working from home. We lived in a tiny one bedroom apart…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:15 PM
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I agree that the six week ban makes it prohibitively difficult for many women to get abortions, especially since most women won't even find out that they're pregnant until around six weeks. See how easy it is to criticize this law while using precise and accurate language? When you use words that are inaccurate it makes you seem dishonest, like you don't know what you're talking about, or like you have to exaggerate to make it seem worse than it is. "Outlawed" is a word with a very specific mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:35 PM
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Right so not most states, like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:26 PM
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Sounds like you're the one that's lying. Restrictions don't mean it's "outlawed," nor does a proposed ban at conception that may or may not ever become law. I'm a pro choice Texan and think our abortion laws are r*tarded. But words mean things and I don't know why people have to be dishonest when there's plenty to criticize about the laws that actually do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:22 PM
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"Many states" is not "most states." I'd believe most states in the south have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:18 PM
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I'm not delusional. Abortion is literally not outlawed in Texas. This is a fact. That they might be trying doesn't mean it's currently outlawed, which is what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:16 PM
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It's banned after six weeks in Texas and 15 weeks in Mississippi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:15 PM
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No it's not. I live here. One of my friends literally works at an abortion clinic in Austin. It's banned after six weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:12 PM
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Where is abortion outlawed in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:09 PM
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It's not outlawed in Texas. "Most states" have trigger laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:09 PM
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Seems like a bit of a stretch. There are birth control options besides vasectomy. Also abortion isn't outlawed anywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:44 PM
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You don't think good pictures are important in a medium where all people see is your pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:37 PM
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How are Republicans doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:34 PM
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I don't know who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:55 PM
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Is this our old friend BearSaint?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:54 PM
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My best guy friend that I met in elementary school is 6'10 and one of my cousins is 6'8. If you live in a place with a lot of German, Dutch, Scandinavian etc. ancestry you will probably meet a few of these guys although obviously they're not the norm anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:45 PM
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8-10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:02 PM
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Oh that's interesting, when I'm hung over I want something heavy, greasy and spicy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:55 PM
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Migas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:44 PM
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Oh good fucking grief She needs to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:29 PM
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They wouldn't be my partner in the first place without sexual intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:52 PM
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People don't become senior executives out of "need"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:37 PM
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Money is indicative of responsibility. Discipline is masculinity. I'm not saying these are the only factors to consider but they are two huge factors in what makes a man a good father. Money =providership, financial stability. Masculinity = discipline, leadership, protectiveness. All attributes of a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:09 PM
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Yes, once the basic hurdles of me liking him/being attracted to him were cleared, whether I'd want to raise kids with him was always at the forefront of my mind with every guy I dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:31 AM
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Money and masculinity are part of what makes a good father
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:29 AM
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I'm without a car right now and was low on groceries the other day so I Favored lunch. $20 for a fast food burger. I can't believe people do this on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:57 AM
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When I was a kid I used to get so excited on Christmas morning I threw up. Every single year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:33 AM
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Maybe something like bowling or darts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:06 PM
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This is exactly backwards. As the person in the relationship, it's your boundary to maintain. People outside of the relationship have no interest or obligation to maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:25 PM
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She may be interested and just genuinely doesn't want to go ice skating. IMO a challenging physical activity like that is a risky choice for a first date unless you know for sure that they're into that activity. I agree with goat, suggest an alternative date. If she blows you off again, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:23 PM
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Hoping he gets well soon! We went through that with my sister-in-law in early 2020 right around the time covid hit (she later got covid and wound up in the hospital with that for a couple of days on top of her other health issues -- scary times). She is doing a lot better now but it was rough going there for a while. Diabetes is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:51 AM
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I've literally never seen a guy with a body like that IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:36 AM
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Congrats to her and you! How is your hubby doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:35 AM
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Double jointed thumbs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:55 AM
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Hehe thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:09 PM
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IME it's about friendships, family and work situations as often as it's about a guy. Never underestimate a woman's ability to be passive aggressive and petty about literally anything. The worst vaguebooker I know is my 86 year old grandmother. I'm pretty sure she's not getting P&D'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:05 PM
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How would keeping ovaries make things more interesting? Yeah I'm also curious about this lol. I guess the logic is you could still have kids but I'm not sure how artificial insemination would work without an entry point...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:59 PM
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People are giving genuine answers to the question that was asked. It's you that seems to be making assumptions about what OP really means by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:52 PM
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Well I can kind of answer this from experience because we couldn't have PIV sex for about six months due to a pregnancy complication. I made sure he was satisfied in other ways. Use your imagination. inb4 "So you think all you're good for is sex!!!!11" No, but sex is a pretty integral part of most relationships, and I think any man who's being honest would be the first to tell you that it can't really be compensated for with non-sex things. Otherwise men would be happy in a dead bedroom in an ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:27 PM
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It's not unattractive but it's scary. I'd have a hard time dating someone if I worried about them killing themselves every time they got behind the wheel of a car. Edit: Actually upon further reflection I think I would start to be turned off by it eventually. Bad driving comes across as incompetence and I can't be attracted to an incompetent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:34 PM
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Smoked brisket and pulled pork sandwiches, beans and creamed corn casserole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:24 PM
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I started noticing it when I was waiting tables around 15-16. I was an ugly duckling until around that age. When I was in middle school boys my age gave me the kind of mean bullying attention ugly girls get, where they "ask you out" for their friends as a joke. By 15 or 16 I had filled out some and was cuter and started getting attention from older men at work; guys my age still didn't seem to like me. I was very tall, skinny and gangly. One thing older men really like to say to girls who are bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:43 PM
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I'm 33 and I always thought it was the apparently novel/incorrect meaning (that if person/group A can do a thing, so can person/group B). That's the way I've always heard it used. The other meaning makes sense though. Edit: Actually after learning that gander is the male goose, I don't think your interpretation makes sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:02 AM
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I didn't have any removed comments, just "orphaned" comments, aka I replied to a comment that was later removed. So I guess I don't like saying controversial things but I like replying to them, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:29 AM
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As is, like a 4, but it seems like he's got the raw materials to be attractive once he loses some weight. He should lose the glasses too, or at least get a more stylish pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:27 AM
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My husband and I will be together 10 years in May and it feels like no time at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:01 PM
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Sorry but this saga is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:00 PM
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I have really gotten deep into esoteric job Tiktok. Some of my favorites are a pool cleaner, a car detailer and a roadie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:48 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:57 PM
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I'm female, in my thirties, purple leaning red. I grew up in a working class family in very rural west Texas. My parents got married at 19 and have been married for 45 years out of sheer stubbornness. They were miserable for a lot of those years but they stuck it out. My mom is a child of divorce and she is the only one of her four siblings who never got divorced. My dad's parents were married for 50 something years and my dad only has one brother who is also divorced. So I saw a lot of divorce …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:00 PM
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Having casual sex doesn't negate a person being socially oriented or agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:20 AM
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I don't shower every day. On the days I don't shower I wipe down with a wet wash cloth. On the days I shower but don't wash my hair I wear a shower cap and/or use the detachable head to avoid getting my hair wet. I use dry shampoo between washes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:21 PM
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Complimenting someone of the opposite sex can be misconstrued as flirting so people tend not to do it as much as they compliment people of the same sex. Not much more to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:13 PM
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No, you might want to do them but feel guilty or inhibited in some way, or like you're not "allowed" to. It's an internal conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:56 PM
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I think by "small clothes" he means tight or revealing clothes (short skirts etc.) But yeah this post is very difficult to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:53 PM
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As a millennial I never would have heard of her if it weren't for this sub lol I guess she's a facebook executive who wrote a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:44 PM
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Only if the lower earning parent is the custodial parent. If the higher earning parent has custody they don't pay child support to the lower earning parent who doesn't have custody, that wouldn't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:41 PM
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Yeah it was a pretty big controversy at the time. It wasn't really "stolen," it was perfectly legal, but the writer I guess didn't want a major artist recording the song and doing their own interpretation of it. But she ended up working out a deal with Beyonce wherein she (the writer) had a hand in producing the song and was allowed to OK the version that made it on the album and was released as a single. Plus as the songwriter she's getting those Beyonce royalties so I'd say it worked out okay …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:33 PM
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Oh, oops lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:28 PM
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This is an extremely cold take
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:21 PM
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Particularly when it was ostensibly authored by a woman with a top 0.1% net worth? It was very famously not written by Beyonce but by an independent artist whose label sold it to Beyonce against her wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:30 PM
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Women are more agreeable, conscientious, socially oriented and psychologically inhibited, so they are less "free" in the way that's being contemplated by this song.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:07 PM
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you realize the song isn't saying it's literally illegal for women to do those things, right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:59 PM
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The comments are mostly just talking about making out and feeling him up to get an idea of size. Which women do actually do. But the whole "if he's not this exact measurement he's a LVM with a micropeen" is trolling, women don't think in exact measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:45 PM
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When are you guys going to learn that these are troll posts meant to trigger you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:30 PM
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In this thread there are some women saying they're fine with porn use and watch it themselves and others saying they don't and wouldn't date someone who used porn. Those are different women with different opinions on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:04 PM
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I would prefer it but don't expect it. As long as he doesn't make his use of it obvious or want me to watch it with him I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:05 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:36 PM
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how is babby formed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:17 PM
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Women, on the whole, don't crave sex qua sex the way that men do, and our arousal is generally more responsive and contextual. I have experienced spontaneous arousal occasionally, usually during ovulation, but it was more a desire for an orgasm than a desire for sex per se. I've definitely experienced an intense desire to be penetrated, but never from simply seeing a guy. That feeling usually comes after a lot of foreplay and an orgasm. PIV, for me, ranges from painful to pleasant. It's not an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:23 AM
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Yes. Same reason I have female friends. They're funny, cool people who are fun to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:25 AM
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I got told to go to therapy because I don't like porn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:32 PM
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I like shopping TJMaxx clearance online. Similar quality stuff to Nordstrom but cheaper and less to sift through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:29 PM
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Oh yeah I can understand not wanting to date someone who doesn't stay in one job very long. I agree that's a red flag. I guess I just never associated it with someone who doesn't necessarily work in the same field they got their degree in, since I know a lot of people (mostly liberal arts majors) who have long term careers that are unrelated or tenuously related to their degree. But I see what you're saying for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:52 AM
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That's why it's called spinning plates. You're going to drop some. No woman's going to want to be in a harem indefinitely. Enjoy them while they last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:23 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:37 AM
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How old was she?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:26 AM
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Female, 33. I lost my virginity at 19 to my boyfriend at the time, after a month or two of dating. He was also 19, a few months younger than me. I had done other stuff with him and with one guy I briefly dated before him, but he was my first PIV partner. He had had two partners before me. We dated for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:16 AM
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I'm curious about your first bullet. Do you just mean you want him to be educated and employed or is it actually important that he works in his degree field? Let's say he has a bachelor's in History and works in real estate - would that be a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:29 AM
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No, that's even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:26 AM
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They are very very rare and in my experience the couple is usually unconventional in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:11 PM
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"you're not gay/straight, you're a penis/vagina fetishist"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:27 PM
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Well, because I don't believe they are men. And it seems clear to me that THEY don't believe they are men, if they're still acting like lesbians for all intents and purposes, and not experiencing dysphoria at the prospect of dating women who are exclusively attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:11 PM
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Maybe. Seems kind of strange though that these "men" would continue to hang out in lesbian spaces and try to date lesbians, if they truly believe themselves to be straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:01 PM
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Ok? Did I say they were? These are things my sister-in-law TOLD me, I'm not "presuming" anything and I'm not talking about any lesbian but her. Also I'm a woman. Sounds like you're the one presuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:44 PM
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I responded to a comment. I didn't reply to the OP because I'm not a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:43 PM
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You're a Christian? Anyway that just explains what a patriarch is, which I already knew. It doesn't answer the question of why an interpersonal conflict between two women is the patriarch's business. That passage doesn't mean the husband has to get involved in every conflict between everyone in the house. Yes if he does get involved and he tells her to do something then she should just submit (biblically speaking), I just don't really understand why the husband would want to get involved to begi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:58 PM
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Social contagion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:30 PM
3

Since when is it the patriarch's job to get involved in female infighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:29 PM
0

Why do you have to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:12 PM
8

Yeah, I think FTM is more common now than MTF now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:54 PM
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Yep. Extremely bizarre, it will never make sense to me. It makes me sad too because it's not like lesbians had a huge dating pool to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:16 PM
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I mean traditional in terms of the man pursuing and being the provider etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:14 PM
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Ok I guess if they criticize those things from radfem premises then they are. Seems pretty inconsistent with wanting a traditional relationship dynamic and wanting to be provided for by a man but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:09 PM
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Within ~5 years of my own age Attractive to me Chemistry Gainfully employed and financially responsible No kids No addictions Doesn't smoke tobacco or do hard drugs Someone I can bring home to my family Those are my baseline standards for considering a relationship with someone. Doesn't mean I'd date every guy who meets these criteria or that there aren't other compatibility factors that are important. These are just the bare minimum for me to at least be open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:03 PM
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They aren't a faction of radfems at all. What do they believe that's in line with radical feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:56 PM
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They're anti trans but that doesn't make them radfems. Nothing about FDS is compatible with radical feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:51 PM
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My sister-in-law is an old school butch lesbian who's into other old school butch lesbians and she has a different, but related, complaint -- that all the women who would have been (or were) butch lesbians in the past are "men" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:46 PM
2

Depends on what it is. A can of food no, an appliance or piece of furniture maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:28 PM
1

Just looked him up. He has a nice face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:22 PM
2

You seem to have your own esoteric rating scale. But yeah sure I agree he could get a woman although I don't agree his base level looks are a 6. I agree that guys who look like this can do well if they're confident, charming, high status etc. But I can't tell any of that from these pictures. All I'm going on is his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:56 PM
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6-8??? He's a fat balding guy with no attractive features.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:31 PM
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I think it's fine, people should do whatever helps them get the results they want. Social interaction, sex and dating don't come naturally for everyone so there's nothing wrong with seeking out help and advice. That said, they shouldn't talk about it with the women they date. There's nothing wrong with it in the abstract but no one wants to see how the sausage gets made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:56 PM
2

Pretty sure he has some kind of chastity/orgasm denial fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:45 PM
6

Yes that's why I said both. You can care about your partner's orgasm and your own. Also you can make her come before sex, with something other than your penis...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:30 PM
0

same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:30 PM
1

My family doesn't usually do a traditional Christmas dinner, we just do snacks and finger foods. Sometimes we'll do a family chili cookoff which is really fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:55 PM
2

Stuffing is cooked inside the bird, dressing is cooked in a separate pan. Also I think dressing tends to have more seasoning and more broth/stock whereas stuffing would be moistened by the juices from the bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:54 PM
9

It's probably difficult for her to achieve orgasm and she doesn't like the pressure of trying every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:47 PM
7

Because not caring about his own orgasms is weird. That's different from a guy who wants to make you come and also wants to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:32 PM
20

Must be a low value BETA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:23 PM
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