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Thanks 😊 for the update you are still not having issues and no one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:44 PM
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If you think religious nut bags are stopping here you are incredibly naive. Well, good luck to our southerly neighbours. The toilet’s just been flushed and now you start to swirl around the bowl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:38 PM
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Oh the fucking irony…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:24 PM
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Hubris vs. Ignorance is a good way to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:18 PM
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On the left it’s the bigotry of low expectations and paternalism. On the right, it’s just open hatred at the most extreme, but usually the bigotry of ignorance learned over generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:20 PM
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Hell,no. Children deserve their privacy too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:57 PM
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Brain? But that’s just electrical impulses! Thoughts don’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:41 PM
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Holy shit, I’m actually on a sales call with “Stacie” and she looks like the actual stereotype Stacey 🤣 never thought I’d see the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:07 PM
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I got my sex education in the late 80s and early 90’s so condoms don’t bother me. I already have all the kids I’m likely to have, so I’m also cool with a vasectomy. I don’t have birth control requirements for my partners other than that they use some form
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:40 PM
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Resug and vasel gel are sitting right there….not profitable would be my guess as to why they don’t go forward (or maybe some trials are still under way in Asia?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:37 PM
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That totally makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:36 PM
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Okay, I read some of your edits and your position makes more sense. Yeah if a dude is asking for step-by-step “see fig. 2, insert tab a into a lot b” instructions I can see how that would not be fun and enjoyable sex. But If you want a guy to learn and experiment on his own initiative, I hope you’re giving him a chance to get it wrong. If you need a specific position, angle and pressure, while a 12-piece string orchestra plays Spice Girls covers to get the O, then you’re going to need to help a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:31 PM
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This seems like a good way to be continually disappointed. Why set yourself up for sex you don’t like? For what, some point of pride or sense of superiority? Why get upset at all these men when you won’t help yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:03 PM
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Hmm…yes, because I would possess the zen like mental fortitude and physical control to go for like…hours before I needed to nut. I would out tantra fuck Sting (er…Police Sting not WCW Sting)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:07 PM
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I live in Brampton Ontario, don’t give me that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:01 PM
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It’s a whole fucking subcontinent, with like 300 languages🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:42 PM
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Weed, hash, booze, shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:50 PM
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I dunno, good question. Don’t think there has been a survey in a while. But so what? You don’t get here without bumps and scrapes. We’re all dented cans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:45 PM
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Most of the women aren’t shit, either. It’s no big feat to be more attractive than your average PPD participant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:57 PM
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Not my style, but no doubt she has zero problems attracting men. Nice smile, looks like she’s fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:15 PM
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Rod Woods, here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:09 AM
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And all your kids will live to see 5 years old, half of your kids are no longer dying of typhus or dysentery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:08 AM
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BY GAWD! HE IS BROKEN IN HALF!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:00 PM
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Fuck, yeah. Love it. Only wouldn’t with an ONS I don’t know already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:34 PM
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Gen X’er, here. Born in the late 70’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:17 PM
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pound sign he too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:55 PM
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These programs are vastly underfunded. I focus more on youth development, the thinking being that learned early it will be carried into adulthood. It’s a sad state if we have to be teaching adults basic social skills in a grand scale - short of legitimate developmental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:03 PM
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It’s doesn’t have to be provided for in a literal or direct sense. Mental health funding, sponsoring youth organizations like YMCA or Boys and Girls clubs, summer camps, youth sports and other things that bring young people together, so they have opportunities to interact and learn how to talk to each other and things that encourage growth and self confidence. Do they even do school dances anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:40 PM
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Housing is a need. No one is forcing you to take in the homeless. It’s not hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:30 PM
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CANZUK is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:29 PM
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If you’re in a positive state of mind, the trip will be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:38 PM
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At the cottage or camping is the best, I like being out in nature when I drop. Been awhile for me too…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:56 PM
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Shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:14 PM
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But how will I justify my existence as a PM? Also, if you people actually read the document we wouldn’t need the meeting to make you read the document
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:31 PM
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Nothing was funkier than 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10-11-12
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:09 PM
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They can reach out and ask
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:15 PM
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People want confident men, this is a by product of that. Some times it comes out as irrational self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:37 PM
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I often felt I had a skinny plucked chicken body, but I’ve always been active and put a lot of work in to get the body I like. I’m not a jacked up huge guy, I’m never going to be, and I’m okay with that. I’m quite comfortable with my body around women, that’s actually the one thing I do have, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:40 PM
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Body yes, face hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:27 PM
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So some dumb shits on Twitter are a government-backed “authoritarian tolerance” squad and are going to….what? Force Peterson with threat of violence/imprisonment that he must find her attractive? They going to do some kind of Lodivico technique brainwashing sessions on him, straight out of Clockwork Orange? If I said I don’t like peanut butter sandwiches and no authoritarian tolerance is going to make me, how hard would I get clowned on Twitter? You can find someone who will angrily be against a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:06 PM
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That woman is clearly insane and no one but the similarly afflicted would think she is any authority. It’s not signalling it’s drumming up controversy to sell a magazine. And well done, we are all talking about Sports Illustrated, something I haven’t thought of or talked about in years. The marketing department did their job quite well, loads of free advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:02 PM
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Peterson’s take was r-worded. No one is holding a gun to his head demanding he find her attractive, it’s just a magazine, and not even an influential one. I haven’t picked an SI in a decade or more and that time it was to kill time at the barbershop. He wants to be persecuted sooooo bad his dick’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:35 PM
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I like showering together sometimes, but shower sex is out since I slipped once and nearly broke my cock
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:29 PM
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Naked and belligerent would make for a good flair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:00 PM
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Not really. My mom have me a box of condoms when I was 15 because she didn’t want me to end up a teen parent, like my own parents, but not much beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:13 PM
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I can say and I’ll say it again: faaaaaaaake …or, okay, I will meet part way: if that person was earnest, she’s severely fucked in the head such that no one should take anything said as any kind of truth or evidence save for evidence of mental illness. I’m especially disappointed in RP dudes who should be sensitive to people telling them exactly what it is they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:57 PM
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That was the fakest shit ever. Obvious troll/LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:49 PM
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I got a lot of the typical advice: be nice, respect women, kind, gentle, be their friend, “some day…”. I also was explicitly told not to be like my father, directly and indirectly. My dad was absent or drunk for most of my life, my uncles never gave a shit about me, nor did my moms second husband, so I was raised by women and only heard negative things said about men. I wanted to be nothing like them, be the good boy, do all the right things and maybe they (family, women, I dunno) would think I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:27 PM
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Everything in gun metal grey with names like Hyper Blast and Power Shock
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:55 PM
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That’s not what Voltaire means. Will is urges or thoughts. You have the will to eat. Why? Because you were hungry. You didn’t just will yourself to eat, there was an underlying reason, and that reason is often not rational or conscious. Whether you will it or not, you will feel hunger and the urge to eat. Whether you choose to eat or not is up to you, but let’s not pretend the actions we take are driven by pure will and complete control over that willfulness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:08 PM
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I don’t think free will exists. Like Voltaire said, “there is no will without reason” but we have the choice to act or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:47 PM
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“Entire objective”? No, and I made it a point to say it’s not all “muh biology”. It’s a major factor, but like most things there is no single silver bullet. The urge is just…there. like I can remember sexual thoughts at age 4 or 5, getting an erection from a specific image in a Mad magazine in the grocery checkout. I didn’t consciously know what was going on, all I knew was “I like it and I want it”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:39 PM
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A salmon will kill himself swimming up a river just to nut on some eggs and die. I don’t want to say it’s all “muh biology” but why pretend we aren’t animals? We are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:27 PM
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Thanks didn’t even realize it was my cake day. If you haven’t heard of Dino Jr, Sebadoh or Sonic Youth, rectify that right away. They kind of invented the genre Yes is 70’s Prog, not everyone like Prog rock, but Bill Bruford and Chris Squire are the greatest bottom-end in music, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:54 PM
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Plus 1 for Husker Du! I was listening to Zen Arcade just the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:21 PM
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Low-fi indie, post-punk and new wave mostly. Also, post-bop jazz, golden age hip hop, classic rock, chill wave…a bunch of stuff actually. Mostly nothing made after 2000, though. All the best music came before the Willenium Right now my playlist is heavy on Dinosaur Jr, Yes, Sebadoh, Wu-Tang Clan, Sonic Youth and Toro Y Moi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:19 PM
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Yes and there may be those who aren’t, or may have other disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:50 PM
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You can have Rebel without a Cause good bad-boys, and I am betting this is the type most often being romanticized, I just think they are incredibly rare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:32 PM
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Possibly. Diagnoses are a thing better suited to people far more qualified than I
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:29 PM
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They often come out on top at the expense of others. The more “on top” the higher the stack of people they’ve stood on. Good people that rise to high levels of power do so despite being good people, rarely because they are good. The rare ones that do get assassinated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:28 PM
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Bad boy traits: high self esteem/arrogance low agreeableness high risk taking socially disruptive, bucks social norms low respect for authority high self-centered, low empathy (doesn’t consider others) high Machiavellian tendencies In short the bad boy does what he wants, doesn’t consider others, doesn’t care who he hurts and makes it a point of pride to transgress society’s rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:15 PM
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Oh do I need to be dating right now to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:58 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:39 PM
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If women feel like being seen as sex objects is dehumanizing than I can feel like being a success object is dehumanizing. And women don’t get to tell me it’s because I just want sex. They don’t get to tell me how I feel about it. I am a human being, not a series of check marks in the “Pass” column, I am not livestock to carry burdens and do the hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:28 PM
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If that’s true doesn’t that mean the loss of any of those limited assets hits even harder and increases the likelihood of avoiding said risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:41 PM
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Great fucking album. That’s my old depression/commiseration disc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:15 PM
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Same people then open their mouths about the government in their business and freedom 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:05 PM
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Signaling to your voters that you are willing to hurt the people they don’t like. The cruelty is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:06 PM
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Very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:00 PM
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I have a 12 year old son. This is a weird take. I can’t control whether my kid is going to be happy or not on an existential basis and have this be a reason to not have kids. “Like what if he didn’t want to exist?” How the fuck am I going to know? You don’t have kids to have a mini version of you that you can puppet through life. And you definitely won’t know with any kind of certainty that they’ll will have a smooth trouble free life such as to deny them their existence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:48 PM
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Oh shit, yeah I forgot about escape from New York! “President of what?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:34 AM
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What’s your favourite Carpenter film? The Thing is probably his best, but it’s They Live or Big Trouble in Little China for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:18 PM
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Good comment. I would add money allows greater comfort and security OP should be communicating his wealth indirectly: “adventure, travel, new experiences, foodie” or display hobbies/interests that require wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:47 PM
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I’m in great shape for 43 year old guy. Running 3x week and gym (all body weight exercise) 3x week right now, other physical activity like biking, walking dogs, etc. I’m active everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:52 PM
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Who do you think I am talking about? It’s the same people. It’s the same attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:50 PM
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That’s bullshit. We’ve tried feudalism, works great if you are the one who owns the land sucks for everyone else. And we know how that ends, death. It’s anti capitalist, and anti competition. The landless can’t just leave if the guy who owns everything legislates their slavery. The success of western liberal democratic nations is a testament to expanding ownership and allowing class fluidity via a combination of ordered government, equality under the law, and expanding individual liberty. The mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:07 PM
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It’s the other way around. You have a vote so that you have a stake in society. If I can’t vote, then fuck everyone and anyone else but me and mine, especially the ones who want to take that away… Only morally bankrupt and corrupt people who have no positive ideas of how to govern in ways actually benefiting people want to restrict votes because they know they can’t win on their ideas alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:28 PM
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My mother has 4 older sisters and many sisters in law…it’s real. “…is that store bought? Well, you must be just so busy.” Translation: I love my kids/family more, you love your job more “…I don’t know how you do it!” Translation: you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:49 PM
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Degree holding surfer-photographer surely makes up for the mere 2 inches. I can almost see the story many women must have written for themselves. Shit like this is a Hallmark movie, whip some Christmas themed shit in there and it’s a best seller
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:07 PM
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Exactly. My other one is runners/sneakers with a suit, looks like you’re a kid borrowing your dad’s suit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:57 PM
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I haven’t been to a ripper joint in years. Most of the ones in Toronto and area are closed now, condos built on the remains. But, if I happen to ever be out after work and somehow end up at Fillmore’s, I’ll keep that in mind. I like the briefcase over the backpack because backpacks are for kids, and messenger bags wrinkle my jackets. Plus, a nice leather briefcase can be matched to your shoes and belt for a slicker more put together look
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:36 PM
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As a guy that wears suits and carries a briefcase….it helps with some women, hardly a game changer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:02 PM
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Add another one, this has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:27 PM
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Why not? It would put more direct power in the hands of voters and ensure we get the representation we deserve in parliament. No more back room boys clubs deciding which of the PMs close friends get appointments (looking at you Seamus Oreagan), the actual ability for parties to push through or negotiate for things like the end of the Indian Act (we could have an actual First Nations peoples party and they could have real power in a coalition/minority government). But Liberal and Conservative par…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:16 PM
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His mother and wife were paid thousands of dollars by Me to We. Direct conflict of interest that Morneau fell on his sword for to make go away As for the Indian Act, well…he’s had three elections. Could have ended it, and I agree it needs to end. Yesterday. They can get the NDP and Bloc to support. JWR is no longer in parliament to make that happen or hold their feet to the fire, sadly. Oh, and where is the end of First Past the Post voting we were promised in 2015?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:06 PM
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She would have never been allowed to eliminate the Indian Act, it was all talk. It was never going to happen. Justice was the right ministry for her. She turned down IS because she would have to oversee/enforce the act against her own people. I think the Indian Act needs to go, but it won’t happen with either the Liberals (it’s a carrot to dangle to voters for them) or the Conservatives (they don’t care about First Nations). With the support of the NDP, The government could sunset the Indian Act…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:38 PM
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Oh yeah, the one where he “experience it differently”. Why don’t we ask Jody Wilson Raybould her opinion. Truedeau talks a big game, but when it comes to his ass on the line and doing the right thing, you can always expect he will serve his own personal agenda. (But no way will I ever vote for Pierre Poutine or any of the kooks in the Conservative party should they ever take the leadership. Never. I’ll stomach Truedeau if I must, definitely the lesser of two evils)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:16 PM
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I don’t know that one, I’ll go read up on it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:16 PM
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Oh he’s actually a good example of a weasel male Feminist. Google the Kokanee groper incident or the rumours around why he was dismissed from a certain prestigious BC private school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:59 PM
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Spiciest take yet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:58 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:57 PM
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Have we talked about this Vicky White-escaped convict situation yet? I thought that would be prime fodder for this place. What are your hot takes on a prison guard with everything to lose breaking out a neo-nazi murderer and throwing everything away for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah “the one good man” type. Hugo Schwyzer male feminist weasels. They just want to undermine men as a competition tactic, but instead of just being the better man, they need to use whisper campaigns, gossip and shit talking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:51 PM
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This is my view, it’s a religious mama’s-boy-culture thing. Dudes that still live with mom at age 34 and expect her to do their laundry and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:28 PM
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Program director in Wealth Management and financial services technology for a big five Canadian bank It’s not male dominated over all, some departments are some are far more tilted the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:12 PM
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Agree. A lot of guys are slobs. It’s true, but I’d say just as many are anal retentive about tidiness, and keep their shit like a barracks. I’ve said this before, but men clean better because they are exposed to it more through the type of jobs they do, military experience, and disciplinary experiences. Men do most of the dirtiest jobs, water treatment/sewage, sanitation and so forth. I’ve cleaned industrial ovens, deep fryers, the worst was the donut glazer, that bitch took hours to clean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:59 PM
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As long as we can call it Mother Fuckers day. But that may just be Father’s Day 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:26 PM
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Great idea, we should try that with drugs next!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:23 PM
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I like muscular thighs, though gaps don’t come with the territory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:46 PM
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I agree with you here. I can’t trust myself to pull out. I’ve tried and it’s like fighting with myself once I’m about to bust, the urge is that strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:40 PM
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I expected, calculated guess from observations and experience, to be more moderated satisfaction, “somewhat satisfied”. However, if we take the 17-19% and add it to the 25% that are not having any sex, it’s not an insignificant number. High satisfaction, high dissatisfaction (again, I am assuming the 25% having no sex are not satisfied, a small number might be) and not much in the middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:31 PM
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I’m not interested in continuing if this is going to just descended into snark Okay, so some data I dig up does suggest high satisfaction with most couples, somewhere between 64 and 42% depending on marital status. 17-19% unhappy. There we go. I didn’t expect it to be that high in the highly satisfied and up categories. so I’m willing to admit I am wrong on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:07 PM
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OP addresses that argument in his post. Struggling in his definition does not mean just a binary sex/no sex dichotomy, so clearly OPs argument takes contentment/satisfaction into account. And by the way, I never said complete satisfaction or sex as I want when I want. That’s all you. I specifically said contentment, satisfaction and feelings of success, all reasonable expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:23 PM
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No, I am asking you to clarify the relevance of your data points and what you are arguing. Nice down voting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:13 PM
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Thank you. Yeah, not bad all things considered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:07 PM
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Your two examples are really at the extreme ends of the poles. Those guys might exist, they’re very rare and…well I just don’t get how a guy who’s having frequent sex doesn’t like how he’s getting it - does he have a heroin addiction he’s prostituting himself to afford? Who is this guy? I’m not going to dwell on that, as I said, they’re at the extreme ends of the poles. Again, I agree this isn’t an issue men face alone, but the main OP was about men and that’s how I am addressing the post. And a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:56 PM
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No I agree with you. I was mostly referring to sexual/relationship success and satisfaction, as I believed that’s how OP was framing it, not over all life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:30 PM
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If that’s your argument, that many women who get into relationships still don’t feel satisfied or content or accomplished or successful or whatever other synonyms we’re using to mean “good” I am inclined to agree with you. Not the subject here. I am challenging the notion that having sex once a year is on the same level of success as a guy who does daily or even weekly, and believe that a guy who can only have sex once a year is considered struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:16 PM
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So you think a guy having sex once year will feel successful? He won’t feel like he is struggling? Trying to understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:10 PM
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But that doesn’t measure satisfaction or contentment, just frequency, right? So a guy who’s having sex daily is grouped with the guy who had sex once all year, but they will have different satisfaction. Same with the stats showing most men get into relationships. Okay, but how happy/satisfied are they in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:53 PM
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42
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:02 PM
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Not that it’s a competition, but I was bullied so bad as a kid over my looks that I developed a complex about it that requires on going therapy and will probably stay with me for life. It happens. Happens a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:15 PM
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Hell yeah, sign me up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:26 PM
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What stops me from raping and murdering women is…that I don’t want to rape and murder anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:20 PM
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Well that’s the point isn’t it? There should be a healthy respect for violence, there is always someone out there bigger and badder than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:21 AM
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I’ve lost count, lost most of the fights too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:13 PM
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Works great until some asshole violates your boundaries. I believe in non-violence, but not pacifism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:52 PM
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It’s basic playground rules we all learned when I was a boy, before the internet: “talk shit, get hit” Now it’s talk shit, get famous. People forgot that in real life they don’t have anonymity, distance and a screen to hide behind. So they feel safe acting and saying what ever they want, no matter how provocative. “It’s just a prank, bro!” Famous last words. Someone walks up to random black guy and starts calling him the n word and how he is going to rape his wife and kids. Any reasonable person…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:43 PM
16

What you think of him as a person doesn’t change the validity of what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:19 PM
27

It’s like Mike Tyson said: social media made you all too comfortable to say shit that will get you punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:48 PM
1

Oh, so he can be completely useless for another year of recovery. Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:53 PM
5

Pay for your damn kids. I pay for mine, you pay for yours. It’s not the ex, don’t even think about her, it’s your kids and they didn’t ask for that shit and it’s no good to punish them because she’s a bitch. Having grown up with a dead beat dad who didn’t pay shit, I would never leave my kid high and dry. Never. I wound starve first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:02 PM
3

Sounds like a lot of pain and sacrifice for little gain….dude is still under the magic number (6 foot), he’ll have weird t-Rex arms for life and a long painful recovery. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:58 PM
2

Yeah I do, took me 15 years and a directors title to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:41 PM
1

I am a Program Director in the Wealth Management technology space. People not in the industry have no idea. To be successful you need a lot of social skills, ability to communicate effectively and work as a team, all skills that should lend themselves well to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:03 PM
3

I never cared about FDS. They don’t want me, I don’t want them. Glad that people will stop harvesting the rage-bait and spreading it around like manure though. Why torture yourself with that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:18 PM
2

Reintegrate with various social circles, have a lot of fun and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:42 PM
2

What do you think he should have done? Should he only see his friends if his wife gives him permission to? There’s no excuse to call your spouse a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:58 PM
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Team Orangutan 🦧
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:24 PM
1

I don’t know if I would call it gold digging, but there do seems to be a lot of UC women who go from their daddy’s care and responsibility to their husband’s care and responsibility. They’ve never had to fend for themselves or work for their needs/survival. They’ve never paid their own rent or groceries even. I wouldn’t say they are gold diggers, but definitely looking to be taken care of and have unrealistic expectations- from the point of view of a working/under class kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:43 PM
3

So…I only comment on this account, and I only comment on PPD. I lurk everywhere else on Reddit. I have an alt but I don’t use it. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:46 PM
2

My experience is that this is mostly a religious thing. I’ve never experienced nor can relate at all to the Madonna/whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:39 PM
3

I’m pressure washing the shit stains. If you ain’t hitting that bowl with a stream 1000 lbs. PSI, you’re a low T cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:48 PM
1

Yes, at least as much to match me, ideally just a tiny step beyond
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:47 PM
2

Give him a Oscar 👏👏 the dramatic pauses, the way he rolls the r on fecal matter 🤣 trial of the century
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:45 PM
1

Yes agree. The person with less in the marriage was already compensated at the time of their living together, they should not have a claim to future earnings outside of the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:27 PM
1

If you’ve been a skinny guy and muscled up or a fat guy and got ripped then you know. There is a clear difference in treatment and interest in the before and after. Lots of women say it on the internet, it doesn’t carry over into real life in my experience. Of course I am not talking about oiled up raisin pouch mr Olympia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:29 PM
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Contracts have termination and dissolution clauses all the time, divorce is no different. When there are harsh penalties, human behaviour is to manage the contract to avoid the penalty and assign all the blame to external forces and other parties. They seldom work towards upholding the spirit of the contract. It becomes all risk management. At fault divorce hurts men more than women. If you think baseless accusations of abuse and terror are frequent now, wait until that’s the only way to get out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:08 PM
6

There are lot of couples who significantly care about each other and never fuck. No thanks. Virgin princesses don’t turn into your personal porn slut, and certainly not in the span of two weeks. It’s lights off missionary as she briefly whisks her granny flannel night gown off and right back on…for some people that’s okay. But not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:05 PM
1

Insert First Time? Meme here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:44 PM
1

5’11” & 194 when I weighed myself at the gym last week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:12 PM
1

Live music is fun, not world changing or anything, but I’ve had a lot of good times listening to some great music. Being a teen in the early 90’s was great, I saw a ton of acts before they blew up famous and established guys before they washed out, ticket prices were reasonable, the weed was passed freely…I’m about to have a “you kids today…” moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:18 PM
1

You’ve got the story wrong, and it’s doubtful that it’s a factual story anyway. Sun Tsu is highly likely to be a composite of multiple people, like Lao Tsu. It was the two commanders that were executed in accordance with military law at the time, for refusing orders. Not the entire harem. They were treated equally to that of male commanders refusing orders. The story is used to illustrate his peerless ability as a general to be able to effectively train even concubines ti be formidable foes, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:10 PM
2

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fs9XDUDP9VM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:39 PM
5

Working in finance, there are lots of women who will fuck anything off a trade floor. anything They’re like puck bunnies but for portfolio managers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:26 PM
3

Your status and wealth is a part of who you are, like it or not, and as a man it is better to use your advantages and assets. Its almost necessary to display them. This goes beyond sexual relations. It’s how they are displayed that makes the difference. A gaudy or ostentatious display will draw the wrong people. Subtle markers will signal who you are to the “right” people (tribe, class, sub culture, whatever) and help you find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:11 PM
3

Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:06 PM
3

He’s one guy. I have some close friends I can talk to about anything and they can do the same with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:36 PM
2

89% of twitters revenue comes from advertising. They won’t fuck with that, you are dreaming if you think Musk gives any sort of shit about your ability to say whatever you want. He will be allowed, you won’t be, because that hurts their bottom line. Don’t be naïve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:17 PM
5

Root for the puddle or vomit or cheer for the pile of shit…hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:11 PM
2

There’s others out there, enough of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:59 PM
1

I’ve been in both her shoes and in a sense his as well. You stick by your partner thick or thin, good times or bad, and if you can’t, just let them go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:15 PM
2

Replication is a known problem but so is people only believing what enforces their existing views. Rhetoric and anecdotes are more effective
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:01 PM
2

I have nearly the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:56 PM
1

As I said above “life happens”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:52 PM
1

Life happens and it could happen to you. You want to be with your “forever partner” then prepare for illness, job loss, career changes, all kinds of adversity. Life is not a straight trajectory upward from point a to b, you can’t put that on your partner to never have low periods. Else, expect non forgiveness or support for your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:50 PM
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It’s a no-win: the guy either should have tried being her friend first, but always just wanted sex. Or he should have been up front that he wanted an relationship and this only ever wanted sex. In no case is it accepted that a man wanted to be her friend or he wanted to build an intimate relationship (which naturally would have included physical intimacy). If you failed, you only ever wanted sex and that’s all you ever wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:01 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:57 PM
2

Nice guys are fear motivated and by operating from that motivation they cause hurt to others, they are not genuine in their motives and intentions, they operate from a place of irrationally protecting themselves, and thats why nice guys are not desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:54 PM
2

My recent thoughts on a similar question of tattoos I would find questionable/disqualifiers: …this from the perspective of getting into a relationship, that shit matters: badly done or cheap, “meme” tats - something that quickly ran through its 15 minutes of fame (how many people regret moustache tats on their finger, or tribal arm bands), any tit tattoos or getting your pubic mound done, anything on the face or hands. And the blatantly obvious ones like a weed leaf in the form of the adidas log…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:22 AM
1

California punk scene wise, I loved Black Flag and Dead Kennedys are cool too, but liked more of the DC Hardcore bands, Bad Brains, minor threat/fugazi but I’m not straight edge (although I knew some SHARPS, Toronto had a bad Neo Nazi problem in the 90’s. Cherry Beach Express? I know several people it happened to, some are close friends)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:08 AM
1

Figured you for a bit more of an Op Ivy guy…kind of the same , but some people make the distinction 1st and 2nd wave I like, 3rd wave can be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:49 PM
0

It’s…okay. A lot better than it was since I’ve grown up and she’s done some of her own. If it’s any consolation, it’s even worse with my dad. Yes, obviously it has impacted my relationships with other women. In some positive ways, and a lot of not positive ways. I’m a recovering No More Mr Nice Guy nice guy, and I spent most of my life trying to be nothing like my father while never being good enough to win my mother’s (or any other woman except my paternal grandmother’s) love. Yeah, I was a hug…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:23 PM
1

It’s the “oh you never had to be scared of people who are stronger and bigger than you” and it’s so far from the truth, I was a skinny dorky kid once
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:22 PM
1

Thanks but no need for apologies. Could be just the working/under class experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:20 PM
9

I would never date a fucking cop, I don’t think I could even be friends with one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:32 PM
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11-14 is when I started getting the wrong attention from adults as well. At that age you are old enough to be robbed or beaten up for your stuff or chased by older kids in a car. Three guys put a gun in my face when I was 13. It wasn’t sexual, “just” violence. I’m not trying to compete about who has it better, but calling attention to young men/boys and the predations by adults and older young men, I still felt just as scared, anxious and helpless, we have a similar experience at around the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:28 PM
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Acqua di Gio
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:20 PM
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I wear the right pants to show off my ass (which was rated “hottest on the floor” by a bunch of middle aged ladies I used to work with). Know your customer!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:16 PM
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The scenario is ludicrous. I’m always amused by the hypothetical man women drag out: so an unemployed bum who is a useless parasite. Well what kind of woman pays for his shit and has not one, not two but three of fucking kids? What does that make her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:51 AM
3

Not interested in low N women, and would expect sexual/intimate physical activity to gradually ramp up within a few dates. Don’t need insta-sex, but things should be heating up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:41 PM
1

Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:02 PM
2

You get a bunch of 1488 assholes piling in “just asking questions, bro”, and they’re not honest debaters because they don’t need to be, chase all the non racists or people who want to debate in good faith out and then it’s just the neo-nazis left, and they’ve gained a veneer of legitimacy and respectability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:28 PM
0

Or you take a strong and active hand in raising your son - which you should be doing anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:49 PM
1

You don’t and shouldn’t have to put up with it, but it’s part of the spectrum. Along with non confident guys you guy overly confident shit heads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:39 PM
3

It’s a by product of confidence. Confidence is supposed to be super-attractive, well then be prepared for irrational self confidence, which includes “hold my beer” antics and dudes spouting off on all the topics they are experts in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:40 PM
2

Second Courtney Barnett. Her colabs with Kurt Vile are great as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:18 PM
3

A lot of them just last for as long as the shoot and the press tour does. I know some people in the industry. One story I heard: male lead for a very popular play that toured broadway, London all that shit, though this occurred in Toronto, where the male lead basically moved in each of the female leads throughout the course of the play’s run in and out of his apartment as they cycled through the role, although some Weinstein shit was hinted at
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:22 PM
1

I like a mid-thigh cut in between to be honest. Give ‘em just a teasing look
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:13 PM
1

Maybe I just like taking in a lot of data but I find value in the dissimilarity 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:48 PM
1

Like I have said elsewhere, there is value in the basic comparisons of experiences, and it’s a bit like software testing: wherein you analyze your results of positive, negatives, false-negative, and false-positive results. Helps you eliminate factors and get down to the root cause of the issue, especially when you have access to a radically different test bed and test cases you may have never considered
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:47 PM
1

It’s a bit like software testing: sometimes you have to try some negative tests and false-positive and false-negatives, and it’s good to have some vastly different experiences to compare it to. Even two hetero dudes don’t have the same approach and experience, is it still useless to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:32 PM
1

Oh, okay….I have some lesbian friends. You just hang out with them like normal friends, not try to fuck them, because the whole lesbian part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:55 PM
1

It doesn’t have to be the same. “Compare notes” doesn’t mean it has to be the same. I can’t believe so many of you guys think there is absolutely nothing to be learned from lesbian dating experiences. Surely if it’s not the same, but you are both running into the same barriers, then it’s not something you are both doing that’s not working, right? One simple example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:24 PM
1

And surely there is something for men to be gleaned within
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:04 PM
2

Mostly agree. A lot of guys look like shit. However, your style won’t be universal, some women will like it and it will improve your attractiveness, but just as many will not and it will work against you. Also, most women don’t want their men upstaging them when it comes to style, they want to be the better looking and more stylish. Or if they don’t care about their style, expect you to match and not exceed that. It can be a delicate line to walk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:32 PM
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Even if you think the information is false it’s better to know it than not. You don’t have to heed the advice, it’s worth knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:23 PM
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Nonsense. Information is what you make of it, and you get a perspective that you wouldn’t normally have. Lesbians are still women, after all and have insights into how other women think and behave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:00 PM
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Personally, think straight men and lesbians should ally and compare notes. We could learn a lot from each other Edit: holy shit, do you guys know what “compare notes” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:42 PM
3

Good means good for them, not necessarily morally good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:14 PM
1

A publicly searchable DB is fine within some limits, and people should have a way of getting off the DB via pardons or X amount of time without a conviction. Registering with cops is just inviting abuse and will be used disproportionately against the poor as another way to disenfranchise them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:26 PM
1

If she can’t or won’t use those mere words I can’t force it out of her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:24 PM
2

Couple things probably, if she’s really not down just say so. Or better, explain what’s going when she’s about to O and then stops herself. The only explanation I got was “too intense”…so okay, if it’s good enough for her. Wasn’t very fun for me 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:27 PM
2

Sounds like you are saying it’s 100% on the guy, and I think that’s kinda bull shit. Do you fuck women? I’ve been with a woman who would not let her self enjoy anything, didn’t like me going down on her “too intense” didn’t want sex unless it was at night in bed lights off, wouldn’t let me touch her too much. She’d almost get there and then stop everything and put a halt to what I was doing. I tried, Lord Zeus did I try…can’t be all on the guy all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:29 PM
2

In the 6th grade Michelle would pick on me a lot, she was the tallest girl in the class, kind of a bitchy peppermint Patty type, even looked like her. I complained to an adult and got the predictable “she probably just likes you” answer. So the next time she started picking on me I said, “why do you keep bugging me? Do you like me or something?” And a very visible anger came over her face and she kicked me square in the balls. As I doubled over and cried on the ground in excruciating pain, the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:29 PM
1

So wife her up and get her permanent residence status. That’s what i did
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:48 PM
1

Guys like that can’t fight. It’s all ornamental muscle, he’s dehydrated as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:35 PM
1

You doing intermittent fasting? I do 16/8 and cut out high glycemic carbs and reduce over all carbs/sugar, works well for me along with daily exercise (road work, gym, dojo). I’m going for a lean muscle physique, not getting large
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:55 PM
3

Black coffee, 3 or 4 calories and it’s an appetite suppressant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:31 PM
0

There is no way a doctor is ever below average. Anyone who thinks so can be completely disregarded. I know some people like to say “huuuur reading is ghey” but their opinions are worth absolutely nothing. Brains has always won over brawn. However, brains and brawn together is superior. Like, fuck, the Greeks and Roman’s conquered the world and they ardently studied poetry as a core component of educating their very best. Letter and arms as Suetonius would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:06 PM
9

Personal safety: minimize non-business or non-small talk with female colleagues, keep personal stuff to a minimum and no sexually charged talks. When a sufficient level of trust has been built, more personal topics can be discussed. Keep it professional and avoid even the illusion of impropriety. My industry is a very small street. Trust: I’ve got personal issues around trust in general, abandonment/neglect and feelings of unworthiness, so I take on a sort of anxious perfectionism, have to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:44 PM
2

On its own, high N is no big thing. I actually prefer higher n as I have experienced that higher n women want and enjoy sex more and have way less sexual hang ups
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:23 PM
5

That high N leads to mental illness and inability to bond. It’s the other way around, the mental illness came first and lead to the promiscuity. The dumb shit about womens vaginas being busted, and I think Iooks are less important to women, because dog-faced guys like Ric Ocacek, Lyle Lovett, Leonard Cohen and Bryan Ferry are always surrounded by hot chicks, even when they were old and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:59 PM
1

Oh that’s good. I was last there (for a visit) in 2019, picked up some shirts for my sister’s kids, but that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:42 PM
1

I usually have to go a size up, so medium in North America is L size in Japan. What I found impossible to buy is shoes, I couldn’t even get my size in a big and tall store, nothing over 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:22 PM
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I’ve been holding this back, but I think a lot of how the infamous west elm Caleb was rated was as if to say, “I wouldn’t have fallen for his tricks, not me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:33 PM
1

Fair enough. If the advantages are things like “men don’t get to sexually harass women in the workplace anymore, woe is us!” those were never advantages but injustices against women. Everyone is entitled to basic human dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:10 PM
2

Like most things parenting, act the behaviour you are trying to encourage in your kids. In this case, the father should model what a healthy relationship looks like with her mother/his wife and set the example of what a “good” man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:07 PM
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Required to discuss within a feminist lens, which I do not believe is open nor honest. Forget Reddit, or rather think beyond it. My red pill exposure was long ago, Chateau Heartiste, Rooshv forums (long before he went way off the deep end) that sort of thing. I’m more purple pill- red sympathetic these days as I’ve worked through a bunch of personal shit. But those places were not the first stop on the station, you know? It’s the last stop on the line after you e been pushed out of other places …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:04 PM
1

Do you believe it’s a zero sum game? Like, helping men takes away help from women. Does prison/justice reform for instance, something that affects men more, take something away from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:50 PM
1

Some women do and some don’t, some men do and some don’t. Help the people who need it, not just one group born with immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:05 PM
1

If you want your ideology to be understood, then that’s on you to explain it clearly and articulately. Otherwise its a cheap rhetorical tactic feminists get to hide behind and not defend their views by claiming all their critics are just ignorant. Feminism is for the advancement of womens rights, which is fine. Don’t blow smoke up my ass and tell me it’s for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:23 PM
2

Some aren’t here to debate, just twist the knife
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:43 PM
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There wasn’t anywhere else to openly and honestly talk about mens issues. I found there wasn’t really a space where that was possible, without being jumped on, minimized, blamed, attacked and labeled as a thought criminal for daring to have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:09 PM
1

No, that’s egalitarianism or humanism. humanism excludes no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:02 PM
1

I’m not because human rights are for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:24 AM
2

Don’t matter to me, just don’t be an extremist of any ideological/theological belief and we can probably get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:24 PM
1

Nothing at all. It will cost opportunities, though. I say this is a risk-aware (adverse?) individual, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:19 PM
3

When it comes to investing, be boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:47 PM
1

Oh fuck, thank Odin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:46 PM
2

You’re in the clear, provided it’s not a trashy representation and it’s not in a career-limiting location
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:04 PM
3

The following would lead me to believe you are an impulsive idiot, and if this from the perspective of getting into a relationship, that shit matters: badly done or cheap, “meme” tats - something that quickly ran through its 15 minutes of fame (how many people regret moustache tats on their finger, or tribal arm bands), any tit tattoos or getting your pubic mound done, anything on the face or hands. And the blatantly obvious ones like a weed leaf in the form of the adidas logo on your neck (real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:50 PM
2

Depends on the tattoo. But the piercings are…first of all I just don’t know how to make out with a chick with all that shit in her face, and no woman, not a single one ever looked hotter with a septum piercing. gauges in your ears? You have no concept of future time orientation or delay of gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:35 PM
6

The same reason as Jim Crow: keep the poors in their place - which is out of the halls of power It’s the same reason for all that “culture war” shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:18 PM
1

Start making your way through a top-100 literature list, maybe save some of the difficult ones and start with the more digestible. You can learn just as much if not more of the human experience from fiction as you can from non-fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:57 PM
1

The first two are amazing, but I couldn’t get much into the third and bwyond. Herbert is good, his world building is second to none and influenced my own writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:52 PM
3

Blackporcelaindoll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:27 PM
1

I had to swear off the shit a long time ago, I like it too, but my teeth absolutely do not!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:09 PM
1

Oh shit, orange crush and vanilla ice cream floats! Tasted like a creamsicle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:57 PM
1

Probably Grid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:30 PM
1

Where does root beer fit in here? I like a good root beer (Also, Vernor’s Gingerale is the nectar of the gods)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:26 PM
1

The first two albums were soooooo good. That first one was the sound track to many a fun evening
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:42 PM
3

Fuck I care what I am looking at? Too busy touching all the fun places with my hands and mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:17 AM
3

I get you are coming from a good place and mean well, which I appreciate. It’s like telling poor to start being rich or ill people to just drop their sickness. I’d like people to understand that some of us just.. well, we’re not going to be able to run an emotional marathon, some may be able to make the half marathon, some can only do the 5k fun run.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:39 PM
2

I was mercilessly teased and bullied for my facial features, but a small number of women find my face pretty attractive. I have a CK model’s body to compensate. I recognize I have some issues there. Yes, I’m a pretty good package over all when considering things non-physical, not without flaws of course. I’ve come along way and have a lot more to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:55 PM
2

I’m not some doom-sayer, but look at your comment there: for some guys charm, being really funny, having the right level of emotional intelligence and a fucking great personality on top of that is a pretty high bar to cross. Yeah, Jack Black has all that….and there is one of him in the whole world. Sometimes people can do all the right things and it still doesnt work for them, because all they can control is themselves. They don’t control other people, there is no magical “unlock attraction” alc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:39 PM
2

And famous, and likely in the top-200 funniest people in a world of 8 billion people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:05 PM
20

Sparing the details, I’d directed a lot of the bitterness inside and really did not like myself for a very long time. After a lot of rejection and failure, I had a very brief but very passionate relationship with a woman who was attracted to a lot of the things I didn’t like about myself, who was very open and understanding, we had some similar experiences so it was easy to get each other. I felt she accepted, really the first person to truly accept me, and I could begin to see that I wasn’t the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:03 PM
3

You know, maybe if you didn’t walk in with so many assumptions about men, you might get more real answers and less bull shit. But you make your low expectations of certain men pretty clear, your interest doesn’t seem genuine, seems like you’re just trying to rattle the cages of people you don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:24 PM
6

I think there are more good looking people out there. Morons and assholes abound, true friends are harder to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:19 PM
4

I work out at the Y, old dudes don’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:38 PM
2

Send ‘em my way, because i definitely would. Low n/virgins don’t like to fuck and are boring in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:26 PM
9

One day it will be you, one leg up, blow drying your wrinkled old sack with a hair dryer, bare-ass naked for the entire locker room to see
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:24 PM
1

And if you do all the things and are still not successful the goal posts just get moved to new things to blame you for. People don’t want to hear it, they don’t want to know. It’s useless to talk about, and the constant stream of “your fault-your fault- your fault!” just depresses me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:12 PM
2

And the violence, thefts and property crimes that accompanies the adicts - all the people who prey on them. Live near one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:40 PM
1

That and the betrayal of David Orchard. I like Michael Chong but he’s too much of a dry policy guy and too common sense to be the leader (not enough of a weasel) I can’t stand Leslyn Lewis or Polievre and will never vote for them if they are in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:54 PM
1

Purple/Red-sympathetic. I guess…social liberal/fiscal conservative. Red Tory most Canadians would say. I value personal freedom a lot and think tax payers money should be used wisely and smartly to solve peoples problems, I hate corruption and stupid bureaucracy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:43 PM
2

I could never think of anything that wouldn’t be bored of looking at in three weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:09 PM
2

I’m playing a level 12 Manager with the shitty childhood feat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:02 PM
1

Gimme all the Aphrodites and Empresses
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:49 PM
1

…I dunno, he gets some respect for being a Roxymusic fan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:58 PM
1

Let’s see lulll’s bumble hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:36 PM
1

Gross, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:49 PM
3

This guy 🤘🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:42 PM
2

I will drink to that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:40 PM
1

I just turned 43. Your 30’s and 40’s can be great if you lay good ground work in your 20’s. Enjoy your time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:38 PM
1

Ugh…88 anxious/ 50 avoidant/ 25 secure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:30 PM
1

He’s a lucky guy to get that level of support, and I wish him well in his recovery I was meaning a more day to day situation. I hope if I was incapacitated my spouse would take over what needs to be done and likewise I would do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:44 PM
1

…… just, no. For me, I cannot cede that control of my life to someone else. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:48 PM
1

Total scum bag. I never liked my son watching any of his shows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:30 PM
2

No your man does that. My wife doesn’t make my appointments, doesn’t buy my greeting cards or plan my social calendar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:59 PM
2

…but wait, how do I chalk this up on the marital score board?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:55 PM
1

Sometimes she wants it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:53 PM
2

Yeah, should be looking like Harvey Keitel from Bad Lieutenant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:34 PM
1

Yeah you aren’t far off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:30 AM
0

I mean a sweet heart is personally invested, she’s in there for the long haul, whereas the later type, and purely my meaning here is a girl who is just like, “meh, I guess he will do”. Ten years down the road when she’s secure, the bed is dead and homeboy is paying for it all with his blood sweat and tears
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:29 AM
0

Woah, I’m not saying she was his sweet heart, I’m saying she was a girl that let him fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:11 AM
4

No, Will did what he did out of weakness and not strength. The look Jada gave him told me that she’s in charge and he’s seen that look before, he knew what he was in for when he got home if he didn’t do something. I’ve been on the receiving end of that look many a time myself. If he didn’t “man up” he would eat a huge pile of shit at home, and thus he embarrassed himself in front of his peers to spare the emasculation he would have received at Jada’s hands instead of standing up to her and not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:06 AM
1

Arguing degrees I think at this point. A 39 year old KHHV is worse off than a guy who married the first girl that allowed him to fuck, but by how much really? I don’t consider that guy very successful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:21 PM
1

The random “cost effectiveness measures” 🙄 during a budget crunch we were made to justify office supplies with a business case. A fucking business case to get some cheap shit pens! So I detailed what it was costing them in my time to write all this dumb shit and go through the approval chain compared to just stocking 80 bucks worth of Grand and Toy crap …meanwhile they’re making billions a quarter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:41 PM
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Anyone who thinks “private business will run it better!” has never dealt with any large company. These AHs will spend a dollar to chase a dime…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:24 PM
1

Maybe I am painting “unsuccessful” with a broad brush, I don’t mean KHHVs, I mean guys that have maybe had a girlfriend or two, married the first woman they had sex with, or never any real success, no high school girlfriend, N of 2 or 3, something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:23 PM
1

Just my opinion on the literature (if you can pulp fantasy novels that) not on the dudes actually Twitter post. More power to him…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:07 PM
3

I just try to shop locally and put money directly back into my community, support your locally owned small businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:55 PM
2

Nah, R E Howard was a fucking boss, who had real shit to talk about. Gor is just some dude’s kink self-insert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:38 PM
1

It’s a fun book series, but yeah, leave it in the pages
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:36 PM
1

I do love them, but she looks a little too masculine and I suspect some PEDs are at work, face is starting to get too squared off and her biceps are too big, she’s gone just a little too far over the line where it starts looking too manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:52 PM
1

I seek intimacy and acceptance, someone I can be my true self with and who will accept me for the flawed person I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:34 PM
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To answer your question: no, ultimately not happy I will challenge your assumption that they (we?) are not winners in other aspects of life. Not true. There are lots of guys that are successful in other or even every other field except romance. You just don’t see them because they’re not vocal, they’re not on certain forums seething, they just keep that shit to themselves. You can be a good all-around person with manageable flaws and still not have that “it” factor that women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:24 PM
1

Me too. Definitely gets better with experience and enthusiastic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:43 AM
1

Fuck no, it was a great experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:03 PM
1

Just taking note of all the “let’s you and him fight” comments with this Smith-Rock story…quite interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:42 PM
5

If you say so. It’s a bit hyperbolic to say they only want super model girlfriends, mostly I see a demand for “looks matching”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:10 PM
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I don’t speak for tradcons, I am definitely not one. Everyone needs their own identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:08 PM
1

Haha, downvoted, so you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:46 PM
3

That might very well be the case, assuming the entitlement is “only wants sex or the girlfriend stuff without putting in the boyfriend stuff”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:33 PM
2

It’s solid word of mouth advertising. -not that I’m saying you should fuck her friends, but that it improves their perception of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:40 PM
1

Stick up for what? It’s a comedian doing the time-honoured roasting at the Oscars, silly little hair joke. Do you really want your man pulling shit like this on the street? Slap an employee for doing g their job? Flip out and assault people over a silly comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:38 PM
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If any women would like to kill their husband’s passion for life, attraction to them and build up a bunch of relationship-killing resentment, this is a sure fire way. Bonus points if this alienates him from his friends A good husband will just drop it all for the needs of his family right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:35 PM
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Obviously. So why are we playing games? Who do you think number 1 is? Not me, I carry that dude’s jock strap - metaphorically of course. Number 1s are going to expect number 1 effort. The best will only settle for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:55 PM
2

If you want the man who can strive you need to keep up with his pace. Do you even want number 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:01 PM
1

I take it he doesn’t get many dates. Fits my definition of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:56 PM
1

I’d go 15 years down and 10 up (28-53), but I would screen heavily at both extremes of the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:18 PM
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She may be angry at herself if she can’t meet the goals she’s set. Don’t see why the guy who be angry here…but also, this wasn’t exactly what I meant. Here’s a real life example: couple is saving for a house, she is worried they don’t have enough money and turns to him and says, “you need to make more money”. Meanwhile he doubled his income in the 4 years they’ve been together and she’s still working the same old job. In this case, she expects a constant improvement and ever increasing effort an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:06 PM
5

Sure, I will cop to the bias, I don’t date men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:32 PM
9

Wasn’t me who down voted you. Many women seem entitled doesn’t equate to “men are superior”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:15 PM
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I don’t believe I was making any case that one gender is superior to the other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:58 PM
1

I’m 43😊 So, you happen to be way more into cooking and get a lot of joy out of it. I don’t see that as any kind of waste of time. For other video games might be that outlet, maybe they create mods and those mods are enjoyed by other people and that makes them happy? Just an example. Like I said, good to have goals, good to moderate fun time wasters, but there’s a danger of feeling the need to always be productive and always learning and growing and always “on”, it’s a stressful life and we need …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:39 PM
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As long as (the editorial) you hold your self to the same level of expectations meant for me, and I’m not taken for granted or unappreciated for maintaining (hopefully exceeding) those standards, then there is nothing to be angry about. The anger comes from the sense of entitlement many but not all women seem to have. Can you meet your own standard? If not why do you think you deserve someone who does? The definition of entitlement I’m using here is “I want it, therefore I deserve it”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:27 PM
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First off, one of my rules is “everything in moderation, even moderation” My counterpoint to this is that, if you enjoy it and it makes you happy, it is not time wasted. Play that video game in your spare time to your heart’s content. Hobbies and interests don’t all need to be improving you in some way or monetized, they can just be for the joy of it. That said, agree with your over all message of “have goals and interests”. But again, understand that people have different limits. To me, gym, co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:08 PM
1

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:59 PM
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I vote for who I think will fuck things up the least, I don’t think there’s ever been a single politician in my life time who I wanted to vote for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:31 PM
1

Moose will walk away, the driver won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:15 PM
2

Box jellyfish. When I went to Okinawa there were warning signs and jellyfish nets at the beaches. I decided against swimming Surprised several people said moose, they’re pretty calm if you don’t piss them off. Have seen lots up close in Algonquin park or northern Ontario. Bull moose when the cows are in heat, different story..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:54 PM
3

Have you tried showering more or just treating men like people? …I kid, I kid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:32 PM
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Ignore this man, good chest muscles will support the boobs better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:08 PM
1

If they make no signs of helping themselves and try to drag you down with them, then sure that’s reasonable. And that’s where valuing yourself comes in. You’re a thoughtful reasonable guy, so I don’t mean “you” specifically. The growing spread of this sort of narcissism is extremely distasteful to me, seeing people primarily as a resource to use, and that’s not a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:13 PM
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I think everyone’s abs are going to be a little bit different. I have visible abs and I don’t have perfect symmetry, does anyone? Probably have to train really really specific muscles and who the fuck wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:51 PM
1

It’s the reality, doesn’t mean I have to like it or behave that way, especially not when it comes to personal intimate relationships like friendships or lovers. Okay, if we are talking about hiring a plumber, sure I want value for money Would you just abandon a friend who became - for whatever circumstances a LVF(friend) because they were just no longer of any value to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:42 PM
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I’m coming to hate this word “value” and talking about LV and HV categories of people….it just means how exploitable you are, how much can the evaluator strip-mine you of. Your value is for yourself. You like the other person and want them more in your life or you don’t, I don’t look at people like it’s a livestock auction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:15 PM
1

Yes, men and women can be friends without romantic/sexual attraction - or you can still think your friend is cute but not want to bang for lots of reasons. Most of my deep and best friendships have been with other men but I think it’s easier to walk into a group of strangers and befriend the women rather than guys you don’t know, for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:15 AM
2

I still say, “yeah, well I heard the jury is still out on science”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:07 PM
1

Pancakes have to be fresh out of the pan hot to be enjoyable, or they just turn into pieces of foam. Team French toast
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:21 PM
4

Happened to me, too. Conception was like hitting the off-switch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:20 AM
10

Great, now you can pay for his too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:21 AM
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Are free tattoos and shitty weed paying the bills? It’s cool if the editorial “you” wants to get with the hot broke artist, but be real with yourself. He’s not shopping at Tiffany’s for your birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:14 AM
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The common thread is that all of these guys don’t give their resources to women and are happy doing their own thing. That’s what’s a man-child is, a guy who doesn’t knuckle under. But yet, ms journalist keeps going back for broke-dick bohemian artsy dude cock. It just keeps happening to her, somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:30 PM
1

Very astute observations, husband and kids are lucky to benefit from your wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:15 PM
3

So, wait….wait: women choose tall guys and short guys need a fuck ton more money than most people will ever be able to make in their lifetime because misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:20 PM
2

Comfort, I’m tougher on myself than anyone else is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:55 PM
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And then again some of us reach what is typically considered Chad-stats, the 3 or 4 6’s and still have very little success in sex and romance. There’s no formula, you have the “it” factor or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:14 PM
2

I have Lady chatterly’s on the shelf, I’ve read some passages from Sons and Lovers and some of his short stories, I have a collection called “Three Novellas”, where the Captain’s Doll was published. Good stuff, not my favourite writer, but definitely supremely talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:45 PM
2

Shakespeare rules, dude. You just need a little practice reading it. And Ontario high schools pick some dull ones though. At least we read Hamlet and Macbeth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:31 PM
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D H Lawrence is too little known these days, sadly. All of his works are right up PPD’s alley. My personal favourite is his short story, “The Captain’s Doll”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:24 PM
3

I found her wording of “I am the light of his life” telling… just divorce and get with side-guy already
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:39 PM
11

But still…dude was working 80 hours in venture capital that prevented him for finding or more likely keeping a woman, and he’s still going to work 80 hours after finding her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:27 PM
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The other option I can see if a rich guy who is extremely busy and outsources looking for a woman to a matchmaking service
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:22 PM
2

She didn’t figure out she just needed to peel off a few thousand - if that to just get any old dudes to fart in jars for her? How are the buyers even going to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:27 PM
2

Yes, but that’s because I am a self-loathing toad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:07 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:55 PM
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This is advice I myself took, but I’ve learned you just don’t talk about it. It irritates westerners’ cultural narcissism, they all view foreigners as “less than” in some way, either they are naively innocent or fiendishly manipulative. Never do they think that maybe those people don’t fit into their own society or that they too want to explore the world - wait, no that’s for main-character westerners, foreigners are props and bit actors in the movie about a rich white woman doing their eat pray…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:51 PM
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Women value marriage differently, and I think a lot of the value is for women interacting with other women, it matters more within the various strati of women’s intra-gender relationships. The cynical side of me would compare it to an agricultural fair, and farmers showing off their blue-ribbon studs. Another woman once said a man is like a hand bag as far as other women’s perceptions of themselves were concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:06 PM
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I love it as well, but shit, I just drink decanted blends, usually Teacher’s. Don’t need the fancy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:21 AM
1

If you have a contact there, see if you can get some notes on where your short comings were so you know what to work on next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:40 PM
1

Could, should…a lot of guys don’t, for whatever reason. Some of it is their own fault, or just not cut out for modern western dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:50 PM
2

It’s a significant challenge, for sure. A lot of unhealthy survival strategies at work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:27 PM
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Oh, poor people don’t know shit about that, it’s not like they have their own lawyer in retainer, you know? A lot of working class people swear to a kind of “salt of the earth” code of conduct, if you give your word you keep it, humility, the typical British-Protestant descended work ethic. I’m not trying to give the guy a pass, he’s certainly naive, but I don’t think it’s so out of place in the world of working class folk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:34 PM
2

Maybe he saw that investing in her was his ticket out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:15 PM
2

The birds would be way worse “Want some diiiiiick? Who wants diiiiiick?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:30 PM
3

Okay, I’ll share mine. Katra from the original She-Rah, so much so I asked for the action figure for my Birthday and my grandmother was like, “are we sure he’s not gay?” And my mom knew what was up and was like, “oh no, he’s fine”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:57 PM
3

Friend of mine saw her getting spanked at a fetish party🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:39 PM
1

22C
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:50 PM
1

Male, 43, 5’11”, hovering between 188 and 192….I’m about 13-14% right now, I’d like to lean out just a little bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:49 PM
3

Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:35 AM
1

Close tax loop holes, enforce existing regulations, and make penalties tied to percentage of networth, not some paltry fine that becomes the cost of doing business
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:04 PM
4

A compromise means both parties give up a little something to come to an overall acceptable agreement. Settling is capitulation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:27 PM
1

I will not have you bad-mouthing baby doll dresses, young lady. In this house we listen to Babes in Toyland!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:17 PM
3

Bio mom, bio sis, and I am 100% white (well…euro-mutt)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:52 AM
5

I have a younger sister, my father’s wife has a daughter who is older than me. From my perspective they received more support and care than I did. Maybe it’s a gender thing, maybe they saw me as “the smart one” and there was the belief that I didn’t need help or was capable myself or I don’t know… Well, a short list of examples: - my sister got 10k worth of orthodontics, I don’t think I was take to a dentist from age 12 until I had my own “real” job at 24 and took myself because I really needed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:37 AM
1

Seems Americans have some major challenges in this area. Good points to consider. My own sons birth was a bit of an emergency, he was a vacuum birth and understood that had he been born In the US I’d be looking at another $25 grand minimum. As it was we had a private room in a good hospital with a reputable birthing unit and between government health care and some private insurance with my employer paid nothing, and really all my private insurance paid was the cost to upgrade the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:40 PM
2

All good, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:03 PM
1

No, but that’s largely where I hear the reluctance around child birth coming from - but okay, I’m not tapped in to the zeitgeist in rural Mississippi. I’m willing to be wrong and admit as much that these are half formed thoughts. So, getting a bit of a hostile tone and it’s not my intention to battle or contradict you. More than willing to be educated in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:53 PM
1

I said I wondered if…that’s why I asked the question. Didn’t seem to reconcile, but apparently the numbers are far worse than I realized for women across the board. I had figured the numbers were very skewed towards rural poor black women in southern states.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:40 PM
1

That’s why I’m asking the question. Again, not an American, my country has good healthcare for all (it’s not a perfect system and needs its own fixes, no system is..) and I get there are particular issues in the US. I am reluctant to agree that it is drastically impacting birth rates for middle class and up college educated women who seem to voice the most apprehension about child birth. Please correct me where I am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:25 PM
1

Surely a large portion of that is skewed by certain geographic, socio-economic and racial demographics, no? I’d bet the obesity numbers go hand in hand with the rise in deaths. I’m not an American 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:15 PM
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Economic mostly (affordable housing and childcare, wage growth stagnation) and also preference. I do wonder if there is a concerted effort to “scare” women away from childbirth. Modern medicine has made it safer than ever yet there seems to be a rising fear that women are going to die giving birth, or that children will doom your life for ever. It’s never been safer than now to have kids and women have more choice than ever how to raise them, so that’s where the question comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:54 PM
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Or my favourite variant to this: “Men don’t even try!” Man uses his assets to his advantage and has some mediocre success “What a loser! He can’t beat the game flawlessly on hard mode”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:26 AM
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There’s no “plan”! It’s debtors trying to stay one step ahead of the leg breakers, but on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:05 PM
1

I’ve ever been in this position where I would be able to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:13 PM
2

I would be fine dating a woman with children (I have a son myself), would prefer they are older, in their teens, and would not try to be their step dad. Not to say I wouldn’t want a friendly relationship with this hypothetical woman’s kids, but from my own step parent experience I just wouldn’t feel comfort trying to take that role, I’m not trying to be anyone else’s dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:03 PM
2

🎶in my dreams you’re blowing me - …some kisses🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:05 PM
2

This is a real “careful what you wish for” situation…for both of them. For instance, does he get to grade her performance and hold her accountable like an employer would? Should also deduct mortgage, her share of the utilities, food, because those should now be considered taxable benefits and treated like income. And no complaints about not helping around the house, or it’s a billable charge at an hourly rate back to her if she wants him to do chores, because this should go both ways. …but peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:14 PM
2

It’s not 40 year old guys compared the 25 year old guys. It’s a 40 year old guy compared to who he personally was at 25. At 25, I was a broke scrawny dumb-ass. It’s also not going to be the guy who thought his junior hockey days in high school were the peak of his life and let the next 20 years go down hill. It’s the guy who didn’t stop building himself up, didn’t coast on metabolism, stayed active, moderated vices (and some genetic luck) that will be able to date a wider age range of women - an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:10 PM
1

Wild at Heart, but I also love his Dune
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:20 PM
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Here’s to your fuck, Frank (I always thought Hopper did a better version of that character in River’s Edge, he was almost comical in Blue Velvet. There’s way better Lynch movies)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:59 PM
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Just remember this thread when women are complaining that men don’t do shit around the house
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:42 PM
2

I threw my face on the pic thread during purge under my own user name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:40 PM
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Reasonable people will expect it to wane over time as the honey moon phase ends, that’s normal. It should be there in the initial attraction phase as an indication for a suitable LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:27 PM
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Oh yeah, what else you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:03 AM
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Oh I have a good story. So I was running late for a “coffee chat” meeting with some hot shot exec at the company, in a building I’ve never been to and with people I’ve never met. So obviously I had trouble getting there and was the last one to arrive… but right before I bent down too quickly to tie my shoe and split the entire ass of my pants, full cheek just hanging. And then had to walk into a room of people I didn’t know and because I was late draw really obvious attention to myself…with my a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:42 AM
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Why would guys who don’t like heavy girls be mad that fit guys are taking themselves out of the competition? Does not compute. Hell, date two or three big girls, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:01 AM
2

If I stop working out I’ll look like a plucked chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:50 PM
2

Haha, I just said throw an old towel down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:22 PM
2

Count me amongst the don’t cares. Throw some old towels down and way you go…some women don’t mind, some have said it feels gritty and uncomfortable, I guess it depends on the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:22 PM
1

Not sure why being agreeable would override other traits, maybe for some people and then yes I see your point, for someone who couldn’t say no to anything is certainly over the edge but I mean… we’re not reducing this to the extreme cases are we? You can be cooperative and not want to help someone harm themselves at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:27 AM
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Yeah but those dudes aren’t shy about letting the women here know that, they wear it as a badge of honour. I didn’t think it was such a hot topic, huh, learned something new. A bit weird to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:23 AM
1

Alright then. Not trying to be dismissive, just nothing else to say on the subject. I didn’t think it was that big of a deal, you’re inclined to want to help or you don’t, no big thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:21 AM
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I’m really confused, bro. Agreeable just means more likely to cooperate, disagreeable means more likely to not cooperate. I don’t know where this domination shit is coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:11 AM
2

Oh okay, so I thought it was more like if my wife asks me to do something that’s a bit of a personal inconvenience but I do it anyway…or it could be bigger, like supporting her going back for higher education or something. I dunno…agreeable just means more inclined to cooperate and disagreeable means more likely to oppose, it’s doesn’t mean master-slave and I am confused why a lot of women seem to think that’s what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:09 AM
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👍 then we have no argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:59 AM
1

…and? I don’t see how it’s a “bad” word. I’m agreeable too. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:48 AM
2

Okay, okay, I’ll walk back the part where I said women want this drama. Some do, some don’t like any other people. The women I would want relationships with are those who are are mutually cooperative, capable adults who are able to compromise and all that good stuff. I’m not looking for strife, I’m lazy at heart and would like nothing more to share life’s labours for mutual comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:46 AM
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I expect she is an adult who knows herself and knows what she needs to do in her own life. I don’t criticize, I don’t “call out” my partner. If I raise something, I describe my feelings in it, I try not to lob accusations or attribute malice. Really…I grew in a shitty household with a lot of arguing and verbal abuse, I really really am not trying to recreate that. I don’t know what else to say to make women here believe men are not all controlling bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:41 AM
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Where did I suggest I’m not also agreeable? I am agreeable, I handle my own business and hold up my end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:36 AM
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This is what I mean. What gives you or any other person the authority to hold me accountable - especially when I’ve done nothing to be held to account for? I hold my self to a far higher standard than anyone else, I am my own worst critic and enemy. “It is I who knows what I must do”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:33 AM
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It’s a struggle to have day to day control over my own life, I don’t have the time or energy or want to control someone else’s. The whole purpose of partnering up is to share the load, work to commonly beneficial goals. If I can accept that some men are lazy pieces of derelict shit, can you accept that when a man says he just wants cooperation he just wants cooperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:27 AM
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Because, I would have demonstrated time and again that I am trustworthy and of my word. Would we be in an LTR otherwise if there wasn’t that trust there? I think not. I manage $60MM project portfolios, I don’t need someone asking me if I took out the garbage or remember to walk the dog…it’s her and I against the problem, not her and I against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:24 AM
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Smooth operator, right here (hehe)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:50 PM
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Not at all, the root of the word literally is “work together”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:50 PM
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My personal stance is that there is enough antagonism and bullshit in the world I have to face everyday, if I am going to be in a relationship with someone that last thing I want is to get that shit when I come home. I don’t want to be challenged or held accountable or any other dramatic bullshit a lot of women seem to want in men, I definitely don’t want a second “boss” when I come home from work. What I want is a cooperative partner that helps face the shit the world slings our way and that po…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:39 PM
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Not only am I a son of a teen mom, I am a father myself and completely in favour of abortion. Should be legal safe and rare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:45 PM
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Nah, attractive women come in all ages, and a lot of guys can be more attractive than they were compared to their younger selves, if they don’t slack off in their twenties thinking they can coast on metabolism. It’s only true if you think attractive women are only 18-22 year old girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:25 PM
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Yeah, my position on these is that prostitution is going g to happen if it’s illegal or not, so it causes less harm (and saves tax payers money) to legalize and regulate. I would say the same for opiates, legalize and regulate so we can get fent out of here, save people’s lives and reduce the strain on public health services, reduce crime, etc. Criminalizing mental health and poverty doesn’t work, doesn’t make it go away
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:41 PM
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A common approach to legalizing sex work is to criminalizing the buying while legalizing the selling. Some countries in Europe, namely Sweden do this, and it was proposed in my country, Canada as well. It’s a fairly common though not universal feminist opinion. I don’t think this approach actually helps sex workers though, it drives the trade underground and makes it less safe. Sex workers should be regulated by the Heath department and should have employee safety standards like any other indust…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:30 PM
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They are fine with selling sex but not buying sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:57 PM
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It’s intentional, control the definition of the words being used you control the rules of the game and the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:57 PM
2

Have you ever eaten a bag of dicks or a bowl or dicks but you’re just. Not. Full! …well now you can eat a whole crock pot full of dicks with the new Cockpot from Ronco, all the dicks you’ll ever want to eat in one convenient package
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:13 PM
2

It’s called the dirty thirties for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:46 PM
2

The reward of virtue is virtue, it’s self respect and having the strength of your convictions. It can have an attractive quality of its own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:40 PM
2

This isn’t unreasonable. But she needs to bring the same effort and energy. She can’t expect to be rescued or have someone else do life’s heavy lifting for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:14 PM
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He’s fine looks wise, good dating CV though, he’s got the right career and status markers (the Botswana bit would play well with certain types). If this dude has an Indian accent it’s going to sink him, but a Guyanese or Trini accent and he’s good (goes without saying if he’s second + gen immigrant).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:10 PM
2

“Learn to overcome it in a healthy way”. It’s right there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:46 PM
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OP is saying it’s better to walk around with armour on instead of being naked. Men can cry by themselves or with a paid professional, journal it out, work it out on the heavy bag. My point is that their shitty treatment and utter dismissal of boys/men came first, the mask is a defensive reaction to that. Is complaining about suicide not justified? Men can’t even complain about us fucking killing ourselves without soulless assholes making some “oh boo hoo” pithy comment. The lack of humanity for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:36 PM
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What do you think came first? Where do you think boys get the idea from that they’re not supposed to cry or show weakness from? Because any 6 year old boy that’s cried at school knows that at best you will be mocked at worst you just outted yourself and made yourself a target for all the asshole, and likely we’re already told by parents to “quit yer crying, I’ll give you something to cry about”. It’s from the cradle that boys learn this, they are held less and comforted less compared to infant g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:40 PM
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You don’t get to dictate what men’s feelings and needs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:51 PM
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It’s not that men don’t care, it’s that they need to provide as much or more in the money, career and status department. So if I have to already do more in all those areas whatever she provides there is just an added bonus, very nice to have but not a big deal…because I already have to bring that to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:49 PM
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There’s a huge selection bias at work, because “Man calmly accepts rejection and never bothers her again” doesn’t make the headlines over at r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:42 PM
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I do care about the accomplishments of women I care about. Rarely however does it make me more sexually attracted to a woman, though. And in a relationship it’s an added bonus. Like, “I met this girl she’s cute, and smart, we have a lot of fun and share the same humour and she treats me well, oh and she’s a doctor” Men want to be desired by their hotness, women want to be desired for their accomplishments, and we’re all going to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:28 PM
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Feel for you bro, I’ve not been all that romantically successful myself so I know a little of what it is like. Anything I say is probably trite and something you’ve heard before. Personally felt better about myself via a combination of mental health help, gym and career success, but it’s a long road full of mistakes and moments of back sliding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:53 PM
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Yeah I can see that. They’re pretty judgemental over all. Still, the question was which one is he better off with and just don’t see any 21 year olds having any tolerance for a 30 something virgin, I don’t see it being better or even realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:38 PM
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Ideally, he doesn’t say anything about being a virgin, sex isn’t that hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:20 PM
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I think a mercenary approach like this will just result in check list chasing and eternal disappointment trying to find the perfect man that doesn’t exist. You will actually run the risk of missing out on real genuine people and relationships, because that’s what humans are; fallible creatures with their quirks, their strengths and weaknesses too, full of their own wants, needs and dreams. So you can treat it like shopping for the right appliance that makes your life easier and looks great in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:19 AM
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Every preference? No, but she needs to show she thinks I am desirable, because if it’s not “fuck yes!” it’s a no. I wouldn’t get into anything serious otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:49 PM
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I’d like to see the marriage rates compared to wage growth/stagnation and rise in housing cost and personal debt. I’d wager it would go far to explain the decline in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:13 PM
2

Yeah but like… a nicely aged shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:14 AM
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Granted he’s not doing power lunches at Ruth’s Chris but…okay, I’ll give you an example: I hang out at a local sports/dive bar in my neighborhood, they make a good burger and the beer on tap is cheap. But by being a regular I’ve met and talked with a lot of other locals, gossiped whatever but through that I got lined up with a guy while did my basement windows for a good price and did a great job, someone I wouldn’t have know to contact otherwise. Knowing and being friendly with a wide range of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:05 AM
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So…one brand new dick a month (fresh out of the package, you need that new dick fragrance, like a new car) every single month since she’s 16 and a half. Are you fucking serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:33 AM
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You know I respect you but you are wrong here. Everyone needs a network, especially the self employed blue collar guys, word of mouth and reputation makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:28 AM
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Yes, completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:18 AM
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Huh…naruhodo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:17 AM
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Okay, so part of it so you understand is that Japan is a very straight laced society, very much nose to the grindstone and suck it up kinda shit. So, for simple enjoyments it’s almost like a Victorian England kind of thing where to have those moments of childlike joy they must attach themselves to childlike things, hence all the cutesy mascots and characters and any expression is via those avenues, including an adolescent infatuation with teen idols - even if you’re an adult male. Otherwise it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:01 PM
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… but for real I could go for a Faygo Cream soda about now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:54 PM
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They’re all high on meth and faygo, do they even have the capacity to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah those guys are fucking methhead juggalettes though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:18 PM
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He’s better off with the 30 year old woman who has the maturity and understanding to deal with him being a very late bloomer. 21 year old college girl isn’t going to know how or want to handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:09 PM
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Are they actually real women playing those girls? I assumed it was 40 year old horny otaku dudes larping for other 40 year old horny otaku dudes and while I’m pretty fucking weird, I’m not that fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:16 PM
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There are faces and heels and he’s a heel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:51 PM
1

So call it LonelyFans. They’re being transparent about what the deal is, cash for intimate access. These guys know the deal when they sign up. It’s an illusion (and likely a form letter response from her boyfriend) but so what? If the escapism provides some benefit to these guys subscribing and everyone is up front, then I see it as a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:30 PM
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Some yes, some no, some also have just burned themselves so many times they are afraid to touch the stove - and rationalize it all as “she was just being friendly”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:05 PM
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status varies and what’s important to one woman is not going to be to another, it’s relative. A custom fit suit, nice leather shoes and slick haircut might boost you up with some and take you down with others, especially if she’s expecting a beard, tattoos and a black band t shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:00 PM
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Even with the surgery I don’t think it’s going to be a universal attractant such that it’s going to move the needle significantly. You might get a few more women than you would have without, but then what? It’s no guarantee, and while neither is money/status, you still have the money to enjoy if the women don’t work out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:49 PM
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I wonder if there are less men able and capable of being caretakers. There are a lot of guys dropping dead in their late 50’s from cancer and heart disease and in some cases a life of blue collar physical labour for instance may mean a man with elderly parents may himself require more dedicated care. I’m not sure if this is controlled for, I only read the abstract
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:03 PM
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I would say universally it’s money/status first, because it makes most other areas of life easier and more comfortable than just dating. I suppose it depends on what a guy is looking for, but as women tend to marry up and across social lines, then a high status will help you secure a high status wife, if that’s what he is looking for. Generally, I just don’t think most guys are physically appealing to most women, so while it is important, it’s not worth prioritizing as most men will get more mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:55 PM
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Men should prioritize money/status maxing over looks maxing, because more money makes the looks part easier: you can afford better clothes, food, healthcare, etc. Individual women will vary, for some status and wealth increase the attractiveness, and for other women it decreases. It’s easy to tell which ones, because the ones that will will comment about a status signifier of yours and indirectly ask you what you do fairly quickly in the interaction. with looks, most women won’t like your look, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:20 PM
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I’ve misinterpreted so many signals, including some spectacular flame outs that I really like when the interest is made plain and as obviously as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:11 PM
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No, I mind my own business. They’re just as likely to blame you for shattering their illusions anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:33 PM
3

The tiny prince 🤴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:26 PM
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178cm/5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:58 PM
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There’s a an 88, 66, 99…I didn’t think there was any logical naming convention 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:25 PM
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I hope their slogan is, “it’s Pho-King delicious!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:50 PM
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Is there a Pho 99 in every city? GTA has several
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:33 PM
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Be the prize or I am the prize just means have a winning mindset, believe you are awesome, that kind of thing. I’m a prize for someone, but this trophy has its dents
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:45 PM
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I’m not convinced you didn’t and I’m not going to be drawn into anything more. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:25 AM
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This isn’t a conversation I’m willing to have in the open, I just don’t like revealing that much of myself. In short, no I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:08 PM
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That’s how I’ve conducted myself, agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:49 PM
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Completely right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:58 PM
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Sounds like her friends fucked it up for him by joking about them hooking up, so she felt guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:55 PM
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A miserable pile of secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:14 PM
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Great way to set up ambushes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:36 PM
2

Who’s crying? Look if you want to go bang out nasty club girls knocking on your window at 2:30 in the morning looking for coke, have at it. Enjoy that case of gonorrhoea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:02 PM
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Its not male model chads is my point. Any male models I’ve know actually lead boring lives: can’t drink because trying to look shredded for the next shoot, can’t stay out late because they don’t want their face looking puffy and need their rest, they don’t actually make that much money so they’re on tight budgets…one of the ones I bought weed from had all these side hustles because modelling didn’t pay shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:47 PM
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Promoters, event organizers, DJs; these guys aren’t facially attractive by default. Add low future time orientation, low disgust threshold, low inhibition, high risk tolerance and a bag of coke and watch the N Counts soar. I’ve seen it with my own eyes lots of times. They’re not the most attractive or tallest but they flirt with anything that moves, create a fun atmosphere where ever they go and will absolutely dumpster dive or fuck girls you’d never consider to get that notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:17 PM
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The party and drug crowd have all the casual sex. Oh, and the arts community can be pretty hedonistic, every actor is fucking every other actor it seems. Looks are less relevant to having drugs and being very outgoing and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:51 PM
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Sure go ahead and judge me. Women screen out with harsh evaluations and checklists. this is to be expected
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:58 AM
1

What I would like is for my country to crack down on money laundry, seize oligarch assets and kick them the fuck out of our banking system. Kicking the Russians out of SWIFT would be a great start
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:53 PM
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Make no mistake Russian oligarch money has made its way into politicians’ pockets around the world. Thus the tepid response from the West. You either get a corrupt piece of shit or a weak willed pussy to govern you, or some of us get both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:06 PM
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There is so much muddying of waters and “oh so you are saying…” straw manning around this. Simply put: a lot of men end up more attractive in their 30’s compared to who they were in their 20’s. It’s not 40 year olds being more attractive than the average twenty something but directly compared to the person they themselves used to be. I grew into my face, got my diet and exercise right, increased my status, increased my experience with women and earned more money by my early 30’s and would absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:01 AM
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Grew up poor, build a better, easier life for me and family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:51 PM
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I’m not trying to excuse the husband, but I can see why he noped out. Yeah maybe he had a thing for saving this girl then it got to real for him, I dunno… don’t know what I would do, I’d like to think I wouldn’t be angry at her but for sure would cause some distance and discomfort, I’d second guess myself a bunch probably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:11 PM
1

Sashimi Uber alles!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:51 PM
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Kind of a world of difference between “I slept around in college and made some amateur porn with a boy friend” and “I was drugged and pimped out to a bunch of people by a total scum bag”. I could see a lot of guys not being able to handle the second one. I don’t know what the fuck I would do if that was just dropped on me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:32 PM
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I love sashimi, tuna and salmon in particular. I’ve had the opportunity to enjoy some top quality stuff and it’s just heavenly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:29 PM
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Here’s what I did, in short in my self improvement journey. It was not focussed on being more attractive, mostly being a better “me”, but was for sure a contributing factor, I wanted my wife to be more attracted to me improved physically, better diet, more exercise, added lean muscle, better skin care improved style, dressed better, better hair cut, accessorize more improved mentally, therapy, journaling, working through your shit, taking responsibility and doing your fair share improved communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:19 PM
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He’d had pulled out of NATO ( or so severely hamstring operations as to make NATO useless) like he already threatened, he’d serve up Eastern Europe on a silver platter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:40 PM
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Yes but not without scarcity and hardships. I’d be more worried that it last too long and my son gets dragged in. I’m old and my profession is planning resourcing and logistics so I’m in the rear with the gear if ever there was a call up or dire need to troops. I’d rather it be me than my son, so I would join up if it meant he didn’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:20 PM
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I don’t even involve my own parents, uh-uh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:57 PM
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The Beat (or English Beat as they were known on our side) was a particular favourite. Not Ska, but see also Fish Bone and Living Color
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:45 PM
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You may be a bit too young to remember a Toronto area band called Raga Death, they got some radio play in the mid 90’a. Kind of a metal-reggae fusion, lead singer was a woman who sang in patois, which was cool, and no one was doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:31 PM
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As a guy, I would (and have!) dated Trini or Guyanese Indian girls but not India Indian girls for the same reason; I’m not dating your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:06 PM
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What was the famous saying? “Men’s weakness is their facade of strength, women’s strength is their facade of weakness” something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:00 PM
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Omnivore, high fat, low glycemic carbs, 16/8 intermittent fasting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:57 PM
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Euro-mutt, Ontario
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:29 PM
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You always take these ridiculous extreme positions were I just can’t take you seriously. Very well, you “win”. Chalk that up on your score board. I’m not wasting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:25 PM
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Just to your last paragraph, as an old head myself (though my head is a bit younger than yours by 3 or 4 years), I wouldn’t say it’s the cause but was a factor and maybe compounded some issues I was experiencing. Gen X had our issues, and adults often gave zero shits or even blamed us for what was done to us. junior High was a total hell for me. That people feel more comfort talking about it is a good thing in my opinion, because sweeping it under the rug of “just toughen up bitch” really doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:17 PM
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Can’t speak for all guys, but I can usually find something attractive about most women. When I was a younger lad with gobs of testosterone pulsing through my veins I wanted to fuck just about every woman I saw. I didn’t act on it, because I may think like a disgusting pig sometimes, I don’t behave like one. Even these loud angry obese women, yelling at their kids usually has a scuzzy looking skinny dude in tow. Is the bar really that high to get male attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:04 PM
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It’s all about your personal attitude to sex. If you think sex is something that a woman gives to a man and thus diminishes in value over time, you care about n count. If you don’t, you don’t. RP gets cause and effect all wrong on this one. The damage and inability to bond was there before the promiscuity, not because of it. I don’t see it that way, so I’m fine with (and have been with) woman with some pretty high n counts, I don’t think having lots of sex necessarily devalues women - provided i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:19 PM
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The male equivalent is the following: “Yeah, I’m 56, 6’13” 389 lbs at 2%bf, I’m worth 8 figures and only work 4 minutes a week. My wife is a 24 year old, virgin when I married her but a total freak in the sack just for me, she’s size 0 and never weighed more than 99lbs, we have 7 children…” In other words, just as fake as this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:00 PM
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I’m in the Wealth Management sector. Title talks a lot of the time, if you’ve got the right title most people will assume you have the authority and knowledge to speak on it or make a decision. At a surface level this is “status”. Could be a double edge sword, if you don’t have the confidence and knowledge you will lose everyone’s trust really quickly. It’s bad management culture if people think they can’t speak up or offer opinions/solutions at work. At best you’re not getting the full range of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:53 PM
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That and it brings all the guys in the middle into line. Beat up on the weakest or missfits and the others will fit in and conform so they don’t get the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:14 PM
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Yes I am currently in one, and consider my self purple-red sympathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:18 PM
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I’m a recovering “No More Mr. Nice Guy” nice guy, and I’ll tell you why they (we?) aren’t liked: first of all, easy targets to mock, they don’t fight back or have boundaries, easy to push around. They’re afraid to be direct about what they want and live genuinely, so they go about sneaky ways trying to get their wants/needs met and of course this ends in disaster and stupid shit that hurts others. They’re not terrible people, they’re hurt and neglected and learned maladaptive survival methods, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:35 PM
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Digital beanie babies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:38 PM
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Constitutional monarchy is the best. Westminster Parliamentary 4 lyfe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:22 PM
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It’s been a 30+ year trip for me, full of mistakes, faltering and back sliding. I guess you’re mostly right and it’s resulted in career and personal-interest successes. It’s not really translated well to romantic/sexual success for me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:56 PM
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I don’t believe any of it is real, it’s not even a real woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:52 PM
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Just excuse yourself, quietly take care of the bill and done
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:33 PM
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What? It’s just insanity. Women aren’t out there with an unemployed loser, fucking skanky drugged out hookers while their mom pays for every thing. You think 18 year old women want to be some old broke dudes sex slave? Come the fuck on dude. I blocked that trash a long time ago…fucking “truths”, get the fuck out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:23 PM
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Hey, as long as everyone is getting those Os, it’s all good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:20 PM
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I mean yeah, I do have deep feelings of low self worth and being unloveable scum (save it, started therapy when I was 10). But that stems from the neglect and resentment from my parents, that lead to other…”things” It’s possible to seek validation from women amid respecting and seeing them as entire human beings and wanting a well rounded healthy relationship with them. You just dont see us because we’re saying all those negative things to the mirror when we’re by ourselves, not spewing it out h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:19 PM
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The only time I don’t is when they stop me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:02 PM
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So obviously a troll, it’s a dude LARPing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:50 PM
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Curious as to why you think men only and singularly want validation and that is the totality of how they see women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:35 PM
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Sorry man, it doesn’t matter how you feel. It matters how the women hearing you say that makes them feel and that’s just the way it is. Shit sucks but it doesn’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:53 PM
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I don’t know how to feel about this until I know who she mains…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:45 PM
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You have a fun, bubbly persona and can joke around, which will take you far in real encounters, just bring that same energy and zest for life you seem to have to real world encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:53 PM
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Since you are in PPD man where it’s a just world and those who get relationships are good, woman respecting, kind men and those who don’t are dirty smelly hideous trolls who obviously hate women and it’s all they’re fault!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:46 PM
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Like many things, industrial and corporate farming practice need to be cleaned up. But that doesn’t mean the entire way we eat needs to be torn down to the ground Also, I vegans just draw really stupid lines in the sand. My wool sweater or leather belt will last literally years, but but what about their fossil fuel based plastics use? What about all the water and resources needed to make various almond and cashew milks, that is very resource intense agriculture. It’s not like shit doesn’t stink …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:59 PM
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Why clog up the courts with this crap? And I don’t like criminalizing inter personal behaviour because it sets bad precedent. Keep the government and especially the cops out of my bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:39 PM
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What’s not to like? But I’m getting down votes, haha I think there’s a good portion of people who just don’t think sex is fun, they think it’s work, and they like the status of “sex-haver” but they really don’t like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:11 PM
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Make it a civil matter if there have been financial damages, but I don’t see this as a criminal matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:53 PM
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I wouldn’t say they’re lying, but there’s sampling issues and replication problems. Look, a lot of psych studies use college age students which is great for understanding broad trends among largely white, middle to upper class 18-22 year olds, but doesn’t speak well to the larger population. They are true for a certain point in time, demography and geography only and should be viewed with healthy skepticism. But that’s science, anyway. Keep testing and refining and analyzing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
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Add Billy Madison…and his comedy album (that got a lot of mileage in high school) and you’ve got it. Punch Drunk Love shows off that Sandler can actually act. I had a friend or two that really identified with Barry, one who’s life was almost the same to a T
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:24 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:04 PM
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Nah, toys are fun and should supplement not supplant your own assets. My dick is still the main course, it’s just really nice to add some spice. I don’t find it emasculating at all, rather I get off on knowing it’s me that’s driving her wild, that I am “master” of her pleasure as it were
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:07 PM
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Fire fighter is a winner across the board. Women love fire fighters, it’s the most trusted job when it comes to public trust in surveys, they’ve got that danger/heroic element of being a “first reaponder” without the violence or shit-headedness of a cop (and they wear uniforms), they work out all day when not rescuing kittens from trees so they can look good for the shirtless calendar…for charity of course Edit: runner up is lead singer in a band, don’t think I need to explain this one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:09 AM
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Oh yeah, that dude exuded some serious creep vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:13 PM
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The IOC is completely corrupt and as long and oligarch/dictator/theocract money is flowing into their pockets they won’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:05 PM
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Do they? Like I said, I’m not sure. I’m not questioning you, I’m saying I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:51 PM
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If you refer to my original post, I said that they do. But also that the wall to climb for men/boys is so high that most/many (here I don’t know, maybe it’s less than I think?) never or only fleetingly experience it. Why do I think this? Just personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:41 PM
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I don’t mean just any women, partners, parents. Surely if you chose to be with someone you’d at least try to meet their needs in the way that’s meaningful to them? That’s what I try do, but I recognize also that my emotional development was stunted. It takes a long time to unlearn the bad shit and rewrite healthy ways and it comes with a lot of stumbling, mistakes and steps backward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:17 PM
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I don’t know. Never really got much of it to know what is normal and what isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:41 AM
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Grr..what is it about secret VP cabals that concoct all these plans, don’t talk to each other and then I have to clean up their messes. Then they complain why we aren’t moving fast enough? MF I had to pull my lead dev and my lead architect off the RFP work so they could jump on your stupid shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:28 PM
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Much respect. Tough job, don’t think I could do it. Thanks for doing what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:00 PM
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The Simpson’s seasons 4-8. Pretty much perfect run, not a bad episode in the bunch and arguably several of the best, like Last Exit to Springfield
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:49 PM
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No, obviously they can. I just think, reflecting on my personal experience that it is an exceptionally high bar to cross and earn a woman’s love and an even higher bar to maintain it, such that most men never really will experience it. Maybe fleetingly, and that’s the best we can hope for. Even close family members, not just romantic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:00 PM
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I don’t dispute that. I lived in a shitty part of a large North American city and I’ve seen my share of some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:19 PM
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He was one of those “comedians’ comedians” and apparently had a very sharp off the cuff wit and could cut anyone down with a humorous remark. His interviews and guest spots on radio were always better than his stand up and he had some very poignant insights into the entertainment industry. He should have had Craig Robinsons career but he kept fucking himself over and burned a lot of bridges
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:22 PM
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My reply to Orange P was more of a rhetorical tactic to rebut her comment that suggested that since she didn’t do those things women, or a good majority of women didn’t. So, my counter was that since I didn’t do any of the things on Philo’s list, then that should make the sexes even, and men or a good majority don’t do those things. And I have no ill will towards either ladies, they’re good contributors to the discussion and I like their taste in music
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:35 AM
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As long as everyone is an adult granting their informed consent, I don’t care what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:48 AM
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Because the longer he is around women like this the more remote his chance will be to find a woman who will value him. He should be living for himself and not cleaning up some scum bag’s mess who couldn’t even be assed to show up for his own kid’s birth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:42 AM
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Okay, so the tinder date is “just friends”. This is even better. I feel sorry for the dude, contempt for the woman (focus on your newborn not tinder, Jeeezus!) and wonder where the fuck the father is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:51 PM
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No this is totally a knight in shinning armour story Edit: sure it’s the decent thing to do, don’t go blowing smoke everyone ass saying he’s the man of the year and they’re bonded and shit..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:07 PM
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“Man of the year” But WhErE dO rEdPiLl mEn gEt ThIs dIsNeY fAnTaSy FrOm??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:34 PM
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Then you be that IDGAF guy who is there to make changes, swing the hatchet and make the tough decisions that us more relationship focussed roles have a hard time doing. Totally McKinsey material
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:05 PM
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The increased sex would make up for the “is this validating…?” part and most guys can just write that story in their own head anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:51 PM
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De La Soul, right before my son was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:55 PM
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Yes, I suppose that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:53 PM
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Im talking broad strokes here, so while I may not have required a career in her college days, I would want her to be ambitious and working towards her goals. Kind, smart, shares similar sense of humour, has an appreciation for the arts, particularly film, music and literature, enjoys the dining experience and good conversation, and her values generally align to my own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:12 PM
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And I have never fucked anything on Philo’s list, so that makes the sexes equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:04 PM
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Tech and adjacent industries are screaming for high skill talent. I know because I can’t hire enough good project managers. An MBA opens up a shit-ton of doors and if I wanted to move up in my own career (I’m not sure I want that VP ring, I’m happy as a director) it would be a hard must-have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:01 PM
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Dude, dude, dude, the money the MBA would bring is what gives you the brighter future, not asking some dumb boomer “did you try turning it off and back on again?” ad naseum for the rest of your working days
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:46 PM
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I don’t know about that. In broad strokes the women I wanted relationships in my twenties had the same qualities I would look for now in my 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:37 PM
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It’s just my gut reaction to the hypothetical “what if…” I’m not really going to date a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:51 PM
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Like a Salvador Dali painting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:29 PM
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This is going to sound really stupid and I’m even rolling my eyes at my self…but I’d worry the sex worker didn’t like me or found me revolting. You’re not supposed to care, but I can’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:25 PM
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Just going to town with toys, fingers and tongue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:17 PM
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There have definitely been moments when I’ve been envious of women, but Ive never wanted to be one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:42 PM
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Usually you don’t even need pronouns in Japanese, it’s mostly understood through context. Watashi - keigo/hyoujungo “proper” way to say I Boku - more casual but with humility Ore - rough, coarse, very informal use, supposed to be like…blue collar manly speech
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:44 PM
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Women screen out, men screen in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:32 PM
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My dad was an alcoholic mess (he’s better now) but he offered to do the same when it nearly came to that. I just toughed it out until I finished high school, and then got the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:11 PM
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I figure, like most things, it’s a few whales blowing small fortunes while most guys aren’t doing it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:02 PM
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I think you’ve expressed it pretty well. I will add, that I’m also a father. My dad was absent and my moms husband never gave a fuck about me (he’s good with my sister, so whatever…), so of course I care about my son and am actively involved in his life. But a lot of men are just taken for granted for all they do, it’s a lot of work and putting the wants of others over the needs of yourself. Sleeping around with chicks is the easier path, young men see it is the easier path, and that “I want it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:50 PM
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Oh the men and boys were raped too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:29 AM
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Nah, it was a group effort. The Russians would have been fucked without US lend-lease, RAF raids to draw off the Luftwaffe and Polish intelligence. If any, I’d say the Poles did and sacrificed the most as a nation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:14 AM
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Hallmark holiday bullshit …but I’m still going to bake her a cheese cake
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:12 AM
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I was being a little free with my language but then I saw what you wrote about your aunt and…that’s not okay for an older woman and especially a family member to have encouraged that. Sorry, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:47 PM
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My feet are fucking hideous…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:46 PM
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Most men? Fuck no. Feet do nothing for me, and I’d suck an ass before I suck a toe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:41 PM
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You ever thought of going into business for yourself? You could make a lot of money helping well off elderly ladies build and maintain their gardens. Not full out landscaping, just specialize in gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:02 PM
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Yes, because social media and OLD apps need women to join, men are easy to get, just bring the women abs they will follow. So, a weight question is a pretty good way to alienate the very people you’re trying to attract to your app
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:28 PM
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Get Larry shooting 3 pointers like Harden, 10-12 attempts a night, he’d be shooting the lights out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:01 PM
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My son just started middle school this year, he walks home with and hangs out with a mixed group of kids, half girls half boys, so I would say he is on his way. He’s got no problem letting people know he thinks they’re an idiot (we had a bit of an incident where he got into it with one of his teachers because he thought the work he was being given was too easy and he can be a smart-ass) so I am fine he’ll do fine with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:16 PM
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It’s easy for a guy not to know where he stands. I was mocked relentlessly for my facial features. It’s like Greg Giraldo said of Joan Rivers, “you look like Steve Tyler fucked a life raft”…so anyway, I obviously developed a complex about it and thought I was unattractive for pretty much my entire life. Turns out some women really like how I look and find me attractive. Who knew? Not me, they certainly don’t tell you if they do because in 43 years I’ve only heard it from one romantically-interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:22 PM
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Of course male intra-competition exists, I’d argue it’s the basis for male relationships. When you’re a kid it’s who is the fastest, who is the strongest, best athlete, and typically the best athlete is the most popular. it’s not looks based
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:14 PM
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Is this the same as a mortgage broker? Typically a mortgage broker is independent and works for you to secure the best rates and terms from various lenders the broker has a relationship with. The lender pays the broker a percentage, not the borrower, so it is in the brokers best interest to get the best term possible for their clients, the borrower. I have used a mortgage broker several times and my guy always beats the rates on the street, even the employee rates I get as a Bank employee.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:19 PM
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Yes, he was never ever interested in her as a friend and it is impossible (for a man only) to develop deeper feelings over time and proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah? Well at least I can make a phone call without a panic attack
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:08 PM
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The people I’ve blocked are ones that just spewed shit constantly, LARPers or ones that just really push my buttons and need to be blocked for my sanity. But if someone I don’t like contributes good shit, I don’t block even if we disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:06 PM
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I think age is a big factor. When I was 13-20 I would follow around any girl that was nice to me like a puppy dog and would assume interest. With strike out after strike out, calibrating my “league” as it were, you learn that almost all women have no interest. Then you start missing opportunities assuming no women are interested. I know I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:56 PM
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Totally. I feel the same about other groups who may not fit into normal society. Like, what the fuck are you bitching about a wheel chair access ramp for? Drag it up the stairs you lazy fuck! Your fault, your fault, your fault! Are you even trying to walk? Ahhh, makes me feel so much better about myself and my miserable life by dunking on those I deem inferior to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:28 PM
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Jodie Foster did it better as Clarice Starling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:10 PM
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I’ve been around, just busy with work and not really interested in commenting on the recent threads. Thanks though!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:15 PM
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Leo Strauss called this “the noble lie” …not that I agree with him, but think he had an accurate definition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:14 PM
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It’s not the same, true. I included it just as it’s a populous Islamic theocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:07 PM
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This isn’t that weird, there are lots and lots of highly educated women in Iran and Saudi Arabia One of my early mentors - a woman from Iran told me one time, “Persians are the fakest muslims in the Middle East”, so take that for what it’s worth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:36 PM
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The non-virgin. I like sex and I like women who like to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:29 PM
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Good ratings system 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:26 PM
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I don’t want to admit this but… Stiletto describes a relationship or two I’ve had 52nd street is a masterpiece album
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:03 AM
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Even the trans people I am friends with are binary, so non binary is just statistically insignificant to make a difference. I don’t consider them at all and don’t treat them differently from anybody else. Sorry, I don’t think “in gender”, like I don’t consider this activity makes me feel like a man/masculine and that activity makes me feel like a woman/feminine. I’m just me and I’ve only ever felt like me. Is that what a man feels like? How would I know? it doesn’t enter my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:51 PM
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I love Sabbath and 80’s Ozzy, RIP Randy Rhoads 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:34 AM
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I feel like your mother told you this while smoking from a pack of Virginia Slim 100’s and sipping from a fifth of schnapps. You okay, bro? My dad was the one like this, when he was around. My mom was the knocked up teenager left trying to figure shit out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:56 AM
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Good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:46 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:22 PM
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Historically though, Russia and China have never gotten along (and China has never defeated an external enemy, and have had many costly civil wars…) so any alliance will be shaky. Chinese military philosophy has an old saying, “borrow a sword to make your kill” so I am sure China is happy to let Russia do the heavy work, they want to make money and war with the US destroys all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:58 PM
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Let’s see what happens after the Olympics, and Chinas property fiasco
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:33 PM
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I think the boom and bust cycle will tighten and things will be more volatile more often. Unsure about a single event, like 1929
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:20 PM
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Partially. the reset won’t be a single one-time event but rather like Rome it will be a slow slide into dissolution that most won’t even notice is happening. It’s not by stroke of luck for instance that most warfare in the last few years is in lands with scarcity and dwindling food and water resources. The tribal and ethnic nature of these conflicts are the result, not the cause. I also don’t align completely to your diagnosis, it’s so much less about women vs. men or race, it’s about the haves …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah but the Cold War and the threat of nuclear annihilation was over and the war on terror yet to begin. It was a nice ten years, I had a lot if optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:04 PM
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We’re turning back into a type of feudalism, those who own property and the mass who don’t and are kept on the precipice of total ruin so that they lack the ability to revolt. The last of the veneer of democracy lacquered over top is flaking away, your vote matters less and less as it’s focussed group down to the few key battle grounds that actually matter. 30% of the half of us that even bother to vote hold the rest hostage for the sake of our own gluttony and avarice, sweeping the last crumbs …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:54 PM
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You know on second thought, a test that is impossible to score “superior” on is pretty much what wives use anyway, so my bad, this is actually accurate. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:59 PM
2

Kids or no kids? I can go for a long time…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:54 PM
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The math doesn’t work. The highest you can get - before date nights, with no demerits is 27, so just to get to average, you need to take her on at least 4 dates per week, while scoring perfect on merits and having no demerits. It’s impossible to score more than 62 on this scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:50 PM
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My mom’s husband is Italian, the weddings are like that, though the envelopes might not be as thick. But yeah, the least you should put it is what it cost the couple to include you in their wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:44 PM
2

🎶You made my daaay~aaay!🎶 Exactly what came to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:07 PM
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I can like tits and care about the human being they are attached to 🤷🏻‍♂️ it’s not and either or deal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:34 PM
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“Men are like hand bags” was the actual quote, I think. Very Esther Vilar “manipulated man” …which, always struck me as a bit of an admission that “objectification” is a lot of projection. Most women love men like a farmer loves a prize bull
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:23 PM
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I send out my own Christmas cards, and remember peoples birthdays Line starts over there, ladies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:14 PM
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If you’re just going to reduce everything to a ridiculous extreme why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:34 PM
2

This guy knows what’s up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:59 AM
3

I’m a muscular thighs guy, so those usually accompany a gym ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:58 AM
2

I have a lot to give and would share my life with another woman, but she’d have to be pretty much a unicorn to go all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:54 AM
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It went the opposite way for me. Before I became a dad I didn’t give a shit about kids, but now babies are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:59 PM
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I’m a one and done type. I am married and for whatever reason if it ceased to be, I don’t think I would ever get married again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:38 PM
2

So…we cool then? Maybe we’re talking past each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:06 PM
2

Check for a smoke machine and ensure it’s not positioned to blow straight up your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:55 PM
1

I wouldn’t assume personalities were any better or worse than today. Certain attitudes would be different, given some big cultural shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:49 PM
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Seemed you were suggesting guys pick good wives based on cooking and cleaning, so I guess I should have said “if she has a horrible personality…” not that she would by default. To me, a woman who can cook and clean but is insufferable isn’t a good wife, and I would expect most men wouldn’t use this as the sole criteria of what a good wife is. Functional adults, men and women, should know how to cook and clean and should be able to look after themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:53 PM
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I’m not a traditional conservative, a good wife to me isn’t a live in cook and maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:27 PM
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Good wife to me is not just cooking and cleaning, but other guys may not see it like that. I’m not a trad-con pining for the 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:08 PM
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All the from scratch meals in the world wouldn’t make up for being stuck with a horrible bitch, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:57 PM
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Do they get a “good wife” though? I don’t see what ensures that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:35 PM
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See my reply to Ms Blue down thread. I meant how the 50’s are romanticized as a utopian society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:18 PM
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I meant how trad-cons romanticize the 50’s as a kind of utopia, and have this longing to return to a gilded age that didn’t really exist as they see it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:17 PM
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Oh I have all the proper drain covers now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:56 PM
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Almost all families didn’t, it wasn’t as common place as everyone thinks. And if your grandmother worked from home, she literally worked from home, hand washing clothes, cooking everything from scratch (because modern processed food didn’t exist on the level it does today), darned socks and repaired clothes, etc. A lot more farmers back then as well, so again working from home means real labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:51 PM
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RIP your drains…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:37 PM
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My parents never ate out, wore hand me down clothes and shoes, vacations were camping or driving out west in a station wagon to visit family in Saskatchewan. My grandparents worked 6 days a week because they owned their own small business, only saw their children on sundays and my mom was raised by her older siblings This magical golden era of the 50’s exists only in TV-land. It’s like people watching Full House reruns 30 years from now and claiming everyone in the 90’s lived with the hot aunt B…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:35 PM
1

It’s for sure my favourite comedy and is top-three all time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:50 PM
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He was playing the straight man role though. He was good in Dodgeball as Pepper the colour man for the Ocho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:41 PM
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I had a great time doing it, for sure. And got to do some once in a life time stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:22 PM
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It’s a young man’s game. I did the whole ESL teacher gig, and I had a blast doing it, it’s incredibly hard to make a solid career or future that way though. It’s fun for a few years though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:51 PM
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Thanks! I’m using the iPhone app, so I’ll fire it up in the browser. …yeah, I was a little surprised to see where I landed relative to everyone else. Not sure what that says exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:58 PM
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Ah of course. A dark sweaty box with red LEDs and pounding EDM versions of top 40 soft rock I like the Y and they have a great swimming program for my son, which he loves. Got the stereotypical old buck naked dudes though 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:55 PM
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Trying to see who the closest male and female PPDenizens are to me, but I can’t quite make it out… Interesting results!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:49 PM
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Sounds like the YMCA I work out at
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:45 PM
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I think the advice given isn’t really for the benefit of the receiver, it’s for the giver of said advice. Maintain the social cohesion and shift blame. “Just do X” is a reductive and dismissive response like telling a poor person to just be rich or an ill person should just be healthy. Like it’s so easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:54 PM
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I hear you, I work my lats a fuck-ton and the traps are a by-product
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:34 PM
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Makes sense. I find just from doing dips, push-ups and pull-ups I get some pretty defined traps, not huge though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:06 PM
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Yeah, I just tell most people, “I work for a bank” without elaborating too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:46 PM
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At the extreme end, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:04 PM
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Most people, especially those not in the industry vastly under estimate the amount of intelligence, education and yes, even basic team-player social skills that are needed for most technology roles today. I’m just a dumb ass project manager and I’m constantly running up against colleagues who have multiple post grad degrees, are engineers, and some of them even hold some patents on technology they personally created.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:30 PM
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Just don’t go to Bill Goldberg levels where it looks like your traps are coming out of your ears and you lost your neck somewhere in there. Otherwise, if you’re exercising your back or core, how are you not working your traps?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:05 PM
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Oh I’m far from straight laced (pass the bong and the beer!) and I’m social, I can make friends easily, just have a real uphill battle coming off as attractive and escalating romance and sex. Like you I would say I lucked out with certain traits and was born in the late 70’s. if I was 20 today, I don’t think I’d have had even the minor successes I had by that age, in the 90’s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:37 PM
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As a white collar nerd that’s been successful in a lot of areas in life but not romantically/sexually, yup seems pretty true for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:54 PM
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If you see the redpill as peeling back the veil and seeing the “truth”underneath, that were all mostly a bunch of selfish apes with science brains and large appetites, then the blue pill is the encouraging of wilful ignorance for the sake of social cohesion and group harmony; lies that make people feel better so everyone gets along and cooperates as much as possible. We can’t have those that are providing more value for the group than they extract realize the game, they’ll stop playing or use th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:38 PM
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Group fitness classes are tailored more to women, and women seem to greatly prefer group-style classes. Especially if it’s cardio, which at my gym is all dance-focussed and doesn’t appeal much to me. I do my cardio by myself, running outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:40 PM
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Masculinity: 127 Femininity: 100
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:34 AM
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Churchill had an equally good one with Lady Astor: Astor: “if I was your wife I’d poison your tea” Churchill: “madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:23 PM
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Discretion should definitely include children not knowing or being involved at all, they don’t need to know that mom and or dad fuck other people sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:32 PM
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That was George Bernard Shaw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:46 PM
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Soft-monogamy or monogamish for you Savage Love fans is a thing, and over the years I’ve seen varying degrees, some successful, some not. Some people can handle it, some not. As long as the people involved play by the rules of their agreement, I won’t moralize and would encourage others to do the same. Just handle your business discretely and safely. Like, there doesn’t need to be a “community”…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:39 PM
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Social circle game was the only thing that ever worked for me 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:55 PM
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Yes, re-insulating the basement after everything had to get torn out due to moisture issues. Spent the last two weekends, but it’s pretty much done. I live in a 100 year old Craftsman, so there is always work to be done. Sometimes I hate this piece of shit and want to bulldoze it to the foundations, but there’s a lot of charm once you get past the surface imperfections…just like me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:14 PM
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The public at large we interact with everyday is unvetted. OLD users opt into the service, they choose who they swipe on, who they message, who they exchange photos with and who they meet. I can think of nothing more “vetted”, all these gates where the user gets to choose to go forward or completely banish the other person to the void of being blocked. It sounds like women are complaining that they don’t just get to sift through the rich, beautiful, attractive people, and it reeks of entitlement…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:08 PM
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Breaking News: women report their own medicine tastes awful “Un vetted men” the horror, the horror…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:04 PM
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They should just “get it”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:46 PM
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2-3 showers usually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:02 PM
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you have to be comfortable being hated, though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:08 AM
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Just do a full heel-turn and own the villainhood that all these women want him to be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:55 PM
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It’s expensive to buy that kind of coverage and notoriety and he’s getting it for free. An enterprising young man could parlay this into some d-list fame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:41 PM
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Wait wait wait you reduced the tug sesh to 30 mins?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:54 PM
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It is good. Yeah, the hair style he has is not attractive. But you should check it out anyway. I liked Eastern Promises more than A History of Violence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:55 PM
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https://m.imdb.com/title/tt0765443/ There you go. Cronenberg directed and this is back in the mid 2000s when Viggo was his golden boy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:32 PM
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How about Eastern Promises Viggo? The naked bathhouse fight scene didn’t do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:28 PM
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Ok, so it doesn’t mean you will. Good for you. Again to bring it back to my original point: the best relationships happened when I had that instant connection, and sexually activity was involved but not full blown sex. It pains me I need to get this clinical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:37 PM
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I intentionally used the words intense connection for their ambiguity because it doesn’t mean only sex. It means both people recognize “there is something more there” they hit it off instantly, they planned only a coffee date but ended up talking until 4 in the morning at a 24 hour all day breakfast diner, and so on. Or maybe they did fuck instantly. So what? You want to talk “what about prefrontal cortex” but then treat it like an on-off switch and not a ongoing and continual process of judgeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:13 PM
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I don’t like insta-kill games or micromanaging drinking water and shit like that, but love the exploration and building parts of survival games. I felt Conan Exiles struck a nice balance and stayed fairly faithful to Howard’s vision, plus you know, tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:48 PM
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Do you think that’s what I’m saying, that no one has self control or any kind of impulse regulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:38 PM
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You’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:58 PM
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Both your statement and mine can be true at the same time. There’s nothing precluding women from doing those calculations/assessment, and intense connection doesn’t necessarily mean instant sex - but it should be evident to both of you, not one sided. I said my now wife stayed over, we didn’t have sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:53 PM
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What kind of asshole doesn’t put it back?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:43 PM
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Guys here just aren’t articulating it properly. For me at least it’s not that I’m upset or bothered, it’s that I think the best relationships and certainly the ones I’ve had are when both of you have an initial intense reaction and connection. My wife and I knew each other a little but she stayed over on our first date, for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:14 PM
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Yeah, this is where I live, also not religious at all. My cousin belongs to what I would consider a “fundie” church, home schooled kids, but he’s got 5 or 6 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:05 PM
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Just standard comic-relief side kick stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:18 PM
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Madonna/whore is such an oft-repeated phenomenon here, but isn’t this mostly a Mediterranean Catholic + former colonies thing? I’m from a culture mostly influenced by North-western European Protestants and Ive never seen it as the common occurrence people take it for here. Even Irish, French Catholics it doesn’t seem to have such a cultural hold, part of my family is Ukrainian Catholic and they didn’t have such a reverence for the Madonna that it permeated sexual relationships (to my knowledge) …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:58 PM
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No, I just go through bouts where I don’t really want to be around people or talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:34 PM
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I’m 42, purple but red-sympathetic. Not good starting out, but she grew up (was 17 when I was born). We’re okay now, a lot better since I left the house around 18. We don’t necessarily talk much, but that’s more my nature, half of the year I’m like a hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:23 PM
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…okay, scrotation had me laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:03 PM
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Haha, pool boys need love too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:55 AM
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Your hot Colombian girlfriend isn’t getting permanent residency. You hit Colombian wife though…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:26 PM
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It’s not shameful, but have some humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:05 PM
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Should be age of majority (18-21 depending on jurisdiction)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:33 PM
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Like a lot of mothers who won’t butt out of their children’s lives and let them be adults, there are a lot of wives who won’t stop infantilizing their husbands. You should ask this question to men next and compare the reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:50 PM
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Neither. Don’t say shit and let her fill in the blanks….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:59 PM
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I don’t have difficulty understanding the vetting process. “Be honest” is congruent with wanting sex early, it’s not too difficult to tell if a guy is genuine or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:27 PM
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Is it so weird to want to have sex with people you really like and want to be around and want to have in your life? Why would I spend time and resources pursuing/wooing someone I didn’t like or respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:38 PM
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I figured you for a Jordan from NKOTB fan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:24 PM
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I choose both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:52 AM
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You stole my answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:27 AM
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C‘non Smurf, you are my age, it’s NKOTB vs. Colour Me Bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah, this resonates with my experience having lived in an Asian country and marrying a woman from there, did the LDR thing even.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:46 PM
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You’re in the UK right? Didn’t I read a bunch of stuff a few years ago where cps and the police were sitting on evidence exonerating a bunch of sex assault cases. And there was that weird one where the game of thrones actress was touched with like a totally random dudes backpack and she accused him of full out fingering her for 30 seconds. And it wound its way through court when any person with eyes would have seen its bullshit in two seconds if they watched the security cam video. Yeah these ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:58 PM
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Tall-ugly usually beats small-ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:14 PM
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I was carded at the liquor store in my late 30’s several times. But, yeah, I see that I’m starting to catch up. Still have all my hair at least If you look after your self, not too much sun, don’t smoke, and have a good diet and maintained your exercise regime over the years, it can be done. It’s effort though, no mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:00 PM
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Taller side of average, if that make sense. I don’t think my height is all that beneficial, but at the same time I don’t think it hurts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:57 PM
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Baby face might have a longer time horizon and pay off in the end, when everyone looks like shit in their 50’s you won’t. Ugly isn’t so bad because usually there are at least a small niche of women who will find it really attractive (my experience at least). Short is the worst, even though some women say they don’t mind, they are outnumbered by women who want a tall man and at least as tall as themselves. And some women just downright hate them (Am 5’11”, and a baby faced ugly duckling who grew …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:48 PM
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I am, my son is not. I couldn’t think of any reason that, at the end of day, wasn’t about me and how I felt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:04 PM
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Are those men celebrated lecturers at publicly funded universities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:54 PM
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Those dastardly Rotary Club members giving back to their community….oppressive monsters!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:53 PM
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I find guys here are pretty evenly split on virgin vs non virgin. I’m in the later camp and often on record stating so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:01 PM
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I’m not quite understanding. Is there a wonderful employer giving free fun days off out there? I can convert 3 of my 8 sick days into personal days per year, but it’s vacation days or non-paid leave otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:48 PM
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My fellow employees get the same number of sick days, so if someone wants to use all of theirs in the first month of the year, that’s on them. They can use their vacation days or not get paid if they get sick or have a “real” emergency later. It’s not my business why they’re taking a day off. It’s theirs to use. Maybe they have an embarrassing medical issue they don’t want their coworkers to know about. Management should staff adequately as well. People will get sick and will miss work, surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:58 PM
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80/20 as in “80% of men are having zero sex”? No, I don’t believe that. Is it 20% of guys get 80% of the casual sex, hmm I’d say it’s pretty close, but 20% guy isn’t necessarily chiseled jaw hunter eyes dude, he’s the guy with the drugs and/or is a party-club scene insider (DJ, promoter, etc) and is a complete social animal and dumpster diver, too That said, there’s a lot of decent to good lucking dudes out there. You say look at the WalMart aisles, what about the gym, or the construction site?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:03 PM
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It’s a bit of selection bias though. Those guys are the ones being vocal and blaming external forces. You don’t know how many are just pointing all that hate inward and calling themselves a cunt, that doesn’t make the niceguys sub hot 100 It’s like, but what about all the dogs that don’t bite! yeah, I get it, but the vocal ones are likely the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:52 PM
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Yup, me too. Bidets are rare in Canada, it’s a tp country almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:37 PM
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I do everything on that list except the bidet. And I just reuse the plastic bags because those cloth totes just create more garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:06 PM
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I thought a lot of women liked a nice butt, does it need to be clothed, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:09 AM
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I’ll be the skinny old guy with my pants hiked up to my ribs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:06 AM
1

I’m not that photogenic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:41 AM
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Is it bad if I’m okay with all but two items on this list?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:43 PM
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Truth though? If I could make 5-figures a month just taking pictures of myself, I’d do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:03 PM
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Sure I’m sure a lot of guys jumped to conclusions and filled in their own story - nobody reads shit on Reddit. I didn’t follow a lot of the story either, but understood that’s what it came down to. I’m not familiar with tax law around gifts and tips in the US but seems like a good way to underreport income. For the record those bastard sitting with billions in Cayman banks and similar places, sitting untaxed should see justice and pay their fair share too, close the loop holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:52 PM
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There isn’t a dude at Twitter HQ going through every photo on their servers making a case by case call on is this PG 13?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:44 PM
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Wasn’t there controversy around gift vs. Income where the reception of gifts should have been counted as taxable income?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:42 PM
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Exactly, they don’t have much to complain about. You asked why would they complain, I pointed out a fresh example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:49 PM
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That’s what I’m saying, she’s not a poor Romanian girl getting trafficked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:39 PM
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There was a thread about some OF girl complaining that Twitter was blurring her photos and costing her income just earlier today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah, butt doubles: https://m.imdb.com/news/ni58716502
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:10 PM
2

Leave it to the prop and makeup department. Or stunt-cock casting. Lots of actors use butt-doubles already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:54 PM
1

You think so? Hmm…yeah, it could reflect well with the right audience. As a lover of nerd shit, you can’t always show off your passions to normals. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:10 PM
1

Ok, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:00 PM
1

Sounds like we’re not in disagreement to me. Certainly you two aren’t joined at the hip and do everything together, certainly there must be some things she does that you’re not really into. And you aren’t her entertainment system, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:56 PM
1

What? The shit I like and am passionate about is probably likely boring to most people, but so what? It’s all just facets of the same sparkling gem. I can read a room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:52 PM
2

I didn’t mean by me. Also, Station!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:48 PM
1

Meet people in real life. Also, sometimes I like a glass of wine while watching some Netflix after a walk… Look, I’m being a bit glib but the point is: life is long and full of boring stretches, excitement is fleeting unless you’re looking to live a short fast life…better get someone you can be boring together with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:45 PM
1

Of course those companies need to pay. Not the issue. Like I said, I don’t have a problem with OF, I’m also not a consumer, so I don’t actually care about any OF girls, I also don’t want to hear their complaining about the free choices they make working in this particular segment sex industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Well, I happen to be pretty awesome…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:35 PM
2

Most women are born as well. Why not be boring together? Let me screw around with my nerd shit while you screw around with your own boring shit. This is the same thing as “no one can make you happy”. As adult knows how entertain themselves and shouldn’t expect to rely on someone to do that for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:53 PM
4

I would like them to accept that fame comes with downsides and consequences, accurately report their income and pay their taxes. I don’t have a problem with OF, I also don’t visit or subscribe. If someone wants their public persona to be “adult star” and their career is “adult star” and they earn their living as an “adult star”….they’re going to be treated like an “adult star” and all the good and bad that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:31 PM
1

If your public persona is an NSFW content star, and you earn a living as an NSFW content creator, and you’vea reputation doing what NSFW content creators do, then don’t be surprised when you are…uh treated like an NSFW content creator. Does she think there’s someone at Twitter HQ going through each and every pic posted on their servers making a case by case judgement call?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:21 PM
0

I think it’s just part of growing up for teens and young women with less sexual maturity. Women here will have to correct me, but from what I’ve observed from my younger sister and friends. There seems to be a certain safe outlet to explore those first sexual feelings in the anonymity of a shrieking group of girls; no ones going to judge you for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:15 PM
1

Would you agree that the underlying qualities to make a champion athlete were there? Drive, ambition, focus, peak physical ability and performance. Giselle may just be a smart woman who knows how to pick ‘em
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:17 AM
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This shouldn’t be a big mystery. With her financial security that would last several lifetimes, she is free to get with…oh I dunno, one of the most dominant athletes to ever play his chosen sport, it shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone who posts here what she is attracted to. And I don’t even like football
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:03 AM
3

Nursing home Chad exists, he’s the guy with the valid drivers license
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:44 PM
2

Only if I had Christiano Ronaldo resources, I’d go his route.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:37 PM
3

I’m always partial to this one from Mr Rock: “Why is she mad at you anyway? Because you ain’t her first choice”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:15 PM
3

I like every other day, and it doesn’t need to be a full drawn out affair, a couple of quick ones here and there, we’re good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:10 PM
1

You think small dick dude doesn’t know his small dick is the reason? Oh, he knows. The ghosting is kinder in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:11 PM
34

“I want to respect you so bad right now…” “When we get home, I’m going to respect your brains out” Hmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:47 PM
18

There’s more to the story and boundaries were already getting pushed…I’m also trying to keep things vague for obvious anonymity reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:08 PM
20

I’m not okay with it. We had an incident with my son and a friend of his, a girl from down the street who was a year older. He was 8 or 9 at the time. And she’s no longer allowed at our house and he can’t go to her house… thankfully they moved away not too long after, but we never said why we cut contact exactly. Shit was happening at our house under our watch and he’s the boy so who’s going to be believed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:43 PM
4

Okay, so the usual: get fit, dress well, no bowl cuts, have some fun and or cool and or exciting hobbies and interests… For Asian dudes: stop studying so much, learn to be able to loosen the fuck up and have fun, if you have an overbearing mother or pushy parents get out from under them and live your life. Don’t be a mama’s boy and learn to do your own fucking laundry and be able to live independently. You’re going to have to be the fun cool guy because western women don’t think Asian guys are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:21 PM
1

I love them all!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:47 PM
3

This is a demon you have to slay within yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:43 PM
1

Use me! Use me, please
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:20 PM
6

Cannon fodder is very time and region dependent, as you say. Conscripted armies weren’t all that common and volunteer citizen militias go back to Ancient Greece. I think disease is the more likely culprit. Let’s look at the British Invasion of Haiti in 1793, they lost 10,000 men. But not to combat, to yellow fever and alcohol poisoning; mosquitoes and bad batches of rum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:48 PM
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No, the average person did not live to 25-35. The numbers are that way because of infant mortality and spread of diseases. There are lots and lots of records of people living full lives into there 60’s and 70’s from the start of recorded history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:48 PM
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Men as providers is just the way it is. I’ve got mixed feelings about it I guess, both positive and negative. Positive: I can provide and don’t mind sharing with the right person, I take a bit of pride in it even. Negative: it’s a lot of pressure and stress to maintain constantly running on that wheel, trying to go faster and better with each pass. It’s easy to be resented or taken advantage of if you’re not careful. The world judges a man by what he has accomplished When it comes to women I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:33 PM
2

Yeah I would, since I am a father myself, but would prefer her kid(s) to be older, and I’m not going to try to be their father or replace that guy. Not to say I would be cold or distant to her kids, just not going to be their dad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:53 PM
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Why would the guy in this scenario leave? Because it’s not his kid, and he finds out at birth before any investment in the child starts, and so “daddy” didn’t abandon anyone, daddy was never there in the first place except to conceive. The mother can go to her child’s real father for support. You may have a point if the guy had invested some years in parenting. men deserve informed consent when it comes to becoming a parent because society has said that once he starts, he’s committed upon pain o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:52 PM
2

Exactly what I was thinking. Make mine extra crispy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:29 PM
2

I’m from Canada, we have single payer health care, and don’t deny people coverage because they got the shit end of the genetic stick in life. Insurance shouldn’t be denying people for pre existing conditions, I can understand the case for paying a higher premium, but what’s the purpose of paying into insurance if you can’t use it for the very reason you were paying? Sounds like an easy way to screw people out of their money. I get your point about not wanting to know. I’m curious to see where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:00 PM
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I don’t mean you personally, the rhetorical “you”. There are benefits to the child in the form of identifying pre-disposition to hereditary diseases. I guess it also brings us steps closer to “designer children” or living a real life Gattica, though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:59 PM
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Why not? Society levels the playing field and “does the heavy lifting” for all kinds of inequity. Why should men always take it on the chin? To spare you from having to explain why you don’t want the best for your new born and their health? What have you got to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:55 PM
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Should be part of a standard panel of tests done at child birth with an opt-out clause that both parents need to sign. No fuss, no muss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:55 PM
2

I graduated in ‘97 and all of my teachers were old people. We had one hot young teacher but I think she was just messing around with the Law teacher who was also the rugby coach, classic Chad sort of guy. Oh, the music teacher, yeah now I remember, he was a bit too friendly with students, band all that shit. My sister was part of that group and says her friends sold him weed. What I saw far more was just straight incompetence from multiple teachers, multiple times, some of which could have resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:26 PM
1

If I recall, yeah they’re pretty good, with fairly period-accurate weapons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:28 PM
1

Ridley Scott’s The Duelists? Keith Karadine and Harvey Keitel are feuding French officers during the Napoleonic era, where Keitels character is obsessed with getting satisfaction from a perceived slight, causing the two the duel several times across a span of years that the movie takes place. One of the lesser known Scott’s, but has some beautiful cinematography
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:53 PM
1

Great country, had a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:10 PM
2

Given that I have quite an impressive set of matching luggage of my own, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:11 PM
7

It’s only not insulting if she took your dick out of her mouth to tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:12 PM
1

I don’t think it’s any crazier than not smoking in restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:43 PM
2

See, here’s the thing: I’m vaccinated, wear a mask when indoors where lots of people congregate and keep my distance and so I’m not afraid of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:13 PM
1

Haha, Vancouver? They did the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:08 PM
2

I like to make it a double bill with Lethal Weapon. Nothing quite brings home the warmth of the holiday as Al Leong electrocuting Mel Gibsons nut sack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:19 PM
1

Which is the superior Christmas movie. Has to be Black and white not the colourized version
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:18 PM
3

If there was such a high demand the market would have solved it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:17 PM
2

Not chocked but my hand just placed on their throat? Yes they like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:40 AM
1

The ones who have game are way hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:12 PM
2

I tip because I spent a good chunk of my formative youth in the food services and restaurant industry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:23 PM
2

We can listen to my Bauhaus and Joy Division albums together
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:21 PM
3

Not so much ass but thighs. Love muscular thighs with a nice firm ass. I don’t mind a big ass but it needs to be toned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:10 PM
1

It was a jokey answer to suggest I would ask for a threesome with her and her side chick as a response to “how would you feel if…”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:40 PM
1

Where threesome?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:08 PM
1

Not full force but I am sure they start innocuously and escalate steadily once they gauge their targets boundaries and ability to enforce them. Lots of ways this is done, like I had one co-worker who would “test” you out by grabbing your shoulder and giving you a bit of a shake, like, “heeey, Smurfff!” and try to man handle you a bit. I don’t look like much, it it’s all lean muscle and once he felt how solid I was he gave an unexpected, “woah”, and never touched me again. Or like, when people fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:33 PM
1

Nice, nice👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:30 AM
3

Make judges white knight. There was some study I’m too lazy to look up that suggested female judges apply harsher penalties to female offenders than male ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:46 PM
2

I love oxtail, thanks for the link
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:29 PM
3

If we’ve dated a bit, of course I would
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:43 PM
3

And at least no children were involved…unlike many other prominent conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:56 PM
2

Not seeing the problem, here…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:49 PM
7

Lots of people say they have principles until they are faced with actually losing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:59 PM
1

There isn’t (not ever was) a “back” to go to. It just doesn’t work that way. We can only learn from our mistakes and the mistakes of others and try to correct forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:14 PM
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That’s almost everybody though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:09 PM
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We kind of need to do it these days. If not the gym something physical. Surely you want your husband healthy and sane in his older years? You don’t want to wiping his ass and spoon feeding him, right? Then we need to look after ourselves. Also, maybe it’s not about what you want. Fucking put a bullet in my brain if I’m a drooling mess shitting myself at age 75…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:32 AM
3

I guess she better get a job to support herself like adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:20 PM
5

What if he has kids from a previous marriage? They should get Jack because some gold digger want to live in easy street?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:45 PM
1

I don’t know what that is, I don’t want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:31 PM
6

Nah, he was getting off on some truly sick shit, you won’t anyone defending that except one of their fucked up clan. I shit on all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:39 PM
1

What’s your thoughts on “soft” sex work, like cam girls, fetish models or OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:28 PM
2

It’s a relatable example, nothing more. don’t take everything so literally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:14 PM
2

It’s always the people that don’t want leadership roles that make good leaders. If not a burden to carry, then it will certainly corrupt. I don’t trust anyone who sets out to be a politician, it has to find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:00 AM
5

It’s not different than a Klondike gold rush. A scant few get ridiculously rich, most end up broke, many get conned along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:07 PM
3

Toxic masculinity becomes toxic man so very quickly and then gets used interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:12 PM
2

Looks: 45% Money/status/social class: 5% Personality: 20% Sex appeal/compatibility: 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:21 PM
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Sure, it appeals to men more. Still, most guys are never going to get close to the point where it’s a turn off for women, and with all the benefits, it’s better for a man to hit the gym than to not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:14 PM
5

How are they all still single? No idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:40 PM
1

I agree with everything you’re saying right up until your last sentence, where I can think of several notable non-gay examples. But I acknowledge that before the late 70’s/80’s action stars became hugely (hah) popular, it was mostly - but not exclusively the domain of gay men. Shit, Sean Connery was a competitive body builder before he became Bond
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:32 PM
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Iggy’a bio says he did a lot of hard physical labour and ran a lot. So while he wasn’t lifting in a gym in the contemporary sense, he was definitely physical and not just starving himself. You simply don’t get a chest like his doing nothing, otherwise he’d look more like Robert Plant with his shirt off, or like the Axl pic you posted And yeah, people didn’t go to the gym like they do today, but I think people were way more active in the 70’s and 80’s than now. Less sedentary, better food, more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:56 PM
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I dunno, Diamond Dave had his moment in the sun, recall he was pretty popular with women. Iggy also had defined pecs and lats, so it’s wasn’t only the heroin. Anyway…I get your point. Anything that stinks of vanity in a man and too try hard is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:12 PM
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Axl was doing a shit ton of drugs, but he’s got the cum gutters I know women like, and you can see his abs somewhat, he’s got some definition. Yeah they aren’t washboard abs (which I think I is what you are arguing women don’t care about), but he’s not far off. I’m sure it’s the typical goldilocks thing women have: not too much, not too little, has to be juuuust right Also, just to be a pedant, David Lee Roth had abs (the video for Panama for instance). Iggy Pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:22 PM
2

My people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:48 PM
1

What if you’re team both?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:49 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:23 PM
2

I don’t think women even want men at a baby shower or bridal shower (and the feeling is quite mutual). Just throw a house party if you want it to be a couples/unisex sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:21 PM
2

Sorry to hear about your losses and condolences to your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:00 PM
3

No I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:54 PM
1

Too many good ones. I actually just re-watched The Longest Day, Full Metal Jacket and Gods and Generals the other day. Favourite is The Deer Hunter, which to me is more about the ethics of combat, “One shot” as it were: Nick: I don't think about one shot that much anymore, Mike. Michael: You have to think about one shot. One shot is what it's all about. A deer's gotta be taken with one shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:35 AM
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Oooooh, Sophia is one of the all-time greats!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:52 PM
2

Good comment, especially the last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:08 PM
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Victory lies in preparing the battlefield. This isn’t exclusive to interacting with women, it’s good for business, networking and ensuring you always get good service at your favourite places. I always have a few bars or restaurants where I’m a known regular, I make sure to tip well and be friendly and familiar with the staff and other regulars, even better if it’s the owner. Most are places frequented by people in my industry and range from sports bars to higher end locations. You get the benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:59 PM
3

Most of you are way way off. Lots of straight guys like to dress well. And like, you want to talk toxic masculinity? Holy shit, if a guy matches his belt to his shoes he’s sucking dick apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:45 AM
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The guys who are against it here? Oh, I don’t think they really are against it, it’s just a rhetorical device to use, and like most trolls think it will rile women up and upset them. Personally I don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:08 AM
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I bet this guy can’t say “No” to people, to anyone. And yeah, I bet he is all kinds of angry at himself for not being about to stand up for himself. That shit is going to do him in. Sad but common, bet one or both of his parents ruled by guilt when he was a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:32 PM
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This is kind of like asking why someone wants to eat delicious food when they see or smell it. You just want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:16 PM
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Lats, back, shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:40 PM
1

I don’t want to live in a place where my neighbours first instinct is to solve their problems with a gun - with one always in easy reach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:39 PM
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Men should cook at home. All the time? Nah, but a lot of the time, shouldn’t be a rare occasion. My Wife commutes for work while I am still working out of my home office, so I do end making a lot of the evening meals. On weekends I like to make at least one “big” meal like a roast with all the trimmings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:36 PM
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And because it’s my kitchen and don’t touch my shit, I’ve got it exactly as I want it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:28 AM
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A starter wife’s problem is not getting the right man, it’s keeping the right man. Since the idea for her here is that she is, to put it a bit vulgarly, “buying in at a low share price” hoping to ride it to fabled heights, and if she expects a man to chase her and prove his investment, then she cannot rest on her laurels and expect to ride his coat tails, while he then also does the heavy romantic lifting. She will have to put an equal amount of enthusiasm and investment back in, she must do her…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:52 PM
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Agree. Cooking is a dirty, hot, sometimes dangerous, demanding,thankless job so of course it’s a man’s job. every restaurant I’ve worked (disclaimer age 15 to 23) the kitchen was almost all men. Many places I worked had unspoken rules that women worked the front house and men the back. It didn’t pay the bills but I learned a fuck of a lot about life, hard work, organization, time management and how to cook. Oh, and I partied a lot because that’s what restaurant people do so I had a lot of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:36 PM
1

Perfect! Almost anything really…”never had anyone”, “how soon is now” is pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Oh yeah, but I love them still
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:40 PM
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Yup, but just like every man can’t survive working on an off shore drill rig, or a salmon boat. I can’t do sales, I hate pushing people to buy crap they don’t need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:26 PM
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They can learn the technical skills, but there is a level of fortitude that most people don’t have necessary for nursing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:59 PM
2

“I Know Its Over” The Smiths
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:52 PM
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I didn’t get past the two main bullet points at the top. So, it’s all being driven by the religiously devout…a rapidly shrinking demographic in the US. Do people here really think young men are trawling Bob Jones University campus looking for casual sex? As for “moral concerns” about premarital sex…I can’t even take that seriously. Who the fuck was surveyed, the student body at BYU?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:09 PM
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Often it’s not direct, it’s indirect, observed or overheard. Add a non-existent and/or shitty father and it’s not that hard to see why those guys got there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:15 AM
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Reasons 5-3 are just dumb and can be completely disregarded. Men have a “hero gets the girl fantasy”? Women have the same fantasy on its flip-side, “hero softens and loves her and only her” The last two the author hits on some actual substance but alas, he stops at the surface, sex. If it’s not understood by now that while men yes love sex that that it’s far more than just sex, well…I don’t know what. The author does the usual “hur dur man only think with dick” dismissal of men as anything more …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:25 PM
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Leave the next ball in her court and don’t send another until she does first, you can even preface saying, “get back to me when you’re free/less busy …” or something to let her know it’s up to her to continue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:42 PM
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She looks hot, it’s everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:39 PM
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So you get that most of the things guys say here is reactionary, “oh yeah, well…!” One ups man ship and they are full of shit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:48 AM
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OP was provoking the reaction. One guy is inconsiderate so “hApPy iNtErNaTioNaL mEn’S dAy”. as if to say men don’t deserve it because some douche didn’t drive to his girlfriend, so we’re all just shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:42 AM
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I suppose I am just tilting at windmills, if that is what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:14 PM
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I’m actually in favour of the private ownership of weapons, I happen to own weapons myself. But the sad thing is that no one ends up better here, it’s going to erode everyone’s trust in each other, the rule of law and in resolving things non violently. Everyone loses
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:18 PM
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Interesting…you may be right. Look, I am sure a woman like Kim knows how to work her feminine wiles and probably has girl-game out the fetchingly large ass. Just…No. having the luxury of being able to just be a sort of omniscient observer, I know I am the type that would get absolutely devoured, like a male praying mantis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:35 PM
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Those breaking the law in the mob should be held accountable too, they also should not be armed at protests. But the law allows it…don’t cry when it’s a dumb fuck lefty that’s doing the shooting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:44 PM
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Here’s my issue: now you can have two opposed groups, each believing that the other is out for their blood or out to destroy their way of life confront each other on the streets and they feel like all they have to do is convince a jury they felt scared first - and they’re all good to go ahead and start shooting. That puts a lot innocent people caught in the middle in danger and encourages vigilantism. The rule of law must be paramount to a civil society. I see the precedent here undermines the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:05 PM
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If Kyle wasn’t breaking the law with a loaded firearm at a protest, then neither was everyone else. If he was legal and allowed to be there, so were they. Interesting times ahead for Wisconsin with this precedent, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:23 PM
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The best way to defend himself would be to not even go there in the first place and let Law Enforcement do their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:08 PM
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The kid is fucking idiot and not a hero, but if I was on that jury I don’t think I could convict either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:46 PM
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Just because she has money doesn’t mean she is class
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:23 PM
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Respectfully disagree. Cash does not equal class. Take away her money and what is she? Used up single mom attention whore with an amateur porno as her claim to fame. Can you imagine putting up with baby dad drama with crazy-ass Kanye if you were Pete? Fuck no! If he can get girls on Arianna’s level, he can get with way better women than Kim. Now, of course I would fuck Kim, of course I would but that’s not the point. That family consumes men, eats their life force and tosses the withered husks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:22 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding my comment a bit. I’m not saying his money and fame are what attracts the likes of Kim or Arianna. It’s a force multiplier, when added to his other qualities it makes him more attractive to many women. Yeah, Kim’s got more wealth than he will ever have, but I believe there have been many conversations around class around here and the consensus is that cash does not equal class.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:00 PM
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I meant his attractiveness to the general population of women. Surely there are more women who aren’t Kim and Arianna levels of wealth who like him than the other way around …and no, he for sure the one slumming it. That whole family is fucking poison
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:46 PM
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I love the Man Who Knew Too Much! Jimmy Stewart and Doris Day had some good chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:16 PM
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Funny, tall and big dick is a pretty winning combination with a lot of women. Add money and status/fame…killer. Frankly, I think he’s the one slumming it here. Needs to be careful Kim doesn’t suck out his soul. Look at every dude that gets involved with that family, basketball careers ruined, mental illnesses…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:04 PM
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Not my absolute favourite but Konrad’s The Secret Agent. In a way I hate it because I will never be as good a writer as he is, the way he packs so much description and imagery into so few words, and every page reminds me of that Overrated? Dante’s Inferno. I respect it’s place and understand it’s importance and impact on the development of the Italian language. I get all that. But it’s just a Virgil fan-fic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:20 AM
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The post about how to make a man emotionally dependent on you. Not only would that work, it has worked…twice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:26 PM
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Oh, some of that shit would work on me way too well…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:43 PM
2

I can’t remember who said it, Samuel Beckett maybe? “Fail, try again, fail again, fail better”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:00 PM
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Good comments. Failure should be “rebranded” as learning opportunities. I remember a time I was in the dojo working with someone who had many years of experience on me and he could tell I was getting frustrated because I couldn’t “do the thing” properly and he simply said, “don’t worry, I’ve just had more chances to fail at this than you have”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:44 PM
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Good reply. I didn’t consider the life-goals part of things And no offence taken. Makes sense what you wrote, guess it’s just different ways of looking at and valuing the same things. As I’ve said before “women screen out, men screen in” and I think this is just further evidence of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:24 PM
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That busboy might be a genius painter or writer who just does that shit on the side for some money. People are far more than the job they have or school they went to. You don’t know, maybe that bus driver is endearing and completely in love with his wife, often bringing her her favourite snacks from his bus route, while the banker is a complete a-type asshole and cheating piece of shit to his wife, maybe it’s the other way around. I work with bankers, they come in all shapes, types and sizes. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:39 PM
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I don’t think they really are. None of all that changes how I treat my partner. School and gpa are irrelevant as soon as you’re out of school, and a job is mostly just a job, not some character-defining thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:14 PM
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You’re right. I’m too cheap for that though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:05 AM
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Okay, that’s fair. The first three apply, stoicism and nihilism are backbones of red pill philosophy. The later are more “master class” material. The DH Lawrence selection in particular is a pretty obscure cut (still, at least read Lady Chatterly’s Lover) Edit: upon reflection I guess I chose ones that were more important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:31 AM
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Esther Villar’s Manipulated Man, or too obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:53 AM
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I dunno…I’m going to need to see video evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:47 AM
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A good piece of salmon should require no seasoning. Simply place it skin side down on a medium hot grill and let ‘er rip. I find 20 minutes is typically good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:40 AM
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So I broke each of my selections into some major themes: Mediations: how a man should govern his inner life; control what you can, disregard or accept what you cannot. “Is you cucumber bitter? Throw it away…” Nietzsche: how a man should adapt to the moral world’s pressures upon oneself, that there is no such thing as “good” or “evil” Solzhenitsyn: that man is at his most free when everything he has has been stripped away and he has only himself and what life he has left. When there is nothing le…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:17 AM
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Status. What my job title is, what school I graduated from, what my gpa was, what company I work for, the pecking order in my friend or social group doesn’t amount to a heap of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:43 PM
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Meditations, Marcus Aurelius Thus Spoke Zarathustra & Beyond Good and Evil, Frederick Nietzsche The First Circle & Cancer Ward, A.I. Solzhenitsyn The Captain’s Doll, D.H. Lawrence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:35 PM
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Can…can I have the sandwich and the cuddles?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:33 PM
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Aw shit here we go again…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:27 PM
1

There was a woman I worked with who had an A-line bob all silver and it looked really good on her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:17 PM
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Yes, a partner will not magically fix you. However, the wrong partner will make things worse or exacerbate things, and a good partner will better support you through your own improvement/mending
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:10 PM
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Adapt your style as you age. On my run today I saw a woman a bit older than me, but bottle blonde hair and bubble gum pink lip stick and it just looked really out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:46 AM
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You’re like Iceman to his Maverick “You can be my wingman anytime”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:26 PM
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That was the one thing standing in my way!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:18 PM
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I like to watch Silence of the Lambs on or around Halloween, and I was just thinking this. She was super hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:08 PM
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If the milk is really tasty, why not buy the cow?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:17 PM
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Nah, man. Blowing up and “calling out” is the obvious play and the losing move. They’ll just dismiss you as “angry”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:25 PM
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Program Director, financial services technology in the Canadian Wealth Management space
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:39 PM
1

Meanwhile my 11 year old wears basketball shorts and crocs almost year-round…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:22 PM
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There are women here that I have personally argued with that think any woman under 26 is being manipulated and can’t consent because their bRaIn iSnT fULlY dEvElOpEd, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:28 PM
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I’m Canadian, so we don’t do that. We just say racist things about immigrants when no one is looking. You know, the polite Canadian way of things. ….oh and you’re welcome you don’t have to speak German or end up a human lamp shade. I kid, I kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:12 PM
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It’s Remembrance Day, be sure to remember those veterans in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:42 PM
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If that’s what you’ve taken away from all of my comments on the subject, you have understood nothing. No, quite the contrary. If we’re talking LTR and Marriage then it’s like, you and me against the world, we support each other and build a mutually beneficial partnership and future together
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:21 PM
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Like I said to Chips: judgement is a completely normal human thing. Putting people into “useful to exploit” and “not useful to exploit” boxes is narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:11 PM
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Sure, the human ability to apply judgement was key to our survival and evolution, don’t dispute it. I’m talking more about how men become mere performance objects in the eyes of FDS, just a machine to exploit, ie, not human, something to serve her ends. How the fuck do you have any kind of partner or relationship with some one who just sees you as a plot device in her story?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:10 PM
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But FDS women are not doing the first part of considering what they can offer their man, only the second, what they can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:59 PM
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No. First of all, I’m not a guy they would want But my real issue is sorting people into high and low value. It’s just such a sad example of rampant narcissism in the west. People who look at others with respect to the value they can extract from that person tells me all I need to know about them. They don’t see others as people with their own thoughts feelings wants and needs, just a resource with a value of how exploitable they are - high or low. Therefore they don’t really want a partner, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:03 PM
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Fundamentally the same: both looking for a “daddy” and a life on easy street
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:51 PM
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Yeah…like, it’s not even a thing. Work construction, go to Music festivals or go camping a lot and it’s just par for the course. For a time when I was a kid we lived in the country with well water and a septic system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:23 PM
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Been there, done that. First when. I was 10. Some stuff helped, but therapy is not psychological surgery - it’s not one and done. I have to manage my shit daily. Sometimes it’s a step forward and sometimes back, probably be this way for life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:13 PM
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People reveal themselves in conversation, talking about experiences, sharing stories and anecdotes. You get closer to someone the stories become more intimate, and you can form your understanding of their history. That’s all I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:34 PM
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Never. Never needed to either, you can get a general idea from the conversations you have and a “general idea” has been enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:27 AM
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You’re completely right. As you said, when you’ve experienced it, you know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:24 AM
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I think it’s the Christian Fundamentalism, so likely a small but vocal minority
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:56 PM
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Ok, I make this salary range and hold a director level position with a big five Canadian bank and live in the GTA, I happen to be this guys age as well. Key thing you are missing is that we bought our houses over a decade ago when prices hadn’t risen so high and fast. My mortgage is tiny, the value of my house increases at an insane rate - it beats my investment portfolio for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:50 PM
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Ah this takes me right back to the skate park in 1995… The whole concept of the Gravediggaz was fascinating. Not just their influence on Horror-core (Geto Boys, see also…)I think Prince Paul explained it or maybe RZA how it was a pretty big fuck you to Warner Music, and this was their resurrection, as they were all burned by Warner’s treatment of Tommy Boy records. Hence, “who killed Tommy’s boy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:37 PM
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I never thought I would see a Gravediggaz quote here of all places…I loved Grim Reaper/Too Poetic “Heya little rich kids what’s ya beef? Come and tell the grim reaper all of your grief/You ask for a Benz but only got a Jeep/ Your pops got ends but yo, he’s mad cheap”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:02 PM
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Ok, that’s it…we need a one shot: PPD&D I will play Jann’ithor; a swarthy, high CHA dwarven bard and skilled custodial engineer, who is an absolute slayer in the streets AND in the sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:59 PM
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I guess…I never really heard it growing up. No one told me they loved me, didn’t hear it between family members, so it just felt awkward, like something you’re not supposed to say or be ashamed to admit. There was probably some fear I wouldn’t hear it back, sure. My grandmother is someone special to me. I never felt such pure kindness and caring from anyone. So I learned not to care about any of that silly shit anymore. I didn’t want her to die without letting her know what she means to me, so f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:38 PM
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As I get older Ive found it easier to say. I called my 95 year old grandmother today, and every time I make sure I tell her I love her very much because I’m worried it’s the last time I’m going to talk to her, and even if she doesn’t remember (short term memory is completely gone), I want those to be the last words she hears from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:03 PM
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Ha, not alone there. I’ve spent this morning kicking myself for breaking my fast a bit too early with some leftover Halloween candy, and now it’s off to do a bunch of push-ups to repent…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:55 PM
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…don’t take your youth for granted, either though. It can be a pain in the ass to maintain good habits, but it pays off. If you want to be some guys Diana Rigg look alike fantasy when you’re 67 you know what you have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:17 PM
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Just from a guys perspective: my dick loves 20 year old hotties, and 40 year old ones, and 50’s…he’ll, there’s a woman in her 60’s at my gym who looks like Diana Rigg that I thought was gorgeous. Susana Hoffs? Yes please! She’s 62. I love ‘em all! I guess the point is, hot women are hot, we like to admire and maybe fantasize a little, then move on with our day…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:25 PM
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If you tested and interviewed well and they are pursuing you, you’re probably good to bump it up a bit to at least the average or the top end of the range you provided
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:45 PM
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Bit of a tough one to answer, I’m usually on the hiring side…but, I would be ok with you taking a day to decide. For an entry level position though, you may find there’s not a lot of room to negotiate, be careful about pricing yourself out. Is there any research you can do on average salaries for the type of industry, role, etc. You will want to know what you are dealing with going in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:49 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:12 PM
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I meant very first time, popping that cherry. Man, I was a dork…but nah, still I think once you nail (ha!) down your partner’s rhythm, figure out what she likes (turn ons, kinks), where to touch, how to do it juuuuust right…that moment when you’re in synch is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:43 AM
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Uh oh, don’t go accusing me of being reasonable and smart now… I think your last paragraph makes sense. it doesn’t pay to exclude people, you want to broaden your client base and meet your clients’ needs better than the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:38 AM
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Just to make sure we aren’t talking past each other or arguing the same thing: a dollar tends to follow the path of least resistance, just like anything else - meaning market demand or a differentiator. Edit: it’s not men/ownership dictating what the demand is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:26 PM
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Good question. Emphasize team-player type stuff in response to questions, even if you don’t mean it. When asked about yourself work in lines about curiosity, ongoing learning and development, and have a good answer ready for “where you see yourself in X years..”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:39 PM
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First time was underwhelming for me. Sex gets way better with time, practice and familiarity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:49 PM
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Soft skills, a desire to learn/improve and potential mean way more than hard skills, especially at junior levels. Be someone the employer can invest in, because they’re also trying to plan for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:44 PM
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I’m all for a women-lead/initiated/defined view of what women think is sexually attractive. Hey, whatever gets your motor started….but I think your reasoning is misplaced. Having worked dozens of business cases, it’s the money that dictates the direction we go, it’s not a cabal of old rich men shoving anything down anyone’s throat, the owners at the top are mostly just rubber stamping the work people have done beneath them. It’s data driven not “I want women to want this so let’s throw a bunch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:59 PM
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Would you believe that I am at my happiest when I’m training in the dojo? I also go to the gym regularly, for my health mostly, because I want to be travelling and doing stuff and active when I’m 75
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:48 PM
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Hmmm…I wouldn’t open it. I would get in contact with their client relations department and confirm they actually sent you a document. If it’s legit, I would be shocked. This is terrible logical access and data management. I should never know my clients’ passwords or have any access to their account, nor use confidential data for this purpose. Some roles may be able to read client data from back end systems, but that should be controlled, logged and audited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:26 PM
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Sounds a little dubious. There really should be a randomly generated password emailed to you, or link or something. Like… you know this sender has your zip code and birthday, for sure? I deal in a lot of confidential client documents for banking/ Wealth management, and never would I ever accept such an encryption system. Generally not a good practice to use client confidential date in their own password. As the vendor, I should never know your password.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:13 PM
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There’s no time limit or min/max number of dates, provided we were organically moving in the right direction, the touching and make outs were steadily escalating, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:36 PM
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Have one, had miscarriages trying for more and now the window is pretty much closed. We’re too old for babies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:44 PM
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I dunno…travel in some dweeb circles and you will see enough neck beards with their three-Wolf-moon shirt wearing female equivalents. Thing is they often seem quite happy and affectionate, and good for them really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:53 PM
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Reward the good, ignore the bad is unfortunately the most effective way to reinforce the behaviours you want to see. I don’t think scolding someone for loading the dishwasher “incorrectly” (and is that really such a huge offence?) Is going to achieve anything other than further resentment on both ends. It’s just going to add to the feeling of having to parent your spouse, not reduce or eliminate it. Expressing basic gratitude comes right from Gottman, it’s oddly contagious and once you start say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:27 PM
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Gratitude goes both ways, no question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:12 PM
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You’d be surprised how far a simple thank you can go. Yeah, we’re all adults and should just know we need to do basic chores. But it takes no effort on our part to recognize when someone has done something to make our life a little simpler, liked flipped that load of laundry to the dryer or noticed some dishes were piling up in the sink and washed them. “Thanks for doing the dishes”, that’s it. It says I noticed and appreciate you. It’s almost literally the least you can do for some one you love…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:57 PM
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Good strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:07 PM
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I don’t like conflict either, but I’ve learned time and again that not dealing with it is often way worse in the end. It doesn’t go away, it just metastasizes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:49 PM
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Perhaps never seen or experienced healthy conflict resolution. They’ve tried being nice, tried avoiding the conflict until shit just boils over
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:01 PM
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I agree, adults should communicate what they want and need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:49 PM
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That’s your more immediate social circle. Surely that circle knows other single people and you have a greater chance of not only meeting but being able to benefit from some social proof (your friend’s wife tells her single friend how great you are, for instance) and opportunity to show off qualities that pics on a dating app can’t show or show well. A house party at a friends place is a more comfortable environment for women than some meat market happy hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:35 PM
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“Why do you always…” “How come you never…” And fill in the blanks with some kind of shame/guilt based attempt to make the other person feel poorly about themselves, instead of just being direct with what you need and want. Remember to “reward” behaviour you want to encourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:23 PM
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Yes! Social circle is the best, particularly your extended circle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:22 PM
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Message!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:49 PM
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Tits, ass, everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:41 PM
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so a man and his son can do the same thing. To an outsider it might appear different. A mother and her child as well I suppose, but it just seems more of a male thing in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:28 PM
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Like I said above, not an assistant mom to be delegated to, or a “helper” but an equal parent. I may not handle a situation or an interaction the way a woman might, I might value different activities and ways of bonding with my son that a woman or mom wouldn’t. Example: a lot of men can enjoy an activity together without saying anything much to each other or even appear to be together at all. Watch boys often play beside each other, seemingly in their own worlds, but if you asked them they’d say…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:09 PM
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Actions matter more than words, so just saying you have a good job isn’t going to net you much. Nice watch is always good, but so is nonchalantly dropping a high-end credit card on a cheque
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:48 PM
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They can enjoy Black Sabbath together
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:02 PM
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And I think there are a number of women who don’t want to give up the direct control of how the child will be raised, don’t trust men to be the primary parent and consider them an assistant-moms with a penis (And I do have a kid, I do my share of parenting but I’m a dad, not a second mom)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:45 PM
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There can be advantages for men, looking at this from a purely mercenary standpoint: they have a chance to show off their magnanimity and if they’re like that or think it matters to her, flash a bit of status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:35 PM
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The right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:04 PM
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Huh. I thought that was a bit of a low bar to be honest, like that guy is on the precipice of below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:30 PM
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…in bed, at night, lights off only, frumpy night gown or jogging pants back on right after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:57 PM
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I love ‘em all… But, the hype over blondes, dark hair is way hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:54 PM
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INTP, and…5w6 or 6w5, can’t remember
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:57 PM
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You’ve got two options, if you won’t get the sex you want in a relationship: end it, or stay and go without. Everyone has their own reasons for why they choose what they choose. I’m also confused though as to what an average man is considered here, what an average woman is and what a below average man is. Sometimes average is a semi fat guy who picks up socks and dries a dish every now and then. Sometimes it’s an ex semi-pro athlete making $80k with even higher earning potential in the future an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:42 PM
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“Paying her to leave” , etc, etc Time is money, call girls are a time-saving convenience for captains of industry and masters of the universe. Easier to outsource the solution. I’m sure some of these guys are also getting kinks serviced that they may not be able to get normally or need to keep discrete, dungeon shit, fin-dom, infantilism, I don’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:09 PM
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My son is 11. His grandma was trying to shame him into doing something, “oh, girls aren’t going to like that…”, and he told he he didn’t care, he was going to be single. He’ll do just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:17 PM
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I find L-sits are more effective than planks, personally. But yeah, do lots of push-ups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:11 PM
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Men will suffer more with at fault divorce. If the only way to get out of a marriage is abuse, then that’s what men will be accused of. The solution is in more mediation and keeping cases out of family courts. The party who cooperates with a mediator system should be looked favourably upon should the case wind up in court and the party who obstructs the system and wants conflict should be penalized. and if frogs had wings…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:32 AM
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Can’t CMV, you’re right. I hire for soft skills and fit. Hard skills can be taught if the person is eager to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:59 PM
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Oh, the NEET/I-word issue will continue. Where I see the difference is that in the herbivore case it’s voluntary and male- imitated. Not so in NA, the anger and resentment is the big differing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:43 PM
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Yes, agree. It was beneficial in my case as some one who grew up with little to no male figures. As a teen i was in Air Cadets, and loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:29 PM
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As I said, we can make some broad conclusions, I woundnt that go much further than that. Like, in North America’s case, we can mitigate the demographics issues with immigration, whereas Japan is loathe to do so. Getting a bit better, Sri Lankans are getting permanent residency and even citizenship these days, where even a decade ago, it would be nearly impossible, even for me married to a Japanese national. Japan is seeing its growth shrink as a result, property values are dropping, commercial v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:50 PM
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Using Japan as a “canary in a coal mine” for western societies is basically useless. Far too many differences in family, work and sexual culture and mores. More importantly, recent economic events, especially post-bubble Japan play a far more important role in why more men are becoming “freeters” or shoushoku danshi/herbivores. You can draw some broad conclusions but really should avoid saying “Japan is going here, therefore that’s where we’re headed”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:34 PM
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But those Saville Row suits are timeless! I was watching Gold finger a few weeks back and any one of Connery’s suits would fit right in with contemporary menswear. I spent most of the movie drooling over his wardrobe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:42 PM
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As I’ve grown and worked on myself my standards have increased in kind. I hold myself to a high standard, I expect a similar high standard from my partners. And it’s not perfection or high achievement, it’s making your best effort and living with sincerity. Japanese language has a great word for sincerity, shisei, which means to arrive at the truth. It means living in reality, being honest about who we are, and what we want and being our true self, the good, the bad and the ugly. When we(generic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:06 PM
1

So overheard comments are the same as physical touching from a superior? Because I don’t think so, that’s several levels of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:56 AM
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We agree on the inappropriateness of the language. I can see why OP doesn’t want to report, stands a better chance of leading to disharmony in the office. And OP has to work with them day in and out. I like to make as many friends as possible at work (or kill them with kindness), makes my job easier in the end and friends are more willing to helping you when you need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:16 AM
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“Hey Ted! Don’t you just hate when your cock is too large to fit normal underwear. I’ve been free-balling it lately, feel great” Ooh, don’t get mad about that, it’s non sexual, you’re the one who can’t control their thoughts, you dirty horn dog. You suck. That’s how these comments read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:53 PM
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It’s work, not the ladies locker room. Men don’t talk about how their giant balls itch at the office. Like, c’mon, women know what they’re doing. “Oooh, my breasts are just soooo swollen their popping out of my blouse, don’t you think, Billy? Tee hee!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:26 PM
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Government and big banks/FIs are where it’s at: great pay and benefits, reasonable hours, they’re big slow lumbering risk averse beasts as far as technology goes (Sales is very different), so there are lots of bullshit roles that one can coast on, and “doing the right thing” means following the bureaucratic process. Right now I’m overseeing a project portfolio, mostly providing guidance and advisory, I have a team of PMs who do all the real work. I’m a bit of a box-checker, but fuck it, I did my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:47 PM
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I work on in Wealth Management, and pre-COVID I would call bullshit. Our industry loves to party; work hard, play hard. There were a shit load of networking events, and even more happy hours, so lots and lots of opportunities to meet people. Although, sounds like this guy is a personal financial advisor getting paid mostly in commissions. If he’s trying to build his book - and not getting much help from his bank it seems, I can see the long hours…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:08 AM
1

This kid needs to be in a Conan movie, where’s John Milius?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:06 PM
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You can have a few dates just for fun or see if something more develops. Like, I’m not co-signing a mortgage with her, we’re not buying joint funerary plots on our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:49 PM
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You might be simple and immature, I’m not, nor or many men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:54 PM
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Explore my different social circles, see what happens and just have fun for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah, this guy is trying to fuck your girl. Shooting is exciting, fun and allows for opportunities to touch, while he slides behind her to help “correct her shooting stance”… I wouldn’t put the breaks on, but would be mercilessly teasing her about how this guy is going to try and make a move on her, and just act amused at the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:21 PM
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Yeah, I think this is a common experience for men. When I was younger and at my physical peak, my urges were eat and fuck everything in sight. I could walk through a crowd and think to myself, “…want to fuck you, and you- oooh a sandwich!..you, and you…”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:49 PM
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Provided we did not exist within the same social or professional circles, I’d be completely fine with it. She’s the one who feels disgust after, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:15 AM
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Women: Pajama pants in public. Wearing those steel rimmed glasses my shop teacher wore in 1992 Men: any kind of casual shoe in a suit. I see this with young guys mostly, so it can be forgivable, but our recent election the federal Conservative leader was wearing fucking Sketchers! And you want to portray responsibility with my money? You serious? Also, white patent leather belts - never. Sweater vests…I could go on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:16 PM
1

I think it’s the opposite. I can find something attractive about a lot of women; chubby girl with nice hair and glowing skin for instance. Probably rooted in the male mammalian tendency to sow the seed in as many fields as possible to maximize passing along one’s genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:23 PM
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I think they should generally over lap, not completely but your general world views should align. And maybe some areas are less negotiable than others. I couldn’t be with any kind of devout religious woman, but I could handle some woo-woo new age shit. Same with politics, I couldn’t be with some one extreme right or extreme left, but I can be with your average right or left voter. Otherwise, you don’t really want someone too similar to yourself, do you? Not that stimulating, and you don’t get an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:21 PM
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…if there was only some way she could have known!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:33 PM
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Guess I was wrong. 🤷🏻‍♂️I was more focussed on the girl anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:02 PM
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Eh, borderline. I can see why women may not find the guy attractive; receding hairline, bit plain, long face. Where as the girl looks like she would clean up nice. A blow out and a half decent make up job and she can be super cute. But tastes vary, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:55 PM
2

And for a lot of my life I did! Working out and IF did the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:42 PM
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I wear glasses most of the time, was just getting bad glare in this pic so off they went
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:38 PM
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eAtInG fOr tWo is the biggest (ha!) bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:58 PM
2

“I’ll live a lonely, bitter, spiteful life… that’ll show those Libs!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:48 PM
2

Brotherhood of the Wolf Monica is my absolute dream woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:33 PM
1

8 year olds, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:51 PM
1

Ah, shame. You’re probably right then. Who doesn’t like some butt stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:39 PM
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Or he totally knows and it’s just saying this shit so you don’t feeeeeel like a slut. Women hate and fear being judged more than anything else, so guys who have any experience say shit like this to put women at ease
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:22 PM
2

She knows, she’s knows it’s a multi pass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:27 AM
2

There are none who can match his power, it is at a level unforeseen, long thought impossible for any man to reach. You see, for every year difference in age he gains yet another level of power, so immeasurable that with naught but a glance a poor young child of 26 is utterly helpless to his whims!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:18 AM
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Who’s going to kill the spiders and open the jars? That’s right…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:24 PM
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No, i objectify their thighs too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Costco used to have this welsh cheddar with mustard seeds, and I could eat that all day. Red Dragon I think? Gimme that Stilton and a bottle of port while we’re at it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:55 PM
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Counter argument: I’m pretty awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:51 PM
2

Yeah but you end up with this bitch. Guaranteed she’s never out a penis anywhere near her mouth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:38 PM
1

It’s purge, cut loose!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:16 PM
1

I’m all for it. Just pay your fucking share, and don’t try and pull the ladder up behind you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:12 PM
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I pay more in taxes than you earn a year, I’ve put my money where my mouth is. And those fucking assholes got to enjoy a stable economy, a healthy workforce that is educated and skilled, and low government corruption that helped them make billions. Taxes built that. Don’t act like they did everything on their own. This idolization that they’re some holiest of holy jOb cReAtOrs can fuck right off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:53 PM
2

Sorry, we can’t change anything because 4 mega billionaires want to go play in space
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:10 PM
1

That’s the only part I got from my Ukrainian grandfather
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:40 PM
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Nope, lived in Japan when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:00 AM
2

Yay, good hair line!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:56 AM
1

Thanks! Eventually grew into it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:55 AM
2

Yeah sure, it’s a bad angle, i don’t take very good pics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:45 AM
1

I do, just don’t have them on for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:36 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/nBpLhS3 Fuck it, nothing to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:27 AM
3

Eh, I’m 42 and my mom just turned 60, she was a grandmother at age 48.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:50 PM
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Elderly trans black woman in a wheelchair who is also visually impaired
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:44 PM
2

Their men’s line is total shit. The shampoo was garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:15 PM
2

I’m just here to confirm all the worst thoughts about myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:13 PM
3

Hot body/ butter face
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:03 PM
3

I have an 11 year old son. My approach when he was a toddler and learning to regulate himself was to always validate his feelings. Like, “I understand you want X, and you don’t want to do y, but right we need to do z and we will do y after z”. I never mocked his feelings or told him not to cry, and never the “I’ll give you something to cry about” shit I got from my parents - who did it the wrong way. You can correct and redirect behaviour without making your kids feel like shit about themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:37 PM
2

🎶Drink scotch whisky all night long, and die behind the wheel 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:33 PM
1

Don’t care. Hollywood is creatively dead. Hope you like Disney IP strip mining…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:45 PM
1

I’m forced to vote for candidates I think will do the least damage because none of them I actually like or trust, and I don’t follow any one ideology; I want legislation that solves people’s problems with the dollars being spent effectively. I detest corruption and waste from all parties. These days I guess I’m in the “Red Tory” camp, fiscal conservative and social liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:17 PM
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Captain Lou Albano sadly passed away years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:53 PM
2

Mine as well. I’ve been with high n and low n, and high n and high n was far more open, enthusiast and adventurous sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:22 PM
2

Subaru gang! I’ve got a Forester (it’s auto though)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:17 PM
1

The ideal is daily-cute who knows how to sex it up to hot-level when the occasion calls for it (and she should instinctively know when) But for this purpose, hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:48 PM
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Because it’s a safe way for girls and young women to explore sexual desire. They’re protected by the anonymity of the mob, which gives them license to “let go” as it were, and the guys are completely unattainable so they never actually have to face the fear of going through with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:49 PM
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They want a “Daddy-wallet”. The opposite of the “bang-maid”. I find these women feign a kind of helplessness and submission as an excuse to be lazy, entitled and pampered. They go from their fathers house to their husbands house never having to take responsibility for anything in their life. Oldest teen ager in the house? This is her. I get into relationships with adult women who can handle their shit. I’m not their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:53 PM
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Happy to help, I like being a dad, but I’m sure as shut NOT an assistant mom with penis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:32 PM
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Infant stage is pretty easy after the first few months. I actually really enjoyed the 18 to 30 month stage, so curious and engaged in the world around them. They turn into little assholes at age 3 and 4 and then from 5 on it’s all good. Kids are pretty easy to raise if you aren’t a total idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:22 PM
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Got a point there. Violence does solve problems, it just creates a bunch of new ones too. Love Roadhouse, though. Benny the jet Urquidez did all the fight work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:40 PM
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“Pain don’t hurt”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:14 PM
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I’m not denying racism exists, that’s just dumb. I am disputing it is the sole and only cause, and reiterate that class is a bigger factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:27 AM
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To be honest, it’s unfair to generalize about Asia when it’s so huge and with so many diverse people and cultures… my experience has been in East Asian, where the Buddhist and Confucian influence runs very deep, and the classicism can be pretty brutal (like India, there is an untouchable class). Does being white get you some advantages? Situational in my experience, but largely patronizing and like I said novelty at best and some mild racism, like “ooh look at the trained monkey so some tricks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:11 PM
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If it’s due to colonialism (it’s not…) then why Asian women in particular “fetishize” white guys when they’ve hardly to never have been colonized by White men? Vietnam was colonized and ruled by the Chinese for 1000 years, France in control there for about 60 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:55 PM
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Well, I’ve lived in Asian and my wife is Asian. At best I was a novelty and at worst a trained circus seal (because I can speak the language), average white guys fare as well as they do in their own countries -not anything special. Most people in my wife‘s country have never interacted with a white person and consume little to no American media. Asian women leave for North America because they already don’t fit in or don’t like their own society, they feel they are held back or opportunities are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:41 PM
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In this case it’s not about race necessarily. It’s about social class: poor people labour in the sun, rich people don’t need to do that. Opposite in North America: a tan means you have money to go on vacations and laze in the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:44 PM
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For sure. I have a bullshit history/poli-sci degree (from a good university) and some professional accreditation (I’m a PM), but nothing beyond that. I manage people with MBAs…I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:47 PM
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