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Question For WomenCFinCanada/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:06 PM
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I met my man on a dating app within the last ten years as did several of my friends. When we met, we were both 29. My age filter didn't go up that high, those guys were literally invisible to me. I literally have never even met a woman dating a guy a decade or more older. Again, only looking at the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:58 PM
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No, but the vast majority of people pushing that narrative all over the internet are single incel/MGTOW/RP guys. That's what I'm speaking to. Their motives for being the predictable group to make such a statement (as that which I was responding to with that comment).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:15 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:36 PM
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I doubt it. Not only does all of the self-reported data contradict this, but also, exercise boosts serotonin and generally speaking, fit women are happier. Carmen Electra looks pretty happy to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ https://www.thehealthymommy.com/moms-weigh-5-pound-more-childless-women-same-age-study-finds/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:36 PM
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Perhaps if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:00 PM
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There is also data showing that only those parents that have high incomes actually extract any sort of satisfaction whatsoever from the experience: https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/parents-happiness-kids-afford-them For a significant number of parents (and this is especially true of women, who are almost never found to be happier than nonparents in aggregate, whereas in some research, men sometimes report that they are). A German study found that parental regret and misery is a major driver o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:59 PM
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Nope. That is what you call a c0pPe. Citations: https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-having-children-make-people-happier-in-the-long-run https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25669856/ It is usually random single men who often push the opposite narrative, for obvious reasons: self-interest. They know they are the ones who benefit from women sacrificing everything to raise a child. Not the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:47 PM
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Childless women report being happier in old age according to studies in the US, England and Australia, so I'm going with "the women."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:36 PM
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No, people date. Maybe not you, but people do. But considering you're single at advanced age, is there any kind of woman whom you don't run from, and vice-versa? I'd say the evidence speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:02 PM
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It also references physical presence as a means of support, with males being generally less likely to make plans to actually see their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:18 AM
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Not my experience at all. My single female friends have been great friends and very supportive of our relationship, telling me how we make a great couple (which is just factually true), and in one girl in particular case defending him and telling me I'm being unreasonable because a quirky of his that really bothers me is something she is guilty of doing too; she took it personally, and reminded me what a great guy he is overall. Maybe it's the people you gravitated towards while single; not very…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:57 AM
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To me it's when a guy has a nice smile and is not fat. I generally don't find red hair or very dark skin attractive, though exceptions always exist. I've also noticed that I've tended to prefer guys with narrower or more oval faces and smaller mouths. I've literally never dated a man who had a large or flabby stomach. I think that's a huge turnoff for me, physically. I do 400 situps a day so my fetish for a relatively flat stomach also extends to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:42 AM
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Also from the article, "For the most part, men’s friendships tend to be less intimate and less supportive than friendships between women." It helps to read the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:35 AM
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Chewing Gum is literally about a female virgin from a religious household. So in a roundabout way you are confirming the point that there are a plethora of different experiences that characterize "the lives of twentysomething urban women." Interesting self-own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:32 AM
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No offense but shouldn't you have had to give up on women in general? Your username is "mgtow" that automatically suggests you should be off living your life not worried about women and n-counts. I can't imagine even posing such a question to a date at the ripe old age of 47. Do women laugh to your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:05 AM
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Here you go: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/201410/how-are-men-s-friendships-different-women-s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:59 AM
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The back-and-forth banter flows easily, no real awkwardness there. Just connect on an intellectual level very easily, but there is an emotional component there because some dudes just talk and talk and talk, but don't really ask questions, it's like being dictated to. Got a couple dude friends like that, I respect their intellect but find that a bit awkward, never felt a spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:50 AM
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Well, a few things: are you cosmopolitan yourself? Because otherwise you'll just be a fish out of water. The other thing is sex ratios! I see that you're in the Pacific Northwest. This area of your country can best be described as a sausagefest. It's not enough to be ideologically compatible with where you live. You should also consider how many women there are there. Here are some handy maps to help you on your journey: https://www.magnifymoney.com/news/single-adults-study/ https://www.states10…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:16 PM
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without really figuring out what it takes to make a relationship last. Base compatibility. There, solved it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:29 PM
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We've been together for 7 years. Did not have my first long-term relationship until I left that suburban hell behind!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:52 PM
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EXACTLY. I literally did that, suburban small-town men did not appeal to me in any way, they were not compatible whatsoever and many/most of them were also racist, so at the age of 20 I picked my butt up and moved to the big city, where I could find not just MORE options but more COMPATIBLE options. I have zero patience for men who live where there are no likeminded women or there's a huge male-biased sex ratio, and whine about women!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:17 PM
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The number of women who are single in your age group is exponentially smaller. Vast majority of women don't want age-gap relationships. And those left in your age group often have kids already. I know it hurts to accept that you missed the boat, but well, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:39 AM
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Yes, for childfree women. But they're just as likely to simply leave and go live in a blue state where the men aren't retarded or products of generational inbreeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:36 AM
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You are a misogynist and an incel. You won't ever seek help, so continue to die alone, as you should. It's just unfortunate that your type being mentally ill always fetishizes guns. Hence, we have America.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 09:17 PM
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Literally being evaluated by the content of their character. If they're seen as manchildren who probably have bad hygiene and are unworthy of love, the onus is on them to change how they are perceived. You could whine more (that's manly), or develop some character to be seen as appealing. The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:15 PM
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She is ONE example; again, it happens literally everywhere these laws take place, as already stated. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/miscarriages-abortion-jail-el-salvador/. Who gives a shit if an abortion is planned? There is no physiological difference between an abortion and a miscarriage, so every single woman who has a miscarriage is automatically suspect and has to prove motive for the expulsion that her body did. I know your lot naturally cannot foretell consequences…
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 09:05 PM
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I said that having never seen any of these men. That should tell you that they're being viewed as unattractive and not as men based solely on their repulsive minds, hideous values, and disgusting personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:58 PM
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Every single contraceptive in existence has a failure rate listed on the package, you literal inbred whose parents were siblings. At least you had the balls to admit it's not about "the baybayz," but punishing women. You hate women, you're dying alone, and that's good, because you deserve to.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 08:56 PM
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Women have been jailed for miscarriages under the laws other sociopaths like yourself promote: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-59214544.amp There is no physiological difference between an abortion or miscarriage, so this happens anywhere and everywhere there are antichoice/pro-slavery laws. I'd ask you to use your empathy, but as a dark triad sociopath (again, proven by peer-reviewed and replicated science), you don't have any. "I don't hate women, I just support slavery and think they …
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 06:34 PM
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And such spiteful men you claim are the "pick of the litter." Great relationship material. Okay 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:09 PM
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The men here's takes on women's rights in the Roe megathread alone tells me that you all deserve your fate. NOT good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:42 PM
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Another one who hates women and thinks they should be punished for having had sex. At least nowadays the bad men like you are all incels.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 05:39 PM
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Literally no woman wants an incel who hates women and thinks their sole purpose is to act as servants to a man. Like, being single is preferable to that in every context. What does such a man even offer? More housework and the chance to get poked while dry? Straight up, the men you are talking about, including and especially the ones HERE, do not count as men or as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:23 PM
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It literally is. It's the definition of birth control. One form of abortifacient, Misoprostol, even acts in the exact same way, by manipulating hormone levels of the person who ingests it orally.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 04:39 PM
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Because there is always some black guy who will marry a 400 lb ww.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:04 PM
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Having an abortion IS "taking responsibility for your actions." It is a perfectly valid choice, and it is a form of birth control. It is a backup form of birth control, as no woman selects it as a first choice.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 03:41 PM
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Gilbert Gottfried has one of the most annoying voices ever. I can't imagine it matters if you're being funny if the sound of your voice induces wincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:27 PM
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That women benefit from having children. That men need to be 6 feet tall to be attractive or dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:27 PM
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IRL I wouldn't bother hanging out with, talking to, or debating with conservatives or incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:29 AM
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I guess so. I'm not a huge fan of UFC either and he loves it, but again it doesn't take over his life so I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:07 PM
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My bf plays on his phone while we watch shows, it doesn't bother me as much as it did with an ex who would monopolize the whole TV and get on headphones with his brothers as part of a team. That dude was also staying home on Saturday nights to game while I went out with friends, current bf would never do that. He prioritizes the people in his life always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:31 PM
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I would say based on my own history probably a small percentage. I have had many relationships, and only current one of 7 years is actually happy and doesn't make me want to grow old with cats instead of a human man. I think the main issues are two things: monogamy, and ongoing effort/not taking the other person for granted over time. Also, respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:25 PM
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I don't see how self-determination can ever be a bad thing, and I don't agree with the phrasing of the question as it's not a competition between the genders. Individuals are doing what they feel is necessary to gain a foothold in the new economy. I would also add that I don't see all of these lazy-asses not working anywhere around me, I don't know why there are such an abundance where you are? What I see are men working hard and not getting paid enough relative to the escalating cost of living,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:14 PM
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That's definitely an interesting story. Still, all it really proves is that abortion was always safe and never or rarely killed anyone, just wasn't always legal, and given the first two facts, you couldn't justify the illegality of a safe and harmless procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:09 PM
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Well the beautiful thing about liberal democracies is that you can be around or avoid any kind of person you want, it's called freedom of movement. If you feel Singapore is superior, why not go there? 37% of the residents are ex-pats it's not like their borders are closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:30 AM
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Saudi Arabia has money because of oil, not innovation. And they have the highest male sex ratio in the entire world. Sausagefest country that literally no women ever move to, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:28 AM
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How do you know the boorish assholes at Pride events aren't the straight people? They're not exactly minority attendees these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:19 AM
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If you like back home so much, why'd you move? You are here, and you endorse the same policies that turned your home country into a shithole. (I do have to say I wasn't exactly convinced by your sudden "I'm pro-abortion personally" turn that came out of nowhere).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:15 AM
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It's like taking the worst examples of gay people There are plenty of different kinds of gay people at pride. People just looking to have fun, some exhibitionists, people who are just on a float for their company (I've done the parade with two friends), they wore corporate t-shirts, as did we all. You don't like men wearing makeup. Lol sounds more like a repression hangup than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:53 PM
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.... literally sounds exactly like the west. Nobody is forcing anything down anyone's throat. Corporate rainbow logos are apparently only offensive when westerners do it? Street parties happen during Pride weekend (the weekend of the parade) here too and everyone is glad to have a reason to come together. Always a positive atmosphere. I mean, I doubt you have the credentials to qualify to emigrate anyway, but since you hate gays so much, you could always just stay in your socially conservative t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:49 PM
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Btw Singapore has a gay pride parade called Pink Dot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:27 PM
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I mean, you're obviously a homophobe, and this is normal for people from crime-ridden shitholes. It's your culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:25 PM
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Who are you, a foreign westerner who has no idea what life is like back there Are you sure? My mother was born in the poorest country in the western hemisphere. My family has experienced poverty and clawed their way out of it. Yes, life is hard for the women back home (its hard for everyone); but it's absolutely not because of a lack of abortion. That is false. It's just that third-worlders (and I'm including western white trash in this assessment) lack the intellectual acumen to understand cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:04 PM
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Everyone has invaded other countries forcing conversion to their religion? No, actually. That's not true at all. The Khmer regime was not religion based. I also don't know of any other groups today who do things like go into other countries like Ghana and promote genocide (in this case, of their gay population). Only American evangelicals are doing this right now. They never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:24 PM
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I am sure you do know several women in third-world countries. If you asked the prisoners of the Norrmalmstorg bank robbery in 1973 if they had been held captive, they would have told you no, they wanted to sit in that bank for five days with those men who had guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:58 PM
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Do you mean Christians have killed invading other countries and forcing their religion on people? Because, yes. And they're still doing it today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:53 PM
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It wasn't necessary. World Values Survey/European Values Survey from 1996 to 2020 polled Ukrainians and asked about willingness to fight for their country in war. As of 2020, 90% of men in Western Ukraine said they would, as did nearly 80% of eastern Ukranian men: https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figure5-16-w640.png. Ukraine's share of fighting-age males and Ukraine's share of fighting-age males willing to fight can be seen here: https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figure5-16-w640…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:46 PM
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We simply cannot know that it would ever have been "necessary" in WWII as we cannot go back in time. And Hitler enforced conscription, punishable by death of the soldiers' families. Does one abomination beget another? Wrong is wrong. But I appreciate your consistency, at least, in devaluing the lives of the living of both genders. Although I would argue that having so little regard for the quality of an individual life is an antinatalist argument if I've ever heard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:55 PM
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Tolerate, yes. Respect, no. You cannot legislate respect you have to earn it. The only religion I've ever seen earn my respect is Buddhism, and it's not even theistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:53 PM
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I don't really care what motivates conservative men as I would have sooner married a cat than settled for one. Luckily, I searched endlessly and was able to find a sweet cute, funny liberal man seven years ago and lived happily ever after. I wouldn't doubt that many of them are closeted, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:31 PM
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Two of the most popular states for inward migration of millennials have been Washington and Arizona, per a Harvard study. The poor and less-educated who couldn't compete tended to go south, just as the more-educated tended to go west or stay where they are because they're educated enough to afford the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:26 PM
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No, it's called bodily autonomy. It should always be a choice. My boyfriend's grandfather was a British soldier and a great man, and he would have joined without being conscripted. To him it was an honour to fight for the empire. I don't see young men as being potential cannon fodder, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:17 PM
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I don't know for sure that I would, and I don't have some high-minded reason for it. It's just a visceral aversion. He did it once with a girl, and I was like, 😬😬, but he explained how grossed out he was when he ended up with fecal matter on his dick, and that he never did it again, and I was content with that, so maybe I would have felt the same way if it happened with a guy. I can't say for sure though. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:48 PM
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My boyfriend was like a little bi when I met him. I say a little bi because he did some experimentation during a threesome, no backdoor action, I feel like he's more bicurious/open-minded than anything. I haven't heard him say that any guys are hot but then again I've also never heard him say any other women are hot, now that I think of it 🤔 he's just too respectful for that. I've seen his porn queue and it's all women, though there are definitely kinks. I think that bi guys probably have a diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:28 PM
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The societal benefits of taking away women's rights to their own bodies and forcing them to give birth after being raped? Is that like the societal benefits of sending young men off to war against their will and jailing them if they try to leave? There are no societal benefits to treating people like they're not humans, but national figureheads. This is a psychotic way of thinking that is actually tied to psychopathology when tested: http://www.prweb.com/releases/2012/3/prweb9255652.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:14 PM
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What would you call it when a woman is jailed for having access to her own body? Or for miscarrying? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insider.com/woman-jailed-for-miscarriage-shows-rise-in-prosecutions-of-pregnancy-2021-10%3famp https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/global-development/2021/dec/02/el-salvador-responsible-for-death-of-woman-jailed-after-miscarriage Slavery is slavery. It doesn't really matter whether it's common practise in the third-world, it doesn't change what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:02 PM
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Those men should know not to think you can try to enforce slavery without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:07 PM
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They have median life expectancies comparable to any other third-world country. 🤷🏽‍♀️ They also share their level of religiosity, crumbling infrastructure, and maternal mortality rates (soon to go up). Hey, why not bring on their human rights laws, I guess is their logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:33 PM
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It's not nonsense you're just culturally ignorant, probably one of the many Americans that doesn't even own a passport, lol: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.3904755
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:31 PM
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We need it yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:21 PM
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Of course you guys don't care about things that help women to live. That's exactly why yours die 3 years earlier than ours. Edit: sorry, that was before the pandemic. It's probably 4 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:16 PM
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As disgusting as "let doctors decide"? When Ireland didn't, women died of ectopic and high-risk pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:14 PM
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It's a US state that tends to vote Democratic. They have, on average, higher life expectancies, higher property values, lower obesity rates, and contribute to the federal tax coffers almost exclusively. Only 2 red states are not funded (healthcare, infrastructure and education) by taxes collected from blue state residents. The only states where non-Hispanic white mortality fell and life expectancy rose between 1999 and 2017 are Illinois, New York, New Jersey, and California. All four are blue st…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:03 PM
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Smart. Nuns live the longest anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:56 PM
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Not really. When Section 8 women or those on heroin who were too poor to travel out of state for their abortions have little gangbangers, your taxes will go up to pay for you to get robbed at gunpoint. You will be affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:54 PM
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Furthermore, Canada's laws are consistent, not requiring the draft nor advocating female slavery as the US does with its regression to third-world legal norms. We respect bodily autonomy in our country. We are a civilized nation. And we outlive Americans by 3 years. America does not have civilized nation median life expectancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:51 PM
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You seem to have some issues with literacy. Nowhere was race mentioned, why are you projecting your racism? And nowhere was infanticide mentioned, you have to have an actual infant in order to commit infanticide. Embryos are not infants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:50 PM
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In practise, doctors are beholden to medical ethics boards and won't perform unless the woman's life is in danger. 2% of abortions in Canada take place after 20 weeks. It's actually far more ethical than the banana republic laws in the third-world heroinhead states.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:46 PM
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Double Income, No Kids. SINK is Single Income, No Kids. It doesn't imply intent for permanence the way childfree does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:45 PM
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That's an inaccurate representation of Canadian practise. It's left up to the doctors to decide and the medical boards that govern them enforce strict protocols under which late-term abortions are to be performed. Canadians are of the opinion these matters should be left to doctors, not politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:45 PM
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Actually, the first part of your statement isn't even accurate (that they're not arguing this). In the US, an Ohio Republican politician argued that ectopic pregnancies could simply be reimplanted in the uterus, unaware that this is physically impossible and attempts to would kill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:06 PM
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I just like that it incentivizes brain drain to the civilized world. The men in these states will increasingly be left with low-IQ women, single moms, and their section 8 offspring to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:02 PM
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No one in the US is arguing against medical intervention for ectopics. No one in Ireland was either. It's called outcomes of laws. That's what happened to those women. Savita was one of them, that's why the law was challenged in Ireland and struck down. Because these women were dying because of doctors who would not perform the procedure on them. I'd also add that what you claimed about the guy who "made it up and admitted it when he got older" desperately needs a citation. The fact is that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:54 AM
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Neither am I lol. Where you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:49 AM
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So if I'm understanding you correctly, you think only women should be forced to do something that could disable or kill them against their will, but believe in bodily autonomy and patient privacy laws for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:48 AM
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The reality of illegal abortions in the US will be the same as in Ireland where they simply got the chemical abortion pill from the UK or in the US a blue state. But that wasn't an option for women with high-risk or ectopic pregnancies like Savita Halappanavar. Instead, those women, typically married, just died. I'd add if your don't want an abortion then stop fucking. Why would I stop fucking? I've been in a monogamous relationship for seven years. I could just simply choose not to live in a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:47 AM
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Oh for sure, the men in these areas will get the less-bright women who didn't move out of state for university once they're on their last eggs or infertile, for sure. But then again there is no guarantee that the women who leave for uni will ever come back, so sex ratio could be permanently skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:43 AM
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There are women who don't want kids ever. Psychos who have no empathy are saying to these women just don't have sex your whole life, even if you're married. On this thread. Sorry but you have no leg to stand on. You either support human rights or you don't. And you don't. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:30 AM
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If you would have kids you aren't childfree. Call yourselves DINKs instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:28 AM
2

Yes. America is a third-world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:27 AM
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Wow. Human embodiment of this peer-reviewed and successfully replicated study: http://www.prweb.com/releases/2012/3/prweb9255652.htm People like this should not be allowed in politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:25 AM
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I also agree. They'll just be more hypergamous now. Personally, I was high libido and still didn't have sex until 4 months shy of my 19th birthday. If I lived in a red state when I was a teen, I would have just made sure I went to college in a blue state and waited to have sex till I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:19 AM
1

It's not curious at all as pregnancy can be disabling. Do you support men being drafted for war?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:12 AM
2

some anti abortion guy who made them all up that admitted to it when he got older. Not sure what you're talking about, the stats I'm referring to are from the World Health Organization. They are the ones reporting that 30,000 women die per annum from non-doctor-supervised abortions. And it's a fact that suicide rates went up in teen girls who could not get abortions in El Salvador: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-el-salvador-suicide-teens-idUSKCN0IW1YI20141112, so the WHO rate does not accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:10 AM
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I'm trying to say that it's nonsense that America is the most prosperous nation in the world. It has the most billionaires in it. That doesn't speak to the reality of poor people, as any third-world country isn't defined by the quality of life of their rich. America being a third-world country will also now see the disparity in life expectancy outcomes that already exists growing as women who die from botched abortions and suicide (when El Salvador passed anti-abortion laws more teen girls kille…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:01 AM
0

Because there are plenty of women who support feminist groups and identify as feminists based on this issue alone. I know several. I even know women who only vote for leftist parties despite hating like every other policy they make solely based on the fact that they will protect women's bodily autonomy, and the conservative party has social conservatives in it. In other words, I say this because of my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:00 AM
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Poor women can't afford that, so right-wing states will become even bigger shitholes as their rich women have all the abortions they want and their section 8 housing gets more populated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:58 AM
1

The other way was rent control and that got passed in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:56 AM
4

I've been in a monogamous relationship and haven't had sex with anyone other than my partner for seven years. All it's really done is make me understand that America can't really be compared to other western nations. It's a third-world one. The metrics have been pointing that way for a long while, and now they have adopted the laws of the third world as well, so it's indisputable. I am hoping it leads to a brain drain of bright and promising young women emigrating to other countries, including m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:54 AM
1

Perhaps it would make more sense for there to be a separate movement specifically for women's bodily autonomy? That movement is called feminism. Again, when feminist groups are not the literally only groups taking donor money and fighting for women's bodily autonomy, then I will identify with those other groups. As of right now, the only groups doing that both voluntarily and paid, are feminist groups like Planned Parenthood. You say you support, but you're not putting your money where your mout…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:50 AM
2

Sure, no problem: https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2021/12/no-kids-no-care-childlessness-among-older-americans.html, specifically: https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/stories/2021/12/no-kids-no-care-childlessness-among-older-americans-figure-1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:48 AM
1

Actually no. Statistically 50k women die of backalley abortions per year per the World Health Organization. Women all over the world still get abortions whether it's legal or not, it's just that more women die when it's not legal, both from botched ones and suicide, skewing the reproductive-age sex ratio more male. India is a good example. A higher maternal mortality rate is indicative of third-world country status. America already had a higher rate than the rest of the west. It just makes it ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:43 AM
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Poor Americans have lower life expectancies than poor people in Costa Rica. America doesn't give a crap about the poor, doesn't even give them healthcare. Costa Rica at least does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:40 AM
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A blue state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:38 AM
1

Why not just stay in your own third-world country? No need to move to a shithole high-obesity state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:37 AM
1

No problem: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ajhb.20497
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:33 AM
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Women who had kids live longer. That is not true in Hungary and a 2006 study published in the American Journal of Human Biology tracked 116 years of births–from 1886 to 2002–in four regions of Poland and found that women lost 95 weeks of life for each child they carried. Childless women in the US over the age of 55 also report much lower disability rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:29 AM
1

Some of the women fighting to terminate are crying after the abortion too. Statistically, 5% of women regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:24 AM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:23 AM
0

Feminism is the only movement that is protecting women's rights to bodily autonomy, and that's exactly why it's not going anywhere, ever. There are many women who don't necessarily care about the wage gap or many issues that vocal feminists promote, but will still support feminism at the end of the day because they are the only group of people fighting for our rights to our own bodies since day 1 and still do this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:21 AM
3

No offense but you literally have no idea what you're talking about. Third-wave feminists are liberal feminists. They are sex positive. It is fourth wave feminists who are largely the opposite, they are against porn.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:56 PM
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My life isn't in shambles. I just don't want children. I don't think that would make me happy or benefit me in any way. What is so batshit crazy about my body, my choice?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:53 PM
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Well, what do you call a nihilist feminist? Because that's what I identify as. I don't think there will ever be an end to misogyny and it's pointless to try. I don't believe that motherhood will ever be fair or a good deal for women. I just want to be left alone and free to opt out of the whole damn thing. And pronatalist right-wing scumbags can't even give us that. That's where radical feminism comes from. We don't want to change society, we understand that we are defeated. We just want to be l…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:00 PM
1

Advertising is it unprosecuted. It's literally why Now magazine has outlasted all the other free weeklies, they accept ads from sex workers and publish in the back page.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 05:57 AM
2

You don't have to be extroverted but most people like others with a similar sense of humour and similar interests to them. If they can't really gauge your sense of humour because it's always receptive and you just let other people make the jokes and laugh at them, or they can't really gauge your interests because you won't self-disclose unless asked a direct question about yourself, well, put it this way: the kind of girl like that is also waiting to be asked questions and spoken to, to speak. I…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 02:23 PM
2

My bro-in-law is a tattoo artist and prefers to date tattooed chicks, the type that turns him on are the SuicideGirls type, no matter how often they have turned out to be BPD psycho chicks he still wants to date them. It's not projection, it's a legitimate fact that like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:59 PM
2

I mean, my man was attracted to the masculine characteristics about me, namely that I like to listen to punk music and would go with him to concerts where he could get in the pit. He also thinks it's funny when women swear. Another guy I know popped the question to a woman who was as big a UFC fan as he is. She is a Canadian country singer, which is to say she is very conventionally attractive. IME, men want women who look very feminine but act like dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:58 PM
1

It means you're willing to talk about your hardships and your fears and the things that have hurt you in your childhood or past. Getting to the root emotion underneath anger. And also being open about your hopes and dreams for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:54 PM
1

Chemical castration or therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:53 PM
2

Yes, once, when I was 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:51 PM
2

He makes some fair points but his conclusions are wanting. They seem to be "it's pointless/hopeless," rather than "you'll have some more challenges to face, so be aware of it, it's not fair, but try not to internalize the rejection." Everything he talks about was already covered by intersectionalism, without the nihilism. The world just doesn't need the blackpill. It's literally got no purpose.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 06:12 PM
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I mean, there are several men on r/exredpill who beg to differ and who would tell you that joining the cult ruined their relationships and marriages and are struggling to get deradicalized. A man falling prey to that level of misogyny probably didn't come to it overnight. Many of them fall prey to the red pill to affirm that it was their "masculine right to sexual novelty" to cheat on their families, and it's the woman's fault their marriage fell apart when they threw in that grenade because she…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:30 PM
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From your description, you have higher smv than average men. Your problem is your personality and the fact that you waste too much time online doing the wrong things (e.g. watching stupid redpill videos instead of joining friending/community FB groups or Meetups). As per usual with blackpill men, you have an almost shocking degree of lack of self-awareness and an extremely deep-seated victim complex.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 02:43 PM
1

As an average woman, the overwhelming majority of my relationships with average men were unfulfilling. What's wrong with a woman being single and saving herself grief?
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:05 PM
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I mean, it's a great way to end up divorced, which is why the red pill advises against marriage in the first place. They know that TRP men always end up divorced, no woman wants that forever and will either leave for a better man or just for peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:13 AM
2

No I would not date a male parent. And until I was last single at age 29, I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:37 PM
2

No I would not date a male parent. And until I was last single at age 29, I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:37 PM
1

No I would not date a male parent. And until I was last single at age 29, I never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:37 PM
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My bf was very skinny and didn't make a ton of money when we met. I didn't think of him as a "low value man." His personality was perfectly compatible with mine. And how hypocritical would it have been to judge his income at a moment when I happened to be unemployed? Anyway, as it turns out, seven years later and as we approach middle age, he doesn't seem to be struggling with weight gain so many of us do at this age, he's just getting to where most people start out in their early 20s as far as …
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 10:57 PM
2

I am friends with a man in a long-term dead bedroom relationship and he refuses to leave her. All of us are encouraging it because we see sex as a fundamental need and how can he be expected to remain basically celibate for the rest of his life? But he absolutely refuses. Which is just to say, I don't think sex is the main thing that ails a lot of these men. I think it is intimacy that they want. But many many men (and I don't mean to be critical here, because I believe you are on the right trac…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 05:03 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you. Narcissistic abuse can be an enduring trauma. One good sign that you'll be able to recover from it is that you recognize that this is what happened to you. I do tend to hope that karma gets them and that narcs get their comeuppance in the end. It's all we can do.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 12:24 PM
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It depends on the woman? For me when I was last dating (early 2015) I was asking guys I right-swiped on some dealbreaker questions. I'm throwing in the "preference/nice to have" questions I asked my bf for good measure: Do you smoke? Do you have kids? What's your favourite type of music? How tall are you? (he's 5'8") Do you 4/20? If so, how often? (this was a trick question, I was trying to weed out stoners) Do you like going to concerts? Do you like horror movies? Where do you see yourself livi…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 05:39 PM
1

I can see why he's an ex. Sometimes that's all you can do with certain men.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:51 PM
1

Then they don't need hate pill forums to whine about how they're oppressed by women not doing everything they think they're entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:36 PM
2

Optics matter. Spergs don't get optics by nature, that's why they're right-wing. It's for people who both hate and want to control women, and who have no innate social skills. Of course incels gravitate towards the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:22 PM
1

Depends on the relationship. I've definitely been in relationships that were not worth it. At all. Current relationship is definitely worth it. If I told you how many tries it took to get here and how much failure before the win, you'd probably give up and not even bother.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 12:51 PM
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Will you leave your wife if a younger, hotter woman shows interest in a relationship with you? It's a hell of a lot more common than the scenario you're talking about. I sometimes think that the basis of redpill philosophy is projection. Redpill men are projecting with all this crap because they know how untrustworthy they are and how little it would take for them to bail and leave for someone else. I mean, they're constantly talking about and fetishizing barely-legal women. No way they'd stay l…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 12:49 PM
0

There is literally no point. You are in a hate group. These are men who actively hate women and blame them for all the ills of the world. Your olive branch is kind of lol if I'm honest.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 02:06 PM
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You know you can definitely do better than a red pill loser, right? Literally a man with a pulse and two brain cells to rub together would be an upgrade, lmao. I just feel sorry for you. I hope you don't have kids with this total loser.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 08:42 AM
5

Actually, it's the hedonic treadmill, but this is a great post. Yes, the great challenge in life is just to be content with where you are and what you have.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 08:38 AM
1

It's not a weird assumption, statistically those relationships are far likelier to break up. It's a fair assumption to make that if you pursue this type of relationship, you are more likely to be single in midlife or later life. Though of course not everyone is pursuing stability or longevity.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 02:16 PM
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Do you not think your tendency to date women so much younger is why you are still single at your age?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 11:22 AM
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I would have to assume when they have daddy issues/no father figure in their life.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 09:53 AM
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I think there's obviously some pragmatic steps missing in that rhetoric. Yes, you should work on yourself. You should also be proactive about getting out there, join meetup groups that suit your interests, activities, go to street festivals and events where you live, try and be friendly and open as people are drawn to those with a happy and open disposition and who are having a good time, if you like to cook join cooking classes, if you like to work out consider joining yoga or Pilates classes, …
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 05:34 PM
2

Wow! That is a really inspirational and unexpected ending.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 05:26 PM
1

The other woman on this thread had no problem with the interpretation. Don't know what to tell you. You can consider that perhaps your perspective on the topic of childrearing is colouring the way you read the initial comment.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 10:31 PM
1

I am and I said what I intended to say. I sought a man who was hostile/averse to the idea of raising children. The opposite of wanting to bond with children, which Smith is insisting women who sought a life partner must all want.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 08:45 PM
1

It's called not wanting children. I am aware that tradcon men cannot conceive of such women existing lmao. If you are a woman who never wants children, then a man saying he loves and wants them and is good with them, is the threat.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 06:29 PM
6

The fact that it invites and justifies misandry and makes women hate men.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 01:26 PM
4

Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. No individual woman is going to stop the existence of escorts, and a lot of men who cheat pay for it. It would be a lot more easier for women to simply stop commiting to men altogether, giving them children and getting into monogamous relationships then it would be for women to stop prostitution. So I guess the women who refuse to settle down ever must have the right idea since their way is easier than controlling every other woman in the world…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 01:24 PM
3

You need controls. Is there some sort of proof that couples having children quickly are immune to sexual habituation and do not ever transition from the serotonin-infused second stage to the oxytocin-infused attachment/third stage, or that men don't undergo the same transition? Where is the evidence?
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 01:20 PM
2

I specifically had a preference for men who were hostile to children. My relationship would not face survived seven years otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/22 01:17 PM
1

Um. Well the thing is, I don't think it was ever really his objective to rack up partners. He was just trying to connect and find someone to share his life with. Lol come on, did you really just use the term "chad" unironically?? Dude!! So cringe 😫
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 09:05 PM
1

Yeah for me it was 18, for him younger but he wasn't really sexually active in a consistent way until 21-22. I believe him because the true number didn't come out until last year totally unprompted. When we first started dating he claimed it was around 30, probably so as not to look like a player! He knew I was concerned about his lack of long-term relationship experience (before me, his longest relationship had been 6 months, which I found concerning since we were both 29). I had had several lo…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 08:16 PM
2

Yeah I mostly would sleep with guys I liked inside of 5 dates and then see how the chips fell after. Here's an example: a guy I liked told me on our brunch date the morning after that he was planning on being a nomad and backpacking around Europe for a few years, within the next 2. I liked him and would probably have kept seeing him if not for that fact. After that I lost interest in pursuing things romantically because I didn't see a point. For the record, he did live abroad for five years and …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 06:35 PM
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That sub is dominated by angry red pill men and incels. The number of dudes who post there in good faith is very low. They exist, but they're like 10%.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:32 PM
2

My bf and I are both high N (he had 40 partners and I had 27, when we met at age 29). We have been together 7 years and I can't say I have any regrets if I am honest. Maybe I would if I hadn't ended up with the right person and had ended up a cat lady or something lmao. But parting ways with guys who treated me poorly or were fundamentally incompatible and saying "c'est la vie, onto the next one!" until I found the right one was kind of the whole point tbh.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:25 PM
1

I mean, I don't know if there's any evidence for that? It seems intuitively true that a woman with more partners or who is more modern would be more sexually adventurous, but at the same time, it implicitly implies that a "traditionalist" woman would be prudish with her partner, when that is not necessarily the case. She could be the wildest of all, but just with her one partner. I just don't like stereotypes about women so I do tend to be a bit knee-jerk about them, if I'm honest.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 05:06 PM
2

"You can have all types of kinky sex, because she has been expose to that lifestyle." What? Are you implying that a modern woman can't have sexual preferences of her own? I've had plenty of sex (I'm talking about the number of sexual partners) and I haven't "tried everything." I've never had a threesome or anal sex, and if a guy just expected those things from me and didn't respect my preferences I'd tell him to hit the road. He'd quickly become just another n.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/22 04:55 PM
2

You want kids? Whatever for? I think if you're thinking about not dating anyway that you should spend some time on r/FemaleAntinatalism. There isn't a whole lot about having kids, especially as a single mom, that is great for women.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 11:44 AM
2

This is beautiful and idealistic but it doesn't work. When red pill men are reassured by women that they like men of all types with specific examples, they are called lying virtue-signalling wh_res. These men are toxic and they will not be persuaded by reason, especially reasonable women.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 12:35 PM
1

dead Imagine thinking the place in the western world with the highest rate of AIDS is the best place on earth 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:08 PM
1

I don't think that's normal 😳 at least it's not for American couples: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/happy-singlehood/202201/which-people-have-the-most-sex%3famp And "Canadians between the ages of 46 and 60 typically have sex about 1.35 times a week." https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.4148664 Canadians are mostly married at those ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:05 PM
-1

I mean, then it's fair imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:41 PM
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No, you're not. But it would also depend. Like, why did she gain that much weight and is she being treated for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:40 PM
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I'm not saying I disagree because I don't, just pointing out that giving birth to babies is not acting like a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:39 PM
1

Wtffff? Where did you read this? I'm genuinely shocked. How can this be when couples report sexual frequency of 1 or 2 times a week on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:38 PM
3

It's much better to risk becoming a spinster than to risk becoming a single mom. One of these groups of women is much likelier to be living in social housing at age 50 than the other. Trust me: you don't want to baby-trap any man you're not married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:36 PM
2

Ewww, giving a man babies 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:31 PM
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I know it's legal in Germany and the infidelity rates are higher there for both genders. This makes sense to me. I think women will just assume their husbands are cheating so not think twice to cheat too. More open marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:25 PM
3

What do you think about your community lets you feel safe? Strict gun laws and very left-wing men. On Saturday a friend of mine was passed out at a party and a drunk dude started touching her inner thigh, which - HELLO, RAPE CULTURE - and another dude at the party immediately started screaming at him that you don't EVER touch a girl who is passed out and was ready to get into a physical altercation with him. So that's an example of what I mean. In my mid 20s I was living in this area nicknamed "…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:17 PM
2

Ill-tempered, gets angry easily. Yells. Breaks things or throws punches when angry (including punching walls). Thinks that the way to keep a woman interested is to treat her with indifference or condescension. In other words, like shit. Afraid of intimacy, thinks it's "not masculine" to show any vulnerability with a long-term partner. Endorses promiscuity and treating people like disposable goods, but only for men. Calls women who do the same thing disparaging names. Calls women who've had this …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:03 PM
7

It's because most men, until they start going bald, don't want relationships, what they want is casual sex with lots of Staceys for free. If they don't get this, they are mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:50 PM
0

Strong and compelling argument. 🤔 Shouldn't be the only way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:49 PM
1

A grey starburst?! Good lord, that is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:26 PM
1

He's leading with his worst picture. Why? Why? Why do men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:16 PM
3

"I think, therefore I am."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:11 PM
0

😂🤣 you kill me, William Wyatt. Don't ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:11 PM
7

Monogamy was the only option for women** not for men. Men routinely cheated on their wives and had no honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:10 PM
7

You can sacrifice all the freedom you want to. That's all you, dawg. I on the other hand didn't ask to be born and I don't owe society or anyone more of me. Other than paying my taxes I don't owe anyone shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:08 PM
2

Why do yellow Starbursts even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:58 PM
0

He looks like that dude who just murdered that blonde Instagrammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:46 PM
3

That's blowjob week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:10 PM
1

Disagree. Skinny men are way hotter than chubby ones, imo. But women are not a monolith, some like chubby guys, as long as they're tall. There's going to be a niche of women for you no matter what type you are, as a man. Okay, maybe not if you're obese, but anything other than that there is some woman who will find it attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:09 PM
2

Welcome back, good sir. Hat-tipping intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:48 PM
3

I personally feel safe in my community and in my workplace. But I also live and work in what are statistically very safe communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:43 PM
2

I'm a 6 now, but was a 7 when I was 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:31 PM
0

Happy cake day 🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:04 AM
6

They're exactly right. Not having a Stacy on demand to touch your penis until you start going bald, at which point you'd like to order up a virgin to marry, is not oppression. And that covers 90% of men's complaints these days. They devote the other 10% to late-stage capitalism and the decline of unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:56 AM
1

https://youtu.be/oDR75d4kRws Just lit things 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:49 AM
1

I assure you, when we say the only standards men seem to have are double standards, we definitely have regular men, the type to whine on reddit, in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:46 AM
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No there were multiple studies, the one with the cording error was the one that found the smaller disparity. The one with the six times greater difference was not in dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:43 AM
1

It's the left that has fallen down the stairs and bonked it's head into crazy radicalization in the last 10 years. Yeah, this guy was willing to give up a lucrative job and risk homelessness over the vaccine so I'm gonna have to disagree with you on that one my friend. That's not how it works here in Canada anyway. The right-wingers are definitely the crazy ones, religious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:41 AM
0

You know that crazy ass right wingers do this too, right? Had a friend of 9 years stop talking to me over a comment made on a news article on Instagram. The hypocrite was one of those "but muh fee speech" guys too. 🙄 Like all conservative males in Canada, he had two necks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:50 AM
2

Nuclear level trolling. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:45 AM
1

You started it two days ago when you insulted my friends, and then again today when you insulted me. Quit whining like a little bitch and accept the consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:19 AM
3

I guess this is the kind of stuff that happens when half of your voters are on heroin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:46 AM
1

From the guy who started out with insulting me first literally unprompted? And you are indeed petty and catty, and if a girl has low enough self-esteem to be your girlfriend, she is most likely a landwhale 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:44 AM
6

I work 9-5 with a 1-hour lunch, that's how. Life on easy mode. Someone being a dick to me on ppd or watching the last episode of Midnight Mass is sometimes the most stressful part of my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:28 AM
1

And the "he won nothing" violates subreddit rules. Or as Mrs_Drgree would say, "be civil." But I get that you're petty and single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:22 AM
1

Damn. I don't know why she couldn't just take the firing with dignity and had to sue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:21 AM
1

My bf is extremely affectionate, physically and verbally. He's also very empathetic, and I think that's why he's always willing to help me and he does his part with the chores and stuff, I think it just stems from empathy and wanting to make things a little easier and make my day a little better. He's also got a silly and goofy sense of humour and he always makes me laugh, it's hard to describe it's just certain things he does and certain hilarious and adorable facial expressions. I just love hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:21 PM
0

I mean, just as a start, he has the ugliest nose I've ever seen on someone who wasn't the witch in The Wizard of Oz. How is that average? Most people's faces are fairly proportional and don't have one feature that is over half of their face. He is below-average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:17 PM
0

You mean that debate where one woman didn't even comment, she just said to say he's ugly is racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:10 PM
0

Wheat Waffles is blackpill, not redpill. It's good that you are realistic about your expectations and I generally think you have a good grasp on the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:05 PM
4

Rofl She is not below him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:04 PM
1

This might be the jam for your love story: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7BGJAMWb3X0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:56 PM
1

What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:52 PM
1

Says the d___ who's never met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:02 PM
2

Good luck, sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:51 PM
1

He is also childfree, dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:50 PM
0

Study finds millennials were always based: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/how-i-shapes-we/202203/do-you-really-need-partner-be-happy ​ Edit: I think this is slightly more a study of Gen Z than millennials. Why do social scientists not realize that Gen Z exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:48 PM
1

I mean, I won him, so I think I was being realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:45 PM
2

Are you of the belief that there is a universal shoe that will look good on everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:44 PM
2

I'm not going to say anything. You will already know what I am thinking. I'm just going to leave this here: https://nypost.com/2022/03/08/male-podcasters-say-high-earning-women-are-less-attractive/ Ladies, have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:42 PM
1

The kind that fits the person's face?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:39 PM
2

Oh, you don't want to try the TV version of opioids, you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:37 PM
0

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:37 PM
2

What if you're a woman competing against only like 20 other women for a guy? Then you're not a chad-chaser right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:22 PM
2

Academic analysis of why America is addicted to Love Is Blind: https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2022/03/love-is-blind-unsettling-relatable/626567/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:20 PM
1

No, she is CF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:42 PM
1

Well he recently went on a date with a girl I went to high school with who is divorced, most likely over the kid issue because she didn't want 'em, so hopefully that goes well. She's really good-looking too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:16 PM
6

Forever trying to baby-trap women. By hook or by crook.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:12 PM
2

That's my guy friend he is in his 30s and still sleeping with several different women every year because they all seem to want kids with him. All he wants is one nice girl who doesn't want kids that he can keep. It's hard out there for cf people of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:09 PM
0

No, took me awhile to find a cf guy. It didn't happen right away that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:02 PM
3

Nope. Fetus can't feel shit. I'd hit eject.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:01 PM
1

She mentioned once that he was going to be taking some medication soon, so maybe she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:38 PM
1

who blasted music I hated and I couldn't imagine living with them and them playing that when i'm trying to relax. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:38 PM
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Not really sure tbh. I mean, the bottom half of girls are generally dealing with abusive men who do things like choke them without asking during sex. So I think in some ways it can be worse. At least ugly men can buy a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:37 PM
2

My man and his bestie claim they aren't into it, but whenever I bring it up and ask if they want me to read them stuff, their ears always perk up and they always say yes. I think straight men think it's taboo for them to be interested in it, but they are and they want women to tell them about it, so it's a passive learning instead of an actively-pursued interest. They get plausible deniability that way ("well, my girlfriend told me my rising sign, so that's why I know.")
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:35 PM
1

A 40 year old who smokes and generally doesn't take care of herself? She works out a lot actually. She is just apple-shaped it's genetic. And her face looks younger than it should, fat people do tend to have good skin it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:32 PM
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I'm a mix of bluepill, blackpill, and pinkpill. I feel sorry for the bottom half of men to a degree, but I feel even more sorry for women naive enough to give men kids. I think we should aspire to be better - loyal, honest, fair - but recognize that we will fail as a collective. People are shallow and selfish. Mostly I think humans were a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:27 PM
1

This is a good question. I've just said nothing when she's just told me she's still seriously thinking about leaving him recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:13 PM
1

Q4ALL: I have a friend who has a boyfriend who is wonderful and they live together and we all like him. But apparently he struggles with depression. He gained 100 lbs over the pandemic. Now she wants to leave him (has been thinking about it for awhile). She herself is almost 40 and not the best-looking girl, she has a very large stomach and comparatively skinny legs and she smokes. Her face is pretty cute, though. Her reasoning is that her own mental health is fragile and he's just going to brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:06 PM
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I don't disagree, but nothing you've said isn't covered by Wheat Waffles' acronym SUBFIVE. Bottom 50% are more or less f__ked, unless they somehow settle for each other, which is less and less common because they have less and less IN common. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:03 PM
1

5/10. He's a Spongebob Squarehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:52 PM
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This is false. Cameron is chad. Also, there were quite a few fat women in the initial stages. It's just that none of them could find a match based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:51 PM
0

🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:55 PM
1

Well, it's not going to lose you any friends either. I think this is totally reasonable and feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:51 PM
2

I posted elsewhere on this thread but basically are you a parent, do you smoke cigarettes, how tall are you (5'6" or higher were acceptable answers), are you looking for a relationship a hookup fwb or what, do you love 4/20, when you picture yourself in five years what's the landscape/where are you living, and what is your favourite type of music (rap or country were out).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:50 PM
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My guy friend, a childfree egalitarian who slays, feels a bit sorry for men who feel the need to act alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:36 PM
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You can complain about women on apps all you want to. But you're only doing it because you don't meet their standards. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:03 PM
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I'm not doing anything on apps, I left with my man seven years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:01 PM
2

I mean, it was 10 years ago, so whatever that is adjusted for inflation, but yeah. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:55 PM
9

Please. Men can't even "go their own way" without making the entire movement about women and how much they despise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:24 PM
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People can do what they want, but the one time I seriously dated a guy who asked to split the $27 bill for the first date, he turned out to be socially retarded and eventually turned physically abusive. The next time I was dating, I viewed it as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:04 PM
2

Is a 20-30 minute drive to your city of choice already countryside? That is suburbia, and I don't want to live there either. Aiming to rent for life? Not opposed. It's extremely common in Europe, and like them, we too have rent control where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:58 AM
2

How can we ensure confidentiality? Sounds like potential extortion 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:43 AM
4

I'm 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:36 AM
3

I don't feel like I've hit it yet, so maybe it will hit at 40. Or whenever I decide to stop doing 400 situps a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:29 AM
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Child support as an opt-in will never happen because the state does not want to excessively incentivize women to have abortions. Still, it's fun as a thought experiment. I, on the other hand, am fine with incentivizing women to have abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:26 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:37 AM
1

Come on dude I have a huge thread here I am not gonna repost all those arguments...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:32 AM
1

Ok. Well that's probably hindering you as well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:26 AM
1

So can I assume you have no social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:24 AM
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I would continue to be on birth control as I am now, and in the extremely unlikely situation that I ended up pregnant, I would go to a country where abortion is legal and pay for it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:24 AM
1

Well it just seems to me like you're eliminating one potential avenue to meet people for no good reason, but it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:13 AM
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I don't have casual sex I've been with the same guy for 7 years. But we already know what happens in places where there is no legal abortion, it's not like they're in short supply? You get a lot more female suicides: https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSKCN0IW1YI20141112, https://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/why-are-young-mothers-taking-their-own-lives-1.3533996. And then you also get more women dying of the back-alley illegal kind, septic infections and what…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:11 AM
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I'm sorry that's the case for you. But you're making the assumption that everyone who uses the apps is struggling in other contexts just because that's your situation. To be blunt: not everyone is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:03 AM
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Struggling to find the right boyfriend and to find a boyfriend are not the same thing. In my 20s I had had a relationship that was 1.5 years, 3.5 years, and then had recently gotten out of a relationship with a guy who I'd been with for 2 years when I met my current boyfriend. The first guy I met on POF, the next I met at a club, the next I met at a mutual acquaintance's party, and the last LTR I got into, which I've been in ever since, was from tinder. The two guys in the middle were good-looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:52 AM
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But as someone who has very specific requirements, one of which is not ever having children, you need a large pool, you're not everyone's cup of tea and vice-versa. Most people I meet are very nice, but that doesn't mean I'd be able to live with them for the next 50 years of my life. And sorry, I confused you with the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:43 AM
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You asked if I was ugly I assumed that's the question you wanted answered, so I answered it. If you're asking why someone would use online dating, isn't it obvious? Why wouldn't they? You're looking to find a compatible match, your chances of finding a compatible match are best when you're exposed to more people. No offense, but I mean duh. Seems like there's a lot of autism in this forum. It's also pretty efficient because you can find out whether you have serious points of incompatibility and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:23 AM
2

Right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:16 AM
2

I was in two music videos last year. My answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:10 AM
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Every person I know has dated on the apps. It's not weird it's just another way to meet people. Maybe it's different where you live, I dunno. But here it's just normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:03 AM
2

My brain just registers that as a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:52 PM
1

That's nothing! I had that middle aged male mod write "no invalidating" to me on a CMV 😂🤣 dead Imagine being that transparently salty before banning someone? Lmaoooo Well, I reposted the topic so his attempt to hide that women are settling when they accept a greyballs ultimately did not succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:50 PM
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The women at 28 are statistically less likely to end up divorced. This is especially true if they're marrying men their own age. They're far less unhappy than the ones who married the men you claimed would be interchangeable, never experience any growth, and would be "exactly like" another guy. Lol it's funny, I've never heard a woman describe her man that way. You must think pretty little of men! That being the case, please join my page I think you'll fit right in with some of our more extreme …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:17 PM
1

They don't get a man who loves them you say, but would any man? I mean, according to you, men are interchangeable NPCs, you can pick just about any one at age 21 and they never change, grow or mature. So what difference does it make if you met them at 21 or 28? The outcome would be the same, by your logic, because married men don't really love their wives who they voluntarily asked to marry them, they were just going through the motions of pledging lifelong devotion so they could use them for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:06 PM
1

What solution? There is no solution needed. Most women are getting exactly what they want in the end. Women who end up with men their own age who they're attracted to are not settling. Sorry about your sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:27 PM
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Who said I struggled irl? And finding a guy who doesn't love 4/20 is not easy in my city almost every guy in his 20s is a stoner. There are cannabis shops on every corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:29 PM
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Not sure I remember them all but I know some of them were no smoking, no being shorter than 5'6" because I'm 5'6", no "loves 4/20," no having kids, no seeing themselves living in the countryside five years from now, no looking for just hookups and no listing rap or country as their favourite genre of music. My boyfriend met all requirements so I asked him if he liked horror movies as a bonus and he passed that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:06 PM
4

You're entitled to your opinion. Men will always judge every single thing a woman does negatively regardless so their overall opinion ends up being pretty worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:02 PM
1

In money, yes. In looks, definitely not. And no need for the victim card. We all know Clooney was the one who ruined that marriage. She has been remarried for over 20 years. If there's anyone commitment means nothing to, it's the deadbeat gender lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:15 PM
3

Yes. Every guy I matched with I would ask five deal-breaker questions and unmatch a guy immediately if he had any of them. Zero exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:03 PM
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I met my bf on tinder 7 years ago. So to me, tinder was a goldmine. In general, all the guys I met online were way better than the ones I met in person or at a mutual friend's party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:58 PM
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I mean, "prince" has a lot of cachet, it's true. But in both women's cases they were just kind of no-name actors. I'm going purely off of Talia's ability to lock down a total fox who was rich AND three years younger than her even at age 37 and divorced. Mind you, neither woman had completely decimated their rmv giving some loser kids by those ages. It really is a tough call.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:00 PM
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And the award for Best Hypergamy goes to.. TALIA BALSAM!! Married George Clooney at age 29 and John Slattery from Mad Men at age 38. applause Bravo.. so well-done it brings a tear to my eye. Hands her the gold-plated vagina trophy Runner-up goes to Meghan Markle for "celebrity chef? I can do better than that."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:49 PM
2

So women with boyfriends are shallow women per OP, but women who are single "look bad." So in other words, women should just not give a flying fuck what men think of them since they can never win and some man will always be judging them and talking out of his ass with his worthless opinion regardless of what she decides to do. Couldn't agree more!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:26 PM
1

Suuure it is. Tell me you've never been the one to end a relationship without telling me you've never been the one to end a relationship. Men are complaining that women in their late 20s and up have insanely high standards, but TRP says they're all settling for their men? By this logic, Fergie must have "settled" with Josh Duhamel and Rita Wilson's exes were better than Tom Hanks because both women met their husbands in their late 20s. Thor, Chris Hemsworth's wife, was in her 30s when they met s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:58 PM
1

Why don't you look at the fate of 4chan. It's definitely a risk of total company annihilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:22 PM
1

First of all, if a woman is dating someone else at the time, it's a bad thing if she doesn't immediately recognize another guy's husband potential and dump the guy she is dating for another guy? So now women aren't hypergamous enough? Also, what? "Someone exactly like him"? The premise of your argument has now shifted to "men are interchangeable NPCs." Again, not very convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:16 PM
2

Yep. I suspect my man had a hoe phase for a few reasons: His n is 40 I used to wish we'd met earlier and life and he would disagree. Coincidentally, he's not insanely bitter with women like the 'cels are. It's a definite incel tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:09 PM
-1

I think you don't see them much because they already got mostly bred out 😬😬😬💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:04 PM
-1

by majority both dark men and women prefer each other or atleast here in the UK. Is this because the black people you know are primarily African? I read years ago that Caribbean blacks in the UK would disappear within a few generations without more immigration of them because they partner with white people at such high rates. But Africans there have much lower rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:52 AM
7

He's one of those tech bros who we're told are victims of feminism if women don't fall at their feet despite their shitty and abrasive personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:46 AM
1

You agreed with the guy who said "most women today have done this on OLD." He was talking about women in general, and you agreed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:43 AM
0

If a woman is single she sucks but don't forget that if she's never single because she's looking for love that makes her a "shallow woman." Women can never win with men. The catladies and lesbians are the only ones winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:39 AM
1

I suspect my man had a hoe phase for a few reasons: His n is 40 I used to wish we'd met earlier and life and he would disagree. Coincidentally, he's not insanely bitter with women like the 'cels are. It's a definite incel tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:34 AM
2

How do you figure when even in the US which has the highest single motherhood rate the number of kids being raised by 2 parents is still 70%? It's objectively not "most women,' dude. But, maybe you live in the trailer park or the hood, like I dunno?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:32 AM
1

How can a woman 'get with' a man she has not yet met? If this is the entirety of the red pill argument then I'm sorry to say but it has already been decimated, with citations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:27 AM
1

Yikes. What on earth are you talking about? Therapy, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:26 AM
1

That's just your opinion dude. To say that a woman deciding not to have kids automatically means hating men is just you being whiny and not very manly sorry to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:24 AM
4

LOL I'm sorry I don't mean to laugh, it's just that it makes for a funny almost-haiku.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:22 AM
1

cackles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:19 AM
1

In absolute numbers that stat would actually be substantially less than the age gap numbers. When that study was posted it was an increase to 3% total, within the subsequent year after job loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:06 AM
1

Like, as if none of this was just situational. It was all some big patriarchal conspiracy to subjugate the young naive virgins and turn them into baby making punching bags. It's not situational when the men today is harkening back to it longingly! You know, what this post is actually about? You're saying you have nothing to do with how shit men treated women in the past when they had total mastery and domain over them. Okay, fair enough. But when you're literally longing for the same fucking sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:41 AM
1

Why is a young woman perceived to be naive and being taken advantage by some guy who's just as young and naive as she is? First of all, women's lib has led to smaller age gap between couples overtime, (source 2: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2021/10/19/politics/harry-enten-podcast-margins-of-error-age-gaps-in-marriage/index.html), so back in the day it was less likely that the guy was "just as young and naive as she" was. So why? How about we talk about statistical fact? The stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:56 AM
2

The evidence points to yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:23 PM
1

Relationship market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:20 PM
5

No, women just have a voice now to talk about domestic violence and to counter the rampant misogyny that characterizes much of male culture and always has.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:18 PM
1

I know what you mean. It's meaningless without context. Like, if age gaps in excess of 6 years are only like 1 in 12 marriages but 1 in 5 divorces, then yeah that's really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:05 PM
1

I took issue with your dark statements regarding the intentions of low value men luring/tricking/leveraging some ostensibly poor innocent naive girl into a trap that's very difficult or virtually impossible to escape. Because that's exactly what it is. There is absolutely nothing within the current framework that prevents couples from forming permanent relationships and marriages and living happily ever after, if they're so inclined. Heck, I'm doing it myself. And that doesn't make us a trad cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:56 PM
3

No. Older women who are childless are the happiest group of women, actually. Men and women's interests are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:54 PM
2

LOVE your flair!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:51 PM
1

Hey, thanks for that list of my point made for me! Let's take The Proposal movie Sandra Bullock is playing a career woman who falls for her boss. In what way is the high-powered career woman a tradwife? Where does it say she gave up her job to stay home and raise 4 kids as a housewife? If you define "trad" as any relationship where the man and woman are together, then say that. But understand that what you are talking about is different from what literally everyone else here understands "trad" t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:17 PM
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I think we're talking passed each other/talking about two different things. Where in Disney movies or romantic comedies we grew up watching was it normal for the woman to stay home with no job having five kids while the man was the only earner? In actual fact, most rom-coms portrayed the pursuit of the romance, not the happily-ever-after, so I believe this is disingenuous. Men who are longing for "tradlife" are the ones saying that women working outside of the home is bad and that all women shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:52 PM
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Depends on the woman, same as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:33 PM
1

You can love your children and still feel if you could go back in time you would have never had them. It's a fairly common phenomenon. In the 1970s Ann Landers did an anonymous poll and 70% of the women responded just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:33 PM
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Wishful thinking and projecting your reality vs actual reality is claiming that women who marry men their own age whom they are actually attracted to are the ones who "fucked up" when they statistically have the much lower rates of divorce than those who marry with an age gap. That's some wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:23 PM
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I would also add to this that first marriages have the lowest risk of divorce. So the women who "fucked up" are those marrying older men the second, third time around, believing they can reform a man whose wife threw him out for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:14 PM
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I am refuting TRP concept of afbb or "the epiphany phase" as they describe it. TRP claims that all women in this age bracket are dating "beta bucks" men because they fear "the wall." I disagree and asking those who think they can to defend their view.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:53 PM
2

I live on the subway line and have two hardware stores within walking distance. Bonus: walking there is why we're less fat than suburbanites 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:42 PM
4

"Do you really think MOST women will choose the second guy?" Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:38 PM
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There's one problem with your theory: It's largely men with drug/drinking problems and who aren't all that socially calibrated that feel "there was a certain fairness" about things before. Women largely do not agree. at a certain point you just get tired of the fighting/game playing and want to go back to a cooperative dynamic It's largely romantically unsuccessful men who "want to go back" to this allegedly "cooperative dynamic." Women largely do not agree. You're overstating women's involvemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:32 PM
1

I say "give men children" to emphasize the fact that fathers are the only ones extracting any personal benefit from the experience of being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:27 PM
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Men who know deep down they don't have much to offer and would make poor partners for a mate long for leverage, for any woman they attract to not have the option to leave as easily as they can now, because essentially they're "stuck."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:18 PM
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Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:15 PM
1

Actually, former red pillers disagree and talk about being attacked, called simp and downvoted to shit when they dared to contradict or call into question anything that wasn't woman-hating when they were in the red pill cult. They also talk about how they got socially isolated because the red pill teaches the men in the cult that anyone who dares to disagree with their tropes (like "all sexual strategy is amoral" and that if a woman falls for a man who lied to them, it's because women want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:14 PM
1

What's a swerf?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:56 PM
1

I live close to downtown and can do the same. Plus, not have to look at ugly houses that literally all look the same and nothing but giant parking lots as far as the eye can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:55 PM
3

Where is the punchline? Don't quit your day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:55 PM
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R/exredpill I think you'll find that in the long run, being a member of a cult does not work for positive life outcomes. Straight from the horse's mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:52 PM
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And you JUST said I'm wrong and that I am: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t7yk6o/fundamentally_believing_grown_women_biologically/hzl8sca?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:48 PM
2

Yeah after that move and buying furniture my ass was broke af 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:47 PM
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I mean, we can't even get feminists to agree that circumcision is genital mutilation Um, what? Of course it is, don't be a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:45 PM
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The lease.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:44 PM
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When it exceeds their own is not a refutation of my point. They aren't marrying dumber. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:43 PM
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Yep! I cheated on a bf ten years ago. He was an angry asshole and I can't say I regret it. Thank god I didn't waste my mid-20s being faithful to that piece of crap instead of getting it in 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:41 PM
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So verifiable statements from men that you can search for yourself right here on PPD are "logical fallacies"? That's convenient. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:39 PM
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Except it's not? Lmfao. Why is it that Mark Manson is able to give dating and self-improvement advice without calling women teenagers and encouraging lying to them? I'm sure the millions of people who think calling women the oldest teenager in the house is sexist are the delusional ones and it's not that you're defending the cult you belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:37 PM
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And you would know this how? The radfems who want women to stop giving men children altogether (except maybe in Finland) are sadly a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:35 PM
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The men who told me to my face on Facebook when confronted with the statistical reality that non-doctor-assisted abortions result in the deaths of 22,000 women per year according to the World Health Organization that any whore who would have an abortion should die were not trying to control or punish women. It was all about tHe BayBeEz. The men right here on PPD's abortion megathread who outright state that they want abortion to be illegal for revenge and so "sluts have no choice but to become s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:34 PM
3

Yes, that's true. Even in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:29 PM
2

I have never seen a TRP male make a great comment and I've been here for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:25 PM
2

Sadly, I've encountered those that aren't and they had the gall to argue with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:24 PM
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If you don't have an issue with the sexism of the manosphere, then you shouldn't be whining like a baby about feminists. It's 2022 and there are still attacks on women's bodily autonomy because of the desire to control women. Feminist activist groups are still defending those rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:23 PM
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A cherry-picked single example is still more supporting evidence than you have with your retarded assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:18 PM
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More hamstering. Dude, you're part of a sexist group. Just own that shit. See my last comment to the suburban dad RP troll? That's how you take accountability. No hamstering required.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:16 PM
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Why would you object to that statement, Mr. "sexism isn't always bad"? And I'm not a feminist. I'm a radfem and female supremacist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:14 PM
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Let me guess: not bad when men do it, but is bad when women do it in self-defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:12 PM
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Feminism has made it very clear that we are to treat women like children without agency. Yes. When women fought to have coverature revoked so that they could purchase things like cars without their husbands' signature, that was them fighting to be treated like children without agency. Lmao enjoyed this revision of history my dude, was quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:10 PM
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"We aren't sexist, we're just 'holding women accountable!'" Dude, you're part of a sexist group. It is what it is. Why be mad because people know? Accountability is about owning your shit. But you're not owning your shit because you cry when people call you sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:06 PM
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It's the literal opposite for me. I dated a guy with a bad temper and I didn't even feel bad when I cheated on him. His impulse control issues were a serious turnoff and made me feel like he deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:02 PM
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No, he's been with her since he was 32 and she was 41. They've been together since 1994, remember? And I never said the wall doesn't exist. I said it doesn't apply to good-looking childless women. You're the one who claimed that any stories about women seriously dating younger guys are made up. Copium and denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:58 PM
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Few men care what the women they date/marry do for a living or what their social standing is. Gee, that must be why women with degrees are more likely to receive marriage proposals. Because of how much men don't care. 🙄 No, men care. They care about the woman's race and education and how she makes him look and the genetics she will be passing onto their kids. The only men who don't care are those who take what they can get because they have no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:57 PM
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The dude is 6'4". And he's also over 60 now. But it's irrelevant. You implied that I must be lying and it never happens. Which was copium, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:54 PM
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Lmao at this hamstering. "The sidebar explicitly states that she's the most responsible teenager in the room. Here is why that's not actually sexist."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:48 PM
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Red pill men are not going to care that they're sexist. Their sexism is a feature, not a bug. But as long as these sexist men exist in abundance, and they do, then assertions like, men are biologically built to have less impulse control which, ironically, is actually closer to being mentally a teenager, are morally neutral and fair play. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:45 PM
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That's false. Who men decide to bang and date seriously has nothing to do with looks. It has everything to do with social standing and background. George Clooney has much hotter exes than his wife. But for his wife, he wanted an international lawyer. Men aren't dating and dumping women for not being hot enough. They're choosing women to get serious with for 2 reasons: 1) their moms will approve. 2) they're getting older, losing their hair, and getting desperate/afraid of dying alone. It is a wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:41 PM
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Good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:32 PM
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This is some high-grade copium, my friend. "It can't be true. Please God, don't let it be true." The couple in 2017: https://postimg.cc/Cn0qVknY And as you can see, he's quite tall. Take your time, I know you need time to cry in a corner now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:30 PM
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I’m not well versed in this stuff yet. You should run while you still have time. It's a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:21 PM
1

Wtf? What kind of opioidhead logic is this? They're married. Your brain on red pill. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:21 PM
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He thinks women don't like him because he's not toxic. The red pill has already found this guy. This is your brain on TRP. Excuses and "women are like this" toxicity that turns women off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:18 PM
1

And because he's white and she's black, after all these years he's the one who looks older 😂🤣😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:16 PM
1

Yep! I was at the wedding in 2012. Denial is not just a river in Egypt. It's also a highway TRP men like to cruise 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:15 PM
1

Yes they did. People cannot be trusted with total domain over the lives of others. Before feminism, there was despotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:13 PM
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If this helps you feel better, by all means, believe that. My aunt has been with her 9 years younger man since 1994 and she was a single mom. Whether you want to believe it or not, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:08 PM
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That's just your opinion. In my opinion, TRP promotes hatred of women and I'm just defending them and their interests. It is after all TRP males who said as their excuse for manipulating and using women for sex that "sexual strategy is amoral." If it's amoral for men, it's amoral for women, too. Now now: don't be a hypocrite!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:05 PM
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I'm promoting women's interests. It just so happens that women's interests are to remain childfree unless the man is extremely rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:34 AM
1

It's a birthday trip? He knew her birthday. They've been dating since August last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:25 AM
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The party was lit! Found out my friend booked a 10-day trip with her bf and he needed to know her birthday/passport info for the booking, and that's when he found out she's 9 years older than he is. Childfree women out here smashing the wall, even the white ones 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:34 AM
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Fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:06 AM
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Anyone else partying later tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:22 AM
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https://youtu.be/5vxmsDqhqBI Video is weird but the song is a legit banger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:16 AM
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MONSTER!! 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:38 PM
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She really was 🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:10 PM
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Nathalie Emmanuel makes me feel bad about myself. And that's my gauge as a woman. That's how I know she is hot as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:09 PM
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Not a man but she is not pretty. She has manjaw and no upper lip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:08 PM
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Well they are a male-only space and they are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:07 PM
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😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:06 PM
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Men created the manosphere, did they not? They are responsible for their own propaganda as you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:45 PM
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You've described my boyfriend to a T, but he is not like the majority of guys. Most men call other men who are sweet and respectful and can truly empathize with women and express their feelings and even cry soyboys. So even they recognize that it's not normal or typical of men to be like that, or to really like women. Macho culture is really more the norm for men. I don't doubt that one or two subs could attract outliers, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:17 PM
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I think I have men figured out. They're not overly complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:07 PM
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I is doubt. How come male-only spaces always turn toxic and misogynistic if most guys are like this in the absence of women? That's "askmen" so it probably self-selects for virtue signalers who want to impress women for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:05 PM
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because my inference was about you and your friends Exactly why you deserved the snark. You don't know me and my friends so who are you to comment on them? You act like a dick and then act with indignation when you get dick energy back. In your case, small dick energy back is appropriate 🙃 Enjoy your barren womb. Thanks! I rather do. Maybe one day if you ever learn to be a good dude, you too will have female friends who speak highly of your character. I won't hold my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:01 PM
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I never thought of it that way but now I can't unsee it. Omg SO TRUE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:05 PM
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It's literally a joke from the campaign. They claimed she was playing the woman card so they mailed one to all their donors. He's literally the nicest guy. What are you? Who are you? And is there a woman alive who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:58 PM
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Lol what's that supposed to mean? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:04 PM
1

Well, he is hot too. Because of the bones in his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:04 PM
1

Well let me ask you a question. What do you think of Rahul Kohli? His background is 100% Pakistani and he's very attractive imo. Would you say he is white? London's mayor Sadiq Khan is also very good-looking, for a greyballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:36 PM
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It's not the skin colour that makes either of those men attractive. It's their facial features. Also, I'm the same skin colour as Avan Jogia. We are not white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:24 PM
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Zayn is hot as hell!! But why wouldn't he count as Pakistani?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:15 PM
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He's a really good guy. He's not my physical type at all but he's lovable and fun and kind and he can breakdance. He's the kind of guy who cares about structural racism I think the women here in Canada find him very endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:13 PM
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Hahahaha we seem to know very different smart men! I'm in the process of trying to convince my friend who lives close to downtown Brooklyn to emigrate here if he comes it'll be like The Hunger Games with the women here trying to get at his adorable, short, ginger ass 🤣😂 He literally keeps a "woman card" from being a donor to the Hillary Clinton campaign in his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:04 PM
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I can't lie, when you went down that list it sounded immediately familiar to me. 😮 But to be honest the smart men I've known from New York are not like this. They're a delight to know. Just lovely people. So maybe it's cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:01 PM
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🫂 I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:58 PM
2

I think obviously sexist men (they don't think they're obvious about it, but they are) are becoming incels and it's making them even more sexist in retaliation. Here's an article about the phenomenon: https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/02/23/south-koreas-presidential-race-puts-misogyny-in-spotlight/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:57 PM
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His jerking around makes me wonder if he's in the early stages of Parkinson's? But my bf thinks he has ADD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:36 PM
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the crazy eyed white guy. 🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:28 PM
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I mean, if pointing out that India is a country with one of the worst women's rights records in the world in a discussion about a guy of Indian descent who had no problem finding matches when he changed his profile to say that he was born in England is racist, sure. None of that has anything to do with looks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:52 PM
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First of all, I don't know where you live, but Indians are not considered Asians to people in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:50 PM
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Yep. Unless Staceys are lining up to date them, women are a problem. Those guys will never own their resentment, caring about their opinions as a woman is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:48 PM
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Well, you're entitled to your opinion. As a woman, I think he is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:45 PM
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Or how about because the guy is ugly? Avan Jogia is my celebrity crush, I've said this here multiple times. Keep playing the race card, whiner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:42 PM
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Abhishek 'Shake' Chatterjee. He's a vet and house DJ. And major asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:33 PM
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Watching Love Is Blind Season 2 reunion. Shake is so unlikable that it's hilarious. The ugliest dude there has the worst personality. Why doesn't this surprise me? 🙄😏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:14 PM
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TRP is all about making sure men end up single so that they keep watching the videos and donating to the Superchats. That is why they spout this stuff that ensures toxic relationships which are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:29 PM
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This was really sweet and made my morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:22 PM
1

So you mean most fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:19 PM
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No but they probably should be. The number of women giving men children who aren't getting paid high dollars for it is truly bewildering to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:19 PM
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These costs are covered by child support. At least the man's share of them. The literal meta-analysis says no they are not. But I understand, TRP is more akin to a religion than science in any meaningful sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:17 PM
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They will cheat anyway. Men like variety. Fathers will, yes. They tend to have no honour. What else would we do with our lives? Sorry about your lack of imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:14 PM
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Lol so moms do nothing. If moms are going to be called lazy with everything they do, might as well be childfree and actually be lazy. I've said it many times: being a mom is the definition of a thankless job. Thanks for proving my point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:11 PM
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Q4M: Are most men redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:13 AM
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Egads, best argument I ever saw for not waiting till your 30s to find a match 😳😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:58 AM
1

Yeah me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:45 AM
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It doesn't take long for them to go looking "somewhere else, they're not even holding out long enough for their wives to recover from being pregnant: "Certain developmental stages in a marriage, including pregnancy and the months following the birth of a child, are also high risk times for infidelity among males (Allen & Baucom, 2001; Brown, 1991; Whisman et al., 2007)."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:11 AM
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What is your idea of the perfect or near perfect relationship? My idea of the perfect relationship is best friends who have fun together, and make a good team. Also make good roommates. Because some roommates can make you feel homicidal. What is it that initially drew you to your partner? I swiped right because he looked cute but like he was completely oblivious to it like slightly awkward, an antinarcissist if such a thing exists. And when we chatted he had none of my major dealbreakers, so tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:33 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:17 AM
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I knew a really hot girl, she looks like a blonde Isla Fisher with bigger boobs, who was into swinging for years with her man she moved here from Ireland with, but that was before she met a guy she wanted kids with. She's now the perfect monogamous mom 😇 In general though you're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:14 AM
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Was gonna say lmao I don't know any women who would be into a man like that. Where do you even find these women, the coal mines or the trailer park?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:28 AM
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Yes, of course. That's only natural, as male sexuality is antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:03 AM
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It's anonymous. The reason why? Women cannot be open about their regrets. They'll be villified. But most of them are really thinking it and seething with rage towards the men they made the mistake of giving kids to. Oh, and some of those women are long-married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:56 AM
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Women are also saying the same thing on "I regret having children" pages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:49 AM
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They are a couple who got engaged sight unseen. She fell in love with his personality and his willingness to be vulnerable. When you open up, you risk having your heart ripped out of your chest by a callous person. If some men don't think the rewards of love are worth that risk, who am I to argue with them. Shallow, meaningless relationships it is, I guess. For you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:46 AM
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Lauren accepted a proposal from Cameron sight unseen. That was a man who opened up, and even cried. But I am torn. It ultimately is better that hardened, embittered men stay single than ruin an honest woman who wants a true bond's life. So I guess you're right. I won't tell men the truth anymore. I'll stay out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:30 AM
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I sympathize with your situation, but I cannot excuse your sexism, even if it stems from trauma. I have stood in her shoes (not literally, s&m is not my thing), and reacted in a very different manner. Am I not a woman? I doubt you would be very sympathetic to an abandoned single mom concluding that men are unreliable and selfish trash because her ex was. No, if you're anything like most men, you would claim she deserved it for not having predicted his actions in advance. Well, it's the same prin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:09 AM
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The relevance is marginal. 43% of EU births now take place outside of formal wedlock. The rate of formal marriage rate is dropping. I do agree with your implication, though, that the commensurate reality should be that women stop giving men kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:05 AM
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You can pm me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:01 AM
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I'm not going to talk about this tbh. It's too personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:01 AM
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I was still attracted to that man and did not break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:58 AM
2

So do you tell every heartbroken person to never try again? Because running from intimacy is running from love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:57 AM
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The most recent findings actually are that, "among married men, the likelihood of extramarital involvement decreases over time until the eighteenth year of matrimony, after which the likelihood of extramarital involvement increases," which would actually disadvantage the childless men, whose marriages averaged 11 years. They would be disproportionately in the higher-risk group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:55 AM
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Not every man; 30%. Some women will decide the relationship is not worth it. And some women will decide they have time for the relationship and the gym. But not to raise some man's kids. That's me. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:43 AM
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What men actually do is they cut back on the housework they used to split 50/50 with the wife to make time for their kids and to squeeze in their leisure time: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/05/150507081739.htm. Working mothers don't get leisure time anymore. They're trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:28 AM
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The average working mother works 98 hours per week once you factor in childcare as well: https://www.google.com/amp/s/abc7.com/amp/family/study-average-working-mom-works-98-hours-a-week/2269126/. And if she isn't also putting in hours at the gym, men will whine or cheat or both. Simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:26 AM
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That's really awful. I dated someone in this situation and all I felt for him was compassion. I cannot imagine retraumatizing someone in this way. I'm really sorry you went through this in a time when you let your guard down and needed support. That must have been a huge blow, and felt like such a betrayal. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:19 AM
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"Statistical data isn't true because it hurts my feelings."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:10 AM
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"Men tend to experience little changes in their economic situation. They might be more likely to receive unemployment or disability benefits following divorce, but these effects are short lived. Spousal alimony and child support typically consume only a small part of their incomes. Women, in contrast, rely heavily on partner income. When children are involved, they also become the resident parents in the large majority of cases. Increases in employment or the receipt of child support are usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:09 AM
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Dude, stop being threatened. Yes, a woman said a bunch of true things that you don't like to hear. You'll survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:05 AM
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Your links are devoid of data. They are but opinion. I noticed you don't acknowledge any of the actual data I posted. Accept to say that men are heavily burdened by the whopping $500 a month that they pay to a woman to raise their child lmao. So I say this comment from you amounts to projection. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:53 AM
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Well, at least you finally conceded that marriage and kids are men's reward. They're sure as shit not women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:38 AM
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It's called statistics. Women supposedly love assholes according to TRPers but then why don't they stay with cheaters, they're the ultimate assholes aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:15 AM
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Then why aren't you celebrating its demise like the radfems do? Or even some mainstream feminists. Elizabeth Gilbert wrote a while book about why marriage sucks ass and always has, called Committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:11 AM
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Whooot!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:51 AM
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They've also found the opposite: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3888252/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:35 AM
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Not quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:19 AM
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The pros of marriage are for men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:52 PM
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I don't see the links, and there's no point since I'm not going to convince you that women don't want men who are assholes. TRP men will hamster anything to rationalize why their being bad people is women's fault. I'm sure they'd find a way to hamster how women divorcing 40% of cheaters but only 17% of non-cheaters is just a shit test. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:50 PM
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Well according to you and TRP logic there is no greater hell for men. Isn't it wonderful that so few men are married and thus subject to this now? Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:48 PM
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The data shows you are wrong, women do value male education, sorry. https://www.irishtimes.com/business/technology/dating-apps-can-make-you-lonely-but-well-educated-men-fare-better-1.3978724
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:46 PM
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Yes, women with no jobs and who couldn't even buy a car without their husbands' signature had sooo many options. 🙄 Male cops weren't even arresting men for DV back then. Life under patriarchy and high marriage rates was hell for women. Stop spinning fairytales.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:44 PM
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What they gave up was their pursuit of sexual variety When did men give this up? Kinsey data in the 1950s show male infidelity rates of 50%, much worse than today. Marriage has literally always been a trap for women where men sacrifice nothing, unless a rich oligarch somewhere declared a war. A man's word is worth literally nothing. They have no honour and are only as faithful as their options. Don't agree with you on why marriage is dying, but glad that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:11 PM
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No, it wouldn't be a problem if he had a degree. He had no degree and was poor until recently. The Ukranian chick married a nice guy, who was ugly... and rich. But I'll let the RP men keep thinking being an asshole is what women want in the long run. I'm sure they would know, being a demographic that is largely divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:09 PM
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America is a third-world country, but it will eventually be legal there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:50 PM
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It's that so many men pull a bait and switch and reveal who they really are in a shocking and horrifying way only after a woman has borne them children that the ultimate sign of chivalry, good character, and devotion from a man has become a willingness to end his own bloodline at the behest of the woman he loves. Told ya you weren't going to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:47 PM
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It's decriminalized where I live an brothels are common throughout western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:36 PM
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Good for him. He would be fucking more if he was an asshole. He didn't want to be fucking more. He was frustrated he couldn't find a woman he thought was attractive enough who wanted a LTR with him. Those women tended to move on after the sex. Until me. His Ukranian former model ex married a rich Russian guy who looks like Shrek.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:33 PM
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Divorce is literally taking men's money and giving it to women. Do you mean the whopping $500 a month in child support that won't even cover the rent on a 1-bedroom apartment, or are you referring to the alimony that only happens in 10% of divorces nowadays? Hard to know which part the wannabe deadbeats are whining about at any given time. Marriage CAN be beneficial to men, women and society. That is false. Marriage is beneficial to men and children. Women are the sacrificial lambs in the arrang…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:32 PM
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No, the real root cause is that women who don't need money from men want emotionally intelligent partners. And many men are simply not that. In absence of provider skills, they simply have nothing else to offer to a woman long-term. The rest is predictable. Some men will adapt. Others will double down. Luckily, prostitution is becoming legalized for those men who just don't get it and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:21 PM
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Who says your parents are the target? Smart parents have retarded kids all the time. It's called reversion to the mean. The same way two good-looking people can have an ugly kid. It's simply an implication that you have piss-poor genetics; an extra chromosome, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:15 PM
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I agree. And you're really not going to like my conclusions you definitely don't want to hear what they are. They get worse/more blackpilling. You seem like a good dude. I already feel bad enough that I probably ruined your day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:13 PM
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There is no shortage of good guys around. They just fuck less. Not sure I agree with this. My man is a very good guy. He also had an n-count of 40 when we met. I contrast that with all of the misogynists who spout redpill and blackpill rhetoric online. Chicken or egg? All I can say is that I don't think these men spouting their verbal diarrhea all over Reddit and YouTube and whining about "how men struggle in dating" seem like the nice guys to me. 🤷‍♀️ marriage being a one sided deal in favor of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:54 PM
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My initial comment was a reply to a woman who was speaking as a Gen X and asking don't average women benefit from splitting the bills with a man and don't women want families, because that's a reason to partner with a man. It seems that comment has since been deleted. From there, I'd like to remind you that you chose to engage me. If you didn't truly want to or couldn't handle hearing why I don't think it's worth it, then perhaps you shouldn't have asked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:44 PM
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Its not like you don't have RP men pushing back on that type of shitpost either. Lmao I sure as shit didn't see them. I saw a no pill flair do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:32 PM
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Because women are attracted to manipulative liars and other kinds of assholes. They get hot for that behavior Oh, of course. Men are never responsible for their own behaviour. They lie to women and omit information to get into their pants because it's what women want them to do. I'd expect nothing less but this kind of logic from a man. Or just fuck you without marrying. Finally!! A point we can agree on. I'm glad we agree that everything is fine and nothing needs to change as far as the social …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:30 PM
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Don't marry someone who would be a shitty husband or father. And of course men say this, because then it allows them to absolve themselves of any responsibility for how they treat women who are mothers - especially but not exclusively, single mothers. They can always just say when the husband or father treats her like trash, which again, is not an uncommon occurrence, "Welp, she chose him, so she gets what she deserves." Which is all well and good, but then they shouldn't complain when they've i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:28 PM
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TRP men: whine like two year olds when it's pointed out that they're misogynistic Also TRP men: "That woman who wrote that women are evil sure had a point."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:24 PM
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Except, they will follow in my footsteps because, to quote you, First of all, you don't know who is actually looking for a relationship with you and who isn't. Right now, we have at the top of this thread a comment from a woman who slept with a man who neglected to mention that he was planning on leaving the state before sleeping with her. Men lie. TRP celebrate that men are manipulative liars. You can judge us all you want but you - as in men - still creating the conditions where you have only …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:18 PM
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Well then, neither is the number of women who are high-N reversing anytime soon so men can stop being whiny little bitches about our existence now 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:10 PM
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Of course men agree with misogyny. That's expected as most men are misogynists and a large number of women are too. In what way is that new? It's low effort. Plus, a tiktok video is not data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:05 PM
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Mothers are treated better in almost all aspects of life? They're paid less, cheated on more and blamed for the demise of their relationship irrespective of the real cause. In what world is this "better treatment"? You're entitled to think having children is "fulfilling" - and of course a man would say so, they do almost none of the work - but you're not going to convince me that women aren't endlessly punished for their decision to have them, and offered no real incentives socially, romanticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:44 PM
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With the same man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:34 PM
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😂🤣😂🤣👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:34 PM
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First of all, you don't know who is actually looking for a relationship with you and who isn't. Exactly why women of all ages shouldn't have sex with men 🙃 if they do, they're just going to be called high-N whores for sleeping with them if they think the guy wants a relationship and it turns out they're wrong. Can't get a high N if you assume men have bad intentions and motives and don't sleep with them 🤷‍♀️ Men win too because they don't have to worry about the visceral ick they get from high-N…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:05 PM
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I'm with my dad tonight, I was in America last weekend so I didn't see him (I normally do once a week on the weekend). But we will spend time together tomorrow 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:52 PM
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Boyfriend surprised me today! He had the day off work, and after cleaning the bathroom (it's his turn) and doing the groceries, he came and surprised me at work!! And we went out to lunch 🥰 He's the best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:41 PM
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I don't see a point in sleeping with someone who is not looking for a relationship with me. And men are only too happy to let us know that they see no relationship value in women who are older or single moms. So I mean, I would stay celibate, yes. But that's me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:27 PM
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but the majority of men love their wives and mothers. And a not-insignificant large minority treat them worse after having kids than they did before. They do less housework and become more likely to cheat. Women's choices then become to put up with ill treatment, or leave and face poverty, and men who will use them for only pump and dumps because single moms are considered disposable. Women could simply avoid this prisoner's dilemma, which effectively gives all leverage to the man, in addition t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:24 PM
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No because there are many, many more reasons not to have them apart from just the tangible and material ones as well. I would argue that there exist in our society no personal incentives or rational reasons to have them whatsoever. Women who have them are effectively made into sacrificial lambs. Men hate moms and are happy to let women know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:49 PM
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Good lord, this thread. 🙄😬 Where my pacifist-loving ladies at?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:13 PM
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She says she's sticking with him for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:10 PM
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No one does. Even when married you are part of the SMP. You are still being compared to the alternatives. The alternative of being alone? That doesn't make you a part of the SMP if your options are "this person" or "cats." Other people can be considering you, that doesn't mean you're considering them back. The remarriage rate has been declining for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:03 PM
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🤣😂 I'm against age gaps and even I don't think that's a gap. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:58 PM
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No length
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:56 PM
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Are the breeders okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:23 PM
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Or maybe a woman doesn't want to be with a man who is only pretending to be in love with her to get laid. Women want the real thing, real emotional intimacy, or why bother. Since per your own comment, guys are only pretending to want a relationship to get laid, increasingly women are asking why bother. It's perfectly logical and nothing about the current paradigm needs changing or does not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:20 PM
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I'm a millennial (36). I see the benefits of cohabitation, I do not see any benefits to having kids. Regarding life at 60, women who had kids are statistically more likely to be impoverished at that age than those who didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:18 PM
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Imagine women still giving men reproductive labour for free in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:04 PM
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I read that the ideal is 6.5 inches (according to women).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:56 PM
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Because not all of you are taken and those that are worried about what implications men caring about n count might have for their relationships The few not taken can simply filter out the men who ask. Indeed, we had one guy here who got dumped immediately after asking. No one exits the SMP Yes, they routinely do. Red pill men don't obviously, they all end up divorced due to being shitty husbands and not being capable of loving a woman who has aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:55 PM
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Well I don't know what the dimensions would be on a girthy one. That's not usually what guys are measuring or reporting. You just kinda know one when you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:46 PM
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I think the ideal dick is probably like a hockey puck. Average length but quite girthy. This is hard to execute IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:40 PM
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🤔 Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:33 PM
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The study posted yesterday showed that 2 in 9 don't care if a woman's n-count is even over 60. So no, not almalt, based on the data. Beyond that, why would women who are taken for years which is the majority of women here care what greyballed men and 20 year old men have anxiety about? We genuinely don't. You can be as neurotic about it as you like, but we already won and exited the SMP and so we genuinely don't care. Just find a way to make peace with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:28 PM
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Right to be themselves is coming and I don't think that's a bad thing. We can already see high-profile men wearing dresses without a care in the world and daring people to judge them for it. If you mean right to sex in the way of prostitution, I have mixed feelings about it but ultimately don't necessarily think that's a bad thing either. What they're not entitled to is a relationship with Stacey and that's what they seem to think they are entitled to. Hell, that's what the incel prince even kil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:25 PM
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You tell us weekly. We are aware. We simply don't care. If one man doesn't like it or us, oh well. Men are like busses. Another one will be along in 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:16 PM
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Yeah, and it's like, these same guys don't seem to get that when I say that men have no empathy, are autistic as a gender and don't understand optics, are entitled, have no honour and are only as faithful as their options, I love men! What's confusing about it? I love men like TRP men love women! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:13 PM
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RP men are not showing any kind of benevolence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:12 PM
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Almost all of them. You should look into the replication crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:10 PM
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Don't follow TRP. That's how you end up with bpd women and/or divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:07 PM
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Kanye is now dating Kim Kardashian's doppelganger, lol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:06 PM
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Lmaoooo who said that? Lol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:59 AM
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What civil rights are men being denied? The "right" to casual sex for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:56 AM
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It's just, individual random men are demanding that we care about what disgusts them and seem upset that we don't. It's like their screaming pay attention to what turns me on and off!! Yesterday that one guy was demanding that we know and care that a man may be thinking or worrying about something in the back of his head that he never brings up directly or asks about. Not going to happen. We don't care and they need to get over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:47 AM
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This is nonsense. I'm a millennial. Back before the apps even average-looking, broke and short men were doing this before age 23. Many of them would later go on to regret it and some would cry incel, but when a guy is young he just wants to get his rocks off none of them are looking to commit. They're all just looking for casual sex. That's why we women feel nothing for the ones incessantly whining that due to the apps they can't get casual sex. We're like, yeah and so what? Die dick in hand. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:33 AM
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Oh. That is really sad 😔 Humans really were a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:29 AM
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There are few. My country recognizes cohabitation for spousal work benefits, and unfortunately for the tax code. So I'm already getting the benefits and screwed in taxes. Don't need to pay the government even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:28 AM
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I don't think you're understanding the concept of the show Love Is Blind. The couples do not meet or see each other until after they agree to marry. Once again, because literacy appears to be an issue here for you, she accepted his proposal sight unseen. Based exclusively on his personality. Some men really do have very good personalities, and are extremely lovable. And some men really do have shit ones that are very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:05 AM
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The show is called Love Is Blind. Lauren accepted his proposal sight unseen. Based on his personality, and his willingness to be vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:54 AM
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I don't recall another man on the show being so willing to be vulnerable that he cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:43 AM
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Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:36 AM
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After season 1 of Love Is Blind, I actually believe this even more strongly. The men with the best personalities also had the best looks (e.g. Cameron). None of the fat women found a match when looks were removed as a factor. It was the most blackpilling thing I've ever seen in my life. Humans were a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:30 AM
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I think you're gonna have trouble finding a woman anywhere who says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:31 PM
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LOL in what context? Like a stranger grabbing your ass, an ex-boyfriend, a family member, what do you mean? Such a bizarrely general question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:02 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:56 PM
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He's 5'9" and works in IT and a good head of hair and slightly chubby and childfree. Honestly, if the guy is at least 5'5" and he's white I don't believe he's an incel. That would never happen in my country. He might be a standards-cel or have crippling social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:44 PM
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FaceandLMS is one of the biggest blackpill YouTubers. The LMS stands for "looks, money, status." In what way is this different from TRP? They're the same group of men. You're fooling no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:19 PM
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Bizarre rant devoid of concrete examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:15 PM
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I mean, it was your linked-to article that suggested some men have behavioural norms closer to that of the group of people called "women" at least in this dimension. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm just speculating that maybe that's not the only realm where that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:10 PM
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The man doth remain single, and shall only ever know the love of a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:02 PM
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It seems you already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:59 PM
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Oh, there are others who has it worked out for. This Palestinian dude in my group is dating this redhead he met through me and my bf and has been for a year. I don't talk to her anymore though. Pandemic casualties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:52 PM
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LOL "it if weren't for my personality and core values, you'd want me." This level of self-delusion is Chapelle-level comedy. Being a discarded notch once a woman got to know you as a person may be flattering to you, but that's because you pedastalize notches. Men who get them easily do not. Good luck with your unicorn-hunting. And I remind you that escorts and cats remain an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:44 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/darwin-does-dating/202112/how-many-past-sexual-partners-is-too-many It also says, "Men were slightly more forgiving of a large sexual history than women." So maybe the men who are fixated on it are just particularly effeminate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:43 PM
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If you can filter or self-select out guys like most of the dudes here, I'd say that's a good thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:40 PM
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Your argument is not relevant to my comment. You claimed that numbers matter to most men whether they ask or not. OK, that may be the case but we weren't committing to most men. Why do we care what most men worry about? Most men are trash, I'm well aware of this. I wasn't looking for trash. I was looking for a unicorn man. "Besides, I already know I'm your type." We got a big dreamer over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:30 PM
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Omg they use that phrase themselves?? gag gag Even worse than "consciously uncoupled."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:25 PM
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Why should we ask? If you are a misogynist it won't work out anyways. Either it ends when you start cheating, it ends when your entitled ass does nothing around the house and expects her to do everything, or it ends when she expects a proposal and you refuse to give it. Either way, it ends. All men are lying in the beginning to impress the girl regardless. Time reveals all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:19 PM
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Omg I legit gagged when I read "spiritually married." I hope you realize that marriage can have a negative connotation to some people and that's why they opted not to do it? Maybe those people don't want to be thought of as married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:11 PM
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We commit only to bluepill men. What do you care? There are plenty of escorts and cats in the world for misogynist redpill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:09 PM
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Wow. You just restored my faith in the notion that men aren't all hateful misogynist escaped abortions just a little bit. (In Greta voice) How dare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:53 PM
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36F, live in the city that spawned the Slutwalk protests around the world. Friends are all marital statuses; single, cohabiting, dating someone, married, in order of prevalence in my group. The coupled ones mostly began dating in their late 20s or 30s. Only one of my friends is divorced, and it's a dude. But another one is married but I feel like he should fall in the divorced bucket because he has a kid with his ex. One of my cohabiting couple friends is childfree, and the other recently bought…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:34 PM
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Red pill and black pill have become the same group of people so why wouldn't they call you an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:11 PM
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This just put a big ol’ goofy smile on my face - for my fellow, ahem, slightly aged PPDers hahahahaha gold!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:06 PM
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I mean, he gets matches? That seems to be the definition of a chad around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:05 PM
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Toronto's local "Tinder Swindler" con man is a 20-year-old Asian chad: https://www.blogto.com/city/2022/03/toronto-police-bust-local-tinder-swindler-stole-thousands-dating-app/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:43 PM
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And? So what? Lol The dynamics of a cohabiting relationship are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:59 PM
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I'll be honest: I don't see marriage as being in my interests as a woman. I've found the one and I want to just live with him until we're old and grey like Ricky Gervais and Jane Fallon did. That, to me, is #goals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:19 PM
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She hates women so there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:18 PM
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Isn't that every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:45 PM
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I personally don't find Zendaya pretty. I always felt Laura Harrier should have been the one getting all the attention, she's way prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:43 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:35 PM
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Statistically, live-in boyfriends do more housework than husbands. We certainly are no exception, my man does half. I am under his work benefits under a spousal plan even though we never had the wedding as Canada allows this for cohabiting couples. And I don't want kids. It's not broken so I see no need to fix things. I think many others are the same way, they are living more authentically and being true to themselves. If they don't want a conventional suburban life with the white picket fence, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:31 PM
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Jeff Bezos is still with a woman his own age. Maybe he didn't want the starfish, paid-for sex 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:23 PM
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What? I haven't been single in 7 years. I was smart enough to get out of the SMP before the only thing left were older men; leftovers. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:21 PM
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They are remarrying younger, single moms who can't get a man their own age. In rare cases, they are remarrying golddiggers. But remarriage itself has been on the decline for decades. Don't worry, I still got love for you, boo. Even though you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:16 PM
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He is 3.5 months older. And within 1 year is the most common age gap: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships So the suggestion that women don't go for these men is simply not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:11 PM
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In other words, they don't approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:01 PM
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A lower-value woman (single mom) is settling for a lower-value man (older man). No matter how much higher his income compared to the younger version of himself, he is still low-value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:00 PM
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"Despite it clearly not being." False. There is much evidence that it is true: https://www.facebook.com/IRegretHavingChildren/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwvctN3Uejg https://www.moms.com/how-stop-being-miserable-mom/ https://www.parents.com/parenting/moms/stay-at-home-mom-depression-is-real/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%202012%20Gallup,feel%20as%20many%20happy%20emotions. I think it's the opposite. You want it not to be true, for self-serving reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:55 PM
1

Women in childless marriages report higher marital satisfaction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:38 PM
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Doesn't account for the fact that the moms are also less happy than the childless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:33 PM
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Could have secured easier - says who? If at any given time half or more of the pool isn't ready to settle down, that defacto means the other half is going to have a harder time finding a match, not an easier one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:33 PM
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Women are not settling unless the man is older. I am going to make a topic on this today and bring the receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:23 PM
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Lmao! Absolutely not. And as for your example, I'd sooner date another woman than a redneck man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:15 PM
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Many beta women want to settle down when they're allegedly "selling sex," but men lead them on, lie to them, and use them for sex. They don't even understand what they are selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:11 PM
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Men do this too as they age. My boyfriend wanted to wait a bit before we jumped into bed so we could build a meaningful connection. And he had had one-nighters, etc. The men who think this way most likely struggled to get causal sex and are just bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:09 PM
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You know I'm going to bring the receipts, I always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:52 AM
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Oslo Norway was awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:51 AM
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I was mostly eluding to the complain part 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:50 AM
1

Or maybe because most groups of men suck but just in varying ways and thus it is fun to make fun of/shit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:49 AM
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and men are lazy, stinky, brutes thay complain. I mean, are you supposed to be the exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:42 AM
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Hahahahaha Would not recommend Jamaica.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:38 AM
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I mean, it's hardly the first to come to those findings, and it won't be the last. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/09/190923155026.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:37 AM
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Not sure I understand? You can't divest from that which you never dated lmao. And I'm still with my bf. Sorry to break it to ya, but that'll never change. When are you guys going to get a clue. This is a debate forum. None of it is personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:33 AM
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🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:06 AM
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I'm just Canadian 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:00 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:33 PM
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Good question!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:28 PM
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Can't wait for the next Purge. I am gonna bring it so hard. Yt men, I am coming for you next. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:24 PM
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I was just in your hood this past weekend. Museum of Sex is topnotch 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:27 PM
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Literally lol'ed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:26 PM
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I guess it would be if you want kids. It's very similar to blackpillscience subreddit, but for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:11 PM
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Do you think most single moms planned on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:22 PM
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Actually they did talk about singleness in the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:21 PM
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I don't care if super religious conservative people have tons of kids. Better them than me. I feel sorry for these people. I'm not going to join them. As simple as that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:16 PM
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Lol Next life for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:10 PM
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Personally, I'm not single, and haven't been since my 20s. Of course, being smart I took up with a man my same age. If a man is single in his 30s, it's generally for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:15 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:34 PM
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Well-done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:33 PM
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Extroversion and sociability, laughs a lot, highly physically affectionate (even to the point of outright clinginess is no issue for me), common interests, monogamous, childfree. My man had all those things so I didn't even care that he was broke and I paid for his Lasik. His income has since nearly doubled. I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:53 PM
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There are many more if you follow my subreddit 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:34 PM
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I say we because anytime a woman expresses her support for same-age relationships there is some man crying that the woman's only reason must be jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:33 PM
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But I don’t think it’s right to make a blanket statement that people should avoid IR and stick with their own kind because of those challenges either. I mean, it's a fair assessment depending on who you're talking to. If you're talking to a black woman, it's bad advice because her risk of divorce is much higher with a same-race spouse. If you're talking to an Asian man, it's good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:32 PM
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There is data that only daughters extend the life expectancy of a male. Men generally suck as caretakers, they only care for themselves, and sons are men, so it makes sense from a logical perspective. Here is the data I'm referring to: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ajhb.20497
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:30 PM
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But you guys say that about everything, if a woman has an ex you say she was "riding the CC" with said ex, lol. You say the young men date here and there, what do you think the women are doing? Men can pursue women who they are unlikely to have successful marriages with if they want, but take ownership for it. That's your decision, it's not the fault of women that men want to date younger. That's just how they are and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:05 PM
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Oh yes, season 2 is peak trainwreck tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:02 PM
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Season 1 or 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:57 PM
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I think same-age relationships are ultimately the best truce for both men and women. Sure, men may live longer if they can benefit from the end-of-life care of a younger female spouse, but the reality is that they rarely can because those marriages are exponentially more likely to end in divorce. She will eventually pull a Megan Fox and leave the man for a man closer to her own age. And then divorced men die earlier than everyone else, so that completely offsets any advantage that was had from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:54 PM
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How so? Feminists are also women. Women who want to be trapped in the kitchen raising a cheating man's kids still very much have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:44 PM
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Shit, I'm about to take DHEA to offset the estrogen pill I'm about to switch to. If I can take 50mg of it a man can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:21 PM
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You think you owe them that but not their fidelity? Did it ever occur to you that staying with a woman you're cheating on is not doing them any favours? They get to do your laundry and look after your kids while you're out flinging your dick around town? The reality of the situation is that men's self-reported infidelity rate has halved since the 1950s. That would not be possible if every man got a wife for life as was the case then. Slowly but surely, only men who deserve them are getting them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:17 PM
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But apparently EVERY ppd woman married one Literally no. We've been criticized here for saying the opposite, that our guys are perfect in our eyes but by many metrics, they're just average guys. Men here have selective memory. They'll invent what women here say depending on how it suits their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:06 PM
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Overall people with kids are happier That's actually not true statistically. Well, it is in Hungary, but most of us don't live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:47 PM
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You don't support getting old with a woman, you say. It's written into the marital contract. So essentially you stand with us feminists who also celebrate the rapid decline of marriage. All hail the death of marriage!! I appreciate that at least you're consistent. Many of TRPers who advocate the things you do also lament that women won't marry or have kids like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:43 PM
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Women (and men too but we're not talking about those now) are naturally going to gain weight as they age: https://nypost.com/2018/03/24/3-business-deals-that-have-been-screwing-us-for-years/amp/ If men will cheat on the women who bore their children "in a heartbeat" because a "pretty" (aka younger and thus more slender) girl showed up, do men deserve families? They have no honour, by your own admission. So I posit that the answer is no, they do not. And the current state of affairs is logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:54 AM
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The purpose of dating for me was to find a compatible person who it would be fun to spend my life with. Who would be consistent, and consistently make me laugh and consistently make me happy. They're not mutually exclusive goals as portrayed here, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:50 AM
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Don't worry, I'm sure you can find another man who abandons his family multiple times and cheats on his pregnant wife with porn stars to represent your gender at the highest level and show women how honourable and worthy of our respect you are. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:13 AM
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Yes, it's one of the ways in which women's interests are at direct odds with men's. However, there are others. Men and women cannot both satisfy their imperatives without doing it at at least partially at the other's expense. It's the literal only thing that Rollo Tomassi has ever said that is not completely retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:30 PM
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The former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:28 PM
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I like how it sounds like a love song but it's about switching bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:19 PM
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Yes, Stacey Dash also played a teenager at 30 on Clueless. This is not new for WOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:07 PM
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No one cares about your third world opinions hombre.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/22 07:59 PM
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I welcome ppd's chorus of autistic red pill males to change their ways and prove me wrong 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:53 PM
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They don't classify their double standards and blatant sexism as degenerate, so your opinion and mine on this are going to be very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:47 PM
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No and no. But Robert Redford I guess was pretty hot until he turned into a human prune.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:39 PM
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Omg he is so gross. The only good-looking guy they had until the 90s was Paul Newman that is so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:36 PM
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Both. I'm seeing bifurcation. When I see movies from the 60s and 70s I feel really bad for the women, because their sex symbols are so ugly. Like that picture of hairy Burt Reynolds all splayed out - barf. Ours like Ryan Gosling and Henry Cavill are just simply way way hotter. They're also less likely to smoke so have a longer 'best before' date and better teeth. On the other hand, many of them speak and it's just like, immediate Sahara Snatch. There is a lot of autism out there, men have no sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:31 PM
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Just because you were in your late 20s when you met your partner doesn't mean you were practising some "dual mating strategy" or settled. I was 29 when I met my man on tinder. And I still looked damn good in a bikini. My type had never changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:09 PM
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Nah, but I've argued for things I believed in and wished weren't true hoping someone would come along and prove me wrong. They usually can't, and just start personally insulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:57 PM
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Brown hair, big eyes, a nice smile, on the skinnier side. But the main thing is just a big, open heart that feels for people, and a great sense of humour and an easy laugh. It doesn't hurt if they can also appreciate weird, less popular music example, because they're going to be hearing a lot of it and I appreciate recommendations. Edit: yeah, I basically just described my boyfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:54 PM
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See above. Deep down, I think I hated the man. But that was 10 years ago. Haven't cheated on anyone since.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:44 PM
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Wtf? Lmao The thirst is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:46 AM
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I don't know if I'd go that far but it's definitely up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:25 AM
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Lmao, okay this was a good troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:54 AM
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Damn, there really is something about a good head of hair on a dude. I don't think it's possible to be a chad without this. I just realized this checking out a dude on a bus from the airport whose face I can't even see because it's covered by a mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:52 AM
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It means some single people have good friendships, reliable friends, and have active social lives and aren't particularly lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:50 AM
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A lot of them are on welfare in both NYC and in Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:52 AM
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No, humans were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:51 AM
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Yeah it means Amish people and Orthodox Jews are degenerates. That's certainly one take LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:14 AM
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Single and lonely are not necessarily synonyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:08 AM
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Awww, thanks boo. I can't picture you coming as off stuck up irl, you're too nice to the incels here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:37 PM
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LARPing in what way? I'm actually a super friendly person in real life, I'm well-liked have a huge circle of friends of both genders, am considered tons of fun and make friends easily. I'm nowhere near this blunt and I wouldn't say half of the things I say here out loud. That doesn't mean I'm not thinking them, though. So maybe my real life persona is the LARP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:48 PM
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The men, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:34 PM
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I have to laugh at how hard OP got owned with statistics and data, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:32 PM
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As someone who once cheated on a boyfriend, I am going to say no. It comes from a fundamental lack of respect for the person. It can also stem from narcissism or entitlement in some cases. Either there's something wrong with the person themselves, or there is something really wrong with the relationship. Either way, it's a dealbreaker. The relationship can never be the same. Studies show that marriages that "survive" infidelity are incredibly prone to further infidelity. Revenge cheating is a we…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:24 PM
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I have childless cousins who are 50+, they are fine. My ex also had a childless uncle who was with his girlfriend since the early 80s. They lived in Rosedale (rich neighbourhood) and were respected by local rappers, it was kind of funny to see considering he was a 70 year old white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:15 PM
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😂🤣👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:10 PM
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Yes, revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:03 PM
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That's obviously self-selection, people who are religious are different from people who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:58 PM
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Parents are statistically more likely to have pets than we are: https://www.ncregister.com/news/pets-replacing-kids-fur-baby-stereotype-hides-truth-about-the-real-causes-of-fertility-decline
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:50 PM
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Incel take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:46 PM
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They are obsessed with baby-trapping women. Women without children are far less likely to stay and put up with their abuse and infidelity. They can't stand to see a woman living happy and free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:45 PM
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Actually they are substantially less likely to be depressed according to a meta-analysis: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.asanet.org/sites/default/files/savvy/images/journals/docs/pdf/jhsb/EvensonSimonJHSBDec05.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwic37-GtJb2AhU_FTQIHXSoCSgQFnoECBIQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0xRGLVcCdYsGYKmT8P_9lD "On the other hand, mothers reported more daily stress than fathers and women without children. So, not only were dads happier than moms, but dads were also happier than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:37 PM
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It's by 1.5 years. And it depends on the country as well; Polish data tracking 116 years of births shows that they live longer there. CF women also have a lower rate of disability when elderly. Personally, I prefer quality of life over just quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:33 PM
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Female childlessness is not a phenomenon from the last 70 years. It was equally high in the 1920s: https://www.economist.com/britain/2021/10/14/in-britain-childlessness-seems-likely-to-return-to-1920s-levels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:31 PM
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🤣😂 "We accept accountability" (proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for why men can cheat). The male hamstering is quite funny here. Red pill men are largely rejects from their wives because they deserved it. 40% of people who cheated in their marriages are now divorced, compared to 17% of people who didn't cheat. You want to throw a grenade into your marriage that's your business, but don't try and convince me that it was somehow logical to do so, and I sure as shit don't care about whining abou…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 02:59 PM
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Because it's the world's happiest country, but Norway would also do: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20180709-unlike-most-millennials-norways-are-rich
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:55 AM
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Finland.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:03 AM
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I actually don't since women are morally superior. A man being more like a woman indicates that just maybe he has actual honour so I used to look for those qualities, like empathy and compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:51 PM
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They're not making ten posts a day about it. Plus I just scrolled down the thread after posting this and saw a guy saying he was trying to "tear [high-N women] down" which is basically them blatantly conceding my point themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:55 PM
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I think that incels are obsessed with talking about n-counts because it's literally the sole way they can make themselves feel superior to women and put them down. In a roundabout way, it is about insecurity, but not in the way it's usually implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:50 PM
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A lot of high n-count individuals do not want to end up with partners who look down on high n-count individuals, in which case having a high n-count has the ancillary benefit of acting as a filter. Yes. I admit I didn't look at n-count as being a huge deal, but that's because I try not to practise hypocrisy in my everyday life. And I figured that a guy who doesn't care probably would have a higher n-count himself, more liberal attitudes, and would thus be more likely to be compatible with me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:40 PM
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Do you have some kind of proof that women with higher weights have lower n-counts? Because as of right now, it's sounding like more red pill theory BS. Not hard to find holes in red pill crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:33 PM
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What those women were looking for was actually just empathy, and it doesn't surprise me that a man would not really under how that works, especially one from ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:41 PM
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Does he still have a working tongue and hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:02 PM
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Where is the "beta bailout"? Husbands, the alleged "betas," have no honour. Might as well. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:34 AM
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7 years strong, but you cling to your revenge fantasies hombre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:29 AM
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"Throw their youth at?" Men here whine that women don't marry until they are post-wall and find a beta. Can't have it both ways with the whining. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:26 AM
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Or maybe not all women want a man who casts a shadow over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:25 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:19 AM
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Doubtful. She has said Russian men who are not her husband are lazy, sexist and useless as husbands and even her husband agrees, which is probably accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:12 AM
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😂🤣😂🤣 Karma coming for the sexist son of a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:11 AM
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Laughed out loud at this. The gender that cheats on their wives most often when they are pregnant or just gave birth to their child has honour. Yeah, okay. 🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:54 AM
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Too tall; would not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:50 AM
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I found the first guy better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:14 AM
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I am 5'6"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:10 AM
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When I was single the shortage was on men who weren't stoners or drunks. Unless you were willing to head to a monastery, you were getting a or b.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:41 AM
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Why would it be surprising? Do you think I endorse hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:05 PM
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I didn't say they weren't attracted to him. Women have their types physically. I'm just saying that personality-wise he's almost every woman's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:04 PM
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I'm not only referring to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:02 PM
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Lots of short-term relationships, which usually translates to romantic disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:54 PM
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Men who don't have those traits tend to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:53 PM
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It means he's progressive, empathetic, listens well, not conservative. In other words, he makes women feel safe and appreciated. He is not the kind of guy who would care about what a woman's n-count is, or even ask. That's exactly the kind of man a woman wants to spend a notch on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:52 PM
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Strong disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:49 PM
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Well they were probably disappointed when they realized he wasn't the nice Jewish boy they were hoping to bring home to mom, but he's too sweet of a guy why wouldn't they still sample? Hard to resist such a good guy and great conversationalist, speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:47 PM
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Yes and no. He dated five Jewish women in a row, for example, just because they thought he was Jewish too and would be a same-ethnicity relationship. He's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:36 PM
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Well he's certainly not ugly, but I think the biggest factors are that he was attracted to a broad cross-section of women, and he's a really good person and not judgemental at all so who wouldn't want to have sex with a guy like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:34 PM
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I stopped dating men who were shorter than me. Some people would consider my boyfriend to be short, though. I was treated like trash by a shorter man (5'4") and he dumped me to go out with a girl who was 5'2".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:10 PM
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My boyfriend is 5.8 and a half. Not shorter than me. Men do not want women who are taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:00 PM
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I knew, my boyfriend told me unprompted how poor he was. Was this a shit test? Lmao I think what I found appealing about him was his verbal diarrhea and just general honesty-to-a-fault. He couldn't lie if his life depended on it. He was telling me self-incriminating things. In retrospect, he must have been very blue-pilled lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:41 PM
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It was less important to me at 17 than it was to me at 29. I didn't care about height at all until dating a shorter man. Then I realized why women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:39 PM
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The war happened because Hitler enlisted soldiers against their will and noncompliance was punishable by death, including punishment of the soldier's family. Had there been no draft there, there would have been no unjust war.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:26 PM
1

We had sex on date 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:24 PM
1

😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:07 PM
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What relationship? The guys here make it clear that they bounce if no sex has taken place by date 4. They have no leg to stand on with that. Besides that, I have been in a monogamous relationship for 7 years, I don't need your advice. Stop being hypocrites and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:04 PM
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I don't think it should be reintroduced for either gender. If a cause cannot find people to defend it, it is simply not just. It is also a bodily autonomy issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:50 PM
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My boyfriend got his high n-count because he was being repeatedly dumped by women for not being high-value, he was poor. So I don't agree that men have high n-counts because they are high-value. Both genders who have high n-counts got that way because they were either unlucky and couldn't find someone compatible, got taken advantage of, or were just losers in terms of rmv. Men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:49 PM
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My boyfriend and I were both high-N when we met. He was just a little higher-N. I can respect that a low-N person wouldn't want to date someone like us who were unlucky in love. Assortative mating. Winners date their own kind, right? It is what it is. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:39 PM
1

I don't mind my man watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:09 PM
1

Once or twice a week. Do blowjobs count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:07 PM
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I've dated white, Persian and Eurasian before but the love of my life is white. There are Indians in my extended family through relationships/marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:59 PM
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I do feel sorry for a guy in that situation, that's gotta be rough. But I mean, I'm assuming that guy is kind of resolved to being single, no? I mean, he's not on the radar for most women for a long-term relationship for a variety of reasons already, and that's who we're talking about evaluating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:14 PM
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First, I would not want to date a man who pumps and dumps women. Second, I think it's not sexy that he was so uncharismatic and desperate that he had to pay for it. Third, once a man paid for a sex worker just because he hit a dry phase, who is to say he wouldn't do the same when in a LTR? He obviously does not have the discipline to go without and a relationship is bound to have a dry phase over the course of 20, 30, 40 years. We already know that men cheat most often on their pregnant wives. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:02 PM
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Engineers can attempt to date whoever they want. We don't owe them the lie that we would date them when there's a significant age gap. If they can't be attracted to women their own age, they can die alone. Oh well. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:42 PM
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Yes, you can claim that he is comfortable pumping and dumping. Part of the reason I was unbothered by my man's vast sexual history is because he was so open about the fact that he was the one who wanted commitment with all these women and nearly always the one getting dumped/used for his body. And that he found it hurtful. Had it been the other way around, I would have seen it as a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:35 PM
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First, I think it's not sexy that he was so uncharismatic and desperate that he had to pay for it. Second, I think there's a psychological barrier breached and once a man paid for a sex worker just because he hit a dry phase, who is to say he wouldn't do the same when in a LTR? He obviously does not have the discipline to go without. We already know that men cheat more on their pregnant wives. Who are they cheating with? Probably sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:33 PM
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No it's not?? My man's high n-count was all women he didn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:28 PM
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I'll seduce customs, they won't even see it coming! 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:27 PM
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Personally, this would not have worked with me but I think it depends on your communication style. My bf and I would message up to 16 hours a day, so by the time I met him in person, I was already kind of invested and his slight nervousness and awkwardness the first time we met in person was not enough to put me off, I still wanted to see him a second time because I knew we had so much in common and an intellectual connection from messaging so much. Obviously, it's not to say that you should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:15 AM
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America: I am about to be in you! On my way to NYC tomorrow to see the fam. What should I expect? Are there still hoteps in Times Square?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:11 AM
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Just fell down a rabbit hole and discovered the most fascinating reddit discussion about female hormone profiles in the modern era, here's an excerpt: "almost all of the observed behavioral differences in men and women for the past 40 years that uses female college students as subjects and does not control for hormone levels or birth control use needs to be re-examined, because behaviors called 'female' could merely be behaviors of low-testosterone women." The user recommended all women taking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:08 AM
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3 and a half years older was the oldest I dated in my 20s. I settled down with a guy who is 3.5 months older. My last boyfriend before him was one month and 3 days older. I am not attracted to non-millennial men, or fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:29 AM
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I saw a picture of one of them and he was pretty well on his way to baldiland. "Quite young" in Russia is like 35. They're like the rest of us: mostly boomers. He's gonna run out of willing young men with nothing to lose real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:01 AM
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It's not that they're stupid and disorganized, it's that there are maybe 5 men on the ground who actually want to be involved in this war, and 5 more who are young, strong and reckless enough for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:51 AM
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It's not about underestimating them, it's about understanding the historical causes of war. Did you read the piece I linked to? Every time a country has invaded another country, it's always been with a young and expanding population. This is true even in Israel today, check out their TFRs. Russia has an aging and shrinking population. They literally don't have the drive nor the need for the land. And as I said, has there ever been a case of a major platoon surrendering on Day 1? To say that bode…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:49 AM
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I wonder historically in wars how many major battalions gave up on the first day? Those men were not young-looking either. He's literally trying to launch a war with middle-aged men. What a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:43 AM
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That Russian brigade surrendering to Ukrainian forces is just the beginning. So is the huge Moscow protest. Putin is going to learn the hard way: old people are not in the mood to fight. To have a feasible war, you need a young, energetic and rapidly expanding population in search of lebensraum, not an aging, decrepit and chill one. Men who need hip replacements are not going to fight your war for you, you stupid old fuck. https://politicalviolenceataglance.org/2019/08/06/why-old-societies-are-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:35 AM
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Is this TRP men's worst nightmare? A woman who never hit the wall: https://nypost.com/2022/02/24/mom-51-is-tiktok-sensation-sharing-secrets-to-ageless-looks/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:48 AM
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Watching the last episode of "We Need to Talk About Cosby" and it may as well be called "They Always Have It Coming: The Documentary." One woman talks about how her soon-to-be ex-husband (her exact words) was ripping her a new asshole when she wanted to come forward, blaming her for what happened to her and telling her how stupid she would be to go public, and there is another woman who looks at her husband with adoring 😍 eyes and they eventually explain how he worked with her to have the statue…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:32 AM
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My bf's ex did some modelling in her younger days and while gorgeous, she was extremely nuts. She kinda considered herself Russian, though she was technically Ukranian. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:06 PM
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He doesn't. This is even the first year he will make more than me, and it's 7 years in. But holy what a reversal, I've made a little more than him our whole relationship, and now all of a sudden he will make $10k more than me this year. Just feels so... abrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:47 PM
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I think like all men they treat the women who liked them at a really young age like trash, but then maybe they figure out what their smv really is and begin to re-evaluate some things later.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:25 PM
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No I borderline forgot he existed and that we went out until he popped up on my social media apologizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:40 PM
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5'6", and in high school, 5'4". The latter guy was such a dick he came back ten years later and apologized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:36 PM
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I've date shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:35 PM
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Not true for me, the shortest guys I dated treated me the worst though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:25 PM
3

I am taken. Perhaps in the next life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:15 PM
3

Ah, indeed I am. Okay, we you're entitled to your opinion in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:14 PM
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The stipulation that there is no higher purpose equally applies to reproduction and why there is no need to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:12 PM
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Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:11 PM
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Lmao at this baldfaced disingenuousness. What was the point of your initial post if not to imply that these women killed themselves because of failure to reproduce by age 30? Go ahead, do tell us. Be very explicit and direct. Nevermind that the second woman you linked to had, in fact, done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:07 PM
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Uh-huh. There is no larger purpose to people being here. It is up to the individual to determine how they find fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:53 PM
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"Biological fact" says that 60% of men should be removed from the gene pool, as that is the historic norm. Funny, I don't see you endorsing that. You're blind to your own biases, it's quite comical, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:44 PM
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Sexual reproduction is not required to be alive. Food, water and shelter are, though. You can say that you personally believe that people should sexually reproduce, but that's assigning a value judgment to something that is not required for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:42 PM
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My bf said the same. She became his favourite of the 3 based on her personality, initially he thought she wasn't that good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:12 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:11 PM
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The notion that there are 2 sexes on the planet "for a reason" is also 'space mumbo jumbo.' It's an esoteric, spiritual belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:08 PM
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You said if the woman had the intent to stay together but that's not what happened, it was automatically casual sex. Having an ex automatically means it was casual sex "even if it was six months" - your literal words. Married couples presumably had "intent to stay together." The divorce rate is still 50%. By your insane definition, any sex that happened in a context where the couple did not stay together until one party died is casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:07 PM
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It's not a new phenomenon. In 2013 at least 3 celebrities killed themselves at age 29, one whom was Lee Thompson Young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:00 PM
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It's the fact that they want to collect them that is antisocial. And I'm also convinced there are biological underpinnings to the fact that they are both more likely to cheat on and murder their women when they are pregnant. Male sexuality is quite dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:58 PM
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Suicide isn't uncommon during the Saturn Return for either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:55 PM
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You literally said any couple who had sex unmarried or without explicit intent to marry was having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:54 PM
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Yes, because men's sexuality is antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:23 PM
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Feminism is the radical notion that women are also people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:22 PM
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They're not married. They've been living together since 1981. Your definition of casual sex is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:25 PM
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What? Being in a happy relationship means you can't be interested in debate? Keep hamstering there bud, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:42 PM
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Well, I don't believe that all men are oppressors. I do believe that the vast majority of men think women are inferior and that they should be able to be, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:40 PM
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any woman who agrees to have a baby with any man is making a poor decision. Let's be honest: this is the correct answer. For more on this, see r/FemaleAntinatalism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:36 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:34 PM
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My bf is the tallest person in his family at 5'8".5. His sister is 4'10" and she has been married to a man who is 5'3" since she was 23. His brother is 5'5 and has never had trouble getting women. His father has been married for close to 50 years. Based on what I have seen my entire life, I believe that if a man is short and can't get a woman, one of two things is happening, or both things: 1) He's ethnic with otherwise average looks (facially, body wise) 2) He has a shitty personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:28 PM
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By this insane definition, Ricky Gervais has been having casual sex with the same woman since 1981.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:24 PM
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First two paragraphs really hammer it home. Getting to know you is infinitely less compelling than being known.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:12 PM
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I'm not sure, exactly. It's just what I always wanted. I actually fell for a guy once who said he was planning on traveling for a few years/being a nomad, and I couldn't stay invested in the moment because to me, if it wasn't going to last, there was just no point. So I ended up breaking it off with him and going out with a guy who wasn't planning on going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:11 PM
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I think I saw them open for Rancid in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:55 PM
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Oh wow, that does sound cool. No, I've never heard of them but kinda want to, now!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:33 PM
2

California was bleeding their whole middle class so Newsom brought in rent control in 2019, 5% cap. Coming to an American state near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:14 PM
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🤣🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:11 PM
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I'm sure you can guess. I'd leave all the social conservatives of the world where they came from. We have enough podunk trash of our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:11 PM
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Wow, really? I think that's only happened to me once and tbh it was a Cancer Bats show, that's kind of asking for it lmao Now I am wondering if Canadian black people like rock music more 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:09 PM
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Sure, why not. If we prescreened for values as part of the immigration process we wouldn't have to worry about shortcuts like this. Because the way it is now we are relying on the assumption of assimilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:56 PM
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They're only tolerant of the women, and their vaginas short-term. When it's the men we're talking about they get real tribal 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:53 PM
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That's because men usually lead with their johnsons, not their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:51 PM
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He grew up in a culture where women are routinely raped and then stoned and blamed for it, and treated like trash, it's not reasonable to assume he may find it fine to treat women like trash when that's the culture he was born and raised in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:48 PM
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I actually think this says good things about women. It's showing that they aren't practising racism, they just don't want to be with a man from the country with one of the worst human rights records against women in the entire world. It's not about 'brown man bad,' it's about culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:45 PM
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A 26% rent increase in a single year?: https://apnews.com/article/business-lifestyle-us-news-miami-florida-a4717c05df3cb0530b73a4fe998ec5d1?utm_source=pocket-newtab How is this allowed? It's so far beyond absurd that it's incomprehensible to me. On the other hand, Vancouver takes it too far and does vacancy control, not allowing the landlords to even charge the new tenant the market rate, which makes no sense either. What if there were extensive and expensive renovations? New York City used to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:43 PM
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I don't think I'd really care, considering it has only come up three times, and the first two I was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:40 PM
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Lmaoooo that is hilariously detailed, I like the acronym though, I hope some woman out there is using it 🤣👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:38 PM
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No I like skinny men, not muscular or fat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:37 PM
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Lol. Why?? Back when she was popular, I'd get strangers telling me I look like Rosario Dawson, which used to annoy me because I don't find her pretty at all. Later, it was Rihanna, and the last time I got a comparison to a celebrity it was my physiotherapist telling me how I look like Megan Markle. It changes depending on whichever famous lightskinned black woman is on people's radars at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:08 PM
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Yes, I have left-swiped men on tinder for being too conventionally attractive and too obviously aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
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Black, Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:08 PM
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Oh, well that I can't help with lol I'm nice to everybody irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:07 PM
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It's the Daily Community Chat thread, it's pretty active everyday and gets reposted every 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:39 PM
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Definitely need to have iron self-esteem for this place it doesn't make it easy on anyone. I know there are good dudes out there I live with one. Still, women get a lot of criticism from men especially on the internet, but while men are criticizing women, they should stop and examine their own tendency to provide perverse incentives. On a macro level, women are only doing what makes sense in direct response to men's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:38 PM
2

You may have a misandry fetish, there is a subreddit for it that is pretty sexually explicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:17 PM
1

I'm an only child, actually. Stepdad is a great dude. Who says I don't like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:16 PM
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If you go to the daily right now, for example, men are attempting to hamster how men having slept with anything that moves is not an indicator of impulse control issues, only promiscuous women can have those, apparently. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:15 PM
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😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:14 PM
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There were always trash women. 14% of women cheat on their marital partners. That's not even half of the 30% of fathers who cheat on the mothers of their children, timing their affairs when said mothers are pregnant or recently gave birth to their child, but still, said women exist. Being morally superior to men on average does not require that all women be perfect. Nice try though 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:06 PM
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My point was never that there are no trash women. Simply that men have no honour, are only as faithful as their options, and that their only standards are double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:04 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:02 PM
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Interesting, I didn't know the premise of most Hallmark movies was "woman hits wall, gets desperate."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:23 PM
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It's literally the exact opposite. Women of all races are all fighting for the sadly small minority of leftist urban hipster white males. He is Chad. If we wanted a triple-chinned gun-toter we all know where to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:56 PM
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"Stuck in"? There is no reason you can't move to any of the many right-wing incest-loving shitholes, they are the majority of the United States and the cost of living is typically lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:54 PM
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Yeah, I stopped reading there. Straight delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:36 PM
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What percentage of couples wed as virgins, 5%? Is it appropriate to attribute benefits to every conservative that may only be attributable to a small minority of them? Particularly when they continue to divorce more overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:32 PM
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If the data is good it should be replicable. There are certainly other studies with conflicting findings: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm#:~:text=Summary%3A&text=They%20found%20that%20having%20a,relationships%20and%20greater%20sexual%20satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:26 AM
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3% is below the standard deviation for statistical significance in every other report from IFStudies. They normally don't count findings as statistically significant until 4%. Funny that they do this one time, gee I wonder why 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:22 AM
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By the same logic, Americans have the highest divorce rates in the western world so I guess they have the happiest marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:20 AM
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I haven't seen women dating drug dealers or criminals, but I'm not sure how things typically work in the trailer park. I imagine assortative mating is all the rage there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:31 AM
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We watched together over zoom and we were literally screaming at the TV, "Run, Nick, Run!!!" Did you see the profuse amount of sweat he had at the altar?? Yikes!!! 😬😬😳
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:16 AM
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Red flag to the max I would prefer he keep that to himself if that had ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:38 AM
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My girl just wrote me the following message about Nick and Danielle on Love Is Blind Season 2: "Maybe he’s gay, maybe he’ll find a nice gay man :) I want him to be happy. I want crazy girl to get help." 😂🤣😂🤣☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:19 AM
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Men have it harder from teens-29. Women have it harder after that. Dating is easier for women (young women, I should say), but once it transitions into most people are in actual relationships, in the 30s, everything favours men. Relationships especially conventional marriages with kids, are about long-suffering wives living in servitude to children and husbands, who oftentimes are cheating. I mean, they get the advantage for the majority of the lifespan, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:42 PM
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Non-wholesome trash like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:05 PM
2

Thanks boo 🥰🤗 Enjoy your award!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:51 PM
1

Well, you don't want the option, at least, in the summertime? You can maintain a healthy weight and save on transport costs, why not endorse it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:01 PM
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Well, not really. The "depends on the face" remark is premised on the notion it's above a five.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:33 PM
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I just realized I read it wrong. I read it quickly and thought you wrote the Q4W like "5'6" not "5-6."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:22 PM
2

Yeah, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:20 PM
3

"Don't got no excuse" for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:17 PM
1

The black guys I know who are around that height are above-average face and body type so they do okay romantically but that's not the only sphere of life I'm considering, and the white guys who are on the short side and do OK with women are nowhere near as jacked as the black guys I know and I suspect they don't have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:14 PM
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Nope. Just honest to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:35 PM
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Lol what is the "average race" wouldn't that depend on which country you live in? Lmao. I know short white dudes and none of them have struggled with women, they've all gotten them easily. The one with model-tier facial features, my ex, could break up with one and have a new one the next day, and he was 5'6". I think if you're 5'6" and ethnic, I hope you have the IQ to make $200k. If I could be a 5'6" white dude with above- or even slightly-above average facial features I'd take that gladly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:30 PM
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Would depend on my face and race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:20 PM
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He is the best in bed, yes, because we have had seven years of practise. Making me come is muscle memory to him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:06 PM
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I don't think I'm bitter at men in general, I just think the fact that men don't particularly like or respect women and that they are selfish and unreliable in marital relationships is self-evident. There's no use in being bitter about it, it's like complaining about the fact that we all die one day or have to pay taxes. That doesn't mean they suck in every facet of life, they can be good in the context of friendship, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:59 PM
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We are both from the suburbs, hated it and moved to the city early 20s and will never go back there. We have friends from all socioeconomic strata, which is pretty typical here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:50 PM
1

Lmao why would you say that? 😂🤣 Lmao We met on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:45 PM
0

Mine is 5'8 and a half. His n was around 40 when we began dating. He was poor when we met, but will make $60k this year after his second bonus in June, so... a little less poor. Only way he's objectively different than the male average is high empathy more typically seen in women and a heart the size of Russia, as well as a 7.5 inch penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:53 PM
1

Wooooow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:50 PM
0

Okay, I'll let you get back to the honky tonk hoedown now. Toodles!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:12 PM
0

The thing though is that average guys don't even like women. They just need to reign in their sex drive and/or pay for it, because you can't reasonably expect someone to live under the same roof with someone who thinks they're dumb, vapid, or extremely annoying, which is how most men see women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:08 PM
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You're the one who claimed that a woman can't be attractive unless she has 3-4k followers. Then when confronted with the reality that I am friends with influencers and know what it takes to be one, all of a sudden it's don't flex with followers? LMFAO at the blatant shifting goalposts. And I don't really care what you do with your honkytonk asses down in Texas. When I travel it's to world-class cities; Paris, London, Oslo, Singapore, Sydney, New York. Whotf goes to pickup truck land? You also co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:03 PM
0

You use the word "ain't," I'm sure you're just fully integrated with high society, they're well-reknowned for sounding like they're from the ghetto 🙄 /sarc And just checked insta and my bestie has 21.9k followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:51 PM
3

☠️☠️🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:38 PM
1

I already live in a big city and I have a very active social life not sure wtf you're talking about. Just because I don't post actual photos of my ass all over social media for attention and most of my friends don't doesn't mean any of us are unattractive. This woman is a friend of mine and has fewer followers than I do, you expect me to believe she couldn't have 2-3k followers if she wasn't desperate for attention? Just lmfao. Millennial women have actual careers to worry about, we aren't tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:36 PM
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We would leave our men, yes. That is the point and why women fought for more lax divorce laws. We don't want her man or any man like him. That's just how it goes, stop whining about it. You won't change the fact that most women have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:29 PM
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You don't have to be a socialite to have guys find you attractive lmao keep telling on yourselves. And you guys want us to feel sorry for your single asses 😂🤣 like, maybe if the only women you consider decent are socialites maybe that's your issue why you are dying alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:26 PM
1

Don't care if he follows a random girl on Instagram. He's not fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:01 PM
2

Yeah exactly. Boyfriend has his fingerprint in my phone and vice-versa, but I don't go through his phone I really don't care which Instagram "girlsthinkimfunny" story he was watching today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:26 PM
3

It means you don't trust each other, and/or are a psycho control freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:25 PM
3

Because you are a cheater probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:25 PM
1

Yes, I'm sure men grinding on women's asses is about power, and not their boners. Also the reason why majority of rape victims are under age 25. "Power."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:23 PM
1

Whine whine whine. 🙄 I'm not even a week from a 2-week ban for appropriately responding to a retard who insulted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:13 PM
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Sometimes I am super tempted to post pics here. But I've said too much controversial shit where I genuinely think some of the more unhinged incels would try and hunt me down and murder me, so I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:10 PM
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I am friends with influencers, one of whom lives in LA, and they post daily thirst traps. The hottest girl I ever knew IRL is a blonde Irish girl with massive tits and she wanted to be a mom so only posted classy pics. She doesn't have that many followers. Not every woman is looking for the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:08 PM
-1

Cognitive dissonance is not what was following me around on Sunday night trying to grind into my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 PM
1

And that's fine, but that doesn't make it a compliment in general. It's generally an indictment or an insult, like the person saying you're not good enough to commit to long-term, you're disposable, just as it is with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 PM
1

Marriage is a ceremony in which a man stands in front of a woman's entire family and all of her friends, and proceeds to lie to her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:34 PM
2

That's not about being hot it's about willingness to show one's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:32 PM
1

Don't agree with the verbiage but I do agree that childfree men are better, more loyal men and actually love their partners (men with kids rarely do), and it's nice to see a man who wants kids admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:30 PM
1

More of the same. Really happy where I'm at in my life right now. I just want the stock market to rebound lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:26 PM
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Nobody held a gun to these guys' heads. They shouldn't get married then if they can't handle the vows. Don't stand there in front of all of their friends and family and lie to her face. Having said that, I do understand that this is exactly what marriage is and have said that before here. Thank god the marriage rate is in the shitter and falling fast. Men who end up divorced always deserved it and had it coming, and men evidently agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:23 PM
0

Um, no. Women cheat 14% of the time. And a lot of the time when women cheat it's revenge cheating, women who "forgave" their husband's affair. Married fathers cheat 30% of the time. There is no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:19 PM
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My boyfriend disagrees he really struggled to get LTRs when he was ready to settle down in his late 20s and that's all he really wanted. And he is boyfriend material hardcore to me and I can say that it means the woman thinks highly of your character, potential and even looks, if a woman thinks you're not good enough for long-term it's because she thinks you're dumb or won't age well or filthy (as in you live in filth), or a manchild or thinks you're cute enough for when she's horny as hell and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:16 PM
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I have active social media profiles and as of Sunday night, still get sexually harassed hardcore at the club despite being 36.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:13 PM
3

Probably a cheater 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:12 PM
1

Her story is extremely common. Facebook page "I Regret Having Children" is full of women giving some variation of this story. Married fathers just tend to leave women holding the proverbial bag. That is why radfems say it's a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:01 PM
1

Folding can be a group activity. Incidentally, I do the laundry and he does the cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:53 PM
2

I mean, I have been aware of the data for a long time, but I used to believe that it was morally problematic to draw the conclusion that women are just overall better people than men. I don't feel that way anymore, I credit ppd and the red pill more broadly with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:48 PM
3

😂🤣😂🤣👌🏽👌🏽 gold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:32 PM
1

No, it doesn't happen until the woman marries them: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.640033 And gives them kids: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2015/05/07/once-the-baby-comes-moms-do-more-dads-do-less-around-the-house/.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:25 PM
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Most hoe phases are rebounds from nightmare LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:21 PM
0

But bad relationships do exist and aren't rare, so it makes them a net neutral overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:20 PM
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I wouldn't say all, I would say the vast majority. There are some exceptions, nearly all of which are concentrated in secular liberal democracies and also vote liberal. They at least try to overcome their innate misogyny and not have double standards. We are talking about a minority within a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:08 PM
2

I can see why you'd be miserable if you don't fit in. Minorities in any place tend to be less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:06 PM
2

No, and I won't be having any.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:05 PM
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Because they didn't sign up for the shit deal they got, they thought they were getting fairness: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2015/05/07/once-the-baby-comes-moms-do-more-dads-do-less-around-the-house/#:~:text=When%20the%20babies%20were%20nine,hours%20more%20of%20child%20care.&text=Five%20fewer%20hours%20a%20week!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:12 PM
2

See strip clubs being banned in Iceland. WHAAAAT?!?! 😱😱😱 Wow, I do not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:09 PM
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I think it's because simply having a LTR doesn't guarantee happiness. For bad romantic relationships, platonic friendships actually do contribute more. Obviously, nothing can replace a close bond with a life partner who is genuinely your best friend and who creates the illusion of security and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:07 PM
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I don't believe that women are all martyrs. After all, not all women are mothers 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 PM
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I mean, I will be honest, I don't disagree with that. I do think the law is anti-man, which is why I said that the closest proximates we have to matriarchy can be found there. Considering that these men still report overall greater happiness and wellbeing suggests that feminist men value things other than unfettered access to sex workers more greatly than perhaps other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 PM
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But you said that women who have children are also worthless leeches, which mirrors and affirms my earlier comment: "I mean, men consider women worthless when they contribute to the tax base in the private sector as men do, and also when they don't as much because they are raising children." Women will be considered worthless by men regardless of what they do, so they should do whatever suits them. It's just that women who think that providing men with children will make them happier or more sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:02 PM
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The data provides the answer and shows that women who did not have children fared better, so yes, they are better off if they don't "leech" with hours and hours of unpaid labour doing the world's most thankless job for the world's most ungrateful employer. Don't Forget, not every woman has a barren mindset. Which is unfortunate. They should. We are working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:57 PM
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The closest we have are those of Scandinavia, where we find the happiest societies on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:54 PM
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Yes, let's just all cry for the gender who is statistically proven to have better fiscal outcomes from divorce: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jomf.12629 Boo fuckin hoo, men who got divorced deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:51 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:49 PM
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If they are lucky, more women will be in legislature and will make housing a human right and give them hotel rooms to live in or something. Since only women have enough empathy to care about stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:41 PM
2

Awww Thanks boo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:32 PM
2

I mean, men consider women worthless when they contribute to the tax base in the private sector as men do, and also when they don't as much because they are raising children. Men just don't like women and never have, it's not like women's behaviour can alter this perception. Ergo, there is no need for women to concern themselves with men's overall perception of them or their behaviour, which will continue to be more pro-social and civilized than men's irrespective of men's whining about it like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:30 PM
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And so what? When society was geared to benefiting men, men routinely died by the millions as cannon fodder. Male life expectancy shot up as women gained societal power, and tolerance for human casualties went down. Women value quality of life, men just value quantity. Which is base, lower-class and more feral (read: inferior) to women's values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:24 PM
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When men outnumber women in a given population so that women have more choice of mates, the rate of single motherhood goes down, per the scientific study posted. Are you unironically claiming that society does not benefit from fewer single mothers? Male sexuality is antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:12 PM
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Women's imperatives are objectively more pro-social than men's. When men outnumber women and thus women have greater mate selection choice, there are better outcomes and men behave better (to keep one of the more scarce women): https://www.livescience.com/55892-how-gender-ratio-affects-marriage-rates.html. When women outnumber men, men behave like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 PM
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I wouldn't say it changed my mind, but it illuminated certain things to me about myself that I maybe quietly kept in the back of my hindbrain, never really acknowledging fully. It was this place that made me realize that I am a female supremacist and have always quietly believed that women are morally superior. I mean, I think I always quietly felt that way, but being around a bunch of misogynists and guys who just want to pump and dump women gave me license to fully own those feelings and not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:01 PM
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Interesting take 🤔 can't say I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:55 PM
2

This is an extremely good faith take. You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:53 PM
1

If there are women here who don't know what men want, God help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:43 PM
1

Shows that the red pill and it's concepts are practiced even by those who are against the red pill. Yes, exactly. It's the cynics, misandrists and misanthropes who are correct, not TRPers. Because we are realistic about what you can expect from male/human nature, and that it's shit. There is no virtuous group of men, they're only as faithful as their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:40 PM
1

Exactly. We know what men want and how they are, and guys here are only too happy to confirm those things we know for us. We don't need to ask you guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:32 PM
1

Just do the above. Many men don't even care if a woman talks. In fact, they'd prefer she didn't. They are looking for a blowup doll who cooks for them and does their laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:28 PM
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Yep, I have men all figured out, why would we need to talk about them? With men, it's very simple: be hot, be young, put out, laugh at his jokes, do everything because men are lazy - and this is especially important if you aren't hot or young - and know that if you do these things, there is still a really good chance that he will still cheat on or abandon you if he feels he has a legitimate chance to be with a woman who is hotter or more young. If he doesn't think he has a legitimate chance to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:18 PM
1

It's different in a LTR than a new one. Women's desire changes overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:12 PM
1

If you're childfree and you have an accident, you can still have an abortion. I would be surprised if 5% of cf women were against it. You can't even post in the sub if you're antichoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:08 PM
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It really doesn't matter whether a woman "hates" men or not. Women who think the world of them are still the most likely to be cheated on when they are pregnant, just like all women are. Working women who give men kids still end up doing the overwhelming majority of the childcare and housework, because men actually do less housework after the baby comes along to compensate for having to spend some of their recreational time with the kid. FDS women just want their money's worth if that's going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:04 PM
2

We bought long-term care insurance and plan to work as long as we're of sound mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:59 PM
1

A flawed sample like the majority of men on planet earth? You said yourself you have less conservative ideas than people/other men. Most men are conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 PM
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Uh huh. Don't worry, I never expect to see a man take accountability, it's always a woman's fault and men will always blame women when men do anything, from infidelity to crime to suicide, men will find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:56 PM
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Your wife does not work, that doesn't mean that no woman should. Most men won't seriously date a woman who has no income, but I get that some are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:55 PM
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Men will say things like this and then wonder why women don't want to marry them. Comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:43 PM
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Older people who are still together were likely married in the 1970s. Those married in the 50s are mostly dead now, but we did talk to them. Like my grandmother, who had to deal with my grandfather having multiple children on the side despite being married. Kinsey showed that male marital infidelity was 50% in the 1950s. That's what happens when the women are trapped and dependent. It's 20-25% today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:40 PM
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Is it possible that your friends are outliers? You probably also overlook them referring to women as thots and stuff and don't even see it as sexist because that's just normal culture, to call women names.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:54 AM
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It's in literally every realm of life. If a woman doesn't put out she's uptight or thinks too highly of herself, if she does she gets called a slut. If a woman doesn't have kids she's a catlady if she does and it doesn't work out with the father she's a trashy single mom who no man wants to date, if a woman works as a mom she's being selfish and neglecting her kids if she stays home she's a freeloader or golddigger and men will use these women to claim that only men contribute to the tax base wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:48 AM
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Not every young woman is like that. I always had trouble being alone and dated "average" guys most of whom were complete assholes when young. I think if a girl wants to hold out and focus on herself and her own advancement and date a bit later on (when men have matured a bit) she will probably benefit from that immensely. Perhaps guys can also grow from this and actually appreciate their partners when they get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:33 AM
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We already know women can't win here. If we say about our men, he has these traits that indicate he's a fairly normal dude, it's "nice! You're saying your boyfriend is ugly." And if we swoon about how handsome we think he is, it's "chad chaser!!!" Literally, women can never win because men in general will always hate and demean us as sport. It's just what they do, it's male culture 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:54 AM
1

I'm sure weed has been illegal where you live until recently at best (or still is). And you've probably tried that anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:41 AM
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None of those things is about actual physical looks though. Physical attractiveness for men peaks 26-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:49 PM
1

But still: https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/news/20000406/early-death-single-mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:45 PM
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It's not broken down by gender. But this is: https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-having-children-make-people-happier-in-the-long-run Men are far less likely to regret having kids than women are. They're probably skewing the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:43 PM
1

She might have been having a bad day. Hadn't she just gone through a breakup then? She's got a boyfriend again now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:13 PM
2

I've never heard of a man who routinely gets sex and relationships, then gets dumped when they find out he's a shitty person. This describes my ex, but I'd replace "gets dumped" with "gets cheated on" because that typically happened to him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:07 PM
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Men who are sexually frustrated should get hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:01 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:39 PM
1

In addition to that, they can still get famous and still get venture capital..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:37 PM
1

It still happens quite often in the summertime when on the sidewalk alone but it's never an ego boost because I wouldn't date those men if I was dying of thirst and they were holding a 4L jug of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:20 PM
1

Yes: https://mobile.twitter.com/candacebushnell/status/1155902525532454912?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:17 PM
1

So even you understand that the thing that makes having kids better for women is that they can more easily avoid doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:16 PM
1

I mean, people violate their principles all the time, but okay, let's just say that most men are garden-variety sexist who believe women's place is under the heel of men and who endorse double standards. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:15 PM
1

They get paid less too. Still more likely to be promoted than an ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:12 PM
3

I'd say 27-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:39 PM
2

Oh. I learned something new today on ppd!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:19 PM
2

Lol wtf? 🤣😂🤣😂 This place is forever jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:10 PM
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Uh-huh. Suuure they are. Well, they can cry into their piles of money and go dancing to boost their spirits since they are less likely to be physically disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:09 PM
3

It's not by ages 50 to 70, so maybe on their deathbeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:59 PM
5

Why would they need to do that? Weren't you the one who said all women want kids? 🤔😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:50 PM
6

Why wasn't I born a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:45 PM
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Her entire life is a cautionary tale. Like, literally, her mother supports her 5'3" husband who does absolutely nothing around the house and who she hires prostitutes for, and she doesn't even get to eat. I feel like the reason she is so extreme is because the cognitive dissonance needed to not end yourself when you were born into money and your life still turned out so sad is just that much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:36 PM
1

Everyone will not adopt my strategy. There will always be stupid, naive and/or overly-trusting women willing to breed and who pay the price for it in poverty, the double shift and being demeaned as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:32 PM
1

Wtf? Yes, women are endangering you with their opinions on the internet 🙄 okay, snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:31 PM
0

Discrimination: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/money/us-money-blog/2014/oct/30/women-pay-get-thin-study They can get a job but employers consider them literally worth less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:30 PM
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Life isn't just about having fun. It's also about being healthy while having fun. Can't enjoy yourself without a strong constitution. Also there are rewards to having kids. After they move out, maybe. Assuming they don't end up on opioids or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:08 PM
1

I understand your point, foreign-born Euro women are betas too, but they get looked at as a serious option sooner, I'd say while the guy is still in his early to mid-20s. Other foreign women go in bucket C.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:06 PM
2

Omg, why is this thread so wholesome? Sir and ma'am, please stop, no one comes here to have their hearts thawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:03 PM
1

Enjoying your life and not being fucking miserable with kids that are a handful and an ungrateful, cheating husband who expects you to do all the work is plenty purpose for a growing number of women 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:59 PM
1

And that's your opinion which is fine, but most men are going for Stacy who is born and raised in North America and only giving the betas a serious look once they've been rejected too many times by the Stacies. They want the Emma Watson/Jennifer Love Hewitt/Blake Lively lookalike they grew up watching on their TV. This may be changing a little with the youngest generation because of Zendaya though. If you really want to see this in action, you should watch the latest season of Love Is Blind. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:57 PM
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Well, that makes sense given your upbringing. But that's less of a common experience unless you live in certain cities with a lot of first-gen immigrants. What I said is more typical of western men (white or nonwhite but born in the country).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:49 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:45 PM
1

Case in point. Now that your hair is thinning, foreign women are wonderful choices. But when you had your looks and a full head of hair, you were going for blonde native-born Stacy first Hunger-Games style and outright ignoring OR pumping and dumping the same women you claim to have a preference for now. So predictable. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:44 PM
1

Just look at all that "female benefit." https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleAntinatalism/comments/svzf0t/i_hate_being_a_mom_i_hate_being_a_mom_i_hate/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:42 PM
2

Not necessarily. A lot of broke men still want a submissive working woman who does everything around the house. There aren't a lot of benefits to being with such a man that nights out with your friends can't beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:37 PM
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Where does this myth come from? It is way, way easier for a beta female to find a man and stop getting "we're not compatibled" in her late 20s/early 30s than a decade earlier. Men stop Stacy-chasing and get desperate once their hairline starts to thin. All of a sudden men realize how many foreign, chubby and ethnic women they are compatible with 🙄 and women get to choose between betas for her beta of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:33 PM
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Ugly women can't become rich unless through inheritance, ugly men can so I'm going with women because once an ugly man is rich he can get beautiful women (see: Jay-Z). Ugly women get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:23 PM
1

She said once she just wanted her to be around more when she was growing up. It all stems from mommy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:17 PM
2

I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:15 PM
2

Actually, it's her rich feminist mom who provides for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:08 PM
1

Kids are tangible benefits for who? Only men. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:07 PM
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Nope, just males. Women's rate is 14-18% according to credible studies. Men's rate is down from the 50% Kinsey reported in the 50s, and even down from their rate in 1975: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/people-cheat-less-now-tha_n_964186/amp Consequences work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:05 PM
1

Not seeing the problem there. 8 billion is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:01 PM
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I said what I said because it makes no sense that a woman would trust a man enough to give him kids. She gets stuck holding the bag and then men shit on her for being a single mom. There are zero upsides to being this retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:59 PM
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Abstract: "Reviews studies on the effects of parenthood on the psychological well-being of adults. Trends affecting the experience of parenthood (e.g., marital instability) and studies on parents' happiness and quality of life, psychological distress, and perceptions of children are examined. It is noted that adults with children at home report that they are less happy and satisfied with life than other groups, worry more, and experience higher levels of anxiety and depression. Role accumulation…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:06 AM
1

That is correct. It's called oxytocin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:52 AM
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Women don't enjoy it. They are generally always looking for a non-douche, from day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:41 AM
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They do talk about it. Just anonymously. https://m.facebook.com/IRegretHavingChildren/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:39 AM
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Candace Bushnell doesn't regret it. Interview from 2021: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/17041083/satc-dating-apps-killed-casual-sex/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:37 AM
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Men generally enjoy it until they start losing their hair. Then they clutch for the nearest woman who will put up with their shit like it's a life raft.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:03 AM
2

We ate Red Lobster, watched Love Is Blind, then went to improv comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:53 AM
2

Oh man, that sucks balls! Sending good vibes your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:53 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:52 AM
2

I was today years old when I learned there is a raccoon emoji. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:50 AM
1

He's not attractive, but he's substantially less useless around the house than your average husband, so I'll allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:39 AM
1

Joe Rogan looks and sounds like if a turd magically fell out of one's asshole shaped like Mr. Clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:35 AM
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What if I have kids, then realize later down the line they are too much work, and just leave them to the mother to raise them as a single mother? I can't believe women are still dumb enough to give men kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:34 AM
1

What? The self-reported male infidelity rate has gone down substantially since the 70s. No-fault divorce has been working.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:23 AM
5

RP dudes always tell on themselves they're usually from a working-class or low-income background.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:21 AM
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Seth Rogan. He's funny, he's hella devoted to his wife, he's Canadian, he's a millennial, and he hates kids. It's like he stepped off the assembly line for ideal men and only missed the part of the line where they put together your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:16 AM
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I was just with my friend tonight having dinner for her 45th birthday. She is currently single and childless (and blonde and thin). My friend who was 38 was supposed to come down and meet her, but got snowed in. He was super bummed about it. She was indifferent lol. Tbh she's one of the happiest people I know. She got rich off investing in real estate here and in Romania and she travels with her girls multiple times a year. This year's trip will be Brazil and Argentina.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:08 AM
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A guy can hate and/or not respect women and still jerk off/pay money for sex workers. These are not incompatible concepts by any stretch of the imagination and I have no idea why you would think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:01 AM
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Well, at least we can agree on one thing: more women choosing cats is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:50 PM
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I don't think you'd be lecturing me if you didn't care, and no one being called an incel was acting innocent before it happened. If you see the retort, "okay incel" often, then maybe just maybe these assholes are not as rare as you're pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:39 PM
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There are four states that haven't had declining life expectancies in America. They are New York, California, New Jersey and Illinois. If you're talking about total numbers sure but per capita it doesn't get worse than Kentucky, Ohio and West Virginia, which aren't known for their liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:34 PM
1

So you believe in violence but God forbid someone should belittle a bad person. But at the same time, the bad person being belittled has not been victimized in any way because they're just words and words can never be harmful. K. Well, you're entitled to your contradictory and bizarre opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:54 PM
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It's the unfortunate truth. I wish it wasn't true but it is. And men tell you this themselves when they say things like, "a man is only as loyal as his options." In other words, men are not loyal. Considering how little men tend to bring to a marriage, letting the woman do the vast majority of the housework and childcare and they are more likely to be drunks or have substance abuse issues, if he can't even be loyal, what is he actually good for? That's right, nothing. So yes, it is almost always…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:50 PM
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Trade up is about more than just leaving, it's about loyalty. A disloyal man is useless and no woman actually wants that. They may put up with it for awhile but they will hate themselves for settling for low-value behaviour. A real high value man doesn't act like a monkey he has integrity and self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:49 PM
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Like opioids, Confederate flags and concentration camps where they hold children?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:47 PM
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A man wrote that song too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:46 PM
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Their words on the internet when they have anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:42 PM
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Yes, it's obviously so rare for men to call women thots, I can see why you felt the need to whine about it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:41 PM
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Lol I am sensing some sarcasm here. But, help me to understand. Why would you want to live around people who you hate and who hate you? Like, genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:10 PM
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Yeah. honestly, you can't fix crazy. All you can do is flee from it. My grandfather fled Louisiana in 1921 because it was a racist shithole. It is now 2022 and it is still a racist shithole. You will not change the culture of a shithole (however you define that). All you can do is flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:07 PM
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Yeah, same. I knew this blonde girl who was sooo vapid, she was really beautiful in the face, skinny with big boobs. I recently made friends with a blonde girl who is just as beautiful though and she has a great soul. She's a lot quieter and way less likely to be drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:04 PM
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Appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:01 PM
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But TRP guys don't say that women are just as human and fallible as men are, because they paint men as blameless and women as evil golddigging jezebel whores. If they were saying women can be bad just like men, I don't think anyone would have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:00 PM
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Mad respect to Americans for voting with their feet. "Americans are moving to places where political views match their own." Pundits are calling it "The Big Sort." https://www.npr.org/2022/02/18/1081295373/the-big-sort-americans-move-to-areas-political-alignment I have to say, I 100% agree. That's why I always say, the rent is expensive here because it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:56 PM
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So you never defend yourself. Weird flex, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:53 PM
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Well maybe you can show me some examples of relationships where the man had threesomes with his wife where the marriage didn't end in divorce/she didn't end up leaving him. According to you they are abundant so I'm sure you should have no problem finding those.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:52 PM
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I don't think it's very challenging for you to be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:51 PM
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Rebecca Gayhart and Eric Dane had threesomes with women, as did Robin Thicke and Paula Patton. Both couples are now divorced. Men who have threesomes are low-value by definition. No woman wants to be stuck with such a man indefinitely. They will always get sick of it and file eventually Robin Thicke in particular is a really great example of how getting with a man when you're 19 years old/under 25 is a bad idea because they might be lifelong alpha chasers and you have no way of knowing until you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:54 PM
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I agree, but wish men would stop being angry with women for choosing to prioritize things that they can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:44 PM
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Lol "Marry young" These women get divorced the most. Men will never give women advice that's in the woman's interest, only the man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:42 PM
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Caleb was my definition of an 8 tbh. He had very symmetrical features, big eyes, a nice nose, no caveman jaw, no bald head (or maybe he did but he had the good sense to wear hats).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:30 PM
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The gender that victim blames women who were abandoned by their husbands saying it's their fault and they should have known better than to marry a man who had options never takes accountability for anything. They literally say if a woman wants to touch their penis they have no choice but to let them and then whine about being divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:28 PM
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I agree that we do tend to dress better. I just think people are more focused on family and/or career in their 30s and so spend less time being active and looking after their bodies. For some women who lived hard in their 20s smoking and binge drinking and whatnot, their 30s is when the lifestyle choices start to show up in their faces too. Thankfully, that's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:39 PM
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But that's what men do. They blame women for everything. They are allergic to accountability. No matter what happens it's always a/the woman's fault. We have hard data showing that divorced men usually caused their divorces and deserved it, but you will never meet a divorced man who will admit he had it coming. He will instead blame women for family law being what he considers unfavourable saying "the incentives" are why his marriage failed, because y'know, he had nothing to do with it, never mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:37 PM
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Incels are misogynists so that's why we don't like those, not their sexlessness. Their sexlessness is just an easy target because they tend to deserve it. And as for players, they aren't respected for the same reason that people who gorge on 5,000 calories a day aren't. If you behave like a feral ape, you will be looked at such. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:33 PM
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You can it's just rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:20 PM
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Love Is Blind season 2. Watching episode 6 over zoom with my girl and my man is on the couch with me. We have a consensus that Danielle is out of control and needs to just marry some cats. Like, intense therapy is needed. What say you, ladies of PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:20 PM
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Great answer 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:12 PM
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Why would that be sexist? Plenty of women want the same things, are they all sexist against women? 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:11 PM
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I've still got a good face, but I could stand to lose some weight, sure. And yes, I weighed less even at 33 than I do now (gym closures probably a factor sure but also I just think it gets harder in general when you're over 35 and that is when weight gain tends to speed up for most people). I don't care if you think I'm hot or should still be or not. I'm taken and anyway as I said dude you're not my type. No offense 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:00 PM
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I'm 36 years old now. Obviously I'm not gonna be an 8 at my age. But my type was the same from 18-29, which is when I was dating. I've been taken for 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:55 PM
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I was actually approached to be a hip hop video vixen in Manhattan when I was 20, and declined (because I did not want to move to America, nor date rappers). Melissa Ford was the biggest video vixen at the time, and she is actually from my city. Based on the photo, I'm presuming the ethnic background of this poster and I can say that I have never had sex with a man this ethnicity. Being a bodybuilder would not change that (actually, would make it even less likely that I would have sex with such …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:35 PM
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You can't prevent it. A man is only as faithful as his options. A man famously said that (who later traded in his wife for a younger woman). I will say that men are statistically least likely to abandon a woman he met/married when she was in her mid-to-late 20s or early 30s. If you were under 25 when you met, he may just go looking for a woman that young again. You can't be sure he's not an alpha chaser if you were an alpha when you met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:26 PM
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60% of marriages do not end in divorce, though that should probably be the number given how most men treat their wives. I mean, 30% of fathers admit cheating on the mothers of their children, and they are statistically most likely to first do so when their wives are pregnant with their children. I've seen mgtow men claim that Jeff Bezos is a victim of divorce. We have the texts to his mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:25 PM
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Red pill is not a tiny minority of men. I'm absolutely convinced the majority of males think this way. Hell, take any religious man who closely follows an Abrahamic faith and he thinks this way just by default. That's a huge percentage of men right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:13 PM
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Misandrist comments are things like "most men don't respect women at all," and "men lack empathy for anyone but themselves," which they are only too happy to demonstrate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:08 PM
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Mansplain to me some more about how men generalizing women "might be right" to do so 🙄 But don't forget to whine about women thinking men are sexist immediately after doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:06 PM
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I celebrate this forum because the men here demonstrate why the marriage rates crashing is a good thing and why women's macro-level choices are 100% rational and justified. All they have to do is speak and the point is made. The men of this forum do more for feminism than anything since Gloria Steinem started her career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:04 PM
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You think comments like that are a one-off from men? They happen literally every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:00 PM
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Don't worry about it. Men are more likely to be bad people who lack empathy than women are, he's just generously trying to demonstrate the statistical reality for all of us on ppd. Ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 PM
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Wtf are you on about? Are you on drugs? I never said I know what all women want, wtf? The point is that women don't all want the same things. Learn to read, Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:45 PM
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Did you need a back implant to pull off that reach?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:44 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:43 PM
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Dr. Dre wrote "bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks" and you're unironically suggesting that No Scrubs is the same level? Gtfo of here with that garbage 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:43 PM
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It's just that my friend's fiance died of it 13 years ago, and she was Jamaican descent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:52 AM
1

Lots of dudes do fine with a subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:38 AM
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Who is concern trolling? I'm giving my opinion. Why ask a question if you are going to whine about the answers? Beyond that, I couldn't articulate it when I was younger, but I realize in hindsight that's why I never dated much older men. The oldest gap I went for in my 20s was 3 years. Well, that, and probably also the awareness that they were rejected by their wives or girlfriends and ended up on the scrap heap for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:26 AM
1

Well, he surfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:12 AM
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The OP of this thread isn't talking about being in shape and not fat though. He said literally that there is no such thing as too many muscles, and that any woman saying such a thing is possible is lying. Perhaps it is the statistically more autistic sex that is not understanding nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:11 AM
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Untrue misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:05 AM
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Living there means you probably do. Or just more than average anyway which of course the average man doesn't have a ton of respect for women anyway and looks down his nose at them and calls them thots and other degrading names.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:52 AM
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Something like this: https://youtu.be/8295rOMvtQI Just natural, like maybe from bowling or surfing or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 AM
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Lol wait, I'm just trying to understand what the picture has to do with cystic fibrosis though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:38 AM
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It's behind a paywall. And who says I hate men? Other than the men whining about observable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:33 AM
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The average age of marriage is 29 for women with the average amount of time dating and engaged before getting married 3 years, yet they are all single well into their 30s. I guess the school data is true and men really are shittier than women these days at math.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:27 AM
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How does a majority of women not wanting to date men with wide hips translate to wanting men on anabolic steroids? Women set a preferred ideal man at a BMI of 24.5, hardly your roided-out man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:24 AM
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Wrong again (what else is new? Men here always are). I wanted to settle down when I was 18. Men that age are never interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:21 AM
1

Well, forget gymbro, what about you? You just implied that women all prefer the same body type with that link about teenage girls and college girls. Which is exactly the kind of thing I would expect a man to say. Why get mad that men are consistently living up to my expectations of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:11 AM
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I prefer less. I like ectomorphs. Maybe a rower's body. Something a man can get from doing actual activities and not lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:08 AM
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I like how teenage girls are supposed to represent "women" to men. Yep, sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:07 AM
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You don't get to complain about those things unless you let us celebrate and encourage more abortions.🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:06 AM
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This guy says he looks up to guys who do anabolic steroids. He also says that if you don't look like those guys' girlfriends as a woman, your opinion somehow doesn't count. Maybe whine to the guys who come here everyday proving the study's point, and not to random women on the internet for noticing. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:00 AM
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Being a gym bro is a main goal of TRP guys. Are they a small subset of men? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:52 AM
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The closest I could find to what I look like: https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/thumbor/VdYrwgOJrDcBXqBvk8vvpsJKlk8/fit-in/728xorig/filters:format_auto-!!-:strip_icc-!!-/2022/01/25/969/n/1922564/1d21e4de61f0768a35f587.03240183_/i/Best-Swimsuits-Curvy-Women.png Hell, even the side profile/face is close.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:48 AM
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Here you go, the study it was based on: https://www.livescience.com/21172-men-sexist-attitudes-muscles.html#:~:text=Men%20obsessed%20with%20building%20muscles,body%20image%2C%20the%20scientists%20added.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:47 AM
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Yep. There are reasons single men on playgrounds are looked at with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:46 AM
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Men do not respect women for being physically smaller, weaker and more vulnerable than them. Their misogyny comes from their testosterone. There are studies: https://www.popsugar.com/fitness/Muscular-Men-More-Sexist-Says-Study-39179807/amp. They feel the same way about physically small men. Men do not need a reason to be misogynists. It's their default state. They just make post-hoc rationalizations for it. And the culture and other men constantly reinforce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:41 AM
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So basically just going to exclude a huge chunk of women as not counting as women when they give their opinions. Which is exactly what multiple women on this thread have said. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:37 AM
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I'm glad you made the admission that it's anecdotal. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:22 AM
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It's just straight facts. The Sunshine Boy had to be canceled in Canada, women just could not come to a consensus on those men being hot. The Sunshine Girl lives on, because it turns out that men all like skinny conventionally attractive women in their 20s. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:20 AM
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The same logic says that skinny girls go for skinny guys. Not veiny gymbros. That is not every woman's type. Period, end of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:18 AM
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Misogyny didn't just start to happen yesterday. Men have always been like this. Actually, when divorce was illegal, they were worse. They just don't respect people who are physically smaller and less strong than they are. Man or woman. Their misogyny is just a rationalization for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:16 AM
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That's only one of the reasons it's gross. The relationship has a higher divorce rate, and is incredibly likely to fail. In the rare event that it doesn't fail, the woman will likely outlive the man by a lot, so the guy just simply doesn't care about what happens to the woman in the long run or that he is likely to leave her a young widow. He's only out for number one and just wants some ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:14 AM
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There is scientific evidence that women have different body types that they go for: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/08/070812095324.htm#:~:text=They%20measured%20the%20body%20composition,assortatively%20mate%20for%20body%20fatness. Sorry, you are objectively wrong. So I guess men don't have common sense 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:11 AM
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My bf's bestie is Auschwitz skinny and has a girlfriend. It's not his first either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:04 AM
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Really, he wasn't? So who did most of the cooking and your laundry when you were growing up? Who took you to your after-school activities? Just curious 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:02 PM
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I will just say, I like skinny guys too and that is also my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:01 PM
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