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3	Online Dating Is Actually OK For Average People You’re over inflating the idea of an attractive man to try and prove your point. I’m not talking about male models like Zac Efron, I’m describing 20% of the male population, 1/5 men. Make a profile of an average indian man on that app then come back and tell us your experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 10:41 AM
2	Online Dating Is Actually OK For Average People That’s not what I said, they probably are ‘talking’ to the odd few women, but there’s a gigantic leap between simply talking to a girl and actually getting her phone number, dating her, getting into a relationship with her, etc. Plus, you could just be matching with attractive men who are successful, in which case they’re not average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 10:20 AM
3	Online Dating Is Actually OK For Average People the guys I chatted to seemed to be doing just fine Based on what metric, that they claimed to be doing fine? Dudes aren’t talking to women and going “Ya I’ve had 0 dates for the past two years and any girl I talk to ghost me”, it’s not a very seductive or successful technique. Especially if they’re trying to get on your good side. Of course dudes are going to tell you they’re doing fine. Admitting their dating life is shit is social suicide. Lmao, let me just tell my 25+ Virgin friends that thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 10:16 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m not paranoid enough to believe something like this would actually happen to me, so I’m good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 02:03 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do you advertise No does rape count No a woman who refuses to date under 6’ dudes but doesn’t put it on their profile I’d find that stupid. 16% of men are 6’, she’s wasting her own time waiting until the date itself to figure out a guy’s height, only for over 4/5 dates to not match her expectations. At 5’7 I’d laugh that she couldn’t tell I wasn’t 6’ from my pictures alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 12:30 PM
2	N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme. A high body count means they’re fine with casual sex or even one night stands with strangers. You don’t see people who only have sex in committed long term relationships have high body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 12:10 PM
28	A high "N count" woman is probably going to appreciate a man who is a good lover, more than a low N count woman will..... There was a woman who broke up with her BF of 3 years, she’s cute, smart, if I was single I would have dated her. Within a month she slept with a friend of mine, another guy, and give a stranger a blowjob in the toilets of the venue we were partying at (then proceeded to want nothing to do with that man). I immediately lost any and all interest in her. Saying the reason I don’t want to date her is because I’m insecure of my own sexual performance is laughable. No, it’s because I don’t want to da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 04:44 PM
5	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? Being fat, sure, but when you mention being muscular then you get the bluepilled people coming out and going “Well i’m not into muscular men.” or “it doesn’t make that much of a difference!” I even saw one dude post his “Progress” on funny, where he was a very muscular dude before, and after being married and having kids he just turned fat. He then tried to justify it by saying his wife “doesn’t care that I’m fat now because she loves me anyway”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 06:54 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread True, I misunderstood what we were debating about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 02:01 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread High testosterone isn’t 100% linked with better athletic performance, many male athletes are considered to be below the “lower limit” of testosterone yet still outperforming athletes in the old days. It’s not as simple as “high test = better, thus low test = bad”. Many athletes have ‘low’ test but are still winning competitions with better scores than the previous generations higher testosterone athletes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:02 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You’re far too paranoid. People are fat, don’t do any exercise, eat Big Macs like it’s a snack, and haven’t drank water in years. That will do far more for your test levels than micro plastics in water. Adding to this, micro plastics are in no way “intentionally” added, they’re all over the planet, we went to the bottom of the ocean and found fish with micro plastics in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 09:14 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Meh, when test levels can vary from 200-1100 ng/dL, 15% isn’t much, that’s going from 200 to 230. But you’re aiming for 700+	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 08:59 AM
2	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? 85 studies which link mental health or lower cognitive function with porn addiction - https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/porn-use-sex-addiction-studies/studies-linking-porn-use-to-poorer-mental-emotional-health-poorer-cognitive-outcomes/ I’d like to see anything even close to this amount of studies that links violent video games to actual violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:03 PM
1	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? Damn man you guys are lazy, you can’t browse a single website yet you expect me to believe you’ll read studies? There’s literally a link at the top of the page for “Research”, one button click away, https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/research/ This gives you a gigantic list of studies of porn, from how addiction forms similar to food/gambling addiction, to people having withdrawal symptoms, to having a poorer sex life, to desensitisation of real sex, etc. In terms of mental health specifically whic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:01 PM
5	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? Citation needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:52 PM
3	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? There’s a bunch of peer reviewed studies on there that explain the effects that porn causes to people. That is exactly what you he asked for right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:38 PM
19	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? There’s a massive difference between a porn mag or VHS vs the entire library of free internet at Ultra HD instantly loadable porn of any category, of any kind of woman you feel like, in any position you want, instantly. Porn nowadays is a ton more stimulating than a porn magazine. Especially when the exact millisecond you get bored of one girl, you can click a different video and be immediately stimulated all over again with another girl. It’s like comparing a tv show in 1980 to Tiktok and sayin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:32 PM
3	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? Yourbrainonporn.com	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:26 PM
3	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT Learning how to print “Hello World” isn’t knowing how to code. That’s like saying you know how to play the piano because you can play twinkle twinkle little star.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 11:17 AM
1	Intelligence and personality matter A LOT They did a study on this, concluded that being funny does not make you attractive, but being attractive does help make you funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:39 AM
23	Daily Community Chat Megathread Whenever a thread about women caring about body count comes up, I always remember the comic Woman: “I wish people stopped caring about how many people I’ve slept with” Man: “I know what you mean, whenever I tell people I’m a virgi….” woman turns around and walks away	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 08:18 PM
10	How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then men 1 man does something “WhY dO MeN Do tHiS??”	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 10:00 PM
1	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" 1st post is true, I remember 2 years after going the gym my sister was asking me why I haven’t got muscles yet, because after two years of casual lifting and a casual diet, I didn’t look anything like her amateur boxer boyfriend who had abs you could grate cheese on. Saying some women are deluded about muscular standards is absolutely true, that’s not whining, it’s fact. 2nd post had nothing to do with deluded standards, if anything else it’s about Hollywood teaching men to try and be superheroe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:15 PM
5	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" None of these show men saying they’re entitled or deserve women. The first post is about unrealistic expectations of men in Hollywood movies nowadays. That’s true. Second post is about Hollywood again influencing men to bend over backwards for women The 3rd post agrees with OP’s point of view. 4th post is dispelling the myth that ‘women only date Chad’s” 5th post is just giving humans an attractiveness scale from 1-10. And literally none of them have a dude saying he deserves hot women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 11:33 AM
3	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to Hahahaha “Self-Reported Data? Well that data is useless!” Come on dude, really? Here’s the first link I found on Google - https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 02:28 PM
6	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to What are you talking about? How is that not how stats work? There’s a correlation between n-count and happiness in a marriage. Where did baggage and absence of divorce come from? If these women were unhappy it would show up in the stats. But the stats say these women are happy, on average happier than high n-count women. (Not talking about divorce rates, just happiness). You could say being poor and uneducated leads to less happier marriages and it would be the same amount of truth. You could, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 02:14 PM
3	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to The stats are very simple, the more partners you’ve had, the less happy you will be in a marriage. It’s that simple. No extra variables involved. Your anecdotal evidence doesn’t contradict this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 01:57 PM
5	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to I didn’t. I said you can’t be happy and content in a monogamous relationship. The fact you’re in a polyamorous relationship proves that being in a monogamous relationship wasn’t good enough for you guys. You wasn’t content with just being with each other for the rest of your life. Most people want to be in a monogamous relationship, which is precisely why they’ll look for low n-count partners. Because low n-count partners will statistically be much happier in a monogamous relationship than high …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 01:31 PM
19	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to You’ve literally proven my point. You guys struggle to be happy and content in a monogamous relationship, and that directly stems from the amount of people you both have previously slept with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:52 AM
37	There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want to Because statistically speaking it does, the more people you sleep with, the more likely you are to get a divorce, and less likely you are to be happy in a monogamous relationship. You anecdotal evidence doesn’t change this fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 12:57 AM
14	Q4Men: Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards? There’s basic friendliness, and there’s actively going out of your way to talk to a stranger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 08:26 PM
5	Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men today Precisely, if you always feel like you have to carry a conversation, the simple fact is she’s just not interested in what you have to say. If she’s interested in you, she’ll do most of the talking, taking initiative, calling, pop up in your DM’s, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 07:09 PM
16	Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men today Hahahaha no. I know a dude who’s a legit autist who everyone struggles to talk to. A woman I know is constantly trying to keep in touch with him only to get one word replies back (not because he doesn’t care, but because he has no idea how to hold a conversation). This dude has got women lined up to date/sleep with him. Women make it easy for him to talk because they actually put effort into trying to talk with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 04:21 PM
8	Women don’t only care about looks, they care about MORE then looks. Then why do blind men care less about physical looks compared to blind women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 03:04 PM
17	Women don’t only care about looks, they care about MORE then looks. Blind women find physical attractiveness as important as sighted women https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33851315/	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 10:18 PM
40	Women don’t only care about looks, they care about MORE then looks. I’ve heard stories of blind women asking their friends what the guy “looks like” just to see if the man is still worth dating based on their opinion of him. So even if you were the perfect man personality wise, if her friends call you ugly it’s gg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 08:20 PM
24	most women like having sex with their beta husbands too. Women liking sex in a committed relationship does not mean women like sex with beta men. That’s not the same thing. You don’t have to be a beta man to be in a committed relationship. Women marry men who they have bad sex with all the time. There’s tons and tons of stories of women who thought they wasn’t into sex until they met ‘the guy’ and suddenly they loved sex. Tons of these women marry men they’re not into and have bad sex with because the relationship itself is fine and she ‘loves’ him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:24 PM
4	Being average at everything makes you below average I disagree, all those ‘ForeverAlone’ subreddits and other similar ones had a huge over representation of non-white short people. Very rarely is a perfectly average white dude struggling in any significant way. And if they were, it’s because of very obvious issues like being shy or fat. Your perfect average 5’9 white man has a perfectly average dating life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 05:06 PM
3	Being average at everything makes you below average I keep saying this on PPD, but being perfectly average is not a bad thing. They’re overweight, they can just lose weight for a year and automatically be above average. $50k is respectable, enough to be financially secure. Save up money and you can buy a house. You’re not ‘poor’. 5’9 isn’t bad, 70% of women will happily date you at that height. Too it all off , average = white. You can’t get statistically get better than being white. Sure, women aren’t lining up to meet you, but you should live a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 02:56 PM
3	Whenever you bring up TRP talking points in other subs or on social media everyone acts as though it’s some conspiracy theory or a myth, I’m convinced it is pure deflection Almost everybody I know has a job. Doesn’t mean they didn’t struggle trying to find one when they were unemployed. It‘a like that, but struggling 10x harder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 10:15 PM
2	Whenever you bring up TRP talking points in other subs or on social media everyone acts as though it’s some conspiracy theory or a myth, I’m convinced it is pure deflection Just because a man finally got a girlfriend after years of trying, doesn’t mean their past struggles just stopped existing. For example, I have a girlfriend now, that doesn’t mean my previous 8 years of struggling to find one stops existing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 09:46 PM
5	Whenever you bring up TRP talking points in other subs or on social media everyone acts as though it’s some conspiracy theory or a myth, I’m convinced it is pure deflection Damn, let me just tell half of my mates that their struggles with dating don’t actually exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 09:45 PM
1	Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship? PPD isn’t a pro porn sub, so I’m not sure why it would be biased.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 04:32 PM
1	Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship? Anti-porn subreddits are, unsurprisingly, biased. This place will give you more varied opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 07:41 PM
16	Introverts are more likely to be involuntarily single. Thus confirming that you have to 'put yourself out there' in order to meet people and develop interactions that turn into relationships. This is a hard truth for many While it’s obvious being introverted will mean you’re less likely to get dates, it’s important to note exactly what makes a person become introverted in the first place. Odds are, a person who’s introverted is very likely to have had poor status since they were kids. Which comes from their ‘odd’ behaviour or by straight up being ugly and bullied for it. Which then only pushes him towards introversion. He’s not involuntary single because he’s introverted. He’s introverted because of qualities he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 01:46 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread 11 year old boys are happy with their Xbox and Roblox. Girls not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 11:39 AM
4	How do girls tell I have a toxic attitude and mentality through my photos? (20+ dating apps, ZERO likes/matches) Reminds me of that video where a bunch of women were together at a party, casted their phone onto the tv, on tinder, and they all screamed with enjoyment when they matched with an attractive guy who only had one selfie photo. Meanwhile left swiping on normal guys with interesting photos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 11:09 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread He’s not more popular, people are just talking about something more important right now (I.e Ukraine), once this war is dealt with we’ll be right back to wanting him out again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 08:23 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread 5’7	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 08:21 PM
6	Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get? Don’t be obese. Be nice. Can hold a job. Mentally stable. Isn’t lazy. That’s all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 08:23 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I understand this, I’m only 5’7, but whenever there’s a family gathering the tallest person is my dad at 5’5. Everyone else is between 4’11 to 5’4. It’s surreal usually being the shortest guy in the room, visiting my family and being the tallest person in the room, everybody looks up to you, everyone asks you to get the item from the top shelf or carry the heavy stuff. There’s definitely a feeling of power there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 03:55 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Why not go the /r/cuckold route and have 1 average husband + Chad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 02:42 PM
10	Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers? Damn, it’s a small sample size, but it’s showing that woman with tall male family members are incredibly more likely to require tall boyfriends. Not to mention, one of the comments with a below average height father specifically states she wants a guy taller than her, not specifically a tall man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 02:25 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread • You’re not as ugly as you think. • If you are ugly, you make up for it in other areas like height, frame, or masculinity • Just because you haven’t been working out in 3 years doesn’t mean you suddenly become a twig, a strong dadbod still beats a fatty. • You’re in your late twenties, so she’s ready for a steady relationship over a rocky casual one. • You’re paying for every date, so you’re definitely falling into the ‘Beta Bucks’ category most men don’t want to involve themselves in. She’s no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 02:09 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Redpill dudes will do the dumbest stuff and think that because the woman are still interested in them it’s must be because of the dumb stuff they did. Nah dude, they liked you and were willing to put up with the dumb stuff you were doing if it meant they could sleep with you, because they wanted to sleep with you. She’s not magically more interested in you because you take multiple days to reply back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:59 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread McDonald’s would also have porn banned on their wifi under this rule. Plus, you’re vastly underestimating the effects perfect 4K HD porn of anything you can possibly think off within a button click away will have on a kid, the ability to watch a video, get high off it, then the millisecond you’re board of it you can click to another video with a different girl in a different position and get another high, and doing that 10-20 times every session. Compared to the bootleg CD’s and porn magazines. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 04:13 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then yes deadlift is important. Just start with lighter weights first with slower movements and gradually make it heavier as your confident improves with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 03:44 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m addicted to porn. I can’t go a month without needing to watch it. The only reason porn isn’t classed as an addiction is because unlike other forms of addiction, porn doesn’t change your brain chemistry so that you can no longer release feel-good chemicals like dopamine as effectively without the help of the drug you're addicted to. That is literally the only thing stopping it from officially being an addiction. But by all other accounts, it is one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 03:23 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread impossible to impose Very easy to impose, plenty of countries have an opt-in system in place, where you can’t access porn unless you specifically ask your internet provider to unlock it for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 03:19 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Depends entirely on your goal, what are you looking for? To look good naked, to be strong, to be healthy, etc. If your goal is to be strong, then deadlift is perfect for that. If you just want to look good naked or simply be healthy then there’s better lifts you could be doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 03:17 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Of course. The only reason I’m turned off is because I know about her promiscuous acts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 03:05 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Controversial opinion incoming, It’s a bit mad how fast I’m turned off by promiscuous women. Knew this woman for years, she’s a nice person, she recently broke up with her boyfriend then I found out she liked me, if I wasn’t in a relationship already I’d have probably dated her. Within 2 months of her breakup, she’s slept with two of my close mates and gave a BJ to a stranger in the party toilets we were all at (She wanted nothing to do with him afterwards). And that’s just the stuff I know abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 02:30 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It depends on how the relationship is already going, if a man is happy with you and loves you and already does loving stuff for you, he’s only going to be more happy and more loving if you become more attractive. At the saw time, if a man is ‘tired of her shit’, then a nose job isn’t going to change anything. If he’s lazy and doesn’t do anything for her, being more attractive isn’t the answer to fixing that either. BUT if you used to be attractive, then gained weight and became unattractive to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 02:27 PM
12	What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up? Umm excuse me! Where’s the negging, where’s the push pull technique, where’s the passing shit tests, you mean to tell me people just like each other and kiss?!? Preposterous!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 12:34 PM
2	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? you are someone who is actually successful with women but don't deny that looks are important in attracting them More than just important, practically essential. beliefs that are shared with the redpill that attractive women don't have to do anything to get attention and validation from men? That’s a bit unrelated, but yes I personally believe that to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 08:03 PM
3	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Almost, Blackpill is the idea that looking physically attractive is pretty much the only indicator of anyone being romantically or sexually successful. Personality plays little to no part in attractive women. The reason it’s usually paired with the ‘no point in trying’ group is because the men who come to the Blackpill conclusion are the ones who are rock bottom ugly that they’ve never had a positive sexual or romantic interaction with a woman before, despite their best efforts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 05:10 PM
1	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Yes, for real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Whilst a Blackpiller would say you can’t. Blackpillers just think looks matter, nothing about the inability to increase your looks. For example, lose weight and go the gym to get muscles, getting a good haircut (usually ones that push fringe up to make you appear taller) and groomed beard, wearing shoes with lifts to increase your height, etc. It’s why I like Blackpill over any other pill, it’s very simple and is pretty accurate. If you’re struggling with women, odds are you’re just not attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Check out the second most popular post of all time on the Redpill subreddit, literally says “if you’re a 4/10 man you will be able to bang 10/10 women” or something like that. Redpill do believe looks matter, but they think it’s more of a bonus, like it’s nice to have but isn’t too important. Just lift weights and wear nice clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:15 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I guess the line can be drawn at the most typical blackpill trait, i.e. the lack of hope and discouragement of even trying to fix your predicament. That’s not black pill, that’s incel, they’re different things. Blackpill is the idea that looking physically attractive is pretty much the only indicator of anyone being romantically or sexually successful. Personality plays little to no part in it. The reason Incels + Blackpill go hand in hand is because the men who come to this conclusion are the o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 04:06 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread And that’s including rule 9. ‘no incel/black-pill content’. Imagine what this sub would be like if that wasn’t a rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:18 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s because you get banned otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 02:17 PM
6	How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship? Yes No, Redpill is ‘mostly’ Bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 12:49 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s clear she doesn’t care, that’s the point. If a girl actually liked you, she’d put genuine effort into getting to know you and meeting you, not ghosting you for days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 01:39 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m with everyone else here, if you haven’t replied in a day or two then I’d assume you’re not interested and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 08:34 AM
5	'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crock You realise men also couldn’t vote for 90 years prior to when women could right? Like, in the entire US history, there was only a 90 year gap between when the common man could vote and when the common women could vote. Yet you dangle it over us like we locked you up for centuries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 08:18 AM
2	Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheating You’re worth exactly by what you are, no more no less. You might ‘believe’ you could be worth more, but you’re not. You either are or aren’t. A fat dude has the worth of a fat dude, he can’t turn around and say “Well if I actually put the work in and got muscles and a six-pack then I’d have a fit attractive woman”. Wether or not he could do that is completely irrelevant. The fact is he is fat right now, so he deserves whatever a fat man deserves. If he’s sad about the fact he can only attract fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 01:10 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s not that they don’t have access, it’s that they don’t want to use them, men generally don’t want to use strap-ons or dildo’s when their penis is right there ready to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 12:03 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lesbians have access to strap-ons and dildos	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 11:56 AM
1	Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheating That’s not settling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 12:49 AM
1	Thousands of men lusting after a female serial killer If it’s fiction then send me proof of something even vaguely resemble Jeremy Meeks case but gender reversed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 12:48 AM
13	Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheating That’s not settling, that’s literally living the life you can afford. Settling is buying a $200,000 house and being annoyed by it, despite the fact you believe with all your heart that you actually deserve a $1,000,000 mansion with servants. But for some reason couldn’t get one. If you are genuinely happy with the girl you’re marrying, then you’re not settling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 10:25 PM
1	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. I think you’ve missed my point. I’m talking about hypocrisy, where a person says X but does Y. In this instance, the woman in question say they want a serious relationship, then abandon that thought for a stranger that won’t even be in the country for another 8 hours. Where one of them continue meeting and sleeping with him despite knowing he already has a girlfriend. In your example, you’re just talking about men who are desperate for a relationship with an attractive woman that they believe if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 10:19 PM
1	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. Success rate is clearly very high, he’s getting all that money from somewhere. The woman said the amount of money he spent was no where near equal to the amount of money the other woman was giving him. He’s getting money from multiple sources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 09:50 PM
3	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. A cuck or a simp? Both of those men are pretty honest about the fact they let women walk all over them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 09:43 PM
5	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. There’s literally 0 women here who are saying money doesn’t matter. I don’t know what you’re trying to point out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 09:40 PM
2	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. I’m not saying men don’t lie to women. I’m saying single men who claim “I want X, Y, Z in a woman” are almost always honest about that, and do search for a woman with X, Y, Z. Rarely lowering their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 09:37 PM
15	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. I don’t know any men like that. I know men who clearly admit they would shag a woman is she had big tits regardless of anything else, but I don’t know a single man who claims to want X, Y, and Z, only to immediately drop them for a woman with big tits. Men are pretty honest about this. The men I know who have claimed to want X Y and Z usually stay single until they get them. Meanwhile, I know several woman who have claimed “I want X, Y, and Z” only to date someone with none of those qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 06:44 PM
16	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. I do not fault them for being scammed, what happened to them was horrible and I am in no way mocking them for what happened. What I am mocking them for, is how all their barriers that prevents them from getting a boyfriend completely disappear when a rich man enters the scene. If these women matched with normal men, they would never entertain “Hey I’m leaving the country tomorrow, come to my hotel”. Most would assume the guy is just looking to get laid before he leaves. But when it came to this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 06:35 PM
9	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. Netflix. Or you can read an article about him here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 05:52 PM
44	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. I loved that show, literally all the red flags in existence couldn’t keep women away. The women are all “I’m looking for a serious relationship”, have over 1000 matches and are still single, yet this dudes pops up like “Hey I’m leaving London tonight, meet me at my hotel” and they drop everything to see him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 05:42 PM
0	Thousands of men lusting after a female serial killer Men see an attractive women and will make jokes about wanting to sleep with her and how her being a murderer makes it sexy. But that’s all it is, jokes. Meanwhile take Jeremy Meeks, women will actively spread his name everywhere, crowdfund his bail to get him out of jail with GoFundMe, follow his modelling career, then finally, even the daughter of a billionaire dated and had kids with him. He became rich and successful because he’s a criminal and women pushed him and funded his career to be suc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 05:06 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah. I’m glad I’m a man, no periods, no pregnancies, much lower chance of being sexually harassed, taken more seriously in the working environment, I’m stronger, faster, more durable, and taller than women, and during the times I do want to be left alone to my own devices, I usually am. The only benefit to being a woman is in social contexts, people are generally happier that you exist and actively want to talk to you, you can join any activity/hobby and people will bend over backwards just to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 12:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Reflective of today’s dating market, I know 10’s of skinny men + obese women pairings myself. I see 1 or 2 obese men + skinny women pairing. It’s almost non existent these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 11:25 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Pretty sure OKCupid or match.com did one back in the day during April fools, it was a colossal failure, during the blackout they had an all time high engagement rate and people were speaking to each other on levels the websites has never seen. The second they put pictures back up, the conversations dropped like a bomb within 1-5 messages. Something like 90% of all previous conversations ended within 5 messages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 11:07 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Likely PIED, Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. Stop watching porn and see how you do. Twice a day is excessive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 04:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You guys got OLD over there? How does he do on that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 12:16 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Give her oral	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 12:14 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread He got 3 girls, that’s enough for most 29 year old men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 02:11 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Updated my comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:58 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Updated my comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:58 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Updated my comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:58 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Updated my comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:57 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Updated my comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:57 PM
1	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? Source: I got my original number from here - https://wearawhitefeather.wordpress.com/survivors/rape-culture-statistics/ Which then leads into this study https://time.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/repeat_rape.pdf	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:55 PM
11	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? 1 in 16 men are rapists (6.5%). These are just confirmed rapists who have been charged. I can almost guarantee more than 1 in 5 men have had the potential to rape, but chose not to because they’re not psychopaths. No. Most men would not rape given the chance. Source: I got my original number from here - https://wearawhitefeather.wordpress.com/survivors/rape-culture-statistics/ Which then leads into this study https://time.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/repeat_rape.pdf Honestly, I didn’t look int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 05:58 PM
5	There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”: Nah, it’s simply that women don’t want to date number 2, doesn’t matter when he shoots his shot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 01:57 PM
4	There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”: Is a nice ugly guy. Is a nice attractive guy. There’s literally no difference between these two besides the fact women want one of them but not the other. Trying to pretend they’re two entirely different type of nice guy is laughable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 01:56 PM
3	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? That’s a bit too vague and ambiguous for me, it doesn’t really explain anything. It’s like saying “Why does gravity exist” “because science”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 12:25 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fruit, literally just buy it from the shop and throw it in your bag, maybe wash it before hand if required. Yogurts, remember to bring spoons. Sandwiches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 12:23 PM
7	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? The belief that the only thing that actually matters in relationships is looking physically attractive. Which mostly consists of genetic factors out of your control like being tall, blond, white, with blue eyes, and a good jaw. But also includes some factors within your control like lifting weights, getting fit/strong, being well groomed, and wearing decent clothes. That all the “game” the Red Pill tries teaching people, passing shit tests, holding frame, negging, etc is mostly bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 05:52 PM
107	Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare? Looking for an attractive man not into casual dating is like trying to find a PS5 on Amazon. They’re all sold out, and the second they’re on the market they’re taken off and are sold out again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 03:14 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s better than suffering alone wondering why nobody loves your then continue doing nothing about it. I usually recommend people to just read a bit, take the useful stuff, ignore the more extreme stuff, then leave and don’t bother with it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 02:40 PM
2	Why do men assume a woman is interested when she is just being nice to you? Your average man doesn’t get much positive attention from women. So when he finally does get positive attention from women, it must mean something! Then when the misunderstanding starts, this causes the women to be less friendly towards guys, which in turn causes men to get even less attention, which in turn means when they do get positive attention it must mean something! And the cycle continues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 01:30 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nothing will fundamentally change, the closest comparison I can think of is when a rich person tells poor people that they just have to work harder to be rich. Wether or not rich person admits he’s only rich because of his parents wealth doesn’t change the poor persons situation. The poor person is just annoyed the rich guy is almost making a mockery of their situation, and pretending it’s all the poor persons fault they’re poor. In a similar sense, woman admitting they have it easier doesn’t fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 01:05 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Odds are you guys are perfectly normal people living perfectly normal lives. Not really interested in looking for the deeper meaning behind every bodies actions. They’re just living life as expected. Have a few partners, maybe a fling everyone now and then, eventually get married and have kids. The people on this sub, for one reason or another (usually due to a lack of success in dating), have zoned into a community which discusses the social and biological reasons why men and women act the way …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 12:47 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread I can hook up with girls no strings attached Because of this, you have the option of getting into a relationship anytime you want, you choose not to. You don’t crave intimacy or validation because you already get it regularly. Most lonely single guys don’t have this choice, they’re not in a position to choose to be single. They want some form of validation from women but can’t find any, the longer that lasts the worse they feel about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 11:07 AM
1	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? The author is saying it works. I’m telling you it does not, no ugly dude is banging a 10/10 because he held his frame and passed shit tests. That’s delusional. (Not without being a millionaire or a celebrity or something similar).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 10:33 AM
2	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? Men are primarily attracted to physical attributes of women while women are less so. I highly disagree, women are primarily attracted to physical attributes just as much as men are. Women will not be interested in dating you if she is not physically attracted to you, and they do not give a shit about bad frame, low confidence, poor charisma, etc if they’re physically attracted to you. I’ve never once seen an ugly confident successful man regularly succeed in dating in my entire life, whereas I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 09:00 AM
1	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? The second most upvoted post of all time there is about attracting and fucking literal 9-10/10’s by following his rules - https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5fihmu/how_to_get_laid_like_a_warlord_37_rules_of/ and I quote “women would rather fuck an ugly man with a strong frame than a handsome man with a weak frame” Load of Balls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 11:54 PM
15	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? You can, but it’s likely you didn’t unless you said or did something stupid/creepy. Women aren’t interested in you because you said the right things and pushed the right buttons at the right time, she’s interested because you’re a cute guy she imagines she’d like to date. And you making a normal conversation is enough to persuade her to trust you. Not because you did some magic push pull technique followed by a soft neg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 08:40 PM
47	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? Believing you can get almost any girl if you just play your cards right, and that if you wasn’t successful, it’s because you approached her wrong. In reality, it really doesn’t matter what you say or how you say it, if she’s not attracted to you physically then you can’t persuade her to suddenly be attracted to you. That’s not how it works. Edit: to those saying TRP doesn’t say you can’t get any girls, the second most upvoted post of all time there is about attracting and fucking literal 10/10’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 07:35 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Everyone was lied to about how “Fat” is bad by the studies that were created by the sugar companies, meanwhile sugar was the real culprit all along. To this day we’re still feeling the effects of those studies, with people legitimately believing having a hamburger every now and then is bad for your health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 06:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fact: The more people you’ve slept with, the greater chances you have of not being happy in a relationship, and a much higher chance of being divorced in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 06:54 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the contradiction - https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/s44muf/28m_what_do_you_think/ This guy is clearly attractive, I’d say minimum 7/10, but he’s rated 6/10, and people calling him a 7/10 are getting downvoted or removed by the mods and told to check the chart again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 03:34 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I found Photofeeler.com is the most accurate myself. Albeit people are rated slightly higher than they should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 02:25 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Normal distribution doesn’t make sense when it comes to something as varied as attractiveness. It’s perfect and natural for stuff you can actually measure with numbers like height or even dice rolls. When you try to force a normal distribution into something like attractiveness it no longer works, when you’re trying to justify why a man who looks like he can be a male model is only a 6.2/10 it makes the whole distribution flawed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread 95% Worse, 97.5% are between 3-7, which I find insane. 6/10 should be above average, 7/10 should be physically attractive, 8/10 should be model material, 9/10 Hollywood Model material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 12:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I agree with the objective measures of attractiveness, I disagree with the way they handle the sub and how strict they rate people 1-10. One 5.5/10 could look so much better than another 5.5/10 but because of how strict the rating is there’s no room for variance. With only 2.5% of the population able to hit 7/10 or higher, they’ve locked out a whole 3 points worth of attractiveness behind a minority of a minority of people. There are more gay people alive than there are 7/10 people in existence.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 11:46 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread TrueRateMe is BS in my eyes anyway, the guide that they use put my personal 6/10’s at 9/10’s. Everyone is stuck between 3-7/10. It’s impossible to vote someone a 8/10 or higher without being downvoted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 11:04 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread ¿Tú hablas español?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 10:47 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some do, most don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 10:47 AM
–	How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff? When you first discover the red pill, you’re initial reaction is the rage stage which consists more of posting how women are bad and less about putting actual Red Pill ideas into your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 11:01 PM
7	Red Pill ideology isn't meant to be attractive to women The difference is wether or not you actually know that guy is a RP Man. If you know he’s only it in for sex, that he’d dump you the moment you placed any boundaries down, that he was also sleeping with 3 other woman at the same time, that he views you more as a child than an adult, that he spent 2 hours everyday for the past 2 years reading how to pick up women, then yes most women wouldn’t touch him. But that’s never the case, women just see a well spoken, confident, muscular guy with his life …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:22 PM
12	What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders. It’s less about the n-count and more about their actions within a short time frame, and if it was casual or an attempt to get into another long term relationship. I know this girl, was in a long term relationship for 4 years, seemed perfectly normal, they broke up, within 2ish months she’s slept with 2 people and gave a stranger she just met a BJ in a public toilet. Having an N-count of 4 doesn’t make you promiscuous, but I’d definitely say her actions are. Meanwhile, a woman who’s slept with 3 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 08:32 PM
1	You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick? I wish, no this is just the changes I’d like. We spend over £6bn on obese people yearly. This should incentivise people to get healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 06:51 PM
2	You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick? UK, having a BMI over 30 which resulted from fat, not muscle, will result in you losing your right to free healthcare, if you’re currently receiving benefits from the government, your benefits will be reduced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 05:43 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread For some yes, for others it’s literally is just an addiction. Some people smoke because they’re too stressed out and smoking calms them down, others do it because they’re addicted and just want to get some fresh air outside and chat with mates. Some binge eat food because they hate themselves and want to feel better. Others binge eat food because they like food and they’re hungry/snacking. Coffee’s the same, some take it because they need a wake up boost in the morning, others, like myself, just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 02:25 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, caffeine is just an addiction like any other. We just don’t hate on it because the consequences aren’t bad when compared to smoking or alcohol. Some would argue drinking coffee is actually a health benefit. The main issue is, just like any other addictive substance, your body gets used to the regular amount and requires more of it to get the same benefits you used to get. You start off with 100mg to wake up, then that’s not enough so you intake 200mg, then 400mg. Etc. I write this as I drin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 02:21 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m not saying it doesn’t help. It does. I’m saying that claiming that’s the reason why he gets laid is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 12:44 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The whole thread is filled to the brim with men who do the washing, the cleaning, the cooking, etc but still in a sexless marriage. It’s controversial because it’s like telling a single man who showers that all they need to do to get a girlfriend is shower. It’s the bare minimum of what’s expected in a relationship. But OP is making it out to be the defining reason of why he still has sex with his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 09:54 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread “How long have you been married?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 09:49 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I didn’t even describe any particular type of man? I just saying that a man who’s lonely is going to continue being lonely, regardless of anything else a woman tries to help (excluding dating and relationships). I’m not even saying women should give up sex to help these men, I’m just saying there’s nothing you can do to help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:36 PM
18	Hypergamy does not affect men as much as people think it does. Your first stat completely ignored virgins, which could greatly skew the result, it only included sexually experienced people The last two stats says a small percentage of men are sleeping with more women than woman are sleeping with men. Which is exactly what 20/80 rule is discussing. For example, you got 5 men and 5 women, for 1 man, there’s 4 women who have slept with him. Each of those 4 women now has an N-count of 1, while the man has an N-Count of 4. Meanwhile the other 4 men have an n-cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 09:03 AM
1	Hypergamy does not affect men as much as people think it does. You’re thinking of the mean, this is a medium. 1 1 1 2 2 3 3 4 6 9 Mean: 3.2 Medium: 2.5	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:53 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ignore sex, the most Important factor here is the inability to get into a loving relationship. You can’t expect men to to be happy with woman refusing to date them based on nothing but physical characteristics they’re born with. They’ll feel lonely regardless of anything else these woman attempt to do to help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:47 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread You can’t, that’s just how it is. No amount of pretending to care will help. You can’t show acceptance while simultaneously saying “not you”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 12:26 AM
17	Daily Community Chat Megathread What men want: to be accepted regardless of the things we can’t change, height, baldness, facial features, skin colour, ethnicity, etc. What women think men want: to be accepted for being too chubby or skinny, having eating disorder, having patchy facial hair???	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 06:24 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hahaha the circus is in town. “He’s not getting matches because he’s TOO SWEET and boring” No, he’s not getting matched because he’s 5’6, Indian, and has a chubby face. Do people really think an attractive tall white blue eyed blond hair dude would struggle with a profile? Of course not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 02:17 PM
2	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? Aah my bad, ya going to a poor country with a good remote job you’d probably be making 10x the average person there. Which would likely work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:51 PM
0	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? Nah, you can’t match with women on OLD with your finances, you can’t attract women at a club because you have 0’s in your bank. Whenever you meet women, you won’t be able to attract them just because you wore better clothes than everyone else. They have no idea how much you’re earning. Not to mention, your job title is actually worth more than actually having a good paying job, if you tell women you’re an IT programmer, their pussy dries faster than the Sahara desert. The best way to attract wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:40 PM
3	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? I’m Blackpill, not incel. I also live in the UK. My point is there’s more important things in life than just getting a girl. But that doesn’t mean being lonely doesn’t suck either and people should be allowed to vent about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:10 PM
12	If LV men want sex and/or a relationship so badly, why don't they move to a different country get what they want instead of complaining on the internet? “Why don’t you just pick up your things and leave, leave all your friends behind bro, leave all your family behind bro, ditch your career bro, who cares if you got a mortgage to take care off or stuck in a car payment contract, just move to an entirely different country who don’t speak your language all by yourself just to have a chance of touching a girl.” This also ignores the fact these foreign girls want white men, which is completely useless for the 50% of the LV men you’re talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 07:04 PM
2	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle Wtf is he on about, does he think chronic losers DON’T want a Chad lifestyle??	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 03:12 PM
4	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? I disagree, I think looks are key both out and in a relationship (again, assuming you’re a normal functioning human). If you ignore all the stupid/obvious reasons people split up (Example, abuse relationship, needy/clingy partners, high maintenance, constant lying, cheating, etc). The reason people split up is usually down to either being cheated on (or monkey branched), or someone starts getting lazy and stops trying to maintain a good lifestyle. Very very rarely do I see two normal attractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 01:41 PM
2	Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoever Blue pill just means rejecting red/purple/black pill. Redpill says “hold frame bro”, Bluepill is “wtf is frame just be normal”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 01:02 PM
10	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? I didn’t invent any straw men, all 3 of those platitudes are something I have been told directly. Me, a 5’7 50kg arabian skinny kid, was told to just be confident. Plus, I’m not just saying people are claiming “looks don’t matter”, I’m not saying people don’t give looks based advice. I am saying “Looks matter far more than people admit”. I’m trying to say that looks are by far the most important aspect of attracting women. Nothing else even comes close to mattering. So long as your a normal func…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 11:31 AM
25	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? I’ll start believing that the day people stop telling men to “just be confident”, “just be yourself”, “you’re a great guy any girl would be lucky to have you”. And start giving actual worthy advice like telling men to go the gym, dress in stylish clothes, and to grow a beard to hide that weak chin. When that starts to happen, then I’ll believe people admit looks matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 10:41 AM
8	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? I’ve seen Autistic 9/10 tall white blond depressed Chad having two women who are literally strangers grabbing his arms trying to pull him out of his seat just to dance. There’s only been two relationships I’ve personally seen where the man was the bad looking one, one ending in brutal divorce, the other they never have sex even though he wants it, because she “tried it once, and has no reason to try again”. Meanwhile she’s kept making excuses to talk to a particular bartender because he was hot.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 10:33 AM
26	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? The Blackpill really is that simple. “Looks matter far more than people admit”, that’s all it comes down too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 09:41 AM
3	Most women are demisexual. If you’re attracted to someone because they look nice, you are not demisexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 03:24 PM
4	Most women are demisexual. I’m confused why you’re confused. Wanting to talk to someone just because you find them cute/hot is something normal people do. You find them sexually attractive, now you want to figure out if they’re emotionally attractive too. A demisexual person would not want to talk to someone just because they’re cute/hot. They’d see them and just think they’re another person that exists. They literally cannot feel any sexual attraction towards the person until after they’re emotionally attracted to them. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 11:53 AM
7	Most women are demisexual. If you see a cute girl and want to talk to her, you are not demisexual as you’re literally wanting to talk to her based on her looks. This is what normal people do. They see someone attractive and want to get to know them based of that alone. Someone who’s demisexual wouldn’t do this. They would see a person who they understand is “cute”, but that’s it, that’s just a characteristic they have. They feel no reason to talk to them or anything. No desire to strike up a conversation. It’s not until a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 01:26 AM
46	Most women are demisexual. Online dating is now the cause of over 50% of all modern relationships. Tinder and other online dating apps consists of the general population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 01:20 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m not talking about cultural gap, I’m talking about racial preferences. People of difference races can still have the same cultural background.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 10:05 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s like saying “nobody chooses to be racist”, with some actual effort you can move past someone’s skin color.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:09 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Difference is having racial preferences is almost guaranteed to be a learned thing. No one is born with sexual attraction to only white people, whereas people are born with sexual attraction to only people of their own gender. Racial preferences is usually stemmed from subconscious racist thoughts, there’s a obvious reason why white people are the most popular choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 08:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Racial preferences are racist and nobody can convince me otherwise. Want racial equality? Then put your money where your mouth is, you can’t say you’re not racist then turn around and go “ew no I don’t want to date black people”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 12:11 PM
10	If there was a 'Traditional' Dating App, would you use it? This isn’t the first time I’ve heard this. Woman can easily get a tall attractive guy on tinder effortlessly for free. So if that same woman is paying top dollar for a match making service and spending all her time fixing it up/talking with them, they’ll feel entitled to the best of the best, because that $$$ should clearly give them a better man than they could find on Tinder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 11:11 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Same, I’m smart enough with a degree and good career with no criminal record, no genetic diseases, no STD, etc etc. But I’m 5’7 so they don’t want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 09:15 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread My aunt went to a sperm bank and picked a 5’5 Indian as her donor because the paper said he respects women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 09:10 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’ve got a good job, with a great group of friends, a family that’s proud of me, and a lovely girlfriend. They’re under the assumption I’m this calm, collected, smart guy who’s doing well in life. If they found out I’ve been a part of incel subreddits for the past 6 years, my social life would be over. I ain’t risking all of that just to show my face here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 08:44 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread To each their own, I’m trying to bulk up so protein powders are great for putting on extra calories (and they’re very safe to drink, they’ve been studied to death so I’m not worried there).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 02:17 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Being yourself is the worst advice anyone can be given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 02:14 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Add coffee and protein shakes and you’ve got the perfect list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 02:05 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread One theory is that how fast the days go by is related to new experiences (and thus, new memories). As a kid, everything you experience is new, so you have a ton of memories to look back on and think an entire week took forever because of everything new you experienced. As an adult, if your schedule is identical everyday (wake up, work, cook, sleep, repeat), then all those days merge together into one memory and you don’t know what you did on what day, because you did the same thing everyday. Thu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 02:04 PM
9	Daily Community Chat Megathread This, you will never profit from being vulnerable around a woman. There isn’t a single woman in the world who you can be vulnerable/emotional with and they’ll think “I love him even more now!”. This does not mean that you should never be vulnerable/emotional around your partner, in some situations, not being emotional is a bad thing, for example if your own mother died and you tried to pretend you’re not emotional about it, most women would be concerned about that and would even turn them off. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 01:56 PM
10	Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male? Life is the longest game you’ll ever play, we all follow the rules of physics, biology, and chemistry. Humans are probably the most unpredictable/misunderstood things in the universe, but that doesn’t mean you can’t quantify them. Trying to understand ourselves is something we’ve been trying to do for millenniums. My autism is showing, but I’ve personally found trying to understand/study human behaviour to be one of the most interesting subjects I’ve delved into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 01:38 PM
4	Is there a certain looks level a guy can have that will automatically beat out any High Status/High earning male? I’m one of the men who believe status trumps looks anyday. I mean have you seen how male celebrity singers/musicians are treated among women? They get crowded around, screamed at, stalked, etc, you cannot evoke the same reaction with looks or money (not unless their looks caused their high status, like in Jeremy Meeks case). In terms of what point looks takes over both status and money? I don’t think any amount of looks would work. An average looking celebrity with money will destroy any 10/10 b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 01:27 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Literally no preferences on ethnicity, it’s literally the least important part of a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 11:25 AM
9	Why "just be yourself" is the best dating advice Changing who you are is quite literally the exact opposite of “just be yourself”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 12:56 PM
2	Which studies/research prove Pill philosophies and which studies debunk them? It was definitely mentioned before even /r/Incels was a thing, I remember reading about it, but it was usually in passing, mostly ignored, or a story about a short guy getting tons of pussy because of how alpha he was and why it shouldn’t bother other short guys. I specifically remember one story about a short guy who slept with a woman, and she kept bringing up how she ‘usually doesn’t sleep with guys like him’ (aka his height), she said it so often that he had to ditch her because it was getti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 02:47 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sounds like Chad to me, she might be trying to hook you into a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 01:24 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Having sex on the first date is a pretty good sign you’re attractive. But a bit of context is missing, are you going on dates and ending it with sex, or are you just meeting up for sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 01:20 PM
5	In a world where everyone stopped aging at 25, what would the dating market look like? Dating someone too old/young would no longer be as much of an issue. No one would look at a 45 year old dating a 25 year old and think “ew that’s weird” since they’d both appear to be the same age. Older people (especially older men) would dominate the dating market thanks to their assets, who’s going to win, a 25 year old man still setting up his life, or a 50 year old man who looks 25 who also has an expensive car, house that’s fully paid off, much higher paying job, and has had 50 years to pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 01:10 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children The one example i’ve heard, you enter a location for some reason, then leave. 5 minutes later a criminal enters the same place and commits a crime, leaves. The DNA tests show you were at the time scene at the time the crime was committed, based on this you go to prison. All thanks to the government having your DNA when you’ve never done anything wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 01:23 AM
27	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you It means you’re ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 12:44 PM
3	Your opinions: Men using their vulnerability as a sh*t test? Both are a turn off. Obviously the first one, but with the second one, I can’t imagine any woman feeling good about hearing “I’m worried you’ll leave me 😢”. That’ll give women the ‘ick’ feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 12:19 PM
4	What is your honest opinions on subs such as r/dating, r/dating_advice, and r/seduction? it’s because I respect everyone There are millions of people who respect everyone, there not attractive. You’re delusional if you believe that’s the actual reason people find you attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 12:15 PM
1	I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other? I never said you were traumatised, but you’re clearly having a knee-jerk reaction to this place with no real argument to explain why this place is sad and stupid. If a specific argument is stupid, explain why, that’s the point of the debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 12:11 PM
1	I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other? You basically dropped yourself into the center of one of the largest controversial internet cultures, which includes but not limited to Redpill, PUA, MGTOW, Incels, and FDS. It’s like if someone wanted to start drinking alcohol, but they started by drinking vodka straight from the bottle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 12:04 PM
1	I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other? Men’s and women’s rights? You’re in the wrong subreddit my dude, this is a subreddit about sex, dating, and relationships conventions. Not about men and women’s rights (although it does sometimes leak into here).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:58 AM
1	How quickly can you get a boyfriend/girlfriend if you were extremely motivated? Double on going the gym and getting muscles. But, No More Mr Nice Guy is BS and does not work for Incels. It teaches normal men how to stop doing “nice” things for no reward (and as a result, not get annoyed about the fact you’re doing nice things for no reward), it does not teach dateless virgins how to get a date. I remember reading it, and time and time again it was just examples of guys in relationships doing dumb shit and ruining it, It doesn’t tell you how to actually get into those relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:55 AM
1	Working out, for yourself or to become attractive to others? I tell people in real life that I work out for myself and to feel good. In reality, I work out to look good to other people, that’s 90% of the reason why I do it. Yes, it does feel good, and I like feeling strong and healthy, but if nobody cared and it didn’t make a difference to my social life, I wouldn’t be doing it. I like the respect I’ve gained from everyone I know, and I like when people give me compliments on it or notice the effort I’m putting in, and I like looking good for my partner’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:28 AM
1	I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other? I don’t think this sub is for you. I recommend /r/relationship_advice or /r/dating instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:22 AM
1	I joined this sub thinking it was a space for debating regarding real issues… why does it seem like every single post is just out to antagonise and stoke the other? Because we don’t want to raise someone else’s kid. The reason this is ignored is because it’s a boring question with an obvious answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:16 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread US has a TON of immigration, plenty of foreigners from Mexico, Middle East, and Asia move to US and skew the average height down. The population of non-Latino white people is only 60%. Making the average height 5’9. UK isn’t as immigrated, so the average height here is 5’10, with the white population being around 85%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 11:12 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread After a certain threshold. Meaning it has to pass some boundary first before face is more important. But if we’re just comparing face vs height in an equilibrium where nothing overpowers the other, height easily wins (aka the 6’2 vs 5’4 debate). For face to be more important, you have to pass a certain height first. The opposite is not true, for height to be important, you do not have to pass a facial attractiveness threshold. Height is always important and has to matter before face is even know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 10:39 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread According to https://dqydj.com/height-percentile-calculator-for-men-and-women/ it’s 2% or 1 in 50 people. For both 5’3 and 6’3	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 10:20 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’d say those two are pretty close, but the 5’8 dude barely wins. I’d say once you get past 5’10, height no longer plays a significant role and it’s more to do with face. So an attractive 5’10 dude will usually beat an average 6’2 dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 10:19 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread 5’3 is equally as likely as 6’3. 2% of the population is 5’3 or shorter. 2% of the population is 6’3 or taller. The average height is 5’9 in US, 6’3 is 6 inches taller, 5’3 is 6 inches shorter. They’re both as extreme as each other. The fact you think 5’3 is extreme, but not 6’3, helps prove my point that short height is much more problematic than you thought it was. We can change the height if you like. 6’2 vs 5’4. 6’1 vs 5’5. 6’ vs 5’6. Either way, the ugly 6’ dude still beats the handsome 5’6…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 10:00 AM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread 6’3 ugly men are immensely more likely to get dates compared to handsome 5’3 men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 08:54 AM
6	How long does it take to fall in love? This, meeting a person once every 2 weeks will take longer to fall in love than people meeting twice every week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 04:32 PM
13	Daily Community Chat Megathread France. It’s illegal to get a DNA test over there to prove you’re not the father, even if you proved you’re not the father some other way (aka having a mixed race child when you’re both white) you’re forced to pay child support anyway. Forced by the law to pay child support for your wife’s boyfriend’s kid? That’s CUCKED.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 04:01 PM
9	Triggered by a confident woman. People like me, want to be around me, and seek out my company Definitely not enough, people liking you as a friend does not prove you’re a good partner in a long term relationship. Every single LVM on the planet is proof of that, they have plenty of friends but are terrible to date. Even losers who do nothing but smoke weed at their mum’s house has friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:32 PM
9	Triggered by a confident woman. If you have evidence, then the people you’re talking to are not seeing that evidence. Either that, or the evidence your presenting isn’t strong enough to warrant the confidence you’re making in their point of view. Without reading these comments for myself I can’t say which one it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:24 PM
10	Triggered by a confident woman. Confidence: The belief that you’re able to rely on yourself to succeed. Arrogance: an exaggerated belief that you’re able to rely on yourself to succeed, with no proof or evidence that you will. Arrogant people are confident, but the confidence comes from an exaggerated sense of self worth. For example, I was confident in passing my theory test, I studied for days/weeks until I passed several mock exams in a row. I know I could do it based on that experience. Meanwhile my friend was also confide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 03:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The eldritch gods will have to show themselves as proof of their existence, we’ll either have to see Cthulhu’s city rise and him trying to take over the world, or someone like Yog-Sothoth sending down an avatar and playing with us humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 02:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don’t know much about Islam, but if that’s true, then why do they worship and pray to a watcher?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 01:24 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread They would have to do something that can’t be done by aliens. Christianity/Islam/Jewish God: If a truly omnipresent, omnipotent, and omniscient god exists, then it’s not a good or kind god, and I’d have no reason to worship it, this is a very similar concept to an artificial intelligence watching over a simulation of our world. That’s not a “god” in my mind, it’s more like a watcher/keeper. They would have to preform miracles/magic that science can’t explain, almost like using cheat codes in a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 12:52 PM
14	If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics? I’m not too sure myself. It’s like a study I once read where weaker men were more likely to use violence to solve disputes compared to stronger men. Just swap weaker men to women and it’s the same thing. Women are more violent, but at the same time, they’re allowed to be more violent because everyone knows it won’t hurt. It’ll hurt emotionally sure, but physically not much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 12:32 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread The girl: “He forced himself onto me, I said no but he ignored me”. The guy: “We hooked up”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 12:26 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread The blue pill is just the generic idea of what your average man is told women want. Which is usually to be respectful, kind, romantic, “just be yourself”, “you’re a good guy any girl will be lucky to have you”, etc. The blue pill is the idea that you just need to be a good person to attract women, and if you can’t attract women it must be because you’re an asshole/weirdo/neckbeard who doesn’t know what a shower is. That is nothing like the Blackpill at all. To /u/John_Oakman The blue pill isn’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 12:18 PM
2	CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do. It really is that simple, and it amazes me when people pretend it isn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 12:22 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Everything besides the toilet paper is what I considered normal. You have to recycle by law where I live anyway. But how does the drying towels work, are you expected to just wipe your shit ass with a towel then clean it later? Edit: Makes sense using a towel with a bidet now. Then to answer the question, 1. no this is not high maintenance, and 2. Yes I would happily enforce this in my own home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 04:50 PM
6	Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men? Same experience here. I think OP is confusing porn categories with actual fetishes. Either that or men keep it all bottled inside while the women don’t mind talking about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 03:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It basically means the same thing for a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 03:43 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Women might think that more men are attractive I’m not sure what you’re trying to claim, women don’t find most men attractive. There’s tons of threads on Reddit that asks women “what % of men do you find attractive” with the answer always being around 5%-1%. If a woman found a sexually attractive man on OLD, she will swipe right on them. It makes no sense not to. Which is why women only swipe on 20% of men or less on OLD. Whereas men are notorious for swiping on almost all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 01:25 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Finding someone physically attractive is not the same as actively wanting to pursue a relationship/sleep with them. It’s very easy to just look at someone and think “ya they’re cute” and do nothing else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 11:11 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread What’s everyone’s thoughts on this? - https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/s0oxna/gf_slept_with_a_stranger_while_we_were_getting_to/	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 08:13 PM
12	The pill debate and their theories are ridiculous ideally, you’re able to have a decent talk and see if you can connect with other people. Ideally, yes, but nobody will date anybody if they’re not physically attracted to them. ‘Connecting’ with a person you’re not into physically is just another way of saying you made a new friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 09:57 PM
2	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? Because I still think it’s the most accurate pill of the bunch. Redpill goes too deep into game, personality, shit tests, dread game, and becoming “Alpha” when none of that actually matters. Tons and tons of people I personally know had none of this and were able to get into relationships perfectly fine. The most accurate way to figure out if someone regularly attracts women, is to simply check if they’re attractive, their personality does not matter so long as they’re a normal functioning perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 09:59 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread that’s because the woman they date are terrible too Not really, even the sweet and kind girls also liked these men. Their ONLY positive traits are hard working and NOT a violent felon? They’re happy, fun, funny, pleasant to be around, have a good job and are financially stable, doesn’t live with parents. I’m happy with them as my friend, and in terms of personality they’re not lacking anything that people who do have girlfriends have. Like, in terms of personality, what do you actually want from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:10 AM
14	Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriends The whole post is a strawman argument though. Nobody is saying sex is just quiet missionary position with the lights off. When FDS is saying pornsick, they’re talking about men choking them, pulling their hair, immediately jackhammering, no foreplay, etc. I remember reading some pornsick posts on FDS, and even the most upvoted comment was a woman saying she loved giving her boyfriend blowjobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 10:28 AM
9	Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriends There’s literally nothing “passionate” about sticking it in the poo hole, that’s pure fetish material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 10:23 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread First. But personally, I’d keep growing it until it looks similar to this	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 10:03 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread don’t they have Guy friends they can show their profiles too Guys, and Guy friends, don’t know what good photos are. Not unless they’re experienced in Instagram or photography. Most guys will see a full body picture of him holding a fish he caught and think “Nice photo dude!”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 09:57 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because I’ve seen a bunch of awful men date multiple women without effort, the women who wanted to date them KNEW they were awful people, but couldn’t help themselves. Meanwhile my hardworking good friends who wouldn’t hurt a fly are virgins in their mid 20’s. Getting rejected by multiple women. Personality isn’t the issue here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 09:48 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Cheating is cheating, immediate split up/divorce. But I’m not going to lie, I would definitely be more mad if it was with a man. In a way, it’s like I’m far less jealous of being cheated on with a woman. If she cheated on me with a man then I’d be insecure, as her boyfriend/husband I should be able to offer whatever he’s offering, so I’d be thinking “what did I do wrong, was I not good enough?” Etc. But if it’s with a woman, it’s more “ooh, she wanted to swing that way instead, alright then”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 09:44 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s cringe bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 09:32 AM
2	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? I’m currently in one now, I reply to her anywhere between instantly or within a few hours, and we date every weekend. I’ve never once worried about wether I’m giving her too little/too much attention. I just reply when I can and we plan dates when we’re both available. And it seems to be working because we’re both pretty happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 09:24 AM
2	Is it possible to be naturally unattractive as a woman? Fit and healthy as in someone who exercises regularly and eats healthy foods. Not just being average weight. The post is talking about women being “unattractive”. While you didn’t get much attention, that didn’t mean you were straight up unattractive, it just meant you were average. Whereas a guy can still look unattractive even while being fit and healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:38 PM
5	Is it possible to be naturally unattractive as a woman? I’d say 5% of women or less have some form of physical issue preventing her from being a 7/10. From disability to recessed chin and everything in between. But generally you’re right, all a woman has to do to be attractive is to be fit and healthy. She can be in a hoodie with messy hair and no makeup but for as long as she’s fit and healthy, she’ll likely be attractive. The same cannot be said for a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:02 PM
9	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? Can do what you want when you want I can do that in a relationship too. So long as I’m not currently on a date with her. can fuck who you want when you want, enjoy flirting, dating with new people Not sure about you, but my single life revolved mostly around getting ignored by women and being a virgin. nobody questioning why you live the way you live or do the things the way you do Just tell them how it is, you like this because blah blah, get a partner that doesn’t judge you for silly things. s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 01:46 PM
3	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are We’re discussing intelligence at the moment. It’s like people discussing if men like red or green apples, then someone comes in and says “Well i guarantee you require a tasty apple at the very least”. I like green apples, that doesn’t mean I’ll be happy with a moldy green apple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 01:15 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread DIET IS KEY. The gym helps supplement a good diet. The gym is completely and utterly useless if you’re not on a diet. How much weight you’ll lose depends mostly on calories in vs calories out. Download “MyFitnessPal” and put in your height/weight and your goal weight, track all the food you’re eating. You should lose 0.5kg per week on a 500 calorie loss per day. If you want to lose 10kg it’ll take you 4-5ish months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 03:00 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Successful happy functioning people don’t find this place. They’re too busy on Instagram DM’ing their partners. ‘Blackpilled pathetic sacks of shit’ are the ones googling “how to attract women” until they eventually find this place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 02:53 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Like a swimmer? 63kg ish Like a ripped boxer? 70kg ish Take a look at different professional sports (including powerlifting) and check the physique of the 5’6 dudes and use them as an estimation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 02:49 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’ve been banned from there on multiple accounts for saying obvious stuff too. They REALLY don’t like it when you say anything related to how men and women are in different situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 02:47 PM
82	Why does it take alcohol for most women to engage in casual sex? Alcohol lowers your inhibition which lets you do things you were otherwise stopping yourself from doing. Before alcohol: “What’s the point?” “What will my friends think if I kissed him?” “He’s a bit weird I’d rather not”. After alcohol: “Fuck it why not?” kiss	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 02:35 PM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? Yes and yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:47 AM
2	Question 4 Women: After this recent Purge has your opinion of Red Pill Men changed for better or worse? This, the Incels have no where else to go to discuss relationship stuff, so when the purge happens they flood the sub as it’s the only safe space for them left on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:43 AM
0	Question 4 Women: After this recent Purge has your opinion of Red Pill Men changed for better or worse? So you fucked him, despite the fact he was a Redpilled. What’s was your point again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:40 AM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? Does it work Worked for me. And how much it works depends on how short and how ugly they are. 5’7 average dude? It’ll definitely help him and he’ll land a date eventually. 5’4 and facially ugly dude? He’s got an uphill battle and will struggle a ton to get even the slightest attention, he’ll rely more on luck than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 12:54 PM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? Happy to hear you’re doing well. Why do consider yourself blackpill Because I still think it’s the most accurate pill of the bunch. Redpill goes too deep into game, personality, shit tests, dread game, and becoming “Alpha” when none of that actually matters. Tons and tons of people I personally know had none of this and were able to get into relationships perfectly fine. The most accurate way to figure out if someone regularly attracts women, is to simply check if they’re attractive, their perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 12:49 PM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? Yup, in England, life’s going pretty good thanks for asking, how about you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 12:04 AM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? Redpill is a mix of PUA, game, personality, and looks. The biggest looks thing being to lift weights and get fit. But they’re not realistic about it. For example they pretend short men don’t have a humongous disadvantage over tall men, and that personality/game trumps everything. Blackpill on the other hand goes deep into Looks, completely ignoring game, pua, and personality. Blackpill tells men to “Looksmatch” as much as possible, whereas Redpill just says to go the gym and dress good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 11:49 PM
1	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? I called myself a vocel, despite having a house to myself, a good job, healthy body, “good” personality, fun hobbies, etc, the only women I attracted was a cocaine addict and a morbidly obese woman. I could have gotten laid, but not with women I wanted. Other single women would barely respond to anything I said. In terms of what I did, I got a fitter bigger body, cooler fitted clothes (that show off my body), grew a full beard that I keep groomed and other men to this day keep complimenting me o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 10:57 PM
4	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? mostly white right-wingers No, surveys in incel subreddits show Incels were 50% white, 50% other. Compared to the average Reddit user which is around 75% white, Incels were over represented in non-white users. Incels were just labeled white alt right users to smear their image, it’s the same as calling people you don’t like nazi’s. it definitely does, I didn’t know this was a blackpill idea The general population will try to convince you it’s about personality, telling people relationships rely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 09:53 PM
1	Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels: I’m not worried about either, they’re both overblown.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 07:33 PM
7	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? No, Blackpill means it‘s all about looks. Like a good 80% of relationship success relies on just being physically attracted to each other. Incels believe in the Blackpill because as ugly men, they can literally see women completely ignoring them for men who’s only positive trait is the fact they’re attractive. Incels say “it’s over” because they believe they can’t improve themselves to the standards women want, either because they’re bottom barrel ugly, wrong skin tone, weird voice, short height…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 07:28 PM
5	Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/YouTube_headquarters_shooting Her life story is under Perpetrator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:44 PM
7	Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels: She was very into equal rights, a vegan, and shot you YouTube because she thought they were being sexist, highly likely she was a feminist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:43 PM
12	Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl? I’m a Blackpiller that frequently browsed incel subreddits. I got a girlfriend after becoming physically attractive. Nothing else mattered, my hobbies didn’t matter, my online profile didn’t matter, my skills didn’t matter, my job didn’t change, my personality didn’t change, the only thing that actually changed was my physical looks. I went into Covid with nothing and came out landing multiple dates and had women in my extended friend group wanting to date me. Personality is only useful AFTER yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:41 PM
12	Men: incels are poor unloved victims because their looks, why do women not like incels???? Also incels: YouTube shooter	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 05:24 PM
1	Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place? Their private forum on a completely different website which only the most extreme incels ever use and consists of less than 1% of all self-proclaimed incels? Of course you’re going to get extreme views. /r/braincels and /r/incelswithouthate had nothing of the sort and are a more accurate representation, having 40,000+ subscribers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 10:39 AM
44	Why do incels enrage woman so much? Aren’t they literally doing what they wanted? Who gives a fuck if they hate woman if they don’t get dates in the first place? That’s like saying it’s fine to be disgusted by feminists because they want all straight white men to die. Or to be disgusted by left wingers because they want your kids on hormone blockers and have their genitals cut off. You can’t judge an entire group of people by the few extremists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 12:00 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Flat saggy ass	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:55 PM
3	How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?! Getting a handjob by someone else is better. Not because their technique, speed, and/or rhythm is better, it’s solely because it’s a woman giving the handjob. Getting an enthusiastic mundane handjob by a woman is 1000% better than any masturbating session.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 09:50 PM
16	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the perfect example as to why The Red Pill specifically state you should never go into detail about past relationships/experiences with other women. There’s nothing to gain from it and everything to lose from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 11:17 PM
15	What's something the opposite gender gets away with? You must be attractive then. When people found out I was a virgin, it was instantly accepted, no questions asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 05:27 PM
3	She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your fault OP doesn’t understand what frame is. Frame isn’t “You said no to anal? Ok I’m going to keep pestering you over and over until you say yes”. Frame is another way of saying be stoic, to not succumb to petty anxiety or anger. The kind of mindset where If shit hits the fan then everybody happily relies on you to fix it without worry. For the women in your life to lean on you believing you’ll sort everything out. A strong sense of self belief, self confidence, that you can always fall back on your ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 01:52 AM
3	Do women actually find it hot when her partner cheat on them? (at least, secretly) No. Women find it hot when their man is attractive to other women, and the idea that he could be with any other woman, but he chose to date HER out of all of them. That’s what they find hot. As in, if a woman was clearly flirting with him, but he was having none of it and didn’t reciprocate, that would be very attractive. In turn, they will find their partner unattractive if they realise literally no other woman would dare to touch him. They do not find men who actually cheat on them more attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 05:36 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Muscles on men as a concept/idea isn’t all that arousing for women. As in Women don’t look at bodybuilders and get aroused from it. It explains why body builders, power lifters, etc all have an all male audience, women simply don’t care. Muscles on THEIR man (or men they’re looking to date, or celebrity men they have a crush on) is very arousing to them. The idea that their guy is a strong muscular man that can pick them up like Cotten candy and “defend” them is an insanely arousing trait for wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:41 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Looks any fucking day. Game is vastly overrated, the men constantly sleeping with women aren’t achieving it because they’ve unlocked the secrets to women’s minds and can smooth talk their way into their pants, they’ve attracted women because they’re hot men. To add to this, the hotter you are, the more you can just “be yourself” and not need to play games just to do something as basic as have a relationship. You can literally just talk to a woman like a normal person and she’ll like you anyway. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:27 PM
10	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s simple, if blackpilled content wasn’t banned, this subreddit would be taken over in an instant. Followed by it being permanently banned a few weeks later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 02:20 PM
1	Would anyone you know date red pill men? “Would you date a lying manipulative man who plays games, flirts with other women in front of you, regularly makes fun on you, and never buys you any flowers?” “Eew no”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 10:28 AM
4	If average men have such a hard time getting in relationships, why do men cheat far more than women? Just biology playing it’s role, a woman’s orgasm isn’t needed to produce kids, so it doesn’t matter if they’re not orgasming during a one night stand. They’ll still get some form of pleasure from the experience regardless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 10:19 AM
1	Romance novels accurately portray the men women want to fuck, marry, and have babies with. Read one and tell me the how the red pill didn't nail it. Be sure to include the one(s) you've read in your reply, even if it's 50 Shades. Sounds like you’re advocating for Blackpill here, not Redpill. The only thing you’ve mentioned here is that he’s physically attractive, tall, rich, and strong, as in that’s all it actually takes for her to fall in love with him. All of his non red pill actions are allowed because he’s attractive and rich. More than half of TheRedPill is all about PUA-like tactics, seduction, negging, dread game, passing shit tests, spinning plates, NOT TO CHASE WOMEN, etc etc. None of the men in these books pull…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 10:05 AM
22	TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously. Exactly, this sort of mindset applies to a lot of things in life. Want more people to apply for the job? Raise the salary, but don’t hire the person who only applied JUST for the salary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 11:41 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I agree with you dude. Looks is the foundation of all relationships. Without it you can’t even build the relationship. The Blackpill isn’t just saying looks matter. It’s saying it’s the most important part of any type of sexual relationship by a long shot. You cannot have a sexual relationship with that includes lust without the people in the relationship being physically sexually attracted to each other. Women do not care if you’re a nice person with funny jokes if you’re not physically attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 05:47 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread I literally bought my girl one of these for Christmas after reading that exact post, she’s avoids towels on her hair because it makes her curly hair frizzy. Hopefully these microfibre towels work on her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 07:12 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you don’t like your friends sleeping around having unprotected sex every weekend, it’s because you’re jealous or insecure. In other news, if you don’t like your friends being addicted to smoking or being alcoholics, it’s because you’re jealous or insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 12:51 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Stop comparing your penis with pornstars with a tight grip Vaginas don’t have a tight grip, learn to get yourself off with a very soft grip. If you can only get yourself off with a tight grip with your hands, you will struggle to get off with an actual woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 10:36 AM
4	"There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works" Because the simple fact is shallow, and most women don’t want to be seen as shallow. And the simple fact is being nice isn’t attractive, being nice only works if it’s coming from an already attractive man. But obviously, telling the unattractive man that he can’t attract women because he’s ugly is mean. So they just say “oh just be nice!” to save face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 10:34 AM
2	"There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works" Women have normal conversations with men every single day. Women aren’t falling for men just because they had a simple conversation with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 10:08 AM
11	"There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works" Lift weights and exercise for a good body, Wear fitted clothes, if you got a weak jaw then grow a beard, get your shit together (clean house, stable job), gain genuine confidence, learn how to socialise with women (learn to flirt, tease, escalate, etc). The idea is to become an attractive man before you even talk to her. So when she meets you, you don’t need to “persuade” her to date you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/21 10:33 PM
84	"There is a difference between what women say they want and what actually works" Men are asking for advice about how they, as an average/unattractive man, can do to become attractive to women. Women give advice about what they want an already attractive man to do to start dating them. So women give advice such as “just be nice and respectful to her, treat her like a human being, then ask her on a date”. If an attractive man did this, the woman would be ecstatic and would want to go on a date with him. When an unattractive man does this, he becomes her friend. This is the iss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/21 07:26 PM
6	Broad question for everyone: What do you attribute to a successful marriage or relationship? This I believe is the biggest one. The “dating phase” should never end. Always be going on dates in 3 years into marriage and kids. Get a babysitter to give you time off the kids to go on dates together. Doing the same stuff you were doing during your first year together. I think the biggest problem a lot of marriages go through is once they settle down, a lot of people’s mindset changes. They put less effort into the relationship because they’re “settled”, the dating period is over and now they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/21 10:16 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m the opposite, the only problem I had in life was being a virgin/lonely, now that I’ve solved that problem, I can safely say my life is almost perfect. Got a nice job, got a home, got friends, got girlfriend that actively wants to visit me, got a car, life is stable, can save enough money to go on annual holidays, exercise regularly, healthy and fit, starting my own company, what more could I want from life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 05:44 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Always surprised to see women’s sexlessness go up. Out of literally every single women my age who I know, not a single one of them are virgins. Meanwhile I know like 9-10 23+ year old men who are virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 03:59 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don’t understand, just get into a relationship with a man that’ll make you orgasm. You say this like it’s a “Gotcha” yet it’s the women who choose to be relationships with men who don’t make them orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 04:33 PM
0	What percent of women are AWALT? Got it from here - https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence Where did you get 33% admitted to rape without consequence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 04:07 PM
1	What percent of women are AWALT? You’re right. What’s your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 03:09 PM
3	What percent of women are AWALT? I see what you mean now. I agree that comparing AWALT to a loaded gun isn’t accurate. I wouldn’t compare it to AMALT either. More like common sense. In the same way you don’t aim a gun at someone’s head in the fear of it being loaded, you should never get into the back of a random strange man’s white van in the fear of being kidnapped and raped. AWALT simply means she always has the potential to cheat/lie/monkey branch, that doesn’t mean she will, it just means don’t be surprised if she does, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:38 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread A good women who just got given two orgasms by their man would want to make her man orgasm in return. I can’t imagine a relationship where you gave her two orgasms, and she does nothing in return, then gets mad at you for finishing yourself in the bathroom afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:13 PM
7	What percent of women are AWALT? Difference is percentage, men who rape account for 3% of the male population. Whereas something like cheating can account to 15%-46% depending on what study you’re reading. This is just cheating, it doesn’t take into account relationships where women will break up first before getting with the new guy they’ve had their eyes on for a while. The % in this case of “monkey branching” could be well over 50% of all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 11:41 AM
2	If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing? They’re not all that interested in becoming “High Value Women” themselves to be able to land HVM. They’re just expecting a High Value Man to fall into their laps when they’re offering essentially nothing in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 02:34 PM
3	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? most men on dating apps are average. But most men who women actually attempt to match with are above average. These are the men going to the party I mentioned above. The average and below average men? Immediately left swiped before the woman even looks at the second picture or reads their bio. What makes you think the attraction will change IRL Women get to actually talking to you for starters, so your wealth and status start to matter. In terms of height, most women have no idea what 6’ looks l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 07:56 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread If a woman is physically abused, it’s almost guaranteed to be by the very person they’re claiming will protect them from other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 07:38 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have never once in my entire life seen a woman date a man based on the fact he “reads literature and studies art”. The men I’ve met with the most success with women all haven’t touched a book in 10+ years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 07:34 PM
3	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? I’ve personally had better luck with Tinder and the absolute bottom barrels luck with Hinge. I assume it’s just dependant on the area you’re in. Hinge was 90% obese women, and I couldn’t even match with them even if I wanted too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 07:13 PM
5	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? That party was a metaphor for online dating. When you’re using online dating, you’re not just meeting the tiny amount of men in your social circle, you’re matching with the best men online dating has to offer in a 20 mile radius. Scooter around walmart Skewed towards 40+ year olds, irrelevant to 18-35 year olds trying to date. Gets it up without pills Requires a girl to get into bed with in the first place, irrelevant when simply trying to meet women. And irrelevant to 90% of people younger than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:51 PM
2	Did this sub help you in actual dating life? I’m Blackpilled with hints of Redpill. Blackpill: Looks are the pinnacle of attracting women, your personality/actions/lifestyle/your entire being means literally nothing at all if they’re not physically attracted to you in the first place. Do everything in your power to become as physically attractive as possible, go the gym, groom regularly, get fitted stylish clothes with a watch/bracelet, if you’ve got a average/bad jaw then grow a beard, have a good posture, etc. Redpill: After looks it’s C…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:37 PM
4	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? if you’re in a LTR I mean, the hard part is getting that LTR in the first place. Especially if you’re being compared to the dudes you find in Online Dating. If you’ve already got a LTR, then you’ve already passed the toughest part of dating. All you need to do now is not be lazy or an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:21 PM
5	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? You’re not wrong, it’s hard, and it’s only going to get harder as time goes on. You just got to hope you can get into the LTR before someone better than you decides to intervene.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:19 PM
19	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? You’re an average man, you’ve been invited to a party by your crush, you arrive and there’s 300 people there, 98% of the people are 6’ ripped attractive men. All of them trying to date your crush. Do you even stand a chance? You’re literally the bottom 10% of all men in the party. There’s no way she’s going to choose you. That’s basically what online dating is like. In real life, you’re invited to a party and there’s 50 people there, 50/50 split of men and women, half of these people are in rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 03:12 PM
7	Did this sub help you in actual dating life? Not specifically this place, but the pills in general helped me understand the social dynamics of relationships/dating more than anything else in my life. I grew up being told by most people that women will like me for being “nice”. Picture this, a shy short skinny nerdy teenager trying to pick up women by being nice and kind to them. Ya that doesn’t work. These subreddits helped me realise that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 12:37 PM
4	CVM: SUPER UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING...looked over FDS and it seems like it actually may bring about the positive changes in the world that TRP complains won't happen I don’t think a post from 2 years ago with 24 upvotes by a deleted account is proof to decide what FDS is about nowadays. Compared to this post from just 2 days ago that’s currently the 5th most upvoted post this month - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qpdq5g/hookup_culture_is_a_scam/	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 05:36 PM
2	CVM: SUPER UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING...looked over FDS and it seems like it actually may bring about the positive changes in the world that TRP complains won't happen Look at this strong and independent FDS woman filtering out the bad men for the good men - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pxqn6m/this_was_on_the_official_muzmatch_tiktok_page/hep67hm/ They are truly seeking only the kindest men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 08:49 AM
3	CVM: SUPER UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING...looked over FDS and it seems like it actually may bring about the positive changes in the world that TRP complains won't happen While at the same time hooking up with men and having ONS I don’t like FDS as much as the next person here, but this isn’t true, FDS women HATE the hookup culture with a passion and strongly advise every women on there that it’s a scam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 08:42 AM
11	CVM: SUPER UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING...looked over FDS and it seems like it actually may bring about the positive changes in the world that TRP complains won't happen It happens all the time over in FDS. “All these scrotes are nothing, I’m dating a REAL HVM for the first time ever!!!” Then you look into it and they’re dating a deadbeat loser who eventually cheats on them 2 weeks later. Every man they’re dating is a HVM until they’re not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 08:32 AM
2	Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning? it’s not that bad RIGHT NOW it’s not that bad, 200 years in the future and the earth will be 6 degrees hotter globally and life as we know it will be fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 04:02 PM
0	Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning? Lmao get off your high horse and look at the world, of course it would be beneficial if we had less people on the planet. Global warming is a legitimate threat to our existence and having less people is one of the ways we can reduce the world’s carbon footprint. Farming less foods means less damage to the farmlands we have. Less pollution, less need for land (aka better chance for everyone to have and own their own home), less food created and consumed, less plastic being created, overall less o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 01:32 PM
1	Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning? Just because we have food now that’s being thrown away doesn’t mean the population is sustainable for 100’s of years. There’s soooooo much more to overpopulation than how much food we need to consume. It’s such a vastly complex topic that can’t be condensed in a single PPD comment, from food to water to over-farming to over-fishing to resources used up to global warming etc etc etc. There’s no real reason why we need 13+ billion people on the planet at any one time (the estimated max population …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 12:36 PM
22	People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movement above 35	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 07:33 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Reminds me of a post I read on here about a trans woman getting catcalled and she loved it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 11:57 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread The average guy is a 5’9/5’10 white guy with a bit of a dad bod. All things considered, being average is still pretty decent. It is a struggle when you are actually below average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 11:50 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread The witchcraft is just roleplaying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:11 AM
9	Daily Community Chat Megathread The woman faking the orgasm, she’s literally doing herself a disservice by pretending to enjoy the act, making the guy think he’s doing a good job, and at the same time not teaching the guy how to actually do a good job. Don’t be surprised your guy can’t make you orgasm if you don’t teach your guy how to make you orgasm. She could actually enjoy the act but is too scared/embarrassed to tell the dude “don’t do that, do this it’s better for me”. Meanwhile the guy is either being innocently ignoran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 07:59 PM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? “Lmao why don’t you just date girls bro just go to the girl shop and buy one bro lol”. The men are simping E-girls because they can’t find a girl to date, not the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 10:01 AM
4	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I don’t understand why you’re spending so much time/energy debating something I agree with you on. Clearly I’m not talking about submissiveness in the face of abuse, practically nobody wants that. I’m just talking about a simple leader/follower relationship, Where the boyfriend does the leading and the girlfriend follows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 04:28 PM
1	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I mean, this is under the assumption that the boyfriend doesn’t beat women. That kind of extremism applies to basically anything. “I’m fine with my boss deciding what job I’ll be working on everyday”. “Until he decides to scream in your face about how pathetic you are”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 02:02 PM
1	Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you? Straight people created TRP, FDS, and !cels because they want/tried to get laid, and go into writing full novels because of it. I really struggle to believe anything in LGBTQ+ dating could be worse that someone from these communities couldn’t handle it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 07:38 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, I’m a background character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 10:25 AM
3	Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women? You actually think she’s 4/10 or worse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 10:22 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread With the amount of women on here I’ve seen who’ve admitted they fake their orgasms, how does a man actually know he’s actually made a women orgasm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 01:28 PM
5	If men are always looking for sex, and very sexual creatures, how do religious men cope? lets not forget what happens to alter boys and young people in religious schools I’ve read something that the amount of pedo’s in religion is about as equal as the amount of pedo’s outside of religion. The only difference is the priests and that get all the media attention compared to the weird uncle. So it’s made people think it’s more likely to happen in religious places, when the reality is it’s just more likely to be reported.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 08:24 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread 85% Body, she has to not be obese. Face isn’t too important, it’s very rare for a woman to actually be facially ugly so I don’t put much importance to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 08:12 AM
5	Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually works That’s what this whole post is about. What “Left Wing” advice can you give to men to help them with dating issues. When dating generally involves treating men and women differently, something that goes against what it means to be Left Wing?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 03:43 PM
2	Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually works Redpill literally have the phrase “AWALT”, “All Women Are Like That”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 03:39 PM
10	Left Wing Male Dating Advice - That actually works I haven’t watched the video but my thoughts on it is that left-wing in general is all about equality, trying to create a world where both women and men are completely identical in every way except genitalia and pregnancy. So in general, left wing advice assumes men and women are identical, and that men should just “Treat women like human” and “Just be yourself”. Whereas the Redpill and PUA treat women like they’re cats on a string you have to entertain. Like they’re an advanced alien spaceship y…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/09/21 02:59 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Rapists know raping is bad, telling them it’s bad isn’t going to stop them. Imagine someone saying “Don’t tell shops to take precautions, tell people to stop stealing”, you’d be laughed at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 12:31 PM
2	A game for all: Would you rather.... 4’11 is literal dwarf territory, nothing is saving that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 11:47 AM
7	Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of reality You can say the same thing about any pill. You pick and choose what works and what doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 08:27 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Women on Tinder: “Say more than just “Hey!”or were just going to ignore you, be unique, make me laugh!” Women on Bumble: “Hey!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 02:00 PM
1	“I want a girlfriend” sounds pathetic Short term satisfaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 01:58 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Don’t understand the hype for Bumble/Hinge, could just be the area I live (UK), but on Tinder I, at the very least, get a few likes/matches with women. And see a few likes pop up every now and then. But Bumble/Hinge is a literal ghost town, doesn’t matter how often I swipe or how many unique greeting with roses I sent out, it’s completely empty, like every account I’m being shown are fake. Either that or these apps just never show my profile to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 01:02 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Damn, there’s more black pill than red pill here. That’s pretty crazy. I knew there was a lot of black but wasn’t expecting a full 1/4	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:58 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s a skewed statistic by nature. Average/above average self proclaimed “incels” are more likely to post pics of themselves since they know they’re not actually ugly, looking for attention and validation. In a similar way self proclaimed “ugly” women post pictures online with caption of “I’m so ugly” fishing for compliments. Actual ugly incels are very likely to not do this. And when they do post pictures, they unsurprisingly get ignored and left in the “New” section because nobody wants to com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No such thing. Incel by definition is someone who cannot sleep women. The fact he slept with a women made him a vocel. Otherwise the alternative is claiming every human being on the planet was an incel before they fucked around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:26 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread They never get interest because they’re ugly. Literally nothing to do with their personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:28 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Incel Dates and fucks women Hmm 🧐	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:26 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Buying is simpier. You’re going out to a public restaurant and spending money on her food/drink with no indication of anything happening afterwards. What have you proven to her? That you can spend $60 on food. Cooking a home meal means you’re inviting her into your home, mere steps away from the bedroom, all the while showing off your clean and lovely house and feeding her your own home-made food, showing off your cooking skills and hygiene. Plus it proves to you that she’s comfortable enough wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:23 PM
2	CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPers It resonates not because it’s good storytelling, but because it’s a real life extract that a lot of men agree with and relate to. It’s one of the big reasons why TRP became so popular in the first place. But I’m getting off topic, my original point is that TRP isn’t just about internet anecdotes, and there’s a lot more to it than this one story by Michael. You’re right, If a man reads this and it resonates with him, then he’s going to continue reading, if it doesn’t, then he won’t. But that does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:37 PM
1	CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPers The biggest difference here is this guy isn’t taking writing classes and trying to convince people to continue reading, it’s just him venting about his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean, it really doesn’t matter. I don’t think the guy sleeping with multiple women is going to care much when one of them stops sleeping with him when they find out he smokes weed and plays video games. He’ll still find plenty of women who smoke weed and plays games to have a LTR with them. Meanwhile there’s plenty of men who don’t fall under anything on that list yet are struggling to find a single date. My point is the stuff on that list is hardly a factor when it comes to attracting women, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:38 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I don’t know how it doesn’t. A ton of women change their tastes, hobbies, and even political ideology to fit inline with whatever their boyfriends/husbands is. They enjoy following his ideals. The boyfriend can do what he wants because she wants him to do what he wants. A man who doesn’t know what he wants to do and constantly asks for her opinion would be unattractive in comparison. Then on the off chance she has an issue with something then tells him about it, he can simply alter it to somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:26 PM
4	CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPers Not really, TRP handbook is massive, this is just one of the stories near the beginning of it. Basing TRP on this one story is like judging a book based on chapter 1 of a 36 chapter long book.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:23 PM
4	People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships. Nah, one “Chad”, most are above average normies, regularly say things like “fuck women”, if she’s even remotely slutty then she’s a hoe, then other more mundane stuff like simple Red Pill truths that most people would call sexist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:18 PM
3	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? I think you’ve vastly overestimating how bad/addicting certain downtime’s can be. Yes, binge watching tv and playing hours upon hours of video games is unhealthy, but like any downtime event, everything is healthy in moderation. It’s especially healthy for a person who does have their life sorted and gets exercise in and meets with mates regularly to have a few hours of downtime per week, even if that downtime is TV/Video Games. It’s only considered an addiction when it gets in the way of more i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:15 PM
5	CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPers It hits all the buttons because this was one of the pinnacle articles/life stories that started off TRP. It’s literally one of the very first stories TRP recommends you to read when you start using it, it’s been part of their handbook since they began. TRP didn’t exist when this was written. It’s not that this “Hits all the buttons”, this created the buttons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:42 PM
3	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? Ya this is a very unrealistic take. I don’t know a single person in my entire life, man or woman, who has a life like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:33 PM
1	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? This is sort of a none answer. I’m not asking what he should do outside of his house, I’m talking about when he has nothing to do and he’s inside the house, besides books what are you expecting him to be doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:23 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread As far as I’m aware, 7/9 of those things on that list hardly effect wether a woman’s attracted to you or not. If you’re at a party then she’s not going to know how much porn you use, if you play video games, if you live with your parents, if your yearly salary is less than $50,000 etc. She’s going to see you, chat with you, “connect” with you, then want to fuck you based on that. The things on that list is hardly important in terms of attracting women. Want to attract women? Be an attractive cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:05 PM
2	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? Got to ask, if not video games (and not tv/books), what personal hobbies would you like your man to partake in when home alone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:50 PM
1	Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor? Neither of these besides #4 and #5 are unattractive to women. Women don’t know how much porn a man consumes when she meets him. Same as 1, except Women play video games too. Women expect men to be living with parents until 23+, If anything it’s more that men aren’t as proactive in dating because they know they can’t bring her back home. Women also smoke weed, a ton of it, this isn’t unattractive. This is a massive bonus if you’re attracting women who smoke. Class/Money is basically a non-issue, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:21 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Because she wants to do what he wants. She finds enjoyment in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 08:27 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Nah, not true. My dad’s currently in a loveless marriage, he could do everything perfectly but no matter how perfect he is, she WILL find something to nag about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 08:24 AM
1	People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships. The men I know with the most success with women are often also the most sexist men I know. Someone’s views on women have practically no effect on women’s views on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 11:04 PM
3	I made a unique political orientation test, what is your score? Are you more blue-pilled or red-pilled? Left aligned, 25 blackpilled, scored -7. Not sure what that means beyond being slightly left leaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 04:59 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread It just so happens that 50% of CEO’s are 6’ despite making up 16% of the population. It just so happens that less than 10% of CEO’s are 5’7 despite making up 25% of the population. Just a coincidence, they just had better social skills teehee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 03:07 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread “Blackpill” is literally just “women like attractive men”. It is a very very very easy thing to study and report on. Doesn’t matter who you are or where you come from, everyone understands this simply idea, so tons of people have worked to study it. When a study is created, it’s not a study on “The Blackpill”, it’s just a study on how people behave. Redpill is all about behaviour and how you can attract woman using confidence, passing shit tests, holding frame, etc. The thing about this is these…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 12:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread 2.5/10. He has to lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 07:27 AM
2	[CMV] The Manosphere Consistently Gives Terrible Nutritional Advice and It's Hurting Men in the Long Term As someone who hangs around the manosphere, I have quite literally never heard of this “Carnivore Diet” you’re assuming the Manosphere is telling their community to eat. Can you link us to a single instance of this happening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/21 06:37 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Find a polyamorous relationship where you’re the “Bull”. That’s truly the most non traditional relationship you’ll find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 07:29 PM
2	[Q4ALL] Which category do you guys fall into when it comes to thoughts on casual sex? If the opportunity presents itself, sure, but I ain’t seeking it out and I’d be fine without it. Male, 25, Blackpill, Virgin, lower-middle class. It would have to be with a mate I enjoy spending time with, but not necessarily want to date. More of a FWB situation. I detest the idea of a one night stand, at that point I’d rather just have a hooker for the night. I’d doubt something like a FWB would ever pop up, but ya if the situation arises I wouldn’t turn it down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 05:51 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s a list of things humans need and prioritise. Starting with the bottom essential layer of getting food, shelter, water, literally just stay alive. Then the next layer is safety/security, to secure your current life, this could be through finding a place to live, getting a job, getting money. 3rd layer is belongingness and love. 4th layer is self esteem (feeling proud and accomplished). 5th is self-actualisation (achieving your full potential). The next layer can only be fulfilled if the prev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/21 07:38 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Aah, I mean it all depends on context. Anything that resembles a man sleeping with a woman with no intention of dating her, the woman wanting to date, then the man leaving because of it, is a pump and dump in my mind. A FWB wouldn’t be a pump and dump if the woman had no intention of dating him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 05:07 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread She gives him her number the day after I imagine this scenario to be one where the women thinks sleeping with the guy will get him to stay. Which would absolutely be a PD situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 04:33 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread All of them. In every situation the woman wants something more but the man just gets laid then gets off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 04:01 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is my issue, great job, nice house, good car, nice body from 4+ years of exercising, healthy eating, etc. My league is obese women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 11:43 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Good Morning Becky, I’m good thanks, how’s life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 11:34 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I can emphasise with men and their struggles with dating. I can’t do the same with women who’s experiences and struggles are polar opposite to my own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 11:34 AM
2	Some people on this sub are completely delusional about what sex is all about I mean, that’s great in all, but what are you trying to say, talk to women like they’re human? What do you think majority of men are doing on PPD? They’re not interacting with women asking how many n-counts they have. They’re doing exactly what you said you did, just spoke and had chemistry with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 09:48 AM
3	Some people on this sub are completely delusional about what sex is all about This is the “just be yourself” of advices. Random cute women don’t randomly walk up to just anybody and start talking to them, she found you attractive enough to walk up and start talking to you. To add to this “Chemistry” when she’s not sexually attracted to you is just friendship. You cannot negotiate attraction, she’s either into you or not, in this instance she was into you and took her shot. Sounds like you’re underestimating your own attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 09:21 AM
14	Why is dating an overweight single mom better than porn/escorts? You’d be surprised at the amount of women who don’t have this mindset. Look no further than the controversy sex-bots/sex-dolls have among women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 03:32 PM
5	Stance on porn addiction and availability to kids Don’t need to imagine, that was me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 08:53 PM
6	Short man /Heightism Female perspective Short Height is correlated with a lot of negative traits. For each inch of height you lose, you have a 4.5% increased chance of suiciding. - https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.7.1373 (2005) Each inch of height you gain is an extra $850 increased wage per year. - https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/10.1086/422566 (1995) (inflation increases this to $1,400) The taller you are, the more likely you were associated with positive aspects such as being healthier, smarter, h…	/r/seduction	09/08/21 07:21 PM
9	most(99%) women don't go for super hot guys,the ones that do just gravitate to the internet and are louder Funny because I know a 6’4 blond haired blue eyed “Chad”, during a wedding women were literally trying to drag him onto the dance floor while the rest of us were just sitting and watching the whole thing, 5 guys, yet multiple women we’re literally trying to drag him and hardly glanced at us. He also made a friend of mine open her relationship just so she could sleep with him. I’m not even friends with the dude and they’re both things that happened when I was around, I can’t begin to imagine what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:13 PM
11	Women blame men who get rejected for having bad attitudes to avoid appearing shallow That’s where the famous “He was just being nice to get into my pants” line comes from. He was rejected for being ugly/short, but saying you rejected him for being ugly/short is shallow, so you make something up so it sounds like he was a bad person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 05:05 PM
2	Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all). You could say the exact same thing about the red pills way of dating. Nothing in that entire segment was genuine, you’re literally following a script of what you should do, how you should do it, what you do next, etc to gauge what he does. Do this, stand like this, wait for him to do this, ignore the bill, wait for him to open the door etc. Purposely praising their “HVM” actions while also dismissing their “LVM” actions is literally manipulating them into being what they want him to be. Meanwhil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 12:47 PM
13	Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all). FDS doesn’t manipulate men into paying for dates Huh, Interesting, you say that, meanwhile their “Handbook” has this in it - https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eqp7lo/practical_tips_mega_essay_easy_classy_ways_to/	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 10:52 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There isn’t. I’m replying to the original question of “6 year olds don’t know if they’re gay or straight” which as far as I’m aware from the gay people I know, is completely false for some people. I personally couldn’t care less if a kid liked a boy or girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 08:20 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ok. And I’ve met gay people who sorta always knew for as long as they remembered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 07:41 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I didn’t “decide” to have a crush on the girl in school when I was a kid, I just did. Same can be said for kids who had a crush on people of their own sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 07:20 AM
11	FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article) Literally all of them, they’re Blackpilled not Redpilled	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 09:28 PM
10	What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)? The only men who need to read it are “nice guys” who try to be nice to everyone even at the expense of their own happiness and well being. Beyond that, it’s an absolutely useless book. The first chapter was all about a man who got annoyed at his wife for doing something he agreed he would do. As someone getting into PUA/TRP shit, this was one of the first books people recommended and I found it completely pointless to continue reading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 03:31 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread 6.5 4.5 5.5 7.5 I personally prefer the first one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 04:55 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hostile Sexism Score: 2.09 Benevolent Sexism Score: 2.09 Perfectly average for my country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 04:52 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because I can’t offer him anything useful beyond saying “Ya bro it sucks”. He’s in a crap situation with no obvious solution, mostly because I have no idea who he is or how he lives his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:25 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread He’s expecting some form of sympathy, pity, and advice. Instead he just got empty platitudes which is one of the last things he’s looking for. He’s not looking for some random dude he’s never met and has no intention of meeting him say “It’ll happen eventually!”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 01:06 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I didn’t say it was mean. I said it doesn’t help anyone, it means nothing. It’s like going to a random depressed comment on Reddit and going “You matter :)”. People only say it to make themselves feel good, it doesn’t change anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 12:58 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Saying “no, you’re not a loser, it’s all in your head, it’ll happen eventually” is not nice, it’s not advice, it’s just virtue signalling to pretend they’re helping when they’re not helping. If a man is told to just keep living like “until it happens”, it will never happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 07:25 AM
4	Less attractive women (and men) tend to be more unpleasant in general, so "make an ugly woman your wife" isn't true at all Your account is purely anecdotal, as will mine be. I’ve met ugly obese people who were the kindest people I’ve ever met. I’ve met gorgeous/handsome people who are absolutely horrible. At the exact same time, I’ve also met ugly obese people who are absolutely horrible. And gorgeous/handsome people who are some of the kindest I’ve ever met. Rarely does their attractiveness play a role in how nice/horrible a person will turn out to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 10:27 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well ya, it’s very very clearly not about equality, it’s about gaining all the benefits of a man with none of the downsides. You don’t see feminists asking to be drafted for wars, you don’t see feminists protesting about coal miners being 98% men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 10:44 AM
2	Assuming AA/BB is true, why aren't we running out of BB? There’s two major causes, your age and how attractive you are. If you’re still in your 20’s, you have no reason to BB yet. If you’re attractive, you have no reason to date someone not attractive. AF/BB usually applies to 30+ average/unattractive women who can’t get into a LTR with the remaining attractive men. Forcing them to “Settle” with BB’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 10:59 AM
2	[Q4All]Are Ugly People Overrepresented online? Ugly nerdy/geeky people are going to be on /r/askmen answering questions on an anonymous account on Reddit. Attractive successful people will be on Facebook/Snapchat/Instagram instead. When browsing askmen, just assume they’re the geeky office IT guy and you’ll likely be right most of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 01:47 PM
5	[Q4All]Are Ugly People Overrepresented online? Just to point out, that’s not actually inceltear vs incel meet up. The incels are actually a 4chan meet-up, and the inceltear are actually a group of transsexual women video game speed-runners at GDQ meeting up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 01:44 PM
13	Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall? NOBODY looks better bald. Some people look great bald, but they still look even better with hair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 01:39 PM
1	It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improve Precisely, not just married or taken women, compliments from women who’ll never date them just aren’t worth much. If all your so called good behaviour and hard work only ends in a few extra compliments here and there, then what’s the actual point, was there any actual differences being made before and after you changed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 01:34 PM
1	Do "Guys night out" and "Girls night out" actually exist? It’s becomes a “guys night out” or “girls night out” if we invite everyone out and only guys or girls could make it. We never go out with the intention of making it a guys night out, but if the girls in our group can’t make it then it automatically turns into a “guys night out”. We never go out with the specific intention of it being “guys only”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 07:08 PM
3	Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women? Usually you can’t, you get to know they’re a materialistic person after talking to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 09:15 PM
5	Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women? I usually don’t like materialistic lifestyle in general, men or women, absolute waste of money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:50 AM
1	In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men? You may not have a male model tier body, but anyone can have a GOOD body. Talk to a personal trainer and get your diet in check, it’s impossible to just be the “stronger fat guy” unless you were actually just that, fat. Go on a clear cutting diet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:31 AM
74	Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag. Your first mistake is thinking the people who hold these negative opinions wasn’t already a huge turn off for the opposite sex in the first place. Long before they held any negative opinions. Your second mistake is believing holding these negative opinions actually effect women’s opinion of you. Sure maybe some woman are, but some of the most misogynistic people I know regularly get laid and have girlfriends. Some of the most misandrist women I know easily get boyfriends. As far as I can tell th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 02:35 PM
0	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? it’s biology, when we’re talking 15,000+ years ago When we’re talking about tribal days 15,000 ago, strength and combat training are essentially the same thing. There is no MMA studio to train in. I’m not moving goalposts, you’re just being a pedantic on purpose to try and prove your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 09:28 AM
22	Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for women Seriously, let me just wear my 2 inch shoes with 2 inch height extenders. Take her back home, take off my shoes and drop 4 inches right in front of her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 11:50 PM
2	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? And they wonder why there’s a hikikomori problem in Japan. Why work your ass off when you don’t benefit from it? Same thing’s going to happen in the west.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 11:47 PM
-1	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? No dude. Absolutely not. I’m 5’7 man who’s gone the gym for years, I have a 6’4 friend who’s never touched a weight in his life. I know for a fact he could fuck me up if he wanted to. I don’t stand a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 08:34 PM
0	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? There’s a huge correlation between strength and size, it’s why the mountain holds the record for the heaviest deadlift, and why the average strongmen height is 6’3. It’s also more about “Potential strength” rather than actual strength. A skinny 6’3 dude still wins against a strong and fit 5’6 dude because the 6’3 dude has the potential to become much stronger in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 11:08 AM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? It’s just biology. When we’re talking 15,000+ years ago, being with the strongest (Tallest) man around gave you the highest chance of success in terms of reproducing and having you and your kids survive until they’re old enough to take care of themselves. That’s all there is too it. If you have a kid with a 5’5 man, and a 6’2 threat shows up, your 5’5 man is dead, your kids are dead, and he’s kidnapping you to his house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 06:48 PM
8	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? Lets not forget it’s a pretty common joke over there that men are their girlfriend’s/wife’s second wallet. So despite both the man and women working 70 hours a week, the woman still uses up the man’s money. Japan is just fucked from all sides, you can either not work, do whatever you want, and have no money, or work your ass off 70 hours a week and still have no money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 06:39 PM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? It’ll take the edge off, but prostitution is just like taking a drug, it doesn’t actually fix anything, instead it’ll likely just be an addiction you’ll sink your money into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 06:36 PM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution? I want to make more money and work more hours. The idea is to work 4 days a week while being paid the same wage. To add to this, during the industrial revolution people were forced to work 6 days a week 12-16 hours per day. Then the revolution created the 5 days a week 8 hours a day worker rights. Any and all arguments against this change was created to stop it from happening, from “people will make less money” to “companies can’t survive on only 5 days” etc. Turned out both of these were dumb s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 06:29 PM
–	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? If you’re 25+ and mention your a virgin, you can see her respect for you disappear in real time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 02:09 AM
3	As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid? I’ve seen multiple women literally attempt to drag a guy like this up to the dance floor to dance and he was having none of it. I know another woman who asked to open her relationship up for the sole purpose of sleeping with this one guy. To this day she still can’t really get him to talk beyond one word replies. Anyone saying “AcYuAlLY tHis dUDe woUlD StRUgglE” is lying to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 03:32 PM
1	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 R.I.P to those who skipped leg day Relevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 04:24 PM
–	Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractive When asked on /r/askwomen the percentage of men they find attractive, most unironically went as far as 1% of the population (even when taking age brackets into account). 1/100 men. Meanwhile men will find any healthy weighted 20’s woman attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 08:12 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not quite the same as living though, When you’re down to visit, people have the expectation of “Crap, got to clean the entire house before they arrive”. Then staying clean for a single night/weekend is relatively easy to keep up appearances. It’s a bit different from living with someone 24/7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:42 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread How does this work? Do you really want understand what living with your partner would actually be like AFTER getting married? Then realising they live like crap, never wash their dishes, never clean up after themselves etc. You move in together before getting married specifically so you both know what it’s like to live with each other before committing to marrying each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:32 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread You should take what you want by force and rape attractive women because you’re some primitive man stronger I can tell you right now, not a single incel has ever claimed this, solely based on the fact most incels at already 5’6 or even smaller (aka weak compared to other men). Wanting a world where the stronger man forces and rapes women only benefits the men who are already getting laid, the strong tall men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:29 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Basically this, these people claim they want government issued girlfriends or women to not have jobs. In reality, at the absolute maximum, they maybe want prostitution legalised and that’s about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:26 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, hot women don’t do anything for me. And even for women who do get my attention, no, I just think “she’s cute” then move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:23 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, last incel sub to be closed was months ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:20 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread If that first sentence was even remotely true then we’d be seeing every man on Earth going the gym and getting fit. Yet 2/3’s are overweight and 1/3 is obese, and less than 8% even own a gym membership. No, I don’t believe that, and I never have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 12:31 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Most people don’t want to be assholes/criminals, or just don’t have it in them to be an asshole, even if doing so would get them laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 11:13 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Two reasons You rarely see yourself in pictures, from the moment your born to the moment you die you’ll mostly just see your mirror self, which looks the complete opposite of your actual self. This is the version of yourself you see yourself as, it’s a very familiar image. So when you see your actual self in pictures, it’ll look familiar but alien to you. It’s you but... wrong. Pictures are often distorted, when you take camera angles, camera distance, and camera lens into consideration, the pic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/21 11:10 AM
2	Men's dating problems are from not pursuing what they want Are you rich now because you’ve read the book?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 05:53 PM
1	What are your thoughts on skincare? What specifically changed about your skin that you had/didn’t have previously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 02:59 PM
1	What are your thoughts on skincare? I’m going to need a lot of before and after pictures personally, based on my experience there’s no obvious difference between someone who uses a skin care routine and someone who doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 02:54 PM
9	Western women are the overwhelming object of interest of this subreddit, yet are a less significant demographic with each moment that passes, and will matter much less as time goes on Western women doesn’t mean white women. It means any woman who grew up in a western country. Any culture that moves into a western country will cease to exist a few generations down the line. A Muslim family who moves into the US from the middle east will find their grand-daughters to be growing up Americanised and likely atheists. Happened with my family, out of all of my cousins who grew up in a religious family, less than half are religious, I’m going to assume less than half of their kids wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 02:31 PM
1	What are your thoughts on skincare? Skin care is one big meme. Unless you’re a major drug addict or have the worst lifestyle imaginable, how good your skin is relies mostly on genetics and luck. Not what skin care routine you have. I remember getting asked in high school what did I use to get my skin smooth, I ate chicken wings and curly fries almost every day and showered once a week. Nowadays as an adult I do moisturise, wash my face daily, and eat clean foods. But still, I’ve seen people try to put all sorts on their face every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 01:07 PM
2	Men's dating problems are from not pursuing what they want Fucking yikes, imagine trying to sell scam books in here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 09:44 AM
2	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 Nah - https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/are-you-skinny-fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 08:51 AM
2	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 16 BMI isn’t skinny fat, that’s just skinny. Skinny fat is when you’re fat, but look skinny in clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 06:34 PM
1	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 That’s just called overweight, probably 2-3	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 05:32 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s possible, but as far as I’m aware none of them was suffering from any mental illness. Whereas all the women who I do know was suffering from a mental illness were not HVW. Plus there’s a clear correlation between someone who’s Low Value and mental illness. Someone who’s suffering from a mental illness probably isn’t going to be improving themselves to become High Value. The person improving themselves, getting regular exercise, eating healthy, drinking plenty of water, staying clean, keepin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 04:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread How do you know they aren’t I’ve never met a single woman with a mental illness who was also a HVW. I have no reason to believe these people are any exception. Treated well by your dad. Your partner isn’t your dad trying to raise you. He’s your equal where you’re suppose to enjoy each other’s times with sexually and romantically. A very VERY different relationship from your dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 04:22 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mha4ts/im_getting_so_frustrated_with_the_number_of/ The context is pretty clear, they hate those dates because they’re cheap and low effort. Literally isn’t any more complex than that. I don’t think the women on here want a picnic in a park, they want to be wined and dined in a fancy restaurant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 04:19 PM
2	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 That makes more sense, and 1 being fat blob and 10 being pro-athlete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:48 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hinge is seen as a more serious dating app aimed towards long term relationships. When swiping on women you can also send a message specifically about the picture/quote you liked, so they get to see your message before they like you back. It’s just as picture heavy as other apps. It’s closer to bumble than tinder in terms of how profiles look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nothing. I never said it was wrong. What I do find wrong is the women from FDS demanding that to be the only acceptable first date option. Completely disregarding men who attempt to create any cheaper forms of dates such as a coffee date. While also demanding to be considered equals at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:42 PM
4	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 Perfect, doesn’t have to be specific, two questions is enough. “How often do you exercise/go the gym?” And “How long have you been regularly exercising/going the gym”. That way it’ll separate the people who just stared exercising from the people who’ve been doing it for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think you’ve missed my point entirely. FDS is all about being a “High value woman” trying to date “High value men”. My point is that most of them are not high value women, and yet are calling themselves high value women, while expecting high value men in return. The issue is how FDS treat themselves and their entitlement towards what they believe they deserve, without putting any effort into actually making themselves someone worth dating. I’m not currently discussing how men should be treatin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:37 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well ya that makes sense. But FDS want their first date to be at an expensive restaurant and it be fully paid for by the man. While claiming they don’t want to be equals. That’s the contradiction I’m pointing out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:31 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread A man won’t be “REALLY” interested in you unless he’s already met you and got to know you. That won’t happen till the 2nd/3rd date. You get to know someone on the first date, before that you’re nothing more than acquaintances/strangers. The first date is specifically to get to know each other to find out your compatible. What’s the point of taking a stranger to a fancy restaurant when you barely know them and might be incompatible with them within the first 10 minutes of taking to each other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:26 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m a straight man, I use tinder, bumble, hinge, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sounds more like you want your cake and eat it too. You can’t have equality in value but not in function, you either have equality or you don’t. You can’t both do the same job and earn the same wage, yet expect him to pay just because he’s the man. We don’t live in the 1930’s love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:18 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 03:10 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Don’t know, never used Grindr.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 02:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Delete account, delete tinder, reinstall tinder, make a new account and make sure you put “I am a man looking for men”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 02:50 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I literally just swapped it and it only showed men. Your app is broke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 02:43 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your settings are wrong. If you put looking for men, you will only get men. Quit the app and open it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 02:38 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The difference is FDS is out there talking about how they’re “High Value Woman” looking for “High Value Man”. When in reality 30%+ of them have some form of mental illness. It’s the entitlement that humorous. Thinking they deserve only the best HVM when they suffer from one or multiple mental illnesses. This is irrelevant to how we should be taking mental health seriously, for both men and women. This would be equal to a loser man with depression demanding only 8/10 women and no less. This is al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 01:19 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The absolute state of FDS. Eww no I don’t want “dominant” man, I want someone who treats me as an equal. What do you mean a coffee date? Pathetic, now take me out to an expensive restaurant and pay for everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 01:13 PM
2	I don’t think FDS is that bad and I don’t understand why they get so much hate FDS usually revolves around calling all men bad, then either discussing behaviours less than 1% of men actually involve themselves with, complaining about issues that in reality don’t actually exist, or men asking for the bare minimum of a woman, and getting shat on for it. If you go though FDS now, you’ll have women hating on men for wanting them to be able to cook food (a basic necessity every adult human should know how to do), ranting about a scenario that doesn’t exist (“Don’t talk to [name…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 11:57 AM
–	Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves? Just want to let you know, you’ve made 3 identical posts, you might want to delete two of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 10:52 AM
–	its easier to become attractive as a men than to become attractive as a women Not really, as someone who’s part of that 13% of men who are fit, healthy, and have muscles. I can state for a fact it has changed nothing about my ability (or lack thereof) to get women. Meanwhile women around me are literally swooning over the men who probably couldn’t run a 5k. These men have literally 0 reason to go the gym when their lives are perfectly happy without it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 10:50 AM
3	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 Middleclass, upper class is when you make money for entertainment and something to do, not because you have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 10:28 AM
5	PPD Demographics Survey July 2021 Yup, without any question of “how often do you exercise/lift weights” there’s going to be no difference between the overweight dude with the floppy belly, and the overweight dude with abs. I say this as someone who already has a BMI of 24.2 and is still being told by a former MMA fighter to continue putting on weight and packing more muscle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 10:25 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread This was one of the issues I personally had with TRP. “I‘m the prize”, meanwhile I have to change literally every single teeny tiny bit about me, how I talk, how I dress, how I act, change my lifestyle, change my routine, all to get even the slightest bit of attention from women. All for it to not work anyway and still get ignored by women. But yes, I’m the prize, all the women who ignored me just haven’t noticed I’m the prize to be won.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 09:38 AM
–	FDS women's overlap with mental health subreddits (and other interesting subs) What’s the name of a mental health illness that’ll cause someone to blame their looks for their dating problems?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 09:07 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dude, I’ve been in incel subs since way back in /r/incels days. One of our favourite users was literally called RippedRichAndIncel, the most famous gymcel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:54 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Someone who’s escaping the black pill, not so much going back to Redpill/dating, but more towards going monk, improving oneself and living in peace and harmony with oneself. If the black pill is Nihilism, the white pill is Optimistic Nihilism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:52 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread ?!? Did we visit the same subs? Fat people were called out and we had the famous saying of “Fatcel = Vocel” IE you couldn’t call yourself an incel if you were fat, because for all you know you could be handsome underneath it all. Was actively told to leave the sub and lose weight, usually was never considered a true incel. People who self improved and went the gym were called Gymcels are were pretty well respected. The people who were laughed at was the ones linking “Charisma” YouTube videos, wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:46 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread How fat? Overweight is fine, obese is when it’s too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:36 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The black pill is only something you accept AFTER you’ve already tried everything else. You should be going from Blue Pill —> Purple Pill —> Red Pill —> Black Pill —> White Pill. Not straight to black pill, especially if you haven’t even bothered to self-improve yet. if you’re not 6’3 8/10 it’s over That’s just memes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:29 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Adding to this, I’m seeing a bunch of people who are claiming they’re perfectly happy being single and aren’t looking for a relationship on here. So... why are you on a relationship debating subreddit every day?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:22 PM
1	Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life. Has he tried putting on weight and lifting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:10 PM
1	Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life. You grew up during a time when men were getting laid the fairly often and fairly easily, back in the late 90’s early 20’s. When sexlessness for young men was close to 13% or even less. (If you wasn’t getting laid back then, then you literally wasn’t trying). Online dating was very very niche, no social media, most people still didn’t own a computer. Your experience is in no way accurate to dating as a young man now in 2021, where sexlessness in young men has almost hit 50% for uni guys. Where OL…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 01:08 PM
2	Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life. Women find attractive men funny. Funny men are not more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 12:20 PM
1	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" But her instincts don’t understand that she’s not stuck. And that’s what matters. Her instincts are under the assumption she would be stuck if impregnated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 08:37 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dudes have a better shot of getting her attention IRL than they ever would online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 05:14 PM
0	What is "Casual Sex"? What’s considered polyamorous, is it an open relationship where they regularly swap out the 3rd person. This would be casual. Or is it just a constant 3+ way relationship? This wouldn’t be casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 03:16 PM
3	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Don’t know what to tell ya bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 09:15 AM
2	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" I never said it was better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 09:08 AM
2	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Men aren’t hypergamous, that was the whole point of my comment. Men are polyamorous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 09:00 AM
2	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Because women’s hypergamous nature doesn’t benefit men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 08:53 AM
2	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Biological instincts don’t just disappear overnight just because abortion/pills was invented, your instincts are still there. That’s million of years of biology you’re dealing with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 08:37 AM
4	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" We live in a monogamous society where most men struggle to attract multiple women. The reason it doesn’t happen is simply due to the fact it’s hard to do it, plus a bunch of barriers preventing it from happening such as expectations from other people. Most men are happy being in a monogamous relationship, thanks to a mixture of their own morals and a lack of options. But if there was no consequences and limitless options, then yes most men would have multiple FWB’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 05:40 PM
7	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Yup, I remember reading the study done on mice. After a while the male mouse will get bored of the female mouse. Until a second female mouse was added to the cage, then he got excited for BOTH of them again. I’m absolutely certain humans would act the same way if they could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 05:01 PM
4	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Question 5. Define “Hypergamy”. You got two minutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 04:32 PM
3	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" From your vague description of “both introverts and couldn’t really care less about either one’s popularity” which sounded like you didn’t care if you were both unpopular with no friends. But now it sounds like you have plenty of friends you have a ton of influence over, which is completely different from what it originally sounded like. Wether or not you believe you don’t care about that, is entirely different from actually caring about that. No woman wants to date a man with basically no frien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 04:30 PM
2	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" How others perceive me outside that circle. I am talking about that specific circle. Completely ignoring strangers entirely. If you can host a party and everybody in your friends group is excited to be there, then that’s a sign of high status. And that is an attractive trait to have and shows your social circle likes you and you’re a high priority. If you attempt to host a party and everyone has got better stuff to do and basically nobody visits, that’s a sign of low status, and that isn’t an at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 04:08 PM
1	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_status https://www.britannica.com/topic/social-status I know nothing about your life so I can’t comment on it, but you said you were introverts who didn’t care about each other’s popularity so it’s safe to assume you’re probably low status, it’s when you don’t have much social influence over others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 03:45 PM
2	The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media. Yes. https://psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success Going to be completely honest here, I’m not smart enough to read and understand your paper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 03:21 PM
4	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Because you’re both low status. That’s like saying wealth isn’t important because poor people date poor people. Or that looks isn’t important because two ugly people are dating each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:58 PM
4	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" I guess I am, then I would agree, men by nature are polygamous. Based on looks alone. Looks Alone? Likely not, depends on the man, and depends on how compatible they are together is still important. If they’re compatible, then it’s still pretty complicated to answer, depends on his current relationship too. Same could be said about women, she’s not going to immediately date up just because it’s possible. All of this is theory, as in, if there was 0 consequences to any of this, would A sleep with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:47 PM
5	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" a woman that provides for herself is much less concerned with status. Status = how popular you are. A independent woman still absolutely still wants to date the popular man compared to the unpopular loser any day, irrelevant to how much money she makes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:39 PM
3	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Majority of men don’t cheat on their girlfriends, even when they have opportunities to cheat, for the simple fact they know cheating is wrong. So no, this is wrong. The men who do cheat and sleep down, do so because they’re going to sleep with a new attractive woman, which is exciting. It doesn’t get anymore complicated than that. Literally got nothing to do with feeling “uncomfortable”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:16 PM
4	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Yes, they’re happy “sleeping down”. Because a 6/10 woman is still considered pretty attractive to a man. Regardless of the fact he’s currently dating someone better looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:11 PM
1	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Money, status, and looks are things women look for in men. How much they value specific ones is up to debate and depends on the individual woman. I neglected to mention money to save reading time and my time writing it all down. This is all theory, so I can’t “prove” the women wouldn’t date the 6/10 man, but I’m very certain of myself that she wouldn’t when the 10/10 guy is available. This is all assuming they make the same money and have the same status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 02:05 PM
3	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" So, you agree, men would sleep down, given if he doesn’t have options to sleep up. Hypergamy is about sleeping or dating up. NEVER down. A hypergamous person would NEVER sleep down while currently dating a better person. That is not what hypergamy means. Thus, men are not hypergamous by nature, given the fact they would sleep down if there’s no opinions to sleep up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:56 PM
6	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" They would also sleep down given the chance. Which isn’t hypergamous nature, which makes OP’s statement wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:48 PM
9	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Rockstars have the option to always sleep with several 10/10’s, every day. So they’re always going to sleep with 10/10’s. Using a literal top tier man with unlimited options isn’t a valid argument. If the only women a man could possible have available to him was a 6/10, a 8/10, and a 10/10 woman, a man would want to sleep with all 3 of them, then marry the 10/10 woman. A woman in the same situation would only sleep and marry with the 10/10 man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:44 PM
7	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" If the definition is wrong. It’s wrong. It doesn’t matter how some people in PPD use the word. Hypergamy has never been about picking the 10/10 person from a list of people. It’s always been about “Dating Up”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:37 PM
1	[Q4W]Whats the most obvious hints/signals men have missed from you? Sure, if we’re talking about a stranger or a girl you’ve never slept with. But a girlfriend you regularly sleep with? I doubt she’s going to care that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:29 PM
12	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" OP’s got the definition of hypergamy wrong. Because that’s not what that means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:25 PM
8	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" That’s not hypergamy, that’s simply picking the best of the bunch. If you line women up 5/10 to 10/10 then men will pick the 10/10 woman every time. But when dating the 10/10 woman, they’re still going to find the 6/10 women attractive enough and will still want to sleep with them. Hypergamy is specifically about “Dating up”, like climbing a ladder, Aka you’re dating a 6/10 woman, you see a 8/10 woman, you ditch the 6/10 woman for the 8/10 woman. Then you meet another 6/10 woman and you basicall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:21 PM
2	“I would never cheat” Younger generation I have no idea how you’ve pinned this issue to our generation, people of all ages can be hypocritical, this isn’t limited to my age group. There’s nothing particular special about my generation compared to others when it comes to hypocritical behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:14 PM
90	A woman's "hypergamy" vs a man's "hypergamy" Theoretically and biologically speaking, men don’t just want the hottest women, they want every attractive woman. A man’s job is to spread his genes as much as possible as it imposes little risk for him, he risks 30 minutes or less of his life for it, so he goes for as many women as possible. A woman doesn’t have that flexibility, once she’s pregnant she’s stuck for 9 months, possibly more if you count raising the children, she’s risking so much more, so it’s her job to pick the best man she can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 01:04 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, incels call women “Fem0ids”	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 11:22 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread A man can just ditch and leave, especially during a ONS situation and she “doesn’t know who the father is”. The women, especially if she doesn’t like abortion, is forced to be stuck with the baby and become a single mother. It is absolutely more risky for her than him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 11:21 AM
3	“I would never cheat” It doesn’t, it has to do with opportunity. A good looking man will have more opportunities to cheat, and thus will require more effort to resist cheating. Compared to an unattractive man who’ll rarely have any opportunities to cheat, so he won’t cheat for the simple fact he’ll never get the chance to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 11:00 AM
1	“I would never cheat” This, I can absolutely put my life on the line and confidently claim “I will never cheat”, because I’m going to assume I’ll practically have no chances of being able to cheat, not without a huge amount of effort on my part. Plus, even if the opportunity does arrive, I’m pretty sure of myself that I won’t take it anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 10:55 AM
2	[Q4W]Whats the most obvious hints/signals men have missed from you? Is your girlfriend really going to be annoyed that you slept with her drunk after she literally asked for it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 10:48 AM
2	Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be? Well, yes, that’s like saying water makes things wet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 10:14 AM
1	CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything He never said that though, he simply stated they’re the most unattractive race, which is true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/21 10:14 AM
8	Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be? He’s saying “if you were a 5’5, average build male”, not an average male. Aka a 5’5 man who’s a healthy weight and average face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 09:37 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread FDS = MGTOW FDS basically has nothing redpill about it, 90% of posts are just women ranting about men. Which is equal to how much men rant about women in MGTOW. Femcels = Incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 02:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There we go, I googled everything related to it and couldn’t find it. Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 12:01 PM
2	CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything He’s not generalising - https://ifstudies.org/blog/date-local-why-you-might-want-to-avoid-the-online-dating-trap Indian (or in this case, Asian) men have been studied to be the least attractive race for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 11:56 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread True, but if it was as simple as that then your man would enjoy being pegged too, which I’m going to assume isn’t the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 11:25 AM
4	CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything Just doesn’t follow what I’ve seen in reality at all. The average dude I know with amazing charisma in my friend group eventually had to settle with an very obese woman because he wasn’t attracting many women. Another settled with an overweight woman that opened their relationship up so she could sleep with other people. Both these dudes were white, 5’8-5’10, charismatic and nice clothes. The most successful dudes I know had both charisma and looks. Even then it was only an N-Count of 20ish. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 11:11 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That is my point. Men like dominating submissive women during sex. And women like being submissive, hence is a reason why anal feels so good for both people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 10:50 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anyone got the picture of the Facebook post of the 4 panel comic where the first 3 panels she’s listening to music objectifying women, getting cat called, etc and she absolute hates it all. But then the 4th panel she’s basically being used and owned during sex and she’s loving it. Then all of the comments are just women agreeing with the comic and saying how that’s literally them. Then one whiteknight pops up and asks “Surely you don’t see yourselves in the 4th panel right?” and just gets replie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 10:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Women like being submissive during sex, it turns them on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 10:38 AM
1	In what way are women held to 'unrealistic beauty standards' in modern western society? There isn’t a single sane man on earth who’ve claimed they prefer women without pores. Any women falling for that crap is entirely on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 10:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Animals don’t have access to unions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 09:07 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anal is the most submissive thing a woman can do for her man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 08:57 AM
6	CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anything This dude posts in teenagers and is trying to convince us he knows an Indian dude who told him he’s slept with 50 women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 08:25 AM
5	Being 6 feet or taller is significantly overrated for men The average height guys aren’t the ones complaining about women’s preference on height. Short guys are. Most women will date a 5’9 guy, most women would not date a 5’6 guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 07:02 PM
1	Men don't care about a women's status nearly as much as women care about men's Bad bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 09:45 AM
3	Men don't care about a women's status nearly as much as women care about men's You replied to a bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 09:44 AM
2	Men don't care about a women's status nearly as much as women care about men's Nah, rich men are happy dating poor women. Rockstars are happy women working in retail. The opposite is usually never the case. You’ll very rarely hear a situation of a rich women dating a broke man for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 09:44 AM
0	Why do some people, even men, still believe that a male can't be sexually assulted if they get an erection? Just reply with “if it was rape, why were you wet”, then prepare for the backlash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 11:52 AM
1	What is your opinion on men who hate other men or have trouble getting along with them? I’ve never met one, but you can find plenty on Twitter, usually the blue check mark people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 08:58 AM
5	The top men aren't getting laid now more than ever before Sounds like someone didn’t even attempt to read any of the links he provided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 11:45 PM
1	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? Yes, sometimes their ego is just a form of inferiority complex, other times it really is just simple overconfidence. Sometimes it’s not that bad and you can ignore it. It changes from person to person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 01:55 PM
–	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? I don’t know what you mean, I don’t really tend to hang out with these people. If I noticed these traits on a person, I usually don’t become their mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 01:53 PM
–	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? It’s not really something i can address in a small paragraph, there’s hundreds of ways to measure it. For example; someone constantly talking about themselves and never asking about other people’s lives, showing overconfidence in a task they’re highly likely to fail at (then proceed to blame everything else except themselves), doesn’t believe they have flaws and aren’t willing to improve themselves (think obese women thinking they have beautiful bodies), unwilling to change their opinions, etc e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 01:43 PM
–	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? Pride: noun. 1. a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 01:25 PM
–	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? Definitions of ego; noun: an inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others synonyms: egotism, self-importance Aka if someone says you have a “big ego”, you’re saying they perceive themselves to be full of their own importance, often associated with narcissistic tendencies, superiority complex, and being self absorbent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 01:11 PM
32	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? It’s a ego thing, they want men with good bodies. At the same time they don’t want men who have a big ego and are showing off their bodies trying to say “Look at me I’m hot”. It’s why they hate mirror selfie’s, but are perfectly happy with a swimming pool/beach picture, despite them both essentially being the same thing. One just appears more “candid”, even though the guy chose that picture for the sole purpose of showing off his body. These men still get matches, much more than the average dude…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 11:35 AM
1	What are your physical dealbreakers in women? This is more of a you thing than a thing obese women in general go through. Your average obese women isn’t going to be sleep eating. So all they have to do is eat less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 09:43 AM
1	Gen Z are changing the way Tinder is being used thanks to lockdown. https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ 39% in 2017 with no sign of slowing down. I can only imagine it’s hit 50% in the time of COVID.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 05:22 PM
67	What are your physical dealbreakers in women? Obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 04:39 PM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? If you go into a pub and meet women, they’re not going to see your drawing or guitar skills, that’s my point. Will it help in the long term? Definitely, it shows your a motivated man with hobbies that extend beyond watching Netflix. Will it help “Attracting women” like OP is asking, probably not no. Not unless you’re in a particularly specific circumstance where you get the chance to play the guitar or draw. No women is going to see your skills until they’re already inside your house. At that po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 04:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s a combination of aspects. Cons • Less attractive (exactly how less is also important) Pros • Stable, Marriage material, good father, if stable then possibly good income. The pros outweighs the cons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 03:57 PM
10	Gen Z are changing the way Tinder is being used thanks to lockdown. I’ve been trying to tell people on PPD for a while now, Tinder IS NOT just a “hookup” app anymore, lots of people I know have gotten into relationships thanks to Tinder. 90% of people I know use Tinder in the hopes of getting a relationship. 50% of all new relationships start out with OLD. Very rarely do I meet someone who uses tinder for casual hookups anymore. Yet I constantly have millennials on PPD try and convince me Tinder is a hookup app and isn’t used for relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 03:54 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes. Hypergamous is any “date up” situation. Not directly related to their looks/appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 03:41 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s called nature and it smells lovely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 03:39 PM
2	For men, it's not that hard to be above-average -> extraordinary, most men are just lazy. I am talking about all areas. In terms of things you can control in your life, having a good job and a uni degree has such a significantly small impact on a man’s ability to attract women that it’s quite literally not worth mentioning at all. Charisma and physique are so much more important, trying to claim the reason some men aren’t attracting women is due to their paycheck at the end of the month is laughable. Especially when you consider the fact that women will have decided if they want to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:42 PM
4	For men, it's not that hard to be above-average -> extraordinary, most men are just lazy. Most of this doesn’t really matter. Lesser educated men get laid at a much higher rate than educated men. Your wage isn’t going to get you laid, not unless you’re considered “rich”, and depending on your job it could be a complete turnoff, no woman gets excited over a computer programmer for example, despite the fact they earn more than the average person. Weight/Exercise is the only thing on that entire list that you can reasonably change and is actually helpful in attracting women. If you‘re s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:29 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you want them to leave, all you guys have to do is prove it false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 11:40 AM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? Sure, but that’s not what OP said. I feel like people in this sub take what people say to extremes to try and make a point. The other comment also talked about collecting anime figurines which is also not what OP said. You can have multiple hobbies running at the same time, you’re not on the clock 24/7, you’re going to have some downtime when you get home, finish cooking/cleaning, and have nothing else to do. What you do at home when your alone during this time has practically no relevance on yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 11:20 AM
–	How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating? Do you think you’re date worthy Yes. If you were a woman, would you date the male version of yourself Yes. Are you actually a man that woman would want to have sex with? No. Can’t fix autism, height, and skin colour bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 11:44 PM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? OP never said anything about collecting anime figurines or Gundam models. There’s a big leap from liking anime casually to collecting anime figurines.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 03:55 PM
-1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? Nobody is going to know you play games or watch anime, unless you tell them you play games and watch anime. A women will decide if she wants to sleep with you loooong before they even know you play games or watch anime. It honestly does not matter in the slightest. Sure, eventually any women you date is going to find out, games is usually passable, anime is going to be looked down at most of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 02:39 PM
–	Why do many incelly male subreddits like AsianMasculinity & Aznidentity bemoan women for not dating them due to "self hate" or "anti asian racism" instead of self-improving and looksmaxxing like most women do? This is why - https://youtu.be/KsWTFeP1hno At the end of the day, a 5’5 Asian man is always going to be a 5’5 Asian man, regardless of how much they may go the gym, wear nice clothes, eat right. No matter what they do, they’re always going to be competing with the average 5’10 white man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 08:54 PM
2	Question for blue pill: should men be happy to be settled for? What has this got to do with OP’s question? And he never said men can’t settle with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 10:17 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Can’t wait to get married then be /r/deadbedrooms	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 09:36 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread What point are you trying to make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 09:14 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread BMI of 26-28 doesn’t look THAT bad, it’s like you all are imagining an obese person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 08:46 AM
2	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” I wouldn’t say he’s expecting government mandated girlfriends or that men are entitled to sex. I think he’s just tying to point out that a societal collapse is coming as people’s needs aren’t being met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 03:38 PM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” That’s the same comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 03:24 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Because you’re suggesting all men follow your rules, which is false. Most men I know happily date, or would like to date even overweight women or lighter, only every dismissing obese women, which leaves 70% of women they would date (not taking personality into consideration).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 03:19 PM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” Well would ya look at that fine specimen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 03:04 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Statistically likely, I went to an all boys school, a few have went to prison. But you can see where I’m coming from though, we’re not hating on FDS because we’re threatened by them having higher changeable standards, as I’m pretty sure the people complaining about FDS aren’t rapist pedo’s asking our girl to make her ass and boobs bigger. They just hate that the entire subreddit from top to bottom is just “men bad” posts. Especially when it doesn’t even apply to most men. But is described in a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:47 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I’ve just went through the top posts of the month. It just sounds like women ranting about less than 5% of all men, but then claiming all men do it. I personally don’t know a single man that’s ever told a woman she needs breast implants. I’ve never met a 18+ man who wanted to date 14 years olds. To this day I’ve never met a rapist. Where are all these men FDS are ranting about? Edit: Wether or not they exist is irrelevant, rapists exist, but I don’t grab a bunch of rapists, put them on display, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:23 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Retired at 30 with a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:10 AM
3	Q4All: what does the 9/10 and 10/10 face of the opposite gender look like? What are the defining characteristics? If he’s a 6/10 then we’re all fucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:03 AM
1	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” I used to hang around !ncel subreddits back when they existed. Even I have never heard anyone say what you’re claiming some are saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:47 AM
3	Discussion/debate: Why do men become beta orbiters? Hello, beta orbiter here. Positive validation is better than no validation. I’d rather spend time hanging out with a friend rather then sitting alone at home doing nothing productive. As long as I’m not being used, what’s the issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 12:33 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? By fucking them you are validating them. You are literally risking becoming pregnant just so his dick can be in you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:17 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Trying to appear confident and dominant, How can you tell the difference between “appearing” confident and dominant, and just a man being confident and dominant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:12 PM
–	What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women? Most men aren’t crackheads, or anything close to a crackhead...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 05:07 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The guy you replied too wasn’t talking about simple majority, he was talking about what practically all women prefer. In 99.9% of all situations, when choosing a 5’10 dude or a 5’3 dude to date, women will choose the 5’10 dude hands down every time. Boobs isn’t an equivalent, as there would be a good 20%+ of men that would prefer A cups over D cups. Hip:waist ratio? More accurate, as unless it’s a fetish thing, most men generally never prefer a fat women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 11:41 AM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread bigger boobs Tell that to /r/tinytits and their 700,000 subscribers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 11:26 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Who’ll they fuck Pretty much 80% of women. Split between “Who they’ll fuck and tell” and “Who they’ll fuck and keep a secret”. Who they’ll date Any 5/10 women or higher who’ll they also share values with and have chemistry with. Life Partner Same as 2 except you can actually “see” yourselves being together for several years and raise a family with. Some girls will be fun to date and mingle with, but if you can’t see her getting her life/shit together then there’s no point planning a future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 06:44 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It’s probably just better to not add it in the first place, as it’ll likely scare away women who think men having that requirement is a bad thing. In the exact same way a women who’s only into tall men is better off not putting “Must be 6’ or taller” in their bio as it could scare away tall men who hate women who have that requirement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 01:47 PM
5	CMV: Male bodies are viewed as inherently less sexually attractive BY OUR SOCIETY Women get off to erotica precisely because they’re not interested in your average male body. Erotica let’s them use their imagination instead. And most porn isn’t designed for female viewers in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 01:14 PM
5	Adult Entertainment Industry Mega Thread It depends how the stats for that was done. Are thousands of women opening an onlyfans, posted a few things, and hardly advertised part of that %? Or does it only include those who put effort in and have attempted to make something from it? It’s like saying less than 1% of youtubers make it past 10,000 subscribers. Are the youtubers who aren’t trying (like a good 90% of them) part of that statistic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:48 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread What’s the guy in the black t-shirt?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:37 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Just report them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:36 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Eeh, a man’s nose is probably the least impactful part of a person’s attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:35 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread What if you’re not looking for an “Athletic” women, but basically any women that isn’t obese? How do you shine that in a positive light? “Athletic man looking for healthy women” perhaps?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:33 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread People who stick with a good diet, exercise, and have good genes. And those who let themselves go, and bad genes. Plus style. It’s the difference between a balding, alcoholic, bearded fat man with back problems. And a head full of hair, clean shaven, fit and healthy man who doesn’t make a noise when standing up from the couch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:29 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I’ve stopped being excited over E3 a looong ago. Get excited for E3, it comes around, and you spend an hour or two watching their conference and being bored the entire time. Nowadays I just check the list of games in the /r/games master-thread a few days after E3 and see if anything catches my eye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:25 AM
10	What is the female equivalent of "male thirst"? Chad Thirst. Did everyone hit their head and forget that women do indeed also like men and thirst over them?? https://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2014/06/19/mug-shot-of-convicted-stockton-felon-goes-viral-handsome-looks-attract-30000-facebook-likes-model-jeremy-meeks-operation-ceasefire-crime/?amp	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:12 AM
2	You don’t need pill subreddits to understand relationships. You need a therapist or a psychoanalyst. Therapy is great for ACTUAL mental health conditions, like schizophrenia, panic attacks, Body dysmorphia, dissociative disorder, drug or alcohol addiction, “hearing voices”, Psychosis, etc. You do not go to therapy because you’ve noticed women like big strong aggressive men instead of weak small passive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 10:01 AM
1	You don’t need pill subreddits to understand relationships. You need a therapist or a psychoanalyst. You’re 19 who’s never had a gf, trying to tell a bunch of adults with actual life experience that they need therapy? Interesting deduction. What makes you think these people are wrong about their ideas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 09:57 AM
1	The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standards I should’ve added “In your age-group” in my comment. You can always date 21 year olds, but at some point it’s going to look weird and you’ll get looks from practically everyone when you end up dating someone 10+ years younger than yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/21 09:50 AM
20	The only men getting consistent action are men with no/ loose standards When you’re a 30 year old man, fat women and single mothers are 80% of your dating options. It’s no surprise they are brought up a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/21 09:23 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Damn I didn’t even know that thread was a thing. Ya that’s BS, that study is just as relevant as any other study that gets posted on here. Shouldn’t have been removed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:53 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I’m telling you, If that was true then I’d be banned already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:19 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread All it would prove is that men break more rules than women do. Nothing more. What you actually want is a list of women who broke rules and didn’t get banned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:16 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread They just don’t allow incel lingo. ”C0pe”, “L0okism”, “fem0ids” etc etc. Actual black pill content is fine as long as it’s delivered in a appropriate fashion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:15 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Dude, have you read my flair? If they wanted to ban men, I’d be the first to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:10 AM
8	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Mods never ban you unless you broke the rules. And even if you broke the rules, they tend to not enforce it unless it was a pretty bad comment, or it was reported. So if there is a gender thing going on, it’s because of two things. 1. Men tend to break the rules more, or 2. Women are reporting men’s comments more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 11:08 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Same, 3 of my traits are climbing, hiking, and gym. Yet the women trying to match with me look like they can’t walk half-way up a mountain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 10:00 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread You’re comparing a few words on a computer screen every other week to an actual human woman sweet talking right into your ear. I’m going out on a limb and saying OnlyFans also doesn’t work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 09:34 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I’m I an incel I’m a 21 year old above average 6’1 white blond dude with blue eyes and have gotten laid twice with basically no effort. This is bait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 09:28 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Virginity rates have almost tripled in the past 25 years from 15% to near 50% (in the under 24 bracket). Sexlessness in general from 33% to 68% (under 24). And yet you’re trying to claim it’s easier for men now than ever before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 09:17 AM
2	Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veil What standards do you look for in a man that they’re not currently meeting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 10:19 PM
3	Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veil Back in 2017 it was 39% and shooting up like a rocket - https://www.statista.com/chart/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ I can only imagine now during the time of COVID, it’s hit 50% or more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 10:14 PM
39	Body positivity does far more harm than good. Fat woman: Fuck fatphobics I can do what i want when I want, I’m going to eat this cake and enjoy it! Skinny woman: Woo you go girl! Meanwhile the same skinny woman is keeping track of the calories so she doesn’t get fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 02:45 PM
5	Body positivity does far more harm than good. Loved that Gillette one, as the very next day after releasing that video people just started throwing all of these photos out and other similar ones - http://www.shadolsonshow.com/2019/01/19/after-man-hating-tv-spot-gillette-caught-using-hot-female-ass-to-sell-razors/	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 02:42 PM
10	Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veil What counts as “Has always been happening” then? Because the stats clearly show that the bottom 15-50% of people were doing perfectly fine before. And now those exact same group of people now aren’t. Obviously something has changed, the same thing can’t have been happening, because if that’s true then nothing would change. It is not the same, whatever was happening 25 years ago is not continue to this day and age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 02:07 PM
19	Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veil Sexlessness rates have tripled from 15% or lower 25 years ago to almost 50% from a recent study. Online dating was practically non-existent. It is now the start of 50% of all relationships. Dating has absolutely changed and gotten much harder for everyone involved. There is no question about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 02:00 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread This is the future - https://youtu.be/FaXb2UUIUoc	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 01:47 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Too much investment for somebody you don’t even know. Imagine sitting down, ordering food and drinks, chat for 5 minutes, and you realise the chemistry between you two is pretty bad and awkward. Congratulations, you now have to spend 30 minutes in each other’s company knowing it’s going no where, and now the man has to pay for all of it. A coffee date can be 5 minutes to 30 minutes long, perfect time to get to know each other, if there’s no chemistry then you can end the date there, and you got …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 11:38 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Saw his profile picture on Facebook before I ever met him, he was the absolute definition of “Chad”. Good face, great jaw, 6’3-6’4, white and blond. He was also the textbook definition of the mysterious loner kid in the corner of school. Hardly talked, if you tried to start a conversation he’d reply with a word or two. It was an effort to get him to talk about much. He loved anime and games though so we happily talk to him about that, or work. He had no issues with making friends or sleeping wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 11:25 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I would watch from the sidelines and be happy I’m not that guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 11:11 AM
2	Waiting for sex, and wanting a provider as an independent woman - thoughts? You’re either independent, or you want to be dependant on a man who’s a provider. You can’t do both. If you tell a man who wants to be a provider that you’re independent in every way, that’ll more likely turn him off than anything else. If you want a provider, then you’ll have to stop acting like an independent woman and let him take charge in most thing. Despite what Redpill and shit PPD says on here, letting a man wait for sex is fine so long as you’re actually a woman who does make ALL men wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 10:55 AM
2	How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning? ”Partnered meaning married, living with a partner, or in a committed relationship.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 09:24 AM
1	The reason why men don't get sex is because of men There’s a big difference between failing to close deals, and never seeing a contract in your life. He’s saying if it wasn’t for your looks, there would have been no deal to close in the first place. Looks gets you through the door, game keeps you there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 09:01 AM
2	The reason why men don't get sex is because of men I can’t stress this enough, women really really just don’t care about money. Quite the opposite in my experience, if you tell women you’re a programmer it dies their pussy up faster than the Sahara desert. They care more about if you have a “high status” job, than what the job actually pays. They only care about money when you’re already somebody they want to date, when they’re ready to settle down, or you’re a millionaire. You attract women because you’re 6’ and 7/10. You could be wearing t-shi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 08:56 AM
56	The reason why men don't get sex is because of men You’ve just created an entire post that practically boils down to “just talk to women bro, just be rich bro, just exercise bro”. It’s the absolute bare bones bottom tier advice anyone could possibly give. It’s almost on par with the generic “Just be confident bro”. Too add to this, when you walk into a club, a woman isn’t going to know how much money you make or if you’re rich, she’s decided if she wants to date you long before she actually finds out how much money you’re worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:03 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It’s easier for bi’s and gays to sleep with men than it is for men to sleep with women. Odds are if a man is gay, they’re not sexless. I don’t know much about lesbians, but I’ve heard it’s pretty hard for them since nobody ever takes the initiative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 04:19 PM
3	80/20 rule with a twist Alright. But the same stats also have to apply to women. The top 20% of men in their age group means 2% of all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 03:02 PM
6	Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre. I got mine from my mum who said to be nice to girls and buy her flowers. So...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 03:01 PM
3	80/20 rule with a twist 26, so I’m happy with 19-29.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 02:49 PM
3	80/20 rule with a twist It’s not wrong. The data is just a full selection, from 18-50+, of what age group they find attractive. Regardless of the age group men are in, they all unanimously agree young women are attractive. Men aged 18-24 will only find 18-29 women attractive. Men aged 25-31 will find 18-34 women attractive. Men aged 32-39 will find 21-43 women attractive. Etc. So the data looks like men only like young women, and start hating on older women. In reality, it’s just that while every man likes younger wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 01:25 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Looks like that was added April 2019. That’s absolutely new as I know for a fact it didn’t exist years ago, I had an co-worker talking about it years ago when he was going on paternity leave. Very nice!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 01:11 PM
7	80/20 rule with a twist Alright, What’s your point? When I get older, my tastes for women will mature and I’ll gladly want to fuck 30-40 women too. It probably won’t be 80% anymore, but more likely 50% or so. If we take the ENTIRE population of women, then yes I’d only be interested in like 10% of women, the women of my age group. But you can say the same thing for women too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread There’s a limit to the stupidity I can deal with. No public school funding would put the average intelligence lower than that limit. Then I would go insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:28 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread https://www.nhs.uk/pregnancy/finding-out/maternity-and-paternity-benefits-and-leave/	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:47 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That’s pretty shit. Not gonna lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:46 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That’s what it is in Europe. Don’t know about the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:45 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread At that point, you’re on leave for medical reasons, rather than maternity reasons. But if the women comes out just fine, there should be a law in place that lets the man and woman swap places, so the man can be on leave for the year and the women goes back to work. That would be very rare and probably apply to less than 0.1% of all maternity leaves. But it is one law I know off where it’s not gender equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:34 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Maternity leave, they get off the job for a full year. Paternity leave is usually only 2 weeks or so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:07 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That’s stupid. I want to live in a world without stupid people, to do that I pay taxes for public schools.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:02 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread “Murderer” is a title given to someone who’s intentionally killed another. You only need to do it once in your life to be a murderer for the rest of your life. To be an addict you must be doing drugs to the point it’s negatively effecting your personal life. If that’s no longer happening then you’re no longer an addict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:00 AM
10	80/20 rule with a twist I would fuck 80% of the women my age that I know. No doubt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 09:37 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That study is based on the UK. As someone who lives here, it was basically shut down for the entire 6 months. Opening up just a tiny bit in the middle of it before shutting down again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 04:28 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread March, April, May, June, July, August, with basically 0 chances of actually meeting women, No regular clubs, No hobby clubs, no pubs, no bars, no restaurants. Etc etc. I’m not saying a “massive” share would have, but I would say another good 10-15% of men would have lost their V-Card. Yes. Dropping the rate to around 30% of men being virgins compared to the current 43%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 04:18 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The pandemic did have a major part in this. How are 18-21 years old suppose to meet women in university when everything’s shut down for the entire year?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 03:43 PM
16	Master key/ Bad Lock analogy Because it’s another way of shaming women for sleeping around. And the women who sleep around don’t like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 03:27 PM
8	Obsession with sexual history The higher your N-Count is means; More likely the relationship not working out. More likely you are to cheat on that relationship. More likely for a divorce. Less likely to be happy in the relationship. More likely to suffer from mental illness. And a few others, the main thing is higher N-Count is correlated with only negative traits, never positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 03:20 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I don’t want to drop my entire life and move to a different country just for the chance of meeting women. I’d rather just wait till I’m 30+ when dating gets easier and my competition consists of 80% overweight men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 02:40 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nah, the only other Middle Eastern people I know is my own family members. And I’m not religious either. Out of the other male cousins my age, one’s gay, the other is 6’1-6’3 and married now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 02:31 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Main thing is, I wasn’t brought up in a Middle Eastern community to mix with my own race, I in the UK where the population of Middle Eastern people is less than 0.5% of the population. And very heavily screwed towards the Muslim religion. 1 in every 200 women are my own race, then they have to be single (1/400 women), then if they are Muslim, have to be fine with dating a non-Muslim dude. Focusing on women of my own ethnicity is an almost impossible task,	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 02:09 PM
9	CMV: Straight men have it harder in dating than women That’s like saying I’m not allowed to be hungry because starving Africans exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 01:09 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Height, behaviour, and ethnicity. My face is fairly average and roundish. Mild-Autism is a bitch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 12:58 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread You say that, but my mates who put little to no effort into their own appearance, never done any exercise, eats junk food daily, wears baggy t-shirts on nights out, are substantially more successful than me in dating that it’s not even a comparable. All it’s proven to me is that putting effort in ones appearance isn’t what attracts women. It’s actually fairly low on the list of what actually attracts women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 12:55 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread There was no “Gurl Power!!”, no “Gurls are just as strong and independent!!”. Absolutely none of that. It just a bunch of people trying to fix a fucked up situation, and the girl... just happen to be a girl, it wasn’t a defining trait of her character. The best part? She actually had feelings, you can actually see her sad, happy, nervous, scared, serious, annoyed, etc. And not just the the Mary Sue emotions which are a mixture of bored, angry, and serious. Exactly how movies should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 12:12 PM
7	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nobody wants to improve themselves. As someone who’s been going the gym for 4+ years, eating healthy, own a home, wear fitted clothes, groom beard bi-weekly, get haircut monthly. What do you mean by improve ourselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 11:52 AM
3	Who here is generally happy with their life? Contrary to my profile, outside of anything related to “dating” I’m living a pretty successful life, got a good job, cosy house of my own, great group of friends I meet up with, going gym 3-4 days a week, eating healthy, and before COVID stuff was happening, I was going MMA and hiking regularly. I’m getting out and living life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 11:07 AM
2	Dressing Nice for Yourself and Each Other $15 a month is hardly a “money drain”. In the UK, the average women spends £112.65 ($160) on their appearance monthly, £53.87 ($76.20) of that going onto her face alone. Source - https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/average-british-woman-spend-ps70000-appearance-lifetime-cosmetics-beauty-products-groupon-uk-a7623201.html?amp That to me is an absolute waste of money. Especially for the people who are claiming they’re living paycheck to paycheck. There’s one thing to spend money on som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:54 AM
7	Question for the short guys-are you less likely to ask out a taller woman? According to new data, almost 50% of men in university are virgins. And you’re trying to claim the average man does pretty ok for themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:43 AM
–	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. My mom couldn’t care less My mom absolutely cares, she’s terrified that she’ll never be a grandmother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:40 AM
1	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. Nah fuck off. Porn has been so easy to access for well over 19+ years now. Yet the rise in sexlessness has been dramatically increasing in only the past 7-8 years. Trying to blame this sudden increase on porn is laughable. I remember watching it in 2005, basically every guy back when was also watching it. Yet men were still having sex frequently, I think the amount of sexless men back then was well down to around 10-15%. There’s nothing about porn that has significantly changed in the past 19 ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 10:33 AM
8	Question for the short guys-are you less likely to ask out a taller woman? It is very rare for even an average dude to ever find a girl who’ll indicate that they like him. A 5’6 guy getting one from a taller woman? In my entire lifetime I’ve never heard of a single instance of this happening in my social circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 09:37 PM
9	Question for the short guys-are you less likely to ask out a taller woman? That never happens though. It’s like asking “average guys, why don’t you just date girls who like you?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 03:35 PM
3	Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance. No. It’s because after 30 women’s standards start lowering and they’ll start settling with average men who they wouldn’t have ever dated in their 20’s. What he has to offer has practically nothing to do with it. If that was the case then men who are stable in their 20’s would have an easy time dating, but that’s not what’s happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 10:53 PM
1	Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...? porn It’s free and instant access, why would anyone care? Sex phone workers and can girls Most do have an issue with guys who pay for these things, it’s pretty close to only fans level of pathetic. Onlyfans The bigger problem with only fans is that men receive what... a bunch of pictures and videos? You can get that with regular porn, for free. Without needing to pay money. When you already have unlimited access to porn. It’s an absolute waste of money. Strip Clubs The benefit of strip clubs is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:25 PM
10	Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance. I’m 36 years old Enough said, the 80/20 rule is most relevant in the under 30 category. Beyond 30 years old is when dating becomes significantly easier for men to the point the 80/20 rule doesn’t really effect the average man all that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:18 PM
1	Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women? Because I’m not trying to date women who are dating older guys. I’m trying to date women who are single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 08:28 AM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Black thinks it’s a good 60% or more. Red thinks it’s closer to 20%-30%. Blue’s can be anywhere from 0%-20%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/21 04:27 PM
3	CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal? Majority of mass shooters are caused by regular everyday criminals with no political agenda to speak off. They happen almost daily. The ones you hear about on TV are just the special cases that happen. Which is usually related to school shootings or someone having a political agenda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 04:29 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Why would I care about something as dumb as that... You’re right I did miss it. Because tracking how long it takes for a stranger on the internet to reply back would be fucking insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 02:24 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Bad bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 02:22 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Then stop replying. For someone who doesn’t care, you sure take time out of your day just to reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 02:18 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Says the one not putting in the absolute minuscule amount of effort possible to just point out exactly what I said that’s bothering you. You can use “>” before copy/pasting the line you disagree with to quote what you don’t like Whites are on their way to becoming a minority very soon. Only in the US. Other countries exist. It’ll happen in a good 30 years. How is that relevant in the current dating scene?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 02:12 PM
12	Why women becomes more selective with age. Wether you think it makes more sense for women to be more selective is irrelevant. Women become less selective, that is the simple fact, and it’s why men claim it’s easier for them to date in their 30’s than it ever was in their 20’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 01:23 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Until I clearly see regular 5/10 women not going for obviously 7/10+ guys and going for other 5/10 men, I’ll beg to differ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 01:21 PM
1	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex There’s nothing to disagree, the average height for men is 5’9-5’10, white people make up 70%+ of the population. Thus, the average man in the western world is a 5’9-5’10 white man. What else is there to discuss?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 12:42 PM
3	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Imagine coming to a debating subreddit, then getting annoyed when someone debates you. Call yourself red pill yet can’t handle someone disagreeing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 12:09 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Literally 0 people on here have said this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 10:57 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread White fat guy fucks fat women. If other news, water is wet. Nothing about what you said tells us the quality of the women he has slept with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 10:55 AM
3	CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal? Cool, that brings it from 0.001% to 0.009%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 10:36 AM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. No, Because there are 10’s of millions of men that wouldn’t have sex with a girl who’s an awful person just because they’re pretty. And there’s 10’s of millions of women that would have sex with a man who’s an awful person just because they’re handsome. Again, neither is a gendered issue, both men and women will sleep with an awful person because they’re handsome/pretty, or not sleep with them because they’re awful people. Trying to say men do one thing and women do the other is laughable, seein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 10:32 AM
3	Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful? That’s like saying being in the sun is the same as looking a picture of the sun on your computer screen. The difference is on a chemical level. Sex releases a bunch of hormones which activates chemicals like oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine, testosterone, etc. Masturbating doesn’t, it’s just a dopamine boost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:50 AM
3	The people of r/PurplePillDebate are smart, but ignoring the simple obvious fact... I really couldn’t care less about the obese 45 year old woman on a scooter in Walmart is dating an obese 45 year old man on a scooter in Walmart. I care much more about what I, and my close friends, can realistically achieve within our own age group. Go to a grocery store, go to a restaurant, go to any social environment that attracts a crowd. You know what you are going to see most of the time. In my age group? The couples who are holding hands usually has the guy being a minimum of 5’10 while …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:35 AM
6	CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal? Incels have been the cause of 0.009% of all mass shootings in the US. They’re over represented on the media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:27 AM
8	CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal? Not true, incels have caused 3 27 mass shootings since 2013, there have been over 2900 mass shootings since 2013. Using this, we can determine incels have been the cause of 0.001% 0.009% of all mass shootings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:25 AM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Men tend to build their relationships based on physical attraction Both men and women do this. You HAVE to pass a “Looks threshold” before being considered a potential partner to anyone. Both men and women also view their personality afterwards to decide if they’re worth dating or not. Both Men and Women will dismiss a good looking person if their personality is meh or crap. Both Men and Women will dismiss someone with a good personality because they’re ugly. This isn’t unique to either gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:14 AM
5	Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sex Nah she’s right, look at your own group of male friends, most have had sex, most of them are also average. Sure some aren’t dating right now, but 1-4 years down the line they’ll find a new GF. They’ll be on a years long dry streak, but eventually they’ll get a a GF. Considering “average” is actually a 5’9-5’10 white guy, average is still pretty good. The ones that are virgins do indeed have something specific about them that’s stopping them, in my friends cases, one’s basically dropped out of so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 08:52 AM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Again, you’re basing your or other people’s individual assessment to try and counter a general assessment. I don’t like Megan fox, I think she’s an awful person and I’m personally not attracted to her at all. But I would be completely delusional if I tried to claim she was a 6-7/10 based on my own person assessment of her. Regardless of what I personally think of her, she’d clearly be rated higher than that in a general assessment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 05:42 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Nobody is calling Henry Cavill a 4/10. Absolutely nobody. Sure, people’s taste may vary a bit, and there are groups of women who wouldn’t date a Henry Cavill. But that doesn’t mean he’s suddenly only a 7/10, regardless of what a some people think. I’m talking in terms of generalisation, in general, a 10/10 man wouldn’t really be dating a 5/10 women. in general, a 10/10 women wouldn’t be dating a 5/10 man. That doesn’t mean a 10/10 absolutely cannot date a 5/10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 04:45 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Dude, if I said the exact same thing to you, you’d be annoyed too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 12:07 PM
1	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. maybe you judge harshly on his so called “low standards”, while he is generally more satisfied with his life than you are with your own, ironically. What else would you call this besides an insult? It’s absolutely not polite to claim someone else’s dissatisfaction in their life. Obviously you don’t have a clear conscience otherwise when debating people, you wouldn’t need to bring up the debaters personal life into question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:52 AM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. How do most people rate other people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:46 AM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. If the only thing a 8/10 man only wants is those 4 things, then yes he has low standards. Trying to insult me because I said that tells me that you’re offended over that fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:39 AM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Then those men have low standards. That’s all that means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:16 AM
4	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Successful, fit and healthy, beautiful, kind, compassionate, basically every positive trait you could give a woman. For example, someone who’s considered 10/10 in her looks, but is a complete and utter asshole to everyone, I would absolutely not consider to be 10/10. And a 10/10 guy is not going to be with a complete and utter asshole, no matter how pretty she might be. Same sense, a 3/10 guy in looks, but is very rich and very famous, is no longer just a 3/10 dude because he’s got status and mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:13 AM
2	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. I never said anything about looks...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:01 AM
5	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. When I say 5/10, 10/10 etc, it’s more than just looks, it’s taking everything into account, including personality. Maybe the 5/10 women does offer something, but it has to be something substantial that every other women more attractive, smarter, nicer, etc than you can’t compete with. That 5/10 woman really has to ask herself “What do I have that every other woman in this club doesn’t have for him to want to date me and not them”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 11:01 AM
4	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. If you’re a 10/10 women asking for a 8/10 man or better. I would absolutely not call that high standards. If you’re a 5/10 women asking for a 8/10 man, then it is absolutely considered high standards. To me, something being high standards or not entirely depends more about who the person asking for those standards, rather than the standards themselves. A 10/10 women looking for a 8/10 man isn’t really “high standards” as she can very very easily get that with no effort. It’s actually pretty low …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 10:27 AM
6	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. Depends entirely on what you’re considering is “high standard”. Are they unreasonable or reasonable, that changes how valid the complaining is, but will also change how “high” those standards actually are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 10:17 AM
6	Which is a better strategy to get a man, FDS or redpillwomen? Doesn’t RPW only advocate to date men who have their shit together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:08 AM
60	Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards. You can have high standards. Just stop complaining about people not meeting them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:04 AM
7	Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad advice She’s posted pictures of herself on her profile. She’s cute, but not 8-9 tier. She looks like every other girl you’ll find in a night-club at 3am. She really has to ask herself, why would a literal 9/10 model tier man date and settle for specifically her over literally any other girl in the night club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 08:28 AM
6	Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad advice This. If she doesn’t look like her face can be on a giant billboard for the next in line beauty product, then she’s not 8-9 material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 08:10 AM
8	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women No one is talking about virgins, we’re talking about sexlessness. And yes, having sex once two years ago still counts as being sexless. Otherwise “Sexless marriages” literally wouldn’t exist as a concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 04:42 PM
12	Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for women It just so happens that the amount of young men having a dry spell has doubled in the past 20 years from less than 14% to almost 30%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 04:24 PM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? ????	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:42 PM
2	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? That is considered a relationship issue. Relationships include everything from friends to family to partners. Hence the “losing loved ones” part of my comment, that includes losing close family members.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:50 PM
2	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? There’s nothing inherently unique about it, men on average are more likely to suffer from loneliness than women. And thus you’ll hear more stories of men dealing with loneliness than you do with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:49 PM
2	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Found one source - https://www.amhf.org.au/research_confirms_5_uncomfortable_facts_about_young_male_suicide	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 02:47 PM
2	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. If you married a hot guy in your 30’s, then odds are you’re not average yourself. Likely an above average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 01:40 PM
12	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? I know a good 70-80% of suicides are directly related to “relationships”, this includes recent divorce, cheating wife/girlfriend, losing loved ones, being single, etc. The rest of the 20-30% are stuff like losing job, losing you savings, being homeless, health issues, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 01:23 PM
20	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Humans are social creatures, they thrive from social contact, being loved is healthy for humans. Being unloved isn’t. When a human goes their entire life without being loved or validated, it’s a huge mental toll, hence why being “lonely” is such a bad thing. It’s not just men, women also suffer from loneliness. Just check the /r/foreveralone subreddit for proof of that. Trying to make this a “Man only” problem is ignorant. Anybody can suffer from loneliness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 01:11 PM
26	The average woman is more attractive than the average man He just did, attractiveness values in men and women are almost identical. The only difference is women find 7.5/10 guys unattractive while men find 5/10 women attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 10:37 AM
3	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? Ooh. I‘m not saying men should look like bodybuilders, just saying to be lean and muscular. Not like a boxer or a power lifter, just look like you‘re fit and healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:46 PM
5	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. Rejecting people still makes those people options, they’re just options you didn’t choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:41 PM
4	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? So you’d be happy with a regular sized guy who didn’t exercise but still ate healthy, while you work out and go the gym every other day? If that’s right, you’re quite literally the very first women I’ve ever seen say this, most women who workout tend to also want their guy to workout too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:29 PM
11	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. 30 year old women have less options than they did at 20 years old. 30 year old men, ESPECIALLY the ones that didn’t let themselves go, now have substantially more options than they did at 20 years old. But 30 year old women still have more options than 30 year old men. That has never changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:28 PM
4	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. the average hot guy at 30 years old is now settling with the average hot woman. . Your average woman no longer has access to the hot lawyer. Whereas 10 years ago she could have. Hence the wall. They have less options than they did at 20, and the options they currently have are less attractive than what she could have gotten at 20. Wether Drs and Lawyers can be hot or not is irrelevant, the question is can the average woman still attract the hot guy who’s also a lawyer when they’re both 30 years …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:23 PM
14	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. No one said they don’t have options. They just have less options, and the options they have are arguably less attractive than the ones they used to have. That’s what us meant by the wall. No one is claiming women never have options, they always do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 10:10 PM
12	Women in their 30s have more options than RP men think. Most women in their early 20’s aren’t looking for Drs, Lawyers, Engineers, etc. They’re looking for hot attractive men. The idea is when women get older, they’re less likely to attract the hot attractive men, so they settle down with more stable men like Drs, Lawyers, and Engineers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:42 PM
13	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? The thing you’re looking for is Status. A person who got strong through football, soccer, or some other sport, is usually correlated with high status at the same time, you don’t become a great football player and have low status at the same time. If you become a great football player, you become popular with the team, which in turn makes you well respected by other well respected people, aka high status. Everybody loves the guy that everybody else loves. If you’re in a football team, that gives …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:38 PM
15	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? They want someone to be naturally lean and muscular. The opposite conveys 2 things You actively work out and have a healthy lifestyle, which is very offputting to people who want to be healthy but don’t have the willpower required to do it. You talking about how much you workout and keep healthy is just another way of telling other people how they could have worked out and be healthy, but of course they didn’t so they resent you for that. Women don’t want a man who’s strong and lean due to hard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 09:02 PM
5	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? Men respect other men who have put in the work and effort required to obtain those muscles. They might not “respect” a women with muscles for a few reasons, maybe they themselves find them attractive, but unobtainable (out of their league), so they say nothing. Or maybe they don’t like women with muscles so they don’t compliment them. Women don’t really care about muscles unless it’s attached to someone attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:58 PM
2	My male friends and I have all been in relationships where we were wooed and paid for by the women A woman has never bought me anything, ever, even including birthdays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 08:33 AM
22	Can the majority of guys be hot though diet, excercise, grooming and acting? There’s basically nothing a 5’5 balding man can do to look hot unless he already had a handsome face to start with. If he wasn’t born with a handsome face? He’ll still be a 5’5 bald dude, only difference is he’s now ripped and an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 08:31 AM
12	Most of the stereotypes created by the red pill community don't even exist outside the internet and affect men more than women. Same. Multiple times I’ve heard “I’ve only ever been with tall guys” too. Sure, they’re not saying they won’t date short guys. But the pattern is there and clear as day, and I’ve also never heard a women say “I’ve only ever dated short guys”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 01:28 PM
6	What does 'taking responsibility' mean? Usually the person who falls for the scam gets blamed for being dumb enough to fall for the scam. Ya the scammer did illegal shit, but the blame still falls on the guy who fell for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 09:43 PM
2	What does 'taking responsibility' mean? Never in my life have I heard someone blame the scammer for scamming people. When someone gets scammed, the blame Immediately falls on the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 09:40 PM
2	What does 'taking responsibility' mean? If I get scammed and lose $1000, who’s responsible for that? Me or the scammer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 08:50 PM
2	The most effective Blue Pill Strategy is exposure + time I just read the title then assume everything based of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 08:04 PM
3	The whole pill debate is just silly Women are likewise attracted to young beautiful men Unless they’re cougars, that’s not the case, women usually like men their age or older, whereas men usually prefer young women regardless of their own age. The rest of your text goes on about how men are “aiming for the top” or other stuff that simply does not exist, I feel you’ve greatly misunderstood the struggles your average straight man goes through and are casually blaming it on their own standards without bothering looking into things. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 06:33 PM
2	The most effective Blue Pill Strategy is exposure + time The red pill DOES NOT tell you to orbit a women for a full year 3 months until she settles into you. This is absolutely not Redpill	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 05:44 PM
-1	What do you want in a guy, truthfully? ’Status’ (whatever the fuck that means) Basically popularity, how popular is he outside of your friendship/relationship, do a lot of other people like him? Do other women find him attractive? Do most people want to and are excited to talk to him? It’s basically how much people like them in general, someone with low status is that guy who sits on the couch alone while petting the dog in the middle of a house party. Someone with high status will be the guy everyone wants to talk to and probably th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 05:28 PM
1	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. No. How in any way/shape/or form is that relevant to what we’re talking about? His standards being low is irrelevant to the fact he’s still managing to sleep with pretty decent 6/10 women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 03:53 PM
3	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. Young and physically beautiful. These are not attributes you become. You are either physically beautiful, or not. 9/10 times, the only requirement needed to fulfil becoming “physically beautiful” is being a healthy weight and good makeup. And even the good makeup part is debatable. It is very very rare to actually find a fit women who’s also ugly at the same time. Unless you’ve massively lost the genetic lottery, simply being fit is enough. Being physically beautiful is absolutely possible to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 02:43 PM
0	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. There are no fat slobs getting laid left to right just because they’re tall Hahahahaha, this is funny because the biggest slayer I know who’s n-count is well over 15+ now is obese. Granted, 50% of the women he’s slept with have also been obese, but that still leaves the other 50% who aren’t. Why? He’s charismatic and 6’2. There is NO chance he’d have the same results if he was 5’6. Absolutely 0 chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 02:38 PM
3	The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become. A man’s worth is defined by other people’s view of him. If everyone woman thinks a certain man is low value, then he is low value. Regardless of what he himself believes his own value to be. If I feel myself to have good value, but no one else agrees, then do I actually have good value?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 02:30 PM
1	Women don't care about fame and status. It's money and talent. You’re proving my point without realising it. Mark Zuckerberg can get women, not because he’s a talented programmer, but because of his money and status, nobody cares if he can program a website. They care that he’s famous, rich, and high status. A Mark Zuckerberg who ended up getting a normal programming job, but still worth millions, would not attract women in the same way he could now, solely down to nothing more than his status. Looks does not give status Halo effect. Yes it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 01:49 PM
3	Women don't care about fame and status. It's money and talent. It really doesn’t. If a person is low status, they’re low status for a reason. Wether it be due to bad looks, awful charisma, or something just wrong in general. You can’t have low status, and be an attractive charismatic man who gets along with everyone, at the same time. No Women aren’t horny for the nerd playing the violin, just because he can play the violin well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 01:08 PM
3	Women don't care about fame and status. It's money and talent. Disagree. Someone with high status but no talent, over the talented violinist with no status. Who would win? One has such a higher chance of getting women’s attention than the other. Due to their status, not their talent. Money + Status faaaar over Money + talent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 12:50 PM
11	What is the ideal male body type? 5% body fat and a douche nozzle gets 100x more women than the 50% fat ALL DAY LONG it’s not even a competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 12:44 PM
2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? According to the replies I’m getting, yes. Meanwhile a girl just has to... be nice. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 09:44 AM
2	Learning how to throw a good party will do more for your success with women than any of the other crap in TRP or blackpill just know 15 women that’ll show up to a party you host bro not hard bro You’re asking for the impossible. Someone who’s not good with women will not know 15 women who’ll join their party. Someone who’s already good with women will, but they’re already good with women so...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 09:36 AM
22	The uncomfortable truth in dating: you have extremely unrealistic expectations. Same, I’m in perfect shape, go the gym, eat healthy. If I’m competing against men with that “average” women. I’m dropping out the dating scene entirely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/21 09:24 AM
7	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? That’s exactly my point, average is not good enough, they have to be everything you described and more. Your average man has to be attractive and have an attractive personality. Your average women does not. Yet it’s your average women who blames men for not being better than average for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:56 PM
17	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Which sorta proves my point, if women don’t like average men who talk to them averagely, then by extension, their standards are higher than the average man is. Being average, and treating women like normal people, simply isn’t enough. You have to go beyond that and “push their buttons” like TRP suggests. Which in turn must mean they have high standards which is blocking out your average man. Do men have these same standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:45 PM
6	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? No one said most men Have you seen FDS? These are the people I’m talking about, I’m talking about all the single women complaining about how all men are bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:40 PM
11	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Average men are average at talking to women I.E not impressive You’ve just proven my point. Women don’t want average, they don’t want normal men, they want above average men despite being average themselves. Then whenever I point out this contradiction, it’s actually all men’s fault for being average and talking in a regular fashion. It’s men that have to go beyond that and do better just to attract your normal average woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:36 PM
27	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? What exactly counts as “good at talking to women”. Almost every man I know can speak to women just fine. They’re just human, women aren’t these mystical aliens you where you need to say the secret code to unlock their tingles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:25 PM
25	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? What’s more realistic. Almost every man you meet being an awful partner or an abuser. Women’s standards being high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:23 PM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? No, being a woman gives you attention. Getting a lot of attention gives you high standards. Best example is tinder, when 100 men like you per day, you can afford to have high standards because you can basically pick and choose what men you want to match with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:23 PM
2	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? They’re women with high standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:37 PM
68	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Nah, you’re absolutely right. Most men I meet are perfectly normal human beings. It’s very rare for me to actually meet an asshole, and when it does happen, I basically stop talking to them and move on with my life. Yet I come onto the internet and single women everyone push all of the blame of being single on all of these asshole men they meet everywhere. It’s simply not the case. The perfectly normal men just aren’t good enough for them, that’s all it comes down too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:06 PM
3	People complain about unequal income by gender because they don't take into account unequal childcare. Seeing as we have a population of almost 8 billion now, I’m absolutely fine with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 01:53 PM
5	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Because it’s easier to say “I’m fine dying alone” when you’re 26 and are you’re still getting tons of attention from men every time you go the club. Because they don’t actually believe they’ll die alone, they’re very confident they’ll find a man with those requirements. It’s easy to claim that you don’t care about the bad thing happening to you when you know for a fact that the bad thing will never happen to you. Do you think they would be as confident as they are if they were getting basically …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 01:40 PM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? The issue is how vague everything is, it can either include most men, or no men at all, solely based on how someone reads it. Similar values, likes pets, can make compromises, emotionally stable, supportive, honest, caring, patient to my quirks Safe to say, most people have this. The rest are vague enough where it’s hard to gauge exactly what she’s looking for, is she looking for something unreasonable or an absolute minimum? Take “cares about environment”, what does that actually mean, does she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 01:34 PM
7	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? and if you’re ok with that 95% of people are not ok with never dating anybody and dying alone. It is not a win/win situation. That’s when you end up with the “crazy cat lady” or “cool wine aunt” stereotype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 01:11 PM
1	Women file the majority of divorces regardless of country/culture, why do you think that is? HIGHLY depends on the country you live in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 10:14 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It’s not “older men are more attractive”. it’s “on average, your average man will have more opportunities to get into relationships or get laid than he did when he was in his younger 20’s”. Dating as a young man is hard, very hard, to the point 33% of all young men under 24 years old haven’t gotten laid the full year (possibly 25% being virgins). That number drops drastically as they enter their 30’s. The simplest conclusion people make is “men get more attractive” but there’s a bit more too it.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 10:24 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Which side is more famous for wanting to censor free speech?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 10:16 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Gymnastics The group of 14 year old Asian girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 10:07 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread This is why men have stopped helping women, because doing so is creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 10:04 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread never heard of that one It was absolutely a thing in older dating sites like match.con and okcupid back 12+ years ago. I remember memes back then of obviously obese women putting themselves down as “Curvy”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 09:44 AM
5	Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all? Anything positive about a women will increase their chances of a LTR. Is it required? Not really, she doesn’t need to make jokes or be funny, she just needs to have a sense of humour. But it helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 04:16 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread If that were true, then there wouldn’t be such a massive difference between what men like and what women like, as they’re equally as likely as each other to mingle with other races. Yet men of all races universally like all races except for black women (with black men slightly disliking white women). Whereas women routinely hate any race that isn’t their own or white men (with black women slightly disliking white women, and white women being neutral with Latino men). If what you said was true, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread What part of “Almost” are you not understanding? It means it’s close to overtaking Asian men, but not quite there yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:05 PM
6	You can't extrapolate average male attractiveness from dating website She gets all of that regardless. It’s like telling a rich person they’re not entitled to money...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 01:36 PM
7	Average men never truly experience a women's love at its full extent It’s OK to simp over a person who you love, and who also loves you back. It’s NOT ok to simp over a person who doesn’t love you back. It’s NOT ok to simp over a person you don’t love, but are just horny for. Sadly. There’s too many people in the 2nd and 3rd category that ruin it for everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 01:13 PM
7	If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ? That’s because 80% of men are seen as below average when only 50% of women are. So if an actual 6/10 man dates a 5/10 women, the women is still seen as more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 10:39 AM
3	CMV: The redpill and ‘self improvement’ is little more than a scam For those who don’t know, this is a copypasta - https://imageproxy.ifunny.co/crop:x-20,resize:640x,quality:90x75/images/2c833f69526021ea7f6f928cd1aeca9f6babfbc8589ccf7cb929639c9ece730e_1.jpg	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 09:50 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread almost more likely The difference is 6%, my statement isn’t wrong. I replied to the guy who’s comment you shared explaining why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 09:46 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That man didn’t hold back one bit. Just telling him straight to his face how he and his race just aren’t sexualised at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 04:13 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread And I know a 5’4 Asian man that’s dating a white woman. And another 5’7 Asian dating around. I’m not going to use them to discredit all the other Asians who are trying but can’t succeed. In the same sense, I’m not going to use the few black men I know who haven’t got in trouble with the police as evidence that black men don’t overwhelmingly get stopped, searched, and put in prison over something as simple as weed possession. While the white guy in the same situation wouldn’t have been put in pri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 12:32 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread You said the Asian population is 3 billion. This does not matter to the Asian guy who lives in the western world. Who will only ever meet 0.0001% of that population You said the asian man can’t attract women due to arbitrary reasons like dressing well or superiority complex. The statistics clearly show White, Latina, and Black women overwhelmingly do not like Asian men. Based on literally nothing more than the fact they’re Asian. While Asian women do like Asian men, they just also like white men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 12:14 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread When talking on PPD, Assume we’re talking about the western world, specifically America or Europe. Especially considering 75% of people here are white. Marriage statistics lean very heavily towards the older population which will definitely skew the data, most people here are talking about the dating scene which most people here are limiting themselves to the younger population, half of which are 18-25 year olds. An 20 year old Asian now in 2021 who was born in America and has gone to collage, h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:58 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread This didn’t really answer my question. Wether or not you personally don’t like ethnic girls doesn’t tell me why you’re against race mixing as a whole. I don’t like lemon, but I’m not going to stop other people from eating lemon, kind of thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:34 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:20 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread But my point is, if the relationship is perfect, a few weeks of training shouldn’t be that hard to deal with when compared to literal years of dating each other, possibly lifetime. And if the relationship does go bust... so? Two months down the line are you really going to care that you spend a week or two trying to get a guy to be good at sex instead of doing mostly nothing else? Probably not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:19 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That’s why I said “almost more likely”. When we’re talking about a scale that changes from -27% to +24%, and the difference between Asian men and white men is the difference between +24% and +18%, it’s such a small difference when looking at the bigger picture. There’s still a overwhelmingly positive view towards white men that it leaves both Asian men and Black men in the dust. Whereas if each race has a neutral view towards each other, the scenario I described above wouldn’t exist, and thus th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:08 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nothing you said is red pill... The red pill is “Hold Frame”, “Be Masculine and aggressive”, “Treat women like children”. What you described is just self improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 09:53 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Interracial marriages would be fine if it was equal in all directions. It’s not. Asian woman are almost more likely to prefer white men than other Asian men, and white men are very likely to date Asian Women. While at the same time, there’s no other race that prefers Asian men, hell Asian men are at the bottom of every other races list besides other Asian women. This creates a scenario where the only people who would have dated the Asian men are being removed from the dating scene by white men. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 09:37 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Why don’t the women just teach the guy how to be better? If the relationship is perfect besides sex, then nothing’s stopping her from teaching the dude how to be better at sex right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 09:29 AM
4	Nearly 50% of asians born in america are married to non asians Despite the fact white people encompass 75% of all reddit users, only 50% of all incels were white. That sounds underrepresented to me. Almost every mass shooting has absolutely nothing to do with sex or relationships. Here’s a fun fact, you’re more likely to commit a violent crime if you’ve had sex over people who are virgins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 09:10 AM
1	Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherished That’s like saying men are either chad or virgin. That’s now what that meme means, that meme is just a stereotype of two different women, from a list of 100’s of different women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 08:52 AM
3	Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherished Going the gym, climbing, hiking, playing an instrument, dancing, archery, baking, volunteering etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 08:47 AM
2	Virginity or modesty in women - seems like it’s both looked down upon and cherished !ncels	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 08:43 AM
3	How important are muscles to find a relationship? Same. The thing is, he would look really good if he was on a cut. Suddenly it’ll go from “He barely works out” to “Wow he’s got a swimmers body” just by losing 10kg of fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 05:08 PM
5	How important are muscles to find a relationship? Being skinny makes you look skinny, not a like a swimmer. Source: I was 50kg at one point in my life as a 5’7 man, my body WAS NOT a swimmers body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 04:58 PM
2	The internet and OLD increase equality of opportunity for men to get laid He’s not below average, you do know that right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 09:44 AM
2	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? I already own a cozy house and a car. I don’t need more money. Money is so fucking meaningless once you have enough to make your own life comfortable and go on holiday every year. Beyond that what am I going to do with it? Try an attract gold diggers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 03:30 PM
5	The internet and OLD increase equality of opportunity for men to get laid You’re lying to yourself when you say you were below average. And I would never ever consider you short, you are quite literally 1 inch lower than the National average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 03:28 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Second date maximum, If you’re going into the 3rd date without even a kiss, something is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 10:36 AM
14	The internet and OLD increase equality of opportunity for men to get laid You’re a slightly above average guy who improved to become very above average guy. I get hit on quite often in school and work This is not the normal male experience. You are a top 30% man trying to tell the bottom 30% of men how they’re crap for not improving themselves. Despite the fact most of us are improving ourselves and still haven’t had any success. Doesn’t matter if you’re poor, awkward, no education, not taught how to be social So what matters is looking good, which is out of most peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 10:23 AM
1	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? studying for your career Nah fuck that. I work during work hours and that’s it, I’m not working during non-work hours. Making friends online I have tons of friends, this isn’t an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 09:34 AM
2	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? Going the gym and eating good food doesn’t benefit society, they benefit you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/21 09:33 AM
2	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? I play a bit of tabletop, I love it, gives me an actual reason to leave the house and speak to actual humans face to face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 06:10 PM
5	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? You can clean, go the gym, make friends, and all of that stuff, and still play games at the same time, you’re not limited to one or the other. I’m talking about when you’ve got literally nothing to do, it’s raining outside, you’re sat at home, you’ve went the gym, cooked food, cleaned the house. Now what? If I was in a relationship, I’d spent time with her, but I’m not, so I play games instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 04:27 PM
12	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? Exactly, I tried quitting gaming once, I just ended up watching movies/tv shows instead. Nothing changed besides the fact I just didn’t play games anymore. You have to quit for a reason, quitting games (and even porn) just for the sake of quitting it, isn’t going to do anything at all except make you more bored than you already are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 03:36 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Most men aren’t simps. But there’s so many obvious simps out there that it feels like most men are simps. They’re more like the loud minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 12:17 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I never mentioned casual sex... Relationships exist as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 12:11 PM
13	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? Most dating apps now have racial and height filters. If a woman really wanted to, she could literally only look for 6’1 or taller white men, that’s that done, for the rest of her dating career she doesn’t even need to glance at anyone else. Why would you ever, ever, choose an average man, when there’s streams of 6’1 white men ready to match and date you with the swipe of your finger? Nah, it’s those pesky porn and video games that are making more single men!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 12:03 PM
1	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? Severely obese men are Vocel We had a saying, “Fatcel is vocel”, you cannot be considered an incel if you can’t even put some basic effort into your own well-being. And fuck, that’s not even true either, the severely obese man I know also has the higher N-count I know off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 10:13 AM
41	What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives? I can tell you right now I would not be sitting around playing video games if I had a relationship. I quite frankly wouldn’t have the time to and it would be the first thing I’d drop to make more time. I sit around and play video games BECAUSE I’ve been plenty unsuccessful with women, have literally nothing better to do with my time. Especially during this pandemic. I still make time to go to every social situation that exists. Video games, and other similar stuff, are an escapism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 09:18 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Most single men I know aren’t fucking. At all. For years on end. That’s what is meant by undesirable. No, that is not normal, that is very abnormal. While technically by definition they’re a minority, they still represent a good 20-30% of all young men which is a huge amount. That’s almost every 1 in 3 guys you meet are sexless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 08:58 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Definitely. Plenty of women genuinely believe they fell in love with the tall attractive head full of hair white guy because of his personality. And the fact he happen to be tall white and attractive was just a coincidence. Hence the “I prefer short guys, but it just so happens...” meme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:13 PM
3	Bigger girls than me with hotter BF If he’s interested, why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:05 PM
7	Weekly Community Chat Megathread This isn’t the reason why though. Woman are more attracted to men who are taken over men who are single. This has been very very well documented. One of the simplest examples was to show a photo of a man by himself, and a photo of a man standing next to a woman who’s his “wife”. Women were much more attracted to the man who had a wife, based on literally nothing more than the fact he had a wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 10:56 AM
1	Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it is And drugs is one of the largest industries in the world. That doesn’t mean drugs are important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 03:08 PM
7	'Alpha' and 'beta' in the red pill are merely substitute words for 'jocks' and 'nerds' The higher your IQ, the more likely you are to be sexually inexperienced. http://pepsic.bvsalud.org/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S1413-389X2012000100004 Specifically, the likelihood of being inexperienced drastically increases above 120 IQ. High IQ is not sexy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 11:26 AM
5	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. There’s not many women looking for short foreign balding dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 03:47 PM
3	The bad-boy appeal That makes no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:17 PM
3	Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it is Gay people exist. Doesn’t mean men can live their lives ignoring women and fucking guys. Being asexual is a massive outlier that it should be completely disregarded when it comes to normal relationships. You’re basically saying “well, people with 0 libido exist, that means you can exist with 0 libido too”, it doesn’t work that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 10:29 AM
15	Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it is If sex was important people would hire hookers. They don’t want sex, they want validation for their existence from a person they’re attracted too, who is also attracted to them. Sex is just the greatest validation a man can receive from a women they like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 10:27 AM
3	Why don’t most average men “looksmax”? Having a shit life is even worse for your mental health. Almost every person I know who suffer from some sort of mental illness all have the exact same lifestyle choices in common, rotting in a room eating shit all day and getting fat. I know they exist, but I’ve yet to meet a person who does exercise, stay healthy, eat good food, and gets out in the sun regularly, to also have a mental health issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 10:19 AM
1	Why don’t most average men “looksmax”? Requires a ton of hard work and discipline, something most average men don’t have. I’ve tried my best trying to get friends to go the gym and they just don’t care, they’d rather sit indoors getting fat eating ice cream than ever go the gym again. All I get is “Nah that’s not for me” or just a simple “I hate exercising”. How do you convince someone to start doing something they hate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 10:16 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The 34 year old man would be put to prison AND have to pay child support. The 34 year old women is free to raise her child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 03:01 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Would they say the same thing if it was a 34 year old man with a 15 year old girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 12:25 PM
5	Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations. You’re comparing an individual opinion to a generalisation. To the general population, as in just asking random people on the street, a 30 year old who owns action figures, reads manga, watches anime, and plays video games, is undoubtably seen as a man child to the general population. You personally seeing him as an adult doesn’t change this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 02:47 PM
1	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” According to tiktok’s “What do you want in a man” trend, “Tall” was literally on almost every women’s checklist. This is absolutely false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 01:05 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread But like I said, it does not matter if you yourself believe height doesn’t matter, you are objectively dating an above average height guy. For all we know, this just means you don’t consciously seek out height in men, it could be purely a subconscious thing. You don’t see a short man and think “he’s too short”, you see a short man and think “he’s alright, he’s just not my type though”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 12:44 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It doesn’t matter. What matters is you are dating an above average height guy, you’re literally part of the meme men here laugh at. If height didn’t matter as much as women here would claim, then we should have an even amount of women dating tall and short guys. But that is almost NEVER the case. 90% of the time when a women says “height doesn’t matter”, it’s almost immediately followed up by “but my bf is taller than average”. You almost never see “height doesn’t matter, I’m currently dating a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 12:12 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Gaming is nice and all, but a women who knows how to play an instrument is instantly top tier material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 11:58 AM
7	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Not quite, looks/height/race aren’t the only thing that matters, they’re just arguably the most important. While the red pill provides you truths which help you achieve in life (aka be alpha, go gym, people respect a strong body, don’t take shit, hold frame, etc). The blackpill encompasses all uncomfortable truths about the world that doesn’t really help anybody and just makes you sad. Stuff like height matters a lot more than people claim, looks matter a lot more than people claim, being white …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 11:51 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The issue is a ton of these women are going “my BF is 8 inches and it’s perfect!!!” When statistically a 8 incher is rarer than being above 6’6. Either every single FDS women has found a statistical outlier, they have no idea what 8 inches actually looks like, or their BF’s just average/above average and they’re saying 8 inch to troll insecure men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 11:03 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Even non-FDS women wouldn’t be happy with a micro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:58 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Isn’t it a man’s choice to be beta. There’s basically no way a 5’5 man can be alpha... Even the most alpha 5’5 man who’s probably the person I respect the most, has to do everything perfectly for him to not be seen as a BB.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:52 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I went to a haunted house with my mates once as a teen. Turns out it wasn’t haunted, it was pretty boring. Then I stopped believing in ghosts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:35 AM
2	There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)” People tend not to ask because they’re afraid of the answer and rather live in ignorance. If it really, truly was of 0 importance and nobody “cared”, then it would be no different from asking what’s your favourite colour or if they’ve ever been to Spain before. But instead, almost everybody doesn’t know their own partners N-count and they’re too afraid to find out the answer to ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:30 AM
1	Are dick pics as common as people think they are? If 1 in 100 men send every women a dick pic, then every woman has received a dozens of dick pics. This makes women think most men are sending dick pics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:25 AM
3	Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations. Same, at the end of the day I’m still a 25 year old playing games, watching cartoons, playing make-believe, and having no girlfriend. Doesn’t really matter if I have a successful career, eat healthy, go the gym, stay clean, etc etc. Anybody who isn’t into these hobbies is still going to think “he’s a man child that hasn’t grown up yet”. No one has ever lambasted my hobbies or interests except for one girlfriend I had She’s just the one brave enough to say anything. Doesn’t mean others aren’t thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 10:20 AM
3	Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn. Porn has its own set of issues such as porn addiction, it definitely warps what they were originally expecting from a relationship, but it doesn’t increase their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 09:24 AM
1	Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn. Women’s requirements: I want a man with genetics that only 15% of the entire male population is born with. Men’s standards: ya if she’s healthy, shaves, and has a trait that applies to like 95% of all women, that’s cool. No, they’re not the same, stop being obtuse on purpose	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 09:15 AM
9	Women's dating/relationship standards are warped by social media the same way men's are by porn. Men are blamed for having high standards when using porn. At the exact same time, men are blamed for having no standards when willing to fuck a chicken carcass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 09:09 AM
18	For both genders, in terms of who you want to go on a first date with, physical attractiveness is most important, and if personality matters, it is only among those who are already attractive enough Short or long term, looks matter more. There is no “long term” if you can’t get your foot In the door in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 06:44 PM
3	Cheating Mega Thread We surround ourselves around people we’re similar to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 02:23 PM
5	Cheating Mega Thread Personal antidote, I know 3 women who have cheated, and 0 men who have cheated. This is coming from a guy who knows well over 100 men my age and probably less than 25 women my age. Mid 20’s. If the men do cheat, they’re good at keeping it a secret.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 10:12 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread When you can have any pussy you want, you no longer care about any of them, it gets boring after a while. So you start seeking an actual partner, something more than just another pussy to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 10:03 AM
9	Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it? Makeup and fashion is one of the biggest industries in the world. How are they going to sell if they don’t brainwash women into thinking they absolutely need it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 12:35 AM
3	Hello RPs and other men (perhaps) alike, why do tattoos bother or not bother you? Does it make you see the woman as less or undesirable? Can confirm, the women who I know that loves tattoos is also mentally ill and a drug addict. The other woman flirts with other men when her boyfriends not around and is trying to open their relationship. The correlation I’ve noticed makes me hate tattoos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 11:28 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread If you do I’ll shake my head left and right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 11:26 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The sun Please never link this crap again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 04:04 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread So... what she said was true, I don’t think you read it right. She said “if a girl is shy around you, it’s because you’re ugly”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 04:02 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The sims 2 lets people live out their unrealistic dreams of buying a house and having a loving family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:59 PM
6	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) You couldn’t be more ignorant about the average guy’s online dating experience holy shit. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a The average man has a 0.87% like rate, meaning for every 115 women who saw his profile, a single one would swipe right. That 1 women that swiped right? Very likely to have a BMI of over 30+.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:36 PM
9	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) The dude went on over 7 dates and had 4 hookups in the span of less than a year. Easily over 100 matches to get this success. Your “average guy tinder experience” is 1 match every 10 days where the girl blanks you or replies with 1 word answers. To put it into perspective, my average mates have been using Tinder for 5+ years and gotten 2-3 dates out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:18 PM
13	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) My point is just because you, specifically you, wouldn’t date him and don’t find him attractive, means absolutely nothing considering he’s highly successful on Tinder and is getting 100’s of matches. Like me saying I won’t date Megan Fox means nothing when she’s considered one of the hottest women in the world and has millions of men world wide who’s love to date her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:07 PM
17	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) I also wouldn’t date Megan Fox. This means literally nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:51 PM
33	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) Sure, instead of 99% of women happy with your height, it’s now 80%, 70%, 50%. Meanwhile 5’1 dude is trying to find the 2% that are happy with his height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:48 PM
2	No amount of notches or flags will fill that hole in your heart. You sound like you came straight from /r/ihavesex I’d say 99% of people here aren’t trying to fuck as many women as possible to fill a hole. Most are just looking for a relationship, others just fuck for the fun of it. Most people understand this, then you come out of no where with a throwaway account going “guys I’ve had sex with tons of women!!! But don’t do it it’s not good”. Why throwaway anyway?	/r/seduction	07/05/21 12:50 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread No, but it’s one of the most important traits for a man to be “Chad”. 6’ automatically makes them top 18% in terms of height. 6’2 is top 6%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 08:19 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It’s both. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misogynist https://www.dictionary.com/browse/misogynist	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 04:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Same difference. Misogyny is defined as prejudice against women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 04:35 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That’s cool, it’s pretty similar to experiences my friends have had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 04:34 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread No sorry, I don’t think one exists. It’s mostly just a red pill theory based on men’s personal anecdotes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 03:29 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Don’t be silly. Your generic attractive collage frat boy can pull this off and he’s not a top 3%	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:45 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The issue is most women will run away, which is why it’s better to keep it hidden from the partner. Finding a partner who’ll stay in that situation is like finding a unicorn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:43 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The issue is it changes your entire perspective of who that person is. You meet this cool, confident, happy man, and you become attracted to him. So you built this image of a cool, confident, happy man in your mind. Then a few months of dating later you find out he’s actually not this cool confident happy man at all and he’s sitting here crying about his anxiety and depression. Suddenly it shatters your entire view of who he is. He’s not the guy you thought he was going to be when you met him. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:33 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread No. They are absolutely not. But the point wasn’t if they make a happy relationship, it was if emotions turn a women off or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 01:35 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Yet I see countless of these type of men in relationships. What I’m saying is it doesn’t dry their pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 01:20 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Means nothing, I’ve seen tinder profiles of women who are heavily into Christianity, only to reply excitedly to a Chad asking if she wants to get rawdogged in the ass. It means absolutely nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:55 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread A women who’s been in a multiple long term relationships but it fizzled out isn’t a slut. Slut should mostly be limited to women who sleep with multiple men in quick succession. Depends on their age too. A 16 year old girl with an N-count of 5? Likely a slut. A 35 year old women with an N-count of 5? Likely not a slut.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:52 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread As a man, this. I’m not expecting a women to bow down to me and make me breakfast in bed, I just want a women who respects me and my decisions without any nagging or questioning. I see relationships where the man can’t even buy shit he wants for himself with his own money without needing permission of his wife, or men in /r/deadbedrooms situations constantly being nagged to hell and back, or men being asked to open their relationship, etc etc. Men asking for submissive women are just asking for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:45 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread How does the quote “Treat women like they’re children” not considered misogynist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:39 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Showing emotion This is where most people get confused, an alpha who gets angry, breaks his controllers like a baby, laughs, smiles, gets hyped, etc etc, He’s showing his emotion, yet women will pile all over him. What people actually mean, is that women don’t like men who show Weakness. Weakness in the form of crying over dumb shit, getting sad because someone insulted you, getting scared, becoming depressed, etc. Nothing will turn off a woman more than retreating into your hole when something …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:38 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Based on personal experience. Yes. This is absolutely true. None of my average friends have slept with women on the first date. And my two friends who I know have done so have been 6’1 and 6’2.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:29 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Unless you’re trying to say 60% of the population are actually mentally ill, this line of thinking doesn’t make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:25 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Once you’re married, you’re out of the game. 50% of all people are in a committed relationship, by that knowledge alone, it automatically contradicts the 20/80 rule. The 20/80 rule is limited to dating sites/nightclubs/casual sex. Once a women settles down, she’s likely going to settle with a bottom 80% man. Which is where the “AF/BB” rule comes into place, the theory that women will get causal with top 20% man until she wants to settle down, then she’ll start a relationship with bottom 80% man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:23 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Chad can. Chad as in top 20% man who’s single and owns his own place where he can bring girls who just want to sleep with men. 100’s of matches, he’s bound to find multiple girls who’ll be happy to be in a FWB with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 12:14 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread She thought it was a fake account, until Ben found her Instagram and sent her a video	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:30 AM
8	CMV Social media and dating apps have skyrocketed womens SMV - Hollywood celebrities, billionaires, athletes have open access to pretty much all attractive slim women in their 20's I think he’s trying to say, in the past women had to AT LEAST have connections with other rich people/celebrities to meet these celebrities, having connections like that is part of what made them a high tier women in the first place. As in it’s very rare for a girl who works as a cashier in Walmart meeting and fucking celebrities. Nowdays, any random women, as long as she’s hot enough, can match and fuck Ben Affleck himself, regardless of who she is, who she knows, or what she does as a living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/21 01:21 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread If your genes is destined to lose your hair, you’re going to lose your hair, regardless of anything else. A person who’s genes aren’t going to lose their hair, aren’t going to lose their hair. The idea that testosterone or steroids or something will cause your hair to fall out is dumb. The reason why that myth’s so prevalent is because men, usually 25+, start taking these things around the same age that male baldness starts to set in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/21 10:16 AM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. It’s your research, you were the one asking for the source... He’s done his research, which is why he knows that fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 05:41 PM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Or, I have an even better idea. Do your own research. I literally just googled “Serotonin in humans”. I don’t carry around sources on my back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 05:36 PM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Condescending much...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 05:27 PM
2	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Yup, Serotonin plays the exact same role in every animal. Here a few more for humans - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0091305701006700 https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-018-29055-9 https://link.springer.com/referenceworkentry/10.1007%2F978-3-319-16999-6_1440-1 Serotonin plays a massive role in social situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 05:11 PM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. 95% of all other mammals have animals fuck their own gender. This proves nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 03:32 PM
4	Jordan Peterson advocates the red pill? What part of his views do you disagree with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 01:51 PM
34	Jordan Peterson advocates the red pill? He’s not red pill, he’s not blue pill either. He’s lobster pilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:52 AM
2	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. It’s fun, because we’re biologically wired for sex to be fun, because biology wants us to reproduce. We have not and never have evolved past the animalistic instinct, and it’s laughable to believe we have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:50 AM
4	Sex and dating will become a luxury in the future because of sex robots You’re absolutely right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:30 AM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. That’s average height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:24 AM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. No it’s not, it literally originated from the fat rights movement as a reaction to other people making fun of fat people. It was created with the main purpose of stopping other people making fun of fat people. It then evolved into body positivity to allow anyone of any body to participate. humans have evolved past the animalistic instinct to reproduce at all costs The only way I will EVER believe this is if people stopped fucking. Or in better terms, stopped looking for a relationship entirely. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:18 AM
1	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. To start with, the heights are wrong. 165 = 5’5, 170cm = 5’7, yet it’s claiming 171cm = 5’6 and 165 = 5’4. So they’re not as small as they’re pretending they are. Secondly, the 9th smallest k-pop singer in the entire industry is above average height for their county. Which leaves every other Male k-pop singer in the entire industry to be above average height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 10:09 AM
6	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. It’s not a claim, it’s literally in the Wikipedia article on “Serotonin”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 09:49 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Yes because they’re with 8/10 or better men. If a gay man is going to spend money for sex, it’s going to be with a top tier man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 10:40 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Gay men don’t need to pay to get sex though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 09:58 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Have you seen male strippers? You need to be too 8/10 dude to get that kind of job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:41 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Easier to be pretty enough as a women for people to throw money at you than it is as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:36 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I don’t care about karma, but I do care about a comment getting -8 with no explanation as to why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:34 PM
17	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” and men find other men just as unattractive Ya I’m gonna need a source for that. Because from what I know, this isn’t true in the slightest. Women just have high standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:25 PM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? I feel like it’s literally just an American thing, I’ve never heard of anything like it happen in Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:23 PM
4	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” Waaa I’m forever alone, my last relationship was years ago and I’ve been on all these dates with all of these men!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:19 PM
11	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” Waaa I’m forever alone, my last relationship was years ago and I’ve been on all these dates with all of these men!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:19 PM
18	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” Women rate 80% of men unattractive, That’s literally the only reason you believe the women is often more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:17 PM
36	From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.” Reminder that /r/detrans is 95% FtMtF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/21 02:10 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Investing £2,500,000 will grant you around a £200,000 wage yearly, £200,000 per year for doing no work is life changing money to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 06:07 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread £2,500,000	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 04:37 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Basically, yes, everybody has a price. I’d be very surprised to meet any poor person who wouldn’t take a deal like that. Man or woman. I mean fuck, who cares if you turn into a 4/10, you never have to work a single day in your life, retire at a young age and finally do all those things you wanted to do. So no, I’m going to have to go against /u/MasterTeacher123 and say most people wouldn’t take being pretty over becoming a literal multi-millionaire overnight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 04:32 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Depends how rich. I’ve met plenty of women who’ve admitted they’d cheat on their fella if an ugly guy in question was a multi-millionaire and would save them from their retail cashier job. So becoming ugly instead and still having the relationship freedom available to you? Yes most people would take that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 03:17 PM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? Not really, i know multiple women like that. Not that rare...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 08:39 AM
0	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Just... look at her, she doesn’t look like an adult at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 09:05 PM
6	Are we heading towards a polygamous society? This, basically all cuckold relationships is one women with two men. It’s almost always the women that want to have an open relationship. The men having multiple girls is mostly just a casual dating thing. A man actively dating and marrying multiple women at the same time is pretty rare if we ignore religious marriages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 01:21 PM
11	Are we heading towards a polygamous society? You only need 4 women for every 1 Chad for 80% of women to get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 01:17 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread He looks like the kind of guy that any redneck girls would rate 10/10, while most other women would rate 3/10. He’s attractive to a specific niche of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 01:10 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Women rarely date a man without a job I must be a unicorn then because I’m dating a man with a job She’s a genius.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 01:08 PM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? So... you’re not dating a broke man. You’re just dating a man who makes less money than you. How are you a unicorn again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 01:06 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread If you’re a 25 year old man, don’t invite 14 year old girls to your pool party. It’s not hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 12:31 PM
1	Women left their ex role of homemaker to gain freedom. They are unlikely to ever go back. I never said that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 08:44 AM
1	Women left their ex role of homemaker to gain freedom. They are unlikely to ever go back. I don’t, I never said I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 10:43 PM
15	If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ? It’s this simple, close this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 04:22 PM
4	Women left their ex role of homemaker to gain freedom. They are unlikely to ever go back. It doesn’t matter if you, yourself, is happy. The simple fact is the average women is unhappier now more than ever, both in terms of general happiness and suicide rates. Wether that’s down to having financial freedom, capitalism, dating market, relationships, or some other reason, they’re becoming more unhappier at a record pace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 04:16 PM
1	Men have misconceptions about what "being attracted to personality" means for the dating scene This doesn’t mean you don’t look for looks. This could very very easily mean you look for both looks and personality, we don’t know who your crushes are/what they look like, so we can only take a wild guess and come to the conclusion they’re probably not short, foreign, and ugly. And if they were short and ugly. They suddenly wouldn’t have been one of your crushes, despite his personality being the same, because he’s no longer attractive enough. This is what we think when we hear a woman say the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 11:33 AM
2	What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues? Men‘s dating problems stem mostly from women rejecting them, thus men think women’s high standards are the issue. Automatically, they think YOU are part of the problem, regardless of any sympathy you try to give them. Your sympathy means nothing when it’s believed that you’re the cause of the issue. For an extreme example, imagine a billionaire talking to a homeless man and saying “you’re right, it sucks for poor people”, then getting into a helicopter and flying away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 10:59 AM
3	"Where have all the Good Men gone" is just the female version of "Nice Guys Finish Last". “Where are all the good men” women are rejecting majority of men due to their high standards. “Nice guys finish last” guys are getting rejected by majority of women due to them not being attractive enough to women. They’re two completely different problems with two completely different solutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 10:53 AM
1	Men and women do not get each other's problems You make it sound like finding someone who won’t rape you is almost impossible without FBI level of investigation. It’s really not that hard...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 06:04 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread That says more about who’s right, rather than this subreddit. If you have a place where red pill and blue pill can debate in equal amounts, but all you see is red pill stuff, then it proves red pill is winning the argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 01:21 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread You’re underestimating the SMV of a short brown woman. Even attractive men want to date them too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 12:31 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread There’s not many women willing to date a short brown dude in a majority tall white country. Being fit and healthy doesn’t make you attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 11:14 AM
2	How fat is too fat? That that point it starts to depend on face more, is she still cute even at that weight?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 10:14 AM
1	How fat is too fat? Even 35% is alright for me, 40%+ is too much though	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 10:10 AM
16	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? Fat single mothers still get sex and relationships. Incels are in a league of their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 10:08 AM
2	So if men want sex, then all they need to do is ask for relationships? The men pressuring women for sex aren’t the same as the lonely beta men who just want to be loved and validated. The one pressuring for sex mostly just wants sex with a girl he personally knows, as some form of accomplishment. You’re comparing rebel Brad around the street corners to poor innocent Wilbert who bought a girl flowers. Two completely different men with two completely different outlooks on life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 10:03 AM
8	Men and women do not get each other's problems True, and we avoid being stabbed by our partner by simply not dating people who stink of red flags. I fail to see your comment as anything other than paranoia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 09:45 AM
7	Men and women do not get each other's problems I remember that one, she ended up with a 6’+ tall dude because she purposely swiped left on any guy who didn’t have 6’ in their bio. Meanwhile the average man gets 1 match every 10 days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 09:43 AM
11	Men and women do not get each other's problems Fucking hell, and how many people do you personally know that we’re murder victims?!? It’s like me saying “Nearly 80% of people who get attacked on the street are men” and using that as proof that men should be scared of walking outside. It’s such a statistical unlikelihood that it’s not even worth bringing up. It’s like being scared of getting into a car crash, yet you manage to drive a car everyday just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 09:23 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I like to go the gym, go climbing, go jogging, go on bike rides, and eat healthy. Below average girls live by an entirely different lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 12:09 AM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread below average yourself Thanks for the reminder	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 11:38 PM
5	What is most important for a man to be physically attractive? It’s more of an average comparison thing. 5’10 with broad shoulders or 6’1 with small shoulders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 11:12 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Yes, they are? What kind of reply is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 09:45 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Religion was simply humans natural reaction for the question “Why do we exist, what happens when we die?”. Even uncivilised tribes had the “River spirit” as the cause for pregnancy. Overtime it became the building block to control the population and easily create laws/culture for the country. For example, it’s easy to get an army to fight your battles if you just tell them you get to go to Valhalla if you die in battle. But nowadays we can take the moral and ethics and still leave the religion b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 02:08 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Nothing. The west is already full of atheists/agnostics and they’re doing fine. And even in a world where people believed in a god there was still a fuck ton of crime happening, so it’s not like people don’t commit crimes in fear of a god. There would be a few suicides but that’s about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 01:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Christina Hendricks She’s looking good for a 45 year old, 9/10. Billie Eilish Not my type in the slightest, 4/10. Kate Upton Another 9/10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 01:16 PM
2	Why Don't You All Go MGTOW But you can agree not having friends and family is unhealthy right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 06:47 PM
2	Why Don't You All Go MGTOW Do you die if you don’t have any friends or family?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 06:43 PM
2	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? Being a “strong women” isn’t about physical strength, fuck 70% of women are overweight I highly doubt most of them care about their physical strength. Being a “Strong independent women” is about having a competitive personality which allows them to do what they want to do without the fear of sticking to feminine gender norms. It’s not about trying to physically overpower a weak man, it’s about portraying that she’s a better person than him and she’s out of his league. Hence why height isn’t an i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 03:41 PM
3	Why Don't You All Go MGTOW Ya never heard of Oxytocin before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 01:41 PM
1	Are a lot of mental health issue due to the way society associates worth with physical attractiveness? I personally feel happier after a shower/haircut/nice clean clothes. But that’s just me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 01:40 PM
7	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? Weak men Weak men, Betas, LVM, any men that women don’t get sexually excited for. Did they grow up as little girls hoping they don’t grow tall. No, they just hope to find a man bigger/stronger than them. Regardless of their height. How does inferiority play out if a bigger man comes along Hypergamy, they will either cheat on the husband or they don’t, depends on the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 01:36 PM
18	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? They want to be stronger than all the weak men, but weaker/smaller/submissive to their boyfriend/husband. It’s that simple, don’t overthink this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 12:55 PM
3	Both men and women face some inherently unfair standards of attractiveness. I chose 5’5 for men and 4’11 for women as they’re both equally as likely as each other. Yet one wipes out 80% of all potential partners and the other doesn’t make a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 04:51 PM
9	Both men and women face some inherently unfair standards of attractiveness. Facial features Barely matter, give me a healthy weight girl with a meh face and I’ll show you 100’s of equally unattractive men who’ll line up to date her at a drop of a heartbeat. Size of tits ABSOLUTELY DO NOT MATTER IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM. There are tons of men that actually prefer small tits. /r/tinytits doesn’t have 670,000 subscribers for nothing. Height proportions Unless your girl is in the extreme ends like 6’2 or 4’5, most men don’t care too much about height. Sure, both men and women h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:33 PM
29	Missing out and making up for it I think I can explain this a bit. It lingers around the blue pill mindset. Aka for the “Betas” of the world. It’s no so much “young love” or “highschool” specifically that makes you feel like you missed out. It’s the fact that high school/collage is really the only point in your life where women would be dating you... for you. She’s not dating you for your job/money, she’s not dating you for finance, she’s not dating you so her kid can grow up with a dad, she’s not dating you because you’re that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 01:41 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Doesn’t matter, What I do know, is the guys I know who are often fucking or in relationships are often 5’11 or taller, the guys not fucking and not in relationships or are in relationships with fat women are often 5’7 or shorter. Doesn’t matter what the girls I know claim to wants, I just know what they actually go for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 11:30 AM
4	Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think? The people who say the bar is set low and ARE NOT joking, are the same people only looking for the top 5% men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 11:13 AM
2	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? I remember hearing a story where an MMA instructor told men of similar size to grab and hug the women, and the women to do everything in their power to escape. None of the women could even hope to squeeze out. His point was to teach the women to be realistic with what they could actually achieve, despite multiple years of training MMA, the average women there couldn’t even escape the arms of men of similar size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 07:03 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Amy Schumer isn’t that bad. Plus those men aren’t your average man, there’s always men out there with all types of fetishes. Ask your friends if they would date Susan Boyle and see what replies you get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 02:59 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Mormons stopped me in the street and spoke about god, does that count?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 11:04 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread They’ll both be widely successful. Women would fucking love a 10/10 manbot with none of the downsides in their house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 11:02 AM
0	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Prostitutes just sell their body for money, hundreds a night all to different men for almost every single day of their lives. There’s no feelings involved, they don’t care about you, some even resent you, you give them $200 for their body for an hour or two and that’s that. An hour later you’re alone in your room while she’s off to the next client. An AI Wife Bot showing unconditional love is an entirely different situation, they’ll basically have all the best parts of a human with none of the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 11:01 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Men still have standards. They’re thirsty for the average women, not every women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 10:46 AM
4	Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for men You sure it’s your shyness putting men off and not literally anything else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 10:42 AM
15	Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for men If you’re attractive and the girl wants to date you, she’ll make it extremely easy for you to date her. You do not need any sort of texting game to set a date with a girl. All he has to say is “Coffee this Friday?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 10:38 AM
1	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? I’ve been on this subreddit for over 5 years now, I already know nothing of the sort exists. Nobody here in this comment section has said it either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 03:49 PM
2	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? Please link me to ONE single comment in this entire subreddit that’s been upvoted, that states men will never reject a women. If that’s the common sentiment, then it shouldn’t be hard to find one upvoted comment that says that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 03:32 PM
2	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? There’s no point to be made, nobody has ever claimed “No men would reject ANY women”, nobody has ever said women can’t get rejected, nobody has ever said men don’t have requirements. The common sentiment is “most average men low standards to the point they’re happy with any healthy weight normal women.” And if you saw her other comment, even with her being alt, pink hair, mental illness, she still had a 50% success rate in asking out men. With the other 50% including men already in relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 03:24 PM
3	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? Not really, the men getting plenty of casual sex, or are looking for casual sex, aren’t your average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 10:20 AM
3	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? I don’t know how to say “You’re not normal” without it coming across as douchey. I don’t mean it in a bad way, she’s just not what comes to mind when you think average normal women, being perceived as “different from normal” will turn off men, which was the point I’m trying to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 09:24 AM
1	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? Your post suggests you’ve only recently went back to dark brown hair after having it pink for possibly over a year. There’s also nothing shallow about not wanting to date an alt girl, in the same way most men don’t want to date emo girls. It’s a culture that they may not be able to interact well with. My bad on the BPD, they’re two very different things, I retract my statement about that. I don’t understand why you’ve snapped at me for saying something wrong, if I’ve made a mistake just say I ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 09:18 AM
5	to what extend do women break rules for alphas? It’s about pretending to be, which is the same difference. “Fake it till you make it” comes to mind. If you want to be confident, you have to start pretending you’re confident until you eventually are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 08:35 AM
3	Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you? When we say men’s standards are low, we mean most men are happy with a generic kind average women. Your profile suggests your an alt girl with pink hair and bi-polar disorder, I wouldn’t call you a normal woman personally. These three things alone will turn off a lot of men, which is good for you as it means it’s easier to find a guy you’ll be happier with in the long term, but it does mean you’ll be getting rejected more than usual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 08:30 AM
8	Women aren't wrong or shallow for wanting a tall partner Height has no meaning beyond being tall or short. Doesn’t tell you who they are, what they’re like, what actions they’re willing to take, how charismatic they are, how secure they are, how much work they’re willing to put in, their diet, their morals, their ethics, etc. It’s literally just the difference between a few inches of bone, any person willing to disregard an entire person for something like a few inches of bone difference is shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/21 08:31 AM
1	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? This. Being over 30 didn’t change anything, HVM pump and dump, regardless of age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 03:26 PM
8	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It’s about as validating as getting likes on reddit. The next day everything is exactly the same as the day before, getting your dick wet for one night doesn’t change anything, it just continues what you’re already feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:17 PM
1	Is there something wrong with fat girls? Yawn dude, Use a bit of common sense will you. Obviously I didn’t literally mean “all men”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 08:40 AM
6	Is there something wrong with fat girls? Being skinny and eating fast food is still healthier than being obese and eating fast food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 02:04 PM
1	Is there something wrong with fat girls? Obese women are a minority, meaning a minority of men are dating and marrying them. To add to this, many women become obese only after marriage, so men who wouldn’t have dated an obese women are now married to an obese women a several years of marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 11:35 AM
3	Is there something wrong with fat girls? Men date overweight women. It’s obese women they avoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 01:21 AM
1	Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex. Is there even that many people here? There was a thread on PPD the other day about how men and women can’t be friends, and almost every single comment basically boiled down to “No you’re wrong”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/21 02:17 PM
1	Being tall doesn't automatically mean hot. So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive. What would you rate Tom Cruise out of 10?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 05:37 PM
4	Being tall doesn't automatically mean hot. So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive. most women would be more attractive with bigger breasts That’s your subjective viewpoint. There’s hundreds of thousands of men who’d prefer smaller tits, for example NSFW /r/tinytits NSFW and the likes	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 01:27 PM
7	Being tall doesn't automatically mean hot. So many men think women have unrealistic look standards for men because they don't know what women find attractive. There is no equivalent. No matter what traits you pick from a woman and try to compare man’s height, you’ll find countless men who just don’t care as long as it’s not too extreme on either end. Either you’ll find countless men who don’t care about the trait, or the trait in question is changeable (such as weight).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 01:22 PM
7	Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships? Being attracted to a woman doesn’t mean you’re down to dating and fucking them. You can find other people attractive and be monogamous at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 01:06 PM
1	Unpopular opinion: Many mothers give horrible dating advice to their sons You’ll end up in a /r/niceguys situation where men who know how to tease and flirt with women will get the women while the guy trying to be nice and respectful isn’t exciting or fun enough to date. You’ve have better luck getting with women by being an annoying tease than you would being a nice guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 01:40 AM
20	This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like? LVW’s are usually just obese women with nothing going for them. That’s about it. What is there to talk about? 90% of LVW could lose weight and suddenly jump up to 6/10, that’s all it would take. It’s not as interesting to talk about when compared to LVM, who could seem to have their whole lives under control, but still fail to attract women due to controversial topics that seem to get red pilled men, FDS, etc hamster balls rolling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 04:08 PM
1	What double standard between men and women should exist? If some heavy physical labour is needed, I’m going to choose the average man to do the job over the average woman every day. For the fact that he’s a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 03:34 PM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? “Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how”. I’m answering the question, for some people, getting fit and healthy didn’t change a thing. Why is this so hard for you to understand and accept? I use a 5’4 Indian dude as an example because no matter how fit and healthy this concept of a man may try to be, he’s still competing with your average 5’10 white guy in almost all aspects of his life, in a world where 95% of women straight up admit they wouldn’t date a 5’4 man under an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 09:48 AM
0	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? That’s like asking “Would you rather date a man who own a car, or a man who doesn’t own a car”, then seeing 90% of women like men with cars, then using that as proof that they’ll date a 5’4 Indian man because he owns a car. That’s not how any of this works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 09:30 AM
0	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Whatever you say Mr. 6’3 white guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 09:11 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Muscles doesn’t make an ugly short guy sexy. Men respect muscles because they want muscles themselves and know how much hard work is required to obtain it. So of course they’re going to compliment a man with it. They’re not saying “Wow Pajeet, you’re sexy”, they’re saying “Nice muscles, I can see the hard work you’ve been doing”. Women just don’t give a shit unless an average/attractive guy has them. I don’t think there’s any women begging to date the 5’4 Indian man because he has muscles. What …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 08:54 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? What’s your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 07:17 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? No shit Sherlock	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 12:48 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? I was mainly focused on the guy you originally replied too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 12:25 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Of course, but we’re talking about putting on muscle. With the assumption we’re already at a healthy BMI, no weight to lose if you’re not overweight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 11:02 PM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Over 6’1 and white, understandable have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/21 09:53 AM
1	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Wait until I’m over 30 years old so my dating pool has expanded to the point I have a good chance of meeting someone who’s into me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 10:58 PM
7	When it comes to dating, your personality and income also matter, not just your looks. Exactly. The guy you replied to literally says “being fit doesn’t mean you’re good looking” as a reply to Lillth’s “how they’re super fit and get keep only attracting fat women”. Then you started talking about the average man. Being fit, by itself, doesn’t make you attractive. He is 100% correct in his statement, wether or not the average guy can become attractive by being fit isn’t what he was trying to tell OP. He’s trying to say the reason these super fit men are getting attention from only f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 04:23 PM
1	Why are seemingly all women bi? Then my sisters dogs are taking turns and raping each other for dominance every few weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 10:52 AM
9	When it comes to dating, your personality and income also matter, not just your looks. if you take the average guy You’ve missed the point, the guys who are Fit and are saying how they’re not getting any attention are not or ever were average guys. Muscles are a multiplier to your overall current attractiveness, if you’re already short, brown, and ugly, muscles aren’t going to help all that much in comparison to a 5’10 white average dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 10:49 AM
0	Did improving your looks change your dating/life and if so, how? Sex, height, and race? I’m in his position, always skinny, went gym, put on gains, got good shirts/jeans that fit, and nothing is different. In terms of dating, literally nothing changed. My male friends compliment my physique but that’s all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 10:40 AM
0	If sex is inherently harmful for women, why would they continue to want to have casual sex? STD’s and Starfish. They’re very rarely going to experience sexual violence. And basically never experience pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 10:19 AM
0	[Q4ALL] Are single father households as dysfunctional as single mother households? “Dads who ask for custody” Only if the mum DOESN’T want the kid. Which is very rarely the case. If both the mum and the dad wants custody of the kid, it’ll go to trial, only to be given to the mum anyway assuming they’re both equally as fit to raise the child. Knowing this, dad’s aren’t going to waste thousands on legal fees just to fight and ultimately fail, If the mum didn’t want the kid, she would have gotten an abortion, meaning there is no child to give to the dad. Whereas if the dad didn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 01:39 PM
1	Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars. I don’t think anybody has claimed single men get more sex, who have you been talking to? The general census is half of married men years into the marriage eventually get to a point years where they stop having sex, usually followed by a divorce shortly afterwards. The other half? Probably doing fine. Thanks for the source though, that massive jump from 18-24 to 24-34 is staggering to say the least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 01:12 PM
2	Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars. ”most men, over 50%, got weekly sex” Source? Even literal chads I know don’t even get weekly sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 12:42 PM
1	Why are seemingly all women bi? That’s just something people used to say to explain away why male mammals fucked each other so they didn’t need to accept that bisexual actual exists in humans as well. “Being bisexual isn’t normal and doesn’t exist” give them a billion results of it happening in the wild “They’re just dominating each other sweetie, they’re not actually bisexual lol 😂”	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 09:46 AM
0	Why are seemingly all women bi? Maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 12:34 AM
-1	Why are seemingly all women bi? Almost every mammal in the animal kingdom fuck their own sex, you rarely ever see a “straight” mammal. Just look at dogs, put two Male dogs in a room and given enough time they’ll start fucking each other. We, as straight men, were never brought up in an atmosphere where being “gay” or “bi” was ever seen as normal or appropriate. Comparatively, the ancient Greeks did, and we know a large amount of them was pretty bi due to growing up on a culture where it was normal to be bi. So we never really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 09:56 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I’ve been saying this for years, most women want women in media to be sexy, they want to relate to the sexy but also strong woman. The only time this isn’t true is when you got overweight/obese women complaining about “unrealistic beauty standards” or something like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 05:36 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Because she’s not actually happy and was just told to smile for the picture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 05:33 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Women like muscles, just not on a random dude in the middle of the street they’ve never met before. If they met a guy at a party after the guy walked up to her, then she’ll see the muscles and think “he’s (more attractive than he would have been without muscles)”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 05:27 PM
–	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Are they? He’s just a guy, who is also muscular. Why would they peek? I can promise you, as a guy with muscles, women do not care if a random guy has muscles. Which is the entire point of the comic. Yes, women do like muscles, but they like it on attractive men or men they want to date/sleep with. They do not care for muscles on a random dude in the middle of the street. Nor will women flock for a dude who happens to have muscles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 05:24 PM
2	The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL). Or you could look like a frat collage fuckboy, there’s 1000’s of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 07:12 PM
7	CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend Chad Confirmation bias, you never spot the ones who hide the fact they’re desperate. At the same time, you’ll think “he’s desperate” when they never were desperate. Since you can neither confirm or deny if they’re desperate or not, you just assume you’re right about the fact. People like to think they can read people like a book, but at the same time you could slap them in the face with red flags and they’d think it was green.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 07:27 PM
21	CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend Chad For every man you spot and go “he’s desperate”, there’s plenty of men who are desperate you don’t spot. The opposite is also true, for every non desperate man who may also be socially awkward, you’ll label him as desperate despite the possibility he may not be. But because we can’t confirm or deny wether or not they’re actually desperate or not, you just assume you have 100% accuracy on spotting desperate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 05:14 PM
24	CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend Chad Women will naturally like you because you aren’t desperate Yawn, this meme needs to be put to bed already. Women don’t magically understand your inner thoughts to figure out if you’re desperate or not. Go gym, get gains, get hobbies, get interesting, be attractive and charismatic, but wether or not you care about getting women will not change how much women will want you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 04:59 PM
3	IS there any women who's able to debate in good faith Half/half, some women I’ve had good debates with, but I hardly ever remember them. The bad ones however stick out like a sore thumb and are hard to forget. “1/3 men have been sexless the past year”, “it’s became men are disgusting man babies who cry everyday”. No that’s not a debate	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 01:26 PM
24	The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL). That’s like saying there’s no such thing as an highly attractive man...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 05:00 PM
7	What are your standards? Almost required: - Between 19-29 years old. - Not obese (overweight is still fine). - Kind. - Loyal. - Doesn’t smoke. - Doesn’t do drugs. - Only drinks alcohol on special occasions or nights out. Preferences: - Partakes in an active hobby, climbing, gym, dance, etc. - Wants to spend time outside in the sun rather than indoors. - Wants pets. - Cutish face. - Healthy BMI. - Low N Count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 03:37 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Currently in 2021 and the next 15 years? Yes it is mostly overblown for now. When I did automation, sure it stopped the workers from doing that specific job, but you can argue that they can now focus on different jobs, and/or the automation helped expand the amount of work they created, and thus they hire more people to do the jobs that can’t be automated yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 04:32 PM
3	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. I’d say a good 70% of men will say the exact same thing I said about online dating, almost every single man I know hates it and has the same problems, but still use it because it’s better than nothing. Obviously, exactly 0 of them are going to talk to women about that or why they hate it. The men you’re claiming aren’t whiny and jealous, are obviously not whiny and jealous in your eyes, because they’ll never in a million years rant about about dating issues to you, ever. Why would they? Just tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 04:11 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Come on, now your just spouting nonsense, self driving cars have sooo many failsafes in place that they’re not crashing into anything, they’re safer than humans I’ll tell you that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 03:21 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread !remindme 10 years	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 03:19 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread No? Self driving cars weren’t on the verge 10 years ago. They only became relevant a good 5-6 years ago at most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 03:16 PM
5	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. Literally nothing you’ve said disproves anything I’ve said, you’re not debating me, you’re attacking and insulting. Yes, online dating doesn’t work, I agree, you agree, so why are you going on a tangent about how men are bad? Why don’t you just say “Yes, online dating is bad, we need to get off it and meet people in real life”. Instead you’re going “Men are such whiners and lazy and big babies if it doesn’t work stop moaning and fix your problems!!!” You’re just describing how you personally vie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 03:12 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Does it matter? If they can reduce the amount of lorry drivers they need by 95%, they’re saving a fuck ton of money. Even 1 lorry company with 200 employees could save $5.4million or even more per year. For the costs of the odd few trucks getting stuck every other week that’s a great deal. If something goes wrong or breaks down, they’ll just get someone to drive to the truck and drive it the rest of the way. Anything if it means saving millions upon millions of dollars per year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 03:06 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Cameras keeping cars in lane isn’t auto driving... that’s just cruise control. Why are you comparing fully automated driving with 0 restrictions, to a lorry going from point A to point B everyday that spends 95% of it’s driving time on the motorway? You don’t need a fully automated self driving system in place to get a truck to go from A to B.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 02:49 PM
5	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. And? The biggest issue is men whining 12 year olds women dating children What?!?!? You said I was looking at only attractive women, I said I wasn’t. Now you’re saying men are 12 year olds acting like children, we wasn’t even talking about that, how would women even know the man on dating apps are mentally 12. Where did any of this even come from?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 02:12 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Again, what are you talking about. We were NEVER on the verge 50 years ago, self driving cars wasn’t even a thing to discuss. We wasn’t on the verge 20 years ago, self driving cars still didn’t exist and the technology wasn’t capable of anything like that. We’re on the verge NOW, because trucks are already self driving from point A to point B without issues. The only thing we need to do is clean up the inconsistencies and they’re good to go, companies are investing in self driving lorries as we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:56 PM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Sorry, not saying that as I can get doxxed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:37 PM
7	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. 30% of men aren’t getting laid and that percentage is only increasing. 40% of all relationships are started in online dating. The remaining average men meet their partners through friends of friends or through hobbies. I’ve never once denied that average men can’t get dates. I’m saying average men can’t get dates through online dating. only looking at attractive women You can literally make a profile with an obese women who’s photoshopped to look like a pig and still get 5+ messages a day. It’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:35 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread It feels like we’re missing a major part of the story. At times it felt like Meghan exaggerated such mundane situations and made them sound like hell. For example, she complained about how she had to curtsy when the queen appeared. What next, are men going to complain when they have to bow?!? Or how she had to attend royal stuff as a princess and do royal activities. Of course you do, you’re a princess now. When she says stuff like that, it’s put a massive ? over my head, how much is exaggerated…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:28 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread We’ve been in a lockdown for basically a whole year now over an illness that kills obese and/or old people. People are getting sick, tired, and crazy of being stuck in the house for a whole year. Honestly, I’m half with them myself. Vaccines are coming out now and restrictions are starting to open, so it’ll be over soon. But the people over on that subreddit believe they’ll just claim “oh no, the vaccine didn’t work now we have to lockdown again!”, those people are the real crazies. If everyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:23 PM
7	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Truck drivers are literally on the verge of losing their jobs in the next 10 years what are you on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:09 PM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Damn, I’m being called out. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter, If I’m not the one automating stuff, somebody else is. The dream of the man being the financially dependant one in the family is over and it will never return. It’s a relic of the past that can no longer be applied in the modern world anymore. Eventually everything will be automated and the unemployment rate is going to skyrocket. We need a completely different system in place that supports UBI (Universal Basic Income). This wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 01:09 PM
6	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. WOMEN’S FAULT I never blamed women, actually I specifically said below because men are so desperate for an ounce of attention from these apps that they’ll swipe right on practically anything. Aka men are also at fault, if men became more picky things would be drastically different, it’s both men and women’s fault. So stop putting words in my mouth and trying to claim I said something I didn’t say. it wasn’t the main thing to look at, it was the picture Tinder isn’t the only dating app, it doesn’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 12:59 PM
8	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. based almost purely on appearance No way to show your personality But, you’re wrong, you’re not getting a front pic, left pic, right pic of a persons face, see their height, and then swiping left/right based on that information alone. There’s an entire biography area to write down who you are, aka you’re a sarcastic person with a carefree life, or that you’re a bubbly happy person looking for a lifelong friend or some snappy funny comment to go with it. With Most apps there’s an section area to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 12:07 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread The story about how I became rich Be born rich	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 03:29 PM
15	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? But that wasn’t the question. The question wasn’t “would you date a tall handsome man with a high n count, or a short ugly man who’s a virgin”, the question was “would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable”. Aka “Would you choose a tall attractive High N-Count man, or a tall attractive Low N-Count man?”. That’s the issue with questions like these.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 12:53 AM