Daily Community Chat Megathread

wekacuck · 2021-08-04T08:42:30+00:00

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ErrendeEbecee · 2021-08-04T05:56:13+00:00

Today, on NAWALT...

Ambassadior · 2021-08-04T03:59:37+00:00

MGTOW and MGTOW2 was just banned completely.

Meanwhile here's some great non banned subs

r/NSFL__

r/Femaledatingstrategy

and more!

thatguyfromrichmond · 2021-08-04T03:48:03+00:00

perma banned from againsthatesubs for saying fds should be banned next on the post about mgtow, no female bias at all on reddit guys BTW

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-08-04T03:31:14+00:00

I just read that frequent or excessive masturbation increases the estrogen receptors in the brain. Not quite sure what that means right now but it doesn't sound very good as far as men and testosterone are concerned.

hardstruck · 2021-08-04T02:26:23+00:00

Apparently posters of the incest porn subreddit r/fatherdaughter are 30.99 times more likely than the average redditor to post in r/femaledatingstrategy. Looks like some of you girls forgot to switch to your alt accounts.

https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/fatherdaughter

nemporisso · 2021-08-04T01:45:07+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/oxdox0/the_fact_that_western_society_is_more_sex/

This thread makes me angry, honestly. Sad and angry. Had to stop reading when someone called the poster a creep.

Mustbeaight · 2021-08-04T01:13:17+00:00

Who would’ve thought that the left is closer to nazism than the alt right. The alt right is all talk . Liberals are actually employing Nazi tactics

2021-08-04T00:44:56+00:00

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Allblackallamerican · 2021-08-04T00:00:14+00:00

Just the Two of Us sounds elegant in Dolby Atmos 😎

LeadInfusedRedPill · 2021-08-03T23:45:29+00:00

Just finished BoJack Horseman, great show. I can see a lot of myself in Bojack and the poor decisions he made, and that's terrifying.

Any recs for similar shows?

poppy_blu · 2021-08-03T23:43:26+00:00

When i was a kid I remember that the “how we met” story by your parents was the cringeworthy moment where you rolled your eyes as they talked about going to the prom, or meeting a picnic or work or Sunday school, etc. But you had to admit it was kinda sweet. my parents were progressive academic types so they loved to tell their story of meeting at political rally.

Meaning — our parents stories were tame.

What will millennials/zoomers tell their kids about how they met? “I swiped on tinder and we Netflixed and chilled for a couple of months until I got knocked up and we decided to get married.” “He was my sugar daddy and left his wife and your step siblings for me — it was meant to be.”

I guess this is a conversation the children of tomorrow will never hear.

jax006 · 2021-08-03T23:43:17+00:00

Really in the mood to go hang out downtown and try to find a girl to approach, but I don't have an ID at the moment, so might have to try and do it sober 😬 probs about to go to jail

Murphysmongoose · 2021-08-03T23:32:17+00:00

I see women on my friend's list pop up and I'm like, "Damn, who is that?! Why didn't I hit her up, or try for that?!"

Then I scroll over her profile. Memes of setting guy's stuff on fire, not so passive aggressive jabs at ex's that often read oddly specific, post about loving people not making them love you/not deserve the love you gave, "Everything is glorious, I love the Universe so much RN," "Sometimes self help IS just telling someone to fuck off!!!" "Let's get together and plant flowers over the bodies of our ex's💖"

Yeah, I'm good, I made the right decision.

Edit: Forgot to add multiple versions of memes about mental/emotional breakdowns mixed in with apparent real life meltdowns and random cussing at people I'm assuming know who they are.

GridReXX · 2021-08-03T22:45:45+00:00

Ive seen some guys talk about how degenerate gay men are “all they do is fuck and they have all the STDs” which sure gay men fuck more and have higher std rates than hetero sex havers.

But it’s the same guys wishing women had freer and more sex saying this stuff. In fact growing up it was the same guys who everyone knew had multiple STD diagnoses saying this stuff.

Never understood men like that puritanically looking down on gay men but the only reason they aren’t shriveled up husks of syphilis is because some woman forced them to get a check up or because women bottleneck his compulsion for raw sex with randoms.

You don’t get “non degenerate” points if the only reason you’re slowed down is lack of hetero options.

Independent-Eye-8945 · 2021-08-03T21:56:03+00:00

This quote is a pretty accurate description of how it feels to engage, in good faith, with BP-ers on here:

“Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.”

― Jean-Paul Sartre

Ladyofblades · 2021-08-03T21:26:33+00:00

What is the denial some guys have of advanced paternal age effect (old guys causing genetic diseases if they have kids)? The proof is there, women haven’t complained about how age affects fertility but these dudes just want to pretend it isn’t a thing for men

angels-fan · 2021-08-03T21:16:14+00:00

Q4Feminists: How do you square making fun of "man flu" while at the same time saying toxic masculinity is terrible because men don't go to the doctor?

thatguyfromrichmond · 2021-08-03T20:34:38+00:00

My little brother is getting fat as fuck and he’s too lazy to exercise. Idk if I should try to expose him to reality that he won’t get any girls being short and over weight or let him find out on his own

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-08-03T19:58:55+00:00

It's so crazy to me that in this day and age that because of women working more than they did in the past and being more career-oriented the men they date those men's financial standards have to go up, cool fine, and women's sexual pleasure has to be more of a priority than it was , awesome lot of dudes out there who love pleasing women.

I just find it comical that on the flip side, if a guy is into a certain kind of porn and wants to do those things with his girl, all of a sudden we have to have these talks about the "damaging effects of porn" , "it hurts and degrades wahmen" blah blah, it's just hilarious how those other societal standards are allowed to go up, but porn possibly makes women have to raise their sexual game and it's a problem🤣

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-08-03T19:51:10+00:00

Why do women think hooking up is a date? Is it just because they want it to be? They want to think that their having sex was a covert contract to locking down someone for a little while?

Unless you establish that it's a traditional date, its not a date and you're just a temporary casual sex partner or nobody.

Being_and_Crime · 2021-08-03T19:44:58+00:00

Considering that we get absolutely nothing that interests us from it, why should men support feminism? In fact, considering that all ever comes of it from a man's perspective is our material interests being made harder to fulfill (finding ourselves on the losing side of discriminatory admissions and hiring practices), what we enjoy being made worse (see feminist involvement in any male-oriented hobby interest or entertainment) or society just growing generally more suffocating (see any of the million neurotic complaints of feminists), why shouldn't men see feminism only as a source of opposition to be overcome, or even a hated ideological foe to be fought and struggled against?

HighValueMoidxD · 2021-08-03T19:25:16+00:00

My amazon shipment arrived prematurely... and it still shows as in shipment? Due in a couple of days. Guess I got one for free. If it at least was something useful :(

Fleischpeitsch · 2021-08-03T18:53:54+00:00

Why do TRPers get everything backwards?

"being a slut ruins your pair bonding mechanisms" - why does it never occur to them that having a ruined pair bonding mechanism leads to a higher n-count and not the other way around?

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-08-03T18:35:20+00:00

Every time I come back to my home state (Oregon), for the first couple of days I'm all like " I should move back here", and then I'm reminded the people here are quirky as fuck (not in a charming way) and I realize that's never going to happen.

Oh well, it's fun to visit at least...

pinky_tip · 2021-08-03T18:29:29+00:00

I've had zero balance last year nowadays, got kicked out of apartment, gf broke up, now i am thinking if i should buy Mercedes or Audi.

I wouldn't be able get on my feet better than ever if i didn't get fired from old work.

Life is strange.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-08-03T18:26:05+00:00

Todays work out pump up song

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-03T18:15:04+00:00

Sex selection will result in a deficit of millions of girls worldwide. This is one problem that is very much caused by men.

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2021-08-03T17:55:19+00:00

I'm surprised brave new world isn't talked about or referenced here really. Huxley tries to paint a world where sexual relations are free from birth and having to raise children.

The result, soft harems form and women only break away from Chad due to societal pressure to give lower men a turn, to keep them from flipping out. Whether you believe in Huxley's view or not it is still an interesting picture to debate.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-08-03T17:50:26+00:00

Your daily dose of Ricardo Milos This is what a Chad looks like.

PickleLine · 2021-08-03T17:50:25+00:00

Imagine being a poor woman. Life as a woman is so easy. How can any woman possibly be poor?

All a woman has to do is:

Don't be fat
Don't be ghetto
Don't be a slut and ruin your pair bonding ability

It's easy mode for any woman, poor to rich, to marry a UMC man who the woman also actually likes and rise out of poverty, as long as she doesn't ruin her pair bonding ability by being a slut.

Squiddy-the-wise · 2021-08-03T17:23:48+00:00

And the mgtow subs are gone.. Reddit is basically Facebook at this point.

The whole fun of Reddit was that it was Anonymous and uncensored. So you know what people really thought

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-08-03T09:54:04+00:00

There was never this golden era were average and below average men were getting casual or “free” pussy on an even close to consistent basis. It was always never in life or a literal handful of times in their 75 years on the planet. Casual sex on a consistent basis was always for hot guys, high status guys, dudes who hit on everything that moved and would fuck dusty trash look chicks, and like the lifelong club/bar rats(and most of those girls they were bringing back home were trash).

In regards to my “trash” comment I elaborate. It’s a TV show but I like using it for an example. Remember Jersey shore? 95% of the girls the Vinny Sitch Pauly brought back to the house were GARBAGE lol, I remember the term they used was “grenades”😆. Like there might have been 3 cute girls in the history of that show they brought home who were above a 7. But that’s casual sex in general.

Here’s how the typical sex life of the average man always went, we will call him Kevin and it’s 1986. Kevin is 50 years old and had 7 sexual partners in his life. 3 GFs, one wife, and had 3 instances of “hookups”. These were cases of casual sex.

1 summer fling with one girl over the course of a month, 4 or 5 times.

2 drunken one night stands in college

Thats literally it. That is the entire extent of Kevin’s causal sex experience, and that was over the course of about a year and a half of his 50 years on the planet. All the other sex he had was in a relationship

GridReXX · 2021-08-03T15:54:18+00:00

There’s a lot of talk that “men are going to drop out and stop being productive because they can’t have sex.”

Maybe. Probably inevitably for some.

But I haven’t noticed it as much. Those men still like their creature comforts and will work for it.

What I’ve actually noticed more living in Seattle is that men and women are “dropping out” because capitalism is crushing them.

The tent ⛺️ communities have increased dramatically in size. It’s not just “homeless men.” It’s entire transient families with their healthy dogs and sort of dirty but seemingly joyful shoeless toddlers.

Ppl keep asking “why is this happening” but it makes a lot of sense to me.

gunbusterxl · 2021-08-03T11:19:04+00:00

The amount of people on this sub confusing respect for common courtesy is ridiculous. Words mean things. Especially a word as controversial as respect. Don't say you want to be respected if what you really mean is just basic decency.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-08-03T11:48:39+00:00

I hate having a baby face.

I noticed that the issue isn't me being ugly. In hindsight I've had women attracted to me and still do

The only issue? The women most attracted to me are 14-16 year old girls. I'm 19.

Oh well, I guess I can take some solace in the fact that it's not 'cuz I'm hideous

2021-08-03T09:06:47+00:00

Hello

jax006 · 2021-08-03T09:07:32+00:00

Anyone here into bouldering? How do I prevent my hand from getting ripped open? Are gloves worth it?

poppy_blu · 2021-08-03T16:41:04+00:00

What’s the controversial/triggering statement on PPD?

young women don’t prefer old men and want to date men their own age
average men are doing fine statistically.

Others?

GridReXX · 2021-08-03T17:10:00+00:00

I’ve seen this topic come up IRL recently and it’s been contentious between the women having the convo.

Essentially one group of my female peers/family members thinks they should be working a job bringing home the bacon through pregnancy and thinks it shows mental fortitude and toughness.
The other group would much rather have the most stress-free pregnancies ever and prefer not to work any intense or stressful jobs while pregnant and for up to 18 months post pregnancy. They think the women in the first group are insane “pick mes” who were unfortunate enough not to have a partner who would ensure her stress levels while creating a child were well managed.

I honestly think the first group wants the same as the second group but are coping by reframing the narrative.

I’m already super lazy. I know for a fact pregnant me is not going to want to do anything other than yoga and light walks and nesting activities.

detective_do_most · 2021-08-03T10:33:05+00:00

Q4M that lift: How long have you been lifting and drop your stats (don’t forget to include bw).

I am curious to see who the real Chads of PPD are

AtaCome7821 · 2021-08-03T11:17:55+00:00

Jesus Christ, how the fuck do they think of this shit? I'm dead 😂🤣🤣

passepar2t · 2021-08-03T13:56:40+00:00

So many attractive women PR types.

I get a contact or friend request on social media, it's an attractive woman, I check her out, yep, she's a PR girl for some rando company.

Why don't attractive women want to be my social media contacts for reasons other than my journalism? :(

redditthrowaway1478 · 2021-08-03T15:40:18+00:00

This is a popular one. We have come to a moment in history where 9ur society simultaneously holds contradictory dating expectations for men and women alike!

So whatcha think - was women's liberation good for men and women in dating?

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/owsldt/a_friends_tinder_experience_whos_in_the_wrong_here/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

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dhuddheey · 2021-08-03T09:12:45+00:00

“The Patriarchy” as it stands has overwhelmingly benefited women, feminism is just an attempt by women to be able to have their cake and eat it too, hence the negative response towards it by men across the world. Feminism past the 3rd wave was never about equal rights, rather it is about the subversion of men with the ultimate goal being their domination.

Women will never be able to physically dominate men, so instead the rely on male accomplices known as “allies” who support the feminist cause through subversion and strictly for the possibility of being thrown some stray pussy. These men are traitors, and should be shamed when possible, but they’ve managed to secure positions of power, and while there are men that are anti-feminist at heart in power, these men are often inscrutable characters whose allegiance flows with the wind, so they are unreliable and will often betray men at large for personal gain. As such we must take a grass roots approach and resist the feminist agenda where possible. Read the rational male, lift weights, and prize your masculinity above all else.

You are a MAN first and foremost never forget that. Do not fall for their attempts to feminize you and normalize effeminate behavior in men via propaganda, they’re trying to strip you of your masculinity, the source of your power. The nail painting, the wearing of dresses, the adoption of non-binary pronouns, all attempts to strip you of your masculinity. Notice that these types are overwhelmingly concentrated in the entertainment field, but are almost nonexistent in all others. It’s all a ploy, Americans spend vast amounts of time consuming media, as such the medium through which they spread the feminization propaganda is pop-media. Support men that release masculine comics, novels, and shows. Support masculine creators. We haven’t reached the turning point yet, there is still time to save the concept of masculinity from the 3rd wave feminist menace, you just have to step up and do your part.

Be a man.

QuestionablePresenc3 · 2021-08-03T11:23:15+00:00

What are some good places to read up on nutrition, healthy eating, meal planning and meal prep - that sort of thing? I'm planning to improve that aspect of my life and I would appreciate some help.

Throughawayman80808 · 2021-08-03T13:59:21+00:00

Why do people unironically try to defend double texting lol. Like, if you need to double text chances are the relationship isn't gonna work out.

ijustwannabeagoat · 2021-08-03T16:56:00+00:00

Watched a movie called The Double today. Anyone else seen it?

It’s like a cross between Fight Club and the Joker. I found it unnervingly relatable and I imagine it will be too for any lonely, socially awkward guys out here.

rivetcitymayor · 2021-08-03T16:57:51+00:00

Do you think shorter guys should go for the lean athletic physique or the bulky physique ?

passepar2t · 2021-08-03T17:02:18+00:00

What's the most neckbeardy shit you've gotten away with in front of a girl you were seeing?

I used to play D&D with my New York friends and they tried to accommodate me after I went to SE Asia for 1.5 years. I had to wake up in the middle of the night and Skype them to participate though.

Once, I had a girl over, whom I had been seeing for a few weeks. After we had sex and cuddled and she drifted in and out of sleep on my bed, I got on my laptop and pretended to be a fantasy cleric in the same room.

Somehow, this didn't cause her to lose attraction for me.

xQueen-Bx · 2021-08-03T10:31:54+00:00

If you think old fat women can't get muscle-bound Chads well here's your wakeup call

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