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ScienceGoodthingstartssmall/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:14 AM
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Such a good point. Will probably get ignored or some half baked "yeah also bad" with immediate back roll into victim olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:16 PM
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It's just Like feminism orders men to change their behaviour. They demand active effort and proactive thinking of how ease women's life. They have to change the side of the street. They have to actively let women talk regardless of nuance, call other men out when something is even to the most miniscule extend sexist etc. They Just give the same energy back. Or rather they grew up that feminism is about equality and also benefits men, so they are damn in their right to demand the same active and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:07 PM
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You can't be serious with that statement oh my f*** good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:49 PM
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Are you not understanding my point? Everything you just wrote isn't gendered at all. Then overweight women can date overweight men if they have some sort of self awareness or they can try to approach fit men but have to endure the rejection like an adult without crying. So before you assume the moral highground and talk high about "goodness" then women and feminists are not only lacking "goodness" but many of them simply lack the intelligence to see their double standard and hypocritical mindfra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:41 AM
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Yes they are beating around the bush by not directly telling it in their face to have plausible deniability. But all Kinds of inner beauty rhetoric, the constant shifting of being overweight into "average", the constant pointing out of sob stories of girls starving because they want to fit the "unreachable Beauty Standards" etc. Add in the "you wanna be the good guys don't you?" shaming language and the points are connecting itself. And rejecting fat girls was treated like not having respect. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:25 PM
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The only difference is that the bad actors among Women are tightly kept on an individual level while the bad actors among men are artificially broadened to some societal level problem. That has leading us to some abonimations like "all men" or "Not all men but always a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:15 PM
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They have disdain for men because every human these days grows up hearing and reading everywhere how bad, evil, lazy, dump, childish, toxic, shallow men are. You will be hard pressed to find any positive description of men as a whole that is discussed in public. When men have expectations towards women than it's immediately twisted in the most negative way so men better don't burden women with it. Anything remotely positive about is if at all talked about individual men. On the other side the pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:48 AM
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Men's standards still took a great spot in this manner. From shared "sad" stories about a girl trying to lose weight, to infiltrating media that is mainly consumed by boys and men to all these inner beauty lections. I consumed many feminist media during my school years and trying to change boys preferences through exposure to less attractive women was and probably still a big thing. In the other side of the coin. Boys joining Gym, abusing steroids due to Body dismorphia, breaking their jaws etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:50 PM
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It's a strawman because you we're talking about a womans worth in Dating and how men somehow underestimate it and now suddenly you come up with that? At this point this is just another dating and women standards thread but i explain for you. When women say they want an educated man it's usually someone with a above average career. To expand on this when women say they want a supporting partner who pulls his weight around the house it's true meaning is that she onesidedely sets up every rule in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:30 PM
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You get criticized Here in Reddit or some YouTube comment section. Men get criticized by articles, by news, by mainstream formats, teachers whatever. In top of YouTube comments and Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:15 AM
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All this inner beauty lections in Cartoons and other Kids Shows. Feminist teachers who have many chances to talk about stuff like this. Articles and talking points in various discussions for example gaming subjects. Phrases like "real men Like curves and only dogs love Bones". And everything regarding body positivity and fat acceptance. Just by living life in the west you are regularly exposed to this and grow Up with it in your most formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:32 PM
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Was it discriminatory for men to prefer normal weight women, slim women, fit women, not combative women, supporting women? You don't have to answer because they answer is yes. Hordes of feminists carefully constructed artificial terms like male gaze, the ominious "unreachable" beauty standards. All this talk how boys preferences are informed and shape by exposure and all this guilt shaming and forced exposure to less attractive women or these "brave" ugly women that are celebrated for deconstruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:42 PM
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And these days an fit guy with normal face and otherwise Just a decent person is just an average guy with some muscles. According to feminists and women his level is some overweight woman with otherwise the same description. They Momenta Woman is remotely within reach of being fit she is already considered above average and attractive. Also feminists are indirectly force young boys ti have lower standards. So when this stopps then we can talk about guys stopping demanding the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:25 PM
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That's just a strawman. So no arguements for this double standard? That men's preferences are sxstemstically lowered while women's are artificially increased and even encouraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:44 AM
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If this is your underlying believe that shapes your view so be it. But thats not the point. The point is the generalization and the public acceptance to view men as inherently bad WHILE feminists are fighting tooth and nails against it when it's done to women. Everything bad against men is generalized and the positive is individualized while for women it's the reverse. Women are great and the negative ones are only individual ones. Also another missconception. Assertiveness isn't predetory and "…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:47 PM
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Artificial advantages through the complete educational and early career pipeline and now just drooling in the feeling of superiority. And you tell me thats not over inflated egos on the female side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:19 PM
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Funny when the dating market we're more even 30 years ago but somehow it was bad and a huge social conditioning started to lower boys standards and increase the acceptance of average and below average women to be more seen as attractive. Everything in this regard that is said now including this post is just comedy and isn't worth anything because it's all artificial and manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:51 PM
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You are missing the point. Men are upset about this not because they might are at fault or something like that. They are upset because this kind of rhetoric is further reinforces the narrative that points men and masculinity as a whole in an extremely negative light. Especially that blatant hypocrisy when feminists can't shut up themselves when men are generalizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:07 AM
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We should consider the damage done to someone. So the what is the damage done If a woman is falsely accuse? Only feelings. So yeah let him pay the test. If some of these punishments from the other thread are implemented so what should we do? Also nothing because paternity fraud is clear cut what it's proofability is concerned. If a woman knows she didn't cheat then she has nothing to fear from false accusations and there is no damage. I know what you did there and it's failed miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:26 PM
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Simply because body positivity and managing of male preferences exists makes your point highly hypocritical. We should just reverse body positivity with similar messeages towards girls and women. Since nobody had any problems with it when boys got targeted nobody should have problems when we even the odds yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:32 PM
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What an overly idealistic and unrealistic answer. You seem to operate under the assumption that women are perfect communicators not affected by shyness never nervous having the same standard of what is enthusiastic. Reality is, most women are pretty bad and outright miserable in communicating consent let alone enthusiastic consent. Most humans have to warm Up to each other despite wanting one another. Thats why being gentle pushy initially is important maybe the girl in question is shy and needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:50 AM
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Funny how it works. You basically say the genderswitched version of what women constantly and openly say about men under the disguese of feminism and surprise surprise surprise they are pissed about that who could have thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:23 AM
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It would be way better and feel better If feminism would label their subjects regarding equality, rights, behaviour etc. In a positive gender neutral way. But they can't stop bashing on men, they can't stop making Statement Like all mem or always men. They can't stop filling young boys with guilt "you wanna be one of the good ones don't you". And whatever. They can't stop giving women extra advantages which demotivates young boys in school. And above all else, they are incapable of being consist…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:01 PM
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It wasn't really switched. Interest among men didn't change much. It's women interest fell under the level If men's interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:57 PM
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In a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:58 PM
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The women here really keen on pushing men to the manosphere. Some these answers can also be applied to men and why they are antifeminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:13 PM
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And when was this part of anything i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:14 PM
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Constantly being told how bad you are, constantly seeing how girls getting better grades for the same performance, seeing how Girls can generalize boys as stupid and dump whithout any punishment while claiming men are better at sports leads to punishment because "sexism". And for good measure your failure ist celebrated as women empowernment. Growing up in such environment while in your most formative years and having education marked as something you are not welcomed in. I wonder how does this …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:09 PM
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Would be interested in the thought process that led this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:50 PM
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You got the timeline wrong. The biggest reason why boys even consider the manosphere is that feminist rhetoric and doctrine always portraits them as villians, as bad people, constantly antagonizing masculinity. Most boys born after the 90' are constantly told this and how they are privileged. But in reality they see how girls getting preferential treatment, better grades (not because they are smarter) constant encouragement and even massive advantages in launching their career. Young Girls are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:34 PM
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Then i recommend für you to travel into the past and belittle the men back then instead of taking out anger and frustration on young boys damaging their future prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:25 PM
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And young boys are hearing, living and experience what women and feminism thinks about them. Not online but in your face from teachers, news, duscussions, articles, feministi relatives etc. Way way before any of them had the oppurtunity to go online and giving the same energy back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:01 PM
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Wrong. After the first step men have the same problems. Women can also lie, decieve, be violent and whatever other problems occur. You really not being able to come to this conclusion just shows how feminist rotten your brain is that proof that deep down you think women are superior or that men are some sort of second class people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:09 PM
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Depends from who. Getting showered with feminist rhetoric from authorities like teachers, kindergardeners or from "approved" mainstream media channels with billion dollars behind it kinda hits different compared to whatever internet hole anything that is even slightly antifeminism comes from. Also the timing is different. Feminism begins the moment someone is able to percieve his environments also very young age. Anything remotely manospheric can only be found in the Internet far far later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:56 PM
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It's usually the age at what these Messages are recieved. For men it's the when they are boys were they are the most vulnerable and formative. Later many are rejecting it but the damage is severe and done. Women are recieving and embrace it basically all their lifes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:44 PM
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That in itself is not an issue. What Most younger men have problem with is that the public discussion is always based in the narrative that almost every woman is a catch and deserves the most attractive guy and shouldn't settle for less. Boys on the other hand are getting an endless stream of messeges of how to change themselves how to critically examine ones own preferences and believes yada yada. Now we are in an situation were mens standards are artificially lowered and womens standards are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:41 PM
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If it was now it would not benefit me in any way, since i'm in good position in my career and also got the most beautiful wife. However, If i we're turned a woman 10 years ago, i would have 95% less struggle in Dating and romance aswell as i would launch my career easily 5years earlier due to seeing the insane women privilege first from student peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:57 PM
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OK i answer your question. You should care simply because body positivity is a thing. Young boys are forced and shamed into questioning their preferences because of "unrealistic beauty standards" which resulted in overall lower looks standards of the male population. Obvioussly now saying "why should women care about this" is highly egoistical, hypocritical and just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:40 PM
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Men care infinitely more about women then the other way around since we are force fed feminist doctrine for years before we even have a first contact with the manosphere. Likewise women are never told to care about men. It''s the opposite, they are told that men are lazy, stupid, dangerous and never growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:23 PM
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I only care individually. But women as a whole i care as much as women/feminist care about men as a whole. If it's not enough then they have to question themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:39 AM
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Why should i care that women were disadvantaged careerwise? Why should i care that they "feel" unsafe? Why should i care about hiring a women despite having overwhelming negative experiences with female applicants and employees? Why should i care that they (subjectively) think they are not respected in the workforce to the degree they feel entitled to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:53 AM
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As far as feminism and political orientation are conceened there isn't much difference. And actually you could argue that trades are even more sought after in the US since germany already has a huge amount of different trades businesses and the demand is still huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:25 AM
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The problem is not that the men don't want to help. Actually they want to do their household because it's equally his and the womans household. A Woman that belittles her man for the smallest mistakes constantly that is tyrant one sidedely decides what the gold standard is that has for every little thing her own everchanging system where it's Impossible to not make mistakes and the man is forced to disengage from the household to keep his sanity for the women to complain even more. A Woman that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:15 PM
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Of course YOU didn't see it. All these cooperations between schools and cooperations organizing female empowernment. On the surface it was advertised as "equal oppurtunity". We boys got treated like "we are privileged by default they will be fine". Feminists talking about they also want to help men is actual bs. Nice trades cherry picking. The only realm men are allowed an advantage where you just grind your body into an early grave. Go for it. At least here in germany it's very easy to start a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:42 PM
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Stoping feminism use your Imagination. For example rewrite the good talking points in a gender neutral way, to encourage both girls and boys instead of bashing in boys. Also stop the bad rhetoric like "all men" or "not all men but always a man". Or saying that violence is a man only trait despite facts stating that women are also as violent. Examples? How about that my female peers where getting trained in applications and Job interviews while we boys where not? How constantly a large pool of Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:17 PM
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Then we should stop feminism and everything around that. The real opression of women is long gone before i was born. I could not care less how some dead women wasn't allowed a bank account without permission. But still this was used as an arguement all my life to make my life harder while serving my female peers everything on a silver platter also while still telling me how i'm supposed to be privileged and should just bear it and shut up without any metric backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:02 AM
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I think we writing about two different things. I write about policing mens preferences in women not the physique of men. And there are still hordes of feminists and teachers out there doing this simply i work in hiring for young potentials and am a sports trainer it is very telling how they speak how teachers are speaking how parents are speaking. However. You write it was over in 2012 which it wasn't but the true hit was ozempic, while very promising it is to soon to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:21 AM
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Well sure when girls discomfort is treated the same and as necessary like boys discomfort is treated when speaking about this subjects then this can be successful with the next generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:56 PM
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What ever left of it is still in effect. Nothing that was aggressively pushed for 20 years wears off just because it stopped, you have to actively push a lever back he won't do it in his own. The changed standards remained, with women ever more adamant that this artificial state has to stay this way. And actually it never really stopped just slowed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:51 PM
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Simple. The constant demonization of men and masculinity, the constant bashing in boys how they can't do anything right. This is one of the biggest reasons the number of boys and men having crippling anxiety skyrocketed. But feminists excusing this as "necessary discomfort so boys learn about the female experience".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:33 PM
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Make centric body positivity and body Image campaigns directed at women and girls aswell as behavioural messeaging. Just Like what boys endure Like "you don't know what real women bodies Look like", "your preferences are problematic because of insane beauty standards, you have to lower them", "you are Not entitled to xy behaviour during dating and within a relationship. Just reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:28 PM
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Now we can argue what is more prevalent and to which degree we are exposed to each side. You say statistics, i say these statistics are watered down by the duluth model or definitions like what is defined as rape etc. You say misogyny is so subtle that even jokes are sooo bad then i say feminism disguesed man hating does not even bother to be subtle. But you will be hard pressed to find patriarchy or misogyny that much in your face Like feminism. Feministic teachers, news, articles. The Moment s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:52 PM
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There is no connection between my sentence and your answer. You we're basically telling that Red pill is doing the same things i criticized feminism for, wich is not wrong per se but i explained the difference in exposure and communication channels. How can someone make a memtal leap and claim that my mask slips. Guess when someone is out of arguements they get desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:32 AM
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Red Pill is still banned to the corners of the Internet and such can only be encountered there. Feminism even the worst parts of it are teachers, journalists, politician and writers. And above all else you are exposed to it passively If you want or not. And the biggest difference is. You are force fed feminism for over 5 years in your most formative years where you are playing down the groundwork for your petsonality or longer before they algorithm even has a chance to bring you red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:14 PM
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Because women are bringing up 1000 talking points daily ranging from legit to brain dead. There is almost no room to bring up their complaints in a vacuum. Also i noticed a Trend the Last years. Many men where bringing up their complaints in response to suitable talking points in order to degender it and including men in these efforts. They we're using nuance and understanding for the womenside but guess how they women reacted? They double downed on everything to exclude men with more force than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:14 PM
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Funny how so many women talk here it would be easier but have zero clue how they have to deal with being seen as a constant threat with little chances to prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:11 PM
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Just proof how body positivity fried the brains of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:38 PM
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So equality in your eyes is woman doing better in every metric, by artificial means? And then you call it not dealing with shitty men anymore? Ah yes i also don't want to deal with shitty women especially in work related stuff. It''s very taxing filtering out incompetent women with artificially inflated grades in hiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:37 PM
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So are decently fit women are also normal. But in your eyes the moment a woman is not fat and her face is not deformed than she is instantly super attractive and the "normal" man wanting to date her ist shooting outside His league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:10 PM
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Lets ignore that women also constantly calling really decent fit men "normal" because they are not a model or actor. Or Taylor Kitsch was called ugly. Everything you accuse men of doing women are also doing at least to the same degree. But only one gender get's told from a young age to what Kind of Woman they are allowed to be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:13 PM
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Kinda flew over your head all the talking about "mens preferences are informed by surroundings", "you don't know how real women bodies really are" "don't be shallow" and whatever other shaming tactics men are bombarded with before they even enter First year school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:25 AM
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Doesn't make any sense simply because body positivity and fat acceptance exists and works for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:45 PM
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And how die women adapt? They do not. They keep demanding that their surroundings have to change for their own benefit without any adaptation from within. And they assume the moral high ground and keep calling it fair or still not fair enough or whatever new fancy definition for "treated Like a human being" comes to their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:43 PM
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Funny. Do you think i'm talking about the study with more violence in lesbian relationships? Not to say that you Love to use semantics regarding "violence in their lifetime means it COULD be from men before they came Out as lesbian" but i'm not talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:40 AM
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What comes into a statistics or not is not always based in reality. Especially that one of the biggest studies regarding violence in relationships found out that women are actually more violent by quantity. Then you have the duluth model that even if the woman is violent the man will be arrested, aswell as relationships where both participants are violent the statistics only take the man into account. The thereshold for woman to be considered violent by statistics is way higher. Just look into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:09 PM
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What exactly is wild in this Take?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:00 AM
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Funny how almost all feministic talking points are also about women blaming everything else but themselves and demaning the surroundings to change for their benefit instead of adapting. Men are just holding a mirror in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:08 PM
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It's not about forcing but feministic mainstream media is doing this mostly passive. Every talk about "real women bodies", "unrealistic beauty standards", "Male Gaze" etc. Is criticising the most common male preferences. Every boy is exposed to that passively before he even has a Smartphone or any other acces to the manosphere. Often times the female teachers are also speaking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:52 PM
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Hating? No, not the entire demographic. Being hateful towards the plentiful but still minor subgroup that uses feminism to push their man hating practices and worldviews? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:55 AM
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Also it's right in your eyes that we are having ongoing attempts targeted at men to take half the burdens of women that comes with subjects that are expected from them simply because of reproductive demands? And because of that we shouldn't balance the social expectations keep it one sided?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:32 PM
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Last year someone did a tinder experiment with an average, slightly above average woman and lined Up with 8 Dates within a week. These guys we're absolutely in the looks range, had good style and by his own accord respectfull and not pushy. The woman in this thread argued that the woman used in the profile was far more attractive then the Guys, while most guys disagreed so theres that. If i could line Up 8 dates weekly with matches of that caliber then i would never be single for long. You can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:19 AM
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I was thinking if to weite it like that or Not. But the study is the closest we have to an "objective facts" in terms of sample size and methology. Several times more meaningful that any Rain self report ever will be and whatever the "all men crowd" provides. Also in this aub at least i see the pattern that people using one unimportant point or sentence to dismiss entire Posts despite them being very good otherwise. Guess i hit the nail on the head with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:30 AM
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Lets start with some objective facts. Women are more violent than men. The biggest study on this found Out that half the relationships are violent. From this half, little more than half is violent on both Sides. And from the relationships that are one sided violent the Woman is the violent one in 70% of the cases. Furthermore this study found out that the vast majority of severe injuries are happening when both partners are violent and the violence escalates at some point. Now you can think, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:05 PM
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This! Framing a clear advantage and privilege as a disadvantage is basically the core of this post. Reality is they care about girls and their outcomes while boys to some degree are viewed as hopeless and not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:00 PM
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I won't leave my wife alone. But i already do it in my Job by "hanging out" with my male trainees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:07 PM
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All this doesn't matter. It wasn't natural selection when body positivity started. It wasn't natural selection when young boys and men got shamed over and over again that their preferences are part of the problem and this endless list of bullshit talking points how they better critically examine their own preferences while being bombarded with overweight women being called beautiful. At least in mainstream media. You can argue that social media reverses this but this the case for both genders wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:44 PM
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Ohhh of course it can work this way too. But your brain is probably rotten from extreme feminist and fds content that there can't be a possibility for a woman to have any sort of fault herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:05 PM
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I don't know how it's in the USA but damaging someone's reputation if he is considered innocent is a crime. And demanding consequences despite him being legally innocent meets every criteria. And no he can't do anything anymore. Despite all legal sides deeming him innocent it's a ruthless witchhunt and anything he does will be twisted against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:02 PM
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Because they are actually committing a objective crime with real, hard and one sided consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:56 PM
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If you arguing about burdens and expectations forced upon women then you are doing it against the same on the male side. They don't reject their GFs and wives. They are rather fed up jumping through endless hoops just to get rejected 9/10 times anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:51 PM
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But he is getting punished right now without any foundation, COULD have done it is nothing solid and in no way anything objective to take her side. While none of the other side will have to fear anything despite them actually committing the crime of killing reputation and damaging rumor spreading against someone considered legally innocent. That's the point. All should just shut up to avoid damage and letzten them both handle this alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:26 AM
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Despite my harsh wording it's not even close. He is actually getting socially killed and losing his entire career for something he COULD have done, while there is no scenario where his ex or any of their supporters have to fear anything at all despite them being equally right or wrong as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:43 PM
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He is innocent because there is no proof for any of that. And until proofed guilty everybody has to shut up their dirty mouths. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:34 AM
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He is a german Comedy ans his ex already tried to convict him which failed at several courts because the SMS conversations she provided where deemed normal couple talk and otherwise no single evidence. Now after years she startet a hashtag movement against with many (blind) supporters. This in tune started a onesided article where 10 women told to have flirted with him and he was more of the pushy type. This was at least 5 years and longer ago. Now all his shows and work got their comedy award n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:32 AM
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There is no such thing because there will always be scum who will twist even the most explicit consent or outright deny it because it can't be proofed. Just like the case of Luke Mockridge where suddenly women from over 10 years ago apparantly got approached by him supporting his lying ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:51 PM
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Also wrong. It's a pressure to get a good job and career. Not settling down by a certain age is barely mentioned because it's assumed that it's coming natural to him by then. Missing the point with porn. Regardless if porn is a big problem or not (it's not as big as women claim) it's used as a scapegoat if men aren't turned on by or attracted to some women by having standards of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:35 PM
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Lol that's nice expectations. I love to spank my GFs booty several times a day followed by a lovely hug from behind and other funny touches since this is my main love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:51 AM
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A pretty bold almost insulting statement to claim that men don't have such pressure. It seems that calling men losers, incels, autists and whatever is so normalized for you that you don't see the pressure for them to have success with women. And this is the base of your thread? Saying that women need even higher standards than they already have and the next moment men are insulted as porn addicts because they are not attracted to some women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:54 AM
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If at all a married couple. But it's FDS so the list is useless by default. Scum who thinks that their mere presence with a smile here and there is more than enough doesn't have any right on judging what is high value or bare minimum and even less for demanding anything above "bare minimum" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:02 PM
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I can ask the same because i saw the quite the different scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:35 PM
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The biggest thing isn't hypergamy itself but how society treats the different strategies. Society bends over backwards with everything to shame, guilt or manipulate men into being attracted to fat and undesirable women. No women is left behind in the eye of society these days and men are the shallow pigs. On the reverse situation the only thing men get told "Yeah you just suck if you can't measure up" or typical blue pill lies. Women's preferences are always somehow justified even if they are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:32 PM
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Like deep down my animal brain feels like a virile horny man should either put it in a woman because this is soo easy and so fast done with all the courting and everything leading up and not to forget the weeks of mental built up till the women can say "yes" to sex because every second before is rape in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:49 AM
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Men don't like the usage of sex toys per se but the fact that most of these women are enforcing a strict zero porn policy while using their sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:44 AM
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30M, 3rd percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:41 AM
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As a rule of thumb. If a belly sticks out so much that it's getting attention through normal fitting clothes then it's to "fat". Some women get nice asses and boobs before this happenes and for others it happens much earlier. On the other note i don't know how long you are reading this sub but many men here talk about how women carry their weight when defining fat or overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:17 AM
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Asked this question to my GF. She prefers Guy 1 just because she had some type 2 guys and they all got overwhelmed and turned into helpless pussies if some actual life struggles came along. I think this is a legit concern because if life deviates to much from your script and you suddenly have to work hard for the first time then these types just crash down hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:10 AM
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The thread was so cringe and the OP actually was arguing in really bad faith. All the arguements like "then don't care if you would end up never getting laid etc." speaks volumes about how privileged she is because she just knows she can get the next a few days later if she wanted to. Also cringe is that i saw an comment some time ago where she is totally advocating for men being the initiators but now saying it's the men job to navigate this complete bullshit and if done wrong "So many men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:58 AM
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Tattoos in their nature are a lifelong commitment so to speak because of the huge effort to get rid of them. This just feeds their narrative of how women ruin themselves, their smv and their rmv in their "hot years". The manosphere doesn't care about nuance in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:23 PM
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that's exactly what i mean. This is the wrong reason to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:20 PM
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And women like this still somehow twisting the situation as like women have it harder in dating, after getting basically a dream dating live. Not to mention she will gradually decrease the amount of gym time to zero anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:31 PM
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In terms of hook up everything apart from "i'm not that kind of girl" is a stop. In my relationship we have a codeword and if someone says it then everything has to stop and hence i ignore everything else my gf says unless it's the codeword. Never happened to me but even without the codeword i would stop. Yes last minute resistence is absolutely a thing. My two only hook ups did it. I've "pushed" slowly through by going down on them very slowly and seducing giving them plenty of time to stop me …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:35 PM
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A powerful position in relation to others also play a huge role yes i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:20 AM
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Yes the same is obviously going on for women but to a much smaller degree in both rightfully outed women and innocent women. I can imagine there are women out there coming of little bit to masculine or to extroverted that some people might put them in this category from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:12 AM
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It still has the chance to become a good and balanced thing. But however despite some few cases are pulled back (the guy's in question most likels still suffering social consequences) it is done in a very wrong way. I doved into german statistics and comments from lawers who say that the numbers which are pushed in public by feminists purposely wrong interpreted that it makes very hard to focus on the positive things. It's a good thing that powerful scum like weinstein etc. abusing their standin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 08:40 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nqmd4iU8J3k What a nice video (from a women) talking about hollywood and woke feminism. But many things can be applied outside movies too. It's a good watch 17min long.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:04 PM
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"Dear, i've come to the realization that i might communicated my problems in a very wrong way last time. Since we cooled off since then, can we discuss them properly and find suitable solutions for it?." Hope it helps somewhat\<sup>\</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:48 PM
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I like the analytical aspects and the extremely deep diving into specific areas/subjects. Because the other roles were forced upon me with next to no appreciation, results and relevent advantages i've come to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:44 PM
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This is because they actually spent to much time on reddit imo. I've seen women here rate model tier guys 4's and 5's on average with only few outliers to the top. And then similar guys in couple pictures with clearly overweight women and people say both are looksmatched. After seeing this i can understand this mentality and it's hard to quit the shitty internet :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:35 PM
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Could also be that. I love girls with muscles unless they are ready to get on stage....but it's still a nice physique nonetheless altough questionable on the health side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:24 AM
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Kinda hard for me to recognize in that video but underweight might be the wrong word here. I just like little bit rounder butts. Not that i dislike her physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:20 PM
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The only times where it was better lies in the recent past. And the more you go back in time the worse it was for the overwhelming majority of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:48 PM
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Really not bad but slightly to lean and underweight for my own liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:20 PM
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Yes. It seems we both agree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:15 PM
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Same for "Money isn't important as long as he can sustain himself" and then their partners usually are like 6 figures upwards xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:06 PM
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The way she shittalks about women it has to be red but i don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:58 PM
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Yes, good vetting should decrease the risk of a bad relationship but it won't ever be 0. Not that i agree with him because there are still good things to enjoy being single (a medium to good relationship is still better though) but just a fact of life we have to accept that nothing is 100% assured and i gladly risk a bad relationship (if it appeared to be a good match beforehand) than avoid this risk and stay eternally single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:50 PM
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Might aswell permanently cosplay as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:45 PM
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His choice of words is confusing but i think he means that in order to even get a good relationship you have to risk a bad relationship anyway. So he just ignores bad relationships because the risk is here when you try to change your single status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:16 PM
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Not a good idea....still got to compete with her huge Pikachu plush.....can't think of if it would be Shoto Todoroki :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:17 AM
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Case Kachelmann and Case Gina Lisa Lohfink did the start. And basically every public known rape case. ​ It wasn't the result in itself that bothered me but the fact that basically all people are instantly shooting at the guy as he is one hundred percent guilty. If you saw the movie "Prisoners" with Hugh Jackman. Imagine what he is doing to Paul Danos character and imagine he is doing this in public and people are cheering for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:28 PM
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I don't have an opinion on this but one of the reasons TRP is advocating withdrawl of validition and/or comfort is because women en masse withdraw sex in relationships and thus claiming the power position. Every attempt to communicate this is shamed with phrases like "sex isn't all you pig", "if she isn't in the mood (never) then suck it up" etc. you know the drill. Withholding validation is a counterattempt to fight fire with fire or to get the power position back like "I'm not in the mood to v…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:36 PM
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Dealbreakers: Chill to be around/ small ego/ doesn't take her to serious/no drama queen has a fitness compatible lifestyle basic hygiene can spent time alone without getting pissed at me Very nice to have: doesn't greed with signs of affection and attraction in words and actions pushed me to get better in a healthy dose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:02 PM
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God damn being man and woman at the same time, deciding which parentrole you want on a whim. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:06 PM
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No it isn’t, rich countries have too few people while the poor have most of the people. It is, just because western societies can't bear children on a replecement level doesn't mean it's overall the case. No they do not, the opposite needs to occur. They need a fucking reality check and men wouldn't be distracted by revealing clothing, would stop simping, would increase their standards and get the ability to actually stick to their standards. There would be a mass suicide or mass depression by w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:22 AM
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the pill lies in the details. What i wrote and the truth part of red pill aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:12 AM
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This is actually preferable if the alternative is some dystopia where only few men can get their sexual needs met and other men are reduced to working drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:20 PM
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At first glance it might be good but for two reasons.... the world is overpopulated women need to experience the average men's dating struggles too ...i prefer it to match the women's sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:07 PM
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Oh yes. She even praised the old 20% version of it. Even her wording like she used "priviliged white men" to call the few guys in the room every time. And when i called quotas individual discrimination she even said that collateral damage is necessary *facepalm*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:04 PM
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Why should be adjust male expectations down in a society where womens expectations are blown up like a zeppelin? Why don't adjust the expectations of both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:18 PM
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During my bachelors. One girl which is the daughter of a CEO from a middle local company tried to get me expelled. I don't know why she shoot at me but after we had some extra curriculum feminist presentation i challenged the women with some basic questions like "but most men are doing the most dirty and dangerous jobs" etc. just to show her own tunnel vision when she talks about white men privilege and uses the gender ratio of CEO's. That scum recorded my questions and reported me of being a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:28 PM
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We need a pill or something like that which makes the male sex drive like that of women and chained on conditions. This would be fair for most. Or we tackle the cultural influenced part of women attraction namely the relative attraction between women's available options and the attractions in relation of how highly she thinks of herself. This means we need to indoctrinate young toddlers with different messages. Instead of saying women are wonderful and can do everything they want which leads to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:09 PM
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Oh yes i did all of that and even burned out many locations because i couldn't go there anymore after some trial and errors. After i lost 50lbs of fat and then got 25lbs of muscles back additionally to set up my own style using many different youtubers and celebs with casual clothes as an inspiration. Yes i could've scored girls. But these were only 60lbs overweight and mostly unfeminine. Obviusly they were objectively far below my smv since i've put in the effort in appearance and took the hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:46 PM
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Yes. And these movements are still shaming men for being shallow when they are not attracted to fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:38 AM
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As by a statement from a central police statistic institutions these numbers are severly flawed and actually not suited. But they are used anyway to push propaganda and narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:55 AM
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I agree with you here and that affirmitive actions are here to artificially push forward a demographic what is deemed disadvantaged which in tune can also be women. But let's stop this debate here, we agree after all and this subject makes me angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:08 AM
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Being the first sounds like a lot of fun! It’s one of those weird spots where I actually missed out, but not out of bad luck. Well kinda but not really soo that. Everybody pushed me to be a normal worker lol fuck them. Also i think they just didn't gave me the manners for higher positions etc. i've learned it all by myself which probably lacks some easyness and gives an "acting vibe". I can understand this might subconciously affect the recruiters to some degree. Depending on your envisioned fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:53 PM
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Already got proofed wrong with my assumption :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:30 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:49 PM
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It's at least the last thing left to why i've got to deal with such struggles. Being the first in my whole family to even visit a university also could play a part. But all this stuff with affirmitive actions, gender diversity etc. was part of my studies and i couldn't facepalm myself enough how they battle "discrimination" with individual discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:46 PM
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Before you complain about men villifying women's standards in looks....let's write a letter to the body positivity and fat acceptance movement. I'm sure these kind of messages are more suited towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:34 PM
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I can make super nice wholesome and nuanced comments but people usually quoting one single sentence out of context and ignoring the rest completely. It happened so much that i'm very hesitant to put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:16 PM
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The thing is it depents where you are. Sometimes people or companies purposely treating you bad to "even out the privilege". I've even got the height with 6.2 and i participated so for me it wasn't a privilege but rather the opposite where my school perfomance was graded more harshly and extreme problems getting any jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:09 PM
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Interesting how the experiences from two white guys can differ. Although i kinda got complimented at house parties but not my looks but rather that they say how confident i am (I'm not). xD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:45 PM
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Yes. Because of lack of evidence anything can be true. But as said their assumption is based on many cases examined due to plotholes of the people hiring them and telling them their stories. And still they don't dare to say the 30% as an absolute fact. But we are not even going to the social consequences for the guys. It's like "You could be innocent but you have to pay one way or another anyway."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:24 PM
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They are not getting compliments regarding their looks or other factors involved in their SMV. I'm pretty sure an incel who plays a sport and is good at that is getting compliments about it and his perfomances in this sport. But he won't be flattered in a romantic way because it's complimenting what he is doing and not himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:10 PM
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Let me guess....your privilege is that you are asexual which gives you a clear mind and the "i don't care how either genders percieves me" attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:07 PM
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Lets not pretent that the extreme feminists and woke people aren't biased at all but this isn't the point. They don't present "hard facts" like the woke people. They just say the fact the used numbers are severly flawed and that there is no sure way. And the side who is telling to relax and get more conrete methods for grounded numbers is more trustworthy than the yelling feminist throwing their wrong numbers around stating it as the undeniable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:57 PM
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The law firm stated that this is only an assumption based on the cases they could get their hands on. They explicity stated that there is no reliable source to get the exact numbers. But for a fact is that the low numbers of convicted rapists and false rape accusations are poorly calculated using every statistical way (e.g. including many other areas like catcalling or harassment increasing the total number of cases) to get the numbers low. And to be honest. A central police statistic department…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:43 PM
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These numbers are generated by the police and lawers who are working with it. Everything else is interpretation as well as the government who is one of the "interest groups". 30% as said is an assumption based on all the cases this law firm either investigated themselves or got the data from other police departments. They are experienced there and based on how the "victims" are describing their situation the act in itself they can tell pretty good that there is something iffy going on. Also this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:39 PM
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Since reddit shadowbanned my old post i copy paste it. This time without the link.... „Die mageren acht Prozent der verurteilten Vergewaltiger beruhten auf unseriösen Berechnungen. Sie entstammen keiner wissenschaftlich ernst zu nehmenden Studie. Sie gehen lediglich auf falsch interpretierte und unzulässig zusammengerechnete Polizei- und Justizstatistiken zurück. Und sie stellen – wie es aussieht – ein absichtliches, politisch zielgerichtetes Fehldeuten von Zahlen dar, das den Zweck verfolgt, da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:40 PM
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the comment is still in my profile though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:40 AM
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Just an article from a trustworthy law firm. Did they thought it was a virus?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:51 AM
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Funny how my post on sexual crime statistics is either invisible or deleted. Couldn't it in this thread at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:44 AM
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https://www.sexualstrafrecht.hamburg/falschbeschuldigung/falschbeschuldigung-statistik/ „Die mageren acht Prozent der verurteilten Vergewaltiger beruhten auf unseriösen Berechnungen. Sie entstammen keiner wissenschaftlich ernst zu nehmenden Studie. Sie gehen lediglich auf falsch interpretierte und unzulässig zusammengerechnete Polizei- und Justizstatistiken zurück. Und sie stellen – wie es aussieht – ein absichtliches, politisch zielgerichtetes Fehldeuten von Zahlen dar, das den Zweck verfolgt, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:07 PM
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I'm not perfect by any means. In hindsight i was at times to absorbed in my work that i left my phone on the table without looking at it a whole day. I understand at least that she felt hurt if i don't give a sign of life for 7 hours. This happened a few times. It was my first ltr after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:45 AM
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No clue. But this is stated in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:07 PM
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A Dr. verified it for 84k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:36 PM
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Doesn’t sound like she used anything against you per se. She pictured me as the abusive partner who pushed her to lose weight and also called me "crybaby" in the process so here is that. ​ Were you as flirtatious and enjoyable to be around in your stress? Female arousal isn’t a constant. If you’re depressed, she’s not going to be de facto horny. I was as always. In fact i was even more into her because she seemed constant in her fitness journey and the results where also showing. It wasn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:20 PM
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If my first ltr is something that helps you....My first ltr was little chubby and had one previous boyfriend before. She never had an orgasm before and the first 3 months in our relationship she loved the sex because of that new experience. Then i opened up because i struggled with my thesis due corona and my applications for a smooth transition directly into my first jobs earned me only rejections. After that it was a difference like night and day. Suddenly she was rarely in the mood for sex an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:16 PM
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Well uhhmmmm.....that's 80% of our sex before she herself demands PIV anyway. The other 20% are when she pushes me against the wall and wants it quick and strong. Sometimes i even only go down on her without PIV just to tease her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:52 PM
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Don't forget that the only smart and competent men are either the evil guy or the sociopathic detective etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:53 PM
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Extremely rare where it is proved to be a false rape accusation. False rape accusations dropped because of no evidence aren't listed as false rape accusations in statistics because it's left in middle state where "the accusation COULD still be true". No one knows how many dropped rape charges are true and how many are false they all got dropped because of lack of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:34 PM
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And half the women then think "God damn why does he gives up so easily"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:21 PM
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Body all day long. You can't change the face but you can shape your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:57 PM
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You can make nuanced definitons all day long. All what matters is how this is applied in the real world and then shaping the reality. And the sad reality is that "toxic masculinity" these days is usually every instance when a women doesn't get her way because of one or several men. Justified or not matters less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:27 PM
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https://www.archyde.com/emotional-video-comedian-luke-mockridge-talks-rape-allegations/ https://gettotext.com/luke-mockridge-after-the-big-drama-he-reveals-his-point-of-view/ R.I.P Luke Mockridge :( I kinda like his humour but his bitchy ex apparantly decided that there was a night in their relationship where he was DTF but she was not and there was no sex that night. After THREE YEARS she decided it felt like (attempted) rape and charged him. Two judicial instances didn't charge him because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:17 PM
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I'm on you with the direction but i think you are going little bit to far. I think as adults it can be as it is now with usual limits. If women dress sexy they have to deal with the natural consequences. Although we really need more strict rules in the school and university not to the extent of uniforms but still. Sexy clothing is an underestimated problem really distracting boys and young men who already have more struggles with the frontal teaching in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:27 PM
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None at all. If you are extremely attractive they at least try but good conversations are far and inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:55 AM
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As a guy it breaks down to: 6-7 Hours of working out 3 hours of shower 6 Hours of cooking (including cleaning the kitchen) 3,5 hours of skincare 1,5 Hour of shopping 1,5 Hour teeth care = 21;5/22,5 Hours that is part of my ritual. Not including things like fashion planning and what else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:12 PM
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I have a light version of Hiperhidrose which means i'm prone to sweating extremely strong and intense if something triggers it. When it's around 30 degree celsius or more outside then i'm bound to sweat from only 3 minutes walking. This year the weather was nice to me in that sense but you can imagine that there is no way that you have a shower available to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:54 PM
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It's because most men think and percieve it as a negative influence for them especially when they don't approve you in the dating phase or when the FSM shares stories of "amazing boyfriends" and suddenly your loving relationship is low effort and you have to live up to it. Of course there can be positive sides but judging from the stories these positive sides don't affect the men directly unline the negative sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:21 AM
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I do. When there is something good to eat ;) Other than that i'm not drinking any alkohol apart from little beer. I've also attended other stuff like private parties, or university parties etc. aswell as local faires etc. I think i was really balanced in this regard. Wasn't a shut in but didn't hunt every oppurtunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:26 PM
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Take from that what you want but the only happy hours in the cities i've attended university were ladies nights. There was one happy hour in 2014 when germany won the cup but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:41 PM
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I wouldn't drop my girl. However when single, i would go more to clubs or local events especially at weekends to see what kind of women it would be this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:17 PM
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Maybe you should change your own view on what is the "average experience". You as a woman always had socially better experience just by being a woman and hence you consider your experience and the few men around you as "average". The stating that most men are invisible isn't created out of thin air. And many redditors are having experience with the female gender but this exactly is what brought them here. Ok now to boil down it to two alternatives before we leave the actual context or else you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:40 AM
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WOMEN DO NOT WANT QUANTITY WE WANT QUALITY. Having the ability to sleep with a ton of men or date them is not attractive or fun if 95% of them are undesirable and we don’t want the ability to sleep with random people we want relationships. Most men actually also want relationships with roughly equal partners. But they don't have options. They have to crawl through every single bit. They don't even have the luxury to be concerned about quality in the first place. Think of it like this, you have 9…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:27 AM
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Oh yes i see it now too. Well whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:14 AM
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Guess what? I have been dumped too. I have been rejected, I have had my heart broken. I have been set up, been lied to, been flaked on, thought that men cared about me and was just being used for sex. If you think that just because a woman is attractive she also does not get hurt or that her life is perfect you have zero clue. Maybe 1/20 of what your (below-)average joe has and still you had several romantic experiences and options in one year than these guys get in a decade WHILE being mostly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:59 PM
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Yes the alternative is being alone, well knowingly that even with effort you only get humilating rejections. Working on your appearances and flirting skills just to see that it changes nothing, then getting told that you just suck and have to stop whining. Setting up dates and dates after nummerous one sided conversations just to get flaked, scamed or played by a women who will set up a situation to dump you making you the villian. Then you are again alone in your room and only to read and hear …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:05 PM
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I was 29 when it stopped completely because i got my first job last year in october. Other than that i started my bachelor in october 2012 at 21 years and ever since tried to work as much as possible on the side to finance my room and my car which died some months ago (R.I.P. My Nissan) and 100€/month "pocket money". Had an almost two year gap between bachelor and master where i worked full time and saved most it. This was the point where i basically stopped asking for money completely. The 2k i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:56 PM
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Got gradually less and stopped completely last year. I've got like 2k from my parents over the course of 3 years. Other than that i worked permanently besides University to keep the number low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:25 PM
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Same for me. Whenever i reflect on some social situations i find me sympathizing more with women. It got better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:16 PM
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You actually said it. This is ultimately an annoyance or inconvience nothing more. The opposite can create live altering issues. Annoying managing of abundance will never reach this level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:56 PM
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Of course, men are loving it to be the target of active desire. What a woman might call a loveless relationship is the default for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:45 PM
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This is always a problem and also a natural reaction when certain demographics or groups having well known entrance advantages into a specific field. It's the same for John who is the son of the CEO or billy who is the son of the most important customer etc. It's the same for girls getting better grades because they are more sympathize with the teachers more etc. This is not a gender problem per se but a mechanical problem depending on circumstances in your case it's just happened to be that cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:10 AM
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I’ve seen interviewers judge women much harsher than men Isn't that good? I've seen plenty of complains for the opposite side where the interviewer barely asked questions that go deep into their skills and she still got the job (because the women thinks she just got the job because of quota).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:17 PM
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As someone who worked in the supermarket and got to grab basically every mainstream journal (in germany) in several editions this exact cases are boiling down to following: If a men leaves his family, the reason has a name (man bad) If a women leaves her family she was a prisoner between the roles of wife, mother and employee and is brave because she takes the risk to redefine herself. If a man tries to lose as little money or wealth as possible in a divorce > how can he dare to "kick" his poor …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:22 PM
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So between my two ltrs....the first one was at two including me and my current is at 17 also including me. My current one is way way better, i feel like a king and she knows how to up my mood. But i don't judge you, it's possible that a low n-count will appreciate you way more than a "town bycicle".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:23 PM
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I came home and my girl was awaiting me and slided with her hands over my upperbody saying "thank god no one snatched this body on the way". I still have hopes that she will say it one day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:23 PM
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You just merely describing your observation in a simple way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:18 PM
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Words of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:10 PM
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Don't worry. Male privilege among young people is almost non existent in the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:21 PM
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I don't know about the US but in germany companies and other institutions are subsidized if they offer such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:37 PM
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Can't remember where i was working my way up in my actual relationship because there wasn't something like this. But i'm working my way "up" in my first job and i also were explaining my individual problems with hiring practices as a whole if its that what you mean. It is! Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:28 PM
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Is this a compliment? And why "again"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:19 PM
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If we are isolating the problem with the positions of power and viewing this arguement only for what it means, political positions, CEO's and other close positions, you are right. But feminists themselves alineated this arguement long time ago and have widen it out to almost every form of white collar work from entry level onwards. This now has led to one single equation with huge outcome. 99% of men won't ever benefit from the privilige of position of power that's just how it is because 1. thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:18 PM
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Job faires only for women Any pro gender advertisment in any form get fucking rid of women quotas! And actually getting test grades in all school and academics anonymus and neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:57 PM
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Ah ok thats understandable. I can just barely keep up with my girl because she is often times randomly horny and wants sex immetiadely while I want to finish my domnestic tasks (when i'm working from home she holds it till i'm finished). Although i'm usually the one who ends up being the active part but thats happens naturally without any of us thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:52 PM
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Can't keep means how often per day/week? Or is the complain not because of frequency but rather because you wanted them to initiate more?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:18 PM
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So there is a discrimination against young men and we can stop all government funded programms which only benefitting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:12 PM
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Men are the privileged sex because the very very few positions at the top are mostly occupied by (older and middle aged) men. They think men are privileged because some few men are good at commanding respect in their Jobs but conviently ignoring all the guys who are not respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:04 PM
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Only a 6 with slim-thick? Don't underestimate nieche attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:51 AM
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You forgot to add that it also depends on how she views herself. If she really believes that she is hot because she looks at her overfiltered photos then this might also influence her attraction scale more upwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:03 AM
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passive income + i would work half time as a table tennis coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:19 AM
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I actually put some thought into this^^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:30 PM
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To some degree and depending of how she carries the weight i'm attracted to some traits fat women have which is that fucking ass and usually nice boobs and i could easily work around it. Obviously when her belly is sticking so much out that it dropps and her triceps are like a carpet hanging on the ropes to dry, it's to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:05 PM
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As someone who sweats very fast and intense this one stings really deep :( Good thing there are girls who are somehow like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:28 AM
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Everything but her face. It's good that i derive only a small amount of attraction from the face itself anyway and weight more onto body and behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:21 AM
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A: Complette package easy 11. B: Probably 4 but i don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:36 PM
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Schools in general are very important not only in dating. It happens during formative years which experiences will be ingrained deeply into you only second to your early children household experience. At this point you will be confronted with situations who are either will try to crush you or where you can draw confidence from it. Also feminist propaganda which is demonizing men and overinflates girls egos picks up steam here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:30 PM
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Sorry poppy. I actually was reading his original comment you linked. I hope my comment still gives you something interesting to read :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:23 PM
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This is lacking some nuance. Many age gap relationships between normal people are happening over time if they meet in the same hobby group slowly developing chemistry or something like that. People here imagine this old boggeyman creep like Charlie Harper approaching young girls or this sugardaddy scenario. As a father wouldn't mind if my daughter meets someone like the former, although i wouldn't be immune to some judgemental thoughts in the beginning. Furthermore, mothers telling their sons to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:55 AM
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Infinity war. The protagonist is only a whole other level here. Also the end shocked me a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:44 AM
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Sounds very valid. Just say you referenced him but nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:58 AM
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Once I saw his website I was like "Oh shit, this guy sucks." Wonder what sucked? Was it linkedin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:34 PM
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TRP promotes this because.... There is a chance that geniune confidence can evolve after some success with faking. Give as much unsucessful men at least a shot to experience sex at least once in their lifes. Women fake with make up, photoshop, angles, filter, shape wear. Even flattering clothes are by definition deception. They just join the game already laid down. As long they don't rape why bother with it? Let them play the game too. If pretending to be someone else helps with their anxiety so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:52 AM
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From the limited data i have (two brazil students) they value the effort almost as much as the results. Meaning an weirdo is still getting complimented and percieved as decent looking when he really tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:08 AM
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Nope. She's on bc and both are clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:56 AM
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There strong and independent women and then there are "strong and independent" women. The first group has only weak extends of your negative traits and the second one to a bigger extend, especially always stating how strong and independent they are and also usually overcompensating hugely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:38 AM
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There was a "no filter challenge" or something along these lines. I saw pretty women turned into their obese selfs. Of course women tend to identify themselfes as their filter personas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:10 AM
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Approvals and upvotes aren't worth anything since people tend to reduce their intellect to swarm stupidity when reading something vaguely resembling one struggle in their life. I've saw so many FDS worthy trash articles getting similar approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:36 PM
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You got some sources for being graded higher on the same work? Because I’ve seen women receive low grade but their male classmates who plagiarized from them got a good grade https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qloY4OJxBoQ Just two examples directly comming after 5 seconds of google. And i like to add my own personal anectodes despite such things usually don't worth much but whenever we had a presentation in my bachelor girls all across the board were good …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:25 PM
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Awww thinking you are soo good while having feminist teachers giving you better grades for equal performance, giving you more recommendations for higher acadamia, having women only job fairs and even having companies basically licking your asses after graduation. And you still have the nerves crying about discrimination if only a fart isn't going the way you have imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:26 PM
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Men don't drop down. They are pushed down while women get elevated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:35 AM
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DV is underreported in both genders. Against men to slightly higher degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:50 AM
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Finally someone says this. One very common occurence: the women is hitting the guy and he just slaps or hits back in self defence once or twice and this case is getting labeled as DV against women by her romantic interest. The part where she is abusing him disappears into nothingness impossible to prove other by his word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:35 PM
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The biggest thing for me is that i would never be any priority to her while it's absolute taken for granted that i make her the kid the priority and that i'm always on the backseat. Of course it's a given that for any activity i have to pay, plan and take the kid into account because she has to take care of the kid. And here is the catch. I want her to be a good mother and a good mother is doing exactly this what i wrote before. But sadly then she has to be a good mother without me in the pictur…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:54 AM
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Never claimed it that men are the only ones but men are asking out women and do the vast majority of work in the initiating phase of a relationship hence this is the rule. Any other "emotional" labor done later is a whole different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:58 AM
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Despite me making this comment my current relationship broke with this rule. Not gona lie that i still think exceptions are possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:55 AM
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Can only speak about my gf and she is definitely NOT fat but pretty voluminous if you know what i mean and weights also some kilos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:28 AM
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To keep me and especially my GF save, i shall refuse this offer thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:44 AM
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Good thing she didn't accidently forget about him or had to work 15minutes overtime and was to exhausted for dating as he was landing on the airport.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:34 AM
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At which point was the date? Directly after the approach or after exchanging numbers and texting for a bit? Never the former and few times the letter. I was the one approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:27 AM
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All hail bikini class bodybuilders in the offseason.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:24 AM
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Agree here. When a women tells "Our relationship just happened" it often means that the guy did all the heavy lifting, fine adjustments, planning, interpreting every single message and countless other subtle things most women don't even know are existing to even reach the point where she "felt some connection" and started care for a guy. Thats all behind the scenes. One or two missteps are leading to the standards things like ghosting, "he was weird", "you are nice but..." etc. For the man this …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:16 AM
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I agree on your post and the premise as a whole but this is nothing more as an ideal and also from a perspective of the absolute top only very very few actually achieve. It's not like this immoral people are having all light ads upon them showing their methods and it's not about the absolute top positions but there are plenty of lucrative positions in the middle going mostly unseen to the likes of warren buffet. And i never claimed this is the ONLY way to climb the corporal ladder but merely one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:07 AM
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Which can also affect men and is doing so in more increasing numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:09 PM
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Bullies can be losers bullying physically weaker people, can be popular kids, can be popular athletes etc. While being bullied by the loser is just bad because he has nothing to lose, you can at least defend yourself against the other guys. If he is an athlete just show a backbone and break his limb he needs for his sport. Bonus points if you consciously makes sure that it never heals fully and he has to stop his sports career that's the least thing he deserves. Now people will come up with "ohh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:03 PM
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It doesn't have to be direct violence. In the business world this violence takes form of stealing other ideas, small powerplays, spreading rumors, giving your "competition" wrong information etc. basically everything moraly wrong to get ahead. And these scummy people often end up in the best positions because just being excellent at your job doesn't asure promotions. This is basically harming other people in non physical ways but often covered by strawmans like having a backbone, outcompeting ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:49 PM
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I understand it despite me not focusing on facial beauty but rather on body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:32 AM
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Apart from the very hideous women with deformed faces, every women can hit the gym and build muscles to get a stunning body and pretty hair almost regardless of bone structure, just give the right muscle groups more attention then. So the arguement of " either you are ugly or hot" is a weak one. A man may have more options (including staying fit) to increase his SMV but every single one of this options are harder to achieve because they are all including competition with other men and women give…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:53 AM
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It was usually a homage to the german AGG which forbids discrimination because of gender, sexual orientation, religion etc. not only women but also men used this to apply for job offers with the intention of being rejected and then using loopholes in this law section to sue the companies and getting "compensation". Although a men getting repeatedly rejected today is done for while a women can always bring some case to a public newspaper or media sparking a new "discrimination" scandal. Most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:41 PM
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My GF already knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:15 PM
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A 3 with potential. I'm a 5 or 6 objectively or a 9 according to my gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:19 PM
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Thank you for your understanding. Despite your rude tone at times you are not stubborn and capable of changing your initial stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:31 AM
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Wait this was the biggest thing? You think THIS was an attempt to get you fired? No... it's called looking out for other young women... Taking into account that she is the only one to not wanted me to get hired in the first place and already complained about "my bad perfomance" and that i'm apparantly disrupting her concentration this was nothing more to find openings to get me fired. This conversation was also initiated by the girl because she had perfomance anxiety at work and wanted a feedbac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:08 AM
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I've got two direct co workers. One even actively tried to get me fired during the trial period. The biggest thing she tried was asking one of my female apprentices if she is fine after i had a feedback conversation with her. And other small things regarding my candidate decisions. I were safe because my apprentices are perfoming well and that i worked a side job in the company during my studies for years and they know me. The other co worker is competent and usually good to work with but is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:27 AM
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You can just hire a dude and avoid it altogether. Why take the risk? Just wait till a women feels entitled to a job after 20 rejections and then sues the company because of discrimination of gender according to the german AGG laws. Which is technically possible and made the recruiting process such a minesfield.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:17 AM
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Escape rooms are nice every once in a while and god damn i wish i could attend the pilates class too...xD And of all of that i guess the martini/wine tasting were your favourite?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:59 PM
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But i thought marriages back in the day were forced upon the women and the man could punch her all day without any drawback especially in form of divorce? PS: Obviously sarcastic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:45 PM
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That's an entirely miserable existence. Even if you somehow enjoy all of your purposeful activities, the strict planning day by day by day by day by day and the underlying expectation of bringing results will absolutely grind away at your soul. Bonus points if a women is still looking down on you despite having reached her position solely with constant societies support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:39 AM
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Most people here also don't have problems to socialize and interact with women. The real trouble is to somehow set up escalate things at some point, usually with women who are closer to someone than the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:42 AM
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It's always easy to talk from a position of success but many man did exactly that but their friendly acting only led to rejections and friendzones. Wonder how would your stance be when every escalation and every invitation to your or her place wouldn't end in "watching anime and having sexy sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:04 AM
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5% are the amount where it was undeniably proven to be false. False accusations who got the guy in jail or got dropped because of lack of evidence are not classified as false rape accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:42 AM
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In that case it's a mutual decline(?) and neither of them dragged someone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:21 PM
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If it's my GF A. Otherwise B.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:05 PM
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Gaining some weight because you are comfortable with each other is ok. But i guess in your friends case one of them filled the kitchen with sweets, chips and whatever processed instant foods which made it even worse and this is what often happens when a fit person (usually man) and an overweight person enters a relationship. And this is totally a dealbreaker yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:59 AM
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Then actually you can pull of what i tried to. My first gf was also overweight but carried the weight well that made her curves sweet. This way my attraction wasn't really a problem. It ended because our diets clashed. She always wanted pasta and sweets while i got my Thai curry with brokkoli, eggs and oatmeals etc. She also pressured herself to keep up with me in the gym and dumped me the moment her results allowed her to "branch swing" while simultaniously telling everybody how i was emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:28 PM
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Feel ya bro, feel ya. Maybe you can get around and find a girl who at least carries the weight good? But neither way i would recommend a long time relationship. Trying to help her losing weight will backfire greatly, while at the same time her habits will constantly crash with your (eating)habits and fighting over "you are so obsessed with your gym and nutrition". Chances are it will even make you gain weight more than people usually do in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:10 PM
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Nice wide legs, a solid curvy ass. Perfect :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:51 PM
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Bikini Class bodybuilding, table Tennis and Volleyball.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:33 PM
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Agree here but i had the reverse situation. I was asking out bigger girls before i lost weight and got rejected sometimes really bad. But after my fitness journey beared results some of them even wrote me at Facebook how they remember my approach and how it was cute but they had other concerns at the time etc. That was the key moment why i have something against bigger women even though i know that not all heavier women are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:05 PM
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Here this comment right here. But i know these cowards will do some insane mental gymnastics to rationalize their position and behaviour which is more often than not devoid of human decency and is compareable to a spoiled child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:55 PM
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I've always did the approaching and active part of dating but the only chicks i were able to at least somwhat attract were either none, when i was fat or fatties when i lost weight and gained muscle. The one time i was approached led to my current GF which is overall an 7 and by far the hottest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:03 AM
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As much as men cry about them, their behavior isn’t manipulative. I’ve never seen a “ How to trick a man” type of post on FDS There was a sticky comment with a guide "how to never pay on a date anymore" where they say how to attack the mans pride and bring him into uncomfortable situations during the "date" like intentionally take a comment from him out of context and fake a dramascene where they can just leave the restaurant without paying. They spefically said to date men for free food with st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:07 AM
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You aren't getting it I'm getting it but that automatically means every single advice people give out is absolutely useless. Everybody says to max out and put in effort but for what actually? So it's bullshit. And these mechanics are in place because especially women have gotten their egos artificially blown up that they are just don't accept their REAL looksmatch anymore and it's still getting worse. In that sense the MV is totally subjective on womens part. A fatty is objectively below an athl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:46 PM
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If all you can get is a fatty then that's your looksmatch. Exactly. This just solves every single debatte and hamstering to say which gender has it harder. But your advice for the guy in there is useless because he won't settle for a fattie because he is objectively above her in terms of smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:24 PM
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Why do you even get bothered by downvoting? Just ignore it. Confirmation bias in action, folks. Every time a worthy woman interacts with a sexist man, it challenges the views of said man. People don't like having their views challenged in most circumstances. The reverse is also true. Saw both scenarios first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:11 PM
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No fit human has a lazy fat slob as a looksmatch. If the "market" is broken like that, than it's no better as to dive into the deepest blackpill or keep it casual. A ltr minded fit man with average face is then just doomed because a fat chic won't be compatible at best and drag him down at worst. Can't get over how people say this situation is any good apart from the very rare times it might work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:08 PM
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Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:24 AM
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Don't know how he said it but i always say this in a funny manner e.g. when i'm lying so comfortable and have to stay up, i intentionally overact like an old man and say this xD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:00 AM
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"Ash is Retarded" LMAO! Even among things who are not like each other, this seems, more "not like the other ones".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:57 AM
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Around 60% are more or less equal but the guy often times is thiner/fitter. Around 30% of the time the girl is quite overweight while the guy is still thin and fit. And rarely i see a good looking and fit girl with an unnattractive guy. Little observation i made while i worked in the supermarket is that i often could see the same people several times a month. And from some women who i deemed to be looksmatched at first i saw them also much uglier and more plain at some point which i think was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:13 AM
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"Using" women for sex is valid and using men for any resources with the intention to drop him at one point isn't valid. Sex by definition is a mutual two way interaction both parties enjoy. Using men for money is onesided leeching. If we take it strictly at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:09 PM
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which is akin to be doomed and his effort into getting fit is basically zerofied in dating. Neither will be a hook up/fwb satisfying as well as a ltr will be almost impossible because they wouldn't be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:02 PM
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But what other ugly people? He said he is in very good shape so he has to find a ugly girl in good shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:09 AM
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Maybe it reduces the hostile sexism, maybe boys will be more balanced when they are not forced into situations not fitting their biology. It's all tied together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:42 PM
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Stop favouring girls in school and higher acadamics. Deploy the school environment so boys can learn to their strenghts. Stop biased "diversity" hirings. Young women have an easier time getting hired in positions of higher degrees already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:11 PM
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Takeaway: Being fairly critical of feminism and women is will skyrocket you into hostile sexism. Being a gentlemen while letting women take advantage of you is benevolent. Some questions are so suggestive i could smell their effects on the score from miles away. It's quality is what you can except from your average online test. Hostile: 2.91 and benevolent: 2.41 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:07 PM
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Both of these girls have absolute stunning bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:36 PM
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Nice Cosmo and Wanda reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:27 AM
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I think calming down a little would help you since i didn't replay to you specifically . You took my "wailing" out of the context. It means that women love to arrogantly say that men now have it as hard as them (in dating) because they are not depended on men anymore. I just match the vibe and point out the factors that women love to ignore in this kind of debattes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:10 AM
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Or actually thinks he is hot because he somehow triggers her nieche attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:29 PM
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I'm fine...now. I'm just not that single minded to forget where i came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:27 PM
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Well what do we have here. Someone who openly ignores men getting discriminated. I may be far away but you didn't move an inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:12 PM
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What if.....she still gives him stellar sex and even initiates a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:47 PM
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Of course. Because as a women at least i would have better grades, a smooth CV, not wasted 2 years of my life because of discriminatory hiring processes, easy accesible "women only" faires with famous companies Your comical shaming tactic suggests that you are out of objective arguements.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:41 PM
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It's more a question of quality compared to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:13 PM
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Ohh that's funny how you take my comment completely out of the context of this particular comment subsection. Are you willowgirl on an alt? Houston and chainsaw is both texas but anyway it's still funny how you go from "competing for relationships" into "equality in the workplace" and on top of that being aggressive and highly offensive. My issue regarding equality is in the workplace, not in dating Let me guess....you complain about the old trope of not being taken seriously like (some) of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:46 PM
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The differences between me being an incel and now living with my gf is that... I love coming home now Household chores are feeling less shitty Less negative emotions Her attitude. She doesn't hold back her feelings which always makes me smile Cuddling and sex with her is obviously more Satisfying than anything a man could give me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:30 AM
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And you guys with your "man up regardless of how much shit is thrown your way" are cracking me up. Especially when women get excused for the same shit to an even greater extend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:43 AM
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Speaking up to injustice and demanding fairness where possible isn't wrong. When i see are guy performing excellent in academics but a mediocore girl gets same grades because of "girl treatment" which in tune makes it unfairly harder for him to find a job due to biased hiring it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:58 AM
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That's why i wrote "also".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:52 AM
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So in summery it's ok for women to demand that everything around them should change with little adaptation from their side. It's ok for women to disrespect men more than ever because they are now ahead mostly only due the now overwhelmingly favourable systems? Yes they mock arrogant women because they know that life is catering more to them and they want the same treatment and that's not only wrong but worthy of disrespect like in your comment? Insults from men aside but you are also mocking the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:10 PM
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They want to be treated like this because in every aspect of life everything is made easier for women. Aspects where the women are disadvantaged? We need to change the system and the environment to help them. Aspects where it's even? Lets help them regardless. Aspects where women have an advantage? Buhh biology no need to change here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:47 PM
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The one with the closest lifestyle to mine with cute at least longer hair which will automatically make her thin and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:39 PM
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Oh my gosh so much to unpack here. I never ever said that these normal fantasies are bad read my comment. In fact in this case i'm AGAINST red pill and in FAVOUR of women OP is showing a study to disprove red pillers claims that women have violent rape fantasies. I add to his stance and say that even the stories they tell aren't such violent rape fantasies despite them labeling it as such. Try reading comments without underlying assumptions for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:36 PM
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This what i said falls under "erotica rape fantasy" and even if not i don't care. I've seen enough stories of red pill where they take such a story and turn it into violent rape fantasies which basically confirms OP without a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:16 PM
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Remember. People still want to gaslight you that your league is what is interested in you. My homemarket was also overwhelmingly fat women despite me clearly stating in my profiles that i have a very active lifestyle with relatively strict nutrition and yet i got many super likes only from overweight to obese women. Sometimes i got some super attractive asians and japanese women matched and where smart and interested but required me moving to their places for something serious. I can only agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:12 PM
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Still await the day when we can force women to do all the active parts in relationship initiating and then tell them in a highly arrogant tone "being in the do or die position in approaching is evidently a new thing for women". Gotta be so used to get everything catered to you in that aspect that this "little" detail never crosses the womens mind when you are wailing on the men with your "equality" debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:41 PM
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And that's not the masculinity itself but rather the outside expectation to be flawless in that sense following by deep feelings of being a failure. "You as a man has to be XY without question!" is different from "As a man you have to aim for XY but it's not the end of the World if you don't reach it completely."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:27 AM
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That's for the interested people to decide. I've always preaching to start from pre school age such as giving direction, purpose and encouragement for masculine behaviour. What we have now is a feminizing environment till they leave the school with permanent demonizing of masculinity and threat of punishment if it's expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:43 AM
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Yep...dating is also very dangerous for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:08 AM
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Left the room with my PC on. Came back where my GF had my GBA emulator open with with pokemon renegade platinum. This was the first week we were dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:24 PM
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You're right and their preaching is annoying. But in the end it doesn't change for them to avoid high n-counts because there is no pair bonding either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:14 PM
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Creating and organizing events is multiple times more effort than "just go 3-4 nights out and have fun". There is a lot of planing included beforehand. And as already mentioned men have many barriers when they don't do it themselves. Less invitations, almost no informations where or if there is something out there at all, more money investment because there are zero "guys night" or free entries for guys. People are always defensive or the girls friends come to "rescue" if you approach and starts…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:03 PM
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I actually think that the rape fantasies of women are usually some kind of "Oh shit this hot guy just threw me on my bed and uses me for sex against my will till i consent midway eventually" fantasies. TRP takes every similar dream scenario as "violent rape fantasy" which obviously isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:54 PM
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Masculinity isn't the problem but the factors that lead to mental illness and suicide when combined with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:04 PM
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Isn't the modern training approach to take everyone anatomically as an individual instead of forcing athletes into a form that may be not fitting his body?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:09 AM
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Pretty much the default state for many average guys who only got "love" after proving themselves by jumping through countless roofs in an onesided courting process. On top FDS is strictly saying that the men has to be more into her than reverse just to have more power and leverage in the relationship. Of course they disdain a relationship where the guy is less into the girl than the girl into him. I don't see a gender exclusive problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:34 PM
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I didn't mention interpersonal relationships either just that my female co workers don't respect my work to the point of wanting to influence it. And the interrupting is a loop to the original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:18 PM
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Well the same goes the other way around. I'm always get interrupted by my co workers and they even try to invade my area of responsibility ignoring or outright disdain my recommended candidates throughout the whole hiring process. And being interrupted isn't gendered. Women interrupt men also all the time, especially "emanzipated" feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:01 PM
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Although my mother did her best regarding circumstances, her gaslighting methods to teach me some "lectures" only gave me neurotic tendencies. Often times if she wasn't satisfied with my room she purposely took away important things like documents for school or my sportsclub just to say "If you would keep your table clean and organized then you wouldn't have lost it". So in that sense you are right about mothers and sisters aren't flawless angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:39 AM
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Not if the man takes the effort to be athletic/good in shape himself. End.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:24 AM
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Apart from some official things my gf involves everything i want in a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:37 PM
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Most of women's effort in being high value is a battle with themselves. Men's effort to be high value is a battle with himself, with other men, with society and economical things outside their own control distributed evenly and all of this with on a active mindset because for men nothing comes it's way in a passive manner. By average it's much much harder for men to be high value because of this huge competition component. So by definition there are far less high value men. Many women will twist…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:17 PM
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pay in a field goes down when more women enter it, so it could just be that female-dominated fields pay less because we value women's labor less. Women enter these fields increasing the available workforce. A critical mass of women is accepting lower salary basically dumping the overall payment of the field
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:22 PM
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Clearly girls are growing up in times of women empowernment (not in rural russia) and a critical amount has egos up in the heavens while boys always hear how they have to behave (for womens benefit). I've made many comments about it. We should tackle this problem early on and stop any genderleaning talk as well as actions and encourage all kids equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:27 PM
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A huge part of peoples attraction is also how they are percieving themselves and cultural influence. We at least can tackle this segment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:54 PM
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Yes. But using modern interchangeable as good or the best indicator of hiring is discrimination. Especially when applicants from the "majority" are better qualified and when most of the workers in a specific division are already made up of mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:55 AM
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Thank you. I already had the same thoughts in mind but wanted some clarification. I agree with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:49 AM
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What in the article do you actually dislike what makes you sympathize more with guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:54 AM
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That's the typical "regardless of how much and how heavy the shit is everybody is throwing at you men should just stay positive".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:57 PM
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From school to university women get overall better grades for the same perfomance on top of better learning environment for girls in school. Women and girls getting more recommondations for higher academics. When women outnumber men it's good. When men outnumber women (in good fields) government creates every bullshit program and incentives possible to make it equal and then bring women ahead. Women are preferred to be hired if they are close to equal to their male counterparts. In fact hiring w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:52 PM
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The crux of young mens anger is the entitled attitude and bitchy double standard to many women are displaying. Calling men low effort while doing zero effort. Saying men "can't read the room" while themselves hiding in plausible deniability their entire lives. Being overweight but demanding fit partners etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:03 PM
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No she shouldn't be grateful. What he described it that she has an ego so high up and openly looked down on him for expressing slight interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:14 AM
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Not so easy with all this contradicting messages. The only way is the hard way with trial and error which is...well really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:37 PM
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Oh yes. But doesn't this masculine and attractive behaviour get's demonized in the feminist narrative during the upbringing of boys? Especially in young age they are receptive to always hearing how they should be patient with women, always waiting for unmistakeble consent, never force themselves (in sexy, masculine ways) on women like you describe in your new thread. Boys get planted a seed of fear to even think about subtle, physical escalation and assertive behaviour. They fear being seen as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:14 PM
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The same goes for confidence. Many women are bothered by confident ugly guys because they "don't know their place". Same also goes for confidence in the work place. If your confidence and competence doesn't match your overall charisma or presence then people will feel something is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:09 PM
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Maybe it's a russian thing but the preferential treatment from professors are down right not true. Ar least it was the complete opposite for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:44 PM
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Yes here comes the complain of the dudes. Not only needs he the appearance aspect done but also the thin line of being attractive and masculine without being to arrogant/uncomfortable for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:37 PM
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So now we need a definition of how high we need the social skills. Being able to approach, talk, joking and playfully teasing with the women isn't enough of social skills? Do he actually needs this deep glare and this nuanced toning of arousal to get an average women on his fitness level?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:13 PM
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She doesn't even need that. She needs to leverage a personality to get a man. If she has to hit the gym to get a dude she doesn't have a stable relationship, he's just going to pump and dump her for another hottie. She's looking for the wrong men. You may be right for some dudes but it would still take away the basis for her claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:09 PM
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Lol she isn't ugly at all. If she would hit the gym and get a nice toned or at least decently shaped body with a buffed booty, her dating chances would skyrocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:39 PM
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The key factors most men (and me back then) are complaining can be boiled down to "I'm hitting the gym, worked on good style and worked on my social skills. So why the fuck i can only get reds favourite type of women i'm not compatible with?". I think many men here had a period of some years where they really tried maxxing out on many levels and after that just deemed the "juice isn't worth the squeeze" and stopped again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:29 PM
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of course you can add "bad guys using women making them overly cautious" but since op is a guy and asked about from a good guys perspective wrote it like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:18 AM
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He said that all what the current people of gamoras planet know are full stomachs and an abundance of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:34 AM
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god damn you nailed it. Especially red. Although i think that girl barely passes his theresehold xD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:00 PM
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the amount of times she contradicts herself is just sooo funny^^
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:13 PM
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Lol. When my girl was preparing for her exam including learnings styles and teaching methods, she knew i could help her and set up this situation on purpose xD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:44 PM
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Significant amount of women gets their egos inflated > living hedonistic lifestyle > flaky, entitled and toxic behaviour > men stop putting to much effort into dating at first because they don't want to be used > women bitch about low effort guys (even women who might worth it) > repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:40 PM
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You got something wrong. Men are chasing all types of women regarding physical feautures. Personality and behaviour is what you describe and is something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:20 PM
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of ugly men? if you read comments here you will think that ugly women get attractive men too, which is FAR from the truth Not from the most attractive but definetely more from the average men who are still more attractive than them. And what is bad if the ugly women get attention from ugly men? It's their looksmatch after all. so, by your words, the low 2/3 of women who dont message seriously dont get dates at all? I specifically said that these women also get attention and messages. It just see…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:50 AM
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You are not overreacting this is also becoming extremely normalized for women and more and more are doing it without any remorse. Still surprised why red pill comparing women to children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:51 PM
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Back from vacation. The rainy weather did sabotage a lot actually but still enjoyed time with my sweet amazon. We cancelled canyoning completely cause of stormy weather but i just dragged her to a local wellness hotel back home for some days. Take 1: It isn't as wonderful as in my daydreames back in the days. Take 2: It still felt really good :) Take 3: My Co Worker is back from her medical time out :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:47 PM
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either way, you have a group of men who only message the most good looking women and another group that message guys lower than their standard Also not that clear cut. Okcupid said in a newer study that men send 3.8 times more messages than women. Take into account that there also several times more men on any online dating site then even if the relative graph shows that one group of men are only talking to the most attractive women, the unnattractive women are still getting good attention in ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:52 PM
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If it's a military fitness training i can agree but a military environment on top won't help much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:09 AM
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'nearly 70% of men message only 30% of women Wrong interpretation. It said that 2/3 of male messages are sent to 1/3 of women. Taking into account that men are writting far more messages then women meaning that although the most attractive women get the most even the unnattractive ones aren't going completely unnoticed (the graph never reached zero). Men are always trying their luck which usually bears no fruit anyway because the hoops are unreachable. The man has to learn the hard way. while wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:06 AM
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I'm sure i will be fine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:27 PM
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I just assume i'm not there in 3 weeks. *relieve*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:49 PM
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When does middle age start for you? *stutter*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:40 PM
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Men are also shamed like "Only want the same" etc. They just ignore it to the point it became a meme. Just ignore it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:37 PM
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I don't use labels in my relationship. I just observe what she is doing for me and how she recieves things i do for her and how i feel about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:53 PM
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Permamently no since now it's beneficial. When single of course everytime if i can get off the pill and return to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:37 PM
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Ok. Because that's the only way it actually makes any sense but this discussion lost it's appeal because it's starts going in circles. I politely end it right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:05 AM
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Just as much of a slap the 30 years+ old virgin or no next to nothing romantic experience guys with underlying depression getting regularly. Women have it overall harder? I mean in the Western world are you actually serious? Or do you take into account developing countries too? Ich studied hr and talk about the time as a student in the dorms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:55 AM
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Ah good to know, although the key point of being more sceptical about one sided claims and "studies" especially including grey subjects like gender etc. still continues....well because such things were part of my academics where i had to brawl through and horrifically aligns much with some of these hence i was so overeuphoric to make this post. Well yeah regardless Dog Park rocks xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:53 PM
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One of the bigger complains usually revolves around the mutual house or flat. Even if this is an shared asset, the men will get thrown out if both parties insist. At least so they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:58 PM
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The read was nice and even quite funny but it doesn't really disprove my main concern about publishing for money soley because it meshes with the narrative and mainstream (which in academia is PRO Women overall) and the rest of publishing work. Also the standards for publishing in such respected journals, as i said, seems almost not existent when delivering a wishful conclusion. This is Sokol Squared! It's a famous hoax series in academia Fuck nice. I have to look into it further after my vacati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:37 PM
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For the people especially women who love to see studies for every point. Maybe it was already mentioned but i didn't find anything. https://areomagazine.com/2018/10/02/academic-grievance-studies-and-the-corruption-of-scholarship/ This article is quite the thing. It proves the HUGE bias against men and in favor of feminism in gender studies. Even renowned scientific universities throw away any form of objectivity to jump the "pro women" bandwagon apparantly. Overview: A group of three scientists …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:57 PM
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You see privileged women here downplaying all the time. "Getting your dick wet" and "Possibility of having sex whenever i want" isn't important at all. You can't debunk them just like that because now they need even more hamstering in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:27 PM
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EDIT: No wonder you guys are never getting laid the defeatist mentality it patheic. Chicken and egg problem. Never getting laid led to the defeatist mentality in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:22 PM
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Yes. Due russia conservative culture this falls under household chores i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:56 PM
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Women also tend to monitor their partners' diets more than vice versa Yes. It may be different in russia but usually when a guy tries to monitor his wifes or GFs diet at best she will be pissed and at worst accuse you of psychological abuse because he thinks she is to fat. Yes a guy can leave if he wants another months and years without a relationship. Did it, got rage and depression thrown at me with withholding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:38 PM
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But how is that on remotely the same level as women's increased possibility of being the victim of sexual assault, rape, and/or IPV? Many men here are completely denying that women struggle to the extent men do in the dating world. It's like they want to have a monopoly on dating struggles. Given dangers at any time for every living being are not to be avoided. Men can fall for scam, can be lured by a girl into trap to be robbed (heavily underrated btw.), divorce raped, paternety fraud (at highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:32 PM
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If it's really of concern for you then i would dig deeper into salary negotiation differences between genders. even out the playing field We are long long past this point. Women are already at higher frequency in most high education jobs and everything is bending backwards to get it everywhere. It's reverse discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:19 PM
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Since the summer hit und and our covid numbers are low, we go to eat every week and often some swimming, climbing or cinema at weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:57 PM
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From the 1970' onwards the productivity per employer increased ten times while the salaries remained stagnant. Also seeing how even averaged companies are making millions and billions of profit there is surely need to do this. I hope the trial runs will lead more companies to do 4 days weeks and getting the best employers forcing every company to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:28 PM
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Men often complain they have it harder in the dating world. Are you accusing them of victimizing themselves as well? Furthermore, I never said that women have it harder. I'm saying there are difficulties on both sides, and they're important (especially for members of the opposite sex) to acknowledge. Already got discussed here several times. There are not some utopia with no struggles. There are roughly two alternatives that being the men's side and the women's side. Neither side is stuggleless …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:20 PM
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I'm not victimized but i used to observe and put myself out there, i've seen enough dudes called assholes to not compliment a women, especially when other guys do it increasing the contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:11 PM
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And this is an outdated view on a sharply decreasing trend. Would be interisting to see how true your statement is considering their age braket. And it's not perception but actually married men who are getting huge salary jumps because their partners are reducing working hours. As an unmarried guy i also find this unfair. I also find it unfair that young women have it easier to find a degree fitting job right after graduation which was the case for my academic way. Looking at linked in, all fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:06 PM
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So much text to victimize the soo poor women and their "struggles" in the dating world. It's shown time and time again that women absultely mentally melt and end up in a huge outrage if they just tip a little bit into the realm of an averages guys dating world. All this whining how to NEVER chase a guy over the internet shows what side they actually prefer. You love talking about consequences. Guess what kind of mental consequences a decade of fruitless effort can do? And for good measure, inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:29 AM
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The difference is that a man giving women approval and attention is a sign of good manners, socially encouraged and at some point even met with insults if a man holds back any sort of approval. While women can sleep or not sleep with minimal external interference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:09 AM
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Not the sex in itself but in retrospect i always think about how i should do rather this or this etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:47 AM
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Agree with you. Although the fact that women are prefered in hiring for field related sidejobs through subvention is a HUGE game changer for anything that follows. Yes even in STEM, the fact that women are the minority here is working in the favour of the few STEM-Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:45 AM
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That's why i'm confused. On one side they claim structural discrimination when women are somewhere falling behind man. But in the case where young women outearn men as a whole it's because women are better and not because men and boys are clearly disadvantaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:54 AM
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Grade boys better and raise them with encouragement, warm words and confidence. Also structuring the school to appeal to boys learning strength would help. This way there would be less and less social anxiety among males.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:51 PM
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Same goes for men and thus it's not gendered, while still treated like it's a gender problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:47 PM
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How they switch from "Women are still discriminated and we need more women in good jobs!" to "Women are better then you loser men, we outearn you and only because of pregnancy we are falling behind." I don't understand how stupid some of these are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:13 PM
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Arrived at the lake but had to stay in the hotel because the weather is cloudy/rainy and is said to stay like this till wednesday. Nonetheless we enjoyed the spa and the indoor pool and it's still feeling kinda akward and unreal like in my first relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:03 PM
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If it's so clear cut then B. Initiating isn't a big deal when i know it's gona work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:17 PM
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It's not overrated but in a different sense. Yes it doesn't last und you are a stupid teenager not able to tell what love is. But at least a little romantic experience can help in a huge way down the line. Definetely better to know that you aren't some sort of alien unworthy of any romantic and sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:52 PM
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PIV with different sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:44 PM
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Wrong approach. By the same concept we can force women to have sex and date men against their will to tackle the sexlessness. I think we both don't that and so we don't want to force men as a whole to pay even more for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:22 PM
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It's always like this. Men get thrown so much shit at themselves and have to atone for the wrongdoings of some few guys and still get told to be just happy and force through? It's a chicken and egg scenario. Some guys manage to get a positive feedback loop early in live, building confidence and happiness upon this. Others get nothing and are constantly pushed down the cliff of they try to climb up. There is no soil where confidence can grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:08 PM
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Sorry it's to annoying from my phone which always auto correct into german grammar. I'm afraid you have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:51 PM
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It's about which concerns are taken seriously. Men can't ever discuss topics like that in publicity without severe backslash. And i'm not underestimating womens drive to work but pointing out the reverse discrimination of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:41 PM
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The system benefits women before parental leave so why change it at all? Giving options to chose from is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:24 AM
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what the hell is the justification for demanding this other than "because they can"? Nothing. They do have NO other reason. You see women go full hedonism if it's benifitting them and they claim biology for their advantages. On the same time they demand social strucutures and perception to help them in the work force where men biology overall is more beneficial and here they claim discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:20 AM
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Since WFH is about homeoffice i ditch in. I find i'm almost double as productive because i can ignore my companies line of documenation and software. I do the callings with my apprentices if they need me and i can think about profiles, document the progress and communicate with schools much easier. I can send all my work to my superior in my own form and he takes out what he needs and so far he is very pleased. All in all i can finish of more work in 5 hours then in 8 hours in the office. But so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:19 PM
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Well i want to see No time to die also :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:58 PM
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You said they are a low hanging fruit. This by itself isn't bad at all but often times associated with a bad trait which is the reason why they are still single etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:34 PM
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But there's a twist to these bridemaids isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:06 PM
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What is WFH? Work from home?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:55 PM
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If a chad is also a bully then he deserves his face to get deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:54 PM
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Since we men are cursed with this fucking thirst, we can't have true equality. But other than that just being a decent human being and a mature adult which means.... Before the date: If you don't reject him right away, be receptive to his moves having an actual conversation or text exchange instead of a monologue from the man don't flake, i don't care if you are having your 15th car accident this month or that your sudden headache, which coincidently happens always before a date, i sooo bad canc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:52 PM
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You ignored the fact that feminism set all from toddler age to entering the work force in favour of women and ignoring the variance in boys, forcing them into the thin behaviour patterns most girls fall into. It's not they aren't competetive they aren't allowed to be and school is deliberately ignoring boys favourite learning mechanics. So no, when feminism would stop after the second wave then boys would still have a slightly disadvantage in school which would be easily closed once workforce is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:35 AM
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Of course men can't offer anything at what feminism offers women because men don't want discriminate themselves. Modern feminism artificially sets women up for success and helps them in every field they want in, absolutely ignores the fields where men are disadvantaged while still yelling the myth that white men are privileged which leads to individual discrimination of white men who get their career prospects cut down because companies are now prefering women if she is compareble in qualificati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:09 PM
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Depending on their history some people just deserve this although i myself was really scared of myself when the adrenaline rush ended. Luckily the fight ended all bullying. Bad thing, i'm fucking afraid of me that i enjoyed this for some moments and hopefully never have to fight again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:28 PM
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I can think of that some assume a high value man can do much better and leave the average women to the average men. But the biggest thing i can think of is that men are afraid that other women see this and starting the mindset "If she can do this i can do this for sure" and increasing women's standards even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:17 PM
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Not all men got emotional support. Most did all the work and still didn't have any children and women in their lifes. It wasn't until the family unit where deployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:18 PM
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I merely say people who are not fat shouldn't fuck fat people if they prefer a partner on their fat level. And if fat women get their egos even higher and deem even more men who are above them in terms of fitness beneath them, then it's actually worse for society. Fat men are also refused to being fucked so who cares about fat women not being fucked until they are in the same situation as their male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:10 PM
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Just a way to make the extend of how much i find women irl more attractive better to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:11 PM
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exactly. THIS SUB. A man can't just tweet or publicy say "All women are trash" without a massive shitstorm and even all his career prospects ending if enough companies read or hear this. However women can just say "All men are trash" and will even get applauded for it with at most some snarky comments here and there and thats it. Women can apply for 40 jobs and cry discrimination and oppession when rejected and when a guy gets rejected 150 times he just sucks. Young women already getting prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:42 PM
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Oh god no. Even more simps and even more attention and inflated egos of women because of horny men who can't get off anymore. There would be a 4(9) women pandemic. Men with porn addiction are still the minority. I did No fap for 3 months once some years ago and the most impactful change was that i even found overweight and close to obese women somehow fuckable. No please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:39 PM
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I find them just okish before. But from experience i know that a good posture and body and the whole package you would see IRL can make them 2 points better then in the before pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:29 PM
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rather than date down. date their equivalents. For the rest i can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:09 PM
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I don't think in my country we have that kind of cinematic bullying scenarios Well it's not that prevalent but still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:41 PM
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a society that still considers us less than You know that this is not true. Just because the few STEM women don't like how their male peers are percieving her doesn't mean that society considers you less. In fact it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:51 AM
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Yeah the typical endless hamsterwheel from the entire courting to be the sole sexual giver in the ltr. And in the end it's the guy who suddenly changed and isn't attracted anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:34 AM
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What's wrong with that? He even let's room for SMALL weight gain. And if he meets the standards himself this are actually points of a healthy ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:31 AM
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I don't like the way you worded it though. Women don't "provide" or "give" sex, sex is an activity that ideally both partners want and participate in First of all, yes i agree with this. But then you have a ton of comments from women here treating sex just like this and constructing their entire dating world view around this. They say it's ok for the women to do whatever shitty things in dating because sex is risky etc. and demand even more power in dating because a women gives sex and men wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:25 AM
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God damnit! Stop the poppy oppression! My poor knees. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:06 PM
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Well not against you lol but at the people who seriously want the other gender to be gone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:03 PM
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Bullshit. That's how a single gender society would be. Men may organize faster and will come up with straightforward solutions fast but a world without women would just make them inner hollows. Who needs a world full of incels? They would keep the society running...for what actually? Yes they can enjoy activities but a huge junk of what makes a human human is just gone. Women may be more warm to each other and be more comfortable. But to reach that point it would be chaos. They can do the same j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:56 PM
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Thank you for the last paragraph!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:27 PM
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Yes because school and teaching methods are catering greatly to their strength and wellbeing. On top biased grading in favour of girls from school to university and throw in whatever quote, "diversity narrative" or preferable hiring of "disadvantaged" demographic. https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2014/09/why-girls-get-better-grades-than-boys-do/380318/ https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/04/14/study-finds-surprisingly-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:03 PM
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Men get away with everything on Reddit. Head > Table.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:41 PM
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It's more like women are passive and rarely take any active role outside business. Of course being passive and a reciever leaves less chances to make mistakes. And with the women are wonderful effect even if they make mistakes in social events no one cares at all because the default mindset is that someone else provoked it or what ever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:32 PM
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Biology definitely comes into play on the very first date. The woman is more physically vulnerable and has to worry about safety on top of making a good first impression. She can also get pregnant on the first date if they have sex or she’s date raped. Though it’s unlikely, on a basic evolutionary level, every encounter with a male carries some risk. Yes thats like some abysmall chance like the fact that a guy might get trapped and robbed which also happens more often than you think. Not to ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:19 PM
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non-monetary cost gap between men and women when it comes to dating, and the status quo of male attitudes. Let me explain. When a woman goes on a date, she already is spending a lot of money and time to look the way she is expected to look on a date Planning the date, approaching, pursuing, managing the convos pre date and all this times the women the man dates with most of it not amounting to anything. My guess this is far far more non monetary costs. And now be real. Biology arguements don't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:28 PM
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Well pussy pass through school and most of higher academics + what ever government "equality" programm in hiring yada yada has it's effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:21 PM
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Since men are approaching and planning 99% of all dates nothing changes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:18 PM
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Sometimes yes. But became basically zero since my GF appeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:41 AM
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Lol WTF? This is not real. My stats before graduation were 0.45% and now with a job thats 0,085%. Seems like the ladies missed a real catch for 10 years or something lol xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:30 PM
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You would be fine if she wanted an open way for herself too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:57 AM
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So the women don't wanted but couldn't. Of course assuming the main partner is the priority in love and respect etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:09 AM
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https://www.thecut.com/2019/11/the-weaponization-of-mansplaining.html https://indiethoughts.medium.com/the-problem-with-the-term-mansplaining-58ca7e901755 Not my own individual problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:52 AM
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Just out of curiosity. Are you adamant of being it one way open in your favour or did it happened just in a way that the woman could fuck someone else but doesn't do it? By definition it is hypocrite to claim an open window for you but refuse the same for your partner or any partner you had and will have. If it just happens that way because the women wants to only fuck you and doesn't care otherwise, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:05 PM
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Some of these women will write blogs, articles and use other public ways to and feminism gives them usually right regardless if warranted or not. In the past they demonized competitiveness and any form of questioning the status quo, especially in schools and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:59 PM
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Read the next sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:24 PM
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Viewing overexerting aggression and overly dominant behaviour that purposely puts others down as toxic is absolutely right. But feminism starts to call every trait of masculinity that doesn't work in women's favour as toxic. Especially in individual settings women are just to fast to call men toxic if he doesn't agree with her. Of course they acknowledge masculinity to some extent but the lines are volatile. It's like you have to do painting by numbers with a huge surface brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:51 PM
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It's like OkCupid said, it dramatically illustrates just how much more important a woman’s looks are than a guy’s A womens looks may be the most important aspect for a guys that's a given and nothing new. At the same time guys are rating women higher on average. Both Aspects aren't excluding each other. It's guys that have high standards regarding looks, but not women, as illustrated by each chart OkCupid provided. If you are refering to the "message sent" charts then you have take into account …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:54 PM
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Sadly nobody cares about effort just the results matter. Many women reach a similar position as you but obviusly got way more leeway in grading and overall bias for following education etc. and then think your effort is no effort at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:11 PM
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We should throw out all official dating advices. As long as i remember i heard (mostly from women) to sit across the table because otherwise you make her uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:11 PM
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Then go ahead and explain me the part where it's supposed to be the opposite. Breaking down the data saying the following: Women rate 80% of men below average and women still message some of these below average men aswell as answering recieved messages of these men. Go ahead and show me your interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:09 PM
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Where? In the relationship? Yes of course, everybody forgetts something or switches things around in his mind or has wrong expectations about certain things. Here on a debatte sub? My experiences are gotten hammered down in my head for over a decade the hard way. They are adamant and won't move, anything outside of it is a lovely exception for me i enjoy. And no. OkCupid doesn't say the opposite. Just because women messaging and answering men from the 80% below average mass, doesn't mean they fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:07 PM
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It's not the role models. Especially in professional settings men are forced to reduce their competetiveness and also have to sugarcoat every sentence they do instead of straight dig into a problem. It's becoming mainstream that women just accuse men of mainsplaining or playing the disadvantaged victim if a man is outperforming her or has better arguements for his ideas and approach. (Anecdotical evidence) But sometimes i feel like a child trys to seriously injure me and when i just push back a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:17 PM
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Cheat days are shit. Cheat meals however are legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:34 PM
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Actually i don't have any of these. I had once a phase where i ate some sweets here and there and i took 1 month to remove the urge completely but other than that i'm pretty strict with "our" diet. One or two times a week we go to a restaurant and i adapt the meal plan for that day. It's all estimated but it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:34 PM
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Here is the catch. As much variety as possible with one person <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:33 PM
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An old injury from my school time. My middleleft trapezius becomes completely numb if i benchpress and it feels like there is a void at my left scapular. Well i can bench 175 but it's my plateau for a long time i can't to break through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:47 PM
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What about not being able to bench 175 lbs but the chest and overall physique at least looks like it can do it? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:59 PM
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I vote a mandatory two years service for women in the male dominated hard labour jobs to humble and ground them. Would be interested to see if they dare to still expect that much from their korean guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:35 AM
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*patting your head *
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:23 AM
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South Korea is a hard perfomance society. And feminism is responsible for the mindset that women are handicapped while they are not. So women get benefits and outside help to outperform the men. And additionally men like in West aren't allowed to complain because otherwise they get shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:21 AM
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No body denies the pregnancy effects. But many women use this as an excuse to let themselves go without even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:40 AM
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And how are other men benefitting from it aside from the few bad people who would abuse this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:55 PM
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Now women have been enjoying same opportunities as man for much shorter time. We are getting better and acheiving more with each generation. Not quite correct. They enjoying the same oppurtunities alongside well funded government programms with teaching methods catering to girls learning styles. And due bias, girls also getting better grades for the same perfomances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:10 PM
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Chicken and the egg. You need men to survive and be healthy to the age where you can birth new men to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:06 PM
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Other men have abused and intimidated women so they are compliant. You benefit from that compliance without having to do anything. Please provide SPECIFIC examples. I don't even need a study just some examples of how this happened and how men benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:57 PM
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But: Could they adapt over time and keep the standard of living as it is now without men? No they couldn't. Adaptation in evolution means mutation and mutation is easier caused to men because of only one X-Chromosome. They would simply degenarate and die out before they adapted. If men never existed would women be able to discover and create all the stuff we have today? Also no. Women love humans and men love things. This means women are more concerned with keeping face, ego and human interactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:54 PM
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because building a career which is something you already need that also happened to be attractive is extremely consuming? youre not doing it for women, youre doing it for your self, and it happened to be attractive, thats an advantage Everybody has to work but what is a career, what is ambition and to what extend actually? There are plenty men who just want to live their humble lifes with their decent fullfilling jobs and nice co workers. On top there are more applicants to desirable jobs than j…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:35 PM
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If men could clean more fast due to their physicality then they should do more chores, but they dont I'm talking about chores other than cleaning. Cleaning is about being clean not fast. But there are chores for e.g what i described that are done faster by men. I have no idea why but women seem to be more wired to pay attention to household neglect. Many, many men live in absolute stys and see nothing wrong with it. This exists on a spectrum. Some men don't mind having trash all over the place a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:42 PM
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Tifa FF7, Sheska FMA and Utsunomiya Koharu from How heavy are the dumbells you lift?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:50 PM
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because in most instances women are still responsible for over 65% of domestic responsibility Let's refrain a little bit. Women are responsible for 65% of the time needed for domnestic chores. Most things men do are faster done because men are physically stronger. Bought somethin for the garden? A man walks two times to the car and brings back all gadgets within 2 minutes while a women may walk 6 times and more carfully and needs 15 minutes. Bought your groceries for the week? A man walks two ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:52 AM
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Wrong it's not easier. Men have more ways to become attractive but every single one of these ways is as hard and time consuming as to maintain attractiveness. Additionally men's ways are more competetive and such have way more variables outside ones control while being attractive is mostly a battle with yourself. To explain further men can't focus on only one of these ways. We have to do several ways to at least a good extend and a day has only 24hours. Furthermore men also have to be physical a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:42 AM
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Well and there are as much studies to counter this like: https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:55 AM
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Looks like good progress happy to hear! Keep listening to you body and maybe start slow and light training to gauge how far you can go. GF only have one exam left this semester, i helped her in the subjects i also had and make her tea and other small snacks while she is learning. All smooth so far and no problems. Otherwise we enjoy our lifes and looking forward to our vacation. When's your next break from nodrinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:14 AM
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Yooo fellow bitch!!! How's your leg going? Can you do your squats again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:31 AM
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No ones problems are solvable but we know which problems society at least tries to solve.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:44 PM
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This is actually what i think isn't THAT true. Relationships with potential to go long need some vetting regardless of gender. Still several times easier than for most men but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:06 PM
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Amys sad memory: "I passed out at a party and woke up with more clothes on me than before."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:51 PM
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But this doesn’t explain pay disparity when no kids are involved. Aren't women these days outearning men before kids are involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:20 AM
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A big chunk of the gap is the marriage gap. A breadwinner for a family is more likely to increase his salary and the rise with female breadwinners is slightly correlating with the shrinking gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:03 AM
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I see. Your asian genes are dominant in this aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:39 AM
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Ohh ok you are not so mad about it like Amy from Big Bang Theory xD But damn? Someone put a Bunny onesie on you while asleep? Someone really wanted to make your sleep comfortable^^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:24 AM
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Oh damn your russian genes didn't give you a natural tolerance to alcohol. Life can be hard and cruel......in some aspects at least xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:59 AM
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What if you would wake up with way more clothes on you than before you passed out? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:46 AM
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Played a big role back then. Had just to much self respect to jump through hoops for women not knowing what squats and healthy nutrition are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:44 AM
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Life Hack. Realizing and accetping that you are average and mediocore yourself. That will lead to feel and treat the average partner like a hot partner and voilja you have a enthusiastic hot relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:58 PM
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From my own experience i have to agree with you. Although my hard limit was at 50 just because that would be not compatible with me on more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:02 PM
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Oh yes the ESTIMATED number of unreported. That's not about rape here. That's about social events and why guys have harder attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:57 AM
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Here take a cookie. Bravo, casual sex done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:38 AM
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Estimated around 2-10% which are proved to be wrong because no one cares about these that much. If a false rape accusation goes through it's statistically legit rape. Percieved rape for e.g is when two drunk people consent to sex but the girls memory is blurry about it and she is reports it. Losing panties while being drunk can also be percieved that someone has raped her. You actually caring only about the numbers with no thoughts of how these numbers are generated in reality. In germany was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:53 PM
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Congratz you are one of the few women with actual (dating?) problems or was it by you own decision? Regardless sorry for this but i'm afraid this doesn't contribute at all since you are definitely an outlier. I've been beat up multiple times and threatened with a knife (butcher knife to the neck to be precise). Have you? Or are you just being abstract? Wasn't a knife but baseball bats from the friend group of my bully in HS. Several times i was threatened and actually beat up, ambushed on my way…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:09 PM
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Ok remove the 55% of home accidents because this is not a party setting thats leaving the 45%. Then taking into account false rape accusations and "percieved" rape where actually nothing happened and suddenly it is exceptionally few in the grand scheme of things. Now then add that often times thats few men doing assault, rape, harrassment to multiple women then even with the 55% it's few men doing many bad things. Then explain to me why you thought "inviting less women" was a reasonable answer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:48 PM
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Omg you are Alwaysonatrip. It is wrong and sexist to exclude people by default because some exceptionally few of them world wide are doing bad things period. Why haven't you been like, how can we identify rapists and just disclude them? Because there are NO ways to identify rapists before they even commit the rape. We are not in minority report. It's not wrong to get raped. It is wrong to rape. 😮 Seriously i'm actually speechless and baffled about this illogic in a very very bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:25 PM
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No you can't this is commonly practiced sexism. Excluding men from social gatherings because of the fear that the women might get rape is wrong. Why don't invite so much women then? Women might get raped here so why inviting here? By the way. With this you basically confirmed that men have less entrance in social circles and events because they just get accused as potential rapists by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:40 PM
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men trying to put their things in your bussy with or without your consent This includes rape. men were to force romance on you Oh men rarely get romance forced on them. But substitute romance with robbing, getting beat up or threatened with a knife at higher rates than women. Now imagine. You are a mid twenty virgin being on parties, dates and social events. You sitting at home, the last girl ghosted you after onesided texts and date(s), thinking how none of your effort has even led to a kiss th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:32 PM
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Men not being invited to social events especially in college and private settings are a common occurence. Lacking social skills doesn't have anything to do with it. There aren't any subtle messages who magically give me the location and time of the party. ​ You realize men can be and are friends with other men, right? Agree but also doesn't add to that particular problem because men don't touch each other nor that touching each other helps them in stark contrast to women friends being touchy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:52 PM
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You switched the positions of the parties. It's not about the guys forcing themselves onto women but the guys being forced to live without any romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:46 PM
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You missed one little but most important fact. You DECIDED YOURSELF to be solitude. Being forced into solitude despite putting in effort to not be is the true horror period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:32 PM
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Outliers do exist. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:27 PM
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Assuming you are right. It's to degrading to play this shitty game over and over again where the chance is 0,1% to succeed and over 50% chance to get laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:23 PM
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Oh how shocking! There are definetely NO ways to prevent pregnancy and these 0.02% to get raped are sooooo high. Better trade it with the almost certainty of being alone and dismissed. That's so much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:06 PM
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Norah Vincent wrote it in her book "Self made man". And my own experiences who are actually pretty common. In both of my universities i've visited there are many private parties and gatherings from your class. Now imagine i was very motivated to party with my peers and asked if they are down to party this weekend etc. All in got where half baked answers like "don't know" "nothing planned" etc. Then at monday i can hear half the class talking how great the party was and i didn't even got told whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:00 PM
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Having overall easier access to social circles plays into this very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:51 PM
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It's not the casual sex itself. It's the peace of mind knowing that they can get it any time they want even if they don't have casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:48 PM
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This is soooo......true actually on many levels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:36 PM
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If i would turn a women now and my physique gets adjusted then i would "snatch" a good in shape average guy who has his shit together but for some reason is a virgin or extremely low N-count involuntarily. I know at least 20 guys from the gym or the table tennis community in my region and would date them. According to face app i would be a stunning russian beauty so.... xD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:14 PM
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Here right here. I saw this across 3 companies to various degree. Letzte me guess....these women still complained about gender discrimination whenever something didn't go their way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:43 PM
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Banning economic lobbyism. Deeper taxation e.g income from share trading and everything in this direction. Harsher tax hunting of the super rich e.g warren buffet increased his wealth by over 4 billion the last few years and paid effectively like 0,23% taxes. Changing the judging system to make it easier to claim these taxes. Subjects like houses or jobs are already mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:00 AM
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Even when i lost my weight and started to add some muscles to my body the only thing of interest where obese women showing interest in me but even then it wasn't simping. But i'm objectively above their smv cause i'm not overweight or obese and actually display discpline in my life regarding sports and nutrition. This leads to a problem with this theory. In this mechanical scenario you only need to inflate women egos to reduce men smv and increase women smv. Because women with overinflated egos …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:51 AM
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But the working density got up times 10 aswell as the overall productivity per employer but the salaries are stagnating or even decreasing slightly hence the increase in burn out and other work related illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:46 PM
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Well yes, i've dated many expats or exchange students in university settings. It's to be expected that in these specific settings and demographics the american influence shines through more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:53 PM
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I can agree on most things. However University cities and some of the bigger cities like Frankfurt, Cologne and Berlin tend to be more american in these regards. My guess it's due higher international influnce but still not to that degree like america.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:28 PM
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Stus Girlfriend in Hangover 1 shows every sign possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:21 PM
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I think it's more of mental confidence image. Peers treat everybody with double standards and many guys growing up get "put in place" if they try to present themselves as sexual beings. This results in a negative feedback loop devoid of anything which can foster confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:08 AM
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I find it funny how women say unwanted attention is worth nothing but there are surely more who use it to prove their superiority like that thing in the linked comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:07 PM
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Yes depends on the sector. I've even offered unpaid internships etc. But my sector is HR and yes women are highly prefered unless the guy is leagues above the female candidates. All in all i've also applied to several uni programms in hope to get a chance to collect experience to no avail. In the end i got my job after graduation in the Company where i worked production everytime i could afford some weeks. But surely this "discrimination" cost me around two years of my life because internships a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:25 PM
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It makes sense but leaving out some details. I've struggled heavily to find a job or internships despite excellent grades. People claimed that i was lazy because i should've looked for student jobs to earn relevant experience. But sadly everybody ist looking for these and mostly my female peers got the positions. It's easier said than done to "just work in internships etc." when many people doesn't even get the chance to work hard in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:40 PM
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Not even my russian genes could make me survive that...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:23 PM
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Oh yeah seeing a well formed ass just blowing up and sank after the spanx are removed....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:46 AM
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Going nuclear is so fun! Especially when done intentionally to trigger someone :P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:27 PM
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But here comes in my first point. For a guy it's at best a starting point and nothing more. Not that men have this straight forward situation. Some girls like bodyhair and some don't putting in effort here changes nothing. Some like beards some not. Some love a certain style and for many women it's even "gay" when it's go beyond the point of basics. A woman can decide for a style, go straight for it and reach a critical mass of men interested in her. If it was so straight forward for men they wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:30 PM
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Rip me. Average jawline and NO beard genetics.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:13 PM
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You got a point for some things regarding physical looks but mostly not that men aren't putting effort into it. The right thing to say they aren't putting AS MUCH effort into looks than women because as a man "changeable" looks are only the starting point if anything. You pointed out your anecdotical evidences but overall men aren't filthy pigs, they are indeed having a decent hygiene. Despite all changes in society men are still demanded to approach, be charming, assertive, planning and funny e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:52 PM
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America isn't scoring high on the individual culture matrix for no nothing. Same as their complete economic system and business approach is all about the winner takes it all, status and power. You clearly see for such a developed country america is absolute degenerate in many important social aspects like health care, consumer protection or even labor law where, depending on the state, you can lose your job just like that. Also to note. Many people with good careers and corporate positions got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:36 PM
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The Art of looking good naked the real take for smv, i like your approach :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:33 AM
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Ah so if you don't have 'sex on tap' you will jerk off to porn and slowly erode your brains grey matter lmao. How pathetic and weak. This can only come from a privileged princess and now we know which's brain is actually erroded here. Now to be clear. It is NOT selfish when a man watches porn. It's his right to use this as a substitute for real sex, if sex isn't available as much as it is women's right to not have sex or relationships with men for whatever braindead, entitled reason this might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:36 PM
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My GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:47 PM
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Funding an industry that features abuse of women and human trafficking as a large part of it has 'nothing to do with the guys' are you serious? By this logic people bying cheap clothes or people who are bying and throwing away clothes all the time are also bad because they fund third world fabrics with the most trashy working conditions etc. No it isn't, men who are in committed relationships watch porn too. It is. They don't have sex on a tap and they weren't in relationships all the time eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:26 PM
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Trafficking aside since it doesn't have anything to do with the guys. Which motivation do you mean? And relationships soo....porn is a symptom of next to no sex and relationships not the cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:05 PM
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How it is selfish from men to watch porn? Do they withhold something from women this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:04 PM
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Men usually aren't hating men. But when men try to snatch your girl or try to walk over and burn you in the workforce for their own benefit it's the closest you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:51 AM
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Men see what is right but they can't identify it. I like to say that boys get messeges full of contradiction. On one side women, girls, education and mainstream media plagued by feminism drumming in how men should be softer, more emotional, thoughtful, be nice to women etc. obviously this doesn't work for over 90% of guys. Then on the other side they see the truth indirectly be it through assholes, "assholes" or rude speaking and good looking guys having success with girls, despite being almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:46 PM
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Fancy Gym leggings and sports bra. Best ever for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:59 PM
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Half of my female roommates had sex several times a week with mostly new guys. My former fwb where i lived for 6 months had a new guy every weekend. My GF had a rotation of 4 fwbs before cutting them off because of me. Definitely not most women how rp loves to say but also not few. We have to take regional differences into account etc. because it was mostly student cities where it's so to assume girls have more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:33 PM
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Overweight or too skinny, too many big tattoos and piercings. Belly button piercings are still ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:08 PM
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There are two to tango. Give back the same effort you recieve or crave. sex is not the same for women as it is for men Just a excuse. In the end women also want sex. It's not something they are putting up with in exchange for something. Just because men are somewhat content with only being "allowed" having sex doesn't mean they don't love the same effort back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:33 PM
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Appreciating effort is good. But for many women that's the bare minimum while they themselves ain't even do a tenth of it and hence they don't appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:54 AM
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No. But demanding additional effort all around because of the mindset that's not two people having sex but women giving or putting up with sex and hence the man has to compensate in other ways. I understand the effort during sex but the attitude and damand all around from many women (not necessarily you) is just unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:21 PM
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They say it soley as a reaction to exact this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:50 PM
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So you hamstering your way into the situation where sex isn't equal for both genders by default. Two people having good sex means that the women was generous and the guy has to make up for it in a big way before and during sex because the sex alone for both isn't equal? That's a highly privileged and princess syndrom thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:25 PM
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But that means that women will lower their standards and surely this is the absolute last thing they want and will do and what any woke media or even normal media is supporting. At least in the dating sense. Only the absolute best is barely acceptable enough for them according to most published articles or blogs or what ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:07 PM
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Men have basically no saying in this. It's all upon the women and their flaky definition of what is creepy and what not. By your logic we can throw all trash, insults and other shit on men and just say "Man up and deal with it or you are fragile pussy."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:43 PM
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It can't happen just like that. We have to start the change when the men are toddlers pre school and continue this till adesolence. Right now boys get bombarded with wrong and contradicting messages. All they hear is what good is for girls and women while no one cares if they are feeling uncomfortable and how bad they are themselves and even get punished if they try to break out of their shell. Boys get many insecurities planted early on and more and more can't brush it off because of the lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:30 PM
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I was and ever will be 100% happy and content on my own. Being in a relationship just adds to the 100% on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:43 AM
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I'm excited like a young band fan xD The only thing that might get in our way is when she fails one of her exams till then but she is smart and i help her so the chance is slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:30 AM
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Thanks! :P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah hopefully i didn't forget anything. But i did a solo trip to the exact same place in austria 5 years ago and just crossing my fingers that it will be without issues again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:40 AM
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Depends on the dream but yeah :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:34 AM
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I deem traveling with good company better than solo travelling. And yes it was kind of a dream. I imagined all this things i want to do if i at any point get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:45 PM
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Both. When i see a guy with a girl who is not my type but i see the guy as objectively attractive then on first glance i can say that the guy is hotter. But even though i don't think the girl is hot which is my subjective view i'm capable of identifying behaviour and other traits where i can easily fathom why the guy is attracted for her. E.g. "That girl is not my type and overall pretty average but i can see why that guy, who is arguebly hotter, is into her because she has such a nice ass and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:21 PM
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So this happened and is now official....in 3 weeks i'm traveling with my GF. First we go for one week on a big lake and just chill there enjoying each other and have fun. Then we proceed to austria and get some action with canyoning where we stay for 4 days. Traveling with a girlfriend was one of my most common daydreams during my incel days so i'm pretty excited and looking forward. Another seemingly impossible dream from the past will come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:47 PM
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The cancer study just has to much openings to criticise for being more than an observation in a very specific context. Such as this Post describes. And overall both don't seem to be as representative for all marriages to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:36 PM
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Yes really these poor guys. Doomed to bring perfomance in dating but no amount of effort gives good odds in any way to cure their problems but rather is a herculean balancing act who may bring you many drinks and slaps into your face or get shamed as a try hard when they improve their physical looks outside of hitting the gym. Then the omnipresent media messages who almost exclusively brings up women's struggles including that men's best way to cure their sexlessnes in form of approaching is a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:39 PM
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Relatively speaking yes. Women are so high up in attractiveness when young und decline relatively steep but usually stay above many men. Men decline but not that hard because they started out lower in the first place. This of course is only a rough view and explanation which has many outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:38 PM
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Was it Full metal Alchemist by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:31 PM
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Happy prolonged drinking day 🎂🎁🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:28 PM
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Maybe...JUST maybe there is some truth to it 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:59 PM
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If i keep thrusting i can cum 3 to 4 times. But if i wait some seconds and it loses erection a bit then i have to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:56 PM
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If your running clothes consists of shorts, leggings or anything on the tighter side then i can't blame them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:53 PM
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What did you wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:10 PM
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You are overthinking this. The act of the company has nothing to do with female entitlement. However this entitlement of some many females to force and shame (fit) men into liking fatties can use this act as a tool to reduce men standards even further. So much for the "unfair" beauty standards women have to endure while i'm still looking for average and fat dudes making it into modeling for popular brands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:28 AM
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Learn to crawl, then walk and then run xD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:19 PM
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My GF cowgirled me once in the middle of the night because she couldn't sleep. That's as wild as it get's....for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:11 PM
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Some anectodical evidence which probably never led somewhere and got widely ignored anyway doesn't hold a candle to these masses of (below average to average) women demanding a better guy of any objective metric courting them because their fellow average and lovely guy asking her out to a picknick date on the lake isn't good enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:30 PM
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Agree here. Being class leader and main tactician for my world of warcraft raidgroup back then did more for my self esteem and social skills than this shithole named school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:54 PM
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So women just stay the same and demand more improvement from men just like that? And men have to put up with it just like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:26 PM
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Little bit pickme is always good. Just don't overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:25 PM
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No one ever denied that people do bad things regardless of their gender. He is pointing out the difference how these things are viewed and treated according to their gender. That's the same in school when a boy talks once during the lecture he recieves punishment after school and a girl who is even louder because she is giggling just get to hear that she should be quiet with no aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:13 AM
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I've always been aware of women's problems. Despite thinking most overdo and overblow these i have taken them into account by default when dating. Always suggested public spaces, tried to slowly escalate and give her time etc. The only new thing that PPD brought me was making me aware that folks like FDS and PinkPill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:04 AM
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People who are getting upset about this showing how greedy and privileged they are. I would vote for even harsher and deeper taxation even in germany because most rich folks is abusing every single grey area to make money and save taxes for decades anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:27 PM
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There are only two options... To many options of varying quality No options at all and the insufferable effort to create at least few options with even worse quality Judging how women react of putting even 1/10 effort into the courtship as men we can assume which option they actually prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:54 AM
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I imagine they would barely made it through school and wouldn't hold any job because they would insult the teacher and their superiors with their attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:36 PM
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Well well they are clearly to narrow minded as most older generations to see how fucked up the school is for boys and basically forces them into "loserhood". Would be nice to see how they would thrive as boys nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:31 PM
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The closest to this i had numerous times is "You still don't have a GF?" and every single variation of this. At one point i was so black pilled i just answered to my grandparents "You'll be dead before you see me with a GF". They couldn't believe a single bit and just said i only have to talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:13 PM
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If it all oppurtunities for casual sex would stop immediately then most women would fall into a spiral of depression and insecurity and talk all day how they are not good enough to attract men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:53 PM
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Big solid Butts without wrinkles built by Squats > Big Boobs :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:24 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lc6db8qfZEw Be careful what you wish for...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:02 PM
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What when the reason is just being shy combined with a long list of bad experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:05 AM
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Thats why manual labor absolutely needs a huge salary raise and better overall conditions. Also some kind of prestige and appreciation. They are the reason that we can work in our privileged offices in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:31 AM
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By definition alone alone most attractive traits in a men are only recognized when it's attained by winning the competition which adds not only the amount of men reaching this point but also factors outside your own control. I rather prefer winning the battle against my own demons (which i already did) than being exposed to constant competition where foul play is the norm. And it's not like women can do what men do too. In fact society helps them immensely to make them able to compete. Their app…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:14 PM
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Family Fuck, massage, cuddle and spank my GF all day long while i give my all in the work to at least get two promotions. And the most important of all enjoying life while doing this. 29;M.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:29 PM
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Compare the time investment, chance of success and competetiveness of both options. He never ever said men have zero options but only pointed out the difference in difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:20 PM
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that's all fine. But to many women using this as an arguement and justification for their far easier dating lifes and say shut up to men. E.g. "I don't care about your dry dick, our lifes are in sever danger everytime we date." Precautions are fine, in times of metoo men should to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:14 PM
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Whyy would you say that!? Now i have performance anxiety because i can't do that with my GF :((
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:40 AM
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I think it's more "Female never dating again strategy". Not being used yes i give them that but no in hell they will find a happy ltr with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:26 PM
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Then my oder brother do not fear. I'm not your competition xD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:17 PM
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Really? My likes on tinder were always overweight gals despite me stating how important a healthy and active Lifestyle are for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:13 AM
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Definetely one of the few reasonable women here. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:13 PM
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Sleeping with my GF in her 120x200 bed with both being 6'2" and 6'0". Wanted to buy a new bed soon after i moved in....that was in October last year. I don't care i love every single bit of it even if i need an operation because i ate to much of her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:07 PM
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If i were a man and catch your IOI's and for a switch i don't get a death glare but a chance to date you. You were transparent with what you want ok. But then i think. You want generousity with my ressources mainly time and money. So i (as used to) plan a date like dinner, climbing etc. of course i have to drive you and of course i have to pay everytime we go out and on top i don't know when the relationship starts. In this whole process...what is your role? What do you do in this? Will you help…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:40 PM
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And likewise, plenty of men do not like when they are given information tactlessly even though they lack tact themselves Chicken and egg scenario. They don't like it yes but they are forced to "man up" and get it regardless so in anyway they are justfied for saying things in ways they are used to recieve because after all they first recieved it. Thick skin isn't a male exclusive trait. I doubt many men would call women FDS bitches for giving them facts. FDS bitches throwinmg overblown tantrums m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:04 PM
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Depends how the way was to reach that hookup. If it was jumping through hoops layered with shit tests along the way and zero effort on her side? Then definetely no. Otherwise i wouldn't do that in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:59 PM
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If you get no backslash and pussypass most of the time you will start thinking you are flawless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:22 AM
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You overestimate the amount of intelligence and human decency of some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:24 AM
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5-6/10. I don't have ugly Features per se but i lack fitting well placed good feautures to stand out. The closest to a bad feature is my white, almost pale skin (screw you!) and the overall babyface/soft/feminine look of my face. People still think i'm late teens or early twenty but i'm 29. Height is 6.2 so it's not that. Some people told me i look like a softer Novak Djokovic. I've never met or saw a guy who i think looks like me so can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:34 AM
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I agree with you in theory. But in real life things get messy. Tact is a good thing to have but it's depended upon individual definition. And that's where my snarkyness comes from. Many women demanding tact don't have any tact themselves. Be it out of coddling and the lack of backslash as a result or due to lack of introspection doesn't matter. Additionally in the context of KS and the women in his show. They need straight facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:55 AM
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You can complain that women “want to be coddled” all you want— start dating men if you think it’s so dumb that women don’t act and communicate exactly like men. Most men usually don’t seem to want masculine women with thick skin who are abrasive and “say it like it is”, though. Yes it's hard these days to find women with enough sense of realism and intelligence to extract the right information and following measures of objective facts in short adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:23 PM
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Anonymous? No. Although some questions are vague that i'm afraid i could misenterpret them and lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:02 PM
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They are valid only if people just shut up and patiently wait for a fitting person to come along who will stick. But sadly especially women are so loud about their standards and complaining even louder about them and making it a problem for others. Taking commons sense, congruency and realism as a baseline both men or women failing to reach this base when they can't reach a state equal or close to their preferences. The difference is that if men just get slightly to loud he will be openly shut d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:00 PM
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Sounds like some "dates" i had. Half of these dates didn't even had any sorry message but straight ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:35 PM
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If by good sex life you mean that she is enthusiastic and makes you feel like a fucking king then i don't fucking care at all because i already feel desired and respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:22 PM
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It's the same for men every problem. Many men want relationships too and they can't roll the dice as often. Biological clock doesn't matter men also don't want to wait till 30's to get their relationships but are forced to because they can't roll the dice as much. The one and only difference is that men aren't as butthurt if he only gets sex despite looking for a ltr. Not to mention getting strung along by a third of the women a man dates. Twist it like you want. Men face the exact same problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:17 PM
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After my fwb offered me to live with her and her husband for the duration of my internship i've got extremely happy with my life in general. Being the target of pure desire and attraction was such a nice experience and showed me that i'm not an gender and sexless alien. And now living with my gf and working in a hard aquired job i'm not only happy but also thrilled to work towards "our little own kingdom". Everything before were 15 years of bullying and hard work with little to no rewards so it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:59 PM
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Funny to read that it's always the men who are violent. I'm from a russian family which moved to germany during the mass immigration in the 90'. We had many gatherings througout the year with other befriended families and it was only the wifes who started bitching and eventually turned violent. Not to say that my good grades where the expected baseline and everytime it was worse i got punished by my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:48 PM
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How i met your mother put it accurately. The girls were talking about their boyfriends in detail and projected this onto the boys too. The boys then immediately said they barely talk in the locker room at all and just want to go out of it asap. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:38 PM
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Date from your social circle because this way women will learn to know you and they will hint subtle gestures when you can approach them. Cuddling on parties and being invited to go out by said girl apparently weren't qualified and ended up in a slap when i went for the kiss. Only to see that latino immigrant in the club dancing towards her and forcefully kiss without built up and suddenly that girl is soo in love with him because he is so bold. There are some other light stories but this one wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:35 PM
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Men have the exact same problems like women regarding the quality and compatibility. It's just a man has far less chances due to hugely increased timeinvestment he has to put in to experience each of his chances. Out of this mindset most men just decide to make the best of the few chances they get. Other than this specific "sexually assaulted by the other gender" problem they share almost all the same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:27 PM
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Thats why i said that it should come later when individual interests start to develop. Before that everybody get's a basic foundation and even in specializing courses fitness won't be neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:17 PM
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This post comes near utopia. I would add ways to specialize the education once reached the middle and later stages since men are more prone to develop highly specialized interests and skills which isn't always physical in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:37 AM
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Being an useful tool for hard labor can have it's shortterm advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:05 PM
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Well surprisingly i don't feel that much of a difference without condom. The major gamechanger for me is that the inconveniences of putting it on and off are away and with other birth control i can keep thrusting after i came and get hard again, with a condom it will be to late after switching to a new one. Also my GF wants my cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:12 PM
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This comment will help many women enjoy sex more too. Instead of "he was a bad lover" it could be "i could losen myself a bit and cast aside negative thoughts" when it actually suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:47 AM
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Different things done by different people will work differently on different people in different moods at different times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:53 PM
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Breaking the leg of my school bully to late. One or two years earlier and i might have enough time to heal and get into socializing earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:19 PM
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Best thing would be quite the opposite. Every incel who is mid 20' and wants to lose his virginity and collecting some romantic experience and confidence should pretend, ly, sugarcoat and playing some acts if it helps him. As long as he doesn't use physical force or blackmailing etc. both are grown adults and everything is withing legal means it's fair game. Fuck you want to do anything about it in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:02 PM
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Let me rephrase it. Best care possible for 1% and good care for 9% of the people and next to no care for 90%. Or at least mediocre care for everyone but still the option for little better care for the rich. Obviously the second option is far superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:08 PM
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Your title is right and also your explanation with being forced to be the active part is spot on but then you lost yourself by limiting only to insults and also somehow only to the internet especially reddit. Outside of reddit and the namecalling etc. i do think that bad behaviours from women are way more excused and rationalized while mens missteps are treated horrible harsh at times. The difference in prison sentences is one example where you can see this. Also any mainstream journal is full o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:59 PM
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I enjoyed this "bitchslapping" a lot. I hope you don't interpret this like an insult ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:20 PM
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legally possible both adults free choice and freedom isn't only applying to women In this regard it's an even playing field so man up and be a grown adult. No further discussion necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:05 AM
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Moved in. Talked that i can keep the kitchen clean and prepare our meals including groceries. Vaccuming the appartment 2 times a week because thats what i can do good and fast. I absolutely hate laundry. I can start the washing machine and know which material and colour goes is compatible but taking it out, folding and ironing (if needed) is on her. Also she keeps the trash schedule under her vision. We had this discussion when she asked me to move in and after this 10 minute talk it was never a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:03 PM
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No. I barely can keep up with her sex drive and i just don't want to waste my energy for porn. I find her hotter than most of the porn women i watched anyway so no loss for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:16 PM
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My GF
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:51 PM
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Depends. If they want kids then it's a two way tie of getting the "best whats left" or "only the absolute best is barely enough". After they have kids when they are in high school or close to it and divorced i saw many women just meeting the next best chill guy for sex and other things and are mostly happy and content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:42 PM
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Be wary. It's a multifunctional pillow! It can pet you, warm you, has a relaxing heartbeat massage for your lying head and it can even cling onto your legs to warm them too!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:34 PM
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Funny enough. In my last months of watching porn i mostly watched porn with women next door types and acts or at least where they tried some acts very carefully. Also almost exclusively amateur porn like with the smartphone camera in the bad lighted room etc. For some reason this got me off way harder and better then the hardcore stuff because it was actually something within reach for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:59 PM
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So why men then shouldn't lie to every women they date to get sex asap and then ghost after he had enough fun? Doesn't matter if she thought it would be a relationship you can't be forced into one and she consented to sex before. Just say you had a change of mind along the meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:08 AM
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Being used as a pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:42 AM
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Actually four pack for me. But i didn't took them seriously anyway. Maybe they where just used to more fit men or were drown in social media and got their sense of reality twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:14 PM
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Everything listed below "no confidence" has it's roots because the men have this problems not the other way around. Other than that confidence feeds into the points above par looks. But social confidence is only built through constant reinforcement from others. This ultimately leads to the point where geninuely shy guys are defects for being shy according to your post because being shy usually leads to a negative spiral destroying every soil where confidence can grow. If we define shy as a defec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:55 PM
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Other than the definition of where exactly fit or not starts we seem to agree. I'm now around 14% bf and many girls i dated called me average dad bod lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:23 PM
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With "slight" dad bods i mean toned enough to still see some of the upper abs but a barely noticable bulge on the lower abs. This is not matched with overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:07 AM
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Well....my observations are mostly different. The most common couples i see are normal (slightly dad bod) and fit men with ovetweight women. Although these women have cute faces most of the time. But i'm from germany we don't have these huge regional differences like US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:29 AM
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For most men an equal partner is a fit partner when they are themselves also fit. But this is either impossible or extremely hard to get hence not good enough for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:49 AM
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Unless the pinkpill/fds squad shows up with their pathetic "men are useless shit and we don't care about the brick layer losers etc." speeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:06 AM
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It's more cultural and sociatel indoctrination. If every human grows up hearing left and right that women are beautiful of course most will subconciously adapt this believe. Take men's indiscriminate hornyness and desperation into account then you can skew every neutral viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:55 AM
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I got it from my mother before my bachelor started. It was functional and big enough to move around if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:34 AM
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The today's society artificially puts women ahead from school onwards. Every major discussion in the last decades where to think how to make women and girls better than boys in every subject like they wanted to make girls better by default. Boys also getting discriminated in school nowadays (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qloY4OJxBoQ) leading to an ever increasing gap down the road. Not to speak that the environment is catering to girls strenghts anyway. Because white men where advantaged back …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:15 PM
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My good old Citroen Xsara Picasso died this week. Respect to the fallen hero who died fighting. Drove me all through my bachelors, masters and all across germany to every job interview, vacation, date, work and everytime i had to move. He lived just long enough for me to save money to be immediately able to buy a worthy successor. You'll be my first car forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:30 PM
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You are right. But imagine there are only one hotdog on the ground every few months or more and you actually have to put in work, effort and resilience to pick up that hot dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:21 PM
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My experience is almost exclusively set along my own academic path and my hobbies table tennis and fitness. Apart from the party domes near my universities i can't recall any dirty apartments. You obviously have seen more but still, the trope that men are living in dirt and doing nothing vastly overrated these days. It may be partially true but not at this extend many women claim it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:50 PM
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I love to describe america as the most shitty and best country at the same time. Personally i encountered only the trash from america e.g. incompetent Managers who just got their position by being ruthless ****. But i don't need to be personally involved to acknowledge the good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:53 AM
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Of course when some factors align the others would even say that they are a good match. It's not all 100% or 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:29 AM
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You could add that many women reject their nieche attraction guys because they want the approval of their social circle. And despite all the angry rants women are throwing around only few of them have actual confidence to own their nieche preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:23 AM
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I have an athletic body and so by default objectively above the average woman in your picture lookswise. But many women here seemingly have another opinion on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:13 PM
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Another possible reactions could be Why? This is not his business or... He does feel cool now...etc. If he would be uglier i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:23 AM
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Thanks for complimenting me. I've met few men/boys who was like you described. But it were mostly Party people in dorms etc. Most guys i know where pretty clean and still some gf/wifes were never satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:54 AM
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add "no sexism in any form" for teachers and childcare as an adamant job requirement to remove unfair grading and treatment once and for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:34 PM
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In shape Chill to be around serene doesn't take himself to serious decent conversationalist no need to be eloquent some few feel good hobbies or one passion Edit: no permanent antidepressants Same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:46 PM
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Michelle Lewin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:15 PM
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Sex is usually the only thing where do you interact with someone being free of the chains of good manner everybody usually has in the public to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:35 PM
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Then it's all fine lol. Not that you should care about my opinion anyway\<sup>\</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:06 PM
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No need to show more of how a coddled little princess you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:54 PM
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I mean that he also gets to have fun with you like you have with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:55 PM
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I'm fine with how i'm now being fairly athletic but i'm thinking about bulking up (already did 3kg since i've met my GF) because i know my girl preferes her pillow little bit wider xD Would suck for table tennis though i think i try out how huge it's influences my table tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:35 PM
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With a 99,99% chance she outright lied and constructed everything having not to deal that she is a fucked up person letting you pay and organize everything and not showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:31 PM
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As long as Mr Right also gets the fun i don't see any problems with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:25 PM
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You are not rude lol. But to get to the point. I'm always assuming a normal state when i write examples because obviously in my memory the women were healthy. If by any means my gf is injured then it's a given i will take over the parts of her domnestic work that it's impossible to do in her state or even if there is a chance that it might hurt if she is not careful. We are not at this point yet or hopefully never will but if she plans to start a nicknack collection i buy her a showcase. This wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:53 PM
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Looking at the content of her comments here it's hard to believe if anything she claims to be is even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:35 PM
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Agree with all you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:42 AM
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The 80/20 applies only to the 30% not fat men. The others are mostly invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:39 AM
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Since we usually don't speak about salary in germany i can only tell about mine. Got a 30% increase for making it through the trial period. But it was because i had to start lower in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:24 AM
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And these guys who are bad at this are still 10 times better conversationalists than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:43 AM
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I get what you mean. And the women i've dealt with where my mother, basically every female relative and some of my girl roommates, we moved from russia to germany if it helps you. Your examples while i get them aren't applicable to me since i'm not blind especially in the kitchen where i'm cooking chicken and fish almost all the time. The only thing where i'm lacking is ironing my leisure time clothes because they don't need to be perfectly fine. Other than that overbearing dust cleaning because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:49 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:53 PM
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Burger with Beacon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:27 PM
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it makes sense. These people are very wary about everything and overanalyze every interaction. The same actually goes for pick up artists who think everything a woman says is a shit test even if they are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:51 AM
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A female equivalent of a simp. A woman who is going out of her way to either get a man actively or treating the man good. It can be negative if it's starting to hurt her when the guy is abusive and she doesn't notice, she basically changes her personality or appearance, putting up with to much shit or is "the cool girl" at her own expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:06 PM
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I don't know how the subtle gestures in your relationship are but it's not that uncommon that people who are very distrustful in nature are actively seeking for bad behaviours and this usually projects into other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:50 PM
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Not that someone can control this, i also sometimes are annoyed by some women and not by others after some days i reflect about it and suddenly realizing that their behaviour were basically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:10 PM
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Many things play a role here. On a subconcious level you are more strict with the behaviour of the average men and every misstep from him is judged more harshly while the hot guy get's free passes in many small interactions. Another thing can be the positive feedback loop. The hot guy is used to good treatment and propably doesn't have a scarcity mindset regarding women. There is no need for him to maximize sexual interactions with women because the concept of worrying that the next sex might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:04 AM
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This isn't really the matter anymore. At this point even the most mediocore women are helped to get good grades and jobs they don't need adequate skills because this way their lifes are secured with minimal work and hardships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:53 PM
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take the clean dishes back and seemingly not getting her new (10th) system watching for 1 minute how he washes windows and mirrors and just takes over seeing two or three shoes not perfectly in line and then comlaining how suddenly everything is always so dirty placing thousands of souvenirs or decorations on the shelf (against his will) and expect to remove all and place all back in order etc. expecting to move the whole shelf to remove dust from one single spot seeing a wrinkle on the t shirt …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:02 AM
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Self made protein bread. flaxseed flour Chia seeds Ground almonds Ground flax seeds Salt bread spice eggs quark If talking about buyable bread then the good old pretzel stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:48 PM
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It is prevalent where the women has an extremely high standard for cleaning. Usually these are relationships where the woman don't respect the man and is negatively nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:24 PM
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You think that women are giving up more sexually in this scenario. But sacrificing depends from the point at which the process of sacrifice starts. Women today have immense sexual privilege and thus would sacrifice it . If you change the point of view to the hypothetical point of the third generation of women after society followed this balanced scenario then it logical to assume that sexual preferences of women would go more in line with it (i think you said it in another comment in this thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:24 AM
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Then you are beyond salvation. Nothing more to expect going by your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:07 AM
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You speaking about your own posts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:32 PM
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You are to simple minded by giving an unrealistic scenario which will and can never occur in real life. Unless you coddled women men had to work and approach in order to get a relationship. Upon entering the relationship an average man has to consider many things if such rare occurence of a new hotter women showing immense romantic interest takes place. Will the new girl stick around will she be compatible or has she any other downsides which her hottness can't make up for? There is NO way of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:23 PM
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But women still do seem to give up more purely sexually At first glance it seems like it. But you have to define the starting point where you're sacrificing, are neutral and where your are benefitting from the system. In your arguement the starting point of women's and men's sexual satisfaction is today. This way it's a given that women are giving up so much men benefit and it seems unfair because women are already beyond any normal scale what their sexual options and "value" gives them especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:01 PM
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Hmmm if it's true than i hope my GF is bi xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:18 PM
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My GF already has my dream "occupation" as a bodybuilder and is studying to be a teacher for math and sports which is also appealing. But usually i don't prefer any occupation as long it's kinda normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:16 PM
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As i said. In itself both movements are ok although fat acceptance should be "We accept that you are fat but it would still be healthier to lose some". But they make the mistake to think that not being sexually attracted to fat people is a way of shaming them. I'm sorry that you take being called thic offensive especially that it's not your fault for losing your form but many people define "thic" different. For some thic means fat, for others it means curves on the right places etc. My GF was al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:56 PM
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Often times these relationships start out egalitarian. But the reality in many of these is "Just leave it to me. You won't do it right anyway" and then it slowly changes. Sounds pretty familiar doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:37 PM
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Calling your contradiction out isn't getting pissed. In my sentence simple is interchangeable with easy to reach. I know what i wrote and no amount of goldfish rationalization will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:23 PM
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Similar to my GF. She asked me out first in the gym and also escalated quickly the second date. That was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:34 PM
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No you shouldn't spent any major money on the first two dates. The actual amount can change depending on your income or the "class" you two are from but nonetheless. You date to get to know the person not to feed her. A classic dinnerdate can and should come later after you know her better and if you are smart then you already figured out her favourite cuisine and can plan the dinner accordingly. Any women demanding an extravagant dinner date just wants to use the guys as food calls and thus wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:20 PM
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Absolutely simple. If she doesn't postpone your date or even better if she despite being in stress will make some space for the date with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:03 PM
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Yep. After this i could see the mechanics after women's attraction standards at least a little bit. Previously i was met with ice cold glares and then the fatties started to smile. A little fun fact. Because i live in a rural area i could see that several of the overweight women where the same before and after weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:01 PM
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Stop contradicting yourself. You claim that men are at fault for women inflated egos because their standard is only "just don't be fat" and now you say men standards are "just be super hot all the time". Can you finally decide on one authentic line in your thinking? And in this context i meant simple as realistic because they are period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:56 PM
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Your described the core ideal of body positivity and not fat acceptance and thus is pretty idealistic nowadays. There are enough black sheeps in fat acceptance who exclusively leave out men and use shaming tactics like "real men love curves" etc. Also to add the amount of "normal" women in media and advertisements is increasing drastically so this card can't be played anymore while i'm yet to see enough "normal" men in media and not these roided greek gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:54 PM
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He is good looking enough to get dates but is stuck in the endless cycle of "one mistake and it's over". Also yes he is a guy and it's a given that dating is 20 times harder for a guy if he is little bit shy and reserved. Not surprised at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:53 PM
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At first no women were attracted to me at all. Then i adopted my fitnesslifestyle with healthy nutrition and lost around 60lbs because it feels awesome and because i'm attracted to athletic and slightly buff women. The types of women became attracted to me were almost all fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:53 AM
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There are two to tango. There are also many complaints from women that men have standards even though they are generally very simple, especially the fat acceptance movement is just a shaming shit show to guilt (fit) men into liking fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:47 PM
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Yes you're right. But why keep it onesided? Additionally to adjust men's behaviour we need to call all the gals with inflated ego that they are in fact sucking and won't have anything going for them without these outside factors such as men thirst and also telling them to shut up whenever they dare to complain despite being this privileged. Well just like we do it with men anyway which makes my recommandations not even misogynistic. As i said you are partially right but these topic is way more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:41 PM
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Maybe your knee were in a bad position when the skull muscles started to relax (the phenomenon causing sleep paralysiz) and it fixed itself in the second round of sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:39 PM
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The wall is only rough explanation of the mechanics behind SMV/RMV of men and women which is easily outdone by plenty of things first and foremost a healthy lifestyle and even after it the women are better of than the majority of men. In the end the only thing the wall is telling you is that younger girls are MOST LIKELY hotter than you while you can still be hot and desireable. Twist it all you want women are better of in dating just by being women and all the public feminism narrative makes it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:21 AM
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Got my wisdom teeth removed. Was the worst week of my entire life but got better very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:51 PM
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Someone being used to pitch black darkness will always be surprised seeing a glimmer of hope and light.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:50 PM
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No never. My first GF was chubby but she had bad feelings and forced herself to keep up with my lifestyle and had very impressive progress in 5 months. Needless to say the moment her old crush gave her attention she ended all things with me and even put me as the evil abusive ex who found her fat and forced her to lose the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:47 PM
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Of course there is never a guarantee for that. Of course approaching and actively initiating every contact and move is hard. Why do you think women let men do this 99% of the time with made up reasons and mental gymnastics? Approaching is hard and risky and just like children some people never want to give clear signals and always demand plausible deniablity as a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:43 PM
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I've gone to dates with tinder matches i weren't attracted at first at what the Profile gave me to work with. There always a good chance that you find her hotter irl than online and that can be a huge amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:35 PM
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Depends....Most of the time i grab her Ass whisper my intent into her ear or if we are cuddling i just start by mounting her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:24 PM
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Tell this to all the women who were rejected ONCE and fall into a depressive phase because of the feeling of not being good enough to be desired. Now multiply this times 20 and add the reality that this feeling might be with you your entire life regardless of effort. Suicide rate for women would skyrocket if it would be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:50 AM
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Many men did it at some point in their lifes. But if the price is an overweight girl incompatible to your new adopted lifestyle then most guys either try to go for their new looksmatch or lose the motivation to maintain their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:43 AM
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I guess our observations align. Same sight everytime i were in turkey or spain even if they aren't intend to swim later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:47 PM
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Don't know if it's a Gen Z thing. In summer i mostly see overweight 45+ dudes walking around around halfnaked xD At least here in germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:22 PM
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But my question is- does a woman doing certain sex acts really change your opinion of her? If so, in what way? As someone already said things like shit, animals or other completely bullshit stuff it would be a no go also a gangbang or crazy shit like that. Other than that BDSM or riding a sex machine till she passes out etc. wouldn't be a problem if she did that in the past. Do you ever lose respect for a woman, and start seeing her as "un-wifeable", so to speak because of how often she initiate…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:05 PM
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I kinda have to agree with you. Also add sexy seductive gestures into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:23 PM
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Knowing how mind blowing being the right type for the women is my guess is i'm not her type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:19 PM
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Nope i didn't. Text was blurred and i gambled with the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:58 AM
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It matters for ltrs only. FWB or ONS don't need that although some baselevel for FWB is to be recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:32 PM
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Usually this is right but gymcels and stylecels whatever you name it exist. And their common problem is that despite they did the hard work and objectively got better, the only women showing attraction are far below their SMV because they are fat or uncept or their personality doesn't exceed their smartphone screen. That's the key struggle here because even if they negotiate their attraction slightly below the struggle can be hard. In the end it will also lead to different lifestyles which addit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:37 PM
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No they are highly rated. NarniaFox started a little appreciation comment two ago or so because she couldn't understand that guys like buff girls untill she saw one herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:34 PM
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Not a women but my GF loved Tinder too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:11 PM
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That's something i mean everytime i tell about the process of upbringing till entering the workforce. We saw that women are disadvantaged (not as much as people think but still) and we changed that but gone to far. Now we need slightly countermeasures to at least have something in 50 years. And these measures can be appreciation of hard labor or severely cutting manager basesalary because they aren't worth as much anyway etc. and influx it into the jobs down in the hirarchy e.g.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:14 PM
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I'm so tired with men here trying to talk their way out of the male burden of performance. Their is no talking one's way out of it. This is female nature. This is a good thing. It is part of what makes us human. It's not about hypergamy itself but the whole gender dynamic in all it's facetts and all areas it manifests. Even if most men don't find the correct word for it but this underlying unjust feeling that have led most men either here or in the other pill subs is that we actively removing bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:02 PM
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Past problems were that i set my looksstandards regarding fitness close to my own level. Apparantly it was unrrasonable high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:22 AM
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Well it's basically saying that it's harder for men. Because "frame" and especially Status are heavily influnced by outside factors like upbringing and competition while looks these days is 70% you own effort (not nearly as high as aquiring status) and battle and even with average to below average genetics men are far more lenient with women looks anyway. As i want to say that i agree in a sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:43 AM
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Here this is the right answer. How in hell can men's standard be high seeing how many good looking guys settling for overweight (bad carried weight) women out of desperation? Yes something like early pushing for anal without trust is not fine but rarely guys demand a porn star like perfomance unless everything but starfishing is akin to porn star perfomance. Other than that social media is a plague mostly warping girls views but also guys aren't innocent here although they are not affected to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:42 PM
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In my definition being domnestically fine is covered with supporting himself leaving that it would only be enough if she doesn't want kids? Or are the women still caught in that stereotypical view that a man is basically living in dirt when there is no women in the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:59 PM
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I meant that boys do get told that they don't have to provide these things like security and protection because gender roles are "bad". At least they don't get raised with that mindset. I also doubt that merely being able to support himself will reach the thresehold for the security and protection desire of enough women at definetely not of the women who complain about not finding "good" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:41 PM
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Yes this gap annoys me. I really want to know how it feels to have multiple mind blowing orgasms making the body shaking. Damn i'm so jealous :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:24 PM
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That's well said but isn't the overall upbringing and general indoctrination we now have for 40 years counterproductive because it says to women they can do what men can do and better and to men they have to put up with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:15 PM
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I thought men were saying "picking wrong" is something women do all the time? Hardly any work. If you have sex with someone who didn't consent, I don't think you make a mistake. I think you committed an illegal act. Now define an universal rule for consent? Some women want the guy to push and prove guts, some don't but still won't show any consent in an other way and every possible literation of in between but clear signs. Also we were talking about removing the consent after the consentual sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:47 AM
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That's the thing. You can only do mistakes if you actually do something. A saying in germany is "If someone makes no mistakes, then he doesn't work at all". Not saying that the real bad people should be forgiving but a hell lot of these uncomfortable cases were just guys learning. And whats bugs me is the overhwelming demand for men to be the initiators but on the same time women won't hesitate to blame men for their mistakes. There is a huge grey area where good guys are treated like the real b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:16 AM
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Thats the thing. They all say men have to man up show initiative just to play the victim when shit goes south because the initiator is the lovely scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:08 PM
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wouldn't mind but prefer if she rides me instead. Maybe in the future maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:48 PM
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There is no law for this but some women here believe that lying about a career is rape in a retrospective view because women wouldn't consent otherwise and so the consent was never there to begin with. Although i believe that some braindead judges will sent a guy into jail over that by wildly interpreting the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:46 PM
1

Not that that i want that but the mechanics are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:39 PM
0

You are absolutely right. Bring back a natural state then men will suddenly be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:25 PM
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The thing generally with too many women and especially with fds is that you write that men don't need incentives to treat you well, court you and respect you more than a normal person deserves by default. But on the other hand you don't give this back. The entire dating process you are passive, overly critical, testing him with childish games, letting him double and tripple text you, acting reserved not giving anything for him to connect to you but expect to get to know each other. It's quite a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:08 PM
5

Had only two ONS and i had fun to try things out with them to see the reactions (both didn't know what they like but in the end it was the exploring fun for me) and focused on their pleasure. Of course i also wanted the same in return. I had far better sex with my fwb and my first ltr and by far the best with my current GF, so won't aim for ONS in the future anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:44 PM
5

A very chill and balanced outlook on the world (there are so much in these line), a stunning body, very high sex drive, almost the same lifestyle and the courage that led her to make the first move on me. Edit: If it Goes strong for 2-3 years i definetely will marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:13 PM
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Meanwhile i saw million versions of every single hint women are describing here and even more where 95% of it ended in "glare of cold death" rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:08 PM
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i need a guy to put SOME effort into his looks because it's not fair to me to get an ugly guy when im busting my butt to look good That's basically the rootcause why men in the manosphere lashing so out on women. Despite that, i find your appraoch reasonable and you shouldn't change it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:05 PM
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Probably yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:56 AM
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These traits are good in moderation but if going overboard they become toxic indeed. But however feminist usually throw these words far bevore any of these traits exceed a objective toxic thresehold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:51 PM
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Sorry to hear...lucky me i've never seen a squat accident irl. I spot my gf everytime and i'm so nervous and overcautious every single set because... Just imaginging it irks me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:39 PM
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This is true indeed. When i feel save and collected enough evidence i will pull some strings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:32 PM
1

Well many men adapt at how they are treated by action or commicate and merely treating others how they are used to get treated. Having a miserable dating life for almost a decade certainly doesn't make someone pleasant and experienced in a warm relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:21 PM
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"I don't need a healthy lifestyle. I just cheat and continue being human trash to feel younger and energized!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:16 PM
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Strictly she breaks the AGG law which forbidds discrimination because gender, sexual orientation, faith etc. but it's not like she openly admits this. I'm just happy that i'm made it through the trial period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:10 PM
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It's germany. As for now she can get away with it by saying that for the jobs she is responsible for the female/male ratio of applicants is about 8/2 and there weren't boys with grades that much better. I write down everything she is doing and tries against me. If i'm more stable in the corporate i try to pull some strings. If she goes it is because of bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:06 PM
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My two co workers....although it's usually only one who openly hates on the male gender. I looked into our general application documents and she didn't even hired a boy or men once in her two years and defends it with quotas and even says women are better than men anyway and women are structurally discriminated from school to business and what ever nonsense feminists love to create out if thin air these days. Complete incompetent cunt is an OBJECTIVE description for her. The other one is "just" …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:26 AM
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That's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:05 PM
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How do women can understand men trauma and struggles at all? It is so brutally normalized and ingrained in the general perception and culture that they conveniently turned men struggles and trauma into everyday life and hence making it invisible. On the other hand men should understand womens trauma (if warranted) but don't expect sex or any peak intimacy in return because most of the time the man can be the most patient and loving guy ever but get's his starfish sex once a month. Understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:46 PM
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Practilly he is right. Overall the world suffers from overpopulation and any arguement in the disposable sex direction is lacking any foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:08 AM
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For me it is like the icing on the cake. Stable relationships are shown in the "boring" times and if you mesh there together than you have a huge foundation and can add interesting stuff to it. My GF calls me boring as an insider but also loves to be boring together with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:47 PM
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But other random chics can see this too and try to enter this spaces. Many chics would stay in their local space otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:22 PM
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As much as there is nothing stoppping women for decades now and they all still cry how man are supposedly priviliged and plague every media with their braindead nonsense. what law is in place that’s stopping them? what policy is in place that states they must not be allowed to succeed? there’s literally nothing substantial that’s stopping them. Basically everything i said is a hard stop for men because the mechanics are discriminating by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:16 AM
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From young age hearing how women are discriminated and men should use their privilege to help them just to see in action how even the dumbest girls getting very good grades because "the sentence was cute or she behaved nicely" while boys making objective good and logical formated presentations but getting worse grades because "it was little bit to dull and calculated". Entering the dating scene getting humilating rejections and the classic "this girl is totally into you pranks" and how they excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:26 PM
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Some guy always has to point out why her body is wrong because he personally doesn’t find it ideal In what world is this shaming? Are men not allowed to have preferences? Obviously to many women lack the serenity to not overthing this especially that women e.g insult athletic men as "average" all the time because they think only cover models are athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:10 PM
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I would trade in a heartbeat. Every gender swap app made me into a stunning women who actually looks like my non existing sister so no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:52 PM
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All the girls/women only programms and quotas saying something different. Not to mention that school is heavily girl favouring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:03 PM
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It starts in the Kindergarten and follows through the entire school. Hardly an age you can chose something like this especially when you get punished every time if you not obey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:52 PM
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Yet feminist upbringing makes it all the harder to even obtain a table while women getting all the encouragement and funding from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:44 PM
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I agree here. The only reason there wasn't any vaccine using this technology till that point was because they had enough time creating vaccines with the generic methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:21 AM
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Not at all. However i "hate" the overall environment and the ways it deals with both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:40 AM
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Or she just thinks that you are more attractive because you cater to her nieche or what ever. But we'll see what the future brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:45 PM
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Many women definitely have a nieche they are attracted to. But also comes with it's own kind of hardships like when a women wants to maintain her "social standing" she maybe won't date someone who is seen as not as attractive by her peers eventhough that guy makes her panties drop by a mere thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:09 PM
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After experiencing how fantastic it feels when your partner can't take the hands off of you i prefer being percieved as the more attractive one by my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:52 PM
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Are you alwaysonatrip by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:10 PM
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Well well doesn't matter it's the past. I enjoy the present now ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:46 PM
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I give her the benefit of the doubt. I was only her second, she was only 19 and she just didn't knew better at the time and was to influenced by magazines and media. She had other problems though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:26 PM
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My experience differ. My first GF wanted to be in the mood and needed setup und my current doesn't need any, only thinking about me and sex makes her horny and ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:22 PM
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I don't really care if they wanted to fuck. In fact sex is fun and it's all fine. But i care if so many women here making these hard mental gymnastics to downplay this despite the evidence that women without these (useless) options almost without exceptions end up extremely miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:48 AM
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Would be a fine approach but then these exact same women complain and bitching about everything that is a slightly hindrence for them and calling discrimination whenever they don't get their way over the man. They cry about every little area where they have it worse demanding to be placed better there by default but at the same time adamantly refuse to turn the wheel on the otherside in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:42 PM
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Is it available for windows?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:07 PM
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There are many little subtle things "assertive" people are doing in social things like rejecting some basic polite moves while asking for it themselves later down the line. If you are at a social gathering or houseparty these guys decline advice and recommandations of what to do next or where to go next usually with made up excuses but and then immedietely just say "let's go to.....". In fact if given the oppurtunity they even ask other guys first with the intent to decline anyway and make sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:07 PM
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Not yet. But we will definetely do some tapes to see how we look on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:04 PM
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Just to quote some women here: "I went into the party with the intend to get laid and we had fun all night" "I wanted to get laid and got laid" Just having the peace of mind that you could do it if you really want is a solar system wide difference even if you barely make use of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:53 PM
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Did he touch you? No. Did something happened after that? Guess no otherwise you would write this. Did this qualifie as sexual abuse? No But this kind of things will find their way into "sexual harrasment and abuse or even rape" statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:43 PM
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Not that i fully agree with your overall premise but this.... A petite girl might make eye contact with a large bearded man for a split second on a dark street. The entire weight of her threat-detection faculties will slam her with anxiety, but such a raw perception doesn't reflect reality. Maybe this guy is the nicest dude? ....is soo true. And this kind of experiences are then recorded in the self claimed statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:43 AM
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Well yeah english phrases aren't my forte but yeah n-count in itself doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:27 PM
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having a hard time understanding what you mean :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:38 PM
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unpayable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:10 PM
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I don't care about N-Count
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:37 PM
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I hope these answers will encourage you to avoid this question or just lying. Most don't want a virgin but also not someone who bought a service they don't care what happens because they don't leave their dating throne.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:19 PM
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He stated for each point that he is the exact same as he aims for didn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:07 PM
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That's for you to define and decide. Everybody weights traits differently and thus a unicorn is an individual statement applied to individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:25 AM
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Yes the 5 times in my life where i actually walked alone on the street after 3 a.m were pretty peaceful...oh wait this group of 5 man with knives won't do anything because i'm a man. But actually i can chose to walk in the direction where only one man is and can fight him if needed. Factually deconstructing a dumb idea from a woman? > Stop the mansplaining you misogynist. Then another women came in said her idea wasn't good and she was silent immediately. A girl being nervous and stuttering at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:24 PM
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Rightfully so. No reason for it to be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:48 PM
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Rape is unwanted sex and thus should be treated as such regardless on who is the unwilling party in any constellation. Period. Done. No more room for any discussion. Any other opinions are just hamstering. For women victims nothing will be changed so any wishiwashy reason is just a protection of female rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:17 PM
2

You may look that divorces are cycling with great financial crisises.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 PM
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Usually prefering without makeup. But if she has a bad feature in the face she is insecure about then by all means she can soften this up with make up if it makes her happy. She shouldn't overdo this obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:35 AM
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Still waiting till this blonde ******* will be thrown into prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:42 AM
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Unemployed is only the last thing, the nail in the coffing. It already starts at what kind of emplyoment has the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:57 PM
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It always been but with an military/punishment like drill to force everyone even most of the boys who rebelled. Of course this isn't an option and i don't want this back even though i won't be affected by that. But an oppurtunity missed to establish more even methods. This is your opinion and nothing else. There is nothing in the vast field of psychology that poor self esteem is any less detrimental to women. Internal theres is no difference. Especially in dating and shy and unconfident men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:21 PM
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You forgot to add that the guy has NOT to be into her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:14 PM
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Sorry i tried my best :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:05 PM
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It's not solely about the burden of pursuit but how it plays out these days. Many men are pursuing and pursuing doing all the dates and the planning being gentlemen only to be insulted as low effort from women demanding a higher and higher courting standard as we speak? And even if they factually write down and explain why they are unsatisfied with dating they are swept away with "man up and stop bitching" and then they read an article next day with the headline "Dating is hard for women because…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:47 PM
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No one is entitled to anything but a group is let get away way more than the other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:28 PM
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I could write several wall of textes because i'm dealing with it right now with my apprentices but i try to be very short. All this RP and sexlessness yada yada is more of a symptom. For me it begins early in the elementary school and reaches it's peak in the middle school. The most important and formative time for young people. ​ The overwhelming amount of learning content is transported verbally and visually. Especially the verbal learning method is favouring girls while the visual way is even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:25 PM
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Decreasing men sex drive and make it like womens would be individual utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:22 AM
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Used to drive around 60-80min sometimes. But after i drove this for nothing because they didn't show up or cancelling the date 5 Minutes before the arranged time i reduced it to 30min max. and stayed adamant about it. If someone lived farther away then we met halfway or i instantly ghosted. I don't want to deal with some lazy no effort bitch waiting to be catered to her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:15 PM
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Thats are real nice experience xD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:52 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:11 PM
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If her belly only bulges a little bit then it's ok for me 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:21 PM
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I arranged my entire routine in a way that leaves room for small lovely gestures and even doing some cute things along the way. I wanted a relationship because i was "depressed" before and now i'm in one because it just feels nice seeing the other smile :) Although there are still some topics being discussed and still need some compromise but i could aim for a sex doll if that would be a dealbreaker. You are all imaging some dirty scumback only wanting a bangmaid but there are many romantically …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:41 PM
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Most of it comes from a positive feedbackloop usually starting in the school when you are to dumb to see the importance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:01 AM
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Yes i do on a societal level. Everything being equal women get a slight benefit. I acknowledge the influence of race etc. but this would be overblow every single post. And i'm not even talking about different learning strenghts etc. which also has a huge influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:36 PM
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Yes and it should only adress problems that are not at expense of men as a whole especially the average men. Getting equality at the top is ok but doing it so by sabotaging boys from an early age isn't equality. But that doesn’t mean “men have it worse” though Agree to disagree. Men as a whole have it worse....slightly....but not by that much as reddit claims it to be. Take it with a grain of salt, as someone whose last academic years were solely in heavily women dominated fields i can't guarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:35 PM
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Yes exactly. If 50/50 were absolute fairness then to my estimation it is around 55/45 at most in favour of women which leaves enough room for many men to still have it better. But it's not usually the status quo that's vexing but the direction that feminism still pushes the "women are discriminated" narrative but obviously that isn't true anymore if we balance all things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:52 PM
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Even better. All this corruption and lobbyism destroyed the middleclass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:58 PM
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Just as Laverne said to Dr. Cox. "....and if i couldn't believe that there is a bigger plan behind all of this i wouldn't be able to show up tomorrow....."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:57 PM
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Thats why i say on average. Usually when i say term like this i mean the demographic directly affected by feminism and it's messages also usually there are also tons of nuances but since i'm feeling like to write an entire essay just for someone quoting one single line out of context ignoring the rest in the process. That's why i'm writing in the sense that if we take every pro and con of being a man or women in western societies and balance everything out in my opinion the scale falls ever so s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:35 PM
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Moved from Russia when i was 2 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:52 PM
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What about a man that stays hard to continue after he came?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:52 AM
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She approached me, initiated sex the first date, never thought i want a relationship, but at least wanted to get laid. I said i want a relationship and not only fucking and she happily agreed to. Pandemic made it more fast paced because it was announced to shutdown every cultural facilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:38 AM
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Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:51 AM
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Some called me ugly when i was overweight. Most called me average to decent looking after. I guess i'm in the average limbo where i don't make an impression in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 04:51 AM
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There are bad doing from men and women and from many ideology groups. However a man hurting his wife/gf is more in the spotlight than a women doing the same. A men leaving wife and kids is painted as bad or things like he found a younger woman. A women doing the same is more likely to be excused like "she wanted to explore herself and felt like she was in a cage" etc. I'm not exposed to non western news but i know they are more stuck in the past regarding women's right for good or for bad and i'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:24 PM
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Not minding is neutral, being happy is positive. But this exchange is over now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:32 PM
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You are to hooked onto this topic. I know she doesn't mind it and we live our life. He asked about the opposite sex and stranger or not this doesn't matter to the topic. I can imagine how PPD would rate her given how the pictures here are rated. On a regular basis men are called "far from being a jackpot" or "Eggheads" from their SO and nobody is bothered by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:00 PM
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Western women on average are extremely coddled and thus they are raised in such an environment where the only really bad things they withness are the onesided media almost exclusively showing the bad doing from men. Added together with the lack of any thic skin every single misstep from men has a cataclysmic effect because they are just used to that everything is bending to her whim or at least is indifferent. Someone used to such life is shocked the moment other humans also want their needs met…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:43 PM
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Japanese people are working 70hours/week on average with only 7 days vacation. Not surprising that it's fucking with their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:29 PM
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I didn't missread. It was more meant to add to your comment not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:13 PM
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There is no rule that say it has to be XX minutes long etc. What i love the most is versatility sometimes we just appoint one day where we consciously decide to make a long intimite session and othertimes she spontaniously wants to be pounded on the spot and it's over after 10-15 minutes and everything inbetween in every shape. If someone wants longer just say it or continue in a gentle way etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:57 PM
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You know this. This sub is about sexual relationships and the concept of the SMP etc. So some degree of numbness is a given here. And in the context of this thread we talk about face specifically, at least i did. Total appearance is something else. Maybe she wouldn't be happy reading this but i know i'm not perfect either if she calls me out on my ugly stretchmarks then so be it i don't mind. But semantics matter here and ugly isn't the same as disgusting don't overblow this please this fit the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:04 PM
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Think what you want. Not everybody sank into the selfloathing of media driven depression and deals with the cards life gave one. In fact i think she is absolutely stunning and i don't greed to show her but some realistic sense of your partner and yourself harms no one. According to what many people think a 5/10 man is i'm also an 2 so yeah guess we are matched and happy together. There is no way someone can be as dense as you are comming off Were you ever bullied in your life? I mean really bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:09 PM
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Well her face is just like that and she doesn't give into illusions she even makes jokes about putting on a McDonalds bag over her head if it helps me xD. No need for sugarcoating and she makes up for it tenfolds anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:09 PM
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Most "ugly" i see are also only fat people. Ugly in terms of face i see my GF everyday soo....xD but other than that most of the ugly women i see are middle aged or older women who didn't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:57 PM
1

Yes. Own effort increases the odds but doesn't make it 100% sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:28 AM
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what a woman think is friendliness is for another woman akin to directly offer sex to the man. A woman can even be unfriendly or indifferent and later complain how the man is clueless not getting her hints. The next woman can be touchy and cuddly but get offended if you suddenly misentepret her "friendliness" as romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:09 AM
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Actually it is capitalism most of the time. You may work "only" 8h + driving but no one talks about the work densitiy which is 8 times higher than in the 80's for an even lesser income. And this in tune leads the inability to relax when you always have to think about reaching your milestones over and over again. It's all spiraling downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:40 PM
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Instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:10 PM
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Lukewarm from them usually but yes won't get better if it's onesided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:38 PM
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No. I'm a man working in HR, a female dominated field. Not only i had to go to extreme numbers in terms of applications, my grades were far better than 95% of my female peers and all of them easily found a job after graduation while i'm forced to travel around germany going from job interview to job interview despite that every applicant training verified that my job interview skills are well. And as the sole man in our HR department i'm not respected less or more. My co workers even openly admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:09 PM
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Overall this might be accepted for women but on an individual level they might get backslash. My GF always get some stinky comments about her fake breasts and other people ask me if they bother me etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:30 PM
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Similar to me. From getting approached to moving into my GF's appartment were only two weeks and i doubt any lukewarm date where people are usually on guard regardless if it's the 2nd or 7th date would do better. Altough it could be risky if we wouldn't mesh together at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:14 PM
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It is really more about luck but someone can increase the odds by own effort. The more often you roll the dice the more likely you get the 6 at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:10 PM
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Working in HR i wholeheartly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:14 PM
1

I'm sorry. My beloved cat of 17 Years is already waiting for your purry little sweety over the rainbowbridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:11 PM
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That's a reasonable description of positive and negative feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:31 AM
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I gosh i have so much problems with your first sentence. As much as with the women pro quotas because getting a job only due connections is pretty poor. I never said that women overall are less qualified but men need a visibly better qualification than women where quotas are in place which is a pretty wide net.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:29 AM
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No. But i had some serious talks with authorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:22 AM
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"Oh sorry Dan, we know you are qualified for this position and you tests and interviews were top notch but Bella over here although worse than you everywhere but not by much and we have to hire her because of the new Quota we have to follow but you're an excellent young man you will find a job fitting your education." *Dan goes away denied his 16th application due to quota."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:42 AM
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Yeah but now i plateaued on purpose. Don't want to become to big.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:14 PM
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I actually bulked up 3Kg lean muscle mass with my GF's homeworkout routine. At first it was hard but at some point it was to easy and i had to add some intensity techniques and bought some heavy resistence bands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:40 PM
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Nothing makes a woman a loser. They don't have the burden of perfomance. There are other bad terms but loser is mostly reserved for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:21 PM
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I got myself in trouble when i challenged a feminist tutor who didn't do any research and just spilled out these half truths about oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:14 PM
1

Not me but i know a girl who cheated and broke up because of the guilt. Both got back together after 2 weeks and it seems to go strong for 4 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:39 PM
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Women indeed participate in the race. But society gives them motorcycles and bikes for the same course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 01:20 PM
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It's argueable to what extend the popularity factor of the K-pop look factors into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:55 AM
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Women universal standards are out of the blue and barely met by the best of best looking men. But many women still have some sort of personal nieche that give them strong tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:54 AM
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The starting point is roughly the same for men and women with "bad behaviour" but as people grow up they adapt to what society allows them. Regarding social subjects like dating women can be the most oppurtinistc, shallow and hypocritical bitches to no end and will get away with it and sometimes even encouraged. Of course they grow up with little to now backslash and thinking all they do is good. Most men on the other hand get backslash after backslash getting told what shallow pigs they are unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:51 AM
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Just text to your plates if they want to fuck the next days and depending how many positive answers you get, you can set up plans or free time/days for them. That's how my SO did that before me, i'm not chad enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:21 PM
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No Yes, kinda. It would at least be nice to gain some confidence and positive feedback loop in school to make my Studies better and to learn social situations more fluently. 29 M Always had to deal with bullying and couldn't approach in my set circles back then because i was the "Guy who got bullied by the popular Athlete" and after i stopped his years terror with physical violence everyone was afraid of me. Similar situation in university. Although if someone would give me the option to rewind …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:06 PM
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Usually you are right but the problems are.. perception on men looks is severly windled down where i saw easy 8's rated as 4-6 women's looks is extremely overrated in general by many factors such as thirst, make up etc. not all, not even most but enough women have an insanely inflated ego through their upbringing and media And PPD's definition of league is that if a man is thin and has little bit above average muscle mass than his league is a fat women. Of course men should not date their "leagu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:52 AM
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This is due to following... men default state is usually more thirsty (changes after post nur clarity) Gen Y onwards is usually indoctrinated by media that women are so beautiful etc. in tandem with... complete lack of general male appreciation in open media and only the bad cases are communicated Kids growing up with these messages and through their most formative years. Of course the perception tends to be that women are more attractive even from straight women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:38 PM
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This is tiredsome....Many women here say they want a guy who ADDS to their life or they stay single. So in that sense the husband makes the women more successful. This probably doesn't apply to you so case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:26 PM
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You calling your hypothetical husband merely a random guy is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:59 PM
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They want a husband to make them even more successful in whatever way you think this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:34 PM
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Buff women are beautiful. Especially offseason where little bit of fat enhances the curves💕💖
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:26 PM
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Fun fact. Many male actors used any kind of method acting or other extreme and unhealthy methods to be the best they can for their roles. E.g. Christian bale was switching between 60lbs weight twice in 7 months or so between the mechanic and batman begins. Daniel day lewis tied his legs and stopped the bloodcirculation to get the feeling how it is to be in a wheelchair and shaia labouf didn't shower for the entire duration of filming heart of steel where he himself was disgusted in the end. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:44 AM
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The one's who want equal pay for male and female athletes sure underestimate men's overall physical capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:37 AM
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Already done xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:38 AM
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Good news, despite all the efforts of one of my co workers i've got past the 6 month trial and now have a permanent contract yayyy :) The 500€ increase of my monthly salary is just a nice bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:26 PM
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It's all about when the positive or negative feedback loop started. If someone had the right friends in the neighborhood or coincidently met the right receptive people as someone who just started school etc. then it's snowballing into the positive loop. The same is for the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:19 PM
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If men's bar is on the floor then women's bar is approaching the core of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:01 PM
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Men don't get a trophy. They are merely acknowledged as men with a little bit of a backbone and that's it. You get trophies when you are the best in your country or the world in any discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:59 PM
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Only men who win the ratrace have it better or equal. One winner enjoys his privilege on the corpse of 20 losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:41 PM
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This reads like some child hitting another child without reason and begins to cry saying to the adults "Buuttt... butttt heeee did thaattt....". And thus this is an insult to any intelligent person. Yeah little rose run around the titanic in your soo hard "crisis" but ignore the men in engine room who making your little tiny "high society" bubble possible in the first place. Have fun with your life but behold of this advertising pillar across the street...he might abuse you if it's night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:02 PM
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This. Most women don't have to do anything. The guys are keeping themselves within reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:52 PM
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Not even close. Horrendous individual shaped effort years long and a change in Lifestyle and barely got anything. Regarding quantity i failed but regarding quality i succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:43 PM
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A real thing that happens is when you are on a date in specific locations crowded with people that some other guy is hitting up on your date. Really man it's already such an effort to secure one date or the number and this folks really shooting other men in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:49 PM
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My GF insists that we don't use condoms because she is on the pill. Her high sex drive is also more physical since she has this everlasting twitching/tingling sensation in her pussy that makes her so horny. This is why she better takes the pill because it doesn't affect her sex drive at all. This is also a new experience for me because my previous 4 sex partners always wanted it with condoms and i really don't mind because it's better than no sex. I'm also a far better lover without a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:44 PM
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I never said that women like you are rare, just said that there some women not that sensitive. In fact, i always say that more and more women demand a walking on eggshells balanceact while they usually don't to this to their partner. This is getting tiredsome let's bury this discussion and end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:55 PM
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Stop justify modern bullshit with things you never whitnessed yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:07 PM
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Onesided upbringing. Girls getting empowered, encouraged and basically can't do wrong because there will be enough people around to justify any behaviour. Meanwhile boys get punished for every single small misstep and hearing toxic masculinity all around. Add mixed signals all around how men HAVE to be and they get tore apart mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 06:04 PM
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You think there is spinning where is none. There are women not that sensitive and there are men also more sensitive but overall my point stands. If you aren't in romantic relationships with these women then thats again another topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:53 PM
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doesn't add to the topic. You asked why should you stay with men so all what we write here is about romantic relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:16 PM
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The "hate" usually stems from the subgroup of single moms who are still expecting any man putting her and the child as top priority while in tune the mother puts her child first, then herself, then the money of the man and the man itself should also be thankful for that. Most of the time it's not hate but a simple aversion to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:34 AM
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A chill attidute who understands jokes and doesn't take things to seriously Following this if something crossed her bounderies she can communicate this properly without creating a drama Not afraid of showing her enthusiasm and joy especially in sex Medium maintainence. She has needs and require reasonable effort to meet these and in tune shows appreciation and also effort for my needs Of course the same things are also applying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:29 AM
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MY GF has such a repulsive face lol but she hella lot maximized everything within her control and that is really hot and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:16 AM
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I said this because this is the new trendy "proof" for men privilege. My stance to this is that this is not a gender thing but a social thing and you hit the nail in the coffin that it's about reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:10 AM
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As i said. Relationships are not for you or any person in general if they are this oversensitive. You get miserable for any trivial word he said and in the long run he gets even more miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:07 AM
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Communication in the businesscontext or non relationship context is whole other beast and is completely different from the topic and on the other side the audience should also know the one speaking and where he is coming from. You have it backwards i also can be the "wrong person somone gets the bad side out" when the oversensivity goes to far. But this is not the topic. The topic is regarding romantic relationships under the assumption the guy wants a loving relationship and already adapted his…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:05 AM
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As i said. I didn't misunderstood anything in your post. I identified the mechanics you describe and simplified them. You said harsh communication brings women to therapists and raises the question why they should date men because of that. Assuming that the man actually want a loving relationship hurting the partner is a no go but if the women is oversensitive and require constant balancing on eggshells it's on her. If she can't intellectually understand that this what ever her partner said is A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:48 PM
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Says the one who need a therapist because someone speaks blunt to the point, coming to the conclusion that (all?) women don't need men around because of that and additionally completely misunderstood my sentence and put it even out of YOUR own context. This exchange is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 10:59 PM
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I've gone through hundrets first dates and i did 90% of all the effort or even more. Some women didn't even show up and i drove 100km for nothing. The only women to ever put compareable effort is my now second gf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 10:51 PM
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0,0002% of men are in positions of power and apparantly i'm privileged for that. Some men are taken seriously in their workforce because for whatever reasons (note that's rarely because they are competent) they have earned respect or got promoted. As someone who finds joy in mastering his craft instead of these social circus games i don't get any "male privilige" here. Physical strength has minor advantages in my dayli life but other than that it only raises expectations. ​ As a rule of thumb. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:44 PM
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Then have fun with your life which will most likely lead to depression everytime someone's not overly coddling you. Not men's fault you lack thick fat and got your will fullfilled your entire life with no reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:30 PM
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This is one of many aspects. There are many oppurtunities to get used to it. Guys with self reflection also prefer blunt rational statements for selfimprovement instead to dig through the useless sugarcoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:34 PM
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If anything it proves how biased every court system is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:22 PM
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From my most recent experiences. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:09 AM
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Men using the communication style they grew up with and used to. Men don't get coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:04 AM
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On paper.... mastersdegree 6.2 tall good physique blue eyes healthy lifestyle hidden... former incel nerdy hobbies divorced parents Consider i myself a good catch? Others are saying... gf is very happy that i wanted a ltr and not fwb/ons makes an effort to brighten up every day she did regret that she hasn't approached me two years ago according to her insta followers i'm an underwearmodel and they are jelous of her her haters on insta telling that i'm to hot for her The last two points are pre …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:45 PM
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Do anyone knows about PGAD or has experience how to deal with persons having it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:21 PM
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1 in 3 three women PERCIEVE that they were victims of sexuall violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:24 AM
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Never said you run around scared just saying that this caution is taken to far to often overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:41 PM
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Humans have the potential maybe to not remove biology but can intellectually find ways and values in other things to somewhat substitute it with something different. Well potential and actually doing it are seperate stories. Well at least it there was a trend for women to approach till this complete queen attitude plagued most women throughout social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:56 PM
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My first paragraph is mainly about that men are demanded to approach but on the same time women make it harder and harder with things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:26 PM
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Virgin great, high N-count bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:54 PM
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That's a fair take at first glance. However this contradicts heavily with the fact that women demanding men to still make the first moves in every approach because apparantly this dirty work is bene.....ahem they love being desired. We also know that when this man is sexually attractive for this women in particular than it's most likely even wanted. In the end it all comes down to neurotism like many commenters pointed out before me. To put it together. Your arguements are rational at first but …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:48 PM
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Men here assume this because in every single other place everybody is assuming the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:58 PM
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I'm independent when i have to work and in this few hours nothing gonna move unless the house catches fire etc. Other than that she is free to join any activity i do and my friends also don't mind her around and we don't have to hold back cause "women around here" because she speaks as dirty and directly as we no one cares. Same goes for me. Although our dayli fitness hour is mandadory for both of us unless someone is ill. The important questions will come later eventually when she is about to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:22 PM
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A deadbedroom has many causes and the causes are distributed equally to both parties and for the exact cause where the party in this case women is at fault you have absolutely right. In fact many women demanding insane assertiveness from men not only from iniating the relationship itself (multiplied by the amount of women a man dated) also being the sole person to make sex happen with creating sexy atmosphere. I don't blame women because being so spoiled in this particular dynamic makes meeting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:26 PM
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yes here this one is important. The overbearing "Men are told to be this and that and do this and this" all the time just to see that many women lack even the utmost human decency in dating and get away with it all the time. And to make the insult perfect these lazy hags are even more demanding and harsh in their judgements without offering any of the demanded things themselves. Well many women, there are still some okish women out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:16 PM
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Well i think school and academics are laying down the subtle groundwork at least in misogyny from boys when some see that girls getting better grades overall not only because of better perfomance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:11 PM
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From an individual point of view this is wrong. Very little women under 40 have experienced this old opression, they are fast to think that they are opressed because of gender when things don't go their way. See it from the view of young white men. He never ever had this white privilege the older generation had but he has to be more qualified by a signifcant margin to get a job when women are also applying thanks to quotas and this qualification has to be earned in women favouring school environ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:01 PM
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Why do you care? If you want sex just take everything at your disposal as long as it is legal. Every facet in the casual sex market is stacked against average men so use your wits to even things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 05:45 PM
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I don't care about anything besides looks for sex. I do care about the whole package for a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 05:33 PM
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Looking at it isolated you're right. But taking into account that men are getting told the exact same by default and then have to put in effort on top of that then it's not so clear anymore. When a woman get the treatment (still better) i'm used to get, then i refuse to say that she is getting treated like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:24 AM
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You are not understanding the scenario. I well know that you don't mean that there is no sex at all. What i'm saying is what if there is absolutely no sexual chemistry after months of serious dating and even cuddling/physical contact. There are people who click together in every way but don't have the same understanding of the actual sexual act. If you can't comprehend this basic scenario then there is no conversation to be had here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:54 PM
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This is just asking to dive into a sexually unfullfilled relationships. You invest so much just to get starfish sex once every two weeks for example. Screening for sexual compability is as important as for companionship and this should happen also soon. Because if you create a bond first and after that you find out that the sexual chemistry is a disaster it's... harder to break up and as the man you are more likely to be the bad guy in the story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:14 PM
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You get it wrong. He means that normal basic treatment as a human being isn't enough. They want the guys drooling over them as they are model hot. This is something many people get here wrong. Women say they are treated like shit because they are ugly but you can be sure that they are just treated normaly in a way that a man don't feel any sexual attraction and just compare themselves to the treatment the hot ladies get. Some exceptions get bullied but men also get bullied that's not a gender th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:45 PM
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Both of them a hot. The first one isn't fat what i consider thicc/chubby. The second one from the overall aesthetics is close to my gf so yes, also hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:53 PM
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Yes shaming will just make the people miserable if anything but it can at least prevent others for falling into these categories. That's why while shaming might not be really good in terms of scaling downsides and upsides the body positivity movement as it is right now are even worse. They basically as you said incentivize being fat (firstly it was for all kind of people but now fatties destroyed it) and draw even more people into this. In the end it boils down to....: Shaming and preventing as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:15 PM
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Wait wait wait. Men get insulted left and right for their preferences and sexuality. I don't know where outside of reddit they get any excuses for it. In fact these body positivity messages, all these "men are shallow" articles etc. are aimed to bend (attractive) men's preferences in order making it even easier for women to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:29 AM
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First GF: N-Count 1, starfishing and insecure to no end. Second and current GF: N-Count 17 from mostly fwbs: Fucking dang over the moon sex with dirty and enthusiastic smirks and clearly signs how she loves it. Never really despised HIgh N-Count and this made my view more adamant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:46 AM
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This right here. 200 Women slept with the guy within 3 dates and got into a relationship and never posted anything. 3 Women slept at whatever point and got ghosted immediately vernting their rage out at reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:55 PM
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Yes, every time of the day. The few men privileges are only enjoyed by a few men anyway. By trading i could objectively state my ideas without being accused by mansplaining etc. and don't have to fight and demand respect from my peers because i don't need the respect to begin with. And i would finish my acedemia roughly 2 years earlier because i wouldn't waste so much time and money applying and prepairing for job interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:56 PM
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The red pill just accepts that guys love sex yes. But in the same way they view women equally harsh as themselves. Women who are used to be viewed through "WAWE" lenses feel demonized when confronted with plain unbiased views.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:52 PM
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All in itself it's trying to be unbiased. But this biased view from men usually develops when they find out that society encourages and excusing womens actions as "deep, thoughtful etc." While men get insulted as shallow sex crazy monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:44 PM
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Had this after my first time sex. Was at the girls room and saw how she is stuffed in ultra skinny shapewear and that she was quite overweigt but i thought myself "damn now or never". Were lying down after the sex for two hours or so and talked a little then after i left i had this ambivalent feeling of finally had sex and it was somewhat awesome but also that i wouldn't have slept with her with an clear mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:43 PM
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I don't care or demand fast sex. What i can and will always demand is a level of enthusiasm compareable to that she gave the "hot guy". I have to much self esteem for "at least i'm not completely repulsed by you" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:37 PM
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He is not forcing her to continue the relationship. She is free to leave so thats NOT a criminal matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:13 PM
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When i see a mismatched couple it's usually because one of the partners is better styled/groomed/make upped at this point and by taking all that away they would be probably matched or at least only with a small difference. Although the few actually mismatched couples were overweight girls with a relatively normal or slightly athletic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:50 PM
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Attracted to fit girls preferably with a nice round ass built by heavy squats. After getting myself in good shape (i meet the standard i expect from others) i started to attract fat and chubby girls. Well at least the ass was mostly round xD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:41 PM
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But women won't change. And if someone looking for a relationship not because of thirst, than i don't see how it's negatively will affect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:00 PM
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Yes humanity would be doomed or at least it would stabilize on a very low level. But individually for most men, it would be closer to utopia than now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:27 AM
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But these men are desperate because women have their endless pick of all other thirsty duded. If 90% of guys weren't thirsty and wouldn't be bothered to jump through hoops even if it were even more men insulting media content than before women behaviours would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:25 AM
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An arguement not fitting for western women younger than 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:20 AM
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The biggest hurdles are my lack of facial hair and the result is also that i look 10 years younger. Many people think i'm 20-23 and then i said i'm 29 they suddenly drop anything they just carried from shock. I don't lack sociability in an objective sense but because i'm not hot i don't get away with small missteps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:52 PM
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Both genders have problems but it's needless to say about which genders problems society cares more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:37 PM
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Making men's sexuality like women's would be utopia but this is sadly not an option. Other than that i would start to fight any gender biased media content. Like if everybody cries because a women was beaten up than everybody should cry when a guy got beaten up. If this can be done throughout the media the perception would slightly skew back. Don't be delusional. Many women these days are so self of themselves and think of themselves more than of men all because kids are raised in a discriminate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:55 PM
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Just fat people > no problem. fat people living their live > no problem fat people as friends > no problem fat people refusing demanding a super athletic in shape partner? > problem but i can live with that fat people demanding the said athletic partner AND also call everybody else shallow for not dating them? > big problem because this behaviour goes against logic and common sense. fat people calling well in shape persons average because they are used to something better? > big problem because …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:39 PM
1

Would be interesting to see....is the shower after the gym also included?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:40 PM
1

Often it's also comes down to a coinflip. What if several of the suitors where equally a very good prospect for her and she just had (and wanted) to choose one? At least for a relationship. Although depents on the hoops i had to jump through if she wouldn't choose me first but second.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:00 AM
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Any mortality data shows the infections happenings of 2-3 weeks prior thats how it is. The first victims, after the lockdown took place, got infected before the lockdown occured. And also many death victims were fighting for weeks with artificial breathing mostly due complications with other ilnesses. I don't deny the psychological effects of this lockdown but it's something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:53 AM
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The death spike is the product of infections incubated from 2-3 weeks before the actual death spike begins to show. After that initial spike it gradually decreases till it startet to skyrocket end of october.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:40 AM
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I can only speak for germany but the most death occured when the actual lockdown got mostly unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:08 AM
1

This is actually my world view. If everything is equated and cut down to it's utmost consens then society is pro women by default. E.g upon looking deeper you see if a women is doing something good or makes an minor achievment people hold this to high regard. If a man is doing something it gets treated like this was the most normal thing in the world not deserving of acknowledgement. Men are usually compared relative to their competition while women are compared individually and more objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:02 AM
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Been with mine only 6 months and she's is also only my second relationship but as for now i don't see signs of weaknesses even though i'm overanalyzing everything to see if there are bad signs. We also broke every "dating rule" upon getting together. In the end it's only 6 months for now take it how you want :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:54 PM
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I looked up some death data and europewide there were 40 000 more deaths in 2020 than in 2019 which don't qualify for an all deadly virus. However due to lockdown and his results many less people where participating in activities or even driving. So in the end i don't know.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:43 PM
1

By any means, if you got denied this for your last 13-15 years then as well collect some experience as long as you stay within the law. If you want to be ruthless and lie your way to it then ok do it, just don't be abusive. But if you at some point want a relationship this approach won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:33 PM
1

This is fine and reasonable. My mindset is to prevent the birth of disabled childs as much as possible but give them the best possible life if they ever get born.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:27 PM
4

Sometimes you need to see or hear about other miseries or at least about the difficulty of finding a somewhat happy ltr to really be thankful for your own little wonder you found.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:36 PM
1

It's about the metaphorical suit. You don't have to dress like barney stinson 24/7 but think and behave like you have a "suit on".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:05 AM
2

The target of trp is to absorb these strategies into your habits till you perform these like breathing. This is all what keeping frame is about because they say the chance the women you commit to will break is higher when you suddenly revert back to your "beta self".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:04 PM
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There is often a reason people talk loud. I for example also talk intentionally louder than normal simply because while i grew up somehow no one bothered to let me speak and always interrupted me will it be my peers or even adults at that time. It got better when i started to use more power in voice even though it feels unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:00 PM
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highly educated women also marry more rarely but if they do it's on more rational ground which leads to more stable marriages. They are fast to divorce in a financial crisis however.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:28 PM
1

In my experience a man has only a thin line of free room to style. There are categories like biker, business, athletic etc. but within these categories the personal accents are mostly cut down to details. Either a man looks good in one category or don't he has to deal with whatever mother nature gave or in most cases didn't gave him. A man has to put effort into dressing well regardless because while it won't increase his attractiveness but it will decrease his repulsiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:59 PM
1

Not every women who gets older or is approaching the wall is bound to get jaded. Many women just get more chill and the ones who worked hard to retain their attractiveness after their peak are on average more humble because they actually felt that work. And someone already said that when a younger good looking guy approaches them it's more flattering. And older women are also often more in stress due to jobs and other obligations. A cold approach can be a sweet highlight in their grey boring day…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:08 PM
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A nice read (no joke) but there are five things my own experience is disagreeing with i want to point out. Evaluate this how you want but maybe it will balance the discussion. Other clients that say they want a lawyer with “more gray hair on their face,” as a subtle way of saying they want a man. This is an "privilege" but solely focused on elder men usually far over 40 as you said they want an EXPERIENCED man. They grew up where feminism was on the rise but not yet far. I doubt this will be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:07 PM
1

Yeah most women deserve their Positions. But the few who are not are getting carried by the stance if society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:26 AM
1

Yeah sex plays a big role i agree. But this topic is so nuanced to just say "only because he is a men".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:44 AM
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This more a social thing than gender thing. There are plenty competent men not taken seriously because they are humble, silent etc. Although i agree that more men are assumed competent because they are just more aggressive and assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:54 AM
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Yes and this leads to a very interesting question. Do men also have help in form of quotas, affirmitive action or even some announces like women have on masse with men dominated fields?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:27 PM
2

No need anymore since i'm now collecting working experience which changes things entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:53 AM
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My emotions are valid but i don't know what really happened in the HR offices. I'm now a hiring manager myself (i studied HR and german labor law) and experience what crazy sexist feminist bitches my co workers are to a degree that i refuse to believe that something like this are the majority. But i heard a motto after my boss (a good guy) came from an strategic meeting "hiring women is in and it shows that the company is thinking modern" which scared me deeply. I can only imagine what will be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:42 PM
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I wouldn't take my rant at face value because while being true it's also filled with many negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:18 PM
1

I said to prove his value to females but i didn't want to discredid your post in the first place but just add that risk taking behaviour is also to attract women or at least helps attracting women if successfully. From an biological standpoint sexual value is the main driver sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:16 PM
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Although a single google search with male competition grant numerous hits for this this article here.. https://www.livescience.com/757-men-pay-ultimate-price-attract-women.html It's short and to the point. You can search for the others if wanted and why males compete for females (common sense you know) google is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:46 PM
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This happened several times between age 21/22 and before i met my (high N) GF last October (29). This also happened once after losing my virginity. I remember it happened 7 times in the three years before i lost my virginity. Yes the dates where so close with cuddling on the bench and with the cinema which was a god damn nice experience for my past incel self! In retrospection i think i were honest about this because i got so comfortable in the dates and also in the texting which was, despite on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:24 PM
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An study to why men across history tried to impose women with risky behaviour and competing against each other to prove their worth? Are you really need evidences for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:59 PM
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I also want to add that this starts very early in elementary school. Not only are all learning methods designed to cater to girls learning strengths but also everytime where for the first time girls do better then boys it gets celebrated. When there is a period where boys do better then everybody is sitting in critical thinking and want to make sure that it's not because girls are getting discriminated. I remember an article proving that girls getting better grades in the vast majority of subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:51 PM
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At best. The world is run by 0,0001% of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:17 PM
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You are describing a symptom not the cause. Men are more reckless and risk taking because they want this small shot at gaining any value at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:00 PM
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I really like your general attitude towards this topic and hope that more women (really) adopt this. But then i have to remember my experiences where when the women found out or i told her that i'm virgin suddenly all attraction disappeared or the dating ended immediately. I think for many women this is a subconcious reaction with losing attraction to (involunteer) virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:47 PM
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Yes i agree. I experience first hand how preselection turns an invisible former incel to a hot boyfriend somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:40 AM
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F for anyone who gets involved with something like you. You are just to good of a read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 02:56 AM
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Ok you must be trolling or fake. This is to good of a read and confirmation for basically everything trp says. Somehow conveniently in direct contrast to your flair just beautiful. Enjoy your "validation".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:06 PM
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all fine. Tears are wasted on someone this spoiled. Feel bad for your victim though. F for a fallen brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:00 PM
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Good for you that you abused your overly privileged position by not doing anything and still getting everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:50 PM
1

All comes down to results. If a man has the intention to smash and is nice because of that it doesn't matter as long as he stays nice. It only matters when he becomes a bad person after his hope faded (just not being as nice as before isn't a bad person). This has also to be viewed nuanced. An common situation in this scenario is that the guy is nice to the girl and at least he hopes to get her but everytime he needs some help in return from the girl she flat out either refuses with some sugarco…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:45 PM
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Making waiting for sex is good. But too many women are just passive in the waiting phase failing at showing that commiting to them is worthwile. Many just don't care to make the dates fun which most of the time falls into the guys responsebility once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:06 PM
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Doesn't matter. In the end reality don't care how would something be. It just cares how things are. Women always operate subconciously in this mindset. They say things like "just don't date when...." or "why the preferences of others concern you" well within the mindset that they most likely will a 10 times better dating live then a guy. Watch what someone is doing not what he (might) do under whatever circumstances you hamster out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:22 AM
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Shallowness isn't determined by what if Szenarios but by the actual action which manifests in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:54 AM
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Nice that you try to find some "compansation" for the horrendous efforts men put up while courting. I commend you at that at least. But why then women want this to become even then but the effortsplit of 1/99 in the courting phase to remain? And just as a sidenote. When a women watches after the home and children the men usually works 30-50% more and with the stress also gets his health affected. There is always balance here but not before. But at least you tried to somehow explain why men have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:55 PM
2

Treating her like you treat other friends. Chat just enough to not let conversations die out beyond that match her "enthusiasm". Don't change your behaviour around her and don't agree with her just because she is a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:45 PM
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This is not the same for men and women. Men are doomed to be the active part and despite putting 50 times the effort and thought into dating they have to hear everywhere how men are falling behind and don't put in any effort anymore. A women can focus on herself and there will almost always men willing to date her. A man can and should also focus on himself but to translate this into finding a partner he has to take an active role which by definition is linked to (well)planned effort. Not that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:32 PM
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Isn't that exactly what the manosphere these days says about women? They do what ever they want and society lets them get away with it and if slight drawback comes then it's full victim mode? I guess you know which side is more right when you objectively put both extremes on a scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:40 AM
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yes tall white russian with soft features. I guess my receding hairline since age 16 and otherwise lack of anything positive in my facial structure kept me from getting an objective looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:34 PM
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The girls i "attracted" were all chubby/fat. Only one was a bodybuilder is now my gf. Edit: Although on tinder i seem to be a chad for asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:57 PM
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You are onto something. Body positivity should help people accept non easy fixable flaws about themselves that are usually beyond someones control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:29 PM
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Amen. Regardless who makes the first move the other side has to be receptive about that without any childish games.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:42 PM
0

It's an unfair double standard and women enjoy this because it coddles their narcisstic side. Even the most shy girls can be deep down entitled to this "power" and this is also because they see other women get actively approached so they want this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:40 PM
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Oh and I thought women were opressed and that this generation of women deserving a compensation ten times fold for hardships they individually never experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:21 PM
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having a fitness lifestyle and being chill to be around is all i want in a partner. Rest is mostly ignored unless something is really blown out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:58 AM
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Not minding isn't prefered. It's not hopeless for many guys yet but the direction is indeed bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:52 AM
1

Many guys will put up with it. The scarcity taught men to focus on the good things as ass and tits and ignoring the bad feautures as the belly. For women it's the opposite, they see the full picture and then according to how the bad features are coming into play they decide. There is no real guy equivalent. The span of going from 14-18% bodyfat will almost remove all abs and give you love handles basically removing this benefits completely. The closest there is are guys with wide shoulder frame …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:10 AM
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Actually the fat comparison is the universal number one preference you can use for both genders almost 1:1 and confidently say that some people are acting hypocritical by not wanting to put the same amount of determination and hard work as their dream partner they want so badly. Almost every other preference is so gender specific and subjective that it's useless to find hard equivalents to call it hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:16 PM
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Women already given so much slack in the fat department just because the societal trend makes most guys so desperate. Instead of using hard numbers of bodyfat for comparison we can make it easiers and just say that the women can have as much fat as she wants as long as her belly is thin or at max only slightly bulging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:11 PM
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At that time i was a "i've got the right direction" mindset and i don't mind a little chubby (real chubby not fat). But after tons of first dates with both fat and thin i noticed that the thin women overwhelmingly were little wana be kweens letting me jump through hoops and the fat ones were so entitled and spoiled said they want only thin and athletic guys but the other way around the guys have to see their inner value. My first ltr were also chubby but it failed miserably because our lifestyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:00 PM
2

Sure there was some things i noticed like follow me at a party etc. But after i acted on it several times and got hard rejected every time i started ignoring this childish bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:55 PM
2

Before my ltr neither for casual or ltr i had anything close to be called options. But after getting down to 12-14% bodyfat and putting on some muscles fatties started to send clear signals. Tinder was like 90% of my matches were hot asians but i don't want a language barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:26 PM
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Hair - Just normal long hair like 5 cm under shoulder height. clothes - Just wearing a gymoutfit with leggings and only sports bra will suffice and basically the only thing i need at all ever. Make up and nails are ignored by me. Just basic care is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:29 AM
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No. She can still buy swim and gym wear, dance for me and i'm nutting to her sexy movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:55 PM
1

Man stop to argue with her. I've been observing her for some weeks now and the obvious pattern is that she never sticks to her initial arguement and instead is moving goalpoasts around and around almost as she forgot what she wrote 5 minutes before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:56 AM
3

Only if some dynamics of these couples are so obvious that they jump into my face which is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:45 AM
2

Fuck i'm jelous. I hope sheska isn't taken yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:51 PM
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Of course they can have all preferences they have, there is no problem to it and i'm absolutely fine with it. But if they start to insult me or other by being porn addicts and claim that our view of how womens bodies look like is disorted. At this point the fun is over. Because they themselves say that their obese bodies are normal and we have to be attracted to them while on the same time saying good athletic men bodies are rated average by them and in tune they only want these men because "the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:46 PM
2

Even if it's two hot women a day who show up at my door to fuck in the most insane and great ways possible i wouldn't. And if my gf would want to be a FWB it would be huge downgrade just because i had a stunning Fwb and my first partner was a chubby 4 and still, the sex with both of my partners are/is somehow been always better and more enjoyable. Also the full set of cuddling, teasing and laughing together makes the sex better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:15 PM
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Just like TRP it's some rare good valid points surrounded by a mountain sized chunk of utterly bullshit and (insert any insult you want here). Although TRP don't overblow the hate to this extend and less frequently and calling themselves failures that need to improve instead of kings. Like Batman said in the dark knight movie. "He has a schizophrenic personality disorder, the joker is drawing these types to himself". So it's FDS and TRP, some people with (self percieved) bad experiences are draw…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:00 PM
1

The best balance between attractive and down to earth chill personality with own hobbies. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:31 PM
1

My partner has high N and i don't have problems with it. I would have problems with it when i would get second class citizen treatment from her where the only thing she contributes to our sex life is just laying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:56 PM
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Winry, Riza or Sheska from Fullmetal Alchemist despite being different they somehow appeal to me. Or Lily from how i met your mother but AFTER her San Francisco fiasko. Uraraka from MHA is a honorable mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:00 PM
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Yes many problems and subconcious depressing thoughts dissappeared although i will never forget where i came from and it was never about having a stacey but someone on my own level of fitness, shape and livestyle. For most men someone who matches the few objective measurements (weight and fitnesslevel) regarding looks to a similar amount than themselves is plenty enough in the looks department.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:51 PM
2

If i were single then fucking yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:39 PM
1

Just a reaction to vent about the "there are no good men left" from the public and "all men are trash and subhumans" from fds and pinkpill. If it's a game it would be unlosable because 1. only very few incels actually say that and only one pseudo incel ever acted on that and 2. You as a women discussing here from a position of immense dating privilege not knowing the true horror of modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:38 PM
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Everybody fantasizes fucking or pulling someone hotter. But most men are aware of their league especially incels. That's why many men are suspicious when an attractive women suddenly approaching them and is seemingly interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:24 AM
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You clearly writting about "all or most" incels. And there are no clear indicators that they are more entitled than your average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:20 AM
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It improved from zero chance at all not even from obese women to obese women suddenly smile at you and approach you and if you pull the best game ever with the best dates you might have a chance to some chubby. I went from 104 kilo to 82 kilo and 14% body fat standing at the magic number of 6.2. In the end i got a girl who is so hardcore into tall russians that i consider myself lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:00 PM
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On one hand men's standards are so below bottom line that they will fuck an apple with a hole and on one hand they are so high that men will rape because they feel entitled to hot stacy only. Make up your mind it feels like discussing with children where they just contradict themselves because they only think about the next sentence and ignoring the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:41 PM
1

Only 1. and that only when it's really really extreme reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:12 PM
3

I can agree although you are still very generous here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:33 PM
0

I experienced this only with women often times even not canceling just not showing up without any message after i drove 100km. Biased here but it is what it is, human decency is rare, even rarer amongst spoiled "women".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:41 AM
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The objective overall stance to this topic is or rather how many women twisting it. If the guy can't perform or cum for any reason then he is a porn addict, has ED, is gay or whatever. However, if the women can't cum or is feeling dry etc. Then the guy is a bad lover who doesn't know how to please women. Most men are dissappointed at most. Only very few individuals with high ego getting angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:43 AM
0

Why 99% of men were restricted to the most dangerous,body destroying and toxic competive jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:05 PM
1

4/10 is enough for me if we were in a relationship. If she is to fat then it really needs serious effort to get hard. General guideline is that i'm way more aroused in a commited relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:53 AM
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Sometimes i can't believe you are supporting fds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:32 PM
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Only one example which gauged this completely very accurate. If a men can't cum or can't get hard he is a porn addict. If a women can't cum or get wet the men is a bad self centric lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:55 AM
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You got something twisted. Apart from reddit a women is never at fault for men dry dick. It's always the guy who is a loser if he can't get sex. Meaning it's the guys fault once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:52 AM
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