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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:29 AM
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Geologist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:42 PM
45

Too many men are experiencing it now to the point that it can’t be ignored anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:08 PM
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Would you consider 6’1 to be tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:17 PM
2

Yes. Recent studies have shown that the rate of loneliness and sexlessness are rising for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:15 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:42 PM
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N-counts matter more than people would like to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:17 AM
1

wow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:01 AM
2

Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:57 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:56 PM
2

Data and life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:02 PM
2

Fewer men and women dating long term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:55 AM
1

Vans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:08 AM
3

They’re either very attractive or they have a lot of money and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:06 PM
0

Yes. Current data shows that most young couples today meet via dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:15 AM
1

The different point of views people have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:45 PM
1

B. Male
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:29 AM
0

Perhaps for parental love. But romantic? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:30 AM
2

Curiosity and entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:41 PM
1

Yes they should
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:12 AM
5

It really did. The disconnect between men and women isn’t because of the things that the article mentioned but rather the result of an over abundance of average to below average even in the dating market and women being hyper-selective on who the deem attractive/dateable (80/20).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:49 PM
1

I’ve had an inner monologue for as far back as I can remember. Hard to believe less than 50% of people have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:29 PM
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Very low based on current trends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:48 AM
3

Confused honestly. Adult men friend groups don’t operate the way she thinks they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:44 AM
1

Nope. Too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:40 AM
2

No. It’s mostly a myth considering that most women are inclined to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:19 PM
2

Restriction of reproductive rights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:09 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:35 PM
1

Nope. Never could acquire a taste for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:36 PM
2

Nope. No logic at all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:49 AM
1

Yes. It would be hypocritical for a person to set standards for others that they can’t even reach themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:59 PM
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How to be independent and what type of behavior to look out for from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:16 PM
0

I’d say all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:51 PM
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Intelligent for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:59 AM
0

Nope. Again, she didn’t explicitly say that. If anything, she’s projecting. What she probably considers to be “wifely” duties is just basic acts of appreciation and love that you’d find in a healthy, normal relationship. Relationships under her viewpoint would ultimately fail for several reasons. But the main would be no person worth their salt would continue a relationship where their time and energy committed towards the relationship was disproportionate compared to their partner’s. I’m not de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:37 PM
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Except she’s not. What sense would it ever make for a guy to invest in a women who’s not giving him the same energy he’s giving her? A healthy relationship doesn’t operate in this type of manner. And I can almost guarantee that women who tweet stuff still expect their partner to pay their bills and perform other traditional duties a husband would do to prove of their “worthiness”. It’s hypocritical and would explain while relationship discourse on Twitter and here is dysfunctional as it it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:36 PM
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Her tweet would make some sense if said boyfriend was emotionally negligent and didn’t invest time in the relationship. But that’s not what she said nor did she attempt to clarify that. The is more of the typical case of a woman wanting her partner to perform traditional husband duties while refusing to perform traditional duties wife duties herself. It makes no sense to ask your partner for something that you’re not willing to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:19 PM
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https://twitter.com/chrissyforeverr/status/1549085610127802368?s=21&t=8ZuZWFFmXFFKWlXNvPhQgg It’s funny how women who think like this believe they can just flip the switch and start acting different if they ever inevitably do get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:01 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:58 PM
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https://twitter.com/sarahhhhgo/status/1547939336544407556?s=21&t=W_WKl4Y4zc2wyr_hYAiTHA It’s amazing how so many women would rather be a side chick for a top 20% guy than settle for an average one. This mentality kinda explains why so many successful men usually don’t stay monogamous. They’re encouraged to have multiple partners and nobody bats an eye if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:30 PM
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5-7/10 would be ideal for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:28 PM
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Moderately attractive with a good personality to match About the same as IRL 6/10 Not really. I don’t approach anymore and I haven’t used OLD in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:25 PM
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Hasn’t been easy. I’d say it’s a combination of bad luck and a lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:33 PM
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Hate it too. Never got the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:04 AM
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I’d say on an average day on my college campus, I probably say around 70-80% of the women I see are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:13 PM
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He’s an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:44 AM
1

Mostly black with some red mixed in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:34 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:53 PM
1

Unfortunately, there’s nothing a guy who’s small below the belt can do to change his situation. My honest advice for guy dealing with this issue would be to focus and himself and try to improve other areas of life besides sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:23 AM
1

Yes, John Legend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:09 PM
2

My parents didn’t really teach me anything about sex other than making sure to use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:02 PM
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Looks will always matter more than personality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:54 PM
2

Yes. Played wide receiver and free safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:23 AM
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As a kid I played baseball and basketball. In high school I did football, track, and martial arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:07 AM
3

A mixture of good and bad advice. Stay away from gold diggers, see who their friends are, go to a nice restaurant on the first date, etc. I think the worst advice they ever gave me was to write a love letter to a girl I was talking to a few years ago. My parents are a bit old-fashioned, so they’re not entirely familiar on how the current dating market is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:09 AM
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Unless he’s attractive of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:06 PM
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Preferably my back muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:03 PM
1

Very true. Saves you money tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:05 PM
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For sure. That would be a dream come true honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:42 PM
2

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:11 AM
1

I’d be cool with Giannis or Jokic winning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:31 PM
1

Probably because of how religious and conservative Utah and southern states are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:20 PM
2

Best Final Four game I’ve watched in a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:16 AM
1

Interesting, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:19 AM
1

Oh. I was talking about other possible chemical services.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:54 AM
1

Permanent wave texture? Sure. In some places, it’s already part of the regular haircut. Highlights? Perhaps. You could possibly make an argument for curling. But outside of them, meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:36 AM
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Not at all. I acknowledged them and said that most of them fall into middle-older age category. The majority of those men are getting gray/blending services. Stuff younger men don’t really need. Unless they’re balding which is a small portion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:14 PM
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No. I’m at a loss at this point really. That’s your overall point yet you’ve been disagreeing with me on the likelihood of salon owners agreeing with me on the low number of men selecting chemical coloring? Sure, ok. Like I’ve stated several times already, men frequent hair specialists more often, pay more for regular haircuts, and spend more time grooming. So obviously the assertion that we don’t have comparative levels of investment in our hair as women do is false. Regardless, all of it has l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:03 PM
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They’re so delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:16 PM
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Pretty sure they will. In a comprehensive survey performed by a popular Salon media company, professional hairstylists stated that less than 20% of their male clients get hair color enhancements. Based off of what I’ve seen in my years around the area, that sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:08 PM
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Suit yourself. They’ll give the same answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:44 PM
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The city I’m from as well as my college is very culturally diverse. I’ve seen plenty to make an accurate assessment of what’s going on. I'm confident that if you were to question any veteran barber from either area, they’d confirm what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:11 PM
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Yes. A good place to observe the current hair trends for younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:47 PM
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If you say so. Seems to be the norm at my large college and the last major city I lived in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:57 PM
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Perhaps in your area. The only additional enhancements for men that have been offered at most barbershops in the states I’ve lived in are hair coloring/bleaching. And that’s starting to fade in popularity now. Maybe this will change though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:22 PM
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A common experience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:49 PM
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Yes. I’ve observed most guys who select those type services are men in the older category. But for non-thinning and graying guys, there’s isn’t a need for it. Most men aren’t paying exuberant prices on haircuts because a simple haircut is all that’s really needed for us to appeal to the beauty standards society has for men. Hair wise at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:53 AM
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It just doesn’t make any practical sense for us to pay for those additional services. A good, simple haircut does wonders for us. Anything more is just an overkill imo. As for facials, I definitely expect more men to get them as since skincare is becoming a bigger priority for us. Also, I should’ve figured you worked in the beauty industry. If my memory serves correct, I remember you mentioning in a comment section a while back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:22 AM
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Sure, some do. But it’s not really needed, nor does it really improve the haircut that significantly. Only the older (+50) guy in my community do it to keep their hair from looking gray. The vast majority of other men don’t. Facials? I won’t disagree on you there. But there has been a noticeable uptick in men getting those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:01 AM
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I mean, I don’t think it would advantageous for most guys with to pay for those additional services. As I mentioned above, it wouldn’t do much for us. Shorter hair=less stuff to do. Specific designs in the hair? Sure. A blowout? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:49 AM
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There probably is one. Especially since there are reported cases of men being driven to brink of suicide due to losing their hair. How so when the articles I listed above showed men that spend more on haircuts when you factor out options services and that they frequent barber shops/stylists more than women do to salons? Tbh though, most of this doesn’t really pertain much to my original comment. I was merely pointing a double standard that I continue to witness on this site and in my personal li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:15 AM
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All evidence to the contrary. I’m not misinterpreting what you’re saying. But research shows that men experience the same psychological effects that women do as a result of hair loss. The loss of perceived youthfulness, fertility, and ability to conform to society’s beauty standards are probably what hits guys the hardest more so than monetary investments in their hair. Especially for younger men like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:43 PM
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For older generations perhaps. But based off of the data collected in the links I posted, that narrative is no longer the case. We’ve kinda deviated from my original point. It’s quite evident that men care deeply about their hair. The misconception that we don’t is no longer a valid excuse to justify mocking our hair loss (via medication, disease, etc) over women’s. The double standard needs to stop. This shouldn’t be hard for people to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:35 PM
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It wasn’t a small segment though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:19 PM
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There isn’t really isn’t an equivalent of those additional services for men. Less/shorter hair=less reasons to use optional products that wouldn’t make that big of difference. Because of this, it’s only that one compares total money spent purely from a haircut perspective. And according to the Grooming Lounge, 70 percent of men actually spend 1 to 3 hours a month getting groomed at a stylist or barber compared to 39 percent of women. The man bun isn’t that outdated and made a noticeable resurgen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:35 PM
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As promised So from a pure haircut standpoint, guys actually spend more on haircuts per year than girls. The author noted that the overall cost for female haircare was slightly higher because of “additional services” that were mostly optional and not needed. Also, Men Now Care More About Their Hair Than Women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:21 AM
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Times are changing. And I promise you I’m not making anything up. If you’re interested, I can link one of them to you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:18 AM
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Recent surveys say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:35 AM
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In terms of styling it yes, men’s hair does require a bit less maintenance. But it’s still a harmful stereotype that men are less invested in their hair. Recent studies that have come out in the past couple of years have shown a sizable amount of men care more about their hair than women. A clear indication that people are using outdated misconceptions to justify their treatment of men suffering hair loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:25 PM
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That’s not what I said in my comment. I acknowledged that hair loss from medical treatment can cause women to develop a poor self-image. But I never said that it was more emotionally damaging to woman than it is to men. Just because men’s hair requires less maintenance doesn’t make it any less of an importance. It well known that hair loss for men is commonly associated with the development of depression and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:03 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to say that hair is more important to women than it is to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:49 PM
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I’m not discounting that. I know that hair loss as a result of medical treatment can cause women to develop self-image issues. I had family friend who dealt with that. But that’s not what I’m arguing. Again, my argument is that there is a double standard in how people favorably treat women suffering hair loss compared to men dealing with the same issues. The different excuses people give to defend this type of behavior are usually very faulty and should be called out for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:21 AM
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It’s true to a certain extent. I understand there’s a difference between a disease like alopecia and male-pattern baldness. The point I’m getting at is the general perception of women who suffer from any kinda of hair loss, be it the crown of their head or eyebrows, is generally more pleasant than that of men who suffer from similar conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:35 AM
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The Oscar incident last night kinda highlighted the difference in societal treatment balding women receive versus balding men. Men who suffer from hair loss are constantly the butt of jokes and are scoffed at when suggesting that it’s a serious issue. Balding women on the other hand are typically met with sympathy and concern. If they are teased about their condition, a backlash usually follows like we saw yesterday. Such an odd double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:02 AM
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I’m blackpilled to a certain extent and I’ve always had very good relationships with the women in my family. Outside of my family, I have a few female acquaintances that I enjoy talking to, but that’s about it. None of them have really changed my perspective on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:13 PM
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No and probably yes. Can’t ever recall seeing an atheist-Christian couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:10 AM
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Same. I’m hoping I can take a trip to Colorado and do some snowboarding too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:48 PM
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Martial arts Weightlifting Playing my guitar Drawing Astrophotography Fishing Hopefully I can get into skiing or surfing later this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:39 PM
2

Thanks for the compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:38 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:13 PM
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Guy #11 here. My barber is a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:29 PM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:45 PM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:03 PM
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That’s the goal this year my friend. I’m 6’1 175 rn. Trying to get to 195 by the end of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:01 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:19 AM
9

I’m really glad you did this. I think this might change the perception some people have on PPD members
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:36 AM
3

Nah I wish did tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:36 AM
4

Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:35 AM
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Thanks. I honestly believed you should’ve gotten a higher score. Beautiful eyes and nice tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:35 AM
3

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:01 AM
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Satisfied with my score (guy #11). Never thought I’d show my face on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:57 AM
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Very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:16 PM
1

When I was a kid, yes. But as a young adult, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:53 PM
1

Focus on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:15 PM
1

Imo, whoever ask the other person out should pay. If someone wants another person to take time out of their day to go on a date with them, the least they could do is pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:20 AM
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Depends on where he lives. If a very attractive guy lived in my area (college town), I could easily see him getting 50+ sexual partners in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:10 PM
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Bahamas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:41 AM
1

Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:30 AM
3

Curious. What do you mean by socially invaluable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:06 PM
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I know what the statistic meant and I don’t think I mentioned anywhere in my comment whether or not men should pursue career oriented women. Well aware that plenty of them still do, hence why I said some. I’m simply stating something that I’ve observed for the past couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:06 AM
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I’ve always found it funny how a lot of woman within educated groups complain about men being too “intimidated” to date them, but then you see numbers like this and it makes perfect sense as to why some guys tend to actively avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:24 PM
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In my opinion no. If you genuinely care and love another person, the thought of cheating should never cross your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:05 PM
1

No Not really. Agree with some of their concepts and disagree on others. Honestly I’d say I’m more of a mix between mgtow and the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:24 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:12 PM
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Shazam
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:00 PM
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They crave attention
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:13 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:48 PM
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Haven’t seen that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:43 PM
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This would be ideal, but it’s not practical. Most women prefer not to approach and most men aren’t going to experience romantic attention unless they initiate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:12 AM
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Unfortunately, showing vulnerability as a man more often than not will be perceived as weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:55 PM
1

I probably should
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:03 AM
1

Really disheartening to see some of the comments and memes made by a lot of women in regards to Nelly’s leaked video. Saw it by accident and he seems to be a bit above average. But I guess porn really has distorted everyone’s view of what average size really is. Especially for a black guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:15 AM
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My ideal is 10.55%, down to Earth. Honestly, not surprised by the result. I excluded married or single mothers as well as overweight and obese women. Don’t have strong racial or height preferences so I selected all races and set a minimum height to 5 ft. As far as income, someone my age isn’t making that much so $20k sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:48 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:12 PM
1

Thank you Narnia!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:12 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:12 PM
1

I envy you. I’ve been seriously thinking about my age since I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:57 PM
1

Thank you! Probably just relax at home and enjoy the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:36 PM
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Officially 23 years old today. I’m getting old!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:21 PM
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I wouldn’t say they have a monopoly on truth in regards to dating. But like the guy below me stated, most of their beliefs are backed up by credible research studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:53 PM
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Unfortunately no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:30 PM
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So close. I was rooting for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:41 AM
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I can only imagine. That was great game last night. Nothing like seeing the Patriots get beat down and dildos being thrown on the field lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:03 PM
1

Her too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:00 PM
1

I don’t think anyone besides Patriots and Buccs fans like Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:55 PM
1

Oof. If it makes you feel better I was tragically born a Falcons fan so I kinda understand your pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:48 PM
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Kinda. Only been around here for about a year now. Root for any specific team?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:43 PM
1

Didn’t know you were a football fan Poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:36 PM
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11
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:03 PM
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I’m biased given my current state (balding college student), but if given the choice I'd take normal hair with grays over losing all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:16 AM
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1.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:49 PM
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Have to be attractive in order for that to happen and statistically speaking that’s not not going to be the case for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:46 PM
2

There’s definitely some wiggle room at the top, but if you’re not in that percentile it’s pointless to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:05 PM
4

The preferences I see expressed there usually aren’t too different than ones I see on other social media sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:56 PM
2

True, but I don’t think the negative opinion of men’s attractiveness is limited to just the women on FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:54 PM
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Not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:49 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/q1aaye/the_lack_of_attractive_men_out_there_is_so/ Damn. It’s becoming more obvious that women consider the vast majority of men physically unattractive. I honestly wouldn’t hold it against any guy my age for checking out of the dating market. If you’re not in the top percentile, it’s almost no point in trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:16 PM
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From what I can tell, the date went smoothly so he’s probably not that boring. Shyness isn’t something that’s uncommon for a first date and I don’t necessarily agree with attributing being shy to weakness. As far as kissing goes, maybe he’s out of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:13 AM
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A combination of your first and last point. But mostly the last one. What’s interesting is that the woman in the post remarks that the guy is attractive and he was able to get a kiss out of her so he’s probably not that awkward either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:49 AM
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My definition of unlucky is one pursued, and nothing materialized from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:27 AM
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Perhaps they had a religious upbringing or they’ve just been really unlucky with relationships up to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:15 AM
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Without knowing any specific details about the guy who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:57 AM
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Curious, why do you believe it’s a red flag for a man to be a virgin at 27?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:46 AM
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That’s the perfect description of you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:21 PM
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Yes I’m from Georgia
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:06 PM
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Yeah the bandwagon fans can definitely annoying. But for the most I like the Bills Mafia. Never gets old seeing you guys crush tables on game days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:06 PM
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Wow. I’m kinda jealous. You guys are really good this year. I’m a Falcons fan unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:18 PM
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Nice! What team do you follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:56 PM
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Is anyone here a big NFL person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:53 AM
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I think most women are capable of experiencing such desires. But, they’ll only experience that with a small percentage of men. Hence 80/20. As for you, you’re pretty young so I’d say it’s only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:45 PM
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For a while now I’ve figured that most men will never elicit intense lustful feelings from a woman. The comments in those screenshots seem to confirm that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:27 PM
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Sure, it’s something that they can’t really control but it doesn’t make me view it as appealing. I understand the argument you’re trying to make. Typically, I would agree that a men who’s getting his sexual needs met with a consenting women is higher up on the social hierarchy than incels. However, in this particular sense no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:29 PM
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In my opinion, they are a bit lower than incels. Cuckolding to me just seems like a very extreme self degrading fetish. I’d rather be alone than partake in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:31 PM
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Looks are the predominant factor in being able to attract potential romantic partners. As far as maintaining a healthy relationship, there are others factors besides looks that are at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:07 PM
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70% body, 30% face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:33 PM
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Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:06 PM
2

As usual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:56 AM
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Correct. 22 to be exact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:30 PM
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I don’t care for alcohol or being around drunk people. I’m also a bit of an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:29 PM
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No. It’s not my scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:43 PM
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Size matters
/r/BlackPillScience27/08/21 12:56 PM
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Depends really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:33 AM
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INTP, Male, 22, red to black
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:54 PM
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Hostile: 4.27 Benevolent: 0.73 Not surprised honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:58 PM
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Good day everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:03 AM
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Yes, researchers used data that was collected by the National Survey of Family Growth from 2002 to 2011-2013. What’s interesting is the researchers found that the top 5% and 20% of men had a dramatic increase in sexual partners while the median number of partners for average men stayed the same. I’ve done by due diligence of reading papers about female sexuality in good faith so I’d say have a fairly decent of understanding of it. Plus, my interactions with women not only online but in real life…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:19 PM
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Yes, I think most people are aware that some guys get more sex than other men. That’s never really been a secret. However, when a small percentage of men experience a dramatic 30% increase of sexual partners in just 10 years, I think that’s worth being discussed. My comment was not written to imply that there was crisis. However, I would not be surprised if this growing trend has unintended consequences for the next generation. Also, do you really believe that what’s holding most men back from b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:15 PM
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I said it was consolidated for them. In the sentence prior I said that they aren’t the only men having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:09 PM
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The data from that survey wasn’t about OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:06 PM
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I disagree with some of your points but I really want to address the first one. Several studies conducted by researchers in Europe have shown that a smaller number of men are receiving a disproportionate number of likes from women in OLD settings. Years worth of data collected from a US survey group show that the top percentage of men are having much more sex now than they did 10 years prior. I do not believe that the ONLY men who have sex are chads. But I do believe that for men in general, sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:37 PM
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Those people are full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:05 AM
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How ridiculous. They get banned but somehow FDS isn’t even quarantined?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:16 PM
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You provided the best description of FDS in this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:59 PM
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When you think about it, this is one of the few places on Reddit besides manosphere themed subs that allows you to openly discuss redpill and similar topics without being ridiculed to hell. The influx of men in the age group you mentioned should not come as a surprise considering the majority of them are from countries that are witnessing a significant rise in sexlessness amongst younger men. It’s an experience we can relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:17 AM
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I don’t think the frequency in which a guy watches porn determines whether or not he’s a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:33 PM
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1.) No I do not agree with this line of thinking. There are millions of people that will go through life without ever having a genuine romantic partner and will die alone. Just because they’re billions of us doesn’t mean the odds are in our favor. There are just too many factors at play: age, race, location, politics, money, etc. 2.) People push this idea because it’s convenient and it absolves them of actually having to address the problems one might be facing with romantic relationships. I als…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:28 PM
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Wow. I’m actually first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:01 AM
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Probably because it is not inherently predatory and weird incels on this site are not representative of male sexuality as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:49 PM
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Yes. Online dating has made it considerably more easy for women and a small portion of men to get dates or casual sex without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:07 PM
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I like some of his content. He’s definitely knows how to draw an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:04 PM
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I do think the average person does overrate their SMV value to a certain extent. Some of the possible causes of this could be an inability to accept being average, having hookups with individuals several points above of them, or just plain narcissism. Whatever the cause maybe, it’s definitely had an effect on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:53 AM
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If that story is true, I really feel bad for that kid. Can’t imagine dealing with that type of embarrassment as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:08 AM
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I’ve actually been kinda taken back from some of the responses I’ve seen on this post and one similar to it. It seems like a decent number of women on here have participated in this type of behavior and don’t really see an issue with it. Mostly because they benefit from it. For me, there’s a problem with this line of thinking. Maybe I’m different but if I’m on a casual date with a woman, I might not be “exclusive” to her yet, but the goal is a committed relationship. If I’m entertaining multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:50 AM
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There really isn’t any harm in talking about it. It’s better more young men are made aware of what’s going on rather than remain oblivious to it. If it upsets you to such a degree, then perhaps it would be best for you not partake in any discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:27 AM
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That’s not so bad compared to previous seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:05 AM
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How are they looking this year? Always been a big Mike Trout fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:05 AM
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Approximately 170 undergraduate men and women between the ages of 18 and 25 years. The other studies had thousands of participants. All of the same had similar results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:16 PM
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For the study I referenced in my last comment age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction, were factored in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:05 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:44 PM
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To a certain extent yes. However, in a study done by Wednesday Martin, it was shown that men’s sexual desire was not significantly affected by the duration of a romantic relationship while it was the opposite for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:40 PM
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IMO, I think the most common reason is that a significant portion of women do not see the appeal of sex in a long term relationship. They want sexual variety and feel stifled in a monogamous relationship. In one study, it was shown that women’s sexual desire drop significantly in the first seven years of a relationship. Another study showed that women were 45% more likely to lose interest in sex after being with a partner between 1 to 5 years. https://bestlifeonline.com/boring-sex-wednesday-mart…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:13 PM
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Yeah, not sure why that’s the case. This old Reddit post does a better job breaking down the numbers. https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/2viykh/how_often_do_you_shower_per_week_on_average/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=comments_view_all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:29 AM
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Honestly not sure. Recent reports show men take showers more frequently than women. Maybe they’re talking about the men they date. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.chron.com/neighborhood/amp/Who-Showers-More-and-Why-Women-or-Men-9718794.php
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:22 AM
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I see. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:01 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:11 AM
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Unfortunately, I think a significant portion of women will never be able to see it from this viewpoint. Apex fallacy is quite common on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:10 PM
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The world isn’t black and white. There are certainly going to be those with less than desirable physical traits that happen to find love. Sometimes it’s a stroke of luck. However, exceptions don’t make the rules. The traits that u/Notsonewguy7 listed can and will significantly hinder a mans chances of finding a quality partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:44 AM
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Agreed. The likelihood of a guy that’s not in the upper echelon of looks easily amassing a relatively large partner count probably isn’t that likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:17 PM
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Based on my very limited experience, I’d say no. Most people who join certain clubs or activities do so for the enjoyment of said activities. Not dating. My experience will probably differ from someone older though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:37 PM
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So agree to disagree then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:31 AM
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It doesn’t outright disprove the reported averages per se, but it does add further context on why the reported number for women is lower relative to that to men. Again, women underreport their sexual activity and men overreport due to societal pressure. Several studies that predate the one I posted confirm this phenomenon as well. https://news.osu.edu/men-women-lie-about-sex-to-match-gender-expectations/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/257663739_Gender_Roles_and_Pressure_to_be_Truthful_…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:14 AM
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You wanted the commenter above to prove his narrative by providing sufficient data that supports it. The article that I posted does just that. The data in the article is a bit more up to date than that of the CDC and does a thorough job explaining why going off age alone isn’t the ideal way of gauging what the true average is for both genders. Also, statistically speaking there shouldn’t be such a large gap between the number of partners between men and women. As I mentioned previously, the disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:22 PM
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Perhaps this article will suffice. https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/average-number-of-sexual-partners#is-there-an-ideal-number The average reported number for sexual partners for both men and women in the US is 7.2. This number definitely varies with age, location, and background so there probably isn’t a true average. A slightly larger percent of men than women lie more about their sexual history. However, men were more likely to increase their numbers while women were more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:20 PM
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I’ve lived near Atlanta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:45 PM
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Not from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:12 AM
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Sorry for the late reply. I have experimented with fin. Not only did it not restore my hairline, but it also gave me medical issues that I’m still dealing with almost a year after I stopped taking it. It’s really unfortunate because most men who’ve taken the stuff I was using have reported a decrease in hair loss and some regrowth with no unpleasant side effects. Guess I wasn’t so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:28 AM
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That’s interesting. It’s the opposite for me. I’ve had some success, albeit small, on Tinder while living close to Savannah, GA. However, no such such luck with Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:23 AM
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Technically he’s not wrong. Black men tend to have the least amount of success on popular dating sites compared to men of other ethnic groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:53 PM
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Why 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:05 PM
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It isn’t that much of an exaggeration. Similar surveys that have been conducted all show sexlessness amongst younger men in the US and UK is growing at quite an appreciable rate. Do you have any data that suggest otherwise? Also, not sure how the global estimated percentage of men who’s fathered a child is a legitimate counter argument. A child can be conceived in many circumstances that don’t involve romantic attraction or a relationship, and historically speaking most men have not passed on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:54 PM
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Let’s go Bucks and Clippers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:06 AM
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I know my height isn’t the source of my issues, but it’s not special enough to offset the problems blading has caused me either. Believe me when I say 6’0 really isn’t anything special at my college. I really don’t standout that much against average attractive guy you’d encounter on my campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:11 AM
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I wish I could. I’m black tho so growing out my hair in the manner in which you’re describing isn’t a realistic option for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:03 AM
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I try to keep it as low as possible now. A really good haircut for me typically last a week. After that, the thinning becomes noticeable again and I’m forced to wear a hat for a few weeks. I used to be able to get a really nice shadow fade, but that’s no longer a feasible option for me. I keep my beard low too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:42 PM
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Probably a 5 on my best day I’m in my early twenties but I have the hairline of a man his sixties. I also have an oddly shaped head so going bald might not be the best option rn. My beard helps a little, but not that much since I don’t really have a defined jawline. As for height, I’m not short (6’0) but I’m not that tall either. Especially on my college campus where most guys seem to be around my height or taller. Honestly can’t think of celebrity that resembles me looks-wise. I’d reckon most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:18 PM
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Tbf, there’s always been a difference of sexlessness between the two genders. Based on general social survey data that I found dating back to 1989, the number of men aged 18-30 who reported no sex in the last calendar year was consistently higher than the number of women that did. Interesting enough, 2010 and 2011 seem to be to last time the rate of sexlessness between men and women were the same. Since then, that rate has skyrocketed for men while plateauing, slightly increasing, and plateauing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:10 PM
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I believe it’s the main cause because the constraints that once existed in the realm of dating have been lifted by OLD. No longer are people restricted to dating others only within their local community, friend group, workplace, etc. As we both know, men comprise the majority of the users on most dating apps and are typically the ones who message first on social media sites. This abundance of possible suitors has created an environment where women can afford to be selective as they wish to be wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:31 PM
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In the 90’s and early 2000’s, sure I agree. But the late 2000’s and early 2010’s, I respectfully disagree. The increase of OLD isn’t solely to blame for the growing sexlessness that we’re witnessing. However, based on the data that I’ve seen it is one of the main causes of it. Most of the major dating apps and social media sites took off in the late 2000’s, coinciding with the start of the rising sexlessness for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:29 PM
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Based on your original reply, I thought that you were implying that the OLD dating scene hasn’t changed since 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:03 PM
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I’m aware that OLD dating has been around for a while. However, in 2012 Tinder and Snapchat were still in their infancy, Bumble didn’t exists, and smart phones were still relatively new. Much has changed in the nine years since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:24 PM
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In my opinion, OLD and social media are the two main culprits for this growing trend. In the digital age that we’re in now, people (more specifically women) have more romantic options to chose from than they’ve ever had in recent times. As their options have increased, so have their standards for what they consider to be an attractive man. Settling no longer has to be an option for many of them. Which of course means that men who do not meet said standards (no matter how distorted they may be fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:11 PM
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You know why
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:13 PM
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Based on the data I’ve seen, bars/restaurants and mutual friends are the next most common categories where heterosexual couples meet at 27% and 20% respectively. Keep in mind though, online isn’t limited to just OLD sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:53 PM
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Easy. Most dating sites have more male users than female users. Tinder and Okcupid are two sites where this is the norm. Due to the massive gender imbalance, most men aren’t going to have that much success by virtue of there being less women present. Yes, more couples are meeting online now due to the sheer number of people flocking to OLD sites. However, the growing number of people on these sites have made it so where now it’s practically a numbers game. And unfortunately, if you’re an average…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:22 AM
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I agree with most of what you said in this post. Historically, only 40% of men have passed on their genes. That in itself should be pretty indicative as how to the majority men are going to struggle to find a suitable romantic partner. And with onset of online dating and social media, this trend will only continue to increase as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:08 AM
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Genes. It’s awful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:56 PM
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Believe me, I’ve tried. Casually mingling with others isn’t that big of a problem for me. However, the time and energy I put into trying form relationships with others usually isn’t reciprocated. So I find it to be a waste of time for the most part. Also, I don’t find the settings in which most peers my age congregate to that appealing. Never been a big club or bar person. And parties just seem like an extension of them. I’ve been fortunate to meet a select few individuals in two of the clubs I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:18 PM
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I guess some guys would actually like to feel some sort of fulfillment when trying to get their needs met.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:08 AM
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I’d wager most wouldn’t be able to give you a completely honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:05 AM
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It’s definitely a psychological need. You won’t die not having, but life probably won’t be as fun without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:03 AM
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I can definitely attest to this as a current university student. It’s not likely to join a large social group unless you’re close to someone that’s already in it. It was one of the first things I noticed as a freshman. I don’t think a lot people realize this because it’s never been something that they’ve had to actually worry about. You’d honestly have a better chance creating your own small social group versus trying to join an established one. And of course all of this tends to be harder for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:58 AM
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Thank you. Too many people here are arguing just for the sake of arguing. Since there aren’t a lot papers to counter the claims made by men of the manosphere, strawmanning has become commonplace. Sad to see really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:56 AM
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They’re probably just ugly/below average looks wise. Everything else is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:52 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 02:39 AM
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Depends on the location and culture. Recent data is showing that most relationships in the US start online rather than through personal contacts. https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:36 PM
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Really? I thought it would’ve been the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:37 PM
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To a certain extent yes. But I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship where money was the sole reason why it even existed. Plus, I have neither of those two things right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:48 PM
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Easier said than done. It's hard not to give a shit when its something that plays such a pivotal role in facial attractiveness. Maybe in a few years I'll have this type of mindset when all hope of my hair returning is gone. But until then, its going to be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:00 PM
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More than likely single. I'm very cautious with my money so hopefully I'll have a enough saved up by that point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:50 PM
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I would like to get a hair transplant in the near future as well. Finding a decent surgeon that does it at an affordable price will be a challenge though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:26 PM
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I was pretty active throughout high school so I still have decent athletic build and I have full beard now. Neither of them compensate for the intense hair loss I’ve experienced in the last two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:23 PM
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Tried that before. Didn’t exactly work out. I have a cone shaped head. I’m screwed regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:58 PM
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Balding college student here. It sucks. Makes you look 10 years older than you actually are. Older balding guys might have fewer issues securing dates since they’re at an age where it’s expected for them to start losing hair. But for younger guys like me, it’s a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:22 PM
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Same. Any idea why this happening?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen23/03/21 10:29 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:29 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights16/03/21 01:45 PM
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That’s awful. Can you provide a list of those countries where feminists are doing that?
/r/MensRights16/03/21 12:20 AM
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They’re visually unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:10 PM
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I find it odd as well. How are so many of these manipulative guys getting with women who claim to look out for such men? And why are the women in this thread attributing this type of behavior to all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:26 AM
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Hard to say. In my opinion, I’d probably say men. In recent years, western men are starting to understand how relatively easy it is for women to secure a partner regardless of her looks, financial status, education, etc. Now, whether said partner is high or low quality is a bit more subjective. Also, women tend not to care too much about the plight of undesirable or average men on the dating scene. Thus, many of them don’t have a firm understanding on just how hard it is for certain men to attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:46 PM
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The data associated with blackpill-themed scientific articles aren’t cherrypicked nor misinterpreted to any significant degree. Many of them are peer reviewed and are simply confirmations on what’s already been observed by men that are active in the social/dating world. I’d post some of them here for discussion if it didn’t result in me getting banned. Interestingly, whenever such articles (height & income, facial attractiveness and OLD, etc) are posted in non incel/redpill spaces, they’re typic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:46 AM
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Hybristophilia is your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:29 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:26 PM
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Those are just the extremists that exists in nearly every semi popular group. You’ll only find those type of men in places like 4chan or incel.o. The majority of romantically unsuccessful men are not active in those spaces nor do they endorse the sentiments that you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:03 PM
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There isn’t a legitimate reason to be angry at a group people that call out certain women who feel the need to bully and dehumanize ugly, short, or socially inept men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:58 PM
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Yes, the first study isn’t specifically about looks. However, it does highlight the fact that women are far more selective when it comes choosing a mate on Tinder. Such a disparity in likes received by women versus men can be attributed to looks and economic status. There’s a reason why money often considered the second most important thing a man must have in order to attract potential mates. It made no difference with men of course be that’s not something men are concerned with when choosing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:37 PM
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Men are constantly judged more harshly on their looks in comparison to women. There’s an abundance of scientific studies that supports OP’s claim. Women are twice as choosy as men when they go speed dating. Men want to see about five women again, while women only choose to see two men again after the speed dating event https://doi.org/10.1353/jhr.2013.0010 Women generally report greater disgust than men, especially regarding sexual disgust or general repulsiveness which have been argued to be co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:05 PM
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Women care more about looks than men. This shouldn’t even be a debate. Men liked 61.9% of women on Tinder and women liked a mere 4.5% of men on Tinder https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0272775719301104 Men rate women more highly than women rate men https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167290162017?casa_token=XBcjgJx_6ZsAAAAA:B2oXZgIdCvl2gCdmwdzqQICqkkU5i4D2D0ka1HND7rfeRnWeKrBQLfW0eLEMG3dq6DJpMgDkMiSTUA Average women receive 15 times as many matches as average men on …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:50 PM
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You understand the problem with this line of thinking correct? Why would young men contribute to a society that doesn’t care about the plights they face? Understand that this issue extends beyond the US. It has the potential to evolve into something worse if it continues to persists without acknowledging it. Also, your claim about men is a broad generalization and demonstrably false. Women movements/groups have gained considerable traction in the last few years. Men have played a role in the pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:10 AM
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It’s not a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:45 AM
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It’s quite real, and there’s data to back up the claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:31 AM
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That’s a bit unfair of a characterization. It isn’t just sexless men who think this. The idea that women are boring is quite prevalent even amongst groups of men who do have success with women. In my personal experience, those type of guys are good at putting up a facade of seeming interested in whatever hobbies their SOs take part in. When in all actuality, they could care less about them. This isn’t a bad thing per se considering it kinda goes both ways. I think in most heterosexual relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:51 AM
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Not quite. Little to do with sex and more about the areas of interest men and women gravitate towards more. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19883140/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:43 AM
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Multiple tattoos and piercings are probably the best warning signs a woman could give to a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/20 08:58 PM
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Archive time!
/r/MensRights29/06/20 07:06 AM
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Bingo. Check out the recent post on this sub that’s discussing the dilemmas men face when approaching women now. The majority of the people in the comment section don’t view it as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:54 AM
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Not entirely sure about other places, but height obsession is very prevalent in the US. This is especially true for men. Height plays a role not only in one’s ability to get a relationship, but also job selection. Preferences do tend to differ between different ethnic groups, but not by much. Hook up culture and social media platforms have played a very important role in making this issue worse considering height discrimination isn’t viewed in the same way as fatshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:34 PM
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Reddit talk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:29 PM
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They’re fake.
/r/PussyPass21/05/20 10:03 PM
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Yeah, I don’t really see how this fits the theme of this sub
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/20 09:03 PM
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It’s April Fool’s
/r/MensRights01/04/20 06:31 PM
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