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There's nothing about this in the news bro, are you sure it's actually been made a law?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:55 PM
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Why on Tinder though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:14 PM
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How do you respond when someone tells you "To find a guy who loves me" when you ask them "what you doing on Tinder"? Help!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:15 PM
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Oh... sorry dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:47 AM
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Every good deed I've done for a girl was sincere, even if I liked one or two I always swallowed my pride and accepted that they don't like me that way and I'd move on very quickly and forget about it. Your "friend" sounds a bit entitled to me, the fact that you tried to reciprocate should've shown him you don't see him that way, as I've found if there's mutual attraction between friends or acquaintances, instead of buying me lunch she'll make a date to buy me lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:44 AM
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I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:53 AM
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Why on Earth are you on Tiktok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:44 AM
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I agree she's hot but many of the guys legit look like supermodels and she ain't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:43 AM
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Oh that's sad, she was one of the coolest people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:39 AM
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lol a woman repeating stuff incels say, never change PPD, never change haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:37 AM
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That Pigeon is badass lmao, I legit wouldn't be able to live there, way too much weird shit going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:14 AM
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Well now I'm gonna think about it lol. My brother said something like this to me when I was 15 and there was a girl who had a huge crush on me, I was gonna kiss her then I(a germaphobe) remembered, "human mouths are dirtier than dogs mouths", I broke a girl's heart over a freaking myth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:07 AM
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Well I'd be very gay if ramming face first into pussy was my only purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:55 PM
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"You all handle my ass pennies everyday, I laugh at you before you laugh at me because your pennies, have been in my ass" gold! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:53 PM
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Funniest fact I've heard today, "The overwhelming majority of hands you've touched has had a dick in them at one point" lol, why would somebody think of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:09 PM
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It's not too late bro, say it or you'll have to live with it forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:07 PM
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Coolest thing I learned about myself is that my mitochondrial group is African Interesting, which part of Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:01 PM
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It's not a problem, I just wanted to prove you wrong is all. What I care about is the narrative, some self righteous individuals love to use the false narrative that humans aren't shallow as a way to not only boosts their own shallow egos and to bully people they see as below them, because "this guy can't get laid, he must be a d-bag woman hater or neckbeard".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:57 PM
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As what's his name says, the rest of the world isn't overly obese, plus I heard that eastern Europeans don't care for fat women. Though if we're to believe what people here say about height being very desirable to women she's probably not going to go to a place where the men are both below her economically and very tall on average than Serbia, so she best lose those pounds very fast if she doesn't wan to be single. Edit: Her posts are kinda sad though, I feel bad for her. Also Serbian women must…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:07 PM
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Yeah lol, white people seem to have this weird obsession over boob size, even here in Southern Africa, though what sets the white women here apart, they have bigger asses and boobs, interestingly this could be cause many of them have Nama ancestors might be why lol. I do find it interesting how Genealogy works, a person can look white as day, but still could have more of what I identify as than me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:56 PM
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Isn't there studies that suggest preference towards butts vs boobs has to do with socio-economic background? lol I find it funny cause bigger breast size doesn't mean more milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:46 PM
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Haha I mean Hollywood attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:41 PM
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it's' just a fact that a good amount of men don't and won't experience non-paid sex. He said good amount, not good percentage. OP is very much right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:39 PM
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Well the vast majority of people aren't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:11 PM
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I think you overestimate the number of people who aren't shallow lol. Anyway we agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:06 PM
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There's an article of a woman who's with an ugly man, and 13 years later she regrets it, she says all these great things about him, about how good of a person he is and all that, but "he's just... ugly, I want to rip his clothes off and jump his bones but he's just too ugly". Have a read, also this is only one of many of this type of article, obviously you can't blame her for feeling disgust, she feels what she feels that's how she's programmed, her logic can't get past it. Also thank you, I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:04 PM
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Yeah it's kind of frustrating at times but I kept watching cause there were some things I like, mainly Benedict Wong as Kublai khan, also Princess Kokachin... oh who am I kidding that's the real reason I kept watching lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:55 PM
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I still think that's irrelevant even though my previous point doesn't apply because the OP is mainly about the minority of men who can't get free sex and love. Interestingly I don't find it a Blackpill idea that some men are just too unattractive to get laid or loved. Call it cynicism or whatever but I just don't believe that human beings(most not all) have the logical capacity to look past a person's looks(the women here have proven that to me), and I believe those people(assuming we all agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:44 PM
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Obviously not, I just don't believe human beings are that logical(enough to look past someone's looks). I'm not ugly or at least that's what everyone tells me, also have had a few girls approach and have been on the end of a few unsolicited advances from strangers so even though I'm insecure about my looks, I think I'd be delusional to say I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:32 PM
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Haha I always put a pic of myself next to my female friends or sisters, for some reason when I started doing this my rate of matches started going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 PM
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I'm a dude and I only go by what people have said on r/amiugly and here, it was mainly 5ish as one dude said "not ugly but not too special either" and one lady said "5 and 6 if you're muscular"(that was an ego boost ngl). Mind you I don't agree with them at all, I'm very insecure about my looks, I can't gain weight no matter how much I eat even though I'm very physically strong(I once beat up a 5'10 tall guy) and my face is very asymmetrical, so I think it's a bit unfair for some people to say w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:17 PM
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She was a very attractive woman, that's why he chose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:07 PM
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Start of season 2, where we see Ahmad being given the role of tax collector by the Khan, where he goes to collect tax from a brothel, the owner being short on funds offering to "pay" with service, that service turning out to be given by his mother, man the way he puts figures it out, I almost puked when I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:06 AM
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Well usage of OLD is a lot lower on average in countries where it's legal and with lower restrictions, but curiously your country is the only one that bucks that trend. Maybe the culture of tying a person's self worth to sexual success is a lot worse in the Anglosphere overall, that's the only way I can explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:01 AM
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I don't watch many shows so that might be why it's so shocking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:55 AM
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Imagine having your entire family, town/village and country getting destroyed, raped and pillaged, being taken as a slave at 5 years old and as a teenager or young adult going to a brothel to have sex for the first time, then finding out you just fucked your own mother. That Marco Polo show had some fucked up shit in it, but that dude fucking his own mother was beyond fucked, what makes this worse is the fact that this could've happened multiple times IRL history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:48 AM
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No genuine connection. The latter is real because I know guys who’ve been hooking up for years than want something real. I think this is only a factor because in Western society(and unfortunately most of the world bc of that) being able to attract a member of the opposite sex and getting sex(especially for men) for free plays a huge role in being a respected adult and a lot of a person's self worth is based on this, unfortunately. I'm sure it would make a difference if that wasn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:18 AM
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Solicitation is illegal in the UK and the US, that makes it highly restrictive. Also as someone pointed out in a thread, OLD usage in Germany (and other countries where prostitution is legal) is a lot lower than in highly restrictive countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:15 AM
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Q4 the people who think prostitution won't make any difference, do you consider the amount of restrictions placed on it in most places where it is legal? Prostitution, "the act of engaging in sexual acts in exchange of money" is legal, but "offering or attempting to purchase sex" is illegal, that is the law in most countries where it's legal. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:32 AM
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That data is irrelevant in this context, why? Because men die a lot earlier on average, in reality that 90% is easily just 80%, also single sexless men have higher mortality on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:26 AM
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Since when is being ugly anyone's fault, lol "it's your fault you have 80IQ" like who says shit like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:21 AM
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Legalization makes little difference when restrictions remain. As another poster mentioned, usage of OLD(basically dating in 2022) on average drops plus minus 5% when you move from highly restrictive countries to legal unrestrictive countries. I don't think this data can be ignore, especially when such a large number of people use OLD as a % of the population. The data clearly suggests there is indeed an effect also when taking into account the price difference I've seen given here($50 in Austra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:19 AM
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Well he is talking about rate, not raw numbers. 10% in the US isn't the same as 10% in Argentina but Argentina is still just 9.5% while the US is 17%, plus one thing not being taken into account here is that it's only looking at people using it in that year, not all the people who have used it. Also 17% is huge when taking into account that most of the people who use it are young people, the people with the highest libido, and at that point, I'm kind of leaning more onto his theory, I think pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:10 AM
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That wasn't my point at all but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:45 AM
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OMG you people are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:24 AM
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Hey I'm just pointing out that dating is shallow and a person who has gains their self esteem outside of their looks is always going to judge themselves based on those, a rich guy is going to judge himself based on his ability to make money and therefore he's going to think, "hey I'm rich and I'm good at being rich. Why don't girls like me?". Many of these guys are average, just not average-looking(which is what really matters).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:05 AM
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I hope you understand that you were never really an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:58 AM
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I've watched those guys, and I'll tell you, they don't succeed because of their charm. When most women are already open to your advances without you ever saying a word, I don't think that has anything to do with "treating women as people", I think it has to do with women seeing a good looking guy and being open to his advances, no wonder many guys end up failing pick up, success in cold approach has only to do with your looks, not charm. Many people(mostly men) are guilty of this, the attribute …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:55 AM
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It's funny you say Disney because Disney movies have by far the best portrayals of what dating is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:47 AM
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Easy, the men who say this clearly do not mean "average", as in looks(which is what really determines success in dating), they mean it as IQ, height, status and occupation, as in "I'm not the most popular, richest or smartest but I'm also not the worst in those things". It becomes very obvious that most if not all of them are way below average when it comes to looks and since people can only speak from experience and since they are "average" men, they assume this holds true for every man in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:15 AM
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No but it is an insult. If the same people who say looks aren't everything in attracting women, yet at the same time say "well you're ugly, so you shouldn't expect anyone to want you"(which is basically what you said) it does sound like an insult, like no shit lol, I've lived 23 years in my body of course I know what I look like and I'm pretty sure everyone else does too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:08 AM
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Thanks, you can send it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:30 PM
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It happens. Eff boys are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:29 PM
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Thanks for the links. As per your questions, I'm 23 and a dude, I read this book about a fantastical hero when I was 12, I still can't remember the name, I've read a few novels but nothing really stood out like that one, plus I don't like public spaces so libraries aren't my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:23 PM
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Is that a website? I prefer fiction fantasy and adventure, does it have any good books in that genre?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:06 PM
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What world do you live in where average guys get multiple women? Isn't a "soft harem" a reference to how exceptionally good looking men have 20 gfs in a year, while having casual sex in between?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:38 PM
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They only work for good looking people, many of us here aren't, lol why do you think so many people don't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:33 PM
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I'm very rural and also very scared of Covid. I'd prefer to read online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:09 PM
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What are you looking for exactly? What is "good" book to you? Anything interesting really. Also thanks for the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:04 PM
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I have a pc, I'd like to download an e-book or read online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:03 PM
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Oh, does the severity of the side effects have anything to do with the dosage taken? The IUD is very reliable and convenient, but it has to be done by a well trained physician, also it's mostly used by mothers, or women who've previously gave birth, maybe it's because of the way the IUD changes the lining in order to prevent implantation and that should be taken into consideration when looking to use it, though a doctor would know better than I. But we do know for sure is it's safe so it could b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:54 PM
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I'm still nowhere near any library rn, also I'm terrified of Covid and won't go out unless I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:27 PM
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Oh sorry, I study Bio, hence why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:11 PM
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Anyone know good free books I can find online, I'm really broke and can't afford any decent piece of literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:01 PM
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What are the side effects? Also isn't an IUD apparently painful or uncomfortable and doesn't it increase the chances of uterine infection?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:54 AM
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I'm not sure but that might just be her, though through experience people of higher status do live abundant lives, they experience a lot and generally get everything they want and as I've found are generally more woke to the reality of human nature more so than normal people and because of that are accepting of behaviours we normal people might deem bad or weird. Or it could be that she herself had affair(s) of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:49 AM
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Haha I think she's a woman lol, I might be wrong though haha but that avatar looks female, which makes your response hilarious. Seriously though, to your response, these men are bitter and that's what bitter people do, especially as they are physically unattractive(IDK if it's true I just take their word for it) it's going to be especially harder to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:37 AM
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Hey, I'll have you know my neighbour beats his gf too and he's 5'4, though he does look like an actor in one of Tyler Perry's "Madea" movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:50 AM
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Who on Earth did the planning lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:49 AM
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The first paragraph you're right, marriage wasn't made because of women, it was made to benefit men, but that's just it, it doesn't benefit men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:16 AM
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The fact that you don't know what about what you've said isn't respectable makes you even less respectable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:04 AM
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Average people are attractive though and as I said, the truly beautiful people are extremely rare so what are average looking people going to do if they want to have sex, of course they'll have sex with other people who are average as well. The OP says that you don't have to be good looking to be sexually attractive, he/she used good looking, not beautiful, many attractive people are indeed good looking, which is why I assumed that they mean ugly men can get in relationships and stuff which also…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:00 AM
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Literally not my point at all, average isn't unattractive, I never said it is. There are levels, beautiful(very few men as a % of the population), average(the vast majority) and ugly. There is an illusion here that personal traits matter, but it's just that, an illusion and if you were unlucky enough to be born ugly(or smart with self awareness), you'll see it as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:51 PM
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GF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:03 PM
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Dude what you're saying is insane, how do you not realize that? Those things have nothing to do with social conditioning, you can grow up on an island somewhere, you'll still desire sex and companionship, even though you might not be able to explain said desire, that's why it's called Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:30 PM
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I don't complain, thank you. Whatever you think of people who complain they'll keep doing it and they have a right to cause it's their life, just as you have the right to call them losers for it, neither is right I might add but that's how it is, I just want you to know that it's fascistic to want people to stop doing what they want. Also know that I agree with you, but just with the part about how one can live without these things but it doesn't mean one has to find other things to take their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:24 PM
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There is no healthy way to deal with this. You might be predisposed to asexuality but most people aren't. I can live without sex for a long time, but eventually it starts to weigh on me, it doesn't matter how busy I have been or am, what I've been doing or even my mental state, eventually masturbation stops being enough. You say drugs but as I said that's not healthy, there are always side effects, so what else, monk mode? How many people want or are even able to live a life like that? I think p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:26 AM
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I understand what you're saying but this is too idealistic, you being able to do it doesn't mean other men will, even though it's kind of the only thing that can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:03 AM
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"Just overcome hundreds of thousands of years of evolution by concentrating real hard, bro." Well what else are you gonna do? I'm not saying to stop complaining because there's some comfort to that but also it gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:01 AM
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Was at the police station to certify a few documents and I saw my HS foreign language teacher drunk crying saying "That woman took everything after I gave her my heart" with his mother embarrassed looking telling him to "Stop crying you're in public". Apparently she took all his money and fled lol. A little part of me felt sorry for the dude, but that story and how the guy was crying and what he was saying was funny af.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:38 AM
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While I don't agree with the 80/20 thing, I don't believe there's anything a man who isn't attractive(presuming he isn't overweight) can do other than give up and continue watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:54 AM
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She's got problems, I can't imagine crying my mascara off over some chick I don't even like not liking me, only proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:31 AM
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haha well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:05 AM
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Guys get hard all the time without fantasizing about someone hot True, imagining that I'm the King of Africa gets me going lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:56 AM
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Honore de Balzac You know you're damaged when this makes you laugh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:52 AM
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Haha, I hate to admit it but I kinda did too lol. The grandiose visions I'll invent something that'll change the world lol, thankfully my depression put an end to that. Looking back I was an egotistical little boy, I blame everyone else for giving me such a big head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:50 AM
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This or the other one? For the other one I felt it was merely a pointless rant lol, that's why I deleted it. God I need a smoke today, I get annoyed at shit I that usually doesn't annoy me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:00 AM
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It’s funny because idk if it’s different where you live, but the kind of guys that men here show as an example of a "Chad" must not exist where I live because I never see people like that, like tall, chiseled jawline, etc. Maybe it’s more common in larger cities. You don't have to have those features to be good looking, I mean I have those features and I'm ugly as hell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:42 AM
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Another thing you don't understand. Men have different types of attraction and most separate sex from love or love from lust, something that's rare in women(I've only seen one woman here admit she's like that). You can be the hottest woman in the world(believe me I knew two or three hot women) but if I don't like you, I don't like you, the sex might be good but if I don't like you then we might as well not fuck and the only reason we do keep fucking is cause you insist and I'll never deny pussy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:39 AM
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I don't think height or ethnicity play a significant role and I don't think women vet for attractiveness, I just think they look at a guy and decide if he's worth it or not and for guys who aren't getting any dates at all they aren't worth it to women, I think the 12 second rule thing that was posted here sometime ago is real and that's what "vetting for attractiveness" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:23 AM
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Lol that's not true, the dudes who have sex with those ugly women very much want to have sex with those women. Lack of choice is blatantly obvious when a guy does something dangerous to have sex, like effing a crazy chick or paying for a prostitute in Sweden, that's lack of choice. The men here saying that don't know what they're talking about, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:18 AM
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I'll correct you there, men will have sex with less attractive or even unattractive women, doesn't mean they aren't attracted to those women. It's very hard to impossible to have sex as a man with someone you aren't attracted to, I mean this physically, a flaccid penis is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:14 AM
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This post is funny, thank you I needed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:02 AM
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I'd say we're all underprescribed(if you know what I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:00 AM
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Makes sense and it's way worse as there's zero benefit from it. But his point is also true though, many of the people addicted or accustomed to it wouldn't be so if they did experienced sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:57 AM
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I think suicide rates will increase with less participation in the workforce, a few mass shootings here and there and the ones with enough testosterone joining militias. Sexlessness on it's own will never bring down something as complex as society but to say it doesn't play a role is just plain delusion, most if not all the dominant cultures and societies all had one thing in common and that's not wealth or technology, it's that they all had a culture, at least initially, of strong male intergro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:27 AM
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I don't think they're doing fine. I said this before and I'll say it again, those countries are not a litmus test for what will happen if the majority or even a large portion of males don't mate, those are rice cultures formed on extremely strong shame based social orders where challenging authority is closer to what pulling out your own beating heart out of your chest is in a societal sense, unthinkable. Those civilisations existed for thousands of years with polygamy yet the only notable revol…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:51 AM
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Well men don't get preferential treatment in tertiary education for one and most of us are wary of getting into debt for a piece of paper, even if that piece of paper gives you a big advantage in life. We're very much still shamed to go to college, some of us(like myself) budge, others not so much, like my brother would probably say to RP dudes, "I don't need to study to get a high paying job, I can get girls either way", he'd be right, there's little incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:09 PM
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Men are morally superior for the simple fact that our morality doesn't change when it becomes convenient to do so, a Nazi will stay a Nazi regardless of the situation he finds himself in whilst I've literally seen women change their beliefs with little force.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:00 PM
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Pepperoni with a bit of of think stew on top never gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:35 PM
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Nope To what? That and your thinking about objectification being the unavoidable result of male libido, anyway Yes and also from the fact that women do a lot of stuff to attract the men they want because the men they want is also wanted by multiple other women. Not all that billion dollar industry is men objectifying women, but women competing over the same men thus objectifying themselves in the process. If women didn't objectify themselves do you really believe those short shorts that shows yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:47 PM
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I'm curious are you a dude or a lady? Obviously we always have control over the decisions we make(that's what free will means) but we don't have control over how others see us, something(to everyone except close relatives) is almost entirely shaped by how you look, which in the ned also influences our decision making, but we still have control over that, just not how far or how good our lives turn out, that's very much dependent on our looks, like it or not, that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:31 PM
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Just one thing lol, burn scars aren't an indicator of good genes, a good looking person is still good looking with scars lol, that's a stupid take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:25 PM
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That can only work if A: You're good looking and B: Only attract hyper superficial women. Either way RP is worthless, I got female attention when I was 15, skinny AF and was scared as shit to talk to girls and I still get female attention now when I have six packs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:18 PM
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Men would probably become less objectifying and shallow in their attractions. Funny you say this, if women aren't by majority objectively the same as men by looks(which they already are) then in fact it would be the opposite, women are the ones who'd be less shallow, now I'm not saying that would definitely happen though, just that it's far more likely to happen than men becoming less objectifying(not gonna happen because men are horny) and men becoming less shallow(we are already less shallow t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:49 PM
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Most women are(in an objective sense) already equally unattractive, the only attractive quality they have is that they're women and men want to have sex(and validation) and aren't as picky about it, women(collectively) are the gatekeepers of reproduction, regardless of whether they're all supermodels or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:44 PM
2

It's a joke. I'll admit it's not a very good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:36 PM
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And by saying that you're wrong. Not that I think you're opinion doesn't matter though, it's just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:01 AM
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I love my inner voice, I was just on Insta when I saw a very good looking woman, browsed her profile when I saw links to other SM accounts, then I wondered if she has an OF, as I think that I see the link and no joke my inner voice goes "well no shit she has an OF, what you think that shit is free" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:59 AM
4

Interesting. Why is this the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:30 AM
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I honestly don't know why or what we're arguing about anymore. To me it seems you're merely saying what I'm saying just in(I'm gonna say it)"womanese". You're not contradicting anything I've said, like I told that 50 yr old man on the Mega thread, I don't care about that one girl who rejected me, I don't even remember what she looks like is how little I care, why cause I know I can get not one but multiple girls or a gf if I tried, that makes "other factors" practically worthless, since differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:27 AM
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There are still ways for personality to disqualify even hot guys. No one cares if some dude with options gets disqualified(I completely forgot about that one girl who rejected me after a week cause I know I can get another one) they care about what gets them in the game. Your personality is never of any value because different people have different personalities and are compatible with different ones, if I get rejected or reject one chick it's always a non issue because I know there are thousand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:09 AM
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Most men here are younger men, who have had experience with younger women. No dude who's under 25 is going to tell you with a straight face that women care about anything other than looks, unless he's trying to protect his ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:50 AM
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Cause I'm not a mysogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:42 AM
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Every woman I have known has found herself very attracted to some guy she never would have thought she'd be attracted to, at least once. "I never thought I would date a guy who loves Dungeons and Dragons" isn't the same as "I never thought I'd be dating an ugly guy", the former has to do with a personal trait and the latter has to do with attraction, the former is what you're talking about and it's very common, more common than you're leading on, the latter however never happens as that's not ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:34 AM
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Since you need to be physically attracted to a person to be intimate with them it's the most important. Sure there are other factors at play but since attraction is a non negotiable factor, that makes looks the most important thing. I say this because not all men are physically attractive, if they all were then you could say looks aren't the most important thing in dating and you'd be right, but again not all men are hot. Again I'm quoting what the women here are saying, I'm not making any of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:30 AM
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No. I had a great opportunity(guiltless I might add) to fuck a crazy chick, having zero inhibitions isn't hot on it's own, it has to come with some sanity, otherwise there isn't the ego boost that comes with knowing I'm the one making you act this way, to simplify the crazy chick doesn't lose her inhibition because of my hotness, she never had any in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:28 AM
1

Every woman understands it full well and so do most men here. For some reason you don't seem to want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:23 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:21 AM
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Dude literally every woman who replied or posted disagrees. Check down bottom, "Face is no 1" and "face>body frame>height"(and might I add >personality>intentions>relatability)I'm quoting those women. It sucks yes, but you have to be good looking to be hot, that other stuff doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:06 AM
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I don't think anyone who is an adult and also on PPD Reddit who still believes this can change their mind. Either you genuinely believe this as you haven't experienced nor seen anything to contradict your experience or you're protecting your fragile manly ego, it's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:59 AM
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I don’t think being a good man guarantees you’ll be universally sexually or romantically attractive, just like being “nice” isn’t enough. Hence why asking "where have the good men gone?" or saying "good men are so rare" is stupid. Sure we all know(by now) you don't actually mean good as good but hot and good, but say it like that, men communicate directly, this is why most of us get bothered by these statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 AM
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Correction: "You can't be friend zoned if you're hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:43 AM
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You would see her as a good friend, but nothing more. No boner, no sexual relationship. Thats the point. Projection on your part. As you said men are like this, women are not. For men being a good person, or having any trait other than just looks can get you a partner as a woman, that's not how it works for men. Your argument was all about how good men are rare, I only meant to argue against that, there are plenty of good men, just not enough are good looking and those good looking few know it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:46 PM
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No they don't, then they aren't really unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:32 PM
2

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:26 PM
1

No one ever said looks don't matter, only that other shit does, which is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:24 PM
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Who dates someone that they are not attracted to though? We're going in circles by now, please read carefully what I'm about to say. What you are basically saying is that a woman should first find out to see if a man is good...and then date them, whether he is sexually attractive to them or not. Attraction comes first, and always will...then you vet for the other things. I never said anything contrary to that, in fact that's my main point, that women don't give a shit about anything other than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:23 PM
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I'd really love it if you people stop half assing your arguments. You know full well you don't have one when you acknowledge the fact that as young boys we aren't told looks don't matter, no one ever believed that, what we're told from a young age is that other things matter, like being a good person or having a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:08 PM
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Unless you personally know a lot of men who have asked out women in the same way and know that the ugly ones and only the ugly ones have been called rude. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:57 PM
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The fact that you could find 3 guys, who are also good looking(otherwise you wouldn't date them) proves my point. You literally say it plainly right here: I can have a light friendship with a lot of people, but intimate, romantic sexual relationships are very different If women cared for "more than just looks" this wouldn't be the case, you place(though unconsciously)a barrier(looks) in front of compatibility, which in this case merely becomes an intangible placeholder, not something of actual v…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:54 PM
1

Since when do women date men they haven't seen? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:37 PM
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You'd posit a far more important question if you held those young women to the same standards as young men. That question is that how many young men could be compatible with them, share the same interest and would jell perfectly with them? The reason this question is a far better one to ask is because "good" is wholly unrealistic and mostly subjective, most people will show you common courtesy and most will treat you like shit if they can, to talk about good people is extremely naïve and stupid,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:33 PM
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What do you care? You're anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:12 PM
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That they're good people, are hard working, game or are overly masculine and secure in themselves. They have fragile egos, so much so that they'd rather believe their women actually care about these things than face the fact that they'd be in the exact same situation as the men they like to call losers if it wasn't for them being physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:07 PM
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Stay out of his business gosh lol, would you like it if he did the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:00 PM
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I've only heard of disgust from rude, pushy or inappropriate approaches. That literally means "ugly guys approaching is disgusting", it's called reading between the lines and... observation, when every rude, pushy approach comes from unsightly lads literally every time, it's not hard to conclude that is what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:58 PM
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You're not alone. All the girls approached me and looking at pics of myself from back then and knowing what I know now it made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:54 PM
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Trust me, no one except for the men here who think that they get laid cause of some special trait they have believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:51 PM
1

Well then I'd argue very few women are like that(if any) not the other way round, and I'm sure all(except for the special personality alpha men on here) would agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:42 PM
1

What's Demisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:34 PM
3

Who said you were lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:29 PM
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Apparently she always had a thing for him and something, IDK what happened between them. The advice wasn't even some kind of way of getting into her pants either, it's how I dealt with (try hard)bullies in HS, successfully I might add.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:29 PM
2

Lyric challenge, no Googling, guess the answer immediately: [Verse] So familiar and overwhelmingly warm This one, this form I hold now Embracing you, this reality here This one, this form I hold now, so Wide eyed and hopeful Wide eyed and hopefully wild We barely remember what came before this precious moment Choosing to be here right now Hold on, stay inside This body holding me Reminding me that I am not alone in This body makes me feel eternal All this pain is an illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:16 PM
1

Well it would be illogical for me not to consider that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:07 PM
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I would say "that's BS and you know it"(oops I said it anyway) but I'm really tired of that. Acknowledging that being handsome is the only solid requirement in dating isn't somehow delusional or "wallowing in self pity", you can believe it and still not be a complete sod. Also literally 90% of young women(who don't care about being virtuous) would disagree with you, scratch that, 98%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:47 PM
1

Anyone who needs reminding have they're heads in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:29 PM
1

Very interesting. I have three younger brothers, all three who are very handsome, one of them brought up a girl who was saying "men are trash" and singled him out and calling him really terrible names and how he felt bad about that, I told him not to give AF and even if it did, to not show it and act like she doesn't exist at all. Two weeks later when I was out of town he calls me to tell me about banging that same girl at a party. What people say and how they treat you are different things, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:25 PM
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Is this just a less shallow sounding way of saying where have all the High Value Men( I.E rich and good looking) gone? It's this, which is kinda funny cause there's no shortage of men who have both+ have the moral and personal qualities(they pretend to want) but the thing is, one these men have options and two they are just not good enough for these men in some way or form, mostly having to do with entitlement not lining up to where they are on the looks scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:10 PM
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The only salty response is yours, she asked what a HVM is and since that term doesn't exist outside the context of dating, we assume that it has to do primarily with immutable physical traits because that's what decides if a guy succeeds in dating or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:28 PM
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Lady that stuff is irrelevant unless a guy is good looking, so saying this is as pointless as me saying "you can do it, you just need to believe in yourself" to a retard, no it's not gonna help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:16 PM
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No they require a compatible personality, there's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:44 PM
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Here is one for men who have gfs and wives/get laid, you're not getting any cause you're somehow special or have a great personality, you're getting it cause you're good looking, for goodness sake get over yourselves. There's a line between bullying unsuccessful dudes calling them losers and being sympathetic or trying to help them some how and it's wide as fuck, I'm literally on it with zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:27 AM
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Nah, you don't say the sun is blue do you, that would be an idiotic statement? I don't question it because it is reality. I don't believe in that Matrix BS, yeah I don't deny there may be something that I am missing but I don't believe I'm delusional enough to believe that I'm living in some reality where I keep seeing something contrary to reality, that's stupid. Go call someone else crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:22 AM
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Here you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:49 AM
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Bonobos don't have an egalitarian mating strategy they just push the males out, they still only mate with the few dominant males lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:17 AM
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And this is where you miss the point. LME, good genes are subjective, good genes in one environment are useless in another. In Africa, even to this day, yes, those genes were valuable, why because the women who decided whose genes live and whose died were exposed to that reality day in day out, that if they did not have a strong successful male with them they would be killed by some wild animal or starve to death, back then in that environment the deciding factor was success and thus they subcon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:08 AM
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Again, you put way too much value on social skills and conditioning. In school almost no one acts the way they do around their parents and family, parents imparting their values or beliefs is most of the time futile. Culture only goes so far, otherwise Catholic girls wouldn't be getting pregnant at 16, no, people are led by instinct just as all other animal, no matter how smart we think we are we still make illogical nonsensical decisions that most of the time in retrospect we regret. In no way …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:53 AM
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Wtf are y'all talking about? I'm seriously asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:31 AM
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WTF is a healthy dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:28 AM
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Dude that has little to do with sex, it's logic otherwise I wouldn't be right 9/10 when asked to guess if a guy's a virgin just by looking at him lol. lol most women here would agree, if you go down the thread you'd see their comments saying they wouldn't date a guy if they didn't he's hot within ten seconds no matter how well they get to know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:27 AM
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I think it's more hyperbole, but the point kind of stands. Primal attraction is non negotiable and you won't fall for a guy you don't find physically attractive, hence why "friendzone" exists, the guy is not attractive or isn't as attractive as the guys she's been with before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:41 PM
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Dude wtf is "weird" about the 10 second rule? Women are shallow, people are shallow, who gives AF? You really don't need to say all this so you can protect your fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:36 PM
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People up to a point are very predictable, not ants sure but to say human beings are all unique and special and aren't all shallow is either really naïve or virtue signalling, either way you give us way too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:31 PM
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You do know women rate men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:20 PM
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Ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:05 PM
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I'm not into any pills or shit but you people put waaay to much stock into social skills. I remember when I was 15, I had bad social anxiety(really bad I'm not even joking) and I had to present a study for my class, speaking in front of a class was bad but having to prepare the presentation with a girl was way worse, even when I had zero idea what to say to her(I didn't have a phone nor computer so I was lucky not to Google "how to talk to a girl"), I still managed not to fuck up any interaction…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:06 AM
1

You may be right about the numbers but completely delusional as to why they are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:56 AM
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Social lives are overrated bro, believe me, you're not gonna get laid if you look like a goblin no matter how fun or funny you are, that's more of an ego thing with dudes as I've found, most men who have had some success with women would tell themselves it's cause of some unique trait they have rather than the obvious, their looks. Seriously, tell a group of people looks matter above all else, it's not the women who'll be more offended, it's gonna be their husbands/boyfriends, it's very rare for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:45 AM
1

No censorship because A: Most of these men don't use SM and B:Censorship for them means censorship for everyone, and you don't want the government that much power over you. There's no solution other than eugenics, meaning "unfit" women are sterilised and well if you sterilise unfit women you won't get "unfit" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:40 PM
2

Hi guys, I get this weird sensation in the middle part of my nose when I wear glasses or bring my finger close without touching, it also happens when someone comes close to the back of my neck, what is it called and is it a problem? There seems to be little known about this which is weird, I don't think it's paraesthesia as though sometimes it comes on it's own, it can be triggered and goes away immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:18 PM
9

So... you won't have a kid, just so you can appeal to men who want to objectify you? Jesus Christ I'm learning some shit today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:21 PM
1

That's hyperbole lol. The exact number matters as much as your opinion of me, guess how much?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:14 PM
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Of course women don't believe that BS, they just want to have an argument against incels, even when said argument isn't one at all lol. We're on Reddit, you can literally search "blackpill" and you'll get post after post of women claiming the reason these guys aren't getting anywhere is cause of their personality lmao. It's not just Reddit, YT, Quora you name it, the most popular comment is some unoriginal form of "It might be because you don't see women as humans".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:07 PM
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If "a" woman finds you unattractive, there's about a 90% chance the rest will as well, biology is a science, science as long as it's fairly well studies and tested is mostly predictable, I mean, that's kind of the point of Science innit? To understand so that you can predict a possible outcome and prepare for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:54 PM
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You missed the point completely. He is putting emphasis more on the "being able" part, rather than the doing part. Just as women today are so far removed from the realities of a world without 21st century tech and wealth, so as to value aesthetics of masculinity rather than the masculinity itself, men are also far removed so they place more value on the doing or getting, rather than being able. Sure there's little point in knowing how to change a tire, chop wood or hunting when you live in 21st …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:43 PM
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Haha, well you have the ladies to thank for that... and capitalism for removing the need for pure masculinity and competition amongst men over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:23 PM
2

No symptoms, but I heard that the vaccine takes two weeks to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:42 PM
2

Damn two weeks? Is it too late past that? Is your friend a Doctor? Can u ask him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:23 PM
2

I took the shot early morning today after hearing about the dog. I'm neurotic but I am not sure if that's what's going on(hopefully I'm just being weird, pls God let that be the case) because that was my Dog, I fed him everyday and he always licked me. We took him to get a shot a few weeks ago which is shocking cause from what I heard(I travelled away from home just two days ago) he exhibited every single symptom, even showed loss of appetite when I tried to feed him the morning I left, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:20 PM
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My dog died yesterday of rabies despite getting a rabies shot a few weeks ago, I was very close with him, I used to pet him a lot and he would lick me all the time plus he used to sneeze as well and I'm scared I might have gotten exposed to the virus. Is it possible to take a vaccine just to make sure or is it too late by now? Are there any doctors here, I'm in a rural area unfortunately and don't have any money to query any online practitioners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:02 PM
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I actually never believed it LOL, I just wanted to know cause there's a comment there that said he should've been exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:42 PM
1

Should they have shown his face to the world? Would he have gotten "punished" if they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:19 PM
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I could argue the only difference is that men are hornier and willing to ignore their standards for sex, not that they legitimately are attracted to these average women. No offense but this is a bad take. I won't watch cringe porn even if I haven't nutted in 12 months lol. We don't ignore our standards, they really are that low, how low they are depends on the guy tho but most do have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:47 AM
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Read u/zyramain69's response, he explains it brilliantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:34 AM
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Why does it matter to you if people get upset, I thought you were the "I give no shits" kinda gal? Shame...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:24 AM
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You're capable of courting ugly women you're just not capable of valuing or loving her the way you would a pretty one How do you know, you're not me? It's just human nature. Women also heavily weight attraction, we're just capable of being attracted by things other than looks I don't think anyone's arguing that, just that you say it's not a prerequisite, which isn't true, like the other lady said it's looks then presence then it's vibes/personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:59 PM
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You said elsewhere that you found ugly men attractive before(reasons not important rn), since physical attraction is a necessary prerequisite to relationships, why do you think us men aren't capable of courting a woman who doesn't fit the conventional standards for facial attractiveness? I wholly disagree with your view as I see way more women who fit this description with average or even above average looking men than vice versa IRL, something doesn't add up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:39 PM
1

Yeah but those are delusional red pillers who are average, they only struggle cause they're looking for chicks out of they're league, they're not the men being referred to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:09 PM
2

The level of irony in this comment lol. Be careful tho, trolling's against the rules here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:59 PM
2

Well it doesn't really make one a loser to have low self esteem if you're unattractive, it's not really your fault that you're unattractive. It's really unfair to call an unattractive person a loser, just cause they're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:41 PM
0

When has a guy who's never touched a woman ever said he's average? Literally every time a guy who says that said afterwards "it's cause I'm ugly". I don't get why people do this, but then again this is Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:01 PM
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Some women do appreciate intelligence and wit, it's just that that's not what turns them on and if you don't turn them on there's no relationship. You gotta have the looks and unfortunately that's objective, which sucks for many guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:37 PM
1

I highly doubt you want someone to change your view, as an attractive woman your "dating struggles" aren't that, what they really are is a person of sub par character who just wants to be right all the time, how do I know all of this? Well, what tf is a hot woman doing on Reddit trying to debate men she would never date irl? These people wouldn't be specs on your radar and you care enough about what they say so you can post a rebuttal to their narrative, even though said narrative holds up as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:25 PM
1

Single doesn't mean "has had no luck with women".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:00 AM
1

Well that rules out most RP/Black pill men lol. Thus explaining the existence of this internet realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:07 PM
2

Not to be crass but who tf would can they ask? Your post hinges upon the assumption that the intention was to not be single but that was never it, it's impossible to achieve that if you can't even pass the first step, and that's where these men fail, which is why advice from women/non single people is close to worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:53 PM
2

But there were a very many ladies in the comments with laughing emojis, didn't seem like she's unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:43 PM
4

Thank you to the random dude on PPD who linked a song by "Men I trust", dude that band is fucking awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:30 PM
2

Men are equally as guilty of doing this Sure, but at least merit plays a role in that, see only a certain type of man can afford to get a trophy wife, sure the "wife" may be a gold digger in most cases but we all know she's there just to show other men "hey, I'm better than you cause I can get all this money and power" and you see money and power are tangible, they make a difference in people's lives and in society. The funniest thing I've heard from a red piller is "imagine if most women were g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:20 PM
1

Your loss my dude, your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:08 PM
2

Why should I have empathy for them not being able to get laid? You don't have to, I'm just saying that you shouldn't give an opinion on something without understanding it. How that benefit them? There's always a benefit to not getting shat on, would you like it if I gave my two cents on you getting 30 cents for every dollar I make for the sole reason being you're female and I'm male? If you say it sucks ass, then would you like it if I said "well stop complaining and work twice as hard"? Sure yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:28 PM
1

Again, that's a lack of empathy, which is fine but you shouldn't comment on shit you don't understand, which is my point cause otherwise you're just an ass shitting on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:27 PM
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"Men are judged by their survival value" lol, that's rich coming from a Westerner. Men are also judged on their reproductive value, that's truer in the developed world than "Men are judged on their survival value", lol I can't with this, it's too funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:18 PM
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Yeah but many people who overuse it are either completely sexless or are sex addicts, which either way don't sound like they have healthy relationships in their life so... IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:16 PM
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Well you wouldn't bet on a losing team would you? Cause that's basically what you're saying he should do. Let the dude be miserable if that's what he wants. Why the need to invalidate people, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:54 AM
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Porn does change your brain that much is true but your level of self awareness and of intelligence(by that I mean EQ not IQ) determines how you react to it. Also I don't think you should dislike someone cause of their looks or not show them some level of courtesy, especially if you're attracted to them, cause then you're only letting yourself down, hence why I edited that part out lol, (that gripe was mainly towards the lady who couldn't see part the obvious retardation cause she was obviously a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:55 AM
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I think they mean it in the sense that as a guy if you're hot, the only thing you need is your genes, the rest doesn't matter. They say that women will sleep with guys like that for free and will try to lock them down using sex whilst the "husband material" guy is required to jump through multiple hurdles and he might not even get the privilege of raising his own offspring but another man's because he isn't as physically attractive. I don't know if all that's true(and I don't care) but I know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:46 AM
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That dude's retarded, like I mean seriously stupid. That ain't a "porn brain" that's a smooth brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:18 AM
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I are you a woman? If so, are you being serious? I'm asking cause trolling is against the rules here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:08 AM
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Oh I misspoke, I meant PSN account, I get those two confused a lot lol. You need a PSN account so you can sign in and play your downloaded games and also download their latest updates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:07 AM
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Go outside, see one you like and talk to him, try a cheesy pick up line to break the ice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:35 AM
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An EA account is free and you can buy a game in it's store that's yours, even if you do delete an account the game will still be there but you can't download updates for it. If you create an account though make one in his name so he can download or buy games or you can buy games for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:34 AM
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I don't know why it should be promoted, assuming you are American, you live in a country of 330 million, that's a lot of people and people usually have different ideas of what's good and bad and because of that, free speech and freedom of choice is what should be promoted and protected instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:24 AM
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Well it's not his face thats the issue. How do you know? Have you seen what he looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:07 AM
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I don't agree with all he says but this is stupid how you conveniently leave out how confidence is a result of positive feedback and vice versa, how you leave out social hierarchies, how at younger ages those social hierarchies are based on shallow traits like looks. If you hadn't left those out you wouldn't make it sound like a stupid character judgement on people who have zero control over these things, you can't become confident just like that and you can't make people be attracted to you, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:06 AM
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If a guy is truly average and I mean if you look at him and you don't get a bad visceral reaction, then yes chances are it's his behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:47 AM
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You left out the most important distinction, femboys are physically attractive, which is if we're being honest the only reason you find them appealing cause no one and I mean no one likes a feminine male, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:37 AM
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Would you approach a guy if you knew you were ugly? Remember, sexual harassment=unwanted attention. This response shows a lack of empathy and a lack of willingness to read before you respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:34 AM
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Define standards? If you mean standards by looks then no, I've never seen an unattractive woman on Tinder, so there's no need. If you mean everything else like qualifications, job, does she have an income etc? Of course not, who tf am I "Chad" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:49 PM
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You're overthinking this my dude, nobody gives a shit but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:45 PM
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No but I don't think that affects the point, it still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:28 PM
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Who cares? We're in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:07 PM
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If that's a genuine struggle for you might I suggest acting like an actual human being and try dating people based on who they are and how they treat you, rather than just their looks. Btw I'm being completely serious, I'm not joking, even as a person with as many flaws I have, I have never struggled with being seen as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:04 PM
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I doubt that would make a difference lol, why do you ladies think morality affects a person's dating life? It doesn't, guys don't laid cause their good people, they get laid cause they attract women. Telling an unattractive guy to not dehumanize women is pointless because women still won't find him attractive. Being a shit human being might be bad for him socially or it may not, but regardless, he is well within his free speech rights to say "females".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:47 PM
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What are you guys on about? The main problem with your post is the ifs and the woulds, basically judging entire an group's character based on a hypothetical. I don't think I'm being mean when I say, that's stupid, really stupid. Like Nessea blue said, just say "it sucks to be ugly", all this ain't necessary lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:41 PM
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You mean Swiss? Anyway, I'm fine with it, If I get to a place mentally where life is genuinely unbearable, it would be a good way out, though I think you'll need to take a test for the doctors to see if you're actually ready to go and not just suffering from extremely severe depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:07 PM
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I got banned cause I said something bad about three months ago and I only came back like ten days ago, it works wonders. TBH I'm only here cause I have nothing else to do, this is not something one would call a hobby, more like a vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:03 PM
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Oh there is an explanation lol, thing is you'll get flagged for "incel content" if you try haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:49 PM
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If you say so lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:22 PM
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I wouldn't mind, but I've yet to see a woman with worse looks than me. The girls I've been with didn't seem to mind though. I still don't know how to explain that tbh, seeing as to how shallow women are(according to this sub... 's women).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:16 PM
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I'm not sure if you're being serious or sarcastic but honestly I feel like this is the truth. The number of times I've seen men underestimate themselves just so they can virtue signal is horrendously high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:12 PM
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Occam's razor, the simplest explanation is usually the correct one.... he's underestimating himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:08 PM
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Oh sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:08 PM
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I never said that, stop straw manning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:34 AM
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All's fair in... whatever this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:21 AM
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I don't think there are any studies with focus specifically on this subject but there are a few that indicate consequences to social ostracization. https://docs.lib.purdue.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1204&context=open_access_theses But c'mon it's only logical to conclude that being physically unattractive can lead to a person having unattractive personal traits, especially if that individual doesn't have the intelligence or cognitive ability to offset it, if we say handsome people are more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:50 AM
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I don't agree with him, but that's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:28 AM
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He said "in their formative years", which is actually true, it's also the reason uglier men lack the social skills and confidence that women find so sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:17 AM
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I get downvoted for not liking BS, thanks Reddit. Anyways to your point, it could easily have been conveyed in a more adult way and less childish than how you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:51 PM
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It may a be a revenge fantasy but you guys also seem too eager to make it seem like it's the opposite way. It's like you people somehow just magically forget that the Halo effect is a thing, https://www.ratemds.com/blog/good-looking-people-nicer-study-says/. If someone is wrong you correct them, you don't make up BS just to put them down smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:22 PM
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Jesus Christ I didn't Samuel Jackson was that old, I thought he was closer to mid-late 50s, but 72 is scary, now I believe in lizard people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:07 PM
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Tats=Money in the lower classes, if you can afford that many quality tats it means you have a lot of money, it's a form of peacocking and girls love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:05 PM
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IDK if you count daily push ups and squats as working out but that's all you need to maintain that physique, they're closer to me but I'm not as "peak" as they are as I don't eat as much as I need to maintain the "meat" on my bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:03 PM
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I don't like them nor take them seriously, but I also think you'll find it hard to find more dudes with a healthy physique like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:34 PM
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I absolutely would love kids one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:05 PM
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These guys are what you call fit. Not too big nor too skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:41 PM
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At least you took advantage and had a social life, I got invited to countless parties, people literally came to me with "hey, I liked what you said in class today, would you like to come with my friends and I for a drink this weekend" and I would just blow them off so I could spend time on my stupid Ideas and theories lol. I can literally count on one hand the number of times I took up those offers and they were easily the best time of my life, that regret makes my depression even worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:22 PM
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Women here lie? Are you one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:03 PM
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I will repeat the so very valid question asked by someone else here, do you actually believe the premise of those videos are real?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:01 PM
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I've been frequenting for like 6 months and I find that there's a group of regulars that contributed to like half of the posts here, if you go search for posts that are a few years old you'll see some of the regulars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:53 PM
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PPD is kind of different from most other places on the net in the sense that it's more of a real close-knit community than an actual internet community, IDK why but yeah I kinda feel like I shouldn't LARP but I don't want to behave in a way I wouldn't behave IRL, like I don't say things I wouldn't say IRL, it's weird to explain. IMO the people who do that are usually new and haven't gotten used to this place yet, cause if you start with being dishonest you'll find it hard to interact with people…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:52 AM
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Haha, I left out the "didn't", I didn't sleep with girls I wasn't interested in. Also I didn't get on dating apps until this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:09 AM
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*Didn't, sorry I left that out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:02 AM
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"Just be a woman" is dumb, obviously to get a relationship with that specific type of man(the man with options) you have to stand out. As I said those guys behave just like women, I behaved that way when I was in the dating game, only difference is I sleep with the girls who I didn't want a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:53 AM
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I'm not hating but I find it amusing how you ladies go on and on about how men aren't all that different, so you "might as well go for the hot guy", but at the same time forget that you need to stand out yourself if you want more than just casual sex, you clearly don't know how men with options act, exactly like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:37 AM
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No they pay for the doctors and the services they give, not the donors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:18 PM
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I meant people who can't have kids and single people, not poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:04 PM
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How would the price be defined? The point is for individuals without means to become parents to be able to build their own families, whether it's infertile parents or single people who want to be parents without a partner, what ur suggesting kinda takes away from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:45 PM
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I thought it was illegal to be paid for surrogacy? I thought it was more like something you volunteer for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:16 PM
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Get off Reddit dude, this place will drain you of all this kindness and you'll become just as bitter and cynical as the folks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:20 AM
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That’s true, dating is hard and you can’t make somebody magically happen in your life but you can take positive steps to work towards it. You never know what can happen… gotta keep the hopes up. That's all true, but I despise hope. It's good for you and I hope you don't lose that attitude. Do you think it’s okay for a child to grow without a mother? Of course not but I have lots of female relatives, they take care of each other's kids and that's how we all grew up. It's not ideal but I will make…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:46 AM
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I don't resent anyone, try not to make conclusions about the people who disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:36 AM
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It sucks yes, which is why my plan A is to work like a motherf#*cker so I can be able to afford surrogacy by my early 30s, that way I won't be lonely and I'd be a father. I hate fussing over shit I can't control(if you've ever been depressed you'll get it), I can't make a person be attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:30 AM
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If there's one thing you shouldn't be fussing over at 27, it's dating. Best to cut that part out tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:01 AM
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This post is garbage, I've read incel posts less tryhard-y and cringe than this. Nothing even remotely logical IMO that I could argue against.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:35 PM
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Spill,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:05 PM
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Ok then try to change my mind, I swear I'll keep an open mind, where am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:40 PM
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I didn't, I simply stated that there is a primary requirement to all women that a man needs in order for him to be able to court a woman, that is looks and you explaining that anything other than that is "what you want", when asked a generalised question about what "attracts women", then you are indeed lying. Your answer would be correct if the question was, "why do you date a particular man" or "Why do you like Chris, instead of John, he's better looking than Chris", I hope you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:24 PM
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I don't visit those forums so I wouldn't know. My point stands though, if you don't like physically unattractive men, you shouldn't be dating them, you're using the fact that they were "terrible people" to justify not being attracted to them and you're using that to make a point here, that's childish. Being honest to yourself and to others around you is one of the things that come with being an adult(I dunno why I'm explaining this to a woman who's most likely to be ten years older than me lol),…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:16 PM
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Hey I wasn't trying to offend you, I just stated a fact. If I told you that I as a below average looking, nihilistic man had two chances to seriously date a beautiful girl who really wanted him and he spoiled it because he was insecure, would you believe me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:04 PM
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LOL this is why I said "childish". Since "ugly" is unattractive you shouldn't have dated them in the first place. Those guys weren't delusional about their smv, you were, simply for the fact that I don't believe, you'd ever date a man who's physically unattractive. What you did is take their worst feature and defined them by it to make a point, that's childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah but the people who you're arguing with don't believe it's Chad or bust, they believe it's good looking or bust, your husband may not be Chad but he's not ugly either. That's why you're being called a liar, the fact you wouldn't be with your husband if he was ugly, regardless of who he is as a person, that's the point. LOL how are y'all not getting it, I get it even though I can't relate to any dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:52 PM
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There's literally two comments of women confirming it. You should take this up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:44 PM
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I've been in this sphere long enough to understand that if someone asks "what do you find attractive in men" that's exactly what they're asking, "in men", i.e. not in a specific man, that's where the disconnect lies and yes if you answer anything other than looks when asked that question, you are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:36 PM
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You people are childish as fuck, if you were dudes you'd just be as miserable as the men you're arguing with. Take this moment to thank God for giving you a pussy, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:24 PM
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Has it ever occurred to you that those women's view of those hot guys isn't just Halo effect at work? I mean, you guys never fail to accuse us of treating hot girls better for no reason other than they're hot(even though I personally have never done that before).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:22 PM
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The problem with using the word "average" is the fact that what's average varies a lot. I think people use it to mean "normal" everyday person, "not rich but not poor either", the common man. Though the problem with that is that those people aren't struggling as much in the real world, average guys do get laid, but the thing is they don't excel either, if I tried hard enough I could pull an above average looking girl simply because of the fact that most of the guys she's been with didn't give he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:55 PM
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That's something you can change. True, but it's not something that'll change your life, especially in they ways you'd want it to. It's too overly optimistic IMO, your attitude, your worldview and how you treat people doesn't matter as much as you make it out to be, of course some courtesy and common decency(I don't know why you "advice givers" always make hygiene out to be a choice, it's not) is always a must if you want to make a living, go to open a bank account or when you go buy groceries bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:44 AM
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Poor idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:55 PM
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I can't argue with someone who has their head up their ass. I can answer all your questions but you don't care for that, you care about having the last word and I'll give you that, despite your insults and provocations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:21 PM
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A man who's unattractive in his 20's is going to be unattractive in his 30s and his 40s and his 50s. They are well within their right to complain, everybody complains about shit, at least these guys complain over something they can't change, other people complain about stuff that's way more pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:14 PM
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There is something in your comment, Just world fallacy, you attributed something to something that it shouldn't be attributed to, I take issue to that. You needn't mention misogyny, but you did. If you were in the right you wouldn't need to stoop to braindead insults. You don't have an argument, yet somehow I have a feeling you're gonna reply lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:04 PM
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Haha there it is. Fuck me for expecting any better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:48 PM
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You used them in a way that it seems that you think they are mutually exclusive, I wouldn't have replied to your comment if I didn't notice this trend among the Just worlders here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:32 PM
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How does a guy who's not assertive get a wife in the first place? I don't know any guy who gets girls who isn't a massive(likeable yes, but still a massive) douchebag, who does whatever he wants and always gets his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:27 PM
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Interesting, what do you believe in cause what you've said(the historical revisionism) is precisely what a Feminist would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:23 PM
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Since when is the definition of Misogyny "Being sexually unsuccessful"? I thought it meant hatred of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:16 PM
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Yeah but that's him, he's an actual child and needs to be reminded to do his chores, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:51 PM
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Firstly men are more visual doesn't mean they care a lot about looks, it means looks and maybe hygiene is one of the first things that determine whether or not a woman is attractive and by attractive I mean attractive not hot, which is not true with women, sure there's more stuff than just looks but a man still has to be physically attractive to a woman for all the other stuff to matter, simply put, for men the threshold is low and even then women who don't pass it can win the man over with othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:46 PM
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I agree but I don't think it has to do with inadequacy, it's just that men care less about looks than women do, not your Just world viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:19 PM
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Every single guy I know who can get a ONS consistently looks very much like a stereotypical "Chad". I'm not with the "Blackpill" stuff but even I think you're giving women way too much credit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:16 PM
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I love how you make people dating someone out of their leagues all about sex lol. If your stereotypical "Chad" dates a girl way below what he can get, it's almost always going to be about who she is as a person rather than her tits or pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:51 PM
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You know the most annoying type of person you can live with? Someone who treats you like a child, if I have chores, I do them every single fucking day on time, it's almost never necessary to fucking ask "did you feed the dog?", "you should sweep the floor?" OMFG I can't wait to get my own place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:59 AM
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Dude I got asked this same question by another dude here, don't you guys get routine check ups done by nurses before you go see a doctor or do a test( which is in another section of the hospital)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:07 AM
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Everyone except me is vapid and dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:17 PM
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Checking me out, one I caught staring, IDK maybe they were all just horny that day and I was the only male in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:15 PM
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Well I it's more a combination of Grudger and copy kitten, once you cheat, I won't cooperate, but if I see you're trying to game me, I'll give off the impression that I'm going to cooperate and game you instead. The one criticism I have of the simulation however is the fact that he thinks there's only one winning strategy, that's not true, mathematically sure the copykitten could on paper be the best but in reality you're not always going to win, which is why courtesy and cooperation is importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:13 PM
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The simulator is pretty cool and it also confirms my principles, basically those who prove themselves can be trusted and those who don't shouldn't. As I played it pretty much went as I expected, I always cooperate in the first attempt, if the player cooperates, then I'll keep cooperating and vice versa. Always cooperate in the first attempt but stop doing so if the player cheats, with this strategy I've won all but one game and even that game was close as the opponent cheated first gaining more …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:38 PM
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He's got an agenda, I don't trust a man who's built his entire career on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:18 PM
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Better treatment=getting puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:05 PM
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He meant unsuccessful as in sexually unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:02 PM
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Man from a third world country here, uhm, no the only "deluded dumbass" here seems to be you miss. Women have the same rights as men here. I think you're confusing the easy privileged lives western women lead with "rights", excessive YT and SM can do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:01 PM
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You don't have to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:48 PM
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Equal on the grounds that women are now starting to hold the majority of the wealth in developed countries. I'm sorry but isn't the group that's dominant supposed to be I don't know, dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:44 PM
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No, I think there are blatantly obvious clues you can pick up on about who someone is, if you don't see those, you ain't paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:41 PM
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Ok I'm gonna say it, this argument, Abusers rarely show any sings of it, it’s actually quite the contrary, they tend to be very charming. Is retarded. The only reason you wouldn't be able to vet out abusive men would be cause you don't treat all men the same. The only way I find out who to trust and who not to trust is by giving common courtesy, sure I lose a few 100 bucks here and there but I know who I can trust and who not to because of it, I'm not going to treat a hot girl any differently th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:31 PM
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Oh Jesus will you people cut it out with your just world fallacy BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:23 PM
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Miss, you don't like people treating all women as a collective yet by your comment you do the same with men, do you not realize how hypocritical that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah cause the chronic complainers on Reddit are all men. Would you be happy if I said all women are as retarded as the ones I see on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:14 PM
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I didn't know women had such shitty lives that some weirdo talking shit about them is punching down, but then there's tons of comments on here about how women couldn't care less what those weirdos do, which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:06 PM
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Yeah but in democratic countries, we have been equal for almost an entire century by now, there's no justification anymore, unless the point is furthering inequality between the sexes with women being the dominant group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:13 AM
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I think ur mistaking me for someone else. I couldn't give a rats ass about who women fuck, I meant irresponsible as in std's, pregnancies, fucking criminals, general trashy behaviour. Which is why I asked seriously, how do you define it? Because your entire premise of why women should be in power hinges on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:28 PM
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I asked seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:21 PM
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How do you define "slut" then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:18 PM
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Check my edit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:17 PM
1

I'm not gay but you're more than welcome to do that yourself though, I hear he's looking for a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:14 PM
1

Whatever floats your boat my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:13 PM
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Id being undesirable was a choice then there wouldn't be undesirable men. This is PPD my man everyone here can see this is Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:10 PM
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That would bring in the actual 80/20 lol. Sluts aren't sluts cause they fuck everyone, they're sluts cause they fuck irresponsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:07 PM
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"Toxic" is a placeholder here, like "my gf is nice(hot) and that's why I love her".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:02 PM
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Then there's affirmative action and test scores that heavily favour girls even though it was proven that boys perform similar or even better on average in some subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:51 PM
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Women have been doing whatever they want sexually for decades now, no one outside of Reddit cares about any of the stuff you're talking about. No one cares about birth rates, male sexlessness or lonely men, in a society as selfish and as superficial as ours, I'd have a lot of mistrust right out of the gate toward anyone who mentions these as societal issues, means they have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:45 PM
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My gay cousin brought his girlfriends over while I was chilling saying "I brought some girls over for you, so you can get out of the house for once", he's a great wingman... wingwoman?! and It was fun conversations and joking around but I wouldn't touch any of those girls with a 5 foot pole. I admit I have to get out more but I ain't sleeping with insert derogatory term for promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:30 PM
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No, lol why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:16 PM
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Apparently y'all get to have your cake and eat it too, whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:15 PM
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Most women do have inherent value that most men don't have. Sure, that value is not always to the best interest of the individual but if there's an invasion or war, it's most women who are going to survive and to a living organism that's literally the most important thing, survival. It's not "loser mentality" to say that women have value, it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:22 PM
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She's a Youtuber not an Insta model. She's with the Daily dropout, ironically with more "Chad" type guys than her BF lol, you'd think Steven Shapiro was the one "tappin that" lol. Her BF isn't that bad tbh, slightly above average IMO, but nowhere near the dudes she works with, which if that was your point, that women don't date the same men, you proved. Also to add I'm a big fan of her(cause she's funny as hell) and she's not the type of person you'd think would date just for looks, she has more…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:37 AM
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One, I'm not red pill, two, this OP is targeting men for being guilty of skewing their wants as something that's "good for society". I'm just trying to do the same with women to show that it's not a gendered issue, I don't know how you did not see that when it's so glaringly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:19 AM
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Why would they know what you were in for? They didn't, I said initial check ups, BP, weight, standard procedure before you go to the specialists. That's how it's done in my country. They were checking me out, not judging me for getting tested. Plus no offense but that's a bit neurotic to go get HIV tested like that. Three aunts of mine died because of cancer or severe organ damage. It was sad losing them like that and it was a hard lesson on why one shouldn't be reactive to health issues but be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:17 AM
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Non, either they're bachelors going from one desperate single mother to the next, or they're fucking their subordinates or their married, but it's rare to find a sicko who'd fuck a girl who's the same age as his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:02 AM
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Cause you don't fear social repercussions, even non existent ones online, which most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:46 PM
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Like two of them, not all cause I know when I'm getting out of my depth lol. Edit: tbh there were more than just two, but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:43 PM
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This is the point where you realize that like the men here you too are a statistical outlier, or in Lehman's terms, a weirdo. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:35 PM
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I was lazy and unkempt throughout HS and first year in college but I had hot girls trying to get my attention, cause "they love smart guys" lol. I'm average to slightly below average looking IMO so if I got girls that easily then... you're not going to convince me that "trying" is what gets girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:31 PM
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Oh my mistake I misread. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:17 PM
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Nah, it's probably the only reason most guys are gonna get laid going forward. I can't find the link but you wouldn't believe the before and after pics of a makeup artists work on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:16 PM
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People obsess over things they can't change the most, it's pretty narcissistic to just say "get over it".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:12 PM
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You'll be amazed at how many times I have to argue against the premise, "getting sex is a skill".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:09 PM
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Its not “just world fallacy” if you don't believe in sexual communism Of course not, but this is: who want everything handed to them for free without trying Also how the F would sexual communism work exactly? Do the idiots who mention it ever see the giant flaw with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:05 PM
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I'm weirded out by the fact that you're targeting the hypocrisy of one gender but not the other. Do you know why the RP got so popular in the first place? It's because people were tired of hearing "men this men that" and never hearing women get criticised in MSM. There's entire movements that guilt taxpayers out of their money "for the good of society" when that money will only go to welfare and affirmative action. Last time I checked a man generally does better in technical and blue collar fiel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:59 PM
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That would make sense if almost every one of the most influential people in history didn't have terrible childhoods. I'm not gonna take credit for anything our ancestors did(tbh I really don't care about that) but you shouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:48 PM
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Wasn't there like a movement by housewives against women's suffrage?https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/14/us/anti-suffrage-movement-vote.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:43 PM
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That's Just world fallacy Kiki, people don't get shit cause they try, they get shit cause they have something to give and in sexual relationships it's looks, c'mon you said this like a month ago or am I confusing you for someone else?lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:41 PM
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Not a woman but I think as a man who could even get a below average looking woman in her prime at 40 years old, I'd be better off not trying to date, period. There are many desperate and horny women at that age and shallow women who'd do anything for a Gucci bag, dating is just something really unnecessary and tedious for a person in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:32 PM
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Well It's quite sad and funny at the same time because the places with the men who have enough testosterone to rebel and do rebel are also the places where the amount of nutrition needed to rebel is too low. They're underweight and weak and usually can't match the military but even then some of them can cause some damage, like in Mozambique and central Africa. Thank god these dudes don't have good leadership and resources, otherwise we'd all be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:44 PM
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He never said that as a justification for why women should fuck men, he only said it cause the OP asked the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:50 PM
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Man this is very well put, should be the top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:47 PM
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I'm not near any specialists rn, but I do intend to see one as early as January. I've seen one last year but since I was in very deep I didn't really try to work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:32 PM
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I don't think sex is a need for me. If I'm being honest feeling bad about not getting laid is more a combination of depression and dreams of becoming a father one day, in the case of depression it's more just a misplaced feeling of inadequacy. I went to the hospital the other day on my visit to grandma out of town for an HIV test cause coincidentally I didn't use protection in a ONS I had last year and in the waiting room for initial check-ups literally every young woman gave me looks, which sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:21 PM
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No one haha, that wasn't my intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:49 PM
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But to certain countries the Olympics or World cup can do a lot of good, imagine what it could do for the people of Kenya for example, imagine what it could do for it's tourism industry. If the selection criteria were actually fair which they are not the Olympics nor the WC would have reputations they have. I think the IOC and Fifa should lose their right to these events or there should be a genuine shake up and everyone in every democratic country should support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:38 PM
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I'm from Southern Africa not the US haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:34 PM
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Thing is we can criticise them on most thing, except for when it comes to oil and China. My mistake in the first post was putting the blame only on government and not the people, people are also choosing economic growth and stability over democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:25 PM
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Dude most women put zero to little effort in their profiles, yeah you could argue they're the ones in demand but so am I lol. I'm using a free account, no boosts or whatever yet I pull multiple matches so if you like me you should also put in some effort as well. I'm not on dating apps for casual sex, so I am not going to do a dumbass pick up line or cheesy joke to entertain you. The least someone could do is say something in their bio I can use but it's either nothing at all or it's the same ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:18 PM
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The Genocide... I mean Beijing games and Qatar WC happening should be the proof for everyone in the "free world" that we don't actually live in the free world. I mean how do our governments justify any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:10 PM
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Unfortunately the solution to that was school, but since schools are how they are nowadays not even mentioning the extremely superficial culture it's near impossible to learn naturally. Unfortunately for below average(in some cases even average) individuals it's a problem that can only be solved by money, i.e. therapists and psychologists. I am very introverted but If it wasn't for school I would be socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:07 PM
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Also “hey” is not a winning conversation starter It is for people without overly inflated egos. If there's nothing interesting for me to see in your profile, I'll say hi, but that's only if I find you attractive enough not to unmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:24 AM
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I have no idea how they live. Haha, they must talk to themselves cause I can't even comprehend how they do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:38 AM
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I thought so, maybe it's just more common among men cause when I said this all of my female relatives said they don't hear their voices lol. Also what on Earth is thinking visually?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:37 AM
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Do women seriously not hear your voice in your head while you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:55 AM
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Nah it's just a weird slapback to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:44 AM
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No, but it is the same as "the wall" in the sense that it is a weird revenge fantasy against below average men. The men in question in your study are statistical outliers, by their late 40s, 99% of men have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:41 AM
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I disagree, physical decline(unless you live in the west and live an extremely unhealthy lifestyle) doesn't begin with most men until the early to mid 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:38 AM
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Uhm this is r/PurplepillDebate, not r/inceltears my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:35 AM
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Weird, non of my friends ever bragged about the chicks they were "slaying", we all knew I was fucking one of our classmates and we knew one of them had a ONS every Friday while the other one mostly just banged groupies after full time of his football games, we all knew that's why we never spoke about it, most of our conversations were about how I was gonna help them cheat in tests, about assignments and oral presentations, the Premier league and the Champions league, it was almost never about gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:07 PM
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Nope. My first response to seeing and hearing her wasn't "oh I might date her", it was unrestrainable laughter(as fucked up as that is).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:50 PM
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Uhm... that was sarcasm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:42 PM
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I'm not struggling when it comes to dating, just so you know lol. I know I can attract women, the only reason I'm still single is cause I don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:03 PM
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Well, it's not that bad since sexual selection is a meritocracy and you'll find a gf granted "you take care of yourself" and are a "good person who cares for others and not a misogynist", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:39 PM
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No that wasn't the point of the race scenario, there'll always be a select group of people which is the point I'm trying to make, as I'll repeat(again) we are talking about what gets you into the race, not about what you'll do once you're in it and what gets you in has nothing to do with meritocracy, that's my point. Getting into the door is the main problem for the men who need(not need in the literal sense, obvs) prostitution which is what began our argument, I'll say it again, it's about gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:28 PM
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Do you mean good looking? Attractive to women? Looks alone will only get you so far. Yes, through the door, which only a man with a certain set of immutable traits gets, regardless of effort, which means there's no meritocracy there. Once you get through the door yes, some effort is needed but we aren't talking about after getting your foot through the door, we are talking about what gets you there in the first place. Let me ask you, there's 20 runners, all pretty hard working athletes who are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:51 PM
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My experiences made me who I am, even in my worst depressed lonely moments I wouldn't bend over backwards for anyone, being indifferent and not caring if you're going to be alone forever or whatever comes only from knowing and truly understanding(subconsciously) you don't need anyone. If my son is good looking he's not going struggle getting laid and if he understands how to take care of himself he won't struggle with anything else, that's logic not "toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:21 PM
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Please quote what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:04 PM
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What u/wtknight said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:02 PM
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U got something original there sweetheart? Cause that line is old AF by now, you're not going to trigger anyone with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:00 PM
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I don't think we're using the same definition of "physically attractive", but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:48 PM
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How so? Don't your studies conclude that when men are lower in number than women, it tends to become polygynous? That's what the writer I was quoting basically said. But my original claim(that sex ratio has little to do with an individuals smv) still remains, a "Chad" guy will have the same number of options in a situation with more women than men as he will in one with more men, the only difference is that he'll only settle earlier in the latter, same goes for the average and below average look…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:46 PM
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I met her through my gay cousin and I kinda figured that has something to do with it(because of how he is) lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:55 PM
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I agree with that and to be fair my sister did say that I have a tendency of attracting women like her. I honestly don't know what it is, maybe it's the fact that I don't like approaching women and these are the only type of women that approach me, it doesn't help that they're all above average when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:48 PM
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Nah, I'm single and the last time I fucked was a year ago(which was only a ONS) and she was fucking the guy when I texted and replied like a day later and explained that was her reason for not replying to my text, I literally wouldn't have known if she didn't tell me. I politely tried to get out of it by saying "Oh I'm sorry, I won't bother you again" and promptly deleted her number, to which she replied "I never said you bothered me" and "Oh you're so insecure, Ok then", to which I didn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:42 PM
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Like I said to another poster, guy is physically attractive, woman sees him and decides to sleep with him, that's not meritocracy, sexual selection isn't meritocratic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:28 PM
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Actually your two articles support my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:22 PM
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Explain me this ladies, what part of not wanting to court someone who's already getting fucked by another dude is "insecure"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:10 PM
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Fuck yes Oakman, fuck yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:08 PM
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Is this the dude who said even his "ugly" female friends have above ten bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:07 AM
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Funny you say invest because by logic you only invest in something if you know you're going to get a return on your investment. There's a continent rich in raw materials but it doesn't receive anywhere near the amount of investment other less resource rich continents and countries receive, same applies with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:51 AM
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Uhm... OP's a chick. Also a pig in a Gucci blanket is still a pig, OP may be wrong about the 80/20 rule(in that only 20% of men are getting laid) but she's not wrong in saying only few men are sexually attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:44 AM
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Irrelevant. Sex ratios have nothing to do with it, there was an article here somewhere that I can't find to save my life about college dating but I'll quote the most important part of it: "Women outnumber men almost 2 to one at my college and all the girls are chasing the 20% of the guys, and out of those 20% ten have gfs which means we are all competing for those guys, and the guys know this and try to sleep with as many girls as possible" , she's right too, having ten women for every 5 guys is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:38 AM
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This is retarded, I'm all for legalization but it should be on your dime bro, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:20 AM
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Literally the most grown up and respectable reply here. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:07 AM
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You don't belong here miss, 90% of the women here don't think sex is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:06 AM
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It's not about changing the dating scene, that's a strawman I keep seeing women bring up, c'mon now we all know physically unattractive men aren't going to get sex for free, it's obvious we aren't talking about changing the dating scene on the way you think we are, we are talking about changing it in the sense that being ugly isn't going to stop you from getting laid. And OP is wrong by bringing cheating into the equation but doesn't change the fact that y'all aren't against legalization for mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:54 AM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:44 AM
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Men aren't going to vote against prostitution when it comes to a vote regardless of what you think most men are like, that's not going to happen unless you live in a conservative country, heck it's actually just a few years away from getting passed in my relatively conservative country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:43 AM
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No they don't and this isn't a "red pill" statement, it's a "I live in reality" statement. With something like morality it has to go to extremes, this is the reason morally sound countries don't have the death penalty regardless of the crime. Had morality have anything to do with sexual relationships looks wouldn't matter to the extent that they do and we wouldn't be talking about the legalization of prostitution in the context of men getting access to sex, not just free and easy access but acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:40 AM
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Hey I never said anything about validation ,you're not going to get validation if you're physically unattractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:31 AM
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That's not what I was getting at, I meant that social clout shouldn't be involved because getting sex isn't a skill, you're either physically attractive or you're not and clout shouldn't be given away for free(otherwise clout would be worthless) and that's essentially what it is when it's given to people just cause their sexually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:25 AM
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I was going to say that you're insinuating that meritocracy(as in what he does and who he is) has anything to do with it, until I read that second to last line, and everyone was wrong, it has nothing to do with it, you don't earn sex, a woman sees you and if you're good looking enough, she decides to have sex with you. Might as well pay and get it over with, I mean unless his only problem is being anxious and socially inept(and not being physically unattractive) he's not going to get laid and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:18 AM
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Morality has zero to do with human relationships otherwise being physically unattractive wouldn't be a deciding factor towards virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:09 AM
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I don't think you understand what stigma towards men is like, it's true you're not going to get called names but you'll never be respected as a person regardless of what you do, and men hold respect very highly, no respect is like a social death sentence to a man, and being stigmatized is just as good as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:02 AM
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But if you're a man who loses her virginity to a prostitute, I'm going to still consider you to be a virgin. That's basically judging a man based on sexual prowess (which we know is only influenced by immutable traits) i.e. toxic masculinity, i.e. the very reason inc3ls exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:54 AM
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There is no meritocracy when it comes to attracting women(it's literally right there, "attracting").
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:50 AM
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I feel like rules 4 and 11 are as much "rules" as Fred is in that Man utd line up, they look ok on paper but they are useless in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:11 AM
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The guys are talking about sex work, not being a prison bitch outside of the prison lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:07 AM
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Well, there's a lot of space in the world, if you got some balls you can make a life for yourself outside of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:04 AM
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Nah, robots are expensive as hell, an oligarchy will only survive for a short while at best, the actual future is warfare and instability, lots and lots of warfare and instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:00 AM
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Well the reason is quite simple, we as men don't understand looks, especially when we're young and because of that it's pretty easy to misidentify the point. In a Disney movie the lead male is always a good masculine guy, he doesn't do bad and if he does he learns from it and becomes a better person but as we now know that's not why he gets the girl, he gets the girl because he's good looking but because we as men are focused on the "how to" we associate the success to the behaviour and not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:50 AM
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Reddit old would say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:27 PM
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No, what he means is that for a man to be attractive he has to be naturally attractive, meaning decoration by way of grooming is unnecessary not a necessity. Grooming ca only make you look presentable, not fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:32 PM
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It's not, if not then you wouldn't have agreed when I said "you wouldn't get into a relationship with a sexually unattractive man", that's a very objective statement which you agreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:27 AM
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No that's just how men are lol, women don't settle for less than good looking even when they outnumber men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:25 AM
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No, I think it is indeed projection because that's simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:12 AM
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No they wouldn't be because "other things" are always subjective, a fuckboi wouldn't be a candidate for a relationship for you personally but definitely is to many other women. We're speaking in general not personally lady, and in general my previous statement holds true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:09 AM
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Relatively doesn't make something that as a fact, it's only relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:03 AM
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It's not "societal conditioning" it's societal phenomena, as in science. There have been studies that show people project positive traits onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:58 AM
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Disagree. Wanting someone's approval has nothing to do with what you think of that person, that claim is ludicrous lol. I've never thought women were wonderful, I thought my mom and aunts were, why because those are the people who never did me wrong and always were on my side. It's experiences with people that shape someone's view of others, not society. The WAW is a thing only to a collective of men, not individual men and so when men think "wonderful woman" they think of the women they most li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:53 AM
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True but again, those "myriad of things" would be irrelevant without the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:36 AM
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It's weird how the worst day can turn into such a great day, started off with my depression on high getting carried over to morning, got to class early for mocks, did brilliantly. I counted at least 89% of the answers that I got correctly and thought, "well that wasn't bad" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:45 PM
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Then of course the standard is still the same for hook ups and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:04 PM
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You didn't answer the question, I'll ask it again, Would you get into a relationship with a sexually unattractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:23 PM
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Would you get into a relationship with a sexually unattractive man? No? There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:16 AM
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She's basically saying that the requirements for hook-ups and relationships are different for women, which isn't true. It might be for a tiny percentage of women but since she's the one who uses the "ugly men are a tiny percentage of the population so they don't matter" argument, they're irrelevant. Good looks are always the first requirement for women when it comes to intimate relationships between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:37 AM
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If guys stop being pussy-obsessed, this wouldn't be a thing. I was replying to this. Guys being less obsessed with pussy doesn't change the fact that women wouldn't have relationships with them if they're not physically attractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:28 AM
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Please tell that to u/LillthofBabylon, at this point it seems like she's being purposefully obtuse. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q3vl5i/the\_8020\_rule\_is\_true\_one\_should\_accept\_it\_and/hfyvzmp/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:12 AM
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Ok, I know I'm gonna regret asking this(and I ask only cause I'm too scared to Google it0 but what are body farms?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:53 PM
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You misunderstand, Cardi B and women like her are what I call "survivors" as in they live in the real world and have experienced a lot of what comes with it, they see the brutality and unfairness of it so they have zero delusion in what they want and can get(for them sex isn't solely about pleasure, as with most women here), so basically they allow all men(regardless of background and looks) to compete over them and if you allow every guy to compete, money is the only way to differentiate betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:51 PM
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You need money for survival and looks for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:33 PM
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I love the way she stares after he left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:54 AM
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Yes and I'll be going into reconditioning shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:50 AM
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You obvs didn't but you clearly implied it here: it's because pregnancy and child support are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:48 AM
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"Everybody happy now!" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:45 AM
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Dude wtf? What's the correct term for involuntary labour then? You're accusing me of having bad faith when literally I could accuse you of doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:39 AM
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So I got laid after a year since the last, but by the way it went it feels like she needed it more than I did lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:31 AM
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but thats so rare that it might as well not be discussed. Rare is an understatement buddy, and I've never seen or heard of this happening irl. I've seen maybe a few instances of a guy dating an ugly chick but never the other way round, the only ones I see is women dating disabled or deformed dudes but seeing as how extreme that is, I guarantee that they're clout chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:26 AM
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Ok so slaves aren't more(or somehow even equally as) disadvantaged as a pregnant woman to you? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:21 AM
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You realize she said absolutely nothing about hook-ups lol?, and this: I highly doubt those two are in a relationship solely for good dick. sounds hilariously ironic after reading this: The constant black-and-white thinking I see here, makes me wonder if you guys understand that love and lust are not the same thing. Ok lady I'll take you seriously(even though you make it hard for me), she said and I quote: "I’m only going to date a guy I’m intensely attracted to" so like it or not, to many(if no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:17 AM
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Read the edits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:09 AM
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This is basically just a Q4W lol, how many guys here are hot enough for something like that to even be a possibility? To answer your question not many as it turns out, to be sexually attracted to a woman without knowing who she is, what she's like and what she sounds like they basically have to look like the chick at 0:13 for me to get a boner lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:53 PM
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How does it feel being proven wrong? And by your fellow womankind no less. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:47 PM
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No one, obviously but the thread only exists cause you ladies keep changing the subject, all he's asking is why that wasn't included, and instead of agreeing or answering why, y'all keep talking about other shit, i.e. diverting the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:46 PM
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It shows lack of inhibition and abundance of money, it's one of the few ways men can show off for women without attracting gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:30 PM
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Literally every single one of you who keep diverting the argument away from it lol, that's all the dude's been saying and y'all keep changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:22 PM
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You do know relationships don't happen without attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:28 PM
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you're going to need their consent I think people here confuse artificial intelligence with sentience, they aren't mutually exclusive you know. Plus this giving the AI sentience would kind of defeat the whole point of sex robots, which is that people would need them to satisfy their urges, even if it's just romance stuff, giving an AI sentience, beyond just a reasonably good ability to mimic a human being makes no sense, the AI would be there to validate the person, not force the person to go th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:23 PM
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Watch The RADBRAD's "Detroit: Become human" walkthrough or if you can buy the game and play it, it's a brilliant representation of what's being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:15 PM
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Haha, aren't y'all the ones always crying about how guys miss nuance in everything? What's keeping you from seeing the nuance here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:05 PM
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Nah, I was talking about the woman not the kid, If you can get one woman you can get another and if you can get another you can get more kid, the child isn't going to be sacrificed because even if the guy tries the woman herself won't allow it and will die instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:05 AM
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Entertain? I thought dating apps were for dating and not for hook ups lol? If she doesn't like him why match?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:59 AM
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think most men would actually choose to save their kid over their wife? Yes, "if I can get one, I can get another", my friend said that after he ditched a girl when they got chased by a Pitbull.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:46 AM
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incels wanting sex make women uncomfortable because he's so repulsive that she can't deal with the thought of anyone having to sleep with him. I think you just agreed with the OP lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:38 AM
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This kind of makes sense tbh, most of the media aimed at women all have ne thing in common and that is they have strict caste like pecking orders. For example look at Disney shows, it's only logic that fantasy shows exhibit worlds that are ideal, right? So why are those societies almost always monarchies and not republics? I've always found this a bit peculiar tbh, but with this post it kind of makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:27 AM
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I think what he means to say is that you're essentially reducing what is two steps to just one, "be a good lover", everybody knows this, how much do you think that that "being a good lover" actually comes from you legit being a good lover and not just you being good looking that the woman you're with can't resist your advances, it's like how many of your jokes are actually funny and isn't just the woman stroking your ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:19 AM
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How is that a rebuttal? I thought misandrists were smarter than this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:06 AM
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True, but that's not the point of this debate, the point is that although single and "happy", women will complain about how low the bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:09 PM
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Tell that to literally 99% of human beings who've ever lived lol, if you wanted evolved beings of a higher intelligence then Nikola Tesla wouldn't have died a virgin, would he? Most human beings are dumb and shallow because their mothers were dumb and shallow, you get what you select for ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:53 PM
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If a guy's had to hire a pro as the only way to "do it", I'm pretty sure women wouldn't date him, regardless of knowing whether he "done it" with a pro or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:54 AM
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This is true and somewhat proven by science but I've also heard a Scientist say that is it maladaptive behaviour at this point, so... there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:38 PM
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Also, did I mention I play drums and can do vocals? If that's not sexy then this post is pointless lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:42 PM
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I know it's a skill lol, I have it(or at least I had it) but you can't do that with the thought at the back of your mind that you aren't good enough or that there's something wrong that you can't fix(or think you can't fix... idk). That's the biggest difference that I've noticed between pre-depressed me and depressed me and I think it's the same for most of the men here, the ones you're targeting with this, and unfortunately it takes years to get over and only by then can you start to practice o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:39 PM
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Healthy Scott, skinny Scott , how can a person change that much(I know how but, still), when I was younger(before I was allowed to own a pc) I always wondered why the guy from Velvet Revolver and the guy from Stone Temple pilots sounded exactly the same lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:27 PM
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other guys can learn to behaviorally mimic what the more desirable guys do in order to trigger arousal sooner and more effectively Yeah I kinda forgot about this point a bit, which is why I edited in that last point in my reply. Also, mimicking behaviour is very easy and that's kind of the reason sexual harassment as a concept exists. Less attractive men acting like attractive men isn't attractive and is in fact a crime(as sexual harassment is basically defined as "unwanted sexual advance")
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:08 PM
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If the point of your study is to rate visceral desirability and physical attractiveness then that's going to eliminate the vast majority of people, both men and women(women look better onscreen than irl most of the time), so I'm kind of curious as to what the point of this is? Also to add, on other posts you've insisted that behaviour factors heavily into what women find attractive, which brings another problem with your potential study and that is, behavioural patterns can't be observed in a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:52 PM
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Yeah. But I was very late to that party and couldn't post but I posted mine today and there was one dude who legit wanted me to feel bad about myself even though I made it clear that I don't care and didn't get the memo when I didn't respond, and another chick that claimed I look like I "cleaned peoples chimneys for weeks" lol. catsinbanahats wasn't kidding when she said trolls are brutal lol, but I guess we're different since I don't care what trolls say about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:29 PM
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He did the same with the first one where he asked men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:33 PM
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I'm not denying any of that, of course every dude here is attracted to the woman on the right, no one here said they didn't. The thing is I wouldn't pass up a good thing that could last a long time for something that would make me happy in the moment and that's basically what this is. Anyone who passes up a chance to be with a great person just so they can chase after lust, well idk, cause I'm not one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:12 PM
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The pic is edited, I cropped out my grandma next to me, I don't really know how to do that without ruining the quality lol. The original photo is far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:00 PM
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Me neither, I thought it was uncommon cause I've never heard anyone use it outside of Southern Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:08 PM
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You said Aweh lol, where you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:48 PM
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Yeah that's true haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:46 PM
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Thanks. But it's ok though, I don't really care what these people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:39 PM
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Oh my goodness, ok lol. And what do you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:29 PM
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OK bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:18 PM
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It's blurry cause I cropped out my grandma next to me, I'm bad at this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:15 PM
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Ok have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:14 PM
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I honestly don't know where I stand and don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:06 PM
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Question is would you choose a guy like that over a hot guy and would he feel assured if you choose him that you'll be attracted to him and not the hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:56 PM
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Then you're only projecting cause men don't work like that, men bond with time meaning the more time spent together and the more sex, the more attractive you'll become to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:47 PM
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I don't do that, which is why it bugs me to know that women do it. I even tried to get with a girl like the one you describe and she rejected me, literally the first girl to do so, the only reason my ego didn't take a hit is cause I had already been with girls hotter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:37 PM
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By "men" you mean the men every other girl fantasises about? Because that's the only way your post would make any sense and not be the ramblings of an FDSer. Obviously those dudes would treat you that way, they have options and every girl who wants them is throwing their pussy at them, obviously they're not going to choose you if the only thing you have to offer isn't even that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:12 PM
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Well then I don't care about them, that's unreasonable and I don't associate with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:08 PM
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You're wrong cause you're not supposed to listen to you're dick. Think of it this way, you see shit that looks and smells like chocolate and chocolate that looks and smells like shit and you can only choose between the two, you'd obviously choose the latter cause the former isn't good for you even though looks good. If you can override you're unconscious(and thus dumb) taste buds then you can override your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:56 AM
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5th choice: "Rent free in your mind".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:49 AM
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Do you have a dick too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:46 AM
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I wouldn't, NAMALT lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:44 AM
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Left, obvs. Also lol at the fact that you deleted the original post cause one dude said the "other girl looked too hot to be on the left" and replaced her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:42 AM
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Correction: Brain says: "Number one" Dick says: "Number two"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:38 AM
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It feels like 90% of the new accounts that come here come just to pile on inc3ls, like what's the point here guys? They've been here before you came and will most likely still be here after you're gone, you piling on them isn't gonna make them somehow magically see how their wrong, they'll only feel validated lol. When a child is being naughty the way you teach that child that what it's doing is wrong isn't to beat them or call them names, you leave them alone and don't validate the BS they're u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:36 AM
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Nah, she is very average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:08 AM
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This is the same shit what's her face(Lilthofsomething?) and many others, chicks who epitomize the very thing most men here accuse all women of being, say. Y'all are perfect for each other smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:05 AM
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Girl on the left, the other one is way out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:00 AM
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It's called denial you dunce. It's the same with the women saying they wouldn't date that dude Tinder profile that was posted here some hours ago, they "wouldn't" date them because those people wouldn't date them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:14 AM
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The redhead with the big boobs. What's her name?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:21 AM
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Am I missing something? I thought pathetic meant "pitiful through being weak", since when does not caring about anything make anyone weak, for many of us that's kind of the goal, I hate that I care so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:57 AM
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No, because pathetic people caring about shit is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:31 AM
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How's that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:39 AM
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Well, why don't I show mine at least bad stuff won't happen to you alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:35 AM
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u/catsinbananahats, Just curious to see what she looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:19 AM
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I do. "sad emoji"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:11 AM
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And yet in another thread you say "Because men are pathetic", I thought you were fun Cuntwaffe2(still an awesome username tho), this inconsistency ain't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:11 AM
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It does reek of narcissism. If you see someone in a bad situation with toxic habits you can only show empathy for so long and it's very understandable to lose it(it would be abnormal if you didn't) but then you leave them alone, you don't give them any attention, zero. Any attention, even negative attention such as this post is validation for these people to continue in their ways, in fact I'd argue that this kind of negative attention is actually worse because they see this it's almost like a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:42 AM
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Anyone here think make up can help guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:51 PM
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I actually agree with you, check the daily megathread lol. My point still remains though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:15 PM
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He is saying it unironically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:36 PM
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u/decoy88 If this is what incels look like, then you're right, they are lazy cause half these dudes look better than me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:38 PM
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Shallow dudes are shallow dudes, stay away from them if you don't like them because not all men are like that, and I mean it, I wouldn't reject a girl solely because of her looks, unless she literally stinks, which is something within her control the only reason I rejected girls was because I didn't like them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:33 PM
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Well why don't men do the same? I'm also thinking of trying it myself, you can't know if it works or not if you don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:25 PM
2

Well as some women here stated, "superior genetics"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:23 PM
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A solution is supposed to be a solution, it's not supposed to bring additional and sometimes even worse problems into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:22 PM
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This isn't a Black pill post btw. I'm just trying to say that plastic surgery does more damage than good, you can see decent results from doing make up and taking care of your skin, the changes might not be as radical as changing your entire face does but at least it doesn't cost extortionate amounts of money and there's zero chance of botching which actually risks damaging your mental health far more than doing nothing would've done. And also, it's very obvious if you've done plastic surgery un…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:21 PM
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He could've gotten the almost the same results for free by not being lazy lol. This is what an actual recessed chin looks like, https://images.app.goo.gl/419Z5Z4yZi3embML9 I have a friend who's father is an orthodontist and I'm fairly familiar with this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:10 PM
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I'm not paranoid about paternity but I do get why some dudes might, it's the same reason I understand why some ladies are weary of strange men or don't date at all, the trick is to not be obsessed in your hate towards a certain group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:01 PM
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He's wrong, very wrong. First of all most of the inc3ls on here are above average looking dudes larping as inc3ls fishing for compliments, non of the real black pillers ever say they're average in fact they explicitly say how ugly they are. I've actually developed a key to differentiate between actual incels and inc3ls, the first group will strictly focus on looks and lookism, will sound depressed and won't post pictures while the second group sounds more entitled, will focus more on the 80/20 r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:53 PM
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Dude you'd be right if literally every person you're speaking of actually did that. Literally every black piller I've seen here explicitly states that they are ugly, there are only a few delusional dorks who pretend that they're average when in reality they're quite above average looking. And another thing dude, being below average in looks doesn't make a person below average literally, you say you're against black pill yet you seem to believe in one of it's dumbest principles which is biologica…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:43 PM
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This purge has traumatized me lol, was not expecting legit pornography on here, Jesus flippin Christ!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:28 AM
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Was it the 70 orgasms one or the one where he apparently smashed a chick he just met?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:21 AM
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This would be true if women cared about body more than face, which they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:52 AM
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Hasn't anybody ever told you not to ask questions you don't want the answer to? Edit: Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:41 AM
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Oh that's not hard to believe, what I find hard to believe is that this shtick works, I thought women didn't date creeps and bullies since they're so wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:29 AM
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Haha ok dude. Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:26 AM
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u/xDoctrineoftheMeanx
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:28 PM
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Yes, you are completely right. You have literally zero chance cause you're ugly and judging from this OP, have a bad personality. "Men" will never give you a chance because they have hot girls lined up already and all you have to offer "men" is your body but since that's ugly and disgusting you simply can't compete with hot girls. If inc3ls are entitled then this dumb post is absolutely criminal but do keep believing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:57 PM
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Ugly is something out of both ugly men's and women's control and since you're putting people down based on that sounds a bit suspect to me that your focus is solely on the men. Also if these men are really what you say they are then they are a non threat for you aren't they? Why do they bother you so much I don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:38 PM
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Another 6'4 tall "king" putting down unattractive men and acting all tough on fucking Reddit lmao. Never change internet, never change. Who here actually believes he's genuine, he's definitely a bully no doubt but does anyone actually believe he's what he's displaying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:32 PM
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There's at least three posts(by men, that you commented in btw) that proves this wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:27 PM
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Agreed but you'll probably lose your shit when I suggest ugly women do the same since they are half responsible... actually not half but 100% responsible because they only fuck hot guys and still produce ugly kids. Also I'd like to ask you God, with your perfect life, why are you here? Surely you must have idiots to lecture irl who have hope, why are you trying lecture hopeless losers? they ain't gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:16 PM
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You agree yet you're saying it's a bad generalization? I don't care if women make bad generalizations about men cause it doesn't mean I'm like that, I don't have to defend myself when I know I'm not guilty of what I'm being accused, unless it's a serious situation, I won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:58 PM
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That's why I call the dudes who responded losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:03 PM
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Lol at the losers taking this obvious bait. I'm thinking of making one to see if the females are this dumb but I don't know what would trigger them, any thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:39 PM
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Oh I agree, they defo should.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:18 PM
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I'm not delusional, I have seen physically attractive men with women far below their league, I've never ever seen the opposite, not irl and not on tv, I've only seen it in Adam Sandler movies but those make it clear from the get go that they aren't realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:49 PM
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I meant "looks matter to men, just not as much as it is to women", meaning men actually care less about whether a woman is hot or not, obviously since you're not counting half of the male population as men you assume they do, this is is true, the top percentiles of men do care about looks and won't compromise because they have he options to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:28 PM
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Exactly now you're getting it Lily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:23 PM
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Disagree, men have the balls to go through with suicide and women don't, secondly being single as a woman and being single as a man is different, if women faced the same thing men go through they'd kill themselves too and sure enough, many femcels do. I don't agree with MGTOW either but to say women are somehow special that they can actually bear to be alone is actual BS, if that was true FDS wouldn't exist, in fact the term incel was created by a woman. Peak dumbass post, purge doesn't disappoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:17 PM
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I don't want to get doxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:04 PM
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r/cringe, r/FemaleDatingStrategy, r/Cringetopia, r/askreddit and so many more that I can't be assed to list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:59 PM
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Biased, no, you wouldn't be with him if he wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:54 PM
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Data shows they've always had that, thing is they're just too ugly and retarded for those attractive genes to offset their shitty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:52 PM
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Literally every single woman on here agrees yet you call it a bad generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:46 PM
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Looks matter for men, it's just not as important as it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:43 PM
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Is he good looking? If yes there's your answer, he isn't inc3l cause he's good looking, obviously. The only difference parents can make in whether their child become inc3l or not is if they're rich and can afford the best medical services and nutrition, apart from that it's a complete lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:33 PM
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Nah they'll keep existing as long as ugly retarded bitches do, so the only way that happens is if they die first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:26 PM
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Lol at thinking this is the cringiest place on the internet lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:35 PM
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"What you talkin bout Willis?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:32 PM
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I will very soon lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:26 PM
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I don't know but there are and they post on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:19 PM
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Okay so? The law becomes obsolete once it stops being consistent, and this is very inconsistent. I don't disagree that a woman's right to choice should be protected but it doesn't mean the man's should be disregarded. If he wants it and she does not, abortion but if she wants it and he doesn't, he gets to pay for it? He gets the responsibility but doesn't get to decide is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:10 PM
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What makes you think I have a shit personality? What did I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:01 PM
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oh wow how you act and comport increases or decreases desirability” just kidding they haven’t accepted this “black pill” yet… We disagree here, this isn't black pill it's blue pill because you assume an ugly guy's behaviour counts whereas I don't and neither do the black pillers. I believe that it only counts above a certain threshold and obviously ugly men don't pass it cause they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:58 PM
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I can parse nuance normally but I don't see any in this context. It's a pretty simple black and white topic, the only variation occurs when the threshold has been passed, only then does behaviour and other factors start to count(as in, ugly confident guy is still ugly, he doesn't pass the threshold and therefore his behaviour is a non factor) Ironically you lack the ability to see the nuance there cause that's what I've been saying this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:13 PM
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I wanted to post a pic of myself here since I was a bit late to the mystery pic thread so I did but for some reason it's not appearing here, so here goes(for a limited 30mins only), am I ugly lol? https://imgur.com/k3NfBvv
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:06 PM
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u/TotalTravesty As I said before, fuck off with your Just world bullshit, please just fuck off will ya. I do not give a fuck what you say, I don't get why you think I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:21 AM
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ALL ELSE EQUAL, the very physically attractive man who comports and interacts naturally suavely wouldn’t be deemed desirable by more people than the ugly man who comports and interacts naturally suavely. I didn't read it this way, I read it this way It simply means that a blah looking man who comports and interacts naturally suavely will be deemed desirable by more people than the the ugly man who comports and interacts naturally suavely. And I disagree with it, which is why I quoted a woman in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:15 AM
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We do, difference is A-We don't lie that we don't, B-There's literally a saying, it goes "Don't stick your dick in crazy" and C-We don't disregard literally everything else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:22 AM
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"Nice people win and bad people lose" is a childish belief. Mother nature don't care about that, that's why Meeks get to fuck and nice Dice doesn't. I'll defend egalitarianism and it's principles to my death but I don't do that cause I'm retarded like you, I do it cause otherwise I would've been fighting for survival literally every single day. Fuck off with your Just world bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:39 AM
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Wholesome as fuck, but it kinda defeats the purpose of this sub though. I come here for the toxicity and to sharpen up my debate skills, so... you're not helping lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:33 AM
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I never said behaviour isn't a factor(that's just you being...), of course it's a factor but it's usually based on a person's looks, haven't you ever heard of the "if he's hot=complement, if he's not=harassment" thing? Thinking behaviour can offset looks, that's some aspie shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:16 AM
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oh wow how you act and comport increases or decreases desirability” just kidding they haven’t accepted this “black pill” yet That's literally the bluest pill LOL. To "act desirably" you have to be comfortable in your own body and very few people are disadvantaged enough to not learn how to be comfortable in their own skin. This is why looks are the only factor, as explained by this quote from a woman The reason we judge men based exclusively on looks is because it makes our job to filter through…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:29 AM
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Nah I disagree, Miss degree is cool and midwestufohunter sounds like a good person IMO, but yeah I agree with you, the last two are legit retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:41 PM
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Be specific, was it proven that you were just unattractive or that real life would be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:18 PM
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No you should be taking the ARV pill, you can't just wash of the HIV, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:12 PM
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You are down horrendous... and gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:09 PM
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Proven wrong that irl would be different or that they're unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:06 PM
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Dumb response. I say it's dumb cause your not new here, I saw you since I first joined this sub, so you saying this is horrifically stupid since there were multiple dumb posts about people trying to tie male sexlessness to laziness and shut down anyone who says it's about looks. You're either retarded or malicious to be saying this, honestly I'd give you the benefit of a doubt and say it's the latter but since this is Reddit, my money's on the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:56 PM
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I wish she'd take that dumb sign away, I wanna see those tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:41 PM
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Yeah see that now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:38 PM
2

So it's business as usual with a bit of inc3l content thrown in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:21 PM
2

If I may ask, what happens during purge week exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:16 PM
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I think she is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:32 PM
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u/CloudBerryPunch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:24 PM
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LMFAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:22 PM
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I keep confusing you with another user curiously enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:19 PM
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Her n count is a non factor IMO because she had no control over it, if she had a high n count and wasn't trafficked then she would've been right in being worried about it. Honestly any dude who judges her based on this are shallow IMO, she had absolutely zero control over it. She's a victim and calling her "worse than a slut for ltr" is a disgusting thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:01 PM
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If looks are what gets you into a relationship then looks are the most important factor for relationships, the devil is in the detail, notice how I didn't say "in a relationship" but for relationships. The original poster agrees with me as he didn't say "in a relationship" as well. You can go back and read his response as well as mine, no one has ever said that looks are the most important factor in relationships, I feel like you are purposefully misinterpreting this to make an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:22 PM
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What "issues"? If I may ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:55 PM
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Me thinks you're being wilfully obtuse here. No one said it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:52 PM
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No it isn't. Just go for short women or go to places with a shorter population, as long as you're good looking and go for women who're shorter than you, you won't struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:48 PM
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I admit my choice of words wasn't good but it's still the same conclusion, what I meant to say was- If a woman is attracted to a man enough to have casual sex with him that means she is attracted enough to enter into a relationship with him. The only difference between casual sex guy and relationship guy is that the latter meets the other requirements, he isn't less good looking. This is why your original comment was wrong, which is why I responded with that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:01 AM
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I was always talking about that, where did you get the idea that I was referring to different types of men? The goal posts didn't shift, you just misunderstood what I said. Also why respond if you don't address my points?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:49 AM
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Yeah I was talking about the physical attractiveness aspect of it. You wouldn't get into a relationship with a man you're not attracted to and a man doesn't want to be with a woman who doesn't have the hots for him(cause that's humiliation waiting to happen) so looks are still a requirement, therefore if you can get casual sex you can get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:54 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:04 AM
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It's not a way to get into your pants, it's just what some guys do to fuck around and to get a thrill out of it. Women do it too, I got catcalled more than once, stuff like "Woo, baby, that ass" and I'm not even hot and I know this cause I never felt flattered, it was always uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:31 AM
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I edited it, though it's still douchey lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:10 PM
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No it doesn't cause I would leave, I wouldn't accept nor deny I'd just walk away, cause I'm not entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah but a bull that could easily go for $10000(in USD) is just overkill, if I do that for my wedding, well the fact that I'm getting married in the first place... would kind of be reason enough to do it now that I think about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:35 PM
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Women don't want assholes, anyone who isn't a delusional RPer knows this. Women want "hot guys" and "hot guys" are most likely to be assholes(assholes in this case meaning, selfish and indifferent). Though, there's only a correlation between the two, not all "hot guys" are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:57 PM
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I know the difference but the phrase "I do not accept this" implies a sense of entitlement, otherwise I wouldn't have responded would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:25 PM
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Africans are wierd AF, dude is legit slaughtering a bull that could pay off his mortgage(slight exaggeration) for his wedding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:19 PM
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Neither. Assuming that I can get into an LTR with both that means I can do both of them, I'd rather do them both instead of LTR. I got other things I'd love to do that I wouldn't have time for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:15 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:08 PM
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Not thirsting but, just the fact that I was born in the wrong era. Good god she's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:06 PM
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If you have never inspired lust in women, that’s a huge bummer. You do know that's not a skill right? That's like some dick telling you "if you're not 7 feet tall, that's a huge bummer". This is something only douchebags brag about, are you one of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:55 PM
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If a woman wants to have casual sex with a guy it means she also wants a relationship with him. Most romantic relationships start out casually and then become serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:48 PM
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I'm saying you're not entitled to a world where there's no murder or sexual assault, no one is and if you decide that you are then the obvious conclusion you'd come to would be to in some way infringe upon the human right to autonomy. You are only entitled to your right to protect yourself, you have n right to go any further than that and so if anyone tells you to stay in your house at night they aren't trying to be condescending they are trying to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:33 PM
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Ok then, let's say every guy on here is below average(and know tis when you say "below average" as a statement and not an adjective you mean they are below average period, remember that) so what? That just makes you sound like an elitist prick you loves putting people down, you have even less of a point if these men are actually below average, and also you're making it sound like this is some discovery which shows that you don't actually know the people you're talking about. About 90% of bl4ck p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:47 AM
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and just like a woman being conscious of her surroundings doesn’t mean she has to accept the existence of sexual assault Very wrong and very dangerous sentiment to have. Sexual assault exists whether women like it or not just as homicides are, the only thing(the right thing) individuals can do is find measures to protect yourself, this means not going out after hours when you know you're living in a dangerous area and it means not going to EL Salvador, any more than that is you going against oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:28 AM
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Inner strength comes from struggle, people aren't born with it and I'm not saying rpers are strong but at least they struggled to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:05 AM
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Argumentative people basically, it's a good they're all here otherwise the "normies" of the world would suffer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:12 PM
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This as stupid a comment as I have seen on PPD, congratulations for that. Blue pilled men are good looking men who've never struggled with women, obviously, they aren't strong and they aren't any more noble than red pilled men. The only reason they are still blue pilled is because they don't need to be red pilled, they get to live in the fantasy world where nothing goes wrong, they aren't strong they are in fact quite weak and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:06 PM
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If all you want and welling to give-take is sex, you will loose because you are giving women all the power and they will use the power as they wish. This isn't true for the vast majority of men but let's pretend that it did, firstly we have to establish that there are two types of men those that women want and those they don't. For the first type of man he'll always have some leverage regardless of whether he's chasing sex or relationships, except maybe for when he's in love with a single woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:28 PM
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He's talking about working out, logically diet is part of that. I wouldn't say working out can improve your looks(I mean if you're a 3 starting out then you'll only be a 3 with a great physique) but it is valuable in that improves your health and if you add on to it martial arts then you improve your confidence too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:10 AM
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Because commercial plastic surgery was created to serve women, simple as that. You wouldn't ask why breast cancer treatments are cheaper on average than penile cancer treatments would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:58 AM
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Nah, those things aren't equal because most men don't care about a woman's age, body count or even the number of kids she has, at least not as much as women care about f4ce. I didn't mention height and dick size cause, A-As long as the guy is taller than the woman he's ok and B-She can only see your dick after she's decided that you passed the threshold and it's not a deal breaker unless you have a micropeen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:50 AM
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The difference between a man and a woman in this case is that for a man, bad immutable traits means game over but for a woman it only means she won't get to be with Sean O'Pry. You're completely right about those things being unchangeable, but you cannot deny that not being able to change them are only detrimental to your chances in getting the man every other woman would want. Women's looks don't matter as much to men. I don't agree with this post, those things are obviously not the same but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:44 AM
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u/SaBahRub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:56 PM
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Yes and for some reason I can hear yours too... Inb4 you say I'm crazy I have a generic female voice for when I read women's responses and one for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:44 PM
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I'm confused, I thought everyone was aware of this, what makes you think people aren't aware of this? Secondly how pompous do men have to be to collectively believe they will be loved and valued for their “personalities” while us women are out here plucking and contorting ourselves to fit their desires? Nope, men(young men in this case) only started believing this because women told them, don't get me wrong older "blue-pilled" men say this as well but because most young men don't take romantic a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:25 PM
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Saw a Simmental bull go for $50000 in the recent auction, reminded me just how much I lost that drought of 2019/20. It's no wonder I'm this depressed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:30 PM
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Since you're a dude and not a woman I'm gonna take my chances and guess that he isn't ugly. It's about looks ain't an excuse it's the truth, instead of trying to deny the truth and running a rat race for no good reason we should rise above, focus on building and creating and when the time comes after you've built your wealth we can try surrogacy and impart our experiences on the next generation so they won't even care about those things to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:51 PM
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Explain to me how they are the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:43 AM
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I study a lot and stay up late most of the time so it's really hard to prepare for it, it's hard for me to do because the smallest thing can easily wake me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:42 AM
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Well when you're truly aware that it isn't real you can not only control the outcome but you can also wake yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:40 AM
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I've done it about twice already, maybe it differs from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:38 AM
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I'm not denying anything, I do know it's shallow but it's still not ok to justify shallowness. Justify one bad part of human nature and you justify everything else, and it's only a matter of time before everything else falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:36 AM
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Because you can control the outcome of your dreams and as has recently been found also possibly improve your motor skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:02 AM
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I tried lucid dreaming again, it was interesting to say the least. Has anyone else here done lucid dreaming before?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:50 AM
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If he is noble then he doesn't at all. I haven't had sex in six months, it's not a hard thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:42 AM
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This seems to me like the very thing the older women here accuse inc3ls doing, they say these guys have built up an image of a person they want from a very young age and along with that a sense of entitlement too, and it makes sense, if I did this I'd probably reject every single girl I met(even the decent looking ones on my level) because I grew up idolising Scarlet Johansson and deciding that I wouldn't settle for anything less. What's the song called "Mr Sandman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:36 AM
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I think what he means is that you not wanting to date a woman who's fat might make you lose out on meeting a person who might match with you on a deeper level. And in this case I agree with him, I personally would not disqualify a woman cause she's fat, especially when she could lose that weight down the line. Think about it, you have a scenario where you meet two girls one fat and one not, you connect with both of them and they fall in love with you, the hot girl could eventually gain weight an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:26 AM
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I think he'd say something along the lines of she found a man who meets her high standards cause she's a woman, not because she's high value. Well... I think I'm the one saying that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:13 AM
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It's not too much to follow, not all men are sex obsessed assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:08 AM
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Not the same, Madonna/whore is about how men stop seeing their wives as sexual beings after a while and/or after they give birth. It's not the same because the man was truly sexually attracted to his wife and won't leave his wife when given the opportunity with another woman he's sexually attracted to unlike what is hypothesised would happen in case of AF/BB. In AF/BB the relationship merely exists for transactional purposes and even then the woman might not even hold up her end of the bargain w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:05 AM
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Ok, noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:03 PM
1

Oh my god, you're entertaining lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:59 PM
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But I don’t see many muslims forcing their religion down people yhroat Lmao, what on Earth do you think convert or die means? I'll take "down my throat" over "down six feet under" any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:57 PM
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You call them ugly I call them normal enough to pass the threshold(which is something ugly men don't do). The point is you shouldn't give up just cause you have somewhat unrealistic standards cause there is always a possibility for you as a woman to get lucky with an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:49 PM
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Don't worry too much, it's not set into stone, especially for you cause you're a woman. Men are far more forgiving when it comes to looks and if you're not rich it won't matter as much cause men love to be needed, that's as long as you're a good person(not the 2021 version of it, the real thing). At least you're not an ugly guy, then you'd be doomed to be alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:35 PM
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FME that type of girl is generally the least trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:29 PM
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A-How beautiful are you, B-Are you upper class? If not any of these then good luck. Yes you are being extremely picky(especially if you don't meet at least one of the above criteria) but hopefully you're prepared to be alone the rest of you're life:)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:26 PM
1

Well you said "how much I suck" and I thought you were talking about how much you... suck...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:56 PM
2

My almost three year old nephew loves "Luca", he always asks me to put it on and when I ask what movie to make he just sings the intro song, "bapara pa" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:51 PM
2

I'd guess quite a lot but you didn't give an exact number so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:39 PM
1

From your past responses I thought you were right wing but then I saw your avatar and... that's how I came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:26 PM
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Centrist. I'd guess you are centre-left?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:19 PM
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You're telling me I have a fragile mind when you lie to yourself everyday and call yourself a "below average looking" man to spare your ego from the fact that you didn't earn the happy relationship you're in, that you had no control and it was just your genetics. The fact that you struggled early on is even more evident of how much you yourself are a loser because you struggled despite the natural advantage you have, if people are gonna be called losers for shallow reasons, then you are also ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:43 PM
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I don't think you got what I was trying to say. It wasn't about whether or not it comes off as rude, it's about where that belief originates, which I don't belief comes from the type of man in question. I'm not sure exactly why your friend might believe in it. Now I'm about 90% sure you didn't read my reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:03 PM
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Yeah. I don't really get the point of any extreme tbh, I thought heavy covering was for winter and less had to do with hot weather, I didn't know it was an issue preference. When I played football in school we only wore the kits with no undershirt and the socks were generally medium to low cause it's hot where I live and it was mainly the wingers who wore their socks higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:57 PM
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Yes if you're single unwillingly you are a looser, Hard disagree. I think it's extremely regressive to label someone a loser based on how un/successful they are in dating. As for success in dating in regards to successful "below average" men, I have said many times before these men are never reliable sources for what is attractive(looks wise) or what isn't and they generally, extremely underrate themselves, which causes them to not only be unempathetic towards the men who aren't(attractive) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:49 PM
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that involuntary single men aren't desirable I think that's your belief u/Narniafox. I have seen many men like that on here and they do think men like that(inc3ls) are losers cause they're undesirable, they believe they are losers because they're lazy. I think this is one more Black pill for involuntary single dudes and I don't think I should be posting this but meh, I'll post it anyway cause this is interesting imo. Agree with the rest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:37 PM
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why do you think your way is better? My way? I don't understand, if you mean where do I stand then I'll answer nowhere, I have no part in this as I'm not a woman, I just found the picture funny and interesting is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:16 PM
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Interesting. lol at the last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:22 AM
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She's at least an 8 in my book, she's really hot. Although that might be cause she reminds me of my exes, maybe that's my type lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:15 AM
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Ok so apparently this woman is a 6.5, lol now I've seen it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:45 AM
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Nah. That lady is hot and that dude is a lucky bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:40 AM
1

Literally the top comment could be a source. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:19 AM
1

So is he saying that average men only want relationships so that they have access to sex? That's a reductionist take, you could also say the only reason all men coexist with women is cause they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:11 AM
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Well for many people attraction can grow over time so I think it's possible, though I'm not sure if that applies to our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:27 PM
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It's so refreshing to see decent people here. I keep saying that "being social" is a way to get a relationship. I'm a great example of an introverted guy who has had a lot of opportunities to get into a relationship, it's true that I messed up my opportunities but I still had girls interested in me and you know what I know for sure that at least one of them liked me for me. The thing is I focused on what was important for me, I studied, I spent time on my hobbies, a little less time and a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:24 PM
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Trust issues are hard to overcome, so making a conclusion about someone like that isn't cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:41 PM
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I value self control, just self control. Also I'd be surprised if I end with a wife period lol, like my mom saying I'll be a father before my brother, you putting curses on people, don't do that. I'll be a dad with time but get married, no thank you, I like being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:51 PM
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I'm gonna look dumb af but why is Gabby Petito relevant here? I already googled her but I don't know why she's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:39 PM
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Well they're subs got shut down, so what they gonna do? Also this place is also very much an echo chamber, without black pillers the narrative would lean very much the opposite way, which is more delusional than even TRP. I've seen it literally the first day after I got back on, there was an OP about looks not being important or something to that degree and literally most of the comments were people agreeing. I'm not blackpill but I don't think the narrative shifting back to the way it started o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:29 PM
1

I take it that was on purpose? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:22 PM
1

Another thing I see on here is how easy people come to conclusions. I mean it's not hard to understand someone else's position, I also saw personal attacks and a username that looks like a woman's, so without reading it, it's pretty easy to come to that conclusion. The only thing he's guilty of is not reading before he replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:20 PM
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That's a dude, hahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:06 PM
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I meant masculine as in, big muscles, big chest and masculine in the way they dress and behave which they aren't, they are good looking in the sense that they have what makes men beautiful but they aren't masculine, they're good looking. They are beautiful men, just as non feminine women can be beautiful even though they aren't very feminine. The deciding factor here is looks, not sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:03 PM
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The ego man lol, you're one of those aren't ya? Seriously though, I believe you, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:46 PM
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They're popular because "masculine" isn't attractive, good looking is, duh. Like what even is this question, have you learned nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:39 PM
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You first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:36 PM
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No, it's admirable because of the self control it takes, lmao it's ironic how many people mistake me for a religious person when in reality I'm the furthest thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:20 PM
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I don't save every interesting comment I see cause I'm not a wizard with foresight, and I'm not going to look for it cause you know you said it. Also the other commenter made the claim and I agreed with him saying "he's not wrong" and you claimed that I made a strawman. I feel like an elementary school teacher whenever I visit this sub. You're definitely in the right if you have to start using insults, that's exactly what a person in your(supposed) position does, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:29 AM
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Oh I know what it means. You're the one who called it when there wasn't any, which is why I doubted the fact that you know what it means. I'm still not sure you know so let's ask Google, here: A straw man (sometimes written as strawman) is a form of argument and an informal fallacy of having the impression of refuting an argument, whereas the real subject of the argument was not addressed or refuted, but instead replaced with a false one. Hmm, I don't think I made any. I made the claim that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:10 AM
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Meh, I also thought I was ugly but due to my experiences(mostly with girls I thought were out of my league) I seriously doubt that. It sucks for some men to admit that it's not our charm or "game" that gets the girl but something we were never in control of. We ain't special lol. Sucks but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:57 AM
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Haha, I guess she doesn't know what "strawman" means, since she's the one who said it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:50 AM
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I guess now you can admit that you're not really ugly? No ugly guy is getting approached by a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:43 AM
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I'm not struggling with anything but Ok. So you admit men don't actually compete for and earn women's affection and that women are just as, if not more shallow then men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:42 AM
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If she makes you wait she's not into you, it's as simple as that and if you somehow managed to get married to her then you're fucked because attraction for women is non negotiable. Even if a girl is conservative she'll make it known and will show affection in other ways, she'll make time, cook for you or whatever. It's not about how quickly she puts out, it's about how much effort she puts in and how she acts around you, that's something she can't lie about and the guys who go into a marriage wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:40 AM
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He's not wrong, also the fact that men from "liberal" countries accepting the fact that they can't earn the right to mate(as should males do in a healthy population of most mammalian species) would be a cause for concern to any person who values self preservation or freedom but then again you are a Westerner so I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:30 AM
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Kinda like someone I know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:20 AM
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A woman with a low n-count is an admirable person, regardless of her looks. The two aren't correlated, in fact if there was any correlation(which I don't think there is) it would in fact lean the other way cause as scientists have found highly attractive women are far more likely to focus on securing resources from a mate which means she'd be more likely to stay long term than a less attractive woman who would be more focused on looks from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:19 AM
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I prefer to replace him with Xavi I really think with the group of players we have and his leadership qualities along with how good he is tactically, I think we could witness a resurgence with him at the helm. As with Grizzie, I think it's a good thing he left tbh. I absolutely love him as a player but it just wasn't meant to be, he doesn't fit with Barca and all he was gonna do is take up a place where a Barca bred La Masia grad should be. News says Ansu will be back for Levante, I hope it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:12 PM
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Same here, what sucks more in the case of my favourite club(Barca) is that there are so many exciting players and it's soul crushing to see them not being used or used incorrectly cause the coach is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:00 PM
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I don't hate women and I don't think most guys on here do. Being frustrated with life is no reason to bully anyone but at the same time there's absolutely no reason for anyone to lie about what is being discussed here which revolves around dating and "the pills", the slogan of the sub literally reads "question what you believe" and the men here do the same as women. Now the question I have for you is why you're on a sub like this if you're going to talk about the people you're supposed to be deb…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:16 PM
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You watch TV shows where men are providers or where average men have pretty women without trying False. Men being providers aren't present in any of the shows I watched growing up, at best it was slightly balanced with both partners working and at worst the man is a blithering idiot lucky to have a wife in the first place and even then those aren't the majority of stuff I watched, I mostly watched and read superhero stories, we all did(my brothers and I). And those men who got pretty gfs without…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:05 PM
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Wtf? ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:36 PM
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I would agree do engage in the behaviors above a alot more than the average adult woman, Which behaviours? You were born to a man that lived in that society you grew up in that society you watch TV shows, and movies and read books that espouse those views, don’t think it has not been ingrained in you. But you said that that society is dead, here, look: I think male frustration today comes from men who long for a society where women needed them rather than wanted them, and that society no longer …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:16 PM
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14 year old me: I'm ugly and no girl will date me. Dad and older brothers: Get over it. Literally every single female relative: Oh don't worry someday you'll find a gf, just be kind and talk to girls. First time seeing someone gaslight, didn't know it actually happened lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:25 AM
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it’s easy to see equality as oppression when you are used to privilege I legit cannot take anyone who says this idiot phrase seriously, ffs I'm 22 not 220, I have not lived long enough to see what that "privilege" looks like. Jesus Christ!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:09 AM
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It actually does, quite a lot I might add, now if it were the other way round your comment would be true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:00 AM
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Well a lot women don't have good personalities cause they think "being fun=great personality" of course your not going to be of any depth if you think that's what personality means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:56 AM
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What's the point of this comment? Also, it says on the website that it's not very reliable so...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:39 AM
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And what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:36 AM
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You can tell whether a guy is an Inc3l just by looking at him. There's no such thing as a good looking Inc3l, just narcissist(most likely) looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:45 AM
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OK, But when some express that same sentiment, the other group hits back with "not all...". I think what It is is hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:07 PM
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https://lolmeme.quora.com/Which-screenshot-deserves-453-2k-views-6 Who's coming to save you and would you survive? I wouldn't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:04 PM
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There's something wrong(and funny) about this comment, I just can't quite put my finger on it. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pu2aba/the\_8020\_rule\_vs\_mens\_age\_preferences/he16zxs/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:46 PM
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What? How's that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:10 PM
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Men need to realize that they’re just experiencing what we have. There you go again, shifting it(based on a blatant lie no less) won't change facts, "well men do it too" won't work when men don't do it in the first place and you giving a group of douchebags as an example isn't proof of anything, just that they're douchebags, most guys don't do shit like that unless it's for jokes or trying to make fun of people, it's never serious. Just concede and let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:01 PM
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It's worrisome because an old dying population comes with all the drawbacks of overpopulation and non of the advantages. All a population like that is consume for a few decades and then die off and it's not even going to solve the problems that come with overpopulation anyways because that population will be replaced by a more vigorous young one, now with all the resources left behind, leading to even more growth. It's to the benefit of everyone, especially to those of us who want to conserve wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:48 PM
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You didn't really disprove anything but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:37 PM
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, the best man a man can be to a woman depends on how physically attractive he is There's a thread in the Daily mega thread where women are talking about how they wouldn't be with a man who isn't physically attractive, so this isn't really far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:29 AM
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That's not how we think, JameisWrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:22 AM
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I think there's a misunderstanding here(and the men aren't making it any clearer either). It's about the effort or lack of it to men, men associate sex and love(and sometimes, not always even conflate the two) which to them means that if the women they're with at some point slept with a guy on their first date he's going to doubt the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:21 AM
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It is what it is man and also there's no one losing out with that chick, if she's shallow then that's some dude in the future who doesn't have to go through hell. Men out earn women on average and by median, meaning if you work hard enough as a man you'll most likely be beating off chicks like her tryna get to you, that only fans money runs out eventually lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:53 AM
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You didn't really read his response did you? I agree with him, men aren't that shallow, we are just more truthful with what we want, y'all killing yourselves to look perfect for guys out of your league isn't the "tables turning" it's just you pricing yourself out of the market, of course there'll always be idiots waiting in line to be a 5th choice but with all this red pill stuff going around(it's even reached my part of the world) you're not even going to get that. And no women aren't good at b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:40 AM
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Ok then let's agree that there is a difference, it doesn't mean it's wrong because as has been made clear a thousand times(even here) that dating is inherently discriminatory. I'm not saying there shouldn't be interracial relationships btw, just that it doesn't really matter if people discriminate based on colour as long as it's exclusive to dating, outside of that is where we have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:04 PM
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Same here, but I guess it could be the fact that I was and still am popular due to my academic prowess, which is something that's highly valued in my country, maybe they imagine I'd become a man of status lol. It's a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah but isn't dating a discriminatory process? Speaking from a purely objective POV, a woman who feels black men are ugly isn't very different from a woman rejecting a guy of her own race who's ugly. Unless this happens in other areas of life then I don't see a problem with it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:34 PM
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Iont like that feeling. Haha, nobody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:33 PM
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Here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:20 PM
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No it's OD lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:45 PM
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Q4 everyone How many times would you say you have been right and how long would it take for you to admit and concede when you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:17 PM
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Well maybe that's true but for some people it's really hard to get drunk you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:57 PM
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HVM here means Hot, it has nothing to do with what anyone can or cannot control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:11 PM
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They judge people based on immutable traits, if it weren't for being lucky to be born in the most resource rich lands in the world these people would be nowhere near as wealthy or as advanced they are, they are unevolved human beings who keep telling themselves that they are, that's if they're not denying reality, today is one of those rare days where they feel ok to tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:10 PM
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You should know non of those lot are admirable in the least. (talking about the whole HVM/LVM adherents)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:39 PM
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Be attractive, don't be unattractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:20 PM
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Well then they aren't "models" IMO bc as I understand models are supposed to be examples of ideal(healthy) human bodies not examples of "really close to death" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:09 PM
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Well if we get war and colonisation, we can see if those men really are losers(or if that's just your opinion) and if you can come out on top or not. I never said that you're a loser, you're the one making the claim, maybe it's you being self aware IDK. Either way lady, I'm done with this dumb argument, it seems you've never quite gotten wind of the fact that I was parodying(I mean c'mon "but women seem to not like it" was obvious sarcasm) and as all things I do I went overboard but now I'd like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:06 PM
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Of course, I have no interesting in those things, but my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:26 PM
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Regardless of your morals life is not egalitarian, so the government can and will(given the chance) fuck with your business, just the same as "weak and inferior males might as well die off". I never made a judgement btw, I just tried to point out that your morality(or anyone else's) has anything to do with what goes and what doesn't except if the person with the power to decide is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:53 PM
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The government's part of nature, everything is. The government making "unnatural" egalitarian policies is natural as the powerful(the government officials) use that power to influence what happens to it's subordinates, as you said life isn't an egalitarian design so logically that would mean the government(the strong) getting into your shit is exactly the same as men fighting in constant war, killing each other and taking women as prizes. As I said ethics have nothing to do with practicality, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:06 PM
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What's that lil person doing? I don't understand emojis, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:59 PM
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First thing I disagree with, men don't conflate affection with sex, most men just associate the two, big difference. Second thing, most men can make friends just as easily if not easier than women, the difference is that women are more concerned with keeping close-nit social network as that means better support but it doesn't mean men don't maintain friendships, we do we just don't call our friends every day when we are afar away from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:57 PM
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Most people are shallow, inc3ls just seem more shallow because they are upfront about it because of the way they talk, if you have gotten rejected based on immutable traits you'd do the same, doesn't mean they're more shallow than anyone else here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:52 PM
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Life is not an egalitarian design. There are better organisms and worse organisms. We just don't like to admit it. That doesn't sound very theoretical but what do I know. What's unethical and what's not has nothing to do with practicality, what works and what doesn't, does. All morality and ethics are theoretical they have no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:36 PM
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Well most men aren't as attracted to those women as they would the women I showed. As you said they are fashion models, means they have to be able fit into any piece of clothing, that's not very hot IMO. Men are attracted to women with healthy bodies not necessarily women with beautiful faces, women care more about faces, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:21 PM
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It's a show for swimwear. Either way when I see a model I'm not looking at her face unless it's literally the only part I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:54 PM
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All of them, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZS6KP48kQc. I saw this on MXR plays lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:38 PM
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You misunderstand, models aren't models because they "pencil thin bodies with no ass", they are models because they have perfectly shaped bodies(long legs, thick thighs and a great face to go with), it's not that they have small asses it's that their asses while not big are well shaped. An average to ugly woman doesn't have a perfectly balanced and shaped body that's why they aren't models, but it doesn't mean men don't value body over face they really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:30 PM
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Oh, my bad, badoink!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:17 PM
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I thought I deleted this comment, it was shithousery at best and I have to apologize for it. Also yes I don't really understand emojis lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:05 AM
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If you have to say "Technically" then I doubt it. I don't say I'm "technically" German just because I had a German grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:44 AM
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Speaking as a person who's never played COD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:39 AM
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I can't believe you're calling this unethical after you made this comment, https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pse9p3/daily\_community\_chat\_megathread/hdsagip/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:35 AM
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Also you know taller males out earn shorter ones on average? That has to do with the halo effect proving even more that we live in a bird like pecking order than a competitive hierarchy. There is also cucking just because a woman is with some dweeb with resources doesn’t mean all her children are his. Cucking was probably super common before civilization I mean how the hell would anyone know? Even more evidence against your original claim of males competing over females.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:25 AM
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Yeah but humans don't compete. Traditionally in the animal kingdom males compete by fighting to secure access to females meaning the strongest males get to mate, translated into human society that would mean the smartest and most successful males in resource procurement get access, but that's not what happens, women choose men based on immutable traits so it's more like peacocks than lions(where males actually compete)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:14 PM
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Weren't you the one who said "stop with the don't be unattractive/be attractive" comment? Why are y'all so inconsistent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:54 PM
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Males don't compete lol, only the most attractive males get chosen, I don't see where the competition is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:51 PM
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How is a guy supposed to answer "what will you do with that information"? I get it's a slight turn off to ask a girl if she's into you or not but that kind of already tells me she's not, am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:51 PM
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I'm doing a Bachelor's in Health and Wellness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:39 PM
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Well if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:21 PM
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Just world fallacy. Oh this is fun, I love it. Let's do one more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:33 PM
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They are also very quick to abandon it, so it kinda evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:31 PM
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One thing often overlooked in these discussions is the fact that men develop their understanding of female dating habits in their teens/early twenties. The fact that men's views are formed in their early 20's means that people overlooking that fact will end up making ignorant and uninformed assumptions about those men as a result, and will end up being on the wrong side of the argument. the shit said around here by young men is neither wrong nor toxic? Some are wrong and some aren't as for the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:24 PM
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LOL you think "genetically unfit" men will just accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:15 PM
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Yeah but before they had to live with constant violence because of angry male masses, which is why they created those controls in the first place. I advocate for war and colonisation so the "genetically unfit" males die out but women seem to not like it. I don't agree with MGTOW because A-It's weak, B-Where are you gonna go, because our generation was "born too late to explore the world and too early to explore space", so, where will you go where you're far away from the thing you're trying to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:11 PM
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I would prefer termination for both, I saw a woman with a deformed child who was about 8 years old and she looked so sad and tired but her motherly instinct didn't allow her to take the hard choice which was to let her child go when he doctors recommended the child be admitted to a special hospital for such individuals. I wouldn't want my partner to go through that when it's preventable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:03 PM
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You know you're neurotic when you stay awake for the whole night thinking of death because you dreamt of dying lol. I so want to get done with these exams and applications so I could go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:41 PM
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They come from the people trying to argue and/or dismiss the views of those young men as toxic and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:31 PM
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"It's your personality"(without knowing the person), "maybe you're autistic"(without knowing the person) and many more. Don't get me wrong I too make assumptions but I guard against making uninformed and unintelligent ones. There's a difference between dismissing something cause it's negative and unhealthy and dismissing something because it's wrong and many people can't tell the difference. I support the "no blackpill content rule" but I think it's stupid to make an OP about the exact opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:20 PM
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People making ignorant arguments for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:09 PM
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I agree, it's the same as those to "chad" looking dudes blaming it on women's hypergamy or their looks. But I don't think it's a lack of intelligence but rather a lack of experience and know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:55 PM
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If you've never done it then why the sarcasm? Sounded like you were defending shallow behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:30 PM
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Men looking for relationships are unattractive to women now? No, they are just unattractive, period. I don't know of an attractive man actively looking for a relationship, I mean it's in the word, "attractive" .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:23 PM
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S you weren't being sarcastic? My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:16 PM
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The world is unfortunately run by hypocrites, "hey you can't do whatever you want or be discontent with your shit lives, only I'm allowed"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:01 PM
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It's more than just "can't get some", obviously. Also if they succeeded(and didn't die) then it's earned and it's "better for our species" having the strongest males live and the weak ones dying what's wrong with that? I keep hearing women talk about "superior genetics" here all the time, what's more "superior" than getting rid of your competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:48 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:26 PM
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Hey, cold hard truth is that for a lot of guys, being a betabux is the best they can offer women 🤷🏼‍♂️. What OLD has done is revealed that there’s a huge population of men who’ll pretty much never be viscerally attractive to women beyond being “settled for” and that their only real shot. Can hardly blame them. Them being mad at gold diggers is actually them being mad at women not finding them attractive. I for one am not mad at women having equal rights as long as everyone is equal and get fair …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:47 AM
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There are a lot of attention seeking narcs on the internet, as miss PinkPill said maybe their usual sources dried up. Both these dudes are a thousand times better looking than I and I have received unsolicited sexual advances from at least two women, that's two more than I think I should get, so no there's absolutely no way both of those dudes are involuntarily celibate, they are most likely(about 90% chance) looking for complements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:44 AM
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Why don't you guys do that purge thing you always talk about so we can see if it's an actual thing(that happens) and not just one dude who was looking for attention. I mean I think I'm ugly(not black pill as I don't have the energy for that) so I'll be ok to share my pic, maybe I'm better looking than I see myself or worse haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:14 AM
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These girl are obviously pandering for monetary gain, like Chris Brown singing in his Rnb song "oh baby I swear I won't hit you" to his fans like he'll give any chick without a fat ass, small waist and pretty face the time of day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:26 AM
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This comment basically explains what I've been trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:10 AM
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Well the original comment got deleted so I'll try to explain it. It's about negative/positive feedback. Let's take two guys one good looking and one ugly/below average looking, the one who's going to receive the validation is most likely going to be the former, that validation will allow him to practice his social skills and over time he'll become more confident, that confidence will allow him to become more assertive and it goes on and on like that and logically the opposite happens to the latt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:05 AM
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Didn't someone make a post on "serial monogamy"? I'm not saying most women are having casual sex but I'm not discounting the 80/20 rule just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:34 AM
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I see this is sarcasm and let me tell you dude I don't go on youtube(where I have a photo of myself as my profile pic) or any other website(where I don't have a pic of my face as my profile pic) and go talk sexually about a complete stranger like a buffoon, being a simpleton isn't normal nor is it ok, you were being a simp commenting sexual stuff about a stranger on some video and you're being a simp defending the women who do the same haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:31 AM
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I think it's a problem in the US too, most of these inc3ls would be at least half as frustrated with their lives if they had other stuff to concentrate on but they clearly don't plus IMO those things would go a long way in helping them to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 07:08 AM
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I think there's one simple answer to this but it's quite black pill and it's gotten old at this point so I won't say, I will though give a hint: someone said it ITT but it's all the way down in the bottom 23(or so) comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:57 PM
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Speaking as a wholly introverted(introvert as in don't have the energy to be social but socially competent) from a very extroverted culture, I think people misunderstand what introversion and extroversion are, introversion only means that a person most of the time prefers to be alone. I'll use an example for why introversion doesn't mean I lack assertiveness, nor any of those masculine traits women like, example, it was my 2nd year in college and I had always sat in the back of the class, like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:46 PM
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I don't think they are, I think unattractive men are more likely to be introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:26 PM
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Lack of opportunities in proper education and therefore lack of skills capital to create wealth, which causes other obvious problems down the line. Obviously I could've used a better term but you get what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:22 PM
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why arent the married fathers who countrol the US going to just crush you with their military? Me, what about me? I'm speaking hypothetically, please re-read my original comment. Also if the threat is there and keeps growing well then those "fathers" can try but will eventually lose as it's basically fighting against a growing adversary. what "issues" are you discussing I'm talking about disenfranchisement of young men and also if they do want other things to change well they better fight for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:35 PM
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Obviously not all men would care, they don't have those issues so why would they? This is exactly why I ask what other way is there but violence? How many actual "Chads" or "HVM" do you see in Rp/blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:37 PM
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I dunno, we just do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:29 PM
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Normal everyday people aren't disgusting in that they don't do minimal self care(showers, wearing clean clothes etc) but they aren't actually superficial so they don't go overboard. I'd understand keeping yourself clean and well groomed(that's a requirement for everyone who wants a life) but to go any further is unnecessary. I don't know where this culture of superficiality came from, like my older brothers got lots of chicks and all they did was shower, wear clean clothes and then go out. Serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:26 PM
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Tl;dr please?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:13 PM
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No. But activism achieves it's goal by influencing legislation, if no one cares to hear what you're saying how will you achieve it? The way I see it there are two ways, the peaceful activism route and the forceful aggressive one, if the first one doesn't work then you're left with only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:08 PM
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just disengage and ignore it as much as possible. Young men should find a young likeminded wife. Move away from the cities. Create a family. Involve yourself in the local community. Go into internal exile. I disagree with disengaging. There's no point in avoiding it, even those young women would want the men to fight because A-Cities are where the life is and those women are moving to cities in droves, so it makes no sense for them to go back to a place they left in the first place and B-Those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:49 AM
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I get where you're coming from, but this isn't the place to debate in a logical, nonsense free setting, you were never going to get genuine arguments because even if it wasn't your intention, it hugely objectifies women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:42 AM
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I'd guess more opportunities to build wealth, it won't get these men exactly what they want but it's a start, without some money you can't go to the gym(presuming that a man can increase his attractiveness), get a therapist or even attract a woman who isn't a shallow slut, who's looking to build a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:40 AM
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What other ways are there for disenfranchised men to "fight"? I always see user u/TakethePinkPill talking about how men here never come up with a genuine argument on male issues and asking for alternatives to feminism. I responded to her with what I think is a good argument but she never responds, so I'm curious, what other way(other than starting a militia) is there for young disenfranchised males to get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:22 AM
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C'mon dude, how do you not see the stupidity and futility in this post? All you're asking for is women to come here to call you an Inc3l, because you keep objectifying them, you're not going to get any good faith arguments(or logical ones) on a bad faith OP. Plus everyone knows they'd just fuck "Chad" more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:10 AM
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Are you arguing for men(men in this case being disenfranchised men) to pick up arms? Because that's literally the only way to "fight" you know, ain't no one gonna listen to depressed sexless young men(no one giving a shit is literally why they're in that situation in the first place), no one gives a shit whether we meet our potential or not. If that's the case I agree with you, I'd like to see change as well and the thought of death being so close is one of the most thrilling things, lol that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:01 AM
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This is an atrocious post... on literally every level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:28 AM
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Yeah nah I think they rate everybody that way, even their own "brethren" aren't safe. Check out PhilippaRead's(who is a self proclaimed incel) post there, that dude is easily a 7 at the least but they gave him a 5.5 lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:26 PM
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Is he physically attractive? If so the differentiating factor here would be personality, because all women prefer physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:32 PM
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I think what they're trying to say is women only have one physical type but a diverse set of personality types. One woman might like nerdy guys and another one might be into MMA but both of them prefer the guy look like prime Chris Evans, is basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:19 PM
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This seems like a lot of effort for very little pay off. What're you tryna prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:17 PM
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You're not really talking about a diversity of looks, your actually talking about diversity of personality, which is pretty normal as human beings don't have a hive mind, so that's not really an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:12 PM
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An exception is what that is, the vast majority of men aren't like that. I'm not gonna lie, I've attracted girls I believe were out of my league but that's just it, they came to me and showed interest I never chased them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:18 PM
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You just did what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:07 PM
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YOU are reducing it all to objective looks. Yes I am and so are you because we aren't talking about what factors play a part in maintaining that sexual attraction but about what creates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:37 PM
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Oh I misread that, I thought you were saying if it happened in the past. If it's someone I'm legit serious with then It wouldn't be OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:27 PM
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I know that's not what you said but you keep going in circles, here Sexual arousal is raw and primal and pretty predictable If it's predictable and non of those are things are factors, then you are reducing it to looks because what else is there? If intelligence is out then personality is as well. So, what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:09 PM
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I wouldn't care, just as I wouldn't care if it was a dude as long as I hit it and/or we like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:04 PM
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You agreed with their ideology of course they'll agree lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:54 PM
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So it just happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:44 PM
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enhance your looks, you aren’t socially incompetent, you come off as asexual and don’t flirt All of these things would in the context of what you're saying about sexual attraction make zero difference because as you have reduced it to looks you disregarded any possibility of any of them mattering. Social incompetence won't take away raw sexual attraction born out of looks as it's the looks and not the person inside, you won't need to flirt as you are hot and you can't change your face without ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:30 PM
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What's the difference then cause to me they sound the same because it seems you're reducing to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:12 PM
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This actually disagrees with what many women here have said, I thought you disagreed with black pill, what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:54 PM
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He should seriously talk to his friend and the girl and if it so happens that she slept with his friend then he should break it off. Love is highly irrational and girls in love are even more so and unless his buddy is lying and he's never tried to escalate(sometimes bc of past experiences a girl will be wary but she'll still show it if she wants you) there's no way that girl actually wants him, it's very likely she's trying to convince herself which isn't a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:38 PM
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I don't want to say exactly where I'm from but I'll say my home town was the easiest for serious relationships and the capital was easiest for hookups, mostly with HS seniors and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:05 PM
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I don't mind cleaning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:57 PM
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I also heat up the milk beforehand but I do it in a glass then add it to the bowl of cereal. Also if you pour milk on cereal it might splash Only if you pour it carelessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:36 AM
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Ok but it's so funny though, I've only seen my female friend do this, but apparently she isn't the only one who does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:34 AM
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What kind of weirdo must you be to pour milk before the cereal, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:11 AM
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Correction: He's chasing a Filipino gold digger, he should be glad that she's out of his league. Worst case scenario is he actually has some money and meets her, he'll end up like that drug dealer dude I saw on TLC(you gotta love Americans lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:45 PM
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They're ok, if it's allowed to go the other way. I got called an asshole when a girl confessed her feelings for me and I literally just looked at her then walked away without saying a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:08 PM
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I'll repeat the question already asked here, why does this irk you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:49 PM
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If it pisses you off that women chase Chad, I’m allowed to be irked when men chase Stacy. If average women chase men out of their league and not give the men in their league a chance then what's wrong with guys saying fuck it and trying their luck(even if it's pointless)with hotter chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:49 PM
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Yeah I don't get why that is. I absolutely hate photos but love taking videos of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:43 PM
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Does Tinder allow you to upload a short video(or gif) of yourself for your profile? If it does then most men should try that, I think I'm ten times better looking in a video as opposed to a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:52 PM
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Haha, maybe they're not seeing those as "standards" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:33 PM
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Or it's a sign that you might feel alone around people who also might not even like having you around. There isn't always a single explanation for everything you know. Also I never said anything about women giving therapy, If you can't think beyond your quite obvious sexism that you can't fathom why men get lonely if they can't get into intimate relationships then this argument is pointless. It should be harder for me to understand than for you to, as I don't get as lonely and don't crave intima…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:02 PM
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No I mean the thing you have to go through once you turn 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:54 PM
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I do have low standards, I'm not lying Anna.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:47 PM
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That sucks, I grew up in an Evangelical family but I haven't gone to church since my confirmation(I think that's the term, I speak Afrikaans and I'm not sure if it's the correct English term) eight years ago lol. My mom recorded us after my confirmation where I said "I did it so you can get off my back" and I don't remember saying it haha and she still can't leave me alone with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:43 PM
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Is it unjustified or wrong in that case? I think women themselves would hate men if that happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:32 PM
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You do know someone can be lonely around people? Also having friends is an easy way for a guy in that situation to see what he's missing out. Jesus it's not hard to show some empathy for once. This is why I believe in Stoicism, it's better to see your loneliness as solitude rather than loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:28 PM
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This why anyone who tries to debate with you is wasting their time, y'all like to turn it into a "women vs men" thing. "I have been to a therapist and they said straightforward "don't know how to help you", no one cares and no, it's not about me refusing to cooperate it's about people not caring enough to understand. That therapist only said that after I(after taking medication on a consistent basis and getting to a better place mentally) clearly explained" I read that on Quora, it was a 19 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:24 PM
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Is that why you go to the church?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:57 PM
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I'm also curious. I think this dude's lurking in some qAnon forum or something, like this isn't something normal people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:00 PM
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makes me think that theres a particular type of woman you must be interested in And what type of woman is that? Women don't "date down", all the "one partner hot and the other not" couples I've seen were with a very good looking man and a not so good looking woman, never the other way round. This is another false narrative I hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:56 AM
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And as a male I find it embarrassing that that's what you hear. I've never heard any of that from any guy(neither black pill or red pill), sure they might speak in an unsanitary manner and their anger and insecurity might show("Chad" this, "Chad" that, "Yeah but you'd suck "Chad's dick for nothing" and "women are shallow cause they only care about looks") but I have never heard any of that, granted I'm only on PPD and these are the guys I see. Also you can use your head for once my guy, you do k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:48 AM
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So you're saying he should just get used to not getting anywhere in his dating life then? Improvement is improvement, he just needs one woman to find him attractive enough to be with him and if him improving his looks does that versus him not getting any without doing so, then his improving his looks was a good thing overall better than doing nothing, which is the point. Something is better than nothing is what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:40 AM
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Noone is saying attraction isn’t important, its just not as important as you’re making it seem. But it is, you're assuming that the looks/attractiveness threshold has already been reached, after that of course everything else would matter but that's not what we're talking about, we're talking about the men who haven't passed that threshold hence why cosmetic surgeries should be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:10 AM
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I don't think black pillers hate women, they hate being ugly. They jus take it out on women(and some men) which is a normal thing that everybody does tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:09 AM
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70% face and 30% body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:06 AM
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I think some of it should be encouraged, heavily intrusive surgeries should be discouraged except for individuals with deformities and such. It would be better overall if it's encouraged and not viewed with disdain, plus more men going into it will provide more revenue and thus the industry will improve, better and new techniques will be invented faster, so it's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:04 AM
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again looks are not the most important attribute in a person imo But they are. I'm not trying to discount your opinion but we're talking hypothetically, so given the actual irl choice between a rich average guy and a middle class hot guy, most women(realistically about 90%) would pick the hot guy, why because they wouldn't like to end up regretting their choice. The potential of regret is high because chances are(99% likelihood) she'd be sexually attracted to the latter not the former. The reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:55 AM
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Where's that study someone showed where it's only 20% of college students who have casual sex? women often engage in short-term mating in the pursuit of long-term mate acquisition goals.” And in that study there was a quote(which is literally the only part of the study I remember): "Only 20 percent of the guys are attractive enough and 10% of them already have gfs so all the girls are basically competing over 10% of the guys", this might explain why there's so much casual sex going on even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:44 AM
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Exactly. Everyone knows pastors are the biggest perverts, they're just very good at hiding it, I mean they can't make money if they don't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:35 AM
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Yet he’s pious, and probably ignores the primal urges He is most likely faking, there are very few actual saints in the world and having grown up in a very religious part of the world I've found that religious people are very hypocritical, even my mom who's one of my biggest idols(who is actually one of the very few who live up to what the bible says) has had moments where she faltered. Genuinely religious people are very few and far between and those are the people who tend to get married very …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:30 AM
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This must be why feminists believe in restricting men, y'all think this is a zero sum game, huh? All this historical revisionism has got to stop, men didn't restrict women, nature did and the rules that resulted from the pressures brought by it caused those restrictions on women. If you want to live in a place reminiscent of what the world was 300 years ago then please be my guest, come to Africa(not the relatively wealthier part(Southern Africa) of course), then come back to me and tell me if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:49 PM
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Well that was a joke on what someone else said. On a serious note, I don't date with purpose, I'll vet but that's as far as I'll go as I don't have as many standards above be cute and cool basically. Oh that and she must not be a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:07 PM
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Nothing, except for your pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:37 PM
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I saw this topic on Quora and I found it really interesting so thought I'd bring it here. Would the Southern states of America really turn fundamentalist if they seceded? Would the northern states be better off because of it? What would the world be like if this happened? Let's have fun with some speculation, give me your thoughts and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:44 AM
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These people really don't know wtf they're talking about, do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:36 AM
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only a few men are supposed to be having sex And that's where the problem ultimately lies. This justifies literally everything in the book, even war and genocide because to mother nature there is no such thing as morality or fair competition, there's just competition. Would you seriously want to live in a world where men actually compete, no holds barred?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:32 AM
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The thing is that most(if not all) of them can only satisfy their urges in a monogamous relationship, by as they say being a "beta-bucks"(even though they may sound like they don't like it, they actually don't like the fact that women get to have their cake and eat it too)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:27 AM
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A few things have started to make sense after reading this lol. But I don't approach literally everybody, I just approach the girls I know have eyes on me, they might be one or two or even three at a time and I'll have fun with all of them, doesn't mean I'm a slut, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:23 AM
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Wouldn't it be pre-selection(or pre-rejection in this case) if those women rejected him as well? Also I don't approach everyone, I just keep my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:17 AM
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That's what you said, I just agreed with you out of laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:26 PM
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By the same token I should feel like a literal tool lmao. You know how much it sucks having to maintain this "big man on campus" bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:25 PM
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majority of modern men fail traditional husband requirements/aren't suitable just as much as women fail wife ones. People fail to meet those requirements because there's no incentive. Physically attractive men get NSA sex(primary incentive for men with regard to male-female relationships) very often and the less attractive men either eventually settle, pay for prostitutes or just end up alone so there's no motivation for them either. Same goes with women, those men that get NSA sex don't care if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:13 PM
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just comes off as desperate I'd argue the opposite shows desperation. it doesn't mean anything if he shows interest in you. But interest can grow or even die, which is why we broaden our pool of potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:58 PM
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Now you're the one with the strawmen, I've never heard an Inc3l blame anything other than their looks. The men you're talking about are the MGTOW bunch. Also wouldn't blaming all those things undermine their whole narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:48 PM
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We all have that one friend don't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:42 PM
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Well I thought "black-pill" had only to do with dating, not life as a whole? Even nihilists know how pointless and stupid it is, so it would be quite stupid if these guys took they're struggles in dating as an excuse to not do anything in life. I’m not religious but grew up that way and in a community that supported one another and had a “count it all joy” philosophy. This is it, these people are devoid of these things, all of which are extremely important to individuals' wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:32 PM
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One woman said something that vexes me tbh. "I don't like a man who approaches every woman", why not, though? I can only speak for myself, I don't approach strangers and the only prior strangers I've gotten with were the ones who made the move not me, but as I tend to attract women after having known them for a while, I tend to get more than one girl at a time, what's wrong with that? They're doing the same, I'm not under illusion that I'm the only guy lol, so what's wrong if a guy does it as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:28 PM
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Your username suggests you guilty of the same lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:21 PM
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I think most average looking women have more options for sex and perhaps even unfulfilling relationships but obviously the goal is a GOOD partner so it’s meaningless. I'm on Quora and I frequently see questions from young women along the lines of "I don't get attention from hot guys, does that mean I'm ugly". Attention is attention and when someone says "women receive lots of attention" they are talking about the attention, if she somehow believes she's out of the leagues of these average men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:11 PM
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some women carry themselves in a more approachable way so even if they're average in looks they get a lot more attention and interest. Which answers the question? Just cause some women with a resting bitch face(no offense to you) doesn't mean the average woman doesn't have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:02 PM
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Well obviously that's true but haven't you been paying attention to what's being said?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:38 PM
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Nobody: Me: Speaking of weird usernames, I''ve always wondered what Flapperfemmefatale means(if I spelled that right)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:36 PM
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Work is a place for... well work, women here are always saying that. Plus wouldn't the same go for places of study as well? In a social situation he's describing the point is to socialise and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:32 PM
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study and work together. Where it's inappropriate to approach people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:15 AM
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Oh Is it? Have you used it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:44 AM
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Hey u/ChibsFilipTelfordd I got bored so I re-downloaded tinder and got a match in one day, how about that! I was gonna ask for tips on how to maintain that but now Tinder is saying the only way I'll see my matches is if I upgrade to gold lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:02 AM
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Neither, young women can get what they want and young men don't really care about that, they are very laid back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:53 AM
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Because women care about looks, simple as that. The urge for sex and relationships is there and even though a guy might be very masculine and self assured to not care what others think of him as much it still doesn't mean he won't care if he's ugly, he will care. I think I'm a catch(to an extent) but I'm not going to approach a woman who I'm not already 100% sure has interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:44 AM
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It's not the job part, it's the pulling your own weight part which makes a respectable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:15 AM
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A strong co-dependant society is hinged on individual sacrifice, so no, that won't be happening any time soon. Even here in my 3rd world country these structures are being removed and people are becoming dumber, shallower and more selfish, I think the fair thing to do is those individuals with the sense to see all these problems(and their solutions) should instead come together in some way and build a society for themselves and use the idiocracy outside as an example for their children. You can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:57 PM
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Cherries on top not dealbreakers. It would sound dumb if I said "well my gf doesn't have big boobs but she's beautiful and does beautiful girl stuff all the time" wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:47 PM
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I honestly don't care about this and I don't think OP does either. I honestly don't even believe that we should because these are problems that no one wants to fix, not even the "victims" themselves because we live in a neo-liberal order where choice rules above all else, even common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:36 PM
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I think I'm decent looks wise but there's no way I could compete with 27 year old me. By then I would have built up my body doing at least eight years of physical work in and out of the gym(plus looking at my male family members, they tend to look better as they've gotten older), with a high paying job and tons of interesting stories to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:10 PM
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Those guys took advantage of their looks, they do basically what dumb hot women do, so they're not respectable people, especially when they're men so it has nothing to do with sexism and who serves who, it's about weak and shallow individuals. Not hating though, in fact I'm quite jealous lol, It would be awesome if I could get a sugar mommy so I don't have to take up student loans in order to finish my degree. But alas I'm not a 6 foot tall Adonis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:53 PM
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Of course not, that sounds like a doormat, not a person. If the woman I'm with decides she wants to be a SAHM then I'll support her and honestly it's the only way I'll have a SAHS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:24 PM
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I think this is what's happening. My cousins' daughter who's in HS just got home and we tried a video call with her phone(I don't have a smartphone) and he used the cup(I gave him a cup of fruit juice) to cover his face( trying to make it look like he's drinking).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:29 PM
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He already knows about it and spoke through the phone when we called his mother when he was still with them which is why it find it so strange, he's a very friendly boy and very smart too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:11 PM
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Well they are both(the parents) working long hours and it's just how our culture is. I also spent long periods of time away from my mom when I was younger and the whole family takes part in raising a child, they'll also help me with my children if I ever father any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:43 AM
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Just now yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:15 AM
1

He's 2 years old now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:49 AM
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My sister left her son with us to wean. He has been with us for a while now and when he was left he didn't even cry and now, every time she calls to talk to him he doesn't respond, like at all, it's so strange. Asking the mothers here, is this normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:20 AM
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I'd say "Oh well" and forget about her, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:17 AM
3

The "ai papi"("oh daddy" for the English audience) thing and the pussy slapping were out of the ordinary to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:02 PM
1

I'm with Demi Lovato here chicks should "hoe it up" to their hearts content. No seriously though, most of the slut shaming comes from women not men and since we(men) are the ones benefitting from the no strings attached sex, I don't get why we're questioning people like Demi. This isn't sarcasm btw, I'm being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:17 PM
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I'll bite. To answer your question, there is no alternative for Feminism, there's no other organisation or what have you that focuses on female interests. Women have been in the work force for a while now(even in my "3rd world country, who's basis for independence was egalitarianism) and have had opportunities, privileges(sometimes over men, and I'm not talking about "muH Dickh", I'm talking about opportunities and privileges that shape people's lives) and power. Of course many from the anti-fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:01 PM
5

Oh god I hate that one, it's so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:41 PM
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Egalitarian=50/50. Feminism while a good thing is exclusively based on female interests, female interests that include polygamy(inadvertently of course, women don't get into polygynous relationships with "high value" men on purpose, they have to rationalize it first) which ends up getting extremely far away from 50/50. Believe it or not, like it or not, egalitarianism while not perfect is the best we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:04 PM
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I completely agree. I don't get the fuss people make about male spaces, when there are many equivalents with men and boys being excluded. There are a lot unspoken rules we have to adhere to as men in mixed gendered social situations that quite frankly blurs the line between who we are really and who we are "supposed" to be. I think a lot of progress will be made and a lot of problems solved if men can have male exclusive spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:58 PM
2

Doesn't that make those people hypocrites?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:53 PM
1

Then you don't need to use high/value as that's pointless and vague when you can easily use good looking/non good looking. Love isn't unconditional and that's where you were going when you said "Guys gotta get over the straight forward caveman mindset of women only like men because they provide." where you insinuate that it is unconditional where it's clearly conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:52 PM
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What's wrong with male only spaces? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBhpdXvkoIE
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:29 PM
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Well why don't they just say that? Low/high value is very vague, unless you clarify what makes value, it's pointless to use those terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:27 PM
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Guys gotta get over the straight forward caveman mindset of women only like men because they provide. People get together with people with something to offer, both men and women do this. Looks are something someone can offer you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:25 PM
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I think it's different from person to person. I've had a few instances where a strange woman gave me very "sexual" looks, I always assume courtesy from women because most women don't find me attractive but I'll know when a woman thinks I'm hot lol. Also, unlike men(except for socially inept individuals) women don't know how to hide desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:16 PM
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low value/high value is such a dumb concept. If high value is "what women want" then doesn't that eliminate most men? Women can work, thus don't need a man, have wide emotional support networks, so going by what the vast majority of the human population is, generic, average intelligence and average to below average in almost every category, then I don't think the vast majority of men have that much power when it comes to relationships. I can count the number of times I saw a guy and thought "man…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:11 PM
3

Yeah, they both look like the female/male version of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:41 PM
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Here's mine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:32 PM
2

A Jaguar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:19 PM
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That's just hyperbole. There are very many privileges people call "needs", it's just easier to call it a need(as "it's a very strong want" sounds like a tongue full to say), most people with a brain will know it's not actually something you can't survive without like food or water.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:20 AM
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Haha, sorry for the confusion. That'd be a weird thing to say as I'm also black lol. A guy with his looks can get any girl from almost every background.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:16 AM
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He's the most swiped on man because of his looks, not because of how well he took his photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:41 PM
11

Dude c'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:34 AM
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Yeah, no. This OP would make sense if the dude wasn't, A-Looks like an Rnb singer from the early 2000s, B-Isn't living in a predominantly African American part of the US and C-Looks like an Rnb singer from the early 2000s. I'm pretty sure Salma Hayek would also get swiped on by literally everyone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:21 AM
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The guy can't talk to women, he shouldn't be on tinder. Like seriously that's how I talk to women I'm not interested in, there was zero reciprocity on his part and he got mad when the conversation died, accusing her of not being interested when she could've said the same thing about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:25 AM
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I got my height from the hospital, it's not self reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:29 PM
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I should've clarified, it said bottom 17th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:10 PM
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I don't get it, from what I saw many men(myself included) had below average heights, mine said 17th percentile, maybe I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:25 PM
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I was talking about American football.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:55 PM
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I don't get the hate it receives from non Americans(maybe it's the number of breaks), it's a fun game. Some American college students visited our HS on like a volunteer kind of thing(I don't remember what exactly it was 6 yrs ago) and they taught us to play, it was awesome, kind of like Rugby but with more tactics and better pace. Though I might be overstating how fun it was cause I scored 3 touchdowns lol. I don't follow it as much anymore but It's kind of cool to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:52 PM
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Pretty much, yes. The only people making it a priority are those who think they are going to lose out, people with a scarcity mindset. Desirable women aren't going to be focused on dating as a priority, they only start prioritising once they find a person they want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:41 PM
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I was arguing with the person who claimed that women can only fall in love with physically attractive men, and so by her logic the reason you might think this way is cause you're not "hot", not that you actually do have that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:37 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:50 AM
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Oh the irony of your response lol. Do you think your attitude attractive to women? Yes, I guess the more than 10 chicks(my actual number is too disgustingly high to name) I've smashed by now(age 22) didn't care about my misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:05 AM
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You're making stuff up to justify not being attracted to a purely hypothetical person in order to not appear superficial and shallow when you can just say "I choose Brad cause he has a beautiful face". Nice try with the obvious attempt at shaming me, you do know pointing out your stupidity and shallowness doesn't make me a misogynist right? That would be like me calling my mother a misandrist when she calls me lazy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:30 AM
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M22, 17th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:23 AM
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The most cited deal breaker(for guy #1) was the "facial unattractiveness", not the autism or lack of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:09 AM
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"Hotter" as in more attractive to woman, not necessarily better looking. Have you not seen that whole other thread(the one about those two dudes)... and some of your own comments on there? My money's on "better looking", miss, no man will see this forum and still trust any woman to not be superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:46 AM
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if you had made the first guy the smarter one, you would have swayed some people. I don't think so, people are very shallow. If you read through the thread you'll see the most cited dealbreaker is the facial unattractiveness, not the potential mental illness or lack of intelligence. If the women of this sub are anywhere close to representative of women as a whole then our species is facing a bleak future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:39 AM
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Literally 98% of them haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:34 AM
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His mindset is that way cause he isn't that guy lol. He isn't hot enough to get a woman to legit be crazy for him. What you've basically done is project yourself onto him, you haven't actually answered his question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:27 AM
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True but if you tried(rather than just going with the flow) you'll be increasing your chances of finding the opposite of what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:22 AM
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From the OP This is of course hypothetical, speculative, and absent of the nuance you'd get in a real life scenario. It sounds like you're trying to find excuses and manufacture the debate to your liking to justify and rationalize something you know is what the OP is trying to prove with this post in the first place. Next time anyone says "women are shallow beings" don't disagree and argue, just move along cause you'll end up arguing for the person making that claim rather than against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:17 AM
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I think that's fair cause hate makes more hate at the end of the day, you can't treat people unfairly(which is where that hate comes from, it isn't something people are born with) and expect them to not become negative at the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:06 AM
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There's no "how to" on this... fortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:55 AM
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You can't be serious. I'm no "piller" but even I know that's an extreme outlier. Outliers most of the time can't be explained hence why they are referred to as such, inexplicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:48 AM
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You clearly misunderstood the post. The point isn't natural vs non natural, it's about work and merit vs genetic luck, it's a subtle yet smart way of baiting women into confirming what everyone already knows but deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:40 AM
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Thus proving the most obvious "gotcha" post in reddit history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:37 AM
2

Football or American football? Are they decent and who are they up against?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:32 PM
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a lot of them fantasize about being with Stacy and just settle because they’re lonely. Is this some attempt at teaching men here a lesson about them not understanding how women think by turning it around on them? If so then Ok I get it, but if this is a legit statement then please stop projecting... my eyes are hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:20 PM
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That's called Gigantism, so no thank you. I'll take the Leo Messi pill if you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:08 PM
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Men don't aim for women above their leagues, they aim for the women they can, depending on how confident they are. This is just female projection. The weird shmuck doesn't get the girl, believe me. I'm a weird shmuck that could've done that but my lack of confidence and whole lot of suspicion from-"She's just being nice" to "Why is she asking me out?" to "she's just trying to humiliate me in front of everyone" to "No I am not interested in you Simone, so just leave me alone" to me dying inside w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:05 PM
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Giggs and Robinho have been convicted I think, oh and Ben Mendy of Man city this year too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:48 PM
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I'm not from any of those countries but I wouldn't say it's a far cry tbh. Many of the stuff spoken here is very relevant in Southern Africa, cucks, chads, 80/20(to an extent), lookisms all that is very present here, in fact I would say there isn't as much virtue signalling going on here, people are much more real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:34 PM
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I was joking, I do know y'all aren't inclusive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:31 PM
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WTF is it with Footballers and sexual assault? It's so many of them who've either been accused or convicted, CR7, Robinho, Giggs, Rooney lmao, these are all guys who can get any woman they want so what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:06 PM
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Well then y'all aren't as "inclusive" as you brag about being are you, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:00 PM
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I'm 5w6, I don't know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:56 PM
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The people who have low expectations are more likely to have been at the end of unfair and unfriendly treatment by others, obviously. Ironically you're also guilty of the very thing you accuse others of being, in the exact line statement where you're accusing them. Most people aren't decent human beings, they're just ordinary, not bad but not too good either, so yes, most people are guilty of virtue signalling and that doesn't make anyone an asshole for pointing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:29 PM
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Funny cause the Americans I've met are far more decent people in the way they behave and interact with people than Europeans, I think it's just Euro circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:24 PM
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Agreed but it's kind of funny the fact that you say those are "dating apps" when most people on there(women included) are clearly there for hookups(you don't talk about thick thighs and show pics of your ass if you're not there to find FWB's and hookups).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:30 AM
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Cringetopia is filled with masochists innit, how on Earth are you able to watch something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:32 AM
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I have a big ego, an ego that was built by getting attention from chicks way above my league so spending 30 mins swiping right on average looking girls and not getting a match means I'll delete the app just 5 hours after downloading it, which is what I did lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:28 AM
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It doesn't explain why they are 600% more likely the the next breed to bite and bite until death. Temperament explains it. Those dogs are supposed to bite, they are guard dogs after all. You can't have a dog in an inappropriate environment and not expect anything to go wrong, that's stupid. I expect Pitbulls in the walled suburbs Johannesburg SA(in the yard protecting the people and property inside the house), not in some Rich neighbourhood in San Jose California.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:51 AM
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I didn't know vasectomies were reversible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:19 AM
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They say that because in 99% of the cases it is the way they're raised, there are always exceptions because animals are also individuals, they have individual temperaments etc, so it's not going to be 100% fool proof, no breed of intelligent, fearless and strong animal(dog) is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:42 AM
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I wasn't talking about the 70% of men, I was talking about the tiny percentage of men who aren't getting any, the tiny percentage of men the kind lady specifically talked about complaining. Also 25% don't beat 30 percent what are you talking about 😂 quick maths haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:29 PM
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I probably should have made it clear that I don't dispute that as I knew you were going to counter with that lol. My point has more to do with the comparison not the fact that women should value sex as sex. Also I don't understand this though, maybe you can clear it up for me. A few women on here have said that a woman's orgasm is achievable depending on a man's skills but judging from women complaining about the lack of quality I doubt that it has anything to do with orgasms and more to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:25 PM
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Not everyone's fit enough to be a Tibetan monk so saying that relationships and sex aren't everything in life and that people shouldn't get depressed when deprived of those things is foolish and quite insensitive. And second more relevant topic, abortion. IMO the abortion thing is more about "who's law will be law of the land" than "is abortion wrong or right" which is why I believe that instead of more conflict and thus more complication all pro-abortion individuals just leave Texas and pro-lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:16 PM
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One can't get sex at all(merit or anything of tangible and practical value is irrelevant) and the other gets it but complains about the quality. Not saying that those men should be allowed to or that women shouldn't be but to compare the two is just straight up ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:56 PM
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I'm not RP but I think it's because it's a universal indicator of low inhibition and low inhibition in a woman means she's most likely slutty, you can't be having kids with sluts, maybe if you're the absolute peak of good looks you can but if you don't, you're most likely gonna get cucked and that's the best case scenario, because worst case if you're gonna father any children they're gonna get fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:19 PM
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Disagree with one and two, agree with three but only the first part not the second part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:13 PM
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Heifer is the most dangerously accurate term you could've used lmao😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:15 PM
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True, but many don't know about nor believe in it. Low class women are literally the reason many first world countries have at least a 1.8 fertility rate and not 0.2 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:56 PM
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No, it's being hot=more likely to get laid. People really overestimate how much of a role inhibition plays lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:51 PM
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It's cause they can afford it, duh. Most women can't even afford(nor even know about) proper contraception in the first place, it would be foolish to expect them to have abortions, also the poorer a woman is(at least in my part of the world) the more religious she is(seriously some of the most conservative right wing comments I've heard have come from women, not men)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:47 PM
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I second this. I'm not going anywhere near a feminist, not even as a conquest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:42 PM
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Her NVX dodged a an NV bullet himself I'll tell you that, God, what a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:40 PM
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Jesus Christ! And I thought Incels were toxic lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:38 PM
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The less hot they look the less likely I am to be attracted. Sexual attraction and boners aren't always the same for me as when I'm horny any women with curves will turn me on but I won't be truly attracted, but when I'm not, even a supermodel won't turn me on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:15 PM
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I disagree to an extent, there are only a very few members of the species who have bodies that are that ideal. Most women don't have ideal enough bodies, wide hips, perfectly shaped ass, boobs, waist to hip ratio etc. There is always something that's a bit off if you look at it long enough. Unless you're talking about a 12 year old boy, a naked woman isn't automatically sexual. (Btw I'm only talking from a man's POV because I'm a man)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:52 PM
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No, it's only sexual when you make it sexual. You could put the hottest woman naked in front of me, I'm not going to get an erection unless I haven't came in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:47 PM
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Saying "I'm an average guy" isn't the same as saying "I'm an average looking guy", I think it's a pretty simple concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:36 AM
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This is such a dumb take, sigh. LMAO like do you really think this forum, or even most of reddit would exist if all ugly people believed they were beautiful? Bro, like there are thousands of people going through depression right now and their reason for it is cause they're ugly or believe so. WTF is it with this elitist bullshit on PPD nowadays, beautiful people are kind angels who don't know how kind and beautiful they are and ugly people are delusional idiots who believe they're kind and beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:26 AM
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Do you not understand what the word "Average" means? People here always complain about how black pillers don't get nuance when they themselves don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:14 AM
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Scientists at the Stanford University School of Medicine have linked high testosterone levels in men to a poor immune response to an influenza vaccine. Wouldn't those males just die before reaching sexual maturity? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1119278/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:20 AM
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They are fundamentally self-interested and largely amoral creatures This isn't a gendered thing you know. I could(and would) say the same about many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:13 AM
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I wasn't talking about job interviews in that context, I was saying you don't need to do all of those "normal" things just cause you want to be normal because you're not normal and trying to be will only bring more negativity. I think you should face these issues head on, not run away, learn to deal with them. It's said that the most precious diamonds are formed under the harshest of conditions, I believe that analogy holds true, granted I'm not saying you have to suffer your whole life, just un…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 11:33 PM
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I don't think libido suppression is cool because not having sex does not make you less of a man, you do that on your own. I myself deal with these narratives inside my head by engaging them(not everyday though, just sometimes), I remind myself that there isn't much to care about, which is a really freeing thought. Otherwise just be you, don't try and be normal(that sucks, believe me), you won't fail a job interview, buying a car or paying rent if you aren't.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 10:52 PM
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If advice from mom(literally the only person in the entire world with enough incentive to help you) is bad, then advice from any woman will be worse, that's just logic. The best thing for any guy to do is just to try, try for as long as you like and if you failed you failed, there's zero shame in it, because there's always other ways you can get some satisfaction in life. Dating advice genuinely is never good, it only works if you're somewhat good looking(at which point, advice is not necessary …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:26 PM
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Haha, like who tries to commit a massacre with a knife?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:04 PM
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She really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:58 PM
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Nothing about being ugly and having a bad personality is mutually exclusive. Very true, but it seems like you forgot what you said in the first line. do you think we should normalize telling people their poor looks are the reason they are being rejected? It's already normal, it might not be straightforward but ugly dudes know why they're single. Will that make low value dudes cry less about being rejected? Has this shtick worked for you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:21 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:59 PM
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guys telling them they will never be handsome enough or rich enough to be loved and that women are inherently evil so go their own way. Yikes, is that really what they get told? That's not much better than what women say lol, rooting for someone don't work and platitudes neither. It would be better advice to say, pay for prostitutes to get sex out of the way, make friends with people like yourself, find a hobby, get a good job and get a good lifestyle, eventually try surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:43 PM
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It's only an issue if you make it so. Someone somewhere said that it's just a tactic women use to weed out insecure dudes, I agree with them. Believe me, I'm not tall by any stretch of the imagination, but I get "fuck me eyes" every so often from beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:34 PM
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each woman needs to extend each individual man the benefit of the doubt to her own detriment is the perspective of men who hate women only. On what planet should anyone repeatedly expose themselves to harm? This is funny, cause of this, https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/p0uenx/wanting_men_to_pay_for_a_dinner_date_is_a_good/h8ak4c4/?context=3 I could ask you the same thing, on what planet should a dude pay for dinner with a chick he doesn't know, but is interested in getting to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:19 PM
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Happiness is overrated, satisfaction is where it's at, and anyone can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:09 PM
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I love how you only read the part arguing for why it would suck for a guy and not why it would for a girl. Also, I will ask women out thank you very much, women I already know, not complete strangers who might end up using me for a free dinner. Please read that last part again and come back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:07 PM
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claiming that unattractive men are safer due to less opportunity I never made that claim, I only said that an unattractive guy can't cheat if there's no one to cheat on, and even if he did, cheating with a prostitute is really rare and is indeed degeneracy, are you calling all guys like that degenerates just cause their unattractive? There is absolutely no relationship between appearance and character in a man and any man who claims there is is a whole scammer. Another claim I never made, the cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:55 PM
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I think you misunderstand this view. The theory has less to do with morality than it has to do with capability, simply, an attractive guy is going to have far more opportunities to not only cheat but to get a relationship, to which cheating can be considered as such. You can't cheat if you don't have a partner to cheat on, also if you can't get a partner itfp, who will you cheat with lol. I agree with this concept tbh, you're more likely to find a "Hot guy" with these traits than an ordinary dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:29 AM
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You didn't refute his "free dinner strategy" claim, also it's extremely childish to expect a complete stranger to go for a dinner on the first date, like y'all don't even know each other, you don't know if you're both interested in a relationship. It sucks for the guy because the girl might end up using him for dinner(and no, it's not the money it's the principal, it's the same being cucked) and it sucks for the girl using it as a strategy because if she's really using it on guys she'll willingl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:57 AM
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I agree with u/simeneta_two, it only works for someone you know and are attracted to, no a complete stranger. I'll accept paying for a date with a girl I already know for the simple fact that she knows me, and because of that the fact that she accepted a date even though we're friends tells me she might also be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:37 AM
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True, but as I said, being socially awkward isn't a personality trait, unless you get to know a person, you won't know them, that's my point, I wasn't talking about "niceness". Plus you just showed why these guys might look like they lack self awareness, it might seem to those around them that way because everyone else tries to be nice to them, instead of actually accommodating them and getting to know them. Not that they're actually lacking in self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:24 AM
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Well aren't they? What are the chances you'll get into a relationship with a dude who's otherwise good for you relationship wise, that you aren't physically attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:15 AM
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Right off the bat, the title screams entitlement and second, it sucks cause you don't have what it takes to succeed, now, does that mean you're a worthless terrible person, no it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:11 AM
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True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:07 PM
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Nah, I just think they lead boring lives and like to argue with strangers. I say that cause it's the same with me, I wouldn't be on reddit if I still had my cattle and horses, my buddies weren't studying abroad and had kids and Covid19 wasn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:19 PM
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True but there's plenty where money alone won't get you women. In the free world, women can make money for themselves so logically if you aren't somewhat physically attractive, you ain't getting any, no matter how much money you have, and when I say women I'm not talking about escorts, if escorts are who you were referring to, then you'll get plenty but most men don't seem to like it cause it's "not real".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:29 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:23 PM
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They struggle cause they don't have what it takes. To be successful in dating you need looks on your side, that doesn't make you a below average loser, who's "under the illusion that he's average", no, it only means you don't have what it takes to succeed in that area. My advice for guys like that, find a therapist, pay for prostitutes and start spending as much time with your friends and family, open up to them about your situation and how you feel, if they love you they will try to accommodate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:42 AM
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I think they should be considered as skills, and as such they are developed. Just like social skills, a woman is more likely to find a hot guy with skills than an ugly man with skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:23 AM
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Yeah, no, unless you believe Southern Africa is wealthier than South America. Here money alone won't get you women, being attractive, charming and having a job will. If that's the case then the women in those countries aren't free to make their own choices, might be Catholic society but it's definitely not the economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:17 AM
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That dude isn't ugly. Creepy? Definitely, which is why "ugly" is merely our perception of him, not his actual looks. I believe that if he was actually a normal person, who's also wealthy he would've had an attractive wife who also loved him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:07 AM
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It didn't, it was just an illusion of it. How sure are we that what's written down was actually what happened? A lot of people claim that the west is an egalitarian paradise and I don't buy that, very few people actually buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:00 AM
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Yeah, plus it's been proven that one of the best cures most often for depression is actually human interaction, ideally with other depressed and lonely individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:51 AM
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That's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:48 AM
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Isn’t part of the appeal of porn the “story” behind it Yes the more “taboo” the story the more a turn on it is? No, the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:47 AM
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Maybe, but a prostitute you can touch, and for someone in a situation like that, lack of it is most definitely the reason they're in that situation in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:43 AM
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I have a theory about OF. Most normal dudes ask," why though? You can literally just Google, "sexy naked ladies" and you get thousands of pics and vids of actual supermodels, instantly", well the answer to that is simple, it's the reason why "amateur" porn is so popular, guys get hard for what they think is realistic and attainable(ironic I know, but it's literally the best I can do lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:41 PM
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Wifey vibes, in the upper echelon IMO. Beautiful Beautiful Model esque No 1 is the most beautiful to me, I don't like the numbers thing but if it's important then I'll say in order: 1-9/10 2-6/10 3-7/10 4-8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:41 PM
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I scored 2.45 Hostile and .27 Benevolent, what does that say bout me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:18 PM
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Unless they hurt women(physically), who cares what they say, do you, and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:20 PM
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First, for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:10 PM
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Since when is stating objective facts whining? I wasn't making excuses for anyone lady, I just pointed out a flaw in someone's argument. Also weren't you the one talking about how some dudes are a lost cause? Let them be, this sub clearly isn't for making changes in any way, most of the folks here are here cause they're bored and cause it's interesting for this very reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:15 AM
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Don't get what ur getting at, I just pointed out why it's disingenuous to assume that some people are naturally gifted with social skills and more disingenuous to assume people don't already know why some people struggle while others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:58 AM
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he chick is bad BUT the dude, wtf! This is like a millionaire complaining about not having money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:36 AM
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Wow, it's over now, it's out of the pan into the fire fire for Barca. Now I know how RM fans must've felt when CR left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:25 AM
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Social skills are formed through social interaction, most people are more accepting of attractive people(it's right in the word) and so attractive people generally have higher EQ by virtue of being attractive. Contrary to PPD belief you can't just go out and make friends just like that, people have to be open to it, and be willing to be your friends, even if you're a genuinely nice and cool person, so by logic it makes sense how less attractive dudes struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:04 AM
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I think it's weird that you keep putting words in my mouth. "Care" was clearly hyperbole, me not thinking about hypergamy every waking moment, not concerned at how it would affect my dating life doesn't mean it's objectively irrelevant. It surely does affect my life in some way, I do not refute that, I just don't care for it. Since you're so convinced at hypergamy having a huge impact on my life, that I should definitely think about, surely you can tell why a decent, intelligent girl, who's stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:53 AM
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Are you insinuating that I get mad because if Hypergamy?(even after I said I don't care about it?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:35 PM
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Oh you are just terrible lmao, are you constantly concerned over gravity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:19 PM
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100% Agree. My aim was always to build my value as a partner, have interesting experiences, gain knowledge, build expertise etc. I'd like to start looking from about 28/29 yrs old(with God's will of course), sex isn't a priority to me due to my low sex drive so it won't be hard(not only that but I seem to have a gift at attracting the ladies, specifically my type that reciprocates and I don't even have to try lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:38 PM
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Yes, and it's irrelevant to me cause I don't think about it. Seriously what about this is hard for you to understand? If a chick likes me then doesn't that mean her hypergamy is somewhat satisfied? Why does it have to be important to me, I don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:28 PM
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Hypergamy isn’t something for you to approve of it’s a sociological reality. I used it as anecdote to prove how/why it(hypergamy) is irrelevant to me, not sure why you're trolling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:04 PM
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Lockdown has finally been lifted in my country, but people take that as "Covid is over, we can run around with no masks on, yay!" smh No wonder this new variant spread as fast as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:53 PM
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