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No, some (many?) just overcomplicate it, possibly in order to try and find a way to compensate around what they already know is going to be an issue. It's simple, show you can work with him as a team, be a partner, show that you are trying to match what he is putting in, as far as love languages are concerned anyway. If not mutual on love languages, this will be more of a challenge and compromise. Reciprocate what is done for you, and don't expect or get complacent with a one-sided relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:34 PM
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Depends on the attitude of the women, which is more successful... But most men like the, "girl next door/comfy girl" look. So she has a default advantage. If chick A has really good girl game, is assertive, and friendly forward with dudes, she can punch up pretty well. She should take her shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:15 PM
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Haha, not sure how, but glad my dumbass was good for something. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:44 PM
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Haha, that seems so wrong yet so delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:25 AM
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Fuck that. I'm admittedly too needy bitch for that. Think living with/life with women is good for a man. Not arguing with having his own space, man cave or whatever, but it gives men structure and foundation. Face it... Most men are slobs. I keep my house cleaner when there's a woman around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:07 AM
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Another vote for chicken. We literally bath their corpses in the liquid of their unborn babies, and plunge them in frying hot oil. Gotta hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:31 AM
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Given: Those women that can cum in only a few minutes, and can have seemingly endless multiples if given some cool down moments of foreplay to keep their headspace in the right place. Some women can cum until they pretty much fall out from exhaustion, and make you feel like a god. Received: Those couple chicks who know how/can do that massage your balls while stroking and sucking trick. Kudos to you multitaskers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:11 AM
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Hooking up with my babymama. Well the making her my babymama part, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:18 PM
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I believe women are wired to be able to fall in love over again, with a new partner... And men are more wired to fall hard for one, to be willing to die for. This is easily explained with evolution/natural selection, or that would make sense b/c the male would protect from threats, some die... But in order for the species to continue, she'd need to, "love" again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:03 PM
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Been multiples: A couple went too far with tattoos, one face, one chest/neck with stuff that didn't even look good artistically, in my/most opinions. I get their body, their choice, and am fine with that. I wasn't really tatted enough for them either. Another other got really into motorcycles (ain't going out like that, almost every vehicle I've ever owned has been hit by somebody somehow.) One didn't like/want anybody going down on her, the idea of it grossed her out. Another almost lover just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:50 PM
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Yeah, had at least a couple guys who have been to prison tell me prison rape isn't quite as bad a threat as it's made out to be b/c there's enough free love fembois in there to always be ready to take a dick. IDK though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 PM
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Strawman argument sir/ma'am/xem. You still got freaky deaky love amongst one another. Apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:41 AM
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I've been the guy on both sides of this unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:28 PM
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Fucking doesn't change how the vagina looks or feels though. She doesn't grow labia b/c something is rubbing on it, and it doesn't get loose anymore than an arm gets weak from doing curls. It's a muscle group, if anything she may actually get tighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:01 PM
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First thought is she's going to smell like rubber or plastic, and I'm not sure how you get validation for pleasing a robot. Power to you guys who can not care about that last bit, it'd be easier for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:49 PM
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Realist: Is it piss or watered down liquor... Let's get to the heart of the hussle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:39 PM
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Date/seduce married women. They already have a day to day crisis handler guy, they need a boredom fixing guy while he is busy juggling problems, or working time for himself in. All she needs you for are the exciting and entertaining parts, and the occasional bitch/complain rant or venting about him. Then you get mad nookie after listening to this usually. Edit: Also these relationships are usually cheap, b/c she can't go out or be seen with you anywhere locally probably, or is a bad idea... So s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:33 PM
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I love that marinated all night morning dew smell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:20 AM
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Ohh.. I meant hypothetically she hasn't been with anybody, maybe not even you coming in her in a day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:04 AM
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There's probably not a magic number to what women won't ever cheat or leave. Your virgin wife can decide later she wishes she, "sowed her wild oats and lived a little..." or such, and get seduced by a neighbor or whatever. Personally I have a rule of bare minimum of 5 guys she's referenced lol. First guy to take her virginity, and break her heart... Then by the 3-5th guy, she's figured out who she is, what she actually wants... and can have sex with some light on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:56 AM
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They may have a lot of problems including indefinitely - but dead bedroom is probably only gonna be a problem for him if she's on xanax or such. Take the bad with the good sometimes lol. Yes, I've been assaulted by multiple women, multiple times. Still date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:51 AM
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Probably does... But I'll admit I think that number of percentage who have a replacement man lined up is probably higher. They just cognitive dissonance about that, "friend" atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:48 AM
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If they smell like another man... You may either have bad chemistry for you, or maybe she was born with some different chromosomes or something.🙊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:31 AM
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Wow, congrats on a sensible, non gun toter trigger finger triggering response lol. You handle these things very professionally, keeping your cool and sense of humor/wit. Not letting them Strawman paint you in a corner with attack questions... Your Reddit debate age is showing, wall hugger;P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:30 AM
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That's probably one of those, "Pandora's box" sort of things... Men need them to protect women from other men, I'll admit/concede that. Happy new year beautiful brain;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:07 AM
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Ok... And? What do you want to do about it lil girl, only girls can have guns? Women take a vote and decide which men can have a gun? I only own two... Two little ones ftr. We go rolling through some places in Atlanta or such you probably won't complain about it being in the console, "js" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:54 AM
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Haha, I didn't say me... I said women/chicks. I'm OCD about my body hygiene, double standard for myself I know, but sometimes it just be's like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:38 AM
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Please Pfizer make this happen lol. "Do you wish you could expand your attractive level, open up more and better options for yourself? Do you feel like you're too limited in your lifestyle options? Try Disdiqomine®" *Disdiqomine® may cause a sudden erotic attraction to men and penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:01 AM
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Another woman is not or rarely is ever competition to you; it's like different flavors. Sometimes she wants a peach, sometimes a banana. And her having a vagina doesn't necessarily mean she is better a vagina pleasing than you either. She can be just as much of a selfish lover as any other woman lol. She can have short, weak fingers and tongue, can't grip or, "manhandle" (hence the name) her... Squeezing and holding you feels different... You can beat a bitch, figuratively in this sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:36 PM
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Ok.. I stand corrected, lol. Still not sure I'd call that thick as much as stacked or such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:24 PM
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I have a hard time believing that... That it still tastes and smells the same. Hopefully never gonna test this though even though I'm oddly curious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:50 PM
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2 white girl isn't thick. That's B cups at best, and what ladies, about a 5 or 6 American in pants? Her thighs are Like Andrew Tate's biceps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:38 PM
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Guessing you don't get into going down? Does it ever smell like a pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:18 PM
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I'm 42 so pass on both age group women, and don't take virginities anyway. Gimme the 30something yr old version of whichever one can have an orgasm easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:17 PM
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I'm sure they do lol, but I'm not licking or wanting to bury my face in a surgical slit. You pound that open wound if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:12 PM
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Yes👐 For a couple years at least I've said I'm done with white women after the one I was with but keep having another damning temptation appear in front of me. White women are the devil lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:58 PM
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That woman I was sort of, "complaining" about our love life earlier made us some taco soup this weekend, btw. Just ate some more, F'n delicious. I admit as a man sex isn't 💯 everything or only way of showing affection/ you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 AM
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Been meaning to try that, microdosing. Sounds like I really need to. Thank you:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:35 AM
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Haha, I do self medicate with more natural things lol. Mostly just weed and lesser alcohol. I've done enough mushrooms/psychedelics to come to terms with most things. The occasional cannabis edible is all I need nowadays to put the fear of death, and curiosity of life back in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:24 AM
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Haha, in my defense, you never really know what you're going to do in those moments till they happen, when the weapons come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:57 AM
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Sorry to double tap you... But she's a pretty blonde with DDD titties, and big, "come here" eyes. She could fish guys my level all day on Tinder or whatever in her jammies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:48 AM
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Both? I mean each can be true, my gf is a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:42 AM
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No one. She didn't hurt me, just made me cum in her. She wanted to get pregnant... I wasn't fixed yet, so always pulled out/her off of me. She didn't get prego fortunately... and I got a vasectomy while with her b/c of it. We ended not much longer after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:15 AM
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Yes it was hot lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:06 AM
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A lot of women seem to think that they have the best coochie on earth lol, but a lot of guys think they are the best lover too, so that's just admitting the other side has it too, possibly worse lol;P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:05 AM
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Just meaning not thinking she's the magical best without thinking she should try in any way, I guess. Some women put actual effort or care into sex, not just expect to be catered to unilaterally, or whatever word you'd want to use for that. One-sided. Edit: She's sort of a selfish lover. I guess that's fair to say, and a simpler explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:53 AM
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Haha, wouldn't be the first time a woman has pulled a knife on me in bed lol. I'm not really scared of that sort of thing anymore, just get tired of drama and meltdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:51 AM
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Yep, true. IME, it's usually much deeper for women, not just sexual impulsiveness. I know there's always two sides to every story, every woman I've been in an affair with or was on the inside know about had some story or explanation that often times (almost every time) made me feel he was pretty much asking for losing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:45 AM
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Yeah, I'm really not that guy either... I seriously don't like feeling like I'm hurting somebody. It's a turn off. Glad to see somebody relate, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:42 AM
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True, good point. I don't want to end this over a kink (for lack of a better more fitting word lol) that can be worked out. I seriously think most of the issue is her being over medicated. Things like xanax wreak havoc on a woman's libido, intimacy, sensuality, and ability to feel pleasure in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:33 AM
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Agreed, and apparently more the latter. We've compromised on the first part, like you said... But she occasionally laughingly points out we're just doing baby stuff, getting started. She's really hard to get off, and I've had this theory for a while that there's a correlation there. Women who can't reliably/easily cum have to find other ways or extreme sensations to compensate, i.e. pain instead. Be titillated in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:27 AM
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I do find her sexy at times, and find her attractive. Relationships are more than sex, I admit that as a guy. Life is a compromise for most people. Jumping from person to person based on sex hasn't worked out very well for me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah, I've lightly baby stepped talking about it when she brings up doing kinky stuff she wants to do. We just have slight sexual incompatibility, like has been said. I'm more into sensual, she usually prefers/her fav is rougher. I don't like spanking or choking or any such really. Not really into pain with pleasure, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:20 AM
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Her suffer? I don't want her to, "suffer" in any way. I just think some people are over medicated now days, and doctors like writing scripts. Cha-ching.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:17 AM
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Fair enough, you have a point. I can either work with it, or end it. I'm working with it for the moment. Sex isn't 100% of a relationship I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:14 AM
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Women probably should care, or be concerned with past lovers performance a bit. My last gf was way better in bed, cared to be sensual and sexy, and it made it way easier to get/have feelings for her. Current one thinks just doing it regularly is all equal to anything, and she's as good as any/possible b/c of it. She's more frigid in comparison, but a large part of that may be her medication. Her doctor recently changed her scripts, and she's sort of like a zombie sometimes. Think I'd rather have…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:55 PM
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It's different types of guys, projecting themselves/their thinking on all other men. Women do that too, when convenient or fitting for them. Have to take it in individual context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:49 PM
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Another vote for no, women don't tend to concern themselves of pussy past. They tend to care more about emotional cheating, or you being emotionally tied to someone else. They don't usually seem to think in terms of another woman being better in bed. It doesn't compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:46 PM
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It probably all comes down to how easy she is to get off. Some women can almost cum from you blowing on it it seems like, and some are like picking a lock, frustrating and they themselves have a problem getting themselves off. I swore I'd marry the next one who was an easy cummer, but she wasn't marriage/relationship ready. But I get why bother for her, what's the rush, when any guy could satisfy her if he gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:42 PM
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This has always been funny to me. Women always seem to think they have the most magic coochie on earth, never concerned or contemplating if another woman was tighter or better in some way. Nowhere remotely like guys worry about past dick size or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:36 PM
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Oh yeah... Might be better off mail ordering your own blank. I've done that recently too. Like you can order a, "valet key" for example, for cheap key replacement on just opening the vehicle door. Even key fob key cars often have hidden mechanical locks in the handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:26 PM
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Do you have an ACE hardware in your area? Those old guys there don't give a shit, they'll make anything for you if you sell them on your story and reason lol. Good luck with the locksmith. Maybe make your story sound as least sketch as possible too. Appeal to their rational, "if they were in your shoes..." type of angle. Also vested in this story haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:21 PM
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Yeah, that's where I differ from RP beliefs the most probably... I view women as more case specific, and different types/more nuanced than they address or talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:08 PM
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Another example is porn usage... People here will post stats that show practically zero men don't watch porn. This is false. I don't watch porn, know several other guys that don't either. It's just that guys who don't watch porn aren't on the internet talking about how much porn they don't watch. They're out there occupied doing something else. Use this sub as a filter, or social experiment to find ways to weed out the kinds of guys you are actually looking for maybe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:05 PM
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No... A lot to most of us really do like to cuddle, snuggle, do cute and fun things together, want an actual partner in life. People here are probably the minority on views about most things. I do admit I'm biased against gamers, and consider that a red flag to women, but most guys probably game, so that's not help for a filter either. Also don't conflate guys saying a relationship is nothing without sex as meaning the entire relationship is just for sex. It can easily just mean sex is the deter…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah, you'll probably have higher odds of getting them to just meet than starting off on an actual date, calling it a date. Sorry it be like that but it seems to do:/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:54 PM
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Hey now, easy on the, "y'all" lol. Don't AMALT us now, and this sub is a zoo of oddities, remember that. Just use it to see or read signs of guys you don't like, or signs to look for in guys you do want. Use these guys as, "Ok, if he says or talks like this, he may be like this" sort of thing, if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:50 PM
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Thank you for finally explaining that out. It does sound better, less bad that way at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:46 PM
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Whoah whoah, most men do not hate women. most woman hate is probably a joke, or just temporary in that moment, or venting rn b/c anonymous outlet to do so. Most guys here would probably turn into a whipped little doing sweet things teddy bears if actually gotten into a relationship. Chill:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:43 PM
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Now instead of asking them to go out in public with you, suggest you come over to their place or them to yours first. See if you have better odds with a casual private meeting first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:38 PM
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Is it a long distance relationship, or does she work that day, or where is she at while you're in church though? Sounds like something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:13 PM
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Fair enough. "We got drunk and it just happened.." happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:35 PM
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As a guy who has been the man on the side multiple times, and has a friend who primarily only dated married women for years... I don't think opportunity ranks very high on why women cheat. I think it's more something like: 50-80% get back at him for some thing, or is feeling it as a jab towards him; 10-30% he just doesn't do it for her/doesn't try to please her, she doesn't want to leave, so she fills in; 10-20% just get off on the taboo of it like men do. My math is probably fucked, but you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:21 PM
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Yes, this! 5yrs sounds like a good limit number for either/any side. Agree it gets more risky for anybody beyond that. I think it matters more in this age than it probably ever has in history before. Music/movie/media/ cultural relations or what you relate with all change rapidly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:22 PM
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Also a friend of mine is married to a woman who picked him up from high school (iirc) lol, and she definitely, "Mama's" him to the point of cringe to us a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:07 PM
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Fair enough, think I may have only done that once or twice. One real time, and she sort of made it an issue, running theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:05 PM
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Can't argue with don't waste your youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:56 PM
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Some people just aren't relationship material. They aren't happy with attention from only one person, and/or they just enjoy the solo life more than trying to work with someone to build something together. Probably usually that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:56 PM
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That, thank you sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:53 PM
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The RP peeps have a sidebar that is essentially their bible. If you spout advice on their subs that doesn't come directly from their bible, they get mad butthurt. Purple just means neutral ground, or used to. Over time it seems to have become meaning you take some grains of salt wisdom or beliefs from both sides. Edit: I got kicked out of RP subs under another account for getting into arguments with, "endorsed contributors," and power trip mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:42 PM
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Yeah, like is she grooming him for something, "Hey look maaah... I got a church man for you!" or what. Sounds "sus," all around, as the kids used to say lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:40 PM
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Admittedly as a 42yr old male, he does sound to be a bit of a douche to cut off below his own age. Granted my gf now is 33, I have and would date someone my own age, just not more than a year older, again. IME, a woman older than you always has that, "Mama knows best" mentality over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:35 PM
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Ask RP used to be good before they kicked all of us non cult, non sidebar thumpers out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:30 PM
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Atlas was right about her point system, whatever she called it. Every woman has a hardness/softness meter for you, and you are allowed to show weakness if you have enough points built up to still be in the positive. Maybe said guys still had other traits that made them good in your eyes, or you are just more the exception to the rule on your taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:27 PM
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Not arguing with your point, "js" most women probably have a guy who scratches that affection itch for them in between bf's. Not arguing at if you find a good girl who doesn't do that/have that, she may be s better wifey candidate. You should just probably assume it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:18 PM
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What is she doing while you are going to church? Why does she want you to go, but not go herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:15 PM
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It sounds like really bad juju or karma for you. Some sort of regret will have to come out of this later. The, "upgrade" cheats on you or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:10 PM
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I do sort of do this... Tell her all the possible deal breakers she could have for me right at the start, and playfully ask or fish for her to tell me if she has some of my big red flags. I do it all jokingly though. Ideally she's laughing, not feeling like a job interview or inquisition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:06 PM
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Usually seeing other women being attracted to you is a positive, that whole pre-vetting thing. Just don't go too far where she perceives you as whorish. Women are possibly more competitive than men in a lot of ways. Women will sleep with a man just to hurt or, "beat" another woman. I don't think guys ever really do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:00 PM
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I guess such is life sometimes, I should have worded that better. I've just had/felt more real love before, mutually. I would feel horrible if she read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:50 PM
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I historically catch hate for that, but have been told irl I have a black man's taste in women. I like big boobs, big asses, thick thighs, and am just realistic in that I understand those traits tend to come with others, such as some "muffin top," or such. My girl now has DDD's, but still weighs less than me probably, I'm pretty sure. She's not little by any means, but probably, "fat" by standards here. What can I say... She can put up with my shit, I can put up with her shit, and I like to watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:56 AM
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Not saying she's not pretty, just a bit neotenous for my taste. I'm old though. 6-7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:46 AM
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Most people in general are probably bi curious, especially true with white women. I've met way more bi curious (at least) girls/women than 100 straight girls. Think I might've only dated 3 or 4 100% straight women in my adult life. Most at least have an attraction to looking, if not an, "Ok, what had happened was..." story lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:43 AM
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I understand women not liking bi dudes. Can/could totally see a visceral aversion or disgust to it. Women here might not want to put it quite like that, but it makes sense. Most women aren't really in love with anal or sucking dick lol. Gay men offer that avenue that most women aren't as comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:40 AM
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So... Clickbait, you believe the opposite of the title really? That's what I take from this post. Yes, if you're not tall, smexy, or rich- you better be bringing it on something to the vagina tingle table. Fat, short, bald and poor... You better have game to the gooch and/or make them laugh till they strike that about to piss themselves pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:33 AM
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Can confirm the working poor are still doing ok dating each other lol. Dating coworkers is the norm, and probably their best average bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:27 AM
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Women can definitely help by hooking you up with their friends... But if you're making a friend for the idea you can meet their friends/expand your social circle of women you should consider gay men or lesbians. There's no, "Well why aren't you/they dating them.." for starters. Also better wingmen/people imo. *Insert anecdotal ramble evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:08 AM
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No idea... Haven't been here in like a good six months or so probably. Just occasionally check in, checking up, and looking for when purge week is too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:39 PM
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It's really just a feels thing for most men probably. Does she make you feel dirty (in a bad way) for sleeping with her. One of those real sexual spectrum things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:52 PM
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Other women don't count lol, or shouldn't. Poop hole surely does since it's many a men's priority lol. I don't ask N counts, like the majority of the real population probably lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:47 PM
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Think the ones left all have newer usernames.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:45 PM
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Like other dude said... We're kinda turned off by both extremes. Guessing for me the strong type would be the lesser of the two evils.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:41 PM
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Don't go AMALT'ing now either... companionship, intimacy, and love languages are real things too. That said... If I could adequately fill that/all those needs with a man, I would too lol. The affection just isn't the same, without the underlying sexual/natural attraction tone and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:39 PM
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Huh, yeah they are picky, possibly even pickier about looks. Pretty and skinny knows she can get paid, a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:20 PM
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If I could happily have sex, get intimate physical satisfaction from men I would never concern myself with women again. I don't see what's the point. Being gay/turned on my men is the ultimate loophole out of all this. Yes, I have chick friends - but I mean for those other needs. Why bother?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:17 PM
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Funny how the more you give a damn/attention, the less they seem to want you, and the opposite is true back. This is/has always been one of my weaknesses/problems. Showing too much interest and catering to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:10 PM
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Seems like most now don't want to get fixed up to go out with somebody unless/until she knows she wants to sleep with him/sleep with him again. Dating is sort of reversed, dinner at a nice restaurant is like, "third base" or third date after they slept with you lol. You'll have much better luck if you just want to go meet them first, before asking them on a real date. Maybe being out in public/people looking/judging them makes them uncomfortable, and nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:07 PM
1

Do you feel like it may have even gotten worse? I don't think I was as bad as a teenager, or in my twenties. You're just going to have to jerk it till you don't want it anymore. Guessing you aren't into bigger girls, but I do believe there is a correlation to, "fat" girls being hornier. People say, "they are just more desperate/have to do more than skinny girls to get guys/keep attention" or whatever but I don't think that's it. Personally I think it's possibly related to Maslow's hierarchy of n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:04 PM
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Can't argue it's not harmful, overall... But I will admit I'm jealous a bit of guys who are wired to be able to be happy with that. I think life would be easier if you could sever emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:15 PM
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Even my mother admitted she fetishized/fantasized the idea of two men until she actually watched gay porn lol. She thought two hot naked men, no woman to have to look at, how can this go wrong. She was wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:09 PM
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Always heard bi girls say it's easier to be in a relationship with a man than another woman, b/c a man is usually more ok with her being with another woman than a woman is with her sleeping with a man. Have to admit I think the bi women having relationship stability problems lies mostly in their own tendency to be unstable themselves, and not their sexuality. Have had at least five bisexual gf's I can think of, and married one of them. The common denominator of our problems other than me lol is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:07 PM
1

M42, always loved sex and intimacy, to the point it has been a cornerstone of my life. Went two years roughly without it, and believe that is horrible for a guy's mental/emotional well being. I would do it almost daily like I currently do now. We skip a day or two every few days. Stay up too late watching tv together or something and both nodding out sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:09 PM
1

Still stand firm that a vasectomy was probably the smartest/wisest choice I have ever made. There's a slight chance that had I had a baby with one particular woman maybe we could have worked it out, but kids rarely if ever save relationships so that's probably delusional on my part. I tell guys whenever the subject comes up it was a great decision I don't regret, and they shouldn't fear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:01 PM
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Everyone is being used for something, in some way for the most part, it seems in reality. Love is a fickle bitch... It can flame to ashes faster than it can spark into existence. Still looking for the real, final one myself. May the odds be in your favor if that's what you are seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:15 AM
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Would not recommend 40 dating a 20 either, too much difference in cultural relating and such. Plus, you just tend to be in different places in life... Your learning and development; your perception of the world and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:09 AM
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If you're not "conventionally attractive," you have/need to find a niche market you can fill. Common tropes are Mr. Money, Mr. Party/Funny, Mr. Badass, or if you're ugly enough, a mixture of all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:05 AM
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That's a bit extreme, but I see the thinking/ reasoning lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:59 AM
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"Really nice," in short doses for friendship is one thing, and completely psycho for their lover in private is another lol. But fair enough... Maybe I have a knack for finding bad apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:58 AM
2

Haha, thanks, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:49 AM
2

If you're judging my life choices, that's fair... and in my defense I'm old, and almost to [this point in life lol] (https://youtu.be/thJgU9jkdU4).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:38 AM
2

Dated a, "streamer," wanna be influencer for almost a couple months... That was a train wreck I'd advise against. "I'm a streamer," should be automatic big, red flag. They have a need for attention and validation from more than one person. She was so much drama that she made the girl with legal issues and a history of being in a psyche ward look relatively sane and stable. So much so I went back to her lol. She wasn't as much to deal with as thought she was. Streamer gave me another reality chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:29 AM
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Do away with online dating, or social media. It has made everyone disposable, "there's always more fish in the sea..." giving the hope of something better always just being a click away tomorrow. When there's too many choices, people fail or struggle to make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:46 AM
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Boob guys don't care, butt guys are just more vocal of the two. Not really sure why that is. Guys really into butt stuff tend to be really adamant about telling everybody for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:41 PM
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Haha, Go Al-la-bahem-ah (proper pronunciation) lol. It's like that Nicholas Cage epic, called [Raising Arizona] (https://giffiles.alphacoders.com/169/169602.gif).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:38 PM
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Hahaha, I immediately thought of someone who fits this... Fair enough. I'd like to add a flat-billed hat to this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:40 PM
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Yes, I have a couple few platonic female friends. It does mostly confirm the, "RP" truths a lot though, seeing their relationships and how they do. Also have lesbian friends, which I also think is beneficial. Get a different perspective on women's take on things. Women can often see things or put things in a way you couldn't see. Tell you, or confirm to you if you are right or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:51 PM
1

Yes, tyrannical dictatorship is nothing new... You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:06 AM
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Oh, I didn't even open it to reply at that point. Saw what it said in the notification bar, and just deleted her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:17 PM
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It's irrelevant... It's all the puppets for the same rich agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:38 PM
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No... Just have some playful bitchy, or snarky attitude. You don't have to play games, just push and question him a bit. Find his buttons to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:37 PM
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Justin Trudeau did it like a week ago... It's easy to do in wartime. Or pandemics. Just have something to give them, "emergency threat" justification. Or vote in something like the Patriot Act, that Biden partly wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:35 PM
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Fair enough, this girl was milking it for all it's worth (no pun intended;) and wanted to get a free pass about the elephants in the room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:10 PM
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The new one world government and economy model they are putting together. Same as old money, just better PR now lol. Lessen/null and void the constitutions and such that have been implemented since.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:09 PM
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Ok... But you can still not literally hang half a foot of cleavage in our faces. Or put it in the bottom fade out of the pic- not like the camera is a clickbait porn director.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:07 PM
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She had literal cleavage as the focal point of the image. You can not do that🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:01 PM
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Ok, well do you post pics with your head/face half cut off with your boobs center/main point of focus? If so... I have news and revelation for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:00 PM
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I'm not really RP (or so I'm told) and I disagree with that. I think it's just to limit them saying something stupid, or messing it up. It's just damage control to try and compete with guys who can actually talk to women. IMO. I think they should focus more on learning some banter to play talk with women. Apparently some/ a lot of guys aren't wired to do that though, or enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:59 PM
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New World Order
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:55 PM
2

It's just stupid hypocrisy that needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:32 PM
2

Like on to the next one. Bailed out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:31 PM
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I thought so... But pretty sure it's all about, "Get the most you can from him with the least given out" just like a flip side RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:30 PM
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Well most have a sense of being real and self aware about it. She posted it while taking to me, so I took it somewhat directed at me. She bitched about guys being so sexual, but her profile pics were almost all sexual. That shit just irks me... But your point is taken. She seemed to want a free pass to not acknowledge she knew what she was doing across the board though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:29 PM
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Well I might have met and, "nexted" a real life FDS girl this week. I can't do both a somewhat long distance relationship, and bad communication. I did offer to take her to the nicest looking restaurant google showed me in her area... Then she no reply/ghosted for a day and a half just to reply with, "So what are we doing tomorrow night?" No, that's not going to cut it girl. You want a meal ticket, give me some feedback and conversation. Or go find your thirsty enough guy to put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:07 PM
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Girls.... Don't be dumb about posting your body pics. You can't post tiddy shots, and also be mad at men sexually objectifying you. I think I bailed yesterday on putting my dick on crazy, or at least drama. The girl (no exaggeration) has her boobs center frame of her profile pic, but half her face cut off. Come on girl. We were talking normal type convo about food, and non sexual interest when she posted a pic of her center frame boobs again, with her tongue hanging out. Of course that inspired …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:07 PM
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Yeah... it's only an organization of the richest people in the world... What power do they have. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:34 PM
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I know you vote leftist... You do anything to be against the Trumpers. Killemalla Harris could get you to agree to rub shit in your mask if she could just convince you that you were sticking it to the Trumpers. Both sides of you are blind to how you are being played. Both sides are compromised, and owned by the same people. The rich. The real rich. It's all WWE soap opera tv to get you in line to take more of your freedoms, and keep letting them handle all of your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:33 PM
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I'm sorry my harsh reality doesn't fit well with your little believe the news, left wing, right wing- whichever political dick you suck narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:16 PM
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I'm sorry you two live in your little fairy tale, "The government cares about me... It has my best interest, health and safety" in mind BS. Grow up, politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:11 PM
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The more ego he has...the better it will work. Edit: Well unless he's full on narcissist, and wants to be surrounded by yes people. There's exceptions to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:45 PM
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No, by too much, "Whatever you want baby, I have no care either way. I just want everyone to think I'm perfect."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:45 PM
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Gonna comment here first, so the new thread will come up as usual, soon as I said what I wanted to say. So going to just say I wish Reddit would let you incel fucks have your sub back... So you will maybe fuck off to from whence you came. Most of you don't even deserve good pussy, it would just be wasted on you. All you would do is make it dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:07 PM
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Truth be told... It's all NWO propaganda BS. They are all really on the same side, working towards the same agenda: One world government, one world economy, all controlled by their organization; The World Economic Forum. Here's your proof in black and white to see for yourself: [Putin the WEF member] (https://www.weforum.org/people/vladimir-putin) [Biden the WEF member] (https://www.weforum.org/people/joseph-r-biden) [Trudeau the WEF member] (https://www.weforum.org/people/justin-trudeau) Yes, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:05 PM
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You say that until you get that, probably. I just broke up with that. Well that's not why we broke up persé... But it didn't help that she eye rollingly bored the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:55 PM
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He hasn't gotten it yet, in our scenario apparently. Still probably more likely to keep him interested if you keep his ego challenged and tested. Getting too comfortable is what leads to boredom. Boredom leads to looking elsewhere for excitement/stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:54 PM
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Yes, the "Madonna/whore" thing is real (to some) and/or he can love her how sweet and good she is- but just not be sexually happy. Dirty thirst/temptation can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:32 PM
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Half/Partly true. Both sexes like (or respond well) to assholes to a certain degree. Don't treat men like garbage, just don't be, "pick me." Be a little feisty/catty/sarcastic/playfully bitchy. Shit test him, question him, rattle his ego. This will turn the dynamic in her favor. Make him, "Why don't you be like the other girls... I'll show you I'm the man.." sort of mentality. He's now trying to prove himself to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:30 PM
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Can confirm, don't really watch porn... Think I'm more well adjusted than most of the guys I read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:26 PM
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There's always going to be a double standard here. At least as long as we live in a gynocentric society. "Patriarchy," is BS... The western world revolves around catering to women. You just have to, "man up" and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:24 PM
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There really does seem to be a correlation with how unattractive somebody is, and how high they aim for a partner, and how pushy they get about it. This seems to apply to both men and women. The less attractive, the more likely they are to not have a concept of league, or be willing to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:51 PM
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So back to them just killing all of us indiscriminately again? Well shit. Was hoping the little guys might get crumb of good out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:03 PM
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If the, conspiracy nutters are right about the covid "vaccines," then this could be some incels' wet dream come true in a few years... The majority of guys in young, working age get taken out by myocarditis and what not, leaving the majority feeemalez alive, and plenty of room for male advancement due to competition falling out. It's like the rapture... Just man-made, and benefits all the dicks left on the earth. "Silver linings! Always look on the bright side!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:01 PM
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No shit, the Mf'r probably has game too. He's not scared or intimidated of her one bit, no fear in his eyes when he cracks that first joke, or that first comment to make giggle. Women (and a lot of men) can sense things on a visceral level. Some people project a safe space around them, not just push people away with awkwardness or negativity. He probably meets most of them in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:20 PM
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It'd be kind of creepy in either direction, so no, not really ok with that. At some point it goes from a vibrator to a funny fuck machine to crossing the line on borderline sci-fi horror movie or Black Mirror beginning plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:04 PM
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They seem to be the most rational though lol. It's the, "incels" and FDS girls I think, who are the craziest, and most puritanical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:58 PM
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I know how it is now, and I wouldn't want more intense than what I've had. Also that works both ways... How do uncut men know their experience is superior to mine? I get in theory more nerves could mean more sensation, but sensory overload is sensory overload.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:35 PM
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"You would have more satisfying orgasms..." This is not fathomable to me, and also sort of scary. I don't think I'd want more satisfying/better orgasms. Again, sex is already too good for me. When I have a partner that really does it for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:20 PM
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I'm just glad mine didn't get botched, after hearing that's a thing. I've seen guys here rant about how it takes away from your pleasure and sensations, but I think it's probably a good thing mine got, "handicapped." It has ran and ruined my life more than enough like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:28 PM
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I think most of us probably do delete them, but I may just be projecting there. I wish I still had them all sometimes. Think this is the most prudish sub on Reddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:25 PM
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I mean I don't want to lump everyone as this is how it is or is going to be, or ruin anything for anybody... but yeah, it is a possibility. Something to consider. I'm looking for pretty mentally stable now, and shy away from, "issues" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:40 AM
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Two real times that actually hurt me, not just butthurt made me mad. One was my ex wife/"babymama," when she cheated on me with, "just a friend." Thought that was my forever/rest of life relationship. Got divorced over that. Now she looks awful, looks at me like I'm a snack... So got that petty shit of an inside hehe going for me. The other was the one I've loved most in my life so far. She had some mental issues, "fr" issues... actual diagnosed and on meds issues... not just, "she crazy b/c som…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:58 AM
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Not for long probably, if there is no sign of it getting better. I'm sort of in this boat myself... My girl was thicc when we hooked up, but doesn't seem to care much about her health or even trying to be sexy anymore. Like others said... I'm going to attempt to help her get her health in order, but even her friends are on my side at this point. she won't even go walking with her thinner bestie. She's got till Spring to show some care that she doesn't end up in walmart go cart with diabeetus, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:59 PM
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If a guy isn't related to you, and isn't gay... It's safe to assume him trying to befriend you up is him just trying to figure out how to work his way in close to you. That close to you, lol. Not saying I don't have plutonic friendships, and those don't exist... They usually have some other way of coming about. Just admitting that guys going out of their way to get another friend who is a girl, it's probably a safe bet to have that ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:44 AM
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Breathe. Don't forget to breathe lol. In all seriousness... Be wary of men wanting to take your V-card like a hunting trophy. Look out for men that are too hung up on your lack of experience, as in fetishizing it, or taking it in such priority of topic or discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:49 PM
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Not what I said... I said I didn't think I have ever met a virgin one or an incel. But I guess it's either or here, no in-between. Either incel, or Chad™
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:47 PM
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Yeah, I always get reminded why I quit coming to this/these places. That entire generation under 30 is just fucked- but not in the good kind. Almost everyone is a puritanical pussy, both sexes/all anime genders. The girls are literally scared of their own shadow, and the boys are scared to go outside, both scared shitless of real life human interaction. We've babied, and coddled, and safe-spaced you all until you're afraid of words. It's half our fault for putting such high priorities on your fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:47 PM
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Yeah, nah... You're right... Working around hard asses wouldn't help you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:40 PM
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I've worked construction too, have friends in trades, never met an incel construction worker. Not yet anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:54 PM
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No, the guys making roads, building things like infrastructure with their hands are getting laid. Are there any incel construction workers in here? O doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:23 PM
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Yeah, there's probably literally less than 10 of us who just think this is funny or ridiculous or both lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:20 PM
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Once again, case in point... It's a red flag to women if a guy is seriously wanting to know your N-count. You might as well next him if it's over 1-2, it's probably not going to be worth your time and investment. Unless you just really really like the guy for other reasons, and don't particularly care about sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:54 PM
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Good point... I'll concede that. Guess I'm just more biased in seeing it from my perspective... I'll admit that; didn't think about that/those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:19 PM
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I'm more into ethics than morals... So it's ethically wrong to breach a contract. This is a show of character- a bad one. I do understand why some guys did though, why they broke. Not saying they're right, (still wrong) just get why they made the mistake. I've only ever cheated on one girl in my life, my first one, and most women say they would clear me on that one; from context. If roles would have been reversed, I would have been sexually assaulted, or at least pressured or taken advantage of.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:59 PM
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For some reason, women love seeing an unattractive women succeed with a more attractive man. Makes me wonder if that's some sort of girl power, power trip, or just gives them hope in case they let themselves go or what. Needless anecdotal part: I went on a first date with a woman I had only seen a couple pictures of to a park. The plan was, a hike and a picnic day date. It was quickly obvious that she was not accustomed to hiking, and had possibly never been to where she took us/suggested we hik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:38 PM
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You can make most women think they are falling in love with you in about 3wks. But it will probably be about 1-3mo before they want to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:27 PM
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I don't plan on checking out based on age, b/c I too will have aged. I prefer to date within 5yrs of me anyway, b/c it means that we are more likely to be at the same mindset in how we view life and the world. Relate to each other's references, and what we've been exposed to or seen in our lifetimes. Younger women tend to be more drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:25 PM
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Only peen in va-jay-jay or butt counts, in my misogynistic opinion lol. Other girls don't count, it's just more cake rubbing against your cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:21 PM
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If you have a kid, or are wanting a kid, it's fine. If you already have a kid, and are in that kid's life like a parent... Then a single mom is more likely to be understanding, and conducive to you making family time with your own kid. If you want kids... Then you can see how she is doing on her own, on hard mode, as a single parent. If she can handle the stress, and the kid doesn't pretty much live with grandma- she is proving that she can handle being a mother. Women tend to change after pregn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:16 PM
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I was banned from there (on another account) for actually trying to help guys figure out their specific women in question, and not just regurgitating the holy sidebar. Like others said... They probably are just wanting to keep their ™ on lockdown, to sell guys stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:10 PM
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Yes, I'm a dude... I'm not Dave Chappelle level of extreme by any means, but I do see where he's coming from, and think his special was more wholesome (and right) than offensive and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:22 PM
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You are significantly better off with the money too though.. so it wasn't a waste. Sorry to come off as an ass about it. Lump all of you together. Not projecting... Just wishing I had worked more into making more money. It just irks me when guys are like, "Oh, you're cute, you have it made already." No... We each have part of the equation, I would rather have been born less cute, with a trust fund or inheritance. Knowing what I know, and my personality, I would have been way better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:10 PM
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I apologize for offending you or anyone about this, but this, "gender is a social construct woke-ness" isn't correct. Bone structure is different, chromosomes are a thing, a scientific thing, and different, and natural hormones and pheromones are a thing, and different. There's a reason why a sub called two X chromosomes could have been made to begin with- it used to be accepted science to say that. TL;DR: Only going to apologize so much for being a TERF by definition in 2022. Edit: Yes, had all…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:05 PM
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No, this is lies, and virtue signaling. I mean in a sense... If she's just banging a guy from a bar or tinder or whatever- sure, it doesn't matter. But when she's pushing 30 or more, she's going to want Mr. Money status to put in her relationship status. She may bang the broke Chad on the side- but let's be real: If you are physically closer to being a copy of Jeff Bezos than Dicaprio- you need money. Unless you are top tier attractive, and an artist, or have something else like that to show off…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:02 PM
1

"Weird assumption..." Only in the 2020's 🙊
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:46 PM
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I'm sorry for taking, "weird" about trans vaginas most likely not being able to smell like natural vaginas b/c they don't have that natural flora and such that go with that. "It is what it is." Not saying they are less... Just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:22 PM
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She does, but it's not the same. As gross as this sounds, I miss body odor smell, I miss coochie smell. Her va-jay-jay smells like what I'd imagine a trans one smells like, like an arm or something. Literally no identifiable vagina smell. I swear to you I could blindfold anyone, put panties she's worn for a day under their nose, and they'd guess rose water, or whatever soap she used that day. I would literally bet on them not guessing it. I hate it. She can't help it, I can't help it/how I feel.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:03 PM
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Nevermind... It doesn't matter anymore... I don't really even care anymore... Take your boosters. If it's been over 3mo (iirc) since your last shot, you're an unvaccinated swamp rat now too, and would be recorded as such if you got/get sick. Take all your boosters so maybe they'll leave the few of us who don't want to partake in this experiment alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:11 PM
1

Since we don't know what long term effects are, and they want over 50yrs to release the data, and bury, block, or censor anything or anyone that is remotely critical of it... We'll just have to wait and see for ourselves. I don't know of anyone irl, asked around if anyone can find anyone who has delivered a healthy baby after vax, and still haven't found one. Found a couple women on Reddit who said they did, or knew of one... We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:27 PM
2

Of course they're going to downplay it... They downplay everything involved with it. Athletes having chest pains and falling out on the field, children having heart conditions... No one had ever heard of such a thing as, "mild myocarditis" before 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:07 PM
3

I can relate with this, it's just sort of depressing since I don't have that anymore with this gf. She has it with me, but unfortunately it's not mutual. She doesn't stink, she just doesn't have a smell. It's odd, and weird, I've known a handful of women like her, no real body smell, like no pheromones. They might as well be made of plastic. It's honestly harder for me to make that deeper connection without it. I wish I would have realized it sooner how much it would bother me, and how much I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:01 PM
8

Sounds like guy had issues... You might've dodged a bullet or a beating 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:37 AM
6

InB4, "Well you caaan..." What happened to the dog pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:36 AM
2

He might want kids some day, and since the media is finally admitting it messes with women's menstrual cycles... That can be a legitimate concern. You know what the difference between a conspiracy theory, and a white washed, played down fact is? About 6mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:34 AM
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Other than love, affection, companionship, best FWB and so much more... I like the little things they do. The cute little nuances and quarks you learn in them, and how they treat you. I love a woman smelling me, for example. There is not much more satisfying, imo, than a woman just sniffing you like she's on a fabric softener commercial. Smelling and wearing your shirts... It makes you feel good, like you're a treat, like chocolate or candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:28 AM
6

Not him, but I've never wanted to sniff or smell a dog. Pet yes, but my mouth or nose on, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:21 AM
5

Quit doing dating apps if you're having no luck. Go old school, and slide in their DM's directly, just try not to be annoying or boring about it. Don't, "Hey beautiful, how is your day." Do: "Hey, I see you're into _, you like _ / you think _ is the best, or am I just completely wrong and full of shit? Lol" type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:14 PM
1

The overhang? Thought it was fupa or some such? Ahhh the internet, gotta keep up with the times...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:39 PM
2

Most guys irl are just happy if she doesn't have an over hanging gut. Yes, girls who worry about that worry too much. There's so many too big people that some muffin top looks small, and healthy, America anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:13 PM
2

It's just tv drama... They are essentially paid actors for the same show. Might as well be watching professional wrestling or Soaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:08 PM
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That I'm not a ho by nature, not really fitting for me, and women can be as cold as any man, surprisingly even.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:10 PM
2

It's a matter of perspective... You'll get guys saying you are way better off, and still a more desirable woman. But you have to take into account the kinds of guys that are the most interested in prioritizing that aspect of you. Some may almost fetishize it. These guys probably aren't the types of guys most likely to have your best interest and satisfaction in mind. Something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:25 AM
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You should seriously vet them for sexual compatibility, since you are honestly probably more used to being more intentively (probably not a real word, but should be; has more feeling that way lol) taken care of down south. Compared to what the average guy is reportedly to give. Otherwords... Find the guy that will eagerly give good head, and/or finger action, and is not shy about toys, depending on your usual taste. To do this... In that, "getting to know you before I fuck you" playful conversat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:18 AM
1

Normally I would sympathize, and be respectful of this, and not be an asshole about it... But this is satanism. So much for, "take responsibility for yourself, freedom and liberty to be yourself..." and all that jazz you sell on your *Tenets for self-help for people who like to wear black. I did have a playful jab of a joke about it being like the world said Wicca is the pussiest religion in the world... and TST stood up and said, "Hold my absinthe..." Guess I'm going to have to change that joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:28 AM
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Maybe so. We're pretty puritanical, even the Satanist lol. I know someone who was a state level official (or whatever the actual title is) in The Satanic Temple... and he was telling me the church told him he couldn't have events somewhere that served alcohol lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:10 PM
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The idea of having an actual partner, someone who can be your equal fill in on anything. Also people respect married men more, and what they say has more value or merit. No one gives a shit if you say, "my gf says/thinks..." everyone just rolls their eyes and waits for you to shut up so they can talk. But you say, "My wife says/thinks..." even the people who think of Borat (my wyyyfe...) still seriously listen to hear what is coming, and assume/treat it as relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:49 PM
2

Yeah... He sounds like a risky bet for a relationship. Say no... See if he gets distant or weird, or pushes or angles for such another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:25 PM
2

20-30yrs for them to try and wipe out most of the proles/peasants? Dang, you're optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:22 PM
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I've done it once, that time was a mistake. I would do it again though... I like the idea of having a wife, and like those new fancy metal wedding bands we can get now. Colored Tungsten and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:00 PM
1

B/c they are unself-aware hypocrites, who are really just competing with other women. A lot of things aren't as much as, "gotta get attention of Chad..." as it is, "I'm gonna be badder/better bitch than that bitch, and take her whatever I want, if I want."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:45 PM
1

Point... Am curious how it actually works out though. We'll never really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:07 PM
2

I keep seeing you guys talk about only 14% of the population being over 6' and it irks me so, living in the south. I think the reason for this average to begin with is there's so many of you really short northerners to drop that average down. The majority of southern white and black men are over 6' tall. I'm 5'11, and am usually the shortest white guy in the building, everywhere I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:11 PM
2

No, I don't wish single parenthood on anyone. Or on another child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:06 PM
2

8 body, 8 personality, 6face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:47 PM
3

The logical reasoning on this season of Earth just never seem to "jump the shark," no matter how ridiculous it gets. "We must force the small minority to take the shot that isn't helping the ones who took it... Must save the shot takers from the shot deniers." I know, I know... "BUh tHe VariAntS aLL hApPEn fRoM De sWaMp rAts!" Says the vaccinated,<sup>™</sup> who are now taking shots to only lower/lessen symptoms... Meaning logically speaking, they are now the bigger risk to be around, since thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:43 PM
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Pee and poop, choking (now) and wanting to be hurt or feel pain. I don't enjoy hurting people. Oh, and anal in either direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:31 AM
2

Some are hard, so hard I can see how they never have or had anybody do it before. My current gf is annoyingly hard, I miss the other kind. I'd wanna wife up an easy cummer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:05 PM
2

No, natural va-jay-jay is still natural va-jay-jay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:58 PM
2

They can love any man who makes her cum. That, and don't get on her nerves/appear needy is really all it takes. They may still LTR/marry a man for money/status though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:57 PM
2

Both, but but not looking to make more kids. I get guys' reasoning for not wanting a more experienced woman... Just none of those reasons really apply to me, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:49 PM
0

It doesn't matter anymore... All of you take your boosters please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:36 AM
1

To make themselves and crony buddies rich, yes, specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:34 AM
1

I made that sound worse than I meant it. I just mean stuff like how to do that arching her back thing in doggie, or how to ride on top at this point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:33 AM
1

No, online dating does not benefit a lot to most men, b/c it goes against how female attraction works for them. Stagnant, still frame pictures are not the best benefit for men to express themselves to women. They should gifs at least, maybe a tiktok sort of platform could work.. see guys moving, showing personality, real body language communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:22 AM
2

I don't have a set number.. just get it when I really want it I guess lol. 3X a week maybe? Few days off here and there b/c of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:43 PM
2

I don't really watch porn... But as been said, I'm just happy with enthusiastic, wanting me. I'd like more of a, "sex kitten" with her own tricks and wanting to show off... but those tend to be taken, or voluntarily staying single, or not otherwise relationship material, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:28 PM
1

I'm not pro Trump, but I don't think we have real elections anymore, haven't for a long time. Trump was originally the one pushing for the vaccine- it was originally his baby. Everyone on the the Dem side likes to memory hole forget that. I've seen a lot of evidence for big protest world wide... People are having their rights and lives taken away. But granted you have a point- they were all compliant on getting things that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:11 PM
1

They are taking tax money for the shots... So we just aren't paying for them directly, individually. They have made billions off of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:07 PM
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Fair enough... We'll call it our culture on why we're not under nearly as totalitarian fascist control as other places- yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:58 PM
0

Seriously? You actually believe there is no money involved? You've missed a lot, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:57 PM
1

Not so much around other places in this world... But yeah, America has a lot of guns, so probably/possibly has something to do with why they aren't going full gestapo on us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:41 PM
0

Yes, they want everyone to take the shot that they are all financially invested in/profiting from. Politicians gonna politish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:39 PM
3

I can think of a small handful of women I should have kept, or tried to keep, or tried to make things work out with, or just done things differently. No, I'm not really happy with how things worked out, or are currently... But I'm not going to "po' pitiful me" whine here about it, b/c there's literal incels running around, and admittedly they have it way worse. Not going to bitch about my meh dinner to starving people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:25 PM
1

Nevermind, it doesn't matter anymore. Go get your booster.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:06 PM
2

[Biden said it.] (https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/in-july-joe-biden-said-that-if-you-get-vaccinated-you-will-not-get-covid)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:06 PM
2

Had they not fired or forced out 30% of their staff, or whatever the actual percentage is, they would be a lot better off too. But this was never about making the populace better off, or our health and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:46 PM
0

BS. I started to dig for video proof of experts like Fauci saying otherwise, but you would argue around it anyway, and a waste of my time digging for another link for someone to make disappear off the internet. Just google (Duckduckgo actually) Biden saying you will not catch covid if you take these vaccines. It happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:37 PM
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When people quit taking the shots, and following the mandates, and deciding to make things go back to normal ourselves, by living our lives the way we did before this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:32 PM
2

Oh yes, I'm not arguing with that. Hell, I'd take a make you gay drug if it existed... to take away that power women have over me. I'd love to be gay, or asexual. But here we are, with endless thirst for women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:29 PM
2

You say sex is not that important... But your post history asking/seemingly begging for a way to lower a guy's libido says you know otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:03 PM
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Yes, but other things in the relationship can overall make it worth it though. Might not be the best steak you've ever had... But you like it, you're full, and the cost/benefit may be a better deal than chasing for that perfect steak. I've had fine relationships with women who were not my best lovers. In one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:56 PM
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Wow, you made this sound pretty gross and alien actually.. wasn't a good sales pitch for me to wish for my foreskin back. I get it on the cutting pieces off of babies.. but still like the look and idea of my cut dick better. I don't want an earthworm or organ parasite looking member, I've been told at least a couple times I have an attractive/pretty dick, for a dick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:18 PM
2

"This." Oh yeah, this is purge week. Eat a dick OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:11 PM
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You have a point... Unless she's addicted to xanax or such... Get that cummer hung up to where she's shaking the exorcist is having a seizure- and she'll want you to do it again. Point, is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:51 PM
1

It's flaired Q4W you dufus dicks... So we're supposed to answer here. There's good chance that she was laughing or giggling from the first thing we said to her, for starters. We scope her out, in a hopefully way less creepy way than Joe from that show You, and try to guess what all she's into, if there's anything we think she'll relate to with us, or respond best to. What kind of personality/humor does she have. We'll ask broad, but increasingly narrowing down questions, painting a, "meta" pictu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:02 PM
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Not arguing that you're not the asshole here... But we call that, "preselection" around here. It's established and accepted as a thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:25 PM
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TL;DR: I guess it does depend on why they cheated, the circumstances and such. Also the cheated on person sort of gets a free pass for one boo boo now too, in all fairness. Still, normally would agree it's most likely a bad idea/bet though. He/she needs to look for a new lover. Person man bitch diary, tmi ramble part: Only one time have I ever done this, and she kind of gets a pass b/c I broke up with her first. I broke up with her, b/c I knew she was going to fuck him. An old guy friend from wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:21 PM
0

Yeah.. save those restaurants for actual been dating/gf level of relationships. Someone you are comfortable with, and can actually enjoy/focus on the experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:00 PM
1

I'm sure you've helped shoot some boys into puberty by your presence before... But I get it, most girls prefer to go a bit older than younger. Ain't mad at you for not fulfilling lil boy's fantasies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:21 PM
1

It's only MRA types that want to see the female teachers jailed for doing stuff with their students. The vast majority of guys probably remember some teacher or older woman that they wish they could have, or would have never came out against her... just reminisced in drinking stories with/about her. You do you on your anonymous public image tho;P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:14 PM
1

Awee nobody cares when women do it, including myself. It only ever gets creepy if it's before he hits puberty lol. Double standard... I don't care. Life's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:01 PM
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Both can be sort of true. As much as I'd like to emph (simp for incels) about their strife... The ones that come to mind that I've met irl do seem to be a bit unrealistic, and the least wanting to compromise. I work with one, who hit on my sister. I/we were half impressed with his taking his shot, but it made everyone who witnessed it question his mental aptitude a bit. "Is he special or touched in the head in some way... to not see the issues here.." sort of thing. Also I would not be surprised…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah, then she's going to have to partner up with a pimp or a simp.. gotta be one of the more extreme sides of the spectrum. Not a lot of gray area for her to compatible up with then probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:20 PM
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No, just man whore around until you're pushing 40, at least... Then wifey up some lil mid twenties baby maker for yourself. Then get fat and balding... and she cheats on you with the insert biggest slap in the face/insult to you guy. 🎶 It's the ciiiircle of cock... It branch swings us aaaall....🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
4

I mean tall dude advantage, is a thing. Yes, many to most of us know a dude who is short, but does really well with women. That guy is also usually really bringing it in game or other combined areas too though. Still... Most of us have seen some douche get women to just ogle up at him from towering by them. Then some girl we know fucks him (my irl sister for example haha) then bitches how she couldn't change, "get him to see/understand/take priority" what she wanted to. It's like that joke of wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:37 PM
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Haha, but the left path can lead you back more to the right path. Just look at single mama raised Tupac. Look at this queen lol. And another angle with mannerisms. Tupac after being RP'd by life and women not his mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm divided on this. On one hand, she's right, in that whatever she is really into, someone else needs to be compatible with as well. I mean the same could be said if she was an on call medical professional, or worked Graveyard shift. The husband would have to make that compromise. On the other hand... She needs to take into consideration how much of a niche market she puts herself in with her choices. Life is almost always a compromise. For most people. Edit: After thinking about it... I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:39 PM
6

Even though women are property in Islam, there's other ways Islam sucks, even for you assholes. No music, no alcohol/drugs, no bacon... I'm going to cook country ham biscuits in the morning, with some bacon lard seasoned gravy. Gonna put cheese and fresh sliced tomato on mine. That alone is worth saying fuck being a Muslim to me. Christianity or Judaism wouldn't be any better either, if we let the extremist of either one take control. They both/already have gotten too powerful again too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:46 AM
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Hahahaha, I love that word. My best hobosexual buddy lives in CA now. Three guesses how he got there lol. 1-5% of relationships/sexually successful men? Seems common for female nurses for some reason. May be a, "take care of and fix the broken puppy dog" type mentality, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:40 PM
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Well black men are somewhat fetishized by a lot of white women, but so are foreign men with accents of some sort too. I changed it down below... I admit it may be mostly Indian and Asian men who have the most disadvantage with going outside their race. Edit: Said men, meant women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:27 PM
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Not going to say it limits/hinders those men to work in male dominated places... Just that the others working with women gives them more of an advantage to meeting women. Correlation ≠ causation sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:13 PM
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Truth... Dated/known many a single-mamas, and saw how they did their sons. Was also the son of a single/serial relationship jumping mom. Had to learn some things the hard way, or from, "bad" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:11 PM
1

Well keep projecting there, and telling us men how it's like being us, while flipping out when men do the same thing the other way I guess. The idea of sleeping with any man or having him do something sexual to you is way worse than any woman doing anything similar to you. Well I will admit that I think possibly the majority of men have homoerotic fantasies (Big D/Chad porn) they are/would be still be more grossed out by any dude grabbing his junk vs any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:23 PM
1

Yeah, this is more what I was thinking too, since you'll admit it. Indian and Asian men may be the only truly disadvantaged race, far as dating other races go. I've got a Puerto Rican friend who used to be a pimp. Like ladies watched him walk. He's married and chunky now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:16 PM
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No, you're right... Black men are probably the only darker race who can work that to their advantage, I'll admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:58 PM
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Wasn't interested in listening to the whiney bitchy long enough to figure out if it was b/c he didn't put enough into it to make a pleasurable experience... Or it didn't just magically, instantly work out into happily ever after... Or it secretly shattered/broke his views on women, and his whole paradigm/view of himself/herd mentality he has with his fellow boys. Betting one of the three, if anyone can listen long enough to see which sounds most plausible and fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:32 PM
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This, with the possible alternate being the, "exotic" guy to the right niche of girls being the other side advantage. But those girls in those places are equally rare, and, "unicorn" for the same reason. City dating may have the problem of too much choice, whatever that phrase is for that. "Conundrum of choice" (?) or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:17 PM
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The biggest reason/advantage is probably b/c women have fake-up that literally raises them whole points, and now, don't even need that until they physically meet b/c of filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:13 PM
1

This is just an example of women wanting their side/perspective to be worse than ours b/c, "feels so." ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:09 PM
1

Might have to find a smoothie or juice or some such to chase it with.. give it some good padding filler with it. Was just vitamin food for thought:)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:58 PM
2

Possibly the only thing, or one of the few things you have ever been completely wrong about. I think you really know... You just like to jab us with it b/c it, "triggers" us so;D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:47 PM
1

Oh my bad... Female Political strategy. Whoops!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:41 PM
2

Was probably the smartest thing I've ever done:D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:38 PM
1

Most guys are socially stupid and lazy, and yes, hoping for a miracle. Something most need to learn the hard way in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:37 PM
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Basically that women are lesser people, or more like children, like it's ok to lie to them, just explain away or argue/deny/mansplain when got caught or called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:36 PM
1

Haha, was expecting a twig. Don't think I'm man enough for all that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:32 PM
2

Are all of you teaching girls to be playful bitches on FDS yet? Despite what guys say here... "Watch what they do/respond well to, not what they say they want..." Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:31 PM
2

Do you take or get adequate vitamin D? My understanding is that most people are very deficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:28 PM
2

Maybe culturally, wherever you are from maybe. Or if you're barely 20 or something... That whole generation seems to be boomer prudish. Like talking to/seeing my grandparents as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:26 PM
3

Reading stuff like this makes me wonder if I sort of think like a woman sometimes. I love a lot of the same things like that as they do, and it doesn't make me feel drained, more like a continuous build up. Probably just a personality type thing, extrovert vs introvert, MBTI sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:24 PM
3

Hey, I'm just arguing with you saying all men would still prefer a virgin. Just reminding you that you are still far from the majority, irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:15 PM
1

No, am dude... Would not want to hop in a relationship or wife up a virgin. Yes, I'm older than you probably- but have had this view most of my life. I know/have known a lot of guys who wouldn't want a virgin. We don't want frigid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:30 PM
2

Yeah, basically they made a perfect world scenario for mice, endless food, no predators etc. to see what would happen... and the mice quit reproducing. Last I read, one of the leading theories was that there was nothing to trigger any survival instincts/self preservation, iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:07 PM
2

Yeah that's creepy AF. He honestly believes he's the noble good guy though probably. Like Joe on the show You.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:35 PM
2

Maybe really low testosterone possibly? Or prescription psychotropic drugs maybe? Sign of the times maybe... Mouse utopia and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:33 PM
1

41M, when I was 15 or 16 to a gf. We were together probably a couple-three years. I'd like to check up on how she is now, if I knew her current last name:)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:39 AM
1

I didn't downvote you ftr.. I'm not that petty. Whatever works for you. She looks at you like she got shortchanged a meal or a candy bar, or should have gotten more out of you... She looks at me like I put my dick and tongue in her soul. You're right, we are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:26 PM
1

I might've been pandering a bit lol, but you do you and her boo boo. If you wanna pull her hair and spank her ass and she's into it, do it or whatever then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:58 AM
1

I would want to say about 1 in 20-25... But then think about it more in relation to current info, and think it's more like 1 in 50-60, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:51 AM
2

You scoop her up/playfully toss her down/maneuver her body in some way to express indulging yourself on her like she is a delicacy... An ice cream cone and you kiss her clothes off of her. Some claim that going down on a woman is a submissive act... But I would disagree with those and say they are looking at it wrong. You eat the ice cream cone- it doesn't eat you:D But if she wants to grab your head, and pull it in- well that's hot too lol. The point is... There's a fine line with sort of treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:50 AM
1

It's a proverbial, "slippery slope." You don't want to be cold, but too much warmth leads to cuddles and snuggles. This is basically why I can't have casual sex/not a casual sex type person. I'm too into giving, "the bf experience." I like actually snuggling up and sleeping with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:36 AM
1

That chick? No, I would honestly date a big/chunky girl first. At least they're soft. Don't want no dude leg throwing over me in the middle of the night lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:28 AM
1

My golden tongue will beat your golden penis any day:D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:29 PM
1

If we went out, as in go anywhere for the night... I would feel uncomfortable with a woman paying my way on a first date. But yes... If we hung out all night doing stuff, and you/she basically invited herself in to stay/came off as wanting to stay- I would probably feel obligated to sleep with her, yes. A couple women have gotten it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:17 PM
2

No winter vagina problems for my woman lol.. I know what this mouth is for. That's a you non-cookie eaters problem:D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:14 PM
1

One is slightly better than zero... But imo... That's why I have a rule of bare minimum of five.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:09 PM
1

Their normal social media accounts are their dating pick-up sites. The guys they are actually sleeping with just started talking to them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:45 PM
1

I haven't really had a problem with this in almost a decade probably... Far as gf's go anyway. I don't get in relationships with frigid women I can't warm up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:35 AM
1

You picked an asshole who wants more, or considers himself above your league. Or maybe you're just too, "pick me/a yes girl" and he's going to leave you for someone he has to work more for. Life's a bitch, and he really wants one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:57 PM
1

If you're getting satisfactory sex as a guy, it's stupid to leave that. Not saying I haven't made that mistake multiple times... Just admitting it is a mistake. Women are also like jobs... It's way easier to get one when you already have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:45 PM
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A couple weeks maybe? If she's not wanting it at least once a week, (on average) this is probably not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:42 PM
1

Men: Make sure she enjoys herself as much as possible, she'll want more/be more willing to be down or motivated for more. Women: Be smaller than the man you want, and pick one who is more of a giver/pleaser than a taker. Assuming she's not a giver type. Edit: Also men: Sleep with women less attractive than you. They'll always want more. Also overweight women tend to always be hornier/have higher libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:41 PM
1

Yeah, another vote for making our male sex drive down to equal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:14 PM
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Anal in either direction, and choking, like you said. And fucking in the rain... Not as sexy hot as you would imagine. It's fucking cold, yucky feeling:D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:11 PM
2

Yes, virtually every guy has seen this from some standpoint. The one instance that irked me the most was going from single on FB to having a gf, or just posting pics of doing something fun with a girl. I had never gotten a friend request (real looking, not fake spam hustler profile) or attention (likes on post and such) from a woman I didn't know until after I posted with a woman I was obviously seeing or on a date with. Women (most women) very much preselect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:53 PM
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You should probably give priority to the one that you can talk to the most comfortably, the conversation flows the smoothest, feels the most natural. That's what you'll be left with for all the hours after sex. I feel bad if we help contribute to a girl's heart getting broken though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:59 AM
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Send him sexy teasers to remind him or motive him. If he doesn't respond in ways that make you feel confident and more secure... You can always play "tit for tat," and make him jealous. If still doesn't work... Well window shop for a new BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:34 AM
3

Never misplaced mine, or forgot her anywhere, but she ran off a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:31 AM
5

Another person wanting to know how you have a date more than a week in advance with a woman, and also simultaneously not really know her? Have you talked to her in-between? Is there just phone/text tag chemistry, but haven't met? Sounds like you should probably go, if it infatuates you so- but think it's going to be trouble for you in hindsight, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:30 AM
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Not at this point. There's catches and caveats to the other women making you more attractive. It really only works initially, or if you don't act on it; especially if you've already gotten to a stage of some sort of relationship with a woman. Sounds like they've already slept together, so she is probably more likely to see it as betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:25 AM
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I've made this mistake a lot, coming off too, "take it slow, get to know one another..." upfront. This is too passive (we'll call it) for a lot of women. Also, if you mean, "look like someone who will take it start to finish" as in you are looking for a wife- this easily gets felt as needy to women. Regardless it doesn't matter, what you're doing seems fairly successful, you just don't actually see and walk it through, in the now, short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:17 AM
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Another vote that a soft/white lie rejection is probably best for most people, in most cases. This, "forward and direct" is probably only best for guys with some ego, enough to laugh it off. I've read too many guys on Reddit talking about women being mean to them, and that's probably how women are going to translate, "forward and direct" from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:08 AM
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I still think the majority do, and have always preferred relationships myself. If we get along great, and I can happily sleep with you... Why do I need another woman? It's mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:01 AM
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Ummm... 🎶It beats me black and blue, but it fucks me so good and I can't get enough...🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:18 AM
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I mean it depends on where you are going, and what type of woman you are trying to attract. Also you have to actually have/be able to pull off the type to get that girl. Find the place she wants to go, and look like you would belong there or compliment what she is going to look like going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:14 PM
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Women just really are grossed out by anal, and most don't really like to give BJ's... and they don't want to have to compete with gay men on their forté. They have less, "P-power" in these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:53 PM
1

Not a cigarette smoker again. If she can be happy just vaping, then that would be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:49 PM
2

They think dicks in asses are gross... Most women really don't like anal, or interested in anal, and gay usually means he's really into anal. Also gay men really enjoy sucking dick, and most women really don't enjoy sucking dick. If she has to equally compete with men sexually, she's at a disadvantage. She has less, "P-power" and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:23 PM
1

I'm indifferent, both tend to have their strong and frustrating points. I probably usually end up with more extroverted, b/c easier to get to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:17 PM
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Yes, but I would almost consider it a negative now, b/c it's risky to the relationship. I don't consider her sleeping with another woman cheating.. but her sleeping with another woman easily leads to us sleeping with another woman- which is very risky or testing of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:14 PM
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I mean, to be fair, you probably can't find anyone over teenage who hasn't seen some type of porn. Guys exist who don't regularly watch it though, albeit we may be the extreme minority now. I know a few, but it may be less common in z generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah, I should have said whatever niche interest the kind of woman he wants and is compatible with has. But then somebody might accuse me of telling them to be fake, or change themselves for women. Sometimes that is what some need to do though to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:40 PM
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Dad bods with handsome heads lol. I almost didn't say that, I sound like a black piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:36 PM
1

Your desire for a baby is no different than a man's desire for sex. It's how you're wired, fulfill biological need. But you feel however you want of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:02 AM
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I'm sorry but feeling the need for a baby is a biological need, just like sex. It's the same thing. No different than a man's need or urge for sex. Both exist for the same reason, and serve the same purpose. You can think your desire to have s baby is more noble, but it's not🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:56 PM
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They exist though, so somebody is using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 PM
1

A woman gave herself for money, for a man's bodily desires. He gave himself for money, for a woman's bodily desires. Her wanting a baby is no different than him wanting a release.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 PM
1

He was paid for use of his body, the sexual use of his body specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:41 PM
1

Hospitals are a business, so have to maintain a certain level of capacity at times to have a profit. The ICU beds are full argument is invalid, b/c they plan to have a certain amount full to justify/cover them. As for the science ™ on unvaccinated, you are probably already unvaccinated, or could be counted as such if you got sick. There's a window for boosters to be needed to be considered vaccinated, and you will see this coming more in more places in the near future. Already a double vaxxed is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:33 PM
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I mean he still does better than he would fat. He/they need to put some clothes on for whatever niche personality he has, (music guy, outdoors guy, looks like he belongs at this dinner/event guy, etc.) that he can possibly relate with her with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:47 PM
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In what way? I worry about being a hypocrite above all else, honestly, probably. Or desire to make a point to not to be anyway. I'm not saying shit dad is better than no dad, I'm saying in most cases, an attempted dad is better than no dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:37 PM
1

Stand up straight, don't slouch or subconsciously look like a beaten dog if possible. Don't stare, or let eye contact get stagnant. As in a glancing nod or whatever and looking away is one thing, but watching her walk around without acknowledging it is a getting creepy other. Slide into her DM's on social media, but do it in an amusing way. She's probably got messages unopened of, "Hey beautiful, how's your day" already. You gotta stand out someway in personality, think job interview. What makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:30 PM
1

That hot pepper rush is nice till it reaches the butthole isn't it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:24 PM
0

Crush yes, passionately love, no, not necessarily. It's just when passionately love turns into needy that it becomes a problem. Or feels that way to them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:14 PM
2

Hoe, think calculator upside down, like spelling boobs like 58008 I think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:10 PM
1

Vagene... Hence here... After that anything Cannabis related. After that, hot chilis, after that, GHB, but haven't done it in years b/c aMeRicAn frEEdOm of what to do with your body. Edit: forgot caffeine, thanks for that fellow Redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:00 PM
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Cherry picked Exceptions don't make the rule...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:58 PM
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I learned some new internet terms like 304 so I gets to keep my I can hang with the nerds badge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:55 PM
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See, a lot of girls really don't want their dainty lil coochie wrekt fr fr lol. Enough with the Chadhorse dick fetish you stroke it to on porn guys. That's still probably mostly projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:53 PM
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Apparently just putting yer PP in a vagene you didn't bribe is the benchmark for Chad ™ here...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:49 PM
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You're gae for wanting to put your PP in a doody hole while doing a reach around to stroke a 6-pack sugarpuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:22 PM
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What is Humble bragging for a shitpost to try and justify my fetish in the process for a circle jerk upvote stroke on ma cock, Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:20 PM
1

Thank you:)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:14 PM
2

This is probably pretty based. I upvoted Lilith... Damn, she must be getting pretty chill in her old pre-wall age lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:51 PM
1

I know, and I know, I just meant I don't even want to start down, or up rather in that direction. Also know I don't enjoy or get sexual tingles from touch on my anus. Grabbing or playing with my butt cheeks is farthest I get positive sensations in that area haha. Also Snoop Dogg put some more pizzazz with his pun on it. The idiom part ¯_(ツ)_/¯ How TF do you fix his arm again!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:47 PM
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That's where you weigh out the cost/benefit of the situation. Anyway, everyone pro abortion ban always has their fee fees as the underlying reason... There is never a valid reason, just, "what if's of future person's fee fees" at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:30 PM
2

I've had some big, burly men tell me that was the best nut they've ever had- but I don't want to know. My nuts are just fine, perfectly happy with my nuts, and just don't want them to ever end. I don't want or feel the need to get my ass eaten, or prostate milked or any such. I don't want to wake up one day and want a big dildo stuck up my ass, and think, "How'd I get here!?" I don't even wanna start down that road. I've passed the test on every other gateway drug theory without fail- I'm not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:25 PM
2

Hey, there's guys out there that will remind them what it feels like to be titillated. It's a doggy dogg world out there... Tit for tat. Probably literally a pun in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:16 PM
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Ok, well you could argue that at best each case is case specific, in that, "harms others" is vague enough to include the child. If the mother isn't ready to be a mother for some reason- that in itself is harmful for the child; the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:10 PM
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Personally I'm not one to ask on moral opinion on when either... I have more of a Spartan view on that. If baby is deformed in some way that would make life obviously difficult or damning, then baby can be spared the run of the gambit. But that's irrelevant, we're agreeing morals are irrelevant... But you can choose help/relief/escape/mercy for an option in almost every other thing in your life; in first/second world standards anyway. How is abortion any different than corrective surgery? You ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:47 PM
2

Ok, well she didn't ask to have legs either, to be a fucking A-hole ableist for starters too. Just first thing I pulled out my ass. This whole argument is shit pulled out our ass- the way it always is about this subject. Even the Bible is pro abortion.. can't pull the verses out my ass's memory atm but will 30sec lazy fuck google search it to shove it up yours if you call me on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:37 PM
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Other than religious beliefs/ moral opinion, I've never seen a good argument to ban abortion. Even yours is a stretch on analogy, probably first thing pulled out your ass. Everybody's born with legs MF'r, unless you fucked up in a bad way from begin with, sooo false equivalency?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:28 PM
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Is nobody going to mention that there is no defined side of which side of scale is which? I'm seeing answers for both ways, is 1 borderline suicide or lapdog happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:22 PM
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And women are not entitled to babies. Going to a sperm bank is no different or better than going to a prostitute. Both are just fulfilling your carnal urges of your body, at the paid expense of something from the other sex's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:15 PM
2

Since we can circle jerk in purge... Yes, sex if definitely a need for proper mental stability. Unless you're borderline Isaac Newton or shaolin monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:13 PM
0

It's a mix of both sides of the spectrum, mostly it seems. One side is obliviously unrealistic, and the other side is too negative Nancy. A range of goldilocks in-between in relationships, or happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:11 PM
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"This is mostly a question for blue, red, and black pillers..." Did we gain colors I'm not aware of? I mean I know pink is a thing, are you meaning us purps stfu... Or is there really a green pill or what now too? What makes a guy successful in getting an LTR is either he is seen as more successful than her, or is superior to her ex's in some way she values... Or he's a piece of shit... And she's bored af with her privileged upbringing, and needs the drama in her life, and is willing to sugarmam…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:08 PM
1

Find a girl who is cheating on an actual good guy, who really loves her... Then make her fall in love with you, leave him, then break her heart. It's a net neutral move on karma, possibly even a gain b/c she deserves bad karma, and you're helping him get another chance to escape and find someone deserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:59 PM
1

Most of the attached ones are attached to guys they aren't that crazy over, he just looks good/is good for her brand and image. Half (the guys) are placeholders, good enough to hold the spot, and scratch an itch, not let her post alone pics on holidays... but she's secretly/possibly unknowingly waiting for that more perfect branch. TL;DR: RP right about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:56 PM
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Always pictured her as super skinny... Which would mean no- but she is young, and think she's American.. so she may be a bigger girl with big ol' tiddies to match. Don't think she's ever posted a pic, unless I've missed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:52 PM
2

Tell me you've never had your cookie eaten right without telling me you've never had your cookie eaten right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:38 PM
1

Incel, maggots are gross. I can rebuild and fix the incel, if he'll just listen. GLO tech can fix his body/hardware, I can fix everything else, his software.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:32 PM
1

Robots can't smell like a woman, until it has similar or better body odor somehow... Real vagene and girl hair wins for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:30 PM
1

He falls in love according to his options, loyalty is a show of character. Cheating is a breach of contract, and ethically wrong. Some of us have more ethics, or stronger ethics than morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:28 PM
1

Ackshully... Almost every die hard Trumper I know is, "vaccinated." Trump approves the, "vax," still tells his followers to get it, and it was originally his promise to bring to the people. It was originally his baby. There's a shit ton of lefties who flipped the script on it, went from, "I'm not taking Trump's shot" to, "Everyone must take it now that Biden and Harris & Co. say so." Dumbass two party minded Americans on both sides are doing what masta says, and real masta of the plantation owns…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:21 PM
1

You mean, "science ™." Science bought and paid for by the people making billions is what you're listening to. It is literal propaganda. It's always funny to me (not really) that people jump on the misinformation agenda like there's some company or person benefitting from it. I mean show me the person who made a billion dollars off an antivax stance. What motive does the antivax side have, other than spreading what they believe is the real truth? I mean short of Alex Jones or Carlson Tucker or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:13 PM
1

I could replace her just as fast, and she knows it. She's not jealous, but wanting a man they know another/other women want is a real thing, and an aphrodisiac/attraction for them. I've never been turned down once in this relationship. I do try to make it worth her while in some way though, even in quickies. I try to make those extra sweet, don't want her to feel like a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:51 AM
1

RP truth, America doesn't really have elections anymore, the machine picks who it wants. Everything else is just theater. Oh, and your Trump is just an actor. Both Trump and Biden are pedos working for the same more powerful pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:42 AM
1

Yes, somebody gave me some coke, and I took it home. I've done a little bit of it on and off throughout my life... Never really was my thing. just something to do when it was offered or on the table. I didn't realize she had such an addictive personality. Thought we were going to just have a fun/funny story weekend, didn't grasp that she'd be craving it every day from there on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:47 PM
0

Why do you always have to log in extra to do these? I never trust this, typing in login info is how you get your accounts hijacked 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:43 PM
1

Maybe I'm projecting my mother onto more of you lol, IDK. Women just seem to tend to blow more money, of the two people. A lot of guys do have expensive hobbies though. I'm sorry to touch a nerve here, this money spending hill isn't a hill I want to die on, you win, your specific/special situation makes it different;P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:17 AM
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A lot of guys still seem to get their man panties in a wad over it, so it's a trigger for some. I don't worry about guys thinking I'm gay, it's never stopped some woman (or his woman) from wanting to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:12 AM
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Yes I can imagine healthy budgeting, just meaning/agreeing the statistic is probably right that women make 80% of the spending, or influence of the spending for the couple. How many guys really care about towels, and can tell you what their thread counts on the sheets are 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:08 AM
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Exactly, and she decides what she, "saves money buying" while spending both their money lol. I'm not bitching personally, I usually don't have a problem with this in my relationships. Never really fight about money I mean. Just seen it work like that in other people. Wife trying to hide what she's spending, or such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:48 AM
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Nah, couldn't tie them. I'm not sure if she actually cheated, was more of a drug thing. Admittedly it was my fault, from my perspective that she relapsed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:18 AM
1

I've no shit dated a girl who had lips you could probably pull out inches, and she was one of the tightest I've ever had. Her lips would actually dangle if she was standing there naked, she said she used to pull on them when she was little. Would still be with her probably/possibly if she could control herself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:00 AM
1

Oh, I just meant I had at least one good sugar daddy proposition/possibility that I can think of. I just couldn't be gay for pay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:43 AM
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I mean I've been propositioned, been kissed by dudes before (felt like a wet handshake but worse, b/c face) and had a chick stick a finger in my butt... But didn't really get turned on by any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:34 AM
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How bout we put it this way... All things else, (face, mental, personality, etc.) being equal... If one has a flat stomach, but nothing standing out in any other way, but the other has one of my big mouth watering three, (boobs, butt, thighs) then that may be what wins it over for me on which one I'd rather hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:32 AM
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Fair point, yeah that. Not saying I haven't seen some twink looking lady that I found attractive, just saying exceptions don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:29 AM
1

Na, if I was gay, I'd have it made lol. I'd happily anonymously admit it if I liked the peter, or ma ass ate. Or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:28 AM
2

Not seeing the Freudian slip, but it's just an observation I've noticed. The guys who want the smallest/most muscular women tend to be the most vocal about also liking the butt stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:08 AM
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Yes, she's still attractive- but she's putting in too much work to go negative in a way, for probably/possibly at least 40% of men, maybe over half. Six packs don't belong on women, it's masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:02 AM
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No, I do the manhandling, and I'm not quite a manlet. I mean I'm under 6 American footballs, or whatever tall- but I can Magic Mike a bitch if I can pick her up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:59 AM
1

Fair nuff.. to each his bruises:D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:57 AM
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She's got no boobs, no butt, arms like a little boys wrist, bird legs... Damn I hope Milla doesn't somehow see this lol. She looks better after gaining some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:44 AM
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Ok, not actual rolls of fat- but 6-packs don't look good on women, imo. I'm not big into the gym bodies that could pass for prepubescent boys, I like soft, meaty goods all over me. And being realistic... I know some traits don't typically come in small, flat waist. I'm fine with a little, "muffin top" to gain the assets in other areas. You prolly like ass fucking too- you at least half gay already. I've noticed a correlation, or apparent correlation to liking little boy built women, and desire f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:42 AM
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She is too small, I'm sorry. Mila is pretty, and she's intelligent, she can also sing- but she is not the perfect specimen of women. Gahd, I even cringed at my own choice of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:31 AM
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No, not him, but the insecurity is not completely valid. You're right about experienced guys knowing labias have no correlation to tightness, and likely having seen, "worse" for lack of better word than whatever she is concerned about. Don't worry girls, your arguments and points here are right, in your assessment. Now somebody chime in to tell me how much of a white knight simp I am for saying more labia is fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:24 AM
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🎶Girls don't want a gentleman They say they do but in the end Girls don't want a gentleman They want a loser like me.🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:20 PM
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Sounds like it may be bad for you, but I am not a gynecologist. I'm just a dude, a jackass dude trying to help dipshits get laid. Your issue is well beyond my expertise 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:37 PM
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Nooo... Slide into her DM's with something jabby but funny, which will elicit a response. Edit: Elicit sounds way easier and less intimidating of a goal than inspire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:35 PM
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Yes... Social media has ruined interpersonal human interactions. Annnywaaay... You still have to flirt, and just talking in a strictly friendly and platonic manner gets yourself in the friend zone, which is fine.. just another hoop to jump yourself out of. Don't paint yourself in that friend box to tightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:35 PM
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Touch his PP, or bite his neck or such in faintly seductive manner👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:18 PM
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The guys you are picking are arrogant sons o' bitches... and they unknowingly need those egos challenged. Don't be so/too easy to please, "pick me's" don't work on every man. Ruffle his proverbial feathers- but be playful, snarky bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:17 PM
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Just wing it, ask the fucking question instead of posting about asking the fucking question. "It's easier to get forgiveness than permission..." I know, you mean the format isn't up to what your IT Nazi ass is wanting to be satisfied with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:11 PM
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Each cheese has it's own place and specialty to shine. Can't make creamy mac n' cheese with anything but some blasphemous American processed, but that can't replace mozzarella on a pizza, or sharp cheddar with bacon. Depends on what we're eating bougie bastard 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:58 PM
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Percents? Probably something like one in 20-25 girls likes butt stuff, and such. The rest are just troopers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:54 PM
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Vaginas are flowers, dicks are dongles. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:52 PM
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B/c she's spending her expendable income and his too, duh🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:45 PM
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Only guy friends is a big red flag, meme based 👍 It usually means other girls know they can't trust her, and she's already burned those bridges being shady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:43 PM
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Introverted incel boy pussies: You guys are out of touch, you don't understand the market! Reeee! PPD old bastards: What have you actually done to get girls, or interact with them? When was the last time you dropped some funny sexual innuendos, or flirted in a sexual nature? Boy pussies: WAT!? Talk to girls first?! Drop remotely sexual comments or jokes around them- are you trying to get us MeToo'd?!?!?! I've made a Tinder, that's the only approved way to get pussy now, you can't acknowledge the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:34 PM
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Now show his dad's house beside her mom and step dad's house lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:04 PM
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Never thought about that... The highlighting the belly part. Hopefully I can forget that, and not look for that to notice from now on🙈 Assuming I see one of those again lol. A new bald one. Still thought that was the standard factory default setting now days:D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:25 AM
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Haha, not arguing with the RP truths here, but if you guys wanna be nice... Respectful... Never have to give her some BS- you're going to have to date a fat girl. Those and ethnic girls are about the only ones that respect being respected, and can be attracted to sweetness. I know there's a few girls here who would see that, and be personally offended, and disagree- but there's like 50 of you per capita anywhere. That's why you're here, in such a niche place;D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:17 AM
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Lucky for your clients, guys like me who love the fluff are the extreme minority lol. It's hard to find a woman who will do it nowadays.. just leave the po kitty alone:D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:06 AM
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We've talked about it... Jokingly talked about going looking, she probably wouldn't be that surprised, more eye rolling laugh like, "Of course you did..." if I pulled one out. I already know the kind I need, one with a small/thin little tip on it, that I can get in there with my mouth at the same time. I've used them before, had this issue with another woman before. Well not quite so bad, and she was accustomed to toys, and came with her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:45 PM
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I'm guessing she does get a bit frustrated at times- but the pay offs when they happen are plenty worth it:)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:59 PM
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Not yet, she doesn't have one, and I haven't heard her sounding like she really wanted to go in a store yet. Debated on just ordering what I know I wanna try... but think it'll embarrass her so much as to be counterproductive in it's own right. Not sure she could relax or focus with out just, "Oh god lmao" the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:32 PM
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I'm also used to women already having one, but you're right, it is fun to shop and peruse the stores with them. Haven't done it with this one yet, she's still kind of weird about it. Was/am waiting to hear her more confidently sound like she was wanting to go in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:30 PM
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New daily thread, so bitch whining twice: Going to admit my gf is killing my fetish for cunnilingus. I've always loved doing it, but it does kind of suck when it's women who are really hard to get off. She's the third least favorite (third hardest/worst) woman I have ever went down on. She can apparently mess up her own orgasm by breathing, and moving herself. OMG it is so frustrating. I'm literally in discomfort/actual cramping/pain in at least three places, by the time she finally gets off. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:13 PM
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Yeah, I've been meaning to get one for her, just spoiled and used to not actually having to use one. Thank you:)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:57 PM
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Going to admit my gf is killing my fetish for cunnilingus. I've always loved doing it, but it does kind of suck when it's women who are really hard to get off. She's the third least favorite (third hardest/worst) woman I have ever went down on. She can apparently mess up her own orgasm by breathing, and moving herself. OMG it is so frustrating. I'm literally in discomfort/actual cramping/pain in at least three places, by the time she finally gets off. I'm often just wishing for it to end, and tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:20 PM
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Whoever did the sexiest shit to turn her on, or made her actually cum first. I get the best sex each woman has ever given, b/c I know what dat tongue n' fingers do✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:45 AM
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Oh no... I'm just speculating, being real about it from my perspective on it. My thoughts/opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:56 PM
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My situation in particular, or just in general? Can be either/or or both. My particular situation is the trade off of her not getting a man currently (lol) making more money than her, but we have a lot of fun together. I do some things other guys don't/didn't for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:07 PM
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Agreeing with Pickleline, there just has to be some trade off somewhere, he/she compromised somehow. My girl makes more than me, but she has a couple fetishes (my words/opinion, not hers) that I meet, and some criteria/qualifications in relationship qualities that she prioritizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:41 PM
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Another vote for the Purple perspective is probably basically, "you do you baby... Hopefully whatever it is doesn't do you in. If it does... 🤷‍♂️" I know you didn't say personal take... But I can't not. It does seem for the most part people that got too cocky, and fell to hubris. I'm anti gene therapy flu shot myself, but also understand that there are risks on both sides of the decision. For example if a virus is especially hard on overweight, medically compromised in some way people... You mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:36 PM
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Yes, b/c even the cute ones of you still don't talk to girls... And when you do, you apparently already bring yourself packaged in, "I'm a platonic friend offering" box; hoping you'll work your way out of it. But then you don't want to do the work part. You already come in putting yourself in a box, then get upset when you have to climb yourself out of said box. The answer is to not try so hard boxing yourself, painting yourself into this perfect friend picture that you are trying to sell to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:27 PM
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I mean I get that I'm like you ordered Magic Mike off of Wish... but I've still seen Mr. Fat stacks get way to much affection for way too little work:S
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:36 PM
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Kudos to your dedication to equality and fairness for the organs... My prostrate is just too introverted to be comfortable for that. That little snowflake is very particular about what touches it. As for my peen... It thinks itself too dapper and sophisticated to roll up it's sleeve, and get down and dirty like that. Thank you though;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:43 PM
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If you're in camp black pill, but I'm not. I live in camp reality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:17 PM
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Barbarians and simpletons, but do agree freshly cracked pepper makes all the difference, so is ok to highlight it:D Cacio e pepe, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:58 PM
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Yes... This is 100% pretty blonde white girl, probably rich/well to do parents in a gated community. We're all supposed to stop and care for her, regardless how many other types of girls went missing today. Same thing with Natalie Holloway, or however you spell her name, if you are old enough to remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:56 PM
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It's irrelevant, those guys with money who are using it to get the bubbly babes don't care, they are working with what they have. The sex is going to be one-sided, and for him by default. It's how those guys are wired. Everything is for him. Just admit that the vast majority of women are essentially hookers for a long term payment plan, "You buy me this house, that Landrover, I'm yours" and this particular asshole will in giddy in that, and shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:34 PM
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Not by Bill Gates, you girls are hanging on to that cherry picked cringy example for dear life lol. "We're" simply stating that women fuck money just as fast or faster than sir Chadwick himself. Money gets the same strip tease and sexy panties as Magic Mike.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:58 PM
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Not into butt stuff (in either direction) for the record. If that's what you're implying. I've had the surprise finger... It did not impress. IDK if it was the setting... or what. I've been told to give it another try, but I think I'm just too old fashioned for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:07 PM
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Thank you for that reality check, your opinion Must be aight. Username checks out:D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:03 PM
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Omagheeerd, it doesn't matter who or what she's flicking her bean to. Who's getting to cream pie in her in the end is all that matters. Ok... You girls keep patting each other on the backs and talking shit about whatever you want- then go get creampied by your financial advisor or real estate agent;P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:37 PM
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Do you feel pumped and invigorated now? Ready to seize the day there keyboard warrior? I usually have a history of taking up for/trying to help incels. The majority usually make me regret that decision though, and lose empathy/compassion for them as a whole. Until I feel like an asshole, and want to try and help people who think they can't help themselves again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:32 PM
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Everyone is only dating for reasons... Money, status, looks whatever. Knock Chad's front teeth out and see how well he does. Everything (well almost everything for most people) is superficial. I just don't see the distinguishing difference in the results between the nuanced point you all are making here. Yes, I've been lusted after, it does feel nice and wonderful. But ultimately it doesn't matter when it comes down to who gets the girl. There's too many videos of set ups and pranks/social exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:26 PM
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Not really "triggered," you know we just verbally stick fingers in sphincters just for the fun of it here. I initially took the post as some dude whining about how people say if he just gets money, women will want to sleep with him- but he has money; and still has no takers on his peen. My argument/counter point is this technicality on the difference in attraction is irrelevant, short term. Women rarely lust for peen, and the guy that gets that/born with that is no better off, still coming in se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:20 PM
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It's irrelevant. He still gets the eager puddy just the same. Eager, fast sex, is eager fast sex. This nuance is irrelevant to the end result of the night. Two different baits, same results. Edit: I'm sorry most women are essentially prostitutes on a long term payment plan past 25. I didn't program them 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:40 PM
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Don't get me wrong, career women slumming it is a thing too. Like nurses playing sugar mama to deadbeats with neck tattoos, that's a cliché too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:32 PM
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Oh-kay.. she's totally not steaming her panties to make it her car or get him to give her her's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:23 PM
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Like read the post? Yeah, I thought you were an incel. Maybe you've rubbed words with them so long they're growing on you like a fungus. We usually agree most of the time I think tho😬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:22 PM
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You obviously haven't seen women hop in a 100K car, or on a boat. "Cheesin'" smile like she just queefed a rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:05 PM
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Maybe it's the confidence of having money that attracts women, but just b/c you have a trust fund, or inherit a mansion and also have the personality and social skills of a cactus doesn't mean that simply having the money will make women want to fuck you. God Reddit... Will you please let there be another incel sub for all these lack of fucks to circle jerk in to get them out of a sub that's supposed to be about talking about people actually getting laid, or at least the ethics of strategies to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:21 PM
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Yes, have even swapped accounts over this. Went to a different one she had never seen when we broke up. Been waiting on new girl to get curious after browsing Reddit with her looking at screen, and showing/linking/screenshotting her post. Think she may be more, "I don't think I really wanna see anymore than you show me" line of thought though:D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:21 PM
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Anecdotal, but another person who thinks women cheat more. This is based on seeing real life relationships, and knowing of more women cheaters than men. Also have multiple friends who have been the other guy types, and myself included. Also think more women prefer taken men than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:32 PM
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I think I only had one gf that really had a porn habit, and she was pretty much a nympho across the board. Was one of those, "Men think they want a nympho till they actually get one lol" type girls and situations. I kept it more, "out of sight out of mind" about it, like you said. I mean we occasionally watched stuff together, probably would have more had that been my thing. I would just take the opportunity of catching a horny woman. Duh. Male ego is not gonna let that go, I can eat it or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:56 PM
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Not a Trumper... But guessing either since he's, "on the inside" in NY real estate, he probably knows it's all just a scam show anyway. Also he's not in the Actor's Guild anymore, so maybe he's just being retired of that tv series.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:59 PM
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Fair enough point, still don't like thinking about it as being rapey of course. Hey, I intend on making it worth her while... I have her best sensations at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:59 PM
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That is one of the scariest movies there is to me, b/c it is so real. I actually watched that movie for the first time with a real life version of a gone girl. She loved it. She viewed it as a, "You go girl, you won, you got all you wanted, and got away with everything hehe" kind of perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:48 AM
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Indifferent isn't rape, "Think of England" isn't exactly slavery, but maybe I missed that page in whitewashed history. Still think it's more, "cultural" than innate nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:41 AM
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Seduction is akin to rape? Still sounds like you're saying all men would just freely rape if they could freely get away with it. Maybe just agree on your, "other factors" such as culture being more of an influence, "nurture over nature" in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:36 AM
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Ok, then women start wearing those barbed insert things, and being armed, and that probably slows down a bit. Still think those guys are more the fringe minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah, had she at least used/gone after some asshole actor women could relate to possibly hating or at least not liking, she might've made a better run with that. But she used Mr gentleman, do it for the kids. It'd be like the next step down from accusing Keanu of beating a woman, it's a tough sell to begin with. Then got sloppy with it too?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:01 AM
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Agreeing murder, b/c we're talking about in the context of a short time period, like a day or such. I get the argument rape to the same woman could happen repeatedly, but only killed once, I still think there's more killing someone held back in more men than raping some woman. Always disagreed with u/xQueen-Bx over this. She thinks most to all men by default will/would violently rape a woman if they freely could; and I think most men need the validation of a woman wanting to fuck him to get into…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:43 AM
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I still shower daily usually, but will agree there is not much more satisfying than having a woman smell you like a blanket on a fabric softener commercial. Do you agree the same is for women usually? I love a woman who has good smelling body odor. Like the more you get her worked up, the better she smells.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:52 AM
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I've really only noticed that (the desensitized clit due to toys) on really one girl, possibly two I think. I don't think it's really that common. I'm going to get one for my girl (she doesn't own one) but the kind that has the little narrow antenna looking end or side. You can get your mouth around those, like a toothbrush. Suck her clit right into it haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:40 AM
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Oh I'm not above using toys... you just can't really keep toys as a guy, b/c it was used on another girl, (ime) so it has to basically be her toys, or new toy:D Haha, I've had my dick eat up before, js some girls overthink it, and are more impatient than they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:30 AM
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Maybe if you hang around enough together, it'll "just happen." :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah, Pit bull terriers are the most, "beefy" dog I'd ever have, but don't really want one for myself honestly. Maybe a girl one, not quite as big. Big dogs are too much to deal with, but I don't really want a chihuahua either haha. Most little dogs seem kind of mean, and more temperamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:31 PM
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Women: Have to give them half a dozen different combinations of speed and rhythm with tongue and fingers to find the one that's going to get her there this time. When you find just the right one... You have to maintain it for a good 20min without even her own butt jumping/leg moving messing it up for her, and having to start over. Also women: 2min into a BJ when a guy doesn't cum she apparently thinks, "OMG I must not be good at this or doing it right- do I suck at this?" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:20 PM
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Maybe mention a movie you want to see, or a place you'd like to see, a food/restaurant you'd like to try, see if you can get a conversation started about that. Maybe he'll take the hint, and offer to go/do it with you. Or you could be more direct with it, "Have you ever seen/had _?" I'm now guessing you may have tried that already, hence your, "I ask questions, but don't wanna feel interrogating." Guys that won't take hints or risks are a tough one for a girl. You might have to flat out ask him …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:12 PM
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Another person in the camp who thinks at least half women are bi, or a little bi. By a little bi I mean they would do things sexual with a woman, but maybe not actually be in a romantic relationship with a woman. I have two lesbian friends who say this, so not something straight male pulled out his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:02 PM
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Too many women love dick, and the feel of a man lol. IDK though, a lot of the zoomer girls seem to do fine without it, might be in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:55 PM
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Not sure where you stand on it, but if taken care of right, they are some of the best dogs to have around. A buddy's dog saved a woman, or so she says. We have a veterinary place here that is also an animal kennel for people who can't take their animals on trips. They also bring stray animals here that animal control picks up. Anyway the lady works there, and a stray dog got brought in (think it was a rottweiler, but don't really remember, wasn't a pit) and she was going in to tend to them. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:39 PM
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Umm... Maybe word that more like, "You don't have some rape or twisted, kinky fantasies do you lol?" That's def a risky move Cotton.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:26 PM
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A lot to possibly most aren't really, b/c a lot to most tend to base relationship value on a man having more money/assets/or status than her. The exception being the demographic of gated community rich girls who have family money to fall back on, (this frees them up from looking elsewhere to better herself) and working women like my gf who already have their own place, finances covered, and pretty much whatever tangible they really want anyway. Those women are also free to prioritize their lust …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:20 PM
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Quit asking girls WRYD, and such. Find a better icebreaker question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:10 PM
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They can't, b/c they don't have the mentality for it. How many years have people here tried to teach them this, coddle them into believing they can.. I give up for the most part. For years now under at least two different accounts I've told them you can outfuck a guy with a bigger D, have done it, you just have to have the mentality to be more fun, more passionate, whatever gets you an edge with this particular woman. They are hopeless, forever porn cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:19 PM
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So they think, maybe so. Wonder how many more times likely they are to get hit by a distracted driver...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:20 AM
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Well I just passed someone on a jet ski wearing a mask. I've seen the memes of people swimming with them, but always secretly hoped it was fake or missing context. They exist facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:35 AM
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So now I'm confused on what we're arguing about. Sounds like we're agreeing for the most part? Yes, I too have ended up in relationships b/c a woman made me feel guilty about the sex. But I naturally feel somewhat obligated to give her a test run for a mini relationship b/c we've slept together, if there's no big deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:26 PM
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I mean I've been in an abusive relationship before, and I genuinely loved the girl. But yeah, "Bitch is crazy- but the sex..." Is a real thing, yes. We're still talking minorities of relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:51 PM
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"I am 33 and my bf is 24, and I overly worry about things he and everyone close to me would roll their eyes about..." Are you my step sister🤨🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:47 PM
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Think your perspective or take on it is a little off. It's not as much a line of thinking of, "I had better gf her up, IDK when I'll find a new person to sleep with me..." as it is, "Wow, I'm getting laid now, we get along together, I don't wish her to leave... Why end this!?" I think your scenario of thinking is way less common than my scenario of thought. Probably something like the ye ol' 80/20 rule strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:13 PM
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It's a mixture of different things for different people. Some speculation about a version of the vaccine that they can shine a UV light (iirc) on you to see you've been vaccinated. Also something about, "luciferase" but to my understanding that was just used in the testing process, to see where it bound to. It's just the name for bioluminescent compounds in general, not a new invention or coined term for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:03 PM
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He needs manlier shots, and not have the first picture slumping and slouching in a T-shirt. This looks like it could be a grinder bio for a not a power bottom. Not what he's going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:47 PM
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I pretty much quit looking at anything like that when I get a girl, for that very reason. Why watch somebody else eat dinner on camera when I can actually go eat dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:53 PM
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Well I have been kicked out of TRP for disagreeing with them before so... 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:30 PM
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No, I don't think they have the ability to have that luxury of self actualization, no. I think they are groomed and brainwashed from infanthood (not a word probably, but you get the idea) to know their place in their, "society."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:58 PM
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B/c "patriarchy," is for the most part a conglomeration of whatever you want it to mean at the time, not a unified entity where men get together and decide what it is and does. Women define patriarchy. Also this is Islam world, not, "whatever you want to be and identify with" world. You, (women) are nothing more than possessions to show and use as you see fit in that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:44 PM
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If you mean what I think you mean, you're still comparing non-Muslim men to Muslim men. Reality check that women are property to Muslim men, like a pet, or a goat or camel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:33 PM
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No, but I don't think porn is necessary or beneficial to a relationship. I don't watch it, rarely have. Used to look at pics occasionally when I was single single, as in went a while without sleeping with anybody. That's part of why have a gf- not have to fake it elsewhere anymore. I rarely jerk off when I have a gf. That's kind of the point- well a major part of it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:53 PM
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Am dude, but don't understand how jerking off to other women and other people having sex is good for your relationship. Just sounds like more like a porn addict trying to justify his chosen vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:36 PM
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Mix of both? Cold approaching via her dm's online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:32 PM
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Ok, fair, usually that's literotica and a vibrator though, or massaging shower wand though probably. I can just think of a couple few I'd put ahead of it. Him quit seducing her, and some sancho getting good chemistry with her, "and it just happens." Her doing it as a mental jab at him, he made her resent him for something. He cheated, so tit for tat. At least three I think are more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:00 AM
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Fair enough and yes, but ftr, I think that's probably the last reason women cheat. If we could get real percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:50 AM
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The extent that I've seen, heard, and known of them staying despite that need not being met mostly. And never trying to address the problem even, in a lot of instances, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:29 AM
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I'll argue sexual satisfaction is way low down on the priority list for a lot to most women, and virtually everything else you could name ranks higher. IDK if that's b/c so few women have ever experienced being satisfied, so you can't miss what you've never had... Or they are just genuinely fine with handling what little they need themselves. Their sexuality being more reactive, and needing inspiration and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:52 PM
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B/c they'll happily LTR up a man who doesn't satisfy them, b/c none ever do, or rarely do. Basically, "just show attempt and caring for their pleasure" is treated like something special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:04 PM
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The bar for expectations on sex is low, but the expectations for what an ideal relationship candidate is high for most, probably. Not the same thing, two different groups of people with two different arguments. Well at least two different demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:41 PM
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Nah, he just needs more money than her, or status in some way she cares about. Then he also probably needs to do more than just get her dirty, to get it enthusiastic and whenever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:44 PM
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Yes I'd want my daughter to end up with a guy like me, I'm almost perfect lol. I'm thoughtful, considerate, put my partners everything before mine, for the most part; cook, clean, don't cheat... I'm exactly what someone should want for their daughter:D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:29 PM
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I'll give you most women don't really care about sexual satisfaction, (apparently) so it's almost a moot point argument. The vast majority of women seem perfectly fine with reading some romance novel, diddling herself, and going to cozy up to Mr. Pays the credit card bill, and social media, "look what he bought me's."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:09 PM
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I mean he'd pretty much have to have a fetish for it, cough cough but I always know I can get mine later. Usually, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:02 PM
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Well I mean, apparently only about 10% of us actually show any effort, or look like it, according to women's perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:33 PM
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You're on the money with everything you've said, most women do have low expectations in the sack, and her past/last guys did leave the bar set embarrassingly low. Shamefully low.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:15 PM
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No, non-hot guys who are above average lovers get lots of sex, in relationships, and casual women/friends/ex's who would/will sleep with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:13 PM
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A somewhat to slightly overweight woman who is not on drugs, doesn't have multiple baby daddies, and can take care of herself in every sense of the words; financially/mentally/emotionally stable. My literal, "looksmatch" is either cashing in on beta bux/money man, or if she's not, it's b/c she likely has a drug problem, and is still party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:11 PM
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Haha, good point. I do think about that kind of thing sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:09 PM
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Well the one good thing about being with a big girl... when The Walking Dead/Mad Max apocalypse happens, they'll just get hotter the worse the food situation gets. Silver linings...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:57 PM
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I don't even have a lock on my phone, and just assume a woman may do it at some point b/c I think it's so common. Keep shit you don't want her to see off your phone. Either act right, or go extra on snapchat or vanish mode in messenger, n such.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:56 PM
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Yes, but has been said it's work, mental investment, and you are probably better off just chatting with one on other social media. "Sliding in her dm's" with something funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah, it's not palm tree and pretty sand Florida... but Hotlanta def has its fun perks and character. One of the few crown jewels of the south for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:16 PM
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Boom!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:07 PM
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Well yeah.. that's b/c men will do it anyway, she's got nothing to lose with being honest with him. We hear everything about their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:36 PM
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Yes, prior promiscuous girls can gf up just fine, assuming you are satisfying her. In this case though, it honestly seems like the second is more your LTR level match. I understand you like seeing the other girl naked more, or desire to see her naked more- but she is apparently just using you as a place holder. Somebody good enough to wet her whistle, and get some meat... but she's really holding out to cash in on those looks and sex kitten attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:32 PM
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Damn near 40, mid to late 30's at least. Well social media took over more and more, and I was reluctant to adopt that, which hurt me. Women don't flirt and talk to strangers like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:17 AM
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I never chased attached women on purpose, they were just eager and really willing. Usually you don't know at first, or not initially. You just know you want her, she's willing... and if you don't- someone else just will. She'll replace you, and do it anyway. I don't get a rush or thrill out of it, other than just the rush of getting some in general. "Take what you can get," basically. I usually end up trying to steal them away, and find out we're both basically getting played and used. Oh, the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:37 PM
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Yes, I'm in the second camp, and think I have had that mindset (for the most part) in my early twenties. I used to always get performance anxiety about the first time up until probably mid to late twenties, and would have probably considered myself demisexual, if I knew the term existed then. Had to get comfortable with a woman to be able to. After the second woman repeatedly cheated on a guy she said was bigger than me, I quit worrying about the size thing. That, "Does he have a little dick or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:20 PM
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Well don't fluff my head up too big now... Ye old male ego could use a good cage rattling every so often;P I've heard (well read) that it's basically just as strict as ever, just heard it has more, "black pilled" influence now than it did. As to what makes me think differently, I'm guessing it is basically the same premise as the subject of this post - different personality types. I used to be more self conscious/insecure about the bedroom, or her past lovers, but I think that goes away with tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:15 PM
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A chick I was dating is into Reddit, turned me onto it, and I started digging down rabbit holes, seeing what all I could find/how far it went. I originally found TRP first, thought, "Hey, a place we can talk about picking up women, and crack jokes about them. Son of a bitch, I'm in." I got into it with some, "endorsed contributors" and mods, and basically got kicked out of there and AskTrp. Found MGTOW, and thought it was basically TRP with less rules. Got into it with people over there. Found t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:44 PM
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Pretty much yes, that walking cliché guy. That and watching how our relationship unfolds when I got too into them. Nobody really wants to be with a, "yes man." I want to say and clarify that I've never groomed, or taken advantage of, or manipulated any girl or woman. Never lied to get in anyone's pants. InB4: "Looks, duh..." Yes, women have fetishes just like men, and I have dimples, a butt, and apparently a good shoulder/body ratio/shape, or whatever it's called. I like relating with people, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:12 PM
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Yes, I've always enjoyed socializing, partying. I've often been, "the other guy/guy on the side" for women in relationships. Or the guy they sleep with when they get freshly single, or the go to guy friend to, "scratch an itch" when in between relationships. Hopeless romantic as in I've always been, "looking for love in all the wrong places..." and have been a sucker for a, "po' pitiful me" sob story. Mr. "Fix it for her."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:37 PM
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Male, 40, ENFJ. Was all BP (probably would have considered myself) but have accepted that I'm red leaning now, would call it purple, since we can claim such here. I was mostly jokingly misogynistic for a while, (woman hatin' after some bad breakups) and racked up a decent amount of karma under another account basically just roasting at women in r/MGTOW. The women here gave me new hope in women in general, wanted to find one like some of them, sort of maybe have. Not a dateless incel, more of an …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:04 PM
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Yes, most women are bisexual, other news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:55 PM
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"Every time?" Sounds like you're good then. If she was going to kill or assault you, she would have done it by the second time surely. You're probably safe:D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:08 PM
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You could try, "microdosing" them. That's supposed to be all the rage in silicon valley and such. I'm curious about the, "subtle creativity/mood/mental enhancement" as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:38 PM
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Just a squishy buddy to go do things with, travel, try new restaurants, foods... I love snuggling and cuddling, and having chick legs, thighs, and feet thrown on me when I'm relaxing. Just not the same with dude legs. My kid is grown, I'm fixed and not planning on making any more... So just need a companion. Ye old, "partner in crime."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:12 PM
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I don't really know, was more just being snarky. I don't remember the study, but there was one that came to the conclusion that women think men smelled more attractive when another woman had hugged him/put her smell on him. People argued it was like, "pre-vetting" on a biological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:11 PM
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If I've offended your stoic male ego, I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:24 AM
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Trying to defend how flying around in balloons is oh so masculine makes me think of that star dust movie LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:37 AM
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I've got a gf, more makes me more appreciative of the one I have. Just reminds me more there's always a trade off or added fees with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:10 AM
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I see women on my friend's list pop up and I'm like, "Damn, who is that?! Why didn't I hit her up, or try for that?!" Then I scroll over her profile. Memes of setting guy's stuff on fire, not so passive aggressive jabs at ex's that often read oddly specific, post about loving people not making them love you/not deserve the love you gave, "Everything is glorious, I love the Universe so much RN," "Sometimes self help IS just telling someone to fuck off!!!" "Let's get together and plant flowers ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:32 PM
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I don't wanna go slinging negative name calling at women on dating apps in general... but will say I'll never use dating apps again. I've learned I'm better off just finding them through normal social media. Just stalk his profile like you normally do, and actually like something he posted. You're a woman, so this will never be taken as creepy. He'll take bait if he's remotely interested and not a wussy, and flirt back in some or same ways. Also agree you can pull the damn mask down at him. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:39 PM
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A dude admitting "the wall," is for the most part, complete BS. Women do just fine at virtually any age, and a lot of them are still happily single for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:04 PM
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Huh.. didn't know that was a thing yet. I'm already a fan of high carbon steel blades, makes sense. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:12 AM
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Oooh, will do thanks:) Recipe just called for sun dried, and already had some in my fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:53 PM
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Hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:30 PM
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All Chad frying pan lol! So which one gets the sexy cooky the most? Chad pan or old Billy pan or wha?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:15 PM
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Fair enough, I've done this/that too. Tease her just a little bit, then leave her wanting more and to see you again fast;P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:13 PM
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Thought so, thank you;D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:11 PM
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Did watch that show, definitely a lot of truths on display in it. One of the ones that jumps to mind first is the not sleeping with guys they really like. Don't remember which character it was, just remember lol'ing at another one saying, "Oh- you still haven't slept with him yet?! You must really like this guy!" Women🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:50 PM
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I may be using it wrong, but I think it means take up the cooked bits off the bottom of the pan to mix into sauce in pan. Like the cooked meat drippings leftover in pan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:38 PM
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Is there any pan that cooks meat better than cast iron? I've recently got a couple new cast iron skillets, and re-fell in love with them. Last night I made chicken alfredo (basically) stuffed shells in one, and it's my new fav dish. Cooked chicken of course, deglazed pan with chicken stock, sautéed sun dried tomatoes with garlic, added heavy cream, then freshly chopped spinach, then reduced and added parm cheese. Spooned that into partial boiled big pasta shells, with mozzarella. Covered with re…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:06 PM
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One... First one to smell good, for a base smell, then you attract the second woman with the combined smell of that and the first woman. Other girls just make him more attractive, the competition for the women against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:38 PM
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Hahaha, still hoping it doesn't come to that. There's still a few states that will be a hard sale in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:06 PM
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Well yeah, "js" this is getting "nitpicky" on things not to do. Fair enough, Argue away with your nuanced point, give you credit for finding something new to spin an argument on here... I'll stfu about it:D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:44 PM
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Not flaired as a Q4W so going to say people get too hung up on the word, "settled." It has too much negative connotations to it here. All decisions are settling, for the most part. By "settling," most people are really using it as more settling down... As in the term, "settlement;" to make a home. If you buy a house, you are, "settling."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:37 PM
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Just don't overdress for the occasion. I've seen guys in put together suits they bought from a thrift store sport it, and make it work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:30 PM
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Most women are not, "men with vaginas." A few yes, ones he hits on maybe, but seriously doubt most women would identify with this. Guessing they're just not chiming in to argue with him b/c they agree with the overall sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:30 AM
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That's pretty much how it is anyway, if the chick sees you as a point up or so. Edit: inb4 "Women don't see/think in terms of points" I'm just relaying it in guy terms, how he's going to see it regardless whether she mentally graphs it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:18 PM
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Some of the guys my sister's friends are, "talking to" (we both know that means) on occasion are definitely not "Chad" tier level of attractiveness. And I'm not meaning just, "big girls" or anything, the fit and pretty churchy girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:30 PM
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No, they can instigate just fine, just if you're waiting on her to initiate it, you may be waiting a long time. And you better not ever turn her down if she does- or she may never initiate first again. "JS," equality pretty much stops at the bedroom, and you take over for all the start up work. You can't logic or reason around her wiring, an animal is going to respond how an animal responds. You want the kitty to purr... You have to catch the windows that you can make the kitty purr.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:59 PM
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Yeah, as a guy I'll own up and admit here that I think that is usually a, "get what you put in it" sort of thing. They have a meme for this I thought was funny for the opposite reason they do. Shows "Chad getting the hot sex," then her turning down a BJ request in the bottom frame. I occasionally argued that, that shows the problem with them too. "Chad" probably just never sits beside her with the light on, and asks for a blow job like that book over there. He's kissing up on her, maybe whisperi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:27 PM
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I agree that most men in relationships probably are getting satisfactory sex. As for the trope of the cheating man, a common theme, if not the most common theme I see in this real life scenario is: Man quits trying to seduce the woman. Expects sex to happen like it's a topic for dinner. Woman still post, talks, acts like she's really happy with man publicly (maybe she is, maybe she's grasping proverbial straws, whichever) and other women notice this. Some woman comes along who (imho, from my adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:41 PM
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That would be a good start, less drastic for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:23 PM
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Well as a man I'm not loving the idea of taking at least 30% of males out of existence, not really big on my odds of survival... but you're the second person to leave that looking like the next logical step of thought. Edit: Unless we somehow make what- 70% of babies female? That should turn things around too, it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:13 PM
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Sounds like you're advocating making less men somehow. Didn't really wanna go there... But that'd probably be an easier sell to the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:33 PM
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Not sure, "one size fits all" applies here? Well except for fewer options making the options you have mean more, or seem more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:49 PM
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As far as dating/relationships, it would help with having too many choices for starters. When people have too many choices, they pick no choice, or second guess their choice. If they feel they have unlimited choices, and can always throw back and pick a new choice, each choice has no meaning, all are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:02 PM
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Hey, it worked didn't it?! They were talking about how the whales were coming back and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:36 PM
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Social media has ruined people, and there's about 6 billion too many people. Think they're working on the latter problem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:00 PM
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When "Chad," comes in the room, most of them dart their eyes away if they make accidental eye contact, and look at him in reflections or side eyed glances like he's Medusa. They try to act like they don't even see him, and at best walk in close enough proximity for him to make a move if he so chooses. Occasionally some outgoing/extroverted girls will outright put themselves out there for him, but he likely has worked to at least some degree get most of every piece he's ever had. There's a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:08 AM
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True, the biggest free-doms that matter. "Buh buh- I'm not paying extra taxes to pay for that!" Nevermind we could actually tax the corporations, or not spend millions bombing shacks and mud huts to, "liberate" the oil of a foreign land.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:16 AM
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It might just be a zoomer generation thing. I've met and heard of more virgins (girls and guys) under 30 in the past couple few years than I ever remember there being in my life. Honestly, admittedly I'm kind of crazy, but I can't help but wonder if you're all being programmed or manipulated somehow to not want each other. Particularly girls, so many are trans, or "fluid" or just outright asexual. This next part is where I usually get shut down here by somebody, but it does seem to be predominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:14 PM
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Women's expectations are at an all time high, the conundrum of choice. Social media has made them realize there's virtually unlimited men at their literal disposal, and, "If I can get a guy who looks this good- somewhere out there, there is a guy who looks this good with more money." I get and understand that, just having a hard time believing he's talking to, "looks like ogres." I think both sexes are having ridiculous standards/expectations now. Fuck it, you're all both right... Common men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:39 PM
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Yeah, unless you start making like 80 grand a year, you're going to keep having to like chunky girls, or not actual hotties. Not saying you can't pull a hot twenty something from a bar or club ever- but you probably can't keep her. You said on down you're fine with, "racking your numbers up" and not getting an actual gf... So this might be your best bet anyway. Just be the guy they'll sleep with until Mr. 80-100K comes along and gets a wifey wanna be out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:00 PM
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I can relate with this, and also if she's in good shape, and isn't a bum, she knows she can literally have anyone she wants, a doctor or whatever, and is holding out for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:53 PM
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It's money, you know it's money, I know it's money (or lack thereof) b/c I am almost the exact same as you. It's a futile point to argue here, b/c everyone seems to think being physically attractive as a man is the supreme level that trumps everything else- but it's not; money/status is. Edit: I do actually like curvy women, but admit if a woman is remotely fit, and wants to fuck me, she's either a drug addict, or married, and wants to keep me hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:49 PM
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Tell me you're a rich and privileged white woman who lives in a gated community without telling me you're a rich and privileged white woman who lives in a gated community lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:38 PM
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Yeah, I've thought the same thing. America honestly kinda sucks compared to what we find out about other countries. I'm from "the south," and a lot of people are eye rollingly cringy about their patriotism. " 'Merica! Love it or leave it! We've got ALL the freedom, (can't name one beyond right to hand cannons and bushmaster assault rifles) we are the greatest at sports we invented that no other country plays, all the good movies are made here! America is awesome!" -some redneck who's never been …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:54 PM
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Yeah, or, "Women should meet me halfway! I swiped on them- they should talk to me first to show me they're interested. I don't wanna get MeToo'd!" "Fuckin' feminism, fuckin' Chads... Why can't women be more like men with vaginas?! That's the whole point of feminist equality am I right?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:57 PM
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We're not seeing men "struggle," to get laid though, that's not how we perceive it. We're seeing men who apparently refuse to actually talk to women, get mad that their swipe on tinder doesn't get her jumping at his dick. That's not the same thing. "What do you expect me to do... I took a shower, went outside, my buddy is fit, has lots of hobbies (but still doesn't actually talk to any women first) and even he is struggling to get stranger women to offer pussy to him. Chad ™ has women in his inb…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:13 PM
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Fair point, everybody's situation is a bit different, every couple has to decide for themselves. I was just testifying from the had a vasectomy situation, and that it really is nothing to really be worried about. Your junk is still going to work fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:08 AM
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Already had a vasectomy too, was really easy on the process and recovery. I'd def recommend the guy get the surgery if it comes down to a discussion on which one of them is getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:16 AM
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It also takes two to cheat. Women here will argue we're wrong, but it's common knowledge to most men that women chase/will sleep with attached men more easily and faster. Women will actually make a move on you first if there's a sign you have a happy woman in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:21 PM
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Well more like tired of the shit involved that comes with getting to fuck her- but same results I guess haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:01 PM
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No, she still bows that ass over for the money man in the end. He's the one she's posting pics with on social media, the guy who hits it once in the year on her drunk night out with the girls didn't win her, he's back to fishing for another. You guys are delusionally full of shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:53 PM
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So have a baby younger if you want one, get it over with and out of the way. Problem solved. This is complete BS, mostly b/c anecdotal said so... but dating is always in the woman's advantage, her home field, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:18 PM
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Another guy who thinks fake-up needs to stop, and we most definitely know what women look like with no makeup, and when she's, "natural" or not- despite what women say and think. This, "dumb guys don't know any better," is just female insert banned word here. My fav pics of my girl are with no makeup, one she is fresh out of the ocean, so very much no make-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:47 AM
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I apologize for smearing the puppy love poo on your chat feed. Hope you get the sexy love again like I think I remember you wanting. Don't waste time chasing it, options are a trade off with age. Young and hot. Not so much, and no drama. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:03 AM
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Hey, I thought this was for whatever we thought might be relevant to the subject of relationships... People talk about simple shit all day, every day. Hope you're still happy with your girl you seduced, and aren't just butt hurt about somebody posting something positive about relationships. And I'm not, "grooming" her. She's an adult woman, with a full grown kid, she's seen it all from players to bad boys of all flavors. But yes, she has/had some insecurities with or when starting a new relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:30 AM
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She probably would be a bit embarrassed, yes... like, "What all do you tell to the internet" kind of response, yes. Would I lose a gf over it? No. Do I want to deal with the her having that (this) as a possibility in her head from now on... No. She doesn't need any more insecurities, I've already worked her out of some a bit, I don't want to just start back over with a new one, one that I have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:01 AM
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Well a mini vacation is a wonderful thing to test a new relationship. You're off with just the two of you, without any break for the most part. It's basically like a trial run cohabitation. Just got back from mini vacay with new girl to FL, and it went great. See how people get when cooped up in a car together, with stress of traffic and directions and what not. See how you problem solve, work, "on the fly" as a couple. For example, on the way up there in her car, her air conditioner seemed to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:39 PM
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Hey OP, after seeing your username, and remembering what I think I recall is your admitted "personality quark," we'll call it... This (texting) may be your best bet to happy medium work around with guys, to get what you want. You say/ admit that you think you get a little too inquisitive maybe, and sometimes might come off a bit interrogating even, possibly. You could probably turn this into sort of a text game; think about how to word your question as amusingly as possible, then inset some snar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:27 PM
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Going Dutch pretty quickly is a strong draw to me as a guy- but I try to pay all of the first whatever we do. Paid for the first dinner with my current girl, then we've basically just flippy flopped pretty much back n forth since. Depending on who bought what that day. Her: "You bought gas/filled my tank up, I've got this..." sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:30 PM
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You can actually get away with more texting than talking at first. You can say things in writing with an lol or emoji that would probably not go over so well so fast verbally. Less putting her on the spot for an immediate answer or having to replay to it. Put a little, "I'm sorry, tmi too soon/too fast lol. Just got carried away😳" Funny change of subject comment immediately, then she later playfully answers/replies to whatever dirty comment you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:25 PM
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No Sex: Big red flags for more trouble than it's worth in some way (i.e. signs of serious drug problem, having a baby- baby, as in infant, unemployed/looking to be SAHM, etc.) or just not threshold attractive. Only sex: Bad teeth (you're off somewhere, drinking/drunk/high and she's really bringing it on personality with banging body, she can maybe get laid) or too overweight. Drug problem that wasn't obviously a problem at first, usually pill addiction. They can hide that pretty well sometimes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:11 PM
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It's basically more like that masculine point system analogy Atlas used to use here. Things you do gain and lose you pussy getting points with a woman, and it's a constant gauge like a thermometer on a car. You can drop really low, then build yourself back up. But you can be driving straight ahead to pound town, and say or do one thing to wreck you, and have to start all over from negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:54 PM
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Yes, thug-max would work, but you don't have to actually join a gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:48 PM
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This. "Fuck those basic bitches that I know what is coming out of their mouth before they do. Can I find somebody that just appreciates _ and _ or _." -what I imagine Elon Musk has basically thought at least once, and can relate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:28 PM
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Haha, forgot about that word being banned, even if we're sort of poking fun at it. Sorry fair lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:30 PM
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Those women who want the bigger pain certainly exist, but so do women who think they have dainty little coochies, and don't want it, "wrecked" with huge D's. Also a lot of women will/would pick good head/good D game over jackhammered with a baseball bat too. All these women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:38 PM
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If this is true, why have I had at least two different women repeatedly cheat on bigger dudes with me, and both give pretty much the same reason- me being better/making it more enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:34 PM
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Maybe they're having an incel rebellion b/c the automod is getting all the Mrs. Drgree cookie, leaving them none🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:12 PM
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That's too singular/specific to that one scenario though. Could be just bad chemistry, or the way she/or things changed afterwards. Bad post coital Pillow Talk happens too. NSFW on that link, btw. Edit: link is Pillow Talking by Lil Dicky, age restricted, so linking won't work here apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:33 PM
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Sometimes yeah, ideally you get to think that through- but in our defense, when we're in horny mode you might as well consider us on drugs; b/c we are, you're the drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:26 PM
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Why even if the sex is good can a man still regret having sex? B/c he realizes a relationship isn't a good idea, or all the comprises and real life things outside the bedroom start coming to mind. You can regret sex when the chemistry is off, or realize it wasn't what you hoped it'd be. Something was missing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:54 PM
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I'm sorry, they'll get it worked out. Hopefully the answer won't be much worse than a sucky diet plan to take some fun out of dinner options 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:48 PM
2

Sorry to go there, but how long ago did he get his jab?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:55 PM
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Apparently translators make pretty good, my girl got offered to do that for the gov to translate for those kids in cages in Texas; or whatever they're called now, since, "kids in cages" isn't politically flattering. Just knock her up, and it won't make a difference anymore, you'll be a real daddy lol. In all seriousness, If she's got her shit together, not drama, and doesn't expect you to deliver the world on proverbial silver platter... You might should consider that one compromise that will ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:54 PM
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Obviously the lesser of the two bad is the second, b/c you still some.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:11 PM
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Yes, once they get accustomed to that life, very few could happily settle for a man who makes less. The exception being she herself makes considerably more than she needs, she's due to inherit more, or she got the house/assets from the guy she left.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:20 PM
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Only PIV or PIA(anal?) count, imo. Other women, fingers or oral don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:32 PM
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As long as women enjoy being entertained, men are going to try to entertain them. That's really all game has to be. Make a girl life, she's more likely to enjoy your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:22 PM
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Yeah.. b/c I've ran into so many men down here who use the term bollocks. Maybe if these guys are Hispanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:32 AM
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This is always argued with here, and no one wants to believe it, but in the southeastern and midwest US, the average white man is over 6ft tall. I know this b/c I am 5'11" and most men are taller than me. I am literally sitting in a very public place right now, and am the shortest white guy out of 5-10; 5 in the room with me, and at least 5 have walked through, all over 6ft. Once you get down to around Tennessee, the majority of white men are over 6ft, usually over 200lbs. Big, "burly" thick/ "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:46 PM
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Be Mr. Tough, Mr. Funny, Mr. Money, or Mr. Party. Or some version of all four, if you're ugly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:27 PM
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Yeah, that would make me nervous, come to think of it. Like face timing people for the first time is kind of nerve racking too. I'd have to just try to do some funny or enduring something, not just staring at a camera like a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:12 PM
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Like America's funniest home videos Bob Saget style? I don't miss VHS either:D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:04 PM
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Yeah, sounds like you'd have to add some snapchat element to where people can't save or screenshot, at least without notifying you. Keep it more direct with each other, and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah, I could see that. This is me and my dog doing cute things together, aren't we so adorable, wouldn't you love to be in on this looking vid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:49 PM
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Yes, I take horrible pictures. I had to learn to now kinda take good pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:48 PM
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Haha, ok, admittedly he's white, and he's only a somewhat glorified janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:25 PM
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This is why dating apps should be mostly videos or gifs. If Tik-tok dating isn't a thing, it should be. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:23 PM
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IDK about easier... Just different kind of work. Different kinds of mentalities maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:02 PM
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Since we can circle jerk in the chat thread, yes... It is damn near 100% defeatism. The biggest man whore I think I've ever personally known is overweight, bald, 5'10, and definitely not rich. He has serious game though, funny AF, and no qualms about straight lying to a woman's face. Obviously we disagree on that last part, I don't believe in lying to anyone to try and get them. That's manipulation to me. Unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:48 PM
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I understand the appeal of a prostitute, and I understand the not wanting a prostitute. It's two different kinds of men. I'm in the needing validation camp, who has to be desired by the woman to get aroused. We couldn't be happy with sex with a prostitute. I do get, and am a bit jelly of the other guys, who can be perfectly happy just getting theirs, and making it cold and transactional, and being fine with that though. Life would be so much simpler and easier. Edit: A lot of guys here also don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:38 PM
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Kill the mutant!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:44 AM
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As a, "pigment-ly lacking" (caucasian) guy, I think the answer/loophole is just avoid trying to date other pigment-ly challenged women. That's why you are seeing them as all crazy/having mental disorders. You're right- so go for the more opposite spectrum, try picking up some, "shade."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:04 PM
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Another person who thinks he was probably/possibly at least really into you, and was looking at the good he saw in you. He possibly wasn't shallow, was looking for more than superficial BS to base a relationship on... and you, "fit the bill" in enough of the right ways. Guessing it was a mix of you not being full of yourself or egotistical/narcissistic, and he liked/got off on how you looked at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:15 PM
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Biased exist for both, women are more likely picked for jobs involving dealing with the public, and men are more likely picked for jobs involving weather and potentially getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:50 PM
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We all still think women get bored in general easier/faster than men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:08 PM
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Yeah, agree. Have to admit I see both sides of it as well. Pizza is just as good to me as the first time I ate it, and will probably never get tired of pizza. I don't eat it very often, but could almost eat it every day. That's how we (guys) are with sex. But I have sense and understanding enough to know if I want to eat, "pizza" regularly as an adult, I have to get the oven turned on, and sauce wetted up myself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:33 PM
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2, 5, and 8/9 on the woman's side mostly. Well #5 for men, 2, 8, 9 for women.women get tired of sleeping with same man faster than he gets tired of sleeping with her. Otherwords he still wants the sex, would be happy with the sex, she would be happier sleeping with new novelty. InB4 women tell me how they know they could true love forever- that's not the same thing as getting wet and Randy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:36 PM
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For most of us, (I think) it's just the covid vaccines. There's too many suspect things about it to many of us; weird "coinky dinks," that seem ominous, even. But I hope they get enough people to voluntarily take them, so that's as far as they have to go with it. No actual mandates, or forcing the rest of us to take them somehow. I hope doughnuts, beer, lottos, and outright bribes are doing their thing well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah that escalated quickly huh... Went from, "what do you look for, looking for love.." to, "Where's the weirdest place you've ever had your P popped" all in the same breath it looked like:D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:08 PM
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Oh, I misunderstood. I thought we just meant dangerous in general, not having to be potentially dangerous to their lovers. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:09 AM
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Gomez Addams not dangerous? The man sword fights for fun, can really sword fight, throw knives, and who knows what else he knows how to use. He's the quintessential caricature of, "Bad to everyone but his woman, he has a softness for her." Sam from LOTR would kill for his family and community if he had to. Magic Mike would beat a mofo for punching a woman in the club. Or he'd at least throw or take him down so hard it was pretty much an ass whoopin' in itself. Might hold him until the police got…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:38 PM
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Not very, 40. Granted I haven't done much bar/club hopping in a few years, but most of the real racist/bigots are older than me. My gen and younger seem to be more open-minded about orientation and such. Young rednecks are used to seeing gays and other races, they probably have black or Mexican friends too. Poor people tend to live and work in the same places, so are used to associating with each other. Northern/city places are the most segregated places in the county, but think they're oh so pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:17 PM
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I mean, not really... I can think of some rough bars I might not recommend dudes make out in, but still don't think any hate crimes would happen. Just some, "we don't do that here fruitcake" verbal harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:17 PM
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Omagheeerd you won't get hurt anywhere in the US for being LGBTQ, or whatever race. Not saying there's no third world country parts of the US, or places that are basically the Christian equivalent of Afghanistan (some of us southerners jokingly call Alabama Bamastan) but you won't get thrown off of rooftops, or assaulted or anything. Just some giggles or staring from the white trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:51 AM
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Try and think of something, "random but work/moment related" that's hopefully funny to her, as your passing first comment. Is there music playing anywhere, that you could ear worm about, sings song lyric in obviously playing/funny sounding way "The music taste in here right?/Sorry, got caught in the vibes lol" keeps walking on before awkward silence. Hopefully she giggled or at least smirked. "Did you see the_?" Insert fun poked at it, laugh, roll off and on your way. This will build you a rappo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:07 PM
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Ahhh... Often they just trade it/transition it to looks like he could be a bad boy. The dude bro office worker with the half sleeve on a motorcycle, whose only crime is like rolling through a stop sign when no one is around. That guy still does ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:04 PM
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Was just making playful jabs, stupid guy, stupid jokes🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:19 AM
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Mrs_Drgree is an iphone user I take it... I've just taken the phone pill lol. Yes ma'am 🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:55 AM
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Maybe they'll recommend some good shows to watch, and be better at day trading than I am. Please don't change the shipping address on my mall ninja shit or paraphernalia, please and thank you... I've got a simple life, with simple pleasures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:27 PM
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Yaaay... I've just handed my phone over to be remotely operated. Hopefully they enjoy my basic bitch Amazon and Netflix accounts, and sack of crypto shitcoins.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:03 PM
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Are you asking me, or rhetorical questioning me? I'm on a Moto.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:45 PM
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I did, may be your stupid iphone 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:40 PM
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And I know, "If not for you- think of the 95yr old grandmothers who might not get to go sky diving this summer, or snowboarding this winter. Don't wanna cut 'em a year or two short of living their best life up in the assisted living house, 24/7 parties and metamucil margaritas. "Clusterfucks,' is what I think they call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:16 PM
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I'm still waiting on the delta variant whatever taking out a lot of the immunocompromised vaxxed people, and getting blamed on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:40 PM
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Hahaha, yeah, we're all just shaking scared of our 99+% chances of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:59 PM
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Korra, from Second season of Avatar, Legend of Korra Ashoka Tano, from Star Wars Nani Pelekai, Lelo's sister on Lelo and Stitch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:33 PM
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Didn't need all the not-so-humble brag mental masterbation anecdote... But have to agree married/taken women do tend to be easier to seduce pick up. Still into relationships though. Handle yo' bizz-ness🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:00 PM
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If by, "tight pussy energy" you mean DTF basically, then yeah, I've witnessed this too:D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:08 PM
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Since we're throwing out terms... "Twat swat" is the one for when a vag blocks another vag, or blocks a guy from getting another vag. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:39 PM
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Yeah, and they know, "scrotes" are reading those comments, and getting burned by them. That's what it's for. From what I've seen, half of them read like they're pretty much virgins anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:17 PM
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Ahhh... Unless she's got a whale, (and knows it) even then she thinks she has the most magic cookie on earth. They all think their magic coochie will be the one to break a man. A buddy of mine says he thinks he could probably work his foot in his wife's, and she's regularly talking/making comments about her good P. Other pussy being better than hers just isn't a thing on women's radar or concern like guys worry about another dude being bigger. Never understood why they never even consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:15 PM
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Ohh the horror... Feel sooo bad for bf lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:01 AM
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Agreeing this is the opposite of what every government/governmental authority wants right now. InB4: "Oh jeez with the crazy conspiracy theories..." Go watch pretty much anything on Netflix with David Attenborough. Just what has changed in his lifetime that he can prove, b/c he was the one documenting it, is scary enough. We're realistically not going to start vertically farming, or using up less land and resources, or making less waste and garbage... So the only viable solution is to make less …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:52 PM
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Silky, stretchy boxer briefs:D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:00 AM
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Uggghh or however you spell a gag haha. Naaa... I don't lick the holiest of holies after I've cream pied it. Well I'll lick the clit only, and use my fingers/hand as a guard- to make sure I don't go down that low. That's about the only thing that can make a coochie stink, well most women, is your juice contaminating it. I'll purposefully not cum in them sometimes too, so I can eat it like I want more later or in the morning. If she's one of those that smells good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:43 AM
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Thank you for the lead lol. I'm not sure it's good for me to have coochie flavored syrup in the house... wonder how many calories it has:D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:10 AM
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I must've missed the, "smells and taste like pussy" lube, last I perused through that isle lol, I'd've bought that to see. I'm highly skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:53 PM
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At the risk of sounding like an arrogant asshole... Basically I've worked too long and too hard to be different than average Joe to just hand that over to some girl who won't know the difference. Edit: Also don't want to be the one to discover with her what her hangups are, and have to be apart of learning everything. Need experience to apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:39 PM
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If you're basically asking if there's guys who don't want virgins, or who are turned off a bit by virginity... Yes, some of us exist. There's just not that many of us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:53 PM
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"Bumped cooters..." LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:26 PM
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That's the irony (walking contradiction?) that a lot of us find so eye rollingly funny. "She was a completely innocent little angel until my magic dick opened her eyes and mind up, and my magic non-oral giving/orgasm giving sex touch turned her into my personal little porn slut who only has eyes for me."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:21 PM
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Praising where, on FB? Agreeing with others this is really a non-issue outside of Reddit. Both probably get about equal praise irl now days. "A single parent, doing it all by yourself?! Wow. How do you do it" is probably pretty standard, and genderless small talk now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:16 AM
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Thank you thank you, saved all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:41 AM
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Thank you, he's moving to lafayette, which to my understanding is kinda close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:19 AM
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Hope you don't get chased by a cotton mouth... go you with yo bad, fearless goat self;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:04 AM
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Was wondering about, "swamp" in Tennessee haha. I mean I know we basically live in a rainforest, just haven't seen a lot of swamp you could maneuver a kayak through. Granted like you said, some of the parts of our southern lakes get pretty swampy marshy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:27 PM
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I'd try it, a friend is about to move to Louisiana, so I'll have to see if they have something like that where he's at. At least the water isn't as cold maybe? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:16 PM
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Figurative crack... Coochie crack. Like a pun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:38 PM
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From reading your take on it, it's probably not worth your risking getting a new drug habit, which is about what it would amount to. If you're fine living without crack, and don't care enough about trying crack to have tried it already with the chances you have apparently had... You should probably just keep refraining from the crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:17 PM
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Yes, so long as they weren't in a serious relationship, or I don't think it was enough of one to matter now, or they just played a long time ago. It could mess up either relationship, so is risky of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:46 PM
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Yeah, it's in their camp's best interest/herd mentality to be as stoic, and grounded on their belief foundation as possible. Being, "snowflake" doesn't get them any points with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:48 PM
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Maybe this whole, flavor of women, we'll call it, is way more likely to have issues in general. Maybe the political discrepancy you're seeing has more to do with the conservative camp of women feeling like they have to support their brand, (conservative christian) and therefore want to come off/appear as sane and mentally trouble free as possible. The other camp views these type issues as more of a "cutie mark," and way of being different but also fitting in with their herd. They don't make the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:29 PM
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Omagheeerd.. I'm fine, wasn't really bitching bitching, just thought it was kinda weird and funny. Well funny since nobody died. Guess I sound like an old man bitching about somebody getting on his lawn. Well actually I hurt me today, if you're still reading curiously. Got in a hurry flipping breakers off in an electrical panel, and caught the corner of the thin metal door with the back of my hand, felt like it jabbed in the joint of my thumb. No real blood, no puncture, nothing broken.. just hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:20 AM
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Oh, no, mildly injured myself lol but that wasn't bitching about my day.. just spooked me a lil for a sec seeing people walking at me head on in the road- and not dodging for the sidewalk. Just kept jogging straight at me. Was almost crystal meth crazy looking, but tweakers don't jog. Just run in inappropriate attire, for the activity. Or naked. Just thought women were generally more cautious than that. I'd bet if either of them had kids that did that, she'd wanna beat their ass. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:38 AM
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Was a half assed attempt at a dumb joke.. obviously more jackass than funny ass today 😳 I'm good, just being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:20 PM
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I'd ask for context/a few questions, trying to give him the benefit of the doubt it's not what it looks like. And when it is, I'd give him verbal shit about even his ex man whore dad is better than that. I wouldn't rat him out, just try and make him feel like shit. Tell him he should break it off with her. Also would want to point out to him that the other girl might not give a shit about him, and just wants to be a homewrecker. He's going to lose a good woman over a careless hootchie- then he'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:55 PM
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I get the going towards the traffic, and thanks for the edu-ma-cation on what is apparently the douchepickle-ish strip in America. Wonder if there's a Bass Pro Shop along that route... Ohh, the salty, vinegary beast we could feast our eyes on there. Enough whitey tighty skidmark power to blot out the sun, and turn the gay frogs straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:29 PM
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Also, "I run down the interstate all the time..." Really?! There's your problem maybe, dudes passing be like, "Look at dis bitch... Did her daddy buy this whole stretch or what?! Running like she owns it. Hope Karen has her essential oils handy, for when she takes a bumper to the knee." Not sure there's anything more douchebaggery than jogging anyway, or more of a tell-tale sign one is a douchebag. Need to make your purge alt account DoucheyMcDoucherson;P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:23 PM
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I mean it's not interstate-adjacent or anything... just didn't look like an appropriate place for that still. I mean people fly through there, 18 wheelers travel it, not exactly hillbilly grove, or uppity honky golf cart route.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:05 PM
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Fair enough, ok... But I don't have the trust to play chicken with vehicles and just know they're going to stop or pass around me. Was weird🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:49 PM
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Passed two women jogging down the highway, in the highway, taking up the entire lane, jogging at incoming traffic. Granted it was a four lane road, and a had a left lane to steer around them in, but still. Had that been one or two men, the police would have stopped them and made an ordeal out of it. But not two women.. girl power wins again. Everybody just smiles and looks, and goes on. One had a look like, "I'm with my hot friend today- we can do anything we want! Wouldn't go to jail today if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:22 PM
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Fair enough, just have only ever seen a couple few of those guys who think they need it (for that) online. And those are few and far in-between. Usually there's also, "catches" to that too, I think I notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:58 PM
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Everyone should looksmax, regardless of gender. But basically like any other dude here will say- just don't be overweight is pretty much the gist of it for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:28 PM
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Admittedly I think once a woman gets to a certain level of attractive, she by default gets narcissistic/spoiled/privileged to the point she's borderline not human anymore. So yeah, I prefer only up to a certain level of attractive for the trade off on personality, and emotional/mental stability. I also like her, "mirin" at me, and looking at me like I'm candy or pizza. That's usually easier to get with more, "normal/average" girls, and the love life is way better. Edit: I think women need a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:26 PM
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Agreeing that changing yourself will likely just bite you later, but admit if multiple women said I looked hot/hotter/sexier clean shaven- I would probably try that. That's part of a reason why I have what beard I do. I can grow a good one/thick, and keep it shaped and groomed nicely, usually short. Been told multiple times I look better with it, get it rubbed on, stroked occasionally, so it stays. Don't get me wrong, shaving sucks, but that's not a big price or compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:13 PM
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I also got a vasectomy after one of these type events. I don't know how old you are, but it wasn't easy talking a doctor into it in my early twenties, and only having one kid. It's something to consider, you can tell a doctor about this/your, and how you know you never want another one, and that he would just be helping not ruin a new kid's life. Don't be depressed or showing any issues, just being real and serious with him, and you might can talk him into doing it. It's not really any easier ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:07 PM
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Your story hits home, can relate with that. Guess we're just messed up in different ways, I actually miss my abuser. It was great most of the time, just when she quit taking her meds. I'd probably sleep with her again, I know I would actually, if she was still alive. She killed herself a few years ago. I don't know if it was intentional or not, I think she more accidentally OD'd/ had drug/alcohol interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:40 PM
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I'm not going to ask her, but preferably at least 5, bare minimum maybe 3. First guy to take her virginity, and break her heart and/or hustle her. Second guy to rebound on, to get back at the first guy. Hopefully by the third to fifth guy... She's figured herself, and can just be chill; and just be happy that you're not pissing her off, or annoying the fuck out of her atm. I guess literally, in a way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:56 PM
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I don't remember, it's been a long time since this fiasco... don't remember which building what was in now. Just remembered they were supposed to have a meeting on the missing funds- until that happened. Then it was all forgotten about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:10 PM
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Well we love you as is goat:)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:15 PM
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Or the missing trillion dollars that the pentagon was about to have to answer to congress for, to explain where it went. Conveniently a lot of paper trail on that got lost in the tragedy as well. Poor pentagon, not getting to get audited.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:14 PM
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Oh I know, I meant you'd probably be considered a, "wild and crazy, danger-chasing extrovert" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:11 PM
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Yes, thank you for some goat rationality, all this would be considered crazy in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:51 PM
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Right?! Guess they made steel and concrete so flammable that it burned for 7hrs, and spread to the point that it took the whole building down to the foundation. Maybe they cut some corners replacing the structure with timber.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:47 PM
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And there was a third building (building 7) that most still don't know about that was also designed to take hits from a commercial plane and still survive- but fell without even a plane hitting it. The other plane crashed elsewhere, but the news scared the building badly enough to fall down anyway, possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:15 PM
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I'm sorry that has happened to you, not much else I can say about that, without asking questions, or getting too personal. Of course I'd go there with someone like you, FML. I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:10 PM
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I love women... Just think a large percentage of you think you're pretty much perfect, despite having borderline crippling anxiety/social/emotional disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:06 PM
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Defining, "dangerous situation" is probably the nuanced part we'll all differ or disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:57 PM
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What was the metric used to quantify men having too much anger or addiction issues to have a relationship? Probably perpetually single b/c she won't meet any men irl, or, "can't even" without having a breakdown that she dumps or gets dumped or ghosted over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:56 PM
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Probably at most 5% anger, and probably 2-3% addiction. If we're talking, "Severe enough to hinder their ability to have a relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:55 PM
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Fair enough, I apologize I accidentally straw-manned your specific argument. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:26 PM
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Women may even be more competitive than men. Often times it's not about getting a certain man, it's about beating out or taking from another woman. So it's not about the man just being that HV or irresistible/attractive- he's basically irrelevant. He could be a fluffy teddy bear, or a tv remote. It's not about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:30 PM
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B/c unless it's by another man, the odds of him being traumatized by it are very low. It's not the same level of feeling violated. InB4: "How do you know?!" B/c I have been the guy in this scenario you listed and worse, known guys who have been in said scenario or worse- and none of us are in therapy, or have trigger words, or PTSD, or flashbacks or shakes, or any of the systems I've actually see women exhibit. I've seen women where it basically ruined their ability to be intimate with men, have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:11 PM
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I didn't say unicorns, meant more the opposite. I think there's a lot of guys not really into porn... They're just probably not on the internet talking about how much porn they don't watch. They're off doing wilderness stuff, or taking cars or motorcycles, or guns apart or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:24 PM
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Wow, I don't and never had a porn collection, maybe some stuff as an early teenager, before I had an actual gf. I can think of several guys that I'm fairly confident don't have secret porn stashes either, or follow any porn stars or instathots or any such.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:25 PM
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I don't think this is a, "most men" thing, unless you mean a most ppd men thing. Guys here are on another level with, "adult entertainment" in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:10 PM
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I didn't really wanna make a humble brag asshole comment... but I'm 5'11, and have had food brought to me, just had homemade tamales brought to me the other day, been given an air fryer, been given a few things actually. Yes, I do try and make them shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:15 PM
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Well make her legs shake, and next time maybe she'll do it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:25 AM
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Haha, yes, and thank you;P I'm not sure how to tactfully bring up not using soap on her.. but I'll think on it. I make bar soap, and she likes it, took a bar home.. but admittedly her body still smells the same as when I met her, whatever body wash she used already anyway, I'm guessing. Thank you:)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:09 PM
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He was still attractive enough bald to get famous acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:10 AM
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Thought he was bald first/always bald.. but I'm not an expert movie buff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:36 AM
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Obligatory patron saint of male pattern baldness. Yaaay... Now I've just added, "Jason Statham sexy" to my search list.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:25 PM
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Oh, can't waste those... What's our next week long topic, "The unpaid labor involved with catering to dog breed hypergamy: What to do when your SO has to buy a fancier breed than you brought to the relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:20 PM
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Oh thank you, it did- except for her mother just got worse. Luckily she was old enough not to really be effected by it before her mother got bad, but she (the daughter) is reasonably as well adjusted as the other gen z'rs here lol. She wants to be a cop, which I guess isn't a bad thing... just unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:38 PM
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Man, no. One extra weekend is a slap in the face for this. Give me every weekend, (within reason such as trips) and we'll haggle. Ftr, I negotiated every weekend with my kid, ended up getting half the week (Wed or Thurs-Sun) until I finally got given full custody by child protective services a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:04 PM
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She pretty much has, been over a few times now without showering. She still thinks its weird, but more just rolls her eyes and laughs at me now. I mean I know there's still some overly self conscious embarrassments here n there, but it has started to get better. Thank you:)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:56 PM
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Thanks for the insight goat🙄😝
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:28 PM
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Yep, but that is mostly fixed now too. She's just finally gotten a lot more comfortable with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:25 PM
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So what do.. just try n catch it, catch our way in there on the windows we can? That seems about the best/only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:26 PM
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Ha, fair enough, I'm sorry. Was kinda hoping there might be a, "Well actually she could try.." type response in amongst all the roasting I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:24 PM
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Ok, weird "complaint," about vaginas. I've heard, "a good vagina smells like water..." and I wholeheartedly disagree. I like a whoohah smell, where it lingers on your lip/mustache, or like you sucked it up your nose, and it's still just somehow in there. It's like aromatherapy. Anyway, that's a complaint I have about the current woman- her whoohah is like sniffing water, even when soaking wet. This is kinda gross I guess, but I'll anonymously admit it on Reddit but I've playfully gotten her to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:59 PM
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I think most women who aren't in a relationship have a go to, "good guy friend" that they scratch an affection/human touch itch with. This would probably qualify as occasionally casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:48 PM
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Haha, not into sucking on toes... But there definitely is something sensual sexual about cute feet on you, anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:45 PM
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/Thread Or also crack-head, cover girl skinny for half of us too. Well missing teeth/meth/opiate face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:02 PM
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Haha, not sure about "perfect lips," might need a picture reference for that.. I mean mine don't look like the Bruce Willis butthole pucker or anything, so if that's good or bad, IDK... I'm 5'11, but never played official sports, and assuming hacky sack and frisbee doesn't count:/ I can swim the length of a full size pool and back without touching bottom☝️ Oh well, I'll just keep admiring her Reddit comments;D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:13 PM
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Yaaay, I physically qualify for Griddy's list- assuming my Justin Timberlake beard (that I can grow better than he can, darker hair helps too;) is ok lol. Well I'd have back hair if there's no trimmers or razors in the apocalypse, but at least I can do it myself, nobody has to do it for me, or ever see it. I just do it when I can feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:45 PM
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Hahaha, think I found a good free range one now, was single... but admittedly there's some compromises, on both our parts, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:18 AM
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Well the problem we discuss here isn't a course on even a community college or trade school- with the exception of maybe the psychology, or sociology aspect of it; maybe some gender studies or what not. The principle problem here is getting you all pussy. Something some of us, "proles" are apparently way better at doing, or have more insight into the nature of women anyway. We're trying to help you learn how to get laid, how to seduce women, how to satisfy women- that you do need to actually lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:14 AM
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Sorry to double tap you in your inbox, but this (the economy situation/our financial system) is why you'll see people recommending betting/investing against it, in some of the more fringe places on Reddit. Basically meaning cryptocurrency and precious metals mostly. Not recommending going and dropping a bunch of money in crypto rn, it's crashing, and looks like it's not done yet. Maybe, "DCA" (Dollar Cost Average) some stable coins, so you'll already have money in the market/on the exchange to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:38 PM
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I'm down for taking out welfare (well re-allocating the money to boarding schools) but we don't need extra taxes. As for the economy collapsing, it's a proverbial house of cards anyway. Paper money printers go brrrrt, paper fiat backed by nothing takes in real assets, and they run it until they run in into the ground. Then they still own all the tangible assets, (precious metals, property, etc.) and still therefore are the bank. Bank gets to make new money. "Who wants to play monopoly again, loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:23 PM
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I was just told that I insulted you, I did not mean it to come off that way. Hoping you didn't take it that way, and I apologize if you did. Was just being a cheeky jackass😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:40 PM
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Whoa, I didn't insult her, hopefully she picked up on the playful context, with the old school emoji (;P) and the haha at the end. And I do try and get a feel or idea of what a woman is into going into things... try to have a playful, "So you're not too kinky are you" conversation in that, "getting to know you/each other before we do anything together" stage of meeting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:37 PM
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The biggest problem with dating apps is the one I saw Atlas point out first, the still picture thing. If it was video, or gifs, more men would have much more success. No having to find and catch that magic angle in a one frame shot in time. She would perceive you as nature intended. In motion. Also disagree on looks, still think status might trump it more, so having the right job/hobby could make you a pimp in its own right, assuming you could half ass play some game. Guys here talk about not wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:17 AM
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I can just think of at least two guys off the top of my head when this subject comes up, and both lost the girl. Both have women again though, so maybe they've learned. I know at least one has, we still occasionally talk talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:59 AM
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That's not the argument we see a lot though, and, "black pill dating strategy" is not one I think I have ever seen posted here, or linked to. Well other than, "Be attractive, don't be unattractive." Fair point that broad advice is good advice though; taken in context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:57 AM
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Ok, well it's the, "It's game over if you're not literally Chad" crowd we're arguing with then. That's the part we have a problem with then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:38 AM
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Not him, but his argument, and all the comments like it are frustrating to read. They don't get that they are just making a negative feedback loop that just keeps getting them worse and worse results. I've had this debate with sooo many guys irl. Guy A at work/wherever gets alone with the guys, and starts making jokes or just outright bitching and whining about his girl not giving him sex. Granted when I was in my mid twenties, no woman could keep my libido satisfied either... So I humor giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:35 AM
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Maybe not, but "might as well tell the animals in the zoo they're not wanted..." is not the same thing either. More like going to somewhere like r/Brazil and telling them they need to cater to, and have mods that have never vacationed in Brazil, just really wanted to casually go sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:34 PM
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Well then they can go make another space to circle jerk in. Lack of dating/interaction with the opposite sex is not relevant to discussion of dating/interactions with the opposite sex. And no, I don't hate incels, have taken up for them and tried to help them before. It usually just ends up with reeee comments dogging you for trying to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:22 PM
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That's not two different things, or contradicting each other. I just meant don't go in with a porno script to direct out, be spontaneous by seeing what kind of mood she's in, and gauging what kind of action to give her to work best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:10 PM
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Ok, we'll listen, but most women don't tend to want to give directions, miss snowflake;P We have to work with what we have, and body language is usually it. Not used to getting the luxury of actual, "Do this/I like this" verbal language haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:14 PM
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No you can't literally read her mind, but you can read what her mind is doing to her body, which is probably the next best thing. How's she breathing, how do her muscles feel, are any flexing or tensing, how is she touching and kissing you... That kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:42 PM
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He meant, "knows all the right moves" as in he knows how to read her- to read her, try and pick up what she wants done to her at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah, as a dude my first thought when hearing, "learning about sex through porn" is basically you probably have to unlearn everything you think you know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:18 PM
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Eclectic, (into a wide variety of music and odd taste) so doesn't have to fit any specific stereotype, (not necessarily hippie or punk, or goth, just identifies with something from everything) and is pretty chill about it. Not over the top, "queen of _" in any one area. She's naturally skeptical of everything, especially anything pushed or said by authority- but she has an open mind, and eager to try and understand other people's point of view. She's never been actually addicted to anything, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:26 PM
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The analogy that might sum it up best is how women feel entitled to babies. When a woman wants a baby, no one cares if she quit taking birth control on purpose, or went and paid for prostitute sperm (a sperm bank) or how she got her seed. Women feel entitled to babies (ergo semen/something from a man's body) in the same way men feel entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:42 AM
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Single dad here, not going to argue with any of this, just say I've tried both, and still prefer single mothers to childless women b/c they can relate more, and adults without kids are still just grown kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:07 PM
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Just trying to entertain/amuse women mostly. Trying to seduce them, turn them on, keep things interesting. Doing the majority of the work on the hooking up basically. Most trp guys say to take care of yourself, have good hygiene, smell good, dress well, etc... but a lot of guys here still scoff at that. Find things in common with women, learn to like or be proficient at talking about things your type of girl will want to talk about. Again- doing most of the set up work. It's not equality, there …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:35 PM
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Yeah, unless you're "hawt" you actually have to do more than swipe and wait for her to verbally throw her whoohah at you. Point taken. Edit: Also there's a lot more that goes into this than many of you give credit for. We start naming things and then guys just start saying they don't want to be a dancing monkey, or hoop jumping fool/simp. Or saying the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Well that's the price of juice there, pay it, or don't drink it, or find a hustle way of getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:43 PM
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I've never used Tinder, only actual dating apps like POF, Okcupid, Bumble, FB dating, etc. I actually take horrible pictures, so am really usually only thought of as, "kind of cute" in person. I had to learn how to take pictures to get one I didn't loom like an old creeper in. Also how do you lead off interacting with them? Do you have a set thing, a cover all joke/pick-up line, just say "Hey/hello," what? There was a site I leaned about here, I can't think of the name of, (photo feeler?) that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:58 PM
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Another old timer (40) chiming in to say, "quit yer bitchin.'" Yes, in all seriousness you do have more mental work having to expand your game with more competition also all at each other's fingertips- you do still have almost endless options. This is so good it's bad, actually. That whole paradox of choice thing. You still need to fix up yourself to actually meet her in person- but we had to do that just to get started. Didn't leave the house without getting our sexy on, b/c leaving the house w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:17 PM
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Oh, it is a strain sometimes juggling multiple conversations with different women, trying to playfully pick up each one, trying to make sure it's not going to be a complete regret. But like the fifty year old dude said- we used to have to go out and actually do stuff to meet women. Aka, get drunk or drink all the time. Have bar tabs, restaurant checks just in meeting them. It cost money just to go meet the girls. Now you can sit in your pj's, playing on your phone and "meet," talk to the girls. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:03 PM
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Not sure what food magic is... But, "mentally ill conspiritard" makes me wanna like him already. Can relate with conspiritard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:11 PM
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I'll agree to do most of the cooking, (I like cooking) most of the kitchen cleaning, (I make most the mess) all the toilet cleaning, (kinda ocd about that) and all the yard work. I actually like mowing, get some tan/vitamin D, and it's sort of zen/meditation type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:00 PM
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Fair point, this isn't so much for us, it's cat bait. I've got some cologne, just only wear it on nights out or such. I usually don't spray it directly on me, just spray it out, and walk into the mist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:05 PM
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It probably has a lot to do with your body chemistry too. I don't like strong smells, and don't wanna be crop dusting up the place either. Less is more sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:49 PM
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Oh I use lotion, I like hemp lotions. Yeah, agree in layers here and there, try and smell better and better the closer she gets to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:21 PM
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For what it's worth, I only talk like that on Reddit. Yeah, I do cringe at my comment history 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:42 PM
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Both guys exist though. The guy you're talking about, and the other few who know most suck. I have a fetish for giving oral, so as you see by the comments, that gives me a strong advantage with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:11 PM
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It also shows you really shouldn't be concerned with her past lovers, only taking in the constructive criticism of them, if anything. Live to make the best of the day and the moment, and you'll probably beat the last one anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:56 PM
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Haha, I use an Old Spice deodorant. Not going to tell which one, but regularly get told I smell good by feemalez. I cherish evey day I don't have old man smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:47 PM
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Asked this to women irl, and came up with roughly 10%. So if you can just get a girl off, you're likely in her top 80-90% by default, regardless how big the biggest pp she ever had was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:23 PM
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Here I was, immediately thinking the other direction, women not wanting to date down on income. The woman I'm seeing makes considerably more than I do. Yes, that does bother me a little, when I think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:08 PM
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Do I get some honorary Chad-lite™ badge if the only porno I've really consumed in the past year was sent to me by women themselves, pics/video of themselves? "Chad doesn't just peruse mass media made porn, Chad gets porno made for, and sent to him." Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:31 PM
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If they can make an AI that is on the level as the movie Her, that might change some things. That movie made me feel kind of embarrassed, at the realization of how quickly I could connect with "her," and see her as a living being. Other than that, porno boyos gonna porno. Same demographic, their play things just get better for them. Rest of the world moves on just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:27 PM
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I get it, you want to sleep with younger women, we don't care care, we just think you're a little creepy for it. Am dude, born with penis dude, do see the appeal and attraction of a lot of younger feemalz. I just feel guilty when I find/catch myself checking out girls that are closer to my kid's age (18) than mine. Makes me feel dirty. Yes, I occasionally run into the situation of possibly being able to game/pick up a girl that young, but I don't. Not out of some moral obligation or rules, or la…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:18 PM
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Can we bring back the merkin too? Bald whoohah is sooo late 90's, early 2000's porn. Let's add some flair back. On a side note, wonder if Jared Leto knows his picture comes up when you google merkin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:41 PM
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Probably more like love-lust. He/we already think we could love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:15 PM
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My end goal is find the last woman I'm ever going to have to pick up and sleep with. Live happily ever after of course. And the plan is to just keep trying, until something sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:46 PM
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Never send just a hey, or a how are you doing. Ideally make it funny, better yet, funny and relevant. Such as a funny comment about something she posted, or related spin off of it. If she's posting like she has some attitude, being playfully snarky can be good bait for a reply. Make it funny. If you can't think of funny, just avoid small talk. Go straight into something genuine, such as guessing a hobby she might be interested in. Pulled out my ass examples for context, not saying good verbatim:…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:02 AM
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I would be highly skeptical, but wouldn't hesitate to take the test. I would meet her regardless of circumstances, if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:07 PM
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It's funny how everyone's ideal partner/soul mate happens to have the exact same n count as they do, or less. Like the universe is just going to adjust them for you to make that add up right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:49 PM
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I do feel like a dick for forgetting some. Think there's whole people I forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:47 PM
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It would be a boost for society... But it'll never happen b/c they use social media too. It's great for propaganda, surveillance, and just general indoctrination. Also useful for learning and predicting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:12 PM
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They already do, it's called Facebook. I'll have to dig for the name of the program, but they literally had a digital surveillance program to database everyone- that was, "shut down" the same day Facebook was launched. Huh... Hella coinky dink. And yes, there's a dating app tied into Facebook. It has a heart icon in the settings/options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:09 PM
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"He treats me/makes me feel like his mother. I don't want to play second mom!" This right here is why or a big part of the reason why probably at least half of women cheat, or "branch swing" looking for another adult. Edit: Or leaves him looking for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:12 PM
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I swear I'm vowing to quit hole-diving (or whatever the male equivalent of branch swinging is) and keep the latina I have who is acceptable on every level. *See me here next year under a different account, talking about a different woman, swearing she's the last one. "This one is different mama, you'll see."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:51 PM
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Ok, so it's a nerd thing. Guys who are seeing which friends if any have been with more than 1 or 2 girls. Fair enough;P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:37 PM
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Yeah, and I think most of us quit having it, for the most part, not long after that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:26 PM
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I have rarely ever been in this conversation as a dude, and the only times I think I have was joking around with man whores. I don't think this is something most normal people do. But you puritanical zoomers do you baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:11 PM
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Well it took two, the woman too, to bring the situation into being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:47 AM
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At least we can agree on healthy male role models being the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:45 AM
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Oh, I take full responsibility for my actions, just meant it as more of I have to admit a stereotype, or being included in a bad statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:16 AM
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I mean every bit helps or hurts, and little things can add up. I've seen lots of truly decently looking guys post here, testifying to their lack of success. Point being, they could really use the boost. But yes, you can be kinda cute, look like a slob, and know how to "spit" enough game, you can still get some anyway. Edit: A lot of you guys think/consider yourself ugly b/c you don't get any hits on Tinder. And you only know the surface of what you're facing/up against on places like that. You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:03 AM
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Well hell-oh, beautiful brains... If I interpreted that right;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:57 PM
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Ask yourself, would a good looking guy be hindered by bad fitting clothes and goofy shoes? Ax-shully yes. I had a chick that I was seeing jokingly jab at me about picking up a past girl while wearing sandals. "In those, wearing those?" Lol Edit: For clarification, she was saying no one, not even the guy she was seeing could have picked her up wearing sandals. Dressing for success is a real thing, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:48 PM
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Easy now... Lumping us all in AMALT there.. I'm merely suggesting trying something different for guys (caucasians particularly) who may have only ever tried dating within their race. "You miss every piece you don't try to catch" - Abe Lincoln or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:42 PM
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Who's who? u/Atlas_B_Shruggin sent it to my old compromised account, u/Tyler_Gatsby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:40 PM
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This post is literally bitching about the state of men. Then you say or appear to allude to saying, "the majority of boys/more boys are/have been raised in a split/single parent at a time household." I'm saying I'm still seeing a possible correlation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:36 PM
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And yet women are still here bitching about the state of men. The, "decline of men" even. Irony works both ways darlin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:07 PM
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Not black plague level no, or anywhere near it. I want to say the number on the Georgia Guidestones is 500M target population. Granted I've heard figures as low as 10% being enough to turn the proverbial tides, back in our survival direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah, that was/is relevant to some people here. It was here where I learned about that. Took a couple test Atlas sent me to take, both came back the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:48 PM
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A new real pandemic may come out, or some crisis that actually lessens the population. Or just the usual, continuation of what's going on at least: the programming of the population to quit reproducing. Between the programming, and possibly even sterilization programs, lowering sperm counts/testosterone, etc. they will eventually lessen the population to a sustainable number. All other problems, particularly social/socioeconomic ones such as this will be worked out by default/by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:56 PM
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They're all ultra conservative, they don't care about any of that. The media did its magic on everyone. They've made all the American girls democrats, all the boys Trump loving conservatives... Divide and conquer wins again. Only perk to all of this is like other people said, the population may slow its growth a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:49 PM
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We worked together years ago, but found her on FB. As much as I secretly hate FB, and really do think it is just a surveillance program- it is a good place to meet women. Friend request, like some of her stuff, see if she'll like something of yours... Slide into her DM's with something funny. Hope the chats back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:37 PM
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I'll turn 41 this year, so yeah, girls our age may've racked up some numbers haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:31 PM
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No, just more like creating another problem in your, "solving a problem." Boys raised by single mothers tend to be delinquent. Source: raised by mostly single mother/serial "branch swinger" and had other friends who were as well. I was a drug dealer/trafficker for a while, some others I know of are dead, in prison, or alcoholics/drug addicts. Ninja edit: I don't watch porn though... So I guess I've got that going for me you like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:28 PM
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Ahh, probably few have a number higher than 20, at least in the age range most of you are; early to mid twenties. She probably has as high of odds as being a virgin, if she's a zoomer. Most of them seem to be shut ins, unless they're out for instagram pics or such.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:05 PM
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Not her, am dude... but this must be a puritanical zoomer thing. Or just a really young guy mentality thing. I admit I've thought or worried about a girl being a sloot- when I was like 17. The only men/guys in my adult life who thirsted over virgin/inexperienced women were predatory, or at least didn't have the woman's best interest in heart. He viewed her as more a piece of property, like, "no one has driven this car before" kind of mentality. So I see the women's point or perspective on this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:49 PM
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There's multiple kinds of asshole too. There's asshole who has his shit together, and usually has no qualms about taking from others, or ripping people off, so is a stoic example of a survivor. Then there's crazy asshole, who's just out for the day, survive the day, and to hell with tomorrow. This is your 8-9. The guy who inspires her to be the bold bad girl, she can't really be around anybody else close to her. Well family, public face, or some mix thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:18 PM
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Maybe men do need a, "man whore" phase to get all this out of their system. I've been on both sides of it, (turned down girls when I was young over sexual things I heard about them, that I now roll eyes/facepalm myself about thinking back on) and now I don't even ask N-counts. I would guess the woman I am with now has been with around 5ish, or probably less than 10; based on stories and context. All they (women) really care about is who is making them happy now, and are they happy now. Satisfy h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:10 PM
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Bold letters, excessive use of ellipsis, trigger much? I thought the point of TRP, was reducing women down to essentially math and STEM type formulas. By that rationale... getting, "the sex" with the least investment is the biggest win. And yes, as a historically "broke mofo," I could usually score higher quality women willing to play with me, than post me posing at the family and friend get togethers. Edit: I've just spent way too much of my life being controlled, or at least wrongly directed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:46 PM
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It's not so much as a cognitive decision not to approach a man, as it is just their natural wiring. They, "approach first" from a distance, with giving subtle cues that you can close the gap to make a move on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:26 PM
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Yes internet lurker, give her a mini romance novel/short story to get turned on by... and you might get your PP in her panties. Will agree this is way better than asking her if she wants some fuk tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:23 PM
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And no, stop talking like a girl. It doesn't just happen. You allow it to happen. Fucking grow balls along with agency. The quotations were there for a reason. The point was they are more eager. There's simply 0 reason you would willingly take on a more complicated situation UNLESS your pipeline was not filled with other options. Reason number one: They show up, they often deliver themselves to you, with little to no cost to you. They often won't even want to go out to eat, in worry of seeing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:17 PM
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As usual, kids rebel against their parents. This is generational. "Cool," parents make uppity, stick up their butts prudish children. Pat Oswalt has a joke about this I can't find an excerpt of, but to slaughter it, he basically jokes that you should be an uptight, douchebag of a parent to make cool kids who rebel against you. Hide your cool. Have to admit I think there's some truth in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:02 PM
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Probably a lot. They seem to have turned them from, "I am woman, hear me roar. I will own my sexuality to the fullest. I'm going to get mine!" to, "OMG I hope no one even looks at me. Head down, power walk through this until I get back home to social media."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:52 PM
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"People lie on sex surveys, and this seems especially true in women." In other news... The sun came up again today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:48 PM
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"Hate us cause you ain't us..." Lol. Obviously you've never been fucked by a married woman before, but it's usually amazing sex. I don't go looking for married/attached women, and always swear the last one was the last one I'm ever going to do again. "It just happens." Only once was the woman doing it b/c she wasn't getting enough sex at home. He had a pain medication problem, so can't perform very much, and is ok with that, or apparently was. All he cares about is she stays, puts up with him, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:34 PM
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So is it a pretty safe bet Gridy has an OnlyFans? Not to sound interested, as a PPD guy I have complete disdain for such, as the post states☝️🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:09 PM
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Probably depends on her personality, which extreme she can more align with, and cohabitate with. Can she feel comforted by the security of a captain, or does she need more control, and need to copilot the ship? She'd probably find more men she can control now, I'd think. So guessing the FDS (or what I think I know of it) would be the more likely successful, and most likely keep her best interest in the relationship as top priority. Not that a captain wouldn't look after his first mate. The only …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:41 PM
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Key phrase, "don't mind being alone." Translation: life without regular affection, more like hunter-gatherer on affection, less just farming it, having it stable on the table. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:36 PM
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I'm sorry, I didn't mean to put anybody down. Yeah, he's overweight, out of shape, dresses like a kid, comes off like a kid. You probably just look really young and innocent still. I don't get anything from putting anybody down, I want guys to succeed. We've tried doing incel makeovers here on purge week, but it didn't seem to have much success. Maybe a couple guys benefitted, hopefully. I didn't/don't come to this sub to look down on anybody, I try to freelance, pro bono, big brother "PUA" poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:38 PM
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Not gonna upvote this b/c imo, you went a little far with, "dogging" them... But I agree I can't think of anyone over early 20's that was/is still a virgin who didn't have some obvious issues I wanted to try and makeover. Usually it's a combination of overweight, doesn't take care of themselves, and still very childish, and unrealistic. I work with a 30+yr old that I still want to fact check that b/c I can't believe he's that old, and still the way he is. He comes off like a 12yr old with a bear…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:20 PM
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Oh, I/we didn't mean to that point. We meant initially.. like meeting in passing, or before it gets to the point of asking her out. Yeah, it'd be eye rollingly weird n cringy to try and play that at that point. I mean maybe if we just met, I'm not obviously falling all over your heels, drooling at you basically lol. We communicated that all wrong obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:01 PM
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Huh? I've been the guy on the side, the fall back, "in case this doesn't work out guy," the, "Ok, I'm single now, looking for let my hair down fun before Mr. Next Right" guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:17 AM
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And I didn't downvote you, I'm not that petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:59 PM
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Meaning to whom? If it has meaning to you, it has meaning. That's why I've never understood the hatred for gay marriage, and argument for saying it lessened traditional marriage. If somebody else's relationship makes yours mean less, it seems to still be a you and your relationship problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:58 PM
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Well there's virgin girls galore from what I've seen, more so than when I was a teenager, I know that. This virgin obsession is sickening, unless he is also a virgin. I'll give virgin guy a pass for wanting an equal... But you wanna be man whores lusting over virgins tend to be at least borderline sick fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:28 PM
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If I'm understanding this right, I'm sorry for what was done to you. This type of fetish stuff does make for a catchy, slippery slope for a guy to satisfy women with those type of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:22 PM
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I should have worded that better, I tactfully/jokingly ask, "You're not into anything too freaky are you- I don't have to beat or choke you or anything right" sort of way. Yes, I do work it in irl well enough it doesn't come off as a request or wanting to do it. And yes, it probably would help if more women didn't look so secretly into being abused or given violent/aggressive treatment. I know most of you don't really want to be whipped and choked, but I'm just saying I can see how a lot of guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:00 PM
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Not into choking, would much rather never do it again, and only really have on the two girls who told me too. Well one directly told me to, and would grab my hand and put it there, and I was supposed to squeeze her like she squeezed it. Let up when she does. No I didn't like it, and between that discomfort, and a story of a friend of mine possibly accidentally killing his gf, and bringing her back to life made me never want to do that again. It's actually in my, "getting to know you before sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:36 PM
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We were too young, and grew apart. We were also both at fault. Her for being so impulsive, and bad at communication, and me for being too to see signs, and proverbial writing on the wall; and being too much of a bitch. I was too much of a feminist, I guess if you could put it into a one category, more descriptive than bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:27 PM
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When I first found it years ago, I was on some serious (for me, not really in comparison) woman hate phase, borderline dark triad type perspective. I had racked up hella karma on another account in MGTOW, mostly talking playful shit about women. This sub gave me new hope that a lot of the women here were real, and I could find one with similar views, and ways of thinking. I still for the most part have entered relationships/situationships that I probably shouldn't have, but was still hopeful all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:16 PM
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BS... Still think the average woman has a go to guy for occasionally sex/affection needs that may not be her preferred relationship material- which is why he stays sex on the down low, until she puts him on the back burner for Mr. Bucks she'll wanna post herself with on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:59 PM
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Oh agreed, I'm more of a coochie connoisseur myself too. I'll playfully lick and kiss around all of it, ass included though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:54 PM
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Ha, I'll admit this dirty honky eats ass👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:26 PM
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Eh, she may be used to getting her ass kissed, and like not hearing eye rolling flattery for a change. Or so it seems sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:45 PM
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Oh, no I usually try and make it funny. Maybe sneak in some playful snarky type remark she'll feel she'll have to reply back to with a grin or that, "Oh really face" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:38 PM
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That is a good point. The trying to hold off admitting she is desirable. This only works in person though, not so much as a woman you met online. You can't exactly slide in her DM's without showing some signs of attraction. The amount of women you can get to talk to you if you hit up her messenger or whatever with something other than, "Hey, how's your day" or some such small talk boring question, may surprise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:25 PM
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The only problem I have with this is the lack of spacing. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:06 PM
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Still thinking there was probably just as much or more sexlessness historically, per capita, just that internet and social media, media in general has pushed everyone else's lives, and luxuries in everyone else's faces. Social media has become detrimental to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:36 PM
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The only looks that a guy can change to help with women are maybe his style (clothes, hair, tattoos, etc.) and getting better at game/flirting. We will never be able to just put on war paint, and gain whole points of attractiveness. I wish makeup would really fall out of style, but it won't b/c women can jump whole points on each other with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:28 PM
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This sub used to be about the morality/ethics of dating strategies, and whether or not generalizations being taught about women were/are correct. Then the incel subs got taken down, and they started brigading over into subs like this. This sub turned more into Red and Blue pill vs black pills. Then that progressed further into, "currycels" and the like, who added a non-Western mentality/paradigm to what is mostly a Western centered market, for lack of a better term atm. I see less and less of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:24 PM
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This may be true about people in general are just having less sex. I've seen/met more female virgins over 18 in the past couple years than I think I ever have in my life. These girls usually have guy friends, and game with them, but they apparently don't spend much alone time together anymore. They're more prone to hanging out online. Or so they tell me when I've finally tactfully managed to bring the subject up, without coming off like I was hitting on (preying on) the 19yr old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:15 PM
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Do men REALLY need to have access to women and dating to have a more fulfilling life? Yes, most of us do. Or did, not so sure about the younger generations. More and more seem to be doing fine with just video games and each other. I admit I need a woman in my life for my own mental/emotional well being. I went well over a year without dating, or any affection from a woman I'm not related to, sexual type affection, and it turned into the darkest point of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:58 PM
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He's probably not going to get alarmed, or creeped out by you, but I agree with the dude who said he'd think/be worried you'd think he was stalking you, and be creeped out by him. Like he's having bad luck bite him in the butt to make him look bad. I also am on the team that thinks you should just send him a, "Hey stranger, just wanting to see how you doing" and see if he responds. It sounds like he's either already talking to another woman, or that type of, "modern male" that's borderline asexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:38 PM
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Well we're both 40, so thanks for finally thinking it has some potential 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:36 AM
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No, the relationship is built mostly around us both wanting a chill relationship, and not being drama for each other, and having fun, and enjoying each other like a mini vacation when we're alone. She is mentally/emotionally stable, has her shit together, and doesn't randomly cry every day for some reason. We could get through some shit together, I'm sure. She's level headed, and isn't very impulsive. She's sweet, a big heart, and a very loving person. That's what our relationship is based aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:20 AM
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Haven't tried kratom yet, but it's on the list. I should have before it got banned locally here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:32 AM
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Oh, that was in another comment. I have talked well about her, just admittedly it sounded cold here. I'm just anxious and unsure about the state of relationship I'm apparently in. That it escalated too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:45 AM
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Haha, nooo... I said she's the hardest woman I have ever had to get off possibly. I'm not used to it not just happening every time. I usually make every woman cum like crazy from going down on them. She needs way more pressure than what my tongue can deliver- when she's sober. Get her high, and she'll cum on my mouth just fine like most other women. I know lesbians do other things, I was just being a jackass about it by meaning I just finger her while kissing her and over her, until she cums.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:43 AM
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I've had that too... But she has never even had one. It's weird, but yeah, that was one of my first thoughts as well. Brought up getting one on like day two or three, and she was believably inexperienced with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:51 PM
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Fair enough. If you crack in the moment, and can't go through with it like that, give her a long heartfelt explaination for some reason you can't give her 💯 right now, and she deserves that, and it's not fair to her right now. You want to be able to give the the best of you she deserves. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:49 PM
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Well I guess I have a gf now, she met my fam today. I admit I'm not madly in love with her or crazy about her yet, but it has great potential. I whined about probably breaking it off with her in one of these past threads b/c I couldn't get her off. At least not like I wanted. We've since fixed that, for the most part. Basically I found out if she's sober, I give her the lesbian sex for foreplay. Finger the hell out of her, but way harder than I actually felt comfortable doing. Never had to be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:39 PM
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That's a bummer man, b/c there's no good way you walk out of this without being the asshole/ bad guy. She's already family approved and vetted, already let interest in you known. I've heard a couple stories to tell her, (I've used one, a buddy uses the other) on how to get out of this without her thinking you're an asshole.. but thought they were kinda long for an inbox comment you might not even care enough about. When you can just say you're not feeling it for whatever reason you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:57 PM
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Was about to come here and ask if we all bitched about the weekly feminism topic to the point where they said, "Ok, what more pointless, beaten of a dead horse topic can we come up with than feminism. Any ideas?" "How about unpaid labor in relationships!?" "What is that even?" "I don't really know- Perfect, this is perfect! Let's watch them try and make fights about this, won't even know what they're supposed to be talking about- but well get to see how they manage to trigger and pick fights wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:11 PM
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No female friends is a red flag, often means other girls don't trust her. Also pretty sure I've yet to meet the, "I just get along better with guys" girl who hasn't slept with multiple or all of her guy friends, in "it just happened" type scenarios. "We're just friends, and yes, occasionally sex has happened."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:34 PM
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Haha, think I have read something about this, come to think of it.🤔 Almost like women tend to never be able to be satisfied or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:14 PM
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I didn't say that, putting words in my mouth missy;P I said he knew what to do to get you, and apparently keep you. Sounds like he had/has honest intentions, and is husband material afterall; despite his past experience. So weird to be making this argument from this side, usually it's the, "high n girls can't be wife material" argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:11 PM
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Sorry I made you feel some bad type o' way lol. I mean you married him did you not? You thought about divorce papers yet? If no... Sounds like still a success story to me. "JS"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:59 PM
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I haven't been asked in a good 10yrs probably, and then it was a game. Pretty sure the last time I actually got asked for an n count we were playing truth or dare jenga, and drinking. But yeah, I try not to brag about past love lives... It doesn't help you aquire the new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:11 PM
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You got the husband you wanted, you happy or not? Sounds like he made the right choice. Sounds like he know/knows better about what you want than you do. Standard situation for successful male in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:09 PM
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The people on this sub in general have unrealistic standards, CMV. I would say guys, but I think enough women hate on other women that it makes it a, "people" issue, not just a guy issue. If you're complaining about not getting feemalz that qualify, but you can name celebrity actresses don't qualify... I don't feel bad for you son. You and your PP's taste is the problem; or a major one of them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:59 PM
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I mean she is... Just a bit too small and child looking to me. What's the deal with her today, two post specifically naming her. Is she trending on twitter or something 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:25 PM
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Yes, and more eager, enthusiastic, and easier to please in general. And more appreciative of what you do for them. No thought about what Emma Watson was singled/pointed out, sounds like OP may have an Emma Watson fetish, or Emma Watson hate thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:11 PM
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I mean, I have to ask... But you still have a peen right? I mean even a man made coochie would have to be noticeably different. Smell and feel different and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:21 PM
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That's the spirit 👍 I still don't think people who didn't experience a gender during puberty should get to claim said gender. There should be a separate term. You never had the first period cramp, or bleeding embarrassment, anything. You didn't earn your womanhood. I'm sorry, just how it should be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:08 PM
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Ok, asshole to you time. I tried to let the trans thing slide, and move on the subject we were talking about. But as is typical of "you people," everything has to revolve around or circle back to your gender identity, and your perpetual victimhood. You've heard of Bridezillas? Well trans M to F are dramazillas. You are all the Frankensteins of drama queens. Everything is offensive, and needs to cater or pander to you or it is offensive. This comment is probably an existential crisis to you. Put …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:35 PM
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Haha, yeah, they do. I'm sorry if it bothers you, I just usually think it's funny. Grab my ass or whatever, IDC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:49 PM
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And by, "We don't care" I meant about what happened to us, not other people. I've had a woman put a knife to my throat, and demand I fuck/cum in her. If this was the other way around, I could make a whole Lifetime channel movie about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:44 PM
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I'm compassionate in person, and would genuinely hear him out and care if one started opening up to me, or gave me a smidge of a hint or sign he had a real issue. Sorry, have to ask... Have you been raped or molested by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:42 PM
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I can appreciate hobbies, or interest, or passions, but admittedly the idea of, "helping her progress in her field" makes me think, "Hol up, hmmm, what have I gotta do." I mean if it means I now have a pro bono job... I'd like to at least be learning something, or it be interesting in some way. I'd rather not just be an intern with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:20 AM
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That's not a popular opinion... but I have to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:36 PM
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That's kind of ironic in context of the post you just made. Almost like we're being programmed to quit reproducing in some way. Anyway, not here to debate covid plandemics, here to talk sociology, and try and help these Dilberts get laid. For my own personal entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:33 PM
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Well there's more to it than just the event 201 "coincidence..." but nevermind. Get ready and pumped to take your booster shot, and hope you feel safe and secure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:54 PM
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Basically look into, "Event 201." Long story short, there's decent evidence that a group of elites are into eugenics, and want to save the planet by making less people in it. Have to admit I see the point and bigger picture there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:17 PM
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I think all this will work itself out, once Bill Gates has got project depopulate the world taking it's toll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:53 PM
1

Jennifer Lawrence, Drew Barrymore, Sarah Silverman, Michelle Rodriguez, Yetide Badaki (plays the goddess Bilquis on American Gods).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:29 PM
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It's all up to the individual. She just has to find the type of guy she's most compatible with. My answer for me would be the complete opposite of some other guy's here, in some ways anyway. You have to find the guy you want, and just see if you're compatible with him. But yes, chemistry is important to me, more than skills honestly. I'm pretty vanilla, but will do anything not involving pain, choking, or anal in either direction. I would regret the relationship if we can't work out a chemistry,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:19 PM
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There is a difference that I didn't see said yet, in that if she's somewhat leading you on, or treating you as more than just a friend... Then you're an emotional tampon. Holding herself out there like a carrot in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:59 PM
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I would help most people in general, the exception being she's in a fight with her man. I probably wouldn't get in between an altercation with strangers unless it's a robbery or mugging maybe. Other than that, you never really know who started what, or is really the culprit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:54 AM
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Ok, well I'd take either or both🤷‍♂️😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:23 PM
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Of course we do. Think we call that a, "quirky" girl. Cute and adorable trait to have:)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 05:32 PM
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Am straight dude, and do have at least one straight chick friend where we are close enough to be considered, "homies" (would/could/do tell each other anything to get a real deal honest answer) and there is 100% mutually no sexual attraction. I do have other chick friends, but yes, we start getting into things like her being a lesbian, big age differences, or one of us could possibly be friend flirting with the other sometimes... So can't 100% say one would never sleep with the other. Edit: InB4,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:30 PM
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Does she have big bewbs? Big butt, thicc thighs? He may have a thing for those particular parts (can relate) and those attributes tend to go along with bigger girls in general. Yes, skinny girls with big boobs/butts/thighs exist... But you're getting into more of a rare and elite area/demographic, and he may just want to bury his face in and wrap his arms around big cup boobies or a phat ass. I like the feel of a big, soft thigh thrown over me. I don't want it to be able to pass for a gym bruh's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:24 PM
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Isn't this almost a universal guy fantasy trope? Like the sexy librarian, quirky, "girl next door" type that the juggernaut theory was made or discovered after? I seem to recall some study where a woman posted different versions of the same woman (herself) in completely different profiles, thinking the, "sex kitten" girl would win by a big margin. Turned out more men hit up the, "nerdy girl next door" than any other by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:00 AM
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Paging u/Gravel_Roads
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:51 AM
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I had to look back to see what this was in response to. "Dufuq did I say to bring actual gravy into the mix.." lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:01 PM
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Thank you, yeah it definitely hits the ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:59 PM
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Yes, yes I do all this, and only rarely have ever seen/had this not worked out for me. That's how I got her as far as I did. It just wasn't intense enough as I want yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:32 PM
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Well she does "mentally/spiritually cum" apparently, if that's what you mean. I mean if you can psychic ability an organism through breathing exercises or some such, power to you. I want to experience it all in my face, juices all up in my olfactory, thighs jumping and twitching against my shoulders and neck. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:31 PM
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Yeah, does make me wonder about past trauma honestly, did think about that. Which also makes me feel more guilty about dumping her over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:44 PM
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I don't know, I didn't ask, well I asked too vaguely I think. She obviously didn't want to talk about it, so I quickly dropped it. I tactfully as possible asked her if she ever has, and she just said she thinks so, unconvincingly. I did finally see one that could possibly have been a small one, and she acted like that was as good as it gets. I haven't got to really get in there and try since, b/c she started her period, and wouldn't/won't really let me play with her. She gets horny on her period…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:22 PM
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Thank you, I do already feel an asshole for thinking about this. Something so insignificant in the bigger picture of life, something that will for sure go away in the relationship anyway, probably much sooner than I would want to even know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:47 PM
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Well I may break it off with a woman over me not being able to get her off, mostly. I mean we don't have a crazy amount in common, I'm not crazy attracted to her, she's just a good bet/ good fit for a relationship type person for me. She's stable, (in every sense of the word) pretty enough, got enough check marks on what I should be looking for for a good foundation for a good LTR. She just can't really orgasm possibly. Granted it's only been a couple weeks, and she still seems kind of nervous/i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:35 PM
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Hahaha! "You men just don't know how hard it is being a woman. You sit in your man's world with all your privilege! How dare you mock us, that some of us found out that we can just get paid to eat on camera. Do what we have to do to jump start our careers and just make it in this man's world!✊🏻😡"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:14 PM
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The one I'm embarrassed most about is liking the leftover cooked down meat drippings in pans. Like scratching off, or spooning up the fatty, salty remnants. After that, it's ramen noodles. I know they're horrible for you, but I do love some salty salty goodness. I drain the water before adding seasoning packet, to make the most concentrated salt pow to the palate as possible:D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:05 PM
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Red: People are just smarter animals, controlled more by our wiring than most would want to admit. Women are fickle creatures, that can fall in and out of, "love" in moments. They tend to be more controlled by the momentary feelings than men. Blue: Women are more nuanced than AWALT, and looking at them/dating them as just math and algorithms limits you more than helps you ultimately. You can't STEM away human communication and interactions and expect to beat, "the system" of real world interpers…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:54 PM
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Normal social media, such as (hate to say it) Facebook. Send her a friend request, slide in her messenger with something hopefully funny, or really different, at least. Keep doing this until you find someone you really click in communication with, then go meet to see if you click/have chemistry in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:41 PM
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I can't/couldn't bring myself to be mean to a woman, unless she got mean first maybe. I'd rather hurt myself or get hurt than hurt a woman's feelings, I hate it, it really bothers me. I couldn't break it off with last ex until she finally went to far having a hissy fit in anger. That was when I could justify it, and not feel so much like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 07:26 PM
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Haha, no, just a tux, and don't remember having to do anything but strut lol. Wanna say I was like 6yrs old or something. Don't really remember any of it, just saw the pictures my mom took.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:00 PM
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Probably just dated, and time to do away with them. I don't think it's sexist, b/c I think it's mostly women who watch, support, and push them. Pretty girls wanting to compete for validation on how pretty they are. I'll agree though that the child ones should never have happened, and be long gone by now. They do have them for boys though, or did. I won one as a child lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:51 PM
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Probably some truth to this. Source: Kinda cute, and just slept with a bigger girl who literally just texted me this morning how sweet and sexy I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:40 PM
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Yeah, this probably only works when the guy is more attractive than the girl. Source: I'm nice to girls, and get girls, but usually am probably usually higher smv than the ones I end up actually sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:36 PM
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Works in the Cannabis business, a dispensary or such. I just dumped this one a couple months ago though haha. I'd like that, b/c she could get me in the business. Also second the idea of no cops, female cops are drama, attention whores, and a domestic violence/legal trouble waiting to happen. She has coworkers who'll have it out for you, b/c you're sleeping with her, and they see you as the block in their way to that pussy. They'll also run to her side and help her when she assaults you. Source:…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:17 PM
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Yeah, don't wanna be crop dusting anything lol. Always heard the idea is she should have to get close to you to smell you, and you want to smell better and better the closer she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:56 PM
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I wouldn't say more important, but it's up there. You can definitely compensate or help a lot with her loving the way you smell. You have to find the right mix that goes well with your body chemistry though. I got lucky and found a deodorant that works better than any cologne in itself for me. Edit: You'll have to trial and error with different things, and get women who are not related to you to see what they like best on you. See what they actually want to sniff, or compliment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:56 PM
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Funny you said The Rock, he was one of the first people I thought of when you asked somebody to name a masculine man with a large female fan base. He's probably equally loved by both though. I'm not gay, but I guy crush on Dwayne Johnson too lol. I wish he'd run for president as an independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:12 PM
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Well what kind of guys do you like, assuming you don't hate us all to the point of aversion? Describe you're ideal guy, or the guy you actually dated or slept with maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:24 PM
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I don't slut shame... But they have multiple reasons ranging from Madonna/whore complex, to not wanting to compete with as many scores in her scorebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:55 PM
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Never really understood OnlyFans, I'd feel creepy AF having some woman strip for me, that I don't know, through a camera. Strip clubs are different, but I still never really liked that much either. It's too transactional for me. Cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:24 PM
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Fair point, I wasn't siding with him as much as I was just arguing with your, "Just bro cuddle man, quit being so skittish about it, and bro hug it out. Problem solved dude." Or that's how it read anyway:D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:38 PM
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No, I like cuddling and snuggling women, I like petting, playing in hair, holding hands across parking lots. "JS" I wouldn't want to do it with just friends, guys or girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:03 PM
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I hate to admit it, but you're right. Well from a guy's perspective anyway. Nothing compares to a woman looking at you like you're pizza or chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:26 PM
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Well usually I'm just hoping she takes bad pictures like I do, or maybe looks better in person too, or just maybe in person it is better somehow. I've been catfished so many times, I've got an, "M.O" checklist of red flags I look for. But yes, like you, I don't want to be shallow, want more than just sex (ultimately) and want to like somebody that I had strong communication connection with by phone. So I go meet them. I don't need any new chick friends, so agree to stay friends... Then just try …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:22 PM
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I have no desire to cuddle with my homies, not b/c of fear of labels, or my fragile little masculinity, but b/c I'm attracted to that. The idea is gross to me. I mean if we're freezing to death, ok, but sharing a blanket to stay warm, without having other options is about the extent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:14 PM
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Yes, and for men, all that stems from sexual attraction. What do you think those, "romantic and tingly sensations" are? They are offshoots of sexual attraction. Maybe some women can separate the two, IDK, but I'm skeptical. Could you do and feel all that for a man you had no desire to ever kiss?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:09 PM
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You keep projecting your womanly perspective into the male brain. Yes, some low T men can do just fine without sex, but the lack of it makes most of us depressed. I admit I prefer love and emotions to go/come with it eventually, but just sex is the next best thing, and is still a core need. Sex literally does change/improve your life as a man, and can make it worth living, in and of itself. Think of that as pathetic if you want, but it is just how most of us are wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:01 PM
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It was inferred by the context of you saying don't worry about a Sharia Law. Just wanting to point out there's a few more than that that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:25 AM
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Ahh, a girl defending Islam. Guess you're fine with your non-Muslim friends being raped, and your homosexual friends and family being, "punished" (executed) for their sins too. Let's just take away all the music, and non Sharia approved clothing or anything. This is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:41 AM
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And I would burn every quran out of existence, if I could figure out how to do it. The only sex I think the death penalty is warranted for is child molestation, like your prophet is most likely guilty of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:31 AM
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Ahh yes, "the religion of peace" talk from a guy just advocating murder. It's funny (not funny) how you people get away with playing both sides in the name of, "cultural acceptance" when you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:12 AM
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Personally I think Islam should be wiped off the face of the planet, as well as the other bastards of Abraham, modern day Christianity and Judaism. They accomplish nothing but oppression, and war mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:14 PM
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It's up there, especially if they're mad at their SO. There's few good fuckings like scorned woman, "I'll show you" loving to get back at a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:09 PM
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I don't really understand how she breathes! Or you know, you could just grab hold of it, and do your own thing at your own pace and way, without gagging on it, or making us think you might be about to puke on us;D I don't wanna put it in her butt either. I know, I'm weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah, they'd rather bitch about how women won't knock on their door to make pornos, and spend hours with the boys online, than work on a girl. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:08 PM
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I know of two men who really game that get women, and don't know of one who has problems who doesn't game. Still going to say it's enough of a thing to call it, "AGMALT." All Gamer Men Are Like This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:48 PM
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You probably shouldn't really worry about it. It's probably better to error on being more enthusiastic and adventurous than prudish. I've just had a girl in particular in mind when I play hated on that girl's sex trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:49 PM
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Key word, "all" haha;P Didn't say I didn't like it... Just said it makes me look at her as just a hootchie to play with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:15 PM
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Yes, if she starts telling stories about gang bangs, or having trains ran on her, I can't relationship her probably. Also that pose where she lays on her back, hangs her head off the bed, and you face fuck her throat- if that's her go to, show off, "Look what I can do.." I can't look at her the same caring way either. Hard for me to make love to a woman after that. But other than that... She's good, and I agree the more enthusiastic she is the better. Oh, and choking. If she's into choking, I pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:38 PM
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I'm not saying women (particularly white women) aren't overly privileged, entitled, and overly full of themselves too... "JS" that's the biggest common denominator with the guys I've seen online, and irl when they have lack of woman problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:07 PM
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The common denominator with, "men" who can't get laid, or complain about women are that they are gamers. They'll bitch and whine about women being to much work, too much investment, and too taxing on their mental being - then go play online gaming for 6hrs straight, or spend all night cursing some other sweaty dick. If you spend more time chasing dudes on a video game than you spend chasing girls... I have no sympathy for your frustrated PP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:09 PM
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Ok, so quit falling for two party BS you ignorant fucking Americans, and your problem is solved. I too, am American, but have seen the light that this is all a rigged game. The same people own both sides/both extremes, so they force everyone in the middle to align with one of the cults. "Pick your extremist poison... Doesn't matter which, we own both of them. Just keep letting one of them control all your money." TL;DR: Republican/Democrat party BS has ruined this country. You both think yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:18 AM
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I get hooked on coochie crack for sure, just wish it could be one that's not almost as bad decision as crack crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:02 PM
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I know you're right... But I probably can't resist meeting her at least once. See how the chemistry really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:10 PM
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Haha, fair enough. Just meant maybe make sure you're more interested something other than a drama fueled piece of ass. At least have good intentions at heart. Of course my mama always said, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:11 PM
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I said it was risky... But depression from no love life sucks too. One of you could always change jobs. Life is a gamble, you could change jobs next year anyway, and might've gotten the love of your life out of it. Or crash and burn and get fired. You'd just have to really vet the girl, to see if it's worth it. Befriend her first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:52 PM
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Thanks for making me feel a bit better my man:D Yeah, she'd be fine, and replace me with a quickness if shw wants. Hope that motorcycle life is still treatin ya good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:55 PM
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Co-workers may be the bullet you need to bite. Yes, it's considered a no-no, is risky, and sucks very much badly if you break up. But it's something, and potential something may be better than perpetual nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:57 PM
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You've probably tried this, but in case you haven't, have you tried using foreplay to calm yourself down, and take the performance anxiety away? That's a lot of women's complaints, men just try to jump right into PIV action. You can have a win-win by kissing and caressing all over her, both getting yourself comfortable with her/her body, and warming her up to wanting more in the process. Take your time, until it actually feels intimate enough your comfort for her wins over your anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:54 PM
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Was this a question for women? I'm a dude... I cover all my own expenses, well enough to squirrel away a bit in a couple ways, just nothing to really brag about. I've never had a sugar mama, but have dated a couple of women who make more than me. Some really don't care, I know, and admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:46 PM
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Ok, I mean if, "SHTF" who, or how many people could carry on like nothing happened? Preppers? People with farms? What level of SHTF are we talking here? If the dollar collapses, and all that money is worthless, how do you think most people will fair out? I mean my SHTF visualization may differ from yours. I basically see The Walking Dead, with much faster and thinking zombies. And I have my cobra adder repeating tactical crossbow for that lol. Well, and a couple few hundred rounds of ammunition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:33 PM
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Well I have some savings, and investments, so I'm not, "in the hole" by any means. I'm ahead on my internet gambling with my magic internet money, atm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:03 PM
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I'm a horrible person again, I think I'm about to break a girl's heart, and it's my fault. I knew better than to sleep with her. There's another woman that I feel more of a connection with, who is taken, so I moved on. She (the taken woman) said she'd understand if I had to "fulfill my needs," just please don't tell her. She'd still want me, but admits it'd still hurt. So after a sketchy interaction/red flag story on her part, basically reaffirming she's never/has no real intentions of leaving, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:00 PM
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No, it's not always a deal breaker... Just definitely doesn't help for a deal maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:41 PM
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Most women worth having are in a committed relationship or married by mid to late 30's; so I can be fun toy/side attention/back-burner, "if this relationship doesn't work out," guy for much higher quality women that are attached than I can find single. Edit: Also, admittedly I know if I made more money than any of their spouses, I wouldn't be here complaining about it being a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:20 PM
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Is it your experience as well that thick women tend to be tighter? That's my experience anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:38 PM
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I guess they just get off on the exhibitionism, and that's enough. IDK, I don't get it. Only ever sent a couple three D pics I think, and they were asked for. Well playfully told me to send one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:16 PM
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I doubted this too... And ended up playfully saying so to my step sis one day when it happened to jokingly get brought up in a group chat. So she and a friend or two I think started forwarding them at me, giving me the, "girl phone experience." It didn't take long before I was all, "please no, make it stahp!" Very much more a real thing than I would ever believe. Like you, I can't believe guys actually think this works. I mean that has to be the least effective pick-up/hook-up strategy that exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:08 AM
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Yes, another dude to admit and agree men should, on average, put more into making sure she's getting off. How this is even debatable I can only attribute to pure selfish intentions kind of mentality. Just recently got a new partner, and big shocker (not so shocker) I was the first person to really go down on her, to, "do it like that." Big shocker, she's on her third day in a row of being eager to come back. Literally had like, a two hour window yesterday she could work me in, and still came to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:52 PM
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BS. You can't have it both ways... You can't say, "AWALT is most women, we're just meaning generally speaking" and then say that women who don't fit those bland molds or predictable outcomes aren't special; thus high value. I'll argue that's what HV woman probably is... The one who really isnt like the other girls. The AWALT girls you all bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:49 PM
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Haha, believe it or not I'm not a cheater- but have been the other guy multiple times. Yes, accident was a bad choice of words... Should have just went with temptations I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 12:41 PM
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Yes, it can be justified. Not for the person who got cheated on to ever take them back... But for the two in the tango. If the person cheating was/is being abused in any way, including mental/emotional neglect... Then accidents can happen. They were kind of asking for it. Building the sand castle themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:57 AM
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Totally never trying/thinking they are making a girl happy, he made her smile, so he improved her day. Not saying I really think like that, I understand why it doesn't work like that.. is why I just try to make them giggle or such to get a genuine smile. Assuming she looks approachable for that, not ill or resting bitchface.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:47 PM
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Also guys could just genuinely be trying to/thinking they are making her happy, or improving her day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:45 PM
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Yeah, yeah, that sounds a bit much for most people, but that sort of thing. That's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:45 AM
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Not RP per se... Red leaning, but I love good ones on them. Like some really good artsy piece that flows with her body can be so so sexy. You just wanna follow it up her thigh, or down her back, or whichever way it disappears to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:16 AM
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Well cunnilingus has already been pointed out. I'd be willing to give an example on how I might go about doing it, if any lady wants to critique on it. I believe seduction starts before I even get close to you. I want to feel your heart pounding before I start to kiss your clothes off of you. I will have you teased so hot and wet by the time I'm playing with you through and around your panties that you will be wishing them away off of you. Also not really looking for casual sex. In that camp tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:38 AM
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Agree, women ghost before sex when they get spooked from being afraid you'd be one they could really get attached to, and break their heart. Or they are still sleeping with the same POS, and won't give anybody else a real chance. Or somebody came along who is cuter, or more money, or just a worse decision, and that's her M.O.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:06 AM
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You probably can, I would just feel like an asshole, and never have. Never seen a straight dude use filters either, except to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:39 PM
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Pretty sure the filters fix the face shape now too, a lot of it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:54 PM
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No, but it is a really common thing for girls to do. Usually it's the pics she's using are years old, or all makeup+filtered to the point it's not even recognizable as the same person. Personally, the worst one was a girl I agreed to go meet at a park to day date hike/picnic together. Not sure how long it had been since she had ever hiked... but it was allegedly her regular, "stomping ground" that she wanted to show me. Got there, she was at least twice the size as she looked on her photos, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:39 PM
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That's a bit of a stretch, but the filters + makeup have pushed a lot of their online personas up too much, yes. But they're still not celebrities, and probably banging some fill in dude down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:17 PM
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Another guy to say most things are usually non verbal, as in not literally said at the time, but often there's jokes, innuendos, playfully talking about it that comes first. Maybe some sexting, if it's not a spur of the moment bar type encounter. I usually just kiss and escalate as long as there's momentum. She's actively participating back. Stop if she stops a hand, or freezes in any way, or pulls back/seems distant in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:52 AM
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I mean yeah.. if she's got needs to be fulfilled- she's gonna get 'em fulfilled somewhere. Or test drive something looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:34 AM
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Haha, yes ma'am. Well then I'll say don't work yourself out of a market by being too elite of a catch;P I guess I'm still a bigot too, b/c I wouldn't date trans, only natural born whoohahs for me. Still a POS too... Still trying to steal somebody else's wife. I just have too much chemistry with one of my kid's teachers for either of us to just let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:19 AM
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I'm sorry I went there about saying maybe you are gym-ing too hard, like you are doing it for men. You do you for you, like you've obviously been doing. I apologize for the man-piggy comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:46 AM
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Well he's apparently associates with Jeffery Epstein, so it's probably much younger than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:44 AM
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Another guy who thinks life would be easier if I was gay, or didn't have the need at all. I do love women though, even though a couple few have really ruined some things for me, and caused big problems in my life. Like any other drug, there's side effects, and downsides sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:23 PM
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The point is, we're questioning the validity of this specific vaccine, or vaccines. It still almost amuses me how no one will address certain points that have been made about these. They just skip on past them, and circle jerk the same pamphlet lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:00 PM
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Well to be fair, most are probably just covid vaccine refusers, not across the board anti-vaxxers. But I guess you could make a law they have to wear arm bands to identify themselves, then scoop them up in camps. You going to send them via airplane or boat, or what Adolf- I mean Jac?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:29 AM
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They'll just say it's not 100%, and some other variable is what made the fluke. Thank you for the story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:42 AM
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And there it is, "our beloved Democrats are fighting stupid Republicans." Ever stop to think that just maybe, both sides are working together against us? All they have to do is sell Trump on something, and Democrats will fight to push the opposite. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a Trumper either. I hate both sides with a passion, they are collectively one of two big problems that are destroying this country. The other is the banking cartel that owns both of them. I 100% believe this virus was relea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah, I didn't say that b/c I'd just get hit with, "GiMmE dE sAuCe On dAt!" Then hit me with some study funded by the same people profiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:32 PM
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Did I mention microchips? No, b/c that's BS. That's a common tactic to discredit real points... You throw a bs one out too, hoping enough people will run with it, so it makes the whole thing look like bs. People just assume that since one thing is false, then all the rest gets lumped in as false as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:28 PM
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B/c we don't just go along with our fee fees, and actually look at all the science... not just the cult Scientism. Not too long ago we had occupy Wall Street, now all of a sudden everyone is on lick big pharma's ass. You do know that the vaccines aren't FDA approved right? You do know that the companies that make them are exempt from litigation for anything that goes wrong right? You do know that each and every company that makes them has been in litigation over this before - and lost... So it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:47 PM
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Dufuq does this have to do with the subject matter this sub is about? Also tough love advice? Hasn't had a post in months... totally a happening place for timely advice.🙄 Also fuck the vaccine for me and mine personally... But I hope all you in favor of it get every version, and booster upgrade of it they come out with from here on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:10 PM
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Per your link: "The tallest men are in Iowa and Al-la-bam-ah. Can confirm Alabama is a state of sasquatches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:34 PM
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The Tennessee, Georgia, Al-la-bam-ah tri state area is what I'm referring too specifically, miss Poppy;P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:59 PM
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5'9 is only average height b/c of all the short northerners dropping the average down. Go down to some of the southern or Western US states, average is over 6'. Source: I'm 5'"11, and regularly the shortest guy in the building/store/street, anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:10 PM
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Both kinds of guys exist, I know examples of both too. I agree that most people probably ultimately end up wanting just one person who can cover all needs for them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:08 PM
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Even if it's all about physical pleasure, there's still pleasures that robots can't compete with. The smell of a lover on you, smelling them get turned on for you, is a whole level of pleasure in itself. Also their heart pounding, the feel of how they breathe when you overwhelm them, and excite them. It all adds to the experience, that a robot would have to try to fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:26 PM
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As attractive as a very attractive human is, they can’t compete against a robot that looks perfectly flawless and is optimized to you personally. Disagree, it still can't smell like a woman. Figure out a way to give her hair and skin real woman smell, and real vaginal flora or whatever to make it smell like a real vag... Then and only then it might could tempt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:07 AM
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Ok, I'm sorry I didn't factor in porn handicapped men.. will try to remember to word for that better. Thank you, and yes ma'am, and I'm sorry to you for the mentally stunted men who treated you like a robot, or machine to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:06 PM
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Yes! That fan does feel good blowing up your back and ass - but it will fan dry a cookie with a quickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:03 PM
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Nah, I know they will just recite sidebar info, and bitch and kick you out for giving real advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:27 PM
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Instead of a sticky post about feminism for the humpteenth time... How about we make one that's askPPD, like askTRP, but all of us, both/all pills can answer? Sounds like a fun experiment. We get a lot of weird question post, that get removed b/c they don't fit the criteria. The ask PPD would be a place for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:07 PM
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Yeah, never needed lube for vag either. Lick it back wet. Or turn the fan off that's pointing at her, and give the girl some water.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:50 PM
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Read that as: *rub/swirl sensually. I was just trying to be funny... but we have to factor in the literal reading as is, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:33 PM
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Jesus Christ, I forgot to word it autist friendly, and just went with figurative funny. I didn't mean literally flick like a thump. I meant sensually rub. Jesus fucking christ reddit🙄🤦‍♂️ Edit: I also don't watch porn.. I know to pick up on context clues of how she's touching and kissing me how hard or aggressively she likely wants to be touched back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:30 PM
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Haha, well if you're that close, it's probably a pretty safe bet you can touch it. I mean if she's already letting your peen in her🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:02 PM
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Ffs, eat the coochie. Swirl that bean with your tongue, and stick your fingers in, and pump the back side of that bean too while you lick. Or swirl that bean while you stroke in her. Either reach around from doggie, and flick it... Or put her knees or feet on your chest, and when you lean in over her, this will push her thighs apart enough you can reach it fairly easily; probably best done with your thumb from this position. Trim and file your fingernails until you can't scratch your own lip, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah, I quit worrying about it when the second woman repeatedly cheated on a bigger guy with me. I was only dumb enough to ask that question twice. "So.. does he have a little dick or wha?" "Actually no...his is bigger than yours - but you're just better:)"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:43 PM
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Also rich girls already have daddy money to fall back on, so they are more able to think With their loins. Edit: Sorry to make you think about your mother getting Randy 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:54 PM
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No, that's up to her as usual if she wants to date. There's always going to be some Chief Save-a-Ho willing to scoop her up, and try and fix the world for her. I wouldn't date a woman who stayed with a physically abusive man, especially if she ever left or went back to him. She'll either leave you for him, a guy like him, or try and turn you into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:44 PM
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Not being into seduction, foreplay, or trying to turn on that carnal side of women's desire. You have to flip that switch in women, or she doesn't even register or consider you as having a penis. Most women aren't walking around looking out for who they'd fuck. They probably rarely walk around horny, or consciously looking forward to potential sex. You have to ignite that in her, it is the man's job to put her brain in sex mode; turn her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:48 PM
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No one is going to comment on the, "big penis, big dick energy" part of this lol? I seriously doubt they highlight having a big penis as a prerequisite for a potential man. I mean if so, it's probably a joke, or she's pretty much a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:37 PM
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This person knows the location of a unicorn farm... get them!☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:08 PM
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Ha, thanks! Yeah, I come here to break up the echo chamber a bit. This place is a zoo of oddities;P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:35 PM
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What, that I'm an attractive enough person to be around that a lot of girls/women would be tempted to sleep with me, if they spend enough time with me? Yeah, oh, the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:49 PM
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She's chill, not very impulsive, actually doesn't like drama; not just says she doesn't like drama on social media, then proceeds to post drama. She's not superficial, she is curious about the world, and wants to understand deeper things than what the Kardashians are wearing, or what celebraties are doing. She's cultured, and doesn't loathe acting like a lady, but can still be cool fun girl, and not be so serious when you get the dress clothes off of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:30 PM
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Agreeing with some of the others that it would be useful to have more of an understanding, to give you an edge over your peers. So long as what others said, you don't take it to an extreme in a mentally unhealthy way, such as black pill ways of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:18 PM
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I mean that's pretty common too.. I almost fucked my step sister, but had enough sense to know that's a horrible idea. Would have lead to problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:12 PM
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Oh, I misread, my bad. First thing it makes me think of are the women who stop b/c they feel like they have to pee. Just have to tell her to go with it lol. "Just let it go." I've seen and heard of girls who like you said, it's just too overwhelmed for them or such, like sensory overload. Anyway, hopefully neither of us will get a woman who fights orgasm as our next card pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:35 AM
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Ok, I was wrong to chime in on this wording point, I admitted/admit that. Good luck with getting that changed. Most women will protest, and most men don't care enough to speak out for it. I'm sorry to the guys in this situation that have real problems or trauma from it. I'll apologize to him specifically, if one will come out of the proverbial woodworks and say it's him. Pretty sure I've been waiting a good 4 or 5yrs for him to put my foot in my mouth, and make me feel like a piece of shit perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:02 AM
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Oh yeah, 50 Shades sold how many copies? It's as basic as this stereotype gets. "Hard ass with no heart, has no emotions... Until the good little innocent girl teaches him how to love with her magic vagina, which tames the wild stallion."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:59 PM
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This falls under, "Do as I say, not do as I do" lol. Most of them are probably better off trying to be more manly hard asses... But yes, you can charm a lot of women - if you have charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:34 PM
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Easy on the bold all caps, miss barely 20, (iirc) but thinks she's got all the doom and gloom on men figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:12 PM
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That most guys are better off being a little bit of a dick than trying to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:11 PM
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I've heard a lot of women bitch about assholes they sleep with more than men bitching about the women they are sleeping with. But I get anecdotal evidence doesn't fly very well here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:17 PM
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No, it just means there's different demographics of people, to varying degree of percentages. Both women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:15 PM
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No, still think a lot of women don't really respect being respected, and need the drama, and somebody they can bitch about. That's still my take away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:14 PM
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We'll just have to agree to disagree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:31 PM
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No, women are just drawn to them for treating them badly, it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:50 PM
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Women are just the ones who are the most vocal about it, and make the most fuss about it. You just don't really hear about men bitching about the women being bitches, then still sleeping with them. So it doesn't appear to be as much the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:49 PM
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Sooo... And? So women don't deny this is true, just have slightly different ways of rationalizing it. Ok🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:49 PM
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That doesn't disprove the saying, just gives an explanation for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:48 PM
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Well the post wasn't, "what about men who sleep with slutty bitches." It was a straw man about good relationships somehow meaning the other narrative isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:46 PM
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