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DiscussionPM_ME_ZED_BARA/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:38 AM
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Each couple will have to decide for themselves. There is no hard rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:21 PM
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Men and women appear to judge the attractiveness of how a woman walks differently, according to a study. ...Overall, our results suggest that there are not only biological but also sociocultural criteria for gait attractiveness, and men and women place greater importance on the former and latter criteria, respectively, when assessing female gait attractiveness. This paper forms a major step forward in neuroaesthetics to understand the beauty of the human body and the generation of biological mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:59 AM
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As long as abortion remains an issue, progressives will still have to fight on gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:15 PM
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People who want to be paid for should be the one who communicates that in advance, not the one who pays. If you want to be entitled, say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:12 PM
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No nut November is already over lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:30 PM
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The entitlement of that woman is astounding. That being said, I have offered walking some of my friends, female or male, back to their cars when I knew that the path they would take were a bit dangerous. Generally my male friends will refuse my help, while female friends will gladly accept it. I do these because they are my long time friends (20 years of friendship) not because of their genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:17 AM
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This sub is quite eye opening tbh. I would not realize that there are a significant number of straight men that care about dick sizes of other men whom their partners had sex with. On the other hand, I don’t hear a lot of similar concerns from gay tops. It’s pretty ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:49 AM
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It's a shame that men don't really put some effort in simple makeup, clothing selection, and haircut, because they think that it's gay or feminine. They could look better by just following half of the advice given in your links. Now combine those with some diet and exercise for a few months (or however long it takes to not be fat), they could become above average in their attractiveness, considering how many men don't really put in the effort. But in a way, I am glad that many men have given up …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:11 AM
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You just fall into furry propaganda! 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:07 AM
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For me it is that way since I started having sex. Gay men are very open about it which I appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:02 AM
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While this sub loves talking about AI gf/bf, Japan is already one step ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:53 AM
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36, Thailand, no. I usually have sex before even first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:46 AM
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Men with well developed leg and ass muscles are my weakness, and they should wear clothes that accentuate those features. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:51 AM
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Yep. Just take a look at the word "quantum," which now just means magic at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:47 AM
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I am from one of those countries popular with passport bros, and while I think passport bros are too often vilified, they are not saviors to the women here either. The relationships between them are mere transactions. Both sides get something in return. Western men are not providing the women just because of goodness in their heart or love. They do so because the women give them something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:39 AM
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Collectivist cultures like those in China or Japan are not doing well either, especially if you look at birth rates there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:20 AM
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Since I am not attracted to women, I would not even feel harassed. Annoyed perhaps. It would be harassment if this continues after me saying no. This actually happened to me one time at a gay bar of all places. And at the end the woman ended up getting mad because I insulted her in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:41 PM
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I would not even call that an experiment. She did not even try to say how data would be used to evaluate the hypothesis. Like, what type of statistical methods she would be using etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:28 PM
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My guess is that one skill that women prefer is that he lasts long enough for her to reach orgasm but not too long. Inexperience men often cannot control their own time to orgasm during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:58 AM
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Once. He was a virgin and was a bit anxious about sex. And he wanted to know if he was also.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:00 AM
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Battlefield 6 and Borderlands 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:04 AM
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Prostitution, if legalized, would already be booming. No funding of a state is even needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:25 PM
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Precise communication about their wants and their limits especially in BDSM settings. I would also expect them to be not ashamed of their or my sexuality. Some people, especially some religious conservatives, have issues with the fact that some people are having sex, and I don’t want that in my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:19 AM
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I am playing BL4 and really enjoying it. I play as Rafa with the auto-aim cannons, and it’s also very powerful. And yeah Jakobs guns/parts are just so satisfying, especially when paired with the passive that has a chance to send out a grenade when you land a crit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:08 PM
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I disagree with the critical framework that describes men as oppressors and women as the oppressed. It always lacks nuance and is often untrue. I am more supportive of egalitarian feminism, which supports fair treatments for both genders. I work closely with academia but in hard sciences, so I have not met many radical feminists in real life. But from what I see and read online, one of many problems I have with academic feminism is the concept creep. Like the concept of "patriarchy." I don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:10 AM
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I have never lied. I even said that I was a virgin during the first time. I was lucky that my first partner was patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:24 AM
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I had a plenty of casual sex, and I did catch feelings from time to time. Those feelings are like other emotions though, meaning that they can be managed and dealt with. It's usually not messy for me since I always communicate clearly. Few of my partners got clingy but that's their problems to deal with. I would simply block them if they crossed my boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:28 AM
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This is usually the case for many Thai women. They would use sunscreen, skin covering clothes, and even an umbrella if they want to walk outside on a sunny day for a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:21 AM
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You said "Most men dont have freinds who are grapist, pdffile or an abuser" and "Most men stop caring about abusive behavior of other men." So, which one is the one that actually currently and accurately describes men, according to your perspective? If you say the second one is true, then men do award abusive men by ignoring their abusive behaviors. If you say the first one is true, then I can agree, but it still does not mean men are not rewarding abusive men who are not their friends (ugh I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:50 AM
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I disagree. We can talk about many issues at the same time. She, especially as a feminist, should have known better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:17 PM
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Both can be true or even not true, depending on each case. Based on my observation as a native Thai, the relationships between Thai women and PPBs are varied. Yes, some women will drain PPB's money dry and send some of that money to her other boyfriends. In these cases, PPBs are her sidepieces. But in some cases, Thai women are deep in debt, and without PPB's money they would lose everything to the bank. And they are foolish enough to mention that to PPB who will pretty much take advantage of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:11 PM
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My experience does not match with your description at all. Being my authentic self with men is just so easy. TBH a man is generally willing to put up with a lot of shit if I meet his needs and as long as there is mutual respect. If a man gets easily upset with your true thoughts, it’s likely that your relationship was already in a bad shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:25 AM
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Men are not failing society. It’s the society that is failing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:38 AM
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My experience in gay bathhouse says otherwise. Plenty of gay men willingly ask for such attention. Most sex happens without knowing names. Like, I love it when walking into a room and guys are asking to give me blowjobs before asking for my name. I bet most straight guys would love it if women were doing the same. I guess I will concede that objectification can be too much, like when guys insist even after getting rejected. But that was rare, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 PM
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Social influence and conditioning gotta step up their work. When I was young, I was trying to convert myself to being straight. And it spectacularly failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:28 AM
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I have not paid for it. There are a number of sites that publicly post OF videos that are supposed to be behind paywall. The only pornographic materials that I have paid for are drawings and graphic arts that I’ve commissioned. My partner likes them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:18 AM
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This argument is rather silly. If I follow the same logic, I could say that Women hate bad men (misogynists, sexual predators, abusers) = women creating them by giving birth to them and raising them. The pitfall of this argument is the assumption of hypoagency of a large group of population and hyperagency of the other group. The reality is more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:12 AM
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I am pretty much in the middle and have got into healthy LTR. I think that there are a lot of us in the middle than social media say. In my experience, meeting people in real life works better than "dating" apps when looking for this group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:21 AM
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I am an egalitarian feminist who does not subscribe to radical framework and critical theories such as categorizing men as oppressors and blaming every instance of sexism on “patriarchy.” People are reluctant to identify as a feminist because many modern feminists have strayed away from equality of sex, and they fail to excise extremism from the movement. I would have refused the feminist label, if I had not known actual egalitarian feminists in real life who have pushed for equality for both me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:24 PM
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Easy sex and stable relationship are not mutually exclusive. A man can want the former when he's younger and want the latter later. Different men will have varying priority. Like, when I was young, I had plenty of sex, and I was happy. Then I got into a stable long term relationship (6 years so far), and I am still happy. And TBH I would be just fine if I were not able to find a stable long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:35 PM
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Q4 people with high n counts (according to your own definition): How much does your past sexual experience influence your enjoyment of sex with your current partner? Do you remember a lot of details about your past sexual encounters? When you consider whether a sexual encounter is good or bad, does your previous sexual experience influence this consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:19 AM
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Difference in male and female gazes can be quite stark. People of opposite sex might have problems understanding the difference. Funny thing is that I find the guy on the right more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:18 AM
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Gay but I would choose B. I don’t want to be known as someone who is bad at sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:40 AM
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I don’t think men are excluded from “therapeutic BDSM.” Rather, men generally just don’t think BDSM as therapeutic activities. That point of view is found among sex-positive feminists, most of whom are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:57 AM
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No, I would not allow my 16 y.o. Kid to have unsafe sex. But I don’t think I can enforce this in practice. OP should run since he has both wife and step kid problems. The mom shields her kid from consequences of her actions, so the situation will not get better. It’s only a matter of time before the step kid has another baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:44 AM
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People take hard physical tasks/jobs for granted. And so many take men’s contributions to society for granted. When (not if) a hard time comes, people will have to realize that they will still need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:49 AM
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And here I thought this was about prostate massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:11 AM
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People should care more about local politics. It’s actually easier and requires less effort in local politics to see changes that have impact on your daily lives. Last year, by simple lobbying and pressuring local politicians, we managed to get the local land tax cut by 90% and garbage was collected twice a week instead of once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:05 AM
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INTJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:55 AM
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For my case, it’s an approximation. Like, I know roughly my sexual activities in each month then multiply it by twelve to get a number in each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:17 AM
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I prefer my current partner to this AI. Or most people I have dated. But in an event that I am no longer in a relationship and in case I have difficulty in dating, I might consider this. My potential issue with AI partners is their lack of independence. Like when it comes to personality, I want to my partner to have the personality I like without me telling or asking them for it. I would not have problems finding such AI attractive, but I suspect that I would not be able to fall in love with an …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:53 AM
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35M. My n count is 200+ (estimated number. I lost the actual count long time ago). The reason is that I am gay lol. I was also active in various sexual scenes and group activities. So, those increased the count very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:46 AM
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Reddit would ban them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:42 AM
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I am one of those people with triple-digit body count and I don’t share that perspective. I have never felt pressure to hook up nor emptiness after it. I don’t disconnect my emotion from sex either. Hooking up is simply a joyful and intimate connection. A lot of people sometimes put too much importance to it or expect it to solve their issues. Hook ups are not going to cure your problems, nor they are going to mess you up if you already come from a healthy place. They can exacerbate your issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:35 AM
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Yes, as long as my sexual needs are met according to my own standards. And I do have high standards. This means that I don't tolerate sub-par performance, enthusiasm, passion, and so on. There are kinks and fetishes of mine that need to be fulfilled with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:38 AM
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Good take. This is why I only answered 4 out of 5 toward libertarian. I think vaccine mandate is too excessive but DUI laws have their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:52 AM
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It could be that those men's sexuality is more flexible than it appears to be. Funny thing is as a gay man I don't sexually prefer feminine men. They remind me too much of women. I also guess that it's related to how forbidden fruit is the sweetest. For some men, the fact that a sexual activity feels "wrong" to them is what turns them on. "Why not just normal dudes having sex?" Well, I think that these men are mostly straight. Normal dudes having sex would be too far for them. This topic also re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:39 PM
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For comparison, I am a gay guy in a long term relationship with another guy. We are from Thailand. But I lean more liberal since I spent half of my life in the US. We will be reaching year 6 in December and planning to get married when same-sex marriage becomes legalized. I live in his house. I also own a house without any mortgage. He's paying for his mortgage, his phone bill, and his food during work. I pay for everything else, including dining, dates, activities, utilities, groceries, repairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:37 AM
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Unless there was an agreement of reimbursement before paying, no one should be reimbursed here. They both willingly agree to pay despite the chance that their relationship will not work out. Not getting reimbursed is a logical consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:30 AM
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DEI should not even be used in colleges and universities. Non-discrimination policy is already sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:12 AM
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Oh this is fun. My gay man's answer: Starting budget +5 Short +1 Skinny -1 No child -1 Street smart but not book smart +1 Slightly comical and has a decent friend group -2 college degree -1 50k net worth -1 Younger 0 Good looking -3 Gamer +2 (easiest choice of my life as a gamer) Final budget = 0, gamer privilege wins again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:03 AM
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This list is just sad, honestly. Like, I can't imagine why one needs so much external validation, just to feel secured and be committed to the relationship. Having greater requirement of this super marriage will not guarantee a higher level of commitment. The list is just a surface level of commitment, all just for show with little substance. A truly committed partner won't even need a marriage to be committed to their relationship. I would just spend time finding a right person, rather than ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:39 AM
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This criticism undermines the agency of the women in developing countries. Yes, they have harder lives than many women in Western nations but they are not stupid. In fact, they have to deal with men in those countries who often don’t treat them well. They are often aware what men can do to them. If anything, most men from developed nations are much less misogynistic than men in developing nations. Passport bros can be legitimate choices to escape from sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:42 AM
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Mine fits all three. Though there are times that we do annoy each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:31 AM
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I’m gay so this is what I would also choose: 40k. Being cheated on is a horrible experience. 10 in look. He can move in and live with me. I don’t need a boat or a ocean front condo. We can rent those when needed. Husband. I make my own money, thanks. 10 in look. Same reason as #3. 50k. I already make enough for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:58 AM
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My biromantic asexual friend fully pays on first few dates (but expects some efforts in return) only for women. For men, he just goes with the flow on who pays, usually 50/50 or taking turns. He says that he feels more pressure to impress when dating women while he thinks men don’t seem to care much about who’s paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:39 PM
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A bunch of US Navy sailors just landed on Pattaya for “community service”. Judging from comments on social media, Thais already know what’s going to happen, and most actually quite welcome it, citing that it is good for economy lol. Top comments are from Thai women saying they are going to visit Pattaya as well and will be on Tinder as well lmao. Others say that the Americans usually “tip” more than other tourists do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:34 AM
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Western women are so sensitive about weight lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:02 AM
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Considering various substantial risks and costs of pregnancy, giving birth, and raising children, it is logical that many women choose to not have kids. What feminism and its policies have done is simply removing constraints that disallowed or discouraged women in the past to make logical and self-interest choices. It’s like “swallowing red pills” but for women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:00 PM
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Agree. I personally know some westerners that would be considered passport bros here in Thailand. They treat Thai women better and in more egalitarian ways than many Thai men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:17 AM
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Most people I dated didn’t hold a dogmatic or cultish ideology. Their ideology was just a loosely-held set of beliefs that were often self contradictory. They generally showed hesitation in their beliefs when casually challenged. The exceptions were extremists, but they usually outed themselves quickly. I don’t bother dating them but would not turn down casual sex. My boyfriend is moderate and center left. We disagree on certain topics but are willing to consider opposing viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:05 AM
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I think how easy/difficult it is also depends on types of dating, say casual vs serious. I’m gay and it was very easy to have hook-ups or casual relationships. But it took me a while to find a long-term, serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:46 AM
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I met my American friend who visited Thailand. And he asked me if I had any recommendations on happy ending massage. I had to remind him that I was gay lol. But I did point him to places that were popular with locals and tourists. I also warned him about STDs and told him that the price and the “service details” should be arranged and agreed on before the service. Now he told me he had a great time but he’s also worried about STD. Like, dude what did you expect? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:09 AM
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I don’t think so. The dating scene among LGBT is not rainbow and sunshine, and the gender war has already become an issue in LGBT in addition to in-fighting of LGBT themselves. Like, lesbians and bisexual women who are supportive of complaints against women could be called pick-mes or internalized misogynists. And if you want to cause drama in LGBT, talking about “genital preferences” will guarantee that it happens. Also LGBT is often seen as an exception to the rules. Many people don’t relate w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:40 AM
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I am going write this long take because I would otherwise be banned from feminist subs, even though I am a supporter. I support sane feminism that pushes for equality (not equity) between women and men. But I think a significant part of feminism lost its way when feminists pushed for the oppressed vs oppressors framework such as the “patriarchy.” The assumption of a clear demarcation between the two groups (i.e. men are oppressors) was not only incorrect but also divisive. Not only it failed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:31 AM
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I’m from Thailand which is conservative but not as much as, say, Middle East. There is some truth to what RP/BP is saying (though it is not exclusive to RP/BP). For example, look and and do matter. There is less men vs women here. Funny thing is that despite being a third world country, Thailand has a very low birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:52 AM
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It’s simply sexism. The indifferent or even jocular attitudes when male nudes are leaked are due to lack of respect in male body autonomy. If anything, the only time I see a serious criticism against male nudes leak is on menslib I.e. male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:52 AM
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“100/120” participants refer to male and female participants, respectively? Also, where and how did you get the participants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:12 AM
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Yes. I had plenty of it and it was great. I don’t treat my partners like just a mean to an end though. During a hookup, we did share human experience and connection even if it was short lived. We got to know how our bodies reacted and explored how to please one another. The experience was something jerking off could not replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:32 AM
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It’s the responsibility of each couple to deal with compatibility/incompatibility in their sexual interests. If a man’s certain kinks are important to him, he should select a woman that is ok with him exploring them. The same goes for the opposite. I don’t think that is a big concern at a societal level that needs to be addressed. Though I would guess that if gender roles and expectations are weakened, male submissive kinks would be viewed more positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:41 AM
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r/askfeminists is quite open to various kinds of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:25 PM
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As a gay man who doesn’t have problems finding casual sex, I think that, to be popular, male sex robots must provide something that cannot be easily provided by casual partners or prostitution. TBH, the robots being just like men would not sell well. They should try filling in some niche interests instead. I know some gay dudes who have already paid tens or even hundreds of thousands dollars to satisfy their specific kinks and fetishes. These people might be the potential customers. Still, I dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:23 PM
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Reasonable but I would also have another requirement of being on PREP as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:07 AM
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It’s a logical result of human societies. I think population collapse will have a significant impact on many lives, but humanity will endure. I expect that at a certain point, the population will increase again and then will eventually drop, and the cycle will repeat until the earth can no longer sustain human population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:50 AM
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I mean you could just have casual sex rather than serious dating. This way you don’t have to care much if your casual partner has dealt with bigger dicks. You come to have sex and it’s done. Any complaints about your small dick your casual partners have are not your problem. I understand when men have this fear/worry that they don’t provide the best sex to their serious partners. But for casual sex, I don’t see the need for such concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:05 AM
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Yes. Abortion should not be paid by the government, and it should not be prohibited either. I am also against oversized universal healthcare as well. The government spends far too much money. Men not knowing for sure if kids are their is unfortunate. But people’s liberties should not be sacrificed to solve that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:14 AM
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I sympathize with the motivation behind this but I am not really interested in government enforcing the mandatory testing. Personally I would also not want my tax money to be spent on other people’s family matters. If anything, the couples should be the ones paying for the tests. Perhaps the government should promote the tests (rather than forcing them) by subsidizing the testing services or providing tax deductions to the couples if the tests show no infidelity (no more than once in each person…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:39 AM
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Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:41 AM
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This is why Israel is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:14 AM
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He must not have many straight friends. Most of my friends are straight male, and it’s obvious to me how different the dating/sex scenes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:11 AM
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Kinda cute tbh. Looks like he has visited Vietnam in the 4th photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:24 AM
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The big mistake of feminism in many countries is that it pushes critical theories that are divisive as a main message of the movement, like the “oppression” framework (i.e. men are oppressors) and the “patriarchy”, rather than pushing for a simple and more popular message like “equality” or “fairness”. As a supporter of feminism, I think this is what causes backlash against feminism in many countries. I am glad that feminists in my country have not become too divisive and still get things done. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:47 AM
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Cooking can actually be more time efficient than eating out, once you get good at it and plan it. Cooking for your SO also allows you to tailor the flavor to suit your SO’s taste. This is especially important if your SO is picky. Expensive dinners do not necessarily taste great. Cooking also allows to you to be imaginative. Imaging creating a unique delicious dish for your SO. Eating out means that you just eat the same food that other thousand people eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:32 AM
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I would not give it much of a thought. A post like this aims to rile people up and provoke engagement. Besides, women do this as well. Like recently, they have been posting “icks” about men on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:53 AM
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As a gay dude in a relationship with a bisexual guy, I can understand why gay guys could be averse to bisexual guys. Depending on areas, bisexual guys could avoid having to deal with homophobia by dating women instead. Being in a same-sex relationship pretty much forces the guys to come out. Having kids is obviously a big factor as well. As much as I advocate for being open with being bi (as long as it’s safe to do so), bi guys lying about their sexuality get the results. My in-closet bi guy fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:44 AM
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It’s often a cope but it’s not always. How people look on photos depend on many factors. Lighting, camera aperture size, photographer’s skills, and camera quality are examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:41 AM
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Unfortunately, like misogyny, misandry is not going to stop even when we want to. Generalization of a whole gender is reflexive for many. It's a part of tribalistic nature of human. It's best to ignore the misandrists. It's more productive to engage with people whose values are more aligned with yours. Indeed, it's better that people freely express their misandry, because you don't have to waste time finding out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:29 AM
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Simple correlation coefficients between n-count, dating struggle, height, weight, fitness level, prudeness (i.e. from sociosexual view), and perceived PPD incel problem level in the sub. <image> Source: the pruned data, done in excel. I am too lazy to make gender, age, class, and hours spent on PPD data ordinal, so I didn't include them in the table. The strongest correlation is height and weight, which is obvious. The second to strongest one is dating struggle and PPD incel problem. The correla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:32 AM
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I am probably above 200. But then I’m gay and took part in orgy/bath houses. So, it’s nothing unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:04 AM
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Closet and lack of self-acceptance can be a powerful thing. It’s actually more about social pressure than biological urge when gay men have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:34 PM
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For logistical reasons, one imo. Your life should be filled other stuff that builds you up as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:16 AM
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Personally, I would consider AI mates inferior partners than actual humans being. The fact that I can precisely control how AI mates look and that can guarantee that they would be attracted to me undermines the romance. It would be like playing a Dark Soul game with a cheat. I want my partner to have free will. I want my partner to actively and enthusiastically choose me. I don’t want my partner to stay with me because I compel them through the chip. I think a lot of people will feel the same. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:40 AM
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Yes, I would. I am gay and my boyfriend is bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:02 AM
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I don’t like paying for overpriced things but man my boyfriend just knows how to ask. So here I am buying him an iPhone 15. I guess he earned it since his old phone was 7 years old, and he rarely asks for expensive stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:18 AM
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I am Thai but have spent years in the U.S. and travelled to Europe and other western countries. I find that western people are varied, depending on the country and the state. There are some race-based differences as well, but this sub prohibits discussing it, so I won’t. In general, western people are comfortable with PDAs. They are also more straightforward and more likely to say it how it is, which I appreciate. They are more individualistic. They care more about personal space. They are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:14 AM
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33M and 36M, gay. 5 years. 2-3 times a week. At start, 4-5 times a week. Basically every day we met, but we didn’t meet every day. About the same on who initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:30 AM
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I think it is as cringey and insincere as the women equivalent campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:34 AM
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TBP does not believe that attraction is as simple as you say. If anything, TBP is the one who proposes that attraction is complex and dependent on each individual. TBP is the one who pushes for NAWALT and NAMALT. Indeed, it appears that TRP is the side that proposes more simplistic models to explain attraction, like 80/20 rule, AFBB, and SMV/RMV. I would also say that your understand of TBP is quite a straw man. There is much diversity in TBP by its definition of not being in agreement with TRP.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:52 AM
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I think the contention is that while people accept that life is not fair, our society has been pushing toward fairness in many social aspects, but dating remains unfair to many. This is worsened by the fact that many who preach for fairness in many social issues turn hypocritical when it comes to dating. Do you think women would be content with losing voting rights if you justified that with “life isn’t fair”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:55 AM
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Not a deal breaker as long as my SO is willing to try something else that I equally want or want more. I have a number of kinks and sexual stuff that I want to do and have done in the past, and I don't expect my SO to be able to satisfy them all. I guess I am lucky that my SO shares some similar kinks that are the top of my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:09 PM
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As someone who used to pay a few times for similar “service”, I don’t have moral qualms about paying for sex. But &12k a night is just way overpriced. It’s not a great bang for a buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:22 AM
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If you asked me 15 years ago, I would choose to become a straight guy. But since then, I have been enjoying being gay. Casual sex is abundant, and I have managed to get into a long term serious relationship. So now I won’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:15 AM
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I don’t see any harm in simple or light-hearted chit chatting, especially in LTR. My SO and I often share memes, short videos, pictures, news and so on via texting. It’s often just a brief exchange without anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:51 AM
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Straight men are great. And that is coming from a gay guy. If you pick only the worst of a group, it is easy to justify hate and bigotry. Some members of any group have done things that cause problems. Funny thing is I have dealt with more homophobia from straight women than from straight men. And the only time I was kicked out of a group was by an LGBT group. But I still think straight women and LGBT people are great. We should not judge someone based on their identity but rather on their actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:29 AM
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I agree with most of your points. But since this is a CMV thread, I will only point out my disagreement. I still think that some Asian men still view American women in a more positive light especially the less fat ones of a certain race. For example, some Thai men do consider such women to be a prize. We have a word in Thai “แหม่ม” to describe them. How Asian men view attractiveness are often more about races than nationality. (I can’t go into details due to the sub’s rule) Btw, I am glad you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:55 AM
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I work out 2-4 times a week, 1.5-2 hours each time. I started working out because I didn’t like my body. I also wanted to be more attractive and able to get more attractive sexual partners. At some point, I no longer dislike my body, but I continue to work out. Gym is like therapy at this point. Being strong and healthy feels great. As Socrates allegedly said “It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” But yes, I end up in a long ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:32 AM
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No, we do not live in a fair world, economically or socially. A perfectly fair world is not possible, but we can push it to become fairer, more free, and better. I also don’t agree that men have it worse, socially. Men and women have many different challenges but share some. We can advocate for a group without stomping on another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:23 AM
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Gay couple. I put more effort planning activities outside of home. He puts more effort planning things inside home. More often than not, I pay since I am in a better financial position than his.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:19 AM
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I would not charge my SO rent since I don’t have mortgage. Grocery and utilities are split based on income. I don’t really like taking money from my SO, especially when currently my financial situation is much bette and I can easily provide for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:15 AM
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Strap-ons are just gateway gay, so they are not quite full-on gay yet. Also speaking from experience, a top can kiss a guy and such dicks as well, which are very high on the gay scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:38 AM
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Question to those who won’t date high-n people: would you hypothetically date high-n people who have taken a magical pill that made them totally and irreversibly forget their past sexual experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:33 AM
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We should hear various perspectives and pills, compare them with our own experiences and goals, and apply some critical thinking. Once we have an idea of which dating advice sounds good, we should put them into practice and see how it goes. Then, we refine our strategies and ideas. Humans and relationships are complicated. Not a single person or a group has a complete knowledge about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:54 AM
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Some people love to assume that the majority of women in third-world countries are either victims of sex tourism or evil gold diggers who are looking for green cards. With this assumption, it is then easy to paint western men who look for gf in those countries as either predators or fools who fall for scams. At this point, I wonder whether people use this type of the argument out of ignorance or malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:09 AM
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The comment should stand. I participated and presented my work in several scientific conferences, and I got many comments/questions that are way less relevant than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:33 AM
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Definitely be single. The thing you have listed, especially the sex part, is stuff I don’t want to deal with. There’s plenty of casual sex around, so there is no need to tolerate and invest in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:18 PM
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Passport bros have finally reached the mainstream news in my country, Thailand. The news was about the show, Daily Rap Up Crew. In one session, men and women of color discussed dating, and the topic of men going to SEA to find date/sex came up. The women there suggested that Thai women are uneducated and knew little English, and that’s why western men wanted them. Thai news agencies reported the women’s comments as derogatory and racist. This has become an online drama, and comments from Thais a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:25 AM
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My boyfriend knows that I post on here and see my comments. He said that I was wasting my time here, and he thought this sub was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:58 AM
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How acceptable individual actions are depends on actual harm that such actions actually cause. The causal links should be clear, before we condemn such actions. To discourage or prevent such actions is a balancing act. I don’t think individual freedom is untouchable and cannot ever be lessened even temporarily. But you better have clear evidence that sacrificing personal freedom is both worthwhile and effective. Let’s say 95% of humans decide to not have babies. Should the rest 5% force them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:43 PM
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If you are not successful in your country, I don’t see problems with going overseas to find a better chance. I live in one of those countries that are popular destinations for westerners. International couples are not uncommon and many of them work fine. But I would advise tempering your expectations, until you actually try it. Especially since you mention your race, racism in some 3rd world countries is widespread. Maybe spend a month or so in a SEA country and see how it goes. Also, don’t trus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:18 AM
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Male. One million is way too low, especially considering inflation and the very small likelihood of finding a partner that is ok with zero sex. A few hundred millions, I might consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:36 AM
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I had dinner with my boyfriend’s cousin and her family. It turned out her husband is an equivalent of passport bro from the US. I ended up talking to him quite a bit since he and I were the only people there who could speak English fluently. He’s 35 yo, white, thin, and 5 foot 7. He worked as an English teacher. He came to Thailand 5 years ago since he thought the US was going to shit. The thing is his Thai wife was actually a 38-yo single mom of two lovely kids. She also owned a business and ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:06 AM
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I talked to my fellow Thai friends about a number of foreign/western men coming to our country to find a relationship. And most common reactions I got were those of surprise. My female friends were surprised because they considered themselves less attractive than western women. My male friends were surprised because they didn’t know things were so bad in the foreign countries that the men came to this shit hole country to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:48 AM
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I am generally happy and I am in a good relationship. The problem is that I often procrastinate and that’s why I am on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:33 AM
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I’m Thai but I used to live in the US for 12 years. Most male westerners I saw in Thailand are more attractive than their counterparts I saw in the US. That would explain why they mange to get good looking Thai women. This is likely due to selection bias though. Western men who are not so good looking are less likely to go to another country to find a girlfriend. When you have more attractive guys looking for a girlfriend, the girlfriends these guys have will be better looking and treating them …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:47 AM
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A woman went to a woman-centric subreddit to vent about how other women judged her harshly when she did nothing wrong. Women in the comments proceeded to point out that it’s actually men’s faults lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:35 AM
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I am visiting Japan in April but with my parents ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:21 AM
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Wow there’s a bunch of replies from insecure people. It’s one thing to comment on the photo but some people outright insult the dude. The guy has a great body. The photo would work better in an outdoor lighting and a better pair of briefs/shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:12 AM
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These very progressive views are over-represented in online space like Reddit and perhaps in some academic circles. That’s why many have the impression of perceived abundance of these types of views. Outside of online echo chambers though, these views are not so widespread. Most people are generally more centrist on various issues, including male vs female sexuality. A lot of online takes from progressives are merely virtue signaling. I am left leaning and have a bunch of progressive friends. Kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:14 PM
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I am 33M and my confidence has been going up over time. I was not confident in my early 20s. What have improved my confidence was to put myself out there to pursue what I wanted in my life. I was a point where I was so frustrated with my passivity of my own life that I decided to fuck it and take my chances. (This moment was also when I decided to come out which was another confidence boost.) One of my first actions that slowly built my confidence was when I competed with around a thousand peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:12 AM
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Q4RP: in your experience, how common are women who act like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:04 AM
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Discourse in Western countries: “Actions have consequences” “That’s sexist” Meanwhile the discourse in Thailand: if you have sex with a prostitute, you will reincarnate as a rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:07 AM
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Lol at these Westerners who came to my country to get a trad-con girlfriend/wife, and yet complained when their girlfriends didn’t want to have sex before marriage, when their girlfriends demanded exorbitant bride price before getting married, or when their gf demanded them to take care of her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:11 AM
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It was a net benefit to me (gay male). Sex was mostly good. It also made me more confident in approaching, sex, and in other aspects of my life as well. Sex is also a great de-stressor. It made a bad day go easier when I knew I would fuck some guy later in the night. I am no longer participating in the hookup culture because I am now in a long term relationship. My boyfriend was actually my hookup and we are together for 3 years so far now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:31 AM
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The only acceptable thing on this list is the high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:20 PM
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Equality of opportunity is the ultimate outcome. But what if some opportunity depends on the current outcomes? I don’t think we can totally decouple one from the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:59 AM
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Tentacles are just dicks with more utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:00 AM
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Yeah my n count is 3 digits and I consider myself healthy, well-adjusted, and confident. If anything, my sexual experience makes me feel more confident. It’s a positive feedback loop. I am in a long term relationship for 3 years now and it’s been going well. Life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:13 AM
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All this discussion about how many women are turned off by bisexual men reminds me when I was tempted to tell my female friend that I, a gay guy, fucked her boyfriend before they met. I decided not to tell her because I didn’t want to be a busybody. They are married now, so I guess the past will be buried. He was slightly feminine back then. But now he either hides that part well or he is simply no longer feminine. Maybe he was exploring his bi-curiosity side with me (and other men). Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:18 AM
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A compromise: mention that you are a bi man to your female partner only after having sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:02 PM
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I just went to a conference to present my work and do some “networking” with other researchers. With the help of alcohol, you can get to learn some dirty research stuff that scientists won’t publicly tell like: That one guy who creates new plastic that does not produce micro-plastics during use? Well it turns out the plastic actually creates nano-plastics instead which are potentially more dangerous. But due to difficulty in detecting them and public perception that cares more about micro-plasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:49 AM
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I would care more about the present as long as my date moves on from his past broken homes. If he treats me right, is attractive to me, and is compatible with me, then I would not care much if he is from broken family. I admire resilience in people. To become a great person despite horrible upbringing is impressive. My parents were raised in broken homes. My dad was mostly raised by a single mom, since his father died early from heart disease. My mom was raised by an alcoholic single dad. She ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:09 AM
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Damn, my country is going to do financial transaction tax on security trades. This is in addition to capital gain tax. I have never felt more libertarian than right now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:37 AM
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r/OneOrangeBrainCell r/HeSquats (NSFW) and r/Fallout
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:08 AM
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Atonal music, which is essentially designed to sound bad for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:17 AM
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That’s not quite true. In some other countries, drugs can be advertised under rigorous regulation, like in Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:50 AM
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Disclaimer: I am gay. I can agree with you if we talk about highly attractive men and women, say top 0.5%. Sure, in this league, men are more attractive. But if we talk about average or median men and women. The women would be considered more attractive since the beauty standards for men are much higher and most men would not meet them. Beauty standards for men have a higher floor and a higher ceiling than women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:19 AM
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Today is my country’s version of Valentine’s Day, where couples or people in general collectively decide to thank the goddess of rivers by polluting them lol. It also coincides with lunar eclipse, so my boyfriend and I are not going to miss this festival! If you read about this so-called Loy Krathong festival in English, it will be about traditional cultural celebration, how beautiful it is, and how it combines various cultures. Among the younger crowd though, today is the day for singles to mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:22 AM
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On science subreddit: a scratch on a non-sticky pan can generate 9000 plastic particles! Meanwhile, my lab assistant accidentally dumped a few billions plastic nano particles into the drain. RIP fish. At least they were made of polystyrene which was not too bad, unlike PVC or PFOA derivatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:30 PM
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Self-owned UN Women on Twitter So, 11% of all journalists killed in 2021 were women. And somehow the point of this is to “stop target women journalists” and not “stop targeting men journalists” or just “stop targeting journalists” in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:52 AM
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I don’t think I am significantly above average in term of attractiveness as a gay guy, but I have done plenty of hooking up with a range of guys, from average dudes (no fatty though) to models, and have racked up my n count. I am now in a monogamous relationship though. If I were ideally attractive, I would also sleep around with guys that are more attractive that I have had in the past. Eventually though I would find a long term monogamous partner. Having lots of casual sex loses its excitement…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:45 AM
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I am glad that my brother’s wedding went smoothly. But I totally underestimated how tiring helping with wedding logistics could be so tiring. From dealing with hundreds of guests, taking care of bride price, collecting wedding gifts, to separating family members that had beef with one another to keep the peace, I was just so burned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:56 AM
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Firing something into the sun is actually extremely difficult. The object has to escape both earth gravity and earth orbit around the sun. The latter is much more difficult than the former, considering how fast earth moves around the sun. NASA’s solar probe that is going to skim through the sun atmosphere needs to lose the speed of 53,000 mph before being able to get near the sun. It will do so by using gravity assists around Venus 7 times which will take 7 years. Tbh we should just dump our tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:20 AM
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Todd Howard shill detected!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:18 PM
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That happened to me and I had nothing to complain, because I had already racked up my n count at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:33 AM
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Prostitutes also take std tests regularly. At least from what I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:53 AM
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Probably when I tied up a sub wearing fighter pilot gears and then fucked him while wearing mx gears myself. Or when I went to a bathhouse and took part in group sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:16 AM
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As someone who works with thermal radiation, I was a bit offended by the first paragraph lol. It would have been much more believable if he had claimed that he used aluminum foil to wrap himself like this instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:36 AM
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Damn, have I been beta-fucking all these alpha bottoms all along??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:34 AM
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Equality feels great. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:22 PM
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Fetal stem cell farming should be a thing subsidized by government. Not only abortion should be legal all the way, but also it should be subsidized. Women and men should be able to sell fetal stem cells to be used for research, medical, and commercial purposes. I would not be surprised if China already has something like this. It’s either that opinion that is my most controversial one or this opinion: European imperialism in the 16th-19th was a net positive thing to most Southeast Asian countrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:42 AM
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I hate it when the first news I saw after work was that there was mass shooting at a children daycare center. 24 pre-school kids were dead so far. It’s too bad that the coward took an easy way out by killing himself, not before killing his kid and kid wife of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:46 AM
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What if her excuse was that your dick is too big?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:17 AM
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Shitoris
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:47 AM
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Drama and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:49 AM
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Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:48 AM
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Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:48 AM
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It’s so weird that a new abortion bill just passes in my relatively conservative country and nobody flips out or gets upset. They just expand legal abortion from 12 weeks to 20 weeks. Comment sections on social media are very tamed, whether from conservative or liberal pages. The common sentiment appears to be that abortion is a sin and the mother is going to hell, but it should still be legal so that the society is not burdened with supporting unwanted kids. I guess hardcore Buddhists are being…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:29 AM
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Looks like my younger brother, his soon-to-be wife, my parents and her parents finally come to agreement regarding bride price. The problem was that my parents wanted to pay, but the bride and her family would not accept it (they are socially progressive), while my brother was ok with whatever. So, the bride price is going to be around 100k USD. And this will be given during the wedding ceremony. But it will be returned afterward. This way, my parents won’t “lose face” or appear cheap and her pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:30 AM
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The first one. And make it like Star Wars opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:29 AM
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My boyfriend’s libido is lower than mine. So, I watch it when he is not in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:35 AM
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Get your ass rimmed next time lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:06 PM
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Thailand but watch out for ladyboys (unless they are your thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:20 PM
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zeta male
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:12 AM
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Personally I say the punishment will depend on severity and damage. Say, if a woman comes up to me and falsely accuse me and there was no one around, then no harm is done. I should not be able to sue and she should not be punished. But say, if she sends her false accusation to my workplace which causes me to lose my job and my reputation, then she can be sued and punished, and should be ordered to compensate me. I am not so keen on jailing people for using speech though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:10 AM
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White. I don’t want to accidentally kill myself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:41 AM
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This somewhat applies to me but in the opposite way. I had casual sex and FWBs while starting dating my boyfriend. He then asked for exclusivity by second date which I obliged. So in this case, I would ask for exclusivity right there. If not given, I would move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:54 AM
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The video does not have a specific link to a study that claimed that the earth magnetic field has dropped by 20% in the last century. I checked the NASA ESA Swarm probe website(where the video referred to as a source). It only claimed that the earth magnetic field strength on average has dropped only 9% in the last 200 years. In particul, South America is the area where the magnetic field strength has dropped the most: from 24000 nT to 22000 nT in the last 50 years. If the change in magnetic fie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:09 AM
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Don’t listen to this, swole bros. Show off what you have worked for. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:26 AM
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My bf and I will look to get married once same sex marriage is legal in my country. Yes, I was raised in a two-parent married household. They own a home (actually 3 homes but they let their siblings live in two). I graduate from a 4-year university and also finish my graduate degrees. I see marriage as a beneficial but flawed institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:49 AM
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Looks good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:06 AM
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Silverback gorillas have the smallest penises among all male apes. Average length of gorilla penises is around 3 cm. So, my SO can have that mace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:12 AM
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Time to have a heart-to-heart talk with her and explain to her what you explain to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:21 AM
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Abortion should be subsidized in a form of farming to extract stem cells for research and medical use.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:04 AM
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Mine has low false positive rate but high false negative rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:53 AM
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I would cover for him and I have done so in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:22 AM
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I got banned there as well on another account long time ago for saying that generalizing men is not conducive to promoting feminism, pointing out that it is similar to how manosphere often generalized women. Like, I am a supporter of equality and most of feminism. I am just tired of grouping men as oppressors and women as the oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:58 AM
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I have the same approach as that guy. Sex is my requirement before getting into a serious relationship with someone. He should not waste both of their time. He should move on to find another girl that is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:51 AM
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As a “kinkster” myself, I can see that some kinks can be problematic and even dangerous. But not all kinks are related to violence, helplessness or dominance. And even when kinks are related to those issues, they are not always problematic. They are just simply role playing if they are done in right ways. Like, I enjoy tying up my partners. There is always a possibility that it could be dangerous. But in my experience, no harm has been done to my partners. This is because I have been careful and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:38 AM
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If we judged someone based on the bad things the group they belong to has done, no one would deserve anything. Like, women would not deserve equal rights, if they were judged on “kill all men” types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:56 AM
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I am gay and my boyfriend is bi. I would be upset if my boyfriend cheats. Though I will admit that it would feel different. Since I am a top in the relationship, my boyfriend cheating with another top would upset me the most. Him cheating with a bottom would be a bit less painful since it’s sexual experience I am not willing to provide. Him cheating with a girl would upset me a bit less, because again I can’t provide piv sex. But him getting that girl pregnant would kill any chance of redemption…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:58 AM
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“I have done so much for a guy, so why doesn’t he have a romantic relationship with me?” has the same energy as “I have done so much for a girl, so why doesn’t she have sex with me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:35 AM
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She should have not assumed that they were in relationship just because they have had sex for 3 years. He should have insisted on paying his part of the living cost, but again her paying for him did not entitle her a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:30 AM
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I doubt anything I say would make him feel better. But I would give him my sympathy and say that it sucks to be deceived and cheated on. I would not be preaching about DNA test when he was hurting. When it comes to DNA test, it’s about risk assessment. Each man will have to think about how much he trusts his wife and about the possibility of his trust being misplaced. Then, he should discuss with his wife before deciding to procreate. There is always a risk whether you do DNA tests or not. If no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:32 AM
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Q4W: Have you seen something like this on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:40 AM
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Two things to learn here are to not take opinions from strangers from the internet seriously and to communicate clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:11 AM
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At this point, my passive income should already allow me to retire. So yeah, self-funded for private care. Genetic-wise, I am likely going to have some form of cancer or heart disease, because that’s how all my grandparents died: not so peacefully. At that point, I would ask for euthanasia if available or at least an DNR order.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:16 AM
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I would prefer the guy to be able to get pussies but don’t often exercise his options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:06 AM
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Woke men, provided I can choose which 85% of their personality my son will inherit. I can deal with obnoxious people for some time but I have no patience for scammers. If it’s 100%, then I would toss a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:53 AM
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My friend is finally marrying his girlfriend of 11 years. I thought they were going to be forever gf-bf. I wonder what changed. Still I wish them the best. I know both of them for 15 years. They are a lovely couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:53 AM
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I’ll have to admit that I admire straight guys’ patience in dealing with women making them wait for sex. I would have lost my mind if I had to deal with the 3-date-before-sex (or more) rule. Throughout my dating life, I always have sex first date or even before actual date. Gay guys are just that easy and thanks to PPD I learn to be grateful of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:11 AM
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I knew that post was going to get deleted, so thank you, OP, for preserving it here. I know a spicy post when I see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:02 AM
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Yes, I own one but I rarely use it for its original purposes. Mostly I use it to seal plastic bags.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:51 AM
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The most perplexing thing about this is the group photo. Like why??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:51 AM
3

87% of statistics are bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:26 AM
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Because humans are diverse, I am going to need the whole human population as a sample. So, I will first implant sensors that 100% accurately track everything from body movements and neurological activities on every single human. It’s very important that these people are not aware of the sensors. These sensors would send me data 24/7 that are recorded. I will also have a large data base storage and even larger computational tools to analyze the data. I would then let humans live as usual. Any act…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:55 AM
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That’s one of the best articles from SSC, along with “Against Murderism”. The salient point is that a group that someone hates the most is often not the group with the most differences to that someone. As a gay man, I can see that Islam is probably the most homophobic mainstream religion out there. But the group that gets under my skin the most is actually homophobic Buddhists because they are the ones I have interacted with the most. Another important point is that tolerating people who are dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:31 AM
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Sending his asshole pics without asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:31 AM
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1st
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:00 AM
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I have met and are surrounded by too many great people to be completely misanthropic. I find it difficult to strongly hate someone I have interacted with irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:10 AM
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it depends on the partners’ values. It is not degrading otherwise since I don’t put much value of the count or the lack of it. Personally I don’t have n-count preference. I have a significantly high number. yes, dishonesty to your partner is wrong. No, that situation is not rape. Personally, I don’t hide my body count but I don’t ask my partner’s either. again, dishonesty is wrong but that situation is not rape. There should not be punishment by law or government in that case. But I don’t have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:09 AM
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Yes. I sometimes time dress especially nice to celebrate fitness milestones. Or it’s when I am in a very good mood and I want to ride that high, I will dress nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:29 AM
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My boyfriend finally got Covid. He’s doing home isolation so we separately stay at each of our house. This means no sex for at least a week. How can I even survive! Looks like I need some distraction. So I guess it’s going to be either PPD or Civilization 6 save files.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:08 PM
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big mommy milkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:51 PM
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Yeah I agree. I’m gay and I even notice my fellow lgbt people attacked one another because of very small disagreement. I used to get banned from a lgbt space for not apologizing for using the word “obese” because it’s considered fatphobic. Lmao. I am glad that my real-life lgbt friends are much more reasonable and I don’t have to walk on eggshells around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:47 PM
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I am visiting South Korea. After a first day here, I can see why Koreans are so thin. The amount of walking I have done is just high. Yesterday alone I walked a total of 20,000 steps. Koreans are also less nice than the Japanese but they look more alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:23 AM
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I synthesized some core-shell particles that actually smell nice and put them into some instruments. Now I wasted time on Reddit while waiting them to give out some numbers I want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:59 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:44 AM
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I mean blow jobs are good but playing as Poland and wiping Russia and Germany of the map are just more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:43 AM
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My friend has successfully pulled the reverse “go to Asia to find a gf” card. He didn’t have much success in dating in Thailand and he was not happy with the country generally. So he moved to USA and got a job in a financial sector in DC. He lost his virginity in the first year. 4 years later, he got his first girlfriend. And today, he just got married. I am happy for him, not only because he found his girlfriend but also because his character is more suitable for individualist culture in the US…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:00 AM
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With all these concerns about estrogen in soy, I am so surprised that animal milk does not get the same flak since milk contains significant amount of estrogen. There is also some evidence that consuming cow milk decreases testosterone level in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:18 AM
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Women, beware of your alpha boyfriend’s male friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:32 AM
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Gay guy’s perspective: it varies but as a general trend, fully bald muscular or fit men is more attractive than fat men with great hair. Balding or partially bald is a lot less attractive than fully bald. Take that with a grain of salt though. The number of bald OR fat men that I actually have sex with is very low. So it’s just talk without much experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:31 AM
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My neighboring country sent a MiG-29 to my country and shot a few bullets at cars and buildings. But my government said it’s ok because it’s just a small misunderstanding. Meanwhile the same government has no compunction against using military force to subdue and jail political dissidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:42 AM
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Ah I remember that Grindr special.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:37 AM
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IIRC that’s from a shit post on r/TrueOffMyChest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:37 PM
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My boyfriend protects me from home invasion but now I don’t feel comfortable with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:02 AM
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Complacent in look but proactive in job. I still work out but I no longer have 6 pack. My diet is less strict compared to when I was single. I push harder for promotion and raise, now that I have another life that might have to depend on me when things get tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:43 AM
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Future America will be weaker and will be less involved in the world stage. It’s why some certain countries are interested in dividing Americans, and it looks like their effort has been working well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:35 AM
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Hookup inflation is happening lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:29 AM
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I don’t avoid talking about politics with my boyfriend at all. It’s sometimes a fun thing to talk about and it also helps learning each other’s values. While I also have some political beliefs that are deal breakers, I am ok with disagreement in many topics. In last election, he and I voted for different party. We also disagree about abortion, weed legalization, price control, and free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:40 PM
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Because they are not good enough for dates i.e. not a boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:26 AM
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I wonder how the abortion debate would be if human reproduction system were ovoviviparous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:00 AM
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It benefits men more because it lets men control whether they want to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:38 AM
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I waste my life watching lots of cringe compilation on YouTube and the cringiest ones so far are these”talent” shows. They are just so fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:41 PM
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Hmmm, some people actually think that outlawing abortion will stop abortion and reverse low birth rate? And I thought I was the naive one. But I guess it’s out of sight, out of mind, right? My country is one of those places where abortion is restricted everywhere in the nation, and yet abortion can be easily done underground. I am a gay guy and even I know places you can get late term abortion. It’s similar to how prostitution is definitely banned in Thailand lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:20 PM
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Nah I have done both. I spent years hooking up and now I have settled down with someone. I don’t regret hooking up because it was actually very fulfilling. There is some validation I get from casual sex. TBH a lot of men who can have lots of casual sex won’t have too many problems finding someone to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:49 AM
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Oh, in Thailand we have these new shitty things happening: Military junta-appointed senate has admitted that they appointed their family members as their officials and claimed that it was not corruption. Buses stop running after 8 pm due to gas price. Some guy got Covid from his cat that sneezed at him. Some kids were being charged with lese majeste and jailed for 2 months so far for asking people in public if they want to spend their tax money on the king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:01 AM
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Yes. It was my primary motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:39 PM
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I was curious about factors that best predicts which of my male friends are single. So I ran a basic chi-square test with a 2x2 contingency table. The biggest factor last year was whether a male friend knew me in a middle school or not. If he knew me then, it’s more likely that he would be in relationship right now. With new 2022 data, being gay or bi has taken over, with a p-value of 0.0074. It looks like being in 30s has finally pushed my fellow gay friends to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:38 AM
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Your physical intuition is actually quite correct. A photon rocket is a thing, because photons do have momentum. It’s not going to reach light’s speed but theoretically it can be quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:16 PM
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I am curious about ppd’s takes on this. Was the guy or the girl an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:46 AM
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B. Just enough time to have plenty casual sex by early 30, and then settle down by 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:42 AM
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Dude and his gf broke up. They went no contacts until she talked shit to him. He tried holding his frame but eventually wanted her back probably because they still didn’t fuck. He asked how he could use TRP to get her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:13 AM
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Ask for her body count and bet on which body count she will refer to first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:38 AM
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Yes, I always advocate for guys to learn how to take good photos. Lighting, lenses, focus, aperture size and so on can make or break images. I work in research related to optics and I get to play with expensive cameras and lenses by taking images of myself. The difference they can make is stark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:00 AM
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I would support financial abortions if medical abortions are significantly unrestricted. I don’t want a situation where a man financially aborts late term when a woman can no longer abort. Financial abortion deadlines should be at least a month earlier than medical abortion deadlines, to give women time to deal with hurdles like waiting periods or traveling in case they decide to get medical abortions. Financial abortion should also be irreversible, just like medical abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:33 AM
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My country just legalized growing and selling cannabis three days ago. It’s fascinating how fast those plants of mine grow. They just reached 6 feet today. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:11 PM
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My best sex was with a FWB where we shared many kinks/fetishes during sex. I would rate him 7 but with certain kinks, looks matter a bit less. I would not have sex with him again because I am in a long term serious relationship. Say, if I break up with my boyfriend, I still would not. The FWB developed romantic feelings to me and eventually pressured me to date him after sex. This crossed my boundaries and I ended our FWB-ship right there. I sometimes fantasize about the sexual acts I had with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:59 AM
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r/Stealthbombers is such a misleading sub name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:33 PM
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Because it’s a place where their concerns are validated and answers/explanations are given to their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:00 PM
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Yes, I have had many ideology shifts when I moved from Thailand to USA. Thailand was and still is much more conservative. I have moved back to Thailand but my ideology shifts have not been reversed. On abortion, I was extremely pro-life. No abortion, no exceptions, even in cases of rape or where the mother would die. I was for capital punishment for abortion as well. I am now pro-choice, almost as extremely. I donated to Planned Parenthood and all that. A few things caused this change. The high …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:55 PM
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A guy was physically abusing his girlfriend in a public space. Another girl ran into them and took a video of the abuse. She then proceeded to share it on Facebook, leading to the guy getting arrested. But thanks to this new privacy law that went into effect this week in my country, the abused girlfriend is suing the recording girl for violating her privacy. She is also suing her boyfriend for damage. A new form of gold digging, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:16 AM
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So some people say they don’t ask fish how to fish, but apparently they still want the fish to sympathize with them about their fishing problems. That’s what I get from reading some comments on that thread on this sub front page lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:14 AM
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Communication does not solve everything. I don’t think Blue Pillers are claiming otherwise. Communication is a first step toward solutions to many problems and unfortunately many people don’t even have basic skills or experience to effectively communicate. If communication does not work, you can proceed to another step or option. Using your analogy, the advice “communicate with your partner” is telling a dog who has not barked or bitten, to start with barking first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:52 PM
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Here’s peer-reviewed version of this paper https://elifesciences.org/articles/65031 Interesting how these traits are selected without effects on offspring viability. I expected otherwise since it is supposedly natural selection after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:11 AM
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Exactly. That’s why I don’t agree with a common conclusion that other methods that are not OLD are ineffective, since the data didn’t actually show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:22 AM
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Yeah you got to, because you would notice that if you add all these percentages in year 2017 together, the total percentage goes above 100%. This means that the categories are not mutually exclusive. Interpretation of the data is now not straight forward. Is online dating a common co-factor of other methods or does it work more as a standalone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:10 AM
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If you are getting tattoos in a foreign language, please make sure that they are spelled correctly. Jimmy Vienot, a famous kickboxer, just tattooed a Thai word on his arm. Apparently he wanted the word to be “มวยไทย” which means Thai boxing or Muay Thai. But by accident or not, the word is actually “ฆวยไทย” which means Thai cocks (as in penises) in slang. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:55 AM
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Cringe and funny, but unfortunately not so original and I have seen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:04 PM
1

Look at this little thing I had to kill earlier today. It was actually fighting back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:04 PM
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Yes, often when I was single. Some people were just not my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:12 AM
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just let me play Tekken, while you got your headphones in watching Netflix This is what my boyfriend and I do. And it works great as long as we also spend time doing other activities together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:01 AM
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Praise the Lord for BDSM (Bible discussion and study meetings).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:11 PM
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It worked well for me but I’m gay, so it’s likely different audiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:04 PM
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EA is great and can be easily done with a charity drive that specifically and effectively solves a problem. I participated years ago in a charity drive on a certain subreddit. It’s about buying mosquito nets for poor African communities. Mosquito nets are very effective against malaria, which kills more than 600k people yearly and more than 90% of the deaths are in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:52 AM
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No idea of what these are but Scorpio sun, Virgo rising, Sagittarius moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:35 PM
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I am confused. Do you mean 23 or 28 (which is averaged to 5.6 per trait)? I will go with 23 for a challenge. Well, since I am gay and the goal is to find an Ideal partner, this is going to be difficult. (Finding casual sex would need different values.) Genetic appearance: 3 Maintain appearance: 6 I will go for a short thin twink route. A significant number of gay men are attracted to twinks. Social skill: 3 This is probably close to me irl, and it does not give me many issues finding partners. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:35 AM
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Those photos are just weird. Especially, I don’t get the first one. Why would he take a photo with his neck like that? Is he showing off his neck? He also has that weird facial expression in the second and the fourth photos. The third photo has horrible angle and lighting. Looks like another victim of photographic dysfunction. But I guess caring about how one looks in photos is a beta thing to do, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:55 AM
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I think there needs to be serious research on how to do it. Many policies that have been implemented appear to be not working well. What I think is that people have children when they are optimistic about the future that their children will live in. Today there is a lot of uncertainty and pessimism in sentiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:34 AM
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Nah, let’s put x in every race. Axian, Blacx, Whixe, and so on. I already feel my autocorrect hating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:35 PM
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Not only that, but I am sure they used special effects to enhance his looks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:31 PM
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My preference is Fearless > 1989 > Taylor Swift. The rest don’t really pique my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:27 AM
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Come to Thailand!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:21 AM
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Not sure why we go with the eugenics way rather than simply a voluntary cosmetic surgery that could increase penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:15 AM
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I would agree when I was an RA in the US. My fellow RAs of all genders were getting hurt and there were no big issues. Now that I move to Thailand and become a PI, I am not sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:27 AM
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This is probably sexist but I always avoid having my female research assistant work on more dangerous chemical reactions. If things go wrong, I am going to get much less negative repercussions if the victim is male. My male research assistant also seems to be more dexterous in handling large amount of chemicals. I still pay them the same due to regulations. But to be fair, the female RA gets to do less interesting tasks, like balancing centrifuge tubes. And when working with a really dangerous c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:44 AM
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No. I had not been punished by a school for bullying other students, not even once. My parents on the other hand were serious about it and would punish me if I got caught lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:57 AM
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I am in my 30s and yes I would have sex twice every day if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:24 AM
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If both had been aborted, we could have solved this dilemma long time ago. #NoBodiesNoChoices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:40 PM
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It’s valid. Being paralyzed by fear or threat is legitimate. Tbh, I wonder how effective fighting back against a male rapist is in preventing attempted raping to happen, if the victim is female, considering difference in physical strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:25 AM
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I am an atheist and I don’t think it’s immoral for a woman to have sex outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:09 AM
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It was great. I met a lot of great people and had great experience. It’s also good to get rid of that fear of missing out. I don’t regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:53 PM
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True for me. I mean I am not hot but I used to be fat. I hit the gym, got ripped and had plenty of casual sex. Then I settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:30 PM
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Fuck PPD. That’s my blunt message. I could probably end my discussion at this point and it wouldn’t really matter. My position is clear and you likely already get the gist of what I want to say. I have nothing positive to add to the discussion about PPD, and to be perfectly honest, I’m quite sick of having to think about it. I’ve simply had enough. For a time I had considered calling this paper ‘Forget PPD’ instead, as in some ways that’s exactly what I wanted to do. I’ve been writing on the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:30 AM
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Dominance is in the mind. “People will often forget what you said, will sometimes forget what you did, but will never forget how you made them feel” is a quote I refer to when I am in BDSM scene. Find a submissive woman and everything will fall into places. Discuss how she likes to be dominated and how you like to dominate and see if there are shared items. The rest is just practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:01 AM
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Good luck. I think you are going to do better than average because you prepare for it. When I was in college, some students were too chill about organic chem and did not study, and they paid the price. People who were stressed about it and studied found the exam to not be as horrible as they expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:57 AM
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Watching someone at an early stage of Alzheimer’s where they are still aware of what’s happening to them and are terrified of it, and yet they are helpless in preventing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:36 AM
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A lot at the beginning and the end of the session.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:17 AM
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Yes, dating in my 30s is better than in my 20s. I have more money, confidence, skills and experience. I also think my body looks better as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:57 AM
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Mostly atheist, but I am still partial to Buddhism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:19 AM
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“Push” day. 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:43 AM
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I’ve heard that it’s about sex/jerk off habits. If you don’t usually have sex or jerk off while standing, you will feel less comfortable when you want to do it while standing. But no, I don’t have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:30 PM
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Based and no abortion pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:27 AM
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Noted that this remains a hypothesis that was tested two times in the cited study. So I am not taking this as an established theory yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:56 PM
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Cut to 155 just for an experience and see how that feels. You can gain back to 160 if you don’t like it. But that’s just me liking having abs for a period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:24 AM
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A 3-digit number. But it’s not too unusual for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:31 AM
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Never have problem using either, but metal ones are easier to clean. So, metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:40 AM
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Yes, I had paid for massage+sex a few times. It was fun to get to have sex with people I rated 10 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:08 AM
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You: I vote for someone because of his policies or ideology. Me, an intellectual: I vote for this guy because he literally has the word “chad” in his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:02 AM
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Misssionary is hot and there are some nice variations that you can choose to spice things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:34 AM
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I would just say that the item was expensive and we were going to split the bill. If that ruined the date, then so be it. Be an advocate for yourself even in a date. Don’t focus too much on appeasing your date at an expense of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:42 AM
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Last year I asked my friend who just got married how many kids he planned to have. He said he didn’t have a plan but his wife wanted 4-5 which he was ok with. Last month, his wife gave birth to their first baby. I congratulated him and asked if they were going to have 3 more. He said that his wife has indefinitely suspended the plan to have more kids. Looks like the reality of child birth and pregnancy has set in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 AM
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I can’t imagine myself modding a subreddit for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:18 AM
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I go to a gym a few days a week. I don’t have enough time to go every day and doing so would not give me enough time to rest. I used to go to the gym 6 days a week and I found I could not progress as quickly as I wanted without proper resting days. I think I look pretty good with short or long hair. I get a haircut when I start to get annoyed with my hair or when I attend important gatherings. And I look better in simple shirts and polos. Suits can hide your muscles and make you look less toned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:37 AM
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Damn. I still claim myself vaginally virgin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:45 PM
3

Hallelujah, it’s raining men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:30 PM
2

When I studied game theory, there are games where players with perfect information do worse than players with imperfect information, even with all players play completely logically. I think dating is pretty much the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:01 PM
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With all drama about abortion in the US, I decided to look up abortion laws in my country. To my surprise, abortion was illegal at all stages, until 2021 when the constitution court ruled that the laws were unconstitutional. Now it’s legal up to 12 weeks. The ruling was so surprising because all 9 judges of the court were extremely conservative and traditionalist. They were appointed by the military junta that wrote the abortion laws. For a Buddhist country, I am also surprised that abortion is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:29 AM
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That’s why I don’t reply more than 3 times in a comment thread. I say my piece, clarify if necessary, and then let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:41 PM
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Yikes. 100% rapey. Actual CNC kinksters are upfront and will discuss in great details on which activities are comfortable for both partners way before the acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:47 PM
2

I swear every time I watch my national soccer team play, they always lose. But I guess I don’t have it as bad as ManU fans, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:14 AM
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That is pretty sad, ngl. Love and romance are such a blissful experience and nothing else feels like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:07 AM
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Murder meets both criteria I describe. Abortion does not. Not everything that I consider morally reprehensible should be prohibited by the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:40 AM
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Yes, by my principles, I would be okay with legalization of abortion at 40 weeks. Abortion that late is wrong. I find such abortion morally reprehensible and women who do it should be ashamed, but it’s not government’s duty to enforce this moral standard. If most people find such abortion despicable, the late abortion would be extremely rare and difficult to find. The abortion market will regulate itself, without unnecessary government intervention. I lean libertarian. So, I think government sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:21 AM
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Based feminism. Another good reason to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:55 AM
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No, I am Thai. But I don’t live in Bangkok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:51 PM
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Looks like nightlife and red-light stuff are returning in Bangkok. A bunch on foreigners have arrived. Some observations: A lot of guys were attractive than I have expected. There were more Indian guys than I have expected. Not a small number of guys either didn’t know that their dates were ladyboys or didn’t mind that. Price discrimination against foreigners was off the chart. You would pay at least three times more if you didn’t look Thai enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:41 PM
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This is a case of good old tribalism that every side is guilty of. It shows how divided the modern society has become. Those who promote us vs them mentality should not be surprised when the same mentality is returned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:22 AM
2

Put down the Napoleon complex to gain short king energy. Then your chad energy could reach 7 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:48 AM
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Nah, not interested. I prefer someone who is generally nice and well-liked by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:53 AM
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Yes, you should focus on yourself first. Losing weight and getting fit can do wonder to your confidence. This does not mean that you must totally stop dating/hooking up. If an opportunity presents itself, don’t be afraid to take a bit of detour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:52 AM
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A lot of problems in dating stem from distrust between the two genders. It’s the prisoner dilemma, and exposure to bad actors from both sides tends to put people into the lose-lose positions. I think one thing that helps will be community-based low-key social activities and outings that encourage participation from both genders. It’s difficult to build trust without seeing and interacting with people in real life (in contrast to online, apps, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:19 AM
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I will have to go with barely ESH. He should be able to advocate for himself or at least avoid asking his date to do so for him. She is rather harsh and seems to have limited empathy for his struggle. In the end, it’s a just small conflict. Nobody is a huge asshole here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:55 AM
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Doc Strange 2 was actually entertaining. It’s darker than what I have expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:29 AM
2

This video makes me so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:27 AM
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Around 30, but I am gay and that’s counting group sex and bathhouse visits. Though it’s difficult to keep tract of the exact count during those activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:41 AM
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I would not worry too much yet. The chance of getting chlamydia on your mouth from an infected vagina was at most 5%. And antibiotics are quite effective in case you get unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:35 AM
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1st
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:00 AM
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Sorry, your description, even with the example, remains confusing to me. I think this is about creating a system where people can vouch for themselves and others, which are already happening in social circles. First thing is that implementation of this would be awkward and unnatural to social interaction. It’s like treating people as sellers/buyers that are to be reviewed. In an essence, dating market is like that but people generally don’t appreciate this perspective. Second thing is people in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:00 AM
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I appreciate the multiple-political party system of my country but do we really need 30 candidates for this gubernatorial election? Because it looks like choice paralysis is real, and 25% of surveyed voters say they can’t decide. Policy-wise I would love to vote for a liberal-center-left candidate. But to be practical, I am actually going to vote for a moderate candidate to prevent authoritarian-right candidates from winning. The poll says the moderate candidate is winning by a, well, moderate m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:22 AM
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My favorite fallacy that PPD, my fellow researchers, and I sometimes make is Texas Sharpshooter fallacy. It's a fallacy where data that fit the trends or the hypotheses that people expect or propose are given more weight than data that do not. This can happen when you want to know if a claim is true or not. You look for research and among what you find you notice that some research supports the claim, then you proceed to conclude that the claim is true. A good way to avoid the fallacy is to ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:42 AM
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We have the similar dedicated time thing and it works wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:35 AM
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But then you realize the dudes surrounding you are not interested in guys, or you don’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:02 AM
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New Zealand. It’s so peaceful and beautiful there. People are also pretty nice. Switzerland is great as well and I plan to visit again this July. Honorable mention to Japan. Lovely place and really nice people, but their place of living is just so small. Japanese food is exceptional though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:47 AM
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People are generally afraid to die, alone or not, and they believe that having someone along side with them when they are going to die will make the experience less terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:50 PM
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Tinder is a more popular in Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:25 AM
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For a car, I go with a reliable one. I have a motorcycle for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:03 AM
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You have explained how doing things to get approval/recognition from others make you feel great and not doing so makes you depressed. But you have not pointed out why someone doing things for themselves is fundamentally flawed. So far, you point out how doing X is good, and not doing X is bad. But then you conclude that doing not X is flawed. Not doing X is not the same as doing not X. I miss some logical connection here. Edit: I think a way that doing things for yourself might work is when some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:27 AM
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Shouldn’t IOI counts be normalized by population of IOI senders on OLD? I could not find the actual research paper, but if the population on OLD is overwhelmingly male, then women would also get more IOIs without sex-based differences. If the difference in male/female population in OLD is not taken into account, then there is a chance that sex-based difference in received IOIs as shown here is not statistically significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:03 AM
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How seriously I take the debate depends on the manner that arguments are made. Arguments and debates that I take seriously are expressed in reasonable manners, not intended to rile people up, attacking ideas, not people, and avoiding over generalization. Meanwhile, if people present their arguments as a gotcha, use inflammatory language and insult people who disagree, then it’s difficult to take their arguments seriously. Like, I see some sex-difference debate topics on science subreddits, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:34 AM
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It’s durian season which means my diet is threatened. It’s hard to say no to durians and harder to durian chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:31 AM
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Based. Hopefully he will unban porn accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:26 AM
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That’s really sexist!! I prefer the term “menstruation sufferers” or “bodies with vagina”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:34 AM
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This old paper discusses an average count and count distribution. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8614756/ Group 1: Male: 4.4 +/- 8.0 Female: 2.2 +/- 4.3 Group 2: Male: 3.6 +/- 6.7 Female: 1.7 +/- 3.3 N-count distribution can be described as a log-normal distribution, and is less similar to a negative binomial distribution. But Poisson distribution clearly cannot match the n-count data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:46 AM
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I just submitted a manuscript to a scientific journal with an acceptance rate of 9%. At least I will know in a few days if my paper can proceed to the peer review stage or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:17 AM
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No evidence to contradict does not necessarily mean it’s true. But I still believe this is true for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:44 AM
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Are concerns about eating disorders, particularly where people eat too little, overblown in the US? Like, I can see a lot people having problems eating too much. But I don’t think “restrictive eatings” and “bad relationships with food” are as pervasive or severe as online discourses claim. I keep reading how telling your kids “not eating too much, otherwise you would get fat” will lead to eating disorder. Or how diet talk can be really traumatic, especially for women. To me, these just sound dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:25 AM
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Q4M: congratulations, here’s the deal for you. You are guaranteed to get to marry a 10/10 woman and also to get to choose her n-count. But her n-count is also the number of times she is willing to have sex with you per month. So, what n-count you are willing to choose? Or you rather won’t accept this deal. Q4W: same deal but with a 10/10 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:10 AM
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Yes, I have a nice and friendly female friend that I consider 8. She is a close friend with a single guy that is also my friend. We are all friends for at least 10 years. She is in a relationship with a guy that is also our friend. So, basically everyone is in the same friend group. This is probably due to socialization. We were a part of the same class in a high school with 75% of this class was male. So, most girls have interacted and formed friendships with guys. The guy she is a close friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:46 AM
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Next, getting old is also sexual abuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:43 AM
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Yes, and so are women who peg guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:07 AM
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I’m gay so this might not count. I always offer to pay for the first date, regardless of how expensive it is. If it is above my budget, then I would propose another place before the date. This is similar to when I meet a new coworker or a new friend, I will offer to pay. I still want egalitarian relationship, so how my date responds to my offer to pay can give me some clues on whether he wants the same or not. People can say they want equality but it’s their actions that count. From my experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:39 AM
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That’s how you know their arguments are weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:48 AM
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Same. Cheesy love songs I used to hate suddenly sound so good and so damn right when in love. It’s like I finally understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:27 PM
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🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:22 PM
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Generally in dating I represent myself like how I live alone. This means I don’t intentionally obscure my wealth nor flaunt it. I want to give my potential date an accurate picture of how I expect to spend money for us. I don’t want to build up expectations that won’t be consistently met. Thanks to our parents’ wealth, my brother and I are considered upper-middle class in my country. My brother spends more than I do, like how many UMC people do. His soon-to-be wife is similar. On the other hand,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:43 PM
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Yes, I do care. It’s so satisfying to me that my partners get off from what I do to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:39 AM
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I know my close friends for at least 14 years. Their opinions and ideology have changed significantly during these years, mostly from conservative to liberal positions. I remember one saying that gays should be in jail but now he is campaigning for same-sex marriage. Most were loyalist to the king but now they don’t have anything positive to say about him. But something just doesn’t change. Most are still waiting for marriage before sex. I was so surprised my best friend was still a virgin until…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:16 AM
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Yes, without a doubt. My boyfriend and I have had three/foursomes and group sex. These things sound better than actually doing them though. I'm gay, so probably I am an exception. As far as I know, most gay couples would not mind their partners having threesomes or so, with a rare exception where a significantly less experienced partner has a fear of missing out when he is with someone who has much more wild experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:41 PM
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Nice. I am looking at the ELO distribution. Elo of 1200 means you are around top 15% or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:31 PM
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Finasteride can have some rare side effects that impact sexual health, like causing erectile dysfunction, which might scare some men away from taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:22 PM
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Sometimes I have hard time trusting research in social science because of something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:51 AM
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It’s not a basis for attraction but it can enhance already existing attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:02 AM
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It might have something to do with you not wanting to be a dominant partner. You say that a lot of women want men to be dominant. I suppose it’s fair to say that generally men want to be dominant in a relationship with women. I think that, for most men who want to follow this dominance expectations, they would not generally find relationships with women exhausting. On the other hand, the minority of men who don’t want to follow this expectation, like yourself, will find relationships with most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:45 AM
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Looks like some folks at dating over thirty sub are upset about “women who don’t take themselves too seriously” requirement. It’s such a benign phrase. I guess it is working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:43 AM
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Abort all 3 for equality. Seriously though, it’s her decision on which to keep since her body is the one they currently belong to. But it would not be bad if the husband decides to divorce. And it would not be immoral if the husband financially aborts the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:22 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:33 PM
1

Politicians by their nature are the biggest snowflakes. They are separated by which issues they decide to be snowflakes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:07 PM
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Drama and entertainment. And the topics of heterosexual dating are fascinating. It’s like going to a zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:58 AM
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Bring it to 200 millions, then it would be a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:42 AM
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Because 2 is the best AoE lol. Once I am done with campaigns in 4, I will go back to 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:37 AM
1

Destiny 2 and Age of Empires 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:09 AM
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I would stay with them for exactly 9 years. Once they beat me, I lose respect for them and stay only for 10/10 sex. I would probably cheat after that beating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:06 AM
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I just think he’s going to just pump and dump Twitter stocks. I doubt he actually cares about free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:37 PM
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My boyfriend’s friends visited and brought cow placenta and black rat meet. Being a bit drunk, I decided to try them. The rat meet was ok but the placenta was a bit weird and bitter. Good thing my boyfriend re-cooked them for me and he managed to improve the taste. I have been underestimating how good having a boyfriend who is a great cook is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:39 AM
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Pop corn of various flavors is my thing and so is coconut ice cream. Too bad they are not safe for abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:30 AM
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US getting involved will weaken Russia and help promoting sales of weapons to Europe. Ukraine is an important producer and exporter of important material like fertilizer and so is Russia. If Russia conquers Ukraine, it could become monopoly of these products. This will increase the price which affects the US. It’s the same reason the US got involved in Middle East. It’s about controlling supply of materials and products.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:37 PM
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Yay. I am gay so please do it, men. Gray sweatpants are already hot enough when men are wearing them. Viagra is optional for men with nice ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:49 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:36 AM
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I have expected that AI will be able to draw like this since it has been shown some years ago that it could compose music. Human’s art is in essence created from many patterns and rules. It’s only a matter of time when AI will be able to learn them to create art. Now, the question is whether or not AI can be creative. I think that art that AI creates can be perceived as creative. The AI author could add some stochasticity to its art creation process and by random chance the AI will eventually pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:04 AM
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Is this guy with seven wives a chad? Update: it’s actually 8 wives now. And he didn’t financially support any of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:32 AM
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Cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:13 AM
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I love Vietnamese food. I enjoy the scene of lemongrass and Thai basil. The food is also low in calories, perfect for cutting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:06 PM
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This problem is not limited to Western society. I live in Thailand which is conservative and traditionalist. We just have the lowest birth rate in 60 years. Korea and Japan are also traditionalist and they are suffering similar issues. I don’t think society is going to collapse due to this. But it will be in decline and atomized. Human population will decline but humans will not go extinct. With how our technology works, the cat are let out of the bag. The ways each gender treated one another ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 08:18 AM
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Already a ban with less than 100 members, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:15 PM
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14 y.o. girl, in an ahegao hoodie, got her 16 y.o. boyfriend to kill her own mother. Her mother was stabbed to death by the young boyfriend. Her reasoning was that her mother had been “obstructing their love” and that her mother had been scolding her since she was young. Sighhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:43 AM
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One thing to be careful about is that correlation is not transitive. For example, if X correlates with Y and Y correlates with Z, it does not mean that X must correlate Z. In certain cases, X and Z may even correlates in an opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:12 AM
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My boyfriend is bi, so gender is irrelevant. I trust him to have whoever as friends. I don’t mind him hangout alone with a friend. The line I draw is about duration and effort. If he plans to travel alone with a friend for more than a day, it would give me a pause. Or if he is going to travel across a country along with someone. These situations don’t mean it is automatically not ok. But they require further justification, like traveling for work or I know the person he is traveling with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:22 AM
2

Is this cuck culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:56 PM
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AWALT/AMALT. The wall. Body-count stuff. AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:41 PM
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People are allowed to have whatever body count standard they care about. I think if body count is a thing you care about in your partner, you should address or discuss it with them relatively early into the relationship. Your partner should either tell the truth or refuse to answer. And you can proceed according to their response. Many issues surrounding body count I hear about can be dealt with by honest communication. I have an arguably very high body count and I never hide it from my partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:23 AM
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It’s hard to describe in words the line between. My current boyfriend has not crossed it but my ex had. One thing I notice is that word choice matter. For jokingly flirting, I guess words are more exaggerated and dramatic, so that the intended results are entertaining, rather than seductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:44 AM
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It depends on whom and how he flirts. Serious flirting is a big no, but friendly/jokingly flirting might be fine. My boyfriend is bisexual. I don’t mind that if he light-heartedly flirted with girls, since he kinda swore off women after he got cheated on by them in the past, which makes him deeply distrust women when it comes to dating. I will admit that I would get jealous if he jokingly flirts with guys that I consider more attractive than I am. Maybe it’s my narcissism talking but such guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:25 AM
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I used to use hookers as well. You have a point regarding sexual need but the novelty of hookers eventually wanes off. I think you can also date and visit hookers, like one week in-between, to get “balanced diet”. Others have said about other aspects of relationship that hookers can’t provide. But if you don’t succeed in dating, you don’t miss those aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:11 AM
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Men wearing a red underwear is an appropriation of menstruation culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:54 AM
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I am 32, he is 35. It’s been 2 years and 3 months since we met. Note that I am a gay guy and he is a bi dude. And people are not going to believe this but we met at a bathhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:49 AM
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Being gay and 8 years of hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:47 AM
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I have high n count (3 digits) and I don’t care much. My current long term partner’s n count is likely high as well but I don’t know for sure since I don’t ask. I understand some arguments on why high n-count people are not suitable for serious relationships since the high count is statistically correlated to traits unfavorable to serious relationships. But I prefer knowing and judging my partner personally and holistically, rather than as a sample from statistical population. I think there is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:18 AM
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While I told my previous FWB bluntly that I did not look for a serious long term relationship, my actions did skirt along the line. I gave him some “bf treatment” and it was obvious he was falling for me. I did so just to have consistent sex with him since he was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:39 PM
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Yeah but unfortunately I lost my motivation on guitar. I think I would have been much happier person in the past if I had made those choices. I struggled with body image for a while which affected my confidence, until around 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:23 PM
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Nah not interested. Why should I settle just for a romantic relationship when I can have both casual sex and long-term romantic relationship, especially if I have no problems getting either?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:19 PM
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So many things: I would start working out and weight lifting much younger, like around 15-18. I would not give up learning how to play a guitar. I would not refuse a tryout when a modeling recruiter approached and invited me. I would come out earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:54 AM
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It won’t be perfect but that doesn’t mean it will suck. If you do it with a right partner who is patient and cares about your experience, it is likely that it won’t be bad. My first time was bad because I had it with some random gay dude from Craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:39 AM
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The first time was bad. I was nervous and had a hard time putting it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:53 AM
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Managing multiple bedroom and kitchens without cars can be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:21 PM
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Bisexual men have easier time finding gay/bi male sexual partners, so in this case it is a get out jail card. But bisexual men can have difficulty finding men for serious long term relationships. A lot of bi and gay men are not interested in serious relationships. And a lot of gay men have some distrust in bi men. This is because those gay men think that bi men only use gay men as a placeholder relationship until the day bi men find women to be in a relationship with. Or that bi men would end re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:23 AM
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I went to my female friend’s wedding on Saturday. They are one of a few of couples I know that are not look-matched. Maybe I am biased because I am her friend but she just looks better. If I go with conventional standard of my country, she is definitely attractive, i.e. thin, feminine, and fair skin. Her husband is a bit fat, according to Asian standard. She even earns more than him as she is a surgeon Still I am happy for her. She is a very pleasant and lighthearted lady who has some eccentric …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:36 AM
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Tin foil hat time: I wonder if this was a desperate attempt from Hollywood to revive the Oscars falling ratings. Have all involved signed an agreement that they could not sue for minor physical altercation while all get paid. Then bring everyone involved to next year Oscars for spicy rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:52 PM
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It’s a realization that they are turned on by something that they think should not turn them on. TBH I still sometimes feel this and in the past I used to feel shamed after having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:36 PM
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I mean I am SE Asian man and I notice it but I would not expect otherwise. It’s a space for TRP, incels and FDS after all. The only thing that prevents this place from going full white supremacy is mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:43 AM
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I don’t know how lawyers do it. I sent my patent application draft to a law firm so that they could “lawyer-ify” the writing. I just received it and they made it so uninspired, repetitive and hard to understand. It must be so boring to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:01 AM
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God, my gay incel friend has had it. He decided to go against my advice and pay a visit to a gay bathhouse. Imagine going to a place with lots of horny dudes and still getting no one to have sex with you. And the thing is he didn’t even go to the one that was more open to unattractive men. Rather, he chose to go to arguably the most exclusive and selective gay bathhouse. It’s a place where entry fees are rated on your physical characteristics and age. They even ask you to take clothes off so tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:35 AM
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Personally it depends on timing, place, frequency, delivery, and the physical attractiveness of the person who tells it. Timing: I like it when dark humor is inserted at a moment when it elevates the emotional context. It should not pop up out of nowhere and it should not be the first thing we bond over. Place: use a common sense, like don’t say rape jokes in front of my mom lol. Frequency: I don’t want to be with someone who is mainly known for dark jokes. I don’t date clowns. Delivery: sometim…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:52 AM
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Not religious. I would not mind non-practicing Buddhists, but followers of Abrahamic religions and Hinduism are deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:42 AM
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There is a woman supposedly making 60k a month from Onlyfans while wearing Hijabi LMAO. It’s so based, I love it. Even a “religion of peace” can’t escape supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:40 AM
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Intention, yes. Hard work, maybe. But there is some balance to it. When my boyfriend and I started dating, we made it clear that it was going to be a serious relationship but we did not go all of the way to make time for each other. Our individual life remained number one priority and the relationship number two. During this early stage, it never felt like a hard work. It’s more like an exploration; learning each other work, compatibility and incompatibility. Hard work arrived when we started jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:11 AM
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Yes, I am thinking about replacing my old 1070ti. But I am waiting for the price to go down further since I can still play games without much issues. I also hear the rumor about RTX 40 series. So I wait for news about those as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:19 AM
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When you get it, it will relieve one itch and create another. I think the old itch about not having any great intimacy is the worse, especially when you get older, because it would fill you with regrets. Yeah after I had my first sex I got more horny. But I also felt more confident and driven, not only for sexual pursuits but also for other aspects of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:19 AM
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Abortion should be legal in all circumstances before the baby is born and should be subsidized so that fetal stem cells can be mass produced for research purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:13 AM
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It’s due to mods who are extreme SJW. I recall when a certain mod on r/dating was proclaiming that only black women could call their hair “curly” and that white women who did the same would be appropriating black culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:10 PM
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For my gay guy perspective, guy#3 and especially 11 are cute. But I could not judge too accurately without seeing body pics. The rest are not ugly. And virtually all could improve by taking better photos with more natural lighting and more suitable clothes. PPD men are better looking than I thought lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:59 AM
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Many straight women find bi men disgusting. Many gay men worry that bi men would take an easy road and cheat on them with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:00 PM
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A guide for those who want to travel to a third world Asian country lol Note that it’s illegal though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:35 AM
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I am now totally on team Ukraine, because shirtless Zelensky is way hotter than shirtless Putin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:49 AM
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Why have enemies if your SO is like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:39 AM
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Number in bank accounts going up makes my monkey brain happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:01 AM
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I would agree with safer and somewhat agree with better, but disagree with more frequent. I guess it depends on individuals. When I was hooking up, I had more frequent sex, say a few 2-4 a week. In my current relationship, it goes down to 1-2. Not a significant change, but it does add up a long term. Because both of us are std-checked, sex in my relationship is much safer, compared to random hookup. We are also sharing some similar kinks and fetish, so sex is great when we are in the mood to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:59 AM
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Sex with different and many people feels great. People come with different proclivity and one person won’t satisfy all my sexual desires. Serious relationship takes a lot of effort. (Even though I am now in one). Risks you mentioned can be somewhat mitigate by smart planning. Like, not bringing lots of money with you when hook up, hooking up at safer areas that you know very well, or requesting STD check/report.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:32 AM
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The ass of a gay bottom This is exactly why, as a gay male, this guy looks hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:27 AM
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Porn videos, no. Drawn/animated porn, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:20 AM
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Yes, I am in a long term relationship. I am not RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:38 PM
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This is why people should split the bills before getting exclusive or after having sex. Set expectations and weed out free dining strategists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:50 AM
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Yep. Not all peer-reviewed papers are the same. As someone in hard science fields who publish such papers, I also came across many papers that were flawed; sometimes so flawed that they should have been rejected during peer review process. I suspect that replication rate in hard science is not going to be that high. Some of my fellow researchers hide some details in experimental sections to slow down other research groups that are in competition. It’s publish or perish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:30 PM
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Just saw on a certain large subreddit that apparently 185 lb on a 5’7” female is “extremely healthy weight” while 145 lb on her is actually under weight. Is this a result majority of people in the US being fat? Most of my female friends that are around that height weight no more than 135 lb. I guess I have Asian fat shaming culture to thank to. Here, BMI above 23 is considered overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:03 PM
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Question for people in western countries, would you charge your gf/bf a rent if they move in with you, into a house you own? Does this depend on whether you are still paying mortgage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:21 AM
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Oh boy, a guy friend of mine has proposed to his girlfriend. The problem is that I know that he’s definitely not straight. He called himself gay 8 years ago in a small friend group and he asked us not to put him. He also told me that he’s not going to come out and would not mind marrying a woman just to have a kid. Perhaps he changed or he’s actually bi. Perhaps his girlfriend knows and is ok with this. But damn there is a possibility that he lied to her. I am not close to her so I guess I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:20 AM
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The responses were actually quite mixed. But if I have to guess, I’d say that the mod that removed these is the same one who thinks that white women calling their hair curly are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:41 AM
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My boyfriend and I are getting some ice cream this Valentines. And two days later, when it is an actually holiday, we will visit a coffee shop in a farm that has a large number of rabbits and sulcata tortoises. And we are going to feed them all!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:55 PM
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Sounds exhausting. There are many things that are more useful and satisfying than doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:52 AM
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How TRP “explains” the outliers is similar to how Texas Sharpshooter explains his shooting skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:47 AM
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I love seeing this. A guy offered a drink to a girl but she refused. He proceeded to pour the drink on her head. But it turned out she was a Muay Thai boxer and she retaliated by giving him a few punches and low kicks. He didn’t fight back. They both ended up at a police station and payed minimal fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:03 AM
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My younger brother officially proposed to his girlfriend at a studio that is specifically for marriage proposal. Her female friends that accompanied them cried a lot during the whole thing. Like, I understand it’s all lovey and romantic but crying this hard just for proposal wasn’t a bit much lol? I’m looking forward to meeting them at the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:13 AM
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I am in a third world country and this is a huge problem with lots of poor people here. Drinking, smoking, lottery and drugs are what these men spend most of their money on. It’s also not rare that women of similar classes spend money on frivolous things. Kids then often follow similar trends, spending their youth on drugs and drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:39 AM
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I don’t consider it a bad outcome. It was how I was before I am in a current relationship. But I much prefer being in a relationship that satisfies me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:25 AM
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West Elm Caleb vs Tinder Swindler guy is what I need right now. Netflix pls make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:24 AM
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As a gay guy, I don’t really mind straight guys as long as they don’t get mad if I make a move on them. I think more and more straight guys are learning this though. In some gay clubs they are mostly straight people nowadays. In a few years these places will turn into usual straight-infested clubs lmao. TBH I am a bit more annoyed at straight women at gay clubs. I just want to be surrounded by guys, damn it. I guess I still have gay bathhouses lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:49 AM
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Done. LMAO someone has 0% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:16 AM
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At least a few years. After that I might propose we open the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:04 AM
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Things must have changed these years. Back when I was in STEM undergrad, girls were much more hygienic than boys and their rooms were less messy as well. My female friend still managed to look nice even after going all-nighter on her assembly coding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:40 AM
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Aragorn 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:39 PM
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My younger brother is asking me for help with his upcoming “small” wedding. I look at his guest list and see at least 300 people. WTF that’s in no way small. And the current budget is not going to be enough. He’s also trying to lose weight so that he is “look-matched” to his soon-to-be wife since she is thin even according to Asian standard. I told him he needs to cut all snacks, sodas, and desserts and halve his carb intakes from regular meals. I guess one good news is the gf’s family leans pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:17 AM
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10 minutes in and no first comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:10 AM
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I am in Thailand where it is not uncommon for men from western countries to find girlfriends and wives and settle down. From my observation, this can work if such men learn to play along the rules and have what it takes. The majority of women here are traditional and conservative, but be warned that these two adjectives can have different definitions than those in, say, the US. For example, men here should expect to be a provider but also to let their wives control the finance. Basically men mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:47 AM
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Nope. When he travels for works, he does with a large group of coworkers and has always updated me. I sometimes travel alone for work and I always tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:32 AM
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I am a gay guy on a serious relationship with my bisexual boyfriend. We are both in early thirties. Open communication and egalitarian workload sharing are important. I am a researcher and he’s a college professor, so we can get busy sometimes. Chores distribution depends on who is busier during that time. I think our interest and expertise complements one another well. He’s generally taking care of cooking, gardening, growing crops and pets, and wood works. I am a more of mechanical/electrical …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:32 PM
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The meanest way is to waste the most of her time, like breadcrumbing and trickle ghosting. Or give her a false hope that you want something more with her and put just enough effort to get her attached but never enough to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:57 AM
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I am in a healthy relationship but I am here for mostly entertainment and for hearing views that are different from my own. I think it’s a good idea to expose myself to places outside my bubbles or echo chambers in some small doses. On Reddit, there are not many places to discuss the topics discussed in this sub without heavy censorship from mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:57 AM
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Looks like you will find a lot of these women in FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:36 AM
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Muscular thighs are hot. Nice asses are also hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:33 AM
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Apparently a brand name “Emojibator” exists. Looks like BadDragon has a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:44 AM
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Looks like my younger brother is getting married this year. And the first thing my mom said when learning this was to tell him to lose weight to look great in the wedding hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:42 PM
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I am concerned with experience that has poorly impacted men; be it my own bad experience, my friends’, horrible stories I have read online, and so on. I have my regrets when it comes to dating, relationships, and sexual experience as well. It’s a good idea to learn from them to realize that things can be so fucked up. But I don’t want to live my life under the shadow of bad experience and regrets. I have faced bad experience and regrets in other aspects of my life and in the end I manage to succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:49 AM
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Another case of expecting too much from a FWB. Posts like this start to make me wonder if my previous FWBs who were quite younger than me ever caught feelings for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:06 AM
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I used to be active in BDSM and various kink scenes and even that I still have many dealbreakers. For starter: scat, watersports, anything considered edgeplay, sounding, any uniforms associated with Nazi and double penetration are dealbreakers. On a less serious note, I don’t mind my partner wearing a pup mask but please don’t bark.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:09 AM
2

What are the best and the worst parts of being MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:25 AM
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I started working out to get sexual partners but I ended up discovering that working out has much more benefit. Working out makes me feel great about how my body looks and what my body can do. It significantly increases my confidence and my posture. It also feels great not to get tired from just some basic manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:23 AM
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Finally a good post on ppd. Black pillers need to post more pics of hot men. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:52 PM
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Yes. And also to videos of myself getting off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:59 AM
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I agree. I am center left which simply means that I often support the left on many issues and the right on some issues. Like, I am pro choice, pro LGBT rights, pro BLM and support expanding immigration but I am also a capitalist who thinks that corporate tax and capital gain tax are bad. I just don’t think either side has it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:13 AM
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This (NSFW and NSFL?) is the ideal female body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:06 PM
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I am a bit annoyed by naming of plumbing parts in English. Like, why would anyone name this thing “nipple” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:25 AM
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The sub is usually closed during holidays since mods are away during those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:20 AM
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Wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:56 AM
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Being a good listening ear, I often have to learn some secrets my guy friends keep that I would rather not know. For example, a closet bisexual male friend lies about being bi to his girlfriend because his girlfriend does not want to date a bi man. This made me feel conflicted since the girlfriend is my friend as well. But I choose to not tell her since I value friendship with him more. Another dude tells me he could not afford to pay a bride price to marry his girlfriend. She and her family are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:03 AM
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If exploring sexuality is your thing, then do it. Some gay guys have straight fetish and will be willing to have sex with you. But looking for sexual or romantic connection with people you are not attracted to is a waste of time. Before I came out I tried it with women. It’s depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:10 AM
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This virgin shaman vs this chad succubi chaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:30 PM
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Interesting theory. Depending on whether a mirror is concave, convex or flat and direction and radius of curvature, your image can be distorted. If I were to design gym mirrors, I would use horizontally convex mirrors in the cardio section so that people would look slimmer. For chest section, I would go for mirrors that are slightly and horizontally concave at around chest height to make chest and shoulders look thicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:00 AM
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Yes. Abortion in the west and other issues in non-Western countries are one reason that I support contemporary feminism. Feminism in western country often spreads globally. In my country, 10 years ago feminism was a very fringe movement. Now it’s mainstream. Another important reason for me is this: even though I think women in Western world generally has equal rights to men, it does not mean that such rights would not be taken away if given opportunity. I also say this for any rights, not just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:19 AM
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I guess I would describe it as a person with athletic or near-athletic build. 6-pack or a lot of muscle is not necessary. Most guys in the pic are probably not fit, but it's hard to know for sure from the photo. The more I think about it, I would consider aerobic fitness to be a more important criterion for fitness. Like, if you don't look fit to me but you can run 10 miles without rest, then you are fit. I also know some guys who lift way more than me but could not run more than a few miles. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:32 PM
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I agree with shower sex. Water is a bad lubricant. Outdoor sex as well. Bugs, especially mosquitoes, are so annoying. Poppers use during sex also gives me migraines.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:09 PM
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Based female establishes her dominance on her male with tactical placement of her urine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:15 AM
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As someone who used to live in an urban area but now lives a middle of nowhere, I tend to agree. I like calmness and nature; they improve my mental health IME. I don’t have livestock yet but I do grow some vegetables. I only have few issues with occasional wild life visits (like king cobras and monitor lizards) and electricity and water not running from time to time. Also taking my partners back to my place can give them anxiety lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:27 AM
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Free Dinner Strategy LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:40 AM
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Me: Emojis are cringy. Also me: using these “stickers” extensively
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:20 AM
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3 inch is such a low standard. It’s time to up the game and go for 6. #analweek
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:15 AM
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A thrown away account for a very specific NSFW content.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:31 AM
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The problem of loneliness comes down to general distrust between genders. So, I think communities that encourage inter-gender activities can help with this problem, along with atomization of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:18 PM
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Last night I had a great night out with my friends of 17 years. 6 guys and 3 girls, 7 in relationships and 2 singles. Predictably we talked about relationships and the straight friends in relationships all said they didn’t want to have kids. Their reasons were the same: they didn’t want their kids to live in a current state of the country/world. It’s not like they have any financial problems, so I guess it’s other factors as well. One girl has a problem with her long-distance boyfriend who is wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:49 AM
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I am all for free-range, environmentally friendly bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:19 PM
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Personally there is a spectrum to this. I have a high n count but in most of the casual sex I don’t put much emotional connection or love into it. But with long term partners, love is an essential component to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:15 PM
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At this rate, it’s only a matter of time until an anal sex megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:32 PM
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Yeah that’s what I like about being gay: the carefree attitude about casual sex. A new person every two weeks for casual sex takes much less time and effort for a gay guy. There’s no need for proper dinner dates, coffee dates, endless back and forth messaging, or flirting. You just message someone, exchange pics and discuss what we want, arrange a place and time, go to have sex, and then move on to another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:49 AM
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The bathhouses were in Thailand. There are at least five in Bangkok (lol) and at least three in cities near by. I was also in a big group chat where people surveyed and reviewed bathhouses and arranged “group meetings” there. I didn’t visit any bathhouses when I was in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:21 AM
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I had a lot of time between monogamous relationships. Thanks to gay “dating” apps and existence of certain places, casual partners are very easy to find. If I were single, I could open those apps and could get a casual one in less than an hour. Also going to a bathhouse can quickly ramp up the n count due to group sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:43 AM
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32M, gay. My count is 300+. My boyfriend’s count is 100+. I generally prefer high n count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:50 AM
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Practice makes perfect, ey?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:37 PM
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In a way, I settle for my current boyfriend in terms of look. I rate him 8 but he could be 9 if he puts more effort into diet and workout. Before him, I had hooked up with and dated 9-10 look-wise. I also had wilder and more kinky sex with previous partners because my boyfriend is less adventurous in that way. The thing is though I am happier than I have ever been. I was not interested in a serious relationship before meeting him but he changed that. His personality, his character and his values…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:17 AM
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Anal week is the best week!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:58 AM
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Do it. You will be a representative from PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:57 AM
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I'd say 9. 8 or below, I still somewhat care to give "attention" to everyone in the group. Above that though, I could not keep track.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:15 PM
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Defense Bill Will Not Require Women to Sign Up for Draft After All
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:08 PM
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A gay perspective: it’s a big positive if he’s hot or average in look. And somewhat positive if he’s below average on look. My first two male crushes were goofballs. Being upbeat is a turn on since I am not generally an upbeat person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:50 PM
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From a few sources on that website, it actually looks like crop production is increasing so I guess it has to do with transportation and distribution of food. From this, some of the driving causes of increase in undernourished people are conflicts and covid. This makes sense since these affect labor that is used for food transportation. Meanwhile, water is mostly distributed through pipes and pumps, and this mode of transportation is less affected by covid since fewer humans are involved during …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:36 AM
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I could not help but wonder if these men are actually approaching women and getting accused often, or they are selectively reading about bad experience from other men who have been falsely accused and then building narratives of rampant false accusation to justify them not approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:56 AM
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Dating subs are so entertaining. Some seething over little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:21 PM
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A theory I have heard is that once a part of someone is outside of the social norms, they care less about other social norms. Like a thought along the line of “if society thinks I am abnormal, then so be it and I am not going to be confined by the social norms either.” This might be why there are subcultures surrounding these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:57 PM
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It looks like Covid and being in their early 30s are pushing my friends into marriage. This year alone I have been invited to too many weddings that I simply could not attend. The peer pressure is definitely up. I would start thinking about marriage but same sex marriage is not legal here yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:26 AM
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Should it be legal for parents to “euthanize” anencephalic kids like this? Basically the kids don’t have brain but only have brain stem. They are not capable of voluntary actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:39 AM
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Casual sex is great, as long as I get selective on choosing partners and activities that really turn me on. Hot FWBs that share my kinks and fetishes are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:36 PM
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Until I was around 14, my parents, my younger brother and I all shared the same room. My mom, my bro and I slept on the bed, my dad on the floor. We simply could not afford anything else. After that we moved to a new home and my bro and I shared a room until I moved out. It would have been nice to have a privacy but it was not that important in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:26 AM
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By my Asian standard, definitely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:58 AM
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Disclaimer: I am a furry. So this is like one of my fantasies lol. I will tell him and discuss how we can make sure that his transformation in the future would be not disruptive. Here’s how I would propose to him. First, we are going to buy a land in the middle of nowhere (Funny thing is my house being in one). Then, we will build two rooms can be used to secure his werewolf form: one room for him and another room for me as a safety measure. In between two rooms, there will be another transparen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:11 AM
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Isn’t this rather similar to “be yourself”? I have this somewhere before…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:29 AM
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Oh I was not being clear. It’s not inside the house but the area between the house and the fence where we put stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:55 AM
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Thanks. We will try this since we do have lime trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:52 AM
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Anyone knows an effective cat repellent? This outdoor cat has been visiting and peeing in my bf’s house. His owner does not care. Government people can’t do anything since he has owner. I am really not into my boyfriend’s plan to accidentally dropping rat poison in his home. So I need a safer alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:17 AM
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It’s not an ideal situation but that’s what it takes to sustain a relationship sometimes. It would have been another thing if he had asked and she had lied. The guy has not pried into her past and he could have good reasons for that. He might already have known and is ok with that or thinks it’s the price to pay for a relationship. Or he might not care about her sexual past and he just want to live in the present. Ignorance can be a bliss. I know some guys that would not care about their gf’s se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:38 AM
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Caring this much about an ex would be a red flag for me. It seems like she has not really gotten over an ex. I would reconsider the relationship. The boyfriend is quite heartless in his reaction though, even when I am not pro-drug. He could have been more supportive to her without taking about the drug user.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:13 AM
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Attraction is complex but if you make a good survey and use appropriate statistical tools, you can observe some useful trends and make good prediction. Law of large number can often deal with randomness. Chaotic systems are often studied with great accuracy. That is not to say that theories proposed by pill space are all correct. But human nature is not so special that it cannot be studied from statistical perspective. Like, you can have a study to examine whether women or men prefer taller mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:55 AM
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This is how to attract gay guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:37 AM
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Cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:00 AM
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I was a math tutor for some spoiled rich kids. It’s a good paying job but I had to dumb it down for them which bored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:59 AM
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There is something like this in Thailand. Basically you can hire a hot guy from an agency to be your boyfriend for days to take care of you and to be your romantic companion while you both have fun traveling and doing activities together. Generally this type of service does not include sex. Reviews for such services so far have been very positive. And those guys get paid a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:33 AM
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Imagine not multi-tasking, and not sucking dick and posting at the same time. SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:17 AM
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The ghosts are going to take over dating for a while, until the novelty runs off. TBH I would love such a ghost. I have fantasy that is not quite possible in real life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:29 AM
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She has a good point but it sounds like she is outcompeted by sluts in the sexual marketplace, so she chooses to shame them instead. I love free market and sexual liberation, but I guess they leave some people behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:01 AM
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It does not look obvious to me. Personally I found lack of good sleep, stress and poor diet worsen balding patterns. Once I fixed these, I reverted some of the balding. This took a long time though, say a year, to see noticeable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:14 AM
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It makes sense that a prime minister of a minority government should resign when one of its major coalition party has separated away. Otherwise she is not going to survive a no-confidence vote, like what happened to the previous prime minister which led to political crisis earlier this year. With her resign, another more stable government is allowed to be formed. Ahh the fun that is parliamentary politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:50 AM
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Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:22 AM
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I would not say that most lack empathy. IMO they have selective empathy, i.e. empathy largely for people who are in their groups or who agree with them, and no or limited empathy for those outside of the groups. It’s empathy filtered by good old tribalism. We are not going to get many productive discussions in communities that promote or in some cases enforce tribalism. It’s difficult to have places that can have productive discussions because they require good faith participation and tolerance …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:17 AM
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My beloved prime minister just spent millions of dollar buying new iPhones for his high-ranked government officials and still dared to defend this decision publicly. Meanwhile unemployment rate is at highest in many years. Also according to his ingenious Covid-19 measures, we cannot dance at a concert. Going to a concert is fine but dancing is taking it too far and we would be fined. I can’t believe I say this but I miss the US politics. Multi-party system here is just useless, except that I now…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:46 AM
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Mine is around 8. I have a pretty good life. I am financially secure, had lots of casual sex and am now in a long term relationship. I have great friends and loving family. I am happy with my body. Life would be better if work as a researcher is not so stressful. I am going to blame social media as well for the rise in unhappiness. “Comparison is a thief of joy” and social media facilitates that. I guess I could say so to how internet makes people more aware of problems. The saying, “ignorance i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:44 AM
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I am done giving advice to my fellow gay friend who has become a gay incel. I told him that the only one thing that needed to do to get laid was just to lose 33% of his weight. The bar for casual sex is that low and yet here he is, complaining about how gay guys are so shallow again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:51 PM
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Evolutionary psychology has some merits but like how many science in popular culture is portrayed and used, what people claim evolutionary psychology says can be vastly different than what the science actually supports. You cannot selectively pick a few papers and overstate their conclusions. Hypergamy exists but it affects individual women differently. For some, hypergamy drives their behaviors. Others don’t feel it as much. I don’t also agree with “hypergamy is a female nature” either. #NAWALT…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:23 AM
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I would not smash. When I was a single, I didn’t have problems finding casual sex. So I don’t see a good reason why I should smash the spouse and feel guilty for betraying my friend, while guilt-free sex is readily available. I would also distant myself from the spouse who showed interest. Failing marriage is like a time bomb. I would stay away lest I get caught in the blast radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:00 AM
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It depends on individual but for me I have sex ASAP. I don’t like spending time building connection with someone only to find out that we are sexually incompatible. So far, I consider my approach successful. I managed to have a lot of casual sex and now I am in a long term relationship which is doing great. Best of both world, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:46 AM
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Yeah, I think it is a serious health concern. I work with plastic in the lab and TBH a lot of researchers I work with are already aware of long term effects. Unfortunately government and companies don’t really care. I no longer work with PVC and I would recommend not buying products made of PVC unless necessary. Chemicals used in PVC production are now known as hormone disrupters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:30 PM
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Probably not, at least for some kinds of plastic. Unlike lead, there is a huge variety of plastic and they have different degrees and types on impact on environment. Also, some alternative such as paper can have more negative impact on environment in some cases. According to this report which reviews research papers, polyethylene bags have the least amount of impact on climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:14 PM
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And I thought the comments in the original thread were seething enough. FDS is just taking it to another level lol. It’s just three dates. They will both survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:56 AM
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A guy went on three dates with a girl and then had sex with her. But he was "not feeling the spark" and was going to dump her, so he asked mainstream dating subreddit for advice. (Some) Commenters seethed as a result, proclaiming that he used her just for sex. Men of PPD: how would you dump her if you were him? Women of PPD: how would you prefer to be dumped if you were her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:04 PM
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Uniform can be a part of dominance kink, but it is also a part of submission. For example, there is a kink about guys wearing military uniforms getting tied up and gagged, often by partners wearing similar uniforms. I think for these people uniforms signify power and heighten power exchange which is a common theme in bdsm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:03 AM
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I remember taking this survey. Looks like the political leanings of my fetishes are everywhere lol. Alien/monster and bondage on libleft Not surprisingly since this matches with my experience well. Bestiality on authright This is surprising, considering how liberal furries generally are. But then this explains the popularity of “Nazifur”. Uniform and latex on the right In my experience, the guys are generally centrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:38 AM
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Evolutionary psychology: Controversies, questions, prospects, and limitations. Abstract: Evolutionary psychology has emerged over the past 15 years as a major theoretical perspective, generating an increasing volume of empirical studies and assuming a larger presence within psychological science. At the same time, it has generated critiques and remains controversial among some psychologists. Some of the controversy stems from hypotheses that go against traditional psychological theories; some fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:52 AM
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It’s not the case for me. I strive to have sex as early as possible. This way, I waste little time on people who want only sex with me. I enjoy sex and don’t see it as losing if I have it without commitments. Due to circumstances, I actually had sex with my current long term boyfriend before knowing his name. And so far our relationship works great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:04 AM
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INTJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:15 AM
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Is this in SE Asia or South Asia? This sounds like a case of child bride stuff I've heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:12 PM
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Personally, not really. Perhaps this sub does make me appreciate my partner more and happier that I am gay haha. But this sub helps me understand perspectives of my friends that struggle with dating and what they are up against. I use some studies posted on here (e.g. the Tinder study) in discussions I have with my friends. A lot of them are simply clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:07 AM
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In my case, because I am happier and more confident now that I am in a long term relationship. Constant love, care, support and physical touch do wonderful things to a mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:36 AM
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Love it. And my favorite Christmas song is All I Want for Christmas Is You, Gabe the dog version
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:02 PM
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This does not surprise me. As a gay guy with lots of LGBT friends, I have heard quite often that sexual assault was often used to “correct” or punish sexual “deviancy” and behaviors that do not conform to gender expression norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:50 PM
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It turns out that the asset of mine that has the highest return rate this year is not stocks or even NFT. But it’s corianders I grew in my little farm. This year its price increased by 1400%, highest since 42 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:14 AM
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Spending equal amount of time living in the US and Thailand, I sometimes get requested by male American friends and female Thai friends to wingman/matchmake them to one another. I always decline largely because I am lazy and don’t want to deal with fallout or heterosexual dating stuff in general. Another thing is that both groups often have idealistic views on another. The guys think that the girls would act feminine and be submissive. The girls’ posts on social media are really misleading about…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:04 AM
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Moan his name back to assert dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:45 AM
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Human’s use of botox amazes me. It is the most poisonous substance known to mankind with a (estimated) lethal dose of about 2 nanograms per kilogram in humans. This means that a gram of Botox could kill around 2.5 million people. And yet humans use it for cosmetic! Grim reaper must be so offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:42 PM
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I am a feminist and I agree that it is not a monolith. There are a plenty of things I disagree with other feminists, like body positivity movement. But I think that feminists fail to distance themselves far enough from misandry or bad-faith generalization of men. And when feminists attempt to challenge that narrative, I find the attempt to be half-hearted. This problem is not unique to feminism though. Like how TRP, incels and MRA are going to be associated with misogyny. Bad faith generalizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:51 AM
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I wasn’t clear on the topic of racial preference. What BP and feminists disagree is on how problematic racial preference is. From my experience, feminists are more critical of racial preference and view it more as a symptom of systemic racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:00 AM
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Prevalence or even existence of the so-called patriarchy. Prevalence or existence of gender-based wage gap. Racial preference in dating. Affirmative actions. And of course, whether or not men should pay in the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:14 AM
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Finally I get my second dose of covid vaccine. This is a good timing since gyms are opening up on October but will require full vaccination to enter. I really miss working out at the gym. Working out at home is just too boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:38 AM
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As a penis possessor (PP), I find the term vagina bodies offensive because it objectifies the persons. Vagina holder is a better term but you could use the term vagina carrier as well, if you have a conceal carry permit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:11 AM
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Hello, my fellows who select 25+. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:00 AM
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It should be subsidized to promote research on fetal stem cells. I would support abortion farms to mass produce stem cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:33 AM
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Some would be surprised that I am that horny lol. My boyfriend knows my account since I show it to him. And he thinks Reddit is a waste of time. Some of my friends also know my account. Most are not interested in Reddit. A few have accounts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:32 AM
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Blue and I would have the same expectation of my boyfriend being fully vaxed. I am lucky that he is without being asked. I would not bother giving an ultimatum if he turned out to be anti vaxxed though. I would just break up since it’s my dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:47 PM
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"He was asking for it" does not mean that people are okay with violence but rather it points to how ridiculous the phrase is. It's simply a satire which, I'll have to say, seems to hit the mark on audience it is aimed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:06 PM
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My main reasons for subscribing to BP are that I disagree with TRP in fundamental ways. I disagree with TRP regarding its theory on the nature of sexual dynamics, or to be more precise, I am not convinced by its reasoning and its evidence. This does not mean I believe the opposite of TRP is true. But if TRP is going to claim that their theory of nature of sexual dynamics is true, then they will need to have better evidence to disprove null hypothesis. I also disagree with TRP when it comes to im…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:47 AM
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Men good, women badn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:00 AM
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First case of prosecution of porn creators on OnlyFans in my country finally happened. See, making and publicizing porn is illegal in my country for a long time. But the law has barely been enforced. And it still looks like theses creators are unfazed by this persecution. If anything, they are latching into current anti-government politics, which welcome them. Meanwhile Twitter is still full of pornographic content, and the government is still too afraid to touch it since Twitter allows them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:05 AM
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I think building communities for men or so called male space so that they could have social support would be a great start. It could be a place where men could speak their minds and share different views. We are not going to get social changes without social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:48 AM
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People are so creative when it comes to making up all these excuses for a woman who was going to kill her baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:12 AM
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My boyfriend has been rather direct with my flaws when they showed up and affected him. When I was confronted with that, I often got upset but came to appreciate the criticism. For example, one of my most glaring flaws is getting irritated very easily even when things don’t go according to my plan. At some point, he told me that me being like this ruined the mood when we were together. When he told me that, I was upset (I mean I didn’t plan to get criticized by him lol). But after letting the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:47 AM
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2, if ALL of the following conditions are met: a) My partner confesses to me before I find out myself. b) The cheating instant seems to be a result from an act of passion, rather than a premeditated act. c) Our relationship, sexual and romantic-wise, has not suffered in other ways. Otherwise, just 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:33 AM
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This was the same question I asked myself before I committed to my current boyfriend. I am a gay dude who had zero problems getting regular sex (averaged around twice a week with different guys or FWBs). My reasons that convinced me to be in a serious monogamous relationship are I want more serious connection than just casual sex. Casual sex started to lose its appeal once my n count reached a certain number. The variety became just a noise. My emotional needs and other kinds of needs were not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:00 AM
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What a unpalatable bunch. Both parents should have been on the same page. Each parent would have had a valuable lesson for the kid: the mom’s lesson about sharing and the dad’s lesson about respecting other’s properties. But now the kid learned nothing, thanks to both parents acting like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:12 AM
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This is more entertaining than 90% of the dramas on media out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:02 AM
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It’s obviously a joke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:18 AM
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Making fun of straight people to make them feel better about being LGBT, I had this phase before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:05 AM
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I own a rather special kind of flesh light and it’s a good substitute for my partner when he was busy. Not sure if this counts, but I have other fetish/kink items and they significantly improve experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:45 PM
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PPD might interest her but she might get exposed to FDS and become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:50 PM
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Ah yes, Mumbai, a feminist paradise. Now it’s time for the boy to plan how to pay for a child support once the fetus heartbeat is detected. On a more serious note, I would love to read from a source that is in English and less sensationalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:10 AM
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Male, 31 Currently Thailand. But I lived in Southern California for 13 years. Phd, material science. In a serious relationship, almost 2 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:59 AM
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Yeah it’s all bullshit. I mean we know that energy transference cannot occur during Jupiter retrograde and soul ties could only form among people who have complementary MBTIs. According to astrological power balance theory, virgins with high crystalline purity will have problems with forming ascendant and fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:00 AM
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I am not against the concept of contribution being proportional to income. But how the girlfriend went to demand such was a red flag. It really showed how little respect she has for the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:07 AM
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Being short?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:35 PM
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Imagine a country so fragile that its leaders are so threatened by fem boys. Hilarious! I see the same trend in authoritarian regimes. Their leaders are the most sensitive bunch. I remember when my military junta government tried to ban memes criticizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:18 AM
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If you are not comfortable with her sexual past or with simply not knowing it, then you might want to end it. But I would consider if it is your figment of imagination that plays trick on you and makes her supposed sexual experience more extreme than actually is. Also there is also a spectrum to bdsm experience. For many, dom/sub only extends to bed, not in other aspects of life. My sub was only submissive during “the scene” and the rest of our interactions was normal with equal power dynamics. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:35 AM
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Sweatshops in third world countries are good actually because they often serve as the only safe alternative to subsistence farming. Additionally they often are the only way women could gain financial independence in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:51 AM
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Threads about women’s body count in big dating subreddits are always fun to read. So many people could not handle the fact that some men actually care about the body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:52 AM
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Poor girl. Hopefully she will never get to see big-titty trans women topping a masculine bi guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:03 AM
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I still can’t forget the concept of “sounding.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:03 PM
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Ant eggs actually taste good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:29 AM
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A woman friendzoned a guy she actually liked. What happened next will surprise you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:15 AM
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My boyfriend knows and he thinks that this sub is just another sub like cringetopia. A lot of terminology and discussions in this sub are simply laughable for people that are not involved in pill-sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:04 AM
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I wonder if this is going to be them shooting themselves in a foot. Like, when Tumblr banned porn, their valuation eventually dropped from a billion to just a few millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:14 AM
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One, if you go with the BMI definition. 12, if you go by Asian standard of obesity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:28 AM
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I am a guy in a relationship with a man. I think I did this twice but the “threats” were minimal. One time it was a few stray medium-sizes dogs that attempted to attack my boyfriend from behind (coward!). So I shouted at and rushed toward them, and scared them away. Another time was when he found a large 1-foot long tokay gecko in kitchen while cooking and he felt “threatened” by it. So I had to capture and remove it since he was afraid of geckos in general. It’s not the first time I handled a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:59 AM
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-9 and I am center-left.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:34 AM
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Fat acceptance claims another! This is why being supportive of or participating in fat acceptance is such a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:24 AM
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How’s about dieting and losing weight, my bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:20 AM
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Genetic traits play very significant roles in mate selection, obviously. And so do the traits that are associated with “nurture.” Lots of human behaviors are a product of both nature and nurture. I think prosocial behaviors are actually a product of both as well. I mean, a large clan of prosocial monkeys would do better against predators than lone-wolf ones. While I do think that genetics play a role in human mate selection, I don’t subscribe to biological determinism. Some aspects of mate selec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:57 AM
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Lifting and exercising as usual. Sleeping at least 7 hours every night. Reducing stressful time by avoiding working at home as much as possible. Reading something new that is not in my area of expertise every week. Preferably something not aligned with my own beliefs and ideas. Spending less time arguing and worrying about things that actually don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:35 AM
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It turns out ESXX are the winners, by simply avoiding this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:20 PM
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Why I always see a fun thread when it’s already old lol. Anyways, 31M, INTJ. Always been blue pilled, but I admit that I am not too invested in pill discussion because I am gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:39 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:31 AM
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I (gay dude) prefer shorter men, so that’s quite different from a lot of women’s preferences. I also prefer submissive men which, I heard, are not attractive to lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:04 AM
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They have a low chance which is then lowered by them losing confidence. In this case though, 23 is too young to give up. A rare occurrence may still happen given enough time and exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:33 AM
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I think it is plausible but the study did not mention this figure. I read through it but did not see anything that would lead to that conclusion written on the Wikipedia page. The paper does not even mention the number of sexual partners. It cares about divorce risk of wives with premarital sex vs without. Too bad that there was not data about husband’s premarital sex and that the risk model is rather simplistic. Funny thing is that the data in Table 2 show that husbands being religious and sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:57 AM
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Welcome to the world of fat acceptance. This is unfortunately real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:59 PM
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I am from SEA, specifically Thailand. A few things to watch out for: you might be expected to be a provider. (Chance: very likely.) Thais are largely conservative. she might cheat. (Chance: likely.) Thailand is one of the top countries when it comes to cheating. she might be a gold digger. (Chance: somewhat likely.) My female friends often say unabashedly that they want rich westerners only for their money. her in-laws can be a pain in the ass. (Chance: somewhat likely.) Thai girls care much mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:22 AM
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Congrats. There is no better way to celebrate being free from an old relationship than meeting new people!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:08 AM
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Pretty sure AHS banned anyone participating in mensright sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:46 AM
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I wonder how degenerate someone can become if they have sexual partners that are very open to various degenerate sexual acts. My first FWB was how I discovered that I was into bondage. He literally begged to be tied up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:16 AM
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Nothing says “don’t enjoy my time being wasted” better than writing whole long-ass paragraphs to respond to some dude on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:07 AM
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Do we know for sure that he is suffering such dire consequences as you claim? Like “clowned into suicide” for example. Also there are resources out there that he could have learned about simple social clues. His own embarrassment in this case was avoidable and was a result of his own ignorance and lack of research, not of him being born clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:40 PM
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First, I doubt that there is a BP manifesto, since BP is simply a disagreement with TRP and such disagreement varies, depending on individuals. So what I am going to write is my own opinions and may not be a representative on BP. I think that my fundamental disagreement with TRP can be separated into two types: positive and normative. On positive statements, my disagreement generally arises from lack of sufficient evidence and use of weak data in supporting of RP positive claims. For example, le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:39 AM
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Technically improper, but I would still do it if I were you. One way or another your relationship is done anyway. Though I would suggest either officially breaking off with your gf or really distancing yourself from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:05 AM
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Cats and dogs are overrated. Rabbits are where it’s at!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:01 AM
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Feminist contents largely being against CCP and critical of Chinese culture that CCP wants to maintain is probably why. I see that CCP might think that feminism is responsible for disrupting gender roles. . And in their view, that change is damaging their society. On the other hand though, I wonder if the CCP actually does not care much about whether feminism damages the society or not. CCP just wants to remove things that damage its image. Feminism criticizing the society that CCP controls is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:03 AM
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I do 18-6 fasting (or on same lax days, 16-8) which is just a fancy way of saying that I skip breakfast. I started it back in college when I realized that I did not feel that hungry in the morning and my body did not complain much when I missed breakfast. It was probably not a coincident that I started waking up late and drinking black coffee in college. Meanwhile if I skip lunch or, god forbids, dinner, I would be so hangry. This discovery helps me with diet. Two moderately sized meals are more…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:31 AM
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Yes. When I had FWBs, I always considered them casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:29 AM
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I lurk in someone's post history only when I found that he posted on NSFW subs I visited and that he was hot so I wanted to see more. The most unexpected stuff was when I found out that he did not have OnlyFans lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:10 PM
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You don’t gain weight from nowhere. If you gain weight, you eat more than you spend. It is as simple as that. Hormones and genetics can influence calories in and out. But they will not make you fat without over-eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:38 AM
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Although some longitudinal studies have reported positive effects of estradiol and/or negative effects of progesterone on women’s masculinity preferences [42,47], the largely null results from these rigorous tests of the dual mating strategy hypothesis suggest that the previously reported effects of cycle phase and steroid hormones on mate preferences are either not robust or are more complicated than has previously been claimed. This is one of my biggest problems with lots of research in psycho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:15 AM
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Which one is worse: (legal) age gap in a casual hookup or (legal) age gap in a serious relationship? If the problem with legal age gap is power/experience imbalance, then the age gap in a serious relationship should be worse because there is more opportunity for the more experienced person to manipulate and exploit the younger person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:16 AM
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Breed of peace strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:31 AM
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According to the latest survey, around 54% of ppd users are from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:51 AM
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The next step would be to find a way for women to have kids without men. And maybe also a way for women to change their sexuality to not be attracted to men. Oh and also a way to build robots to provide work force for heavy jobs that men usually do. This way men can truly become obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:47 AM
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My best friend has finally eloped and married his girlfriend and I am so happy for them. They were actually planning a large wedding earlier this year but another COVID surge and family dramas happened and stressed them out. I suggested them thinking about elopement and here they are. It suits them very well since they are very chill and unassuming people who take part in alt culture. I don’t think they are look-matched (he is better looking imo) but their views and personalities just mesh so we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:03 AM
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What does score 1-5 mean in the social/economical views? Also, can you share some raw data? We can run some statistical analysis just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:26 AM
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I always offer to pay in a first date since I can afford to. But if I don’t see any attempts to reciprocate in some ways, that would be a yellow flag that my date does not look for an equal relationship. Basically it is my first shit test lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:45 AM
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Mean-wise, male ego is bigger. Median-wise, female ego is bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:31 AM
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This is a good compilation that ranges from somewhat reasonable bios to insane hilarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:43 AM
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While I remain a strong supporter of feminism and on the blue pill side, some views have been changed: Red pillers, black pillers and pink pillers are more reasonable than I have thought. I still fundamentally disagree with them but they are not that bad when they are outside of their respective subs. I now support with financial abortion. I now agree that straight males have more difficulty in getting sex than straight females. Straight people of both genders are the sole cause of the problems …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:09 AM
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Today I learned about heartbalm tort, where a wife or a husband can sue a homewrecker for “disruption of marriage.” The homewrecker, if found guilty, might be required to financially compensate the couple. This type of tort still exists in some states in the US. I also learned that this law also exists in my country, but only the wives can sue. And the wives can only sue when their husbands cheat with females. They can’t sue if the husbands cheat with guys or trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:50 AM
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Perhaps I was doing both?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:44 AM
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Perhaps they know or are aware but they don’t mind if a chad uses PED?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:17 AM
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The posts may be low effort but the comments are spicy and entertaining. This combination is a perfect fit for ppd!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:26 AM
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What’s considered fat for Japanese girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:26 AM
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I would consider it somewhat fair. I am not a woman, but if false rape accusation is what needs to be done to get my body autonomy back, I would do it. I would not be cheering about it, but I would not cry about it either. It’s an eye for an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:18 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I never realized that the numbers did not paint a clear picture regarding domestic violence among s/s couples until now. To see a clear trend, there needs to be a survey with larger sample sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:11 PM
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I doubt these people would dare posting about how we can cure women who are prostitutes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:44 AM
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Social media and internet in general which tend to amplify negative life experience. People become more aware or even hyper aware of cases where bad choices can negatively impact their lives. So they are anxious, fearing that they might fuck something up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:56 AM
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To me, sex comes with different flavors. For casual hookups, I can have sex without love. When in a serious relationship, sex and love complement each other. The actual actions of sex might be similar but thoughts and feelings behind them can be different. For example, I often objectify my casual sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:20 AM
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I mean computers used to be extremely expensive back when they were first created. If and when there is mass manufacturing of sex robots, they would become much more affordable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:14 AM
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I follow 18:6 IF for a few years now, with an exception of black coffee and tea. I do have lots of vegetables since my bf and I grow them ourselves. I try to have high-protein and low-carb meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:55 AM
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Just got my first dose of COVID vaccine and the nurse complimented my shoulders, saying that they were well developed and large when she was jabbing. Tbh that made my day, because I am not too happy with my shoulder progress. I hate shoulder press and it shows. So, thank you, nurse lady. I am not interested in women but I will take any compliments I get!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:24 AM
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Sending more drone strikes, preferably operated by female soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:53 AM
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I don’t see sexuality options. I don’t want my gay experienc TM to affect the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:30 AM
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When I was in Thailand I wore size L. When I was in the US, I wore size S.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:17 AM
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Thanks to the thread about guys not caring about their skin, I have learned that sunscreens make you gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:38 AM
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2:xxx
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:13 AM
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Gay here. To be fair, I would see to see full body pics, both front and back. Anyways, Henry is cute. His roided body is very impressive. Donny is also cute, except for the dreadful haircut in the third pic. Zayn is a pass. Maybe under softer lighting he might look better. Alessandro is not too bad but he could look better in different facial expressions. Shemar’s face is not my type but his body is. Sean is cuter than shown these pics. I like him in Blank Space. Thom is also cute. I think some …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:23 PM
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More abortion means less men paying child support, so it is good! I say the government should even subsidize abortion and create fetal human stem cell farms to advance genetic research. In the future, there might be products made of fetal human stem cells we can consume to slow down aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:40 AM
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Aren’t they similar to feeders?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:58 AM
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Funny thing is that r/menslib is often hated by both mens' right/redpill subs and radical feminism subs, which means it's based. On a more serious note, I like that they attempt to avoid tribalism like "women bad" or "men bad." There are plenty of other subs that already espouse that kind of thoughts. I could only browse mensright and trp, or twox and fds so much before getting bored with the contents. r/menslib lands somewhat between these two sides. And if I look hard enough, I could find post…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:16 PM
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Male sexual liberation could be when there is a way to satisfy male sexual needs without actually having sex. Maybe a drug that gives men that feeling of sexual gratification similar to actual sex. Or a pill that alter the nature of men to not having sexual drive anymore, while making them feel great with their sexless lives. Female sexual revolution allows women to have sex without consequences. Maybe male sexual revolution would allow men to be sexless without consequences. I would love to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:21 AM
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Thailand, 31M, gay but have a lot of straight friends. My country is undergoing social changes right now, but people here remain largely conservative and traditional. The biggest factor in dating here is social class and social hierarchy. Generally, people date in their own social classes and each class can have different behavior. Most people find their SO from their social circles, though OLD is gaining momentum and may be the most popular method among younger populations. Males are expected t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:34 AM
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Great point. There is a big problem when people, on all sides, are trying to use statistic to justify their arguments or hypothesis. When testing hypothesis with stat, the hypothesis must be clearly defined with clear context and must be falsifiable. For example, when it is said that women are liars. If people want to have statistics to support this, they have to clearly defined what counts toward being liar and what does not. The question of “how often” will also need to be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:56 AM
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From my observation of my friends, usually the relationship is already deteriorating or having some issues when cheating occurs. Anyway, I guess this is unpopular but I don’t want to remove temptation that my SO has to deal with. I don’t mind that my SO’s loyalty is being tested (not by me) in his daily life. I want to see that my SO remains loyal to me despite being surrounded by temptation. I want his reason not to cheat to be that “I really love my boyfriend,” not that “if I cheat, I will get…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:23 AM
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I won’t be in such a relationship where this mutual phone access is a thing. My current relationship does not follow this rule. Not following this rule does not mean I completely trust my SO. But unless I have a legitimate and substantial reason, I won’t ask to check his phone. I also doubt that mutual phone access is an effective deterrent from cheating. I might know he is a cheater sooner but he would still cheat. When I feel secure in my relationship, I don’t see a need for this rule. And I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:06 AM
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Heart disease/cancer will probably claim him before he finishes his sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:10 AM
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From the study: “Mating effort had also a large effect on voluntary singlehood, but contrary to our prediction, choosiness did not predict involuntary singlehood, but predicted membership in the between relationships and voluntary singlehood categories.” So I guess having a high standard alone is not so detrimental to your chance to find a relationship if you look for one. The study is more interesting than the article. The study suggests other stuff such as women significantly prefer to be sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:18 AM
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I am a gay guy. If the count reaches 4 digit then it might be a problem. I don’t mind too much when the count is high otherwise. I also don’t hook up with virgins as they are generally not great at sex, based from my experience. For LTR, this is not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:41 AM
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I am from third world country. Tourism is a net positive to the local population. It is responsibility of local population and local government to prevent destruction. Tourists may make some local people mad. But when tourists stop coming, local people starve and die, figuratively and literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:36 PM
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I see what you mean. After all, having sex with an ugly person is still better than not having sex ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:19 AM
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Nah. Being a good looking gay man will net you good looking gay men. Average or ugly gay men can still get sex but mostly from average or ugly gay men. Generally, good looking gay men wouldn’t fuck average or ugly gay men. At least from my experience, gay sexual partners are mostly look-matched. There are some exceptions in some bdsm/kink/fetish scenes or in bathhouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:00 AM
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Lol I love transracial stuff because people from many sides are so triggered by it. Transracial people are either trolls or mentally ill, similar to otherkin people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:30 PM
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Lol this is hilarious. It is an example of what feminists often call fragile masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:03 PM
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Thanks for sharing. It is obvious that there is significant difference, but lets do some statistical analysis to double check. First, lets use the original data of 1004 undergrads and test if the difference in being sexually active vs inactive among the two genders is statistically significant. Using Pearson's chi-squared test, we calculate chi-square statistic to be ~16.85 which corresponds to p-value of 0.00004. So, the difference is indeed very statistically significant. Now, if we use the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:53 AM
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Go for gay audience but state clearly that he is straight. Many gay guys have this delusion that they could have sexual relationships with straight guys. So this is where he could cash it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:27 AM
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My day gets better after seeing this. Men should totally get behind this trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:23 AM
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I agree and disagree. Yes, I agree that studies can be flawed and applying statistical trends derived from samples to an individual level or a population level can be erroneous. Really I see many people here misinterpreted statistical results. I doubt people generally understand statistical hypothesis testing used for inference. However I don’t think that people’s feeling of hopelessness is invalid. Each attempt to attain possibility of success comes with costs, be it time, money, or effort. Aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:29 AM
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Pornography Consumption and Attitudes Towards Pornography Legality Predict Attitudes of Sexual Equality Abstract: Some scholars argue that the existence of pornography is an ongoing assault on women and that it should be banned. However, the existing evidence suggests the connection between pornography consumption and sexism is overstated and may actually run in the opposite direction. Using data from the General Social Survey (2010–2018), the current study investigated if “pornography consumpti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:08 AM
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lol this is dramatic. I only believe half of these things in your first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:04 PM
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Nah. I think people are responsible for their own actions. If men lust after women, then men are responsible for that action of their own. Natural inclination makes it difficult for men not to lust but it does not eliminate men’s agency of their own actions. Just like how a smoker’s brain drives a person to continue smoking. It is still not a cigarette shop’s fault if a smoker purchases cigs from the store and eventually gets cancer, even when the store promotes its products publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:23 AM
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Have fun! My SO and I went canoeing during our first trip. It was a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:21 AM
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I will try to address line by line on my phone. I agree that average women have more sexual and relationship options than average men do. I disagree with this red pill maxim, regarding riding CC. Specifically I doubt whether many women actually do this or not. I don’t necessarily agree that women’s n counts don’t matter, since this is each individual’s preference. The count matters to some and doesn’t to others, and neither of them is wrong. Ignoring the CC part which I disagree. The question is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:49 AM
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When I think about my identity, I see many parts in it. Some parts are integral to my identity and others are less so. Some parts are solidly settled into my identity, and other parts are forming or about to be changed. When it comes to relationships which I take seriously, I am willing to compromise, alter, and "sell" those parts of my identity that are not integral and not solidly set. And in my current relationship, the reward for this "sacrifice" is well worth it so far. When it comes to jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:02 AM
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Thailand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:39 AM
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My close friend wants to marry his girlfriend but he cannot afford to pay the “bride price” to her parents. The price is around 40k in USD, excluding wedding rings and other gifts he needs to offer to her parents. Luckily for him, his girlfriend leans a bit liberal and feminist, at least compared to a very conservative population in my country. So she is also paying half of the bride price. So I guess in next year I am going to be one of his groomsmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:47 AM
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The number of mosquitoes alone is going to be painful lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:22 AM
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Not the case for me. If I feel extra horny or I have not had sex for a long time, like a month, I start to develop raw sexual attraction toward men below my usual standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:16 AM
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This sub also makes me glad that I am gay haha. It’s not that straight people suck, but all these messes that revolve around heterosexual dating/relationship/sex landscape are just too much for me. They all sound over complicated and so contentious. It is almost like there is so much distrust between two genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:19 AM
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Officially, pornography is illegal in my country. But government officials are so bad at banning it. So, I just click on a third entry, rather than the first or the second, when I Google it. And they don’t even ban Twitter which has tons of porn, because they run government propaganda on there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:45 AM
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DAE not seeing issues with women having different standards for vetting hot guys vs average guys? To me, it’s a risk vs reward thing. Hot guys are a big reward, so they may be worth the higher risk to lower some vetting standards. On the other hand, I don’t see why women would risk themselves for a mediocre reward that is an average man or just slightly above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:37 AM
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Oh we pretty much worship big thick dicks, especially among bottoms. But there is such a thing as too big of a dick. Some gay guys really overestimate how big of a dick they can take. As a top I don’t care too much about my partner’s size, like I am not going to say no to a hot guy with a 4 inch one. But bigger is simply more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:32 PM
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Men should be allowed to financially abort to the same extent as how women are allowed to abort. For example, in a state with heartbeat restriction for abortion, men are allowed to financially abort only before heartbeat is detected. In some states, men will have to undergo counseling and endure a waiting period between pre-financial abortion counseling and actual abortion, just like how women have to deal with when they want to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:24 AM
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This happened before in my country when a military coup occurred. Note that social media banned included Reddit. I was annoyed to say the least lol. People still found a way to talk online though. The social media ban was eventually lifted by the dictatorial military regime. I’ve heard that soldiers that carried out social media blackout were complaining to their commanders about the social media blackout and the pressure was mounting from every side. So they eventually gave up on total ban and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:55 AM
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True. I lowered my standard once and I got punched in my eye. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:49 AM
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I am a gay guy and I think he is hot. Lol. It is also amazing how camera angles and lighting can make so much difference. Edit: those delts 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:16 AM
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Run. Never fight a mad cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:18 AM
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The level of trust I have on a person depends on so many factors, such as information I gather, observation I make when meeting them, our conversations and actions, and so on. When my trust is not absolute, I make a contingency plan. For example, back when I was hooking up with various strangers, questions back in my mind were like “will he murder or rob me” and eventually I had to decide if I would go through with the hookup. So, I usually searched or checked the place where we would meet befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:11 AM
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Here are some papers I found. Note that I have not carefully read through them, so I cannot comment on their validity. ​ Title: The Relative Health Benefits of Different Sexual Activities https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515329775 Abstract (shorten): Results: A wide range of better psychological and physiological health indices are associated specifically with penile–vaginal intercourse. Other sexual activities have weaker, no, or (in the cases of masturbation and an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:08 AM
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These kinds of men remind me of SJWs but it’s Sexual Justice Warriors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:45 AM
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In Thailand, a groom pays for a bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:19 AM
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Yep, I am happy with my life. I am happy with my career, my relationship, and other stuff. I am not red pilled or PUA though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:03 AM
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I would try to lose it ASAP. The more sex I have, the more I feel confident and comfortable in sex and the more I can explore and discover various kinds of sex that I love. I am also getting better at it, the more I have it. Like any skills, great sex can be improved with practice. Performance anxiety is pretty much gone now even meeting with a new partner, and it makes sex much more enjoyable once I am free of anxiety or insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:11 AM
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Both my partner and I are male. Our work is on-site. He travels to local areas for his work often. We both prefer commercial gyms. He has huge amount of friends and many large friend groups. I have smaller friend groups and large ones as well, but not as many friends as he has. Yes, currently has 6 fishes, a cat, and a dog. My boyfriend is an extrovert but I am an introvert. I like it this way because our traits complement each other. We both have some shared interests but we also have our own i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:16 AM
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There is still much room for discussion and debates even if everyone accepts that dating/sex/relationship scenes favor women due to nature of men and women. For example, people can argue about which ways are the best for navigating and making the best out of this situation. Or people can talk about social changes that may address or affect this imbalance. I will admit that I don’t see many debates in this sub and I read and participate here mainly for entertainment. But sometimes I find some com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:50 AM
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Aww this is both pathetic and funny. So small and yet so much rage, which reminds me my cat when she was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:37 AM
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Is there actually a warlike conflict between genders at large? Or does such conflict exist largely on certain corners of internet? It appears to me that inter-gender conflicts, when it comes to dating, are overblown online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:19 PM
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Compared to average income, the price of McD in Thailand is considered a bit expensive. Money you spend on a single McDonalds meal could buy you three meals of street food that are much more delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:19 PM
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Good to hear! The longer I am in the relationship, the less I see my boyfriend as an “asset” or a “thing”. Those words are simply insufficient for portraying him and our relationship. He is more than those words. Similarly I find the word “value” that is a lingo in the sub less and less relevant when it comes to our relationship. It does not mean I don’t value my boyfriend but it is just that his value is not so easily or objectively quantified. The concept of “market value” is becoming more lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:54 AM
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I guess these women are closeted furries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:48 AM
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Yep, politics can be deal breaker. I only date guys who are socially progressive and economically liberal. Being socially conservative or anti-LGBTQ is an immediate turn off, and so is being socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:00 AM
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Men, what motivates you to develop your career? Mostly money. Partially the fact that my career is actually pretty fun at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:27 AM
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If beauty is objective, then it must follow that criteria for beauty must not change at all when we change observers. Therefore, by existence of different criteria for beauty, even when such differences can be even minimal, the statement that beauty is objective is false, per contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:20 AM
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Why are you pretending that cheating in order to appear more attractive is putting effort into actually being more attractive? If you don't look like that day to day there's no point. I don't consider makeups as cheating. Since putting on makeup requires time, care, and experience and since makeup costs money, I consider using makeup an act of putting effort. In my mind, putting on makeup is not that different from putting on nice and stylish clothes. ​ Similarly, why don't you think that men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:49 AM
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It’s very hot when men turn into sluts. Werewolf is such a cute euphemism. In gay BDSM scene we call it a drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:52 AM
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Because dieting can be really difficult. I lost my weight and got lean and have abs and all that. The most difficult part was not weight lifting or cardio, but to have enough discipline to follow strict diets. There are reasons why the majority of Americans are fat. Also people are not educated on how to lose weight and get muscles. Some follows diet just to be skinny fat. Some gets stuck with their newbie gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:32 AM
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Definitely game changing. My body fat went from ~27% to ~14%. Ease of and quality of hookups significantly increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:57 AM
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When you swallow too many blue pills and become Disney-pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:38 AM
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Yep. I have spent half of my life in the US and another half in an Asian country. And in many ways, the US is just better. If I did not have my family and my close friends in my home country, I would attempt to move to the US already.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:04 PM
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This list actually looks reasonable to me. From your experience, do you think that your list is demanding/strict, compared to other women’s lists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:29 AM
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Alphas, Betas, and Incels: Theorizing the Masculinities of the Manosphere Abstract: Since the emergence of Web 2.0 and social media, a particularly toxic brand of antifeminism has become evident across a range of online networks and platforms. Despite multiple internal conflicts and contradictions, these diverse assemblages are generally united in their adherence to Red Pill “philosophy,” which purports to liberate men from a life of feminist delusion. This loose confederacy of interest groups, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:06 AM
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Generally, no. Let’s not increase the work load of cleaning crews after killings are done. Most attempts to protect will likely get men killed. On your specific questions, A) No. B) No. C) Maybe. It depends on how much chance the man gets, risks and degree of danger. The same goes for women in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:30 AM
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That thread about OP's schematic drawing of his dick is a reason why I love this sub. I thought I was browsing /r/askgaybros when I saw it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:18 PM
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8/10 (points deducted from long hair and a bit weird face) 9/10 in the shirtless pic since he has short hair there and the photo was taking from the side. Actual attractiveness will be lower since it is Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:50 AM
2

It will depend on which friend it is, how close I am with them, whether I am busy doing something else, and my mood. Generally it is considered rude in my social circles to suddenly show up unannounced, but I make exception for close friends and family. I would also feel weirded out because I live in a middle of nowhere. Even with exact address, it is still difficult to drive to my place. My address does not even show up on Google map.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:43 AM
4

And they say leg extension is inferior to squat, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:29 AM
95

People still significantly underestimate how much it takes for guys to reach their beauty standard. Even with PED, these actors/influencers/athletes still need very strict regimes of diets, workouts, and sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:58 AM
1

Folded deck chair, especially when lifting knees up during thrusting. Also, on rare occasions, bully position is great. This is gay sex btw lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:00 PM
10

I am a gay man, and my father definitely pushed gender roles on me. When I was young, my father reprimanded me any time I acted feminine. I guess that worked since I don’t act feminine in my adulthood, but I am still gay. But I can somewhat appreciate his push toward masculinity. Being forced to play various sport was helpful in the long run and pushed me toward fitness and better health. My handiwork skills are cost saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:36 AM
3

For reference, the full paper can be accessed here (pay-wall removed).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:55 AM
5

This makes sense and is in line with other studies . The data are pretty convincing, apart from possibility of selection bias. Any emotions they felt about their abortion waned over years, just like other events in their lives. Also from the study, women who felt regret after the first week after abortion were likely to be ones who perceived abortion stigma. This suggests that reducing abortion stigma may decrease the number of women feeling regret after the first week. This further supports pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:23 AM
1

Based Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:28 AM
13

From what I have read, studies and evidence that TRP claims to support their arguments are not strong enough to substantiate their claims. This does not mean TRP is incorrect but so far the evidence fails to convince me otherwise. This probably has something to do with my bias against psychology/evolutionary psychology or basically any “soft” science as a field. And of course from my observations and interactions with people, generalizations from TRP match with my experience less than half the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:10 PM
72

As a gay man, casual sex is easy, yes, but this will actually depend on how good looking you look/your dick size (if you are a top) and how picky you are. Ugly or average gay guys are not picky, but as you aim for more and more attractive guys, their pickiness rises significantly. I figure some guys avoid dealing with this selectivity by buying sex. My bi boyfriend told me that in his experience the most demanding group is not good looking women but those attractive gay guys who realize that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:22 AM
3

I have skimmed the paper and the data are not that convincing. First, the assumption of bimodal distributions is not sufficiently supported. Other types of distribution could fit the data better. Second, the authors used different sampling populations for 2D:4D data and promiscuous/monogamous data. They also don’t provide any statistical analysis between the two populations, apart from some unsupported speculations. Third, the authors use chi-square tests for their analysis (in each sampling gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:55 AM
6

Is this just an elaborate trolling? I mean, this can’t be serious, right? This sub never ceases to entertain me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:14 AM
10

There is a female friend of mine who has recently married. While we live in a conservative country, she has some exposure to western culture, so I guess that she may be more liberal in some ways. I was curious and asked her how she determined how much dowry her husband had to pay her and her family before marriage. And she showed me an Excel spreadsheet that she used to calculate that. The equation was like 2.5 x salary + 9000 x age + 200k (for him being an executive) + other factors. And then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 09:33 AM
2

I don’t know. Relationships here are pretty much alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:26 AM
3

I would have plenty of options for casual sex right now if I weren’t in a LTR. But that is almost given since I am gay. Just before I committed to my current relationship, I had 3 fwbs and lots of “matches” that I would rate 7-9 out of 10. So, it was about 2-3 times of casual sex a week. 10/10 dudes were generally drama queens or size queens and weren’t worth the effort. LTR though, I didn’t have options since I did not care about LTR or romance, until I met my current boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:04 AM
6

Neither of them is swimming in riches. I mean, they are both public school teachers. I don't worry much about their possible divorce. We live in a rather conservative country and divorce rate here is much lower than in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:30 PM
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Not quite making assumptions but I do observe and see how they match with what people online say. I just went to a wedding celebration of one of my close friends yesterday. It was an amazing one and I couldn’t help but noticing the groom (my close friend) is probably the epitome of a bluepill guy. He is an extremely good, nice and respectful kind of a guy. The bride also mentioned that. He also said something along the line of letting the wife make household decisions in a joke lol. People here …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:49 AM
9

Not true for me. Before I am in the current LTR, I got a lot of casual sex, like twice a week. Being a fuckboy gets boring after a while, and I ended up looking for something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:44 AM
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As a gay man, I find this interesting and funny. Yes, casual sex is easy but there are some gay guys who swear they could not get laid. It will strongly depend on your looks. I feel like some people here don’t realize how terrible guys can be once they realize they can choose and have options. Also good luck getting anything serious once your guy finishes. Cold approach can be challenging, considering some straight guys you hit on may take offense and become violent. STD is also rather prevalent…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:05 AM
2

1.)Have you ever been catfished? Have you known someone who has this happened to? Have you ever been the person to do this, if so why? Yes, welcome to gay dating. Attributes guys have catfished me: dick size, weight, height, mascularity, dating preference, being masc/fem, how much they deadlift, age, marriage/relationship status, "I can host"/"I live alone", HIV status (yes I sometimes check), and so on. I never catfish though; it wastes everyone's time. 2.)Do you think one gender is more suscep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:30 PM
12

A guy in a relationship with guy here. I could not seriously come up with one tbh. Before I was in a relationship, I already have a lot of casual sex with many hot guys. If I break up with my bf today, I could get one hot dude for casual sex by tomorrow. Casual sex loses its thrill of chase once n count reaches certain value. I am pretty happy with my current job and money. Own a house and a car and live in a middle class lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:21 PM
5

Two people civilly discussing divisive topics and disagreeing? Impossible! Seriously, I skim through it and I like the talk so far. I probably agree more with your friend but I am less post modernist than him. I find both of you making good points, even when sometimes I disagree with both of you haha. I like the discussion about The Selfish Gene. It is one of my favorite books that I am critical of. I think there is some degree of biological determination to our individual behaviors and social t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:56 AM
2

If this is how most relationships are, I am glad my relationship is an exception. My SO and I discussed expectations early and as our relationship progressed we talked more and compromised on some. I guess it helps that we were both content with our single lives and got our needs fulfilled before we met. The idea that relationships are just exchange of goods and services might be technically true but it is such a joyless take. I am happy that I found my love before I was too active in Reddit, ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 02:43 AM
2

My own experience is more of option 1. Not necessarily for growing and being more mature, but to forget about my ex and to enjoy freedom to have casual sex again. My best friend, on the other hand, is more of option 2. He quickly dated girls within a few weeks after break up. Most of girls he dated were in his social circles and not random girls on streets or apps. It did not work out well for three ex-girlfriends of his but his current relationship works fine and they plan to marry in a few yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:28 AM
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Of course guys who don’t care aren’t deterred. But the defensive stance, compared to welcoming stance, will decrease the number of approaches from guys who actually care about whether women want to be approached or not. So on average the defensive stance will result in less approaches since some guys will be deterred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:34 PM
7

Male 31 Irrelevant, since I am gay. But based on takes I agree/disagree, I’m blue-purple pilled. In LTR, 1.5 years so far. Drama and entertainment. Automoderator
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:21 AM
1

Do it, OP. After I lost weight, my success increased significantly. I also recommend working out as well so you look a bit more muscular than skinny fat when you reach your weight goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:13 AM
3

From what I’ve heard from my straight male and bi male friends and from my own experience, casual sex is much easier for gay guys. Before I was in a serious relationship, on average I hooked up with two different guys weekly. Considering that the majority of men are fat, you would be already above average if you stay in shape when hooking up with men. The bar for casual sex is very low lol. Just watch out for the crazies though. High std rate is also something to be aware of. When it comes to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:30 AM
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