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How is it entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:10 PM
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Where does it say he deserves it? He didn't say she should've sucked his dick on the first date just that it bothered him that she didn't. Knowing that she did it with someone else makes him feel like the other guy had something that he didn't. That's insecurity, not entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:59 PM
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I mean alright doesn't mean "no problems" it just means alright. If I tell someone I'm having an "alright week" it means that things have been more or less okay this week, not outright terrible but not great either. When I say the average guy (in my experience) is doing alright, that usually means ups and downs, with some lulls here and there. Whether someone agrees with that being "alright" is subject to opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:58 PM
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I'm trying to figure out where the entitlement is, unless there's more to this that I'm not seeing He said it bothered him that she didn't suck his dick on the first date when she did with someone else Is he being insecure about it with regards to thinking that the other guy is above him for that fact? Yeah But that's not the same as being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:45 PM
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Ehh im a guy with guy friends, and as far as I can tell the average guy is doing alright with regards to dating. Do they have issues? Yeah, but they're nowhere near as bad as some of the guys here would make it out to be. It also depends on what you mean by "alright". A guy thats constantly in and out of relationships, is probably successful to some, but I'd be remiss to say he's doing "alright" just because he has 4 different short-term relationships within 3 months that amounted to nothing whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:27 PM
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Why is anything more important than anything else? They believe that's the issue, a refusal to agree/admit that isn't validating or addressing their issues it's acknowledging a different issue altogether. "Slaves have worse lives than free white people, because slavery is inherently bad" Vs "Well I don't think slaves have it worse but there are some issues we can acknowledge about slavery" Are not the same thing. And the difference and importance of that difference is gonna mean different things…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:40 AM
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My issues regarding dating? No one in particular, don't really have many dating issues that need validating to begin with Issues in general? I tend to like when my close friends and family validate some of the issues I have in life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:09 AM
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why do men want us to validate wining the oppression awards? What prize do they get? ... People Like When Their Issues Are Validated Again, it’s not just acknowledging problems exist — it’s acknowledging that it’s worse. Why is it important that it’s worse ? Because things being worse is their issue. Regardless of whether you think it is worse or not, their problem is "men have it worse" not just "men also have some problems
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:06 AM
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When people have an issue perceived or not, agreement of the issue validates it. People like/prefer when their issues are validated If a person's perceived issue is "men just naturally have it harder in dating" whether it's true or not, agreeing provides validation to the issue, refer again to my early statement: People like/prefer when their issues are validated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:48 AM
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Then the answer is still just as simple, if not more so, people want to feel validated in their issues (perceived or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:23 AM
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For the sake of this conversation are we assuming "men have it harder in dating" is a reality? If we are the answer is simple, people don't like being lied to. If "men have it harder in dating" is the true reality then people that say otherwise are just outright lying to you which just makes you feel shittier. For example, let's say I remind my nephew that his grandmother's (my mother) birthday is coming up and the only thing she asks for is a nice call from her grandson. And the day of, I ask h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:56 PM
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Right, but I'm answering for myself not other men The matter of who initiated the divorce and how it came about is kinda immaterial with regards to the decision that I'm making If everything about the two women is more or less the same like you said and I have to pick one, then I'm gonna pick the woman that is more similar to me. Woman B has been married, I have not been married nor do I have plans to be anytime soon. So we have a fundamentally different view and background regarding relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:25 PM
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Does that matter? My focus isn't the divorce it's the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:38 PM
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A I've never been married and generally don't have plans for marriage in the near future. There's nothing wrong with a divorced woman, but there's cleary a divide in how we approach marriage and commitment considering she's already been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:21 AM
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I like that I don’t have an outward organ that can get snagged on things or bitten or kicked. ... Your skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:17 AM
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Fun for the novelty, but not much else. Don't get me wrong, strip clubs combine two really fun things: booze and tits. And that's great every once and while. But unless you're into the whole tease and showy aspect of it's not much different than just going out to a regular club.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:13 AM
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I generally kinda expect that I'm gonna pay for the whole thing beforehand, so when a date insists on splitting my reaction is pretty much "oh, cool". A girl in high school asked me out for coffee once and said she'd pay. But I said "we can just go Dutch" and she seemed confused and asked what I meant. At first i thought It came across as rude, but she just didn't know what "Going Dutch" meant (that is also when I realized "going Dutch" was not nearly as common a phrase as I thought). She seemed…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 AM
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Yup, must've been a "we just need to get it out of the house" kinda thing. Something that big, that doesn't look too banged up, could probably sell for atleast like $40-50
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:27 PM
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Pretty good deal for $26 One of my friends has a similar smaller one that I think her mom bought her for like $65
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:02 PM
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Not really Being scared of being in a dead bedroom is like being scared i might get hit by a car walking to work. Definitely possible but not to an extent that I'm actively worrying about it Once you’re married and have kids, it’s most likely she’ll stop having sex with you. Now what? I don't want kids, so there's that Now the sex is gone, but you still have a partner that loves you. Isn’t it better than being lonely again? Is it better than being single? Yes Is being single inherently lonely an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:15 AM
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Entertainment (n). - the action of providing or being provided with amusement or enjoyment. Now I can't speak for you personally, but I think most people tend to enjoy being sexually aroused and reaching orgasm There's a reason why it's called Adult Entertainment That's not why people watch movies, obviously. ... Exhibit A Exhibit B Exhibit C - They made 3 of these btw and the first one grossed over 560 million dollars in the box office on a budget of 50 million and im gonna go out on a limb and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:04 PM
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They watch it for one reason only. Don't be shy, I'm curious what is that one reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:51 AM
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Damn I also really like Breaking Bad, so I guess I need to bust out my old chemistry set and start slinging crystal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:39 AM
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You'd think that with how much people love John Wick movies they'd be more okay with dating violent assassins or watching people get shot and killed in real life But surprisingly that isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:11 AM
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One time me and my friends went to one of our usual spots to drink and dance. One of the girls dancing on the main floor had really nice hair, nothing too complex just a fluffy afro but it looked nice and at the time I was in the process of growing out my own hair so I was kinda interested I walked/danced up to her and her friends dancing and told her hair was "cool as hell" (verbatim) and I asked her what types of product she uses to get it like that. She appreciated the compliment and we talke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:22 AM
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I'm not sure, best guess is that it'd be expedited. But so long as LeBron's legacy isn't affected i think things will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:29 PM
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Don't worry, I have a libertarian/anarcho-capitalism cap as well: "The abolition of government oversight and regulation permits any and everything under the basis of absolute autonomy, so bring on the unregulated prostitution and child labor"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:11 PM
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I'll put on my commie cap and say: "Any worker under capitalism is fundamentally not seen as human"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:46 PM
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If it happens once and it's just a small thing they like to do, like "Oh you're a libra, they're really compatible with Gemini". I wouldn't mind it's slightly endearing at best and harmless fun at worst. If they're really into astrology and like tracking star signs and whatever for fun that's fine too it's just a hobby/interest, but I personally am not that into it. If they're so into astrology that it dictates their life and interactions with others, that's pseudo-religious fanaticism and I'm p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:24 AM
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There's probably a bathtub/shower and a sink in your bathroom. After you take a piss, do you use the sink to wash your hands or do you run the bathtub faucet/shower head to wash your hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:35 PM
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It usually takes people who grow up abused longer to realize it’s not just abnormal but unacceptable. Some are never convinced Yes and that is a very real factor that I think merits serious discussion. I think that people that have been raised with and near abuse internalize that behavior and normalize it, and manifest it in several destructive and self-destructive ways through both action and inaction. See that's a conversation im more than willing to have and likely would've if you lead with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:28 AM
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Ehh my liking has got nothing to do with it If they choose to stay in abusive relationship, while exposing their children to it, for upwards to 15 years they're free to do so Likewise I'm free to pass judgement on the situation If abuse is on the table, violence is likely gonna be a component even if you decide to stay so there's that. And if things like money, custody, and housing are serious ramifications for withdrawal then I refer to my first comment: After 15 years that's not "benefit of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:15 PM
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Barking up the wrong tree, I'm not staunchly anti single mom like some guys are here If kids are involved all the more reason to leave if you know your partner is abusive, God forbid they see it happening and assume that's the norm or worse yet that abuse is turned towards them So miss me with the "staying together for the kids" bullshit, that's something you say when you start to drift away from your partner romantically but want the stability of a family unit, not something you say when actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:38 PM
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After 15 years that's not "benefit of the doubt" at that point you've double, triple, and quadrupled down on a bad decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:23 PM
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It's grateful, not greatful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:07 AM
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Sounds like you just have shitty friends Hang out with better people and this stops becoming a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:25 PM
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Abortion benefits men so I genuinely fail to understand the moral objection it. Isn't that more of a pragmatic reason and not a moral one? That would be like saying: Stealing from rich people benefits poor people so I fail to understand the moral objection to stealing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:33 AM
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I love my mom and I think my relationship with her is amazing. She raised me and my sisters by herself after my dad passed away when I was young. She's easily one of the greatest people I know (although I do have a heavy bias). She is kind, nurturing, hardworking, affable, confident, smart, resilient and so much more. She definitely wasn't perfect though, she can be stubborn, paranoid, and a little judgemental. And I'd say she made some mistakes here and there when it came to parenting, but she …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:07 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment, but it's not really necessary. I know that some women are into it, some don't really care, and some are completely against it. The women in the last category are just women that I know by default I'm not compatible with, no harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:44 AM
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I mean I don't necessarily blame her for not being the most secure about that, like I mentioned things were less than ideal. But even then, her feelings regarding it never really affected my own feelings toward my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 AM
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Yeah, I've already figured out that a good chunk of women (not all) can't vibe with bi men from personal experience. Even if they were already into the guy before they found out he was bi No judgements from me, preferences are preferences. If anything that experience made me more proactive about making it clear that I'm bi early in the dating period to save the hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:30 AM
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Told her I was bi This was back in high school before I even fully came out to my family, aside from her I only told a couple of close friends. Thought it wouldn't be a problem, I still liked girls and I still liked her. Unfortunately for me she did not see it that way. Having said that, looking back at the relationship afterwards it was less than ideal. And I think that a breakup from either one of us was probably coming regardless. I just think it's kinda funny that it ended on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:33 AM
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If you're using their physical appearance and nothing to else to make an appraisal of their character/personality, that is the same superficial behavior that you described. And you used buff men as an example How many buff men do you know are buff that didn't choose to be? You also used nerd as an example. What exactly does a nerd look like to you and how much of what constitutes what a nerd looks like is inherent and immutable? Do nerds not choose to look like nerds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:24 PM
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No I really don't, it's still appearance based. Anyone can wear any kind of clothing there's no rule saying only "women of the night" can wear revealing clothing She may see a buff man and immediately say he's full of himself, condescending, etc. How is judging someone based on what they wear any less shallow than this? If someone sees a woman in revealing clothing and their mind goes straight to "she's for the streets" it's the exact same line of thinking. They took physical appearance and extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:15 PM
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People judge each other off appearances all the time, nothing inherently wrong with that. To assume men don't do so just kind of sounds like bullshit to me. Doesn't help that to justify this you have to build an exception in your explanation to make it work. For example he first sees a woman and says she has a butt, boobs, etc. He doesnt make assumptions on her personality. Unless she's wearing something obviously revealing. This is basically just saying "Men don't judge a woman's character base…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:03 PM
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I'd assume it depends on how "brown" he is, he could probably pass for hispanic or "swarthy/tanned" white, if none were the wiser Regardless I'm reading him lying about his ethnicity and being shunned for being brown as two independent things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:44 PM
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He said he lied about his ethnicity not his race, ethnicity and race are not the same thing I am racially black, in the sense that I look like what people assume a black person would look like. But I'm ethnically different than black people in Nigeria, even though we look phenotypically similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:29 PM
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Depends on how you define better Seems like a lot for work for diminishing returns in my opinion. But maybe I'm just too lazy to lie I also don't think it's anything particularly special about modern dating that incentivizes lying. People were probably lying about a bunch of shit to get sex and dates in my dad's generation too. Having said that, I will say that lying while not necessarily stable in the long term, can definitely work if you're willing to do so. But at that point you're catching w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:06 PM
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I think the cheater and the person they cheat with are both scumbags in my eyes, unless the person doesn't know they have a partner. The cheater is just a bigger scumbag. They don't hold any "responsibility" for the relationship dissolving. So I'm not gonna call them a "homewrecker" or some shit but I am definitely gonna lose all of my respect for them and think they are a shitty human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:18 PM
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I think both parties should be willing to pay early on. Or you work it out to whoever insisted the date pays. But with that in mind, I'd say that guys should probably go in with the expectation that they are likely going to be the one to pay on the first date, and should plan around that accordingly. It saves a lot of hassle, and worst case scenario you're doing what you've already planned to do. Or best case she insists to pay and you're pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:23 PM
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"There's more than one way to skin a cat, some methods just happen to be messier than others" That's pretty much the sentiment. If a person is goal oriented and don't particularly care how they accomplish said goal morality can and likely will take a back seat. Which makes sense since morality only has as much value as an individual places into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:50 AM
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Then... ask if they have steak. Do you go to a restaurant without telling your waiter what you want and just say "get me whatever" when you really want steak and then get confused when they give you chicken? If it matters that much, you can ask or walk away. Personally for me, I like chicken and steak, so it's not something I'm gonna be pressed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:13 AM
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Ehh closed mouths don't get fed. If a person wants to know that badly they'd ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:24 AM
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Gotcha, I was a little confused there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:58 PM
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Umm okay, I'm not sure what that has to do with what I said though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:46 PM
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Isn't that the point though? To actively vet and weed out people that are gonna have hang ups about the "equipment"? For example I'm bi, and from personal experience some women don't really vibe with that. Which is fine, it's their preference. Now if I'm pursuing/dating a woman for all intense purposes for that dynamic I'm functionally straight. So I could easily just lie and say I'm straight, and for all she knows unless she's asking or checking around I am. But I can save myself a lot of poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:36 PM
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I hear the wall is surprisingly beautiful in a brutal, horrible uncomfortable sort of way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:03 AM
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I feel like it has less to do with her being a woman, and more to do with her just being an insufferable and manipulative piece of shit. I will say she's definitely validating the age old advice of: "Don't mess with those white women"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:04 AM
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Kind of just forgot about her, is she still in jail? When the story first came out I remember a lot of articles called/compared her "The Modern Carolyn Bryant". The other thing I remember was she was apparently rolling her eyes at the trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:53 AM
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Every time you approach a woman, every time you date one, you're picking up a tab....a tab for OTHER men, for the things OTHER men, have said and done. Doesn't that piss you off sometimes? Not really. If anything it's more of a problem for the women, so it's not really going to have a direct effect on me. And most of the effects that do pertain to me are pretty circumstantial, so they aren't really that pressing either. Some women think men aren't shit, just means that they're women I should avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:35 PM
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Dude I said knock yourself out What are you trying to convince me for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:39 AM
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If things aren't moving along how you prefer, I see nothing wrong with respectfully disengaging. If you decide that in all of 10 seconds of first contact, good for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:37 AM
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If you're a homebody, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:33 AM
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Most people i know usually talk to their date and hang out after the movie is over Crazy as that might seem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:21 AM
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First few minutes? Seems pretty extreme, but other than that I don't really disagree. If things aren't moving along how you prefer, I see nothing wrong with respectfully disengaging. Some times the best bet is just getting up and walking away from the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:48 PM
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Right, so this evens things out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:42 PM
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Ehh how do you know I'm being hypocritical? My world view could be morally consistent with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:18 PM
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Seems pretty fair to me The men get to complain about a quality they don't like in women And the women get to complain about a quality they don't like in men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:02 PM
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So if they can flippantly shame women for their sexual history, regardless of it being based in fact, why is it wrong when women do the same? I said it seemed fair. No judgements from me, they should carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:47 PM
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So the men get to keep calling women "sluts" and "whores" and now the women get to call the men "virgins" and "incels" Honestly that seems fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:36 PM
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He certainly is dedicated, ill give him that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:23 AM
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I mean the whole disappearing messages and UI can be wonky, so that I get. But to me it literally does not matter how someone chooses to contact me, even more so if they're not even gonna be calling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:23 PM
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If enough men are insecure/ or cater to the perception, and have daughters teaching them to behave as such then you have created a society in which women are oppressed. They are already shamed enough already. Essentially you get a light version of Saudi Arabia. That is an extreme comparison you're making, I don't think a contingent of men that slut shame women and don't want to date them is the light form of sharia law. But that's just me. You cant take out insecurity/social male perception from…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:16 PM
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Most people i know who still use snap just use it because it's an easy enough way to contact people. I text people through my phone, Facebook messenger, Snapchat, Instagram, etc. There's no rhyme or reason to it, I just use whatever is easier with regards to who I'm contacting and what I'm contacting them about If I'm that pressed to contact someone I would just call them, what difference does it make what app/means I use to text them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:06 PM
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This is analogous to saying I just want to neglect my children and wife all day playing video games. No it really it isn't It'd be analogous to a person that doesn't want kids because they don't like the responsibility of having to raise them, deciding to stop seeing someone that wants kids. It's disengaging from a relationship that you know makes you uncomfortable due a significant incompatibility. You realize you haven't provided me a reason ? Why does there need to be a reason? Why can't it j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:54 PM
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Do you understand that probably about 50 to 65 percent of men hold that view especially conversative? No, but I'm not really shocked that conservatives have conservative values Do you realize how that coerce women to behave ? Yes I would like that to stop Like I said we could do less with the shaming language, coercion, and moral grandstanding. Bur get rid of that and I don't see a problem. If they don't want to be in relationships with these women that's fine, that's for them to make a decision…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:12 PM
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I agree about the overt attacks and shaming language, definitely could do with a lot less of that, more often than not it just comes off as whiny. And the whole "sending society on a decline by spreading your legs" is just superficial moral grandstanding. But I really don't see a problem with guys not wanting to date or continue relationships with women that they don't see themselves as compatible with. For example: I've asked men would you like a woman with a high body count or a woman who's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:49 PM
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Disagree, finding friends that you care about and who care about you is a easier than finding a long-term partner that is actually great for you imo (depending on the type of person I guess).. There is way less to juggle and manage when making friends than there is in picking a partner, and most of the stuff required to be a good friend will be required for a partner, but not vice versa. For example, "am I attracted to them" is not really a question that I need to ask when making friends, but is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:43 PM
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Depends on how you define argument. If you think of an argument as a full on shouting match that ends with tears and hurt feelings, then having none of those wouldn't necessarily be a problem. But if you see an argument as disagreeing on something while still maintaing your compusure and decorum, then yeah that might be cause for concern if that never occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:04 PM
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I get you, no one likes not being believed when they're telling the truth. It's not unbelievable but even an open-minded person loses nothing by being a little skeptical Having said that truth and honesty can be more flexible than a lot of people like to believe. Like I said it's not just you I don't know, I don't know her or the setup of the relationship as a whole. I can take what you say at face value, but there's still a whole other side that I would have to take into account with regards to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:48 AM
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No, but most people only have the context of what they've experienced firsthand and what they've seen. Do I think it's impossible that someone "just wouldn't care"? No not at all, far more improbable things have happened. Hell there's a whole kink that involves getting off to that type of thing, so a neutral/indifferent response isn't that much of a stretch. But I don't know how the relationship started, who either you are as people, and what the actual dynamic of that relationship looked liked.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:16 AM
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I have no idea why this dynamic is so hard for people to believe, it doesn't seem that crazy to me. A dynamic that exists outside of the norm, one that most people would neither experience firsthand nor see regularly secondhand... Yeah, I've got no clue why some people would think that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:55 AM
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Make everyone bi Can't say for sure how positive it would be, but it'd probably be funny and interesting to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:48 PM
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Great, then stop posting these think pieces explaining why no one cares and simply just don't give them attention. It acchomplishes the exact same thing, at a fraction of the effort. Especially when you should know (and for as long as you've been here and as smart as you make yourself out to be, you do know) that they don't give a shit about your opinion. But I guess you (specfically) don't get to feel relevant to the conversation and throw in your "it truly is sad" attitude if you do, and we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:16 AM
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I mean whatever floats your boats. All I said was "just waiting for the fun to begin" Just seems excessive and disjointed to talk about your relationship status in regards to my response that really had nothing to do with that. There was nothing you needed to reaffirm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:22 PM
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Ahh, so why are you bringing up your relationship status?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:09 PM
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Why are you bringing up your relationship status? Do you think this is a personal attack on you? I meant for the thread, because sentences like the one I highlighted tend to rouse and stir the pot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:04 PM
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Oh I'm not disagreeing, just waiting for the fun to begin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:50 PM
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Relationships are overall easy for most women to find; doubly so if you're under 35 Oh boy 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:26 PM
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Orange
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:51 PM
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No shade, but this is definitely how my older sister would decorate a place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:12 PM
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With regards to how it would affect dating? Couldn't hurt It probably sits at a neutral more often than not, but it can be beneficial. Indirectly, you'll likely have more opportunities to meet people through them. They might also give you insight into what girls want, which can be helpful if your pursuing someone else. If you're actively trying to date or hookup with a girl, it can be a good thing for her to know that you're capable of socializing with women and that other women actually enjoy y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:10 PM
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We live in a bloody swamp! We need all the land we can get!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:09 AM
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Who says I'm not criticizing her? Lead with violence, expect violence (often times disproportionate) to come back to you. The fact that she didn't understand that makes her a fucking dumbass and that punch was probably a wake up call. I don't think it's "based as fuck" it's the expected reality of the situation. I don't fault the guy for responding the way he did, she initiated violence he responded in kind. Doesn't mean I like watching shit like that happen. I want people to calm down and keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:13 AM
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Sounds based as fuck to me. Ehh this was a teachable moment imo, nothing more nothing less. I'd rather situations like this be avoided. I can't blame the guy for reacting to violence with violence, but it's not something I'm gonna praise either. Women need to learn that if they assault men they should expect to get assaulted back. Fair but a good chunk of people need to learn this not just women. There are plenty of guys that don't know how to chill the hell out and not initiate a violent situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:46 AM
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I remember in high school this one girl walked up to a guy at lunch and slapped the shit out of him. Apparently she was friends with his ex-girlfriend and they broke up because she cheated on her, so she was on a crusade to "fuck him up" for it. After the slap, he got up and punched her in the face, and she had to leave school because she had a bloody nose and a minor concussion. Personally i think the amount of force he used in response was pretty excessive. And he did end up getting suspended …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:32 AM
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I assume not because he put if she fucks like a pornstar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:24 PM
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No not really Depending on the act/kink it might paint a picture that I might not enjoy, but in that case I'm not really "upset" that I didn't get to do it with them I'm more so taken aback by the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:44 PM
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Couples oftentimes have discussions relating to pregnancy both before and when it occurs. And yes the man may have some input in the decision making process that may sway their partner one way or another. But at the end of the day whether the baby will be carried to term is a decision made and carried out solely by the person carrying it. That's literally the whole point of the pro-choice movement and the mantra of "my body, my choice". If a woman wants to abort their baby, and their partner wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:40 AM
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So once they get pregnant how is not literally a unilateral decision going forward as to whether or not the baby will be carried to term?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:26 AM
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No, what you’re saying is that the consequences of having sex disproportionately fall on women, Do they not? They're literally the ones that are getting pregnant...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:20 AM
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It seems like you've got some stuff to sift through, so best thing is to just go after what you want and figure out if you actually want it. I won't make a case for or against marriage in a general sense because that is a whole different can of worms. But there seems to be a desire there for you that is being tempered by expectations and anxieties regarding an area that you haven't been involved with on a healthy level as much, which is fair. If you're feeling like your in a position where casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:08 AM
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Drug Addicts By whom? I live in a city where there is a pretty serious heroin epidemic and while some people are compassionate there are plenty of people that ignore the issue and go as far as to say "serves them right, they knew the risks of shooting up and now they're facing the consequences". In a similar vein there is a homelessness issue and yeah some people feel bad, but it's not hard to find someone say "Whatever, I just don't want to see them on my streets". Doesn't really scream "genero…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:28 AM
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It happened once with a girl I was dating in high school. We'd only been going out for like a month and she wanted to have sex. I wasn't really feeling it though, kind of felt too fast. How did she react? She broke up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:55 AM
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Not particularly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:24 PM
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Im not saying it’s not a legitimate response, it is illogical though to not try to voice your thoughts with this woman. Why? Why would they have to voice their thoughts to her? Why would not doing so be illogical if they've already determined that they no longer want to be in the relationship? Especially since you’ve spent time together, she was honest. Okay and? Though, if there was a way to ask early on, would you have dated her? That depends on the person Or if she was having sex with you, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:17 PM
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Why? If I know that something is going to make me irritated or is irritating me. And I have the option to avoid the irritation why wouldn't I choose that? It's not an illogical answer, just a simpler one. If like you said the only factor that a person is looking at is: "did this woman have sex quickly before she met me” And the answer to that is no, why prolong things any longer if that is a factor that is important to them, regardless of whether it's based in insecurity or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:08 PM
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Sure insecurity can be illogical, but the way you process and deal with it can very much be logical. If anything, if a person is aware of their insecurity whether that be on a conscious or subconscious level. And factors that into their preferences and appraisal, that to me sounds pretty logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:56 PM
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You are considering your own feelings Exactly My own feelings. As an individual I have a unique set of beliefs, opinions, experiences, and values that can be very similar or drastically different than another person's. Just because I weigh different things in coming to a conclusion doesn't make my process anymore logical, just more complex. A person that says: “did this woman have sex quickly before she met me”. Is probably viewing things from a different perspective than me and is going about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:45 PM
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Not really imo, it's no more logical than some of the responses I've seen that speak to the contrary. For example u/Barely-Moral has a different outlook than me but I wouldn't say the way he views things is less logical. My response and method just comes off as more "normal" so people are more likely to agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:02 PM
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How i feel about the relationship? How slow things are moving in comparison to how fast I would like them to move? What kind of intimacy we're having outside of sex? Etc It's not really a one size fits all kind of thing and not something I'm consciously thinking of more often than not. I feel things out as I go and move accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:56 PM
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I'd assume that it's dependent on the person in question and what they see as "acceptable". At which point it can become an issue of compatibility rather than raw numbers and intensity. Some people don't care at all if they had a "hoe phase", some people are fine with it as long as it happened during their younger years, and some people are gonna hold it against them forever. For me I really don't give much of a shit about how many people a person has slept with in the past (although i do have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:47 PM
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Glad to be of service
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:50 PM
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Most to my problems have nothing to do with my gender There happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:29 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:41 PM
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Hey if it works But that's why I feel like this post is confusing. This feels less like a CMV post regarding the "bastardization of decent traits" and more like a discussion regarding why they don't need to go as far as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:45 PM
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Well then I'm unsure of what view were supposed to be challenging and changing here. You said they "bastardized" traits and I'm saying they didn't, they just clung to already existing "evil" traits and behaviors that generate greater success then their current behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:20 PM
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They didn't bastardized those traits, the Dark Triad already existed as a concept within psychology and sociology, they co-opted it. As to the why? It's because even if it's not the ideal it still works better than what they were doing before. Like you mentioned in another comment: Yep. She doesn’t prefer an “asshole” but if the asshole is at least coming off as confident, sociable, and outgoing enough to ask her out, she’s going to skew there to the guy who is doing zilch of the bolded. If the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:09 AM
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I don't even want kids so I guess I circumvent this pretty easily. Out of a morbid sense of curiosity I'd say yes just to see what it's like, but I assume nothing significant would probably come out of it other than me experiencing upwards to 30 hours of pain. If my partner were to demand something like that, I'd assume she was just a sadist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:35 PM
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That it's a smart decision for both of them. If he wants kids and she doesn't why would either of them want to stay in the relationship with such a glaring incompatibility issue. He can find a partner that wants to have kids and she can find one that doesn't. It's more shocking to me that a conversation as big as kids was not discussed throughly before marriage to begin with if they were this strongly opposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:32 PM
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This one can go either way, so I won't add a point to either column
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:09 PM
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No prob, I actually watched the movie pretty recently and that's what the movie made if seem like. Haven't read the book in a while so it may be different but probably not by much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:54 AM
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I think the estate just pertained to Longbourn. However, the land is where the family derived most of their wealth from. So they wouldn't be penniless but without the estate, they'd certainly fall down quite significantly in economic class as they wouldn't have readily available funds like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:41 AM
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To my understanding, TRP is just as much mental development and recontexualization (something something anger phase) as much as it is about getting women. If you're a RP man that is genuinely successful at what you're trying to do then you're not moaning and complaining about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:29 AM
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Im not red pill but wouldn't their strategy just be functional identical to the women's strategy: Women, at least, would seem to have a viable strategy under this definition of human behaviour. They sleep around when they're younger, tamp down a stable guy when they're older, and simultaneously build up enough of a social safety net that if they can't get who they want they'll be perfectly fine and comfortable on their own. Pump and dump women for as long as you can or atleast as long as you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:15 AM
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Name something men love more than having their perversions validated and celebrated by other men. Tea I really don't give a shit about other men (hell other people) validating me and my sexuality. Growing up openly bi, I spent a large part of young adulthood being actively hated for it (sometimes even by family members). So I guess it really isn't that important to me. Now a nice hibiscus tea during the summertime on the porch, yeah that shit feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:59 PM
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Yes, because not cheating is a very easy thing to do. It shouldn't be considered pedestalizing to expect your partner not to cheat on you, it's something that is literally the bare minimum of entering a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:58 PM
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And mine would be ready to start a fire to burn my clothes and work on an alibi lol But that's not the point, the point is that there's a big disconnect between what they think happened and what actually happened because they don't have the information that I do. It's easy enough to remedy a situation like that with "oh shit, this is just pig and cow blood, sorry I forgot to tell you that I got a new job at the butchers, appreciate the loyalty though lol" Rather than just pretending that nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:44 PM
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• Leaving her best friend at an event they planned to go to together. Kinda shitty thing to do but whatever, friends fight and sometimes shit happens. • Keeping her partner in the dark, to the point that he has to fill in information from third parties. Maybe a little overbearing on his part and I get it things can get hectic so there's that, still not the best. • Throwing out a cosplay that she apparently worked really hard on without giving any explanation as to why. And coming back with nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:25 PM
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Seems like people are quick to assume it was cheating, which to me sounds a bit insecure. I mean... From reading the actual post, none of it sounds very suspicious to me. It seems like you're just as quick to downplay it as well There's a wide berth between "she's definitely cheating on you" and "yeah there's nothing really suspicious with any of this".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:50 PM
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And of course it's out of character: she sounds like a mom who wishes she could still go out and do stuff and trashed her costume/missed her flight because she didn't want to go back. It's really not uncommon. And that's fine, but you don't get to do stuff like that without talking about it beforehand or afterwards (let alone getting defensive about it) and expect your partner/people around you to just be completely okay with that without any discussion. I can even admit the husband is probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:38 PM
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From reading the actual post, none of it sounds very suspicious to me. Did we read the same post? Leaving her "best friend" at an event they planned together, trashing a cosplay that she apparently worked a lot on, and keeping her husband in the dark about it are red flags so glaring that you'd need to be colorblind not to see them. Even more so considering he mentions this is out of character for her. and she doesn't want to talk about it because she probably feels like a bad mom. Really? If an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah, the doctor of that series (Donald Cline) has fathered around 100 kids, according to what we know Even if we assume that there's more out there and we high balled it at around 150, he's still not cracking the top 10 of that list. Khan alone has fathered at minimum a thousand kids, and Wiesner is on the hook for around 600 or more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:02 PM
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Idk, probably around 15 or more, considering age, will probably have me raise an eyebrow Probably around the same range No, it's not something I'm actively thinking about when dating a person I don't really care. If we fuck on the first date it's not going to make me less invested in a long term relationship but it's not going to make me more invested either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:53 PM
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He is likely the most successful human of all time, genetically, having had the most children. Genghis Khan and Bertold Wiesner have entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:38 PM
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Funnily enough this happened to a girl I knew back in highschool, but not with her parents. She ended up getting pregnant but her parents were adamant about them not raising the baby for her if she decided to keep it. She did end up having it and they followed through on their promise. And after about 7 months of working with the baby daddy trying to raise the baby, she kind of just got fed up and pawned the baby on him and his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:00 AM
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and laughing at them is no longer as fun. And now we wait for something significant to come from this development
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:31 PM
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Horny bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:00 PM
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Noted, I feel like if it's anything like a shrooms high I won't have any problems. The high being longer sounds like something I would enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:34 PM
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You sound like my freshman year roommate. He wanted to try acid with me but I never felt like it was a good time. He took it a couple times when I was there and honestly he looked like he was having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:29 PM
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The only drug I've done outside of weed and alchohol, are shrooms and ecstasy. If I had to pick between the two I'd say ecstasy is better. It feels like a more controlled and simple high, it's really fun to do with friends, and the afterglow is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:23 PM
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You're right I can understand for MM a little bit because there is some PTSD involved there. !But seriously everytime he pulled out a gun on Solider Boy im like "Come on bud, what you think that's gonna do".!<
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:06 PM
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I don't really care one way or another. It's one of those "don't make it my problem" type things. If they want to put on makeup, cool I think it can enhance features and cover up some blemishes, nothing wrong with that. If they don't want to use it, understandable I don't use it regularly either so it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:59 AM
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Kimiko really isn't that annoying to me, just kind of naive and idealistic But yeah the others like Billy, Hughie, MM, and Starlight have all done some stupid shit this season
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:20 AM
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I agree, a part of it is the guys behind it are genuinely passionate and enjoy the series, faults and all. But another part of it is they had a solid base to start with. DBZ writing has always been hit or miss, when it hits it hits (Majin Vegeta is fucking superb) but when it misses it misses hard. They were able to find the good and maintain and/or enhance it while also fixing some of the cracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:58 PM
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I'm just saying the couch is right there, asking to be burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:45 AM
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Setting fire to the couch would accomplish the same goal in a more spectacular fashion. But crocodile tears might be more pragmatic, but definitely has a bigger blowback if successful. If a couple of tears and some vulnerability is enough scare her away, it solidifies the fact that your feelings were never a concern for her and that the entire relationship was fucked, likely from the start. The suggested feelings of love, compassion, and partnership were lies. A deception that could only be main…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:43 AM
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First option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:23 PM
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You're too good for this world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:29 PM
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The one thing they love more than a hero is to see a hero fail, fall, die trying. In spite of everything you've done for them, eventually, they will hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:20 PM
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I don't really care, I've been approached for a relationship a couple times, and it doesn't really feel weird to me. I don't really feel emasculated or feel like the girl is desperate. The worst thing I'm gonna do is say no if I'm not into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:57 AM
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Huh didn't read the wiki page, just a couple of articles. So she was there. Now that... raises some questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:42 AM
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From what I've read about it, she might not have been at the gathering. It seems like it was for members of the "husband's" extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:35 AM
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Interestingly enough according to the girl in question this wasn't even her idea. It was her boyfriend that came up with the idea and supplied her the poison. And the headline is a little misleading, she didn't poison 18 people directly. She put the poison into her "husband's" milk but he refused to drink it, she put the milk back into the fridge and the next day her mother-in-law used it to make a dessert (obviously not knowing it was poisoned) and served it during a meal. And despite the heade…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:39 PM
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I'm bi, and admittedly it's hard for me to pick what I like ideally in a vacuum. There have been a bunch of different body types that I've been attracted for both men and women. But if I had to boil it down to the essentials: For Girls: A tall girl with a big ass, probably more on the thicker side but a slightly more athletic build would be fine too, not really into super thin girls For Guys: An average height guy with a big ass, probably on the more muscular side but not aggressively so but I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:11 PM
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Today I learned that the only two options that you have as you get older is either settling down and having a family or engaging in sex tourism. Our cups truly runneth over in this modern age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:16 PM
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we’re all just objects for them to get their dick wets. Untrue, for some guys it really isn't about the sex... sometimes they just need a good house cleaner. It ain't their dicks they want wet, it's the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:39 PM
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This is reddit, if more than 10 people share the same thought there will likely be a sub for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:37 PM
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Yeah, I had a "Religions in Non-Western Societies" class which end up going into stuff like that. Pretty fascinating stuff in concept, pretty mundane in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:28 PM
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r/tulpas ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:20 PM
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I literally fuck men, and I don't think about dicks this intensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:59 PM
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You misunderstand, I was trying to say "im not on that subject" you were kind of splitting focus on what I was saying and talking more with regards to whether or not the kid should care. That's a subject in and of itself. I'm on the fact that they're gonna be getting razed by kids that come from similar socio-economic backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:37 AM
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Hey if you're not letting it bother you that's great, I'm not really on that. I'm just saying they ain't getting actively and directly bullied by Johnny the plumber's kid who lives across the city, when they go to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:27 AM
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I'm just saying that unless they’re intentionally slumming it, the kid is gonna be under fire from the people at (and/or above) their level. Poor kids get bullied by poor kids. Middle class kids get bullied by middle class kids. And rich kids get bullied by other rich kids. Can't really clap back with "well you're poor" to the kid whose dad is a neurosurgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:16 AM
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yeah kids are cruel but fuck ‘em they’re poor Isn't that only assuming that a rich porn star would be living amongst poor people? If they're rich and living affluently their children would be getting bullied by their class contemporaries, the children of rich doctors, attorneys, entrepreneurs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:02 AM
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Well the question was about before you die. So you'd have the option of dying or not. And I answered by saying I wouldn't see the light of day so I wouldn't be able to to care. I don't remember anything before the age of 4, trying to probe me for an answer regarding what occurs before I'm even physically born is just gonna be a debate on hypothetical opinions. I'm either aborted or I'm not, if I am then I wouldn't be here having this conversation so my opinion is non-existent. If I'm not aborted…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:26 PM
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No my reasoning is that shit that happens after I die is no longer my problem I just used sleeping as an example. If I get shot, run over, or fall down some stairs the shit that happens after I die is shit that I'm literally unconcerned with because I'm no longer living.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:45 AM
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Uhh why would I care, I'd be long gone before I saw the light of day. Like if I died in my sleep tonight, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to care about anything that happens tomorrow (or the any day after that really).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:22 AM
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Accurate and hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:18 PM
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I'll think about it, but it's not really one of my first thoughts unless he's acting aggressive to begin with or is just outright bigger than most guys I usually won't give it much thought. I'm definitely just cocky, but I generally assume that I could handle myself against most guys in a straight fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:58 AM
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However why is the pain so longlasting for men? Since this is the claim she's responding to, this is the one I'm going off. Let me preface by saying that personally speaking I don't give a hell what gender someone is, cheating sucks ass and it's gonna hurt regardless and generally there's no need to overcomplicate and psychoanalzye that, it's a given. I even made a comment saying that But saying that there is no science behind a claim like that is just outright wrong. There is significant portio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:38 AM
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I mean it says no-pill under my name for a reason. I don't believe in the red-pill, blue-pill, purple-pill, polka-dot pill bullshit But if you don't want to believe me just because I disagree with you, just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:50 AM
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No prob
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:42 AM
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So why not say that in the first place instead of trying to bring science into it? You said to ask an anthropologist about the science, I'm an anthropologist, and there is some science behind that claim. Doesn't mean much in the long run but it doesn't mean there isn't any science there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:42 AM
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Oh yeah that's definitely a smart idea, nothing wrong with just kinda getting away from it and doing your own thing. Hope it works out for you and you enjoy yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:04 AM
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I mean rejecting doesn't necessarily mean giving up the whole game, it can just be choosing to play it differently than how you're expected to. If you wanna play you can, just do it on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:49 PM
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I'm an anthropologist (studying it for 5 years now) with a speciality in Cultural and Biological Anthropology, and there is some science behind that claim... So where do we go from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:42 PM
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Fair enough, I understand where you're coming from it's just the way things are. You either try to change the way things are, roll along with the current system, or just completely reject it and do your own thing. And all viable options in their own right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:41 PM
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Don't let the expectations of others influence (too much) on how you do things If you don't want to pay so much for dates you shouldn't, it's a harder choice to make since just shelling out and paying is the safer cultural/social choice to make. But if you don't you're likely to have less options but at that point you're filtering for quality. It's not the safer choice but it's one that aligns more with what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:20 PM
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Don't assuage your desires for safety and comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:06 PM
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It's the betrayal, I don't see why it needs to be any deeper than that. Occam's razor and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:30 PM
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Agree with the first. Disagree with the second. The 2nd is only a factor if the person in question is just naturally overwhelmed by choice and indecisive to begin with. I can walk into a store, go to a candy aisle with over a 200 choices, and I wouldn't need to spend more than 5 minutes (and I'm being very generous with that estimate) to pick out what I want. Especially if I have a good idea of what I want/what I'm craving. It'd be better to say that 1000 choices doesn't translate perfectly to 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:54 PM
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Ehh debatable considering we don't know what each other look like. And it's not like I'm rolling in sex either, this is just the method that I prefer it doesn't necessarily yield better results than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:41 AM
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Aside from being personally against it morally, it just sounds like too much work. I'm not really looking for a serious relationship right now and most people can tell since I don't try to hide that fact. So putting up the front and bullshitting that I am would require more effort on my part than is needed. It's easier and more efficient if I'm just upfront about wanting to fuck to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:29 AM
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Unless you're trying to present some status or trying to come off as someone into fashion, brand really doesn't matter. If you're only trying to stick out, aesthetic/style is usually more important than brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:01 PM
3

Wait So there are women who are just now realizing that the men they've been in intimate and prolonged relationships were "pro life"? Or is the implication here is that they knew, and that they just kind of ignored it up until this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:04 AM
1

Linguistics is pretty cool, I had to take a couple classes for Linguistics Anthropology. Not really passionate about the field but cool stuff nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:03 AM
5

I don't know, I was a teenager and it wasn't that hard to clean my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:02 AM
2

I’m already looking for serious allies, but I know you can be ruthless if you really wanted to. Clocks ticking, you and those serious allies are 2 months behind schedule (give or take a decade) so let's see some of that ruthlessness that apparently wasn't used effectively enough before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:00 AM
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combined with the hygienic benefit I don't really care that much about the circumcision argument as a whole. But this has always been the weirdest argument to me, how hard is it to clean a dick. It's literally attached to your body, unless you're choosing not to shower regularly, I don't see why it wouldn't be clean so long as you clean yourself properly and regularly. This would be like saying "I don't shit, I use a colostomy bag instead to keep my asshole clean". If you say something like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:49 PM
1

What are you thinking of going to college for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:38 PM
1

Same, I always say you can tell a lot about a person based on the biggest hat in their wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:35 AM
1

To be fair neither have I, but it seems like the internet loves tall sexy women that wear big hats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:31 AM
1

So... Lady Dimitrescu or are you leaning more Bayonetta.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:03 AM
1

Does it count if it was a dry tap?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:50 PM
1

Damn, I give her points for coming back with something atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:36 PM
2

I'm an ass man through and through, but I can appreciate some mommy milkers Where do I stand with the council
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:33 PM
2

Ehh that's a matter of opinion. If you didn't find value fucking around that's your experience and that should be respected But the idea that a person should only be spending their time finding a committed partner sounds myopic. And the idea that you can't fuck around and eventually find a good partner kinda sounds like bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:13 PM
1

Damn, sounded like a good breakfast too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:11 PM
1

Wait is the breakfast you like after a hookup or the breakfast you make for a hookup? Asking for... reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:02 PM
3

If a person desires to sleep around and ends up being successful in doing so. I can not fathom why anything you mention would matter to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:57 PM
1

Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:02 AM
3

Sup Who are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:45 AM
2

I mean there's more than just same sex relationships to look at here, that really only addresses one of the points made. The premise of your post is something to consider but the points boil down to basically: "If you're a strong confident and self-assured straight white man, you shouldn't underestimate the privileges and benefits you have in society" If you exist in that narrowly defined box being a man isn't so hard, but deviations from that will not award the same benefits. Which is pretty co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:40 PM
2

I don't disagree with the premise but I would say I disagree with the points, atleast how they're articulated: 1) I can go anywhere i want and do anything I want, doesn't mean I'm gonna be safe doing it. Walking home alone at night is dangerous regardless of what you have in your pants (unless it's a gun). I'd say I'm more comfortable at being out and about at night by myself, but I chalk that up more to social conditioning and me just accepting the risks. I've been mugged before walking alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:20 PM
1

I think of myself as pretty open and approachable in a general sense. So I don't think most people would have a hard time just approaching me. Now depending on what they want it'll be different. For sex, pretty easy. If I'm attracted to you and I don't notice any red flags or issues, I probably won't be down to fuck on the spot but I won't be the toughest nut to crack. For relationships... yeah you'd have an easier time trying to mow a lawn evenly with a pair of nail clippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:07 AM
2

Yeah, my mom, sisters, aunts, female cousins and friends mean a lot to me. There are definitely women I look up to, for example back when I had the wide eye dreams of being a writer, Maya Angelou and Toni Morrison, were big inspirations for me. On a more personal level there are a bunch of women like teachers/instructors, friends, classmates, upperclassmen, that I also really admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:03 PM
2

Emotional connection, if there isn't an emotional connection there's no point in me even being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:15 PM
1

Probably, i'm a bi man so i already deal witn unwanted sexual attention. And I don't really care about attention or special treat to begin with, but for morbid curiosity sake I'd say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:07 AM
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It's feel good advice that could be effective in changing someone's mindset, which is beneficial in itself, especially if the person in question is stressing about it too much. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna tangibly work out that way, you could focus on your "purpose" and still end up alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:49 AM
1

Even my Catholic mother believes in evolution. She thinks God created it. Reminds me of Pillow Talking by Lil Dicky: You don't believe in the aliens, You confine God to earth, girl, I find that shit salient I just don't presume to know the plan Bitch, me neither but that's not what I've been sayin' But what are you sayin'? Why can't God fuck with aliens? Why can't Earth be like, a fuckin' small side project for this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:48 AM
1

Cruises, yes Resorts, no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:23 PM
3

Usually the real reason is that they're just uncomfortable with the idea of being with a man that's been sexual with another man, it paints a specific mental image that makes that man less attractive. I don't see any shame in that in and of itself, and I don't like jumping straight to homophobia when a girl says being Bi is a deal-breaker, some shit just turns people off. However, some of them will jump through a bunch of hoops to try to justify it, with ideas that actually do border on stereoty…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:19 AM
2

In her room after her parents left for work, nothing crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:30 AM
1

Pretty romantic when I was relationships. I like doing the lovey-dovey stuff. Giving each other gifts, going out and trying new stuff and making memories, baking/cooking for my partner. Hell staying inside talking, cuddling, and enjoying each other's company was some gourmet shit for my heart. But after I ended my last relationship I think I ended kinda being more disillusioned with romance. Not in a "I hate romance way" because I still think romance is nice and sweet, I sort of just think "huh …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:40 PM
2

Yeah it was pretty wild ride, I thought the ending was okay not really great but not outright horrible like some people say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:07 AM
1

Whatever floats ya boat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:50 PM
1

If that's the mental image you've decided to use, whatever floats your boat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:38 PM
1

It's easy enough It's interesting to get other people's opinions and compare them to your own
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:32 PM
1

Definitely, that's kind of the problem with chemical psychology in general. Sometimes you're one step forward and two steps back. Hammering out what works best can be a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:39 PM
2

I've never taken them but one of my best friends has. From what he's told me, depending on which ones you take they can be very helpful and help to stabilize your mood and outlook, but sometimes there are some side effects that can cancel out whatever good they're doing. For example, in high-school he took some that actually did make him feel better but it also gave him insomnia. So he didn't feel "depressed" like he used to but since he wasn't getting enough sleep he was tired and irritable all…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:55 PM
1

Always good to take a break Hope your meds work out and help you get over some of that depression! Definitely ask about potential alternatives though if they don't work out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:32 AM
2

Hey if people want to keep writing article after article about it thats their prerogative I've already explained why I think articles like this are bullshit , if you think they're great cool I respect your opinion, I still think articles like these are stupid, rehashed, and unproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:08 AM
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So he did it anyway because... And I'm still not seeing any tangible net negatives here that come from a "bunch of people we don't like left" unless I'm supposed to believe that's a punishment in and off itself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:27 AM
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So... nothing They get what they want, and the biggest hypothetical punishment that can be generated is "the people they don't like will be compelled to leave" "You think you do, but you don't" Wasn't that said in response to adding classic servers back to WoW... and then that same guy said that they would be adding Classic Servers to WoW It seems like he didn't know what he wanted. (Or how to handle sexual assault within his own company, seems like he doesn't know a lot of things)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:21 AM
1

Okay... and You say that as if an echo chamber isn't what they want in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:55 AM
1

What difference does liberal women leaving make with regards to that issue? That's like saying "oh no this state has openly racist and xenophobic policies, all the non-whites are gonna leave, there won't be any minority groups for the racists to marry, they'll be sorry then" as if that's a problem for them and not a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:38 AM
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It was a breath of fresh air to see someone in the media finally address it as uniquely male. It really isn't, like I said I've had to read article after article from multiple publications (HuffPost, NYT, NYP, WSJ, Philadelphia Inquirer) since Sandy Hook and they all give the same surface level take regarding the growing dangers of the "young angry male". None of it seems productive and none of them really add any new insight. There are dangerous, disenfranchised men out there... okay we already…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:33 PM
1

Same thing i do when a friend flakes, check and see if I can do what I planned without them if I can and I'm game I just do that. If I can't, go for a walk/run, jump rope, read a book, practice playing my guitar, maybe even just sit down and relax, sucks that they flaked but planned time just turns into free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:48 PM
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And calling them “angry young males” isn’t the issue either. That I do disagree with, it's not the issue but it's part of a bigger issue regarding talking about issues like this. We need to address the “angry male” who feels entitled to lash out violently when he feels embarrassed or sad or is disenfranchised. It leads to murders, assault, vandalism, rape, etc. Then we should address it, but it seems like the way they're addressing hasn't done much of anything. I've had to read article after art…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:38 PM
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What I said was it’s worth unpacking. Whatever language you want to use. But it is a male problem And I never disagreed Did I say otherwise? If people want to sit down and have a conversation about the issues relating to men and masculinity and how that can end in violence, be my guest. I'm just saying don't try to cover it up with moralizing bullshit regarding the "angry young male" problem after a mass shooting, when there are deeper issues at play here than the fact that all of these assailan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:46 PM
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Whichever language makes you not defensive works, Why are they worried about me being defensive? They can write and use whatever language they want. They should if they're trying to accurately express an opinion. But I'm free to think their opinion or the way they express that opinion is bullshit. If they genuinely believe there is an issue my opinion should be inconsequential to them. but there’s an obvious there about male proclivity for violence to unpack. And I think there are better ways to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:38 PM
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Is it fair to notice a pattern that they’re all male? Why are you bringing fairness into it? People can do whatever Or is that something we have to ignore for fear of “virtue signaling”? People can do and think whatever they want, I'm of the opinion that the way this was titled and written was surface level virtue signaling bullshit, if my opinion perturbs or scares them that's more their problem than mine. If they're genuine in their intentions i see no reason for why they have anything to fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:26 PM
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Maybe stop with the sensationalism of trying to frame this as an "angry young male" problem. I'm a young male, I get angry, you know what I do when I get angry... I go on a fucking walk to clear my head, I don't shoot up schools. Saying that this is an "angry young male" problem is low-effort virtual signaling bullshit and completely sidesteps the issues of mental health and disenfranchisement that exists as a common factor in all these incidents, because it doesn't make for exciting news.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:56 PM
2

The analogy falls flat to a certain point (most do) since it's a reductionist way to see things. Having said that I'd be lying if they're wasn't some value to it. This isn't so much about deliberate dishonesty, as much as it is a difference in want/desire and a different frame of reference. You shouldn't disregard what women have to say but you should be aware that there might be a difference in perspective and desire that may not be conducive to what you want. In which case it might be better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:30 PM
2

I try to buy in bulk when I get the chance, and it's honestly less about saving money (still a perk) and more about not having to constantly remember to pick up the small stuff when I go out. I hate going on store runs, getting everything I really want/need, get home, unpack and then have the "shit I forgot to get more disinfectant wipes" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:59 AM
3

Grocery store sales I can walk into a store any day of the week and see hot girls in yoga pants, but there's only gonna be a couple days that I can walk in and see a discount on paper towels and laundry detergent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:48 PM
1

Well even with that I can still understand why she might be upset, even if you want a relationship built on casual sex you still might want some kind of decorum or friendly relationship involved (hence the "Friends" part). She wanted a FWB, he wanted a booty call. Neither is wrong, they're just different. I can't fault her for being kinda annoyed or disgusted by the response because it is tactless from her perspective, it's just the level of her reaction just seems excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:47 PM
1

A cultured response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:30 PM
1

Disgust I can get, disgusts that manifests that intensely not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:48 PM
2

An instant next/block is more than warranted, but to have such a visceral gut reaction to basically "DTF" seems weird. Maybe there's more going on the background, but it's definitely not what I was expecting when I opened up the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:42 PM
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Was curious about this post because of the header. Now maybe I'm just used to seeing worse, but that reply feels tactless and low-effort at worst. And far be it from me to tell other people how to react to shit, but that reaction seems pretty excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:32 PM
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Just by how they act? I can make assumptions, but it's a crapshoot on whether or not I'm right. Unless they outright tell me or I figure it out indirectly, I'll have no way of knowing for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:46 PM
2

I really don't see what difference that makes, a good chunk of the men that are leaving their children aren't paragons of moral and ethical virtue to begin with. "Oh no it's illegal to leave, I guess that means I just won't"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:13 PM
1

Student, my major is predominantly women (at least at the undergrad level) and I work at my university's library, I have a mix of men and women as coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:42 PM
1

Ayy appreciate the input!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:43 AM
1

you're like "oh, they're saying you can't ban it at 20 weeks any more, but who's to say they can't just ban it at 21 weeks" like that's a reasonable interpretation of that law. Well I'm not a lawyer or a politician, so forgive my novice level interpretation. My main point is that this act doesn't legalize or advocate for third-trimester abortions nor does it prevent states from enacting their own abortion bans past 20 weeks. I'm getting tired so I'm gonna hit the hay, but since I'm genuinely cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:14 AM
2

I really don't considering most state legislation already self-regulates with abortion bans before the start of the third trimester. Nothing, as I've seen written, is stopping any state from banning third-trimester abortions, if this act were to go into effect. So why are you assuming that it does
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:13 AM
1

As a result of her policy towards third-trimester abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:59 AM
2

No it really doesn't. A 20 week ban, is a ban for abortions after 20 weeks of pregnancy. Meaning that if the act goes into effect, it would be illegal to make the cutoff point of legal abortions 20 weeks. That doesn't imply that abortions at 32 weeks would be legal or that it would be illegal to put a restriction on abortions during the third trimester. Hell considering how loose their wording is that would still allow abortion bans at 22 weeks. Like I said I'm not making any assumptions beyond …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:57 AM
1

indicated it would gain her more votes than it lost her. So did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:32 AM
2

Then why don't they state that? Q: What kinds of state restrictions would the Women’s Health Protection Act protect against? A: Abortion access would be protected from bans and medically unnecessary restrictions that do not apply to other similar health care procedures. These restrictions include six-week bans, 20-week bans, mandatory ultrasounds, biased counseling, waiting periods, and requirements that providers obtain admitting privileges at local hospitals. They do... Very explicitly and spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:31 AM
1

A trimester is 12-14 weeks. 20 weeks is late into the 2nd trimester. Considering they specified 6-week and 20-week bans, i have no reason to assume or believe they are advocating for nor are they against banning third-trimester abortions, which starts after the 24-28th week of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:13 AM
1

I'm aware, and how many people have you met that unironically support Hillary Clinton for her policies. Because I'm gonna be honest with you even back in 2016 as a high schooler I could only realistically name a handful of people (young and old) that genuinely believed Hillary was a good politician and agree with her policies instead of just someone they were willing to bare with in regards to the opposition (sort of representative of a lot of American politics really.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:12 AM
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Hillary Clinton literally supported it. And... If you're using that as your metric I've got news for you, Hillary Clinton says a lot of stupid shit (a lot of politicians do), doesn't automatically make it commonplace Women's Health Protection Act by Joe Biden would have also supported it. Didn't see any mention of a push for third trimester abortions. Only protection from 6-week and 20-week bans, they never specifically state or imply "abortion access all the way up and into the third trimester"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:43 AM
1

So like what is the actual number though, prior to covid there was a push to have Critical Race Theory in primary education but I still consider that to be an uncommon position.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:08 AM
2

it's not an uncommon stance unfortunately. I guess we have different defintions of uncommon then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:53 AM
1

For curiosity's sake, what is your response if the answer is yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:46 AM
1

Fair enough, I'm just presenting a position. The original part of this thread was "getting sex is gonna get harder" which is a relatively shallow consequence in it's own right that's easy enough to ignore because: •These men have women willing to have sex with them with the same beliefs as them. • Or they aren't getting sex anyway, so it really doesn't matter all that much to them that things will get harder for the average guy. There may be tangential consequences but they really aren't going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:43 AM
1

I assume the people making the policy/advocating for the ban actually have sex, they tend to have wives and girlfriends that carry the same ideology as them. For the sexless men, it's more general apathy than active malice If a bunch of crabs are stuck in a bucket, there's a difference between the crabs trying to pull the others down and crabs that don't care enough to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:37 AM
1

For the red pillers maybe, but the groups of men advocating for the ban usually fall into the trad side of things or are just bitter enough to want the field leveled for everyone. To them it means nothing if getting laid is harder since they weren't getting laid before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:31 AM
8

Seems inconsequential if they're already not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:05 PM
12

Is this really a problem for the men that already aren't getting laid? For other people (mainly couples) the ban itself carries ramifications that can be life altering for a myriad of different reasons, for sexless men it's just Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:24 PM
1

Yeah that definitely happens throws your rhythm off, it can even happen the other way around.I remember there was one week where I was caught up with doing finals, work, and club events that I was staying up all night and only getting like 4 hours of sleep. After I finally finished everything the first couple days of being back on a normal sleep schedule I still felt exhausted in the morning because my body was expecting 4 hours of sleep and a coffee. Glad you got a chance to go out!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Reminds me of this old video I think the sex would be worse, just how I feel personally But I can see the logic of the blowjob being worse because there are some implications there that she was willing to break the trust of the relationship over a smaller act.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:48 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:36 PM
2

Agreed, he's just a likable guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:44 AM
1

Really? I mean not so much now, but I thought she got plenty of hype when Buffy the Vampire Slayer was still relevant in pop culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:43 AM
3

Anytime you find yourself overthinking something, just try to be like Freddie Prinze Jr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:00 AM
1

Id be down for the relationship, but I don't even know if I want kids so if being a SAHD is a requirement I think I'll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:20 PM
1

I get that and I don't necessarily agree that it is the best thing to do. Like obviously it sucks for the kid, and I would hope that man might decide to stay in their life. But if there was willful lies and deceit involved, him making a decision to leave doesn't necessarily feel wrong to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:20 AM
1

But that is nonsensical, based on the context of surrounding tweets (and general male rhetoric) it is obvious. It really isn't any more nonsensical than what you're implying, especially because they specifically mentioned attitudes regarding how they see the men they're sleeping with as well, i.e as objects. This would then imply that the trp (and men as a whole) view of women and sex is also the issue. If you subscribe to those beliefs then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:28 PM
1

That comment didn't establish any cause or effect, it just says "20 and over with no relationship = bad". It could just as easily imply that a person that chooses to have sex with 20 different people without having a relationship is inherently a "damaged" person. In which case the sex isn't the problem, their "cavalier" attitude towards sex and relationships is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:56 PM
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that would have to mean that you view sex with a man as something that is inherently harmful/degrading, regardless of number or relationship status. I'm confused because in the first take you posted they said: If their body count is 20 or above I'm pretty sure that's a number/range Been dicked down 20 times and still doesn't have a relationship And this is definitely a relationship status, single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:38 PM
1

Depending on what you're looking for it might not be a big increase, so there's that. But I'd say it's a fair point that with online dating and just overall increase in online activity through stuff like social media, finding a queer partner has never been easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:15 PM
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To be fair, that mainly comes down to a numbers thing you're more likely to find Bi people in straight relationships simply due to the fact that's what they're likely to find. Having said there are plenty of Bi women I've met that talk about their gripes with dating men, but really don't put forth the effort to try to find and date women, which to me just comes off as them being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:34 PM
2

He has spoken!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:59 PM
4

We gotta summon the resident expert: u/purplish_possum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:11 PM
2

I'd find it disturbing, but as you mentioned it's a different scenario with different emotional responses connected to it. I get that there's no cheating like in paternity fraud and hard feelings linked to it, That is a pretty important component to the overall context of the situation, ignoring it changes a lot. It's like saying that since I'm okay with getting punched and kicked in a sanctioned sparring match. I should be okay with randomly getting punched and kicked while out walking on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:49 PM
3

I think the acknowledgement that some men cannot love a child that isn't biologically related to them is an unsettling truth that women don't want to admit about men. There may be some legitimate criticisms to be made in that respect, but it carries a lot less weight when the situation itself involves cheating This feels like a rationalization, that a woman in that situation would make because the idea of being upfront and honest about her unfaithfulness is scary. So it's better to project that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:18 PM
2

I guess it's fine in concept But much like with vegans, the people that advocate for it seem to be the most insufferable and jaded people possible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:11 PM
1

Probably the first, since this is a apocalyptic scenario it'd probably be easier to keep a weapon clean and semi-well maintained than it is to find bullets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:36 PM
-1

Most people don't even want to think about their parents having sex with each other. Why would they be any more comfortable hearing about their parent's sexual exploits with strangers? Me and my sisters know our dad lived a very complex life before we were born, and were all old and mature enough to recognize that life likely included sex. Doesn't mean that we wouldn't feel some type of way if we heard our dad was part of gangbangs and orgies in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:30 AM
3

Be careful that duck looks pretty shady, might be peddling quack
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:11 PM
2

I got a little into escapology as a teenager, so I know how to get out of a standard pair of hand cuffs with a paper clip. Hasn't come in handy... yet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:00 PM
6

If it feels like work just to get a date you might want to reevaluate both why you want to date and who you're trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:54 PM
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There's a difference between work and effort, when dating someone feels like work you should probably end the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:30 PM
1

Fair enough But after working at a restaurant in an affluent part of the city, I've come to realize that some people will legit throw a hissy fit over what type of water you give them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:45 PM
1

water r/HydroHomies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:39 PM
5

Contraceptives are never 100% effective, and improper use is definitely a part of the problem. Some women might accidentally miss taking their pill that day at the usual time, some men might not be keeping their condoms in the right place. Shit happens Having said that, there is still definitely a significant portion of people that are just fucking without contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:10 PM
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This is pretty much how it's done in my family My mom was able to ballpark what size clothes we needed growing up, but if she was shopping for something important like "back to school" stuff it was better to just have us just come with her and have us try them on in person rather than guesstimate based on what sizes she thinks we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:06 PM
9

As long as you keep playing the hits, we'll be here 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:53 AM
11

So nice you had to post it twice, with an ego this big you might be a perfect fit for the Ted Mosby gang yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:38 AM
1

I think you're confusing a school presentation with a talent show
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:54 PM
1

Why would I have less sympathy, public speaking sucks ass, most people get anxious about it but end up powering through. If a person is so anxious about having to speak in front of people that they're driven to tears, I'm gonna sympathize. Probably in the back of the class giggling What's there to giggle about, when shit like that happens it makes everyone feel awkward and uncomfortable at best, if they don't end just feeling bad for the person in question. No pussy for stuttering Stan. More for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:01 PM
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If a man went up to the front of the class, opened up their presentation, and started stuttering and crying then leaves the room, I'd definitely feel sympathy for him. That kind of thing is really embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:47 PM
1

Yeah I usually get bad nerves before having to present, but by the time I'm up there it usually goes away and I just go into "fuck it, just go with the flow" mode and it usually goes well. I think she'll be fine, I talked to her after and she was s just really really anxious, and she was the 2nd to last to go so she felt a lot of pressure from the other presentations. She'll probably just go Tuesday or if not work something out with our Professor, he's a chill guy and seemed pretty concerned for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:44 PM
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We were doing our research proposal presentations today in class And one girl got up there, opened up her PowerPoint, she got through the first 2 slides, but then she got anxious and ended up crying and leaving the room. It sucks because I read over her proposal and it was great and she clearly knows what she's doing, public speaking can be a bitch like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:33 PM
2

Tea, snacks, and conversation, it's what I usually bring to most tables
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:48 AM
3

Would you care if a woman had sex with you and ghosted? If it were just a hookup or fling, I wouldn't care. Would you care if you two hooked up and you hit her up to hangout outside of the bedroom and she was like “no thanks”? Yeah, it'd be a bummer if I'm making an active effort to get with them beyond sex. Would you care if you were relegated to “fucks only” zone? Nope, I'd prefer if they make it clear early on so I'd have a good idea of what boundaries were setting. If it is just a "I'll hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:03 PM
2

Oh yeah then they'd have a blast
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:22 PM
1

I probably wouldn't care if it wasn't an excessive amount of hair. I only shave my face (and trim my nether region), but I'm not a very hairy guy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:22 PM
1

If you're gonna be there for a good amount of time and your kids are young and adventurous, I'd say Disney World. It has more parks, so they have a bunch more rides and attractions for them to check out. Plus I think Disney World is better suited for parents. Usually they know you've been dragging around kids the whole day, so they have a bunch for stuff for adults to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:58 PM
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Gotcha, I wasn't trying to call you out as a hypocrite, just trying to see where you stand on situations like that. I still think it's possible to go about your day and find something offensive, but I agree more often than not you can do it without whining and pressing it further than it needs to be. I was a law student lol that’s a potential for a lot of angry days in a 3 year timeframe that One of the reasons I decided not to go into law lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:45 PM
2

Off the top of my head AWALT, Some of the Evopsych they use and their overrealiance of it, and the constant fixation on N-Counts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:42 PM
1

I mean how do you usually deal with subtle racism? I keep it a buck and move on, it tends to be a great barometer of who I should I avoid. Doesn't mean I'm not offended, just means I don't think it's worth making a scene about. There might be and have absolutely been times where where I wasn’t on my game, got offended, and have turned shit ugly, I won’t deny that But yes, absolutely somebody saying “all blacks are violent criminals” mean absolutely nothing to me. so why do I care? I guess I'm ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:17 PM
1

I'm just asking to gauge where he stands on the topic, I admit that this borders on "whataboutism" but that's part of why asked, I feel it ties into the conversation at hand and I'm trying to find the nuances of what he said: I'm a big believer in if it doesn't apply let it fly So if I'm not a violent criminal (which I'm not), I shouldn't be offended because that statement obviously doesn't apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:59 PM
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Question: If someone were to walk up to me and say "all blacks are violent criminals" I should just keep it a buck and pretend I'm not offended in the slightest, just because I'm not a violent criminal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:31 PM
1

“I hear you bro, that sucks.” Reminds me of this lol I don’t think that’s what the men who complain the most want from women tbh. But if they do, I can offer that plenty! Ehh I very rarely hear these conversations in real life, they mostly come up in this sub. And within the confines of this sub I've seen plenty of people outright dismissive about it with no sexual advances being made. Which can probably get annoying (although the people that bring it up are usually just as annoying so I guess i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:46 PM
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What do you expect from people who don’t have male-levels of testosterone coursing the tough their veins? To Listen, I assume I don't have a vagina but I listen to my sister when she says periods hurt instead of just saying "nah sounds like bullshit"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:18 PM
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Yeah 30 days seems excessive, especially considering he's one of the nicer and more respectful members, and if I'm not mistaken this is like his first offense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:16 PM
2

You're doing Gods' work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:03 PM
2

Shit i liked him, he seems like a pretty cool and chill guy Mods free my homie, he ain't do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:51 PM
12

They're cool, atleast mine are Usually when I hear people make recurring complaints about their friends (of any gender) I just assume that they're bad at picking friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:42 PM
1

That's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:36 PM
1

What's there to be sorry about Just throwing out solutions here Or is "stop bullshitting" somehow more fantastical than "stopping all casual sex" Unless for some reason you thought this was serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:28 PM
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Ehh I don't think it's viable, but when OP's solution is basically "stop all causal sex" i assumed we threw out viable and realistic as criteria for solutions. In which case cutting the bullshit is the simplest solution .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:53 PM
4

So the simplest solution to this problem is for people to stop bullshitting...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:16 PM
8

If you just want to have sex don't pretend you want a relationship. If you want a relationship and sex and the sex hasn't happened as early or isn't to your liking, have a conversation about it or move on. If you're not actually into the thought of being with a person don't get into a relationship with them just because. The simplest solution is for people to stop bullshitting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:35 PM
1

I was gonna ask the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:46 AM
2

I'm down 15 bucks now, but man it was a close game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:15 AM
1

Yeah a couple of times back in highschool, but I didn't mind since they were people I cared about. Hell I got into fights back then to protect some of my guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:31 AM
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Boobies, boobies, boobies... that's all guys think about these days. Well, they're idiots. Show me a boob man and I'll show you a no-brain, no-class, knuckle-dragger who knows nothing of the fairer sex. I don't get it; you can't take the measure of a good woman just by ogling her chest. See, if you're enlightened like I am, then you know the real show is down below: the booty, baby! That's where it's at! Nothing trumps the rump, my friend. Anyone who can't see that is either blind or a fool. A p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:19 PM
2

Yeah, sometimes it's nice to sit down, shut off your brain, and simply just exist without any conscious thought It's quite refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:40 PM
0

Couldn't stay away huh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:55 AM
1

Cindy Lou Moo I love her already And considering how big she is, I'd say about as long as it takes her to get halfway through that hay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:48 AM
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Me when I see a man staying with his cheating wife: Wow, that's pretty stupid Me, when I see a woman stay with her cheating husband: Wow... That's pretty stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:31 PM
1

Maybe I can't really say for sure, but assuming that's the case to an untrained eye she literally just looks like a woman with a buzz cut. I can't really see that much difference between how Jada looks compared to someone like Amber Rose Hell, Willow herself rocked a similar look at the Oscar's and didn't look that much different than her mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:38 AM
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She's been pretty open and vocal about it the last couple years but I'm not surprised most people don't know. Other then this and the "entanglement" issue the Smiths have been pretty low key. But it seems like she can still very much grow hair on her scalp and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:25 AM
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Has Jada actually lost her eyebrows/lashes? As far as I know alopecia exists on a spectrum, in some cases it can be spotty hair loss on the scalp (Alopecia Areta) or all the hair on the scalp (Alopecia Totalis), and in extreme cases it can be localized across the whole body (Alopecia Universalis) Looking at how she describes it in interviews, it seems like she only had a couple spots of hair loss on her scalp and decided to go for a shaved look instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:07 AM
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Who are we going to pay to keep the place clean, free of drug trades, etc Incorporate and repurpose the money from taxes that would've been used for law enforcement and public wellness/maintenance. If that isn't enough, you can always go the route of moralizing it as a public health issue and see how much you could get from donations. Generally speaking Supervised Injection Sites are well received in areas with high opioid problems. If it means the area will be safer and cleaner, most people won…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:53 PM
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A part of me wishes Chris retaliated only so we could get a whole bunch of memes about "Will Smith getting Chris Rocked at The Oscar's". So close to greatness 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:29 PM
1

She'll be alright, she tough right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:37 PM
8

Yes, you can proceed to slap yourself twice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:34 PM
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As a young black lad, that was born and raised right outside of West Philadelphia, I can say without a doubt that Will has exhibited, and pardon my vernacular, what would be called around these parts as, Nut Ass Behavior (Faked or not, the whole thing is still pretty funny)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:58 PM
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I remember that! It was insane, the man is honestly top of his game I can't imagine anyone being faster than him and the twisted part is that he's doing all of this in his 60s and hasn't lost a beat. A very dangerous man who's just having fun. It's nice to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:24 PM
1

Ayy Jerry Miculek, that man is a legend. His trigger speed and reloads for revolvers are also just as crazy. He's the defintion of honing your craft.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:19 PM
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Bet y'all don't trash him every time Hillary and Bill come up in a conversation. I actually do Bill is a dirty cheater, and almost compromised his position as literally one of the most powerful people on the planet by not only cheating but by also lying about said cheating, which makes him a monumental dumbass as well. And considering after all of that they're still married (whether or not it was to just keep up an image or not), imo makes Hillary just as dumb, if not more so. Which is even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:59 PM
2

Who's mad? Most of what I see are jokes about the whole situation, which honestly makes sense because it is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:17 PM
2

No problem, I hope you end up having a fun trip!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:42 AM
2

I've actually never been lol But a bunch of my friends have and it's the area I've always thought about going most (aside from the Netherlands). If you're looking for a non-touristy area, one of my friends said she really enjoyed the island of Gozo in Malta. She said it's way less touristy than the main island, has beautiful beaches and had more cultural charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:35 AM
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It's really good! I'm not a big fan of black teas, but milk makes it so much better. The only downsides are that it feels a lot heavier than most teas and doesn't pair well with much but desserts, but it's still a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:22 AM
2

The Mediterranean! If it's drinks, beaches and arts you're looking for Southern Europe is the move. You've basically got Spain, Italy, and France all bundled up on the coast. You can go to one, or if you're planning to stay for awhile you can plan your trip around seeing all of them (and maybe even Switzerland and Greece).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:18 AM
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It's a fun time but I'd say your not missing out on much. Doing alchohol and drugs is kind of like bungee jumping or white water rafting, cool experiences to have but nothing too substantial if you're not really into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:06 AM
2

Usually depends on how I'm feeling but I never get tired of peppermint, hibiscus, and chai. If I only had to pick one of those, it'd probably be hibiscus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:36 PM
2

what do women bring to the table? Love, companionship, sex, and a new and engaging perspective and what do you want them to bring? Tea, preferably something I haven't tried before, I have a bunch of tea cups that I like using and tea tends to taste better with company
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:18 PM
1

Now all you need is a 1981 DeLorean to complete the look
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:10 PM
3

And don't forget his military experience, his time as a marine gives him a lot more combat experience, tactical intelligence, and focus/discipline than most other Lanterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Depends on what you're looking to do. If you're just trying to have sex with her, lying, slightly embellishing or deflecting might be better. If you're actually trying to have a serious relationship with her it'd likely be better to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:32 PM
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I like a lot of shit, I like skateboarding, martial arts, baking, hiking, reading, video games, biking, ultimate frisbee, and a bunch of other tuff i do sporadically. I've recently taken up guitar, and while I'm pretty shit at it now I've been having a lot of fun learning. And I really want to get into drawing and knitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:14 AM
3

Seems like a telescopic baton would make a challenge like this easy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:25 PM
1

But the danger and adrenaline 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:28 PM
1

Brutal, I guess it was a small benefit that my mom was never really tech savvy. Although there were times when she surprised me, like when I forgot that she could see the messages to my friends because we were all on the same iCloud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:28 PM
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Aww she sounds nice. I don't think my mom didn't trust us or our friends (well maybe my older sister's). More often than not when she told us not to have friends over it usually had something to do with the house. She just never liked having company over if she didn't think the house looked nice (not even family sometimes). Or if w deep cleaned the house she'd ask us not to invite people over do it'd stay cleaner for longer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:26 PM
1

Fair, but for me sneak also constitutes when you weren't allowed to have company over while they were away as well. For example, my mom also worked pretty long hours and sometimes told us not to let friends in while she was away. We did anyway hoping not to get caught, so I would constitute that as sneaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:18 PM
1

Makes sense, I assume most people float around 1-3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:03 PM
2

Impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:56 PM
1

Interesting, your parents ever find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:46 PM
1

Q4All: Growing up, what was the most amount of people you've ever snuck over your house at once, when your parents weren't there? Doesn't matter the reason. For me I'm pretty sure the most was like 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:41 PM
2

Thanks, it definitely makes me feel like an old school jazz cat or R&B singer And they're onto you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:49 AM
4

I can definitely see that You've got some cool ass hair my man. Don't get me wrong I love my fro, but growing up being sort of in the punk/alternative scene long hair like yours was the shit! (Still is to be honest) You've also got nice facial hair, definitely seeing the Plant more now too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:38 AM
3

I said Cobain but Robert Plant is even better!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:18 AM
5

Everyone looks pretty decent, if I had to pick the standouts for me personally: Men: You're that guy, and I mean that in the best possible way. You look friendly, chill, and funny. 3: Cool ass hair, and pretty good style if you're gonna for the alternative Cobain kind of look Great features, nice eyebrows and haircut too, just a subpar photo Good looking guy, nicely trimmed beard and a good haircut. Not my type but I see the appeal Women: I like your hair, and I can't tell if it's the filter or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:12 AM
2

Hell yeah, it's always nice to have a chat about culture, both parties get to share something personal and get to learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:49 AM
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No prob. And you did what you could, which may not seem like a lot but it's still more than nothing and he definitely appreciated it. An Englishman and an Irishman chatting over Guinness on St. Patrick's Day. Throw in a Scot and a Welshmen and you've either got yourself a really good joke or the greatest think tank the UK has ever seen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:36 AM
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You're a good guy. A small act of generosity and an ear to vent to. It's not a whole lot but it's just enough that it could've turned his bad day into an okay one. I hope things pick up for him moving onward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:17 AM
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Well the stat is vague in that sense. It just says 60,000 to 80,000 arrested, it doesn't really tell me whether they were first-timers or repeat offenders, or the context of the arrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:13 PM
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If we're going by US, federal crime report data shows that around 60,000 to 80,000 people were arrested in 2019 for soliciting sex. But that's only counting people who get caught, so it's likely significantly higher than that but probably not enough to be considered astronomical. Even if we high-balled it and said that it's at least 500,000 which is a pretty big number on it's own, when compared to the total adult population of the US (over 200 million) that still makes up less than 1% of the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:53 PM
1

Haven't gotten rivers of blood katana but I've heard good things. The meteoric ore is good, but the bleed effect feels weaker than the uchigatana with bloodflame on it. Still good overall though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:29 AM
1

Oh yeah I can trash regular enemies easy, but bosses take work to set up properly to actually kill and one mistake is instant death Mele with bleed effect is pretty powerful. Yup, the Uchigatana is my reliable weapon for close range confrontation. It does quick and efficient bleed damage, and if you use the bloodflame incantation you get more bleed damage and burn damage (really useful against those Spider-Hand things)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:29 AM
1

Pretty good, decided to do a mage build. Some people say that's easy mode but putting almost all my runes into Int, Faith, and Mind means that if I fuck up I get one shotted High risk, high reward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:27 AM
3

Yeah probably the best time to field for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:52 PM
3

I would but I just shaved and I prefer my stubble look to clean shaven
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:38 PM
1

Easy decision, alone. I'd much rather go alone, meet up with friends there and have a good time, and potentially hookup with one of the single girls there. Instead of having an early introduction to the world of Escorts. Plus who the hell is this girl? Does she go to my school? If she doesn't then I essentially have to entertain a stranger for the whole night. And if she does that's even fucking worst, teenagers are notorious for not being able to keep their mouths shut. Being known as the guy "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:48 AM
3

If someone cut off the tip of my pinky finger as a baby and there was no functional reason for them to do so then yeah I would be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:31 AM
1

7" you say? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:16 AM
2

Playing devil's advocate, desire and action are two separate things, there are plenty of things people want but choose not actualize and seek out. For example I'm an ass man, I like voluptuous posteriors and shall not equivocate. That's what I'm attracted to, but it's not like it's physically impossible for me to get into a relationship with someone lacking in that department. It would be like really craving a slice of chocolate cake, but you're on a diet and decide to have a salad instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:48 PM
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I do and it's quite nice, they tend to have different perspectives and experiences that I appreciate having the chance to hear about. The closest female friends I have, I consider to be like sisters the same way I consider my really close male friends to be like brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:31 PM
2

From the outside it can manifest in all different sorts of ways. Are they more closed off than before? Alienating themselves? Is there a significant shift in their behavior/attitude? Do they seem unhappy or distance? In the case of physical abuse, any noticeable bruises or cuts? Do they dress in certain ways to hide parts of their body? What have you noticed about their interactions with their partner? Do they look scared or sad around them? Stuff like this, can be signs that someone is in an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:46 PM
2

Not my cup of tea personally but if nothing crazy happened, then I really don't see any issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:35 PM
1

Are they grooming or abusing his younger partner? If it's a yes to either of those then ding ding ding we've got a toxic relationship! If it's a no to both then there's nothing to lose sleep over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:02 AM
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If it's a mutually-beneficial arrangement then who cares? I was pretty specific with my words: if it's not toxic or predatory I'm pretty much indifferent to it If it's mutually beneficial or just a clear transactional relationship why would I assume that's predatorial or toxic? In which case it goes right into the "I don't give a fuck" pile
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:49 AM
1

Sadly I don't have any eggs, so until my next grocery store trip this will remain unconvincing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:45 PM
7

That's what it's all for, the laughs 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:54 PM
1

Porn-induced Erectile Dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:25 PM
1

Most Based Man: Barely Most Based Woman: Grid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:13 PM
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Nobody in real life cares... Well, none of the people I know care... Okay there are some cases when they do care... But if you do care you're probably religious or insecure... But nobody cares if you care I don't even necessarily disagree that most people don't care, but this isn't very convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:02 PM
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I always try to show respect and encouragement to my elders when they tackle new challenges: "You go pops, get those college girls!" But seriously I hardly notice any significantly older men dating people my age. On the rare occasion it does happen, if it's not toxic or predatory I'm pretty much indifferent to it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:36 PM
1

True, the only thing that beats that is snarky gay wine aunt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:31 AM
1

But how will I ever reach nirvana!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:23 AM
1

Can confirm it is currently higher in the social hierarchy (Speaking as someone who is occasionally the snarky gay friend)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:22 AM
1

Buddha or Budai I'm hoping it's the former
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:15 AM
1

A minor producer credit? You're getting an executive producer credit and an opening credit for inspiring the show!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:12 AM
1

Don't forget Netflix They'd be foaming at their mouths to greenlight a show about a bi black man looking to find love in a thrupple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:02 AM
1

Perfect, just give me another 7-8 years and I'll be ready to pitch it to ABC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:50 AM
2

Yup that's one for the things I really like about the movie, it doesn't need much buildup. We don't need a training scene, you can see he's got a couple skills under his (utility) belt. But you can tell he's still kinda new at all this. No scene of the Waynes dying needed either, they know we've already seen it a million times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:47 AM
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Lol it be like Gen-Z poly version of A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila combined with Three's Company
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:38 AM
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Hoping I'll find two Need a sexy wife and handsome husband to thruple my way through life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:28 AM
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Now I just have to pray that whatever internal conflict that is preventing me from desiring and being in a committed romantic relationship doesn't get resolved before that point!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:20 AM
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Sounds like easy pickings for my commitment-avoidant ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:15 AM
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As long as I get the post-wall stacies I was promised, it'll be all good Just kidding, As a bi man I want the post-wall stacies... and the chads
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:10 AM
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Yeah it was a little weird but I think that's what I liked about it, Pattinson's Batman is really weird so it kinda just fits well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:08 AM
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and relaxed Hopefully not, if I were any more relaxed than I am now id be in a coffin lol But yeah my sister hit her 30s (33 now) and honestly her life is really put together, if my 30s look like hers I've got nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:04 AM
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It was both funny and humanizing, I like a Batman who isn't 100% infallible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:01 AM
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"If someone is born male, at least once in their life they dream of being the world's strongest... It does vary a bit... but everyone dreams of it. But everyone gives up on it at some point... When they lose a fight with their brother, when they run into a bully, when they learn the pain of their father's fists...Most people wind up moving on to other dreams. But... there's still a handful of men who refuse to give up on it no matter what, no matter who they run into, no matter how much they age…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:59 AM
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Yeah im just dramatic lol Honestly if i stay on track (for the most part) my 30s are actually looking quite nice. I'll have a good amount of money in my pocket, some more wisdom and experience under my belt, plus thanks to my baby face and moisturizing habits I'll probably look like I'm still in my mid 20s (hopefully)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:52 AM
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That honestly explains so much God now I'm dreading the fact that as a late 90s baby I am slowly but surely approaching my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:46 AM
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Oh to be a teenager living in Austin, Texas during the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:41 AM
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Really? I liked the wingsuit scene, I thought it was kinda funny how they shot it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:39 AM
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Most English teachers and classes I've had covered grammar, so if anything you're kinda just proving my point lol If you wanted to focus on just defining words, you'd be better suited to being a Lexicographer You thought it was a gotcha but it was only 10% of one I guess 10% was enough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:38 AM
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He gets older and they stay the same age
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:28 AM
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Agreed, when he's in a role that he makes his own it's amazing but when he's kind of just playing a part it's really obvious. First thing I ever saw him in was A Time to Kill and I thought he was amazing, then I saw him in Dazed and Confused totally different character but still amazing. Then I saw him in The Wedding Planner...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:21 AM
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Oh you're in for a treat, it's a pretty good sci-fi movie but I wasn't expecting how much it would pull on my heart-strings. I still hold to this day that McConaughey should've gotten the Oscar for his performance. And the only reason (imo) he didn't is because he already got an Oscar the year before for Dallas Buyers Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:12 AM
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A tragedy really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:03 AM
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Completely agree, I get if you're not bawling but if you can't even muster a few tears... yeah something might be off lol But my go to scene for tears is this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:02 AM
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Marley & Me As someone that has a Labrador... That's a Cheap-shot 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:56 AM
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Okay I can’t be an english teacher for everyone Yes, you most certainly cannot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:49 AM
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Yeah but at least we have a potential World War to look forward to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:08 AM
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Sorry, much like my tear ducts you're gonna have to get used to being dry MenShouldntCryInFrontOfWomen (Plus I'm saving my tears for marriage 😤)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:06 AM
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Still attached to my body, so I must be doing something right Here's hoping not for much longer, the Dulluhan lifestyle is looking mighty appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:59 AM
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I get that, some people like to keep it separate, it's like mixing mint-chocolate chip ice cream with a warm plate of spaghetti, both totally great on their own, but mixed together is too jumbled and contrasting. For me it's like vanilla ice cream and a warm slice of apple pie, both great on their own, but when mixed together lord have mercy, it is a wonderful time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:46 AM
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It's certainly fun, but I'd get bored if it was the only type of sex I having. Romantic sex with the right person feels extraordinary. Ime a hard-on and a heart-on just go so well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:30 AM
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+1 high functioning sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:23 AM
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As a man™, once in every blue moon, stuck in weary contemplation, a shift occurs, a transformation if you will Suddenly almost inexplicably, the primal desire for the congruence of erotic flesh gets replaced. No longer will the marvelous and intense feelings of sexual gratification serve to fill the hunger that exists within my heart No! A union of mind, body, and soul is required! Filled with fiery passion and lust, yet tempered by the tenderness of trust, intimacy, and romance is what I crave!…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:59 AM
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She's definitely attractive and she has a really good sense of style. But I personally don't think she's a 10/10. She's just not really my type in terms of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:59 PM
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Hell Yeah! Hoping the best for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:16 AM
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Hey if you're not looking for anything serious throwing your hat into that ring could never hurt. It's time for you to transcend to 24 Yr Black Nitbag! Their rock interpretation of Ni**as in Paris was excellent. The riffs on that beat was epic. That don't always hit but when someone actually does a good rock cover of rap, it always slaps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:50 AM
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They'll pop up every now and then to do something crazy, but never anything world shattering. They're like most radical activists, they usually spend more time talking to each other than actualizing any real radical change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:37 AM
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Damn that actually sounds cool as hell. It's always fun when bands take requests after a set. One time I was at a house show with a punk band, and the band started taking requests and one of my friends said Ocean Man as a joke, but he lost his shit when they actually played it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:28 AM
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If they randomly and specifically says: Nah, you just have a low IQ. You literally can't figure out what you did wrong there. Lmao, it's okay. Genetics are a thing, it's not your fault. Off that alone I have no clue whether or not they're just specfically calling me a fucking brain-dead idiot or making an ethnically/racially charged statement. In the former they're just pretentious, in the latter they're pretentious & racist. That's what I meant when I said "personal", personal in the sense that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:38 PM
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I can't assume whether it's generalized or personal that's why I responded that way Like I said I need to know the specific context of the conversation, who said it, and the intent behind it. Like if one of my friends said that to me, I can assume with good reason that it's just a personal lighthearted roast. If some random person on the street said it to me, it might go either way in being a personal or generalized If a Fox News anchor said it to me, I assume that it is 90-100% ethnically motiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:22 PM
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Noooo I no longer wish to be mean anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:17 PM
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It's not even specifically parents. If I say you're stupid because of genetics, I could be talking about your ethnicity, gender, parents, etc... Or I could just be saying that you're specific set of genetics, independent of any other factor, makes you inherently stupid. For example, the extra chromosome joke isn't inherently a target towards someone's parents/gender/ethnicity/culture, it can be like if you're making an Alabama/Inbred joke, but sometimes it just means "you're just naturally dumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:14 PM
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It could just be a vague way of saying "you (specifically) were fucked from the get go." It's like in high-school when you want to call your friend stupid you say that they may have born with an extra chromosomes. Unless I know the context of the conversation, it could be them specifically saying I was just born stupid or they could be saying since I belong to X group, I was always going to be born stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:06 PM
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The way it's written I probably assume they're just talking about me specfically, but if it were more generalized I'd say it's probably a dig on my ethnicity Really depends on who's saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:59 PM
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Are you making an observation or are you dicating a page from your diary /s (Damn, I'm mean today)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:54 PM
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Thanks I hope I can! I hope you enjoy your time out today, enjoy nature, catch that pike!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:45 PM
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With how swamped my year has been with work and school, that sounds like heaven on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:35 PM
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That's honestly part of the reason I wanna go too. Just being out in the woods, and just kind of unwinding and shooting the shit. It's the main reason I go hiking every so often, just to occasionally get away from it all and do/say dumb shit with my friends. And her family is really cool, I got drunk with her dad once at a holiday party and he's a riot. I'd definitely be fine if I didn't personally bag a deer just for the overall experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:23 PM
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Task failed successfully lol But look at it this way, you got a girl to give you her number and she's open to hanging in the future, you might have a chance of meeting a girl through her friend group if you guys hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:17 PM
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I really want to, I probablt get some easily from a local butcher but i really one catch and prep one. One of my friends goes hunting with her family in the fall every year and I'm trying to see if I can tag along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:12 PM
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Snapper is also amazing, blackened snapper with some veggies, cilantro, and jalapeño make some great fish tacos. I've never been hunting either, but I want to go at some point in the future because I've heard venison and rabbit are really lean and tasty meats and it would definetly taste way better fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:04 PM
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Man, this is really getting me in the mood for fish. It sounds like you guys are going have a good time, some relaxation outside and a nicely prepared meal. I hope you catch a pike!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:54 PM
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Nice, Walleye and Bass are pretty good, could never get into pike though (maybe it's how I've cooked it). Are you guys planning to eat what you catch or just catch and release? Can you even catch and release for ice fishing, I've never actually been ice fishing before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:45 PM
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Ayy nice, glad that you're doing better. What kind of fish do you guys have around your area?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:35 PM
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Yikes now I'm kinda hoping he jumps ships for his sanity (Not advice so don't be mad)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:44 AM
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REAL life relationships are not full of lust and constant sex and desire Yes, thet are. It's not 24/7 marathon sex but consistent, passionate, desirable sex is not some hard bar to reach in long term relationships MOST people are not that attractive or lust worthy Yes, they are, maybe you're not attracted to your partner but some people are still attracted to and lustful with their partners For most of us average people, me included, relationships like that arent meant for us Maybe not for you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:42 AM
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If you're at the stage where you things need to be noticed it's a sinking ship that you're trying to plug holes in If you want to plug holes for the rest of the relationship that's your prerogative, and I wish you luck. But openly admitting Yes, it's manipulative. No it's not a Gd sign if things were ideal I wouldn't do this. Does not inspire confidence for the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:31 AM
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You're playing a game instead of actively communicating If you've already actively communicated and nothing has changed your clinging onto a relationship that isn't going anywhere At this point I'm hoping one of you does just jump ship because clearly you guys aren't compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:22 AM
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They aren't that bad lol But out of all the places where I can get drunk, listen to music, and dance they are easily bottom of the list I guess they're great for hookups, but that doesn't really move the needle much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:15 AM
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You're good lol I'm mainly talking about this specific scene where Oogway and Shifu argue about the "illusion of control", using a peach tree as a metaphor. And I've always thought it was a good visual representation of what compatabilism is There are things that are very much within our control that we can exert our will on, Shifu can decide when the peaches will fall and when/where the pit is planted. (Free Will) But there are things outside our range of control that we must live with, regardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:23 AM
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Can confirm I'm well-known but at what cost
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:42 AM
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Would you think I thought I was entitled to your kitchen if I asked to use your blender? Yeah I would. I would assume anyone asking for anything assumes that they could have it otherwise they’d never ask me This is one of the funniest interactions I've seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:56 AM
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You ever seen Kung Fu Panda?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:05 AM
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You could've just said go out and get wasted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:23 PM
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Nope, if you have needs talk about it with your partner, see if you can get them meet, and if you can't leave the relationship and find someone else to fill them. And I say it's pretty gender-neutral, from personal experience I've heard girls say it slightly more than guys, not by much though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:22 PM
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Clubs suck ass, If you want to get laid go to a bar or a party or hell even a fucking rave would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:19 PM
2

Then like Slyfer said someone definitely fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:09 PM
2

Why would use old Stalin and not young Stalin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:04 PM
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As someone that absolutely abhors cheating, that was hands down one of the dumbest things I've seen written this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:58 PM
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It's one thing to say there are lapses and lulls in relationships, that's natural and part of life sometimes other shit gets in the way. But to say passion and desire just fade away to the point where this person you've decided to build and cultivate a life with can essentially be seen as a roommate/co-parent you havs sex with sometimes (exact words from the OP) Then like Slyfer said someone definitely fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:56 PM
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I don't think this is indicative of all marriages or relationships, I sure as shit know my long term relationships were not the way described. And maybe that post is being poorly articulated. But (see what I did there) if this is the pitch being peddled to some guys of what relationships are supposed to be like then it's not hard for me to imagine why they're so turned off by the prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:48 PM
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My female friends have mostly "grown up" and are with men who are mostly good fathers and husbands who treat them relatively well. And only one of my friends had cheated on her s.o, but it was a one time mistake because they were in a bad place but he's trying harder now and they seem to be a bit better. Im not even red pill and this is a terrible pitch lol And it reminds me of this line
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:26 PM
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It's definitely weird but not really anything new, idols and celebrities are suppose to curate an image to their audience that produces the most positive reaction. Hell in the 60s, Cynthia Powell, John Lennon's first wife, was advised to keep her marriage and pregnancy under wraps by his manager because he felt like it would alienate their audience. Or even earlier in the 50s, Elvis had a bunch of different photos circulating of him reading some of the fan mail and love letters he received. Para…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:31 PM
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Generally as a rule of thumb i don't watch porn in sexually active relationships. There have been times where I have watched it with a partner but other than that it's usually back of my mind. Some of the guys and girls I know do watch porn while in relationships, and I really don't have much of an opinion about it. My main thing is if it's not causing any problems I say do whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:54 PM
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Aww thanks for your words of encouragement, I already found a guy who was amazing at it but never a girl so I guess only time will tell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:39 PM
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Is this an offer 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:55 AM
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It only took you 2 words to make me look like a fool 😔 I hearby tender my resignation as Speaker for All Men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:29 AM
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We men don't like getting our ass ate 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:43 AM
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I feel like I'm being psychoanalyzed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:19 AM
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If everything else with the date goes well and we're compatible I don't see why I wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:13 AM
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Are we dating/first date or is this just a girl I met
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:43 AM
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I appreciate the encouragement! I'll do just that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:54 AM
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God I love being a ass man during these times Sir Mix-A-Lot walked, so I could run
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:21 AM
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In bed? As long as I need to Masturbating? As long as I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:39 PM
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Took the words right out my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:25 PM
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There are 2 reasons I've heard for why it didn't: Vader is wearing armor that is resistant to lightsaber strikes. We've know that material/armor that is lightsaber resistant exists so it wouldn't be completely unreasonable. Luke legit wasn't trying to take off his arm, the strike looked shallow and he pulled back immediately to get distance. Personally I say its a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:14 AM
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That's what it all for, the laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:54 PM
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The only black guy at a rock concert... How are you still a virgin? /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:16 PM
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I love that scene because my grandpa will unironically talk like that sometimes and he doesn't even realize it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:06 PM
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You fuck Chad on the first date, but you don't want to fuck Brad on the first date since you don't want to be pumped and dumped. But Brad might he upset that you didn't fuck him on the first date. Should you just lie? What is someone in this situation supposed to do? When they clearly want Chad but can be happy and content with Brad, because he would make a good Beta Bux. I guess that linguistics class wasn't useless after all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:53 PM
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It's a mixing pot, but that's what keeps this place interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:44 PM
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This is ppd, it's pretty rare to get a general consensus With regards to this specific topic I've heard (men and women alike) range from things like: • "Women inherently have it easier when it comes to dating" • "Women have it mostly easier in certain aspects but harder in others" • "Women have it harder in dating then men" And everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:41 PM
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Oh I mainly just meant it'll come back later in this sub during "who has it harder in dating" conversations But if you're looking to trauma dump I've got time 🧐🗒🖊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:00 PM
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Black, Pennsylvania
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:04 PM
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dating is easy as a woman as long as you put effort into your looks or whatever This will definitely come into play at some point 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:24 PM
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Oh most definitely, they have a plethora of information and examples of group activities in many different forms and combinations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:57 AM
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Not really the type of dynamic I want to be educated on, I'll let the other academics focus on that Now their research on mixed-gender group based dynamics are truly informative
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:52 AM
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Ahh yes those "documentaries", I've given them the once over (or twice/thrice over) and they seem legit 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:38 AM
1

She did go to an all-girl catholic school 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:32 AM
1

I personally like it just for the implications that my sister is playing a long-ass con with her husband lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:26 AM
2

You're not technically incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:01 AM
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Most women are lesbians Well better call up my sister and tell her she's a lesbian now, I don't know how she's gonna take the news
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:59 AM
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Shit now I wanna watch Willy Wonka and the Chocolate factory. Gene Wilder did dry sarcasm so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:54 AM
2

Oh no... stop... don't leave...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:38 AM
1

Well... I... nah you're right, potatoes are just a cool food overall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:42 PM
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I'm a guy, but I'll answer as most TRPers assume that I'm a woman just because I disagree with their delusional beliefs. You didn't have to bring up TRPers in this discussion but chose to anyway... If you want to fuck them just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:16 PM
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He's attractive... but he really looks like a douchebag So I guess like a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:03 PM
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Fair point lol You could always just chat it up with someone, chill on a couch and maybe hold their hand if it's just physical intimacy you're craving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:11 AM
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Just do what I did Step 1: Find a Party Step 2: Go to the Party Step 3: Find someone to talk to Step 4: ??? Step 5: Make-Out with them Step 6: Profit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:43 AM
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They aren't separate issues it's compounded by both factors, it's not just lack of desire, and it's not just being the penetrated partner. It's having no desire and being the one penetrated. The problem stems from that specific intersection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:22 AM
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I skipped out on Breaking Bad when it first came out. A bunch of my friends kept recommending it to me so I ended up binging it last summer. Loved it and I would definitely like a chance to go back and watch it blind again with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:13 PM
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There was a point in time where the total population of the world was a fraction of a fraction of what it is now, I'm sure things will work themselves out like they always have and if not ¯_(ツ)_/¯ That's the fun part about hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:27 PM
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It would result in inbreeding in the long run and what about the rest of the guys? There are 7.9 billion people on the planet, I'm sure they'll manage. what about the rest of the guys? Up to them to figure out what to do You think they would be okay with it ? Idk probably not Are you sure, it's just attraction which matters, not evolutionary incentives? Hey we'll only know for sure after it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:15 PM
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So many "straight" guys on the gay hookup sites who are dominant with their girlfriends but really want to suck a dick. It's honestly like night and day Alpha Masc "straight" Tops to their friends: Man i sure do love pussy and fucking women, pump and dump these hoes On Grindr/Twitter: Why aren't you responding to my dms cutie, I just wanna make you feel good 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:09 PM
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Ehh I can see it going a couple of ways But if that's the way it plays out and they're fine with that setup, more power to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:06 PM
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I'd probably make them all Bi*, just for shits and giggles Other than that I really don't care about changing much else (*I'd also do the same with men, but that wasn't part of the prompt)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:20 PM
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Always have been
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:35 PM
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No Problem, I'm glad that you're getting good advice that's helping to put you at ease!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:41 AM
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That's fair, we all have our off days every now and then and I can understand your frustration. Insecurity and Self-doubt can be a bitch but sometimes the best thing you can do is let the thoughts come, acknowledge them, and let them move past you. If it makes you feel any better, I think you're doing just fine, and as cliché as it is, life is marathon not a sprint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:33 AM
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Hasn't happened to me yet, but I assume that's mainly because I prefer to watch instead of interact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:26 AM
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Just because it's uncommon doesn't make it bad and I don't think the other poster intended it to mean that. You're doing fine, as someone only like 2 years older than you, I know people that were virgins all the way up til grad school, and they didn't really have a problem with meeting people and having healthy relationships. The best thing you can do is not put so much pressure on yourself to be like everyone else just because. One of the best pieces of advice I've ever gotten was "Different do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:11 AM
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Nobody: Absolutely Nobody Users on PPD: "incels"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:12 AM
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Not if you're actually a college student I can see girls wearing basically they're underwear for free just by walking around campus, even during the winter ❄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:31 PM
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And not a one of those women gives a shit that you think women have it easier. Okay so why does it matter when the men here say it? If they don't give a shit then we wouldn't have to sit here and have this discussion. Why do women here feel the need to debate against it, if there is no functional purpose to do so? Drinking poison and expecting someone to else to die is beyond pointless. Why do you care? They don't give a shit about what you think and it doesn't affect you in any significant way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:09 PM
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Social Media, meet-up sites, impromptu encounters, social connections/word-to-mouth, etc It's honestly the same as any other business, if anything finding a client base in that industry is easy, vetting them is the hard part insert dating joke here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:51 PM
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When trust fund kids claim that they are "self-made", people will eye roll and complain because it's disingenuous. It won't change anything functionally speaking, doesn't make it any less annoying to hear. If we're pretending that "women have it easier in dating" is an objective truth, then there are large swaths of women who are at best being disingenuous or at worst outright lying when they claim the contrary. Most people don't like being peddled bullshit, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:10 PM
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Is it masculine to suck dick, be penetrated or to be sexually submissive to a man? In gay culture? Sometimes, it can be more or less neutral depending on who you ask. In straight (bi as well to an extent) culture? Generally not, any sexual submission to a man will usually connotate to feminine. And what's the psychology of gay and bi men who only top? Some just don't like to bottom, they may have tried it and learned it wasn't for them or are just generally averse to that kind of role. Others do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:12 PM
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The rules were set against you before you even started playing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 AM
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It must be something exclusive to teens then, because I'm on the younger side (22) and yeah my friends use filters for a lot of their pictures, but we wouldn't be pressed to find at least one non-filtered semi-recent photo of them if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:39 PM
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Gender: Male Masculine: 127 Feminine: 116 Quadrant: Androgynous Although I don't like how some of the questions are set up, I still think this is pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:48 PM
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Well that's what I mentioned, all of this only comes to a head if somehow they miraculously don't have any natural pictures of a person to pick from. Terrible situation, but feels very niche if we're having a conversation on the "dangers of filters" most people I know have some recent natural picture of themselves and/or friends/family hanging around. The fact that these girls don't is what seems strange more so than the filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:28 PM
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It would throw people off for sure, but if it's the only functional difference in my appearance it shouldn't be that staggering if they have some frame of reference to go off of. If someone were to post a missing person poster that looks like this and the person currently looks like this, I feel like the average person could put two and two together, especially if they make note that the person in the poster "may not have the same hair color/currently has blue hair". Like I said it's not perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:21 PM
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Well that's a pretty significant factor to account for when looking at the whole story. But even then I can get not having huge group celebratory photos, but no natural/candid pics at all within like a year? And teen appearances change fast Teen appearances are dynamic and erratic I'll give you that, but that's mainly just style/aesthic. The average teen isn't shifting so drastically in raw physical appearance that a picture that is a couple months to possibly a year old wouldn't be atleast semi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:42 PM
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So within their entire social sphere of family and friends they couldn't find any recent natural pictures of them at all. School pictures/ID, Driver's license/State ID, Family photos, Group pictures. Like don't get me wrong, I think this a terrible situation but I can't help but think that teen girls filtering themselves on social media shouldn't be the focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:50 PM
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I didn't say most guys don't care, they just don't care much. It's not something they're passionate about in the same way that women are, but it's something that they'd likely prefer more often than not. They're usually just gonna go out and vote in favor of policies that support their beliefs, and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:35 PM
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I genuinely believe most men do not care that much, it's something that ranges from neutral to positive for the average guy, but they aren't really passionate about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:14 PM
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Good movie series, great choreography too, Donnie Yen does an amazing job as Ip Man (and is a legitimate badass in real life as well). And yeah there a bunch of different examples of healthy masculinity, mainly just due to the function of how traditional martial arts was/is taught and the principles involved with them. Things like honor/respect, fraternity, perseverance, control/discipline, stoicism, righteous violence, humility, things that are "masculine-coded" are all fundamental in their phi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:02 PM
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One of the girls in my friend group who I'd only know for look a year, started to get into anime. I told her the classic Ghibli stuff was some of the best, and I invited her to my place to watch Princess Mononoke. After the movie waa over we went into my room to smoke and talk, she started to get flirty and asked me if I thought she was cute, I obviously said yes then we ended up making out and having sex. She ended being my FWB for about 5 months after that. I don't know if I can even count thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:23 PM
2

I'm not a violent man but maybe... but Kirk>Picard any day of the week. there are times when it is justified
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:46 PM
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Change My View
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:10 PM
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If a cold-blooded Han is wrong, i don't wish to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:06 PM
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Consider this though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:54 PM
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I definitely have to check it out again, there are so many shows that people say I would like that I just never got into like Firefly (which is really surprising since I love Alan Tudyk).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:47 PM
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Take Him to Detroit! The cold-hearted hair trigger Han that shoots first will always be superior!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:45 PM
1

I've seen a couple episodes and heard good things but I was never able to get into Battlestar, maybe I should try to pick it up again now that I'm older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:20 PM
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For Archer I think most of it is I just can't stomach the original series and I grew up while Enterprise episodes were releasing. Fair, Next Gen was my introduction into the series even though I was born around the time Enterprise came out, I never really liked the original series either but I have a sweet spot of Spock And voyager's endless torpedoes always bothered me. Ahh the lovable inconsistent continuity that was 80s and 90s sci-fi.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:43 PM
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Let's go more Janeway appreciation! This is the almost the exact same pecking order I have, except I'd move Archer below Spock, he never felt that interesting to me. Which is weird because the concept of him basically pioneering intergalactic exploration is actually very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:23 PM
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Always
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:01 PM
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Cheating Giving me ultimatums Abuse/manipulation (to anyone not just me) And thinking Kirk > Picard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:48 PM
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It's more or less just a semantic difference, just curious lol I agree with your appraisal for some of the guys It's just an ego thing where they want shit to be casual for them but not for her. But I also think that some of the guys like that will leverage a potential relationship as a means to keep a girl on the hook, because he's not in a position just to ask for sex. The reason being that he's either not "alpha" enough to inspire desire spontaneously or the girls that he's into aren't the ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:32 PM
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If it were a CMV, you’d counter it? Well that's why I'm asking The last part of your OP sounds more like an affirmative claim than an open take/idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:17 PM
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Is this a debate or CMV cause you've already answered your own question: These “Chads” want more than “sex” and “validation that they can have sex.” They want their ego validated. And they want the ease of access a woman who’s “really into him” provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:02 PM
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Cheating indicates both secrecy and disregard, you're actively doing something behind your partner's back, pure and simple. Cheating in that type of situation is just being too selfish and chickenshit to broach an uncomfortable subject with someone who is supposed to be your intimate partner. And the whole "i take care of them, I do x,y,z" is a martyr mentality and I personally don't fuck with that line of thinking. We all make decisions and as adults we should understand the possible ramificati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:22 PM
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Now I understand the part about breaking of trust and feeling betrayed, especially if this person still had your back and did everything they could as your partner. So they did everything they could as a partner... except that they didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:40 PM
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Yeah it do be like that, part of it also seems to come from how deceptively strong guys can be. Like my friend is pretty skinny, like easily 120ish pounds soaking wet, but he still has an easy enough time overpowering the girls in our group who are around the same weight or even bigger than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:57 PM
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Oh yeah, strength means jack shit if there is more than one guy or they have a weapon. Good to have a weapon on you just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:37 PM
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True, but it's not like I don't get where women are coming from, the strength gap between your average man and average woman is pretty wide, so there's definitely more comfort when that gap isn't as big when you're a guy. But even then it's not like the danger is non-existent, as a guy you're kinda just expected/socialized not to really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:26 PM
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Going on walks in the middle of the night, I like taking brisk walks at night so it's nice that I have the option But I don't know how much of that is chalked up to me having an inherent advantage when it comes to being out alone at night or me just ignoring the potential dangers that come with being out at night alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:58 PM
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The only correct answer 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:52 PM
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The blocking feature seems to be forcing ppl to behave civilly more than the mods ever could. Is it actually? I don't really care about the new blocking feature at all, but has it really made the sub more civil?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:20 PM
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Black people are pretty socially conservative which might be where they're pulling that from, but saying that is different than saying Baltimore is one of the most socially conservative cities in the U.S. I don't have any stats to agree or disagree, but off of general instinct that's a claim I'd definitely ask for good proof of (Especially considering the cluster fuck of social and political conservatism that is the Bible Belt)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:37 PM
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Yeah... Comedy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:49 PM
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Nah he's talking about the real androgynous character... Vander
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:44 PM
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The "No Dick" threat works, she is no longer getting any dick and I'm no longer getting any of my texts returned 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:43 PM
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It mitigates anxiety and people pleasing and puts you in a comfortable frame of mind, so yeah I'd say it's good advice at least for first interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:42 PM
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Yes to both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:14 PM
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I've seen some videos on TikTok about him but I still don't understand what exactly he did wrong. Maybe I'm just too lax about dating etiquette or I just don't have the full story but he seems like a fuckboi at worst and a slightly disingenuous causal dater at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:11 PM
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It's free and easy, and generally most people usually aren't thinking: "Man, I have to be careful or this one piece of positive reinforcement/validation is going to irrevocably damage this person's frame of reality and sense of self, and set them up for failure and heartbreak in everyday life when they hear a contrasting opinion" Just my assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:30 PM
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Appreciate the gesture, but I'd rather not get flowers (unless they're fake) because I really wouldn't feel like taking care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:57 AM
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My best friend's girlfriend told him that he was "Just as crazy as his Mom" when they got into a heated argument. This was only a couple of weeks after he worked up the courage to tell her that she struggles with bipolar disorder and he worries that it might develop in him. (For reference he has gone to several psychiatrists before and after that incident, none of which has diagnosed him with bipolar disorder)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:06 PM
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Imma about to say, I must have missed some seriously heavy legislation dropping, because I'm pretty sure prostitution is already illegal in the US (save for like a handful of counties in Nevada)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:57 PM
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You can have insecurities, the trick is to not be an insecure person. You didn't link the post so I can only assume that's what she meant and she just worded it terribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:34 AM
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What's the best strain of weed you smoked? And how did it make you feel? Relaxed? Energetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:52 AM
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And unlike me, he puts away all of the stuff in the drainer before washing a new batch. LOL So wait does that mean you just put each individual dish in the drainer away as you're cleaning a new dish to clear up space in the drainer?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:37 AM
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Yeah lol Not saying a plain/resting face can't work, there's actually nothing wrong with you facially, but it looks like you're all but frowning in pics 2 and 3. And pretty much what everyone else said the lighting in these kind look drab and they're a little too close. Try experimenting with angles and lighting, can't beat natural light if you know how to position yourself and the camera well. And maybe have someone else take the pictures for you and if you can't find anyone try setting up the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:46 PM
3

"Smile More" Aaron Burr circa 1776
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:33 PM
1

Id say go with dark tan over black so you have more options for pants, but if you wear black or brown pants a lot dark tan won't work as well, so keep that in mind. Personally I think 4 is the best because I don't really like decals/logos on my shoes (save for sneakers), and it looks comfortable and simple. But I think 1 is also a good pick if you don't mind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:27 PM
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I shower everyday but I only wash my hair with shampoo like 2 times a week. It's pretty easy not getting my hair wet just based on the angle of the shower head to my body (plus mine is detachable). And yeah I condition and moisturize my hair about every day so my hair doesn't get dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:21 PM
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SCANDAL A damn shame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:00 PM
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22M, lost it at 13 with my then girlfriend (who was my best friend before that), it was pretty much what you'd expect first-time sex with two curious yet inexperienced teens would be like, awkward and not very satisfying. We did it couple of times after that which was better, mainly because we weren't as anxious and jittery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:54 AM
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If he were still alive today he would be harassed non-stop to go on Joe Rogan's podcast. "So I heard you overdosed on meth and ended up going on a crazy bender, fell on a landmine, and only ate pinecones and raw meat" "Niin" "See this is why I think we should legalize meth..."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:50 PM
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Yeah it sucks but hey that's life, well not for him, but you get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:18 PM
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True, I remember one time my friend went into anaphylactic shock and I'm the only one who knew where his epipen was. But I really didn't feel like going to his room to go get it and honestly he didn't even have the courtesy of asking me nicely to get it for him in between his panicked gasps for air. He ended up dying before the paramedics came. RIP Wisco, hopefully you died knowing I didn't owe you shit. For some odd reason I wasn't invited to the funeral, and I've noticed an uptick in the numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:02 PM
1

Generally because when you get on Tinder you're more or less consenting to being approached with romantic intentions. I would be really pissed off if someone randomly punched me in the face while I was walking down the street minding my own business. But I'm more or less okay with being punched and kicked in the face while sparring on the mats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:37 PM
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Yeah I don't really care about height or height differences until they hit the extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:26 AM
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Nothing, I'm just saying what they're trying to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:01 AM
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Fair enough But if you ever meet a guy who goes on and on about why he drives stick, just know he's definitely into getting pegged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:39 AM
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It's not so much the content (although I do think there is some significant overlap) as much as the energy/feeling they carry. It's kind of like how horse girls and car guys are basically analogous. Or like astrology girls and guys that unironically theorize about sigma/delta/gamma/theta males.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:34 AM
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I'm gonna be honest, that still sounds pretty much like Tumblr and 4chan to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:14 AM
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The recent thread about TRP/FDS has kind of made me realize that TRP and FDS are both kind of just the adult versions of 4chan and Tumblr respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:01 AM
2

If it could actually fit into my chest cavity comfortably, another heart would be pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:32 PM
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12 but it is funny as hell so you might get a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:47 PM
2

"It's like a little kid with progeria cracking all his ribs trying to catch a nerf football" (This one is so oddly specific that I genuinely believe one of the writers has seen this happen)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:47 PM
6

Can't pass up the chance to use this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:34 PM
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It ranges from "damn that's really fucked up" to "ehh kinda disappointing but whatever". An example of the former would be something like John Lennon and Cynthia Powell, they met in college and she admitted he was "rough around the edges" but fell for his musical soul. And he was far from being a good partner, he admitted that he was abusive, that he cheated, and he (really his manager) basically made her keep their relationship a secret early on to avoid public attention that would hurt his and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:32 PM
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Bechdel Test: Failed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:41 PM
1

Right but if things are desperate enough to include boys and old men, why not women? And if things aren't that desperate why include involuntary forces at all? Like I said I think drafts are dumb but I cannot think of single functional reason to exclude women in general from a draft if one were to be needed. non-combatantive is so much more cushy than dying on a battle field. That's a bad argument. My point remains that is women aren't fighting, it's still not equal for the MRAs It's not a bad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:28 AM
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depends on the draft. If it gets . If it gets bad enough, countries have sent boys and old men to war That just seems to prove the point that it's even more ridiculous for a draft to not be gender-inclusive. If they're so desperate that they're willing to send boys and old men into combat situations knowing that they aren't going to ideal, it makes no sense not to include women (especially women that are of age and able-bodied). if women are getting all the cushy roles, then the point of men wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:01 AM
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Women who self-select into the military are going to be mentally and physically strong, serious, tough, and ready. All of these are criteria that are already used to sift through applicants of a draft (age,weight, health, education, criminal record, etc.), a gender-inclusive draft wouldn't change this except by possibly creating a distinction between what is considered "fit and eligible" between male and female applicants. Compare that to the average woman who is usually weak or fat, emotional a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:32 PM
3

More or less Generally speaking people just don't like feeling slighted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:52 PM
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Nope it wouldn't bother me. But I can understand why it would be bothering to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:30 PM
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If women find that kind of thing acceptable, then yeah I guess men should have to suck it up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:45 AM
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Makes sense it was kind of lackluster send-off for his character, which I can understand since his actor died. But they could've done a lot more with the character that was basically the closest thing to a father Archer has ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:13 PM
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They technically did, the intro to season 8 was his funeral and he died from a heroin overdose while Archer was in his coma.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:48 PM
2

First?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:01 PM
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Yup definitely Walter Mitty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:25 PM
1

Sounds like "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" but if it was written as a poem instead of a short story by William Blake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:17 PM
2

"The decisions you make, and the actions that follow are a reflection of who you are. You cannot hide from yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:44 PM
4

I'll tell you the same thing I was told as a freshman: "You're the one paying for the classes, come or don't, as long as your check clears no one really cares". The one corollary I'll add is: "If you actually care about your grades, try to only skip classes that you know you can afford to skip"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:26 AM
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I work out because I want to, if at any point I decide I don't want to I'll stop, and I won't need an excuse to rationalize that decision to anyone else. If "i don't do things I don't have to or want to" isn't good enough I don't know what else to tell someone. Most people don't have excuses, because they don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:52 AM
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Huh I always expected Jack Black to play as Jerry Garcia if they ever made a movie about him, but I guess Jonah Hill also works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:14 PM
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He's got options: A. Wait it out and just see if this general feeling of discomfort will go away B. Talk to her directly about it, get his feelings in the air, see how he feels and where things are currently in the relationship, and make a decision then C. He can end the relationship now, it's just a gut feeling but it might be something that's irreconcilable with this relationship, and it might be best for the both of them if things ended. I say all are pretty viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:58 PM
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A call at the very least, ghosting would probably be the easiest thing to do but I'd probably feel bad if I didn't say something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:23 PM
2

I really enjoy Crime and Punishment, pretty much everything Vonnegut (but especially Slaughterhouse Five and Mother Night), Don Quixote, and No Longer Human. Overrated? Moby Dick, The Old Man & The Sea, Catcher in the Rye, Pride and Prejudice, and The Great Gatsby (sorta).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:22 AM
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Figures lol but yeah I think benign tumors are pretty common in fish, my friend has had a few goldfish get tumors and they're still kicking and she's had them since high school. You just gotta be like the fish and ride it out til one of you croaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:50 AM
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If it's had it for that long and it hasn't changed in size and shape, and there isn't any drastic change in it's behavior like it erratically darting around it's tank or a significant loss of appetite, it's probably a benign growth. In which case it's only really a problem if it affects it's movement or access to food. If it's really bothering, you can probably get a vet to check and confirm whether it's benign or not, if it's the former they'd probably cut off the growth for you (but you might …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:33 AM
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Eh r/sex can just be weird like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:16 PM
2

It kinda reminds of this lol But nah you're not in the wrong. You're trying to take in relevant factors and provide advice accordingly, "just break up" is the easiest answer (and imo should be considered in this situation). But I assume the OP is fielding for solutions that don't require ending the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:08 PM
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what do women think is more important than it actually is? From personal experience, breast size what do they think is less important than it actually is? Transparency, but I think that's a general problem for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:05 AM
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Really good if you like a little extra tangy/acidic taste but you're kind of bored of lemons/limes paired with fish https://cafedelites.com/crispy-honey-orange-glazed-salmon/#recipe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:50 PM
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I mean yeah, it sucks but shit happens. Can't really change how someone feels about a situation like that, either it bothers them or it doesn't. If you want to look at it optimistically better it happens before they enter a legally binding contract than after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:40 PM
3

What's actually changed? His perception of her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:22 PM
2

Ehh it might be sending out mixed signals to some but I wouldn't call it immoral. If she doesn't bring up a desire for anything more than sex than I wouldn't think too deeply about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:05 PM
1

In what regards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:45 AM
2

Main difference is that it's not three men saying that, we have literally hundreds of threads on reddit, several a week, where many men make it known that a woman with an n-count that is not extremely low is trash to be discarded and not a human being worthy of love, hence why I used the word "consensus." Okay, how many people have you seen in real life say that, like in actuality with their own words and back up with actions that match? And of those people how many were happy, well adjusted non…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:32 PM
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Right, and since men basically seem to have a consensus that a women is trash to be discarded once they have an n-count of over 4, I think that's a good cutoff I'll take "Things that people say on the internet that I have now chosen to believe wholeheartedly and will now project onto the totality of the population" for 500 Alex. I will now call my sisters and yell at them for condoning murder, because I saw 3 women post #KillAllMen on Twitter. If a woman has slept with 4 or more men, she should …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:52 PM
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You know what's a really effective way for women to avoid being blamed when men act abusive, lose their tempers, and to avoid being ridiculed for being a single mom or having too high of an "n-count"? Having healthy relationships? Simply not sleep with or get into relationships with men in the first place I actually agree, if a person is having such a shitty time getting into a healthy relationship, and they are repeatedly falling backwards into piss poor relationships, one of the easiest soluti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:32 PM
2

They weren't in the same circles at all, and they are all from wildly different backgrounds. So the main commonality is you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:13 PM
1

Oh then he's got no excuse to be as angry as he is at you. You did you're due diligence and he decided to hop on for that ride for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:13 PM
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NTA, she wasn't into him plain and simple The only thing he's semi-justified in being annoyed by is that you didn't give him the heads up early on so he wouldn't have to be 3rd wheel all night, like a "hey dude I don't think she's into you, she's into me". And even then I'd say some of that is still on him for not being perceptive (but you were actively hiding it so Idk). He's got every right to not wanting to go out with you again, but blowing up on you like that is a dick move no matter how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:47 PM
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Boots Store
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:03 AM
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The fact that you and the other guy have almost the same avatar is so confusing haha Ehh they're pretty much the same person Also I’m pretty sure Pussy whatever is a troll Yeah and Fleisch probably knows that but is too high off his own self-righteousness to not engage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:25 AM
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Hey whatever gets you off, Mr. Pot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:46 AM
1

Did you really delete a comment just to re-write up another longer comment to dunk on someone in online internet argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:40 AM
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Wait I love this game Coke Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:39 AM
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See you tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:08 AM
1

I think that proves how mentally maladaptive these people are, I mean I wouldn't give up my pinky finger let alone my life for 72 virgns, but go off I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:04 AM
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I too use death cults and suicide bombers as the benchmark for normal and mentally sound human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:32 PM
2

I always saw elephants as avatars of destruction in some sense. Smug Ganesha Noises
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:59 PM
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Death by elephant huh Definitely not one of the ways I thought I'd die, but atleast I'll leave behind a more interesting obituary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:48 PM
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"Hey man you should probably stop, I understand that it sucks but i feel like this is a gross overreaction to... ...What the hell am I saying, you're a fucking elephant. Do whatever the hell you want until you decide to leave or when the local authorities decide to either tranq you or put you down. Likely the former since you're an endangered species."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:40 PM
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Depends on how much they actually want the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:03 PM
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Then you're good to keep fucking with a clear conscience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:10 AM
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Depends on what your morals are. Usually a good rule of thumb is if you ask yourself "Would I be okay with this if someone did it to me or someone I know/care about?" If the answer is a no then yeah you're probably morally wrong. If the answer is yes, you aren't morally wrong (at least by your own standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:04 AM
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I've met people in college that don't know how to do their own laundry and people that refuse to do dishes unless they have a dishwasher. It's crazy but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:35 PM
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I have no idea why parenting his own children is where he draws a line in the sand He calls his mom over, who is of the “men shouldn’t be hands-on parents” old school thinking I think you may have an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:27 PM
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Lord of the Flies was also definitely one of the books everyone had to read, almost forget about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:20 PM
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I agree it's easy enough to engage with and the story isn't really boring, that, Slaughterhouse 5 and Hitchhiker's Guide I think are really good books for people that aren't usually into reading. Mainly because they all have a sort of sci-fi pull mixed in with the themes that make them more interesting than they would be if they were written more realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:07 PM
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Ender's Game is really good but would definitely be leisure reading. I don't think any classes had it as part of their curriculum the entire time I was in HS. Weirdly enough the movie came out in my freshman year and it's what motivated some of my friends to read the book
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:48 PM
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I'd say only about 60% of those books were part of the standard/basic English/Lit courses for my HS. Like everyone and their mom from my high school has read To Kill a Mockingbird, Diary of Anne Frank, A Raisin in the Sun, All Quiet on the Western Front, The Great Gatsby, etc. The others you could probably be exposed to but only if you took accelerated or elective courses that were heavy on studying literature. Like Frankenstein, The Odyssey, Invisible Man, 1984, Heart of Darkness, Slaughterhous…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:34 PM
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Damn, I guess it taught the department as a whole a pretty important lesson: make sure you burn down the right houses for training.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:39 PM
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Yes, you have confirmed that more than one thing can be unnecessary at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:21 PM
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Like, how would more experience make someone worse at sex? If a person is a shitty and selfish lover, and has sex with 3 people, and they're told by all 3 partners that the sex was great when in actuality it was actually pretty bad then that person hasn't gotten any better at sex. So not only are they still a shitty and selfish lover, but they also may have developed an overinflated ego about they're own sexual prowess. Which will likely lead to a very defensive and frustrated response if and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:37 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:06 PM
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Every single obsess guy? No A select few? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:39 PM
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Not really, I think most people here are actually pretty rational (save for some outliers) or at the very least have the capacity to be very rational. Some just pick and choose when they want to be rational and when they don't want to be rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:18 AM
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There's opposition because people cherry pick bad behavior from constituents? Yes. Don't TRP people bitch about that all the time? Yes, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:12 AM
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I get that and I agree more or less, I'm just kind of explaining why there is opposition. Most of the opposition comes from how the adherents enact their ideology not from the ideology in and off itself. Like the Bible says things like "love thy neighbor", "thou shalt not steal", and "thou shalt not murder". But history has shown that a lot of invading, pillaging, and murder was done in the name/under the guise of Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:55 AM
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I've said for a while that it's better to view TRP and FDS as open forum public therapy more than anything else. Generally speaking the concepts and ideology aren't "bad" but a lot of people associated with them are kind of just assholes. It's kind of like AA. It's generally a good thing to help people manage and overcome their addictions. Having said that some people that do go through AA end up becoming pretentious and intolerable "straight-edge" assholes which is still better than being an al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:23 AM
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Yes, and every time it's "ooo oo incel bad and pathetic" like aren't you the guy that compared incels to literal nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:34 AM
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Liking cocks doesn't make you a loser, in my opinion atleast but I have a bi-as... ... but cultivating a personality/persona that involves obsessively bemoaning and complaining about a group of people that you don't need to interact with definitely comes off as unhinged though. And it's not something generally associated with happy and well-adjusted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:01 AM
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Do you have $50 dollars and a couple of hours of free time throughout the week?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:52 PM
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I'm just pointing out how disingenuous your comment is, no one is clamoring about letting immigrants in because of "shrinking populations". They want immigrants to come in because they readily provide labor. Whats funny is outside of areas with a lot of this immigration I see people don't those jobs who aren't immigrants. Great they should go get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:07 PM
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Hey, don't talk to me, talk to your congressmen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:48 PM
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Durka der!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:28 PM
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Also Western dimwits: OMG we need immigration of 3rd world people due to a shrinking population! Labor... they want them for labor... labor that most people refuse to do...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:16 PM
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Then I think you might just be bad at dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:56 PM
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Everyone is so boring. Get better friends/social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:40 PM
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Yeah it doesn't happen often but they will do it once and while They're always old houses or buildings that were going to be torn down anyway so the department will swoop in to use those for training as long as they're isolated enough not to cause damage to any other structure or people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:38 PM
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When we avoid men who actually show off red flags(controlling, violent, possessive, trying to isolate you, history of physical abuse etc) we’re accused of being stuck up or not willing to give a guy a chance. Take it away Bill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:15 PM
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My maternal grandfather had a hard time admitting he had any feelings at all and generally was kind of dick. But my paternal grandfather is sappy as fuck. Always talking about his grandkids, telling us he loves us, happy to hear about our day and have us over for visits. But apparently he's always been like that, he's just naturally an open and expressive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:16 PM
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I'm reminded of that every time I look in a mirror. Facially speaking I came out almost a carbon copy of my mom (except I got my dad's big ears).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:29 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:35 PM
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^ what he said The discord they met in was already filtered for location so they knew they were at least relatively close beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:31 AM
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My friend started a relationship with a girl he met on discord, try there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:38 AM
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Yeah it's really never been easier to be a weed dealer lol Now my ecstasy guy on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:37 AM
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It's not legal where I live, she pulls a double whammy by having a medicinal card and being from a state where it is legal recreationally (Nevada). So she stocks up when she's back home during breaks, she buys down here from dispensaries with her card, and then she sells to the young adults of my university. Not what you'd expect from a conventional dealer, but a dealer nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:31 AM
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honestly she probably does for a woman. Ehhhh... she's professional ill give her that but overall she's pretty chipper, friendly, and feminine In any case, other male dealers probably wouldn't be as aggressive with her since (outside of PPD), men don't like competing with women She's more or less made a niche for herself where she doesn't have to directly compete against them. She's a "work smarter, not harder" type of girl I bet she buys from a dude tho 👀 Only if it's a dude behind the counter …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:22 AM
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Off to go tell my weed girl she has a very masculine personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:07 AM
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Gotcha, thought I'd ask because I've noticed those are two groups that tend to be most opposed to gift exchanges. The former usually doesn't really like gift giving at all, the latter might like giving gifts but hate receiving. My family wasn't "poor" but after my father died it took us some time to get settled and comfortable, so I ended up being really money conscious growing up and a part of it stuck with me even though I'm fine now financially. I feel weird when people give me gifts or money…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:55 AM
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Are you neurodivergent or did you grow up less than well off?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:37 AM
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By talking to people in relationships and just looking at general trends in my own life, for example: I have stopped watching porn the minute I entered a relationship for all but 2 of my relationships One of my best friends has been in long distance relationship for about 9 months, no porn My ex-roommate/friend has been in a relationship for 2 years, no porn since the relationship started And one of my friends is "talking" with a new girl and they aren't even officially in a relationship but he …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:28 AM
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Men who dont watch porn in a relationship are the only decent dudes for ltrs Not hard to find... like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:44 AM
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I disagree, I think libido wanes and slows down as you get older and sex becomes less of a priority but it doesn't just go away(for most people). People who like, enjoy, and want to have sex when they're young, tend to still like, enjoy, and want to have sex when they're old. There may be complications that are involved with aging that may make having sex hard, but the desire still very much exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:52 PM
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Spock was part human, and even if he wasn't Vulcans reproduce sexually as well, and when their "mating period" comes they can become even more sexually motivated and aggressive than humans: "The seven-year cycle (pon farr) is biologically inherent in all Vulcans. At that time, the mating drive outweighs all other motivations... During pon farr, adult Vulcans undergo a neurochemical imbalance that take on a form of madness. I don't see why he would think human sexuality is illogical considering t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:41 PM
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A man of culture and science
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:09 PM
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The 60s and 70s, the period in time (atleast in the US) when being thin was literally the ideal... They would be called "fat" in 2020s where being "thicc" and "curvy" is the current trend/ideal Yeah I'm gonna call bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:20 PM
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That checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:44 PM
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I've heard from a couple art friends that it is a hard adjustment in the beginning but after you get used it is so much fun especially when you're messing around with details. If it's something like shading, it helps if you have a program that allows you to do layering or one that has customizable brushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:01 PM
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Yeah, I'm bi so I really wouldn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:25 AM
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Oh my bad But then I guess it's simply would these men be better if they had more friends and hobbies... yeah probably for some but then it's a mindset issue that you have to fix from the start For others it wouldn't make much of different, and im sure some of the guys in the manosphere buckled down did all of that and still came out of it with the mindset they have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:06 PM
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This is the problem for most ppl who view it as a default no. If it isn't why make it mandatory? Just entice and encourage These are the same type of ppl who probably don’t ever want to work out or eat healthy because it doesn’t feel good to them. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:17 PM
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Maybe, but not if it's mandatory. I've been doing martial arts since I was 11 and it has all that good stuff: physical activity, positive male influences, male camaraderie, tangible goals, etc. I would spend 2-4 days a week getting punched, kicked, and thrown around but I didn't care because it was fun to me (and it better have been considering i/my mom was paying for it). You don't really get to enjoy the benefits if you're sitting there thinking about why you don't want to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:34 PM
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Does silence equal acceptance? There is a lot, and I mean a lot of dumb takes and stretches here daily but honestly I really just don't have the capacity to engage with most of them, especially when they're based on anecdotes. I could jump in with a "hey, that's just your experience and not indicative of any general trend that I've noticed and not a good basis for an argument..." and I do sometimes, but other times it's like "whatever, I know that's not true so it doesn't matter".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:37 AM
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In terms of crypto, it's just that and Cardano, not very deserve but I'm not really putting that much money into crypto in general right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:51 AM
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Eh maybe, I didnt get a bunch of doge but I got some before it started really peaking, if it does turnover a dollar that'd be great but I'm not really expecting much at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:23 AM
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Smart man, there might be a resurge but I don't think it's gonna happen for a while. I still remember when everyone was talking about it hitting 1$ before the year was over but I think that peak in the spring was as good as it's gonna get. Hope you at least got in early and got a nice profit out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:05 AM
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Good for him! I never really understood why people get so scared of gray/white hair, out of all the signs of aging it's the least detrimental for appearance imo. One of my friends is going gray now (he's 22) and honestly it looks kind of cool especially considering he's still in that transitional period where it's still mostly dark brown/black, so it kind gives an ashy look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:28 AM
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I feel like going gray isn't really that bad. Depending on how you manage your hair, you might actually come out looking better (or atleast have the Silver Fox appeal). I wouldn't mind going gray in my 30s if I get to style my hair like Leroy Smith
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:14 AM
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Depends on the part of the city you're in, college is the best environment because most of the colleges are close to the metropolitan parts of the city where race isn't going to be a factor as much. I will say that East Asians generally have an easier time than Southeast Asians but it's not staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:45 PM
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Depends on your morals You're not "obligated" to do anything but if you feel that what you're doing is wrong and continue to do so you're just an asshole. If not, sure go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:21 PM
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Fair enough It's just unnecessary to draw attention to (mostly) sexual body parts like that, especially in a professional setting. I think it depends on the context, if it's a setting where people talking specifically about things regarding sex and biology (i.e pregnancy) I can't really see that as unnecessary. It's not necessarily something I agree with, or language that I'm gonna use but it serves a function if the person(s) in question care about that distinction without it neccasrily being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:22 PM
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Following that logic, "man" and "woman" should be considered just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:06 PM
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It's fun/cathartic, easy, and socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:06 AM
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Well that's kinda what I was getting at, the inclination is there naturally in the relationship between men and women, but the effect of "waw" is dictated by social conventions. The social expectations to have women behave as "xyz" is the biological impluse rooted in reproductive and evolutionary benefit, we as a species want those traits in women and select for them. The "waw" effect as it's presented kind of inverts this and implies that by virtue of being a woman, these traits are implied (wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:45 AM
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What's the XYZ? There's likely an evolutionary or biological throughline that's led to that societal expectation. Oh yeah most definitely, certain traits that society expects from women (and generally from men too) are traits that are beneficial from an evolutionary perspective: Nurturing? Well someone has to make sure the babies survive to adulthood. Non-aggressive/non-combative/submissive? Doesn't help to have women out there fighting and the potential for infighting is already high enough wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:42 AM
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I think there's a natural inclination towards the idea and it makes sense biologically speaking. If we go full lizard brain from a man's perspective a woman is generally someone weaker than him, softer than him, smaller than him, less aggressive/assertive, etc. With all this at the very least, he will assume that she isn't a threat to him (regardless of whether it is true or not). Having said that I think a large portion of it is socialized, and it's likely motivated by that natural inclination …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:23 AM
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Those crafty adorable bastards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:50 PM
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I'm more than content having my obituary read: died trying to hug bear, quoted beforehand saying "he looks like he needs a hug"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:49 PM
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If bears are so dangerous, why they look so adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:45 PM
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Much better explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:11 PM
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I don't know all the details, i think another poster here does and it's further down the thread. But apparently they had a guest on their podcast who was Republican and some of their beliefs and talking points didn't vibe well with a lot of members of the sub so there has been a lot of infighting because of it and many are questioning whether or not they should stay on and support the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:04 PM
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Apparently because of politics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:33 PM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that people that are engaging in self harm aren't really thinking about aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:40 PM
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Denji from Chainsaw Man, even better if the costume is fully functional. Or Archer from Fate/Stay Night
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:19 PM
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Nice man, gotta love those happy thoughts. "You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your own love and affection"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:08 PM
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"She like, 'Apples to oranges' Bitch that phrase don't make no sense Why can't fruit be compared?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:51 PM
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Defintely! The messed up part is that I wasn't even in the city the night we won. I went back home for the weekend to watch with my family in the suburbs right outside of Philly which was nice in itself. But after hearing about all the crazy stuff that happened from my best friend who was out that night, I kind of regret it (especially since I lived so close to Broad and Center City). The parade was amazing but the night of the win just seemed like a whole different beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:00 AM
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Jason honestly seems like the cooler of the two, he just seems like one of those life of the party type of guys, really solid dude. As far as physical appearance goes, I feel like Travis might be more "mainstream" attractive but Jason definitely fits the niche for people into the "Lumberjacks/Bear", like he's got the quintessential Dad Bod. Semi-tangential: The parade was honestly one of the best things ever, shit was wild. One of my all time favorite memories is watching my friend drunkly try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:41 PM
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How can someone get the idea of prep from porn if it isn't shown or talked about? I'm more inclined to believe most guys have no idea how to prep for anal specifically because they only know about it from porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 PM
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And if you expect the woman to douche her asshole, then you definitely got the inspiration from porn What porn are you watching because I have legit never seen any prep (aside from maybe lube) for anal whatsoever in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:46 PM
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As an anthro major, It really made me question my desire to do research abroad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:53 AM
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Oh no I get that, black people generally don't think we can get it but we can, so sunscreen as an extra layer of protection can't hurt. I'm just saying in his specific case it wasn't really the Sun/UV radiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:00 PM
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I can't pass up a chance to use this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:57 PM
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Even if you’re black - Bob Marley died of skin cancer FFS Not saying black people shouldn't use sunscreen but the type of melonoma he had wasn't caused by exposure to sunlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:28 PM
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Non-white people have an inbuilt victim mindset Try being around a group of blacks/asians as a white person and you will likely experience some racism and ostracization We're already seeing a big attack on white men in recent years and I think it might get worse in years to come Are you sure it's non-whites that have an inbuilt victim mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:25 PM
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I've actually thought about it a lot and it doesn't seem any harder than brining vegetables (which i also love) so I'm definitely gonna try to make some in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:26 PM
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Nope, I'm just passionate about the high price of cured meat I feel prostitutes are priced very well for the market, y'know with the demand and risk and all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:17 PM
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Fine... BEEF JERKY IS TOO DAMN EXPENSIVE!!! Thank you for letting me air that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:00 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:35 PM
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But that's what I'm saying it's not meaningless at least to a certain population of women and it is affecting their behavior "Slut shaming is a real problem that can seriously effect the way women engage with their partners and their own sexuality" I didn't just make this up, this is almost verbatim to what I've been told. And it seems that it does affect behavior, atleast subtly, "I didn't want to sleep with him this early into dating because I don't want him to think I'm a slut/easy" is still …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:29 PM
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I'm not speaking for myself, I really don't give a shit what women do. I'm just making an observation It's a pattern I notice in men and women. Which is: " A isn't real/doesn't bother us" but then when it's convenient "A is a real problem that affects us" For example: Men: "Toxic Masculinity isn't real and that's not how men are raised" while simultaneously saying "Men are in crisis due to the standards forced on them and nobody cares" Women: "No woman gives a fuck if a man/men thinks she's a sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:20 PM
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That's not what I've been told/heard it seems like there's an entire subset of women (atleast in my generation) that talk about how "repressed" and "limited" their sexuality is because of slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 PM
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No woman cares some dude called her a “sloot.” It’s meaningless Genuine Question: If they don't care why do they complain so much about slut shaming then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:59 PM
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All the cats with 3 legs are crying right now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:25 PM
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I read the whole thing, the part I put is the part you seem to be ignoring which definitely frames the butt-slapping as the main problem. And personally even if it's not the butt-slapping, it doesn't change anything. Whether it's slapping her butt or making comments about it she asked her to stop, and her mom isn't stopping, the mom is an asshole, it's not much more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:24 PM
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TL;DR: mom touches butt, I say "I don't consent." She gets mad, but continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:11 PM
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Because if someone expresses they don't want to be touched a certain way, don't touch them that way, easy. If a person continues to touch you in a way that you don't like after you expressed to them you don't like it, they're an asshole, pure and simple. And you have every right to be concerned because even after expressing your boundaries they're choosing to ignore them for their personal convenience. The mom loses all leverage and plausible deniability the minute her daughter tells her it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:04 PM
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The concern she's giving to this is not too far off from the more extreme liberals wanting to label everything they don't like someone else doing as "harassment." This situation is harassment... by definition: Harass (v.) - B (1) : To annoy persistently Harass (v.) - B (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct The only thing I said was this wasn't sexual harassment. Welp oh well then. It is what it is. Still, trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:41 PM
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The world isn't a liberal utopia where consent is some magic protection spell. This feels like it has nothing to do with the post and is just an excuse for you to dunk on liberals (very similar to another poster here). She is asking her parent to stop touching her in a way she does not like, she's not asking for the world to bend over backwards and baby her. The most she can do is just say "stop" She did or not be around the source of the issue anymore. And she probably won't if this keeps happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:26 PM
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I fail to see how the OP isn't completely in the right. If someone doesn't like to be touched and they express their discomfort in being touched and ask you stop, and you continue doing so regardless you're an asshole, family or not. Edit: The only caveat is that I don't think this is "sexual harassment" but it is a dick move nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:08 PM
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There's really not much to talk about, they're a couple that met young and were compatible, time went by and they grew into people that aren't compatible. Sad but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:55 PM
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Billy Joel Approves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:59 PM
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Oh yeah I meant "you" as in the girl in my post, not you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:44 PM
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It really threw me back for a second, you asked out 2 guys, went on a date with them and things didn't escalate to a 2nd date... The Horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:38 PM
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I remember this subject came up a while back, and one girl said that she doesn't want to approach guys anymore because after asking out 2 guys, things ended with both after the 1st date. Her conclusion was "guys don't like being asked out and likely only went out with me for the ego boost". Let me remind you again this was her conclusion after asking out 2, count em, 2 guys and there was no sex involved in these situations so it wasn't even a "pump and dump". My response was basically: "Thats ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:22 PM
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Women find a man who approaches them unattractive? Rejection A conversation that I wasn't necessarily privy to (by that I mean I was eavesdropping) between one of my managers and one of my co-workers (both women): Manager: "I'm not really attracted to him, but he was sweet and I felt like I needed a nice relationship to bounce back after my last breakup. He's really nice but I think I'm probably gonna break up with him after our lease on the apartment is up" Co-worker: "I totally understand, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:30 PM
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Seriously this comes up every time there is a post about women initiating. I really don't care if women intiate or not, but I'm really trying to wrap my head around how a woman asking out a man (with romantic intentions in mind) translates to easy sex for the guy. Like unless she was already planning on sleeping with him, her initiating changes nothing with regards to when or even if sex is going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:13 PM
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None of those are problems inherent to being a woman approaching/initiating a man, they're problems inherent to the role of approaching/initiating. So I guess I agree with the premise but this isn't "man sees woman as option" as much as people in the position of being approached have the advantage of seeing the approacher as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:16 PM
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It basically already is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:39 PM
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I reject guys weekly I see no problem ghost people Ehh not a big deal and then complain about being single. Yeah you kind of suck, but no more than the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:17 PM
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People in general often overestimate their ability to judge character while underestimating their own blind spots. Most people would insert the "frogs in boiling water/abusers never start out abusive" and there is merit to that. But that means the only signs that a person is picking up are the ones that are blatantly obvious and not much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:37 PM
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Oh yeah definitely exaggerated but it's probably a reflection of how he felt growing up. Also forgot to obligatorily mention that Winona Ryder was hot af back in the day. Yup, definitely wish fulfillment lol (She still looks amazing now)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:42 PM
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That's the vibe I got from how Edward is portrayed. Burton was a film and literature nerd growing up in the suburbs of Burbank. He seems like the type that definitely would have been the "creative alt kid/teen" that had a harder time navigating normal social conventions. He's even mentioned that Jim character is an amalgamation of the experiences he had with Jocks as a teen and that his death scene was similar to some of the "high school fantasies" he had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:25 PM
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I am 99.9% sure Edward Scissorshands is Tim Burton's self insert and the movie is a warped view of his adolescence mixed with wish fulfillment. Good movie all around though, and the score for the movie is also some of Danny Elfman's best work imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:02 PM
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It's just different experiences then, it's not hard for me to find people that misuse the term consistently online or irl. Generally it's brushed to the wayside because people know what you mean and they aren't pressed about correcting it. Like when someone says "I don't really like talking to people, I'm such an introvert lol" We know what is meant so there's no point in being "uMm wElL AcTuAlLy tHaT IsN'T WhAt iNtRoVeRt mEaNs". Still is just a total butchering of the concept on here either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:26 PM
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That's not a PPD problem, thats a general misunderstanding of what introvert and extrovert mean (or atleast what they originally meant/connated to) It happens just as much in other parts of the internet and in real life as it does here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:57 PM
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"I faked all my moans and orgasms" "But I faked my personality to get you in bed" The Gift of the Magi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:25 PM
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More or less yeah, but that's what makes natural selection "organic"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:05 PM
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It's eugenics just "organic"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:44 PM
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Live, Laugh, Love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:41 PM
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"He has a sixpack, so he has value as a human being!" Lol almost his entire character spelled out in one sentence, man i love Pitch Meetings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:58 PM
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"Don't you think it would be hard to get an entire generation of girls to swoon over a boy that wants to have a romantic relationship with a baby that is essentially going to be like a sibling to him" "Oh no super easy, barely an inconvenience" "Oh really" "Yeah I'm thinking we can have a very attractive actor play him and have him shirtless for like 90% of each movie's runtime" "Having a character not wear a shirt most of the time is tight"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:49 PM
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A seductive and mysterious yet dangerous woman living in the 1920s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:00 PM
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What a very pick-me thing to say, ya freaking simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:53 AM
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I'm still in my early 20s. And after watching and participating in the entertaining drama that is college dating and romance, I'll copout and say both are about equal, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:49 AM
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Gotcha, I don't necessarily agree but I think I get what you mean better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:23 PM
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Then wouldn't that mean the term is just an accurate description of how people define their sexuality and how it functions? As an aside, and no insult intended, this conversation feels similar to how some men feel about the term "Toxic Masculinity".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:56 PM
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Wasn't the term demisexual coined by a guy describing his sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:40 PM
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I can understand the annoyance with the redundancy. I really don't see how demisexual is a view of female sexuality through a male lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:46 PM
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Is it because it's just redundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:51 PM
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What difference does it make if people use the term or not? That's what descriptors do, describe and convey information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:02 PM
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True, every good heist team needs an escape artist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:27 PM
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I can pick the lock to a standard pair of a handcuffs, not really much of a talent and haven't really had any use for it yet. But it's a pretty handy trick to have in your back pocket just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:15 PM
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Smurf confirmed exhibitionist?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:41 PM
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From the source you provided on death grip: Difficulty feeling enough sensation during sexual intercourse to ahcieve an orgasm due to a dependency on an aggressive masturbation technique—usually too tight a grip. The good news is that you aren't really damaged, and death grip isn't really a medical condition. It's not a disease, it's not something you come down with, and it's not something that is irreversible. The problem is that this method of stimulation is nothing at all like what is experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:29 PM
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Do men use sex toys because they are more convenient than their hand? Not necessarily, but since we're measuring hedonism I feel convenience is applicable here. I can't see how men choosing to use a fleshlight for the sake of experiencing a "new" or "different" type of sexual pleasure is somehow more hedonistic than a woman (who is capable of getting herself off manually) using a vibrator simply because she's too lazy, unmotivated, or bored of using her hands. Which kind of cycles back into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:43 PM
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This seems like an unnecessary ad hom. I'm targeting the basis of her argument because it doesn't track well with me logically. Whatever personal or moral stance she is or isn't taking with regards to the argument is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:36 PM
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I wouldn't care and I haven't in the past. If it's not getting in the way or causing problems with our actual sex life I see no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:24 PM
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Respect for the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:02 PM
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But I think more often than not women do not have the technique down to orgasm with manual stimulation. But not having a technique down would be different than being unable to orgasm without a vibrator. The latter implies that a vibrator is a essential for sexual pleasure and orgasm, the former implies that the woman in question may be able to orgasm from manual stimulation but is choosing not to develop the technique to do so. Which means the toy isn't a necessity as much as it is a tool of con…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:13 AM
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Oh no, I didn't think you were fucking around then lol. That's just the frame of reference I was working with because streamlined and good quality porn didn't start to really pick-up till the late 90s/early 00s so there'd be a lot of carry-over for that time period when it came to young adults. Even today, men my age find women playing with themselves/experiencing pleasure hot Fair enough, I guess I could chalk it up to being a product of their times or it could just be like what I mentioned bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:27 AM
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Then I guess I kinda disagree just because I don't really think of hedonism in this case as being on a continuum, so we'll have to agree to disagree on that point. For the sake of the original argument though, wouldn't that mean this only applies to women who can't reach orgasm through manual stimulation and not just women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:00 AM
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For clarity's sake, are you saying that a woman using a sex toy isn't hedonistic or that it is hedonistic but a man using one is just more so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:13 PM
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Lol it's the first thing I thought of. But I think it kind of gets to the heart of it: the novelty kind of wears off. It's easy enough to see why a girl using toys on herself would be the hottest thing to a guy living in a 80s/early 90s where the hottest piece of media he probably owned was a playboy magazine or a grainy porno on VHS. It kind of reminds me of something you mentioned in another thread. Back when you were in college a guy would flake on pretty much everyone and everything just to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:10 PM
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Since kindergarten so about 16-17 years, basically more brothers then friends at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:14 PM
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I can’t fathom young guys being negative about women using sex toys.The men in my generation just thought it was hot, and wanted to watch Same Energy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:03 PM
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Omega, ranking below borh the Alpha and the Beta, Omegas usually have no prospects for getting romantic relationships or sex. They have neither the attractiveness and desirability of an Alpha nor the comfort or security of a Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:28 AM
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This is honestly just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:05 PM
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I don't have much firsthand experience since he died when I was young, but from what I remember and what I've been told by people who knew him I'd say he was probably Chad-lite. He was tall (6'2") with a kind of lanky build that he made work, pretty cool style (atleast for time period), was smart and making pretty good money, and was a really extroverted and affable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:43 AM
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That's fair, I guess I would say WWE probably has more cumulative wear and tear/injury which can definitely be harsh over a long career. But It seems like this is more a stepping stone for him, so I'd say it's safer in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:26 PM
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It's a shame, but it's a really pragmatic move on his part. Not only did they probably offer him more, there's a lower risk of serious injury. He's still young so if he really wanted to get into professional fightning it'd be smart for him to get some good money now doing WWE, amass a following, keep training and switch over in his mid to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:05 PM
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He was really attractive when he was young. But not so much physically attractive now but I would agree that his voice and personality definitely pull him forward a lot. It's the same with Mads Mikkelsen, not very physically attractive (imo), but there's a certain charisma and eccentricity that draws people towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:53 AM
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It seems like any combination involving lust would be considered Alpha. And any combination that doesn't involve lust is considered Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:42 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:12 PM
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Yes and No. On their own I say they're pretty neutral. They'd work about as effectively as a niche hobby and make you look more interesting as a person. But other than that it probably won't move the needle much. There are however some benefits of doing combat sports that might affect your SMV. It's an active interest so you'll likely be in fairly good shape. It conditions you to be more competitive which is useful when needed. Like any hobby/interest it expands your social circle, and it may op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:26 PM
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I'm probably not the best to explain it, but the brief overview of it from my perspective seems to be. Af - Alpha Fucks meaning that men who are Alpha are desirable. These are the top tier men that women usually want to get or be with generally in a sexual capacity (hence Alpha Fucks). They are usually the preferable option but for one reason or another a woman may not be able to get him to commit to her. So she settles for the bb. bb- Beta Bucks means that men who are Beta are not desirable in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:20 PM
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I've got no dog in the race when it comes to verifying Red Pill ideology, I'm just noticing a pattern here. What OP is describing, doesn't seem to be functionally different than what Red pillers describe with AF/bb. Even the way you describe it doesn't sound any different it just presents an explanation as to why it happens. Like this whole section: It's just that it so happens that most men who have good relationship qualities, lack in the sexual qualities that makes women purr and scratch and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:13 PM
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Serious Question: Isn't this pretty much the gist of The Red Pill's idea of AF/bb?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:39 AM
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I already fuck other guys so I'd be fine. I'd say a good portion of guys would definitely go for robots if they were available, before fucking each other. I think it'd be fun if women collectively did a Lysistrata though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:43 PM
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Doesn't really matter to me either way. I knew what I was getting into when I applied and attended college. If my loans don't end up being forgiven, cool I knew that going in and nothing has changed, I have a plan to pay them back. If they do end up being forgiven even cooler, I can't really feel myself being that sad for anyone else that had to pay back their loans because like me they knew that going in, if they want to resent me for being lucky they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:35 PM
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He should probably end things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:01 AM
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They may have more experience with certain perspectives and roles that they wouldn't have gotten just from hetero/homp dating, but that doesn't necessarily translate to being a better partner. Source: I'm bi, and I am in fact the greatest partner in the world, but that's because I'm awesome not because I'm bi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:06 AM
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Yeah probably, it's a shitty idea in theory for a lot of different reasons but if I was really into her I wouldn't mind giving it a go. Hopefully we're both mature enough for things to not blow up if things don't last, but if shit does hit the fan, I've got no one else to blame but myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:50 AM
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He'd probably be happier if it was actually a half, but that's my fault for being such a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:23 AM
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Oh definitely, they still have shit that they don't want aired out and it's easy enough to pick up on when that's the case. But then it makes me wonder how the guys in their lives are actually opening up to them about stuff or how the girls are interpreting it. It can be really hard for some guys to open up even when it's with a partner. So when I imagine a guy opening up to a girl I don't really see it as a casual thing he's just doing, he probably has a serious tone or vibe to him when he says…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:22 AM
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I've abandoned 3/4ths of a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:05 AM
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Yeah after coming out as bi, I noticed an uptick of girls that included me in their hangouts and I essentially became "one of the girls/queer guy friend trope" and the difference was kind of night and day in that regard. When my guy friends were emotionally vulnerable with me or other guys there's usually an unspoken acknowledgment that shit that gets said stays with whoever is present within the group to hear it (barring serious/extreme exceptions). And that includes with other guys, if one guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:03 PM
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this specific type of trauma (along with the experience that caused it) is one that the average person will likely not be ready or willing to handle within the context of a relationship. Just because the average person won't doesn't equate to "all is lost, I'm unlovable" there are plenty of people that are ready, willing, and empathetic enough to handle something like that. Finding them is going to be harder but not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:09 PM
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I specifically said they aren't "damaged" or "unlovable" They have trauma, a lot of people have trauma, this specific type of trauma (along with the experience that caused it) is one that the average person will likely not be ready or willing to handle within the context of a relationship. Dating may end up being harder for them because of this, but not impossible, they are not unlovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:03 PM
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Yes they do, and that is also a gross overreaction caused by them going through a traumatic experience. They aren't "damaged" or "unlovable" but they have trauma, trauma that the average person will likely not be able to navigate and handle in the context of a relationship. Trauma that may leave lingering effects on their ability to trust and be vulnerable with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:56 PM
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I have experience talking to victims of rape and sexual assault And I feel like it be really tone deaf and insensitive if I told them "it was just a penis"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:44 PM
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I mean he was talking specifically about rape/sexual assault which is usually a physically, mentally, and emotionally traumatic experience. Saying that "a penis doesn't change a woman" seems like a gross oversimplification of what rape is, why it can be traumatic, and what after effects it might have on a person and their relationship with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:38 PM
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Penises don't change people... Pretty sure rape/sexual assault does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:31 PM
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I'm a guy that is totally okay with being open and vulnerable when I feel comfortable and when it feels prompted. Having said that I totally understand why some guys see being emotionally open and vulnerable as a detriment. I got lucky enough to have friends, families, and relationships where I could be emotionally vulnerable and it wasn't met antagonistically. Others aren't so lucky, and I've seen it first hand guys being put down by parents, siblings, partners, etc. Getting them to open requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:31 PM
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Depends on a bunch of things, but from my experience it leans towards guys but not by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:14 AM
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Quick heads-up: Cats do not like Bamboo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:07 PM
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Not cheating is the easiest thing to do if you actually care about not cheating on your partner. If you end up cheating it's because you (general "you") as an individual either didn't care about your partner or your relationship, the circumstances had nothing to do with it. Saying that there is a "right" circumstance to cheat, and that everyone would if they could sounds like a recontexualization for people that want to feel justified in their cheating or a justification for insecure people to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:01 PM
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"Has the wit and charisma of a field mouse"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:38 PM
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He kind of just looks like your average white stoner. I don't think he's ugly but I wouldn't really consider him physically attractive either. Best I can say is that he looks unique but I feel like that comes down more to his aesthetic/presentation. I mean there are plenty of other reasons for why people might find him attractive, he's fit, funny, famous, friendly, passionate, and all that other good stuff. But if someone were to ask me to name an attractive actor/comedian he's not going to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:34 PM
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That's fair, it was a bit of stretch. It'd be better to say that geology is a science and it's application is used a lot with archeology which is not a science. And I didn't see it as an insult, "not a science" is just a fact for some fields of study, doesn't make them less important as much as it makes them different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I might even extend it a little bit to archeology as well since they do use decay in their work for dating artifacts and stratigraphy but that might be a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:01 PM
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Woah, bio and forensic anthropology are definitely sciences, agree with everything else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:46 PM
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Kanye's newest Album (he named it after his mom)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:19 PM
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I'm just clarifying, whether she knew it or not she posted a meme made by a known neo-nazi, that's what is being said. And I've got no stake in the argument being made and can understand beliefs can overlap, but it's definitely still weird to see someone basically say "yeah, I agree with this neo-nazi". (Even weirder considering after finding out they still kept the post up)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:23 PM
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I think he meant that they are posting a meme made by Stonetoss, who is known to be alt-right and has made a couple of different comics that can regarded as anti-semitic, and is known to associate with literal Neo-Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:16 PM
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Sneakers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:14 AM
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You as well! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:05 AM
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Really? Like I wouldn't even consider this lazy for sex. This isn't like a girl saying "come thru to my place" she basically kind of had a whole group date thing planned out, which admittedly sounds kinda fun imo, but isn't really her just offering head. And you even said that if you were in that girl's position things wouldn't even end in sex, so he could be going home at the end of night like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:52 AM
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Damn, they had a whole itinerary for the night. Gotta respect both parties here, seemed like y'all knew what you wanted and weren't playing any games (except 2K).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:37 AM
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It is a little fucked up but you asked her if she was with it, so the ball in her court now lol Tell us how it turns out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:22 AM
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Interacting with others more often is one thing, going out to parties and social gatherings where you know the chances of both contracting and spreading a virus increases, seems very much like careless behavior. And I say this as a person who loves going out to parties, shows, and social gatherings. And it's not like these things are unavoidable. My campus tracked the spread of covid to a group of students who were studying abroad and came back. And like the rest of abroad students were told to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:23 PM
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How exactly are those two groups not one and the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:03 PM
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I am my own worst enemy (Although I guess having sex with a big ass mirror in the room would be weird)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:09 PM
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Hell Yeah! I get to sleep with the love of my life then I get to marry them, sounds like a total win-win to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:37 PM
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Yay, I like the intimacy and it's really easy to mix it up with some small adjustments so it doesn't get boring and repetitive. Plus it's a really reliable position if you're in the mood but one of you (or both) are just feeling kind of lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:27 PM
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Can't tie down those squids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:05 PM
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Damn, guess it's over for tenta-cels
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:59 PM
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For me personally, not worth it. In a general sense, worth it. Depending on what the average guy actually wants and how bad he wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:02 AM
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Yeah that's what I would prefer at least for my first trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:55 PM
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Still haven't had a chance to try shrooms yet, still trying to plan a time to do some with a group of friends. Do you prefer solo trips or group trips?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:42 PM
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Isn’t the simple solution to this...multiple and diverse models?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:12 PM
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It can be a problem, but even taking a bunch of factors into consideration I think it's overblown, same with the whole short guy thing (sorry). The OP kind of reminds me of that really bad Netflix movie "Tall Girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:22 PM
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Some can manage to do it for years while still in the closet, others can do it in a pinch if they needed to, and some find the concept of being sexual with a woman downright horrific. Really depends on the type of gay guy... and sometimes the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:39 PM
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In my opinion, It was rude but not really unexpected. He came into this with different intentions and a different mindset with regards to social tact and shit happened. Hookup culture is kind of just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:19 PM
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I'm sorry, but they're gonna have to take away your Woman Card™, gotta be repulsed by pegging dems da rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:09 PM
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Damn the game was rigged against me from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:57 PM
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Do you get points if you're slowed down because of lack of homo options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:51 PM
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I agree that both are condescending I mainly labeled the 2nd group that because it seemed more overt. I guess I could've explained that better, so that's on me. The first group are condescending in the "martyr" type of way like "better than thou because of how much I suffer/look at how much burden I can take on". The second group line just seems condescending but in the uppity kind of way like "poor girl couldn't hold down a man" (like something I'd expect my aunties to say). I guess I can't fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:52 PM
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The 1st group sounds masochistic, and the 2nd group sounds condescending only because of this part: They think the women in the first group are insane “pick mes” who were unfortunate enough not to have a partner who would ensure her stress levels while creating a child were well managed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:33 PM
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No Problem, It's definitely a learning experience but as long as you're not falling and getting your hands split open you'll do just fine. I hope you have a fun time with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:00 PM
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The fun part starts when you turn 21 and start going out to bars and being the only one of your friends to get carded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:09 PM
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Some of my friends boulder and I know a little about hand rips and tears. My advice: Try to keep your hands dry before your climb, look around for a chalk that works for you. Technique will also affect things, tears usually happen from a combination of gripping too hard on something and friction from readjusting your grip once you've already held on. So try to mitigate doing both and look for the "sweet spot" of not gripping too tightly nor too loosely while still having a firm and stable hold, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:42 AM
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Sounds cool! Maybe she's into maybe she's not but at the very least you made enough of a positive impact on someone that they wanted to stay in contact with you, which you should definitely take as a win. Plus new international friend/pen pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:27 PM
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Oh, okay I get it thanks for explaining. If I give them the benefit of the doubt and just assume, I think that when they compare the two they're kind of supposed to be analogous or like a kind of "square-rectangle" type deal, like all GDs/TWs are prostitutes but not all prostitutes are GDs/TWs, idk. But I do agree it does kind of fall apart when you consider that GDs and TWs have to do more than just have sex with their partners. If it was just about the sex it'd be way easier to get that consis…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:40 PM
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I mean there's a traditional role that a wife takes up and the duties that come along with that like home-management and social interaction and stuff like that, which I can understand and recognize. But I'm not traditional. So I don't think there's a role that is involved specifically with being a wife or an particular duties that I'd expect. I have standards for who I decide to get into relationships with but I feel like that is different than what is being asked. Or maybe I'm just misunderstan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:36 PM
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Yeah its a little muddled. I've always thought kind was a better word, nice to me is more about plesant behavior (like being polite), while kind is more about compassionate action and intent. Like that one quote from Doctor Who: "Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind" Who knows how truly likeable he was within a relationship. I ask myself the same question when I see "hot take" relationship tweets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:12 PM
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Ehh I'd say I'm likable but I wouldn't really consider myself nice (or mean either), nice just doesn't really feel like an adjective I'd use to describe myself, others have used it to describe me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:58 PM
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I think you’re thinking of yourself and you’re probably like “hey I’m a nice guy.” Oh nah I'm a total asshole lol But yeah I get what he means by that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:50 PM
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I really only left that out to say that most people are likable atleast with most of that in mind. Just seems like a misdirection to me. I don't think people aren't getting into relationships because people are unlikable maybe not in the sense that he's talking about at least idk.. Maybe I'm just caught up in the semantics of it but "likable" doesn't feel like the right word as much as "desirable" does. In which case, yeah plenty of people aren't desirable options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:27 PM
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Even then, I still think I'd have to disagree. Most people (imo) are likable, if we go by this definition of likable that would be something you'd want out of a friend (aside from wanting to fuck them) and plenty of people have friends. His head is in the right place with the idea that relationships prior were built on necessity, so that lead to relationships that were tolerated more than anything. But the conclusion just feels off. I don't think people aren't likable there just isn't the same p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:34 PM
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I disagree or think he's kind of burying the lede here. Depending on how you define likable, being likable is easy plenty of people (men and women) are likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:55 PM
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There are going to be many situations in life where you’re not “feeling it”. Yes there are, which is why taking a step back and recentering yourself might be a good thing sometimes. Life is varied, shit is done case by case, sometimes it's better to leap without looking and sometimes it's better to sit back and think for a second. Sports are physical, but the mental toughness that’s required is what really separates the good from the greats.It’s easy to perform when nobody is watching, but when …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:24 AM
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Makes sense to me, it teaches kids to advocate for their own personal health because others sure as shit won't. If you're not feeling it, sometimes it's better to step back than to push forward. Considering how divisive this whole thing is and some of the hostile criticism I've seen levied at her this also teaches another important lesson. You can literally be called the best in the world and people will still find something to complain about, so you might as well do what's best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:27 AM
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Yeah it exists, less so in mainstream fiction but inching it's way bit by bit. Power fantasy as a concept is pretty broad, that realistically speaking any form of fiction can be considered a "power fantasy" if it checks off two boxes: Is this character "powerful"? Would I (the reader) like to be this character or have this "power"? You're gonna get conflict over what does and doesn't constitute a power fantasy mainly because people are different and have different ideas of what constitutes "powe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah my little sister is like that, very consistent with when she eats. I'm more "my body will tell me when I'm hungry" there have been times when it's halfway through the day and I'm like "oh yeah I haven't eaten anything today yet".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:49 AM
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I go without breakfast pretty regularly so I think my body is just used to it. I'm kind of an infrequent eater to begin with so missing a meal here or there doesn't really affect me as long as I get a good amount of food in my system before the day is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:32 AM
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Just joking around lol but I do wonder who his trainer was, he probably got the same guy that Jk Simmons had, cause that guy seems to love getting bald men swole I think most guys get it, they're just lazy (myself included, the main difference is that I dont really feel the need to complain about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:50 PM
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Right around the time his marriage was coming undone...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:42 PM
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Lusting or not, he was able to get a girlfriend (even more impressive imo considering they met in New York), get married, and stay married for 20+ years (with varying levels of sex and intimacy), from his perspective there wasn't really a need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:17 PM
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I mean didn't seem like a problem for her, they got married and stayed married while he was looking like that, so what reason would he have to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:05 PM
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Not sure why it took him 20+ years to say to himself “wait I’m average looking but I can be sort of hot to enough women Wasn't he with his ex-wife for close to 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:01 PM
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Yeah you kind of give off Daria vibes but less cynical (which makes sense considering you're not a teenager) I only come off as deadpan via text Don't we all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:09 PM
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Sounds like Daria but less deadpan
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:44 PM
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If you acknowledge that most injuries aren't the stupid, deliberate types of injuries then you're willfully ignoring that most injuries are the unintentional, unavoidable "accidental" types of injuries. That doesn't make sense... I'm saying that accidents don't make up the majority and all you said was "no they do" which is like I said the PPD way of doing things and why I asked for proof/source, which it didn't confirm nor deny actually. If you're requiring a source for that, then there's no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:22 AM
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If you really needed a source, you are either being intentionally obtuse or don't go outside that much. Once again this a debate, you made an affirmative claim I'm asking for proof. If all you have to say is "just trust me" then I can just say "no you're wrong this is what I've seen" which is what a lot of people do on PPD. For about as many times I've seen accidents happen and people get injured I see enough injuries occur because people are just being reckless and stupid. Even my own major inj…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:47 AM
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I'm covering all injuries though because most injuries aren't the stupid, deliberate types of injuries. They're largely uncontrollable and unpredictable Source? Or are you just assuming that it is true? Also, personal health is one's own responsibility anyway. And personal injury isn't because...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:18 AM
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Ah, glad we could clear that up that you're using an extreme form of logic because you don't really understand the argument. It's extreme, I didn't argue that it wasn't. I used it because your argument was floppy, not because i didn't understand it. Physical injury is so broad that I don't even know why you can exclude it so generally. If you want a tame example, I can't predict that someone will throw a baseball at my head while I walk down the street and give me a concussion. But I can predict…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:49 AM
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Safety is pretty contingent on things like physics that are typically within your control So... you agree and safety is very much in one's control? Glad we settled that. then you either don't understand the topic very well or you're being intentionally disingenuous to try to make your point. I'm not being disengious, im using the logic that you provided, which was already vague on its on. If my example sounds extreme it's because it is but I'm more than allowed to use it because you didn't prese…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:16 AM
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Not really this is the same logic you're using: It's not hard to not get injured if you know what you're doing. That's why we have seat belts in cars, helmets and kneepads for bikes, OSHA regulations for workplaces, and just general common sense, most people just aren't willing to assuage their comfort and convenience for safety. If you're saying sick people are largely ignorant and negligent about health I can say most injured people are largely ignorant and negligent about safety, in which cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:46 AM
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You mean why also not exclude it? Nope... Physical injuries and birth deformities/defects aside I meant why exclude it Because physical injuries are mostly unavoidable throughout life, and they don't even have to be caused by the individual. Something falls and hits them, Be more aware of your surroundings they get hurt on the job, Don't overwork yourself or don't take on a job you can't handle comfortably someone else hurts them Don't get into fights with others. Avoid aggressive people, if nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:27 AM
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I don't support universal healthcare because people don't even take care of their own health and are largely ignorant about health in general. Why even exclude physical injury then? If you get physically injured that's your own damn fault, you either neglected to actually take precautions to avoid injury or are too ignorant to function without getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:06 AM
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Waiter? I barely even know her!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:31 AM
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Embarrassment, more like EmBearassment... I'll go now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:22 AM
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Gotcha, just wanted to be sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:58 PM
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FTM transwomen Wait, wouldn't FTM (female-to-male) be transmen? And if thats the case it wouldn't make any sense for straight guys to want them (unless they still consider them women), they would be looking for relationships with gay men. Unless you're talking about MTF (male-to-female) transwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:33 PM
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You don't have to if you don't want to and in my opinion you shouldn't if you can't. It's easy enough for me to do so after I've gotten over things but for some people it isn't and that's okay. I don't/won't hold any ill will to a former partner that tells me "yeah I don't think I can see you anymore even platonically" it sucks but it's just how it is sometimes. This is the part I struggle over. I feel like I can't do it unless I'm dating someone else, If you need to be with another person befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:59 AM
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Time away from them Process my emotions and shit/grieve Get over it, like get back into the groove of being single Offer and try to maintain some type of a platonic relationship (that's really up to them though) This has usually worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:22 AM
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The former seems way better off than the latter. Sex is great but it's not gonna pay my rent, and I'd prefer to not be on the street. If some guys are comfortable with that more power to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:39 AM
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In fact, most women here love to describe THEMSELVES as women who "know what they want, are strong, uncompromising, and have unquestionable authority".Are all those women massively insufferable assholes? If you ask some of the men on PPD they would most definitely say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:48 PM
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I like this, let's do this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:17 AM
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No problem, I decided to search up what you were looking for out of curiosity. Is something like this what you're looking for? It seems really on the nose, this is the description When her father dies, Princess Amarande is given an ultimatum: marry the leader of a neighboring kingdom, or lose her crown―and possibly her life. To force her hand, her beloved, the stableboy Luca, is kidnapped. But Amarande was raised to be a warrior, not a sacrifice. And nothing will stop her from saving her true lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:13 AM
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Yeah I didn't feel like doing it myself, but I guarantee if you search for it you'll find the exact type of story you described lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:44 AM
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Have i got the site for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:37 AM
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Like do you want an exact number because I don't have it off the top of my head (if you know it, please share cause I'd like to know) but I'm gonna hazard a guess that it's nooooooowhere near close to y'know... The Holocaust And once again I'm pretty sure someone calling you a woman in a petty internet argument hasn't ended up in you being kidnap and killed, but if that changes do keep us updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:22 PM
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So you're saying that, People on the internet angrily calling people they disagree with women Is literally no different than Nazis accusing people they disagree with of being Jews, people that they would physically kidnap and then murder... Yeah, I think I'm gonna go to sleep on that one, Godwin's law strikes in very interesting ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:56 AM
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This one feels like Advance A.I.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:05 PM
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I could probably still love her in a romantic sense, I'm just not likely to continue a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:40 PM
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Indeed, 10/10 would recommend very cathartic, the afterglow really makes forgetting about the possible assault and battery charges very easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:47 AM
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Love her? Probably Be in a relationship that lacks sexual intimacy? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:46 AM
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People don't sport box because it feels good Yeah.. yeah they do. I spar to train for matches, but I also spar casually in my downtime because it feels good and it's fun (BJJ is especially fun). I ride my skateboard because it feels good and is fun. I go on hikes with friends because it's fun and feels cathartic. The fact that any of those things also happen to be nice forms of exercise is a bonus, not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:42 AM
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I do have sex because sex (more often than not) feels good, I'm do not have sex for exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:31 AM
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The sexual equivalent of this would be... porn? Not really, porn would be the equivalent of me watching ufc or shadowboxing instead of actually sparring/practicing with a partner. Or like, marathon sex for exercise? Isn't that still sex? I directed my question to men specifically to get your experience/success/failures/impressions on separating. A metaphor won't quite do it for me tbh lol Well the metaphor is reflective of my experience with separating sex with love. I can and have had sex witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:23 AM
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Yes, for sparring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:42 AM
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They are separate. Sex is an act. Love is a feeling. I can fuck someone without loving them, and I can love someone without fucking them. Here's a similar analogy: Punching someone is an act. Anger is a feeling. I can punch someone without being angry at them, and I can be angry at someone without punching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:20 AM
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"Every single breath you take should be filled with nothing but pure spite" Sun Wukong (probably)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:48 AM
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You say that as if all your actions outside of dating shouldn't also be motivated by revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:38 AM
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"Feelings are just fleeting, on the surface..." Random Jeff Bridges quotes aside, I agree. You can't really rationalize shit like who someone should be with or who they're attracted to, it's like trying to convince someone that they're favorite color is wrong. People like what they like, if you're not what they like pulling out a spreadsheet to explain why you should be isn't really gonna change much. I tend to have a very logic-based approach to the world, when in reality, the dating world is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:09 AM
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I mean it was over the top but I still found it entertaining, the action set pieces were ridiculous but fun, the music and sound design were pretty good, and the characters seemed cool. I guess I wouldn't say it's spectacular but definitely still enjoyable if you walk into it with a certain frame of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:12 AM
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No prob, hope y'all enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:09 AM
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I wouldn't say Baahubali is too actiony, it just feels like an epic, there are fight scenes here and there but they're mainly just trying to tell a story and the soundtrack is really good (imo). But if that's not your poison, Munna Bhai is really good if you're looking for comedy (and it kind of has a similar vibe to 3 idiots), it's about an ex-criminal trying to become a doctor. And if you're looking for more drama and heartwarming stuff Udaan would be really good too. It's about a boy who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:43 AM
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Baahubali is really good if you both like adventure/action flicks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah, It's kinda what we do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:42 AM
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To be fair, we've been pulling out and pushing troops into Afghanistan indiscriminately for the last decade. Even this announcement said that some personnel will be staying in Afghanistan for diplomatic security. So our fingers are still very much in this pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:37 AM
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Sounds overdramatic, it's unique if you never been told "no" once in your life before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:40 AM
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Another + 1 High Functioning Psychopath (it's taking a pretty big lead today)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:26 AM
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+1 High-Functioning Psychopath (currently in the lead over Advance A.I)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:32 AM
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Boxer Briefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:27 AM
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8 or 9 for girls, I didn't completely realized I also liked guys til freshman year of high school but I had "feelings" about as early as middle school 13 14 13 with a girl, 17 with a guy 15 with a girl, 17 with a guy Do you think that the age in which you experienced these things influenced the other? Probably, but not in huge way. Do you wish any of these things happened at a different time? Not really, I guess maybe I wish I knew i was into guys a little earlier but I'm not really pressed abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:31 PM
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Okay... take it up with the pink pill community, I didn't come up with their ideology, I'm just relaying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:31 PM
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There's usually a user here that gives a more detailed response, so she'll probably pop up and explain it better. But the main gist of it, seems to be black pill but for women. An acceptance and understanding of lookism and how it affects people (specifically women). As well as an understanding of the reality of male nature. Sometimes there's crossover with radfem ideology but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:44 AM
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Yup, my family definetly pulled the short end of the stick on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:58 PM
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I have a black lab that i love and a cat that I can tolerate. And despite being atleast 3 times her size, my dog is actually afraid of my cat because he's a gentle giant and she's an aggressive little shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:37 PM
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Ehh jiggle physics come and go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:08 AM
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I'm not sure about that first thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:41 AM
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Part of me is just glad you didn't mention Alfheim at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:10 AM
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I just don’t get it. That's surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:16 AM
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+1 High-functioning Psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:49 PM
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I think I'm gonna check out the anime series while I'm at it too You're in for a treat, even if you don't like the story (which i doubt because it has this sort of unorthodox appeal) the music is always on point. Also one of the few anime that I genuinely think has a dub as good as the sub. ORESKABAND have a few of their songs featured as endings in Naruto (Pinocchio), Naruto Shippuden (Jitensha) and my all time favourite song of them which was shown in Bleach (Tsumasaki). I do like Tsumasaki, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:26 PM
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I know, I'm just saying if you're gonna be getting into drugs (especially hard drugs) it's way better to lean Ozzy than Sid, whether it's through luck or controlled use no one wants to end up dead chasing after a high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:37 AM
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Ehh legacy is different ballpark, but I'd definitely take fried brain but alive at 72 after 40 years of heavy drug use over dead at 21 due to drug overdose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:59 AM
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With all the drugs and alcohol he's abused over the course of almost 40 years, it is downright miraculous that he lived past 50, let alone to 72. A fried brain is honestly pretty minor, comparatively speaking. He's earned the title of Prince of Darkness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:42 AM
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Yeah, I first heard from Bleach but listen to all their albums (I listening to them today and smoked some weed with my friend). Oh yeah they're really solid. For me though, there's nothing better for smoking (especially when I'm alone) than The Pillows, pure bliss. I listen to a lot of Japanese rock but SCANDAL is only my second favourite band, ORESKABAND is my number one but they're mostly Ska punk. I think I've only heard a couple songs from ORESKABAND, gotta check them out some more, funnily …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:19 AM
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Yeah man, covid step me back a lot so I haven't been able to a lot of what I wanted to do apart from skateboarding. I feel ya, I barely went to any house shows or parties (I went to a couple hosted by close friends and those were really fun but different energy). Skateboarding/longboarding however was pretty much as easy as it's ever been during lockdown, roads were pretty much clear almost all the time. I really want to go see SCANDAL live though. HA WEEB! Lol but seriously Harukaze was a damn …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:01 AM
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Oh 100%, she picked Ray because he came off as "humble and modest" and then immediately picked herself as 2nd and started humble-bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:16 PM
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You should! Ozzy had his fun and is still out there kicking hoping the same for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:08 PM
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The whole video is rough, but yeah Maria was definitely being the "pretentious academic" and I wouldn't say some of the stuff she said was wrong, but she was definitely just trying to save face at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:03 PM
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Dragoon, glad to see you're still around. Seems like you're turning more into an Osbourne and not a Vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:35 PM
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using black people for medical testing and research I think I read recently that Henrietta Lacks family finally got reparations after all the scientific and medical research that they were able to do thanks to her cells. But the kicker is despite most of that research being government sanctioned and funded, the donations/reparations came from a private/personal entity. Not completely sure, might have to find the article, but if so that is twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:59 PM
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I agree with Slyfer, it's a date it isn't that deep. Go out have a good time, try to show her a good time, have a nice conversation, be courteous, and if she wants to move things forward and you still don't by the end of the date, say so and just try to be tactful about it. Might be some hurt feelings but she's probably not gonna go home and cry about a Tinder date (especially if it's just going out for drinks).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:56 PM
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u/NarniaFox and u/SmurfESmerferson for most of the reasons everyone else said u/SherbertBacon mainly because he's calm and level-headed, and seems red in action but blue in mentality. and u/Poppy_Blu just because
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:04 PM
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Personally I think the advice given by TRP & FDS is fine but both carry the pretentiousness and zealotry of an AA member that just got their 6 month chip: "I can't believe you guys still go out and drink, after doing the program I can't even imagine why people would think about drinking when they can just go to church and actually do things that are useful and productive for society. Sobriety sure is great, ain't it?" "Yes David, I think it's great that you don't go on a bender and get blackout …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:58 PM
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That Buddha is decidedly more based than real Buddha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:49 PM
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Is that a motherfucking Shuumatsu no Valkyrie reference!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:45 PM
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"Why don't you shut your peasant ass up and meditate under a tree until you forget that the world is chaotic, other people are suffering, and that you're probably gonna die one day. Worked for Me." Buddha (basically)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:43 PM
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Felons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:08 PM
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Yeah, I could've gone my entire life happy without knowing about it but now I get to live with the burden of that knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:04 PM
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I guess he just assumed that he could just... piss them out. If he actually could it would really makes kidney stones look like a walk through the park. Edit: I guess if they were magnetic than he was probably gonna use a magnet to retrieve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:21 PM
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Urethral sounding is a thing so this isn't all too shocking, so I'm honestly more impressed than disturbed (albeit this is still disturbing), like 43 individual balls, god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:15 PM
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Yeah but if they can the results are usually pretty good Back when shit was still open I was really into to going to house parties and house shows on campus. Another friend of mine who's kind of scene chick/alternative, she was pretty bold at approaching girls at stuff like that. She met her current girl friend at a show and while she was kinda "masculine" in her approach I don't think as whole or from first glance anyone would consider her as butch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah I get that, I had a similar theory mulling around in my head for a while when it came to that distinction with dating with regards to bi men and women. Same sex relationships struggle enough as is with working with a smaller population size and having to actually guess and check, "okay is she into me or is she being nice?" or "is he gay or just European?". So I can definitely get it on that front. Personally, I've always thought with regards to how queer dating is done, gay and bi men tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:06 AM
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Yeah it's a trend that I've noticed in younger people but it seems just as prominent if not more so, in older people (probably for similar reasons). As far as the whole bi definition, I tend to be of the mindset that it doesn't matter who you want to date/be in relationship with, it's who you find sexually attractive/would be willing to have sex with. I mean it's in the name bi-sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:35 PM
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This actually reminds me of something I've thought about for a while. With the bi people that I know it's way easier for me to find a bi guy that has been in same-sex relationship than it is for me to find a bi girl that has been in one. There are probably a bunch of different personal reasons, mixed in with queer theory reasons (eg. CompHet, Internalized Homophobia, etc) to explain why, but I've always thought it was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:48 PM
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Yeah more or less, I was the only boy between two sisters (who really didn't like getting as active) so if I wasn't at home I spent a lot of time going outside doing dumb stuff with my friends. It was also really easy for me to get into things so I did a lot, like martial arts and skateboarding, which were more niche for my usual friend group but stuff I really enjoyed and still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:40 PM
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Football and basketball were pretty common where I lived never really played soccer. Also baseball and kickball because we lived close to a nice field. Ultimate Frisbee was also pretty popular by the time I got to high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:23 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:54 PM
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I feel like the way they're using empathy and "Affective Empathy" is sort of vague. Like the way they describe Affective Emapthy: the sensations and feelings we get in response to others’ emotions; this can include mirroring what that person is feeling, or just feeling stressed when we detect another’s fear or anxiety.* Or even the definition of what they describe as just regular empathy: Emotion researchers generally define empathy as the ability to sense other people’s emotions, coupled with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:11 PM
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Nate Robinson played in the NBA for 11 seasons, for 8 different teams, and was literally the first (and currently only) 3 time NBA Slam-Dunk Champion... He's 5'9" (And don't even get me started with I.T.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:48 AM
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Nothing would really change for me, there's not much I do that i feel compelled to do because of gender roles. Also, like another person mentioned, I'm bi, so gender roles aren't as pervasive and as neccasry to follow for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:41 AM
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22 M No real formal strategy, just kinda enjoying life doing the stuff that I like and seeing what happens. Currently not looking for a relationship, just not in the mood for one (had to get out of my last real relationship because of that). But if that ever changes I might want to get married one day, still on the fence with regards to kids, but having a partner to share experiences and grow old with sounds quite nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:10 AM
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Ehh meaning can be created, religion as a concept in of itself is a product of people trying to create meaning, and that's why it's not identical cross-culturally. I see no reason for why the meaning that I try to create and carve out for myself needs to be tied to the spiritual or a deity. And this isn't me trying to disparage the religious and spiritual though, they've taken their path, I've taken mine, everyone is comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:42 AM
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Idk being agnostic just feels right. Don't know if God exists, don't really care, pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:31 AM
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Fair enough! Blocks are cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:59 PM
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Oh yeah I get that, I'm just saying i can understand why some people might not consider him hot if we're just going off the 2nd picture. Every other pic is hot. I also feel like the angle also kinda makes his face look more blocky, like his neck and head in perfect alignment and his face is just kinda square in the middle. I think he pulls off profile and semi-profile shots better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:32 PM
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Every picture except for the 2nd picture makes him look hot, the 2nd picture i guess is fine but I wouldn't say he's hot in that pic. I feel like the perspective is off and his ears just look so tiny compared to the rest of his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:23 PM
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Ehh this relationship kinda seemed doomed from the get go. It was built on a lie so it kind of had a shaky foundation from the start. I'm not trying to point fingers at her but she probably would've saved herself a lot of trouble and time by either answering truthfully or just taking the question/concern over her n-count as a red flag and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:26 PM
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Yeah if you're talking about that Telegraph one it doesn't, that's not on you. I looked over it and it is pretty poor when describing sexlessness and even Smurf mentions points not being accounted for. The big one is that it does define sexlessness in a way that excludes, gays, lesbian, and same-sex relationship bisexuals, which fucks up the count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:51 PM
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Seems like it would end up being the typical Cyberpunk (the genre not the game) world. If I was born with the same body I had now, I'd probably be content enough not to upgrade if it were just for looks. But if there were sick ass body mods I'd be game for a bunch of different shit. Like dumpster diving and tinkering with junker body mods would be cool or even morally gray black market exchanges would probably also be something I'd consider. Anything short of outright interpersonal theft and mur…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:48 PM
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I appreciate being on the same wavelength and being transparent when it comes to stuff like this, so yeah I would feel really bad, which is why I wouldn't do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:25 PM
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Bravado can be fun, but it can also be downright annoying. I've seen and dealt with it enough that it kinda registers as meh, but I understand why people find it annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:00 AM
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I don't really think her standards are crazy, they're actually pretty par for the course if im being honest. But I don't think it's hard to imagine why people find this kind of bravado annoying, it's just as annoying being surrounded by "academics/intellectuals" that feel the need to overcomplicate their language. It kinda gives off similar energy as guys that feel the need to overtly and explicitly say "no fat chicks" and then give an entire speel on why other guys should be ashamed about datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:24 AM
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It's an extreme case, I get that lol. But I guess I'm just trying to illustrate a point. I mean it just seems like you're saying "tell me what's wrong with this person's communication without mentioning aspects of their communication". Why keep saying put tone and language aside when its clear that it does have an effect on how things are perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:38 AM
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So wait if I'm at a job and there are 3 other people (who happen to be let's say "melanin-challenged") working with me and the manager comes over and gives us a task of cleaning up before we open and he tells the other 3: "Alright let's get this place cleaned up before we open up guys" And then he faces me and says: "Make sure this place is clean, boy" Am I not suppose to take offense to that just because he's "laying out his expectations"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:26 AM
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Usually most surveys control for that kind of thing (or atleast good ones). Most people that do data analysis try to get meticulous records of information that can be considered "pertinent" even if it isn't directly related to the study. I'm still in college and there are shit ton of surveys that people are always asking you to take and it can be about random stuff like "how do you feel about the new library" and they will still ask for things like sexual orientation, because they want to get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:37 PM
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Yeah I've always been a smart ass, I got lucky that most of my family put up with it. My mom's dad and her brothers really didn't stand for it though (they were "old school"), so I learned quick when to pick my battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:55 PM
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Its like as if its a cycle or something Yeah, I said this further down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah we're more or less agreeing and saying the same thing. And I agree the technology makes it different, personally I don't really give a crap about the "generational wars" or whatever (but I will sarcastically call someone a Boomer regardless of age just for fun). And I'm not really surprised to see older generations interacting in the same online spaces, it is expected, they still exist. It just hits different when I see a person old enough to have actually been inside the World Trade Center…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:11 PM
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I guess it just comes down to experience. (I will say that I disagree about side parts, skinny jeans are whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:49 PM
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Fair enough, but it's all a matter of perspective. The 36 year needs to deal with a bratty 16 year and sometimes the way they do that is by trying to "humble them", the 16 gets frustrated, anti-authoritism pursues, cycle repeats. (Online clap backs are even weirder to me because then you have more trivial encounters like a 37 year old getting into a hufflepuff because some girl on TikTok said Harry Potter was cringe) It's nothing new, generational grandstanding happens all the time. I guess if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:48 PM
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Ehh you're a year younger than my older sister, so I guess you'd be like on the cusp, but that's probably just my bias kicking in. Most of the time I see millennials shit talking gen zers it's irl, I've had bosses and teachers that were in their 30s that seemed to have a chip on their shoulders about how Gen Z operates, that's just my experience though For the most part Gen Z is just anti-authority and that puts them up against Gen X and Boomers more than anything, millennials really only fall i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:22 PM
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Early millennials (people like in their late 30s/early 40s right now) say that were stupid because we drink bleach and eat tide pods, we're too obsessed with Eastern culture and media (anime and kpop), social media obsessed, and that we're blindly and overly radical/political. (And there's some truth to all of that) Late millennials (people in their mid to late 20s) are more or less culturally indistinguishable from Gen Zers so they don't say much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:08 PM
1

How exactly does that work for wlw relationships? (Half-jokingngly asking)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:19 AM
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Then why even bring it when it's clear I'm only talking about one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:10 PM
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I see what you mean but here's a point that you haven't considered: I am right, and you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:43 PM
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The whole purpose of the rebuff was that I'm implying conscious and malicious intent where there isn't any, like you were doing: I don't buy for a second these men "don't know" how they feel. They go on the date bc there is a possibility of free sex. That's it. Apparently that is an easier pill to swallow then, "a date that just didn't go further than that".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:36 PM
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Well thats gross of you. 🤷‍♀️ It's just a genderswap repeat of what you just said. I don't believe either, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:43 PM
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Honestly, we'd have to put the entire relationship on pause, come together and work really hard to find a single fuck that I'd be willing to give. Like It's not hard for me to imagine why a guy might be upset about that, but personally I can't bring myself to care enough to be upset about something I didn't even want in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:29 PM
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Okay... "Women constantly say there's a difference between wanting to have sex with a person and wanting to commit to a person. And that they can tell the difference between guys who want the former vs the latter. Yet miraculously we still get posts about how women are being manipulated and used for sex." "I don't buy for a second these women 'don't know' that they are being 'used'. They go on the date and have sex with these men bc they find it validating [or insert other extraneous reason]. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:41 PM
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Okay so what's the problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:23 PM
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Interested does not mean "I'm 100% certain that I want to be in a serious romantic relationship with this person" Interested can mean "Yeah I have feelings for this person, and I kinda wanna see what the extent of these feelings are and if I could actually see myself in a relationship with this person" hence a date. Not all first dates end in relationships, hell not all first dates turn into second dates. You can't sit there and tell me that there has never been any woman that went on a date wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:05 PM
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I mean that's still why people go on dates though, you want to figure out whether you're just crushing on this person or if you're actually compatible in a romantic context. I know plenty of people that worked fine as friends but wound up being really bad for each other romantically. Usually that's what dates/dating is for, some people just figure it out faster than others, so things end on date 1 instead of date 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:30 PM
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Both times we only went out once bc they didnt really like me. I dont know why they went out with me if they didnt like me but I guess it was an ego boost? Isn't that just how dating works? You go on a date, see how you feel about the person in a romantic sense, if sparks fly you take it further, if not you end things there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:18 PM
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It's honestly perfect, especially the music they used
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:36 AM
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I'd say I'm happy, if not atleast content. There's really not much in my life that I have to complain about or anything causing me massive dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:09 AM
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Ppd in a nutshell: "Someone agrees with my personal experiences" "Someone disagrees with my personal experiences"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:33 PM
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Possibly, I'd have to ask the guys I've slept with just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:14 AM
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Kid Cudi and Johnny are rocking them (as well as that Dad) but for some odd reason I never liked the way Will Smith wore that crop top. Like maybe it's the whole outfit throwing me off but it never felt "right" (like grey shirt with a hat and grassy green shorts, wild) he should definitely still rock them though. But seriously a good chunk of guys actually have really good midriffs without even realizing it but they don't try to show them off, because they assume if they don't have washboard abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:24 AM
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Middle of heat wave thought: Guys should wear crop tops again/more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:25 PM
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Body types and weight distribution does make it tricky like that, even for men. I look like I weigh a lot less than I do because I'm built more like a trapezoid/rectangle than a circle/oval, even though I'm technically overweight if we're just going by BMI. I'm only about 20 pounds lighter than one of my friends but he looks a lot bigger since he carries most of the weight in the middle so he has a gut and big love handles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:41 PM
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Having a higher pool does not mean you actually get a higher number of dates. Never said it did, but higher dating pool is still a higher dating pool if it wasn't relevant you wouldn't have needed to mention it either: You had to actually go and ask people out instead of having access of unlimited amount. Few resources and less access to people There is no change is you can't actually get more woman that going to a party The change isn't that you don't get more women than if you went to party, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:39 PM
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If you're not going to a party and instead just swiping across pictures on your phone, that alone literally changes dating pool size, selection, presentation and meeting, wouldn't that constitute a change to dating and therefore different behaviors and expectations around dating? Once again ill remind you even said that older people "had to actually use game" which implies that you assume younger people don't, that in itself would be a difference/change in dating. Saying none of that constitutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:55 PM
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You yourself said that older people have the experience of dating in a time where "they needed to have game" and that they "didn't have unlimited options and social media." Does that not mean that you're implying that dating now, doesn't require game and people do have unlimited options/social media? And if so, doesn't that mean dating has changed and is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:02 PM
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Dating has not changed, online dating has only extended what has already been happening. You had to actually go and ask people out instead of having access of unlimited amount. Few resources and less access to people Does that not constitute a "change"? Or you think people used to behave differently before ? They got laid during times where there would be little to no social media, when you actually had to have game. Do you? I never even said I agreed with him, just that was the argument that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:41 PM
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Lukewarm take: Partnerships were always 50/50 (more or less), the whole point of marriage before was to be in a relationship with a person that could do the shit that you couldn't or wouldn't do, and usually that would end up being equal yet different work. The only difference now is that the traditional family framework of husband is breadwinner, wife is stay-at-home mom/homemaker is not stable for the average family in the socio-economic climate that we live in so a 50/50 partnership looks dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:14 PM
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Yeah, I really shouldn't feel as old as I do at 22 lol But considering some of the shit that my nephew is into, I feel like I really don't want to be in touch with what their generation is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:31 PM
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Can’t wait for the current middle schoolers to call you all old and out of touch 😂 No need to wait, my nephew already thinks I'm out of touch, that cheeky little brat (but he is right)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:19 PM
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Right... so that means dating is different, and people who are 30+ might not have a good frame of reference to talk about how dating is for younger people today, because they didn't have things like easy/common access to the internet, social media, swiping apps, etc, when they were dating. I'm pretty sure that's the point trying to be made, unless I'm missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:46 PM
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