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I can interrogate your stance and opinions, that’s the whole point of a debate post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:38 AM
1

Families and couples are wealthier and have higher social status than singles, regardless of your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:10 AM
-1

It’s not really enjoyable to hear masturbatory ego talk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:52 AM
-1

One doesn’t have to be a non-blonde to realize that talking and pontificating isn’t doing or effecting change
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:40 PM
1

And incorrectly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:14 PM
1

Ah, ah, ah — did you just assume ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:04 PM
1

Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:18 AM
1

Relationships that don’t involve cohabitation or marriage are not that important
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:59 AM
1

We already know women and men are different. Men are thirsty and women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:06 AM
2

They could but they do not, because desperation and indiscriminacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:10 PM
0

And what topics are worthy, in your humble opinion? What good do deep thoughts do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:07 PM
1

Then they will be alone Or will they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:06 PM
1

Why shouldn’t the most desirable women think they’re desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:20 PM
3

Shows masculinity or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:10 PM
1

Heresy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:15 PM
2

Yes, that’s the catch. Full submission demands full dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:15 PM
-3

If “the first” is your concern, you’re not a good man. You’re a user
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:14 PM
1

Nope. Men can choose to not be sluts, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:01 PM
1

Of course. Because rape and economic dependence are no longer common
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:00 PM
1

You have illustrated my point perfectly Red pill = self improvement + women bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:57 PM
1

The only difference between a simp and a good guy is the observer who decides what they should be getting in return for the behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:56 PM
1

Nope Being good/yourself is only bad if you want something in return for it and will get angry if you don’t get it, aka entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:53 PM
4

There’s roughly equal numbers of men and women. If women have more options, it’s only because someone is freely giving them out. I wonder who is doing that? Tree frogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:03 AM
1

Do female incels exist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:00 AM
3

They will get older too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:59 AM
5

With forever girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:02 AM
6

Men don’t seem in a hurry to change diapers and commit either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:58 PM
1

I assure you that is normal behavior for young people of both genders. Well, at least 10-20 years ago it was Maybe you guys don’t YOLO anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:57 PM
6

“Anything” meaning “no low is too low”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:55 PM
2

For you, maybe Other men like stability and feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:53 PM
2

Because they’re male sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:51 PM
4

Immoral men ok, immoral women not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:50 PM
6

Yes, most people like to get laid. Usually not competitively or excessively, though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:48 PM
3

More people like being social with nice people than assholes, criminals and sociopaths But, again, if other people aren’t your bag, I can see why it doesn’t appeal to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:46 PM
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That’s what most young, dumb people of both genders are doing. Well, excepting the heels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:38 PM
4

Other people Yes, what a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:38 PM
1

They already know that They just don’t wanna They’re as helpless as rats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:09 PM
-1

We all know men will fuck anything, even the poorly socialized or just plain poor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:01 PM
2

Why? Males horny, that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:58 PM
1

No, unless you state your romantic interest, you are not owed anything Plausible deniability works both ways. If you can’t be rejected, neither can you expect obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:55 PM
5

Uh, yeah, that’s the point “Society bad, self interest good” is the whole point of the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:06 PM
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No they don’t, lol Men are assumed to be rapey murderous abusers who won’t change, so it’s up to women to avoid, deter, pacify and defend against them. Thus, they are at fault for allowing men the opportunity to victimize them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:00 PM
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Normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:58 PM
1

The constraints
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:47 PM
1

Everything beneficial has a cost. Power, dominance, sex, respect, inclusion — there’s no such thing as a free lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:41 PM
-1

*normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:28 PM
0

Whatever behavior the woman is complaining about that prompts “choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:02 PM
4

Everyone knows that promiscuity is the best and most virtuous character trait
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:48 PM
3

Actual good men who like monogamy are going to have fewer partners than promiscuous sociopaths It’s a feature, not a bug
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:46 PM
5

Actual nice guys wouldn’t be doing anything to get laid, and would have fewer sex partners than scum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:45 PM
0

It’s placing responsibility for the man’s behavior on his partner. “Choose better” instead of “wow, what a shit thing to do to the person you claim to love”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:38 PM
0

Yes, and men certainly choose their behaviors. Which the woman is then blamed for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:37 PM
10

It’s not. A single woman cannot sleep with that many men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:36 PM
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They don’t have to do anything. Because it’s women’s responsibility, not theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:35 PM
4

It’s brought up all the time, because it is the only logical argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:34 PM
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There is one aspect that they do have a point about — we do not trust or show platonic affection to men as much as women. But that’s because men see platonic affection, and even just interaction, as sexual interest, so it’s justified and correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:34 PM
2

Of course they are, for civilization and not raping and enslaving women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:28 PM
9

But blaming women for men’s health is good for men, in the short term And so it will continue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:25 PM
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Yes, that would be the vast majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:23 PM
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Nope. Acting like sex only involves one person is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:22 PM
2

Nope, it means it’s the woman’s fault, not the man’s fault, for the man’s behavior Just like the rationale behind the veil and sex segregation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:20 PM
4

Of course you can do promiscuity or nonmonogamy ethically. That doesn’t make it “good” or “positive” or “ideal for monogamy”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:09 PM
2

Now, why should good men be getting more sex than bad ones ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:00 PM
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Good men aren’t trying to fuck everything and anything Of course they’re going to be having less sex than bad ones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:59 PM
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You’re honest about your disdain for women. That doesn’t make you good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:58 PM
5

Manipulative, awful men should get more pussy. Because “good” men are supposed to be monogamous and chaste
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:54 PM
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“Choose better” Means “Men aren’t responsible for their own behavior”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:52 PM
1

Your baggage is part of you. Including your experiences, thoughts and opinions. If all “true” male friendship amounts to is just “existing in each other’s presence” and being incurious of or even avoidant of all other information, it’s no surprise that many men don’t have friends. If the relationship is dependent on what you do rather than who it’s with, it’s an easily replaceable relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:46 PM
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And why should “good” guys want and chase tons of pussy? Isn’t the point of being good that you don’t want or do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:33 PM
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Uh huh, that’s why women are coddled whiners that should cry less, riiiiiiiiight?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:27 PM
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That’s what we find interesting and cool about our friends. So it’s weird that men don’t seem to care We don’t have to want or care about the same things that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:25 PM
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No, everyone just gets older and more tired
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:10 PM
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If you believe, why don’t you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:09 PM
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No, we call those fake or false friends, not NiceGuys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:01 PM
1

No, men do have to deal with older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:57 PM
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Of course they do. Why do you think there are so many men pissed about women’s brains and what you have to do to interact with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:55 PM
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We do. Because of the way the man acts after not getting what he wants If he doesn’t act like an entitled baby, he’s not a NiceGuy It’s very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:47 PM
1

Sorry, that comment was getting away from me, so I deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:37 PM
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Of course not, unless we’re talking about the law. But you can feel like you are, or at least believe there are rules and expectations And there still are rules and expectations, which are enforced by social judgements
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:34 PM
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Nope. It’s normal, and that’s what men have to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:33 PM
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We can’t withhold what doesn’t exist. If I don’t like you or want to fuck you, I just don’t. We can fake it, of course, but what’s the incentive to do something unpleasant like that? What can be withheld is access to our bodies, if one believes that men are owed it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:24 PM
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I don’t think so. Getting old is very common. One might even say inevitable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:16 PM
2

No, I’m just old and tired and weak. I’m put out to pasture now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:10 PM
-1

If you’re not dating, no If you are dating, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:09 PM
1

That’s the definition of a NiceGuyTM A man who wants sex/relationships for being nice, and gets pissy or sulky when he doesn’t get it If that’s not you, congrats! You’re not a NiceGuyTM.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:04 PM
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1) where’s the money for education going to come from? 2) can she study if he’s harassing her, verbally abusing her and making her life miserable at home 3) who’s going to watch her kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:59 PM
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Both My days of clubbing, murdering every brain and liver cell possible via chemicals, not sleeping, stealing shit, starting fights, eating crap food, lying on terrible or nonexistent mattresses, and wearing crazy heels are over. I cannot physically survive that stuff anymore. Thus, marriage sounded better and better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:49 PM
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Feeling used is the logical result of not getting the thing that use should get you, aka entitlement This is ok for women, because dating is for relationships, not sex. But not men, because friendship and niceness is for friendship and niceness, not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:47 PM
0

I’m afraid laws and policies do actually exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:44 PM
0

They fear loss of power. Having to care about what someone else thinks means you’re submissive. Real men do what they want and don’t give a shit about anyone else. It’s good to be the king, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:25 PM
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Misogyny tends to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:02 PM
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Not envy. Fear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:02 PM
1

There’s no men in the red pill equation, just Chads and simps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:17 PM
1

Men have never cared if women wanted to fuck them, by and large What do you think marriage/sex was about for most of human existence, and even today? Mutual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:15 PM
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And yet women are the ones who can’t love or be loyal And men’s behaviors and attitudes of course have no effect on women. Nope, it’s a mystery why women behave the way they do towards men. It must be biology, can’t explain it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:02 PM
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The red pill has been around for more than a decade The point of red pill isn’t self improvement The point is using misogyny, sexism and resentment to motivate self improvement. Otherwise, we’d just call red pill “self improvement”, instead of a cure for societal “lies”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:57 PM
4

Being perved on and simped for I can trust interaction more, and I get less of it too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:51 PM
1

You can want the same things. But to get priority, you have to be superior. That’s why guys love to talk about hierarchy, rank and power. They know the ugly truth, and lots of women don’t want to face that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:49 PM
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An honest man, I am shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:47 PM
1

Sex and service, obviously. How can you demand either on your terms from someone who’s your equal ? No, to get what you want, when you want from another person, they have to be your inferior. Isn’t that right, kings?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:47 PM
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And plenty of men would call you a cuck, simp or pussy for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:45 PM
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She’s also his mommy, maid and personal assistant Those are not egalitarian relationships, that’s unpaid servitude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:43 PM
2

Of course we do. We do way more of the domestic effort even when we earn the same https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ And we’re willing to put way more effort into divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:42 PM
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Of course they are, by a 5 to 1 ratio Men have the means, and the motive, that women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:37 PM
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Yup. Corruption exists. Sexism in law enforcement exists. Monetary influence exists. Kids exist. Violence exists. Murder exists. You can talk to anyone in law enforcement, family law, social work, the education system, the healthcare system, etc, to see how effectively and efficiently society really protects victims, especially children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:34 PM
1

Uh huh, sure; the world and humans are just, logical and functional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:31 PM
1

Intimacy and connection means different things to men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:05 PM
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This appears to be a personal issue https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/5kcYDdbzlC https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7YRjaIbEvH https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RQHHiTGvnS https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/LCJIw68Npp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:50 AM
1

Why? Men confess to dumpster diving all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:44 AM
2

Men are the ones who say that sex is the most important thing in the world and their reason for doing everything Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:43 AM
3

It’s much better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:42 AM
1

We are. Just not as much as men Women’s tennis, golf, soccer, gymnastics and figure skating has decent numbers and fandom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:21 AM
1

Liking our vaginas, wombs and labor isn’t liking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:15 AM
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He’s horny and I’m convenient Everyone dumpster dives once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:13 AM
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I’m not very desirable now, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:12 AM
1

I’m afraid women do watch men’s sports. But are men watching RH?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:30 PM
2

Lots of us do. But we also watch men’s sports too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:01 PM
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Of course. I’m not denying that. And lots of their fans are female. We’ll watch, read, listen to and buy your stuff, but you won’t watch/read/listen to/buy ours — unless it’s sexxxxxay. Any sports broadcaster or media executive knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:50 PM
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Not at all. Women’s soccer, tennis, golf, ice skating and gymnastics make money And lots of men’s sports do not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:43 PM
1

I do. Plenty of people do. Just not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:39 PM
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Men say they don’t care about our jobs, education, politics, interests and achievements They won’t buy or consume our content (sports, books, movies, music, tv or media) Our platonic friendship is unsatisfactory or insulting Our bodies and vaginas, on the other hand — you’ll pay lots of money and attention to those So why wouldn’t women think men don’t like us, just our bodies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:23 PM
2

Again, who knows ? Some women might find it acceptable if a guy hits her as long as he says “I love you”. Many men will put up with a shallow user as long as she’s hot and sucks their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:16 PM
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I thought we were supposed to “choose better”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:56 PM
-6

If you don’t like us (not our bodies), why should we like you ? If you only care about yourselves (and our bodies), why should we care about you? If you’re not nice to us, why should we be nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:44 PM
2

Women tell men all the time. Men either don’t listen, don’t care, or say that Chad doesn’t have to, so why should they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:43 PM
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Nope We’re talking about standards, not behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:13 PM
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If you don’t like us (not our bodies), why should we like you ? If you only care about yourselves (and our bodies), why should we care about you? If you’re not nice to us, why should we be nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:01 PM
2

*because they can’t handle being celibate It’s also the same for women, except what they can’t handle is being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:00 PM
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*because they can’t handle being celibate It’s also the same for women, except what they can’t handle is being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:42 PM
3

They’re not trying to get laid. They just want to feel better about themselves by being jerks and getting a reaction. So I don’t give it to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:39 PM
2

There’s plenty of basis to define it. You just have to know the answer to the question: why doesn’t this person want to fuck/date/marry/reproduce with me? And if you want to know in a general context, you have to have many women answer this question about men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:36 PM
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Your OP is all about kids, it’s a very common issue on this sub and in the real world, but we’re supposed to read your mind when you aren’t clear about things? What entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:45 PM
2

It’s not a fallacy, just a standard many people have, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:40 PM
2

Not at all. I often didn’t get, so I dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:24 PM
4

I assure you that they knew, because I told them. And because everyone knows that cheating isn’t cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:23 PM
2

Yes. Still doesn’t make it common or routine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:34 PM
5

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:22 PM
3

Yes, abnormal things are worth reporting on Normal things are not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:16 PM
5

Not for long Men like that will also get bored too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:08 PM
4

Yes, but I already answered your question If men go to war, women will go to war. Including me What I’m not going to do is sacrifice while men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:04 PM
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More like stop cheating, sucking in bed and treating me like a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:00 PM
1

It would be easier for me to get a dick thrown at me regardless of venue Irl interactions have some advantages, or they wouldn’t exist at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:50 PM
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The OP was about kids, women are always being nagged about the birth rate, and you haven’t provided a reasonable alternative, so….its about kids by default
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:45 PM
1

So? It doesn’t preclude meeting people by other means
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:39 PM
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Of course it’s about kids. You said so yourself Denying it is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:32 PM
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I’m not making it personal “You” can be plural or general; you can replace it with “men” if you’re confused My answer is the latter. They don’t even have to do it first; we can do it together. If you’re talking politics, men clearly aren’t going to help us out, and it’s also not only men fucking things up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:19 PM
10

Of course you can know. I know why I broke up with every guy who wasn’t better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:18 PM
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Why should we when men won’t? Why do we always have to sacrifice and suffer? We’ll do it when you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:32 PM
0

We’ll see about that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:24 PM
13

Why should we have to fuck/take care of men we don’t want? Why can’t men be better ? Why should we when you won’t ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:23 PM
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Why do we have to “give up some of our own time/effort”, aka fuck/take care of men we don’t want and have/take care of babies we don’t want ? Why can’t men “be better”? Because if men won’t, machines definitely will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:22 PM
1

Hey, William, how’s it going ? I see you’re “just asking questions” again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:17 PM
2

No, because not everyone has kids based on OLD Unless you see all the same people, it’s not a monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:11 PM
1

Does sharing and commenting on nudes of your SO count? Because a lot of men do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:10 PM
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I would say “you get what you give”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:08 PM
2

That’s not necessary; I’m not in a confined space or hanging around encampments
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:57 PM
3

You do know that lots of men are cowards and only do it when other men aren’t around, right? Although I have never experienced it in some places, like East Asia, Scandinavia and the Caribbean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:45 PM
5

Captain save a ho is mocked for this very reason, so you’re preaching to the choir
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:14 AM
-1

No, but it does limit your options, to zero apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:06 AM
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Right, but why do you consider it sexy, if you aren’t actually sexually attracted to yourself. Or are you ? I don’t get turned on by my own body, no. I get turned on by my partners body, and other men’s bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:04 AM
3

Why do you think your body is “hot”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:56 AM
1

It’s so sad you are forced to stay there, forever. Society truly is oppressive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:55 AM
6

You feel good about your body because it looks nice. And who does it look nice to, primarily?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:50 AM
0

Oh, you mean the average height of the Asian/Hispanic men in my family, who are all married (some to white women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:47 AM
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Yes. It’s the implication/potential Unless you want to fuck yourself, which I kinda doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:44 AM
6

It’s a smaller city with a homeless problem, although maybe not nationally famous for it. There are many of those, unfortunately, especially since the opioid epidemic and widening income divide I’m not afraid of these rude interjections, but they’re still not pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:41 AM
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If you’re dressing sexy, it’s to validate yourself via men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:06 AM
1

Luckily, that’s not the primary argument against it. But bad sex is still a good argument. Sex based on use is more likely to be unpleasant for the used. And we all know the user doesn’t care about them, only themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:31 AM
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Homeless men and jerks catcalling/harassing me — frequently, because I live in a city. This is what they do to all women, however If I’m by myself at a bar, waiting, occasionally When I was young, rarely, I would get a guy trying to talk to me on public transport, or at stores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:20 AM
1

If your social circle repels women, or at least your type of woman, no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:08 AM
5

A lot of abusers keep their partners by pretending to be weak, helpless, ill, suicidal, addicted and dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:21 AM
9

“This does come at the cost of the woman’s freedom, sanity and general happiness” “All at the expense of, evidently, the woman and her freedom”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:20 AM
1

You do know that the people I date are men, not women, right ? So it obviously works for men too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:19 AM
5

A gaping wound that can only be sutured up with the thread of female oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:43 PM
1

Because that’s the context that the sub is meant to discuss. If you mean in general, this isn’t really the place to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:18 PM
1

Yes. Because we have entertainment and comfort very cheap, and lots of tech
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:17 PM
1

Why would the routine be remarkable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:08 PM
1

Are women part of “society”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:08 PM
4

If it was common, it wouldn’t be worth commenting on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:49 PM
1

Work was where I found the majority of my friends and partners. Even later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:35 PM
1

Most young couples I know met at school or work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:40 PM
2

It can I don’t give out guarantees
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:53 PM
5

Nope. It just helps, because it’s normal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:32 PM
72

Because it works, obviously Same reason men do it to women, women do it to women, and men do it to men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:27 PM
5

Because they often ask how they are supposed to get friends and socialize, since it’s so important, and dating apps/cold approaching/doing nothing aren’t working for them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:19 PM
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The men who come here complaining about women often do not And it’s often the reason they are not successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:17 PM
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What’s considered “perfect” will depend on the beholder, aka the woman the man is interested in If the point is to get a relationship or sex, I mean And if it’s not, I believe your post is off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:16 PM
3

Depends on the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:33 PM
5

I don’t. But they still can, because the risk and the rewards are well known The military can be a good decision. It depends on the person Just like a large age gap can. I and many people just believe that such relationships are extremely rare and not optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:57 PM
1

Nowhere did I do any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:54 PM
1

I’m not. I’m asking why men don’t follow their own logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:35 PM
1

Yes, so why don’t men do this regularly? You know, since it’s so good for your sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:25 PM
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Just because you can doesn’t mean you should And its better to enter the military young — both for the recruit and the institution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:14 PM
5

Do unto others works pretty well for 99% of situations
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:12 PM
1

Below average on both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:11 PM
1

No more than clothes are deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:08 PM
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If women really were masochists, most men would be in prison to get gfs and wives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:07 PM
2

Just because apps exist doesn’t mean they are mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:02 PM
1

Depends on if you think yourself dependent on people Once I realized I wasn’t, everything was much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:08 PM
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You can, and most people will think you’re weird, because how would you know? And why would you care? You can see a fat person is fat; anything about their genitals is speculation, and weirdly sexual at that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:04 PM
1

Are they? How can randos know a strangers dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:51 PM
2

Depends on how old you are. When I was younger it was normal to use those insults to a man’s face, or use “fat” as someone’s normal name. I’m glad it’s no longer common
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:48 PM
1

They would match every other dating/social phenomenon if so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:01 AM
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I assume you wouldn’t want your ONS to lie to you about being a biological female, healthy, not a minor, attractive, sober, alone, unarmed, law abiding, sane….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:52 PM
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Good relationships = no drama No drama = boring Having said that, Morticia and Gomez Addams, Marge and Norm (Fargo), Carl and Ellie (Up), the parents in Spy kids are healthy And Annie hall for relationships that don’t work out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:48 PM
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My relationship wouldn’t change who I believe. I’ve had family members molest me, and acquaintances/friends assault and attempt rape, as have friends of both genders With the evidence given, the dude raped her, although I doubt it’s enough to convict him, even in a plea deal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:22 PM
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Not really. Nobody gave me hate or ridiculed me the way fat people, especially fat men, used to be openly mocked and insulted. Lardass, fatass, fatty and Fat (Name) used to be thrown around a lot, especially towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:54 PM
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I assure you that “me horny” and “fuck you, bitch” are very easy ideas to have all on your own And very easy to convey with a smartphone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:45 PM
3

Oh, so what should be done about this injustice then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:43 PM
0

I’m just following your logic to its practical conclusion Manipulation: bad Scamming/addiction: bad Solution: laws and prohibition of bad things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:40 PM
1

How silly of them to expect that ! From men!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:35 PM
1

Then so is “all my exes cheated on me”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:34 PM
1

All compliments are manipulation, did you know? As are past experiences. Women shouldn’t learn from them! Also, they should choose better without learning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:32 PM
3

This entire post is hilarious rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:32 PM
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Not maliciously, selfishly As if they themselves aren’t doing the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:30 PM
3

Whatever individual woman is being quoted in the OP She is all, and all are she. No exceptions!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:28 PM
2

Whatever individual woman is being quoted in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:27 PM
2

Whatever individual woman is being quoted in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:27 PM
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Solution: compliments are illegal, with heavy fines or incarceration
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:26 PM
1

Hostility or horny stupidity. There’s more than enough of both to go around, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:23 PM
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Choice Just like a woman with insecurities I used to be insecure about my body and face, and now I no longer care. Because I’m kenough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:20 PM
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The data disagrees Also, you do know that there are roughly equal numbers of men and women, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:55 PM
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“My feels” aren’t reality, no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:58 PM
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Receipts needed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:41 PM
1

Too late
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:40 PM
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Of course. Because extended families also sucked when they were mandatory. Mine does, which is why I no longer talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:18 PM
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Well, that is not the reality that other women faced in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:17 PM
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I’d be wasting my time too, which I’m not fond of If being honest was better for me, I’d do it. It’s not, so I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:14 PM
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If that were true, you guys wouldn’t be whining about nobody fucking you If women wanted to have a gangbang everyday, we could. We just don’t wanna
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:11 PM
3

Did you think you had to marry or else you would starve, be a servant, or sell your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:10 PM
5

It is in the nature of men to desire sex with as many women as possible. You do not have to chase them to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:22 PM
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They don’t have to. We just have to prefer them to not having a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:14 PM
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You guys are the ones who are acting like she is the hive mind, not us
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:13 PM
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Women having experiences, opinions and agency is oppressive, doncha know ? Robot gfs are the way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:12 PM
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Ah, so a relationship is worth less than casual sex? Why are you in a relationship then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:04 PM
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Smells like privilege and lack of empathy/imagination “America slaves were had more food, education and legal rights than Africans! Ergo, slavery is better than freedom!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:02 PM
4

That’s a lot of words to describe settling/beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:00 PM
2

lol, you think social status via a man is a new thing? What do you think arranged marriages were all about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:58 PM
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Women are servants to these men. Any personhood they have interferes with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:44 PM
1

Online dating will not decline because it’s easy, convenient, and free
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:41 PM
4

“Guys, are wimmin b lyin?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:34 PM
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Because now it’s a choice, not survival necessity I can’t believe this needs to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:32 PM
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That’s only if casual sex is better than a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:24 PM
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No, I don’t believe people are owed truth or honesty either. It’s nice to get it, but too many people react poorly to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:23 PM
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But it’s not the same result
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:10 AM
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No, that’s why there’s billions of us and the animals we eat and like, and way less of all the others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:16 AM
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Being ‘interesting’ got you ridiculed and lectured, and worse back when they were teens I’m sure they’d all be happy if you snuck out of the house, got roofied at a bar and ended the night at a police station or hospital /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:50 PM
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Not if half of them aren’t looking for a relationship anyways, which is what they said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:46 PM
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You can go be homeless or live in a warzone if civ is such a burden to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:45 PM
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An unsheathed sword is an annoyance to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:44 PM
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That tends to happen when you wipe out men but keep their women to rape and serve you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:41 PM
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How do you add 68% of women to 54% of men and get 56% for both genders? That would mean men vastly outnumber women in that generation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:39 PM
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There are if you know how to do math
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:36 PM
5

There was never a time when cold approaching a stranger was the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:32 PM
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If it’s so awful being alone and childless, you’ll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:59 PM
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Judging by your constant posting on this topic, I think this a personal opinion not supported by evidence https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/39AQ0kAnk0 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/S9LrKDHBRA https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/wMISrGu6iu https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/VM8ZkfjziQ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:25 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:21 PM
1

So, waiting to make sure a man likes your brain and not your pussy is using a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:52 PM
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Oh rly? Why’s that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:23 PM
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You don’t need a family to do things or have human interactions And if your life is meaningless without it that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:04 PM
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Calling people liars is a good way to protect your own worldview, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:04 PM
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Are you…supposed to ignore your blood relatives? That’s pretty cold
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:03 PM
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Suicide rates increase the older you get Suicide rates have been dropping in the young https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:52 PM
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Why wouldn’t they be? They can easily become married and childbearing if they’re unhappy, but married and childbearing women can’t easily undo what they have done
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:55 PM
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Finally. It’s funny how empathy and visualization can be effective, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:20 PM
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Why do you only care about the menz? And what’s wrong with things changing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:08 PM
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And neither have a lot of Gen Z women. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:56 PM
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It’s not objective You think effort and improvement are pointless without sex or kids as a goal And plenty of people do not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:08 PM
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She didn’t need to; the answer was right in her first comment, and you ignored it Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:40 PM
0

You misspelled “laws and law enforcement”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:34 PM
1

In voluntary interactions, the standards that are not met are unreasonable, and the ones that are met are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:26 PM
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Women and men struggle for the same reason: no one wants to give them what they want at the level they are willing to put in effort
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:25 PM
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Pointless is in the eye of the beholder. Which, believe it or not, is not always you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:22 PM
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The opinions of other people are required for any type of insecurity There’s nothing special about women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:09 PM
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Yup And you’re exactly the type of man she’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:58 PM
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If that were true, you’d all have women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:57 PM
2

Not everyone wants or prioritizes those things. That is my answer to your question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:54 PM
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She just explained that in her comment, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:10 PM
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That he’s the male counterpart of women who do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:05 PM
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When you’re not the one getting rules broken for, it’s wrong. If you are, it’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:09 PM
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Of course we are, because you guys always complain about and want prizes for it And because we’re told that’s our purpose in life, to civilize men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:08 PM
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An explanation is not a purpose, obligation or requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:57 AM
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https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10 https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/whats-the-average-age-difference-in-a-couple/ https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2014/12/04/tying-the-knot-again-chances-are-theres-a-bigger-age-gap-than-the-first-time-around/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:33 AM
3

Men’s bad behavior causes us to want better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:45 AM
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Citations needed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:44 AM
3

You do know that most women want a husband, right? We just would like to choose him ourselves It’s weird that you can’t comprehend this. Like I said before, would you prefer to choose your job and be free to leave it whenever you like, or be assigned it for life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:42 AM
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You can choose to, yes. But you don’t have to. For example, I don’t have to entertain a man’s napoleon complex or penis insecurity, and he is free to dump me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:42 AM
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Why not? People who don’t have or want kids like to be cool, rich and admired. And sometimes have sex with other people See: rich or famous people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:40 AM
2

If that were true, things would be exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:37 AM
3

Status/success/winning/ego is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:28 AM
0

You won’t die if you don’t reproduce, so no. And maintaining your own life is your choice; nature doesn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:25 AM
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I guess you have the privilege of not understanding what lack of autonomy is Perhaps you wouldn’t mind someone else choosing who you marry or what job you will have or where and who you will live with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:23 AM
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We don’t have to want or like or care about what you want or like or care about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:21 AM
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It’s not my preferred activity. I’d probably be annoyed if my SO was a cinephile. My bff and her SO are concert junkies. I wouldn’t like that either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:06 PM
-2

Red pill is the cause, not the effect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:04 PM
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Machines are replacing humans, and we’re all for it Because human beings are unpredictable, expensive, lazy, irrational, lack durability, and selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:03 PM
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And women get fucked in the front end or the back end. Yay, equality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:02 PM
1

They’re bitter that Chad is fuckin but not them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:10 PM
5

“Choose better” “Nice guys finish last” “Daddy issues” “Princess”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:52 PM
-1

There is a norm, and if you’re below it, people will judge. This is not gender specific
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:47 PM
1

Only if it benefits me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:19 PM
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People often meet through common interests, especially their jobs I often wish my partner and I shared more interests too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:18 PM
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Why would average women be landing chad? I thought Chad doesn’t give mids commitment Why do you assume Chads are gross, lazy asshats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:05 AM
1

So, you get sex and gfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:54 AM
1

Rate yourself, then, and justify the rating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:53 AM
0

Red pill is self improvement motivated by misogyny. Without the misogyny, it’s just self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:50 AM
2

Of course there’s mutual attraction, especially between attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:48 AM
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Men who want to date a gender instead of an individual with experiences should avoid dating sexual assault victims, whatever their sexual orientation FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:23 AM
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Groping is sexual assault. So is attempted penetration, with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:20 AM
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You can’t assume OP thinks that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:19 AM
-2

Is it a woman’s responsibility to turn a man on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:18 AM
1

All types. All I can conclude is that if a man feels comfortable enough to vent about loneliness to you, he’s comfortable enough to ask for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:17 PM
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I’m just reporting my experience Any time a man said he was lonely to me, he meant sexless. Because he would try to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:18 PM
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No, because we live in reality, not a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:15 PM
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In my experience, men say lonely when they really mean sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:59 PM
3

The original commenter didn’t, because they used the word “uniform” instead of “predictable”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:43 PM
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It’s a euphemism for sex vs money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:04 PM
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How they think, obviously. Doing is only part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:01 PM
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No, all you have to do is understand that “predictable” doesn’t mean “uniform” or “universal”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:00 PM
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If women were uniform, married and single women would vote the same And men wouldn’t be confused and asking what women want and mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:44 PM
1

I promise you that no one has an issue with legal red pill actions. The attitude and premise, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:29 PM
3

Plenty of men claim it is, and even more prevalent Don’t you believe men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:25 PM
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My experience is that love is a feeling Which is backed up by evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:16 PM
5

I agree with the first sentence but not the second. The fact that they don’t really pressure their members is the reason they’re not so visible anymore. Sure, they insult “beta cucks”, but there’s no way for them to actually police followers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:06 PM
3

The reasoning behind self improvement is red pill, not the self improvement And that stuff is the bitter, misogynist part
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:04 PM
2

That’s not the claim the top commenter was making
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:59 PM
1

That’s not the scenario the top commenter described He says that women will fuck men because men invented the internet and other things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:46 PM
2

They’ll sleep with men because men invented the internet ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:44 PM
1

I thought men were way thirstier than women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:41 PM
8

So you’re having casual sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:41 PM
10

20-30% is significant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:40 PM
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Great; no problem then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:25 PM
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Date short or similar height women, like all the short guys I know do. Also, you do know ethnicities other than “white” exist, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:13 PM
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Normally I would agree, but in your case, your OP is based on the assumption that you are attractive People who are attractive get sex and relationships https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/w4jiwZs35r https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/SAr30GhGO7 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/vyMGoKiDGl https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/2uzgvYGzm8 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/iTFLhf0PG9
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:43 PM
3

Hey loop! Changed it up a bit; congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:39 PM
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Sure, if you get your own life And treatment for your mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:37 PM
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Emotions aren’t that big a deal, lol. Everyone has them Just don’t make them other people’s problem and no one will care Also, most people aren’t a big weepy mess of brain chemicals The emotions I feel most often are happiness, surprise/amusement, annoyance, stress and frustration, and everyone is allowed to express those
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:32 PM
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But that’s facts. You don’t like facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:29 PM
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Love is not feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:12 PM
3

I’m talking about now, not 1970
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:36 PM
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If it’s not shallow, it’s short-lived
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:34 PM
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The actual solution is women giving men reason to step their game up through deprivation. But women are too weak and needy to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:31 PM
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Love is positive feeling brain chemicals associated with an individual human. The trigger for release of these chemicals varies widely. The person who inspires the trigger does not have to reciprocate, although reciprocity is desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:29 PM
7

Extortion is effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:26 PM
4

If your ideas and fun are offensive, perverted and inappropriate to more than half of humanity, they’re not interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:26 PM
9

Unfortunately, “fuck me or no interwebs” is not a effective strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:21 PM
21

“A case for a conservative rich daughter marrying a rich man so she doesn’t have to work as much”, more like I’m confused; is beta bux actually the RP goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:15 PM
5

You really can’t imagine why women respond better to restrained politeness than desperate thirst?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:14 PM
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And yet, hetero couples meet at work all the time And “hetero” means men, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:06 PM
1

Most women are not housewives, and even for those that are, being an involved and above average parent of multiple kids with multiple activities, plus doing almost all of the domestic upkeep, is a part time job at least
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:59 AM
1

I’m not trying to convince women. I’m just showcasing common conflicting advice that men here dispense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:56 AM
5

Settling is in the eye of the settler, not other people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 AM
6

Then why are women complaining if they never settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:39 AM
5

And how do you know their husbands think they’re better? Cuz if you’re married to a fattie, how good can you really be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:38 AM
1

So, they’re married to Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:31 AM
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Of course they do, they don’t get rich chads
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:28 AM
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Woman: my husband doesn’t pull his weight PPD: shoulda chosen better Woman: divorces PPD: no, not like that! marriage is a scam!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:03 AM
-1

Luckily, most people are not addicted, just like most people are not alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:18 AM
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Porn is often easier and more interesting than real sex. All entertainment is designed to be better or more interesting than most of real life. Otherwise we wouldn’t watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:15 AM
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When women fuck, they’re usually fucking a man, did you know? Because non-straights are less than 10% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:11 AM
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The unsuccessful do complain, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:35 PM
1

Of course. Just like there are men who expect to be treated like Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:30 PM
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Did you know that if it works for a woman, it also works for a man, because most relationships are heterosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:28 PM
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In the US…yes. Btw, you will need to take time off work if your hours are 9-5. And most people have more than one kid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:57 PM
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I’m saying that women don’t like that. None of this was about you, ya narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:53 PM
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Of course it is. Bros hang out all the time, and usually bring their partners if they’re not trying to fuck other women You can suggest other places, did you know? In any case, I’m sure whatever I say, you’ll have an excuse for why it’s not feasible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:51 PM
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I’m just saying what worked for me and many others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:49 PM
1

I know, I read your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:19 PM
2

You, too, can create gatherings. I did all the time, using alcohol and food
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:14 PM
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Not at all. Men here are always complaining about women thinking that men care about things other than their body and service https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/D6mpT0FEVG https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/uVN6ff5BLZ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/g14ABP4pYo https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ljlxLrRt6b https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sXtyQ754PR https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/muzJ8l9tG9 https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/LtDoYfF…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:07 PM
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To use someone’s body? Yes, it’s expensive, but you’re paying for them to go away after too Might as well stick to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:06 PM
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If you want to make it about money, you’re certainly welcome to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:04 PM
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Almost all, but I’m middle class. That’s the class where that’s most likely to happen Housewives are either in the top or bottom income brackets
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:01 PM
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Ok. You do know that men can be social, right? Sometimes even involving women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:55 PM
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I’m not the one saying “Can’t fuck a degree/career” Men are Don’t you believe men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:52 PM
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Yes, maybe. But for most couples where this is an issue, that’s usually not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:50 PM
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He specifically said he wanted friends to introduce him to available women. If he’s a shit friend that won’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:49 PM
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Because men just don’t care about it Just like they don’t care about our jobs, education, status, politics, achievements, interests, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:47 PM
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You’re gonna have a great time finding a partner then, if that’s what you think raising a family entails
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:41 PM
1

Women like it when men don’t try and fuck every woman in their vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:40 PM
2

Then you need a hooker, not a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:38 PM
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You can edit too Or delete
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:35 PM
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Then you must have colleagues The commercial area nearest to me has a community org, and they plan stuff, gossip, look out for each other, and hold/sponsor events weekly I’ve met all my local merchants at block parties and community events, as well as many neighbors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:31 PM
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I hope you have 1 child who obeys you perfectly, has no disabilities or conditions, gets straight As at public school, never gets sick, does no activities and has no friends, a kick ass concierge health service, a partner that loves being the only one shopping, cleaning and cooking, and an on call babysitter (doesn’t exist) or family member Oh, and no social circle of your own Or, have a housewife Because that’s the level of effort you seem to anticipate putting in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:45 PM
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Maybe if you’re married to a housewife If both partners work, both partners are supposed to do this. And many men don’t, and then are blindsided by divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:41 PM
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I mean anyone — family, work, community, friends If men want to socialize only with single, childless men, their way is usually fine. It’s just extremely exclusive and narrow And I see men complaining all the time that they “lose touch” with these friends that they don’t talk to. They are often supplanted by family and work Yes, social events. Where you socialize. I thought men were lonely or something; guess that’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:26 PM
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It’s generally not, but the truth is not palatable to either gender, which is why it’s blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:21 PM
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Yah. Keep in mind that I am mid, not feminine, not nice, and have very little interest in my and my partner’s appearance Beggars can’t be picky choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:03 PM
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Caring about and taking care of other people, especially with regard to socializing — scheduling, researching, planning, supplying, cleaning, procuring, coordinating, organizing, communicating, accommodating, managing, maintaining Because it is “not in the job title”, aka extra effort, lots of men just don’t do it. And then complain about not being cared for, invited, included, or considered, or having burned out, annoyed women in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:51 PM
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Work has always been my primary social group, both past and present
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:50 PM
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I am including women, that’s why I listed “social media”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:45 PM
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I don’t date men based on sex. I date them based on company And my standard for company is “not repulsive to me”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:28 PM
0

We nag/lecture men enough for what they do to us. Let them handle their own dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:05 PM
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It can be, but it doesn’t matter — voluntary personal labors of love are considered a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:52 PM
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That’s what casual sex and breaking rules is about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:40 PM
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We don’t need to excuse your laziness or lack of motivation. We should, however, just move on instead of complaining about it, since it’s your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:35 PM
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1) then men can change hypergamy just as easily as women 2) yes, because 1)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:34 PM
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Yes, it doesn’t mean “stop chasing the same guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:32 PM
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When most of your free time is spent on video games, social media and porn, this is the natural result
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:15 PM
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Lovely, deliberate obtuseness
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:46 PM
7

If all you care about is sex, why would you care about “ending up” with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:20 PM
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I promise you that you treating a person thusly will not go well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:16 PM
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No idea, because I’m not a gold digger, and I don’t know any gold diggers But I do assume that there will be scavengers at every level
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:23 AM
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Unlike a sociopath or criminal, corporations actually do provide a desired product
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:20 AM
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Well, that’s a shame. You should tell OP that crime doesn’t pay, because he certainly seems to think it does
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:18 AM
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Who said this guy was paying? Sounds more like he was a pimp or something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:57 AM
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Right, sometimes it’s more about status, and we call that social climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:56 AM
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Isn’t pussy worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:55 AM
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You can welcome your new Chinese and European overlords then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:39 AM
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It does if you have something else to offer, like power, money or status
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:37 AM
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That’s the range I found off a google search. Different studies, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:35 AM
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Yes. So, be like ‘shawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:34 AM
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No, that’s what women are always told when they aren’t happy with their partner’s actions and behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:34 AM
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If you’re going to frame hypergamy as universal, then everyone is looking for the “best deal”. “The best deal” just tends to differ between genders, and also individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:24 AM
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In your experience, are these numbers true? Percentage of autistic adults living independently: 5-20% Percentage of autistic adults that have some sort of job: 15-40%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:49 AM
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It’s called golddigging. Of course we know it exists What we don’t agree with is the claim that we’re all golddiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:11 AM
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Not at all. OP is a married man who apparently cares about what people think about his coffee or running habits. Doesn’t seem normal Edit: whoops, not op; I meant the top commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:02 AM
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Really? Married men like OP aren’t infamous for becoming complacent and lazy? Men never get old and set in their ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:17 AM
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People don’t stay first gen forever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:47 PM
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I dunno, the rich people I know are pretty weird, although insanely busy/have ants in the pants
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:32 PM
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I thought only women lied?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:31 PM
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😂🤣😝
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:30 PM
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Sadly, time flows, and only in one direction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:29 PM
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You can report them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:27 PM
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He’s not going anywhere. The will of the/enough people is that he gets away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:26 PM
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You will until your first tooth abscess or kidney stone. Or bad winter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:24 PM
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What about businesses and corporations? Or institutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:23 PM
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So if reputation matters to you, why would you do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:22 PM
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Ok, if it’s more effective, why aren’t you doing it ? And you certainly aren’t the first to conclude this, so why does this matter anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:19 PM
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You don’t have “evidence”, just reasoning, which I am questioning And you’ve dodged confirming whether you even follow the view that you prescribe, ie, sociopathy is better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:00 PM
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If you need hyperbole to make your point, your point is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:57 PM
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Doing “whatever you want” is what toddlers, infants and dictators/tyrants do For us adult normies who do not possess mandated authority, there are consequences for doing “whatever I want” I bet you actually don’t do “whatever I want” if there are actual consequences, like getting fired after telling the boss that they are a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:40 PM
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You don’t need to be a sociopath to approach women a lot. Are salespeople and beggars sociopaths? So are you going to become a rapist/criminal/sociopath, since not being one hasn’t gotten you what you want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:34 PM
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“What if he says he's 'Red Pill' but that totally just doesn't seem like him based on who he is and how he treats you.” What would be the advantage of thinking a man is lying in the situation you described?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:48 PM
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Telling women you are RP will get you more casual sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:33 PM
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If that were true, rapists, criminals and sociopaths would have the most sexual success, and most men would strive to emulate them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:04 PM
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That’s basic adulting and partnership, ie, not being selfish or self-centered, sorry to inform you Or would it be ok if it was their job or pet or child or parent that was doing the “whipping”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:03 PM
5

Yes he was, that was the point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:09 PM
1

I feel no pressure to drink my coffee a certain way or run half marathons. And I’m part of the Female HivemindTM; how can this be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:07 PM
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“Choose better” “No, not like that “
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:05 PM
1

And yet they complain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:03 PM
2

Yes, many men complain about not getting what they want, and having to give what women want And why would you do that, if the person doesn’t want to give it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:59 PM
3

No, I just have and desire voluntary, not involuntary, relationships and interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:57 PM
1

Demand that women give them money and attention? It happens —- or rather, they complain about the lack of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:49 PM
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Only if they demand it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:45 PM
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It’s funny that men want stupid, shallow, whiny women so bad. You know, the ones who get fucked by users and abusers I don’t get mad that simps, drug dealers, fuckboys, and jerks don’t want me because….I don’t want them either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:42 PM
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If you don’t act like a person is a thing, you won’t be entitled, at least as far as relationships and sex are concerned. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:32 PM
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I don’t need to know about my partners previous sex stuff, unless it was criminal or affects me/other people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:11 PM
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Acting like a person is a thing, for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:06 PM
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RP thinks that RP is just the actions It’s not. It’s the reasoning behind the actions that’s RP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:04 PM
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Why would a man lie about being RP? Why would I want to keep dating a man who lied or joked about being RP? Aren’t women supposed to be “choosing better”, aka not men who hold sexist or misogynistic views, or who think they are funny/unserious?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:59 PM
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Men are so unserious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:47 PM
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Men who are moderately to severely autistic probably aren’t capable of complaining anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:40 PM
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No one said it was, just that we don’t bother as many people with it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:39 PM
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Some are, some aren’t. Just enough to cause confusion. And lots of men certainly are confused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:39 PM
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No, the question asked about previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:34 PM
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If you don’t ask, why should she? Do you feel guilty about not answering questions that aren’t asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:08 AM
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Why do we need to discourage them, if they’re not being rude or pushy? What if women want to approach men ? Should no one be able to sell things to strangers, invite them to events or activities, or ask them for help?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:24 AM
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I’ve been in a relationship for many years, as has pretty much everyone in my social circle You get priority when you give priority; to do otherwise is to risk exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:57 AM
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And yet, many don’t. The mom, parenting, relationship, divorce and abuse subs are full of partners who suck Or, I could just look at the relationships in my own life, where women are doing most of the management, support and childcare, despite also working full time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:51 AM
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Sure, they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:46 AM
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That is why lying, usually by omission, exists. You think I and most women interrogate our partners about who they fucked and what they did ? Unless you make it my problem, I don’t care or want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:17 AM
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No, because the genders prioritize sex and relationships differently and in opposition No woman has to date to get sex, while men insist that they have to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:15 AM
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Yes, that’s why a lot of relationships begin in social groups. All of mine did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:20 AM
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Of course they can Female breadwinners and male caretakers are increasing every year. And the easiest way to loosen gender norms is with money. Men used to be teachers, secretaries and assistants; women used to be the professional cooks and “computers”. What changed? Money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:18 AM
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Rejection, vulnerability, humiliation, submission, etc But I’m not afraid you’ll say no. I’m afraid you’ll say yes, and then waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:09 AM
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Because it’s logical. Men are less picky, women are more picky. Men want sex more, women want relationships more And whoever cares less usually wins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:07 AM
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The opposite of your assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:58 PM
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It gets you worse relationships, or none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:57 PM
-1

Yes, that’s due to thirst And we’re not as thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:51 PM
-4

Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:51 PM
2

Well, it is. That’s why we say we’re “working on ourselves”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:46 PM
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Because that’s what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:30 PM
4

Because men don’t care about women’s job, skills, achievements, connections, status, education, or interests Just what she looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:18 PM
3

“They don’t think it be like it is, but it do”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:15 PM
5

No, that’s what people are telling them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:11 PM
4

We know why you don’t want to approach Just like I know why I don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:58 PM
5

You don’t understand that “not being in a relationship” isn’t the same as “giving up on relationships altogether”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:56 PM
0

“Choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:48 PM
5

That’s not giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:48 PM
4

Being single, like lots of women are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:32 PM
5

No complaints heard, no advice given
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:31 PM
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Improve their standards? Sure And women are always aware that hotter is better. Even I was forced to do it, although more for professional than romantic reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:31 PM
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Better safe than sorry. Especially since they’ve given you a warning Because the red pill outlook is predicated on the assumption that 1) society is against men/favors women and 2) women are spoiled, entitled, selfish children
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:30 PM
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People have to be told because lots of other people don’t reciprocate, and not just in romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:16 PM
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No. And, unlike women, men can use sex workers to gain experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:16 PM
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Date women who are willing to, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:09 PM
10

You can’t, unless he says so or leaves evidence And plenty do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:08 PM
-1

You’re told to self improve because you’re complaining about being alone or not treated like Chad Women are told to drop or raise their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:07 PM
1

An average-faced man can do “fine”. And I’m fine doing fine, aka settling. I don’t need to fuck a ton of hoes I can employ fashion and use cosmetics, I just don’t have the aesthetic interest and motivation that most women do. Male fashion is so basic that anyone can do it Of course those things, aka confidence, dominance, emotional reserve, bossiness, not simping and not being desperate, help you in dating. That’s masculine behavior, and what more women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:18 PM
1

Nope. I have a pretty good body and below average face, and I’m not motivated to dress up either with cosmetics and fashion/style I’m also not charming or empathetic or emotional, and dump friends and partners easily. People do like my competence, skills and leadership, but find me brusque, blunt, harsh and too logical Which would make me a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:03 PM
1

Being boss and masculine is only attractive if you’re also attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:00 PM
1

Appearance wise too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:43 PM
1

Teach us how to be perfectly efficient, plant people!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:10 PM
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I know, that’s why I told her to beg for marriage OR praise you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:07 PM
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You wouldn’t be so confused about why people do things if you assumed this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:06 PM
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Plenty of people, especially successful ones, don’t need internet strangers to validate their decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:06 PM
1

Yes, I know. All OP is pointing out is that previous stats only cared about who was abused, not who did the abusing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:05 PM
1

Pointing out your focus on my irrelevant experience is not bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:16 PM
1

You’re the one deflecting from your own OP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:01 PM
0

We’re not talking about me, especially since I don’t look for support from men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:59 PM
0

Yes, because much of masculinity involves misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:45 PM
14

Cow, milk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:44 PM
1

So you get disease at equal rates regardless of measures and treatments? Wow, I guess we can throw modern medicine out the window. You first, though; I like my condoms, testing, screening, antivirals and antibiotics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:41 PM
1

Oh? So why do many diseases make comebacks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:39 PM
1

Plenty of places are supportive if you’re not hostile towards or resentful of women Which is hard to do, because women are the cause of male singledom And what about your bros, bro? Where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:37 PM
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I assure you that I am neither pretty nor feminine, nor young
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:34 PM
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Women should date who they want, as long as they’re not hurting anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:19 PM
1

Fine, as long as they aren’t a dick about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:39 PM
1

It’s ok to want a male if you aren’t male
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:39 PM
1

I think that it is the opposite of the cultural narratives that marriage is a prison for men, and that true love with one person is the best thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:37 PM
1

This is called settling, and is common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:35 PM
1

Foreveralone seems to be doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:34 PM
0

The birth rate is due to work culture, not the more recent gender divide The gender divide is also partially, if not mostly, due to conscription
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:33 PM
1

I don’t, but it works Just like I don’t focus on my appearance, but I know it works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:32 PM
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Same thing, did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:30 PM
1

Easier. I am bad at being feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:30 PM
1

All love is conditional. Even that for kids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:29 PM
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I like being around men I don’t like that this inevitably results in them hitting on me Thus, I am forced to avoid them, or at least markedly limit my interactions with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:29 PM
3

So? Doesn’t change who’s doing the abusing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:18 AM
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I consider them the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:14 AM
3

No, we just decided that adultery wasn’t worth punishing We can hold different standards for different things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:23 AM
2

I said that’s how it can agree with the data indicating that gen z is having less sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:03 AM
4

Yes, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:58 AM
2

So? You can have a smaller pool of encounters generate more infections if people aren’t taking measures against it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:53 AM
2

Why, if the reason people aren’t marrying or having kids isn’t addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:51 AM
2

Diseases spread if not treated or prevented. Neither of which is tied to a certain number of sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:50 AM
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Of course not. Experimentation is common, as is religiosity and peer pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:48 AM
5

More disease doesn’t mean more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:43 AM
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Yes, if you sort by partner gender, you can determine what type of relationship it is People can have relationships outside their preferred gender
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:38 AM
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Sexual orientation doesn’t change who is doing the abusing or what is considered abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:34 AM
2

Abuse doesn’t cease being abuse because of a sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:32 AM
5

No, her whole premise is that the data doesn’t support the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:30 AM
4

The data says less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:26 AM
4

I didn’t say it was correct. And society now is different than it was when arranged marriages were prevalent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:06 AM
2

So it wouldn’t fix the main reason the marriage and reproductive rates are down?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:02 AM
2

Not being well off, able to afford a home
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:48 AM
3

We can learn new things, no? And there’s choices, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:47 AM
2

So hashtag not all actions. What about bi/gay men ? Asexual men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:46 AM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:58 AM
2

Being cut off from and defamed by your family is a big deal in a poor country with a weak government
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:57 AM
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Of course, but still less by mass and complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:56 AM
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It’s not hard The penalties for not getting an arranged marriage in places like India are quite clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:52 AM
2

Sure, but if that’s all you do, how does that help ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:50 AM
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I was talking about robots, lol. All machines are toxic to produce, and toxic to dispose of. Electrons are better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:35 AM
2

How do the actions I listed get you pussy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:34 AM
2

A dumb, restricted and obedient population will always get curb stomped by a innovative, educated and active one The only reason religious, misogynistic societies like Saudi, Iran and Dubai have any shiny things at all is because of oil And Russia is looking to join them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:31 AM
2

Yes, so how would arranged marriage fix that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:29 AM
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Young men like fucking around, as half of them confirmed. That’s not new Just let them sow their wild oats, ya prude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:27 AM
4

Especially in the upper classes, infidelity and prostitution was not taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:26 AM
1

Half or more of a career isn’t none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:25 AM
5

All the richest per capita and most equal societies do dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:24 AM
1

Really? Actions such as staying in your room all day to play video games, not taking care of your health and eating to excess are meant to get sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:22 AM
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It benefits men in general, because they don’t need to like or care about their property.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:20 AM
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It’s not arranged marriage that works. It’s lack of choices and freedoms, which is the case in the countries that still have widespread arranged marriages That’s how you get people to do things they don’t want to do, like fuck people they don’t want, and have babies they don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:17 AM
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No, they don’t have to tell me their views to treat me disrespectfully, unfairly, or as an inferior — I am able to read between the lines And some did anyways. Particularly my family, my classmates, my coworkers, and worst of all, my bosses
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:13 AM
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Thanks for putting this together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:12 AM
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Yes, and that option exists and isn’t used much. I wonder why? Arranged marriage won’t help the falling birth rate if having and raising children continues to be an unequal and expensive slog
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:08 AM
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Because I do have to live with them. They’re my neighbors, customers, service providers, political representatives, producers, coworkers, bosses, subordinates, family members, etc. And they’re also here, whining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:07 AM
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I never said it was acceptable or good. But I’m certainly not going to tell men how to take care of their own dicks, as long as it’s legal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:04 AM
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I am not going to blame or criticize my biology, and women are interesting to me If you give none, you’ll get none
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:02 AM
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I know. I am not against them, other than the waste of resources and pollution. I think AI/VR is a better, more responsible solution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:01 AM
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Of course. Misogyny is logical, if not productive But aside from that, men just aren’t interested in women outside of our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:02 PM
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Of course we have common interests — as long as they’re men’s. The people who make content know: you can get women to buy/see male content, but you can’t get men to buy/see female content, unless it’s sexualized to the point that it turns women off. That’s why JK Rowling had to pretend she was a man and make her character a male to have mass appeal. Male content is universal, female content is niche and gendered, or sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:00 PM
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If arranged marriages were that great, we wouldn’t have stopped doing them And you’re still free to have them, so I don’t see what the problem is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:27 PM
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That used to be the law. Do you think people stopped cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:26 PM
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Box office receipts and other indicators of time and money spent are quite clear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:24 PM
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And why do you put up with that? For our bodies, not us
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:23 PM
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Edited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:22 PM
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You like our bodies, sure. We don’t consider that “us”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:21 PM
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If men liked women, they wouldn’t complain about being their friends, having to censor themselves around women, and would actually be interested in women’s interests and content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:23 PM
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That’s true if they’re dating/not dumping these men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:22 PM
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It’s not just us not doing what they want. They don’t like our interests, thoughts, traits, consideration and ways of interacting. They have to not be crude, rude, sexist, bigoted, insensitive, etc, around us, and find the things we like boring and uninteresting. That’s why women will watch male centered movies, watch male sports, listen to male musicians and read books by/about men, but men will not do the same for women produced content
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:32 PM
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I’ve never seen you say that you dislike women. But plenty of men do, and say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:29 PM
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Women Because we’re not complaining about male accountability Meanwhile, men deny their own involvement in their issues, particularly with regard to their thirst “Women have so many options! They think they’re better than they are!” Well, uh, exactly who is making them think they are better and have options? Elephants?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:24 PM
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Because they don’t like us, especially our autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:06 PM
1

On the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:33 PM
1

Of course, but most people do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:33 PM
1

Doesn’t have anything to do with praise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:32 PM
1

Not to me, to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:53 PM
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Because generalizations are not individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:52 PM
2

Women do it because it works, sorry to inform you No demand, no supply
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:51 PM
1

Everyone likes praise, especially if they believe it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:35 PM
1

It does to people who have feelings and care about people other than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:34 PM
1

Uh huh, that’s why you’re here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:33 PM
1

Yes Doing hobbies together involves very little And yet people still don’t wanna Doesn’t sound like such people actually like their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:23 PM
6

The work is never done because men like you exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:13 PM
1

My thought is that, similar to the veil, women suffer because men can’t control themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:10 PM
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Abusers are successful with women who accept their behavior out of desperation, trauma, familiarity or ego/investment They also don’t display abusive behavior in public, obviously If you are actually interested in the truth, you could peruse the abuse/dv subs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:07 PM
1

Nope, because we don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:03 PM
3

I assure you that women do not want polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:02 PM
3

That requires effort with no guarantees Unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:02 PM
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Women only have options because men voluntarily give them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:00 PM
1

No, I’m pretty sure men prefer sex with women, given the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:15 PM
1

It’s a sticker, so none
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:10 PM
1

Emotionally they would
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:10 PM
2

That’s a good point. Since men don’t actually seem to like women, there’d be more voluntary segregation and less socializing But the rest is really speculative. We don’t know how much sex motivates other things like morals, ethics, values
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:08 PM
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Of course it is — from the bottoms point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:11 PM
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Actions are actions I didn’t say they were equal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:10 PM
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It takes two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:44 PM
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Options don’t have to be easy Technically, we should all only have one anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:43 PM
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See: lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:40 PM
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Yes, that is social behavior, not solitary behavior. And why humans live in societies, not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
2

Not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:17 PM
2

That’s not emotional vulnerability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:10 PM
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I love how thoughtful, careful and nuanced men become when put on the spot. They sound like women I should ask more questions here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:09 PM
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No worse than the ones we get given
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:07 PM
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Of course you’re not going to give an answer, just a monologue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:07 PM
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Men who treat women like bangmaids often get dumped or divorced. Not enough, but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:01 PM
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Totally relevant to divorces, dating and breakups
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:57 PM
4

That’s fair, and yet many men do choose the woman. Probably because most men don’t like fucking trees
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:54 PM
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And then they get mad when women refuse to answer the same question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:52 PM
2

Yet again, men are sane when asked directly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:18 PM
3

Because they chose the partner, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:16 PM
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Sure they are That’s why we live socially, not solitarily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:15 PM
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Of course they do, because every knows So much so that men have to lie extensively to get out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:15 PM
1

Yes, and children used to die at all ages from accidents
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:11 PM
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Companionship, money/breadwinning, social status and secondary parenting are still valuable And “not hot”/“acceptable” doesn’t equal “sexually repulsive”. Just ask men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:22 AM
2

They’re young and actually have muscle tone And fame is about possession and attention, no matter how fleeting, not cocks and orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:18 AM
5

Again, are they lusting after his lack of muscle tone, or his yacht and investment portfolio?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:14 AM
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Yes, and women are doing most of it — so they aren’t cheating while married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:13 AM
2

Again, that is not a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:11 AM
1

I am glad that he’s not going to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:11 AM
0

And why is that? Is Chad’s sperm better, or are his face and body better than Billy Beta’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:09 AM
5

So? An old rich dude is a high status man, and no one wants his 80 year old wang, just his piles of cash
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:09 AM
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Plenty of people have unmutually enjoyable sex Usually women Because manchildren aren’t arousing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:07 AM
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They don’t want to fuck his piles of cash
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:13 AM
1

Of course But kids don’t understand the importance of rumpy pumpy; they just see humans who care for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:11 AM
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We’re not men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:11 AM
3

It’s not sexual attraction, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:58 AM
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Letting your partner do all the work is not caring Wanting them to have sex on your terms is not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:55 AM
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That’s a good story. Who knows how relevant it is All I know is the reasons women give for not leaving a shitty man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:54 AM
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Why don’t women give men privileges then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:51 AM
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That’s red pill’s stated philosophy — we don’t care about men because we don’t want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:50 AM
1

Kids and money are pretty big reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:26 AM
2

After the kid pops out it’s too late to do anything about their genes And parents aren’t expected to be personal trainers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:24 AM
-1

So men are not involved in this process?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:50 AM
-3

Who is giving them this privilege? Rocks? Seagulls?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:03 PM
0

Or porn Or sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:02 PM
-2

Life sucked for everyone. I’m not picking a gender here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:28 PM
2

Chasing pussy, like having babies, is selfish, not altruistic. So we will treat it as such
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:26 PM
2

You need to beg him to marry you, or tell him he’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:57 PM
3

Hey, I’m just glad he’s not stringing some poor woman and kids along for the ride
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:51 PM
2

It’s not just humans that were horrible. It’s also ignorance, nature, illiteracy, and your own body that could make you miserable, and there was nothing you could do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:49 PM
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I’m afraid the infidelity stats beg to differ. If women wanted to, we could all cheat 24/7/365….but we don’t. Because we aren’t men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:47 PM
7

Anyone who wants to live in the past is a moron, unless you literally are the descendant of royalty. And maybe not even then; royalty got deposed, beheaded and tortured too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:42 PM
1

No, red pill is “ain’t no such thing as a free lunch — only because of female nature ”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:40 PM
10

Men are the worst misandrists Just like women are the worst misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:38 PM
8

He should tell us again how he’s going his own way. Just to be sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:37 PM
2

Nope, it’s gay male bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:36 PM
0

We can have opinions on things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:35 PM
1

Most women want sex. Just not as often, as porny or as quick as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:33 PM
3

If only we could be nicer and kinder about our exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:30 PM
5

We do, but not from people who don’t care about us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:28 PM
0

It’s pretty self explanatory, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:28 PM
1

That’s a slave. Even a maid or cook won’t do everything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:27 PM
4

It’s how we’re treated. Just like men complain about being treated as ATMs, disposable, creeps, pervs, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:26 PM
7

They like to ignore female employment, when it’s the single most important thing that’s happened between the sexes, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:25 PM
5

“You shouldn’t believe the things women say, think or experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:23 PM
3

They’re called pool boys and personal trainers, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:22 PM
1

The majority is very consequential, especially in a social species
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:14 PM
12

If you give nothing, you’ll get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:14 PM
3

A compromise between us on frequency, effort, acts, etc. That includes orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:13 PM
1

Maybe with women who play games or have attachment issues Have fun with those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:10 PM
1

You obviously haven’t met toddlers, the most suicidal of all children
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:08 PM
16

Ok, so? You want a cookie? A trophy? A gold star?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:06 PM
1

No, these aren’t new concepts or phenomenons. Marriage used to be about duty. As was family, king, God and country. There’s been no period of existence when life was laid back and harmonious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:04 PM
6

Sex only on your terms? Yes, we will shame selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:43 PM
1

Of course we do. It’s in OLD profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:40 PM
1

That’s up to you The majority of men seem to think differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:15 PM
0

Of course we do. That’s why men ignore it or call us blue pill liars
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:14 PM
3

It’s not if many of us agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:10 PM
10

And you are a whore for your job, and your family, and your friends, and your community, and your society. Cuz there ain’t no such thing as a free lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:08 PM
1

Sure, if they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:08 PM
1

They are not. Young marriage has a way higher divorce rate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:16 PM
1

Women used to work and have kids all the time. That’s why so many kids died — because women couldn’t afford to pay someone to watch them Kids used to die in accidents all the time because mom and dad had to tend to the farm or animals or house
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:13 PM
13

It’s not just sex, or we would go away afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:00 PM
12

Of course. Because it’s not sex that we want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:56 PM
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Men, especially here and in the manosphere, do the same. If men were so loving and likable to each other, most of them would be friends and not whining about loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:54 PM
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When did we ever claim to be bffs with every woman on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:52 PM
35

Aw, shame on us for not prioritizing and doing what men want!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:49 PM
12

Not if those are the two most important things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:45 PM
14

Every interaction is prostitution by your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:43 PM
20

Yes, so bangmaid is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:35 PM
22

It’s men who don’t actually like women who say that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:33 PM
3

Of course there are laws supporting that. But most men/women don’t meet the criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:03 PM
55

“I can’t fuck her degree or her job!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:59 PM
56

Men say “belly full, balls empty” Don’t you believe men? And I knew plenty of young single guys who hired both sex workers and house cleaners when they didn’t have a free one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:58 PM
4

Well, that’s your opinion, and society/the data do not agree with it Edit: you do know that the majority of Americans are fat, right ? And that more of them are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:39 PM
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Women get criticized for that, especially by men. Nobody likes or respects fat people; they’re just not openly mocked like they used to be The data does not agree with your anecdote — the strongest predictor of poor performance in school and jobs is poverty. Poverty perpetuates itself more than it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:19 PM
0

It does. I’m not going to hang around a man who’s indifferent to my presence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:14 PM
7

That’s hilarious that you think post partum weight gain is a disability, and that poverty is an advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:09 PM
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Who said they were attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:03 PM
5

Of course not. They save you those hundreds of thousands of dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:03 PM
2

Glory and valor is decorative and won’t get the crops harvested, the kids educated, or the roads paved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:02 PM
6

I’m afraid it’s not as important as losing half or more of a family income
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:00 PM
2

Yup. Because pussy is the most important thing in the world to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:48 PM
2

Abortion are several hundred dollars for 10 min vs hundreds of thousands of dollars over 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:43 PM
4

Nope. Because kids aren’t affected by their moms weight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:41 PM
3

Life before it is the reason why And you obviously don’t care about kids, because you seem to think they are free
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:32 PM
1

Yes. Because guarantees don’t exist, other than sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:31 PM
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That’s pretty sad that thirsty dick pic senders with terrible photos are “better” than you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:29 PM
1

Male attraction is worth far less than female
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:28 PM
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True attraction is for hookups, not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:27 PM
0

You have met the manosphere mindset, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:26 PM
3

A 5 who actually seems interested is worth a hundred 10s who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:25 PM
-1

Of course you can. Because if you act like you’re not interested, we will think you’re not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:24 PM
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Women aren’t any happier with slop than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:22 PM
1

Yes, that’s what happens when sex, relationships and marriage aren’t a good deal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:21 PM
2

Are you exciting, hot and interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:20 PM
1

Guess what — being angry and doing nothing is easier than being that guy Everyone knows why incels exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:19 PM
2

No one says that. They just say you can get sex and relationships, and not with models
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:17 PM
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Yes. Because it’s harder, complicated, and they don’t care about or like it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:07 PM
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It is going to go there eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:53 PM
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You ok bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:52 PM
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“Women are so entitled! They have so many options!” Uh, yeah; do you know where those options are coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:50 PM
2

Off of no evidence whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:48 PM
-1

Only if you’re trying to fuck us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:45 PM
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You’re talking to game players But now, I’m gonna blow your mind: you don’t have to talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:40 PM
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If it were profitable, I assure you that companies would hire golden retrievers over women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:39 PM
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Of course. Because “I wanted to fuck” is only an acceptable reason for men, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:38 PM
1

That is why such conceptions will never be accurate or respected
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:37 PM
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A lot of people on this sub have been hurt, which has resulted in their conception of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:03 PM
7

Yet another “my anecdotes are universal experiences” post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:55 PM
5

Women wouldn’t care about romance, love and feelings if sex was “meh”/pornlike instead of emotionally/mentally fulfilling Aren’t women the ones complaining about pump n dumps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:50 PM
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When I don’t like a person, it’s usually because they’re offensive or unpleasant to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:49 PM
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If you can only function in one environment, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:38 PM
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This post has been misogynist flypaper, and I love it for that. Saving for posterity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:32 PM
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Since the standard is the same in coed, family, general and all female environments, sounds like men are the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:32 PM
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If you have to be hatey, lewd, offensive, bigoted, unserious and irresponsible to be or feel free, that says a lot more about men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:30 PM
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You don’t need to tell them, but it’s also good to know who will be a good/bad partner eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:25 PM
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Hm, is it in the media because it is exceptional, or because it’s common?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:23 PM
1

They are not considered ideal or normal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:21 PM
4

Nope. Men are capable of being competent, non dominant partners
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:40 AM
4

You can run a family without having a man child partner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:32 AM
2

Who says we don’t? There’s women in authority everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:26 AM
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The point is that there are still societal protections and accountability in most communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:22 AM
4

We can have it all We just need help, unfortunately usually from women, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:20 AM
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Men like baby partners Women do not, because we already have actual babies to take care of It’s also harder to demand blowjobs and meals from someone who doesn’t need your income
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:16 AM
2

I fail to see why this has to be racial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:15 AM
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And it doesn’t prove that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:31 PM
1

Not really. Unless you live out in the sticks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:14 PM
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Men are the ones saying women can’t be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:58 PM
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Status can always get you money Money can’t always buy status
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:56 PM
5

Because getting sex from men is not validating or special, nor, often, satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:49 PM
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I assure you that men make generalizations about men all the time, especially here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:47 PM
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The bear is about what would happen in the absence of society and its protections
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:46 PM
2

Because they do, and it’s not an advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:45 PM
-1

Because every generation is totally different, okay?! We’re all unique and novel humans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:45 PM
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They say they do, and that it’s a need
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:18 PM
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Because it is, if you want sex And there sure is a lot of complaining about lack of that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:05 PM
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I’m afraid the data doesn’t agree https://www.statista.com/statistics/631224/voter-turnout-of-the-exit-polls-of-the-2016-elections-by-gender/ https://www.chicagotribune.com/2015/01/20/men-and-women-want-egalitarian-relationships/ https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ https://news.gallup.com/file/poll/178490/Preference_Male_vs_Female_Boss_141014%20.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:05 PM
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Not using brothels, streetwalkers, services, pimps and bargain options is a good start, if you’re actually interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:22 PM
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The only thing you can get automatically fired for is sleeping with a customer or superior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:35 PM
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Most men aren’t, especially in their own homes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:23 PM
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Alas https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0305750X12001453 https://www.europarl.europa.eu/RegData/etudes/STUD/2021/695394/IPOL_STU(2021)695394_EN.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:21 PM
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If men were actually “in charge” they’d get what they want Seems like their libidos are the real authority over them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:59 PM
1

I acknowledge that not all sex workers are abused or coerced
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:56 PM
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In my personal experience, it was 100% me For other people I know —- it’s all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:21 PM
5

Of course there’s ways to avoid bears and bear attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:30 PM
3

You don’t even need misanthropy You want something from someone and they won’t give it to you, no matter what you do Presto, anger, frustration and resentment And since sex is the most important thing in the world to men, that anger, frustration and resentment is astronomical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:22 PM
2

So? “Just getting yourself out there” has never been enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:17 PM
2

Where sex work is legalized, trafficking increases. As does ethical dubiousness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:15 PM
2

Not in my experience Just don’t date someone you work with directly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:14 PM
1

Yes. I did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:13 PM
2

Not at all. Men always talk about how they want to be king and have their needs and desires prioritized at home, in contrast to how they have to defer and consider others at work and in public
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:11 PM
2

The workplace is the most common point of contact in my social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:02 AM
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Not anymore, nor is misandry It doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, just that it’s not officially sanctioned It’s just logical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:58 AM
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I assure you that people go out. That’s the whole reason we have buildings, shelter, climate controls, electricity, transportation and communication — so that people aren’t at the mercy of the environment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:56 AM
4

Condemnation is not the same as bans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:55 AM
3

Being imprisoned for pimping children is a better deterrent than not being imprisoned
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:54 AM
3

It’s technically prostitution and thus illegal in the US Which is good, because legalization would encourage abuse and exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:56 AM
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I assure you that people date in the fall and winter too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:56 AM
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That’s called post nut clarity, and we already know about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:54 AM
0

No, of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:53 AM
1

Because abuse and coercion are things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:52 AM
1

They still want to, according to the manosphere, and have his babies or be his side chick See also: situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:27 PM
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Women get criticized for that. And men can divorce for the exact same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:21 PM
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Women like Chad for beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:18 PM
3

While men do differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:46 PM
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Men are the ones who take in homeless women for sex. No ones making them do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:45 PM
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It’s not that complicated. The higher a woman’s income, the less power a man has over her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:21 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:13 PM
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Either it was warranted or it wasn’t. Depending on the particulars For example, men are more likely to have been repeat offenders, which affects sentencing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:05 PM
1

That’s how generalizations work, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:04 PM
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Men don’t like their choices being restricted, especially their sexual choices
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:56 PM
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Ok, that’s one. And police do arrest women all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:54 PM
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Men say so and it makes logical sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:52 PM
1

Nature + nurture is human existence, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:46 PM
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That’s one thing. And that’s not society holding women responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:06 PM
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Too late by that point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:05 PM
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If we take men into our homes and they rape/abuse/murder us and our kids it will be our fault, so no The way to end the problem is end the demand for female company, and the “safety net” will be gone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:02 PM
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Exactly, but they’re usually older women It makes sense for them to say “I got mine; fuck you”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:47 PM
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Men should stop simping, but we all know that’s not gonna happen Mostly abolishing things like abortion, divorce, child support, contraception and maternity leave is my guess. Conservatives are doing just that in real life, and women don’t seem to care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:45 PM
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That would also mean no sahm or housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:40 PM
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So, selective law enforcement, ban equity media and education, and …..?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:39 PM
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That’s generally why things are done. For reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:24 PM
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Then you need to imprison men who help them, yourself included
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:23 PM
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Ok, use the police to evict women just to make the homeless rate equal, and harass them into suicide to make the suicide rate equal ? Is that how society should spend money ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:22 PM
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Ok, so how does that translate into policies and laws
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:20 PM
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Ok, so translate that into laws and policies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:19 PM
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Men don’t care, and in fact prefer lack of competency
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:19 PM
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Ok, so how is that fixed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:18 PM
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Specifics needed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:17 PM
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That’s doable And will not change dating, sex and marriage at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:16 PM
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And there’s reasons for all of those
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:15 PM
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Same thing for child support then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:15 PM
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That is not a matter of government policy but individual choice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:24 PM
5

Sexism and biology
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:01 PM
1

You’re right - it’s not, but seems like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:47 PM
5

It’s the truth. That’s how apps make $$$$ That’s also how pretty much every service industry works — the big spenders support the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:43 PM
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Because men want everything, just like women do And karma isn’t a thing. Horrible people do prosper
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:34 PM
2

Because that’s prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:33 PM
2

Nope. I like the assumptions people make about me and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:32 PM
1

If by “in charge” you mean “thirsty/desperate enough to buy premium access”, I agree Otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:31 PM
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There’s levels of violence I’ve been attacked by women. It was laughably non-threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:35 AM
2

Of course it matters That’s why Chad is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:29 AM
2

Lolololol, sure Jan You keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:28 AM
3

Oh, so this is a personal issue? Well then, you need to deal with it on an individual level Or are you going to lecture her on her own biology? That will go over well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:27 AM
3

Aka not simping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:42 AM
7

Pearl has demands of men and isn’t sexxxxxay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:41 AM
2

That’s because men like porn but no one likes rudeness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:29 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:29 PM
2

Men will always compete and fight amongst themselves over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:02 PM
3

Yes. It’s just not exactly the way that men want to do it, so of course men think we’re asexual or defective
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:45 PM
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Some people’s interests or other aspect of their lives (jobs, etc) take up lots of their time This is how couples often grow apart, by not making an effort to do things together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:38 PM
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Of course, but OP doesn’t believe that women like or enjoy sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:34 PM
5

Yes. You can do that with roommates too. Most people want a little more than being roommates who fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:26 PM
8

Great, so that’s common interests Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:25 PM
1

Most women are not down for the sex that men like and often prefer I’m not saying they’re nuns
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:24 PM
1

The fact remains that it’s not necessary for conception while male orgasm, or at least arousal, is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:22 PM
3

To be companions, you need to spend time to together, doing the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:21 PM
5

Many men will take the sex when they don’t want commitment Because it’s easier than getting uncommitted sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:20 PM
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A very basic one is that men want sex and women want commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:44 PM
1

Protections for the economically disadvantaged can’t. Nor can most legal incentives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:41 PM
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There’s pros and cons for both, and of course the genders have different interests So of course there is going to be conflict and disagreement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:39 PM
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Yeah. Are you most women ? The Hallmark company that you refer to indicates not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:30 PM
2

That’s what contracts are for, yes Many famous people use them Also, rape and deception exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:28 PM
1

Social, legal and economic pressures/incentives don’t disappear if you’re not religious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:26 PM
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Most men understand that women are emotional, not horny, animals, yes That is why they provide romance, even though they have to be nagged and shamed into it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:25 PM
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So, you believe that women don’t orgasm and the scientific community is lying about it ? There’s plenty of vestigial/nonessential parts of human physiology. Just because it isn’t prioritized doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:23 PM
2

But they can’t so we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:02 PM
0

Red pill obviously doesn’t know what prescriptive means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:02 PM
0

Prescriptive doesn’t mean imperative
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:34 PM
1

Would you rather be punched in the face by an average man or an average woman? Cuz I know exactly which one I would pick ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:22 PM
1

Yes, but OPs argument is that red pill isn’t prescriptive at all. It totally is, and that’s why their main argument for its relevance is “it works”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:21 PM
0

Less seriously doesn’t equal ignored The same way male lust and compliments are taken less seriously but not ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:20 PM
-1

Toddlers are more violent and immature than older kids. Doesn’t mean we take their violence and immaturity more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:35 PM
2

Its a generalization, just as men being shocked by breakups is a generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:34 PM
2

Most men want and do have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:18 PM
4

I just did, from you own study
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:18 PM
3

Yes, there’s also reciprocally violent relationships “reciprocal intimate partner violence was associated with greater injury than was nonreciprocal intimate partner violence regardless of the gender of the perpetrator (AOR=4.4; 95% CI=3.6, 5.5).” And of course you ignore this part: ”Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women (AOR=1.3; 95% CI=1.1, 1.5)”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:15 PM
14

If you’re spending all your time doing different things, what’s the point? You’re just roommates who have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:14 PM
1

Yes, we have biases and things we don’t know, obviously And sometimes the man can do something and sometimes he can’t Lots of things are possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:13 PM
0

Your post assumes that your experience is universal, which is equally presumptive and incorrect Being treated like a sex maid is an unexpected but common situation, which is why it is disliked. Because women find it neither respectful nor loving The default expectation is not that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:34 PM
3

Yes, and they will be shocked when fuckzaddy divorces or abuses them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:26 PM
-4

I don’t have to treat your experience as the cause for all those breakups. Because it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:25 PM
3

Nope. We just know that a lot of men aren’t great Usually from our dating experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:23 PM
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Nope, but they aspire to it anyways, and try to convince people to do it It’s simple self interest, which is legal, if not exactly virtuous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:22 PM
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Nope The relationship that resulted from it did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:20 PM
-2

Yes, by not treating us like mommy mcbangmaid Super easy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:19 PM
7

You didn’t accuse male sexuality of being a trend, just women’s And women have never pursued casual sex as much as men, so doing otherwise was never a “trend” in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:19 PM
2

It’s not Men date for their benefit, not women’s or society’s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 PM
5

Great, so you admit they don’t really “care” about women either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:15 PM
1

Accusing women of being uniquely selfish is misogynistic, because it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:04 PM
1

Why not? Men don’t pursue intimate relationships for anyone but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:01 PM
0

Yes, that’s selfish and for your benefit, not hers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:58 PM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/7MxwQBgTnr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:57 PM
1

Passport broing was voluntary, last I checked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:53 PM
0

Those are red pill terms and concepts And comprise the “sexual strategy” described by red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:52 PM
0

You just said the roi on casual was demoralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:13 AM
16

Our libidos are neither a trend nor abnormal We’re not men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:07 AM
5

Do men care about women as human beings? Is that why they are trying to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:02 AM
-1

It does not. People tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:54 AM
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Men claim all the time they want love and relationships Not so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:54 AM
0

Red pill was around before mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:53 AM
-2

If that were true, you should be getting pussy easily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:52 AM
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And those hot guys actually want to settle down too. Time doesn’t stop for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:52 AM
6

Of course red pill is prescriptive/tells you how to solve your problem Lift Stop simping/hold frame/stfu Lift Spin plates/approach in abundance Lift Apply dread/negging Lift Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:47 AM
3

I assure you that “burning in future hell” is nowhere near the disincentive that “suffering at the hands of present humans” is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:44 AM
1

It definitely tells you to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:42 AM
3

That’s as it should be Because most women don’t want to hit it and quit it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:40 AM
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That’s only assuming men will always want sex, no matter who with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:39 AM
3

Yes, but that’s not for being dumb, incompetent and horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:31 AM
5

It sure did The first rule of red pill was not to talk about red pill Men cannot do anything collectively for the common good, any more than women can. If they were capable of collective action, they would stop simping, nagging and beta buxing But they cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:29 AM
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Those are from statistics, did you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:20 AM
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The average age of marriage includes the religious And of course, young marriages are more likely to end in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:16 AM
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The red pill tried that and failed How are you get women to do what you want if you can’t propagandize and convince them, and also not force them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:14 AM
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Because they do. People aren’t in a rush to marry in their 20s unless they’re religious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:46 AM
1

Men don’t have to give money to terrible women. It would make society better if they didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:40 AM
1

Great, so sex is not important or necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:30 AM
1

Yes, that’s the point. And it doesn’t have to be fair either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:24 AM
1

The reason is that society has decided that biology cannot be used as compulsion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:11 AM
2

It is very relevant One is currently illegal and immoral The other is not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:57 AM
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Sure, the ones who had money before/are born rich aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:51 AM
2

Dating is voluntary, unlike slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:50 AM
1

and yet, those corporate sexists are giving money to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:49 AM
1

Because that stuff is gay, unless you’re doing it to get sex from terrible women on your manly terms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:48 AM
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The relationship and abuse subs are full of sweet, agreeable women who got fucked over As are our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:47 AM
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My social circle is middle class normies, yes. Truly a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:24 AM
1

U got passport, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:23 AM
2

I’ve never heard of men pitying women. Either they love or resent/envy them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:23 AM
1

The camera adds 10 pounds — minimum. That’s the big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:21 AM
2

Because that’s totally unremarkable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:18 AM
1

Most of Asia and Latin America would be surprised to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 AM
0

Caveat: only for you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:15 AM
3

It’s amazing that men would want to be around such terrible creatures, let alone do everything for them Seems kind of dumb, or else sex is the most important thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:14 AM
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You don’t need to be feminine and agreeable to be attractive or complimented
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:10 AM
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Nice is most women’s default state — with strangers With people who want something from them (sex), well, that’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:08 AM
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Of course red pill is supposed to solve your problems That’s why the big selling point is “red pill works”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:07 AM
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Other women do And other men most definitely do (“women like assholes and not nice guys like me!”)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:04 AM
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Those rewards are much less necessary and valuable than they used to be, and the lack of respect doesn’t make up for it Nor are they guaranteed, as many a divorced, abused or financially dependent SAHM knows
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:54 PM
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Yes, they get married So they can be treated like agreeable, sweet bangmaid nannies What a bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:47 PM
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It’s hilarious that you think women all want to be moms and have zero sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:28 PM
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Because women aren’t rewarded for being nice and feminine Tools get used, madonnas get left for whores, and doormats get walked on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:25 PM
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Yes. He has a job and looks like this — that’s all the info I got What does he like to do? What does he want to do in the future? What does he spend his time and money on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:04 PM
1

That’s not about biology
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:58 PM
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Having a free secretary/assistant/nanny/scheduler/hooker/cook/maid, even part time, is a pretty good deal I wish I had a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:11 PM
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You’d think they’d enjoy the company and nurturing of their children, but I guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:10 PM
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A clown is not company
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:05 PM
2

Male thirst is biologically driven
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:23 AM
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All that is over once the kids turn 18 Then you have no retirement or pension
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:16 AM
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I prefer families of choice rather than obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:11 AM
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Having a person be interested in interacting with me is a weird preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:48 AM
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It’s not unfair It’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:44 PM
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Lots of men want the wife to do their share of the labor. Just not with money. It’s the principle of the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:23 PM
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That’s a reason a totally fine guy wouldn’t be having success We had a classmate who provided endless entertainment for us, because he was super pretty and as dull and non-reactive as wallpaper paste We loved watching women throw themselves at him. They could not get a reaction, and would walk away in a sulk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:20 PM
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Citation needed for sweeping generalizations like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:18 PM
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There’s some hardcore catholic u’s too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:17 PM
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And yet men want guarantees about money and women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:17 PM
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It would been normal at BYU, Patrick Henry or liberty U
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:12 PM
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My ex bf was nice and average — and very boring. I shared his hobbies while he showed no interest in any of my mine, I hung out with his friends and family while he declined to meet mine He grudgingly went to school and work, and thus didn’t like talking about either. In fact, he didn’t really like talking or thinking at all. We rarely had a conversation that lasted more than a few minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:10 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:27 PM
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So? The claim wasn’t that it was identical, it was that men have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:26 PM
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Fascism isn’t self destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:26 PM
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That is what he sounds like. It’s not the guys fault — OP didn’t give us any info, so he just sounds like a guy with no personality. And people of both genders with no personality are boring The difference is, men, but not women, are willing to fuck boring people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:25 PM
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Because they tried to make money the non traditional way and it didn’t work, obviously. They’re far from the first do-good company to fail at doing good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:23 PM
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There’s no metaphorical context for a prediction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:15 PM
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The number of transactions, and the fact that they are more often mutual/shared
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:08 PM
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Pretending that men have no standards or autonomy is disingenuous, and also misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:07 PM
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I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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But you said it was a prediction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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No information given about this guy makes him sound like a person who has friends and would be fun to hang out with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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Do you know how a for-profit business works? Because it seems that you do not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:02 PM
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The Stanford poll was of straight couples and how they met, hate to break it to you. And OLD is a mutual activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:01 PM
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I thought incels were harmless and benign ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:57 PM
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No, they post about hypergamy, bone structure, cock carousels, roasties, femoids and government girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:56 PM
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He’s totally correct Negativity and self loathing are repulsive, while self promotion and aggrandizement are less unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:53 PM
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The data shows quite clearly that OLD works As does hitting on people in bars, and making friends with them https://goat.com.au/relationships/this-graph-showing-how-couples-meet-is-a-reflection-of-how-wild-the-modern-dating-world-is/?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:50 PM
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Women who like bullies and assholes ain’t no friends of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:44 PM
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Unlike men, we don’t just want a servant, we want company
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:42 PM
4

Without personality, dominance just looks like bullying or hostility. And will attract the appropriate women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:33 PM
7

Those things can all make him unpleasant to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:30 PM
6

Who thinks adhd is fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:27 PM
2

That’s why people tell men to build up their personality Because transactional relationships are not as desired. Most people want their partner to like them, not their looks, money or status It’s also easier to lose those things than your personality YMMV of course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:23 PM
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That’s what makes money, so that’s what they will do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:09 PM
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That’s your personal opinion Many others do not share it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:09 PM
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I know You are a sociopath in a purely transactional relationship That is far from normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:08 PM
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How likely do you think that is, knowing male lust ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:05 PM
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Ideally you should have all 3 But, if you don’t mind having a purely transactional relationship, you’d probably be fine with it You seem most concerned about money anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:04 PM
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Most childless people don’t have dependent partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:03 PM
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It’s not Most of us know women who got fucked or were unhappy Like my grandmas and great aunts and neighbors
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:02 PM
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He’s too young to not be partying Finance guys are partyers Your description also makes him sound boring, and strangely unmotivated. It’s just a list of checks, no context or purpose; I have no idea if I’d like to hang out with this guy, let alone fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:48 PM
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Sounds more like the average instagram personality — aka, young, pretty, and concerned with other people’s opinions The average woman is manning the counter at the dmv, teaching kids or wiping patient asses
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:46 PM
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Because you want a relationship based on personality rather than looks, money, status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:42 PM
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I didn’t think so My mom was happier, unlike my grandma, and being around her more was probably not a good idea Also, homeschooling is a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:32 PM
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Yes, and people on the opposite political/cultural side can do the same There’s also been pushback against this pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:55 PM
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Yes, I had babysitters and went to school. Like the vast majority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:53 PM
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He’s expressing an opinion, not voting on a law or budget
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:48 PM
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The community isn’t always great. Ask all the people who used to be excluded from or victimized by it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:46 PM
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Yes, it’s good for women to see that feminism is still needed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:45 PM
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I think it’s important to know what men think. I like my chauvinism out in the open where I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:44 PM
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“Do as I say, not as I do”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:44 PM
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There’s always pushback in a free society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:43 PM
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You better hope his love is guaranteed then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:43 PM
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The good thing is that plenty of examples exist in our own lives still
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:41 PM
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That happened to my inlaws And when the man died young, his widow was fucked. They lived in trailers and had to depend on the church and welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:40 PM
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Have fun if he wants to divorce you or fuck other women on the side, or isn’t happy with the way you do things You’ll also be doing all the childcare and housework, in your large house
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:38 PM
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The same reason negative generalization of any oppressed group is received poorly Wanna say bad things about blacks and Jews and gays? Go ahead, let us know how that goes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:31 PM
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Which would be bad for your kids. You are supposed to suffer for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:30 PM
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He’s free to push his trad beliefs and lifestyle And we’re free to have our own opinions of it He also did it in an appropriate place — a private conservative religious college. That’s the kind of thing those institutions support, and are legally allowed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:27 PM
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We often don’t have the same idea of “fulfilling” that our parents and grandparents do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:25 PM
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That’s why women are always told to cOMunIcAtE And have a long list of standards that men for some reason don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:22 PM
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lol, no they didn’t. Marital rape wasn’t a thing, meaning your wife can’t say no Sex for pleasure was traditionally for adultery and prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:12 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/gXeq3szdi9
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:48 PM
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It’s a choice to casually date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:48 PM
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That is what OP described in his comment I merely agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:37 PM
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And that is stupid/a denial of reality, and disrespectful to boot If a man disregarded my wishes that way (“I will make you want children/a trad lifestyle”), I’d be livid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:25 PM
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I did not. I said it didn’t matter whether or not women wanted sex. Prior to the sexual revolution, married sex was about duty and function, not pleasure or love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:45 PM
1

That doesn’t explain why they willfully and consciously ignore a man when he tells them what he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:39 PM
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If that were so, there’d be way more blatant and frequent cheating, by all women, even ugly ones And that’s still not the way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:36 PM
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Oh, it’s not just twox that doesn’t like polygamy. It’s most women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:35 PM
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It does, if you take away womens autonomy. Which is how it was in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:34 PM
2

Yes, that’s what men have always wanted throughout history — polygamy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:33 PM
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To men, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:32 PM
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We don’t have to prioritize sex the way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:57 AM
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Because we aren’t going to prioritize you over us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:40 AM
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Men’s advice boils down to “fuck men you aren’t attracted to, and serve them” No thanks; we’ve been doing that for a million years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:36 AM
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