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But it would have been on better (i.e. the guy's) terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:52 PM
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The number of times that my ex shit tested me and wanted me to be a man and shut that shit down is so apparent now. Yeah -- me too (two marriages). Sometimes guys are slow learners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:51 PM
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Because they're way cooler than pandas!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:41 PM
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Replacing civilized cultures with less civilized ones is regression So Japanese and German cultures are the civilized ones? Funny that's not the takeaway I got from history class.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:39 PM
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people mindlessly reproducing like animals https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xat1GVnl8-k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:36 PM
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only after like 4 dates Sorry dude but if she hasn't taken you by the hand and led you to her bedroom before the 4th date she's really not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:50 PM
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Cultures wax and wane all the time. Humanity persists. Indeed humanity is better off with less Balkanization.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:47 PM
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Who cares? Racial purity should never be the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:37 PM
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Demographic changes are slow. The economic system will adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:33 PM
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If the whole world of 8bil people advanced to Western levels then we'd not be able to sustain it. Another reason a declining population is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:16 PM
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A world with only four billion people? The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:15 PM
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Immigration is exactly what Japan needs. They've been isolationist for far too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:13 PM
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Japan is that pilot and that impact is their economy going boom when those elderly people have no one to care for them. Wealth transfer to the rescue. There are literally billions of people nearby they can hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:46 PM
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Yeah -- the only time there weren't kids in my place messing stuff up was when I first moved in with my first wife when we were 19. She got custody of her little brothers soon after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:43 PM
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I don't but old people do. They're just going to have to sell those overpriced houses to pay people. Some intergenerational and interracial wealth transfer will be a good thing. .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:37 PM
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We have billions of people to spare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:33 AM
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I get nervous if the house is too clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:29 AM
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Not a problem. Life will go on without individuals who refuse to reproduce be they pandas or Japanese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:26 AM
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Did you win? Women don't like losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:34 AM
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Fatties are extra sexy! Just left a Bay Area Wal-Mart. Americanized Asian women are nice and fat too now. God bless America!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:00 AM
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Funny thing is that every time I've had to get physical (or at least threaten to) I've gotten laid very enthusiastically soon thereafter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:51 AM
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Males fight for access to females. Always have and always will. We're just like all the other mammals. AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:26 AM
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Society needs plumbers more than it needs code monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:22 AM
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You don't have to do the socially acceptable thing. All that matters is that you beat the shit out of your competition -- either literally or figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:19 AM
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It's actually not a compromise. Being the best you means competing with other guys. If you win your reward often includes access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:16 AM
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I was the boy that got the most valentine's day cards in my class. I was the fat kid who didn't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:23 PM
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THIS! Creepy = not staying in one's lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:20 PM
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They're just conserving water -- they should be commended.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:19 PM
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The first time I came to the USA as an adult I was amazed that you could get gas, beer, and ammunition at the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:35 PM
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I often just cook a pound of ground beef with a diced onion and a cup of sliced mushrooms in a pan. It's two meals all by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:06 PM
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Fuck that! We're carnivores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:04 PM
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Meat, eggs, dairy, vegetables, fresh fruit. That's the healthiest diet. Few grains, little bread, no fried food, no sugar, no HFCS, no trans-fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:02 PM
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"I like to travel" Translation = I like to fuck hot guys who can't pester me later because they live on the other side of the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:22 PM
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"men don't like hanging out with only other men for too long." A true statement for many guys. I could go the rest of my life without hanging out with just the guys. Boring AF. Women are much more entertaining (in lots of ways).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:20 PM
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men like that really prefer the company of women more I would have thought this would be self-evident to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:16 PM
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crystal clear to me that men don’t like hanging with only other men for too long Exactly, high school guys hang out in groups -- adult men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:14 PM
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with women being more comfortable than men going on a vacation with a group made only of people of the same sex. Once they get past their teenage/college years guys don't generally hang in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:12 PM
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That's an out of date model. Yeah -- social media validation has replaced self-actualization. WTF is self-actualization anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:10 PM
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I need at least 7 inches and thick!, singing happily along with Don't Want No Short Dick Men, I'm a chubby chaser -- a certain minimum is required to get the job done with big women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:01 PM
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I could only imagine how many guys have been left or cheated on just because he's sporting an acorn. Happens all the time. It's one of the reasons women do first-date BJs. They want to "see what (they're) working with". They don't want to waste time on a guy who will ultimately disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:58 PM
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Nah. You don't want to be THAT guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:53 PM
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to avoid fucking a guy who is pushing That's just messed up! No one should ever engage in sex acts they don't want to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:52 PM
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“if I wanna blow a guy I also wanna fuck him the same time ... Provided she likes what she sees during step 1. Women use BJs to size up guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:40 PM
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Real Men eat meat They do if they want to avoid being protein deficient. Meat's not a problem. It's the hamburger buns and fries guys eat with the meat that are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:21 PM
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What makes the world “illogical”? Are you serious? Where does one even start?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:10 AM
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I hate appearing in court by Zoom. Except for tomorrow -- the further away from my asshole client the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:54 AM
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Lots of lawyers make less than 100K.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:07 AM
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Or at least say they do. Ask for copies of tax returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:34 AM
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Beta game is definitely not a thing on California.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:33 AM
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Guess beta game is still a thing in the sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:32 AM
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I'm 6'4" and have a six figure income. I don't have to be a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:04 PM
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Most evenings I'm fine without socializing. When I lived in cities I'd go on long walks. I was fine just watching people and not interacting. However, ever now and then I'll go out and actually socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:52 PM
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Introverts meet people all the time if and when we decide to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:24 PM
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I'm an INTP and I've slept with 57 women (maybe more if I've forgotten one or two meh encounters). INTPs can be successful. We just have to put our logical systematic brain to the task. My strategy has always been to seek venues where I competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:22 PM
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Not all INTPs are on the spectrum. I'm an INTP but I'm actually very good at reading people's emotional cues and reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:15 PM
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The description of INTP personality is spot on for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:12 PM
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I'd rather the blue pill world actually existed. The idea of soulmates together forever is a nice delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:08 PM
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Who wants to be normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:06 PM
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looked like Sid from Ice Age. I look more like Manny. My personality is actually a lot like his too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:04 PM
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dudes that would be incels if not for the fact they are 6' 3"+ I may fit the description.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:01 PM
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I put all the important stuff on top of the refrigerator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:00 PM
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This may explain why really short women seem to like me more than tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:59 PM
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if all your relationships are short-lived then it just means no one can fucking stand you This! Having scores of short-lived "relationships doesn't mean you're good at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:52 PM
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One thing I've noticed is serial monogamists tend be thought of as "successful" in terms of their relationships. Yeah -- this is actually a problem. A woman who dissolves LTRs/marriages whenever it suits her is the worst bet. I'll take a slut who never committed to guys she didn't love over a serial monogamist any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:49 PM
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Emotional responses to external stimuli are very interesting. And fun to study. I like to think of my high n-count as participant observation research.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:42 PM
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I'm about as INTP as it's possible to be. I've understood that the world is totally illogical since I was a teenager. I also learned that organisms that don't adapt perish. Thus I've spent my life testing strategies for coping with the illogic around me. Sometimes my life hacks work. Sometimes, they don't and I have to reevaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:39 PM
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Introverts aren't all basement-dwelling losers. Lots of us are out and about in the world. We just keep to ourselves a bit more and don't always have to be engaging with people. Lots of the time we just kick back and watch the world (this is why INTPs make good scientists).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:30 PM
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As a guy, a woman has to be pretty awful in bed to "not be feeling it" Nah, it's not really a voluntary thing. After sex, you either feel like sticking around or you don't. In at least a third of my encounters, I didn't feel like staying. It's kind of like ordering a new item at a restaurant. You don't really know if you're going to like it until you try it. If it's just meh you'll never order that item again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:05 PM
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If a consensual casual hookup = pumping & dumping the phrase really doesn't mean much. I agree it doesn't. 99% of women who complain about pumping & dumping walked in with their eyes wide open.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:00 PM
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No one cares how long it takes or how much effort it takes to create the finished product. Guys don't get points for effort. Only results matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:39 PM
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A difference without a distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:41 AM
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fucked over because the more confident men, regardless of whether they’re attractive, are overshadowing shy men. Yeah -- so what? Males compete for females (didn't you guys watch nature shows when you were kids). Some guys win and get to reproduce. Others are evolutionary failures. Mother Nature is a giant bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:21 AM
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Got some bad news for you. You're not in the league you think you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:17 AM
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Branch swinging. Sorry but this happens all the time -- especially when the current partner isn't objectively bad -- she just thinks she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:32 AM
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I plugged my stats in and got 0.021%. Who knew I was such a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:29 PM
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Not the black people I know. They're actually more circumspect than white folks when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:27 PM
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But if you’re a stranger who wants a woman’s time and attention Fuck that shit! My time and attention is worth at least as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:25 PM
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Do any men want housewives? Hell NO! The last thing I want is another dependent. Everybody needs to work. I went to university and then grad school -- she needs to have done so too. I make a six-figure income -- she needs to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:11 AM
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I don't have those types of clients. I absolutely don't ever socialize with clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:59 AM
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Great, men are manipulating women and women want to be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:08 PM
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The entitlement alone is off putting. The "I exist buy me stuff" attitude is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:05 PM
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No seeing a difference. If I'm not feeling it with a woman I'm not obliged to explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:55 PM
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No woman is going to tell a friend or family member that the reason he's struggling is that he's ugly/fat/short/bald ... .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:51 PM
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Average ain't much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:34 PM
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Yeah -- this is why ghosting women is the best way to dump them. Guys don't owe women any reason. I'm being totally serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:30 PM
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She's not plus size.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:24 PM
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She's the good side of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:12 PM
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Bigger deltoid muscles help guys look stronger and wider. Overhead presses are in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:09 PM
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Nothing works better than good old-fashioned pushups. No equivalent needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:07 PM
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California limits what credit scores can be used for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:56 PM
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A walking date can still be a great date if he put some thought behind it. I'll let you in on a little secret. Guys take all their women on the same circuit. In SoCal, I always took women for a walk on the Venice Beach Boardwalk. In Stockton, I'd take women on walks in Victory Park. In Sacramento McKinley Park.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:09 PM
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The first five years of my marriage I was blissfully happy and totally fucking clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:32 PM
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It killed my delusions about people loving people for who they are. Exactly!!! I always knew that this was the way of the world most of the time. However, I held out hope that there were at least a few unicorns out there. I know better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:30 PM
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Cool. Last time I checked I didn't have a credit score. I haven't had a credit card for over 20 years so they didn't have enough information to calculate one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:19 PM
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137 men who made the final cut failed to a bald average dude. He's significantly better than average looking and it's a safe bet that he's way better educated than average and makes significantly more money than average. He's not Chad (i.e. top 2 or 3 percent) but he's easily top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:52 AM
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He's significantly better looking than her and looks to be an educated MC/UMC guy. Thus, he's easily top 20% and, therefore, hardly average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:48 AM
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Ain't nothing free in this life Ironically sluts are one of the very few exceptions to this rule. Sluts fuck you because they're actually into you. This is what makes sluts so freakin great!!! Sex loses all its value when it's monetized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:41 AM
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a slut who requires compensation is ... a “whore” Bingo. Sluts and hoes are not the same -- not even close. Hoes fuck you for money. Sluts fuck you because they're actually into you. Diametrically opposed motivations that make all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:38 AM
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These women become prudes after marriage Hoes become prudes after marriage because they already have what they want (the $$$). Sluts will fuck you till the day you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:30 AM
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Yeah -- guys here need to understand that there is nothing better (or more loyal) than a slut in love. Bonus points if she has a big fat round booty!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:25 AM
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pornstar sex That goes without saying. If your slut is in love that's part of the package. If you're not getting that what you have is a hoe. Sluts and hoes are two totally different animals -- although guys here often confuse the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:23 AM
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it kind of accentuates athletic/muscular features Yeah -- one-length buzz cuts work. Especially with a short but full beard. https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/352054895851173472/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:16 AM
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Just be thankful your salad doesn't have jello in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:09 AM
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Sorry but that song is totally boring!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:02 AM
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When I was young the age of consent in Canada was 14. It's since been raised to 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:15 PM
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Women have always been my best allies at work. They tend to be in the know. They've warned me when shit was about to go down and told me who to talk to when it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:08 PM
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I stood my ground at the divorce mandatory settlement conference. I said no more times than a petulant two year old child. Ultimately she actually had to pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:02 PM
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Sorry, but women love casual sex with hot guys economics be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:27 PM
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We have joint custody. We share them almost 50/50. One of her friends introduced her to her new better beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:17 PM
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An ally doesn't necessarily fight your battles. Sometimes they're just a great source of useful intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:43 PM
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Which is why a lot of times the best thing a guy can do is keep his mouth shut and let the woman fill in the blanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:41 PM
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I was 31 when I started law school. I'm now my county's most senior non-management public defender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:36 PM
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My ex-wife is about to turn 50. She was almost 37 when we met -- I was 44. She was 38 when our first daughter was born -- 40 when our second daughter was born. I was making 65K as a junior public defender when we met (not my first career). She left me for a much richer guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:26 PM
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You can't wife a hoe because hoes are in it for the money. Sluts in love, however, are the best marriage prospects. They fuck you because they're actually into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:47 PM
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Yeah -- age appropriate women can still be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:25 PM
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Makes sense. It's usually the first time she falls in love as a fully grown adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:09 PM
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Lots of guys have normal T levels into their 50s and 60s without juicing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:07 PM
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It's a big world. There will always be the occasional outlier. However, that's not at all common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:05 PM
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“nice guys” who try to be nice to everyone even at the expense of their own happiness and well being. You'd be surprised how many of that type are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:47 PM
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I wouldn't know -- too many conservatives going off the rails dominating the news cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:41 PM
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It's gross sex! Why would anyone ever have sex with someone they don't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:39 PM
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WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:24 PM
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We don't care about emotional connection. You don't. Lots of other women who like sex and have sex often love the emotional connection aspect. Also, just because someone is not monogamous doesn't mean they don't crave and enjoy emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:23 PM
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you pay to use her body for your own pleasure Still not biting. Having a woman actually want you is part and parcel of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:21 PM
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Sorry but paying a woman to pretend that she likes me is just not an option for me. I'd rather bang a 4 who actually wants to fuck me than pay a 9 to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:43 PM
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alot of the men who think they are just as sexually driven as they were when they were 20 years old, it's literally no comparison lol I've actually done some participant observation field research. I noted the when ensconced in a suitable location without distractions (i.e. hotel room) for a 24 hour period with a willing female a healthy 18-year-old guy can perform 12-16 times, the same guy at 40 only 8-10 times, and at 55 only 6 or 7 times. Decline is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:39 PM
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I had my first set of kids in my early 20s. Dating a woman the same age as my own daughter just seems wrong (as well as not feasible).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:28 PM
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Since logic is a hallmark of INTPs and reality has a liberal bias I'm thinking left-leaning INTPs are the norm. INTPs are basically the college professor type most of who are very liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:21 PM
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they date women closer to their age. Yet another self-evident truth many can't seem to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:19 PM
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as they age when you’d either need an absurd amount of money or be extremely fit. Just be top 1% bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:17 PM
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I was hottest when I was 19. In this guys really aren't as different from women as many here seem to think. I'm 57 and still get laid. However, I now have to do a bit more than just walk into a party/club and stand there looking very tall and somewhat hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:16 PM
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Money is a secondary factor to actual sexual desire Yeah -- I don't know why so many guys here won't admit that money doesn't get guys hot sex. At best it gets setting up the swindle sex. Being hot gets guys hot sex with hot babes. Being hot becomes infinitely harder as one ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:11 PM
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I am 42 and it's over for me. I was hot as a kid and got laid all the time with no money: you start to fade out around 35, 38. It;s all downhill for younger women from there. Transitions are hard. Middle-age guys don't get young women unless they outright pay. Such is life. Doesn't mean we can't have fun banging older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:07 PM
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45 men are physical grandpa's, we don't want them. Yeah -- the idea that twenty-something women are fucking old dudes on the regular is a huge delusion. Ordinary 45-year-old guys are lucky if they can pull a woman in her late thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:04 PM
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the whol emddle age sexual peak thing is a misframing of the fact that older women become more COMFORTABLE with hteir sexuality Yeah -- 40 something women are more generally DTF than young women. However, back in the day women in their late teens and early twenties would rip my back to shreds while we were fucking. That kind of passion is hard to find in older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:59 PM
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The women use sex to foster dependence and to drive a wedge between the boy and his family. Sex is an integral part of the manipulation. The child comes to depend on his sexual abuser. When the child's family tries to intercede the the abuse assures her victim that "she's the only one who cares about him" that "she's the only one who understands him" ... I've seen this scenario play out multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:35 AM
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If they're hot it's actually even worse. When a 30 something woman gets a 14 or 15-year-old boy to have feelings for her the boy's development is short-circuited. The boy's unhealthy attachment to the older woman prevents him from having age-appropriate experiences. The older women often encourage dependence. When the relationship ends (usually when the woman moves on to another boy) the now-adult victim is left adrift and underdeveloped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:29 AM
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i've had a few adventures with much older women in my teens. An 18 or 19-year-old guy having sex with a mid 20s woman is generally not a problem. A 30 or 40 something woman messing with a 14 or 15-year-old boy is a major league problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:21 AM
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A chorus of men saying ... they wished that it happened to them. But it didn't so they don't realize how messed up male victims become.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:18 AM
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Teenagers exploring their sexuality with other teenagers is normal. Older women sexually exploiting young teenage boys is messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:15 AM
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Longest relationship was 1 year about 5 years ago RUN!!! RUN FAST!!! DON"T LOOK BACK!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:27 AM
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Would Chad do this? Think you know the answer already.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:26 AM
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I'm staying the night at my oldest daughter's place. I read by two grandsons's a bedtime story. Feeling very paternal tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:25 AM
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men on here saying they don’t think a boy being raped is as damaging I can tell you those guys are 100% wrong. I'm a public defender and I've had a steady stream of male clients who are totally messed up because they were molested by older women when they were young teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:22 AM
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Tall, nice face, and not fat. That alone makes him top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:31 AM
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The prior understanding was that wedding vows were indeed promises. Guys need to understand that they're not and take appropriate steps to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:28 AM
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As long as I can clear the code and drive it long enough to complete a smog cycle before the check engine light comes back on I won't have to do anything more drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:57 AM
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My GF has an old friend who's like that. He's been living off women for the last 20 years. He's good looking and super muscular. If a guy has that he doesn't need to bring anything else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:37 AM
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I agree that becoming unattracted is involuntary. Unfortunately that means marriage vows are worthless and people cannot expect to have lifelong partners. Reality sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:31 AM
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Nah -- just that my Prius has been throwing a converter code for years. I can clear the code and the check engine light will stay off just long enough to pass smog.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:27 AM
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They're in for a surprise if they steal my catalytic converter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:06 AM
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I'm 57 and an INTP. Politically I'm very liberal (I was a Bernie Sanders supporter). I wanted to believe the relationship world was basically blue pill. Experience dissuaded me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:46 PM
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I make a six figure income and drive a 15 year old Prius. Fancy cars are a total waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:30 PM
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I've been married twice. I live with a woman. I have four kids and seven grandkids. My n-count is almost 60. I've had enough experience with women to draw some conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:54 PM
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Anecdotal, Years of observations by myself and scores of other people is no anecdotal. Lived experience is a valid source.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:16 PM
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One mistake from him and she'll just find another average guy who is willing to jump through hoops for her. Yeah -- there's always a better beta waiting in the wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:11 PM
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women delude themselves Yes, they do! When a woman marries her BB she most likely real does love him. However, it's the type of love that will not last.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:04 PM
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People are masters of self-delusion. Women convince themselves that their new BB really is a great catch. This delusion can last several years. But sooner or later she'll start longing for the hot guy she really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:59 PM
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women may consider a man attractive enough to date short or long term even if third party observers don’t They see his other po$itive Characteri$tic$.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:37 PM
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Not every woman thinks that the same kind of guy is physically attractive, but it's important for a guy to appeal to at least what some woman is going to think is physically attractive. Yeah, most women find only a few percent of guys attractive. Collectively about 20% of guys have a fan base. The other 80%? Sucks to be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:26 PM
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If you want to get down multiple times a day --every day -- fat sluts are the way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:04 PM
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Actually, fat sluts are the best! I'm not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:55 PM
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less attractive women and more attractive women received a similar boost in desirability if they were intelligent, which the researchers weren’t expecting Dumb women are boring AF. Dumb women can't flirt. Dumb women are more likely to be needy AF. So of course men like smart women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:37 PM
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So women think their long term options are attractive even though other people don’t? Of course they do -- no woman is going to admit they play the AF/BB game. As usual, watching what women do provides far more information than listening to what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:33 PM
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And north Sac, and South Sac, and far East Sac. Pretty much everywhere other than midtown and the 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:47 PM
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My ex-wife used to say everything is better with cheese on it. But then she weighed over 500 pounds at one point. She especially liked chocolate cake with cream cheese frosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:44 PM
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Stockton (the biggest city in San Joaquin County) has lots of unattractive people of every age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:41 PM
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She's pretty damn hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:34 PM
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No, not every man wants a world full of stick insects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:34 PM
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They don't need to be told they have value. They just need to be treated as normal human beings who you're nice to unless they give you a reason not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:32 PM
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Cheese is one of the basic food groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:29 PM
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Most 30 somethings look like shit. Same as it ever was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:24 PM
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If a guy's sneaking out at 4:00 am either the sex really sucked or she's really ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:19 PM
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Cetaceans need love too. Gives a whole new meaning to sex on the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:17 PM
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Makes perfect sense. Women sharing Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:13 PM
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The walk of shame is mostly for women who have to go home to their BF/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:11 PM
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Yeah, if the sex was good the first night of course you're likely to stick around for more the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:09 PM
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I've done that. Two women in a single day lots of times. Three women in one week once. Back in 2005 I took one woman to Venice Beach in the morning and another in the afternoon -- took both women for a drink at the same beach front pub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:05 PM
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A relationship where one person makes all the money is never really going to be very egalitarian. This is why women need their own educations and their own careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:21 PM
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I was a high school teacher in the Seattle suburbs and then moved to Portland for law school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:23 AM
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Cities and regions have their own dating cultures. I had no problem getting dates when I lived in the Seattle metro area. However, when I moved down to Portland dating was much more difficult -- took me a long time to find someone -- and she was from San Jose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:11 AM
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Men expect women to look good, be loyal and mentally stable. Men wish women would be loyal and mentally stable. However, we learn you can't always get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:50 AM
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overlap between social awkwardness and lack of dating success To a certain extent. However, if a guy is attractive enough women won't care. When I was in college I couldn't put two coherent sentences together in front of a woman but I still got laid because I'm very tall and I looked pretty good back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:47 AM
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Some people are always going to be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:42 AM
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I'm being totally serious. Status in one's group is always more important than the number of things a person has. Being able to run really fast conveys more status than owning really expensive running shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:25 AM
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Those studious young women aren't the ones signing up to be mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:52 AM
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The role of law in society needs to be decreased -- not expanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:53 PM
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Still better than someone who had one good job but nevertheless chose to embezzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:42 PM
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Some photos are so filtered they hardly look human.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:40 PM
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Amazing what a little validation can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:36 PM
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Yeah, I've been sitting in courtrooms doing next to nothing all week. It's either Reddit or counting ceiling tiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:35 PM
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Yes. I even took a tall thin blonde as a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:33 PM
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I'll worry about my relationships. Other consenting adults can worry about theirs. I reserve the right to mock others when they do stupid shit. However, just because I think someone is stupid or delusional doesn't mean their conduct is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:29 PM
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The anti-vax folks have the freedom to refuse the jab. Their employers have the freedom to terminate the unvaccinated. Businesses have the right to refuse service. No shirt, no shoes, no vaccination card = no service.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:18 PM
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Lines for vaccination are long gone. Online DMV services work great for renewals. Not so much for obtaining original documents. In any case obtaining the foundational documents is often the biggest hurdle. Also, doesn't do you much good if you get a text to come down in 30 minutes when the nearest DMV is a three hour drive assuming you have access to a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:11 PM
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Who cares about right or wrong. Law and religion have no rational basis to police consensual adult relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:49 PM
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What voter fraud? This issue has been investigated every which way. It's abundantly clear that voter fraud is essentially nonexistent in the United States. Also, all you have to do to get vaccinated is ask. It doesn't cost anything. It doesn't require the provision of hard to obtain documents. It doesn't require standing in lines for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:40 PM
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Yes, status is always far more important than material possessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:24 PM
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WTF? You're proud of endangering the lives of your friends, family, neighbors, and coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:19 PM
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It's far easier to get a vaccination card than government ID. Also, vaccine verification doesn't impact a fundamental right. Thus, apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:16 PM
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I had to take a photo of my vaccination card and text it to my boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:42 PM
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No one -- not girlfriends -- not wives -- wants to listen to guys bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:23 PM
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Nobody is objectively poor in the west. Poverty is more than just a lack of material things. The best hunter in a traditional hunter/gatherer society has few material things but he's far from poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:59 PM
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The smart woman -- always -- every time! Dumb women are not sexy and they're boring and/or annoying AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:55 PM
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News flash. Flu vaccines work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:11 AM
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Vaccines work. This is not news.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:56 PM
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Thanks. Now I'm thinking about the minimal contacts rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:32 PM
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I don't remember there being any vaccination clauses in the constitution. Regardless, no one's forcing anyone. You can sit at home unemployed if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:30 PM
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A funny one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:29 PM
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Great way to weed out dumb asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:27 PM
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Being scientifically literate makes you a sheep?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:26 PM
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For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:59 PM
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Either get vaccinated or get tested every week. Pretty soon vaccinations will be required by most reputable employers. Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:58 PM
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Great. Now we can all be shallow and paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:30 PM
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an age in which men will be admonished to not "let themselves go" after marriage?! If they want to stay married they better not let themselves go. That's just a fact in today's world. Whether guys like this reality or not is irrelevant. Reality is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:01 PM
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leaving something so involved, energy intensive, and impactful as raising kids to your sunset years when you’re supposed to relaxing Who said anything about leaving having kids to later. I was 23 when my oldest kid was born. I had one set of kids with my first wife. Twenty years later I had a second set with my second wife. I wouldn't be averse to having a couple more now. Kids are relaxing. The idea of living in a retirement community playing cards and golf with boring old people horrifies me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:54 PM
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Because it was payday and he had a wallet full of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:46 PM
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Most people aren't interested in buying affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:45 PM
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My 33-year-old son has 3 kids. My 32-year-old daughter has 4 (although her's are all adopted).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:51 AM
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My two oldest kids are Millenials. I have seven grandchildren already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:49 AM
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Sounds about right. You could add: "The one" -- your "unicorn" is not as special as you first thought. Repeat steps 4, 5, and 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:46 AM
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No different than romance novels then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:40 AM
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setting up a fake date so her brother can jump him Pretty much the facts underlying the second case I took to trial years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:39 AM
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Women choose not to do physically demanding jobs and choose not to do jobs that entail uncomfortable and/or dangerous work environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:37 AM
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Porn's no more harmful than reading romance novels. It's a harmless diversion unless you start thinking it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:28 AM
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Women shouldn't complain about guys getting paid more for work women choose not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:26 AM
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In many cases they're the only game in town (literally).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:21 AM
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Yeah -- I laugh when people say Billy Beta the timid code monkey could easily get a working-class GF. Women in the hood or trailer park wouldn't be the least bit interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:17 AM
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Why do women think hooking up is a date? Because if they classify it as a date they're not engaging in casual sex. They're just having really short relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:52 AM
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Building stuff and operating heavy equipment is actually lots of fun. Far more satisfying than pushing paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:50 AM
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wanting someone to match your income. If a woman can't come close to matching my income she's not LTR/marriage material. 95% of women won't make the cut. I'll have sex with a broke ass woman but I'm sure as shit not going to be her meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:39 AM
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shit average women don’t want to do The stuff average women want to do always surprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:36 AM
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A tiny fraction multiplied by two or three is still a very small number.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:32 AM
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Your kid is going to be 20 and having to take care of you rather than being able to rely on their dad on a lot of stuff when they’re first encountering the adult world. Lots of guys are still working at 70. My dad worked until he was 78. A guy has to be very unfortunate to need care at 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:29 AM
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My little ten-year-old daughter is just fine despite the fact that I was 46 when she was born and her mom was 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:55 AM
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Not all old-time boy meets girl stories are sweet. I met my first wife at a kegger at a lake -- we had sex down by the water on a dark beach before we even knew each other's names.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:49 AM
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Hank and Karen's relationship is amazingly similar to the relationship I had with my first wife (but with nicer cars, houses, and bars).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:43 AM
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My financial standards for women have gone up too. If she wants me to have a six figure income she needs one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:26 PM
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WTF? UMC men marry women they meet at college not the local trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:19 PM
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I lived in Portland for four years. I would have been OK with staying but my first wife wanted to move to California.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:01 PM
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Having kids later in life would be a problem, as it's hard to be an active father if you're in your 40s or 50s. Nah, I'm 57 and can still chase my 10-year-old daughter around all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:19 PM
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How else do you find your next spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:28 PM
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fat is a deal She gotta be at least 250.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:54 AM
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Speed bumps then. But those can really slow a person down and make the trip a lot less enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah, women's can always find partners. Just not always ones they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:02 PM
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Get back to us after you've tried to date at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:59 PM
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Not too many young MC/UMC single moms. Birth control works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:44 PM
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Yeah, fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:19 PM
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There are always exceptions. However, the men available to older women are often not that appealing. I know multiple 50 something women who have stopped dating because they weren't interested in what was available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:18 PM
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Because women share. Chad dates multiple women concurrently or serially. Lonely Billy Beta is shut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:12 PM
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The wall doesn't hit at 27 as it does in Jane Austin novels. It hits most middle-class women who have taken care of themselves in their mid to late 40s. Most 39-year-old women can still get dates with guys they want to fuck. Many 49-year-old women can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:11 PM
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a new influx of incels How do they multiple? A serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:32 PM
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She's still incredibly attractive. Also, gotta love smart ambitions women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:13 AM
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How old is he? Lots of older guys still have normal T levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:11 AM
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Medical reasons = a doctor with multiple alimony payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:10 AM
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Cool. Definitely not a dumb jock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:07 AM
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I've made it to 57 and have pretty much always had a GF/FWB/wife. Thinking I've learned a thing or two about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:43 PM
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Portland Oregon is one of the worst places in the country to pick up women (unless you're another woman). I went to grad school there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:09 PM
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I find fat women physically attractive. I don't have a problem working out so they'll find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:38 PM
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fat Stacy Back off those are mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:36 PM
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AWALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:33 PM
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It means that fatties don't want to fuck unattractive guys any more than thin women want to fuck unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:32 PM
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No amount of fat women would be able to satisfy men's needs Challenge accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:30 PM
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Men should just drop all the distractions, focus on ourselves and build our value, not date fat women. You can do both. That fattie will have a nice meal ready when you get home from work and then fuck you all night! If you're hot. If not fattie won't want you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:28 PM
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overweight women seem do alright. Yeah, lots of guys actually prefer big girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:26 PM
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You need a job to survive, don't need a fat chick tho Speak for yourself. Life isn't worth living without a fattie in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:22 PM
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No -- that won't work! Fat women don't like unattractive losers anymore than thin women. AWALT! Just like thin women fatties would rather share chubby chaser Chad than have a dweeb of their own (especially one who doesn't ever like fatties).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:17 PM
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Never dated in a big city. Any tips? There will always be bigger fish so you're game better be on point. Maybe that you're not quite ready for the big leagues and will have to spend some time in the minors. When I lived in the NYC area most of my dates were from Queens, Brooklyn, Staten Island, and towns along the MetroNorth line. I didn't have the cash to play in Manhatten.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:00 PM
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His wife stays by his side For now -- as long as she's getting something she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:56 PM
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seems to me that the 50th centile guy under 35 is actually pretty attractive. If your sample is skewed toward MC/UMC guys sure. However, many poor and working-class folks are pretty damn beat up by the time they're 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:48 PM
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the crazy Canuck law that if you've been living together for a year you're treated the same as a married couple You're only treated the same as married for tax purposes and for calculating benefit eligibility. Since Canadians don't file joint returns the tax thing means little for most folks. The benefits thing is so mom doesn't collect welfare or other means-tested benefits while dad makes 100K in the oil fields -- it's basically a man-in-the-house rule which I would have thought conservatives …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:43 PM
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One major fuck-up and I could get disbarred effectively ending my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:49 AM
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Both my ex-wives were prettier and a fuck of a lot smarter than Trump's trophies. And they actually liked having sex with me. Also, I'm doing a lot better job at upholding and defending the Constitution of the United States than Trump ever did. I haven't tried to overthrow any democracies lately either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:47 AM
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Who has more value you or trump? I'm pretty confident that if given a choice between sleeping with me and sleeping with Trump more randomly chosen women would choose me than the Orange man-child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:41 AM
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Guess it depends on the size of the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:38 AM
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It's pretty easy for both -- provided they chose their parents well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:37 AM
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When did guys start thinking the world cared about them? Your mother cares about you. Maybe your sister does too if you're lucky. Your dog cares so long as you keep feeding her. Other than that nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:32 AM
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Our old house was in Edmonton -- in an area that not only appreciated but gentrified as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:21 AM
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over sized features. Ghetto booty is real! That's a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:22 PM
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I was the same age as my first wife. I was seven years older than the second. Neither way worked so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:20 PM
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Means she'll have to disrobe to cool down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:18 PM
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Pleistocene megafauna was a great class. 60" is the perfect size for a woman's butt. 40" inches is too small (might hurt yourself on a protruding bone). 80" is too big (don't want to pay for two seats when you travel). 60" is the Goldilocks size -- just right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:16 PM
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Better hope she sticks around because if she files for divorce you'll pay dearly for those 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:12 PM
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the journalist has assumed that everyone's personal testimony about their own lives is accurate And more importantly that they're not a representative sample. It's self-evident that the very top tier of men have all sorts of women throwing themselves at them. It's also self-evident that more women chase that very top tier than populate it. It follows that some women are going to be disappointed. This is not news. It's also not the life of ordinary people. Ordinary guys who struggled with women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:31 PM
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Fat women are hot! Nothing better than a nice round 60" butt!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:27 PM
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I've been washing my own clothes since I was 12. Housekeeping services are not something I require.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:02 PM
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Fat Sluts >>> Skinny Bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:29 PM
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Not quite. Ontario doesn't recognize common law marriage. It allows people to sue for support in certain instances (not likely present for younger people). This recognition doesn't extend to property rights. In Ontario, section 29 of the Family Law Act specifically recognizes unmarried spouses in dealing with spousal support issues. The definition is having cohabited continuously for not less than three years or "in a relationship of some permanence" if parents of a child. However, common-law sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:26 PM
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I dated 30 something women for 30 years. Like Mattew McConaughey said; "... I get older they stay the same.".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:16 PM
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what being a ‘wife’ entails. Being an equal partner in a life you chose together as a couple. For this to work the wife needs her own education and her own career. A wife is a partner, not a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:14 PM
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One weird case involving rich people. Unlikely to affect the lives of ordinary people. It seemed to rely on the theory of promissory estoppel more than statutory family law. https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/promissory_estoppel#:~:text=Within%20contract%20law%2C%20promissory%20estoppel,detrimentally%20relied%20on%20the%20promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:07 PM
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For tax purposes and government benefit eligibility pursoses. Those are only a tiny fraction of the reciprocal rights and responsibilities associated with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:45 PM
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I lived in Canada for more than 20 years. Including cohabitating with a woman I had two kids with. You're treated the same as married for tax purposes and for benefit eligibility purposes but not when it comes to property and spousal support issues. My advice regarding "divorce-rape" stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:41 PM
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Men who marry younger partners are far more likely to be "divorce-raped": So cohabitate without government approval. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:38 PM
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Women may be getting more college degrees total but men are still over-represented in the most rigorous programs which lead to the most lucrative careers. Men work longer hours, men are more willing to take assignments to places they'd rather not be, and men are much more willing to put up with uncomfortable and/or dangerous working conditions to make money. Men are over-represented by a wide margin in the skilled trades. Job sites are often places they'd rather not be. The working conditions ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:44 PM
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There are lots of rich people in Norway and Sweeden. They're doing just fine and generally don't feel put upon. Indeed the rich have the most to gain from a fully functional society. Who wants to be rich if you have to live in a high-security compound -- that's like paying for your own jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:07 PM
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Lots. When I was young I never saw the point of doing the same thing for more than a couple of years. Most jobs get kind of boring after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:02 PM
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You can still do it of course Yeah, many women would. My ex-wife was seeing her new guy while we were still married (I was clueless).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:08 AM
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I don't have a problem getting laid. Being 6'4" helps. If you're going to be an introvert be a tall one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:02 AM
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I suck at small talk. But I am 6'4" and have a high level professional job. Women fill in the blanks with what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:33 PM
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I just got off the phone with a Deputy DA. We have 12 cases together Monday morning. We figured out what we're going to do with half of them. We're just going to wing the remainder. I'm not even going to look at Monday afternoon's files until noon on Monday. You have to be OK with a bit of chaos to do this job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:12 PM
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It's the kind if stress that's actually kind if enjoyable. Most of my clients are giant screwups -- not master criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:07 PM
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I find dealing with people on a professional basis much easier than dealing with people on a social basis. The rules and expectations are much more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:05 PM
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I speak in public all the time. I'm a public defender. Still shy and introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:26 PM
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I know my limits. I'm very good at somethings. Not so good at others. I know I'll never be an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:24 PM
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Only if you were previously fat or use a lot of steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:22 PM
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You can't change your personality anymore than you can change your physique. You can tinker around the margins but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:35 PM
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Yeah right. Many guys here have made it abundantly clear that they seek to control the lives of girls and young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:31 PM
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To what end? People who complain about economic inequality advocate collective action. Such action is totally appropriate in the economic realm. Unlike in the private realm of intimate relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:24 PM
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Women will only tell you what they think they want regarding sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:33 PM
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Yeah, other than messing things up by talking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:10 PM
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Very few guys can pull a new girl every weekend. Lots more guys have someone they can hit up every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:36 PM
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I'm pretty chill and non-judgmental about recreational sex. Women have admitted doing all sorts of crazy stuff in my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:33 PM
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You'd be surprised how little conversation is required when a woman thinks you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:28 PM
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The USA has been catering to the rich and powerful for decades. We know what to do curb inequality. We just haven't had the political will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:13 PM
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We never should have gotten so deeply involved. We need to give people who aided us visas so they're not the first to be executed by the resurgent Taliban. Other than that we can't really do much. Afghans are going to have to sort this out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:42 PM
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The OP is totally of base. There's a world of difference between regulating economic transactions and arrangements and regulating the most personal and intimate parts of people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:37 PM
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I've never lied or pretended to be something I'm not. That's way too much work. I just kick back and chill and women just sort of appear -- not all the time -- but often enough -- often when you least expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:22 PM
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Actually, that 61K was in a large Canadian city.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:17 PM
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Women do the same type of thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:19 PM
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The we're totally happy but simultaneously clinically depressed thing has always seemed weird AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:58 PM
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The beta-bucks strategy still works absolutely fine in the 90% rest of the globe. 90% of the people here are from developed western countries -- so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:04 PM
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The bare minimum required for a 1950s style middle class existence now probably requires an umc income (and higher if one lives in cali). I bought a decent little built n 1947 house for 61K in 1990. Today that same house is worth 600K (I sold it for 90K in 1996). The house increased in value 10X. My salary only increased 4X. And that's only because I've moved up the ladder a lot. My old job only pays about 2X what it did in 1990.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:58 PM
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22-year-old guys at the club don't give a shit about a woman's income. College-educated guys with professional jobs are not going to marry women without similar credentials. Assortative mating is more pronounced than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:49 PM
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Asian women have very high expectations of their betas. If you're looking for a life as a workhorse be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:23 PM
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Human males compete for access to females just like other animals. We may not be physically brawling but we're in competition nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:09 AM
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The only Mac & cheese I like is by Kraft Trader Joe's white cheddar Mac & Cheese is far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:52 AM
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I love cheese. What I hate is most of the other stuff people put on pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:46 AM
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LOL! You actually think that was a possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:43 AM
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Not every male gets to reproduce. People need to watch more BBC nature shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah, the world has gotten slightly better -- not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:31 AM
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Computers haven't changed things nearly as much as people think. Its been diminishing returns for the last 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:30 AM
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30 years ago the market was much more fair then now. Hardly. 30 years ago hot guys got laid and not hot guys most often went home alone. The song remains the same. I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:28 AM
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a man can work hard for 10 years to succeed and he won't get a good women. He's working on the wrong things. Instead of going into debt for grad school, he should have hired a personal trainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:25 AM
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I think they respect and appreciate beta males more, LOL! Foreign women are the biggest gold diggers. Sure they'll marry a rich loser but their price is his never-ending servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:23 AM
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Why do so many guys here think young women want to fuck some old loser guy? If young women didn't want to fuck him when he was in high school and college there's almost zero chance they'll want to fuck him now that he's older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:21 AM
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The vast majority of corporations are evil AF! If we boycotted every evil fast-food chain and supermarket we'd starve to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:16 AM
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Go grab yourself an economic geography book. California can feed itself many times over. We have huge water reserves in the Sierra Nevada mountains. We have our own oil and gas reserves, hydropower, and unlimited solar potential. All those educated elites conservatives hate are not about to abandon California for redneck flyover country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:58 PM
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She's not really awkward -- people like her -- she just doesn't care. She interacts better with older people. She says her goal is to start college at 14. That doable. She started kindergarten a year early so she only has to complete 7 years of classes in the next 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:16 PM
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My daughter is insanely smart (sorry other offspring but this one's the smartest). Online will allow her to go to college at least two years early. Thinking she could socialize then. Nothing good ever happens in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:00 PM
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Guess, as a bit of a loner, I was just ahead of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:55 PM
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Yeah, I'm chilling at a coffee shop. Two young women wearing crop tops and shorts just left. One was tan, fit, and had visible abs. The other was pale and a bit pudgy. I found them both attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:51 PM
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My 10 year old daughter doesn't want to go back to in person learning. She's gotten to like online school and decided she doesn't really like people. On one hand I feel I need to push her back into the real world. On the other hand if she's doing online school she can stay at my place 50% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:43 PM
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It's a good family car. We took ours camping last year. We managed to fit two adults, two kids, all our stuff, and four bicycles in/on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:37 PM
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Cars don't get guys laid. I used to have a 1968 Oldsmobile convertible. People commented how nice it was all the time. But that's it. Babes didn't throw themselves into the front seat. As long as I stay relatively fit I get laid. I'd pay for a personal trainer before I paid for a fancy car.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:33 PM
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It's actually a great car. It's very versatile. It can fit four full-size adult people. Fold down the seat and you can fit lots of stuff. It has a trailer hitch for my bike rack. It's fast enough. Handles well enough. Is insanely reliable. And does all this while getting 44 mpg. Best of all it only cost me 2K. I've put on over 110,000 miles since I bought it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:20 PM
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This morning Iron Maiden and Quite Riot. I was also listening to the Runaways and Social Distortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:44 PM
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I inherited the old family car when I was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:41 PM
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Nah. I didn't feel that sort of anxiety until I was over 50 and my second wife filed for divorce. Luckily the feeling passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:12 PM
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Women do indeed approach guys they want to fuck. It's happened to me multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:45 PM
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My GF accused me of living in the past. She might be right. This morning I drove to work as fast I could, passing logging trucks on the double yellow while listening to heavy metal. Pretty much the same thing I did 40 years ago. Only difference is I'm driving a 2006 Prius not a 1969 Dodge Dart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:34 PM
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When I was 17 I thought I was the only person on the planet not having sex. Now 40 years later I understand there will always be women interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:57 PM
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men need to be more mindful about vetting for lust Yeah! If she doesn't show signs of intense passion right away guys just need to move on. Fucking like bunnies on meth the first night is a sign of such passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:25 PM
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it's "you deserve better" culture, especially for women Yeah, it seems to be the go-to conversation for the wine drinking set. Her: "He's always at work" ... "we never get to spend time together". Friends: "You deserve better" ... Her: "We never have enough money to do fun stuff". Friends: "You deserve better" ... Her: "(rich guy) wants me to divorce my husband and marry him but I'm not sure". Friends: "You go girl" ... "You deserve to be happy."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:02 PM
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Yes, men and women really are different. Which of course is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:39 PM
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Yeah, 40 something women can do some crazy shit. I had a case where a woman called the Highway Patrol to report that Sheriff's deputies were breaking into her house -- they were -- to serve a search warrant. An armed standoff followed with the crazy lady barricaded in her bedroom with a rifle. The really crazy thing is that she had been at least relatively normal before she turned 40 (she had been a firefighter). Her excuse was that her lesbian lover had put meth in her food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:25 PM
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Having lived and worked in the Central Valley for a decade I can assure you that the succession of rural California isn't even a remote possibility. Compared to the coast they're dirt poor. Moreover, the Hispanic majority of rural California is never going to side with the racist xenophobic right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:18 AM
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I'm not pressuring anyone. If a woman isn't DTF that's fine. I'll just find one who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:13 AM
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They'd also be surprised at how well some of us can shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:47 AM
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simple logistics. Take a look at a topographical map. Kentucky is never going to be able to invade California. We're protected by huge mountain ranges and deserts. We also have multiple deepwater ports for resupply. As a former Army intelligence analyst, I can assure you logistics are on our side.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:43 AM
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the right are really really stupid Yeah, there's never going to be a successful trailer park rebellion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:38 AM
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geopolitical and logistical. California is perfectly viable as a stand-alone country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:36 AM
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Sorry, but red American is unstainable without New York (finance) and California (tech, culture, and finance). ​ California on the other hand will do just fine without the rest of the country. We have our own financial institutions, we have the world's most productive agriculture, technology, manufacturing, we drive world culture, and we even have our own oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:33 AM
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Sorry, but red American is unstainable without New York (finance) and California (tech, culture, and finance). California on the other hand will do just fine without the rest of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:26 AM
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That's hardly an equal partnership. If a woman doesn't have at least a BA and five years of solid career experience she's not LTR/ marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:31 PM
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That's why it's always a good idea to have multiple kids from multiple baby mamas. They're not all going to cut you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:29 PM
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Death or Glory by The Clash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:22 PM
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Most often it's the woman who bailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:20 PM
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Diving into that dumpster while it's on fire is the ultimate expression of male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:19 PM
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No, but women can't expect to be bailout out of the results of a lifetime of poor choices either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:17 PM
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Yeah, I know lots of unhappy 40 something office drones. Being single, 40, and stuck in a dead end job is not a recipe for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:14 PM
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My ex-wife had her next husband lined up ahead of time. She moved out of our place and straight into his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:10 PM
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For a woman to be a full partner she has to be willing to pull her own weight. She needs her own education and career. Too many women are looking for bailouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:08 PM
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Still can't fathom being old without kids and grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:05 PM
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Not anymore. I'm a public defender now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:01 PM
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Cool. I met my first wife at a kegger. We wondered away from the bonfire and had sex before I even knew her name (the girl who came to the party with me wasn't impressed).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:59 PM
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I had sex with both my wives the first night. Whether or not there's a second date after a hookup is a decision made on a case by case basis. But without the hookup there's zero chance of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:52 PM
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Kids >>> Cats
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:48 PM
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A surprising number of older women end up in trouble with the law. Guys go off the rails earlier but when women do it's usually in a very dramatic way. Less than an hour ago we arraigned a sweet older lady on first degree residential burglary charges. Not a recipe for a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:30 PM
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Can't buy those on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:22 PM
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Wife #2 -- she was misrepresenting from the very start. Wife #1 only lied after she developed a drug habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:25 PM
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She needs to give gold digger lessons or something. Lied about her education, lied about money, lied about her ambitions, ... . This seems awfully familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:13 PM
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because they’re that mainstream. Yeah, they're now a sign of boring conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:54 AM
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Girls, plz remember that if you ever get murdered, its going to be the guy you're fucking right now. Not some random loser off the street Applies to sexual assaults as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:51 AM
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Ironincally tattoos are a sign of boring conformity these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:29 AM
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We're do you get those numbers? Women cum far easier with hot guys. Casual sex is much more likely to be with hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:56 PM
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Most 40 year old women are not at all interested in the average 50 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:21 PM
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I love America enough to try to improve her. I'm a Canadian citizen. I can leave anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:15 PM
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90% fatties. Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:13 PM
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The women on old OKC had endless lists of requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:12 PM
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Back in the day I had the most luck with POF. I would have thought OKC would've worked better -- but it didn't. Specialty sites for BBWs worked even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:09 PM
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Get ripped fuck sluts (and I mean that in the most positive sense).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:05 PM
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Money is overrated. You need enough for a decent life that's all. That would be 75K to 125K depending on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:03 PM
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The marketplace determines leagues -- not individuals. The marketplace does not care what individuals think they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:56 PM
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I've liked almost every woman I've slept with (except ironically the first one). Why would a guy bother sleeping with women he doesn't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:54 PM
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Take a trip to the local trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:48 PM
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I'd rather spend my time and effort looking for positive traits rather than trying to catch her in a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:41 PM
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Filter use is out of control. Photographs are pretty much useless for vetting these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:08 PM
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If I go to see a band I'm going to go see one I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:38 PM
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Both men and women aren't the same quality as they were 40 years ago For the most part, they're better. Indeed the entire world is generally a better place than it was in the 1970s and 1980s. Its cleaner, safer, less racist, more egalitarian ... . Why am I the only optimistic guy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:33 PM
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I can't wait for the next crash and having the Army at grocery stores. Better get a comfortable chair -- it's going to be a long wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:29 PM
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I know tons of good dudes that would never treat a woman with disrespect even in a playful way And that's why they're still single. They're boring AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:23 PM
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These are oddly specific qualities of a female that I don't possess, and I rarely see other women possess. The type specimen is of course an extreme example. Ordinary women will share most of the type specimen's traits and proclivities but to a lesser degree. And of course, women never recognize these characteristics in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:19 PM
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It's just the cycle of life. Yeah -- my oldest daughter posted a photo of herself as a small child sitting on my lap smiling with no front teeth. I look like a really soft round-faced kid even though I was almost 30 in that photo (really thick black hair though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:48 PM
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Consider the case where 10 men are in a bar with 10 women. Not the normal ratio. Guy's usually outnumber women at least 3 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:42 PM
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Yeah -- I chose my words carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:30 PM
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They don't want to be personally responsible for raising kids. They want other white people to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:22 AM
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I have a GF but if I were single I'd just do what I've always done -- go out -- some nights you meet women -- some nights you don't -- sooner or later an interested woman shows up. I've never really chased women. I just put myself in positions where it's likely that I'll cross paths with suitable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:50 AM
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I have seen quite a bunch of men on here telling women that theyshould have sex People should never participate in any sexual activity they don't want to participate in. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with a guy that's fine -- she certainly doesn't have to. Likewise, guys are not obligated to stick around waiting for a woman to decide. Everyone has agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:46 AM
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but real life with individuals is way more complex. Models are always simplifications -- that doesn't mean they're not useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:42 AM
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I know in real life don't behave the way their gender is often talked about on this sub. I really wish that were true. I was very happy in my blue pill delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:41 AM
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I've had bad experiences. My brothers have had bad experiences. My friends have had bad experiences. My co-workers and colleagues have had bad experiences. At some point, guys start seeing trends and patterns in female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:33 PM
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There are female chubby chasers -- but they're extremely rare. I've only ever met two IRL. Male chubby chasers are much more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:47 PM
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I'm 57 -- pretty much every time I've had a reversal of fortune my woman has bounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:20 PM
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Having a partner to laugh with during the good and the bad is priceless. Nah -- women don't stick around through bad times if they have any other options available.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:55 PM
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funny women aren't any more fuckable But they're a lot more enjoyable to have around. Therefore, guys are much more likely to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:53 PM
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But would you guys have gotten together if he was the same size he is now back when you first met?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:51 PM
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I used to weigh 340 but I had weight loss surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:49 PM
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not interested at all in an obese dude This is pretty much all women. My weight has fluctuated quite a bit; If I'm under 220 pounds many women are very interested. 220 -250 pounds some women are still interested. 250-280 pounds getting female attention waning but a few women are still interested. 280-310 pounds only a very few women remain at all interested. Over 310 pounds I really had to dive deep into that proverbial dumpster to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:42 PM
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I actually stop by the local Walmart at least once a week. I see way more fat women with fit or normal guys. Sure there are a few older fat women with fat husbands. However, I see very few young fat women with fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:33 PM
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So, it’s what this person is saying. That men are less delusional. Still aspirational but more rational about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:27 PM
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When we're old women are more than willing to pick our pocket but that doesn't mean they suddenly find us attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:25 PM
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If the rough pump is good there isn't going to be a dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:21 PM
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She’s getting a subpar boyfriend Half of the population is always below average. Odds are she is one of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:04 PM
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Women: Q; Would you date a fat guy? A; Of course, women aren't shallow like men. Also women; Q: Have you dated a fat guy? A; (crickets chirping)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:56 PM
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Why can't we all just get along never seems to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:51 PM
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Nice girls Are boring AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:41 PM
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To tell the truth, I usually dismiss all the others as not being that into me. Why would a guy stick with a woman who is only lukewarm when a woman who is crazy for him is available.?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:32 PM
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assuming that women instantly fall in love when having sex? Any guy who's been around the block a few times has encountered numerous women who are already making life-together plans the next morning. It's happened to me at least a dozen times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:16 PM
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This can't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:04 AM
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boys you want to marry and build a life with. As opposed to guys they settle for after their first choices prove unattainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:07 AM
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If I'm not mistaken the National Crime Victims survey is a phone poll so less than reliable. Also, what a reporting party thinks is rape and what actually constitutes rape are maybe two entirely different things. Next morning buyers' remorse is not rape. Interestingly if DAs are only getting convictions in 50% of cases they prosecute it means they're giving the alleged victims the benefit of the doubt and filing questionable cases (the standard DA convictions rates are usually over 80%). DA's us…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:03 AM
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Life can suck -- always has -- always will. Yet somehow most of us find a way to persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:36 AM
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If by justice you mean a psycho bitch lied to get what she wanted and destroyed the life of an innocent man in the process then, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:34 AM
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Wasn't a genealogy test. My mom called me at work one day and came clean. Once she did that I knew who the father was before she told me (her voice always changed when she talked about him). One of many Red Pill lessons I learned over the years before I even knew TRP existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:30 AM
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The criminal justice system comes down on people accused of sex crimes like a ton of bricks. The vast majority plead and agree to spend years in prison to avoid life sentences even when they have defensible cases. Two years ago I had to very reluctantly plead a guy I believed to be factually innocent to a six-year deal. He was afraid that if he went to trial he'd get life (not an unreasonable fear).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:17 AM
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I truly did not realize my family wasn't close until I was in my 30s. Yeah, this shit happens. I didn't find out I had an older half-brother until I was in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:10 AM
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Mother Nature always prevails. No way in hell you're ever going to convince teenage boys and young men that sex isn't important. Indeed the more you try the more they'll obsess about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:08 AM
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In the case I'm dealing with the cops forwarded an entire stack of reports and interview videos along with a recommendation to file rape charges. Does that sound like sweeping shit under the rug? The deputy DA assigned the case had to reign the cops in. If she hadn't a very embarrassing trial would have ensued since it was just a case of two drunk teenagers getting it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:01 AM
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Once she hit 250 lbs my first wife wore nothing but leggings and big shirts (with white tennis shoes). That was the fat girl uniform of the 80s and 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:43 AM
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School and police won't do anything. You'd be wrong about that. Credible rape allegations are vigorously investigated. Even not-so-credible ones are thoroughly investigated. I have a huge file on my desk that involves two drunk teenagers having sex. Cops really tried to make it a rape by intoxication one strike felony (i.e. a 15-to-life case). Ultimately the DA charged it as a misdemeanor unlawful intercourse case -- a 19-year-old guy had sex with a 17-year-old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:37 AM
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The Portland house we paid 116K for in 1995 and sold for 148K in 1998 is now, according to Zillow, worth 555K (and that's with less lot than we had -- a skinny house was built on what used to be a really big side yard). It's a really crappy house on a street that still isn't paved in deep SE Portland.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:22 AM
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It was a woman in a wheelchair. You would have thought someone would have called adult protective services.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:29 AM
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One of our clients actually froze to death in the local Walmart parking a couple of winters ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:21 AM
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Outfit planning Buy cargo shorts and t-shirts. I'm good for the next five years. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:13 AM
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The only thing I wouldn’t like is if she’s lying but is actually like other women, This is exactly what's wrong with 99% of these women. If a woman feels compelled to tell you she's "not like those other bitches" it's almost a certainty that she's not -- she's lots worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:10 AM
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I've been around long enough to know that real estate prices can and do go down. That house I bought for 60K in 1989 had been worth 80K in 1979 before oil prices plummeted and crashed the Texas and Alberta real estate markets. And then there's that house I bought in Stockton in 2003 (what the fuck was I thinking). On a really depressing note, the house we bought for 160K in 1999 in Berkeley is now worth 1.2 million. Unfortunately, we lost it in 2005 because of my first wife's drug issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:56 AM
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Will need to muscle out some of my clients from under the bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:49 AM
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A house I like was recently listed for 600K. My first reaction was to think "that's not so bad". Then I realized the asking price is ten times what I paid for my first house in 1989 (which is now also worth about 600K but which we sold for 90K in 1996). This is insane. I've advanced a lot career-wise since 1989 but I still only make four times what I made back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:02 AM
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A very substantial minority of men are totally fine with fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:09 AM
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I'm 6'4" and reasonably fit for an old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:05 AM
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I'm 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:01 AM
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I got no time for such risk-averse timid little bunnies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:04 AM
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I'd rather miss out on a great guy than waste time with a shitty one. Great partners are in very short supply. A strategy that excludes them is batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:03 AM
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How about being an interesting human being so that guys will want to stick around after the sex. Guys don't only want sex but if that's all a woman has to offer they're not going to say no. They just aren't going to stick around after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:01 AM
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Guys need to avoid timid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:57 PM
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Every fat woman I know (and I know quite a few) gets fucked as often as she likes. Fatties can dial up a dick on Tinder any time they like -- just like skinny women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:56 PM
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If a woman doesn't make a guy feel special why would he even consider dating her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:52 PM
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Nah! We love sluts (i.e. women who want to fuck us). We hate hoes (i.e. women who want to extract cash and other resources from us).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:51 PM
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Women aren't special. Many certainly believe they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:49 PM
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If I fuck a guy quickly, it's because I said "Well he's hot but WAAAAAY beneath my standards for dating." So you'll fuck a hot loser straight away but not an equally hot guy who has his shit together. That's an insane illogical strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:48 PM
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Attraction makes people take risks. Guys if your woman isn't taking risks -- if she's always playing it safe -- she's not that into you. Dump her and find a woman that is into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:44 PM
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However I can't know if I want to marry that man before he jump all the hoops Any woman who erects hoops is a no-go. No sane gay with other options is going to waste time on such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:41 PM
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I personally don't care how high a woman's n-count is, as long as she's hot for me and attracted to me in that way. Yeah, as long as she's bringing her A-game it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:38 PM
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Red pillers really resent having to put in effort Guys need to put effort into making themselves attractive. Then it's up to women to either accept or reject the end product. No guy should ever try to talk/cajole/pester a woman into sex. If a particular woman isn't interested that's fine -- there's always more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:36 PM
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Yeah a tall fit guy can easily get hot thin women for casual sex I've fucked a few thin women over the years. It's not all that. I'll stick with fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:27 PM
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Regardless -- fat women are still getting fucked by fit guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:25 PM
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They have one every July.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:24 PM
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I was at a BBW party last week in Vegas. There were over 100 fat women at the event. Of the guys attending at least 30 were very fit. There weren't enough fit guys to go around without sharing but there were enough that a substantial minority of the fat women got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:04 PM
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We had a suite right by the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:59 PM
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Had lots of sex -- but not with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:34 PM
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I didn't gamble either. I've been accused of being boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:15 PM
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It would have been harder to get him out of the house. Kids need to launch. A few months later I put him on a flight to Alabama for college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:14 PM
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Only if you've already reserved a U-haul truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:12 PM
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Some guys like the hypermasculine older “bear” look Some women too. Thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:08 PM
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Straight men can get away with cargo pants and big tshirts How'd you know what I'm wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:08 PM
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My first weekend of college we had a tequila sunrise party (i.e. drink tequila until the sun comes up). Now, almost 40 years later, I still can't drink the stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:03 PM
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Is drinking a HVM hobby? If it is I suck at it. I was in Vegas for five days last week and had a grand total of four drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:00 PM
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My tendons are a bit sore but daddy stays alpha for now. Sometimes you just have to assert yourself. When my son was 17 I had to wrestle him into submission in our living room. He toed the line for another couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:56 PM
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Only two situatuibs qualify as not casual. 1) You're married; 2) You're living together. Everything else is just casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:50 PM
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women asking me stuff like "what kind of porn do you watch?" Respond by telling her you only divulge that information after you've slept with a woman. Smile and ask her if she likes puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:45 PM
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I'm distinguishing between the super obese and the moderately overweight. A BMI of 30 for an otherwise healthy active person is not going to impact health in any appreciable way. Most people with BMI's of 30 don't even look fat in street clothes. The few pounds difference between a BMI of 26 and a BMI of 30 may change the way a person looks in a swimsuit but it's not going to have much impact on their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:15 PM
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Who you got your money on? Mick or Keith?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:35 PM
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His father was way smarter and a better politician but not nearly as hot. Negative shit stuck to daddy much more. Regardless Pierre was cool AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:55 PM
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We ourselves actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:49 PM
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I was in the Army when Clinton was President. We didn't go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:48 PM
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I get to vent and receive questionable advice here for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:22 PM
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Only you will be older and can’t go back in time to discover yourself in the appropriate way - through your own experiences. Translation = you'll miss out on fucking lots of hot young guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:16 PM
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Have you ever been under fire? If not STFU!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:08 PM
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Women want comfort and security in a partner. We aren’t so shallow that looks is our first and only deciding factor. Comfort and security doesn't make women wet -- hot guys do. I've been around the block enough times to know that being a comfort and security providing beta does get guys scraps of affection. However, only hot guys get a woman's A-game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:06 PM
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He actually told me he loved me within 4 weeks of knowing me. We would talk on the phone for hours. I had no job at the time so he use to buy me breakfast everyday. It wasn’t anything expensive, empanadas which would cost him like 5 dollars at most but it was pretty much everyday. Even close to the end of the relationship he would still bring me breakfast everyday. He would have to walk an hour to drop it off. Yeah -- he seems like a total asshole. No woman could ever love such a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:03 PM
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Secular humanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:00 PM
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A guy can be a rebel without being an asshole. A guy can be aggressive without being a dangerous criminal. It's totally possible to be masculine without being a jerk. I think the difference is how a guy is motivated. Dark triad folks like our former loser President are focused externally -- on what others can do for them -- on what others are saying about them -- on what others think of him. True masculinity is internally focused -- on doing what's right -- on staying focused regardless of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:54 PM
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but you can compensate if you have a good job. Sorry but that just doesn't work anymore (if it ever did).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:59 AM
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I've never actually ever seen or heard a very fat man complaining about his lack of options when it comes to dating or screaming fat acceptance like a lunatic. Because guys know that no one cares and their complaining would be totally useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:55 AM
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I don't view fat men as sexual or romantic options period. This is the way most women feel about fat guys. There are very few female chubby chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:53 AM
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Lots of women want a ’teddy bear’ bodied partner. Some women who like big strong guys will settle for a guy with a lineman-type body when guys with linebacker-type bodies are not available. The vast majority of fat guys do not fit the "teddy bear" mold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:50 AM
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The vast majority of that 70% are only moderately overweight. Being massively obese does indeed have very serious health consequences. However, for otherwise healthy active people being a few pounds overweight is not a health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:36 AM
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Dark triad guys and "bad boys" are not the same thing. Indeed I'd say rebellious types are more likely to be kind -- most importantly more likely to be kind when there's nothing in it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:33 AM
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he knows he has my attention Actually, a lot of us guys can be pretty clueless -- we often don't notice when women are paying us attention. Ironically that often makes the woman in question try even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:02 AM
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unkindness and arrogance Traits most common in conservative asskissers, not bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:59 AM
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You don't even need to show interest. Indeed women seem to almost magically appear when you're not pursuing them. You're just chilling having a beer and listening to the band or staring into the bonfire or whatever and next thing you know theirs a woman standing close looking up at you with big eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:56 AM
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U weren’t deceived, it just didn’t end up how you wanted Seen this so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:50 AM
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Because religion is irrational magical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:48 AM
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No sane man should have a religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:47 AM
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he did say he was a "bad boy" Like the guy who says he's "nice". If you have to say it you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:46 AM
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he cut school and is an illiterate idiot Not all punks are idiots. I skipped school all the time. I got suspended for a few days every other month or so. Hell, I even got arrested several times and spent a couple of nights in jail (but never convicted of any criminal code violation). I eventually made it to college and then grad school (although I still skipped a lot of classes).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:45 AM
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this guy telling me that he believed in me and that I would be able to figure it out OMG! What a manipulative monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:32 AM
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I'm a Canadian for the next two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:50 AM
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Partying with the boss can never be a requirement for promotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:47 AM
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Four.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:51 AM
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No one wants to date a Republican. That's why they're so angry at the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:53 AM
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I like asses even bigger than those ladies. One of my college friends described my preference as "monster booty".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:51 AM
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Sneaks up on you. Just wait till you wake up one day a realize you have seven grandchildren. My youngest kid is about to start middle school. My oldest and his wife recently had their third child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:48 AM
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Nah -- I like big fat sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:34 AM
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Great big fat asses are super sexy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:31 AM
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Lots of very fit men actually like fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:25 AM
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They can lose weight, we can't lose our trauma. In many cases the weight is a response to the trauma. Some people with high ACE scores turn to alcohol and drugs -- some turn to food.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:18 AM
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I'm not sure why you bring them up in a discussion about obesity. A huge percentage of super obese people have high ACE scores. Extreme obesity should never be examined without considering the effects of adverse childhood experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:15 AM
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Massive obesity is often associated with adverse childhood experiences. So the health consequences attributed to obesity in many cases have other contributing factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:11 AM
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Some age fairly decent. I know quite a few 50-year-old BBWs who still look good (and quite a few who don't).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:07 AM
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Not really sure about this whole 'big ass' thing Trust me it's a thing. Always has been a thing. Nothing better than a nice round 60" ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:05 AM
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I'm used to working through stuff by myself. When I'm feeling down I just like to be left alone. I'll listen to music until late at night. When I was younger I'd go to a bar -- sometimes I'd fight --- sometimes I'd find a woman for the night. Sometimes I'd just ride my motorcycle until the sun came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:14 AM
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Last week I found out that a woman I dated in the 90s died of COVID. Two other GFs from the 90s have also died. A high school GF died a few years ago too. A high school buddy also died. I feel a bit sad but since my divorce I don't seem to feel things as deeply as I used to. I have young kids and grandkids. They're always good for lifting one's spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:38 PM
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Not all middle-aged people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:38 PM
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Fewer people would greatly decrease the price of housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:26 PM
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That's what immigration is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:25 PM
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Pretty much every woman I know has had a kid or two or three ... I have four kids and seven grandkids (so far). Don't think people will stop fucking anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:09 PM
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Natural is best for women who can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:18 AM
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I've found five of them so far. Had kids with two of them (both with IQs well over 140).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:17 AM
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Since the Department of Fair Employment and Housing seldom files cases this sweeping they must have uncovered quite a bit of evidence. Guys really need to stop acting like dumbass teenagers when they haven't actually been teenagers for years (or even decades).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:04 AM
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I still buy most of my clothes at thrift stores my six-figure income notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:50 AM
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Women don't want a guy who, to borrow a phrase from Douglas Adams, is mostly harmless. They want a guy who can be dangerous from time to time when the situation requires it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:41 AM
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Sorry, but trophy wives don't come from the trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:59 AM
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I'm quite flexible about most stuff. However, the one thing I won't compromise on is intelligence. If a woman isn't really smart I'm not going to be interested for more than a few days. Smart = an IQ of at least 130.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:46 AM
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If by success you mean the pretty working-class woman gets a plumber instead of a laborer then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:41 AM
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What can I say lots of guys like great big round butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:39 AM
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99% of skincare products are snake oil. Unless you have bad acne soap and water is all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:37 AM
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The class divisions are real. Yeah -- Harvard marries Yale. No amount of makeup and hairstyling is going to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:35 AM
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women don't use men or enhancements to boost themselves up into the class that they want to be in. They certainly do try. However, they seldom succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:32 AM
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A beautiful woman costs and I’m positive a lot of men aren’t aware exactly how expensive the upkeep can be. From lashes($100-120), hair($120-200), nails($100-150) clothes, contacts, skincare($90) waxing and vagacials ($115). Don't need none of that bullshit! My first wife was a cute as a button little punk chick with a shaved head and clothes from the thrift store.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:26 AM
3

WTF? We need to use the criminal justice system a whole lot less not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:16 AM
3

My first wife's friends had nicknamed her the Ice Princess because of the way she distanced herself from guys. My second wife had only had sex twice in the 13 years preceding our meeting. When women see something they like past history/rules go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:24 AM
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I met my first wife by a bonfire at a college year-end party at a lake. We had sex by the shore of the lake before I even knew her name. Unbeknownst to me at the time, my second wife watched me change shirts in her building's parking lot right before we met for the first time. She decided that she'd sleep with me before we even met. We finished off our first date at a Motel 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:14 AM
2

Well understood by those who are not willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:07 AM
2

They work just like any other vaccine. Only the development and manufacturing process is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:06 AM
8

Of course not. That doesn't mean conservative assholes can't make life more difficult for girls and young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:41 AM
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there will be more young women and teen girls becoming single moms before they can get an education and career thus there will be an increase in poverty among women and girls. For trad/cons, that's a feature, not a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:40 AM
1

When I was 16 I wasn’t thinking about it. When I was 16 it was pretty much all I thought about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:34 AM
4

The basic concept of vaccination is age-old and well understood by most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:32 AM
3

Fuck him, and fuck the ignorant assholes like him Evolution got this. Their contributions to the gene pool are being removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:29 AM
5

Darwin in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:26 AM
8

Yeah -- she makes the judgment a minute or two after she first sees you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:08 AM
0

You compensate for cheapness with hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:11 PM
1

Never delved into the backstory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:08 PM
1

Lots of people become sexually active about that age. I lost my virginity at 17 with a 15 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:23 PM
1

California.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:55 PM
2

Yeah, bigger tits and bigger ass. These are good things!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:49 PM
1

Yeah, if you have to convince a woman to go on a date with you the relationship is off to a shaky start.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:45 PM
0

Lots of guys with a little spare cash game women this way. It's a terrible way to gauge interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:43 PM
3

Yeah, I always offer to pay for the first date. However, it's a bit of a shit test. I'll certainly notice if she doesn't at least offer to pay her share in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:41 PM
2

Love. I'm a freakin romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:33 PM
5

If there's no sex you don't actually have a a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:29 PM
2

There's always more -- that's what more means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:27 PM
2

Indy and Marion from Raiders of the Lost Ark. I've always liked fiesty brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:16 PM
0

The local McDonald's starts at $17/HR. The local Wal-Mart pays $24/HR to stock shelves at night. Field workers make $20/HR. 35K per year ain't shit. Also, AA degrees from crappy community colleges are even worse than gender studies degrees from reputable institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:08 PM
2

WTF? Feelings are what this game is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:11 PM
3

And the majority of those degrees are pretty sketchy. Only about 10% of the population are what I would consider educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:09 PM
3

The lives of the 1% are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:03 PM
2

BS! Beta game is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:01 PM
0

Green skin? WTF? Never seen this on anyone who is even remotely healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:59 PM
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The OP seems to confuse looking non- masculine with looking young. It's well established that teenage women like pretty boys who are less than masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:56 PM
1

Fund a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:19 PM
1

It should be common sense by now that ugly and average men can use money as leverage in the dating market Wrong! Unless we're talking about millions of dollars it ain't gonna work. Women will fuck a reasonably hot bus driver before they'd even consider kissing an ugly doctor or lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:18 AM
2

My mom really likes her assisted living home. The architecture is uninspired but the staff is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:15 AM
1

Kids learn to be social and not neurotic at daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:14 AM
1

Once they're old enough to go to the Boy and Girls Club after school it hardly costs anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:12 AM
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Back in the early 90s daycare in Edmonton Alberta cost us $300 per kid per month and the Province gave us a $240 per kid subsidy. Daycare in California for my second set of kids cost $900 per month per kid with no governmental assistance. Having kids is way easier in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:10 AM
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Daycare is great for a child's development. Interacting with other kids and other adults is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:04 AM
3

the other 2 (a lawyer and a professor) are normal guys Top 5% socioeconomic status = normal. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:59 AM
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we’d only ever date someone +10 years older if they were hot AND rich Water is wet and the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:57 AM
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Yeah, for us middle-aged guys women 7-12 years younger seem to be the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:56 AM
1

It's more standing out or separating yourself from the rest of the pack by adorning yourself in extra attention-grabbing tinsel. Fashion is about being unique just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:52 AM
2

Most likely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:44 AM
4

build someone Crapy ROI. Once she's built up she'll want someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:11 AM
2

Whatcha talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:10 AM
2

Buying my first ex-wife a one-way plane ticket to her momma's in Louisiana was the best money I ever spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:01 AM
2

I'm not about to tell women what they can or can't do with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:42 AM
2

Perhaps, but we don't need to fatalisticly accept gross inequality. There is value in struggling for a better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:54 PM
1

Women don't take out tape measures. However, they can and do sniff out fakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:20 PM
1

Only an idiot who claim to be either an alpha or a nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:40 PM
4

Women aren't rewarding bad behavior with sex. They're having sex with hot guys who happen to behave badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:42 PM
2

My dad used to do that all the time when he was the only math guy on a team of MBAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:37 PM
4

I was also a truck driver, heavy equipment operator, oil field worker, US Army intelligence analyst, science teacher, and a cop. I get bored easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:23 PM
2

My five clients are the defendants. It's going to be one of those weeks where you make stuff up on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:20 PM
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I've learned to just ignore schedules. I have five felonies set for trial August 10th. Obviously only one can proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:47 PM
2

Not really effective options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:40 PM
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But they did need to deal with Pinkertons, goons, captive police forces, and occasionally even the National Guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:39 PM
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Like I said workers can't rely on elites to fight for them. They have to fight for themselves. Unions had it even worse before the New Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:16 PM
3

True, but you can't do anything about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:14 PM
1

I'm just a lawyer, not a high flying one, but you're right I'm not going to date a waitress (unless she's working her way through grad school).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:38 PM
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Things only improve when workers collectively fight back. And then only for as long as they continue fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:22 PM
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Don't be fat. Nobody likes fat guys. Fat women get passes. Fat guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:17 PM
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Elites hate workers who think. One of the reasons they're against CRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:13 PM
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Nothing new. Working class people have been yoked to the plow since time first began. Workers have to save themselves by organizing. Elite liberals aren't going to save them. Unfortunately, many workers are more concerned about lies and conspiracy theories than they are about actually improving their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:09 PM
1

How's the song go? "You and me ain't nothing but mammals ... ."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:20 PM
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I'm straight so the gay sexual marketplace is irrelevant to me. Also, wolves are social mammals. We're social mammals. Seems a reasonable model.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:27 PM
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I'm not dehumanizing anyone. I'm just describing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:24 PM
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Historic Bulldogs are from the same family as Mastiffs. Today's Pitbulls don't have much Terrier in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:19 PM
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My undergraduate degree was in earth and environmental science. I use language that seems most appropriate. In today's Tinder driven dating world the language of economic analysis seems to be the best fit. I'm responding to a situation I didn't create.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:03 PM
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Dating occurs in a marketplace like any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:35 PM
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My natural personality is shy and agreeable. Let me tell you how well that worked. I had to train myself to be more arrogant and selfish in order to survive. I liked the old me better. He was a better person. He just wasn't viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:45 PM
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Long hard experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:43 PM
3

abortion over starving children Sad that anyone has to make such a choice in the richest country in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:01 PM
1

Just like Bakersfield exists to make people who live in Fresno and Stockton feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:58 PM
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men just invest in themselves and the woman they’re interested in? Seems like a lot better prospects for return on a real investment. In the modern egalitarian world only the first part of the equation holds. Men need to invest in themselves. Women need to do likewise. If a woman can provide for herself she can come along for the ride. Investing in women has a terrible ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:53 PM
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Seems you're equating being alpha with being toxic. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Alpha's have generally had some privilege and some success in life. They're far less likely to be bitter and resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:49 PM
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most men want a female partner who puts up with him and care about him, not just suck him off. Women care about alphas -- they tolerate betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:44 PM
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The remaining men are "beta" and undesirable even if they are in relationships. Beta men aren't losers. They're ordinary guys with ordinary jobs. They're the majority of the male population. Beta's are often attractive in many ways. However, they don't inspire the visceral physical attraction women crave. I'm basically a beta with just enough alpha characteristics to get laid more than most. When I was married I was a full-on blue pill beta chump. I've posted about how well that worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:38 PM
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Not any more so than any other large powerful dog. I was a cop back in the late 1980s. I handled a lot of vicious dog calls. I had more problems with Black Labs than I did with Pitbulls. The only dog that actually bit me was an Akita.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:28 PM
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Pit bulls are descended from mastiff-type dogs more than actual terriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:05 AM
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They will cheat on a rich guy with a hotter guy. They will not cheat on a hot guy with a rich guy, And they'll cheat on a rich guy with an even richer guy. Branch swinging to a bigger better beta is a thing that needs to be talked about more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:03 AM
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men aren’t marrying the best they ever had either Yes, we are. Both my ex-wives were head and shoulders above their competition. In retrospect, that's pretty damn sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:57 AM
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The devil, as always, is in the details. A 47-year-old dating a 37-year-old is fine. A 37-year-old dating a 27-year-old is also fine. A 27-year-old dating a 17-year-old is not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:42 AM
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Pits generally don't have much prey drive which is different than dog aggression which some (but certainly not all) pits have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:37 AM
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lawless developing country Where the corrupt police shake you down. Where property rights are just a suggestion. Where courts are unwilling or unable to enforce contracts. Where utilities are intermittent. Where that ability to transport goods is marginal. ... Taxes and regulations are the price of civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:55 AM
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It's a dog thing untrained unsocialized black labs or german shepherds will kill cats with just as much gusto. Indeed pitbulls aren't particularly good hunters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:39 AM
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It can be both. Chubby girls who are molested double down on food and become massively obese. Skinny girls who are molested would more likely turn to illicit drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:17 PM
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OK it's 8 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:17 PM
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Many of them become addicts to cope with the pain. The ones I knew became addicted to food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:39 PM
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The devil is in the details. You need just enough to get your buzz on but not so much it impairs performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:32 PM
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I hope thicc goes out of fashion. Not in America -- not any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:03 PM
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Being attracted to people you might actually encounter IRL is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:57 PM
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military intelligence You actually have to have really high test score to go to MI school at Fort Huachuca. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United\_States\_Army\_Intelligence\_Center
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:54 PM
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I've been to my daughters' soccer games the let myself go bod is much more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:49 PM
1

Damn -- my GF is right -- I am addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:44 PM
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materialistic women are high-maintenance, and high-maintenance women are vampires that suck the life out of the people around them. That would be my ex-wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:38 PM
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cheap furniture Craigslist! That's where I've got almost all the furniture I didn't inherit. Looking around my house it seems that the only piece of furniture I bought new is my stereo stand which I bought in 1995 at an unfinished wood furniture store. This drove my ex-wife nuts. One of the first things she did when she moved in with her new guy was order an $8,000 dollar dining room set with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:26 PM
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but for us normal, regular people, how often do you REALLY come across highly materialistic, entitled Karens when trying to date? Entitled Karens are actually much more common among women who weren't born into UMC families but strive to be UMC. In families that have been educated UMC professionals for generations achievement and extremely high levels of competence are what is valued most (that's how they've stayed UMC through multiple generations). Women who strive to be part of the UMC world al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:13 PM
2

Sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:04 PM
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the intensity Bingo -- normal women can be boring and dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:10 AM
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allow married women to fuck anybody they want. Don't they do this already?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:07 AM
3

I like women with short hair in colors not found in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:06 AM
3

My first wife left me for a guy who had great abs -- no job -- but great abs (he was 6'6" too).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:04 AM
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I get approached directly by fatties. Works great for introverted guys who meet the looks standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:00 AM
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Don't know about that. If there are it's only a tiny fraction of the total.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:46 AM
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More accurate to say that obese women hate dating obese men. Sure it sometimes happens but more and more fat women would rather be on an attractive chubby chasers rotation than be in a relationship with a fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:02 AM
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Fatties will be all over what they like (a guy or chocolate cake). But they're not interested in less attractive guys (or broccoli). A common fatty strategy is to go hard for the hot guy in hopes of beating out the thinner competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:48 AM
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Yeah -- fatties look great in two-piece swimsuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:44 AM
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If you can't bag a fatty I have real bad news for you. It's on you. Fatties are damn picky these days -- because they can be -- just like thin women can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:36 AM
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FtM trans think they're going to have an alpha male life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:31 AM
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It's a short-term gig without a retirement plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:29 AM
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I've been with women who weigh more than twice what I weigh -- and I'm not small.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:11 AM
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No! 13 years old or thereabouts is when mothers deposit daughters at their father's place. Mom says something like "she's just like you -- you deal with her".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:06 AM
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As a general rule fat women don't like fat men at all. Of course there are always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:26 PM
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My recollection of 1995 is that she was much more interested in a hotter guy who she did pursue. She's never been shy about going after what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:22 PM
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She was trying to be cute but revealed a little too much. Besides a little validation is nice from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:19 PM
1

My fault again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:16 PM
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It's always the guys fault. Hung out with an old friend for a few hours this past weekend. Apparently she had to endure a terrible 14 year marriage because I didn't pursue her vigorously enough in 1995.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:14 PM
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I've been in this game for a very long time. There were lots of guys who hardly ever fucked back in prehistoric times too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:09 PM
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The 80/20 split existed long before the internet. Hot guys in the 1970s got way more than their proportionate share of the action. Not hot guys got scraps (just like now). The 80% gets some action. They're generally not totally shut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:00 PM
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She'll be happy until her looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:56 PM
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Trophy husbands certainly are a thing -- women just land them earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:17 PM
3

Yeah -- that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:38 PM
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Dating requires some minimum basic assumption of good faith. And also an awareness of female proclivities. A guy can be aware of the downsides of "women's nature" without hating women. Indeed I really enjoy the company of women. However, I have to love women for what they are not what I'd like them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:29 PM
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Less attractive people have to pick their poison. She can have sex with hot guys until she gets too old for hot guys to want to fuck her or she can settle down with a guy she finds marginally attractive at best. Only top-tier people get fairy tale endings. The rest of us make compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:18 PM
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My friends used to joke about how ugly one of my exes was but to this day I’m attracted to him because of the energy we have together. But for some reason he's your "ex".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:09 PM
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Men care way more about what other men and society think about the women they're with. I've noticed that a lot - status. Everyone cares about status to some extent. However, it's been my experience that women care about the status of their partners far far more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:06 PM
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men can enjoy fucking women they're not attracted to No! I can have great fun fucking a 5 or 6 if she's into it and she's generally a cool person. However, I'm not going to want to fuck a 3. I can be attracted to a less-than-perfect woman. However, I'm still attracted. I certainly don't want to fuck a woman I'm not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:01 PM
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a woman still won't be viscerally attracted, she won't have the tingles, she won't have the involuntary and instinctive desire to please and physically touch the man she's "lowering" her standards for. Very true! Life's a shit deal for guys who are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:58 PM
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What's that word? Starts with a "c".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:54 AM
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I haven't met a woman who can't go at least once a day. Some multiple times. If you can't do it at least 10 times per week it's time to see a doctor regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:51 AM
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Sluts are even better -- they're a lot more fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:49 AM
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The difference between 40% and 20% BF is huge too. I really need to take it to the next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:46 AM
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I have a super oily scalp Me too. I just wash my hair with the same bar of soap I wash my body with. Works great. And it doesn't cost anything (I have a basket full of little bars of soap I've liberated from hotels).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:42 AM
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I'm never paying for a haircut again. Bought clippers for $39 at the height of the pandemic. I've cut my hair myself five times now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:34 AM
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therapy = a bottle of whiskey and dark music
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:32 AM
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Hot guys don't need to know what women want. All that matters is women want them. Hot guys don't need to be functional -- just decorative is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:30 AM
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Had to Google Travis Barker. Weird guy but he's not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:28 AM
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Women are consumers. They want to be sold a fix. The boring reality of plain healthy living doesn't compute for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:24 AM
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She needs to bring more than just her pussy to the table. If she brings pussy, 500 acres, and a herd of goats then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:18 AM
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I like tall women. I had a thing with a female college basketball player back in 2004. She was 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:14 AM
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Like they'll fool anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:02 AM
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as long as they haven't ruined their ability to like and pair bond with average men. Never existed in the first place so nothing to get ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:48 PM
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Hormones affect metabolisms rates as does response to low and high temperature. Metabolism rates are actually much higher when it's really hot (air conditioning makes people fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:43 PM
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The CO portion of the equation can fluctuate dramatically independent of exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:54 PM
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Most people gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:01 PM
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A nice dick helps with referrals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:57 PM
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I had a crush on the chubby girl who sat in front of me in 4th grade. I've liked fat women ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:53 PM
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Guys need to be internally motivated. You do things because you want to not because of what people think. I date fat women because I think they're hot and dating them makes me happy. I don't give a shit what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:50 PM
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I'm sure NYC mourns your absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:05 PM
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That's right Trumpian America, California is a shit hole stat away. Please stay far away. The farther the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:00 PM
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Droughts and wildfires are part of California's ecosystem. They're nothing new. California's in such bad shape it's running a $75,000,000,000.00 budget surplus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:54 AM
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It's still mostly fly over country. Other than Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:50 AM
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The vast majority of ya'll are bitter AF I think I pull off bitter AF and simultaneously hopefully optimistic quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:32 AM
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I was catching up with an old friend by the pool this afternoon. Turns out she was dumped by one of my ex-girlfriend's ex-husband who's now decided he's gay. Life's freakin hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:25 AM
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Group a guys behind us who look like this. Women like attractive young guys. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:20 AM
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women actually like being objectified By the right guys -- of course they do. This is common knowledge and easily observable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:12 AM
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Sorry, but they've not. Nothing personal. Its just biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:11 PM
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You have to be willing to be a social person for any of this to work. That's most likely the problem. I'm very introverted IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:53 PM
1

The big and jiggly!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:06 PM
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If you're not willing to work through the aftermath of a traumatic brain injury (the only thing I can think of that could change a person that much) then, no, you didn't really love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:05 PM
1

Maybe I've been going to the wrong gyms but I've never once got a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:58 PM
2

That's what freezing to death feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:56 PM
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Femine woman = a woman who loves to have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:53 PM
3

We both grew up in an old school Tory matrix. Closest thing in the USA would be old school New England Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:22 PM
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Imagine a world where people didn't over think this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:04 PM
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At least one. Congratulations you're a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:59 PM
2

We have similar backgrounds so much of what he says sounds very familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:49 PM
2

The University of Alberta has 35,000 students. I only know we went to school together because our bios match. We also went to high school in nearby northern Alberta counties. The closest personal connection is that one of my brother's best friends is the daughter of one of his high school teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:27 PM
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I actually went to undergrad with Professor Peterson at the University of Alberta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:07 PM
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My oldest daughter was a bit upset when she realized we got her nickname from that song. But it turned out to be somewhat prophetic -- "her eyes are a deeper blue -- she likes her hair that color too".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:04 PM
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So instead of doing that they prefer to just use men for sex. I'm perfectly fine with this. I get sex from a woman who actually wants to fuck me and get to keep my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:41 PM
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There is no solution. Life is pain and struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:29 PM
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They're my favorite band but pretty much every woman I know hates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:26 PM
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​ Let's be honest are there any women out there who actually let guys play Social Distortion in their presence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 PM
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In long term relationships, it’s usually a pattern of behavior rather than one single thing. I'd say in LTRs it's that one person comes to think that they have a better option and their subconscious helps them out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:32 PM
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Yeah, my GF has a friend who lives with two guys. All three are less than attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:56 AM
2

Sadly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:53 AM
2

I was broke AF until I started making over 100K.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:50 AM
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a high degree of assortative mating both for education and attractiveness. In other news -- water is wet and the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:45 AM
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You probably got the sanitized version of your parent's love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:43 AM
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The big difference was they did not sleep with those people until there was a commitment Yeah right -- young people have sex -- always have -- always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:42 AM
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Sluts and hoes are two totally different animals. Ain't no one want a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:37 PM
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Education is a proxy for income though Education and money are related. However, they're not that closely tied. Educated people with moderate incomes have more social status than many less-educated rich people. Lots of plumbers make as much or more than I do. Regardless I have way more social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:43 PM
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Educational hypergamy is not a thing and has never been a thing Don't know what world you're living in but it's the single most important predictor. And it's about a lot more than just money. Graduates from top-tier schools are very different than graduates from also ran schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:39 PM
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educational hypogamy is rapidly advancing So basically the OP's cited study refutes his thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:35 PM
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the definition of hypergamy the "Manosphere" uses differs from the kind of hypergamy social sciences defines. Exactly. For educated professional folks, family background means little. However, all the other metrics of mate quality become all the more important. An Ivy League graduate with a six-figure career is not going to marry a community college graduate who's an assistant manager at the local strip mall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:33 PM
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Got my old Vegas hotels mixed up. I was thinking of the pools at the Stardust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:17 PM
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I respect women (and men) who deserve respect. Hoes generally don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:13 PM
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Not hoes. However, there's nothing more loyal than a slut in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:10 PM
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Yeah, women can sell themselves if they like. However, guys are equally able to decide they don't want to date hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:06 PM
1

I met my first wife when we were both 18. We had our first kid five years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:30 PM
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Guess cool's ROI isn't what it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:48 PM
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The Plaza has a decent roof top pool. The old Sands had great pools with rooms that opened onto the pool area. So of course they had to blow it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:31 PM
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Yeah, the thing is that only a minority of men get to participate on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:36 AM
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It's actually hard for a lot of big guys to lie. It goes against our internalized personal codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:31 AM
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They're more than willing to take their place in Chad's rotation. Call it whatever you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:27 AM
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Women share Chad mostly sequentially not concurrently. Judy dates Chad 1st quarter of the year. Becky dates Chad 2nd quarter. Tasha gets him 3rd quarter. Stacy gets Chad for the holidays. None think they're actually sharing him -- but they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:19 AM
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I dated 30 something women for over 30 years. I've moved on to 40 something women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:13 AM
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There's a BBW party at the Plaza.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:58 PM
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Compared to some of the women here my GF's ass is actually on the smaller side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:43 PM
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Yes. But you need the cash just to live in NYC and partake in it's offerings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:53 PM
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I know. Spent the night with a plump English woman last time I was in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:28 PM
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How un-American. We're the land of excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:23 PM
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What? You don't like 400 pound women in two piece bathing suits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:14 PM
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There were quite a few guys from down under in the geology department of my Canadian alma mater. Never had any problem with any of them but they're very competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:13 PM
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You better have a fat bank account for NYC. If you do it's a great place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:05 PM
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If you think Aussies and Kiwis don't like fighting you're in for a bit of a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:03 PM
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I'm in Las Vegas for the next few days. I'm surrounded by scantily clothed fat women. Doesn't get any better than this!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:01 PM
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Yeah, not sure what rock the OP is hiding under. Being hot gets you laid. However, if you want a LTR/marriage you better have the appropriate social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:41 PM
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Who's denying it. People like sex. Men like pussy. Women like dick. We all like instant sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:55 PM
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I reserve the right to be judgmental AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:04 PM
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Guys don't spend years learning the fine are of the selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:41 PM
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they could be interested in you for who you are LOL! They say that but they don't mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:40 PM
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Like a lot of things, sexual marketplace value is hard to define but most people know it when they see it. Back in 2005 I dated two women who were superficially very similar. They looked so similar they could easily have been mistaken for sisters. They had similar UMC but ethnic backgrounds. However, one was just sexier and more fun than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:20 AM
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Vanilla -- boring I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:28 AM
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She's not ugly. She's a cute, ever so slightly chubby, woman who looks like she'd be fun to hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:34 PM
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Or he likes chubby women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:17 PM
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My high school buddy's mom worked at a truck stop restaurant. I learned to like strong black coffee hanging out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:47 PM
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I really don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:18 PM
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In the late 80s health unit nurses in Alberta visited new mothers and thereafter mailed notices about shots and other milestone-related issues. Maybe they do that stuff online now if you signup. Regardless it was dead easy for parents to get pre and postpartum care in 1980s and early 90s Alberta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:45 PM
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Why not? They keep better records than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:24 AM
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They chose who they want to have sex with. Nothing wrong with that option. Women just need to stop trying to deny/hide their motives behind clouds of virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:19 AM
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just a red piller scam to make seeking sexual partners cheaper and more expedient for men? Damn right! I expect an LTR/wife to make my life better emotionally, sexually, and materially. Otherwise, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:15 AM
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In the USA schools will let you know if your kid(s) need a shot. In Canada the local health unit kept track. No need to obsess about this stuff. I bring my kids to work so often my littlest daughter refers to the storage room as "her office".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:10 AM
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"Being around" your children is not parenting, Actually, that's about 90% of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:06 AM
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Only if the sex was lackluster or worse and she was a not any fun to hangout with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:50 PM
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Have you actually studied social science? Exacting analysis of BS data produces -- guess what -- BS conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:43 PM
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Then that man becomes less interested, sees you as a “hoe” No, you're inserting your preconception. We don't see such women as hoes. We see them as disappointments. I've fucked many women on the first or second date and then never wanted to see them again. I didn't see them as hoes. I saw them as women who just, for one reason or another, didn't live up to expectations. It was almost always a bit sad. I had high expectations for several and when it became clear these expectations would not be me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:53 PM
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Historically single men in the USA got next to nothing. They've made things gender-neutral now so single women without kids get next to nothing as well now. However, since poor women often have custody of kids and poor men seldom do it's mostly poor men outside the American welfare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:31 PM
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Most men are increasingly depending on the welfare state for support. In the USA single men get almost no welfare at all. Food aid -- that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:42 AM
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Otherwise, Beta Bux wouldn't be a thing. Beta bucks game is dying. Indeed for many, it's already dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:39 AM
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Social science and hard science are two very different animals. Social science doesn't require the precision of hard science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:36 AM
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Doesn't matter as female responses to sexual stimuli are pretty much universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:26 AM
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Femboy's have a constituency but it's much much smaller than that of traditionally masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:36 PM
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One of my ex-wife's best friends introduced my ex to the guy she dumped me for. That friend had previously ranted about the sanctity of marriage to anyone who would listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:16 AM
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Yeah -- good buffets are expensive these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:43 PM
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If a short man can value himself, stand up straight with his shoulders back, and not care what others think, he is always going to be more attractive in my eyes than a bitter or cynical tall guy. Not in the eyes of most women. People need to choose their parents well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:22 PM
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The only time it might put a guy over the top is if they’re both the same level of physically attractive. Exactly! It's what separates the winners from the runner-ups. It's not going to help guys who aren't in contention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:07 PM
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You might have a point but for the fact that women still reward the winners of male competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:54 PM
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​ Many of us introverts would actually like to interact more. We just suck at it. I remember my freshman year of college going for weeks without anything other than perfunctory interactions -- and then when there was an opportunity for an actual interaction messing it up -- and then having lots of time to think about how badly I just screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:37 PM
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People can achieve great intimacy without sex. Sure -- but not very often. For guys, the vast majority of intimacy occurs after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:56 PM
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Intimacy in a romantic relationship occurs only after having sex. This seems self-evident to me but many women here can't seem to grasp this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:55 PM
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“What’s the use of friends?” Guys say this after experience has taught them that when women use the term "friends" they most often mean useful idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:46 PM
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A lot of guys here are extreme introverts who want sex, but don't like any other human much less women. We don't like other humans but we'll drag a female back to our cave every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:43 PM
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her friends seemed pretty anti cheating, Wait for it -- they'll change their tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:53 PM
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I'm more concerned about what his face is like, his weight, if he has hair, etc. I don't think this is unlike other women either. It's always a package deal no doubt but when there can only be one winner its height that often puts one guy over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:50 PM
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girlfriends pulled me aside at different points in the night saying stuff like "ill kill you if you break her heart" or "you better not do her wrong" or stuff like that. But when she cheats on you they're all "you go, girl."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:12 AM
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Most guys I know aren’t that into casual, and got bored of it. Only a certain type of woman makes a good FWB. They have to be attractive so you want to come back and have a personality that doesn't grow old real quick. However, they also must be someone you wouldn't rather be in an LTR with. Not many women can walk that tightrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:10 AM
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I do believe men should give the "casual" lifestyle a good try, so that they can disabuse themselves of the notion that sleeping around in the long-term provides a happy, fulfilling life. I was never a really successful player (I once managed to get dumped by both my then GFs on the same day). However, I did have fun trying for a while. In the summer of 1984, I managed to sleep with three different women in one week. In 2003 I shared a hotel room with two women and spent the night going back and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:05 AM
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For heaven's sake, start charging money for the shoes! Not everything can be monetized. Indeed some things (i.e. love) lose all their value when monetized. The value of any woman who openly monetizes her sexuality plummets like a stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:56 AM
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Didn't think they made any noticeable difference. Didn't do anything about his belly which wasn't huge but enough to destroy the image he was trying to create.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:00 AM
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I know a guy who had pec implants -- weird AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah -- most doctors I know IRL are incredibly low-key.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:08 AM
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Women wearing 5X Spanx aren't fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:11 AM
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The Buffet - The buffet is a disreputable place because it promotes indulgence Hell yeah! If she insatiable at the buffet she's likely to be insatiable in bed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:32 AM
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I liked the chubbiest brown haired girl in my 4th grade class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:48 PM
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He's six feet tall when he's standing on his wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:19 PM
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The days of fatties being easy lays are long gone. Today's attractive young fatties are more than willing to wait for and/or share chubby chaser Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:06 PM
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Didn't you hear? All men are scary AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:00 PM
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I'm 6'4". I've had several 5'3" GF's. One GF was only 5'1". I actually prefer taller women. However, it's short women who seem to prefer me. The 5'3" women include a young lady from Tottenham who came up and pinched my butt while I was drinking a beer at a London club.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:15 PM
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Yes. Fat women behave pretty much exactly like thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:10 PM
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friend liked women that I truly thought had the bodies of literally 12 year old boys I had a friend like that. We hunted well together. He'd take the skinny girl. I'd take her fat friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:09 PM
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There are so many men who are into bigger women or women of a certain race but are afraid to date them because men will side eye them. Men care a lot about what other men think of them. This is where being an introvert who doesn't care what other people think becomes an advantage. My GF is fat and black.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:05 PM
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Obesity doesn't slam female attractiveness until middle age. First, there are fewer fat young women. Second, and more importantly, young fatties are still attractive to a large segment of the male population. Sadly, many fatties age poorly so that by middle age only a minority of fat women remain attractive (the wall hits many fatties hard). I say this as a guy who actually prefers fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:02 PM
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the 80/20 rule (which is often misunderstood) individual women find far less than 20% of men attractive. I'd estimate the average woman finds maybe 5% of men attractive. This is an important point. 20% of guys have some female constituency. That doesn't mean that all or even a majority of women think a particular member of the 20% is attractive. It's just that enough women find each member of the top 20% attractive so that as a whole that class of men has a fairly easy time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:58 PM
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Confidence is nearly universally seen as attractive. Funny thing is that attractive masculine men are much more likely to be seen as confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:50 PM
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men are more predictable Big tits and big round butts!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:49 PM
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They don't all want 6'4" Luckily enough women do that I've, for the last four decades, always been able to have a GF/wife despite being an introvert who can't flirt at all (and at times a very fat one at that).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:47 PM
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Few men are 6-6'4. This is exactly why they're so valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:42 PM
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She doesn't want a guy taller than most women. She wants a guy taller than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:41 PM
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Just like most men cannot get it up for a 300 pound land whale, Yeah -- that is a bit small. 400 pounds or go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:51 AM
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I said "should"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:17 PM
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Some things are to be won in (metaphorical mostly) combat. Buying such things reduces their value to nothing. Competing against other men and winning is what's best in life. Competing and losing is second best. Choosing not to compete at all is the coward's way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:19 PM
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they'll fuck him for their own sexual pleasure This is the only reason a woman should ever fuck a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:40 PM
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Yeah, it helps guys weed out sexually repressed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:38 PM
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It's a great way to filter out the men women actually want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:37 PM
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Not putting out is just a good way vet out undesirable men. i.e. To weed out guys who aren't easily controllable and who aren't easily separated from their resources. It's a great way for women to vet for Beta Bux guys. As an added bonus it doesn't cost women anything since they don't actually want to sleep with Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:35 PM
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Asexualism is an uninteresting non-issue. Bringing it up added nothing to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:03 PM
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With asexuals there's really nothing to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:23 PM
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I'm an atheist. Religion degrades everything it touches,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:14 PM
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Asexuals are an irrelevant anomaly. They're not part of the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:11 PM
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Specious argument regarding children -- that's a totally different kind of love. Asexuals are an irrelevant anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:08 PM
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Your logic makes sense only if you view sex as a commodity to be monetized. The paradox is that sex loses all value when it's monetized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:24 AM
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Many people are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:15 AM
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Sex with someone you love is a spiritual experience, not a hedonistic one, WTF? NO!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:30 AM
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Sex is only one of several prerequisites for love. You can have sex without love -- but you cannot have love without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:29 AM
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Inmate transport issues are messing with my plan to go home early.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:53 PM
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Exactly. If he accepts that soul sucking new job he'll never make enough to compensate for his diminished attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:39 PM
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Great, now I'm thinking about the chubby girl who used to snuggle into my chest during slow songs at Jr. High dances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:10 PM
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Sure is amusing to watch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:03 PM
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My world is destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:56 PM
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My ex-wife's new husband's name really is Bill. She has it set up so that she lives in his very well appointed home but hardly ever has to share a bed with him. He wanted to retire. She convinced him to take a night shift job even though they don't really need the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:54 PM
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Billy can see her inner unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:50 PM
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Billy's not withdrawing anything. Once a month duty sex is more than he's ever had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:49 PM
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Guess it means more if you have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:46 PM
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Billy gets left at home on "girls' night out".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:44 PM
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Yeah, I don't plan on doing more than four hours actual work today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:40 PM
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Of course guys are blindsided. Women send mixed signals all the time: "I love you so much" ... "Maybe you should look for a better job (that will be soul sucking)" ... "I don't know what I'd do without you" ... "Why do you think you keep getting passed over for promotion" ... . Guys don't want to think their wives are grasping gold diggers so they internalize the compliments and assume the complaints are just her way of encouraging him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:37 PM
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Doesn't say much about the quality of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:14 PM
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True -- provided she's paying for the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:08 PM
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This line of female logic makes absolutely no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:05 PM
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No quality man is going to be seriously interested until the woman demonstrates she has more than just sex to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:57 PM
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If all a woman has to offer is sex it follows that -- from that particular woman -- all guys want is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:26 PM
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The disruptions caused by waves of plague laid the groundwork for the renaissance. Entrenched orders don't change until they are forced to. Also, The post-plague recession This hit the wealthy only. The demand for the labor of ordinary folks greatly increased. The amount of land and resources available to ordinary survivors greatly increased. Recessions don't affect everyone equally (as we've seen very recently). When the cause of recession is a demographic decline the economic position of survi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:12 PM
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Wages rose and huge swathes of society had more money to spend on consumer goods, from beer to clothing to furniture. With fewer people to feed, the largely agricultural economy could focus more on livestock or specialty cash crops like hops or sugarcane instead of grain. Diets improved and, plague aside, so did health. More and more people were drawn into the market economy and trade networks grew wider and deeper. https://deadspin.com/after-the-black-death-europes-economy-surged-1821060986
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:53 PM
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People who don't want to take any risks had best just stay in their mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:43 PM
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A shortage of labor sucks for super-rich capitalists. It's great for ordinary folks. Living standards and prospects of ordinary people in Europe increased greatly after plagues removed 1/3 of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:41 PM
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Educated professionals have the most stable longest-lasting marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:28 PM
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Last I looked humans aren't even close to being an endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:40 AM
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Real engineers and doctors have no problem getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:11 PM
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Weak people don't contribute much anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:16 PM
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It's not a crisis. Strong males sire children -- weak males don't. That's how nature works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:50 PM
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Socialism allows women to select primarily for looks which is exactly what they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:45 PM
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Birthrates will drop in Africa too as the continent develops economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:50 PM
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We were both sober that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:42 PM
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Western women doesn’t mean white women. It means any woman who grew up in a western country. And every woman who aspires to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:57 PM
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Mexican women Are in my experience (I was married to one) even more AWALT than native-born American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:56 PM
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99% of skincare products are snake oil. Want good skin? Don't smoke -- don't drink too much -- eat your fruits and vegetables -- and choose your parents well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:53 PM
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It's been my experience that fat and previously abused go together. Almost all the really fat women I've met had been sexually abused when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:49 PM
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It was her first consensual experience (she'd been date raped in high school). She was my 5th.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:42 PM
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She had weight loss surgery (insurance paid for most of that). Then a 360 degree full-body lift (they removed 22 pounds of excess skin). Then she had her arms done (another 7 pounds of skin removed). And then she had her breasts reconstructed. So, yeah, pretty much a whole new body. It was her idea. I thought she looked fine fat. I paid for it because I wanted her to be happy. I was a giant dumbass blue pill chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:38 PM
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it's gonna work out is if the girl does it for me Women don't escalate directly they make it clear they want the guy to escalate. If he's too clueless to pick up on her signals the night is not going to end well for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:32 PM
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That's one way to do it. I met my first wife at a party when we were both 18. We had sex about 20 minutes later before we even knew each other's names.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:27 PM
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simply putting my hand on the small of her back while walking into the restaurant turned her on so bad. Guys have to she strategic and set up these instances of casual physical contact. For example at bars or coffee places I always look for a place we can sit or stand side-by-side rather than across a table. This makes initial casual physical contact much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:23 PM
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It a back and forth -- push and pull. If she's not into it and doesn't participate the date's basically over and she's not getting another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:17 PM
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Yeah -- I always had a thing for Ann Wilson. She filled out nicely as she aged. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ann\_Wilson#/media/File:AnnWilsonHWOFSept2012.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:06 PM
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Sorry but it's no longer 1978.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:03 PM
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women with implants Funny thing -- I paid for 40K of plastic surgery for my ex-wife -- I sold a house I'd owned since before we were married to pay for that. She met her new husband just a few months after the last procedure (new boobs). He was an engineer with lots of accumulated stock options and little dating experience (i.e. an easy target) who ironically worked at a company that made medical silicon including 80% of the silicone used in breast implants in the USA. I paid to increase my ex-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:00 PM
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She had a career and talked a good game regarding her plans for advancement. Turns out she didn't actually want to put in the work that was required though. Regardless her pension was by far the largest asset to be divided in the divorce. She was not happy I got a big chunk. Every time she gets a raise or promotion the value of my share of her pension increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:54 PM
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I get paid at least 40% more here in California than I would in low-cost states. Gas isn't $5 a gallon. I can still fill up my Prius for less than $30.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:46 PM
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She went to Catholic schools in South American and then Catholic colleges in the USA for both undergrad and grad school. She never had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:01 AM
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You can thank the Catholic Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:08 AM
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She was only tolerable in small doses. Being married to such a person would have been a living hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:25 AM
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Non-unicorn crowd. LOL! I went to undergrad in the world's most woke countriy. I went to grad school at a college famous for its left wing politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:17 PM
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I'll pass on that kind of hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:51 PM
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Nothing in life is ever absolute. Let's just say for most guys the chances of meeting and successfully capturing a unicorn approaches zero. When a number approaches zero for everyday calculations we can treat it as zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:08 PM
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I’m willing to pass up immediate gratification in light of long-term gratification, so why can’t you? Why should guys? We can fuck the imperfect women while waiting for that unicorn. If no unicorn ever materializes at least we got our share as we passed through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:02 PM
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Thinking it's women advocating for casual sex. Women virtue signal like crazy when they talk and write. However, watch what they do and it becomes clear that women are all for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:59 PM
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Tattoos are fairly mainstream My point exactly -- they've become boring AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:53 PM
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I met my ex-wife when she 36. She was 37 when we got married. When she decided she wanted a divorce she was 46. She said she didn't want to try and hold on because if things didn't work out she didn't want to be starting over at 50. Of course, she didn't care that I'd be starting over at 53.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:46 PM
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women get married to betas and don't divorce them Unless a bigger better beta comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:40 PM
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there are no unicorns and it's only a matter of time before she cheats (if she hasn't already), branch swings and divorce rapes me. For eight years I thought I was married to a unicorn. I was mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:38 PM
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dudes with tattoo sleeves Rebellious individuals -- just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:31 PM
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Becomes less frequent as you get older because most everyone is in a committed arrangement The cadence changes but the song remains the same. It's not at all unusual for a guy to marry multiple women within a social group in sequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:28 PM
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Certainly doesn't happen in every social circle but its not that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:24 PM
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I have: One car. A prepaid cell phone but no landline. No cable. Only fly Southwest or Spirit. Even with that and the fact I make a low six-figure income I can't afford the life my parents had. Their first house in 1965 was a brand new four-bedroom colonial in Stony Brook on Long Island. They bought it new on an assistant professor's salary. Then there's the thing about my dad landing a tenure track position before he even finished his PhD. That doesn't happen anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:55 PM
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so you don't believe monogamy even exists? I'd like to believe. Unfortunately observing the world as it is makes that very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:05 PM
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the biggest blind spot TRP has: social game Not really. Extroverts with large social circles use social game. If a guy is an introvert with few friends (like many on TRP) social game just isn't going to work. Thus, it makes sense for TRP to concentrate on strategies that might actually work IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:01 PM
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Preselection. If she's heard good things about him most of her vetting has already been done for her. Envy. People often want what others have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:57 PM
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If I hook up with a guy and he hooks up with my friend a month later I don't see that as "sharing" him with my friend, it's two discrete events. This is how things work IRL. Call it sharing or don't -- it doesn't matter -- hot guys rotate among several women -- not hot guys get shut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:43 PM
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it’s basically something you live with forever. If that's their fate guys need to stop being such pussies and learn to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:37 PM
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But women do look cute in fannel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:09 PM
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Stop being such a pussy. Seriously, guys need to understand that the world never was fair and never will be fair. Life can suck -- but it can also be pretty damn cool. There's no requirement to be happy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:53 PM
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Several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:53 PM
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My first house was a 980 sq. ft. Cape Cod built in 1947. I know we've supersized some expectations. However, even if you downsize material expectations many still can't live a middle-class life today. A middle-class life includes access to good quality schools and other services -- stability -- the occasional vacation ... . It's more than the square footage of your house and how many cars are in the garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:51 PM
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If a woman is over 30 and still a virgin that's a serious red flag. Guys need to stay away from older virgins -- unless they want a stalker. I fucked a 40-year-old virgin 15 years ago before I married my second wife. More than a decade later when she found out I was divorced she showed up at my office as a "surprise". My office is in California -- she lives in Pennsylvania.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:42 PM
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Like in business referrals are a thing. Do a good job servicing a woman -- she'll tell her friends -- sooner or later some of her friends will come knocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:37 PM
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Korean women in particular, are very status driven. They expect more of a man than many can provide, Just like American women. What's the acronym I'm looking for -- AWALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:33 PM
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unpaid internships, short term jobs and the difficulty of being hired long term, abusive boss etc. Sounds like America. I have my very own unpaid intern for the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:30 PM
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Women don’t find men with high counts attractive because they have high counts. They have high counts because they’re attractive. We can add this to the list of self-evident truths that somehow escape so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:27 PM
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the "logic" of women finding "available" men less attractive doesn't make any sense and actually increases the likelihood of setting themselves up for failure LOL! You were expecting logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:25 PM
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every second-generation immigrant I've ever known or have been aware of has completely failed to maintain their original cultures and most of them can't even speak their parent's or grandparents first language That's exactly how it works. I can't speak Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:24 PM
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you're leaving the comfort of your home culture behind Most do just that. Most people escaping shitty situations want to westernize as quickly as possible. Europe and increasingly the USA makes this difficult which leads to backsliding into fundamentalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:22 PM
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some cultures despite moving west are still practicing the backwards medieval elements of their cultures A small portion. Most immigrants are assimilating at record speed. At least in the USA and Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:20 PM
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Boomers have Instagram accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:12 PM
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As long as her life partner is getting her sexual A-game I'm not seeing anything wrong. The problem is in many of these types of relationships the guy isn't getting fucked regularly or enthusiastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:03 PM
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Do women not understand why this is so disgusting? I'm a guy and it doesn't seem disgusting at all. If the woman is indeed looking for an equal partner and not just support in her post-Chad sexual retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:00 PM
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"Stop being a pussy" type thinking Won't work for organic mental illness like schizophrenia -- but works great for things like depression that are a lot easier to work through once you stop expecting the world to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:53 PM
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the most humiliating degrading sex Hardly. The OP's description was nothing but everyday intense sex. Thinking a lot of guys here have never experienced anything but starfish sex. ​ call me a slut and pound me till I'm about to pass out Is there really any other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:47 PM
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So then there's no reason for guys to ever change their ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:42 PM
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The guy working 60 hours a week is not going to have the energy to hit the gym This is very true. After I got married I worked my regular job and took extra cases that I worked on at night. Given it was the middle of the Great Recession I was thankful I still had a decent job. My wife, however, had expensive tastes. I failed to meet expectations and she bailed (but not until she'd lined up a much richer beta chump). Between work, stress, and lack of exercise to was a wreck when my ex left. Took …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:08 AM
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Sand or unsanded grout -- epoxy or not -- choosing the right grout is an essential part of any good tile job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:55 AM
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I actually miss going to the home improvement store. Being a landless peasant sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:33 AM
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On the beach again We went to the beach today but had to retreat back home because it was so damn cold. I got a fire going in the stove in July. We need to move to one of those places experiencing a heatwave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:47 AM
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People make a big deal about taking care of kids. It's really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:14 AM
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Then theres the psycho slut who has no regard for the loser of a man she marries and is just looking for stability and he knows no better. She WILL cheat and take all his money. I see you've met my ex-wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:40 AM
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Petulant children always blame their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:38 AM
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It takes very little to keep baby humans alive. I haven't killed one yet (my youngest spawn is on the sofa watching Goosebumps).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:36 AM
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and take a shower? There's a water shortage in California. Young guys are just being woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:09 AM
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I'm sure there are lots of guys who would love to have their only real responsibility be to keep in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:42 PM
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men know they can get away with not looking so great Those days are long gone. Feminists rejoice, unreasonable and unattainable beauty standards are now universal. Ain't equality grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:36 PM
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A working class family in the past could afford, on a simple factory jobs wage, to have a home, a stay at home wife, etc. On his income. For one generation -- early 1950s to early 1970s. The height of American union membership. Want to bring back something approaching a livable wage -- bring back unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:32 PM
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SSBBWs can be hot. https://eve.bigcuties.com/previews/oldpreviews/036eve\_ff.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:19 PM
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America is... The land of pretty black and brown women with enormous booties. God bless the USA!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:22 PM
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Most criminals are boring AF -- most are incels or damn close. Lots of smart guys go out and drink -- and even get into the occasional bar fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:18 PM
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You'll become whatever the male version of a crazy cat lady is waiting for such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:15 PM
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In major coastal cities it's almost always cheaper to rent. In flyover country it's often cheaper to buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:07 PM
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Pretty much anywhere in California. A decent but not fancy ranch house is going to set you back at least 700K. Appartments can still be had for less than 2K per month. I rent a 2 bedroom house for $1750 per month. The mortgage payment (including taxes and insurance) on a similar house nearby would be at least twice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:05 PM
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It's always annoyed me that when I date fat women lots of people think I'm dumpster diving, just looking for an easy lay, or somehow seeking to take advantage of a poor fat girl. It never seems to occur to some people that a guy could actually prefer fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:46 PM
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or will not offer a high quality of living to a woman for a SAHM life on his one salary Why the hell would any guy ever do that unless he's so rich he can support a SAHM with his pocket change.? For us ordinary guys there's no ROI with a SAHM. There's a much better ROI when she works and doubles the family income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:37 PM
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As long as my partner covers his half of shared expenses If he can cover half of the rent on a crappy apartment but not half the mortgage on the house you want you'll start to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:32 PM
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Back in the early 2000's I have a rather energetic 450 pound FWB. I had to reinforce my bed with some extra lumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:17 PM
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I always seem to get banned for a day or three when there are good posts to reply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:15 PM
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good Americans have neatly-manicured green lawns I don't have a lawn to mow -- I have a forest that I hack back occasionally so that it doesn't engulf our house. I never have to buy firewood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:12 PM
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I've got excellent reviews from my new boss since I lost weight. Got promoted to the top tier for my position. Not really anywhere to go now without moving to a new organization.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 11:34 PM
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I'm 57. I had the surgery three years ago.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 09:46 PM
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I had weight loss surgery. Best thing I ever did. Should have done it ten years earlier. I was a fat kid and suffered as a result. I worked out like crazy in my late teens and early twenties and managed to get and stay thin for a while but it was always a struggle. As I got older it became physically harder to work out and life made it mentally harder as well. It really sneeks up on you. One day you wake up and you're over 50, have diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, heart problems, you …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 03:25 PM
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unless they're checking beforehand by getting a little handsy This is exactly what lots of women do. Handsy -- or the first date BJ to see if a second date is warranted. This has actually happened to me multiple times. Some women don't want to sleep with you on the first date but they sure as shit what to know what they're going to get on the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:21 PM
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If women are satisfied with the equipment they'll certainly let you know. Sometimes you even get referrals so you get to have sex with some of their friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:17 PM
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This is what first date BJs are for. So she can "see what (she's) working with."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:12 PM
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Cool! It's been a very long time since I woke up in a random bed somewhere. -- it's an experience everyone should have at least once. Glad at least one woman here isn't timid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:05 PM
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the men who hate-fuck women and have... stories. I've never once fucked a woman I didn't at least like a little bit. In every relationship I was hopeful. The hate and stories only come after the betrayals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:58 PM
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I'm never taking them off then. There's a substantial probability that life will do that for you. One day you'll wake up and realize that he's a broken-down version of his old self who never quite reached his potential. On that day that light will switch off -- you'll have the epiphany that he's "not the man he used to be" and attraction will die then and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:39 PM
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there is such a high to being with a winner All joking aside -- this is exactly how female attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:34 PM
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Fat girls are tons of fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:26 PM
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Are donuts vegan?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:25 PM
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she'll want to be with you forever Or at least 17 years -- until she meets a 6'6" former Marine with washboard abs. True story BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:22 PM
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Pornhub has lots of fat girls. Just search BBW -- or if you want really big SSBBW. You can have fatties IRL and in your porn. No need to ever waste any time with skinny bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:18 PM
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7:57
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:11 AM
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Not pampering your little princes and princesses actually improves outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:48 AM
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Fashions change, including barbering Not for guys. Simple is better and never goes out of style. https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/352054895851173472/ BTW this is exactly the way I keep my hair and beard. Except mine is salt & pepper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:43 AM
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the #1 male appearance mistake is not putting enough effort into their hair. Using clippers (#2, #3, or #4 depending on mood) remove excess hair -- that's all the effort that's required. you don't get to just find one hairstyle and keep it forever Sure you do. I've had the same hairstyle since 1994. Short spiky hair, Levis 501 jeans, and a black cotton t-shirt. Why would a guy ever have to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:36 AM
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In rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:13 AM
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Broke ass young me was higher value than not so broke old me. The women here are right. Hot 20 something women don't want to fuck us old guys. Getting old sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:26 PM
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Treat women to pretzels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:03 PM
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If an able bodied person can't clean their own house they need a smaller place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:57 PM
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Really extreme. I can't get people ten times crazier conserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:04 PM
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That's the way dating works. Most people suck. Most women who I've set up dates with were disappointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:01 PM
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Usually just a licensed social worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:56 PM
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My first wife went into labor with our first child in the local welfare office. We were broke AF. Our son turned out fine. He's a pharmacist -- so is his wife - they have three kids of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:54 PM
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I have to reach conclusions about clients mental health status based on conversations that usually last only a few minutes. That's the way the legal system works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:48 PM
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Because she's not nearly crazy enough to justify conservatorship. I had a request for conservatorship denied last week despite the fact the client was way crazier than Brittany.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:13 PM
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I just got appointed to review the conservatorship of a woman who's been placed in an LA County facility. It's not Brittany.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:01 PM
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r/whereareallthegoodmen didn't waste any time banning me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:58 PM
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At a night club.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:36 PM
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People are free to state their opinions. I'm free to be judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:35 PM
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Guess that's why we have so many homeless people in California. None of the houses have basements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:29 PM
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Sadly good honest sluts are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:27 PM
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I worry about my interests. You're perfectly free to deal with yours anyway you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:25 PM
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A woman I'd been seeing invited me. Her bestie was the organizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:10 PM
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That's fine. I have no interest dating women who play games with sex. My 6'4" frame and six figure salary will happily show ourselves the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:58 PM
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If a woman is too timid to take any risks -- by all means -- she should stay home and leave the big scary world to the bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:35 PM
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You think horny young women are going to stop fucking hot young guys? Ain't going to happen. Just going to be more kids raised in desperate poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:47 PM
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if they take care of themselves. It's at least 75% genetics. The majority of women are going to look like shit at 50 no matter what. Sad truth. Most guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:40 PM
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Making women suffer is not going to make them want to bear your children. Just the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:36 PM
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Birth control and antibiotics are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:12 PM
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the psychological burden of responsibility? You mean like worrying about how the mortgage is going to get paid and what happens if the old car breaks down before you've saved up enough to buy another one. The real psychological burdens are shouldered by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:57 PM
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household chores and childcare Women need to do is to get comfortable with guy standards. The house is clean enough. The kids are still alive. If women want more they can't complain about having to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:54 PM
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who only wants to have a kid when i own a house and can financially afford it without bankrupting myself No one is ever ready for kids. However, somehow most manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:50 PM
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I absolutely hate being approached in non social setting and shut guys down immediately. This is 99% of women so I always thought it strange that TRP advocates approaching in non-social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:42 PM
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Life experience is just as valid and BS social science "studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:33 PM
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40 years of listening to and observing women (and not just the ones I'm fucking).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:56 PM
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WTF has the OP been smoking? There's no turning back the clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:31 AM
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An honest conversation with women Like that's ever going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:25 AM
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will leave their partner as soon as sometimes better shows up The is what gets guys all riled up. Women very often make a big deal about how important commitment is -- they tell everyone who will listen how seriously they take their vows -- but the minute a better prospect appears on the horizon they bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:23 AM
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My dating strategy is to be the last one to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:33 AM
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Another thing is that -- except when I was in the Army and didn't have a choice -- I've always run alone. It's kind of like solitary meditation. I never listen to music and I never run inside. I like listening to the wind -- the waves -- the birds ... . Come to think of it I don't really like doing most things with other people. My ex-wife pressured me into buying his and her's motorcycles. She thought we'd socialize with other motorcycle enthusiasts. I just wanted to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:30 AM
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Guess it depends on your definition of "dating". As in "he's not my fuck toy -- we're dating."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:22 AM
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Be a runner I enjoy running -- but not for more than 3 or so miles at a time. For me, it's usually a warmup for either weights or cross-fit. Don't think that makes me a runner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:05 AM
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TRP is delusional about the timing but not the ultimate fact. Women crash into the wall in their late 40s -- not their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:44 AM
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I find it very hard to find men my age who don’t try to rush into a relationship. Guys are the true romantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:42 AM
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Middle age women have no problem fucking hot young guys. They do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:34 AM
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Women don't have to put themselves out there nearly as often as guys do. A woman posts an OLD profile. Her mailbox fills with responses. She takes her profile down while she dates a guy -- or two -- or three. When she's worked through that batch she puts her profile back up -- rinse and repeat. Her profile is only up a few months of every year. Guys tend to just leave their profiles up. I never took down my 2005 match.com profile. Can't even remember the password now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:32 AM
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I've actually had far more clients die from alcohol-related causes than meth-related causes despite the fact at least half my clients are serious meth users. Also, I've worked in the criminal justice system for two decades. I've never once had a hookup gone wrong case. I've had a shitload of vehicle-related cases (two just today alone).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:15 AM
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I pretty young BBW wearing a crop top just sat down at the table next to me at a local coffee shop. I love summer in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:42 PM
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This is why I prefer good old fashioned affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:40 PM
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Flirting is great if she reciprocates. Unfortunately most of the time women equate flirting with passive entertainment. I have no desire to be a dancing monkey for some woman's entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:30 PM
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This is nothing new -- but it doesn't make women happy. Women have always been able to get laid pretty much whenever they like. Two decades ago I was at a swingers party near San Francisco. There was an older, very fat, and not very attractive woman who basically chose an attractive athletic young guy -- had sex with him -- and then she went home. Don't think she was at the party for more than 30 minutes. She didn't look happy when she arrived -- and didn't strike me as particularly happy when s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:59 PM
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