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Mods, please do delete this post. I have her blocked for a reason. I want her to have her own space on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:46 PM
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That's my daughter. Please delete this. I'll DM you with proof if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:43 PM
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The engagement may be off. My daughter gave him back the ring. She said he's gone too far down the redpill manosphere rabbit hole for her. Demanding she be "submissive" and when she objected to that he changed to "fit and friendly." She didn't think that was any better. The redpill destroys relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:03 PM
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Nah, it still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:45 PM
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Tell it to the women who stuck by their man while he struggled to get through school and land a well paying job only to have him leave her for his 19 year old secretary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:08 PM
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Why does she choose to let him stay at her place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:05 PM
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I married my last “sex on the first date” partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:42 PM
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I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:16 PM
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2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:30 PM
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I’ve never had a problem finding dates or commitment. So I might be repulsive and repelling but I’m also adorable and lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:44 PM
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I hated OLD. I tried it for maybe 6 months but I wasn’t really meeting men I was into. Then I met my husband IRL. Much better just to meet people, get a feel for them socially and maybe date one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:29 PM
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When I got a promotion and raise I bought stuff we needed for the house and took us on a vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:40 AM
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Being an asshole to people who never did you any harm is not “based”, it’s psychotic. So Red Pill, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:30 AM
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She could have done better than Meth Damon but I hope they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:27 AM
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It’s still shitty to the actual human beings you are mistreating but I do realize RP does not consider women to be human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:26 AM
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No but I believe they take joy in punishing the women they date for the slights the high school cheerleader doled out when they were in their teens. They brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:54 AM
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Pfft. Got you beat. I sort my husband’s life saving medications into his pill box for him weekly. He’s helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:53 AM
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We act like this sub gives bad advice but does it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:22 AM
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I love a good sip and savor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:10 AM
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It would require walking half a block to the grocery store down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:03 AM
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I like the way you think. Also I’m home alone till 10 or 11, what else do I have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:00 AM
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Let’s say it’s 5 pm and you bought a bottle of wine at 2 and already finished it. Would you get a 2nd bottle on a Saturday night or figure you had your wine calories for the day? Asking for a friend. (Me! I’m your friend!)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:57 PM
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Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:45 PM
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No, I can honestly say I haven’t been asked that, but probably people just assume I’ve had sex because of the kid and the husbands and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:41 PM
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Get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:37 PM
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https://youtu.be/LMR8S0oHp44
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:36 PM
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This isn’t a “pussy pass.” This is using the laws of the state she is in to prove a political point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:34 PM
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Do people even ask about your sexual past outside of high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:33 PM
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My husband is Mexican and probably the hottest man I've dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:17 PM
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Is that what you call a chav? He looks like a chav.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:15 PM
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Yes, it was very relatable and fun. Now I kind of want to re-watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:08 PM
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Sex isn't the only way that you can care. However, when men talk about women not caring about men's issues, they usually mean we won't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:23 PM
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It's a few years old now but it was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:23 PM
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I don't pretend. I have men I care deeply about and I care about issues that impact them. That doesn't mean I want to deflower incels, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:21 PM
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That's very sad. She was a beautiful girl but apparently had demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:20 PM
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The Judd Apatow series? I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:19 PM
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My next 2 “vacations” aren’t really vacations at all, they are familial obligations. Going to see my mom in August and my in-laws later on in the year. Oh well, I’ll enjoy the time off anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:57 PM
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Not me, I only fuck people I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:35 PM
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I have pets; I can’t even use the bathroom by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:07 PM
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I thought they were all at the club banging Chad in a bathroom stall 30 minutes after meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:44 PM
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You can get good grades and still date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:43 PM
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Was it Our Father?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:42 PM
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Calm down, Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:41 PM
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The only one of those I really liked was Temptation Island back in the 2000s. So gross and so enthralling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:39 PM
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Even when I'm lazy, I'm doing something (watching TV, reading, Redditing, napping). I just have a vision of a girl sitting in a chair in an empty room staring straight ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:37 PM
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Oh to be a fly on the wall during Cippolone’s testimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:29 PM
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Only if your goal is meaningless sex and not a loving relationship. Of course, as a red pill man, of course your goal is meaningless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:11 PM
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No they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:29 PM
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Put an ad on Craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:57 PM
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Flirting has never been easier. Just send a few heart emojis and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:19 PM
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Gross. No, we wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:16 PM
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I do it because that’s where my friends go and I like hanging out with them? Also I’ve picked up a girl or two at the gay bars in my day, so it seems they are working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:52 AM
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As a bi woman who generally goes to gay bars with other bi women, lesbians, and gay male friends, as long as the bar owners like taking my money I’m sure I’ll continue to go when invited out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:41 AM
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I didn't ask for child support because I knew he'd never pay it, but with Roe v. Wade overturned you dudes are going to have to start paying up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:35 PM
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I used to know a kid like that. He loved watching the history channel war shows and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:33 PM
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Not where I work, it wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:13 PM
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How old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:10 PM
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Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:05 AM
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I think they’re just expected to look pretty and pop out babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:56 AM
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Does sitting on my porch watching the neighborhood fireworks count?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:54 AM
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Our state allows the “safe and sane” fireworks that mostly stay on the ground but it’s apparently pretty easy to get the illegal kind, based on what’s going on in the hood right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:35 AM
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Honestly where I live, they probably don’t. Lots of Trumpers in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:03 AM
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My neighborhood is actually slightly less insane than previous years but still very loud and kaboomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:52 AM
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I’ve never been a stay at home mom but I doubt it’s easy. Caillou alone would drive me to the ends of my sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:50 AM
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My neighborhood sounds like a war zone right now. Half these fireworks are illegal in this state. I’m sitting on my porch drinking wine, judging snarkily, and enjoying the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:47 AM
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You don’t get menstrual leave. You get sick days that you might use for that, but there is no red tent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:53 PM
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Which explains why many women are averse to cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah but you basically have maybe 15 minutes of input. We have to carry it 9 months and then give birth to it over several hours. Then breastfeeding, for the women who choose to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:38 PM
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They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:23 PM
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As long as it took me to hook him up with a doctor, a good therapist and maybe have his meds adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:22 PM
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Or a puppy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:06 PM
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It’s not so much that we create life but that we incubate a growing embryo/fetus inside of ourselves and give birth to it. Men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:03 PM
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My husband’s parents died before I ever met him (we met in 2013) and he still gets sad about it, and I still support him when he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:58 PM
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A hot, strong, masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:48 PM
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“Knowing” that you spin plates does not equal liking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:47 PM
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No. It’s with men who don’t actually like women and are just trying to score.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:45 PM
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That’s an incorrect interpretation. Women would rather men pick us because they actually like us and not because they are carpetbombing the world with pickup techniques and taking whoever agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:40 PM
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There’s safety in numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:07 PM
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The one with more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:06 PM
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Hummus is not cheese so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:58 AM
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I do, daily. But I also work from home and can spare a couple of hours a few times a month to watch a hearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:05 PM
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Ooh, me! I've watched all the hearings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:15 PM
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I think it is a good thing. Kids need to be socialized. Not everyone is your gender, or race, or religion, or sexual orientation. Throughout your life you are going to run into all kinds of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:19 PM
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His dream is to play music, which he does. And her financial backing and moral support is what allows him to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:15 PM
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Deadly Women is one of the best shows tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:49 AM
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I’m not a man. But I know men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:07 PM
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Sacrifice all your hopes and dreams at 18 to marry a 40 year old man who has money. There, now you are a red pill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:32 PM
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Me too. There is nothing hotter than an attractive, masculine dude holding a tiny puppy or kitten. Ovaries exploding all over the place. Clean up on aisle 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:19 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:15 PM
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I am at the golf club sitting at the driving range drinking a White Claw and perusing emails while my husband shoots a bucket of balls. I never want work from home to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:53 PM
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There are definitely men’s issues I feel strongly about - 50% custody, domestic violence resources, circumcision, ending the draft to name a few. As far as MGTOW, that is their right. I’m not about to force anyone of either gender to be in a relationship when they don’t want to be. My only problem with MGTOW is that they often don’t and mainly use it as a venue for bitching about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:41 PM
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Same. There is a kid who works at the grocery store that has model tier looks but I would never even consider him because he is younger than my own kid. (For those who think that my husband would be upset to hear me say another man is attractive - he himself pointed at this young man and said “he could be an actor.”)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:24 PM
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I know where all the good wineries are!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:16 PM
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I disagree that they will want men 20 years older. That’s like, my dad’s age. My husband is 7 years older and that is pushing the limits for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:11 PM
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Men in their 40s are attractive to women in their 40s. Unfortunately those men want women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:08 PM
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Cheese and crackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:55 PM
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Women tend to like men around their own age or slightly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:55 PM
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Oh, there are certainly things they will say or do that will expose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:42 PM
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Too late. You’re tainted by associating with unrepentant cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:36 PM
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Take a pic of you holding a puppy. Everyone likes puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:31 PM
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Red Pill men spin plates and brag about cheating on their partners by lying through omission. Blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:29 PM
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It would depend on what pill he aligns with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:13 PM
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She decided to buy a house. She bought and paid for the house. That was okay with him. She decided to start a business. So she did. That was okay with him! Basically my mom is driven to succeed and my stepdad is more inclined toward his own projects (music, woodwork).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:10 PM
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They did the same to me! Had a mirror there and were encouraging me to watch. I was like “no thanks, I’m busy here.” And also, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:10 PM
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My husband is from Guadalajara so there are strict rules in my home for what constitutes a real taco.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:07 PM
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Not even then. They just want women to be “agreeable.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:36 PM
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By 25 I had been living independently for 7 years. Of course I would want someone who was able to match the standards I held myself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:10 PM
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Who doesn't like tacos? I don't drink beer. I don't watch the Office. I do travel. Going to the East Coast in August.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:08 PM
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That's my mom. She started out sweeping floors at 15 and was VP by 30 and had her own business by 40. She's a costume designer and her designs have been featured in a few (low budget - think Hallmark Christmas type) movies. She also has a modest acting career in local theatre and commercials. She had cancer in her 50s and a stroke in her 60s but still goes to work every day. When she was in remission from cancer she celebrated by going skydiving. My stepdad kind of lets her do her thing and tags…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:07 PM
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I loved Evil on Paramount+. The first couple of seasons are available on Amazon Prime. I also liked Why Women Kill, also on Prime. But only the first season - after that they want you to buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:00 PM
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A gaping maw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:56 PM
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I think they're both kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:55 PM
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That's how I feel when a guy says he likes country music.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:55 PM
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I gave my child both my last name and her dad's. After the divorce she mostly used mine for school and such. As an adult she uses both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:54 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:53 PM
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I don't have TikTok and my Insta is mostly for pictures of my dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:17 PM
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I never got one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:38 AM
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No, I’m retired.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:34 PM
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I can’t date. My husband wouldn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:01 PM
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Woman here to give my womanly perspective on all things woman. I like having money, I like that what I do makes me feel like I’m making a difference, and I like feeling like I have accomplished something at the end of the day. I also wanted to be a role model for my daughter and the other young women in my life, that you can do more than just pop out babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:28 PM
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A real leader doesn’t need to insist others follow him - they just will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:02 PM
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No; I don’t like him because he says things like “the man should lead” and tries to get her to watch Kevin Samuels videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:33 PM
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She’s mine, of course she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:30 PM
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My son in law is short and bald. I wouldn’t have picked him for my daughter but not for those reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:25 PM
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The wine is on top of the $20 dinner. You can get the chicken alfredo dish at Olive Garden for around $20. And I live in California. Lots of cute little cafes with patio seating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:28 PM
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My mom was liberal as hell and told me the same thing - focus on my education and career. I didn't listen and got married and divorced by age 25. I did eventually attain the education and career but it's a lot harder with a kid to take care of. Anyway 22 is young. You have lots of time to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:24 PM
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Maiasaurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:21 PM
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I've heard of people doing that but I have not. And I'm married now, so I just slap down the credit card and pay. We technically keep separate accounts but all the money ends up in mine since I pay our bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:17 PM
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I usually offer to split. If I like him and he wants to get the bill, I offer to get after dinner drinks. If I don't like him, I pay my share and skedaddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:58 PM
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If you go to a new restaurant or have something you haven't tried before, you can share it with all your friends through the magic of social media! I don't really do this but my husband has never had a bite of his food without taking 42 pictures of it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:39 PM
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I do pay the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:38 PM
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You don't even know you're pregnant until 6-8 weeks in. So almost 2 months as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:33 PM
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No, a woman who cheats is just as bad as a man who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:32 PM
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I’m orange, obviously. I’m orange because I’m not a big enough asshole to be red and not idealistic enough to be blue or self loathing enough to be black pilled. I’m here because I find the conversations interesting and and occasionally insane. It’s like watching a train wreck constantly in progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:25 PM
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I don’t expect it and I prefer to pay my way so he doesn’t think he’s getting laid just because he bought me a $20 dinner and a glass of wine. And I absolutely will complain about gender based pay discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:08 PM
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I don’t lie and I have paid for dates as a woman. Both 50/50 and picking up the tab alternately with a male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:38 PM
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Would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:25 AM
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I’d rather be an attractive and rich woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:55 PM
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A lot of them heard the phrase gaslighting somewhere and just apply it to anything a woman does that they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:16 PM
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I don’t mind admitting it. Being cheated on sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:10 PM
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My ex was so convincing he had our therapist convinced I was being paranoid. TL:DR - he was cheating the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:12 PM
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I think it would be devastating to most women as well. Yes, the emotional factor is worse but the physical betrayal is not insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:11 PM
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I don’t mean he has to do anything incredible. She needs to feel comfortable and secure with him. If she doesn’t, the sex will not be on the table until she does. That can take a few hours at a club for some people or months for virgins, and anywhere in between for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:08 PM
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I wouldn't have regretted the hook up. I had a kid still living at home and didn't want to date anyone at the time. It just turned out differently than I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:34 PM
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No. The wedding industry will never allow that. DeBeers needs to sell those diamonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:00 PM
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I prefer the water Pokemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:57 PM
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I'm not reframing. I asked the question. It was my question and I know what I meant when I asked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:49 PM
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Men think they should "lead" and often they are wrong. They simply are. And they don't like hearing that they are wrong. That's not lying to you - that's telling you the truth and you refusing to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:40 PM
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I care and so should you. I'm just saying, we aren't ready to turn back the calendar that far yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:37 PM
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Not in my state we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:34 PM
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It happens all the time. Men don’t like to be wrong and often refuse to listen until after something happens. Then they get mad at their partner for being right all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:28 PM
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She wants to make sure he likes her back first. Why give him something he hasn't earned?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:31 PM
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Men absolutely see sex as a reward. You hear it all the time on PPD - "Why do women 'reward' bad boys and Chads with sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:30 PM
1

Size does not equal use.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:29 PM
1

My dad cheated on my mom, what did she have to be grateful for? Of course she divorced him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:28 PM
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I've been here at least as long and I don't know you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:21 PM
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now he has a beard and longer hair That would do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:21 PM
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I had sex with my husband on the first date too. But he was supposed to be a hook-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:16 PM
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The men who don't get sex on the first date are doing the downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:15 PM
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But we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:14 PM
2

Latino men are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:13 PM
1

My husband was unemployed for a year due to illness and while I willingly supported him, it was a huge weight off my shoulders when he went back to work. It's not easy supporting a household on one income in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:11 PM
3

That's us as well. He has no filter and I like being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:08 PM
2

🐰
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:06 PM
1

Strut of Sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:04 PM
1

Get you a Rabbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:02 PM
5

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:01 PM
7

What if you're wrong about something and she's explaining patiently to you why you're wrong and the potential consequences of your wrongness? Is she still a cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:01 PM
4

Traditional men are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:00 PM
2

Then do the Walk of Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:58 PM
7

they’ll fuck Chad after a free drink and five minutes of talk Lol no, they won't. Not all of us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:52 PM
5

That’s a shame. Sorry to hear you don’t have a good relationship with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:03 AM
1

You can’t use food stamps at McDonald’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:27 AM
9

You must have missed Prince’s pre-Jehova’s Witness stuff. There was definitely mimicking of sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:26 AM
-1

You think you’re the only one hitting on a girl who is attractive enough for you to hit on? You have to do something to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:18 PM
8

We absolutely understand insecurity. At least most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:15 PM
1

I get that, I do. I’m here to tell you that antidepressants got my husband out of bed and back to the things he enjoys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:14 PM
1

Like antidepressants? It would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:08 PM
1

The kind of maturity where you have a job, pay your own bills, have your own place, and a car and driver license.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:19 PM
2

That chocolate fountain is so romantic!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:04 PM
1

I ignore clothing brands. Is it clean, in good repair, and black? I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:01 PM
3

I work from home and my boss is at a medical appointment so if I did strike not a soul would notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:00 PM
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They are also more likely to consume alcohol and/or smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:08 PM
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I'm not. I'm pedo shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:02 PM
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If you're into children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:01 PM
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How much of men's lower life expectancy is due to "hold my beer and watch this"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:53 PM
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Depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:51 PM
7

Maybe for some. Not true for all. Most people date for some time before they get married. So if you meet a guy at 25, you'll probably marry him a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:18 PM
5

The difference is that most women don't want that. They want a relationship, not a pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:07 PM
8

Oh? So men get married early and don’t wait for their career to take off or to have a stable income? I’m pretty sure they do wait, just like many women. We aren’t all ready to get married right after high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:52 PM
7

Age gap relationships, N count, and "why can't I get my dick wet?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:38 PM
13

No it doesn't. It means that some the women are dating men outside the age bracket of 18-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:36 PM
8

It's absolutely no different than what men do - spend your 20s being young, learning how to adult, making a few mistakes; and then marrying when you are more stable and ready to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:35 PM
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They usually only express them when asked. It's not like they are going to volunteer their preferences in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:19 PM
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I love my air fryer. It's actually a Ninja grill with an air fryer component. It also bakes, broils, dehydrates and roasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:17 PM
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What do you do when you’re single? Dine out, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:14 PM
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I do most of the cooking but he has no problem stepping up if I don't feel like it. Really our only chore divide argument is over the dishes. We're supposed to take turns but he'll let them sit there for a week when it's his turn. When it's my turn I do them right away and then he complains that I didn't wash as many dishes as he had to - which he only had to do in the first place because he procrastinated his turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:13 PM
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Maybe the attention they get from you could help them attain the confidence they need to achieve the personality type you crave. Probably not, but just throwing that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:06 PM
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I definitely would not date more than a couple of years younger, but I have friends in their 50s with 35 and 40 year old boyfriends and husbands. There's all kinds of folks out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:04 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:43 PM
2

I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:22 PM
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As a “post wall” woman - there still plenty of people my own age who are happily do date similarly aged folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:21 PM
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He’s still around, he just changes his user name periodically. I think most recently when I saw him around it was Gentle Deflowering or something equally cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:19 PM
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I envision them like my dad who hasn’t felt the touch of a woman outside of home health nurses in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:01 PM
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There are probably 9 incels reading this right now wondering what her Insta is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:48 PM
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Sure, particularly if her job is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:46 PM
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The last bachelorette party I went to was just a party bus and going wine tasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:46 PM
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No, I don't a doormat or a leader. I just want a partner. And I have one. And I'm neither single nor is our relationship dead. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:38 PM
2

All the ones I know are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:55 PM
5

That’s exactly what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:54 PM
4

I’m fine with a man who goes 50/50. I’m fine with a man who pays an equitable share based on our salaries as well. I’ve never dated a man who paid 100% of everything. However regardless of what he can or is willing to pay, he will need to look elsewhere if he wants true submission outside of the bedroom. I am not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:43 PM
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No, I wouldn’t expect that. Sounds like a good way to get shot. Anyway this is one of the reasons I prefer crossbody bags. Harder to steal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:40 PM
4

I’m sure the opinion is heartily returned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:43 AM
14

Platonic love absolutely exists. Most women are not going to care if you can get casual sex. If you said you wanted love and a relationship, you might get more sympathy. But you don’t. You want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:00 AM
1

And that is an oversimplification that ignores the reality of male/female partnerships entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:48 PM
1

I’m arguing his theory on men’s sexuality is wrong because of plate spinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:45 PM
1

So go have sex with some of them. It will make you less uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:01 PM
1

He was born the same year as me. Still hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:00 PM
1

Hey, you guys are the ones who don’t want sex before marriage, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:40 PM
13

So basically OP is accusing women of wanting what he readily admits men also want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:35 PM
2

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:33 PM
1

Because incels aren’t married, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:32 PM
1

No, you are looking at things through the eyes of an incel who wants everything “fair.” Well, things will never be “fair.” The fact is a married couple will be having sex. They just will. It’s not practical or realistic to say “just don’t have sex” to a man and a woman who are sleeping in the same bed every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:13 PM
3

That is what RP calls dating multiple women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:09 PM
3

Tell that to the plate spinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:08 PM
8

Not according to RP and their 80/20 nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:05 PM
10

Yes they do. That is why they want harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:55 PM
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How do you factor in men’s general desire for harems then? They don’t want to be desired by just one woman any more than you claim women want to be desired by one man. Which is also untrue by the way. I want to be the object of my husband’s desire, I don’t care about what other men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:51 PM
1

That’s the best part of hiking during the week - fewer people, fewer other dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:36 PM
1

Yeah, I’m fortunate that I live within a short driving distance of some good trails and in a temperate climate. And also that I work from home. I’d rather do the trails than go the gym, though we have a membership for the gym as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:24 PM
2

Not necessarily. We hike every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:10 PM
1

I loved the books but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:07 PM
1

I'm not arguing in bad faith. You want me to agree with you and I simply don't. That's not bad faith - that's having a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:01 PM
1

Actually that's not true. In many states a woman in need of an abortion due to life threatening need has to travel elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:40 PM
1

I'm married to a man. So you realize your advice not to have sex with him would end my marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:39 PM
3

Anyone who takes that statement seriously needs better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:10 PM
3

You need better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:04 PM
1

People who actually want children and got pregnant on purpose also suffer from ectopic pregnancies that can kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:02 PM
1

I didn't say I would be miserable without it. I went without it many times in my life, often for years. What I said is that it is detrimental to married couples who wish to stay married to cut off sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:01 PM
1

Too late! I’m already married. I’m not going to get divorced to appease some incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:51 PM
3

Men aren't dying from sex. Or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:39 PM
1

You're comparing a married couple to an incel. They are different. Single people are celibate all the time. It's not an issue. A married couple who is not having sex is probably on the verge of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:38 PM
2

It's fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:37 PM
2

He could be, sure. Any eggs I might have are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:35 PM
2

Go to the Dead Bedrooms sub and tell them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:34 PM
2

We're in our 50s so no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:34 PM
3

I can't see telling a married couple that they shouldn't have sex because in the unlikely event that she has pregnancy complications she might have to abort. My guess is they were actually trying for that baby and the complications that led to the abortion were a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:32 PM
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According to this, 46% of abortions occur in single women and 45% occur in women who are cohabitating and/or married. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/12/14/upshot/who-gets-abortions-in-america.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:14 PM
3

Well, that can be your marriage if you like. I'm confident my husband and I would rather continue having sex. It's fun and it's good bonding time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:11 PM
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Most of those responses aren't hostile, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:08 PM
9

It has nothing to do with hypergamy. Many couples decide TOGETHER that it is not a good time for them to have a child. Maybe they can't afford it. Maybe they already have a passel of kids. Maybe it's a bad time in their life for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:06 PM
7

She isn't talking about having sex. She's talking about paying taxes to care for other people's babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:02 PM
6

Men aren't going to die from lack of sex. Women are going to die from lack of abortion rights. From medical complications, but also from men who will kill them rather than have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:01 PM
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Abortion IS healthcare. A woman who has an ectopic pregnancy, or whose baby died in utero, requires healthcare which includes terminating the pregnancy. Without it she can die.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:00 PM
5

Abortions are not just about casual sex. A lot of abortions occur within married couples who already have more kids than they can afford. Do you want married couples to stop having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:58 PM
1

And this is something you are proud of?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:56 PM
0

We have a Pablo who is also a Pablito, Pabi, Budge, Chubba, Skippy Johnson, Caballito...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:14 PM
2

No two men are the exact same in every way. And you are missing some key elements - personality and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:08 PM
2

Kate Winslet in Titanic nekked on the couch with the pendant around her neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:07 PM
2

Under 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:03 PM
3

I'd dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:02 PM
1

2 women who cheat compared to the dozens of women on this sub. But you're going to believe the cheaters over the rest of us. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:01 PM
1

This is why I don't want to pay for a man right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:56 PM
5

Gigolos are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:54 PM
2

Ewan MacGregor is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:53 PM
10

No, I enjoy being a woman. I don’t bother with “looksmaxing” outside of moisturizer, sunblock and a quality conditioner. I work out for health more than for looks. My normal, natural looks have gotten me decent results. I hate sportsball and I am not overly fond of lifting weights so being a man just isn’t my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:44 PM
2

A lot of the older women here are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:38 PM
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Placebos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:59 AM
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No, but he’s it for me. If he dies or we break up, I’m not interested in trying again with someone new. I’ve already put up with men’s shit for far too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:02 AM
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I’m jealous. I have 2 months till our vacation so I am not drinking so I can lose weight before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:59 AM
3

You are definitely trying to spread an agenda. A sad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:53 PM
3

Oh look, your thread was nuked!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:48 PM
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Mr. Paisley’s favorite song is Time by Culture Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:47 PM
2

We beat a Trump second term. I’ve no doubt we can beat a motley group of bitter losers a second time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:46 PM
0

The first sentence literally states that the post is about incels. “The men that get shamed like incels” blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:40 PM
2

I didn’t say anything about wanting to ban it. I said incel content is banned here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:39 PM
2

The first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:35 PM
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Downvoting is against the sub rules and also childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:33 PM
1

I’m merely stating the rules of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:32 PM
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It is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:30 PM
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This should be counted as incel content and be nuked. But I’m not a mod so I have no power here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:30 PM
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Only if they want to repulse women like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:01 PM
1

A delusional minority is the majority of PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:55 PM
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You’re on the wrong sub for that. On PPD love only exists between a 50 year old man and an 18-year old girl who is totally not using him for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:46 PM
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Impotent rage, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:06 PM
3

That describes me perfectly. I take terrible pictures but I have never failed to get IRL dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:20 PM
2

No, but I occasionally look at the toilet paper to make sure there is no menstruation. My neck and body are not limber enough to actually look at my vagina opening. I am surprised yours are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:17 PM
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I didn’t. But I would not have regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:15 PM
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Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:15 PM
8

I disagree. I have niche tastes and they still work for me at 50. I’m certainly not falling for the boring kakhi pants and polo shirt look that is casually popular with my age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:57 PM
1

Really? I never got any.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:53 PM
10

Probably the women here do and the men here don’t. The ages on PPD skews higher for women and lower for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:30 PM
1

I wasn’t referring to the posting. I was referring to the making troll accounts that are 24 hours old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:44 PM
2

I work from home. I need something to do during Zoom meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:24 PM
2

Aw, so you do this frequently? Perhaps you should get a hobby. And I absolutely do enjoy sex without consequences. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:21 PM
1

Yes, with your 1 day old troll account. So cute! Let me pat your little head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:19 PM
1

I'd wager I have more kids than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:14 PM
0

Maternity clothes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:11 PM
4

Maybe it should start at ejaculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:11 PM
2

Neither do you, since women don't want to have sex with pro-life men. So you won't have to worry about child support or raising a kid at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:10 PM
0

Won't matter to me anyway, I'm 50. But California is the world's 5th largest economy. I'm not worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:07 PM
1

I live in California. We aren’t stupid enough to overturn abortion rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:05 PM
0

Do you think that triggers me? I live in a rural part of the state. We mostly make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:52 PM
15

"15 years ago a ROASTING hot woman had ZERO followers on instagram." Um, there was no Instagram 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:50 PM
0

Pfft. Half. Make them pay all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:49 PM
2

Definitely! Unmarried, uninsured pregnant women should be able to get on the insurance of their baby daddies for maternity care. If there is an extra charge baby daddy should have to pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:47 PM
5

I'm looking forward to more men paying child support. Now that abortion isn't an option, child support should be more strictly enforced and men that don't pay it should be jailed!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:45 PM
2

It there a cave where I can live alone as a solitary hermit with my dog and cat familiars?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:44 PM
3

Mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:43 PM
2

The ideal situation would be for women to pick those complaining men, specifically, and approach the men first and have sex with them on the first date so the men know that they are really attracted and not just looking for beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:42 PM
2

They will be available through the mail. Garland says states can’t ban that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:25 PM
1

I’m 5’2” and have the same response from men when I say I want someone taller than me. EVERYONE is taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:59 PM
4

I don’t think that genie is going to be squeezed back into the bottle. As long as contraceptives and abortion pills are still readily available (and Merrick Garland says states can’t ban them), sex will still be frequent and often casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:56 PM
9

I’ve been in many such situations. RP likes to believe that women know within seconds if she wants to have sex with a man but it’s simply not true. Many women such as myself need time to get to know someone before there is attraction, and longer still before feelings are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:48 PM
2

I have a number of them in my phone, but we were genuinely friends before, and in addition to, having had sex. I don’t hang out with them without my husband however.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:10 AM
3

The confidence comes from your own self worth. If you are successful at your career, or your hobby, or your sport, that confidence you feel from your accomplishments can carry through to your conversations with women. They don't know you've been unsuccessful romantically or ever been rejected. I'm assuming you're not leading with that information, or shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:51 PM
3

I think it's fairly true for me. My husband is not anyone I ever thought I would have fallen for - he's kinda the jock to my nerd. But our chemistry is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:46 PM
1

But they usually pull that source out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:43 PM
1

It's not entirely selfish, as generally a lot of couples make that decision together. Hell, a lot of women only get abortions in the first place because the man doesn't want the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:12 PM
1

Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:11 PM
6

Women already have to take accountability. They either need to abort (which is about to get increasingly difficult), give birth and keep it, or give birth and give it up for adoption. If they choose parenthood, they have signed on to taking care of a child for at least 18 years. Not to mention the wear and tear on the woman's body. Men are only asked to chip in financially and a lot of them won't even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:11 PM
1

I don't want to see any women giving birth. The miracle of life, yes, but it's gross. And I say that as someone who gave birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:06 PM
2

Good for you. I would too, if I lived in a red state, but I left that mess a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:05 PM
3

Why? Blow jobs don't give me sexual pleasure. Unless he's giving me increased oral, as well, no increase in blow jobs is anticipated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:43 PM
1

Men already have financial abortion; a lot of them just refuse to pay for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:39 PM
3

Nah, there will still be blue states in the US that will allow abortion. My state is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:38 PM
1

For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:36 PM
1

My state won't ban it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:35 PM
1

I haven't done a survey. I suspect a lot of them already lived here. It's on the verge of farm country, where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:34 PM
1

I didn't make good money in the 1990s when I had my kid. I do make good money now and my opinion hasn't changed. A man who is passionate about his work is attractive. A man who cares about kids and about making a difference is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:34 PM
1

We already have too many of them and they all live in my area for some reason. I enjoy pointing and laughing when they drive by with their tattered Trump flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:30 PM
1

I was on the pill when I got pregnant with my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:28 PM
1

You'll never get that now! Congrats on being a wallet to your bio kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:26 PM
1

It sure does, if you knock up a girl and have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:25 PM
1

They are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:25 PM
1

I live in California. I don't have to go anywhere. I'm also 50, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:24 PM
1

And less MAGAts moving to my state, so I'm cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:20 PM
1

No. My first husband was a teacher and I loved that about him. Nothing makes your ovaries burst like a man who is good with kids. It makes you want him to put babies in you right away. Or at least practice at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:13 PM
3

That's what I said!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:11 PM
1

Is that how one gives birth to a shithead?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:11 PM
2

Good anal is amazing. Bad anal is painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:11 PM
5

I would like to have both of them dropped into a live volcano and never hear of them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:16 PM
2

Embryos aren’t babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:06 PM
1

Sure it does. Women are already being educated to a higher level than men and we’re starting to outearn you too. No wonder you’re all panicking about buying a cup of coffee for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:06 PM
2

I’m excited about you guys shutting up about financial abortions. If she can’t get one, neither can you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:04 PM
3

They won’t even need to travel, they’ll be sending the pills through the mail in discreet packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:04 PM
3

Ask Willow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:02 PM
1

I’ve always paid my own way, thanks. And I’ve made more than any man I’ve dated. Generally the men who whine the loudest about paying for dates don’t have the money I do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:01 PM
3

That’s not how we take it at all. However a guy we hit on is going to be opportunistic, not appreciative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:58 PM
1

Incorrect. Al I care about as far as money is that I don’t have to support your deadbeat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:56 PM
1

Isn’t that every day around here? Anyway I think it’s going to end up being a Roe v Wade day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:55 PM
1

Looks is all 90% of you care about. Not intelligence, or money, or ability to cook, or talent - does she make you hard and will she let you hit it and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:54 PM
1

Lol yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:52 PM
1

Pretty girls! Who is their duck friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:47 PM
5

A recipe for a pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:44 PM
1

Thank you! Finally someone else said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:11 PM
5

I'm more of a tea drinker but thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:37 PM
2

I just block him wherever he pops up. He doesn't know where I live and my husband is here if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:36 PM
2

“This isn’t working for me” didn’t work for me. 10 years later I am married to someone else and the guy I told that still tries to get me to go out with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:33 PM
9

I’m addicted to sitting on my couch with a blanket watching murder shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:31 PM
6

At 20 I married a 6'4" white dude. We divorced and at 30 I cohabitated with a 5'7" Asian dude. At 40 I met and married a 5'8" Mexican dude. My husband is the hotter of the 3 btw. So yeah, tastes can bounce around all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:06 PM
9

I wouldn’t call him gay but I would figure he’s not attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:48 PM
2

I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:20 AM
2

I am so not. Our Alexa tells us “It’s time for bed” at 9:00 pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:26 AM
2

I mean, polyamory has already gone mainstream so it’s not like it isn’t an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:08 AM
2

God, no. Why would I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:04 AM
2

TIL I am a party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:45 AM
1

What are your skills and interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:43 AM
1

How about saying it in plain English?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:42 AM
2

How? How are you supposed to be attracted to someone you just aren’t attracted to? Sure some gold diggers are able to do it for money, but a normal woman who wants a love match wants to be attracted to her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:37 AM
3

Don’t feel bad for me, she’s the one that’s stuck with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:50 AM
1

Just normal girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:49 AM
3

Yes. He cheated on me with his son’s best friend’s mother, our 3some partner, and his high school girlfriend. He is now married to the high school girl friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:48 AM
4

Weird, I'm at a golf club right now with hundreds of people and not one of them are showing their nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:58 PM
7

Why? As a single mom family is pretty much all you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:41 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:40 PM
1

He likes BBWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:39 PM
0

What's wrong with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:37 PM
8

If you run around naked in winter, you will die of exposure and your dating problems will cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:49 PM
1

I still have not. Nor seen the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:42 PM
18

A joke ceases to become funny the longer I have to explain it. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:37 PM
6

We sound similar; I was raised in a hippy enclave and my husband was born and raised in Mexico in a big Catholic family. He knows better than to expect me to be a traditional wife however. And I don’t think he would respect me if I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:21 PM
9

Because they would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:18 PM
1

That depends on the people we’re talking about here. Some people wait till the 3rd date. FDS says 3 months or something equally ridiculous to me. RP wants sex on the first date. Myself, I don’t have a hard and fast rule. I will have sex with someone when I am ready to and not a minute sooner. If he doesn’t want to wait, there are other men who will be willing to get to know me a little before hopping into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:17 PM
2

I’m not saying stick around till she fucks you. I’m saying not everybody wants to hop into bed with you the minute you meet. Getting to know someone, talking to them, FLIRTING with them is equally important to just looking the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:13 PM
1

You can’t negotiate it but you definitely can foster it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:09 PM
7

I mean it gets very cold in winter and running around naked in January could cause you to freeze to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:01 PM
1

We need a PPD book club.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:27 PM
4

N count and age gap relationships. Nobody is changing their minds about either of those things and both have been beaten to death and left out in the sun to dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:22 PM
30

Sexuality and gender will cease to be a problem in many places as people freeze to death in the winter from lack of proper clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:20 PM
17

I disagree that women’s concerns about being seen naked are about profit. It’s more the fear of sexual harassment and/or rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:18 PM
11

I invited my future ex-husband over to smoke pot with me after he got off from work. I procured said pot and some wine. Unfortunately he did not pick up on my intentions and brought a friend. He cockblocked himself!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:52 PM
3

I view them as normal. However, I've had a lot more exposure than most. What sort of response are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:47 PM
37

A lot of divorces happen because the woman felt alone in the emotional labor of the relationship. They aren't going to be magically happy to do all of everything themselves just because you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:56 PM
1

Those model-tier men aren't really on OLD because they don't need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:03 PM
6

100% false. I have never made a decision about any man in that amount of time. I knew my husband for a few months before I ever considered him as a viable option. I knew my prior ex a year before considering him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:01 PM
2

Having been a mother of an 18-year old girl, no I don’t. Having been an 18-year old girl, they are fledgling adults who going to do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:03 PM
10

Most people aren't going to set you up. It's more that as part of a woman's social circle, you will get to know more women and maybe be able to ask some out. You still have to do your own legwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:59 PM
2

School must be out for the summer and the kids are getting bored and looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:52 AM
9

Really? I actually don’t think a lot of men’s standards are high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:24 AM
2

My eyes just took in “cow porn stars” at first and I have to live with that visual in my head now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:21 AM
20

It was a genuine question and not a gotcha btw. Yeah, I’m the same. I can really only crush on one person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:16 AM
1

He was prescribed it for depression. He’s currently singing to the sandwich he is making in the kitchen, so it must work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:14 AM
1

Arthur.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:11 AM
2

Mr. Paisley is also on Lexapro and Abilify.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:09 AM
2

Al Jazeera.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:08 AM
12

I think they aren’t meeting their quota this fiscal year so they are trying to cram in more by posting them on a 3 day cycle instead of a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:05 AM
5

Even if you’re spinning plates yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:05 AM
2

Stealing from me or major lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:31 PM
2

When I was single my daughter still lived with me and we had a veritable zoo. I also had friends, neighbors and coworkers that I was close to. Not to mention living vicariously through my vast collection of books.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:30 PM
1

More so now that I am older, I think. Maybe because when I was younger and seeking a long term relationship. I viewed people with a more critical eye (do I want to be stuck with this person for any length of time?) whereas now I am older, married, and can appreciate someone being attractive without caring if it would ever go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:07 PM
17

Sounds like a waste of energy. If FDS are so “ugly” and “bitter” and “hate men”, why would you care what their standards are at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:04 PM
2

If I could go back in time and talk to 18-year old me, I would say, "Girl, run!" He was a sensitive, intelligent, arty type - a musician - and everything I thought I wanted in a man. However, the relationship was very push/pull and while it was effective at keeping my interest, it also made it difficult to focus on classes and work and anything else. Add homesickness on top of that and the normal troubles of a late teens/early 20s person trying to get their footing as an adult, and it was just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:10 PM
2

25-30%. Yes, my college boyfriend. It was a toxic relationship though and I moved cross country to get away from him. It was the clean break I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:01 PM
2

There is nothing wrong with taking a submissive role, if you choose to do that. If my husband demanded it from me and said "The man should lead", I would laugh and tell him to take out the garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:42 PM
1

She's on Reddit and she is well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:27 PM
1

1 - I find them seedy but I’ve been to them. My husband hated it so we never went back. But a girl’s got a make a living. 2 - One of my best friends was a stripper. She stripped her way into a nursing career, her own house, and several trips to Europe. Now she’s an RN with a husband and 2 sons. 3 - I think the clientele is probably a combination of the curious and the sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:27 PM
48

So don’t date them. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:17 PM
7

No. My mom is generally supportive of women’s independence and my dad hates when I am in a relationship because it means I have less time to spend with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:12 PM
4

I would be repulsed. My daughter is going through this only her fiancé is not being secretive about it. He is literally trying to get her to watch RP videos and Kevin Samuels and whoever else. He even used “the man should lead!l” in an argument they were having. She is considering calling off the engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:07 PM
5

I think it was a good reset for me. I can’t speak for others. I think a lot of people get into and stay in relationships because they are afraid of being alone. Being alone can be quite lovely though and certainly preferable to being in a toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:04 PM
16

I was single for 4 years by choice because at that time I would rather be alone. And I was celibate during that time. Some of us do mean “we would rather be alone.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:55 PM
1

You do you. We did us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:44 PM
1

Her dad and I didn’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:34 PM
1

It had no impact on mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:29 AM
1

5-7 years of no periods is an excellent incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:28 AM
1

As long as we will be having regular and enthusiastic sex, I don’t care what he does in his alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:27 AM
2

I hyphenated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:25 AM
2

Fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:24 AM
0

They don’t sound compatible. She should move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:22 AM
2

As long as she doesn’t join a fundie church.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:34 AM
2

I have to watch a few more episodes of this show I’m binging first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:21 AM
3

Just say 6’1”, nobody is going to call you on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:19 AM
2

Astrology daughter. NFT guys sound insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:08 AM
5

And bank account balances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:36 PM
4

I seriously doubt she considers your preferences when planning out her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:35 PM
12

That is the most ridiculous thing I have read here and that is really saying something. She isn’t intentionally misleading anyone about her age. She is maintaining her health, fitness and looks at the gym. When you talked to her she was up front about her age and marital status. Women shouldn’t have to look dowdy just so you don’t make a mistake and hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:15 PM
1

Real life. I didn’t really enjoy OLD that much. I never used Tinder though. This was OKC. I wasn’t really meeting “my” type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:34 PM
1

Nah, it’s different. Body language, eye contact, tone of voice. You don’t get that on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:28 PM
1

That would entirely depend on the approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:25 PM
1

I didn’t approach them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:22 PM
1

Yes. In 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:20 PM
1

I don’t approach randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:18 PM
1

You can usually have an inkling if someone is attracted to you or not. If I feel like there's a good vibe between us but he hasn't acted upon it yet, I'll make a move. I'm not going to approach a man who isn't interested. That would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:53 PM
1

Sexy *to me* I should have specified. I don't care what others think. "Ugly hot" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:49 PM
2

I had natural DDs before I left high school. Then I had a baby. I don't think most men even know what color my eyes are because that's not where they look when they are talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:33 PM
1

bigger tits If you said it to me I would assume you are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:28 PM
0

no amount of working out makes up for not having good genes. Women don't say this. Black pill/incels say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:26 PM
2

I will only make a move if I'm confident it's a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:24 PM
2

High libido. I'm not afraid of dating conventionally unattractive men as long as they are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:23 PM
1

I'm binging Evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:12 PM
2

I only follow friends, family and animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:06 PM
8

It's 16. There you go. Leading women on so you can spin more plates is lying by omission. You're letting them think you have a relationship with them and you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:52 PM
3

Alas, I'm married. He's hot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:51 PM
14

Not disclosing information is not being dishonesty. Sure it is. It's lying by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:48 PM
5

Have honest discussions with your sexual partners about your expectations and theirs, early and often. You might still get labeled a jerk if they wanted more from you than you were willing to give, but at least your conscience will be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:47 PM
1

I don't have a fetish for bald men but I would absolutely allow Mike Colter to woo me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:23 PM
2

A girlfriend of mine used to argue with her husband because he wouldn’t put any effort into the things that make her cum (oral, etc) and he would defend himself by saying “women don’t cum every time.” Well yeah, not with that attitude! They ended up divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:55 PM
2

He needs a new hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:43 PM
1

Not necessarily. I don’t like to share so I get possessive sometimes but I also like to keep the moral high ground so I would not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:42 PM
1

No. Most men are stronger than most women by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:38 PM
1

It’s too early for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:34 PM
2

He’s 5’8” and definitely not a millionaire, I don’t know how big his penis is. Maybe 5”? He golfs, lifts, hikes and plays soccer so he is fairly fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:26 PM
5

Yes. There was a guy on Reddit spamming me with his dick for a while too until I asked him if he had seen a doctor about it. Then he stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:21 PM
1

Cheese and crackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:20 PM
2

In my 30s it was. Now I do it because I am watching my elderly parents deteriorate and I want to put that off as long as possible by being healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:18 PM
1

No. Never cared enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:15 PM
0

It really isn’t. Plenty of otherwise attractive men shoot themselves in the foot in dating by doing or saying something offputting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:23 AM
0

I know a lot of people who are happily polyamorous. I’m not interested, however. I have enough trouble sustaining one relationship let alone juggling 2 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:21 AM
-1

It’s not your appearance or your vibe. It’s your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:19 AM
3

Perhaps you should read more RP forums and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:10 AM
10

A woman having consensual sex with another adult is entirely different from someone (of either gender) who hurts children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:10 AM
1

Yes! Neither of them are swimmers but they both like to wade in it and lie in the shallow water.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:53 AM
1

Went to brunch with the family and then my daughter and I took our dogs to the river.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:46 AM
1

Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:45 AM
6

No, it tells young women to do that. Usually with much older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:45 AM
3

I don’t know if I would help anyone sleep their way through my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:44 AM
3

Never claimed to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:41 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:40 AM
5

No. It’s your behavior that makes you creepy, not your looks. Leering. Getting into someone’s personal space. Touching them without their consent. Saying inappropriate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:02 AM
3

First?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:00 AM
-2

I disagree. My husband has expressed a range of emotions to me. Fear, anxiety, joy, worry, anger, love - there are a ton of ways a man can express himself to his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:50 AM
2

Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:20 PM
1

I didn’t know who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:19 PM
1

If he knows me and the person I am, he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:09 PM
1

Eh, I don’t have an adversarial relationship with my ex. We are good friends. Being a single mom wasn’t easy but she turned out great and I am proud of her and the job I did with her. As far as my husband, we met in our 40s when I was pretty much done with parenting. He never had kids. So our romance has been free of a lot of the troubles that parenting couples have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:08 PM
1

I’ll show him the exact sympathy he showed me while I was carrying and bearing his child and he accused me of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:02 PM
3

My trust in my partner and his in me, you mean. And he clearly thinks I’m cheating if he wants a paternity test,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:59 PM
1

There is no way of knowing if my life would have been objectively better. And the dynamics of my relationship would be completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:38 AM
1

I will never call it a mistake because I got my kid out of it. The mistake would have been staying a relationship that had become unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:25 AM
1

Well, by the time I became aware of my legitimate reasons it was too late. I was married with a kid. I kept the kid and left the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:51 AM
1

I didn’t kick him out. I took the kid and left. But not because of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:40 AM
0

Pfft, I didn’t get child support for my first kid either, so that is not an incentive for me to continue a relationship lacking in trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:27 AM
6

You didn’t have that great of a relationship if she’s your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:56 AM
18

I married young. I never wanted drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:53 AM
35

I’m so averse to drama in my personal life that I stick to getting all of my drama here on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:38 AM
2

I call my husband my partner and my husband interchangeably, because he absolutely is my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:05 AM
16

Your wife would be your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:52 PM
7

I wouldn’t say most people do. A breakup is awkward for the friends of a couple. It can cause fractures in the friends circle if you share a group. Although if your friends don’t like your partner, or if your partner’s friends don’t like you, they very well might feel smug about it if you broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:26 PM
1

Who is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:16 PM
2

I don’t think that happens very often. And getting used for sex is not what most women want; they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:12 PM
1

I prefer “soulless ginger.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:12 PM
0

I had said it facetiously, but I do agree that the party in a relationship is the worse offender. Entering into a sexual relationship knowing that the other party is married/has a partner is still shitty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:48 PM
2

Just to give the goose the same as the gander, there are also those women who murder pregnant women so they can steal their babies. People are nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:18 PM
1

Maybe you shouldn’t hit on taken women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:16 PM
2

So which was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:13 PM
3

I generally take it to mean I’ve won.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:12 PM
2

Did you miss the part where I said “I’ll give him his test, sure”? Or are you just being argumentative to hear yourself talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:09 PM
4

Men are no better, I’ve been told countless times I’m old, stupid, etc on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:08 PM
1

It’s for a lot of the same reasons that a woman is mostly likely to be murdered while she is pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:06 PM
2

Perhaps men should vet properly. Isn’t that what you guys say to women who find themselves with a cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:04 PM
5

Sure, but I am not those women and if my husband questions my faithful marriage, he doesn’t trust me and may even be cheating himself. I’ll give him his test, sure. And he’d be happy with the results. But I also will begin questioning the relationship and I’d begin to not trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:53 PM
3

That’s my point - if he doesn’t trust me while I am carrying and birthing his child what’s the point of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:41 PM
4

No, it’s your fostering of trust and fidelity issues. I don’t want to be with a husband who does not trust me and accuses me of cheating on him at the most vulnerable time of my adult life. If you can’t understand the difference I can’t help you .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:13 PM
2

Yeah, if you don't trust me and think our baby is not yours, why would I want you there? You'd just make me upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:01 PM
3

Lol, I wouldn't refuse the test. I'd absolutely let him have the test as he was moving out so I could establish paternity and have evidence for the child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:58 PM
5

Better than in a 2 parent household where the mother resents the father and the father constantly thinks his wife is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:58 PM
2

It's not ego, it's trust. Or lack thereof. You're basically telling me I'm on my own in the parenthood battle. That I'm going to spend 9 months on my own, and labor and delivery too, because I won't want you there, frankly. And why don't you trust me? It's going to make me assume you are cheating on me and are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:53 PM
3

Okay, but if she didn't would you even feel bad for insulting your wife? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:16 PM
2

I have a 2-piece with boy shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:10 PM
4

Because you accused me of cheating, as I've already stated. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't trust me. If we were casual or non-exclusive I would no qualms about it though, just if we were married/living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:06 PM
5

Sure. And you can get your 50% joint custody and get out of my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:03 PM
8

How the hell are you inseminated without your knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:01 PM
2

How would you know? I was beaten up in middle school. My daughter was pushed down a flight of stairs by a boy in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:00 PM
3

I absolutely see situations where it would be sensible to get a paternity test. If my husband asked for one, however, it would ruin our marriage because it's an indication he believes I cheated on him. I only ever had the one kid however, and she looks just like her dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:59 PM
7

Demanding a paternity test is accusing your partner of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:55 PM
8

No they don't. They give conflicting advice to women. "It's important for women to have a low N count" AND "Women who don't put out on the first date don't find you attractive enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:53 PM
27

No, but I also wouldn't be content with a man who was incapable of loving, tender sex. I need passion but I also need love and tenderness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:51 PM
2

What makes you think she didn't also face bullying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:50 PM
17

It should be a little of both. One of the things my husband does that is effective during a wild sex romp is to suddenly slow down, use gentle strokes, caress my face (or my ass if we're doing doggy), say something loving, and then pick up the speed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:39 PM
4

My kid spent her teens in her room Tumblring and playing Kingdom Hearts. She didn't date till she was in her 20s, so I agree with you 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:14 PM
2

I get downvoted when I say that. I'll probably get downvoted for saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:07 PM
7

Absolutely. You can have a healthy and happy sex life and still not be in the mood from time to time. Maybe you are tired, stressed or have explosive diarrhea. A good partner will understand that you aren’t being mean but just need a short break.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:08 AM
2

I don’t even want my own family involved in my relationship, let alone my partner’s. Obviously you’re going to be social with your partner’s family on occasions but having them there 24/7 would make me want to nope out of there. Even next door is too close.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:44 PM
2

I said “or more” and in another post I noted that we work opposite shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:29 PM
1

Serrano or bell is what we usually buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:00 PM
1

Weed, ecstasy and mushrooms. I have no earthly idea where to get ecstasy or mushrooms though so I stick to edibles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:57 PM
1

I got on Reddit to read about true crime, was reading about Elliot Roger and incels and wound up here somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:53 PM
3

We live together. But we don't have kids and I work from home, so there are lots of uninterrupted opportunities to be naughty. We'd prolly have sex more often but I work days and he works evenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:15 PM
1

Goodbye, your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:16 PM
1

You basically described the first 4 years of my current relationship. We ended up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:09 PM
2

I don’t know why your comments are dense. Perhaps it’s genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:20 PM
3

You mean you think they weaponize sex. No, dude. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties. If she’s sick, hurt, just had a baby, is stressed out or exhausted, she will probably not be in the mood or physically can’t have sex right now. If you’ve been arguing, she’s not going to want to have sex (though some women do like angry sex). Sometimes my husband doesn’t want sex because he worked late or pulled something at the gym - I don’t accuse him of weaponizing sex, I TALK to him and we get…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:17 PM
8

I miss getting love notes. Emojis are efficient but it’s just not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:12 PM
42

I’m not talking poetry and flowers and chocolates. Just make time for each other - a date, a walk, cuddling on the couch watching a favorite show. Love each other. Be affectionate. Don’t treat your spouse the way you would a booty call.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:06 PM
2

We’ve done it before. It just isn’t something either of us need to have. But we’re older and have been together a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:04 PM
6

I’m 50. Going to the gym is not going to help my jaw from hurting. I suggest you go to town on a few penises and then tell me just how easy it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:55 PM
4

I only tell him no during period week and even then there are other things we can do. But he treats me right outside of the bedroom so it’s easy to desire him in the bedroom. Affection, flirting, smacking my ass when I am within reach, etc. He doesn’t ignore me all day and then expect me to be raring to go at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:53 PM
3

How the hell is the gym going to help me with TMJ? Do you even listen to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:41 PM
3

Oh, I got rid of those men and found a man who actually knows what he is doing and enjoys a woman’s pleasure as much as his own. Surprisingly hard to find, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:40 PM
2

Given a lot of blow jobs have you? They aren’t easy. They hurt your jaw, your throat and your neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:39 PM
6

How do you know you’re a good lover? I can’t speak for other women but I’ve personally given too many blow jobs to agree with you that women are lazy in bed. Meanwhile my “return on investment” is probably less than half so I could contend that men are much lazier than women at least when it comes to oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:35 PM
3

That’s okay. He’s more annoying than dangerous. But he doesn’t know where I live at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:29 PM
9

If you want your girl to want to fuck, you should at least attempt to make it satisfying for her. Women don’t get turned on like men do, they have more reactive sexuality. So turn her on. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:27 PM
2

Because they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:21 PM
86

We’re in our 50s, been together 9 years, and have sex 2-3 a week or more unless it’s shark week. I don’t know what about you makes your girlfriends lose interest in sex with you, but perhaps you could try courting, teasing each other sexually throughout the day, or foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:20 PM
2

I’m dismal at doing it myself and hate spending money on it. I just try to keep mine trimmed and clean and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:26 AM
4

I don’t know about social status but my husband makes less than me by about 1/3. I love him and respect him just fine. I’m not fussed about how much someone makes as long as they have their own money and don’t constantly have their hand in my pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:23 AM
1

Occasionally, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:20 AM
1

He was just immature by my standards. He still lived with his mom and was in college. I moved out at 18, had been married and divorced, had a kid in her late teens. Just completely different stages in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 AM
1

He just chases me around the internet at this point, but he’s shown up at places I used to live looking for me, sent inappropriate messages, etc. He knows I am married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:05 AM
2

No, my husband is 7 years older. /0 years younger guy just pesters me on social media despite me blocking him on every forum. He just makes a new account and keeps trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:02 AM
2

BABIES! Too cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:10 AM
2

Yeah I am going to need to see these “proven facts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:45 AM
4

Why would I refuse sex with my husband? I like sex and I love my husband. There is plenty of time to not have sex when I am dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:37 AM
5

I don’t think anything about it, especially if I do not know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:24 AM
5

I’ll take 90s Trent Reznor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:02 AM
15

I dated a 30 year old when I was 40. It was only for a few months, it was excruciating, and I still can’t get rid of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:56 AM
2

Taurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:12 AM
2

No. It’s because it’s expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:11 AM
1

They even deliver!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:21 PM
2

I got one yesterday but I don't know what triggered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:43 PM
2

I wouldn't respect a man who thinks he is better than me though. I would be insulted and/or derisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:40 PM
3

Finally something we can all get behind!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:38 PM
0

Yes. Or it could be a subconscious biological desire to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:01 PM
1

We do not. I wouldn't even know who to ask these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:44 PM
2

I'd be happy with one. My daughter does not seem to be in any rush though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:43 PM
1

I love living in a state with dispensaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:42 PM
2

Probably. Even many of the lesbians I know have been with men at least long enough to have a kid or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:38 PM
3

This video. https://youtu.be/SaA\_cs4WZHM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:05 PM
3

I didn't open with that because I was thinking on a broader scale of why such a system would be impractical for most. Men do have this crazy notion which they mention here a lot that women want to "share" top men. For some reason it's unfathomable to them that women may not want to share, at all. I think that for the men they hope to be that man and get all the women, but most women just want someone to love and build a life with, not be part of a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:28 PM
1

Yeah, it's perfect for men who don't believe in love or relationships and just want to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:23 PM
1

I still would not be interested in sharing my man's time and body with another woman. I'm selfish that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:22 PM
3

Sounds dreadful. I'll just stick with my husband, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:51 PM
2

Wouldn't hurt to get your eyes checked, you too might need reading glasses. But I really only use them in the morning or if I'm doing close up work like hand sewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:29 PM
2

My millennial child is working, building a career, engaged and doing 20-something things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:26 PM
3

That will vary depending on what I am reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:22 PM
1

Lol no. A man can render himself unattractive merely by opening his mouth and saying something offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:20 PM
3

Most people don't want to live with their parents in the US after a certain age. Can't really bring your sugar baby home to meet Mom and Dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:18 PM
2

Yes. It takes me a good 10-15 minutes after I wake up before I can see what is on my phone without reading glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:05 PM
2

He’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:02 PM
2

I live in the US. I don’t believe that “most” men can afford to sugar or hire prostitutes on a regular basis. Many men are struggling just to keep above water financially. If it comes down to filling the gas tank or hiring a hooker, I’m guessing most are going pass on the hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:59 PM
3

You are not going to receive love from sugaring or prostitution. You are not going to get genuine desire from sugaring or prostitution. Many sugar babies don’t have sex at all and prostitutes generally will not let you kiss them. And unlike a real relationship, if you don’t have the money, they just won’t have anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:46 PM
2

It’s less “skills” and more “enthusiasm”. If you have one girl who is enthusiastically giving you her all every night and one who is loathe to give you anything at all, some men prefer the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:42 PM
1

At one point he admitted to trolling so I am going to hope he really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:15 AM
2

Serves me right for agreeing to the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:06 AM
3

I’ve heard that can happen but I haven’t experienced it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:05 AM
9

I am having an exchange with a lunatic on Reddit PM. Sometimes it’s a shame that this forum is anonymous because there is no way to get them help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:04 AM
4

I quit smoking 13 years ago but have been conditioned to find it weirdly sexy in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:06 AM
1

I would say no amount of money would make me do that since I have a husband, but my husband would be pissed at me if I didn’t at least haggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:46 AM
1

I sincerely hope that young women are having the times of their lives socializing, dating, and enjoying themselves rather than post on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:54 AM
1

She may or not be here already. I have her blocked. I ran into her a couple of times accidentally (could tell because of pics she posted on a local sub) and I am affording her privacy to Reddit as she pleases without worrying about what her mother will think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:48 AM
1

Yeah. I’m old enough to be a number of people’s mothers on PPD. And I’m not even the oldest person here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:45 AM
1

Sure I do. I have a daughter in her 20s who overshares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:41 AM
1

/prophet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:39 AM
1

Many of the women here are older and married. So we’re not really looking to attract you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:33 AM
3

Your brain is not fully formed till 25. Maybe we should raise the age of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:23 AM
1

That is most excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:19 AM
1

This is a surprisingly multicultural sub with people from a number of countries. I would not assume your contributions are any more or less valid than any of the other, often admittedly ridiculous takes you will read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:18 AM
3

Polyamory is already a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:15 AM
1

😊 that was kind of you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:34 AM
12

Lol no, I would not. I don’t share my toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:33 AM
1

I might defend her if the other commenter made some unnecessarily rude remark as was done here - not about her opinions on PPD issues because that is to be expected, but an uncalled for comment about some personal anecdote from her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:10 AM
3

I had to Google him to learn who he is. I hope he gets the help he needs. Sad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:59 AM
2

Sarcasm is always appropriate in any such situation and goes well with my wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:56 AM
4

She’s since remarried to a man who takes her on trips and feeds her golfing habit. She’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:46 AM
0

Where is your peer reviewed scientific study? No, the OKC one doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:44 AM
13

It’s worse because it conceivably diverts resources for my potential children to another woman’s potential children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:41 AM
2

He is doing that to me under different alts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:38 AM
3

My mother in law’s perennially unemployed ex-husband filed for divorce after she retired. Got half her retirement and half the proceeds of her house (“their” house, but she paid for everything).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:36 AM
5

I got my first RedditCares message! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:29 AM
4

I shave mine because I was bullied mercilessly when I got early puberty and my mom (who doesn’t shave) thought I was too young to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:21 AM
5

Thank goodness you felt the need to put down another person you don’t even know for no reason whatsoever, or else none of us would know about your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:19 AM
3

The ones on my arms were perfectly tolerable but the one on my back made me pass out and throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:18 AM
17

>like i have dyed hair, chainsmoke, have tattoos, How you doin'?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:19 AM
1

Not to mention good blow jobs could be next to impossible to give at a certain size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:45 PM
5

Yes, there are penises that are too big and sex with them is like hitting your cervix with a sledgehammer or stabbing you from the inside. I've not encountered many but I would not like a repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:19 PM
16

I read erotica and imagine myself in the scenarios I am reading. I don't have a specific man I envision in those scenarios, though I'm certain he has dark hair and eyes, is fit but not muscular, but is otherwise nondescript to the point of facelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:17 PM
5

I dated down financially and up lookswise. So I suppose I split the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:09 PM
10

It happens often enough in the reverse that it's a cliche - debutante dates boy from the wrong side of the tracks to make daddy mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:04 PM
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My husband is in for a shock in 3 years, is what you are telling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:04 PM
2

You left out the parts about how I know my shortcomings and that I am an acquired taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:40 PM
12

It is, a little, but it's also his own fault. He cheated, which led to the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:48 PM
12

My dad went through 6 months of cancer treatment and was hallucinating for a time. When I visited he thought I was my mother, come to pledge her love. It was awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:15 PM
1

Yes, but the comment I was responding to was not yours. The person said that women lie and won't tell you straight up that they are looking for superior genetics. No, that's not the way women think. They want someone they are attracted to, which I assume men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:57 PM
19

Many people have "the one that got away." It's not uncommon though I think the phrase "alpha widowed" is absurd. Most people do eventually move on and find someone new to be happy with. Some get hung up forever, like my dad who is still in love with my mother 40-odd years after their divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:40 PM
1

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:30 PM
2

Women aren't generally thinking about superior genetics when they meet a man. They just know if they find him attractive or not. And they don't generally use a 1-10 scale like men do or like is done on PPD. It's more a "yes, no, maybe" scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:27 PM
4

Men: "Women should have low N counts." Also men: "Women are insanely picky." Me: "Yeah, that's a feature, not a bug."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:12 PM
1

I'm not a good example because my hookups were with people I already knew and the conversations were personal and nostalgic, and generally involved copious amounts of alcohol which for your own safety I cannot advise. You want a consensual hookup, not a date rape situation. My husband got first date sex which I assumed was going to be just a hookup at first. He managed it by putting in the work of getting to know me over a few months and us escalating the flirtation over time. I assume you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:21 PM
2

Make me feel like we have a lot in common, make me feel like you care about my comfort and safety. We can bond over our favorite movies, books, TV shows, music - doesn't matter, just find stuff in common with me. Be funny. Be flirty, not necessarily sexual but sensual. Eye contact and a sexy smile help too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:15 PM
2

Men with higher body counts will always appreciate women with lower counts, whether that count is M3F1 or M75F51.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:36 AM
5

She doesn’t seem angry to me: She seems nonplussed. Or even plussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:33 AM
4

I’m all for it. Men deserve all the men responsibilities and options women do for contraceptives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:17 AM
1

You should watch Evil on Amazon Prime (or Paramount+). I’m obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:52 AM
2

He’s a bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:51 AM
1

Mine doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:49 AM
4

I agree with this comment and give you extra points for not misspelling “voila” as “walla” or “viola.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:47 AM
6

For your own self esteem, please stop obsessing about this. Women generally don’t think this way, neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:46 AM
2

No, it’s a billion dollar industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:42 AM
1

If they aren’t seeing their FWB while they are in a committed relationship I don’t see an issue. It’s just friends helping friends. The only downside I can see if is the FWB wants something more and you are stringing them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:31 AM
1

I don’t mind chivalry per se and can usually accept it with grace and appreciation. I’m not comfortable with men treating me like I am dumb, weak, or helpless, but if you want to open a door for me, I’ll be grateful and even will return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:02 AM
2

Someone that I was dating and that I had been close friends with since 6th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:27 PM
13

My only societal expectation of dicks is that they stay in men's pants until the appropriate time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:29 PM
5

I have literally never thought this. I know my strengths and I know my shortcomings. I've had years of singledom, but I never really thought about or needed to wonder why people don't want me. I know very well I'm an acquired taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:26 PM
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I also work from home and it’s cyclical for me. Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays are my busiest days because those are report days. When the Legislature is on recess we are pretty dead; when the Legislature is working, it gets close to frantic. December is almost like a month off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:01 PM
5

Well, women tend to like men around their own age, for one. And we gravitate toward the people in our social circle. I guess those are the people I have been exposed to at the various times in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:30 PM
5

My tastes definitely have changed. In high school I liked long haired heavy metal boys. In college I liked long haired college radio guys. Around 30 I liked other young urban professionals. Now at 50 I like men with beards and tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:12 PM
1

You mean like when RP calls child support “divorce rape?” Yeah I think it’s tacky and awful but not violent. Encouraging men to rape women may be considered violent. Or racists calling for lynching African Americans would be considered violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:08 PM
1

And it’s my right to say, I am just quoting you guys back to you so if that’s sexist, I learned it from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:06 PM
3

No you aren’t. Embryos aren’t children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:05 PM
1

I'm not. I was using an oft-quoted cliche. Not every man is going to want to fuck every woman, but enough men will want to fuck opportunistically that women become jaded to it before they even get out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:59 PM
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I misread the tweet and thought the teacher took his own son and wondered what the big deal was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:57 PM
1

They gave birth to children that were raised as their own siblings, or were sent off to unwed mother houses, or had shotgun weddings. They weren't waiting for financial feasibility then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:56 PM
1

Inciting violence is already a crime in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:54 PM
3

All cats are black in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:50 PM
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I suppose speech that encourages violence could be considered a form of violence. I'm more of a "sticks and stones" person but I also don't tend to be susceptible to mob rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:44 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:42 PM
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Like, meth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:41 PM
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How would the teacher even know that though? It's not like it's "RuPaul's Drag Race and Sex Offender Show." I took my teen to Drag Queen Bingo and she loved it. We had a good time. I did not look up each drag queen's criminal background before hand. They don't exactly use their real names on stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:41 PM
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You aren't paying for the woman. You're paying for the care of the child. The way to discourage single motherhood is through comprehensive sex education, not starving babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:06 PM
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Send that bitch a smiley face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:03 PM
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They usually agree to open or closed adoptions. They have no rights to the child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:28 PM
1

Purpose driven as written in the OP. I don’t care much about status or money. I would need him to be able to support himself though. Even if he puts going to the gym before work. Mama ain’t running a charity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:13 PM
1

Here’s one. https://www.npr.org/local/305/2020/02/25/809281540/after-the-break-up-moving-forward-as-a-single-parent-when-child-support-goes-unpaid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:01 PM
5

Maybe you don’t to, but you likely would given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:59 PM
3

Speak for yourself. Most men who are not gay or asexual, rational or not, will tell you that sex is a “need.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:58 PM
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It’s not a compliment to have men want to use your body without caring about the person inside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:44 AM
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No, I don’t believe in them considering that the Supreme Court’s opinion is going to make abortion difficult for for women. So now they won’t be able to get an abortion AND the father can refuse to pay child support too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:03 AM
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That’s not a deadbeat mom. That’s choosing not to be a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:01 AM
4

A lot of Avril’s songs are about co-opting someone else’s boyfriend. “Hey HEY you YOU, I don’t like your girlfriend, I think you need a new one”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:23 AM
0

They don’t, per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:22 AM
34

Not the sex itself. Men wanting to have sex with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:11 AM
65

Most women know that men want to fuck them, whether they are beautiful or not. It’s why we don’t value it much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:57 AM
2

I’m atheist and my husband is Christian-ish. It’s not an insurmountable obstacle if you can respect each other’s beliefs, or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:08 AM
1

Nobody believes this. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:29 PM
2

Lol we had smart phones in 2011-2018, how young are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:22 PM
1

So don't grow one then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:33 PM
2

Women also have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:28 PM
1

Not every woman can wear makeup either. Some of us have allergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:27 PM
0

This article cites several studies. https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:09 PM
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2 years married, 5 cohabitating, 9 years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:53 PM
1

How do you figure from what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:47 PM
1

Lol no, that isn’t even a near comparison. Cardi B is famous, attractive and rich. Criminals generally aren’t. Neither are the girls into them, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:40 PM
4

Sure they can. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:37 PM
0

It would be like me being angry that all the men in the trailer park want to fuck the community crack whore - I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:22 PM
1

Maybe they should get into a long term relationship instead of pursuing casual then. It’s much more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:15 PM
1

Lol no, I have no problem splitting on dates. I just happen to adore beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:11 PM
1

I figure if the spiders can survive 2 cats and a dog they deserve to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:07 PM
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Some do. Not most, and again? Why would you be upset about the type of women who would want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:02 PM
1

I don’t let him kill spiders. I name them and let them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:00 PM
3

It may be, but guys love a good Kegel while they’re in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:59 PM
2

I’m watching a tv show from 2020 that mentions incels. It was an episode with a young dude wanting to kill a bunch of women at a women’s only gym. More being groomed to kill by others, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:58 PM
2

What the hell is wrong with your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:56 PM
1

That’s hyperbole. They’re just saying a man can hide facial flaws with a beard (and IMO gain points in hotness) the way women do with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:54 PM
2

Kegels!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:52 PM
3

He takes out the trash and takes care of the car maintenance. It doesn’t make me feel more feminine per se, but I’m happy not to do those things myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:51 PM
1

Most women don’t fuck criminals anyway. And the ones that do, why would you be upset not to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:50 PM
4

“Round” means go up by 1 or 2, not dozens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:48 PM
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Most people will never hear that their partner was with 50 people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:35 PM
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No they don’t. Most life time body counts for both men and women around 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:34 PM
12

Where is your evidence that it is the exception and not the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:32 PM
13

Weird, since I had first date sex with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:31 PM
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No they aren't. That's inkwell fantasy. 30% of men allegedly aren't getting sex, not 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:44 PM
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Plenty of men are having lots of sex in their 20s. Everyone I had sex with in my 20s was also in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:16 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:10 PM
2

I had casual sex with men I had known for decades and was feeling affectionate toward at the moment. They weren't Chads and there was no real spark. I don't think most men want to wait 10-20 years to sleep with a woman, though. And I did have first date sex with my husband but I'd already known him several months. So he put in the emotional work before even asking me on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:45 PM
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I don't see how watching the equivalent of softcore porn makes me more informed. I'm perfectly familiar with the mechanics of sex and I don't need an OnlyFans, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:13 PM
2

You know you can unfollow social media that you don't like? My social media isn't really sexual at all. It's all friends, family and critters. You see what you want to see - so I guess in your case, it's sexual so you can come here and rant about it later. A similar rant for me would be "why do so many people own French bulldogs" because that's half of what I see on my social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:55 PM
2

When women talk about a "real man" it's just a man that she admires or respects and/or would be willing to date. It won't necessarily be the same man for every woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:50 PM
2

No he didn't. He couldn't get one because he isn't Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:14 PM
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I mean, his height would probably put him at least a 6 but for me personally, maybe a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:14 AM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:00 AM
0

Does not look to be my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:59 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever turned down someone for their height. I was more than once encouraged to reject someone because of their height, but I’m short myself and I’ve never even had to look in order find someone at least taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:27 AM
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He has a certain niche appeal. Too young for my tastes, though, he looks 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:11 PM
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The fishing pole is more picturesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:00 PM
0

Dunno, I avoided frats and fret guys and sororities in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:44 PM
1

I already responded. Not giving you the answer you hoped to hear does not make it a non-answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:49 PM
3

Just because she hasn’t slept with others does not mean she will not fantasize about others. That’s why it is called fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:48 PM
3

She shouldn’t be paying for it unless he already has married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:39 PM
3

Are orphans not deserving of sex or love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:11 PM
1

You said “all married people lie” but you haven’t proven that. You’ve only shown that you yourself lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:01 PM
3

It was okay for me. I found myself single in my mid to late 30s and started dating again at 41. I was just looking for casual at first but I did hope to eventually find someone, which I did. Lots of divorced men, single fathers and younger men looking for cougars. I met my partner after about a year of being back on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:54 PM
6

No guy is ever excited about meeting your family. That’s not a good test.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:45 PM
2

Sure they do. Because she’s not sleeping with Chad, but she’s not sleeping with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:40 PM
3

My husband’s parents are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:38 PM
18

If you think people weren’t having sex before marriage pre-1970, you’re adorable. Somebody needs to pat your little head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:35 PM
1

Oh, so your marriage failed and that means all marriages are miserable. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:33 PM
2

Show me evidence that most married men are miserable. But I don’t want to convince you. It’s better for women if you don’t marry them, if you’re red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:26 PM
2

Married men are happier and live longer than single men. There is lots of evidence for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:22 PM
1

They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:17 PM
1

Who is it revenge against? Everyone knows that senior communities are rife with STDs these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:46 PM
1

I had other options. Two of them are still doing what I suppose you would call orbiting. One is 10 years younger than me. I am not interested. I know you love your revenge fantasies but there are plenty of single and divorced men for 40 year old women. My mother in law remarried in her 70s and went on a world tour with her new husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:15 PM
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Lol, no. I wasn’t desperate. I was already previously married and my daughter was in her late teens. I just wanted NSA sex and he seemed like a reasonable candidate that I wouldn’t have to get attached to. Then I got attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:02 PM
1

Getting an education and earning a living. Maybe not getting a lot of attention from men but having a reasonably active social life with a small but tight group of friends. You’re not a party girl and you aren’t on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:00 PM
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If she stands you up frequently, is slow to answer texts or only texts back after the bars close, if she talks about an ex a lot, if she has a “friend” that she assures you is platonic but he’s with her all the time, if she shuts down conversations that get too personal, if she doesn’t want you to meet her friends and/or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:57 PM
1

Not everybody wants your sister’s life. I would be miserable as a stay home mom. And no, you can’t be young and average looking. You have to be 30 and overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:54 PM
0

Imagine having a vagina and everybody wants to tap it but you can't get them to stick around even if you carry their child. Life is not fair or easy for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:13 PM
5

Of course they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:03 PM
21

All men want to fuck on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:46 PM
13

The man who cheated on me was 5'7". He was not Chadly. He was just a normal average guy who cheats, as many of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:46 PM
4

Why have I been cheated on but not been the cheater then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:21 PM
28

Men: women should stop sleeping with men who only want hookups. Also men: a woman should sleep with me on the first date or I'll stop seeing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:19 PM
1

They could, but they often don't. People like being parents. That doesn't mean it's easy, but it's worth it to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:24 PM
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He said 80k in an area with a high cost of living is not impressive. If you make $80k in, say, Oklahoma you'd be a stud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:12 PM
1

If some dude approached me while recording, I would turn him down and think he was a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:11 PM
2

Oh, I can answer that. Married at 21, baby at 22, divorced at 25. Being a single mother makes her happier than being stuck with a deadbeat for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:32 PM
1

Then he died alone and unloved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:27 PM
2

Met mine at 42. He was new to the area, bartending and had no furniture yet. I definitely did not choose him for his income. I chose him because I liked his manners and because we had fostered a friendship of sorts, and I thought it would be a fun little fling. It grew into something more over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:23 PM
4

I met mine at 42 and married him at 49. We celebrated our 9th anniversary of dating last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:13 PM
4

Not really. It could just mean he was horny and she was available. Like if he were drunk or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:06 PM
2

Every mother who has ever raised kids knows this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:03 PM
2

My self esteem would be devastated in addition to my heart being crushed. At least if she were ugly I could still feel superior to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:02 PM
2

Poor bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:57 PM
1

Prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:56 PM
1

Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:52 AM
1

I didn’t say it wasn’t my business what my partner does. The question is about women posting sexy pictures. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:11 AM
1

Good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:12 PM
1

Only if I’m dating him. Which most assuredly, I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:09 PM
-1

You’re welcome to post your penis too. I will not be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:46 AM
1

Oh well? I don’t force my morals on others. If I see something I do not like I can always unfriend or unfollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:44 AM
1

This woman could not tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:40 AM
2

Why does the rooster crow?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:36 AM
1

Working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:34 AM
2

I wish more people realized this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:33 AM
0

I think it’s none of my quacking business what others do with their social media. It impacts my life not at all, so why worry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:32 AM
11

Honey, I’m not that old yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:27 AM
22

It’s not a need in the sense that you will die without it. Plenty of couples of a certain age have long stopped having sex but are still in love. That said, sex is enough of imperative that a relationship without it is a dealbreaker for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:25 AM
1

I got tagged a few times like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:39 AM
0

I wouldn’t not vote for her, but I need to know more about her platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:40 PM
0

We live in California. My family is all mainly on the East Coast and my sister lives in Europe; my husband’s family is all in Mexico. Social media is an efficient and easy way to keep up with everyone and I do not think either of us will be deleting it. I’m watching my lil niece and nephews grow up via the magic of Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:12 PM
4

I would not sleep with anyone I was in an LTR with again. There are a few people I had casual sex with that I could envision having sex with again if we were both single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:08 PM
17

For me, I was single, hadn't had sex in 4 years, and didn't want to be in a relationship because I had a teenage girl at home and didn't want to make her last few years with me awkward. So I had a few hookups with men that I knew and were close with but not likely to get into relationships with - a friend's brother, another friend's baby daddy, my godson's dad. It fulfilled the need for sex and it ticked the emotional investment box without having to commit or see them more than a few times. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:36 PM
2

It's not, unless you aren't attracted to women. Assuming you are, then it's bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:46 PM
3

#teambeard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:46 PM
5

Call it what you want, my husband just shaved his and I am very sad. Instead of looking like a silver fox he has that jowelly look. He's still handsome and I love him but it takes a bite out of the sexy, you feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:45 PM
1

Good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:42 PM
1

I’m about to have a burger for lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:02 PM
2

When I do it, it's because a picture turned out well and I want my family and friends to see it. I haven't seen my mom since 2018 so pictures is all she gets of me until later this summer. I'm not looking for male admirers, just sharing something of my life with folks that are in my circle. Mind you, I'm also not posting bikini photos, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:56 PM
7

Why does anyone post photos of anything? Why do people post pictures of their dinner? Why do I post 4,372 photos of my dog on Insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:48 PM
3

Obsessing about getting married sets you up for failure too. It spooks people who would otherwise have been a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:01 PM
3

Most women aren't putting up with harrowing abuse. It's more like, a man who doesn't help out around the house in favor of playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:15 PM
1

Yes. It's part of my insurance package through my employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:09 PM
2

I have a $5 copay for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:49 PM
3

I hate those free trials, I sign up and forget to cancel and up paying for like 3 extra months of Shudder or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:48 PM
4

Where's my free shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:42 PM
8

Never, to the men who resent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:38 PM
6

My opinion is that it's nobody's business but the couple's. Maybe he LIKES that his woman gets sexual attention. Maybe it makes him feel like a stud to have a girl that everybody else wants. I had a friend who was a cam girl back in the 90s and her husband did the filming. They both liked the extra money she brought in. She didn't consider it porn, she thought it was artistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:34 PM
1

I am also talking about the ones now. The woman I know married to a trans man is 26 or 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:21 PM
3

Same but more like 1/3.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:17 PM
2

All the non-binary women I know are mothers, except for one who married a trans man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:16 PM
5

People like to join cults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:55 PM
3

I didn’t have my hoe phase till my 40s and it was because I did not want a relationship. My kid was in her by late teens and I didn’t want to date till she moved out, if ever. I didn’t plan most of these encounters, just hooked up with a male friend at the end of a night. I don’t have a negative view of men in general but I don’t have high expectations of them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:37 PM
1

Why isn t it going to work well for anyone? It’s working great for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:18 PM
1

We’re flying into Pittsburgh!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:17 PM
1

Saaame. I am not a schmoozer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:12 AM
2

He wants to go to the Serpent Mound in Ohio, because he watches too much Ancient Aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:30 PM
2

My southern accent. I do not have a southern accent. I’ve never lived in the south either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:29 PM
1

A man who can speak Spanish or Italian is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:28 PM
1

No, my other alt is for my PokemonGo account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:27 PM
1

I think we should be paying them rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:26 PM
1

My love language is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:26 PM
3

You know they put out, obvs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:24 PM
1

We live in NorCal, my family lives in WV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:23 PM
1

As an atheist there is no other way to use a god’s name but in vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:07 PM
2

As an atheist, I acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:58 PM
1

I usually take my daughter with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:56 PM
1

We’ve been together 9 years but usually when I go back I take my daughter. This time I am taking my husband. We got married during Covid and obviously we could not travel then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:53 PM
2

We’ve been dating on and off since 2013 but we didn’t move in together since 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:50 PM
7

I am taking Mr. Paisley to the Appalachians to meet my mother in August, God help us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:36 PM
2

We went to a bar and grill on the river and are eating outside amongst the pirate statues and the live chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:33 PM
2

My former brother in law got full custody of my nephews because my sister gave up custody so she could move to Europe with her new husband. One of my male bffs has full custody of his 2 boys for the same reason - his wife left him for another man and moved out of state. The fathers got child support in both of those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:51 PM
3

My dad lived down the street so we saw him all the time. He didn't pay child support because my mom didn't ask for it because she knew he'd never be reliable at paying it, and she didn't really need it. She didn't try to stop him from seeing us though. He just showed up to do the fun stuff - vacations, circuses, carnivals and the like. And he bought the showy Christmas and birthday presents while she bought us more the stuff we needed like clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:44 PM
8

My ex-husband didn't want custody. My dad didn't want it. Kids take money and time and it's hard to party and date when you have to worry about taking care of them. But the other poster is right - when men fight for custody, they are likely to get it. At least 50/50, and often full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:28 PM
11

More women than men get college degrees these days so the pay gap will probably start to close naturally. A lot of women earn more than their spouse these days and that number is just going to grow. And it's nigh impossible to raise a family on one wage these days so chances are both parents will be working. Fortunately telework has gotten popular the last few years which has been great for a lot of working parents. I don't have kids at home anymore but I'm still working from home indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:22 PM
9

Ugh. I'm not anti-marriage, obviously, but I am anti-making it an obsession or goal. You should meet people, get to know them, have a good time, and marry the right person instead of the person who shows up on the correct timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:17 PM
1

Real: 16. Imaginary: lots and lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:04 PM
2

That’s… kind of sad and yet not a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:02 PM
1

I didn’t say the women were all attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:32 PM
4

Like the big ass pick up truck parked in front of a trailer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:36 AM
3

My husband is 5’8”, Mexican, and a manhoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:29 AM
27

How js a man who is a jobless welfare rat rocking a Lamborghini, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:14 AM
20

Many a couple started out with nothing and grew together. But I don’t want to convince you of anything. If you aren’t mutually invested in someone there is no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:10 AM
2

I don’t blame him for approaching. In fact I generally feel a little helpless because it’s usually gonna be a no. I do blame him if he acts like a jerk instead of accepting “I’m married.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:32 AM
1

8-9.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:03 AM
3

Congrats! And fuck your boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:45 AM
3

They’re fine. I like them fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:44 AM
3

That just makes sense from the women’s viewpoint. Why date someone who does not share your values?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:29 AM
9

He was bartending and yes. One lady hit on him at the grocery store and offered to get out of my way because she thought I was a passing customer and she wanted to chat him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:16 AM
2

The first time I saw it I was on mushrooms and it was hilarious, but Kate Winslet is still my girl crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:56 PM
2

Not very.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:53 PM
2

Only the very wealthy can give their kids everything they want. And it’s good for kids to learn they can’t have everything handed to them. They remember more the times you spent with them than the stuff you were able to buy them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:52 PM
2

I read that in HS. I should re-read it with an adult perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:46 PM
1

5-7 years. 5 is preferred but my husband is 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:35 PM
2

Get a chocolate eclair bar for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:28 PM
1

Yes. It was the first birthday I spent with him. The year prior we were already dating but he had left town for work for a few months so I didn’t see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:19 PM
1

I baked him a cake and decorated his apartment for his 50th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:17 PM
2

It’s like if Grumpy Old Men starred Cheech and Chong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:06 PM
5

To document your journey of parenthood on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:19 PM
8

They’re retired musicians. The roommate found himself homeless and my dad took pity on him and took him in. They fight all the time but they both need each other to live independently. A typical conversation between them is my dad threatening to hit the roommate with his cane and the roommate responding with “I’ll just push you over and you won’t be able to stand back up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:17 PM
1

Congrats, daddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:15 PM
1

4, but the babies are a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:03 PM
2

A lot of my bi friends married men and had kids and then got divorced and went back to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:22 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:22 PM
5

Just my dad and his roommate, but they are in their 70s and are hoarders. I did know one 30 year old virgin, though I didn't know him well. I don't know his reasons but he was tall, blond, and attractive. He did eventually get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:51 PM
1

We do in my area. We also have farmer’s markets, free concerts in the park, food truck fairs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:37 PM
3

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:29 PM
1

They're fine on other people, just not on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:17 PM
1

I don't think they're high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:04 PM
11

That's the standard response on PPD when someone here says they are married. They can't possibly be happy, right? But many of us are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:03 PM
5

If they only have sex within relationships, there is no difference to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:01 PM
4

I've seen all kinds of couples at all kinds of income levels. These men aren't all Chadly studs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:00 PM
2

If I thought someone I was dating was talking to or dating other women, I would stop seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:26 PM
2

No, he got mad at me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:57 PM
1

Atheist here, no pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:56 PM
3

Maybe I can suggest a dream 3some.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:45 PM
1

Yeah, but it sounded good and it shut him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:43 PM
1

It's actually Mr. Paisley who had the dream. I told him it's his subconscious working out his own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:41 PM
1

I'll try that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:38 PM
4

Q4All: If your partner woke up mad at you because you cheated on them in a dream, what is the appropriate response? Do you laugh, try to placate them, get annoyed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:36 PM
2

Aw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:35 PM
0

I make more than my husband by quite a bit, but I would not call him a gigolo or say he's leeching off me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:20 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:15 PM
4

Not necessarily true. She may find him sexually attractive. If she’s making out, doing everything but sex, she probably does find him sexually attractive. But she wants him to stick around so she doesn’t f give it up too quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:14 PM
1

I think I saw him on SNL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:09 PM
2

Fun! Who are you going to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:06 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:05 PM
6

I had a 2 margarita lunch. Hurray for Taco Tuesdays and working from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:37 PM
5

You shall have to change one word in your post for it to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:35 PM
1

I love Silence of the Lambs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:34 PM
2

I mean, Johnny Depp is the Mad Hatter, so what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:30 PM
3

Yeah, because they give oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:28 PM
1

I think it’s the physical affection more than the sex itself, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:57 PM
1

You can’t get your business done online?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:55 PM
2

I find certain traits attractive but I don’t really have a type. If I like you, I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:54 PM
1

I wouldn’t do it if I were a man either. It’s stupid to disfigure yourself on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:37 PM
1

Having leg lengthening surgery fucks up your legs, often permanently. I'd rather be short and able to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:03 PM
2

Nothing wrong with being crippled for life for a few extra inches!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:20 PM
3

My friend has had so many surgeries and problems with hers that I would never consider it. Not that I need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:19 PM
1

Better for your penis than for your money, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:55 PM
2

Aw. Couldn’t we make an exception for an old retired slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:46 PM
4

All those Congress critters have mistresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:24 PM
3

That’s going to depend entirely on the guy, the girl, and the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:03 PM
2

Mine’s the Imperial March.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:25 PM
1

My husband and I were FWBs and we agreed to be exclusive but it was just supposed to be for that summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:20 PM
1

I used to take my daughter to Drag Queen Bingo night but she was in her teens. Then they made it 21 and over so we couldn’t go anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:53 PM
10

I would be sad but I understand, with the caveat that it be done in a civil fashion without name calling and accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:24 AM
1

It’s sad that the world’s moved on from love poems to eggplant emojis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:14 AM
2

Yes, but I choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:04 PM
1

Unless you are talking about the crackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:57 PM
3

When I was dating in high school and college I would exchange handwritten notes and letters with the object of my affection. Sometimes 8-10 pages long. My last LTR before this one, we exchanged daily emails. Now I am married and in this relationship it’s never not been texting and emojis. If intellect has not gone downhill, communication certainly has.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:56 PM
1

Sounds fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:57 PM
1

As long as they stay out of my house, we're cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:23 PM
9

I know 2 couples that got divorced during Covid. Both had problems long before Covid was on the radar but the extra stress and enforced closeness pushed them over the edge, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:37 PM
8

Only about 10% of divorces result in alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:29 PM
6

My mom's third marriage is still going strong, 40 years later!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:26 PM
2

My parents' divorce was probably a combination of 1, 2, 3 and 4. It was my mom's second marriage - she married her high school sweetheart who was stationed in Germany but who turned out to be abusive, so she left him and went back to the States. My dad was a traveling musician and had a grand old time on the road, with all that scenario entails (alcohol, drugs, groupies). My mom sometimes worked 12 hour days to keep us all afloat - she would take us to work with her or shuffle us off to the gran…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:07 PM
1

That’s how it seems. One of the reasons people settle down with a partner is so they don’t have to go through all that dating rigamarole, they can just stay home and cuddle on the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:20 AM
1

Sure I am. I’m all about voting and eliminating the wage gap and lactation rooms in the work place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:10 AM
2

10 years. He was younger. I was 40. I felt a little like his mother. Mr. Paisley is 7 years older. It’s a much better fit. Our biggest differences are musical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:45 AM
1

I went off to college and he stayed in our home town.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:37 AM
3

He just hasn’t met the right 19-year old swimsuit model yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:10 AM
1

It was spontaneous, sort of, but there had been like 6 months of intense build up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:08 AM
7

I don’t wear makeup unless I am going to a work function or a party. My daily look is just toner, serum, moisturizer and sunblock. Maybe some chapstick. Not wearing makeup has never hindered my dating life. When I do wear makeup I rock it, but I don’t notice discernibly more attention from when I don’t. I still get carded from time to time without makeup at 50. Those people are insane or looking for higher tips, I think, but it’s a nice ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:02 AM
3

I call it a white wine spritzer and yes. Time for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:09 AM
1

My partner is 57 and has significant health problems and we still have sex 3-4 times a week. Sometimes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:55 AM
1

Maybe she wouldn’t be broke if she bought less weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:54 AM
0

Gross, I never wanted a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:53 AM
3

You can but I can only ever figure out how to do it from my laptop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:44 AM
2

Said by the gender who screams at the TV if the sportsball guys fumble a ball or punches a wall when the is mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:34 AM
3

No, those are the coke and Molly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:25 PM
3

I’m sorry, that does sound difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:07 PM
3

You called?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:06 PM
-2

Not all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:38 PM
2

I would say that depends on her schedule and when you text her. If you text her at midnight don’t be outraged if she doesn’t text her back right away. She’s probably asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:35 PM
2

My last quick lay turned into a relationship that’s going on 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:22 PM
1

He said it was far too detailed and as the tattoo aged it would look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:19 PM
1

Girls talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:17 PM
2

I have an Alice tattoo, but it’s only Disney because the artist wouldn’t do the Tenniel drawing I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:15 PM
3

3some time!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:14 PM
1

No, doofus, I talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:10 PM
2

Not having sex with you isn’t treating you badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:10 PM
2

I like tattoos as long as they aren’t crude or poorly done. Or something tacky and awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:59 PM
3

Because I like to get to know people before I sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:01 PM
1

But that cuts them off from other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:59 PM
4

One of them literally worked for Planned Parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:59 PM
5

Feminist men give the best oral. Non-feminist men don’t bother to learn about the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:56 PM
4

Because men want sex more than they want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:54 PM
3

She’s a miserable hag because other people were cruel to her? Well, sounds like maybe she has had reasons to be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:53 PM
1

All of the men I’ve slept with considered themselves feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:51 PM
4

You mean when attractive women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:47 PM
1

Better working conditions is not “avoiding responsibility.” It’s keeping employers from exploiting their workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:46 PM
1

Better conditions for working people, the right to responsibly choose not to have a kid if you don’t want or can’t afford to, that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:31 PM
4

If he requires submission he’d better be talking about in the bedroom. Otherwise nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:06 PM
3

It isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:55 PM
3

That’s hyperbolic and untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:42 PM
2

You’re welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:42 PM
2

I don’t have any awards to give so take this hedgehog 🦔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:35 PM
3

No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:20 PM
57

Years of watching Investigation Discovery and Intervention have shown me that a 50 year old man making $30k can get with a 25 year old girl if he dates poor trailer trash and doesn’t mind feeding her meth habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:17 PM
7

I mean, a whole tenet of RP is that women are children, which is not respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:15 PM
5

They don’t respect women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:14 PM
1

The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:13 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:07 PM
2

Attraction isn’t always instant. Sometimes you can have people in your life that you didn’t notice at first but as you get to know them better they are very appealing. Other people hit you like a ton of bricks when you meet them, but that feeling can die just as quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:05 PM
2

I can’t say for sure. A yes and a maybe are both going to have to wait until I am comfortable with them, but how long that takes depends on other factors besides just what they look like. Like, I had sex with my husband on the first date, but we already knew each other for a few months so there was no real reason to wait. First date sex is not something I would be likely to with, say, a Tinder date, because I don’t know that person at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:58 PM
2

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:49 PM
1

For me it will depend on which one I get on with best or the one with the most in common. Barring that, the one with better musical taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:48 PM
2

My husband had a dream like that about me last week. I told him it’s his own insecurities resolving themselves while he sleeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:45 PM
2

You can’t get a 2 bedroom apartment where I live for $1700, let alone a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:43 PM
1

Eye contact and body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:40 PM
1

Cooking him dinner every day is cold hearted? Well, you haven’t tasted my cooking so that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:37 PM
1

If he can golf, lift, hike, and play soccer most days of the week, and smoke cigarettes several times a day, 10 minutes of washing dishes is negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:24 PM
4

I have 3 ratings only: “yes,” maybe”, and “no.” No amount of working for it will turn a no into a maybe or a yes. A maybe might get it but it’s more about familiarity than effort. A yes can turn into a no very quickly if he opens his mouth and something stupid comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:21 PM
1

Because I hate doing the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:13 PM
3

He wasn’t particularly ugly, if you take away the crazed hermit beard. He was definitely mentally ill and the trauma he suffered during those college experiments didn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:12 PM
5

Me too. If I’m not attracted to him, there isn’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:06 PM
3

I prefer invisibility, but I’m an introvert with social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:03 PM
2

His arms are longer and besides, 99% of the time I cooked. He only has to wash dishes every other day (we take turns) which I think is more than fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:58 PM
5

If I’m not attracted to him it doesn’t matter how hard he works for it, he’s going to stay in the friend zone. Maybe even the passing acquaintance zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:55 PM
5

And thar’s not bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:54 PM
0

Okay first of all that’s MGTOW not incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:30 PM
1

My husband is circumcised and pro-circumcision. I’m more or less against it but I’ve also never had to make the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:18 PM
1

No. I need to keep working for my sanity and to keep my pension.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:16 PM
3

Daily Circle Jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:12 PM
3

The Unibomber was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:58 PM
11

Everyone likes being desired. There’s more to being turned on than just being desired though. For one, you have to desire him back. For two, at least for me, the flirting, touching, kissing, the buildup to sex is what turns me on, more so even than the actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:53 PM
1

I feel like it’s a bad idea but people are already using DNA kits on their own for fun. The Golden State Killer and others were apprehended because of these kits. I wouldn’t be surprised if a government registry of some sort probably already exists, we just don’t know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:41 PM
3

Religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:36 PM
0

I’m 50 years old and I can think of 3 guys who would probably pop on over if I texted them for a booty call. That doesn’t mean anything at all to me and I am not interested. But perhaps that is what she means. There’s thirsty guys in any friends circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:31 PM
1

Most of us don’t view men as something to exploit no matter how hot he is. And I might find certain men hot (hello, husband), but “adoration” is a little over the top for a relationship. I’m happy with mutual love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:22 PM
2

That’s….not a justification for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:09 PM
3

So rape is okay if you know the dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:00 PM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:44 PM
8

I thought as single women get older they get desperate and will settle for a beta so she can have kids and divorce rape him later. You guys need to get your stories straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:37 PM
23

The men on this sub generally claim that a woman’s education and money don’t matter - they just want her to be pretty and not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:34 PM
9

3-ish, but if you don’t offer a helping hand or empathy to anyone regardless of gender you’re kind of an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:24 PM
4

Not really. I have been watching my younger cousins, and some of my older cousins’ kids, get engaged or married and starting families: My nephew. My daughter. They are just doing it a little older than my generation did, but not dramatically so:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:17 PM
2

I think I’m A-ish. Like an A minus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:53 AM
2

He’s hot and that is a perfectly respectable height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:08 AM
4

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:58 AM
9

Most women are themselves not wealthy and aren’t expecting their man to be either. A lot of us work and just want someone to split the bills with, not to pay them for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:57 AM
1

Would you give up 6 inches then? And where?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:55 AM
1

Moulin Rouge, Princess Bride, and I don’t know I don’t watch a lot of romances. Edit: I wouldn’t put it on my list but would Natural Born Killers count as a romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:08 PM
2

Yes, thar’s basically what I said you would say, as a PPD man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:43 PM
1

I know this - men here will insist that we are wrong. Or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:59 PM
3

I agree, but I envision responses babbling about the “halo effect.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:41 PM
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