TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

PickleLine Archive

View 83 posts and 3,962 comments by PickleLine on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
344

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:26 PM
325

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:40 AM
228

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 11:53 PM
162

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:57 PM
138

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:30 PM
88

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:22 PM
82

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:44 AM
80

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:02 PM
79

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:02 PM
72

Purge Week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:35 PM
56

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:04 PM
44

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:19 PM
41

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:43 PM
37

DebatePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:27 PM
32

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:19 PM
32

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:33 PM
31

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:45 PM
31

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:29 AM
26

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:04 PM
23

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:48 AM
22

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:42 AM
22

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:36 PM
22

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:55 PM
20

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:43 AM
20

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:09 PM
19

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:56 PM
18

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:45 PM
17

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 09:06 PM
16

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:22 PM
15

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:05 AM
14

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:46 PM
14

Purge Week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:33 PM
13

PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:41 PM
12

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:23 PM
11

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:00 AM
9

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:37 AM
9

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:46 PM
8

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:53 AM
8

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:29 PM
8

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:03 AM
7

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:00 PM
7

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:30 PM
6

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:29 AM
6

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:35 AM
6

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:03 AM
5

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:42 PM
4

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:04 AM
3

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:20 AM
3

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:11 PM
3

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:44 PM
2

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:56 PM
2

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:01 AM
2

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:39 PM
2

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:50 PM
2

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:43 PM
2

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:19 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:43 AM
1

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:01 PM
1

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:04 AM
1

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:05 AM
1

Question For MenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:09 AM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:57 PM
1

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:22 PM
1

Question For WomenPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:42 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:57 PM
1

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:00 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:54 PM
1

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:59 AM
1

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:03 AM
1

PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:59 AM
1

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:41 PM
1

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:17 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:00 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:02 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:03 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:44 PM
1

SciencePickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:06 PM
1

PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:23 PM
0

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 07:51 PM
0

Purge week!PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:10 PM
0

PickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:51 PM
0

DiscussionPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:20 PM
0

CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:59 AM
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 3,962 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

negative
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:00 PM
2

I mean fashion won't bring them up that much and the bar for social skills to be able to get casual sex regularly is pretty high, on the level of an expert salesman. An average looking man can have normal social skills, have a decent social circle, keep a white collar job and be unable to get much casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:57 PM
1

I mean there's a sea of difference between getting no sex at all and being "treated like the cream of the crop" for casual sex. You're putting in argument into people's mouths which they didn't use. Average looking men deserve casual sex with average looking women without having to put in too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:56 PM
23

The problem is that if you're a regular looking guy in the modern age you need the personality/social skills of an elite salesmen or a socialite to get casual sex at a reasonable rate with non-uggos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:51 PM
8

You can have a fine personality and social skills and still not get casual sex as a man. Women's standards, being able to get laid, don't define men's general social skills and personality. Women have wacky standards. The problem with modern dating as an average/below average looking man is that in order to get casual sex you have to have top tier social skills like a top salesmen to be able to get a reasonable amount of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:46 PM
6

😍 You're an upstanding citizen who should be a role model for all women in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:54 AM
6

if you ever have any doubts on whether you are attractive while you have this low N-count, don't ever be in doubt You're attractive and you're worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:48 AM
3

What's her N-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:44 AM
1

It's not about compatibility A high N-count in women is plain unattractive in the same way that being a short as a man is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:28 PM
2

I'm the prophet that PPD needs but doesn't deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:22 PM
2

These rates are controlled by how easy and slutty the women are, not how awesome they are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:21 PM
1

we never confirm if the guesses are right or wrong, so no one can be 100% sure lol half the people in here got guessed Your pic would also be appreciated OP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:19 PM
1

high school is too early you'll find the disparity in college
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:17 PM
2

Yeah average/below average college educated black men actually have it easiest out of all average/below average men because they can easily date black women from the racial gender disparity in education The high incarceration rate for black men is actually good thing for regular black men because it improves the gender ratio and decreases competition
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:03 PM
1

women easy mode life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:57 PM
2

Ugly women make up < 1% of the population and even then they aren't treated worse than ugly men Fat women aren't treated worse than ugly men but they should be treated like social outcasts for their own good, so they can be motivated to stop being fat and unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:55 PM
1

Women go accusing men of insecurity all the time but if you make any comment about their sexual history or N-count, they go ballistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:50 PM
4

they've been caught in a dilemma Either women's dating choices are free from criticism/unsolicited advice Or People can have free reign to criticize women's dating choices
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:05 AM
2

The best ones are the normie ones where they are clueless and you can cite someone who's not in the know proving the point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:16 AM
-1

The two main reasons for birth rates rapidly decreasing in recent years are women's increasingly unrealistic expectations and standards (women price themselves out of the market) and women's rapidly degenerating ability to pair bond and form a relationship (women increasingly are unable to participate in the relationship market)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:07 AM
2

We can make social change by spreading the idea that modern women are broken from casual sex and hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:06 AM
3

women thinking they've finally beat the patriarchy just to enslave themselves into the corporate life instead congrats feminists, you've doubled the labor force and decreased wages for everyone, so that both parents now have to work to support a family
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:04 AM
2

All non-Chads who care about relationships lose because women are being ruined by the attention and casual sex. After all the attention and casual sex, women are unable to love anymore. Women no longer have any value for a relationship. The problem is that dating apps gave access to women who used to be worth it before dating apps, who had low N-count and still had the ability to pairbond and love. Now they've all been ruined. Women lose too. They lose their ability to love and be in a loving re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:59 PM
10

women live life on easy mode from the horse's mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:48 PM
1

for some it's probably the opposite. Women from 18 to late 20s have extreme female privilege and live easy lives. Everyone treats them well, so they aren't jaded yet and think the world is a nice place. Then they get older, get treated like everyone else, and get jaded over being treated like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:08 PM
3

this is women's attempt to shame men into not having standards they're just preferences. get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:53 PM
-2

high standards -> ruined ability to love -> low value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:09 AM
1

Unfortunately no amount of negging can revive a woman's ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:15 AM
2

See, you would be happier if you had the ability to love nice men on your level
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:06 AM
0

They sure do sound like assumptions to me. Anyway it doesn't matter. You can be right and but it has little to do with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:02 AM
1

Sure, more assumptions but again you're just personally attacking me. It has nothing to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:52 AM
0

Sure but wasn't there any part of my post you could've commented on instead of just making assumptions about me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:44 AM
0

Women think having high standards makes them high value but it's actually the opposite. Having high standards means she has lost her ability to love and appreciate men who are at her level and average men. Her ability to love is one of the important part of her relationship value. If she can't love, she has little to no relationship value. High value women has their ability to love intact. It's a one way street: once a women's standards become high, her standards can only increase and she cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:23 AM
1

James bond is a man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:44 PM
2

I also practice what I preach most women don't though short, shy, low social skills, low status, poor women lust after tall, confident, high social skills, high status, rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:15 PM
2

Not to mention that virgins can often develop an emotional attachement to the guy who was her first so women who are good for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:53 PM
2

pay your privilege tax and don't complain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:45 PM
2

bro just change your height to 5'7 and see how much legwork your height is doing Wait, in the first one, when they changed their job title, they admit they got fewer matches. Doesn't that kind of prove my point that height isn't the end all be all? Your first link agrees with me more than it agrees with you. That dude only got three more matches than usual The height change was everything. the guy went from 5 matches in months with his job title as "Management Consultant" to 8/day at 6'4 after s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:43 PM
1

you need to check your privilege having female privilege means society needs to take away from your privilege and redistribute what you have to the less fortunate in society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:31 PM
2

you're worth it because you're low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:12 PM
1

I don't struggle at all luckily didn't you say you were ugly? the only logical reason why you wouldn't struggle would be if your height was making all the difference. average looking men who aren't tall struggle Not that many women "fetishize" height in my experience Yes, women are simple like that Humble yourself by doing the experiment yourself. I need a feminist to tag in to tell you to check your privilege A quick google search: https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/kze0qz/height_experime…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:10 PM
1

height pushes you from below average to above average overall even with an ugly face. there are many women who height fetishize, filter based on height and overlook an ugly face you can literally see the difference yourself if you change the height in your bio the only reason you would struggle is if you're fat, have bad style or bad pics, all in your control
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:46 PM
9

the women youve rejected have rejected 10x the number of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:42 PM
0

It's a deficiency in the women. She's not only not attracted to the one man. She's unable to be attracted to most men at her level. She's unable to be attracted to most non-Chads. She broke her pair bonding ability. She's deficient and broken. She's unable to love and have a relationship with men who would love her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:38 AM
3

women in shock and horror that men can have standards too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:32 AM
4

No, a high N-count makes a woman unattractive period It's like height, status, confidence, social skills, income, etc. Almost all of the important factors women use to judge men are similar. Women want men better than themselves in those standards but they don't get flack for it Despite the brainwashing from society and feminism, N-count is not somehow special and different from the other categories. It can be used to judge whether a woman is attractive just like height, income, social skills, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:37 AM
5

They only do because they are able to get scraps from Chads though. They only do it because they are able to rationalize it in their heads that a relationship with Chad is possible If they were completely forbidden from casual sex at all, they wouldn't get any scraps and would choose a different strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:18 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with having different standards for men and women, unless you want to say there is something wrong with most of the standards that women have of men Women who have a lot of casual sex are just objectively unattractive in the same way that a short man is unattractive but a short woman isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:09 AM
1

Time to move to Madrid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:52 AM
0

sad to say almost all women have been ruined by casual sex and hypergamy and your chances are very slim unless you gf a young woman before she ruins herself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:32 PM
3

He deserves to know the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:31 PM
2

But the height gap is problematic He would be a predator and the relationship would be abusive because he has a lot more power than you because of his height. You both wouldn't be seeing the world from the same physical perspective. You would have little in common He would be looking down on you all the time and you would be straining yourself to look up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:27 PM
11

Why are women insecure about their N-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:16 PM
1

This is actually the lowest effort relationship for the woman at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:51 PM
0

Rather be lonely than date a fat or high N-count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:47 PM
11

Why do women use "he can't get women his age" as an insult, as if the standards of old women matter? Older women are lower value than younger women. Younger women are more attractive, have a better personality, are more pleasant and are more capable of loving and being in a relationship. Edit: I thought of a good analogy. It would be like short men thinking that women who are 5'4-5'6 are too tall and then insulting women "she is too tall for short men"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:57 PM
2

A low n-count woman is just more attractive in the same way a confident or tall or high social status man is more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:10 PM
3

No, women can get validation and use handsy guy as a backup, literally and psychologically. The gay men can't provide anything to the straight man because the straight man is not gay The gay analogy is used instead of an ugly woman because people know that there is a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:34 PM
1

she's already a broken low value women by going raw with randoms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:32 PM
1

expand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:28 PM
1

But if you are the kind of guy who is literally giving away all his freedom and essentially selling out, taking any other sexual options off the table She would receive more from you than Chad, but she has to be a women who values what you're giving Most women are broken and don't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:28 PM
1

6'4, just use online dating to get height worshiping women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:24 AM
4

Such a judgemental person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:22 AM
6

Privileged person born to an upper class/rich family (literally and metaphorically) says: Anyone who answers any percentage at all for the worlds fault needs to grow the fuck up. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:20 AM
5

more reputable than a social science/gender studies professor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:18 AM
4

It's not correlated with attractiveness. N-count in women is correlated with bad personality/behavioral traits. It's also negatively correlated with femininity: the higher the N-count, the less feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:17 AM
3

you've activated my trap card in freaking out about men having standards if you have an issue with this, you would also have issues with women's standards for men like height, status, wealth, social skills, confidence etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:29 PM
4

it's not unless you consider all of women's standards for men like height, status, wealth, social skills, confidence etc as misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:25 PM
8

if women and toxic femininity stopped shaming men for struggling with dating or for not being able to get sex, that wouldn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:20 PM
6

note that men can judge and look down on women for their N-count and still love and respect women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:17 PM
1

scannable QR code 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:08 AM
2

dating would be better for both men and women if women were forced to state their N-count under oath and have those N-counts be publicly published for men to know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:05 AM
3

Feminism makes women have a bad personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:43 PM
3

Women want to be in a relationship but don't want to be a girlfriend/wife
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:57 PM
2

when women say they don't want a virgin/inexperienced guy because "I don't want to teach him." it's not logical at all. women just say that to cover their virgin shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:05 PM
1

What about: short women who want tall men shy women who want confident men low social status women who want high social status men low social skills women who want high social skills men Women with less sexual history are just more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:28 PM
3

Women are insecure about their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:14 PM
8

She is used goods like the other poster said Most men would appreciate the heads up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:45 AM
6

Good karma and doing the right thing It's normal for people do the right thing without anything in it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:44 AM
1

It's not end to end encrypted, so google, yahoo, microsoft etc can read all your emails
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:51 PM
1

email isn't secure. At best, your email provider can snoop on your messages
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:38 PM
2

This is false. Otherwise PUAs wouldn't have such a low open to bang rate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:39 PM
2

I don't know the difference so probably both
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:15 PM
7

I don't see why any man would be in a poly relationship. Unless they're gigachad, your gf/wife will be sleeping with Chads, men who are better than you in every way, while you struggle to sleep with any women even beckies at all. A large benefit of a relationship is guaranteed sex. If your partner is sleeping with Chads, the guaranteed sex will dry up as she stops being excited about it with you because she's being ruined by hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:00 PM
0

I think he has a weird long face and gets away with it because of his height
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:22 PM
2

older women's standards increase and their value goes down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:10 PM
23

The core argument is that if women seek out bad guys, then they deserve to be treated badly and shouldn't complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:00 PM
0

it's probably still easier than men because lesbian women don't get flooded with validation from men unless they're bi
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:47 AM
2

Were you that Chad looking white guy? Why so many pics of black people lol For the black women: 1,3,2 in that order All of them look high N-count except for 5 though. If I had to choose one to marry, it would be 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:34 AM
0

her jaw is wider than his jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:54 AM
0

The 3rd the man is better looking The 1st, the woman is ugly. I don't know how to rate black men to compare but I think he's somewhat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:20 AM
3

I remember reading women in relationships with men are more likely to make less money, do more housework, have a higher stress level, have a higher chance of being raped/murdered, and don't have a higher life satisfaction did this factor out the stress from parenthood
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:13 AM
2

Now imagine instead of a FOB key, this was about demanding sex from women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:58 PM
4

she should be age gap shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:21 PM
1

not ugly, not attractive women just have to exist to get a relationship, dates and sex but not ugly, not attractive men have to work very hard to max out their confidence and social skills to get even a quarter of the dating life of the equivalent women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:58 PM
3

not being attractive enough to have attractive men I'm claiming that there are very few women who are so ugly that they would have a problem finding men (below average and average) who would commit to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:53 PM
16

Why do people bring up ugly women as if actually ugly women is common? At the best, 5% of women are actually ugly, but I suspect it's more like 1%. A woman basically has to have severe facial disfigurement to be actually ugly. Almost every woman can be good looking enough to easily find a partner as long as she's not fat and has decent style/makeup. Very very few women are ugly enough to struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:37 PM
1

Conversely, older women who have hard earned experiences and wisdom like to share those to people who need them. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:29 PM
3

if you make less than a woman, you have to be a lot better than her in other areas to make up for it, i.e be a tall chad or have very confident with high social skills or
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:26 PM
1

Very few, like 5% of women, are actually ugly. Most "ugly" women are just fat. Even then, actually ugly women who aren't fat have no problem getting dates and sex from men. They might struggle a little with getting a relationship if they don't have a good personality. Even guys who are below or is average looking would not give an ugly or unattractive women the time of the day, even if she had worked very hard on her personality This isn't true. A woman who actually has a good personality, who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:22 PM
1

You show me an ugly guy who has been rejected by tons of girls and I’ll explain what personality flaw hurt him. You would point out that he doesn't have extraordinary confidence or 90th percentile social skills. It's not easy to overcome being ugly to women as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:19 PM
9

There are very very few ugly women. There are just fat women. Everyone can easily not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:12 AM
1

yes, some people win the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:09 AM
0

Men STILL die at higher rates than women in every age category Men die at higher rates after the prime dating ages, so it doesn't affect dating. Nobody is capitalizing on the dating disparity of 50+ year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:06 AM
4

this isn't a choice most men are able to make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:03 AM
1

She’s knows he’s not head over heels for her. Many times this is what attracts her to begin with. Female masochism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:58 AM
3

Women are harming the human race with their dating choices. Women's dating choices should be policed for the benefit of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:15 PM
1

They are counting each individual sex event as one event, so a bf and gf having sex counts for 100+ times a year. This number is entirely dominated by bf and gf sex so it's useless for talking about casual sex. What we care about is the unique partner count
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:49 PM
9

It's not really self image though. Society, people, culture, women reinforce and push this image onto incels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:38 AM
3

they might not need sex but they need validation and attention. they would be desperate for validation and attention if they didn't get it easily. It's just that all women can easily get it so they don't appear to be desperate for it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:44 AM
13

Women complain about power imbalances (age) while actively hypergamously seeking out power imbalances (wealth, status, social skills, intelligence, confidence, extroversion)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:42 AM
7

What is wrong with women that they complain about it while actively seeking it? Women chase after high status, confident, high emotional and social intelligence men when they are low status, shy, and low emotional and social intelligence themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:37 AM
4

Women aren't actually against power imbalances. They just use it as a tool to shame behavior they don't like. They actually actively chase after power imbalances through hypergamy, but they just avoid naming hypergamy as a power imbalance Women chase after rich, attractive, high status, confident, extroverted, socially and emotionally intelligent, tall men when they are poor, ugly, low status, shy, introverted, socially and emotionally dumb, short themselves Women hypergamously seek men above th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:19 AM
8

iirc 80% of women have had a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:16 AM
4

For other men who are less attractive, 1-3 points below is hog territory and having the LTR be healthy isn't necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:53 PM
11

people are arguing that looks have gotten much more important in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:54 PM
2

It's not for the reason you think Because it's harder to get casual sex, men just have given up and go the girlfriend route for (hopefully) stable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:36 PM
1

No, a lot of men look better into their mid 20s at least with their jaw line becoming more defined and their face maturing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:59 PM
1

women like it thats why they keep going back Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:31 PM
2

yeah her jaw is stronger than mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:57 AM
-1

Yeah, same experience at my HS. The black guys were from UMC families and clearly not hood, so people didn't treat them much differently, but they were cooler and got clout for being associated with rap/hip hop/black music and culture. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:41 AM
-1

A woman's value can still be high in her 30s if she has a low N-count and hasn't ruined herself with hypergamy, casual sex and Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:10 AM
-4

The baseline problem is women's standards and what women find attractive (i.e. not finding average men attractive), not that men aren't attractive enough. Women need to be changed so that they find average men attractive and don't just keep chasing Chads. Women should also be shamed from chasing Chad so that non-Chads are their only sexual outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:54 AM
4

Yes, many women are toxically judgemental and close minded about men's behavior, so men always feel like they have to act a certain way and can't be themselves. Men can't just relax around a date unless they're Chad or they don't care about her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:23 AM
2

I mean if he's telling her that stuff he's probably not actually her boyfriend. She's just his fuck buddy and she's tolerating it because she's dating up and her hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:52 AM
1

it matters more if you want an actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:37 AM
11

AOC was always UMC+. She was frauding about being a Bronx girl when she is actually a Westchester girl. She was in the Bronx when it was too young to matter to her: when she was toddler for a few years. Then she spent her schools year in a wealthy, safe Westchester suburb that is almost exclusively white.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:31 AM
7

She just doesn't venture into spaces where men's issues are brought up. All the spaces she is in are female/feminism dominated ones, so of course the only time she'll see men's issues is when it's brought up in relation to a female issue, because she's in a space that doesn't give air time to men's issues by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:22 AM
0

state school now is still close to 100k over 4 years even in state. 10k tuition/fees plus 15k in dorm/food costs per year
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:34 PM
2

no point in being an attractive woman if she's not going to share her body with the world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:17 PM
2

I can agree with that if poppy's self report of the men she's dated is taken at face value. It definitely wouldn't be poppy's personality attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:13 PM
-1

just noticed that you're not completely cis/straight. yeah that's different. for me being completely straight/cis, being desired only by bicurious women feels like an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:16 PM
0

The articles is fudging the numbers. top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex This is counting the total number of times of sex. If someone has sex with their girlfriend 100 times, it's counted 100 times. That is useless because the data is overweighted by people in a relationship. People outside of relationships have much less sex. The study tried to take away this factor by removing married people, but a large number of umarried people are still …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:14 PM
0

that's a very narrow target demographic. some of them aren't even women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:46 PM
7

it would be koo if women would reject me by pumping and dumping me like how chads reject women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:45 PM
0

longer hair obviously goes from 4/10 to 7.5/10 from short to long
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:43 PM
0

hasn't discouraged women from casual sex from men who will pump and dump them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:42 PM
1

Average guys can “hook up” if they have tons of game/charisma. The problem is that most men can't achieve that level. A small minority of average looking men can get game/charisma to get laid regularly. The vast majority of men cannot or it would take too much effort for it to be worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:05 PM
2

Women have low emotional/social intelligence and self awareness in dating. Women don't have the emotional/social intelligence to understand what they are actually attracted. Whenever a woman talks about what she wants or her standards in dating, it's always what she wants in a guy she already found attractive in the other more important ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:02 PM
1

Fine by me if she has low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:02 PM
2

I'd hope that she is the type of person who sees past the superficial beauty standards. It's a waste of money, effort and time. She should know that her value is based on her much greater and more important innate traits. She should know that she is a valuable and lovable woman because of her low N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:46 AM
5

Many women do it, literally use dating as a social crutch to start their social life and to stave off their loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:14 PM
2

not irl. men are shamed to complain anonymously online
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:50 PM
3

you can't possibly argue that dating experience is less important than age for having the upper hand in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:48 PM
6

that's a lie Women use dating to kickstart their social life when they move to a new area lonely women with few friends use it for social interaction and a self esteem boost that people would being willing to talk to them and entertain them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:46 PM
8

All women have in dating is the ability to accept or deny given men for the most part make the first move Women don't make the first move because they don't like getting rejected, not because they can't make it. It is a convenience and a privilege for women to be able to have a decent dating life without having to ask anyone out Men, now and always controlled the dating game apex fallacy, the tippity top men that women desire control it. Women control the game for non-chads
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:43 PM
3

why does it matter if older women don't want him if they're inferior and he doesn't want them either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:26 PM
3

It's not life experience. It's dating experience that matters, which sleeping around is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:18 PM
2

Small for casual sex. Greater for relationships. Both need amazing social skills and confidence to get a decent amount of play in casual dating. Most men won't achieve that, so most men, both average and ugly, will get almost no play in casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:56 PM
7

because they can’t get with anyone their own age wrongly implying that older women are better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:53 PM
-2

Your problem is with experience gaps not age gaps An 21 year old woman who's slept around has an experience level of a 30 year old. A 30 year old man who hasn't dated much has the experience level of an 18 year old. The 21 year old woman would be taking an advantage of a 30 year old man. Sluts can't be taken advantage of because they have a lot of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:52 PM
5

female privilege means you can have fun and no one will care if you go by yourself and don't know people you will be welcomed into social groups and have an infinite number of people trying to talk to you and meet you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:35 AM
4

With a low N-count woman it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:56 AM
-1

the difference is that women also want a confident and smooth man, which is contradictory to wanting someone who didn't ask everyone out, because the only way to develop into a confident and smooth man without being born with 95th percentile genetics is to have hit on hundreds of women The man who isn't a fukboi isn't confident and smooth and that's something women have to accept, except women choose the fukboi over the non-fukboi who isn't confident and smooth, so women can't say they want a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:28 PM
2

Why do women think they're entitled to male attention? When a woman can't get men to want a relationship or even want go on dates with them without sex on the table, they complain about how men are awful. No, many men want a relationship, and even men who didn't want a relationship with you, want a relationship. They just don't want one with you. When a man struggles in dating, people say it's because there's something wrong with him. Similarly, if you're a woman who can't get men to want to go …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:23 PM
-1

Each woman makes multiple purchases, and most of the purchases buy from Chad Getting 1 sale isn't enough for a salesman to pay rent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:13 PM
-2

There are 31 salesmen and most of them make at least 1 sale, with a few making a vast majority of the sales, but 1 sale isn't enough to feed their family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:10 PM

It's female delusion. They think men just naturally have confidence or are naturally smooth. No, if you're a woman who likes confident and smooth men or a man who has tons of options, you like sleazy men who have approached and tried to sleep with thousands of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:47 PM

Ratings are determined by your actions not your words. If a woman rates herself a 3/10 but then doesn't respond or date men at their level or thinks men at their level is ugly, then she actually rates herself higher. A woman who rates herself 3/10 dates 3/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:23 PM
4

Show me a man here who can't pull Show me a woman who can't pull or get dates there is no way a woman can fail, not even if they're fat, even though female fatties are worse than men who struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:11 AM
6

Low N-count women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:00 AM
3

Those women who "rate themselves as 3-5" probably at the same time think they're better than 6/10 and below men and don't give non-Chads the time of day Watch what they do not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:52 AM

do women seriously get approached 5-20 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:04 AM

how could you forget about the correlation between age and N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:59 PM
-4

It's even more outrageous that you can't compliment a women's low N-count. A woman with a low N-count has done a good job of making herself attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:04 PM
1

What women won't admit to: height is the prerequisite for being checked out to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:11 PM
1

Hispanic women are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:54 PM
4

This is why society needs to shame fat women into not being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:50 PM
2

Why isn't there a sexuality term for romance based on past sexual history? i.e. only being romantically attracted to low N-count people? It covers a large amount of men (more than sapiosexual, aromantic, asexual) and is important enough to have its own term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:38 PM
1

Ban slut culture where women glorify hookups (with Chads) and it will stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:32 PM
0

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:30 AM
1

Many women get more attracted when they are treated like they are the fall back option than when they are treated like a princess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:03 AM
-1

No, women have too much access to hypergamy and wealthy men. In a big city, women can easily date a 8 digit net worth or 7 digit income man. Women can date and sleep with better than you in all categories. They just can't get a relationship with them, but they will form an entitlement around it thinking they are worthy of a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:09 AM
0

Sorry, I couldn't help watching the video on mute and ranking the girls in the video 9/10: 10:30 8 /10: 9:30 > 9:07 6.5-7.5/10: 13:05 > 1:39 > 2:40 > 9:40 > 11:30 > 14:00 6/10: 5:20 > 7:50 > 4:10 (probably hot she was younger)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:38 PM
2

there's something i find really unattractive about her face that I can't put my finger on need one of those blackpill /r/truerateme face analyzers on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:50 PM
3

Low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:42 PM
2

Make fat women ashamed again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:39 PM
2

2 >>>> everything else by a mile 1 and 3 are decent. The others are ugly. It's missing the yoga girl type of athletic/curvy and has a bunch of fat ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:33 PM

When fat women are complaining about their dating lives to their friends, do their friends get real with them and tell the fattie that her problems (not having guys respect or take her seriously) are because she's fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:46 AM
-1

He's not wrong Women going after the wrong guys is why love is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:06 AM

Women are getting worse and worse as they participate more in casual sex and hypergamy and ruin themselves and their pair bonding ability
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:08 PM
8

There is definitely value in having a niche appeal For many average or below men, there is no niche they can do well at. The supply in most male niches are higher than the demand because most women have the same preferences. It works better for women because men have different preferences from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:05 PM
5

Is that not the reaction poppy is fishing for when she made the original post The whole point of poppy's original post is to get the reaction she is apparently complaining about, and she is complaining before anyone even reacted to her post, which eggs people on to act in the exact way she is complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:01 PM
-1

Lol people mad a fattie is being called fat. Those fatceps https://www.reddit.com/r/awfuleverything/comments/jb83ki/30_year_old_man_fat_shaming_billie_eilish_an_18/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:12 PM
4

women being insecure about their N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:03 PM
3

The amount of women who will only date male liberal feminists is too high A lot of Chads are misogynistic and not liberal and women aren't forgoing chad As with all filters, they are second in importance to being Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:49 PM
6

Being forced to be very logical all day long does hurt your vibe. A lot of people would better personalities if they were NEETs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:51 PM
1

abortions are financial. if women makes close to or as much/more than the man, she aborts. if she makes substantially less, she keeps it for the baby money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:34 PM
7

If you’re “fooled” by natural looking make up on a 16 year old then that’s on you. If you're attracted to 18 and 19 year olds, there are a good number of 16 year olds who look 18/19.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:32 PM
8

Men claiming they’re average and can’t get causal sex or either: 1) not average or 2) they are average and they’re severely socially awkward or a recluse 3) they are average but their physical standards are way too high It's that average men can't get casual sex and enjoy the process of it. The effort and cost of casual sex is too high to be enjoyable or worth it. Average men are shut out of casual sex and casual adting because it's not something they can enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:52 AM
3

Men are rational: men become less interested when they find out a woman is sleeping around and/or has a boyfriend. Women are irrational: women become more interested when they find out a man is sleeping around and/or has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:59 PM
1

Yeah, how irresponsible would parents be to send their kids to college if that "20% of women are raped stat" being pushed by feminists was true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:47 PM
3

Make women not fat again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:24 PM
3

Concentrate on any field where men are earning more or are more represented while ignoring all the fields with the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:39 PM
2

Why are women so insecure about their N-count? (taking this one from the female shaming tactic handbook hehe) Why do women have a meltdown that they're being judged? Welcome to being a man, except you have complete control over your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:36 PM
10

Are you that insecure about your N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:29 PM
4

Until women police other women's N-count, no man should police other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:43 PM
5

Having a low N-count, not chasing Chad, not being ruined by hypergamy and casual sex is for women's benefit. So women, aim to be a low N-count queen. Don't become a soiled high N-count witch!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:56 AM
3

High N-count women look for lust over everything else. They have been soiled and their pair bonding ability has been ruined i.e. they are unable to value emotional comfort and lifestyle stability. Sweet low N-count princesses look for emotional comfort and lifestyle stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:26 PM
2

She talks as if she had been pumped and dumped many times. "connections" is the key word. It wasn't one sided but something she participated in I have the power to sus out these high N-count women who have been ruined by casual sex and hypergamy 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:01 PM
-1

Pre 2012-2013, you could cold approach, burn sets to the ground learn how to talk to women and locally optimize. Now, you either need a very high degree of attraction before hitting on women or you have the impeccable social skills to thread the needle (which is almost impossible to attain because you need to hit on women to be good at hitting on women, and but you will inevitably be creepy while learning). Otherwise, you run the risk of getting cancelled. The probability that a woman will recor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:09 PM
7

Do you feel left out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:26 PM
3

Women have an out by dating men who earn money. Men who work hard in useful fields fund the house and retirement plans and pay off the student loan debts for women who take easy majors in a 4 year party vacation in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:40 PM
0

Men had a much better chance of finding a low N-count princess in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:57 PM
6

They don't end up with tall men but they casually dated and hooked up with a lot of tall men. If you're not tall and don't have maxed out stats in other categories, casual dating won't be fun for the amount of effort and rejection it'll take and you'll be restricted to long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:47 PM
1

I feel like a handsome face is rarer (because it's more subjective than height). And they're usually more self aware, so they don't hold those sentiments. Whereas many tall men just think they're average looking because they have an average or slightly above average face and are less aware of how height gives them an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:36 PM
7

Once you see the height thing, there's no turning back. Any time you see a man give off one of the sentiment that: Dating isn't so bad for the average man Online dating isn't so bad for the average man It's what you make of it. As a man, you can improve yourself Just approach women bro It doesn't take that much effort to date It's almost always a tall man. Dating is about the tall and tall-nots. Once I saw the matrix, I started checking this and almost without fail it's always a tall man making …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:21 PM
1

The flaw I most definitely would not accept is a high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:33 PM
2

a man’s attractiveness is determined by a plurality of factors such as, looks, status, style, desirability, confidence and more A woman’s looks are the truth The problem is that it is very difficult for men to change the factors. Most men are unable to improve themselves past their looks rating. And men's looks ratings are very deflated. But most women can easily achieve 6-7/10 looks with little effort. A 40th percentile looks man who works very hard to improve himself will almost never reach th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:28 PM
4

Almost always, these types of threads are made by tall men despite tall men being a fraction of the population. Likely not a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:17 PM

No. Both focusing on their careers while still going out and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:11 PM

Make fat hate great again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:07 PM

Call a man short and no one bats an eye. Call a woman fat and everybody goes crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:06 PM
16

They still have the same looks/height filters though. It's only fighting for highly educated men who are both tall and good looking. There are some demographics where being educated is very scarce, so men in that demographic have a much easier time. But for all other men, being educated is barely an advantage and is not even close to being good looking or tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:00 PM

Not worth it unless it's a she and she has low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:52 AM

The company can buy my silence for $500k. probably multi 7 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:43 AM
1

It's not hard. Don't be fat or ghetto Don't chase Chad Find a man before 30
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:12 AM
2

They say a short man can make up for his height in other ways. You don't expand for a reason. how much harder does a short man have to work to get the same dating life as a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:05 AM
1

Low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:36 PM
2

but is she hot? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:32 PM
5

He's not lying to date. He's lying for the experiment. You and the women are just saying that to attack OP 5'8 also isn't even short. It's 1 inch below median
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:23 PM
8

Women are always guaranteed male involvement if they wanted. They don't have to ask for it. It's an implicit option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:21 PM
3

Take the short man with a bad attitude, make him tall. Take the tall man without the bad attitude, make him short. The formerly short man who is now tall will do better in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:41 PM
1

aren't you the 6/6/6 guy? if you can't do it, RIP for the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:38 PM

poppy trying to gaslighting again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:28 AM

I didn't know smurf had such a good gaydar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:27 AM

But then women would have to actually put in some effort 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:18 PM

Women have it so easy. Women can easily just get their value match for a relationship or marriage. Ask for a nice guy looking for a marriage who is your looks and class match and as a woman living life on easy mode and poof, you shall receive. The only reason any woman would struggle is if they've been ruined by casual sex and hypergamy, have ridiculous standards or are fat. And another important part: women can easily find a loving man who will think she is the best he's ever had. Women don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:59 PM
1

Women who don't have the father's support and can't financially support their children on their own should be forced to have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:49 PM
2

This is good for the relationship markets and for non-Chads. A sex strike would actually decrease hypergamy because they would only have sex with men that they would be able to date long term, which means men on their level, instead of Chad chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:43 PM
3

It should be socially acceptable for women to leverage their N-count in dating, so we can know to shame and avoid the higher N-count women. It should be socially accepted for women to have "I have a low N-count, if that matters" in their dating profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:41 PM
2

the truth needs to be exposed that women are shallow, judgmental and hypocritical (because women themselves don't want to be judged for crying) and that the only men who don't get judged for crying are extremely masculine in other ways to make up for it (usually genetics)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:37 PM
1

"do you have a low N-count"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:32 PM
11

N-count in women should be talked about like height or confidence in men. You have people just casually saying "he's too shy" "he's too short" about men. It should be as casual and socially accepted to say "she's slept around too much" "she's too slutty" "her N-count is too damn high".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 08:14 PM
3

🤤🤤🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:48 PM
2

I'm very supportive of woman because I'm ally to many women. I'm an ally to all low N-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:35 PM
2

the sexual markets have convinced me that market regulation is necessary I had a hard on for capitalism before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:21 AM

nice if she has low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:56 AM

yes, women should be expected to dress like they have low N-count when they have a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:55 AM

for women, don't be fat and don't chase chad goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:54 AM

It's not hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:12 AM
1

Their N-count is too damn high
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 02:50 AM
1

N count is the most important factor for women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:58 PM
2

When women on PPD rant and rave about angry incels, do they really think they aren’t just as angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:54 PM
-1

virgin women are precious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:53 PM
3

Women who hide their past are evil witches They have high N-count personality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:38 PM

How come nobody talks about dating experience gaps? Sluts are predators to non-Chads. Chads are predators to women who haven't slept around. So women shouldn't chase Chads (unless they're sluts) and sluts should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:02 PM

I've even traveled to Asia (Korea, Japan, China) and tried both online dating and cold approaching there. I've had no luck there as well. try south america or southeast asia, the last resort east asia isn't that easy unless you're white or a tall Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:40 PM

but then women wouldn't be able to chase chad 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:38 PM
4

Read a post with wholesome traditional dating values on reddit, stalk her and find out she's religious Happens every time Men shouldn't be forced to take the god pill just to find a decent woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:39 PM
18

The opposite for women. Less fatties back then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:48 PM
4

Sometimes it is funny to see the women freaking out about men actually having some standards. "There must be wrong with these men for having standards". Welcome to the club buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:36 AM
5

I'm annoyed about the moderate "reasonable" narrative that people want to date people with similar dating experience. No, high body count makes a woman unattractive period. It is like a man's height or confidence. If a shy, short woman can want a tall, confident man because tall and confident men are better than short and shy men, then men no matter their N-count can want low N-count women because lower N-count women are more attractive and better than high N-count women. Although the posts are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:35 AM
3

Do wholesome, single, low N-count women exist? If so, where are they? What are some places to meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:03 AM
2

Women: omg, i'm so lonely, i have no social life, no friends, my social skills are terrible, someone give me attention! The same woman: i have no one to talk to other than my bf What is with women taking for granted male attention, their boyfriend and their female privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:53 PM
3

virgin women are objectively better so the man's virginity doesn't matter in the same way women want a tall, confident funny high status man, men can want a virgin woman Most women who want a tall, confident high status man aren't tall, confident, funny or high status themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:04 PM
1

Women are exaggerating heavily. Unless they lift, their yoga or cardio is just regular exercise for health and doesn't count. Someone even counted hiking I do cardio and don't count that as time spent on my appearance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:01 PM

Society should treat high N-count women like they're anti-vaxxers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:26 AM

90% of women, when asked about height, will say "as long as he's taller than me" and in actuality, many filter out all men shorter than 6'0 even when they're 5'2 on dating apps unless the man is gifted with facial genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:47 PM
4

I want to improve the world by increasing the number/percentage of low N-count women and having low N-count women be more appreciated. How do I accomplish this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:24 PM

Morally, for equality and for equal opportunity, women should be taxed for being women, for their female privilege. Given the same individual income, women a have higher household income. Given the same amount of effort into their careers, the woman will have a higher household income than the man. That's not fair. Even when not married, given the same individual and household income, women have higher life satisfaction because they're socially privileged and their lives are easier. Women get mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:11 PM

Being a mother doesn't make you a woman, a good mother or a good/responsible person Getting dates and attention from men and having casual sex doesn't make you an attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:55 PM
6

The reason why video games and porn are shamed as low status, disgusting or nerdy is because they attention mog women and sap male attention away from women. Women didn't like losing attention, so they got angry and started shaming video games and porn as low status activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:43 AM
-2

You don't. The women who don't like you at your current weight won't like you at another weight unless you're stick skinny or obese
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:32 PM
-1

Imagine being a woman and not doing better than men when you have so many privileges and advantages in all the other aspects of your life. Having an easy dating and social lives and the ability to get unlimited social support lets women do better. And affirmative action should be in favor of men to offset this female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:45 PM
1

She always does that squinty thing with her eyes and gives off masculine vibes to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:29 AM
9

High N-count women are unable satisfy men's desire to feel desired. No man can feel special being dude #55 to a soiled woman. No desire is more genuine or beautiful than the desire of a low N-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:44 PM
0

Not fat Not ghetto Low N-count The above should be the bare minimum but it's so scarce that it's considered high value now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:31 AM
-1

If the intermediate stages in life includes casual sex and other relationships, the older women would have more baggage and worse personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:54 PM
2

Dating for men is an obstacle course. Ugly men don't get into the obstacle course. Average men get dropped off at the beginning of the obstacle course. Good looking men get dropped off near the finish line of the obstacle course. Completing the obstacle course is the hardest part. Most average men are unable to complete it, so they aren't much better off than ugly men who don't get entry. The defining factor for success is being good looking enough to skip most of the obstacle course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:42 PM
1

You've activated my trap card. There are federally and state mandated minimum wages and other forms of free money (welfare) for poor people. There is no welfare, no minimum guarantee for men in dating. Men shouldn't need to completely change their friend group and who they are to have a decent dating life. Many people even consider family (i.e. dating) more important than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:10 PM
0

Men shouldn't be forced to be in a certain type of friend group in order to have a dating life. Women don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:49 PM
1

A high quality black guy is rare and therefore exceptionally valuable. It's not high quality on the universal scale. Black men just have to go to a top 50 school to be seen as educated and get the benefits. Other men who go to a top 50 school aren't very exceptional and are seen as just average. And affirmative action makes it a lot easier for black men to get into a top 50 school than other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:44 PM
2

On the topic of standards, it shouldn't be so hard for men to find women who meet the bare minimum standards of: Not fat Not ghetto Low N-count Women who meet these bare minimum standards are automatically high value women because of how scarce they are. Dating as a woman = easy mode since they can easily accomplish this bare minimum and be high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:38 AM
7

Why do people and the media sympathize with sex workers (and the recent OnlyFans prosties) so much? Who cares if the sex workers are losing their job or suffering because of the pandemic and OnlyFans shutting down. Oh, the horror! Now they have to get a regular job like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:56 PM
1

ugly women get treated like men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:53 PM
-1

Things that low N-count women do 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:48 PM
11

Sounds like she has a one to two night personality not a girlfriend personality. this poster wins 😂 she has high N-count personality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:47 AM
4

People complain about inequality all the time in other categories in life. In a society that thinks inequality is bad, dating inequality is also bad and should be viewed in the same light that progressive view other forms of inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:13 AM
3

Although women have overwhelming female privilege and should repent, I'll concede one male privilege. No one cares about men's nudes. If my nudes got posted online, it would get zero views. It wouldn't go viral and no one would see it. If it gets sent to people I know, I doubt anyone would care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:00 PM
10

High N-count women shouldn't complain about not being able to find a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:45 PM
1

BP recognizing the RP and black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:45 PM
1

the second part is just her post-break up rationalization after having the relationship not work out if a man is actually being a manchild he probably doesn't care about her and was using her for easy sex and because he could get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:42 PM
2

are the "LVM" that fds talk about really "LVM" when fds women treat them better than the supposed "HVM"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:20 AM
15

she already alpha widowed by community college chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:18 AM

I'm already tired of high N-count women existing here and elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:47 PM
6

Ban sluts and high N-count women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:13 PM
5

Men similarly feel like an "other" when their wife has a slutty past and has a high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:38 PM
3

Nerd, loser, virgin, etc. are the male equivalent of being called a slut But you will only hear women complaining about the "double standards" of being called a slut and not the double standards of men being called nerd virgin loser
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:29 PM
-2

It's women's fault for not treating you well enough to not be bitter. If women treated you well, you wouldn't be bitter, so your bitterness is justified 😈 Women aren't as bitter towards men because men treat them well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:34 AM
1

attractive enough to hook up with but what percent of men who talk to you and half your friends and are "attractive enough to hook up with" do you all actually hook up with Being "attractive enough to hook up with" only grants a man entry to the obstacle course, which is barely an advantage. Completing the obstacle course is the challenging part. The more important looks threshold is the one where a guy gets an almost automatic hookup, where he doesn't have to thread the needle. Attractiveness w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:50 PM
4

Needs a higher sample size with someone who isn't attractive or tall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:04 PM
3

The risk of going viral isn't high but the risk of getting filmed and having people post it somewhere online or in their group chats is high. If you can't see why these particular approaches are going viral, you might be equally as creepy in that case Men who can cold approach and "not be creepy" are not creepy because they spent hundreds of approaches being creepy to learn how not to be creepy. "Not be creepy" is completely subjective though. Anything a man does will have women finding him cree…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:03 PM
-1

Women: have a low N-count Men: look for a low N-count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:58 PM
6

How did society get to the point of shaming men for having dating preferences? It blows my mind that men get badly shamed for caring about a woman's sexual past, her N-count, as if it's a terrible crime. Why is caring about a woman's sexual past seen as such a bad thing? A woman's sexual past is her status, her behavior and it's completely in her control. Women should be judged for how they act just like everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:14 AM
1

Same, I reported the high N-count women but mods don't do anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:01 AM
1

why would you want to emotional invest in someone you're just sleeping with and not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:21 AM
1

Men are attracted to low N-count women for long periods of time or even permanently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:00 PM
1

Dating experience and N-count are more important age but you won't hear women calling Chads or reformed sluts predators
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:58 PM
3

N-count and dating experience are more important than age You won't hear women saying "my N-count is too low for you" to Chad though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:50 PM
2

It's not just good looking women. Ugly and average women who are socially stunted have dating much much easier. They can get dates, sex and relationships much much easier. It doesn't matter who's fault it is. Every person is an individual. The individual socially stunted woman has life a lot easier than the individual socially stunted man. When you say "socially stunted people will unsurprisingly have trouble in any aspect of life", it is important to point out the surprising part, that it's gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:49 PM
6

Very introverted, socially awkward, or otherwise socially stunted people except the women don't. It only affects men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:15 PM
3

A women's low N-count predicts the highest relationship satisfication
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:12 PM
0

Your life can only get worse as your N-count increases
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:09 AM
1

Basically this, amazon on your resume can get you enough interviews at other companies to easily be able to go to another company like women can easily get a relationship or sex from another man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:35 AM
5

men who do them are rewarded more than women who do them No they aren't. The biggest changes happen when a man is 7.5+/10 and most men can't get to 7.5+/10 no matter what they do. It's genetic limited But women get huge gains from just not being fat and putting on a tiny bit of makeup and a few minutes doing their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:43 PM
0

Being graced by the presence of a low N-count princess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:01 PM

If she has a low N-count, tell her how important and high value it is for her to keep a low N-count If she has a high N-count, she's a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:59 PM
0

It's not the desire but the action that ruins women. Desiring Chad and casual sex is different than sleeping with Chad and having tons of casual sex. Women are ruined by actually sleeping with Chad and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:47 PM
2

An N-count is an N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:14 AM
17

The median age in this study is 40, the study is from 2015 and it's only for people who visit the NBC news website. You can empirically see the large difference that height makes by changing your height on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:48 PM
-2

Women have a daddy fetish and want to feel like they're dating their dad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:38 PM
3

It was even better back then because people weren't taking videos and putting them on social media. Now, the woman would take a video of you, post it on tiktok or IG and get you banned from life if it gets big enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:47 PM
7

It’s not delusional to not want to date someone who thinks it’s effort and a burden to care about your feelings. It’s easy for me to do this. 🤷‍♀️ Women complain about this more than men "emotional labor"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:16 AM
8

When you are at the club, how much effort, conquering your fears and risking embarrassment do you have to do to just talk to men and get attention from men? Women barely even have to put in any effort to even get hit on and get attention from men. All that makeup and hair is a voluntary waste of time by women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:10 AM
34

The emotional labor of men Then women have the audacity to complain about emotional labor when they are oblivious to all the emotional labor he had done
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:06 AM
10

The complaints about female beauty standards are overblown. Women have it easy with their beauty standards. Women are only concerned about not looking like Stacy. Their problem and complaint is looking like "just" an average woman who still gets easy dates and attention from men, just not from Chads. They complain about having to put in effort to meet beauty standards to get Stacy treatment while getting privileged, average women treatment with little effort. Women are complaining about being tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:41 PM
9

Yes, women cause male on male fights and bullying because women are toxic, shallow status chasers and judge men based on the status of the men and where the men stand in the male hierarchy. Normal behavior would be to judge men based on how they treat the her. If male status didn't play an important role in getting a relationship or getting laid, men would be much less aggressive and there would be less male on male bullying. Women's toxicity, toxic femininity, judgementalness, shallowness cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:07 PM
4

Low N-count women = attractive 🤤😍 High N-count women = unattractive 🤢💩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:02 PM
1

Women are on dating apps for the easy validation and attention (i.e. overflowing swipes and messages) Women won't use an app where they have limited choice and less validation. You need to fix women's laziness and hedonism before the app would be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:01 PM
-1

Unattractive women aren't ugly. They're just fat and lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:00 AM

There are almost no ugly women. There are only fat women If a woman is ugly, it's usually completely in her control because she's fat and she can just not be fat. Ugly woman = lazy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:31 AM

scroll past the many articles of men beheading, raping, stealing, and murdering I'm not like the men who do this and have never and would never do anything like that, but women are sleeping with those men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:54 AM

nice, you're a good mother
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:52 AM

You could at least stalk her to find out her N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:49 AM

women select against intelligence because they select against STEM nerds who are doing the important work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:48 AM
1

Yes, that's the point. It's a grey area and there is never a situation where there are no emotions involved. Women have to be attracted to men as a person to have sex with them, so women will usually have significant emotions involved whereas men won't because men don't have to be attracted to a women's personality to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:41 PM
10

Why do women act like their dating privilege isn't a huge life privilege? Do they just have low emotional and social IQ? Whether or not it ends up in a long term relationship, women still get a lot out of the attention and flirting and dates from their female privilege. Millions of women use online dating and real life dating to get attention when they're lonely and as a social crutch. It happens all the time. e.g. when women go traveling or move to a new city, they use dating as a social crutch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:35 PM
3

Women's past sex has an effect on her present self Past casual sex changes women's present mindset, character and emotions Casual sex ruins women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:11 PM
3

People have casual sex and it’s just sex. Sex becomes more than “just sex” when emotions are involved. Lol, are people having robotic sex? Sex almost by definition has emotions involved. Sexual pleasure, orgasms, is emotions. Dating is emotions. Sex is emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:09 PM
-3

High N-count women aren't women. They're witches. Only low N-count women are actually women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:46 PM
1

Apparently not because most women end up with a guy who isn't accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:45 PM
1

Most women aren't high value or worthy of an already accomplished guy Most women will end up alone or with a guy who isn't accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:53 PM
3

they even have some weird subreddit protection Does anyone understand how posts get randomly hidden on that sub? I try to open a thread or click on see more comments and nothing shows up. That doesn't happen with any other sub. On other subs, posts are usually explicitly deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:15 AM
13

Most women don't say it but there is a sizable minority that do and it's a serious threat because it's a verbal nuke e.g. the consequences of encountering one of them is a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:12 AM
3

If women aren't judged for having a high N-count, then age gap relationships shouldn't be judged It should as taboo to judge an age gap relationship as judging a woman for being slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:41 AM
18

I know what creeps women out and how to read subtle signs of discomfort, and also how much time/conversation should go by before taking the next step. At least I like to think so. The typical male experience outside of really creepy men usually takes into account this knowledge. Many men know how not to be creepy. That's the easy part. The hard part is trying to figure out a way to hit on her without being creepy. And realizing that there isn't one or that you aren't capable of doing it without …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:29 AM
2

The church had it right. Proof: women were more likely to be low N-count when the church had control of culture and moral values
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:33 PM
-2

Note that many "single" women are never actually single even if their relationship status is single For many women, "being single" means sleeping around with Chad and getting constant validation and flirting from men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:35 PM
3

No, high N-count women are incompatible with modern life and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:30 PM
5

Sorry for snooping but since you're a gay man, you get the easy social life treatment when you're around women. Straight women treat you with a warm reception in the same way that straight men treat women. Making friends with straight women for a gay man is as easy as making male friends as a woman. You probably have an easier time making friends with straight women than straight women do with each other because of the gay best friend stereotype. So when you enter a mixed social group, all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:18 PM
6

Gender plays a huge role. Women have much easier social lives. Women more readily get accepted into mixed gender social groups. You go to a meet up, random social group and the woman gets better reception and gets accepted just for being a woman. Women get easily and readily accepted into all male groups but not men don't for all female groups. Women who only have male friends would be loners if they were men Women get more invites to hang out and get much more easily accepted into parties, nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:59 PM
0

what, it's a huge deal breaker for a lot of men and women if someone is still friends with a fwb and the woman usually doesn't deserve the friendship: if the prospect of sex wasn't there, the guy wouldn't even be friends with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:51 PM
10

Why do women act like older women are higher value than younger women? "not being able to get women your age" doesn't mean anything when older women expect more but give less than younger women. The younger woman is higher value because she gives more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:26 PM
2

I agree that it's even more of a red flag than a high N-count, but most women who are drug abusers are also high N-count, so high N-count women are still bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:16 PM
3

You owe nothing to a casual sex partner, but a relationship partner deserves a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:03 PM
2

Why would they do that when they can just not be fat? Most ugly women are just fat. It's much easier to not be fat than to be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:57 PM
0

For women: their husband or if they don't have a husband yet, they don't save at all and plan on marrying into money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:25 AM
0

Yeah, if she has low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:42 AM
1

There are only two truths in the world: High N-count women are bad Low N-count women are good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:43 PM
1

Yes, women should so they can become higher value and have a lower N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:27 AM
2

which one? The one who has confident energy got it by approaching thousands of women and sleeping around and likely looks down on you (because he's slept with better women than you) The awkward one has approached many women and slept with much less women and would be more likely to want an actual relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:19 AM
10

One thing women don't understand is how scarce/valuable it is for a woman to be very attracted to a man. When that happens, everything else goes out the window and stops mattering. Younger women have more of an ability to become very attracted to a man than older women. Older women have become jaded and of course, their higher N-count and prior dating experiences have ruined their ability to really like a man. All men really want is a woman who is attracted and truly loves them. Younger women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:11 AM
5

The efforts match, in terms of effort put into dating, for most women is the cheeto eating shut in male. Women don't put in any effort. They just get away with it with female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:55 AM
7

Also, most of the time if someone can’t get someone their own age, there’s a bloody good reason for it. dating a younger woman says nothing about his ability to get women his age Like wanting to date a good looking man says nothing about your ability to get ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:34 PM
1

Lower class with a low N-count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:32 PM
-1

High N-count women do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:12 PM
1

No thank you to B as a man. I would just run away if some random crazy person punched me in the face at the bar/club. That's the most sensible thing to do. No one knows who's packing and a crazy person groping her has a higher chance. Women should be more reasonable and understand the reality of random fights in public, which is that it's a stupid thing that no one should do. Women cause toxic masculinity: expecting their man to be able to physically control or beat other men or be disappointed/…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:56 PM
2

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:51 PM
1

High N-count women are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:13 PM
2

This is 2020s, you hire her to do a photoshoot with you to post on instagram now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:02 AM
1

Aren't there still many more single men than women at that age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:40 AM
1

Low N-count women are the ultimate traditional women and they are the most high value, desirable women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:34 AM
2

I like this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:08 AM
2

Honestly I wouldn't mind it if women saw it as actual DHV/HVM behavior because it would be an easy win, but it doesn't actually help with getting women to like or respect you (and can even hurt you sometimes)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:49 AM
-3

Women start out as perfect partners with zero N-count but then ruin themselves by becoming high N 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:43 AM
1

Simp against high N-count women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:41 AM
4

Feminism is already mainstream culture, so the only ones remaining who still use the moniker are trying to push the fringe viewpoints
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:37 AM

What sport has the lowest average N-count? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:56 PM
1

Porn is alright but all the women in the videos are low quality because they have high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:49 PM

how can she be that fat and have no curves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:47 PM

High N-count women wouldn't be happy in marriage or motherhood because they've been ruined. They've had their ability to be happy in a relationship broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:24 PM

The problem is that women don't date men at their level.They think they're compatible with men above their level, when they're only compatible with being a sex toy for those men Men are reasonable and would happily date women at their level, but women are unreasonable and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:23 PM

Sorry, been too lazy to make a thread about N-count lately
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:20 PM
0

They're talking about relationships but > 80% of women have casual sex and are having casual sex with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:07 PM
0

Avoid high N-count women. They are broken and ruined. They're incapable of a wholesome serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:02 PM

Women depend on male attention as life fuel, so if that's taken away women would all be in mental chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:26 AM
1

This is why high N-count women should be shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:25 AM
1

There are two types of female love: The love of a low N-count princess Fake love
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:22 AM
1

It's trivial compared to her N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:51 PM

Same with fat women and high N-count women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:38 PM

Being fat is a personality. It's a physical manifestation of their worth ethic. Short and ugly men can't do anything about their situation but fat women can improve their dating situation and be healthier. Fat shaming is good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:38 PM

I benevolently want women to be the best (slim, healthy) version of themselves. It's a win-win. It increases the supply of date-able women while helping women improve their dating lives and be healthier. Fat shaming is good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:36 PM
1

Women are the tutors and they are terrible at it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:49 PM
0

It's increased women's N-count ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:49 PM
4

Why are fat women dense (both physically and mentally)? I don't understand why they get confused about why they get treated poorly by men. They get treated poorly and don't get respect or viewed as relationship material because they're fat. And all they have to do to fix it is just not be fat. Yet I see fat women complaining about men like men are the problem and that they have normal dating problems. Again, no, it's because they're fat. Are other women not honest with them? When fat women go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:09 PM
2

the actual chads are the ones who they call "LVM": who pump and dump them, display "LVM" behavior and who don't put up with their BS A lot of what they say is "HVM" behavior is actually LVM behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:47 PM
2

Yeah, my understanding is that high perceived value men were still sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:45 PM
2

It's not a surprise. Rich people are temperamentally more pleasant than poor people. But does that mean poor people are wrong or should be ignored about their grievances?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:42 PM
-3

Also, looks isn't everything for women. Women can also increase or decrease their value through their N-count. A low N-count 6/10 is a 8/10 RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:32 PM
0

5.2 4.4 4.8 6.5, I don't like her fashion, she could improve to 7.5 with better clothes The first 3 are chubby and could improve by just not being fat. Number 3 is using angles and clothes to hide her fattiness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:01 PM

First, most women don't have high EQ either. They get pumped and dumped and don't understand how they're coming off as sluts. Second, you don't understand the actual skills needed. What exactly do you think EQ is? It's vague and you're likely staying vague and not being concrete about it because you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:15 AM

Should it be a requirement to have "high eq" to have a "normal dating life"? And again, you don't even understand what social skills are needed and most women don't have the social skills to make it in dating as the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:45 AM

Women don't understand what kind of social skills or EQ are required for a man to be successful with women. It's not the same as the social skills needed to have a social life or to date as a woman (that's easy mode) Almost all women don't have the EQ or social skills to succeed at dating as an average man. The average woman doesn't even have the courage to approach men and they have female privilege: the success rate is much higher and men are a lot nicer than women are on rejection Women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:34 AM
0

Unfortunately, it was a lot easier to be unaccepting of high N-count women, and they were more unaccepted, 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:27 AM

If it was a holo, she would be right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:58 PM

But they (East Asian born) have lower N-count on average because they spend all their time studying instead of racking up N-count It's low N-count paradise 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:50 PM

I don't know about SEA but there are a lot of Chinese women who are low N because they spent all their time studying. East Asia is low N paradise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:43 PM
4

And the reversed, if you sleep quickly with Chad (stranger), you should also treat men you have a LTR (loved one) with as well as Chad by sleeping quickly with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:39 PM

Yes, high N-count women are ruined for relationships. Their version of a relationship is incompatible with what most men would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:40 PM

The definition of cuckoldry needs to be modernized. Introducing... retroactive cuckoldry A retroactive cuckold is a man who marries a high N-count woman Even though all the Chads and casual sex partners she slept had happened in the past, he's being cuckolded in the present by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:12 PM
8

It's not as much that she's not into him as much as she's had her pair bonding ruined by casual sex and a high N. She can't be into men at her level, men who would actually be in a LTR with her, because she's been ruined. The only men she can have feelings for won't have a relationship with her. She's broken and unable to have a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:41 PM
5

Low N-women are young though and any marriage where the woman is not low N is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:37 PM
-1

A low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:18 AM
4

Direct if he's attractive, but if he's not, then he has to be indirect and thread the needle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:17 AM
-1

For purposes of a relationship, they both have their pair bonding ability ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:16 AM
1

If you're drawn to low N-count women, you're a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:10 PM

If school shooters could get a gf or get laid easily, they wouldn't be shooting up schools, so the women not sleeping with these men are causing them to become school shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:57 PM

(women, also include your N-count)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:48 PM

That's like N-count. Meaning just dating her wasn't enough to make me want her. Finding out she had a low N-count made me want a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:40 PM

I might have been a virgin when I met my husband, but I'm NOT perfect Shhhh, N=1 with a husband makes you a perfect princess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:31 PM
0

People should also keep track of the woman's N-count at marriage to judge the quality of the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:25 PM

Thin Stacy privilege, shame on you 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:18 PM

In Chinese culture income and education are of paramount importance to a family vetting a marriage candidate for their daughter At least the tradeoff is that they're low N-count if they're going to be demanding about that. Some western women demand the same and have high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:15 PM

You now whats worse than vagina envy? Having a high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:42 PM
1

Low N-count women deserve genuine love bombing, but high N-count women deserve manipulative love bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:20 PM

When will we ban sluts and high N-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:17 PM

When did obsessive become a synonym for smart and pragmatic? Low N-count women would appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:06 PM

Non-hypocritically, my pair bonding ability would be ruined for women at my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:46 PM

tbh I only care about women's N-count Gay men can do whatever they want with their N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:53 AM

I agree that in some cases, older women are worthy to chased... If she has a low N. Otherwise, she's not. Low N-count is kween
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:48 AM

And the difference is that women actually get something out of being creeped. It gives them a self esteem boost, gives them a sense of social security knowing that they can never be lonely and can get sex, dates and attention easily. Her attraction to the guy is a matter of how she is feeling and her available options at the moment. Straight men can't ever even entertain the thought of dating a gay man. It is never an option. The validation and security that women get is from the dates and sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:44 AM

The reality that women live in. There is a huge divide in the dating experiences between men and women Womyn quote: Anyway if you don't believe in that, why don't you install some dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:39 AM

This is why casual sex ruins women's pair bonding ability. They secretly, consciously and subconsciously, want more and see the casual sex as filling some relationship needs. They get a high off of deluding themselves into thinking they're in a relationship with Chad, in the same way men get a high off of masturbating to porn. When they think they're in some kind of relationship with the casual sex chad, they'll compare having a relationship with Chad who won't actually have a relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:09 PM

That's nothing to do with pair-bonding, those are just standards, which brings me back to the point that it's not about pair-bonding but about being afraid that she had better partners before. Falling in love = pair bonding. They were able to pair bond with women on their level before. Now they can't. Or they went to Asia with the interest of finding love with Asian women. The Asia experience for a western man is the closest experience that non-Chad men can get to dating as a western woman. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:56 PM

Tbh, in the USA, phone use is probably negatively correlated with income and phones are common even in middle income countries, so people making $3/hr are also posting gems like my post from their phone at dead end jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:44 PM

Tbh, it makes more sense to have a daughter because as I posted earlier, women have and live easier lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:36 PM

It's not. It's just logic, empathy and equality. The same mechanism works for both genders but only women are able trigger the conditions of the mechanism. If men were able to easily date, get validation from and sleep with Stacies, they would also be unable to fall in love with Beckies after experiencing it. e.g. western men who go to Asia and stop liking western women It's not even just dating. It's a generalizable principle. You appreciate Applebees more growing up before you move to a city w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:32 PM

a contractual agreement like marriage lol. Income is split 50/50 with the marriage contract
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:27 PM

And it's largely because poor women can't even do the easy 3 steps. There are a lot of UMC men who would marry poor women that are low N-count, not fat and not ghetto. A lot of women from MC and UMC households went into some crap liberal arts field and has low income but marry UMC men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:25 PM

It's not for his sake. It's for her sake. She wants to be in love. It's a bad experience for her if she isn't in love with the person she is marrying. She loses her ability to be in love with a non-Chad UMC man if ruins her pair bonding ability. It's impossible for her to get a UMC Chad, so if she wants to be able to find love, she has to be have the ability to be in love with a non-Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:23 PM

Imagine being a poor woman. Life as a woman is so easy. How can any woman possibly be poor? All a woman has to do is: Don't be fat Don't be ghetto Don't be a slut and ruin your pair bonding ability It's easy mode for any woman, poor to rich, to marry a UMC man who the woman also actually likes and rise out of poverty, as long as she doesn't ruin her pair bonding ability by being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:50 PM
3

Something is rotten in the modern world when fat women can have better and more fulfilling dating lives than average men. Fat women are even more incapable people than incels. Fat women deserve worse dating lives than incels. In a fair and just world, that would be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:12 PM
8

No, because women put so little effort into being good partners, into their personality, any woman that does put in some effort would be far ahead of the pack. Very few women are born ugly enough to have it limit them. Ugly women are ugly because they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:08 PM
17

Stop trying to gaslight. Women demand way more from men than that and men expect way less
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:05 PM
0

Let's reverse the gender roles. Women are expected to support men in the way that men are traditionally expected to support women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:19 PM
1

It's socially acceptable for women to get "passion jobs" where they have a "job" that's more of a hobby than a money maker, which require them to be provided for by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:35 PM
0

Hypergamous and N-count gap relations should be discouraged. They're much worse than age gap relations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:33 PM
1

Yeah, it's easier for someone to learn to code and make 6 figures than it is for an introverted, shy average or below average looking guy to change his personality enough to be able to get laid frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:46 AM
1

There's a large gap even between being able to speak in public and getting laid frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:45 AM
5

Women who fall for this have low social and emotional IQ. If they were male, they would be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:57 PM

I don't get how woman can be anti-porn and not think that women are getting their pair bonding ability ruined by casual sex. It doesn't get any more real than actual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:55 PM
3

Dating inequality IS income inequality. Women who start out at the same class as a man will a higher household income by virtue of having a vajay. It's especially pronounced for the middle class and below. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/03/27/upshot/make-your-own-mobility-animation.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:43 PM
1

😍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:16 AM
0

whats her N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:26 AM
-1

Just trying to cheer you up bro, no one deserves to be stuck with a high N-count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:55 PM
1

good riddance if she's not low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:32 PM
0

Women's natural state is being happy as low N-count princesses but they keep racking up N-count and don't realize it's made them into unhappy high N-count witches 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:45 PM
0

For women, yes. But not for men. Men deserve their percentile/value match but society is unjust. If society supported equality, it would change the culture norms and rules to encourage women to be attracted to their percentile/value match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:37 PM
1

Imagine having such low standards that you would be willing to date high N-count women 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:33 PM
9

Women who grew up poor have a much higher household income than their male counterparts, so they do much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:08 PM
-1

It's not related to him. He has an ideal vision of women because he was lucky the first person he dated was low N-count, but most women suck because they're high N-count. He never got to see the treachery of high N-count vile witches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:00 AM
-6

Women are not giving back to the orbiters, friendly men and men who are babying them in non-LTR dating. Women are acting like babies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:58 AM
4

The hypocrisy of women complaining about being mommy in a relationship when they like men who play daddy when they're single and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:46 AM
2

He got lucky and thinks that every woman has the behavior of a low N-count woman. In reality, he would be getting treated like trash by all the high N-count women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:41 AM
1

Women aren't ever "single" unless they are really ugly or fat. They still go on dates, have orbiters, random men hitting on them and flirting and being friendly, hook ups, etc. A bunch of para-relationship encounters. You make the mommy comment but when women are single, men are playing daddy to them, doing all the work of approaching, starting and progressing a conversation, paying for them, planning dates. Being "single" as a woman is taking the opposite role of the "mommy": being babied by me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:40 AM
1

No one is demanding sex. It's a failing of society that men can be shut out from the casual sex market in the same way that poverty is a failing of society If women aren't attracted to men at their level, culture and women should change such that women are attracted and willing to have sex with men at their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:43 AM
0

In a just and equal society, men should not have to struggle to get casual sex with percentile/value matched women, or even women below his level. Right now, men struggle to get casual sex with their percentile matched women and some men can even be priced out of the casual sex market e.g. 5/10 men struggle to get any casual sex. Men can't even date down enough to get sex. Men are entitled to sex with their percentile matched women. If they can't get it, society is unjust. Society needs to be fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:26 AM
-5

It's not crazy to expect casual sex with a woman at your level or even below your level. Men shouldn't have to struggle to get any sex. All men have a percentile/value matched women who should be attracted to him enough to have sex with him. If it's a difficult for men to get sex with percentile matched women, then society is broken and needs fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:23 AM
1

The only men who say that are saying it because it's taboo to care. If her past was clearly visible like height, men would be mentally swiping left off the bat. Being neutral about a woman's past sexual experience is either a coping mechanism because of the shaming of men's preferences or futility in not being able to tell for sure what a women's past history is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:19 AM
3

The women are also ruining their pair bonding and making themselves worse for a long term relationship with casual sex, so the men who can't casual sex also get a worse LTR than if casual sex was taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:16 AM
7

Men want sexual capitalism when it comes to their desires This doesn't mean anything lol Women are treated differently for having casual sex because they get casual sex easier, so casual sex is a different kind of experience for them than for men. I don't get why that is so hard to understand. If men could easily get casual sex like women, it would be treated similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:04 PM
27

Women are never really alone. When women are "single", they still have orbiters, random men hitting on them and flirting and being friendly, hook ups, etc. A bunch of para-relationship encounters. Women's self esteem is built off of all these para-relationship encounters. Women who are actually alone, who are so ugly that men treat her like a man, who are actually going their own way are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:12 PM
2

https://nonprofitaf.com/2018/09/hey-people-with-privilege-you-need-to-be-ok-with-making-mistakes-and-being-called-out/ Gender swap the use of men and women in the article
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:32 PM
3

Dating is so easy for women, it's always easy for women no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:03 PM

A man can absolutely be in a relationship up with his “percentile match.” That doesn't contradict what I wrote. "Anyone" can make six figures. It's about the amount of effort. Men who are average barely get any responses in online dating, and the responses they get aren't women on their level. Men who are below average get nothing. Above average men can get responses from women at their level and have a much easier time getting casual sex and relationships with women at their level. This is ineq…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:15 PM

It's not just having a harder or easier time in dating in general but having a harder or easier time getting a percentile matched woman. Men are entitled to sex and relationships to their percentile/value matched woman. But the lower a man is, the harder it is for him to get a woman who is his match percentile/value wise. The 5/10 social skills and looks guy struggles more to get a 5/10 woman but the 8/10 social skills and looks guy would getting a 8/10 woman. In a moral, equitable and just soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:31 PM

The number of single, non-fat women who haven't been ruined by casual sex and hypergamy is too damn low
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 09:04 PM

Women who have hypergamous casual sex ( a large subset of all casual sex) disrespect themselves. The top men they are having sex with consciously and subconsciously look down on most of women they are having casual sex with. Women who have this hypergamous casual sex either like being looked down upon or have bad social and emotional intelligence/skills and can't tell that they are being looked down upon or when a man is genuinely interested. Either way, these women aren't fit for a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:49 PM

Don't women say that personality is more important that physical attributes? If she's dating extroverted, confident 5s, she's still dating out of her league Anyway, women who get pumped and dumped are the female version of incels, who can't get dates or casual sex, and these women have low social skills and low emotional/social IQ, so she should fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:41 PM
1

Pickmeing would work for women if they were logical and just picked male simps to pickme to. A simp to pickme relationship works. But women are stupid and hypergamous and pick the wrong men. Men in general don't take advantage of pickmes. Pickmes are picking men who take advantage of them. Then the dimwits blame pickme behavior when it was clearly their hypergamy hurting them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:01 AM
1

Not for a relationship. Sex isn't everything in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:58 AM
3

If you’re a whiny, jealous, insecure baby, yeah, she’ll cheat on you or leave you. It wasn’t because she fucked guys before you. You think you're a special snowflake? No one wins at that game. If a woman is able to have a relationship with you, she was able to fuck guys who were 10 times better than you. That's just the game. It's rigged. You win by not playing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:56 AM
1

You meant to write "guys who have slept with a lot of women don't care at all" but even that's not true. There are 2 types of guys who have slept with a lot of women: the type who was always liked by women, even in high school and the guys who droughts in high school or college and had to self improve to get laid. The latter usually care about N-count but the former care about N-count much less. The latter (the ones who care) have a higher income and are higher class than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:54 AM
3

High N-count women are losers who have low social status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:47 AM
6

Women do. Especially high N-count women. They underestimate the negative impact of their N-count on their RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:44 AM
3

Women don’t care. Women never have cared. Then why do women keep pushing the idea that only loser men care about N-count with such indignance and passion? If they actually didn't care, they wouldn't care enough to try to shame men for caring about N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:41 AM
7

Because they've been brainwashed to think that men don't care about N-count. If women were told that reasonable, attractive men look down on high N-count women and men could openly talk about their preference without getting shamed, women would care more about ruining their value with pump and dumps. It's the biggest ruse that men can't talk about their N-count preference even though it's so common
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:22 PM

Someone answer with female dating privilege pls https://np.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/oqwlri/what_is_something_people_dont_realize_is_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:16 PM

Lol womyn try to differentiate between them to make themselves feel better about themselves It's either: Sex in a relationship or with someone who eventually becomes a boyfriend or Casual sex Womyn, if you're someone who has casual sex, just embrace that you are the type of woman to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:15 PM
1

You’re the one misreading, Pickles. She flat out says she doesn’t know what she wants, and admits that part of her attraction to this guy is that he seems like he has that figured out Ok, then find the quote. This is an actual quote from her, which I quoted in my post: I don't know what I want for sure And who do you know that wants the same thing at 24 that they do at 34? People change throughout their life, but especially in their formative teen and early 20s years You didn't respond to my arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:07 PM
1

Who, in various comments, details exactly how little she knows about what she wants out of life. She has zero idea, which is why that comment details that - you even cut out the qualifying sentence: This is a comment on the specific poster The poster who is making unqualified inferences on OP based on a few sentences OP wrote. You and the poster misread. She said she doesn't "know what she wants for sure", which is much different than "knowing little about what she wants out of life". Again, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:37 PM
2

Any incel who can't even get dates with women could go on grindr and get gay men to agree to go on a date or a hookup, but there's no gay pill for straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:58 PM
4

Then we need more societal, external shaming of fatties so they feel shamed like everyone else with weaknesses For fat women, shaming helps them be healthier. Fat shaming saves lives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:48 PM
1

You don’t know what you want out of a relationship, if you want a family, etc. She's 24. She's a grown ass woman with an adult job. That's the age a good number of people meet the long term person they marry 3- 10 years down the road when you realize you don’t like the feeling of being suffocated by being his version of yourself you’re gonna be right back where are now How is that different than having a relationship with someone who's the same age? That's just a danger of having relationships t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:47 PM
2

Yeah, TRP has a BP vision of being a man on that topic. They (TRP and BP) say men need to strive to fit into some strict masculine role to be worthy as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:43 PM
0

You can have the best of both worlds with a low N-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:00 PM
1

I feel like there would be professional photographers who take dating profile pics for people. I'd easily spend $100 for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:42 PM
0

If you're in favor of equality, you're in favor of shaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:51 PM
2

You're complaining about double standards, but the double standards you speak of moves gender dynamics toward equality because of female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:48 PM
5

I just want to be held to the standard that men are held regarding sex drive. And men would want the same ability to have casual sex that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:32 PM
0

Why is it so hard for women to just to be not fat and to have a low N-count? It's basic relationship standards for most men and women can't even meet it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:38 PM
1

My standards are basic so none I would compromise on, but I would compromise on everything else: Not fat Not ghetto Low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:18 PM
2

High N-count women have more dating experience and are better at manipulating men than low N-count women but ain't nobody talking about that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:57 PM
10

Normal women aren't fine with "just lying" to their boyfriend about themselves and about something that he cares about It's hard for me to imagine people who can be in a loving relationship and have no problem "just lying" about something their partner cares about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:11 PM
0

Your N-count though 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:03 PM
0

I don't watch a lot of romance movies. Are there any where the woman is explicitly low N-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:07 PM
2

Misogynists, think about the low N-count women😭 If you hate all women, you're also hating low N-count women Most women deserve misogyny, but low N-count women are princesses who deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:28 PM
5

Useless study only 33% of the participants are < 35 years old The active dating years are < 35 years old 50% of the participants were married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:21 PM
3

do just fine with women from the same background. I'm referring to women (most women on Reddit) who are not from the same background
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:25 PM
0

Commit/marry: non-fat, non-ghetto low N-count women Sexing: non-fat, non-ghetto women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:08 PM
6

The number of men who want low N-count women dwarf the number of low N-count women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:43 PM
6

For women to understand, dating a high N-count woman is like dating a low status man e.g. a blue collar, not college educated, man from the sticks or a guy who is normal around you but is socially awkward around other people. You would be embarrassed to introduce him around to people. High N-count women are low status and embarrassing to be around. If you don't want to date a low status man, then you would understand and support not dating high N-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:41 PM
1

Most women don't deserve respect but low N-count women do. Men who treat low N-count women poorly are horrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:25 PM
1

Low N-count women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:15 AM
3

An age gap is better than an N-count gap in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:31 AM
0

Virgin women are valuable, new, untouched, shrink wrapped video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:48 AM
8

The only thing people should take seriously are low N-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:34 AM
3

Mostly agreed except low N-count women are the exception. Low N-count women are princesses who deserve simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:51 PM
0

Unless they're low N. Women with a low N-count are princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:45 PM
13

😍😍😍 I would simp for her. Any non-fat virgin is a 8.5+/10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:50 AM
1

Because they want a quick fuck Fat women have no problem sleeping with a Chad lite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:55 AM
1

I dated pre tinder and always had great success just walking up to the hot guy in the bar and telling him to buy me a drink, or giving him my number. Rarely got turned down. Size22-24 and I go for 6’2+ dark hair blue eyes athletic and muscular guys. Pretty much every type of man swiped on me. Athletic, outdoorsy, artsy, bookish, etc. They varied in how seriously interested they are. https://www.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/jbzgjh/my_tinder_experiment/g8yeqxi/ Fat women have no problem getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:52 AM
1

Ugly women can easily get men to "date" them. They can easily find men who will be polite to her, flirt with and put in effort in the conversation and to seduce her. They might not commit to her, but it's not just raw unpolite sexual attention. It's fulfilling a majority of needs that a woman wants from a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:44 AM
1

If life was fair, fat, ugly women wouldn't have an easier time getting attention, dates or sex than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:18 PM
5

Fathers, mothers and society in general are not slut shaming women enough We need more slut shaming to solve the degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:41 PM
16

They logically know it but they still do it to get the validation, entertainment, and a sense of social security that they will never be alone because hundreds of attractive men are willing to have a conversation with them. Women consciously deceive themselves to feel good. Women's self esteem and sense of social security depend heavily on male attention. If it was taken away, if women were treated like the average man, the average woman would be depressed and in despair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:25 PM
0

Not enough low N-count women to arouse me here 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:16 PM
1

The solution is to import foreign women, especially ones with good traditional values
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:13 PM

You too can (pretend to) be a hot guy on dating apps and literally order sex as a delivery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:14 AM

Is your cousin female? It's a lot harder for a man than a woman. There's no comparison. Men are born poor, women are born upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:01 AM

The hot guy gets much more sex, much easier with less effort than the cool guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:00 AM

Low N-count women are wonderful too 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:43 AM
0

To get an average man to commit, "high quality woman" = not fat, not ghetto, not crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:24 AM

Women have dating so easy, they can easily even get a happy, stable relationship as long as they haven't ruined their ability to like and pair bond with average men. Any woman can easily find a man who is: low N-count, not a fukboy stable upper middle class healthy and not fat happy and excited to date her The ideal relationship that most average men struggle to get, women can get easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:40 PM
4

If you're a man, I wouldn't say it's unreasonable but it's very difficult to find a woman who does If you're a woman, it's very easy to find a man who is exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:29 PM

Isn't everyone taking some sort of pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:23 PM
8

No one wants to play another person's saved video game. When I buy a used video game, I reset the profile. No one would buy a used video game that forces you to keep using the previous owner's saved profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:18 PM
5

Or we could shame women to stop them from wearing heels It's ridiculous to me that women sacrifice their mobility and comfort just to satisfy some cultural style phenomenon Heels don't even make women look more attractive. It's like wearing an uncomfortable necklace or wearing a burka because the religions culture says so It's some weird cultural fundamentalism for women to wear heels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:41 PM
11

Lol the women are NEETS Women: 7.3% unemployed and not looking Men: 2.8% unemployed and not looking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:32 PM

Short men are already not getting many dates just because they are short. Bulking up won't make much of a difference. The type of women who overlook the height would usually also overlook muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:51 PM

Except they're not going to be attractive either way because they're short. These guys are probably getting so few dates just because of their height, that there is little point in becoming more attractive because they just go from like 3 dates to 4 dates a year
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:33 PM

The men who are openly bitter are just a small fraction of the men who are actually bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:31 PM
3

So to answer OP's question, to be successful, he needs to pick a wholesome low N-count woman 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:13 PM

I had a snide post that I'm too lazy to find about women picking the wrong men and de-evolving the human race because they pick tall men (who have more health issues) and killing off (by not picking) the smart nerds who are innovating the world and doing the most important work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:11 PM

Social status wise, it's better than dating the high N-count town bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:08 PM
4

I tried skimming the post but it's just rambling and not going anywhere. This is one of the worst posts in PPD. Ain't nobody got time to try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:01 PM
7

They were likely self reliant before you entered the picture. You and most women have different household standards and are expecting men to uphold your standards. You think your household standards are the most right one when men were perfectly happy on their own standards. The solipsism of women not even considering that other people have different household standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:48 PM
3

Yes, women who can't tell are the female version of aspie incels. They have poor social skills and low social and emotional intelligence. The only reason they can even get dates is because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:47 PM

It's perfectly fine as long as she hasn't ruined her ability to appreciate an average sized penis by having a high N-count and sleeping around with men who have bigger penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:44 PM
-3

It's worse in women. The main one is that people's face and jaw widen starting around 20 years old. This widening makes many men look more masculine and older but it makes all women look straight up worse. By around 26-27, the widening of the face makes women look significantly worse than when they had a thinner, more feminine face. Most women facially peak 19-22 years old but many men can facially peak 25-30 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:48 AM
0

Women gain the power of their fathers, so it was never generational power differential
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:47 AM
1

She's getting called a creep because she has "a divergent personality and malsocialization" 🤭 Women with normal social skills do just fine when they pursue men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:26 AM
1

That usually goes hand in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:22 AM
1

Has anyone found the reddit user base demographics for baseline comparison? Best I could find: https://imgur.com/gallery/cPzlB The gender ratio is almost the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:20 AM
1

If you go to any dating advice reddits, it's full of women complaining about how they got pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:18 AM
2

She's generating risk by doing this. She can't know if he really likes her if she lies about herself to get him to like her. How do you think the guy will react if he finds out she was lying about herself and was a slut in the past to other men but a prude to him? This will be after she's emotionally involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:51 PM
7

Very few men have the chance "use the slut". Very few men are sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:46 PM
5

Worry about this when u can definitively prove who women are fucking as a rule, which women are doing it and so forth. A lot of women actually won't lie about it. The problem is that men are shamed fro asking, so they don't even ask to begin with. The big thing is de-stigmatizing men caring about N-count. Once men can openly say that they care, women will have to change their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:31 PM
3

Women falling for this is the female version of having low social skills and emotional intelligence and being an aspie. These women are unable to read social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:14 PM
1

No, it would be like buying a house where a murder took place at. Even if there's nothing wrong with her, her high N-count still makes her low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:12 PM
3

At the cost of ruining their ability to pair bond with the average men who they will most likely marry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:31 PM
-2

High N-count = not feminine Low N-count = feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:38 PM
70

Women treat the men they want to spend their lifetime with worse than the men that they are seeing casually. Men treat the women they want to spend their lifetime with better than the women that they are seeing casually. One of these is more logical than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:45 PM
1

Boost your testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:43 PM
0

Every women, even non-whores, are getting validation and attention from men. They don't even need to hook up. It's not possible to tell if a woman is "strong" without male attention because it's impossible for women to not get ample amounts of male validation or attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:22 PM

So she treats other men better than him and portrays herself inaccurately, for the selfish reason of misleading him to like her more? Misleading someone is such a great way to start off a relationship. If she's someone who's had casual sex, she should be viewed as someone who has casual sex. There's no getting around that. Being truthful and accurate about who she is is for her benefit. How can she feel fully accepted and desired by her partner if she's lying about who she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:57 PM

So selfishness. If she respected him or even respected herself, she would portray herself accurately. Why start a relationship off with a lie? She's the type of woman who sleeps around and there's no getting around. Just own it. If you don't want to be viewed as someone who sleeps around, don't sleep around. It is really low value behavior for women to lie about who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:48 PM

It's especially awkward when there's a large height difference, she's short and he's tall. I can't help thinking it's a father with his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:39 PM

This happens because she's been too hypergamous and her N-count had been too high, probably because she starts comparing you to her past Chad partners or the opportunity cost of the easy validation from casual sex and casual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:35 PM
0

Socially shame women for hypergamous casual sex, hypergamy and high N-count. Make it shameful for women to be pumped and dumped, as shameful as it is for a man to be rejected by a woman or to be unable to get women. With the right incentives, women can improve from their debauchery and be decent and worthy of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:27 PM
1

Women who don't have low N-count can't be feminine. High N-count women don't deserve a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 PM
5

even the women think average men don't get enough play on OLD for it to be worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:04 AM
7

I just want to make the world a better place by treating low N-count women well 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:00 AM
5

My compliments and adoration for low N-count women are genuine and created by a biological neural network.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:35 AM
8

you can’t assume he’s monogamous unless you explicitly have the talk Only if you pick the wrong men. Much fewer men are dating multiple women than women are because it's too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:28 AM
-1

It was successful because she had a low N-count when the relationship formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:26 AM
1

tldr: women are more demanding and picky
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:25 AM
3

Yes, women lose a part of themselves and ruin their ability to pair bond when given too much easy attention and validation. They're turned into low value, unattractive dating partners by dating around too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 AM
0

This is only a problem for women if they choose the few top men who are dating multiple women at the same time. It's not a problem of wrong assumptions as much as it is the problem of women choosing the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:21 AM
1

This is a Chad and women problem. Juggling multiple women is too much effort for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:19 AM
-1

If you think ass or boobs is more important than N-count, there is something wrong with your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:33 AM
0

Before, the men who couldn't get casual sex still had the possibility of romance. Now, romance is dead because women have all been ruined by hypergamy, casual sex and high N-count, so romance is no longer even an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:30 AM

If men don't want even care enough to satisfy you to sexually satisfy you to make to into a fwb, then you're very low value to them, like you would be the low value guy that a woman straight up ignores and thinks is creepy if you were a man. Women get pumped and dumped because they don't have emotional intelligence and choose the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:22 AM

And god forbid you ask them what they do for work. Does the career of the men matter when you are deciding whether to date them? For most women it does. And there you go. The female version would be asking a woman what her past dating history is like on a date. Also, even if men didn't judge men based on it, who wants to discuss their careers while they're trying to have a good time with a random stranger much less on a date. This is basic social skills and emotional intelligence. Luckily for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:18 AM

Dating is so easy for women that if you're a woman and can't get what you want out of dating or the men you want, you're a low value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:09 AM

Whereas a guy looking to build a relationship with you is going to be happy to answer questions because he is also trying to build a foundation for a relationship, not rush you into sex. lol "build a foundation" The guy who fucks her is closer to getting into a relationship with her than the guy who wastes time "building a foundation" by making boring small talk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:06 AM
3

While men need to be " maxxing" everything to be successful men like looksmaxxing, careermaxxing, gymmaxxing, women have life on easy mode and just have to be " minning" Minimize your fat Minimize your masculine and aggressive behaviors. Being a shy, demure woman is easy and makes her successful And of course. Minimize your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:19 PM
1

The 20 year old woman has a better personality and lower N-count than the jaded 30 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:45 PM
1

Education level is unimportant. At best, only 30% of married women make more than their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:42 PM
1

I can understand misogyny against high N-count women but low N-count princesses deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:58 PM
-1

It's not pedo. It's Ephebophilia. Learn the difference! That old OF lady who edited her photos to look young looks like a girl who's 16-20 years (closer to 18-20 than 16) in the edited pics That type of face is not too young. It's the peak face that women have around their peak years of 18-21 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:07 AM
3

This eternal daily chat thread is now the thread with the highest N-count (comments) on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:45 PM
2

At best these women are being led on to think they that can be used for sex by Chad. The trick or disappointment is that they can't actually be used for sex by Chad. They would have to be mentally disabled to think a real relationship is on the table with a top tier Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:34 PM
3

But they probably weren't 9/10 Chads. The threshold for fucking up is different based on looks. The same action that is "fucking up" for average Joe is seen as acceptable for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:16 PM
8

Women don't just look for a relationship. They enjoy flirting, attention, casual dating, casual sex. All of which the can easily get (and which they look for) from online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:07 PM
1

The mythical extrovert woman who prefers shy introverts It's usually shy introvert women who prefer confident extroverts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:15 PM
2

When in doubt, it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:03 PM
2

I don't think many women actually lie about it. If she's the type that does then she's likely the kind of woman that a man who wants a low N-count woman would have implicitly filtered out. Men just aren't able to directly ask her because they're afraid of the reputation hit for caring about N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:54 PM
3

It's the opposite. The less they like you, the less shyness they have and the easier it can be for them to get over the shyness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:40 PM
1

What makes those average women in movies deserving is that it's assumed they have low N-counts, that they're virginal princesses What makes real life average women undeserving is that they have high N-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:24 PM
0

This is a good reason to judge women based on N-count. N-count is objective and easily compared between women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:30 AM
1

how can you see when your eyes aren't real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:24 AM
4

The non-fat woman with the lowest N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:22 AM
6

If he is unable to attract either, within reason, then it is likely because he has an “unattractive personality” and/or some level of “maladaptive socialization.” The vast majority of average men, even the vast majority of average men in relationships, are unable to attract hookups. The vast majority of men either have to put so much effort into trying to get hookups that it is not enjoyable to them or plain can't do it. You're claiming that the vast majority of average men have an “unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:47 AM

Women are taught to be hypergamous and greedy by society and other women, and it hurts them. This is why I criticize hypergamy so much. It's to help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:38 PM
1

The ambition of being Chad, being tall and good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:36 PM

I don't see how you have a problem dating unless you're looking for the mystical guy who is both a Chad and has high income. At every high income bracket, there are more than 2x men earning the same or more than the women, so women always have good options dating even with high income. What is problematic is that women want both the Chad and the high income guy. This is why there was such a backlash against techies. Women want the high household income but are livid at having to date non-Chad te…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:22 PM
4

This eternal daily thread has more comments than almost all weekly threads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:41 PM
2

I'd like to expand that it's not even just casual sex. Average men can't enjoy casual dating e.g. dating for fun or when you're bored, dating on apps. Dating for average men is going through unenjoyable slog to get a girlfriend, and only then can he start enjoying dating. A significant amount of average women do enjoy casual dating, the attention that comes from it. A significant amount of average women also enjoy casual sex, otherwise they wouldn't be having it. which means yea a man has to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:18 PM
2

The only way an average looking man can have casual sex or even enjoy dating is if he has 80th+ percentile social skills and confidence, in which case he is no longer an average man. Dating is a slog for the average looking man with average social skills and confidence. The only way they can date is by desperately getting a girlfriend with the first girl who is willing. They struggle to get dates and the only enjoyable romance for them is having a long term girlfriend, basically shut out from an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:57 PM
1

But they have above average social skills, confidence and social circle So they're not actually average men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:52 PM
1

But not enough for women to optimize for and choose men who would be more loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:50 PM
1

They enjoy casual dating as much if not more than men enjoy casual sex . They exchange sex for relationship-lite benefits and attention when they're not sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:49 PM

If men can "just not be a neckbeard" and get laid, why are men who aren't neckbeards struggling to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:37 PM

All women want the hottest guys. Whether they can get them is a different story. They have gotten attention and slept with the hottest guys and have been ruined by it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:35 PM
4

Women make allowances for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:27 PM

Forgot the most important one: the woman has a high N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:00 AM
1

A high value woman has a low N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:15 AM
0

You don't. High N-count is an unattractive trait/personality for women, so high N-count women are unattractive unless they have something to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:44 AM
1

Any relationship with a low N-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:43 AM

If it's a hard question to answer, you'll procrastinate on answering it, but if you responded to an unrelated question or greeting first, then you'll be forced to answer quickly because the question asker knows you're available and saw the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:41 AM

Only low N-count women deserve relationships with men who take the responsibility of the male gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:39 AM
-2

There's an effective way of doing this. If woman are shamed for being sluts or for being hypergamous, they will be forced to date men at their level. Women need attention, so if they can't get attention from Chads because they fear being shamed, they will mold to like men at their level in order to get the male attention they use as their lifeblood and as the basis for their self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:32 PM
-1

Men can give advice to women but women can't give advice to men. It's actually hard for a man to succeed in dating but a woman just has to exist and not do the wrong thing. How to succeed in dating as a woman Don't be: fat ghetto loud or obnoxious crazy hypergamous This can work for almost every woman, even for woman with mental issues as long as she's not overburdening men with her issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:14 PM
1

Poor women do better than poor men Women of color do better than men of color Gay and trans women Lesbians are less stigmatized than gay men Look at the results of people who start out poor: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/03/27/upshot/make-your-own-mobility-animation.html Female privilege and hypergamy are present across all demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:53 AM
0

My issue is when male party boys/sluts want virginal trad girls. Being a trad virgin makes a woman more attractive. If women don't get criticized for the following: short woman wants tall man, unfunny/serious woman wants a funny man, shy woman wants a confident, outgoing man, then no man should get criticized for wanting a woman who is more attractive (i.e. lower N-count and has more traditional values)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:43 AM
1

Breh, if you're struggling to find a trad virgin as a Christian man, it's going to be impossible for secular men looking for a trad virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:40 AM
-1

No, as long as she isn't fat, men who want trad women would value her being trad-ness over her looks. You can test this out easily by asking if men would rather marry the community bicycle who is a Stacy or the Becky virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:36 AM
-2

Is Pinterest game a thing? Those girls pretty famously flock to that platform Wait what, can you explain? Do you see trad memes or trad influencers in Pinterest?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:33 AM
1

Aww ok, I would've tried to be nice to you if you were but I'll just respond like I do to everyone else then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:39 AM
1

Are you actually a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:21 AM
2

How so? The old model contributed more to "society" than feminism has. Cheap labor is good for the progress of society but bad for the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:18 AM
2

Society would be worse off, but people would live better lives. Feminism increased labor supply by introducing women to the workforce, which has increased society productivity but decreased wages. People are working more to make less money. Families could be sustained with only the father working. Not anymore because of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:11 AM
1

It doesn't work. Even if she is in a relationship, she is now in a relationship that started with her tricking her boyfriend It's bad for her self esteem to misrepresent herself and not be fully accepted by her boyfriend. She has to worry about her past coming up and not know if her boyfriend truly likes her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:12 PM
-2

True abolishing of gender roles requires that women be romantically interested in men with weaknesses i.e. feminine, short, anxious, shy, low income, low status, weak men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:37 PM
1

Directly: women damage their ability to bond with men when they increase their N Indirectly: having high N-count has negative status effects like a murder taking place in a house
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:43 PM
0

Unfortunately for women, there's no cure to reverse the negative effects of being high N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:00 PM
6

Women have lower relationship value because they're high N-count now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:56 PM
21

The thing is, self assured women would rather be alone than with a man that doesn’t respect her. Women have no trouble finding a man who respects her. Women have trouble being hypergamous and finding a Chad who respects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:55 PM
2

Some times they wait because many men wont commit to women who sleep early Being a woman who sleeps with men quickly but doesn't sleep quickly with him is strictly worse than just being a woman who sleeps with men quickly The only way it works is if the women have the intention of deceiving the man she apparently wants a relationship with right from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:28 PM
2

I had a post responding to this. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hxynhe/cmv_a_woman_should_sleep_quickly_with_her_serious/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:10 PM
1

Yes, she is less attractive based on her personality and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:07 PM
1

There's no contradiction. It's about the consistency. If a woman is a slut, she can't go pretending like she isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:59 PM
3

What is wrong with a man who can't get sex elsewhere? Probably half of the male population can't get sex without a relationship And deciding that every woman who has had sex with more than 3-5 men in her lifetime now has to fuck every first date as a rule is fucking weird and disgusting. Everyone is judged on their behavior. Sleeping around for women is unattractive and should be judged. It is just a standard that men have, just like women generally have standards on behavior of men e.g. a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:53 PM
1

"self respect" not "self respect", the women are still giving a worse experience for the man, giving him less respect and treating him worse The reason you see hot girls going after bad guys is bad guys knowing how to pressure the right amount And because the women like and respect them more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:50 PM
2

A woman can be as equally aroused by the first and second guy, but if the first guy manipulates her into getting what he wants then she’s going to be hesitant to show her eagerness to the second guy. So you give your best to the shady guy and skimp out for the genuine guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:47 PM
6

In sexual scenarios, because they’ve been with selfish men The selfish men are not the same men that women are being selfish to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:46 PM
2

Women who are pressured into it do it because they really like the guy and think having sex with the guy will make him like her. If she has been "pressured into sex" in the past but refuses to have sex with someone quickly, then she doesn't like the guy she is refusing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:18 PM
2

almost all men would consider having sex faster as being treated better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:10 PM
6

The worst is that it removed the stigma away from high N-count women. High N-count women are ruining society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:59 PM
1

It's an organized and professional scam https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/na8oax/asian_guygirl_from_online_dating_mentors_you_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:53 PM
-1

It's not an insecurity. It's a preference just like there are style or personality preferences. Women who have a lot of casual sex or who slept with Chad are inferior women just like shy or short men are "inferior" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:41 AM
12

How does it reinforce OP's point? OP's point is about men's taste in women, but men don't have the choice to choose women based on their taste
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:40 PM
-2

most men don't have the ability to sleep with sane average looking girls. the bdp crazy girl is easier to sleep with men aren't making the choice between bdp crazy girl and sane average girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:32 PM
11

with not a single date Not a single date with a man that met your standards that is. It's not that you couldn't find a date with an attractive or nice or value-matched man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:20 PM
31

You're pretending like there aren't tons of women saying that men not being able to get laid is a personality problem and that any man can get laid with the right personality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:41 PM
-1

The women who feel pressured into sex in order to get affection from Chads are female incels. They're so low value, they need to use sex to get attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:38 PM
2

Women don't depend on any single man but they depend on men as a whole for their self esteem. They just get it from dozens of men instead of just the 1 man they're dating from. If men disappeared, women's self esteem would be wrecked and plummet. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ogihhw/women_still_depend_on_men_collectively_but_they/h4j54kx/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:36 PM
7

Not much for women. Women just have to not be fat and put in 5-10 minutes per day on their makeup and hair. Easy mode women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:10 AM
3

Casual sex and dating apps are porn for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:06 AM
4

More female privilege. Women live life on easy mode. If you're progressive, then you would support giving men freebies and making men's lives easier for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:12 PM
5

Female promiscuity is destabilizing society. Before the degeneracy, men were motivated to work hard and become responsible, productive citizens because they were either hitched or promised a happy family and marriage with a dependable low N count woman. The responsibility of being a good family man has been the most important driver for productivity and motivation for men. Now, men don't have the motivation to become productive because the dream is dead. At best, they can get with a used up, rui…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:25 PM
5

Any app tat isn't easy for women to get validation on is doomed to fail. Capitalism has some pitfalls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:21 PM
-1

Any woman can easily get a relationship with her value/percentile match. Any woman who's not fat has dating life on easy mode and can be hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:57 PM
1

Imagine being a woman who fights over the few Chads in the school when dating is so easy for her with female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:52 PM
0

Only low N-count women deserve simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:51 PM
1

How many of those bottom tier guys would suddenly become the scumbag when their value rises? Their value can't rise though. The only exception is a tall guy who's fat or dresses really sloppily. It's basically biological, unless he's willing to spend years learning how to pick up girls but he'll still have to put in a ton of effort even when he has the skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:50 PM
1

It screwed our screwed gender roles even further You mean that the gender roles were normal and equitable compared to the unbalanced baseline in favor of women in most modern societies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:41 PM
1

Hookups and dating are pseudo relationships. Both women and men use it as such. If sex was just pure sex, women who keep claiming sex is boring wouldn't be hooking up so much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:39 PM
2

Yes, toxic masculinity is just women's toxic, judgemental standards for men. There would be no "toxic masculinity" if women didn't judge feminine men harshly. Women's toxic judgementalness is toxic femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:37 PM
2

Men also shouldn't settle for high N-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:35 PM
3

I used to think that they inherently strove for greatness and that was the reason we women got groomed to support them and please them for any little thing. You can't stop doing something you were never doing to begin with Women never "pleased men for any little thing" other than Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:31 PM
1

"nice girls" don't want nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:10 PM
4

Winning the heart of a shy virgin girl by being a nice, romantic simp to her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:49 AM
0

It's mileage like a car. An older woman with high N-count isn't much better than a younger women with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:46 AM
2

He couldn't get commitment from any of them. He was able to have sex with them because they had a fetish for his unique trait, but vaguely, it's implied that he didn't meet their bar for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:22 AM
5

but I'm the one he chose to marry The guy in question was never able to get commitment from Stacies This is why there is a "double standard" on sleeping around. Even women assume that a man who slept with a woman is able to get commitment from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:04 PM
2

He was never able to get any of the Stacies to commit to him. you're the only one committing to him. You don't know if he's choosing you over them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:01 PM
4

He wanted a relationship with Stacies when he was younger but couldn't get a relationship, only hookups and then started to value money and stability more and wanted to settle down as he got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:55 PM
5

Edited to include that Stacy is personality mogging you too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:47 PM
0

High N-count because she's ruined her ability to like and appreciate her matched man compared to the Chads she was banging previously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:11 PM
0

Men who think they're better than you treat you with less respect Fly too close to the sun you get burned
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:42 PM
0

If FDS was protective, they would tell women to stop being hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:36 PM
4

I don't understand how T have so much political power while being such a small minority of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:30 PM
2

better than dorms tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:28 PM
2

The 6'3 guy has a better chance with women under 5'4 than the 5'6 man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:05 PM
3

Very few women want to feel like a child when with their guy. Women fetishize feeling like a child all the time next to a tall guy all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:04 PM
1

The problem is women are only giving a chance to the tall guy, so they can't find that out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:03 PM
1

I'm not religious. Unfortunately the mythical, true egalitarian and agnostic women are unicorns. And how could I forget to mention in my OP post that... Low N count women are also much more likely to have the shared workload mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:59 AM
0

How rude. If you didn't give him sex after he bought you drinks, you don't have manners or a sense of reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:50 AM
7

Women don't depend on any one single man, but they derive their self esteem from men as a whole and from male attention. Women don't need a boyfriend, but they need male presence in their lives. They have depended on men in the past to give them attention when they're needy when they couldn't even get any woman to listen or care about them. They know that at any time, they can get a man to talk to her and give her attention. Women go to a social event, meetup, party, club or bar where they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:25 PM
4

Average height for white people is 5'11 so 6' is only marginally larger. Median 20-39 years old non Hispanic white is 5'10 in USA You can't be cherrypicking the state with the tallest people and say that's average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:38 PM
2

Not telling him your N-count is bad for you. You'll always be wondering if he would think you're a slut or if you're not enough for him or if you'll be "found out". By telling him, you give him the choice to leave you or accept you. If he accepts you, he's accepting your faults and giving you peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:28 PM
0

Men are criticized for having bad emotional intelligence if they can't entertain women or keep women attractive, but that's a sexist criteria because women with bad emotional intelligence can't be criticized for it because they can easily keep a man's attention. Women need a separate criteria to be judged on their emotional intelligence for equality. I'd like to see being tricked into sex, pumped and dumped or treated poorly by men to be included in "emotional intelligence", so that women can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:24 PM
2

Usually in those scenarios I imagine those women fuck those guys because that’s all they want from that guy Not true at all. Look at any dating subreddit or forum where women complain about their dating lives. Half the women complain about men not wanting more after sleeping with them. They are looking for their relationships being met in hook ups. And then they keep damaging their ability to love with every hook up that doesn't end up in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:36 PM
3

This is a good case against AFBB sluts. If a woman sleeps with a man more quickly than you, she is more comfortable with him, so she likes him more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:33 PM
3

I've seen this mindset of shared workload mindset more with trad and religious women than liberal "gender equality" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:31 PM
2

Women are friends with men because it's easy for them and they get easy social validation. There are women who are shunned by other women but have male friends. It's part of the female privilege package.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:13 PM
-1

It's easier for women to get a relationship, so women have it easier becoming happy. Women live privileged and easy lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:09 PM
-1

Lol from the response here, women really pride themselves in being empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:45 AM
2

Only low N-count women deserve men paying for them on dates. If you don't have traditional dating values, you shouldn't expect to benefit from traditional dating values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:58 PM

Only low N-count women deserve men paying for them on dates. If you don't have traditional dating values, you shouldn't expect to benefit from traditional dating values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:39 PM

Stop pretending you want empathy for your dating issues if what you actually want is to superimpose your needs over others freedom. The market is regulated, which "superimposes some needs over others freedom". Why not the dating markets? Stop pretending to want sympathy if what you really want is ppl to date you even if you don’t match up. The complaint is that women won't date or sleep with men who match up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:38 PM

It's your duty as a privileged individual with female privilege. Progressives demands that you have empathy and sympathy for less privileged people even if it's not reciprocated. You're a right wing terrorist if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:26 PM

The "person who invites should pay" argument is obviously sexist because it's always men who ask women out. And it's not because the men want it more, it's because gender roles force men to be the one to ask her out. She equally wants to go on the date and she isn't doing him any favors by going on a date with him. It's also a flawed argument because friends who ask each other to meet up have the implicit agreement that both are paying. Dates aren't different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:21 PM
8

Both my logic and feelings are aligned in thinking that low N-count women are better and more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:23 AM
4

There is inequality comparing men's dating lives to women's. If we live in a progressive society that is against inequality, then men's dating lives should be as easy as women's. It is valid to both complain about the inequality and to call for action that will equalize the two (by making women's dating lives worse, improving men's dating lives, or both). If you're progressive, then you must support that. Otherwise, any progressive values are to be questioned in the same way you question that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:16 AM
3

Virgin women are very attractive and high value 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:44 AM

They need to do enough to differentiate themselves enough for a woman to take interest. That can mean making a lot of money, being funny, being attractive whatever. Every single sexually dimorphic species in the world has this same pattern. If you can't be concrete with the amount of effort, you can't criticize people for complaining about the amount of effort. None of the drivel you listed is the “female imperative”. The “female imperative” is to look pretty enough to have babies with top men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:42 AM
2

You can be more concrete by answering: how much effort do you think the average man has to put into dating? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m5qcgx/how_much_work_does_it_take_for_the_average_man_to/? do any of the acts required of the male of a species to obtain a female Women don't have to put any effort in. Women who literally "refuse to meet the feminine imperative" can date up and have a fulfilling dating life without trying. That is significant inequality that would be rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:00 PM
5

Women want capitalism when it benefits them, socialism when it benefits them Women have no consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:04 PM
2

Dam, I was trying to be dumb all my life. You're tell me that I was wrong and should start trying to be smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:03 PM
5

The men who would actually like her is her league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:54 AM
6

Do you think those men are getting laid? You should only go by the effort that the men getting laid are putting in. Women don't get that many men either can't get laid even with a ton of effort or has to put in too much effort to get laid, so they're not giving their best effort because it's either pointless or makes dating not enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:50 AM
1

Let's say I go to a bar and want to get laid. I'll have a lot of opportunities. Will I find a non drunk one though? My chances are the same as a man for that Not at all. You approach 5 non drunk men and you can easily get all 5 of them to sleep with you if you wanted. A man approaches 5 non drunk women and is lucky to have 1 be willing to sleep with him. Like on dating app, I would have tons of messages After all the filters, you still have like 30 viable guys who would go on an actual date with…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:48 AM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m5qcgx/how_much_work_does_it_take_for_the_average_man_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:45 AM
4

Below average men would happily sleep with below average women if it was possible. That below average men can't get women at their level is a problem, an inefficiency, in the dating markets
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:44 AM
17

You're greatly exaggerating the effort that women put. Women put all that effort in their appearance for other women, not for men. An average woman just has to not be fat, spend 5 minutes on makeup everyday, a few minutes on their hair and be able to have their pick of average men for LTRs or above average men for casual sex. An average man to have 90th percentile social skills and confidence, which takes years to develop, to get the same results as the average woman, and they're only able to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:36 AM
11

yeah, how do women not see how easily fixable that problem is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:29 AM
6

if you put yourself out there, the rewards outweigh the rejection. if you're tall or attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:23 AM
-1

Why are sluts so mainstream? Whenever I hear people discussing their dating experiences in the media or on podcasts, it's usually sluts talking about their hedonistic adventures dating and sleeping with hundreds of Chads. I'm sure there are a lot of sluts, but I don't think it's as popular as the media makes it seem. The media is normalizing slutty behavior by spotlighting it, no bueno. How come low N trad princesses never appear in the media?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:26 AM
6

There is no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:02 AM
8

That's just female cry bullying. They pretend like they being attacked when they're the ones doing the attacking. Almost every man is stronger than almost every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:01 AM
5

I don't want to be the one that teaches them all the basics of how relationships and sex work. I don't want to be the one who has to deal with all the emotions, drama and jealousy that arise when people make their first romantic and sexual experiences. There's no guarantee that someone with more partners are better at these than others. These skills are even likely negatively correlated at the higher N-counts. Being someone's first means that she bonds more with you. As a man, the bottle neck of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:04 PM
2

Men who don't care about your N-count don't care about you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:55 PM
1

virgin is probably not good for casual sex but what if you had wifed her better the woman who is obsessed like that than the slut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:50 PM
13

If men can't attain what they want by pursuing, then OP's post is pointless because men don't get anywhere by pursuing what they want. Men are forced to pursue what they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:49 PM
29

lol this is a woman writing advice for women why she gotta rope us men in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:39 PM
14

The ability to pursue isn't the ability to attain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:38 PM
2

Lying about N-count hurts the woman. She'll always feel inadequate because she had to lie about what she thinks is a dealbreaker for the man, and she'll always be lowkey scared of getting found out. Lying is bad for the self esteem of the liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:36 PM
5

Men have to be celibate in order to avoid having an unwanted pregnancy. Women can't have unwanted pregnancies because they can always choose to get an abortion. Women have control, so they should take responsibility. Men don't, so they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:30 PM

In a society that doesn't care about male problems, it's only fair that female problems aren't cared about either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:28 PM

Experience makes men better partners. Experience makes women worse partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:41 PM

No, I can detach and enjoy porn but it would just feel weird and it would smell watching a couple have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:36 PM
-1

Women derive their self esteem from male attention and relations with men. They have depended on men in the past to give them attention when they're needy when they couldn't even get any woman to listen or care about them. They know that at any time, they can get a man to talk to her and give her attention. Women go to a social event, meetup, party, club or bar where they don't many people and depend on men being friendly with them to feel secure and socially validated/desired. On lonely nights,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:13 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:27 PM

If attractive men are taken, they're presumably taken by attractive women, so what you have left is unattractive people of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:21 PM
2

Women's behavior changes based on cultural norms and politics. If women are slut shamed, they will sleep around less. If they are focused on relationships for their entire life, they will be more willing and happy to date men at their level. If women are deprived of attention or are shamed for hypergamy, their standards will change and their attraction to men on their level will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:00 PM
1

If hypergamy wasn't real, men would have no problem getting sex and relationships from women on their level. There is no way a man can have "lack of success" without hypergamy because there would always be a matching woman at his level that would sleep with him or have a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:56 PM

Where are all the attractive men then? Unless women aren't rating men on a normal distribution, in which case the problem is with how women rate men, the attractive men have to be somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:48 PM

Lol the left eating the left in the LA salon trans protest TERF vs Antifa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:45 PM
0

Women derive their self esteem from male attention. They have depended on men in the past to give them attention when they're needy when they couldn't even get any woman to listen or care about them. They know that at any time, they can get a man to talk to her and give her attention. Male attention is the core of women's sense of social and emotional security.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:31 PM
1

The problem is that the female dating market value that they are born with is > what most men can achieve even putting in effort. Having control of the value doesn't matter if the value is low and stays low even with effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:13 PM
1

Men don't have a lot of motivation to not be fat. Unless he's 7.5+/10 when he's not fat, his dating life won't change. If men could easily get laid or get the female dating experience from not being fat, they would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:11 PM
1

Mostly agree. I'd say face is partially mutable for women because of makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:08 PM
9

Women have dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:21 PM
3

You could have just @ me bc I made that comment The OP wasn't you lol Find me when men so concerned with chastity are offering their souls to femcel virgins the way they do to hot girls on Only Fans Virgin women can easily find men who will simp for them like hot girls on Only Fans Another thing, Chad has parity with beautiful women. Meaning getting sex is easy for Chad just like it is for attractive women. By your logic, you should not respect Chad bc sex is easy for him but guess who blows Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:46 PM
1

Men who want a virgin don't expect her to be a 10/10 girl. They usually have realistic standards. Virginity isn't very correlated with looks for women anyway because ugly women can get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:42 PM
4

I don’t want a man with a high n-count. I want a man who has the choice to have a high n-count but refrains from doing so. EYEROLL What women don't get is that the only way a man can have the ability to get laid easily without being a 90th+ percentile looks Chad is if he had spent thousands of hours being a sleazebag, hitting on women for the sole purpose of getting laid. There is no mythical, non-Chad man who can easily get a high N-count. Men can't have the ability to have a high N-count witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:08 PM
2

Is she easy, automatically turned on by you without you having to do anything and can be ordered like takeout or do you have to still put in work to romance her? Does she smell? How fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:50 PM
9

There is no easy mode for average men. Dating down means put in the same high amount of effort for a much worse prize with a higher success rate but a success rate that is nowhere close to a sure thing. Even if you date down, your success rate of getting sex is still on the lower end. It just goes from very low to low. The low success rate destroys the fun of dating for men. Dating down only works for 7.5+/10 men where they can get sex at a decent success rate to make the process enjoyable for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:46 AM
21

normalize sex work for women not men They want to shame men and call men creepy for visiting prostitutes But they want prostitutes to be respected in society It's a blatant double standard that you won't hear feminists complain about when they're complaining about double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:27 PM
-1

But she will have to settle if she wants a serious long term relationship. She trades a few years of hypergamous dating for a lifetime of feeling like she settled. Women are making the wrong life choice. If people cared about women, they would shame women for hypergamously dating, so that women don't ruin their ability to pair bond and don't have to spend a lifetime feeling like they're settling. Shaming women helps women attain long term happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:15 PM

FDS are liberal women who have been ruined by casual sex and hypergamy and are going full circle back to traditional values but with a hateful spin to it. They are drawn to the ideology from being hurt by their liberal sexual values. RPW are women that usually have always been centrist/utilitarian/conservative and are naturally drawn to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:10 PM
0

It's only settling if women ruin themselves by casual sex and hypergamy. She can't be settling if the better option was and is never an actual option to her. However, if she felt like hypergamy was an actual option for her, she's ruined because she thinks she is settling with any man at her level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:04 PM
1

Follow the core tenets Don't be fat Know your place and who you match up with. Don't date men who are better than you percentile wise (hypergamy) because they don't take you seriously. You want to be a good percentile match with your partner. Don't ruin your pair bonding ability with casual sex or hypergamy. Follow the above 3 don'ts and then collect your easy, free relationship from female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:28 PM
-1

N-count is most important factor for a woman's value. Age correlates with N-count. So a lower age means a lower N-count. So a lower age is better (>= 18 years old ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:51 PM
1

I mean it's not socially acceptable to just tell people your income and even if you could, women wouldn't care Women can date men who make $500k- multiple millions easily. $200k doesn't actually buy much. Women can go on app dating and get luxury experiences from actual wealthy men. Dating is so unbalanced and women have so much privilege, women can date the top 1-10% of any category
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:31 PM
2

Diversity recruiting for Reddit users
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:29 PM
3

FWB can never be real friends. If you were really friends, you wouldn't sleep with each other, ruin the friendship dynamic and put the friendship on borrowed time (i.e. once one of you gets into a relationship, you can't be friends anymore)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:00 PM
4

On the other hand while it used to be annoying in my 20s, now it’s a little flattering even though I’m not interested Yes, women's interest depends on her options, so when a woman has less options and gets less attention she will become more attracted to average men. Women should be forced to have less options so that they can make more equitable and better dating choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:20 PM
2

Only Chad approaches count when women count the number of times they're approached
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:12 PM
7

It's not about your intentions though. It's about the probability that the combination of you two would have a relationship at the time of having sex. You're still having casual sex if you want a relationship with the person but the person doesn't want a relationship with you. You both need to view each other as very serious relationship prospects for it to not be casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:03 PM
1

Sex with someone who you never get into an official relationship with, so it includes FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:02 PM
3

women would be into the poor sexless men if they were shamed for hypergamy and couldn't get attention from Chads without being shamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:22 PM
1

We are making the world a better place by making fat people healthier and motivating them by shaming them for being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:19 PM
1

She says she has no doubt that she will have an affair, but she loves her fiancée so she wants to marry him those two are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:17 PM
1

that study is from 2006 before OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:06 PM
2

that's why I'm purple, because I have hope that there are wholesome low N-count princesses out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:59 PM
0

I think the ads are text only. Looks matter much more than money and money barely helps when dating. The 6'2 man with $1000 net worth has a much easier time dating than the 5'7 man with $3 million net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:08 AM
0

yeah, as long as you keep a low N-count and don't ruin your pair bonding ability with hypergamy and casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:03 AM
1

but you're inefficiently increasing your N-count by 2-5 for only one sexual experience 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:47 PM

Flirting isn't fun for average men because they get rejected from even flirting I don't flirt with men I don't find attractive Why would we cruelly get your hopes up? That’s not very moral, truthful or responsible of us No, I don't give fake compliments. I can't even remember a time I was being flirted with and wasn't also romantically interested. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/nnpxyo/qfw_do_you_flirtflirt_back_with_guys_you_dont/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:40 PM

nope, N-count pass denied
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:09 PM
-2

Any woman having casual sex is ruining her pair bonding ability. For the purposes of the rational man, it doesn't matter whether the casual sex was pump and dump or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:00 PM

That's bad. If she can't tell real from fake, she's going to be comparing the real guy who wants to commit with all the Chads faking it who are better than the real guy. Then she can't pair bond with or be satisfied by the real guy because she thinks she can upgrade with the faking Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:54 PM

You get an N-count pass if they become a legitimate boyfriend (not one who pretends to be a bf to keep getting sex) or if it was a one-time event that you regret and you never have casual sex again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:21 PM

All those high N-count women who pretend to "not do hookups" ruin it for the low N-count princesses who actually don't do hookups. "I don't do hookups" is synonymous with "I've hooked up with a ton of people in the past and I'll hook up with you if you play your cards right". If you're a woman who has hooked up or had casual sex in the past, you're not a woman who "doesn't do hookups". You should just accept that you'll be treated like you're a high N-count woman, because that's who you are. Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:51 PM
7

In the same way that it doesn't feel right for many women to be romantic with a close friend, mentor or teacher, it just doesn't feel right for many men to be romantic with a woman with high N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:58 AM
6

massive red flag/dealbreaker vs massive red flag/dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:28 AM
5

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1GyF14WKjQ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:08 PM
5

It's easy to do the no makeup look for women. They're complaining about nothing It's also interesting how stark the difference is in the response that women give to women and women give to men. If men are asking if it's fine if they're shy, skinny, etc., women tell them "you must conform to women's standards or you're is a loser who will die alone". If it's a woman, the women are like "just do whatever you like, who cares about men's standards"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:21 PM
5

Women don't like actual sad boys e.g. they're not going for incels, socially awkward or shy men, men who are bullied. They like seeing some weakness in Chads and Chad-lites because it makes the Chads seem more attainable and human. But if you're a non-Chad, weakness is just a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:43 PM
4

Why do you think female vagina size can't be different for different women? It's logical that smaller women have less space for a vagina because the vagina is inside of their body and a smaller body has less space for the vagina, so bigger women are more loose. Some women have naturally loose vaginas just like some men have small penises. Women can also become physically loose from taking big Chad penis all the time. Women can (consciously and unconsciously) change their vagina size. A woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:52 PM
6

Women can have hundreds of flaws and still have no problem dating because of female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:46 PM
2

There's a fine line to walk here. There should be a category for femcels that allows women to be incels even if they can get sex, so that we can insult bottom tier women as losers in the same way incels are insulted. At the same time, they still have female privilege and that should be noticed so that we divert our sympathy away from femcels because they don't have real problems unlike incels. Femcels are as pathetic and aspie as incels in their social IQ, social skills and efficacy and should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:56 PM
0

Men's needs are single minded: have sex LTRs can provide sex more consistently and better than casual partners Woman look for resources, validation, entertainment, leadership, popularity, etc, an unending list of demands from men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:32 PM
1

Deja vu https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iuvbak/casual_sex_for_women_is_like_prostitution_for_men/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:25 PM

FDS is the female version of incels Because every woman can get dates and get laid, woman need a different standard for being an incel. Female incel = woman who can't get a relationship and/or get treated poorly by men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:24 PM

The root of "toxic masculinity" is women not dating/fucking feminine men. If you are a woman who doesn't sleep with feminine men, you are the cause of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:11 AM
1

What you’re describing is not hypergamy. That's what's being debated. I disagree with that definition and gave my definition in my OP post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:20 AM
1

Again, they don't matter because any trait you define would likely show the same hypergamy of women sleeping with men above them percentile wise. In your own definition, many women are sleeping with the top 20% of men by looks and masculinity but most of those women aren't in the top 20% of women by looks and femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:07 AM
1

The specifics don't matter. Substitute any variables to rank men and women and you'll find that women are having sex with men above their percentile rank much more than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:00 AM
-1

The traits are debatable but most traits yield similar results. For women, it's looks. For men, it's a combination of looks and confidence/charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:47 PM
0

It's: calculate a value for every women and men. Then stack rank/calculate a percentile within their gender. Hypergamy is being a Nth percentile woman and sleeping with (N + 20)th men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:57 PM

Is this a weekly thread now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:39 PM

Hypergamy is the dissatisfaction with value/percentile-matched people. Hypergamy is also the negative effects of being able to date up. It's natural for people to want the best, but the act of actually getting better men for short term relationships compared to LTR ruins women. Men can't be ruined because they can't easily date women better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:36 PM
3

Not always. Height hypergamy lowers human life span and increases energy consumption https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/o94f9e/daily_community_chat_megathread/h3a10kt/ Men with higher education, diligent, beta knowledge workers and nerds also get shafted. The world needs more intellectual beta, worker bees. Women don't like nerds and choose unproductive Chads who waste their time partying and men with criminal histories. Women choose the wrong men. Society gets worse under women'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:01 PM
1

Even if they only short term date, they're still hypergamous because they can't be satisfied by value-matched men for short term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:49 PM
6

Hypergamy is the toxic dissatisfaction with value/percentile-matched men for a long term relationship. It's also the concept of dating up ruining women. It's natural for people to want the best, but the act of actually getting better men for short term relationship compared to long term relationships ruins women. Men can't be ruined because they can't easily date women better than their LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:39 PM

I'm a nice guy but only to low N-count women 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:45 PM

They knowingly delude themselves into thinking the guy cares about them or even likes talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:27 PM

By the suicide definition, yes. But that's a subset of actual "coerced sex" that women complain about. Most complain about not wanting it and then gave in when the guy kept on being pushy, she basically traded sex for Chad's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:59 PM
1

Q4W who put "no hookups" in your profile: Have you ever had sex with someone who didn't become you boyfriend? If so, you're not really a "no hookup" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:34 PM
1

Women and feminists think that wanting someone who is not fat is an unrealistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:01 PM
1

Women are defiled by casual sex but not men. It's the women's responsibility to not be defiled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:15 AM
12

Women, a man who doesn't care about your N-count is a man who doesn't care about you and who doesn't see a future with you. If he's looking for a relationship and seriously considering you, he would care about your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:11 AM
2

Doesn't being around a taller man make you feel shorter than being around an average height man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:03 AM
3

It's completely different because a lot of men don't like big asses. Men's preferences are a lot more diverse, and many men don't merely tolerate smaller asses but actually prefer smaller asses to bigger ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:02 AM
1

I think black men also prefer curvier women, so although there are less healthy weight black women, there is also less demand/competition for them? It's interesting that there's a significant gender gap in obesity only for black Americans: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EXydeHdVcAAeChY?format=png&name=small
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:27 AM
1

Because black women prefer black men more than they care about education or income of the men and usually don't date out, educated black men have the pick of the (black) litter because of scarcity of the educated black demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:12 AM
3

women just have to not be fat which is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:36 PM
1

Facial attractiveness is king though. Facial attractiveness only comes into play when you have >= 8/10 face Height is a larger differentiator for men with < 8/10 facial attractiveness, so for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:14 PM

does it really make much of a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:58 PM
-4

Men always have a demographic they are deserving of, that they are entitled to. No man is too ugly, socially awkward or shy to be dating. Men in the Nth percentile, even if N is very low, are entitled to women in the Nth percentile. If men struggle with getting dates with percentile-matched women, there is something wrong with those women and there are cultural issues that need to be resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:56 PM
2

Dating for men is like being a telemarketer or door to door salesman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:49 PM
1

For instance, nobody really likes the idea of the people they are interested in dating other people. Women can surprise you with their illogic of thinking that a man dating other women = more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:48 PM
2

UMC women obsess over height over everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:45 PM

Being short is relative. Short men can't be bred out because if the average height increases, then all of a sudden 6'0 men will start developing napoleon complex. The negative health effects of being tall can be bred out. If the average height decreases, the average human will suffer less from the negative health consequences of being too tall. As my catch phrase goes, women are choosing the wrong men and the side effect is lowering human life expectancy and harming the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:48 AM

Women are selecting against the welfare of humankind and are devolving humans with their height fetish. Tall men consume more energy for the same amount of intellectual output, live shorter lives and have more health issues. Women are selecting for these negative traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:24 AM
1

Yeah, I would simp the shit out of her if she has a low N-count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:14 AM
11

He got spooked because he was getting cancelled and rebranded like RSD. I don't think he's actually taken the god pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:12 AM
4

It can't be both ways. Either women have the choice of abortion, so they should be judged based on their choice, or women don't have the choice of abortion, so they can't be judged for not getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:46 AM
4

Merely having friends doesn't make someone outgoing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:35 AM
1

Where are you reading no friends from? Not having "lots of friends" doesn't mean having no friends. The girl next door is the type of unexceptional girl who has friends but isn't "outgoing" and doesn't "have lots of friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:33 AM
5

Single fathers take responsibility for something they didn't choose. Single mothers choose to be single mothers by not getting an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:39 AM
-1

Women have dating and life on easy mode so they don't have to do anything. The most important for success is actually probably dating within your league, i.e. not being hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:31 AM
4

I long for the day when women can be called out publicly for having female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:30 AM
10

No she doesn't. It's just an average girl who is nice and not exceptional in anyway, which means she is not outgoing. No one thinks of the girl next door as outgoing or a socialite
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:12 AM
1

Women are bad at choosing men. Women choose the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:11 AM
4

Yeah at least unattractive guys can enjoy having sex with unattractive girls No, women like OP can at least have slightly enjoyable sex. Unattractive guys have no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:28 PM
3

Don't forget to tell him to avoid the high N-count women!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:25 PM
5

don't leave the single mothers out of this too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:23 PM
-2

Yes. Low N-count is high status. High N-count is low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:55 PM
5

Nice clothes and style only work on men who are already attractive. Men get no mileage out of looksmaxxing unless it can push them past the 7.5/10 threshold. It's binary. Either your efforts push you past the threshold or it's a waste of time and you get no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:36 PM
11

Trying doesn't matter much for men. Most men can't meet the 7.5/10 threshold where dating becomes a possibility and not an annoying slog. You can't extrapolate your female privilege experience to men. Ugly men won't do much better even if they become an average 6/10 man, unlike women with female privilege like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:34 PM
5

Some of those men but not all of those men. An ugly woman can easily get a relationship with an ugly man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:29 PM
11

it is obvious to all humans that one man's unavailability is not a reflection on a woman's looks or even her "sexual skills." That's not true. If she was hot, had good sexual skills or had a good personality, the man would be much more likely to commit. Women who get pumped and dumped or can't get men to commit are low value and doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:12 PM
2

When I say fuckboys are disrespectful, I'm talking about the ones who say "woah this woman is depserate" or "she's so crazy" and then they turn around to have sex with her, never saying that to her face. Those mindsets show up in the behavior of fuckboys. Women who still sleep with these men have low social IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:10 PM
1

Clearly, my post is a response to that. If a woman is saying the man was only looking for sex in general, she's probably telling the truth. If she's saying she was led on, it's the truth. Women who get "led on" at best, have low social IQs and are the female version of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:08 PM
0

Women are so privileged, treating them poorly is moving the needle towards equality and shouldn't be given a second thought. Of course you shouldn't go around purposely treating women poorly, but if it happens there's no shame or moral rule breaking in it. In the same way no one cares if rich people get treated poorly, no one should care if women get treated poorly. Even fatties and bottom tier women have female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:08 PM
13

While on tinder I was super fat, got a lot of likes & dates. I think 500 over the course of 3 months, of which I dated maybe 15. But never more than 1-3 dates as they were just not my type, until I met my ex. easy mode for women confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:04 PM
1

Subscribing on the question of, how sluttily dressed are the women at pride parades?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:00 PM
10

I went through an intensive period of online dating about three years ago. And I did do fairly well there. I went on a lot of dates. So your answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:45 PM
2

How do women develop insecurity when they have female privilege and are already living life on easy mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:41 PM

Low N-count women (especially virgins!) are goddesses who deserve better treatment. If you're a low N-count women on here, let me know and I'll treat you well!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:04 AM
5

Women who get validated by Chad attention are deluding themselves They think they mean something to the Chads. If sex wasn't on the table, the Chads wouldn't even entertain small talk with them. Women get more deeply validated if the man actually likes them, which Chads are incapable of. They can't get that validation of having a man actually like them unless they lie to themselves about Chad actually liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:58 AM
0

A relationship would add more to less attractive guys than hot guys Women do the dumbo and chase after men who don't want/care about a relationship and ignore the men who do want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:56 AM
3

sorry to say no dude who sleeps with you considers you an actual friend. He only keeps the facades to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:53 AM
0

Most of the average to unattractive guys seemed to use the ‘hi/hey’ inbox or a ‘hey beautiful’ or really gross sexual come-on as a lazy, scattergun approach to probably every woman in the hope one might take the bait. the shorter men probably thought you were low value because you are too tall for them while the tall men took you seriously because they're ok with tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:52 AM
6

You do have to. The men who are out of your league won't commit to you Women are only deluding themselves to satisfy their ego on "getting" a hot guy, when he's actually just using them and doesn't like them The women are so low value, the men wouldn't even entertain small talk with them if they didn't have vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:50 AM
11

Not true. Millions of lonely men cry about not being able to get relationships. They're a strong contingent of lonely men e.g. the teen love meme
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:49 AM

I found an amazing quote about high N-count women: We don't like slutty women. It's like buying a house that someone was murdered in. PUUURFECT ANALOGY The house is forever tainted by its past just like high N women are forever tainted by their past
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:35 AM
1

That doesn't matter though and doesn't contradict the OP. There is a higher rate of people who would take her seriously and that's the part that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:29 AM
30

women would take any sex available if they couldn't normally get sex Deprive women of attention and of their privilege and they will shape to your desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:28 AM

You were ruined by your past hookups and situationships. This is why N-count matters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:44 PM
-1

N-count is status for women. But women are appalled by this and control the conversation to exclude N-count as status because making N-count part of the status category either means women need to accept that N-count is a reasonable preference or that women's status preference is unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:43 PM

You only have that mindset because you have options currently. Women should be forced to go through a period of dating scarcity to expand their perspective from their silly narrow-mindedness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:39 PM

Most women aren't and if they aren't, they should know their place and date sub 90th percentile men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:36 PM

It's easy to meet the threshold for being an "attractive woman", so it's about competing as an already attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:35 PM

They're only staying single because they think they have many options If she didn't think so, she would work with and attach herself to the few men giving her attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:29 PM

This is untrue. Women, if starved of attention and thinking they can't date a better man, will become attracted to low value, low status men who give them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:26 PM

Women have dating on easy mode. Not only is it easy for women to meet most men's looks threshold, it is exceedingly easy for women to attract men for long term relationships by having a good personality because the competition is terrible. Almost all women have bad personalities. If a woman puts in a tiny amount of effort in her personality, she would easily become 90th percentile and attract high quality men. A woman who does this will have men fall in love with them: The best I can describe to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:48 PM
11

Men who don't do any work to get women are told that don't deserve any attention or dates at all from women. Why do women think they are deserving of relationships when they don't do any work in vetting, attracting or talking to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:11 PM
1

all women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:22 PM
9

Very few women in porn are actually stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:47 PM

pick me women are relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:15 PM
1

It's all relative too. Any guy who is over a 5 can probably slum it and get treated like a chad by a woman a couple points lower in smv. The threshold is at least 7, likely 7.5+ No women is easy for a 5/10 man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:22 AM
9

Why is it that women talk about how casual sex is exciting, fun, validating and an important learning experience for them, especially feminists, and then when a man complains about female privilege, all of a sudden they say they only want and care about relationships? Bitch, you were cheering on female sexual liberation, the ability to have casual sex without consequences a second ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:21 AM
7

The study is more interesting than the article. The study suggests other stuff such as women significantly prefer to be single than men do, and choosiness alone does not predict length of single hood "single" for women means having half their relationship needs met by orbiters, dates with Chad and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:05 AM
-1

I also think that people usually date partners similar to them You're at crossroads here. Either no man ever needs to "work on themselves" to be able to date because introverted, non-charming, non-confident men don't have trouble dating introverted, non-charming, non-confident women and all men are worthy of and should expect dates, relationships and sex from women without having to change themselves. Or women are all flocking to the good looking or charming/confident men, so the OP post contain…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:40 AM
-1

Yes, but it's difficult to impossible for many men (what man isn't trying to be confident and charming?). The difficulty is on the order of years of tweaking your personality, like becoming an expert salesman, and the payoff isn't worth it for many men. If it was possible and not too difficult for average men, then it not be attractive to women and would not work any longer. If a significant number of men are confident and charming, being confident and charming ceases to be something women value…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:01 AM
1

I'd happily take that trade off if women are criticized for all the standards they are hypocritical about (basically almost all of their standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:57 AM
2

Women who try to date confident and charming men for LTRs are dumb and delusional. Almost all of the confident and charming men who are still single and dating are the ones who don't want a LTR. And even if he is one of the few unicorns looking for a LTR, the chance that he would want a LTR with you instead of just use you for sex is tiny, unless you are a 80th+ percentile Stacy. Any woman who wants a confident and charming man for a LTR is going to have to settle or lie to herself about settlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:44 AM
3

Women here delude themselves and say that only loser men care about N-count, but it's obvious that high N-count is attractive to a large percentage of men, Chads and normies, care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:32 AM
2

If a shy woman can think shy men are unattractive or short woman can think short men are unattractive, then all men regardless of their own N-count can think women with high N are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:30 AM
0

It's not you, it's them A large penis is too big for the median woman to enjoy, so women who do are loose
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:15 AM
4

what kind of trashy woman asks for a man's dick size Imagine if a man is asked women how tight their vagina is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:05 AM
4

Because it's easier to date and achieve happiness that way. If you're a woman, you can be both be approached and approach men. If you're a man, you can only approach. Women live life on easy mode. Women not being able to vote and not getting equal pay is also just "how it'll always work".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:01 AM
1

If porn can be a problem for men, then sleeping around and high N-count can be a problem for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:27 PM
5

Jokes on the phishers, if the company is a decent size, emails from the CEO are usually already spam and don't have content worth more than a quick skim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:25 PM
1

Porn invokes the same feelings in women that men have about women sleeping around. Isn't it nice to finally have empathy, women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:45 PM
1

Women need to have their privilege checked. Progressives popularized the idea of complaining about privilege. If someone is a progressive and supports complaining about other privileges, they need to also support complaining about female dating privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:38 PM
0

A virgin bride was possible before society degenerated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:32 PM
1

Whenever I see a tall or good looking gay man, I can't help but think the height and good looks are wasted on him because he didn't need it because gay men already have a female-esque easy dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:54 AM
3

sorry i’m always writing novels don't worry, as long as your N-count is low and the list of men you've been with is short, you're good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:33 PM
-1

Agreed. Only low N-count women are deserving of being simped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:54 PM
3

A relationship is about molding to support each other. People who are more pliable are better for a relationship than others who are rigid and less willing to make the relationship work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:20 PM

The #banbossy movement should be reinvigorated, except instead of #banbossy, it should be #banbossywomen because bossy women make bad relationship partners. Being bossy for a woman is like being shy for a man. If there's nothing wrong with disliking shy men, there's nothing wrong with disliking bossy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:08 PM
1

Low N-count is the ultimate feminine trait for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:06 PM
9

A high N-count person knows way more about dating than a lower N-count person and can use this knowledge to manipulate and control the lower N-count person. This is why high N-count women shouldn't be taken seriously because they are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:01 PM
5

dudes who are immature what's wrong with an immature guy getting with an equally immature women (who happens to be younger)?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:33 PM

When online dating kind of worked for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:27 PM
5

Why do people not consider that women can develop worse personalities as they age? Women get bossier and more demanding and have a worse pair bonding ability the older they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:24 PM
8

If you’ve ever dated someone significantly younger you would know the maturity levels/personal interests are not compatible, so it makes it very difficult to have a meaningful relationship If there is nothing wrong with young women seeking fun experiences and not taking dating seriously to look for a "meaningful relationship", then there is nothing wrong with older men having fun experiences and non-serious relationships with those younger women. Women be like "I'm young, just want to have fun, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:17 PM
6

A 18 year old wants to go to college parties, experiment etc. A 23 year old should be past that No, 23 year olds are just doing it at bars instead of college parties. This is backward rationalizing If the girl is just experimenting as you said, what's wrong with a 23 year old and 18 year old having a casual fun hookup/fwb situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:12 PM

I 100% know my husband cares that a dirty house upsets me Another case of women having draconian (cleaning) standards and being angry that men won't conform to her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:05 PM
3

I pretty much only care that the clothing is well fitted and clean (as long as the guy is tall or Chad-good looking)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:57 PM
0

it's cringe, one of those feminist "taking control of my sexuality by being attention seeking, raunchy, overly sexual and slutty" things like a teen boy acting up and being loud and annoying to pretend like he has confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:28 AM
3

That sounds like what being confident and charming is for men. Men have to faking confidence and putting in tons of effort to be entertaining and charming to get some high strung woman with unrealistic standards who are unable to actually love in a relationship, but most men's real steady state is chill and lower effort. And in a real relationship, a man can't be confident or charming all the time because men have to be vulnerable and open with who they are by the nature of a relationship. The d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:25 AM
-4

That's a bad experience for the woman. Being honest is good for her self esteem. She wouldn't want to be lying about something that's potentially a deal breaker and then worrying her past is going to be exposed or that her boyfriend doesn't really like her because of the deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:20 AM
1

You should be grateful for the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:51 AM
-2

Looks aren't everything for women. Just like men can boost their attractiveness through personality or status, women can boost their attractiveness by having a low N-count. A below average looking woman can have average attractiveness if she has a low N-count. An average looking woman can become above average or even become a Stacy if she's a virgin, depending on the man's preference. And similarly, having a high N-count can make women unattractive. A good looking woman can become unattractive f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:46 AM

I started cutting off any men I felt were too strongly sexually attracted to me Female first world problems, having so many people strongly sexually attracted to you that you have to cut some of them off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:12 PM

Women who get treated poorly are the female version of incels. The women who get treated poorly have those experiences because they are low value and have low social and emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:05 PM

you see this is why hoes get paid well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:27 PM

Hola, soy blanco pero soy latino porque hablo un poco espanol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:21 PM
2

I didn't know women only had sex with established boyfriends It's not like the vast majority of women have had casual sex outside of a relationship of course If she's the type to be going on a ton of dates, she's the type to be having sex on dates with randoms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:16 PM
1

show me where she said she was a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:03 PM
1

how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:58 PM

RPW choose the red pill MRP are forced to cope and take the red pill because it's the best path in the clown world RP doesn't mean that you like or want the RP world or beliefs. It's just being aware of the way the world works and acting based on the RP assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:20 AM
0

even though she's skinny, she has a lot of weird lumps jutting out of her face (facial fat?) and her bone structure and jaw line is weirdly lumpy. Her forehead is big, circular and egg-like She could become more attractive if she is low N-count though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:58 AM
3

She actually never says she is low N-count, I was paying attention and sizing her up when reading her post, otherwise I would've been nicer lol If she's the type that goes on a ton of dates, she's probably the type to be sleeping with a ton of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:25 AM
2

what, she has a really ugly face to me for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:41 AM
0

Looking at the pic she just posted, she has a hot body but an ugly face imo, and her face is ugly even when only comparing within her race, like 15th percentile ugly. Her post makes a little more sense now, the guys are going on a date with her because of her body and then realize they can't stand looking at her face for too long lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:37 AM
5

She complains about not matching with anyone or getting any responses but then talks about effortlessly getting and going on dates. Women's definition of struggling and "not matching/getting responses" is warped Even if she has it worse compared to other women, she still has it easy. If you're an upper middle class person living in an almost exclusively upper class neighborhood, you have it easy compared to lower class people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:42 AM
4

The double standard is that women get away with it. Either women should be shamed for all their picky preferences, or men should be free to have and talk about their N-count preference without being shamed Women are so freaked out about men having preferences that they've shamed men for even talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:24 AM
1

I'm proud enough of my post in the old daily chat thread which ended abruptly to repost and continue the discussion about the double standard How did men and society get bamboozled into shaming N-count preferences? Shy women can go around saying shy men are unattractive. Short women can go around saying short men are unattractive. Poor women can go around saying poor men are unattractive. It blows my mind that saying that women with high N-count are unattractive can get a man shamed, called a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:10 AM
3

It's so easy, even if it's slightly harder for women than men, it's still easy. If being short, unconfident or shy can make a man unattractive, then being fat makes a woman unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:58 AM
-1

for men, yes for women, no women just have to not be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:24 PM

I listed examples of preferences where women aren't shamed for their hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:49 PM
1

Slim, young, pickme virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:37 PM

men should have the ability to talk about and be open about their n-count preference without being shamed like other preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:34 PM

being shamed is an external force applied to a person The person being shamed doesn't have control over being shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:32 PM

It's not sympathy people want. People just don't want to be shamed for their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:30 PM

This doesn't explain virgins who are creeped out by men who obsess over virginity. Some low N-count women react this way because shaming men's n-count preference is socially acceptable. Before the sexual revolution, low N-count women would be honored to be preferred by men in the same way a smart person is honored to be preferred for being smart. Your disgust is culturally manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:24 PM
4

71 percent of husbands make more than their wives at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:50 PM
8

Why can't women just not be fat? Why are there women who spend hours on their make up and hair but are still fat? If they spent a fraction of their effort not being fat, they would accomplish so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:41 PM
1

That's what incels say about themselves also
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:22 PM

it is hypergamy if she's seeking a Nth percentile height and she is a <Nth percentile woman, which in most cases is the case for women chasing tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:08 PM
12

also, around 40% of wives make more money now The ratio is 71:29 in men's favor and this excludes households with a stay at home parent. So the real ratio is likely even higher. https://www2.census.gov/programs-surveys/cps/tables/time-series/historical-income-families/f22.xlsx
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:02 PM

irl and with rl profiles, people would lose friends, get socially shamed and get rejected for jobs for saying irl or tweeting something innocuous like "I don't want a woman whose slept around"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:28 PM

How did men and society get bamboozled into shaming N-count preferences? Shy women can go around saying shy men are unattractive. Short women can go around saying short men are unattractive. Poor women can go around saying poor men are unattractive. It blows my mind that saying that women with high N-count are unattractive can get a man shamed, called a misogynist and socially ostracized nowadays. It's just a preference like everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:16 PM

Most of us seem to agree a woman going from a tall, broke man to an average, rich man is hypergamous. No, rich women will choose a lower class tall men over rich shorter men. The few men with stories about dating up in class almost 100% of the time are tall. Once you see the height thing, you can't go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:13 PM
4

note that casual sex includes FWB also casual sex = sex with anyone who isn't doing romantic stuff with you and seriously considering you for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:08 PM
3

My n count is 23, most of those men pretended they wanted a relationship with me. Women who are treated this way by men have bad social skills, equivalent to the social skills of a male incel, and women who can't tell that the men are pretending before anything happened have bad social intelligence, equivalent to the social intelligence of a male incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:07 PM
0

They cherrypicked the education graph. They used the top 1%, not the top 5%, 10% or 20%. There is no generalization from top 1% to general promiscuity of women because the top 15-20% of women are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:03 PM
3

Male simps would simp a female doormat but female doormats won't doormat for a male simp the bottleneck is women making bad decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:22 AM
1

If women were rational and chose the right men, they would doormat to a simp, so it would be mutual doormat love But women aren't the best at being rational
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:24 PM
2

Only the church can save us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:23 PM
6

More educated men are more sexless than less educated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:23 PM
3

Her N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:25 PM
0

What is a person? In some mental models, "you" are your genes and your genes die without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:58 PM
0

Zendaya is the hottest, youngest and most fertile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:13 PM
-1

Men are less entitled than women but men should be more entitled. Men are entitled to dates and sex to women at their percentile level, but they still struggle to get it. Men don't make a big raucous about it but they should. Society should change so that Nth percentile men don't struggle to get sex or even dates with Nth percentile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:49 PM
0

Most women don't voluntarily like a person. Women are easily manipulated into liking people based on the cultural programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:50 PM
9

Women have their pair bonding ruined because they can only rent in the short term but not buy/own the best partners they can get and they will perpetually compare what they can actually own to the short term rentals they got For women, the men they hypergamously get with for short term relationships and casual sex increases their yearning for hypergamy and ruins their ability to pair bond and appreciate the men they get with long term
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:16 PM
6

Being a career woman makes her worse because she becomes bossy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:47 PM

All men are worthy of some women. Men who are Nth percentile are worthy and deserving of Nth percentile women. If he struggles to get dates or sex with women in his percentile or below, something is wrong with society that needs fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:26 PM

People know that the hygiene isn't the real problem but they want to blame the person. Unhygienic people don't bother because they would get the same results no matter their hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:17 PM

There are no unworthy men. A Nth percentile man is worthy of, is entitled to a Nth percentile woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:13 PM
1

Some tall men prefer short women, some tall men prefer tall women. It's unlike women who all prefer tall men even if they are short themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:28 AM
12

Poppy lol is this sarcastic That's like hiring a thief for a security guard job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:23 AM
2

the women would say that he is equal to chad because of his 90th percentile social skills, therefore he is chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:18 AM
6

Also, in dating, outside of sex, all women do is take take take. The men are providing much more non-sexual value to the women than the other way around, so the women is indebted and has to make up for the difference by providing sexually for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:12 AM
2

Yes, the women here would say that the man made up for it with 90th percentile social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:10 AM

Going by progressive thinking, if men have less self esteem, then men are entitled to better treatment and affirmative action to offset their disadvantages. Give men free money or preference in programs/jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:04 AM
1

Short women prefer tall men over short men while tall men are at worst neutral to tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:01 AM

Women need the advice because they can't even not be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:16 PM
3

PPD does not have inclusive or diverse leadership 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:55 PM
2

Women need a female dating privilege detox where they are forced to not get any male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:34 PM
3

Black pill mod pls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:33 PM
0

It's a virgin who's not fat or religious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:44 PM
3

Men get less attracted to a woman when they find out she's taken. Women get more attracted to a man when they find out he's taken. Man = rational. Women = irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:01 PM
4

Women have been losing their ability to love and be loving as they've developed a chip on their shoulder and been unable to embrace vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:00 PM
1

A slim, young, pickme virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:33 AM
1

When women make themselves less vulnerable, they make themselves less of relationship material. Women are their best self for a relationship when they embrace vulnerability and allow themselves to be vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:35 PM
1

And women say easily getting casual sex and genuine sexual interest is not a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:30 PM
1

it's probably easier actually to find a religious and low N-count woman than it is to find a non-religious and low N-count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:51 PM
2

if women complain about emotional labor and housework, men can complain about the social, emotional and planning labor for dates and getting little in return
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:49 PM
-2

Any sex symbol with a high N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:00 PM
1

Why didn't you just give him some sex if he wanted it so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:01 AM
1

Just like an older man can be a "predator" to younger women because of more "life experience", for relationships, high N-count women are predators to low and medium N-count men because they have more dating experience. High N-count women who try to have a relationship with a man with a lower N-count are creepy predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:45 AM
2

If women liked simping, the perfect relationship would be a simp with a pickme but since women make bad dating choices, women won't pick the simp. Thus we have pickme to non-simp relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:58 PM
0

The problem with bossy women and women who are anti-pickme is that they don't know how to turn their pickme on anymore after they've become jaded and bossy when they're in a relationship. They've lost their ability to be their best (pickme) self in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:56 PM
2

Men are entitled to dates and sex with some women (not any individual woman) who are their value match without overexerting themselves. If society isn't providing men with this basic life necessity, then society is corrupt and needs to change to better serve men's basic needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:33 AM
1

How many of them are tall though. There's little motivation for men who are average and below height because not being fat barely benefits them because women aren't very attracted to average men either. Only tall or very good looking men can pass the attraction threshold where they will see actual results from looksmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:04 AM
0

And many more spend $3k or less. Hockey is one of the most expensive sports Swimming lessons, youth basketball/soccer/baseball, boy scouts, 1-3 weeks of summer day camp and enrichment classes can keep a kid busy the entire year for < $3k
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:02 AM
1

He's 6'2. Not being fat is easy so it doesn't count as a disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:13 AM
1

not even weirdo. Weirdo women still date she's either fat, aromantic, asexual or religious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:03 AM
-2

I've developed a fetish for women in scrubs I try to size up a women's class and women in scrubs tend to be in the sweet spot MC to UMC without being too bossy like corporate women. Scrubs gives off a responsible and modest vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:56 PM
2

lol if this guy is the competition for low N-count women, average men have no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:45 PM
0

who cares? that's for the privileged parents to figure out on their own middle class parents spend at most $2k-$3k per year on extra curricular activities for their kids child support is for sustenance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:42 PM
0

or didn't grow up privileged Child support is for sustenance. Privileged parents can figure out who pays for their $3k 1-month summer camp on their own. Middle class parents spend $2k-$3k max per year on all extra curricular activities for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:38 PM
1

Any that aren't fat or aromantic/asexual? I'm thinking the best shot is probably new grads from nerdy schools like gtech single low N-count women are a very scarce demographic 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:26 PM
1

97-2005 👵
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:41 PM
3

What you're saying is that women choose men poorly and like assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:10 PM
4

For millennials, 100k is 8th percentile for men, 3rd for women Confirmed that men work harder and are forced to date down in income
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:58 PM
1

never dated in their 20s to begin with How can I find or spot these low N-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:19 PM
7

The women who complain the most about being 30+ single are CC riders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:09 PM
3

If you question fairness and inclusivity in dating, then you would also support questioning fairness and inclusivity in other areas of life and other traits that people can be born with other than gender. If you don't think dating should be fair, other major aspects of life also don't have to be fair. The logical conclusion of questioning fairness isn't likely one you would appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:06 PM
3

You're a low tier woman if you have to lower your standards to get dicked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:46 PM
85

The study is trying to assign causation to correlation. It can be reversed. The lack of ability to get laid has made men more likely to play video games, live at home and not go drinking. Why get a place for yourself if you're not going to get laid. Why go drinking if you're not going to get laid. Why push through social situations you're not welcomed in if you're not going to get laid. Women don't have the same decline in sex, so Chad theory holds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:40 PM
1

Men are shamed for not being able to get dates or sex in the same way that (at the very least, but likely much worse than) women are for not being able to get commitment or for acting slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:20 AM
2

It's not just sex but also general dates, attention and validation that women easily get in their casual sex encounters. Women claim to not want the dates, attention, validation or sex because they were able to satiate their desire and need for it by going on dates and having casual sex. If women didn't, then they would be thirsty for the dates, attention, validation and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:14 AM
10

This is stupid because women can also easily get [men] willing to date them exclusively to spend their money. So women are doubly privileged
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:08 AM
6

rainbows and floating on clouds easy mode female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:06 PM
7

It's funny that FDS has gone full circle with traditional/conservative/Christian values after buying into the feminist casual sex fantasy. Many FDS posts read just like traditional values but with more vitriol. It's too late them for them though. They've already ruined their pair bonding ability. For the good of society, they're better off continuing to supply men with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:30 PM
2

I usually just target a single point or the most important points and usually don't write more than a couple sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:53 PM

Like, a woman whose "dating options" are just physically unpleasant ONS's with unattractive men (and I think guys here underestimate how physically unpleasant bad sex can be for a woman), guys here will say "she can still get laid tonight, what's the big deal?" This is a strawman. Women can easily get dates and casual sex from men at least their looksmatch or better. And yes, men would be thrilled if they could even just get the date part and not the casual sex part. First, most don't use it A s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:51 PM

This is a complete lie. Women wouldn't keep casually dating or having casual sex if they didn't enjoy it. There are millions of women talking about the fun they have in their sexual escapades. It's in the mainstream basically anytime a woman talks about dating, they portray the casual sex as something fun and interesting. It's also not just casual sex but also the privilege of general physical intimacy, company, entertainment, attention and validation of the casual dating. A woman can't be lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:46 PM
2

Dating without sex is unpaid emotional labor for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:38 PM
4

I just don't understand how almost all women have the same height preference (i.e. prefer tall men). At best, even very short women prefer men who are 5'10+. I can't think of any category where all men have the same taste/preference. Some men like taller women. Some men like shorter women. Some men like curvy women. Some men like skinny women. Do women have a groupthink chip installed that syncs their standards based on groupthink signals emitted by other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:44 AM
3

I added new data from 2015-2018 and it's not any better lol. delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:26 AM
3

It's from 2007-2008 but way to confirm that short men don't exist to women lmao Edit: originally the post I was replying to had: ive never even seen a man below 5’8
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:12 AM
1

Here's a reality check for the women. In 2007-2008 in the USA, the height CDF of men ages 20-29: Height Percent of men at or below the height 5'3 3.7 5'4 7.2 5'5 11.6 5'6 20.6 5'7 33.1 5'8 42.2 5'9 58.6 5'10 70.7 5'11 79.9 6'0 89.0 6'1 94.1 6'2 98.3 6'3 >= 99.95 Second table from more recent data (2015-2018) of men 20-29 years old: Percentile Height 5 5' 4.7" 10 5' 5.8" 15 5' 6.2" 25 5' 7.3" 50 5' 9.3" 75 5' 10.9" 85 6' 0.1" 90 6' 0.8" 95 6' 1.7"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:31 AM
1

It's 12 partners (or 11 if she's married) too high 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:44 AM
0

Don't worry, you're only disappointing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:33 PM
0

I can praise you also if you have low N-count 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter